Dem Black Mamas answers all the questions yo mama won't! From sex & dream chasing to adulting & raising free Black children in an unfree world, Crystal Tennille Irby, NeKisha Killings, & Thea Monyee, three #BlackMamaCreatives give you all the #BlackMamaMagic your heart can hold.
Dear Mamas & Magic Makers
What if I told you a campaign was a story? And if Black women are the heroes of elections, how come we're never the main characters in the movie?
It's Black Healing/History Month here at Dem Black Mamas, and today we're holding space for a conversation that feels both urgent and ancestral: electoral politics and Black motherhood. Black motherhood has never been separate from politics. It has always been policy and protest. From the plantation to the PTA meeting; from the ballot box to the budget sheet at the kitchen table, from protecting our babies in school hallways to protecting our rights in voting lines. As Audre Lorde said, "Survival is not a theory." It is strategic. It is practiced. It is passed down.
Today, we're joined by someone who understands both the strategy and the stakes, Reecie Colbert. SiriusXM host. Political strategist and Author. When disinformation moves in whispers, she answers in clarity. When narratives twist, she straightens them. She doesn't just talk politics, she translates it. Together, we're unpacking messaging and missteps; silence and strategy; weight of being the base but not the priority.
We dive into: ✨Loyalty, leverage, labor and when does devotion become depletion? ✨What does it mean to be the foundation of a house that rarely calls your name? ✨When your Blackness is debated in public, is silence strategy… or surrender? ✨How do you raise a Black child steady and sovereign when the ground beneath democracy feels like quicksand?
PLUS - NeKisha & Crystal discuss our inability to recognize white people, a show made us proud to say "THE BLACK MAMA DID IT" Stick around till the end for our signature 'Black Mama Say' segment where we put our own twist on phrases from Black Mamas and in this episode we'll be revealing the word that will guide us through the year.
ABOUT Reecie Colbert
Reecie Colbert is a dynamic SiriusXM host, bestselling author, fearless advocate, and trusted Democratic political strategist known for her signature unbossed, unfiltered delivery. A credentialed White House press member and national political commentator, she demystifies complex issues and debunks disinformation while blending sharp political analysis with smart pop culture commentary. From interviewing leaders like Governor Wes Moore to moderating panels with top mayors and hosting The Reecie Colbert Show, her live call-in talk show on politics and culture, Reecie brings insight, energy, and authenticity to every platform — including frequent appearances on MSNBC, Revolt TV, and NewsNation. An Amazon bestselling author and sought-after speaker, she's also a proud LA girlie, concert connoisseur, and the self-proclaimed First Lady of Upper Marlboro, living in the D.C. area with her husband and daughter.
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March 29th - April 1st: Community Doula Week "Nuture Joy | Honor Community | Hold Power"
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Episode Playlist: DBM Episode 77 Companion Playlist
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 75 107 Days, Kamala Harris & Black Motherhood
🎙️DBM Ep 76: Thea Monyee's Farewell Episode: Podcasting for a Decade, Evolution & Black Motherhood
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Dear Mamas & Magic Makers
We're celebrating a significant milestone: 10 YEARS of podcasting. In this episode, we reflect on our journey, share personal stories, and bid a loving farewell to our co-host, Thea Monyee. We delve into our experiences and growth over the past decade, shedding light on the transformations in our personal lives, spiritual journeys, motherhood, and creative ventures. From humble beginnings on Skype to creating a nurturing space for Black motherhood and magic, we've shared it all. Thea's Sunset Episode is a tribute to friendship, resilience, and the transformative power of storytelling. Whether you're a long-time listener or new to the ride, this episode encapsulates the essence of what Dem Black Mamas is all about. Dive in with us as we honor the past, embrace the present, and look forward to the future with hope and excitement.
In this episode, we talk:
✨Where were we 10 years ago & did we think we'd be where we are right now
✨What surprised us over the last 10 years
✨What we're excited & curious in the next decade
✨Thank Yous To Thea
💗Black Mama Magic Card: Card #11 - Magic Is Real. You Are Proof.💗
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EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 1: Meet The Mamas Apple Podcast | Soundcloud 🎙️DBM Ep 4: How I Made It Ova 🎙️DBM Ep 27: The Upper Room
✨THEA MONYEE EVENTS/EXPERIENCES✨
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Dear Mama,
I'm a simple girl from South Carolina whose mother was a union leader in an anti-union state, so politics was a part of the day-to-day conversations in my home. I am a Black artist, interrogating, reflecting, and expressing new possibilities in the world. I'm a Black mama who desires a free country for her Black children. I'm a Black birth worker who wants Black women to go into birth looking forward to life, not fearing death. I'm a Black woman, a Black mother, a Black artist who wants to be free. These are all the intersections I brought with me when I began to listen to "107 Days", Kamala Harris' book about her 2024 presidential campaign. Fresh off the heels of an awe-inspiring episode with Loretta Ross, Thea Monyee, and I unpack how the book impacted us.
In this episode, we dive into:
✨How the layout of the book impacted our experience
✨Performative and respectability politics in the current political climate
✨Disappointments, darkness & moments of hope
✨Where we are now vs where we were in 2024
PLUS - We sprinkle in some church announcements, share wisdom from June Jordan, and, of course, we stay on our Blackest behavior. Stick around till the end for our signature 'Black Mama Say' segment, where we put our own twist on phrases from Black Mamas, and the phrase we're twisting this episode is "But what I do know is…"
So thanks for coming inside the black mama magic room, and if you're looking for links to things we mentioned or referenced in this episode, check out our syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris-Perry) for this episode, which is a list of references and sources for our listeners to explore for this episode. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective.
If you're a new listener, welcome to the mothership. If you're a newbie or an OG, here are 2 simple ways to support us:
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EPISODES MENTIONED/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 74: A Conversation w/ Loretta Ross - Abortion, Reproductive Justice & Black Motherhood
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Dear Mama & Magic Makers,
What if we told you there is an elder alive today who has the blueprint for this moment? Mamas & Magic Makers, if you don't do nothing else before the end of the year, sit at the feet of an elder and LISTEN. Keyword LISTEN. Find an elder or make yourself available to one who is willing not only to share their wisdom but also to be vulnerable, sharing their mistakes, regrets, and healing journey.
And this is why we're grateful for our conversation with the brilliant, brave, and vulnerable Loretta Ross, one of the architects of the reproductive justice framework and one of the founders of the reproductive justice movement, about her new book, Abortion & Reproductive Justice: An Essential Guide for Resistance. With sobering honesty, she shares how her personal journey mirrored the evolution of her role in the feminist movement and why, after retiring from the frontline, she's chosen to focus on HOW we do the work.
This is the quietest we have ever been in an episode as Ms. Ross shares:
PLUS, we give a praise report to Vanessa Baden Kelly, who wrote a Black ass episode of The Morning Show that touches on Black Maternal Health and Black women's relationships in the workplace. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is "Keep Livin."
ABOUT LORETTA ROSS
Loretta J. Ross is an activist, professor, and public intellectual. In her five decades in the human rights movement, she's deprogrammed white supremacists, taught convicted rapists the principles of feminism, and, as National Co-Director, organized the second-largest march on Washington (in April 25, 2004, March for Women's Lives in Washington D.C., surpassed in size only by the 2017 Women's March).
Loretta was one of the first African American women to direct a rape crisis center in the 1970s, launching her career by pioneering work on violence against women, as the third Executive Director of the D.C. Rape Crisis Center. As part of a 50-year history of social justice activism, she retired from community organizing in 2012. She was the National Coordinator of the SisterSong Women of Color Reproductive Justice Collective from 2005-2012 and co-created the theory of Reproductive Justice in 1994.
Her many accolades and honors include a 2022 MacArthur Fellowship and a 2024 induction into the National Women's Hall of Fame. Today, Ross is an associate professor at Smith College in Northampton, Massachusetts, and is the founder of LoRossta Consulting, with which she runs "Calling In" training sessions online and for organizations around the country.
Loretta is a rape survivor, raised her child born of incest, and is also a survivor of sterilization abuse at age 23. She is a model of how to survive and thrive despite the traumas that disproportionately affect low-income women of color.
Loretta is a mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother.
Connect with Loretta Ross:
💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #32 "Bliss Awaits" 💗
Episode Playlist: Ep 74 Companion Playlist
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Episode 24 Birthing Freedom w/ Chauntel Norris co-founder & Director of Alabama Prison Project
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To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris-Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our complete syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com
Dear Mamas & Magic Makers
What if I told you your child was born a sexual being? What if I told you that when it comes to sex and our children, we should focus on preparation instead of prevention? What if I told you intimacy and pleasure for your child were on the other side of your fear of them making a mistake? What if I told you resting in that fear erases a part of your child's humanity and as Black mamas we MUST provide space for our children's full humanity to be embraced.
Those were the aha moments Kim Baker guided me to, cause ya girl has been struggling to talk to my sons about pleasure and intimacy, and I had real questions like how to support my child who, if they start losing their mind behind sex, cause it's happened to the best of us. So in this episode, we DIVE DEEP into topics around sex education, intimacy, and empowerment with our special guest, Kim Baker, a sexual health educator and founder of Own Every Piece, which works to resolve the inequities women face in their reproductive journey.
We discuss cultivating an open dialogue about sexual health. Kim shares her insights on how parents can navigate these conversations amidst the overwhelming data and misinformation our kids are exposed to.
We dive into:
PLUS - Our LISTENER LOVE EPISODE RECORDING, where we invite our listeners to come on to the podcast, will take place on November 13th. I explain why The Wiz soundtrack was made to carry us through this moment. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is "Watch Yo Neck."
ABOUT KIM BAKER
Kim is a woman of many talents and roles—a Principal Investigator, Assistant Professor, and Assistant Dean of Practice. A leader in the sexual health space, she's been a well-known advocate for accessibility and equity. When she's not advocating for reproductive health, she's a leading voice on racial injustice. She is the founder of Own Every Piece, a multi-partner system-level intervention to increase access to contraception for women. She has also developed sexual health interventions informed by community needs, targeting males, faith institutions, and health providers. She is the co-founder of Full Circle Strategies Consulting Group, a firm that works with agencies across the nation to facilitate anti-racism change within their teams through strategic planning, training & coaching. She also serves as the Vice President of the Board of Directors for the Jacob & Terese Hershey Foundation. She received a Bachelor of Science in Biology from Hampton University, a Master of Public Health from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. From leading teams dedicated to advancing reproductive health to teaching graduate students and training them in public health practice skills, she does everything with grace, a steadfast vision, and fortitude.
When she's not doing all the things, she's helping her kiddos with last-minute pre-K and Elementary school projects or watching the latest episode of Love After Lockup. We love a guilty pleasure.
Connect with Kim Baker: Instagram
Own Every Piece: Instagram | Website
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Episode Playlist: Ep 73 Companion Playlist
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 71 Black Keisha, Black Mamas, & Forever
🎙️DBM Ep 72 Back To School & Black Motherhood
🎙️DBM Ep 65 Marriage Hot Topics & Black Motherhood
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Dear Mamas & Magic Makers
What if I told you the collision of declining birth rates in the U.S., the rise of anti-intellectualism, and the rollback of reproductive rights are having a profound impact on your child’s potential college experience? How do we help prepare our children for the future when the world we know is crumbling before our eyes? In this episode, we talk with one of our favorite kiki partners and Associate Vice President for Equity & Community Inclusion at San Francisco State, Dr. Frederick Smith, about the changing landscape of higher education, the challenges, and strategies for Black families navigating the college experience for their teens. We discuss the importance of support systems, financial literacy, overcoming barriers like making friends and advocating for oneself, and we explore how the COVID-19 pandemic has impacted students' social skills.
AND MAMAS what you should be thinking about if you’re considering returning to college.
We dive into:
PLUS - Our LISTENER LOVE EPISODE RECORDING, where we invite our listeners to come on to the podcast, will take place on November 13th. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is “I Ain’t Forgot.”
ABOUT DR. FREDERICK SMITH
Dr. Frederick Smith's research and professional interests focus on higher education and include: co-curricular learning experiences; the role of ethnic studies and cultural centers in student identity development and confidence building; campus climate experiences of historically marginalized and minoritized communities; retention and graduation of students of color in higher education; and collaborations between student affairs and academic affairs units for student success. Smith has served twice as president of the California Council of Cultural Centers in Higher Education (CaCCCHE) and he is active with the National Conference on Race and Ethnicity in Higher Education (NCORE).
Outside of higher education, Fred enjoys reading and writing fiction. He’s written and published several novels – In Case You Forgot (2019), Play It Forward (2015), Right Side of the Wrong Bed (2009), and Down For Whatever (2005) – that focus on queer people of color characters.
He earned his doctorate in Educational Leadership for Social Justice at Loyola Marymount University.
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EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Episode 26 In Case You Forgot with Chad Lamar & Frederick Smth
🎙️DBM Episode 51: When It All Falls Down, Finding Freedom & Transitioning to Conscious Parenting w/ Domari Dickinson
🎙️DBM Ep 61: Joy & Black Motherhood
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To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our complete syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com
Dear Mama,
What if I told you much of the growth our children may need to show up in the ways we’re nurturing them to show up comes through falling in love? When we tell our children not to focus on love, are we parenting out of fear? What message does that send to our children about the priority to place on intimate relationships, and what generational impact does that have on our culture? How do we raise children who know how to love?
In this raw and reflective episode, we take a deep dive into the Netflix series 'Forever,' using it as a powerful springboard to unpack the complexities of Black motherhood, teenage love, and generational parenting. We’re talking parenting fears, the tightrope between nurturing and protecting our babies, and the real-life challenges that come with raising Black teens in a world that doesn’t always love them back. Y'all know us! So honest storytelling, aha moments, and of course, plenty of laughter and love.
We also get into: ✨The roots of catastrophic parenting styles and the fear of raising fuck boys ✨How generational trauma shows up at the dinner table (and in the group chat) ✨Teaching our children vulnerability & letting go ✨Why was Keisha’s Daddy so triggering
PLUS - Crystal gives a s/o to Mara Brock Akil for putting text on the screen, NeKisha questions Crystal is good at training real dogs or Ques, and Thea offers advice on how to live like we'll survive this moment in time. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is “Let Me Hush Though.”
EPISODE PAUSE FOR THE CAUSE:
"Imma keep it 100. I don't raise fc? boys. I don't wanna raise men who women have to manage."* - Crystal Tennille Irby
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EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 51 When It All Falls Down, Finding Freedom & Transitioning to Conscious Parenting w/ Domari Dickinson
DBM Ep 71 Companion Playlist
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To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our complete syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com
Dear Mama, What if I told you the saying, “real gs move in silence is killing your dream? What if I told you to tell everyone and anyone you know what you want to do? What if I told you your notes app and Evernote are the keys to the manifestation of your dreams? What if I told you every time we tell our stories, we reclaim what was stolen? Every time we create, we declare: We are still here. These are our takeaways from our conversation with prolific children’s book author, Alliah Agostini, who wrote The Juneteenth Story: Celebrating the End of Slavery in the United States & one of my favorite children’s books, Great Idea Malia.
In this episode, we explore the intersections of Black motherhood, creativity, community, and freedom. Alliah provides invaluable insights for other Black mama creatives, encouraging them to trust their journey and to navigate the world of storytelling with authenticity and courage. Her experience is a testament to the power of community and culture as a treasure trove of inspiration.
We get real about: ✨Complexities of Black culture ✨The importance of always telling our stories, but especially right now ✨Handling critique and nurturing creativity ✨Building community and managing ideas
PLUS - If you’re looking for some hope right now. We got you. In our Black Mama Say segment, where we put our own twist on sayings from Black Mamas, we talk about what’s giving us hope while this country is on fire.
ABOUT ALLIAH AGOSTINI
Buffalo, NY native Alliah L. Agostini has marketed everything from iconic brands to scrappy start-ups, but motherhood helped her return to her first love: children's literature. She writes to spread joy, truth, and to help more children see themselves reflected on the page. Alliah is the author of 10 books for children including Junior Library Guild Selection BIG TUNE: Rise of the Dancehall Prince (starred reviews, Kirkus and Publisher's Weekly, NYPL and Chicago Public Library Best Picture Book of 2023), Black KidLit Award-winning The Juneteenth Story: Celebrating the End of Slavery in the United States, Great Idea Malia, and recently released Scarecited on the First Day of School. She and her work have been featured on Oprah Daily, Essence.com, TODAY with Hoda + Jenna, Morning in America, Good Housekeeping, CNN, and NPR.
Connect with Alliah: Instagram | Website
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Collection Plate Cause: Learn more about & donate to Creators Well, a nonprofit founded by Crystal for Black girls living in South Carolina intersted in writing and performance.
💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #19 “I Honor My Child's Divine Path” 💗
Episode Playlist: Black Mama Creatives Episode Playlist
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To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our complete syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com
Dear Mama,
What if I told you your mess tells a story, and your clutter can block your clarity? What if I told you to reframe cleaning as a way to express gratitude, practice self-care, and create a sacred space where your spirit can operate effortlessly and creativity flows freely? What have you put down that you need to put away? What items are you holding onto that no longer serve you? These are the questions our guest professional organizer, Kendra Littlejohn of Organized by Kendra, brought to the forefront. In this episode, she gently stepped on our toes and helped us reframe our approach to organizing our creative space. We dive into:
✨Accepting and honoring the season you're in ✨Clarity and how Mamas can reclaim or create space for themselves ✨And the plot twist we didn’t know we needed, how reducing laundry ✨PLUS Kendra is offering a free, yes FREE Virtual Space Audit to the first three people to sign up & use the code: demblackmamas
ABOUT KENDRA
Kendra Littlejohn is the founder and Chief Organizing Officer at Organized by Kendra, a premier home organizing and styling firm based in Southaven, MS, and serving the greater Memphis metropolitan area, and beyond. With her background in corporate finance experience, Kendra brings a unique blend of business acumen, creativity, and passion for helping ambitious professionals, entrepreneurs, and creatives cancel clutter, optimize space, and create systems that seamlessly balance aesthetics with practicality. Being laid off after 20+ years in corporate finance became the catalyst for Kendra to lean into what had always come naturally—turning disorganized spaces into peaceful, functional environments. Since launching OK, Kendra’s insights have been spotlighted in prominent publications like ESSENCE, REAL SIMPLE, and SOUTHERN LIVING. Kendra specializes in customized organizing solutions that create ease and enhance both function and beauty.
Connect with Kendra Littlejohn: Instagram | Website
💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #13 “Black Mama Creative = Dream Doula” 💗
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 68 All About Annie, Sinners and Black Motherhood
🎙️DBM Black Mama Creative Episode Playlist
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To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our complete syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com
Dear Mamas & Magic Makers,
Lissen yall Sinners was all about Annie for us! We ain’t gon hold you with our normal intro.
In this episode we dive into:
PLUS - we have social proof that a Black mama would have made a COMPLETELY different decision than Grace.
And we’re excited to have some listeners on The Muthaship, live inside the Black Mama Magic room for this episode. We welcome:
💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #4 “Take Up Space Boo” 💗
Episode Playlist: All About Annie, Sinners & Black Motherhood Companion Playlist
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EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 61 - Joy and Black Motherhood
🎙️DBM Ep 62 Grief and Black Motherhood
✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Pre-Show Shenanigans✨
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Dear Mama, What if I told you Black mamas aren’t superheroes, that the cape is choking us, and our backs are brittle? What if I told you motherhood ain’t killing us, though, but the narratives we buy into hook, line, and sinker are? What if you had the option not to be the primary custodial parent? Would you decline out of obligation to the belief that a good Black mama would never choose to leave their children in the care of others, even the other parent? How does a Black mother respond when what’s best for her or her destiny clashes with cultural norms?
In this Mother's Day episode, we speak with Erica Michelle Freeman of Sisters In Loss Podcast about the complexities and challenges of non-custodial parenting and Black motherhood. When Erica and her husband decided to divorce, they also agreed to shared custody. Each parent would have primary custody for 3 years of their son Maxwell who was diagnosed with spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy 10 years ago.
We dive into: ✨Confronting societal norms and cultural stigmas ✨Navigating health and care decisions for children with special needs as a noncustodial parent ✨Historical trauma and Black motherhood ✨Renegotiating Black motherhood
PLUS - Crystal and perimenopause are NOT friends, especially under the current administration, and Thea is in search of Jill Stein. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is “Oh, you got time for dat.”
ABOUT ERICA M. FREEMAN
Erica M. Freeman is the Founder and CEO of Sisters in Loss, is a savvy, creative engineer, known for her results-based, no-fluff approach as a podcaster, grief educator, and motivational speaker. Sisters in Loss provides pregnancy, birth, postpartum, bereavement doula, and grief services to help women step beyond anxiety and fear and into trust and peace after loss. Its self-titled award-winning podcast spotlights resilient Black mothers who share intimate details of their journey to motherhood through painful, but inspirational loss and infertility stories. Sisters in Loss has been featured in Forbes, BBC News, Black Enterprise, Women's Health, The Today Show, NBC Nightly News, and The White House.
Connect with Erica M. Freeman: Instagram | Website
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💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #8 “Share Your Inspiration” 💗
Episode Playlist: Black Mama Magic Playlist
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 56: Menopause, Black Women & Spiritual Ritual with Omisade Burney Scott
🎙️DBM Ep 33: Haitian American Mama w/ Stepha LaFond
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Dear Mama,
How do we resist the urge to rescue when we’ve been taught our whole lives to be saviors? How do we set boundaries when the world is burning? What do we do when we’ve been deemed the backbone of the community, but our backbones are brittle and breaking? Since the election, these are the questions and conversations black women have been having online and, especially, in group chats. So, we decided to explore what this line in the sand means for Black mothers in the midst of state-sanctioned brutality.
In this episode, Thea and I explore the parallels between domestic violence relationships and Black mothers' relationship with America.
We dive into:
✨Why it’s more important than ever that Black mothers set boundaries
✨The role cultural coping plays in Black mothers ignoring their needs
✨Vulnerability & why Black mothers feel we must do it all
✨What Stevie Wonder songs reflect this moment
PLUS - Thea shares a testimony about getting a new mattress, and I’m excited to share the details of our next virtual event, Down By the Riverside, during our Church Announcements, Praise Reports, and Prayer List Requests segment. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our own twist on sayings from Black mamas, we do something a little different this time. Instead of a Black Mama Say, we’re choosing theme songs to carry us through this moment.
IMPORTANT CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS:
💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #21 “My Motherhood Is Rooted In Liberation” 💗
Episode Playlist: The 92%, Boundaries & Black Motherhood Companion Playlist
EPISODES MENTIONED/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 61 Grief and Black Motherhood
🎙️DBM Ep 54: Birth Justice, Liberation & the Power of Black Midwives w/ Jamarah Amani & K.Sanderson
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Dear Mama,
What do Telvin Osborne, Black marriage, generational wealth, Altadena, data as currency, the TV show Paradise, and white women in Idaho have in common? We cover them all in this episode. Yup, it’s hot topics, and we got hot takes well, not hot takes. We got Black Mama takes on all the above. In this episode, we talk:
✨How Telvin Osborne is relevant to Black women resting ✨The real problem when it comes to marriage & Black folx ✨Why Paradise gets kudos & white women in Idaho don’t
PLUS - we talk all things Black Maternal Health, Roberta Flack, Thea taking on individual clients, and I share a big praise report regarding my nonprofit Creators Well during our Church announcements, praise reports, and prayer list requests segment. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas and the saying we're twisting this episode is “Let me put it to you like this.”
💗Black Mama Magic Deck Card: Card #25 “Motherhood Is Not the Graveyard of Dreams” 💗
Donate to Creators Well. Founded by Crystal Tennille Irby, Creators Well is a series of FREE interactive writing retreats and writing and performance classes for Black girls/ femmes/ non-binary/gender-expansive youth ages 12-21 that teaches and affirms the power of their voices, pen, art, and individuality.
Thea Monyee, aka the Secretary of Joy, has nine spots available for one-on-one joy exploration and three spots for couples. Contact Thea for more details.
EPISODES MENTIONED/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 61 Joy and Black Motherhood 🎙️DBM Ep 54: Birth Justice, Liberation & the Power of Black Midwives w/ Jamarah Amani & K.Sanderson
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Dear Mama,
What does it mean to make it home, to create a place of rest and reprieve, joy and sanctuary, an archive of your children’s treasures? What happens when you can’t make it home, return to your place of rest and reprieve, joy and sanctuary, a reflection of your taste and intention? What happens when the archive of your children’s treasure, what they left behind to be kept safe, is incinerated, covered in ash and your community physically fractured? In this episode, Staci Mitchell, a mother of 3 who was born and raised in Altadena, CA, and our very own Thea Monyee recount the night the Los Angeles fires ravaged their community, watching their city burn, and the creative rebirth they’ve experienced in the wake of this nightmare.
In this episode, we talk:
✨Mothering through displacement
✨Gentrification and anti-blackness amid natural disaster
✨The expectation of normalcy while healing from trauma
precious commodities
PLUS: We meet Thea’s new dog, Remy, have a church meeting during our Church announcements segment about boycotting and Black women minding their Black business, and in our Black Mama Say segment, each of us shares the word that will guide us through the year.
💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #16 “Impossible You” 💗
ABOUT STACI MITCHELL:
The Fierce Creative With Healing Tendencies; Pan-African Studies Scholar, Theatre & Performance Artist born in LA and raised in Altadena, California. Her epistemological and pedagogical focus balances on womanism and the complex of Black\woman identity and its performativity. Staci has performed on and written for the Los Angeles theatre stage, been featured in independent film, on television, voiceover and audiobook narration. Staci is also a certified Ayurvedic yoga teacher specializing in meditation. She approaches all of these practices with deep appreciation and acknowledgment of her Afrikan ancestors who helped shape the science.
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EPISODES MENTIONED/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Episode 42: Honoring Your Body, Creativity, and Embracing Motherhood on Your Own Terms featuring Staci Mitchell
✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Pre-Show Shenanigans✨
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Dear Mama,
What if I told you I didn’t start a business because I wanted to be a boss? I started my business because I wanted to be free, because I saw no other path to fully realizing my dreams, and according to a 2022 article, I’m not alone in finding entrepreneurship on my liberation journey. In the article entitled Why Black Women Are the Fastest-Growing Group of Entrepreneurs, Erica Thompson writes, “As the fastest-growing group of entrepreneurs, Black women say they are seeking more freedom, opportunity, fulfillment and stability. They also are escaping from discrimination and other barriers in the workplace.” In this episode, we have a raw and vulnerable conversation about Black motherhood and our entrepreneurship journeys.
Through this honest discussion, we aim to illuminate the real experiences behind the facade of 'glamorous' entrepreneurship and provide insights for others on a similar path.
In this episode, we talk:
✨The spiritual and sometimes lonely journey of entrepreneurship
✨The pressure we put on our dreams to provide
✨Building a business in the margins as a mom when time, mental wellness, and money are precious commodities
PLUS - We ponder what white people were doing in the 90s.
💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck Pull: Card #8 “Share Your Inspiration” 💗
Donate to Creators Well. Founded by Crystal Tennille Irby, Creators Well is a series of FREE interactive writing retreats and writing and performance classes for Black girls/ femmes/ non-binary/gender-expansive youth ages 12-21 that teaches and affirms the power of their voices, pen, art, and individuality.
Episode Playlist: Black Healing Playlist curated by Dem Black Mamas on Spotify
EPISODES MENTIONED/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️ DBM Ep 61: Black Motherhood & Joy
🎙️DBM Ep 15: Black Mama Creative
🎙️Shaping the Shift: We Are Eternal with Renee Marie
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Dear Mama,
What if I told you to offer grief a seat at the table? What if I told you grief has no other duties except to be with you? It has nowhere to be and is not bound by time. Grief is patient. Grief is relentless, and as Akilah S. Richards, our guest for this episode and a DBM fave, says, “Grief is not something to be fixed but something for you to learn to be more skilled at processing.” Akilah is a mother, partner, liberationist and author of Raising Free People: Unschooling as Liberation and Healing.
She is now diving deep into grief work and in this episode we talk: ✨Grief, language and the body ✨Grief and generational shifts ✨Grief and creative projects ✨And of course grief, Black women and the political landscape
Plus Thea uses a Negro spiritual to describe Black women’s current mindset and Crystal is learning sign language and attempts to teach Thea.
💗Black Mama Magic Card: Card #25 - Motherhood is not the graveyard of dreams💗
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 61: Black Motherhood & Joy
🎙️Shaping The Shift: The Wild Body With Jessica Schafer
✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Pre-Show Shenanigans✨
ABOUT Akilah Richards:
Akilah S. Richards is a mother, partner and liberationist. As founder of Raising Free People Network and author of Raising Free People: Unschooling as Liberation and Healing Work, Akilah S. Richards partners with co-conspirators to challenge and encourage social justice-minded people to explore privilege and power in their relationships with personal leadership and all relationships. These days find Akilah tapped into the wisdom she gathered from her family’s transition from schoolishness to confident autonomy. She is savoring her life’s lessons after nearly a decade of location independence, and eight years of being invited into various conversations about intergenerational community care across the U.S., Southern Africa, and Jamaica (where Akilah is from). She guides discussions about how unschooling skills and other forms of decoloniality are shaping families and other cultures of leadership, change-work, and love.
In addition to private coaching and public speaking, she facilitates trainings, small-group experiences, and consultations that help resolve the ways that unexamined experiences with bias and oppression disrupt families’ and organization’s capacity to sustain cultures of belonging.
Connect with Akilah: Grief Circle | Community & Support | Instagram
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Dear Mama,
What if I told you I didn’t think I had the words for the intro of this episode because we recorded it before the election, and after November 5th, joy was THE LAST THING I wanted to talk about? I wish I could say thinking of our ancestors pulled me through, but the truth is reaching forward in time helped me more than reaching back, and now more than ever, we are going to need joy not to feel happy but because, as Thea Monyee, one of the cohost of this podcast, who will be guiding us through the Joy Assessment, says "Joy makes things clear," and we, particularly Black mothers, need to get REAL CLEAR RIGHT NOW and being committed to joy, being centered on joy requires us to tell the truth to ourselves, about our relationships, about what is real and what is not, what is serving us and most importantly how we are not serving ourselves and that allows us to get really, really clear about what we are supposed to be doing, how to mind our business and what business we should be minding, and focused on in the time that we are about to enter.
In this episode we delve into the social-political barriers of joy and how accountability intersects with the pursuit of personal joy. Thea Monyee introduces the groundbreaking "Joy Assessment," created with the Blacker The Brain cohort, as a tool for Black folx to reclaim joy as a means for liberation.
In this episode, we talk:
✨The groundbreaking Joy Assessment
✨The difference between joy and happiness
✨Radical honesty and spiritual bypassing
✨Joy as tool of parenting from a place of liberation and not fear
💗Black Mama Magic Card: Card #10 - Lay Your Burdens on the Altar of Love💗
Episode Playlist: Blackest Holiday Playlist Eva curated by us on Spotify
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 59: Black Motherhood, Myths & Matrescence w/ Stepha LaFond
✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Pre-Show Shenanigans✨
ABOUT THE BLACKER THE BRAIN:
Thea Monyee aka the Secretary of Joy and the founder of The Blacker the Brain which is an ongoing campaign, conversation and cohort created to make mental health inclusive and expansive for Black bodies by teaching practitioners to unlearn harmful ideas, practices, and policies, and empowering potential clients with language, a full understanding of their rights, and a joy centered framework for their healing within in an oppressive society.
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Dear Mama,
There’s no deep intro for this episode. In this episode, we talk:
✨Which version of "All Cried Out" is best, Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam or Allure & 112
✨Election 2024
✨How God blessed us with Morris Chesnut's rise from Ricky to Cory Cash
WE HAVE RANGE! The way we move from levity to depth, Thea breaking down Joe Biden's scorpio tendencies to NeKisha connecting COVID to Zoom organizing to Crystal invoking Stokely Carimicheal’s definition of a revolutionary, is DEFINITELY a reflection of the times we are living in.
And the truth is we were with more questions than answers:
👉🏾What does it mean to burn it all down, and who will be the ashes? 👉🏾What does it mean to be an activist? 👉🏾No matter the election outcome, what are we committed to building?
What we know for sure, though, is MORRIS CHESNUT continues to bless us, and we are GRATEFUL!
& OF COURSE we got that #BlackMamaMagic #ElectionPlaylist
💗Black Mama Magic Card for this episode: Card #48 - Time Is Always Divine💗
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 1: Meet The Mamas
🎙️DBM Ep 2: Michelle 4C LaVaughn Chocolate Robinson
🎙️ DBM Ep 18: Deez Black Votes
🎙️DBM Ep 36: Election Shift - DBM + Shaping The Shift Mashup
🎙️DBM Ep 52: Black Women Organizing Hoes That Ain't Loyal Spiritual Political Cycles
✨MERCH OF THE MONTH - Black Mama Magic Card Deck ✨
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Dear Mama,
What if I told you there’s no such thing as snapping back after giving birth, only expanding into? What if I told you that the you you’re trying to get to is not in your past but ahead of you? What if I asked you to imagine Black motherhood without suffering? Could you do it? Have we made suffering a rite of passage in Black motherhood? Have we shrouded Black motherhood in self-sacrifice as opposed to sacred sacrifice? These are the questions we explore in this episode about matrescence. Coined by Anthropologist and reproductive psychologist Dana Raphael in the 1970s, matrescence is the process of becoming a mother, including the physical, psychological, and emotional changes that occur during pregnancy, birth, and the postnatal period. Lissen yall, this episode drove us (well, Thea) to drink! So we’re glad to have one of our favs Stepha Lafond of Unlearning Motherhood, ridin’ shotgun with us who provides context to all the things we know and feel about transitioning to and in motherhood but didn’t have the language for.
✨Much like adolescence, matrescence involves ongoing shifts that shape our identity and understanding of ourselves.
✨How self-forgiveness sets the tone for your motherhood journey
✨Why setting the strong Black women free is essential for us and our children
✨Normalizing not doing motherhood alone
💗Black Mama Magic Card for this episode: Card # 39 - My Children Are My Teachers💗
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Episode 51: When It All Falls Down, Finding Freedom & Transitioning to Conscious Parenting w/ Domari Dickinson
🎙️DBM Episode 33: Haitian American Mama w/ Stepha LaFond
🎙️Meditations By Mamas: Full Moon/Shedding Meditation featuring Stepha LaFond
✨MERCH OF THE MONTH - Black Mama Magic Card Deck ✨
✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Grounding lead by Thea: “If I surrender to the air I can ride it” - Toni Morrison✨
ABOUT OUR GUEST:
Stepha is a Life Coach, Mentor, and Speaker, dedicated to helping moms navigate the space between who they were and who they’re still becoming. As a mom of two young children, she knows firsthand the struggles of juggling the demands of motherhood, career, and life. She started her practice out of a desire to put moms at the center of the conversation, with an emphasis on shifting the narrative on modern motherhood to one that allows space for mamas to grow, heal and take care of themselves at all stages of their journey. Her work on Matrescence- the transition into motherhood- invites her clients and spectators to explore and hold space for this common but rarely discussed phase of development, whilst taking a critical look at the unjust systems and power structures impacting motherhood and creating necessary shifts towards liberation.
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Dear Mama,
Who is the girl the woman who survived in the belly of the boat that brought you here? Where did she come from? How do we find our way back to that place? Why should we find our way back to that place? In this episode, WE JOURNEY & Dr. Gina Paige, co-founder of African Ancestry is ridin with us! Along the way:
✨Thea shares the profound impact of tracing African roots through DNA had on her
✨NeKisha reveals the impact Dr. Paige’s business model had on her journey as a tech innovator
✨Dr. Paige reminds us that the ancestors are a cloud of witnesses always working in our favor with a beautiful story about Chadwick Boseman.
But the road isn't always smooth. We delve into some tough terrain when Crystal shares a personal story about her trip to South Africa that brought her face to face with the complexities and idealizations of her African Heritage.
💗Black Mama Magic Card for this episode: Card # 39 - My Children Are My Teachers💗
EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:
🎙️DBM Ep 4: How I Made It Ova
🎙️DBM Ep 27 The Upper Room
✨MERCH OF THE MONTH - Black Mama Magic Card Deck ✨
✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Issa Black Thang: Default Oven Temperatures✨
ABOUT OUR GUEST:
Dr. Gina Paige, co-founder of African Ancestry, Inc. (AfricanAncestry.com), is a pioneering luminary known for revolutionizing African lineage tracing through genetics. Starting her entrepreneurial journey at age 8 with a magazine to fund family trips. Before AfricanAncestry.com, she led GPG Strategic Marketing Resources. Paige travels globally to demystify African roots, promoting Black identity empowerment through ancestral connections. She has traced the ancestry of prominent figures like Oprah Winfrey, John Legend, and Chadwick Boseman. A sought-after speaker and partner for corporations like Netflix and Nike, Paige collaborates with community and faith-based organizations worldwide. Featured in Time Magazine and on platforms like PBS' Finding Your Roots, Paige co-hosted African Ancestry Radio and appeared on MSNBC and CNN. She holds degrees from Stanford University and the University of Michigan Ross School of Business and received an Honorary Doctor of Philosophy.
Connect with Dr. Gina Paige: Instagram | Website
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Dear Mama
You are worthy to rise each day and dance in your dreams with your children by your side.
You are worthy of serenity in birth.
You are worthy of joy while holding your children.
Join Midwife Jamarah Amani of Southern Birth Justice in partnership with the WNBA for a meditation experience to remind you: You are complete. You are not alone. You are magic.
Meditations by Mamas are led by Black mamas to help us maintain alignment with healing, creativity, and liberation to manifest joy and abundance.
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Dear Mama,
What if I told you understanding menopause was a matter of life and death? In her 2022 book You Got Anything Stronger, Gabrielle Union went into deep detail about how in her words, “the surge and retreat of hormones” during perimenopause and menopause caused her to have passive suicidal ideations and pointed out that science has focused on hiding symptoms or treating the symptoms of menopause that have mattered most to men like vaginal dryness. The part of Union’s book that made me pause (see what I did there) was when Union stated, “According to a 2020 CDC study, the suicide rate among women is highest for those ages 45-64” and calls out how women’s depression is often linked to men or their children, focusing on the external features of women’s lives and not the internal. That’s when I knew we had to do an episode about Menopause and I knew just who turn to Omisade Burney Scott s creator of the platform Black Girl’s Guide to Surviving Menopause which includes a podcast of the same name.
Black Mama Creative Week is the perfect time to drop this episode. Burney-Scott is a trailblazer in this field and roots her work in her spirituality producing creative projects such as Messages From the Menopausal Multiverse. In this episode, we talk:
👉🏾Listening to your body
👉🏾Menopause & spirituality
👉🏾Deciding to have the best sex of your life
👉🏾Bonus Content: The greatest story Nekisha ever told & why her Daddy is a REAL ONE!
So thanks for coming inside the Black Mama Magic Room. If you’re a new listener, welcome to the ride. Remember Black Mama Creative Week kicks off Saturday, June 24th & we’re hosting a workshop on podcasting called Ask Us Anything: Composing Dynamic Questions to Create Compelling Interviews and one for entrepreneurs and Black Mama Creatives called Being the Blueprint: Tools to Help Black Mama Creatives and Entrepreneurs Design a New Path. To sign up go to www.demblackmamas.com/events .
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INVEST IN US
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Dear Mama,
Our hope for you today is:
✨ For you to honor the truth of your motherhood journey
✨ Space to heal from harm, disappointment & trauma
✨ Rest in your being to release yourself from attaching your worthiness to doing
In this special mother’s day episode we celebrate Black Motherhood through poetry, imagination and meditation with a poem by me Crystal Tennille Irby, Image a new world with NeKisha Killings and a Liberation Meditation from Thea Monyee.
Celebrate your whole self. It all belongs.
Happy Mothers Day Black Mamas & don't forget Black Mama Creative Week kicks off Saturday, June 24th!
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SHOW US SOME LOVE
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Dear Mama,
Dream with me. Can you imagine a world with a Black midwife in every family, in every community, easily accessible, at our fingertips, a world in which birth choices aren’t controlled by capitalism, a world in which the birth practices that Black women used to literally birth this country are honored, a world in which they are revered, a world in which Black midwives could practice the full scope of reproductive health and reproductive choices are respected, a world in which Black mothers don’t fear death in the midst of giving birth, experience it with fully joy and bodily autonomy. It’s Black Maternal Health Week and we are grateful for the opportunity to sit with two people invested in building that world: Jamarah Amani, founder of National Black Midwives Alliance & cofounder of Southern Birth Justice Network & filmmaker K. Sanderson In this episode we’re talking:
👉🏾Harriet Tubman & midwifery (Yeah we ain’t even know)
👉🏾Why the medical system fears Black midwifery (I mean we know why but still)
👉🏾The fight & journey to answer your calling (chiiilllleee this got deep)
👉🏾Their documentary series Legacy Power Voice: Movements in Black Midwifery (cause WE KNO what happens when other people tell our stories)
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✨MERCH OF THE MONTH - MAGIC EVERMORE BOX ✨
The intention of this box is for Black Mamas to honor the light within themselves. The items inside the Magic Evermore box will prepare Black mamas to soak up all the energy of the sun all summer and remind them of the importance of documenting themselves, the power to manifest the life you want, and to soften and pour into yourself when your mothership hits rough waters. Items inside:
✨Full Black Mama Magic Card Deck
✨Manifestation Crystals: Citrine, Pyrite, Rose Quartz, Blue Apatite
✨Incense from Smell Good Spa
✨Mama Magic: Evermore Picture Frame
✨Postcards
✨Gratitude Jar
✨Herbs: Jasmine, Eucalyptus, & Lavender
✨An investment in yourself and in Dem Black Mamas Podcast. When you invest in us, you are investing in a platform curated by three women actively creating spaces of healing, creativity & liberation.
ABOUT OUR GUESTS
Jamarah Amani, LM is a community midwife who believes in the transformative and healing power of birth and that every baby has a human right to human milk. Her mission is to do her part to build a movement for Birth Justice locally, nationally and globally. Jamarah is the architect of the Birth Justice framework, the Black Midwives Model of Care and the Birth Justice Bill of Rights. Jamarah identifies as Black, Femme and Queer. A community organizer from the age of sixteen, Jamarah has worked with several organizations across the United States, the Caribbean and in Africa on various public health issues, including HIV prevention, infant mortality risk reduction, access to emergency contraception and access to midwifery care. As a birth worker and activist, Jamarah has been tackling issues of racial justice, including the epidemics of Black maternal and infant morbidity/mortality for over fifteen years. She is currently the Executive Director of Southern Birth Justice Network, (https://southernbirthjustice.org/) a 501(c)3 non-profit organization working to expand the Birth Justice movement and to make midwifery and doula care accessible to marginalized communities. She is also the co-founder of National Black Midwives Alliance, (https://blackmidwivesalliance.org/) the only national professional association in the U.S. specifically for midwives of African descent, and a founding member of the Queer and Transgender Midwives Association.
Karyl-Lyn Sanderson (they/them), affectionately known as K, is a non-binary visionary, artist and entrepreneur with over 20 years of work experience as a digital media producer. K’s mission is to shift societal paradigms while enriching and advancing the lives of those they serve. With their daring and joyful spirit, K takes on projects that bring greater exposure to causes and issues of importance. For over a decade, K created groundbreaking media as the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of Limitless New Media, an independently operated creative studio that designed a wide array of original content for community, educational and faith-based initiatives. K is an alumni of NYU’s Tisch School of the Arts, Film and Television Production program.
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There are two things that happen to everyone in this life that we don’t talk about - birth and death - both can challenge and transform everything we believe in. They can be messy and uncomfortable roads to travel and sometimes art can help us through. In Black Panther Ryan Coogler proved he is a master at guiding us through uncomfortable conversations & in this episode we are joined by one of our faves Michele Foss of The TV Doctor Podcast to talk about how Coogler guides us through grief in Wakanda Forever. We can’t think of a better way to kick off Women’s History Month than talking about a film held together by Black women & centers the mother daughter relationship. May we never forget and ALWAYS celebrate their work. In this episode we’re talking:
👉🏾The impact of Black grief
👉🏾The return of Kilmonger in that white sweater with NO SHIRT
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Dr. Michele Foss (she/her) challenges us all to reconsider our relationship with television. She is the creator, producer, and host of The TV Doctor (https://www.thetvdoc.com/), a podcast in which she uses her training, instinct, and empathy to “prescribe” the very best TV show to heal your emotional ailments. When she’s not “making the rounds” as a speaker and podcaster, she is Professor of Rhetoric and Media at Sacramento State University, where she teaches classes including Television Criticism, Rhetoric and Social Influence, and Media Aesthetics. You should feel free to greet her with the Vulcan salute or a few words of Klingon; she is also fluent in RuPaul’s Drag Race-isms and lyrics from ‘80s music. She is an advocate for social justice, an activist for anti-racism, and a firm believer in putting “DONE” items on your “TO-DO” list, just for the pleasure of crossing them off. Show Michele some love and follow her and her podcast on IG: @thecuriouscaseofmfoss @theteeveephd
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Hey Mamas! The election dust has settled, MLK’s birthday is in our rearview mirror & February is on the horizon which means we are rested and hopeful so now is the perfect time to look at the political landscape for Black folx with clear eyes. Yup! It’s the Black Mama Magic Election Update. Our first episode was in response to the 2016 election and we haven’t missed an election cycle yet. In this episode we talk: about how we feel now vs. 2016, what gives us hope, In this episode we talk:
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What if I told you conscious parenting wasn’t about your children, it was about your journey to freedom, about you creating the life and relationship you desire about leaving behind a system that you and your children may be highly functioning in but it’s in fact causing harm and it just don’t feel good. These are the beautiful revelations we discovered in our conversation with liberation partner and conscious parenting coach Domari Dickinson. This conversation is about more than conscious parenting, it’s about how Black mothers can free ourselves from the myths and shackles of motherhood. We are diving deep into finding liberation in the Black motherhood experience, for our children and for ourselves over the next three episodes and Domari Dickinson kicks this series off in a powerful way. In this episode we talk:
👉🏾The relationship between conscious parenting and Raheem Davaughn (it's there 🤣)
👉🏾The good, bad, the ugly of transitioning to conscious parenting
👉🏾Repairing your relationship with adult children (chiiilllleee we got healing to do 🙏🏿)
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Stop waiting for the big moment. Celebrate now. Celebrate the big things, the small things, the major milestones and the minor ones even if they’re only meaningful to you, even if they come much later than you expected. Instead of judging the journey, rest in gratitude. Our celebration is a thank you to God, Spirit, the universe, the ancestors, the orishas, the angels and our very own souls for all they’ve done, for clearing our path, for holding us, standing with us, carrying us. We celebrate this 50th episode. We are grateful to you and most of all we are grateful for the journey and we trust the expansion that lies ahead.
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For today’s mac and cheese, we are speaking to Parthenia Luke. Parthenia is a social worker by passion and profession. She’s passionate about social justice as it pertains to the human right to be and to belong. As an emerging scholar working towards a PhD in social work, she aims to shed light on the long-term implications of gentrification, especially for individual residents and for entire communities. Her passions carry into her work as an instructor in higher education, where she advises administrators and leads efforts to promote a more inclusive, diverse, and equitable experience for graduate and undergraduate students. We dig in deep into our mac and cheese today as we discuss her challenges in social justice work, Liberia, her family’s history, and what Black mamas can learn about liberation beyond borders.
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This is why we created Black Mama Creative Week - a series of digital events starting on June 24th to June 30th. Because motherhood is not the graveyard of dreams. Motherhood is an opportunity to expand and dive deeper into your creativity. So celebrate the ingenuity and innovation of black motherhood with us and get ready to inspire and be inspired. Check our show notes on our website (demblackmamas.com/podcast) for all links mentioned in this episode, including the link to purchase your Magic Evermore Box.
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From Rosewood, Florida to Tulsa Oklahoma Black folx have always been about the the business of building sustainable thriving communities. What if I told you we are in the midst of the same opportunity now? What if I told you we could build communities rooted in healing, creativity and liberation? What if I told you the real estate is in the palm of your hands? Yup I’m talking about the interwebs. In this episode writer, content creator, sociologist, abolitionist, womanist, and intersectional feminist Nikki Blak gives us the tools to cultivate our virtual real estate and challenges us to think about the internet, in particular social media as an infinite canvas and a rushing river. Imagine That! So if you are trying to find your footing in these internet streets, if you are trying to find your folks, if you are a creative, innovator, if you have a story to tell, a message in your gut burning with the fierce urgency of now, or you have grown weary and frustrated with the interwebs period THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU!
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The Mother Ship hit some unchartered territory and It got TIIIIGHT in the up #BlackMamaMagic room but WE AIN’T NEVA scared so we allowed and trusted. We discussed what it means to surrender, reconciling our ancestors spiritual agreements with their human existence, allowing our children to impact our works and how to make yo booty sit high-ya.
Our guest Precious Bivings affectionately known as Coach P helped me discover the tools I needed to transform my life into a powerful transformative creative experience. If you wanna go higher, keep listening. If you wanna be stretched, keep listening. If you wanna find your power, we got you this episode. If you want yo booty to sit up HIGH-YA. KEEP LISSENIN!
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Dear Mama, We all deserve the grace and permission to explore our shadows and cradle ourselves in radical honesty. After losing the desire to continue producing our podcast, I went on an unexpected hiatus where I found the answers I was looking for. WE BACK & Today, Thea and Nekisha are riding shotgun with me as we all share our journey looking back at what 2021 taught us and where we’re headed in 2022.
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When it comes to Black Maternal Health, our work is not over when Black mothers survive and the child is born alive and we will not let it fade into our peripheral. In this episode we discuss being invited to do an art installation for Project Row Houses Round 50 entitled Race, Motherhood, and Health. We also discuss the importance of art in this movement and art’s capacity like nothing else to creep into the crevices of culture and push us forward. Before we jump into that convo we take a discuss witnessing our children during hard situations inspired by card number 19 from our Black Mama Magic Card Deck which reads I honor my child’s divine path. We hope this episode reminds you that motherhood is not the graveyard of dreams, that our children are divine beings on their own divine journey, and when your mothership hits rough waters to soften.
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Dear Mama,
Come celebrate with us. Celebrate this beautiful mothering journey. Celebrate with us the powerful legacy of Black motherhood that always offers healing, is abundant in creativity, and expands liberation. We are celebrating Women’s History Month by elevating the radical work of mothers raising transgender children. In this episode guests midwife Jamarah Amani & Michelle are Black mothers building a Promise Land rooted in equity and love.
We would like to say thank you for your patience during our unexpected hiatus while I was healing from COVID.
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#DearMama We have a right to explore all the ways to tap into our freedom. Motherhood should be an opportunity, an experience, a journey of expansion. Liberation is about breaking down any barrier that binds you, even borders. We must always be willing to do whatever AND GO wherever we can to be free this lifetime.
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We wish for you tranquility, security and the unshakable knowing that you are enough.
Just as you are.
Your life is not for the purpose of comparing to others. Your life is your own and you are your own best thing.
Join Intentional Living Coach, Community Organizer & Mentor, and Kids Cultivator Home School Founder & Co-Leader, Leslie Bray for a #MeditationByMamas experience that will help you to set your intentions and move forward confidently, knowing that you are enough.
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We're leaving an old year behind and naturally, it's got us yearning to be untethered. It's got us wanting to feel new. We feel strong, full of possibility and brimming with hope, daring to believe that going forward we can do what we were never able to in the past -- get all the way free.
Join Muffy Mendoza in our newest installment of #MeditationsByMamas to feel empowered and ready to pursue liberation.
Muffy Mendoza is a tribe builder, informational and motivational speaker, author and executive director at Brown Mamas, a Pittsburgh-based fiscally sponsored nonprofit that works to provide moms-of-color with positive socialization opportunities and connect them with the resources and information they need to raise happy, healthy adults.
Most notably, Muffy is known for having cultivated a community of nearly 5,000 African-American moms hungry for social change due to a lack of safe spaces for moms-of-color in the Pittsburgh region.
Muffy has leveraged this platform to author her first book, The Brown Mama Mindset, that was featured at the 2018 Essence Festival and is currently sold at various cities across the U.S.
In 2019 Muffy was nominated for an Iris Award for her outstanding work as an activist and influencer.
As if building a massive tribe of moms isn’t enough, Muffy stays focused on tribe building at home as a homeschooling mom of 3 boys and wife of one awesome husband.
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You have a right to rest.
You do not have to earn it. You ought not have to fight for it. You are worthy of this and so much more.
Join Jasmin Forts for #MeditationWithMamas experience that we need right now! We know you're busy being everything to everyone but take a moment to listen to this.
Jasmin is the self-proclaimed AntiHustle Professional and Founder of A Rested Working Woman & A Sisters Siesta, a career and support group services specializing in practical maintenance and mental health resources for professional black women.
She has been featured on several publications such as Black Enterprise and Teen Vogue sharing her insight on HR practices and anything supporting wellness for professional black women.
She is the author of “A Sisters Siesta: A Pocketbook Guide of Positivity, HR Protocol, and Vignettes for the Professional Black Woman” and coaches hundreds of women needing support to excel professionally.
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Put yourself on time out, go to an empty room or a quiet corner, and just allow your chest to expand with breath.
Feel gratitude. Feel frustration. Feel whatever it is that you need to feel for that moment, without self-judgment.
Allow yourself to simply be.
Exist fully and unapologetically in your Blackness. Suspend yourself in love. Love for self, love for our people, love for your children, love for your partner.
And then you can get back to everything & everyone. Just remember; first, you are everything thing to yourself.
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Crystal Tennille Irby is a spoken word poetry grand slam champion, published writer, director and identifies as a #BlackMamaCreative, an artist creating work across multiple artistic disciplines centering Black women and mothering, absent of the white gaze. She is the current co-host and executive producer of Dem Black Mamas Podcast, a podcast that delves into the unique experience of Black mothers raising free children in an unfree world. Crystal is a TEDxGreenville presenter, a Watering Hole Poetry Fellow and the founder and Director of Writers Well Youth Fellowship, a program for Black girls ages 14-19 focused on writing and performance. Her recent credits include, Untitled Reconstruction Project, which she directed and co-produced and Untamed Womb: Reclaiming Wonder Through Healing, Liberation & Creativity, a Project Row Houses installation which she co-curated. Crystal has presented at numerous conferences including Black Maternal Health Conference & Training Institute; Let’s Talk About Sex, & HIV Prevention & Education Summit. In addition to her creative endeavors, Crystal has over 15 years of experience working to dismantle systemic and institutional racism. She works as a community doula helping Black birth persons stay connected to their body and as a facilitator for Speaking Down Barriers pushing communities forward by helping Black people heal from race and gender trauma.
Crystal is the mother of 4 children and shares her life with an Omega man.
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As we head to the polls and anticipate the outcome of this year's presidential election, the Mamas have a plan to prepare you for the political and social aftermath of what has been a tumultuous year & OF COURSE we got that #BlackMamaMagic #ElectionPlaylist: http://bit.ly/blackmamamagicelectionplaylist
This week's serious subject is infused with signature Dem Black Mamas humor and insights informed by a Black, womanist, and inherently intersectional feminist perspective.
Come get this truth and exhale the "amen" and "ashé" you didn't know was brewing in your spirit all this time.
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In this episode #BlackMamaMagic + #AggiePride = Janiya Mitnaul Williams (@mrswilliamswiththesons), mother of four, founder of Mahogany Milk Support Group (@mahoganymilk) and literally works everyday to change the trajectory of the health outcomes among Black people as the current Program Director of the Pathway 2 Human Lactation Training Program at North Carolina A&T, the 1st lactation certification program at a public HBCU.
Our desire is to expand the conversation around breastfeeding beyond the physical to the spiritual and position breastfeeding as a critical element of the movement for Black Lives. We need more of us showing us how to feed our babies in the thriving Promise Land we imagine. So we are excited to have a conversation with a Black Mama laying this critical foundation for liberation.
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In Episode 34: Black Mama Love, we celebrate our favorite Black mamas of television, film, and literature as well as discuss our favorite creatives, moments with or own mamas, and our children. We're talking about the best advice, dreams for our children, spreading joy, and enjoying some much needed, well-deserved laughter. We hope you have as much fun listening as we did recording.
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Changing oppressive ideologies and false narratives begin with us, in our homes and communities, and often in our own bodies, hearts, and minds.
Now is the time to allow your inner child to speak. Listen intently to her. Speak to her, praise, and affirm her.
Give Black girls the care they deserve by starting with yourself.
Cassandre (@withlovecassandre) is a mom of 2 spirited boys, wife to her husband of 8 years, doctor, and educator. Years of 'doing it all' finally culminated in severe burnout following the traumatic birth of her now 18-month-old son. Now, she is passionate about self-care practices for Black millennial women- especially moms - who've been socialized to be self-sacrificing since birth. She is also host of the Be Well, Sis podcast (@bewellsis_podcast) - a wellness podcast dedicated to providing resources and having candid conversations for Black millennial women to be their best selves physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
#MeditationsByMamas are lead by Black mamas to help us maintain in alignment with healing, creativity, and liberation to manifest joy and abundance. ⠀
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Fresh out of Black Mama Creative Week, we've got a wonderful #newepisode for you.
Tune in for a rich discussion with Haitian American Mama featuring our special guest co-host Stepha Lafond of Mama Slay Life! We cover Stepha’s birth story, her journey from Haiti to America, motherhood and the diverse views of Black diaspora’s relationship to Africa.
Stepha is a motherhood transition coach who is dedicated to helping moms navigate the delicate space between who they were and who they are still becoming. Her services and programs infuse personal development and spirituality and are designed to help moms reclaim their personal power so they can do life and motherhood on their own terms.
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It's time for #blackmamacreativeweek and a #newepisode of Dem Black Mamas!
Tune in to Episode 31: Ritual in Creativity as we go deep with the amazing Akilah S. Richards (@fareofthefreechild) to learn about unlocking creativity through ritual.
Akilah S. Richards is an absolute force of nature. She is the host of Fare of the Free Child, a lifestyle and parenting podcast about the connection between liberation, learning, and parenting, particularly among BIPOC communities. The voice and work of this Jamaican-born, digital nomad, have been featured on NPR, NBC TV, Good Morning America's blog, and in several literary and in-person spaces throughout the U.S., Jamaica, and South Africa. She is a TEDx Speaker, an accomplished digital content writer, and sought-after facilitator whose highly-anticipated book, Raising Free People: Unschooling as Liberation and Healing Work (PM Press), will be released in the Fall of 2020.
We are made more whole by her wisdom and honored to have her as a special guest during Black Mama Creative Week.
For full show notes, check our website.
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When civilizations fall, art remains to tell the story. The story we want to remain for this moment in time is our love for you. #Juneteenth reminds us that our culture is a magnificent love story.
Thank you to Shaira Lanice & Anya Doula for lending your voices.
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As the founder of Black Mom's Guide to Calm, Jamie Fleming works with mamas (and women) who are tired of being burned out, stressed out, and worn out and are ready to do something about it. She teaches them how to create calm in the chaos of their daily lives. Black Mom’s Guide to Calm is a safe space for stressed out mommies to overcome their overwhelm and find inner peace, joy, wholeness and relief.
#MeditationsByMamas are lead by Black mamas to help us maintain in alignment with healing, creativity and liberation to manifest joy and abundance.
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Thea is the one of the cohost of #DemBlackMamas & mother of three. She has recently launched her own podcast Shaping the Shift, available on all streaming platforms. Shaping the Shift is a podcast about change and uncertainty for dreamers and creatives. It is a mouthpiece for MARLEYAYO, the creative wellness consulting company founded by Thea Monyee with the goal to actively support and create tools to reverse the adverse effects of colonization and enslavement by liberating marginalized people around the globe through joy, pleasure, creativity, and intentional decolonization. The vision is to create and nurture a multi-dimensional organism that prioritizes the reintegration of spirit and liberation through education, entertainment, consulting, and land stewardship.
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Dr. Sayida Peprah, Psychologist/Doula/#BlackMaternalMentalHealth advocate
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Anya works as a birth doula in the Greater Houston area and host of Intercultured Podcast. She worked as a nurse for over 15 years in women's health services. Anya became a Licensed Vocational Nurse while serving in the U.S. Army. Most of her nursing experience has been working in private practice OBGYN offices caring for women throughout the lifespan. Anya left working in the medical industry in order to offer holistic, family-centered, culturally competent care. She is committed to doing her part in reducing the maternal mortality rates, especially for black women.
#MeditationsByMamas are lead by Black mamas who want to help us maintain in alignment with healing, creativity and liberation to manifest joy and abundance.
And yall know the deal don’t just listen subscribe and follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamaspodcast so you won’t miss an episode. Please keep emailing us, keep engaging with us through social media comments, your reviews, and SoundCloud comments. Keep sharing us, even if it’s only with one other person. If you’re a new listener, welcome to the ride. Invest in us by becoming a DBM patron, buying merch or giving a one time donation. For full show notes check our website demblackmamas.com. Now let’s get free yall and jump into Episode 29 of Dem Black Mamas!
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DeMane Davis is a TV Director and a Producing Director. Ava DuVernay graciously asked her to direct two episodes of the second season of her groundbreaking TV series Queen Sugar which airs on OWN which has changed the entire landscape (and the numbers) by only hiring female directors and specifically hiring first-time female directors. Ava asked DeMane to be producing director of season three. In addition to producing the entire season she directed three episodes, including the premiere. Queen Sugar was recently renewed for a fifth season! Since then DeMane has directed on For The People; The Red Line for CBS, How To Get Away With Murder, Station 19 and YOU for Netflix. She was also Producing Director on Self Made: Inspired by Madam CJ Walker a four part series which premieres on Netflix on March 20th. She directed the last two episodes. Most recently she's been back to Shondaland to direct an episode of their final season of How To Get Away With Murder. Her episode airs in April of 2020! She is also a Commercial Director and is with Sweet Rickey, a collaborative, female-owned production company versed in creating original content. DeMane is a Sundance Fellow Class of 97 and two of the features she wrote premiered in competition at The Sundance Film Festival. LIFT, Kerry Washington’s first solo feature, is available on Amazon. In addition directing, she is also a Freelance Copywriter/Creative Director and voiceover talent. Self Made details the life of America’s first self-made millionaire — how she fought for social change and simultaneously overcame post-slavery racial and gender biases, personal betrayals, and business rivalries to build a ground-breaking brand that revolutionized black haircare.
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It's #BlackHistoryMonth #BlackHealingMonth and we are so excited to kick of #MeditationsByMamas lead by Black mamas who want to help us maintain in alignment with healing, creativity and liberation to manifest joy and abundance. Our first mediation is a Full Moon/Shedding Meditation lead by Stepha LaFond.
Stepha is a motherhood transition coach who is dedicated to helping moms navigate the delicate space between who they were and who they are still becoming. Her services and programs infuse personal development and spirituality and are designed to help moms reclaim their personal power so they can do life and motherhood on their own terms.
Full moon meditations are most effective on the day of the full moon, three days before or three days after. The full moon phase is a time of reflection to let go of things or relationships that are no longer serving you or holding you back. It's also a time to surrender and embrace the unknown as an opportunity to transform.
Dear Mama: We carry history in our wombs and we can create history in our wombs. These are words of our guest Sista Midwife Nicole Deggins. The stats on Black maternal health are not our legacy and don’t have to be our destiny. This isn’t a long intro because this episode is packed and we want you to jump right into it. We go from why it’s important to live the #HelloFreshFluffandFoldLife to expanding the work of Black Maternal Health & why doula’s make a difference. You have a few more days to sign up with the Sista Midwife’s Doula training in Los Angeles. It’s gon be lit yall! Check our show notes for the registration link. As always thanks for rockin with us. Don’t just listen subscribe and follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamaspodcast so you won’t miss an episode. Please keep emailing us, keep engaging with us through social media comments, your reviews, and SoundCloud comments. Keep sharing us, even if it’s only with one other person. If you’re a new listener, welcome to the ride. Invest in us by becoming a DBM patron, buying merch or giving a one time donation. For full show notes check our website demblackmamas.com. Now let’s get free yall and jump into Episode 28!
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Church Announcements/Prayer Requests:
Project Row House Installation
Thea Monyee: GoDaddy Maker
Hello Fresh Code
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If you’re feeling like you’re in quicksand, disconnected, or running on empty, then this is the episode for you! It is a reminder to not to limit spirit, that spirit is in EVERYTHING and we must continue to dig deeper for a higher connection. In this episode we revisit Episode 4 How I Made It Ova, recorded two years ago and evaluate our spiritual evolution since then. This is an “Empty the Crates” episode meaning we recorded it a while back and never released it. So some of the commentary may be a little dated. It’s still a gem though yall. Listen & ask yourself: What do I need to be rooted in to gain alignment on all levels of my being, in every aspect of my identity to manifest the life I need for me and my children to thrive? Let us know what your answer is or even if you couldn’t come up with an answer send us your thoughts and questions about this episode.
As always thanks for rockin with us. Don’t just listen subscribe and follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamaspodcast so you won’t miss an episode. Please keep emailing us, keep engaging with us through social media comments, your reviews, and SoundCloud comments. Keep sharing us, even if it’s only with one other person. If you’re a new listener, welcome to the ride. Invest in us by becoming a DBM patron, buying merch or giving a one time donation. For full show notes check our website demblackmamas.com. Now let’s get free yall and jump into Episode 27!
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Church Announcements/Prayer Requests:
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Sista Midwife Doula Training w/ Nicole Deggins, Los Angeles,
Nov 8th-10 & November 15th-18th
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Revisiting Episode 4 (How I Made It Ova) & evaluating the evolution of our spirituality
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The Afiya Center
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Black Mama Say:
“Truth Is…”
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Dear Mama,
Take a trip with me back to when you read your first book by Terry McMillian, E. Lynn Harris or Eric Jerome Dickey and their names & their characters names rolled off our tongues like family members. These authors wrote Blackness without explanation or apology. In these books we were allowed to love, fail, explore, and soar without the weight of being flattened by whiteness. Above all else those books were page turning fun! If you, your mama, or Auntie cut their grown-ness on these books then you’ll love this episode and our guest Frederick Smith & Chaz Lamar, authors of In Case You Forgot, the story of two newly single, Black, queer, and socially aware men who have packed up to start again--in love, career, and life--in the West Hollywood neighborhood of LA. Zaire James, on the cusp of 30, has decided marriage isn't all it's cracked up to be. Despite friends, family, and coworkers loving Zaire's "perfect" partner, divorce is a necessary step for finding himself and being free. Kenny Kane has made a career of deferring dreams, lowering expectations, and chasing partners not on his level in hopes of finding a love to call his own. However, on the verge of the big 4-0, he realizes the clock is ticking on all his dreams. As Zaire and Kenny undo the significant relationships of their pasts, they hope new opportunities, energy, mindsets, and connections will reinvigorate what is missing in their lives--drama and all. In this episode we delve into this juicy book and all it’s layers, the tension & love between Black women and queer Black men, heteronormativity, Black trauma, healing and laugh ALOT. In Case You Forgot is published by Bold Strokes Book and is available wherever you buy books. As always thanks for rockin with us. Don’t just listen subscribe and follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamaspodcast so you won’t miss an episode. Please keep emailing us, keep engaging with us through social media comments, your reviews, and SoundCloud comments. Keep sharing us, even if it’s only with one other person. If you’re a new listener, welcome to the ride. Invest in us (all links in our show notes on our website) by becoming a DBM patron, buying merch or giving a one time donation. Now let’s get free yall...
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*My Daughter’s Keeper by Mark Winkler
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*In Case You Forgot
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Chaz Lamar: Instagram | Twitter | YouTube
Bold Strokes Books: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook
Collection Plate Causes: The National Network of Abortion Funds
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Black Mama Say: “Las Time I Checked”
SYLLABUS
*The Verbal Contract: Actions vs Words - Truth Talks with Thea Monyee https://youtu.be/xNiSy_656xs
*Books by Frederick Smith:
Down for Whatever | Play It Forward | Right Side of the Wrong Bed
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Dear Mama: Let all the myths of motherhood crumble at your feet. Dig motherhood out from under the rock of sacrifice. Look at your children and be willing to be a student, be willing to receive. See them as path makers and pathfinders. It is work. It takes presence. It takes an open heart and a willing soul. All the things white supremacy is built to beat out of us. The truth is, if we are committed to building the Promise Land outside of us by dismantling systemic and institutional oppression, then we've got to be willing to build a Promise Land within us. This is not to say that motherhood is easy; that it's not frustrating and exhausting but it ain't the thing killing us. White supremacy is. This is our prayer for every Black mother. This is our declaration for #BlackMamaCreativeWeek - Motherhood is not the graveyard of dreams.
We’re excited to be joined in this episode by one of our Patron Donna Jeneen and National Book Award nominee Margaret Wilkerson Sexton. Thank you for supporting us all week. If you missed any of our Facebook Lives, you can still check them out on our Facebook page and we will have all of our live videos up on YouTube by Tuesday, July 2nd. Please be sure to tag us and use the hashtag #BlackMamaCreative #BlackMamaCreativeWeek #BMCW19 Let us know how your felt about the week by emailing us and engaging with us through social media comments. Please keep sharing us, even if it’s only with one other person. If you’re a new listener, welcome to the ride. Invest in us (all links in our show notes on our website) by becoming a DBM patron, buying merch or giving a one time donation. now let’s get free yall and jump into Part 1 of Episode 25 of (Insert the girls saying Dem Black Mamas)
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Sista Midwife Nicole Deggin Doula Training November 2019, LA: https://courses.sistamidwife.com/courses/losangeles
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Dear Mama: We believe EVERY BLACK MAMA matters and when we say EVERY we mean EVERY. This episode is dedicated to the mamas giving birth in the belly of the beast of white supremacy, the US prison system, and the birth workers like our guest Doula Chauntel Norris who refuse to sit and wait for the world to change but live the words of Audre Lorde, we are ones we’ve been waiting for.
We appreciate your support and ask you to to please keep emailing us, keep engaging with us through social media comments, your reviews, and SoundCloud comments. Please keep sharing us, even if it’s only with one other person. If you’re a new listener, welcome to the ride. Invest in us (all links in our show notes on our website) by becoming a DBM patron, buying merch or giving a one time donation. Now let’s get free yall and jump into Episode 24.
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Church Announcements/Prayer Requests: Support NeKisha's breastfeeding group Cubs Cafe Breastfeeding Family Support Group for Families of Color in LA & we're hosting a doula training in LA in November lead by Sista Midwife Nicole Deggins Doula
Chauntel is booked and busy. She'll be speaking at March for Moms and presenting at the United States Breastfeeding Conference ; Baobob Birth Certified Lactation Training 7/15-7/19
Thea Monyee takes a deep dive into pleasure: Pleasure Noir Webinar; S/o to Jimanekia Eborn who created Healing Box in collaboration with Kink Kit for sexual assault survivors and their partners
Mac & Cheese: Doula Chauntel Norris discusses her work as a Doula with the Alabama Prison Birth Project
Collection Plate Causes: Black Mamas Matter Allliance
Black Mama Say: “Lawd’s willin"
Organizations
Minnesota Prison Doula Project
Pregnant In Prison Statistics (PIPS)
SisterSong
U.S. Prison Culture Blog
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Dear Mama: Let’s take a deep dive past sex tips and tricks, beyond stimulation and center pleasure. Pleasure lasts beyond orgasms. Pleasure pours into us, inspires us and touches our deepest creativity. We’re talking nude yoga, Black porn, weekday sex and kundalini so this is what we call an #EarbudsEpisode meaning this episode contains explicit language of a sexual nature so you may wanna ask your little ones to put their earbuds in or pop yours in.
We wanna hear from you. So please keep emailing us, keep engaging with us through social media comments, your reviews, and SoundCloud comments. Please keep sharing us, even if it’s only with one other person. If you’re a new listener, welcome to the ride. Invest in us (all links in our show notes on our website) by becoming a DBM patron, buying merch or giving a one time donation. Now let’s get free yall, let’s feel free yall, and discover our pleasure and jump into Episode 23.
SHOW LINE UP
Church Announcements/Prayer Requests: Crystal has a performance with RJ; Thea has a MAJOR breakthrough; Nekisha shares BIG news
Mac & Cheese: Mamas Pleasure Matters
Collection Plate Causes: Hillman The Game
Black Mama Say: Point Blank Period
DBM Episode 23 Syllabus:
Crystal Tennille Irby: http://crystaltennilleirby.com/
Nekisha Killings: https://www.nekishakillings.com/
Thea Monyee: https://theamonyee.com/
Courses:
Thea Monyee: #InnerGroundRailroad: A Psycho-Spiritual Framework for Supporting the Reclamation of Access to Joy & Pleasure for Black Folks (https://www.bgminstitute.com/p/the-inner-ground-railroad)
NeKisha: #BreastsideManner: A Patient-Centered Approach to Lactation Support (https://www.goldlearning.com/speaker/595/nekisha-killings)
Show References:
Redefining Wealth hosted by Patrice Washington:
https://www.patricewashington.com/listen/
Drop Squad: A Spike Lee Film:
https://www.amazon.com/Drop-Squad-Eriq-LaSalle/dp/0783230540
Tao of Sexology:
https://www.amazon.com/Tao-Sexology-Book-Infinite-Wisdom/dp/0942196031/ref=sr_1_
1?keywords=tao+of+sexology&qid=1553486493&s=books&sr=1-1
Joan Morgan: Pleasure, Black Women & Being Creative (Video):
http://www.inherentdesignbyselalewis.com/joan-morgan-on-pleasure-black-women-and-being-creative/
Black women, sex toys, and pleasure: African American Women take pleasure into their own hands: https://thegrio.com/2012/06/18/black-women-sex-toys-and-pleasure-par
ties-african-american-women-take-pleasure-into-their-own-hands/
Joan Morgan on Black Sex, Identity and the Politics of Pleasure:
http://parlourmagazine.com/2013/02/joan-morgan-on-black-sex-identity-and-the-politics-of-pleasure/
Confidence and Joy Are the Keys to a Great Sex Life (Video):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=107&v=HILY0wWBlBM
Afrosexology: http://www.afrosexology.com/pillowtalk Afrosexology was birthed out of our desire to experience a more sex-positive Black community. One that encourages self agency & promotes love in regards to our bodies, relationships, and sexualities. One that liberates us from the sexual shame & policing that we've inherited from generations of sexual & body oppression. One that follows in the tradition of Black sexual politics by seeking to rediscover & reclaim our sexuality. Our mission is to educate, explore, and reclaim Black sexuality. Our vision is to promote Black self empowerment through sexual liberation.
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EPISODE INTRO & SHOW NOTES
#DearMamas Dear Village. Thank you for loving us, sharing us and engaging with us. Thank you to everyone who sent us questions and showed us some love. Thank you for thinking enough of us to want to hear from us. We are so grateful you want to connect with us. We don’t want Dem Black Mamas to be a presentation or monologue. We want Dem Black Mamas to be an energy exchange, a dialogue between three #BlackMamaCreatives and a conversation with you. So please keep emailing us, keep engaging with us through social media comments, your reviews, and SoundCloud comments. And keep sharing us, even if it’s only with one other person. We are grateful for you and inspired by you. If you’re a new listener, welcome to the ride...And before we dive in, we keep it all the way real which means sometimes we get a little bit raw, so this episode contains explicit language of a sexual nature..now let’s get free yall
SHOW LINE UP
Church Announcements/Prayer Requests: Invest in DBM through Patreon.
We working yall! All three of us have online course available!
Crystal collaborates with Philadelphia FIGHT to host Dear Black Body Webinar
Thea launches her course #InnerGroundRailroad: A Psycho-Spiritual Framework for Supporting the Reclamation of Access to Joy & Pleasure for Black Folks
NeKisha launches #BreastsideManner Webinar and continuing series on breastfeeding
Mac & Cheese: Ask Us Anything: 1)A marriage without affection & no oral sex 2)Thea’s book & NeKisha’s advice to writers who self publish? 3)Pastor John Gray & “wives raising husbands” 4)Spankings 5)B. Smith
Collection Plate Causes: Speaking Down Barriers
Follow Speaking Down Barriers: FB IG Twitter
Black Mama Say: “You can take that to the bank...”
Follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamas.
LINKS
Black Girl Mixtape
FB https://www.facebook.com/blackgirlmixtape/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlmixtape/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/BlkGirlMixtape
Anita Yoshi Moreno of Iyami Doula Services
FB: https://www.facebook.com/iyamidoulaservices
Ways to Invest in Dem Black Mamas: https://teespring.com/stores/demblackmamaspodcast
Nikki & Nikki Career Lactation Consultants:
FB: https://www.facebook.com/iyamidoulaservices
IG: https://www.instagram.com/nikkiandnikkiibclc/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/NikkiNikkiIBCLC
All Heart Podcast
FB: https://www.facebook.com/allheartpodcast/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/allheartpodcast/
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SHOW LINE UP
Church Announcements/Prayer Requests: DBM merch; WOC Podcasters; Black Moms Connection; Thea talks about her Reiki Training and inspires Hall of Fame shade from NeKisha; NeKisha talks about an exclusive night at Disney and seeing #ForeverFLOTUS Michelle Obama live.
Mac & Cheese: Black Mama Feminist Jamilah Lemieux
Collection Plate Causes: Pregnancy In Prison Statistics (PIPS)
Black Mama Say: “At the end of the day...”
If you’re a first time listener, welcome to ride and be sure to subscribe wherever you’re listening. If you’re a returning listener, please keep the ratings and reviews on iTunes and Facebook coming. If you’re listening on SoundCloud your comments are welcomed and tap the heart if you liked the episode and if you really like it repost. Follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamas. If you’re feelin this episode we ask that you share, RT or repost but if you’re not big on sharing on social media, just share with one person who you feel can benefit from listening. You can also DM or email us at demblackmamas@gmail.com with your thoughts, questions or to just show us some love. We love hearing from you! Let’s get free yall!
LINKS
JAMILAH LEMIEUX
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JamilahLemieux
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jamilahlemieux/
CASHAWN THOMPSON
Twitter: https://twitter.com/theblkgrlmagic
IG: https://www.instagram.com/theblkgrlmagic/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheBlkGrlMagic/
LATHAN THOMAS (Glow Maven/Doula)
Twitter:https://twitter.com/GlowMaven
IG: https://www.facebook.com/LathamThomasGlowMaven/
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/LathamThomasGlowMaven/
TIFFANY De LEON (Reiki Master - Teacher)
IG: https://www.instagram.com/_holding.space_/
Invest in Dem Black Mamas: https://teespring.com/stores/demblackmamaspodcast
Nikki & Nikki Career Lactation Consultants: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCySgoTbyiCpREfGELEoeCKQ
All Heart Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/all-heart-podcast/id1409705304?mt=2
SYLLABUS
Eastern Body Western Mind
bell hooks: Ain’t I A Woman
Joan Morgan: When Chicken Heads Come Home to Roost: A Hip-Hop Feminist Breaks It Down
Michelle Wallace: Black Macho & the Myth of Superwoman
Why Black Mothers Are in a Life-or-Death Crisis
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Dear Mama,
Thank you for rocking with us for 20 episodes. My, my how we've grown together. This podcast is like our journal. In this episode we're gonna look back at all the moments that helped us grow. We hope you laugh, cry, exhale, learn, and heal. Love, real, free, Black Mama Magic Love, from Dem Black Mamas, Crystal, NeKisha, & Thea
SHOW OUTLINE
Clip 1 & 2 - Episode 2: Michelle 4C LaVaughn Chocolate Robinson
Clip 3 - Episode 3: OOOOHHHH Baby
Clip 4 - This clip is an outtake we cut from an episode.
Clip 5 - Episode 2: Michelle 4C LaVaughn Chocolate Robinson
Clip 6 - Episode 6: I Get It From My Mama
Clip 7 - Episode 12: Black Love
Clip 8: Episode 18: Deez Black Votes
Clip 9: Episode 15: Black Mama Creative
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There is no outline for this episode because we scrapped it. We felt heavy and decided to show up authentic. When we hit record, we had no idea where we were going and releasing this episode and laying bare all of our vulnerability is scary as the truth often is. The truth is this is where the healing is. The truth is this is how we get out of the valley, how we get to the mountaintop, how we get to freedom.
SHOW LINE UP
Church Announcements/Prayer Requests: DBM merch; NeKisha’ Birthday; Thea heals in real time from her Halloween trauma and Nekisha shares the good news of a rapture and resurrection of a different kind.
Mac & Cheese: Deez Black Votes
Collection Plate Causes: Black Mamas Matter Alliance
Black Mama Say: “Write a check yo ass can’t cash.”
Our DBM deal with Yara Imani is still in place. They are now offering 20% off of ALL MERCHANDISE with the code DEMBLACKMAMAS and Hili & Mac which is a mother daughter team whose passion is to bring the best skincare products to the market is offering 10% off of all products.
Please be sure to subscribe whenever you’re listening. Please keep the ratings and reviews on iTunes and Facebook coming. If you’re listening on SoundCloud your comments are welcomed and tap the heart if you liked the episode and if you really like it, repost. Follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamas. If you’re feelin this episode we ask that you share, RT or repost. If you’re not big on sharing on social media, just share with one person who you feel can benefit from listening . As always you can DM or email us at demblackmamas@gmail.com with your thoughts, questions or to just show us some love. We love hearing from you!
LINKS
Nikki & Nikki Career Lactation Consultants:
All Heart Podcast
ARTICLES
Black Candidates Train to Run and Win in a System Not Set Up for Them
CANDIDATES WE LOVE
Andrew Gillum
Stacey Abrams
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SHOW LINE UP
Church Announcements/Prayer Requests: Crystal has a new podcast; We’re giving away a Tshirt to anyone who can snap a picture of NeKisha in Chi-Town; and Thea is making good on her promise to developing Inner Ground Railroad for Black women by helping them access joy and pleasure through sex therapy.
Mac & Cheese: Dem Black Births
Collection Plate Causes: Black Mamas Matter Alliance
Black Mama Say: “Every eye open ain’t woke.”
And we've got DBM deals! Yara Imani is now offering 20% off of ALL MERCHANDISE with the code DEMBLACKMAMAS and Hili & Mac Apothecary is offering 10% off all merchandise with the code DEMBLACKMAMAS. Hili and Mac is a mother daughter team whose passion is to bring the best skincare, clothes, accessories, home, and spirituality products to the market.
If you’re listening on iTunes, please rate us and if you have a little more time please leave a review. You can also give us a review on Facebook. If you’re listening on SoundCloud your comments are welcomed and tap the heart if you liked the episode and if you really like it, repost. Follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamas If you’re feelin this episode we ask that you share, RT or repost but if you’re not big on sharing on social media, just share with one person who you feel can benefit from listening . As always you can DM or email us at demblackmamas@gmail.com with your thoughts, questions or to just show us some love. We love hearing from you!
LINKS:
Invest in Dem Black Mamas
Da Poetry Lounge
Black Infant Memorial
The Healing Wisdom of Africa
Birthmark Doulas
Black Maternal Health Conference & Training Institute
Nikki & Nikki Career Lactation Consultants
All Heart Podcast
VIDEOS:
Can trauma be passed on to the next generation?
All My Babies: A Midwife’s Own Story:
ARTICLES:
Maternal Mortality rates in the U.S. have risen steadily. Senator Kamala Harris has a plan to change that
Why Black Mothers and Babies are In a Life and Death Crisis
Hospitals Know How to Protect Mothers. They Just Aren’t Doing It.
Why Black Breastfeeding Week is so Important
Why We Need Blackbreasting Week
Playing Catch Up: Black Women and Breastfeeding
Mental Health Problems During Pregnancy are more common than you think
Granny Midwives of the South
CenteringPregnancy
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Dear Mama We often dream FOR our children. What if we dreamed WITH our children? What if we discovered who they are instead of trying to determine who they should become? What if we allowed them to dance outside the box no matter how much it scared us? What if we let our children be free? Our intention in this episode is to share how our personal journeys towards freedom impacted our parenting and inspire you to begin to parent from a place from freedom and not fear. As Black mothers we KNOW it’s difficult which is why the discussion is so necessary. Be sure to tag us on social media when sharing the episode and use the hashtag #DecolonizeParenting. Let's get free yall!
SHOW LINE UP
Church Announcements/Prayer Requests: DBM Partnerships & New Endeavors
Mac & Cheese: Raising Free Black Children
Collection Plate Causes: Speaking Down Barriers
Black Mama Say: S/o to the Seasoned Saint Bonnie Watson Coleman
S/o to Yara Imani for a DBM deal. They are offering 20% off of all purses with the code DEMBLACKMAMAS. Yara Imani is an online marketplace, founded by Alana Sutton, to increase the accessibility and appreciation of African inspired products made by Africans on the continent and across the diaspora.
If you're listening on iTunes, please rate us and if you have a little more time please leave a review and you can also give us a review on Facebook. If your listening on SoundCloud your comments are welcomed and tap the heart if you liked the show and if you really like it repost. Follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamas. If you’re feelin' this episode we ask that you share, RT or repost but if you’re not big on sharing on social media, just share with one person who you feel can benefit from listening . As always you can DM or email us at demblackmamas@gmail.com with your thoughts, questions or to just show us some love. We love hearing from you!
SYLLABUS
Links:
Black Moms Connection
Fare of the Free Child
Dr. Joy Degruy
Yara Imani
Speaking Down Barriers
Bonnie Watson Coleman
Articles:
Raising free-spirited black children in a world set on punishing them
12 Revolutionary Ways to Raise Your Black Child
Raising the Queer, Black, & Free
Because I’m a Human; Non-binary Parenting
What Adults Never Told Me as a Queer Black Child
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#RaisingFreeBlackChildren #DecolonizeParenting #JoyDegruy #BlackMomsConnection #SpeakDownBarriers #BonnieWatsonColeman #CollectionPlateCause #BlackMamaSay #WOCpodcast #wocpodcasttoo #BlackMotherhood #BlackWomen #BlackFamily #BlackMoms #BlackMomsMatter#BlackMamasMatter #BlackChildren #BlackKids #FreeBlackWoman #BlkCreatives #DemBlackMamas #BlackMamaMagic™️
Dear Mama: We know you got dreams. We know you wanna start something, write something, build something, have always had a dream they haven’t given birth to...This episode is for you! We want you to know it ain’t over for you and we refuse to let you believe motherhood is the graveyard of dreams. Thea Monyee gives 7 concrete tips to begin that thing you’ve been thinking of doing but putting off.
SHOW LINE UP
Church Announcements: DBM Partnerships & New Endeavors
What's Good in the Hood: Family Reunions, Peru, & Therapy
Mac & Cheese: Black Creative Mama
Collection Plate Causes: The Jackson Family & RAICES
Black Mama Say: Get Out My Mouth
Special s/o our sponsor for this episode, Black Girl Mixtape Institute. BGM Institute is a POC centered online educational center focused on decolonizing education by centering the intellectual authority of black women. Each class is a 10 week course. Monthly online workshops are available for nonPOC for a donation. Enroll NOW at blackgirlmixtape.com/institute.
And special s/o to Yara Imani for our first DBM deal. 20% off of all purses (https://yaraimani.com/collections/purses) until July 31st with the code DEMBLACKMAMAS. Yara Imani is an online marketplace, founded by Alana Sutton, to increase the accessibility and appreciation of African inspired products made by Africans on the continent and across the diaspora.
Follow us on all social media platforms @demblackmamas. If you’re feelin this episode we ask that you share, RT or repost but if you’re not big on sharing on social media, just share with one person who you feel can benefit from listening . As always you can DM or email us at demblackmamas@gmail.com with your thoughts, questions or to just show us some love. We love hearing from you!
SYLLABUS
Black Moms Connection
Black Breastfreeding Week
Freegro Shirt: Adults: https://teespring.com/freegros?pr=DBMEP15
Toddlers: https://teespring.com/freegrotoddlertee?pr=DMBEP15
WOC Podcasters
Therapy for Black Girls
COLLECTION PLATE CAUSES
Support Jackson
RAICES Texas
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What’s up Everybody! We’re kicking off the month of July with an oldie but but goodie, a special REWIND episode of Dem Black Mamas. We’ll be dropping new content on the 1st and the 15th of each month. Until then check our most listened to episode Building Mama’s Village. In this episode we discuss the importance of and our different journeys in building villages, virtually and physically that have nurtured us on every level of our being as mothers, Black women, creatives and entrepreneurs. We open up about how our fears and anxieties of letting people in and our childhoods inform the way we build villages. We begin the conversation with a very interesting discussion about the impact integration had on Black folks ability to build community. Be sure to subscribe wherever you listen. As always you can DM or email us at demblackmamas@gmail.com with your thoughts, questions or to just show us some love. We love hearing from you!
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Three #BlackMamaCreatives (Crystal Tennille Irby, Nekisha Killings, & Thea Monyee) give you all the #BlackMamaMagic your heart can hold as they discuss how to raise free Black children in an unfree world while pursuing their own dreams. #WomeOfColorPodcaastToo #WOCPodcasters #BlackPodcasts #PodcastsInColor #PodsInColor #DemBlackMamas #BlackJoy #BlackMotherhood #BlackWomen #BlackFamily #BlackChildren #BlackKids #BlackMoms #BlackMamas #BlackMomsMatter #FreeBlackWomen #BlackLivesMatter #BlkCreatives #Entrepreneur #PodernFamily #BlackMamaMagic™️
Three #BlackMamaCreatives (Crystal Tennille Irby, Nekisha Killings, & Thea Monyee) give you all the #BlackMamaMagic your heart can hold as they discuss how to raise free Black children in an unfree world while pursuing their own dreams. #WomeOfColorPodcaastToo #WOCPodcasters #BlackPodcasts #PodcastsInColor #PodsInColor #DemBlackMamas #BlackJoy #BlackMotherhood #BlackWomen #BlackFamily #BlackChildren #BlackKids #BlackMoms #BlackMamas #BlackMomsMatter #FreeBlackWomen #BlackLivesMatter #BlkCreatives #Entrepreneur #PodernFamily #BlackMamaMagic™️
Three #BlackMamaCreatives (Crystal Tennille Irby, Nekisha Killings, & Thea Monyee) give you all the #BlackMamaMagic your heart can hold as they discuss how to raise free Black children in an unfree world while pursuing their own dreams. #WomeOfColorPodcaastToo #WOCPodcasters #BlackPodcasts #PodcastsInColor #PodsInColor #DemBlackMamas #BlackJoy #BlackMotherhood #BlackWomen #BlackFamily #BlackChildren #BlackKids #BlackMoms #BlackMamas #BlackMomsMatter #FreeBlackWomen #BlackLivesMatter #BlkCreatives #Entrepreneur #PodernFamily #BlackMamaMagic™️
Three #BlackMamaCreatives (Crystal Tennille Irby, Nekisha Killings, & Thea Monyee) give you all the #BlackMamaMagic your heart can hold as they discuss how to raise free Black children in an unfree world while pursuing their own dreams. #WomeOfColorPodcaastToo #WOCPodcasters #BlackPodcasts #PodcastsInColor #PodsInColor #DemBlackMamas #BlackJoy #BlackMotherhood #BlackWomen #BlackFamily #BlackChildren #BlackKids #BlackMoms #BlackMamas #BlackMomsMatter #FreeBlackWomen #BlackLivesMatter #BlkCreatives #Entrepreneur #PodernFamily #BlackMamaMagic™️