Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love: Recent Episodes
Kimmy Seltzer
Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.
Have you ever wanted to strike up a conversation with a stranger—at a coffee shop, in line at the store, or on a first date—but felt totally tongue-tied or worried you’d seem awkward? In Episode 399 of The Charisma Quotient, “Beyond the Swipe: How to Meet People in Real Life with Jena Kingsley” Kimmy sits down with the fearless and funny Jena Kingsley. Jena is a comedian, writer, and the viral sensation behind daring, hilarious social experiments that turn the everyday awkward into unforgettable moments. Featured on CNN, MTV, The Today Show, and with her popular book Darcy Dates: An Unfiltered Dating Diary, Jena brings unmatched insight on how to break out of your shell and connect in real life.
Kimmy and Jena tackle the mental barriers that hold most of us back—fear of rejection, negative self-talk, overanalyzing interactions—and reveal how curiosity and authenticity can turn those fears upside down. You’ll learn why embracing spontaneity and sharing simple observations can spark genuine conversations, plus why it’s better to focus on whether you like them rather than worrying if they like you.
You’ll hear some of Jena’s most memorable stories, like the time a rainstorm in LA led to a flirty chat at a bar, or her viral New York subway pole-dancing prank that proves sometimes you just have to leap…and trust it’ll work out.
You’ll hear:
- Why “perfect” opening lines actually don’t matter—imperfect, spontaneous comments often lead to the most real connections
- How practicing small risks, like playful social challenges or “scavenger hunt” dates, can massively boost your social confidence
- Jena’s favorite mindset hacks for ditching self-censorship and staying present
- Stories of awkward elevator moments, viral public pranks, and what they teach about authenticity, humor, and breaking the ice—even with total strangers
Want to finally shed your social anxiety and start connecting for real? Come to Kimmy’s next interactive workshop, Conversation Hacks to help you get from boring conversations to flirty ones. Register at www.stophatingdating.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Do you ever wonder how your self-worth is secretly impacting your dating life? Are you stuck in the same painful patterns—chasing the unavailable, feeling unworthy, or never quite connecting with the right match? In Episode 398 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Self-Worth Sabotages Your Dating Life: Coaching with Kimmy” Kimmy coaches Jessica, a single mom and nurse who’s struggling with insecurity, self-concept, and a cycle of unfulfilling dates. Together they unpack why feeling “not enough” can become an unconscious magnet for the wrong partners—and why genuine confidence, not external validation, is the real key to love.
In this episode, Kimmy dives deep into how low self-esteem, formed long before your first date, acts as a silent magnet, influencing who you're drawn to, the choices you make, and even your body language.
Jessica bravely shares her journey—from a 15-year marriage and a supportive family, to the struggles she faces dating after divorce. Despite external affirmations of her attractiveness, Jessica wrestles with persistent feelings of not being "the pretty one," a pattern rooted in childhood and shaped by past relationships. Together, Kimmy and Jessica explore how past wounds, perfectionism, and protective shields can keep you stuck in unsatisfying dating loops—chasing after emotionally unavailable partners and feeling disconnected from those who are present and genuine.
Kimmy offers relatable coaching and actionable steps, encouraging Jessica to step into her confidence, get comfortable being seen, and shift the way she views herself inside and out.
You’ll hear:
- Why unresolved insecurities silently run the show in dating
- How early experiences and family patterns fuel attraction to the wrong people
- Real-life coaching moments and simple challenges to boost confidence and presence
- Actionable steps to move towards more self confidence
If you are finding yourself not able to attract love or even date due to self worth issues, book a FREE private call with Kimmy to discuss ways of overcoming your love challenges: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Have you ever found yourself thinking, “Why do I keep attracting the wrong people?” Or maybe you’re out there dating, putting yourself out there, but it just never seems to click or you think there are no good men or women out there left? In Episode 397 of The Charisma Quotient, “Why you keep attracting the wrong people: Uncovering your love blocks with Orna and Matthew Walters” Kimmy welcomes Orna and Matthew Walters, internationally acclaimed dating coaches, co-founders of Creating Love on Purpose, and co-authors of the powerful new book “Getting It Right This Time: Break Free from Your Hidden Blocks to Lasting Love.” With over two decades of experience helping thousands find real and lasting love, Orna and Matthew bring a unique blend of expertise, personal vulnerability, and actionable advice to the table.
In this episode, Kimmy, Orna, and Matthew unravel why our brains cling to the familiar—even if it hurts—and how family-of-origin experiences lay down a “love imprint” that shapes our future relationships. You’ll learn why even smart, successful singles fall into “job interview” dating or keep a long checklist to protect themselves, and why vulnerability feels so unsafe until you finally break the cycle. Orna and Matthew walk listeners through their three-step system found in their new book. They offer powerful personal stories: Orna’s courageous journey as a survivor of domestic abuse and how she learned to trust herself and love again, plus Matthew’s honest admission of once being a “toxic bachelor” and his transformation through deep self-work. Together, they share concrete, real-life examples (like the “fig fight” that helped them build healthier conflict resolution), proving lasting love is possible—no matter your past.
You’ll hear:
- Why lasting relationships require both chemistry and compatibility.
- An explanation of ‘love imprints,’ the deeply ingrained beliefs about love that shape your emotional patterns and behaviors in relationships
- Why so many high-achieving, analytical daters struggle to “let go,” flirt, and reveal their true selves.
- Step-by-step exercises you can use today to start re-wiring your love patterns and building a relationship from a place of wholeness and confidence
If you keep attracting the same patterns and want to know about your personal love blocks, book a FREE private call with Kimmy to discuss ways of overcoming your love challenges: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Ever feel like no matter how much you’ve accomplished, lasting love is still just out of reach? In Episode 396 of The Charisma Quotient, “5 Hidden Shields That Block Love After 40" Kimmy peels back the layers on the “hidden love shields” that so many successful, independent later-in-life daters unknowingly wear as armor—and reveals how these silent protectors can be the very barriers keeping true intimacy at bay.
This episode zeroes in on the subtle beliefs and patterns that form after years of heartbreak or flying solo, unpacking how they sabotage romance despite your best intentions. Kimmy walks you through the five classic love shields she sees time and again: from the ultra-independent “I’m Fine” shield, to the ever-rational “Over Analyzer,” the charismatic “Performer,” the heavily-protected “Guarded Heart,” and the “Time Ticking Bomb” urgency to rush into relationships. This episode is packed with actionable insights as Kimmy shares powerful real-life stories—like the 52-year-old financial analyst who tracked every dating detail in a spreadsheet to “protect” herself (and how giving up checking boxes led her to unexpected chemistry), and Susie, the super-capable woman whose very strength kept her walled off from real intimacy.
Learn why dropping your love shields isn’t about losing yourself, but about expanding your capacity for joy and closeness, and find out what practical habits and tiny risks you can start today to let love truly in. Kimmy’s vibrant storytelling and step-by-step guidance bring you the tools and encouragement to break out of your comfort zone, stop managing love with logic, and open yourself up to authentic connection—regardless of age or history.
You’ll hear:
- How to slow down and permit space for connection, not just achievement or outcome.
- Why true connection and chemistry need authentic presence and vulnerability.
- How to avoid rushing into relationships due to fear that “time is running out,” focusing on locking things down rather than experiencing true connection.
- Why these shields, while protective, actually block genuine connection and keep you stuck in unsatisfying dating patterns.
If you’re ready to ditch your emotional armor, book a FREE private call with Kimmy to discuss ways of overcoming your love challenges: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Are you ready to hear a transformative love story that will light a spark of hope and motivation in your own dating journey—no matter where you’re starting from? In Episode 395 of The Charisma Quotient, “Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now with Jeff” Kimmy sits down with her former client. Meet Jeff: a successful lawyer, devoted dog dad, and someone who, after a 40-year marriage, found himself navigating the modern dating scene for the very first time.
When Jeff first began coaching with Kimmy, he confessed to feeling like a fish out of water—uncertain about online dating, struggling with confidence and rejection, and stuck in old habits that just weren’t serving him in love. But by bravely opening up to guidance, updating his wardrobe and even revamping his online image with professional photos, Jeff started to turn everything around.
In this heartfelt episode, you’ll hear how Jeff and Kimmy worked through his biggest blocks: letting go of perfectionism, learning to approach women assertively, finding the balance between vulnerability and confidence, and developing a playful, relaxed mindset around dating. Listen in as Jeff recalls pivotal moments, like using his volunteer therapy dog Belle as the ultimate “wing girl” at the dog park, and the hilarious anxiety of keeping his age under 70 on dating apps—plus the bittersweet lessons learned from a “bridge relationship” that ultimately set him up for meeting his now-partner who values his authenticity and the care he invests in himself.
You’ll hear:
- Why making simple changes to your wardrobe and online photos can dramatically affect how others see you
- The power of relaxing and taking pressure off yourself
- The importance of “dating yourself” first—discovering what you truly want, setting boundaries, and being upfront about who you are
- Why honoring your values ultimately brings the right partner into your life
If you’re wondering if you can truly find love after divorce or a long relationship, join Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive Flirt Workshop where you will learn the skill of flirting and having fun. Just go to www.stophatingdating.com to grab your spot as they do go fast.
Book a FREE private call with Kimmy to discuss ways of overcoming your love challenges: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Did you know intimacy is a skill that is a learnable, empowering skill? In Episode 394 of The Charisma Quotient, “Why Intimacy Is a Skill—Not Just Chemistry: Reclaiming Desire & Connection with Danielle Harel & Celeste Hirschman” Kimmy chats with Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Herrell, co-founders of the revolutionary Somatica Institute and authors of three powerful books, including Making Love Real. With extensive experience training over 1,000 coaches and transforming countless lives, Celeste and Danielle blend science, humor, and heart to help people build confidence in intimacy.
In this episode, you’ll discover why intimacy is not just about sexual or physical attraction—it’s an evolving set of skills involving emotional safety, intellectual connection, shared experiences, and even spiritual alignment. Kimmy and her guests discuss common roadblocks to intimacy, from childhood wounds to societal messages that make people feel shame about their desires. They explain how flirtation and erotic energy are foundational to authentic relating (not just “nice-to-haves”), and share the step-by-step practices their clients use to move past blocks, build confidence, and celebrate pleasure in ways that feel natural.
Listen in for memorable stories, like Kimmy’s account of a client unwittingly creating a “love shield” with her body language, and a playful demonstration by Danielle about using your five senses (and even eating ice cream!) to connect with your body’s pleasure zones. You’ll hear how Celeste coaches clients to enjoy being appreciated, and learn tips to help both men and women feel empowered instead of ashamed in their pursuit of intimacy.
You’ll hear:
- Why true intimacy means expressing what feels good for you and setting boundaries.
- How shame, gender roles, and societal messages can make people feel disconnected from their own desires.
- Skills in intimacy and sexuality that lead to more confidence and authentic relationships.
- How putting your own pleasure and desires at the center actually leads to healthier intimacy.
If you are having a hard time letting go and having intimacy and playfulness in your dating life, join Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive Flirt Workshop where you will learn the skill of flirting and having fun. Just go to www.stophatingdating.com to grab your spot as they do go fast.
Book a FREE private call with Kimmy to discuss ways of overcoming your love challenges: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Why do we keep finding ourselves in the same frustrating dating patterns, no matter how much we try to shake things up? In Episode 393 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: What Is Your Dating Archetype?” Kimmy gets to the heart of the matter by introducing her breakthrough framework: the Five Dating Archetypes. Whether you’re struggling to meet the right person or find yourself replaying old dynamics, this episode is your fast track to self-awareness—and real change.
Drawing from years as a leading dating and makeover expert, therapist, and matchmaker, Kimmy has worked with thousands of women (and men!) both in her “Wing Girl” sessions and individualized coaching practice. She’s seen personality patterns repeat across clients and created the Five Dating Archetypes to help you identify what may be holding you back and possibly creating a love shield you are not aware of. Kimmy was inspired to create this framework after noticing similar challenges in client after client, whether working with high-profile celebrities or everyday singles.
In this lively, down-to-earth conversation, Kimmy breaks down each archetype in detail, describing telltale behaviors, mindsets, and the powerful ways your history shapes your dating style. You’ll hear real-life stories—like the Hollywood powerhouse whose “Chief” energy was intimidating every man she met, or the “List Lady” whose sky-high standards secretly protected her from heartbreak. Kimmy shares deeply personal accounts, including courageous clients who overcame trauma or old roles to open up to love again—proving that transformation is possible no matter your situation or age.
You’ll hear:
- An overview of the “Big 5” dating archetypes
- How subtle things like your body language, wardrobe choices, communication style, and past wounds could be sending the wrong signals in love.
- Practical strategies and “secret weapons” for each archetype, from developing self-awareness to making small tweaks that yield big changes in your confidence and connection with others.
- Why most of us fall into these same patterns, and exactly what you can do to break free.
If you want to know what kind of dating archetype you are, take her free archetype quiz https://form.jotform.com/231376592380157 an then book a FREE private call with Kimmy to discuss ways of overcoming your love challenges: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
The key to lasting love is more than just chemistry, it’s really knowing how you (and your partner) handle conflict. It’s communication, emotional intelligence and how you handle stress that builds a lasting connection and relationship In Episode 394 of The Charisma Quotient, "Stop Dating the Wrong People: Decode Your Conflict Style with Dr. John Elliot,” Kimmy is joined by Dr. John Elliot, an acclaimed psychologist, conflict resolution expert, and co-author of "How to Get Along With Anyone." With a career spanning consulting for NASA, the US Olympic Committee, the Mayo Clinic, Fortune 500 companies, and appearances in outlets like The New York Times and ESPN, Dr. Elliot is uniquely equipped to reveal why true relationship success depends on how you both show up when the going gets tough—not just when it’s smooth sailing.
Together, Kimmy and Dr. Elliot break down the five conflict personality styles—the Avoider, Competitor, Analyzer, Collaborator, and Accommodator—explaining the habits, triggers, and communication patterns that come out when tension rises. You’ll hear actionable advice on how to identify your own (and others’) conflict styles, why some personality pairings struggle while others thrive, and how to turn moments of tension into lasting intimacy instead of drama or distance. They discuss why your "must-have list" should go beyond looks or job titles, and how picking up on someone’s conflict style early can save you heartache down the road.
You’ll hear:
- The “five conflict personality styles”—discover if you’re an Avoider, Competitor, Analyzer, Collaborator, or Accommodator (and why it matters so much!)
- How mismatched conflict styles sabotage romantic chemistry—and what style pairings work best for long-term happiness
- Real stories from pro sports, high-stakes business, and dating that illustrate these personality clashes and how they’re resolved
- Simple, practical tools and mindset shifts to help you attract, connect with, and keep truly compatible partners
If you’ve ever felt stuck repeating the same painful patterns, or want to break free from being an overgiver, people-pleaser, or the “nice guy,” book a FREE private breakthrough call with Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Are your past experiences getting in your way when it comes to dating? Specifically you may have a fear of abandonment that stems from childhood which is the reason you push people away subconsciously. Most people don’t realize that they hold onto their past traumas which impacts relationships. Fears that are created from this dynamic makes dating feel frustrating and anxiety-provoking. In Episode 393 of The Charisma Quotient, “Fear of Abandonment in Dating: Why You Push Love Away ~ Coaching With Kimmy” Kimmy coaches a woman live on this episode whose personal history and experiences echo the struggles many face in the realm of intimacy and self-perception.
In this coaching session, Kimmy and Evelyn delve into the intricacies of how past abandonment issues can manifest in adult relationships, influencing the patterns we fall into and the people we attract. From forming quick, intense attachments to pushing partners away through self-sabotage, the discussion covers a spectrum of behaviors that many listeners will find familiar. Evelyn shares poignant anecdotes, such as the emotionally charged and rapid-moving relationship that led her to relocate across the country, only to find herself ensnared in familiar emotional pitfalls. Her story is a testament to the power of self-awareness and the challenges of translating that awareness into action.
You’ll hear:
- The top 5 ways a fear of abandonment may show up in a person’s romantic relationships and actionable steps for tackling these deep-seated fears.
- The concept of "shape-shifting" in relationships and why it causes you to lose touch with your authentic self.
- Actionable steps from Kimmy for rewriting personal stories and reinforcing self-worth.
- How seeking excessive reassurance from partners can lead to emotional exhaustion and breakdowns in relationships.
- The duality of either erecting emotional walls or forming overly rapid attachments as a result of abandonment fears.
- An unsuspected breakthrough Evelyn had on the call that caught her by surprise on why dating has been so hard.
If you want help overcoming your fears around dating book a FREE private breakthrough call with Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Did you know that anxiety disorders affect 18% of the adult population in the United States? Anxiety is your body’s natural response to stress and uncertainty. Let’s face it - uncertainty is a huge part of dating. Kimmy talks about understanding Dating Anxiety which is a common experience that involves excessive worry, fear, and nervousness related to dating. It can manifest in various ways, affecting a person's thoughts, emotions, and behaviors during the dating process. In Episode 392 of The Charisma Quotient, “Overcoming Dating Anxiety: Interview with Katie Krimitsos,” Kimmy is joined by Katie Krimitsos, the founder and CEO of the Women's Meditation Network, who talks about her personal journey with meditation and self-awareness.
In this engaging conversation, Kimmy and Katie delve into the epidemic of dating anxiety, discussing its common symptoms like fear of awkward conversations, obsessive checking for texts, and the constant nagging thought of not being "good enough." Katie candidly shares her journey from feeling not enough to mastering self-awareness through meditation. She reveals how simple practices of mindfulness have helped her tackle overwhelming thoughts, embrace vulnerability, and most importantly, trust herself in relationships.
Get ready for Katie's transformative story of how, by embodying authenticity and letting go of the need to control, she attracted a soulmate relationship that flourished into marriage. Discover her ingenious concept of "mini meditations" – bite-sized, practical practices that even the busiest among us can integrate into our daily routines to stay grounded and present.
You’ll hear:
- Eight common symptoms of dating anxiety and tips on how to recognize and manage them.
- Innovative strategies to incorporate meditation into your daily routine — even for those who've never meditated before — to help ground you before a date.
- A powerful reminder that "what's meant for you will not miss you".
- How to embrace imperfection and vulnerability in relationships for true connection.
- A surprise mini meditation that you’ll be able to practice right away
If you struggle with dating anxiety and it is hindering your ability to stay present and it is pushing people away, check out Katie’s amazing meditations including her 3 day stress and anxiety detox by going to womensmeditationnetwork.com and then hop on a private call with Kimmy to reduce your dating anxiety by coming up with a plan here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Do you consider yourself an introvert? Are you in your head a lot and analyze everything to death to the point that it’s affecting your dating life? In Episode 391 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Navigating Dating as an Introvert: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches Evan live on the episode to help him get out of his own way when dating.
In this coaching session, Kimmy and Evan delve into the challenges that introverts face, from the exhausting overthinking in social scenarios to navigating extrovert-dominated dating environments. Evan shares his poignant story of overcoming Bell's palsy, a condition that not only affected his confidence but also became a turning point in his life. Through self-discovery and transformation, Evan emerged stronger and more in tune with himself—an inspiring testament to resilience and personal growth. Kimmy offers practical advice on how to shift from reactive to proactive approaches in dating, ultimately paving the way for healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
You’ll hear:
- The magic of leaning into discomfort of social interactions to get over the fears attached to it
- How to stop overthinking and start taking action in dating.
- The significance of addressing the discomfort introverts feel in social situations.
- How to alleviate anxiety in order to make more genuine connections with others.
If you are an introvert and want help stepping out of your comfort zone and come up with a plan to put yourself out there, book a FREE breakthrough call with Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Discover the transformative journey of overcoming dating doubts and embracing confidence in episode 390 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Confidence Love Makeover: Where Are They Now with Doug,” Kimmy sits down with Doug, a former client who successfully transitioned from repeated relationship misfires to a future filled with love and commitment. Doug, a therapist himself, found that while he was adept at uplifting others, his self-doubt and past baggage were hurdles he couldn't seem to overcome alone in the dating world.
In this engaging episode, Doug recounts his evolution with Kimmy's guidance, moving from what he describes as "the geeky guy" to someone brimming with "sexy confidence" and self-assurance. The duo dives into Doug’s struggles with seeking external validation and how his non-verbal cues, unbeknownst to him, played a significant role in his dating life. Kimmy helped him unpack these barriers, notably during a memorable encounter at a pet store which brought to light a subtle, yet impactful gesture that encapsulated Doug’s internal struggles. You’ll hear:
- How childhood trauma can influence your adult interactions.
- How changing your wardrobe and mastering body language can be pivotal in reinventing your self-perception and confidence.
- How Doug’s newfound genuine energy connected him with his future wife.
- Doug’s journey of maintaining a successful relationship, emphasizing the importance of open communication and mutual dedication to make it last.
If you’re ready to make a transformation, Kimmy has a new workshop coming up on March 25th - The Dating Improv Game where you can practice creating chemistry through play. You will learn how to harness the power of flirty moves, engaging conversations, and body language to create lasting impressions through a series of mock dates and coaching. Register now at www.stophatingdating.com.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Are you questioning if your time to find lasting love has passed after hitting 40? Let go of the doubts! In Episode 389 of The Charisma Quotient, “Later Daters: Finding Love at Any Age – Interview with Dr. John Gray,” Kimmy is thrilled to welcome back the legendary Dr. John Gray, author of the groundbreaking "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus," as he debunks age-related myths and explores the invigorating world of second-chance romances. With his extensive knowledge and experience, John explains why the desire for companionship doesn't change with age and how both men and women can rediscover love beyond their youthful years.
In their candid discussion, Kimmy and John unravel the complexities of dating later in life, emphasizing the importance of embracing newfound freedom and the playful aspects of dating. They delve into the changes in male and female dynamics and explore how aging affects relationships and sex drives. John shares fascinating statistics, such as the discrepancy in how men and women typically move on after divorce, highlighting differences in motivation and readiness. You’ll hear:
- Key strategies for embracing your feminine energy, allowing yourself to feel sexy and confident, which is vital for attracting solid and meaningful connections.
- Practical and scientific explanations of the dynamics of testosterone and estrogen in fostering attraction and maintaining chemistry in later life.
- Fascinating data on remarriage rates among those who are over 50, illustrating that love the second time around is not only possible but probable.
- A touching story about one of Kimmy's clients, a widow who rediscovered love unexpectedly, leading to a heartwarming marriage announcement.
If you’re ready to navigate the dating scene later in life, Kimmy has a new workshop coming up on March 25th - The Dating Improv Game where you can practice creating chemistry through play. You will learn how to harness the power of flirty moves, engaging conversations, and body language to create lasting impressions through a series of mock dates and coaching. Register now at www.stophatingdating.com.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Are you tired of feeling like dating is a chore rather than a fun and exciting adventure? Did you know that being fun and playful are the top attributes that people inherently look for when dating and ultimately landing a partner? In Episode 388 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: How To Be Playful & Fun When Dating,” Kimmy emphasizes in this episode playfulness as a vital trait in attracting a partner and how often it outranks traditional attributes like intelligence or career success in desirability.
During the episode, Kimmy tackles common hurdles that hinder playfulness, such as cultural upbringing or fear of judgment. Through compelling client stories, like that of a high-achieving woman who, despite her success, struggled to connect until she embraced playfulness, listeners gain a real-world glimpse into the magic of letting loose. This client, who once saw dating as another boardroom challenge, learned to dance in the realm of whimsical conversation and flirty femininity, eventually attracting a partner who adored her lively energy. You’ll hear:
- Practical strategies to tap into your inner child and why it's crucial to incorporate play into your routine.
- Actionable tips on how to approach dating with a lighthearted spirit.
- Why flirting is a way to be present and engaging without the serious intention of an outcome.
- How embracing playfulness can alleviate exhaustion from dating.
If you tend to be a little serious in your interactions and need help incorporating fun in your dates, Kimmy has a new workshop coming up on March 25th - The Dating Improv Game where you can practice creating chemistry through play. You will learn how to harness the power of flirty moves, engaging conversations, and body language to create lasting impressions through a series of mock dates and coaching. Register now at www.stophatingdating.com.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Getting back into the dating game after losing a partner can feel daunting. But you’re not alone. So many people go through this, and it is possible to get back out there. In Episode 387 of The Charisma Quotient, “From Grief to Growth: Where Are They Now with Allen,” Kimmy brings on one of her coaching clients Allen, a remarkable man who transformed his life and love journey after the heartbreaking loss of his wife. Known for his analytical mind as a former lawyer, Allen found himself struggling with the intricacies of dating in the modern world. Being in his late 60s, he realized he needed guidance to enhance his dating confidence and flirting skills. After working with Kimmy and dating several women, Allen is now dating someone whom he really enjoys!
Through Kimmy's coaching, Allen embarked on a process of reinvention, which not only rebuilt his confidence but also reshaped his outlook on dating. This episode delves into Allen's hesitation to dive back into the dating pool and how Kimmy's unique approach helped him overcome the fear and intimidation that comes with starting over. They discuss the evolution of Allen’s dating strategies, highlighting the importance of having fun rather than focusing strictly on outcomes. You’ll hear:
- Practical advice for anyone feeling overwhelmed when stepping out there again.
- How Allen overcame his analytical tendencies and learned to embrace the playful side of dating.
- Allen’s story of re-entering the dating world after losing his wife.
- The power of stepping out of your comfort zone to create real opportunities for connection.
If you are struggling to put yourself out there, book a call with Kimmy to kick start a dating plan to motivate you! https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
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Navigating modern dating can feel exhausting. It’s easy to get lost in the fast pace of swiping and online dating. But dating doesn’t have to feel like so much work. In Episode 386 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Traps Of Modern Dating: Interview Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu,” Kimmy is joined by Julie and Yue, dynamic co-hosts of the critically acclaimed Dateable podcast and authors of the anticipated book "How to Be Dateable." With nearly a decade of research exploring the intricacies of dating, they have a wealth of expertise when it comes to transforming from confused daters to respected dating insiders.
Throughout the episode, Kimmy, Julie, and Yue engage in a lively discussion on the four main dating traps that ensnare many in today's fast-paced dating scene. From the "expectation of love on demand" to the hazards of "settling paradox," they break down these traps with research-backed insights and personal anecdotes. Julie shares her story of spending over two years in a situationship driven by the need for validation. Yue opens up about her own dating missteps, involving a hiking date and a pair of infamous black socks. You’ll hear the 3 of them breakdown:
- Why being grounded and living in the moment is critical to fostering genuine connections and finding lasting love.
- The importance of focusing on understanding yourself and dating without the expectation of immediate attachment.
- The specific skills needed for modern dating, such as DMing and flirt texting.
- How to avoid moving too quickly and ignoring red flags in the desire to form relationships.
If you are burnt out doing online dating and want to learn how to meet people IRL (In Real Life) join Kimmy’s next workshop - Meeting IRL on February 26 by signing up at www.stophatingdating.com.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
With Valentine's Day around the corner, now is the time to give yourself a healthy dose of self love! In Episode 385 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Dating From a Place of Self-Love,” Kimmy peels back the layers of self-love and its radical impact on your dating life and beyond. She draws from her rich experience and client success stories to illuminate the path to loving yourself and, in turn, attracting the love. Her unique approach to coaching—melding dating expertise with personal development—offers you a roadmap to overcoming the hurdles in your love life.
In this special episode, perfectly timed for a holiday that emphasizes love, Kimmy delves into why self-love for singles is essential not just for surviving this love-centric season, but for thriving in your pursuit of finding someone special. If you've ever felt disheartened by dating experiences or struggled with the cycle of seeking external validation, this conversation will highlight the importance of empowering yourself to attract what you want. YOU’LL HEAR:
- A heartfelt story about a client's transformation from external validation to internal confidence.
- A discussion on the true difference between being alone and feeling lonely, and how this understanding can reshape your dating approach.
- Recognition and strategies to dismantle personal patterns that might be sabotaging your dating experiences.
- Five impactful tips that will equip you to date from a place of self-love, ensuring more meaningful, reciprocal relationships.
If you struggle with confidence and self worth and it’s affecting your dating life, hop on a private call with Kimmy to find where to start. Also, she has a unique opportunity for a few women who want to take it to the next level. Coming up in February Kimmy is doing a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul. Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out. She only has 2 spots left but book a call to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Feeling insecure about your body image can shape your dating lives profoundly. In Episode 384 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Body Image & Divorce Shapes Your Dating Life: A Candid Talk with Erin Washington,” Kimmy chats with Erin Washington, a remarkable body image advocate, author of “Pain to Purpose,” and media personality with her own podcast, thERINpy, who has navigated a transformative journey from battling anorexia and bulimia to cultivating self-love and confidence. Erin's dedication led her to establish the Blue Butterfly Foundation, offering mentorship to teenage girls grappling with similar issues.
In this candid conversation, Kimmy and Erin delve into the intricate ways negative body image and divorce can seep into our dating lives, affecting self-worth, confidence, and relationship choices. Erin vulnerably shares her compelling journey, revealing how her identity was once tethered to achievements on the soccer field, and how quitting college soccer triggered a decade-long struggle with eating disorders. Tune in as this episode evolves into a powerful coaching session—building on the conversation from Erin’s podcast, where Kimmy helps her navigate dating challenges and offers actionable mindset shifts for lasting confidence. Kimmy dissects the importance of sharing personal stories to heal from past issues and why practicing articulating emotions and desires in daily interactions improves communication skills in personal and romantic relationships. You'll hear a surprising breakthrough Erin has never realized before around how her upbringing has been affecting who she attracts in relationships.
If you struggle with your body image and insecurities which are stopping you from dating, hop on a private call with Kimmy to find where to start. Also, she has a unique opportunity for a few women who want to take it to the next level. Coming up in February Kimmy is doing a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul. Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out. She only has 2 spots left but book a call to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you feel confident in your body? Did you know your level of confidence in your body plays a huge part in your love life? In Episode 382 of The Charisma Quotient, “How to Achieve Radiant Energy To Create Attraction: Interview with Regan Archibald,” Kimmy interviews Regan Archibald — a prominent peptide functional medicine and longevity specialist, known for helping over 70,000 clients enhance their health at East West Health. Reagan, an author of nine books and host of the Unreasonable Health podcast, brings his expertise to explore the vital link between physical well-being and self-confidence.
Kimmy and Regan explore the symbiotic relationship between body confidence, attraction, and overall health. They discuss how hormonal imbalances and poor body image can create a 'love shield,' hindering genuine connections. Regan shares his journey from conventional Western medicine to a more integrative approach after overcoming his own health challenges, revealing how personalized health solutions can help you regain control over your life. You’ll hear how feeling confident improves physical and mental well-being, which is attractive and why health changes can lead to tangible improvements in personal and professional life. Listen in to hear Regan’s inspiring story of a client who, against the odds, transformed her health and increased her confidence, leading her to meet her soulmate and start a family. A healthy body and mind can set the stage for attracting lasting love and happiness.
If your health is affecting your love life, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you get out of this funk. Also, she has a unique opportunity for a few women who want to take it to the next level. Coming up in February Kimmy is doing a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul. Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out. She only has 2 spots left but book a call to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you still waiting for the right person to come along? The key to love could be expressing your true self! In Episode 381 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Vulnerability and Authenticity Led To Love: Where Are They Now with HeyJune,” Kimmy welcomes former client HeyJune, who shares her remarkable journey from dating frustration to finding love. HeyJune was in a cycle of “tornado” relationships– those who enter with intense passion but disappear just as quickly. Having been referred by a friend who experienced success through Kimmy’s coaching, HeyJune was determined to break her pattern and meet the man right for her…which she did!
Kimmy and HeyJune explore how self expression and setting boundaries became pivotal in her dating transformation. With courage and commitment, she embarked on a personal development journey to overcome her analytical nature and learn emotional openness. Tune in to hear Kimmy walk through the lessons she learned through coaching with her which led to the beautiful moment when she and her now-boyfriend felt an instant connection, culminating in meeting the family in just ten days. You’ll hear more on how to set boundaries, how to make decisions based on emotions without overanalyzing or disregarding your instincts and how practicing storytelling will lead to better dates.
If you are having a hard time being open and breaking your pattern to find the right person for you, then hop into Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop, Fearless Dating: Transform Your Love Life with Confidence and Authenticity to explore the exact strategies her most successful clients have used to overcome their dating fears, confidently express themselves and transform their dating story! Go to stophatingdating.com and sign up now. But hurry, tickets go fast!
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you ready to discover the keys to emotional availability and revamp your love life? In Episode 380 of The Charisma Quotient, “Mental Health & Dating: Interview with Amy Charlesworth,” Kimmy welcomes Amy Charlesworth, a veteran of military service turned mental health advocate and digital content creator. Amy's rich tapestry of experience, marked by the transition from military to civilian life and an inspiring path of personal growth, makes her an exceptional guest to shed light on overcoming emotional barriers when dating.
Kimmy and Amy take a deep dive into the concept of the "love shield," where emotional defenses silently impact body language and communication, hindering intimate connections. They candidly discuss strategies to dismantle these subconscious barriers, drawing insights from Amy's personal journey of healing. Amy shares how the wisdom of thought leaders helped her uproot past patterns and transform negative self-talk into empowering affirmations. Together, they unravel the delicate process of shifting from hypervigilance and self-sabotage born of past insecurities to gradual vulnerability and openness in relationships. Finally Kimmy emphasizes to approach dating with fun and openness and create a 'dating plan'.
If you’re ready to take down your love shield, coming up in February Kimmy is hosting a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul. Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out. Book a call with Kimmy to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you ready to redefine your self-perception and unleash the sexy side of you? In Episode 379 of The Charisma Quotient, “Sexy After 50 - Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches Stephanie live on air on her struggles around dating.. With a life marked by achievements—juggling a demanding job, raising her daughter, and pursuing a PhD—Stephanie bravely opens up about her post-divorce dating challenges, body image issues, and the impact of menopause on her sexy confidence.
Kimmy begins the episode on the difference between being sexy vs feminine and how it can influence your dating life. In an engaging and heartfelt conversation, Kimmy guides Stephanie through the intricate layers of how her upbringing affected the way she sees herself as a “dateable” woman. Kimmy helps her discover how her hangups around being sexy and feminine has held her back and caused fear around flirting. Together, they explore the vital role of self-perception in confidence-building and how shifting one's mindset from feeling "cute" to "sexy" can revolutionize dating experiences. Listen in to hear Kimmy having Stephanie do a live exercise on air to help her overcome her limiting beliefs. Kimmy introduces empowering exercises and homework assignments for her including visits to Home Depot, wearing sexy cowboy boots and saying affirmations in the mirror daily.
If you’re a woman looking to level up your dating game, coming up in February Kimmy is hosting a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul. Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out. Book a call with Kimmy to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Life has a way of throwing curveballs at you. It seems like when it rains it pours, which can feel even more true when you’re single. But it doesn’t always have to be that way. In Episode 378 of The Charisma Quotient, “Turning Challenges Into Love & Laughter: Interview with Greg Schwem,” Kimmy chats with comedian Greg Schwem. Greg draws from personal experiences, including navigating a painful divorce and overcoming a colon cancer diagnosis, to offer insights on how humor can become a crucial tool in personal reinvention. With his sharp wit and storytelling prowess, Greg provides a fresh perspective on turning life's adversities into subjects for love and laughter.
Throughout the conversation, Kimmy and Greg discuss the vital role of resilience and perspective in facing difficult situations. They explore practical strategies for maintaining a positive mindset in the dating world, highlighting the importance of authenticity over scripted humor. Together, they open up about the balance of vulnerability and comedy as key components of effective communication and connection.
Greg entertains with a memorable dating mishap where a well-intended compliment is misinterpreted, showcasing how humor can diffuse awkward moments into delightful stories. Kimmy also shares an inspiring account of a woman who embraced her quirks, leading to improved dating experiences and success in her career.
If you’re a woman looking to level up your dating game, coming up in February Kimmy is hosting a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul. Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out. Book a call with Kimmy to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
If you look good, you feel good. When you feel good in your body and confident, that bleeds into your dating life. Feeling healthy can actually impact the way you approach dating and determines who you attract. In Episode 377 of The Charisma Quotient, “Health & Wellness: Your Relationship With Yourself To Attract Love with Dr. Paul Savage,” Kimmy meets with Dr. Paul Savage, an esteemed former ER doctor who transitioned from traditional medicine to lead the way in innovative health care. Not only has Dr. Savage been at the forefront of hormone management and toxin reduction, but he has also personally experienced the health improvements he's helping others achieve. His unique journey from the ER to creating BodyLogic MD serves as a beacon of hope, inspiring you to redefine your own health narratives.
In this episode, you’ll gain insights into Dr. Savage's holistic five-month detox program and how it can improve your health and wellbeing. Additionally, Dr. Savage shares his personal story of overcoming adversity, highlighting how reaching a breaking point at age 45 led to profound personal transformation and success. Kimmy and Dr. Savage talks about the connection of feeling confident in your body which gives you the confidence to date. You’ll hear how the role hormone levels play in emotional and physical health, and how they impact confidence and wellbeing. Listen in to hear the importance of addressing emotional and mental health struggles that can impact dating and relationships and the link between health, appearance, and confidence.
If your health is affecting your love life, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you get out of this funk. Also, Kimmy has a unique opportunity for a few women who want to take it to the next level. Coming up in February she is doing a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul. Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out. Book a call with Kimmy to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Get a special offer to listeners on Dr. Savage’s toxin test here: https://www.mdlifespan.com/kimmy
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you lack dating experience? Maybe you are more of a relationship person or maybe you never really just “dated” and have a desire to be in a relationship but your fear of rejection is holding you back? In Episode 376 of The Charisma Quotient, “How To Date Without Fear: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches a woman LIVE about how to date without fear. Sarah is an amazing woman, who opens up about her lack of dating experience due to bullying and turbulent college experiences. These encounters left her grappling with self-identity and confidence issues well into her adulthood, paralyzing in fear to date. Today, Sarah is determined to increase her self worth, learn how to embrace her femininity and bolster her emotional intelligence.
In this episode, Kimmy starts by giving top road blocks that psychologically prevent people from dating. Kimmy and Sarah then explore the internal challenges of overcoming negative past experiences and fears of rejection. They candidly discuss how childhood bullying and the absence of male friendships shaped Sarah's guarded demeanor and her struggle to express personal needs. This conversation is rich with actionable strategies for embracing feminine energy, such as experimenting with social settings without the pressure of dating. Kimmy offers the intriguing practice of a "dating mission statement," which focuses away from finding a partner to fostering social confidence and building dating and flirting skills.
Feel inspired to embark on your own journey of self-discovery and confidence-building? Book a free call with Kimmy today: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
In a world of constantly ever-changing technology and social rules, it can be challenging to know when and how to approach women. And for women, it can be difficult to know where to go to find men. In Episode 375 of The Charisma Quotient, “Uncovering Dating Truths: Social Dynamics, Attraction, and Confidence with Michael Sartain,” Kimmy sits down with Michael Sartain. Known for his distinguished career as a retired US military officer and a prominent figure in high-status networking, Michael offers a trove of insights grounded in evolutionary psychology and firsthand social strategy.
In this episode, Kimmy and Michael unpack the evolution of social dynamics in this modern dating era. They scrutinize the impact of social media and address the skewed gender ratios in social venues. Together, they explore the critical influence of social status, leadership, and authenticity in cultivating attraction, while also addressing the fear and polarization that plagues today's dating scene. Listen in to hear tips on how to enhance your attractiveness online, the difference between narcissism and confidence and the biggest mistakes men make when trying to create attraction.
If you struggle to put yourself out there with confidence, Join Kimmy’s Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event December 11. But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching, direct feedback from the opposite sex and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. There are only a few spots left for this VIP-ONLY experience. Go to this link to register:
https://www.stophatingdating.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Remember a time when finding a date was as easy as asking the girl next door? When people would pick up a rotary phone to call each other up? In the modern world of dating, there are numerous challenges that come up with new choices we didn’t have before. In Episode 374 of The Charisma Quotient, “Navigating Modern World To Find Love: Interview with Allison Raskin,” Kimmy chats with Allison – a New York Times bestselling author, mental health advocate, and comedian who knows a thing or two about navigating modern love. From her beginnings as a TV comedy writer to creating profound content centered on relationships and mental health, Allison's journey is as dynamic as the insights she shares. Her book, "I Do, I Think," tackles the nuances of modern marriage for Gen Z, millennials and beyond.
In this episode, Kimmy and Allison engage in a powerful conversation about redefining traditional notions of marriage and partnership. They explore questions such as: What role does communication have in navigating shared and separate interests? And, in a world proliferated by dating apps and social media, how does one find genuine compatibility without succumbing to dating fatigue? You’ll hear the importance of self-care and maintaining individuality within partnerships and why older and younger generations have differing views on marriage and partnerships. These two explore how to reframe divorce as a learning experience and ways to overcome dating fatigue.
If you are having a hard time navigating the modern dating world join Kimmy’s Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event this December to brush up on your dating and flirting skills. But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. Don’t miss your chance to be part of this VIP-ONLY experience.
https://www.stophatingdating.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
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Dating after a loss can feel daunting. You feel like you’ve already found the one and now you’ve lost that part of yourself. Plus the dating scene has completely changed. In Episode 373 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating After Loss: Finding Love In The Golden Years with Kym Douglas,” Kimmy sits down with the multi-talented Kym Douglas, a vibrant television host, author, comedian, and lifestyle expert. Known for her infectious humor and resilience, Kym opens up about her empowering journey through personal loss and her path to finding love again.
In this episode, Kimmy and Kym delve deep into the common fears and misconceptions surrounding dating later in life, especially after the loss of a partner. They candidly discuss Kym’s fear of not being "pretty enough," grappling with rejection, and overcoming perfectionism—all hurdles faced by many re-entering the romantic world. Listen in to hear Kimmy uncover some surprising breakthroughs for Kym as she learns how her relationship with her mother, perfectionism and fear are all affecting her dating life now. Hear how Kimmy coaches Kym in the end to start putting herself out there to flirt and empowering her to start meeting other singles on her own.
If you are struggling to put yourself out there and find love and fun after loss, join Kimmy’s Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event this December. But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. Don’t miss your chance to be part of this VIP-ONLY experience.
https://www.stophatingdating.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Are you watching Joan’s journey on The Golden Bachelorette and feeling inspired to get back out there? In Episode 372 of The Charisma Quotient, “Surprising Lessons Learned from The Golden Bachelorette,” Kimmy does a deep dive into the transformative world of dating after 40, offering wisdom and warmth to empower you on your journey.
In this episode, Kimmy unravels the secrets to reigniting confidence and injecting a sense of playfulness into dating at any age. She walks through the major takeaways she’s found from watching Joan and the men on The Golden Bachelorette. So many of the men walk away feeling reinvigorated with hope after meeting Joan and forming a brotherhood with the other men on the show. Kimmy explains why having that form of community can be a huge game changer when it comes to getting back out there. Through heartfelt stories and practical advice, Kimmy illustrates key tips to date with confidence in the golden years. You’ll hear valuable lessons from "The Golden Bachelorette," including the surprise value of vulnerability and emotional connection, the power of "data dating" and how intentional, strategic dating can revolutionize your love life and why overcoming fears and reframing your mindset about dating is essential.
If you are dating in the second act and you have no idea where to go, what to do or how to be..book a private call with Kimmy to help you map out a dating plan to get you motivated to get out there here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Dating later in life? Dating after 40 feels different than it did in your 20s. In Episode 371 of The Charisma Quotient, “Top 5 Mistakes When Dating Over 40”, Kimmy lays out all of the top blunders people make when they start dating later.
In this episode, Kimmy walks through the top 5 dating mistakes people make in their 40s, 50s and 60s and how it can negatively impact your dating life. She shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date. Kimmy tackles the unique challenges and abundant opportunities that accompany dating and socializing in life's "second act," offering invaluable insights into the mindset shifts needed to fully embrace this chapter of life. You’ll hear the secrets to bringing playfulness back into your dating life and why it's the key to creating genuine connections. Kimmy explains why old-fashioned dating rules no longer apply and how to embrace proactive, modern dating approaches. She also uncovers how to rediscover the joy of flirting. This episode is packed with practical strategies that will encourage you to step out of your comfort zone and nurture your dating confidence.
If you have challenges putting yourself out there and relate to any of these mistakes, then sign up for a free personal strategy call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Is your overthinking sabotaging your dating life? In Episode 370 of The Charisma Quotient, “From Overthinking to Engaging: Coaching With Kimmy”, Kimmy does a live coaching session with Patrick - a man who’s ready to get back out there but his overthinking is stopping him from finding success.
In this episode, Kimmy engages Patrick in a thought-provoking conversation, spotlighting the importance of expressing feelings over thoughts in social interactions. She gives him strategies to overcome the paralysis of overthinking—whether it's letting go of expectations, embracing the playful side early in interactions, or redefining rejection as a growth experience. Patrick candidly reflects on his upbringing and the influence it has on his present-day relationships.
Patrick's story of missing a romantic connection on a flight due to hesitation shows the consequences of overanalyzing opportunities. They also discuss his insight into balancing traditional masculinity with modern relationship dynamics, offering a fresh perspective on emotional authenticity.
Sign up for Kimmy’s brand new workshop, Conversation Hacks That Convert To Dates on Wednesday October 30 at 4pm PST/7pm EST. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. Just click the link to register www.stophatingdating.com but hurry, spots fill up fast!
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Ever wondered why falling in love for a man feels different than falling in love for a woman? In Episode 369 of The Charisma Quotient, “ ICYMI: How Men and Women Date Differently: Interview with John Gray”, Kimmy interviews the celebrated bestselling author John Gray for a juicy discussion on specifically how men and women date differently. He is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.
In this episode, Kimmy and John delve into the paradoxes and gender dynamics that can either make or break a relationship. Discover why reconciling the balances of giving and receiving love is crucial and how women can inspire long-lasting effort from their partners without resorting to demands. They dissect key stages of relationship development, offering insights on maintaining romance and intimacy over time.
John shares a story of an early date where a single compliment on a sunset led to a deeper connection, emphasizing the power of positive reinforcement. And you’ll hear Kimmy's reflections on modern femininity and proactive flirting, which can radically shift your approach to love.
If you are having a hard time finding the right man or woman for you, then book a private call with Kimmy to help you take the next step to find love here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you a dating overthinker? Maybe you’re an amazing student - you’ve read every book, listened to every podcast, and heard all of the dating advice. But when you go on a date, you’re stuck in your head and can’t even make a move. In Episode 368 of The Charisma Quotient, “ ICYMI: How To Get Out Of Your Head and Stop Overthinking”, Kimmy will teach you to get out of your head to stay present and date successfully.
In this episode, Kimmy will teach you how to get out of your head with easy, practical tips that you can start doing today. She shares an inspiring story of a male client who conquered his tendency towards "theory dating" and embraced action over introspection, ultimately finding success in the dating world. Kimmy also shares a personal anecdote about a pivotal moment in her own life, where letting go of overanalysis opened the doors to unexpected opportunities and deeper connections.
If you are stuck in your head and need help being more present to create opportunities, then book a private call with Kimmy to help you take baby steps towards building that confidence to find the right love for you here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you struggling to break free from past relationship patterns and yearning for personal growth? In Episode 367 of The Charisma Quotient, “: Coaching with Kimmy” Kimmy does a live coaching call with Diane “Overcoming Negative Patterns and Dating Without Fear - a resilient 69-year-old woman, navigating the journey of self-discovery after a lifetime of troubled relationships. Diane's compelling tale starts with meeting her former partners through mutual connections, leading to painful, controlling relationships and a journey about reclaiming her independence and self-worth.
In this episode, Kimmy coaches Diane as she opens up about her transformative move to a new city, where she built a new life, social circle, and unearthed a newfound sense of independence. Diane bravely shares her struggles with self-esteem, communication, and her resolve to approach dating with a fresh perspective, sparking an inspiring dialogue with Kimmy about embracing self-love first. Discover Diane’s powerful realization about the influence of her upbringing on her communication skills and relationship choices, and how she aspires to break free from old patterns. Kimmy talks through practical tips to get out of the cycle of bad relationships and how to move back into dating in a healthy way. You’ll hear secrets to boosting your self-esteem, flirting and intentional dating in order to take control of your dating life.
If fear is getting in the way of putting yourself out there, then book a private call with Kimmy to help you get past fear and take baby steps towards building that confidence to find the right love for you here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Ask about her next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Ever wondered how the health of your smile could be the key to unlocking your confidence and transforming your love life? In Episode 366 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Power of a Healthy Smile and Attitude: Interview with Dr. Rad” Kimmy dives into this unexpected yet fascinating topic with the incredibly knowledgeable and charismatic Dr. Rad. He is an international speaker on sleep apnea, snoring, low level laser therapy, marketing, medical billing and men's mental health. He is a practicing dentist of 22 years. He has a passion for speaking that includes personal development and strategies that help anyone manifest the life of their dreams.
In this episode, Kimmy and Dr. Rad discuss the often-overlooked impact of oral hygiene on your overall attractiveness and confidence. Learn how a bright, healthy smile can dramatically improve your dating life and first impressions. They also delve into the often-undetected issue of sleep apnea and its wide-ranging effects on mood, energy levels, and relationship dynamics. Listen in to hear the role of sleep in your emotional and physical well-being and the importance of self-acceptance and how it can reduce judgment towards others. Dr. Rad shares practical advice on improving your oral health, from essential hygiene practices to critical dental interventions. Prepare to be inspired by stories and real-life transformations highlighting the powerful, sometimes life-changing role of good health habits.
And if your health and wellbeing is affecting your dating life and stopping you from putting yourself out there, then hop on a personal call with Kimmy to help you come up with some strategies to get you unstuck. Just book that here now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Ask about her next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
What do you think of when you hear the word flirting? Does the very word fill you with fear? Flirting doesn’t have to be so scary. It can actually be playful and fun. In Episode 365 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Power of Playfulness: Where Are They Now with Sandra” Kimmy brings on Sandra, an accomplished professional who battled with the nuances of modern dating for over a decade. Sandra came to Kimmy seeking a transformative approach to her dating life, struggling to connect emotionally despite her natural social skills and professional success. But after working with Kimmy, she met a great guy!
In this episode, Kimmy and Sandra discuss the pivotal moments and strategies that led Sandra to rethink her approach to flirting and dating to meeting a great guy she is currently dating! From Sandra's initial fear of sending the wrong signals through flirting to adopting a playful, natural style in her interactions, the conversation unveils how breaking away from a business-like demeanor allowed Sandra to form authentic connections and landing her man IRL. You’ll hear how to overcome the fear of sending the wrong signals, practical tips on balancing analytical thinking with emotional feeling to enrich your social interactions and how to rethink flirtation as natural playfulness. Sandra shares her experiences working with Kimmy, including the paradigm-shifting advice to embrace her femininity and slow down during interactions, which counterintuitively sped up her ability to form deep emotional bonds.
If you are having a hard time meeting potential dates in the wild and putting yourself out there, Kimmy’s next interactive co-ed workshop is coming up, Unleashing Your Sexy Confidence where you will learn the art of attraction and chemistry and owning your femininity and masculinity. Go to www.stophatingdating.com to register as spots go fast!
And if you really want to take action and take it one step further, then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Ever wish you could sprinkle a little bit of magic and manifest the man or woman of your dreams? In Episode 364 of The Charisma Quotient, “Designing Your Dream Partner: Interview with Saul Blinkoff” Kimmy Seltzer sits down with award-winning director, producer, and motivational speaker, Saul Blinkoff. Saul is a Hollywood producer who works for many high-profile clients including Disney, Dreamworks, Netflix, and more. He is an empowering Life Coach and Podcast Host of the motivational podcast LIFE of AWESOME!
In this episode, Kimmy and Saul delve into the universal themes of responsibility, greatness, and purposeful living as exemplified by Simba's journey in "The Lion King." They explore how creating the best version of you is the key to designing the love life you want. Saul shares why he believes that living with purpose trumps chasing happiness and talks about aligning your relationships with your life goals. You’ll hear how aligning your life goals with your relationships can lead to a more supportive and growth-oriented partnership and why finding a deeper sense of purpose will lead you to a more fulfilling life than simply chasing fleeting happiness. The importance of loving yourself before you expect others to love you is really highlighted in this episode and filled with inspiration and actionable insights!
If you are tired of not attracting the right people in your life, then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you feeling stuck after a long-term relationship? Does going back in the dating game make you feel guarded and nervous? In Episode 363 of The Charisma Quotient, “Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now with Pearl” Kimmy’s client Pearl talks about the huge growth she’s had in her confidence and dating life since attending a virtual workshop with Kimmy.
In this episode, Kimmy and Pearl discuss the challenges of expressing feelings after a shut-down marriage, overcoming anxiety, and the transformative power of setting boundaries and self-advocacy. They also explore the importance of personal growth in changing one's perspective on relationships, as well as finding joy in the dating process. Through coaching and inner work, Pearl redefined her dating experience and found a deep, emotional connection she never thought possible.
And if you’re ready to start your journey to love, then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you ready to turn up the heat and reclaim your sexy after 40? Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different! But that doesn’t mean that it can’t be fun. In Episode 362 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes” Kimmy dives into the most common mistakes she sees her clients making and how you can avoid them.
In this episode, Kimmy discusses key insights on why dating after 40 is different, the importance of updating your mindset, managing realistic expectations, and dispelling old-fashioned dating rules. She also dives into the impact of lacking flirtation and playfulness, and how it can hinder your dating journey. Kimmy shares engaging anecdotes and success stories from her coaching experience, proving that with the right approach, finding love and happiness after 40 is absolutely within reach. And, she shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date.
And if you’re ready to get back out there, then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you have dating anxiety? You like the idea of a relationship but putting yourself out there to meet someone feels risky and causes a lot of fear. In Episode 361 of The Charisma Quotient, “Taking Risks When Dating: Where Are They Now with Paul” Kimmy’s client Paul shares how he went from struggling with confidence and emotional connections to finding the love of his life by simply opening himself up and putting himself out there.
In this episode, Kimmy and Paul engage in an insightful conversation, discussing the skills he gained during his coaching and style sessions with Kimmy. They explore the empowering nature of taking risks and being vulnerable, highlighting Paul's funny story of how he learned to meet women at Whole Foods. You’ll hear the importance of facing fears and taking steps to overcome them, Paul’s transformation from fear of rejection to vulnerability and confidence and how to move past low self-confidence and surface-level conversations. The episode ends with the heartwarming story of how his confidence grew by talking to everybody and building a social network which led to meeting the love of his life.
If you have a hard time putting yourself out there and taking risks, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com
And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you tired of the endless swiping and superficial interactions on dating apps? Do you long for the days where you could meet someone in person? In Episode 360 of The Charisma Quotient, “Ditch The Dating Apps And Meet IRL,” Kimmy delves into the world of real-life connections and the lost art of flirting in person. She shares riveting anecdotes of individuals transitioning from disillusionment with digital dating to finding love through sincere real-life encounters and gives tangible tips on how you can too.
In this episode, Kimmy shares success stories of going out with clients who believed the days of meeting people in real life were over and transforming them into flirtatious, charismatic daters who aren’t afraid to approach people. She talks about the power of initiating conversations and not being afraid to put yourself out there. Kimmy outlines simple actions you can take to meet people IRL. You’ll hear about the significance of saying "hi" and sharing intimate details to foster meaningful connections, steps to maintain open body language and position yourself for potential interactions and tips on where to meet people. Kimmy shares how to address the concerns and anxieties about re-entering the dating world after a long absence
If you are feeling lost on how to meet people in the wild, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com
And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Does dating often leave you feeling detached? In today’s world where social media and online dating are everywhere, it can feel impossible to have an authentic dating experience, especially in real life. In Episode 359 of The Charisma Quotient, “Stop Detached Dating: Interview with Steve Sims,” Kimmy sits down with the incredibly witty and insightful Steve Sims, a master in the art of building genuine relationships. Steve has a fascinating journey from a nightclub doorman to the founder of the world's first experiential concierge firm including a private dinner party at the feet of Michelangelo’s David where Andrea Bocelli serenaded guests.
In this episode, Kimmy and Steve unravel the secrets to navigating the modern dating landscape, from shifting mindsets to embracing rejection as a learning process. They discuss how even as an introvert, you can find connection and get something out of even your bad dates. From embracing rejection as a catalyst for growth to being fully present and giving in to social interactions, they shed light on why dating with intention and a positive mindset leads to more success.
If you want help overcoming fears and challenges of meeting people in the wild in person, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com
And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy’s next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October. If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you date from a place of fear? Maybe your past trauma is informing the way you go about not only dating but how you live your life. Meet Kim, an amazing woman who overcame her fears of dating and financial struggles after attending a dating retreat with Kimmy. In Episode 358 of The Charisma Quotient, “Face Your Dating Fears: Where Are They Now with Kim,” Kim shares how finding happiness from the outside - in gave her permission to attract a new man in her life.
In this episode, Kimmy dives into Kim’s transformation from being the woman who couldn’t even watch herself in a video and was hiding from the world to the woman who loves herself and is willing to take risks and bold action. Kim shares her personal story of how going through a divorce had done damage to her self-esteem leading her to be intense and fearful. After attending Kimmy’s dating retreat and working with her, she was able to identify the fears she had that she wasn’t even aware of. The retreat launched her into her new self - a woman who is confident and goes out and does what she loves. And her confidence has now led her to find love!
If you’re ready to face your dating fears and want to attend a dating retreat like Kim did, inquire by going to askkimmy.com to set up a call. Or if you want a free private coaching session to discover other ways Kimmy can help you conquer your fears and become a dating magnet, book a call here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Ever wondered what kind of dater you are? Maybe you tend to be stuck in the friendzone or maybe you attract unavailable partners. What if you knew that there are common challenges people have when dating and specific ways you can overcome them to attract who you want? In Episode 357 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: What is Your Dating Archetype?,” Kimmy goes over her five dating archetypes which will let you know where you fit in the dating world.
In this episode, Kimmy breaks down each of her dating archetypes and lets you know where you might fall. By figuring out your dating archetype, you’ll be able to learn how to work through your dating patterns to get a different result. It’s not about being pigeonholed - finding your archetype is about pushing through past traumas that are holding you back from finding success in your dating life. You’ll hear Kimmy reveal the signs and characteristics of being in the friend zone, how past trauma influences dating behaviors and how learning your dating archetype can get you to break patterns of toxic dating.
If you want to know what kind of dater you are and how to improve your results take the Dating Archetype Quiz here https://form.jotform.com/231376592380157
Ready to embark on a transformative journey to redefine your dating approach? Set up a free breakthrough call with Kimmy https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you an anxious or avoidant dater? Knowing your attachment style can help you know when your anxiety might be hurting your dating life and affect your love life overall. In Episode 356 of The Charisma Quotient, “Your Dating Attachment Style: Interview with Thais Gibson,” Kimmy sits down with Thais Gibson, the owner of Personal Development School and author of “Learning Love”, to talk about the importance of learning your attachment style - whether it’s anxious, avoidant, or secure and how knowing your style will help you find success in your love life.
In this episode, Kimmy and Thais delve into the core of attachment theory, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery, communication, and the impact of core wounds on relationships. Thais' journey of self-healing and the power of neuroplasticity in reprogramming attachment styles will leave you inspired and hopeful for your own transformation. You’ll leave knowing what your attachment style is and what to watch out for when it comes to love.
If you are struggling with your love life due to your attachment style, learn to uncover practical tools and invaluable insights for rewiring your style with Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop happening July 24 called Authentic Dating. You’ll learn how to express yourself differently and get over some subconscious fears you might have that are sabotaging who you are attracting in your life. Just go to www.stophatingdating.com and register now as spots go fast.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you attracting the wrong people? You’ve spent so much time learning how to attract someone but the ones you like aren’t into you and the ones you don’t like are! In Episode 355 of The Charisma Quotient, “Attracting the Wrong People: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy sits down with Tejas and does a LIVE coaching session with her around the perplexing challenge of attracting men she’s not interested in while struggling to draw in those she truly desires.
In this episode, Tejas opens up to Kimmy about dating expectations in India and how that has impacted her love life. They talk about how coming from a culture of arranged marriages can create a lot of confusion when it comes to dating on your own and looking for a partner. Tejas shares the 3 things she’s looking for in a man which Kimmy reveals might be part of the problem. Tune in to hear how Kimmy uncovers the truth of why Tejas isn’t attracting or connecting with the men she thinks she wants. HINT: It has nothing to do with the men. You’ll hear more topics around reasons why you might not attract someone you’re attracted to, how to prioritize emotional connection over rushing to find a partner and the importance of acknowledging personal and emotional growth and self worthiness.
If you are looking at breaking some patterns of who you are attracting then you’ll definitely want to come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop happening July 24 called Authentic Dating to learn how to express yourself differently and get over some subconscious fears you might have that is sabotaging who you are attracting in your life. Just go to www.stophatingdating.com and register now as spots go fast.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Does dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s feel completely foreign to you? A lot has probably changed since you were dating in your 20s and 30s. With online dating now taking over the scene, dating can feel overwhelming. In Episode 353 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40,” Kimmy goes over red flags to look for when dating in your second act and how to slow down your dating game to pick the right partner.
In this episode, Kimmy teaches you to pay attention to the type of people you are attracting and how to discern who genuinely cares for you in the initial stages of dating. If you’re rushing to get out of the dating game because you hate going on dates, you might end up with the wrong person. Dating over 40 can feel different, and it's important to pay attention to red flags that may arise and affect your love life. This episode is full of useful tips to make dating fun again so you know how to stay away from the red flags.
If you are finding dating frustrating and overwhelming as you are trying to get back out there, click here to book a private call with me to help you map out a personal plan so that you can start making dating fun https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you a self-described introvert? Does the idea of opening up to someone new make you want to crawl right back into bed? In Episode 353 of The Charisma Quotient, “Struggles High Achievers Face When Dating: Interview with Chris Guerriero,” Kimmy chats with Chris about the struggles of dating as a high achieving introvert and how it can hold you back from being vulnerable. Chris is a serial entrepreneur whose journey from personal fitness trainer to building nearly a dozen successful companies. He is also a bestselling author and a business growth expert. So if he can find success and connection as an introvert, you can too!
In this episode, Kimmy and Chris explore the delicate balance between work and personal life, the complexities of dating for busy professionals, and the profound importance of vulnerability and connection in forging genuine relationships. They delve into Chris's personal dating preferences, sharing eye-opening stories about finding equilibrium and joy in love and life.
If you are having a hard time dating due to being a successful, high achiever then sign up for a FREE private session with Kimmy so that she can map out a plan to help you do the work for once https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Image Expert and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you have a list of excuses for why dating feels impossible? Does it seem like dating is just a skill that everyone has but you? In Episode 352 of The Charisma Quotient, “Mastering the Dating Game,” Kimmy goes over how dating is actually a skill you can learn, just like cooking or painting. And Kimmy is here to guide you through the process with expert advice and success stories from her actual clients.
In this episode, Kimmy dives deep into the art of attraction and building dating skills, focusing on genuine connections and personal growth. She shares how a shift in mindset from viewing dating as a jungle to seeing it as a playground and adopting a childlike mentality will lead to find confidence in your dating life. Kimmy discusses practical strategies and techniques to break down barriers and make genuine connections. She goes over her flirting tips that you usually only get in her workshops!
If you are feeling a bit rusty at the dating game and are growing frustrated with it all, click here to book a private call with me to help you map out a personal plan to reduce frustration now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
Or sign up for Kimmy’s virtual playdate on June 26th at the www.stophatingdating.com.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you a wary dater? Are you checking every box before you even allow yourself to find a connection? In Episode 351 of The Charisma Quotient, “Learning To Trust To Attract Love: Interview with Summer McStravick,” Kimmy chats with Summer McStravick, a personal growth coach and the creator of Flowdreaming an energy technique for manifesting.
In this episode, Kimmy and Summer lay the groundwork for understanding the trifecta of trust: trust of self, trust of others, and trust of the universe. They go over valuable insights into repairing broken trust, embracing self-empowerment, and creating authentic emotional intimacy. From addressing resistance to shifting mindsets, this episode is a comprehensive roadmap for personal growth and fostering meaningful connections by entering your flow state.
If you’re ready to find your flow, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to learn the secrets to loving who you are and letting that shine in your dating life. Click here to book that now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com. Hurry, there’s only 1 spot left!
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you know your self-worth? When you go on dates are you leading with sexy confidence and fun or are you judging your every move? In Episode 350 of The Charisma Quotient, “Navigating Dating with Sexy Confidence: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches Julia, a woman who is ready to make a big transformation not only in her dating life, but also in the way she sees herself. In the past, Julia has struggled with body image issues that have held her back from really going for it on dates. But now all of that is about to change as she learns to embrace her sexy confidence and take control of her dating life. In this episode, Kimmy walks Julia through the importance of feeling powerful and confident in your body and the effect that can have on your relationships with others and with yourself. Julia opens up about her dating history and shares that she was often getting physical too soon with men that she didn’t have a deep emotional connection with. Kimmy gives her tips to break patterns in relationships, set healthy boundaries, and embrace self-love.
If you’re struggling to find your sexy confidence, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to learn the secrets to loving who you are and letting that shine in your dating life. Click here to book that now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com. Hurry, there’s only 1 spot left!
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Ever wondered how human connection impacts our health and aging? How we bond and stay attached to each other is at the core of your resilience, self-esteem, and physical health. And when you feel connected, have high self worth and are healthy that is when you are able to put yourself out there and attract people in your life. Episode 349 of The Charisma Quotient, “Redefining Aging and Connection: Interview with Chris Mirabile,” Chris shares his story of surviving a brain tumor as a teenager and how that inspired him to dedicate his life to health. He’s now the CEO of NOVOS - a longevity supplement company.
In this unique episode, Kimmy and Chris delve into the world of health and longevity and how positive relationships impact your health. You’ll hear helpful insights on aging and wellness and the importance of having three positive relationships for significant health impact. Listen in to hear Kimmy discuss how self-discipline, connection and maintaining a healthy routine positivity affects your dating life. These two discuss how to overcome a lack of motivation and depression through envisioning a better future and contrasting it with the consequences of inaction.
If you are feeling low energy and disconnected which is affecting your love life, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you get out of this funk. Click here to book that now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
You can learn more about Chris’s company Novos and get his supplements here: https://novoslabs.com/
If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you the person who says yes to everything? Does saying no to even the smallest thing make you uncomfortable? In Episode 348 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Power of Saying No: Interview with Corey Poirier,” Corey opens up about his journey from a small town to the TED stage and shares heartwarming stories that will inspire you to embrace the power of saying no, both in personal and professional life.
In this episode, Kimmy dives into the art of saying no, setting boundaries, and embracing fear to foster change, personal growth, and enhanced relationships.
If you are struggling to set boundaries, attracting lopsided relationships and have trouble saying “no”, at least say “yes” to booking a private session with Kimmy to find out why and how to stop the self sabotaging pattern. Click here to book that now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
You can also grab Corey’s new book The Enlightened Passenger here https://www.thisisthebook.com/book-optinysmhc3cq?affiliate_id=2742734
If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you struggling to make flirting fun? Do you feel like you don’t even know where to start when it comes to being flirtatious? In Episode 346 of The Charisma Quotient, “Flirting Without Fear: Coaching with Kimmy,” Flirting is all about feeling attractive and desirable, without the serious intention of an outcome. Kimmy encourages Keren to let go of perfectionism and seek genuine connections rather than obsessing over finding a potential boyfriend.
In this episode, Kimmy explores the ins and outs of flirting and Keren's challenges in sparking romantic connections.
If you’re ready to take the plunge into flirting, come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop, Flirting Made Easy coming up soon. Go to www.stophatingdating.com to register as spots go fast. Start taking action in this area of your life so that you become sexy AND confident to attract love.
P.S. If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you feel comfortable in your body or are you more in your head? Episode 346 of The Charisma Quotient, “Movement as Dating Medicine: Interview with Jennifer Joy Jiménez,” is all about getting your mind, body, spirit in alignment to date better...through movement! Kimmy welcomes Jennifer, a transformative healing and well being expert, and the visionary founder and director of the Health and Well Being division at The Brave Thinking Institute. Her unique approach intertwines transformational coaching with the dynamic energy of “transcen-dance.” Kimmy and Jennifer talk about the power of movement, body language, and music and movement as medicine.
If you know it’s time to get out of your head, put yourself back out there, and DATE, come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop, “Flirting Made Easy” coming up soon. Go to www.stophatingdating.com to register as spots go fast. Start taking action in this area of your life so that you become sexy AND confident to attract love.
P.S. If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com
And for the perfect package, check out Jennifer’s FREE TranscenDance class here https://go.lifemasteryinstitute.com/z/?p=kimmyseltzer&w=HW_AFF_TLV_2405_Kimm
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Feeling the strain of getting back into the dating scene after a long-term relationship? Do you struggle to know where to start? In Episode 345 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating In The Second Act: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy delves into the world of dating by coaching live on the episode a woman named Lisa, a successful businesswoman and self-proclaimed introvert navigating the dating scene post-divorce.
Together, they explore the challenges of expressing femininity and embracing authentic dating roles. Kimmy and Lisa discuss the complexities of body language, tonality, and the importance of playfulness and flirting in dating interactions. With relatable anecdotes and practical insights, this episode sheds light on the art of flirting and femininity in modern dating.
If you know it’s time for you to embrace your flirtatious charm, and get out there and date, come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop, Flirting Made Easy coming up soon. Go to www.stophatingdating.com to register as spots go fast. Start taking action in this area of your life so that you become sexy AND confident to attract love.
P.S. If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Ever feel like you are a fish out of water trying to date later in life? Maybe you feel rusty at the dating game or maybe you never dated at all!? This week’s episode is all about building confidence to date in your second act. Listen in if you're ready to get real about “midlife fulfillment.” Episode 344 of The Charisma Quotient, ‘Finding Fulfillment Dating in Midlife: Interview with Bernie Borges, Kimmy dives deep into relationships, legacy, and finding that sweet spot of purpose with midlife podcast expert, Bernie Borges.
Bernie joins Kimmy for a heart-to-heart on all things midlife fulfillment. They hash out the nitty-gritty of how to navigate the waters of dating in the golden years with sexy confidence. They cover everything from the ever-shifting 5 pillars of fulfillment to the journey of reinvention and finding joy in midlife dating. Get ready for inspiring stories of people who've truly hit their stride and found new love and passion, even in the midst of life's challenges as you age.
If you are having a hard time trying to get out there and date during your midlife, schedule a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Tired of feeling like your social interactions are hitting a dead end? What if you could unlock the key to confidence starting with your style and body language? In Episode 343 of The Charisma Quotient, “Overcoming Rejection and Unlocking Confidence: Where Are They Now with Scot,” Kimmy catches up with former client, Scot, as they dive deep into the transformative power of self-confidence, personal growth, and the impact of clothing on confidence and performance.
Scot shares his personal journey, from struggling with social interactions to finding love and confidence after seeking help from Kimmy. They cover the importance of not personalizing rejections, recognizing self-worth, and the impact of gratitude and positivity on your mindset. You’ll hear about Scot's remarkable transformation and how his new outfits gave him the “costume confidence” to approach women and eventually find his long term girlfriend who he will be marrying soon!
If you realize that you need to feel more confident with your clothes and body language to go out there and date, come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop, First Impression Makeover coming up soon. Go to www.stophatingdating.com to register as spots go fast. Start taking action in this area of your life and become the confident and stylish person you know you can be! P.S. If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you feeling frumpy, low energy and unattractive? Is that affecting your motivation to put yourself out there? Get ready to ignite your inner fire and spark your sexy confidence. This episode is dedicated to the ladies out there! In Episode 342 of The Charisma Quotient, “Spark Your Sexy: Ignite Your Love Life,” Kimmy shares powerful tools and success stories to help you embrace your best self and feel irresistible. Kimmy reveals her 5 “F” Tips to sexy confidence and how to reclaim your sparkle as a woman. She walks you through a self-assessment in the key areas of feeling attractive and provides actionable tips to boost confidence. In this episode, Kimmy provides practical tools to help you assess and enhance your fashion sense, flirting skills, and feminine energy. From wardrobe audits to embracing spontaneity and vulnerability, she offers valuable advice for personal transformation and self-embodiment. Kimmy invites listeners to her unique "spark your sexy retreat" and "First Impression Makeover" workshop, designed to help you feel confident and attractive in an experiential way.
If you are feeling frumpy and not very confident when meeting new people, come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop First Impression Makeover coming up soon. Go to www.stophatingdating.com to register as spots go fast. Start taking action in this area of your life and become the confident and stylish person you know you can be! P.S. If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you finding yourself making excuses or feeling powerful around your dating life? The truth is you do have the power to create the love life you want but it’s often hard to see that. In Episode 341 of The Charisma Quotient, “Achieving Greatness in Love: Interview with Dr. Dravon James,” Kimmy sits down with Dr. Dravon James, the founder of The Next Step Leadership Academy, a transformation specialist, best-selling author, radio host, and actress.
Dr. James and Kimmy get into how to use everything that shows up in your life, to finally achieve greatness, especially when it comes to dating and love! They talk about how to get specific about your goals, and how to cultivate habits in order to get there. You’ll pick up tips to increase self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and consistency in your wins.
If you are fed up with the direction of your love life and want help achieving greatness in attracting the love you deserve, schedule a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
P.S. If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through dating apps? Swiping right, swiping left, but getting nowhere? It’s time to dial in some mindfulness to your dating life and beyond. Mindfulness means living the present moment and being more intentionally aware. In Episode 340 of The Charisma Quotient, “Mindfulness And Dating: Interview with Bruce Langford,” Kimmy sits down with Bruce Langford, a mindfulness coach, speaker, podcaster, and best-selling co-author of Cracking the Success Code.
Bruce shares his personal story of finding his voice, and how he became so passionate about helping people find theirs through mindfulness. Kimmy and Bruce get into some techniques including the C.A.L.M method to incorporate mindfulness in your dating life, to help you stay present, give yourself permission to embrace a different outcome, and ultimately find love. Bonus: Bruce shares how he found the love of his life using mindfulness!
If you have difficulties being present and anxiety is paralyzing you to the point of it affecting your dating life, schedule a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Struggling with body image? Weight issues? How you feel about your body can impact every aspect of your life...especially dating. In Episode 339 of The Charisma Quotient, “Body Confidence and Self-Acceptance When Dating: Interview with Katie Bramlett,” Kimmy sits down with the insightful Katie Bramlette, CEO and co-founder of WeShape.
Katie offers valuable expertise in promoting self-love and emotional intelligence in the world of fitness, as well as insight into the toxic weight loss culture and its impact on mental well-being. Katie offers practical advice for redirecting energy towards self-acceptance and away from societal standards. Kimmy and Katie discuss the importance of community support, curating social media for positive body image reinforcement, and finding fulfillment in activities and friendships. Katie also shares her personal journey of breaking free from diet and exercise perfectionism, finding food freedom, and shifting her relationship with herself.
Ready to shift YOUR focus and enhance your love life? Schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
P.S. If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence: The Art Of Attraction & Chemistry. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and attract people with charm and charisma so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you ready to be inspired? Ever think it’s too late to learn how to flirt and find the one? Meet Rachel, an extraordinary woman who overcame immense dating struggles to find true love and happiness. Episode 338 of The Charisma Quotient, “Discovering Sexy Confidence: Where Are They Now with Rachel” dives into her inspiring journey of self-discovery and the invaluable transformation she experienced after seeking help from Kimmy herself.
Rachel's dating journey was riddled with challenges - from attracting the wrong type of partners to battling shyness and anxiety. She had a ton of confidence issues and found flirting and owning her beauty extremely hard. But after a breakthrough call, personal coaching and attending a dating retreat with Kimmy, her life took a beautiful turn. Through Kimmy’s coaching, Rachel learned to stand up for herself, own her worth, and navigate dating with sexy confidence. And she learned to let go and flirt and have fun with confidence which made her more present. She shifted her focus from fleeting chemistry and anxiety to meaningful connections, and the results were nothing short of miraculous as she ended up attracting a great man in her life. If you’ve been yearning for a love story that defies the odds, this episode is a must-listen for you!
If you want help overcoming challenges of flirting and seeing your self-worth to attract a healthy relationship, hop on a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
P.S. If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you ready to unleash your inner superhero and take control of your confidence and success? In Episode 337 of The Charisma Quotient, “Using Your Alter Ego To Attract Love: Interview with Todd Herman” Kimmy sits down with the incredible Todd Herman about the transformative power of alter egos and how they can revolutionize your life.
Todd Herman has been a powerhouse in the field of elite performance coaching for over two decades. From developing alter egos for elite athletes to harnessing the power of creative imagination, Kimmy and Todd dive into the interconnectedness of body language, appearance, and mindset when it comes to embodying an alter ego. They also explore the concept of "act as if" to overcome self-doubt and anxiety, and share real-life examples of how alter egos have transformed lives. Listen in to hear the concept of authentic selves and the impact of understanding and embracing different roles in life. You’ll even hear Todd reveal his personal journey of creating and utilizing an alter ego called "Super Richard" to overcome self-doubt and achieve success.
Ready to transform YOUR life with your alter ego? Schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
P.S. If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Ever wonder how to make yourself more emotionally attractive? Get ready to dive deep into emotional attraction and vulnerability with Kimmy’s powerful LIVE coaching segment. In this Episode 336 of The Charisma Quotient: Progressing Your Dates With Emotional Attraction: Coaching with Kimmy, Kimmy coaches Corbin by exploring the challenges of building emotional connections and overcoming self-doubt in relationships.
Corbin, a passionate ballroom dancer with a heart of gold, joins Kimmy to share his personal struggles with opening up emotionally in relationships. They delve into the impact of childhood experiences on confidence, self-worth, and the ability to connect with others. He is a dedicated and skilled professional in his work life but struggles with socializing in his personal life, especially when it comes to interacting and being vulnerable with women he's attracted to. He's aware of his difficulty flirting and letting his guard down to deepen connections with attractive and powerful women. With Kimmy’s help, he is determined to conquer his nerves and find a way to navigate flirting with confidence and ease. Listen in while Kimmy gives Corbin on-the-spot exercises for him to do to increase his self worth and express emotions through storytelling. You’ll hear a shocking revelation Corbin has while doing this exercise live on the show.
If you have a hard time progressing on dates and finding emotional intimacy in relationships difficult, schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
P.S. If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Ready to unlock your inner compass and harness your personal power? In Episode 335 of The Charisma Quotient: Setting Healthy Boundaries When Dating: Interview with Laura Powers, Kimmy invites celebrity psychic and intuitive guide Laura Powers to dive deep into trusting your intuition and setting healthy boundaries. With a diverse background spanning politics, acting, writing, entrepreneurship, and more, Laura brings a unique blend of experiences and insights to the table.
Kimmy and Laura explore the importance of trusting your gut and techniques for establishing healthy boundaries in all aspects of life, especially dating. Laura shares her remarkable story, and teaches listeners how to tune into their body to release foreign energy in order to connect with their authentic desires. Tune in to hear the importance of having clear standards and setting even clearer boundaries and how to trust your gut in decision-making and avoid people-pleasing behaviors. Whether you're navigating romantic relationships or personal growth or both, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and equipped to access your inner wisdom.
If you have a hard time listening to your gut to know what is right for you and need help setting boundaries when dating, schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
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Do you find yourself feeling exhausted by the thought of small talk, constantly analyzing conversations, and striving for the perfect outcome? Sounds like you’re either an introvert or a high achiever or BOTH. In Episode 334 of Charisma Quotient- Dating Hacks for Introverts and High Achievers, Kimmy gets into the challenges that introverts and high achievers face when it comes to dating and making connections.
She shares personal and client stories and insights into the importance of playfulness and fun in dating and relating. From struggles with small talk, getting in your head to difficulty in flirting, Kimmy offers practical advice and tips to help navigate the dating world with confidences as an introvert and high achiever. She also announces an upcoming interactive workshop designed to help introverts and high achievers boost their conversation and social skills. Tune in to find out how to overcome dating fatigue and fear of rejection in a lighthearted and fun way.
Sign up for Kimmy’s brand new workshop, Conversation Hacks That Convert To Dates on Wednesday Feb 21 at 4pm PST/7pm EST. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. Just click the link to register www.stophatingdating.com but hurry, spots fill up fast! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you tired of feeling stuck in your dating life, plagued by anxiety and self-doubt? Wondering if you're doing something wrong, or if you're just not cut out for this thing called “dating”? In Episode 333 of Charisma Quotient- From Introvert To In Love: Where are They Now with Vicky, Kimmy catches up with Vicky, a former client and success story, who shares her courageous journey in overcoming dating anxiety and transforming her love life.
Vicky, being an introvert, struggled with dating, anxiety, and self-confidence before seeking Kimmy's help. This episode delves into her incredible love story, the importance of broadening dating horizons, letting go of rigid expectations, and the impact of cultivating self-acceptance in attracting meaningful connections. Listen in to hear how a wardrobe consultation and mastering the art of storytelling helped Vicky forge deeper connections and navigate her way to love. Kimmy gives ninja tips for mingling, presenting oneself, and connecting daily. Vicky shares her transformation, from feeling anxious and introverted to feeling confident and deeply connected in her new relationship, with valuable insights for listeners looking to break through their own dating barriers.
If you want help overcoming challenges of flirting and socializing so that you progress on dates, enter the worst flirt in america contest and submit your worst flirt stories to win a flirt and style session www.worstflirt.com. And if you want to take it one step further, sign up for Kimmy’s brand new workshop, Conversation Hacks That Convert To Dates. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. Just click the link to register www.stophatingdating.com but hurry, spots fill up fast. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you going through a tough time? Feeling hopeless? Get ready for an inspiring interview about turning hardship into success. In Episode 332 of Charisma Quotient-From Adversity To Abundance: Building Confidence and Attracting Love, Kimmy welcomes Hazel Ortega, an entrepreneur, author and educational psychologist whose inspiring journey from poverty to success is filled with valuable lessons about overcoming adversity and transforming your life. She is also the author of From Bounced Checks to Private Jets: The Mastery of Miracles.
Hazel shares her powerful personal story, including the challenges she faced growing up in a dangerous neighborhood and the transformative impact education had on her life. She also discusses her experiences with relationships, personal development, and the essential role of positive influences. Hazel and Kimmy deep dive into the importance of embracing change, communicating needs, and striving for growth in both personal and professional relationships. Hear about how “pushy angels” are crucial in creating success and setting boundaries. Listen in to hear Kimmy and Hazel discuss how adversity can lead to positive changes and insights on creating lasting, fulfilling relationships through clear communication and unwavering integrity. Join us as we delve into Hazel's incredible journey and discover the wisdom she has to share on wealth, love, and the pursuit of a fulfilling life.
If you are falling victim to adversity and it’s paralyzing you to take action to attract an abundant love life, take advantage of a free private coaching call with Kimmy to personally help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you struggle to let people in? Are you dating with a hard shell wall around you and you don’t even know it? The armor is so thick that you don’t even realize that people who might be interested in you can’t even make a dent in it or find an opening to get the opportunity to really know you.
In Episode 331 of Charisma Quotient- Breaking Down Defensive Walls: Coaching with Kimmy, Kimmy has a LIVE coaching session with Sarah, an electrician with a big heart, ready to break down her emotional barriers and fears that have been holding her back from meaningful connections.
Sarah appears tough and self-sufficient on the outside, but deep down, she wants to learn how to open up and let love in. Kimmy gets deep with Sarah on how to break down those walls, share personal stories, and change her body language to be more approachable. They delve into Sarah's past relationships, her fears of abandonment, and her struggle to connect with others on a deeper level. The episode highlights Sarah's journey to break out of her comfort zone and embrace her femininity.
If you are finding your defensive walls up when trying to connect with people and want help getting over some fears, take advantage of a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to crack the code on what is NOT working for you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Episode 330 of Charisma Quotient- Marketing Yourself for Love: Interview with Laura Belgray Are you putting yourself out there as the best version of you? Dating is a lot like marketing. You’re kind of selling a product (yourself – but not in a literal way), and your potential suitors are the buyers. In this episode, Kimmy gets into how to market and promote yourself for love with award-winning copywriter and author of national bestseller, ‘Tough Titties: On Living Your Best Life When You’re the F-ing Worst,’ Laura Belgray. Marketing is not just for businesses with Instagram ads and catchy commercials. What if you could market you better so that you have more opportunities to find love? Episode 330 of Charisma Quotient- Marketing Yourself for Love: Interview with Laura Belgray is all about how to sell yourself to attract the suitors you want out in the real world. Kimmy and Laura explore the balance of self-promotion in business and in love, how to find your authentic voice, and how to attract the right kind of attention you crave. These two dive into topics around the practice of boosting self-promotion and building confidence and connect with potential customers and daters. Listen in to hear ways to let go of personal doubts and fear of annoying others when self-promoting. If you’re ready to elevate your marketing and self-promotion game to meet people in the real world, Kimmy has just the workshop for you on January 23 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). It’s a perfect way to kick off the new year and motivate you to make some changes in your love life. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. But hurry and register here www.stophatingdating.com to save your spot! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Episode 329 of Charisma Quotient- 3 Months to Change Your Life: Where are They Now With Megan In this episode, Kimmy catches up with podcast-listener-turned-client, Megan! Are you a long-time Charisma Quotient listener? Are you on the fence about booking a call with Kimmy? Let this be your sign to go for it! Episode 329 of Charisma Quotient- Change Your Life In 3 Months: Where are They Now With Megan is all about what can happen when you take that first step. Hear about Megan’s transformative dating journey from high-functioning, anxious overthinker, to a confident, authentic catch. Megan has always been invested in her personal growth, but it wasn’t until coaching with Kimmy that she felt a real, targeted breakthrough. Listen in to hear how to work less at dating and totally enjoy the process, what it looks like to build trust in yourself and how to zoom out and think objectively about your dating process. Megan reveals in this episode that working with Kimmy not only elevated her love life but improved her quality of life overall. If you’re ready to date BETTER in 2024, hop on a call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to improve upon your dating journey. Book that here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And if you want help overcoming challenges of meeting the right people in the world and breaking your patterns, Kimmy has just the workshop for you on January 23 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). It’s a perfect way to kick off the new year and motivate you to make some changes in your love life. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. But hurry and register here www.stophatingdating.com to save your spot! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Who’s in your tribe? Dating is not a solo sport…It takes a village! Ready to cultivate healthy relationships by creating a strong community? Join Kimmy and special guest Florence Ann Romano as they delve into the importance of building your village and how cultivating a supportive community boosts your love life. Episode 328 of Charisma Quotient-Building A Dating Dream Team: Interview with Florence Ann Romano. In this episode, Kimmy chats with Florence Ann Romano, a personal growth strategist and author of "Build Your Village." As Florence shares her journey from childcare provider to community-focused advocate, you’ll hear about the importance of building a supportive tribe, and the power of positive energy. You’ll hear stories of reshuffling friendships, creating intentional social plans, and finding supportive networks during challenging times. Kimmy and Florence also touch on finding passion and purpose, the significance of authentic conversation, and the value of philanthropy in building connections. If you're feeling isolated and have a strong desire to build your tribe to gain support in your love life, then sign up for Kimmy’s next upcoming Co-Ed interactive virtual workshop called Meeting People IRL: Tuesday, January 23rd www.stophatingdating.com. Join Kimmy personally with a group of singles who can become your tribe instantly! But hurry spots are limited! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you struggle with anxiety and fear? Have the events from your past led to an anxious attachment style and affect your dating experiences? In this Coaching With Kimmy episode, Kimmy dives deep into the journey of self-healing as she coaches her guest live on air. Louis is a combat veteran who served two tours in Afghanistan, has a history of ADHD and PTSD. This conversation highlights the intersection of mental health and relationships. Episode 327 of Charisma Quotient: Dating With Anxious Attachment Style: Coaching with Kimmy. Kimmy starts the episode by giving practical tips to help you navigate dating with an anxious attachment style. Kimmy and Louis then explore the impact of childhood experiences on adult anxieties and how he can start to navigate dating. During this episode, you’ll hear Louis share his struggles with online dating and Kimmy’s helpful reframe on how to use online dating as a “practice portal,” rather than a place for finding a soulmate. Catch the surprising moment from the episode when Kimmy talks through Louis’s vision of himself as "Louis 2.0:" a more emotionally resilient and relaxed version of himself, someone who’s willing to face relationship challenges with confidence. You’ll also hear ways to incorporate mindfulness, breathing exercises, and meditation into daily routines to help manage symptoms of anxiety and create a healthy life balance. If you're ready to get out there and date, sign up for Kimmy’s next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Meeting People IRL: Tuesday, January 23rd at www.stophatingdating.com. But hurry spots are limited! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you have a ‘Type? Are you trying to find your perfect match and feel exhausted after not finding it? More importantly, is your type working for you? This week Kimmy interviews Polina Solda, founder of Love By Design who has an expertise in a personality-typing system called Eniostyle.
In Episode 326 of Charisma Quotient, Dating Beyond Your 'Type’: Interview with Polina Solda, Kimmy and Polina explore ways to find the right type of partner for you.
Listen in to hear the two of them discuss the concept of shape-shifting, understanding compatibility based on personality types, and the sheer simplicity of finding the right match once you really get your own type. They even share some juicy stories, like Polina's story on how she met her "nice" husband! You’ll hear about why knowing the "south man" vs the "east man" is important and how their personality traits impact compatibility with women. Listen to some key tips around how to avoid the "checklist approach” and focus on core values and compatibility.
If you are attracting the same person in a different costume and want to break the pattern, hop on a call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to crack the code on the type that is NOT working for you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Tune in to Dating Beyond Your 'Type’: Interview with Polina Solda on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Ditch The Friendzone And Move Into The Flirtzone Are you constantly getting friend-zoned? Do you feel like your dates are boring? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy Seltzer unlocks the secrets to escaping the “friendzone” and moving into the “flirtzone”, and becoming a person who’s genuinely excited by not only dating, but life itself. In Episode 325 of The Charisma Quotient, Ditch The Friendzone And Move Into The Flirtzone, Kimmy gets into what makes someone feel attracted and connected to you on a date. Kimmy covers how to master the art of making people feel excited when they’re around you, and how working on the delivery of your conversations and breaking routines in your everyday life can carry over into a more adventurous dating life. Kimmy even gives real-life examples of folks who have conquered the friend zone by getting out of their heads, and into their feelings. Tune in to learn how to ditch the friendzone, and start living life in the flirtzone. If you are getting burned out with dating, not flirting and feeling a lack of chemistry on your dates, then sign up for Kimmy’s next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy: Unleashing Your Natural Charm and Charisma Tuesday, December 12th 4pm PST at www.stophatingdating.com. But hurry, spots are limited! Tune in to Ditch The Friendzone And Move Into The Flirtzone on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms. ********
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Intentional Dating: Interview With Jillian Romero Chaves
Are you tired of going on countless dates that seem to lead nowhere?
This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy Seltzer dives into the world of intentional dating with Jillian Romero Chavez, the creator of ‘Clara for Daters’, an innovative app designed to empower daters to become their own love scientists.
In Episode 324 of The Charisma Quotient: Intentional Dating with Jillian Romero Chaves, sits down with Jillian, a former corporate professional turned dating app creator, as they discuss the importance of setting boundaries, collecting data, and making intentional choices when it comes to dating.
Jillian brings a fresh perspective to the world of dating, sharing how tracking and reflecting on her own dating experiences led her to the creation of Clara.
Kimmy and Jillian explore the power of intentional dating and discuss the key questions that Clara prompts users to consider after each date—a unique approach that allows daters to assess chemistry, values, and various aspects of safety in relationships.
Hear Jillian share engaging stories about her own dating experiences, providing valuable insights on how to navigate the often challenging world of modern romance.
Listen in to hear Kimmy’s questions around flirting and how that might be impacting the men Jillian attracts.
If you are getting burned out with dating, not flirting and feeling a lack of chemistry on your dates, then sign up for Kimmy’s next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy: Unleashing Your Natural Charm and Charisma Tuesday, December 12th at 4pm PST at www.stophatingdating.com. But hurry, spots are limited!
Tune in to "Intentional Dating with Jillian Romero Chaves" on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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A Real Golden Bachelorette Finds Love: Where Are They Now with Leslie Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient: Where are They Now? In this heartwarming episode, Kimmy sits down with former client Leslie, a widow who embarked on a journey to find love in her second act. Leslie's incredible transformation will leave you feeling inspired and hopeful. Episode 323 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast: A Real Golden Bachelorette Finds Love: Where Are They Now with Leslie Leslie joined Kimmy's coed dating retreat program after attending Kimmy’s workshop about flirting and sexy confidence. She was a relationship person with little dating experience and was finding herself feeling lost and not knowing how to put herself out there. The thought of flirting horrified her and she realized that she was closed off, guarded and in her head a lot. She also didn’t realize that she was hiding in her clothes and didn’t like bringing attention to herself. Through undergoing a style makeover, learning dating and flirting skills, Leslie became more open and vulnerable, leading her to start dating men she wouldn't have considered before. Eventually, she met someone who brought happiness into her life and is in a beautiful relationship today. Leslie's success story highlights the importance of being present and enjoying the dating journey, as well as the power of self-discovery and embracing one's true self. If you're ready to start dating again or having fears around it, sign up for Kimmy’s next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy: Unleashing Your Natural Charm and Charisma Tuesday, December 12th 4pm PST. Kimmy is doing a special holiday giveaway! The first 20 listeners to subscribe, review our podcast on Apple or Spotify, and email a screenshot to hello@kimmyseltzer.com will get FREE access! Subscribe, review and email her to grab those spots. You can see more details at www.stophatingdating.com. But hurry, spots will go fast! ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you tired of finding yourself in toxic relationships? It’s time to break the cycle. Kimmy Seltzer dives deep into toxic patterns, red flags, and healing from emotional abuse with Dr. David Hawkins, a seasoned clinical psychologist and renowned author with over 45 years of experience in the field. Episode 322 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Disrupting Toxic Relationship Patterns: Interview with Dr. David Hawkins Kimmy and Dr. Hawkins dive into the world of toxic relationships, discussing how red flags are often ignored when there’s chemistry and attraction. They explore the importance of setting boundaries and how reflecting on the costs and benefits of toxic relationships can help you gain clarity, and make the difficult choice to walk away. Drawing from their own experiences and expertise, as well as powerful examples of real-life people who have made small changes to disrupt toxic patterns, Kimmy and Dr. Hawkins delve into what it means to have effective communication, the power of emotional clarity, and strategies for breaking free and finding both transformative growth, and healthier relationships. If you are finding yourself in a cycle of emotionally abusive relationships and attracted to toxic people when dating, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you get out of the cycle and date smarter. Click this link to book it https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Tune in to "Disrupting Toxic Relationship Patterns: Interview with Dr. David Hawkins" on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you someone who struggles with vulnerability and finds it challenging to open up? If so, you're not alone. Kimmy dives deep into the topic of guardedness in this live coaching session and how it impacts the ability to form meaningful connections when dating. Guest Kimberly joins Kimmy this week to explore the reasons behind her guardedness and how it impacts her ability to connect with potential partners. Episode 321 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Struggles Of Dating When You Are Guarded: Coaching with Kimmy Listen in to hear Kimmy live coach Kimberly to explore how her guardedness manifests in different ways from being secretive to avoiding personal sharing. Kimberly shares how her past wounds have caused her to wear a love shield which prevents men from getting close to her. She realized her fears and lack of dating experience have made it difficult to put herself out there. They delve into the body language cues that often reveal guardedness and dissect the reasons behind these behaviors. Kimmy talks about why being guarded in dating is a common defense mechanism, usually stemming from past hurts and a desire to protect oneself. Listen in to hear powerful strategies to break the walls and take steps towards opening up and connecting with others on a deeper level. Kimmy reveals some practical tips on how to show up authentically, communicate your needs, and express feelings without compromising your own boundaries. This is a real-world perspective on overcoming guardedness and finding love. If you're ready to unmask your guardedness and create authentic connections, sign up for Kimmy’s next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Authentic Dating: Conquering Your Fears and Expressing Yourself! Tuesday, November 14th at www.stophatingdating.com. But hurry spots are limited. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever heard of emotional attraction? Do you ever wonder how to create more meaningful connections with someone when you first meet? Most of us are familiar with physical attraction, but to build a strong, connected relationship it’s important to move beyond the physical and learn to be more open in letting the opposite sex really feel you. Episode 320 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Creating An Authentic Emotional Attraction When Dating, Kimmy dives into ways you can create a deep emotional attraction with your dates from the minute you meet them. If you feel like your conversations just scratch the surface or feel a lack of chemistry on dates, Kimmy delivers tips on how you can take them to the next level. You can move beyond simply describing your day, or what you like, to using feeling words that show who you are. This episode is your guide to creating an emotional connection and being vulnerable without going overboard. Listen in to save yourself from the dread of divulging too much too soon or holding back with your guard up on the first date! And, Kimmy dispels the myth that if you’re not physically attracted to someone right away, you will never be. If you want to learn how to build emotional attraction and you've been relying on physical attraction to carry you through, register for Kimmy’s next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Authentic Dating: Conquering Your Fears and Expressing Yourself! Tuesday, November 14th here www.stophatingdating.com. But hurry spots are limited. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzerJoin her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you consider yourself an introvert? How do you navigate the challenges of dating as an introvert? Have you ever felt overwhelmed by traditional dating expectations? In this Coaching with Kimmy episode of The Charisma Quotient, host Kimmy Seltzer coaches Evan LIVE tap into his hidden potential and unlock the power of building confidence and self-assurance in dating and relationships. EPISODE 319 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Dating as an Introvert: Coaching with Kimmy Kimmy begins the episode with obstacles introverts typically have and ideas of how to address them. Evan discloses some personal challenges dating as an introvert and how it’s affected his dating life. Kimmy delves into some key strategies to help Evan step outside of his comfort zone and thrive. From pursuing hobbies and passions, to practical tips on approaching potential dates and making authentic connections, Kimmy helps Evan see how his past experiences have caused him to get in his own way and nails down a simple action plan to start getting unstuck. You’ll hear: - The challenges introverts face in socializing and dating - Ways introverts can stop overthinking and start enjoying dating and flirting - How to alleviate stress when dating - Strategies for embracing discomfort and breaking patterns to create new habits If you want help overcoming your introversion and overthinking challenges with dating, relating and flirting, sign up here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call with Kimmy to map out a strategy to help you. Also, Kimmy has a few spots left for her upcoming co-ed dating retreat that has transformed the lives of many of her clients, apply here soon if interested! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ Tune in to "Navigating Dating as an Introvert: Coaching with Kimmy" on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you been dealing with a breakup and trying to heal to get back out there? Using the power of intuition and how to harness it as you heal and re-enter the dating scene which will empower you to trust your instincts, rebuild your confidence and attract new love after a breakup. In this episode, Kimmy brings on Dr. Karin Luise, a renowned Spiritual Guide and Life Coach who specializes in helping individuals heal and reinvent themselves. EPISODE 318 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Gut: Harnessing Intuition for Post-Breakup Healing and Dating Kimmy and Dr. Karin Luise delve into the power of intuition and how it can be harnessed to create positive change. They discuss the importance of trusting your gut feeling, setting healthy boundaries, and breaking free from the cycle of victimization. During the episode, you'll hear engaging stories of individuals who used their intuition to make big decisions, set boundaries, and ultimately find new love. From realizing when and how to limit contact with a toxic ex-partner to embracing the freedom of opening up to new possibilities, these stories will inspire and empower you to take control of your own happiness. If you are having a hard time letting go and moving on after a breakup and tapping into your intuition, then sign up with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you. Also, Kimmy has a few spots left for her upcoming co-ed dating retreat that has transformed the lives of many of her clients, apply here soon if interested! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now. Listen in to hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working together. You'll hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and their biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. These conversations are to motivate you to take action and get inspired by the successes of others. Are you tired of being stuck in the friend zone? Wish you could turn those platonic connections into something more? In this week's episode of the Charisma Quotient podcast, Kimmy dives deep into a powerful story of transformation with her client Jim. EPISODE 317 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Free From The Friendzone: Where Are They Now With Jim Jim found himself perpetually friend-zoned. But, he embarked on an incredible journey of self-discovery and personal growth that forever changed his social confidence. From joining the game-changing coed dating retreat, Dating REimagined, to shedding his old habits and learning valuable dating and flirting skills, Jim's story is a true inspiration. If you are finding yourself constantly falling into the friendzone and want to know how to break into the flirtzone to start creating more chemistry with your dates, then sign up with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you. Also, Kimmy has a few spots left for her upcoming co-ed dating retreat that transformed Jim’s life so apply here soon if interested! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you ready to level up your dating game but is your self-image holding you back? You might be surprised to learn that your body confidence can play a major role in attracting the love you desire. In this week's episode of Charisma Quotient, Kimmy is diving into the connection between body confidence, health, and attraction. To shed more light on this topic, she interviews Heather Wyatt, a weight loss coach and holistic health expert. EPISODE 316 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Boost Your Body Confidence and Attract More Love with Heather Wyatt Heather shares her own personal journey with weight fluctuation and body confidence. She emphasizes the importance of mental wellness and offers practical strategies to create a balanced approach to health and self-love. In this episode, Kimmy and Heather explore the correlation between feeling good about your body, eating well, and emitting positive energy. Heather also shares insights on how body confidence impacts your overall well-being and the way others perceive you. Listen in to hear: * The symbiotic relationship between health, body confidence, and attraction. Discover how feeling confident about your body can improve your dating life. * Embracing your sexuality without guilt or shame. Learn how to overcome societal messaging and embrace your sexy self. * Nourishing your body and mind for optimal well-being. Explore ways to prioritize mental wellness and find balance in your health journey.
And if you want to learn how to feel comfortable in your body and reignite your dating confidence after 40? Come to Kimmy’s live co-ed interactive workshop called the "First Impression Makeover" on October 10th. It's your chance to learn and practice the skills you need to make lasting first impressions in dating. Don't miss out on this opportunity to level up and take action in your dating game. Register now at www.stophatingdating.com Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever wondered why first impressions matter so much in dating? It's not just about looking good or saying the right things! Your appearance and attitude play a crucial role in attracting potential partners and setting the tone for the entire relationship. In this week's episode of the Charisma Quotient, host Kimmy Seltzer dives deep into the power of first impressions and how they can make or break your dating experiences. EPISODE 315 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering the Art of First Impressions Kimmy shares some fascinating research findings, real life client stories, and actionable tips to help you make a lasting impression. By the end of this episode, you’ll understand why it's about finding your own style, learning to market yourself effectively, and paving the way for authentic connections… You’ll Hear: * The hidden impact of attitude and appearance: Discover why it's not just about what you say, but how you show up that truly influences others' perceptions of you. * The power of wardrobe choices: Learn how dressing more intentionally with a dating costume can transform your confidence and attract the attention you deserve. * Real-life success stories: Find inspiration in personal anecdotes of people who experienced incredible transformations in their dating lives by changing their first impression game. * Taking action: Uncover the steps you can take today to improve your first impression skills, whether you're naturally shy or simply in need of a dating confidence boost.
Creating a great first impression is a skill that can be learned. It's not about changing who you are but finding ways to showcase your true self. This episode will show you the tools to take control of your dating life and make a lasting impression that speaks volumes. And to go even deeper, come to Kimmy’s live co-ed interactive workshop called the "First Impression Makeover" on October 10th. It's your chance to learn and practice the skills you need to make lasting first impressions in dating. Don't miss out on this opportunity to level up and take action in your dating game. Register now at StopHatingDating.com! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Ready to redefine your style and reignite your dating confidence after 40? Join the "First Impression Makeover" workshop with Kimmy Seltzer at https://stophatingdating.com and embrace your vibrant, magnetic self! Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you feeling overwhelmed and frustrated by the world of online dating? Do you want to know how to approach it as a tool rather than a transactional experience? In this Coaching With Kimmy episode of Charisma Quotient, host Kimmy Seltzer coaches special guest Sandi to discuss her struggles with dating, body confidence, and opening up after a divorce. EPISODE 314 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Love in the Digital Age with Sandi They explore the complexities of online dating, the importance of diversifying one's dating portfolio, and the challenges it can present in areas such as appearance, flirting, and engaging in meaningful conversations. Kimmy and Sandi share insights and strategies to help listeners navigate the online dating world with confidence and authenticity. You’ll Hear: * The importance of approaching online dating as a tool and diversifying your dating portfolio. * How to overcome body confidence issues and open up after a divorce. * Strategies for attracting the right kind of attention and filtering out incompatible matches. * Practical ways to improve your appearance, flirting skills, and conversation techniques.
Don't miss this insightful discussion on how to overcome obstacles and find connections in online dating on the Charisma Quotient podcast. Not only does this episode offer incredible insights into the world of modern dating, but Kimmy also announces an exciting opportunity for listeners. She shares details about her upcoming interactive workshop, The First Impression Makeover, where you will learn about personal style, body language, and making unforgettable impressions in the dating world. Don't miss this opportunity to level up your dating game and attract the love you deserve. Register now at StopHatingDating.com and start your journey to irresistible charisma! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Ready to redefine your style and reignite your dating confidence after 40? Join the "First Impression Makeover" workshop with Kimmy Seltzer at https://stophatingdating.com and embrace your vibrant, magnetic self! Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
How do you handle difficult situations? Are you ready to find out how to navigate challenges and create lasting connections? In this week's episode of Charisma Quotient, Kimmy dives deep into the transformative power of overcoming adversity in love with her interview with special guests, James Arthur Ray and Bersabeh Ray, who have each overcome significant challenges in their lives and are here to share their insights and strategies with you.
This episode is all about embracing the obstacles we face and using them as stepping stones towards personal growth and attracting the love we truly deserve. James Arthur Ray is not only a bestselling author, consultant, and coach, but he's also someone who has experienced loss and rebuilt his life from scratch. After a tragic accident, James had to dig deep and use his own strategies to bounce back stronger than ever. Bersabeh Ray, an intuitive consultant, was born in Iran during the Iran-Iraq war. She has faced great adversity and has provided invaluable support to James during his journey of rebuilding. Together, they have invaluable wisdom to share on how to navigate challenges in love and life.
EPISODE 313 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Embracing Adversity and Attracting Love with James Arthur Ray and Bersabeh
Prepare to be moved by James and Bersabeh's personal journeys of loss, rebuilding, and finding love amidst hardship. As they share their own experiences of overcoming seemingly insurmountable obstacles, you'll be inspired to face your own challenges head-on and harness the power within you to create a life filled with love and authenticity.
Ready to overcome adversity and attract the love you deserve? Reach out to Kimmy Seltzer for personalized coaching and revolutionize your approach to relationships and personal growth by booking here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.
EPISODE 313 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Embracing Adversity and Attracting Love with James Arthur Ray and Bersabeh Ray. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Ready to redefine your style and reignite your dating confidence after 40? Join the "First Impression Makeover" workshop with Kimmy Seltzer at https://stophatingdating.com and embrace your vibrant, magnetic self!
Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now. Listen in to hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working together. You'll hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and their biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We share these conversations to motivate you to take action and get inspired by the successes of others. Are you ready to break free from the chains of self-sabotage and reach new heights in your love life? Our guest, Kim, shares her powerful story of realizing the need for guidance as she embarked on a new path in her life. She opens up about her previous experiences of rushing into relationships without truly getting to know the other person, and how this realization led her to seek support in her journey. Together, we explore the importance of investing in oneself and the positive outcomes that stem from personal growth and development. Kim reflects on her transformation of confidence, setting boundaries, and attracting healthier partners. As we delve into the topic of self-validation and the role it plays in relationships, we discuss the significance of recognizing internal validation and not relying solely on external sources for validation. We also touch upon the impact of family dynamics and past experiences on our present actions and beliefs. Listen in as Kim shares the exercises and skills that have helped her break old patterns and create a new, more fulfilling dating experience. We also discuss the profound moments of intimacy and authenticity that can truly transform our relationships and bring vibrant colors to our lives. Are you tired of those old dating patterns and are ready to find your confidence and authenticity in the modern dating world? Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you. Make sure to tune in to Episode 312 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast titled "Internal Validation & Finding Love: Where Are They Now with Kim." Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you ready to break free from the chains of self-sabotage and reach new heights in your love life?
In this captivating episode of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, we dive deep into the world of personal discovery with the incredible Paul Hoffman.
Strap in for an eye-opening conversation that will transform how you view yourself and your relationships.
Our guest, Paul Hoffman, is a personal discovery architect who has helped countless individuals identify and overcome the mind traps that have been holding them back. With a remarkable background that includes sharing stages with the likes of Jack Canfield and the Dalai Lama, Paul brings a wealth of expertise to our topic.
EPISODE 311 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Unlock Your Potential: Overcoming Self-Sabotage with Paul Hoffman
Join host Kimmy Seltzer as she delves into the secrets behind self-sabotage and how it impacts our ability to find love and happiness. From childhood messages to coping mechanisms, they explore the roots of self-sabotage and its effect on personal growth.
One standout moment includes a powerful story from a dating retreat where a woman's rough exterior melted away, leading to newfound personal growth and romantic attention.
Feeling inspired? Take action today by reaching out to Kimmy Seltzer for coaching on how to break free from self-sabotage and shape a love life that truly aligns with your desires.
Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.
EPISODE 311 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Unlock Your Potential: Overcoming Self-Sabotage with Paul Hoffman. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Did you know that there’s science behind falling in love? Love is fascinating and complex. Romantic love, in particular, seems to be a beautiful mystery that is hard to explain. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with best selling authors and love coaches Dr. Michael and Barbara Grossman, Ph.D. Barbara is a marriage and family therapist, and Michael specializes in regenerative medicine. After overcoming struggles in their marriage, this couple teaches other couples the skills they need to have happy, healthy, and loving marriages for life.
EPISODE 310 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Sexy Science Of Falling In Love: Interview with Drs. Michael and Barbara Grossman Dr. Michael and Dr. Barbara talk about how they got into this work, and share the challenges they experienced ten years into their marriage that almost led to a divorce. These two break down some key differences between men’s and women’s communication styles that can spark frustration in relationships. Listen in to hear how Dr. Barbara and Dr. Michael each had to grow personally to keep their relationship strong. Kimmy asks Dr. Michael to share his framework for the stages of growth we go through, and how it relates to our ability to form strong relationships and families in the future. If you are a high achiever who has trouble feeling connected to your emotions, this conversation is for you. You can learn the skills to develop happy, healthy relationships at any stage in life. You get the make the choice to move forward for the better. If you are wanting to learn how to attract a relationship and sustain it, then reach out to Kimmy here for a complimentary private call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Work with Kimmy to map out a plan to begin your journey to find love.
EPISODE 310 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Sexy Science Of Falling In Love: Interview with Drs. Michael and Barbara Grossman. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Is it possible to manifest the perfect partner out of thin air? If you set an intention to attract something or someone into your life, you have to deeply believe you are deserving of everything you say you desire. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Laura Michelle Powers, a celebrity psychic, author of seven books, actress, and host of the Healing Powers podcast. These two talk all about how to consciously manifest what you want in love, instead of feeling completely out of control. EPISODE 309 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers Kimmy asks Laura to share the story of how she went from experiencing childhood trauma to a toxic marriage to the incredible life she’s manifested today after using her psychic abilities and re-discovering her intuition. Kimmy and Laura talk about how the power of fear blocks you from moving forward. Listen in on an important discussion of how understanding the difference between masculine and feminine energy plays a role in manifesting love. Laura shares a story about someone she met on a dating app who misrepresented themselves online. Listen in to hear how Laura tackled that issue in future online dating interactions. Stay tuned to hear about the power of positive thinking, laughter and being more in tune with how you feel. If you approach a date with a serious attitude or stress from the workday, you might shut yourself down from connecting with that other person. If you’re ready to manifest a beautiful, loving relationship in your life, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you. EPISODE 309 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you ever feel like you’re in a trance when it comes to dating? Are you present in your conversations or are you trapped inside your own head and missing out on what’s right in front of you? This week, Kimmy does a deep dive on the signs that you are emotionally disconnected and her top tips to be a mindful dater. Mindful dating is the process of becoming more aware and being more intentional on dates. That includes your own self-awareness of course, but also being present to connect with the person across from you. EPISODE 308 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mindful Dating: Finding Meaning in Every Interaction Kimmy kicks off with a story about her VIP client who finally recognized how disconnected she’s been for nearly a decade since her marriage ended. She was going through the motions without recognizing how her own emotions, behaviors and values impacted her ability to make genuine connections with others. Kimmy clearly outlines some top tips in how to date mindfully so that you approach dating with intention, authenticity, and a focus on meaningful connections. Kimmy shares a surprising tip about the early signs that indicate future relationship success. And, stay tuned to hear why dating outside of your type or dating multiple people can help you hone in on what you truly want in a partner. If you’re feeling burned out by dating, chances are you’re not approaching it in a mindful way. Kimmy breaks down how to structure your time intentionally around dating so it doesn’t become a burden. Numbing out can be a sign that you’re self-sabotaging potential relationships in order to avoid the pain of rejection. Listen in to hear about the value of approaching life with curiosity when opening your self up to love. If you are numbing out and not being intentional or mindful when dating, hop on a private call with Kimmy so that she can wake you up and put you into a dating action plan. Click here to book it https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 308 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mindful Dating: Finding Meaning in Every Interaction. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Has the fear of rejection stopped you from embracing all of the possibilities life has to offer? If you want to find love, but you’re terrified to put yourself out there this episode will show you that it’s possible to make a change. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with William Hung, a motivational singer and former singer who became a household name after he was sent home on American Idol, auditioning with “She Bangs” by Ricky Martin. These two have a candid, vulnerable conversation about turning rejection into resilience and learning to honor your authentic self. EPISODE 307 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: American Idol William Hung Interview: Regaining Confidence After Rejection Kimmy asks William to talk about how he rebuilt his confidence after experiencing public rejection and maintained his signature positive outlook. William talks about his focus on his values and purpose as a way to reset when the fear of failure sets in. William opens up and shares stories about his first two marriages and the lessons he learned that stick with him to this day. He speaks vulnerably about the challenges he faced with gambling and addiction and how that impacted his relationships. You’ll hear all about how William’s experience on American Idol catapulted him into a new world and how he navigated that time, emerging on the other side wiser, and more confident. Stay tuned to hear key advice from Kimmy about the importance of cultivating your confidence to remain resilient when confronted with anxiety about an uncertain future. This conversation is a reminder that being your authentic self above all is the best way to make a real, meaningful connection with someone. If you are ready to get over your fear of rejection and put yourself back out there to find love, reach out to Kimmy for a free coaching call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Work with Kimmy to map out a plan to find your sexy self-confidence and feel like the best version of yourself. EPISODE 307 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: American Idol William Hung Interview: Regaining Confidence After Rejection. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
How do you lead with your authentic voice? In your journey to find love, are you being true to who you are or are you shape-shifting into someone you’re not? If you are terrified to flirt, approach someone you’ve never met before, or don’t feel confident showing up as your true self, this conversation is for you. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Hersh Rephun, who is a brand voice expert and the host of the Yes, BRAND Podcast, with a background in comedy and entertainment. He helps people find their authentic brand voice to communicate with their audience in an honest way. EPISODE 306 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Authentic Brand Voice: Interview With Hersh Rephun Kimmy and Hersh Rephun talk about the perils of “shape-shifting”, where you prioritize pleasing others over being authentic to who you truly are. Kimmy asks Hersh to share his story of how he transitioned from the world of stand-up comedy to being a brand strategist today. Hersh shares how difficult it was to transition from playing characters on stage to speaking honestly in his own voice. Stay tuned to hear some of Hersh’s signature voices from his comedy days! Kimmy and Hersh discuss how improvisational games and leaning into being silly and playful can help you discover the confidence you didn’t know you had within you. Kimmy asks Hersh to share tips about common misconceptions about how to express your authentic voice. You’ll hear examples from Hersh’s work with major brands and how that translates to communicating who you are personally. Kimmy and Hersh break down how humor can be an incredible connector, but it can also cause distance between you and another person — or you and yourself. Hersh and Kimmy have a fascinating conversation about how to flip that script and use your challenges to showcase your power. If you are ready to develop your brand voice and start showing up authentically, get in touch with Kimmy here for a free call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just one session you could begin to map out a strategic dating plan alongside Kimmy to express yourself authentically and find love. EPISODE 306 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Authentic Brand Voice: Interview With Hersh Rephun. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
How do you walk into a room and stand out from the crowd? Charisma is a skill that can be learned and this episode will show you how to up your dating game. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Christine Amerman an experienced media coach and strategist who helps people share their expertise in the podcasting space. These two have a vulnerable conversation about how to show up as your authentic self and shine! EPISODE 305 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stand Out To Attract Love: Interview With Christine Amerman Christine shares the story of how she found herself again her way following a personal loss. Kimmy asks Christine to talk about how she redefined her self identity and found purpose in her new reality. You’ll hear about how Christine pushed herself to accept her desire to be seen in many areas of her life. Kimmy and Christine talk about the importance of being playful and approaching life with a childlike wonder. If you bring a flirtatious attitude to your dating life, you’ll become open to new connections and new possibilities. If you have struggled with fears of rejection from past wounds, this conversation is for you. You’ll hear an actionable tip on how to boost your confidence, even when you’re feeling insecure. Find out why you don’t have to be a hyper-extrovert in order to stand out and key character traits to foster to overcome insecurities. Listen in to hear how you can use these qualities to attract a higher caliber of people. If you are someone who hides and want to attract more opportunities in your dating and social life by standing out with charisma and confidence, hop on a call with Kimmy to strategize mapping out a plan to that here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a free call! EPISODE 305 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stand Out To Attract Love: Interview With Christine Amerman. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you an over-thinker and a little analytical in nature? The last time you were on a date, did you feel present and playful or distant and disconnected? Overthinking, difficulty expressing emotions, and an outcome-oriented mindset are just a few of the challenges that left-brained analytical thinkers encounter when it comes to matters of the heart. In this episode of Coaching With Kimmy, you’ll hear honest conversations with Kimmy and real people about their progress on their dating journey. This week on the show, Kimmy has a candid conversation with Jeff who refers to himself as “Data” (Trekkies will get this reference!). Jeff describes himself as an introvert with a highly technical and military background, who has struggled to make emotional connections with women after two divorces. If you have a tendency to overthink, resist expressing your emotions, or are outcome-oriented, this conversation is for you. EPISODE 304 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Challenges Of Analytical Thinkers: Coaching With Kimmy When you bring this energy to a date, it can result in your date not feeling the chemistry and you finding yourself in the friend zone. Kimmy begins this episode in reviewing specific mistakes left-brained people often make when dating and how to overcome them. You'll then hear Jeff talk about how his confidence lives in his professional life and how it doesn't always translate into his personal life. Jeff shares that many of his dates end up feeling like a business interview, and wants to understand how to get to the fun part where he can relax, share his sense of humor and banter back and forth. Kimmy and Jeff identify the importance of creating a sense of safety in conversation. Jeff vulnerably shares that wounds from his past relationships have impacted his ability to make new connections when dating. Kimmy talks about the impact of experiencing rejection over time and how that can build fear about an uncertain future. Stay tuned to hear actionable tips from Kimmy about how to chip away at the fear you feel around dating. Kimmy shares key steps towards building emotional connections connections and instilling a mindset that will reduce fears of rejection. Listen in to hear about how to gamify social interactions so meeting new people can feel fun, light and not burdened by a potential future outcome. If you are analytical, in your head and an overthinker which all is affecting your dating life, reach out to Kimmy here for a FREE consultation: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just 30 minutes, you can work with Kimmy to map out a plan to find a fulfilling relationship with who loves and understands your unique self. EPISODE 304 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Challenges Of Analytical Thinkers: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever wanted to know how to make your date crave you? You might see this in the movies or even with some friends who seem to do it so easily…so what is it that they do that creates an attraction factor instantly? Confidence and charisma are key qualities that make others desire you and — they can be learned! This week, Kimmy teaches you all about how build your confidence and increase your charisma. If you are tired of not progressing on dates, never getting asked out for a second date, and always being put in the friend zone, this episode is for you. EPISODE 303 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You Listen in to hear examples from Kimmy’s work with her clients who go from closing themselves off to others to being open, curious and even flirtatious(!) with more people. You’ll hear 5 key tips from Kimmy about how to boost your sexy confidence and become irresistible to the people you actually want to attract. If you take less than 30 seconds to answer a text and are always available for dates, this could be a major turn off! Listen in to these tips to give yourself permission to enjoy this process as it enriches your life. This episode is a reminder that in order to change and make major shifts, you need to be uncomfortable. With support from a coach like Kimmy and clear goals, your path forward to gaining more sexy confidence and charisma could be just one phone call away. Get in touch with Kimmy here for a FREE coaching call: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 303 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Dating is a marathon, not a sprint! If you are navigating online dating, exploring new social events or even numbing out on physical dates, motivation to keep going can be difficult to maintain. On this episode, Kimmy has a conversation with Angela Henderson, who works with women around the world to help them find success in business. EPISODE 302 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Staying Motivated To Date: Interview With Angela Henderson Kimmy asks Angela to share her story about her journey as a mental health professional and social worker into the work she does now. You’ll hear how through it all, Angela made the choice to file for divorce, inspired by a mantra to choose the change she wants to see in her life. Kimmy and Angela talk about what keeps her motivated to keep moving forward despite the challenges that arise. Angela asks a provocative question that will help you identify what you want to create more in your life that will help you reframe your view of yourself. Kimmy breaks down the difference between external and internal motivation. Kimmy talks through the benefits of “gamifying" dating with rewards and consequences to keep you on track with your goals. Kimmy and Angela deliver some tough love, acknowledging that things usually feel worse before they start to feel better. Truly working on yourself is not easy and when you make the decision to start, it’s not always easy to keep going. Kimmy and Angela discuss how positive reinforcement and corrective experiences helps manage your motivation. When you make a decision to acknowledge your baggage and commit to healing, you will start to find motivation that you never knew was within you. If you are struggling being motivated in your dating life and are about to give up, reach out to Kimmy for a free breakthrough call to help you get out of feeling stuck and map out a plan to start making positive changes here: meetme.so/breakthrough EPISODE 302 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Staying Motivated To Date: Interview With Angela Henderson. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
You cannot have a healthy relationship without trust. Maybe the people in your past were totally untrustworthy where you were ghosted, lied to, or completely betrayed. If you are ready to get past your trust issues in a healthy and balanced way, this conversation is for you. In this episode, Kimmy interviews Rob Greenlee, host of the Trust Factor Podcast, is well-known podcaster and radio broadcaster with over two decades after a storied career as a pioneer in new media and technology at Microsoft, PodcastOne, Spreaker, and Libsyn. EPISODE 301 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Trust Issues: Interview With Rob Greenlee Kimmy asks Rob to share his personal story that led him to a career in new media and broadcasting and share more on the tips he gives around creating open, honest, and vulnerable lines of communication. Listen in to hear Kimmy and Rob talk about the importance of keeping your commitments and following through. This is a conversation that will remind you that showing up as authentically you and trusting yourself is the foundation to healthy communication. If you are someone who experiences anxiety around being social, listen in to hear Rob talk about how public speaking, presenting and podcasting helped him overcome a speech impediment that he dealt with for many years. Stay tuned to hear some key tips on the power of listening and how to boost confidence in your everyday interactions, which can lead to more confidence in your search for love. If you have a hard time trusting and are attracting lopsided relationships or worse, it’s causing you to put your walls up and not meet anyone at all, hop on a free call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In 30-minutes, you can work with Kimmy to map out a plan to start to build your trust in yourself and become more open to relationships with others. EPISODE 301 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Trust Issues: Interview With Rob Greenlee. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you have a broken “picker”? If you have a pattern of attracting people who are not right for you then this episode is for you. In this episode of Coaching With Kimmy, you’ll hear Kimmy live coach her clients who are experiencing challenges when dating. Listen in to hear her give her guest actionable advice to help them get better results. EPISODE 300 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Do You Have A Bad Picker? Coaching With Kimmy This week, you’ll meet Tracy, who finds herself back in the dating pool after a string of unsuccessful long term relationships. Tracy vulnerably shares the story of her first marriage to a man she met in the navy who unfortunately took his own life. After years of processing through grief, Tracy got into a series of relationships with men who took advantage of her giving nature and strung her along for years. Tracy shares more about her traditional upbringing as the daughter of an Italian immigrant. As a latchkey kid, Tracy has always been raised to be independent. Kimmy insightfully helps Tracy identify the source of the pattern she’s repeating in her relationships. If you have a deep fear of rejection or abandonment, this conversation will help you release those fears for the sake of making a genuine connection. When you’ve experienced trauma, abuse or just a bad breakup it can be difficult to get out of your own head and let go of the potential negative outcome when flirting and socializing. Stay tuned to hear a juicy story from Tracy about approaching a cute guy at a bar! And, hear Kimmy’s real-time tips about how to gamify conversations so you can encourage the person you’re attracted to come to you. If you’re ready to fix your picker and start attracting the people who you really want to connect with, get in touch with Kimmy here for a free breakthrough call: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 300 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:Do You Have A Bad Picker? Coaching With Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you tired of meeting emotionally unavailable people? But have you considered, how emotionally available are you? Research has shown that emotionally intelligent people have healthier relationships, more success in work and are generally happier than those who are not as emotionally intelligent. Listen in to hear how you can identify if this is an area of growth for you, and how you can use it to improve your dating life. Today, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Nada Lena, a bestselling author, TEDx speaker and founder of Rise Up For You, a company creating growth for top global organizations and leaders. EPISODE 299 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Emotional Intelligence When Dating: Interview With Nada Lena This conversation is a powerful reminder that everything you have accomplished and gained can dissipate, but the pieces of yourself that make you human — the ability to connect, to express empathy, to be vulnerable — are what remain no matter what. Nada dissects the key aspects of emotional intelligence, and how vast it really is. Listen in to a key tip from Nada around using “I” statements intentionally to create space for empathy in others. Kimmy shares specific language-related nuances that can help you express yourself in a way that others will receive it. Kimmy and Nada share tips on how to become more self aware. Kimmy asks Nada to share tangible strategies that you can implement in your life right away to build relationships that fuel you. You’ll hear about the benefits of being able to identify specific emotions and their root cause. Stay tuned to understand more about the beliefs to hold and how they impact the actions and behaviors you take. If you’re ready to get past your fears and feel confident, playful and fun when dating in an authentic way, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you. First, join Kimmy June 15 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Authentic Dating: Conquering Your Fears And Expressing Yourself where you will learn to get out of feeling stuck in a cycle of fear and insecurity when it comes to dating. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude! Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com
Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit. She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!
******** EPISODE 299 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Emotional Intelligence When Dating: Interview With Nada Lena Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
What are you afraid of when it comes to love and dating? Being scared or worried about things like flirting, online dating, going on a first date, finding the right person are usually symptoms of underlying bigger fears like rejection or getting hurt. This week you’ll hear Kimmy’s LIVE coaching session with Elena, a woman who wants to overcome her anxieties around dating after going through three divorces. EPISODE 298 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Your Dating Fears: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy shares actionable tips and insights on how Elena can start to push past her fear of a failed future relationship. Elena shares more about her upbringing and how watching her parents relationship has impacted her outlook on love. Elena talks through her biggest fears around finding love again. If you’re like Elena, you’ve felt like you lost yourself in past relationships and are ready for something different. Kimmy gives Elena her top action items for her to rediscover her playful, flirtatious side! Listen in to hear about Elena’s sexy alter ego and how Kimmy uses this to help her get past her fears and out of her head. It’s not about dating to find your next partner or spouse, it’s about finding out what you want and defining what makes you happy. If you’re ready to get past your fears and feel confident, playful and fun when dating in an authentic way, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you. First, join Kimmy June 15 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Authentic Dating: Conquering Your Fears And Expressing Yourself where you will learn to get out of feeling stuck in a cycle of fear and insecurity when it comes to dating. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude! Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit. She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later! ******** EPISODE 298 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Your Dating Fears: Coaching With Kimmy Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you always left with feeling no good enough? If you have found yourself writing affirmations to no end or envisioning a future that never seems to arrive, you may feel like you don’t deserve to have the loving, fulfilling relationship you truly want. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Kat Polsinelli, a Business Organizing Powerhouse who works with people to overcome their limiting beliefs and build businesses that reflect their true selves. EPISODE 297 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: Interview With Kat Polsinelli Kat tells Kimmy about having to start her life over multiple times as she dealt with struggles of raising children at an early age and leaving an abusive relationship. Kat shares some of the people pleasing and limiting beliefs she discovered as part of her healing journey. If you have ever been with a narcissist or abuser, you may begin to believe the untrue, negative labels that this person places on you. Kimmy and Kat talk through some of the factors in Kat’s upbringing that contribute to her people pleasing tendencies. These two talk through how these tendencies can leak into other areas of your life, like in relationships and business. Kat shares the key strategies that she used to begin to overcome these patterns and learn to recognize to her triggers. If you are having trouble setting boundaries, this episode is for you. Kat shares a tip on how to set small, incremental boundaries in order to reinforce the behavior you want. Stick around to hear an excellent tip from Kat about how to ask questions in order to identify a challenge and rise to meet it. If you are struggling to identify and feel your feelings, Kat shines a light on the method she uses with clients to dig deeper. This episode is a beautiful reminder to focus on all that you are, rather than all that you are not. If you are having feelings of low self worth and have constant thoughts of not feeling enough, reach out to Kimmy for a complimentary coaching call to help you override thoughts and thrive in your life: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, working on you is working on your dating life! ******** EPISODE 297 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: Interview With Kat Polsinelli. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Does the thought of making small talk on a date make you cringe? When you think about being social to a total stranger at a bar or on a date, do you want to run and hide? Do you cherish your alone time? If this sounds like you, you might have introvert tendencies which can make dating hard. This week, we're back with another episode of Coaching With Kimmy, where you'll hear a live, candid conversation with people like you about the challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results. Listen to Kimmy's LIVE coaching session with Bernadette, an introverted woman who wants to come out of her shell and start to communicate in a more open, playful way. EPISODE 296 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Introvert Dating Challenges: Coaching with Kimmy After her marriage ended more than a decade ago, she’s ready to master the social skills she needs to find love again. Kimmy asks Bernadette to share her dating history and experience in relationships. Bernadette talks about the challenges she faces when dating as an introvert such as an aversion to flirting, sharing her feelings and letting go of the intention of an outcome. Stay tuned to hear key tips from Kimmy about how to start small and build up your ability to be “on” in social situations. You’ll hear how by simply making the choice to dress up with intention or put on a bit of makeup can light you up instantly to attract more attention when you’re out, and how you can use that to your advantage with confidence. This conversation is all about how to make an impactful impression and increasing your social confidence when dating. If you’re ready to get our of your introverted shell and feel sexy, playful and fun when dating, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you. First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude! Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit. She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!
This week, Kimmy plays a classic throwback episode where she tells her story and dives deep on how to flirt, have fun and fall in love with everyone! EPISODE 295 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirt & Have Fun With Everyone Listen in to hear Kimmy’s story of finding her sexy confidence again after divorce. You’ll hear her talk about how she learned the value of being playful and flirty when dating. When you look the part, turn on the charm and become open to all the possibilities, you can be the most magnetic person in the room. Kimmy breaks down the definition of flirting. She shares her key tips on how to let go of the intention of an outcome when flirting. Find out what flirting means to you, and use that to find your own style. Stay tuned to hear how smiling, making eye contact, and talking to anyone can make everyone in the room notice you. If you’re ready to feel sexy, playful and fun when dating again, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you. First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude! Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit. She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later! ******** EPISODE 295 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirt & Have Fun With Everyone. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Do you know how to find your JSpot? No you didn’t read this wrong..the “J” stands for joy and if you are not feeling excitement and bogged down with a lot of stress, it will be hard to find dating fun! You can make the process more enjoyable by approaching dating with a lighthearted joyful attitude, focusing on the present moment, and being yourself. This week on the show, Kimmy has a conversation with best-selling author and speaker Shari Alyse, who is known as the Joy Magnet who works with people to live joyful lives. EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot: Interview With Shari Alyse Shari shares candidly about experiencing childhood sexual abuse and how that trauma impacted the trajectory of her life and her ability to feel true joy. Shari shares how she felt disconnected from herself and her journey to reconnect to herself, and her happiness. Kimmy asks Shari what her life was like when she was in a dark place and what strategies she used to move forward. Shari discusses strategies around healing, starting with finding joy and acknowledging where you are and what really feels good to you. Shari and Kimmy talk about Shari’s dating life and how she started to turn her life around and prioritize what she wanted. Listen in to hear Shari’s top tips about how to ignite joy in your life. This conversation will remind you that joy, levity and play are within your reach! If you are not feeling the spark of joy or flirtiness in your life, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you. First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude! Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit. She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later! ******** EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot: Interview With Shari Alyse. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Have you been attracting emotionally unavailable people? Are you constantly frustrated by the quality of men or women you meet? This week on Coaching With Kimmy, you’ll hear a candid conversation with someone like you looking to date and find love. Kimmy addresses how to stop attracting emotionally unavailable people. Listen in to hear the signs that you are building walls in order to protect yourself, because of pain you experienced in the past and how it is acting as your love shield. EPISODE 293 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Attracting The Emotionally Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy has a conversation with Bianca, a fun-loving person and successful professional who is struggling to make deeper emotional connections with men. Bianca has worked on herself and is aware of dynamics at play growing up that led her to gain confidence based on her achievements, instead of who she is at her core. If you have trouble expressing your emotions or feel overwhelmed when you’re being vulnerable, this conversation is for you. Kimmy and Bianca talk through the barriers Bianca feels to diving back into the dating pool. Bianca vulnerably shares her journey with body confidence and self-worth. Kimmy and Bianca discuss her reluctance to open up and let men really get to know her. If you want to stop attracting people that are not right for you, Kimmy dishes about how to become the Queen Bee and focus on what you really want! If you feel after listening to this that you may have some emotional walls built up which is acting as your love shield, hop on a call with Kimmy to see how she can help you become more available for love. Book it here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough ******** EPISODE 293 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Attracting The Emotionally Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Are you the hero or the villain in the story of your life? If you have experienced any level of trauma in your past, it’s very likely that you’re bringing remnants of that trauma into your journey to find love. This week, Kimmy has a raw, vulnerable conversation with Michael Unbroken the Founder of Think Unbroken, best-selling author, award-winning speaker, podcast host, coach, and advocate for adult survivors of childhood trauma. EPISODE 292 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go Of The Past: Interview With Michael Unbroken Michael shares his heart-wrenching story of trauma, abuse and the pain he experienced growing up. From enduring physical abuse as a child to battling addiction to nearly ending his life, Michael has come out the other side with a completely new perspective on his ability to control his future. If you have struggled with your mental health and self worth due to trauma in your past, listen up. Kimmy and Michael share countless tangible tips and advice on how to reframe your mindset and get out of your own way to progress towards a new, healthy version of you. Stay tuned to hear the difference between setting goals and finding true alignment. You may think you know exactly what you want, but have you ever asked yourself if that desire is internal or external? If you are struggling with insecurity or low self-worth, it’s more likely that you will attract people who hold the same qualities. If you are struggling with behaviors that numb you out and disconnect you from your body, your mind or from supportive relationships, this conversation is for you. This episode is packed with tough love and hard truths, but it may just be exactly what you need to hear to decide to make a change for the better. If you are having a hard time letting go of the past to attract love in your life and want to find ways to move past the fear, take action by signing up for a free coaching call with Kimmy so that she can help you map out a plan to do that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough ******** EPISODE 292 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go Of The Past: Interview With Michael Unbroken. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Creating healthy sexual boundaries is different for everyone. How and when do you decide to connect with someone in a sexually intimate way? This week, Kimmy dives into the nitty gritty when it comes to sex in a revealing interview with Heather Shannon, a Certified Sex Therapist, who shares her personal journey about how she got into this work. Heather helps people discover their sexual selves and deepen their intimate relationships with one another. EPISODE 291 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Sexual Boundaries: Interview with Heather Shannon Listen in to hear a story about a former client of Kimmy’s who would use sexual interactions as a way to feel emotionally close to guys she dated. If you struggle to create boundaries or gravitate towards sex before making an emotional connection with someone, this conversation will help put that experience into perspective. Heather and Kimmy talk about how sex is discussed and portrayed in culture and media, and how that can have a big impact on our own self-worth and confidence. Ultimately, you are the one in control of the choices you make. Physical intimacy can be exhilarating, fun, vulnerable, and scary all at the same time. Stay tuned to hear some tips and tricks from Heather about how to communicate openly and honestly about your boundaries without having to over-explain or get into the weeds. This conversation will help remind you to embrace what you want and let go of what doesn’t serve you! If you are ready to learn how to create healthy boundaries around sex or anything else when dating, reach out to Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and find time to speak with Kimmy for free for 30 minute coaching call. Just one conversation could change the trajectory of your love life for good! EPISODE 291 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Sexual Boundaries: Interview with Heather Shannon. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Welcome back one of our favorite segments, Where Are They Now, a series of episodes designed to inspire and motivate you with the stories of Kimmy’s past clients. Success looks different for everyone and it can happen for you too! This week, you’ll hear a celebratory conversation between Kimmy and Susan, a client she met a little more than a year ago who had some fears around flirting and being seen which was impacting her ability to put herself out there and date. EPISODE 290 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Feeling Invisible: Where Are They Now With Susan You’ll hear Susan and Kimmy talk through Susan’s journey going from feeling insecure and invisible to recognizing that she wanted to be seen despite her fear around it. Listen in to hear all about how Susan went from hiding herself and being controlled by her fear of being judged to feeling and looking effervescent. If you have ever felt that if people got to know the “real” you, they wouldn’t like what they saw, this episode is for you. If you have struggled with people pleasing, this episode has tips and strategies you can use to help flip that script. This conversation touches of the importance of exploring what femininity means to you and the empowerment you can feel if you embrace that energy within yourself. Susan and Kimmy talk through the progress Susan has made since she started working with Kimmy and how she has become able to feel and express her feelings in an authentic way. Hear Susan’s experience working through various workshops Kimmy has offered and the impact they had on her sexy confidence. If you are ready to take the next step to put yourself out there but don’t really know how, sign up for Kimmy’s newest workshop April 11th, First Impression Makeover www.stophatingdating.com! This coed, interactive workshop will help you increase your sexy confidence by focusing on being irresistibly sexy and confident, using your clothing and body language to create a powerful and unforgettable first impression. EPISODE 290 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Feeling Invisible: Where Are They Now With Susan. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
It only takes 7 seconds to make a first impression with someone you meet. Whether you want to make an impact in dating or in business, this episode will illuminate how you can create attraction from the moment you walk into the room. On this episode, Kimmy brings back a fan-favorite episode with Scott Carson, an investor, entrepreneur, marketer and host of the Note Closers Show Podcast. As a proven expert in building relationships in business, Scott knows how to make a lasting first impression. EPISODE 289 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson Kimmy and Scott recount their first impressions of one another at the New Media Podcast Summit. Listen in to hear what elements of your style and attitude are the most memorable to people you meet. If you show up with a curious, positive attitude you have the power to shift the energy of those around you. When you socialize, network and date out in the world, owning who you are and what you’re working with is key. These two talk wardrobe tips, including power colors and moving towards sexy confidence. If you have ever stood in front of your mirror and wondered, "Does this dress look good on me?" or, “Does this outfit reflect a sexy dating image?", listen in how you can improve your image. Scott and Kimmy talk about the common factors that define the most charismatic, confident people in business and in dating. You may be surprised to hear how these skills can be learned! The more you show up as intentionally and authentically as yourself, it helps people trust and believe you. This lively, fun conversation will remind you to take the time to take care of yourself so that you can start attracting new love and opportunity. If you are ready to make an impactful, memorable first impression for all the right reasons, here are two things you can do right now. First, dig into Kimmy’s Style Guides at kimmyseltzer.com/style to find out your body type and what styles will flatter your figure today. Take it to the next level, and check out Kimmy’s upcoming interactive co-ed First Impression Makeover Workshop. Here you will learn how to create your own confident style and master body language for your dating success. If you desire to feel confident in your skin, market yourself attractively and attract dream partners in a fun-fill experience grab your spot here www.stophatingdating.com. EPISODE 289 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?! In this segment, you will hear inspiring conversations between Kimmy and her clients all about how their lives have transformed since working with Kimmy. In this episode, you’ll hear an intimate, candid conversation with Deirdre, who found Kimmy though a free flirting workshop she was leading on Facebook Live. EPISODE 288 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Unleashing Dating Confidence With Style: Where Are They Now With Deirdre She decided to invest in coaching because she recognized that she needed a plan to increase her dating confidence, discover her sexy, flirtatious, playful side and learning how to emote to create vulnerability and attraction when dating. Deirdre opens up by sharing how she made the decision to begin working with Kimmy at the onset of the pandemic, and how that global shift inspired her to look inward and uncover what she really wanted. Kimmy asks Deirdre to share what her love life looked like before she chose to start working with Kimmy. Looking ahead towards her 50th birthday, Deirdre decided that she wanted to address the loneliness and disconnection she was feeling by finding herself and finding love. Kimmy and Deirdre reflect back some of Deirdre’s key learning moments throughout her coaching journey. If you struggle with a fear of rejection or a total lack of dating experience, this conversation will resonate with you. Listen in to hear a deep dive into one of Deirdre’s most transformational moments, a Virtual Makeover. Deirdre shares how she went from having a total of ZERO dresses in her closet, to finding her signature color to looking and feeling damn good in her clothes! Deirdre shares more about how the skills she gained through working with Kimmy have translated into many areas of her life, even outside of love and relationships. When you create the space for yourself to be playful, confident, and show up knowing your worth, you will find that you start to make an impact the moment you enter the room and people will flock toward you. If you are feeling frumpy and not very sexy in your dating life, Kimmy has a FREE style guide for men and women that you can download here www.kimmyseltzer.com/style. These guides will help you determine your body type, what clothes flatter your figure, and provide specific fashion tips just for you so that you feel that sexy confidence in your clothes and body. EPISODE 288 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Confidence With Style: Where Are They Now With Deirdre. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
All strong relationships are built on a foundation of emotional chemistry. The more you can connect authentically with another person, the deeper your emotional bond can grow. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Ridgely Goldsborough, a serial entrepreneur, international speaker and author who shares the power of emotional intelligence with audiences around the globe. EPISODE 287 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating & Influencing Emotional Attraction: Interview With Ridgely Goldsborough Ridgely and Kimmy discuss the important connections between creating relationships in business and in love. You'll learn about the four different kinds of chemistry she works with her clients to master. The more emotionally connected you are to someone, the more your chemistry in other areas will increase. They may even become more physically attractive to you! Ridgely and Kimmy dive into the key factor to building resilience in relationships. When you look at potential failure as an opportunity to learn and evolve, the less scary it becomes. When you begin to see rejection as an opportunity to meet someone better for you, the more you will release the fear of rejection. Kimmy asks Ridgely to share key tips from his signature Partner Attraction Formula and explain why he views authenticity as the ultimate currency in relationships. Listen in to hear Ridgely and Kimmy have a mock conversation as if they were on a first date, packed with tips you can use on your next date. To dig in more on Ridgely's signature formula, click here: https://ccf.groovesell.com/a/kqBs7dbtaIrA If you feel you are not attracting what you want or anyone at all, hop on a call to map out a plan for creating chemistry and love in your life with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve a loving relationship that brings out the best version of you, and that starts with authentically expressing who you are to see who shows up for you. EPISODE 287 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating & Influencing Emotional Attraction: Interview With Ridgely Goldsborough. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Do you feel stuck in your life and often caught in a constant negative loop? And because of that you might have a hard time making changes that you know you need to make to shift. Making a pivot in your life begins with self-awareness. It begins with realizing the circumstances around you are flawed and admitting that you’re not perfect and never will be. This week Kimmy interviews award-winning author, former pro curves model and driven success architect, Amber Ybarra to discuss how to pivot your life to create success in business and love. EPISODE 286 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Power Of The Pivot: Interview With Amber Ybarra Amber begins by sharing her personal and business struggles that led her to constantly rebuild and pivot to achieve the success she has now. Listen in to hear about how she’s used her own challenges and turned them into gifts and motivation to constantly up level herself. You’ll hear Kimmy and Amber talk about how learning how to pivot your mindset, approach and perspective can improve your dating experiences and current relationships. Amber reveals her unique pivot re-model method and how you can apply it in your business and dating life. This lively and “real talk” discussion will infuse inspiration and motivation to what is keeping you stuck. If you are feeling caught in a negative loop and need to pivot to create success in your love life, hop on a call with Kimmy to help you map out a plan and spark a change here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 286 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Power Of The Pivot: Interview With Amber Ybarra. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Many men have been raised with the belief that they should be unfeeling and detached when pursuing romantic relationships and that women only like “bad boys” and that “nice guys” will never succeed. This week, you’ll hear Kimmy have a conversation with Tripp Kramer, that dispels both of these false narratives and sheds light on how men can overcome their insecurities. Tripp is the founder of Tripp Advice, where he has helped thousands of men around the world excel in their love lives. If you’re a guy looking to release yourself from the friend zone, or a woman looking to understand how guys think when dating, this conversation is for you! EPISODE 285 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Insecurities: Interview With Tripp Kramer Tripp tells his story of growing up as a nice Jewish boy from Chicago who constantly found himself in the friendzone. Through solving that issue on his own, he talks about his developed process to help others discover their own sense of self-confidence. Tripp and Kimmy talk about how men and women are wired differently and what the key differences are that can pose challenges for men struggling with self-worth and instead seeing the world from a place of abundance. Tripp provides several small, tangible examples of how you can begin to build your self-esteem this week when it comes to socialization and flirtation with women. If you have noticed that you tie your self-worth to the opinions of others, this conversation will provide concrete advice you can use to change your perspective. Tripp and Kimmy talk through the biggest dating fears held by most men across the board. This conversation highlights the burdens and pressure men feel when dating and acknowledges how this impacts dating and love. Tripp talks through some of the key qualities most women are looking for when dating men. If you are struggling with your sexy confidence and attracting dates, hop on a call with Kimmy to strategize mapping out a plan to that here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough . When you bring your own sense of self-worth and confidence to dating and social interactions, you will begin to see those interactions improve instantly! EPISODE 285 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Insecurities: Interview With Tripp Kramer The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Are you that person who says “yes” to everything and have difficulties setting boundaries? You love helping just as much as you hate letting someone down. But when your default is set to yes, you will end up squashing the things that can truly make you thrive and live your authentic life, and worse yet attract unhealthy and lopsided relationships. This week Kimmy has a powerful episode on how to set boundaries and demand respect so that you attract healthy reciprocal relationships. EPISODE 284 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Setting Boundaries When Dating: Are You Too Nice? Kimmy shares the top reasons why people have difficulties setting boundaries and how that is problematic when dating. She talks about a surprising phenomena of why FOMO is a contributing factor of why people might avoid boundaries. You’ll hear 5 strategies to develop healthier boundaries overall and specifically, when dating. Listen in to hear practical questions you can ask yourself to help you avoid on-the-spot pressure around things people ask of you and reduce feeling resentment for others. If a discussion with someone you're newly dating veers into territory that you're not OK with, you’ll want to learn these key strategies so that you are being true to yourself and what you value. And when you do that, you won’t be sacrificing your desires for other people. Stay to listen in the end when Kimmy reveals some tough love and hard truths to a listener who wrote in about her difficulties setting boundaries. If you have a hard time setting boundaries and realize that being too nice is causing people to take advantage of you, hop on a FREE strategy session with Kimmy to map out a plan to help you here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 284 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Setting Boundaries When Dating: Are You Too Nice? The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Do you have difficulties finding your voice and really saying how you feel? What if you could harness the power of vulnerability to ask for what you need or express your emotions without fear of rejection or conflict? This week, you’ll hear Kimmy coach Jazmine LIVE, who reached out to Kimmy to help her get more comfortable sharing more of herself after having dealt with a string of toxic relationships. Jazmine is a single mom, who was in an emotionally abusive relationship in the past. Right now, she’s hesitant to date for fear of getting hurt. EPISODE 283 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy asks Jazmine to tell her more about her past relationships and what she wants to see change in the future. If you have ever noticed that you feel fear around growing and deepening relationships when things start to feel more serious, this episode is for you. If you have been hurt in the past, and it’s impacting your ability to make new connections, listen in. Kimmy digs in with Jazmine on how she’s currently meeting and interacting with men these days. Stay tuned to hear key tips on how to date without getting attached, in order to reduce the anxiety around the possibility of getting hurt down the line. You’ll hear strategies about how to stop overthinking in its tracks, and take a more playful approach to meeting new people. If you tend to have a hard time expressing your needs and having a voice, hop on a free coaching with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Imagine getting some ideas for breaking the cycle you have been dealing with for so long in one call. EPISODE 283 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
https://meetme.so/kimbreakthroughAre you feeling unhealthy, depleted or lethargic in your body and it’s affecting your love life? It’s important to feel and look your best, so that you show up as your best self when dating. This week just in time for Valentine’s Day, Kimmy has a conversation with Allison Melody host of Food Heals podcast, who works with people to transform the way they support their bodies naturally with nutrient-rich foods to being hotter, healthier and happier. EPISODE 282 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Natural Secrets To Make You Hotter: Interview With Allison Melody Allison shares the story of how she found this passion, after losing her parents to cancer before the age of 25. Allison talks about how she started learning more about functional medicine and what she personally needed in order to start feeling and looking better. If you have ever been curious about exploring how your body is impacted by the foods you eat or cosmetics you use, this conversation is for you. When you are not feeling your best, it's not easy to be playful, flirty, and curious about people on dates -- or even just socializing! Tune in to hear how physical health and fitness are the foundation for you to show up as the sexiest, most confident version of yourself. If you are feeling tired, uninspired, or unsexy, get started on your journey by focusing on feeling confident in your body. Allison and Kimmy talk about some of the unexpected, but common signs that thinking holistically about your health could help improve. Stay tuned to hear one of Allison's best-kept skincare secrets to look and feel glowy, and beautiful. You'll hear about some of Allison's favorite natural remedies and book recommendations to learn more about the power of plants and beyond. If you are going down a dark path in your health and it’s affecting your love life and how you feel about yourself, hop on a call with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Feeling sexy and confident is possible for you by working from the outside in. EPISODE 282 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Natural Secrets To Make You Hotter: Interview With Allison Melody. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever been in a relationship with a narcissist? If you’ve noticed that you second guess yourself or spend all your energy trying to make your partner happy at your expense and everything feels out of control, you may be in a relationship with one. This week, Kimmy has a vulnerable conversation with Sabrina Victoria, Creator and CEO of Human 365, a human transformation company where she works with people to organize their work and home life. As a survivor of an abusive relationship with a narcissist, Sabrina shares her experience openly and honestly to help you notice the signs of toxicity in your relationship. If you have ever felt like your partner was making you feel crazy, this episode will show you that you are not alone. EPISODE 281 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Escaping Narcissistic Chaos: Interview With Sabrina Victoria Kimmy breaks down the classic signs of a narcissist and demonstrates how they manufacture chaos, keep themselves at the center of your world and refuse to take accountability for the suffering they cause. Sabrina and Kimmy talk through the trauma that this kind of relationship causes, and Sabrina shares examples from her own former relationship to help you identify if this happens to you. You’ll hear how Sabrina discovered that she was suffering from abuse, how she made a plan to escape and how shadows of her past relationship still resurface in her current one. Sabrina shares a story about how her old habits and triggers arose in her new relationship and how she handled it. Kimmy and Sabrina talk through concrete strategies and mindsets to hold when you realize you are in an unhealthy situation so that you can protect yourself and your loved ones. If you are struggling to get out of a relationship with a narcissist or are recovering from one and need new strategies to rediscover yourself again, reach out to Kimmy at meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve to have a healthy, loving relationship that allows you to be your best self. Reach out for help and remember that you are not alone. EPISODE 281 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Escaping Narcissistic Chaos: Interview With Sabrina Victoria. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you feeling bored and stifled in your dating life? Are you ready to get more in tune with your confidence and creativity? This week, Kimmy has a fun conversation with Vinny Potestivo, a talent developer and casting director who spent decades working for MTV making shows like Punk’d, Newlyweds, and The Osbournes. Kimmy and Vinnie break down the creative success strategies he’s lived by through his career and how that applies to dating. EPISODE 280 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Creative Success In Your Love Life: Interview With Vinny Potestivo Vinnie shares his experience forging a path forward in media, and how he sustained his confidence over the years. When you tap into your creative self, it can open up your dating life to possibilities that you would never expect. Listen in to hear the importance of knowing your strengths and what you want in a partner so you can choose who is best for you. Vinnie and Kimmy talk about the connection between casting TV shows and approaching your dating live with a similar mindset. This conversation will remind you that dating invites you to be bold, take risks and trust yourself. When you approach life with a positive and abundant outlook, you attract better more aligned opportunities for connection. You’ll hear tips around staying consistent, listening to your gut, standing out from the crowd and reframing negative thoughts to positive ones. If you would like help in using a creative mindset to have a successful love life and make dating FUN, hop on a call with with Kimmy to strategize mapping out a plan to that by booking a free session with her herehttps://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Bring a sense of playfulness and adventure to your dating love and start experiencing the differences. EPISODE 280 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Creative Success In Your Love Life: Interview With Vinny Potestivo. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever noticed yourself running worst case scenarios of what could be in your head, instead of focusing on being present in the moment? When your mind wanders, it tends to dwell on negative for limiting thoughts and you feel like you have no control. This week, you’ll hear Kimmy coach Patrick LIVE, who is ready to put himself out there and find love but is struggling to quiet his negative thoughts around dating and relationships.
EPISODE 279 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Out Of Your Head: Coaching With Kimmy Listen in to hear Patrick share his background, and how he has found himself re-entering the dating world. Patrick and Kimmy explore his people-pleasing tendencies and how his solution-oriented upbringing has impacted his interactions when dating. If you are paralyzed by residual pain from your past or your uncertain future this episode is for you. Kimmy talks about how we are wired as human beings toward negative bias as a protective mechanism. However, the more strategies and tools you have to intercept that bias and take action, the more opportunities you have to make new connections with people you are attracted to. Hear how conversation and social skills can be learned with practice interacting with others without overthinking or talking yourself out of it. Stay tuned to hear Kimmy's key tips that will stop others from perceiving you as creepy or anti-social! If you are spending your time trying to predict how others may react to you instead of making a move, this conversation will help you shift your mindset. If you are a high achiever with a tendency to overthink and you're ready to get out of your own way, reach out to Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to start the conversation. In a 30-minute, complimentary call you could walk away with specific, actionable strategies to break that cycle and start making better connections online and in person. EPISODE 279 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Out Of Your Head: Coaching With Kimmy Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you now motivated to find love? As we head into the new year many make new year resolutions to start dating. But at the same time, dating in the modern world can be overwhelming and intimidating. To date successfully in today’s world, online dating has to be part of the equation. This week, Kimmy has a fascinating conversation with Michael Kaye, Associate Director of Global Communications at OKCupid. Listen in to hear an inside look at global dating trends and tips to enhance your online profile to attract better quality matches more often. EPISODE 278 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: OKCupid Exclusive Interview With Michael Kaye: Dating Trends & Online Tricks Dating online has redefined how we date and apps like OKCupid have impacted the dating landscape forever. On your journey to find a loving, lasting relationship, a savvy understanding of online dating is an essential part of your success. Kimmy asks Michael about the most common and most surprising trends in dating he’s seen over the years and how the pandemic has impacted dating behaviors. You’ll hear all about the inner workings of OKCupid’s platform, data-driven approach and goals as they meet the needs of daters now and in the future. If social, cultural, environmental and political values have been top of mind for you as you seek a loving partner, you’re not alone! You'll hear what people are really looking for in today’s world. HINT: It’s not what you might be thinking! Listen in to hear a surprising fact about what topics could be fair game that you may have been worried were TMI. Kimmy and Michael talk through the purpose behind different dating apps, including OKCupid. Stay tuned for some ninja insider tips on how to enhance your profile and entice others to engage you in conversation. Find out the best day to interact on the apps to get the best matches! You’ll find out how your answers to prompts, how frequently you update your profile, and how the presence of questions on your profile can all impact how many people see you and therefore how many opportunities you have to match with the one! If dating online sounds like your worst nightmare, you need a clear strategy to create a great profile! To get started, take Kimmy’s new Dating Diagnosis Quiz https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/quiz/ to find out what kind of dater you are. Once you understand how you date, you can identify what you need to do to have more success! EPISODE 278 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: OKCupid Exclusive Interview With Michael Kaye: Dating Trends & Online Tricks. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Many people date to find a soul mate, not to find themselves. This week, Kimmy has a conversation that is a great reminder that loving yourself is key to loving someone else. Listen in to Kimmy’s candid conversation with Keyen Lage, a former NFL athlete and transformational life coach. After a career-ending injury in the NFL, Keyen transitioned from life as a professional athlete to a coach who helps people find self-acceptance. EPISODE 277 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Healthy Self-Relationship To Attract Love: Interview With Keyen Lage Keyen tells the story of how he finally found the strength to pursue what he truly desired, as opposed to the path that was expected of him. If you are a people pleaser, a caretaker or a helper in your personal or professional life, this episode may resonate with you. Kimmy asks Keyen to share actionable tips that help you begin to define what you want, beyond social or societal expectations. Keyen and Kimmy talk about the importance of getting out of your comfort zone and not being afraid to be a little (or a lot!) messy. You’ll hear what the critical step is on your journey to self-acceptance and putting yourself first. Listen as these two discuss ways to find yourself while staying true to who you are. Self-discovery is all about exploration! If you struggle to see yourself in a positive light and want to create a healthy relationship with yourself to attract the right partner for you, hop on a call with Kimmy to help you crack the code in this part of your life here www.meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you are ready to give yourself permission to change things up, invest in yourself and go after what you actually want, then you're ready to do the work on you to find love. EPISODE 277 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Healthy Self-Relationship To Attract Love: Interview With Keyen Lage. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
On these Coaching With Kimmy segments, you'll hear live coaching with Kimmy and real people with challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results. Confidence is the number one element both men and women find attractive in each other. When you feel confident, you attract love and opportunity in your life. However, feeling secure when it comes to dating after divorce is easier said than done. When the person who you were most vulnerable with breaks your heart or hurts you, it's easy to feel inadequate and worthless, even if you have a laundry list of reasons you should feel good about yourself. When it comes to love, your rational mind isn't running the show. Instead, breakups often make you think the worst things about yourself. This week’s inspirational and emotional episode, you'll meet Teresa, a woman who is trying to find herself again after divorce and regain her confidence to learn how to actually date. She has been struggling knowing where to start and feels alone in the process. EPISODE 276 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Yourself After Divorce: Coaching With Kimmy Teresa starts by sharing her story about being married to a narcissist and never really had experience dating beyond that toxic relationship. She reveals how her poor body image, lack of support system and masculine work energy has caused her to feel stuck in putting herself out there to date. Kimmy talks through how her past is connected to her current state and gives her some ninja tips in how to start motivating herself and get past her fears. Listen in to hear Kimmy’s laser coaching in helping Teresa have a major emotional breakthrough live on the episode which catches her by surprise. Kimmy breaks down some simple action steps to empower Teresa to start gaining a renewed sense of herself. If you are having a hard time finding yourself after a painful breakup or divorce and don’t know how to gain sexy confidence and learn how to date, hop on a free coaching call with Kimmy to map out a plan here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Imagine getting some ideas of breaking the cycle you have been dealing with for so long in one call. EPISODE 276 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Yourself After Divorce: Coaching With Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you been experiencing a pessimistic outlook or self doubt lately around dating? With the New Year right around the corner, it's the perfect time to reflect on your love life and determine if you could use a reboot. Right now, many people are experiencing dating burnout -- you're numbing out swiping on matches, you keep meeting people you can't see yourself with and you're starting to wonder if there's even a point to all this! This week, Kimmy talks through the steps to pull yourself out of this rut and start to reinvent your love life, one step at a time.
EPISODE 275 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: ICYMI: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself
Kimmy shares the top signs and symptoms of dating burnout and how this can be negatively impacting your dating life. The key to rising out of your rut is to take action to break the patterns that have been holding you back so you can be open to new options. Kimmy talks about how to shut down the dating burnout and focus on transforming yourself and key things in your life in a more positive direction. You'll hear 5 strategies around how to get unstuck by first starting to get rid of things that no longer serve you. Listen in to hear why creating and maintaining healthy habits is essential to being your best self. When you get to know yourself better, it helps you connect on a more genuine level with others. This could be the perfect time to take time off work, unplug and nurture yourself. Listen in for a tip on how to meet people who share your interests. If you've been attracting the same type of people that aren't working for you, this could be your moment to step our of your comfort zone and try to date people that are NOT your type at all. This episode is all about how you can re-energize your love life and bring a new optimism to your dating experiences.
If you are feeling burnt out but you have no idea where to begin, schedule a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this complimentary, 30 minute phone call you will get the help you need to map out a plan and find a new direction to take your dating life. In the new year, become the best version of you and find the love you desire.
EPISODE 225 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.
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Does the thought of going up to a stranger at a bar, the park or the grocery store make you break out in hives? When you hear the phrase, "That's a bold move!" do you recoil in fear? In this week's episode, Kimmy has a lively conversation with Fred Joyal, author of Superbold: From Under-Confident to Charismatic in 90 Days. These two dive deep into how to exude confidence in social settings, stop feeling like you have to carry the conversation, and make bold moves! EPISODE 274 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Be Bold In Your Dating Life: Interview With Fred Joyal If you are struggling with having lopsided relationships or not feeling seen or heard, this episode is for you. You'll hear Fred share how he uniquely works with people to increase their ability to approach life boldly with confidence. Kimmy and Fred dynamically talk about the powers of using descriptive, emotion-based words to describe yourself and your date. Fred shares the value of preparation and how it allows you to be spontaneous. When you enter a conversation prepared with stories that allow you to be a little more vulnerable, the quality of the conversations you have will improve immediately. Listen in to hear one of Fred's secret weapons, a phrase that will help you learn more about your date than you would otherwise! Kimmy and Fred chat about the pitfalls of trying to impress your date from the outset of a conversation. If you are tired of waiting for permission to act and you're ready to take your first bold action, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You have a unique purpose and value that you can choose to contribute to the world however you like. EPISODE 274 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Be Bold In Your Dating Life: Interview With Fred Joyal. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
When it comes to having a healthy, fulfilling, loving relationship, it's important to acknowledge all that you bring to the table. That includes your hopes and dreams, what brings you joy and lifts your spirit, but also the pain and trauma you may have experienced. Trauma is defined as a deeply distressing or disturbing experience that impacts you, both consciously and subconsciously. Often, even without your knowledge, experiences from your past may have been traumatic for you, and may show up in unexpected ways in dating and relationships. On this segment, Coaching With Kimmy, you'll hear live coaching with Kimmy and real people with challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results. This week, you'll meet Karen, a woman who wants to get back into the dating world and find love and is navigating how the trauma and abuse in her past is impacting her dating journey now. EPISODE 273 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After Trauma: Coaching with Kimmy Karen shares her background of childhood and relationship trauma that still impacts how she approaches relationships today. Kimmy introduces several different ways that trauma might manifest itself in your life, such as mistrusting others, hyper-vigilance to guard yourself against getting hurt again, low self-esteem and a pessimistic outlook on life, among many other possibilities. You'll hear Karen discuss her fears around dating and how that prevents her from making connections with men. Kimmy and Karen have a candid conversation around how your experience of trauma can impact and influence your confidence in social relationships. Kimmy pinpoints specific strategies for Karen and listeners to improve confidence and success in dating and love despite the challenges and trauma that is experienced. If you have experienced any kind of traumatic experiences in your life where it’s making hard to date and is impacting your self esteem, hop on a free coaching call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Imagine getting some support around how you can get past feeling stuck and perhaps paralyzed for so long in one call. EPISODE 273 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After Trauma: Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you absolutely hate dating right now and feel lost on what to do and where to go as you re-enter the post pandemic dating scene? Did you know there is not only a hesitation around dating, but also a fear of dating and intimacy that has emerged recently? If you’ve been feeling this way, you’re not alone! Since the onset of the pandemic in 2020, we have had to change our social and dating lives completely. Now that we are gathering in person again, it feels like we need to re-learn how to interact with one another! In this weeks episode, Kimmy breaks down her top 5 tips for navigating what she calls a pandemic dating hangover! EPISODE 272 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating The Pandemic Dating Hangover Listen in to hear Kimmy define the most buzz-worthy dating terms in use these days like FODA and “hesidating.” Kimmy walks through her dating hangover recovery plan so that you can re-learn how to date and relate. This episode dives deep into the ways in which you can start to safely put yourself out there again and exercise your social muscle once more. Discover why it’s important to with intention and an action plan. It’s not easy to put yourself out there again, but this episode will give you concrete strategies to explore new hobbies with social components, help you increase your confidence to introduce yourself to others, and break your social and dating slump! If you are in total dating burnout and need a reboot to get over your pandemic dating hangover.. hop on a free call with Kimmy here so she can map out a plan with you in doing so https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 272 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating The Pandemic Dating Hangover. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
These days, many of our conversations around health include both physical and mental health. As a human being, taking care of your whole self — physical, mental and spiritual is essential! On your journey to find love, getting connected to your body as a first step is a great place to start. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and founder of Obtaining Mastery, where she coaches people to help them lead lives of purpose and influence. This conversation is all about getting back to basics and prioritizing your own wellness on your path to find love, happiness and fulfillment. EPISODE 271 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Applying Wellness To Attract Love: Interview With Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley Maritsa shares the story of how she became passionate about her current work as a coach and how that interest evolved from her foundations as a fitness trainer. Growing up in an environment where addiction and loss were prevalent, Maritsa shares how going off to college helped her break away from old patterns that didn’t serve her vision for her future. Listen in to hear tangible, concrete tips about how to set yourself up for success from the moment you wake up each day. Kimmy and Maritsa discuss the importance of taking care of your physical body as a way to support your mental and spiritual wellness. This episode is a beautiful reminder that our whole health and wellness is all connected, and it begins with your relationship with yourself. You have the power to set your intentions, take action toward your goals and start to change your results. If you are finding yourself in a bad emotional and physical state and it is affecting your love life, hop on a call with Kimmy to help you map out a plan in getting you into a wellness state here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Explore ways to improve your relationship with yourself and set yourself up to find the love you seek. EPISODE 271 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Applying Wellness To Attract Love: Interview With Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you completely uninterested in dating and dreading starting a new relationship? Maybe you have some fear around being powerless and caught, once again, in an emotionally unavailable or Narcissist relationship? If this sounds like you, you may be suffering from co-dependency. In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear real conversations between Kimmy and her clients about the challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results. EPISODE 270 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Hacks For Codependents: Coaching with Kimmy This week, Kimmy starts the episode with symptoms of co-dependency and tips to help you get out there if you have those tendencies. You’ll hear Kimmy coach Teresa LIVE on the call, who’s looking for strategies to help her date successfully. After getting divorced, she has dealt with being ghosted, being in lopsided relationships, and with a series of co-dependent relationships. She has been tired of having bad dating experiences and is ready to throw in the towel. Teresa shares the details of one particular relationship that stuck with her, even though she knew it could have ended badly. Teresa and Kimmy talk through how elements of co-dependency have shown up in Teresa’s life and relationships in the past. Teresa speaks to her family history and the dynamics that she grew up around without realizing the impact it could have on her own relationships in the future. As a recovering people-pleaser, Teresa grapples with how she has internalized some of the experiences from her childhood and how she was praised for taking care of others. Listen in to hear Kimmy’s tips around how implementing positive self-talk consistently can start to boost your self-esteem and your image of yourself. Kimmy and Teresa talk through the connections between how she approaches relationships and how she approaches her work. Stay tuned to hear Kimmy’s tips on how to take your power back and create healthy boundaries where you demand more respect for yourself.
If you are ready to combat co-dependency, it's time to take action. If you tend to have codependent tendencies and are exhausted around the thought of dating, hop on a free coaching call with Kimmy like she did with Teresa and book it here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Imagine getting some ideas of breaking the cycle you have been dealing with for so long in one call. EPISODE 270 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Hacks For Codependents : Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
When you're dating, you need to manage your energy accordingly. You never know how long a relationship will last. You can put all your energy front and center only for that relationship to last a week. Start meditating to have a clearer picture of what you want and what you can put up with. If you think your relationship isn't going well, don't push forward. Listen to what you want. EPISODE 269 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Katie Krimitsos On Why You Need Time And Energy Management When Dating Join Kimmy Seltzer as she talks to the creator of the Women's Meditation Network, Katie Krimitsos. Katie starts out by sharing how she turned around her busy life and stress to slowing down with intention to meet her husband. Learn why you need to manage your time and energy while dating and during a relationship. Find out why meditation is good for you, especially in this fast-paced world. Listen in to hear tips on how to slow down and manage your energy so that you date smarter not harder. Katie talks about how meditation can reduce anxiety and even demonstrates a sample of it right in this episode! If you struggle being to busy and managing your energy to date, check out Katie’s amazing meditations and hop on a call with me to map out a plan a path to your love life. Just click the link here to schedule that and who knows..that one call could change the entire course of your life https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. EPISODE 269 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Katie Krimitsos On Why You Need Time And Energy Management When Dating. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to Where Are They Now, where you'll hear candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients who reflect on how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the success of others like you! EPISODE 268 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful When Dating: Where Are They Now With David Does dating seem hard and serious? It shouldn’t be. This week you'll meet David, who decided to work with Kimmy to learn how to date, practice flirting, progress on dates and open himself up more so that women could feel chemistry with him. He starts by sharing his limited dating experience after divorce and was having a hard time even getting dates. Listen in to hear how David struggled being playful and fun on the dates he had and would fall flat in conversations because he was so in his head. He knew there were some deeper issues to explore around self-expression and trust and needed help with learning how to be more open when dating. Kimmy and David talk about how the coaching and co-ed classes helped him upgrade his sexy style, be more approachable, vulnerable and playful to attract more women. You'll hear exactly how Kimmy worked with David to ramp up his flirt skills which even surprised him! Stay tuned to hear a shocking result he got with women he never thought he could attract. If you want to learn how to date with confidence, ease and flirtation, then check out Kimmy's new, immersive co-ed retreat program, Dating Reimagined Experience. Work with Kimmy and an intimate group of motivated single men and women like you in a 6-week virtual course designed to prepare you to date successfully in real life. Then, join this group for a 3-day luxury in-person retreat in Arizona where you will put your skills to the test and start to enjoy dating again! Get in touch with Kimmy here to find out if this experience is right for you: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ EPISODE 268 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful When Dating: Where Are They Now With David. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you hate the thought of playing games when dating? Do you wish you didn’t have to worry about who is pursuing who when meeting someone and skip right to the relationship? The truth is the art of pursuit is a crucial part of dating that leads to the relationship yet there is a lot of debate and confusion on what that should be. It doesn’t matter if you are 18 or 80 years old, pursuit will never go out of style. The most powerful women still want to feel seen and known in ways that make them feel loved and empowered. This week listen to Kimmy’s interview with professional dancer, life coach and author, Andre Paradis, about how to help smart, strong, successful women understand the art of pursuit in the dating process. EPISODE 267 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Art of Pursuit: Interview With Andre Paradis Kimmy dives into a fun discussion with Andre about his life journey from being a shy awkward kid to a powerful sought after dancer that increased his confidence with both his career and with women. These two candidly talk about how the different gender roles play an important part in dating and why it’s an important factor later on in a relationship. Listen in to hear about the common challenges women have in receiving and how to overcome them. This episode really flushes out ideas for both men and women in the courting stages of dating and the mindset around how each gender can make it easier for one another. Tune in to hear why Kimmy thinks both men and women have responsibility in approachability when dating. If you want to learn more about the art of pursuit as a man or a woman, then check out Kimmy's new, immersive co-ed retreat program, Dating Reimagined Experience. Work with Kimmy and an intimate group of motivated single men and women like you in a 6-week virtual course designed to prepare you to date successfully in real life. Then, join this group for a 3-day luxury in-person retreat in Arizona where you will put your skills to the test and start to enjoy dating again! Get in touch with Kimmy here to find out if this experience is right for you: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/
EPISODE 267 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Art of Pursuit: Interview With Andre Paradis. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you have trouble expressing your emotions? Do you find that you keep attracting people who in the end are no where for you? Are you sick of dating people who are totally emotionally unavailable? In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear a real coaching conversation between Kimmy and a woman about the challenges she is facing in attracting available men. EPISODE 266 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Attract Unavailable Partners: Coaching with Kimmy This week, you'll hear Kimmy live-coach Karen, who's tired of meeting men who just don't meet her standards. After getting married to and divorced from her high-school sweetheart, Karen is back in the dating pool and searching for a fulfilling, “available" relationship. Kimmy and Karen talk about Karen's upbringing and identify a few key patterns that have impacted her ability to share her feelings. If you grew up in a household where feelings were not talked about or you only felt recognized for your accomplishments, this conversation will resonate with you. Listen in to hear Kimmy's answer to Karen's question on how to manage pacing when you meet someone you really like. When you are able to express your emotions clearly, playfully and early in a new relationship or on dates it helps your date understand who you really are. If you never learned how to express your emotions, don't worry! It's a skill you can learn, just like Karen.
If you are ready to start attracting new and better people into your life, it's time to take action. Space is open now for Kimmy's new, immersive workshop, Dating Reimagined. Work with Kimmy and an intimate group of motivated single men and women like you in a 6-week virtual course designed to prepare you to date successfully in real life. Then, join this group for a 3-day luxury in person retreat in Arizona where you will put your skills to the test and start to enjoy dating again! Get in touch with Kimmy here to find out if this experience is right for you: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ EPISODE 266 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Attract Unavailable Partners: Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you feel responsible for the emotions of others? If you have ever felt emotionally exhausted, taken advantage of, or resentful in your relationships, this conversation is for you. This week, listen in to Kimmy's interview with empowerment strategist and podcaster, JJ Flizanes, who started her podcast Fit 2 Love to help others achieve health, success, and love. EPISODE 265 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Responsibility In Relationships: Interview With JJ Flizanes Kimmy asks JJ about her journey to the work she does now. JJ emphasizes the importance of understanding our own responsibility to control our own emotions and not project them onto others. These two talk through why many people have difficulty with their emotions and what you can do to take back your power as it relates to dating and relationships. If you have a tendency to self-sabotage or blame others for how you're feeling, stay tuned to hear key strategies to identify the beliefs that hold you back. When you understand how to name the emotions you feel and identify how to get your needs met on your own, you create the power to achieve the life you want.
If you are ready to start taking responsibility for your emotions and start finding success in love, there are two options! First, find a time to talk with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this free, 30-minute call you can start to map out a plan to work on you, and work on creating the love you want. And if you are ready to take action right now... join Kimmy's new workshop, Stop Hating Dating October 18! If you're back in the dating world again later in life and have no clue where to begin, this is the class for you. Join this 2-hour interactive workshop with other single men and women who want to build their dating skills. Space is limited! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3BP4Ms4 EPISODE 265 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Responsibility In Relationships: Interview With JJ Flizanes. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
When you are dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s, the dating landscape looks totally different than it was in your 20s and 30s. There's new technology to contend with, and the rules of the game have changed, not to mention the global pandemic we are still feeling the impact of. Dating over 40 doesn't have to be boring or tiresome or tedious. It should be fun! If you've always been a long-term relationship person or have been married for decades, it's imperative to acknowledge that your needs and desires have shifted since the last time you were in the dating pool. In this episode, Kimmy breaks down the five biggest red flags she's seen when helping her clients find love over 40. EPISODE 264 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40 Listen in to hear a surprising tip that will help you check in and determine if you're moving too fast. Genuine connections take time to form. Even though you might feel like time is not on your side, slowing down is essential to dating smarter, not harder. Stay tuned to hear Kimmy's take on emotional intelligence and dating. Does your date share their feelings with you? Do they listen to you when you share your feelings? Do they go from 0 to 100 in mere moments? This episode is packed with actional tips you can use right away to find out if your date is mature, level-headed, and clear on what they want. You can find your soul mate at any age and now is the chance to create the lasting love you want, and deserve this time around! For those who are motivated to change their love life right now, join Kimmy's new co-ed live interactive workshop Oct 18, Stop Hating Dating! If you're back in the dating world again later in life and have no clue where to begin, this is the class for you. This 2-hour workshop will be a mix of strategy, fun, and practice with both men and women in the virtual room who want to build their dating and flirt skills. Space is limited! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3BP4Ms4 EPISODE 264 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to Where Are They Now, where you'll hear candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients who reflect on how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the success of others like you!
EPISODE 263 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Sexy Confidence: Where Are They Now With Peter This week you'll meet Peter, who decided to work 1:1 with Kimmy to learn how to date again after coming out of a 22-year marriage. Peter talks about how he knew he was ready to go all in on coaching, and they reminisce about what his life was like before he joined a virtual dating workshop with Kimmy about a year ago. If you've been struggling to have interesting conversations, flirt, or make the lasting connections you want, this conversation is for you! It's all about building dating skills -- socialization and flirting are not innate! Listen in to hear Kimmy and Peter talk about how he upgraded his style, started sending more playful texts, and feeling more confident than ever before when dating. You'll hear exactly how Kimmy worked with Peter to tailor a program that fit his needs so he could actually have fun dating again. To sign up for a free coaching call with Kimmy, reach out here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Get the expert support you need to map your personal plan to find and build the healthy, loving relationship you deserve! For those who are motivated to change their love life right now, join Kimmy's new workshop series, Stop Hating Dating! If you're back in the dating world again later in life and have no clue where to begin, this is the class for you. Join this 2-hour workshop with other single men and women who want to build their dating skills. Space is limited! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3BP4Ms4 EPISODE 263 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Sexy Confidence: Where Are They Now With Peter. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Sexual confidence is a feeling of being comfortable in your body and knowing you deserve pleasure, and being able to articulate what you enjoy as well as listening to the needs of your sexual partner. But how can we build that confidence in the bedroom and overcome the performance anxiety when getting intimate with a partner? Here to answer all these and more is Intimacy Expert Susan Bratton. Susan is the CEO and co-founder of The20, LLC. and Personal Life Media, Inc. She is an expert on sex and intimacy with features on multiple major media outlets such as the New York Times and frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, the CW, Fox, and NBC. EPISODE 262 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Enhancing Your Sexual Self Confidence With Intimacy Expert Susan Bratton In this episode, Susan shares an empowering message to help women access levels of sexual pleasure and enhance their sexual self-confidence. With tips on intimate communication, lovemaking, and self-pleasuring, this episode has everything you need to know to own your sexuality and achieve incredible pleasure. You’ll hear juicy tips and techniques to give feedback in the bedroom without crushing egos. Listen in to also hear about the importance of boundaries and agreements with sexual relationships. If you struggle with your sexy confidence and it’s affecting your self esteem when dating, hop on a call with Kimmy to help you be more comfortable in your skin and give off the signals to attract more dates. Book a time here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 262 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Enhancing Your Sexual Self Confidence With Intimacy Expert Susan Bratton. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you noticing a pattern of failed relationships and dates in your life? If so, your subconscious mind may be sabotaging your dating life. Jay Noland is here to speak on just how this happens and what you can do to overcome it. Jay is a former professional baseball player and now a keynote motivational speaker for over 25 years and a life confidence coach. His work focuses on helping people maximize their potential by harnessing the power of their subconscious minds. EPISODE 261 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Sabotaging Your Dating Life By Conquering Your Subconscious Mind With Jay Noland Joining host Kimmy Seltzer, Jay shares his experiences and how his past trauma contributed to a failed marriage. Jay figured out the deep-rooted cause for all this, conquered it, and is now happily married to his soulmate. Don’t let past experiences and unhealthy thoughts sabotage your dating life much longer. Tune in to this episode and discover how you can bring your conscious desires into your subconscious and start living the way you want. If you find yourself repeating bad dating patterns and want to override them to attract an abundant love life, hop on a call with me to help you map out a plan to do that by booking a session with me here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
EPISODE 261 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Sabotaging Your Dating Life By Conquering Your Subconscious Mind With Jay Noland. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you have trouble getting past the first date? Are you feeling frustrated that you're not meeting the kind of people you want to be with? Especially if you don't have a ton of dating experience you may be unintentionally radiating negative energy, coming off as needy, or just not flirting effectively.
In this episode of Coaching With Kimmy, you'll meet Nikki who's diving back into the dating world for the first time after divorce. As a relatively new dater, Nikki is looking for strategies she can use to attract the right kind of person for her. After moving on from her narcissistic ex, Nikki has done a lot of work on herself and is ready to get back out there and find someone that is truly right for her. As someone who works in a male-dominated field, Nikki is comfortable around men, but she is finding that on dates she tends to be more in her masculine energy than feminine. If you're like Nikki, you may find yourself having conversations that sound more like a high-pressure interview than a playful date or having trouble connecting and getting your date to feel you. EPISODE 260 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Dates Don’t Progress: Coaching with Kimmy You'll hear Nikki tell key stories from her recent dating experiences, that will probably be relatable to you! Stay tuned to hear some tangible tips that Kimmy shares with Nikki about how to get out of your head and into your body, become more playful and lighthearted in conversations, and be present and curious about your date. You'll hear all about the benefits of using online dating platforms to practice conversation skills like asking specific, fun questions that get your matches engaged.
If you want to take action to get past the first date, get a FREE coaching call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You have the power to change your actions! You can start taking simple, small actions that will have an impact on the outcomes you've had in the past. It all starts with a little practice that leads to the bigger change you want to see! EPISODE 260 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Dates Don’t Progress: Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
When you look in the mirror, do you see yourself as sexy? Having a healthy body image is core to building high self-esteem! No matter what your body type, weight or fitness level, being body confident impacts the strength of your relationship with yourself. This week, Kimmy has a conversation on significant shifts you can make to increase your body confidence with Bryce Henson, the CEO of Fit Body Bootcamp. EPISODE 259 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Elevate Your Body Image And Sexy Confidence: Interview With Bryce Henson Bryce is passionate about helping people gain confidence through fitness. You'll hear Kimmy ask Bryce to share his story and actionable tips you can take to bolster your body image and take that confidence into other areas of your life. Whether you have an established fitness routine or are trying to develop one as part of a healthy lifestyle, listen in to Bryce's advice on how to get early wins that build momentum towards your future success. If you are a high achiever who is accustomed to experiencing success, this conversation will help you evaluate the goals you set so you are able to stack wins. Confidence is built when you keep promises to yourself! If you are bored of your old fitness routine or if you're just feeling unmotivated or uninspired, listen in to hear a few ways to jumpstart your new routine. You'll hear about the benefits of looking at the world through curious eyes and with a sense of adventure. And, stay tuned to hear Bryce's serendipitous story of how he met his wife in an unexpected place!
If you struggle with your own self-esteem and body image when dating, get in touch with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Your journey to find yourself and find love all starts with you taking action towards your goals. When you have an accountability partner in a coach, you will exponentially increase your chances of success. EPISODE 259 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Elevate Your Body Image And Sexy Confidence: Interview With Bryce Henson. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Resilience is a big buzzword these days. In order to successfully traverse the challenges life presents us, we have to strengthen our ability to bounce back. Resilience is just as important when dating! In order to move on from a breakup, a rejection or simply a bad date you need to be resilient. This week, Kimmy shares her top tips for building dating resilience. EPISODE 258 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Avoiding Dating Rejection & Building Resiliency If you are struggling to tap into your inner tenacity or you tend to quit when the going gets tough, this episode is for you. Kimmy breaks down how to get started by tackling one of the biggest fears in the dating world, rejection. It never feels good not to be invited on a second date -- but what if you could file those interactions into the "not right for me" bucket, instead of overanalyzing what you could have done differently to get your date to like you? Listen in to hear key tips on springing back into shape, even when feeling defeated. Stay tuned for actionable advice on how to maintain an optimistic outlook, even in the midst of dating burnout. If you are ready to start tackling your sensitivity to rejection and begin building the resilience you need to have successful dates, get in touch with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. When you get clear on what you want and recognize your own worth, you'll be more able to identify partners who will respect and care for you, just as you are. Dating doesn't have to be so painful! Reach out to Kimmy and begin your journey of developing healthy dating practices. EPISODE 258 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Avoiding Dating Rejection & Building Resiliency. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? Listen in to hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working together. You'll hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and their biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We share these conversations to motivate you to take action and get inspired by the successes of others. In this episode, you'll meet Haley who connected with Kimmy to help release the pressure she felt around finding "the one" and begin to enjoy the dating process more. Through a commitment to the work and Kimmy's actionable coaching style, Haley was able to find balance, relax more and have fun while dating. EPISODE 257 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Authenticity and Femininity: Where Are They Now With Haley Kimmy and Haley kick off by reminiscing about what life was like for Haley before she started working with Kimmy. If you're like Haley, you may have trouble setting boundaries, become overwhelmed or anxious about what others think of you, or struggle to progress in relationships. Stay tuned to hear some incredible tips Haley put into practice that helped her find her sexy confidence, discover the strength to let go of the opinions of others, and how gamification made dating fun again! You’ll hear Haley’s success story coaching live with Kimmy in her flirt session. Plus, Haley shares a beautiful story about how setting a healthy boundary helped her reach a turning point in her relationship with her family. If you're ready to release the limiting beliefs you hold about dating and relationships, reach out to Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Before you decide to invest in coaching, you can speak with Kimmy in a complimentary, 30-minute call where you'll start to map out your unique plan to find success in love. EPISODE 257 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Authenticity and Femininity: Where Are They Now With Haley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you feeling stuck in a rut? Maybe it is time for a dramatic change through a personal transformation. The power of taking a journey of self-discovery and acceptance will help you thrive, enjoy positive wellbeing and attract love. This week, Kimmy has a powerful conversation with Joe Kelley, a cherished football star turned now life coach who helps people overcome obstacles through personal transformation.
EPISODE 256 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Power Of Transformation To Attract Love: Interview With Joe Kelley. Joe kicks off the episode by sharing his story of his personal transformation from cherished football star to respected police officer to felon serving prison time. Using his book theme from “sinning to winning”, he now uses his dark moments to lift others up and show what it takes to survive and thrive regardless of circumstance. Listen in as Kimmy has Joe reveal tools to motivate you to make major shifts in your life, even when things feel hopeless. Joe shares how his transformation contributed to him finding self love and attracting his wife. Kimmy and Joe share some simple steps to take towards personal growth and how that can improve your love life. If you are having a hard time getting out of your own way with challenges you are dealing with or getting out of your comfort zone to change, hop on a FREE call with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to help you map out a plan to transform your life to attract love. EPISODE 256 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Power Of Transformation To Attract Love: Interview With Joe Kelley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
How do you engage in healthy dating relationships after experiencing trauma? If you are a survivor of trauma in any form, it’s important to recognize that healing takes time, patience and there will be peaks and valleys. This week, Kimmy has a vulnerable and honest conversation with Ed Squire, a survivor of childhood abuse who works to support and advocate for other childhood trauma survivors. EPISODE 255 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Moving Beyond Abuse: Interview With Ed Squire In order to build healthy, trusting relationships -- acknowledging past trauma may be an important first step in your journey to find love. Ed shares his story about the series of sexual abuses he experienced as a child and how they impacted his life. From struggling to find his own identity, to battling addiction and increasing his self-worth, Ed has come a long way. Listen in to hear incredibly valuable tips and advice from Ed on how to begin to strengthen your relationship with yourself when healing from a traumatic or abusive past. Kimmy and Ed discuss the importance of regaining trust in yourself and others. Ed shares a story about learning the meaning of living in the present and not taking anything for granted. You’ll hear about the power of journaling to help you process and recognize the emotions you are feeling in the moment, without judgement. Stay tuned for a transformative tip about giving yourself credit and building up your record of success, no matter how small. When you start to recognize your progress and how small wins add up to the big picture, it can help permanently shift your view of yourself as you continue on your personal journey to heal, find yourself and find love. Healing from a traumatic past can be incredibly difficult and you do not need to do it alone. Removing yourself from isolation and finding support systems is essential. If you are ready to explore what your next steps are and begin the healing process, you can reach out to Kimmy here for a FREE breakthrough call: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 255 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Moving Beyond Abuse: Interview With Ed Squire.
The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever wanted to know how to make your date crave you? You might see this in the movies or even with some friends who seem to do it so easily…so what is it that they do that creates an attraction factor instantly? Confidence and charisma are key qualities that make others desire you and — they can be learned! This week, Kimmy teaches you all about how build your confidence and increase your charisma. If you are tired of not progressing on dates, never getting asked out for a second date, and always being put in the friend zone, this episode is for you. EPISODE 254 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You Listen in to hear examples from Kimmy’s work with her clients who go from closing themselves off to others to being open, curious and even flirtatious(!) with more people. You’ll hear 5 key tips from Kimmy about how to boost your sexy confidence and become irresistible to the people you actually want to attract. If you take less than 30 seconds to answer a text and are always available for dates, this could be a major turn off! Listen in to these tips to give yourself permission to enjoy this process as it enriches your life. This episode is a reminder that in order to change and make major shifts, you need to be uncomfortable. With support from a coach like Kimmy and clear goals, your path forward to gaining more sexy confidence and charisma could be just one phone call away. Get in touch with Kimmy here for a FREE coaching call: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 254 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever met someone new who instantly sweeps you off your feet, showers you with compliments, and makes you feel like the most special person in the world only to discover that it was all too good to be true? If this sounds like you, you may have been the victim of love fraud. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Donna Andersen, a journalist and author of Lovefraud.com, a website that teaches people how to recognize and avoid sociopaths.
EPISODE 253 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Recognizing Love Fraud: Interview With Donna Andersen Listen in to hear Donna's story of marrying a man who she later found out had scammed and betrayed her completely. Kimmy and Donna define the characteristics of a sociopath and list the key signs and red flags to look out for. As you are learning to date smarter not harder, these tips will help you determine how to spot a scammer more quickly so you can move on without getting trapped in a fraudulent relationship. Stay tuned to hear useful conversation tricks and questions to ask to help you find out if someone is telling the truth! Plus, listen into a surprising tip from Donna about how to be certain your connection is genuine.
If you are ready to stop attracting sociopaths, narcissists or any other kind of toxic people and instead find a genuine, supportive love connection, set up a time to speak with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Work with an expert to help you avoid scammers, detect red flags and meet higher quality people that want the same things you do. EPISODE 253 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Recognizing Love Fraud: Interview With Donna Andersen. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Beauty is not only skin deep. Being attractive also comes from your confidence – the ability to let loose and be yourself. Learn how to have fun and be confident in your own skin. Today, join Kimmy Seltzer as she talks to Angela Jia Kim about what makes you more attractive. Angela is a former concert pianist and the Founder of Savor Beauty + Spa. She is also the author of Radical Radiance, a book that can help radiate your inner and outer glow. Learn some attraction secrets that can help you in your love life. Discover some of Angela’s personal stories about dating. Also, find out some skincare rituals you can do today.
EPISODE 252 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Radical Radiance: Attraction From The Outside In With Angela Jia Kim If you have a hard time being seen and feel your image affects your self esteem when dating, hop on a call with me to talk through ways to break that pattern here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Who knows..that one call could change the entire course of your life!
EPISODE 252 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Radical Radiance: Attraction From The Outside In With Angela Jia Kim. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations between Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy. EPISODE 251 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reducing Dating Anxiety To Attract Love: Where Are They Now With Mary This week you'll meet Mary, who made a decision to invest in coaching with Kimmy because she wanted expert advice. Mary felt she was ready for a long-term relationship, but had no idea how to release the anxiety she felt around dating in the past. If you're like Mary, you may have stayed in relationships that didn't serve you for too long or trusted people without evidence that they would respect that trust. Mary and Kimmy walk through Mary's journey to build her sense of self and get clear on what made her feel secure in relationships. Listen in to hear what worked for Mary around reducing her anxiety when dating, communicating honestly, and setting boundaries in a respectful and kind way. This conversation will show you how to recognize when someone isn't the right fit for you, even if they're a good person! Stay tuned to hear about the new amazing guy in Mary's life who loves dancing, not taking things too seriously, and being creative, just like Mary. As Mary gets to know her new guy even better, she has some questions for Kimmy about how to build trust and whether or not taking things slow physically is worth the wait. If you have felt anxiety around having "the talk" with someone you're dating, stick around to hear a great tip on how to reinforce the behavior you want to see through taking action.
If you are ready to ease your anxiety around dating and finally feel supported, at peace, and calm when it comes to love, reach out to Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Just like Mary, one 30-minute phone call could change the course of your love life for good. EPISODE 251 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reducing Dating Anxiety To Attract Love: Where Are They Now With Mary. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever wondered how to create more open, inviting, sexy energy when dating? The key is closer to home than you might think! This week, Kimmy explores the benefits of having a "vacation mentality" when dating. Listen in to hear her valuable tips and advice on the benefits of approaching your dating life the same way you approach a fun vacation. EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Vacation Mentality When work, family and life start to create burnout in your life, keeping up with socializing and dating can start to feel like a chore. But, if you've made a commitment to putting yourself out there and meeting new people, you need strategies to help stop burnout in its tracks. Kimmy illuminates the benefits of having a vacation mentality in your dating life and simple steps you can take to start seeing the benefits quickly.
Think back to the last time you were on vacation and you felt relaxed, curious and open to new experiences. Now ask yourself, how can you recreate that attitude and outlook in your everyday life? When you've got your head down, grinding away at work, it's easy to get into a rut. Listen in to learn how you can break your patterns and approach life with curiosity and energy which will instantly make you more attractive. Kimmy shares a key piece of advice that will resonate with high achievers. If you default to figuring things out on your own, this is your opportunity to learn how to use a vacation mentality in order to be more spontaneous, fun and less rigid. And, if you are feeling out of touch with your body, this is your cue to find that connection again.
If you are battling burnout and losing your motivation to date, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Set up a time to chat with Kimmy in a free, 30-minute call. This conversation could change the direction of your love life and serve as the push you need to reset your outlook and date with a vacation mentality. EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Vacation Mentality. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you believe that being vulnerable is TMI on a first date? How do you balance sharing enough of yourself to make an authentic connection without going overboard? Kimmy is here to help you navigate this essential piece of dating in one of our favorite segments, Coaching With Kimmy. Listen in to candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients looking to improve their love lives with practical advice they can use immediately. EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching With Kimmy In this episode, you'll meet Garfield who's ready to put herself out there again after divorce and finds it challenging to be vulnerable and trust men when dating. Garfield shares her story and reflects on some of the challenges with scammers on dating apps she's experienced before. Newly single after leaving a long-term relationship, Garfield is working on defining what she wants, getting out of her head, and uncovering her confidence again when meeting new people socially. Kimmy shares some foundational advice for how to begin to open yourself up to other people again after being hurt. If you're like Garfield and have had a string of traumatic or painful experiences, it can feel overwhelming to begin putting yourself out there again. Listen in to hear some impactful and emotional breakthroughs Garfield has on this live call. You'll hear about the importance of taking small, intentional steps to work up to your loftiest goals. If you recognize that you are still in the process of healing, setting clear, attainable goals is key to making progress. This transformational conversation is a reminder that you have the power to shine and when ready, will attract people who want to help you shine even brighter!
If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships due to your walls being up, reach out to Kimmy and find a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You deserve a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship! When you invest in yourself and your growth, you will be able to have the love life you have always wanted. EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
It’s the time of the year when we talk about our tax situation, significantly if we passively invest in real estate. In this episode, let’s listen to Lisa Hylton with her guest, Amanda Han, a tax strategist and real estate investor. Amanda discusses the tax impact of investing passively in real estate. She explains some strategies to help us deal with our taxes through investing passively and what we should look out for. Join them as they deliver excellent help in our tax situation today!
When you consciously or even unconsciously ruin things to make them end, this is called self-sabotage. They say people who self-sabotage are somewhat afraid of intimacy in various forms and can act in different ways that can hurt themselves or others around them. Brandon Wilson is a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them from fulfilling their dreams. Brandon imparts his experience and story about his business relationship that cost him nearly everything. That experience has helped him develop a sabotage framework, which he wrote down in his book, Sabotage.
On this replay episode of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, host Kimmy Seltzer interviews Brandon Wilson. In this conversation, practical tools will be given to help you notice the patterns in your personal and love relationships that could sabotage your love life. They will also talk about different key signs to know if one is prone to sabotage from others and even yourself. The different red flags when establishing a healthy, growth-minded, and loving relationship. Once you can identify the signs, the more you are enlightened and capable of stopping these behaviors. Tune in on this episode to find out more!
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Is your relationship in a bad place? What are the signs that your relationship is ending? Here to help you get to the bottom of a dying romance is Matthew Fray. Matthew is a relationship coach, writer, and subbed by the New York Times as "the man who coaches husbands on how to avoid divorce." He joins host Kimmy Seltzer to share the things he learned in his own divorce journey to help others save their relationships. They talk in-depth about the different behaviors and habits that lead to a dwindling intimacy you might not even be aware of with insights from his book, This is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships. Tune in and learn valuable lessons on relationships and the value of communication and self-awareness.
Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with her. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you. This week, you'll meet Taylor, a high-achieving entrepreneur who was confident in every area of his life except dating.
EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor Taylor shares that after his divorce, he was struggling with getting into relationships quickly, not sharing his emotions, and ultimately, not making the kind of connections he truly desired. Navigating a brand new dating scene and showing up as his authentic self online was challenging. Once Taylor recognized that he wanted to be in a healthy, lasting relationship he knew he needed to ask for help. Kimmy and Taylor discuss the different phases of dating and the goals for each phase. If you have struggled with focusing on what you can do for another person as opposed to how they make you feel when you're together, listen up! This conversation focuses on the power of shifting your mindset and learning to enjoy the processs while you build skills that will help you create more genuine connections when dating. Taylor shares the story of how he met a wonderful new woman, and how they hit it off! Here's a hint: being open and transparent about what he was looking for helped create a foundation for them both to be emotionally honest with one another. If you're like Taylor, and you're ready to understand the tools and strategies to find success in dating and meet higher quality people who are a good fit for you, all it takes is that first call. Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a free 30-minute call. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. But hurry, the program starts soon and only a few spots left! EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
We've all heard the phrase "living your best life," but what does that really mean? This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Tracy Pattin, host of the celebrated Wondery podcast Hollywood and Crime, and expert on living her best solo (not single!) life. Tracy and Kimmy discuss the empowering nature of finding comfort and confidence in being alone. EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin Kimmy shares a story about the invaluable advice given to her by her mother in the aftermath of her divorce. Listen in to hear Kimmy identify the difference between internal and external validation and how to detect which one is driving your happiness. When you allow yourself to slow down and not rush towards a new relationship for comfort, but rather focus on relying on yourself to find peace, you will be stronger for it and attract healthier relationships. The moment you begin to discover that power within you, the more you will attract healthy, secure people into your life. Tracy talks about how she uses the ritual and routine to keep her present, focused and centered each day. Stay tuned for a lesson from Tracy based on a career in entertainment to provide strategies around facing the fear of rejection. You'll hear how having a kind, loving relationship with yourself is a key factor in not attracting relationships that don't serve you. If you are struggling with being alone or a crippling fear of rejection, reach out to Kimmy for a FREE 30-minute call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to map out a strategy to enrich your solo life. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. Space is limited so reach out to Kimmy here to save your spot! EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
You have always been a high achiever. You know your worth and you’ve been recognized for the value you bring to the table in your professional life. But, when it comes to dating, you can’t seem to figure out why you haven’t been able to find the same success! This week, Kimmy has a fascinating conversation with Executive Coach and Relationship Strategist Dr. Robin Buckely, a leading authority on helping high achievers, executives, and couples improve their careers and relationships through psychology-based strategies. EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley If you have a tendency to conduct your dates like high-pressure job interviews or lead interactions with your long list of accomplishments and have wondered why you rarely get a second date, this episode is for you! Listen in to hear how dating and creating deep, loving connections are rooted in feelings, not facts. You have the power to use your killer business instincts to help improve your love life, but you need a strategy to get there. Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share some key tips you can use to reframe your mindset, lean on your strengths and find success in love. Listen in to hear some incredible tools you can use right away, whether you are in a couple or not! Dr. Buckley and Kimmy discuss how the foundation of a strong relationship is not love, lust or sexual attraction but more that love can be found through intention, strategy and a concrete plan. This conversation will help you see that it’s possible to interrupt patterns and behaviors that don’t serve you in love. You can retrain your brain to intake information differently and start to see opportunities where you used to see challenges. And, if you’ve ever felt like a victim, struggling to feel in control, Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share a useful tip to help reframe your perspective to see things in a more positive light. Stay tuned to hear some great tips on how to use quotas in an unexpected way that will make your partner feel seen, heard, and loved every single day. If you need to ignite your sexy confidence with a dating plan and put strategies in place to break your bad habits, grab one of the few seats at Kimmy’s new program, Spark Your Sexy: Live! It’s a brand NEW 6-week course culminating in an in-person retreat in sunny California! Join a group of like-minded single women who are ready to create a plan for their dating life and find the love they’ve always wanted. Click here to apply and hurry as spaces are limited https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Why does dating seem so easy for other people, but challenging for you? Do you find yourself feeling depleted from giving your energy to relationships or situationships that don’t fulfill you? This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Keyva who has developed a habit of attracting emotionally unavailable men. A self-admitted chameleon, she tends to match the energy of the men she’s dating but she has found that she’s losing herself in the process. This conversation is all about learning how to show up as your true, authentic self through using healthy boundaries and communication when dating. EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating: Coaching With Kimmy You’ll hear Keyva speak honestly about her upbringing and how she was rewarded and praised for her achievements when she was younger. Kimmy and Keyva uncover some old patterns that are repeating themselves in her dating life. Kimmy breaks down the steps to start to break the habits that don’t serve Keyva in her dating life. Listen in to hear the key difference between setting healthy boundaries and putting your guard up in a way that shuts people out. Kimmy talks about the value of communicating in a clear and assertive way to define your wants and needs without worrying about what anyone else thinks. When you are able to communicate effectively when dating you will avoid developing feelings of resentment, anger and disappointment and weeds out the people that don’t respect you more easily. Kimmy uncovers how to reframe your mindset to approach dating as a skill-building exercise instead of as an interview for your next significant other. Kimmy shares some quick, tangible tips you can use on your next date to shift your conversations immediately and start to see who's really there for you! If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships or accepting crumbs when you deserve the whole cake, it’s time to demand more for yourself. Reach out to Kimmy for a FREE introductory call here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough In half an hour, you can map out a strategy to find the loving, fulfilling relationship you deserve. EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
We all have learned beliefs that shape how we see the world. Did you know you probably have hidden biases that are keeping you single? The beliefs and attitudes you hold are informed by your experiences -- stay tuned to hear why it's important to know the limits of your own perspective. Your thoughts and actions are directly impacted by how you see things, which contributes to your results when dating. This week, Kimmy shares the top 5 most common dating biases out there and what to do about them. This episode is all about making a choice to change your lens on life and see the power in becoming aware of your biases. Kimmy talks about how we're all susceptible to our biases and how they are mostly subconscious. EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single You'll hear tips around the 5 surprising types of biases and what you can do to become more conscious of them. Whether you always go for the same "type" or let one thing cloud your view of someone, you could be missing out on meeting someone great for you! If you have a tendency to keep making the same mistakes or attracting narcissists into your life, Kimmy's tip for catching confirmation bias can shift your love life dramatically. If you are stuck and are feeling anxious about going out there and meeting new people, listen in to hear a valuable “hack” around how to take small steps to override that bias. If you are ready to get over your hidden biases that might be keeping you stuck in dating, save your spot in Kimmy's brand new workshop for women on May 11th called Dating Secrets Decoded https://bl394.isrefer.com/go/DSDpodcast/KSeltzer/. This is a 2-hour interactive event where you will learn Kimmy's proven system for strategically spotlighting your dating archetype to boost your confidence, break bad dating habits, and become a fun dater that men can’t wait to flirt with. If you're looking for tangible strategies to improve your dating life, sign up today - but hurry it starts soon and there are limited spots! EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever thought about surrendering to create love? That doesn't mean compromising your values or letting someone else or external expectations dictate your future. Truly surrendering to love isn't about losing yourself -- it's about showing up as your authentic self and letting your highest self guide your next move, one step at a time. This week on the show, Kimmy has an inspiring conversation with Kute Blackson, a celebrated, emerging thought leader in personal development and the author of The Magic of Surrender https://kuteblackson.com/products/themagicofsurrender/. If you have been searching for a sign to release yourself from the pressure of expectations or patterns that don't serve your deepest desires, this episode will invite you to think differently. EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson Kute tells the story of growing up in Ghana under the guidance of his father, a minister and a healer, to arriving in the US determined to make a name for himself in his own right. After studying for years with gurus, sages and monks across the world, Kute developed his own unique style of coaching people to make transformational shifts in their life, based on a theory of "un-conditioning". If you feel family or societal expectations of what you "should" want or do are creating obstacles for you to succeed and fulfill your purpose in life, listen in. Kimmy and Kute talk through how to set goals that are authentic to you and the key factors that help you push past arising fear to stay on your chosen path.
Stay tuned for a killer tip that will help you determine if you are on a path that is aligned with your highest self. If you are coming up against challenges over and over and you don't seem to be progressing beyond them, you'll hear some incredible advice on releasing yourself from those limitations and becoming more open. Kute shares the unbelievable story of how his parents met, and truly speaks to the power and magic of surrender to lead you to where you are meant to be. Kimmy and Kute dive into the incredible benefits of maintaining an open mind and open heart, not getting attached to the outcome, and how to spark meaningful change in your life by taking intentional action.
If you are feeling the weight and pressure of external obligations and don't feel that you are living and searching for love from a place of alignment, maybe it's time to surrender. Reach out to Kimmy for a free 30-minute call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you are ready to do the work to uncover the kind of relationship you truly want, the power of surrender could be the key to leading you to where you want to be! EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ********** Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her former clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with Kimmy. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and how they are different since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you! EPISODE 241 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Smarter Not Harder: Where Are They Now With Chandra This week, you'll meet Chandra who decided to start working with Kimmy after a recommendation from a friend whose other friends had worked with her. Chandra shares what life was like for her around the time she reached out. She shared struggling to make genuine connections in friendships or relationships, had trouble letting go of her professional persona on dates, had a hard time letting her guard down and being vulnerable and would default to people-pleaser mode a lot. She also was hiding in her clothes and was uncomfortable showing her flirty, sexy side. Listen in to hear how her work with Kimmy changed all of that. Chandra shares stories of a key style trick and deeper exercises she did with Kimmy that has completely changed how people respond to her to this day. Stay tuned for actionable tips that will help you discover joy in dating and socializing and how Chandra used these to attract several men. When you release the pressure on finding your forever person, you unlock the ability to enjoy the process to date smarter not harder. Kimmy and Chandra talk all about the "Charisma Glow” she carries throughout her life now and how she is able to show her authentic self with confidence. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that success lies within you and when you feel good about you others will too. If this episode inspires you to want to achieve your version of success, whether that's finding a relationship or finding yourself, take the next best step. Reach out to Kimmy to find time to talk here: http://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. One conversation may just be the springboard you need to begin your journey of self-discovery! EPISODE 241 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Smarter Not Harder: Where Are They Now With Chandra. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Toxic and abusive relationships come in many shapes and sizes. Sometimes abuse is glaring, and sometimes it’s more insidious and hidden. This week, Kimmy has a powerful conversation with Tiphany Kane, host of the Radical Audacity Podcast and survivor of a toxic and abusive relationship. Tiphany has dedicated her life’s work to empowering women to elevate their voices and stand in their power. In this episode, Tiphany shares her journey to leave an abusive relationship. EPISODE 240 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leaving Abusive Patterns Behind: Interview With Tiphany Kane After growing up in a cult-like religion that distorted her perception of dating and marriage, Tiphany entered into a relationship that escalated from gaslighting to harmful abusive patterns. Kimmy highlights a strategy that Tiphany used to rebuild her self-esteem on her journey to find herself. When you are able to counteract the negativity you receive from an abusive partner with positive self-talk and new behaviors that boost your confidence, you are able to strengthen your self-worth. Whether you invest in yourself by improving your physical health, your self-image or a hobby you love — small investments can make a big impact over time. Tiphany and Kimmy share tips about the power of meeting like-minded people who can provide camaraderie and accountability to help you stick with your plan. You’ll hear a helpful framework to think about how you can remove yourself from toxic cycles. You’ll learn on this episode how to demand a new level of respect for yourself and set boundaries accordingly. Listen in to hear Tiphany’s inspiring story of how she attracted a wonderful new man into her life, and what they’ve built together. You’ll hear all about the power of flirting, vulnerability, gratitude and patience that has allowed their relationship to blossom. If you’re ready to release yourself from a toxic or abusive relationship, reach out for support and take the first step to set you on a path of change for the better. Set up a free call with Kimmy here: http://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to map out a plan to begin your journey to the healthy, fulfilling, loving and supportive relationship you deserve! EPISODE 240 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Abusive Patterns Behind: Interview With Tiphany Kane. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy where Kimmy has conversations with clients who are navigating dating challenges and searching for practical advice they can use in their love lives right now. In this episode, you'll meet Dustin, a single guy in his early 40s who's looking to improve the quality of boring conversations on dates by showing his true, authentic self more easily in a flirty way. A self-described "rebel without a clue," Dustin is on a journey to support his personal growth in learning how to go from the friendzone to the funzone with women and progress on dates. EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Friendzone To Funzone: Coaching with Kimmy Kimmy and Dustin jump in by talking about Dustin's upbringing as an only child and the struggles he had with socializing growing up. Kimmy extracts how his upbringing now holds him back from his inner playfulness or spontaneous spirit, causing him to get in his head and hesitate on dates. Instead of letting a conversation flow naturally, Dustin talks about how his tendency to pre-plan topics, overcorrects himself and appears inauthentic while dating. This conversation is a great reminder of the power of curiosity to change the game when it comes to having captivating conversations. Instead of worrying about how you come off or trying to force a particular result, what if you went in with the intention to be curious about your date? Kimmy and Dustin do some dating role play where Dustin shares a funny story about something that happened to him recently. Kimmy and Dustin break down the story and discuss how emotions can enhance the stories you tell. Storytelling is an incredibly effective tool to create genuine emotional connection and empathy when dating! You'll hear great tips on how to improve your storytelling, get out of your head and create deeper connections more quickly. If you're tired of feeling emotionally drained on dates from trying to keep up the flow of conversation or you're just plain BORED, book a free 30 minute call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy can help you map out a plan to get out of the friend zone and into the fun zone! EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Friendzone To Funzone: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Do you consider yourself a courageous leader in love? This week, Kimmy has an uplifting conversation with Trent Clark, a celebrated sports and leadership coach and founder of Leadershipity. Kimmy and Trent define courageous leadership as someone who listens to and implements feedback, is willing to engage in difficult conversations, always has an eye towards innovation, and approaches challenges with openness. If you have struggled in the past with moving away from unhealthy or unhelpful relationships, this episode was made for you. EPISODE 238 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being A Courageous Leader In Love: Interview With Trent Clark Listen in to hear all about how to approach your love life with a positive attitude where you see challenges as an opportunity to grow, rather than something to fear or avoid. You'll hear a juicy tip on how to reframe and even gamify conflict so that you are able to let go of the expectations around an outcome, and see it as a learning opportunity. The best leaders exude confidence, and if you've been listening to this show you know Kimmy defines confidence as experience! The more willing you are to step outside your comfort zone, the more you will be able to build true resilience in life. Trent shares his expertise working with professional athletes on the importance of prep and reps and how you can apply this to your love life. Kimmy and Trent talk about how to manage your fear of making mistakes. When you work with a coach to develop and execute a strategy around dating, which includes getting crystal clear on what you really want, you'll be surprised at how quickly you can start to see results. Trent shares a moving story about a time he jumped to judgment and the importance of not letting the small stuff overtake your larger goals. Kimmy ends on a positive note to love who you are, not who you aren't! If you are ready to become a leader in your love life, jump on a free call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to map out a love plan and with Kimmy's help you'll be on your way to finding the love you've always wanted. EPISODE 238 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being A Courageous Leader In Love: Interview With Trent Clark. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
As pandemic restrictions lift and daily life starts to feel closer to normal, you may find yourself feeling totally out of practice in social and dating situations. This week, Kimmy shares her Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game! Now is the time to get practice flexing your social muscles again and put your best self out there. You can come up with every excuse in the world to postpone this work, but ultimately the power lies within you to invite new amazing people into your life, socially and romantically! EPISODE 237 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game After collectively spending so much time in isolation, you may be feeling fear around getting close to someone else again or just plain awkward having conversations with strangers. That's ok! Only through practice can you start to see improvements in your results. Kimmy starts off by sharing a story of a recent client who went through a divorce right before the pandemic began and started working with Kimmy to help him refresh his dating profile, wardrobe, and dating strategy to start meeting women who are great for him. You'll hear about the importance of recognizing the shifts in the dating landscape and using them to your advantage. It's all about dating smarter, not harder! Listen in to hear strategies around how to make the most of every opportunity to meet new and exciting people. Maybe your next date isn't the one, but perhaps they'll introduce you to someone who could be. If you have a strict checklist that anyone you date has to meet, this episode is a reminder to throw that out! Stay tuned for a juicy tip about how to approach your dates in a way that prioritizes your happiness, not someone else's. You deserve to have a fulfilling life and you can have it! It all starts with making the decision to invest in your own happiness which starts with investing in you. Find a time to speak with Kimmy directly here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In one 30-minute call, you could have a plan mapped out to discover yourself again and meet new, amazing people in the process! EPISODE 237 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
On this episode of Where Are They Now, Coaching with Kimmy, you’ll hear from Kimmy’s clients about how their love lives have improved since working with her! We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to celebrate and be inspired by the success of others. This week, you'll hear a conversation between Kimmy and her amazing client, Kit who discovered Kimmy through a flirt workshop. Kit shares her story about how scary dating was before she found Kimmy. These two discuss the dating crash course Kimmy created for Kit, how she got past her traumatic experiences with dating and all the progress she's made in less than a year. And because all of the work she did, she landed a new man in her life! EPISODE 236 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Without Fear: Where Are They Now With Kit You'll hear how coaching helped Kit feel happier, more inspired, and less fearful about dating. Kit shares how she made the decision to invest in working with Kimmy on her love life -- the origin story may surprise you! Stay tuned to hear what clicked for Kit that changed her definition of dating for good. And, you'll hear about how doing a red dress moment photoshoot helped inspire Kit to feel playful, fun, and flirtatious in her body which helped her land her new man. Listen in to hear all about Kit's new guy and what she's hoping for in the future. This conversation is a great reminder that confidence comes from experience! If you need to boost your dating skills, personal style, or self-confidence to get past some of your fears when dating, Kimmy can help. Set up a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and you could be the next success story on this podcast! You could be celebrating a new relationship just like Kit when you commit to working on yourself! EPISODE 236 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Without Fear: Where Are They Now With Kit
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Finding a healthy, fulfilling love relationship is only possible once you love yourself! You've heard it all before, but did you know that deep self awareness is key to achieving true self love? This week, Kimmy interviews Dr. Denise McDermott, a board-certified, practicing psychiatrist who joins the show for a conversation on how self awareness can unlock the best version of you when it comes to love. EPISODE 235 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-awareness and Sacred Sexuality: Interview with Dr. Denise McDermott Becoming more self aware means being brutally honest with yourself, your beliefs, values and biases and being willing to honestly express your truth to others. It's not always easy, but as Kimmy and Dr. Denise will talk about, it's essential to finding a partner or love relationship that is right for you. You'll hear about how awareness is the foundation for Dr. Denise's paradigm for creating happiness. Kimmy and Dr. Denise break down some amazing tips for how to take small actions to get unstuck and start moving forward again in your life. Listen in to hear an amazing tip on how to actively encourage change in your life when you're ready for something new. These two geek out over the science behind creating out-of-this-world chemistry and the power of play to attract and magnetize people to you. Stay tuned to hear Dr. Denise's surprising take on how sacred sexuality is incompatible with shame. When you actively choose to become aware of who you truly are, you will be able to access a deep self love that will open you up to new opportunities for love. If you are ready to find a more honest self awareness of what's driving you to open doors in your love life, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this free, 30-minute conversation you will start to uncover what stands between you and finding the love you want. EPISODE 235 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-awareness and Sacred Sexuality: Interview with Dr. Denise McDermott The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Does it feel like you're constantly meeting people who don't spark your interest? And perhaps you also discover there are certain dating patterns that you keep falling into where you attract the same type of person over and over again. This week, you'll hear Kimmy live coach James, who's ready to find out what dating patterns could be holding him back from making genuine and deeper connections with women. EPISODE 234 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Serial Dating Patterns: Coaching With Kimmy James dives in by sharing the story of how he's rebuilding his life and setting ambitious career goals in sports media after being incarcerated. Kimmy and James discuss how his past has followed him through his relationships and dating experiences. Each one of us carries different experiences, fears, and traumas that can leak into different aspects of our lives. James shares how his self-confidence has grown as he attains more success, but says he's still holding onto his fear of rejection which impacts his dating process. If you're like James, you may be unconsciously coming off as closed off to others. Listen in to hear Kimmy's tips about how to combat your fear by dating without attachment to focus on what you really want. Stay tuned to hear a tip on how recognizing your strengths and positive qualities will help you approach others with a more positive outlook. This conversation is an amazing reminder that playfulness, curiosity, and levity are key ingredients to staying present and attracting others in a healthier way. If your conversations on the apps or in-person are one-note, uninspired, or cookie-cutter, this episode is for you! When you lead with what you've created, what you're looking forward to, or what makes you tick, you will start drawing like-minded people to you. If you are ready to break the patterns that are holding you back from finding love, March 7th, Kimmy is starting a 6-week interactive, co-ed class on how to improve your dating life from the ground up. You'll learn how to convert conversations to dates, navigate online dating, how to flirt and get a dating plan in place to break your dating patterns and attract the right partner for you. Reach out HERE to find out if you're the right fit and secure your seat. Space is limited! https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-by-design/# EPISODE 234 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Serial Dating Patterns: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
When you are dating, do you have a plan and intention with it? If you're ready to find love, the most effective thing you can do is map out a strategic plan. When you have a clear dating strategy, you create more opportunities for success so that you date smarter not harder. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Damona Hoffman, a widely recognized celebrity dating coach and OKCupid's official coach. Damona is well-versed in current dating trends and has been a regular on-air contributor to The Drew Barrymore Show. EPISODE 233 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Plan and Intention: Interview With Damona Hoffman Damona shares her story of how she went from Hollywood casting director to certified dating coach. Kimmy and Damona discuss how shifting your mindset when dating is crucial to your success. Everyone has a history, whether you have extensive dating experience or not, and we bring our past with us to every new relationship. Of course, we all fear getting hurt, but it’s how you manage that feeling that matters. Damona shares an unexpected tip about how to tell the difference between a dealbreaker and an opportunity to have an honest conversation. If you’re clear on the non-negotiables that really matter like your values, it’s easier to navigate different dating behaviors. Listen in to hear tons of juicy tips about how to level up your online dating profile. You’ll hear Damona’s three key tips on how to choose the best photos that showcase your true, authentic self at a glance. This conversation is a reminder that as difficult as the past two years have been during the pandemic, one positive around dating is the resurgence of slow love by being patient while allowing a relationship to grow at its own pace. If you want help in creating a dating plan that is right for you, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out strategy to do that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In half an hour, you can work with Kimmy to build a plan you can execute against to find the love you want. EPISODE 233 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Plan and Intention: Interview With Damona Hoffman. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
When you set out to find love, it's important to develop a positive mindset around dating. Truly knowing what you want and having fun while you pursue it, will change your dating game and help you define who you are and what you want! This week, Kimmy has an inspiring conversation with Amit Sodha, a transformational coach who helps people develop positive mindsets to become the best versions of themselves. Listen in to find out what you risk if your mindset isn't aligned with your dating goals. EPISODE 232 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Dating Mindset: Interview With Amit Sodha If you often feel like you don't know what you're doing wrong when dating, this conversation is for you. Amit shares how he went from being a clueless dater, to someone who became dedicated to learning and doing everything he could to get better. He shares his story of going on 300 dates and the benefits he experienced. Kimmy and Amit discuss the importance of taking bold action to start seeing different results in your love journey. Stay tuned to hear about how storytelling and other sleek techniques can be your secret weapons to create amazing chemistry and connect on a genuine, emotional level on dates. Dating provides the opportunity to open yourself up to meeting exciting new people! If you struggle getting clarity on having the right dating goals and mindset, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out strategy to help you. Book a call with Kimmy personally here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. EPISODE 232 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Dating Mindset: Interview With Amit Sodha. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Are you more of a serious, intellectual type of person? Did you know that being fun and playful are the top attributes that people inherently look for when dating and ultimately landing a partner? A sense of fun is more important to many people than whether someone has a degree or are super intelligent. So not taking yourself so seriously may actually be a great dating advantage! This week, Kimmy talks about the importance of being playful and fun when dating and how to get out of your head to do it. EPISODE 231 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful & Fun When Dating Kimmy starts with sharing studies and facts on the benefits of play in all aspects of your life and how the opposite sex views play when dating. She tells success stories about how her clients went from boring to fun and how that helped them attract the partner of their dreams. Kimmy spells out tangible tips and ideas of how you can start exercising the playful muscle so you have more fun, create chemistry and are seen as more attractive when dating. Listen in as she calls out the biggest mistakes people make, why people tend to be so serious and ways you can stop overthink things. She discusses key elements of how to be more in your body and present which ultimately helps you connect with your dates in an authentic, feeling based way. If being silly seems awkward and a waste of time, you need to listen to this episode! And to take it one step further, sign up for her Flirt Like A Pro interactive co-ed workshop coming up February 11. Whether you need to get back out there or get out of the friend zone, it's time to learn how to be playful and fun by flirting with everyone! Plus, you will be in a truly collaborative community with like-minded, like-motivated dating men & women who can provide the practice and support you need to play! Seats are almost gone so register now here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/ EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: EPISODE 231 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful & Fun When Dating. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
If you've been through a divorce, you know it can turn your world completely upside down. Whether your divorce was contentious or not, you're tasked with the daunting step of forming a new identity, beyond your ex. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Daniel Herrold, co-founder of the fast-growing community Divorced Over 40 (DO40), that provides support for men and women in the aftermath of divorce. As people form their new identities as single people or single parents, having the support of a community that deeply knows what you're going through is so important! This conversation honestly tackles how you can re-enter the dating world in an emotionally healthy way after divorce later in life. EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Back In The Game After Divorce: Interview With Daniel Herrold Daniel shares his story with Kimmy. If you're like Daniel, you may have met your ex young and really lacked the modern dating experience you need to date successfully in today's world. You may be tempted to dive right back into a long-term relationship, put out the wrong signals, or simply have no clue what you really want! These two swap stories about what life was like immediately following their divorces and how intimidating it was to build up their confidence to get back out there once they were ready. This conversation is a reminder that dating is a journey to find yourself, leverage dating skills that you may need to learn and to build confidence through experience. Daniel shares a surprising perspective that dating is not only an opportunity to find love, but an opportunity to expand your world and get to know new people with different beliefs, experiences and interests. Listen in to hear more on how to intentionally distinguish between your "wish list" and your "non-negotiables". One of the biggest mistakes people make in dating is conflating one for the other! If you are struggling to date after divorce and are looking for ways to get your mojo back, sign up for Kimmy’s Flirt Like a Pro Workshop, coming February 11! In this co-ed virtual workshop, you'll learn and practice proven flirting techniques directly from Kimmy to help you give great conversation and create playful chemistry with anyone you meet! Sign up now by clicking here, space is limited. https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/. EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Back In The Game After Divorce: Interview With Daniel Herrold The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
This week, Kimmy dives deep on the relationship between fear and flirting. If you're preoccupied with a fear of rejection, your ability to be playful and flirt could be hindered. In this episode, Kimmy live coaches Janus, who wants to get back out there and find a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Janus shares her past experience in controlling relationships, which has contributed to her denying the true expression of herself. EPISODE 229 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting Without Fear: Coaching With Kimmy As a high-achieving artist with a background in eastern medicine, Janus is comfortable leading with her intelligence and experience. Kimmy and Janus talk through some of Janus's past experiences from her brief marriage in her 20s and dating as a single mom before she came to the realization that she was ready to face her past trauma and move forward. Janus talks about how her fears and past trauma caused her to be more guarded and fearful of dating. Listen in to hear about how after many years being in her cocoon has been finally taking baby steps to open herself up and put herself out there for possibilities. Janus tells the recent story of how she turned drinks with a girlfriend into a flirtatious interaction with an interesting new man! Kimmy shares some actionable tips for Janus to reframe her mindset around online dating, and use it as a tool to practice flirting and conversation skills. This conversation is a reminder that showing up as your full self AND being flirty and feminine is possible! If you are struggling with obstacles in your love life that seem unmovable, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In half and hour you'll come away with a roadmap unique to you, designed to chart your path to love. If you're ready to take your flirting skills to the next level, sign up now for Kimmy's Flirt Like a Pro Workshop, coming February 11! In this co-ed virtual workshop, you'll learn proven flirting techniques directly from Kimmy to help you give great conversation and create playful chemistry with anyone you meet! Sign up now by clicking here, space is limited. https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/ EPISODE 229 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting Without Fear: Coaching With Kimmy The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
The secret to realizing your dreams is to manifest them. You have the power to attract the love you want but first, you must become what you want to attract. If you're curious to learn how, listen to Kimmy's interview with an expert in manifestation -- best-selling author and speaker, Natalie Ledwell. EPISODE 228 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love: Interview With Natalie Ledwell Kimmy shares a story about a client who held on to negative messages about men from her childhood and how these messages were leaking into her love life. You'll learn that common beliefs like, "There are no good men out there," can actually attract more of the wrong kind of men for you. Kimmy and Natalie discuss why becoming the best version of you is the most effective way to find the kind of love you desire. As Kimmy always says, what you put out is what you get back! Natalie shares the details behind the vision board tool she created to help millions of people visualize and feel their dreams, Mind Movies. Natalie tells the surprising story of how she met her amazing guy nearly two years ago and how she used this platform and special exercises to capture his eye online. Stay tuned for Natalie's answer to a question about the struggles she faced to be able to build truly close relationships and how she worked to overcome that. Often we hold on to patterns or beliefs from past relationships that aren't serving us. Once you make a decision to let those stop holding you back and act on what you really want, your world will open up. Plus, an excellent example of one of Kimmy's go-to flirting techniques! Taking action is an essential part of manifesting your dreams. Book a complimentary call with Kimmy to help you visualize yours here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to get started and map out a strategy to manifest the love you want! And then grab Natalie’s MindMovies tool to start putting your desires into action here https://www.mindmovies.com/products/order_mindmovies.php?30390 EPISODE 228 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love: Interview With Natalie Ledwell. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Welcome back for another episode of Where Are They Now, Coaching with Kimmy! On this segment, you’ll hear honest reflections from Kimmy’s current and former clients. These conversations focus on how their lives have changed and where they are on their love journey since working with Kimmy. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success! This week, Kimmy catches up with Liz, a high achieving podcast listener who invested in coaching because she was ready to learn how to date and find real love. She decided to coach with Kimmy because she had been successful in everything else in her life except for love. Listen in how she did with work with Kimmy and landed her fiancé! EPISODE 227 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How High Achievers Find Love: Where Are They Now With Liz Liz shares the story about the first time she heard Kimmy’s 5 Dating Archetypes, discovered that she was the quintessential high achieving “List Lady" and why she knew she needed to reach out for support on her love journey. Kimmy and Liz talk through the valid and real fears that many of us face when it comes to putting ourselves out there in the dating world. Kimmy helped Liz develop an understanding how her family of origin and cultural background was contributing to her dating patterns and challenges. Liz talks about her experience developing confidence in being flirty and feminine without losing herself or dumbing down for anyone. Knowing how to flirt and be more open were essential skills that helped Liz initially, where she then created attraction to land her man. If you are carrying insecurities or feel a lack of self worth at times, this conversation helps illuminate the importance of building those skills for a healthy, positive outlook. You’ll hear tips around how to have more positive, playful conversations to help dates progress. Liz tells us how she stopped letting work talk infiltrate her conversations on dates and how she has given herself permission to indulge in pampering herself more! Liz shares the story around meeting her fiancé and how she almost swiped left on him had she not been coaching with Kimmy. If you get inspired by this episode and want to find love this year, do what Liz did, by starting off with a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Decide if you are ready to invest in your happiness and start seeing the changes you want to see in your love life right now. EPISODE 227 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How High Achievers Find Love: Where Are They Now With Liz. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Do you self-sabotage in dating and relationships? Are you quick to judge others? This week, Kimmy interviews Brandon Wilson, a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them for fulfilling their dreams. Brandon shares his story about the business relationship that nearly cost him everything. You’ll hear how that experience helped him develop a sabotage framework which he outlines in his book, Sabotage. EPISODE 226 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson This fascinating conversation will give you practical tools to start noticing patterns in your personal and love relationships that could cause you to sabotage your love life. Kimmy and Brandon discuss the key signs to know if you’re vulnerable to sabotage from others and yourself. Qualities like jealousy and arrogance are red flags when it comes to creating a healthy, growth-minded, loving relationship. You’ll hear an insightful answer to Kimmy’s question about what motivates people who self-sabotage or sabotage others. This conversation is packed with amazing, actionable tips you can use to see the relationships and dating patterns you have in a new light. Listen in to hear some surprising facts about what holds you back from attracting and developing the positive, strong relationships you really want. Once you can recognize the signs of sabotage, the more power you have to stop it in its tracks. If you are ready to stop self-sabotaging and grow into the best version of yourself, take the first step by booking a FREE call with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In half an hour, you will get a roadmap to build your dating plan and start your love journey. EPISODE 226 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Have you been experiencing a pessimistic outlook or self doubt lately around dating? With the New Year right around the corner, it's the perfect time to reflect on your love life and determine if you could use a reboot. Right now, many people are experiencing dating burnout -- you're numbing out swiping on matches, you keep meeting people you can't see yourself with and you're starting to wonder if there's even a point to all this! This week, Kimmy talks through the steps to pull yourself out of this rut and start to reinvent your love life, one step at a time. EPISODE 225 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself Kimmy shares the top signs and symptoms of dating burnout and how this can be negatively impacting your dating life. The key to rising out of your rut is to take action to break the patterns that have been holding you back so you can be open to new options. Kimmy talks about how to shut down the dating burnout and focus on transforming yourself and key things in your life in a more positive direction. You'll hear 5 strategies around how to get unstuck by first starting to get rid of things that no longer serve you. Listen in to hear why creating and maintaining healthy habits is essential to being your best self. When you get to know yourself better, it helps you connect on a more genuine level with others. This could be the perfect time to take time off work, unplug and nurture yourself. Listen in for a tip on how to meet people who share your interests. If you've been attracting the same type of people that aren't working for you, this could be your moment to step our of your comfort zone and try to date people that are NOT your type at all. This episode is all about how you can re-energize your love life and bring a new optimism to your dating experiences. If you are feeling burnt out but you have no idea where to begin, schedule a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this complimentary, 30 minute phone call you will get the help you need to map out a plan and find a new direction to take your dating life. In the new year, become the best version of you and find the love you desire. EPISODE 225 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Do you feel like you're dating the same person over and over again? You try to vet potential dates as best you can but somehow you always end up attracting the fixer-upper, the narcissist, the emotionally unavailable... and you're over it! In the end, you realize that your “picker” might be off. This week, listen in as Kimmy live coaches Ashley, who found Kimmy through her free Facebook group, The Love Makeover Insiders. Ashley is ready to meet someone great after finding herself and defining the kind of person she really wants, but dating has been challenging. She's not meeting the kind of guys she's looking for and she's starting to wonder if her picker is off.
EPISODE 224 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be A Better Picker: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy begins the episode by decoding and dissecting what has been challenging for Ashley. Ashley discloses that she had a concussion a while back which definitely affected her confidence and feeling overly sensitive on dates. You’ll hear how Kimmy uncovers some unexpected and surprising revelations of what the real reasons her picker is off and why dating has been hard beyond the concussion. Kimmy then helps Ashley reveal connections about how her upbringing and experiences with boys in her younger years are related to what has been holding her back now. Ashley begins by talking about her perception of flirting and why being playful and light on dates never was easy for her. Kimmy gives tangible flirting tips to get you out of your head and into your body. Kimmy talks about how being present and positive can allow you to share more of yourself and have authentic, interesting conversations. When you release the pressure of getting in a relationship or everything on your list -- you can relax, become more present, and have fun on your terms. If you're tired of bad dates and feel your picker might be off, reach out to Kimmy and set up a FREE coaching call: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy will help you map out a strategy to help you like she did with Ashley. EPISODE 224 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be A Better Picker: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Do you feel a sense of self-empowerment? It is a buzzword that is thrown out all of the time but what does it really mean? When you are empowered, you are confident and that confidence gets you the opportunities you want. This week, Kimmy interviews a guest who knows a thing or two about empowering people to live a fantastic life, Dr. Allen Lycka, who is a pioneer in cosmetic surgery, transformational speaker, author, celebrity and mentor in his field. EPISODE 223 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-Empowerment Hacks For A Fantastic Love Life: Interview With Dr. Allen Lycka. Dr. Lycka dives in to share his remarkable and inspirational story about how he was blindsided by a horrible medical scare where he was told he was going to die and how he overcame it in a very powerful way, which drove him to better lives of others. If you have ever struggled with feeling disempowered and being in victim mode, listen in to hear tips on how you can get out of your own way and face your fears. Kimmy and Dr. Lycka discuss how understanding the stages of grief can be instrumental in coping with hard times and developing an accepting and positive mindset. Dr. Lycka talks about the importance of the phrase by Epictetus, “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” He goes on to give tangible tips around his theory of how you can live a fantastic life with his 13 Golden Pearls of Empowerment that will help you take your love life to the next level. Kimmy drives it home with how you can use these pearls in your dating life. When you are ready for a change, it's imperative to surround yourself with positivity and gratitude that will help you break patterns that are holding you back. This powerful conversation is a reminder that you have the power to create the life you want and deserve. Listen in to hear Dr. Lycka call out a challenge to you that will help you transform your mindset. If you keep asking yourself why you are still single and feeling powerless about your love life, book a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to help you get out of your own way. EPISODE 223 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-Empowerment Hacks For A Fantastic Love Life: Interview With Dr. Allen Lycka. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
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If you've been a listener of this show, you know that Kimmy's philosophy is all about working on yourself from the outside in. It's the fastest gateway to embody the most confident version of you. This week, Kimmy interviews an authority on building a positive body image, transformational coach, Justine Sloan. EPISODE 222 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building A Positive Self-Image To Attract Love~Interview With Justin Sloan Justine dives in to share her story about how she struggled with her body image from a young age, causing her to yo-yo diet, engage in excessive exercise and develop an eating disorder. From starting her career as a personal trainer to competing in fitness competitions, now Justine has left that lifestyle behind for a healthier outlook that brings her joy. If you have ever struggled with body image issues, listen in to hear tips on how to take the first steps to truly loving your body and more importantly, loving yourself. Kimmy and Justine discuss the importance of being ready to hear positive messages in your life. When you are ready for a change, it's imperative to surround yourself with positive encouragement that will help you break patterns that are holding you back. This conversation is a reminder that when you do not love yourself, others will treat you accordingly. Justine shares that when she was at her lowest point, she was attracting men into her life that were extremely critical of her appearance because she was critical of her own appearance. Listen in to hear why building your self-worth is an essential first step to achieving a healthy relationship with yourself, how emotional eating can be curtailed with a simple reframe, and how to start to break the habits that hold you back from being your best self. If you are ready to rewrite your story and take steps to overhaul your self-image, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Working on your self-worth and self-image is working on your dating life! When you are your most confident, radiant self, you will attract others who treat you accordingly. EPISODE 222 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building A Positive Self-Image To Attract Love~Interview With Justin Sloan. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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If you have dated or been in relationships before, you know that getting hurt or rejected is part of the deal. We've all been there! It's scary to get rejected and it's easy to become guarded or fear being vulnerable. This week, Kimmy live coaches Stacey, a people-person who thrives in social groups but is having trouble opening up and sharing her true self when dating. EPISODE 221 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting your guard down when dating: Coaching with Kimmy If you've found yourself attracting the emotionally unavailable like Stacey, this episode will show you how you may actually be unavailable yourself. Kimmy asks Stacey about her dating history and upbringing. You'll hear how Stacey's family dynamics growing up and the role she played as the peacemaker contributes to her dating life today. If you have trust issues, experience a lack of intimacy in relationships, or have dealt with infidelity in the past, listen in to hear about some of the possible sources of these patterns that you have the power to change. Kimmy talks about the definition of real vulnerability and gives tangible steps to be more open when dating. When you are able to open up and lead with how you feel, you invite people to do the same and you begin to attract emotional intimacy into your life. Right now, Stacey's dating someone who she'd like to see more but is having trouble expressing what she wants. Kimmy shares her conversational formula for expressing your feelings in a clear, direct, and positive way. You’ll hear Stacey try out this formula live on the episode! If you are struggling to express your needs and desires when dating, this conversation will give you a roadmap to practice and start seeing different results. If you are ready to start making deeper connections when dating, reach out to Kimmy and have a conversation. Book a complimentary call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and in just half an hour you could have a concrete plan to improve your love life. EPISODE 221 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting your guard down when dating: Coaching with Kimmy The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Do you feel stressed and negative around this time of year? Being single can be really hard as holidays approach and it’s easy to be sucked into a negative spin. This week, Kimmy shares an impactful and motivational episode around the power of gratitude. As Thanksgiving approaches, it's a reminder that we have a lot to be grateful for. You deserve to acknowledge what makes you happy! When you live with a positive mindset, you are setting the stage for happy dates and satisfying relationships in the future. Kimmy shares an episode from last year around why being thankful for the positives in your life cultivates healthy, fulfilling partnerships and dating experiences. EPISODE 220 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: ICYMI: An Extra Dose Of Gratitude Attitude To Attract Love Studies have shown that people who exhibit a positive mindset are happier. Kimmy breaks down a few easy, actionable tips you can start doing now that will help you have a more positive outlook on life. You'll hear how to stop negative thoughts and reframe them to impact you for the better. Listen in to hear about 4 major ways negative thoughts and feelings about yourself can impact your behavior and what you can do to start seeing changes in your love life. Stay tuned to hear all about how you can combat the “gremlin talk” and invite more of the positive energy you want to see into your life! When you have a gratitude attitude, you will attract the love you are looking for. It all starts with you! Finding yourself and falling in love can happen, and it's fun and exciting to discover all you have to be grateful for and bring that attitude into your life. If you keep asking yourself, "Why am I still single?" and and feeling powerless and negative about your love life, set a time to talk to Kimmy. You can book it here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In half an hour you can develop a plan to move forward that will bring you closer to finding the person of your dreams! EPISODE 220 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: ICYMI: An Extra Dose Of Gratitude Attitude To Attract Love The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Do you feel that you are worthy of love? Maybe on the surface, you want that but deep down you are not sure. The first step to achieving anything you want is to feel and believe you deserve it. It's true when it comes to happiness, business and love. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews an authority on helping people become leaders of their own destiny, Daniel Gomez. Daniel is an award-winning keynote speaker, author, coach and podcast host who empowers his clients to build epic success in all areas of their life. EPISODE 219 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being Worthy Of Love: Interview With Daniel Gomez This energized, deep and powerful conversation will remind you that building your self-worth is essential to finding love. When you feel you are worthy and deserving of a secure relationship, you will start to see changes in who you attract and how you show up. Daniel shares his upbringing in a military family and how that contributed to a lack of foundation for creating lasting long-term relationships. From building his sales skills at his first job to becoming an expert in the automotive industry to marrying his wife and becoming an entrepreneur, Kimmy asks Daniel about the keys to his success. You'll hear how Daniel recovered from one of the lowest points in his life to how he got back on his feet. Listen in to hear how shifting your perspective and seeing something through another person's eyes can not only build empathy but also open your mind to new possibilities. Kimmy and Daniel talk about the different factors at play that can empower you to be the best version of yourself. This conversation touches on the importance of trust, the ability to forgive others, receiving affection and support from others -- even taking compliments! If you think that your low self-worth is impacting your ability to find a healthy love, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out a strategy to help you here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's free, and only takes half an hour! Create time for yourself to start working towards the healthy, fulfilling relationship you've always wanted AND deserve. EPISODE 219 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being Worthy Of Love: Interview With Daniel Gomez The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Expectations and norms around dating have shifted drastically over the years. Now, technology has a massive impact on the culture of dating. If you're in your 40s, 50s or 60s and entering the dating scene for the first time, learning all these new rules can make you feel like a total fish out of water! In this episode, Kimmy breaks down how to navigate the modern dating world by demystifying the biggest changes and how you can get up to speed. EPISODE 218 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Navigate Modern Dating World If your dating experience is outdated and you feel overwhelmed by all there is to do, this episode is for you. It's exciting to be able to discover yourself as you learn and date your way through this new landscape. Kimmy dives into the 5 specific areas where dating has changed over the years and how they might be impacting your dating life. Kimmy talks about how social media, dating apps and new technology is creating new opportunities to meet even more people. You can learn to use the apps to your advantage to flirt while being true to yourself, even via text! Listen in to hear how the rules, expectations, and norms in dating today have shifted and how you can develop an intentional plan to find a healthy, happy relationship for who you've grown into. You'll hear why getting comfortable sharing your feelings and being vulnerable is surprisingly essential to your success in this modern dating world. Kimmy shares the powerful ingredient to creating chemistry and attracting the kind of person you really want. If you're ready to get back out there and find love, sign up for your spot in Kimmy's next workshop, How to Date in Your 40s, 50s and 60s here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-in-your-40s-50s-60s/. Join a group of men and women who will work with Kimmy to overcome dating fears, create a dating plan, dial-up your sexy confidence, flirt skills and learn to create chemistry in every conversation. Space is limited! You can apply by clicking the link above or email Kimmy directly at askkimmy.com to find how more. Gaining experience is how you combat anxiety around dating. You deserve to be happy and attract the love that's right for you this time around. EPISODE 218 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Navigate Modern Dating World The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Is your voice not as strong as you would like it to be? Do you find yourself bending over backward to please others, while pushing your own needs and desires to the side? In this LIVE episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Debra who's venturing back into the dating world after leaving an 18-year marriage. She is working on finding her voice and letting go of people-pleasing behaviors so that she can stop attracting controlling and narcissistic kinds of men. EPISODE 217 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy Debra decided to do a live coaching session on the podcast with Kimmy in order to seek strategies to find her voice and around creating a dating plan to attract the kind of partner who's right for this season of her life. Kimmy starts off by acknowledging that finding your voice and the strength to demand what you deserve is the first skill to learn to date smarter this time around. If you find yourself apologizing often (and for no good reason!), consistently attracting lopsided relationships with narcissists or fixer-uppers or feeling responsible for the emotions of others, this episode is for you. Debra shares some insight into the patterns she tends to fall into in relationships, connecting back to her upbringing as the middle child seeking approval, validation and praise from her parents. You'll hear about some of the challenges Debra has encountered in meeting and dating guys while she determines what qualities she wants and the ones she wants to avoid. Kimmy stresses the importance of getting rid of Debra’s ex-husband's hold on her and ways to set boundaries for her and her family. Kimmy then shares some tangible strategies of how to raise your self-worth including the key questions to ask to discern what you want before considering what someone else wants, the impact of enriching your social life and the benefits of learning how to just “date” while not getting attached to the outcome. Listen in at the end where Kimmy gets Debra (and to her own surprise) to find her voice right here on this episode! If this show resonated with you and you're ready to stop hiding your voice and date with confidence, get in touch with Kimmy and book a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And, if you are getting back out there in the dating world later in life and want to learn how to date to attract the right partner, feel desirable and flirt and have fun, you can put your name down now to attend Kimmy's new program, How to Date in Your 40s, 50s and 60s! It starts November 15 and space is limited! Go to askkimmy.com to ask for more information on how to sign up or go here to apply https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-in-your-40s-50s-60s/ EPISODE 217 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Have you ever felt like you keep dating the same person? No matter what you do, you keep ending up attracting the same type of guy or gal and you're ready to make a change. If you're a regular listener of this podcast, you may have heard Kimmy's five dating archetypes for women. To hear more about each one, check out her exclusive audio course This May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer In this episode, you'll hear about one expert's dating archetypes for men! Kimmy brings in Hafeez Bakou, co-host of The Roommates Podcast, a man's guide to becoming the best version of himself by leveling up physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially. EPISODE 216 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Toxic Dating Decoding: Interview With Hafeez Bakou Whether you're a man or a woman, you'll want to hear these archetypes for men and how they intersect with the archetypes for ladies! Listen in to hear some unexpected parallels between women and men that you may not have heard before. These two dive right in to shed some light on the most common types of men you'll meet in the dating world. You'll hear about key signs to look for to tell if you're talking to the Mama's Boy, the Player/Charmer, the Overly Ambitious Guy, the Bad Boy and even more. Kimmy and Hafeez talk about how the energy you put out may be attracting a specific type of guy. This conversation is a great reminder that all relationships are about balance and finding the dynamic that works for you and your partner. This conversation touches on the effect on each gender of putting out masculine and feminine energy. Here's a hint, what you put out impacts who you attract and how you're perceived on dates. This episode will show you some of the broad signs to look for to know if you are pursuing a relationship with someone who's not healthy or ready for what you're looking for. If these archetypes resonated with you and you want to start working on your dating life, first take the Dating Archetype Quiz for women here to see what kind of dater you are https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY and then set a time to talk with Kimmy here about it: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's free, and she will give you ideas around how to stop your dating patterns. EPISODE 216 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Toxic Dating Decoding: Interview With Hafeez Bakou The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Do you follow your intuition? As you move through your love journey, trusting your gut can be a huge advantage, but how do you know how to interpret what you feel? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews a leader in listening and leaning into her intuition, Noel Elie. Noel is an entertainment industry professional, model and actress, and founder and CEO of Noel Elie productions where she works with people to help build their brands, get media features, and more. EPISODE 215 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Intuition: Interview with Actress Noel Elie Kimmy and Noel kick off when Noel shares the story of how she moved to New York City, just months after graduating college with a dream to break into the modeling world. You'll hear how Noel developed her confidence and trusted her intuition to move her career forward in unexpected ways. You'll hear some incredible gold nuggets from Noel about the building blocks you need to have in place to make it easier to trust your gut. If you've identified or gained your confidence as a caretaker of others before yourself, listen in to hear some tangible tips on how to prioritize your own needs. Kimmy shares that intuition comes from a place of certainty. You'll hear a great tip about how you can increase your confidence daily by using a simple trick Noel uses to get through tough times and put things into perspective. And, Noel shares a story about her recent health journey and how her intuition played an essential role in her progress. If you feel that you are comparing yourself to others on social media or have anxiety tied to that, this episode is for you. Finally, Kimmy and Noel talk about how improv and dancing are powerful tools to help you play out different emotions, allow you to make mistakes, and have fun. If you are having trouble trusting your gut and because of that fall into bad dating and relationship patterns, take the first step and reach out to Kimmy to build your confidence and intuition. Schedule your call right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and get the right guidance towards attracting the right person for you! EPISODE 215 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Intuition: Interview with Actress Noel Elie
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Do you know how to network to increase your chances of meeting potential dates? Your ability to build strong relationships is essential to your success in dating. The stronger your network, the more likely you are to meet or be introduced to someone who could end up being the love of your life! This week, Kimmy interviews an authority on creating and cultivating connections in business, Michael Roderick. A former high school English teacher, Michael capitalized on the power of strong connections to transition to a career as a Broadway producer in record time. Now, as the CEO of Small Pond Enterprises and host of the podcast Access to Anyone, Michael works with people and brands to help make them more memorable through his frameworks on how to create influence. EPISODE 214 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Relationships For Dating Success: Interview With Michael Roderick This conversation is all about how to make a lasting impression on the people you meet so that those relationships bear fruit for years to come. Kimmy breaks down the top 3 mistakes YOU might be making on dates that are preventing you from making real connections with those you meet. Kimmy and Michael discuss how Michael developed a framework around how to make yourself referable. What are the factors that make others want to introduce people to you? You'll learn the key factors and qualities you can increase to raise your likability and actually show up as your authentic self. And, if you've been dreading going to a social event or have been avoiding them, listen in to hear Michael break down how to improve your interactions with fun animal avatars! This episode is a great reminder that it's a wonderful gift to help others, but you have to remember to let others help you, which will in turn create more opportunities in your dating life. If you are over 40 and having a hard time meeting people and building connections for your dating life, Kimmy's back with another Flirt Workshop! Coming to you on October 19, Kimmy is inviting both women and men together for an interactive virtual workshop designed for folks in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to get back in the game! Whether you are shy, feel awkward, or have been out of the dating scene for a while, you'll learn about the fundamentals of flirting so you can create irresistible chemistry, experience unforgettable first dates and have fun conversations! Space is limited. Register for your spot today: https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Relationships For Dating Success: Interview With Michael Roderick. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Have you noticed a pattern of dating or attracting emotionally unavailable people? Do you find it difficult to open up with new friends or in potential relationships? In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Dawn, a self-described social butterfly who has no trouble having fun and attracting men, however you’ll be surprised to hear how her flirting has been used as a love shield to deflect her from going deeper in her interactions. As an proclaimed extrovert and waitress, Dawn is great at making sure everyone else is taken care of and focus on others, but often doesn't ensure her emotional needs are met. Now, she's come to Kimmy looking for help on how to create a fulfilling relationship that lasts.
EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Attracting The Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy At the top, Kimmy shares three reasons why you may find yourself in emotionally unavailable relationships or situationships. Listen in to hear about how you may be unconsciusly recreating a pattern from your childhood or history in your current interactions. Often, we repeat relationship dynamics that are familiar to us. Kimmy and Dawn dig into Dawn's history to uncover some of the possible traces of this pattern for her. If you're like Dawn, you may have developed certain behaviors to protect yourself from getting hurt in the past. Kimmy talks through some simple first steps to notice and shift these behaviors to get a different result. You'll hear tips around expanding your social circle, the benefits of expressing your feelings early and often, and how to build up your self-worth so that you attract more opportunities for deeper connections. And, if you're over 40 and find yourself feeling lost about how to navigate today's dating scene, come check out Kimmy's Flirt Workshop! Back by popular demand on October 11, Kimmy will gather both women and men together for an interactive virtual masterclass designed for folks in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to get back in the game! So whether you are shy, feel awkward or have been out of the dating scene for awhile, you'll learn about the fundamentals of flirting so you can create irresistible chemistry, experience unforgettable first dates and have fun conversations! Space is limited. Register for your spot today: https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Attracting The Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Are you dating later in life? Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different! Especially if you're jumping back into the dating world after a divorce or a long-term relationship in adulthood. Often, your identity was tied to your partners for so long that it can be tough to find who YOU are again. Dating has also changed in the last decade and now is the perfect time to understand how to date smarter so you can find who's right for you now. In this week's episode, Kimmy addresses the biggest dating mistakes people make after 40. EPISODE 212 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes Kimmy jumps right in by sharing the beginnings of her own dating journey after divorce and the biggest misadventures she made, including why she found herself attracting narcissists initially! You'll hear about some of the new rules of the dating world, and how you can start out dating smarter not harder this time around. If you've ever thought, "Can't I just skip all this dating and get to the relationship part?!" this episode is for you where you’ll learn how you might actually be prolonging the process by diving in too fast too soon. Kimmy walks through the top 5 dating mistakes people make in their 40s, 50s and 60s and how it can negatively impact your dating life. She shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date. Tune in to hear a story about a 68-year-old woman she worked with who successfully got back out there and found love in an unexpected place... Tinder! And, if you are over 40 and having a hard time navigating the dating scene she has an exciting opportunity coming up October 11. By popular demand, Kimmy's Co-ed Flirt Masterclass is here again but this time focusing on how to do it in your 40s, 50s and 60s! Join a motivated group of women and men ready to learn to get their sexy on, create attraction and land dates at ANY age. Space is limited so sign up today here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 212 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Have you ever gotten swept up in the magic and romance of a movie or a song? Do you ever ask yourself, “Why can’t I find love?" The truth is that it's a lot easier to depict a picture-perfect whirlwind courtship in a romantic comedy than to replicate that experience in real life. When it comes to finding love, it may be more beneficial to create the love you want, instead of searching for it. This week, Kimmy talks to Adam Gilad who is an Emmy-nominated producer and writer and founder of Kyynder about developing deep love connections between men and women. EPISODE 211 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad Kimmy begins the episode with the importance of why it’s better to create love vs. finding it. Kimmy and Adam jump right in to talk about how you have the power to build skill sets that make you more likely to create the kind of love you're looking for. Adam shares his journey of how his world was turned upside down when he found himself single at 39 and how he picked up the pieces to put his life back together. If you have gone through a breakup of a long-term relationship or a divorce, listen in to Adam's story. This conversation between old friends is a reminder that navigating the dating world is a journey and so many of us go through very similar things throughout this process. Adam shares some of the top skills that successful daters and couples can use through practice to help them have more healthy and happy relationships. You'll hear about how raising your awareness of certain personal triggers helps you interpret the behaviors of others with more clarity. Kimmy and Adam touch on the power of having a community surrounding and supporting you in order to start to shift your consciousness around the relationship skills you want to build. And, Adam shares some lessons he's learned in his new relationship about not making assumptions about others because everyone has grown up differently with different experiences. If you're ready to start honing your relationship skills, get some time on Kimmy's calendar here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In a FREE 30-minute session with Kimmy you could start to uncover some of the central challenges you face when dating and begin to craft a roadmap of how to practice and navigate where you want to go. Also if you want the practice join Kimmy and other amazing experts in Adam’s Kyyndr interactive summit. This is a curated community of men and women who meet every week to learn advanced dating and relationships skills together and to connect in a deeper way online. Click here to join! www.kyyndr.com/seltzer EPISODE 211 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Everyone experiences extreme life events that impact how we think, act and behave throughout our loves. If you've experienced trauma, physical, verbal or emotional abuse in your family or past relationships, this week's episode will resonate with you. You'll hear Kimmy have a coaching call with Margaret, a healthcare worker who is struggling to move beyond her past and find love again. After leaving an abusive 11-year marriage, Margaret is focused on how she can shift her perspective to start attracting different people into her life. EPISODE 210 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Trauma Prevents You From Finding Love: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy dives in by describing the signs of the 3 most common responses to fear: fight, flight or freeze. If one of more of these responses feels like you, listen in to hear proven strategies to begin breaking those patterns for yourself, while still prioritizing your own health and safety. Margaret jumps in to share that she has no problem meeting guys, but when it comes to trusting their motives, it's a different story. If you've built in some questions to "test" your dates early on, Kimmy explains reasons why this tactic may backfire when trying to filter through red flags. Margaret also shares what the dynamics in her family looked like growing up and Kimmy identifies how those patterns could be repeating themselves in her dating life today. If you've found success in "fixing" or helping others, this conversation will illuminate how this dynamic creates unhealthy dating dynamics. Kimmy shares some tips on how to check in with yourself and what you're feeling to make sense of the reactions you may have to different behavior. If you have a tendency to focus on making others happy at the expense of getting your own needs met, stay tuned to hear how you can take small steps to start breaking those patterns. Learn how to shift the focus back to you, instead of trying to predict what the person you're dating may or may not be concealing. If Margaret's experience resonates with you and you're looking for a path that could release you from your past trauma in relationships, reach out to Kimmy for a complimentary coaching call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you learn to shift your focus from others to yourself at this stage, you'll be able to build a sense of empowerment, raise your standards and go after what you want and deserve in a relationship. Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Dating in today's landscape can be intimidating. Gone are the days of being introduced to your person through family or friends as nowadays people are more and more likely to meet online. The world of dating apps is big, and without a concrete plan, you may feel like you're out in the wilderness. This week, Kimmy speaks with an authority on how to navigate dating online, Dawoon Kang, the co-founder and Chief Dating Officer of popular dating app Coffee Meets Bagel. EPISODE 209 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Virtual Dating: Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert Kimmy and Dawoon dive into Dawoon's experience going on hundreds of first dates and how that informed her work at Coffee Meets Bagel. Dating smarter (not harder!) means diversifying your options by socializing with other single people, trying new things, and getting out of your comfort zone, which includes a healthy relationship with the apps. Dawoon and Kimmy talk through why it's so important not to begin your dating journey by focusing on finding "the one" but instead, focusing on how you feel with the other person. These two geek out about the science behind great, long-lasting relationships and what signals to look out for online to see if you and your date are compatible. Tune in to hear the biggest red flags you should watch out for to tell if a dating profile is real or fake. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that your dating profile can be a space curated to showcase your authentic self. You can signal to others who you are and what you want by choosing flattering photos, and sharing personal information that showcases what matters to you. Find out how to focus on the story, not the facts, in a profile and why you’ll get better results by doing that. If you are tired of numbing out and swiping through people who you don't see a real connection with, get in touch with Kimmy for a complimentary, 30-minute call to map out a dating plan here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One call can set you on the path to clarifying what you're looking for and even tips on how to date smarter. EPISODE 209 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Virtual Dating: Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Maricus, who is starting his dating journey for the first time since leaving his marriage and finding himself in the process. EPISODE 208 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Discovering Yourself After A Breakup: Where Are They Now With Maricus Kimmy and Maricus dive in by talking about how his marriage to his ex-wife was lopsided. If you're like Maricus, chances are you've spent a lot of time focusing on what others want and not a lot of time considering what you want. This conversation touches on strategies to ensure that your needs are met, especially if you don't have a lot of dating experience under your belt. And, you'll expand your definition of what dating is all about! You don't need to date with the intention of getting into a relationship, you can date in order to expand your social skills and get to know how you show up and how you want others to show up for you. You'll hear how through working with Kimmy, Maricus was able to come out of his shell, find his confident voice and be more true to who he is in order to find potential partners. Plus, Maricus tells stories about how he's been able to put himself out there more through meetups and getting out of his comfort zone, which has led to him making new connections with new people where he lives. Stay tuned to hear about the new relationship Maricus is in and how it's totally different than anything he's been in before. If Maricus's experience resonated with you and you have been hesitant about reaching out to speak with someone to get your love life on track, listen in to hear his advice about how to get started. When you're ready to take the next step whether that's strengthening your relationship with yourself, your personal confidence, or forging new love relationships, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One phone call could be the difference between you staying stuck and you moving forward and finding the fulfilling relationship you've always wanted. EPISODE 208 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Discovering Yourself After A Breakup: Where Are They Now With Maricus. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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How do you care for yourself? Nurturing yourself and taking care of your needs is an essential part of being the best version of yourself. This week, Kimmy has an introspective conversation with Dr. Gertrude Lyons, a life coach, speaker, podcast host of Rewrite The Mother Code, and self-described mothering revolutionary. This week, Kimmy and Gertrude invite you to think about the art of mothering in all its’ forms, regardless of your gender. This episode is all about how to mother and nurture yourself and attract the kind of love you want. EPISODE 207 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mother Yourself To Attract Love: Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons Gertrude talks about her family upbringing and early career discovering her love of connecting with people and how it led her to find her core self through the years. If you’re a highly analytical and high-achieving person like Gertrude, it’s even more important to tap into your emotional side so you can connect on a deeper level with the people you date. Kimmy and Gertrude talk about the concept of mothering as a way to foster a healthy sense of self-love without feeling selfish so that you attract more reciprocity in your interactions. Listen in to hear why securing support and accountability is the best decision you can make when it comes to nurturing your relationship with yourself. You’ll hear tips on naming emotions as you feel them so you can better express yourself and gain self-awareness. This conversation will remind you to look at your love journey as a process to grow through. These two experts review some real, practical tips to help you develop the self-care you need to create a healthy relationship with yourself and others. If you listen to this and you are struck with knowing you are focusing too much on others and want to learn how to empower yourself to attract love, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out a strategy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, working on yourself is working on your dating life! EPISODE 207 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mother Yourself To Attract Love: Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Have you ever felt like you were just dating the same person over and over again? Even though you've been working on yourself and listening to podcasts (like this one!), you still can't seem to break free from experiencing the same patterns. This week, Kimmy is going to help you tackle some issues you may not have been able to see before. Listen in to hear her Top 5 Love Shields that may be preventing you from finding the one. EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Things That Block You From Love You'll learn time-tested techniques to help you look inward and determine what you can do to start attracting a different kind of a person into your life. When you mirror the kind of partner you want to be with, you'll connect more deeply with the kind of people you are seeking. The more you know yourself and show up as your authentic self (quirks included!) the more you'll be able to set the standard you desire in a relationship. This empowering episode will show you that you cannot change or control others, you can only change yourself. Kimmy delivers some tough love in this episode with tips and tricks that will help you determine if you are conflating reality with fantasy in your dating life. Listen in to hear how fear can create habits that keep you from getting hurt. Learn how taking risks and going outside your comfort zone will help you have an experience or create an opportunity to meet someone you never would have otherwise. If you recognize that you are being held back by your fears and you need help seeing past your own barriers, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Your first half an hour with Kimmy is complimentary to see if you could benefit from working with her to crack your love code! Also, Kimmy will be in NYC in September and is opening up 1-2 slots for private coaching and possibly a small group gathering. If you are interested, inquire at Askkimmy.com for more info to apply. EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Things That Block You From Love The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In these episodes, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with her clients to find out how their life has changed since working with her, and the secrets to their success. Today, you'll meet Meredith, who found Kimmy on a friend's recommendation and now has completely changed her story and has found love. EPISODE 205 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Vulnerability Attracted Love: Where Are They Now With Meredith Meredith dives in by sharing what she struggled within dating. From uncovering habits and behaviors tied to growing up in a household where emotions were not shared to dating men who gaslit her and invalidated her needs, Meredith was ready to make a drastic shift. Listen in to hear how she came to the realization that she could make different choices and start seeing different results. If you have ever felt like you were too broken or had too much baggage to deserve a happy, healthy and fulfilling relationship, this episode is for you. And if you're like Meredith, you may have unconsciously been creating some of the conflict you were desperately trying to avoid by people pleasing and worrying about everyone else's needs before your own. Kimmy and Meredith break down the key factors in the coaching process that led to breakthroughs for Meredith -- in love and at work! This conversation is a beautiful reminder that what shows up in one area of your life often leaks into other areas, including business. And, listen in to hear the words that helped Meredith feel valued and seen for her authentic self, not who she used to try to be to impress the guys. Stay tuned to hear Meredith's incredible story of how her new relationship has blossomed from a totally unexpected place! Hopefully, some of the insights from Meredith's journey to discover self-love, confidence and the power of saying no will resonate with you! You can change your story with just one call to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Just like she was for Meredith, Kimmy can be a built-in accountability partner to guide you and keep you on track to work on your love life. EPISODE 205 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Vulnerability Attracted Love: Where Are They Now With Meredith. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Does the idea of confronting conflict in a relationship make you cringe? Would you rather avoid sharing your true feelings because you're afraid that sharing how you feel will cause more problems? If this sounds like you, tune in to hear Kimmy's interview with David Wood. David runs the world's largest coaching business for high-performing entrepreneurs, is the celebrated author of Get Paid for Who You Are, and is an expert in having tough conversations. EPISODE 204 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life: Interview With David Wood If you have ever decided not to speak up because you were afraid that communicating your truth would damage a new or existing relationship, this conversation is for you. Listen in to hear Kimmy and David talk through David's method to reduce fear when having hard conversations. David shares one powerful question that will help you clearly see the upside to sharing your true feelings. Addressing conflicts with others can feel quite intimidating, but rest assured that you don't need all the answers upfront. When you engage in a discussion with someone else, clarifying your goals or what you might want from the other person can help demystify this process and make it easier to get started. David and Kimmy discuss the possible effects of conflict avoidance, which might surprise you! When you are armed with a strategy to address conflict in a healthy way, you will be more able to express yourself and get what you want. This episode will show you that you do not need to modify your behavior just to please someone else. Listen in until the end to hear David breakdown exactly how to structure your next tough conversation. If YOU are avoiding hard conversations in your life and it's preventing you from finding an intimate relationship or the right partner, get in touch with Kimmy and find a time to chat to give you the plan and courage to do so: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. EPISODE 204 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life: Interview With David Wood. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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When was the last time you truly leveled up? Are you comfortable where you are right now or are you ready for the next level in your love life? This week Kimmy interviews an expert in reaching the next level of success, Joe Sanok. He's a keynote and TEDx speaker, business consultant, and hosts the #1 podcast for counselors, The Practice of the Practice Podcast. EPISODE 203 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life: Interview With Joe Sanok Joe dives in to talk about how he set out on a career path that ended up differently than he ever expected. He talks through how he moved out of a conformity mindset from doing what was expected of him to forging his own path and the challenges that came along the way. If you have arrived at a place in your life where you're seeking more happiness and fulfillment in your love relationships, listen in to hear the surprising concept Joe introduces that will change the way you think about rejection. This conversation is a reminder that in order to progress in dating (or in anything!) you have to rise out of your comfort zone and the ONLY way to do this is practice. Listen in to hear two concrete tips on how to combat the fear of failure that we all have. Joe and Kimmy talk about the power of setting small, achievable goals that you can take action to accomplish with the intention to make things easier for yourself. And, Joe and Kimmy break down the signs that you ARE actually pushing past your comfort zone into the next level you're seeking. When you lean into your curiosity and actively seek experiences that challenge your current mindsets, you're on the right path. If you want to reach a new goal in your love life and need support transcending your comfort zone, reach out to Kimmy and set a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's free, it's 30-minutes and at the end, you'll leave with a new perspective and a road map towards accomplishing your goals. EPISODE 203 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life: Interview With Joe Sanok. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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What does it mean to embrace your feminine power? Are you open to receiving, letting men earn you, and learning to flow in your feminine energy? This week on the podcast, Kimmy interviews Petia Kolibuva, a women's transformation coach who helps her clients release what is holding them back so they can become the loving, nurturing, powerful women they've always dreamed of being. If you are struggling with giving off masculine energy or constantly being in work mode in your dating life, listen in! This conversation will deliver you some of the key factors to gaining a new sense of femininity without giving off the "wrong" impression. EPISODE 202 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One: Interview With Petia Kolibova Petia shares a vulnerable personal story about the struggles she experienced in her youth and how she emerged from that darkness into feeling that she was deserving of abundance and happiness in her life. If you're like Petia, you may have grown up on the offensive, feeling as if you had to fight or protect yourself from people and situations. Stay tuned to hear how you can begin to break down your masculine habits and build softer, feminine ones. Kimmy and Petia walk through some of the steps that you can take to identify limiting beliefs that you may have that are blocking you from embracing your truth. This episode will redefine your perception of feminine energy as everything from softening your approach, to reconnecting with nature, to being open to receiving to being more present. Kimmy talks through the important distinction between being "sexy" and truly being "in your feminine" while commanding respect in every aspect of your life. Petia leads an exercise in breathwork to remind us what is in and out of our control. If you are looking to embrace your feminine side and have no idea where to start, Kimmy can help! As always, you can sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with her here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In one short call you could walk away with concrete tips on how to be more in your feminine to attract the kind of partner you're seeking. Also, inquire about her exclusive 6-week class coming up called Get Your Sexy Back. This interactive and fun coaching program will teach you how to look and feel attractive, desirable and feminine so that you capture a man’s interest no matter who you are with and where you go. If you are interested in attending go to askkimmy.com EPISODE 202 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One: Interview With Petia Kolibova. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Do you flirt intentionally to capture someone’s eye? Flirting is one of the most common challenges people face when dating. If you're not a confident flirt, chances are you're holding back because you don't want to come off as cheesy, unintelligent or give someone the wrong impression. On today's show, you'll learn the REAL definition of flirting and hear Kimmy coach Keren, a travel nurse who's had some bad luck in relationships and wants to get back out there but worries because she doesn’t know how to flirt. EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy asks Keren about her interpretation of flirting and digs into what about it feels uncomfortable. If you have ever felt nervous, anxious or repelled from flirting in the past, this conversation will help shift your perspective about what flirting is so that it's fun and intentional. Keren and Kimmy talk about approaching flirting and dating from a proactive place, as opposed to a reactive place. You'll hear about Keren's upbringing in a big family where learning and observing were valued and how that plays into her current dating life. If you are like Keren, a high achiever who is often focused on doing the right thing, this episode will help you let go of the outcome a bit more and just focus on being purposely playful while staying present. Listen in for Kimmy's expert tips about the science of flirting, how being direct is more effective than being ambiguous and how to put out the right smoke signals to let people know you're open and interested in making connections. With such a demanding job, one of the biggest challenges in dating for Keren is her schedule. With being so busy, Kimmy talks to Keren about dating herself and practicing getting comfortable speaking with men without the intention of getting into a relationship. This episode stresses the importance of practicing with baby steps and not getting ahead of things. If you're like Keren and bite size assignments motivate you and are hitting a roadblock in flirting, Kimmy can support you on your journey! In just one 30-minute conversation, you might see your love life in a new way. Book your time here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, Kimmy is launching a brand new program just for women called, Get Your Sexy Back! To find out more, go to askkimmy.com and drop her a note mentioning you're interested. Space will be limited so sign up now to get on the priority list and get your sexy back! And if you just want to start with the bite size assignment, you can Awaken Your Feminine Energy to be sexy, flirty and confident with Kimmy’s new FREE dating video series by just signing up here awakenyourfeminine.com. There is NO excuse to not inquire about any of these opportunities to get you going. EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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This week on the Charisma Quotient, we’re celebrating 200 episodes! Over the years, we’ve heard stories from women and men all over the world around their journey to grow, work on themselves and find love. Today’s show is about honoring the process of dating, finding success in each dating phase and learning to love each step for its challenges and gifts. EPISODE 200 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Dating To Finding Love: Special 200th Episode Kimmy breaks down the three phases of dating and finding love: having fun during courtship, dating with consistency, and getting to a committed relationship. At each phase, she illuminates how people she’s worked with have overcome challenges at each phase to move onto the next. You’ll hear Kimmy’s expert tips on how to boost your self-esteem and love yourself in each phase from dating to a committed relationship. Learn how dating can be fun when you let yourself be playful, flirtatious and curious in the courting phase and how to be vulnerable and emotionally available to sustain a healthy relationship. Stay tuned to catch up with amazing women, Harpreet and Molly, who first joined the show on Where Are They Now episodes after finding success in dating. And, stick around to hear a special bonus interview and announcement from Jane who’s worked with Kimmy to help make connections, build her confidence and help her find the love she always wanted! No matter where you are in your dating phase, Kimmy can help you reach the next step in your love journey! Find a time to chat with Kimmy for free for 30 minutes https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And you can Awaken Your Feminine Energy and be sexy and confident with Kimmy’s new FREE dating video series by just signing up here awakenyourfeminine.com. Maybe you'll be next in celebrating a love milestone before you know it! EPISODE 200 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Dating To Finding Love: Special 200th Episode. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Do you know if you are marketing yourself so that you attract the right partner? It's not about changing who you are, it's about marketing yourself well to create the right opportunity to find love. This week on the show, Kimmy interviews Steve Werner a webinar, presentation and event expert and founder of Monetize Your Tribe. Steve jumps in to share his story about how he went from knowing very little about marketing events to becoming a go-to authority in his space on how to market and present yourself successfully. EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Marketing Yourself To Attract Love: Interview With Steve Werner Kimmy and Steve have a lively, fun conversation that pinpoints the truth that making genuine connections with others is not about what you do or what’s on your resume, it’s all about if you can get someone to know, like, and trust the real you. Listen in to hear all about how telling personal stories is one of the best ways to make authentic connections with others and put your best foot forward every time. If you’re not too sure where to start, stay tuned to hear an amazing tip from Steve about how to use descriptive words to catch someone’s attention. Kimmy and Steve dig into storytelling as a method to safely express vulnerability, and how men and women tend to experience it differently. If you’re having trouble maintaining conversations on dates and want a few tricks you can try the next time you’re out, this is the episode for you! Plus, Steve shares some secrets about superheroes and well-known TV characters that translate into patterns we see in dating and love. If you find yourself getting in your head on dates you’ll want to hear concrete tips on how to avoid oversharing and emotionally connect in a genuine way. As we begin to reenter the world, you may have started to notice social anxiety popping up around dating and socializing. Click HERE to hop on a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kimmy, who can help you create a plan to put yourself out there with confidence. And, Kimmy is announcing a brand new FREE video series called Awaken Your Feminine Energy that is packed with actionable tips and exercises on how to give good conversation, upgrade your body language and flirting skills so you can show up as the best version of you in your dating life. All you have to do to sign up is click this link and you’ll be IN awakenyourfeminine.com EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Marketing Yourself To Attract Love: Interview With Steve Werner. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Do you have a tendency to attract narcissists? Have you noticed that your dates aren't genuinely curious about who you are? Do your relationships feel amazing at first and then fizzle out just as quickly as they began? This week on the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Christina, who has noticed a pattern of attracting narcissists in her love life. As an army veteran, olympian and veterinarian, Christina has accomplished so much and is committed to regaining trust in herself after two failed relationships with narcissists. EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Free From Attracting Narcissists: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy and Christina dive in to talk about Christina's dating history and the toll that her previous relationships have taken on her trust in herself and her outlook on dating. As a self-proclaimed PhD in detecting narcissists, Christina shares her struggle of letting go of her fears due to her knowledge she has and the PTSD she had experienced in these toxic relationships. Listen in as Kimmy calls Christina out on how she has been getting in her head too much trying to diagnose her dates to protect herself from getting hurt again. If you identify as an empath or highly sensitive person like Christina, this episode is for you. Kimmy shares several strategies on how you can maintain your confidence through caring for others, while still ensuring that your own needs are prioritized. You’ll hear about the pink and red flags to look out for in order to set behavioral boundaries on dates and how to not get attached to the outcome so you can notice how your date responds to you. And, if you have a tendency to overshare, especially early on in dating, you’ll hear some great tips to keep the conversation light, while still leading with your feelings and playfulness. If you are continually attracting narcissists and you want to know what you can do to start seeing different results book a call with Kimmy directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It’s completely free to you, and in just 30 minutes you could walk away with a new outlook and strategies that get you closer to what you truly want. Also, inquire about her exclusive 6-week class coming up in July called Get Your Sexy Back. This interactive and fun coaching program will teach you how to look and feel attractive, desirable and feminine so that you capture a man’s interest no matter who you are with and where you go. If you are interested in attending go to askkimmy.com. EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Free From Attracting Narcissists: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Most of us recognize that networking is an essential part of advancing in business or a career. But, have you considered using networking to create opportunities to date and find love? The more well connected you are, the more opportunities you'll have to meet someone you might never have otherwise. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Amber Spears, recognized as a well-connected industry leader, entrepreneur, and Internet Marketing Expert who helps companies develop and optimize their sales and online marketing strategies through networking. EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears Amber dives in by sharing how she started her current business and how networking has been integral to her success now. Kimmy connects Amber's story to the fact that building a robust network in your professional life can also serve your love life. You'll hear about the pitfalls many people fall into, including being too target-specific looking for their soulmate. Listen in to hear the two key factors in creating a strong relationship where people truly get to know, like and trust you. If you are working on being more present in your conversations, this episode will show you the incredible power of getting curious with everyone you meet. Then, Amber shares a powerful personal story about making the leap from believing that she was only valuable to others based on how she helped their business, rather than who she is as a person. If you have fallen out with a group of friends who haven’t served you or have been blind-sighted by what others thought of you, this episode will help you. Kimmy and Amber talk through some of the steps that Amber took in order to raise her self-worth and demand the kind of respect she knew she deserved. Listen in to hear tips on how to transform what at first was a negative experience into a powerful growth moment for yourself. Finally, you'll hear some incredible insight from Amber about how investing in your success for love and career can be a game-changer. When you commit to making a change in your life, you will start to see different results. If you are sick of only swiping right and left and want to build a dating network to attract the right potential partners, here's your first step. Book a time to have a free session with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. That one call could potentially change the course of your path to love by simply mapping out a plan to get there. EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Have you ever met someone and immediately jumped on an emotional roller coaster together? You had great chemistry and super high highs, but the lows were even lower. Before you knew it the relationship was over just as quickly as it started. If this sounds familiar, you’ve probably experienced a toxic relationship. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy shares five key steps to help you avoid getting involved in toxic relationships or “situation-ships” in your love life. EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet Toxic relationships come in all shapes, sizes, and degrees. While every dynamic created by two people is different, there are some commonalities when it comes to toxic relationships that this episode will break down. Listen in to learn how to clearly see the signs of a toxic date from day one. If you find yourself always attracting narcissists, this episode will give you actionable ways to stop repeating that pattern. You’ll get tips on the importance of setting boundaries early and often and how to hold yourself and others accountable. This episode will help you recognize your own unhealthy patterns and how to stop them by creating a healthy dating diet. If you want to start attracting reciprocal, growth-focused relationships in your life, it's easier than you think to get started. First, find out your dating archetype (like the Narcissist Magnet!) by listening to Kimmy’s exclusive audio course, This May Be Why You Suck At Dating. https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer/. This course features conversations between Kimmy and women who fit each of her five dating archetypes. Purchase the course which you can access where you listen to podcasts to see which one aligns most with you and learn concrete action steps to find more success when dating. And, you can always find time to speak with Kimmy in a complimentary breakthrough call here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Now is the time to start to develop new, helpful habits that get you closer to what you want! EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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Are you hiding your body because you’re embarrassed about how you look? As summer approaches and your world might be opening up, you might be starting to think about looking your best and dressing for the warmer weather. Feeling attractive on the outside relates to how you feel inside and WILL affect your sexy dating confidence. If you're ready to improve your health and build a better relationship with your body image, listen in! This week, Kimmy interviews Malin Svensson, CEO and Founder of Nordic Body, Jane Fonda's fitness coach(!), and the author of Wake Up: Your Body and Mind After 50. EPISODE 197 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson Kimmy and Malin dive in to talk about the importance of developing a strong mindset in order to increase your physical strength and dating confidence -- at any age! Exercising is, of course, part of a healthy lifestyle, but this conversation will remind you not to focus on the scale. When you nourish your body and engage in movement, the more you will feel connected to your physical self which is an attraction magnet. The more connected you feel, the more present you'll be and the more you'll radiate confidence in all areas of your life, including love. Malin shares some super useful tips about how to motivate yourself to get moving if you're feeling stuck. One key takeaway you'll learn is that it's better to take on what you can do, rather than feeling pressure to attempt what you can't. Kimmy and Malin discuss how to take small steps to achieve little wins both in your health and dating life. Kimmy reviews a few tricks you can use with your mind and body to boost your dating confidence. If you are ready to build a more positive body image to increase your sexy confidence, sign up for a complimentary coaching session with Kimmy to get started. Book your time here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough Working on your love life IS working on you! Maybe revamping your closet is the best first step for you to get the motivation you need to find the love you truly deserve. EPISODE 197 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
It's no surprise to hear that making a good first impression is essential, especially when dating. In fact, it only takes 7 seconds now to make a first impression. So, what steps can you take to ensure you shine as your true self and attract the right kind of attention when you walk into a room or even on your dating profile? This week, Kimmy interviews Scott Carson, an investor, entrepreneur, marketer and host of the Note Closers Show Podcast. As a proven expert in building relationships in business, Scott knows a thing or two about creating an impact with a first impression. EPISODE 196 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson Kimmy and Scott recollect their first impressions of each other at the New Media Summer for podcasters more than a year ago. This conversation is packed with style and conversation tips you can use when getting ready for your next social event IRL. If you find yourself recycling the same drab, boring clothes over and over again, this episode is your sign it's time for a refresh! Listen in to hear about using color to ensure that you stand out in the crowd or leading with being of service to others in your first interaction to set the tone. Scott and Kimmy trade stories on good and bad first impressions that stuck out to them over the years both in love and business. If you have ever stood in front of your mirror and wondered, "Does this dress look good on me?" or, “Does this outfit reflect a sexy dating image?", listen in how you can improve your image. Before you have a chance to get to know someone on a deeper level, first impressions signal how much you care and can make or break the opportunity to get to know someone better. This lively, fun conversation will remind you to take the time to take care of yourself so that you can start attracting new love and opportunity. It's time to get out there and get noticed! If you really want to learn how to create a great first impression and get out of your pandemic clothes...get a virtual makeover with Kimmy! You’ll learn about your body type, what clothes flatter your figure, what to stay away from and Kimmy will pick out outfits for your photoshoot, lifestyle and for dates so that you have the confidence you need to attract a potential date. Click here for more details http://bit.ly/KimVM And, there are still a few spots left for Kimmy's Ultimate Flirt Masterclass, going live TONIGHT at 5pM PST/8p EST. Claim yours while you still can and get the hands-on practice flirting you've been asking for! https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 196 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Alexis, who has gone from struggling with her self-worth to surpassing her dating goals in just 3 short months! Since investing in coaching with Kimmy as a 5-year "divorce-iversary" present to herself, Alexis has made some majors strides in her dating life. EPISODE 195 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis Alexis begins by sharing the fears that were holding her back from recognizing her self-worth and believing she was deserving of the cake, not just the crumbs! Alexis shares struggling to even get a date to not letting men earn her due to the lack of setting boundaries and not expressing her needs. You’ll hear Alexis and Kimmy talk through how she increased her sexy, flirty and feminine confidence through working on her wardrobe, profile and mindset. Listen in to hear great tips about how to diversify the photos on your online dating profiles to showcase every side of you while still highlighting your sexy, feminine side. If you have done a lot of work to build your self-esteem and raise your self-worth, only to be knocked back a few steps after a few bad dates, you will definitely want to listen to this episode! You’ll hear how Alexis went from battling her insecurities to now dating up a storm with great men. Old anxiety or troubles from your childhood or earlier dating and relationship experiences will always show up, but if you are equipped with a plan to combat those, you'll start to see success too, just like Alexis! Take the leap like Alexis did and schedule a complimentary call with Kimmy https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And, who knows? Maybe you'll be sharing your story on another episode of Where Are They Now?! Plus, reserve your spot HERE https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting for Kimmy's new Ultimate Flirt Masterclass designed for women and men to create irresistible chemistry, stop feeling nervous when flirting and even get tips on how to put together the perfect date outfit. This is your chance to get hands-on practice out there in the dating world. Space is limited, sign up today! EPISODE 195 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
When you walk into a room for a social event or date, do you feel anxious and get in your head? You want to feel and come across as magnetic, confident, and secure so that you'll make a good impression. But after spending so much time apart from others, your social muscles might be atrophied or maybe you need to work on building them for the first time. This week, Kimmy interviews Robbie Kramer, an expert who specializes in cultivating social confidence and improving men’s interactions and relationships from love to business and beyond. EPISODE 194 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer Robbie shares his journey from being a golf geek with no dating experience to coaching men internationally to have successful relationships. If you're out of practice creating chemistry in conversations and experience social anxiety, this conversation is for you. Listen in to hear concrete exercises and tips you can try on your own to break unhelpful patterns and start getting comfortable being uncomfortable. Whether you're a man or a woman, you know dating can be intimidating! This discussion digs into how being stuck in your head on dates or focusing on what you're going to say next can blind you to the social cues you need to pick up on to create chemistry. Robbie and Kimmy disclose about some surprising tactics you can experiment with to help you decrease your anxiety and become more confident in your approach. If you want to dive in and work on improving your confidence, you need one thing: experience! Hop on a free 30-minute call with Kimmy here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough and learn how to bring more of your swagger into social and dating situations. And stay tuned for Kimmy's newest Dating Masterclass for both men and women coming to you on May 24th! Click here: https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ to sign up and get first dibs on your spot in this private class where you will get hands-on practice flirting and creating chemistry on dates. EPISODE 194 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
How much do you rely on physical or sexual chemistry to create connections with dates? If you answered, "All the time!" then this episode is for you. This week, Kimmy live coaches Maggie, a vibrant woman who's ready to get back into the dating scene to find an intelligent, attractive man. The problem is, she just isn't physically attracted to the guys she's meeting. EPISODE 193 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cultivating Chemistry On Dates: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy asks Maggie to jump in and tell her story. Maggie reflects on how the loss of her husband and her relationship dynamic with her father have impacted her perception of what she deserves. After decades of prioritizing and caring for her family above herself, Maggie recognizes now that she's in a new stage in her life where it's possible to put herself first for the first time. If you consider yourself a people pleaser like Maggie, you may find that it's easier to take care of others instead of yourself. But now, Maggie is having a hard time knowing the steps she can take to allow herself to be in receiving mode. This conversation illuminates how self-reflection relates to the first step to breaking a pattern…even when it comes to attraction! Often the issue that rises to the surface like not having chemistry with your dates, is actually more deeply rooted in something that only you can change. Listen in to find out the surprising reasons why Maggie isn’t finding anyone attractive and preventing her from finding someone new. Kimmy reveals actionable tips for Maggie so that she can slow down, be in receiving mode and open herself up for love again. Chemistry is more than just sexual attraction! To find out more about Kimmy's three essential ingredients to creating strong, lasting chemistry... sign up for a breakthrough call with Kimmy right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Just like Maggie, you can begin your journey to crack your code and find out what's blocking you from finding the love you want. You can also get started right now by signing up to be on the priority list for Kimmy's first coed Masterclass on creating chemistry for both men and women on May 17th! Sign up here and you'll be first in line to secure your spot! https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 193 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cultivating Chemistry On Dates: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
What does it mean to be your authentic self? You've heard the buzzwords, but do you really know how to put all these theories into action? This week, Kimmy interviews an expert on living authentically, Michael Brody-Waite. Michael is an acclaimed speaker, Inc. 500 Entrepreneur, three-time CEO, TEDx speaker, and author of Great Leaders Live Like Drug Addicts. As a recovering addict, Michael's mission is to teach as many people as possible how to lead themselves by shedding the masks they hide behind in order to live as their true, authentic selves.
EPISODE 192 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Hiding Behind The Masks: Interview With Michael Brody-Waite Michael begins by sharing his recovery journey and the empowerment he gained after moving through a 12-Step program, and the lessons learned that apply to many areas of life including business and love. Kimmy and Michael share stories about how we often try to hide our weaknesses, avoid difficult conversations and hold back our unique perspective in dating in order to be "liked" by someone else. The result of these actions is that we hide our true selves and build relationships not based in truth, or fail to build relationships at all. This conversation shines a light on the actual habits and practices you need to lean into in order to truly live as your authentic self and attract a healthy relationship. Michael shares tips around using the transformative power of starting something new, as opposed to trying to stop something you've been used to doing. If you have already started or want to start working on yourself, this episode will help provide your roadmap to get started. Have you noticed yourself saying "Yes!" when you'd rather say "No!" or constantly avoiding conversations or situations that make you feel uncomfortable? Start doing the work to notice how these moments come up for you and get the support you need to push through the difficult parts and come out on the other side. To connect with your authentic self and find the love you want, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here.https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In just 30-minutes, you may gain a new perspective that leads you to find a match that's the right fit for you! And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group: The Love Makeover Insiders. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers. Also, join her priority list for the upcoming Masterclass in May for both men and women here https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 192 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Hiding Behind The Masks: Interview With Michael Brody-Waite. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Let's face it: dating is tough to navigate! No matter who you are, where you live, how old you are or your previous experience, dating during a global pandemic comes with a whole new set of challenges. This week, Kimmy walks you through the 5 best ways to navigate the new dating landscape and up your game. Whether you've taken a break from dating entirely or you went through a breakup in the last year, you can use these tips to start building back your social muscle and find success in love. EPISODE 191 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Up Your 2021 Dating Game The truth is, dating is different now! In order to jump back into the dating pool, you need to embrace the changes and learn to see the benefits instead of the barriers. So many people have used this time in lockdown to focus on creating meaningful emotional connections as opposed to relying on physical connections only. Listen in to hear important ways to expand your network and meet people in new places -- even online! You'll hear tips from Kimmy based on her work with thousands of clients on how they are meeting new people and landing dates even during and after lockdown. Listen in to hear key elements that create a fun and playful dating environment to reduce the burnout! Set your intention to re-enter the dating world with a positive outlook, instead of out of fear that you'll attract someone who's not right for you. If you are looking to restart your dating life on the right foot, there are 2 things you can do right now! First, sign up here for a free coaching session with Kimmy so that she can help you get started https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Second, click here to get on the priority list to be the first to know about Kimmy's new Dating Masterclass coming this May! https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/. In this Masterclass, both men and women will be in the room so you'll get real-time lessons on how to date, mate and relate! EPISODE 191 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Up Your 2021 Dating Game. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Matt, who found Kimmy through a flirt workshop as he was trying to get back into the dating scene after a divorce. Matt jumps in to talk about the challenges he faced in finding a relationship leading up to his work with Kimmy. EPISODE 190 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Matt You'll hear about how the barriers Matt believed were holding him back were actually not the real reasons blocking him from finding love. Kimmy and Matt talk about the impact of coaching to get him to transition from leading with what he could do for women, rather than by showing them who he is. If you, like Matt, have a tendency to jump into relationships quickly, listen in to hear how creating a goal-oriented dating plan can help slow you down and refocus on your intention. This conversation touches on an essential truth in dating - when you are willing to open up, be vulnerable and show your date who you are even when it feels scary, you begin to attract the kind of person you're looking for. Now, Matt's in a beautiful relationship with the woman of his dreams! Stay tuned to hear how they met and how excited he is that they are such a great match! This conversation will emphasize the fact that you can meet someone special, even with online dating or don't live near one another and even in the midst of a global pandemic! If you're ready to declare what you want and just need help creating the plan to go after it, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you are interested in an upcoming Masterclass for men and women around creating chemistry, sign up for the priority list here https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/. As Matt says, if you want to experience something you never have before, you have to try something you've never tried before! EPISODE 190 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Matt. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
How do you come back from a setback? How do you stay resilient after a series of bad dates, no dates, or failed relationships? This week on the show, Kimmy's bringing you a special episode, with a special guest. What began as an interview, transformed into a coaching session with Tim Storey, widely recognized as a legendary life coach to professional athletes and celebrities (including Oprah!).
EPISODE 189 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Is Tim Storey Single? Building Dating Resilience Tim's story is powerful, inspirational and will help you understand the strength it takes to stay resilient no matter what. Tim has mastered the art of turning setbacks into comebacks and has built a career on coaching stars to operate and achieve at the highest levels. If you are coming off a setback in your life, big or small - listen in to how you can avoid one of the most major pitfalls people tend to face. Listen in to hear Kimmy and Tim dive into why he's still single! You'll hear all about Tim's upbringing and how he had to learn resilience at an early age. You'll hear how Tim's experience being raised by his mother and his 3 sisters changed his expectations of what a successful relationship looked like. And, tune in to discover Kimmy's coaching advice to Tim about he can change the intention of his conversations in order to go deeper and make connections beyond his professional persona. If you are dealing with setbacks in your life, major or minor take this opportunity to be coached by Kimmy like she did with Tim, and sign up for a free breakthrough call with her right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You will learn how to bounce back stronger than you ever have been before! It just takes one decision, one call to change your dating outcomes forever. And, keep an eye out for our "Part 2" live conversation coming soon to my Amazon Live show, Kimmy's Love Hub on SwayTVlive.com and to discuss his new book, Miracle Mentality. Subscribe to my newsletter here to get more details about all my upcoming new shows and masterclasses coming up! https://jd6421ka.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 189 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Is Tim Storey Single? Building Dating Resilience. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
We all have walls. No matter who you are or where you come from, you might have experiences in your past that you'd rather not repeat. We build up emotional walls to protect ourselves. The truth is, you may not realize you're doing this or even know where it originates from. But, if you're willing to get curious you may find an opening that allows you to start the work of breaking down your walls. This week you'll get the chance to hear Kimmy coach powerhouse beauty icon and influencer Eden Sassoon on her new Amazon Live show. You can see the full episode: Kimmy's Love Hub on SwayTV here on YouTube https://youtu.be/GkC82Ql_2yc. EPISODE 188 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eden Sassoon, The Black Widow: Coaching With Kimmy Known by her friends as "The Black Widow," Eden talks about her pattern of reeling men in, then letting them go just as fast. Kimmy and Eden deep dive on the current challenges Eden faces in her dating life. You'll hear her open up about the connection between her sobriety and her fear of true intimacy. This conversation makes clear that while Eden knows exactly how to glam up, flirt confidently and make men feel amazing, one of her biggest walls is her fear of not being loved for who she really is. You'll hear Kimmy and Eden uncover the fact that her reliance on physical chemistry can act as a shield that doesn't let men get to know her on a real emotional level. This powerful and emotional conversation may reveal the exhaustion one feels when energy is constantly around keeping the walls up to avoid getting hurt. You’ll hear how the walls might be preventing you (like Eden) from finding emotional intimacy. If this conversation resonated with you and you're ready to begin your journey to chip away at the walls you've built, set up a time to chat with Kimmy right here. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You deserve to be with someone who loves you for your authentic self - with no filters. When you allow yourself to be vulnerable, you give others the opportunity to show you if you can feel safe being your true self. EPISODE 188 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eden Sassoon, The Black Widow: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
The dating world is changing, and that's due in part to shifting gender roles in our society. If you're a woman who's a high-achiever and knows how to accomplish professional goals, you've probably felt disappointed in the pool of men out there before. In this episode of the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear a conversation that will broaden your horizons about who could be the right match for you. Kimmy interviews Jon Birger, an award-winning magazine writer, accidental dating guru, journalist and author of Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are In Charge. EPISODE 187 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World Jon dives into the research that's gone into his books. Over the past several decades as women have graduated college higher rates than men, there's been an increase in the number of college-educated women relative to college-educated men. Kimmy and Jon talk about the seismic shift this trend has created and dig into how all people, regardless of gender can reimagine their criteria in a partner to find the right person for them. This conversation shines a light on how interacting on dating apps can be transactional and addictive in nature. While the research shows that it can be tougher to find your soulmate online, if you diversify your dating portfolio and flex your social muscles by engaging in all the ways available to you, you'll increase your chance of success. Jon breaks down the research on the success rates of long-term relationships based on where you meet, whether that's online, in college, or at your place of worship. Kimmy and Jon talk through how you can be more open to different experiences and different people. If you've been single for a long time, you have to look at what you can do differently to get a different result. It's all about keeping an open mind and tossing out the overly-detailed checklists! To create your dating plan and find out how to diversify your dating portfolio, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just 30-minutes, you may gain new insight as to a dating plan that is right for you. And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group: The Love Makeover Insiders. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Molly, a healthcare worker who was feeling burned out by a string of dating experiences that went nowhere. When she heard Kimmy on a podcast talking about closet makeovers, she signed up to work with Kimmy and got a whole lot more than she bargained for! EPISODE 186 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cracking The Love Code: Where Are They Now With Molly Kimmy and Molly dive right in and talk about what Molly's dating experiences were like before she became a client. If you're like Molly and have had a series of short flings that don't progress, it can be discouraging and hard to find the motivation to move forward. You may not even realize that your conversation style or not sharing enough of your emotions may be keeping you from discovering a spark and deeper connection with your date. Molly talks about how she was having a hard time finding men that she really clicked with and how in her work with Kimmy she realized she could shift her perspective and approach and start getting different results. Listen in to hear how Molly tapped into her emotional intelligence, reframed her past in order to look forward to her future, and how she met her new boyfriend! Molly reminisces about their first date, how they made the connection, and shares how supported she feels in this new relationship. If you are debating signing up for a coaching call with Kimmy, take Molly's advice. Working with Kimmy means getting out there and practicing how to date in real-time. And remember, working on your dating life IS working on you! If you want to become better at flirting and gain the skills you need to have fun, successful dates, Kimmy is hosting another Flirt Immersion Workshop on March 20th! The event is small with only a few spots left so grab your ticket now here https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/. You'll join forces with a group of women to participate in interactive games and even speed date with a group of men, chosen by Kimmy. Learn everything you need to know about the art of flirting to start attracting the right guy for you! EPISODE 186 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cracking The Love Code: Where Are They Now With Molly. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Over the past year, the virtual dating scene has exploded. With people all over the world on lockdown due to the pandemic, we've all had to get creative and comfortable communicating using online platforms instead of face to face. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Zach Schleien, co-founder and CEO of Filter Off, a new video speed-dating app that has taken the industry by storm. Kimmy and Zach talk about the ability of video to transform conversations with your matches from boring and awkward to engaging and fun! EPISODE 185 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Virtual Dating: Interview with Zach Schleien Taking the leap to video dates more quickly can actually give you the power to find out sooner if you're really interested in your match. Kimmy and Zach dive into how to make a good first impression on your video dates. Here's a hint, the rules are very similar to in-person! You'll hear about what colors to wear, how to make sure your video is framed well and your audio sounds good so YOU shine on the call. Kimmy talks through how online dating actually forces us to slow down, define what we really want, and actually get to know someone before jumping straight into a physical connection. Now, there are real parameters around who can earn the right to meet you in person, and that's not a bad thing. In fact, you'll learn that in the past year, people have actually been able to take advantage of the virtual space to progress further in their relationships than they otherwise would have. If you are looking to spice up your virtual dating regimen and make genuine connections with great people in your area or who are part of your community, this is your time! Kimmy is excited to announce the next installment of the Flirt Immersion Experience virtual workshop coming to you Saturday March 20. You'll get to experience video speed-dating, learn fool-proof flirting techniques from Kimmy with hands-on exercises and join a community of people who are working on themselves to find love. With a little coaching, guidance, and the right platform, you can work on your online dating skills. Book here now to grab your spot as seats are limited https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 185 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Virtual Dating: Interview with Zach Schleien. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Letting go of what's holding you back often seems easier said than done. Even though the process of letting go of things that don't serve your best interests is often painful in the short term, the long-term benefits have the power to release it so you can attract something positive. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Hale Dwoskin, an New York Times bestselling author of the Sedona Method, who works with individuals and companies to teach them how to transform their lives by letting go. EPISODE 184 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go To Attract The One: Interview With Hale Dwoskin Kimmy and Hale dive right in to talk about how your fear of the unknown can limit you not only from accomplishing your goals but also from being happy. Hale and Kimmy introduce the idea that feelings are just feelings - they are not facts - and you have the power to let them go. Hale does a quick exercise at the top to demonstrate the power of The Sedona Method to help you identify your feelings and release them. This conversation makes the distinction that our emotions do not define who we are and that love and joy are always present within us. You'll learn that the act of letting go actually helps you access your authentic self more directly. And when you're on a date, the more you show up as your true self, the more the other person is likely to feel comfortable being themselves. If you have struggled with feeling needy and attached early on in a relationship, this episode is packed with tips to help you release that need. In fact, you'll hear about how it's healthier and more balanced to operate this way in a relationship than becoming dependent on another person. The more attached you are in life to an outcome, the more you unintentionally sabotage the result. Kimmy and Hale deliver incredible tips on how to gain freedom over your experiences, eliminate dating anxiety and burnout and share specific techniques to counteract nerves and anxiety the moment they arise on a date. If you are in your head during dates, overthinking, and not being present, this is your chance to slow down and actively make a choice to let go of the emotions stopping you from showing up as your best self. If you are looking to let go to attract someone new, hop on a free breakthrough call with Kimmy by booking now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In one half-hour call, you will be able to gain clarity on what might be holding you back in order for you to move forward! EPISODE 184 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go To Attract The One: Interview With Hale Dwoskin. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Raise your hand if you're feeling stuck, frustrated or like you're missing the internal motivation to put yourself out there in the dating scene. Are you doing everything you know how to do to meet potential matches but still getting left out in the cold? If this is you right now, you're not alone! This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Susan, a dedicated social worker who's dabbled in the dating scene since her divorce but is having trouble progressing with men for different reasons.
EPISODE 183 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reasons You're Not Progressing In Love: Coaching with Kimmy Kimmy begins the episode with 4 main contributing factors that might be causing you to not progress in love. We then hear Susan’s challenges and attempts at dating hearing that she’s on multiple dating apps, offering up Zoom dates, joining online meetups (you name it!), and just isn't making the love connection she wants. Kimmy digs in with Susan on how she's conversing with the men she's talking to, whether she's on the apps or off. Listen in for a real-time example of how to switch the content of your conversations from leading with facts to leading with feelings. If you're like Susan and your flirtations and conversations on dates seem to end in a dead end every time, it's time to change up your approach and start getting different results. Kimmy also uncovers how Susan’s image of herself and her pictures might be another culprit to her not attracting the men she wants to meet. You'll even hear a few tips about how to game the dating app algorithm to get new matches more easily. This episode will show you the importance of creating a strategic, dating plan so that you progress in your dating life. It starts with making the decision to try something new and explore more ways to make real love connections. Here's one thing you can do to get unstuck and get moving. Sign up (it's free!) for Kimmy's 2021 Dating Progression Roadmap, bit.ly/2021datingroadmap an intimate virtual fireside chat with Kimmy where you will learn the secrets to progressing online, on Zoom and on dates. And, you'll have the chance to get laser hot seat live coaching from Kimmy! It's never too late to switch up your game plan and start finding out what works instead of getting stuck on what doesn't. EPISODE 183 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reasons You're Not Progressing In Love: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Some relationships - whether romantic, familial, or otherwise - are toxic. If you've been in a toxic relationship before, or if you're in one right now, you know how overwhelming and paralyzing it can feel to walk away from that situation. This week, Kimmy talks to Dr. Heidi Brocke, a Toxic Relationship Awareness and Healing Expert who herself spent years in a toxic marriage. Dr. Heidi specializes in helping people recognize the traits of toxic people in their lives and delivers the tools to get out and start prioritizing themselves again. EPISODE 182 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Toxic Relationships: Interview with Heidi Brocke Kimmy jumps in by asking Dr. Heidi to share her story. This conversation will pull back the curtain on the common traits that toxic people share and how to spot them from a mile away. Kimmy and Dr. Heidi discuss the kinds of people that the toxic ones seek out - the helpers, the caregivers, the over-caregivers, and the people-pleasers. If you are primed to want to help, ease other's pain, and provide unconditional emotional support, you are often the most susceptible to becoming attached to toxic individuals. Dr. Heidi dives into the signals and feelings that may arise when you're involved in a toxic cycle. If you're experiencing guilt around spending time with your loved ones or giving attention to matters at work over prioritizing your significant other, there's a very good chance you're in a toxic relationship. Kimmy and Dr. Heidi give surprising tips around how you can get rid of a negative cycle that could be trapping you. If you are finding yourself putting all your effort and energy into a relationship that is not serving your needs or you feel tremendous guilt whenever you want to do something for yourself, there are resources out there for you to seek support. Set a time to talk with Kimmy right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just half an hour, Kimmy can help you strategize how to stop attracting and dating toxic people. EPISODE 182 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Toxic Relationships: Interview with Heidi Brocke. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******* The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ****** Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
With Valentine's Day around the corner, now is the time to give yourself a healthy dose of self love! This week, Kimmy invites you to take a moment to celebrate YOU, unapologetically. Whether you're dating up a storm or leaning into the single life or somewhere in between, if you're not feeling good about yourself, it will negatively impact the relationships and situations you attract. Everyone has experienced the sting of criticism and rejection that can hold you back from becoming the best version of you.
EPISODE 181 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating From A Place Of Self-Love Kimmy guides you through a checklist of traits you may have that indicates you may suffer from lower self-love. She then reviews the top 5 ways to overcome them so that you attract a different kind of partner. This episode will teach you how to date from a place of self love so that you are able to center the needs and desires that are truly important to you. You'll hear about why real self love allows you to prioritize your values over superficial commonalities and the three essential components of a healthy, happy relationship. If you have a tendency towards people-pleasing and putting other's people's needs before your own as a rule, this is the episode for you. Kimmy digs in on what you can do to stop these repeating the patterns. You deserve to be with someone who loves you for exactly who you are, quirks and flaws and all! Get in touch with Kimmy and set up a time to talk through what's going on for you. In just half an hour you could leave with a new perspective on your options and the opportunity to have support through your journey. Click here to book now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group right here. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers EPISODE 181 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating From A Place Of Self-Love. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
If you are trying to improve or learn a new skill set, whether that be in love, in business or something else, you will increase your chance of success if you have a strategy. Creating a new habit takes commitment and practice. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Dre Baldwin, a former professional basketball player turned YouTuber, focused on helping people build the mental toughness they need to accomplish their goals. EPISODE 180 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Gamifying Your Love Life: Interview With Dre Baldwin Kimmy kicks this conversation off by asking Dre to dig into his history and how he got to where he is today. You'll hear Dre's story of staying committed to athletics throughout his college career and beyond, playing professional basketball overseas for nearly a decade. Dre and Kimmy talk through how to identify what skills helped bring you success in one area of your life and how you can transfer those to other areas of your life too. This episode is all about the ingredients needed to put yourself into action to gamify your love life. If you are feeling stuck and aren't taking the necessary steps to go after what you say you want, this conversation will help you take a look in the mirror and truly evaluate if you are willing to put in the effort to make a change. It all comes down to creating an action plan and pinpointing the strategy you need to get going. Listen in to hear a great trick for taking the emotion out of a tough decision, so you can see your path from a bird's eye view and hold yourself accountable. The two discuss how fear of the unknown is often what holds us back from taking action. Dre shares his philosophy of the power of mastering the mental game. Regardless of your talents, personality or physical characteristics that may make you attractive to a potential partner, this conversation draws attention to the mental game going on in your head. The strength of your mental game unlocks the potential of all of the talent you bring to the table. This conversation will prompt you to take stock of your own talents and understand where your confidence lives. If you are ready to break the patterns that are holding you back from finding love, connect with Kimmy to get started. You can schedule a complimentary strategy call with Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Plus, if you want to take it one step further, take a look at Kimmy's audioseries, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating! If you've ever wondered why your romantic endeavors tend to fizzle out, this is your answer. It’s super simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and you can listen anywhere, in any app right here https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer.
Caring for and giving to others selflessly is an incredibly powerful quality. It's a beautiful gift to support and uplift others, but when it comes to finding love, it's important to make sure you're seeking reciprocal relationships so that get your needs met too. This week on the show, Kimmy kicks us off by describing the Top 4 Signs You Might Be an Over-Caretaker. You'll learn that you might be so focused on others that you unintentionally attract people who don't return the love and support you give. In this episode, Kimmy coaches Cindy live to tackle the origins of her tendency to people-please. EPISODE 179 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching With Kimmy After going through a divorce and a handful of long term relationships, Cindy is ready to step out and find someone who gives her the affection and attention she deserves, and she's working on breaking her habit of over-caretaking. If you have ever felt it's 100% your responsibility to provide everything your loved ones need and want, this episode is for you. Cindy talks through her upbringing, her flirtatious side blossoming as a teenager, and explores how her light may have been dimmed early on. Raised by a giving, selfless mother, Cindy was rewarded for putting herself over others and carries that to this day. Kimmy talks through how these patterns show up in relationships and how we fall into them so easily because they're comfortable and gave us confidence throughout life. When it comes to dating - whether you're in person or online - if you're spending time on dates wondering whether or not you seem interested in your date versus how you feel and offer, you might be exhibiting signs of over-caretaking! And, if you grew up in an environment where feelings were not openly discussed, it can be that much harder to identify and speak those feelings in social interactions. You'll hear several tips around how to approach dates with the goal of making genuine connections and how to lead with curiosity. One major takeaway from this conversation is that there are many different kinds of chemistry! We often default to sexual and physical chemistry, without paying attention to the emotional connection. Kimmy shares some advice on how to lead with finding an emotional chemistry for a slow healthy build. If you want to start learning how to focus on yourself more and boost your flirting skills, there's still time to join Kimmy's FREE 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge! Click on the link right here http://bit.ly/flirt2021 to register. Connect with a group of dynamic, goal-oriented women who are all putting in the time and effort to improve their flirting skills so they can attract a healthy, fulfilling, and reciprocal relationship. EPISODE 179 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
A good sense of humor is one of the top attributes single women and men are seeking in their partners. If you're not endowed with the gift of comedy, can you learn it? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on Global Humor Expert, Peter McGraw. Peter is a marketing and psychology professor at the Leeds School of Business at the University of Colorado at Boulder and the author of the book, Shtick to Business. In this episode, Kimmy and Peter have a conversation about comedic theory as it applies to building genuine connections in dating and relationships. EPISODE 178 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Use Humor and Play In Dating: Interview With Peter McGraw If you're not feeling confident in your ability to flex your funny or be playful, this show will deliver you simple tips you can use to make your date laugh and connect with people who share your sense of humor. Tune in to hear all about the kinds of jokes that work no matter who your audience is and the ones that tend to fall flat. You'll hear how sarcasm and self-deprecating humor can be used as a shield and how leading with positive humor can be a big turn on. Peter shares tips on how to introduce humor to your conversations from an authentic place and how to use it as a connection indicator with your date. If you've been struggling to find success in flirting - humor is one of the most powerful tools in your arsenal! Levity and laughter create quick endorphin hits and allow you to feel excitement in the moment. If you want to build your more humorous side with playful skills and flirty techniques, Kimmy is holding a FREE 5 Day Flirt Challenge starting January 25 so register now http://bit.ly/flirt2021. This will help you get out of your head and progress on dates without feeling awkward or desperate. You can keep it playful, light and funny by boosting your comedy skills and letting your natural sense of humor shine through. EPISODE 178 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Use Humor and Play In Dating: Interview With Peter McGraw. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
When you take on a major challenge in your work, your best shot at success is to create an action plan and tackle each step intentionally. The same principle applies in your love life. If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to make a plan and execute it guided by purpose. This week, Kimmy interviews Henry Penix, a serial Global Entrepreneur, Consultant, and Best-Selling Author who helps people create the leverage they need to win in business and in life. EPISODE 177 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Your Strategic Love Plan For Fun in 2021: Interview With Henry Penix Henry has built a reputation to take on big companies and big challenges, but don't let his impressive resume fool you, he has dealt with his share of failures over the years. Kimmy and Henry chat about how having a mindset that treats failure as an opportunity for research and growth creates the resilience you need to keep going after a setback. If you've ever looked at another person or a couple and thought that they've simply been lucky in love, this conversation will challenge that myth! Kimmy and Henry talk through the importance of keeping an open mind and shifting your perspective when you're faced with a challenge, especially when it comes to dating. Kimmy shares a client example of how to not take getting ghosted personally. Plus, Henry shares an incredible tip on how to gamify and reframe your time spent on dating apps. If you struggle with perfectionism, this episode was made for you! If you're a high-achiever in your work, but don't see that same success replicated in your love life, it's time to take a look at what you might be doing to contribute to the results you're getting. Kimmy shares some invaluable practical wisdom about creating new dating habits and move beyond the fear of the unknown. Stay tuned to hear Henry talk about not taking first impressions at face value, and recognizing that when someone's passionate in their work, that is also likely to show up in their love life. If you are looking to take control of your love story and want to create a plan to find success in love, find some time with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you are ready to take action, Kimmy is doing another 5 Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge starting January 25 so sign up to get in on it http://bit.ly/flirt2021 It’s a great way to jumpstart your strategic love plan with some flirty energy. EPISODE 177 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Your Strategic Love Plan For Fun in 2021: Interview With Henry Penix. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since working with Kimmy and the secrets to their success. On this episode, you'll meet Harpreet, a hospital worker who discovered Kimmy by listening to this podcast. Harpreet reached out because of her lack of self-confidence, poor body image and negative feelings around dating which were preventing her from finding love. EPISODE 176 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Making Dating Fun Again: Where Are They Now With Harpreet Harpreet jumps in by talking through the sources of her self-criticism. She shares a bit about her cultural background and the values that were prioritized growing up that have impacted her ability to build relationships with herself and others to this day. Kimmy reminisces about how she and Harpreet worked together to unpack how her negativity around herself and dating was directly related to why she wasn’t progressing on dates. Harpreet learns through coaching with Kimmy how to be grateful and to love herself. Plus, if you've ever felt like a complete fish out of water when it comes to flirting, you are not alone! Kimmy and Harpreet review the essential secret sauce she used around how to have fun flirting and take the pressure off of meeting new people. This episode is packed with invaluable tips you can implement in your life right now like how to track and share your true feelings more easily, how to stay present in the moment and how a positive, resilient attitude can benefit all the different areas of your life. If you were like Harpreet before working with Kimmy and you feel stuck in place in your dating life, now is the time to work on YOU, so that you can find dating fun again. You can schedule a complimentary 30-minute call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and begin your journey to finding self-love AND romance in 2021. EPISODE 176 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Making Dating Fun Again: Where Are They Now With Harpreet. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
2020 will go down in history as one of the toughest of our lives. We were thrown endless curveballs -- and dating and relationships were not exempt! As this unprecedented year finally comes to a close, Kimmy brings you an episode dedicated to counting down the Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020 and how to put those behind us to attract the one in 2021. Women and men looking for love transformed their lives to respond to the pandemic and the dating process seemed to slow WAY down. Whether you used dating apps for the first time, explored the challenge of connecting on video dates (or good old phone calls!), or started a relationship without the benefit of physical touch, the stress of this new virtual reality made it easy to miss the basics. EPISODE 175 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020 When the stay-at-home orders hit, did you totally shut down and checked out? If you've ever thought, "What's the point of working on your love life now?", this episode is for you! Take this episode as a moment to reflect on your choices and mindset around dating this year. Was your approach rooted in gratitude or were you closed off? Were you totally burnt out and bringing that mindset into your love life? Were you were swiping on the apps, numbing out, neglecting your profile, your photos, or asking your matches predictable, boring questions? You can take action to change your results with a few simple surprising tips and revelations from Kimmy. She does this by reviewing how these top mistakes made this year can help you learn what to do into the new year. Start by surrounding yourself with a powerful group of single women working on their dating lives in Kimmy's private Facebook Group The Love Makeover Insiders https://www.facebook.com/group. Next, you can give yourself the gift of figuring out what your mistakes might have been specifically this year by signing up for Kimmy's audio series This May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. And as always if you're ready to start 2021 off strong and create a love plan for yourself, schedule a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Give yourself the boost you need to leave 2020 in the dust and become your best self in the New Year! EPISODE 175 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
The first and most essential piece of finding lasting love is to love yourself. Maybe it sounds cliche, but it's true! True self-love is not selfISH -- it's an appreciation of oneself that grows from intentional action to support your physical, emotional and spiritual growth. In today's episode, Kimmy has a deep, honest conversation with Susan Burrell, podcaster and author of Live an Empowered Life! Your 30-Day Journey all about how to empower yourself to experience true self love. EPISODE 173 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Empowerment And Self Love: Interview With Susan Burrell Susan opens up immediately to discuss her life as a fiery redhead and the process she went through to regain her love of herself after a devastating divorce. This conversation shines a light on what it takes you to rebuild your relationship with yourself when a life-altering moment has impacted you. This year has introduced new challenges and has presented us with opportunities to discover new gifts. As this year comes to a close, now is the time to connect with your spiritual side, set goals and look ahead to what's possible when you prioritize self love. Susan and Kimmy talk through Susan's recent realization she was raised by a narcissist and how she ended up attracting that same energy in her ex-husband. Now, armed with renewed confidence in herself Susan shares tips for how to empower yourself to put yourself first. Kimmy shares her perspective on working from the outside in with clients in order to build evidence that change is possible. When you're able to look in the mirror and honestly say you love what you see, it creates the opportunity for others to see that in you. This discussion serves as a reminder that you can't change others -- you have the power to change what you put out there to attract something you actually want without losing the core of who you are in the process. Kimmy and Susan talk through several actions you can take that can help recenter you and introduce peace when life as you know it has been forever changed. Check out a free guided meditation from Susan here: https://www.susanburrell.com/free-gift-meditation And, if you've recently experienced a major change in your life like a relationship ending or you're simply feeling the fire to step into 2021 with a renewed sense of purpose and momentum, begin by committing to love yourself. Kimmy can help you get there by signing up for a FREE 30-minute coaching call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The empowerment you're seeking is already within you! Activate the self love by empowering yourself with a plan and purpose. EPISODE 173 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Empowerment And Self Love: Interview With Susan Burrell. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook
Now more than ever, dating is a challenge! If you're venturing back into the dating world for the first time in a long time or swiping through potential matches on the apps -- it can feel like a whole new world. And, if you consider yourself introverted or shy, striking up a conversation with a stranger on the internet can be even more daunting. On this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Becky, who's ready to get out of her comfort zone and get back out there. EPISODE 172 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Learning To Date Successfully After A Hiatus: Coaching With Kimmy Becky's been single for the last 5 years, but before that, she was a life-long relationship gal. Becky jumps in to tell Kimmy all the things she's tried to reignite her dating life like taking classes, joining community groups, and talking to men on dating apps. Even though she's putting in the effort, she's not getting asked out on dates and is ready to change this pattern. Kimmy asks Becky about her experience growing up and her relationship history to uncover some people-pleasing patterns that have a tendency to attract the type of men Becky wants to avoid. Becky shares that her first and second marriages were not reciprocal and have contributed to her not expressing her true feelings freely. Kimmy shares several actionable tips around how to open up conversations with intrigue on dating apps and the importance of leading with stories that share your emotions so men can feel you. Listen in to hear Becky's surprising realization that she's not letting men earn her and instead contributing to why she isn’t progressing with men. Even while we're hunkering down for the winter and not seeing people in-person as much as we once were, there are still plenty of opportunities to flirt (even while you're wearing a mask!). If you're like Becky and you want to shift your intention while dating to put yourself out there and be seen, take the first step with Kimmy. Join her for a FREE Fireside Chat tomorrow, Thursday, December 17 at 4pm PT. She's going to countdown the biggest dating mistakes of 2020 and new trends looking ahead to 2021. If you want to start the new year with a dating plan, sign up and claim your spot! Space is limited. https://e1cb38gp.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 172 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Learning To Date Successfully After A Hiatus: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
Here's a fact: ALL successful relationships achieve a balance between masculine and feminine energy. Now, that doesn't mean that men should be aggressive and in control or that women should be submissive and docile. In reality, when you are able to tap into the power of your gender, while understanding and creating space for others, you too can achieve the right balance for you and your partner. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on a guest who knows all about harnessing the power of the masculine, GS Youngblood. GS is a male relationship coach and the author of the acclaimed book, The Masculine in Relationship: The Blueprint for Inspiring the Trust, Lust and Devotion of a Strong Woman. EPISODE 171 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy: Interview With GS Youngblood Kimmy and GS begin by discussing how GS's 10-year relationship with a strong woman broke down. If you've ever bought into the idea that men aren't attracted to strong, capable, intelligent women, this conversation will shine a light on why that misconception exists. Kimmy and GS dive deep on the evolving gender roles in our society and how that affects relationship dynamics between men and women. As women continue to rise into leadership roles and are recognized and sought out for the strength, power and knowledge they bring, it's imperative that men embrace their masculine core and invite women to relax into their feminine energy, too. If you're a woman who spends her days making decisions and leading others, chances are you're craving the space to receive love, be provided for in a relationship! This conversation will help you understand the metaphorical dance between men and women in dating and love relationships. And, for you men listening, GS walks you through one of the essential steps in his blueprint; Respond vs. React. GS lays out a game plan of how to respond in a way that keeps you grounded and helps the woman you're with feel safe, even when emotions are running high. And, if you're having trouble receiving in your dating life, you may be exhibiting the characteristics of one of Kimmy's dating archetypes! As we enter the giving season, why not give yourself some tools to take with you into the new year? Sign up here for Kimmy's exclusive audio series This May Be Why You Suck at Dating!https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series was designed to answer your questions about mistakes you're making that are preventing you from meeting the person you've always dreamed of. It’s dead simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and choose the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. EPISODE 171 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy: Interview With GS Youngblood. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Kayla, a young medical professional who has made a dramatic transformation since she began coaching with Kimmy. Following a bad breakup after college, Kayla found herself in a series of unbalanced relationships where she focused on what she could do for a man instead of whether that man was worthy of her. EPISODE 170 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eliminating Unbalanced Relationships: Where Are They Now With Kayla Kayla jumps right in to discuss what her dating life was like before she reached out to Kimmy for coaching. This episode dives into how tough breakups can damage your sense of self, make you question your worth, and narrow your thinking so the vast possibilities out there feel limited. Kimmy and Kayla reflect on Kayla's upbringing and unearth patterns she was unconsciously repeating from childhood. If you're like Kayla and feel that you've hit a plateau and are stuck in a rut without the tools to help you move forward, listen up. This conversation touches on the most important factor for a happy and fulfilling life -- confidence in your own self-worth. Regardless of what stage you're at in your dating life or in life broadly, a strong sense of your own value outside of a relationship is the foundation to everything you'll build. At a certain point, you'll be faced with a decision to try something new and gain new evidence that another outcome is possible. It's up to you to take action, like Kayla did, and begin the process of change. You’ll hear how Kayla shifted her path from losing herself and not prioritizing her needs to attracting a relationship that is reciprocal and respectful. Now, after committing to change and learning some invaluable new tools to manage anxiety around uncertainty, Kayla has found a new man in her life who treats her like a queen. And even more importantly, she's found new confidence in herself. If you're ready to start living without regrets, shift into a growth mindset and rise out of your plateau, now is the time. Right now, you can still join Kimmy's Flirt Immersion Experience happening Saturday, December 5! This interactive workshop has been customized for women who are looking to get practice at dating and flirting. In one super-fun LIVE virtual event, you'll learn hands-on flirting techniques, speed-date with men hand-selected by Kimmy and get real-time feedback from a Man-Panel. Get in while you can, space is limited and these spots are going quickly! Last chance for the Black Friday special for half off when you use code “Black Friday” https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 170 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eliminating Unbalanced Relationships: Where Are They Now With Kayla. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy offers a lesson on how to cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Studies show time and time again that people who exhibit a positive mindset are happier. If you can consistently live in gratitude, it will actually impact your personal wellbeing for the better which will, in turn, make you more dateable! EPISODE 169 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable On this show, Kimmy breaks down her top tips on how to stop negativity in its tracks and transform that bad attitude into positivity and gratitude. First, Kimmy jumps in with 2 pro tips for positive self-reflection. This year has thrown countless challenges at you and now is a great time to do the work needed to fill up your cup of love for yourself. It's all about shifting your perspective. This week, take the time to pay attention to your thoughts and notice if any of your gremlins are popping up and contributing to negative self-talk. The more negativity infiltrates your thoughts the more it will leak out into your energy and conversations. Kimmy brings the tough love in this episode when she shares that what you put out is what you get back, especially on dates! Listen in to hear some expert advice on how to stay in the present, focused on being curious and connected. Of course, switching into a gratitude mindset won't happen overnight but this episode walks you through some tangible steps you can take to get there. If you keep asking yourself why you are still single and feeling powerless and negative about your love life, you'll want to be one of the first to sign up for Kimmy's new LIVE virtual event: The Flirt Immersion Experience! This one-of-a-kind interactive workshop is designed for women who are looking to find hands-on training to increase their sexy confidence and dating skills. This also includes speed-dating with men hand-selected by Kimmy and getting feedback with a Man Panel. This is the ultimate way to meet men, go on dates and actually hear what the guys thought so you can learn without the pressure. Plus, right now Kimmy's offering a 50% off deal for Black Friday. Get in while you can, space is limited and these spots will go fast so just click here and enter “BlackFriday” during checkout to receive the discount https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 169 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
In order to have a successful, fulfilling and healthy relationship with someone else, you have to love yourself first. I know what you're thinking -- that's easy to say but it's a lot harder to put into practice! How can you jump into the dating world successfully, all while working on your own self-love? This week on the Charisma Quotient Kimmy interviews award-winning actress, writer and filmmaker Wendy Wilkins to dig into the process of loving yourself on your drive towards success. EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins Wendy dives right in by sharing her unconventional journey from being a cop, to one of the top realtors in Australia, to her writing and working in the creative arts. Kimmy and Wendy discuss the pitfalls of compartmentalizing your life. If you're experiencing success in your career but your personal life doesn't stack up, this conversation will ask you to identify the strengths you can bring from one area of your life into another. And, you'll hear one of Wendy's secret tricks to boosting confidence that you can use to focus before you spend time on dating apps and especially before you go on a date! If you've ever found yourself prematurely getting into a relationship (or a "situationship") before you're ready, it could be a sign that you are masking a deeper issue with not loving yourself. Right now is the perfect time to work on yourself. Dating is simply a tool you can use at different stages of the process to get clarity on what you want, what works for you and what doesn't. Kimmy brings up a story of a recent client of hers that shows the power of what can happen when you lift the pressure off and let go of the attachment to an outcome. Listen in to hear about the importance of giving yourself what you need instead of waiting for others to do so and being comfortable doing things alone. Once you access the strength within, you'll open yourself up to finding a lasting love that complements your life instead of complicating it. You have endless resources at your fingertips that are designed to help you start loving yourself. First, check out Kimmy's exclusive audio course This May Be Why You Suck at Dating! https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. Perhaps you have Chief qualities, just like Wendy. And, if you've noticed that you're just passively swiping through dating apps, numbing out and not getting anywhere, you're invited to join Kimmy's new Flirt Immersion Experience coming up on Saturday, December 5 https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ In this small interactive workshop, you will actually practice your skills that will bring control back into your dating life. Take this opportunity to put yourself in the driver's seat and take direct action to level-up your dating game! But hurry slots are limited. EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
When you look at your body, what do you see? Do you think of yourself as sexy and confident or do you find faults when you look in the mirror? In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Julia, who's eager to transform her body image, gain sexy confidence, and find love. Julia has struggled in the past to feel confident in her body, especially because she heard negative messages from men about her weight early in her dating life. Now, she's on a mission to take back control of her sexy confidence and thrive. EPISODE 167 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy and Julia dive right in and talk through Julia's dating history. If you're like Julia and you lack confidence in your physical body, this episode will challenge you to look into how those feelings have manifested in your dating life. Julia shares that she had been operating in a cycle that wasn't serving her. She was accepting crumbs from men, getting physical too soon, and rushing into a commitment before reaching a mutual level of emotional depth and connection. You'll hear tips from Kimmy on how to create a dating mission statement and layout exactly what you love about your body so you can rebuild that confidence muscle. Remember, working on you is working on your dating life! This conversation makes important connections between your upbringing and the nature of your current relationships. If you are familiar with partners being unavailable in your life, you might be replaying that old script and unconsciously attracting unavailable people. The key is to recognize this pattern, maintain your awareness, and make a plan to counteract this familiarity. Sometimes, even when things don't serve us, we go back to them because we're comfortable. Right now, we're all feeling a sense of uncertainty and in dating this feeling can be even more pronounced. You'll hear how Julia has evolved on this issue and is ready to take things in stride, not getting too attached to dating outcomes, and actually having fun in the process! If you are not feeling confident in your skin and it's holding you back, sign up for a free coaching session with Kimmy, just like Julia did. Sign up right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you want to learn how to play up your strengths, feel sexy in your skin, and make yourself memorable in the best way through ninja dating and flirting skills, come to Kimmy’s special virtual event Flirt Immersion Experience November 21. You will get hands-on flirt training, get advice from men, and put it all to practice through speed dating. Spots are limited so sign up today https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 167 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
Do you feel weighed down by all the negative thoughts, emotions, and feelings swirling around in your head? Whatever your circumstances are, sometimes it's really difficult to get unstuck and release the negative thoughts that dominate your mind when you're feeling the pressure. This week, Kimmy's diving into a term you may have heard: Head Trash. Kimmy interviews an expert in eliminating your Head Trash, Noah St. John. Known widely as the "Power Habits Mentor", Noah is a bestselling author, motivational keynote speaker, and business expert. EPISODE 166 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John Noah jumps right in to talk through his origins as a poor kid in a wealthy neighborhood, his battle with depression, and a suicide attempt at a young age. From there, Noah was able to rise out of these circumstances and create a successful business helping people to get rid of their own head trash and manifest success for themselves. This conversation will help you get a handle on what your own personal head trash is, so you can discern if it's blocking you from finding the love you deserve. Noah and Kimmy break down the importance of understanding your destination and releasing yourself from negative, cyclical patterns that don't serve you. If you've noticed you're repeating patterns, dating the same people, making the same mistakes, this conversation will help push you to see a different perspective. Listen in to this conversation to understand the steps you need to take to become aware of your limiting beliefs and then take action to combat your head trash one step at a time. This conversation is all about getting out of your head and getting rid of your head trash so that you can get unstuck to find love. If you want help to pinpoint the limiting, negative beliefs you hold about yourself when it comes to love and relationships, sign up for a FREE session with Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, what shows up in one area of your life often leaks into others. Take the time to identify what's holding you back so you can let go, move forward, and start seeing the success you deserve! EPISODE 166 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
Spirituality is an integral part of the human experience, and for many of us, our spiritual selves are tied to our desires to find a lasting, loving relationship. If you're working on yourself (and therefore working on your dating life), tapping into your spiritual side could be key to getting to know yourself more deeply and overcoming what's holding you back from achieving your goals. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Laura Michelle Powers, a celebrity psychic who helps her clients to communicate with loved ones, angels, spirits, and other energy beings. Powers is the author of seven books and hosts the Healing Powers Podcast. EPISODE 165 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers These two jump in right away to talk through Laura's journey from working in politics to following her intuition to embrace both her psychic abilities and her creativity as a rewarding and successful career path. Everyone has the ability to tap into their empathic self, which is the ability to feel the emotions and energy of others in your body. Laura and Kimmy discuss the value of welcoming this ability and how it can open up new ways of seeing the world, yourself, and others. This conversation will invite you to explore how you can look inwardly for answers and certainty, instead of relying on others to validate for you. You'll learn some helpful tips to distinguish whether fears or hesitations that have blocked you from taking action in the past truly originate from you or from others. If you have a tendency to shapeshift in order to please other people, this episode will help you to investigate what's going on for you internally so you can take full ownership of your needs and desires. This conversation will invite you to develop an awareness of your empathic abilities and work to release the fears you have around the unknown so you can create a plan to go for what you really want. If you've struggled with being in your body, acknowledging or expressing your emotions to others (or to yourself) take 30 minutes and get on the phone with Kimmy by clicking right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The answers you're seeking around your love life are within your reach! If this conversation resonated with you and you're looking for more certainty around dating, take action by starting with a call. EPISODE 165 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
Are you an “overcaretaker” and focus all of your energy taking care of the emotional needs of others rather than yourself? You might find yourself exhausted by your relationships because in the end you feel depleted and attract the “takers.” This week on a live Coaching with Kimmy episode, Kimmy focuses on how it's time to get a little selfish! Being selfish can improve your relationship with yourself, and can actually help build your relationships with other people! You'll hear Kimmy coach Spike, a guy who's on a quest to find a healthy relationship. He's had a hard time putting his needs first and not defaulting to old behavior patterns that only serve the needs of others, sometimes at his own expense. EPISODE 164 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy Spike opens up immediately and shares how he grew up, the abuse he suffered as a child, and his struggle with addiction. If you find yourself always bending over backward to take care of other people's needs before your own, listen up! Kimmy zeros in on the telltale signs of being a people pleaser, and how that generosity and altruism can leak into your dating life which causes lopsided relationships. This conversation addresses how societal expectations around gender affect everyone from women to men in different ways. If you've ever felt like you didn't fit into societal expectations of your gender, this conversation will speak to you. Spike shares several examples of how some of his fears around dating and relationships have showed up in his life recently. This session zones in on tips on how to better express your needs and trust that your needs are valid -- especially if this is a new practice for you. If you find your confidence in what you can do for others, take a chance to get a little selfish and be open to receiving more! If you've questioned whether you're too needy or you analyze how you can provide for others over you in relationships, sign up for a coaching call with Kimmy and talk it out here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Maybe it's time for you to try putting you first! EPISODE 164 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
Have you ever met someone you felt an intense emotional and physical connection with at first but then shortly after you date them they slowly disappear or give you crumbs? If your answer is, “Yes! All the time?!” — you might be exhibiting behaviors that attract emotionally unavailable people. On this episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy breaks down five reasons why you could be confusing the chemistry of the emotionally unavailable with true intimacy, and what you can do about it. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable This episode will show you that you have the power to attract secure, honest relationships if you learn how to open up, emote, and be emotionally available yourself. If you find yourself consistently attracting emotionally or physically unavailable people into your life, this episode will give you the tools to spot someone like that from a mile away and shut it down! Kimmy walks through how you may not be expressing your needs and desires or setting boundaries clearly enough — especially if the relationship you’ve found yourself in is full of excitement and passion. Sometimes, you have to challenge yourself to investigate your own beliefs about what a loving, supportive relationship looks like — and that means going back into your past. This podcast will help you answer questions like: How was love expressed when you were growing up? Have you found confidence and success in your role as a “fixer”? Do you gravitate towards relationships with suspense, spontaneity, and strong passion and think of stable people as boring, or lacking a spark? Listen in to hear how emotionally unavailable people can confuse you by showering you with compliments and affection in superficial ways. The dating pool does have emotionally unavailable people in it, but there are just as many amazing, emotionally secure people out there waiting to meet you! Once you have the tools to open up, express your boundaries, and let people really feel you on a deep level, you will change who you attract. If you're looking for guidance in helping you identify how you can attract people who are emotionally available, sign up for a complimentary call with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve to have a healthy, secure, honest relationship that brings out the best in you. When you know understand how to become emotionally available yourself, you will attract people who are not afraid of intimacy and you can find peace in that security. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Jane, an accomplished, dedicated physician who was realizing she kept attracting narcissists. As a podcast listener, she reached out to Kim on a breakthrough call two years ago, during a stressful time in her career. Now (during quarantine!) she's met an amazing guy and is in a healthy, fulfilling relationship. EPISODE 162 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane. Jane dives in by talking through the challenges she was facing in her dating life before she got in touch with Kimmy. Jane was struggling with expressing her needs and feelings effectively, along with being an overly generous, caring and giving person. Listen in for an essential tip about recognizing the difference between being truly vulnerable and over-sharing on dates. Kimmy and Jane talk through her online dating profile pictures and Jane's tendency to hide her body on her profile. You'll hear some of the biggest lessons Jane learned, like setting clear boundaries early and getting better at flirting. Kimmy even uses Jane's flirty texts as the gold standard for other clients! Stay tuned to hear all about the new man in Jane's life and how she's handling the uncharted territory of maintaining a healthy relationship with him. You'll hear how Jane actively applied what she learned about setting boundaries with him, despite her previous fear that it would have pushed him away. If you're like Jane -- leading a high-pressure career, attracting narcissists, struggling with online dating or being playful and flirtatious on dates -- take this opportunity to get on the phone with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough If you're feeling stuck in a rut, burnt out, or frustrated with the dating scene (especially now!), that 30 minutes could change the course of your entire life like it did for Jane. And who knows, maybe you will be the next star in her Where Are They Now episodes to talk about your successes. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Did you ever wish that you could be more fun and charismatic? Well, then you’ll definitely want to listen to this episode where you’ll learn how charisma is a learned skill. If you've been listening to this podcast, chances are you know it's possible through Kimmy’s teachings but you’ll hear a deeper dive into some tangible tips that will help you be more magnetic and attractive. This week, Kimmy brings on Holley Mignosi who is a speaking coach, storyteller, and hypnotic body language authority and helps leaders and executives master the art of charismatic communication to have a juicy discussion on charisma. EPISODE 161 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi Often times we view others who exude charisma as if they were born with it. But the truth is, you can practice techniques to become more charismatic and influence others to be more magnetically attracted to you. Kimmy and Holley dive right in, talking about Holley's journey from the modeling and acting world into her current work. Holley talks about how in Hollywood, charisma is the currency, which can be both a blessing and a curse. You'll hear about a low point in Holley's life that spurred her to transform her relationship with her body image. Listen in to hear Kimmy and Holley discuss how charisma can help you radiate positive energy, make great first impressions, and build the confidence you need to go after what you want. Holley and Kimmy talk through how to tell your story from a place of victory, instead of victimhood. Plus, you'll hear tips from Holley about what kinds of hand gestures to use to show your date they can trust you, along with her 4 Pillars of Charisma. If you are wanting to hone in on your flirt skills to become more magnetic and charismatic, spots are still open for Kimmy’s NEW 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/ It runs until Oct 2 and it’s FREE! Uplevel your charisma, and put those new tools to work in your life today! And as always, you can hop on a FREE call with Kimmy to help you personally map out a flirt plan here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 161 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you feeling like all first dates are boring or superficial? What if you had more control over the dates and actually created amazing dates filled with chemistry and desire to see your date again? First dates should be fun, playful, and exciting! But all too often, people describe their first dates as completely dull and dry. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy is on a mission to eliminate bad first dates for good! Listen in to a lively, fun interview with fellow dating coach for men Matt Artisan, where they tackle your biggest first date fears from both a woman's and man's perspective. EPISODE 160 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Give A Great First Date: Interview With Matt Artisan If you're feeling stressed out, burnt out and sick of virtual dating, the last thing you want is another boring video date! This show will give you the roadmap for how to have an incredible first date, whether you're meeting online or in-person. This episode will empower you to take control of the conversation and uplevel your flirting skills so you can create intrigue and attraction, all while being honestly and authentically YOU! Matt and Kimmy discuss the pressure both men and women put on one another to drive the conversation without taking the reins themselves. If you're nervous, chances are your date is too and that can cause you to forget to open up, be curious and really try to get to know your date on a deeper level. These two experts share hacks both men and women can do to increase their approachability and likability factor. Matt shares some great tips about how to introduce physical touch safely, amazing ideas for first dates that allow you to get to know one another more deeply, and easy tricks to help you think of what to say if you blank out. Kimmy dives in on how to improve your flirt game and body language so that you send the right signals to let your date know you're interested. When you allow yourself to have fun through the dating process and practice opening up and showing your true self, you're building your confidence muscle so you can feel comfortable in your body and show what you have to offer in a relationship. If you're feeling like you're having trouble connecting on first dates and struggling to create chemistry by flirting, sign up for a complimentary Flirt Booster Session with Kimmy where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and speak to how you can skip the shallow small talk and have better connections overall https://bvjh4x6h.pages.infusionsoft.net/. And to start putting yourself into action, sign up for Kimmy’s NEW 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. It runs Sept 28 - Oct 2 and it’s FREE! https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/. First dates should be fun! Put an end to boring first dates by letting your personality, energy and vibrance shine through every time! EPISODE 160 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Give A Great First Date: Interview With Matt Artisan. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Are you feeling like ALL of your first dates are boring? Does it feel like pulling teeth just to get the conversation going? This week on the show, Kimmy tackles how to take control of your first-date conversations all while creating chemistry. In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy's live coaching call with Kay, who's been having a series of boring first dates with no attraction factor. EPISODE 159 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy Kay jumps in and describes her desire to find a man who shares her love of bluegrass music, art, and karaoke, but admits she's having trouble finding common ground with the men she's meeting. Kimmy and Kay discuss Kay's tendency to wait for guys to show her what they have to offer before she's willing to open up and share what she feels. Kimmy talks about how the essence of flirting is crucial when it comes to creating chemistry in conversation. When you let go of the pressure of pleasing your date and start to focus on making sure YOU have a good time, you'll start to loosen up! If you've found yourself avoiding sharing your feelings on dates, Kimmy lays out some helpful tips on how to shift your conversation from describing facts to recalling warm memories so your date can feel you on a deeper level. And, if you haven't considered what your body language is signaling to your dates, listen up! Kimmy talks through how you may be physically telling men you're not interested, even if you haven't expressed that out loud. Kimmy gives some hands-on, practical advice on how to overcome boring connections and gives Kay ideas of how she can put it into practice. If you are having trouble connecting on first dates and finding hard to create chemistry by flirting, sign up for a complimentary Flirt Booster session with Kimmy where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and shed some light around you can skip shallow small talk and have deeper connections overall https://bvjh4x6h.pages.infusionsoft.net/. And to start putting yourself into action, sign up for Kimmy’s new 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. It starts Sept 28-Oct 2 and it’s FREE! https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/. Flirting, dating, and connecting should be fun! Don't let any more boring first-dates bring down your light and energy! EPISODE 159 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever thought that you should press pause when it comes to working on your dating life in order to work on yourself? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy addresses this burning question. Since COVID hit, many of us have been spending more time at home. Finding love might seem like the last thing that deserves your focus. Shouldn't you be working on yourself right now instead of focusing on dating? Kimmy's answer to this might surprise you -- working on yourself IS working on your dating life. EPISODE 158 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Working On Yourself While Dating Personal development doesn't come with a deadline. This episode will give you a chance to check-in with your goals to determine why you're really pressing pause on dating. Are you actually becoming the best version of yourself, or are you isolating in order to avoid feeling hurt or rejected? Kimmy will challenge you to redefine how you can focus on your dating life while working on yourself with intention and purpose. If you've been feeling overwhelmed or stressed lately, it's easy to dial-in on what's not working and shut down rather than using your time to focus on an action plan to create movement. Listen in to hear tangible tips from Kimmy about how you can work on yourself while remaining in a dating mindset. This episode will help you look inward, lift you out of a pandemic-induced fog and release the pressure you may feel around "fixing yourself" in order to be ready for a relationship. If you're ready for a reset and want to graduate from personal development standstill into action taking mode, you're in the right place. If you want to learn how to work on yourself while dating book a free discovery call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Don't let analysis paralysis stop you from taking concrete action steps to finding the love you deserve. EPISODE 158 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Working On Yourself While Dating. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you really know what you want...especially when it comes to your dating life and relationships? Getting clarity on what you want is one of the most important things to figure out so that you can attract and design the love you deserve. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on a special guest, attorney turned Purpose and Productivity Coach and host of the Imperfect Thriving Podcast, Kathryn Ely, for a conversation about ways to discover exactly what you want and how to go get it. EPISODE 157 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: What Do You Really Want?: Interview With Kathryn Ely Kathryn jumps in and describes why she ended her career as an attorney to go back to school at 46 years old and become a licensed counselor. If you’ve ever thought that you’ve waited too long to start pursuing what you really want, this episode will show you how to pick back up one step at a time. These two discuss the fact that identifying what you want can be difficult, especially if you’ve never experienced it before. Kathryn talks through her framework for pinpointing what you want in every area of your life, so you can see the big picture. If you’ve begun to notice some limiting patterns or beliefs in your actions, you’ll learn some steps to take to change your behavior so that you can see different results. Listen in to hear about how perfectionism can hold you back from being the best version of yourself and why allowing yourself to try new things with grace is a healthy practice! If you want to get back on track and get clarity on what you are looking for in your love life, book a free discovery call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. When you zero in what you want, you can uncover the life you’ve always wanted and gain the focus you need to take action! EPISODE 157 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: What Do You Really Want?: Interview With Kathryn Ely. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Welcome back to another success story episode of Where Are They Now? This segment features Kimmy's direct, honest conversations with former clients about where they are on their love journey and what's changed since they started working with her. If you're looking for the secret to their success, these episodes provide a roadmap for you to follow. EPISODE 156 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette In this episode, you'll meet Lissette who dives right in to describe her life before she started working with Kimmy. Coming from a family and cultural background that places a high value on relationships, Lissette felt insecure about the fact that she was single. Plus, she was having trouble reconciling her worth, using sex to feel and find love and was giving away too much too soon. With Kimmy's coaching and the advantages of the pandemic to force her to slow down, Lissette was able to meet a great guy and begin a relationship like never before! Kimmy and Lissette talk through her lack of experience in monogamous relationships and previous reliance on using sex as a way to feel connected instead of focusing on emotions. If you've ever been confused about how to create emotional intimacy or have limiting beliefs of what value you bring to a relationship, this episode is for you. This conversation shines a light on the ways in which you might be preventing yourself from attracting the kind of partner you really want. Listen in to hear actionable steps that Lissette and Kimmy worked on together that allowed Lissette to start leading with her emotions and start a healthy relationship. You'll hear about how Lissette built her dating muscles through consistent reflection and finally started feeling fulfilled by putting energy and effort into a relationship she cares about. If you're used to leading with your sexuality as a default or find that you have trouble establishing meaningful relationships based on emotional connection, set up a call with Kimmy to talk here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough If Lissette's experience resonated with you, reach out. The work takes time, but if you put in the effort, it can happen for you too! EPISODE 156 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever experienced true emotional intimacy in your previous relationships? This week on Charisma Quotient, Kimmy invites world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer and philosopher Rabbi Manis Friedman on the show for an eye-opening and thought provoking conversation about emotional intimacy. Whether you're currently in a relationship or looking to date someone to get a deeper connection with, this conversation delivers a nuanced look at how many elements of modern dating and love prevent us from experiencing true intimacy. If you have noticed a pattern of emotionally unavailable partners in your life, you'll want to listen to this episode! EPISODE 155 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Intimacy In Relationships: Interview With Rabbi Manis Friedman Kimmy and Rabbi Friedman jump right in to discuss how perceptions of love and relationship dynamics have become warped over the years. These two dial in on the constant presence of instant gratification in our lives and the focus on often materialistic things. In a world that is so tied to technology, swiping left and right, and moving on to the next option the moment things get difficult, this conversation reveals that when we focus on the material, so much value is lost. You'll hear Rabbi Friedman ask some big questions that will prompt you to carefully consider what you want and what you want from others you love. Stay tuned for some actionable tips around how you can begin to shift your actions to discover the level of intimacy you're seeking. Kimmy and Rabbi Friedman explore the tendency many of us have to become complacent or demonstrate a lack of respect to those we've become familiar with. And, you'll hear a surprising piece of advice about how to create spaces in your home that foster sexual intimacy. This episode will remind you to accept and love people for who they are completely, and not to simply tolerate aspects of others that we disagree with. If this episode resonated with you or if you've never experienced emotional intimacy or keep attracting emotionally unavailable people in your life, set up a call with Kimmy to find out if she can help: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In just one, 30-minute call, you could uncover the key to your kingdom -- what is holding you back from finding the intimacy, love, and trust you deserve. To check out Rabbi Friedman's book, The Joy of Intimacy, click here: https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Intimacy-Soulful-Sexuality-Marriage/dp/0986277002 EPISODE 155 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Intimacy In Relationships: Interview With Rabbi Manis Friedman. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you come from being a target of emotional, verbal or narcissistic abuse in a relationship? Were you blamed, belittled and isolated to the point that it clouds your ability to be open to meeting and trusting new people? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy takes a measured look at how to recover from a relationship with a narcissist. If you find yourself repeating a pattern of dating narcissists or getting involved in one-sided, toxic relationships, this episode was meant for you. EPISODE 154 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Coaching With Kimmy Today, you'll meet Jayne, a woman who runs a successful business coaching business leaders and is used to focusing on what other people want over her needs. She has very little dating experience, has tremendous fear around men really “seeing” her and is having trouble getting past the PTSD effects of her marriage with a narcissist who was very abusive. Kimmy opens this live coaching session with hearing about Jayne's journey of discovering the nature of her husband's behavior how the dynamics of their relationship broke down their marriage of 17 years. Kimmy encourages Jayne to have a raw, honest conversation about the pervasive ways that being with a narcissist can chip away at your self-confidence, self-worth, ability to trust, and your perception of what's real and what's not. This episode pulls back the curtain on what so many people struggle with who have been through these kinds of relationships. Kimmy and Jayne look back to Jayne's childhood and dig into her experience growing up, drawing parallels between how her parents treated her and how she currently reacts in relationships. If you have derived your self worth from what you give to other people, instead of an inner confidence, this episode will pose some questions that can help you break that cycle. Even though it can feel sad, daunting or scary, there are some concrete steps you can take to start rebuilding your confidence from the ground up. Kimmy gives laser coaching advice in how you can reclaim your sense of control if you need to have contact with the narcissist in your life and how you can start to take small, incremental steps to break patterns and build healthier relationships. Kimmy lists actionable tips in how to approach dating and learning to trust again. If you feel stuck in recovering from a narcissistic relationship and patterns and want help moving on, sign up for a free coaching call with Kimmy where she will help you pinpoint areas you are getting stuck in and ways you can break free from them. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you want to know if you are the dating archetype of the narcissist magnet, take my quiz right here and see. https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY EPISODE 154 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Let's face it, there's A LOT to pay attention to in your dating life nowadays. You're swiping through matches, trying to figure out if you'll have chemistry with your date virtually, all while dealing with living through a pandemic! At this point, you may have convinced yourself it's not even worth it to date right now. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy dives right into the Top 10 BIGGEST Dating Mistakes you could make during this unprecedented time and ways to avoid them. EPISODE 153 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid During A Pandemic Think of this episode as Kimmy playing devil's advocate to all the obstacles you've faced and excuses you've made about putting dating on hold recently. Right off the bat, Kimmy challenges you to be honest with yourself and determine if you're avoiding breaking bad dating habits out of fear vs. devoting time and effort to improve your love life. If you are committed to finding love, you have to be willing to do the work by sifting through these common dating mistakes and take action against ways to overcome them. Hint: Just because you're meeting via video chat, doesn't mean you should treat your dates like a business meeting! Kimmy talks through how to shift your mindset and make an event of your date. This is the perfect reason to wear an outfit that's been sitting in your closet for months, or talk about your feelings and experiences that go beyond the bounds of this pandemic. You'll hear some easy to implement tips about how to indulge in a lighter and more playful conversation and how to break the monotony of quarantine. Listen in to hear a tip that will probably surprise you about how you might be turning off your dates inadvertently! If you want to know more about specific dating mistakes YOU might be making, take her personalized dating archetype quiz to find out what your archetype might be and how mistakes might manifest on your dates right here https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY. Answer a few questions and you'll get a detailed description of your strengths and challenges when it comes to finding love. Plus, if you want to take it one step further, sign up for Kimmy's new exclusive podcast series, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating! https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series (only $47) is designed specifically to answer your questions about mistakes you're making that are preventing you from meeting the person you've always dreamed of. It’s dead simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and choose the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. EPISODE 153 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid During A Pandemic. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you allow distractions to get in the way of your goals? Have you noticed that your ability to focus on achieving the things you want in your love life often feels impossible? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on an expert in helping people harness the power of focus, Debra Kasowski. Debra Kasowski is a Certified Executive Coach, a three-time bestselling author and the host of the podcast The Millionaire Woman Show. She is dedicated to helping her clients discover the power that lies within them so they can rise to the occasion and achieve the success they are capable of. EPISODE 152 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Power Of Focus In Attracting Love: Interview With Debra Kasowski. And If you need a push to help you stop focusing on the end zone and do the work to find joy on your journey, pick up Kimmy's brand new audio course series, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series breaks down each of her 5 dating archetypes and gives you tangible tips on how to overcome challenges you're facing so you can focus on the right things in your quest to find love. Click the link, purchase it, and choose the link of the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. In today's dating world, there are seemingly endless choices. It's hard to narrow down what you actually want and it's easy to let yourself be swept away by distractions. Kimmy and Debra break down why that happens and, if you're stuck in that cycle, how to step out and recenter. Listen in to hear how being intentional about what you want, taking the time to write it down or say it out loud can be a powerful first step on your path to discovering the power that's inside of you. When you understand what you want, where and how to focus your energy becomes more clear. You’ll hear actionable tips in shifting your mindset to discover a new focused way of dating. This episode will inspire you to consider what the best next step is in your love life. If you're having trouble emotionally connecting to what you really want, then this episode is for you! Debra walks Kimmy through some incredible techniques you can use right now to express yourself more confidently and in a more focused way. Plus, if you are struggling to stay focused to attract love and know you might be using these distractions to protect yourself, reach out to Kimmy and set a time to talk here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's free, it takes just 30 minutes and it will help you get clarity with a focused dating power plan. EPISODE 152 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Power Of Focus In Attracting Love: Interview With Debra Kasowski. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you wonder if it’s ever possible to find someone who actually cares for YOU for a change? Are you done with hiding and dimming your light in fear of being seen? These are some of the questions that Kimmy’s client asked herself before she found love. Kimmy's back with another installment of Where Are They Now? On these episodes, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who have achieved success through her or group coaching programs. It's so rewarding to showcase these episodes because they're here to motivate you and show you that success is possible! EPISODE 151 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stop Hiding: Where Are They Now With Lisa. This episode you'll meet Lisa, who connected with Kimmy for a 14-Day Flirt and Femininity Challenge. Lisa started out not being comfortable in her body, wearing clothes that didn't highlight her sparkle, and often gave her power away to the men she dated. Through working with Kimmy, Lisa began her journey to rediscover her femininity and learn to share her emotions authentically, all without changing who she is. Now, Lisa has found an incredible relationship with a new man who's enamored with this vibrant, confident version of her! Lisa dives right into what inspired her to speak with Kimmy and take the plunge to begin working together. Lisa shares what her dating life used to look like and what it felt like to get the dreaded call that a guy she was seeing had met someone else. Listen in to hear the story of Lisa's red dress moment where she discovered how to come out from hiding. Stay tuned to hear all about how Lisa attracted the new guy in her life who makes her feel like she matters. This conversation is uplifting, joyous, and reminds us all that when you take the pressure off, that's when you allow yourself to open up and find the love you deserve. If you need a push to help you stop focusing on the end zone and do the work to find joy on your journey, give Kimmy a call here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, if you've ever thought, "I wish I knew what I did wrong after a failed dating experience!" go pick up Kimmy's brand new audio course series, The May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series breaks down each of her 5 dating archetypes and gives you tangible tips on how to overcome challenges you're facing in your quest to find love. It's packed with incredible tips and tools you need to rise above your failed dating experiences. It’s dead simple and will take no more than 30 seconds. Click the link, purchase it, and click the link of the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. EPISODE 151 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stop Hiding: Where Are They Now With Lisa. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Before shelter-in-place orders were enacted, you may have been a little pickier about who you were willing to date. But now, after months of relative social isolation, perhaps you're starting to think differently and value things you didn't before. This week on the show, Kimmy interviews one of the greatest authorities on relationships between women and men, Dr. John Gray. Back by popular demand, the acclaimed author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus joins Kimmy for a second time to discuss how to achieve better communication, understanding gender roles and managing expectations in relationships, especially in times of stress. EPISODE 150 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Managing Gender Roles And Communication During Stress: Interview With John Gray John and Kimmy get straight to the point, talking through on how to renegotiate expectations and manage what is important to you during this stressful time. Before quarantine, you may have been distracted by shiny objects that were causing you not to pay attention to fundamental values that create healthy, long term connections. They discuss how stress has impacted relationships and dating and steps you can take to determine how to better your interactions with the opposite sex. Although men and women operate differently, it’s about how to successfully communicate with your partner or date so you can truly hear and understand them. You’ll hear details about how and why opposites attract, and what you can do to determine more quickly if the people you're attracting are a good fit for you or not during this time. Listen in to hear some priceless advice on how to value your partner for being authentically themselves and not trying to "change" or "fix" them to conform to your point of view! John and Kimmy also dig into "The Chief” dating archetype on this episode and uncover why women who fit this archetype have a tendency to attract men that throw off the masculine and feminine power balance. Stay tuned to hear John define masculine and feminine energy in a way that you may not have expected! And, if you've ever thought, "I wish I knew what I did wrong after a failed dating experience!" go pick up Kimmy's brand new audio course series, The May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series breaks down each of her 5 dating archetypes and gives you tangible tips on how to overcome challenges you're facing in your quest to find love. It's packed with incredible tips and tools you need to rise above your failed dating experiences. It’s dead simple and will take no more than 30 seconds. Click the link, purchase it, and click the link of the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. And, if you haven't taken Kimmy's Dating Archetype Quiz yet to see what you are, check it our right HERE https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY EPISODE 150 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Managing Gender Roles And Communication During Stress: Interview With John Gray. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Do you have an open mind when it comes to your dating life? Or are you so busy checking your list to see if your date has potential to be your long life partner in fear of picking the wrong one…again? In this segment of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Emily, a single mom who's on a quest to find her ideal date after getting out of a toxic marriage. If you find yourself struggling to progress on dates, you may be dealing with the same need for control and fears you'll hear Emily describe in this episode. EPISODE 149 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Ditch The Dating “List”: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy and Emily dive right in to talk about Emily's previous dating experience and how she grew up as a dedicated student, determined to create the best outcomes for herself. Now as a high achieving, successful career woman she's applying that same energy to her love life by creating checklists. This conversation reveals that the myriad ways Emily is exerting control over her dating life are actually hindering her ability to be open to finding the kind of fulfilling relationship she really wants. If you've escaped from a toxic marriage or relationship and are feeling eager to have a corrective experience with a new person, this show will help demonstrate that slowing down is the antidote -- not racing towards the finish line. Listen in to hear explicit steps you can take to learn how to date differently by prioritizing your needs, giving yourself permission to be a little selfish, and reserving your time and energy for guys that actually deserve you. If you want to find out is you're a List Lady, like Emily, or another one of Kimmy's 5 Dating Archetypes click here https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY to take her quiz. And, if you really want to dive into this full throttle, check out Kimmy's brand new mini audio series, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating here https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series is curated to help you discover why you haven't found success in dating and love and give you concrete, practical tips to change your story. Plus, you'll hear exclusive coaching with five women who fit each one of the archetypes so you can learn how these archetypes show up in practice. Check it out! EPISODE 149 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Ditch The Dating “List”: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
There's a new feeling in the air this summer in this unfamiliar world we're all in together. Maybe you're reopening your dating life or maybe you're feeling tired of trying the same things over and over with little to show for it. This week, Kimmy talks about how you can use this summer to redefine how you date so you can find a healthy, successful relationship. EPISODE 148 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends This week you'll hear Kimmy's top tips for navigating this new reality as the weather gets warmer so you can create attainable goals you can actually accomplish this season. This summer, take the time to check back in with yourself and zone in on what you really want. What are you bringing to the table? What are your non-negotiables? What are some short term steps you can take to make progress? This episode is all about what you can do right now to increase the likelihood that you attract the kind of people into your life who are worthy of you! If you need help navigating the new dating reality we're all living in, you're not alone. First, you'll learn to ride the waves of change as they come. Being social is a muscle you have to exercise to see results. The more you give into isolating yourself from others, the harder it will be to get back out there. Learn about how not being able to meet in person right away isn't all bad! You'll hear how to get back in touch with the long lost art of courtship and how it can benefit your relationships. Hear from Kimmy on why talking on the phone *without* having your video on will help you become a better listener and connector. With modern dating technology, your ability to meet a high volume of people is greatly increased but, you might be surprised to learn how this variety actually gives you *more* control over who you spend time with than not. Kickstart your dating life this summer by signing up for a complimentary coaching call with Kimmy today at https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Don't let this seasons pass you by without building your dating muscles to meet the moment with a new, sexy confidence! Remember the longer you are away from it, the harder it becomes. EPISODE 148 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ************************************************ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ************************************************ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ************************************************ This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma\_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************ Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Have you ever had a dating dry spell? No matter how much you're swiping or trying to put yourself out there, you can't get anyone to engage with you. While this is frustrating and can make you feel like there is no one out there, this episode will give you concrete tips on how to stop these spells in their tracks. EPISODE 147 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy This week on Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear her live conversation with Lindy who is a teacher, mom of three, and accomplished musician. As an exceptional, independent woman with two master's degrees, Lindy knows her worth and wants to find a man who deserves her. This conversation centers around the unknown armor Lindy's built up around her for protection as a result of trauma from her past marriage that has been preventing her from attracting the men she wants and creating the dry spell she has undergone. Kimmy and Lindy jump right in and talk through Lindy's past dating experience and upbringing to discover why she's in a dry spell and can’t progress on dates. If you have ever felt like you'd rather skip flirting and small talk in favor of just getting to the deep conversation like Lindy, you'll want to listen close! Kimmy pin points and uncovers some surprising mistakes that Lindy is doing as a serial relationship gal that has been pushing great guys away. And, if you have a tendency to get in your head instead of being in your body, you'll hear some great tips on how to access your inner sexy before a date. Listen in as you Lindy’s insight into how her constant battles of being a people pleaser and sticking to “safe” topics rather than turning her cab light on have acted as a love shield. You'll hear actionable advice on how being playful and creating mystery when you're flirting can yield different results. If you are experiencing a dating dry spell and are operating out of desperation or you've simply disengaged, you have the power to break that pattern! You can sign up for a complimentary call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Learn how to create a new energy when you're flirting so you can start creating chemistry on your dates and interactions. EPISODE 147 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ******** The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ******* Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ****** Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ****** This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ********* Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Right now, you're probably longing for real, human contact and you might be feeling stressed out and lonely. Moving to socialize online as you're observing ever-shifting distancing guidelines can be daunting, but you may have a better opportunity virtually to connect with others than ever before! EPISODE 146 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Digital Dating Trends And Social Connection: Interview With Geoff Cook This week, Kimmy addresses this issue with an authority on the topic of virtual connection, serial entrepreneur Geoff Cook. Geoff is the CEO and co-founder of Meet Group, a social dating and live streaming company behind Meet Me, Tagged, and Growlr. Kimmy and Geoff jump right in to talk about how people are using technology differently to connect, date and find sustained love. Kimmy asks Geoff to shed some light on the major trends in the virtual dating space and how our current reality of physical distance has created a space for fun new ways to connect. You'll hear some fascinating stats on how the increased desire for virtual and video options across all age groups. Plus, Geoff delves into the future of virtual dating. You may be surprised to find out that video and live streaming are here to stay, even after quarantine -- listen in to hear why! Kimmy highlights the importance in combining technology, first impression management and conversational skills training in order to be a successful dater today. This discussion is incredibly informative and will help broaden your perspective about how to navigate the dating landscape now and in the future. If you are feeling disconnected and you want to know how to make a great first impression online to meet someone, reach out to Kimmy for help. You can sign up for a complimentary call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's one thing to swipe through matches at a record pace, and it's another to understand how to make a real, genuine connection online. All it takes is one call to start your journey to meet this new reality. EPISODE 146 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Digital Dating Trends And Social Connection: Interview With Geoff Cook. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ********
The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.
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This Podcast is available on:
Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient
Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
And many other podcast sites.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
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We are in the process of redefining how we date, communicate and fall in love. We're all navigating the challenges and opportunities of modern dating, especially with the advent of online dating platforms. Whether or not you have engaged in the online dating world, there are some very real trends that have a strong impact on the courtship process. EPISODE 145 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Modern Dating Trends: Interview With Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu This week on the show, Kimmy has an incredibly timely conversation with the women of the popular Dateable podcast, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. This episode gives you an insider's look into the universe of modern dating trends that covers traditional vs. modern gender roles, virtual sex parties, surprising fetishes, and the common issues that everyone trying to find love experiences in this new dating world. These three jump right in to dissect tons of juicy topics, provide some much needed comic relief, and bring a broad perspective that will help you find ways of how you can progress in your dating life in this new era. Kimmy asks Yue and Julie to analyze major dating trends that prove that everyone's dating experiences, desires and challenges are often more similar than you might think. If you are struggling to engage in online dating, especially amid a global pandemic where online dating may be your only way to meet someone new, this interview demonstrates how it's actually possible. Based on Yue and Julies research, Kimmy gives insightful tips in how to navigate dating during the pandemic and what to focus on to create a deeper emotional connection online. If this conversation sparked your curiosity and you want to learn how to date in this new world, consider getting in touch with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary exploratory call. This just might be the push you need to get unstuck and making progress in meeting someone in today’s world. EPISODE 145 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Modern Dating Trends: Interview With Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ********
The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.
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This Podcast is available on:
Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient
Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
And many other podcast sites.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
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This episode proves that there is still potential for dating success despite the obstacles felt during this pandemic. Kimmy's back with another inspirational episode of, Where Are They Now? On these shows, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who have achieved success which will motivate and show you that finding love is possible, even during a pandemic! EPISODE 144 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Dating Pandemic Success Story: Where Are They Now With Dena In this show, you'll meet Dena who is in an incredible new relationship with a great guy she met online during lockdown. Dena started her journey with Kimmy doing one of the first live Coaching With Kimmy episodes two years ago on this podcast and then shortly after became a client. As a teacher from a small town who'd gone through two marriages, Dena was comfortable caring for other people. She came to Kimmy because she was ready to start putting herself first, even though she was terrified and completely confused how to do so. Kimmy and Dena talk through why Dena was willing to appease the men she dated and not express her needs, wants, or emotions. This conversation looks back at the breakthrough moment where Dena realized she needed to change something and the skills she learned working with Kimmy that allowed her to move forward. You'll hear tips on how to share your feelings and draw boundaries, all while fortifying your relationship. You'll be uplifted by hearing how Dena came around to prioritizing and loving herself so she could attract the kind of man she really wanted. You may be surprised to learn the various tactics Dena did to land her new relationship while social distancing and how it has flourished and grown through video chatting. If communication is a big value for you, this episode also dives deep on how couples can communicate effectively, even on a cross country road trip! Despite what is happening during this time, we all seek love and connection which is what we need right now. If you are wanting to seek that love but not quite sure how to get it, consider a free coaching call with Kimmy and take action here meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's possible to build a healthy, happy, and fulfilling relationship even while in quarantine! This is the perfect time to check in with yourself, ask yourself if you know what you really want, and trust yourself to make the decision to grow. Episode 144 is: A Dating Pandemic Success Story: Where Are They Now With Dena. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.
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This Podcast is available on:
Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient
Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
And many other podcast sites.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
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Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps Moving Past Grief How do you move past loss to find love again? Grieving and loss are inevitable parts of life but right now, you may feel unprepared or overwhelmed. Before you can move forward in your dating life, you need to have the tools to move past grief and rebound. EPISODE 143 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is: Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps to Moving Past Grief This week Kimmy addresses our collective experience of loss at this time. She breaks down 5 actionable steps you can take to move past a loss with healthy tips, proven facts and a new perspective. Sometimes, when you’re experiencing a loss, you think you know what you want but you really need to take the time to heal. But trying to get back into the game too early without addressing the grief, may lead you down a path you ultimately won’t want. Listen in to hear Kimmy walk through how to tell the difference. You’ll hear some tips about how to rediscover yourself and what to pay attention to in order to dial in on what you actually want. Stay tuned to hear how you can get in touch with your emotions and face your fears instead of letting them run you. Kimmy covers the importance of slowly dealing with loss and taking the time to care for yourself by getting back to basics and putting yourself first. Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer shares that, "It’s important to not jump into something before you are ready. Otherwise, you might fall flat on your face when a “rebound” relationship fails, which gives you a false perspective and disappointment around dating.” Its important to face these challenges and take the necessary time to get your footing and opening the doors to finding love again with these 5 necessary steps. If you’re feeling frozen by dealing with a significant loss in your life, consider reaching out for support. Kimmy offers FREE coaching here http://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You are capable of rising from the losses in your life in order to find love again by taking these 5 necessary steps. Episode 143 is: Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps to Moving Past Grief. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.
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This Podcast is available on:
Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient
Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
And many other podcast sites.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
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How do you proceed to reopen your dating life and find love even in this new world where we continue to practice social distancing?
As we all start talking about reopening, no matter where you are in the world there is a new normal. And it looks quite different than the world we once knew.
EPISODE 142 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reopening your dating life again. A three phased approach.
People are now forced to slow down, build emotional connections, be more thoughtful in their interactions and court one another.
We are now entering a new way of dating and love that might be here to stay. And if you learn to take a slow three phased approach, you will be able to attract a more meaningful and longer lasting relationship possibly than ever before.
People are now forced to slow down, build emotional connections, be more thoughtful in their interactions and court one another. The further we are physically from one another, the more vulnerable we need to be to get closer to each other emotionally. We are now entering a new way of approaching dating and love that might be here to stay. Kimmy dives into the three phases, benefits of slow love and tips on how to move beyond the virtual stage. Listen in to hear a story about a client who's in a healthy, virtual relationship and why it's the best relationship she's ever been in, despite the distance.
Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer shares that “It might feel to you like a big waste of time chatting on texts endlessly and going on video dates that never end. But here is the thing...how much time did you waste going on endless, meaningless dates only to lead you down a path of disappointment?”
Slow love works and is the key to having a phased, more thoughtful approach to dating to find love in this new normal. In this episode Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer walks you through reopening your dating life again with a three phased approach.
By applying a slow phased approach, you will be able to attract a more meaningful and longer lasting relationship possibly than ever before.
Slow love works and is the key to having a phased, more thoughtful approach to dating to find love in this new normal.
If you want to know which of these phases you should be focusing on, schedule a free Social Distancing Strategy Call with Kimmy here https://go.oncehub.com/socialdistancingsession
Episode 142 is titled: Reopening your dating life again. A three phased approach. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Libsyn and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast.
Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love from the outside in is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.
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This Podcast is available on:
Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient
Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/
And many other podcast sites.
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Reopening your dating life again. A three phased approach
Our ideas about how the world works are based on how the world meets our own expectations. Those expectations affect our experience - for good or bad- and can influence our reactions and responses to just about everything and everyone that we encounter. Interview With Christy Whitman: Managing Expectations And Detaching From Outcomes is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 141 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. To dive into what this means, and what this looks like in practice, Kimmy brings on Christy Whitman to talk through how we can better manage our expectations of ourselves. Christy is a transformational leader, celebrity coach, and bestselling author of "Quantum Success: 7 Essential Laws for a Thriving, Joyful, and Prosperous Relationship with Work and Money". Right at the top, Christy shares her personal story of how she discovered meditation and becoming more in tune with her thoughts, her mood, and how those affect her relationships. If you're struggling to treat yourself well, or you don't see yourself as the kind of person who can attract a quality partner, this is the show for you. Listen in to get a little insight into how Christy shook her bad body habit and started to hold herself to different standards that allowed her to begin attracting the kind of love she really deserved. This conversation brings to light how connected all the elements of your life are to your thoughts, behaviors, and actions. Kimmy and Christy discuss how your own experiences and expectations of yourself are directly tied to your unrealistic expectations of others. Kimmy deep dives with Christy ways you can release yourself from the self-created trap of bad expectations and why you should learn to detach from being so focused on outcomes, especially in relation to dating. Listen in to hear answers to the 3 questions Christy asks her clients to zone in on their true “why." If this conversation resonated with you, and you feel that fire to start paying more attention to how you talk to yourself, consider chatting with Kimmy to start the conversation. Don't let yourself get stuck in the drama triangle of what you think you should do and beat yourself up for not rising to those expectations, you need to shift and find a new perspective. If you are finding yourself having unrealistic expectations with your love life and having a hard time staying present, schedule a call with Kimmy here meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You have the power to change your reality! Hosted by Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist, Kimmy Seltzer. The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
Charisma Quotient Episode 141: Interview With Christy Whitman: Managing Expectations And Detaching From Outcomes
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How to move conversations off of apps and dating sites and into actual dates. Coaching With Kimmy: Keeping Conversations And Dates Going is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 140 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. This week, Kimmy's back with another episode of Coaching with Kimmy. In this segment, Kimmy works with a caller live to crack the code to what's holding them back from finding love! You'll meet Cara, a vibrant woman in her early 30's who's been struggling to thrive on dates both online and off for almost 10 years now. She agreed to get a laser coaching on the show after taking a flirt workshop with Kimmy and realized she's had trouble flirting via text and email and hasn't been able to get past the first couple of dates without the interaction feeling like a formal business meeting. Kimmy dives right in asking Cara about her experience as an adolescent with rejection which is affecting how she interacts with men on dates. Kimmy walks Cara through how her fear of rejection and low self-esteem are causing her to have disconnected, guarded and boring interactions both online and off. This inspiring, uplifting conversation brings up the big question--how much do you value yourself and how is this holding you back? Kimmy nails down targeted hacks to help Cara raise her perception of herself, engage in more playful conversations and progress to actual dates. Plus, listen in to hear Kimmy read a Bumble conversation between one of her clients and a guy she met on the app. You'll hear Kimmy, in real-time, breakdown their conversation to show you exactly how to shift the tone and style of your messages to get the results you want. If you find yourself having trouble creating emotional connections or engaging in playful conversations while you're dating online, take this opportunity to get in touch with Kimmy for a free Conversation Booster Breakthrough session here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and shed some light around you can skip shallow small talk and have deeper connections overall. What you put out is what you get back, and now is the time to brush up on flirting and conversation skills so you can get back out there stronger than ever before! Hosted by Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist, Kimmy Seltzer. The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
Charisma Quotient Episode 140: Coaching With Kimmy: Keeping Conversations And Dates Going
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How to get a great handle on the right mindset for your dating life in the middle of uncertain times. Uncertainty While Dating: The Benefits And The Bad Excuses is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 139 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. With all the mixed messages swirling around what will happen after this pandemic, it's undeniable that we're living in a state of uncertainty. In this episode, Kimmy dives right in to acknowledge the fact that we're collectively experiencing the effects of a scarcity mindset and an uncertainty while dating. If you struggle with anxiety and are constantly seeking to control your world, life and dating right now can feel even more overwhelming. In this show, Kimmy breaks down her top 5 tips for how to use this uncertain time to your advantage. It IS possible to thrive right now and use this uncertainty to your benefit, despite what you may have been feeling so far. Listen in to hear exactly what you need to focus on to start shifting your perspective so you can use this period to grow and evolve instead of standing still. You'll hear steps to take around how to shift your mindset from focusing on unproductive worries to more productive ones. And, if you're missing your typical work, exercise, or social routine, you'll get advice on how to reintroduce routine to your day to bring back some predictability. Kimmy talks through some secret benefits to virtual dating that you can absolutely be grateful for and use it instead to build emotional connections. Finally, you'll hear a letter from a listener who's contemplating giving up on virtual dating while we're operating under stay-at-home orders. Stick around until the end to hear why Kimmy thinks that's the LAST thing anyone should use this time to do! If this episode is resonating with you, and you feel yourself grasping to control every aspect of your dating life and you're feeling completely overwhelmed and burned out, schedule a free call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Uncertainty while dating isn't always a negative thing if you know how to use it to your advantage. You are capable of thriving right now -- you just need the tools to make it happen! Hosted by Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist, Kimmy Seltzer. The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
Charisma Quotient Episode 139: Uncertainty While Dating: The Benefits And The Bad Excuses
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Do you have a hard time knowing what to say when you meet someone? Are conversations boring and disconnected? Making meaningful conversations are key to having deeper connections with people. So what’s the best way to engage someone in conversation? In this episode, Kimmy interviews entrepreneur, speaker and founder of the Turnkey Podcast Company, Doug Sandler. He’s interviewed tons of celebs like Ariana Huffington, John C. Maxwell, and Gary V., and has mastered the art of engaging people one on one.
Kimmy and Doug dive deep on how to manage perfectionist tendencies and get into action mode. If you’re struggling to move past superficial conversations, exhausted by small talk or find yourself craving more meaningful connections, this show breaks it down into simple steps in how to move past that. These two also discuss how it’s all too easy to get trapped by getting in your head and thinking that every decision you make is final. In reality, you can have second, third—even infinite chances to meet the right person, it’s just honing in on the skills to do that. This conversation shows that it takes work, practice and bravery to succeed.
Take a good hard look at the quality of connections you’ve been making lately both online and off and ask yourself if you’ve been making true connections or not. If you’re coming up short by being misunderstood, or not able to progress to another interaction or date, hop on a breakthrough call with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and start to discover the power to create deep, real relationships with the people you want today. And if you are not feeling confidence putting signals out there with your body, join Kim and fitness expert Adam Schaeuble in the 14-Day Fit & Flirty Challenge https://s1cdup9s.pages.infusionsoft.net/# starting April 27th.
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Charisma Quotient Episode 138: Interview With Doug Sandler: How To Move Conversations & Strengthen Connections
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Do you truly feel confident in your body? Do you lack self-confidence in how sexy you are? There is a connection and symbiotic relationship between your health, body confidence and attraction. This week, Kimmy Seltzer is infusing fitness elements to your style, emotional and social intelligence and talking all about body confidence. To help with this, Kimmy's bringing on an incredible fitness expert, Adam Schaeuble, The PHD (aka Previously Heavy Dude). Adam shares the story of how he hit rock bottom when he weighed 327 lbs and what he did to jumpstart his own weight loss journey. Now, he runs a gym and boot camp program where he works with thousands of women and men to deliver practical, motivational tools helping them release what's holding them back and be the best version of themselves. Kimmy and Adam dive into talking about blame and guilt when it comes to accomplishing a challenge like weight loss or finding success in love. If you have found yourself pointing to external factors about why you're not landing the dates you want, or why you haven't stuck to exercise and health plans in the past, this episode will help give you the tools to feel more in control of your results. This uplifting, fun conversation will show you that you don't need to be a certain size, weight or shape to find the confidence and love you deserve--it's all about working to build the confidence you need to project the high self-esteem that attracts someone worthy of you! Listen in to hear the surprising #1 reason people don’t lose weight along with Adam's tips on how to successfully stick to a health and exercise plan for the long term. Plus, stick around until the end to hear all the details about Kimmy and Adam's NEW 14-DAY FIT & FLIRTY CHALLENGE https://s1cdup9s.pages.infusionsoft.net/# starting April 27th. If you're stuck in quarantine, wondering how you're going to find the motivation to maintain healthy habits and sex appeal while you're at home, consider joining them. Sign up today to take back control of your body confidence with daily challenges and exercises to ramp up your health, hotness and sex appeal. Hosted by Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist, Kimmy Seltzer. The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
Charisma Quotient Episode 137: Interview With Adam Schaeuble: Your Health, Body Confidence & Attraction
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Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy: Where Are They Now? In this segment, Kimmy speaks directly with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with her and the secrets to their success! On this episode, you'll meet Heather who found Kimmy six years ago, recovering from a divorce as a newly single mom and how Kimmy led her down the path to finding true love. Right at the top, listen in as Heather thinks back to the challenges and insecurity she was facing in her life. After she left her marriage, she got into another relationship quickly--before she was able to truly discover what she wanted in a new relationship. Kimmy prompts Heather to share details about her upbringing that shine a light on Heather's perfectionist streak and I-can-do-it-all attitude. If you've ever felt desperate to figure out what's going wrong in your dating life because you're in control of every other aspect of your life, this episode is for you. From the moment they connected with one another, Kimmy was able to deliver the honest, caring, tough-love approach Heather needed to see her path forward more clearly. It wasn't about finding the perfect man, it was about making a real connection with a man worthy of being in Heather's life. Of course, Kimmy asks Heather to spill all the details about the man who's been in Heather's life for 5 years now! Plus, you'll hear Heather walk through how she used Kimmy's expertise to date online, without meeting in person. While you may be in quarantine right now, it's still possible to discover incredible emotional connections using dating apps. Seriously! Now is the right time to focus on yourself and discover what you want, and who truly deserves you. You can schedule a time to chat with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and talk through it all just as Heather started out doing 6 years ago! Hosted by Authentic Dating and Strategic Makeover Authority Kimmy Seltzer, The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
Charisma Quotient Episode 136: Coaching With Kimmy: Where Are They Now With Heather
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Did you know that clutter can affect your love life? If you're like us, you've been staying safe and healthy by sheltering in place to slow down the spread of coronavirus. With all this newfound time at home, you might be thinking it's time to purge your space of clutter! This week on the show, Kimmy Seltzer brings on Ken Lauher, a Feng Shui expert, consultant and coach who helps high-performers use the art of Feng Shui to declutter their minds and achieve their biggest goals. You'll hear how Ken went from working on Wall Street to embracing the power of Feng Shui and how he teaches those principles to help his clients discover healthier, wealthier, more abundant lives. Kimmy facilitates a deep discussion with Ken in how you can create and attract love starting with your home and closet. Ken talks through how trauma, drama and stress can takeover our minds and cause crippling fear, anxiety and self-doubt. When you experience these feelings in your love life, there are some simple Feng Shui tools you can use to begin to walk out of fear and start to embrace yourself confidently. Ken divulges the area of your home you need to evaluate in order to encourage an abundant love life while Kimmy dives into colors you can wear in order to attract a great match! This conversation hits home on the fact that your space is a direct reflection of what's going on in your head. Now that you're likely spending a lot more time at home, it's the perfect opportunity to reflect on what your space is saying about what's really going on for you and learn how to create a positive love environment. If you want to explore more deeply into Ken's take on modern Feng Shui, Charisma Quotient listeners can join his membership program now for 50% off the regular price. If you're ready to tackle the mess in your closet, check out Kimmy's FREE Wardrobe Guide! Don't let yourself hide behind old clothes, old patterns, and old habits that don't serve the person you deserve to be. Hosted by Authentic Dating and Strategic Makeover Authority Kimmy Seltzer, The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
Charisma Quotient Episode 135: Interview With Ken Lauher: Feng Shui For Love
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Do you have questions about dating during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer has surprising answers to your love questions on this special segment where she answers your dating and relationship questions during this uncertain time. With the advent of the coronavirus outbreak, those of us wading into the dating pool need to get creative with how we create connections with one another without being able to meet in-person. While you can't physically connect with new people, in this week’s episode of Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions During A Coronavirus, Kimmy Seltzer explains how you can socially connect on a deep level now more than ever. This episode will show you that you can create that feeling of closeness, combat loneliness and use your newfound spare time to foster connection in a new way. You'll hear a question from a woman who's dealing with feeling alone and looking for ways to be kinder to herself in those moments. Kimmy tackles this tough question strategically by reviewing 5 steps to combat loneliness. What do you do if you've got a string of in-person dates lined up, but all the bars and restaurants are closed and you've been told to shelter in place? Listen in as Kimmy discusses creative ways to date and work on dating skills while at home. She shares her top tips for how to transition to online dating if you haven't before and how to have great virtual dates. Plus, you'll get answers that will help you boost your conversation skills in the apps and lockdown dates like never before. Listen in to hear answers on how you can start creating a different kind of chemistry by relying less on physicality, and more on emotions. If you're still feeling lost when it comes to fostering connections online, this is a great opportunity to join a supportive online community of amazing women in Kimmy's FREE private Facebook group, The Love Makeover Insiders. This is a chance to actually meet other wing women and create incredible, deep connections online! There's no better time than right now to start exploring the online playground and create new connections without meeting in person. Hosted by Authentic Dating and Strategic Makeover Authority Kimmy Seltzer, The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love. Charisma Quotient Episode 134: Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions During A Coronavirus. Connect with Kimmy through any of these links: * Chat With Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
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Is it even possible with all that is going on in the media and across the world to be dating and staying connected to others during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer, shares her thoughts on maintaining personal connections in dating and in life with all the uncertainty and fear that is surrounding the coronavirus outbreak. Health officials and government warnings have kept an intense focus on a series of messages to self-quarantine as well as avoiding close personal interactions. For this week’s episode called 'Dating and staying connected to others during a Coronavirus' of The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy Seltzer explains how physical or social distancing does not have to equate to total social and emotional isolation. Learning to foster these types of connections without physical contact can make a positive and healthy difference in these negative times that feel overrun with fear. Some believe when our desires for personal connections are not met, it can result in both physical and mental negative health outcomes. In this episode, Kim reviews five applicable steps to bring a renewed sense of motivation, connection, and focus with an authentic route to finding love during the coronavirus pandemic or for that matter, any type of quarantine situation. By bringing this breakneck speed of news, opinion, and information to a slower pace and identifying the 'outbreak' as a chance to break away from methods that were not working before, this could be a perfect time to reset and focus on the needs you may have been ignoring. Making the intentional choices to become healthy, happy and connected can create the opportunities to find others or that special other person that is looking for someone just like you. Whether your focus is dating and staying connected to others during a coronavirus, a pandemic, an outbreak or whatever else has you in a place of fear, Kimmy Seltzer brings a knowledge, an expertise and an array of experiences that may help you connect with that one special person… regardless of what is going on around the rest of the world. To start getting more confident and connected with potential dates, check out this Free Photo Guidelines for men and women to help boost your profile and start getting the kind of matches you're looking for. Plus, when you download it you'll get a discount on a Profile Makeover session with Kimmy. Hosted by Authentic Dating and Strategic Makeover Authority Kimmy Seltzer, The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love. Charisma Quotient Episode 133: Dating and Staying Connected to Others During the Coronavirus Connect with Kimmy here: * https://seltzerstyle.com/ * https://twitter.com/SeltzerKimberly/ * https://facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/
Why do some people actually accelerate and have success even when there are huge obstacles in their life and others don’t? Do you allow the constant walls in front of you get in the way of achieving the life and love you want? You have the power to break down these barriers by challenging the way you think and act. When you’re working towards a goal, how do you go about tackling your biggest obstacles and rising to the occasion so you can progress? This week, Kim brings on a global leader in breaking barriers for women in business, Nikki Barua. As the Founder & CEO of Beyond Barriers, a platform that helps women leaders gain momentum and unlock innovative and adaptive digital-age strategies, Nikki is a master in helping you think outside of your comfort zone and be successful. Kim and Nikki begin by discussing why and how it is harmful tying yourself self-worth to the opinions of others is. As women, we often have to work harder to unlearn unhelpful patterns that diminish our confidence. If you’re a people-pleaser, this can create a huge obstacle! You will learn tips about how to get around the barrier of feeling guilty when you set a boundary and how you can instead gain the clarity you need to discover what you really feel and want. Nikki explains how to stop letting others set goals for you and move into setting those benchmarks for yourself. If you need to break through the barriers that are holding you back in your love life, then reach out to Kim for a free breakthrough call here: http://charismaquotient.com/apply/. This one call could be the turning point where you stop searching for someone or something that others want for you and start prioritizing what will make you truly happy!
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? where you'll hear from inspirational women and men who have found success in love and life after coaching with Kim. In this episode, you'll meet Julie, a vibrant, classicly trained pianist podcast listener who found Kim because she was feeling paralyzed by her perfectionism and overanalyzed everything which was preventing her from finding love. Julie shares that she was driven to work with Kim because she had reached the end of her rope and needed help to get on the path of finding the right kind of relationship for her. After investing to work with Kim, you'll learn the story of how Julie learned to release anxiety and land the amazing dream guy she is dating today. Kim asks Julie to reflect back on how she grew up and the kind of people she used to attract earlier in her life. They discuss how Julie's perception of what a man “should" be has transformed while working together and the tools she learned along the way to stay in a successful relationship. This conversation will encourage you to get out of your comfort zone, let go of perfectionism and switch up your patterns to attract the right partner into your life. Listen in to hear key tips to lower anxiety and gain a clear picture of the reality of the situation so that you can date smarter. If you're struggling to get different results in your dating life or you're dealing with increasing anxiety around love, take this opportunity to learn the same lesson Julie did. Sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough This one call may be the very step you need to make a big difference in your love life. You could be the next star in these episodes to talk about your success story!
You're a smart, strong, successful woman. In nearly every area of your life, you're operating on the highest level. But when it comes to your love life you can't seem to find a worthy partner despite your best efforts. In this episode, Kim and her guest, dating coach Evan Marc Katz, debunk 3 major myths about why smart, strong successful women sometimes have trouble finding love. As a dating coach to powerful women since 2003, Evan is a best-selling author and the who has helped thousands of women find happy, healthy and long-term relationships. Evan digs into how he got started in the dating space and shares how he transformed from a 'serial-dater' to a happily married man. Kim and Evan discuss how making real connections on a date isn't about how much you've achieved or accomplished. Instead, it's all about how someone feels when they're with you. If you're under the impression that all smart, successful, alpha men only want to date women 'beneath' them or that you need to change who you are in order for a man to be attracted to you, you need to listen to this episode! Kim and Evan volley back and forth about how you can reframe your thought process and release yourself from the old patterns that have held you back in the past. This conversation will show you that building confidence in dating (as you have in many other areas in your life!) is all about gaining experience. It's time for you to get out of your own way and make changes you can control. So, if you're ready to stop trying to achieve a loving relationship and start attracting a great partner, sign up right here for a free breakthrough call with Kim: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You are capable of finding the supportive, strong, successful and long-lasting relationship you've been searching for! Now is the time to recognize your strengths and apply them in the right way to discover the love you deserve.
How well do you know yourself? Do you know what your purpose is and how true to yourself are you being when you put yourself out there into the dating universe? This week, Kim has a special returning guest who breaks down exactly what the most successful people out there do to find their purpose and passion (and how you can do it too). Corey Poirier is a multiple-time TEDx and sought-after keynote speaker and host of the top-rated Conversations with Passion Radio Show. He’s interviewed more than 5,000 of the world’s top leaders to uncover the underlying purpose and passion that makes them unstoppable. Now, you can get his new book that explains it all, The Book of WHY (and HOW) for just 99 cents until Feb 23rd! Check it out right here: http://www.thebookofwhy.com/ Kim and Corey talk through how Corey discovered his passion and the journey he went on to reveal his purpose. In this episode, you’ll go through some major lessons and tips you need to know that will help you shift in ways to think about your purpose and how to achieve the goals that excite you to attract someone great in your life. If you’re struggling to find your purpose and passion or you are having trouble attracting the caliber of person you want as a partner, reach out to Kim here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The path to shifting your mindset and connecting with high quality people is possible for you! It’s time to make the choice to create space in your life for what (and who!) you really want.
Love is in the air this week and you deserve to soak it all up! With Valentine's Day on the way, now is your opportunity to invest in you by building your relationship with yourself and learning to attract love! Every day Kim hears from people who don’t know where to go to meet their match and has been wrapped up with their work life. An email from someone who would rather be alone than pick the wrong guy again. A Facebook message from someone who feels unattractive and fears being seen. The truth is, it's not hard to create a love life you deserve. In this special episode, Kim's delivering you a sneak peek of her brand new course, The Love Academy that will get you results in your love life. As part of Kim's incredible podcast community, you're getting an inside scoop of the secret ingredients to her signature Charisma Quotient Formula and how you can use this to attract love. This show breaks down the 3 major components: Style Intelligence, Emotional Intelligence, and Social Intelligence and how to apply it in your dating life. If you've been a long-time listener of the podcast, you know that Kim offers in-person coaching, phone-coaching, virtual makeovers and more to help women and men all over the world find love. If you've ever thought about working with Kim before, but didn't have the budget to make it happen, or it wasn't the right time for you -- you've got to check out this special offer to early access to The Love Academy. Not only will you get an on-demand video course you can watch (and listen, just like the podcast!), but you'll also get access to a private Facebook community of other wing-women, and group coaching sessions to get your questions answered directly by Kim. If this episode resonates with you and you're tired of feeling lonely, detached, numbing out swiping on dating apps and not attracting love in your life and you're ready to start getting real results, then start taking action with this course. Check out this exclusive Love Academy pre-sale offer right here: https://bl394-94b6ab.pages.infusionsoft.net/ See you inside!
Are soul mates real? Is there one special, perfect person out there made especially for you? This week on the show, Kim and her expert guest answer some soulful questions: Does your relationship have a destiny? How do you find your soulmate? You'll benefit from the wisdom of Cynthia Clark, who has helped more than 7,000 busy professionals find lasting love and soulmate connections through the soulmate code system. Using the science of palmistry she helps you understand your love language for powerful soul connections. First, you'll learn what a soul mate actually is and how your definition impacts the quality of your relationship. When you find your soul mate, these bonds open you up and help you and your partner grow personally through the relationship. You might be surprised to find out how fate and destiny play into this definition. Listen in to hear how Cynthia defines everyone's "relationship genius" and what you can do to discover yours! Kim asks Cynthia about the different kinds of soul mate archetypes and ties it into her dating archetypes, how to identify yours and find the right match for you. Cynthia shares the secrets to your love life that could be hiding in your hands. Tune in to hear all about. If you want to join Cynthia's Soul Mate Connection Membership program, sign up here: https://cynthiaclark.simplero.com/products/79167-Soulmate-Connection-Basic-Membership?ref=16265-Kim-Seltzer. And after you learn your soulmate archetype, you’ll want to learn what your dating archetype is by taking my exclusive Dating Archetype Quiz here https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY so you know how to overcome your challenges and capture that soulmate. Each step you take on your path brings to closer to finding love you deserve!
Do you believe that you are capable of everything you want to achieve in your life? Do you believe you deserve a loving, happy, and healthy relationship? This week, Kim tackles a BIG question we've all had: are you GOOD ENOUGH? It doesn't matter if you're already successful by other people's standards or if you're just starting your life's journey--we all deal with feeling like we're not enough for a lot of different reasons. But sometimes those negative messages are so loud that it negatively affects your ability to attract a healthy relationship. If you have ever questioned whether or not you're good enough to deserve what you want, this show was made just for you! Kim dives into how your experience growing up informs how you think about yourself. If you've ever found yourself trying to fix other people or putting others before yourself consistently, it may be your way to seek approval or validation which could be killing your love life. Kim delivers essential tips that will help you reprogram the inner critic so that you can walk into your next date, networking event or any social situation feeling good enough. When you're ready to shed your insecurities and be honest about your strengths, you begin to shine and attract the kind of people in your life who actually deserve you. In our social media-obsessed world, it can become all too easy to compare yourself to others. To combat that, you'll hear about what you can do to boost your body confidence, starting with downloading your free body type guide on Kim's site, seltzerstyle.com. So, if you're ready to stop the Gremlins in your head and start being your best self - sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve to see yourself as attractive, sexy and yes…good enough!
Are you afraid to put yourself out there or are you ready to speak out and be heard? Did you know that finding and owning your voice is a huge part of interaction and attraction? When it comes to finding love, owning your voice is essential - but finding the courage to speak up AND be vulnerable can be tough. Luckily, Kim's bringing on an expert at finding the voice from within - celebrated voice actor and coach, David Rosenthal. As CEO of Global Voice Acting Academy, he's voiced thousands of commercials and video games and has helped countless people discover their inner ability to move through the world without fear. David discusses details of how you can build up your self-confidence and conversational skills with some easy to do exercises. You'll hear some of the things David does with his clients so you can test them yourself and start establishing your voice now. This conversation will help you feel empowered to play! Learn how to experiment with your tonality, speed, and volume so you can bring your stories to life. And listen in to hear David coach Kim in a quick improv session to learn how it’s done! If you're looking to improve your self-confidence, speak your truth and find your voice, reach out to Kim for a free 30-minute breakthrough session:https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. If you find yourself shrinking in conversations or you feel scared to shared your opinions, thoughts and stories with others - it's time to break out and make a change! Book your call today.
We're back with the first "What Would Kim Do?" segment of 2020! Write in your dating and love questions to @SeltzerKimberly on Facebook, and your question could be featured on an upcoming episode. This week, Kim talks through how to conquer your fears around rejection, get comfortable with who you are, how to date as a single parent and get clarity on what you want in a partner. If you've ever struggled with addiction or addictive tendencies, you'll also want to pay attention to this episode. Kim answers a question about how addiction can seriously affect your love life and what to do about it. You'll hear a question with an insightful answer as to why it's helpful to learn to not get too attached as you date. Listen in for some ninja tips on how to find your voice and get out of your own way. When you know what you want and feel good with who you are, you have the freedom to try new things and be yourself without fear. This episode will show you that choosing to give people a chance helps you learn how to make dating fun and more connected! Once you know that you want to start attracting different people into your life, you've got to make a plan to accomplish it! If you are looking to make some concrete changes, get in touch with Kim and hop on the phone for a free breakthrough call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Getting coaching can be the biggest catalyst to jump start in your love life in a whole new way!
Are you comfortable being seen? Now that it is a new year, it’s a great time to push yourself to be more visible so that you can attract great things. The image you project to others is a direct reflection of who you are and how others perceive you. So, you won't be surprised to learn that image is the first key to your ability to find love. This week, Kim interviews Debbi Dachinger. She's a media visibility expert, keynote speaker and author of three international bestselling books. She has been interviewed on over 1,000 media outlets and hosts the syndicated, award-winning Dare to Dream podcast. Kim jumps in by sharing a personal story that demonstrates what happens when you hide in your clothes and play small. These two dish it out better than anyone about the magic that happens in your personal and professional life when you seek to be seen, heard, and served. Debbi divulges her rules for creating a visibility factor that work on TV, on dates, and more! Kim and Debbi discuss the importance of recognizing and respecting how you feel and how to allow those feelings to surface authentically. The trick is, expressing that in an honest, genuine way that builds connection. This episode proves that when your outer image reflects the authentic person you are inside, incredible results will follow. Stick around until the end to hear Debbi's rendition of a love song about one of her crushes! If you are struggling to feel visible, open and connected, you’ll definitely want to listen to this uplifting and fun episode to learn how to be a celebrity in your own love life. And to kick off the new year right with new energy and goals, sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Connect with Kim to talk through what comes up for you when you think about your image and some concrete steps you can take to show up as your best self in 2020.
Kicking off 2020 with an inspiring success story, Kim's back with another episode of Where Are They Now? You'll hear from Cathy, a client of Kim's who, after coaching with Kim, has made some amazing strides. Her confidence has soared! Her ability to take action in alignment with what she wants has built positive momentum in all areas of her life. When Cathy first got in touch with Kim, she was struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing which was causing some major anxiety and stumbling blocks with dating. If you've ever experienced that, you know how hard it can be to stay out of your head and allow yourself to be present and connect in the moment. Cathy and Kim talk through how they were able to work together and create a structure that helped Cathy get clearer on what she wanted. They discuss that by learning new skills and rooting out the origins of her anxiety, Cathy is now meeting guys left and right! Your ability to flirt and be comfortable getting attention and being seen are all connected. Listen in to hear Kim's #1 tip around how to find joy when you're dating without attachment. It's a new year! This is a moment to look at your life with a fresh perspective and get inspired by the successes of others so you can create success on your terms! All it takes is one call. Sign up for your breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You could even be featured on a future episode of Where Are They Now with your success story! If you're ready to work through your anxiety around dating, or you're having trouble expressing yourself through all the thoughts swirling around in your head, get in touch with Kim. Start 2020 off right!
This holiday season, Kim asks the hard question: Are you naughty or nice? What if this holiday season was about receiving more than giving? On this week's show, Kim reveals to 5 Ways You Can Be Naughty Instead of Nice in your love life. Listen in, some of her tips might surprise you! When it comes to dating, you can achieve a healthy balance by being a little naughty! This doesn't mean being over the top but instead learning how to set more boundaries for yourself and let go of the tendency to always be polite. Sometimes naughtiness can go too far, but sometimes it's OK to be a little selfish! This show is all about how to strike the right balance for you and bring some variety into your love life to help you let go, take risks and find love. It's about breaking out of the hamster wheel, expressing yourself and not taking yourself too seriously so that you create opportunity to find real love...not love that is fabricated based on what others want for you. If you're feeling like you are giving more than receiving, it might be time to find your voice, speak up and choose to be naughtier than you usually are! And, if you've noticed you've started to feel resentment and overwhelmed about putting other people's happiness before your own, here's something you can do to end 2019 on a high note! Sign up for a breakthrough call with Kim, right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough: and allow yourself to put YOU first!
So how many times do you cover your ears or put on a fake smile in fear of being yourself? How much energy do you expend worrying about being normal, proper or polite in order to be accepted? This week, we're getting real. Really freaking real by learning how to be your authentic self to attract love. Kim interviews Lisa Cherney, host of the ground-breaking Get F**king Real Podcast and founder of the GFR Squad. Lisa works with entrepreneurs and business owners to strip the masks and get real into order to help people fulfill their mission. This conversation cuts to the core fast - you might be surprised how Lisa's tips usually reserved for marketers and entrepreneurs are completely applicable in the dating world. Here's the truth, when you hide your authentic and vulnerable side, you actually attract lopsided relationships and you're much more likely to feel resentment. Kim and Lisa discuss how if you find yourself "tolerating" people, situations or environments around you, it sucks up both negative energy and physical space in your life. You'll hear some juicy, incredible tips from both experts about how to let go of the things in your life that don't feel good and how that will allow the universe to attract positivity. Listen as Lisa shares her unique GFR commandments and how those can help you in relationships and love. And, stick around to hear a great trick you can use to help you figure out the source of your self-doubt so you can learn how to overcome it. If you're sick and tired of not being honest with yourself and with others and you're dying to feel the energy, passion, and spark in your life again, you’ll love this episode! If you want to understand the tools to give yourself permission to get real and find your authentic self, you've got to sign up for a FREE breakthrough call with Kim by clicking right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's almost the end of the decade, it's not worth spending another moment not living as the REAL you.
Many of you may have heard of the Law of Attraction which is the ability for you to attract what you're focused on into your life. However, many of you may not have heard of the Law of Action...taking intentional actions that are in alignment with your goals. Without implementing the Law of Action into your life, the Law of Attraction will never generate results. In this episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kim interviews Rob Actis, the perfect guest to discuss the incredible ability to take action! Rob is the #1 bestselling author of The Law of Action and a renowned voice-actor (along with plenty of other titles, he even narrates his own book)! Kim and Rob dive right in and discuss many of Rob's life experiences that left him sure that he was still on this planet for a reason. Through personal and family health scares, a slew of near-death experiences, Rob says he loves being alive and truly lives each day like it's his last on earth. Kim asks Rob how he managed to get through some of his more harrowing experiences and how he has been able to choose intentional action even when it's really difficult. You'll hear Rob's method for building a foundation of momentum starting small and snowballing to MASSIVE action. Kim and Rob talk through the motivating events that launch us into action and tangible steps you can do to get there. One tip this show will teach you...when you surround yourself with positive people who encourage you, lift you up and push you forward, it's a lot easier to have a positive viewpoint of your capabilities. This episode is all about practical advice to empower yourself to take action, one step at a time towards whatever you want to achieve! You have to start somewhere so here is the PERFECT action for you and it’s with a community of motivating women to encourage you. It's the LAST DAY to sign up for Kim's Flirt & Femininity Challenge - it STARTS TODAY and it’s not to late! Click here to sign up: https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD now.
It's time for another episode of Where Are They Now?, the segment where Kim brings back former coaching clients to share success stories and progress. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! This week, you'll meet Ivy, a podcast listener of 2 years and a veteran of Kim's Flirt and Femininity Challenge and private coaching program. When Ivy started with Kim, she had no dating experience and had a lot of fears that were holding her back. She needed someone to hold her accountable to her goals and help her take the leap into self-love and confidence so she started with the 14-Day online challenge. Seeing how effective the program was for her, at the end Ivy was determined to take it to the next level and coach with Kim through private phone coaching. Kim and Ivy discuss how picky she used to be regarding men, how her perfectionism got in the way of letting go on dates and just having fun, and how she was limiting her opportunities with this mindset. This conversation is inspiring and uplifting! You'll hear all about how Ivy transformed to be able to express her emotions more clearly, learned to respect herself fully and get to know and love the woman she is. With her new found confidence, Ivy is now dating up a storm and actually having fun doing it! And, if you love a good makeover transformation, you've got to head over to Kim's Instagram page @kimmyseltzer to see Ivy's transformation for yourself! If you're listening and find that motivation is the obstacle blocking your path, this is your chance to break out of your pattern and start where Ivy did! Sign up for the next round of Kim's Flirt and Femininity Challenge by clicking right here: https://bit.ly/2YM4ddDThis is a private group just for women like you to learn flirting techniques, feel more connected with your body and feminine energy. The challenge starts on December 11th, so sign up while you can!
What does it truly mean to move from surviving to thriving? How do you maintain optimism throughout the challenges that life and love present? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in the realm of thriving, Lou Diamond, host of the Thrive Loud podcast. Kim and Lou talk about the difference between surviving and thriving in today's digital age and how to push yourself to meet all the goals you set. The more you reward yourself for using a positive outlook, focusing on using and celebrating your strengths, the more you will move towards thriving in your life. Kim and Lou discuss Lou's history in this space and all of the lessons he's learned along the way about how to course correct. Lou dives into simple steps you can take to transform your greatest adversities into your biggest strengths and discover your superpowers. This conversation is inspirational and motivating. It will help you recognize moments in your own life where you have an opportunity to thrive and move towards your goals. And, if you're ready to start to thrive in your dating life, now is your chance to kick into high gear. Kim is running another Flirt and Femininity Challenge starting December 11! It's a private group just for women where Kim assigns a daily challenge around flirting for you to implement in real-time. If you need to work on holding yourself accountable to your goals, this challenge is the perfect fit! Click here to join and see you inside https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD.
Do you have a strong desire to change but lack the motivation? When you're trying to change your behavior, your motivation needs to be stronger than your fears, but how do you actually make it happen? This week, Kim delivers 6 Motivation Hacks that will help you stir up your passion and drive to make the changes you want in your life. If you listen to this podcast as part of your routine (we love that!), but we know it can be all too easy to listen, go about your regular life and put aside things you might have been inspired to do. On this show, Kim will reveal the secrets to unlock and embrace your desire to get different results in your life! And, if you're having trouble launching yourself into a new behavior, Kim will explain how to gamify your goals so that you can take small steps regularly towards the things you want to improve. If you stick to any of the motivation tips you'll learn in this episode, you will really start to see a difference. Ultimately, you have the power to make the changes you want to see in yourself but you have to have the motivation to do so. It definitely helps if you have a supportive community set up to hold you accountable for your commitments. Well, you're in luck! Back by popular demand, Kim is running another Flirt and Femininity Challenge https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD. It's a private group just for women where Kim assigns a daily challenge around flirting for you to implement in real-time. Plus, to give you a little extra kick of motivation... the first 10 women that sign up for a breakthrough session with Kim will be entered into the Flirt & Femininity Challenge for FREE ($47 value)!! If you need to work on holding yourself accountable for your goals, this double challenge is the perfect fit! Schedule it now! https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
This week on the Charisma Quotient Kim and her guest, host of the Men on Purpose Podcast Emerald GreenForest are talking two major topics you might be surprised to find out are totally related -- Love and Money! Known as the Wealthy Life Mentor, Emerald shares the steps to her wealthy life mindset. You'll hear client stories and examples that show how interconnected the success of your love life and your money in the bank are. It all tracks back to mindset. Kim and Emerald's conversation will prompt you to ask yourself, are you inviting in opportunities to your life that help you grow and expand, or do your intentions tell a different story? Kim asks Emerald to go into the details and origins of her wealthy mindset steps and explain how those can relate to discovering abundance in your dating life too. You’ll also hear why creative types have trouble maintaining an interest in dating apps! This conversation will help you think outside the box and achieve success in your dating life by looking at one area of success in your life, and apply them where you want to see improvement. If this conversation speaks to you and you're looking to shift your perspective, sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim. She will help you learn to create wealth in your love life! Click here to sign up: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Are you a leader in your own love life? Do you have the courage to take control of your love life? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in courageous leadership, Rich "Trigger" Bontrager. As a Motivational Speaker, Pastor, Storyteller and Coach, Rich helps people rise above what holds them back to create confidence and empower leaders and communicators. Rich and Kim jump right in to talk about Rich's childhood and how he has defied the odds and overcome several different health issues that doctors were sure he couldn't come back from. He talks through how his health issues have impacted his relationships and how he was able to maintain courage and confidence throughout. This conversation is inspiring and will help you create hope for the future. Resilience in your pursuit of finding love is essential for success, but it’s not always easy to create. You’ll learn some concrete tips to have courage to defy the odds in your love life and understand the importance of becoming the leader you need to be in order to attract what you want. Whatever your baggage is, whatever you believe is holding you back in your life from finding the love you want -- this show will help give you the tools not to bring that baggage with you. If you want to learn how to have the courage, defy the odds and be a leader in your love life, then hop on a FREE breakthrough call with Kim now. You can sign up right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough She will definitely help you get there!
Kim's back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? This is the segment where Kim answers your questions by explaining what she would do in your situation. If you want your question to be featured on a future episode, connect with Kim on Facebook via direct message @SeltzerKimberly. On this show, you'll hear an answer for what to do if you're interested in attracting someone who you think is "out of your league". Then, you'll hear a question from a man who says he's looking for an emotionally open and available woman who feels misunderstood in the process of meeting women. Kim's answer dives into the push and pull between what you say you want, and what you're putting out there. And, find out how you can use Pinterest to actually increase your self-image and start seeing yourself outside of the mirror! This episode will show you that practice makes perfect, how to gain self love and starting with a smile can set your intention for any interaction. If you listen in week to week and you have a pile of questions for Kim, we have the perfect solution for you. Sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough session with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Your first step to getting the answers you've been looking for in your love life is a couple of clicks away! For those of you in the New York City area, Kim is bringing the Flirt Academy to you! On Tuesday, November 5th, she's hosting a workshop for women to learn how to flirt with sexy confidence and own any room you are in! Sign up right here: https://www.facebook.com/events/440617036809810/
Engaging in a healthy lifestyle and creating balance between your emotional and physical wellbeing is key to helping you find lasting love in your life. That's why we're dedicating a whole show to helping you choose to live the lifestyle that works best for you and your health needs. This week on the show, Kim interviews Rob Dionne, a celebrated health and wellness coach based in L.A. who is the host of the Open Sky Fitness Podcast with his amazing wife Devon. Rob's latest endeavor is OCD, the Official Coffee Diet, designed to help people drop body fat and increase their energy quickly. Robs starts right off by opening up about his personal life and a major event that happened in his childhood dealing with the health of a loved one that totally rocked his world. Ever since then, his perspective on what it really means to live a healthy lifestyle completely shifted from his upbringing of carb and dairy-heavy diets. Rob goes through some of the differences and benefits of Whole 30, Paleo, and Keto diets you've been hearing about in the media for the last several years. Kim and Rob talk through Rob's history of yo-yo dieting, dieting for fitness competitions, and he and his wife's transition into adopting a comprehensive view of healthy living -- not just dieting. And, since this is the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear Kim compare the typical way people date online (swipe after swipe, after swipe), to figuring out something more consistent that feels good over time, not just for a quick hit. This conversation will help you think about healthy living in a more holistic way, keeping your physical and emotional health in check. You can't diet or date in short spurts without a consistent strategy or consistent goals. If you're looking to create more balance in your love life sign up for a FREE breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, if you're in New York City next month, come to her exclusive Flirt Academy November 5th, sign up soon! It's a small group, with limited seating. Grab your tickets here: https://www.facebook.com/events/440617036809810/
You've read every advice column on romance, endured years of therapy, bought every single book on how to find love...and yet you keep striking out in the dating scene! So, what's really going on? It could be any number of things, but... have you ever stopped to think that you might be overthinking things? If you find yourself getting stuck in your head, ruminating on what happened, what could happen, or what you want to happen, this episode is your answer. Kim will teach you to get out of your head in order to stay present and date successfully. You'll hear a story about a guy Kim coached who exemplified the classic case of overthinking. His experiences might sound familiar to you, and the solutions he worked on with Kim may surprise you! This show is super informative because it demonstrates how important it is to be present in order to make new connections and create attraction. You'll learn several strategies and secret weapons of how to filter through all of the noise and information overload, so you can focus on creating a meaningful connection with the person sitting next to you. If you subscribe to the belief that it's easier to study than to “act", then sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim so you can start with putting yourself into action right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, if you're in New York City next month, come to her exclusive Flirt Academy November 5th! It's a small group with limited seating so grab your tickets now! Click here: https://www.facebook.com/events/440617036809810/
When it comes to the initial phases in dating where it often feels like a whirlwind of emotions, romance and crazy-amazing sex, men and women have very different experiences. Why? Falling in love for a man isn’t the same as it is for a woman. On this week’s show, Kim interviews the celebrated bestselling author John Gray for a juicy discussion on specifically how men and women date differently. He is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter century. He helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in personal and professional relationships. Kim and John dig right in to talk about John's incredible history and back story, including the relationship with his wife. You'll hear about John's 8 basic distinctions between men and women. Once you understand the differences, it helps you translate your needs to the person you're dating, regardless of gender. John opens up about the process of creating a series of positive dating experiences and how that gets you to find the successful relationship you desire. This episode is FULL of unique tips along with powerful life and relationship advice. Listen in to hear Kim and John's conversation about the stages of dating and how challenges are given to you to ultimately create stronger relationships. If you are ready to start working on yourself and make the changes in the way you do relationships, sign up for a free coaching call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just ONE 30-minute call, you could be on your way to discovering how you can find the love.
This week, Kim connects with her recent coaching client, Amanda, for another episode of Where Are They Now? This is the segment where Kim chats with the women and men she's worked with before to learn how their lives have transformed outside and in. When you listen to these episodes, you will be inspired and motivated to hear not only that these tips and tools actually work, but that there is sticking power to people’s successes. Amanda's story with Kim began 3 months prior to this episode as a divorced woman starting over after 11 years of marriage. Amanda felt completely lost and lacked motivation to date. More specifically, it was revealed that she needed help working on expressing her needs, relieving herself of some of the old tapes that were keeping her stuck as a caregiver and to stop self-medicating with alcohol as a release to cope. Now after just 3 months coaching with Kim, Amanda's having fun dating a younger man, just bought a new house, and has the confidence to up level her career with a new job! Now, she's got a new man and a whole new outlook on life. Kim helped Amanda uncover some codependent tendencies she carried with her into her relationship and you’ll hear how she learned to prioritize her own self-care and self-awareness. You'll even hear how Kim helped bring to the surface something Amanda didn't even know she was saying in order to accommodate other people. Listen to the end for some advice from Amanda if you're on the fence about reaching out for coaching or help. Imagine where you could be in 3 months, a year or even two years from now! If you've been getting the same results over and over again and you need something new in your life to break that pattern, sign up for a FREE coaching session with Kim right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just 30 minutes you could have a whole new outlook and specific next steps to start loving yourself and your new life.
Do you feel invisible? Do you think that people notice everyone else in the room but you? Do you wonder why others don't seem to hear you, or maybe... you'd rather they don't look at you at all? On this week's episode, Kim talks through the Top 5 Ways You're Making Yourself Invisible and gives you actionable strategies to break that pattern. In fact, there are some crucial things you might be doing subconsciously to keep yourself invisible. Whether you're looking to be seen, or you just need a boost of confidence to come out of your shell and shine, Kim shares what you can do to get there! If you have ever felt that you accept less than you deserve, often find yourself in lopsided relationships or interactions, or feel like people always misinterpret your intentions, then this show was made for you! You'll hear Kim talk through how in your quest to be polite or avoid confrontation, others may view you as passive-aggressive. Listen in to hear tips on how a few simple body language or conversation tricks can change everything, without having to change who you are! This episode will help you ask yourself some big questions. And if you are tired of being invisible and really want to get a handle on this part of your life, then sign up for a FREE breakthrough call with her right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One call could help you understand how this invisibility can be blocking you in all areas of your life. Be seen and be heard! Sign up today.
When you put yourself out there in the dating world, you're marketing your social capital. That means your interpersonal value, your looks, your income and more -- it's all the value you bring to the table. The more your self-esteem increases, the more your social capital increases. This week on the show, Kim interviews a master of social capital, Cayla Craft. Cayla is a bestselling author, self-made millionaire, top sales influencer and host of the Mommy Millionaire Podcast. She went from saving lives in the ER as a nurse to helping women own their own successful business. Cayla shares her transformation from ER nurse to network marketing powerhouse, and how she came into her own as her financial independence solidified. Kim and Cayla discuss getting clear on who you are and who you want to be so you can take action every single day to align with the best version of yourself. You'll hear Cayla's quick trick on how to check in with yourself and make sure you're operating at the highest level possible throughout the day. Kim and Cayla discuss how to effectively market yourself in business AND in dating. This conversation will encourage you to take a good look at who you want to be or become and what you truly deserve. Learn the secret to attracting the kind of people and opportunities to you want into your life. If you’re looking to increase your social capital, or start attracting what and who you really deserve, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In a 30-minute 1-on-1 call with Kim, you’ll be able to gain clarity on what you want and how to market yourself to live the life you want.
Would you describe yourself as someone who hates confrontation? Do you do things simply to please others because you want to be a peacekeeper? Or maybe you find yourself in constant discomfort when there are tense situations. This week, tune in and listen to Kim's interview with powerhouse duo CrisMarie Clarke and Susan Campbell. CrisMarie and Susan co-founded the company Thrive! and have a brand new book, The Beauty of Conflict. They work with leadership teams, management groups, project teams and senior executive teams to resolve conflict in real-time and use it to drive collective creativity, profits, and extraordinary results. CrisMarie and Susan teach that conflict is natural when smart, passionate people work together towards an ambitious goal. Kim, CrisMarie, and Susan discuss that oftentimes, in an effort to avoid conflict, you actually end up causing MORE conflict because people don't know who you really are and what you really want. This conversation displays the beauty in conflict and how expressing yourself to solve problems gets you to a better solution every time. Listen in to learn about how not having your voice to speak up can be a career-limiting and relationship-limiting move. Especially if you are a people-pleaser, you’ll learn that simply pacifying others and not speaking up about what you want may actually be causing more confusion about your motives. If you're searching for conflict-resolution strategies in your personal or professional life, you're in the right place! You’ll get a fundamental understanding in how to resolve issues and confront problems head-on without burning bridges or conceding your true feelings. Take the first step and sign up for a FREE breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In just half an hour, you will have usable, valuable insights into how you can express your needs and wants successfully. Sign up today!
We're back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers to Your Love Questions! On these episodes, Kim answers listener questions directly. This week you'll hear answers about how to stop attracting unavailable guys, how to gain the confidence to ask women out without using gimmicks or pick-up lines, and how to adjust your online dating profile to entice the kind of person you'll actually like! If you're frustrated because you're not attracting or meeting the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with, this episode will give you some great insight into how you can change your approach to get a different result. If you're anxious or nervous about asking women (or men!) out, then stay tuned for the second question Kim answers. She provides some tangible strategies to create curiosity and ask questions designed to get positive responses. Overall, this is about sending signals to the world that you're available and open. That's the best way to put yourself out there and go after what you want! If you want your question to be featured on a future episode, reach out to Kim on Facebook @SeltzerKimberly. And, if you're looking to connect with a group of women dedicated to changing their love stories, then join Kim's free Facebook group, the Love Makeover Insiders: https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL Sometimes it's scary to ask for help, but you are NOT alone. Join Kim's group for a built-in community of women who are on their journey to change their story from the outside in.
How many times have you been asked, why are you still single? Sure, it's frustrating to hear - but what if you knew you were self-sabotaging and contributing to your own single status? This week on the show, Kim interviews women's addiction and recovery expert, Tracy O'Malley. Tracy has helped thousands of women emerge from overwhelm to create thriving businesses. Kim and Tracy have a lively, personal discussion about the root of self-sabotage and how this dynamic keeps you stuck. Tracy shares her journey recovering from addiction and demonstrates the fine line between self-care and self-sabotage when it came to her relationships. If you have a tendency to expect the worst result and are often disappointed with the outcome you get, this episode was made for you. Listen in to discover how you may be contributing to your own failures because of negative beliefs you're holding onto. They go into actionable tips on how to get around repeating old patterns from your past that don't serve you. This is an uplifting, inspiring and deep conversation that you will find a ton of value in. Kim and Tracy connect over one of the biggest love lessons ever - if you don't repair it, you'll repeat it! Self-sabotage can happen to anyone, but you don't have to handle it alone. If you're struggling with repeating bad patterns for yourself in your love life, break the cycle with a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim. You can sign up right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and within just half an hour you can start to uncover your path forward.
What are your dating fears? It's easy to say that you haven't met the right person or you're not ready for a relationship. With the potential for great love and happiness comes the risk of disappointment. This week, Kim knocks out the Top 5 Dating Fears that keep you from finding love AND gives you actionable tips to conquer them. Whether you get uncontrollable butterflies in your stomach before a first date or cringe thinking about the prospect of meeting someone new or perhaps your palms get sweaty when you think about being vulnerable -- chances are she'll cover it on this episode. Listen in to hear about how your fear of rejection or abandonment may be a self-fulfilling prophecy and what you can do to remove yourself from that negative cycle and get a different result. If you have a ton of anxiety around dating, chances are that its fear getting in the way which Kim will help you uncover. She first dissects parts of your fears and then kicks you gear to face your fear. Kim talks through different strategies to prepare yourself to tackle your fear head-on without letting your worst instincts hold you back. A lot of times, the fear we feel is derived from wanting to be perfect. Kim discusses how that perfectionist need can be tempered so you can let go, have fun, and flirt without the fear of making a mistake. The biggest thing you'll learn from this episode is... EVERYONE is afraid and that you are not alone! If you want to ensure that your fears are not holding you back from finding love, sign up for a FREE break through call with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In 30 minutes you'll learn where the fears are coming from and tips on how to address them.
How do you maintain confidence throughout the dating process, even when things don't work out? Online dating has produced so many changes to how we date. Now, you can connect with thousands of singles in seconds, but how do you find the best match for you? When you operate from a fear of rejection, even the most confident people are not immune to the negative impact it can have on your dating life. On this episode, you will meet Katherine, who began coaching with Kim because she was in the market for an image and dating confidence makeover. Now that her pictures are getting her clicks and interest, she's deep in the throes of the online dating vortex and is struggling to have fun, be flirtatious and exude the confidence while on the dates. The good news is, she's got a ton of matches, the challenge is sorting through to find the right kind of guy she can get excited about. Kim and Katherine talk through her most recent hurdle -- two dates canceling last minute -- and what Katherine can do to manage her expectations and feelings of disappointment. Kim talks about the paradox of choice and why more people report feeling higher levels of anxiety around it. When dating feels transactional, establishing a meaningful connection isn't easy! If you're working to increase your self-esteem, or have little or negative dating experiences, these effects can be even more painful. But it can be if you are armed with knowledge, realistic expectations and a heavy dose of self-compassion. This conversation is energetic, honest and leaves you with a positive impression that there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Kim talks Katherine through specific ways she can get out of her head on dates, release the burden of the expectation and shift her mindset to get a different result. If you're looking to gain more confidence in your flirting skills - back by popular demand - Kim is rebooting her 14-Day Flirt + Femininity Challenge on August 19th! If you're serious about changing your story, join a group of motivated, action-taking women and sign up here: https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD
Whether you're casually dating, or you're in a long-term relationship, setting boundaries is imperative! In order to have a healthy relationship, both parties need to be comfortable sharing their needs without fear of judgment or retaliation. This week on the show, Kim interviews relationship coach, and host of the podcast Love with Integrity, Silvy Khoucasian. Silvy has coached countless singles and couples throughout her career to have fulfilling, happy relationships by focusing on setting healthy boundaries. Kim and Silvy talk through the importance of owning your needs and wants from the minute you start dating someone. Even though it seems scary to be vulnerable, ultimately by communicating up front your needs and passions, you are setting up both you and your partner for success. Silvy digs into the different boundaries that people with various kinds of attachment styles tend to need during the different dating phases. If you've felt nervous, anxious or tend to avoid boundary-setting conversations, listen up! This conversation will deliver you specific language to use to steer the other person in the direction of what you love and seeing how they respond. Whether your instinct on a first date is to rattle off all your major boundaries, or if you avoid sharing what you need and want, this conversation covers that and everything in between. When you operate from a place of honest vulnerability, it can be empowering and help you reduce the fear and anxiety around potential rejection. If you are looking for strategies on how to set boundaries while dating and in relationships, this episode has got you covered! It is possible to show someone else the truth of who you are and bring up your vulnerabilities in an open and inviting way. If you have difficulties setting boundaries and want a road map in how to do it, sign up for a FREE breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In just half an hour, you will have usable, valuable insights into how you can express your needs and wants successfully. Sign up today (limited spots available)
This week, we're doing something special to mark the 100th Episode of the Charisma Quotient! This episode is a conversation between Kim and the never heard before show's producer Anna, counting down the Top 5 episodes thus far. You'll hear a short clip from each episode and Kim breaking down the biggest Life Love Lessons while sharing some incredible client success stories around each lesson. Wherever you are in your love journey, this episode will have a tip you can use! It's like the greatest hits of the podcast up to this point.
Listen in to learn how to evaluate your own behavior on dates and what to look for when you're attracting the wrong kind of partner for you. Or, if you have a tendency to stay in relationships for too long, #5 on the countdown will give you some insight into how to shift your results. For the ladies, if you're caught up in feeling like there are no good men out there or that you just aren't speaking the same language as the men you date, #2 on the countdown will answer some of your questions. Plus, Kim reads several notes from former clients who have discovered the confidence and courage inside themselves to live their best love life. You'll hear a story from a woman who's meeting, flirting and connecting with great men in new places, a woman who finally attracted the right guy for her, and a beautiful, touching story from a woman who discovered her fairytale romance that brings tears to Kim’s eyes.
If you enjoy the show and look forward to new episodes each week, take a moment to rate the show on iTunes or your favorite podcast app, write a review or tell a friend, family member or coworker to listen. You could even write a review that tells others the life love lessons you've learned from listening. The more people rate, review and subscribe, the easier it is for others to find the show. It really does help! The Charisma Quotient team is so grateful to YOU, our amazing listeners for sticking with us and growing this community for 100 episodes!
What do men really want? Are they only looking for physical attractiveness and sexual chemistry, or something more meaningful? On this week's show, Kim interviews dating and relationship coach Scot McKay, founder of X & Y Communications with his wife Emily. Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, Scot hosts the popular podcast Moutain Top and he has been invited to speak at high profile conferences and over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, Forbes, Lifetime, Men’s Health and The Wall Street Journal. Although the title of this episode is focused on what men are looking for, this podcast is for BOTH genders. This funny and energetic conversation starts with giving you some real insights into how to attract a real "quality man.” Kim and Scot also riff back and forth on how men and women tend to misinterpret the intentions of the opposite sex. Plus, listen in for some useful tips about how to perfect your online dating profile. Scot shares some stories from when he was still dating to demonstrate some strategies around how men can take the lead on a date without the fear of their actions being misinterpreted as creepy or pushy. Especially in the era of #MeToo where both women and men are more aware than ever of how they come off to one another, this conversation will help you ease some tension for both genders! If you want to learn how to look your best on your online dating profile sign up for Kim’s new 90-Minute Dating Profile Makeover here: https://bl394-500ee6.pages.infusionsoft.net/ Kim is also going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the next Flirt Academy Workshop in San Francisco July 25! Get your tickets as there are a few slots left https://www.facebook.com/events/840244789682404/
Do you consider yourself a relationship person and hate dating? Do you find yourself going 0-60 on the first date, interrogating the other person to see if they're your next soulmate? Or perhaps you are getting attached to the outcome with your dates. On this episode of Coaching with Kim, you'll meet Louise and hear about some surprising mistakes relationship-oriented people make when dating. Louise has been on a professional development kick, working on herself to be more confident and successful at work. Now, she's working with Kim to level up her game in the personal and romance department. After her divorce, she dove right back into a long term relationship and now she's trying to figure out how to just date without the attachment of a relationship. Louise is having difficulties finding herself as a fun-loving, dynamic single woman separate from a man. She shares that many of her first dates feel boring and she wants to introduce more fun into her dating experience. Kim helps Louise identify some caretaking patterns from her childhood that have leaked into how she operates in relationships and dating now. If you have a tendency to support others before considering your own needs, Kim shares some strategies to use to reduce the guilty feelings that come up when you start prioritizing you. This episode is packed with practical tips on how to date as well as enhance the quality of your conversations, be more curious and make more authentic connections. If you want to learn how to date more proactively as opposed to reactively and feel more in control of your dating life like Louise - sign up for a FREE breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kim's going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the next Flirt Academy Workshop in San Francisco! She's got a workshop for women on July 25! Get your tickets here https://www.facebook.com/events/840244789682404/
Do you ever wish you could change the story to your love life? Have you thought about talking to someone to help you do that? After today’s special episode, you will be inspired to do both! On this powerful episode, Kim interviews the popular Lori Gottlieb, a celebrated psychotherapist and NY Times bestselling author of the new book, "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone.” https://amzn.to/2JK3DqX Currently being adapted as a TV series on ABC with Eva Longoria, the book dives into Lori's personal experience seeking therapy after a crisis threatens to crush her world and details several stories based on her patients over the years. As a former therapist herself, Kim shares her experience post-divorce when she needed to reach out for more support to change her love story. Lori and Kim have a special conversation discussing the truth that even professionals need professional guidance in their personal lives. Nobody is immune from the struggle and by sharing stories, we can all break patterns and heal. This conversation is fundamentally about how to allow yourself to be emotionally open with other people. Whether it's with your next date or your therapist, this episode will show you the difference between true vulnerability and TMI! If you've ever found yourself dating the "same person" over and over again, or repeating patterns you can't figure out how to break, listen closely! You will hear concrete advice from 2 licensed professionals about how to break your cycle. It's rarely easy to reach out for help when you need it, but when you do you strengthen relationships and change the story of your love life. Take the first step in talking with someone by signing up for a breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Also, if you're going to be in the San Francisco area July 25-26, Kim's Flirt Academy Workshop in partnership with The Great Love Debate is coming to you! Check out Kim's Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/ for more details.
Welcome back to the segment called, What Would Kim Do? Kim dedicates these episodes to answering your questions directly. In this episode, you'll hear a strategy for overcoming past trauma that may be infiltrating your dating life. And if you're struggling to determine what exactly it is you want in a relationship, Kim dives into several tips on how to gain the clarity you need to attract the right kind of person. For those of you not meeting the kind of people you want, you'll get some advice on how to look inward to start the discovery process. You'll hear a question from a woman who's just coming off a separation and divorce. Kim shares some tips from her experience post-divorce encouraging you to get back to basics and discovering who you are independent from a relationship. This episode touches on a lot of juicy topics - listen in! Are you struggling with some of the same issues you heard on this episode? Join Kim's private Facebook group, the Love Makeover Insiders - a supportive community of women seeking to find healthy, happy relationships. You can sign up right here: https://www.facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/ Mark your calendars! Kim's going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the next Flirt Academy Workshop in San Francisco! She's got a workshop for women on July 25, and one for men on July 26! Get your tickets right here: https://www.facebook.com/events/460295508124942/ for men and https://www.facebook.com/events/840244789682404/ for women.
Be vulnerable, be authentic... be yourself! It's a lot easier said than done. This week, Kim interviews Robert Kandell, a speaker, Amazon bestselling author, and host of the podcast TuffLove. Robert has taught more than 10,000 people using his expertise in interpersonal communication in relationships. On this show, you'll hear an honest conversation where Robert shares the defining moment in his life when he was not seeing or hearing his wife's needs. You'll hear how he and his wife at the time began working to develop a practice around vulnerability and intimacy.
Kim and Robert talk about society's definitions of masculinity and femininity, how it can discourage us to not open up or worse yet, create unrealistic expectations. Happiness is not achieved because we match society's definition perfectly, there's a lot of personal development work that goes into being truly happy with who we are. Kim asks Robert to define the steps to become more vulnerable and authentic. They walk you through how you can teach yourself to be more vulnerable through practice, repetition and learning the language!
Tune in to hear about how to share personal and even intimate "secrets" you have with someone you're dating - especially if you're afraid to reveal something. Robert shares exactly how to bring up sensitive conversation topics with someone you're dating, whether it's date #1 or #10. If you're looking to be more vulnerable, authentic and show up more like your true self on dates, this episode is for you! Want to jumpstart your own development? Take the first step and sign up for a breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
And, if you're going to be in the San Francisco area July 25-26, Kim's Flirt Academy Workshop in partnership with The Great Love Debate is coming to you! Check out Kim's Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/ for more details.
Have you ever heard of emotional attraction? Do you ever wonder how to create more meaningful connections with someone when you first meet? Most of us are familiar with physical attraction, but to build a strong, connected relationship it’s important to move beyond the physical and learn to be more open in letting the opposite sex really feel you. This week, Kim dives into ways you can create a deep emotional attraction with your dates from the minute you meet them. If you feel like your conversations just scratch the surface or feel a lack of chemistry on dates, Kim delivers tips on how you can take them to the next level. You can move beyond simply describing your day, or what you like, to using feeling words that show who you are. This episode is your guide to creating an emotional connection and being vulnerable without going overboard. Listen in to save yourself from the dread of divulging too much too soon or holding back with your guard up on the first date! And, Kim dispels the myth that if you’re not physically attracted to someone right away, you will never be. If you want to learn how to build emotional attraction and flirt effortlessly, sign up a FREE 30-minute breakthrough session with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough If you've been relying on physical attraction to carry you through, or have found that you can’t get to that next level in your dating life - Kim will help you crack the code to creating a deeper emotional attraction. And, if you're near Addison, Texas - Kim's Flirt Academy Workshop in partnership with The Great Love Debate is in your area tonight! Find out if the Flirt Academy is coming to a city near you on Kim's Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/
Are you that super nice person who has a ton of friends, but not a lot of girlfriends or boyfriends? Do you find that no matter what you do, the opposite sex puts you in the friend zone? Everyone knows the feeling of crushing on someone who doesn't seem to notice or be at all receptive to your interest. And if you've ever been coached by Kim and you're a guy -- you'll recognize this week's expert interview! It's so exciting to have on Dr. Robert Glover, author of the celebrated book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy", and the forthcoming book, "Dating Essentials for Men". Dr. Glover is an internationally recognized authority on "Nice Guy Syndrome" and has helped thousands of men shed their Friend Zone label and find happy, healthy, relationships. Listen in as Kim shocks Dr. Glover with ways women get stuck in the friend zone as well! Kim and Dr. Glover discuss ways both men and women get stuck in the friend zone and how to overcome them. They talk through some easy tips on body language, style and conversation tools to flirt and demonstrate interest. When you start with being sure of yourself, knowing your strengths and accepting your personality, it helps you escalate sexual attraction! If you're finding yourself getting stuck as being the constant “nice guy or gal” and want to learn how to create more chemistry on dates, take the first step and sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough session with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough . Also, check out Dr. Glover’s new book “Dating Essentials For Men” here: https://amzn.to/2Wr6Nbo
Welcome back to the second installment of Where Are They Now! These episodes are a great chance to catch up with people who have previously been coached by Kim who are now in happy, successful relationships. On this show, Kim has a conversation with Stephen back from Episode 24 in 2018. When we last heard from Stephen, he was trying to figure out how to balance not diving in too deep, too soon and taking it slow with the women he meets. Since then, Stephen met a wonderful woman and they've been in a great relationship full of adventures for a year. Stephen shares his mindset and dating life when he first started working with Kim. He was going on a lot of first dates that never progressed anywhere meaningful. In the next stage, he would date someone for several months, but inevitably their connection would fizzle out. Through working with Kim, Stephen has been able to grow and learn to build deeper, emotional relationships with the people he meets. Stephen now shares that with his current girlfriend exemplified by him being much more vulnerable, sharing feelings and being open and intentional in conversations. Listen in to hear the steps that Stephen took to get to that point and a fun game you can play with your next date to practice reconnecting on an emotional level! If you're ready for a stronger connection in your love life, just like Stephen - start with the first step as he did: sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And, if you want to join Kim's 14-Day Flirt & Femininity Challenge - it starts today June 5!! Click here to sign up and learn the key ingredients to attract the men everywhere: https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD
Do you believe that you have the power to grow and develop your dating skills, or do you think you get what you get out of pure luck? This week, Kim has a conversation with Melanie Benson, a performance optimizer, author and business coach about how to have a growth mindset. Melanie hosts the Amplify Your Success Podcast and her success tips are featured in Bloomberg Business Week, Woman’s Day, and Parenting Magazine. There's a ton of talk out there about mindset - abundance vs. scarcity or fixed vs. growth - but how do you actually improve yours for the better? On this show, Kim and Melanie get into the details of what mindset is and how you can change yours to get what you want in life and love. If you want to meet the love of your life but you've been taking the same routes meeting people at the same parties or going to the same bars time after time, how do you push yourself to be the person that can attract what you say you want? In this conversation, Kim and Melanie talk through how you can start with one step to make big and bold changes. Perhaps you've tried taking baby step after baby step, and have realized you're going nowhere fast. To upgrade your mindset, determine the boldest thing you could think of to switch up your patterns and break yourself out of your comfort zone. Listen in this week if you want to start reconditioning your thought patterns and say out loud what you're willing to do to move forward in your dating life! Here's a bold move for you: sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And if you really want to be bold and brave, join Kim's 14-Day Flirt and Femininity Challenge starting June 6th to help you learn the key ingredients to attract men here https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD
Every week, Kim talks through dating difficulties and how to overcome them. One challenge many people experience is trying to date while straddling two cultures. Whether you grew up in a family with strong cultural values that differ from traditional American ones or are exploring the dating scene from a foreign perspective in any capacity, this episode is here to help! On this show, you'll meet Fred. He comes from a culture where the values of his Muslim faith were paramount, and intimate relationships between men and women are navigated quite differently than his experience in the American dating scene. Although he's tried to explore opportunities on dating apps like Bumble, he's feeling frustrated that his values don't seem to align well with the values of the women he's meeting both online and in person. Listen as Kim coaches Fred live through many of the challenges he's faced on his journey to find love and get married. Kim walks Fred through how to define realistic expectations for himself, begin creating his own "mini culture" that he defines outside the boundaries of his cultural background and develop a dating plan in America. If you're struggling to find a comfortable balance dating between cultures, or the entire dating world feels like a foreign experience to you -- help is out there! Sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The relationship you want is out there, you just need to take action and get the tools you need to discover it! And, starting June 6th, you can join Kim’s exclusive 14-Day Flirt and Femininity Challenge to help you learn the key ingredients to attract men. Join the private Facebook group challenge here: https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD
Have you ever had minor heart palpitations trying to decide what to text a guy back? Do you spend more time coming up with a million "what ifs" about potential dates than you do getting asked out? Are you constantly worried about being rejected or not being good enough? If so, this episode about how to deal with dating anxiety is for you! This week, Kim interviews Shira Myrow, mindfulness-based marriage and family therapist who is deeply committed to helping people process painful experiences and dysfunctional relationships into secure, resilient narratives. Kim starts off by defining what dating anxiety is and how the various symptoms can paralyze your dating life. Kim and Shira dive right into a conversation about how Shira began her work helping people develop relationship intelligence. When it comes to handling anxiety in dating, you can't manufacture a spark between two people, but you can learn how to have a happy, healthy, loving relationship! Shira talks about how to notice and deal with anxious thoughts before you spin down a rabbit hole or try so hard to suppress an anxious feeling that you never move past it. If you've had bad experiences dating, had issues with your family growing up or are just lost in how to manage your feelings and emotions as you embark on your journey, listen in for some useful tips! Anxiety in dating is super common, but there is a way to overcome it! Reduce your dating anxiety right now, and give Kim a call for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough session. Coaching may be your best option for working through your anxiety and landing the relationship you want! https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Everyone has challenges with dating! Attracting the right kind of person for you is a skill you can build with practice. This week, you'll hear Kim's coaching session with Maria. She's a vibrant, confident, and successful woman looking for a man who can match her energy and inspire her. However, she has found that she consistently attracts the wrong type of guy for her. Maria shares her journey from when she first started working with Kim 4 years ago to now. For Maria, meeting men isn't the issue, it's sending signals to the right kind of guys that she's interested in a relationship, and not just a casual romance. When your life priorities shift, the time you spend focusing on your love life will change. Kim and Maria talk through how to take a conversation from surface level to an appropriate emotional place. Listen in to hear Maria’s breakthrough moment where Kim cracks the code of why this keeps happening to her and gives her hands on tips in how to overcome it. And it’s not what you might think! If you’re looking to shift your perspective on dating to land the relationship you’ve always wanted, give Kim a call with a FREE 30-minute breakthrough session: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and have her crack the code on what you can do differently to attract the right one for you.
It's spring, and wedding season is here! If your mailbox is flooded with save-the-dates or your social calendar is booked solid for the next few months, listen up for an unconventional take on the weddings, marriage and relationships. This week, Kim interviews Jen Glantz, the founder of the viral business Bridesmaid for Hire and host of the podcast You're Not Getting Any Younger. After being asked by numerous friends (and strangers!) if she would be their bridesmaid, Jen decided to start charging for her services. After seeing hundreds of brides and grooms on their big day, Jen shares stories of all the love mistakes she's made throughout her life and in her more recent journey as an entrepreneur. Kim and Jen swap stories of the biggest misconceptions they had when just starting out in the dating world. These two talk through the importance of being clear on what you deserve in a relationship and taking intentional action. Jen shares her thoughts on the importance of communication in partnerships as well as a few fun stories from her days as a bridesmaid for hire. If you want to hear a lighthearted, playful conversation about mistakes in love and bouncing back better than ever, this show delivers wisdom on the experience needed to grow into your sexy confidence. If you're making love mistakes that are holding you back from being in the relationship you want and deserve, give Kim a call with a FREE breakthrough session: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The things you uncover could lead you to a healthy, happy relationship in no time at all. And, Kim is going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the first ever Flirt Academy Workshop! Click here to find out more: https://www.facebook.com/events/787953384919390/
This week, we're diving into another episode answering your questions on What Would Kim Do! On this show, Kim fields multiple questions from listeners about how to get over the fear preventing you from making a change. You'll hear tips on how to look at online dating as a practice tool to flirt, engage in conversations and meet great men. And if you've had trouble connecting with men in general, listen closely! Kim shares how you can start getting comfortable being around male energy so you can be successful on dates. This episode is packed with questions from people that are having trouble getting out of their heads and dipping their toes into the dating pool. Kim talks through how to shake off your energy from work, parenting or stress and release your anxiety. If you are an over-thinker, are uncomfortable around men or feel a lot of anxiety around dating in general, this episode is for you!! You can begin the deeper work you may need to feel confident, sexy and playful in your life by scheduling a FREE breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Getting started can be scary, but don’t let fear paralyze you from finding the love you deserve. Also, Kim is going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the first ever, Flirt Academy Workshop starting in Charlotte NC May 6! Find out more here https://www.facebook.com/events/787953384919390/ or reach out to her and find out if Kim is coming to your hometown!
You've probably heard the old saying, in order to love someone else, you have to love yourself first. But that is a lot easier said than done. This week,Kim has a powerful conversation with Koya Webb, an internationally recognized yoga teacher, personal trainer, holistic health and wellness coach, author, and motivational speaker, who is revolutionizing the holistic living landscape. Kim and Koya talk about how to prioritize yourself over others so that you're able to help, give to and care for others in your life. Everyone wants to be loved, respected and told they're beautiful. Before that can truly sink in, however, we need to believe this about ourselves. Kim and Koya discuss how to achieve radical self-acceptance in our journey to truly be OK with who we are you have to see every challenge as an opportunity to grow. They share powerful tips in how to put that self-love into action. Kimemphasizes the importance of self-love in dating and shares useful tools on how to shift your perspective in order to find a partner who encourages you to be your best self. Koya talks through how to rise from the victim of your circumstances to the creator of your own path. Listen in for empowering tips and ideas that will help you live your life to the fullest. If you are having trouble seeing and believing in yourself and what you have to offer the world, sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim. You have the ability to shine brighter than ever, but we all need support and coaching to get there. Sign up right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and make your next move. If you're in the Charlotte, North Carolina area - mark your calendars! Kim is going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the first ever, Flirt Academy Workshop! Click here to find out more: https://www.facebook.com/events/787953384919390/
Are you successful in every part of your life except for finding love? Do you have a hard time turning off your masculine, work energy so that you can show that feminine, sexy side? Or perhaps you never learned how to be comfortable in your femininity or you have turned off that side of you. Whatever your challenge might be, you will love this week's episode. Kim talks through how to tap into and use the art of feminine charm and debunks the myth that being in your feminine can somehow reduce your power, make you seem silly or easily dismissed. On the contrary, she brings in a recent study that qualifies feminine charm as an "impression management technique" that can help you achieve your goals in all areas of your life…including your love life. Every woman's definition of femininity is personal, but a few simple tips can help you land your next date while still being your authentic self. Listen in to hear Kim's tips on how to utilize your feminine charm effectively to attract men. If you want to learn how to be in your feminine more, this is a perfect opportunity to sign up for a FREE 30-minute call with Kim right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You have the power to turn on the charm to achieve everything you want in love. And if you want hands on training in this area and you're in the Charlotte, North Carolina area - mark your calendars for May 6! Kim is going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the first ever, Flirt Academy Workshop! Message Kim directly on Facebook to find out more here https://www.facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/
Today we're doing something a little different! Last year, Kim coached Anne on the show, who was a master at getting to the first date, but had issues when it came to securing a second. If you haven't listened yet, check back to the episode from April 3, 2018 "Coaching with Kim: How to Get Beyond the First Date"!
Now, Anne is back to tell Kim all about the amazing new guy she met last year and how she's changed since being on the show. Last year, Anne was a pro at getting guys to feel incredible but wasn't getting the deeper connection and affection she needed in return. If you're like Anne, coming off of a divorce, or in anyrelationship that didn't fill you up, you're more likely to accept the crumbs instead of the cake. In fact, you might not even recognize the cake even when it's served to you!
On this show, you'll hear Anne share the progress she's made since working with Kim. Plus, Anne shares the tips she used to get men to understand that she's interested in them. Listen also as she shares the tools Kim gave her to create a more intimate, deeper connection with her now boyfriend. Stay tuned throughout to hear the advice Anne would have given her self, knowing what she knows now.
If you are accepting crumbs when you KNOW you deserve the cake, do what Anne did. Schedule a free breakthrough call with Kim right here, right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One year from now, you too could be in the beautiful relationship you've always deserved!
Now that you're in a relationship, how do you keep the spark alive? Find out this week, as Kim interviews Relationship and Sensuality Coach Alexandra Stockwell. For 20 years, this physician turned relationship expert has helped men and women rediscover the pleasure, connection and freedom they want in their relationships. Alexandra has an abundance of tips on how to bring excitement and sensuality into even the most simple acts or touches. Kim and Alexandra talk through what they’ve taught their clients and how to date their partners again. They discuss the common trap that many long term relationships fall intoand explain why the drama of conflict can easily be confused with passion and excitement. Stay tuned to hear how slowing things down can reignite attraction, the 6 qualities of a conscious partnership and the importance of getting clear on the vision for your relationship. If you want to break the monotony in your relationship, make a move and schedule a FREE 30-minute Breakthrough Call with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. One call might shed some light on what you've been missing.
Did you know that research says that no one is born with charisma? It's all learned behavior! On this week's episode, Kim dives into how anyone can learn her Charisma Quotient formula with special guest, Dr. Larry Senn. Larry is known widely as The Father of Corporate Culture and is the author of the fascinating book, "The Mood Elevator".
Larry walks through the different levels of The Mood Elevator and how being curious and interested can help pull you up from the lower emotional states. Listen in to hear all about how Larry has kept the spark alive with his wife of 40 years and how he prioritizes his happiness daily. Kim talks through the 3 ingredients that make up her Charisma Quotient, and how it all starts from the outside in. When you can feel good about how you present yourself on the outside, that energy can permeate all other areas of your life. Larry shares lessons he's learned working to encourage a positive culture throughout his career at companies like Walmart and The Woolworth Company. Some of the same ideas apply whether you want to be happier at work, or happier in your relationship. Either way, Larry's insightful advice to reduce drama and emotional flareups in relationships is on point!
If you've noticed that you have settled on the lower levels of the mood elevator when it comes to your self-confidence, then this is a perfect opportunity to schedule a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim. The first step to changing your mindset and raising your Charisma Quotient! Sign up for a free breakthrough session here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Boring dates... ghosting... narcissists... Sound familiar? In today's dating world, there's no shortage of bad dating experiences. When you embark on your journey to find love, how do you cope with the worst of the dating world and shake the negativity so you can find the one who’s right for you? On this episode, you'll hear Kim coach a woman, Maura, who's had a string of bad dates and is looking for strategies to move forward baggage-free. Maura’s been getting caught up in a couple of chemistry storms with men where she races through the first three dates like a whirlwind and then they come to a screeching stop before date four, only to find that the men were never really ready or available for a relationships. Kim and Maura talk through how to identify upfront what is within her control, and what is not. Maura makes some real revelations on why she’s been rushing into the vortex of these tornado relationships and Kim gives her some practical tips on how to stop the cycle. This episode is focused on how to transcend your bad dating experiences by changing your mindset, approach and perspective which in the end will make you feel uplifted and optimistic. Kim helps Maura with some effective takeaways to relieve the pressure of a relationship and to just have fun! If you are in the market for a breakthrough to lift you out of a bad dating rut, sign up for a FREE call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Just one private session could be your first step to finding the love you truly deserve.
When it comes to dating and socializing, how would you characterize yourself? Are you curious, adventurous and open to meeting new people? Or are you unsure, insecure or anxious and would rather stay home wrapped up in your comfy robe? Listen in this week to the latest installment of What Would Kim Do, the segment where Kim answers your questions based on what she would do in your situation. On this episode, Kim tackles how to increase your social confidence in your dating life and beyond. You'll hear questions from someone healing from a long-term toxic relationship, someone who has no idea how to flirt, and someone who has been living with her parents until her 40s and has no idea where to start. But they all have one thing in common: a lack of social confidence that's holding them back from making a genuine connection and finding love. Kim talks through how you can enter a new situation, engage in conversation with ease and make a meaningful connection. You’ll also hear specific confidence hacks that you can deploy on your next date to trust you're making the right impression. If the idea of having a conversation with a new person already makes you feel exhausted and riddled with anxiety, pay close attention to the tips on this episode! It all starts with first taking action, and then practice, practice, practice. After listening to this and realize you need more personal help in taking action to build your confidence, then sign up for a FREE Breakthrough Call with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just 30 minutes, you could see your world from a whole new perspective!
Do you have a ton of dates but they never turn into anything more? Do your relationships tend to fizzle out after a short period? With the rate of divorce hovering close to 50%, how do you turn your dates into real relationships that stick? To answer that question, Kim interviews Dr. Diana Kirschner, PBS Love Expert, psychologist and best-selling author of "Love in 90 Days". She's helped tens of thousands of singles and couples learn what it takes to build lasting relationships. If your dating routine or relationship is becoming too predictable, short lived or just isn't filling you up, then this episode is for you. Dr. Diana's extensive experience, combined Kim's results-oriented signature outside in approach is a recipe for success in learning how to love yourself so you can find the lasting love you deserve. Dr. Diana and Kim share tips on how to date casually, keep men interested and how to know where to find the right guys for you. This conversation will give you a peek behind how changing your clothes and even your name can change who you attract and how you're perceived by others. Don't give up before the miracle - your perfect lasting match could be just around the corner. To learn more and grab Dr. Diana's book "Love in 90 Days" click here: https://lovein90days.com/book-bonus-sign-in/ref/Kim+Seltzer/ And don’t forget to check out Kim’s Love Makeover Bootcamp Retreat in Florida this April. Click here for more https://bl394-2e7bd4.pages.infusionsoft.net/
Do you hate dating and find it exhausting? If you're like a lot of people, you might prefer to be in a committed relationship and just skip the whole meeting-a-bunch-of-strangers-dating thing. So whether you're just getting out of a long term relationship, have always been a relationship-oriented person, or if you just don't know how to date, this episode was made for you. Listen in if the idea of meeting new people and "dating up a storm" makes you feel anxious or sucks the life out of you! On this show, Kim will walk you through the 5 steps to successful dating. She digs deeper into the strategies behind dating smarter, not harder without being attached to the outcome. You'll learn the importance of getting clarity on your dating goals and how creating a dating plan can empower you to take action. Kim will talk through how you can date without attachment, really have flirty FUN and enjoy getting to experience new people. Learn how you can create a magnetism and carry yourself with curiosity as you embark on your dating journey. And if this all still sounds really hard and you are ready to put this theory into practice, take the opportunity to learn more about Kim's new Love Makeover Bootcamp Retreat in Florida this April. Click here to learn more and sign up for a FREE call to see if it could be a good fit for you: https://bl394-2e7bd4.pages.infusionsoft.net/
Feeling secure when it comes to dating after divorce is easier said than done, especially when it has been a while. Listen in this week as Kim interviews Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt who shares her journey about learning to embrace her sensuality fully after divorce. This candid and real conversation is all about how you can successfully make the transition, as Allana says, from devastated to delicious! Allana discloses how she had to fall in love with masculine energy again, especially after she felt so disconnected from men. This lively discussion is full of juicy, fun and sexy tips on how to get back in touch with your playful, feminine side. Kim and Allana talk about the pitfalls and benefits of dating “ unavailable" men as a necessary phase. This episode is an uplifting and lighthearted take on owning your confidence, embracing your flirtatious side, and getting curious! Get inspired to be bold and creative this week and let your ferocity shine! If you need a push to rediscover your sexy confidence after divorce, take the opportunity to learn more about Kim's new transformative Love Makeover Bootcamp in Florida this April. Click here to learn more: https://bl394-2e7bd4.pages.infusionsoft.net/
Women's body confidence has become a global issue. Women around the world, and especially in the US, UK, and Australia have reported that low body-esteem has prevented them from making moves in their love lives and career, big and small. This week, you'll hear Kim's live coaching call with Madison, who wants to feel vibrant and confident flirting with guys. Madison is a young singer, just starting to kick off her career. While she's fully secure hanging out with men as friends, when it comes to making a romantic or intimate connection, she struggles with feeling shame around potential rejection. Madison shares some family dynamics that have influenced her body image gremlins and Kim talks her through how to get rid of those old tapes playing on repeat. Kim gives Madison some tangible tips on how to access the "Rockstar" part of her before dates, that naturally comes out when she's performing on stage. This conversation is so uplifting, it will encourage you to access your inner rockstar and show up as your most sexy and confident self! If Madison's call resonates with you, and you want to begin working to find your sexy confidence, take the opportunity to learn more about Kim's new Love Makeover Bootcamp & Retreat in Florida this April. But act now…spots to this small group will go fast! Click here to learn more: https://bl394-2e7bd4.pages.infusionsoft.net/
Kim's back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? It's the segment where Kim answers your questions with concrete advice based on what she would do in your situation. This week, we're starting off with a classic gripe most women on the dating scene have, “Where can I find quality men?”. And if you've been listening to the show, Kim's answer won't shock you but she does reveal the surprising story of how (and most importantly where) she met HER boyfriend of 5 years. If you struggle with feeling anxious or nervous in your dating life, Kim shares some simple tips on how to get out of your head and into a conversation. She will teach you the 3 phases of conversation and gives you tips in making more meaningful connections no matter how introverted or shy you feel. This episode is all about how you can encourage yourself to open up, get curious and get interested in other people both online and off! Remember, in order to attract new and different people or change the quality of conversation you're having on dates, you need to change up your approach! If you're getting curious about how you can make some powerful changes with sticking power, your opportunity is here! Kim is hosting a new exclusive Love Makeover Bootcamp & Retreat in Florida this April. But act now…spots to this small group will go fast! Inquire here for more information: https://bl394-2e7bd4.pages.infusionsoft.net/.
You know the feeling. You're swiping through your dating app of choice and all your options start blending together. If you keep this up, you're going to burn out! This week, Kim's switching things up. Listen in on her conversation with "The Great Love Debate's" Brian Howie, and the creator of the brand new dating app, Cove, Charles Messow. Charles has embarked on a journey to create a new kind of dating app, one designed for deeper and more meaningful connections. These three talk through the generational dating language gap. The rules have changed, but the fundamentals of making a genuine connection haven't. This conversation delivers both a male and female perspective to your burning dating questions! How do you start a successful conversation AND connection through an app? Should you pick up your date at their house? Bring them flowers? Can you just walk up to anyone in a bar anymore and strike up a conversation? In this day and age, people are retreating from the previous standards of dating and social interaction. You might think that our attention spans have been stunted and our trust in each other has diminished, but this episode will give you hope for the future! If you're ready to get out of your dating app rut and try something new, sign up for Kim's FREE private group for women looking to transform their love lives from the outside in here: https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL This group of amazing women will help support your goals! Charisma Quotient Podcast, hosted by: Kimberly Seltzer
Do you find yourself feeling guilty for taking care of yourself instead of others? Are you hesitant to set boundaries or ask for help when you really need it? This week, Kim coaches Jessica, a stay-at-home mom who wants to branch out and find her purpose outside of being a badass mom without guilt! Kim talks through a bit of scientific research that shows women are more likely than men to take care of everyone and everything -- and feel guilty if they don’t! Jessica openly shares a story about her upbringing where she didn’t get the attention she needed so she poured her energy into putting others first to feel validated. Kim dives into how Jessica can set some clear, healthy boundaries and set up a few simple systems that will allow her to take some much needed time for herself and not feel beholden to her role as a mom at all times. These lessons can apply to you whether you're a parent like Jessica or you often find yourself in the caretaker role in your romantic relationships. The more you run to meet the expectations of others without setting boundaries for yourself, the more you leave yourself open to being pushed to your breaking point and feeling depleted. This episode focuses on real, tangible tips to help you find your voice and rediscover your power to live your life on your own terms! And in the end, you will feel heard, respected and cared for. If this conversation speaks to you and you're interested in learning how you can prioritize self-care in 2019, sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. One conversation could set you on a whole new path! Take action today. Charisma Quotient Podcast, hosted by: Kimberly Seltzer.
Have you set a big goal this year to meet your soulmate? Are you already feeling completely overwhelmed by that lofty promise to yourself? This week, Kim breaks down all your bad dating habits and addictions and gives you the tools to crush those habits this year. In order to make real connections, find love and eventually meet your soulmate, you'll have to break down that big goal into smaller pieces so you can accomplish what you set out to. Maybe you're spending all your time scrolling through Tinder, Bumble and Hinge and you're not actually engaging with people in the real world. Or, perhaps your stuck blaming others for your dating misfortunes instead of looking at what you can do to get a better outcome. Listen as Kim breaks down the top 5 bad dating habits people tend to have and important tips on how to break them. If you're spending endless time and energy with meaningless dates and relationships that don’t yield the results you want, make sure you listen to this episode. The beginning of a new year is a perfect time to take stock of what you want, what you deserve and set real boundaries to ensure that you never accept less than you're worth. If this episode resonates with you and you see yourself and your habits in these examples, take the first step to make an active change this year and give Kim a call. You can schedule a FREE 30-minute breakthrough session with her personally right now by clicking this link: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain!
Do you tend to stay in things too long? How do you know when enough is enough -- when it's better to quit than stick it out? At what point do you release the fear of the unknown and move confidently into the next chapter of your life unburdened? This week, Kim interviews Dr. Lynn Marie Morski, author Quitting by Design and host of the podcast, Quit Happens. Lynn Marie teaches others how to quit rationally and strategically. This conversation is perfect for stepping into the New Year courageously, powerfully and without regrets! Kim and Lynn Marie discuss the fundamental components of deciding to quit with Kim’s signature strategy of a cost/benefit analysis on relationships -- how big and bright is the light at the end of your tunnel and how dark and long is that tunnel to begin with? With Kim's background in psychology and Lynn Marie's medical training, this conversation is packed with breakdowns of human behavioral patterns and physiology that will reveal some surprising connections. Lynn Marie explains the 5 steps of quitting and differentiates between various levels. This dialogue will empower you to assess your relationships, friendships, and habits to decide whether or not a quit is right for you! And if you're ready to get unstuck in your love life and perhaps quit a relationship that isn’t serving you schedule a FREE breakthrough session with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Come out of your shell this holiday season to meet someone special! This week Kim talks about how to add some sparkle to your holiday wardrobe and turn up the volume on your flirt game. During this time of year, there's a holiday party or event every other day, so accept every invitation you get or, throw your own event and get out of your comfort zone. The holidays don't have to induce dread! Shake it up this season and pull out these tips and tricks to make a new connection.
How do you believe in yourself when you’ve been told your whole life that you are not worth believing in? How do you get rid of those old, pesky messages that tell you you're not worth it? This week, Kim coaches Myra live on this episode. She is interested in building and strengthening her self worth and self-esteem. Myra opens up right away and shares her family history of emotional, sexual and physical abuse and how that has affected her relationship with herself and others. Kim talks her through how that history has diminished Myra's confidence and self-image, or what Kim calls her "old tapes.” Kim talks her through some practical tips about how to quiet the voices in her head that tell her she's not good enough and to start looking at the positive accomplishments she's made in her family, her career and her life to give the evidence of her leadership abilities. You’ll also hear tools you can implement to become a warrior and push through those voices to make you stronger so that you can strengthen your self esteem muscle. If you're like Myra and you've struggled with your self-confidence, this candid conversation will lift you up and give you the tools you need to start building your self-esteem and improving your relationships. It's never too late to begin working on loving yourself! And if you want to have a breakthrough just like Myra and learn to give yourself the credit you deserve, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
This week, Kim's back with another episode of, What Would Kim Do? On this segment, Kim answers your questions by telling you what you should do in your situation. Kim starts by tackling the age-old question, why does it feel like all guys on online dating sites are only interested in sex? Of course, there are guys out there only interested in one thing, but if you're looking for a more serious relationship Kim challenges you to take inventory of what you're putting out there to see if you can change your results. And if most of your dating activity is through dating apps or Instagram, Kim shares what to say to transcend that online bubble and what to say to move the conversation from the online world to the real world. Next, this episode goes into how to check your confidence levels at different stages of a relationship -- with others and with yourself. Whether you're worried about gaining the confidence to strike up a conversation with someone new, sharing your feelings for the first time, or being able to look at yourself in the mirror and feel sexy, doing some personal work on your self-esteem is a great idea! This episode is packed with action steps you can take today to improve your self-esteem, decrease your anxiety around dating and relationships and improving your body image. If you want your question to be featured on a future episode, send them to Kim via direct Facebook message @SeltzerKimberly and while you're at it, join her private Facebook group Love Makeover Insiders for women committed to transforming their lives from the outside in! https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
What is your personal brand when it comes to dating? Do your actions and the clothes you wear align with your mindset in order to attract the kind of person you want? This week, Kim interviews the popular Paul Carrick Brunson, an entrepreneur, author, business columnist at USA Today and co-host of UK television show "Celebs Go Dating.” A former matchmaker like Kim, Paul has reinvented his life and rebranded his career countless times. For him, rebranding himself has allowed him to create the life he desires and goals on his terms. This smart and engaging conversation is about how you can make sure that the way you show up to others (your brand), is how you want to be perceived. Kim and Paul talk about the importance of understanding your values first and then living them authentically. If you're feeling stuck, this interview will show you a new way of thinking that can open up your possibilities to reinvent your dating life, relationships and career. You have the ability within you to attract the life and love you want, but you need to take action to get there. Paul talks about the power of mindset and achievement in obtaining your goals. If you're not attracting the kind of relationships or career you're looking for, focus and action are essential skills to inspire the change you seek. And when you begin taking the steps to alter your life for the better, it will create a ripple effect to the lives of those around you! If you're looking to uncover how you can rebrand and design your love life, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
| Have you ever been on a date and you think you did all of the right things yet he still didn’t ask you out again? Are you uncertain to what you might be doing that is affecting your chances of making a great first impression with your date? On this episode, Kim talks through 4 of the biggest mistakes that women make on first dates and why they don’t get asked back out. On this candid episode, Kim shares common issues she observes from her clients and then walks you through easy solutions to help you overcome these challenges on your next first encounter with a man. You'll hear key ingredients to creating more chemistry on dates, including tips around flirting, dressing for the first date and giving signals you are interested. So before you declare that there are "No good men out there!" listen to this podcast and see if you can get a different result with the men you are meeting! And, if you're ready to kill it on your next first date, there's still time to be a part of Kim's new 21-Day Challenge: How To Rock Out A Great First Impression, that hooks the looks and seals the deals! Kim will be with you for 21 days starting December 3 where she'll give you practical tools to develop a new image that will build confidence and strengthen you emotionally, mentally and physically for only $47 so check it out and don’t delay! https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/21DayChallenge/ |
| Do you use your femininity to your advantage? Do you believe it's possible to be feminine and be taken seriously? Or do you worry about how your femininity may come across? This week, Kim interviews Kendrick Shope, the creator of Sales School, the leading sales training for women entrepreneurs. Kim and Kendrick have a funny, compelling and energetic conversation about how you can use your feminine power successfully in professional and personal situations, without the fear of being underestimated. As a sales expert in the media, Kendrick been featured on The Steve Harvey Show, NBC, and Forbes, among others. But at the beginning of her career, Kendrick was out in the field, selling everything from lumber to pharmaceuticals, and often, she was the only woman on her sales team. Kendrick shares stories of people underestimating her, telling her to change her methods, her accent and to tone down her femininity. Ultimately, as she and Kim discuss, it took confidence and persistence for her to change the expectations of her clients and her bosses, so she could show up as her authentic self. Even if you're not in sales, this conversation is still valuable for you! Kim discusses the ways femininity can be a big asset in the world of business and in attracting a partner. And you'll learn Kendrick believes that selling is the key that unlocks the door to what you want in life. That might be a discussion with your child, your significant other, your client, your date or your boss. If you need that boost to help you confidently express what you want using feminine communication, this interview will help inspire you to yell it from the rooftops! And, if you want to work on embracing your feminine side and create a winning image, be a part of Kim's new How To Rock Out A Great First Impression--The 21 Day Challenge that hooks the looks and seals the deals. Kim will be with you for 21 days starting November 28 where she'll be giving you practical tools you need to develop a new image that will build confidence and strengthen you emotionally, mentally and physically for only $47 so check it out and don’t delay! https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/21DayChallenge/ |
Have you ever been told you're too picky when it comes to dating? Do you fear feeling that you're settling? How do you know if having high standards is helping you, or hurting you? This week on Coaching with Kim, you'll hear from Gwen, who's having trouble trusting her instincts in relationships. Gwen is willing to take smart risks when it comes to her career, but that doesn't translate to her love life. Gwen shares that her dad says she's too picky, and Kim probes for how that makes Gwen feel about the guys she chooses or not. This conversation is honest, open and reflective. Feeling secure and confident in your decisions, especially when you haven't had a lot of experience meeting people you connect with, is difficult for everyone - there's a learning curve! Getting really clear on what you want in a relationship doesn't just happen, it takes time and experience to build a clear vision. Kim encourages Gwen to acknowledge her accomplishments both personally and professionally and be open to dating for fun! When you take action, at first, it can be uncomfortable and anxiety-inducing, but the more you experience, the more you will grow and learn what you like, what you want and ultimately, who you are. If you are looking to take a step in the right direction to build your self-confidence, join Kim's private Facebook group for women looking to transform their love lives from the outside in, join Love Makeover Insiders here: https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
This week on the show, Kim unveils a new segment, What Would Kim Do? On these episodes, Kim takes your questions and answers them directly. Send us your questions about dating, love, relationships, building self-confidence and anything in between! On this segment, Kim answers questions about how to be in your feminine while still maintaining your confidence and power and how to deal with a date that won't let you get a word in. You'll hear a question from a woman who's dealing with a pretty bad breakup and Kim's advice on how to find yourself and your identity after a relationship ends. Next, Kim breaks down the difference between friendly and flirty for someone who finds themselves relegated to the friend zone constantly. Plus, Kim answers the ultimate question, how do you find a quality man? You’ll have to listen though to find out the surprising answer. If you like this segment, let us know! Send your questions to Kim via direct Facebook message @SeltzerKimberly and while you're at it, join her private Facebook group Love Makeover Insiders for women committed to transforming their lives from the outside in! https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
Would you describe yourself as a confident person? Would others? Kim explains that confidence isn't innate, it’s about having exposure and experience in something which makes us feel more secure. This week, Kim interviews Nada Lena, the founder and CEO of “Rise Up For You,” a company dedicated to empowering and educating women across the globe. Nada is a motivational speaker, educator, entrepreneur, and an advocate for youth and women’s empowerment. This episode is a lesson in harnessing and expressing your confidence fully! Nada shares her personal story about upending her life and moving across the world for love. Nada grew up in a supportive family, which helped her develop a base level of unshakeable confidence. However, when that relationship ended, Nada's confidence was nearly shattered. She couldn't believe that she was in this unstable position, especially since she had always remained in control of her circumstances up to that point. Kim asks Nada about how she rebuilt her confidence and how she uses those same lessons to teach other women how to establish their own sense of personal conviction. If you're working on building up your level of self esteem and confidence, this episode will give you some tangible tips to begin that journey. Take the first step towards showing up authentically as yourself no matter what the situation and join Kim and Nada at her Empowered
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Are you filling up your fuel tank? No, not in your car... your emotional fuel tank. Are you expressing how you feel about things or do you shut down and find yourself in superficial relationships? This week on Coaching with Kim, you'll hear Kim help Michelle live with her challenges of shutting down and shutting out people in her life. She has a tendency to "shut down" in conversations with strangers and with the guy she is dating. They have some trouble getting past superficial conversation topics, but when she does express herself the response she gets just makes her feel like speaking up won't change anything. Kim digs into her family history, her relationship with her dad and her upbringing to discover the source of the shut downs. This conversation will show you that when you feel like no one is hearing you, the best thing you can do is to start unapologetically expressing yourself without fear of rejection. Kim gives Michelle some easy tools to use to begin building that muscle one step at the time. The biggest hurdle to expressing yourself is raising your emotional intelligence IQ. The first step? It all starts with a little awareness and then practice. If you're like Michelle and want to learn how to stop shutting down and be open to more intimate relationships, sign up for a FREE breakthrough call with Kim by scheduling it here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Also join Kim at the Empowered Women Rise Conference November 3! LINK: https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/empowered-women-rise-conference-networking-empowerment-self-development-tickets-48676606039 CODE FOR DISCOUNT: EWRKIM15
Do you identify yourself as shy? Does being an introvert help you feel protected or less pressure to engage socially with others? You're not alone. So many people are naturally inclined to be introverts, but that doesn't mean that your love life is a bust! This week, Kim interviews Corey Poirier, renowned TEDx Speaker, award-winning keynote speaker and host of the "Conversations with Passion Radio Show.” Kim asks Corey to open up about his history as, "the shy kid" and how he overcame his fears to speak in front of audiences of thousands and interview more than 4,000 of the world's top leaders. His developed skills and tools helped him move beyond his comfort zone and push towards his goals. Kim and Corey start this conversation off right away with concrete tips you can use everyday to feel more comfortable getting out of your own way and make connection with others. This real conversation is filled with inspiring, relatable and concrete tips you can start using right away. It will help you understand that living for yourself instead of living for other people is one of the keys to being more fulfilled in life and relationships. And if you want to learn to get out there more and push past your shy tendencies, join Kim's private Facebook group the Love Makeover Insiders for woman transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
Do you modify your behavior to avoid a loss of love or affection? Do you find yourself being so consumed in your dates and relationships where you spend so much energy changing yourself in order to please or accommodate the other person or make them like you more? If either of those questions ring true for you, you may have some codependent tendencies and lose yourself in others. This week, Kim interviews Rose Cole, visionary leader, world-renowned speaker, author, mentor and spiritual guide to talk all about codependency and losing yourself in relationships. The term “codependency" is often misinterpreted, but this episode will clear up any misconceptions you may have. Kim and Rose talk through practical strategies that you can use to stop shrinking yourself and to be better able to express your needs. Rose shares the personal journey she went through that helped her come to terms with her codependency and ultimately, overcome it successfully. This caring conversation about healthy self-love will help you understand how to fill up your own love tank so you can lessen the need to seek validation from others. And there is a special surprise at the end that will relax and inspire you! If you're looking to discover your tendencies in relationships and break patterns that hold you back from being your full self in relationships, join Kim's new private Facebook group for women looking to transform their love lives from the outside in: https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
When you reflect on who you are, what your goals are and if you're meeting them... are you satisfied? Are you meeting the standards you set for yourself, or have you given up? Maybe you're just stuck in a rut! We all have the capacity to dig ourselves into ruts, stay stuck and play small with our ambitions. Admit it, you're always harder on yourself than your friends, relatives and loved ones. It's time for you to STOP making excuses, STOP arguing for your limitations and start taking action to make real change in your life! You deserve to be happy and have the relationships you actually want. But first, you need to get out of your own way. In this episode, Kim speaks candidly and directly about the top 5 reasons you stay STUCK in old patterns and how to develop new habits to create change. Chances are, you're actively participating in your own circumstances. Kim outlines the tools to break through what holds you back and to make some serious shifts in your life! If you need help CRACKING the code of one of your patterns that is holding you back, schedule a FREE 30 minute coaching session with Kim now here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
How would you characterize your conversations and interactions on dates? Do you talk about your dreams, your feelings, your ambitions and really show who you are? Or are the topics you discuss more surface level like your profession, where you live or what restaurants you go to? This week, Kim coaches Linda live who's experiencing the latter. Linda doesn't have trouble meeting guys, but rather has difficulties moving past her superficial and guarded conversations. She thinks it’s the men she's been out with because they rarely skim the surface and don’t really put effort into getting to know her. But in this episode, Kim helps Linda unravel the real reason why deeper connections and attraction are not happening with men. Hint: It’s not about the men! Listen closely as Kim talks about ways women wear armor to protect themselves and stay in their masculine conversation to play it “safe.” There are nuances and tricks you can inject into your next interactions to improve the quality of conversation, stay in your feminine, be more playful and move past the surface. This episode will help you learn to express to your dates all you have to offer, be more open so that men can feel you and create a deeper attraction overall. If you want to learn more techniques for deepening your conversations and how to flirt with life, join Linda in Kim's private Facebook group the Love Makeover Insiders for woman transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
This week, Kim interviews Lauren Zander, author, life coach, university lecturer, public speaker, and Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group, an international corporate consulting and private coaching company. Kim and Lauren have a lively, funny conversation about how to break bad habits that hold you back, and design your love life the way YOU want it to be. This show dives deep on figuring out how to give yourself appropriate consequences and rewards and how to make sure you're actually working towards that goal. Do you have a tendency to self-sabotage? Can you talk yourself into or out of just about anything? Lauren shares that before she got into the life coaching space, she realized that the little voices in the back of her head weren't actually on her team. She needed to create systems to encourage herself to be accountable... to herself. Kim and Lauren talk through how you can identify limiting beliefs - the ones that keep you from achieving what you say you want - and learn to create systems to hold yourself accountable. If there's one tip you should hold onto from this episode it's this: DO THE HOMEWORK. You will start to see results. If you're looking for a supportive community of women dedicated to break their limiting beliefs join Kim's free private Facebook group, Love Makeover Insiders for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
Dating is tough for everyone! But what if you knew there were common mistakes that you might be making when trying to attract a partner? There are repetitive behavioral patterns that show up in us over and over again. When you're able to recognize your patterns and challenges, you can make adjustments as needed to get a different result. This week, Kim talks through her 5 Dating Archetypes she has studied over the years as a dating and relationship coach and therapist. Open up your notepad or grab a pen because you're going to want to take notes. Now of course these archetypes are sometimes painted with a broad brush and you likely won't fit neatly into one box. However, pay attention to which characteristics Kim talks about that may have derailed a previous relationship of yours or have prevented you from getting to know someone on a deeper level. Listen to find out all about each one and the strategies you can use to break these patterns in order for you find love! If you want to find out exactly what your dating archetype is, follow this link: https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY and take the Dating Archetype Quiz!
Do you ever hear those pesky voices in your head that say, "You're not good enough," "You're not doing it right," or "No one wants to hear what you have to say?" On this candid and vulnerable episode of Coaching with Kim, you'll get an inside look into how to turn down the volume on these messages that hold you back from being yourself, staying present and making a genuine connection with others on dates. Listen as Kim coaches Adam, a great personable guy who has so much to offer but he has one big problem…the voices tell him that he’s NOT enough. When it comes to dating, he finds himself hesitant to express himself fully and nervous to get vulnerable and make a more intimate connection with women he's interested in. We all have those voices of self-doubt that creep into our heads to varying degrees but most people don’t know how to soften or get rid of them. Kim talks through some specific techniques that worked for Adam that you can apply in your everyday life. This open and real conversation will help you access and recall powerful, confident states that you've experienced in your life that you can call upon during moments of self-doubt in order to transcend those negative voices. If you want help quieting the gremlins in your head, take advantage of your opportunity to sign up for a FREE breakthrough session, just like Adam's with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
This week, Kim interviews Ryan Moran, an entrepreneur, founder of Capitalism.com and the host of the Freedom Fast Lane Podcast. This show is all about how to create an abundance mindset in your love life, especially when it looks like your options are scarce. Ryan and Kim have a candid conversation about how challenging and painful moments in our lives prompt us to identify patterns we want to change. While moments of adversity can catapult us to action, Kim introduces the fact that success can also motivate positive change. This interview will help connect the dots between how your brain physically responds to positive and negative stimuli, and how that actually shows up in your life. The key is that action promotes change, and the more you can jump straight into action, the bigger shifts you will begin to see. Remember, when you internalize the fact that there IS enough love to go around out there, you will begin to act as if that is true and start to see real results. This episode is full of incredible tips! As always, if you're looking for a supportive community to help push you to action where you're stuck, join Kim's free private Facebook group, Love Makeover Insiders for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
On this week's show, Kim talks all about how perfectionism is holding you back from putting yourself out there in the dating world. Are you reluctant to build a dating profile because you're waiting to take the perfect profile photo? Are you avoiding opportunities to meet new people because you're feeling self conscious or unconfident in your appearance? This episode will teach you that for whatever reason you are putting things off, underneath your need to be perfect is fear. Fear of the unknown, fear of failure -- whatever it is -- until you take action, you will never move forward. Kim tells the story of 2 different clients, both experienced a form of "perfection paralysis", but they took different approaches to handling the problem. Waiting for everything to be perfect can feel easier and safer, but if you want to accomplish something new or create change in your life, you have to get out of your comfort zone and get into ACTION. This episode is honest, direct and gives you a little tough love to recognize that your perfectionism might be an excuse to stay stuck. If you need a jolt in your life to help you get unstuck, take advantage of your opportunity to sign up for a FREE breakthrough session with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
We all deal with adversity in our lives to varying degrees. But no matter what challenges you face, how you push past your pain makes all the difference. This week, Kim has a powerful conversation with Steven Maresca. Steven is an incredible resource and motivator for anyone looking to change their life through fitness. But, Steven isn't just your average fitness trainer. You'll hear him tell his personal story about a devastating accident he experienced six years ago. Since then, Steven has been on a journey of recovery, gratitude and relentless persistence. But make no mistake, his rehabilitation process wasn't easy and there were plenty of times where he wanted to quit. Kim and Steven discuss strategies you can use in your life to overcome any challenge you have. This episode brings up real, raw emotions and it's a great way to help you shift your perspective and see past the obstacles that can blind you in the moment. If you're looking for a strong community to help you overcome your challenges, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
On this episode, Coaching with Kim, you'll meet Danielle who's noticed a pattern in her relationships and is ready for a big shift. Kim and Danielle's coaching session focuses on "Attachment Theory", a psychological model that defines interpersonal relationships and how we respond when we feel unsafe, hurt, or fearful. There are 3 types of attachment styles Kim discusses on the show so you’ll hear how these styles play out in her relationships. As the youngest of 7 daughters, she learned how to be invisible growing up and didn't learn how to express her feelings consistently. Now she's an independent powerhouse in her career but when it comes to romance nothing ever seems to stick. Kim helps Danielle sort through her experiences growing up and how they've informed her attachment style. This session is powerful because Danielle has committed to the most important first step...deciding to look inward and begin the process to change herself. This conversation will show you the power of how labeling and understanding your patterns can ignite a mindset shift inside you that will help you attract the kind of partner you really want. If you're looking for a more supportive community to help you with your love life, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
You know that exhilarating feeling when you meet someone new who showers you with compliments, makes you feel sexy confident and you can't get enough? But then, out of nowhere, almost as fast as everything started, the relationship is over and you're a wreck. We've all had some level of experience with these “tornado” relationships. In this episode, Kim talks about how to spot the difference between a healthy love and a toxic relationship. Both men and women can create this dynamic but the signs are the same no matter who's driving. Kim talks through typical warning signs you're about to enter the toxic zone. Kim maps out concrete ways you can make sure to not give away your power too soon and how you can recognize if you have a tendency to get sucked into addictive relationship behaviors that hurt you in the long run. If you're ready to take real steps to make a change, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook
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This week, Kim interviews wellness expert, Josh Trent. Josh hosts the Wellness Force Radio Podcast and has spent 15 years in the health and wellness industry. He's on a mission to help people live life well through developing physical and emotional intelligence. This conversation is packed with great information and gets intense, fast! Josh shares his personal journey of dealing with anxiety and drastic weight fluctuation. He introduces a powerful concept, "If I can breathe I can choose." These two discuss Josh's dating life, how he's moved off the dating apps and onto other more authentic forms of communication. Listen in for some good tips on how to reframe crippling anxiety, how to combat the epidemic of loneliness and the importance of taking loving care of your wellness and growth. And, if you’re single looking to combat loneliness, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook group for women committed to transforming love lives https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim talks to Marion -- all the way from France! Marion is a school teacher, who got divorced 10 years ago, and has dated several men over the years since her split. Now, she's dating an amazing guy she really likes and can see a future with, but there are a few red flags and she needs some advice on. This guy just got out of his marriage and Marion is worried that she's his rebound. Kim discusses how men respond to break ups and Marion’s family and dating history might be impacting her decision to stay in this relationship. Kim also uncovers some key issues from her childhood that have crept up in her dating life consistently. Listen as Kim provides Marion with some tangible steps to help her determine whether this guy truly has the qualities she wants in a partner, or if she's blinded by what she hopes he will be. When you're ready to uncover why you're choosing the same people over and over, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session, just like Marion's with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
One day you and your guy are texting back and forth and then, suddenly - you never hear from him again. On this week's episode Kim talks all about ghosting, why men do it, how to recognize the signs, and how to deal with the aftermath. You'll learn there are only a few reasons why men disappear without notice and almost all of them disqualify these men from being good partners for you. Kim breaks down how to stop focusing on why he stopped communicating and instead focus on how not to take it personally and move on. This is an empowering look on how you can deal with this bad dating behavior and move on confidently without getting stuck wondering, what if? And, if you want to connect with an incredible community of women who are all transforming their love lives from the outside in, join Kim's private Love Makeover Insiders Facebook Group HERE: https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
Don't you wish you were on vacation right now? Work, friends, family, and life itself can be stressful. Why add dating to that list? This week, Kim discusses how a vacation mentality is essential in your dating life. When you’re on vacation, you let loose, you relax and you’re more likely to try something you wouldn’t normally, because hey, you’re on vacation right? When you apply that logic to your dating life, you open yourself up to love. After you listen and you realize you need a vacation, contact Kim about an exclusive retreat coming up that you will want to know about! http://bit.ly/2shKDJ5
Fear manifests itself in so many ways in relationships. There's the fear of intimacy, the fear of abandonment, the fear of being alone and countless others. This week Kim talks to Melanie Curtis - author, speaker and fierce life coach, about how to take a leap of faith and crush your fears! Melanie has been skydiving more than 10,000 times - something that would terrify most of us - but that means she's a pro at facing scary things head on and pushing through no matter what. Kim and Melanie discuss the fact that inspiration means nothing without the action to back it up. Melanie shares her process on how to confront fear by acknowledging it exists, drilling down to the core of that fear and determining if it's is real or imagined. Kim and Melanie talk through how important it is to normalize our fears through validation and most of all, focus on solutions. This conversation will show you that you are capable of conquering your fears in relationships, because it's all about building social and emotional skills. If you want help conquering your fears in the dating world, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim talks to Dena, who's having trouble trusting the men she dates. This episode is all about how to trust others, without giving away your power. Dena is struggling with some ghosts of her past - two divorces and an experience with infidelity. She embodies the role of "giver" in all areas of her life and has attracted men who are "takers". In the past, she's fallen victim to dynamics where men take advantage of her giving nature and she lacks the tools to set boundaries, ask for what she wants and not lower her standards in order to please the other person. This coaching session is a great lesson on how you can build your self-confidence and trust your own value. Kim gives some great tips about how and when to lower your guard and allow yourself to be vulnerable in order to open yourself up to new opportunities. If you're ready and willing to step in a new direction in your love life, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session, just like Dena's with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
This week Kim interviews Benjamin Ritter, host of the Live for Yourself podcast. Ben is a leader in public health and an executive and personal consultant with a focus in dating and relationships. Benjamin and Kim talk about their personal experiences with BIG, life-altering changes. Kim deep dives into the topic of how states of change can alter your perspective and that practice should be encouraged. Ben and Kim discuss that when you're not truly living for yourself, it feels like the world is acting on you, instead of you making conscious choices to live in alignment with your goals and priorities. Ben gives some concrete action steps towards reprogramming your training so that you can align your values, your goals and your actions. This conversation focuses on our stressors, their causes and how to use those things as fuel to change ourselves for the better. If you're ready to make a MAJOR change in your life and even induce your own break state, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Have you ever dated a narcissist? Well if you have, you're not alone! This week, Kim discusses how to spot narcissists from a mile away and how to avoid them! If you're on a date with a suspected narcissist, Kim shares some great tips on how to weed them out. Here's the thing, if you're a natural caregiver, you're more inclined to be accommodating and give in to their selfish needs. Kim talks about how to check your own behavior to make sure you're not allowing someone to take your power away. You do have the power to stop attracting narcissists and this episode will show you how to get off this negative track. If you've had a history of lopsided relationships and are looking to make a shift in your love life, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim chats with Easter, who's struggling to feel recognized and appreciated at work. Although Easter currently has a loving relationship with a supportive partner, Kim dovetails into how patterns at work relate to relationships and social confidence in your life overall. Kim and Easter talk through Easter's upbringing in a socially isolated, strict religious household and how that experience directly impacts her experience at work. Easter has gone through some big transformations in her life that helped her move on from a bad marriage and break programming from her background she wanted to release. Kim helps her identify what she did to move forward from her childhood and marriage and apply that to her career. Kim gives Easter some specific strategies to break through her patterns and help her identify and envision what she truly wants for her professional life. If you're interested in having a FREE breakthrough session like Easter's, Sign up HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for your own today!
Kim talks with Vedic Astrologer and Relationship Coach, Carol Allen about what goes into attracting a relationship that will last. Vedic astrology is an old Indian system that is said to be much more predictive of your love life than your run of the mill magazine horoscope. Kim and Carol have a lively and personal conversation about getting confident and clear on what you want in a relationship, alignment and missed connections with soulmates. Carol and Kim mind-meld on astrology and psychology, and talk through how our past is deeply connected to our future. Find out how negative experiences from the past might be interfering with your relationships now and ways you can be powerful enough to change possible outcomes. Discover how being committed to getting clear on what you want and where you're at in your life is essential to attracting the kind of relationship you want. And if you're looking to get clear on your love goals, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
It's never too late to find love! This week Kim dispells the myth that you can't find love after 40. You can! You know the old tropes, "There are no good men out there!" and "All women are crazy!" Neither of these are true and your belief in them is holding you back from dating successfully. If you're having trouble believing that you are capable of dating after 40, this episode is the first step to shifting your perspective. Kim gives some great tips for pushing yourself to get back out there. Once we hit 40, we tend to narrow our view of what's possible for ourselves...but that's a mistake. Dating after 40 can be better than ever! Kim explains how dating later in life can be fun, invigorating, and rewarding - especially if you allow yourself to be open to new experiences, new people and hopefully, a new relationship. And, if you're looking to jumpstart your dating plan, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
Back by popular demand, Kim has an candid conversation with friend of the show, Jordan Harbinger. Jordan opens up to Kim about his experience leaving Art of Charm and creating his new show, The Jordan Harbinger Show. Kim talks through how big changes in our lives can feel just like a major breakup. When something that consumes a huge part of your life is suddenly gone, whether it's a job, or a relationship, it can feel like part of your identity has been taken away. Hindsight is 20/20, and now that some time has passed, Jordan's had the chance to reflect and process his feelings. Kim and Jordan uncover some actionable tips on how to recover from a breakup without breaking down, how to create a fresh start, how to find your own identity again and how to prioritize working on yourself instead of dwelling on the past. Progress happens when you allow yourself to feel your emotional pain, but breakthroughs are solidified when you push through that pain and commit to moving forward. So, if you're looking for help working through something in your life, sign up for a breakthrough session with Kim today! Just click the link here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
On this week's coaching episode, Kim does a deep dive with Melissa about how ghosts from the past can haunt new relationships. Melissa is in a new relationship with a great guy and things are going well. But...she can't shake off the anxiety that bubbles up when she doesn't hear from him. In fact, 24 hours without a text is causing her to feel like the relationship is ending! Kim talks through some emotional patterns that originated in Melissa's family with her father and helps her discover for the first time how these patterns have triggered anxiety with her new guy. Kim discusses the source of Melissa's fear of abandonment and how the subconscious mind can bring these issues to the forefront, even in a happy, loving relationship. Many of us, just like Melissa, have feared that a guy might suddenly lose interest in us, ghost us, or move on without closure. So don't miss Kim's tips for boosting your self-esteem, getting to know how your new beau shows affection, and how to deal with the source of your fears head on. This conversation is the epitome of an emotional breakthrough! If you're ready to take the first step in uncovering what's blocking you from finding love in your life, join Kim’s FREE private Love Makeover Insider's Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
This week, Kim discusses the emotional and physical responses to breakups that make us feel unsexy, unconfident and totally alone. And who better to discuss how to regain your spark, than dating expert and creator of Sexy Confidence, Adam LoDolce! Adam and Kim have a lively discussion in how committing to action is essential for pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. When you're stuck in a post-breakup rut, the practice of creating new habits is essential. Adam gives some great tips on how to move past rejection by first healing through rediscovering your personal identity. Kim and Adam agree that confidence is defined as exposure and experience. If you're not feeling sexy and confident in your dating life, listen to this fun conversation that will help you boost your love life. Kim knows as well as anyone that breakups can feel like a major loss or even a death, but these tips will help you see the light and realize that you can get your sexy back! If you're looking for a community to support you in getting your mojo back, join Kim's Love Makeover Insider's Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love life from the outside in! https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
On this week’s show, Kim talks through all the ways you could be holding yourself back from finding your next relationship. Whether you need a push to get out of the house to meet new people and expose yourself to the energy of the opposite sex, or you need to practice feeling flirty and sexy with a new outfit - Kim has you covered. This episode takes a deep dive into reclaiming your power and shows you that you can make positive choices that will lead you to the love you want! Kim shares useful tips on how to find the courage to change your routine, meet new people and feel confident in yourself while taking a proactive approach to dating. If you need an extra boost, join Kim’s exclusive Love Makeover Insiders Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love life from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
This week Kim interviews the unstoppable Bill Wooditch - a sales expert, speaker and best-selling author. Kim talks to Bill about how he motivated himself to change through his journey, how he was able to direct his focus and push through when failure seemed like the only option. They talk about how to identify and use both internal and external motivators to propel out of your comfort zone and towards what you want. This empowering conversation will help you realize that your past is simply a condition, but it doesn't have to determine your future. For starters, not bringing your past to the table (especially on the first date), always show up as your best self (hint: it's all about the outfit) and finally, be authentic, caring and LISTEN! This is a fun conversation you won't want to miss. If you are looking for a little external motivation to get out there and show up as your best self, sign up HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a breakthrough session with Kim today! Also join her private Love Makeover Insiders Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love life inside & out https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL
This week a powerful and emotional live coaching episode with Kim's client, Anne. She's mastered the art of getting guys to the first date, but when it comes to securing the second one, she's stumped! Kim uncovers the REAL reasons why Anne can’t get past the first encounter and why she can’t find chemistry with any guy she meets. And it’s not what you might think! Here Kim helps Anne face some surprising and revealing truths. Anne learns that when you gain clarity about what you want, and you express that intention directly, you begin attracting the kind of partners that match that intention. There are some juicy tips in how to get past fears and create connections upon first impression. If you are tired of feeling burnt out with dating and are interested in having your own breakthrough session either on air or off…sign up and book a time to talk with Kim HERE https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Does the thought of trying to curate the perfect online dating profile sound worse than a root canal? If so, don’t worry…you are not alone! This week, Kim's got you covered as she takes you through the Dos and Don’ts of Virtual Dating. You'll learn simple tips on how to create an attention grabbing profile that will impress your next match. Kim talks about how to make a positive and lasting first impression. And, she'll walk you through how to engage in an online conversation so you don't come off like a robot in a business meeting. Remember, your online profile doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be all about you. And, if you're looking to revamp your online profile and love life schedule a FREE breakthrough session with Kim and find out what is preventing you from finding love https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
This week, every question you've ever had about how to maximize return on your online dating profile answered. Kim interviews Julie Spira, America's top online dating expert and digital matchmaker. Julie has spent her career mastering online dating from the early days of chatrooms, to the explosion of dating apps on the market today. No matter what platform you're using, if you're building your profile online, you won't want to miss her tips! Julie and Kim discuss what kind of pictures will catch your next date's attention and what to avoid. Plus, they discuss how integrating questions directly into your profile are foolproof conversation starters. If you're ready to update your dating profile, look no further. And, if you need a new outfit perfect for your next profile picture, be sure to grab Kim's FREE body type guide for men https://bl394-9b4f27.pages.infusionsoft.net/ and women https://bl394-8b8478.pages.infusionsoft.net/ to learn what clothes work for you and not against you!
Are you interested in just having fun, growing into a relationship, or something else? It's up to you! This week on Coaching with Kim you will learnhow to tell if you're sending the right signals and how to determine your pacing in a new relationship. In this episode, you'll meet Sue -- she got married when she was 20 and divorced 31 years later. Now she's single, revamping her wardrobe, putting herself out there on dating apps and seeing a few new guys. Along with finding her voice in her newly single role, Sue is trying to strike the right balance with her flirting style. Kim helps Sue understand how getting clear on what she wants is essential to be able to send the right signals. If you're like Sue and have recently gotten out of a long relationship or marriage, it's all too easy to fall back into old patterns. Kim shares some tips on how to resist the urge to dive back into another relationship and take the opportunity to casually date new, different people. Kim also helps her talk about expressing her needs and wants confidently. And don't forget, if you want to put these skills to the test - sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y
Stop being a shapeshifter and find the real you! This week, Kim talks about shapeshifting, or the ability to morph into what others want to see in order to be liked or praised. You may have recognized this phenomenon in others, or yourself. While shapeshifting can be a positive (it comes with incredible sales skills!), but it's impossible to maintain balanced relationships when one person is hiding who they really are. Kim goes through how to detect if you or your date is shapeshifting, how to express your needs outside your script and how to date for yourself! These tips will show you how to talk about what you love, what you stand for and what makes you tick without overdoing it or being needy. And, if you spot a shapeshifter in your life, this episode will teach you how to call them out and encourage them to express their authentic self. Don't forget, if you want to put these skills to the test - sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y
Kim and former shy guy Myke Macapinlac, founder of Social Confidence Mastery, discuss how the right outfit and little confidence can change everything for you. Myke is a lifestyle entrepreneur and social dynamic specialist who helps shy guys become socially confident. This week, Kim and Myke talk about how the clothing you wear impacts your world. And ladies you’ll LOVE hearing a man’s perspective on this. You'll hear some great tips on building self-assurance and how clothes can be a vehicle to help you feel attractive every day. Myke talks about how loving yourself, having a fulfilling lifestyle, dressing well and having rewarding friendships all come before finding lasting love in your life. If you're doubting whether this system actually works - it is scientifically proven that your outfit can put you in a different psychological state! Plus, if you need help getting a date to be in that relationship sign up for Kim’s Dating Makeover Retreat! April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y
This week on Coaching with Kim: a man's perspective! Kim talks with Stephen, a guy who's navigating his way through the casual dating space. Right now, he's trying to figure out how to balance diving in too deep too soon and taking it slow with the women he's seen recently. Stephen grew up in a family that wasn't super emotionally open. Kim talks through how this has likely manifested itself in his adult relationships. And, he highlights a major point about flirting that all the ladies listening should take note of. Finally, this episode is a great reminder that you are not responsible for other people's feelings as long as you express yourself in a truthful, respectful way. And, if you think Kim could help you work through something you're struggling with in your love life send an email to kimberly@seltzerstyle.com for a chance to be featured on an episode of Coaching With Kim! OR if you need help feeling confident and sexy to attract the right man...sign up for Kim’s Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y
It's that time of year again - stores are overflowing with heart shaped boxes of chocolate, teddy bears and bouquets of roses. Don't panic! The Valentine's Day frenzy doesn't have to make you feel insecure, lonely, or unsexy. Remember, feeling sexy is all about how you view yourself... and it's all up to you. In this week's episode, Kim gives some important tips about how you can feel and look sexy every single day. Embrace your feminine side, buy a new dress, throw on a pair of heels, or make a Pinterest board of sexy selfies! Kim shares some great strategies to empower you to feel good and love yourself as you are right now. Make sure to check out seltzerstyle.com and download her FREE sexy body shape guide to find out how to flatter your figure every day of the week. And, if you're looking to a fun weekend getaway to put these skills into practice, sign up for Kim's Dating and Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y
Dr. Ish Major has been decoding the way men think and act in dating and relationships for his entire career. A board-certified psychiatrist and resident relationship expert on WEtv's Marriage Bootcamp, Dr. Ish has obviously seen his share of broken relationships! In today's episode, Kim and Ish discuss how men and women both assume they know exactly what the opposite sex wants - and nothing could be further from the truth! Ish shares some incredible tips on how to avoid making assumptions on your next date or in your current relationship. Here's a hint - say exactly what you want up front. These two break down some key differences in how men and women process and communicate information, why men and women lie and tell you how to set expectations for your partner. And, if you're in a relationship RIGHT NOW that needs some major TLC, sign up for Dr. Ish's Relationship Rescue and Recovery Boot Camp! https://drishmajor.mykajabi.com/a/7334/Rhe6FYYL or if you need help getting a date to be in that relationship sign up for Kim’s Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y
Do people accuse you of being “too nice?” This week is all about getting over that "nice syndrome" so many of us suffer from. And no, this doesn't mean you being aloof or hurtful to people! It means, learning to express your needs and wants confidently without having to tiptoe around people you worry may disagree with you. Kim discusses how getting over your "nice syndrome" can help foster better friendships, improve professional interactions, and of course, attract dates. Plus, she talks about how to spot a narcissist from a mile away, gives some specific tips for how to express your needs without making the other person get defensive and how reciprocity is a huge common denominator in fulfilling partnerships. And, if you're looking for a fun weekend getaway to put these skills into practice, check out Kim's Dating and Makeover Retreat http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y April 12-15!
This week, Kim talks to a matchmaking heavy hitter, CEO of eHarmony, Grant Langston. Grant has been with eHarmony since the beginning and has racked up a TON of knowledge and useful tips . He breaks down some of eHarmony's research on the science of compatibility and discusses what happy couples have in common that unhappy couples don't. Kim talks through understanding and recognizing every type of chemistry you may have with a love interest, whether it's intellectual, emotional, physical or spiritual. This conversation will show you that it's possible to break your bad dating habits and give you useful tips on how to tell if your partner can build a long-term, fulfilling relationship. Plus, if you're looking for a quick getaway to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's Dating & Makeover Retreat: http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y April 12-15
We've made it out of the holiday season and we're on to the New Year! It's always good to reflect on the past, but sometimes we get stuck thinking about our challenges and get too negative. This year, ditch those negative emotions and say, "Out with the old, in with the new!" If you're still mulling over your New Years resolutions, start here. Get rid of those old clothes that have been weighing you down and pick up something fun, flirty and new. And while you're at it, toss the friends that are bringing toxic energy into your life. This is the time of year to assess your professional goals and recalibrate. Kim gives you tips on how to find the motivation inside and outside yourself to make these BIG changes happen. Plus, if you're looking for a quick getaway to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's Dating and Makeover Retreat: http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!
On this week's episode of Coaching with Kim, Kim chats with Sandy about confidently expressing your needs and wants. Sandy talks about her childhood, where she grew up learning to prioritize the needs of others due to her mother's cancer diagnoses. Like many people do, she carried this behavior on into adulthood and discovered that when it comes to romantic relationships - solely prioritizing the needs of a partner hasn't lead to a stable long term relationship. Kim talks through the process of identifying how you feel, determining what you want and finally, how to express that to your partner. And, if you're looking for a quick getaway to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's Dating and Makeover Retreat https://www.myretreatsunlimited.com/dating-makeover-retreat-2/
This week, Kim interviews Empowerment Strategist and host of the Fit 2 Love Podcast, JJ Flizanes. Kim and JJ discuss body image and the myths we tell ourselves that trap us into feeling insecure. JJ shares some useful tips for thinking about food and cravings, shifting your mindset towards awareness, and recognizing the power you hold internally to help you change your life. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim’s upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!
Welcome to the latest installment of Coaching with Kim! This week, Kim coaches Carol, a client with a demanding career and a busy social life. They discuss Carol’s pattern of choosing men who are emotionally unavailable - and being able to distinguish that trait before getting too emotionally involved. Kim talks through Carol’s fears surrounding being open and vulnerable. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim’s upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!
Come out of your shell this holiday season to meet someone special! This week Kim talks about how to add some sparkle to your holiday wardrobe and turn up the volume on your flirt game. During this time of year, there's a holiday party or event every other day, so accept every invitation you get or, throw your own event and get out of your comfort zone. The holidays don't have to induce dread! Shake it up this season and pull out these tips and tricks to make a new connection. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim’s upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!
Just in time for the onslaught of holiday parties - this week, Kim interviews body language expert, Lisa Mitchell. This season is all about mixing, mingling and celebrating and what better way to step up your game at cocktail hour with some practical body language tips to improve your social interactions. Clueing into body language cues and non verbal communication are essential skills to enhancing your self confidence in dating and in life! Gain your own super powers of communication and connection by listening to this episode. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim’s upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!
We’ve all had the experience of looking in the mirror and picking out all the aspects of our bodies that we hate. In this week’s episode, you’ll hear from Kim directly about a few actionable tips you can take right now to makeover your body image for the better! Learning to focus on the features of your body that you love can give you confidence in how you carry yourself and is the first step to a true body image mindset shift. And don’t forget to check out Kim’s upcoming Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp starting Jan 8. Spaces are limited! http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs
It’s time for another round of coaching with Kim! In this week's episode, Kim talks to Jae about how to initiate conversations, open up emotionally and getting comfortable with being vulnerable sooner. You’ll hear Kim role play with Jae live how to use her secret Social Engagement Formula to do that. Yes, it’s about meeting someone you connect with, but it’s also about allowing yourself to express your ideas and feelings in order to make that deeper connection. To put these skills to the test and learn the art of connection, check out Kim’s upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs
Breakups. We’ve all had them - and even if you know it’s the right move, it’s never easy. Kim discusses and advises about breakups, among other relationship issues with former TV’s Married At First Sight expert, Rachel DeAlto. Rachel, a fellow relationship expert, motivational speaker and TV personality gets personal about her own breakup and how she’s handled the aftermath.
Don't you wish you were on vacation right now? Work, friends, family, and life itself can be stressful. Why add dating to that list? This week, Kim discusses how a vacation mentality is essential in your dating life. When you’re on vacation, you let loose, you relax and you’re more likely to try something you wouldn’t normally, because hey, you’re on vacation right? When you apply that logic to your dating life, you open yourself up to love. After you listen and you realize you need a vacation, contact Kim about an exclusive retreat coming up that you will want to know about! http://bit.ly/2shKDJ5
Let’s face it, first time social interactions can be… awkward and sometimes difficult. Social dynamics expert, entrepreneur and host of the Art of Charm podcast, Jordan Harbinger knows better than anyone how to overcome those jitters. On this week’s episode, Kim and Jordan reminisce about the awkward situation when they first met, and how their personal journeys have taught them what they know about dating and social communication. Great tips and discussion around using various conversational tricks, being persuasive and making connections in an authentic way. You won’t want to miss this one!
After coming out of a long-term relationship, or even a marriage, it can feel like you’re not only learning to date again, but you’re also getting to know yourself as a single person again. This week, Kim talks about how dating yourself, celebrating yourself, and getting to know who you are, separate from your ex-partner, is crucial to feeling sexy in your singlehood.
Today is the first episode of Charisma Quotient's new segment: Coaching With Kim. Kim brings her client Holley on the line to do some laser focused coaching on everything from how to be a busy woman and still date, to holding your ground while remaining feminine. And there are some surprising realizations Holley makes about how her past is connected to her current struggles.
Dating online is like pulling the lever on the slot machine - it’s so addictive because you never know what you’re going to get. And, that’s not necessarily a bad thing. When you have access to all the millions of fish in the sea, take advantage of it and date someone you would normally never choose! This week, Kim talks about the benefits of diversifying your online dating portfolio, stepping outside of your comfort zone and new ways to discover what you’re missing in your dating life.
This week, Kim interviews fellow midwesterner, Dr. Terri Orbuch Ph.D., also known as “The Love Doctor” about how to keep love alive for years. She’s a professor at the University of Michigan, her work has been featured in every major publication, and she’s been the director of an NIH study following 373 couples for nearly 3 decades. Needless to say, Dr. Terri knows what she’s talking about when it comes to maintaining strong, healthy, long-term relationships.
Did you know that the definition of “flirting” is “to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, for amusement rather than with serious intention”? This episode is all about challenging yourself to flirt for fun without fear! Who hasn’t had anxiety over walking up to a cute guy at a bar and striking up a conversation? Kim breaks down how to let loose, throw caution to the wind and get your flirt on.
Today’s episode is all about getting in touch with where you are in your dating cycle. Are you ready for a rebound? Are you looking for a serious, stable relationship? Are you just interested in meeting new people and exploring? It’s sometimes harder to figure out than you think - but it’s so important! Kim talks about how to identify what phase you’re in and how to be aware of what your dating needs are based on your phase.
In this episode, Kim interviews Brian Howie, the host of the Great Love Debate show. These two have known each other for years - way back before Brian knew what size shirt he should be wearing. Kim and Brian talk about learning to listen, building self-confidence with style and who really has it worse in the dating world - men or women?
Welcome to the Charisma Quotient, hosted by dating and relationship expert Kimberly Seltzer! Her personal journey, moving from Chicago to L.A., going through a divorce and transitioning back into singlehood, showed her that confidence cannot always come from within you. She had to learn to transform her style, her attitude and ultimately, herself. This show proves that it’s possible to change your life from the outside, in. Learn all the style and dating secrets Kim has taught hundreds of clients, with the Charisma Quotient.