Happily Ever After Is Just The Beginning! - Lesli Doares, LMFT: Recent Episodes
Happily Ever After Is Just The Beginning! - Lesli Doares, LMFT
Happily Ever After is not just a mythical place somewhere over the rainbow. With attention and love you can bring that feeling to your relationship. Learning to communicate your real needs and desires as well as understanding your partners’ will help you foster the feeling of acceptance and contentment you’ve always dreamed of. It’s not just magic and chemistry but a way of thinking and behaving that lets you develop as equal partners. Join us on Happily Ever After for practical tips you can use right now in your daily communications, thought processes and decisions.
Who doesn’t want a passionate marriage? But do you really know what that means? Or what it takes? Passion is a much more complicated topic than most of us want to deal with. It isn’t just ripping each other’s clothes off as soon as you are within sight of each other. It’s about all the little choices you make throughout the day as well as avoiding the things that throw water on it. So how do you know what will work?
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Professional Life and Relationship Coach Dr. Corey Allan reveals the truth about the role of passion in your marriage and how you can create it.
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Far too many people believe that relationships are natural. You meet someone, fall in love, plan a life together and go on autopilot. This is not a prescription for success. It’s a prescription for flying into the side of a mountain. That’s where many people find themselves at the beginning of every year. Wondering why their marriages are struggling and what, if anything, can be done to make them better. The simple answer is YES! Dr. Ronald Riggio, author and Professor of Leadership and Organizational Psychology at Claremont McKenna College, is here to let you in on how you can do just that.
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ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED 07-27-2020. Nothing thrives on neglect and your marriage is no different. But it’s easy to let things go because “it’s not that bad” or other things take priority—your kids, job, social media. If you have lost touch with each other, being stuck together without your usual outlets may feel like torture. But it doesn’t have to. Couples Coach and Founder of Embodied Breath, Sarah Poet reveals an easy way to get your relationship groove back. It’s easier than you think.
If you are unsure how to do that, Lesli can help. Feel free to share the show with those you care for on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.
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No-fault divorce began in California in 1969 when Ronald Reagan was governor. It is now the norm in all fifty states. But when it requires both people to consent to getting married, should only one person be able to dissolve it? We’re now on the third generation of easy divorce, with many people never having seen a successful marriage. Many young people believe marriage is outdated because it’s so easy to get out of. Lawyer, co-founder of the Coalition for Divorce Reform, and author of Disassembly Required: A Memoir of Midlife Resurrection Beverly Willett talks about how changing the rules can be the impetus for improving marriage.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater—right? But what if that’s not true. Infidelity is extremely painful, but it doesn’t have to be life sentence, for either of you. It is possible to recover from it and build a relationship that is more authentic and healthier. Marriage therapist, author, and the host of ‘The Meaningful Life with Andrew G Marshall podcast reveals what will help you recover from infidelity, even if you question whether it’s possible or if you need to move on.
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When you think about your marriage do you smile? Or do you wonder why you’re even still in it? Marriage shouldn’t be hard. Or work. Or drudgery. If it’s any of those things, then it isn’t serving you well. If you and your partner are feeling disconnected and more like roommates than lovers, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author Anna Svetchnikov reveals a simple tweak you can make to revive the romance.
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“Man UP”. “Act like a man.” “Real men don’t…..” If you’ve ever heard or made these statements, or something like them, what was the outcome? While the patriarchy has given men, especially white men, a lot of power, it also has “boxed” them in to performing in a certain way to be acceptable. This creates some very damaging consequences for men individually and society as a whole. Sex and relationship coach Dr. Charlie Glickman addresses the harm of the “Man Box” and presents healthier alternatives.
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Do you love your partner but aren’t sure you’re in love with them anymore? Do you wonder where the magic has gone? Do you worry it won’t ever come back? Are you settling for being roommates when you want so much more? If so, then Jeff Forte, executive and PEAK Performance Coach and author of The 90-Minute Marriage Miracle, has the answers. He not only reveals the 8 elements of intimacy but what you need to do to bring it back into your relationship.
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Expecting your marriage to be clear sailing with n’er a squall in sight is setting you up for disappointment and resentment. Far too many couples focus on the wedding day instead of what they want the marriage to look like. As a result, they are not prepared to handle the predictable challenges when they inevitably show up. And, without the necessary skills to effectively address these challenges, couples find themselves drifting apart. Therapist, radio personality, and author of the new book, Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues Kelli Miller reveals how you can get back on track and stay there.
If you are struggling to have the happy marriage you want, Lesli can help. Please share this informative show on Facebook and Instagram.
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Have you ever heard a couple on the brink of divorce say they never loved each other in the first place? But you were at their wedding and you know that’s not true. Maybe you’ve even found yourself thinking this about your spouse. But that’s memory rewriting itself. This happens because the marriage has been unraveling in predictable ways over the years. But love and your marriage do not have to die. Author and relationship expert Kyle Benson reveals how this happens and what you can do to prevent it.
If you’re questioning whether you love your spouse or if your marriage is worth saving, Lesli can help.
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I often tell people that couples work is actually simultaneous individual work. It’s common to focus on what your partner is doing, but the only one you have control over is you. Looking within is often where the answers lie. The good news is that you don’t have to tackle this on your own. Award-winning memoirist, poet, and speaker Dr. Diana Raab reveals an unusual team of people who can help you on this journey and how you can access them.
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Okay, trick question. For most of us, it’s both. Intimacy (and sex) is important in a romantic relationship. And it’s a concern in many marriages. Intimacy is a source of anxiety for far too many couples. Like many things, good sex and real intimacy are complicated. There are so many factors at play that a truly enjoyable experience for you both can seem as rare as a blue moon. But things don’t have to be so hard. Psychologist and author Dr. Avrum Weiss reveals some of the things that may be getting in your way.
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Countless people think it’s their job to make their partners happy. While that is a wonderful concept, it’s impossible to do. You are responsible for your happiness. Your partner is responsible for theirs. But even focusing on happiness in that way is a treacherous path. The way to see things in a more positive, possibly even happy, way is to focus on gratitude. Life coach and Transformation Specialist, Dr. Dravon James explains why this is so and a simple reveals a simple practice to help you.
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You hear it all the time: Marriage takes work. But what if there was something you could easily do everyday that would make it easier? Guess what? There is. It doesn’t cost any money and you don’t even need to leave your house. Dr. Erin Leyba, Licensed Clinical Social Worker and the author of Joy Fixes for Weary Parents, reveals and discusses this “miracle” action.
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Many people jump to sex when they hear the word intimacy. If pressed, they may reluctantly include forms of affection. So you may be surprised to learn that there are actually ten different types of intimacy. Physical intimacy is just one kind, not the whole shebang. EMDR Certified Therapist Samantha Bickham reveals what the other nine types are and why they are important for healthy relationships.
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For many, this time of year can be really stressful. Instead of feeling joyous and full of good cheer, you may be feeling anxious instead. Oh, you might put a smile on your face and commit to following all the usual traditions, but you’re already exhausted by overwhelm. And overly focusing on making everyone’s holidays happy whether they, or you, like it or not will only make it worse. The fact is we bring most of this stress on ourselves. The good news is that you have the power to make it go away.
Authors of the Irrelationship: How We Use Dysfunctional Relationships to Hide from Intimacy, psychoanalyst Dr. Mark Borg, psychiatrist, Dr. Grant Brenner, and registered nurse Daniel Berry, join the show for a discussion of how you can minimize the stress of the season and really enjoy your holidays.
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I was in elementary school when both the book and the movie Love Story were released. It’s classic line, “Love means never having to say you’re sorry”, struck me as stupid even then. I do suspect that for many people it’s easier to say, “I love you”, than to say, “I am sorry”. And a healthy marriage needs both those sentiments to be expressed. Clinical psychologist Dr. Forrest Talley explains why the ability to offer a good apology is important for a happy marriage.
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Intimacy is what most of us are looking for in our marriage. It is more than just physical, but how you interact physically is important. The challenge? Sex is everywhere, but good information about healthy sexuality is not. This makes creating real intimacy in your relationship difficult. But it doesn’t have to be. Andrew Bauman, licensed mental health counselor and the Co-Founder and Director of the Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma, takes on this critical topic with truth and compassion.
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People need touch—a hug, a snuggle, and, yes, sex—to be healthy. What should seem straight forward is often quite complicated. Stress, hormone levels, time and more, all play a role in how healthy and intimate your marriage is. Women’s Intimate Health Expert Dr. Carolyn DeLucia reveals what every couple needs to know to create deep intimacy and lasting connection.
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Is “Busy” your answer to the question, “How are you?” For a lot of us, that seems to be the standard response. Not only does it seem to be the new normal, it seems to be the new status symbol. But accepting this as a daily practice has its costs, especially to your marriage.
If you rate your marriage as fine or okay, you may be putting it on the back burner while you are “busy” with everything else you need to get done. But nothing thrives on neglect and your marriage will eventually suffer too. Dustin Riechmann, author of The 15 Minute Marriage Makeover and the creator of EngagedMarriage.com, joins the show for a lively discussion on how you can take back your marriage. Send your comments and suggestions to Lesli and share the show with your friends on Twitter and Facebook.
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You’ve asked your partner to do something different. Or, maybe, your partner has asked you to. The two of you might even agree that the change will help your relationship. You also agree to make the change and then, …. you find yourself doing the same old thing. No matter how inclined you are to make the change, sticking with it seems impossible. The good news is you’re perfectly normal. Change even desired, agreed to change, is hard for most people. But you don’t have to settle for a less-than marriage or being just an okay spouse. Rick Fortier, author and teacher of truths, explains why change is so difficult and reveals how you can finally make real and lasting change in your life.
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Top things married couples fight about: money and sex. Rarely is it because there is an overabundance of either. And both topics are extremely personal.
If one of you is unhappy with how often you are physically intimate, then your relationship has a problem. But how can you talk to your partner about this really important topic? Marriage Counselor Carole Cullen is here to do just that. It’s a show you don’t want to miss.
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All relationships have ups and downs. This often comes as a surprise to couples who think everything will be sunshine and roses on their wedding day. It can make them think they might have made a mistake. But it actually is quite normal. If things aren’t going quite the way you expected, you might fall into the common trap of thinking your only options are to live with a “less than” marriage or end it. But there is another option. Divorce Coach,
Dr. Karen Finn reveals how you can turn things around so thoughts of divorce fade away.
If you want help creating the marriage you’ve always wanted, Lesli can help. Feel free to share the show on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.
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There’s a saying that forewarned is forearmed. This is true when it comes to your marriage as well. Knowing what behaviors are harmful is what is going to keep your relationship out of danger. But that means not only knowing what to look for but also knowing how to respond if any of these signs show up.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Virginia Williamson discloses what she has learned from her many years of working with couples and what you need to know.
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So there you are, having what you think is a non-controversial conversation with your spouse, when suddenly all you know what breaks lose. You can no longer think straight and all of your good intentions to stay on topic, be open to listening, and remain calm have gone out the window. What just happened? Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Life Coach Linda Carroll explains why having good communication skills sometimes isn’t enough.
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One of the things that seems to surprise couples once they leave the “honeymoon” phase of their relationship, is that they are two different people. This realization is at the root of all the disagreements that follow. The bottom line isn’t that you married the wrong person. It’s that you need to develop strategies to deal with your differences. One possibility that my guest podcast host, author, and relationship coach Louis Morris recommends is to develop real compassion. He reveals just how you can do that in this episode.
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Did you just read that as sex? Many people equate intimacy with sex—but it is so much more. There is physical intimacy (of which sex is just one part), spiritual intimacy, intellectual intimacy, and emotional intimacy as well. The intimacy most of us are searching for involves all of them. And the type that holds a marriage together and helps it thrive is emotional intimacy. What does that look like? And how do you promote that in your relationship? Certified hypnotherapist and clinical psychologist Dr. Nancy Irwin reveals how you can build emotional intimacy in your marriage.
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If “fine” and “okay” are the way you describe your marriage, you may be settling for less than what’s possible. You definitely are settling for less than you deserve. While your relationship may not always be filled with hot passion and fireworks, it shouldn’t feel bland or “just enough” either. Fear and ignorance (in the true meaning of the word) are at the root of why most marriages slog along. Knowing what you want, and how to make that happen, is key to a fulfilling relationship. Therapist, author, and college instructor Terry Gaspard reveals how you can stop settling for less in your marriage.
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t’s commonly accepted that marriage is hard. That it requires work. That’s only because many couples stop doing the things that led to getting married in the first place.
Yes, everyday life happens. Sometimes even bad things happen.
But none of it has to sink your marriage. Author Leah Hefner reveals how three simple behaviors can protect and support your marriage, so it can be your soft place to fall.
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Good communication alone will not ensure a Happily Ever After marriage but, without it, you don’t stand a chance. One of the biggest challenges couples face is learning how to communicate effectively. As with most things, it’s easier to look at where the other person is falling short than to look in the mirror and figure out our part. You’ve been talking since you were little and, on the surface, it seems a pretty easy system. You talk, the other person listens and vice versa. So why do so many couples struggle? Kirk Honda, professor of couples and family therapy at Antioch University and the host of Psychology in Seattle, explains the common pitfalls of communication.
If communication is an issue in your marriage, don’t let it continue. Contact Lesli to learn how you can turn it around so you can have the marriage you desire.
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I’m sure you’ve heard that marriage takes hard work. I completely disagree. Yes, it takes effort but that’s not the same thing. Anything worth doing requires some active behavior on your part. And you want your efforts to be in the right direction to bring about positive results. A lot of the “work” people put into their relationships does the opposite. Speaker, author, coach, and true Renaissance man James Mapes reveals four strategies you can implement to improve your relationship.
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If your marriage isn’t all you want it to be, who is responsible? The truth? You both are. Every decision you each have made has brought you to this situation. And if you both keep doing the same things, you will stay in the same place. So how do you move forward? Relationship Coach and author Matthew Fray reveals some lessons he learned the hard way.
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Most people lie, even the ones who say they value truth and honesty. Because anything that isn’t the truth is a lie. Not saying something is a lie of omission. White lies are still lies. Being completely honest doesn’t require being harsh. It does require courage. And your marriage will be the better for it. […]
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Women want men to be open and intimate. To share their thoughts and feelings. To really connect. Unfortunately, the capacity for intimacy that men are born with has been socialized out of them. The good news? It can be relearned. Randell Turner, Child and Family Therapist and founder of Unbreakable Bond, explains why this is […]
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Do you have what it takes to have a long-term marriage that is actually happy and fulfilling? If you’re like a lot of people, you might be afraid you don’t. Yes, love is a necessary component. But you can’t be passive about it. Like a lot of things, love will wane if you aren’t feeding it. And […]
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In theory, money is merely the means by which you acquire goods and services. In reality, it is so much more. It’s seen as a measure of success, self-worth, freedom, love, safety, security, and on and on. Getting on the same page financially with your spouse is incredibly important for the success of your marriage. […]
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All relationships face challenges. This is because you have two people trying to navigate through their differences. Relationship professionals are not immune from this very human experience. What they do have is the knowledge and tools to successfully negotiate the differences. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Susan Hartman Brenizer reveals some things she does consistently that have […]
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Have you ever been having a conversation with your spouse that suddenly seems to veer off course and right into an argument? If so, you’re not alone. But how you get the conversation, and your marriage, back on track is key to its success. Good communication is a skill that you can learn. Robert Taibbi, a […]
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Many people think that love is all you need for your marriage to succeed. But most people who divorce loved their spouses once. The truth is that every relationship you had before your marriage ended for one reason or another. So, what makes your marriage any likelier to succeed? Love is a desirable quality but […]
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When was the last time you and your spouse had fun together? Not with the family, but just with each other? If you can’t remember, or if you don’t make it a regular thing, your marriage could be in trouble. Laughter isn’t just good medicine for you personally, it can serve as the glue for […]
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Do you believe that marriage takes work? Do you believe that marriage is the place sex goes to die? Do you believe that you need to compromise and sacrifice who you are for your marriage to work? Do you believe that this is the best you’re going to get so just accept it? STOP. NOW. These statements are only true if you choose to continue believing them. You don’t have to settle for a “less than” marriage. Stuart Motola, relationship coach and the author of Fixing You is Killing Me: A Conscious Roadmap to Knowing When to Save and When to Leave Your Relationship, reveals how you can have the relationship you desire and deserve.
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Marriage is for grownups. This doesn’t mean you are over 18 or some other arbitrary age of majority. It means that you are emotionally ready to commit to creating a life with someone else. Because, while marriage can and should be about love, it’s about so much more. And one of those things is emotional maturity. Pastor and author, Marc Alan Schelske, is here to talk about what this is, why it matters, and, more importantly, how you can develop it in your life and marriage.
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Per a 2015 study, women initiate two-thirds of divorces. College-educated women initiate about 90% of them. These are statistics that should alarm anyone who is married. It may be that women are unhappier in their marriages then men are. If this is true, is divorce the answer? Could something else be going on? Women’s Empowerment Coach Julie Danielson reveals what she has learned from the women she helps navigate divorce.
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You may think that you and your spouse don’t communicate. But the truth is, you are never not communicating. It might be that you don’t like what the other is expressing. It might be that you are communicating at different levels. It might be that the surface level way you normally communicate leaves you feeling disconnected and unheard. Marriage and Family Therapist Carole Cullen introduces the concept of emotional connection and how you can use it to feel more loved and satisfied in your marriage.
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Jay Thompson helps people discover their purpose and to create a culture based on their values. Over the past 50 years, Jay has welcomed many paths and it has been quite a journey. You are going to enjoy hearing his stories!
Guest Bio:
Married to Mandy, the love of his life for almost 31 years, they have 2 children. Thomas, 29 years old, engaged to Casandra, and Bethany 27 years old, married to Demetrius and they have one daughter, Aubrey (who Papa Jay thinks is the most incredible granddaughter in the world).
As a successful Leadership Development Coordinator in the banking industry, Jay has trained and coached people and teams to help bridge the gap between beliefs and behaviors. He is a John Maxwell Leadership Certified Coach, Certified GrowBIG® Business Development Facilitator and Seven Habits facilitator. He speaks to community groups, real estate agencies, small businesses, financial institutions, and nonprofits about discovering their purpose and creating a culture based on their values.
He has served in ministry for 30 years, working with teenagers, community leaders, and foreign missions worldwide. With a passion for hiking one thing, Jay has learned many lessons along the trail, one being that no one should hike alone. So if you’re looking for a great life hiking partner, he’s ready to help you discover your path so you can enjoy your journey.
Guest Contact Info:
Website – https://www.hikethemountain.org/
Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jay.hikethemountain/
Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/jay.thompson.7315
YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTi_ScWgBy5cBEICtlvbuhA
Podcast – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hike-on-lead-on/id1583881132?i=1000548490136
LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jay-thompson-4a498756/
SimplyChurch – https://www.simplychurch.online/
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There’s an expression—if you fail to plan, you plan to fail. Could this be the reason for so many marriages to either fail or just be miserable? People fall in love, get into a serious relationship, and then decide to get married. What they often don’t do is talk about what they want their marriage to look like. Dr. Frieda Birnbaum, a research psychologist and psychotherapist, proposes creating an emotional pre-nuptial agreement before saying “I do”.
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The three hardest words to say are not “I love you” but “I am sorry”. There is a lot of baggage and misunderstanding when it comes to apologizing that many people can’t bring themselves to offer them. But a good apology can heal the rift in your marriage. Andrew Blackwood is a coach, speaker, and the author of The Art of a Genuine Apology: Bringing healing to your most significant relationships reveals what makes for a good apology and how you can master the skill.
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With all that’s happening in the world right now, are you making time for intimacy? This may seem like a trick question but the amount of sex people are having has been diminishing in recent years. Some of this has to do with more people living alone, but high levels of stress and worry may be making it worse. Sheltering in place, working from home, making sure your children don’t fall behind in school, not being able to go out and socialize, you name it, your energy and attention are being tested like never before. But humans crave connection and touch—they are stress reducers. Intimacy coach and author of Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure Xanet Pailet invites you to get your groove back.
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Most people would not stay in a relationship where they feel physically unsafe. But if you don’t feel emotionally safe, that can be equally problematic to your marriage. Emotional safety is important for trust and intimacy. Without those, a good marriage is impossible. And far too many couples don’t know what constitutes emotional safety or how to make sure they have it in their marriage. Marriage and Family Therapist and founder of LoveAndLifeToolbox.com Lisa Kift reveals what you need to know about emotional safety.
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Did you have formal training in relationships? If not, you’re not alone. What you learned about love and relationships you picked up as you went along. The good, the bad, and the ugly. You watched what your parents did and regarded it as normal. And they learned from their parents, and so on. And you’re teaching those same lessons to your kids. Some of this information may be helpful and some not so much. Speaker, author, and founder and director of Better Dad Ministries Rick Johnson identifies four lessons you need to know, and pass on, about love.
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You’re never supposed to modify the word unique, but when it comes to marriage, it truly is a unique relationship. It’s a combination of every other kind of relationship there is. And if you don’t understand all of the elements, and have a way of acknowledging each of them, your marriage will struggle more than it needs to. Dr. Assael Romanelli and Galit Romanelli define three of the most important relationships within a marriage and how you can support each one so your marriage will thrive.
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Are you in a toxic relationship or just a bad one? If you’re feeling unsupported, demeaned, dismissed, or misunderstood, does it matter what you call it? Whatever name it goes by, the street is causing you needs to stop. If you’re like most of us, you focus on what our partner is doing to make things bad. Bu what if that’s the wrong approach. Recovery expert, addiction treatment specialist, spear and author TJ Woodward reveals what is at the heart of toxic relationships and what you can do to successfully deal with them.
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Are you in a toxic relationship or just a bad one? If you’re feeling unsupported, demeaned, dismissed, or misunderstood, does it matter what you call it? Whatever name it goes by, the stress it is causing you needs to stop. If you’re like most of us, you focus on what your partner is doing to make things so bad. But what if that’s the wrong approach? Recovery expert, addiction treatment specialist, speaker and author TJ Woodward reveals what is at the heart of toxic relationships and what you can do to successfully deal with them.
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Defensiveness is a normal reaction to being attacked. But when your spouse brings up a complaint or shares their hurt feelings, your life is probably not in immediate danger. But how you respond may be a real threat to your marriage. Defensiveness is a form of self-protection that can create distance and despair in your relationship. Relationship Expert and speaker Lisa Merlo-Booth identifies ways defensiveness shows up and reveals how you can handle it when it does.
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Marriage gets a bad rap. It’s the butt of many jokes and many believe it’s an archaic institution that needs to be ended. The truth is humans crave connection. The desire to love and be loved drives both reality and stories that have been told for centuries. Marriage is a formalization of that desire and, when done well, has positive impact on health, wealth and happiness.
Alysse ElHage, editor of The Family Studies Blog for the Institute of Family Studies reveals evidence from a new study that having a loving, supportive marriage is neither rare nor unattainable.
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You may think that you and your spouse don’t communicate. But the truth is, you are never not communicating. It might be that you don’t like what the other is expressing. It might be that you are communicating at different levels. It might be that the surface level way you normally communicate leaves you feeling disconnected and unheard. Marriage and Family Therapist Carole Cullen introduces the concept of emotional connection and how you can use it to feel more loved and satisfied in your marriage.
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Do you ever feel like you’re in a “push me/pull you” relationship with your partner? Are you afraid your relationship will end so you either hang on to your partner with everything you’ve got or hold them at arm’s length so it won’t hurt so much when it ends? When things aren’t going great, do you question if your partner is “the one”? Psychotherapist Sarah Murphy explains what is going on and how you can get your relationship on a healthier and happier path.
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People like the concept of change. The reality of it—not so much. But if your relationship isn’t growing, it’s dying. And it grows because either you or your partner are learning new things, having new experiences, and developing new habits. And if one of you changes, your marriage will as well. How you do this will determine its success. This is what’s behind the often heard statement, “We’ve grown apart.” How can you guide the outcome so it doesn’t mean the end? Author and Relationship Coach Louis Morris reveals why personal growth is critical for your relationship.
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Do you believe that marriage takes work? Do you believe that marriage is the place sex goes to die? Do you believe that you need to compromise and sacrifice who you are for your marriage to work? Do you believe that this is the best you’re going to get so just accept it? STOP. NOW. These statements are only true if you choose to continue believing them. You don’t have to settle for a “less than” marriage. Stuart Motola, relationship coach and the author of Fixing You is Killing Me: A Conscious Roadmap to Knowing When to Save and When to Leave Your Relationship, reveals how you can have the relationship you desire and deserve.
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Are you or your partner emotionally exhausted? If your answer is yes, you’re not alone. Emotional exhaustion is not new, but it is getting some much-needed attention after the last several difficult years. And emotional exhaustion is to your heart and soul what physical exhaustion is to your body. In other words, not good. How can you identify it? And, more importantly, how can you address it in a positive and productive way? Psychotherapist and author of The Emotionally Exhausted Woman: Why You’re Feeling Depleted and How to Get What You Need Nancy Colier offers a path forward.
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Do you shudder when you hear the word “vulnerability”? Does it bring up visions of sharing your worst possible moments and being judged for them? If so, you’re not alone. But being vulnerable is so much more than revealing your darkest times. As Reinvention Architect and Mindset Coach Craig Stanland says, “we don’t own what we hide; what we hide owns us”. He reveals how you can start your journey of vulnerability and create excellence.
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The key to keeping your marriage healthy and happy is to nurture it. In the early days of your relationship, this was relatively easy. In truth, it still is. It takes a little bit of time, energy, and attention. Not a lot. Even if your marriage is in a rut, doing a few simple things regularly can reignite the spark. Relationship and Intimacy Coach Corinne Farago reveals how you can easily take your marriage from just surviving to thriving.
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The statistics are sobering. Couples deal with a serious issue on average for six years before seeking help. Only 19% of divorced couples sought counseling before signing the papers. Yet, counseling is effective for 70% of couples who seek it out. If you had a 70% chance of saving your family, home, and savings, why wouldn’t you take it? Relationship coach and writer Kyle Benson addresses the myths and misconceptions about couples counseling and explains how it really can help your marriage.
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Despite your commitment to making your marriage better, another year has passed with limited improvement. You really want it to be different but, despite your best efforts, you find yourself falling into the same unproductive patterns. The truth is that it’s really hard to make significant changes. It’s not about willpower or intention. It’s about overriding ingrained patterns. Mindset Coach and Best-Selling author Deano Sutter reveals why these patterns are so hard to break and how to increase your success.
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Your relationship started out so great. You knew it wasn’t going to be all sunshine and roses. What you didn’t expect was for it to go so off track. For many couples, this is the time one of you starts to contemplate divorce. It’s not really what either of you want, but neither of you like the way your relationship is right now. Is it even possible to turn things around? Marriage workshop leaders and authors of Hope After Hurt: From Heartache to Healing Rob and Roxanne Maroney answer that question with a resounding “YES” and are here to tell you how.
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Your spouse has just asked you to do something. You don’t really want to do it. You also don’t want to disappoint them or get into a fight about it. Do you suck it up, do it anyway and then get resentful? Do you honor your feelings, tell them “no” and deal with the fall-out? Is there any way to finesse this difference in priorities and expectations between the two of you without creating major problems? Is it possible to have a calm, productive conversation about these differences? Clinical Social Worker Dr. Assaiel Romanelli and Certified Coach Galit Romanelli reveal a unique and effective way to handle these common questions.
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Pornography is easy to access. It’s available 24/7 and never says “no”. But is accessing it regularly necessarily a problem. Seeing pornography and its presence in your marriage as problematic is kind of like beauty, it’s in the eye of the beholder. But if one of you thinks it’s a problem, then it truly is a problem. And finding a solution can be tricky. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Diane Gleim brings some clarity to this complicated issue.
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If you’re like many people, you may be disappointed or worse, unhappy, in your marriage. You may think that ending it will be the answer to your pain. Divorce is the answer for some marriages but unhappy people who divorce are no happier five years later than unhappy people who choose not to divorce. And divorce brings its own set of challenges, especially if you have children. The consequences of your decision don’t just impact you. So, it’s important to be sure. Former attorney, co-founder of the Coalition for Divorce Reform, and author of Disassembly Required: A Memoir of Midlife Resurrection Beverly Willett provides insight into the realities of divorce.
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Yes, the two main people impacted by divorce are you and your spouse. But everyone in your sphere is also impacted—your family, your friends, and, most importantly, your children. How you handle the disruption for them is critically important. But they often don’t share their real feelings, and this can make the whole process more […]
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Intimacy makes me think of old math classes about sets. Sex is often a part of intimacy, but intimacy does not always include sex. This may be confusing to many who think they are one and the same. The desire for intimacy—really being known by another person—is why many of us got married. So why […]
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No, men aren’t from Mars and women aren’t from Venus. It just seems that way. I’ve always thought that expecting men and women to live together is a cosmic joke that really isn’t funny. Nowhere is this more apparent than when it comes to sex. Are all men constantly horny? Are women rarely that way? […]
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Vulnerability is the key to intimacy. So why, if it is so important, is it such a struggle for most of us to open up. Especially to those most important to us. Being open and truly honest puts you at risk for rejection. So you hide behind what is safe but also wonder what it […]
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Would you be surprised to know that many people still have great sex into their 80s? Yes, there are some adjustments to be made due to aging, but intimacy does not have to come to a screeching halt. Menopause is often blamed for lower sexual desire in women but that’s not the whole story. Intimacy […]
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In theory, there is nothing wrong with a happy wife. The problem is thinking it is the key to a happy life. A relationship is a function of the two people in it. If the focus of that relationship is on just one of the participants, you are doing long term damage to the relationship. Rick […]
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Burnout is more than just having a few difficult days. It’s a total drain on your emotional, physical, and mental health. So it’s no wonder that it impacts all of your relationships as well. When it seems like everything is out of control in your life it can be difficult to keep your marriage on […]
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When you’re part of a couple, you have a built-in scapegoat. It is really easy to look at your partner and find all kinds of reasons to not just blame them for the problems in your relationship but also for your own behavior. You want them to take responsibility for their actions but can find […]
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Do your actions match your words when you say your marriage is important? It’s a really important question. Unless they do, your relationship may not last. At least not in the way you want it to. Understanding and implementing the concepts of commitment, trust, and open communication are key for lasting success. Relationship Coach and […]
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Talk about narcissism seems to be all the rage right now. But clearly defining what it is and whether or not your married to someone who meets the qualifications is much harder than just throwing out the word. Having a clueless or a bit self-centered partner is frustrating but much less damaging than one who […]
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What happens when your partner criticizes you or complains about your relationship? If you’re like most people, you get defensive. You explain, you deflect, you may even engage in what-aboutism. What you don’t do is take responsibility. And that’s how you do damage to your marriage. Relationship Expert, author, and speaker Lisa Merlo-Booth reveals what makes this […]
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Happily ever after—sounds great, right? Maybe. But it’s certainly not realistic. No one can be “happy” all of the time. Because life, and marriage, can be challenging. How you meet those challenges determines how you feel about life, yourself, and your spouse. One thing that can really help is building emotional resilience. Licensed Professional Counselor […]
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Betrayal, no matter what kind, hurts. And the impact is universal. It affects you physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. It leads you to question yourself and everyone else. And, unless actively dealt with, it can keep you stuck in a place you don’t want to stay. And for a very long time. Because time, without […]
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Most people break communication down into two activities—speaking and listening. But how you do each can make all the difference in your marriage. And guess what? Very few of us actually learn how to do either effectively. What generally happens is you listen to respond. Which means you aren’t listening deeply, and this is how […]
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Marriage, like life, is filled with unexpected twists and turns. You can’t control what happens. You can only control how you respond. And that is where you will find unconditional love. This type of love doesn’t mean you accept any and all behavior from your partner, just that you accept them. This often can be […]
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Are you afraid your partner will leave you? Maybe fear they don’t love you enough? When your spouse wants you to talk about things do you clam up and want to run away? Or can you just relax into your marriage and know that everything will be okay? How you answer these questions reveals how […]
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William Faulkner famously said, “The past is never dead. It’s not even past.” And your past, if you haven’t dealt with it, may be polluting your marriage in the present. The baggage you and your partner carry around is taking up space and keeping you from having the relationship you both want. But you can change that. […]
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Anger and I are old friends. And if my husband wasn’t the calm, level-headed guy that he is, we wouldn’t still be married. Because anger can be very destructive. Used properly, it can also bring necessary change. It is a powerful emotion and not all anger is created equal. Author and Clinical Psychologist Dr. Kelly Flannagan explains […]
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Marriage used to be about societal and financial stability. It also was about continuing the species. Now it’s about love and personal satisfaction. In the olden days, everyone knew their roles, whether they liked them or not. Today, marriage seems to be a free-for-all and, in some viewpoints, in free-fall. But, it doesn’t have to […]
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Maybe you’ve had your ethnicity revealed with one of those at home DNA tests like 23 and Me. But did you know that you don’t just get your eye color or body type from your ancestors? It’s been proven that you may have inherited your emotional patterns as well. These patterns are often at the […]
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One of my least favorite pieces of “advice” is that marriage takes a lot of hard work. No wonder marriage rates are at an all time low. Now this doesn’t mean people aren’t coupling up. And those relationships can be challenging if you don’t know what you’re doing. To be honest, that’s most of us. […]
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Communication is often broken down into two components: speaking and listening. And how you do each of those things will determine not just how well you are understood, but how healthy and happy your relationships will be. Moving from listening to respond to listening to understand is a key relationship skill. This kind of listening, […]
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You know your health is important. But do you know how your overall health impacts both the quality and quantity of intimacy in your marriage? You probably get the connection between being tired or stressed and intimacy. But what else is playing a role? And what can you do about it? Sexual Performance Coach and […]
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Back in the 1960s, the phrase “let it all hang out” gained popularity. It means “to behave freely without being shy or feeling worried about what other people will think of you”. Being your authentic self is good. Having no limits to your behavior is not. But where should you draw the line? The concept […]
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Despite what most of us hope for, marriage isn’t always sunshine and roses because LIFE! But the challenging times don’t have to sink your relationship. Handled well, they can make your marriage stronger and more resilient. And there are things you can do to increase your chances of riding out both the normal ups and […]
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Are you unhappy in your marriage? Or maybe just a bit bored? Do you fantasize about what it would be like to have sex with someone not your spouse? Would opening up your marriage save it or destroy it? All great questions. But who do you ask? And what things do you need to consider? […]
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Nothing thrives on neglect and your marriage is no different. But it’s easy to let things go because “it’s not that bad” or other things take priority—your kids, job, social media. If you have lost touch with each other, being stuck together without your usual outlets may feel like torture. But it doesn’t have to. […]
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I hear it all the time, “It’s my job to make my partner happy”. Further discussion reveals that it’s actually not working. That’s because it can’t. Happiness is always an inside job. But there are things you can do to make you happier and, as a result, your marriage will be too. Stuart Motola, relationship […]
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As Dr. Phil says, “Sometimes you make the right decision and sometimes you make the decision right.” After being together for a while, some people tell themselves that they didn’t marry the right person, they never really loved each other, so there is really no way to make it better. In other words, they made […]
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Marriage should be a place where you feel loved, accepted, and supported. It should not be a place where you have to walk on eggshells. But it’s easier to end up in a toxic relationship than most people think. The relationships that get all the attention are the ones high in drama so many people […]
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Your relationship started off with such promise. Now nothing you do is enough or right. The more you offer, the more your partner wants. And it never seems to be reciprocated. Is your partner selfish, immature, or a narcissist? If you are caught in a difficult relationship, it really doesn’t matter. You’re hurting and things […]
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All relationships have ups and downs. This often comes as a surprise to couples who think everything will be sunshine and roses on their wedding day. It can make them think they might have made a mistake. But it actually is quite normal. If things aren’t going quite the way you expected, you might fall […]
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Marriage is a delicate dance between remaining who you are while being part of a couple. The choice isn’t either staying radically independent or becoming totally dependent. It’s about developing a healthy interdependence. But how do you do that? What does that look like? And what if your partner wants more of you? All great […]
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One of the most wonderful aspects of marriage is the deep connection that it allows. For many people, that means physical intimacy. Not just sex but affection as well. Unfortunately, too many couples feel disconnected from each other. Sex, if it happens, is mundane and often unsatisfying. That’s often because they haven’t invested in the […]
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Research shows that married people as a whole have better and more frequent sex than singles. But that’s no comfort if you’re one of the many couples struggling with sex and intimacy. If you are in a sexless marriage or there is a big difference in your libidos, it can be very painful. And talking […]
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Does silence make you uncomfortable? If it does, you’re not alone. Especially if that silence is coming from your spouse. Are they mad? Unhappy about something? Are they thinking about leaving? These types of thoughts (and others) can crop up when your partner is silent. And if you don’t have a way to clarify what’s […]
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Fear may be the most powerful emotion we experience. It may even be stronger than love. One thing is for certain, it rears its ugly head way too often in our relationships. Fear keeps us from sharing our deepest thoughts and intense emotions; just what we really need to do to have the love we […]
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Many marriages suffer due to the inability of spouses to balance their own needs as individuals with the needs of being part of a couple. But is it really a question of remaining independent versus becoming dependent? Can you be married and still hold on to who you are? What would that look like? Dr. Darlene […]
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Far too many people believe that relationships are natural. You meet someone, fall in love, plan a life together and go on autopilot. This is not a prescription for success. It’s a prescription for flying into the side of a mountain. That’s where many people find themselves at the beginning of every year. Wondering why […]
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Being humble isn’t about being falsely modest. It’s an acknowledgment that there are some things you just don’t know. This is especially true when it comes to your spouse and your marriage. Starting from a place of humility about both will help when there are misunderstandings and miscommunication. Gavin Seah, author of True Humility, defines what humility […]
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If having a successful marriage is one of your goals, it’s important to be on the lookout for things that will damage it. It is often the attitude you bring and the habits that develop as a result that create the problems that put your happily ever after at risk. Thomas Fiffer, former senior editor at The Good […]
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Valentine’s Day on the surface is about sharing your love with your special someone. But if your partner puts an outsize emphasis on the day, something deeper may be going on. Special occasions may actually be tapping into your partner’s emotional blueprint and triggering unproductive relationship patterns. In other words, you find yourself walking a […]
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Many people believe that their partner has to be on board before any changes can be made to the relationship. Maybe even you. But this has been proven not to be the case. By doing things differently on your own, you can make a huge impact on your marriage. That’s the good news. The not […]
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When asked “how are you”, most of us will answer “fine”. There isn’t necessarily anything wrong with that, unless it’s not true. Often “fine” is equated with “good”. But what if it’s just a form of settling for less than you want or could actually have? Not settling can be challenging, which is why many […]
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Did you grow up with the belief in a Soul Mate, Prince Charming, or some other idea of perfection in a marriage? If you did, you’re not alone. But it’s probably caused more challenges in your relationship than you realize. The opposite of perpetual bliss is not settling for misery, or even “good enough”. Writer […]
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Do you want a happy, healthy marriage that lasts? Hopefully, you do. And there are some very specific actions you can take to increase the odds that you’ll have one. Even better, by doing these actions consistently on your own, you will change how you and your spouse interact. You will create a strong foundation of […]
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When was the last time you and your spouse had fun together? Not with the family, but just with each other? If you can’t remember, or if you don’t make it a regular thing, your marriage could be in trouble. Laughter isn’t just good medicine for you personally, it can serve as the glue for […]
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For many, this time of year can be really stressful. And that’s even without a pandemic. Instead of feeling joyous and full of good cheer, you may be feeling anxious instead. Oh, you might put a smile on your face and commit to following all the usual traditions, but you’re already exhausted by overwhelm. And […]
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Busy is the new badge of honor. But overdoing it often leads to burnout. And, if you’re burned out, all areas of your life will suffer. If you are running on empty, you have nothing left for those you are in relationships with. The more burned out, the more overwhelm, the worse it gets. Your […]
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Do you have a love/hate relationship with the end of the year holidays? You get to spend time with family and friends. On the flip side, you get to spend time with family and friends. The pressure to get them right, ensure that everyone is happy (except maybe you), and always have a wonderful time […]
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SPOILER ALERT: Life is not a Disney movie. You know, when the hero and heroine overcome all obstacles and life is a bed of roses. Most of our lives are more reflective of the blooper reels, where stuff is messy and error filled. You misunderstand. Your partner misspeaks. And, without knowing how to course correct, […]
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Yes, most men are bigger and stronger than women and some have done things that support women’s fear of them. But what you may not realize is that a lot of straight men are also afraid of women. Specifically, their intimate partners. They aren’t afraid of being physically hurt but these fears are what keeps […]
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Who doesn’t want a passionate marriage? But do you really know what that means? Or what it takes? Passion is much more complicated topic than most of us want to deal with. It isn’t just ripping each other’s clothes off as soon as you are within sight of each other. It’s about all the little […]
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Many people think marriage is about finding personal happiness. Maybe that’s you. But trying to find happiness outside yourself or trying to be the source of someone else’s happiness is an exercise in futility and frustration. But there is a simple, though not necessarily easy, path to happiness for all of us. Author and Executive […]
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Marriage is a contract—a legally binding one. But the terms of that contract? Well, those aren’t clearly specified in the marriage vows. And this frequently leads to confusion, misunderstandings, and, often, unspoken expectations that are rarely met. These are the mine fields that an actual Couples Contract can help you avoid. Patrick Frank, the creator of […]
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It’s commonly accepted that marriage is hard. That it requires work. That’s only because many couples stop doing the things that led to getting married in the first place. Yes, everyday life happens. Sometimes even bad things happen. But none of it has to sink your marriage. Author Leah Hefner reveals how three simple behaviors can protect […]
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Do you love your partner but aren’t sure you’re in love with them anymore? Do you wonder where the magic has gone? Do you worry it won’t ever come back? Are you settling for being roommates when you want so much more? If so, then Jeff Forte, executive and PEAK Performance Coach and author of The […]
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As humans, we are not meant to live in isolation. Loneliness has real implications for your mental, emotional, and, yes, physical health. Physical touch of all kinds is essential for good health and well-being. So, it’s no surprise that people in relationships where physical interaction is limited feel disconnected and, often, pain. But what if […]
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Do you struggle with feeling emotions or expressing them? Do you think all emotions are created equal? Do you only want to feel some of them and not others? Emotions aren’t good or bad, they’re just another form of information. So why do most of us have some difficulty with them? Because they can be […]
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Falling in love is easy. Making a marriage work long term is a bit more complicated. While each marriage is as unique as the two people in it, there are some common challenges that every couple faces. How you handle them will determine if your marriage hits the skids or becomes the “happily ever after” […]
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A good marriage is based on trust. That trust can be disrupted in so many ways, often unintentionally. Once trust is broken, it can be difficult to repair. While not impossible, it is always better not to damage it in the first place. Clinical psychologist and marriage counselor Dr. Randi Gunther is here to talk about some […]
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Trust is a critical component of a healthy marriage. But what does it mean to trust someone? If your trust is violated, does it mean it’s gone forever? These are important questions. It’s also important to understand how your past relationships and experience with trust in them are impacting your marriage today. Author, coach, and […]
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Marriage seems really scary to a lot of people. Maybe even you. Imagine if you knew that you had the power to make your marriage be however you want it to be. Well, you do! You come equipped with everything you need to live a happy, loving life, including having a great marriage. Rachel Henke, The Fearless […]
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Do you ever feel like you’re in a “push me/pull you” relationship with your partner? Are you afraid your relationship will end so you either hang on to your partner with everything you’ve got or hold them at arm’s length so it won’t hurt so much when it ends? When things aren’t going great, do […]
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Yes, feelings are messy. They can be uncomfortable. But they are necessary for your survival and the health of your relationships. More than likely your feeling love for your partner is why you got married in the first place. You probably have some concern for your and their happiness—also a feeling. But, in order to feel happiness, […]
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Dealing with challenging emotions is challenging for many people, but it can be especially difficult for men. It isn’t that they don’t have emotions. It’s just that they often don’t access them as easily as women can. This is a function of both culture and experience. But it has real world consequences for their marriages. […]
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Top things married couples fight about: money and sex. Rarely is it because there is an overabundance of either. And both topics are extremely personal. If one of you is unhappy with how often you are physically intimate, then your relationship has a problem. But how can you talk to your partner about this really […]
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What you don’t know about how relationships work is putting yours at risk. Many partners bail when their marriage hits a completely predictable bump in the road. Maybe it’s a disagreement about chores or the realization that you still find people other than your spouse physically attractive. Maybe it’s the realization that your partner is […]
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Think of your worst day ever. Maybe you lost a loved one. Or a job. Or had a really big fight with your spouse. You didn’t know how you would move on. More than likely, you kept moving forward. It wasn’t easy, but you did it. Maybe the effects are still lingering. If so, you’re […]
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There’s a common belief that women are more interested in the health of their relationships than men are. The problem: it’s not true. Women have been encouraged, sometimes to their detriment, to be in touch with their emotional side. Men—not so much. But most guys want to be good partners and good parents. They’ve just […]
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Most couples have no idea what they are actually promising on their wedding day. Most see the future as sunny with limited chance of rain. This leaves them unprepared for the inevitable challenges ahead. Some of those challenges are minor. Others not so much. And what if you’re not just married, but business partners as well? […]
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People need touch—a hug, a snuggle, and, yes, sex—to be healthy. What should seem straight forward is often quite complicated. Stress, hormone levels, time and more, all play a role in how healthy and intimate your marriage is. Women’s Intimate Health Expert Dr. Carolyn DeLucia reveals what every couple needs to know to create deep intimacy and […]
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Falling in love seems easy but it’s actually quite a complicated process. So much of what makes someone irresistible is the result of unseen forces picked up over your lifetime. You’re attracted to this person, not that one. You have a type. The same things go right, and wrong, in your relationships. While it may […]
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With apologies to Shakespeare, would a relationship by any other name be as sweet? The truth is that our entire lives are made up of relationships—romances, friendships, family, and work. They have their differences but there are also aspects common to all. The greatest common denominator is you. This conveys both power and opportunity. You […]
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It’s romantic to think that there is one person, one perfect-for-you person, who will bring infinite happiness and lasting love to your life. But is it realistic? A singular match for you out of almost 8 billion people? Also, if one person were able to meet everyone of your emotional and romantic needs, what would […]
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It’s hard to be honest. Scary even. If you’re honest, you will say and do things your partner won’t like. And many people don’t know how to handle this, maybe even you. They’ve never learned how to be honest in a healthy, productive way. But not being honest does great damage to your marriage. It […]
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Nothing thrives on neglect and your marriage is no different. And far too many relationships have fallen prey to the day-to-day grind. Maybe even yours. It can be challenging to keep things steamy when there is laundry to do and kitchens to clean. But, if the health of your marriage is important, there are some […]
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There’s a saying that forewarned is forearmed. This is true when it comes to your marriage as well. Knowing what behaviors are harmful is what is going to keep your relationship out of danger. But that means not only knowing what to look for but also knowing how to respond if any of these signs […]
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The difference between your expectations and what actually happens is a gap. All relationships have gaps because they involve flawed humans. And the tighter you hold to your expectations—what you think should happen or what you want to happen—and get upset about what actually is happening determines how happy your marriage will be. That’s not […]
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Marriage used to be about societal and financial stability. It also was about continuing the species. Now it’s about love and personal satisfaction. In the olden days, everyone knew their roles, whether they liked them or not. Today, marriage seems to be a free-for-all and, in some viewpoints, in free-fall. But, it doesn’t have to […]
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You might remember this famous line from the book and movie Love Story—“Love means never having to say you’re sorry.” You might even want to believe it because apologizing can be really awkward. And, besides, your partner knows you didn’t mean it and that you really love them. NOPE! When you can’t or don’t apologize it […]
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Have you ever heard a couple on the brink of divorce say they never loved each other in the first place? But you were at their wedding and you know that’s not true. Maybe you’ve even found yourself thinking this about your spouse. But that’s memory rewriting itself. This happens because the marriage has been unraveling in […]
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I’m reminded of the line from Robert Frost’s Mending Wall—Good fences make good neighbors. A lot of people think of boundaries as walls or fences. They aren’t. They are more like permeable membranes where you choose what comes in or stays out. And they are key to healthy relationships because they set the parameters for what […]
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A good marriage is based on trust. That trust can be disrupted in so many ways, often unintentionally. Once trust is broken, it can be difficult to repair. While not impossible, it is always better not to damage it in the first place. Clinical psychologist and marriage counselor Dr. Randi Gunther is here to talk about some […]
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Nothing thrives on neglect and your marriage is no different. But far too many of us put everything in front of our marriages because things are “okay”. But when you stop making an effort in your marriage, it will die the death of a thousand cuts. You each get complacent, stop trying, and then focus […]
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When your child complains about things not being fair, how do you react? You probably just explain that life isn’t fair. So why do you think marriage should be? The idea is that it’s a 50/50 proposition and if you do more than your partner, well, you’re just a sucker. This puts the focus on […]
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Intimacy is what most of us are looking for in our marriage. It is more than just physical, but how you interact physically is important. The challenge? Sex is everywhere, but good information about healthy sexuality is not. This makes creating real intimacy in your relationship difficult. But it doesn’t have to be. Andrew Bauman, licensed […]
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Parenting is not for sissies. It takes time, energy, and attention.But those resources need to come from somewhere and, often, it is fromyour marriage. When there is only twenty-four hours in a day, how doyou make time for both? It’s a little like the process of robbingPeter to pay Paul. But does it have to […]
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Many people think that love is all you need for your marriage to succeed. But most people who divorce loved their spouses once. The truth is that every relationship you had before your marriage ended for one reason or another. So, what makes your marriage any likelier to succeed? Love is a desirable quality but […]
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Valentine’s Day just passed and with it the requirement to profess love on demand. But what if that’s not the emotion you’re feeling? What if you don’t know what you feel or whether you even feel at all? In fact, you may be questioning why there is so much focus on emotions at all since […]
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If Valentine’s Day fills you with dread, you’re not alone. So much pressure on one day. But what if there was a way to create mini-Valentine’s Days all year round. Would you do it? Would you be willing to focus on your relationship and the love you have for each other on a regular basis? If […]
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No, it’s not a monster movie coming soon. We all have ideas and expectations about marriage before we enter into that “blessed” union. The more your ideas are based in myth, the harder time you will have in your marriage. Having a bit of starry-eyed, rose-colored view of your partner is helpful to keep them […]
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Have you ever been confused by what your feeling? Do you believe that you don’t feel anything? The truth is that everyone has feelings or emotions. In fact, it is the system we are born with. Cognitive learning comes later. So why are feelings and emotions not as valued as analytic thinking? Because they aren’t […]
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Most people lie, even the ones who say they value truth and honesty. Because anything that isn’t the truth is a lie. Not saying something is a lie of omission. White lies are still lies. Being completely honest doesn’t require being harsh. It does require courage. And your marriage will be the better for it. […]
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Anger is a natural emotion. Sometimes righteous anger can bring about positive change. Mostly, anger does damage. It creates physical and relationship problems if it is allowed unfettered freedom. Getting angry is easy for way too many of us, myself included. But each of us has the power to change that. Psychotherapist and educator Robert Rannigan talks […]
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I don’t know whether it’s the shorter days with colder weather or the ever-present reminders of the holiday season, but this time of year gets a lot of people wondering about their marriages. Asking questions like, “Are we normal?” “Is this as good as it gets?” “Should I stay or go?” Quite often, these questions […]
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Marriage was designed as a means of managing property and building alliances. It’s only been in recent years that love has been involved. It has always had a legal component in addition to any sacred one. Marriage is an ever-evolving institution. That’s both good and bad news. Once the old restrictions have been loosened marriage […]
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Per a 2015 study, women initiate two-thirds of divorces. College-educated women initiate about 90% of them. These are statistics that should alarm anyone who is married. It may be that women are unhappier in their marriages then men are. If this is true, is divorce the answer? Could something else be going on? Women’s Empowerment […]
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Marriage is for grownups. This doesn’t mean you are over 18 or some other arbitrary age of majority. It means that you are emotionally ready to commit to creating a life with someone else. Because, while marriage can and should be about love, it’s about so much more. And one of those things is emotional […]
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Do you have a Chore War going on in your house? If you’re like a lot of couples, you do. There are lots of reasons this is happening—unspoken expectations, “traditional” gender roles, the path of least resistance, and more. But whatever the reason, if one of you feels like there is an imbalance, the seeds […]
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The best gift you can give your children is to take care of your marriage. But marital satisfaction goes down during the child-rearing years. It’s hard to create a balance that honors you, your marriage, and your children. But it’s not impossible. One way is to create a calm, consistent, and loving household where you’re […]
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For many, this time of year can be really stressful. And that’s even without a pandemic. Instead of feeling joyous and full of good cheer, you may be feeling anxious instead. Oh, you might put a smile on your face and commit to following all the usual traditions, but you’re already exhausted by overwhelm. And […]
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Anger and I are old friends. And if my husband wasn’t the calm, level-headed guy that he is, we wouldn’t still be married. Because anger can be very destructive. Used properly, it can also bring necessary change. It is a powerful emotion and not all anger is created equal. Author and Clinical Psychologist Dr. Kelly Flannagan explains […]
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Unless you are extremely lucky, you have experienced trauma in your life. So has your spouse. How you each respond to your own experience is impacting your relationship. The first step is to acknowledge your own history—not to compare, minimize, or dismiss it. The next step is to take charge of it. Managing and even […]
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Most of us think of trauma as big events like war, severe accident, or abuse. But trauma is much more than that. It can be much less dramatic incidents like a childhood surgery or even a small fender bender. So, in reality, you probably have experienced some form of trauma in your life. It’s fairly […]
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There are two conflicting thoughts about true love. First, that it should solve all of our problems and always be easy. And second, that love is hard. But both can’t be true. The reality is that neither of them are. Love, like most things, changes over time. Accepting that and then consciously taking action to make your […]
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Having a successful marriage is a balancing act, much like riding a bicycle. You must develop the ability to even out the pull between keeping yourself separate and disappearing into togetherness. This is the biggest challenge to marriage that there is. But, much like riding a bike, once you get a feel for that balance, […]
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Who do you talk to about your sex life? I mean, really talk about it. If you’re like most people, the answer is probably no one. You might not even talk about it with your partner. You might disagree or actually fight about it. Issues around sex and intimacy are one of the two top […]
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Most people don’t go into marriage thinking it will end. At least, I hope they don’t. But there are a lot of ups and downs even in the best marriages. How do you know if the downs are really a sign that the marriage is unworkable? What are the things that are helpful to think […]
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You may think that you and your spouse don’t communicate. But the truth is, you are never not communicating. It might be that you don’t like what the other is expressing. It might be that you are communicating at different levels. It might be that the surface level way you normally communicate leaves you feeling […]
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Money makes the world go around but it can be hurting your marriage. Disagreements over finances is one of the top two issues that cause the most problems in marriage. Some even find it harder to talk about than the other top issue—intimacy. So, if dealing with money causes stress for you and your spouse, […]
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Do you love your partner but aren’t sure you’re in love with them anymore? Do you wonder where the magic has gone? Do you worry it won’t ever come back? Are you settling for being roommates when you want so much more? If so, then Jeff Forte, executive and PEAK Performance Coach and author of The […]
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With all that’s happening in the world right now, are you making time for intimacy? This may seem like a trick question but the amount of sex people are having has been diminishing in recent years. Some of this has to do with more people living alone, but high levels of stress and worry may […]
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You might remember this famous line from the book and movie Love Story—“Love means never having to say you’re sorry.” You might even want to believe it because apologizing can be really awkward. And, besides, your partner knows you didn’t mean it and that you really love them. NOPE! When you can’t or don’t apologize it […]
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All couples disagree but how they disagree determines the overall health and happiness of their relationship. Annoyances, assumptions, and blame are some of the common, but harmful, behaviors couples engage in. Maybe this describes you or your partner. The good news is that disagreements don’t have to turn into arguments. You can learn how to […]
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How to Talk So Your Partner Will Listen Good communication alone will not ensure a Happily Ever After marriage but, without it, you don’t stand a chance. One of the biggest challenges couples face is learning how to communicate effectively. As with most things, it’s easier to look at where the other person is falling […]
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Uncertain times, such as living in a pandemic, present challenges for individuals and couples alike. But those challenges aren’t necessarily bad. Sheltering together, whether you’re in a Turbo Relationship or you’ve been together for years, provides an opportunity to get to know each other in a deeper, more authentic way. And no matter what you […]
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You, like all of us, are a creature of your past. Everything that has happened to you forms who you are in this moment—for good or ill. It isn’t so much the events of your life but the stories you tell yourself about those events that matters the most. And those stories live mostly in […]
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Nothing thrives on neglect and your marriage is no different. But it’s easy to let things go because “it’s not that bad” or other things take priority—your kids, job, social media. If you have lost touch with each other, being stuck together without your usual outlets may feel like torture. But it doesn’t have to. […]
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Most people have a limited definition of intelligence—the kind that is measured by IQ tests. And that kind of intelligence can serve you well in many aspects of your life. The one place where it can be a problem is in your relationships. It can keep you from understanding your spouse and from truly connecting with them. […]
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The statistics are sobering. Couples deal with a serious issue on average for six years before seeking help. Only 19% of divorced couples sought counseling before signing the papers. Yet, counseling is effective for 70% of couples who seek it out. If you had a 70% chance of saving your family, home, and savings, why […]
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Good communication is the key to a successful marriage. It is the basis for solving problems, connecting with your spouse on a deep level, and creating a life together that honors you both. But it is one of the biggest challenges for far too many couples. Maybe for you as well. It’s also one of […]
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Marriage as an institution has evolved over the course of time. The Women’s Movement freed wives to live more completely as people. Ideally, it would have freed husbands too. Unfortunately, society has been slow to let men out of their box. But in order to have equal partnerships most want their marriages to be, men […]
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Are you in love with being in love? Many are. But this just leads to a never-ending search for a lasting high. Like any addiction, it becomes a diversion that ultimately does harm. To you. To your spouse. And to your marriage. But what if you could value ‘love’ as much as you value being […]
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Do you believe that marriage takes work? Do you believe that marriage is the place sex goes to die? Do you believe that you need to compromise and sacrifice who you are for your marriage to work? Do you believe that this is the best you’re going to get so just accept it? STOP. NOW. […]
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Your reflexive reaction might be to say YES! But what if you were wrong. There are all kinds of lies and betrayals—infidelity, money secrets, addiction, omitting pertinent details because they weren’t specifically asked about. None of it is okay and all of it hurts. When you’re in that pain, it may be very difficult to […]
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You’ve asked your partner to do something different. Or, maybe, your partner has asked you to. The two of you might even agree that the change will help your relationship. You also agree to make the change and then, …. you find yourself doing the same old thing. No matter how inclined you are to […]
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Are you angry and frustrated with your spouse because they keep doing things that annoy you? You’ve told them it bugs you, but they continue to do it anyway. So who’s to blame? The truth is you both are. This is just one example of the importance of having clear and consistent boundaries. Relationship coach […]
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It’s relatively easy to break a single stick but much harder to break a bundle of them. That’s the concept behind marriage. It’s easier to face things with someone than by yourself. But what if you’re looking at your spouse right now and don’t feel supported? What if you’ve asked them to do something different […]
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Intimacy makes me think of old math classes about sets. Sex is often a part of intimacy, but intimacy does not always include sex. This may be confusing to many who think they are one and the same. The desire for intimacy—really being known by another person—is why many of us got married. So why […]
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There’s a common belief that women are more interested in the health of their relationships than men are. The problem: it’s not true. Women have been encouraged, sometimes to their detriment, to be in touch with their emotional side. Men—not so much. But most guys want to be good partners and good parents. They’ve just […]
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Under non-pandemic circumstances, it’s not unusual to question whether you married the right person. But after being in close quarters for weeks, this idea may be gaining steam. It’s just the wrong question. A good marriage provides a sense of security and happiness. But too many people don’t know the things to do to have […]
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Do you and your partner have difficulty communicating? Is it harder now you’re stuck together with no end in sight? If you said, “Yes”, you’re not alone. Good communication is a necessary component of a successful relationship. It builds trust and a sense of security between the two of you. Unfortunately, most couples communicate at […]
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Author David Augsberger has said that “Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable”. And, he’s right. Most of us want to feel like we are heard and understood by the person we have chosen to share our life with. This is especially true in these […]
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Yes, the world is a bit crazy right now. It’s said that the Chinese word for crisis is the same as the word for opportunity. Whether that’s really true doesn’t change the sentiment. Most of the things that distracted from focusing on your marriage are on hold so why not take this crisis as an […]
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As much as you might not like it, adversity is a part of life. It isn’t something to be feared but something to be managed. The best way to do that is straight on. But it can be scary if you don’t know how. Kimberly Irvine, mom, speaker, and author of Stronger: Becoming My Own […]
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Are you in love with being in love or are you wanting to make love last for the long haul? Those are only different questions to a degree. It isn’t necessary to “fall” out of love as much as it is to step through it. That’s because being “in love” is just the first part […]
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It’s commonly said that marriage should be 50/50. In my estimation, it should be 100/100. You each put in as much as you can. But what does that actually mean? I used to tell my kids that I would treat them equivalently, not equally. I think that’s a pretty good approach to marriage, too. And […]
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One thing many spouses want more than anything is to make their partner’s happy. It’s a wonderful idea that is impossible to achieve but people keep trying. They turn themselves inside out to not disappoint, annoy, hurt, or otherwise cause distress. They try to please all day every day. Does this sound like you? Not […]
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Do you think there is a difference between marriage and courtship behavior? Many do. The problem—that courtship behavior is the behavior that matters. Far too often, the wedding is seen as the most important moment when it actually is just the beginning. Nothing thrives on neglect and your marriage is no different. Marriage and […]
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I’ve long held the position that you can’t really avoid conflict. At best you can postpone it and the longer you put off dealing with it, the worse it will be. Part of the challenge is getting past the idea that conflict is inherently bad. In truth, it is a part of daily life. A […]
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The first marriage you experienced was your parents’. For many, that wasn’t a good thing. If you are a child of divorce, statistically you have a greater chance of getting divorced yourself. But you don’t have to be a statistic. Journalist Alexandra Frost explains how she has been able to break the divorce cycle in […]
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If you google relationship challenges, what pops up might lead you to wonder if your relationship is abusive. Or maybe convince you that you’re married to a narcissist. While these terms seem to be all the rage these days, they are incredibly misleading. Luckily, they are also rare, but you won’t get that from your […]
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Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and so the anxiety begins. Expectations can be high but that doesn’t necessarily spell doom. You can easily capture each other’s hearts. When relationships are new, there is a lot of focus on doing things for each other. Over time, this behavior tends to fade out. But all […]
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Romance is great but it is not enough to sustain a healthy marriage. Successful relationships need more than chocolates, flowers, and candlelit dinners to thrive. It’s the small, everyday actions that will allow yours to thrive. Some of those actions are for your partner, but some you must give to yourself. Dr. Dravon James, a […]
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You’ve asked your partner to do something different. Or, maybe, your partner has asked you to. The two of you might even agree that the change will help your relationship. You also agree to make the change and then, …. you find yourself doing the same old thing. No matter how inclined you are to […]
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Most couples have one—the fight you seem to have over and over again. You each can probably repeat the entire thing all by yourself. Maybe you have it once a month. Maybe once a week. But it is exhausting, not to mention hurtful. Relationship coach and blogger, Matt Fray, explains how his STFU Method can […]
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If you work for yourself, you most likely have a business plan, even if it’s only loose one. If you work for someone else, you probably have set performance goals. But when it comes to your marriage, you’re probably rudderless—no set goals, maybe not even a general direction. This can spell doom for the long-term […]
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If you are part of a couple, you have a built-in scapegoat. Any issue could be resolved if your partner just did things your way. The problem with this belief is that your partner is thinking the same thing about you. So, you make demands, masquerading as suggestions or, worse, criticisms and nothing changes. In […]
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I hear it all the time, “It’s my job to make my partner happy”. Further discussion reveals that it’s actually not working. That’s because it can’t. Happiness is always an inside job. But there are things you can do to make you happier and, as a result, your marriage will be too. Stuart Motola, relationship […]
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Monogamy is often an assumption in marriage but that may be changing. Conscious Non-Monogamy is getting some attention but is it a good choice for you? There’s lots to consider and the verdict isn’t in yet. It’s not just you and your partner that need to be on board and the concept of “conscious” can’t […]
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Relationships, even good ones, involve dealing with disagreements and disappointments. Unfortunately, the hurt that results can bubble over into destructive resentment. What you want is to be understood but, getting your partner to that place is often extremely difficult and ultimately frustrating. Psychotherapist, interfaith minister, and the author of the book . The Power of […]
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There’s a lot to take to heart in the “attitude of gratitude” movement. Focusing on what is going right is a big factor in your level of happiness. But simply focusing on the positive in your marriage may keep you from addressing things that need to be addressed for your marriage to thrive. This means […]
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Do you feel like you’re living the movie Ground Hog Day in your marriage? Are you having the same conversations over and over again with never any progress? Are you fast losing patience and, maybe, your love? Good news! Relationship expert and speaker Lisa Merlo-Booth is here to help you finally find a way forward […]
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Many people believe the adage that marriage is the place that sex goes to die. The truth is that married people have more and better sex on average than single people. But what if your marriage doesn’t meet the average? Yes, any long-term relationship can become stale. That, however, is a matter of choice not […]
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Divorce is on the decline—YAY!! Like most things, it’s more complicated than that. Yes, the rate of divorce is down but so is the rate of marriage. More than ever, marriage is a choice and many young people are not making this one. Living together and having a family without a formal commitment is an […]
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No, men aren’t from Mars and women aren’t from Venus. It just seems that way. I’ve always thought that expecting men and women to live together is a cosmic joke that really isn’t funny. Nowhere is this more apparent than when it comes to sex. Are all men constantly horny? Are women rarely that way? […]
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The key to a successful marriage is choosing your partner wisely. Unfortunately, this process is often hijacked by raw, animal sexual attraction. This often leads to great sex but not so great relationships. Yes, finding your spouse physically appealing is a plus. It’s just not enough to build a life on. It actually helps if […]
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Regular sex and deeper intimacy are two of the benefits of a good marriage. There are lots of jokes about marriage being a place where sex goes to die, but, if you are in a sexless marriage, it’s not at all funny. There are lots of reasons why this might be happening and it’s important […]
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Okay, maybe that’s just my take on the idea that a man and woman are supposed to live in harmony for many years. Not that I don’t think it’s possible. But there are some basics that need to be accepted by both people if it’s going to work. Being the mother of a son and […]
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We’re a nation of comparers. Do our job, house, kids, marriage stack up against our friends’, family’s, co-workers’? Unfortunately, most of us are comparing our reality to other people’s highlight reels. The question isn’t how we fare against others, but how content am I with my life? People get married for all kinds of reasons […]
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Research shows that married people have more and better sex than single people. Yes, it helps to have a potential partner. But that doesn’t always mean they are interested. This is just as true for men as it for women. Being present, willing, and ready to connect intimately is a choice. It’s a choice you […]
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In Anna Karenina, Tolstoy wrote, “Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” Unfortunately, many of us had some dysfunction in the homes where we grew up. Most of us accept it as “just the way it was” but that underestimates its impact on our current relationships. Who you […]
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I know, I know, it’s not even October and I’m talking about the holidays. I get it. I’m a “take one holiday at a time” gal and the Halloween decorations haven’t even been picked over yet. But, it’s never too early to develop a plan for getting through the end-of-year holiday season without losing your […]
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You’ve probably heard somewhere that we all either marry our mom or our dad. Since I had a great mother-in-law, this wasn’t a horrible thought for me. But what if you’re seeing your spouse as a reincarnation of your parent and that’s not a good thing? It’s important to know that it’s part of what […]
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To borrow from Archie Bunker, those were the days when girls were girls and men were men. In many ways, it’s good those days are gone. Men and women are moving past the traditional roles that stifled both genders. This has not been without consequence because some of that tradition is grounded in biology. This […]
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Women want men to be open and intimate. To share their thoughts and feelings. To really connect. Unfortunately, the capacity for intimacy that men are born with has been socialized out of them. The good news? It can be relearned. Randell Turner, Child and Family Therapist and founder of Unbreakable Bond, explains why this is […]
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Do you struggle to ask for (or receive) help? If you’re like many people, the answer is yes. We’ve been taught that independence and self-reliance are the ultimate goals. Asking for, in fact even needing, help is a form of weakness. But we all need help. True self-reliance is a myth. It also may be […]
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Marriage seems really scary to a lot of people. Maybe even you. Imagine if you knew that you had the power to make your marriage be however you want it to be. Well, you do! You come equipped with everything you need to live a happy, loving life, including having a great marriage. Rachel Henke, The […]
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If you live in fear of hurting your partner’s feelings, your marriage is being run by feelings—and not yours. Not being honest about how you feel or what you need means you are not being a partner in your marriage. You may have been taught that including you in the equation makes you selfish. But […]
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Conflict, like fighting, is a word that can be difficult to view as positive. Surprise! It can be. Change it to disagreement and it loses some of its power. Embrace it as a natural state between any two people (spouses included) and it becomes an opportunity to learn about each other. Mediator and author of […]
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You’ve asked your partner to do something different. Or, maybe, your partner has asked you to. The two of you might even agree that the change will help your relationship. You also agree to make the change and then, …. you find yourself doing the same old thing. No matter how inclined you are to […]
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Beauty may be only skin deep but being healthy isn’t. Having a healthy relationship requires both partners to be healthy—physically, emotionally, and mentally. Yes, vows are taken for better or worse, for richer or poorer, and in sickness and in health, but the former are easier to manage than the latter. All are also subjective, […]
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A recent study showed that the happiest, healthiest marriages are the ones where the relationship is made a top priority. Unfortunately, many people (especially women) think they must give up who they are for this to happen. The truth is, if you do this, you will doom your marriage to failure. Learning how to be […]
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Ever been shamed about having emotions? The truth is most of us have at one time or another. Our society worships at the altar of logic but the advertising industry exists because it aims at our emotions. Yes, emotions are messy. They are often confusing and painful. But they are also the glue that holds […]
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Every couple disagrees and these disagreements often escalate to arguments or, worse, out and out fights. Each of you is some combination of hurt, angry, and frustrated. You will calm down but how do you reconnect? How do you keep this from becoming a rift that undermines your relationship? How do you forgive and heal? […]
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Most couples never expect infidelity to occur in their relationships. But they also don’t really talk about it. It’s kind of taken for granted which is why it can be hard, but not impossible, to recover from. The best thing is for it to never happen in the first place. But, short of crossing one’s […]
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Like many either/or, black/white, yes/no options, the focus on whether masculinity is good or bad is a false choice. It is both and neither. That’s because, like most things, it is more complicated than that. The real focus shouldn’t be on an ill-defined concept, but on whether behavior is productive or not. There are harmful […]
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Marriage is no longer a requirement for social acceptance or financial security. Love is the reason most people state as the primary reason to enter this arrangement today. To the surprise of many, love is often not enough to create the equal partnership most couples desire. The ongoing battle of who does what around the […]
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Many marriages suffer due to the inability of spouses to balance their own needs as individuals with the needs of being part of a couple. But is it really a question of remaining independent versus becoming dependent? Can you be married and still hold on to who you are? What would that look like? Dr. […]
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One of the biggest challenges to a marriage is “right” fighting. If one of you is “right”, by definition the other must be wrong. Taken to its natural conclusion, this becomes a belief in your infallibility and sets in motion the demise of your relationship. You may think that your way of cutting up onions […]
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With apologies to Shakespeare, would a relationship by any other name be as sweet? The truth is that our entire lives are made up of relationships—romances, friendships, family, and work. They have their differences but there are also aspects common to all. The greatest common denominator is you. This conveys both power and opportunity. You […]
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In a patriarchal world, it can be hard to even acknowledge, let alone whip up any sympathy, for ways in which men struggle. When you’re at the top of the food chain, it’s hard to imagine any significant challenges getting in your way. Believe it or not, men’s struggle to access their feelings in an […]
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“Because we were in love” is the answer most people give to “Why did you get married?” Love is wonderful. Who doesn’t want to experience that warm, safe, passionate emotion? Unfortunately, love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy, successful relationship. So, stop hanging your happiness on the song lyric “love is all you […]
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Thinking about conflict, especially in your relationship, conjures up all kinds of unpleasant things. But it doesn’t have to. It may seem counter-intuitive but disagreeing with your partner can actually make your relationship stronger. Seeing these times as an opportunity to grow and learn more about each other turns what you’re avoiding into a win-win […]
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Vulnerability, especially emotional vulnerability, is all the rage right now. For many, it is also terrifying. For a very long time, vulnerability has been equated with weakness. Being vulnerable and, more importantly, showing vulnerability has not been celebrated. But the moment you begin to love someone, you become vulnerable. How you handle this will determine […]
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I’m sure you’ve heard the question, “Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?” Most people would say they want to be happy, but their actions say they want both. The problem is that isn’t possible. Yet people still keep trying. The result—personal unhappiness and distressed relationships. A better alternative, […]
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You disagree. You argue. You fight. Yet, nothing seems to get resolved. In fact, it just makes matters worse. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. All couples do some of this to one degree or another. But it’s never fun and often it’s hurtful. It can also change if you want it to. Dr. James Creighton, […]
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Do you bite your tongue for fear of rocking the boat? Do you stay quiet about your feelings in order to keep the piece? Do you find yourself saying, “If only my partner would ……, then everything would be okay?” If you’re doing any of these things, resentment has probably entered your relationship. If it […]
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It’s Tax Time! That statement causes many of us to break out into a cold sweat. It’s the one time of year that we can’t pretend about our finances. So, it’s often a time for money fights to break out. When you’re looking at the dollars and cents or, frequently, the lack of them it […]
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One of the worst things to ever happen to relationships was the movie Jerry MacGuire and the immortalized line, “You complete me.” The writers didn’t come up with this line, they merely amplified it a million times all over the world. It is not your partner’s job to “complete” you or to make you happy. […]
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“Rules, rules, rules, I’m so sick of rules.” So says Eliza Doolittle in the musical My Fair Lady. When it comes to marriage, many people either feel the same way or don’t realize marriage has rules to begin with. This is why so many marriages are less than they could be. Marriage isn’t for everyone […]
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Do you buy in to the accepted belief that a marriage only has a 50/50 chance to succeed? Do you believe that relationships are natural and if there are problems it means you’re with the wrong person? Would it surprise you to learn that embracing certain skills and behaviors can dramatically increase your chance of […]
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You and your partner have had another fight. Neither of you feel good about it. Damage was done and feelings are hurt. You don’t want to sweep it under the rug and pretend it didn’t happen, but you also hesitate to bring it up for fear of starting another one. You can’t move forward or […]
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The #MeToo Movement has been a long time in coming. But just because some men are louts and engage in toxic behavior, it’s not necessary to demonize authentic masculinity. Most men are good guys. While they should not carry the blame for the misbehavior of others, it doesn’t mean there aren’t positive actions they can […]
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It is often said that the three hardest words to say are, “I love you.” While those are necessary and appreciated in a marriage, they aren’t the most important ones. Being able and willing to say, “I am sorry”, with sincerity and consistency, is what is going to keep your marriage healthy and successful. Marriage […]
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Far too many people believe that relationships are natural. You meet someone, fall in love, plan a life together and go on autopilot. This is not a prescription for success. It’s a prescription for flying into the side of a mountain. That’s where many people find themselves at the beginning of every year. Wondering why […]
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Okay, paraphrasing a movie quote may be a bit cheesy but evidence shows most of us lie in some way shape or form to our partners, and they lie to us, this is an appropriate question. Now your first response may be, “I don’t lie.” And you may not look your partner in the eye […]
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It’s January. You’ve made it through the holidays– determined to make them great for your kids. Now you’ve entered what’s unofficially known as Divorce Month. The time of year when hands unclench, and fingers reach for the phone to dial a family law attorney. I get it. I don’t believe miserable and marriage should ever […]
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Science is learning what a lot of coaches and therapists already know—the key to a good life is having great relationships. It is the quality of your closest relationships that really matter. Unfortunately, too many people settle for mediocre relationships or, worse, ones that are actually harmful. But best-selling author, speaker, workshop leader, and […]
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Maybe not all recognize the reference to the phrase about a king, but it’s an appropriate paraphrasing for masculinity. Masculinity as a concept is not, nor should it be, dead. The rigidity that masculinity is often constrained by is, mercifully, being re-evaluated. This has ramifications for everyone as it is allowing men to embrace their […]
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Do you feel like you and your partner are ships that pass in the night? Do spend all your time and energy on everything other than your relationship? Do you only talk to each other about logistics or items on the to-do list? If so, then Kristen Manieri, writer, podcast host, and creator of DateNightGuide.com, […]
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Not so long ago, the measure of a man was how well he provided for his family. He didn’t need to be all touchy, feely. In fact, if he was, he lost manhood points. In the wake of the women’s movement and, more immediately, #MeToo, masculinity and what makes a real man is under intense […]
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Cicero had it right when he said, “Silence is one of the great arts of conversation.” This is because silence is sometimes golden. But at other times, staying quiet ends in resentment and distance. So how do you know when it’s better to speak up or hold your tongue? Dr. Aaron Ben-Ze’ev, Professor of Philosophy […]
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What’s your gut reaction when someone mentions counseling, specifically couples counseling? Is it, I’m not crazy? Things aren’t that bad? Tried it, or a friend tried it—didn’t work? The truth is that a majority of divorces could be avoided if couples sought help earlier rather than as a last resort. Maybe one of you made […]
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The official holiday has begun. Black Friday and Cyber Monday arrived with all the fanfare the retail world can muster. It’s also the time of year that guilt and/or comparisons kick in and budgets go out the window. And often along with it all—increased stress on many marriages. If money was just about the amount […]
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The concept of marrying for love is a relatively new one. And, while the idea of finding this connection with one specific person has been the stuff of love songs and romantic stories through the ages, the search for the soulmate has moved front and center. Does this magical person exist? Yes, and no. […]
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There’s a bumper sticker that my husband has adopted as his new mantra. It says, “Basically, don’t be a d*ck.” But this is often what happens when there is no accountability for bad behavior. Whether it’s dismissed as “locker room talk” or “boys will be boys”, it is doing damage to good men and healthy […]
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There are a lot of misconceptions about marriage that create fear for many people. Marriage takes a lot of work; it requires you to give up your independence; it’s a 50/50 crap shoot; and many others. If all those things were actually true, I would be scared of marriage too. But the truth is that […]
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For many, this time of year can be really stressful. Instead of being joyous and full of good cheer, many feel more like Ebenezer Scrooge. Oh, you might put a smile on your face but you’re exhausted by overwhelm and the intention of making everyone’s holidays happy whether they, or you, like it or not. […]
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Falling in love seems easy but it’s actually quite a complicated process. So much of what makes someone irresistible is the result of unseen forces picked up over your lifetime. You’re attracted to this person, not that one. You have a type. The same things go right, and wrong, in your relationships. While it may […]
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Marriage gets a bad rap. It’s the butt of many jokes and many believe it’s an archaic institution that needs to be ended. The truth is humans crave connection. The desire to love and be loved drives both reality and stories that have been told for centuries. Marriage is a formalization of that desire and, […]
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Is “Busy” your answer to the question, “How are you?” For a lot of us, that seems to be the standard response. Not only does it seem to be the new normal, it seems to be the new status symbol. But accepting this as a daily practice has its costs, especially to your marriage. If […]
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Let’s face it. It’s fun to be in love with love. Romance sells—everything from perfume to cars. Unfortunately, all the focus on romantic love sets many of us for failure at lasting love. That’s because too many people don’t know that romantic love is not enough. Moving past this first love into real love is […]
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The search for what keeps relationships thriving drives magazine sales but can seem as improbable as finding the Holy Grail. But no more. The truth is actually much simpler than many realize. Even better, it doesn’t even have anything to do with your partner. You have the ability to increase your influence and your attractiveness […]
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Women often accept the role as caretaker of their marriages. And many husbands let them. This sets up an imbalance that results in 67% of divorces being initiated by women. In truth, both partners have ownership in what the marriage looks like and responsibility for making it work. Frankly, neither gender has a monopoly on […]
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Being a man doesn’t mean being an unfeeling robot. That’s an outdated and very unhealthy box to put men in. Men feel. They just haven’t been encouraged to show it outside of sports. They also show emotion differently than women do so it can often be misunderstood or missed completely. But to be a […]
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Do you and your partner have difficulty communicating? If you said, “Yes”, you’re not alone. Good communication is a necessary component of a successful relationship. It builds trust and a sense of security between the two of you. Unfortunately, most couples communicate at what the surface level. They engage in what I call “information exchange”. […]
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Almost all relationships start out in a good place. Unfortunately, many of them don’t stay that way. Not much is worse than feeling alone when you’re in a relationship. But staying that way is a choice too many people make. Much of what they try to do to fix it doesn’t work. That’s because the […]
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Marriage used to be about societal and financial stability. It also was about continuing the species. Now it’s about love and personal satisfaction. In the olden days, everyone knew their roles, whether they liked them or not. Today, marriage seems to be a free-for-all and, in some viewpoints, in free-fall. But, it doesn’t have to […]
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There are all types of betrayal—infidelity, financial, porn, abuse, lying, and more. They all hurt. A lot. The pain can be so bad you may feel like it can’t possibly stop. Your life as you know it is over. But what if it doesn’t mean your relationship has to. I know, “Once a cheater, always […]
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Rules for romantic relationships, especially marriage, have been in a state of flux. Feminism and the #MeToo movement have brought dramatic changes. Some of that has been positive but it also has brought about real challenges. Concepts of masculinity and femininity have been under the microscope with suggestions that they no longer serve any purpose. […]
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Research shows that married people have more and better sex than single people. Yes, it helps to have a potential partner. But that doesn’t always mean they are interested. This is just as true for men as it for women. Being present, willing, and ready to connect intimately is a choice. It’s a choice you […]
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Your reflexive reaction might be to say YES! But what if you were wrong. There are all kinds of lies and betrayals—infidelity, money secrets, addiction, omitting pertinent details because they weren’t specifically asked about. None of it is okay and all of it hurts. When you’re in that pain, it may be very difficult to […]
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Have you ever followed the “don’t go to bed angry” advice with your partner? How did it work out for you? If you’re like most people, not only did your issue not get resolved, it probably ended up in a fight. There are lots of things wrong with this advice. Social-personality psychologist and the author […]
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You hear it all the time: Marriage takes work. But what if there was something you could easily do everyday that would make it easier? Guess what? There is. It doesn’t cost any money and you don’t even need to leave your house. Dr. Erin Leyba, Licensed Clinical Social Worker and the author of Joy […]
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Expectations are the gremlins of relationships. This is true mostly because our expectations live in our subconscious. They develop over our lifetimes and masquerade as truth and belief, but we act as if they are real. Even positive expectations can create challenges for us. Dr. Wendy Patrick, an attorney with a PhD. in theology, explains […]
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Do you ever feel like you’re in a “push me/pull you” relationship with your partner? Are you afraid your relationship will end so you either hang on to your partner with everything you’ve got or hold them at arm’s length so it won’t hurt so much when it ends? When things aren’t going great, do […]
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The quality of our relationships determine how content we are with our lives. So, what happens in marriage and other romantic relationships is important. How both men and women experience them matters. Unfortunately, too many people believe that men either don’t care about them or their perceptions aren’t as important as women’s.
Martin Brossman, author of Finding Our Fire-Enhancing Men’s Connection to Heart, Passion and Strengthand the creator of The Men’s Inquiry, addresses how men can be included and what challenges need to be addressed to make this happen.
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Having a successful marriage is a balancing act, much like riding a bicycle. You must develop the ability to even out the pull between keeping yourself separate and disappearing into togetherness. This is the biggest challenge to marriage that there is. But, much like riding a bike, once you get a feel for that balance, maintaining it becomes relatively effortless. The key to finding this equilibrium is to know how and when to ‘give’ and when you need to say ‘no’. Dr. Berit Brogaard, Director of the Brograard Lab for Multisensory Research at the University of Miami and the author of On Romantic Love reveals how to master this process so you can have a successful marriage. Send your thoughts and comments to Lesli and share the show with your friends on Facebook and Twitter.
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When relationships are new, there is a lot of focus on doing things for each other. Over time, this behavior tends to fade out. But all relationships are reciprocal; they are a function of reasonable give and take. How each person perceives this reciprocity will determine how happy they feel with the relationship.
Dr. David Ludden, professor of Psychology at Georgia Gwinnett College, reveals what’s behind this important relationship factor and how it can help you strengthen your marriage. Send your comments or suggestions to Lesli and share the show on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. You can also get your individual questions about marriage answered.
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It’s said that honesty is the best policy. Since intimacy is based on trust and trust is based on honesty, this is a good idea if you want a good relationship. But secrets and lies and the betrayal they cause can bring about the death of a marriage. Sometimes this happens immediately and sometimes it just takes the passion out of it.
Marriage and Family Therapist Dr. Darlene Lancer reveals what you need to know about the importance of honesty in a marriage. Send your comments to Lesli and share the show on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.
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Having a good relationship is possible, especially if you know what works and what doesn’t. Some things are more important than others and some commonly accepted actions do more harm than good.
Clinical Psychologist and author of Paradoxical Strategies in Psychotherapy, Dr. Leon Seltzer identifies the behaviors that have the biggest payoff.
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While not all fights are about money, and not all couples struggle with this issue, it is at the heart of some of the hardest and most heated ones. You might not think that the straightforward numbers in a bank account would create such problems. After all, it’s simple addition and subtraction, right? Not for a lot of marriages; maybe even yours. Elizabeth Wilson, financial coach and founder of Find Your Zeroes, brings clarity to the issue and provides practical ways couples can take charge of their finances and put an end to money hassles. Send your comments and suggestions about the show to Lesli. Share it with your friends on Facebook and Twitter.
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Good communication alone will not ensure a Happily Ever After marriage but, without it, you don’t stand a chance. One of the biggest challenges couples face is learning how to communicate effectively. As with most things, it’s easier to look at where the other person is falling short than to look in the mirror and figure out our part. You’ve been talking since you were little and, on the surface, it seems a pretty easy system. You talk, the other person listens and vice versa. So why do so many couples struggle? Kirk Honda, professor of couples and family therapy at Antioch University and the host of Psychology in Seattle, explains the common pitfalls of communication.
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Despite all the Facebook and Instagram posts, no couple has it all together all the time. Not even the experts get it right all the time. Every marriage runs into challenges—some fairly common and some unique to the couple. It’s what a couple does during these times that will determine the success or failure of the relationship. Relationship counselors Linda and Charlie Bloom are no exception. In their new book, That Which Doesn’t Kill Us: How One Couple Became Stronger at the Broken Places, they reveal their story in an authentic and hopeful way.
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There’s a common belief that women are more interested in the health of their relationships than men are. The problem: it’s not true. Women have been encouraged, sometimes to their detriment, to be in touch with their emotional side. Men—not so much. But most guys want to be good partners and good parents. They’ve just been trying to do it with one hand tied behind their back. Men are half the population and half of the relationships.
Marriage has evolved as an institution; mostly as a result of women demanding the rules change. This has left a lot of men at a loss for what their role now is. Kerry Lusignan, therapist and Director of the Northampton Center for Couples Therapy, has some great information for specific things men can do to improve their relationships.
If you’re one of those guys, I invite you to check out The Hero Husband Project. If you’d like to know more, contact Lesli today.
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The great Irish play write Oscar Wilde said, “Remarriage is the triumph of hope over experience.” But that is the power of love and wanting to build a life with someone. The challenge comes in when it isn’t just you and your true love. But you, them, your respective exes, and, most importantly, any children. It isn’t that you shouldn’t find new love. It’s just that the building of a new family needs to be undertaken with care. To explore the potential pitfalls and how to minimize them, Dr. Patricia Papernow, Senior Training faculty member at the National Stepfamily Resource Center and the author of the new book Surviving and Thriving in Stepfamily Relationships is here to share here extensive wisdom on this topic.
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The good news—divorce rates are dropping. The bad news—it’s because fewer people are deciding to marry in the first place. The demise of marriage has been predicted for years but the speed with which this is happening is accelerating. Marriage as an institution has changed through the years and, mostly, that’s a good thing. But, does it need to be abolished? Does it no longer have any redeeming qualities? Well, Dr. Kelly Flanagan, Licensed Clinical Psychologist and author, reveals why marriage is still important and how it is unjustly blamed for its shortcomings.
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When most people hear the word “intimacy”, they automatically think “SEX”. Unfortunately, that is a very limiting interpretation of the word, and the behavior. Intimacy is about knowing and being known by another. It can be physical, yes. But it can also be emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. The deepest intimacy, and what most of us want in our marriages, encompasses all of these areas. Dr. Mariana Bockarova, author and researcher at the University of Toronto, identifies the factors that define real intimacy and suggests ways you can have more of it in your marriage.
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