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In this insightful episode I am joined by the hosts of Homeschool Unrefined, Angela and Maren. We dive deep into their personal journeys transitioning from homeschooling to public schooling with their children. As seasoned homeschoolers with a combined experience of over a decade, they share the challenges, surprises, and rewards that have come with this significant shift.

Episode Highlights:

1. Introduction to Homeschool Unrefined:

   • Meet Angela and Maren, the voices behind Homeschool Unrefined.
   • A brief history of their homeschooling journey and how they transitioned into podcasting.

   • Angela's Journey:

   • Life in Minnesota with three teens: 19, 17, and 15.

   • Reflecting on 10 years of homeschooling and the decision to move her children into public high school.

   • Maren's Journey:

   • From teaching in a classroom to homeschooling her four children: 17, 15, 15, and 13.

   • Navigating the complexities of homeschooling with neurodiverse children and how that influenced their learning styles.

   • Homeschooling to Public School Transition:

   • The decision-making process behind the shift from homeschool to public school.

   • The importance of empowering children to take ownership of their education and advocate for their needs.

   • Challenges and Lessons Learned:

   • The mental shift required for parents when moving from a structured classroom environment to a more flexible homeschooling approach.

   • How their children adapted academically and socially in the public school system.

   • Reflections on Teaching and Education:

   • Insights from their experiences as former classroom teachers and how that influenced their homeschooling approach.

   • Discussing the balance between academic rigor and fostering a love of learning.

   • Maintaining Core Values:

   • How their family values and educational philosophies have remained intact despite the shift to public schooling.

   • The ongoing role of homeschooling principles in their children's education and personal growth.

   • Practical Advice for Families:

   • Tips for parents considering a similar transition from homeschooling to traditional schooling.

   • The importance of flexibility, understanding your child's unique learning needs, and maintaining a focus on holistic development.
   • Reassuring advice on the long-term benefits of homeschooling and how it sets children up for success.

   • Final Thoughts:

   • Embrace Variety: It's okay to have multiple interests and hobbies. Trying new things adds richness to life and helps you discover more about yourself.

   • Learning is Personal: Everyone learns differently, and that's something to be celebrated. Finding what works best for you is key to feeling good in your own skin, mind, and body.
   • Modeling Curiosity: As lifelong learners, we set an example for our children. Curiosity and self-care are powerful tools for personal growth.
   • Confidence in Your Path: Trust in your unique journey. The system might not always fit you, and that's okay. It's not about you—it's about the system. Continue to explore and adapt learning methods that

Resources Mentioned:

• Book: Think Differently About Learning: A Homeschool Where Children and Parents Thrive
• Homeschool Unrefined Website
• Instagram

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Am I Doing Enough?

This is a question that plagues all homeschoolers from time to time. In this episode, Robyn Robertson of Honey! I’m Homeschooling the Kids and Kelly Edwards of 90-Minute School Day conclude their 4-part “How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler” summer conversation series.

What is ‘enough’? How do we define it? How do we know if we are falling behind? What is ‘behind’?

Listen-in as this topic is broken down into three steps to debunk the fears or to notice an area that needs change. Then we share the 4 ingredients to include in your homeschool to enact that move.

This conversation guides you in shifting from wondering if you’re doing enough to feeling contentment and peace, knowing “I am enough” in my homeschooling.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

“Escape” (Pina Colada Song)

Dino Spiral Reel - Am I Doing Enough?

Assault Bike

Get your Certified Awesome Homeschool Parent Card Freebie!

Honey, I’m Homeschooling the Kids podcast

Honey, I’m Homeschooling the Kids patreon

90-Minute School Day podcast

90-Minute School Day in the Life community - Open House + Workshop Tuesday, July 23rd at 11 AM. Join the waitlist for the workshop link.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:52 Beach Days and Pina Coladas

00:08:37 Shifting Perspectives on Standards

00:10:38 Learning from Life's Lessons

00:14:46 Model Positive Behaviors

00:17:07 Finding Abundance in Homeschooling

00:20:23 Learning Even When Plans Fail

00:24:29 Speaking to Ourselves with Compassion

00:27:32 Aligning Actions with Why and Values

00:28:32 Acknowledging Common Challenges

00:28:48 Fear of Letting Go in Academics

00:30:21 Importance of Rest and Rhythms

00:31:02 Assessing and Recognizing Seasonality

00:32:23 Embracing Community for Support

00:33:41 Changes in Children Through Ages

00:38:26 Finding White Space in Life

00:40:43 Redefining What "Enough" Means

00:41:19 Finding Joy in Homeschooling

00:54:44 Building a Supportive Community

00:56:25 Upcoming Podcast Guests

00:58:01 Embracing the Process of Learning

01:01:18 Creating Inspiring Homeschool Environments

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This episode is part 2 of 3 of our LIVE summer conversation series on "How to Be an Awesome Homeschooler."

Kelly Edwards from “90-Minute School Day” and Robyn Robertson of “Honey! I’m Homeschooling the Kids” dive into the complexities of choosing and using curriculum in homeschooling or not using curriculum at all! They discuss the myths and expectations surrounding curriculum, the importance of understanding your family's unique needs, and how to balance structure with the freedom of learning. They also explore ways to make curriculum work for you, rather than feeling controlled by it.

Tune-in to hear insights for both new and seasoned homeschoolers, emphasizing the importance of connection, communication, and flexibility in education.

Would you like to join the next conversation LIVE?

Sign-up here to join our Summer Conversation Series!

Save the date for our upcoming final conversation, hosted LIVE at 11 AM EDT:

July 16th - How Do I Know If I'm Doing Enough?

Other Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Wild + Free conference in Sept.

Honey, I’m Homeschooling the Kids podcast

Honey, I’m Homeschooling the Kids patreon

90-Minute School Day podcast

90-Minute School Day in the Life community

Wild Math

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Timestamps:

00:00 Intro

04:43 Live Convo

38:45 Conclusion

40:10 Join Us Next Week

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Welcome to "How to Be an Awesome Homeschooler!”

In this episode, we dive into the joys and challenges of homeschooling. We ask the following questions:

• What does it mean to be successful in homeschooling?
• How does that definition vary for each family?
• What are you afraid of (in homeschooling)?
• What does control have to do with it?
• What can we do to help ourselves?

Robyn and Kelly share personal stories and insights on maintaining connection, open communication, and understanding family values. They emphasize the importance of reflecting on your homeschooling journey, addressing fears, and ensuring that your goals align with your family's needs. The significance of autonomy and self-advocacy for children is also discussed, especially as they grow older.

Join us for a heartfelt and enlightening discussion, and don't forget to sign-up to join us LIVE for this continuing discussion.

Sign-up here to join our Summer Conversation Series!

Upcoming Conversations, hosted LIVE at 11 AM EDT:

July 9th - Curriculum Conundrum: Dispelling Myths, Embracing Freedom

July 16th - How Do I Know If I'm Doing Enough?

Whether you're a seasoned homeschooler or just starting out, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice to help you navigate your homeschooling path successfully.

Other Resources:

Wild + Free conference in Sept.

Honey, I’m Homeschooling the Kids podcast

Honey, I’m Homeschooling the Kids patreon

90-Minute School Day podcast

90-Minute School Day in the Life community

Time Stamps

00:00 Introduction to How to Be An Awesome Homeschooler

01:35 Building Community and Introductions

02:02 Understanding Success in Homeschooling

02:54 Defining Success and Self-Evaluation

05:50 Realigning Goals with Why We Homeschool

09:31 Evolving Expectations and High Standards

12:40 Facing Fears and High Expectations

15:10 Overcoming Fear of Failure in Homeschooling

17:43 The Fear of Failing as a Parent

20:03 Reflecting on Homeschooling and its Values

22:36 Reflection and Reevaluation in Homeschooling

25:16 Navigating Teenage Challenges and Communication

27:25 Reanchoring Our Homeschool Goals

30:10 Closing Remarks and Looking Ahead

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In this lively podcast episode, Kelly Edwards and Robyn Robertson share their journey as homeschooling advocates and creators of the How to Be an Awesome Homeschooler summit series. They talk about meeting on Clubhouse during the pandemic, bonding over homeschooling, and creating the summit. Reflecting on their past summits, they discuss themes like confidence, connection, resilience, and purpose.

Robyn talks about her children attending school full-time after a life change and transitioning to working in alternative education. Kelly, a homeschooling mom to three neurodiverse children, discusses deschooling and balancing structured and unstructured learning. They share excitement for future endeavors like attending conferences and reviving their podcast to explore the evolving landscape of homeschooling. The speaker is excited about plans for their podcast and community, including a community launch for engaging conversations and solo casts with guests. They share plans for an upcoming summit with live Zoom conversations on homeschooling topics, emphasizing community engagement and conversation format. Discussing fears and challenges in homeschooling, they touch on compliance requirements, partner disagreements, and the need for flexibility. They create a relatable atmosphere with personal anecdotes, emphasizing shared experiences, support, and community in the homeschooling journey. They delve into misconceptions and challenges of homeschooling, stressing individualized learning over rigid structures and relationship-focused education. Emphasizing curiosity, exploration, and embracing mistakes, they differentiate education, learning, and schooling, highlighting the importance of strong family relationships and internal motivation for lifelong learning. They invite listeners to join live podcast episodes to further explore homeschooling topics and conclude with anticipation for engaging dialogue and community support. 00:00:00 Introduction 00:02:18 How We Met 00:06:52 Life Changes 00:10:01 Reflections on Life 00:15:33 Learning is Life 00:20:25 Launching a Community 00:23:17 Reimagining the Summit 00:28:55 Getting Ready for the Podcast Series 00:30:05 Unpacking the Concept of Home Learning 00:32:47 Dealing with Challenges in Homeschooling 00:36:19 Navigating Challenges in Homeschooling 00:37:30 Understanding the Role of School in Education 00:41:25 Defining Education, Schooling, and Learning 00:42:59 Exploring Extrinsic and Intrinsic Motivation 00:44:21 Tailoring Education to Individual Needs 00:51:22 Reflecting on the Homeschooling Journey 00:52:06 Rethinking Education and Learning 00:55:06 Focusing on How to Succeed in Homeschooling 00:55:28 Embracing the Process of Learning 00:56:21 Looking Forward to Future Conversations

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Homeschool and Unschool Q&A

Are you considering taking this homeschooling or unschooling path but you've come to a standstill?

Are you having doubts about your ability to homeschool or a lack of confidence in unschooling?

How do you juggle homeschool and work? What about working full time?

How can we best support reading and writing skills?

I invited a few of my homeschool mama friends to join me on this Homeschool and Unschool Q&A episode.

Liana Francisco is a grown Unschooler that now Unschools her son. She is a multi-passionate entrepreneur who was unschooled from birth to 16 when she started college full time. She is 40 years old, so she was unschooled way back in the day when you still got the evil eye from the mail man and grocery store clerks.

Liana Francisco has a vegan wholesale food business, a consulting business, and a YouTube channel where she teaches moms with young kids how to make plant-based eating EASY with a system. She also teaches moms how to hack homemaking for more freedom AND an organized family.

Kelly Edwards is the creator of the 90-Minute School Day. The 90-Minute School Day method connects children with learning in their natural environment: at home with their family.

Kelly is passionate about home education, connecting families through attachment, learning as a lifestyle and helping children (and parents) identify their purpose. Kelly is entering her 9th year as a homeschool mom. She lives in the Shenandoah Valley of WV with her husband and 3 girls ages 13, 6, and 3. She is a licensed foster parent, successful entrepreneur, and community citizen. She uses her personal and professional experience to guide the homeschooling parent with a framework and system to overcome the overwhelm that affects each of us. You can learn more about her by visiting www.90minuteschoolday.com or follow her on Instagram at @90minuteschoolday.

In This Episode- We Came For You-And Your Questions

This episode is dedicated to answering your questions. Although we did not get to all of the questions, we did our best answering and offering examples, and sharing our personal experiences. Our answers reflected our lives in neurodiversity, infancy to adulthood, homeschooling and unschooling.

These are the questions we answered:

1. My kids don't engage in reading...how could I support him to feel confident to start?

2. My son learns skills, for example, reading when it becomes useful to him. I worry that he may not find a need to write because everything is typed these days. Should I worry?

3. How do you handle doubting yourself? I started out a Charlotte Mason purist a few years ago and found your podcast and unschooling 2 years ago. Have been loving and seeing so much growth and curiosity but I find myself wondering if I'm doing enough and fall back into doing structured Charlotte Mason when I feel in doubt. Any tips on staying confident in unschooling?

4. I want to homeschool my 4 kids (9,7,5,3) but I don't feel like the smartest person. Now it is fine, but later?

5. I have a 1 year old but I'm already thinking about homeschooling plans. Currently going back to work; worried if I'll be able to sustain that goal when the time comes if I'm still working full time.

Resources

You can connect with Liana, Kelly and I each week in our online community on the Clubhouse app-Honey! I'm Homeschooling

Learn more about our annual spring homeschool summit~ How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler

Connect with Kelly on her website www.90minuteschoolday.com or Instagram @90minuteschoolday

Learn more about Kelly's lifestyle approach to education in this episode- Finding Freedom Within Structure.

You can connect with Liana on Instagram ~ @liana_francisco

You Tube- @HomeschoolMomLife

Her website~ https://www.lianafrancisco.com/

If you want to hear more of Liana’s story, then check out the first interview we ever did on this show~ Growing Up Unschooled.

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The Impacts of Technology on Learning

The world of learning today looks a lot different from the learning world that I grew up in.

When my kids were younger they loved the story I told of a memorable day in my first grade class when my teacher rolled a large machine into our classroom. As we sat there in silence, she announced that the contraption she had brought in was called a.... computer! And the entire class would get a chance to use it. You can imagine our excitement. The computer produced questions on the screen and we each took turns typing the answers. It was the first and only time we had access to a computer that year and for years to come. By the time I was in junior high school we had computer labs and classes using computers. By high school I even ventured to take a rudimentary programming class.

Fast forward to today and my home educated children can travel to countries they are interested in visiting via Virtual Reality.

They can take a University level class from an Ivy League school from the couch, for free.

They can get help refining their resume through a chat generative pre-trained transformer.

They can learn a new skill or technique for an infinite number of things via YouTube.

They have access to the world at their finger tips.

Technology has brought major shifts in learning.

Should we be excited about what the future holds for our learners?

Will homeschoolers and unschoolers have more access to opportunities previously held by education gatekeepers?

Do our technological tools bring dangers that we should be wary of?

How can we best support and protect our children from pitfalls? Or do we need to?

How can we create and foster educational programs and environments that will prepare our children for the future?

In This Episode- Technology, Digital Learning and Impacts on Learners

In this episode I spoke with Josh Davidson. Josh is a dad and founder of an award winning online learning program, Night Zookeeper. As the Managing Director of a digital platform that services families and in particular kids under the age of 12, I wanted to hear his insight on the influence of technology and digital learning on education, the job market and the future.

Technology has brought major shifts in learning. We explored a few of those shifts and shared our ideas on the good and bad.

Should we be excited about what the future holds for our learners?

Do our technological tools bring dangers that we should be wary of?

How can we best support or protect our children from dangers? Or do we need to?

How can we create and foster educational programs and environments that will prepare our children for the future?

What impacts will technology and Artificial Intelligence have on the job market?

I enjoyed Josh's viewpoint on technology and how it is shaping our future. His perspective is uplifting and pragmatic. He offers a good reminder that we are all really seeking solutions to problems. And as much as sometimes we may be drawn to worry about the bad, there is still a lot of good that we are contributing to the world.

Resources

Josh Davidson is the Founder and Managing Director of Night Zookeeper, the award-winning online language arts program designed to make learning fantastically fun for children ages 6-12. With a dedication to improving online education over the past 12 years, Josh has brought enthusiasm and passion to the field of education, offering an exciting learning experience beyond the confines of traditional classrooms.

Josh's pioneering spirit emerged during his MA in Digital Art, making him one of the trailblazers in the United Kingdom for this field of study. Leveraging his creative expertise, he has elevated online learning to new heights through Night Zookeeper. Every aspect of this innovative program reflects his commitment to fostering children's creativity, encouraging them to unleash their imagination by designing their own imaginative animals within an interactive world that ignites a love for reading and writing.

At the forefront of innovation and growth, Josh and the Night Zookeeper team have continuously pushed the boundaries of online education. Embracing the ever-evolving landscape of technology, they have seamlessly integrated cutting-edge solutions to keep up with the dynamic trends shaping the thriving world of technology and education. As a result, Night Zookeeper has emerged as a pioneer in its field, providing adaptable solutions that redefine the learning experience for children worldwide and encourages children to have fun whilst learning.

If you would like to learn more about the platform and program, go HERE. Josh referenced author Daniel Pink. https://www.danpink.com/I referenced Dr. Peter Gray and his work on the importance of kids playing modern day tools mentioned in his book Free To Learn.

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Overcoming Fears and Doubts

Homeschooling fears got you down? Parenting doubts keeping you paralyzed?

Does the worry and fear wear you down?

Erica Kesilman joined me on this episode to talk about the fears and doubts we face as homeschoolers and parents and how we can overcome them.

Erica helps parents grow strong family relationships without yelling, guilt or overwhelm. She utilizes trauma-sensitive, somatic, body-centered therapies for nervous system healing of complex developmental, psychological, neurological, or emotional challenges so you can realize inner security, safety, and optimal health and wellness. She does this through workshops, group programs or one-on-ones.

She has over 20 years of experience working with families in a wide range of capacities. Erica holds two M.Ed. degrees in Educational Administrations & Leadership, a B.A. in Clinical Psychology with Certifications in Trauma Coaching, Conscious Parenting, Somatic Attachment Therapies, EFT and Breathwork.

She is a homeschooling mom to 3.

In This Episode

In this episode Erica shares her own experiences of the fear of imperfections. From the classroom to unschooling wasn't as easy for her as you may think. Just because Erica has the education credentials doesn't mean it was a breeze. She's been working through the demands of perfectionism. Demands that compromised what is most important to her- the integrity of the relationship with her kids.

We talk about:

• The fear of imperfections and making mistakes and what to do when we were never modelled that for ourselves.
• How we can begin to go through the repair process with our kids
• Looking at how our child responds and how you respond when there is challenging behaviour
• Focusing on the "glimmers"
• Building in academics by working with the child
• Creating rhythms or patterns that can build the skills
• Inner Resources
• Soft Structure
• Conscious Parenting
• Going from automatic to intentional
• Self Forgiveness Practice

Resources To Share

If you would like to connect with Erica you can find her at https://ericakesilman.com/

Instagram @erica_kesilman

Facebook

Mentioned in the episode

Peter Gray Book- Free To Learn

Listen to my interview with Dr. Peter Gray HERE.

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The Unschooling Journey- From Childhood To Adulthood with Missy Willis

Missy is a mom to two, writer, and self-directed education advocate.

As a trained teacher, she imagined a life devoted to traditional education, but in 2007 she moved away from the standardized schooling model with her own kids and hasn’t looked back.

Let ‘em go Barefoot is the community and podcast she created to share stories, insights and research on conscious parenting and education. Her work has reached hundreds of thousands of people across the globe. What has emerged is a felt sense that we are in the midst of a Great Educational Awakening.

Missy is currently collaborating with another veteran unschooling mom, Ann Hansen of Inner Parent Coaching, to create a supportive community for the next generation of unschooling parents.

A foundational principle of their work is: The Future of Education is not in the Classroom

Find out more or to get involved at www.letemgobarefoot.com or on Instagram @letemgobarefoot

In This Episode

This is the second time Missy has been featured on my podcast. (She has also co-hosted excellent conversations in my Homeschool Club)

I wanted to bring her back on the show to hear her perspective on unschooling through the years. Her oldest is now an adult and her youngest is in her teens. (I suggest you listen to her first interview to hear more about her background in education and their unschooling beginning).

In this episode we explored the many layers of unschooling, learning and parenting.

• Peaceful Parenting and open communication in unschooling
• How she has has approached academics in unschooling
• What helped their family to continue unschooling in the later years- getting clear on the why
• Recognizing the ups and downs and the challenges
• Unschooling into Post Secondary- creating portfolios, dual enrolment, college entry and career tracks
• Building experiences, adventures and engaging with the world
• The research- Self Determination Theory: Autonomy, Competence and Relatedness

Resources

You can reach Missy through Let Em Go Barefoot on social media and her website.

Website- Let Em Go Barefoot

Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/letemgobarefoot

Instagram- Instagram @letemgobarefoot

Self Determination Theory

If you would like to hear additional conversations with Missy, I recommend her first interview- Conscious Educator. Or, her recorded Honey! I’m Homeschooling Co-Hosted Conversations- Veteran Unschooling Moms Q&A, and Conscious Parenting & Deschooling.

For Support on your homeschooling and Unschooling journey join my Honey! I’m Homeschooling Patreon Community. Or connect with me One-On-One HERE.

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This community conversation was all about risk taking.

My friends Kelly Edwards and Tira Hunter joined me to lead this this community conversation on the importance of allowing our kids (and teens) to take risks and what that looks like in our lives.

In This Episode

Kelly Edwards is the founder of the 90 Minute School Day. She is a homeschooling mom to her 3 daughters, ages 15, 8 and 5. Tira Hunter unschooled her daughter Zoi who is now grown, runs a business and is a mom to Zoi, a professional artist.

This conversation brought our community of parents that come from different backgrounds, places, ages, races and circumstances to share their ideas, and ask questions.

Here's what we explored in this conversation:

• What is risk taking?
• Risky play- the benefits, examples and balancing safety
• Risk taking at different ages
• Trust- the element that makes risk okay
• Parent Fears
• Why are some parents more risk-adverse?
• Tools, knives, guns and independent experiences
• Risk and Race

And let's not forget, risk taking in choosing to homeschool!

Resources

We shared some fantastic resources- podcasts, books and articles throughout this discussion.

Books

Teen Mind, Teen Brain-What Parents Need To Know To Survive The Adolescent Years by Dr. Ron Clavier

Free To Learn- Why Unleashing The Instinct To Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self Reliant, and Better Students For Life by Dr. Peter Gray

Articles and Research

The Nature Of Things- Risky Play For Children- Why We Should Let Kids Go Outside And Then Get Out Of The Way

National Library of Medicine- Risky Play and Children's Safety: Balancing Priorities For Optimal Child Development

outsideplay.ca -Helping Caregivers and Educators Gain The Confidence and Skills To Support Children's Outdoor Play

Podcast Episodes

Free To Learn with Dr. Peter Gray

Supporting Passions and Unschooling To Adulthood with Tira and Zoi Hunter

Finding Freedom Within Structure with Kelly Edwards

Supporting Passions and Unschooling in the Teen Years

Homeschooling Support

Join Our Community

One on One Coaching Support

Clubhouse Community

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Evgenia is a homeschooling mama of one boy and the founder of Fit Mama Method. She was born in the Soviet Union and lived in Russia until 29 years old. She holds 2 Master Degrees in Journalism and Sports. Evgenia came to Canada to complete a college program and decided to stay. She was the head coach of an Acrobatic Gymnastics Program and a personal trainer until she decided to stay home with her son.

Evgenia is a homeschool mom and entrepreneur. Her Nourished Motherhood Program has helped many homeschooling mamas to beat burn-out with a holistic approach to wellbeing, motherhood and homeschooling.

In This Episode​

Often, my podcast interviews offer perspective into different points of view, circumstances and the rest of the world. It can be easy to live our life and assume that everyone shares similar thoughts, ideals and circumstances. But that is not always the case. I personally enjoy hearing the stories from others that have grown up and lived a learning life quite different from my own, or the one that I know. It gives me a better understanding of the world.

In this episode Evgenia shares about life growing up in the Soviet Union and how that reflects on childhood and parenting. What does a life shaped by living behind the Iron Curtain look like? We talked about:

1. The school system (a day in the life of the school day, and class in the Soviet Union)
2. Raising children (the expectations on both kids and parents)
3. Family and community purpose (How differently they varied from life in the western world today)
4. Homeschooling

This was a wonderful discussion on not only how we are shaped, but the changes that we go through in our lives that begin to change our world, values and parenting. And of course...lead us to homeschooling.

Resources

Connect with Evgenia on her website- fitmamamethod.com

Instagram- @fit.mama.method

If you want to learn more about getting started in homeschooling, listen to my episode 7 Steps To Begin Homeschooling

Thank you Sponsors

Sponsor support allows me to continue to create this podcast and allow it to be easily accessible for you.

This episode was brought to you by Fearless Learners by Success Codes and MEL Science.

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All of their coaches are certified teachers as well as certified Learning Success Coaches, who have left the school system to create the ‘right’ environment to provide customized and personalized learning experiences.

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How Do You Know If Online Learning Is The Right Option?

Technology has become a powerful tool in learning, transforming education in numerous ways. It has increased access to education, information and resources. Learning opportunities are now, quite literally, right at our finger tips.

Technology has not only increased our access to information, but it has also broadened our access to where and how we want to learn and who we choose to learn with.

One format that has grown is online learning. It seems like at if we are looking for a class, or school, most likely we can find an online class that will teach it. But with all of this choice now on offer, how can we know if we are choosing right? How do you know if online learning is the right option?

Invited 2 experienced educators in the online learning space to explore this question with me.

Anjilee Ferguson and Sara Busalacchi have over a decade of experience in online learning, working in the field since its inception. They have a passion for helping students succeed which led them to co-found Mountain Point Academy, an online school for grades 6-12. Their mission is to help provide students with a personalized approach to online learning, with 1:1 support for students to find joy in learning and citizenship.

In This Episode

Anjilee and Sara take the time to answer my questions about online learning.

• How do you know if online learning is the right learning option?
• How do you find out of the online learning option aligns with your needs and values?
• What options are available?
• How can we best support our kids in their online learning experience?
• What are points to look for when choosing an online learning community?
• Can online learning be relationship based?
• What is the difference between synchronous and asynchronous learning?

Resources

Connect with Mountain Point Academy onInstagram: @mtnpointacademy

Facebook: Mountain Point Academy

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/40950537

If you aren’t sure if online learning is a good fit for you, you can schedule a FREE consultation call to talk with the Mountain Point Academy team: www.mountainpointacademy.com/letschat

If you would like to learn about other alternative programs, both in person and online, listen to these episodes~Village Home Learning Community

CoLearn~Bridging Unconventional Education Approaches

Podcast Sponsor

This episode was brought to you by Fearless Learners by Success Codes

Fearless Learners by SuccessCodes;
Where all children can learn and grow fearless with a Learning Success Coach by their side. Their certified Learning Success coaches make learning easy with their proven holistic coaching methodology which is a unique and superior alternative to tutoring and teaching in all subjects.
All of their coaches are certified teachers as well as certified Learning Success Coaches, who have left the school system to create the ‘right’ environment to provide customized and personalized learning experiences.

*Kohila is offering a FREE 45 minute clarity coaching call to Honey! I’m Homeschooling The Kids listeners. Just go to learningsuccessacademy.com

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Free To Learn and PLAY with Dr. Peter Gray

Peter Gray is an American psychologist, author and research professor. He has conducted and published research in neuroendocrinology, developmental psychology, anthropology, and education.

His research focuses on the role of play in human evolution and how children educate themselves, through play and exploration, when they are free to do so. He has expanded on these ideas in his book, Free to Learn: Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life (Basic Books).

He has been a regular contributor to Psychology Today magazine and is a founding member and president of the nonprofit Alliance for Self-Directed Education (ASDE) and a founding board director of the nonprofit Let Grow.

He earned his undergraduate degree at Columbia College and Ph.D. in biological sciences at the Rockefeller University many years ago. His own current play includes kayaking, long-distance bicycling, backwoods skiing, and vegetable gardening.

In This Episode: The Importance Of Free Play​

This episode is a re-release of an earlier episode with Peter Gray. (episode 47)

It is such a wonderful and important discussion that I want to make sure it stays accessible.

In this episode we talk about:

• The importance of FREE PLAY
• Self Directed Learning and the key parts of the self directed learning environment
• The lack of free play in our world today and what the absence of it has led to
• Parents Fears around self directed education

Resources

Research studies:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/experts/peter-gray-phd

Observational study Jay Feldman

https://eric.ed.gov/?id=ED453128

Study of Grown Unschoolers

https://www.psychologytoday.com/sites/default/files/Published%20Grown%20Unschoolers%20I.pdf

https://www.psychologytoday.com/sites/default/files/Published%20Grown%20Unschooles%20II.pdf

Brian Sutton Smith

Play Scholar

Play Theory

Democratic Schools

Sudbury Valley School

Peter Gray’s Book

Free To Learn: Why Unleashing The Instinct To Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students For Life

Alliance For Self Directed Education

Let Grow Project

Podcast Sponsor

This episode was brought to you by Fearless Learners by Success Codes

Fearless Learners by SuccessCodes;
Where all children can learn and grow fearless with a Learning Success Coach by their side. Their certified Learning Success coaches make learning easy with their proven holistic coaching methodology which is a unique and superior alternative to tutoring and teaching in all subjects.
All of their coaches are certified teachers as well as certified Learning Success Coaches, who have left the school system to create the ‘right’ environment to provide customized and personalized learning experiences.

*Kohila is offering a FREE 45 minute clarity coaching call to Honey! I’m Homeschooling The Kids listeners. Just go to learningsuccessacademy.com

Watch From Fear To Fearless, Kohila’s weekly show on Wednesday, 11am Pacific Time at fearlesslearners.live

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler~ March 24th 2023

Grab your FREE or Full Access Pass ticket (only $37) ~ HOW TO BE AN AWESOME HOMESCHOOLER

The summit is open to all since we are hosting it as an audio only experience on the Clubhouse app. But if you register for your FREE TICKET through the website you also receive our Digital Swag Bag that gives you a ton of resource freebies for parents and kids (like my son’s Science Animal Journal, Kelly Edwards Creating Quiet Time packet, Free Conscious Parenting mini course, Discounts on our favourite books, Kids Entrepreneurship Course, Discounts to online resources and MORE.

If you cannot make the live event, we are also offering a FULL ACCESS package of the recordings, pdfs and post summit community gatherings which include a Movie Screening~ The amazing film MaidenTrip~ and Live Group Q&A and Coaching with Kelly Edwards of 90 Minute School Day and I.

We are able to create this summit and make it accessible because of our wonderful Sponsors. Night ZooKeeper, Learning Success Academy, Erica Kesilman~Conscious Parent Coach, Mel Science, Storitopia, Amanda Schenkenberger~ Homeschool Coach, Honey! I’m Homeschooling The Kids podcast and 90 Minute School Day.

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How Unschooling Affected My Life: Liana Francisco

Has anyone ever said to you that this whole idea of Unschooling does not end well? That kids will never be self directed? That there is no evidence that self directed learning actually works?

Have they listened to my podcast? Have the heard the interviews I and countless others have shared? Well, here is more to add to the list.

This is part of a series I am exploring on grown homeschoolers and Self Directed Teens.

In This Episode~ Living As If School Doesn't Exist

This episode is filled with so much insight and information on growing up without school, without any of the expectations of school. Liana shares what it was like living as if school doesn't exist.

Liana Francisco is a grown Unschooler that now Unschools her son. She is a multi-passionate entrepreneur who was unschooled from birth to 16 when she started college full time. She is 40 years old, so she was unschooled way back in the day when you still got the evil eye from the mail man and grocery store clerks.

Liana has a vegan wholesale food business, a consulting business, and a YouTube channel where she teaches moms with young kids how to make plant-based eating EASY with a system. She also teaches moms how to hack homemaking for more freedom AND an organized family.

Liana also shares important advice for parents that are considering this path or are uncertain about unschooling as their children grow older.

We talked about:

• Creating Environments That Are Right For Learning
• How Did They Learn To Read Without Direct Instruction?
• The Order Of Natural Learning (heads up- it doesn't resemble the order of school based learning)
• How Will Unschoolers Succeed If Their Life Never Resembles School?
• Does Hard Work, Independence and Study Skills Happen With Unschooling?
• The Unreal Expectations Of Unschooling

Resources

You can connect with Liana on Instagram ~ @liana_francisco

You Tube- @HomeschoolMomLife

Clubhouse~ https://www.clubhouse.com/@lianafrancisco

Her website~ https://www.lianafrancisco.com/

If you want to hear more of Liana's story, then check out the first interview we ever did on this show~ Growing Up Unschooled. I also recommend these other interviews; Amanda Schenkenberger~How Homeschooling Affected My Life, To Adulthood with Sue Patterson and Play, Purpose and Unschooling.

Book Mentioned: The Power Of Now ~ Eckhart Tolle

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit

March 24th is our third How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit!

We are hosting this full day summit LIVE and our special guests are bringing the Powerful P’s to the table through interactive keynotes and workshops~ PURPOSE. PERSIST. PLAY.

We have Leah Boden laying the foundation for PURPOSE.

Julie Bogart showing the art of PERSIST.

Mr. Chazz is educating us all on the power of PLAY.

Kelly Edwards is guiding us through her workshop on Supporting Neurodiversity.

And you get ME, Robyn Roberston and a few special guests embracing the Self Directed Teen.

Go to the website HOW TO BE AN AWESOME HOMESCHOOLER to register for your FREE ticket and receive extra goodies. (Extra Goodies like our Digital Swag Bag that gives you resource freebies for parents and kids (like my son's Science Animal Journal, Kelly Edwards Creating Quiet Time packet, Free Conscious Parenting mini course, Discounts on our favourite books, Kids Entrepreneurship Course, Discounts to online resources and MORE)

If you cannot make the live event, we are also offering a package of the recordings, pdfs and post summit community gatherings which include a Movie Watch Party and Live Group Q&A and Coaching with Kelly Edwards of 90 Minute School Day and I.

We are able to create this summit and make it accessible because of our wonderful Sponsors. Night ZooKeeper, Learning Success Academy, Erica Kesilman~Conscious Parent Coach, Storitopia, Amanda Schenkenberger~ Homeschool Coach, Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids podcast and 90 Minute School Day.

Thank you To Our Podcast Sponsors

This episode was brought to you by Fearless Learners by Success Codes

Fearless Learners by SuccessCodes;
Where all children can learn and grow fearless with a Learning Success Coach by their side. Their certified Learning Success coaches make learning easy with their proven holistic coaching methodology which is a unique and superior alternative to tutoring and teaching in all subjects.
All of their coaches are certified teachers as well as certified Learning Success Coaches, who have left the school system to create the ‘right’ environment to provide customized and personalized learning experiences.

*Kohila is offering a FREE 45 minute clarity coaching call to Honey! I’m Homeschooling The Kids listeners. Just go to learningsuccessacademy.com

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How Homeschooling Affected My Life with Amanda Schenkenberger

Amanda Schenkenberger is a grown homeschooler that now homeschools her own 4 children. She is also a homeschool coach and mentor to moms that are busy trying to find more joy and less anxiety in homeschooling. You can connect with Amanda and access her support through her website, moms.heartsmarthomeschool.com

You can also connect with her through Instagram @homeschoolcoachingmama

In this episode Amanda took time out to share her reflections, triumphs and struggles through homeschooling.

"How homeschooling affected my life and how it translated to her homeschool now."

In This Episode with Amanda

I often get the question, this seems great for a few years when they are young, but how do homeschoolers really turn out over the long run? What about:

• Socialization?
• How Will They Live In The "Real World" If They Are Never Told What To Do?
• What Will They Learn If They Don't Go To School?
• If They Do Go To School, Won't They Be Too Far Behind?

In this episode Amanda answers these questions and talks about how her experiences have shaped her as an adult.

She shares the strengths; the work ethic that she built even though her life was filled with a large amount of play and freedom.

Amanda shares the notable experiences that question what we think are set parameters of learning; like learning how to read from her deaf parent.

And the life shifts that brought change; her homeschooling days coming to an end as her parents went through a divorce.

As well as how she prepared going to school for the first time ever.

If you are a parent that is curious about homeschooling, or are questioning what your homeschool choice will turn out to look like, then listen to this episode.

Resources and Connection

Amanda has chosen to continue to homeschool her own children. She also runs a business that support others homeschool moms through coaching and community. She understands that Homeschooling can be a beautiful, joy-filled experience—or it can be a stressful, overwhelming routine. That's why she created Heart Smart Moms.

You can connect with Amanda and access her support through her website, moms.heartsmarthomeschool.com

You can also connect with her through Instagram @homeschoolcoachingmama

Heart Smart Homeschool Moms is also a sponsor for HOW TO BE AN AWESOME HOMESCHOOLER Summit! We are grateful for the sponsors that help our summit to happen and remain accessible to the community.

If you would like to hear more stories from grown homeschoolers and unschoolers, then check out my episode with Hannah Frankman, Liana Francisco and Zoi Hunter

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit

If you haven't already heard, March 24th is our third How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit!

We are hosting this full day summit LIVE and our special guests are bringing the Powerful P's to the table through interactive keynotes and workshops~ PURPOSE. PERSIST. PLAY.

We have Leah Boden laying the foundation for PURPOSE.

Julie Bogart showing the art of PERSIST.

Mr. Chazz is educating us all on the power of PLAY.

Kelly Edwards is guiding us through her workshop on Supporting Neurodiversity.

And you get ME, Robyn Roberston and a few special guests embracing the Self Directed Teen.

Go to the website HOW TO BE AN AWESOME HOMESCHOOLER to register for your FREE ticket and receive extra goodies. If you cannot make the live event, we are also offering a package of the recordings, pdfs and post event community goodies.

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How Can We Build FEARLESS Learners?​

Kohila Sivas is the founder of Fearless Learners by SuccessCodes, where all children can learn and grow fearless with a Learning Success Coach by their side. Kohila's certified Learning Success coaches make learning easy with their proven holistic coaching methodology which is a unique and superior alternative to tutoring and teaching.

Kohila Sivas is also the creator of the revolutionary MathCodes Method™ and Meta-Learning DeStress Method™, a unique system designed to recover learning loss and demystify learning. These methods are grounded in brain science and neurolinguistics. She developed these systems over 24 years working one on one with over 1600 struggling students.

Kohila was once a struggling math student herself and is now a Learning Success Coach, Holobody coach by Mindvalley, Master NLP Practitioner, and Certified Hypnotherapist.

She is the host of the Alternative Education Summit, coming next Sept 2023, #1 Best-Selling author and host of From Fear to Fearless Show.

Kohila is the winner of 2022 Outstanding Leadership Award for the Contribution to the Field of Education and Learning and winner of Outstanding Organization Award.

She is also a fearless entrepreneur, parent, lifelong fighter, and learner.

Since March 2022, she has trained over 50+ passionate educators to launch and grow their independent Learning Success Coaching practices using her methods, with a mission to serve 1.5 million or more students by 2035.

Learning Success Coaching is a proven holistic coaching methodology that is a unique and superior alternative to tutoring and teaching in all subjects.

In This Episode

If you are a parent that is at an impasse because there is too much information, too many important decisions to make and you want more tangible support to help your children feel success in their learning, then this episode is for you.

Kohila defines and explains learning in a way that makes it simple to access as a homeschooling parent. At the same time she offers useful applications and tools to help us be a greater support to our kids. She shows us a way to build fearless learners.

In this episode we explore:

• How we can build fearless learners
• What do we need to do to build the right learning environment?
• Is there a difference between education and learning? And if there is, why is it important as parents and educators to understand what that difference is?
• How can we connect with the best outside learning supports for our kids?
• Mindset, Action Sets and Skillsets- the key elements that make learning easy.

Resources

Connect with Kohila and the support she offers at Fearless Learners and Learning Success Academy~ learningsuccessacademy.com

Facebook~ https://www.facebook.com/learningsuccesscodes

Instagram~ https://www.instagram.com/fearless_learners_coach/

Listen to my previous interviews with Kohila on Math- How We Learn and Math Codes

Watch From Fear To Fearless, Kohila's weekly show on Wednesday, 11am Pacific Time at fearlesslearners.live

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler~ Purpose. Persist. Play.

Our FREE Spring Summit for knowledge, community and inspiration in the homeschool and parenting community.

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit ~ March 24th

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Build Your Community~How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler

Have you ever felt disconnected from community? Even more so now that you homeschool?

Are there times when you feel like your ideas on learning and living your family life are too different from others around you?

Do you want to connect wth others that "get you"?

Do you want to build your community?

Kelly Edwards and I have been in your shoes. As homeschool parents we have felt like taking the leap to home educate has isolated us at times.

It has also connected us to others who we may have not ever considered as community otherwise.

In this episode Kelly and I talk about our origin stories as homeschooling parents. We also share how we connected as friends in need of community.

We also share:

• What community can look like for homeschoolers
• How community can challenge us
• Ways to build community

And we talk about one of our favourite communities of all~ How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler 2023~Purpose.Persist.Play

Purpose. Persist. Play.

This is the third year of our homeschool summit, How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler. We are bringing the powerful "P"'s.

Join us March 24th for Purpose. Persist. Play.

If you are looking to learn more about homeschooling, unschooling, self directed learning, parenting, self improvement and just being awesome in general- we've got you :)

This year's summit is another impactful day of community, inspiration and learning.

Join Kelly Edwards of the 90 Minute School Day as we gather, learn and reflect on supporting our Neurodiverse children in her workshop on Neurodiversity in our Home Education.

Connect with the iconic Julie Bogart of Bravewriter on how and what we choose to PERSIST.

Get clarity and comfort from Leah Boden of Modern Miss Mason when we guide with PURPOSE.

Be inspired on the value of PLAY with parent educator Mr. Chazz.

Then spend time with me and some really awesome self directed teens in my workshop on Self Directed Teens.

Resources

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler~ register on our website for the FREE summit and receive a wonderful digital Swagbag filled with goodies and resources for your home learning journey.

You can also purchase tickets of the summit recordings, keynote pdf's and extra VIP goodies. (Early bird sale on now)

Connect with my community on Clubhouse~ Honey! I'm Homeschooling Club to get in on the pre-summit action. (And meet over 2500 parents that are in the thick of homeschooling or learning more about it before they take the plunge)

Check out my interview with Shannon Loucks that I referenced in this episode.

Or listen to my interviews with previous summit keynotes~ Dr. Gina Riley, Rachel Rainbolt, Demetria Giles, Ainsley Arment, Leah McDermott, Karema Akilah, Karen Ricks, Julie Bogart, Leah Boden and my friend and summit co-creator, Kelly Edwards.

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Unschooling Q&A

How do I talk about Unschooling with my family and friends?

In Unschooling we can focus on following my children's interests but what happens when my child is not interested in anything and they are doing nothing all day?

How do we go from the structure of school to freedom? What is the transition to independence?

We Unschool but I have a child that wants to do workbooks. What do I do because this doesn't seem like Unschooling!?

How do we know when to trust, when to guide from a distance and when to intervene?

Am I enough to do this homeschooling or unschooling thing?

Have any of these questions crossed your mind? I am sure that at-least one of these has come up for you when it comes to unschooling, or homeschooling.

Answers In This Episode

This episode is a recording of a wonderful LIVE discussion that Liana Francisco and I hosted in my club, Honey! I'm Homeschooling on the Clubhouse app.

We asked for questions from families that needed support or wanted to just learn more about Unschooling and we devoted a month within the club to deep dive and answer as many questions as we could.

We received so much positive feedback from this conversation that I decided it was time to share it on the podcast.

Who is this episode for?

• This episode is for you if you are looking at the unschooling world and like what you see, but are just not sure if it will fit.
• This episode is for you if you have begun the unschooling journey but need more confidence or encouragement.
• This episode is for you if you recognize you need to do something different with your family learning life, but are just not sure what yet. Could unschooling be something to consider?
• This episode is for you if you have been loving your unschooling journey so far, but feel like you are the only one and need to hear from others that are living it. (It takes a village or a community, doesn't it?)

Resources​

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler- March 24th

Honey! I'm Homeschooling Club on Clubhouse app

Enjoyed my conversation with Liana? Then listen to her first interview on my show~ Growing Up Unschooled

I mentioned my interview with Roya Dedeaux in this episode. You can listen to that wonderful episode HERE.

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Building Joy~The Power of Play & Partnership

Shannon Loucks considers herself a fierce defender of childhoods.

Ever since her first job, she has sought out opportunities to be in the presence of children as they explore the world around them. From babysitter, to camp counselor, to a Degree in Education, to finally landing as a full time witness of fun to two boys who have become her greatest teachers.

Each of these opportunities led Shannon to believe in the power of play and partnership as a way to bring about more joy with a by-product of love into the lives of those who hold the biggest spaces in our hearts. Shannon joined me on this episode to talk about raising self directed people (she's a mom to grown unschoolers), play and partnership in parenting and the ways that we can build joy into childhood.

In This Episode

Fear and worry seem to be our constant companions as parents. Especially for those of us homeschoolers that feel that also carry the extra responsobility of educating our children without school. But before she came on my show, I had recently read Shannon's book, Love More~ 50+ way to build joy into childhood. It's a beautiful yet simple read that shows how it doesn't have to be fear and worry but love, fun and joyful by the simple everyday things we can do with our kids.

So in this episode, I wanted to find out more from Shannon about what this looked like in her family's life and how they were able to stay connected through the years.

We talked about:

• Why homeschooling or unschooling does not guarantee you'll get the perfect relationship with your child
• How To Stay Connected To Our Kids
• What it means to partner instead of have "power over"
• The fear of unschooling- permissive parenting and the difference between permissive parenting vs present parenting
• Reflections from her kids as young adults that grew up in a self directed learning home~ what would the change, keep and their transitions to college
• Their Family Mission Statement and how they build it
• Her book, Love More~ 50 + Ways To Build Joy Into Childhood

Resources

Shannon's website~ https://breakingdaylight.org/

Shannon's Book Love More~ 50 + Ways To Build Joy Into Childhood

Life Is Good Unschooling Conference

Sir Ken Robinson Ted Talk~ Do Schools Kill Creativity?

If you would like to hear from parents with grown unschoolers, listen to my interview with Pam Laricchia ~ Exploring Unschooling

Check out our Third How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit, March 24th 2023~ Purpose, Persist & Play

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Welcome to Season 7!

Season 6 was a focus on Deschooling. It was a look back and reflection on our beliefs, expectations and what's most important to us.

Season 7 is a shift. We are moving from pause and reflection to action.

Having our why lead our way.

You may know that I often reference the learning journey to being on a family road trip. We are on this adventure together and everyone has a different reason for taking a family road trip. Some may have a specific destination that they want to reach. Others may just want to enjoy the journey and experiences together.

The road can be smooth sailing for a while. But we may also encounter a few bumps in the road. We may get lost along the way. We may take longer to reach a destination than we originally planned. We may even want to get out the car and take a break from each other.

So in this season of our road trip, we are taking our road map back out and checking to see if we are still on track. Is the destination or reason why we are travelling still meaningful to us? Have it shifted and do we need to make any shifts?

Is there a new path to take, or are we continuing on the road we have been on the past year?

What about our children? What are their reflections as to where they are on this "road trip".

Resources

Season 7 will be a shift for my family and this podcast in many ways as well.

I will be stepping back a little more this season. I share a little bit on this episode about making greater space and time for my most important priority, my family.

But I am still providing an abundant amount of resources for you to access, learn from and be inspired by.

Clubhouse- A large volume of recorded discussions and interviews. Go HERE to listen for FREE or join Honey! I'm Homeschooling Club.

Patreon~ My Patreon community offers resources, videos, downloads and Live Q&A with me each month.

One-on-One Homeschool Coaching with me

Masterclass~ Message me to get on the waitlist

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit

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Modern Miss Mason: Leah Boden​

Leah Boden is a mom to 4 kids and a long time home educator. She is a speaker, a podcast host, homeschool coach and runs workshops sharing the beauty of a Charlotte Mason approach to childhood, motherhood and education. She and her family live in the West Midlands, England.

Leah's new book, Modern Miss Mason is your invitation into an adventure where Leah shows you the fresh face of an age-old perspective on motherhood, childhood and education. And no, you do not have to be a follower of Charlotte Mason to read her book. No matter what educational and learning path you prescribe to, this book and Leah's ideas are universal. It will breath life and beauty back into childhood and your home education.

In This Episode

As a young mother and new home educator, Leah was overwhelmed by the breadth of available resources. How to know which to choose? Curriculum or no curriculum? What would best guide and inspire her children? Whose voices should she trust?

That's when she discovered the timeless work and words of Charlotte Mason. Leah knew that Charlotte Mason's approach and method fit what their family was looking for in the learning journey ahead.

In this episode Leah shares with me how and why she continues to find joy, wonder and curiosity in their learning life. We discuss their learning life today, her wonderful book and "how our internal work affects our external world".

As in her book, Modern Miss Mason, we break it down into:

• Reframing Motherhood-the correlation between how refreshed mothers are and their ability to trust childhood. If mothers can learn to do for ourselves what we do for our children. We discuss tools to avoid or come out of burnout and overwhelm.
• Reframing Childhood- Children are born persons. Building rhythms.
• Reframing Education- Sifting through the countless curriculums, information and resources. Knowing what your why. Education is the science of relations. RELATIONSHIPS are key.

If you are new to Charlotte Mason, Leah offers a few recommendations on how to slowly dive into the Charlotte Mason world.

Resources​

Leah's book, Modern Miss Mason is well worth the read. You can find it HERE.

Find out more about Leah and her work on her website.

Leah's workshops and courses.

Listen to my first interview with Leah HERE (Homeschooling Styles: Charlotte Mason with Leah Boden)

If you are looking for support from Honey! I'm Homeschooling community, join HERE or book a one-on-one private call with me HERE.

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Reflections For The Homeschooling Year

As we get closer to the end of season 6, I invite you to take a moment of pause and reflection. Season 6 began as a time and place to step further into Deschooling and growing without school or the easily recognized beliefs and structure of school. We explored

• Deschooling and Growing Without School
• Conscious Parenting
• Teens and Unschooling~What that can look like
• Minimalism
• Defining Success
• Resilience
• Supporting Passions
• Natural Learning Resources
• Critical Thinking
• Preparing For Adulthood
• And MORE

In This Episode And Season

No matter where you live in the world, I find that December is a great time to pause, check our "roadmap", reset our personal and family compass and open our hearts to the relationships around us.

In this episode I share a favourite short story as a way to look at what we do, the choices we make and the challenges that we face in our daily lives.

It's called, Who's Packing Your Parachute? It's a true story about a retired US Army Pilot who was a prisoner of war. His story is not one of heartbreak, but of reflection, appreciation and support.

We all have people in our lives that helped us or "packed our parachutes" along the way. We do this daily as homeschooling and unschooling parents. Our children's parachutes are not built on academics. Everyone, including the learners in our home requires mental, physical, emotional and spiritual "parachutes". We call on all of these to help us reach safety.

I ask you to take a little time this end of season to reflect and consider your personal needs as a parent and who can possibly help support these needs.

And I also ask that you take time to pause, reflect and appreciate. Which people in our lives have we possibly overlooked or failed to notice have been packing important parachutes for us?

Resources

Here are a few resources and recommendations~ Podcasts, Books and other Support

Look For The Helpers~Parenting And Being Human- Podcast episode with Dr. David Irvine

Look For The Helpers~ Mothering The Mother with Amanda Curmi

Empowering Families with Yolonda Coles Jones

Have you checked out my club, Honey! I'm Homeschooling on the clubhouse app? I have a large collection of interviews and replays of specific topics and conversation on homeschooling, unschooling, learning, education, family life and parenting. For FREE.

Still feeling overwhelmed? Receive one-on-one support through my homeschool coaching~ https://imhomeschooling.com/coaching/

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The Landmark Study: Parents Want Independent Meaningful Learning

What do parents want in their child’s learning experiences? Self-Directed Education: Landmark Research on Family and Student Interests and Needs, the first US national study of its kind, provides key insight into what parents want, suggesting that millions are open to and desire expanding ways of learning. In fact, this study shows that nearly 19 million families are searching for a better learning experience for their children. More than ever, families across the nation are open to exploring alternatives to their current choice in education.

We Are Born To Learn~ Self Directed Education

Mosaic is a global digital platform and community that supports independent, meaningful learning. Th goal of Mosaic is to empower individuals, families and communities through shared resources, thought leadership, and relationships. One of the recent resources that Mosaic launched was a large national study that delved into what parents want in their child's learning experiences. The answer was overwhelming.

The biggest interest was in Self Directed Education

Parents are looking for their kids to be more actively engaged in the learning process.

In this episode I speak with Bonnie Benjamin-Phariss, the Interim Executive Director of Mosaic and Bill Vesneski, Head Researcher on the study.

We explore:

1. The research
2. What parents want and what parents don't want
3. Why a study like this is so needed
4. How it means to be actively engaged in the learning process
5. The top goals that parents share or want to see

If you would like to learn more about the study, go to weareborntolearn.org

The National Survey On Self Direction Executive Summary can be found HERE.

Resources​

If you would like additional resources and information on Self Directed Education, then check out Dr. Peter Gray and Dr. Gina Riley.

Dr. Gray and Dr. Riley have worked together to survey, research and write about self directed education and unschooling.

The Journal Of Unschooling and Alternative Learning

Unschooling: Exploring Learning Beyond The Classroom is the first academic publication on Unschooling.

Connect with community and join us on Patreon!

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How Are You Able To Work And Homeschool? With Erika Brown

“How are you able to work AND homeschool your boys?”

Erika Brown is asked this question at least once a week as they are out and about meeting people. Unfortunately, society pushes the idea that women must either work outside of the home or stay at home. The idea of doing both seems to be a foreign concept. Erika chooses to reject that ideology while being a part of a generation that blazes new trails and refuses to settle.

Erika Brown leveraged her lucrative career in Real Estate to create the financial opportunity to unschool her boys. This journey has come with its share of difficulties, yet those times are trumped by the experiences and knowledge her boys are gaining. Erika invites you to follow her family as they use their businesses to assist in the unschooling process and educational journeys of their boys.

In This Episode

If you want to hear both practical tips and deep reflections on how we choose to live and learn, then you will love this interview. In this episode Erika and I talked about the Joys and Challenges of unschooling and being a full time working parent and entrepreneur.

We talked about:

• Teens and Social Needs
• The Continual Deschooling Process
• The Values that overlap in Unschooling and Entrepreneurship~ Questioning the standard and wanting to solve it.
• How she uses 3 month rotating routines to help balance work days and having 3 kids at home unschooling
• Mindset and Communicating Needs
• Erika breaks down what a week looks like in a 3 month season for their family
• The power of intentional conversations and teamwork
• Unschooling With Teens
• Self Directed Learning, Connection and Confidence

Erika leaves us with wonderful advice to the parents that want to homeschool and work or build a business. Her experience and knowledge in this life is worth learning from.

Resources

Connect with Erika through Instagram @erikabinvestor

Erika’s Blog~ https://www.erikab.co/blog

Follow Erika’s sons bakery on Instagram~Brown Brothers Bakery

Want to hear more about Unschooling and Entrepreneurship? Check out my episode with Stacey Piercey~Unschooling And Entrepreneurship or my episode with Unschooled Entrepreneur Isabelle Robledo~Homeschooling and Mindfulness

Listen to Honey! I’m Homeschooling Club Replays on Challenges~ Unschooling Challenges & Connection Over Academics

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Will Unschooling leave my kids unprepared for the adult world?

This is a question or fear that weighs on the minds of parents that are considering unschooling or are even possibly already involved in living an unschooled life.Parents always want the best for their kids. They want the most for their kids and the thought that our choices will cause detriment to their futures can be a heavy burden to carry.

But this is a question that I have also heard from parents sending their kids to school! Will sending my children to school in this fast changing world leave them unprepared for the adulthood?

So in this episode I tackle this question from the perspective of~ What do our children really need in order to be prepared for adulthood? If they are to be successful in their careers, in the job world and as human beings, what is required?

What Do They Need To Be Prepared For Adulthood?

When I define the term "unschooling" or answer questions about it, I usually base it on definitions around how it applies to learning within a framework of school defined learning and work produced from it. A definition I usually refer to is that unschooling is the learner choosing the how, what, where and when of their own learning. And the why is their own.

But this definition misses a big part of what unschooling is based on. (And the detailed, more involved explanation)

Unschooling is so much more than how it can be or cannot be like school style learning. Unschooling is based on a foundation of trust and safety. It is based on supporting and helping to build the capacity to work on some of our most complex problems~Relationships. Relationships with others and with ourselves.

Unschooling is creating an environment where the learner feels part of a positive relationship where they feel safe to explore, be curious, ask questions, try new things, make mistakes, backtrack and pivot. It is working within a framework that allows space and time to practice competence in something that is meaningful to the learning, even if that thing may not be as meaningful to the parent.

As I was reading about the skills, knowledge and competencies that our world requires and will continue to require I see a common thread.

The work force, employers and industry are seeing a lack of skills from young people. These skills are not math facts or essay writing. They are not dates in history or or other hard knowledge.

They are what many term the 'soft" skills that are not as easily quantifiable for data like grades and scores can be.

Skills and Social Emotional Learning

79% of employers say social-emotional skills are the most important qualities for job success.

Employers are citing skills such as adaptability, collaboration, independence, life skills and self regulation as needed.

And it's not just employers that require these skills for the job. These social-emotional skills are important to just begin navigating the job market and prepare for work that did not exist even a few years ago!

Here is an enlightening conclusion to another study:

There was a mismatch between the education sector's perception of skills demand and that of the work sector. What does that mean?

"While the education sector believes that it prepares students well for the labor market by focusing on basic cognitive and technical skills development, the study find that employers have a different view of the most important skills for labor market success and where the principle gaps are."

What Can We Do As Unschoolers And Self Directed Learners?

I know our concern can be focused on our children missing out if we don't get them to memorize their multiplication tables by a certain age or have every sign of the periodic table under their belt. Or be able to blast off an essay on the merits of - you fill in the blanks-.

But a lot of what we can do to help them be prepared for the adult world is love them for who they are. Not what they are producing. The measure of your parent worth is not on your children's grades or the awards that they receive.

• Support your kids in experiencing life and demonstrating compassion.
• Be part of community. Allow them to volunteer, work and gain a wider perspective of the world.
• Build your positive relationships
• Engage in not just discussion but also active listening with your kids
• Listen to who they are and what they represent. What are they proud of? What are some things that they love about themselves?
• Share in the joys of others
• Have conversations about key social situations. In what ways can they ask for help? Or show gratitude?
• Help connect our older children with mentors, professionals or organizations
• Create a soft framework or rhythms in your home. Rhythms that create connection and allow our kids to feel capable on their own.
• Let our children know that what they do and say is valuable

Resources

Studies Referenced on Social Emotional Learning

Employer Voices, Employer Demands, and Implications for Public Skills Development Policy Connecting the Labor and Education Sectors

The Economic Value Of Social and Emotional Learning

https://www.cfchildren.org/what-is-social-emotional-learning/work/

Podcast Episodes:

Skills Homeschoolers Need For The Future

The Right Side Of Normal And Honouring Our Individual Learners with Cindy Gaddis

Social Emotional Learning with Dr. Lorea Martinez

Learning, Partnering and Parenting With Teens with Lainie Liberti

Direct Homeschool Support and Community

Homeschool Coaching Support

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CoLearn~Bridging Unconventional Education Approaches

In this podcast I want to share unique learning journeys. These learning journeys don't fit the mold of the classroom and challenge the idea of what is possible in life learning.

This is important because if we don't hear about these experiences, then how will we ever know that they are possible?

Not only that, we are in a new era of remote and hybrid work and learning. Our working life looks different, so why wouldn't our learning life?

In this episode, I speak with Michael Staton, founder of CoLearn. Michael is a former classroom educator turned EdTech Guru.

Michael understands from his experience in education that the ideals and big ideas that we often come to school with cannot match the reality of school.

Michael and I talked about the future of education, the impact of technology and the goals of CoLearn to support flexibility, accessibility, offer support and resources and connect families in the homeschooling community.

CoLearn~Let's Redesign Education With The Family At The Center

CoLearn is bridging conventional education approaches to create a new learning experience with FAMILY at the heart of it all.

This is how CoLearn plans to make an impact in the world of education and entrepreneurship.

Founder, Michael Staton heard this from homeschooling families when he was invited to attend a conference a few years back. Families spoke to the fact they are not "schooling" at home but living a learning life together. Parents are learning right alongside their children. In effect, it's not homeschooling, it's COLEARNING.

Michael and I explored how CoLearn is committed to:

• working with tech tools to help build active, flourishing learning communities (Many of the tech tools offered are FREE)
• Building a community of fully engaged parents
• Making resource discovery easier for homeschooling families
• Offering the ability to re-mix your learning
• Providing not only interaction and direct support but also jobs to home educating parents, no matter where they are in the world!

Help CoLearn Through Feedback, Help Yourself Through Work Opportunities With Them

CoLearn is continuing to build and as they do, they want to make sure they continue to offer the best support and connection to the homeschooling and self directed learning community. To do that, they are asking for feedback from you on what they offer. One of the free tools that they have designed and offer is their CoLearn Planner. They would love you to check it out and offer feedback on how it works for you, what can be improved and more. You can check it out HERE.

CoLearn is also hiring! If you are looking to add to your income, support other homeschooling families and continue to homeschool, then this may be your place. Go to https://www.colearn.com/jobs

Resources​

Find out more about CoLearn on their website~ https://www.colearn.com/

Their FREE Homeschool Planner~ https://www.colearn.com/planner

CoLearn Job Opportunities~ https://www.colearn.com/jobs

If you would like to learn about other organizations, start ups and centres that are redesigning education, then check out my episodes with Mara Linaberger, Micro School Builder, Mandy Spiczka of SHINE Together Holistic Learning Center, Gordy Bal of Xploration Center or Cameron Sorsby, CEO of Praxis, an alternative to college.

Are you enjoying the podcast? I would love to hear from you. Just head to my contact page and send me a message. If you would like to offer support, join my Patreon community ~ https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

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Setting Up Your Homeschool Space

I get it. As a homeschooling or unschooling parent we want to create the best learning environment ever. We don't want to just replace school. We want to be better than school.

So what do we do?

We plan, we purchase, we organize and we create a space that will offer as much as possible to our children's learning life.

Some families create a separate space. A "school room" where homeschooling takes place.

Other families create or use learning spaces throughout their home or in different environments. They utilize the outside environment, community spaces like libraries and museums, or create comfortable spaces in the home to read, write, design and learn in many forms.

In this episode I share a few tips on how we can build the best learning environment for our family learning life by reducing overwhelm and making a space (inside and out) that is conducive to learning and living.

Building The Learning Environment & Setting Up Your Spaces

What steps can we take to build a learning environment that supports our learning life best? Is having a separate learning space, better than not having a designated space?

Here are a few areas that can help us in deciding what will work best for our family and how to go about it:

1. Understand your values and guiding purpose. Why are you homschooling? Why are you unschooling? What motivated your family to choose this learning life? If the reasons WHY are because your values do not line up with how school is set up, then I urge you to consider that before you recreate a space at home that is modelled after the school classroom. This is your chance to create something different that better aligns to your children and family.
2. Deschool. The deschooling process is not a cut and dry, simple formula. It's a long process of reflection and self understanding. It's about slowing down and getting to know yourself and each family member. It means stepping away from the expectations of others, especially when those expectations centre around measuring worth by success in a school framework. (Check out my episode on Deschooling to learn more). Taking the time to deschool, reflect and observe gives us space to get clear on our values and begin to see our children as who they are, instead of through the lenses of school measurements. When you do that, can you imagine what kind of learning life and space you could build?
3. Add less instead of more. We don't need to have everything in a homeschool space. Having too much can actually create a sense of overload. Keeping your space simple will not only help our kids to feel more free, but it can also decrease our worry as parents. You don't have to spend a ton on supplies and curriculum. And by not buying it all, there is less to clean up and organize! If keeping your space neat and clean is a priority for you, try not to let that rule your homeschool. And with less to clean up, you can have more time with your kids instead of dictating to your kids.
4. Keep it fun. We may think that as homeschooling parents we need to keep things neat, organized and on schedule. But some of our best learning has been when things are not neat organized or on schedule. My suggestion is this- choose joy over scheduling. Connection over commandeering. And remember that this is not the classroom. This is our HOME. And our home should be a place where our family feels safe and secure.
5. Find out from your family- what do they really want their life to look like? What ideas do they have? How can you work together to create that? Often our children have better ideas than we do. Listen to them.

Resources

I'm curious to know, where are you in the learning journey? Are you just beginning homeschooling? Are you a year or two in? Are you looking to step into unschooling or self directed learning?

Here are a few resources that I recommend whether you are new or looking to "refresh" or "restart".

My episode with Monica Cochran~ Making Learning Meaningful. We talk about why the best learning environment is the one where we feel safe.

Social Emotional Learning with Dr. Lorea Martinez- we share social emotional learning tools and techniques that we can put into practice in our own homes; the HEART principals and framework that help us integrate emotions, build relationships and support a rich learning environment.

For direct support, connect with me for one-on-one homeschool coaching or join the waitlist for my Homeschooling With Purpose Master Class.

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Learning, Partnering and Parenting With Teens~Lainie Liberti

Did your homeschool see a major shift once your children became teens?

Or are you looking ahead as to how you can best navigate the teen years to come?

Want to stay connected to your teen and support their positive mental health?

Lainie Liberti joined me on this episode to talk about Parenting and Partnering with our teens.

Lainie is a best selling author, international speaker, teen mentor, worldschooler, partnership parenting paradigm advocate and mother. In 2012 Lainie co-founded Project World School with her son and has lived in community with over a 100 teens in over 20 international locations.

Lainie founded Transformative Mentoring for Teens in 2020 in response to the growing need to support teen's mental health. Lainie just released her first book, Seen, Heard & Understood, Parenting and Partnering with Teens for Greater Mental Health. It is a number 1 best seller on Amazon in the Parenting New Releasees. Lainie is also a community leader and alternative education advocate. She is often credited with spearheading the thriving Worldschooling movement.

In This Episode

In this episode Lainie shares insights into their worldschooling journey, what it means to choose a life that reflects their values best and why they connect with radical unschooling.

She has me reflecting on my own parenting and practices around gentle parenting and unschooling.

We explored:

• What it means to parent in partnership vs gentle or attachment parenting (Is gentle parenting just a really nice way to get our children to follow our orders? )
• What Radical Unschooling means to her
• Worldschooling for life
• Radical Unschooling and Teens
• Supporting Teens and Mental Health
• Her book~ Seen, Heard & Understood, Parenting and Partnering with your Teen for Greater Mental Health! and why Lainie believes in the importance of supporting our teens

Resources

Lainie offers a wealth of resources, support and information to the parent that is looking to connect with and support their teen. And as a worldschooling mom and advocate of self directed learning, she has created a large community of support. Find her at:

Transformative Mentoring for TeensMentoring & Courses designed to transform teen's lives (and yours).
https://transformativementoringforteens.com/ The Partnership Parent MovementChildren need connection, not coercion. Together, we will change the world, one family at a time.https://partnershipparent.com/ Project World SchoolInspiring Temporary Learning Communities for Teens & Young Adultshttps://ProjectWorldSchool.com Project World School Family SummitBiannual community gatherings for worldschooling families interested in travel, education and wellness.https://worldschoolfamilysummit.com We Are Worldschoolers

Gain access to exclusive supportive community, articles, interviews, worldschooling mini-courses, and resource lists! https://weareworldschoolers.org/

Watch our TEDx talk - Making The World Our Classroomhttps://youtu.be/bH-kQJ10WWo

Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids

Looking for more support in your homeschool and unschooling journey? I’ve Got You!

My next Master Class, Homeschooling With Purpose begins October 2nd. Contact me with questions or to register. If you are already connected with me and are ready to be part of this wonderful group, go HERE to sign up.

This is a small group Master Class. I keep it intentionally small so that each person feels comfortable, safe and supported. Please note that this masterclass is not about the best ways to replicate school at home. It’s laying the foundation for you to be able to lead your own self directed learning path.*

Check out my Patreon Community where I offer monthly Live Q&A on all your homeschool, unschool and self directed learning questions. For the summer of 2022- this live support is open to ALL Patron levels. You also have access to my downloads, special videos (like my video interview with Gord!), insights and interviews with my family! https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

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Why We Need To Get Rid of The Math Worksheets and Use Problem Solving and Board Games Instead

Math.

What feelings does that word bring up for you? Are they warm and fuzzy? Does it put a big smile on your face remembering all of the fun math lessons, problems and homework that you did?

Or does the word MATH bring about feelings of anxiety? Worry? Fear?

It is surprising how much weight a 4 letter word like MATH can hold. Often it's not actually the word MATH, but the memories associated with it. And if those memories are not kind or good but disheartening and shameful, then how do you approach MATH with your kids?

Homeschooling Math.

Unschooling Math.

I get questions about this often. How should I approach Math in our home learning environment, especially if I don't feel comfortable in the subject? Or even excited about it.

That's why I invited Gord Hamilton to the podcast.

Gord Hamilton is a father of two teenagers—professionally best known for his board games like Santorini and as the director of MathPickle.com (A fantastic Math resource)

The puzzles that he creates are easy to understand for elementary school students, but educators and mathematicians will find them engaging as well.

In This Episode

I have had the pleasure of hearing Gord speak about the absolute joy and fun he has with math. In fact, it's hard not to become excited about Math just listening to him.

Gord's honest, kind and passionate approach to learning Math needs to be heard more. "There is no need for math to be boring. So why even go there with our kids?"

In this episode we explore:

• What is great mathematics?

• Why Math should be hard

• Board Games and Problem Solving~Throw out the curriculum, don't kill yourself over the boring stuff and focus on Board Games, a celebration of problem solving

• Why we should abolish math in elementary school and replace it with problem solving

• Getting away from the emphasis on memorization

Gord is here to support the homeschooling community. He encourages us to reach out to him! You can find him at his website https://mathpickle.com/ which is filled with games, puzzles and board game recommendations.

So before you go out and spend countless dollars on a boring memorization heavy Math Curriculum with a ton of worksheets- I encourage you to try to get your family in to a MATH PICKLE instead.

Looking for more support in your homeschool and unschooling journey? I've Got You!

My next Master Class, Homeschooling With Purpose begins October 2nd. Contact me with questions or to get on the waitlist. If you are already connected with me and are ready to be part of this wonderful group, go HERE to sign up.

This is a small group Master Class. I keep it intentionally small so that each person feels comfortable, safe and supported. Please note that this masterclass is not about the best ways to replicate school at home. It is not a strict checklist that you must follow rigorously in order to mold your child into a perfect being in 30 days, 4 months or by the end of the school year. It’s about helping you and your family to feel more confident, address the doubts and naysayers, build community and learn how to look at your child’s unique natural learning process and be able to support that throughout the year and years to come. It's laying the foundation for you to be able to lead your own self directed learning path.*

Check out my Patreon Community where I offer monthly Live Q&A on all your homeschool, unschool and self directed learning questions. For the summer of 2022- this live support is open to ALL Patron levels. You also have access to my downloads, special videos (like my video interview with Gord!), insights and interviews with my family! https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

Honey! I’m Homeschooling Club on Clubhouse App offer free weekly discussion groups and support.

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If you would like to listen to additional episodes about MATH, try these~ Learning Math and Math~How We Learn and Unschooling & STEM

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Reading & Writing With Phonics

As a homeschooling parent, are your worries focused on your children learning to read? Are you unsure where to start? What to do? Or how can to make it fun and engaging, instead of difficult drudgery?

I get a lot of questions from homeschooling and unschooling parents about learning to read. Every one wants the magic bullet.

But I want to tell you- every child and family is different. However, instead of being fearful, look at the advantage that home education offers. You have the time and opportunity to support your unique child and learning style. You are not bound by school bells, curriculum deadlines or 45 other children and staff members. So that's why, through this podcast, I offer different ideas, perspectives and research. I want to offer you a chance to hear and learn about your options and the tools out there. You can then choose, try, keep, let go of or adapt different tools and ideas to your child's needs.

This episode continues with our discussion on literacy and focuses on reading tools: Phonics. Specifically, I chat with Carina Powers, the CEO of Phonics in Motion. We talk about using phonics in the reading process and the importance of multi-sensory support when learning to read.

Phonics in Motion- Seeing it, Hearing it, Feeling it, Moving it

Phonics in Motion was created by Dr. Terry Kindervater, an educator and literacy expert. Dr Kindervater knows her program well, because she has used it for herself. Years ago, Terry suffered a significant stroke that left her unable to read and speak. In fact, she lost the entire language centre of her brain.

It took Dr. Kindervater one year to go from being non-verbal to communicating again. The progress was slow and frustrating. It became clear that the clinical remediation plan was not resulting in the gains she needed. The remediation she was receiving from expert clinical professionals felt so similar to what she had seen had failed struggling learners time and time again throughout her teaching career. That was why she had created Phonics in Motion in the first place; and now it was her turn to walk the path of learning to read and write as a struggler. She now knows just how hard it is to learn to read and write as a learner with processing challenges.

In this episode Carina and I talk about learning to read using phonics and what that means.

• We explore the importance of incorporating strategies that are fun and connecting.
• The negative connotation that phonics carries and the real, applicable meaning
• Why their program works so well for homeschoolers, hearing impaired learners, English language learners, as well as fluent, verbal speakers.
• Why a learner must "see it, hear it, feel it and move with it." (The multi-sensory approach)
• The difference between teaching learning to read at home vs in school. (The time, expectations and strict lines that school requires)
• Why parents know their child best

Resources

Phonics in Motion is offering 15% off of their homeschool membership for Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids listeners with the code teachwithmotion15. Go to~ https://phonicsinmotion.com/product/complete-homeschool-literacy-program/

If you would like to learn more about Phonics In Motion check out their website https://phonicsinmotion.com/pim-for-homeschool/

Social Media

Twitter-https://twitter.com/PhonicsInMotion

Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/phonicsinmotion/

Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/phonicsinmotion/

Or contact Carina directly- carina@phonicsinmotion.com

If you would like to hear more check out these episodes with former teachers turned Homeschoolers-

Former school principal turned Unschooler Golda David https://imhomeschooling.com/education-demystified-lessons-from-a-principal-teacher-homeschooler/

Leah McDermott-https://imhomeschooling.com/natural-learning-leah-mcdermott/

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Night Zookeeper

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Night Zookeeper is an online learning program for children aged 6 to 12 years old and uses a gamified approach to help to keep kids engaged and focused on developing awesome reading and writing skills, all while having fun at the same time!

Some of the features we love include the educational games, the fun challenges, the personalized feedback and the super safe community pages, where children can work with each other and learn together.

You can try it for free by clicking on the link in the bio! When you register, you’ll get a 7-day, risk-free trial, as well as a huge 50% off your annual subscription, that’s a great deal if you ask me!

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The Right Side Of Normal and Honouring Our Individual Learners

Have you ever met someone at a time in your life and you wish your paths had crossed at an earlier time? You say to them, "I wish you were here to share this with me when"....

Well, that's Cindy Gaddis to me. Actually, it's more like- "why are we just meeting each other now???" I need more of you in my life. Now that I do have Cindy in my life, I am sharing more of her knowledge and experience with you. Because I know you need it too!

Cindy Gaddis is a 30-year home education veteran and mother of seven right-brained children, ages 21-35, and grandmother to two sweet babies, ages 5 and 2 months. She’s married to her high school sweetheart, and they live in a log house on 15 acres in beautiful central North Carolina. A passionate advocate for understanding and honoring the natural learning path for creative, right-brained children, Cindy is a popular conference speaker and writer on the subject. Cindy wrote her book, The Right Side of Normal, in order to reach more parents and teachers who want to benefit from strengths-based learning for right-brained children. Cindy fulfilled her dream goal of opening a creative learning center in 2017 in a 1920s farmhouse on 18 acres and primarily mentors middle-high school attendees in collaborative education. You can find her at https://www.therightsideofnormal.com/ where she offers homeschooling consultations and relevant content for supporting creative, right-brained learners.

In This Episode

Both Cindy and her husband loved school, did well in school and were excited to have their first child start his first day. But after a first day orientation that left her very uncomfortable she decided to research other options. She found her way to homeschooling and eventually unschooling. Cindy says that in that first year, she learned so many lessons just through observation of her children and the natural learning process. In this episode we explored those lessons as we dove into the BIG unschooling and learning questions:

Reading and Learning To Read

• Our fears around learning to read
• Children that read early and read later (Her children were early and later readers, from ages 4-15)
• Autism and reading
• How she supported each of her unique learners to build a "positive relationship with print"
• When children are spatial learners as opposed to word based learners

Right Brain and Left Brain Learners and Supporting Neurodivergence

• What it means to be Right or left brain dominant
• Why the school fits left brain learners
• What happens when learning activities and environments only reflect left brain learners

The Right Side Of Normal- Deschooling on Crack

I think that this was one of the best book descriptions ever. And it's so true! Cindy's book offers ideas and reasons as to how learning happens outside of our traditional ideas of school. Deschooling on Crack~opens your mind to allow anything to happen. It gives the WHY. Why our children can learn in these different ways and be happy and joyful learners.

Cindy breaks down examples and resources through different age and developmental stages that support right based learners through using:

• Imagery
• Reading Out Loud
• Hands on and Visual - getting out in the world
• No formal academics before the age of 8
• Comic books, graphic novels and video games
• Allowing whatever our child is doing to be valued

Cindy offers such a huge amount of examples and stories in this episode. She shares books her children loves but also speaks to our changes times and the power of the internet and screens for right brain learners.

Resources

Cindy's Website- The Right Side Of Normal

The Natural Learning Development For Right Brained Children

Cindy's Self Directed Learning Community for Teens - Creative Learning Center

Cindy's Clubhouse Club is Homeschooling Creatively

Jeffrey Freed Right-Brained Children in a Left-Brained World: Unlocking the Potential of Your ADD Child

Thomas Armstrong~The Myth of the Normal Brain: Embracing Neurodiversity

Linda Kreger Silverman~Upside-Down Brilliance: The Visual-Spatial Learner

Books we mentioned our kids loved

Captain Underpants Book Series - Dave Pilkey

Bob Books, Set 1: Beginning Readers

Magic Tree House

Check out my episode with Dr. Peter Gray - Free To Learn

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How We Learn

Kohila Sivas is the creator of the revolutionary MathCodes Method™ a unique system designed to recover learning loss in math. Kohila blended the math hacks she discovered to demystify math and merged them with a coaching methodology that can transform any struggling student.

She also created the Meta-Learning DeStress Method™, a method grounded in brain science and neurolinguistics. This method helps the stressed-out learners to destress themselves by talking to their brains and teaches them how to learn to learn.

She developed these systems over 23 years working one on one with over 1600 struggling students.

Kohila was once a struggling math student herself and is now a Math and Learning Success Coach, reformed tutor, ex-teacher, BI and Math Interventionist, #1 Best Selling Author, Master NLP Practitioner, and Certified Hypnotherapist

She is also a fearless entrepreneur, parent, and a lifelong fighter and learner.

Since 2018, she and her partner Rod Bellamy have trained passionate educators to launch and grow independent Learning Success Coaching practices using her methods.

In This Episode

In this episode Kohila and I talk about how to learn and the brain science of learning.

• The difference between coaching and tutoring
• Learning how to learn
• When the environment is right, all things thrive and that's what our children need for learning
• Looking at our individual children and the power of knowing our WHY
• Math fear and anxiety
• Approaching math as a language
• Why Kohila does not recommend worksheets and timers and what parents can do instead
• As a learning success coach - the foundation is about building the relationship, not the academics

Kohila believes that the best way to support our children is by helping them to become life long learners. We can do this by creating the right encouraging environment, looking at our individual children and knowing our why.

Resources

Kohila provides a wealth of support for both learners. You can learn more or reach her through her websites https://www.fearlesslearners.coach/ and https://www.mathcodes.com/

Facebook

Listen to my interview on MATH with Kohila

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Literacy- Games and Storytelling

Michael Low is a writing teacher and curriculum developer with over two decades of experience. He's also a tabletop game designer who designs and runs story-telling games for kids from 7-13 that use the inspirational, collaborative nature of role-playing to get kids writing page after page for the sheer joy of it. You can find his writing classes (homeschool accredited) at LuckOfLegends.com, and his print to play at home monthly games and podcast at StoriesRPG.com.

If you are a regular listener to the show, receive my email newsletter, follow me on social media or are part of the community through Patreon or Clubhouse you will probably know a few things about my beliefs around learning;

1. That learners need to have agency in their lives and learning. Yes, that includes our children.

2. I am a big believer in games and the gamification of learning. In fact Gameschooling is something that I think everyone can incorporate into their homeschool at some point.

3. Learning should be joyful and meaningful. Sure, it can be challenging. But it doesn't have to to be rigorous just to prove it's good or worthy. Learning is not meant to be shameful. It's meant to be fun.

Michael Low also believes in the power of games, (role playing games especially), learner agency and meaning in learning. He also believes in the power of story. That's why he is dedicated to helping young learners write, speak, think, collaborate, think critically and fall in love with storytelling.

In This Episode

I love hearing insight from educators that have chosen to create and support learners in diverse ways that look nothing like what happens within the classroom walls. Learning to write through play? Looking for fun and collaboration in the writing process? Games and stories that engage our children from start to finish? Then listen to this episode. In this episode Michael and I dive into:

• The power of learner agency
• Why School is a badly designed game
• The gaps in the education institution and how we'd like it to shift
• His measurement of success~ teaching the skills learners need to learn on their own
• You can't learn if you don't trust
• Deschooling
• The amazing gifts and joys of role playing games
• Learning to write through play and games
• Collaborative Story Telling Engagement

Resources For Parents and Homeschoolers

Michael's games and classes are Homeschool Accredited.

Learning To Write Through Play- Luck Of Legends

Podcast and Stories- Stories RPG

Luck Of Legends

Michael's Blog

Peter Gray- Free To Learn

Listen to my interview with Dr. Peter Gray. Or my episode on Building Literacy At Home.

Looking for more support in your homeschool and unschooling journey? I’ve got you! Check out my Patreon Community where I offer monthly Live Q&A on all your homeschool, unschool and self directed learning questions. For the summer of 2022- this live support is open to ALL Patron levels. You also have access to my downloads, special videos, insights and interviews with my family! https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

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Sponsor Shout Out- Night Zookeeper

Thank you to our episode sponsor, Night ZooKeeper!

Is your child a reluctant writer? Do they struggle with reading? If your answer to either of these questions is YES, then Night Zookeeper may be just what you’ve been looking for.

Night Zookeeper is an online learning program for children aged 6 to 12 years old and uses a gamified approach to help to keep kids engaged and focused on developing awesome reading and writing skills, all while having fun at the same time!

Some of the features we love include the educational games, the fun challenges, the personalized feedback and the super safe community pages, where children can work with each other and learn together.

You can try it for free by clicking on the link in the bio! When you register, you’ll get a 7-day, risk-free trial, as well as a huge 50% off your annual subscription, that’s a great deal if you ask me!

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It's Called Unschooling

I don’t like labels. I feel that as learners outside of the institution of school we don’t have to rush putting ourselves into a new box or label.

Or that our learning life (unschooling life) is how we choose to define it.

But as a friend recently shared with me (as we had a very interesting conversation about unschooling, control, trust and partnership), that having parameters around a word (or label) can be helpful.

And I think that when it comes to unschooling, the waters are becoming muddied.

What Is Unschooling

Let’s start with the definition of Unschooling.

John Holt originally coined the termed unschooling. Here’s an excerpt from The Foundations of Unschooling, a Keynote given by Pat Farenga and found on the John Holt GWS website:

“Holt never felt the word “homeschooling” was adequate to describe the learning he was talking about—learning that didn’t need to take place at home nor look like school learning. John knew that many children want to be out in the world, to be in the community and learn the lay of the neighborhood because, like most healthy humans, they are social beings—it is in our nature to be social, curious, and to learn. So John used the word “unschooling” to describe this type of learning—after already trying out the word “deschooling,” coined by John’s friend Ivan Illich, and found to be too harsh by the public. Unschooling didn’t fare any better and John himself, by 1981, was using the word homeschooling interchangeably with unschooling.”

Here are two different explanations or definitions that I think describe it best:

“Before I talk about what I think unschool­ing is, I must talk about what it isn't. Unschooling isn't a recipe, and therefore it can't be explained in recipe terms. It is impossible to give unschooling directions for people to follow so that it can be tried for a week or so to see if it works. Unschooling isn't a method, it is a way of looking at children and at life. It is based on trust that parents and children will find the paths that work best for them - without depending on educational institutions, publishing companies, or experts to tell them what to do. Earl Stevens (The Natural Child Project)

“Unschooling is when the learner chooses the how, what, where, when and why of their learning”. Judy Arnall

Unschooling Isn't..

Unschooling isn’t another method we can now use to get our kids to meet our hidden expectations under the false pretence of freedom. Unschooling is not another way to do school work or get that school work completed.

Unschooling isn’t a method. But Unschooling can include a class or be school-like, as long as that is what the learner chooses. Sure unschooling can have academic goals, if that is what the learner chooses. But the ultimate goal of unschooling is trust. And trust takes time. And a whole lotta deschooling!

That Deschooling Work

So parents, please do the work. That Deschooling work! This work is important because if you want a change, if your kids want a change, need a change, then you will need to do something different. But first, before we begin to do something different, we need to start thinking differently. We need to shift our perspective.So ask the questions:
What does learning really mean to me? What is school? Education? What were my experiences? When did I truly get to learn for learning's sake? How did my educational experiences shape me today? My learning? Were these goals mine? Were they my parents goals? Obligations?

If I let my children choose the how, what, where, when, why of their learning, how will I feel? What if they only choose video games? Why is hours outside or reading a book or writing a story more important to me than hours on a video game (or substitute something else that pushes that uncomfortable button)?

You really can’t skip the Deschooling process. Well I guess you can, but why start on this journey to go halfway? And even if you choose not to unschool or even homeschool, or to go from unschooling to Classical homeschooling (I know families that have done that too) - you will NOT be a failure or wrong.

But what you will be is clear on is your reasons WHY. (I always come back to getting clear on your WHY)

Resources

Looking for more support in your homeschool and unschooling journey? I’ve got you! Check out my Patreon Community where I offer monthly Live Q&A on all your homeschool, unschool and self directed learning questions. For the summer of 2022- this live support is open to ALL Patron levels. You also have access to my downloads, special videos, insights and interviews with my family! https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

Honey! I’m Homeschooling Club on Clubhouse App offer free weekly discussion groups and support.

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Check out my episodes with Judy Arnall~ Unschooling and STEM and Pat Farenga~ On Homeschooling and Education

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Literacy and Digital Tech

Josh Davidson was one of the first students in the United Kingdom to complete an MA in Digital Art. In every professional role he has had, he has tried to retain his creativity and enthusiasm for new approaches and ideas. It is this willingness to experiment in his work that led to him being recognised with several industry awards. He is the creator and Managing Director of Night Zookeeper; a magical, inspirational brand where children discover and create their own imaginative animals. These animals join an interactive world, which encourages children to learn to read and write. Their unique creations can feature in storybooks, an animated series on Sky Kids and even in a collectable card game. The TV series was the first in the world to be co-created alongside children and had 150,000 entries. 

Josh is a passionate public speaker on games, literacy education and creativity. He has spoken at many international conferences including MipJunior, Apps World, Future Book, Kidscreen, the Children's Media Conference, Edinburgh Book Festival, London Book Fair and the Sharjah International Book Fair. Additionally, he has been interviewed across BBC stations in the United Kingdom and has given keynotes at Creative Mornings London and many more. His storybooks have been published by Oxford University Press and translated into several languages. 

In This Episode 

In this episode we spoke about the value of holding on to creativity and gamification in our learning world. As a child with dyslexia, Josh understands what it's like to have numerous stories in your head but getting them out is what is difficult. Creating a digital platform for reading and writing was his way to support the kids like himself that have all the stories in their heads, but have trouble getting them out.

Josh and I we explored the importance of supporting learning in our quickly changing technological world through: Using the internet as a space to create, not just consume Learning through Gamification Digital stories and games Building literacy through digital tech~How digital technology for literacy broadens the world, connects kids and gives a voice

Resources

You can find Josh on Twitter @thewikiartist

You can learn more about Night Zookeeper through their website. If you are in the US connect HERE. Canada connect HERE. If you are in the UK connect HERE. Australia connect HERE.

Looking for more support in your homeschool journey? I’ve got you! Check out my Patreon Community where I offer monthly Live Q&A on all your homeschool, unschool and self directed learning questions. For the summer of 2022- this live support is open to ALL Patron levels. You also have access to my downloads, special videos, insights and interviews with my family! https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

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If you would like to listen to another wonderful episode on building literacy in the home through natural learning, check out this episode: https://imhomeschooling.com/building-literacy-at-home/

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Untigering, Unschooling & Deconstructing Success

Iris Chen is an author, unschooling mom, deconstructing tiger parent, and founder of the Untigering movement. She joins me on this episode to talk about their unschooling journey, Tiger Moms, Untigering, and Deconstructing Success and Expectations.

We Explored...

"Success is liking yourself, liking what you do and liking how you do it." Maya Angelou

Iris describes herself as a deconstructing, recovering Tiger Parent. The process of Untigering and Deschooling has been a gradual change. In this episode we explored: The definition of a Tiger Mom Achievement, Expectations, Trauma and Tiger Parenting Why she is Untigering Unschooling and deschooling Children of Immigrant Parents- Finding compassion, empathy, truth and seeking to do better Fear and Scarcity Mindset in Parenting Success and Decolonizing our ideas of success How we can sit back a little, observe, support, encourage and allow our kids to figure things out for themselves Unschooling and Boundaries Burnout and Deschooling The importance of community

Resources and Community

Iris offers wonderful resources and community support for parents that are on the journey of deschooling, deconstructing and decolonizing. Check out:

Untigering Book

Untigering Website

Facebook

Facebook Group

Instagram

Membership

Mentioned in the episode- Battle Hymn of The Tiger Mom

If you are looking for more support in your homeschool journey- I’ve also got you! Check out my Patreon Community where I offer monthly Live Q&A on all your homeschool, unschool and self directed learning questions. For the summer of 2022- this live support is open to ALL Patron levels. You also have access to my downloads, special videos, insights and interviews with my family! https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

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7 Steps To Begin Homeschooling

Thinking about homeschooling? Or are you ready for a homeschool refresh? Here are 7 steps to help you begin homeschooling.

1. Get clear on your WHY.

What are your deeper reasons for homeschooling? How is this connected to your family's core values and purpose? When we are clear on our reasons to homeschool and opt out of the main system, the decisions we make in the future will be in integrity with our family and our children. (Check out my episode: https://imhomeschooling.com/getting-started-101-values-and-guiding-purpose/ For example, if our reason to homeschool is because our child is struggling at school because of an unsafe environment, (possibly because of a bullying issue), then our main "why" is safety. But going deeper, bringing our child back into an environment built on love, trust and building connection is our true focus. With a focus on love, trust and re-connection our choices in our homeschooling environment should first be all the ways we can build that.

1. Take the time to become a student yourself.

Learn more about homeschooling styles, how the brain works, parenting, childhood and learning. Take in podcasts, books, webinars, chat with other homeschoolers and learn other points of view. Better yet, take this time to get to know your child better. What do they love? What are they curious about? The most important part about taking this time to learn is that you will begin to model life learning to your children. (My interview with Dr. Peter Gray is a wonderful place to begin)

1. Learn Your Local Regulations.

Homeschooling is not legal in every country. Check out your local education regulations and requirements. This website lists international homeschool laws: https://hslda.org/legal/international. I also recommend you check out local homeschool advocacy groups.

1. Visualize your ideal homeschool.

Have your children visualize and map out their ideal homeschool year. Does their vision match yours? What about your partner's vision? Does your vision look like hours bent over workbooks and the rest of your family's look like adventure, play and creative pursuits? Use whatever works for you to lay out your vision; A poster, video reel, journal. What would it take to start building toward this vision?

This is also a good time to learn about and begin DESCHOOLING. (I explain Deschooling more in this episode but I also recommend checking this episode on DESCHOOLING) Briefly, Deschooling is a process of letting go of the singular beliefs we have attached with learning and kids. Beliefs that learning has to be done in a certain way, within certain times, within a certain kind of environment. Deschooling means possibilities. It’s a time to deconstruct the expectations, concerns, worries, beliefs around school, learning, and education. This takes time. Here are a few reflection questions that I recommend you use to begin:

What is the difference between school, education and learning? How do I define success? Where does that definition come from? What did school look like for me? Was I successful? Did I feel like I failed? Where and why? How did they make me feel? If I could change those failures or successes, what would that look like?

1. Supplies? Curriculum?

Before we rush into purchasing anything, I suggest you begin the first 4 steps. Take the time to play, explore and find out more about your children and your homeschool dreams. When you are recognizing interests, curiosity and values, matching supplies and deciding on which (or if any) curriculum becomes easier and longer lasting. This is because it becomes a choice aligned with YOUR family, not someone else's expectations or decisions.

You may see that your child that needs many hours of movement or outside time in a day will not benefit from a curriculum that requires 3 hours of sit down bookwork. You may find that when your child is given space to read on their own terms, with stories that appeal to them, their love of reading may actually spark. And you might also find that creating an environment that feels safe and sparks joy is where you want to focus your time. I share a few of our Natural Learning Resources in this episode.

1. Connect With Others

Begin to reach out to others that are farther along on this homeschooling path. Learn from others. Hear their stories. Ask questions.

Also, learn more about yourself. Homeschooling is often described as holding up a mirror to ourselves. To what we love and do not love. That can be confronting and it can be overwhelming if we are at home with each other all of the time. Make space for you. Even if that begins as 10 minutes each day. Trust me, much of the teaching we do is actually through how we model and live through our everyday. Our actions and re-actions become very important to our homeschool life.

1. Repeat

Rinse and Repeat. This is not a checklist that you move through each item and then take off the list. All of the steps (with the exception of possibly 3) serve not only as a start to our homeschooling or unschooling process, but as a refreshment if we ever feel weary.

More Support & Community

If you are looking for more support in your homeschool journey- I've got it for you! Check out my Patreon Community where I offer monthly Live Q&A on all your homeschool, unschool and self directed learning questions. For the summer of 2022- this live support is open to ALL Patron levels. You also have access to my downloads, special videos, insights and interviews with my family! https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

Honey! I’m Homeschooling Club on Clubhouse App offer free weekly discussion groups and support.

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Defining Success As A Homeschooler & Unschooler

Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids is a platform to share the stories of families living their own unique learning life. This learning life more often than not does not resemble the school classroom. Our community is a place to hear and share these stories and engage in a deeper discussion around the many layers that make up this learning journey. Deschooling. Childhood. Play. Learning. Parenting. Relationships.

In this Episode

This episode is a discussion from my Clubhouse community. Liana Francisco and I explore the idea of success. We explore our definitions and expectations around success and how that influences our homeschool. Have you thought about that? How does your ideas of what a successful person is influences your homeschool choices?

We further explore: The pressures of "success" for our children- being above grade level, the praise we give or do not give, learning expectations Dealing with Naysayers Society Expectations- what do we take on and what can we let go of? Parenting What does it mean to be a successful homeschooler or unschooler? Values & Purpose Looking forward

Success holds personal meaning. Just remember that what you judge as successful may mean nothing to something else.

Resources

I'd love to have you join me for further conversations on success in my private community. We meet once a month on Zoom. You can go to https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids to join. For the summer, I am offering access to all levels for our monthly meet ups.

Check out my episode with Liana Francisco, grown unschooler https://imhomeschooling.com/growing-up-unschooled/

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Making Learning Meaningful

Did you know that the best learning environment is the one where we feel safe? The relationship has to be more important in education than the content.

Monica Cochran and I explore this idea and all about making learning meaningful.

Monica is passionate about nurturing the love of learning and has vast experience helping learners of all ages enjoy learning. She has been active in alternative education since 1978, home-educated two of her children, and worked with other home-educating families both on the ground and virtually for the past 25 years. Her private practice serves families with kids who learn non-traditionally for various reasons using strength-based approaches and partners with others to facilitate workshops and courses on strength-based learning and resilience. 

Monica earned a Bachelor of Science degree from the University of Pittsburgh in a multi-disciplinary program in child development, social work, and early childhood education and a Master’s Degree from Eastern Michigan University in special education. She also earned a Primary Montessori Certification from the American Montessori Society and is an Advanced DIR practitioner and a provider of SSP (Safe and Sound Protocol) and the iLs Focus System of Integrated Listening Systems. She holds a K-12 Michigan teaching certificate in learning disabilities and emotional impairment. Since 1997, following her youngest son’s auto accident, she has also been active in working with survivors of traumatic brain injuries and learners with other health issues, as they redesign their lives.

In This Episode

Are you just beginning your homeschooling journey or are you looking for a refresh in your learning journey? This episode is for you. Monica and I explore what learning means, the numerous ways we learn and the learning environments we build. We dive into: Making Learning Meaningful and Fun Spelling & Grammar (Did you know there are over 40 ways we can support learning to spell that are not direct instruction?) Supporting talents and what it means to hold space for our kids Observing children's learning- not looking to fix things but observing what they already know Curriculum- "Curriculum is everything a child is learning. In its broadest sense. We have to enlarge our notions of what learning looks like and our baggage around it." PolyVagel Theory - The Science of Feeling Safe When we bring our personal expectations into our learning environments How and when learning flourishes How do we help our children feel safe? Tools we can use as a parent. Dealing With Meltdowns Tips For When We Are Beginning Our Homeschool Journey

Resources

Monica shared a ton of fantastic resources and references on this episode!

Monica's Website- Learning Without Borders

Monica's Educational Therapy

Monica On Instagram

Clubhouse

Facebook

Personal Growth Meets Alternative Education Facebook Page

AERO

Alliance For Self Directed Education

Mr. Rogers

Pat Farenga On Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids~On Homeschooling And Education

Dr. Porges- Polyvagel Theory

Dr. Dan Siegel

Brain, Body, Parenting: How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids~ Mona Delahooke

Our Emotional Deposits/Bank Account reference-Stephen Covey- 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People

Dr. Greenspan- Developmental,Individual Differences, Relationship-Based

3rd Grade Daze

The New Map Of Life- Stanford Report

Self Determination Theory- Deci and Ryan

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Declutter Your Homeschool

"We all have a clutter story. Physical Clutter Emotional Clutter Relationship Clutter Time Clutter Digital Clutter

We all have some form of clutter in our lives. Because as life happens, we take things in, we build stories and relationships with these items and then there comes a time when it runs its course and we are moving to a new faze in life...and so we have to learn how to let things go.

Sometimes that's difficult." Jaycel Murphy

This episode was originally recorded in my club, Honey! I'm Homeschooling on the Clubhouse app.

Jaycel Murphy is a former social worker, Neurolinguistic programming coach and Elite Declutter Coach. She supports people in decluttering their homes and their lives. Her goal is to normalize the conversation around clutter to address the stigmas associated, and lessen feelings of shame, guilt and overwhelm.

Decluttering and Deschooling

Jaycel joined Tira Hunter and myself for a discussion on decluttering our homeschool.

This conversation brought us deep into the idea that decluttering is not just about our physical space.

Decluttering, like Deschooling, is tied to our mental and emotional space. The lines of decluttering and deschooling are interwoven with the idea of letting go of beliefs that have served us for a certain time or purpose but that may no longer fit with our core values. These two practices are deeply tied to society and cultural expectations and the narratives we carry.

We stress that there is no right and wrong. It's all a part of the journey.

In This Episode

In this episode our wonderful conversation explores: Decluttering and Values- Our values informs everything that we bring into our lives and what we hold on to. The first step to decluttering (and deschooling) begins with our core values and belief system Are you a homeschool resource hoarder? Why is it so hard to let go of our kids old artwork? Why is it so hard to let go of clutter. How do we know what is meaningful and what to let go of? Tips on organizing and decluttering your space Defining Clutter The relationship between overconsumption, procrastination and clutter Large family? So Many things? Overwhelmed? Will the family be part of the process? What are the tools to make it easier. Setting Physical and Emotional Boundaries Maintaining emotional ground zero with other peoples stuff The difference between hoarding and collecting

What's Your Clutter Story?

So what's your clutter story? What practices and expectations not longer match your core values? What are your core values?

Ashley Stuart also joined our conversation. She is a speaker, Professional Organizer and Author. You can find both Jaycel and Ashley on the Clubhouse app on The Dear Clutter Show in The Dear Clutter Club.

You can connect with Jaycel Murphy through her website~ https://lovecleaning.ca/ or find further support through her Membership Community- https://dear-clutter.mykajabi.com/

She is also on Instagram @lovecleaning.gta and Facebook @lovecleaning.gta

Resources and More

If you would like to connect with a welcoming homeschool and unschool community, check out my Honey! I'm Homeschooling Membership Community. I am available live each month to support you, answer questions and connect with other like minded parents. Go to  https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids 

You may recognize Tira Hunter from my podcast interview with her and her daughter, Zoi. You can find that interview here~ Supporting Passions and Unschooling To Adulthood.

Thank you to our wonderful Sponsor!

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Mel Science is offering Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids listeners a 50% discount for the 1st month for any of their subscriptions (Chemistry, STEM, Physics, Coding, Med). To access this discount, use the promo code HONEY at purchase.

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Skills Homeschoolers Need For The Future

Do you think that the way to gain the skills you need for the future is only by attending College or University?

And what if you don't attend? What opportunities will you have?

What kind of jobs can my kids get if they homeschool or unschool?

How can I help them prepare for the world and every changing future?

What if University or College is not the option that my children want to pursue? What other choices do they have without traditional school experience?

In This Episode

In this episode I'm joined by Cameron Sorsby, CEO of Praxis. Cameron and I talk about the skills of the future and how young people can access the opportunities that are out there.

We begin with the ways that Praxis works as alternative to College and how it is not like any education you would see in a college. Praxis offers a 12 month long business apprenticeship program; 6 months professional development bootcamp and job placement process and a 6 month apprenticeship experience inside a growing business.The goal is to help individuals get their professional lives started.

Then we explore the skills and experiences that are needed for today's world and the future.

Skills Homeschoolers Need For The Future

What are the top skills that homeschoolers need for the future? Where can they create and bring value to the world? What is accessible to them right now?

Cam shares the insight he has gained from working with numerous graduates (and homeschoolers) that enter the Praxis program and what he has seen and heard from employers that are looking for capable people that stand out.

We talk about:

Why teens are more qualified than adults for most marketing jobs The value of Deep Work Top Skills that come from Attitude, Mindset and Learning From Mistakes Communication skills, Problem Solving and Self Direction Why having good energy, strong work ethic and zero entitlement issues stand out in today's world Personal and Professional Development Success and what it looks like in the business and career world today Creating value and clarity on what you want to do Why having different life experiences are invaluable The top 5 ways to gather information How we as parents can help our children

If you are a parent that is looking towards preparing your children for the future, then this episode is for you. If you are a parent of a teen that is self directed, homeschooled or unschooled and is ready for an alternative to College that offers hands on, real world experience and connections, then check out Praxis.

Resources

Discover Praxis

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit- https://howtobeanawesomehomeschooler.com/

Patreon Community– Become a patron~ https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids (Don’t forget that starting this May, you can join the community for monthly live meet-ups through Zoom)

Other episodes about homeschooling or unschooling teens or young adults:

Alternatives To College (Part 1 with Cameron Sorsby)

College and Self Discovery

Supporting Passions and Unschooling In The Teen Years

Supporting Passions and Unschooling To Adulthood

Growing Up Unschooled

Unschooling Teens With Karla Marie Williams

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Educators Turned Unschoolers

Do you like the idea of homeschooling but have a few doubts? Not sure if you are up to the task? Feeling under-qualified? Or maybe you are hoping that a progressive education will equate to the same thing. Now if only you can find the right school......

My episode guest, has many years of experience working in progressive education. Lesley Jones-Sessler is an educator and a former school administrator now turned unschooler. You can find her on her blog, Watch Monkey Mama to learn more about her family's unschooling journey.

When it came time for Lesley to begin looking for a school for her son, she was saddened by the lack of schools that fit the bill for progressive education in the state of Indiana. After a visit with their local public school, Lesley was also dismayed by the lack of diversity in the staff of the local school system. And then, Covid hit. Lesley decided that homeschool was now the most viable option. Little did she know she would find herself down the beginning of a rabbit hole of life learning.

After hours researching various homeschooling methods and philosophies, Lesley stumbled across the match for her family: the self directed learning community.

In This Episode

In This Episode Lesley and I explore the lines of school, homeschool and unschool. We break down:

Vocabulary terms in education- What is the difference between traditional vs progressive schooling? We discuss the Traditional viewpoint of - Authority, Lack of choice, Teaching to the test and drill and kill. Versus Progressive Education- Multi-age teaching, flexibility, hands on and child directed. Child Led Learning vs Self Directed Learning within Progressive Schools- Are they one- in- the same or is there a difference? Do both happen in progressive education? Lesley shares examples of what learnings look like in their home The power of "letting go" in unschooling Is it harder for educators to let go and unschool? We discuss her Deschooling process and how she shuts down negative self talk- ( you know that little voice of doubt and fear that we can all experience, coming from within and the outside? ) The two types of naysayers- and why understanding those types helps us to choose our response or reactions (or lack of) to them Having an accountability partner and advocate- why her sister is the biggest gift to their unschooling experience Lesley's advice to educators that are considering homeschooling

Resources

Reach out to Lesley through her blog- Watch Monkey Mama or on Instagram- @watchmonkeymama

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit- https://howtobeanawesomehomeschooler.com/

Patreon Community- Become a patron~ https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids (Don't forget that starting this May, you can join the community for monthly live meet-ups through Zoom)

Other episodes mentioned- Building Literacy At Home

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Natural Learning Resources

If you are new to homeschooling, are thinking about homeschooling or need some fresh ideas, then this episode is for you!

In this episode I'm sharing natural learning resources and ideas that we can use in our home education journey. This applies to all forms of Homeschooling and Unschooling. This episode is for the families that are looking to try something of the school box of learning.

What I share in this episode is not expensive curriculum. There is no curriculum mentioned at all, actually! Instead, these are resources, activities and tools that are easy to find and accessible within our home or community.

Where To Begin?

Where to begin? First I go through important steps to consider when you are beginning your homeschooling journey or when your family needs a change. I offer questions and prompts to consider on your own and with your family. Here are a few examples:

What is important in your home learning journey? What does learning mean to you? Education? What do I value? My learning history. Where am I coming from? Do my past education and school experiences reflect my current reality? Are there things from my past learning experience that I would like to change? Why? What impact would that have? Engage with your children- What are they interested in? What would they like to see and do in their homeschool life? In their daily life? What would they like to create? To play? What would they like to Build? Envision your home learning journey together- What do we love to do? When do we feel safe? What core values do we want to carry through?

Natural Learning Resources That My Family Has Loved

I share activities and resources that have supported my family's learning journey in many ways. In this episode I break up the resources into "subjects" or learning outcomes that they fall into.

Literacy: Family Read Alouds ~ All of the ways that it has enhanced our connection, the how, why and where it has added to our learning and suggestions Act It Out- Drama, Theatre, Dress Up & Make Believe~ Ways and resources we can enhance this at home and what it builds for our learning Audio~ Books and Podcasts Visual- Movies, Screen-time and Digital Media

Math: Lego~The math foundations that it builds Maps~What we always have in our home, ways we incorporate maps and the math concepts and foundations maps build and support Natural Learning Resources and tools that support Measurement- Digital Scales, Tape Measures, Sticks and more Building~ The materials we can find around us Board Games~ Gameschooling and my favourite places to find affordable games Creating Surveys

Science: Nature Journaling and Digital Apps Science Experiments~ Ideas from the kitchen Fire Science shows and documentaries~ Cosmos, Gross Science, Magic School Bus, Smithsonian, Bill Nye, Google Earth World Studies~ Food and Recipes, Geology and Geography Gardening Building and Machines~Ideas, Recycle Materials, Field Trips Space and Technology Blockchain and Cryptocurrency

Social Studies: History, Geography, People, Political Science, Ecology, Economics, Law World Studies- Kitchen Studies and projects Dancing, Painting, Folklore, Mythology Ted Talks~ My daughter's favourite is Fighting Cancer With Dance Travel Family History and Family Tree Local History from Elders and Community

Resource Mentions and Links

Patreon~ Join my Patreon community~https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

Honey! I'm Homeschooling Club on Clubhouse App

Instagram

Karla Marie Williams~ Inspired Learning Through Living and Unschooling Teens

Math episodes mentioned~ Math Codes with Kohila Sivas and Learning Math with Monica Robertson

Kitchen Scale- We use it often. This is the one we have that is simple and not expensive~ Digital Scale

Don't forget, if you are interested in my Gameschooling Guide contact me through here, Social Media or join my Patreon where you have access to any guides and resources I create and share.

Khan Academy (A Favourite in our home)

Inhabit Media

Inhabit Education

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Homeschool, Adversity and Education with Dr. Carline Crevecoeur

Dr. Carline Crevecoeur is a Haitian American board-certified obstetrician and gynecologist, a wife, and a mother of five adult children. 

She was raised in NY and attended St. John’s University as an undergraduate, earning a bachelor’s degree in chemistry. She did her medical school and residency training at SUNY Downstate. 

After several years of medical service in New York and Pennsylvania, Carline gave up her career to raise and homeschool her five African American children. Her homeschool journey is told in her new memoir: Pressure Makes Diamonds: From Homeschooling to the Ivy League – A Parenting Story. 

She has volunteered on education boards such as WPSU, a local public radio, and NAAHP (National Asso. for the Advancement of Haitian Professionals) and sponsored many public health programs.   

Dr. Crevecoeur has recently won her school board election race, making her the first Black person in her school district to do so. 

In This Episode

"Education is about life. And life happens."

In this episode Dr. Carline Crevecoeur and I explored our thoughts on parenting, learning, homeschooling, education and school. I know you will enjoy the warmth and heart that Carline brings to our conversations. In this episode you get to learn more about her work, homeschool life and the joy, adversity, grief and acceptance that came along with their experiences. This episode is not only for homeschool parents, but any parents that are looking to do better for their learning community.

Listen in as we talk about honouring the individual child and why sometimes the best we can do for their learning is to get out of their way. We also explore the power of family and community and being a role model within those spaces. For some, it may not seem like we belong but our voices are actually powerful and important. We also talk about Carline's wonderful book, Pressure Makes Diamonds- From Homeschooling To The Ivy League: A Parenting Story

Homeschool, Adversity and Education

I love talking with Carline and here's why I know you will love listening to our conversation;

Born in Haiti, Carline immigrated to New York and then raised her family (one a very few black families) in Pennsylvania. Through these experiences she brings diverse perspective.

Dr. Carline Crevecoeur is a doctor that decided to leave her practice to homeschool her 5 children because that decision reflected their core values of family, connection and self confidence best. I know it was not an easy decision! But for me, her careful thought and personal reflection on that experience offers insight and a confidence that I appreciate.

All of her 5 homeschooled children attended Ivy League schools. You'll hear from Carline what made their homeschool successful. (It was not the schools but the connection and personal confidence that her children built)

Carline homeschooled through tough times. She was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer at 49 years of age. Her bravery and outlook on life is encouraging to every one of us. And the perspective she gives as a homeschool mom through fear, pain, grief, struggle and then acceptance is invaluable. She now serves her greater community as a publicly elected school board trustee. All of her previous life and homeschool experiences are now blended with her current role in the public service. To me this seems to only enhance her dedication and heart.

Resources

Thank you Dr. Crevecoeur. It is always a please to chat with you about life, your experiences and beliefs on homeschool, the adversity that you face and overcome and the importance of education.

Website- https://www.carlinecrevecoeur.com/

Book- Pressure Makes Diamonds- From Home Schooling To The Ivy League: A Parenting Story

Previous Episode with Crevecoeur- Homeschooling To The Ivy Leagues

From Nothing To Anything- April 23rd, 24th. Join me for my keynote,

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Julie Bogart is a mother to 5 adult children that she homeschooled full time for 17 years. She is a writer and owner of Brave Writer, a company she started in January of 2000 with the hope to be able to raise children who see writing as a tool of self expression, not merely a subject to pass to get into college.

Julie joined me in my Club, Honey! I'm Homeschooling to talk about her book, Raising Critical Thinkers.

Raising Critical Thinkers

This conversation was engaging, passionate and timely. We explored what it means to be a critical thinker and the ways that we can support critical thinking.

So why this book, now?

Starting with the dawn of the internet, Julie was flabbergasted with how cruel people could be to each other on line. It was almost opposite to how we interacted face to face. Julie wanted to know;

Why do we believe we are right?

Why do we double down so hard in the face of people we care about sharing a different belief system than us?

What can we do to recapture civil discourse while growing and learning?

Why do we think what we think?

In this discussion we explore thinking critically in a world that offers unlimited information, interpretations, viewpoints and opinions.

Julie asks, "Can we learn to tolerate our own discomfort while making room for a viewpoint that contradicts what we want to be true?"

Will we make room to understand how beliefs function for other people?

Within our Homes, With Our Children and Homeschooling

Julie says that critical thinking starts with caring. The majority of my listeners are parents like me, that are dedicated to creating and supporting the best loving environment that we can offer our children. Because don't we as parents care the most?

Julie shares that feeling, but asks us to reflect on the idea that we often want our children to uncritically accept our authority first. And when we do that, is that giving them a chance to think critically?

You know the saying, "parents always know best"? Or "do as I say". When we believe this, what we are asking for is strict obedience. She calls it our "parental propaganda program". Julie asks that before we demand compliance we fist explore ideas with our kids. We challenge our own beliefs and value the perspective and story of each child.

Ultimately, "We are trying to have capacity to hold more viewpoints, not fewer."

Resources

Brave Writer

Julie's book Raising Critical Thinkers

If you enjoyed this interview with Julie, check out my first interview with her on the podcast http://imhomeschooling.com/the-brave-learner-julie-bogart/

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Resilience

This special recorded interview is from the March 2022 How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit. The summit theme was the 3 R's of learning which for us is not the traditional reading, wRiting, aRithmetic. The 3 R's are; Reclaim, Resist, Resilience.

Leah McDermott, founder of Your Natural Learner was our keynote speakers to the theme of Resilience. Resilience for homeschool parents as well as our children. Leah joined me to close out the day with this special interview.

Leah McDermott~ Mom, Grown Homeschooler, Educator, Unschooler

First and foremost, Leah is a mom. She has three rambunctious little boys who love spending every single second that they can out in nature.

Leah’s story begins as a homeschooled child. Her father was in the military, so her parents began homeschooling her in third grade out of necessity at first, but eventually because of a disappointment in the complete lack of engaging material found in the classrooms (keep in mind this was over 20 years ago!) 

Sadly, not much has changed for the better. Her homeschool days were filled with family activities, independent learning, field trips, and worldwide adventures. She made it into her first choice for college with multiple scholarships. Leah received her Bachelors in Elementary Education, followed by a Masters of Education as a certified Reading Specialist, followed by a second Masters of Education in Curriculum and Instruction. After three years of teaching in both rural and urban elementary schools, she decided to leave the profession after having her oldest son. 

When her son turned two, and began to show interest in learning, Leah found that she naturally was providing exciting learning opportunities for him, and had many mothers begin asking her to share my experiences with them. And now..here she is…

From Homeschool To School To No School

Leah and I got into all of the ideas we hold onto around learning, children and development:

The difference between the traditional system and what the data shows from neuroscience around development and learning. (How we learn best does not match what we do in the traditional education system)

The Deschooling process and how it can be an even bigger for parents that come to homeschooling as trained educators.

Learning to write

Screens and time with screens

Trusting the natural learning process

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit

If you enjoyed this episode, the full day recordings are available on the website, How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler. The Recordings include:

Reclaim~ Ainsley Arment of Wild+Free

Reclaim The Teen Years~Kelly Edwards creator of the 90 Minute School Day and Robyn Robertson of Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids

Resist~Karen Ricks of Our Kitchen Classroom

Play With Your Food Workshop with Karen Ricks

Resist~ Karema Akilah founder of The Genius School

Resilience~Leah McDermott of Your Natural Learner

If you have enjoyed this podcast and would like to be part of the community or support our work, join or follow us here…..

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Clubhouse~Honey! I’m Homeschooling Club

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Supporting Passions and Unschooling to Adulthood

The Hunter family began their unschooling journey over 9 years ago. Tira Hunter says that "the benefits of unschooling put her daughter on a path to have a career in art and the freedom to pursue her passions on her own terms."

Zoi Hunter is now 19 years old and a full-time commissioned artist. Zoi and her mother, Tira joined me on this episode to talk about their path to unschooling. They also share what they were able to reclaim along the way.

Supporting Passions and Unschooling to Adulthood- What You'll Hear In This Episode

You'll probably notice as you listen to this episode that Tira is a friend of mine. We met online and became fast friends, sharing our fears, joys and continuous Deschooling with each other. As moms to Unschooled teens that are extremely focused on personal passions, we connected.

Knowing Tira and Zoi's journey, I was excited that they came on the show. Their story is so real and inspiring that I know parents will appreciate hearing it. And to hear them share this story together makes it even more impactful.

"I was a nervous wreck."

Tira keeps it real. She is extremely honest about the struggles and fears she has had on this journey. As she says, the person in their family that had the hardest time Deschooling was.. her.

In this episode you'll hear their story from Academic public school to unschooling. Actually, their path went from public school to "school at home" homeschooling to unschooling. Tira did what many of us do, repeat what we know, even if it is no longer serving us. What we know is usually school. It wasn't until they were absolutely miserable that Zoi's dad suggested a change. Tira scaled back, stepped back and tried this unschooling thing.

Zoi was ready for change. You'll hear how and why self directed learning was the best match for her, how it shifted their family dynamic and helped Tira to let go of her "schoolish" ideas.

But How Do Grown Unschoolers Actually Find A Job Or Get Into College?

Tira shares a wonderful story in this episode of when Unschooling finally "clicked" for her. She saw her apply what she was doing to life. Zoi had a task to complete and found an ingenious solution to a problem on her own because of the time she had to experiment, research and test. (The Dish Soap Story ;) )

From there, the time and space Zoi had allowed her to explore art. And Zoi's interest in Art and creating took off. Art became Zoi's passion, her full circle unschooling journey. Zoi and Tira share how art has been Zoi's path to business and the broader world. We talk about the steps and mentors she has found along the way and the opportunities that opened up for her through unschooling.

Zoi certainly did not follow a traditional path, but that did not hold her back. By stepping out of the traditional path Zoi was able to flourish.

If you are interested in unschooling or want to learn more about unschooling as your children get into their older years, this episode is for you. I also recommend the episode Supporting Passions and Unschooling In The Teen Years that features my son and his journey following his passions in unschooling and where it is taking him.

Resources

Zoi's Instagram~ https://www.instagram.com/artbyzoi/

Zoi's newest book- Everybody Has A Belly Button

Special Shout outs to Unschooling Mentors we mentioned (and who also have been guests on this show!)

Karla Marie Williams

Karema Akilah

Sue Patterson

John Holt

My son's interview on Galileo- Unschooling And The Freedom To Follow My Passion

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit- March 18th 2022

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit we are going deep into the 3 R's of Learning. No, not Reading, wRiting, aRithmetic but RECLAIM. RESIST. RESILIENCE. We are gathering for the day, LIVE on clubhouse to listen to stories and keynote, ask questions, learn, gather resources and find community. Go to the website to register to gain access to community as well as all of the goodies that come with this summit.

We have our amazing keynotes- Ainsley Arment of Wild + Free, Kelly Edwards of 90 Minute School Day, Robyn Robertson of Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids, Karema Akilah of The Genius School, Karen Ricks of Our Kitchen Classroom, Leah McDermott of Your Natural Learner.

Shout out to our summit sponsors whose contributions allows this summit to remain accessible to the community.

Praxis

Math Codes

CoLearn

Phonics in Motion

MapleRose

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Supporting Passions & Unschooling In The Teen Years

In unschooling, children learn through everyday life experiences. That is the path that our family has followed since we decided to Worldschool, when our oldest was halfway through grade 1. We made a choice to try our best to support our children in following their interests and passions. What that looked like many years later was our son, at age 14, leaving home to live and work in the Canadian wilderness for a wildlife outfitters. He worked many months trail cutting, horse wrangling and learning to guide.

In This Episode~Unschooling In The Teen Years

Want a a little peek into what it looks like to raise a teen Unschooler? In this episode, I interview my son, Ronan. We talk about supporting passions, his time away from home, what it is like growing up unschooled and our family experience. We also took time to answer questions sent in by listeners:

What did he learn about himself while he was living and working away from home at age 14 & 15?

What did he miss and not miss about home?

How did unschooling help him prepare for his adventures and his return home?

What was the hardest thing he had to face during his time away? How did you solve it?

What are his future plans?

What words of advice do I, as his mom, have for other parents that want to unschool in the teen years and support their children's passions?

Support and Community for Parents that are looking to homeschool or unschool

Our Second Homeschooling Summit begins March 18th! It is a day jam packed with resources, information, conversation and amazing guests. You will walk away inspired and ready to reclaim joy in learning, encouraged and ready to resist those naysayers and resilient with a wider community of support.

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit~ March 18th~Reclaim. Resist. Resilience.

Join our amazing line up of speakers and connect with wonderful community.

Reclaim Keynote: Ainsley Arment of Wild + Free

Reclaim Keynote: Kelly Edwards of 90 Minute School Day and Robyn Robertson of Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids~ Reclaim The Teen Years

Resist Keynote and Workshop~Worldschooling and Play: Karen Ricks of Our Kitchen Classroom

Resist Keynote: Karema Akilah of The Genius School

Resilience Keynote and Live Podcast Interview: Leah McDermott of Your Natural Learner

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Reclaim. Resist. Resilience.

Homeschooling shifts and changes with the season, doesn't it? Our homeschool seasons may follow a weather pattern, but more often than not, they follow development, physical cycles and the impact of our life experiences. In this episode Kelly Edwards and I talk about this newest season of homeschool that we face. Our kids are getting older, the world around us is shifting and our needs have become clearer. What we need is our 3 R's- Reclaim, Resists and Resilience.

This March 18th, we are hosting another homeschooling summit~ How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler ~ based on the Three R's~ Reclaim, Resist, Resilience. We know through our own experience that we can't do this alone. Homeschooling works best in community. So we have decided to create one. You can join us at the summit.

In This Episode.... Reclaim

What does we need to reclaim in our homeschool? Kelly and I talk about how our homeschool can be impacted when we work at reclaiming childhood, motherhood, the teen years, freedom and independence.

Resist

Did you know that just the act of choosing to homeschool is resistance? Resistance can mean many things to different people, but in homeschooling the choice to resist is impactful. We talk about how choosing to resist things like parenting norms that no longer serve us, beliefs about children and the learning process can actually free us in our homeschool journey.

Resilience

The 3 R's actually tie together. When we choose to reclaim our core values, childhood and the natural learning process, we are resisting the beleifs and fears that are holding us back. And when we begin facing our fears and learning how to work through them, connect and find support, our resileince grows. Our children become more resilient and in turn, our family structure does too.

Who doesn't want that?

Join us March 18th in my Club, Honey! I'm Homeschooling on the Clubhouse app. The summit is a free all day event with a chance to learn, ask questions and connect.

The summit features 6 keynote speakers for the themes of Reclaim.Resist.Resilience.  Here is a peek into what the day will look like: 

Friday, March 18  Reclaim 10:00 am EsT:Ainsley Arment, Wild+Free

Live Keynote+Q&A

Friday, March 18  Reclaim 11:00 am EsT:Robyn Robertson, Honey! I’m Homeschooling The Kids & Kelly Edwards, 90-Minute School Day ~ Reclaim the Teen Years

Live Keynote+Q&A

Friday, March 18 Resist 1:00 pm EsT: Karen Ricks, Our Kitchen Classroom

Live Keynote+Q&A Interactive Workshop at 1:45 PM EST

Friday, March 18 Resist  2:30  pm EsT: Karema Akilah, The Genius School

Live Keynote+Q&A

Friday, march 18 Resilience  5:00  pm EsT: Leah McDermott, Your Natural Learner

Live Keynote+Q&A Live Podcast Interview- Leah + Robyn - Resilience in the 3 R’s - 6:00 PM EST

Our goal is to support, equip, and inspire homeschooling parents. How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit

Here are a few episode you may want to check out before the summit that feature our wonderful speakers.

Ainsley Arment

Kelly Edwards

Karen Ricks

Karema Akilah

Leah McDermott

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Ekanem Ebinne is a musical parenting coach with 15 years of experience as a kids and family music programmer, in a wide range of musical styles. She is trained in developmental musical psychology and certified to teach music for infants and young children by the Gordon Institute for Music Learning. Ekanem has worked with kids and adults from over 15 countries.

Music has always been about connecting with other people

"Music has always been about connecting with other people....but right now music is about connecting to what's stable and beautiful and hopeful for me from the past and hopefully going into the future". Ekanem and I explore the world of connection, communication, children and parenting through music. Music and communication.

Have we lost our connection to music? Are we disconnected from the right to be musical? This is explored as part of the Deschooling theme this season. We discuss how we view music as a form of communication and relationship with others, particularly with our children and ourselves.

In this episode

In this episode we explore the power and history of music. "All behaviour is musical. Tone, intensity, rhythmic. Tuning in is a way of communicating and relating to each other." If all behaviour is musical, then why do we compartmentalize music in our learning and life? Ekanem takes me on an exploration of:

Music and Communication The ways we have lost touch with our "music-ing" The words we use that discourage the musical process and musical communication in our everyday lives. "I can't sing", "tone deaf"...what that really means and how we can shift our words and perspective Two ways we can improve our basic "Musicman-ship" Using and introducing instruments to our young children- where and how do we start? Building an initial vocabulary of music from our children's infancy Finding and supporting our child's natural rhythm and musical tastes

Ekanem's work focuses on mothers with young children and supporting music from those stages but she says that it is never too late. Even if we didn't start young. We can still bring music into the rhythms of our every day.

Resources

You can connect with Ekanem on Clubhouse @Ekanem Ebinne

Instagram @singinghome

Christopher Small Book- Musicking (making music into a verb and not a noun)

The Gordon Institute For Music Learning

Connect with Ekanem Ebinne- https://thesinginghome.square.site/easily-get-kids-to-listen-free-weekly-event

If you have enjoyed this podcast and would like to be part of the community or support our work, join or follow us here.....

Patreon~ https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

Clubhouse~Honey! I'm Homeschooling Club

Homeschooling With Purpose Master Class

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler March Summit

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Conscious Parenting & Deschooling

Re-examining how we live, learn and parent.

Welcome to episode 116. This episode is a recording of my December Clubhouse room with Tira Hunter, Erika Kesliman and Missy Willis. Our theme ~ Conscious Parenting and Deschooling goes deeper into our journey of learning and self refelction.

Tira Hunter is an unschooling mom to 18 year old Zoi. Tira decided to homeschool Zoi part way through elementary school and after trying to replicate school at home with misery, they found the path to unschooling. With unschooling, Zoi was able to exercise her independence and creativity. Zoi works as a commissioned artist and is currently writing her own comic. Tira is an advocate for the deschooling process.

Erica Kesilman is an unschooling mom to 3 children, ages 2, 5 & 7. She is a previous public school educator and is now a certified conscious parenting coach. She feels that conscious parenting and reflection is a necessary part of the deschooling process.

Missy Willis is an unschooling mom to her 2 children, ages 19 and 14. They have unschooled for 13 years and counting. She is a former teacher and now supports parents through her writing and conversations at Let 'em Go Barefoot.

Deschooling~ A quick definition

I define deschooling as the concept of living life and learning outside of the ideas of the traditional institution of school. The idea of learning and school is often synonymous. The belief that is supported is that learning is only done within the walls of the classroom and top down with certain people. Instead we start to look at learning as an internal process, inclusive with community, at different times and stages. Living and learning comes together. Getting comfortable with allowing learning to happen in a different way than we have done it.

In This Episode

This episodes shares personal reflections from 3 parents that found their way to unschooling and why deschooling has been such an important part of their family's transition from school. This is what you will hear in this episode....

Words that defined our conversation- flexibility, retooling, space, wisdom, power, sovereignty, respect, self worth, trust, connection, worthiness, intentions, values, genius, agency and relationship.

What is deschooling and why is it important?

What is conscious parenting

Conscious parenting practices

Where do our beliefs come from?

Replicating school at home- School think vs Unschooling & Homeschooling

Looking at our values as a family

Why homeschooling is nothing like school

Exploring freedom for our children and for ourselves

What to do when your partner is not on the same page of the deschooling process?

Resources

Deschooling Society~ Ivan Illich

My favourite Resources~ https://imhomeschooling.com/homeschool-resources/

Erica Kesilman- https://www.ericakesilman.com/

Let 'Em Go Barefoot

Homeward- Zoi's Comic on Webtoons

Teenage Liberation Handbook~ Grace Llewellyn

Peter Gray Free To Learn

John Taylor Gatto

Children of The Code

Skip College

Other Episodes to Check Out

Missy Willis~https://imhomeschooling.com/conscious-educator/

Peter Gray~ https://imhomeschooling.com/free-to-learn-peter-gray/

Building Literacy At Home~ https://imhomeschooling.com/building-literacy-at-home/

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Deschooling Money & Minimalism

Rachel Rainbolt joins me on the podcast for episode 116, Deschooling, Money & Minimalism. This season we are moving further into the Deschooling process; what it means, why it is important, the broader impacts it has in our life and how it can positively impact our learning journey. (That's right. I said how it can positively impact our learning journey)

Rachel Rainbolt, founder of Sage Family, is a gentle parenting, natural homeschooling, and simple living mentor. With a master’s degree in marital and family therapy, she has spent decades guiding thousands of overwhelmed families to peace and joy. Rachel works from the Pacific Northwest, where she lives wild and free in connection with her 3 wildlings and the papa bear in their fixer upper on the beach.

In This Episode

Homeschooling flourishes when we are intentionally connected to our values. In this episode we explore what those values are for Rachel's family and the impact it has on not just their learning world, but on the life they lead. It's all about Deschooling Money, Minimalism, Simplicity, Intentionality and Relationships in order to live our best life. Tune in to listen to our discussion on:

Why natural homeschooling connects with Rachel's family's values and beliefs Minimalism- letting go of all of the stuff that doesn't matter so that we create space for what does Why unschooling is minimalism for education Minimalism in parenting Minimalism in relationships Simplifying life to fulfillment The idea of Excess for Success Spending in alignment with values Deschooling money- looking with nonjudgemental curiosity at our relationship with money What it means to have a healthy relationship with money and why this is a part of the Deschooling process How to talk about money with our kids without fear and baggage

Resources Mentioned

There were a ton of tips and resources on deschooling money and minimalism that we shared in this episode. You can find the links below

Connect with Rachel

Sage Family

Sage Family Podcast

Rachel on Instagram

Sage Family Village

Bucket System (course)

Homeschool Hacks (freebie)

Sage Money (course)

Money Mojo Quiz (freebie)

Money Book List

Books Mentioned

A Simple Path To Wealth

Total Money Makeover- Dave Ramsey

Your Money Or Your Life- Vicki Robin

The 4 Hour Work Week- Tim Ferris

Connect With Robyn

Homeschooling With Purpose Master Class

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler March Summit

Listen to Rachel's first interview on the podcast and learn more about their journey into natural learning.

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Season 6- Deschooling and Growing Without School

Welcome to a new season of Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids. Season 6.

If you are new to the podcast, let me introduce myself. My name is Robyn Robertson and I am the creator and host of Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids. I am a home educating mom with hopes, dreams, failures and doubts.

Just like you. 

In this episode I share a little story about our family, how we found our way to homeschooling and to creating this podcast.

I also share what I came to observe, notice and question as we found ourselves farther along this learning journey.

What to expect for Season 6

This season we are diving further into Deschooling.

9 years and counting and we are still Deschooling!

What is Deschooling?

Deschooling is rethinking, reflecting and stepping away from the “schoolish” ideas and ways of thinking. 

There is a period of adjustment from traditional school to homeschooling that is often referred to as deschooling. 

Deschooling is taking an intentional step away from trying to replicate school at home and giving space (for your whole family) to adjust to the change. The transition from school to learning at home can be an adjustment in understanding the freedom you now have—because that freedom can be intimidating. After many years of being told what to do and how to do it, most of us have been thoroughly “schooled.” Deschooling is overcoming the conditioning that says that learning has to be done a certain way (or has to look a certain way) when, in fact, it does not. It is overcoming the conditioning that our children have to look and create in a certain way, when in fact they are as individual and different as we are. 

I get many questions on the deschooling process and we will explore this further. Trust me, it helps. I'll share tools that have helped me on this journey and the stories of others that are in the thick of Deschooling.

We will also explore the teen years in homeschooling and unschooling. As we continue to homeschool, our kids have grown older. Many homeschoolers now have young adults that grew up homeschooled, unschooled or have teens in the midst of it all. This is where our family is at.

There have been so many discussion and questions that have come up for us. Especially as we prepare our children to enter the world, a world that still holds a fairly rigid belief on how things should be done and how young people should be viewed. What happens when your children don’t fit any of those molds? 

Resources

Project Based Homeschooling Book

National Home Education Research Institute

How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler Summit

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Veteran Unschooling Moms Q&A

Are you new to unschooling? Does it sound like a beautiful concept, to support your children in their natural, non-rushed learning process? But yet, are you still having a hard time wrapping your head around it? 

What about the unschooled teens? What happens to the families that have unschooled all of their lives? Or for a major portion of their young lives into adulthood? How do they turn out?

This episode features 5 veteran unschooling moms that I invited to my Homeschool Club on the Clubhouse app to answer questions about unschooling. I wanted to share the perspectives of parents that have been at this unschooling thing for a while. I wanted to bring knowledge and experience to the table. These are moms that I know, respect and have learned from myself.

Veteran Unschooling Moms

This is who joined the discussion...

Sue Patterson of UnschoolingMom2Mom. Sue is mom to 3 grown Unschoolers, an Unschooling Coach and podcaster that offers wonderful insight.

Karema Akilah of The Genius School is an unschooling mom to 6. Her children started out traditionally homeschooling until their "delight driven afternoons" became the primary focus and learning began to take on much more personal meaning.

Missy Willis of Let Em Go Barefoot is an unschooling mom to 2 teens, age 19 and 14. She is a past guest, blogger and peaceful parenting advocate.

Stacey Piercey in an unschooling mom to 3 boys. She is an entrepreneur and part of the Galileo Xp, an online self directed learning platform.

Tira Hunter is mom to an 18 year old unschooled artist. Tira is a regular co-host and moderator in my club on Clubhouse, sharing her knowledge and insights from the years.

And of course, there was myself, as the host. My family are unschoolers and although we did not start out as unschoolers, we slowly made our way to this life learning process over the years. My children are both teens, pursuing their interests and choosing the how, what, where and when of their own learning.

This panel is diverse and engaging.

Unschooling Q&A

We spoke to the unexpected gifts that unschooling brought to each of our families and how they found their way into the unschooling world. We also tackled the questions that are regularly asked because they straddle the line of unschooling, choice and parental direction. Screentime ~ Is it about ownership or is it about boundaries? Strewing Unschooling one child- what about offering enough exposure? How to begin the unschooling process from the teen years? What to do when you (as the parent) just can't seem to let go? How can we best support our children's interests when unschooling?

What other questions about unschooling do you have?

Resources

If you enjoyed the episode and the discussion, I recommend you check out each of my personal interviews on this podcast with Sue, Karema, Missy and Stacey. I also recommend that you join me on Clubhouse. We run regular discussion rooms every week. It's an extension of this show and a chance to build better connection, find inspiration and get direct answers to your questions. Look for the club name, Honey! I'm Homeschooling or tap this LINK to join.

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Building Literacy At Home

This is episode 113 and I am excited to share this Clubhouse discussion on building literacy at home. In this special episode I invited three moms that share my passion for learning in the natural world. All three of my co-hosts are former school educators and two of the three are now homeschooling parents.

Lesley Jones Sessler is a progressive educator, blogger at WatchMonkeyMama and school principal turned unschooler.

Elsa E. Jones is a professional development consultant with a specialization in birth to 5 years. She is also an early childhood equity and social justice activist, Chair and Professor of Early Childhood Education.

Demetria Giles is a school designer, education consultant and homeschooling mom to her son.

Ways We Can Build and Support Literacy At Home

Are you homeschooling or unschooling and concerned about your children learning to read? Tired of boring writing curriculum that no one in your family wants to really do? Are you looking for other ideas on how to support reading, writing and literacy in your home?

This episode will leave you empowered to support joyful learning in your home with tools and ideas from infancy to the later years.

We explore:

Learning to read and write- what is literacy? How to offer nonstop exposure Listening, Conversation, Retelling and Artistic Expression- a story doesn't always mean what's in a book Literacy through play and building from infancy Reading isn't just the words on a page- other ways in life that we "read" and communicate Access and Exposure Different kinds and levels of stories Higher Order Thinking Skills Reasons to write Digital Literacy and changes for the future

Dive a Little Deeper and Other Resources

I offer a free, welcome community for Parents and Educators on the Clubhouse App. Join my Club, Honey! I'm Homeschooling on Clubhouse and be part of our weekly discussions that are held 4 times a week. Download the app or go to my Club link~ Honey! I'm Homeschooling.

If you would like to learn more, I recommend you listen to my previous interview with Demetria Giles; From School To Homeschool. You can connect with Demetria via Instagram drosewritings

You can connect with Lesley through her blog https://watchmonkeymama.com/category/homeschooling/ or on Instagram.

Elsa, Lesley and Demetria can all be found on the Clubhouse app.

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Creating A Culturally Rich Home Learning Environment

Amber O’Neal Johnston is a writer, speaker, and Worldschooling Charlotte Mason mama who blends living books with life-giving books and a culturally-rich environment for her four children and others seeking to do the same. She recommends we offer children opportunities to see themselves and others reflected in their lessons and especially throughout their books, and she’s known for sharing literary “mirrors and windows” on HeritageMom.com and @heritagemomblog on Instagram.

I have followed Amber on social media for a while now and I wanted a chance to know her homeschool story a little more. "Charlotte Mason with an afro" tagline got me pretty quickly. Amber gave me a a chance to ask all of the questions around homeschool life, purpose and creating a culturally rich home learning environment.

In This Episode

Can you delve into literature, living books and classical history and find examples of people that look you? Do your children find their own likeness reflected back to them in the pages they turn?

Not every family can answer yes.

But Amber O'Neal Johnston's family is trying to bridging that gap to create an inclusive, culturally rich education.

In this episode Amber shared with me the reasons why they first chose to homeschool and why they continue to homeschool. Coming from a family of school administrators, I knew that her choice to homeschool came from deep within the heart, not just the mind. She explained that this was a decision they made for their oldest child. They were uncertain at first if she would fit into the mainstream classroom. After time passed and their family grew, they came to recognize that homeschooling catered to her individual intricacies. But it also highlighted the unique gifts that each of their children brings to them.

"It's not what we are going to exclude, it's who we are going to include"

Amber and I also explored how their homeschool has become a culturally confirming environment. The importance of raising black kids to love themselves became a central part of their learning life after her daughter told her that "you say that we study important people- and they are all white". She wondered where or if anyone that looks like her has a place in the past, present or future. So along with love and faith, this quickly became a guiding purpose in their learning life. Through the stories they read, the travel they embark on and who they are being in the world, they truly own their own learning.

It's "not what we are going to exclude, it's who we are going to include", Amber tells me. I certainly connect with that.

If you enjoyed this interview you can find Amber at her blog, HeritageMom.com and on Instagram @heritagemomblog. She offers a wealth of resources to families that are also looking for a more culturally confirming learning environment.

I also recommend checking out my episodes with Karema Akilah of The Genius School and Akilah S Richards of Fare of The Free Child. Although Karema and Akilah are Unschoolers, rather than Charlotte Mason homeschoolers, their purpose is similar. Raising black kids to love themselves. And support learners in their diversity and liberation.

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Homeschooling~Getting Started Part 2:Clubhouse Edition

Are you just getting started in homeschooling? Or are you a homeschooler that has hit a bump in the road and needs a little more encouragement?

This episode is for you then.

Our September Theme in the Honey! I'm Homeschooling club on Clubhouse was; Homeschooling- Getting Started. I recorded two of our Clubhouse conversations from that month and this episode is Part 2. We welcomed many new homeschoolers this year and we want to make sure that each family that is in the beginning of their journey (actually at any stage in their journey) gets the support they need. This is one way that we do that.

In This Episode

In this episode of Homeschooling~Getting Started, Part 2 we discuss: Exploring values and guiding purpose Building our family rhythms What a week looks like in our unschooling family Expectations and fears How different homeschooling families deal with change Our role as parents in homeschool life Ways we can support self directed learning What you can do when your child has learned beyond the level that you can teach them

If you haven't listened to Part 1 yet, you can go back and listen HERE.

Looking For Community? Honey! I'm Homeschooling Club on Clubhouse

Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids Club on the Clubhouse app is a way to connect with homeschooling community. Each week we host 4 discussion rooms on homeschooling, unschooling and self directed learning. The club and the discussion groups are free to join. Clubhouse is an audio only app so no need to post pictures, share video or even get out of your pyjamas. Just come as you are. Share stories, ask questions or just be there to listen. You can find our weekly schedule below and a little more inspiration below:

Saturdays - 11 am EST / 8 am PST~ Building Learning Foundations Through Connection and Relationships Robyn Robertson, Liana Francisco

Mondays - 1 pm EST / 10 am PST~Keeping Homeschooling Simple Kelly Edwards, Liana Francisco

Tuesdays - 6 pm EST / 3 pm PST~Hot Topic and Special Guests Robyn Robertson + Special Guest

Thursdays- 3pm EST / 12pm PST~Homeschooling in the Elementary Ages and Younger Allison Towner + Guest

If you haven't already, join my email list where I share tips and stories from our unschooling journey.

My Patreon community https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids is packed with downloads, Q&A's and live support each month.

Resources

Here's a list of the wonderful resources (with links) that were shared in this episode:

Clubhouse~Honey! I'm Homeschooling Club

How To Cake it

Monica Cochran- Learning Without Borders

Pat Farenga- Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids Interview, John Holt GWS

Carmen Gamper~ Flow To Learn Book, Flow To Learn Website

AERO ~ Alternative Education Resource Organization

Jeremy Stuart Documentaries- Self Taught~Life Stories From Self Directed Learners

Homeschooling Getting Started Clubhouse Edition~Part 1

Questions? Connect with me through email. Looking to get closer? Ask me about my one-on-one coaching support. robyn@imhomeschooling.com.

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Food, Parenting and Unschooling

FOOD. What does that word bring up for you?

Does it make you think of work, hurt or frustration?

Or does it conjure up feelings of joy, positivity and empowerment?

It's interesting how our ideas, thoughts and even judgements around food are similar to those we hold around learning. For some of us, food can certainly play a large part in our parenting framework.

Deena Barselah joined me on this episode to talk about our expectations and ideas around food. We went deeper and explored how food fits into our parenting and learning life. I loved this conversation. Deena lays out such a powerful connection between food, parenting and unschooling that I had never looked at before.

Holistic and Integrative Coach

Deena is a Holistic and Integrative Health Coach who guides mothers and families all over the world to remove the chore from food and cultivate a more joyful, connected, easier, and confident relationship with food.  She's supported her own disordered eating, autoimmune conditions, and chronic digestive distress with shifts in diet, habits, and nervous system healing.  Deena believes there's no one-size-fits-all to family food and that by cultivating a system that works well for your unique family, you can let go of the "shoulds" that weigh you down.  She lives in Encinitas, CA with her husband and son and is a homeschooling mama.  Previously, Deena worked in the corporate world in areas of Organizational Psychology and People Development.  

In This Episode

In this episode Deena's connection between food, parenting and unschooling was fantastic. She had me step re-examine my ideas around food, snacks, mealtime and what I model for my family. She asks are the rules or expectations around food truly ours? Do they apply to who you are or are they prescriptive ideas that we have taken? We also tackled some of those food topics that seem to be regular sore spots for parents:

Snacking Dinner time Meal Planning The pressure of the "well rounded meal" Picky Eaters Candy and Treats Halloween

Deena leaves us with actionable tips and thoughtful questions that help us reframe unrealistic expectations we may be holding on to around food.

Resources

If you would like to learn more Deena and her community, you can find her on her website http://deenabarselah.com/

Her workshop is The Joyful Family Meal and you can also find her on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/deenabarselah/

If you enjoyed this conversation, I am sure you will like my conversation with Liana Francisco. Liana is a grown unschooler that now unschools her son. She's also a serial entrepreneur and coach who helps other moms make plant-based eating easy with a system. 

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Alternatives to College~Praxis

Is University or College the only option? I know University is what we push, or aspire our kids to attend. We try our best to use their childhood to prepare them it. Not to prepare them for adulthood, but for college.

I even notice at times that people measure the success of homeschooling or unschooling on...college. Were they able to get in, did they attend and if they did, where did they go? How did they do? There seems to be the perception that "something must be wrong with you if you don't go to school." But really, is there something wrong? Or have there only been limited alternatives and viewpoints up until now? What are the alternatives to College?

If you are familiar with my podcast, you will know that I am all about exploring the alternatives. I showcase the unique learning lives that families have created. I want to continue offering these numerous perspectives and this episode is no different. This time I am showcasing a different perspective on post secondary education. It is called Praxis and I am joined by the CEO of Praxis, Cameron Sorsby.

Praxis~ Get matched with a full-time, paid apprenticeship without the cost or hassle of college. No degree required

Cameron Sorsby is the CEO of Praxis, a year-long apprenticeship program that combines a professional bootcamp and a full-time paid job at a high-growth startup. The program offers a direct route into entrepreneurial careers for driven young people without the cost and hassle of college. Outside of Praxis, Cameron enjoys spending time with his family, golfing, and reading. As a former public and private school student, he's very jealous of all the amazing homeschoolers that join Praxis.

In This Episode~Praxis Philosophy

In this episode Cameron and I explore the core philosophy of Praxis- that the best way to learn is through experience. We talk about how and why Praxis came to be in 2013 and what it looks like now. We break down the 3 different stages of life and learning at Praxis and why this program is so uniquely different to traditional college and university. It comes down to:

The career discovery process and the foundational skills that a person needs, no matter what The job hunt and landing a job- being pro-active and creative Setting yourself up for continuous growth and learning Apprenticeship and mentorship At a fraction of the cost

Did you know that close to 40% of Praxis alumni we homeschooled? That is a high number. And it speaks to the core philosophy of the program- that the best way to learn is through experience. It is a philosophy that many homeschoolers connect with. That philosophy and the choice of developing and betting on "self" instead of a traditional education and career path. That happens is the chance to build like and career on your own terms. I know many homeschoolers that wholeheartedly agree.

Here are a few cornerstones that Cameron left for us in this interview. He was referring to guiding principles for young people facing the world, but I feel they apply to each one of us.

Gain Work Experience Don't equate education with formal school- pursue interests, go down rabbit holes, learn as much as you can Don't be a consumer of content- Be a creator of content Get uncomfortable, get over the perfectionist mindset and develop the ability to do things with intention

Resources

If you connect with these and would like to learn more about Praxis, I suggest that you go to their website, DiscoverPraxis.com, join their newsletter or follow them on social media @DiscoverPraxis- on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter

If you enjoyed this conversation and would like to hear more about homeschooling or unschooling and college, check out my interview with Hannah Frankman, a grown homeschooler that found a career at Praxis.

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Did you know that only 40% of College Students graduate in 4 years?

60% graduate in 6 years.

60% change majors at least 3 times.

In the US, the average cost of an instate public college is over $27000/year. A private college is $55,000/year.

Extending time in college can be a costly choice. That is why Beth and Greg Langston feel that empowering students to master their self discovery is the best way to prepare them for college and the world beyond. By helping students to discover and define their values, purpose and strengths, they are better able to articulate where they want to go and the path they want to follow. Whether that is college or not.

Beth and Greg Langston joined me on this episode to talk about the college process and the tools needed to succeed not only in post secondary, but throughout life.

College Flight Plan

Beth graduated from Purdue University in Education. She has helped hundreds of students navigate the college application essays with tremendous success. Greg graduated from the Purdue Krannert School of Business. Having led businesses in excess of $1 billion and worked in 65 countries, Greg has mentored hundreds of young professionals.

Beth and Greg homeschooled their children off and on for numerous years. Their family lived overseas until their children were teens. They decided to relocate back to the US so that their kids could better prepare for College. The goal was to find more opportunities for self discovery, opportunities to clarify their values and define the goals that would prepare them for college or the path they were gifted to do. Unable to find what they were looking for, Beth and Greg decided to found College Flight Plan. Combining their experience and backgrounds, they have developed tools that provide a sense of clarity and confidence for students. The goal of College Flight Plan is to empower students to master their self discovery.

In This Episode~College & Self Discovery

In this episode we talk about preparing young people for adult life through the process of self discover. We explored the 5 fundamental questions of this process:

What are my core values, and how do I use them? What are my strengths and weaknesses? What is my purpose in life? What are the college majors that best suit me? What are my five-year and one-year goals?

I'd like to know, did you attend College or University and was it the right path for you? Do your children feel it is the right path for them? What has helped them to clarify their life ahead?

If College is a path that your kids are looking towards but the cost is holding you back, check out my episode with Abby Chao~ CollegeBacker and Saving For College.

Find out more about College Flight Plan ~ https://collegeflightplan.com/

To receive the free gift The Parents Starter Kit To Teen Self Discovery~ https://collegeflightplan.com/guide/

Reach out to Beth~ beth@collegeflightplan.com

Reach out to Greg- greg@collegeflightplan.com

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Homeschool: Getting Started~Clubhouse Edition

If you have been listening to the podcast this last year or following Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids on social media you may have heard that we have a wonderful homeschooling "club" on the Clubhouse app. The Club is called Honey! I'm Homeschooling and we host a room every Saturday at 9am mountain time, Monday's at 11am mountain time and Tuesday's at 4pm mountain time. Each "room" or meet up focuses on a topic related to homeschooling, unschooling, family life and progressive education.

This episode is the recording of our August 28th room. Liana Francisco and I host the Saturday rooms and this recording is Homeschool: Getting Started. We start with the the steps to getting started on your homeschool journey.

Filing the paperwork How to find the information or documentation for the area you live Legalities Goals, Purpose and Values Finding community

We share our personal experiences, open up for Q&A and support each other through the process. Please note- there are many that chose to just listen in the room. If you are new to the app and would love to be part of the discussion, you have the choice to just listen or join the conversation.

Resources

Homeschooling With Purpose Master Class

Honey! I'm Homeschooling~ The Club

HSDLA

Washington Homeschool Association

Liana Francisco

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Values and Guiding Purpose

For many it's the beginning of the new school year! For others you may be half way through that beginning journey. How has it been so far?

In this episode I am focusing on why and how you can build your values and guiding purpose. This is an important foundation whether you are a homeschooler, unschooler or even traditional schooler.

It is important part of the homeschooling process because defining our values helps to guide our way. 

Living with purpose means to be living in alignment with our values. And when we understand our values and purpose and are living in alignment with those things, it helps us to feel more confident (confidence repels those naysayers) which brings more joy and diminishes overwhelm (because it helps us to make clear decisions). It can even be our reference point to knowing whether what we are doing is successful. 

I begin each year with our values and guiding purpose. In learning, family life and living.

Developing and getting clear on our family values and guiding purpose is also the first week's theme for my LIVE master class, Homeschooling With Purpose. It sets the stage for each step in the class which is designed to support each homeschooling parent in building a unique natural learning framework for their family.

If you want to learn more about this 4 week, small group live master class, go HERE. We begin this conversation and community September 12th

If you want to hear more about other important steps in the building your homeschool foundation, check out my episode on Deschooling. I also answer the "big" questions in the episode- https://imhomeschooling.com/the-homeschool-journey-your-questions-answered/

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Welcome to episode 105 with Pilar Bewley of Mainly Montessori. In this episode Pilar took time out to talk about embracing a Montessori mindset in homeschooling. We talked about the Montessori philosophy, how that plays out in the home environment vs the classroom and why she felt homeschooling Montessori supported her family best.

Pilar is a former Montessori child, homeschool mentor, and Montessori advocate. 

In addition to a B.Sc. in Hospitality Management and ample entrepreneurial experience, Pilar holds AMI certifications for ages 3-12, a Master’s degree in Montessori education, and Positive Discipline parent and classroom certifications.  Pilar has a decade of classroom experience at Primary and Elementary levels, and has been homeschooling her children for three years. 

She created Mainly Montessori to support homeschooling parents, because she believes that Montessori can help parents raise lifelong learners.  Pilar lives with her children and husband in Southern California.

What You Will Learn In This Episode~Homeschooling With A Montessori Mindset

I loved my conversation with Pilar. We truly connected on our beliefs around child centred, interest led learning and the power of homeschooling in creating a secure family attachment. I also loved our dive into a topic that comes up often for homeschooling parents-Screen-Time. Pilar shared her personal observations, being screen free, the expectations and the impact it has had in their home. We also explored;

Deschooling - what it has meant for Pilar and why it has been an important part of their family transition from school to homeschool Observation, play and preparing the learning environment Homeschooling With A Montessori Mindset- Child Centred Learning and respecting a child as their own force The power of the homeschool environment Screen-time- expectations, limitations and impacts Raising life long learners in each stage of growth and development-in what ways can we best prepare for each stage? Parenting- Positive Discipline, respect and boundaries Freedom and responsibility

This was a conversation from the heart. I believe that our homeschooling community is connected on the foundation of supporting and respecting the individual learner.

In this episode, you'll also get to hear a little more of our family's personal unschooling journey as it plays out for our oldest. He's a teen, off on his personal learning adventure. Pilar and I discuss the transition into adulthood, letting go and allowing our children to follow their own path as they contribute to the broader world.

Resources

If you would like to connect with Pilar or learn more about her work, this is where you can find her:

Free Private Facebook Group- Second Plane Montessori This space is for homeschoolers, parents, and educators who are guiding children between the ages of 6 and 12 using the Montessori approach.

Mainly Montessori

Instagram~ Mainly.Montessori

Mainly Montessori YouTube Channel

If you are interested in learning more about the Montessori practice, check out my interview with Jeanne Marie Paynel

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Social Emotional Learning with Dr. Lorea Martínez 

Dr. Lorea Martínez Pérez is the award-winning founder of HEART in Mind Consulting, a company dedicated to helping schools and organizations integrate Social Emotional Learning in their practices, products, and learning communities. An educator who has worked with children and adults internationally, Dr. Martínez is currently a faculty member at Columbia University Teachers College, educating aspiring principals inEmotional Intelligence. Previously, she was a special education teacher and administrator. A native of the Costa Brava in Spain, she currently lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her husband and two daughters.

Dr. Lorea Martínez is also the author of the book, Teaching with the HEART in Mind. In the book, Dr. Lorea Martínez provides a comprehensive roadmap to understanding the psychology of emotions, relationships, and adversity in learning, while equipping you to teach SEL skills and develop your own social and emotional intelligence.

In This Episode

Dr. Lorea Martínez believes that creating better outcomes for our children means academics and standardized assessments aren’t enough. You need to educate both their hearts and minds. In this episode Martínez offers social emotional learning tools and techniques that we can put into practice in our own homes. These HEART principals and framework help us integrate emotions, build relationships and support a rich learning environment. We explore;

Social Emotional Learning and the psychology of emotions- honouring and responding to our emotions Thought patterns and self talk Self Empathy- the importance of connecting with ourselves and showing ourselves compassion How to establishing positive relationships The emotions that are most conducive to learning

I loved this interview. Dr. Martínez and I hold similar beliefs that purpose and connection are the key components to building a successful learning environment. I am certain that you will appreciate the practical steps and example that Dr. Martínez provides in this episode so that we not only have an understanding of why Social Emotional Learning is important, but the how in implementing this into our home and relationships.

Resources

Lorea Martínez websites and social media:

http://www.loreaMartinez.com

https://www.facebook.com/loreamartinezSEL/

https://twitter.com/loreamart/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/loreamartinez/

Heart In Mind Discussion Guide

Dr. Dan Siegel

Inside Out The Movie

If you enjoyed this interview, you may also like my interview with Roya Dedeaux, a grown unschooler, professor and family therapist.

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Finding Joy, Connection and Freedom Within Structure

Kelly Edwards is the creator of the 90-Minute School Day.  A lifestyle approach to education.  The 90-Minute School Day method connects children with learning in their natural environment: at home with their family.  It is designed for pre-K through 6th grade. 

Kelly is passionate about home education, connecting families through attachment, learning as a lifestyle and helping children (and parents) identify their purpose.  Kelly is entering her 7th year as a homeschool mom, she lives in the Shenandoah Valley of WV with her husband and 3 girls ages 13, 6, and 3.  She is a licensed foster parent, successful entrepreneur, and community citizen.  She uses her personal and professional experience to guide the homeschooling parent with a framework and system to overcome the overwhelm that affects each of us.  You can learn more about her by visiting www.90minuteschoolday.com or follow her on Instagram at @90minuteschoolday.

Have you ever met someone that you seem to connect with pretty quickly, despite the circumstances? What about on social media? Kelly and I met on the social app, Clubhouse and even though we live in two different countries we found our paths crossing. We connected on a personal level and have been in touch regularly ever since. (It's pretty cool how our world works now, isn't it?) As a fellow homeschooling parent who's underlying values match many of mine, I wanted to have Kelly on the show. And of course, Kelly brought a huge amount of value, tools and personal experience to this episode.

In This Episode-Finding Joy, Connection and Freedom within Structure

In this episode Kelly spoke to why they have chosen to homeschool their 3 children. The choice for them was not a change in lifestyle but a need they saw for their children~Greater attachment. Kelly's family homeschool is based on the foundation of emotional attachment and connection, faith and freedom. Kelly says that if we are not feeling the emotional connection, then our learning stops. Kelly has also found a framework and flow to their days that she says as a business owner and homeschool parent, allows her to find joy, connection and freedom within structure.

In this episode we spoke to;

Connection and resiliency Living education and living life together What homeschooling looks like for child and parent in their home and what that includes- play, empathy, adventuring, working, talking, facilitating The 90 minute structure and finding freedom within structure Being intentional when framing your day The Circadian cycle and how Kelly intentionally creates their days to reflect the cycle, rest and seasons How to set up your child for success Kelly's advice on Deschooling and ways we can access freedom, calm, confidence and connection this summer and beyond

Confidence, Calm and Connection- How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler

Kelly and I have been working on a new project together this summer. It's the first Homeschooling Summit to be featured on Clubhouse and it's called How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler. The summit runs August 6th and is based on 3 cornerstone themes of homeschooling; Confidence, Calm and Connection. We have a keynote speaker for each theme along with interactive Q&A's with each speaker as well as further discussions with Kelly and I. (That means a space to get your questions answered, air your doubts and connect with others in real time!!)

Gina Riley, professor and unschooling parent to a grown unschooler, will be speaking to the theme of Confidence. Demetria Giles, educator, consultant and single homeschool mom will speak to Calm and Rachel Rainbolt, gentle parenting, natural homeschooling, and simple living mentor will speak to Connection.

The summit is open to anyone that would like to join on Clubhouse. But to receive the recordings, freebies and special giveaways, you have to register for the free summit. To register go here.

Resources

Connect with Kelly on her website www.90minuteschoolday.com or Instagram @90minuteschoolday

Register for the Summit, How To Be An Awesome Homeschooler

Listen to my interviews with the Summit Keynotes on this podcast; Dr. Gina Riley, Demetria Giles and Rachel Rainbolt

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Homeschooling and Mindfulness  

Isabelle Robledo is a 17-year-old kids mindfulness coach and co founder of Making Mindfulness Fun. She is helping kids and teens to be confident and creative using mindfulness. She's been living in an RV for the past six years while traveling the world with her family of seven. She learned mindfulness from a very young age, and believes that now, more than ever, it is important to share what she’s learned with our future generation. You can find her on Instagram @keepitmindful.kids, or see her website, makingmindfulnessfun.com

I love speaking with young people that homeschool or have grown up homeschooled. Their perspective on life is often different from the norm. It gives great insight to the common questions that we received about kids that homeschool.

How do homeschoolers "turn out" in life?

Will they learn what they need to be successful?

Are homeschoolers socially awkward?

Does it make you socially awkward to live a life pursuing your dreams from a young age? Or to travel in an RV full-time with your family? What if homeschooling provides you with the space to become an entrepreneur with vision from the age of 16?

In This Episode

I recently had the chance to interview a homeschooler with vision, Isabelle Robledo. Isabelle has always been homeschooled. When Isabelle was 10, her family decided to realign their life to one that held greater purpose. They wanted to live with more fulfillment and adventure. With dedication to intention. So they took their life on the road. Literally. They sold what they didn't need, bought an RV and began roadschooling and worldschooling.

In this episode Isabelle and I talk about their life of adventure, what it means to their family and what it looked like for them over the last 6 years. Isabelle shares with me how she dealt with the transition and the perspective shift she had. We also talk about what has been the main guiding foundation for Isabelle~mindfulness.

Mindfulness was the main thing I learned through my travels

Living a different lifestyle from many of her peers, Isabelle did have times when she felt a bit on the outer edge. But it was mindfulness that helped her understand herself. It gave her the tools to realize what she was looking for when she struggled, it helped her to learn who she is and what she has to offer the world. Not only that, mindfulness has been a family journey and a way for her entire family to stay connected and continue living with intention.

Making Mindfulness Fun

Isabelle has taken her mindfulness practice further through entrepreneurship and service to the larger community. During the pandemic, she saw how much the world, especially young people were struggling and disconnected. Encouraged by her mom, Isabelle created a mindfulness course for kids. She wants to support young people in incorporating mindfulness into their lives in a playful way. As a young person that values play and creativity, she actively engages the young people she works with to do the same. Through dance parties, creative practices and fun she brings her playful attitude to the practice of mindfulness. I think that is exactly what we all need a little more of right now, don't you?

Resources

If you would like to connect with this Isabelle, find out more about what she does or get your children involved with her work, you can find her through her website, makingmindfulnessfun.com or on Instagram @keepitmindful.kids

You can also find her on her youtube channel Making Mindfulness Fun

Enneagram

https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/enneagram/

Book- The Road Back To You

Isabelle's course and products https://www.makingmindfulnessfun.com/shop/

Closer Connections Masterclass https://teachingkidsmindfulness.com/closer-connections-masterclass

If you enjoyed hearing from a homeschooler, you will also enjoy these episodes with grown homeschoolers~ Growing Up Homeschooled with Hannah Frankman, Play, Purpose & Unschooling with Roya Dedeaux, Why Self-Directed Learning Is Important with Madison Kanna

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From School To Homeschool

Demetria Giles has over 15 years of experience in education and is passionate about culturally responsive pedagogy, critical thinking development, and project-based learning. She is the former Director of Curriculum & Instruction at 9th Bridge School, a private early childhood and elementary school located in Downtown Las Vegas, Nevada. She is also an education consultant and the homeschool mom of a 9-year-old son.

Demetria and I connected on the Clubhouse app and I immediately enjoyed being part of homeschooling conversations with her. She brings abundant knowledge from her years in education but her experience as a mom that has chosen to homeschool her son while working in the school system adds depth to that knowledge. Demetria and I hold very similar beliefs around learning and school and we are both passionate about supporting families on their unique learning journeys.

What You'll Hear In This Episode~From School to Homeschool

I enjoyed this conversation with Demetria and I am looking forward to having more. If you are curious about how you can create and support a life long learning environment for your child, I recommend you take a listen. Here's what we discussed;

The reasons why Demetria chose to homeschool her son while she continued to work in a brick and mortar school The foundation of a great teacher and why it is not a teacher certification What supporting life long learning looks like in her family Her unique approaches to homeschooling while working full time Leading with interests and how to do that when your child's interests are not your own How to cultivate big picture thinking The importance of free time and play Re-framing our ideas of what learning is or should look like The depth of video games The freedom that homeschooling offers Opting out of standardized testing and how kids can still be successful at testing when they are "required" to test Overcoming her own obstacles in homeschooling From school to homeschool-what she recommends to parents that are just getting started

Demetria and I close out the episode with her thoughts on what she would like to the future of education and homeschooling to look like. I love that not only is she thinking about it, but she is already doing her part to help make that future happen through her consulting and support. If you are a reader that enjoys good books, Demetria also left us with a few reading recommendations. Find those below in the resources.

Resources

Here are a few ways that you can find out more and connect with Demetria:

Instagram~ drosewritings

SchoolED

Clubhouse

As mentioned in episode~ Outschool

Demetria's book mentions

Homeschool and parenting~ Parenting From The Inside Out by Dr. Dan Siegel Learning and Critical Thinking~Think Again by Adam Grant

If you enjoy hearing from educators that begin homeschooling, you may enjoy my episode with Golda David who, like Demgtrira, is an educator and former administrator turned unschooling mom.

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That's right! This is Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids 100th episode. For the special milestone episode we decided to do an Ask Me Anything where my daughter did the asking and I did the answering. Listeners sent in questions through social media that we answered on the show.

What did they ask? What Are Your Homeschool Fears? How Do You Unschool High School? Have You Learned To Respect Your Kids and Listen To Their Boundaries? What Have Your Kids Taught You About The Best Way To Raise Them? Have You Made Any Big Mistakes That You Wish You Let Others Know About and Maybe Learn From? Favourite Family Activity Unschooling 3 Year Olds How Do You Have The Confidence To Unschool In So Many School Focused Messages Of Our Culture? How Do You See The End Of Homeschooling Your Own Kids? If You Could Have Started Your Homeschooling Journey Differently, What Would You Have Done Differently and Why? What Do Your Children Think Is The Coolest/Best Thing About Being Unschooled? What's It Like Raising Teens In The Iphone Age?

There were so many wonderful, deep questions. They had me really stop to reflect and think. At some points it would start a new discussion with my daughter that would take us in other directions. No, we didn't include those segments in the episode since there were a few private details that we want to keep close. But the answers to the questions were real and vulnerable.

Enjoy the 100th Episode Celebration! If you have any more questions that are burning for an answer, you can contact me HERE.

If you would like to hear my personal episodes, answering questions or telling stories about our experiences, check out my episode on Deschooling or The Homeschool Journey~Your Questions Answered

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Sue Patterson is a homeschooling coach and founder of Unschooling Mom2Mom. She helps parents find creative ways to approach learning and reconnect with their children, when their current educational option isn’t working.   Sue has been active in the homeschooling community for twenty-five years and is happy to share practical suggestions of how to make unschooling work. Her own three unschooled children are now all young adults with successful careers, degrees and families.  Sue offers a variety of coaching packages, printable guides, ebooks and courses at www.SuePatterson.com. Her book, Homeschooled Teens : 75 Young People Speak about their Lives without School is available at Amazon. If you’re looking for more information about unschooling, her website is a curated site with unschooling writers from around the world. www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

When I have had questions about unschooling, Sue Patterson is someone that I have turned to. She is an unschooling veteran that understands the doubts, the fears, the worries and most importantly, the joy that unschooling to adulthood brings.

In This Episode

In this episode interview I wanted Sue to share a little more about her family's journey into unschooling, including how they got there and why they chose to continue. Sue not only shares their story but she also shares the points in the journey that are important for any of us to hear.

Her lack of confidence when they first started and what tested her beliefs Unschooling and learning to read Knowing what she knows now, what things she would change The deschooling process How her children learned Finding Resources Prioritizing connection and communication Unschooling to adulthood

Resources

You can find Sue's numerous resources for unschooling on her website, www.SuePatterson.com. For more information about unschooling, go to www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

Sue now offers a podcast as well. Unschooling Mom2Mom podcast

Her book: Homeschooled Teens : 75 Young People Speak about their Lives without School 

The Unschooling Handbook~ Mary Griffith

If you enjoyed this episode from an Unschooling parent of grown Unschoolers, check out my interview with Pam Laricchia. Pam unschooled her children through to adulthood.

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If we value raising independent thinkers and self directed learners, wouldn't we also want to support financial independence? For those of us that choose this home educating path, we often choose to "opt-out" of not just school. Often our choice to leave the education system causes us to start re-thinking other mainstream ideas as well.

One of these mainstream assumptions is our idea and values around money.

What are your thoughts and feelings around money? How money is used? What is it's purpose and does it align with your family purpose? What does it take to be financially literate? How can we build a financially literate family?

In this episode I am joined by Matt Matheson of the Family Money School to talk about money and financial literacy.

Matt Matheson and Family Money School

In addition to being the husband of an amazing wife and dad to three awesome munchkins, Matt Matheson is a teacher and school administrator with 15 years of classroom experience. He's also a personal finance writer and blogger who’s been featured in publications like the Huffington Post, Yahoo News, and Reader's Digest. His passion is teaching, specifically helping kids learn how to handle money wisely. Since he had his own kids, he’s been working hard to pass on his money values to them. It’s his love of teaching and desire to equip parents in raising money rock stars that lead him to develop Family Money School, a site designed to help parents raise money-savvy kids. 

Matt did not always consider himself to be financially literate. He grew up with certain beliefs around money that did not always serve him well. It wasn't until he and his wife came to a crossroads on their financial future that he decided to truly understand his relationship with money

In this Episode

In this episode Matt and I talk about why he feels that financial literacy and raising money-savvy kids are essential. We explore ;

Money myths Debt- is it really a necessary fact of life? Why you don't need to be an expert to teach something The 5 Pillars of building financial independence The "Bacon" principle

Matt also understands that financial literacy is not something that a large amount of parents actively understand. But even without understanding it for themselves, they want their children to understand it better. He says that parents do not have to be money experts to talk to their kids about money.

I know many parents that often feel overwhelmed with finances and do not want their children to repeat the same pattern. They often feel they need to know everything before beginning to teach their kids about money. That or they just have no idea where to start. 

If you are a parent that is feeling this way, Matt has offered to support our listeners in two ways.

A free PDF that you can download through this link~ https://www.familymoneyschool.com/honey-im-homeschooling-freebie

1. A webinar for my listeners that goes further into depth on the 5 Pillars of Money and how to teach these foundational money principles. This way any parent can have clarity in raising children who thrive with money! If you are interested in the webinar, you can join through this link~ https://www.familymoneyschool.com/honey-im-homeschooling-webinar

Resources

If you would like to reach out to Matt or The Family Money School check out these links;

Website: https://www.familymoneyschool.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familymoneyschool

Twitter: https://twitter.com/FamMoneySchool

Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.ca/FamMoneySchool/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familymoneyschool/

Dave Ramsey

Francis Bacon

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Growing Up Unschooled

Unschooling- "The freedom for anyone, young and old to choose why, what, when, how and from whom to learn things." It is learner directed, learner centred.

Unschooling may sound like a nice idea, but are you wondering if it is realistic in practice? Can a young child or teen learn that way? Don't they need the structure of school to get a job or go to University? What is it like growing up unschooled?

Liana Francisco~ Growing Up Unschooled

My guest on this episode, Liana Francisco, grew up unschooled. Liana, now an unschooling mom herself, is a serial entrepreneur and coach who helps other moms make plant-based eating easy with a system. 

Continuing the unschooling trend, Liana’s path has been unconventional. Liana earned a BA in classical singing and a Master of Public Administration. She spent 12+ years as a government consultant and management executive. 

After becoming deeply ill with Lyme Disease, Liana changed her life trajectory and started on a path to help others live intentionally. She had an amazing journey as a vegan deli owner and now runs a wholesale vegan food business, coaches moms to make plant-based eating easy, and just launched a YouTube channel to share how she hacks homemaking for more freedom AND an organized family.

Liana lives in Olympia, WA with her husband and teenage sweetheart, Jonathan, and their four year old son. 

In This Episode

In this episode Liana and I discuss what it was like growing up unschooled. We talk about why her family chose the path, why it looked different for each child in the family and the transition into adulthood. And we cover a lot of those questions that many have about unschoolers:

What about math? Learning Time management Going to University? Finding a career What would she do differently now that she's an unschooling mom herself?

Liana shares with such genuine, gentle insight. Her perspective is invaluable to any parent, new or old to unschooling and homeschool. 

Resources

Want to learn more about Liana and what she does? Here's where you can find her;

YouTube

Website~ https://www.lianafrancisco.com/

Liana and I host a room on the Clubhouse app every Saturday morning at 8am Mountain Time in my club, Honey! I'm Homeschooling. We have discussions on unschooling, homeschooling, living and learning all from the foundation of connection and relationships. Join us here

If you would like to learn more about unschooling, you'll enjoy my episode with Pam Laricchia and Gina Riley

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Recently I have been hearing more stories about people in the Bitcoin network becoming interested in unschooling. Or possibly the stories are of unschoolers becoming interested in Bitcoin.....

In either case, why the interest? What do Unschooling and Bitcoin have in common?

Unschooling and Bitcoin

As my family has been learning and diving into the world of Bitcoin over the last few years, I see the link between many of the values that both the Unschooling world and the Bitcoin world hold.

I think the common threads in both worlds are; decentralization, autonomy and freedom.

As one recent article phrased it, "Bitcoin provides power to the users and unschooling provides power to the students." I couldn't agree more and that is why I felt it was a good time to share this connection on the podcast.

Daniel Prince~Unschooling Dad, Digital Nomad and Bitcoin

Daniel Prince is an unschooling dad to 4, an author and podcaster. His book, Choose Life: The Tools, Tricks and Hacks of Long Term Family Travellers, Worldschoolers and Digital Nomads is a recommended read if you are a parent looking to leave the rat race and worldschool. His podcast, Once BITten! shares real life stories of how Bitcoin has changed and shaped individuals and families lives forever.

In this episode Daniel Prince joins me to talk about his personal experience in the world of Unschooling and Bitcoin and why both have become a road to freedom for himself and for his family.

What we explored in this episode "The job I was in was sucking the life and soul out of me"~ Daniel's story of leaving the rat race and 'Choosing Life' for himself and his family Unschooling and the mind shift we need to embrace it The separation of education from state How they have found ways to support each of their children's learning choices Doing what society expects of you and not questioning - and what that gets you Why community is key What is school? How the top down structure of the education system reflects the top down structure of the monetary system A little history on the Gold Standard, the change to the US Dollar in the 40's and how that has shaped the federal reserve, inflation and our world economy Bitcoin- inventing a medium of exchange that can be tracked and fixed The social (and economic) implications of Bitcoin The question to ask- What is money?

Why unschooling and bitcoin? For me, the unschooling journey hasn't just been about questioning the education system and my previous beliefs on learning and school. It has caused me to look at the other institutions within our society and framework. It's about disruption. Freedom. Autonomy.

Disruptor [noun] – a person or thing that prevents something, especially a system, process, or event, from continuing as usual or as expected https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/disruptor

Resources

Want to get in contact with Daniel or learn more?

Twitter- @princey1976

Princes Off The Grid

Podcast- Once BITten

Tim Ferris- The 4 Hour Work Week

Do Schools Kill Creativity? Sir Ken Robinson

Khan Academy

Squeebles- Math

Galileo XP- Online Self Directed Global School

John Taylor Gatto

John Holt

Bitcoin Resources~

WTF Happened In 1971

Why Buy Bitcoin- Andy Edstrom

The Bitcoin Standard~Saifedean Ammous

Bitcoin Money- Bitcoin Rabbi (Kids Book)

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Karla Marie Williams is a speaker, writer, global child advocate and unschooling mom to 6 kids. Yes, that's right, 6 kids, who are almost all at or in their teen years.

Karla Marie is also the President of Be Bold Publishing. I welcomed her on the show to celebrate the release of her new book, Teens Unleashed. Teens Unleashed offers real life, hands on experience and practical tips to help you support your unschooling teens.

In this Episode

In this episode Karla Marie and I not only discuss her wonderful new book, but we also talk about their journey into unschooling, the transition process from the early years to the teen/young adult years and we break down the big theme of TRUST.

That's right, the big T word that is the foundation of this exciting learning journey.

Karla Marie shares why Trust is foundational, what has helped her to trust the process and the tools that implements for support.

There is so much value in this episode for parents! If you are working through the deschooling process, if you are looking to start trusting yourself, your child and the learning process more, this episode is for you. That is whether you are the parent of a teen or not.

For those that are unschooling teens or are considering unschooling your teen, here are a few other specifics that we covered;

Grieving the early years (when they have grown past the early years and how the learning days shift and change) The gift of seeing who they are Strewing Focused Learning Exposure Ignites Fires (Why our job as parents to unschooled teens becomes 'exposure' for their purpose, passion and direction) What they need and where they are going What are colleges looking for? Learning is in the doing The illusion of mastery Not allowing fear to get in the way

I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Did it inspire you? Would you like further discussion on any specific themes we brought up? You can message me on my Contact Page or DM me via Instagram of FB.

Resources

Website https://www.karlamariewilliams.com/

Book- Teens Unleashed

Karla and The Sensational Six

If you would like to hear a little more about Karla Marie's story of how they came to unschooling, check out my first interview with her here.

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Disruptor [noun] - a person or thing that prevents something, especially a system, process, or event, from continuing as usual or as expected https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/disruptor

Yes, this month we are talking about disruption. I think it is a fitting theme for this past year, don't you? There is a lot of disruption happening all around us and it is not necessarily bad. Change comes from disruption and change can be good. I have often wondered when we talk about change in the education system where we need disruption to be. From the inside or out? In this episode I sat down with education disruptor, Heather MacTaggart to talk about how she sees disruption happening within the system. She says, "If now isn’t the time to redesign an education model built for the industrial age, when will it be?"

Unschooling School

Heather’s obsession is helping to create an education system that actually makes sense for kids, all kids! She is a social entrepreneur, an educator, and a problem solver. She founded Classroom Connections in 1997 because she was worried about the education system and the kids in it. Since then, Classroom Connections has evolved from a grass-roots resource hub for schools to an award-winning producer of innovative education/training materials that are in use across Canada and around the world. Heather is a firm believer in self directed learning and trust. Currently Heather is working on Unschooling School. The premise is this- Not all kids can attend these enlightened (alternative) schools. We already pay for public education. Not all parents are able to unschool at home.

So what if we made space for change within schools by choosing not to comply with the age-segregated, curriculum-driven, testing, grading, and homework-laden structures?

What if we insisted that our children be allowed to choose what they want to do at school?

What if we let them know that there are lots of different avenues to gain acceptance into College or University or start careers? 

What if we revealed to them that marks on a transcript are only one of many options?

In This Episode

In this episode Heather joins me to talk about these possibilities, what Unschooling school means and why she is disrupting education. We explore; The importance of learning things we are interested in Allowing kids to be in charge of their learning Brave parents are disruptors What would it look like to unschool school? The two factors that are paramount in both parents and kids to Unschool school What would society look like if we had consent in our learning and education? The Free Learner program and support for families that are interested in Unschooling School

Resources

Unschooling School

Facebook

Classroom Connections

Change It Up

Peter Gray

Sudbury Valley School

FHREE.org

If you would like to listen to episodes featuring people and places mentioned in this episode, check out my interview with Peter Gray and my interview with Daniel Greenberg of Sudbury Valley School.

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Math Codes

Kohila Sivas is a parent, teacher, Math Interventionist, and a Holistic Success Coach for students and parents. Over the past 22 years, Kohila has developed a simple proven system called MathCodes and she uses this system to help students rapidly transform their math performance as well as shift their mindset, grow their confidence, and outperform their expectations in all areas of their life. 

Kohila also works with parents on how to best support their child as a 'Student.'  When parents are confident that their child has the tools they need to succeed, they have peace of mind about their child's future.

No child should feel defeated or left behind in their education or life. Every child has the potential to excel in all areas of their studies and life.

It is her mission to help children reach their full potential by showing them how to happily and successfully excel in math and in their performance. 

Kohila says that if given the 'RIGHT' environment, ALL students CAN excel!

I asked Kohila to be a part of the show because not only have we been talking a lot about math in home learning this year, but we have also been talking about the fear and anxiety that comes up around the subject. The concern is that if a parent struggled in math at school, then how can they support their child to learn math at home?

She Struggled

Kohila says that she herself struggled in school. But around the age of 13, she started to learn how to hack math, or began "cracking the code". This became a turning point for her. She says math became a therapy for her. As she learned hacks and solved problems her mindset began to shift. She gained confidence and began to feel more in control in other areas of her life as well. This sense of empowerment led Kohila to become an educator and coach. She knew how it felt to go from dis-empowered to empowered and she wants other young people to experience the same. Kohila shared how important it is for parents to be a part of the empowerment process, not only in math, but in life learning. Don't get confused though. This is not about pushing our kids to cram, struggle and win and at all costs.

In This Episode

In this episode Kohila shares the questions that parents can ask so that they can be a better learning support for their kids. We also talk about the reasons why many parents and children continue to experience math anxiety and the ways we can start to shift our mindset.

Math anxiety and the generation of speed and math drills The power of language Being a part of the learning process Setting your own benchmarks-letting go of comparison Don't think math has to be done with a workbook Math is all around you- where we can find it in our daily lives Building math environments for young children Math environments for older children How she supports learners through Math Codes

What I love about this episode is that Kohila gives us many practical examples of how we can support math learning at home with our kids and tools we can use in our daily life. I also appreciate that Kohila was able to give her perspective on math learning in school as opposed to math in unschooling and home education and why they differ. I know that if you are a homeschooler or unschooler, you will find value in what Kohila shares.

Resources

If you would like to find out more about the support Kohila provides, check out https://www.mathcodes.com/

Want to learn more about building a love of math? Check out this episode with my mother-in-law, a former homeschool parent and math educator http://imhomeschooling.com/learning-math/

Or if you would like to hear about unschooling math, listen to my interview with Dr. Gina Riley http://imhomeschooling.com/unschooling-with-dr-gina-riley/

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This special episode is part 2 of my interview with Yolonda Coles Jones. Yolonda and I wanted to provide additional support and comfort to those families that are feeling caught up in the waves of the moment. This episode is all about using the tools of connection and presence to bring about calm and well-being. We want families to once again start feeling empowered in their own lives. That means being empowered as a parent, person and learning support.

Yolonda Coles Jones, also known as “The Bringer of Calm” and the “Teacher of Thrive”, is a Healing, Wellness & Empowerment-Centered Coach and Education Consultant who specializes in coming alongside households–families and individuals–as well as teachers and school systems to support them in deepening into conscious connection with themselves and with those around them. From that place she guides and supports in building confidence, developing clarity, realizing calm and implementing strategies for success.

Her trademarked Empowered People formula utilizes a powerfully effective combination of mindful breathing & meditation, conscious communication, somatic (body) awareness, boundary awareness, forgiveness, gratitude, joy and deep self-care all as authentic-to-you and accessible ongoing practices.

The scope of her work covers parenting relationships, parent-child/teacher-child dynamics, self-awareness, marriage and long-term partnerships, infidelity, home-based education and self-actualization.

What You Will Hear In This Episode

In this episode we are talking about wellness, connection and community. These are important because they stand as the basis for our learning life. We are 4 dimensional beings; spiritual (not in a religious sense, but in our being-ness), mental, physical and emotional. All of these dimensions come into play in our learning life and overall wellness.

We explore the many ways that we can build this into our present lives and then re-imagine the life we have ahead of us. How do we want to live it? How do we want to co-create our time together?

Our exploration includes; Community on the micro and macro level. This means starting with ourselves and then move the circle outwards? The language of touch. Especially in this year of physical isolation The power of pause, using our breath, reflection and re-imagining Mindfulness at home Giving thanks and appreciation Grief- touching into the moment, vocalizing it and giving space to say it Marking our space (and therefore our wellness) Taking the time to check-in Having courage and being curious

We end this episode with an offer of peace, calm and reflection through a guided meditation.

Resources

If you missed part 1 of this interview, you can find it here.

If you would like to connect with Yolonda and learn more about the work she does supporting families you can find her at:

https://www.yolondajonescreative.com/

Yolonda Coles Jones Instagram

Empowered Families

Life As We Design It– Yolonda’s Book

If you enjoyed this episode, you may want to check out my interview with Amanda Curmi, an unschooling mom in Australia that is also a Yoga therapist and Ayurvedic Post- Partum doula. She is passionate about creating community for women and mothers and believes the way we parent can create deep emotional and social change. 

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Yolonda Coles Jones, also known as "The Bringer of Calm" and the "Teacher of Thrive", is a Healing, Wellness & Empowerment-Centered Coach and Education Consultant who specializes in coming alongside households--families and individuals--as well as teachers and school systems to support them in deepening into conscious connection with themselves and with those around them. From that place she guides and supports in building confidence, developing clarity, realizing calm and implementing strategies for success.

Her trademarked Empowered People formula utilizes a powerfully effective combination of mindful breathing & meditation, conscious communication, somatic (body) awareness, boundary awareness, forgiveness, gratitude, joy and deep self-care all as authentic-to-you and accessible ongoing practices.

The scope of her work covers parenting relationships, parent-child/teacher-child dynamics, self-awareness, marriage and long-term partnerships, infidelity, home-based education and self-actualization.

Yolonda's Journey Into Life and Learning

Yolonda has always been a helper and learner. Supporting people has been her constant path.

Yolonda's 4 children have never attended school as of yet. Self directed education is a mainstay for their family. Their goal is to give their kids space to explore and be who they are.

Empowering Families- In This Episode

In this episode Yolonda shares her journey into being who she is. We also examine what their family life looks like as self-directed learners. Our exploration goes into; Life skills and what that looks like for each child Learning together Having a teenager- Yolonda reminds us to ask the important question as parents- "How much of this is about me and how much of this is about her"? Living into her children's interests Bearing witness to emotions and how to be present with sensitive and highly feeling individuals What Yolonda thought homeschool had to look like Learning how children learn Letting life became the lessons. Changing the ways we see how children learn The partnership of motherhood Support of community and deep self care

This is one of my favourite quotes from Yolonda- "Home is the base for education and education happens everywhere. If the script is not working, you can through it out...We can take what relates, what's relevant, what gets us to our goals, what lights this child up, what lights us all up together and we can also learn in our living."

This interview with Yolonda is extremely empowering for the parent that may be facing doubts or challenges and for veteran homeschooling parents that just need a few reminders to pause, get back to our why and surrender into re-imagining.

Resources

If you would like to connect with Yolonda and learn more about the work she does supporting families you can find her:

https://www.yolondajonescreative.com/

Yolonda Coles Jones Instagram

Empowered Families

Life As We Design It- Yolonda's Book

Yolonda mentioned Outschool as a platform that her children use. Find out more about Outschool here.

I first learned of Yolonda through Fare of The Free Child Podcast. I also had the opportunity to interview Akilah S Richards, creator and host of Fare Of The Free Child http://imhomeschooling.com/educational-freedom-akilah-richards

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Gina Riley, Ph.D. is an educational psychologist, Clinical Professor, and Program Leader of the Adolescent Special Education Program at CUNY – Hunter College. Dr. Riley has over fifteen years experience working with teens diagnosed with learning disabilities and emotional/behavioural disorders. She is also a seasoned academic, with years of teaching, research, and supervisory experience within the fields of special education, psychology, school psychology, and mental health counseling. In addition, Dr. Riley has extensive experience in online education and distance learning at the college/university level. She is known internationally for her work in the fields of homeschooling, unschooling, and self-directed learning. Her book Unschooling: Exploring Learning Beyond the Classroom, was published by Palgrave Macmillan in July 2020. Dr. Riley has one son, who she unschooled.

I was first introduced to the work of Dr. Gina Riley quite a few years ago through a study that both she and Dr. Peter Gray did on the challenges and benefits of unschooling. Little did I realize at the time that Dr. Riley was an unschooling parent herself. An unschooling parent, researching unschooling and alternative learning, that also worked in secondary education as a teacher to teachers. (You can see why I was excited that she accepted an invitation to the show.) I knew that the information Gina has to share as a researcher, professor and parent is more important than ever.

Unschooling: Exploring Learning Beyond The Classroom

In this episode Dr. Riley begins with sharing her own personal experience as a parent choosing to unschool over 20 years ago. We talk about why she made the decision, the fears she had to overcome and how that decision actually prepared her well for the world we find ourselves in today.

In the academic arena, there is not a lot of work on unschooling. I think this is also why some have a hard time believing that unschooling is a valid way to learn and live life. Everyone always wants to reference the research and if there is not a lot of research to be found, people begin to doubt. This is one reason why Dr. Riley's new book, Unschooling: Exploring Learning Beyond the Classroom, is important. It is the first academic book published on Unschooling and self directed learning. Gina says that she wrote this book for "the 24 year old Gina (the single mom choosing this unfamiliar path) so that she could give it to her mom, who is also an educator, and say -here's the research."

"The Kids Are Going To Be Fine"

I also took the chance to ask Dr. Riley a few questions that I often hear from parents interested in unschooling but that are uncertain because it looks so different from school. How will they learn without school or if I don't teach them? How will they learn math or to read? What opportunities will be open to unschoolers when they become adults? Dr. Riley answered all of these but it was one statement that said it all for me. "It's not so much how do we do this, it's more, let's trust ourselves in doing this." She said, "The kids are going to be fine. Unschoolers know how to learn."

We ended the episode talking about a question that for many are wondering because of the shift in our current world, whether they are in traditional education or not. That is, What is the future of education?

I hope that you get a chance to tune in to the episode to hear what Dr. Riley has to say.

Resources

Unschooling: Exploring Learning Beyond the Classroom published by Palgrave Macmillan

The Journal of Unschooling and Alternative Education (published paper by Dr. Gina Riley and Dr. Peter Gray)

Alliance For Self Directed Education

Learning By Living Podcast- Gina Riley and Kevin Currie-Knight

High Tech High

Self Determination Theory- Richard M. Ryan and Edward L. Deci

Rethinking Learning To Read: The Challenge From Children Educated At Home: Harriet D. A. Pattison

If you enjoyed this episode, you'll also want to listen to my interview with Dr. Peter Gray http://imhomeschooling.com/free-to-learn-peter-gray/

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Monica Robertson is a retired teacher, math educator, grandmother and former homeschool parent. She is also my mother-in-law! I asked Monica to come on the show as a special guest to talk about her experience homeschooling, learning math and the power of looking at the world through a math lens.

Math always seems to be a topic that seems to give quite a few parents feelings of angst. I often hear questions like;

I am not good at math, so how will I be able to teach it to my kids if I homeschool?

How do unschoolers learn math?

Can kids learn math without the drills, worksheets and curriculum?

Can math actually be interesting?

I also see many parents that love the idea of self directed education until it comes to learning math. Somewhere we learn this idea that math is the subject that must be drilled, memorized and come with a little bit of torture, unless you happen to be a math genius. If you have beliefs similar to this, have you ever reflected on why you think that is true? Is it valid?

In This Episode

In this episode my mother-in-law and I talk about her experience homeschooling my husband and her views on learning. We also dive deeper into the idea of looking at the world through a math lens and why this practice is the key. We explore; Deschooling and why it's an important part of homeschooling How can we learn to look at the world through a math lens when we are uncertain in our own understanding of math The difference between a good mathematician and memorizing math facts Measuring, Spatial Awareness, Subitizing and LEGO's Encouraging Risk Taking (and what this has to do with learning math) Persistence How do we introduce math in a joy driven way? Worksheets, drills and speed- is it really a true measure of a strong mathematician? Creating math anxiety Seeing math and mathematical concepts in the tools, toys and play we may already have in our homes

I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. How do you feel about stepping away from the worksheets and drills and encouraging a math conversation? What ways are you starting to see the world through a math lens? Or do you disagree? If you would like to explore more, here are the additional resources that we mentioned on the episode.

Resources

If you would like to contact Monica you can reach her via email~ monie_rob@hotmail.com

John Holt- https://www.johnholtgws.com/homeschooling-unschooling-resources

How Children Learn (John Holt)

Learning All The Time (John Holt)

Teach Your Own John Holt Book of Homeschooling

Jo Boaler- her math website can be found here- https://www.youcubed.org/

James Tanton- Math Educator

James Tanton- Exploding Dots

Peter Liledahl- Simon Fraser University Math Educator (resources page)

Alicia Burdess- Math resources

Teaching Through Problems Worth Solving - Alicia Stone Burdess

Teaching Through Problems Worth Solving Version 3- Alicia Stone Burdess

Interview with Former teacher turned unschooling parent- Leah McDermott http://imhomeschooling.com/natural-learning-leah-mcdermott/

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Judy Arnall is an adult educator, certified in brain and child development, and master of non-punitive parenting and education practices.  Judy is the bestselling author of 5 books on non-punitive parenting and unschooling and has unschooled 5 adult children. 3 have graduated university, 1 is presently attending and 1 is a Masters student.

Unschooling, Math and STEM careers

We are talking about math in homeschooling and unschooling this month, a topic that comes up often in homeschooling and unschooling discussions. How can homeschooling support a love of math? Do unschoolers learn math? How will my kids learn math if I'm not confident in math myself? Will my kids get enough math knowledge from home? Judy addresses many of these fears through her own experience of raising unschoolers that found careers in the STEM field and learned math to very high levels.

In This Episode

In this episode Judy talks about her family's journey unschooling to adulthood. Having raised 5 kids, all unschooled, Judy truly has the gift of hindsight. We explored unschooling and STEM, how the non-traditional path supported her children's STEM careers and;

Putting our doubts to bed The power of observation and the gift of hindsight "Walk and Talk"- engaging in meaty conversations with our kids Will kids learn multiplication tables if we don't teach them? Video Games and raising gamers Brain development and what happens in the adolescent years Self Regulation Math through play No worksheets until at least 13 Careers in STEM How her children faired from no school to their first high school math class How her unschoolers adjusted to University Judy's recommendations for supporting math in the younger years Supporting unschooling teens Why trust is fundamental

Resources

Unschooling to University

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE)

Book- Unschooling To University

FB Group- https://www.facebook.com/groups/UnschoolingSTEM

If you are interested in hearing more about unschooling and STEM from a grown unschooler you'll this episode~http://imhomeschooling.com/why-self-directed-learning-is-important/.

You'll also love this episode with Monica Truong, self directed learning advocate~http://imhomeschooling.com/why-self-directed-learning-is-important/

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Deschooling

Deschooling is a process of letting go of the singular beliefs we have attached with learning and kids. Beliefs that learning has to be done in a certain way, within certain times, within a certain kind of environment. Deschooling means possibilities. It’s a time to deconstruct the expectations, concerns, worries, beliefs around school, learning, and education.

In This Episode

In this episode I talk about what deschooling is and why it is important. I also share ways that we can embrace deschooling more in our homeschooling life.

I take the time to to explore the meaning of the words learning, education and school. Better understanding these words and how we use them (or misuse them) can influence our daily learning life. 

This past year has brought a huge change in learning, schooling and education. I think many of us knew a shift was already happening but COVID certainly sped things up. The homeschooling community exploded in numbers and the shift to online learning has been extraordinary. Now more than ever, parents are beginning to better understand the choices they have when it comes to learning, education and schooling. 

Why We Try To Replicate School At Home

That being said, a large amount of homeschooling this year looks a lot like trying to make the home into the classroom or school. That has brought frustration on the part of some parents. Why? The home is not the school classroom and as much as we try to replicate school at home, we cannot. Many parents deciding to try homeschooling for the first time have done so in a time of massive change. Trying to control change as much as possible is a natural human process. Our survival mechanism kicks in during times of stress and our pre-programmed routines take over. 

So when we start out on the homeschool journey and face life change, we try to do what is safe. That means safe replicating what we know, which in this case is the pattern and structure of education in school.

Deschooling can help us to take a step back and slow down, giving us time to better understand our children, ourselves and how the learning process works. Then instead of trying to copy and put in place what may not work in our home, we can have a fresh slate to create and reinvent a space that better supports each individual's learning process.

References and Resources

https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/education-philosophy/

Britannica on Education~ https://www.britannica.com/topic/education

What is Learning? Queens University, Canada~ https://www.queensu.ca/teachingandlearning/modules/students/04_what_is_learning.html

School Free by Wendy Priesnitz

How Children Learn, John Holt

If you would like to hear more about deschooling, listen to my episode with Unschooling mom, author and business owner, Pam Laricchia~ http://imhomeschooling.com/hihtk-005-exploring-unschooling/

Or to my interview with Jo Watt, former teacher turned Unschooling mom and blogger ~ http://imhomeschooling.com/deschool-the-adult-mind/

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Jenn Sutherland and Beyond School

I am joined by Jenn Sutherland, worldschooling mom, entrepreneur and CEO of Beyond School. In addition to homeschooling her own four children, from birth to university entrance while traveling the world, full time, for over a decade, Jenn has a degree in education and over 20 years experience in helping families build world class educations for their children outside the four walls of a classroom. Now the CEO of Beyond School, she's focused on building a school of the future for families of the future and creating a third path in education, acknowledging that learning is happening everywhere.

What You'll Find In This Episode

In this episode Jenn and I explore the meaning of why learning is not an occurrence that happens only in school, within a certain timeframe of life. We talk about why and how learning is happening everywhere and learning is happening always. And why it is up to us as parents to shift our perspective on how and where learning can happen and let go of the fact that we have to control and measure every form of learning. This conversation included;

Living A Life Of Adventure & Worldschooling Living a life of adventure and worldschooling- How her family went from a year of travel in 2008 to a life of travel and why it was the best decision they ever made The crash of 2008 and losing it all while on the road- How tragedy can be a catalyst to step back and re-evaluate what you really want out of life Travel full time? What Jenn and her husband did to be able to travel full time and recreate their careers.

Learning & Homeschooling Learning and homeschooling-Does having credentials make you a better homeschooler or is it a liability? Prioritizing needs, wants and dreams. What is the difference between needs and wants? Who do you want to be in 1 year, 5 years? How do we make that happen for you? The most valuable things to teach in homeschooling "Everything I thought I knew about education from a classroom perspective had almost no bearing on getting the job done at home."-What Jenn had to learn to let go of in homeschooling Deschooling- unlearning and then re-learning Shifts in in beliefs and perspectives

The Joy Of Teens The shift in our view of teens that needs to happen in our world Teenagers- why we need to start saying YES to their dreams Trust, failure and raising capable children to become capable adults

School Of The Future- Beyond School The ways that COVID has shifted education and perspectives in education School of the future, Third Path education- why Beyond School began Child centred, learner centred and unique to each individual How Beyond School is cradle to grave learning over a lifetime, supporting young kids to adults

"Homeschooling is not about teaching your children from a top down management perspective. It's about Celebrating the fact that learning is happening everywhere, learning is happening always and we are in it together. Everybody at a different stage." Jenn Sutherland

If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more about alternatives to traditional school, I suggest you also check out these episodes:

A Case For Self Directed Teens: Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School? with Blake Boles

Self Directed Learning- Blake Boles

Village Home Learning Community- with Lori Walker

Alternatives To School- SHINE Together Holistic Learning Center- with Mandy Spiczka

Resources Mentioned In This Episode

Beyond School website- beyondschool.co

The Teenage Liberation Handbook- Grace Llewellyn

Not Back To School Camp

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Homeschooling Your Differently Wired Child

"Adapt and let go of the stuff that doesn't bring you joy and bring your kids a love of learning. Switch it to make it fun and make learning the goal, not the product the goal"

Divergent thinker? Twice Exceptional? Gifted? Dyslexic? Differently wired kids? Are you homeschooling your differently wired child? Feeling overwhelmed, beaten down and just not sure what to do? This episode is filled with guidance and inspiration from a mom that has been raising and homeschooling her own four uniquely wired children.

Collen Kessler~Raising Lifelong Learners

Colleen Kessler is an explorer, tinkerer, writer, educator, creator, and a passionate advocate for the needs of gifted and twice-exceptional children.  The author of more than a dozen books for parents, teachers, and children, Colleen is an award-winning educator, educational coach and consultant, with a B.S. in elementary education and a M.Ed. in gifted studies. She is the founder of the popular podcast and website, Raising Lifelong Learners and has launched a vibrant new community for quirky families called The Learner's Lab, full of creative lessons, problem solving activities, critical and divergent thinking games, and the social-emotional support differently-wired children and teens need most. Her newest book, Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family will be released this December by Ulysses Press.

What you will find in this episode From the classroom to home- Why homeschooling her differently wired kids was not originally in Colleen's plan The difference between teaching in a classroom and homeschooling How their family's homeschool has evolved over the years The pervasive myth of being gifted What is the difference between a high achiever and a gifted person? What to spend your homeschool budget on The unique tools that Colleen uses to support the flourisher writer in her daughter Helping your differently wired child thrive Cherishing the intrinsic desire to learn, resiliency and emotional intelligence

Colleen offers so many golden nuggets of wisdom in this episode; from building resiliency, raising our kids to be who they are and not who we want them to be, to what a typical day looks like in their household. Let me know if you have any lingering questions that you would like answered after this interview.

Resources

The Learner's Lab | A Raising Lifelong Learner's Community https://raisinglifelonglearners.com/the-learners-lab/

Colleen's new book- Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family

Masterclass

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Other Episodes you may enjoy:

Listen to a Rad Educator trying to make a difference within the system~ http://imhomeschooling.com/kate-weber-rad-educator/

Akilah S. Richards of Fare of The Free Child Podcast talks about their journey into unschooling their gifted daughters, social justice and self liberation work. http://imhomeschooling.com/educational-freedom-akilah-richards/

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Welcome! In this episode I am talking about the Homeschool Journey and addressing questions from listeners.

Homeschooling and Unschooling Questions

Dealing with homeschool overwhelm? What you can do and why the solution sometimes means doing less, not more.

What happens when the homeschool honeymoon is over? The importance of going back to your "WHY" and matching learning with purpose. I share questions and prompts that help you to start exploring your beliefs around learning and why this is important in building a strong home learning foundation.

How can we support our kids interests and passions? Getting to know our child's interests How we can start to gather resources to support them Ways that we can document their learning (even when it doesn't look like school style learning)

How do I know my child is learning? Should I give them tests in homeschooling? Why academics are only a small part of learning. Soft Skills The advantage of being in communication and conversation with your child Examples from our homeschooling life- how I know my kids are learning Applying and practicing knowledge-when learning is relevant and meaningful

How do I apply resources to different age groups? Ways to support reading around the home Recognizing when basic needs must be met The importance of space and downtime How we find learning resources out of the everyday things in our home

The Home Education Road Trip

I find that more often than not, our immediate response to solving a problem is finding a person or a checklist that will just tell me what to do. But here's the thing. Homeschooling, just like every family that does it, is unique to each of us. We come from different backgrounds, communities, environments and different perspectives. A 1-10 checklist is not a guarantee to solve all of our problems. That is why in this episode I relate our home educating journey to the family road trip. We could be Unschooling, Classical homeschooling, Waldorf homeschool..it all applies to our individual situations. Each of us will be taking different transportation, will want to make different stops and may need longer or shorter breaks depending on where we are going, who we are and what we want to see and experience.

I would love to know if this analogy - the road trip of home education- resonated with you. Send me a message or reach out on social media to let me know.

Homeschool Journey Resources and Special Mentions in this Episode

Happy and Healthy Kids Summit

Homeschooling Global Summit

Rural Mental Health Project

Poetry Tea Time

Masterclass

Ted Talk- Jane McGonigal Gaming Can Make A Better World

Outschool Classes

Who Was Books...

Deep Work- Cal Newport

Free To Learn- Peter Gray

My interview with Dr. Peter Gray

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Homeschool With Montessori

In this episode I learn about homeschool with the Montessori method. Jeanne Marie talks about how she embraced Montessori and the reasons why it aligns with her heart and beliefs on learning, living and parenting. She offers essential tools to help parents follow our intuition, trust ourselves and trust our children.

Parenting Mentor and Montessori Educator

Jeanne-Marie Paynel, M.Ed, is a Parenting Mentor and Home Consultant dedicated to helping parents let go of the overwhelm so they can enjoy raising self-sufficient and resilient children with ease.

Host of The Art of Parenting podcast and Founder of Your Parenting Mentor (formerly Voila Montessori) Jeanne Marie guides expectant parents, caregivers and parents of young children on how to better prepare their homes and themselves for their children to thrive during the first years of life. She believes that a supportive and peaceful atmosphere at home will allow every child to grow up as an independent, confident and capable learner. She combines her three passions: Montessori, Conscious Parenting and Positive Discipline. Her mission is to help parents appreciate the true importance of their role - not as servants or teachers, but as supporters and guides of their children's natural development.

In This Episode

In this episode we delve into the importance of trust in learning. Trust in our children and what they want to learn and trust in ourselves. Jeanne Marie explains how this is a fundamental part of Montessori and homeschooling. We discuss; Maria Montessori and the Montessori Method The start of the first Montessori school in 1907- The Children's House Understanding human development and why that is a foundational piece of Montessori What sets Montessori apart from traditional school A prepared environment for our children- supporting the curiosity to learn Mixed Ages, freedom of movement, freedom within limits and following the child The differences between Montessori and other child led methods The 4 Planes of a Child's Development in Montessori Montessori in Homeschooling Mindful Parenting and ways we can practice being more present Jeanne Marie's thoughts on Screen time and the influence on children's development

My biggest takeaway from my interview with Jeanne Marie is that whether we are using the Montessori method at a school or in homeschooling, the foundation always remains the same. The key values in the Montessori method are actually the same key values in self directed learning. That is trust in your children, be their advocate in curiosity and support life long learning.

Resources

Book~The Secret of Childhood- Maria Montessori

Website: http://www.voilamontessori.com

Podcast The Art of Parenting: https://voilamontessori.com/the-art-of-parenting-podcast/

Instagram: @jeannemariepaynel

FaceBook: Jeanne-Marie – Voila Montessori

YouTube: Voila Montessori

The Art of Parenting Podcast Episode- What is Montessori?

Montessori Homeschool Summit

We have featured Montessori, Worldschooling, homeschooling, Charlotte Mason and Classical education as well as my main theme of self directed education and unschooling. What are some other homeschool methods out there that you would like to hear more about?

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Homeschooling To The Ivy Leagues

Carline Crevecoeur was born in Port-au-Prince, Haiti in 1963. When she was five, Carline's parents immigrated to the United States with her and her five siblings, settling down in a two-story house in Brooklyn, New York. Carline attended St. John’s University where she received a Bachelor of Science degree in 1985, majoring in Chemistry. She went on to pursue her dream of becoming an OB/GYN, obtaining a medical degree from SUNY Downstate Medical School. After an unforeseeable series of events, she eventually retired from medicine to homeschool her five (now college-aged) children. She is the author of the upcoming book Pressure Makes Diamonds, in which she describes her memorable homeschooling journey. Today, she lives in Boalsburg, Pennsylvania with her husband Michael.

I am sure you will enjoy this conversation with Carline as much as I did. Carline brings great experience and gives careful thought to everything that she shares with me. Yes, all five of her children attended Ivy League Universities but their goal was not homeschooling to the ivy leagues. Carline's goal was (and still is) family, to honour each of her children's unique needs and interests and enrich their life. Carline talks about pressure, but not pressure on her kids to succeed. It's the pressure the we put on ourselves as parents, on our kids, on each other. But it's surviving these pressures, that we come out a stronger person.

"They kids tell you what they want to learn. What they love. You just have to listen."

What You'll Hear In This Episode For the beginning homeschoolers- Carline's advice and tips. I love how what Carline recommends is practical and doable for each of us. Reach out to others, visualize how homeschooling can be a fun reality and decide to do it. We talk about embracing the attitude Homeschooling within a regulated state- How she worked through the requirements and standardized testing of her state What homeschooling opened her eyes to- What she learned about her kids once they started homeschooling Supporting her children's talents and choosing their own individual path- how she did this for each of her 5 child Homeschooling to the ivy leagues (university) and how each of her kids entered the Ivy Leagues The best moments and the difficult moments of homeschooling, including homeschooling through illness What impacts our current world will have on our society and education What life lessons that homeschooling has taught her

Resources

Find and connect with Carline:

Website-https://www.carlinecrevecoeur.com/

Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/crevey22/

Twitter- https://twitter.com/medicrev

Facebook-https://www.facebook.com/carline.crevecoeur

Quiz Bowl

If you would like to hear more about parents that homeschooled to the Ivy Leagues, check out my interview with Milva McDonald.

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Charlotte Mason with Leah Boden

Leah is a long-time student and practitioner of the Charlotte Mason method of education and is passionate about helping parents find their freedom within the philosophy. Leah and her husband Dave have 4 homeschooled children. She writes, speaks and podcasts using the Charlotte Mason philosophy as a springboard into her lessons on childhood, motherhood and education. Leah delights in coaching and leading others in this refreshing way of life. She is a speaker and writer for the international Wild + Free homeschooling community and creator of Modern Miss Mason.

In This Episode

I invited Leah to join me on this episode because I knew she would be a wonderful person to talk about the method and philosophy of Charlotte Mason. After 14 years Leah still carries the passion and enthusiasm that she had from the beginning.

In this episode we discussed; Charlotte Mason- The prolific writer, educator and her vision and impact. Strategically planning the year- How Leah does this and what she has learned over the years. Creating rhythms of rest and pause. What their day looks like-morning rhythms and atmosphere The foundations of the Charlotte Mason philosophy-

1. Children are born persons. They are born whole. Our role as parents is to support this.
2. Education is the science of relations. Relationships are what matter. How we view children, how we view education and how all of that comes together is the foundation of the philosophy. The power and joy of using "Living Books" Finding your freedom within the philosophy Charlotte Mason and religion- can all backgrounds and beliefs follow the method? Is there a lack of cultural diversity in the method? The secret to longevity in homeschooling

Homeschooling in the UK

At the end of the episode I asked Leah to talk a little about life and requirements for homeschoolers in the UK. I have listeners from all over the world, including the UK and some are exploring homeschooling for the first time. Is there freedom or is it regulated? What if your child wants to attend college or university in the UK?

Even though Leah and I practice different philosophies, our belief in children and learning remains the same; trust, joy in learning and relationships. We both agree that we are learning alongside our kids and our role as home educators is in supporting the beauty and passion of childhood.

Charlotte Mason Resources

Leah Boden

Charlotte Mason Philosophy- Modern Miss Mason

Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/leahvboden/

Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/modernmissmason/

Charlotte Mason Home Education Series

The Parents Review Archive

Living Books Referenced

RJ Unstead- History of the English Speaking World

Beautiful Stories From Shakespeare For Children- E. Nesbit

Charles and Mary Lamb- Tales From Shakespeare

Aesops Fables

Charlottes Web

If you want to learn more about different home educating styles check out these interviews on Classical Education- http://imhomeschooling.com/homeschooling-styles-classical-education/

Unschooling- http://imhomeschooling.com/hihtk-005-exploring-unschooling/

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Homeschool Styles & Methods

Exploring different homeschooling methods, starting with Classical Education. If you are a returning listener to this podcast or to this website, you will know I'm and advocate of self-directed learning and unschooling. We began our learning journey in school but we left to travel with our kids. When we began worldschooling we tried to recreate school. As time went on and we dove further into home education, we started to transition into project based learning and then into unschooling. It felt right for us and matched the needs and goals of our family.

We choose unschooling but there are many other homeschoolers that have different approaches to learning. What I truly believe when it comes to learning is that the best learning reflects the learner.

A Continuing Resource For Homeschooling

Over the years, this podcast has become a go-to resource for learning outside of the traditional school norm.With the the growth of homeschool, particularly in this current year, I want to continue to show the many different facets of home education and alternative education. I have featured homeschooling, unschooling, micro schools, democratic schools, forest schools, self directed learning, worldschooling and more. But I have yet to feature a few other wonderful learning approaches such as Classical, Charlotte Mason, Montessori and Waldorf. So we begin with this episode that features Classical education and for those interested, a Classical program for homeschoolers.

Classical Educator Lisa Ann Dillon of Wisdom Wonder Project

Lisa Ann Dillon is a homeschool mom to two children and Classical teacher at SLO Classical Academy for 15 years. (San Luis Obispo Classical Academy)

SLO Classical Academy is a private, nonprofit hybrid school for homeschoolers. It offers a physical campus for classes ranging from infant care to high school.

Wisdom Wonder Project is a rich online curriculum founded on the principles of classical education. It offers Classical education with a twist. It is non-sectarian, with the classical emphasis on character values while emphasizing the value of play. The goals is to make the power, magic and mystery of learning accessible to the modern homeschool family.

The Classical Education Method

In this episode Lisa Ann and I discuss the Classical education method. What it is, what kind of learner it supports and the cross-over it can have with unschooling. Lisa Ann answers for me; What is the Classical method and what does it look like in the home? What kind of practices and activities are at the foundation of the Classical education method? Why is it considered such a content rich approach? Is the Classical method a very structured program? What is the difference between structure and stricture? How does the Classical education approach in-still a love of learning? The power of observation in the Classical approach. What families are drawn to Classical method? Is Classical education religious? Can you be a non-religious family and be part of Classical education? Classical Education is a literature rich program. How does Math fit into the approach? Are there similarities between the Classical method and Unschooling?

Themes That Cross Over To All Forms Of Learning

At the end of the episode Lisa Ann and I took time to explore learning themes that we feel are essential to living a rich learning life, no matter what kind of method a family uses. This includes;

Story- The power of story, how it can change history and how it connects us on a deep level. "When children learn to value the story of others that's where they develop empathy...emotional intelligence..and a desire to connect with other people".

Engagement- Does engagement occur naturally or does it need to be encouraged? Why is engagement an important part of learning? How do we encourage or tap into engagement?

Relationships- The layers of relationship. The first layer is the relationship with ourselves and then the layers of community. We all need to establish a positive relationship with ourselves. When students see themselves as learners and see that they have agency and responsibility for their learning- it's a good foundation for learning and self esteem.

Vulnerability- How does vulnerability empower our relationships? As we learn to be vulnerable, we learn to reveal what's true.

Mistakes- Vulnerability and mistakes go hand in hand. Our mindset is essential towards effort and growth as opposed to "getting it right". How do we make mistakes without holding onto the idea that we are not good enough? We explore how being afraid to make a mistake can hamper learning and the love of learning.

Challenge- Finding the right balance. Is it important?

Lisa Ann leaves us with exceptional advice for parents new and old to home learning.

I encourage you to take note of her advice on how to close out the home learning day with your kids and how it builds the power of connection while complementing their learning.

What are some things that you do with your children at the end of the learning day? How do you feel that this supports and solidifies your family's learning life?

Resources and References

Wisdom Wonder Project

Email to sign up for free activities, videos and encouragement with Wisdom Wonder Project- https://airtable.com/shr7bZQMcAp8Xamax 

You Tube- https://www.youtube.com/wisdomwonderproject

Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/wisdomwonderproject/

SLOCAL - San Luis Obispo Classical Academy

Joseph Campbell

Joseph Campbell- The Power Of Myth

1001 Arabian Nights

King Arthur

Uncle Toms Cabin

Story of The World

Singapore Math - Wisdom Wonder Project

Khan Academy

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Look For The Helpers-Village Home Learning Community with Lori Walker

Lori Walker is passionate about the idea that learning is a natural process, and is an inherently fun process. It feels good to learn, so why are so many students bored and disengaged? Lori is the founder and Executive Director of Village Home, where learners actually enjoy learning. Village Home is a learning community that is built on the idea that learning is ultimately self-directed, and we, as teachers, are here to encourage learning as a process. Learners are all unique, with unique interests and learning styles. The Village Home model allows learners to pursue their interests as an individual while also participating in a family-friendly, community learning environment.

Prior to founding Village Home in 2002, Lori was the Director of Training and Curriculum at Learning Forum, based in California, where she designed academic and life skills curriculum, trained teachers, and facilitated programs for teens. She also served as a facilitator herself at programs in the United States and abroad. Lori has over 18 years of experience teaching and training adults and children in a variety of subjects, from psychology to accounting for REITs.  She earned degrees, graduating summa cum laude with distinction and honors, from SMU in Business Management and Psychology, with an emphasis in child development. Lori’s two daughters provided the initial inspiration for Village Home, and her job as mom is the best job she will ever have. She lives in Beaverton with her husband and an assortment of animals.

Village Home Learning Community with Lori Walker

Lori Walker is part of my special series Look For The Helpers. Lori saw a need in the homeschool community that was not being addressed and she set about solving that problem. She saw engaged homeschool parents that were close to burnout. Their children were involved in a multitude of activities that required them to spend endless hours in the car, along with many hours organizing. They wanted their kid's interests and need for knowledge adequately filled but to do that were sacrificing too much of their time and energy. Lori also saw that the one part of school that she enjoyed and valued most as a kid, which were the experiences and camaraderie that school activities and clubs offered, was not readily available to homeschool kids. As a homeschool parent herself, she wanted all of that for her daughters but she still wanted to enjoy the benefits of the homeschool lifestyle and the freedom to learn. So she created Village Home.

Village Home

Village Home has made a difference in the lives of many homeschooling families. It has also provided an example of a learning space that engages learners, allows them to own their education and lets them lead, while being part of a broader learning community. Learners are passionate, families are welcome and educators are inspired to work there.

In This Episode

In this Episode Lori and I talk about how Village Home meets the needs of natural learners, supports teachers to inspire kids and creates a community space for the entire family.

We discuss;

the natural learning process and nurturing the desire to learn why it is important for learners to be engaged in their learning the difference between measurement in education and the intrinsic motivation to learn choosing to homeschool and why Lori saw homeschooling as a better chance to be in the world compared to the 4 walls of the classroom what happens when we pay attention to the human being as opposed to the curriculum Lori's "aha" moments that came through homeschooling her own children the rewards she has received through homeschooling and creating the Village Home learning community

What Lori described as the rewards she has received really stuck with me. She said, "it's noticing kids being themselves. They are free to be who they are." I agree with Lori, that is a reward well worth experiencing.

If you would like to find out more about Village Home, you can go to their website https://www.villagehome.org/ You can also find them on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/villagehome

Lori and I recorded this episode before quarantine was lifted. As you can imagine, there are a few new updates;

We are thrilled to host classes that build community and learning in live classes online for homeschoolers in the Fall!  We have 140 mixed-age, grade-free classes to choose from (most of them are $11/hour of instruction). Registration information is at www.villagehome.org. Local homeschoolers in the pacific NW can register for our new Voyagers Outside program, fresh-air learning (as long as it is safe to do so).    We have a virtual meet-the-teacher open house on Tuesday, July 28th if anyone wants to stop by to meet us, and we also host a weekly homeschooling FAQ for those new to this exciting lifestyle on Tuesdays at 4:00pm on our facebook page.

If you enjoyed this episode and you would like to hear more about unique learning communities check out these episodes;

Freedom Thinkers is an alternative program in B.C. Canada that was started by a teacher that could not get the public system to change http://imhomeschooling.com/freedom-thinkers/

SHINE Together is another example of a holistic, natural learning community.

The Genius School is a democratic, self directed learning space that also supports learners in the entrepreneurial mindset and giving back to the community.

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Decentralized, Democratic and Self Directed- The Genius School with Karema Akilah

In this episode Karema Akilah and I talk about her journey from public school teacher to unschooling parent of 6, to the creation of The Genius School. Karema is an advocate of children learning in freedom. She brings not only passion to this episode, but she clearly explains the practice of self directed education and the myths that surround it, as well as the the framework of a "school" that is decentralized, democratic and self directed. She asks, "what is really the end game of this k-12 education?"

If you are looking for inspiration and clarity, I encourage you to listen.

In This Episode

Homeschool Burn-out almost drove this mama of The Half Dozen to the edge of depression! Being a slave to her curriculum, Karema Greene, felt like a failure; always behind with apathetic kids who lacked a luster for learning! It took 3 strikes; a trip to the craft store, a “slap in the face” from a 16 year old and the idea of “a fish climbing a tree,” to finally convince her to try something she said she would NEVER DO; Unschool!

Karema is the founder of The Genius School, a decentralized, democratic, self directed school. Karema champions other mamas and papas to discover the Genius of their children by encouraging kids to do something they would enjoy, do well and be proud of, thus leading to their Strengths! Once strengths and interests are identified and articulated, Karema believes kids should be invited to dream up disruptive and scalable solutions housed in marketable systems that are nurtured and funded by successful entrepreneurs with the intent of bringing a child’s gift to the world. That’s a world she believes we all would like to live in! 

The Genius School

With her teaching background and her oldest in adulthood, Karema saw what was lacking in the conventional learning experience. That is the reason why she created The Genius School and the 5 pillars that frame. We delve into: The foundation of trust Having good experiences Servicing community What it means to be decentralized, democratic and self directed and why she chose this model

Karema and I also spoke of the obstacles that self directed learning schools face which are; lack of awareness, lack of diversity, lack of funding, lack of documentation and how we can go about overcoming these obstacles.

If you are inspired by Karema and what she is creating with The Genius School and would like to offer your support or learn more, you can go HERE to register for the virtual open house.

And please, spread the message of self directed learning.

Resources and Links

The Genius School

Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/decentralizedlearning/

Register for the Virtual Open House- https://www.thegeniusschool.org/events

You can contact Karema directly- info@genius

Dr. Glenn Doman - Institutes For The Achievement of Human Potential

Homeschooling Global Summit 2020 https://2020.hgsummit.com/

Getting It Together Parent Summit July 15-17

If you would like to learn more about the Sudbury School Model, check out my interview with one of the founders, Daniel Greenberg http://imhomeschooling.com/sudbury-valley-school-daniel-greenberg/

If you would like to hear more about decolonizing education and liberated learning, listen to my interview with Akilah S Richards http://imhomeschooling.com/educational-freedom-akilah-richards/

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Look For The Helpers-Mothering The Mother with Amanda Curmi

Amanda is a mother of 3 beams of energy and resides on the east coast of Australia. They are an unschooling family moving through life as gently and consciously as they can together. She loves supporting and diving deep into a gentle approach towards education and sees herself as a facilitator rather than a teacher, aiming to hold space for the children to lead the way and develop through self - directed learning. The process of choosing to home educate has also sparked a journey of deep self exploration, healing and tapping into her own creative power.

Amanda also teaches yoga and meditation. She is also currently studying to become a Yoga therapist and Ayurvedic Post- Partum doula. She is passionate about creating community for women and mothers and believes the way we parent can create deep emotional and social change. Amanda loves spending loads of time in nature with her family, creating, studying, cooking and gardening, practicing yoga and considers herself to forever be a student in this lifetime.

The Power of Self Care in Home Education

In the space of home education there is a side effect that is not often spoken of. Parents that put so much time and effort into their children to prove they are enough. Without school, we feel 100% responsible for what we provide our child not only as a parent but as their educator too. We want to make sure we are providing 'enough' opportunity, are a good 'enough' parent, and are setting the right example for the community. That is a lot to place on our shoulders. The needs and self care of the parent, in particular the mother, becomes the last need that is attended to. Burn out is a concern.

I asked Amanda Curmi to be the helper for this episode in the series because I wanted to talk about the power of self care from a holistic perspective and how that ties into the family's learning journey. As an unschooling mother, yoga teacher and yoga therapist, and soon to be Ayurvedic Doula, I knew Amanda would have fantastic insight.

Mothering The Mother in Life and Unschooling

Amanda and I talk about the importance of Mothering the Mother. She explains clearly why caring for the mother is also caring for the child. It is a connection to ourselves that has been lost or stolen along the way. Listen in to hear us delve into;

The tools that are an important part of this practice How yoga and meditation became an important tool to helping her deal with her anxiety and depression Guiding beliefs around learning and parenting A day in the life of their unschooling family Their unschooling foundations- talking and communication, being in community, nature and time outside Encouraging the creative process The practice of yoga What it means to Call A RESET in their family The power of focusing her energy on what she wants the collective future to look like

Amanda leaves us with fantastic advice and practical tools on trying to balance life and learning from home. It's about planting the seeds that you want to grow later in your life.

Resources

If you are interested in getting in touch with Amanda Curmi, you can reach her through Facebook or Instagram.

Instagram @teachingthemtochasethesun

Facebook- Awaken Through Motherhood

You can also check out the first two Helpers in this series; David Irvine http://imhomeschooling.com/look-for-the-helpers-parenting-and-being-human/ and Homeschool Mom Teresa Wiedrick http://imhomeschooling.com/look-for-the-helpers-thrive-not-just-survive/

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"Children really learn best when they are able to pursue their own interests and follow their own timetable."

Alternatives To School

Mandy Spiczka has been helping kids learn and grow all of her life. Through mentoring, a summer program counsellor, an after school coordinator, tutor and then as a public school teacher she has always been drawn to work that allows her to support kids.

But once Mandy became a parent herself, she decided she wanted her daughter to "have an education that is as unique as she is". She wanted an education that aligned with everything she had learned about in child psychology and development, everything that she had studied as a teacher and as a person that has always been connected to children. The education that aligned with her values was not found in the school. It had to be an alternative to school. It was homeschooling, or more specifically, self directed learning. And once Mandy made the decision to homeschool her daughter, she knew it was the right choice.

SHINE Together

Mandy has spent the last decade leading groups for parents and children, including the St. Cloud Unschooling Network. The St. Cloud Unschooling Network links over sixty families in central Minnesota who believe learning cannot be separated from life and who value play, exploration, growth, and following their children’s leads. 

As Mandy met more families that shared her views on self directed education, she also met families that were not able to put this type of learning into action because of varying obstacles; a spouse that didn't agree or a work schedule that could not support learning from home or a parent that needed a little extra help. Mandy knew she could help these families by offering what they were not able to do. She has now founded SHINE Together, LLC, a holistic learning space that supports families that wish to home educate or unschool full-time, but for individual reasons, cannot.SHINE Together is a flexible space where each child’s interests, needs, and strengths take center stage and where academic learning is fully integrated with real-life experiences.

In This Episode

In this episode Mandy shares why she is an advocate of self directed learning and holistic learning. She shares her experiences as a teacher and and did not want for her daughter; an environment that is "creating so many kids that are out of alignment with who they are as human beings". She also shares her own struggles as a parent on the self directed learning path and explains why deschooling is such an important part of the self directed learning process. What helps to keep her focused on the self directed path? The challenges of conventional schooling Reading and why so many children have lost the joy to read Why children should be at the centre of education How she approaches testing in a state that requires homeschoolers to test every year What a week in her holistic learning community, SHINE Together looks like The advantages of home education Advice to parents that are new to learning at home with their children Why it's important to help your child establish a rhythm and not a strict schedule

Many more families are beginning to question the model of schooling and if it is where their children learn best. If you are a parent that is looking for alternatives to school and how you can best support your children on their life learning path, there's no time like the present to start. Mandy suggests, "Think about the values and educational philosophies that are specific to your family. Find the groups and communities that are out there that can support you." I am sure you will find more alternatives. If you need a little more help on this path, don't be afraid to reach out.

Resources

SHINE Together Facebook

https://www.shinetogethermn.com/

If you would like to learn more about Micro schools, or other alternatives to conventional school, check out my episode on Microschools with Mara Linaberger. I speak with Daniel Greenburg, one of the original founders of the Sudbury Valley School, the longest running Democratic School in North America here. If you would like to be inspired by a parent that saw the importance of nature along with natural learning, listen to my episode with Michelle Goulet, founder of Wild Child Forest and Nature school.

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Blake Boles is a writer, speaker, adventurer, and advocate for self-directed learning. He has spent more than a decade working with unconventionally educated teenagers through the trip-leading company he founded, Unschool Adventures. Originally from California, Blake has lived and traveled across the world. His previous books include The Art of Self-Directed Learning, Better Than College, and College Without High School, and his work has been featured in The New York Times, The Christian Science Monitor, Psychology Today, Fox Business, USA Today, NPR affiliate radio, and the blogs of Wired and The Wall Street Journal. Visit blakeboles.com to follow Blake’s work and adventures.

Self Directed Teens

Blake Boles was in University, unsure of which major and path to pursue when he discovered John Taylor Gatto. John Taylor Gatto's critique on the school system led Blake into learning more about unschooling, democratic free schools and self directed learning. Really, Blake had entered the alternative learning rabbit hole. He became convinced that this was much more important than what he had planned to pursue before. He ended up designing his own major at Berkeley University. (He called it Alternative schooling and Science). After graduation he eventually found his way to Not Back To School Camp and became a staff member there. Surrounded by self directed teens, Blake was inspired. He is known for being the go-to person on self directed teens.

Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School?

Blake Boles returns to Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids podcast to talk about his fantastic new book, Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School? I really enjoyed this book and I recommend it to any parent that is looking at other options than traditional school. This book is not about reforming the public education system. It is a resource for parents that realize that traditional school is no longer working for their child and are ready to try something different.

In This Episode

Even though this book is not about reforming the public education system, we do discuss public education, the importance it plays for society today (it may not be what you are thinking) and how Blake sees it serving our future world. We also talk about the list of different options that parents have outside of the traditional system and aside from homeschooling. We go further to discuss;

Why there is no one solution that fits all

When alternative methods in learning and education can become dogmatic

Why the burden of proof has been on those that have taken the alternative path

The battle of nature vs nurture and intensive parenting. How much influence do parents really hold over shaping their children's lives?

Why we invest in building up trust with our kids

Our current education situation in the time of COVID. Is this really a boom for homeschooling?

Baby steps to becoming self directed

Blake's 'Model for Life'

If you are a self directed teen, a parent of self directed teens or would like to be one of these, I suggest that you check out the fantastic resources that Blake offers. Books, videos, podcast~you can find these on his website. If you would like to listen to another interview of Blake, you can check out his first appearance on Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids here.

Resources

Blake Boles Dot Com

Book: Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School?

Podcast: Off Trail Learning

John Taylor Gatto

Not Back To School Camp

Grace Llewellyn- The Teenage Liberation Handbook

Jane McGonigal

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Work Schedules and Family Rhythms: Jim and Jamie Sheils

I went looking for helpers and I found Jim and Jamie Sheils.

Jim and Jamie Sheils help busy professionals create deeper, more connected, more meaningful relationships with their spouse and children so they can have the family life they've always imagined. As successful entrepreneurs with a family of six, Jim & Jamie speak all over the world, guiding others in igniting their family life, as they grow and nurture their business life. Through their book, the Amazon best-seller “The Family Board Meeting,” and their entrepreneur family-serving organization, 18 Summers, Jim & Jamie are helping to transform families and show them how to make the most of the time they have together.

Jim and Jamie believe in honesty and connection and aren't afraid to incorporate a life of adventure into their large family. They have 4 kids from ages toddler to teens, run 2 businesses and do this while home educating, alternative schooling and experiential learning. It sounds pretty spectacular, doesn't it? But the Sheils family is quick to point out that they are not perfect. Perfection is not the goal. Schedules and Rhythms, consistency and communication are the tools they utilize. They celebrate their wins, focus on what's going well and build on that. They are the first to recommend taking the pressure of perfection off of the table.

In This Episode

In this episode we talk about many of the concerns that families are facing during this pandemic;

Learning From Home - What kind of environment do we provide to learn?

The Education Matrix- The grassroots foundation of success that they created, use in their family and teach to others -(The 3 key skills that people always use and need in life but are not taught in schools.)

Working from Home -Creating boundaries and expectations and sticking to them. The importance of having a separate space to work.

Schedules and Rhythms. What is the difference between schedules and rhythms and how do these play a part in their home life, learning life and work life?

'Work Puking" :) Why Jim is good at "Work Puking" and how he is able to control it, feel less overwhelmed but more present and connected. (A new word I'm enjoying)

Taking the pressure of perfection off. Start where you can and if it's not working, then you can change it. Revise, revise revise.

The Enterprise of Family Life. Are we cheating connection or enhancing our connection?

Dealing with Conflict in the home. How to avoid turning a 10 minute issue into a 3 day issue.

Why it's not the time to put your head in the sand. Take inventory and assess~Does your business need work? What about your family?

"If our children can see us look for help, then they will know that they too can reach for it when they need it." Jamie Sheils

Resources

Connect with the Sheils and the 18 Summers Tribe

Instagram

Facebook

Private Facebook Group

Website: https://18summers.com/

Jim was one of the first guests on my podcast! You can check out the interview here to find out more about their family and why they chose the alternative learning path.

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Thrive, Not Just Survive with Teresa Wiedrick

Teresea Wiedrick joins me on this edition of my special series, Look For The Helpers. We talk about learning, homeschooling, and living through a an epidemic with teenagers. How do we manage overwhelm and learn to thrive, not just survive?

Teresa Wiedrick is eager to share the freedoms of the homeschool lifestyle with the skeptical, the intrigued, and the curious. Twelve years ago, she searched for arguments against homeschooling, and that search shifted her family’s next decade. She is now a hearty advocate of home education and encourages other homeschool families to turn their challenges into their charmed homeschool lives. Having homeschooled for more than twelve years, Teresa is very aware of the intense nature of this lifestyle. "A mama has got to practice self-care so she can thrive, not just survive," Teresa says. Teresa is president of the British Columbia Home Education Association and will release her book, “Homeschool Mama Self-Care: Thrive not Just Survive” very very soon. She can be found on-line at www.capturingthecharmedlife.com, www.instagram.com/capturing_the_charmed_life

In This Episode

In this special episode Teresa talks about some of the challenges that parents face as they try to home educate their children and the solutions that can last a lifetime. We discuss; Working while homeschooling~is there ever really the 'perfect' balance? Keeping our kids engaged Socialization vs social opportunities Why knowing your purpose helps guide any activities throughout your days Managing Intense Emotions Overwhelm and negative self-talk Self Care

We also talk about what becomes important in learning and education, new ways that we can approach our current reality and supporting unexpected home learners with teens.

Teresa's family has experienced a pandemic crisis before. The isolation, uncertainty and lack of control are not new to them. It is only fitting that as I look for the helpers, she is one that I find.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Just go to my contact page and send me a message. If you would like to contact Teresa, you can find her contact below, along with the resources that we talked about in this episode.

Resources

Capturing The Charmed Life

The Homeschooling Option: How To Decide When It's Right For Your Family

Hold On To Your Kids~Dr. Gordon Neufeld

Joseph Campbell

Ryan Reynolds Instagram (share a few of the laughs ;)

Dr. Daniel Amen

Julie Bogart

John Taylor Gatto

John Holt

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Look For The Helpers~ A Series

“Anyone who has ever been able to sustain good work has had at least one person – and often many – who have believed in him or her. We just don’t get to be competent human beings without a lot of different investments from others… From the time you were very little, you’ve had people who have smiled you into smiling, people who have talked you into talking, sung you into singing, loved you into loving.” Fred Rogers

This is the beginning of a special series titled, "Look For The Helpers". It's inspired by the late Fred Rogers who was the creator and host of the long running television show, Mr. Rogers neighbourhood. Fred Rogers was a champion of children and his mission was to spread kindness and connection throughout the world. Mr Rogers' mother would tell him "look for the helpers" whenever he felt scared or there was a catastrophe. Because when you "look for the helpers", you will know there is hope.

Each person that I interview in this series has been a helper to me either directly or indirectly. During this COVID pandemic, I think that we can all use a little help and that is why I am sharing my helpers with you. I want to give some hope, to inspire you, to support you, to "talk you into talking" and to "smile you into smiling".

We will focus on dealing with fear and anxiety, parenting, working from home while supporting our children, learning from home during times of stress, strengthening our connection with family and community and gathering the tools that will strengthen us not just during a catastrophe, but at anytime in our life.

My First Helper: David Irvine

The first episode of this series is about becoming an authentic leader within our home. We focus on being human and why that empowers our personal self, our parenting and our relationships. My "helper" is David Irvine the Leaders Navigator. David brings his expertise and genuine care to this episode.

David is a speaker, advisor, author and former family therapist. He is also a husband, father and grandfather. David has inspired me through his work and his writings. We share similar values and his genuine care connects with my heart. David believes in strong character and facing the demands of reality. He believes in the roots of self respect, the power of love and the goodness of people. And he believes in being human and having patience with ourselves and with our kids.

In This Episode: Parenting and Being Human

In this episode David and I talk about how these values play a role in parenting and how to be a "good enough parent". We also talk about how they can sustain us in raising our children and finding joy in the process.

During these times of isolation and change we explore what is important in these days;

why it is not a time of high productivity but a time of creation and connection.

why personal development is the best gift we can give to others

how we can get to know ourselves on a deeper level, within the walls of our home

the importance of separating our own identity with that of our kids and the ways that we can do this

why we need to be easier on ourselves and not be afraid to be human with each other

Acknowledging and talking about our fears

Identifying wants vs needs

How we can have an external community and an internal community

David's Wall of Influence~ recognizing the people in life that help make us and support us

I would like to thank David Irvine for sharing his wisdom and being a helper. If you would like to connect with David you can find him at his website https://www.davidirvine.com/

If you would like to hear more about finding opportunities for learning during COVID, check out my episode with Mara Linaberger http://imhomeschooling.com/homeschooling-during-covid/

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Mara Linaberger joins me to talk about the changes that families are facing as everyone finds themselves homeschooling during COVID. What are the opportunities for learning? Are you homeschooling or doing school-at-home? We discuss the effects that COVID could have on the education system and helpful tools for parents during this time.

About Mara

Mara Linaberger's essential belief is that each of us has chosen to be here on the planet at this moment in time for a specific reason - that we're all on a mission we chose for ourselves.

And figuring out what it is that we love, what we're good at, and why we've chosen to be here now, is the main reason for continuing to engage in rich and meaningful learning throughout a lifetime.

Mara also believes that many schools actually slow down or stifle those goals and outcomes. She's passionate about helping parents and kids figure out the very best ways to harness learning in order to develop to their highest potentials! 

Mara is a life-long educator, author, musician, and artist, having spent 25 years in service as a public school educator, teacher trainer, and administrator. She first earned her doctorate in Instructional Technology, then went on to earn a Superintendent's Letter of Eligibility in the state of Pennsylvania. Having seen the reality of school from top to bottom, she then sensed it was time for her to change directions.

Mara began to explore new ways of teaching and learning with her first business, Mindful Technology Consultants. Mara currently lives with her husband Michael in Harmony, PA. Her newest endeavor, Microschool Builders - is a virtual company that supports teachers across the globe to envision, launch, and network a bespoke microschool of their very own.

In This Episode

Are you homeschooling during COVID? Is this new to you? In this episode we talked about considering your options at home as opposed to re-creating school at home. Mara provides insight and tools for parents. I asked Mara;

What effect will COVID have on education as we know it?

Why is it easier to make changes outside of the bigger school system?

What should our main concerns be for our kids right now? (Here's a hint- it's not grades and the amount of school work completed)

The tools kids need to be effective learners

Deprograming and Deschooling

Helpful tools for parents

The skills of self regulation

The benefits of boredom

Why we don't want to recreate the classroom in our dining room

Self Directed Learning

What can a parent do right now to best support their child?

In response to the many families homeschooling during COVID, the Micro School Builders Network are opening their doors to families. Kids have the chance to attend a week of virtual classes with a Micro-School. You can go to their website to find out more~ https://microschoolbuilders.com/programs/network/

Resources

Micro-School Builders- https://microschoolbuilders.com/

Documentary - Class Dismissed

Micro-School Builders Facebook

Mara has been a previous guest on the show. If you'd like to learn more about Micro-School Builders you can go to this episode~ http://imhomeschooling.com/micro-schools-mara-linaberger/ . Mara has been working with families for years to help them find the best educational setting. That means a place that allows their kids to be happy and thriving. She talks more about this work in this episode, http://imhomeschooling.com/hihtk-004-help-my-child-hates-school/

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Golda David is a teacher, former school principal and homeschooling mom. Golda is the homeschool facilitator for our school division’s homeschool program, supporting families in alternative education, homeschooling and unschooling. She is also our family’s personal homeschool facilitator. And no surprise, she is an advocate for self directed learning.

Golda shares how she went from public school principal to homeschooling her son and running a program that is unique to our province. And she does this all as a single mom.

We talk about; Why and how the school system is due for a change Her biggest struggles to homeschooling as a single parent and public school educator Her advice to parents that are interested in homeschooling and in need of a confidence boost The 3 myths in education Standardized testing (are they an accurate measure of learning?) Reading-(Why it’s not the end of the world if your child is a late reader) Learning must be rigorous (When play and autonomy=rigour)

Go to http://imhomeschooling.com/education-demystified-lessons-from-a-principal-teacher-homeschooler/ for show notes. 

Resources

Marie Battiste: Decolonizing Education

Teaching in a Cold and Windy Place: Change in an Inuit School

Ivan Illich: Deschooling Society

John Taylor Gatto: https://www.johntaylorgatto.com/

John Holt: https://www.johnholtgws.com/

Peter Gray: Free To Learn

On Standardized Testing

Alfie Kohn: https://www.alfiekohn.org/

W. James Popham (on Standardized Testing): http://www.ascd.org/publications/educational-leadership/mar99/vol56/num06/Why-Standardized-Tests-Don%27t-Measure-Educational-Quality.aspx

Todd Farley: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/574656/making-the-grades-by-todd-farley/

Mark Garrison: https://www.amazon.com/Measure-Failure-Political-Origins-Standardized/dp/1438427786

Connect or hear more from Golda:

Website: www.demystifyingeducation.com

First Nation Education: A Study  https://firstnationsstudents.weebly.com/

Contact her via email: davidg@prsd.ab.ca or phone (1)780-219-2119

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If you want to learn more about some of the authors mentioned in this episode, check out my interview with Peter Gray or Pat Farenga (co-author with John Holt). If you would like to hear more from teachers turned Unschoolers, check out my episode with Leah McDermott.

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Monica Truong, unschooling mom and self directed learning advocate. In this episode Monica "schools" me on child-led democratic education, self directed learning and creating a culture of respect, trust and sovereignty.

Democratic and Self Directed

Monica Truong was born in Vietnam and came to Canada with her family as a refugee at the age of 6. She has a BSc in Chemistry and likes to joke that she works with the "chemistry" of people, as she has never worked in her field of study. Monica taught English in Asia for 12 years and travelled to as many countries. When her oldest started school, Monica also decided to go back to school and received her diploma in Architectural Technology. In another twist of fate, she never worked in that field either and started homeschooling instead. Monica is learning and living with her husband and two daughters. Two years ago, she and two other moms, Sheri Daley and Sarah Atkinson, started the Chinook Free Learners Community Coop. Chinook Free Learners is a child-led, democratic learning centre inspired by Sudbury School and Agile Learning Centres.

What To Listen For In This Episode The three reasons that led Monica to unschooling The beliefs that she had to let go of around what it means to be a good or "smart" student Why she is an advocate for self directed learning and democratic schooling What she tells her traditionally minded parents about unschooling and their democratic learning centre Self directed learning and how it works How a democratic, agile learning centre works Will kids learn if you don't teach them? What about math and reading? Won't kids make bad choices if they are given freedom? The biggest challenges for Chinook Free Learners and unschooling? Letting go of mom guilt Monica's hope for education and children? What advice would she give to a parent that's interested in unschooling or a democratic learning centre?

Monica's hope for children is that they know they are powerful, that they are free and sovereign people and that they can make a difference in the world. I think that she is well on her way to making this a reality.

Notable Quotes and Resources

"I read a book called 'A Child Called It'....After reading it I came to the realization that our children will love us, no matter how awful we can be as parents and it made me want to do the best I can. Well actually, better than I can. Because I want to feel that I really deserve the love of my children." Monica Truong

"I homeschool because the type of education that I think is best for my kids are not available in public school, not because schools are inherently evil. They, like any man-made innovation can be used for good or evil. Public schools serve a very practical, useful purpose-to take care of our children while we adults go about our work." Monica Truong

"If unschooling was a religion, it would be Tao.

"Trust Your Children. Nothing could be more simple, or more difficult because to trust children we must first learn to trust ourselves, and most of us were taught as children that we could not be trusted." John Holt

"We worry about what our children will become tomorrow. We forget that they are someone today." Stacy Tauscher

Contact Monica or Chinook Free Learners

Chinook Free Learners website

Chinook Free Learners Facebook

Resources

Sandra Dodd

Joyce Fetteroll

Pam Sarooshian

Pam Laricchia

Exploring Unschooling

Mortensen Math

Alliance For Self Directed Education

Thrive Calgary

Books

Deschooling Society

A Child Called It

Free To Learn

Everywhere All The Time: A New Deschooling Reader

Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling

Free At Last: The Sudbury Valley School

Punished By Rewards

If you want to learn more about Democratic Education, check out my episode on Sudbury Valley School with Daniel Greenberg

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Stacey Piercey has been an entrepreneur for over 15 years and a homeschool parent to 3 boys for over a decade. She is also the creator of Kids2Market, a program that teaches kids from ages 6-17 how to start a business with an idea they are passionate about.

Stacey learned about unschooling even before she had kids. While teaching at a University in China, she met a 9 year old self directed learner that captured her attention. His name was Matt. Matt and his mom moved to China for teaching work. At the time Matt was not yet reading, could not tell time and could not write. But he would build the most fascinating structures out of any material. And he spoke 3 different dialects of Chinese. His learning was self directed. His life had none of the influences of the traditional education system and its conceived beliefs. He was immersed in life learning.

Fast forward a few years to when Stacey starts her own family. She remembers her friend Matt. She and her husband agree to unschool.

Unschooling and Entrepreneurship

Have you ever noticed that many unschoolers become entrepreneurs? Or that many entrepreneurs are choosing to unschool?

In this episode Stacey and I delve into the parallels between unschooling and entrepreneurship. We the skills needed in entrepreneurship and how they are the same skills that unschoolers utilize in their daily lives. Skills like perseverance, resiliency, motivation, and critical thinking. We also explore how the harder parts of unschooling reflect entrepreneurship. The uncertainty, the peaks and valleys, the steep learning curves and the need for trust.

Do you have an interest in unschooling or supporting the entrepreneurial spirit? If so, then this is the episode for you.

Why is trust and self advocacy important in self directed learning?

Is there a common path that self directed learners follow?

What is the best way to support your child through unschooling? (hint~starting with the WHY)

Societal norms and expectations around learning

What if my child is a late reader?

How to best communicate with teachers if your unschooler decides to go to school

Why Kids2Market, her entrepreneurial program for kids helps them see that anything is possible

Her advice to parents that are just starting out on the self directing learning path

Definitions

If you are new to the podcast or the world of homeschooling or unschooling, here are a few definitions from this episode;

Strewing

In the Early Childhood world they use a similar term. An "Invitation to Learning". It is adding to or enriching your child's learning environment by scattering resources, items, books, materials to their space. Strewing invites or entices them to find out more.

Resources

Blake Boles ~College Without High School

My interview with Blake Boles http://imhomeschooling.com/self-directed-learning-blake-boles/

SMART goals https://www.smart-goals-guide.com/smart-goal.html

Kids2Market.com

Kids2Market podcast

If you would like to listen to more episodes about unschooling, check out my interview with Pam Laricchia http://imhomeschooling.com/hihtk-005-exploring-unschooling/ or Roya Dedeaux http://imhomeschooling.com/play-purpose-unschooling/

If you want to hear more about entrepreneurship and home education, you will love my interview with Jim Sheils http://imhomeschooling.com/episode-001-jim-sheils-how-one-entrepreneur-is-overturning-the-traditional-education-model/

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Dr. Monica Burns is a former teacher, Ed-Tech consultant, Apple Distinguished Educator, author and founder of classtechtips.com

Monica is passionate about preparing kids for a future world where they need to think critically. One way she does this is by supporting deeper, more meaningful learning using technology.

In this episode we discussed the technological changes that have happened in schools over the years. What happens when, in less than a decade, the tools that are used change dramatically? How do schools keep up? How can we use technology as a learning tool?

Monica shares a plethora of her favourite digital tools for learning and addresses questions from listeners;

In a world where we are so digitally connected and have so much information at our fingertips, how will this access to information impact the traditional school structure? A structure where school and teachers were previously recognized as the gatekeepers of information?

What does she see for the future of education and learning?

Is there such a thing as too much tech? If so, how much tech is too much?

You can find Monica at her website or through Social Media;

Website https://classtechtips.com/

Monica'sSocial Media

Twitter.com/classtechtips

Facebook.com/classtechtips

Pinterest.com/classtechtips

Instagram.com/classtechtips

Monica's Books

Books (with affiliate links)

Tasks Before Apps: Designing Rigorous Learning in a Tech-Rich Classroom

http://amzn.to/2vWkjWl

https://classtechtips.com/tasksbeforeapps 

40 Ways to Inject Creativity into Your Classroom with Adobe Spark

https://amzn.to/2NHjFS1

https://classtechtips.com/sparkbook 

FormativeTech: Meaningful, Sustainable, and Scalable Formative Assessment with Technology​

http://amzn.to/2e8S77j

http://classtechtips.com/formativetech/ 

Deeper Learning with QR Codes and Augmented Reality: A Scannable Solution for Your Classroom

http://amzn.to/1JLYJBe

http://classtechtips.com/scannabletech/

Digital Learning Tools and Resources

Khan Academy https://www.khanacademy.org/

Ted Ed https://ed.ted.com/

Storyline Online https://www.storylineonline.net/

Google Arts and Culture https://artsandculture.google.com/

Creative Tools (Making movies, websites, graphics)

Adobe Spark

Book Creator

Virtual Reality

Google Expeditions https://www.blog.google/products/expeditions/adventures-abound-explore-google-expeditions-your-own/

Oculus https://www.oculus.com/?locale=en_US

Zspace

Using Virtual Reality Without A Headset

Virtual Reality Discussion Prompts

Other Resources and Classes

Creative Live https://www.creativelive.com/

Udemy https://www.udemy.com/

Masterclass https://www.masterclass.com/

Seth Godin: Stop Stealing Dreams https://youtu.be/sXpbONjV1Jc

https://classtechtips.com/2019/12/10/khan-academy-042/ (podcast episode) https://classtechtips.com/2018/05/27/virtual-reality-discussion-prompts/ (blog post) https://classtechtips.com/vrbook/ (free download) https://classtechtips.com/books/ (Tasks Before Apps)

If you'd like to learn about another Rad Educator, check out my interview with Kate Weber. Kate may not be all about the tech, but her approach to supporting learning stands out. http://imhomeschooling.com/kate-weber-rad-educator/

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"Music is one of the most powerful developmental activities on the planet."

Inga Hope lives and breathes music and her desire is to make teaching music to kids easier and more accessible. Inga is a trained guitar teacher, singer and songwriter. Her online guitar school, Gentle Guitar, reaches students across the world and her magazine, Music Ed, shares tips, inspiring stories and practical teaching tools for music.

The Power of Learning Music

At age 14 Inga realized music is her calling. But it wasn't until her 20's that she was finally able to connect with the right guitar teacher. The difference this teacher made was tremendous. Through the right teacher Inga began to understand the power of learning music and she became inspired and encouraged to begin teaching and sharing this gift with others.

Are you a parent that loves music? Or did you have an unhappy experience with music lessons when you were young? Are you unsure about how you can encourage music in your child? Do you want to know how to best support your child in learning music?

Episode Highlights

In this episode Inga walks us through her personal journey around music and how this shaped what she does now. Her stories and examples help to answer many of the questions that parents have around supporting their child in music. We talked about;

When to introduce your child to music lessons

The challenge of finding the right teacher and program

What kind of music lessons are right for your child

How to support your child's music learning at home

Why it's a good idea for parents to participate in their child's music lesson

The importance of music for kids

Why is repetition important in music

What inspires Inga as a musician

I love how Inga has found her passion and through it, her voice which she is using to reach people across the world. Inga understands that along with mentorship, it was her self direction and personal driving force that led her on the right path. Do you believe there is power in learning music?

Resources

Music Education Magazine https://www.gentleguitar.com/music-education-magazine/

Gentle Guitar https://www.gentleguitar.com/

Enjoy Inga's music https://ingahope.com/

If you would like to hear more about the power of joy and creativity, listen to my interview with Roya Dedeaux http://imhomeschooling.com/play-purpose-unschooling/

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Po Tim King is a homeschooling mom to 4 kids. Born and raised in Hong Kong, Po majored in Linguistics in the US. She is a former Cantonese and Mandarin teacher and private piano teacher. Po and her American husband are raising multilingual kids and homeschooling in Hong Kong.

In this episode we talked about what it's like to homeschool in Hong Kong. Po explains why the challenges they face have helped them get clear on what is important to them.

In This Episode: Homeschooling in Hong Kong

Homeschooling is a rare practice in Hong Kong. There are currently 18 registered homeschool families in Hong Kong, although many go unregistered and homeschool within a "grey area".

So why would the King family choose to homeschool in a place where it is unusual or even difficult to do so? In this episode we talked about why Po's family decided to move back to Hong Kong and homeschool. Po is very aware of how different their life is by choosing to homeschool. We discussed;

The pressure of education in Hong Kong

Why homeschooling has shifted her beliefs around education and learning

Why the opposition they face has helped their family to be clear on what they want and don't want

Life as a homeschooler in Hong Kong

Why starting a blog has helped her connect to community

Tips on raising bilingual children

The cultural differences in discipline and raising your kids with autonomy

Current life in Hong Kong through its political transition

Chinese language and math

Po, I admire your tenacity and resilience.

Are you living in a country where homeschooling is a rare opportunity? Are there unique challenges that you face because of this? Were you able to connect with some of the challenges that Po faces? I would love to hear more about that.

Resources

Fortune Cookie Mom

https://www.fortunecookiemom.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids/ Go to this link to find Po's website fortunecookiemom.com and to join her challenge to start learning the Chinese language

A brief history of Hong Kong:https://www.nationalgeographic.com/culture/topics/reference/hong-kong-history-explain-relationship-china/

Connect with Po on Social Media:https://www.facebook.com/fortunecookiemom/https://www.instagram.com/fortunecookiemom/https://www.pinterest.ca/fortunecookiem/https://twitter.com/fortunecookieMs

Teru Clavel's interview http://imhomeschooling.com/global-mom-teru-clavel/

And if you would like to hear more about raising kids in Hong Kong, check out my interview with Queenie Tan http://imhomeschooling.com/hihtk-episode-009/

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Play, purpose and unschooling. Roya Dedeaux is a licensed marriage and family therapist, professor and grown unschooler. She and her husband also homeschool their 2 children.

Roya believes in the importance of play for all ages. Through her work, she inspires others to become more playful and create stronger connection.

She doesn't just talk about it, she lives it. Her expertise and hobbies are many but they all intersect to make a beautiful, meaningful life. Roya credits this to growing up unschooled. She also credits her parents for supporting her interests, passions and play. By doing this, she says, they were a large part in helping her reach her greater purpose.

Play, Purpose and Unschooling

In this episode we talked about:

Growing up Unschooled

Why her parents chose the unschooling life for their family. The benefits and challenges that growing up unschooled brought. The joy and creativity. Being able to do all the things with a large amount of time. Friendships with varied ages and entire families. What has changed in the homeschooling community. The reasons why Roya's family is creating their own unschooling path.

The Importance of Play, Mental Health and Relationships

The greatest impacts on a child's development, success and resilience; the relationships that surround them. The benefits of free play. Gamefulness (the feeling of being able to take things on as a challenge as opposed to a threat). Why having trust in your child helps them to learn to have trust in themselves. Neural pruning. Video games and why playing violent video games and watching violent shows are not the same.

Her Advice To Parents That Are Trying To Do It All

In Roya's practice she works with many families that are juggling the pressures of the world. She helps families reconnect. Roya talked about choosing what is important and helping your child feel supported. Relationships and mental health. Homework and how to deal with it. How important is high school? The Pressure of High School and The Changing Face of College. Her life mission.

Roya's passion and excitement for life and helping others is clear. I can hear it in her voice. Her dedication to her family and to the families that she supports are evident. I see the connection between the trust her parents gave her and how that has helped develop her life today. It's an encouragement for many of us that may doubt this natural learning path.

Resources

https://www.royadedeaux.com/

Connect With Courage

Protect Their Passions Workbook

Free To Be Unschooling Conference

Jane McGonigal Ted Talk

Jane McGonigal Website

Reality is Broken

Super Better

Peter Gray

Peter Gray episode on Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids

The Decline of Play and Rise in Children's Mental Disorders- Peter Gray

Pam Sorooshian on Unschooling

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The Top 5 questions that I get asked about homeschooling and unschooling

Not sure what the term 'Unschooling' really means or how it differs from traditional homeschool? Are you uncertain how kids can actually learn if life looks nothing like the traditional schooling structure? Would you love to homeschool or unschool but you just don't know how you can afford it? Would you love to homeschool but your life partner is not on the same page? What do you do then?

These are questions that I receive often from listeners of the podcast. Questions and fears are natural, especially if you are creating a life of your own design that doesn't follow the normal routine of others around you.

As much as I try to address these questions in interviews with my guests, there are times when it seems best to answer them directly. Which is what I am doing with this episode. So grab a cup of your choice and listen in on the top 5 questions that I receive on homeschooling and unschooling. Throughout the episode I reference many others, including past episodes and resources. All of those I have included at the bottom of this page.

Question 1: What is unschooling?

Question 2: Why did we move from traditional homeschooling to unschooling?

Question 3: If we unschool how do we know if our children are actually learning?

Question 4: How do parents afford to stay home and homeschool or unschool?

Question 5: What happens when you want to homeschool but your spouse or partner is not on the same page?

What did you think about the top 5 questions about homeschooling and unschooling that I receive? Do you need more explanation on a few things? If you do, write me and let me know. If there are other top 5 questions that you have about homeschooling and unschooling, let me know those too!

For Show notes go to~ http://imhomeschooling.com/?p=3464

Support me through Patreon~ https://www.patreon.com/honeyimhomeschoolingthekids

Resources Mentioned In This Episode

Resources For Parents ~ http://imhomeschooling.com/homeschool-resources/

Pat Farenga~ https://www.johnholtgws.com/pat-farengas-blog/

John Holt~ Website https://www.johnholtgws.com/

Honey I'm Homeschooling The Kids Episode with Pat: http://imhomeschooling.com/pat-farenga-on-homeschooling-and-education/

Leah Mcdermott~ http://www.yournaturallearner.com/

Rachel Rainbolt~ http://www.sageparenting.com/shop/

MicroSchool Builders Facebook Group~ https://www.facebook.com/groups/622539617933686/

MicroSchool Builders Website

Past Episodes that I mentioned:

Ranan Lachman~http://imhomeschooling.com/life-of-their-own-design-ranan-lachman/

Jaime Salonen~http://imhomeschooling.com/hihtk-episode-7-jaime-salonen-escaping-the-rat-race-and-worldschooling/

Leah McDermott~ http://imhomeschooling.com/natural-learning-leah-mcdermott/

Rachel Rainbolt~ http://imhomeschooling.com/natural-learning/

Mara Linaberger~ http://imhomeschooling.com/micro-schools-mara-linaberger/

Michelle Goulet~ http://imhomeschooling.com/wild-child-forest-school/

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Ranan Lachman's wife, Michelle, was diagnosed with late stage breast cancer. After a tortuous year of medical treatments this near-death experience transformed their views on life. It created a sense of urgency to focus on purpose and dedicate the time they have with the people they love. Today Ranan and his family live in Bali, Indonesia where he helps other families escape the "rat race" and live a healthier, more balanced life.

Life Of Their Own Design

Ranan's family were living out the "American Dream". He worked on Wall Street, created a few start-ups and moved to Silicon Valley to chase the tech boom and...money. Ranan worked long hours, coming home after the kids were already in bed. But life took a turn when his wife became diagnosed with late stage breast cancer. After surviving a year of aggressive medical treatments they questioned everything. What they were doing and what they were living for. They came to realize the values they were living and the values they believed in did not match. So here's what they did; sold their belongings, quit the office work setting, and set out to travel the world for a year.

Lesson #1 Making The First Decision Can Be The Hardest

"We haven't done anything special, we just made the decision to leave." After researching and planning their adventure for 6 months they decided to get on the road. Life centred around learning and travel. They purchased an RV and headed south to the tip of South America. On this journey they experienced things they would have never done if they were still living in the US. They roadschooled (learning and homeschooling as they traveled), volunteered, learned a new language and got to know each other better as a family. They experienced things together. Experiences of joy but also challenging experiences. A life of their own design.

Lesson #2 The Challenges Stretch You

After a year traveling South America the family moved on to Australia. They traveled Australia for a few months, then headed to Bali with plans to move throughout Asia. But once they got to Bali, their travel stopped. In this episode Ranan talks about why Bali is the right place for them to be. How it offers a healing space for his wife, the low cost of living suits their family, and the value in minimalism reflects their lifestyle. They decided to stay.

Lesson #3 Saving Money Through Travel

Ranan has found the cost of living in Bali to be a small percentage of the cost of living in the United States. The climate is beautiful, amenities are many and accessible and there is a large like-minded community. It is a growing hub for Worldschoolers and those seeking a slower, simpler life. Since being in Bali, Ranan and another business partner have started helping other families relocate and create a life of their own design. They provide information, mentoring and relocation services. Listen in near the end of the episode where we share tips on different things you can do to get started on your travel or relocation .

Where will they go from here?

What would you do if life suddenly shifted for you? If it caused you to take a look at your values and what you were actually living for? Would you make a change? If not, what do you think would be your biggest hold back? I appreciate the honesty Ranan spoke with and the joy that you can hear in his voice for the life they have now. And it sounds like his wife is back to good health, enjoying their terrific lifestyle in Bali. Recently Ranan and his family had a chance to return to the US for a visit. During their stay, he and his wife saw life in North America again through new eyes. The pace was fast, life was nonstop and it was really apparent that their values have now changed.

Resources

TerrificLifestyle.com

Tips to leaving the rat race as Ranan mentioned in the episode; https://www.terrificlifestyle.com/resources

Deep Work: Cal Newport

If you would like to listen to other episodes of families that have chosen to leave the rat race and explore the world together, check out my interview with Rozanne Dioso Lopez: Slow Learning and Living or with Jaime Salonen: Escaping The Rat Race and Worldschooling

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Sudbury Valley School

"For us it made no sense at all to think that you could create citizens of the United States of America - adults who understand the country and respect what it's about - if you place them for the first 12, 16 or 20 years of their lives in a completely autocratic setting. Schools are run like a monarchy...The monarchy decides the rules, the monarchy meets out punishments, the monarchy decides whatever it says is right and you have to conform to it. If you are going to make a school that is appropriate for children to grow into (American) society, it has to give every single child the same rights as adults. It cannot distinguish between children and adults."

Daniel Greenberg, Sudbury Valley School

No Classes, Curriculum or Grades?

Picture this:

Your child has started a new school and you're excited because you have found a school that isn't like the others. A school that offers the freedom for your child to pursue their passions. To make mistakes. A place to mix with various ages and ask questions. A school that your child is excited to be at everyday.

There are no end of the year exams to be anxious about, no essays to write or grades to tirelessly maintain. No curriculum to follow, classes to attend or subjects required. And no teachers or principals imposing rules or punishment.

Does a school like this actually exist? 

If there are no classes, teachers, curriculum or grades, what do kids do all day? What would be the purpose of this school? How would they learn to read and write with out classes, curriculum and teachers? Would they ever have a chance at finding a job or getting into college? How would they survive in society if they spent their childhood doing what they wanted all day long?

At times I have heard these concerns raised about unschooling. But this is not unschooling. In fact, this is not even a school for unschoolers.

Democratic School

What if I told you that there are schools whose sole purpose is to provide a place for kids to be truly free and flourish, uninterrupted.

Where kids are free to do as they wish the entire day. This means playing in puddles outside, climbing or building forts. Painting, reading, playing music or even playing video games all day long.

What would happen if a school ran as a democracy? Where every child and staff member at the school has an equal role managing the school. Where everything is done at the school meeting;  the school budget, rules of behaviour, facilities, and hiring of staff. And it's at the school meeting that every member of the school has an equal role and vote. As well, every member of the school community, from the 4 year old students to 70 year old staff members, play an equal part in the school's judicial system.

This all sounds so idealized but can it actually work?

Daniel Greenberg says YES, it can work and it has been for over 51 years.

Sudbury Valley School

Sudbury Valley School in Framingham, Massachusetts has been in existence since 1968. The school began with about 60 students and around 20 founding members, of which Daniel Greenberg was one of. He remains a staff member to this day.

Dan says that although each founding member came with their own reason for starting the school, they all shared the same belief; that "human creatures are unique, diverse and have the insatiable desire to figure out the world and what they want to be. Kids are fully formed people...and there is no reason to treat them differently." Sudbury Valley is framed on this belief and the founding principals of the United States. That each individual has the undeniable rights to pursue life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. The right to pursue a meaningful existence. 

That is why students at Sudbury Valley School are free to explore the world. Why there are no grades, subjects or curriculum. Why the student decides mastery.

Sudbury Valley School~Kids Are People

In this episode Dan shares; The history of Sudbury Valley School and the essential reasons why it exists What has accounted for the school's success How it's democratic structure supports self directed learning What kind of kids fair best at Sudbury Valley School How students learn the "basic skills" Why Sudbury Valley School can not be replicated outside of the United States (even though much effort has been put toward spreading it worldwide)

I also asked Dan to address a common misconception that unschoolers seem to have about Sudbury Valley School; that it is the perfect school for unschoolers. We discuss why Sudbury Valley School and Unschooling have NOTHING in common. (Yes, sorry to burst any bubbles) And why Sudbury Valley School creates the most natural way to help a child become fully independent.

I would love to hear what you think of this episode. Are you familiar with democratic schools? Do you agree that every child must be given the same rights and freedoms as adults? In order to be part of a true democracy we must be an active part of one growing up?

Let the thirst for independence and self expression continue.

If you would like to hear from a parent of Sudbury Valley School, listen to my episode with Dr. Peter Gray:

https://imhomeschooling.com/free-to-learn-peter-gray/

Resources

Essay:Let's Be Clear: Sudbury Valley School and "Un-schooling" Have NOTHING in Common 

Sudbury Valley School Website 

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The Call Of The Wild + Free

Ainsley Arment is the founder of Wild + Free, a community of mothers that are changing the preconceived notion of what it means to homeschool. Ainsley is also co-founder of Wild Explorers Club and the Wild + Free Farm Village, and host of the Wild + Free podcast. Her new book, The Call of the Wild + Free: Reclaiming Wonder in Your Child's Education was published in September. She and her husband Ben homeschool their five children; Wyatt, Dylan, Cody, Annie, and Millie, in Virginia Beach, Virginia.

When Ainsley began her motherhood journey, homeschooling was not something she ever considered.  It wasn't until her oldest began school that she started to reconsider. She noticed as he spent more time in school he started to become distant and began to care more about what the other kids thought of him. And his desire and innate curiosity to learn started to dim. Ainsley decided that instead of letting his light dim she wanted to give him wonder, freedom and curiosity. She wanted him to have his childhood back and homeschooling looked like the best option to do that. "It's less about the childishness, and more about the child-likeness. It's about that natural born wonder."

How They Became Wild + Free

Ainsley shares how the first few years of homeschool unfolded for them. The joys they experienced, the wonder and their early concerns.

The joy came from doing life together at home and in nature. Ainsley saw her son's love for learning ignite again and wonder began to form his education. She saw his childhood coming back.

At the same time Ainsley also understood the loneliness that arrives when you feel like you are the only one doing what you do. When you don't have your tribe. Or the uncertainty that you feel when you want to keep going but feel like you are fading out. It was the joys and the concerns that led to the creation of the vibrant Wild + Free community.

In This Episode

In this episode Ainsley shares how the Wild + Free community that began as a space on Instagram quickly spread to other parents throughout the world that wanted to reclaim the wonder of childhood. Wild + Free offers a common language for a certain set of values that many parents share; the wonder of learning, being out in nature, and the joy of living in the freedom of homeschooling. It also provides a place to hear from other moms in the trenches that are doing the hard work everyday.

Ainsley's beautiful new book, The Call of The Wild + Free is an extension of this life. She gets into the why, the myths, and the how.

How do you set up a rhythm in your home?

How is the wild + free way different?

I found Ainsley to be another kindred spirit and we chatted well past the time we stopped recording. Her passion is evident and the love for her family and the values she sees in giving kids freedom is clear.

As for her challenges, they are similar to what many of us face; trying to juggle it all with a growing family, making room for quality time and quality education. But her advice is simple but powerful~ find what works for you in each season and embrace it.

If you would like to learn more about the Wild + Free community or order the book go to:

Wild + Free Website: bewildandfree.org

On Instagram

instagram.com/ainsl3y

instagram.com/wildandfree.co

If you would like to hear more about families that are reclaiming childhood and finding freedom through homeschool check out my episode with Rachel Rainbolt http://imhomeschooling.com/natural-learning/

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Samantha Peterson is determined to Raise a Little Wonder.  She is a mom of three and a former teacher turned travel-schooler. Samantha's family is also part of the .9% of the American population that serves in the military. Their travel-schooling nomadic lifestyle is both by default as a military family, but also by choice. "When we were faced with all the challenges that come with uprooting every 2 years, we decided to fully embrace it."

In this episode Samantha shares some wonderful insight on travel with young kids, military life, family culture, authentic learning and how to embrace instead of escape.

Travel Schooling~Experiences Over Things

Samantha is no stranger to going against the grain. Living a life in the military really challenged her to step up and live like no one else. Being a military family already puts them in .9% of the US population. Her family has also chosen to homeschool and travel school. On top of that, in order to do this on a single income, they live simply. Their family focus is on making memories, not on accumulating material things.

They travel often, almost every weekend, but they keep it local to their area. As Samantha says, "you don't have to travel to far, expensive destinations to be a travel family". Keeping it local can be just as rewarding, fun and even more flexible.

I loved how Samantha explained how travel schooling impacts their learning life and why this can look different from the formal classroom environment. In a world of comparison it can be hard not to question our education choice when it can look so different from the norm of school. Using her experience, Samantha lays out why it looks different, and why it is just as valuable, if not more so. She lays out why it's important to encourage our kids to explore, how we can cultivate curiosity and why it's all about experiencing things together in real time.

Samantha asks what I feel is one of the most simple, yet foundational questions in learning and parenting. A question that gets lost in all of the talk of grades, scores and success. The real question she asks is this; How do we raise good humans?

If you would like to learn more about Travel Schooling and Cultivating Curiosity Tips For Traveling With Young Children Choosing To Shift Your Perspective Living With Less So You Can Live With More and Raising Good Humans

Listen to this episode.

If you would like to reach out to Samantha, you can find her on Instagram @Raise A Little Wonder or her blog raisealittlewonder.com Love stories of travel and simplicity? Check out another episode: Choosing Experiences Over Things

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Can homeschoolers get "real" socialization?

What happens when your spouse no longer supports your choice to homeschool?

Is University one of the best measures of a successful homeschooler?

Milva McDonald joins me on this episode. She shares her homeschool experience and knowledge.

Milva is the mother of four adult children and proud grandma of one. She said goodbye to school and the PTA and began homeschooling in 1991.

For three decades she worked for The Boston Globe and boston.com writing and reporting about arts and cultural events in the Boston area. She is a founder of Advocates for Home Education in Massachusetts (AHEM) and served on its Board of Directors for more than a decade. Milva has two books, Unschoolers and Slow Homeschooling. She blogs at www.apotlucklife.com

Homeschool Fears

In this episode Milva tackled some of the biggest homeschool fears and criticisms. An unsupportive spouse, socialization, community and getting into college. Milva brings to this discussion her 21 years of experience homeschooling and raising a family. She shares her own personal stories of  how she worked through her obstacles and fears.

What happens when your spouse no longer supports the choice to homeschool? Milva's family changed after she and her husband divorced. How did their family and homeschool adjust?

Socialization~ Is this a real issue for homeschoolers? Or does the question of socialization border on intolerance? Milva references her own blog post that she felt compelled to write~ Is Socialization Overrated?  Well? Is it?

Community was extremely important for Milva's family, especially because their homeschool journey began soon after homeschooling was legalized in the US. Is community still as important today?  How does community help us to flourish?

Slow Homeschooling~Making conscious choices about how you spend your time. What does this mean to Milva and her family? How did they focus on relationships and pursue their passions?

Unschooling~ Does the current meaning of unschooling reflect its original use? We have a vast amount of choice for home education and alternative learning now. How is this effecting the legal and political realm in her state?

Success~What does it mean to be a successful homeschooling family? Because her children attended college and one graduated from Harvard, does Milva feel they have reached success? Is graduation from a top university the best measure? Do you need to go to college to lead a fulfilling life?

"One of the great things about homeschooling is that it opens you up to the idea that you can do things differently"

Milva ends with advice for parents that want to try homeschooling but are scared to take the leap. She encourages us to prioritize what's important. She says "homeschooling was successful for us because it's a great lifestyle. That spirit of curiosity and excitement that pervaded their childhood, continues."

Resources

Milva's blog: www.apotlucklife.com

Milva's books, Unschoolers and Slow Homeschooling

Boston Magazine~ Our Kids Don't Belong In School

Advocates for Home Education in Massachusetts (AHEM)

John Holt

John Taylor Gatto

Interested in John Holt? Listen to my interview with Pat Farenga, writer and education activist.

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Global Mom Teru Clavel

World Class- A Mother's Journey Halfway Around The Globe In Search Of The Best Education For Her Children

Is There Only One Way to Educate Your Child?

Although Teru Clavel's educational philosophy leans to more of a traditional approach than my usual guests, we share a mutual interest in international comparative education. After my many years living outside of Canada, I have seen how language, culture and environment can impact an entire nation's beliefs around school, education and learning. Teru shares the same experience. She is a global mom.

Teru is not a homeschool parent, and she doesn't send her children to an alternative school. Her 3 children attend public school and have always attended public school. Public school in many different countries. What Teru Clavel has found is the importance of exposing her kids to the world and exposing them to the differences in education.

World Class~Searching For The Best Education

Over the last 10 years Teru's family have lived and attended school in 3 separate countries, in 5 different cities. Hong Kong, Shanghai, Tokyo, Palo Alto and New York.

Teru runs her own educational consulting practice and this summer released her book, World Class- A Mother's Journey Halfway Around The Globe In Search Of The Best Education For Her Children.

Has Teru discovered the country with the best education for her children? Listen to this episode to find out.

Teru's Perspective

In this episode we delved into the differences of raising a family schooled in both Asia and the US. Teru is candid about what she feels the US can learn from the East Asian school system but she also shares the struggles that East Asia faces. We begin with the call to action that started this world class journey. We then dive into the role of culture, language and expectations in a country's education system. Find out; Why her children moved from a private international school to the "bare bones" public school in Hong Kong and the perspective shift it gave them Is there a difference between school in Asia vs North America? The meaning of mastery. Is it more than just getting the basics right? Childhood independence in Japan vs the US Why she believes balance is key and rigour is important The math mindset; what Asia has that North America does not What East Asian countries feel is missing in their education Mental Health and Burnout Their transition back to the US Their family's biggest awakening after returning to the US

Don't miss Teru's book, World Class where she shares what she learned through her decade in Asia parenting and educating her children.

Connect With Teru

World Class Book

Teru Clavel Website

Facebook 

LinkedIn

Instagram

Twitter

Resources

Carol Dweck 

Jo Boaler

AERA~American Educational Research Association

If you would like to hear more about raising children in abroad, listen to my interview with Queenie Tan. She's a worldschooling mom that left Hong Kong in search for a better life for her children. http://imhomeschooling.com/hihtk-episode-009/

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The 5 Hour School Week with Kaleena Amuchastegui

"It's about us living our best life so our children know what that looks like. They can't see us miserable and not learning and not fulfilling our purpose because that will be how they design their lives."

From The 70 Hour Work Week To The 5 Hour School Week

Kaleena Amuchastegui called herself a workaholic. She ran a successful real estate business working over 70 hours a week. Her kids attended traditional school full time, they had a nanny at home and Kaleena held the position of PTA president for many years running.

But she came to a point where she said, enough. No more PTA president and no more school. No more 70 hour work week.

Kaleena's life now involves working less, spending time with her family, travel, and unschooling. Kaleena, her husband and their 4 children are on their growth journey to living their best life.

Through this journey they are learning about themselves, connecting with their children and inspiring others along the way. They are questioning everything; mindset, learning, work, school and fulfillment. What they have found is a better way to learn and live.

In This Episode.....

In this episode Kaleena spoke candidly about the steps they took to get there. Her growth journey and the shift that had to happen The conditioning she has had to unlearn The freedom and bravery that goes along with their travels What happens when you choose to "bring" instead of "take" The challenges she has faced and continues to face (a fear many homeschooling parents share) Passion Projects Self Care Building a relationship with our children How they structure their 5 hour school week

Kaleena and her husband have created the 5 Hour School Week to not only inspire and support parents but share the infinite paths that are available for us to take. Life does not have to be about the drudgery. It can be about joy, freedom and delving into our passions. What if our kids lived that with us everyday?

Here are some of the amazing resources that Kaleena suggested on this episode along with links to the 5 Hour School Week

5 Hour School Week

Website: fivehourschoolweek.com

FaceBook

Instagram

YouTube

Book: The 5 Hour School Week: An Inspirational Guide to Leaving The Classroom to Embrace Learning in a Way You Never Imagined

Resources

Tim Ferris-4 hour work week

Compassion International

Hands and Feet Project

Book: When Helping Hurts

Homeschooling Support

Free To Learn: Peter Gray

John Taylor Gatto

Free Range Kids-Lenore Skenazy

Time For Learning Curriculum

Most Likely To Succeed- Ted Dintersmith and Tony Wagner

Kaleena's daughter Maddie has a passion project that is a huge part of her learning journey. Check out Maddie's YouTube Channel Maddies Life AG and Instagram account.

If you would like to learn more on your journey into homeschooling, self direction and alternative education check out my interviews with Peter Gray and Lenore Skenazy.

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Inspired Homeschooling

Alisha Brignall is a passionate homeschooling advocate. She homeschools her 4 kids, ages 6-14, while running a business and attending university. Alisha runs Alberta's only secular homeschooling conference (Inspired Calgary). She is studying for her education degree at the Werklund School of Education at the University of Calgary.

Why I Wanted Alisha On The Podcast

Some may know of Alisha through her previous blog, Learning From My Kids, or her old podcast. I came to know of Alisha as an attendee at the Inspired Secular Homeschool Conference a few years ago.

She's a homeschooling mom with children that face some learning challenges. They have homeschooled for over 8 years and counting. Alisha supports their individualized learning needs and advocates well for them. She is a strong believer that learning must be meaningful and it is about taking risks. Her advocacy work has built a community that supports children, special needs and diversified learning.

Alisha and I also talk about her reasons behind obtaining her teaching degree. I find that pursuing her education degree gives Alisha a unique perspective. I wanted to hear why she wanted to pursue a degree in a field that I thought she had become disillusioned by.

In this episode we talked about Why Alisha decided to homeschool The challenges she faced as a homeschool mother and what finally put her worry to ease Her core beliefs in learning and education How she balances homeschooling, University and work Why she believes homeschooling may not work for every family Advocacy in Education Their family homeschool process The Inspired Secular Homeschool Conference Will she still homeschool her children once she receives her teaching degree?

Resources

Inspired Secular Homeschool Conference

Werklund School of Education

Reggio Emilia

Dr Gordon Neufeld~Hold On To Your Kids

You can listen to my interview with Michelle Goulet, cofounder of the Calgary Inspired Secular Homeschool Conference~Wild Child Forest School.

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What Happens When Your Homeschooler Wants To Try School?

I haven't done this in a while. A personal episode. I thought I would to catch listeners up on what has been happening in our past homeschool year.

Like every family, we have had changes and transitions. We are all a year older. This is my second year back to work part-time. It has come with adjustments. Like balancing travel for work and the different demands for my time. I am also a mom, wife, home educating and producing this podcast. It has been rewarding, enriching and also overwhelming.

But I don't do this alone. Our family is a team. That's how we choose to approach our life. We also receive a large amount of support from our extended family. Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins. We consider them an extension of our unschooling journey. Having that level of support from family and friends helps us to do what we love to do.

Then It Happened...

Then something happened this year. Our daughter approached us. There was something on her mind. "Mom, I think I want to try going to school."

My beautiful, kind, intelligent introvert wants to go to school. I was surprised. And scared. Sad. Even a little bit embarrassed. There were so many emotions that I went through in less than a minute.

I'll admit it. I took it personally. What have I done wrong? Have I been working too much? Have I not been there to support her enough? Am I no longer creating a fun learning environment? I saw this as a problem that I had to fix. Possibly one that I had created.

Then the doubt and shame kicked in. What will people think of me? The podcast? Here I am talking about the joys of homeschooling and unschooling and my daughter wants to go back to school. I quickly started to worry about being judged over the needs of my daughter.

Then I took a breath

Then I took a breath. In my head I stopped making this about me. I asked her why she is considering this. She told me. It was something I could tell she had taken time to think about. First, she wants to play school sports. She wants to try out for the volleyball team. She also wants to check out the school social scene. It wasn't at all what I had imagined- that I was possibly a done a bad job homeschooling.

Then I started to see things in a different light. After talking with my husband I had better clarity. (These are my steps~Taking a breath. Talking things out) This has been one of ours goal as parents home educating. For our kids to have a voice and feel heard. To be able to communicate their wants and needs. To direct their learning journey. This is what my daughter is doing. I am really proud of her. This is her taking charge in her education and learning journey. We will support her in whatever she chooses to do.

Do Our Kids Have A Choice?

"Homeschooling is our journey as parents. Our adventure. It's not our child's adventure"

This is a quote from Julie Bogart that hit home when I heard it. Many times homeschooling begins as the parents journey. How many times in life are our children just along for the ride? We talk a lot as unschoolers and homeschoolers about giving our kids "choice". Are we?

If our child wants to go to school. Are we supporting them? Or is our answer a firm no? Is the no for their good, or is it more about us?

My daughter is considering trying school in 2 more years. For 7th grade. She says this is a maybe. It is a  consideration. No matter what she chooses we will support her. If she does decide to go to school, we do not step back as parents. It means that we really need to be there for her. To help her navigate any changes. To be in good communication with her and the school. We are still home educating. That for us is a lifelong journey.

How about you? Have any of your kids wanted to go to school? What did you do? I'd love to hear more. You can message me through Instagram, Facebook or on my contact page.

Here's my episode with Julie Bogart that I referenced in this episode. I also recommend Mark Beaumont's episode. A school principal, an advocate of unschooling with a daughter that attends school. 

Stay tuned for upcoming summer episodes: Homeschooling 101

How to get started on this journey. Tools and tips that I would have loved to know when I started my journey.

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Unschool Yourself First: A Parents Gateway to Self Directed Learning

Mark Beaumont is a professional educator that is passionate about self directed learning. He is a middle school principal at an international school in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. Mark is an artist, husband and father. His daughter attends the school he works at. And even though she attends school, Mark raises her with the principles of self directed learning.  He "finds it nothing less than fascinating and challenging." With his professional background and experience as well the story of his personal struggles in school Mark offers great perspective.

He reminds us it is important to unschool yourself first.

In this episode we discussed: Where his belief in self directed learning came from Why Mark and his friends started a small unschooling centre in Chiang Mai for their own children Unschooling and attending school. Mark explains why this is not a contradiction and how he is able to continue to unschool his daughter while she attends school How he has found his way in the struggle between the two worlds of traditional education and self directed learning Why he wrote his book Unschool Yourself First: A Parents Gateway to Self Directed Learning and the 3 main themes he lays out for readers.  The fundamentals that took him from progressive educator to unschooler The educational research that explains why unschooling works so well The personal learners profile that helps parents to empathize, understand and support their child

Questions Unschoolers Face

I also asked Mark to answer some key questions that many unschoolers hear. Questions like;

Does unschooling start with the parent or with the child?

Is unschooling or self directed learning for everyone or only the select few?

Self Directed Kids-will they really be productive?

Mark is an excellent advocate for self directed learning. Through his work as an educator and parent consultant he has worked with countless families on both sides of the coin. And yes, Mark says it starts with us, the parents. Unschool yourself first.

Mark's Advice To Parents

Mark offers advice to parents that may be struggling to understand self directed learning. He says trust your child to know what is best for them in their life and learning. Support them in their learning. Have conversations. Figure out how to help them go deeper into what resonates with them and what they are interested in. Support your child. While Mark shared his childhood schooling experience (which he describes as nothing less than traumatic) I noticed that he had a lot of support in his life. Whether it was his parents, an aunt, or his grandparents, they all played a part in offering choice and freedom to Mark. He didn't have to stay confined to the school structure that was not serving him at all.

Mark leaves us with his top 2 book recommendations for entering self directed learning. You can find the recommendations at the bottom of this page or you can tune into the episode to listen and learn more.

You can connect with Mark through his email standupandunschool@gmail.com where he offers free consultations to parents. You can also look for him on FaceBook.

My episode with Kerry McDonald and Peter Gray were brought up in this interview. You can check out both interviews here.

Unschooled: Kerry McDonald

Free To Learn: Peter Gray

Mark's Resources

Mark's Book~Unschool Yourself First: A Parents Gateway to Self Directed Learning

Sir Ken Robinson

Dan Pink- The Puzzle of Motivation

Dayna Martin

Understanding By Design Curriculum

Top 2 Book Recommendations For Entering Self Directed Learning

Peter Gray-Free To Learn

Kerry McDonald-Unschooled: Raising Curious, Well Educated Children Outside The Conventional Classroom

Howard Gardner-Multiple Intelligences

Sugata Mitra

Kents Hill School

Landmark College

Goddard College

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Did you know that 50% of college students in the US do not graduate within 6 years?

50%. The main reason for this? The financial cost.

In this episode I spoke with Abby Chao, co-founder and COO for CollegeBacker. An online service that makes saving for college simple, smart, social and accessible. Her approach is a modern, tech-forward approach. Crowdfund your savings fund!

I know that more people are beginning to question the relevance of university or college. The technological world is moving at such a fast pace that many large, old institutions are having a hard time keeping up. But the largest uncertainty is the huge cost and debt load that many carry because of college.

In this episode Abby and I talked about her company, CollegeBacker, the importance of saving for education and how they utilize a new approach to saving- by leveraging your social network.

How The Seed Was Planted

Abby's interest in investing began as a teenager. She credits the Illinois Math and Science Academy. A state funded school for "math and science nerds". Abby says it allowed students to pursue their passions, collaborate and research. It was an introduction to the book Rich Dad Poor Dad from her grade 7 math teacher that first peaked her interest in finance, investing and business.

But it wasn't until she worked as a social sector fellow with McKinsey & Company that her passion crossed into the education field. The sector fellow focused on k-12 education. It helped her understand public education throughout the country. She saw disparity in education. Financial disparity. Many schools across the country were not preparing kids for life after school. She saw how special her education experience had been.

CollegeBacker

CollegeBacker is a college savings vehicle in the US. It is a 529 fund that helps to save but also gives the tools to rally friends and family to help you.

In this episode Abby talked about:

Why have a savings plan for college?

Flexibilities with this fund~ What happens if your child decides not to go to college?

How you can leverage social networks to help save

The power of belief and expectations to support kids

Unique ways that families can save for post secondary no matter where you live in the world

Abby is leaving listeners with a gift. Visit collegebacker.com/honeyimhomeschooling

I'd love to hear your feedback. Do you feel that post secondary is an important part of your or your child's future? How are you planning to handle the financial aspect? You can email me through here.

Check out my episode with John Lanza on~ How To Raise Money Smart Kids

References

CollegeBacker.com

Illinois Math and Science Academy

Rich Dad Poor Dad Book

Kiva Micro Loans

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Inspired Learning Through Living

"This changed our lives and you can't help but let it seep into other areas of your life."

Karla Marie Williams is Unschooling The Sensational Six.

Karla Marie is a speaker, writer and global child advocate. As the founder of ispeak4kids global, her work has touched multiple countries and cultures. She is a homeschool conference speaker, mentor and author of Homeschool Gone Wild. Karla Marie is a wife of 22 years and mom of 6 inspired kids!

How The Idea Began

The idea to homeschool began with her first child. Her daughter needed something different. She was feeling anxious, down and suffered from dyscalculia. Karla Marie saw that her daughter needed not only more one-on-one time but she also realized that her daughter needed more of her. She needed that relationship. So after grade 2, she decided to homeschool her daughter. Her other children soon followed. They continue to homeschool to this day.

Homeschooling Was Not Enjoyable

Karla Marie started out homeschooling like many of us do. Repeating school at home. They plugged away for 3 years. They ended up hating it. It was just workbooks everyday. It never occurred to her that it could be fun and enjoyable because school was never fun and enjoyable for her. She knew no different. I hear this often. That the idea of school or learning was never something that was to be enjoyed. It was a chore that you just had to get through. If this is your framework around learning, then how could you create anything different?

In This Episode

In this episode Karla Marie shares how they moved from "school at home" to unschooling. She shares why this has worked so well for her family and why she believes that any child can unschool. Yes. Any child can unschool.

She also shares the key elements and examples that have helped to create a successful homeschool environment for them: Focusing on relationships more than shoving facts down their throat. The belief that any child can be an unschooler if their parent is willing to let go long enough to make it work. What helps when you have P.U.P. (Periodic Unschooler Panic) The power of  documentation Karla Marie's number one tool for documentation Defining unschooling

Inspired Learning Through Living

Karla Marie is also a global child advocate. We explored her advocacy work and the impact it has had on her and her family. All of Karla Marie's 6 children are adopted. The experience she has had through the adoption process and raising her children inspired her work. She travels the globe speaking and mentoring. Her focus is understanding trauma, recognizing what trauma does to the brain, how to care for and love children that have been traumatized and how to be an agent of healing in their lives.

The organizations she works with must share a common goal: to remove children from institutions, to place them in families and prepare those families to care for them properly.

How is that for promoting positive, meaningful change? It is also a demonstration that parents can be the catalyst to showing their children how they can pursue their own dreams. It is truly inspired learning through living.

I asked Karla Marie what their main family belief or goal is. "To enjoy the journey, love what they do and make a difference in this world."

You can find out more about Karla Marie through her YouTube channel- Unschooling The Sensational Six

Her books~Homeschool Gone Wild-Inspired Learning Through Living. Records the journey from traditional homeschool to unschool

Momspiration- how you can inspire your children to pursue their dreams as you pursue your own.

Her website~ispeak4kidsglobal

Instagram and Facebook

If you would like to listen to more example of parents that are doing inspired learning through living check out these episodes with Karen Ricks, Julie Bogart, Kerry McDonald, Sadiya Hashmi, and Gordy Bal

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Jodie Cook: Supporting Enterprise

Jodie Cook always knew she wanted to work for herself and do work that she loved to do. She was fresh out of University when she started her Social Media Agency, JC Social Media, in 2011 at the age of 22. Jodie's company has grown from a staff of 1 to 18. She has won numerous awards and accolades and her TEDx talk, Creating Useful People, is a statement on the importance of supporting enterprising skills and having role models. 

Jodie's current focus is her book series for kids. Clever Tykes story books inspire positive, resourceful and creative behaviour. Each story features a unique character and theme. Clever Tykes books are now read in every primary school in the United Kingdom! Jodie plans to replicate this in countries across the world.

If you are a person that believes in the importance of self directed learning, this episode is a good one. Jodie speaks not as a teacher, nor as a parent. She is a young employer in today's knowledge economy. She is a business owner that knows the benefits of a commitment to learning and improving. 

In this episode we talked about: Why a commitment to learning is a huge factor when she is recruiting staff. Wonder what qualities an employer is looking for? Listen to what Jodie has to say. The need Jodie saw when she created Clever Tykes story books (and listen to her amazing goal for the book series, and the help she needs to achieve this goal) The Power of Role Models Why Enterprise is a needed skill for young people today What Parents Can do to Support Enterprise How her own mom encouraged independence Euthymia~Why this one Greek word underpins so much of what she does in life

Resources

Clever Tykes: Enterprise Storybooks

jodiecook.com

Ted Talk

On The Tranquility of The Mind~Seneca

Peace of Mind~Seneca

Marcus Aurelias

I mentioned my interview with Rachel Rainbolt on the podcast Sage Parenting. You can listen to more here.

Rachel was also interviewed on Honey! I'm Homeschooling The Kids episode Natural Learning

How To Raise Money Smart Kids: John Lanza

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Play: The vehicle for learning

Phil Johnson is a strength and conditioning coach and human performance specialist. He describes himself as a neuroscience nerd. Phil is a dad, an independent researcher and scholar and PLAY advocate. He works as an adjunct professor at the University of Iowa.

During this episode Phil and I explore the dynamic relationship between play, evolution, learning and the brain. We discussed: What is missing in education and why it's important to be self driven in learning The factors needed in your environment to support play How fear, stress and nutrition impact play.

We also discussed the personal impact that the forced educational environment had on Phil growing up. This impact is a "why" behind his PLAY advocacy.

Play Across Studies

In University Phil fell in love with his studies. His love of learning sparked. He was pursuing his interests. He also found positive mentors that encouraged him to appreciate his unique differences.

But a class called "Perspective on Leisure and Play" caught Phil's attention. In this class the connection between the science of play and the science of adaptation (Strength and conditioning) was made. It was the first time in Phil's life that he was introduced to play on a biological perspective.

That was the start of Phil's research journey. This journey has linked play to psychology, anthropology, social sciences and neuroscience. Phil says that play is not unique to just humans or mammals. It is a primary system deep within the brain. Play is the vehicle for learning.

Phil encourages parents to help support play and to model playful behaviour. "Humans are meant to be playful. Exuberant. Curious and question asking until the day we die".

If you would like to learn more about Play and Self Directed Learning listen to my episode with Peter Gray.

References

Phil's website: Got Strength

Ashley Montagu

Growing Young- Ashley Montagu

Jaak Panksepp- The Importance of Play

Affective Neuroscience: The Foundations of Human and Animal Emotions

The Archeology of Mind: Neural Origins of Human Emotions

Paul D MacLean-The Triune brain

Dayna Martin

Stuart Brown M.D.

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"Life is a gift and we need to celebrate now."

Karen Ricks left me with many warm words of wisdom through this interview. Talking to Karen felt like I was catching up with an old friend that I had met in another time. We share many things in common. We are both women of colour in a mixed race marriage. With mixed race children. We have taught, lived and started families in Asia. We are Worldschoolers. (Although my long term travel is currently on hiatus).Our husbands are writers. I could go on.

Karen is a Montessori teacher and Montessori School Founder. Mother and wife. A digital nomad and Culinary artist gifted in making learning and connection come to life in the kitchen. She tells us: play with your food.In this episode

In this episode Karen shares her story on becoming global. They started with a one year plan to teach english in Japan. This turned into 10 years spanning 8 different countries and 4 different continents. From Japan to Italy. Italy to Mexico. From Mexico to Albania and many countries between.

Karen starts by sharing her rich memories of Japan.

What was it like as a mixed race American family that was "outside people's realm of experience"? Despite the differences, Karen and her family found a strong community in Japan.

Then they felt the impact of the 2011 Earthquake and Tsunami. It became the motivating force behind starting their International Montessori school."If that future is not promised, we need to do what we want to do, right now." Karen you are a reminder to seize the day.Digital Nomads

How does a family afford to travel the world? Karen and her husband are digital nomads. They don't need a fixed address. Only a computer and internet access. Karen has found many unique ways to create a business around her many teaching skills. She teaches music online, figure skating, and cooking. I am most drawn to is her culinary community. In Japan Karen saw how drawn her families were to the daily lessons that she created in the kitchen. They explored the world through the kitchen. They discovered Cultures. Practiced Languages. Foods were created, sampled and brought into every lesson. Of course! Food is science, math and language. The process that is shared in cooking creates a rich learning environment. Karen has taken this global in her Play With Your Food Community.Play With Your Food Community

Karen is empowering parents to embrace their role as their child's best teacher. She does this through cooking. The world she explores through her culinary life is remarkable. She not only helps parents cook with their children but helps them understand the reason why it's important. Where is the food sourced? What does it feel, taste, smell and look like? She says the kitchen is the playground, from the preparation to the clean up. In the Play With Your Food community it is about building bonds with your child. She centres it all around fun and play.

Karen is all about being herself. This is something that world travel has taught her. She recognizes who she is, what she believes and what is important. And her desire to be fully present for every experience continues to grow.

To Connect With Karen please go directly to  https://www.facebook.com/groups/WePLAYwithOurFood/ and let her know that you heard her on the show!

Her Culinary School in Sicily: Cook The Farm Anna Tasca Lanza

To hear from another worldschooling mom and digital nomad check out Jaime Salonen on this episode.

http://ourkitchenclassroom.com/

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Free To Learn

Peter Gray's book, Free To Learn is about the human nature of education. This book caused a shift in my own life. It had me reflect on my beliefs on childhood. My beliefs around free play, screen time, schooling, how kids learn and parenting.

On this episode Peter Gray shares his ideas, research and insights on those subjects. He addresses the fears and doubts that surround self directed learning and unschooling.The Shift To Democratic School

Years ago Peter Gray found himself in a situation that may sound familiar to some. His son was being destroyed by the traditional school structure. He was fighting it every step of the way. Peter came to a point where he needed to be on his son's side and support him, not fight against him. They decided to leave the school and look for other options. What they found was Sudbury Valley democratic school. Sudbury Valley was completely unlike any other school around. No subjects, no bells, no curriculum, no classrooms. Unstructured, unhindered free play. The school was not divided by grade or age segregated. It was a democratic community where everyone at the school, no matter what age, had a vote. The philosophy: Adult's do not control children's education; children educate themselves.

His son flourished. But Peter had concerns. Will this environment actually work? How will the children become educated? Will his son learn the skills needed to be an independent person? What about college?Free To Learn

Those fears are what lead Dr. Gray to dive into the study of self directed learning and unrestricted play. He studied graduates from Sudbury Valley School as well as other unschoolers. The evidence, he says, was compelling. The graduates were doing well. They had successful careers. Many went on to College and excelled there. They all credited the self directed learning environment they grew up in.

In this episode we talked about how kids in a self directed learning environment acquire their education and go on to lead a successful life.

How can you become educated through such a different method?

What are key parts of the self directed learning environment?

Are there benefits to age mixing?

What happens when you follow your passions from a young age?

The Importance of Free Play and what happens in its Absence

The 'Schoolish Mentality"

Parents Irrational Fears

Do Kids Need Structure?

Democracy and Democratic Schools

I would love to hear your thoughts and opinions on this interview. Do you share any similar fears? How much free play do you support in your home? You can contact me here.

If you would like to hear other episodes on the importance of play check out my interview with Lenore Skenazy.Research studies:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/experts/peter-gray-phdObservational study Jay Feldman

https://eric.ed.gov/?id=ED453128 Study of Grown Unschoolers

https://www.psychologytoday.com/sites/default/files/Published%20Grown%20Unschoolers%20I.pdf

https://www.psychologytoday.com/sites/default/files/Published%20Grown%20Unschooles%20II.pdfBrian Sutton Smith

Play Scholar

Play TheoryDemocratic Schools

Sudbury Valley SchoolPeter Gray's Book

Free To Learn: Why Unleashing The Instinct To Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students For Life

Alliance For Self Directed Education

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Blake Boles is an advocate for self directed learning. He is an author, speaker and podcaster. He is also the director of Unschool Adventures, a one of a kind travel adventure program for self directed teens. The day we chatted I bundled up for the cold Alberta winter while Blake was enjoying the sun in warm New Zealand.  I first learned of Blake through his podcast, Off Trail Learning. Who was this person that speaks so passionately about self directed learning? Yet he never grew up home educated himself?I found his website, watched his videos and came across articles he wrote. I liked his idea of the importance of consent in education and learning. His nomadic lifestyle resonated with me. I knew I wanted to have him on this show. I wanted to hear what he has learned from spending so much time with self directed teens.  On this episode Blake addressed the many questions that I have heard on unschooling and self directed learning. Are self directed teens any different from those that are not? If so, where does this difference come from? What does it mean to "be educated"?  The difference between unschooling, learning and education.  Is unschooling unrealistic?  What is he hearing from unschooled teens that enter formal education?  Is unschooling and self directed learning only accessible to a small minority of families?  What shifts are happening in education and where? I ended the episode asking Blake his advice. What would he say to families that are open to exploring self directed learning? Blake offered many resources and left sage advice even for the skeptics. I am looking forward to hearing more from Blake Boles.

Resources:Blakes Website:blakeboles.com

Unschool AdventuresAlternative Schools or Self Directed Learning Centres

Sudbury Schools

NorthStar Liberated Learners Network

Village Home

Blakes article on the difference between Agile Learning Centres, liberated learners and Sudbury SchoolsSelf Directed Learning and Unschooling Books, Articles and Research

Peter Gray: A Survey of Grown Unschoolers

John Taylor Gatto

Grace Llewellyn

The Self Driven Child: The Science and Sense of Giving Your Kids More Control Over Their Lives

Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience

Self Determination Theory

Alliance For Self Directed Education

Drive: Daniel Pink

Outliers: The Story of Success- Malcolm Gladwell

If you would like to hear more about self directed learning:

Why Self Directed Learning is Important: Madison Kanna

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Lara Onaba"I am now able to be confident in who I am, outside of my titles."

Degree in English Literature and American Sign Language. Serial entrepreneur. Author. Marketing Guru.

Lara now describes herself as a Facilitator of interest based achievements. Director of Fun. Unschooling mom. She is unschooling in peace.

We covered so much in this interview. In her no-nonsense style Lara breaks down how her life purpose has changed. For herself and for her family.Academics Equals Success

What I enjoyed from this interview is the perspective that Lara comes with. They are a Canadian family with strong African roots. Lara's father is Nigerian, mother is Canadian, but she was raised in Nigeria until the age of 12. Lara's husband, Mark, is from Uganda. In Lara's family academics equals success. To not choose an academic path and then to unschool her children, Lara took a huge step away from their norm. We talked about how she faces this criticism. We also discussed how cultural background shapes our ideas around education and success. What happens when you stop assigning prestige to the letters after your name?Unschooling In Peace

Lara talked about the direct factors that led them to unschooling. How her "parenting plan" missed the strong attachment bond that comes into play. The needs she saw in her son as he grew and her concern that school could not support him. In this episode Lara describes an unschooling conference that they attended. The results that they saw from other unschoolers at this conference made things so clear. These are the results they want for their own family! A close relationship with their children. The ability to communicate clearly. Empowerment. The chance to pursue your interests and passions. The belief that young people are capable of making reasonable decisions."I need to learn in that moment, how do I parent my children and parent myself?"

The unschooling journey has not only been a journey in education but also in parenting. Lara candidly shares how she is undoing things from her past as she goes. Old beliefs around parenting, authority and communication. This stands out because her style of parenting here in Canada contrasts so much with the way she grew up in Nigeria. She uses this quote: "the most important question I ask myself as a parent is this~ How can I best help my children to be fully themselves and happy with who they are in the world, however they show up."

She told me " I need to learn in that moment, how do I parent my children and parent myself?"

I'd love to hear your thoughts on this interview. What did you take away from it? Do you have any similar experiences to share?

Lara's advice to parents in the end is to use the power of a network. Find your tribe. Surround yourself with like-minded people. If you would like to be part of Lara's network you can find her through Facebook at Unschooling in Peace.

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The Brave Learner: Julie Bogart

Julie Bogart is a veteran homeschool mom to 5 kids. She is the creator of the award winning Brave Writer program and founder of the Homeschool Alliance. Her new book, The Brave Learner, is a must-have homeschool companion.

Talking to Julie is like having a friend over for a cup of tea (or coffee). Her excitement over finding the love of learning is contagious.The Idea Of Homeschool

Julie was pitched the idea of homeschooling in 1984 by a friend of her soon-to-be husband. Even though she had never heard of "homeschool" he sold her on the idea. It was the idea of creating a learning experience with your children that could be tailor-made to their aptitudes. An experience that could be creative and bonding as a family. After this, Julie was ready to homeschool.

Today Julie supports thousands of homeschoolers in their homeschool journey. Her writing program supports and guides families in writing. The Homeschool Alliance is a vibrant support community for homeschool parents. Her podcast gives a voice of encouragement. I find myself nodding my head to the stories that Julie shares.In This Episode

In this interview Julie continues the conversation around learning, homeschool and family. She tackles the fear many homeschool moms have- how will the kids really turn out?

Julie's shares so many personal stories in this episode. The biggest concern that she hears from homeschool parents- How do I know I'm giving as good an education as what they're getting in the schools? Julie's answer is in the anecdote she tells of her husband's textbook contract. Why Julie thought she had failed her son Noah in math. But how homeschool-tailoring the educational experience to the child's personality and needs- supported him in just the way he needed. The experience of going on a dinner "date" with her son Jacob when he was 14. Only to find out his purpose was to tell her how homeschool was limiting his potential. She shares the realization he came to later. The biggest gift of home education for her family.

We did not miss talking about Julie's new book, THE BRAVE LEARNER. We focused on the 3 Levels of Learning (Reading. Experience. Encounter) that Julie talks about in the book and how this impacts learning.

Are you a Brave Learner? You don't have to be a homeschool parent to model brave learning. Do you want to rekindle curiosity, courage and enchantment? I'd love to hear your reflections from this interview. What parts of the interview did you connect with?

Book: The Brave Learner

Website: https://bravewriter.com/

Podcast: http://blog.bravewriter.com/category/podcasts/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bravewriter

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliebravewriter/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/bravewriter

Other Episodes:

Why Self Directed Learning is Important: Madison Kanna

The Unschool Sisters

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Surrogacy. Homeschool.

One of the things I love about this podcast are the unique people that I get to meet and interview on the show. The purpose of this podcast is to share these stories.Michelle's story is one of these.Michelle Whitaker is a 29 year old wife, YouTube content creator and homeschool mom of 1. Michelle is married to her wife of 8 years and they have a 7 year old daughter. Michelle’s YouTube channel documents her family’s true homeschooling journey and her raw and transparent road to becoming a surrogate mother. In this episode of the podcast, Michelle shares with me: Why they chose to take their daughter out of school and homeschool.Why it was important to find a homeschool coop that was diverse, accepting and supportive.Her Surrogacy journey why she chose to become a surrogate mom the process and the challenges that it involves, how they communicate this to their daughter. What I took away from this interview is how each family's story is unique to them but at the same time we are all so similar. As for the homeschool journey, we learn to make it our own. For example, I am an unschooling parent and Michelle an eclectic homeschooler. Our home education may look different, but I still learn from her example. As Michelle says, "There are so many different homeschool choices and styles today as well as backgrounds. Doing what works for you is all the matters. We just focus on us."I asked Michelle what advice she would offer to parents. Michelle suggests that whether you decide to homeschool or not, it's important to get involved. Learn about what is happening in your schools. Attend the board Meetings. Raise your voice. Then do what works for you. Youtube: The Whitaker WayInstagram @the.mrs.whitaker If you would like to listen to other episodes that feature the importance of diversity in home education check out:Educational Freedom with Akilah S RichardsThe Importance of Self Representation with Sadiya Hashmi  

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Pat Farenga is a writer and education activist. He is also president of John Holt GWS and homeschooling dad to 3 grown children.Teach Your Own

I first came across Pat's work through the book Teach Your Own which he co-authored with the late John Holt. Teach Your Own was first published in 1981. It still remains a favourite for many homeschool families.

When Pat first started working with John Holt, he estimated there to be approximately 25,00 homeschooled in the US. That number has now grown to over 2 million and grows further worldwide.In this episode Pat shared:

Working with John Holt (early homeschool advocate and school reformer).

Pat's personal journey into homeschooling with his wife and kids.

How the word "Unschooling" came to be as we know it today and Pat's own definition of the word.

I like Pat's definition.This is how he defines unschooling: allowing your children as much freedom to learn about and explore the world as you can comfortably bear as their parent. Pat bases his definition on his experience working with families. Everyone has different beliefs and backgrounds that they bring in. Sometimes the word "unschooling" scares them, not empowers them.Shifts In Homeschooling

With the growth of homeschooling I asked Pat if he has noticed any shifts. He says yes. Technology has helped homeschool to shift.

Homeschoolers are using technology as a tool to experience and connect. This experience has helped it to grow.

Homeschooling is growing because of the experience it provides. It is in the experience, not the canned curriculum.

That is the difference between homeschooling and mass education. You can't scale Homeschooling the way you can scale schools. Homeschooling is grassroots. "People are influencing other people not to create a multimillion dollar business, but to create a better community. Your intent is so important when you start a project." The intent in homeschooling is to re-create the communities, the relationships and the connections that people have between young and old. To re-integrate children into society.

It is an important point because people are now starved for relationships and connection.Advice For Parents

So what is Pat's advice for parents?

Start thinking about homeschooling when your kids are young. Feel what it is like to be with your children when you don't feel "responsible" to teach them lessons.

But if your children are older and in school and your family is thinking about homeschooling? Think first about what is stopping them from enjoying school. Is it lack of friends? Is it a difficult teacher? A learning struggle? Pinpoint what that is and make sure that you don't duplicate that at home.

If you are not comfortable with the self directed model, you may have to be a little bit more of a mentor on their behalf.

When your kids are happy then you are happy.

https://www.johnholtgws.com/pat-farengas-blog/

How Children Fail

How Children Learn

YouTube: Growing Without Schooling

Growing Without Schooling Volume 3

Berklee School of Music: Unschooling and Creativity

Wild Child In The Woods Forest School

Listen to my episode with Michelle Goulet founder of Wild Child In The Woods Forest School here.

Blake Boles Unschool Adventures

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I'm thinking about homeschooling... My friend and family member Catherine brought this up on a visit. I wasn't completely surprised but I assumed she had other ideas for her family's education. Catherine Kristensen is mother to 2 young girls.  As her children grow, Catherine has started thinking more about their education. Where will they attend school? What will best support them? How will they learn? How can she continue to instil their family values? She has looked at many different schools- Montessori, Private schools, Catholic Schools. Now, she is considering homeschooling. But, she has a few questions and homeschool fears. We talked about these concerns on her last visit and decided to record one of the conversations. Her homeschool fears were not new to me. I have heard and felt them myself. And I am sure they are similar to the fears of others on this journey.   Why Homeschool? With a large amount of choice offered in their area, I asked why she is considering homeschool. A big motivator is the influence of social pressures. Social pressures from peers and the environment.  She wonders about the pressures her own daughters will face. Catherine remembers how tough it could be when she was growing up.  Time with her kids is also a factor. There are things that she wants to have time to do with her kids. Things that she wants to teach them and share with them. How would she fit this all in when they are away at school all day and still offer enough time for play and other things? Homeschool FearsReadingLiteracy is always a big question. How to teach them to read? We talked about the different schools of thought on reading. One, allowing your child's reading to develop in time. This follows each child's developmental process. This may mean that your child may read early, or they may read late. As a parent you have to trust yourself and your child. You may also have to face some society pressure with the push to reading as early as possible. Or, implementing a reading curriculum or program such as phonics. Which program would be best? With either method, there is still an important first step. Creating a warm, literacy rich environment in the home. This helps reading to be a fun choice, not drudgery. A shared process, not a battle of wills.  Social Pressures and LearningThe concern of measuring up and where your child "should" be. How much should they learn and when? Age differences between kids and the demands on a parents attention. How can she best support each child and their needs? When is a good time to have them start focusing on academic work? The importance of play The Importance of Trust. How Journaling is a great way to document their learning. Discipline. Communication. Processing emotions. This is a fantastic episode that had me reflecting on my homeschool process as well. Many of the fears still come up from time to time. Comparison and social pressures. Especially as my kids are getting older. The constant practice of communication and trust.  If you would like to hear more about natural learning and literacy check out these other episodes: Sage Homeschooling Wild and Free (Natural Learning) with Rachel RainboltTrust Your Kids With Natural Learning with Leah McdermottConscious Educator with Missy Willis If you would like to hear from homeschoolers themselves check out these episodes:Why Self Directed Learning is Important with Madison KannaGrowing Up Homeschooled with Hannah FrankmanLife of A Homeschooler with Ronan Robertson References from this episodeJolly PhonicsStrewing- Sandra DoddInhabit Media 

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Kerry McDonald is an author and education policy writer. She is also the founding board member at the Alliance for Self-Directed Education. Her 4 children have never -been- schooled. Kerry'a book, Unschooled: Raising Curious, Well-Educated Children Outside the Conventional Classroom will be released in the Spring of 2019. Her Unschooled Path Kerry McDonald was on the right path. She received a BA in Economics from Bowdoin College. Next, her Master’s degree in education from Harvard University. But it was with an independent study project that her path started to veer. She had a classmate that had a family member that homeschooled. The family allowed her to shadow them for her senior project.Kerry became enchanted by what she saw at the home. The child was curious and interested. Articulate and at ease talking with adults. She played violin and was part of the community. It shattered the stereotypes Kerry had of homeschooling.At the same time she was doing a teaching practicum at a local elementary school. The teaching practicum became a stark contrast to the homeschool experience.Her eyes opened to alternatives to schools. But it wasn't until she became a mom that she re-looked at homeschooling. Unschooled InsightsIn this episode Kerry shares her insights on unschooling and self directed learning. Do Children need to be taught in order to learn? We explored: What it means to UnschoolWhy Homeschooling is Showing No Signs of SlowingThe Impact of Technological ChangeWhat Self Directed Learning Looks Like In Her FamilyThe Future Of EducationWhat Our Economic Future Relies On Let us know what you think about the ideas shared.You can contact Kerry through her blog Whole Family Learning (www.wholefamilylearning.com).

Follow her on Facebook and Instagram @wholefamilylearning, and on Twitter @kerry_edu.Resources  Alliance For Self-Directed Education Alternative SchoolsUnschool San Juan (Public High School)Powder House School Somerville, MA (Public High School)Sudbury Valley  Educators and BooksJohn HoltPeter Gray- Free To LearnKarl Wheatley Summerhill School: A New View Of Childhood  If you would like to hear more about educators that left the traditional classroom to help support self directed learning check out my interview with Mara Linaberger  

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Growing Up Homeschooled

Hannah Frankman joined me to share what life was like growing up homeschooled.We talked about: Why her parents chose to homeschool her The Challenges She Faced Homeschooling Why She Chose Not to Attend College Her Experience Teaching and Her Reflections on Forced Learning How Homeschooling Prepared Her For Her Current Career  Why Her Parents Chose To Homeschool Hannah homeschooled from grade 1-12. She has always been an academic and creative student. Homeschooling was her dad's idea. Her parents didn't want school to stifle her creativity. They also didn't want her peers raising her. The rural area they lived in was not known for having great schools. They looked at many options including charter schools and private schools. Because of little experience with homeschool they researched it extensively. In the end homeschool was the best option. Homeschool ChallengesHannah is grateful to have grown up homeschooled. She is also real about the challenges she faced. Life was wonderful but it was not always rosy. Hannah says her biggest challenge was the social component. Hannah grew up in a rural area. There was not a built-in local social network close to her and she is a very social person. The family was part of an active homeschool group but during her middle school age the group broke apart.In the end it was the consistent social peer group she missed. But the lifestyle and education she was receiving while homeschooling won out. In response she had extra curricular activities. Things like book clubs and writing groups she built and was part of. Her high school time became a very self directed time. Since high school she has built a strong social network for herself. Homeschool LifeThe joy of learning was very present in her homeschool experience. Her younger days included art and creativity. Waldorf inspired projects, reading, nature walks. For High School Hannah built her own curriculum. That's when she took full ownership of her learning. Pennsylvania is one of the more regulated US states to homeschool in. They offer state certified homeschool diploma programs. She was on a college path so that was the direction she chose. There were challenges too. It was not all perfect. Going into high school homeschooling was all new to her family. There was a lot of pressure and uncertainty. She almost decided to go back to school for high school. In the end she was happy she chose to stay home. Her high school homeschool was complete with self directed learning. She was able to dive and explore courses and areas she loved. She references an amazing resource- The Teaching Company as one of her favourite tools. Why No CollegeEven though Hannah was on the path to college she decided to not attend. She did not take the decision lightly and in the episode she detailed her reasoning in making that choice. It was well thought out and she took into consideration points that many seem to overlook. This included the actual learning focus ~ pre-requisite courses even though you know what you want to do and the cost of debt. I'd love to hear more about what listeners think about all of her considerations. They rung very true. PraxisHannah's current career is with Praxis, a year long professional development program. The focus is on students that are ready to start their career but need the skills, knowledge and contacts.The "school" year includes a 6 month long development bootcamp and a 6 month paid apprenticeship in a start up company within the Praxis network. Students are learning on the ground how a business functions.Hannah works with students in the first half of the program as their main coach and advisor. Hannah feels that being home educated has given her the skills she needs in her life and career. She is clear on what she wants and still carries an insatiable love of learning. Homeschooling gifted her the habit of being able to explore ideas and deep dive. It also allowed her to be comfortable engaging with a broad array of people. I'm looking forward to having Hannah join me again for a Q&A session. What questions do you have for Hannah? Send them in through email or here. Resource Links and How To Reach Hannah:

Praxis

The Teaching Company- The Great Courses

hannahfrankman.com

FaceBook 

Instagram

Twitter

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How can we raise money smart kids? John Lanza is on a mission to help families raise money-smart, money-empowered kids. He has written The Art Of Allowance to better help parents do that. John is also the creator and Chief Mammal of The Money Mammals, an award-winning DVD and youth savings account program.  John knew early on that he wanted his kids to be money smart. He noticed how both he and his wife viewed and used money in very different ways. They came from similar frugal backgrounds, yet one was a saver and one a spender. John wanted his kids to become empowered when it came to money. That's why he developed these money smart tools. Yes, the same tools he uses within his own family. What does it mean to be money smart? Being money smart means that you are not just smart about spending. It is the idea that you are making money choices anytime you receive money.It is understanding and using money as a tool.John introduces key money concepts that we can use to help our kids:1. Saving For GoalsGoals are powerful lessons for our child. Goals should be SMART: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Time-based. John talks about ways we can incentivize our kids to save.2. Distinguishing between needs and wantsSatisfaction from something you buy can be fleeting. The sooner kids realize this, the better. We talked about why a waiting period before they buy can help this process.3. Making Smart Money ChoicesBeing smart about your spending. This means think when you buy. Always pay yourself first. Save, Spend and share- charitable giving helps well-being. John also talks about the "why" behind using clear jars instead of the old "piggy bank". But what about the famous (or infamous) methods many still use today to teach about money? Allowance vs Chores John goes in to depth on the topic of allowance and chores. He is very clear in explaining why they should be separate. They teach very different lessons.He then took the time to explain how we can create an effective allowance program with our kids.  I found so much value from this episode. I also found value from his book, The Art of Allowance~ A short, practical guide to raising money-smart, money-empowered kids. What I enjoyed about this episode is the open dialogue he creates around the topic of money. And I know that is one of his key messages. For parents to have open, empowering, positive conversations about money with their kids. I also like that he says it is not a one size fits all. For success, follow exactly what I say. No, he says that we must be mindful of the differences in our kids. There will be mistakes. But that is okay. What needs to always be there is communication. It's a team game. I'd love to hear your thoughts.We will have an upcoming Q&A with John. What questions do you have for him? You can send them to me via email robyn@imhomeschooling.com or you can msg me via @honeyimhomeschoolingthekids   Resources mentioned in the podcast

Nudge

The Opposite of Spoiled

Happy Money

The First National Bank of Dad

Biz kids

How to Turn $100 into $1,000,000: Earn! Save! Invest!

The Breakthrough Allowance Download

The Art of Allowance

The Money Mammals

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Ever wondered what school after homeschool is like?Thiery opened up about life for a 9 year old returning back to school after homeschooling. Thiery homeschooled with my 2 children for 2 years. She attended Kindergarten then homeschooled with us for grade 1 & 2. This is her second year back at public school. She is my niece. On this episode she shared life before and after homeschool.  We talked about: What she loved about homeschooling. Why she started homeschooling with our family. Challenges she faced while homeschooling. What it was like for her returning back to school. Her advice for homeschoolers that are entering back into the system. If you would like to listen to more interviews with kids that homeschool or adults that grew up home educated check out these episodes: Why Self Directed Learning is Important: Madison KannaLife of a Homeschooler: Ronan What My Daughter Thinks About Homeschooling: Zahra For stats, trends and research on Homeschooling check out theNational Home Education Research Institute

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Sadiya Hashmi is a third culture kid. Born in Pakistan, raised in Bahrain, and earned her MBA in the US. She and her family now call Canada their home. And they homeschool. In this episode we talked about; Why she chose to homeschool and the beliefs she overcame to do that The reasons why she is helping her children to grow up multilingual. How she created her Fusion Baking style What it's like being on The Great Canadian Baking Show The Importance of Self Representation in the media Talking to Sadiya felt like sitting down with a friend over a cup of tea. My first introduction to her was The Great Canadian Baking Show where she was a contestant. As a fellow homeschool mom, and woman of colour in Alberta, I wanted to connect with her immediately. Sadiya grew up in a culture that valued rigorous education from a very young age. In Bahrain most 3 year olds are expected to be reading and writing. Your education reflected your status. What would happen if she let her kids be? What would happen if she allowed them to learn and develop naturally? We dove into the beliefs homeschool tested for her and her husband. What it means to learn. If the report card defines how smart you are. What she felt school did not give her that she gained later in life. Sadiya is candid and gives a great perspective. One that we don't always hear from in the homeschool community.  Fusion Baking and The Great Canadian Baking Show Sadiya has experienced many cultures, ideas, and tastes. She says you can learn a lot about a culture through food. Baking has been a way for her to bring these experiences together. And a way she can introduce these worlds to her sons. It were her boys that encouraged her to go on the show. They fell in love with the British version of the show and wanted her to audition. She promised her sons that if it ever came to Canada she would audition. And guess what? It came, she auditioned and she made it on! It was her international fusion baking that sold it. Sadiya says The Great Canadian Baking Show is an impactful experience. Her presence is impactful for her boys to see her follow a passion. It is nice to see a homeschool mom well represented. But it is also impactful for girls that look like her to see themselves on TV. We spoke more about the importance of self representation in the media we watch and in the literature that we introduce to our children. I've linked some of her recommended writers at the bottom of the page. Listen to the episode to hear much, much more and watch her journey on The Great Canadian Baking Show.You can find the The Great Canadian Baking Show on CBC television or online. You can find Sadiya and her delicious baked goods on Instagram @sadiyahashmi_ Sadiya's Recommendations AuthorsRahma Rodaah Saira Siddiqui Children's BooksBismallah Soup Ilyas and Duck  

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RAD EducatorKate Weber is a an inspirational teacher and RAD educator. She is a high school teacher, yoga teacher, heart worker, writer and mom. Kate knows we can make the world a better place when we teach kids to love themselves. She also knows that it's the educators that must model that behaviour. Her teaching is about bringing kids back to trusting themselves. In this episode we talked about:Assessment and grades.Mindfulness.The Mental Health crisis in schools.Yoga and how it has impacted not only her health but her school.Teacher burnout.Her high school classroom.Why students and parents have more pull in the education system than they realize.Her amazing training course~RADeducators Kate is a heart worker. Passionate is the first word that I would use to describe her. She doesn't do anything unless her heart is in it." This podcast is about helping create a change in the world of education. So why not have a voice that works within the institution on the show? But I did say that Kate is a heart worker. So of course her classroom does not replicate the traditional high school class. She says there is a gap in how we are approaching education. "We forget that kids are human."Her foundational approach:Approach with love and respect.Give opportunity to form relationships.MindfulnessInquiry based learning (a natural learning approach) Mental HealthKate's biggest concern right now is the mental health of the students she teaches. Students are falling through the cracks. The mental health issues we see in the community are showing up big in the schools. Teachers are suffering burnout. She sees the need and is helping to create a solution.But how does she do this within the public school system? Kate's ClassKate's involved in a pilot project for high school redesign. In Alberta high school redesign is a provincial initiative. It's trying to make school more student centred and responsive. Kate works with her students throughout their high school year. (While many high school teachers may see their students for only one class in a semester. Kate spends 3/4 of their day with them.) She encourages creativity, connection and "un-grading". She is a strong believer that grades and assessments do not support or reflect the student. While most high school classes divide on academic ability, Kate's class is not. All academic levels are together. She uses the inquiry based learning approach. The student's questions, ideas and observations are the centre of the learning experience. Testing and assessments are not. What Kate does can be radical. RADEducators(Radiant Authentic Dynamic)Kate saw that the people that work with students need support. This is where RADeducators comes in. Kate and the owner of her local yoga studio (the RAD Life) connected to create a program to reach the kids in the school. They do this by reaching the educators themselves. "If they are not healthy kids- how will they learn?"RADeducators (like the studio) is a Radiant Authentic Dynamic program. It benefits teachers which in turn benefits their students. The course is inquiry based and incorporates yoga and mindfulness. It is about building connection, play and applying movement. The program foundations are:Body PositivityPassion-creativityMindfulnessHealthy relationships and BoundariesSocial Media Responsibility In this episode Kate delves deeper into this remarkable program and how it benefits the community. She reminds us that it is not only for teachers, but all that work with kids.She also talks more about the issues her students face and how she plans to be part of the change. At the end of the episode her advice to parents and kids will resonate with you. Tune in and let me know what you think. Will the change happen through the institution? Will we ever tackle the mental health crisis in our communities?Kate has provided us with some free RADeducator lessons below along with ways to reach out to her or follow her journey. Free Lesson Plans (RADeducators):

RADschool Lesson 1 Grades 7-12

RADschool Lesson 1 Kindergarten-Grade 6

RADschool=RADeducators+RADstudentsThe Rad Studio: theradlife.ca

Kate on Instagram: @fullheartproject

Blogs

houseofweber.weebly.com

katherineweber.weebly.com

twitter: @kate_weber7

Book Recommendations

10 Mindful minutes-Goldie Hawn

Parenting with Love and Logic

Creative Schools Sir Ken Robinson

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Leslee Udwin~Human Rights Advocate, Filmmaker and Founder of Think Equal. What happens when you commit to building a new generation that does not harbour discrimination? Will the world change? Leslee Udwin believes it will and she is on a mission to make this impact. I first met Leslee at a special evening event. She was the guest of honour and her film, India's Daughter was the subject. Leslee immediately grabbed my attention and heart. Her words resonated with me.Her mission to impact others for the better started early on in her career in the film industry. She worked as an actress but after her first child was born she moved her work behind the camera. She got into film production. Leslee describes film making as a political act of generosity. It allows you to see the world through the eyes of another human being. It allows you to feel them. If we did that as a matter of practice it would change the next generation. Allowing us to see the world through the eyes of another human being. This is what Leslee did in her award winning, heartbreaking documentary~ India's Daughter. India's Daughter India's Daughter tells about the 2012 brutal gang rape of Jyoti Singh in Dehli.When the public heard about the horrific crime, hundreds of thousands poured out of the streets in angry protest. The first ever of its kind in India. As Leslee watched this unfold from her TV in Denmark she connected with the story. As a woman, mother and rape victim she felt compelled to create the documentary. She wanted to tell the world who we lost by this crime. She almost gave up but it was her daughter that encouraged her to continue. Leslee talks in depth about the film and her experience making it. I encourage you to listen. It was the difficult time that she spent with the perpetrators that changed things for her. She said "films can create awareness but awareness is only the first step. It is not change."She was ready to start a change. Think Equal Think Equal is Leslee's focus now. It was her work on the film, and the time interviewing the rapists that gave her insight. At first she thought lack of education was the problem. If they were better educated they would not have done this. But after spending time with the lawyers in the case she saw that education did not make a difference. Mindsets need to shift. And the sooner we get this to happen, the better. Think Equal formed to address this need. The program calls for a system change to end the discriminatory mindset and cycle of violence across our world.It does this by introducing practical tools that enable empathy. Social-emotional learning (SEL) in the early years is the optimal time to build. That is why the program focuses on children under age 7. It is a matter of prevention. From the results they are studying so far, it is making an impact. Learn more about Think Equal here.Listen to Leslee's special offer to homeschoolers.Interested in the program as a homeschooler? Interested in joining the Think Equal Homeschool Group?Contact me: robyn@imhomeschooling.com India's Daughter Trailer  If you want to meet another mother on a mission to shift mindset in order to better support our kids check out my episode with Lenore Skenazy. Founder of Let Grow looking to impact schools and communities. 

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A True Self Directed Learner

Madison is a software developer. She writes about self education and learning how to code. She is a self taught coder and is a living example of what happens when you own your own learning. Madison grew up unschooling. 

What I love about this episode

Hearing Madison's personal experiences on self directed learning and growing up unschooling. Her personal life answered so many of these questions that you get when you are home educating.  

1. Do you follow a Curriculum?  

Growing up, Madison's parents believed that learning should never be forced. They would wake them up each morning and ask their kids "what do you want to learn about today?" It could be anything. For Madison this meant playing a lot of Neopets online. I love this example and I have started using this question in our unschooling life. Not only with the kids, but on myself too.  

1. Are they learning if they play on their screens a lot?  

Madison told me that she had pretty much unlimited screen time. Her parents did not restrict it. She feels that what she learned from that time online is what she uses most in her life today. Her favourite online game to play was Neopets. And today so much of that spills over into her career as a software developer. That was my introduction to Madison. I read her blog post about unschooling and Neopets on the Alliance For Self Directed Education website.   

1. What about grades and tests?

Why Self Directed Learning?   Madison's dad is a teacher and he was the one that suggested that they try home education. He felt that there must be a better way to engage in self directed learning. So their family journey started homeschooling.   Madison and her sisters never learned to get a grade or pass a test. They learned for the sake of learning and gaining knowledge. Learning was in their own hands. Self directed learning was always encouraged.  

1. What about high school?  

Madison did try high school. She attended grade 12. It was her choice to try out high school. She says the experience left her even more grateful that she unschooled. She made a ton of friends, she completed AP level courses and went to prom. But she quickly saw what school was really about. Learning and socialization? No, it was about fitting in. Not about learning. And the learning was only about passing the exam.  

1. What about University?  

Madison attended college for a year and a half but chose to leave. Again, learning was a tedious task. It was about passing the test, not about learning the material. I loved her example of how students would cheer when class was cancelled. Aren't they all there to learn? She felt she could speed up her career by learning on her own. And that is what she did. Madison's older sister did attend a 4 year college. She talks about how she gained admission as an unschooler.   

1. How do you get a job?  

Today Madison works as a software developer. She did not study coding in College. She studied English. To be a software developer she taught herself completely through online resources. And she is still an advocate of teaching yourself and becoming a self directed learner.  

1. How do you learn Math as an unschooler?  

Madison says that she was never forced to learn math growing up. She uses math in coding but that is not what it is all about. She picked up everything she needed to know that was math related on her own. Because she WANTED to learn it and found it interesting. When she was growing up if she wanted to learn something she would choose to learn it. Coming to a career where math is important, she credits the skill of learning how to learn. Learning how to learn has made it easier for her to pick up math today along with many other skills.   Madison currently works as a programmer for Conversio, an ecommerce company. She is also creating a curriculum on coding and how to teach yourself online.   Madison shared so many more insights in this interview. I'd love to hear your thoughts. If you would like to learn more about Madison you can find her at madisonkanna.com    

References

Colfax Family Book: Homeschooling For Excellence

Alliance For Self Directed Education

For more episodes on Self Directed Learning

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"Mom, if you keep doing it for me, I'll never learn to do it by myself!" Those are words Missy Willis heard long ago from her 3 year old son. Words that she has heeded and respected in their learning journey. She has chosen to be a Conscious Educator. Conscious EducatorMissy used the term "Conscious Educator" when she had created a list to reflect on the question ~ What is an Educator? Many times she sees the system force a change on what many educators set out to do. Conscious Educator has been her goal over the years. From Autopilot to Awake. Listening vs talking. Responsive vs Reactive. Psychology to Special Education to UnschoolingMissy Willis is a mom to two kids, ages 15.5 and 11, who have never been to school. She has a degree in Psychology and a masters in Special Education. Before children, Missy imagined a life devoted to education in the traditional sense. For over 20 years she worked in daycares, public and private schools, and universities. At Duke University Medical Center Missy worked on the landmark MTA study led by the late Dr. Conners, the father of ADHD. Through the MTA study she worked with many kids that were struggling in the classroom. Missy wondered if these kids could be more successful in a different environment. She wanted to help these kids. She also had watched her brother dropout early because he struggled through school. These factors influenced her to pursue special education. Once Missy became a mother though, her traditional path changed. Her passion for raising engaged, connected, self-aware children brought unschooling into their lives. Missy decided early to home educate but it was her son that started them on the unschooling path. She had everything all planned out. How she would organize their environment. Resource lists, and what they would do. But her son didn't follow the plan. She soon realized that fighting with him was not the intention. It was interfering with their relationship. Peaceful, respectful parenting was the goal.Missy let go of a lot of pre-conceived notions and beliefs. Deschooling became important. Being willing to listen. Being a better observer. Guiding and supporting vs Dictating.Mental Heath became a priority. Listen to Hear MoreListen in on the episode to hear why Missy feels mental health is a key focus to every life.Why autonomy and self awareness is a key factor.And how she learned to step back and watch. Allowing her kids to have ownership in their education.  Missy continues to grow her community of self directed learners. Her goal is to create a space for connection in the Self Directed Learning Space. She is a member of the Alliance for Self Directed Education and organizes a local self directed education group. You can connect with Missy through her blog Let 'em Go Barefoot, Instagram and Facebook. ResourcesADHD Stats~ https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/adhd/data.htmlDr. Keith Conners ArticleAlliance for Self Directed EducationALC MosaicLet 'em go Barefoot 

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You Unschool? How will your children get into University? I am asked this question many times and as my kids get older, I am asked this more.In this episode I reflect on my personal opinion around this topic.  Why this can feel like this is a question about my parenting, not education.  Why University should be the student's choice, not the parent's.  Is University an extension of life long learning or a reflection of your success as a parent?  If your child chooses to go how they can enter as a homeschooler or unschooler.  The downside of University. Ready to carry debt?  Why Universities are recruiting homeschoolers.  If University reflects our fast paced technological world and the access it gives.  What our family learning goals are.  OECD education report data on post secondary schooling. Previous Episodes about homeschoolers or unschoolers and University Chip Franks Part 2~ Advice From DadChip talked about how his daughter got into the College of her choice. She did not have a high school diploma or used curriculum. Judy Arnall~Homeschool Advice From An ExpertJudy spoke about how 4 out of her 5 unschooled kids entered completed University. (The 5th is currently high school age). Jim Sheils~How One Entrepreneur Is Overturning The Traditional Education ModelJim questioned if University fulfills what you need to meet your dreams and passions. Pam Laricchia~Exploring UnschoolingPam reflected on the REAL reasons why you would be attending University. “College is a tool that can be used to meet a goal, not a goal in and of itself. It’s an option on the learning platter.”When Pam's daughter looked into college she found that many of the courses in her major she already had a firm knowledge in. Unschoooling had allowed her the time to the time to pursue her passion and focus. She chose to move to New York City where she could find mentors and collaboration. I hope you are having fun in your learning journey. I hope this includes creating and exploring. And remember there are many options on this learning platter of life. I would love to hear your ideas on University and this episode. You can write me- my email address is robyn@imhomeschooling.com You can also go to the contact page. Follow the podcast and message me on Instagram~ Honey I’m Homeschooling The Kids Or check out my family's unique learning journey at my personal Instagram page @unschooling robyn

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Wild Child Forest SchoolMichelle Goulet Barteaux is a homeschooling advocate and Forest School Founder. Wild Child Forest and Nature School (Wild Child Alternative Education) is in Bragg Creek, Alberta. The school caters to homeschooling families but is inclusive to all children. Michelle became a homeschool and nature advocate because of her children. In particular because of her son.  The Homeschool and Nature PathThe birth of Michelle's oldest child changed their life trajectory. In utero the doctors diagnosed her son with Chronic kidney disease. He has a degenerative condition which will lead to dialysis and transplant. Due to his many conditions they have to be near a hospital and make regular visits to the hospital. He is also neurologically divergent. This means he is twice exceptional- gifted with severe learning disabilities. Michelle knew from the beginning that their son was not going to fit into a typical school program. Dyspraxia, Sensory Processing disorder, Anxiety, ADHD. She describes him as mesmerizing, shocking and shakes up the way you think.The Struggle of School LifeAt first Michelle and her husband didn't know there were other options. They started their son in a kindergarten class in a Calgary Charter School. An arts immersion program. Everyday was a struggle. Her son had behaviour problems. He had meltdowns. Suffering from severe anxiety he could not go to the bathroom on his own. Yet, in academics, he was years ahead of his peers. They would be working on an alphabet letter and he was finishing novels. Half way through the year Michelle met with his teacher. His teacher seemed shocked that he was so far ahead of his class. Michelle already was aware of this and it surprised her that the school was now realizing this. It bothered Michelle because she felt his teacher wasn't seeing him. The negative expectations were already set and hard to now overcome. She wanted to do something different. So both she and a friend decided to try homeschooling. They haven't looked back since. Forest BathingWhile researching Michelle learned about a Japanese term called Forest Bathing. It linked the health benefits of being outside in nature and in the forest. Inspired, they moved out of the city and into Bragg Creek, an area surrounded by nature and forest. They would go out into the forest and river once a week. They started bringing friends out. It did so much for their family and her son. For example, her son needs 20 hours/week of therapy. It was easier for her son to do his physical therapy when they were playing out in nature. Michelle found when they were out with friends in nature it evened out the playing field. It offered different levels of experiences for kids at the same time. This included her son. Seeing the opportunities she started looking for a space to create more of this. Forest School Philosophy Michelle's philosophy is in natural learning. The Reggio Emilia approach fits quite well and the Forest School approach is similar. Children are capable learners. Competent. Designed to learn. Adults with them follow the interest of the children. Forest school fits many age ranges. This allows sibling groups, and allows for different abilities. Forest schools are different from other programs because they are created around the natural outside environment. Learning, and even curriculum, is integrated to the outside. It is not an accessory to education. It is the education.Wild Child In The WoodsAt Wild Child In The Woods the days outside are always new. They have an indoor space as well as outdoor but 80% of their days are spent outside. Even in the winter! They may find a deer's foot (yes they found an actual foot), see eagles flying down the river, or see other animals in their habitat.And the school is growing. Wild Child In The Woods Forest School is a community and provides Michelle with a job she loves.The kids make so many connections. Her job at the school is to help form those connections. Michelle also makes a point to invite kids with exceptional needs to her program. Their space is inclusive and welcoming to everyone. She also understands first hand the major benefits it has provided for both of her children.Inspired Secular Homeschool ConferenceNext on the list for Michelle is another community space. The Inspired Secular Homeschool Conference. This year's conference will be September 14th and 15th in Calgary. This is the only secular homeschoolers conference in Alberta. The conference is a community building event for like minded people to come together. It's a chance to learn more about and celebrate homeschool as an excellent educational method. This year's keynote will be Education Activist, Patrick Farenga. Friday will be dinner and presentation with Pat Farenga. Saturday offers vendors, workshops and a Keynote. Michelle and fellow conference creator Alisha Brignall wanted a weekend that they would want to attend. The conference wasn't offered so they created it. Learn more about it here.  Michelle's advice to parents: Pick any wild space and visit. Listen to the episode to hear more about the unique benefits of forest school. You will also hear Michelle tell more about their journey raising a child with exceptional needs. Learn more about Wild Child Forest and Nature School.More Episodes About The Importance of Getting Outside With ChildrenTrust Your Kids With Natural Learning: Leah McDermott 

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Do you feel that education is in need of a transformation?

Sandra Cushway, founder of Freedom Thinkers School would say YES.  She felt there was a better way to teach and reach children and chose to make that change happen with her school. I contacted Sandra for this episode because everyone kept asking me about this unique school only 2 hours from where I live. This school feels like home. Ages are mixed, students are free to create and the kids are heard and respected. I knew I needed to get Sandra on the podcast, and am I ever happy I did!

Sandra reminds me of an educational revolutionary (and past guest) that I know~ Mara Linaberger.  Both are former educators from the public system that decided to take personal action and create a new path in education for kids.

Sandra Cushway wants to see the whole system change. She became so discouraged one day that she decided it was time to quit teaching. But before she did that she realized that she could be part of the change in education instead of giving up on it. So she took the leap and stepped out on her own creating Freedom Thinkers.Freedom Thinkers

At Freedom Thinkers kids are supported, respected and are given space to create. The age group ranges from about Grades 4-9 but there are no separate classes.  Sandra stresses the importance of teaching real life skills such as money management and time management. For example, there are jobs for the students in the school. The jobs are not assigned. Students apply for the jobs that they want. They create resumes and cover letters and apply for the job. Sometimes they compete for a position.

The school uses project based learning. In project based learning the students explore real world challenges and problems that are important to their personal interests. Many of these projects take them beyond the school walls and into their life. Students monitor their own time. Freedom Thinkers does not have set class schedules or bells. Teachers can and do teach specific subjects or programs but that is done in small groups, as they see fit. No day looks the same. Learning is collaborative. Success at the school is not based on a grade or mark. It's based on where the kids are learning and improving as individuals. One former student that suffers from Dyslexia felt such a change at the school she is going on to speak and blog about her experiences to bring awareness.What Kind Of Students Attend?

Freedom Thinkers has a growing wait list with not enough space to meet the demand. Last year the school had 48 students. This year there were 61 students. When I last checked in with Sandra she said told me there are 23 spaces available for next year. But she already had 74 applicants for those spaces.

They do not select a specific "type" of student. Students are chosen from a wide spectrum of learning abilities and interests. Sandra really wants people to understand that when you have a program and environment that allows children to learn, create and be themselves- the program will work for anyone.

And the feedback is what makes it worthwhile. Parents and kids say there is a whole different feeling there. They are a family. The students leave thankful at the end of the day. Parents say that their child loves being at school now and they see positive differences in their children. Some families drive an hour each way to get to school everyday.

Sandra holds open houses all of the time and if you happen to find yourself in Fort St. John BC, I encourage you to look in. If you can't do that, at least listen to this episode where she shares some remarkable stories of the effects their school is having on the kids and community.

As Sandra says, "Let kids learn and support them in it".

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Amy Cahoon and Jacqui Alexander are the unschool sisters. Yes, they both unschool their kids.

How cool to be able to share this journey with a close sibling! Not only do they both unschool their kids but they both share a blog together about their unschooling lives.

Amy and Jacqui are the eldest two siblings in a family of 6. Growing up they attended public school but had vastly different experiences. One thrived as an academic student and the praise that came with it.

The other struggled with classes and felt inadequacies because of that. But even though their school experiences differed, Amy and Jacqui feel that their mom was an unschooler at heart.

Conversation was rich in their home and freedom to learn, play, and do was encouraged. This “unschooling” outside school was an early introduction to the concept.

Now, even though they live on opposite sides of the country, they have chosen to follow a similar educational path with their families as unschoolers. They were already close, but now their bond through this shared experience brings them closer.

In this episode The Unschool Sisters shared why they both decided to unschool, how they approach learning with their kids, and how this is influenced by their own personal experiences with school. They also share what life is like when viewed through an unschool lens.

They don’t claim to have it all figured out and feel the anxieties and pressures that were familiar to my own. But they do understand that the basis for learning and family, no matter how you choose to school, is a loving relationship with their children.

Make a cup of tea, and find a cozy spot to listen in on their life reflections of school, family and their shared love for the teachings of John Holt.

Blog: The Unschool Sisters

Recommendations: John Holt

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How Lenore Skenazy Became 'The World's Worst Mom'

Imagine being dubbed 'the world's worst mom' by not just one disgruntled person but by the media as a whole. That's exactly what happened to Lenore Skenazy, when, in 2008, she had the 'audacity' to allow her 9-year-old son ride the New York City subway home alone.

Of course, she didn't have to advertise this fact by writing a column in the New York Sun about it, but she did. Lenore's trade was already a successful columnist, and finding the reactions of her friends and peers to be so fascinating she knew it would make for a great column idea. Of course, she couldn't have predicted the media storm that would follow. Almost immediately she was making appearances on all the major TV networks and before she knew it was dubbed 'the world's worst mom.'

In her column she explained her reasons for letting her son ride the subway. The main reason was that he desperately wanted to. In fact, he begged her to let him off somewhere in the city to let himself find his way home.

The resulting media explosion combined with her growing sense of mission helped launched the free range kids (and free range parents movement).Free Range Kids (and Parenting)

It's ten years later now, and the movement has grown enormously. So much so that the first state (Utah) has protected parents with the so-called 'free range parenting law.' Basically, it means that parents don't have to fear arrest or legal action for allowing their kids some measure of freedom.

Kids can do simple things like walk to the local park or to and from school. Parents can send their kids to the store alone to pick up bread or milk. Or, as in Lenore's case, to let kids come home on public transportation.

As you can imagine, Lenore's story resonated with me a great deal. I'm not sure if I'm officially a 'free range parent,' but like Lenore, I believe that kids benefit from being able to have free time to play. We share in the belief that the best learning is when kids are exploring the world with other kids.

We both believe that kids can and should take care of themselves some of the time rather than being constantly under the watchful eye of their parents.Where is The Movement Now?

It's been ten years since Lenore 'went viral' after writing her article. Since then, she perhaps more than anyone (with the possible exception of her 'Let Grow' board member Dr. Peter Gray) has been working and advocating for a sensible approach to parenting.

Lenore and her organization are pushing hard to ensure that kids get what they need the most, which is actual free time to play without the constant guidance and planning of adults. And she shares some incredible stories on the podcast about of how being a free range kid benefits.

I absolutely loved this episode. Lenore is one of my personal heroes, and I've been following her and her message for years. Having her on the podcast is a dream come true, and I'm sure you'll love this episode as much as me.

She shares a lot in this episode, and Lenore has a wonderful personality. I hope you enjoy this episode of Honey! I'm Homeschooling the KidsMentioned in This Episode

Lenore's Website "Let Grow"

Lenore's Original Website "Free Range Kids"

Dr. Peter Gray

"Why I Let My 9-Year-Old Ride the Subway Alone" by Lenore Skenazy

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Akilah S. Richards came to unschooling by, in her own words, "banging her head against the wall." Her journey began when their first daughter was labeled as 'gifted' at her public school. The entire family was soon initiated into a bizarre and bewildering educational experience. First, the school moved her daughter forward a grade. And soon they resorted to creating a special program for her. But, the whole family soon noticed a pattern. Regardless of what solution they tried, it was always an attempt to mold their daughter. It was never an attempt to facilitate her natural learning.

There was no thought given to her own unique interests, or even what was best for her. They assumed that a gifted child should simply do more, faster of what the other kids were doing.

The entire family, especially their daughter felt the program was too limiting. And Akilah's daughter questioned it. She wondered why she was allowed to talk about certain things at certain times but not other times. Her brain was making connections and she wanted to explore things. But her 'special' program didn't allow for much freedom.

Taking the Leap to Educational Freedom

This experience of frustration led the family to pull their daughters out of the system. They went to Akilah's home country of Jamaica, and her plan was to school her daughters with textbooks. It was a similar experience to our family's. We also went to Jamaica. And we also planned on bringing school to the home. And, like us, Akilah and family soon realized that the idea of bringing school to the home was not going to work. She tells a funny story of bringing textbooks to the beach to do a schooling session. But, in that beautiful Caribbean environment her kids rejected the textbook approach. They wanted to explore and learn about their surroundings instead.

She was doing the same thing as the school.

So, she decided to wait and allow everyone to acclimate to the new surroundings. But after experiencing a bit of educational freedom, they never went back. And eventually they settled on unschooling. But she didn't even know such a thing existed. They thought they were inventing a new way of education. And when she found others already doing it and discussing it online, she was surprised and delighted. This was the beginning of her family's path to educational freedom. And her own family's journey has led Akilah to see this freedom as essential. The traditional education system is restrictive and prescriptive. Akilah believes everyone, including children, thrive in a free environment. And she's made it her mission to spread this message of freedom. Akilah's goal is to inspire and support other families, especially people of color. Akilah believes that unschooling is a right everyone should have. Akilah and I share some great laughs on this episode. We connected about our mutual connection to the great island of Jamaica. And she has a strong message of freedom to share.

Give it a listen. And as always, I'd love to hear what you think. You can email me at robyn@imhomeschooling.com. Learn More About Akilah Her Website

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Natural Learning is an Idea Whose Time Has Come Somewhere along the way, we began collectively believing that kids wouldn't learn unless we strongly intervened. Even though we see them natural learning in all areas of life, we believe that in literacy and numeracy we need to intervene and drill from early.

Remarkably, nobody seemed to foresee the unintended consequences of this adult meddling in the natural learning capacity of the child. My guest on the podcast, Leah (like Princess Leia from Star Wars) McDermott saw these unintended consequences first-hand in her 5th grade classroom.

She had migrated to teaching fifth grade after many years in kindergarten. The first thing she noticed was that the vast majority of students had hardened and closed themselves off to learning. And current studies on the topic confirm Leah's experience. The majority of students in the public education system, by grade four, have decided that they hate school.

Unfortunately for those students, and for society as a whole, there is also significant evidence that the majority of those who've identified that they hate school by that age will never change their mind.

Seeing these jaded fifth graders was an eye opener for Leah. She had just left kindergarten where students were still bright-eyed and excited to learn. When she invited her kindy students to listen to her read, they came running. The fifth graders knew they were in for an interminable period of testing, leveled reading, and cramming.

This radical change in the kids' learning attitude was what informed her educational philosophy and mindset more than anything. When she had kids of her own and started home educating them later, her beliefs were only confirmed.

Today, Leah is one of the strongest advocates for natural learning that I've come across. She teaches natural learning to both home educators and schools both in person and online. Her website is an incredible resource for all things natural learning, and this podcast episode reflects her wealth of knowledge.

I absolutely loved this one. We talked about so much, and I learned enormously from her. If you're at all interested in natural learning, this episode is a must listen. Leah will put any fears you might have about natural learning to rest, and you'll learn much about how to do it at home.

Mentioned in This Episode Leah's Website

Your Natural Learner Facebook Group (7000+ members)

ACEs Study -- Adverse Childhood Experiences

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

More Episodes About Natural Learning and Unschooling Sage Homeschooling Wild and Free

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Everyday Rozanne Dioso Lopez wakes up to her dream life. She is a homeschooling mom to 5 children ages 19, 14, 12, 10, and 8. Rozanne and her husband live in an off grid container home in Costa Rica with their 4 kids and 2 puppies. Her oldest daughter is world-schooling on her own. She is a big fan of slow learning and slow living.

Homeschooling Wasn't Always On The Radar Homeschooling wasn't always on the radar. Her oldest daughter had stopped reading around age 11 or 12. She became really concerned about grades, the life of middle school, and was slowly pulling away from family. A friend recommended the book Hold Onto Your Kids to Rozanne and she read it in one night.

She remembers from that time everyone everyone telling her to 'let go.' People told her that her daughter was just coming to 'that age.' But that didn't feel right to Rozanne. Her intuition told her the opposite. It told her to get more involved in her daughter's life.

At the time, her 2nd and 3rd children were attending a Waldorf School. The youngest were newborn and 2. Rozanne was volunteering, living the busy mom lifestyle, had 5 kids, and was burning out. Her friend suggested homeschool as a lifestyle to slow down and get better connected with family.

She knew they had to make a change.

It wasn't about school. She felt life didn't feel natural -- the nonstop rush just wasn't right. They felt they had to figure it out together, as a family. Rozanne feels that any big life choices come from questions like, "What is going on with us? Why isn't this working for us? What do we want to envision?"

Ask yourself what the best day looks like for your family, then take one step at a time to get there. Ask yourself what's important to you. After asking those questions it started a change in their philosophy of living. Why wait? They realized that they can create whatever they want, even if it's waking up grateful for today.

Homeschooling Is Integrated Into Their Life and Belief System Rozanne feels a responsibility to go on her own journey and for them (her kids) to see it. They are witnesses to her and her mirror, so she can't not work on herself.

Now she sees her oldest daughter building self awareness.

He daughter actually did not like homeschooling in the beginning. She missed her friends from school and she felt like the odd one out at homeschool gatherings because she was usually the oldest.

But Rozanne believed in it. She felt that her connection with reading was lost. So for the first year of homeschooling her oldest read and quilted. They jumped into homeschooling not really defining what they wanted to do.

In grade 8 her oldest decided to go to a democratic school, then a sports school, and then for rest of high school she unschooled. Her daughter worked, volunteered, travelled, and Rozanne would slip in things to read and make connections for her with people that were mentors. She became the bridge for the outside world.

Rozanne asked, "What is good for this child at this developmental stage?" She nurtured her daughter's interests. Rozanne doesn't like to get caught up in labels. But she is very discerning about the things she exposes her children to. She wants to keep them in the magic of childhood for as long as possible, and to practice using their voice in a safe environment. She nurtures a space for them to incubate and grow. She protects the flame they were born with until they know how to keep their own fire.

Slow Living, Slow Learning Today, they live off grid in the jungle. They have no electricity in their home in Costa Rica. This completely changed their rhythm. How do they ground themselves in a certain rhythm wherever they are and flow with it? Homeschooling has been about teaching and demonstrating skills that wherever they are they can draw upon it.

Their family defines learning for themselves and believe they always have the choice. They can always make the choice to change their life and create anew. They followed their intuition with their children. Now they already see the results with their oldest who knows and lives the power of choice.

Rozanne is an advocate of slow learning and slow living. This has been a wonderful way to learn at home. She felt there was a race she was always running before this move.

Living in Costa Rica has slowed down their life enough for these opportunities to show up. For example, they have high quality sleep, which enhances their health.

Rozanne is open about financial mistakes they made, debt they created, and working a lot. Then timing worked for them and they took risks. The Toronto real estate market was hot, which allowed them an opportunity to sell, make profit, then leap. In Costa Rica her husband works online, they homeschool and have sold the majority of their things in Toronto. She documents their journey and shares what they learn on her blog.

Rozanne also runs workshops on authentic self care and supports other parents in their homeschool journey.

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In this episode my 11 year old son Ronan joined me to talk about what life is like as a homeschooler.

Ronan is an active young person that loves sports, the outdoors, good books and travel. He talked about some of the key sports that he loves like soccer, swimming, parkour and skiing, books he recommends, the business he owns and why he started it, his current research project and travel.

We talked allowing our kids to take risks and giving the time to explore the things that interest them.

Episode References

Warriors 

Harry Potter

Family Board Meetings

Unschooling Robyn Instagram

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Kelly Airhart has lived through every parent’s nightmare, the death of her 3-month old baby, Elijah. In this interview we talked about how she’s dealing with grief.

We also talk about her family’s educational journey, which they chose largely due to the intense sense of loss and grief the entire family has been through.

The Intense Pain of Infant Death Kelly was out of the house when it happened. Her son Elijah was 3-months old. For all appearances, Elijah was a healthy baby boy. There were no signs of sickness or ill health.

Yet, he died suddenly.

The subsequent medical investigation turned up no signs of suffocation. Thus, his death was ruled a case of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome). These cases are heart wrenching. There is no indication, no explanation, only a beautiful young life snuffed out when it was just beginning.

When Kelly returned home, she saw her husband trying to revive Elijah. When I asked her later in the interview if she would change anything about her grieving process, Kelly shared that she still thinks about the fact that she was away when it happened.

The Grieving Process and The Family’s Response Kelly doesn’t sugarcoat it or hide behind a veil of false positivity. Elijah passed away two and a half years before Kelly and I spoke, and she’s honest about the fact that she’s still dealing with the grief, because, as she says, “I have to wake up every morning knowing I’ll never see Elijah again.”

She doesn’t put on a face of false positivity, but at the same time Kelly isn’t filled with doom and gloom either. She sees the mysterious way in which Elijah’s passing has been a blessing for her family and the world.

For one, they decided immediately what was most important. They came closer together and prioritized each other. They committed to deepening their love for each other and act it out every day.

They also commit one act of kindness in Elijah’s name every day. It’s their family’s belief that kindness has a ripple effect and even if it starts out small will eventually create a much larger effect on the world.

Another change they made was to live life entirely on their own terms. This has meant several different things. For one, her husband decided to go after his dream of becoming an MMA fighter. He began training intensely and has had two amateur fights.

Kelly also left her work, because during the grieving process she knew that she needed to be with her family. The same can be said of their decision to home educate. They were in a Montessori school before Elijah’s passing, and when the next school year came around they decided not to re-enter school because the kids, too, needed more family time while grieving.

These life changes allowed them to take the mission deeper. She became an author and illustrator and has published two books. More on that below.

Their Mission Elijah’s death was tragic. No two people grieve in the same way, but for Kelly and family, an important part of their grief and recovery has been to ensure that Elijah did not die in vain. They created Elijah’s Family Changes The World as a vehicle to spread kindness one act at a time.

Which brings us to the topic of Kelly’s book titled Elijah Loses His Smile. The main character of the book is Elijah. He loses his smile due to other kids’ teasing. And the rest of the story is about him getting his smile back. His parents get him an ice cream, which helps, but on a deeper level they teach him about self-acceptance and kindness.

These are the main values Kelly is seeking to spread through her book and her mission.

The book is already published, which is the hard part for most independent authors. Now, her task is to spread the word about her book to get the message out. Which is why she’s launched a Kickstarter campaign to fund the promotional efforts.

Their plan is to take their converted school bus and travel around on a book tour, mostly to libraries, spreading their message of self-acceptance and kindness.

I don’t know about you, but to me that sounds like the ultimate unschooling experience for her kids.

Please take a moment to support Kelly and her family in one or more of the following ways:

• Pledge to her Kickstarter here
• Buy her book here
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• Read her blog here

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Gordy Bal is one of those entrepreneurs you hear about in the news. You wonder how he can be involved in so many incredible projects. But entrepreneurs do entrepreneur things. But Gordy did something that might seem ‘off script,’ unless you got to know him and his personal journey.

He started a nature-based school he’d dreamed up after being exposed to a brilliant mind.

The Path of Purpose After speaking with Gordy, I think I understand how he does it all. It comes back to purpose, that deep-seated sense that what you’re doing really matters. The most purposeful people I know wake up in the morning excited by the opportunity to work and live in this world they are creating.

I can’t speak for you, but for me this is the golden goose of alternative education. Regardless of the specific path, I believe this is what most alternative education families really want for their kids.

With a deep purpose, the practical concerns of academic education hardly matter. If you have a deep enough purpose, you’ll learn what you need to learn when you need to learn it. Without purpose, the greatest on-paper education in the world won’t save you.

There are few things less attractive than an over-educated Starbucks barista living a purposeless life. Meanwhile, plucky and “uneducated” entrepreneurs all over the world are getting things done and learning what they need when they need it.

The Xploration Centre I brought Gordy Bal on the podcast because I heard about his school from my husband. It’s called the Xploration Centreand it has a unique vision, like a cross between a forest school and a technology-based school with some unique philosophical underpinnings. Gordy believes deeply in exponential technologies, but he also fears the current relationship most of us, kids especially, have with technology.

Meanwhile, we’re more and more cut off from nature. I share Gordy’s fear on that front. A child without any connection to nature is a very sad thing. But more than sad, it holds them back from living a full life. A week in nature is a cure for most ailments, and nature is the greatest (and only?) true teacher.

And beyond nature and exposure to exponential technologies, two other paradigms guide the school. Both stem from the teachings of Dr. Shefali Tsabary, the world famous psychologist who writes on the topic of conscious parenting.

Dr. Shefali’s Influence Gordy was exposed to Dr. Shefali’s after he became a parent. Her teachings resonated deeply with Gordy and his wife, so they reached out to meet Dr. Shefali. They would eventually become friends and she would remain influential in his life as he moved along his journey towards opening the Xploration Centre. So influential, that the school is founded on the principles she teaches.

Two key concepts from Dr. Shefali inform the direction of the school. The first is love. Most traditional parenting in our society comes from a paradigm of fear. It’s believed the parents’ job is to mould the child into something they’re not. And fear is the main tool to force kids into the mold.

But the Xploration Centre is founded on the opposite idea — that kids are perfect as they are and that our role as adults is to express and model love. Kids don’t need to be ‘scared straight’ into becoming ‘productive adults.’ Instead, we need to be loving and supportive on their mission to understand themselves and pursue their unique talents.

The traditional model of education (and parenting) in our society is a relic from the industrial era, or even the agricultural. Gordy calls it the top-down model. This model runs on the assumption that kids are basically flawed and that it’s our job as adults to force feed them knowledge — whether in life or school.

Flipping this paradigm, the Xploration Centre’s vision is to works with the kids to co-create their own learning curriculum. The goal here is to facilitate the discovery of their own set of skills, joys, and passions. Every child has natural inborn skills and passions. Rather than coerce these uniquenesses out of them, the Xploration Centre seeks to strengthen them.

Gordy’s Awakening I love hearing the stories of alternative education parents. Gordy is certainly an alternative education parent, and like most of us, his story helped form his vision for education.

A true entrepreneur, Gordy was involved in business since high school. He knew at this early age that school itself wouldn’t be the path for him to achieve his life goals. School never made sense. He had to go to this place every day where people would tell him what to do.

Coming from a traditional immigrant background his family highly valued education. His parents saw their labors as a sacrifice they made to ensure their son would get a great education.

Still Gordy knew the coercive nature of education didn’t fit for him, and when he had kids he began to research and learn more about alternatives to the traditional system. He encountered Dr. Shefali’s work, and combined with this own spiritual journey he knew that he had to do something about it.

And when you’re an entrepreneur like Gordy, doing something means making an impact beyond yourself.

Takeaways I loved this episode of the podcast. Gordy and I share similar upbringing. It was interesting to me to see how he formulated himself based on that. But moreover, Gordy is just a really interesting person doing incredibly interesting things in the world — both education and beyond.

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Jo Watt is English. Very English. At least to my prairie Canadian ears. I could listen to that accent all day. I think she might have lured me into a trance. Do English people know the power they hold over us North Americans?

But accent aside, I loved Jo’s story and the lessons she shared. I’ll walk you through some of these lessons below. But the big takeaway, was how she went from being a teacher with a master’s degree in education to a full blown unschooling mom. As with most of us who choose this path, Jo had to deschool the adult mind before she could truly understand her kids.

Jo is a friend of Rachel Rainbolt (Sage Parenting) who you heard from on Episode 17. Like Rachel, Jo lives in the Washington state, although her journey there was a bit different. We cover that in a bit of detail in this podcast as well.

Jo writes a great blog about unschooling called Girls Unschooled. You can also follow her on Facebook or Instagram to stay in touch. Please do so. Anyone pursuing alternative education needs to form a community.

Community is virtual not just geographic. Let’s be honest, you don’t need to see any more political rants from your crazy uncle. But you could use uplifting and interesting stories from an inspiring unschooler like Jo. So go there and link up with her now.

Deschool the Adult Mind Jo Watt, teacher and Master of Education. It’s a formidable title. She sounds like the kind of person who could instill education into children. This narrative has changed. She is that — a formidable person with talents.

But, as an unschooler, what’s the real benefit of her background and titles? Jo claims it’s useful when dealing with prickly questions from well-meaning family members and friends.

“I don’t know how you do it? Are you even qualified?”

As unschoolers, we hear this all the time. Many parents I hear from would love to pursue alternative education, but they don’t think they’re up for the challenge.

“I’d love to do that but I’m not a teacher and I wouldn’t have the first idea where to start.”

Well, Jo has more than enough education. But she told me on the podcast that she doesn’t think it’s all that useful in unschooling her two daughters. Where it does provide a major benefit is talking to others. They often seem skeptical at first, but when they find out she’s a master’s degree educated teacher they relent. They trust that she can handle it and stop questioning her.

But Jo points out that the opposite is almost true. Her girls were very young when they first started home-educating. All they wanted to do was play. And Jo imagined that the time would come soon when she’d start ‘instilling’ the education. She imagined worksheets and desks and all the things you think of when you picture education.

But I give her great credit, because she didn’t remain attached to that vision. She soon found out that any type of ‘schoolish’ activity was a bad fit for her girls. They wanted to play and explore, and they were full to the brim with enthusiasm and joy.

And Jo goes on to explain that they’re still this way. Even though her oldest daughter is grade 2 age, she is still largely focused on creative play. This shouldn’t be surprising. Isn’t this what the developmental psychologists and researchers are telling us? Nothing is as important to small children as play. This is where they learn the most. And as unschooling parents, especially at that age, our job is to stay out of the way, observe, and support if needed.

This was how Jo learned to deschool the adult mind.

The Power of Observation Jo found herself layering her schooled beliefs over her kids’ natural learning. And she tells one story about getting in the way of her kids self-led learning. She caught herself on that occasion, but how often do we interrupt when we should just observe?

Jo eventually settled into her role as unschooling parent. And she learned that the best way to teach her kids was to watch them. By carefully watching them you learn so much. You learn to accept them. And most of all you realize that our schooled beliefs about testing, attendance, etc. are not real learning. Real learning is deep. It’s hard to quantify with data.

How do you test for emotional ability, for example? You can’t. But these types of life skills — the real realm of unschooling — serve you through life far better than a test score ever could. Through her deschooling, Jo has remembered how much of her self-worth was wrapped up in test score success.

But through observing her girls, she has seen that true education runs much deeper. Test scores or grades on an essay don’t indicate real learning.

The Joys and Benefits of Connection I mentioned emotional development above. This is something most alternative education families value. Jo stated that her favorite part of their unschooling is seeing the relationship her two daughters have.

My experience echoes this. There is no way that my kids would have the close relationship that they do unless they unschooled together. Age segregation in schools removes the opportunity for siblings to spend time together.

And connection with her is equally important. Jo remembers coming home as a child and her mom (mum) would ask her how her day was. Child Jo’s response never varied, “It was okay.” Most families can relate to this. Jo has a great relationship with her mom and she trusts her. She did as a child, too. But there is just a separation in the lives of parent and child when the child goes to school.

It’s like there’s an invisible wall between parent and child. This might have its benefits, but this can also lessen connection between parent and child.

She, as the home parent gets to have that connection all day. But what about her husband? And what about other family members?

The Importance of Her Blog Jo shared that her family was always very accepting. But at the beginning they maybe didn’t quite understand it. She began to believe deeply in unschooling. With her husband and parents she would speak excitedly about her experiences and beliefs.

But this isn’t always the most effective way to discuss ideas and share experiences. Anyone who’s been on the receiving end will understand.

So Jo started writing her blog. There’s she’s able to articulate clearly. And this has made all the difference in communicating with her husband and other family. They truly see what Jo and the girls are experiencing as they unschool. They understand more deeply.

Don’t underestimate the importance of this. Our kids are always educated within a community. After your kids and the primary home educator, the next most important relationship is that with the nearest family.

I’m not suggesting that you should break your principles to appease family members. But part of your role as home educator is to communicate with others. You don’t owe it to them. But it will be deeply appreciated and will provoke better conversations. When others with deeply schooled minds understand the benefits, they become your ally and even a resource.

More! Jo had many more great anecdotes and insights. I won’t get into them here, but please listen to this episode to learn more.

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Are you in love with what you do? Do you inspire others to live a better life? Today’s podcast guest does that in spades. And she does it by helping to build micro schools.

Meet Mara Linaberger.

Mara was one of my early guests on this podcast. I’m thrilled to have had her on the podcast again, this time to talk about her new book.

She has incredible will, drive, and passion to make this world a better place. These are always inspiring traits. And to see it in education is all the more inspiring, especially because she’s providing a unique alternative not found elsewhere.

100 Micro Schools

Mara spent over 25 years working in the Pennsylvania public school system. But she eventually realized that her work from inside the system wasn’t best serving her students or herself. That was when she became a consultant for those struggling in learning and eventually an author.

Through this work, Mara witnessed the successful emergence of micro-schools. These schools have become Mara’s mission. She plans to create a global network of 100 micro-schools. To help her achieve this mission, Mara wrote a new book, The Micro-School Builder’s Handbook. This book offers the steps and tools for parents to build their own micro-school.

What’s a Micro-School?

A Micro School is a small school, like the old one room schools of the past, but with a modern twist. A micro-school have no fewer than 12 kids or no more than 150 kids. It is an intimate setting with instructors or guides and small student to teacher ratios.

Micro-schools are child-centred rather than parent-centred. The smaller the school the more intimate it can be.

Micro-school founders often begin as homeschool parents. These parents either want to do more for other kids, or they want to create a community for their own children.

Why Choose a Micro-School over Homeschool?

Micro-schools are flexible. You can decide the flavour, space, and school schedule like homeschool.

4 day school week? Road trips? As long as you’re accomplishing your hours of learning, how you go about that is flexible.

Mara has met many parents that want to homeschool but don’t have the resources, or the confidence to do so. She has realized that micro schools present an opportunity not only for kids, but parents too. They can create a fantastic learning environment for their kids as well as a business of their own.

Micro Schools- Schools of The Future?

Micro-schools personalize learning and have small classes at a much lower price. They are starting to challenge private schools and the feelings of entitlement. There are micro schools focused on the outdoors, computer programming, the arts, service learning, business incubation…

Mara feels that micro schools are the schools of the future. They are proving to be innovative and effective. Plus they make learning fun.

The Micro School Builders Handbook

The Micro-School Builders Handbook helps make micro schools happen. The book covers the how and what.

Do you want and need a curriculum? If so she helps you find what best suits your school. What location you choose. Teachers to hire? Will you do it yourself? Legalities in your area? Location you want to secure. For profit or non profit? How will you secure funds? How to make the business plan.

There is so much flexibility and Mara says someone motivated will be able to go and do it themselves.

Learning Needs To Be Fun Again Mara realizes that not everyone is ready for Micro-schools. There was a time that she wanted to effect change on a grand scale. Now she focuses on the small, meaningful and rich changes. She is already seeing the exponential growth. Learning needs to be fun again.

So many of us want to do something meaningful and build a lasting legacy. We “think big” but we forget that service happens on a very personal, one by one basis. We may not see the effects right away, but we are preparing the next generation of leaders.

The Super Hero Summit

Along with helping to build 100 micro schools globally, Mara has another vision for kids. In 2017 she attended The Archangel Summit in Toronto, a gathering of mission driven entrepreneurs. Mara realized kids need the same kind gathering. So she and the founder of the Personal Greatness Project are working on the Super Hero Summit. A place for “superhero” kids to explore who they are, why they are here and figure out a mission they’d like to tackle.

The Summit will be open to all kids that are looking into their personal greatness. It’s not an event, it’s a learning experience.

“What the best and wisest parent wants for their own child, that must community want for all its children.” John Dewey Are you ready to build your micro school?

You can order the book here.

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