The EXperts Podcast: Recent Episodes

The Experts Podcast

Former couple, now exes, Thomas & Tootie, give you the relationship and dating advice you didn't know you needed, and probably shouldn't listen to.

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Welcome Back! We got a lot to catch up on with tons of funny stories.


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Again...After taking a much needed break...we’re back!! Listen to us shoot the s***, catchup, and talk about what’s coming soon.


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This week on cheaters, Toot and Thomas break down celebrity cheater rumors and why men cheat. Toot gives her most important piece of advice to date.


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Spring has sprung! Suns out, Thomas got his chest hair out! Toot has her braids back! All the makings of a mild girl spring. This week we are dropping all our fav spring date places and ideas.


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Ask The Experts is finally here!! We got a “ton” of “emails” asking for our advice and decided to share a few of our favs. Don’t forget to leave a voicemail: https://anchor.fm/theexpertspodcast/message


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It’s our first breakup episode! For this go round we are talking about the art of breaking up and how to do it properly. Please rate, share and subscribe


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Ever found yourself asking “wait, was that a date?” Or maybe, “huh? Am I in a relationship?” Then this the episode for you. This episode is dedicated to Latisha from the jewelry department at Walmart in Greensboro. Leave us a voicemail at: https://anchor.fm/theexpertspodcast/message


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Wasting time. Stringing along. Dead ends. What are we doing?? This week Toot and Thomas discuss the signs that you’re wasting time in your relationship


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This week The Experts discuss how friends can be helpful in a relationship. But they can also hinder your relationship.


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This week The Experts are discussing long distance relationships. And exactly how many Toot has been in. Thomas drops a bomb on the listeners!


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“It’s yours!!!” 2021 is here and we need to be prepared. Grab a pen and listen to The Experts put together their ideal partner to manifest love in this new season


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The Experts discuss their most memorable moments of 2020. 2021 please be kind to us!


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Quick disclaimer: due to many many technology issues, this episode lacks our usual audio clarity. Rather than re record, we decided to release it. Thanks friends! —>The Experts share their last minute Christmas gift ideas.


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Happy Thanksgiving!!! Gather around the table and listen as we share the lessons we have learned from previous relationships. We are THANKFUL for each lesson.


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bats eyelashes Flirting tips and tricks!


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“I don’t cook, I don’t clean but let me tell you how I got this ring”. Wise words. This week we’re talking about gender roles, why we don’t abide by them, and why Thomas won’t date a woman who wears Girbaud


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We’ve all been there before right? Doing something that’s way out of pocket for the one you love, like or lust. This is a safe space.


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Do you have any regrets when it comes to dating? Of course you do! Join us this week as we break down regrets that we’ve experienced, including Thomas choosing a big butt over a smile


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On this week's episode we talk about bae-cations! We give you the 6 steps needed to plan the ultimate bae-cation.

We also share stories of some of our most memorable trips. Tune in now to find out what led to Thomas throwing up all night while in Jamaica. Hint: It wasn't the jerk chicken!


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This is going to be a fun episode! This week’s topic is about all you Dirty Macks out there. But instead of our normal format, we put together a "Dirty Mack" playlist! Listen in and tell us your favorite songs


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PART 2. Tootie tells an embarrassing story about her first interaction with Thomas' dad. When is the right time to introduce your new bae to friends and family? What does that first meeting look like? Don’t be nervous. Be prepared! Listen to The Experts give personal stories, as well as tips to help navigate meeting the other special people in your partners life


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When is the right time to introduce your new bae to friends and family? What does that first meeting look like? Don’t be nervous. Be prepared! Listen to The Experts give personal stories, as well as tips to help navigate meeting the other special people in your partners life


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Can you date someone with a troubled past? Can you date someone with bad credit or lots of debt? Could you date someone with a wild sexual history? Turn in to hear why Toot wouldn’t date a former criminal and why Thomas wouldn’t date someone with former mental health struggles.


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The age old question, “what are we”, is discussed on this week’s episode. Situationships are broken down and Toot and Thomas helps you determine if you’re in one and how to get out. Also, Rick Ross be lying.


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After taking a much needed break...we’re back!! Listen to us shoot the s***, catchup, and talk about what’s coming soon.


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And we back!!! On episode 13, we discuss cheese, cheddar, mula, guap, dinero, cake, MONEY!!

We talk about how money can impact a relationship and let you know when you should discuss money and how soon is too soon to bring it up.

Toot talks about refusing to get a payday loan to bail out her man. Thomas tells a story about being curved after disclosing where he worked. Check it out! (Link in bio and stories)


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Join Thomas and Toot as they talk about something they actually might be experts on...remaining friends with an ex. Listen, like, share, subscribe and let us know what you think!


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On this week’s episode Toot and Thomas are joined by a special guest, Kim. Listen to the trio discuss the zodiac system as it relates to themselves, relationships and how it explains Thomas’ need to create business after business. Listen, like, share and subscribe! Happy birthday Tootie!


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And we back. Again. This week join Toot and Thomas as they discuss how to navigate dating a friends ex. Only if you about that life.


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Aaaand we’re back! On this weeks episode, The EXPerts are discussing how to date in todays current climate. Meeting people and dating during quarantine can be a struggle, so check us out for some excellent advice. As usual.


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On this episode The Experts share what it was like living with each other. What was considered prior to moving in and what factors went into making a decision to do so. We share a lot of personal stories and give some great advice along the way.


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On this week's episode, The Experts discuss communication. They explain why communication is important in a relationship plus ways and tips to help you communicate effectively.


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On this episode, The Experts are joined by Meagan. They discuss dating apps. How do you create the perfect profile? What pictures should you select? How soon is too soon to meet up? 


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This week we discuss how respectfully navigate social media when in a relationship.


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On this episode, your favorite exes discuss dating expectations, preferences and rules. Are your expectations, preferences and rules helping you progress or are they hindering you from a strong and healthy relationship?  Toot and Thomas share their personal experiences in these areas and talk about what they've learned from past relationships.


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So we gave you advice on how to meet people.  Now we are giving you advice on how to handle a first date.   Tune in to hear how to set up a date, how to get ready for a date and how to execute the almost perfect first date.  Don't forget to rate, share and subscribe! Follow us @TheExpertsPod | @AwwTootToot | @ThomasMidgetteJr on Instagram!


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Toot and Thomas discuss some of the most popular places and ways to meet people. They talk about the pros and cons of each and share personal stories.


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Welcome to the first episode of The Experts Podcast, hosted by your favorite exes, Thomas and Tootie. Get to know who we are, how we met, and what you can expect from this podcast. Join us every Tuesday as we give you the dating advice you didn't know you needed, and probably shouldn't listen to. Happy Valentine's Day!


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