I love you too much to argue!: Recent Episodes

with Holly & Bec

I Love You Too Much to Argue is a podcast that helps you create great relationships with all those in your life, spouses, friends, kids, and even colleagues! Using tools including the Enneagram, Love Languages and Parenting with the Love & Logic method.

Join hosts and friends Holly and Bec as they discuss, share, and learn along with you how these tools can help you understand yourself and others better, enrich your relationships and sharpen your parenting skills!

View Details

It's been 6 months since our last episode and there has been A LOT that's happened! 

email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com for questions! 


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Harmonic Groups are another trio within the Enneagram that help us discover how we respond to loss and disappointment. Holly + Bec discuss each of the Harmonic Groups and each number within those

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

No, no, no! Holly + Bec share some stories and laughs which will inspire you to ask yourself why you are saying no.

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly + Bec revisit one of their most downloaded episodes - 5. Game Changer for toddlers, tantrums & toilet training. But don’t be fooled, this episode is helpful for everyone, not just those with toddlers.

Check out the video here

Enter the competition to win an hour with Holly + Bec to chat about anything parenting related. Enter by sending us an email or message to tell us how you experimented with giving choices. Listen for more details. Competition closed 8pm 31st August AEST.

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

I love you too much to argue is ONE, Happy Birthday to us!

Enter our 1st Birthday competition by sending us an email or a message which tells us your favourite episode and why! Entries close 8pm August 24th AEST

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly + Bec chat to a very special guest, Ruth, about Baby Led Weaning and other food choices.  What is it, why would we do it and some helpful tips to get started!

Can you find Ruth on Instagram here

Solid Starts

Kids Eat in Color

Tiny Hearts Education

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Life, relationships and parenting is HARD! How can we deal with these harder moments in our parenting journey when things go wrong?

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Have you ever felt like when your loved one apologises for something they have done that hurt you, the apology just doesn’t quite hit the mark. Holly + Bec discuss the five Apology Languages.

Do the Apology Languages test here

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Communication is an essential part of everyday life. Holly & Bec discuss tips for each Enneagram type

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

What if Holly isn’t a 2 & Bec isn’t a 6? Have you ever wondered if you are a different Enneagram type? Holly & Bec discuss their possible mistypes

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments, or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly and Bec chat with Sandra from Family Personalities about introversion vs extraversion and how to identify it in our kids.  Sandra is the owner of Family Personalities and the co-host of the Family Personalities podcast, a show that helps you parent more easily and peacefully, through the use of personality type. Sandra uses her experience and training in Myers-Briggs personality type, to work one on one with families, helping them parent more effectively and compassionately based on their children's unique wiring and needs. Find her on her Website, Instagram or Facebook and listen to her Podcast too!  

Find us on Instagram and Facebook or email us at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly and Bec's debut interview on an international podcast 🥳🥳🥳

Find us on Instagram and Facebook

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here 

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Find Mary here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly + Bec share a funny story from a listener and follow her up with some questions about her situation. 

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

The Enneagram is used to help us grow, but growth is hard and uncomfortable. Listen to Holly + Bec chat about what makes growth feel vulnerable for each number. Have you grown recently in a way that was hard? Send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

This is the fifth and final episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat to Emma about 'Words of Affirmation'. If your love language is Words of Affirmation or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

If you don't know your Love Language yet, take the quiz here 

Share with us your ideas of how to love others with Words of Affirmation. 

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

find us on Instagram and Facebook too!


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

In the last of this week's Lockdown Tips series, Holly + Bec chat about tips for people looking for work. 

Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for people working from home. Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for housemates, plus share a meet-cute from Holly's sister and some stories from when Holly and Bec were housemates! 

Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for couples. Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for parents with school aged kids. Jump on our Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for singles and those living alone. Jump on Instagram or Facebook and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

This week Victoria, Australia has gone into a 7 day lock down. Lockdown is HARD in so many ways. As a way to help their lovely listeners Holly + Bec decided to do Bonus Episodes a series of Lock down tips. Today's episode talks through tips for parents with babies, toddlers and pre school aged children. Jump on Instagram and share your tips or leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly & Bec chat to Parenting expert Mary from Parenting with Logic. Hear how Mary discovered Love & Logic, how she uses it in her home with her teenage children and how it has impacted her relationship with her now adult children. Be encouraged as you listen to the impact of being intentional about your parenting. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com You can contact Mary at https://www.parentingwithlogic.com/


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly & Bec answer a listener's question about natural consequences for kids with some stories, ideas and examples. We love receiving your questions and feedback. Leave us a voice message  Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly chats with very special guest Joel McKerrow 3w4 about his current art/poetry exhibition on the Enneagram called HUMAN. Check out all of Joel's amazing work at www.joelmckerrow.com listen to his podcast The Deep Place - on Creativity & Spirituality and listen to his Enneagram poems on Spotify or on his website. 


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

This is the fourth episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat about 'Physical Touch'. If your love language is Physical Touch or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

If you don't know your Love Language yet, take the quiz here https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

Share with us your ideas of how to love others with Physical Touch. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice.

https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly + Bec answer a listener's question about Empathy. This is a 'must listen' for anyone who has relationships  

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Triads or Centre of Intelligence is a grouping within the Enneagram that helps us to understand how we filter or receive information from the world around us. Join Holly + Bec as they discuss the basics of the Triads

We'd love to hear if you learnt about yourself from this episode, leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

This is the third episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat about 'Quality Time'. If your love language is Quality Time or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

If you don't know your Love Language yet, take the quiz here https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly & Bec chat about the things that push the buttons of each Enneagram type. Listen to see how you could be pushing the buttons of your loved one and let us know what else pushes your buttons! Thanks to @ninetypesco on Instagram for the inspo for this episode.  

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

What is the Misbehaviour Cycle? How do adults contribute to the cycle and how can we disrupt it?

Let us know your stories, questions or feedback by leaving us a voice message here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Find the Misbehaviour cycle here 


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Following on from our deep dive into Receiving Gifts, Holly & Bec chat about 'Acts of Service' as a Love Language. If your love language is Act of Service or you have a friend or loved one with this as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

If you don't know your Love Language yet, take the test here https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Discovering your Enneagram Type is a journey, doing a test is not always helpful. Often it is the unhealthy aspects of our type that we relate to the most. Holly & Bec chat about common unhealthy traits of each type and self care tips for each type.  Let us know the tips you have when you find yourself in an unhealthy space. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Following on from the episode about Consequences, Holly & Bec discuss the difference between discomfort and danger when it comes to allowing our kids to experience consequences.

Do have a situation that you'd like help with Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

In this episode, Holly & Bec do a deep dive into the 'Receiving Gifts' Love Language. If your love language is gifts or you have a friend or loved one with Gifts as their Love Language then listening to this episode is a must!

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Find your Love Language here 


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Ever wondered why two people who have the same Enneagram type can be so very different? Holly & Bec chat about subtypes or instinctual types. Let us know your thoughts on subtypes, leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here 

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Find out more here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

What is the difference between punishment and consequences? Holly & Bec discuss the differences and which one is more effective.  Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

The Enneagram has so many facets. Holly & Bec discuss the wounding message that each type heard or thought they heard as a child. Have a listen and let us know if you relate to the wounding message of your type. 

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message 

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com 

Check out @enneagramexplained on Instagram too


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Why it is so important to have our kids contribute to the family? Do you pay your kids to do chores? Holly and Bec chat about all things chores.

Link to get your copy of our list https://forms.gle/HBCnQngyzZJEnLV76

Share with us what contributions your kids make. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at

https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Love Languages is a universal tool to help us speak love the loudest to those we are in relationships with. Holly & Bec talk about how to identify the love languages of teenagers.

Share your stories with us or ask us a question by leaving us a voice message at

https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Holly & Bec answer an emailed question from a listener and share a success story from another listener.

Send us your questions and success stories by leaving us a voice message

https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Welcome to the first episode for 2021! Are you having trouble working out which Enneagram number you are? Understanding the Stances of the Enneagram may help to narrow it down. Holly and Bec discuss each of the three stances, the Aggressive, Withdrawn and Dependant stances. 

Do you have questions about Stances?. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at

https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Extra reading

https://skyemclain.com/2019/02/how-to-find-your-enneagram-number.html/


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Welcome to 2021! Holly and Bec share some thoughts on 2020 and some details on what 2021 will look like! 


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Relationships take work. Understanding each Enneagram type can help with loving, supporting and encouraging your loved ones. Let us know your type and what your loved ones do that help you feel most loved and supported.

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Suzanne Stabile - The Path Between Us

https://www.amazon.com/Path-Between-Us-Enneagram-Relationships/dp/0830846425


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

We have a confession....! We love F.r.i.e.n.d.s and we love the Enneagram. Also, Holly shares a controversial and embarrassing secret!

Let us know who your favourite Friends character is and why. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Link to read more on Friends and the Enneagram

https://mystorysrn.wordpress.com/2018/10/15/friends-enneagram-according-to-me/


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

A person's predominant love language is how they hear love the loudest. Holly and Bec discuss things to avoid for each love language to help you show love the loudest to your loved ones.

Tell us what your Love Language is and how you 'hear love the loudest' Leave us a voice message with your questions

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

In this episode, Holly and Bec chat to Kathy, a mum of 2 kids who uses Love and Logic techniques in her home. Find out what happened when Kathy's daughter had a problem.

Let us know what your favourite Love & Logic technique is. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Kathy's blog post - How to develop our kids super powers

If you are interested in Kathy's workshops you can contact her at cultivatelifeworkshops@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

It's the most wonderful time of the year! Is November too early to put up your Christmas Tree? Holly and Bec chat about Holly's favourite time of the year and share some clever Christmas hacks you might want to use yourself! 

Tell us your favourite Christmas traditions. Leave us a voice message with your questions here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Follow Holly's Christmas Instagram account @hollyjoychristmas 


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Each of us has a primary enneagram type. Each type has stereotypical behaviour BUT that doesn't mean we always have that behaviour. We can all still exhibit behaviour from each type. 

This episode is dedicated to our friend Chris and his gorgeous late wife Amanda, we love you ❤️

We'd love to hear from you, leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Check out this fun episode where Holly and Bec do an experiment! What happens when they commit to saying 'YES' for a week??

Are you prepared to accept the #yeschallenge too?

Share your Yes Challenge moments on Social Media and use #yeschallenge so we can follow along!

We love to hear what happened when you took up the #yeschallenge. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Find us on Instagram @iloveyoutoomuchtoarguepodcast


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

What Enneagram Type is Winnie the Pooh? You'll have to listen and find out! Which character do you relate to the most? Perhaps this will help you discover your enneagram type or find out more about yourself!

To read more check out this article

We loved to hear which character you relate to the most and why at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Make sure you pop over to our Instagram @iloveyoutoomuchtoarguepodcast


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Do you want your kids to become adults who can make good decisions? Now is the time to start empowering your kids to do just that. Today Holly and Bec discuss one of their favourite Love & Logic techniques. 

You can find a detailed description of the five steps here

We love to hear how you've tried this technique and what happened. Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice 

Or send us an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Because EVERYONE wants a midweek bonus episode right!? Holly shares her newly found excitment about a new way to grow plants, opening up a whole new world when it comes to indoor plants!

Check out the Facebook Group here 

Tag us in your plant pics on insta! @iloveyoutoomuchtoarguepodcast 

Let us know if you've ever heard of this before and if you have any plants loving the Hydrolife at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com  


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Love Languages are like a treasure map or shortcut guide to loving your kids well.  Holly and Bec discuss tips on how to discover your child's love language no matter their age, as well as ideas to show love to your children for each of the love languages.

Get your kids to do the love languages test here 

To read more check out these articles:

https://www.lucieslist.com/five-love-languages-for-kids-and-parents/

https://www.lifehacker.com.au/2020/03/connect-with-your-kids-by-speaking-their-love-language/

We'd love to hear creative ways that you love your children. 

Let us know at iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

For the first time on this Podcast, we host a special quasi expert guest and chat about the Enneagram, the Tardis and being an not being an expert!

Resources mentioned in this episode include:

The Complete Enneagram by Beatrice Chestnut

Suzanne Stabile

Dr Joseph Howell

@madmenneagram

We'd love to hear from you! Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here or send an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Pre-Order Holly's book here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Let's talk about sexy baby! 😂😅 A common tricky topic for some people. Is it a Willy? a Vjay jay? 😅 How and when do you have 'the chat' with your kids? In this episode, Holly and Bec share their experiences growing up, as well as some valuable insights for you to have the conversations with your kids and some awesome resources you might like to use too! 

Resources for parents & kids: A guide for parents here For all kids to learn about the birds & the bees here A book for younger girls here For older girls here A great book about periods here Awesome book for boys here

If you liked this episode or have feedback we'd love to hear from you! Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice  Or send an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com Pre-order Holly's book here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Does your Enneagram Type determine your love language? Holly and Bec chat through all the Enneagram types and what their love languages might be and how to love each type with each love language!

Check out the @enneagraminrelationship Instagram Post we chat about here  

We'd love to hear from you! Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here or send an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Pre-order Holly's book here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Listen in as Holly and Bec chat about some of the Love and Logic techniques that are especially helpful if you have a toddler. Although we still use them everyday with our kids who aren't toddlers anymore!

Watch the video that Holly mentions here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5olJGGq1CZM

Check out this article from Love & Logic about Toilet Training

https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0081/4386/3885/files/modeling.pdf

Purchase the book Love & Logic Magic for Early Childhood here

Love and Logic Magic Book

If you have used Love & Logic in your home, we'd love to hear how it has impacted you!

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice here

Or via email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Pre-order Holly's book here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

When Holly's Facebook post about the Enneagram blew up, we discovered that not only did we have some experts in our midst but also that there was quite a bit of misinformation about the Enneagram out there. In this episode, Holly and Bec discuss 'Wings', (not the chicken kind) and give a brief overview of each type, and of course, have a laugh along the way!

If you're interested in finding out more, check out The Enneagram Institute 

https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ 

Your Enneagram Coach on Instagram 

https://www.instagram.com/yourenneagramcoach/?hl=en

If you have discovered your Enneagram type we'd love to hear how it has impacted you! 

Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at 

https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

Or send us an email iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com 

Pre-order Holly's book here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Love & Logic was developed by psychologists and using gentle and effective parenting techniques that help you develop a strong bond and a strong relationship with your child. Today the girls share a small snippet of what Love & Logic has to offer and how it reduced the stress of parenting for them. They will also let you know the best resource for you to start your own journey with Love & Logic.

For Love & Logic resources, online classes and facilitator information:

https://www.loveandlogic.com/

If you use Love & Logic in your home, we'd love to hear from you! Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at

https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

Or send an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Pre-Order Holly's book here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman has helped many people to know how they receive love from those around them and how they give love to others. Holly & Bec touch briefly on all 5 different Love Languages, discuss their own LL's and discover how to love others better! 

Buy your copy of the book here:

https://www.5lovelanguages.com/resources/books/

Do the Love Languages test here:

https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

If you love the 5 Love Languages we'd love to hear from you! Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at

https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

Or send an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com

Pre-Order Holly's book here


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

View Details

Enneagram...

Do you know your type? Host Holly chats with her fave Sidekick Bec as they discuss their own Enneagram types and how that has impacted their friendship over the last decade. Over a few laughs, Holly (Type 2) also answers a question that Bec (Type 6) had texted her earlier in the week which she promised to answer on the podcast!  

Do a test to check out your type here:

https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

If you LOVE the Enneagram we'd love to hear from you! Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at 

https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message

Or send an email to iloveyoutoomuchtoargue@gmail.com 

Pre-Order Holly's book here!


Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/iloveyoutoomuchtoargue/message