The Happy Home Podcast with Arlene Pellicane: Recent Episodes
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This show is for women and men who want a happier home life. Arlene will help you bridge the gap between your ideal family and the real thing. You don’t have to come from a happy home to create one.
Your host Arlene Pellicane is a speaker and author of several books including 31 Days to a Happy Husband and Parents Rising. She and her husband James have been married more than 21 years and have three children.
Inside this podcast, you’ll meet some of the kindest and smartest experts when it comes to marriage and parenting. Get ready for fun and practical conversations that will change your thinking, give you hope, and spark positive change.
Do you ever wonder, Will my kids turn out okay? Am I messing them up?
Get ready to be encouraged and empowered by today's conversation with mom, nana, and bestselling author of 60+ books Pam Farrel. You're going to learn how to be a proactive, unworried, confident parent as we head into a new school year.
Pam explains the Learner-Leader framework she and her husband Bill developed to raise their three sons, including gift-giving traditions, age-specific contracts, and decision-making exercises. Pam shares two memorable stories from her own family: Brock's prayer on the 50-yard line after a huge football loss, and Zach's turnaround after he punched through a wall at age eight. The conversation covers how to start being proactive with a teenager, the role of prayer in parenting, and more.
03:00 – Proactive vs. passive parenting: the key difference
04:34 – The Learner-Leader Day tradition
08:14 – Where "Learner, Leader, Lover of God" came from: Pam's prayer over newborn Brock
13:02 – One step for parents who haven't been proactive with a teen
16:51 – The movie night story: letting Zach make (and own) the call
28:00 – The 50-yard line: Brock's prayer after a 48-0 loss
31:16 – Zach's rock-bottom moment and the "treasure map" turnaround
Connect and find out more about Pam Farrel at love-wise.com
Find the parenting resources mentioned on the podcast here: https://www.love-wise.com/parenting/
Get Pam & Bill Farrel's book, The 10 Best Decisions Every Parent Can Make here.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Watch the podcast on Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Sometimes God's presence and glory seems separated from everyday life, but what if daily grace can be experienced in the mundane?
In this episode, Arlene talks with beloved author and artist Ruth Chou Simons about her new book, This Moment Matters: 100 Ways to Cultivate a Grace-Laced Life. Ruth shares how raising six boys reshaped her expectations of motherhood, and how she turns ordinary tasks — cooking, closets, evening routines — into moments of discipleship.
They discuss scripture memory that adapts to different seasons of life, stewarding a home without chasing perfection, and the practice of looking your children in the eye instead of calling out instructions across the room. The conversation offers practical ways to notice God's presence in daily, unremarkable moments.
01:43 – Raising six boys and letting go of the story she expected
04:12 – Turning kitchen prep time into discipleship moments
07:11 – Teaching multiple kids at once without needing to be perfect
09:58 – Scripture memory that fits your actual season, not a perfect system
12:32 – Stewarding your home as a haven, not a showcase
16:37 – Simplifying your closet and choosing a signature accessory
20:41 – Why looking your kids in the eye changes everything
Connect with Ruth Chou Simons on her website
Shop Ruth Chou Simons' art and more at GraceLaced
Follow Ruth Chou Simons on Instagram
Learn more about Ruth's new book, This Moment Matters: 100 Ways to Cultivate a Grace-Laced Life
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Watch the podcast on Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
What heroes do your kids look up to?
Boys and girls need better examples than secular YouTube celebrities and pop music stars. They need real heroes that will inspire courage, truth, charity, and perseverance.
The popularity of the Odyssey shows us how we long for moral heroes. The ultimate place to find heroes is in the Bible. How can we help Biblical heroes come alive for boys and girls?
New York Times bestselling author Joshua Cooley joins Arlene to unpack his Heroes of the Bible devotionals. You'll hear why figures like Gideon prove that God works through weakness rather than natural strength, and get practical ideas for building a family Bible-reading rhythm, managing kids' phone use, and helping young athletes root their identity in Christ instead of their sport. Joshua serves at the editor of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes magazine. If your kid has ever faced disappointment on a team, Josh also offers a Bible-based way to talk them through it. He also shares the story behind the football memoir he co-authored with Super Bowl MVP Nick Foles.
03:56 – Why boys need heroes right now
05:36 – Gideon: hiding in a ditch and becoming a "mighty man of valor"
07:27 – Inside the Heroes of the Bible devotional format
14:06 – Building a family Bible-reading rhythm that actually sticks
20:00 – What worries Josh about kids and phone use today
21:58 – Sports, identity, and glorifying God through athletics
27:27 – Helping a kid handle not making the team
Find out more about Joshua Cooley and his books on his website.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Watch the podcast on Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Why does God allow us to suffer?
Glenna Marshall spent six years chasing a diagnosis and sixteen years living with a painful autoimmune disease before writing Praying in Pain. In this conversation, she explores this question and walks us through what God has taught her through it all. Glenna talks through the four-part pattern of the biblical lament psalms — cry out, remember, resolve — and how they became her lifeline during sleepless nights of suffering. Glenna opens up about the pride that kept her silent from her church, the tension chronic illness can create in a marriage, and what she's learned about complaining honestly to God instead of everyone else. Listen in for a hard-won perspective on healing, hope, and raising children who've watched a parent suffer well.
02:04 – Glenna describes the onset of her mystery illness at age 29
09:30 – The four-part pattern of lament psalms: cry out, remember, resolve
13:37 – "You don't have to stop complaining — you just have to complain differently"
16:12 – The story of snapping at a friend who complained about a sore back
20:16 – Hiding her flare-up from her church during a leaf-raking outreach
22:36 – The three ways Glenna believes God heals
27:03 – Navigating marriage when one spouse is in chronic pain and the other isn't
31:59 – Glenna's closing word to anyone suffering in isolation
Check out Glenna Marshall's blog: https://www.glennamarshall.com/
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Watch the podcast on Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
What if the secret to raising a confident, faith-filled learner has been sitting in history books all along?
Jennifer Pepito, host of Restoration Home and author of The Inspired Homeschool, joins Arlene to explore how homeschooled figures from history — including Leonardo da Vinci, C.S. Lewis, and Laura Ingalls Wilder — offer a roadmap for joyful, confident learning today. Jennifer shares the warning signs of a homeschool that's lost its spark, why she chose to homeschool her seven children, and practical tools like notebooking that help kids make learning their own. This conversation will help you raise curious kids who are able to think on their own.
This episode isn't just for homeschoolers - it's for any parent who wants to help their children love learning.
02:12 – Warning signs your homeschool needs "fresh fire"
04:18 – Jennifer's home motto: "Earth's crammed with heaven"
11:23 – Encouragement for moms who feel ill-equipped to homeschool
17:15 – Why notebooking is such a powerful learning tool
19:56 – What C.S. Lewis's homeschool/tutoring years can teach us
23:51 – Avoiding the "screen time trap" and the truth about reading timelines
27:41 – Practical advice on screen time: productive vs. consumptive use
31:06 – Laura Ingalls Wilder and the idea that "Ma embraced her work"
Learn more about Jennifer Pepito's book, The Inspired Homeschool.
Get access to other homeschooling resources at https://thepeacefulpress.com/
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Watch the podcast on Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
It seems like technology is always bad, especially when it comes to impacting the hearts of kids. But is there a way to use technology to strengthen your family values?
Jess Wolstenholm, VP of Education and Research at Minno, joins Arlene to talk about how parents can use media intentionally during the most formative years of a child's faith. They dig into the "4 to 14 window," why young children need predictable rhythms, and how to have real conversations with teens about what they're watching. Jess also walks through how to evaluate media choices for different ages and why small, consistent habits add up more than parents often realize.
1:32 — What Minno is and how it differs from YouTube Kids and Netflix
4:28 — Why preschoolers and older kids need to be taught differently
5:13 — The 4 to 14 window: how a child's worldview is formed
7:08 — Why predictable rhythms matter so much in early faith formation
9:45 — How to have faith conversations with teens without it feeling like a quiz
12:49 — Why parents should narrate their own screen use in front of their kids
16:53 — Start small: why 10 consistent minutes beats occasional big efforts
23:02 — What to look for (and avoid) when evaluating media for your kids
Minno is the #1 media source for Christian content for kids. Start your free trial and learn more at gominno.com
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
When faced with parenting crises, special-needs challenges, fear, and exhaustion, how do you keep moving forward?
Today's guest Sarah Walton is an author, wife, and mom of four whose family has faced chronic illness, a son with severe behavioral episodes, and years of uncertainty without answers. In this conversation, Sarah talks about what it looked like to survive the hardest seasons of motherhood and how her faith carried her through.
She shares how she learned to grieve her expectations, hold hope and acceptance together, and find small joys when everything felt dark. She also offers practical words for how to support a friend who is suffering — and what not to say. Her new book is "Jesus Will Meet You There."
03:14 — Sarah shares what happened when her oldest son spiked a severe fever at 7 weeks old and what followed in the years after
06:11 — The family's Lyme disease diagnosis and how it connected the dots across years of unexplained health struggles
08:19 — How Sarah stayed spiritually afloat — opening her Bible daily, journaling, and talking to God about how awful things felt
10:37 — What to say to the parent who is disappointed and asking why they got a hard child
17:44 — Holding hope and acceptance at the same time: the balance of praying for a miracle while being at peace if it doesn't come
21:05 — How Sarah talks to her kids about suffering and why she lets them see her struggle with hard questions too
26:15 — Why God doesn't always give us the "why" — and why that's actually a gift to our faith
30:02 — Listen, learn, lean in: what to do (and not do) when a friend is going through something hard
Grab a copy of Sarah Walton's book at JesusWillMeetYouThere.com
Sarah Walton's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahpwalton/?hl=en
Substack: https://substack.com/@sarahpwalton
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Watch the podcast on Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Life isn't all about us. But have you tried teaching that to your kids?!
Pastor, author, and super dad Dave Stone will help you raise kids who are humble, generous, and others-focused. He's raised three kids and can walk alongside us, guiding us through stages of parenting, from discipline to friendship. He encourages parents in the hard seasons and reminds us that our family investment is never wasted.
You won't want to miss the personal stories (you might need a tissue) and the sage wisdom of this pastor to pastors. Dave is the host of the Pastor to Pastor podcast and author of How to Raise Selfless Kids in a Self-Centered World. Whether you are in formal ministry or not, Dave is a role model worth following. He believes the most practical way to spread the gospel is through moms and dads who model a genuine faith for their children. On today's episode, we'll talk about:
02:21 Why humility is such an attractive quality
05:18 The "two questions" practice: how Dave trained his kids to ask guests questions before every meal
06:27 The Bible study story: Dave leaves mid-lesson to apologize to his son Sam
11:26 Advice for pastors' families on navigating the fishbowl and helping kids find joy in ministry
15:46 Sam pledges his entire allowance to a church building campaign
19:18 God sends Sam a check for exactly $200 — the story of a 10-year-old learning you can't out-give God
20:47 Dave speaks directly to parents in the hard seasons: each stage has its fulfillment, and it is worth it
29:51 The blindfold reveal: how Sam surprised his parents by buying a house six doors down
Listen to Dave Stone's podcast: Pastor to Pastor
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pastortopastorpodcast/?hl=en
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Larry McCall has been married to his high school sweetheart for more than 50 years and pastored the same church for over 40. He knows firsthand what it takes to enjoy a marriage that lasts. He's also seen the bad things that happen to marriages in the middle and later years.
In his book A Seasoned Marriage, he walks couples through the seasons that can quietly undo a marriage: empty nests, adult kids moving back home, aging parents, and the slow drift from spouse to roommate. He and Arlene talk about why putting Christ at the center of marriage matters more than ever as the years go on, and how couples can become closer friends instead of growing apart. If your kids are young, this episode is still for you — what you build now is what you'll have later.
1:28 — Why the gospel has to be at the center of marriage, not just the beginning of it
3:28 — The "happiness trap" — what couples reveal when they pursue divorce
6:39 — When your spouse's faith is weak and you're carrying the marriage alone
8:25 — The story of a woman whose non-Christian husband came to faith after decades of prayer
10:31 — The low point in Larry and Gladine's marriage, and what turned it around
16:02 — Navigating adult kids moving back home without it wedging the marriage
23:38 — The difference between a Christian grandparent and an intentional Christian grandparent
Grab a copy of Larry McCall's book: A Seasoned Marriage
Learn more about Walking with Jesus Ministries: http://www.wljministries.org/
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Guest favorite Dr. Kathy Koch joins Arlene to explain the changes that happen when your kids grow up. Dr. Kathy's book Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children walks parents through the hard work of releasing control, grieving unmet expectations, and learning to communicate in ways that actually keep the door open. They cover topics like helicoptering through the teen years, using "I statements" instead of "you statements," staying connected with kids who've walked away from faith, and how to pray through the grief of it all.
If your kids are still young, don't skip this episode. It's great to prepare you for the future by preventing common problems in the first place. In this episode, you'll learn:
3:06 Parent as a noun vs. parent as a verb — what changes when kids grow up
4:31 The long-term effects of helicoptering through the teen years
6:20 How to recognize when you're idolizing your kids
9:47 The "Isaac on the altar" release practice — surrendering your adult child to God
13:06 Staying connected with a child who has walked away from faith
15:37 "I statements" vs. "you statements" and why it matters
26:16 The monthly curiosity coffee — how to ask questions that open doors instead of closing them
Find out more about Dr. Kathy Koch's ministry and get her book Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children at https://celebratekids.com/
Connect with Dr. Kathy on Instagram and Facebook.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
There's a lot being said and shown about sex in our culture. Algorithms aren't delivering messages of sexual purity, freedom and health to teenagers. Quite the opposite. Yet purity is not an outdated idea, but it has been misunderstood.
Dannah Gresh, founder of True Girl, is back to help us communicate to our kids with truth and grace about sex. She shares her freedom story of how God redeemed her past and healed her heart. She's revised her bestselling book, And The Bride Wore White: Seven Truths to Live in Sexual Integrity No Matter What Your Past.
She walks through how the cultural conversation around sex and purity has shifted, what's at stake when moms stay silent, and how parents can talk to their kids about dating, modesty, and sexual integrity without legalism or fear. You won't want to miss this practical and biblical wisdom about a sensitive but needed topic. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
1:43 — Why Dannah refreshed The Bride Wore White now
2:40 — The "silver letter" that changed everything
5:49 — Dannah's own story: falling short at 15 and finding healing
11:23 — "Sex is not a consumer good — it's a covenant good"
21:06 — The science of "sliding vs. deciding" in relationships
27:03 — What to do when your child is dating the wrong person
29:32 — How to teach girls dignity in a way that's actually attractive
Connect and find out more about Dannah Gresh, her ministry True Girl, and new book, And The Bride Wore White at https://mytruegirl.com/.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Dallas Theological Seminary President, Dr. Mark Yarbrough, shares about keeping faith alive in the family. What does faith on fire look like? What if your faith is waning?
Dr. Yarbrough talks about his new book The Rekindled Heart: 6 Essentials for Reviving Your Faith. He shares how humility shaped a major family decision, why intentional parenting requires a plan, and the campfire story that launched his book. Join us for a great episode that will help you rekindle your fire for Jesus.
1:47 Mark reveals he just became a grandparent two weeks ago
3:25 He gave every family member veto power over his seminary presidency decision
5:58 Why Jesus used a child as the picture of humility (not innocence — dependence)
10:49 His mentor Howard Hendricks leans over his desk: "The Bible was not written to satisfy your curiosity. It was written to change your life."
15:21 Parenting is one of God's greatest schools — and your kids expose everything
17:05 If you don't have an intentional plan to raise your child, you will not hit the goal
24:04 The campfire moment: what sparked Mark's book
35:30 The costs of staying quiet
Connect with Dr. Mark Yarbrough, president of Dallas Theological Seminary: https://www.dts.edu/
Get Mark’s book, The Rekindled Heart: 6 Essentials for Reviving Your Faith: https://www.amazon.com/Rekindled-Heart-Essentials-Reviving-Faith/dp/0802437710
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
How can you pursue change as a mom without being crushed by guilt or shame?
Abbey Wedgeworth brings a needed message: We don't need more willpower. We need the power of the Gospel.
Sharing from her book, Help, I'm Ruining My Kids, Abbey talks about her own experience with poor postpartum mental health, the pull between shame and blame, and why our weakness is not the enemy we think it is. If you've ever felt like you're failing your kids, this conversation will point you to the real hope in Jesus. On today's episode, we're talking honestly about:
4:06 The "pendulum from shame to blame" — and what the Gospel offers instead
9:03 "We hate our weakness and tolerate our sin" — the powerful flip we need
10:20 Equating competence with righteousness — and learning to choose kindness over capability
19:00 Abbey opens up about postpartum suicidal ideations and how the Gospel gave her courage to get help
23:08 Running for the joy set before us — how a fitness competition became a spiritual metaphor
29:33 What your kids actually need isn't a mom who stops yelling — it's a mom who hungers for righteousness
37:39 The "3 to 5 method" for getting into scripture even in your most exhausted seasons (you'll love this)
Learn more about Abbey Wedgeworth and her book, Help I'm Ruining My Kids https://www.abbeywedgeworth.com/
Connect with Abbey on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/abbeywedgeworth/
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Moms carry a lot on their shoulders from meal planning to sports shuttling, boo-boo kissing to homework prodding. What would happen in the home if mom didn't do all the things?
In this Mother's Day episode, Arlene brings a message to make moms laugh and hopefully make them feel wildly appreciated. But she'll also share the dangers of being a helicopter mom and doing too much for your kids.
You'll hear personal stories of how she has seen her kids grow up - and what has worked to make them truly ready for life. No matter your parenting style, if you're married or single, this episode will remind you what's most important in your family. This message was originally recorded at Bonita Valley Community Church in San Diego.
1:30 What would actually happen if mom didn’t show up?
5:20 Why your son needs you to step back - kids learn to problem solve in your absence
7:40 Launching adults requires less rescuing
8:50 The link between helicopter parents and socially anxious kids
11:30 Stop asking social media for advice - ask the generation ahead of you instead
13:33 What does the Bible say about launching kids into adulthood?
18:30 What to do if your child says he doesn’t want to go to school
20:00 When Ethan broke his leg in kindergarten - and how it taught Arlene to let go
23:30 I don’t want to carpool with that kid!
25:30 What is your highest goal as a parent?
29:50 Raising kids in Digital Babylon - what that means and what's at stake
32:00 A special word for the single mom - you're not alone
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
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Kristen Jenson, founder of Defend Young Minds and author of the bestselling Good Pictures, Bad Pictures series, joins Arlene to talk about her newest book written specifically for girls. She unpacks why girls are more vulnerable to pornography than most parents realize and how early, calm conversations are the most powerful protection a parent can give. This episode will give you the tools needed to understand and approach this topic with your kids without fear or shame.
4:37 Pornography isn't just video — romance novels count too
7:43 Navigating wanting to protect your child's innocence
10:48 Keeping your daughter stay safe, smart, and confident
16:45 How to explain objectification to an 8-year-old
20:42 The thinking brain vs. the feeling brain explained
26:04 What to do if your daughter has already been exposed to pornography
Learn more about Kristen A. Jenson of Defend Young Minds and the book, Good Pictures Bad Pictures Guide for Girls: www.defendyoungminds.com/books
My kid saw porn - now what? https://www.defendyoungminds.com/help-heal
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DefendYM/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/defend-young-minds/
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How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
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Kristy Graham (Billy Graham's granddaughter-in-law) has a front row seat to what God is doing around the world. She's the podcast host of On the Ground with Samaritan's Purse. Maybe you've packed a shoebox with Operation Christmas Child to send the Gospel and gifts to children around the world. How can we raise kids who give generously at Christmas AND as a way of life?
You'll hear about families who travel for the first time to get life-saving heart surgeries for their kids (for free!). And about women who have been rescued from poverty, abuse and war in Kenya at Amani ya Juu through the work of Samaritan's Purse.
Kristy opens up about what it's like to grow up Graham for her kids, and the beautiful legacy of faithfulness she has experienced. But this doesn't mean her life is problem free. Like many of us, her kids have struggled with sickness. You'll find hope and encouragement from a fellow mom in the trenches. In this episode, Arlene and Kristy talk about:
2:30 Life saving surgeries for kids (Children’s Heart Project)
5:45 The power of generosity and how it reflects the gospel
9:10 I didn’t want my kids to become resentful about ministry
11:00 When we don’t have the answers about our children’s illnesses
13:44 More than healing, I want you to want the Healer
15:35 Amani ya Juu in Kenya (what it does for refugees)
20:15 What if we could be more like Ingrid (the Ingrid Effect)?
21:30 How a shoebox is changing families by giving gifts to kids
24:41 What is like having Billy Graham as a grandfather?
Learn more about Samaritan’s Purse: https://samaritanspurse.org/
On the Ground with Samaritan’s Purse Podcast: https://ontheground.samaritanspurse.org/home
Follow on Instagram @onthegroundSP
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How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
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They're back! Beloved counselors and bestselling authors David Thomas and Sissy Goff join Arlene to talk about their new book, Capable: How to Teach Your Kids Strengths, Skills, and Strategies to Build Resilience. After 30+ years of counseling, they're sounding the alarm on a generation of kids who are increasingly averse to risk, effort, and discomfort.
What if your child doesn't want to be capable, preferring convenience and entertainment instead? David and Sissy share practical tools from the book that will help you spark motivation and build resilient, capable kids (even when your kids are resistant). Whether your child is a toddler or a teenager, this episode will help you prepare your children for life and its challenges. This is such a needed conversation for today's family.
2:14 What counselors are seeing after 30+ years: a generation avoiding discomfort
4:06 What to do with kids who say: "I don't want to be capable"
10:03 "Don't do for your kids what they can do for themselves"
10:41 Support vs. challenge equation: which one are you?
15:08 Trusting God and your own intuition over the apps
19:28 Screens, social anxiety, and the word "awkward"
21:34 "My job is not to make you happy — it's to develop your character"
25:10 Role-play: what to say when your kid refuses school, camp, or a new friend
28:09 Capable starts in the Costco cart
Connect with David & Sissy and get their book, Capable: How to Teach Your Kids Strengths, Skills, and Strategies to Build Resilience at raisingboysandgirls.com.
Instagram: @raisingboysandgirls and @sissygoff
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse.
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Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
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Contrary to what many say, most marriages aren't destroyed by parental wounds, unresolved anger, or a sinful past.
Jim Ramos, founder of Men in the Arena, talks candidly with Arlene about his new book Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage. They dive into practical wisdom for building a marriage that lasts, drawn from Jim's 34+ years of real-life experience. Jim has seen enough marriages crumble to know one thing: most of them didn't fail because of deep psychological wounds or unresolved trauma — they failed because of small, unwise decisions that compounded over time. Tune in for practical wisdom and ways to avoid these costly mistakes for marriages.
2:08 Why Jim & Shannon created guardrails after 34 years
4:51 Navigating opposite-sex coworkers and professional boundaries
8:00 How to receive compliments without opening emotional doors
10:50 Guardrail #9: Always send gifts from us, never just from you
14:00 The story loop problem (King Solomon & the Queen of Sheba)
21:14 Guardrail #3: Staying emotionally connected
24:07 Social media dangers: Jim's personal rules (150k followers, zero apps on his phone)
Get a copy of Jim's book, Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage and find out more about his ministry at meninthearena.org.
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Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
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Author Addison Bevere joins Arlene to talk about what honest, un-performative prayer actually looks like — for you and your kids. He shares why humility is a parenting superpower, how to guide children toward "second innocence," and why your morning routine might be the most spiritually significant part of your day. Join us for a truly wisdom-filled conversation about prayer and Addison's new book, Words with God.
02:02 The difference between complaining about God vs. going to God in messy intimacy
03:07 Humility creates safety — modeling authentic faith for your kids
08:37 First innocence vs. second innocence — the real goal of protecting your kids
10:39 God won't always deliver you from a thing when that thing will ultimately deliver you to him
12:40 Prayer is about presence, not performance
15:21 Morning routines, brain science, and how God designed us as receptors
20:52 Addison's no-phone morning ritual — and the neuroscience behind it
25:02 "Smart mornings do not include smartphones"
31:49 Insomnia and surrender: how waking up differently changed everything
Grab a copy Addison's books: Words With God (book and prayer journal)
Connect with Addison at rediscoverprayer.com.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
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How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
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Blending families isn't easy and you can feel alone in the struggle. But did you know there are several prominent step-families found in the Bible?
Smart stepmom, author Laura Petherbridge offers heartfelt insights and solutions for navigating big emotions in complex homes. Her new book is Stepfamilies of the Bible: Timeless Wisdom for Blended Families. God's people have always included families with complex configurations, strained dynamics, and serious problems. The fact that complex, imperfect families have always been part of God's family is good news! In today's conversation, you'll learn:
3:00 53 percent of kids come from complex families, going between two homes
9:00 When my dad got remarried and I got a step-mom...
14:15 When children feel they lost dad to the new stepmom/stepfamily
18:00 When you feel offended by your step-kids
22:15 If a child senses you look down on the other family, he will side with the other family as the underdog
25:00 You don't see two women who hate each other more (Sarah and Hagar)
Connect with Laura and get her book, Stepfamilies of the Bible at thesmartstepmom.com.
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Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
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If you're feeling overwhelmed by clutter, today's expert Katy Joy Wells is here to help with steps you can implement today!
She's helped more than 250,000 families take control of their homes by solving the real clutter problem--what's underneath it all? What if your clutter isn't just a mess problem — it's a heart problem?
Katy is the host of The Maximized Minimalist (5M downloads!) and author of Making Home Your Happy Place. She joins Arlene to unpack why traditional decluttering never sticks. Katy breaks down the 4 types of clutter, shares her CBT-rooted 4S Framework for letting go without the guilt, and draws a freeing distinction between clutter and everyday mess.
You'll also get to hear some of Katy's story and how her challenges led her to start decluttering. Let's learn together how to declutter without being overwhelmed by taking small, practical steps.
2:07 The 4 types of clutter: the "clutter onion" framework
6:52 How to overcome scarcity and identity clutter
10:59 Too many toys?
11:31 Set physical boundaries as your decluttering goal
17:54 Katy's story and her shift to holistic decluttering
22:05 Pull the weed by the root — why clutter comes back and how to stop it
27:37 Navigating sentimental clutter & guilt clutter
Listen to Katy's podcast, The Maximized Minimalist, grab a copy of her new book, Making Home Your Happy Place, and connect with Katy on Instagram @katyjoywells.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
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How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Learn more about Every Woman's Bible today by visiting: https://hubs.la/Q0427v7r0
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
If you've ever felt guilty for struggling with anxiety or have a child who wrestles with worry, this conversation is for you. Holley Gerth, Wall Street Journal bestselling author and counselor, is on the show to talk about her latest book, Prayers for Peace of Mind: Scripture and Encouragement for Days of Anxiety, Worry and Stress.
Holley shares practical and compassionate tools for families navigating fear and worry, sharing on what God wants us to do with our anxieties, and what He really means when He says, "Do not fear."
3:27 How to turn your anxiety into excitement
5:58 Emotions: great messengers, terrible bosses
8:00 The real reason social media makes you anxious
13:22 You are beloved-- anchor yourself in this truth
16:30 Introverts, anxiety and the overstimulation connection
23:41 How to signal to your kids that they are safe
27:27 The prayer that carried Holley through her hardest season
Connect with Holley Gerth and grab a free, 5-day excerpt of her book at holleygerth.com/peace.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
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How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Learn more about Every Woman's Bible today by visiting: https://hubs.la/Q0427v7r0
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With his signature whimsy and curiosity, bestselling author Bob Goff takes us on a journey with the Savior in his new book, A Journey with Jesus: An Interactive Guide Through the Holy Land. Bob shares what being in Israel and walking where Jesus walked taught him about wonder. You'll hear about Bob's adventures in the cockpit of an airplane, the tenacity of faithful friends, and the beauty of experiencing life in person (not just watching a screen).
2:39 The Power of Second Touches and Authenticity
3:53 Making Bible Study Accessible for All
7:21 The Importance of Genuine Curiosity
13:00 The Value of Lame Friends and What They Can Teach Us
18:06 Keeping Eyes Fixed on Jesus Amidst Challenges
19:52 The Impact of Curiosity and Travel
Connect with Bob Goff and grab his book at bobgoff.com.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
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How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Learn more about Every Woman's Bible today by visiting: https://hubs.la/Q0427v7r0
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Abbie Halberstadt, mother of 10 kids and author of You Bet Your Stretch Marks, joins Arlene to dismantle the myth that moms should "love every minute" of parenting. Being a parent stretches your capacity like nothing else, but it also fills you with immense joy and has a lasting impact. Motherhood is good.
Abbie shares practical wisdom on prioritizing heart work over housework and reclaiming parental authority in a culture that overemphasizes children's emotions. This is a Biblical conversation for any mom who feels overwhelmed, frustrated that the kids won't listen, or guilty that she's not enjoying motherhood "enough."
05:17 - The myth of "loving every minute" of motherhood
10:08 - Dealing with comparison and mom guilt
12:18 - The danger of making parenting your identity
14:45 - Prioritizing heart work over housework
18:39 - Teaching kids to serve vs. being served
25:09 - "My kids won't listen to me" - understanding parental authority
26:30 - The problem with emotion-centered parenting
29:21 - Why kids need to know that "mama means what she says"
Learn more about Abbie Halberstadt on https://misformama.net/ or on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/m.is.for.mama/
Check out Abbie's podcast, M is For Mama, and grab her book, You Bet Your Stretch Marks, anywhere books are sold.
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Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
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How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Learn more about Every Woman's Bible today by visiting: https://hubs.la/Q0427v7r0
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Did you know Dr. Gary Chapman has teamed up with Dr. Les and Leslie Parrott to write a follow up book to his bestselling 5 Love Languages book?
Dr. Leslie Parrott joins Arlene today to talk about the new book, "The Love Language That Matters Most." While most of us know the five love languages, Leslie reveals that each language has specific "dialects" that can make or break how love is received. You will learn how to personalize love so your spouse, child, family member, or friend can really feel it.
Leslie explains why the love language that matters most is the OTHER persons (not yours), how to stay curious, and the power of asking, "What is one thing I could do to fill your love tank this week?"
04:12 - The love language that matters most is THEIRS, not yours
05:28 - The role of curiosity in loving well
10:08 - How to understand and best utilize love language "dialects"
19:25 - Loving your children in their love language
22:04 - How to adjust when your child becomes a teenager
24:37 - The power of brief connections with adult children
25:47 - Sometimes space and time ARE love
26:10 - The heart behind the book: Helping people deeply feel loved
Connect with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott at lesandleslie.com and grab their new book with Dr. Gary Chapman The Love Language that Matters Most anywhere books are sold or at 5LoveLanguages.com
Take the Premium Love Language Assessment here
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Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
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How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Learn more about Every Woman's Bible today by visiting: https://hubs.la/Q0427v7r0
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Does your teen get angry? The answer is probably yes--leaving you with the question, "What do I do about it?" Dr. Gary Chapman joins us to talk about his new book, A Teen’s Guide to Conflict: How to Deal with Drama, Manage Anger, and Make Things Right. Tune in for practical ways parents can guide teenagers through anger, disrespect, and lack of motivation.
It turns out you can show up in a loving way even if your teen doesn't. Dr. Chapman emphasizes using loving consequences, modeling honor and responsibility, distinguishing healthy vs. unhealthy anger, building connection through shared experiences, and using books/discussion to help teens mature emotionally and relationally. We'll talk about:
01:37 Why rules & consequences are loving
04:38 Handling disrespect and teaching honor
11:35 Anger management, good vs. bad anger, confronting wrong kindly
17:50 Escaping victim mentality & returning good for evil
28:04 How to motivate withdrawn teens & the importance of dialogue
Pick up a copy of A Teen's Guide To Conflict and Dr. Chapman's other books including The Love Language That Matters Most at 5lovelanguages.com.
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SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get access to 12 free resources to help you as a parent.
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Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Learn more about Every Woman's Bible today by visiting: https://hubs.la/Q0427v7r0
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Struggling to break free from the same old conflicts in your relationship?
When Ron and Nan Deal suffered the devastating loss of their child, their marriage could have collapsed. For decades, Ron and Nan were stuck in destructive cycles, experiencing ruptures without repair. They sought help from Dr. Terry and Sharon Hargrave whose transformational Restoration Therapy has helped millions.
Now for the first time, Ron and Nan share their journey from a marriage on the brink of collapse to complete transformation. It happened for them and it can happen for you. Their new book is "The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself."
On today's episode, they open up about how they kept repeating negative patterns—despite loving God and each other—until they learned to manage themselves rather than trying to fix each other. Let's listen in as Ron and Nan give practical tools to find peace through humility and Biblical truth.
02:42 The crisis point: when their marriage was coming apart
06:21 Ruptures vs. repair in relationships
09:12 Am I "dysregulated"?
13:09 The shift from fixing your spouse to fixing yourself
18:56 How seeking help and humility can change everything
21:23 These four steps transformed our marriage
30:14 Why saying the steps out loud is critical
33:36 What to do when past trauma gets triggered
37:12 Surviving amidst devastating loss: The story of losing their son Connor
Stay connected with Ron and Nan Deal and their ministries at rondeal.org.
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How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Learn more about Every Woman's Bible today by visiting: https://hubs.la/Q0427v7r0
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, bestselling author of Love and Respect (2.3+ million copies sold), shares fresh insights from his new book Lightbulb Moments in Marriage. Drawing from his work with over 4,000 couples and 52 years of marriage to his wife Sarah, Dr. Eggerichs reveals why couples often feel miles apart when they're really just inches away from breakthrough.
In this episode, we'll discover the biblical foundation of the love and respect connection, uncover practical ways to get out of the "Crazy Cycle," and learn how to establish our marriages in Christ first and foremost.
02:15 How to begin transforming a marriage (miles vs. inches)
06:25 Doing marriage unto Jesus even when it's hard
09:40 Why marital satisfaction flows from spiritual satisfaction
17:58 The facts: men feel disrespected, women feel unloved in conflict
20:49 – How to believe your spouse has goodwill (1 Cor 7 insight)
23:54 – The 80/20 principle & not defining your spouse by snapshot moments
25:11 – Women tend to rehearse negatives → practical steps on shifting mindsets
28:40 – Speak his language: "I need your strength" vs. criticism
Learn more from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs at loveandrespect.com and buy his new book Lightbulb Moments in Marriage anywhere books are sold.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get access to 12 free resources to help you as a parent.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Gary Thomas (bestselling author of Sacred Marriage, Sacred Parenting) is back on the podcast to discuss his latest book, The Life You Were Reborn to Live: Dismantling 12 Lies About Remaining in God's Love. Gary challenges common parenting myths that Christians often fall into, and offers practical ways on how to live life God's way, not the world's.
Let's learn together how to create Christ-centered homes, prioritize God's kingdom over family idols, and embrace spiritual adventure over control.
05:21 - Creating a Christ-centered home (Colossians 3: compassion over conflict)
08:12 - Renewing your mind against worldly lies (Romans 12)
09:06 - Finding pride in spiritual growth over worldly success
14:25 - Why prioritizing God, even above family, is most important
21:53 - Being spiritually adventurous: The adventure Jesus calls us to
25:13 - Parenting on offense: Expecting God to use your kids
26:04 - Powerful testimony: When obedience can save a life
27:51 - Turning your "chair out" toward community
30:00 - Practical tips for isolated teens: Remove comforts, invite fellowship
Check out Gary's substack at connecttogary.com and buy his new book The Life You Were Reborn to Live anywhere books are sold. Find out more at garythomas.com.
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SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get access to 12 free resources to help you as a parent.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE).
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Justin Whitmel Earley, bestselling author of The Body Teaches the Soul, is very familiar with the consequences of ignoring the body. As a young lawyer, he collapsed into anxiety and insomnia. He learned that the healthy and unhealthy habits shaping his life weren't physical or spiritual; they were spiritual AND physical. Justin reveals why the body isn't separate from the soul—it's an important part of loving God.
Tune in for practical wisdom on topics like: Why we can't stop eating the whole box of cookies, why social media leaves us feeling rage and jealousy, and why exercise might be the most spiritual thing you do all week.
02:31 Justin's Mental Health Collapse & Discovery
08:36 Don't Ignore or Idolize the Body
12:51 Food: From Indulgence/Shame to Dependence/Delight
21:13 Technology & The Embodiment Ladder
28:29 How to Use Exercise as Spiritual Training
Find out more about Justin Whitmel Earley and his book The Body Teaches the Soul at justinwhitmelearley.com and on Instagram @justinwhitmelearley.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get access to 12 free resources to help you as a parent.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Host Arlene Pellicane welcomes back bestselling author Amber Lia alongside her teenage son Ollie for an inspiring conversation about their new devotional, You Are Seen: 90 Devotions to Encourage Stressed Teens.
Ollie opens up about his freshman-year battles with depression, anxiety, and perfectionism after a major life transition, offering a real-life view of what your kids may be going through. Together with Amber, they reveal faith-centered strategies—like the 5-4-3-2-1 technique, box breathing, scripture memorization, and surrendering to God's plan—that helped him find peace and purpose. From miraculous physical healing (Ollie's torn rotator cuff) to building family support systems involving dads and siblings, this duo offers hope and actionable advice for parents and teens navigating mental health struggles --all in this episode.
05:09 | Ollie's Story: Freshman-Year Struggles with Anxiety, Depression, and Transition
07:58 | Amber's View: Spotting Anxiety in Teens and Starting Empathetic Conversations
10:42 | The Turning Point: Counseling, Spilling It All, and Building Trust
12:10 | Practical Tool: The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique to Stop the Anxiety Spiral
15:08 | Solo Strategies for School: Box Breathing, Prayer, and Sensory Grounding
19:45 | Real-Life Wins: Texting Mom for Support and Mapping the Day
20:16 | Tackling Perfectionism: Why Teens Compare and How Faith Shifts the Mindset
24:37 | Testimony of Healing: Ollie's Miraculous Rotator Cuff Recovery
27:46 | Dad's Role: Building Bonds, Mentoring, and Asking "What's Going On?"
30:43 | Sibling Support and Navigating Quality Time for All Kids
Connect with Ollie on Instagram @walkin.with.ollie.
Connect with Amber on Instagram @therealamberlia and on amberlia.com.
Pick up a copy of their new devotional, You Are Seen.
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get access to 12 free resources to help you as a parent.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE).
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Bestselling author and beloved pastor Max Lucado returns to the Happy Home to talk about his latest book, Tame Your Thoughts: Three Tools to Renew Your Mind and Transform Your Life. Drawing from Scripture and personal stories, Max shares how you can manage negative thought patterns (even if you've carried it around for years).
Perfect for parents, you'll learn how to battle anxiety personally and how to help your kids, especially in this world of constant digital noise. On today's episode, you'll learn:
1:00 The importance of thought management
2:20 Tool #1: Practice picky thinking
10:00 The helmet of salvation does this
13:50 UFO: Untruth, False Narrative, Overreaction
17:10 Even Max's dog can apply the UFO
21:00 How Scripture meditation uproots untruths
WATCH THE VIDEO on YOUTUBE
Max Lucado is a bestselling author with more than 150 million books in print. He's a teaching pastor at Oak Hills Church in San Antonio, TX. He and his wife Denalyn have three grown daughters, three sons-in-law, and four grandchildren.
Learn more about Max Lucado and his book Tame Your Thoughts
More Resources from Arlene Pellicane:
SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get access to 12 free resources to help you as a parent.
Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier.
Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook
Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE).
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Need help understanding your neurodivergent child? Maybe your child has ADHD, autism, or another challenge. Author Kim Botto is here to give us the gift of understanding this Christmas. She knows how to create spaces where every child feels heard, valued, and loved. She's the author of Boundless Hope for Every Child and specializes in trauma-informed, disability ministry at home and in the church.
On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:30 How to understand the needs behind your child’s big behavior
4:20 Helpful correction strategies that actually work
7:20 What steps to take in order to establish a routine
12:00 Why making your kids feel safe is so important
18:50 Don’t be afraid to go back to church, even with a neurodivergent child
23:40 How to encourage your kids by speaking to their potential
27:30 How screen time affects kids with ADHD or autism
Kim Botto has worked with children and teens for over three decades through churches, schools, nonprofits, and adoption and foster care initiatives. She has a Masters in Family Ministry and is a frequent speaker on trauma, disability, and neurodivergence.
Learn more about Kim Botto, her podcast Every Child Belongs, and her book, Boundless Hope for Every Child on her website https://kimbotto.com/
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We live in a culture obsessed with self-care and personal branding. But what if freedom and happiness is found more in forgetting ourselves and remembering God instead? Sharon Hodde Miller shares from her new devotional, Gazing at God: A 40 Day Journey to Greater Freedom from Self. On today's episode, you'll learn:
3:25 What does it mean to gaze at God
10:36 How to help your kids avoid being self-centered
15:57 How to avoid harming your children with your own insecurity
22:10 Why we should practice self-forgetfulness
25:30 The journey of getting out of a scarcity mindset
Sharon Hodde MIller PhD is the co-founder and leader of Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina. She teaches about faith, culture and the Bible, and her books include Nice, The Cost of Control, and Gazing at God.
Learn more about Sharon Hodde Miller on her website https://sheworships.com/
Follow Sharon on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sharonhmiller/
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In this broken world, building a strong family can seem out of reach. Your family doesn’t have to be perfect to be strong. Bestselling author Jessica Smartt shows us how to build a home where love and connection are every day occurrences. We're talking about her new book, Come on Home.
On today's episode, you'll learn:
5:25 The legacy we should want to leave for our kids
7:40 How a close-knit family can change the world
11:30 The role of “taking-inventory” in your family
19:20 How making memories plays a special role in shaping your family
23:35 How to make all of your children feel like the favorite
26:20 The fruit of delaying giving your children technology
Jessica Smartt is the author of Memory Making Mom and Let Them Be Kids, and today we’re talking about her new book, Come on Home. She’s wife to Todd and homeschooling mom of 3. Her family lives on twenty acres with her parents and her two sisters' families. That means there's a never-ending circus of kids, chickens, cats, and horses.
Learn more about Jessica Smartt and her new book, Come on Home https://jessicasmartt.com/come-on-home
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Talking about sex can be awkward, shameful, embarrassing or painful. But what if it could be healing and hopeful? Dr. Juli Slattery is here to talk about God’s transformative love for every area of life, including our sexuality. We're talking about her new book, Surrendered Sexuality. On today's episode, you'll learn:
3:30 We don’t talk about sexuality. What are we really missing?
9:30 How to find wholeness and healing with your sexuality
12:00 Practical ways to help disciple your child in their sexuality
19:15 The problems with our mindset shift from viewing sex as procreational to recreational
24:53 How we should think about sex from a biblical worldview
27:43 Finding hope after sexual brokenness
Dr. Juli Slattery is the president and cofounder of Authentic Intimacy, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God’s design for sexuality. She hosts the Java with Juli podcast, and has written several books including her newest book, Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes Everything. She and her husband Mike have 3 grown sons. Before she began Authentic Intimacy, she served as the co-host of the Focus on the Family Broadcast.
Learn more about Dr. Juli Slattery and her book, Surrendered Sexuality https://www.authenticintimacy.com/
Listen to the podcast, Java with Juli https://www.authenticintimacy.com/podcast/
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Are you too young to be thinking about legacy? Hobby Lobby Founder David Green says we can all be planning to make a lasting eternal impact on the generations that follow. Legacy is created now, not only in the last decades of your life. David Green and Bill High have written a new book, The Legacy Life. On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:40 Our legacy is not about money???
9:40 Why it's important for a family to start thinking generationally
14:50 What are we doing now to shape eternity?
19:30 How do we steward our money well (and not be consumed by it)
22:14 How to avoid crippling your own children financially
27:00 Being child-focused is not the same as being family-focused
David Green is the founder and CEO of Hobby Lobby, which employs 50,000 people at 1,000 stores in 48 states. His books include Leadership Not by the Book, and his new book co-authored with Bill High, The Legacy Life: Leading your family to make a difference for eternity. David and his wife Barbara and their children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren all live in Oklahoma City.
Bill High is CEO of Legacy Stone, a ministry dedicated to helping families thrive today and for generations to come.
Learn more about David Green, Bill High and the book, The Legacy Life. https://legacystone.com/legacylife
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You're busy. I'm busy. Is there a way out of this rat race? You've heard advice on burnout and busyness, but probably not how author and mom Tara Sun explains it from her new book, Overbooked and Overwhelmed: How to keep up with God when you're just trying to keep up with life.
On today's episode you'll learn:
3:55 How to NOT ignore warning signs God gives you
8:32 Will this matter for eternity?
12:00 Why “no” is the Christian cuss word
17:05 Steps you can take to better communicate with your spouse
20:11 How to reclaim our attention from social media
Tara Sun is the host of the popular podcast Truth Talks with Tara, where she’s interviewed leaders like Sadie Robertson Huff and Levi Lusko. She is dedicated to helping you to know, love, and live God's Word in your everyday life. She's married to her high school sweetheart. Her new book is Overbooked and Overwhelmed: How to keep up with God when you’re just trying to keep up with life.
Learn more about Tara's podcast, Truth Talks with Tara https://www.tarasunministries.com/podcast
Learn more about Tara Sun's book, Overbooked and Overwhelmed. https://www.thomasnelson.com/p/overbooked-and-overwhelmed/
Need more reasons to put the pause on social media? Read Arlene's book Screen Kids https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/books or get the video course. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course
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Our kids and teens are hearing loud messages about gender, and it can be terribly confusing. Social media has glamorized and normalized things like same sex attraction. How can parents equip their kids with truth and love in this secular culture? Trusted voice Dr. Kathy Koch is here to help us raise kids who are confident in their gender, knowing we are all wonderfully created by God.
On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:15 Why are we talking about gender?
3:55 What parents are unaware of about social media
9:40 Dangerous misconceptions that your kids may have
11:50 What to do if your child wants to change their gender
15:23 How to advise a friend who’s struggling with gender
21:54 What does an AI chatbot say about gender?
27:50 The connections between a parent and a child matter!
30:51 A few warning signs that your child is struggling
Dr. Kathy Koch is the Founder and CEO of Celebrate Kids, Inc. and a respected voice on child development and biblical parenting. Her many books include Screens and Teens, 8 Great Smarts, and her newest book written with Dr. Jeff Myers, Raising Gender-Confident Kids: Helping Kids Embrace Their God-Given Design.
Learn more about Dr. Kathy Koch and the book, Raising Gender-Confident Kids http://celebratekids.com/
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Is it possible to delay social media for your teen, even your teen girl? My daughter Lucy and I are asking another mom/daughter duo about this. Today’s guests are comedian Kerri Pomarolli and her daughter Lucy. Two moms, two Lucys with no social media. It's going to be a fun ride. This month, we're kicking out harmful tech. On today's show, you'll learn:
3:28 The option that not many parents are aware of when raising their kids
8:52 From a teen’s perspective: The difference between life with or without social media
11:45 Won't my child feel left out without social media?
17:55 How time looks different with a phone in hand
21:40 How to help our girls not to have the “celebrity mentality”
Kerri Pomarolli grew up performing at a young age. Her first comedy gig was at the world-famous Hollywood Improv. Although she performed in front of a very secular crowd, she was the only performer asked to return. Kerri is a nationally headlining stand up comedian who has worked with everyone from Jay Leno, Jerry Lewis, and Candace Cameron Bure. She's been on the Tonight Show 29 times, and she's also an author (Mom's Night Out) and screenwriter (Hallmark Channel).
Learn more about Kerri Pomarolli at her website https://www.kerripom.com/
Need more reasons to put the pause on social media? Read Arlene's book Screen Kids or get the video course
https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/books
https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film
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How addicted is your son or daughter to video games? Today’s guest Ian McCready is a former video game addict who understands the lure of gaming. He’s found a way to redeem his time from technology (you and your kids can too).
This month we're kicking out the tech! We want to keep the tech that's helping us, but kick out the tech that’s hurting our families. On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:20 What’s wrong with video games?
6:36 How God spared Ian from the game
11:53 I can game while babysitting my child… right?
16:25 Getting your loved one on board with a hold on video games
21:27 What to do when time on video games competes with time with family
Ian McCready was crushing it in video games, but gaming was also crushing him. He was gaming 12-14 hours a day. Based on his own experience, he founded the nonprofit Selfctrl which focuses on helping people build self control and be set free from video game addiction. His teaching has been vetted by numerous addiction specialists and marriage & family therapists. He and his wife have two kids and live in Arkansas.
Learn more about Ian McCready and the many resources available to you at Selfctrl https://selfctrl.com/
How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film
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We know smartphones can be really harmful to kids and teens, but what can we do about it? Clare Morell brings a practical guide to freeing kids and teens from smartphones as we kick out the tech this month. Social media and addictive video games are not safe for kids, no matter what tech companies promise. In today's episode, you'll find out:
2:15 What no one would guess about social media
6:10 TikTok is digital fentanyl???
10:00 Why parental controls are a myth
14:27 The simplest solution to this complex tech problem
21:35 Why your child is LESS safe with a phone
25:30 What parents don’t see about “harmless” apps like Roblox
28:45 Why parents need to support phone-free schools
34:50 How the tech exit is especially important as Christians
Clare Morell is a trailblazing mama who is a policy analyst at the Ethics and Public Policy Center. She is the director of its Technology and Human Flourishing Project. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, Newsweek, National Review, and The Washington Times. She and her family live out their Tech Exit life together in Washington DC.
Learn more about Clare Morell and her book, The Tech Exit: A Practical Guide to Freeing Kids and Teens from Smartphones https://thetechexit.com/
https://claremorell.substack.com/
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Are you 100 percent thrilled with how your family uses technology?
If you say no, then welcome to the club!
If your kids opted out of having a smartphone, social media and video games, would they be better or worse off? Imagine saying goodbye to parental controls, fights, and time limits. Today's guest Erin Loechner is the author of The Opt-Out Family: How to Give Your Kids What Technology Can't. As you can imagine, I love this book! Today's we're going to talk about:
3:00 What an “opt-out” family looks like
5:00 Why is social media so dangerous for children?
10:43 What the algorithm of social media does
14:10 The burden of social media on girls
21:00 Does having a smartphone truly help your child in their social life?
23:30 How can we “opt-in” to other things as we “opt-out” of social media?
27:10 The main concerns with AI
29:45 Why easier is not better
Erin Loechner is a former social media influencer who walked away from a million fans to live a low-tech lifestyle and is now teaching others to do the same. She's been featured in the New York Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, Huffington Post, the Today Show. Erin is the founder of the global tech-free movement the Opt-Out Family.
Learn more about Erin Loechner and her book (which launched with no social media of her own), The Opt Out Family: How to Give Your Kids What Technology Can't. https://www.optoutfamily.com/
Learn how to dumb down your smartphone https://www.optoutfamily.com/tip/
Read Arlene's book Screen Kids (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman)
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Are your kids going to be all right? Is your job secure? Will your marriage get better? We live in an age marked by worry and anxiety for adults and kids. Many who wrestle with anxiety know the Bible calls them to trust God, but how does that actually work? Pastor and author Jonny Ardavanis invites us to open God's Word for answers. In this conversation about his book, Consider the Lilies, you'll learn:
3:30 I had a front row seat to teen anxiety as a camp director
5:25 If you’re a parent, this is what you need to know
7:00 Even if your child doesn’t suffer from anxiety, he or she lives in a performance stressful culture
8:30 How can we protect the minds of our kids?
10:45 One of the main schemes of Satan is to make sin look normal and righteousness seem strange
15:00 Every worry is an invitation to get closer to God
17:10 What’s the difference between a good godly concern and an ungodly worry?
20:00 We were told our daughter had a syndrome with strokes and seizures
24:00 When your kids have sports injuries
27:55 God allows you to go through trials because…
Jonny Ardavanis is the pastor of Stonebridge Bible Church in Franklin, TN. He’s the founder and president of Dial In Ministries serving the next generation. He has served as camp director at Hume Lake Christian Camps and as a dean at The Master’s College. He and his wife have two young daughters. Today, we're talking about his book, Consider the Lilies: Finding Perfect Peace in the Character of God.
Learn more about Dial In Ministries
https://dialinministries.org/
Get Jonny's book, Consider the Lilies
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Do you feel comfortable talking with your kids about faith and science? Today's guest, Passion founder Louie Giglio, reminds us that God can handle scientific scrutiny as He is the creator of all things. In his book for kids, The Wonder of Creation, you'll find a great resource to share the world of science with your child from a Biblical worldview. We'll also talk about developing a passion for Christ that lasts.
Today you will learn:
5:30 The more is discovered in the universe, the more we see intelligent design
6:00 It’s okay to say, "I don’t know the answer to that. Let’s find out."
7:00 Let's dismantle the wall between God and science
9:45 Show your kids the James Webb telescope
10:50 Why you must begin with Genesis 1:1 for children
12:30 Valuing your children but not making them the center of the universe
14:45 Putting down screens and getting outside instead
18:00 How can we raise a worshipper? The power of a dad to influence his kids to follow Jesus
21:00 Your heart can still burn for God in your 40s, 50s, 60s
24:40 Prepare your kids for what the values they will learn in college so it will not rattle them to the core
27:00 Worldview is set young - don’t wait - get your young kids in a worship environment
Learn more about Louie Giglio's book, The Wonder of Creation
https://www.indescribablekids.com/
Need help with your child's media choices? Read Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids and visit Happy Home University to take the free quiz - Is my child getting too much screen time?
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What's the one sin that is defeating you or your family? Karl Clauson knows what it's like to wrestle with sin, hit rock bottom, and find God's grace wider than he ever dared hope. His new book, Killing Sin: Conquer the one thing that is defeating you, will help you wage war on sin and find victory in Christ. In today's conversation, you'll learn about:
3:00 Racing the Iditarod, 1100 miles through the tundra with a dog sled team
6:22 What parenting with true power looks like
13:33 The transformative power of God’s grace
15:21 How to kill your sin
22:00 Hate can be good???
25:30 Why tackling one sin at a time is important
27:00 There is victory lying ahead of you
Karl Clauson is the host of Moody Radio’s Karl and Crew, a nationally syndicated radio program. He is the lead pastor of 180 Chicago Church. Karl and his bride Junanne have been married 37 years and have 2 adult kids.
Learn more about Karl and his new book, Killing Sin (and get free resources to help you fix broken systems and much more) https://killsin.com/
Get the help you need to take back your home from too much technology. Join Arlene for her masterclass, Screen Kids today https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
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Do you spend a lot of time managing stuff? Finding things? Storing things? Buying things? Julia Ubbenga has found a way to cut through the clutter - it turns out having more isn’t necessarily better. We're talking through Julia's book, Declutter Your Heart and Home: How a minimalist life yields maximum joy.
On today's episode, you'll learn:
3:00 Shopping is fun! Right???
7:30 Help! I’m attached to all of the things I need to declutter!
10:25 How decluttering affects your heart and your home
12:50 Short, practical ways to start decluttering your home
17:50 How do we prioritize people over possessions
22:45 Systems that can make decluttering easy for you and your kids
28:55 The key to decluttering
Julia Ubbenga's projects at Rich in What Matters have attracted over 50 million views and helped people restructure their lives around what matters most. She lives in Kansas City with her husband and five children.
Learn more about Julia Ubbenga at Rich in What Matters https://richinwhatmatters.com/
Get Julia's book, Declutter Your Heart and Your Home https://www.amazon.com/Declutter-Your-Heart-Home-Minimalist/dp/0310368960
Follow Julia on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/richinwhatmatters/
Check out Arlene Pellicane's books Parents Rising and Screen Kids https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/books
You're invited to see David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025. Get your ticket today. https://parentsrisingconference.com/
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Ann Wilson spent more than a decade longing for a better marriage and for her husband to be more attentive. And every chance she got, she told him so! Turned out all her booing was pushing her husband even further away. FamilyLife Today hosts Ann and Dave Wilson explain how their marriage was turned around as Ann shares from her new book, How to Speak Life to Your Husband (When All You Want to do is Yell at Him).
On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:30 When getting 3rd place wasn’t even enough for my dad
5:10 My husband was playing sports, I was struggling to take care of the kids
7:50 Did Ann really boo her husband in public?
11:00 If you’re used to being negative about your husband, how do you change that?
14:38 The respect rebellion
22:20 Is being a helper a bad role?
29:30 Sophisticated nagging doesn’t work but this does
Ann and Dave Wilson are the hosts of the nationally syndicated radio show FamilyLife Today and cofounders of Kensington Community Church. Dave was the chaplain for the Detroit Lions for 33 seasons. They have three grown sons and seven grandchildren.
Learn more about Ann and Dave Wilson and FamilyLife Today https://www.familylife.com/
Get Ann's book, How to Speak Life to Your Husband (When all you want to do is yell at him)
https://shop.familylife.com/product/how-to-speak-life-to-your-husband-when-all-you-want-to-do-is-yell-at-him/
Follow Dave and Ann Wilson on Facebook or Instagram
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If social media was completely erased from teen life, would that be a good thing for your kids? Allie Marie Smith knows what it’s like to scroll endlessly and get pulled under the tide of tech. It’s time for a reset for our kids: mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. Allie’s here to show us how from her new book, Social Media Reset. On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:45 Is your time on social media affecting the memories you make with your children?
6:02 How does social media affect our lives spiritually
11:18 What does a 30-day reset look like?
17:33 How to set limits with social media
22:00 Are you “phubbing”?
28:40 Your life is precious
Allie Marie Smith is the founder and director of Wonderfully Made, a nonprofit dedicated to helping teen girls and young women. Allie is an award-winning author, speaker, podcast host, and certified life coach. Her newest book is Social Media Reset: A 30 Day Guided Journey to Unplug, Reconnect with God, and Reclaim Your Joy. Allie loves surfing and adventuring up and down the CA coast with her hubby Paul and golden retriever named Gidget. You can hear Allie’s testimony of how God saved her from depression and suicide in my earlier podcast with her titled Teen Girls are Wonderfully Made. https://www.accessmore.com/episode/Allie-Marie-Smith---Teen-Girls-are-Wonderfully-Made
Find out more about Allie Marie Smith and her book, Social Media Reset on her website https://wonderfullymade.org/
Get Arlene's free resource, 5 Ways to Reset Your Tech here https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
You're invited to see David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025. Get your ticket today. https://parentsrisingconference.com/
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Need some encouragement as a single parent? Single father Rich Griffin is here to talk about the ups and downs of parenting three adopted sons, dealing with trauma, and the problem of professionalizing discipleship. Rich has a message of hope for single parents, and every parent who wants guide their child towards wisdom. On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:47 Why Rich became a single dad
7:00 How to help your kids overcome trauma
9:10 From church and family, to church as family
15:03 Handling hard situations with your kids
19:33 How to do ministry with your kids
27:41 The three T’s of parenting
Rich Griffith is a part-time pastor and an associate professor of Youth and Multi-generational Ministry at Toccoa Falls College, where he has been teaching since 2016. He holds masters degrees in theology and organizational leadership, as well as a doctorate in youth, family, and culture. His books include Voices: Helping our Christian and Youth Listen to Wise Counsel. Rich is the single dad of three adopted sons.
Find out more about Rich Griffith at https://d6family.com/
Have a question or comment for Rich? Email Rich at rwgriffith@tfc.edu
Read Arlene's book, Screen Kids, which includes a section for single parents. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/books
You're invited to see David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025. Get your ticket today. https://parentsrisingconference.com/
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Winning in marriage isn't about winning an argument against your spouse. You and your spouse are on the same team, which means you either both win or you both lose. NFL chaplains George and Tondra Gregory are here to help us develop a winning game plan for marriage. A great marriage won't happen by accident, but it can be built. We'll learn how from George and Tondra's new book, The Marriage Game Plan: Developing a winning strategy for marital success. On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:30 They were headed towards divorce– but rebounded by God’s grace
7:00 Why did God create marriage in the first place?
14:15 What if you approached marriage like a professional?
20:25 Getting on the same page in marriage
24:40 Having trouble with your in-laws?
28:35 How to enjoy “victory Mondays” in our marriages
George and Tondra Gregory have been coaching couples through their national marriage ministry for more than 20 years. They have previously served as marriage ministry leaders at Saddleback Church. They worked with several professional sports teams and leagues including the NFL and the NBA. They are currently serving as the chaplains to the LA Chargers. Their new book is The Marriage Game Plan: Developing a winning strategy for marital success.
Find out more about George and Tondra Gregory here https://journeyforlifenow.org
Get the book The Marriage Game Plan https://journeyforlifenow.org/books/
Get free date ideas (even if you just have 15 or 30 minutes) and check out Arlene's book Making Marriage Easier https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
You're invited to see David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025. Get your ticket today. https://parentsrisingconference.com/
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When was the last time you were triggered by your kids? The struggle is real! How do you respond with patience instead of anger when your child pushes your buttons? Boy mom Amber Lia has godly advice to manage our anger (and our triggers). Her new book is, Untriggered: 60 Days of Transformation for Moms Who Struggle with Anger. On today's episode, we'll talk about:
3:21 Is parenting feeling rough right now?
4:45 How can we reframe our anger towards our kids?
9:23 What to do when your child talks back to you
14:45 Help–My kids fight all the time!
19:06 When you feel that no one appreciates you as a mom
23:00 How you can overcome past mistakes as a parent
27:05 How to release comparison as a parent
Amber Lia is the bestselling author of many books including Food Triggers and Parenting Scripts. Today we talked about her new devotional, Untriggered: 60 days of transformation for moms who struggle with anger. Amber and her husband Guy have 4 boys and own a production company in Chattanooga. Amber is also a certified independent health coach.
Find out more about Amber Lia on her website https://amberlia.com/
Get Amber's book Untriggered here https://amberlia.com/books-and-resources
You're invited to see David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025. Get your ticket today. https://parentsrisingconference.com/
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Today’s culture sends boys a confusing and discouraging message that men are toxic. But the truth is real masculinity is a gift from God. From her new book Mothering Boys, Molly DeFrank shows us 8 things our boys need from us before they turn 10. On today's episode, you'll learn about:
2:27 The great syrup disaster!!!
6:25 What we are facing culturally as boy moms
9:02 What does Biblical masculinity look like
16:30 How to help your son with eye contact
21:30 Getting your children to mind your authority
24:40 Help! My kids never do their chores!
28:00 Boys need to be creative– what we can do to help?
Molly DeFrank is a former politico turned stay home mom. She married her college sweetheart and a week later began working in the governor’s office. She put her career on hold to raise her 3 boys and 3 girls. Molly is the author of Digital Detox, and today we're talking about her new book, Mothering Boys: 8 Things your son needs from you before he turns 10.
Find out more about Molly DeFrank and her book, Mothering Boys https://mollydefrank.com/mothering-boys/
Follow Molly on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mollydefrank
Maybe you're not a reader, but you can watch a video course instead. Check out Arlene's Screen Kids Course here. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course
You're invited to see David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025. Get your ticket today. https://parentsrisingconference.com/
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The preteen years can be perilous for kids (and parents!). Kids are being bombarded today with messages and images that threaten their emotional and spiritual health. Mom of ten, Tricia Goyer not only has lots of experience with preteens, she has a new book (co-authored with Leslie Nunnery), Faith That Sticks: 5 Real Life Ways to Disciple Your Preteen. On today's episode with Tricia Goyer, we'll talk about:
3:52 What to say when your child gets tired of church
9:50 Calming down when getting angry at your children
18:22 How to deal with a child struggling with gender
25:30 Helping your children discover their interests
Tricia Goyer is a speaker, podcast host, and USA Today bestselling author of over 90 books. She writes in various genres, including fiction, parenting, marriage, and books for children and teens. Tricia is a wife and homeschooling mom of ten, and enjoys mentoring writers.
Find out more about Tricia Goyer and her book, Faith That Sticks: 5 Real Life Ways to Disciple Your Preteen https://triciagoyer.com/books/faith-that-sticks-5-real-life-ways-to-disciple-your-preteen/
Can kids survive without social media, video games and smartphones? Will they have friends? Find out in Arlene's free film, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film
You're invited to see David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025. Get your ticket today (early bird price through June 30) https://parentsrisingconference.com/
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Complex problems don't always have to require complex solutions. A simple tweak in your marriage could make a world of difference. One of our favorite guests is back, Dr. Gary Chapman with proven marriage advice to make your marriage better starting today. Dr. Chapman has a new book, A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage: Quick Practical Insights Every Couple Needs to Thrive (co-authored with John Hinkley). On today's episode, we're talking about: 2:07 Help! I married the wrong person!10:50 What to do when you are hurt by your spouse12:45 Shifting from a contract marriage to a covenant marriage15:22 How to be more patient with your spouse 18:30 Sex is not a taboo topic to God (and it shouldn't be for you either) 23:05 The ultimate way to communicate with your spouseDr. Gary Chapman is an author, speaker, and marriage and family counselor. His bestselling Five Love Languages books have sold more than 20 million copies and have been translated into nearly 40 languages. Dr. Chapman and his wife Karolyn have been married more than 50 years.Learn more about Dr. Gary Chapman and his new book, A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage https://5lovelanguages.com/store/a-simple-guide-for-a-better-marriageYou're invited to see David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025. Get your ticket today (early bird price through June 30) https://parentsrisingconference.com/Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com
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If you could use more joy, purpose and hope as a mom, or if you’re a For King and Country fan, this episode with Courtney Smallbone is for you, We’re talking about her new devotional, Technicolor Woman and explaining what living in full color can look like for you. In this episode, you'll learn:
3:17 How do we keep ourselves humble?
6:09 Feeling way to busy?? How to handle pressure in your life
11:25 The Lord’s heart to nourish us
20:46 How to not succumb to social media
23:37 Our baby wasn't breathing
Courtney Smallbone is an author and speaker who wants to come alongside women and help them move from living in black and white to full color. She and her husband Luke Smallbone (one-half of the Grammy winning For King + Country) have four kids. When Courtney's not sipping coffee on her porch or traveling with the band, you'll find her raising cattle and kids on a farm in Tennessee.
Learn more about Courtney Smallbone and her book, Technicolor Woman https://technicolorwoman.com/
Technicolor Woman on Kindle https://www.amazon.com/Technicolor-Woman-Courtney-Smallbone-ebook/dp/B0F3W886TZ
Shop For King + Country https://www.forkingandcountry.com/collections/books
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to see David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
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We live in a world that prizes hustle,and constant productivity. How do we break the habit of hurry? Eryn Lynum is here to show us from nature, God’s Word, and her own family life how to truly live more rested. If you're longing for a little bit of rest in your life, this is for you. We're sharing rich thoughts from Eryn's new book, The Nature of Rest: What the Bible and Creation Teach Us About Sabbath Living. On today's episode, you'll learn:
3:00 What we can learn from hummingbirds
8:00 How to practically honor the Sabbath
13:50 What does it mean for God to “stay us”?
17:43 How society lies to us about rest
23:07 How to get your kids outdoors more frequently
26:20 The two ways that God reveals Himself to us
Eryn Lynum is a certified master naturalist and Bible teacher. She is the podcast host of the popular Nat Theo: Nature Lessons Rooted in the Bible. Her books include Rooted in Wonder and The Nature of Rest. She lives in Colorado with her husband and 4 kids.
Learn more about Eryn and her new book, The Nature of Rest https://erynlynum.com/
Check out Eryn's podcast, Nat Theo https://erynlynum.com/nattheo
Can kids be happy without smartphones, social media or video games? Check out our family documentary, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words (it's free!) https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to see David, Sissy, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
See David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene Pellicane live at the Parents Rising Conference on September 6, 2025 in San Diego. Tickets on sale now http://parentsrisingconference.com/
Do you tend to think about what might go wrong instead of what might go right? Negativity is our default mode and can be disastrous for a family, but what if bad can sometimes be leveraged for good in your home? The power of bad can actually be leveraged for good. Learn when bad really is bad, and when it actually serves as a useful consequence for kids. This is a message Arlene shared on Mother's Day at Bonita Valley Community Church in San Diego. You'll hear about:
4:40 Would you drink juice that had a sterilized cockroach dipped in it?
7:50 The negativity effect and what it does to your thinking
9:50 How many positive comments are needed to cancel out a negative one?
12:20 One billion users on TikTok
15:15 How light acts as a disinfectant
19:00 When bad is actually helpful
23:00 Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them
25:15 Study of reward and punishment for kids
29:00 Arlene is rapping???
33:00 Heart cracking goodness
Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home podcast, a speaker and author of several books including Making Marriage Easier, Screen Kids, and Parents Rising. She has been featured on FamilyLife Today, Focus on the Family, the Wall Street Journal, and The Today Show. She and her husband James have three children (two in college and one in high school).
Learn more at Happy Home University https://happyhomeuniversity.com/
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to see Arlene live with David Thomas and Sissy Goff at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
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Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
See David Thomas, Sissy Goff, and Arlene Pellicane live at the Parents Rising Conference on September 6, 2025 in San Diego. Tickets on sale now http://parentsrisingconference.com/
What would happen if your child could trade insecurity for bravery, and giving up for resilience? Counselors and bestselling authors David Thomas and Sissy Goff can help you raise confident, worry free kids. Drawing from their vast experience at Daystar Counseling Ministries in Nashville, David and Sissy know how to help kids and parents deal with anxiety and worry. They have written two new children's books, Lucy Learns to Be Brave and Owen Learns He Has What it Takes. On today's episode, you'll learn:
5:25 Your dog could be more than a pet!
7:45 How to tell if your child is flourishing
14:36 Modeling emotions to your child
20:50 Are we giving anxiety too much attention?
24:53 Reversing the negative effects of COVID in our teenagers
31:00 What to do if your child won’t leave their room
David Thomas is the director of family counseling at Daystar Counseling Ministries in Nashville. His books include Raising Emotionally Strong Boys and Wild Things: The Art of Nurturing Boys. He and Sissy host the popular Raising Boys and Girls podcast. Sissy Goff is the director of child and adolescent counseling at Daystar. Her books include Raising Worry-Free Girls and The Worry-Free Parent.
Learn more about David Thomas and Sissy Goff and their new children's books, Lucy Learns to Be Brave and Owen Learns He Has What it Takes at Raising Boys and Girls https://www.raisingboysandgirls.com/
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to see David, Sissy, and Arlene at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
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As parents, we hope our children will follow Jesus forever. But maybe you worry sometimes that your child will grow up to walk away from the faith. Today's guest Justin Brierley has hosted radio conversations between Christians and non-Christians for more than 20 years. He's here to share the reasons why he still believes, and how your children can too. From his book, Why I'm Still a Christian, you'll be encouraged to raise your kids with confidence. We'll talk about:
4:07 Is raising your kids in a Christian bubble always the best for them?
6:46 How to answer your kids’ tough questions about God
10:45 What only the existence of God can explain
22:28 Helping your child through their doubts about God
30:45 The new hope for Christianity
Justin Brierley is a UK-based author, speaker, and broadcaster known for hosting dialogues between Christians and non-Christians. He is passionate about creating conversations around faith, science, theology, and culture. He is the former host of the Unbelievable radio show, as well as the Ask NT Wright Anything podcast. He and his wife Lucy have 4 children. Justin is the author of many books including The Surprising Rebirth of Belief in God: Why New Atheism Grew Old and the book we've talked about today, Why I'm Still a Christian.
Find out more about Justin Brierley on his website https://justinbrierley.com/
Get Justin's book, Why I'm Still a Christian https://www.amazon.com/Why-Still-Christian-Conversations-Atheists/dp/1496466934/
Too much screen time for your kids? Get Arlene's book written with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
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Would you like to have better conversations with your kids? If you're tired of conversations that are shallow or forced, you are going to love this episode with Heather Holleman as she shares from her book, The Six Conversations. You will be able to connect with your kids and spouse in new ways after learning better questions to ask. On this episode, you will learn:
3:40 The mindset you need to create a warm connection
6:14 The beauty of journaling and noting other's concerns
14:01 How to love with your face
19:04 Teaching your kids to have good conversations
23:30 Modeling curiosity to your children
Dr. Heather Holleman is an associate teaching professor at Penn State, a speaker and an author. Her books include Seated with Christ: Lively freely in a culture of comparison, and today we’re talking about her book, The Six Conversations: Pathways to Connected in an Age of Isolation and Incivility. She serves alongside her husband Ashley in speaking and writing. They’ve been full time staff with Cru for 20 years. They have two daughters.
Find out more about Heather Holleman and her book, The Six Conversations https://heatherholleman.com/books-2/six-conversations/
Learn more about Seated & Sent, the speaking and coaching ministry of Heather and Ashley Holleman https://seatedandsent.com/
Want to have better conversations with your spouse? Read Arlene's book Making Marriage Easier and get the discussion rolling in a fun way! https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Is it possible to create purpose and spiritual growth in your kids in the mess of everyday life? Bestselling author of Habits of the Household, Justin Whitmel Earley, will show you how to establish ordinary routines that make a big difference in the spiritual habits of your kids (and you too!). This is the book I wish I would have read when my kids were younger. Today you'll learn about:
2:11 From a missionary in China to a lawyer???
4:35 Your new bedtime routine with your kids
7:07 What does it look like to adopt a liturgy?
9:30 Hectic mornings? Try this simple habit
17:40 How to form new habits
21:51 Why is kneeling in prayer so important?
25:10 Join the Hang 10 movement
Justin Whitmel Earley is a writer, speaker, and lawyer from Richmond, Virginia. He's the award-winning author of books like The Common Rule and the book we're talking about today, Habits of the Household: Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family Rhythms. He also has a children's book, The Big Mess. Justin and his wife Lauren have four boys.
Find out more about Justin Whitmel Earley and his books on his website https://www.justinwhitmelearley.com/
Learn about the Hang 10 Movement to change the next generation's relationship with technology https://www.hangtenmovement.com/
Can kids really have friends and thrive without social media or a smartphone? Watch Arlene's free documentary, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Get Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Did you grow up listening to Adventures in Odyssey? Focus on the Family's long running audio radio drama is filled with lovable characters, hilarious one-liners, fun and suspense. One of the main characters, Katie Leigh (aka Connie Kendall) joins us to talk about working in Hollywood as a Christian, using entertainment for good, and a behind the scenes look into Odyssey. We'll talk about:
3:17 The importance of humor
7:53 How parents play a huge role in shaping you
10:24 Why to stay childlike
12:05 Living out Christianity, even in Hollywood
14:55 What would Connie say about our kids on screens???
23:52 What makes Adventures in Odyssey such a good listen
Today's guest Katie Leigh has been the voice of main character Connie Kendall on Focus on the Family’s audio radio drama, Adventures in Odyssey since the series first began in 1987. Her voice has been heard on Disney Junior, PBS Kids, Universal kids, Cartoon Network, and Nickelodeon.
Learn more about Katie Leigh on her website https://www.katieleigh.com/
Learn more about Adventures in Odyssey, a Focus on the Family production here https://www.adventuresinodyssey.com/
Get the help you need to take back your home from too much negative technology. Join Arlene for her masterclass, Screen Kids today https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 http://parentsrisingconference.com/
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
You might think teaching theology is above your pay grade, but it's not! Pastor and author Sam Luce will explain how you can share God's Word with your kids from his book, How to Teach Kids Theology. You can take deep truths and share them in practical, actionable ways with your children and teens. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
5:00 The MOST important thing in the development of your child
7:55 How to teach your kids so that they don’t “grow out of their faith”
11:30 What is “cliff-note Christianity”?
15:35 How can I as a parent get closer to God?
21:20 Growing into the habit of teaching your kids the word of God
25:09 How to avoid over-simplifying theology for your kids
Sam Luce is the pastor of global ministries at Redeemer Church in Utica NY. He’s a prolific writer and speaker, with a passion for children’s ministry and the next generation. His new book co-authored with Hunter Williams is How to Teach Kids Theology - Deep truths for growing faith. Sam and his wife have 4 kids.
Learn more about Sam Luce and his book, How to Teach Kids Theology https://samluce.com/
Get the help you need to take back your home from too much technology. Join Arlene for her masterclass, Screen Kids today https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 http://parentsrisingconference.com/
Get Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
In this social media, celebrity focused world, it can be easy to feel overlooked. You might not feel like you are doing anything important. Mary DeMuth is here to show us from Scripture that God loves to use those that the world overlooks. Sharing from her new book, The Most Overlooked Women of the Bible, you'll learn about:
4:45 Why more people should know about Jehosheba
7:35 Growing up in a dysfunctional family doesn’t dictate your future
12:26 Taking courage in Christ for struggles in your marriage
15:37 How to obey God without hesitation like Abigail
17:45 God sees you! (and here's how)
25:00 Husbands who are forgotten and overlooked
Mary DeMuth is a literary agent, daily podcaster at the PrayEveryDay.show, Scripture artist, speaker, and the author of more than fifty books, including The Most Misunderstood Women of the Bible and the topic of today’s conversation, The Most Overlooked Women of the Bible- What their stories teach us about being seen and heard. She lives in Texas with her husband and is the mom to three adult children.
Learn more about Mary and her book, The Most Overlooked Women of the Bible https://marydemuth.com/
Get the help you need to take back your home from too much technology. Join Arlene for her masterclass, Screen Kids today https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course
Get Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 http://parentsrisingconference.com/
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Get Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
What's the one sin that is defeating you or your family? Karl Clauson knows what it's like to wrestle with sin, hit rock bottom, and find God's grace wider than he ever dared hope. His new book, Killing Sin: Conquer the one thing that is defeating you, will help you wage war on sin and find victory in Christ. In today's conversation, you'll learn about:
3:00 Racing the Iditarod, 1100 miles through the tundra with a dog sled team
6:22 What parenting with true power looks like
13:33 The transformative power of God’s grace
15:21 How to kill your sin
22:00 Hate can be good???
25:30 Why tackling one sin at a time is important
27:00 There is victory lying ahead of you
Karl Clauson is the host of Moody Radio’s Karl and Crew, a nationally syndicated radio program. He is the lead pastor of 180 Chicago Church. Karl and his bride Junanne have been married 37 years and have 2 adult kids.
Learn more about Karl and his new book, Killing Sin (and get free resources to help you fix broken systems and much more) https://killsin.com/
Get the help you need to take back your home from too much technology. Join Arlene for her masterclass, Screen Kids today https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 http://parentsrisingconference.com/
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Get Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life https://www.amazon.com/Making-Marriage-Easier-Love-Spouse/dp/0802433774/
Can you remember eating your grandma's homemade cookies, or going somewhere special with your grandpa? Grandparents are memory makers. Leslie Means joins us to talk about the wonderful role grandmas can have in family life. She's here to talk about her new book, So God Made a Grandma. In today's conversation, you'll learn about:
6:00 Encouraging your kids to make memories with their grandparents
8:05 Is it possible to be unhurried as a parent?
12:39 Grandma, you're so wise!
16:00 How can we warm up a cold relationship with our parents or grandparents?
22:00 The importance of creativity in motherhood
27:42 Putting parenting in perspective
Leslie Means is founder and owner of the popular website Her View From Home, which features contributor stories on motherhood, marriage, faith, and grief. She is a former news anchor, a weekly columnist, an author of the national bestseller So God Made a Mother. She and her husband have 3 children.
Learn more about Leslie Means and her new book collaboration, So God Made a Grandma https://herviewfromhome.com/so-god-made-a-grandma/
Follow Leslie on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/leslielmeans/
Learn more about the Legacy Coalition, a ministry for grandparents https://legacycoalition.com/
Get Arlene's book written with Dr. Gary Chapman, Grandparenting Screen Kids https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802420702
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 http://parentsrisingconference.com/
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life is now available https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
When you can't change the way you feel in your marriage, you have to change the way you think. Greg and Julie Gorman know what it's like to fight and argue, day in and day out. How did they learn how to have a happy marriage by changing their thinking? Sharing from their 52 week devotional, Married for a Purpose, Greg and Julie talk about:
2:35 Your marriage is not an accident
6:45 The power of surrender in your marriage
12:00 The importance of avoiding complacency
20:10 Going through financial trials
25:30 Leading with love with your kids
Greg and Julie Gorman are authors, entrepreneurs, and certified life coaches who understand the struggles of everyday life. They chose to have a purpose-focused marriage and it changed everything. Their books include Married for a Purpose: 52 Weekly Devotions for Couples. They have three children and live near West Palm Beach, Florida.
Learn more about coaching and the Gormans at Married for a Purpose https://marriedforapurpose.com/
Get Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Find out more about National Marriage Week (every February 7-14) marriageweek.org
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life is now available https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
It's easy to play the blame game in marriage. If only my spouse would change, our marriage would be so much better. Yet trying to fix your partner rarely ends well. Focus on the Family's Dr. Bob Paul is a masterful marriage counselor who is sharing what he has learned from more than 40 years of marriage. In today's conversation about creating a marriage you both love, Dr. Paul shares:
2:30 Why do young people buy into the myths about marriage?
5:37 The media highlights the fairytale love story–is this the reality?
9:40 How to get out of the blame game in a marriage
15:15 The real goal for a marriage is...
20:00 One of the most dangerous things for a marriage
26:10 Why don't you like the unity candle?
30:40 How to build a happy home if you didn’t grow up in one
Dr. Bob Paul serves as the Vice President of the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute and is the primary architect of the Hope Restored Marriage Intensive programs. He is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri, Georgia, and Michigan and has helped train hundreds of marriage therapists. He has authored and co-authored four books including The DNA of Relationships, Empowered to Love, and 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage. Bob, and his wife, Jenni, have been married for over 40 years and have four adult children and six grandchildren.
Learn more about Hope Restored Marriage Intensives https://hoperestored.com/
Learn more about Dr. Paul's books:
Empowered to Love: Discovering Your God-Given Power to Create a Marriage You Both Love https://www.amazon.com/Empowered-Love-Discovering-God-Given-Marriage/dp/1646071131/
9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage https://www.amazon.com/Lies-That-Will-Destroy-Marriage/dp/1589979710/
Get Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Find out more about National Marriage Week (every February 7-14) marriageweek.org
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Tickets on sale now! You're invited to Arlene's Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Listen to the Happy Home Podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life is now available https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
How do you protect your marriage from the many temptations surrounding you? New York Times bestselling author Jerry Jenkins has found a way to protect his marriage of more than 40 years. He shares how husbands can love their wives and protect them by planting hedges - not in your garden, but in your heart. Jerry shares from his book, Hedges: 7 Ways to Love Your Wife and Protect Your Marriage. On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:50 Meeting his spouse… love at third site
9:06 How to “build a hedge” in your marriage
15:00 The difference between a male and female mindset
20:15 How do we help the younger generation appreciate the vow of marriage
23:23 Leaving the legacy of “building hedges”
27:00 How to keep loving your spouse, even when you don’t feel like it
Jerry Jenkins is the author of more than 195 books with sales of over 70 million copies, including the best-selling Left Behind series. Jerry's writing has appeared in Time, Reader's Digest, Parade, Guideposts, and dozens of Christian periodicals. Twenty-one of his books have reached The New York Times best-seller list (seven debuting number one). Jerry trains writers online at http://jerryjenkins.com/
Get Jerry's book, Hedges: 7 Ways to Love Your Wife and Protect Your Marriage https://www.amazon.com/Hedges-Ways-Love-Protect-Marriage/dp/164607128X
Get Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Find out more about National Marriage Week (every February 7-14) marriageweek.org
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Save the date: Arlene's next Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025 https://parentsrisingconference.com/
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Check out Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life AND get free date night ideas https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
They are two famous musicians who fell in love. But unlike many celebrities, their marriage is built to last. Rebecca St. James and Cubbie Fink talk about their love story and new book, Lasting Ever: Faith, Music, Family and Being Found by True Love. On today's episode, Rebecca and Cubbie talk about:
3:10 Love at first sight???
8:15 The importance of remembering within a marriage
12:45 The redemption within filming Unsung Hero
18:00 Do we really want fame?
22:10 The best thing a father can do for his kids
25:55 The true privilege of being a parent
Rebecca St. James is a Grammy award winning Christian music legend with more than 2 million albums sold. She is the author of more than a dozen books and hosts a Focus on the Family podcast, Practice Makes Parent. Cubbie Fink is a founding member of the Grammy award winning indie pop band Foster the People. He is a successful film producer and director, including his work on Unsung Hero which received the Dove award for film of the year. Cubbie and Rebecca have 3 kids and live in Nashville.
Follow Rebecca St. James on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/rebeccast.james
Get the book, Lasting Ever: Faith, Music, Family and Being Found by True Love https://www.amazon.com/Lasting-Ever-Faith-Music-Family/dp/0830787852?
Get Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
8 nights of free marriage livestreams for National Marriage Week (Feb 7-14). Sign up here marriageweek.org
Listen to Joel Smallbone's episode about Unsung Hero https://www.accessmore.com/episode/Joel-Smallbone---Unsung-Hero
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com
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Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Hey friends! I'm excited to share a free preview of my new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to love (and like) your spouse for life. I hope you will enjoy chapter 1 of the audiobook.
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What have I learned about a happy marriage after 26 years and counting? My husband James joins me on the podcast as we celebrate the launch of my new book, Making Marriage Easier. You can build a marriage you love. One of the keys to an easier marriage is listening to one another--really listening. On today's episode, we'll talk about:
4:15 Wait what...I need electrolysis???
8:10 Why is listening so important in marriages
14:43 I thought I was a good listener but then...
16:35 What is going on in my life that I’m not listening to?
James and Arlene Pellicane have been married for 26 years and live in San Diego. They have three children and a giant goldendoodle. James works as a Realtor in San Diego and loves helping people find the perfect home.
Do you like to listen to your books? Be sure to listen to this week's BONUS EPISODE featuring chapter 1 of Making Marriage Easier. You'll begin the audiobook for free!
Get Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
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Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
Men and women are so different which can be both fascinating and frustrating. Marriage experts and bestselling authors Bill and Pam Farrel have cracked the code in their bestselling book, Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti. Why do women talk so much? Why do men think they can fix everything? On today's episode about improving communication in your marriage, Bill and Pam Farrel talk about:
3:20 What does it mean that men are like waffles and women are like spaghetti?
7:00 Women, you can confuse us!
9:20 Sometimes we men really aren’t thinking about anything
11:30 The gift women can give to men in communication
15:50 How to unlock your husband’s heart
20:10 What if you were eating a meal and it got taken away before you were finished?
23:00 Men and women solve problems differently (brain study)
27:20 When Pam ran out of gas, did Bill get mad?
Bill and Pam Farrel are relationship experts, international speakers, and Directors of Love-Wise. Their many books include Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti, Red Hot Monogamy, and The 10 Best Decisions Every Parent Can Make. They are popular speakers for marriage conferences, date nights, and singles and parent groups.
Learn more about Bill and Pam Farrel and their book, Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti on their website https://www.love-wise.com/product/men-are-like-waffles-women-are-like-spaghetti-20th-anniversary-edition/
Pre-order Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
National Marriage Week is February 7 - 14. Hear experts like Bill and Pam Farrel on free livestreams to help your marriage every night of National Marriage Week. Sign up for free livestreams here marriageweek.org
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com
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Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
If you have a child struggling with addiction, it can seem improbable and even impossible that your child will change. Today's guest Melissa Huray is living proof that anyone can break free from addiction and go from bondage to blessed. Born into an alcoholic home, Melissa found her escape from pain through alcohol. Drinking would steal 15 good years of her life, but after surrendering to Christ, her whole life changed. She found total freedom and she'll share today how you and your kids can too.
Get Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Today on the show, we'll talk about:
3:00 Growing up with an alcoholic father
7:00 Being drawn to the numbing effects of alcohol as a teen
The enemy primed me for that. He showed me alcohol can help you. It can do something positive for you.
8:15 What can you say as a parent to help your child in addiction
13:00 I needed to stop drinking but everything I tried failed
16:31 Alcoholism is a disease - why this label is not helpful
19:00 No matter what the dependency, you can pursue healing
21:00 What I am trying to do with my teenagers
25:00 Both coming from addicted homes, we had a lot of baggage in our marriage
29:00 Learning to trust God and living in freedom
Melissa Huray is an Emmy award winning news reporter and anchor, and an addiction counselor with a Masters in Physiology. She is the Executive Director at the Lindell Recovery Network. Her books include Blackout to Blessing and Radical Freedom.
Learn more about Melissa Huray and her books https://melissahuray.com/
Help is available at Lindell Recovery Network https://lindellrecoverynetwork.org/
Get Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Save the date: Arlene's next Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
We are spending more face to face time with devices than people--and it's hurting us and our kids. There is a reason mental health has plummeted in the past decade. We are experiencing a new type of loneliness and isolation because of the hours we are spending looking at screens. Cindi McMenamin, author of The New Loneliness will share how we can reset and regain the strength that comes from real friendships. It's a message both for us as parents and for our kids.
Order Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
On today's episode, we'll talk about:
2:40 US Surgeon General’s alert on loneliness
4:30 When it’s just easier to stay home instead of going out
6:10 Zoom meetings and communication
8:45 Going deeper with our friendships starts with…
12:00 Mom, you don’t have any friends anymore
15:25 When AI becomes a friend
20:00 Consider this about AI and your kids
21:30 Taking an assessment: Are you lonely?
24:00 When you have a misunderstanding with a friend that hurts
27:10 When you miss your kids during the empty nest
Cindi McMenamin is an award winning writer and speaker. She’s ministered to women for nearly 40 years. Her books include 10 Secrets to Becoming a Worry-Free Mom, Drama Free, and 12 Ways to Experience More with your Husband. Today we’re talking about her latest book, The New Loneliness: Nurturing meaningful connections when you feel isolated
Learn more about Cindi McMenamin and her book, The New Loneliness https://strengthforthesoul.com/
Order Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Save the date: Arlene's next Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
You can be in a house filled with family and still suffer from loneliness. How can we fight against the epidemic of loneliness in our culture? There is a way to escape the darkness of loneliness. Becky Harling is here to help us with insights from her book, Cultivating Deeper Connections in a Lonely World.
Pre-order Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
On today's episode, we'll talk about:
2:32 Does my loneliness need attention or will it go away naturally?
6:15 How to overcome loneliness
10:12 How to keep stepping forward in faith even if I don’t “feel” His presence
12:50 Am I engineering my own loneliness?
17:04 I’m a critical person: help!
22:16 Why we need to be unoffendable
Becky Harling has a degree in biblical literature and is a speaker, author and Bible teacher. The host of The Connected Mom podcast, Becky’s passion is to help women find hope, healing, freedom, and life transformation through Jesus Christ. Becky is the author of many books and Bible studies, and today we’re talking about her book, Cultivating Deeper Connections in a Lonely World.
Learn more about Becky Harling and her book, Cultivating Deeper Connections in a Lonely World https://beckyharling.com/
Pre-order Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Save the date: Arlene's next Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025
Purchase the Storyteller’s Bible HERE.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
When every single person in your home feels lavishly loved, life is better. You and your kids know you are loved by God, but sometimes you forget or don't feel loved. Rachael Adams has a new book, Everyday Prayers for Love, which will help you invite the God of love into your home each day. It's about making love the rule of your life, not the exception. In today's episode, we'll talk about:
2:10 How to be a love offering
5:32 How do you describe love?
11:47 How to see God’s love in a tangible way
15:55 Can anger be healthy anger and still loving?
19:45 How to honor your divorced parents
22:28 How to love God with the entirety of yourself
Today’s guest Rachael Adams is the host of The Love Offering Podcast, and the author of A Little Goes a Long Way: 52 Days to a Significant Life. She and her husband live in Kentucky with their two children. Her new book, Everyday Prayers for Love is part of the Everyday Prayers series through Million Praying Moms.
Learn more about Rachael Adams https://rachaelkadams.com/
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Your child has been begging you for a phone (or video game, social media, tablet, etc). You have held out for a long time but this Christmas, you decided to wrap that phone and place it under the tree. What can you expect after the gift is given? What kind of guidelines can you present with the phone? How can you set up your child for success and not failure? On today's 25 Days of Christmas episode, Arlene shares:
2:00 What was the lamest Christmas present you ever got?
5:30 Pre-order Arlene’s new book Making Marriage Easier
5:00 The gift (phone, iPad, etc) has been given, now what?
8:20 You are not manipulated into giving a gift, it’s voluntary
9:40 What if my child made a Powerpoint presentation begging me?
11:05 Ground rules for the phone
13:30 You need systems, not just good intentions
15:00 Protect Young Eyes, monitoring and more, DNS, Clean Browsing
18:00 Warning signs that your child is not ready for that phone or game
20:45 What if you need to take the gift away from your child?
24:50 What can I do right now to help my child have a better relationship with technology? How did we get here?
Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home podcast and author of books like Screen Kids (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman) and Calm, Cool, and Connected: 5 Digital Habits for a More Balanced Life. Arlene and her husband James have raised three kids in Southern California who went through high school without smartphones, social media, or video games (and actually enjoyed it).
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As we count down the 25 Days of Christmas, your family could probably use some help in the kitchen! Kathi Lipp has a new cookbook Sabbath Soup with plenty of tips to make meal time easier. Plus you'll be invited to consider the important rhythm of Sabbath rest. Learn how to make the most of meals together with family and friends this Christmas season to enjoy more emotional connection and less fuss and stress. On today's episode, we're talking about:
2:50 Help! I don’t know how to cook!
4:40 Do this and take the stress out of mealtime
8:30 Some tips and tricks for how to save money on groceries
13:30 How to honor the Sabbath as a mom
21:23 Magic meals???
25:38 Tips for picky eaters
29:00 I need to declutter - but where do I start?
Kathi Lipp is a Publishers Weekly bestseller of 20 books including the Accidental Homesteader, Clutter Free, and the Husband Project. Her new book is Sabbath Soup: Weekly Menus and Rhythms to make space for a day of rest.
Learn more about Kathi Lipp and her cookbook, Sabbath Soup https://sabbathsoup.com/
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You're supposed to feel joyful during the holiday season. But if you're honest, you're feeling more tired and overwhelmed. We're counting down the 25 Days of Christmas. How can you delight in Jesus once again at Christmastime and throughout the year? Asheritah Ciuciu will show us how to approach this season with faith, wonder, and worship. Her new book is Delighting in Jesus - Rhythms to restore joy when you feel broken, bored, or burned out. Today we'll talk about:
2:35 Where did all of my joy go?
12:32 How do we delight in Jesus
17:07 Is there a difference between joy and happiness?
19:53 Should we chase happiness?
25:50 How to get your joy back
Asheritah Ciuciu is an author, speaker, and founder of One Thing Alone Ministries. She is a wife and mama of three. Her books include Unwrapping the Names of Jesus for Kids, Bible & Breakfast, and Full: Food, Jesus, and the Battle for Satisfaction.
Learn more about Asheritah and her new book Delighting in Jesus. https://onethingalone.myshopify.com/products/signed-copy-of-delighting-in-jesus
Discover your devotional personality type https://onethingalone.com/
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Could you use more bubbles and fun this holiday season and less stress? The one and only Bob Goff shares how we can live daily with joy and expectation from his new book, Catching Whimsy. We are kicking off the 25 Days of Christmas with a fun and meaningful conversation about whimsy, remembering the good, baseball caps, fresh starts and much more. On today's episode, we'll talk about:
2:26 What do you mean by whimsy?
3:30 Your first car was...
6:50 How to get on the same page with your spouse
11:14 What is the role of remembering in our lives?
18:52 Wait, you cut a hole in your left pocket because...
20:17 How to start fresh
27:22 Helping our children through the “spot” moments of life
Bob Goff is the New York Times bestselling author of Love Does and Everybody Always. He’s appeared on Good Morning America, NPR, the Dave Ramsey show, Forbes and Relevant. He is the host of the Dream Big podcast and loves balloons, cake pops, and helping people pursue their big dreams.
Learn more about Bob Goff and his new book Catching Whimsy here: https://www.bobgoff.com/
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Are your kids going to be all right? Is your job secure? Will your marriage get better? We live in an age marked by worry and anxiety for adults and kids. Many who wrestle with anxiety know the Bible calls them to trust God, but how does that actually work? Pastor and author Jonny Ardavanis invites us to open God's Word for answers. In this conversation about his new book, Consider the Lilies, you'll learn:
3:30 I had a front row seat to teen anxiety as a camp director
5:25 If you’re a parent, this is what you need to know
7:00 Even if your child doesn’t suffer from anxiety, he or she lives in a performance stressful culture
8:30 How can we protect the minds of our kids?
10:45 One of the main schemes of Satan is to make sin look normal and righteousness seem strange
15:00 Every worry is an invitation to get closer to God
17:10 What’s the difference between a good godly concern and an ungodly worry?
20:00 We were told our daughter had a syndrome with strokes and seizures
24:00 When your kids have sports injuries
27:55 God allows you to go through trials because…
Jonny Ardavanis is the pastor of Stonebridge Bible Church in Franklin, TN. He’s the founder and president of Dial In Ministries serving the next generation. He has served as camp director at Hume Lake Christian Camps and as a dean at The Master’s College. He and his wife have two young daughters. Today, we're talking about his new book, Consider the Lilies: Finding Perfect Peace in the Character of God.
Learn more about Dial In Ministries https://dialinministries.org/
Get Jonny's book, Consider the Lilies https://www.amazon.com/Consider-Lilies-Finding-Perfect-Character/dp/0310368243/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.yBlnH-e3bSsBJoLo-Hv3vz_bwdX2IgWB9ezQ8PNYtkaw7ElP9_sLVDpE9it02M9F.-mnpeyrtjwUwqjpImQmTFaHlktyPYWQe-SMuf20w318&qid=1722298799&sr=1-1&ref=dialinministries.org
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The pressures and demands of life can leave you overwhelmed, discouraged and stressed out. Stress affects us as adults, and it can weigh down our kids too. Counselor and author of "I'm Stressed" Eliza Huie is here to show us how to manage stress better and experience more peace at home. Trade in your stress and anxiety for something far better. On today's podcast, you'll learn:
2:13 What stress can actually be good
6:20 Does my child need counseling?
11:00 The difference between worry and anxiety
14:00 How to change the “what if’s” to “even if’s”
16:50 What is your responsibility as a parent (and what's not)
21:17 How do we become stressed over temptations
27:02 What is A.W.E.?
Today’s guest Eliza Huie is a biblically trained, professionally licensed counselor. She is the director of counseling at McLean Bible Church in Virginia. She and her husband have three grown children and a grandson. She is an author of several books and a frequent speaker for conferences.
Learn more about Eliza Huie and her book, I'm Stressed: A Path from Pressure to Peace https://www.elizahuie.com/books
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Our kids are being bombarded by sexual images through social media, YouTube, porn, and music. As parents, we cannot be silent about sex, but it's such an awkward subject to talk about. Jim Burns is here to help us with conversations from his new book, A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity: God's plan for sex and your body. In this episode, you'll learn:
4:53 Is God like the grinch when it comes to sex and pleasure?
7:26 Start conversations like this
12:33 How to parent differently within this confusing time
16:00 What does God say about sexuality?
18:52 How to talk about dating with your kids
24:41 Why your kids need to be different (and why they'll thank you)
27:09 How to teach your kids how to bounce their eyes
Jim Burns is the president of HomeWord. He speaks to thousands of people around the world each year and his more than 3 million resources in print in 20 languages. He and his wife have 3 grown daughters. He’s the author of numerous books including Doing Life with Your Adult Children. Today he's talking about his newest book, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity: God’s Plan for Sex and Your Body.
Learn more about Jim Burns at Homeword.com https://homeword.com/
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We all have hopes and dreams for our kids, but what if we are expecting too much? Could we be putting too much pressure on our kids to be perfect? Author and marriage coach Jill Savage joins us to talk about her book, No More Perfect Kids. Get ready to breathe a sigh of relief as we talk honestly about:
2:37 Do you have the perfection infection?
9:00 How to appreciate your kids individually for who they are
13:57 Excellence is different than perfection
20:07 How to fight perfection infection in yourself and your kids
25:39 Managing expectations for your children
Jill Savage is an author of several books and international speaker who helps moms and marriages be the best they can be. She is the founder of Hearts at Home, a mother of five, and has been featured on KLOVE and Focus on the Family just to name a few places. She and her husband Mark serve as marriage coaches.
Learn more about Jill Savage here: https://jillsavage.org/
Get Jill Savage's book, No More Perfect Kids https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Perfect-Kids-Love/dp/0802411525/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&qid=1487697432&sr=8-1&keywords=no+more+perfect+kids&linkCode=sl1&tag=jilsav0c-20&linkId=31a159c7ea4880717a7fce880161b282
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What happens when you leave everything behind to sail around Africa with your three kids? Raeanne Newquist is here to talk about life on a Mercy Ship and seeing miracles firsthand. But you don't have to take a trip like this to support missions with your family. On today's show, you'll learn about:
3:41 Trusting God with the next move
6:20 How your kids can have a heart for the world
9:10 Going through challenges as a mom doing ministry
15:09 How we can involve our kids in reaching others for Christ
19:30 What is Mercy Ships all about?
27:40 How to trust God with hard decisions
Raeanne Newquist along with her husband and 3 children joined Mercy Ships in 2019. After leaving everything behind in Southern California, they boarded the Africa Mercy in Las Palmas and made their first sail down to Dakar, Senegal for their first field service. On board, Raeanne volunteered in the communications department and later in chaplaincy. Currently, Raeanne works in the Mercy Ships U.S. Marketing department. Raeanne is the host of the New Mercies podcast, is the voice of the Mercy Minute daily radio broadcast and serves as a staff writer.
Mercy Ships, founded in 1978, operates hospital ships that deliver free surgeries and other healthcare services to those with little access to safe medical care. Mercy Ships bases its work from its two hospital ships, the Africa Mercy®, which went into service in 2007, and the Global Mercy® — the world’s first purpose-built civilian hospital ship—which began serving African nations in 2022.
Find out more about Mercy Ships here https://www.mercyships.org/
To learn more about how you might serve on Mercy Ships, visit https://findyourplace.mercyships.org/immediate-needs/
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In the whirlwind of modern parenting, it can be easy to lose sight of what’s most important. It's time to get back on track to nurture authentic faith and relationship with God above all. Father of five, Barrett Johnson has a new book to help us, Disciple Them Like Jesus: Leading your kids the way Christ led the twelve. What can we learn from Jesus about connection, teaching, and modeling? You'll find out in today's conversation about:
2:45 Why is parenting so exhausting nowadays?
6:10 Your main priority as a parent is…
12:30 How do you disciple a child?
16:49 Noticing the little wins with your children
22:20 How dads can uniquely step in
28:00 How can we pass on a love of the Bible to our kids
Barrett Johnson is the founder of I.N.F.O. for Families (Imperfect and Normal Families Only), a nonprofit that helps parents have critical conversations with their kids and much more. He and his wife Jenifer lead marriage and parenting events across the country. They have five children and seven grandchildren.
Learn more about I.N.F.O. for Families here https://www.infoforfamilies.com/
Learn more about Barrett's new book, Disciple Them Like Jesus: Leading Your Kids the Way Christ Led the Twelve https://www.infoforfamilies.com/disciple-them-like-jesus
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Are you facing a crisis or challenge in your family? Suffering isn't anything we volunteer for. Today's guest Rachel Wojo knows what it's like to suffer profound losses and cry out to God in desperation. She shares how you can embrace the power of prayer in life's darkest moments with lessons of hope from her new book, Desperate Prayers. In today's conversation, you'll learn about:
2:24 A mysterious envelope and an answered prayer
9:45 How suffering can bear fruit
12:25 Pain presents us with a choice, what will you choose?
17:52 If you want quick healing, start here
20:30 I didn’t know how to move forward
23:38 God is a God of second chances
28:00 Our incredible adoption story
Rachel Wojo is an inspirational author, speaker, and podcaster. Through her biblical approach and personal life experiences, Rachel empowers women to discover strength and hope in everyday situations. Despite enduring the loss of her mother, father, and adult special needs daughter, Rachel remains resilient. She is crazy in love with her husband Matt and cherishes her six children on earth and two in heaven.
Learn more about Rachel Wojo and her book Desperate Prayers. https://rachelwojo.com/desperateprayers/
Get Rachel's free When You Can't Pray Guide https://rachelwojo.com/freebie-2/
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10:00 Why self-esteem didn’t deliver
12:15 Kids find fulfillment when they discover this
14:00 How to guide children to be respectful
16:30 Which is most important: humility, respect or resiliency?
18:00 A working definition of humility
21:10 Train, don’t entertain
23:30 When a teenager goes sideways
25:00 My twins entered high school and I had a panic attack
29:00 Instilling courage through trying
32:00 Using persuasive pressure on kids
Jill Garner is the founder of Manners of the Heart, a non-profit to re-awake respect in our society. She has been featured by Focus on the Family and FamilyLife Today. She is an accomplished speaker, advocate, and author.
Learn more about Jill Garner and her non-profit, Manners of the Heart https://mannersoftheheart.org/
Learn more about Jill Garner and her latest book, StrongHeart: Cultivating Humility, Respect, and Resiliency in Your Child. https://jillgarnercontent.org/books
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Kids and teens are being absorbed, entranced and harmed by technology use. Mental health problems are multiplying and there is no solution in sight. If we don't act, kids will be even more dependent on tech in the years ahead. What can we do to rescue this anxious generation? Arlene shares what you can do starting today to reverse the trend of harmful social media and gaming in your home.
Commenting about the findings in Jonathan Haidt's important book, The Anxious Generation, Arlene addresses:
5:00 Why is a rescue for our kids needed?
10:24 What does social media do to my child’s sleep and well-being?
16:51 But I've heard about the benefits of social media for teens
18:45 How to help your teen change social media use
23:50 Why we overprotect our kids in the real world, and under protect them in the virtual world
Watch Arlene's free video Screen Kids: In Their Own Words about her kids going through high school without phones https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film
Read Arlene's book Screen Kids (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman) https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
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If you keep your kids off social media and video games, will you be ruining their childhood? With the pressure for teens to engage online, is it really a good idea for a parent to delay the smartphone? College student Evan Hempe says yes. After seeing his older brother crash and burn because of video games, Evan's mom Melanie Hempe (last week's podcast guest and founder of ScreenStrong) vowed to raise Evan and his twin brother differently. Evan shares why his phone-free childhood was a remarkable gift as we talk about:
4:39 I was afraid of my older brother because of what the games did to him
7:08 Having a “real” childhood
14:37 There's such a difference between kids who grew up with phones and kids who didn’t
17:08 How you can get your kids interested in hobbies other than video games
22:04 The truth is social media is not essential for socializing
Evan Hempe is a student at Liberty University who has a wide range of interests such as piano and art. If you're at a major sports event at Liberty, you'll hear him on the mic welcoming the crowd and kicking off the game. He has spoken alongside his mom, Melanie Hempe, founder of ScreenStrong.
Learn how to raise your child the ScreenStrong way at https://screenstrong.org/
Learn more about the Kids' Brains and Screens Student Course https://kidsbrainsandscreens.com/
Watch Arlene's free video Screen Kids: In Their Own Words about her kids also going through high school without phones https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film
Read Arlene's book Screen Kids (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman) https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
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Imagine if your son went from well-rounded and healthy to completely obsessed with video games. This story isn't unusual anymore. Melanie Hempe, mom and and founder of Screen Strong, shares how her oldest son was almost wrecked by video games and how he got his life back. You'll learn how to reverse screen addiction and also how to prevent it. Today you'll learn:
2:13 I watched my child be addicted to video games
7:07 You can choose the course of your child’s life
13:18 There is a giant myth around your child’s social life
21:35 The best gift you can give your child
24:09 I’ve already given my teen social media, what do I do?
35:12 How the older sibling’s behavior will trickle down to the younger sibling
Melanie Hempe is a registered nurse and the founder of Screen Strong, a nonprofit committed to giving you the fastest way to resolve screen conflicts and build strong families. She is the host of the ScreenStrong Families podcast and has been featured in the WSJ, CBS, CNN, NPR and Psychology Today. She and her husband have four children.
Learn more about Screen Strong https://screenstrong.org/
Learn more about the Kids' Brains and Screens Student Course https://kidsbrainsandscreens.com/
Read Arlene's book Screen Kids (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman) https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
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Today's average teenager is spending hours on a phone, immersed in social media, entertainment, and gaming every day. The result has been a mental health epidemic. If normal isn't working, why not be a screen rebel? My daughter Noelle joins us today to talk about her journey through public high school in Southern California without a smartphone or social media. If your child says it's impossible to exist without a phone, you're about to find out it can actually be amazing. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
3:18 Social interactions for your child are possible without having a smartphone???
8:24 Why social media is so dangerous
15:17 How your kids can find friends that respect them, even if they don’t have social media
17:17 What happens if I tell my kids they can’t have phones?
21:15 Do not be afraid to protect your kids from addictive technology
24:32 Finding connection in God, not social media
29:04 Seeing the fruit of honoring your parents
Noelle Pellicane is a high school graduate who thrived without a cell phone or social media. She excelled in school, taking five Advanced Placement exams her senior year and being awarded the sportsmanship award and #1 singles player in tennis. She is currently studying mechanical engineering at Oral Roberts University in Tulsa. She has a smartphone now but has opted out of social media. She enjoys using her phone to call her mom.
Want to know the secret sauce? Read my book Screen Kids, co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
Learn more about Summit Student Conference (Biblical worldview conference Noelle recommends) https://www.summit.org/programs/student-conferences/
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Are you 100 percent thrilled with how your family uses technology?
If you say no, then welcome to the club! This month's theme is RESET YOUR TECH. Get your free "Reset Your Tech" tip sheet at https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
If your kids opted out of having a smartphone, social media and video games, would they be better or worse off? Imagine saying goodbye to parental controls, fights, and time limits. Today's guest Erin Loechner is the author of The Opt-Out Family: How to Give Your Kids What Technology Can't. As you can imagine, I love this book! Today's we're going to talk about:
3:00 What an “opt-out” family looks like
5:00 Why is social media so dangerous for children?
10:43 What the algorithm of social media does
14:10 The burden of social media on girls
21:00 Does having a smartphone truly help your child in their social life?
23:30 How can we “opt-in” to other things as we “opt-out” of social media?
27:10 The main concerns with AI
29:45 Why easier is not better
Erin Loechner is a former social media influencer who walked away from a million fans to live a low-tech lifestyle and is now teaching others to do the same. She's been featured in the New York Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, Huffington Post, the Today Show. Erin is the founder of the global tech-free movement the Opt-Out Family.
Learn more about Erin Loechner and her new book (which is launching with no social media of her own), The Opt Out Family: How to Give Your Kids What Technology Can't. https://www.optoutfamily.com/
Learn how to dumb down your smartphone https://www.optoutfamily.com/tip/
Read Arlene's book Screen Kids (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman) https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
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Our kids aren't growing up in a culture that supports following Jesus. Yet kids and teens are spiritually curious. How can we reach the spiritual curious with the good news of Jesus? How can we help our kids engage their friends about faith? Mark Matlock, senior fellow at Barna, is here to explain the culture we live in and why spiritual openness is on the rise. Sharing from his book, Faith for the Curious, you'll learn:
2:05 What does it really mean to be curious?
8:30 How do we give space for curiosity and still give our kids guidance?
13:05 How to have essential conversations with your kids when they are curious about the “wrong” things
18:36 Living in Digital Babylon
21:28 Helping our kids reach their spiritually curious friends
26:48 How to create opportunities to talk about faith using curiosity
Mark Matlock is an author, senior fellow at Barna, the founder of WisdomWorks, and currently serves as the Executive Director of Urbana for InterVarsity Christian Fellowship. Mark's books include Faith for Exiles, and today we're talking about his new book, Faith for the Curious.
Learn more about Mark Matlock and his book Faith for the Curious on his website. https://markmatlock.com/
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We may live in a broken world, but that doesn't mean the goodness of God is out of reach. We can live with joy, abundance, and confidence right now! Beloved Bible teacher Carol McLeod is here to encourage your heart with truth from the book of Colossians and her own experience raising five children. Based on Carol's new book, Overflowing: Living Abundantly in a Broken Culture, you'll learn how to flourish as a family. We'll talk about:
2:22 How can you live abundantly as a family in this broken, toxic culture?
6:29 Do you live in an invisible prison?
8:45 What does walking with the Lord look like day-to-day?
13:30 Practical tips for loving difficult people in your life (especially when they are your kids or spouse)
18:26 Kids have superpowers (but it's not what you think)
23:32 How can we cultivate more gratitude in the home
26:25 Living in God’s will doesn't have to be a mystery
29:24 Never nag about chores again
Bible teacher Carol McLeod is a mom to five grown children and Marmee to 10 grandchildren. Her YouVersion devotionals have been downloaded more than 4 million times. Carol has devoted her life to teaching women the Word of God. She is the author of several books included her new book based on the Book of Colossians, Overflowing: Living Abundantly in a Broken Culture.
Learn more about Carol McLeod and her book here https://www.carolmcleodministries.com/
Learn more about Carol's video teaching here https://www.carolmcleodministries.com/shop-main/p/overflowing-bundle
Getting into fights with your kids over screen time? Read Arlene's book Screen Kids co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
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Playing on a sports team can be a great learning experience for your child, but it can also lead to overcommitment and exhaustion. How can you tell if your commitment to sports is working for or against your family? Dr. David Fraze is here to coach us up. He has a new book full of good advice for student athletes and the families who are cheering for them (and driving them to games). The book is Practical Wisdom for Athletes and Their Families (co-authored with Dr. Monica Williams). During today's interview, David will answer many questions like:
3:20 Wait, I don’t have to go crazy driving my kids to all different sports?
5:00 Look at your pocketbook…
6:00 Start here if you are struggling with juggling sports
8:20 What if the sports schedule conflicts with church or other Christian activities?
12:00 If you have a problem with the coach, how should you approach him or her?
15:30 How can we bring glory to God through sports?
17:50 What if your child is becoming more vulgar / less godly because of the team?
20:00 My kid wants to quit, what should I do?
23:00 When parents act poorly in the stands
25:30 How to reset while you’re playing a game
Dr. David Fraze is an associate professor and Endowed Chair of Youth and Family ministry at Lubbock Christian University. He has worked for more than 35 years with youth in church, school, and athletic settings, working with coaches, student athletes and families specifically for the last 15 years.
Learn more about his book, Practical Wisdom for Athletes and Their Families here https://www.amazon.com/Practical-Wisdom-Families-Athletes-Ultimate/dp/1684260035/
Need solid teaching to up your game as a parent? Get access to all the sessions of this year's Parents Rising Conference with Dr. Gary Chapman, Bill and Pam Farrel, Sally Burke, and Arlene Pellicane here. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
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On most days, do you feel like a success or a failure as a mom? It can be easy to feel lost and alone, but we don't have to stay that way. Mother and grandmother Karen Stubbs is the ideal mentor to provide inspiration for parenting, backed up with practical tips that will make motherhood easier. Sharing from her new book, Survival Guide to Motherhood, you'll learn about:
3:00 Recognizing the dangers of self-pity
8:00 How to take charge - but not control - your home
14:43 Why being clear in discipline is essential
15:55 What to do if you haven’t been consistent in discipline with your kids
21:00 Building confidence in your child to overcome
27:22 You don’t do the parenting journey alone!
Karen Stubbs is an author and speaker who loves equipping moms. In 2011, she founded Birds on a Wire, a ministry to help moms with practical and Biblical truth so they can parent with confidence. When Karen was a young mom, her husband Greg was a fighter pilot in the Navy and she knows what it’s like to struggle with young kids.
Learn more about Karen Stubbs and her new book, Survival Guide to Motherhood here. https://birdsonawiremoms.com/
Need solid teaching to up your game as a parent? Get access to all the sessions of this year's Parents Rising Conference with Dr. Gary Chapman, Bill and Pam Farrel, Sally Burke, and Arlene Pellicane here. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
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July's Theme is Raising Boys and Girls
Encore Presentation
Kids and parents are way more anxious than they were in the 90s. What is happening to make anxiety so contagious and common? Pull up a chair for an illuminating, truth-filled conversation with counselor Sissy Goff as she shares principles from her new book, The Worry-Free Parent. In this conversation, you'll learn:
3:30 The two things you need to hear right now as a parent
4:25 What’s changed in counseling today versus the '90s
7:20 How does our anxiety rub off on our kids?
10:10 Which parenting style do you identify with?
14:30 Neuroplasticity - What happens if we keep reinforcing our worried brain?
18:00 I hear so much about parents who compare themselves to other parents on social media
19:10 Try this if you have a hard time falling asleep
21:30 Let go of the bottom 20%
24:00 My mom is more nurturing to me when I have panic attacks…
26:00 When parents have anxious thoughts, I want you to reframe this way
28:30 How to create more security at home with these two things
Sissy Goff is the director of child and adolescent counseling at Daystar Counseling Ministries in Nashville. She speaks across the country and cohosts the popular Raising Boys and Girls with David Thomas. Sissy has authored several books such as Raising Worry Free Girls.
Learn more about Sissy and her latest book, The Worry-Free Parent at raisingboysandgirls.com
Follow Sissy on Instagram @sissygoff
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July's Theme is Raising Boys and Girls
Encore Presentation
How would you like to let go of performance based parenting? Bestselling author Renee Swope is here to share from her latest book, A Confident Mom. With many heart warming and relatable examples from her own life, you'll learn how to focus on building character, not perfection, in the heart of your child. We'll talk about:
2:30 Ready to turn in your pink slip as a mom?
4:20 How do you mine for gold in the heart’s of your children?
6:50 When your child is mean, try this
8:00 Engaging boys in devotionals - how to make it more interactive (you can use M&Ms)
10:45 Apologizing to our kids when we are unkind
12:50 When a younger brother is frustrated that he can’t do what older brother can do
14:50 How do you encourage character in the lives of your adult children?
19:00 How to support your kids’ career choices
20:40 Adjusting your expectations as an adoptive parent, when your child has developmental delays
26:00 A surprising (beautiful) moment in the carpool lane
28:00 The Instagram reel versus real life
Renee Swope is an author, podcast host, and popular speaker. She's the mom to three kids and lives in North Carolina. Find out more about Renee and her book, A Confident Mom, at her website Reneeswope.com
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July's Theme is Raising Boys and Girls
Encore Presentation
Is your teenager hearing from Jesus? When our kids encounter Jesus for themselves, everything changes. Drew Hill has worked with teens for more than 20 years and shares how parents can invite teens to (literally) walk with Jesus. In today's conversation, you'll learn about:
2:30 Meeting Jesus as a teenager
4:00 This Christian camp experience changed my life
6:00 Go on a walk - why is this transformational?
7:30 About the documentary Godspeed: The Pace of Being Known
9:10 What if our teens aren’t interested in spiritual things - how can we help them get more interested?
12:00 What is the biggest change you’ve seen in youth ministry since smartphones?
14:10 We imagine things all the time
16:50 When should my kid get a phone?
19:45 I know I’m a phone addict…
24:00 Personal life lessons from Dr. Gary Chapman
28:00 Who is Crash the Rhino?
Drew Hill is an award-winning author and speaker. He serves as the head of school for the Covenant School in Greensboro, NC. He also works in the leadership of Young Life. He and his wife Natalie have five kids.
Learn more about Drew and his book, Alongside Jesus: Devotions for Teenagers alongsideresources.com
Watch the documentary Drew talked about: Godspeed, The Pace of Being Known
Get Arlene's free Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life. Subscribe at happyhomeuniversity.com
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July's Theme is Raising Boys and Girls
Encore Presentation
It's challenging to raise confident girls in this social media age. What if you are struggling with confidence yourself as a mom? How can women and girls develop godly confidence and courage? In today's conversation with author and mom Terra Mattson, you'll learn:
2:50 What are you seeing repeated again and again in your counseling practice with girls?
4:50 Letting go of performance-based thinking
6:30 When a boy asks your daughter for an inappropriate photo…do this
9:00 Talking with your daughter about wanting to be liked and the fear of losing friends (negative peer pressure)
11:30 What are red light, yellow light, and green light friendships?
13:10 My struggle with bulimia and what I learned
16:30 The lost art of confession
17:45 How can we encourage our girl who is scared to go to school or scared to face a mean girl?
19:30 Going on dates with your daughter, having intentional time
23:00 What are some signs that my daughter needs extra help like counseling?
Terra Mattson has 20-plus years of experience as a licensed professional counselor and marriage and family therapist. Terra and her husband Jeff founded Living Wholehearted, a counseling and organizational development firm helping people live and lead with integrity. Terra's book is Courageous: Raising Daughters Rooted in Grace. Learn more at her website. TerraMattson.com
Terra also has a video course, Helping Moms Raise Confident Daughters. Learn more here.
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July's Theme is Raising Boys and Girls
Encore Presentation
"Emotionally mature" may not be the words you use to describe your son. Maybe your boy is prone to outbursts, or rarely says more than one sentence at a time. Counselor and author David Thomas is here to help us nurture and raise emotionally strong boys. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:30 How can we understand our boys better by using the Incredible Hulk?
5:00 Teach these three R’s to your kids so they can regulate themselves, going from stressed to settled
7:00 Work things out for yourself out loud so your child can hear how you manage stress and problems without angry outbursts
9:10 Boys funnel emotions through anger; they are more physical than girls (hitting walls, biting, etc)
11:00 How a walk, run, and movement can help your son regulate emotions
13:30 How to respond according to research when your boy says, “But I want to play my video game, it helps me calm down.”
15:00 Creating a top five list of regulation strategies
17:20 Emotional vocabulary chart - how to get one for free
19:45 The difference between saying “I am depressed” versus “I feel sad”
22:30 Suicidal ideations - how can you tell if your child is serious?
24:30 Adult men lead some of the scariest stats out there - including suicide
27:50 Practice this exercise to put events in perspective (so they know losing homework isn’t the end of the world)
David Thomas is the director of family counseling at Daystar Counseling in Nashville, TN and the coauthor of 10 books. He and his fellow counselor Sissy Goff co-host the podcast Raising Boys and Girls. David’s newest book is Raising Emotionally Strong Boys: Tools Your Son Can Build on for Life.
Find out more about David Thomas and his book Raising Emotionally Strong Boys at RaisingBoysandGirls.com
Take the free quiz, "Is my child getting too much screen time?" at HappyHomeUniversity.org
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Your kids don't need you to be perfect--what they really need is to be directed towards a perfect God. How can parents recover this central mission of raising kids who know God and bring Him glory? Juan and Jeanine Sanchez, authors of Reaching Your Child's Heart, are here to guide us back to Biblical priorities in the home. Sharing their experience from raising five daughters who are now adults, you'll learn about:
3:45 Changing your mindset about parenting
6:35 What to do when you are frustrated with your spouse
11:04 Our central mission as parents
14:18 How to deal with sin in the home
19:49 A common pitfall in parenting that you might be falling into
22:20 What is a child-centered home vs. a parent-directed home?
25:49 Creating a real relationship with your kids
Dr. Juan and Jeanine Sanchez have been married more than 30 years and are the authors of Reaching Your Child's Heart: A Practical Guide to Faithful Parenting. Juan serves as the senior pastor of High Pointe Baptist Church in Austin and is a council member of The Gospel Coalition and is the cofounder and president of Coalicion. Jeanine teaches English and writing to kids, and is a women’s Bible teacher. They have five grown adult daughters.
To learn more about Juan and Jeanine Sanchez and their book, Reaching Your Child's Heart, visit their website https://jandjsanchez.com/
Follow the Sanchezes on Facebook (Juan R. Sanchez), X (@manorjuan), and Instagram (@manorjuan and @jeaninedell).
Get Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids to get a better grasp on tech this summer. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
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Are you struggling with your kids about screen time, friends, attitudes, chores, or anything else? How can you live in a place of victory--enjoying your family instead of enduring it? Dads can lead the way, and today I have a very special guest after Father's Day - my husband James Pellicane. We have been married for more than 25 years and have three children (one in college, one high school graduate, and one high schooler). In today's conversation, we share what's in the (not-so) secret sauce of creating a happy home. You'll learn about:
3:50 Creating “winning” experiences for your child
7:25 Why it is actually good for your kids to NOT get everything that they want
12:34 How to provide leadership for kids, even when they are teens
14:30 Try these activities with your kids
21:37 Why we chose to delay giving smartphones to our kids (and the beautiful result)
25:10 Getting on the same page with your spouse
James Pellicane earned his MBA and MDiv from Regent University (where he met Arlene). For five years, he worked as a full-time business coach, coaching more than 400 clients. He's appeared on the Today Show with Arlene, and he is a Realtor/Broker in San Diego where he lives with Arlene and their three kids.
Interested in having James as a personal parenting coach? Inquire for more details by emailing speaking@arlenepellicane.com
Get Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids to get a better grasp on tech this summer. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
Watch the free documentary, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words about how our kids have survived without social media, smartphones, and video games at HappyHomeUniversity.com https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/
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Maybe you're concerned about the quality of your kids' education and the morals being taught in the classroom. Could homeschooling be for your family? Author and homeschooling mom Monica Swanson is here to ease common fears, dispel misconceptions, and give practical tips about homeschooling to help. She also has encouragement for homeschoolers in her new book, Becoming Homeschoolers: Give your kids a great education, a strong family, and a life they'll thank you for later.
In today's conversation, you'll learn:
4:25 Homeschooling...is that even a possibility???
7:51 How our kids can still socialize (even though they are homeschooled)
12:25 Getting your spouse on board with homeschooling
15:23 How homeschooling helps you grow as a parent
17:28 How and when to start homeschooling your kids
23:48 Transitioning to homeschooling in high school
27:45 My favorite thing about homeschooling
Monica Swanson is a popular blogger, host of the Monica Swanson podcast (formerly the Boy Mom podcast), and author of Boy Mom, Raising Amazing, and her new book, Becoming Homeschoolers. Born and raised in the Pacific Northwest, Monica has a bachelor's degree in sports medicine and has spend much of her life as a personal coach and trainer. She and her husband Dave have four sons (one college grad, two in college, and a 13-year-old) and they live on the North Shore of Oahu, Hawaii.
Find out more about Monica Swanson and her book Becoming Homeschoolers on her website https://monicaswanson.com/
Get Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids to get a better grasp on tech this summer. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
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When you are going through a hard time, how do you fight for the well being of your family? You'll find out today with a podcast first - a mother and daughter team being interviewed - Julie Bennett and her daughter Joy. The Bennett family said yes to God and moved across the country from Oklahoma to Los Angeles, only to be met with numerous challenges including a cancer diagnosis for Julie. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
5:05 God is faithful, even when He calls to the unexpected
11:00 What our kids need from us when we are going through a hard time
18:20 Finding joy even when you are disappointed
21:30 Why is risk is so valuable in life for both kids and adults
25:00 How to navigate risks when things seem uncertain
Julie Bennett and her husband Chris are the graduates of Baylor University and have spent the majority of their 23 years of marriage working in vocational ministry. They live in Malibu California where Chris serves as lead pastor of Vintage Church. They have three sons and one daughter, Joy (who you will meet on the podcast).
To learn more about the Bennett family and their book, Fighting for Family: The Relentless Pursuit of Building Belonging, visit their website https://www.fightingforfamily.org/
Follow Julie on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/juliebennett_/
Watch Julie and Chris Bennett on Good Morning America https://www.goodmorningamerica.com/gma3/video/tips-building-belonging-amidst-loneliness-epidemic-109431394
Get Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids to get a better grasp on tech this summer. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com
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The summer months are moments away - are you excited? Panicked? A combination of both? We’re talking to licensed family therapist Dr. Joannie DeBrito. In this go-to summer survival guide, we're talking about:
5:24 How getting your kids outdoors has more benefits than I may think
12:10 What activities can I do with my kids to help get them off screens?
15:30 Making the most out of the summer as a working parent
19:07 How we can incorporate quiet time back into our kids’ lives?
25:04 Helping our teens recalibrate their sleep schedules
28:15 How we can help protect our kids from mental health issues
29:45 Smoothing out the summer in the midst of the challenges of having a blended family
Dr. Joannie DeBrito a licensed family therapist who works with Focus on the Family, specializing in youth and young adult mental health. She’s been working in this field for more than 30 years.
Find her articles on the Focus on the Family parenting blog: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/
Read her "Ask Dr. Joannie" column for grandparents at Legacy Coalition: https://legacycoalition.com/ask/
My reading list for kids and teens - one of many free resources at HappyHomeUniversity.com https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
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We warn our kids about drugs and alcohol, but when it comes to porn, we can be completely silent. It's hard to know what to say about pornography whether your child is five or fifteen. In this digital age, the chance your child will see porn is very high and they are being exposed to explicit pictures younger and younger. Kristen Jenson, author of Good Pictures, Bad Pictures is here to help us defend our children from the harms of porn. On today's episode, you'll learn:
3:05 How to define and explain pornography to your child
7:20 When do I need to start warning my children about porn?
12:30 How can parents explain to their child that seeing a bad picture doesn’t make you a bad kid
16:10 How to talk to your teens about porn
20:36 After my child has seen porn, how can I help him or her get rid of those images in the mind?
24:40 What you need to know about the harms of pornography and your child's future
Kristen Jenson is the founder of Defend Young Minds and the bestselling author of Good Pictures, Bad Pictures and Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Junior. Kristen speaks and writes to defend children from the harms of pornography. She has raised her strong voice at international conferences and symposiums. Her trusted resources include the Brain Defense Digital Safety curriculum, helping millions around the world defend their kids from sexual exploitation.
Learn more about Kristen Jenson, her book Good Pictures, Bad Pictures, and the free resources she mentioned at the Defend Young Minds website https://www.defendyoungminds.com/
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How can moms stay sane and focused in everyday life? Arlene shares a special Mother's Day message to remind you of what's most important in raising your kiddos. Hint: It's not getting into the right college or getting them more followers on social media. How can you equip your kids for adulthood and do it with joy and purpose? In this message, Arlene talks about:
2:00 What are some things that wouldn’t happen without mom?
4:20 Should I bring my child’s tablet to school when he forgets it?
7:50 The boy Samuel grew in these ways
11:30 Helping your child do things they don’t feel like doing
14:00 The true measure of success
17:50 Launching an adult who loves God doesn’t happen by accident
21:45 A word to single moms
Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home podcast, speaker, and author of several books including Screen Kids and Parents Rising. She and her husband James have three kids and live in San Diego.
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Parenting teens can be tough, but it doesn't have to be hopeless. Gospel Coalition's Mellissa B. Kruger shares the common pitfalls parents fall into, how to avoid them, and how to raise teens who will live for Jesus. Melissa's new book is Parenting with Hope: Raising Teens for Christ in a Secular Age. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:38 What will always stay the same with teens
4:25 How to help our kids be on board about being a follower of Christ
10:20 How to turn your child’s relationships into blessings
12:08 Wait, we can all be idolaters??!!
14:49 Recognizing when a good thing may be turning into an idol
21:58 How can we overcome the fear of missing out for our children
26:14 Understanding that as our kids grow, we also have to shift in our parenting mindset
Melissa B. Kruger serves as Vice President of Discipleship Programming at the Gospel Coalition. She speaks at conferences across the country. She and her husband Michael have three young adult children.
Find out more about Melissa and her book Parenting with Hope on her website: https://melissabkruger.com/
Read Melissa's articles on the Gospel Coalition: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/
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When a child comes into a home through adoption, there are unique joys and challenges. You are probably familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman's five love languages. Do any adjustments need to be made to speak these love languages to adopted kids? Dr. Laurel Shaler has teamed up with Dr. Gary Chapman to write a new book Loving Adopted Children Well: A 5 Love Languages Approach. Today we're talking with Dr. Laurel Shaler about:
2:24 How to love adopted and biological children - is there a difference?
8:40 Laurel's journey of adoption
12:42 How adoption takes a step of faith
15:50 The unique challenges and joys of adoption
20:35 How to apply the 5 love languages to adopted children
25:21 We can see adoption in the Bible...
Dr. Laurel Shaler is a nationally certified counselor and licensed marriage and family therapist. She is a professor at Liberty University and she’s teamed up with Dr. Gary Chapman to write the book, Loving Adopted Children Well: A 5 Love Languages Approach. You can learn more about the book and Dr. Laurel Shaler at drlaurelshaler.com
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Imagine what it would be like to move your family of 8 across the ocean only to find out your job had been canceled? That's what happened in the Smallbone family who you probably know as the band For King and Country. Joel Smallbone is here to talk about growing up without a proper bed but with a front-row seat to miracles. He's here to talk about his new film, Unsung Hero.
Joel Smallbone is one-half of the 4 time Grammy award-winning duo For King and Country with his brother Luke. They have generated over 2 billion streams, 10 GMA Dove awards, and 17 KLOVE fan awards. You know their songs from For God is With Us, God Only Knows, Joy, and Together. The new movie chronicling their family’s journey from Australia to America is called Unsung Hero. It opens in theaters nationwide on April 26.
To find out more about Unsung Hero, go to unsunghero.movie
Listen to Helen Smallbone's podcast, MumLife Community on AccessMore accessmore.com/pd/MumLife-Community
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When your schedule gets fuller and fuller, what ends up happening in your life? Do you feel happier or just more exhausted? A full schedule does not equal a fulfilled life. Many times being too busy is the problem. If you are tired of being tired, author Jess Connolly is here with ideas for slowing down, creating healthier rhythms, and resting (even when you have kids!). In today's candid conversation, you'll learn:
2:28 The harmful narrative that wives often think about their husbands
4:45 When we start living tired...
8:42 Why we sometimes just push through the warning signs of being fatigued
11:41 Its okay to go on “low power mode”
18:44 If you are in a “hustle” season, do this
21:05 How to mentally rebuild yourself through breath prayer
23:05 Setting healthy rhythms that help us connect with God
27:03 You don’t have to wait until your kids are grown to rest
Jess Connolly is an author, Bible teacher, podcaster and coach. She and her husband Nick planted Bright City Church in Charleston, South Carolina where they live with their 4 kids. Her other books include Wild and Free, and You are the Girl for the Job.
Learn about Jess Connolly and the book we talked about on today's episode, Tired of Being Tired. jessconnolly.com
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Does your child struggle with being lonely? It is heartbreaking when a son or daughter says, "I don't have any friends." Loneliness is something we all experience from time to time. How can we help our kids know they are not alone because they are loved by us and more importantly, by God? Beloved author Max Lucado is here to shout good news to every soul. His new children's book, Just in Case You Ever Feel Alone, will bring comfort to you and your kids. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:20 Receive this encouragement not just for your kids, but for you
7:44 How has technology affected the way a family communicates
11:37 How can we as parents become “missionaries” for our children
17:20 What to say to your child who may feel lonely at school
20:06 How can you help your child when you feel lonely yourself?
22:47 How to avoid leaving marriage behind while raising your kids
Max Lucado is a prolific author, pastor, and host of the Encouraging Word podcast on AccessMore. He's written more than 40 books since the 1980s that have been translated into 50 languages, selling more than 145 million copies worldwide. He's been dubbed "America's Pastor" by Christianity Today and "The Best Preacher in America" by Reader's Digest. He serves the people of Oak Hills Church in San Antonio TX.
Learn about Max Lucado and his new children's book we talked about on today's episode, Just in Case You Ever Feel Alone. maxlucado.com
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Your child has disobeyed you for the tenth time and it's only 9 AM. How do you get your children to do what you tell them to do? Maybe you've tried rewards and punishments but find they aren't working as well as they used to. Dr. Scott Turansky will fill your parenting toolbox with exactly what you need to reach the heart of your child effectively and thus change behavior. This is an episode you won't want to miss if you have been frustrated with your child's behavior or attitude lately. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:25 What is meant by the word "heart"? Is it the same as emotions?
4:55 How to be firm with your children while maintaining the love in your relationship
10:30 Training yourself to become a firmer parent
12:28 When correcting your child, try this instead of a time-out
17:50 How to “take a break” even with your teen
19:39 What if my child is totally unmotivated to do the right thing?
22:53 Start with spiritual development
26:28 How to think positively about your child when they are not cooperating
Dr. Scott Turansky is the co-founder of the National Center for Biblical Parenting. He holds two master's degrees from Western Seminary and his doctorate from Fuller. He and his wife Carrie have 5 children and 11 grandchildren. He’s been a pastor for more than 40 years and has trained over 400 parent coaches. He’s written several books including "Motivate Your Child" and the "Christian Parenting Handbook".
Learn about Dr. Turansky and the book we talked about on today's episode, Parenting is Heart Work at biblicalparenting.org
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Our kids are growing up in a confusing world where wrong seems right. How do you plant godly values in the heart of your child? Today's guest Adam Griffin will help us prepare our kids to live for Christ in a world that doesn't. Even in a hostile culture, our kids can learn to do the right thing and it starts with immersing them in the Word of God. We're talking about Adam Griffin's new kid devotional, "When Wrong Seems Right - A Kids Bible Study on Making Good Choices." You'll hear about:
4:15 Why your child shouldn’t “follow their heart”
7:03 How to seek God, not Google, in our families
12:20 How to model being a follower of Christ to your kids
15:55 Getting your kids into studying the Bible when they are not interested
20:13 Explaining the fear of God to your kids
24:28 God gave you your kids for YOU to parent them
28:17 Raising boys who know who they are in Christ
Adam Griffin is the lead pastor of Eastside Community Church in Dallas, Texas. He is the host of the Family Discipleship Podcast and the author of several books and resources for families including his newest book, "When Wrong Seems Right - A Kids Bible Study on Making Good Choices."
You can connect with Adam Griffin at FamilyDiscipleship.com
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If you could make a wish, what would you wish for? Sometimes we stop hoping and dreaming because it seems to lead only to disappointment. If you want to move forward in your life, even when it hurts to hope again, this episode is just for you. Rachel Miller shares from her new book "When It Hurts to Hope: Honest Conversations about Living with Unmet Longing." We're going to talk about:
3:35 You're not alone. Everyone has “unmet longing.”
9:07 Here’s something we can all learn from newlyweds...
11:25 How do we still believe God is good when we don’t get what we want?
15:12 How to be a friend to someone who has an unmet longing
20:10 Living between pessimism and optimism during tough times
26:43 How community can help when we get lonely
29:25 If you are going through a hard time, do this
Rachel Miller has written for Lifeway, YouVersion, Proverbs 31 MInistries, The Daily Wire and Ramsey Solutions. Her new book is "When It Hurts to Hope: Honest conversations about living with unmet longing." rachelmillerauthor.com
You can follow Rachel on Instagram @rachel.s.miller
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There's a lot of talk about being limitless, but the truth is, we are limited creatures. We've got too much laundry, too many bills, too many responsibilities, and too little strength. But what if limitations can actually turn into blessings? Bestselling author Sara Hagerty shares how being a mom of seven has helped her discover the beauty in her boundaries. Sharing from her new book, "The Gift of Limitations," we'll talk about:
2:50 What it means to live inside the fence line
7:30 The things we think are going to “kill” us actually can be life-giving
10:05 Talking yourself through your limitations
14:33 When limitations get in the way of accomplishing your dreams
18:20 How to name our limitations
20:17 What to do if you are feeling overwhelmed as a mom
24:45 What, I don't always have to be productive???
27:50 Living “slower still”
Sara Hagerty is a bestselling author and speaker who loves to offer God's hope to readers facing unexpected life circumstances. She and her husband adopted four children from Africa and then had three miracle babies. Her new book is "The Gift of Limitations: Finding Beauty in your Boundaries."
You can follow Sara on Instagram @sarahagertywrites and on Substack
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We all face conflict - whether it's with your spouse, child, parent, neighbor, or co-worker. We don't always agree! How can you navigate conflict better? Is there a way to prevent fights in the first place? Donna Jones has written a new book to help us, "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life." On today's podcast, you'll learn:
2:09 The surprising truth about conflict
6:03 You may be causing conflict without even realizing it
8:50 What makes marriages last
11:40 This secret ingredient makes all the difference in conflict
16:10 Recognizing the patterns of our conflicts and fixing them
24:17 Handling situations where emotions are running really high
Donna Jones is a national speaker, church planter, pastor's wife, and mom of three adult children. She’s appeared on Focus on the Family and other media outlets. Her new book is "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life."
Find out more about Donna and her book "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life" on her website. donnajones.org
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Family life can be overwhelming, sloppy, tricky, and downright challenging. How can you find sanity in the chaos of everyday living? Cynthia Yanof is here to remind us that even when life is messy, God is still good. God isn't caught off guard when we drop the ball, lose our cool, or can't find anything clean to wear. He can use our ridiculous messes for good! In today's conversation based on Cynthia Yanof's new book, "Life is Messy, God is Good," you'll learn:
2:14 How to find the funny when life isn't going how you'd planned
7:10 Why it's insane to pay for something you don't have to
11:30 The things God calls you to do can change you (and this is good)
14:00 What holy discontent looks like
18:40 Learning how NOT to parent from a place of reputation
25:38 If you've ever been disappointed with the church, listen here
Cynthia Yanof is a wife, mom, and podcaster who is ridiculously committed to not taking herself too seriously. She is the host of the MESSmerized podcast and her new book is "Life is Messy, God is Good."
Find out more about Cynthia and her book "Life is Messy, God is Good" on her website.
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Has Valentine's Day become more about showering your kids with gifts than your spouse? It's easy to drift away from the person who was once your dream come true. It is time to fall in love again...with your spouse! Arlene shares how you can turn your heart towards your spouse this week, relive the feelings of love, and strengthen your commitment to have and to hold forever. It's National Marriage Week (Feb 7-14) and it's time to celebrate marriages, starting with yours. In today's episode, Arlene shares:
3:00 I couldn’t believe he saw this in my eyes
4:30 How do we keep falling in love through the years (with the same person)?
5:40 Do you find your spouse more interesting than your phone?
7:10 What is the greatest predictor of happiness?
10:30 My husband was listening to something that surprised me
15:00 Sometimes we put ourselves against a measurement that doesn’t even exist
16:45 What Dr. Gary Chapman did when someone asked to live with his family for one year
19:00 What is National Marriage Week?
Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home, author, speaker, and spokesperson for National Marriage Week. You can find out more about National Marriage Week (and get free date night ideas) at MarriageWeek.org
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Maybe you used to be employed, married, or healthy. When you suffer a loss, you enter the realm of "used to be." Licensed counselor Ashley Elliott is here to help us build new thinking patterns when life doesn't turn out how we thought it would. Ashley and her husband Chuck are the authors of "I Used to Be..." In this episode, you'll learn how to navigate losses in life as we talk about:
2:19 What I used to be...
4:27 How to use “switch theory” to combat negativity
9:04 Here's how you can get back into a positive space with your spouse
11:17 Recognizing the triggers that cause negative spaces
14:08 How to get through your grief
19:00 Understanding your “anger wall”
24:55 How to help others who are grieving
28:28 How to know when to seek help with your grief
Ashley Elliott and her husband Chuck have been working with couples since 2009. They are certified in eight different psycho-educational programs aimed toward building relational success. Ashley is a counselor with Auxilium Psychological Services. Ashley and Chuck have three boys and enjoy hiking and mountain biking.
Check out Ashley & Chuck's book, I Used to Be... - How to Navigate Large and Small Losses in life and Find Your Path Forward.
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What do you do if you find your child looking at porn? The Internet has made pornography so easily accessible and parents must act to protect kids from the dangers of bad pictures and harmful ideas about sexuality. Austin Fruits, a speaker for Josh McDowell Ministries, knows what it is like to struggle with porn as a teen. In this honest and redemptive conversation, you'll learn:
4:10 When you may not be feeling God, He is still working in the darkest places
10:27 Porn is about much more than desire
12:45 How real repentance is key to the healing journey
15:25 Porn is not your problem, it is your medication
20:35 Why do we need to talk to our kids about uncomfortable topics like sex
24:10 How to help prevent your child from watching porn
28:55 Why being set free from porn is so liberating
Austin Fruits is a speaker for Josh McDowell, a ministry of CRU. He has a passion for apologetics, evangelism, and wholeness. He has his degree in psychology and counseling from Liberty University and also graduated from Talbot School of Theology. Find out more about Austin at Josh.org
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In business, we learn new strategies, test products, and set goals. How can we apply this same intentionality to parenting? Think of yourself as the Chief Executive Officer, Chief Financial Officer, or Chief Operations Officer in your home. CEO Bill Hampton is here to help us grow as parents. On today's episode, you'll learn:
2:30 How to grow yourself so you can grow as a parent
4:45 Building momentum in parenting
10:30 Being intentional in your parenting starts here
15:50 Carving out time to spend with family even when life seems so busy
18:55 How to deal with screens in the home more constructively
24:49 What to do when you don’t like what your kids are doing
26:30 How to instill a work ethic in your kids
30:50 Stay strong as a parent
Bill Hampton is the founder and CEO of Hampton Strategies. He served as the executive VP and chief marketing officer for Dave Ramsay for 13 years, leading the growth of the Dave Ramsay show to a listenership of nearly 4.5 million people. You can follow Bill on Instagram @thebillhampton
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A majority of Americans now say truth is subjective, and that ultimate truth cannot be known. How can we rise up to teach our kids that truth can be known? A world without the existence of truth quickly dissolves into chaos. Dr. Jeff Myers, president of Summit Ministries, is here to help us defend the existence of truth to our kids. Sharing from his latest book, Truth Changes Everything, you'll learn:
4:20 How to find reality even when the world feeds us lies
7:00 What to say to your children if they don’t believe there are absolute truths
12:30 This is the best way to challenge the idea that there is no such thing as truth…
17:35 Words from the culture around your child have more impact than you think
21:30 What to say to your child if they are questioning their gender
24:45 Why children need to know the noble truth about gender
28:00 Families are the good guys, not the bad guys
30:45 How to equip your young adult with a biblical worldview
Dr. Jeff Myers is the president of Summit Ministries. As an educator and entrepreneur, Dr. Myers has become one of America’s most respected authorities on youth leadership development. He is the author of several books including Understanding the Faith and Understanding the Times. Jeff and his wife and their family live in Colorado.
Connect with Dr. Jeff, Summit Ministries, and his book Truth Changes Everything at Summit.org
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What is the current spiritual temperature of your family? No doubt you have had seasons when you were more on fire for God than others. Bible teacher Stephanie Rousselle is here to help us stoke the fire of faith in the home. How can we delight in God on a daily basis and pass on that enthusiasm to our kids? In today's conversation you'll learn about:
2:30 Finding the “spice” in Christianity
4:30 Getting back to being on fire for God
8:50 Helping your kids taste the goodness of God
13:50 Pouring into your kids can look like this
18:15 When you were a college student, you were an atheist...
25:40 What is biblical success as a family?
Stephanie Rousselle is the host of the Gospel Spice podcast. Her motto is “God’s glory, our delight!” Born and raised in France, in the past 20 years she has lived on three continents, four countries, and five cities. She’s a wife, mom, podcaster, speaker, and Bible teacher.
Learn more about Stephanie Rousselle and Gospel Spice here.
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Are your children going to grow up to be leaders? Author and leadership expert Dr. Tim Elmore says your child doesn't have to run a Fortune 500 company or be a team captain to be a leader. Learn how to nurture your children's God-given abilities so they can live an "I can't wait" kind of exciting, full life. In this conversation based on Tim's new book, I Can't Wait: 52 Stories of Kids Who Changed Their World, you'll learn:
3:30 How our children’s generation is so different than previous generations
6:00 Is the decision I’m making today going to serve my kids in the long term?
7:50 But my child isn’t a leader…
10:45 What is artificial maturity?
15:10 How to inspire kids to dream big about the future
23:00 How you can help your kids have longer attention spans
27:20 If you’re burned out and tired as a parent, start here
Dr. Tim Elmore is the founder and CEO of Growing Leaders. He’s dedicated his life to developing the next generation of students and equipping them to think and act like leaders. He’s spoken to more than half a million leaders in businesses, universities, athletic teams, and nonprofits. He was listed in the top 100 leadership speakers in America by Inc. magazine. He has published more than 35 books and today we're talking about his new book, I Can’t Wait: 52 Stories of Kids who Changed Their World.
Learn more about the I Can't Wait book here
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024, in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene, Bill and Pam Farrel, and Sally Burke. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
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Christmas can be a very happy time for families, but it can also be awkward or difficult if relationships are strained. Today's guest Anne Beiler (founder of Auntie Anne's Pretzels) grew up around the table, eating daily meals with her large Amish family. When things got very tough as she went into adulthood, the family still kept meeting around the table and it made all the difference in the world. Anne Beiler will share her story of heartbreak and conflict, of forgiveness and grace--and how she started making pretzels. Anne has a beautiful new cookbook, Come to the Table. In today's holiday conversation, you'll learn:
4:00 Growing up Amish, coming from a very big family of eight kids
6:30 My grandmother’s Christmas wreath (you could eat it!)
8:00 We were dirt poor…Christmas was very sparse
12:00 I learned how to share and communicate with people around the table (three times a day)
16:00 When your adult child is doing something you don’t approve of, you still come around the table
19:50 When I stopped wearing my head covering
21:40 Out of our pain, our purpose was born
26:00 How God miraculously redeemed my marriage
31:00 Seeing your first Auntie Anne’s in a foreign country
Anne Beiler is the founder of Auntie Anne Pretzels, the largest pretzel franchise in the world. She's the author of The Secret Lies Within and Overcome and Lead. Her new cookbook is Come to the Table--you can get it here. auntieannebeiler.com/cookbook
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024 in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene, Bill and Pam Farrel and Sally Burke. Early bird pricing is available now! happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list to get tech news and more to help your home.
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome
Get your free 25 Days of Christmas activity guide for your family here.
You can't control how your kids turn out, but you can guide them to love and know God. Our parenting efforts can get wasted on what is not really important. How can we help our kids develop Biblical character? How can we give our kids the gift of parenting differently?
Founder of Celebrate Kids, Dr. Kathy Koch is here to help us determine which character traits need attention right now in your child's life. Her new book is Parent Differently: Raise Kids with Biblical Character That Changes Culture. Today you'll learn:
4:00 It's good to have character but THIS is even better…
8:35 What it means to live on purpose
9:00 The big three character traits your kids need
14:20 These tough conversations with our families are hard but needed
18:45 How to approach a negative change in your child’s behavior
24:00 Building character in your child with ADHD
27:55 Being aware of our choices can really make a difference
Dr. Kathy Koch is the founder and president of Celebrate Kids. She’s influenced thousands of parents, teachers, and children in 30 countries through her talks. She has a PhD from Purdue and is the author of several books including Screens and Teens, and 8 Great Smarts.
Learn more about her newest book Parent Differently here celebratekids.com/parentdifferently
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024, in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene, Bill and Pam Farrel, and Sally Burke. Early bird pricing is still available, so get your tickets today. happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email to help you have a happier home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome
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Wondering if you should wrap up that new phone for your child this Christmas? Before you do, listen to this episode as Arlene shares two big ideas for living in an intentional tech home. If you can use technology to help your kids and not hurt them, that will be a huge gift you can bring to your family this Christmas and beyond. Arlene talks about:
3:00 I had no intention of hurting her but I did
6:10 Don’t wait for tech to clean up its act
9:10 Picture a snow globe. What would the ideal amount of tech in your home look like?
13:00 Tech as a last resort, not as a first resort
16:50 Wrap this instead of a phone up for Christmas
18:25 Delay, delay, delay - the longer, the better
23:00 Is your child’s circadian rhythm working?
27:55 What do you want Christmas day to look like in your home with technology?
28:50 Does this help future me?
32:35 My suggested age(s) to get a smartphone
Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home podcast, a speaker, and author of nine books including Parents Rising and Screen Kids. Learn more about Arlene on her website arlenepellicane.com and find out about her latest offerings at Happy Home University.
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024, in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene, Bill and Pam Farrel, and Sally Burke. Early bird pricing is available now! happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list to get tech news and more to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome
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Do you think of your marriage as a gift on most days? Marriage After God authors Aaron and Jennifer Smith are here to help you see your marriage in a beautiful light. They have a blueprint for building a strong marriage after God. You'll hear how to strengthen your most important relationship this Christmas season with ideas from their newest book, The Marriage Gift. Today, Aaron and Jennifer talk about:
3:40 Marriage based on good efforts vs marriage based on God
6:20 How do we get back to a God-based marriage?
9:50 This inoculates us from selfishness
15:15 How do you get your spouse interested in prayer?
21:00 Why does prayer protect your marriage in a powerful way?
24:11 Fitting in prayer with 5 children
27:30 Encouraging your husband to be a spiritual leader
Since marrying in 2007, Aaron and Jennifer Smith have overcome challenges with God's help, founding the online ministries HusbandRevolution.com and UnveiledWife.com. Together they have written several books including 31 Prayers for My Future Husband and Marriage After God. They live with their five children in Oregon.
Learn more about Aaron and Jennifer Smith and their book, The Marriage Gift on their website. marriageaftergod.com
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024, in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene, Bill, and Pam Farrel, and Sally Burke. Early bird pricing is available now!
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list to get tech news and more to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
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What else can you pray besides, "Lord bless my child"? Author Sharon Jaynes is here today to add some power to our prayer life as parents. You'll learn how to pray for your child from head to toe using the Word of God. This isn't about using prayer to control our kids. It's about relinquishing control and asking God to shape our children into the adults He wants them to be. With ideas from Sharon's new book, Praying for Your Child from Head to Toe, you'll learn:
6:11 What does it mean to pray for your child from head to toe?
8:40 One thing that has really helped me in my prayer life…
13:04 When your child is depressed or anxious
16:00 Praying for your child’s future spouse
19:40 Your struggles are for a reason
25:56 Raising an eternal soul, not just a child
30:00 Nobody can be a perfect parent, but we can be praying parents
Learn more about Sharon Jaynes and her book, Praying for Your Child from Head to Toe on her website. sharonjaynes.com/prayingforyourchild
Get the Praying for Your Child's Teacher download Sharon talked about here.
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024, in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene, Bill and Pam Farrel, and Sally Burke. Early bird pricing is available now! happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list to get tech news and more to help your home.
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome
Has your child ever asked you a science question that you couldn’t answer? Scientist Dr. Michael Guillen is with us to explain why science and God are not at odds; in fact, they are a power couple. You'll be equipped to talk about science with your kids with more confidence after listening to today's conversation about:
4:00 I must have shocked my parents when I had an interest in science
8:20 Why science is not hostile to God
9:00 I started asking questions about the origin of the universe
12:00 Exploring the world religions for answers science could not answer
14:00 Not only are science and Christianity compatible, they are a power couple, and here’s why
16:10 Look at nature and it will show you the glory of God…let creation speak!
18:40 What to say when your kids are taught they are so similar to chimps
23:10 Don’t spin science one way or the other
27:00 Love without truth is a delusion
28:00 When your child learns about evolution…
Dr. Michael Guillen is a three-time Emmy award winner, bestselling author, and former ABC news science editor. He is a UCLA grad and earned his doctorate at Cornell in physics, mathematics, and astronomy. He taught physics at Harvard and hosts the Science and God podcast on AccessMore.
Get Dr. Guillen's book, Let Creation Speak!
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024, in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene, Bill & Pam Farrel, and Sally Burke. Early bird pricing is available now! happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list to get tech news and more to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome
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Is your daughter struggling with depression? Today's guest, Wonderfully Made founder Allie Marie Smith Marie knows what this is like. When Allie was 18 years old, she planned to take her life. Today she’s on a mission to help teen girls discover their true worth. Learn how to encourage your girls and fight for their mental health. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
3:30 When mental health issues are in your family history
6:30 The stress I was putting on myself to be perfect
8:00 Nearing the Golden Gate Bridge to end my life
11:00 The difference it would have made if I spoke up
13:10 Intentionally set a time to talk to your kids about their friends and social media
15:52 We didn’t know our worth…finding comfort that we are fearfully and wonderfully made
20:45 When depression resurfaces
23:40 Teen girls are at the epicenter: 1 in 4 girls contemplate suicide, tied to social media
Allie Marie Smith is the founder and director of Wonderfully Made, a nonprofit dedicated to helping teen girls and young women know their true value. She is an award-winning author, speaker, podcast host, and certified life coach. She loves surfing and adventuring up and down the CA coast with her hubby Paul and a golden retriever named Gidget.
Find out more about her book, Wonderfully Made: Discover the identity, love, and worth you were created for. wonderfullymade.org/book
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024, in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene, Bill & Pam Farrel, and Sally Burke. Early bird pricing is available now! happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list to get tech news and more to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome
Special thanks to HireMyMom.com
Do you want the Bible to come alive for your kids? For yourself? Today we’ll learn how to spark curiosity for God’s Word in our homes with author Champ Thornton and his book, The Really Radical Book for Kids. In today's conversation, you'll learn about:
4:29 Getting boys interested in reading the Bible
6:40 Generating curiosity in your kids
9:28 Making Bible time fun
14:48 Engaging teens in reading the Bible
18:49 God is fun, let's weave more fun into your life
20:25 Helping anxiety and fear in kids
22:50 Grandparents can be key in passing down faith
Champ Thornton is the author of several books for kids and families like "Why Do We Say Thank You?", The Radical Book for Kids, and now The Really Radical Book for Kids. Champ has been a pastor and is now an acquisitions editor at Crossway. He and his wife Robben have three children.
You can learn more about Champ and his book, The Really Radical Book for Kids here!
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024, in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene, Bill & Pam Farrel, and Sally Burke. Early bird pricing is available now! happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list to get tech news and more to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome
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Your home may not feel very happy now. Maybe your child or teen is wrestling with anxiety and depression. How do you know if your child is clinically depressed or just having a rough week? Dr. Danny Huerta from Focus on the Family joins us to address the mental health challenges facing families today. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
3:04 Where we are right now with mental health
5:07 Differentiating sadness and depression in our kids
7:48 How to introduce counseling to your child
9:10 What to do if your kid is addicted to social media or video games
14:31 This is how we uphold the value of life
20:02 Practical habits to form when your kids are young, creating a healthy home environment
24:37 How to adjust our tone to connect to the hearts of our kids
Dr. Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting and Youth at Focus on the Family. As a licensed clinical social worker, Danny has maintained a private practice in Colorado Springs since 2003. He’s been interviewed by Fox News, Fatherly, Christianity Today, and WORLD magazine. He and his wife Heather have two children.
Get resources to fight for the health of your kids at Focus on the Family's website focusonthefamily.com/parenting
Talk to a Focus on the Family counselor at 1-800-232-6459.
Come see Arlene, Dr. Gary Chapman, and more at the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024. Early bird pricing is available now! happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list to get tech news and more to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome
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Looking at headlines and social media, you might conclude the family is headed towards extinction. But Dr. Gary Chapman is here to share how you can make your family survive and thrive. Sharing principles from his newest book, 5 Traits of a Health Family, you'll learn about:
3:28 Constructing a functional family even if you didn’t come from one
5:29 Having service as the central attitude of your family
10:16 Importance of a positive attitude towards work and service
13:27 5 ways of being more intimate with your spouse
16:01 Guiding your children works this way
19:31 Raising children who honor parents
22:23 Clearly defining consequences
28:01 The power of modeling cannot be underestimated
With more than 20 million books sold, Dr. Gary Chapman has been on the New York Times bestsellers list since 2007. You're probably familiar with his transformational Five Love Languages series. He is a trusted marriage counselor and director of Marriage and Family Life Consultants. Dr. Chapman's radio program Building Relationships airs on more than 400 stations. He and his wife Karolyn have two adult children and two grandchildren.
To learn more about his newest book, 5 Traits of a Healthy Family, visit his website 5lovelanguages.com
Dr. Gary Chapman and Arlene Pellicane will be speaking at the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego on March 2, 2024. Learn more here happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list for resources to help your home at happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
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What if you could parent with the strength of Hercules? Actor Kevin Sorbo played the role of Hercules for years, but his strength didn't come from working out, it came from his fervent relationship with Christ. You may know Kevin for movies like God's Not Dead, Soul Surfer, or Let There Be Light. Today we're talking about his newest film Miracle in East Texas, coming to theatres on October 29 and 30. In our conversation, you'll learn about his strong marriage, parenting values, homeschooling, working in a secular environment, and more:
3:30 Love at first sight on the set of Hercules
5:00 Having a long marriage in Hollywood
6:00 We don’t have the Hollywood backing of Miracle in East Texas
7:00 God’s Not Dead, Soul Surfer, Left Behind…
8:30 Being the odd man out in Hollywood
9:55 What is it like working with your wife?
12:20 Advice for homeschooling dads
14:10 Dealing with being deathly ill while filming Hercules
19:32 I was living on four hours of sleep for five years
21:00 How do you motivate your kid who doesn’t want to work?
23:40 How to strengthen your husband and your son
24:56 Kids books that promote Christian values
Kevin Sorbo emerged as a TV star when he was cast in the lead role of Hercules: The Legendary Journeys. He has guest starred on sitcoms and starred in films like God's Not Dead and Left Behind. Kevin married actress Sam Jenkins whom he met on the set of Hercules. They have three children. Kevin's books include True Strength and True Faith.
Get your tickets to see Miracle in East Texas in theatres on October 29 and 30, and keep up with Kevin at SorboStudios.com
Come see Arlene, Dr. Gary Chapman, and more at the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024. Early bird pricing is available now! happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
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Mom, could you use some extra income by working at home at a pace that would suit your family? Mom entrepreneur Lesley Pyle is here to share business and life advice from her own experience as the founder of HireMyMom.com. How do you get work done while kids are at home? How do you know if you're working too much?
We'll talk about these questions and more in today's conversation:
3:00 I went back to work and cried every single day
5:05 I wanted to help other moms work from home
7:15 It never gets easier launching kids from home
8:25 This rule of thumb if you’re working with an infant or toddler
10:00 Your kids adjust to what you present as normal
11:40 What are the benefits of remote work?
13:05 Freedom and flexibility to be at your kids’ events
14:50 These are the warning signs that you are working too much
16:35 Try these focus tips when you’re working
19:35 Give us a market update - what are employers looking for?
23:50 When you feel like your career dreams have died
27:20 Getting on the same page with your spouse about working or not working
28:50 A difficult season as a single mom
Lesley Pyle started the National Association of Home-Based Working Moms in 1995. She has a master's degree in public relations and is the founder of HireMyMom.com. Lesley’s business insights have been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur, the Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Parenting, and many others. She’s been working from home for over 25 years.
Whether you're a mom looking for work, or a small business owner looking for talented remote workers, visit HireMyMom.com
Come see Arlene, Dr. Gary Chapman, and more at the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024. Early bird pricing is available now! happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list for a monthly resource to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome
Would you describe your marriage as grace-based or performance-based? Brad and Marilyn Rhoads are here to explain what a grace marriage looks like. They are the founders of Grace Marriage Ministry and their new book is The Grace Marriage: How the Gospel and Intentionality Transform Your Relationship. In today's conversation, you'll learn about:
3:20 Facing big problems early in marriage
7:39 Telling the difference between a grace-based marriage and a performance-based one
10:41 Walking towards instead of away
13:04 If your spouse does not pursue growing in the marriage...
15:04 This is what grace looks like
17:55 Having a plan for your marriage
18:15 You do not need to have a child-centric household
22:16 How churches can better support marriages
24:13 Date night ideas that you can use right away
Brad and Marilyn Rhoads spent the first year of marriage sad, isolated, and frustrated. But God intervened and helped them build a marriage beyond their imagination. They are the founders of Grace Marriage, a ministry that helps churches reimagine marriage ministry and equip husbands and wives to build marriages that reflect the Gospel. Learn more about Grace Marriage at gracemarriage.com
Learn more about the Grace Marriage book at gracemarriage.com/the-grace-marriage-book
Learn more about Arlene's book, 31 Days to a Happy Husband here or the Happy Husband online course at happyhomeuniversity.com/happyhusband
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, CA on March 2, 2024. Learn more at happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
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Subscribe to Arlene's free email list for a monthly resource to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
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Special thanks to HireMyMom.com
Kids and parents are way more anxious than they were in the 90s. What is happening to make anxiety so contagious and common? Pull up a chair for an illuminating, truth-filled conversation with counselor Sissy Goff as she shares principles from her new book, The Worry-Free Parent. In this conversation, you'll learn:
3:30 The two things you need to hear right now as a parent
4:25 What’s changed in counseling today versus the '90s
7:20 How does our anxiety rub off on our kids?
10:10 Which parenting style do you identify with?
14:30 Neuroplasticity - What happens if we keep reinforcing our worried brain?
18:00 I hear so much about parents who compare themselves to other parents on social media
19:10 Try this if you have a hard time falling asleep
21:30 Let go of the bottom 20%
24:00 My mom is more nurturing to me when I have panic attacks…
26:00 When parents have anxious thoughts, I want you to reframe this way
28:30 How to create more security at home with these two things
Sissy Goff is the director of child and adolescent counseling at Daystar Counseling Ministries in Nashville. She speaks across the country and cohosts the popular Raising Boys and Girls with David Thomas. Sissy has authored several books such as Raising Worry Free Girls.
Learn more about Sissy and her latest book, The Worry-Free Parent at raisingboysandgirls.com
Follow Sissy on Instagram @sissygoff
You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference in San Diego on March 2, 2024. Learn more here happyhomeuniversity.com/conference
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list for a monthly resource to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's new Happy Home YouTube Channel youtube.com/@arlenehappyhome
Special thanks to HireMyMom.com
The headlines tell us anxiety is on the rise. Is your family wrestling with anxiety? Counselor Jonathan Holmes helps us calm our anxious kids (and calm our own hearts too). How can you tell the difference between worry and anxiety? When does your child need help from a counselor? We'll talk about this and more in today's encouraging conversation about:
2:00 What are statistics revealing about anxiety before and after Covid?
3:20 The relationship between worry and anxiety and stress
4:30 How can you tell if your child has a disorder that needs to be treated? l
6:10 Are physical ailments actually signs of anxiety?
7:50 At our counseling center, we're seeing so many children like...
10:35 Anxious kids...anxious parents?
13:50 Sleep recommendations for kids and teens
16:20 Non-medical interventions for anxiety proven to work
18:20 Find out why your teen is spending so much time with TikTok or Instagram
21:00 What Jesus said about worry
24:00 Connect with your child through walking and talking
Jonathan Holmes is the founder and executive director of Fieldstone Counseling. He previously served for 15 years on the pastoral teams of Parkside Church and Parkside Green. He has a degree in Biblical counseling and his MA from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School. He’s the author and contributor to a number of books including the Company We Keep, Counsel for Couples and Rescue Skills. He and his wife Jennifer have four daughters.
Learn more about Jonathan Holmes at fieldstonecounseling.org
Check out his books at amazon.com/Company-We-Keep-Biblical-Friendship
Spending too much time scrolling? Check out Arlene's book Calm, Cool, and Connected: 5 Digital Habits for a More Balanced Life.
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar here.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list for a monthly resource to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's new Happy Home YouTube Channel youtube.com/@arlenehappyhome
Special thanks to HireMyMom.com
Infidelity is one of the most painful things, if not the most painful thing that can happen in a marriage. Can you rebuild a happy home again afterward? Dr. John Mark Haney has not only lived through this experience, he's helped others recover from the pain of infidelity through his counseling practice. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:30 My life was deconstructed and everything was falling apart
4:00 There’s a stereotype that if there’s infidelity, it’s the male that strayed, but that wasn’t the case
5:20 Meeting Leslie and the rest is history
7:30 The difference with infidelity pain
9:00 One of the biggest myths about infidelity
10:20 How do I know whether I should leave the unfaithful partner or work on the marriage?
13:30 What’s the general timeline of recovery that you’ve seen in your counseling?
16:00 This isn’t about getting back to the status quo…this is about building a different marriage
18:00 Giving place to grief
19:10 How to talk with your kids about the infidelity - or should you talk about it at all?
20:45 Common mistakes made with children
23:00 Do we need to tell our kids about past infidelity?
25:10 The dark night of the soul
27:10 What forgiveness is and isn’t
29:00 Pain as the scalpel used to better me…I’m a transformed person
Dr. John Mark Haney has his Ph.D. from the University of Texas at Austin and is best known for his work in recovery from the pain of infidelity. He’s trained and certified in sex therapy, EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing), and Emotional Transformation Therapy. He and his wife Leslie co-wrote Harboring Hope, an online program for betrayed spouses.
Dr. Haney will be speaking at the upcoming Hope Rising conference specifically designed for betrayed spouses. It’s happening online on September 30. It's the only conference I know of for both men and women who have experienced betrayal. You can live stream the event or watch it on demand afterward. Register here affairrecovery.com/hope-rising
Need just a little fine-tuning? Read my books 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife and 31 Days to a Happy Husband.
More Resources for Your Family:
Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar.
Subscribe to Arlene's free email list for a monthly resource to help your home. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
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The world has changed. Social media has emerged as arguably the most pervasive discipleship force in the world. It's shaping the way our kids think and behave. Chris Martin, author of The Wolf in Their Pockets, can help us understand the social internet and how to have better conversations with our teens. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:40 This group spends 2.5 hours a day on social media and it is not teens
5:23 How to fall into a happy technology medium
11:19 Is social media spending more time with your kids than you are?
15:45 Detecting social media influences in the home
19:34 How much should we shield our children from tech?
25:04 The constant hallway performance social media requires
30:17 Social media only wants your time
Chris Martin is the author of The Wolf in Their Pockets, 13 Ways the Social Internet Threatens the People You Lead. Chris is the editor of BibletoLife.com and the content marketing editor at Moody Publishers. He is also the author of another book about technology, Terms of Service.
Learn more about Chris and The Wolf in Their Pockets at moodypublishers.com/the-wolf-in-their-pockets
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Physical intimacy is very important in marriage, but it's something we rarely talk about with our friends or even our spouses. What is normal? What's too much? What's too little? Researcher and bestselling author Shaunti Feldhahn is here with surprising statistics everyone needs to know. We'll talk about key misconceptions, myths, and assumptions about fulfillment from Shaunti's book, Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. Get ready to laugh and learn as we talk about:
3:30 Wrong assumptions about sex and marriage
5:04 What research reveals about couples and intimacy
6:40 How frequently do “normal” couples have physical intimacy?
10:37 Are churchgoers more or less likely to have sex?
13:10 It’s really awkward to talk about this, so we don’t...
15:54 How to start talking about intimacy with your spouse
19:11 Initiating desire versus receptive desire (game changer!)
28:05 Accepting and identifying differing physiology
Shaunti Feldhahn is a ground-breaking social researcher, bestselling author, and speaker. After receiving her master's degree from Harvard, she worked on Wall Street. Her books include For Women Only and For Men Only and have sold more than three million copies. Shaunti's findings are regularly featured in secular and faith-based media including The Today Show, FamilyLife Radio, Focus on the Family, and The New York Times.
Learn more about Shaunti and her book Secrets of Sex and Marriage at her website shaunti.com
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If your marriage is suffering because of pornography, addiction, or an affair, you are not alone. It is not hopeless. You can be part of a story of redemption. Dannah Gresh has seen God redeem the broken pieces of her marriage and she's here to share her story. In today's honest and powerful conversation, you'll learn about:
2:00 Happily even after, walking through porn addiction in marriage
5:02 How porn affects the brain
9:15 Next steps to help marriages with a porn addiction
11:27 What to do when your spouse doesn’t seem to want help
13:38 Should you tell your kids you have a porn addiction?
17:12 How to prepare your kids for a victory over pornography
20:33 Redemption is the sweetest gift
22:56 The power of prayer through tough times
26:16 Dealing with one step forward, two steps back
28:37 Inviting redemption in your house
Dannah Gresh is this week's AWESOME AUGUST guest. Dannah is the best-selling author of more than 2 million books, speaker, and founder of True Girl. She is the co-host of Revive Our Hearts, a daily podcast for women. She and her husband Bob live in Pennsylvania on a small farm that could be confused as a petting zoo.
Learn more about Dannah's new book, Happily Even After: Let God Redeem Your Marriage dannahgresh.com
Learn about True Girl - Dannah's ministry to moms and daughters mytruegirl.com
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AWESOME AUGUST continues with Alli Worthington!
If you've ever wrestled with mom guilt or felt unfulfilled in your role as a mom, you are not alone. Being a mom can sap your strength, but what if you had a superpower to tap into? Alli Worthington is here to share her latest book, Remaining You While Raising Them: The secret art of confident motherhood. In today's conversation, you'll learn and laugh about...
2:11 You almost killed your son with pesto...
4:09 Why motherhood is harder than most people expect
8:48 Balancing business and family
14:05 How to work at home but still feel available to our kids
15:55 The magic question: What do you need right now?
22:19 Why making our kids our top priority is not Biblical
26:16 Seeking out knowledge is a sign of a good mom
28:26 The power of one percent a day
Alli Worthington is a speaker, author, podcaster, and life and business coach. She's known for helping women reach their dreams in business and life. Her guilt-free take on business, family, and balance has led to multiple appearances on The Today Show and Good Morning America. She and her husband Mark have five sons. To learn more about Alli, visit her website alliworthington.com
Learn more about Alli Worthington's book, Remaining You While Raising Them.
Take the Superpower Quiz on Alli's website alliworthington.com
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You've tried doing all the right things and saying the right words, but you're still exhausted and empty. There are times in life when it feels like no matter what we do, it ends in frustration. Ashley Morgan Jackson knows what it's like to face disappointment. Sharing ideas from her new book, Tired of Trying, she's here to encourage us when life just isn't working. In today's conversation, you'll learn about:
2:00 Having the baby blues as a new mom
3:53 Dealing with a mom identity crisis
5:09 Bridging the frustration gap
6:48 Next steps if you’re tired of trying
13:28 Choosing to walk with God through pain rather than blame
17:51 Struggling personally while raising kids
22:30 Advice for curing depression
26:06 Christian living today is hard, and God is here to help
Learn more about Ashley Morgan Jackson and her book, Tired of Trying at ashleymorganjackson.com
Follow Ashley on Instagram @ashley.morgan.jackson
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Do you struggle with body image or maybe you worry about the messages your kids are getting? Striving to have a perfect or better body can be exhausting and depressing. But what if your body isn't a problem to solve in your life, but rather a solution?
Fitness professional and author Alisa Keeton shares how you can celebrate your body, have it work for you and not against you, and find the wellness God created for you to enjoy. Sharing insights from her book The Body Revelation, we'll talk about:
3:00 When I was 14, this experience with exercise changed my life
5:00 The bad narrative about the body is…
6:50 How your body gives you important clues from the moment you are born
8:40 You can celebrate every body, shape, and size but for what?
9:24 I came from a functional dysfunctional home; it wasn’t a family of faith
10:40 The Jesus Movement comes to my home
13:20 I was repeating the unhealthy patterns of my mother…
15:50 Big T and little t traumas and how they affect your body and brain
17:42 Breathe - 1, 2, 3, 4, 5…
18:33 Hosting the presence of God in your life and how that brings calm
19:10 Commentators say Jesus walked a minimum of ten miles a day, walking and talking.
20:00 Detoxing our brain…neuroplasticity explained (this is brilliant!)
22:11 We have too much information and it is changing our brain
24:00 Gas pedal, brake pedal. Learn how to move and how to rest.
27:40 The things that are unseen are eternal
Learn more about Alisa Keeton and her book, The Body Revelation at revelationwellness.org
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When you hear the word teenager, it may strike fear in your heart. If you are dreading the teen years, you're not alone and you don't have to be a helpless bystander. Counselor and author of Parenting Ahead: Preparing for the Teen Years, Kristen Hatton, is here to teach us what we can do today to prepare well for tomorrow. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:45 How to prepare for the teen years so you can prevent unnecessary heartbreak
4:00 When parents never say “I’m sorry”
5:38 How to find the happy medium of discipline and independence
6:45 Teens will be teens, isn’t that right?
8:05 I was the queen of nagging (but I thought I was being helpful)
9:25 Seeing the fine line of overparenting
11:30 Also being wary of underparenting
14:30 Making parenting our golden calf idol
16:00 Redemption parenting when responding to your child vaping
18:50 Sponsoring activities for your kids is different than connection
21:51 Can your child/teen describe the gospel to someone else?
26:25 How parenting is like farming
Kristen Hatton is a counselor and author. Through counseling so many teens and their parents, she became passionate about equipping and encouraging parents. She and her husband have three young adult children, Her new book is titled Parenting Ahead: Preparing for the Teen Years.
Learn more about Kristen Hatton and her book here kristenhatton.com
Follow Kristen on Instagram @redemptiveparenting
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What do you eat when you feel stressed? Maybe it's cookies, burritos, cake, or my personal favorite, chocolate. What if we turned to God instead to find He has a feast prepared for us? Author Wendy Speake is back with her new book, The 40 Day Feast. We'll learn how to savor the Bible and the feast for the soul inside of Scripture. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:31 What do I turn to on hard days? The pantry? Coffee? My phone?
3:50 We are feasting on what will really satisfy our deepest needs
4:20 Are we truly believing AND reading the Word of God?
5:40 Pinpointing what we are turning to instead of God, recognizing distractions
6:30 The honking big Bible you got from your dad
9:23 Let your kids see you reading the Bible
13:40 When your baby ate the Bible - literally!
15:41 The powerful legacy of Grandparents
18:25 The power of prayer for our kids
Wendy Speake is the author of The 40 Day Feast, The 40 Day Sugar Fast, and The 40 Day Social Media Fast. Wendy is also the co-author of Triggers and Parenting Scripts. She has three teen sons. You can learn more about Wendy and her books here wendyspeake.com/40-day-feast
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Parenting can be overwhelming, especially if you're a single mom. Michelle Donnelly, president of the single parents' ministry Plus ONE Parents, knows what it's like to parent from a place of exhaustion and overwhelm. But in her new Bible study, Made for More, she shares how to move past hurt, loss, and heartbreak into what God has planned for your family. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:20 Feeling so lost in life
7:00 Digging into Scripture and discovering single-parent stories
9:55 Shalom means so much more - let me explain
12:10 Your situation does not define who you are or who God is
15:35 Helping our kids through rejection and anger
22:45 Helping kids cope with divorce and hard circumstances
26:00 How to better minister to single parents
28:11 Energy management as a single mom (you can say no)
Today’s guest Michelle Donnelly is the president and CEO of Plus ONE Parents, a single parents’ ministry. Michelle has been featured on Focus on the Family, Moody Radio, and The Life of a Single Mom. She has a new Bible study entitled, Made for More: Life Beyond Hurt, Loss and Heartbreak.
Learn more about Michelle and the many resources of Plus ONE Parents at plusoneparents.org
Learn more about the Bible study, Made for More: Life Beyond the Wreckage of Hurt, Loss and Heartbreak.
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Kids used to play outside for hours. Now they game or stay on their phones for hours indoors. How can you get your screen-saturated kids to put down their devices and head outdoors? Eryn Lynum, author of Rooted in Wonder, is here to help us fall in love with God's creation as a family. You don't have to live on a beach or near a national park to enjoy the many benefits of nature. In this conversation, you'll learn about:
3:10 Getting your kids interested in nature
6:00 Boys are drawn to the wildest things
8:30 Connecting the dots between the created world and the Creator
13:40 Invasive plants and what they teach us about technology
17:00 Nature is not relative - there are definitive truths about nature
20:00 Going into creation to sort your thoughts and get perspective
22:50 Practical ideas to get outside even with little kids
25:11 Word of encouragement to the non-outdoorsy people
Today's guest Eryn Lynum is the author of Rooted in Wonder: Nurturing Your Family’s Faith through God’s Creation. Eryn is a certified master naturalist, Bible teacher, wife, and mom of four. She’s been featured on Family Life Today, Proverbs 31 Ministries, and MOPS International.
Find out more about Eryn on her website, ErynLynum.com
Get her book, Rooted in Wonder
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Are your kids close to their grandparents? How can grandparents help even if they’re far away? Popular speakers Richard and Linda Eyre are here to talk about the grand in grandparenting and the genius of the three-generation family. Many kids will open up to grandparents in a way they will never open up to their parents. In today's conversation, you'll hear about the benefits of:
2:10 The Three-Generation Family
4:33 How to get grandparents more or less involved
6:49 Screen Free Activities
10:18 Bridging the space gap
12:53 Strengthening bonds with your grandparents
17:34 Parenting is still the same
19:41 How to raise responsible kids
22:23 Grandparenting before and after the tablet
Richard and Linda Eyre have been fortifying families around the world through speaking and writing since 1980. They've spoken in 45 countries and their bestselling book Teaching Your Children Values was the first parenting book in 50 years to reach #1 on the NYT bestseller list. The Eyres' other books include The Entitlement Trap, Grandmothering, and Being a Proactive Grandparent. The Eyres have been frequent guests on Oprah, the CBS Early Show, the Today Show, and GMA.
Learn more about Richard and Linda Eyre's books at ValuesParenting.com
Learn more about their grandparenting course at Grandparenting101.com
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Marriage is beautiful and rewarding, but it also can be very hard. There is one thing that can radically bless your home - praying the Word of God for your marriage.
Author Jodie Berndt has a new book in her bestselling Praying the Scriptures series. In Praying the Scriptures for Your Marriage, you'll get the tools and inspiration needed to pray for your spouse with confidence and joy.
In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:15 What would you ask God to do for your marriage?
5:00 Secular research has come out about the benefits of prayer in marriage
7:20 God, I just wish you’d fix my spouse…
11:00 The upward spiral in the home
14:50 How do you learn how to pray Scripture over your marriage?
16:30 Idea for praying together with your spouse
20:00 Hitting the ball back in communication
23:40 You’re not in crisis, but you’re not great either…
26:25 When I was steaming mad at my husband
29:30 Transform your heart through prayer
Jodie Berndt is the bestselling author of the Praying the Scriptures book series, which includes volumes for children, teens, adult children, and now, Praying the Scriptures for Your Marriage. Jodie has been a trusted speaker, Bible teacher, and prayer warrior for more than 30 years. She and her husband Rob have four married children and live in Virginia Beach VA.
Find out more about Jodie Berndt and her book, Praying the Scriptures for Your Marriage jodieberndt.com
Connect with Jodie on Instagram @jodie_berndt
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Are you worn out as a mom or dad? (I'm thinking you are nodding your head right now... unless you are too tired!)
Bestselling author and pastor Kyle Idleman knows the feeling. We’re talking about his new book When Your Way Isn’t Working. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:30 When you’re worn out and not acting like yourself
4:10 How can you encourage your husband to seek out help from a counselor or otherwise?
7:30 Examples of controlling metaphors (this is brilliant!)
10:00 Prioritizing connection overproduction (John 15)
15:10 Doing what is right even when you are too tired
17:05 The difference between superficial vs connective friends
20:50 These are the four warning lights in parenting
24:00 The wheel of feelings on the fridge
26:30 Watering a fake plant (don’t spend your life producing something that’s not real)
Kyle Idleman is the senior pastor at Southeast Christian Church, one of the largest churches in America. He's written books like Gods at War and Not a Fan. His new book is When Your Way Isn’t Working: Finding Purpose and Contentment through Deep Connection with Jesus. Kyle and his wife have four children. Learn more at his website: kyleidleman.com
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How would your life be impacted if your child had a rare disease? Today's guest, Laura Wifler knows what it's like to receive a heartbreaking diagnosis. She also knows what it's like to parent a child with disabilities with courage and grace. In today's conversation, Laura shares the story behind her new children's book, Like Me: A Story About Disability and Discovering God's Image in Every Person. You'll learn:
2:41 When my child was diagnosed
5:02 Helping kids understand others with disabilities
7:02 Grappling with God’s plan
9:10 Coming to understand that God is ultimately sovereign
11:29 Walking through the fire of grief and suffering
13:05 Learning from disabled siblings
17:26 Balancing having children with disabilities with your other kids
20:04 How to intentionally help friends with disabled kids
23:09 Preparing your kids to have conversations with disabled kids
27:09 Balancing hope and grief
31:01 Don’t give up on a dark day
Laura Wifler is the cofounder of Risen Motherhood, the executive director and cohost of the podcast, and the co-author of Risen Motherhood: Gospel Hope for Everyday Moments. Her latest book is Like Me: A Story About Disability and Discovering God’s Image in Every Person. She also wrote To the Cross I Cling, an e-book reflecting on mothering a child with a disability, and the award-winning children’s book Any Time, Any Place, Any Prayer. Laura, her husband, and her three children live in central Iowa.
Find out more about her children's book Like Me here: laurawifler.com/likeme
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Do you feel equipped to teach your child the Bible? Don't worry if you feel unprepared. Today's guest Jenny Randle explains how you can share the truths from God's Word in a kid-friendly way. Her new book, Flash Theology, will help you dive into the big ideas of the Bible and help you understand a fuller picture of who God is. During today's conversation, you'll hear:
5:00 A funny potty training story
6:45 This beautiful resource will help you understand the Bible
10:00 Explaining the kingdom of God to kids
11:50 Teaching theology to kids of all ages - here’s how
15:24 What are Christian parents missing about God?
18:26 Decreasing Biblical literacy in this generation
19:15 Don’t let the Bible intimidate you
21:33 How to foster creativity and faith in your kids
25:06 How did you win an Emmy award???
29:15 Experiencing the depths of God even when doing mundane things
Jenny Randle is an Emmy-award-winning editor who went on a journey to discover what it really means to live on purpose. From a career in the heart of Hollywood to a Bible teacher, her creative ventures over the last twenty years have reached millions. In early 2018, Jenny and her husband, Matt, formed Freedom Creatives which provides classes, coaching, and prayer events. Jenny is also the co-host of the fun and faith-filled podcast — Shut the Should Up and authored books like Courageous Creative and her newest book, Flash Theology (co-authored with Brayden Brookshier). Jenny and Matt have two children.
Find out more about Flash Theology here flashtheology.com
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When hard times come, what happens to your family? Is your faith strengthened or weakened? Three time cancer survivor Michele Cushatt shares the practices that helped her walk through immeasurable suffering. In today's honest and faith-filled conversation, you'll learn:
2:00 Why did you start your book with lament?
6:00 I still miss my old voice (after tongue cancer)
9:30 Worshiping with what you’ve been given
12:00 Humility is so key because…
17:00 But I don’t want to surrender control
21:15 When your child says, “I hate being in this family”
25:00 Peter, Satan has asked to sift you as wheat
Michele Cushatt is a reluctant expert on trauma and pain through three cancer battles, divorce, and parenting foster adopted kids. She speaks internationally to a wide variety of audiences. She and her husband Troy share a blended family of six children and they live outside of Denver, CO.
Find out more about Michele Cushatt's book, A Faith That Will Not Fail at michelecushatt.com
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Parents, how would you like to have kids who love God, like their family and do the dishes without being asked? Boy mom Monica Swanson is here to share how we can raise such amazing kids. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
4:00 Aiming big is not necessarily the goal
5:20 Do I really need to be intentional in raising children?
7:50 How to have eyes wide open with technology
9:10 How to build family culture
13:20 How to balance independence & freedom with teens
15:00 What if you aren’t good at starting conversations?
17:50 By prioritizing yourself, you prioritize your kids
19:10 Kids become like the company they keep
21:30 How to be the “cool” house that kids like to visit
23:50 Talking about politics, current events
24:50 When my college son faced anxiety issues
27:30 Managing success in a healthy way
Monica Swanson is host of the popular Monica Swanson Podcast (formerly the Boy Mom Podcast). She and her husband Dave who is a doctor have raised their 4 boys on the north shore of Oahu. Monica's new book is Raising Amazing. Learn more about Monica and Raising Amazing here: monicaswanson.com
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Do your kids embrace life with confidence? We talk about resilience but how many kids are really willing to take risks, fail, and get back up again? Dr. Kathy Koch is here to help us raise resilient kids who can recover from bad days and disappointments.
For kids to be resilient, they need to know the God of the Bible. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
3:20 What is resilience?
4:50 Don’t just talk about resilience, this is how to live it out in front of your kids
5:40 Your daughter blames her teacher for a bad grade, what do you say?
8:20 What is the difference between a failure and a mistake?
12:45 When you zap your kids without even knowing it
15:15 The powerful roles of optimism and pessimism
16:55 Use the calendar this way to help your kids recover
19:45 Big trauma versus little trauma
22:30 Put your phone down and hear your child’s heart cry
24:35 Technology has taught us that everything is easy
26:46 Learning lessons from giraffes about over-parenting
29:34 Fostering spiritual resiliency in your kids
Dr. Kathy Koch is a child development specialist and founder of Celebrate Kids based in Fort Worth Texas. She has influenced thousands of parents, teachers and children in 30 countries through keynote messages and seminars. Her books include Screens and Teens, 8 Great Smarts and the topic of today's conversation, Resilient Kids.
Learn more about Dr. Kathy and her book Resilient Kids at Celebrate Kids celebratekids.com
Screen time getting a little out of control? Get Arlene's free monthly resource 5 Ways to Reset Your Tech. These are small, doable changes that bring big results (and more peace in your home). happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Want to feel closer to your spouse this Valentine's Day? Join Arlene's 31 Days to a Happy Husband Masterclass at happyhomeuniversity.com/happyhusband
Sponsored in part by Talk About by Awana. Get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com keyword Happy Home.
Are you weary from battling with your kids, your spouse, or with the culture around you? Spiritual warfare is happening in your family - what can you do to protect your home from the enemy's attacks? Author Judy Dunagan is here to remind us that we don't have to live in defeat. We have the Lion of Judah on our side. Talking about her new book, The Loudest Roar, in this conversation Judy will share:
2:50 When her grandson met a lion
4:50 When grandmas pray for their grandkids
5:50 Living on the other side of the world with her kids
7:30 Have you made your child an idol in your heart?
9:50 From a young age, I learned what it means to stand in the victory of God
11:30 I’m a natural born worrier…I needed to turn those worries into prayer
12:50 Explain the armor of God to a child in this way
14:45 Our marriage was almost shattered but God…
17:50 When you don’t want your story
19:00 Importance of music in spiritual warfare
21:30 Be strong IN the Lord - it’s all about Jesus
25:39 You can leave a legacy in your family
Judy Dunagan is an acquisitions editor for the women's Bible studies and books at Moody Publishers. A wonder seeker of God and His Word, Judy is passionate about discipleship and making God's Word and prayer come alive in everyday life. She is a speaker and Bible teacher and serves on the Board of Deeper Walk International, the ministry her father Mark Bubeck founded. Judy and her husband Rick live in Colorado. Together, they have two grown daughters and five grandkids.
Learn more about Judy Dunagan's book, The Loudest Roar: Living in the Unshakable Victory of Christ at judydunagan.com
Screen time getting a little out of control? Get Arlene's free monthly resource 5 Ways to Reset Your Tech. These are small, doable changes that bring big results (and more peace in your home). happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Want to feel closer to your spouse this Valentine's Day? Join Arlene's 31 Days to a Happy Husband Masterclass at happyhomeuniversity.com/happyhusband
Is your marriage a source of strength or a source of stress? Pastor and author Gary Thomas shares how to make your marriage like a fortress, a safe place in stormy times. You don't have to have perfect circumstances to have a strong marriage; in fact, trouble can bring a couple together. You'll learn how to make this happen in today's conversation about:
3:00 Will trouble bring you closer together in a marriage or tear you apart?
4:00 This storm is terrible, but it would be even worse if it took our marriage away too
5:40 We all relate to God differently, here are different ways people worship
7:10 When one spouse is up and one is down
9:00 The fear of MS was even worse than the MS itself
10:00 When you lose a child
11:00 The second year of grieving is often worse than the first
13:01 A new child means a new marriage, let me explain
14:30 We are going to get closer to each other twenty years from now
16:00 When you have a disabled child, how to nurture your other family members too
18:00 How can you tell if you have the symptoms of over busyness
22:50 Different drives and how to navigate that wisely
25:20 Maybe is a very helpful word
28:00 How to get closer to your spouse starting right away
Gary Thomas has authored 20 books such as Sacred Marriage that have sold more than 2 million copies and been translated into more than a dozen languages. Gary enjoys running and has completed 14 marathons including the Boston marathon 3 times. He and his wife Lisa have been married 38 years and have three adult children and 2 grandchildren.
Learn more about Gary Thomas' newest book: Making Your Marriage a Fortress.
Screen time getting a little out of control? Get Arlene's free monthly resource 5 Ways to Reset Your Tech. These are small, doable changes that bring big results (and more peace in your home). happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
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Are your kids enthusiastic about school? Whether your child goes to public, private or homeschool, author Leah Boden has ideas that will get your children more interested in learning. Many educators are familiar with Charlotte Mason and her philosophy of education. In Leah's new book titled Modern Miss Mason, you'll discover how anyone can use Charlotte Mason's principles to spark curiosity and lengthen attention spans. In today's conversation, you will learn:
3:45 Who was Charlotte Mason and why is she important in education?
6:20 Children are not like a lump of clay that we form
8:00 What is the atmosphere of your home and how is that a tool of education?
11:50 How tech can be used for good in education, to bring out beauty
18:50 What is masterly inactivity? How can you train kids so you can trust them?
21:00 Try this in Bible study to help your kids learn for themselves
23:00 Creating a love of books in the home, how to choose a good book
25:50 What might a day of Charlotte Mason education look like?
28:50 When a homeschooling mom is exhausted
Leah Boden is the author Modern Miss Mason: Discover how Charlotte Mason’s revolutionary ideas on home education can change how you and your children learn and grow together. Leah is a wife and mother of four. She’s a longtime home educator with over 20 years of experience working with families within the church. She speaks, coaches, and runs workshops to share the beauty of a Charlotte Mason approach to childhood, motherhood, and education. She and her family live in England.
Learn about Leah Boden's book, Modern Miss Mason at leahboden.com
Get Arlene's free monthly resource 5 Ways to Reset Your Tech. These are small, doable changes that bring big results (and more peace in your home). happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Feeling overwhelmed with all you have to do? Or maybe you feel insignificant as you look forward to the New Year. Rachael Adams knows what it's like to wonder about the difference she's making in the world as a mom. She's written a new devotion, "A Little Goes a Long Way" to remind us that small acts and invitations often lead to some pretty amazing results. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
4:30 What he was actually asking was “Am I enough?”
6:00 One minute that introduced me to my husband
7:10 I was isolated as a mom and this invitation changed my life
9:50 The value of touch between kids and parents
12:45 You ran a half marathon…once. How did the power of encouragement get you through?
14:30 How to notice those around you and their needs
15:50 I wish my life was bigger…does my little life matter at all?
20:30 Here’s how to have more purpose to our work
23:30 We can start to compare our ministries instead of doing this
Rachael Adams is the host of the popular The Love Offering podcast. She and her husband Bryan run a family business and farm in Kentucky with their two kids and two doodle dogs.
Learn about her new book, A Little Goes a Long Way: 52 Days to a Significant Life at rachaelkadams.com
Want to bring in the New Year with healthier screen habits for your family? Get Arlene's free monthly resource 5 Ways to Reset Your Tech. These are small, doable changes that bring big results (and more peace in your home). happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
You know the popular song Silent Night, but you probably haven't had much silence lately. In today's 25 Days of Christmas message, Arlene shares the story of Zechariah, a supporting cast member of the Christmas story found in Luke 2. His prayers were about to be answered about two long awaited sons - one was his own son who would become John the Baptist. The other was Jesus who would become the Messiah the Jews had been waiting for hundreds of years. Zechariah would be struck deaf and dumb as a sign of this promise. What did he learn in this silence? What might we learn by being still before God?
3:10 This was the worst day…
4:00 Who is Zechariah in the Christmas story?
5:15 I did my part God, but you didn’t do your part
7:00 Zechariah did his priestly duty even though he was sad
9:30 Friend, God has heard your prayer
13:00 Zechariah got a sign, probably not what he was expecting
16:00 Our limitations unleash God’s power.
18:44 His name will be…
19:50 His story becomes a faith point for other people
22:45 The approachability of Jesus and the holiness of God
Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home, speaker and author of books like Screen Kids, Parents Rising, and 31 Days to a Happy Husband.
It's not too late to pick up a few family activities and family devotions from Arlene's free guide, The 25 Days of Christmas. Get it here today at happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
It's time for the 25 Days of Christmas here at the Happy Home!
Kids love animals right? So why not use a story about animals to bring Christmas alive to kids of all ages?
One of my favorite AccessMore podcasts is Science and God with Dr. G. Today we have Mrs. G on the podcast! Laurel Guillen has written a new novel titled A Bellwether Christmas starring a spunky sheep named Bart. You'll find out about the real life Bart and the profound effect animals have had in her son's life. You won't want to miss the unique way the Guillen family opens their Christmas presents (it's an idea to copy for sure).
In today's conversation about faith, family and Christmas, you'll learn about:
3:08 Living with Bart the Sheep
4:30 Do sheep really know the voice of their shepherd?
5:20 My sheep, the escape artist
7:20 You adopted your son from a foster home…how did you help him catch up on reading?
9:50 How to make the most of moving around a lot
11:00 Try this on your next road trip
12:46 How nature and animals had a major impact on my son
17:00 A totally new way to give out your Christmas gifts
20:00 The holiday decorations of Dr. G
21:50 Falling in love with Italy and Francis of Assisi
23:00 My first idea of a book never materialized…but it led to a Christmas novel
25:00 How did you and your husband Dr. Michael Guillen meet and find Jesus at Cornell
29:00 How science led Dr. Guillen to God
33:00 Here’s what I would tell a younger mom
Laurel Guillen is a Cornell University graduate and former radio, newspaper, and television journalist who has always loved medieval tales. She helped her husband, Michael Guillen, PhD, produce the award-winning family movie Little Red Wagon. Her novel A Bellwether Christmas was inspired by a life-changing trip to Italy and years of caring for some remarkable farm animals.
Get a 15 percent discount on Laurel's book, A Bellwether Christmas, here: faithfultext.com
Learn more about Laurel here: fb.me/LaurelGblog
It's not too late to pick up a few family activities and family devotions from Arlene's free guide, The 25 Days of Christmas. Just subscribe here to get it today. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
It's time for the 25 Days of Christmas! After explaining that Christmas is about Jesus' birthday, what else can you say to your kids about the meaning of the season? With fresh ideas from ancient Scriptures, Asheritah Ciuciu will help us introduce our kids to the names of Jesus in a fun way. More than 100,000 families have gone through Asheritah's advent devotional Unwrapping the Names of Jesus, and now she has a new children's book to bring the names of Jesus to life to your littles titled Unwrapping the Names of Jesus for Kids.
During today's 25 Days of Christmas conversation, you'll learn:
4:00 Why is multi-generational discipleship valuable?
6:50 Ask grandma or grandpa this question to get conversation going
8:40 How to help kids understand the different names of Jesus
10:55 Detecting challenges your kids face
12:25 Two roses, one thorn
15:00 What are some of your favorite Christmas traditions?
16:10 You were burned out with Christmas, what turned it around for you?
20:35 Writing a children’s book wasn’t easy…
22:20 Creative ways to read to your kids
24:20 How to say no to a Christmas activity invite
Asheritah Ciuciu is a writer, speaker, and founder of One Thing Alone Ministries. She grew up in Romania as a missionary kid and married her high school sweetheart. They have 3 children and live in Ohio.
Find out about her new children's book Unwrapping the Names of Jesus at moodypublishers.com
Get Arlene's free 25 Days of Christmas - your family guide which includes 10 devotions, 10 fun and easy family activities, and 5 ways to serve at happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
If you have a wild, spirited, strong willed kid, this episode is for you!
Instead of constantly fighting with your child, what if you could learn how to harness the superpower of having a strong will? Parent educator and coach Wendy Snyder has learned how to raise a strong willed child with integrity (and sanity!) based on her own experience. On today's episode, you'll hear:
3:20 She came out of the womb strong willed!
5:20 If you describe your child as demanding, insistent, bossy, fixated, rebellious…
7:30 These strong willed leaders helped me see my daughter differently
8:20 Strong willed kids need to have their power bucket filled
9:45 Do this to prevent power struggles
11:20 When your kid wants to have a pop-up business
13:50 Try this language when your child doesn’t do what they are supposed to do
17:00 How do I break generational struggles? How can I stop yelling at my kids?
20:30 Doing things differently than how I was brought up
24:00 When you have a strong willed kid, the degree of difficulty is so much higher
26:00 You’re living in this way that feels good - you’re making a positive change
27:30 How is your strong willed child now that she’s a teenager?
30:45 When your kids are hiding things…what if they are not trustworthy?
32:00 How has surfing helped you as a mom?
Wendy Snyder is the founder of Fresh Start Family offering online seminars, coaching, courses & a membership program to give parents the support and tools they need to raise their children. Wendy obtained her BS in Marketing from San Diego State University and Parenting Certification from the International Network for Children & Families.
Check out her free online power struggles class at freshstartfamilyonline.com
Get Arlene's free monthly resource, The Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life at happyhomeuniversity.com
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Dwell Bible App. Save 30% off Dwell for Life at DwellApp.io/HappyHome.
Are your kids good at saying thank you? Kids and teens have gained a reputation for being entitled, but what if your kids were known for being grateful?
Dr. Gary Chapman joins me to talk about beefing up the A+ skill of appreciation as we write about in our book Screen Kids. In our conversation, you'll learn:
4:00 Were kids grateful in the generation you grew up in? How did your parents teach you gratitude as a young child?
5:25 The milk toddler tyrant
6:15 The enemy of the A+ skill of appreciation: indulgence
8:35 the value of saying no as a parent
10:00 What if gifts is my child’s love language and I don’t buy what they want - will they feel unloved?
13:00 But everyone else has one!
14:45 These kind of things show gratitude to moms
17:00 Work hard to have a mealtime everyday together
20:20 Dr. Chapman gets a lesson in being thankful
21:35 How do I start with my teenager if he or she hasn’t been grateful?
23:00 It starts with being thankful to God ourselves
25:50 Try this at Thanksgiving
Dr. Gary Chapman is known around the world as the author of The Five Love Languages (20 million copies in print). You (or your child) can take the quiz to find out what your love language is here: 5lovelanguages.com
Learn more about Screen Kids, co-authored by Dr. Gary Chapman and Arlene Pellicane at arlenepellicane.com
Get Arlene's free monthly resource, The Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life at happyhomeuniversity.com
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
How close do you feel to your spouse?
No matter what the state of your union, there are things you can do and say to grow closer to one another. Longtime radio cohost of FamilyLife Today, Bob Lepine has a new book titled "Build a Stronger Marriage." On today's episode, we'll talk about:
3:20 It’s my spouse that needs to change, not me
5:00 Finding a mentor couple
8:00 When you’re a morning person and you marry a night person
11:30 What does this psalm of worship have to do with marriage?
14:40 Four areas of the past that you must talk about
16:30 Patterns and problems from your family of origin
19:45 Hurts need to addressed if we want to be healed
21:05 How to interest your spouse in changing your marriage
22:55 What issues should you confront and what should you overlook?
26:45 Four horsemen of marriage apocalypse
30:00 Try this to celebrate your spouse
Bob Lepine serves as the teaching pastor at Redeemer Community Church in Little Rock Arkansas, and was the long time radio cohost of FamilyLife Today. Bob speaks at marriage and pastors events across the country. You can read Bob's blog here: redeemerlr.org
Learn about his new book, Build a Stronger Marriage - The Path to Oneness
Get Arlene's free monthly resource, The Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
How close do you feel to your spouse?
No matter what the state of your union, there are things you can do and say to grow closer to one another. Longtime radio cohost of FamilyLife Today, Bob Lepine has a new book titled "Build a Stronger Marriage." On today's episode, we'll talk about:
3:20 It’s my spouse that needs to change, not me
5:00 Finding a mentor couple
8:00 When you’re a morning person and you marry a night person
11:30 What does this psalm of worship have to do with marriage?
14:40 Four areas of the past that you must talk about
16:30 Patterns and problems from your family of origin
19:45 Hurts need to addressed if we want to be healed
21:05 How to interest your spouse in changing your marriage
22:55 What issues should you confront and what should you overlook?
26:45 Four horsemen of marriage apocalypse
30:00 Try this to celebrate your spouse
Bob Lepine serves as the teaching pastor at Redeemer Community Church in Little Rock Arkansas, and was the long time radio cohost of FamilyLife Today. Bob speaks at marriage and pastors events across the country. You can read Bob's blog here: redeemerlr.org
Learn about his new book, Build a Stronger Marriage - The Path to Oneness
Get Arlene's free monthly resource, The Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
It can be hard to nurture your family, faith, and work all at the same time. Yet it's possible in this ever changing world to work and have a strong and established home. Interior designer Jean Stoffer is here to share her hard-won wisdom about marriage, raising kids, running a business and landing a television show on the Magnolia Network. In this heart to heart conversation, you'll learn:
2:30 How did you start working with Magnolia Network?
4:00 The day my husband unexpectedly quit his high paying job
6:45 Listen to your spouse completely before reacting
9:00 Balancing a growing business and being a mom
12:10 Why do moms need a creative outlet? What was yours?
14:50 Being the hub house
16:10 When your plans for your son’s college didn’t happen
21:00 From a design perspective, here’s what is appropriate for kids
Jean Stoffer is the star of Magnolia Network’s show, The Established Home. This TV series follows Jean and her design work. Jean is an award winning Grand Rapids based interior designer and her new book is called “Establishing Home: Creating Space for a Beautiful Life with Family, Faith and Friends.” Joanna Gaines says this about the book: "Home is so much more than the sum of its parts, and this beautiful book will encourage you to keep pursuing that which fills the gaps.”
Learn more about Jean Stoffer and her book here stofferhome.com
Subscribe for Arlene's free monthly resource - this month you'll receive The Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life.
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
It can be hard to nurture your family, faith, and work all at the same time. Yet it's possible in this ever changing world to work and have a strong and established home. Interior designer Jean Stoffer is here to share her hard-won wisdom about marriage, raising kids, running a business and landing a television show on the Magnolia Network. In this heart to heart conversation, you'll learn:
2:30 How did you start working with Magnolia Network?
4:00 The day my husband unexpectedly quit his high paying job
6:45 Listen to your spouse completely before reacting
9:00 Balancing a growing business and being a mom
12:10 Why do moms need a creative outlet? What was yours?
14:50 Being the hub house
16:10 When your plans for your son’s college didn’t happen
21:00 From a design perspective, here’s what is appropriate for kids
Jean Stoffer is the star of Magnolia Network’s show, The Established Home. This TV series follows Jean and her design work. Jean is an award winning Grand Rapids based interior designer and her new book is called “Establishing Home: Creating Space for a Beautiful Life with Family, Faith and Friends.” Joanna Gaines says this about the book: "Home is so much more than the sum of its parts, and this beautiful book will encourage you to keep pursuing that which fills the gaps.”
Learn more about Jean Stoffer and her book here stofferhome.com
Subscribe for Arlene's free monthly resource - this month you'll receive The Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life.
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
Is your teenager hearing from Jesus? When our kids encounter Jesus for themselves, everything changes. Drew Hill has worked with teens for more than 20 years and shares how parents can invite teens to (literally) walk with Jesus. In today's conversation, you'll learn about:
2:30 Meeting Jesus as a teenager
4:00 This Christian camp experience changed my life
6:00 Go on a walk - why is this transformational?
7:30 About the documentary Godspeed: The Pace of Being Known
9:10 What if our teens aren’t interested in spiritual things - how can we help them get more interested?
12:00 What is the biggest change you’ve seen in youth ministry since smartphones?
14:10 We imagine things all the time
16:50 When should my kid get a phone?
19:45 I know I’m a phone addict…
24:00 Personal life lessons from Dr. Gary Chapman
28:00 Who is Crash the Rhino?
Drew Hill is an award winning author and speaker. He serves as the head of school for the Covenant School in Greensboro, NC. He also works in the leadership of Young Life. He and his wife Natalie have five kids.
Learn more about Drew and his book, Alongside Jesus: Devotions for Teenagers alongsideresources.com
Watch the documentary Drew talked about: Godspeed, The Pace of Being Known
Get Arlene's free Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life. Subscribe at happyhomeuniversity.com
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
We live in an age of smart everything - smart phones, smart cars, smart homes, and smart kids. But what about us? Are we being smart in our parenting?
Arlene's pastor Jeff Brawner is here to bring family changing principles from the book of Proverbs that will get you parenting smart according to the Word of God. In this message recorded at Bonita Valley Community Church, you'll learn:
5:00 What does the Bible mean by “train up a child”?
10:00 How long am I supposed to train my kids?
12:30 These boundaries aren’t bad, they save lives
14:30 Your child has been pre-packed by God
17:45 Boys learn in different ways than girls
20:00 There’s no one size fits all - God has never created a child without purpose.
23:00 How can you provide security for your kids?
23:45 Lessons from the biosphere
27:00 Trust God’s promises when you don’t understand the plan
29:00 Deep convictions will keep your kids from falling
Pastor Jeff Brawner is the senior pastor of Bonita Valley Community Church in San Diego, California. He and his wife have two adult children who are serving in ministry. Learn more at BonitaValley.com
Get Arlene's recommended reading list for kids and teens at Happy Home University. Just subscribe to Arlene's monthly free resource for instant access! happyhomeuniversity.com
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
Loving your kids is very important, but so is loving your spouse. How can you invest in your marriage this week? It’s worth the effort to get closer to your spouse because a strong marriage makes a strong family. It can be easier to talk about parenting and sweep your marriage issues under the rug. On today's episode, Arlene shares a few things she has learned about marriage.
You'll learn:
3:40 Here’s the weird thing that happened to me in spin class
6:20 Providing stability to your kids
7:25 We don’t live in a committed culture
9:00 Think of commitment like this, not that
11:40 I would be considerate to my spouse if he was considerate to me…
15:00 What’s one thing you could do for your spouse today?
16:00 But my spouse is no longer novel or interesting…
18:00 My husband’s glucose kick
19:50 Create more wonder in your marriage like this (check out Bill Farrel’s interview in the archives)
22:00 Advice for stepfamilies (check out past interviews with Ron Deal and/or Laura Petherbridge in the archives)
24:00 Dropping off our oldest to college with tears
If you want to learn more, read Arlene's book 31 Days to a Happy Husband.
You can also take the masterclass here: happyhomeuniversity.com/happyhusband
Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home podcast, speaker, and author of several books including Parents Rising and Screen Kids.
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
Do you feel stuck in an endless cycle of meeting everyone else's needs? When you are also nourishing yourself, you bring the best of you into the family. How can you tell the difference between being selfish and self-care? Dr. Alison Cook is here to help with powerful truths from her new book, The Best of You. During today's conversation you'll learn:
2:30 You don’t always have to sacrifice
3:50 Is it selfish to ask “what do I want”?
6:10 Selfishness, Selfhood or Selflessness
7:40 If you put yourself aside to an extreme, it’s not healthy for you or your loved ones
9:10 Examples of selfhood from Jesus
10:30 Motive checks - am I pleasing people or being kind?
12:00 How can we help our middle schoolers be true to themselves (not conform for others)?
15:00 Open conversations like this for teens
16:10 Moms who are spiritually strong but emotionally struggling
17:40 Codependency compared to healthy dependence
20:00 The two extremes “I need you to approve of me” and “I’m good”
21:30 The connection between trauma and mental health
22:31 Trauma defined as “unwitnessed pain”
25:30 Your presence, your nonverbals - why is this important for kids?
27:00 Guardrails against narcissism
Dr. Alison Cook has been a therapist for more than 20 years. She’s brought faith and psychology together to help thousands of women reclaim their confidence and find purpose.
Find out about her new book, "The Best of You: Break Free from Painful Patterns, Mend Your Past and Discover Your True Self in God" on her website.
Learn more about Arlene's book Screen Kids and the masterclass at Happy Home University
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
According to today's guest, a father is the most important person in a young girl's life. That's what Dr. Meg Meeker has been seeing again and again in her practice as a pediatrician. Learn why this connection is so important and how to strengthen these bonds, no matter what your current situation. On today's podcast based on Dr. Meeker's bestselling book, Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters, you'll learn:
2:40 The importance of a dad’s words - the sentence that changed Dr. Meeker’s life
4:20 What are the main differences between a dad and a mom?
6:55 If you think it’s too late to build a strong relationship with your daughter, it’s not. Take ten minutes and do this…
8:10 Children get cues from parents - if mom or dad is upset or anxious, kids will be too
10:40 What inspired you to write your book, Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters?
12:10 What’s it like seeing your book made into a movie?
14:20 Why did you include humility as a chapter in your book? How do dads show humility to daughters in a healthy way?
15:50 Daughters crave for their dad to protect them (even if they say otherwise)
18:10 Do this dad when your daughter comes home from a date
20:40 Set the rules of dress and dating beforehand
22:30 What differences are you seeing in your teen patients in the last five years because of technology?
24:10 Why is social media so dangerous for girls?
Dr. Meeker is a fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics. She's written 7 books and a mother of four and grandmother of six. Her bestselling book Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters (which has sold more than half a million copies) has just been adapted into a movie on Pure Flix.
Watch the movie Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters on Pure Flix
Find out more about Dr. Meeker on her website meekerparenting.com
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.
You're raising tiny disciples. Whether you have young ones or teens, Melissa Swain is here to help us write God's Word on our children's hearts. Family discipleship made simple. How do we do this in a way that our kids embrace? Today you'll learn:
3:45 What can Alexander the Great teach us about culture today? What is vulture culture?
5:50 The urgency of parenting…we have limited time
7:10 This isn’t an easy fix
7:50 How can you test how much popular culture is influencing your child?
10:30 Disciplining younger kids looks like this
11:50 How can I get my 18 year old to obey house rules?
14:50 You don’t have to have a huge chunk of time to disciple
17:10 The difference between connecting with a moment and connecting with your child
19:40 Try these creative s'mores
21:30 What NOT to do with your kids
24:10 A different way to hold your kids accountable
26:55 How might a family start a discipleship plan at home?
28:45 Help for the single mom (or for the mom who is the only Christian in the home)
Guest Melissa Swain is the co-author of Write It On Their Hearts (authored with her late husband Chris). Melissa has spent nearly 23 years as a pastor’s wife and is a mom, homeschool teacher, writer, and editor.
To learn more, go to Melissa's website writeitontheirhearts.com
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You've probably heard of the Enneagram - can it actually help you understand your kids or your spouse? Enneagram coach Beth McCord is teaching how this tool can aid spiritual and relational growth in your home. You'll see how the Enneagram can help you navigate disagreements better with your spouse and more. In today's conversation, we'll talk about:
2:40 - These are the 4 core motivations for every person
3:50 - Be alert of your weaknesses
9:20 - Seeing through your spouse's lens
11:20 - How do you find out your Enneagram?
13:00 - How can you appreciate and leverage how you’re wired
15:00 - What if your Enneagram is in direct conflict with your spouse’s?
20:30 - Discovery is not recovery
25:00 - What this picture reveals about God our Good Shepherd
Beth McCord is the bestselling author and co-founder with her husband Jeff of "Your Enneagram Coach," one of the largest Enneagram platforms in the world and the only one of its size to that teaches people how to use the Enneagram from a faith based perspective. More than 2 million people have taken their online Enneagram type assessment. Beth and her husband Jeff have a new book, "More Than Your Number: A Christ-Centered Enneagram Approach to Becoming Aware of Your Internal World."
Learn more on their website Your Enneagram Coach yourenneagramcoach.com
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My husband James and I dropped our oldest child off at college a few weeks ago. Launching adults is hard. Author of Empty Nest, Marci Seither, is here to help us prepare for the next stage of parenting, wherever you are on the parenting journey. Marci has lots of experience as a mother of six! On today's podcast you'll learn:
3:50 How do you prepare to enter a new season with your kids?
6:10 The gap between our six kids - one in drivers training and one in potty training at the same time
7:30 Tight ring years - what does this mean?
12:00 Arlene sending off her oldest to college
13:10 How can we help prepare siblings for when their brother or sister leaves home?
17:45 What if you’re worried that your child isn’t ready to launch? What if you’re almost relieved that he or she is leaving because they cause stress in the home?
20:25 How did you cope with kids leaving home…stress knitting! It’s okay to grieve…
23:00 Finding a rhythm of rest - a quieting that you can create space for something new
26:45 “I feel like the best years of my life are over….” - how do you reinvent yourself after the empty nest?
30:45 How to parent your college child - what’s too much? What’s too little?
32:20 How to keep your marriage interesting
Marci Seither is the author of Empty Nest and a beautiful new devotional, Lakeside Retreat. She has been featured on Focus on the Family, Guideposts magazine, and in hundreds of articles. Find out more at MarciSeither.com
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If you listen to Christian music, you've probably heard songs by today's guest Colton Dixon. This award winning musician is here to talk about becoming a father, the miracle he experienced with his twin baby girl, and how you can experience more of the supernatural in your family. Colton is featured on LIVE + LOCAL, a new show on Pure Flix. In today's interview, you'll learn:
2:30 Being on American Idol compared to becoming a father
4:30 Delivering the twins - we had huge complications
7:00 Needing a family miracle, blocking out fear, choosing faith
10:20 A funny place Arlene heard Colton’s song Miracles…
11:00 The story behind Colton’s new song, Build a Boat
12:50 If you’re going through a dry season as a family…
14:00 Highs and lows in Colton’s career, how can we help our kids with disappointment?
18:50 Colton’s confession about taping for a new show, LIVE + LOCAL on Pure Flix
20:45 Working with Dave Coulier, Uncle Joey from Full House
22:30 Teens expressing themselves through fashion - what’s okay? What’s too much?
24:30 What can we do as parents about music with bad lyrics?
28:00 My daughters Athens and Dior living up to their names
Colton Dixon has released three No1 albums and his music has been streamed more than 100 million times. He's been awarded 2 Dove Awards and KLOVE nominations. You can watch Colton guest star on the show LIVE + LOCAL, now streaming on Pure Flix.
Learn more about Colton Dixon on his website coltondixon.com
Find more about Arlene Pellicane's book and masterclass, Screen Kids happyhomeuniversity.com
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If you listen to Christian music, you've probably heard songs by today's guest Colton Dixon. This award winning musician is here to talk about becoming a father, the miracle he experienced with his twin baby girl, and how you can experience more of the supernatural in your family. Colton is featured on LIVE + LOCAL, a new show on Pure Flix. In today's interview, you'll learn:
2:30 Being on American Idol compared to becoming a father
4:30 Delivering the twins - we had huge complications
7:00 Needing a family miracle, blocking out fear, choosing faith
10:20 A funny place Arlene heard Colton’s song Miracles…
11:00 The story behind Colton’s new song, Build a Boat
12:50 If you’re going through a dry season as a family…
14:00 Highs and lows in Colton’s career, how can we help our kids with disappointment?
18:50 Colton’s confession about taping for a new show, LIVE + LOCAL on Pure Flix
20:45 Working with Dave Coulier, Uncle Joey from Full House
22:30 Teens expressing themselves through fashion - what’s okay? What’s too much?
24:30 What can we do as parents about music with bad lyrics?
28:00 My daughters Athens and Dior living up to their names
Colton Dixon has released three No1 albums and his music has been streamed more than 100 million times. He's been awarded 2 Dove Awards and KLOVE nominations. You can watch Colton guest star on the show LIVE + LOCAL, now streaming on Pure Flix.
Learn more about Colton Dixon on his website coltondixon.com
Find more about Arlene Pellicane's book and masterclass, Screen Kids happyhomeuniversity.com
The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Dwell Bible App. Save 30% off Dwell for Life at DwellApp.io/HappyHome
The ideal mom is often portrayed in an impossible light, leaving the rest of us feeling lost and inferior. There are myths that moms are pressured into believing. On today's podcast, Arlene Pellicane shares three myths moms tend to fall for. You'll learn how to spot these myths and debunk them. Living in the light of God's truth makes your heart lighter - and that's going to bless your children. In today's message originally given at the Sisterhood Summit with GEMS Girls Clubs, you'll learn:
3:00 Arlene's childhood bully at recess
3:30 Myth #1: I am not beautiful.
5:30 What you are going to say to yourself when you look in the mirror
6:00 Findings from a study of girls about their ideas of beauty
11:50 Social media is dangerous when we compare and despair
13:50 Myth #2: I have a terrible body.
16:00 Arlene's confession about stealing her son's cookies
22:10 Myth #3: I don't have enough time.
26:30 How to save time on social media
27:50 Ask this question before you grab your phone, laptop, device
31:00 It's not about time management, it's about energy management
Learn more about GEMS Girls Clubs at gemsgc.org
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"Emotionally mature" may not the words you use to describe your son. Maybe your boy is prone to outbursts, or rarely says more than one sentence at a time. Counselor and author David Thomas is here to help us nurture and raise emotionally strong boys. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:30 How can we understand our boys better by using the Incredible Hulk?
5:00 Teach these three R’s to your kids so they can regulate themselves, going from stressed to settled
7:00 Work things out for yourself out loud so your child can hear how you manage stress and problems without angry outbursts
9:10 Boys funnel emotions through anger; they are more physical than girls (hitting walls, biting, etc)
11:00 How a walk, run, and movement can help your son regulate emotions
13:30 How to respond according to research when your boy says, “But I want to play my video game, it helps me calm down.”
15:00 Creating a top five list of regulation strategies
17:20 Emotional vocabulary chart - how to get one for free
19:45 The difference between saying “I am depressed” versus “I feel sad”
22:30 Suicidal ideations - how can you tell if your child is serious?
24:30 Adult men lead some of the scariest stats out there - including suicide
27:50 Practice this exercise to put events in perspective (so they know losing homework isn’t the end of the world)
David Thomas is the director of family counseling at Daystar Counseling in Nashville, TN and the coauthor of 10 books. He and his fellow counselor Sissy Goff co-host the podcast Raising Boys and Girls. David’s newest book is Raising Emotionally Strong Boys: Tools Your Son Can Build on for Life.
Find out more about David Thomas and his book Raising Emotionally Strong Boys at RaisingBoysandGirls.com
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It's challenging to raise confident girls in this social media age. What if you are struggling with confidence yourself as a mom? How can women and girls develop godly confidence and courage? In today's conversation with author and mom Terra Mattson, you'll learn:
2:50 What are you seeing repeated again and again in your counseling practice with girls?
4:50 Letting go of performance based thinking
6:30 When a boy asks your daughter for an inappropriate photo…do this
9:00 Talking with your daughter about wanting to be liked and the fear of losing friends (negative peer pressure)
11:30 What are red light, yellow light, green light friendships?
13:10 My struggle with bulimia and what I learned
16:30 The lost art of confession
17:45 How can we encourage our girl who is scared to go to school, or scared to face a mean girl?
19:30 Going on dates with your daughter, having intentional time
23:00 What are some signs that my daughter needs extra help like counseling?
Terra Mattson has 20 plus years of experience as a licensed professional counselor and marriage and family therapist. Terra and her husband Jeff founded Living Wholehearted, a counseling and organizational development firm helping people live and lead with integrity. Terra's book is Courageous: Raising Daughters Rooted in Grace. Learn more at her website. TerraMattson.com
Terra also has a video course, Helping Moms Raise Confident Daughters. Learn more here.
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Are your kids wrestling with anxiety? If you or someone you love has lost hope of ever getting free from overwhelming or persistent anxiety, you don't have to stay stuck in despair. Acclaimed mental health expert Dr. Gregory Jantz is here to help you understand and overcome the fears that have been holding you back. On today's podcast, you'll learn:
3:20 What is the difference between worry and anxiety?
4:20 Signs that your child may need professional help
6:00 How do you motivate your child to re-engage with others and come out of their shell?
8:30 Tips for helping your child succeed emotionally and mentally in school next year
10:10 If you’re already feeling depressed and not good about yourself, social media will probably make you feel worse.
14:30 How to connect with your kids when you’re out of idea.
16:20 What does the brain look like on anxiety?
18:30 Here are questions you can ask someone who is feeling anxiety
21:00 Empathy and gentleness are key
Dr. Gregory Jantz is the founder of The Center - A Place of HOPE in Edmonds, Washington, voted a Top Ten facility for Depression Treatment in the United States. Dr. Jantz is a world-renowned expert on depression, anxiety, eating disorders, technology addiction and abuse. Dr. Jantz is a best-selling author of 40 books and a go-to media authority on mental and behavioral health afflictions, appearing on CBS, ABC, NBC, Fox, and CNN. Today we’re talking about his book, The Anxiety Reset: a life changing approach to overcoming fear, stress, worry, panic attacks, OCD, and more. Learn more at Dr. Jantz's website.
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Kids today are hooked on games that are a lot different than Pacman. Mobile gaming isn’t just changing the industry; it’s changing childhood. What is the impact of gaming on your child’s eyesight, brain development and its relationship to autism? Find out more in Part 2 of this interview with digital addiction experts Dr. Andrew and Julie Doan. Today you'll learn:
2:30 What video games (if any) do you play with your kids?
4:30 Frontal lobe development - why your kids are not capable of limiting video games themselves
5:30 The business of gaming - peer pressure to spend money in the game and gambling elements
8:20 Are your kids being soothed by screens?
11:00 Parenting with the long view in mind
14:00 Why would I give my son an hour a day to practice murder, covetousness, and lust in a video game?
16:50 How does gaming affect eyesight? Sleep cycles?
19:30 How have mobile devices shaped a child’s brain development?
21:30 Screens and autism
Dr. Andrew Doan is the author of Hooked on Games. He is an accomplished eye physician and surgeon with a doctoral degree in neuroscience from John Hopkins. He speaks with medical and scientific authority on brain development and how digital media reprograms the brain. His wife Julie is a registered nurse who is a digital media addiction specialist. Learn more about Hooked on Games here.
Learn more about Arlene's Screen Kids masterclass at HappyHomeUniversity.com
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Is video gaming helping or hurting your child? If you’ve ever wondered if your son or daughter is addicted to video games, you must hear what Dr. Andrew and Julie Doan have to say. How did Andrew, a bright John Hopkins-educated doctor, survive as an adult gamer playing 80-100 hours a week? In today's interview, you'll discover:
3:30 How do you define digital addiction? Why are video games super attractive to kids?
5:50 The difference between the video games of yesterday and today
6:30 I was playing 80-100 hours a week and sleeping 2 hours a day…
8:50 How do you cope when your spouse is overusing media in a destructive way?
11:30 The role of prayer in breaking this video gaming habit
13:00 Kids growing up with a father who wasn’t present because of excessive game play
15:00 The dramatic physical breakdown that Dr. Doan experienced because of gaming
17:00 Guidelines for video gaming and kids at different ages, and warning
Dr. Andrew Doan is the author of Hooked on Games. He is an accomplished eye physician and surgeon with a doctoral degree in neuroscience from John Hopkins. He speaks with medical and scientific authority on brain development and how digital media reprograms the brain. His wife Julie is a registered nurse who is a digital media addiction specialist. Learn more about Hooked on Games here.
Learn more about Arlene's Screen Kids masterclass at HappyHomeUniversity.com
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What if being an introvert wasn't a struggle, but a superpower? Introverts are often told that they should act more outgoing like a brother or sister. Yet introverts come with a set of strengths that are very needed in our noisy world. Bestselling author (and introvert) Holley Gerth is here to help us nurture, champion, and understand the introverts in our lives. This introvert could be you! Sharing from her book, The Powerful Purpose of Introverts, you'll learn the following in this listener favorite, encore presentation:
3:30 How did you know you were an introvert?
5:00 The differences in the brains of introverts and extroverts
7:45 What if you are married to an extrovert and you’re an introvert, or vice versa?
9:00 Speaking the love languages to an introvert (the volume is different!)
13:00 Learning how to be direct as an introvert
14:00 A helpful question: How can I love you well right now?
17:30 Does my child have at least one quality connection with someone? It’s not about quantity, it’s about quality.
20:00 Social media and the introverted child
21:00 What has helped you in struggling with anxiety?
24:00 The difference between solitude and isolation
Holley Gerth is a Wall Street Journal bestselling author, life coach, and podcaster with a Masters of Science Degree in counseling. She's empowered more than a half million readers through her books like You're Already Amazing and the topic of today's conversation, The Powerful Purpose of Introverts.
Learn more about Holley on her website. HolleyGerth.com
Need help managing your family's screen time? Arlene's book Screen Kids, along with the masterclass, can help. Also find free monthly resources for your home at HappyHomeUniversity.com
How do you engage your sorrow when the world tells you it's time to move on? Young widow Clarissa Moll shares her story of loss and the brutal truth about living with grief. Yet somehow she has found deep joy. In her book, Beyond the Darkness: A Gentle Guide for Living with Grief & Thriving After Loss, Clarissa points your heart towards hope. Whether you have lost someone through death or divorce, or you are experiencing a painful situation, this conversation will speak to you. You'll learn:
3:00 How do you cope when your story is drastically different than you had hoped?
5:00 Receiving the tragic news of her husband’s death
7:30 Talking to kids about death with real words (not figures of speech)
10:00 How do you journey through your day with grief constantly showing up?
13:00 How to know when you need to reach out to others for help
17:20 The irony of her husband’s last book which was about the art of dying
22:00 How do you still find comfort after the cards and flowers of consolation have ceased?
23:50 Talking about the deceased with your kids in a healthy way
25:25 The heart compared to a classroom - a brilliant comparison
27:00 Your husband died - this didn’t destroy your faith. It strengthened it. How did this happen?
28:30 What happened to her wedding ring
Clarissa Moll (MA, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School) is an author, a podcaster, and the young widow of author Rob Moll. Clarissa’s writing has appeared in Christianity Today, The Gospel Coalition, RELEVANT, Modern Loss, Grief Digest and more. Her husband’s first book, The Art of Dying, was released in April 2021 with Clarissa’s new afterword. Clarissa’s debut book is Beyond the Darkness: A Gentle Guide for Walking with Grief and Thriving After Loss. Learn more about Clarissa on her website ClarissaMoll.com
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Following Jesus is counter-cultural as we live in a time that chases fame, sheds traditional values, and shames those who don't fall in line. Hot button topics such as bullying, social media, loneliness, porn, anxiety, and defending Biblical views at school, online and with friends are all addressed in Sean McDowell's new book, A Rebel's Manifesto: Choosing Truth, Real Justice, and Love amid the Noise of Today's World. In today's very helpful conversation for parents, you'll learn:
3:00 What is a rebel’s manifesto about? What does it look like to be a rebel today?
4:30 How can you disagree with people and still like them?
7:41 What if your child has to do something immoral for a school assignment?
9:52 About public education in California
12:00 Take this advice about being involved in your child’s education
13:14 How do you respond to statements like: Who are you to judge me?
15:00 How do you respond to: You should not force your morals on me.
16:30 What if you are called a hater if you believe in marriage between a man and woman?
17:00 What if your child is labeled a hater?
20:00 What are unique challenges to Gen Z?
23:30 What does research say about the power of parents to influence our kids?
25:50 Tell me about Summit Ministries and why it’s so influential for teens
Sean McDowell is an author, speaker, and associate professor at Talbot School of Theology at Biola. He has two masters degrees and a PhD in apologetics and worldview studies. He’s authored or edited more than 18 books. He married his high school sweetheart Stephanie and they have three children. His newest book is A Rebel’s Manifesto. Learn more at his website SeanMcdowell.org
Want to learn more about Summit Ministries where Sean often speaks? Visit Summit.org
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Life can be hard. Relationships are broken. Responsibilities are piled high. How can you grow closer to God instead of falling away during times of struggle? New York Times bestselling author Karen Ehman has a new devotional for women (co-authored with Ruth Schwenk) to help you connect with Jesus everyday. It's called "Trusting God in All the Things." In today's conversation, you'll learn:
3:00 The difference between believing in God and trusting in Him
4:00 Ask this question to know if you’re having trouble trusting God
6:30 Practically speaking, how can you shift your trust in God?
7:30 When we are trying to manipulate outcomes for our kids, here’s a story to remember.
10:00 Key verses that will help you trust in God
14:50 How can you minister to your lonely daughter?
17:00 You might make the difference in bringing someone to Christ by befriending a neighbor
19:20 Lessons about soul control from the Psalms
20:45 About the “I Spy” journal
23:30 Ideas of spending time with God when you have kids and a crazy full schedule
Karen Ehman is a New York Times bestselling author with Proverbs 31 Ministries as well as a writer for Encouragement for Today, an online devotional that reaches more than four million women daily. She has authored eighteen books, including Keep It Shut. Married to her college sweetheart, Todd, she’s the mom of three adult children and two children-in-law, although she forgets which are which.
Learn more about Karen Ehman and her new devotional Trusting God in All Things on her website KarenEhman.com
Spending too much time on screens this summer? My book Screen Kids co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman will help, along with the masterclass. Find out more at HappyHomeUniversity.com
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Are you tired of the screen time battles in your home? If you're constantly managing fights between your kids, meltdowns, or saying "put that away!" it may be time for a digital detox. Author and mom of six Molly DeFrank shares her family's journey of unplugging and outlines a detailed plan for you to do the same. Today's conversation is about:
2:30 Mother has had it! The birth of the digital detox
5:00 How do you present the digital detox to your kids? What does that talk sound like?
7:30 What are signs that your children need a detox from devices?
9:00 Mom, say this when your kids say I’m bored
12:00 The best part of the detox is noticing your child’s specific talents and interests
15:20 Do parents have to join the digital detox? If so, how?
17:30 Kids from foster care - adapting the digital detox for them
22:00 Here’s how you can continue the digital detox long term
25:20 You don’t have to be organized or a planner to do this digital detox because…
Molly DeFrank is the mama of the digital detox. She's a stay home mom and foster mom of six kids ages 12 and under. She's been a guest on Good Morning America and her new book is Digital Detox: The 2 week tech reset for kids. Find out more on Molly's website
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This is the perfect episode to help you understand your son and/or your husband better!
What are the 5 masculine instincts? This week's guest, pastor and author Chase Replogle is here to explain what these instincts are and how to leverage them for good. In today's conversation, we're talking about:
3:00 What can we learn from Shakespeare’s stages of a man?
4:25 Instincts - are they good or bad?
6:00 The example of Cain and the instinct of sarcasm
9:30 How can we nudge our son to care instead of check out?
10:30 A working definition of humility: self-suspicion
14:30 What is C.S. Lewis talking about in the Abolition of Man when he refers to chestless men?
18:30 How can we make church more attractive for men? For boys?
22:00 Hunting for turkeys!
25:00 Men need adventures, extremes of too much adventure or too little (apathy)
27:00 The call of God on Samson’s life - the need to watch our spiritual lives carefully
Chase Replogle is a pastor and author of the 5 Masculine Instincts. He’s pastored the Bent Oak Church in Springfield, Missouri for 10 years. He is the host of the Pastor Writer podcast, a native of the Ozark woods, and he enjoys being outdoors with his wife and two kids. Find out more at pastorwriter.com.
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Pornography is not what it used to be. Much more than just photos of unclothed adults, it's more violent and prevalent than ever. How can you keep your kids safe online? Expert and author Dr. John Foubert is here to explain how pornography is affecting the brains, hearts and future families of children and teens. On today's episode you'll learn:
3:00 What is happening in a child’s brain when they see pornography?
4:50 Can a brain reset back to a healthy level after porn use?
5:20 Why is porn especially dangerous to tween and teens?
7:10 How soon do you talk to your kids about this subject?
10:20 From 2008-2011, exposure to kids under 13 rose from 14% to 49%
13:00 What do studies show between the link between porn and sexual violence?
15:00 How should you respond when you catch your child looking at pictures of naked people?
16:20 Did you know there is a link between porn and depression and anxiety?
18:00 The physical damages that happen to kids when they view porn
21:50 How to best talk with your kids about porn in a way they will want to listen to you
Today's guest Dr. John Foubert is a thought leader who has testified before Congress and has been called on by the White House and the Pentagon about how to end sexual violence. He’s been a guest on CNN and NPR and is cited regularly in papers like the NY Times, US News and World Report, and the Washington Post. Dr. Foubert's newest book is Protecting Your Children from Internet Pornography - understanding the science, risks, and ways to protect your kids.
Learn more about Dr. John Foubert on his website.
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How can you get your teen girl more engaged with the Bible? Mom of three girls and founder of the ministry Love God Greatly, Angela Perritt, is here to share her enthusiasm for studying the Bible and how you can pass that love to your children and teenagers. We're talking about her new study Bible, the Young Women Love God Greatly Bible. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
5:00 How you can give girls a wider view of the world, a love for other nations
7:10 How to encourage kids who follow God because they WANT to, not because they HAVE to
9:00 What can a mom do to nudge a daughter to read God’s Word when she is not interested?
10:50 How can a Bible reading plan be a game changer in your family?
12:00 How do you apply the “SOAP” method of studying the Bible?
15:00 Let’s talk about the difference between reading the Bible in print or on the phone
17:50 This is one of the biggest lies this generation of girls is hearing
23:00 How can church history help our kids to be bolder about their faith?
26:00 Words of advice to moms who want to start a non-profit, ministry, or business
Angela Perritt is the founder and director of LoveGodGreatly.com, a nonprofit online Bible study ministry reaching thousands of women in over 200 countries around the world with God's Word through their translated Bible studies. Angela and her husband live in Dallas with their three daughters. Today we talked about her Young Women Love God Greatly Bible (it's a BEAUTIFUL study Bible).
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Friends, co-workers, and even family members are avoiding each other because they don't agree. We are struggling to get along. Bestselling author Jay Payleitner has a new book to help titled, Don't Take the Bait to Escalate. How can family members enjoy more peace and less fighting? In today's conversation, you'll learn:
3:45 How conflict can be a good thing
6:00 What are the four factors involved in conflict?
6:40 How did you and your wife settle your peanut butter dispute?
9:40 It might not be about compromise, it might mean taking turns to help your family member chase a dream
11:00 Escalation doesn't always involve getting louder
11:55 Re-connecting with someone you are estranged from
19:50 What do you do when your middle school aged girl is wearing shorts that are too short?
23:50 When you're in a pit in your marriage, do this...
Jay Payleitner's new book is Don’t Take the Bait to Escalate: Conflict is inevitable, being a jerk is optional. Jay has worked with the National Center for Fathering, and has sold more than half a million books including 52 Things Kids Need from a Dad and Moms Bringing Out the Best in Dads. He and his wife Rita have raised five kids, loved on 10 foster babies, and are enjoying grandparenthood. Learn more at jaypayleitner.com.
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Over a half a million readers have joined the journey of Instagram sensations Ashley and Dino Petrone (@ArrowsandBow). They share the adventures, mishaps, and joys of marriage and parenting through the lens of interior design. In their debut book, Designed to Last, you'll hear about their experience living in a 800 square foot trailer with their family of five. In today's fun interview, you'll hear:
2:30 How they rushed into marriage - thanks to their moms
4:00 Ashley: "I had no idea I married a gamer."
5:50 What if dad is playing video games with the kids and mom is concerned about it?
8:10 Wives, instead of nagging, do this...
11:55 How did you go from obsession to moderation when it comes to video games?
14:35 Why did you move your family of five into an RV?
16:30 Was it hard to sell all your things?
17:50 How did your kids like living in the RV? What did they think about having just a few things each?
19:00 After moving out of the RV, how did you keep the same close family vibe going?
21:00 Why the Instagram name Arrows and Bow?
22:00 Advice for the aspiring mom entrepreneur
25:00 How do you complement each other in business and in life?
25:50 Social media as a business, but not as something we want our kids on
28:40 Our rhythms to keep social media in check
Ashley and Dino Petrone have been married since 2006 and make their home in Florida with their four kids (baby added since the RV!). Ashley began her popular Instagram account @ArrowsandBow as a way to document her home-design journey. Dino is a senior engineer and Ashley is a full-time mom, blogger, and interior designer. Visit them online and check out their book Designed to Last at www.arrowsandbow.com.
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How would you like to let go of performance based parenting? Bestselling author Renee Swope is here to share from her latest book, A Confident Mom. With many heart warming and relatable examples from her own life, you'll learn how to focus on building character, not perfection, in the heart of your child. We'll talk about:
2:30 Ready to turn in your pink slip as a mom?
4:20 How do you mine for gold in the heart’s of your children?
6:50 When your child is mean, try this
8:00 Engaging boys in devotionals - how to make it more interactive (you can use M&Ms)
10:45 Apologizing to our kids when we are unkind
12:50 When a younger brother is frustrated that he can’t do what older brother can do
14:50 How do you encourage character in the lives of your adult children?
19:00 How to support your kids’ career choices
20:40 Adjusting your expectations as an adoptive parent, when your child has developmental delays
26:00 A surprising (beautiful) moment in the carpool lane
28:00 The Instagram reel versus real life
Renee Swope is an author, podcast host, and popular speaker. She's the mom to three kids and lives in North Carolina. Find out more about Renee and her book, A Confident Mom, at her website Reneeswope.com
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Moms can have lots of questions for God. Why are my kids facing certain challenges? What college should my child attend? How do I get my child to stop talking back?
When we can bring our honest requests to God and surrender outcomes to Him - there is freedom and an open invitation for God to do His best work. In this special message in preparation for Mother's Day, Arlene looks at the life of Hannah in the Old Testament. What can we learn from her prayer of surrender? Arlene will talk about:
2:00 When your child says, “Make me!”
7:00 Living in a time of moral decay
9:40 Showdown: Hannah versus Penninah
11:45 Moms should neither boast too much about their kids nor belittle them
15:00 When you feel like you’re not enough
20:00 Hannah prays a prayer that changes everything
23:00 When you weep before God, He will comfort you
24:00 Did you know there’s a physical difference between the tears you cry when chopping onions and the tears you cry when you are sad?
25:00 How to rejoice even before your prayer is answered
32:00 Trusting God while you are waiting for God to fulfill His promises to your family
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Overworked mom of ten Tricia Goyer thought she had to have it all together. Yet during a season of messiness, failure and chaos, Tricia felt God speaking overwhelming love in her life. In the search for being "heart happy" (living with joy and peace), Tricia found that intentional habits and time invested with God brought the renewal she craved. In this conversation about Tricia's new book, Heart Happy: Staying Centered in God's Love During Chaotic Circumstances, you'll learn:
3:30 What does it mean to have a happy heart?
4:20 Tricia's background starting out as a single mom, getting married, having 10 kids, foster care…
6:50 Don’t interrupt mama when she’s having her Jesus time (cause she needs that Jesus time!!!)
8:00 How to spend time with God when you’re raising young kids and life is crazy
12:45 You don’t have to have the right response exactly when something happens. You can wait and respond later.
13:45 Taking time for soul care - a few ideas to nourish and reset
17:00 There’s nothing you can do to make God love you more (getting out of performance mode)
19:50 Cooking for a BIG family and how to use the time in the kitchen creatively
21:00 Reconciling the hurts of the past with a happy heart - dealing with father wounds
26:30 Specific advice for single moms
Tricia Goyer is a busy mom of ten, grandmother of many, and wife to John. A USA-Today bestselling author, she has published 75 books. Learn more about her newest book, Heart Happy.
When you argue about money with your spouse, do you need a therapist or financial planner? Researcher and author Shaunti Feldhahn and her husband Jeff spent three years on a national research project on love and money. They found that conflict about money usually isn't about money at all. In this conversation with Shaunti about her book, Thriving in Love & Money, you'll find out:
3:30 Why most couples can’t talk about money
5:30 What to do when you’re not on the same page about money
6:30 If you are having tension around money, it’s probably not about the money. It’s about how money makes you feel.
9:20 What if one spouse is a saver and one is a spender?
13:00 Talking through regrets over past purchases
18:20 What if I want to be the boss over how my income is used (let’s do what I want to do!)?
22:50 How to start having conversations about money when you want to talk but your spouse doesn’t
24:20 Shaunti’s funny money confession!
30:00 Gut level fears being triggered by money - what’s the difference between men and women?
Shaunti (and her husband Jeff) Feldhahn are bestselling authors, renowned social researchers, and popular speakers. Both with professional degrees from Harvard (where they met), their books have sold 3 million copies in 25 languages. Learn more about Shaunti at her website.
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Ever feel like you are in the minority as a Christian? As mainstream culture grows more hostile towards faith, the Bible, and followers of Christ, how can you prepare your kids to live differently than their friends? Mom and author Natasha Crain is here to help us stand strong in our biblical beliefs and behave "Faithfully Different," the title of her latest book. It's estimated that fewer than 10 percent of Americans have a biblical worldview. In this conversation, you'll learn:
3:00 What does “worldview” mean and is it even applicable to kids?
5:50 How to start talking about creation and God with your young kids
7:00 Your child can’t see God, so how do you answer questions about His existence?
8:50 If you are a Bible believing Christian, you are now in the minority in America
12:45 How can you recognize progressive Christianity?
16:50 What are negative, subtle influences you must be aware of as a parent?
18:10 What happens to a society when feelings become the ultimate guide?
22:00 Here’s how to engage in the culture with courage and joy, not fear
28:00 This is how you prepare your kids to stand in faith when they are in the minority
31:00 How to respond when your teens say, “Oh, you’re old, you don’t get the culture”
Natasha Crain is a speaker, author, podcaster and homeschooling mom of three. She is passionate about helping Christians think more clearly about holding to a biblical worldview in the midst of a secular society. Natasha holds an MBA in Marketing and Statistics from UCLA, a BA in Economics from USC, and a certificate in Christian Apologetics from Biola University. Learn more about her new book, Faithfully Different.
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How can we prepare our kids to live Biblically in a secular and hostile world? Daniel shows us the way - he's a young man who pre-decided to follow God at great risk. If you need some courage to live differently - especially when it comes to social media, YouTube, and devices - Arlene has encouragement and a challenge for you and your kids. In Arlene's message, you'll learn:
3:30 Digital vegetables vs digital candy
6:00 Did you know how TikTok watches you?
14:30 Why eating the king’s food was such a big deal to Daniel
17:00 I will not watch anything that will defile me
21:30 How Daniel was crushing it on his vegetable diet (when you pre-decide for God, you're blessed!)
24:00 How social media manipulates through the like button
30:00 It’s good to be different
Maybe it's time for 10 day social media or video game fast. You can join your kids and do a fast together.
Need more digital vegetables and less digital candy? Join Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass and read her book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids.
Want to invite Arlene to speak at your church, business, or school? Email her at Arlene@Arlenepellicane.com
You may not be a social media influencer, but did you know you are famous? Dr. Josh and Christi Straub say we are already famous at home. Anyone who has heard, "Mommy, mommy, MOMMY!" lately knows this well.
Dr. Josh and Christi Straub are speakers, authors, marriage and leadership coaches. They are here to talk about their latest book, Famous at Home. Today you'll learn:
4:30 How a rubber band made a dad a hero
6:00 What are you chasing after outside of the home?
7:00 How to use 20 minutes a day to transform your relationship with your child
11:00 Seeking admiration in the wrong places
15:30 How do you get your spouse more invested in the family?
19:50 This is the one place you are irreplaceable
22:10 This 15 minute daily habit will bring you closer to your spouse
26:50 Why your family is a verb, not a noun
Learn more about Dr. Josh and Christi Straub's latest book, Famous at Home: 7 Decisions to Put Your Family Center Stage in a World Competing for Your Time, Attention, and Identity.
Learn more about Arlene book and masterclass, 31 Days to a Happy Husband.
Do you feel comfortable talking with your kids about faith and science? Today's guest, Passion founder Louie Giglio, reminds us that God can handle scientific scrutiny as He is the creator of all things. In his new book for kids, The Wonder of Creation, you'll find a great resource to share the world of science with your child from a Biblical worldview. We'll also talk about developing a passion for Christ that lasts.
Today you will learn:
5:30 The more is discovered in the universe, the more we see intelligent design
6:00 It’s okay to say, "I don’t know the answer to that. Let’s find out."
7:00 Let's dismantle the wall between God and science
9:45 Show your kids the James Webb telescope
10:50 Why you must begin with Genesis 1:1 for children
12:30 Valuing your children but not making them the center of the universe
14:45 Putting down screens and getting outside instead
18:00 How can we raise a worshipper? The power of a dad to influence his kids to follow Jesus
21:00 Your heart can still burn for God in your 40s, 50s, 60s
24:40 Prepare your kids for what the values they will learn in college so it will not rattle them to the core
27:00 Worldview is set young - don’t wait - get your young kids in a worship environment
Learn more about Louie Giglio's new book, The Wonder of Creation
Need help with your child's media choices? Read Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids and visit Happy Home University to take the free quiz - Is my child getting too much screen time?
If you've ever watched Veggie Tales with your kids, you have seen Larry the Cucumber. The voice of Larry and co-creator of Veggie Tales, Mike Nawrocki, is here to help us share Bible stories with our kids consistently and creatively. He and Amy Parker have a new children's book, The Bible for Me - Bible Stories and Prayers that you are going to love. Plus Larry the Cucumber and a surprise guest make an appearance.
Today you're going to learn:
3:00 How old do kids need to be to understand Bible stories?
7:00 Benefits of reading versus watching animation
8:10 Book suggestions to read with your older kids
9:10 How do you raise a child who loves reading?
12:20 The connection between what your child is watching and worldview
17:00 The Bible and learning it for a lifetime
19:00 How can we foster creativity in kids
22:00 Advice for kids who are interested in being a voice actor
Learn more about Mike Nawrocki's new book, The Bible for Me - Bible Stories and Prayers
Need help with your child's media choices? Read Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids and visit Happy Home University to take the free quiz - Is my child getting too much screen time?
At what age can you safely introduce screens to your kids? Arlene Pellicane shares about ages and stages, examining screen time for babies through five years old. You'll learn what's happening in your child developmentally in the first five years, how to implement AAP recommendations for screen time, and if video chatting is okay for babies. Is tech more good or bad for teeny tiny littles?
By the end of this conversation, you'll understand:
4:00 Physical and cognitive milestones for babies and toddlers
6:05 What does the AAP recommend for screen time? Do babies acquire anything meaningful from screen time?
8:00 “Kids need to engage the world in which they actually live.” - Dr. Dimitri Christakis
9:00 Is video chatting for babies okay?
13:30 Help for discerning what is quality programming
15:30 Mister Rogers vs. Paw Patrol
19:30 The dumber the toy, the smarter the child
22:20 Will my child be at a disadvantage if he or she doesn’t play with a tablet?
25:50 Ideas for working from home with littles (without help of devices for babysitting)
30:00 The upside of old tech (hello DVD player!)
Learn more from Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids.
Visit Happy Home University to take the quiz, "Does my child have too much screen time?"
Learn more from the nonprofit Children and Screens (they offer free webinars for parents).
Have you seen someone wearing a t-shirt, "Sorry, Not Sorry"?
As a culture, we are getting good at shifting blame and defending ourselves instead of taking responsibility when we do something wrong. Dr. Jennifer Thomas has teamed up with Dr. Gary Chapman to develop the Five Apology Languages. How can you teach your kids how to apologize? You'll learn how to use apologies to repair your most important relationships.
In today's interview with Dr. Jennifer Thomas, you'll understand:
4:30 What are people looking for in an apology?
5:27 What are the five apology languages?
10:30 Role play: how would I use these five apology languages if I wanted to apologize for yelling at my kids?
15:00 Might you have a problem with over-apologizing?
18:20 How do you help young kids learn how to apologize? What is better to say than “I’m sorry”?
20:00 How to help your kids save face during the apology
23:00 We live in a “sorry, not sorry” culture - how can we teach kids that apologies are important?
24:30 How do you know when to apologize by text or when to apologize face to face?
27:50 How can we reach out to our estranged family members? What if we are not sincerely sorry but we want to connect?
Psychologist Dr. Jennifer Thomas is a motivational speaker specializing in the five love languages and communication. Learn more about her book The Five Apology Languages (co-authored with Gary Chapman).
Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com
Would your kids ever describe you as cranky? Author Becky Kopitzke knows what it's like to be a cranky mom, AKA the "Momster." She's here to help us tame our inner momster with Biblical wisdom and time-tested tips so we can experience more peace at home. In today's practical conversation, you'll learn:
2:30 Who is the momster?
5:00 What are triggers we can identify before we get cranky with our kids?
8:30 How do you take things off your schedule if you’ve over-programmed your family?
13:00 Good moms take care of their kids, great moms take care of themselves also
16:30 How did you change from being the cranky mom? How did you stop yelling at your kids?
19:00 The process for repairing the relationship with your child after an argument
Becky Kopitzke is wife, mom of two, author, speaker, and writing coach. She’s the author of three books including Cranky Mom Fix: How to Get a Happier, More Peaceful Home by Slaying the "Momster" in All of Us. Learn more about Becky at beckykopitzke.com
Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com
What do you do if your husband isn't living up to your expectations? Many wives don't know what to do with their disappointment and how to nudge their husbands to change. Clinical psychologist Dr. Juli Slattery says your efforts to fix your marriage may actually be undermining it.
Find out more as Dr. Juli Slattery talks about her book, Finding the Hero in Your Husband.
You'll hear:
4:20 A challenge that all wives face
5:20 What is the cycle of intimacy? And how do we get into that cycle?
7:00 What is the cycle of self-protection?
8:30 What if I don’t feel valued by my husband?
11:30 How has submission been misapplied? What does Biblical submission look like?
15:20 Why is physical intimacy such a struggle for many marriages?
22:15 But I want to be the boss of the relationship…
Learn more about Dr. Juli Slattery and her book, Finding the Hero in Your Husband.
Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com
Stacey Morgan kissed her husband goodbye before he donned his space suit and headed to his Soyuz rocket headed for the International Space Station. What's it like having a husband in space? Based on her new book, The Astronaut's Wife, Stacey will share how you can choose hope in the face of fear, and prepare for any mission or adventure life throws at your family. You'll laugh as she confesses that prior to her hubby becoming an astronaut, everything she knew about space she learned from Tom Hanks.
On the interview:
1:30 My husband never planned to be an astronaut...
5:00 Welcome to the Cosmodrone
10:00 Countdown to space
15:00 How to overcome that fear of losing your loved one
18:00 Being the rookie mom - how to make new friends when you feel excluded
22:00 An unusual and wonderful way to help single parents
27:00 Keeping in touch when you’re physically separated (calls to the International Space Station)
31:00 What have your kids picked up about faith and adventure?
Learn more about Stacey Morgan and her book The Astronaut's Wife.
Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month (after all, he's probably not in space!)? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com
Have your kids ever caught you...praying? What would happen if our children observed us day in and day out, regularly praying to God and reading our Bibles? This might be the beginning of revival in our homes. Arlene shares from her heart about the importance of prayer and Bible reading, not just at church, but in everyday life. How might we set a "spiritual trap" for our kids so they'll catch us praying? You have more influence and resources than you imagine as heaven is open and God is listening.
Find other moms to pray with at MomsinPrayer.org
The book mentioned on the podcast is The Prayer Code by O.S. Hawkins.
Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com
Maybe you have a teenager or you're going to have a teenager someday. The transition between childhood and adulthood can be a bumpy one. My friend Dr. Gary Chapman, beloved author of The 5 Love Languages, has raised two kids of his own and counseled countless families in his 40 plus years in ministry. Based on his new book, Things I Wish I'd Known Before My Child Became a Teenager, Dr. Chapman will share on this episode:
3:00 What if my teen is always arguing with me?
4:30 What if my teen doesn't want to go to church anymore?
6:20 Why isn't my teen as talkative as he or she used to be?
8:30 Raising teens who are responsible
10:30 What if my teen is totally unmotivated?
15:00 Talking about intimacy and relationships
18:00 How to deal with anger and your teen
28:00 Providing guidance for the future
Learn more about Dr. Chapman and his book Things I Wish I'd Known Before My Child Became a Teenager at his website, 5lovelanguages.com
And remember this month...Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass is $125 off, just use the promo code RESTART22 at HappyHomeUniversity.com
Today's guest Bonnie Gray endured panic attacks, anxiety, and depression for years – all rooted in her traumatic childhood. As an adult, Bonnie embraced her identity as God’s beloved child, and healing began. How did she do it? In today's conversation you'll learn about:
3:30 Bonnie's birth to a mail order bride from Hong Kong and a bus boy in San Francisco's Chinatown
8:00 When I told my kids about my family secrets
10:30 My dad never came back
12:00 This journey was for me, going back to what the little girl went through
14:00 I chose the hardest story to tell my boys first
19:30 Panic attacks and faith
24:00 How do you explain PTSD to your spouse?
25:00 How to use ten minutes to lessen your anxiety
28:00 Meeting my dad again
Bonnie Gray is a soul care expert and host of a wellness podcast entitled Breathe: The Stress Less Podcast. Her latest and most personal book is Sweet Like Jasmine: Finding Identity in a Culture of Loneliness.
And remember this month...Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass is $125 off, just use the promo code RESTART22 at HappyHomeUniversity.com
Are you tired of being the "mean parent" because of your screen rules? Do you ever wonder if you are being too strict?
Today's special podcast is going to show you that delaying devices is not only possible - it's good for your kids! My special guests today are my husband James and our kids Ethan (17), Noelle (15) and Lucy (12). The kids are going to tell you - in their own words - what it's like going to school without a phone, social media, or video game experience.
This is a conversation you can listen to in the car with your older kids and teens. You're about to listen to the audio of our documentary Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. You can watch the video at HappyHomeUniversity.com/film
And remember this month...Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass is $125 off, just use the promo code RESTART22 at HappyHomeUniversity.com
So excited to welcome bestselling author Mitch Albom (Tuesdays with Morrie) to kick off 2022!
As parents, we can easily slip into complaining or a martyr complex (look at me and all the sacrifices I have to make for these kids!!!). Talking to Mitch Albom about his daughter Chika really helps to put it all into perspective. In Mitch's book Finding Chika, you'll learn of his unusual journey to parenting - beginning with an orphanage in Haiti that would change his life forever.
In today's conversation, you'll hear about:
5:00 Taking Chika to Disneyland for the first time
8:00 How children are curious and full of wonder before given screens
11:30 The unexpected making of a family
14:00 How parenting enhances a marriage
15:45 How to handle conflict in the marriage when your child is seriously ill
18:30 Everything you do is an example to your children
19:30. Carrying Chika when she could no longer walk
21:50. Morrie's profound sentence
24:30 Chika singing "I am a Child of God"
26:00 About the Stranger in the Lifeboat
29:30. Why did you take away this person God? Here's a better question to ask...
Mitch Albom has sold over 40 million copies of his books including the bestselling memoir of all time Tuesdays with Morrie. He and his wife Janine direct the Have Faith Orphanage in Haiti. His newest books (the subjects of our interview) are Finding Chika and The Stranger in the Lifeboat.
And remember this month...
Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass is $125 off, just use the promo code RESTART22. HappyHomeUniversity.com
Have you been touched by the 5 Love Languages? Creator Dr. Gary Chapman is here to share the story behind the 5 Love Languages along with the major life lessons he's learned along the way. From his memoir, Life Lessons and Love Languages, you'll be inspired to live and love well, and you'll get practical ideas for building a marriage that your kids will want to imitate. It wasn't always a loving place for Gary and his new bride - you'll find out how they stopped having a miserable marriage.
In this conversation, you'll learn:
4:00 How Gary came to know Christ
7:00 Lesson from a childhood bully
9:30 When Gary decided he would never become an alcoholic
12:30 The good and bad of technology
15:30 Getting married
18:00 The message from God that changed my marriage
21:40 How Gary created the 5 Love Languages
30:00 What loving a child is and isn't
Learn more about Dr. Gary Chapman at 5lovelanguages.com.
Learn more about Arlene's Happy Home University and Screen Kids at happyhomeuniversity.com
It's the final week of the 25 Days of Christmas! It's not too late to download your free eBook of devotions, family activities, and ways to serve (you can do them over the holiday still). Accessmore.com
How can you enjoy more Christ this week and less crisis? Maybe you've tried doing a devotion but no one seemed to be listening. You're too busy planning the party to actually feel like celebrating anything. Bible teacher Melissa Spoelstra is here to connect the celebrations of the Old Testament to today, share ideas that will work in your home to mark the holiday in a spiritual and joyful way, and find some rest (even this busy week!).
We'll talk about:
5:20 Moving from duty to delight
8:20 Epic fail with family devotions.
9:50 How to get your high schoolers involved at Christmas
15:50 What are elements of Biblical celebration?
21:00 The value of Sabbath.
Learn more about Melissa Spoelstra and her Bible studies at melissaspoelstra.com
Learn more Arlene and her Happy Home University here: happyhomeuniversity.com
Welcome to the 25 Days of Christmas!
We are counting down to Christmas in festive fashion. Get your free 25 Days of Christmas guide with 10 devotions (for mom and for kids), 10 easy and fun family activities, and 5 ways to serve your community.
Week 3 is all about creating a FUN HOME. How can we create a home that our kids want to return home to year after year?
My guest Sandra Stanley has three grown kids who love coming home. She's here to help us understand the seasons of parenting better (and leverage them to get closer to our kids). She explains what it means to have a north star as a family (and what hers is).
On today's episode, we'll talk about:
3:50 Navigating Christmas with grown kids
7:10 What was your family’s north star?
10:20 What are the seasons of parenting?
11:40 The two rules we had at home
15:20 Natural consequences
19:20 How we use our phones to laugh together
24:10 How you talk to adult kids who are not making good decisions.
More resources from Sandra Stanley and Arlene Pellicane.
Welcome to the 25 Days of Christmas here at the Happy Home podcast!
We are counting down to Christmas in festive fashion. Get your free 25 Days of Christmas guide with 10 devotions (for mom and for kids), 10 easy and fun family activities, and 5 ways to serve your community.
Week 2 is all about GIVING. How can we help our kids to be giving kids, and not gimme kids? Kristen Welch, founder of Mercy House Global, is here to spark the joy of giving in our homes. You'll learn practical ways to reach out to your community, how to love others from different countries, and experience the supernatural high that comes from giving.
Welcome to the 25 Days of Christmas!
We are counting down to Christmas in festive fashion. Get your free 25 Days of Christmas guide with 10 devotions (for mom and for kids), 10 easy and fun family activities, and 5 ways to serve your community.
Find out more at AccessMore.com
Week 1 is all about PREPARATION. How can we prepare room for Christ in our hearts, in our calendars, in our homes?
In Arlene's message today from Luke 2, we consider Mary and her many inconvenient moves. You know about her famous trip to Bethlehem to be counted in the census, but that's not the only time she had to travel under hard circumstances. No matter what your circumstance today, God can make a place of beauty and purpose. As you listen to today's podcast, you might just see yourself in Mary's story.
Depression, anxiety and mental health headlines remind us that kids and teens need our help. How can you raise a mentally healthy child? Mental health coach Michelle Nietert teaches us how to have better conversations with our kids, how to tell if your child needs to see a counselor, and what to do in the mean time while you're waiting.
Learn more about Michelle Nietert and her devotional for girls, Loved and Cherished.
When what you most fear happens, what next? How do you hold on the hope when all seems lost? Author of Hope Anyway Leeana Tankersley knows what it's like to experience great loss and grief. How do you move on after divorce? Can anything good come from the pain of loss? From getting out of bed, a crazy dog named Rosie, and developing a family brand, you will love this funny, touching and honest conversation to fuel hope.
Learn more about Leeana Tankersley and her new book, Hope Anyway.
Bullying. Cyberbullying.
You hear about it at school. You know mean kids have been weaponized with social media - able to spread rumors, snarky comments, inappropriate photos, and lies about your children with a swipe.
How can we help our children prepare to meet the bullies of life? How can we prevent our children from becoming the bully?
Dr. Brooks Gibbs is here to explain what bullying is and isn't, and to help your child become emotionally resilient.
Learn more about Brooks Gibbs or Arlene's Screen Kids masterclass.
Do you ever feel abandoned as a parent - like you are doing it all on your own? In part 2 of the Leave Me Alone, I'm Hiding in the Bathroom, Arlene shares how you can know God is with you. You have more strength to parent than you think because of the presence of God in your life. Learn how to strike down the things that come against your kids to harm them. Stop retreating as a mom or dad - and start engaging to win the battles that face your home today.
When you're in the thick of parenting, it is easy to want to hide out from your kids. And although getting away to be refreshed is a good thing, hiding out from your kids everyday isn't.
How can you engage with your kids even when you don't feel like it? Arlene shares from the life of Gideon who actually has a very powerful parenting message for us today. You are a mighty warrior mom or dad. You'll be encouraged to step out as a leader today in your home.
What are the signs of ADHD in a child? You may be wondering why your child is so hyper or why he or she can't seem to pay attention. Counselor and bestselling author Steve Arterburn joins us today to share his personal journey of achievement and ADHD. You'll better understand the child who has ADHD and how it can actually be used as a superpower. Steve Arterburn has a new book out on the topic, Understanding and Loving Your Child with ADHD.
Are you struggling with anxiety? Is your child? Jon Seidl, author of Finding Rest, is here to talk about his personal crippling struggle with anxiety. It's an honest and redemptive conversation that will help you better minister to your family members. It's time to talk about mental health with our kids. Here you'll find a framework to help move forward in hope.
Sleep disorders in kids are on the rise. Experts say sleeplessness is a hidden health crisis for kids and teens. Neurologist and sleep expert Dr. Chris Winter is here to share from his book, The Rested Child. If you're wondering how to get your child to sleep longer (and get to bed earlier), this is your episode.
Finally you'll understand the root of your child's sleep problems and what you can do about it...starting tonight.
Looking on social media, you may feel like you don't measure up as a mom or a dad. You don't have as many followers, likes or highlight reels. Could we be measuring the wrong things? In this message, Arlene Pellicane helps us ask better questions to cement our identities as moms and dads. Parents, you are making a huge difference in the life of your child. How can you impact them this week in a way that will set them up for real success in life?
Are you satisfied with your prayer life? Maybe you feel too busy to pray, or quite honestly, you find prayer boring. No more boring prayers! Author of Pray Confidently and Consistently, Valerie Woerner is here to give us a primer on prayer. What did generations before us to do pray (and how can we follow in their footsteps)?
Learn how to freshen up your prayer life and watch how God will move mountains in your life and family. Learn more about Valerie Woerner and her new book, Pray Confidently and Consistently.
Watch Arlene's documentary, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words
Raising girls in this Instagram, anxious world can be tough. Author Jessie Seneca has gone from diaper to diamond (as in seeing her daughters get married) and she's here to coach us up! It's a hope-filled journey raising girls when you have time-tested wisdom to rely on.
Learn more about author of Raising Girls: Diaper to Diamond, Jessie Seneca and the iMom Virtual Conference on November 6, 2021.
Arlene will be speaking at the conference also, find out more at MoreOfHimMinistries.org
You want your child to get off video games...and do what? Relational expert Mark Gregston shares many practical ways we as parents and grandparents can better understand our teens and show them love. Strong family relationships and wisdom are sorely needed in our broken world. Author of Grandparenting Teens, Mark Gregston has been working over 40 years with teens in crisis - I like to think of him as the Chuck Norris of family relationships.
Learn more about Mark Gregston and his book, Grandparenting Teens. Watch Arlene's documentary, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words
Is happiness a godly thing to pursue? Arlene presents a warm, funny, and practical message about how happiness might be more habit than happenstance. How can you bring more joy into your home, no matter what is going on? Arlene explains the five principles in HAPPY that will help anyone become a more joy-filled person.
Learn more in Arlene's book 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife
Most parents know too much screen time is unhealthy for kids, but what can you do about it? Kids are glued to smartphones, social media, and entertainment - how can parents teach their kids to be screen wise? Author Jonathan McKee has 20+ years of youth ministry experience and he's here to answer common questions parents have from his new book, Parenting Generation Screen.
What's the single most important thing you can do regarding screen time? Find out in this conversation about being wise in a digital world.
Learn more about Jonathan McKee and his book, Parenting Generation Screen.
Is it possible to live happily ever after? Yes! Dr. David Jeremiah shares about his love for his wife Donna in this warm, personal conversation about his family life. Staying happliy married begins with commitment, a desire to serve your spouse, and having lots of fun along the way. You'll be inspired to smile again about your spouse and recognize the treasure you already have.
Dr. David Jeremiah has been married more than 58 years. He is a pastor, New York Times bestselling author, and Turning Point radio and television teacher.
Mom, how is Jesus different than other gods? Dad, can you prove miracles in the Bible really happened? Kids can ask tough questions about faith that are frankly hard to answer. In this encore episode, Natasha Crain gives us a framework to explain God to our littles and teens - apologetics for kids. If your child is having doubts or if you don't know how to answer questions about God, you will want to listen to this conversation with Natasha and get her book, Talking with Your Kids About Jesus: 30 Conversations Every Christian Parent Must Have.
More than ever, girls need to hear the truth about who they are and what makes them beautiful. Social media is lying to our girls and leading too many down the road of depression and anxiety.
In this encore episode, True Girl founder Dannah Gresh shares how to fill your daughter's mind with God's truth. You'll learn the power of asking the right questions, how to teach your girl to set healthy tech limits, and how to use social media in a positive way.
Learn more about Dannah Gresh's ministry True Girl and her book, Lies Girls Believe & The Truth That Sets Them Free.
Calming down an angry child can be tiring and seem impossible on some days. How can you help your kids calm down instead of throwing a fit? Bestselling author and mom of ten, Tricia Goyer shares how not to respond when your child acts in anger and how to give your child space to process and reconnect. You'll learn that lectures don't always work the best (and what to do instead). Based on Tricia's book, Calming Angry Kids, this encore episode will help you build a bridge between you and your (often) angry child.
Learn more at Arlene's website.
Kids these days are super smart about video games and social media, but what about being relationally smart? Are your kids good with people? Dr. John Trent shares five keys from his newest book, The Relationally Intelligent Child. Turns out IQ isn't nearly as important as being relationally intelligent. It's never too late to help your child learn how to meaningful connect with others. Learn more about Dr. John Trent and his book, The Relationally Intelligent Child.
When your kids fight and just keep fighting, it can be easy to give up on peace in the home. Sibling rivalry is frustrating! Author Amberly Neese is here with some examples of Biblical siblings who didn't always get along well either. You'll be encouraged and have some new tools to try the next time your kids and/or step-kids start fighting.
Learn more about Amberly Neese and her Bible study, Common Ground: Loving Others Despite Our Differences.
Pornography is the new drug and it's not just a problem for boys anymore. How can you protect your child from stumbling onto porn or from viewing it regularly? Author Josh Glaser is here to help us have those important (and yes awkward) conversations with our kids to protect them from seeing too much, too soon.
Learn more about Josh Glaser and his book, Treading Boldly Through a Pornographic World: A Field Guide for Parents.
Can your child focus on anything besides YouTube, social media, or video games? Today we're talking about the much needed skill of attention. It's one of the five A+ skills in my book Screen Kids. You'll learn how to strengthen your child's attention span - both in and out of school.
Learn more about Arlene's film, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. happyhomeuniversity.com/film
Boys and men are under attack. They are being stripped of mission, sidelined, and sexually tempted constantly. David Dusek, author of The Battle, joins us to explain what Biblical masculinity is all about and how we can raise our boys to be strong, godly men. We want to celebrate fatherhood, encouraging today's dads and preparing tomorrow's fathers.
Learn more about David Dusek and his book, The Battle.
From the media to the classroom, our kids are surrounded by beliefs that run counter to the Bible. Things that were shocking 50 years ago are promoted as desirable today. Researcher Dr. George Barna describes the worldview Americans are most likely to draw from - it's a watered down, feel good, fake Christianity.
In order for your child to show RESILIENCE, you must educate yourself about our culture to learn how to equip your child to stand fast in the faith.
There's no better person than Dr. George Barna at the Cultural Research Center to help us make sense of the research coming out about millennials and the beliefs of our nation.
Anxiety and depression are way up for adults and kids. What can you do to help your children break free from anxiety? Dr. Gregory Jantz is the founder of a Place of HOPE, voted a Top Ten facility for Depression Treatment in the U.S. He's here to help you talk with your kids and reset this summer from a stressful, anxious year. Our key word in June is RESILIENCE. We can encourage our kids to bounce back emotionally. Learn more about Dr. Gregory Jantz's newest book, The Anxiety Reset.
How do you handle an angry and aggressive child? Explosive behavior when a video game shuts off or when a child doesn't get the toy they want is becoming the norm. Arlene shares 2 A+ skills from her book Screen Kids: Anger management and apology. These two skills will help your child get along with others and get ahead in life.
MOTHERHOOD goes a lot smoother when anger is managed in a healthy way and apologies are freely given and received.
Learn more about Arlene's books co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids and Grandparenting Screen Kids.
Keeping kids safe online is getting harder and harder. How can you guard your child's heart and mind from all the garbage that's on social media, YouTube, and video games? Mom and author Mandy Majors shares her eye opening story of what happened to her daughter in elementary school. MOTHERHOOD has some new challenges in 2021 but we can prepare ourselves! Learn more about Arlene's book, 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom.
Learn more about Mandy Majors and her book Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World.
There's a better alternative when you want to shut up, blow up, or give up. Counselor and coach Nicole Unice joins us for a group counseling session. You'll learn how to name your emotions and to keep them from controlling you. You can turn your disagreements and conflicts around by using Nicole's Miracle Moment. Learn how to do it and start the healing process in your relationship with with your spouse and kids.
We're celebrating MOTHERHOOD this month. Learn more about Nicole Unice and her book Miracle Moment.
Learn more about Arlene's book, 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom
How can you set up your children for success from a young age? Pediatrician Dr. Laura Jana explains what is happening in the toddler brain, what key skills need to be nurtured early in life, and how you can help your children reach for the stars. Get the latest research on your child's developing brain. This information will help you as a parent as we celebrate MOTHERHOOD this month.
Learn more about Dr. Laura Jana and her book, The Toddler Brain.
Learn more about Arlene's book, 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom
NY Times bestselling author Mo Aiken (Isom) invites you experience true intimacy with God. How can you experience God more deeply, even as a busy parent? How can you pass along vibrant and bold faith to your children? May is about celebrating MOTHERHOOD and this conversation will inspire you to become more passionate in your family about God.
Learn more about Mo Aiken and her book, Fully Known: An Invitation to True Intimacy with God.
Learn more about Arlene's book, 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom.
Kids and teens get a reputation for being entitled and screen obsessed. How can you raise a child who is affection and appreciative? Teaching from her book Screen Kids (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman), Arlene explains two A+ skills children need: affection and appreciation. You can raise a child who says please, thank you, and I love you. Learn more about Screen Kids at www.ScreenKidsbook.com
Living intentionally sounds good, but how do you do it in real life? Author Craig Denison helps us to GROW spiritually and in our families by showing us daily rhythms that can ground us. You'll learn how to pass on faith to your kids and how to consume media in a more meaningful way. Craig Denison is the author of "Living Intentionally" and First15, a daily devotional guiding over a million believers. Learn more about Craig Denison and "Living Intentionally" at https://arlenepellicane.com/2021/04/podcast-living-intentionally-with-craig-denison/
How can you GROW even through a season unemployment? Maybe you were hopeful and trying to grow several months ago, but now, discouragement has settled in. Today's guest author Dale Kreienkamp is the president of Thriving Through Transitions. His new book is How Long, O Lord, How Long? Devotions for the Unemployed and Those Who Love them. Dale has worked for more than 40 years as a Human Resources Executive and Consultant coaching and growing leaders. You'll hear his story of being let go - and how he tackled the difficult months of job seeking that followed. Learn more about Dale Kreienkamp and his book "How Long, O Lord, How Long" at https://arlenepellicane.com/2021/04/podcast-hope-for-the-unemployed-with-dale-kreienkamp/
Our key word in April is GROW. How can we grow spiritually instead of slowing fading away from God's Word and His heart? Author Gretchen Saffles shares how we can take care of our souls in this busy world and packed family life. Find out what a well-watered woman is all about, and how you can be one starting today!
Learn more about Gretchen Saffles and her book, The Well-Watered Woman.
We used to have a common STORY in families because we watched the same TV shows. But the days of everyone watching the same program are over. With so many streaming services and choices on YouTube, Disney, Netflix and so much more, we have individualized entertainment. Family movie nights are harder to enjoy when everyone wants to watch something different. Arlene comments on a Wall Street Journal article about this phenomenon and gives tips on how you can keep screens from dividing you from your kids. Learn more about Arlene's latest masterclass to help you have a happier home at https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/
Fitness expert Kim Dolan Leto shares her STORY of physical fitness and how she turned her life around to be well. Combining body and soul, we'll talk about the connection between physical health and spiritual health. Does God even care about your workout routine? How can you model health to your kids when you don't feel like exercising or eating right? Learn more about Kim Dolan Leto's books and FIT (Faith Inspired Transformation) workout on Pure Flix. https://arlenepellicane.com/2021/03/podcast-get-fit-with-kim-dolan-leto/
What can a parent do when a teen goes sideways? Author and mom Ginger Hubbard shares her STORY of being a rebellious teenager. Even though she was raised in a loving home, she went against her parents, even moving out of the house in high school. How did she come back home? What did her parents do to draw her closer instead of pushing her further away? Find out in this authentic conversation that will touch your heart.
Learn more about Ginger Hubbard, her books, and the Parenting with Ginger Hubbard podcast.
https://arlenepellicane.com/2021/03/podcast-rebellious-teens-with-ginger-hubbard/
This STORY shows the power of having a mentor. Kelsey Chapman wanted to become an entreprenuer. How could she move from a dreamer to a doer? If you want to start your own business, a side hustle, or simply get better as a spouse or parent, you will want to know how to leverage the power of others. Together we can change the world.
Learn more about Kelsey Chapman and her book "What They Taught Me" https://arlenepellicane.com/2021/03/podcast-from-hobby-to-business-with-kelsey-chapman/
This March, we're talking about STORY. Is the story of your life turning out how you dreamed or far from it? Author Sharon Jaynes shares from her new book, "When You Don't Like Your Story." She didn't have a fairytale childhood - far from it - how did she learn how to re-write her story for good? Learn how to stop picking at emotional scabs to allow them to heal.
Learn more about Sharon and her book When You Don't Like Your Story. https://arlenepellicane.com/2021/03/podcast-sharon-jaynes-when-you-dont-like-your-story/
Divorce is on the rise as many couples struggle during this pandemic. How can your marriage be built on LASTING LOVE? Arlene shares three things that create an unstoppable marriage. A strong, happy marriage is worth the effort!
Go deeper with Arlene's masterclass, 31 Days to a Happy Husband. Enrollment closes soon so act today. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/
Let's talk about red hot monogamy + LASTING LOVE. Bestelling author Pam Farrel helps us to love better during lockdown, keep creativity alive in the bedroom, and show sacrificial love to others. You'll hear the power of a husband to shape his wife's identity for good.
Time for Arlene's 31 Days to a Happy Husband Masterclass.
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Learn more about Pam Farrel and get her free resources like date night ideas and ways to wow your man at https://arlenepellicane.com/2021/02/podcast-pam-farrel-red-hot-monogamy/
How do you build a LASTING LOVE between husband and wife? Bestselling author Bill Farrel shares one key ritual that has kept him & his wife Pam close for more than 40 years. Plus he reveals something you might not expect that is kryptonite to a man. Learn more about Bill Farrel and the Marriage Meet Ups planner: http://www.love-wise.com/product/marriage-meet-ups/ .
Learn more about Arlene's 31 Days to a Happy Husband Masterclass
https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/
This month we are talking about LASTING LOVE. You may be far from romance, even thinking about divorce. Counselor and author Dr. David Clarke is here to share about his 90 day guide to saving your marriage. If you've ever thought I don't want a divorce, this podcast is just for you. Learn more about Dr. David Clarke and his book, I Don't Want a Divorce: A 90 Day Guide to Saving Your Marriage. https://arlenepellicane.com/2021/02/podcast-i-dont-want-a-divorce-with-dr-david-clarke/
We need TRANSFORMATION in our marriages. Once a month, Arlene will share her heart and today, you'll hear her message "It may only take a spark, but my matches are wet." What can you do when the spark has gone out of your marriage? Does the confinement of COVID have you bored in your relationship? Learn these three ways to bring back the heat and transform your marriage from mediocre to good, and from good to great. Based on Arlene's book 31 Days to a Happy Husband.
Learn more about 31 Days to a Happy Husband and join Arlene's masterclass. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/
If you've ever struggled with mental health issues or trauma, there is a way to overcome. Force Recon Marine veteran Chad Robichaux shares how he nearly became a suicide statistic as a result of PTSD, depression, and a broken marriage. Along with his wife Kathy you'll learn how they turned divorce and destruction into a happy marriage. It wasn't just a magic touch; it took work and the power of God. Learn more about Chad Robichaux and his book, "An Unfair Advantage: Victory in the Midst of Battle ."
Moms aren't the only ones to get tired - dads get overwhelmed too. Men can feel inadequate or unprepared to lead their families well - especially when it comes to spiritual matters of the heart. Dad Tired founder Jerrad Lopes joins us for an honest and helpful conversation about what it means to protect one's family, how to deal with porn and other challenges, how to keep dating your spouse, as well as two ways to win your wife's heart.
January is about TRANSFORMATION. In this conversation with bestselling author Holley Gerth, you'll learn what it means to be an introvert. What's the brain science behind introverts and extroverts? How can you better understand and nurture the introverts in your family? Is it okay if your kids don't want to leave the house? You'll be encouraged by this eye opening talk about how we can better love each other well, especially the introverts in our life. Learn more about Holley's book, The Powerful Purpose of Introverts .
Could you give up sugar for one month and survive? Like me, maybe you run to the pantry throughout the day for a sweet snack. Whether you eat out of boredom or as a reward, Wendy Speake is here to explain what the 40 Day Sugar Fast is - and how it just might revolutionize both your physical and spiritual life. Get ready for physical detox to intersect with spiritual transformation. Don't worry - I'm as nervous as you are about skipping my candy bars and cakes, but let's give it a try. Are you in?
Learn more about Wendy Speake and the 40 Day Sugar Fast.
Kids today are hooked on games that are a lot different than Pacman. Mobile gaming isn't just changing industry, it's changing childhood. What is the impact of gaming on your child's eyesight, brain development and it's relationship to autism? Find out more in Part 2 of this interview with digital addiciton experts Dr. Andrew and Julie Doan.
Learn more about:
Dr. Andrew Doan's book Hooked on Games
https://www.amazon.com/Hooked-Games-Video-Internet-Addiction/dp/193557602X
Arlene's book with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids
https://5lovelanguages. com/screenkids/
The web event, Winning the Screen Wars: https://webevents.5lovelanguages.com/screen-wars
Is video gaming helping or hurting your child? If you've ever wondered if your son or daughter is addicted to video games, you must hear what Dr. Andrew and Julie Doan have to say. How did this successful Johns Hopkins-educated doctor survive as an adult gamer playing 80-100 hours a week? Here's what you need to know about digitial addiction to keep your child's brain safe and healthy, especially during the pandemic.
Part 2 of this conversation coming next episode.
Learn more about Dr. Andrew Doan's book, Hooked on Games - https://www.amazon.com/Hooked-Games-Video-Internet-Addiction/dp/193557602X
Arlene's book with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids: https://5lovelang uages.com/screenkids/ and the web event, Winning the Screen Wars. https://webevents.5lovelanguages.com/screen-wars
How will your children grow in faith in this TikTok, Instagram, video game culture? Barna researcher and youth specialist Mark Matlock shares key insights to raising a child who not only survives "digital Babylon," but thrives. Your child is being discipled not only by you, but largely by screens. Here's what you need to know about following Jesus in a screen-driven world.
Learn more about Mark's book co-authored with David Kinnaman, Faith for Exiles .
Kids (and adults) are playing video games and using social media more than ever. So what if your kids are on their devices way too much? Are you exhausted and don't know where to start with screen time limits? Author, nurse and mom Melanie Hempe shares the 7 day screen strong challenge - a solution that will help you reset your kids' screen time and reconnect with your family.
Learn more about the Screen Strong Challenge and Melanie Hempe.
Family life is richer with grandparents! How can you get along better? What if you are exhausted - between caring for your kids and your parents? Isabel Tom, author of The Value of Wrinkles, talks about why grandparents matter and what you can do to leverage the strength and wisdom of an older generation in your home.
Learn more about Isabel Tom and her book The Value of Wrinkles.
Learn more about my new book with Dr. Gary Chapman, Grandparenting Screen Kids.
Tired of screen battles with your kids over video games, TikTok, social media, and YouTube? What to do with distance learning? Help is on the way from Dr. Gary Chapman as we share tips from our new books Screen Kids & Grandparenting Screen Kids. Smartphones, tablets, all day, oh my! Learn how to end power struggles and know what's really going on in your child's brain during screen time.
Learn more about Arlene & Gary's new books, Screen Kids and Grandparenting Screen Kids today.
When Ruth and her husband Pat heard the diagnosis of cancer, they made a choice to trust God instead of panicking. Where is God when your family is suffering? Ruth brings words of hope to help us through this pandemic from her latest book, In a Boat in the Middle of the Lake.
Learn more about Ruth Schwenk and the book In a Boat in the Middle of a Lake.
Especially during the pandemic, we've been online more and so have our kids. How can we guide what our kids are watching on streaming services like Netflix? It's not only about rules, but about relationship. Media exec and founder of Minno (home of Veggie Tales) Erick Goss is here to help us parent more wisely (and safely) in the age of streaming.
Learn more about Erick Goss and Minno.
What can you do if your spouse isn't a Christian? What's it like being married to an unbeliever? How can you pray for your spouse without alienating him or her? Lynn Donovan shares her journey of praying 20 years for her husband...with amazing results. Her new book is Marching Around Jericho.
Learn more about Lynn Donovan and her book Marching Around Jericho: Praying Your Unsaved Spouse into the Kingdom.
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Coming in October: Arlene's new books Screen Kids & Grandparenting Screen Kids.
Joshua Rogers went from "hello" to "I do" in nine months and found marriage was a lot harder than he thought it would be! In this honest conversation about husbands and wives, Joshua talks about fighting for control, depression, intimacy issues, and the power of the rewind button.
Learn more about Joshua Rogers and his book, Confessions of a Happily Married Man.
Pop culture, social media, video games, porn, streaming services - there is so much in the culture today that runs opposite to the Christian values you want to instill in your kids. Author and mom Lee Nienhuis teaches us how to parent strong and follow God, even when everyone else seems to be going the other direction. She'll talk about how pornography can fill your child's life with shame, but also how you can help your child get back on the right track.
Learn more about Lee Nienhuis and her new book, Counter Cultural Parenting.
Blended families face challenges with stepparents, stepsiblings, and exes. Expert Ron Deal teaches how to bond with your stepfamily over time. Learn how to connect to your stepchildren, overcome rejection, and help stepsiblings find common ground. Together with Dr. Gary Chapman, Ron has written a book, Building Love Together in Blended Families.
Learn more about Ron Deal and his book with Dr. Gary Chapman, Building Love Together in Blended Families.
Your kids may be streaming more shows than usual these days. How can you guide your kids to screen time that's more positive, strengthening what you are teaching instead of tearing it all down? Pure Flix founding partner and actor David A.R. White shares how you make television something that brings you together as a family once again. You'll also learn about his God-given dream to head for Hollywood. It's a conversation that will make you want to chase your God-given dreams as well.
Learn more about David A.R. White and his book, Between Heaven and Hollywood: Chasing Your God-Given Dream.
Have you been sheltering in place with your spouse for months? Dr. Gary Chapman has marriage advice to bring us closer during this pandemic. For some, COVID-19 has given a chance to reconnect. For others, it has revealed problems and resulted in conflict. Based on more than 40 years of counseling couples, Dr. Gary Chapman, author of the 5 Love Languages, offers help from his newest book, 5 Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage...When You're Stuck at Home Together.
Learn more about Gary Chapman and his book, 5 Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage...When You're Stuck at Home Together
Tired of mom guilt and feeling overwhelmed all the time? Complaining, arguing, and sibling rivalry don’t have to control your home. Homeschooling mom of ten, September McCarthy reminds us why motherhood matters and what you can do to make motherhood manageable and actually joyous. Learn about trigger points, handling conflict, and the importance of connecting with other moms.
Learn more about Sep tember McCarthy and her book Motherhood Matters.
Trouble comes to every person - when it does, will your child be ready? Pat Schwenk and his family have experienced crisis because of cancer. How did they emerge not only with their faith intact but stronger? Learn how to grow during a crisis, remaining rooted in God's love, and how to help your children do the same.
Learn more about Patrick Schwenk and his book co-authored with his wife Ruth, Faith Forward Family Devotions.
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Great news! Arlene is teaming up with Access More to bring you more podcasts to help you have a happier home. Maybe you want to have a better marriage or you need big time help in the parenting department. Arlene shares how the Happy Home podcast got started and what’s in store for you in the episodes ahead.
Feeling overwhelmed as a mom? Not sure if you qualify to be the perfect Proverbs 31 woman? Comedian Kerri Pomarolli is here to inspire the rest of us from her faith-filled, funny book, Confessions of the Proverbs 32 Woman.
Learn more about Kerri Pomarolli and her book.
Watch Arlene's free videos to help you become a happier mom on Instagram , Facebook or her website .
Now we know that a crisis like COVID 19 can catch us totally by surprise. Are you more prepared now to meet the unexpected? Author Kathi Lipp will equip you to handle the next crisis smarter as she shares from her newest book, Ready for Anything.
Learn more about Kathi Lipp and her book Ready for Anything: Preparing Your Heart and Home for Any Crisis Big or Small.
Watch Arlene's free videos to help you become a happier mom on Instagram , Facebook or her website .
Do you ever feel like you are starting your day on empty? We need food for fuel, but we also need God to start the morning right. Author and mom Asheritah Ciuciu is here to talk about Bible and Breakfast: 31 Mornings with Jesus. You don’t have to struggle with having daily devotions anymore. Here’s one way to couple breakfast + Jesus – it’s time to get a right start both for you and your kids.
Learn more about Asheritah and her book, Bible and Breakfast.
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Do your kids have questions about God and faith that you have a hard time answering? Mom and author Natasha Crain is her to help prepare parents from her book, Talking with Your Kids About Jesus: 30 Conversations Every Christian Parent Must Have.
Do you worry about social media, bullying and your girl? Author, college student, and Instagram star Emma Mae Jenkins will inspire you (and your daughter) to put your faith in God. When you know the truth about God's love, negative social media comments and cyberbullying aren't as powerful. Parents, we can learn how to better pass on our faith so our kids can live in freedom and know they are loved.
Are you concerned your kids will never grow up? Josh Burnette co-author of the book Adulting 101 will help you motivate your kids to learn the skills they need to be competent, independent adults. Entering adulthood can be intimidating, but it doesn't have to be. You'll find practical and creative ideas to get your kids prepared for life beyond high school.
Marriage can be filled with money problems, intimacy issues, and communication breakdowns. But marriage can also be a party! Jay and Laura Laffoon have been happily married for more than 35 years and they're here to help us laugh and love through the decades. Learn how to avoid divorce by choosing to fix our problems instead. Jay and Laura are marriage edu-tainers - they love to combine education with entertainment. Get ready to laugh and learn about your marriage today.
Do you wonder if your child is addicted to video games or will be in the future? If we are not careful, kids can miss essential life skills because they are gaming instead of learning and loving. Melanie Hempe RN shares one question that quickly assesses if your child's video gaming is under control or out of control. Equip yourself with the truth about video games and how they impact your child's developing brain and future.
Video games aren’t what they used to be when we were kids. They are far more addicting and immersive than ever. Is your child at risk for video game addiction? Melanie Hempe RN shares her real life experience with her college gamer along with medical information about the brain that will change the way you view video games and your kids.
Learn more about Melanie Hempe and her books Will Your Gamer Survive College? and Screen Strong Solution: how to free your child from addictive habits.
We live in an instant world, but life is filled with waiting. Barb Roose shares truth from her Bible study, "I'm Waiting God." Learn how to have patience even when you are waiting for your prayers to be answered.
Teaching your son about sex can be awkward and difficult. Dave Willis shows us how to teach boys about sex so they will grow up into men who respect women and enjoy intimacy the way God intended. If you are nervous about having a sex talk with your boy, this will help you speak with confidence and compassion.
Learn more about Dave Willis and his book "Raising Boys Who Respect Girls."
Could your family pull off a grumble free year? Author Tricia Goyer chronicles her attempt with her family of eleven! She'll share experiences from her newest book and adventure in gratitude. You will learn something to use even tonight to stop complaining and start being thankful instead.
Learn more about Tricia Goyer and her book Grumble Free Year: Twelve Months, Eleven Family Members, and One Impossible Goal.
Champ Thornton talks about raising kids who are radically different, students who love God in a secular age. Your children can still serve God as they enter into middle and high school.
Do you sometimes wonder if you're doing this parenting thing right? Maybe you long for a mentor mom who is a few steps ahead of you. Author and mentor Susie Davis understands the importance of having a mentor. You'll be encouraged by this conversation with a spiritual mama about overcoming worry, embracing the small stuff, and evaluating your life through God's eyes, not Instagram. Learn how to move from fear to freedom, living in the community that God intended.
Learn more about Susie Davis and her book, "Dear Daughters."
Maybe you feel busy but not productive. Productivity expert Tonya Dalton helps us to strategize and prioritize so we can experience the joy of missing out. Learn how to reject the pressure to do more, be more, and achieve more, instead focusing on what is truly important in your life.
Can just 15 minutes a day really help you stay in love? Author Marcus Warner says yes (and he will teach you what to do). Learn what the joy gap is and why it's important. You can stir up those emotions once again of love and affection in your marriage.
Learn about Dr. Marcus Warner and his book The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages.
What silly thing has your child or grandchild said lately? Kids are famous for their unfiltered and sometimes embarrassing commentary, yet they can also be profound. Rediscover wonder and look for the gold in your kids with author Jon Gauger.
Learn more about Jon Gauger and his book Kids Say the Wisest Things: 26 Lessons You Didn't Know Children Could Teach You.
You've probably had your kids say "But it was my brother's fault!" or "I didn't know about that!" to escape blame. Author Marty Machowski teaches us how to introduce the concept of sin and reconciliation to kids through his children's story "Don't Blame the Mud." It's a great way to teach your kids to own up for their mistakes and reconcile their relationships.
Author Mary DeMuth offers hope and perspective from her latest book, We Too - How the Church Can Respond Redemptively to the Sexual Abuse Crisis. Find resources at Wetoo.org
Feel like you are running on empty or running in circles? Author Cheri Gregory shares how you can de-stress your life and go from spent to content.
What is beautiful? Author and photographer Rebecca Friedlander uncovers true beauty through the lens of Scripture and what she has learned after interviewing women from all around the world.
Could you use a big dose of hope in your home? Bible teacher Melissa Spoelstra is here to help. Her newest book, "Dare to Hope: Living Intentionally in an Unstable World" is based on the book of Jeremiah. Listening is a mega theme in Jeremiah and it can be a mega theme in your home. Learn how to listen to God and your kids more closely and watch things change for the better.
Wondering how to motivate your kids to behave differently? In Dr. Kathy Koch's new book, Start with the Heart, you'll learn how to motivate your child from the inside out and improve your communication as a parent.
Author Clarence Shaler talks about the wise decisions young men can make from his book "Choose Greatness." Many boys are adrift, not succeeding in school or life, but just in video games. Learn how to parent your boy with purpose so he will grow up to be a great man.
Can you relate to being a grumpy mom sometimes? Most of us can! Valerie Woerner, author of Grumpy Mom Takes a Holiday is here to help us fight for joy. You'll be a different mom by changing your focus. You and your kids will be glad you listened.
If you are tired of yelling, being misunderstood, and feeling frustrated in your relationships, today's guest Dr. Laurel Shaler is here to help! She sharing practical tips from her new book, "Relational Reset: Unlearning the Habits That Hold You Back."
Best selling author Dannah Gresh is here to help moms have meaningful conversations with their daughters about true beauty, social media, growing up into a woman and more. You'll love Dannah's new book for girls age 8-12, "Lies Girls Believe and the Truth That Sets Them Free." I also recommend getting the companion guide, "A Mom's Guide to Lies Girls Believe." It was my pleasure to endorse these books and here's the real test...I'm talking about the ideas inside with my own daughters! I'm going through it with Noelle (age 12) first and then Lucy (age 9) next. This podcast will help you learn how to: Use social media more positively Identify key conversations to have with your tween girl Tackle beauty and insecurity issues Reset after you've made a mistake
John Rosemond parenting coach Wendy Faucett identifies the fake news you might be believing as a parent and what to do about it. You'll learn why doing less - not more - for your kids is much healthier for their development and why the punishment doesn't always have to fit the crime.
Becky Harling talks about the I AM statements by Jesus from her Bible study, Who Do You Say I Am? As you encounter Jesus, you will be changed for the better at Christmastime and all year long.
Is your Christmas season marked by stress instead of calm? How can you focus on what's really important (the birth of Christ) and pass that along to your kids? Melissa Spoelstra shares practical tips to help you this season from her book, "Total Christmas Makeover: 31 Devotions to Celebrate with Purpose."
Not sure when to say yes and when to say no to your kids? Author Hannah Anderson joins Arlene to talk about discernment. How can parents learn to discern...and to pass that skill on to their kids? Based on Hannah's new book, "All That's Good: Recovering the Lost Art of Discernment."
How can you calm your child's anger and your own as well? Are you experiencing toddler tantrums, pouting kids, or teenage eye rolling? Award winning author and mother of 10 Tricia Goyer is here to explain how anger works, how to manage better, and how to create a calmer home. Based on her new book, "Calming Angry Kids," you will love these practical tips and insights about anger and your child.
What milestones are your child missing due to too much screen time? Pediatrician Dr. Tim Johanson shares his concerns about video games, social media and what screen time actually is doing in your child's brain. You will be surprised and challenged by this doctor's visit via podcast.
The ever presence of screens has eroded quality time in many families. Dr. Kathy Koch talks about the importance of play and prayer, and how a few simple changes could make a big difference in your home.
What is the harm of letting your child play video games or letting them have a phone? Dr. Kathy Koch, author of Teens and Screens, is here to talk shop about technology. Amusement does not have to be the priority in your child's life.
You don't have to feel helpless as a parent. Your prayers can make a world of difference! Moms in Prayer founder Fern Nichols shares how to become more effective in prayer.
Author and creator of Secret Keeper Girl, Dannah Gresh is here to tackle tough subjects for tweens and teens. You'll learn how to: Teach modesty to girls at a young age Recover when you've made some mistakes in the shopping zone Set healthy boundaries and expectations for dating Have positive conversations about sex Dannah is an expert when it comes to sexual purity, modesty, and parenting tweens and teens. You will get the practical help you need to rise as a parent and promote modesty in an increasingly immodest world.
Did you know your child is like a dump truck filled with diamonds? Clinical child psychologist Dr. Todd Cartmell explains the similarities between your child and a dump truck. You'll learn how to look for diamonds through the power of listening. Plus you'll learn how to train your child to freak out less and stop throwing tantrums. Arlene interviewed Dr. Todd Cartmell for her new book, Parents Rising: 8 Strategies for Raising Kids Who Love God, Respect Authority, and Value What's Right. Find out more about Dr. Todd Cartmell at www.8simpletools.com
Common sense parenting is not as common as it used to be. Popular speaker and author Kendra Smiley joins Arlene to talk about the power of routine and responsibility, making marriage a priority, and what not to do when your kids fail. Learn more about Kendra at KendraSmiley.com Kendra was interviewed for Arlene's newest book coming out in April: Parents Rising: 8 Strategies for Raising Kids Who Love God, Respect Authority, and Value What's Right
In this social media crazed world, our tween girls need to know more than ever where true beauty really comes from. Proverbs 31 author Lynn Cowell joins Arlene to talk about instilling confidence in tween girls based on her book, Brave Beauty: Finding the Fearless You. Learn more at www.LynnCowell.com and find the Bible study you can do with your child under "Freebies."
Are you struggling with illness or know someone who is? Author Sarah Forgrave has been there and she's here to help us find hope when we're sick or when we're reaching out to those we love. Sarah shares practical ideas from her book, Prayers for Hope and Healing: Seeking God's Strength as You Face Health Challenges. Learn more at SarahForgrave.com
Do you feel like you are too busy? Or is it difficult for you to slow down and rest? This episode will help you find that right balance between work and rest. You'll see busy in a whole new light, gaining tools to improve your daily schedule and strengthen your relationship with God. You'll find answers to questions like: Are you addicted to over-work? What do you apply keeping the Sabbath in today's modern age? What's the difference between false guilt and real guilt? How does someone know if he or she has gotten too busy? How can you improve the quality of your calendar and life? What is soul rest? Learn more about Glynnis Whitwer, author of Doing Busy Better, at GlynnisWhitwer.com
What a joy to welcome Lynn Marie Cherry to share her moving story of redemption. Lynn is the author of "Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal." When she discovered her husband's porn addiction, her first response was denial. But she learned in the years to come her marriage was worth fighting for. Learn more at LynnMarieCherry.com
Could you use some help taming your technology? Arlene Pellicane shares help from her new book, Calm, Cool, and Connected: 5 Digital Habits for a More Balanced Life. You can learn what it takes to say it is well with my phone.
Arlene Pellicane interviews author of Fear Fighting, Kelly Balarie, about the keys she has discovered to deal with paralyzing fear. Learn how to use prayer and brave declarations to chase fear away. This change of perspective makes a big difference. Enjoy more peace and less stress by changing what you think about and what you say.
Would your friends describe you as happy? In Part 2 of this message, The Happiness Habit, Arlene Pellicane teaches simple habits that will bring more happiness into your life.
Arlene shares Part 1 of her message, "The Happiness Habit." Based on her book 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife, you'll learn how to put a smile on your face even when you don't feel like it. Discover why happy is more about habit than happenstance.
Speaker and author Cindi McMenamin joins Arlene to help us dial down the drama in our lives. Giving tips from her new book "Drama Free: Finding Peace When Emotions Overwhelm You," Cindi shows you: How to lessen the drama in your life What to do when a friend or family member offends you When it's not the right time to step in to help a friend Why self-care is important in reducing drama Find Cindi's checklist to being drama free at: StrengthfortheSoul.com
Author Kendra Smiley joins Arlene to give real encouragement to moms from her new book, "Mother of the Year: 365 Days of Encouragement for Devoted Moms." Kendra is a mother of 3 grown sons, and grandmother of 11. With humor and wisdom, Kendra shares heartwarming stories that teach valuable lessons about making the most of motherhood. Learn more at KendraSmiley.com
Do you struggle with food? Arlene interviews Asheritah Ciuciu about her new book, "Full: Food, Jesus and the Battle for Satisfaction." Learn how you can finally put food in its proper place and break the hold it may have on your heart and health.
Author Sharon Jaynes joins Arlene to talk about her new book "A 14 Day Romance Challenge: Reigniting Passion in Your Marriage." You'll be encouraged to captivate your husband all over again. Find out why romance isn't just for Hollywood movies and how you can experience romance with your spouse more and more in everyday life.
Does raising children in this current culture scare you sometimes? Wife and mom of four Cindy Bultema joins me to talk about raising godly kids in a godless society. Based on her new Bible study on 1 Corinthians, Live Full Walk Free, you'll learn how to: -Have tough conversations about pop culture -Share your past mistakes and sins in a redemptive way -Engage with the culture instead of running away from it -Embrace "shame off you" instead of "shame on you" -Make the Bible more a part of your everyday life as a busy woman Learn more about Cindy at CindyBultema.com
My friend author Angie Mosteller is here to help us recognize the godly symbols of the season (and how to pass on these treasures to our kids). Angie has a wonderful book titled, Christmas: Celebrating the Christian History of Classic Symbols, Songs and Stories. On the podcast, you'll learn: Why we decorate with Christmas trees A surprising story about the carol "O Holy Night" What to say to your kids about Santa What are two important criteria for whether or not you should put something on your Christmas activity list? Visit Angie's website at Celebrating Holidays to learn more about her book and find a ton of Christmas resources like Christmas playlists of Advent songs, stories, the meaning of symbols, and recipes.
Joanne Miller, author of Creating a Haven of Peace, joins Arlene to talk about making your home a place of refuge and joy. In this busy, crazy world, wouldn't it be nice for your family members to come home and sigh with relief. This is where I'm safe. This is where I'm loved. On this podcast, you'll learn how to: - Create a strong marriage even with the busyness of being parents - How to use the five senses to make your home special -Start a new branch of your family tree, even if you were raised in a less-than-peaceful home -Benefit from the power of mentoring - Put more fun and less business in your family life - Practice family traditions that your kids will always remember Learn more about Joanne and Creating a Haven of Peace at www.JoanneFMiller.com And learn more about Joanne's husband Dan Miller at 48Days.com
Whether you need help as a single mom or encouragement with your prodigal children, this interview with author Janet Thompson will touch your heart and help you prioritize what is really important. You'll learn: -How to better journey through divorce and single parenting -How to pray for your prodigal child -The importance of woman-to-woman mentoring -What to do if you feel alienated by the church because you are divorced or a single parent -How to win the spiritual battles in your home
Many children today struggle with ADHD. Dr. Jennifer Degler joins Arlene to talk about her son Jake who was diagnosed at a young age. You'll learn important coping and helping strategies. Even though he was told he wouldn't ever be able to read well, Jake went on to take AP classes, go to college and win awards. Behind him was a mom who wouldn't take no for an answer.
Ruth Schwenk is a pastor's wife, mom of 4, author and blogger extraordinaire. Her new book is titled, "For Better or For Kids: A Vow to Love Your Spouse with Kids in the House." On today's podcast, you'll learn: -How to regain proper perspective as a mom -The mission of being a mom -How to have a calmer, saner home - How to make decisions about kids' sports and activities You'll be encouraged to remember that the moments matter. What you do with your kids is not forgotten or unimportant. Learn more about Ruth at ForTheFamily.org or TheBetterMom.com
Mother of 7 Hannah Keeley joins Arlene in part 2 of this conversation about becoming a happy mom. You'll learn how to: - Manage stress better - Have more fun as a mom - Limit screen time for your kids (including high schoolers) - Trust God more and worry less - Make peace with a less-than-perfect Pinterest life Hannah is the founder of Mom Mastery University, and the host of "Hannah Help Me!" She has been featured on the Today Show, Fox & Friends, the Rachael Ray Show, and the Wall Street Journal. Learn more about Hannah at hannahhelpme.com
Arlene interviews mother of 7, TV personality, author, speaker and fun-loving wife Hannah Keeley. If you've ever been overwhelmed as a mom, you'll want to listen to this energy boost about finding purpose and tackling life's greatest challenges - one step at a time. Learn how to turn your despair into hope and find more energy as a mom. You'll be inspired to make positive changes in this lively conversation.
Singer and author Gwen Smith talks about launching your teens successfully, the power of prayer and God's Word in parenting, and how to deal with tone (yours and theirs!). You will be inspired to seek God's presence in your home and you will be equipped to better connect with your tween or teen. Plus Gwen is hilarious!
Author, speaker, radio and TV host Kendra Smiley joins Arlene for an inspiring talk about: - Engaging your strong willed child - Re-establishing family priorities - Asking the parenting question, "What's my goal?" Learn how Kendra responded to her strong willed son who didn't want to complete the "stupid assignment." That sounds familiar right? Arlene interviewed Kendra for her book 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom. And remember that eBook is only $1.99 in May 2016 (on Kindle, Nook, Google, Apple, etc).
Singer and author Gwen Smith talks about launching your teens successfully, the power of prayer and God's Word in parenting, and how to deal with tone (yours and theirs!). You will be inspired to seek God's presence in your home and you will be equipped to better connect with your tween or teen. Plus Gwen is hilarious!
You will be inspired to live with gratitude after listening to this interview with Mary Carver. Mary is the co-author of Choose Joy: Finding Hope and Purpose When Life Hurts. It's a story of triumph over illness and pity party living.
Learn how to raise kids who know how to serve, say thank you, and limit screen time. Blogger Kristen Welch joins Arlene for this encouraging conversation about motherhood, messes and redemption.
Popular blogger Kristen Welch shows you how to raise grateful kids in an entitled world. You will be inspired by her family's service to their non profit Mercy House in Africa. Learn how to respond when your kids complain or whine about what they don't have.
Mother of five Rhonda Rhea joins Arlene to give hope to the mom who is worrying about doing everything right. Learn how to handle discipline better, prepare your teen for adulthood, and about rescuing your kids. With a special word for pastors wives as well, Rhonda reveals what is truly important to the happy mom (and whether or not you should battle with your teen about hairstyles and colors!)
Need a good laugh today? If you're feeling a tad overwhelmed or frustrated, you're going to love this talk with hilarious speaker, author and mother of five Rhonda Rhea. She'll inspire you to make the best of date nights gone wrong, raging hormones, and the proper use of chocolate.
The Positive Lady Karol Ladd joins Arlene to talk about the transition to the empty nest, connecting with your teen, and making your house the fun place to be.
Have no fear...author Kathi Lipp is here! You'll learn that you are NOT the worst mom on the planet after all. Find out how to lean into your friends in the motherhood (and how to find help as a single mom too).
Author and founder of Pure Freedom, Dannah Gresh talks about connecting with your son and daughter, even in the teen years. Learn how you can utilize the power of the reset button in your mom life.
Have you ever struggled with that nagging feeling you weren't measuring up as a mom? NYT bestselling author Karen Ehman joins Arlene to talk about contentment as a mom. How can you resist the race to replicate? How to tend to your spiritual life in the midst of a busy schedule? Learn how to enjoy greater job satisfaction as a mom from mother of three, Karen Ehman. Learn more about Karen at www.KarenEhman.com and look for Karen's advice in Arlene's new book, 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom.
Psychologist, author and speaker Dr. Jennifer Degler joins Arlene to talk about the changing sex life of a mom. How do you adapt to different stages in your marriage? Learn how to deal with love busters like fatigue and fan the flame this week.
Smart Stepmom joins Arlene to help the frustrated stepmom find more peace at home. Learn how to adjust expectations, discipline your stepkids, and the one thing you don't want to miss out on with your biological kids. Arlene interviewed Laura Petherbridge for her upcoming book 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom.
Fern Nichols, founder of Moms in Prayer International, joins Arlene to talk about finding joy through prayer. Learn how to enjoy one of the best things you can do for your kids: praying for them. Practical suggestions and inspiration to ramp up your prayer life, starting today.
Parenting expert, speaker, and author John Rosemond joins Arlene. Learn why "The Good Mommy Club" may not be for you. Find out how to de-stress as a mom and how to have your own "International Mommy Take a Day Off" day.
Sexuality has been twisted by culture. What is good is often seen as bad, and vice versa. Today's expert, author Pam Farrel talks about what real red hot monogamy is. How can you refresh your love life with your spouse? You'll find this out and much more in today's podcast.
Organizing expert Marcia Ramsland joins Arlene to talk about getting your home in order. Where do you start? What can do if you're frustrated by a messy house? She'll give you doable ideas including a way to clean up after a meal in 10 minutes.
Are you dreading getting together with your extended family this Christmas? Not sure how to have a smooth celebration with your blended family? Laura Petherbridge, The Smart Stepmom, joins Arlene with advice to help you not only survive the holidays, but actually have the best Christmas to date.
Wish your preschooler or young child was more appreciative? Wish they managed anger better? Learn how to instill these and other A+ emotional skills even in this screen-driven world.
How are screens impacting your preschooler? In this presentation to preschool educators, Arlene helps you teach emotional skills that no app can teach. Based on her book with co-author Dr. Gary Chapman, Growing Up Social: Raising Relational Kids in a Screen-Driven World.
Arlene answers questions about her new book like, "How in the world did you get to write with Dr. Gary Chapman?" and "Why did you write this book?" Learn more of the back story of Growing Up Social: Raising Relational Kids in a Screen-Driven World.
Want to excel in your all important role as wife? Join Arlene for this informative discussion with business leader, entrepreneur, and author Dr. Marjorie Blanchard. Learn how to achieve unity in marriage, identify roles, and stay interesting to yourself and to your spouse.
If you have been frustrated by the differences between you and your spouse, you will be encouraged by this interview with author Poppy Smith. Learn how to tame anger and the tongue in this talk with a wife who once thought her marriage was a big mistake.
Are you and your husband on the same page spiritually? Christian author Lynn Donovan shares her story of what it's like to be married to an unbeliever. How has she found love, peace, and happiness in a home that is spiritually mismatched? Find hope for your hurting marriage today. Lynn's story is featured in Arlene's book "31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife."
Burned out? Having fights about money with your spouse? Overwhelmed? Author and financial planner Bethany Palmer joins Arlene to talk about enjoying your role as a wife...even when you are crazy busy. Plus learn about money personalities which will help you get along financially with your mate.
Author and counselor Leslie Vernick equips you to deal with unhappiness in marriage. What questions do you need to ask yourself to get unstuck? What unhealthy stories are you telling yourself? Learn how to become happier in your marriage starting today.
Author and pastor's wife Cindi McMenamin knows what it takes to be happy in marriage - even when personalities collide and life is stressful. Learn to adapt your expectations and place your trust in God, instead of putting too much on your husband's shoulders.
Speaker and Author Carol Kent joins Arlene to discuss how to be happy wife even in the midst of crisis. Carol and her husband have overcome many difficulties - you'll learn how to do the same and experience supernatural joy in your marriage.
Bestselling author and beloved speaker Liz Curtis Higgs shares her tips on enjoying a happy marriage - even if you are a former bad girl! Learn how to become a source of encouragement in your home, and even how red lipstick can assist in that endeavor! You'll love this interview with Liz which Arlene also features in her book "31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife" (February 2014).
Arlene begins a new series to help you becoming a happier wife! Bestselling author of Red Hot Monogamy and Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti Pam Farrel joins Arlene to share her secrets of being a happy wife.
Arlene shares the final key to enjoying a DREAM marriage - mutual activities. Why is it so important to your man that you hang out and do fun things together? Find out and get some ideas to help you have a great next date and weekend together.
How important is attraction in a marriage? Find out why courtship and putting your best foot forward shouldn't stop after you say "I do." Discover three questions to ask yourself that will help you become more attractive to your spouse - plus you'll feel great in the process too!
How would you rate your lovelife? In message three of the DREAM marriage series, Arlene talks about the "E" in DREAM which is eros. Get revved up about romance in your marriage once again with these easy ideas
You cannot underestimate the power of respect in a husband's heart. In this message about having a DREAM marriage, Arlene reveals the second key to your husband's heart: respect. Learn how to give it regardless of what is happening in your marriage. Discover how to communicate in a way that will make your husband (and marriage) thrive.
Arlene shares the elements of a DREAM marriage with part one in this series. The D stands for Domestic Tranquility. In this modern busy age, how can you still provide a peaceful haven for your husband to come home to?
Ever feel stuck in your marriage? Arlene talks to Andy Freeman about how to keep the adventure going in your marriage. At age 55, Andy learned how to ride a motorcycle AND invited his wife to ride cross country with him. Find out how they lived to tell the story!
Need a marriage makeover? Arlene is joined by Patrick Brown, the host of TLC's Home Made Simple for eight seasons. Patrick shares what a wife can do to make a man feel a hero in his own home. Don't worry...these basic steps do not require power tools or complicated assembly.
Actor Kevin Sorbo (Hercules, Soul Surfer, What If) talks with Arlene about marriage and fatherhood. You will enjoy this refreshing and candid interview from a man who is successful in Hollywood but who does not live by Hollywood's values.
Comedian Tim Hawkins talks to Arlene about marriage and all the funny stuff that goes along with a man and a woman trying to understand each other for life. You will love his perspective on marriage, date night, and the perplexity of women in general. Insightful, honest, hilarious - Tim Hawkins!
Bestselling authors and sex therapists Dr. Cliff and Joyce Penner join Arlene for a candid and informative interview about married sex. What do you do if pornography enters the picture? How can you become more intimate with your husband through the years? Find out in this interview for Arlene's book 31 Days to a Happy Husband.
Internationally recognized sex therapists Dr. Cliff and Joyce Penner join Arlene for a candid conversation about sex. You will learn how to enjoy your sexuality more, along with the difference between decision and duty sex. How can a wife go from tired to turned on? Find out on the podcast.
Focus on the Family radio cohost John Fuller joins Arlene for a heartwarming conversation about his family. Learn the importance of prayer as John shares about the adoption of their sixth child and the challenges of a busy home.
FamilyLife Today cohost Bob Lepine joins Arlene in a candid conversation about the ups and downs of married life. Learn how to perservere in marriage for all the right reasons.
Bestselling author Bill Farrel answers questions like why is sex so important to a man? What does a wife's appearance mean to a man? You will love Bill's wisdom, sense of humor, and way of explaining the heart of a man.
In Part 2 of her message, Arlene shares how you can enjoy a better body without involving surgery or a ton of money. Learn how to make fitness fun, no matter how old you are!
Dr. David Clarke unpacks the importance of kissing, talk times, and praise in a healthy marriage. You will enjoy the wit and wisdom of this psychologist and author of Kiss Me Like You Mean It and I Don't Want a Divorce.
Pastor, bestselling author, and Turning Point teacher Dr. David Jeremiah talks with Arlene about his happy marriage to his wife of almost 50 years. Find out how he and Donna continue to grow closer. What do they like to do together? What advice does he have for couples? You'll be touched by this meaningful conversation about the love of his life.
Arlene Pellicane interviews author and counselor Dr. David Frisbie about the most common problems facing couples today. Learn how to handle the dangers of pornography, infidelity and disrespect. Get the tools you need to make your marriage work smoothly and truly live happily ever after.
Author and youth specialist Mark Matlock shares what he and his wife have done to put their marriage first amidst a busy home with teenagers, ministry and travel. Learn how to put a spotlight on your marriage, no matter how busy you are. Mark is the president of Wisdom Works Ministries and Youth Specialties and has been ministering to youth for over two decades. This interview is part of Arlene's Happy Husband University series.
On Valentines Day 2012, legendary pastor Glen Cole died unexpectedly at 78 years old. Listen to this interview between Arlene and Pastor Cole recorded a few months earlier. You will be touched by his wise and hilarious words about marriage and his life with his bride of 58 years and their beautiful family. Learn how you too can live happily ever after from Pastor Glen Cole
If you want more energy and a younger look, you will enjoy this message about rejuvenating your heart and mind. Learn how to turn the clock back without spending a dime.
Do you want to have better sex with your husband? Identify common roadblocks to intimacy and learn how to overcome them - even if you are a busy mom. Learn how to fit romance in your busy schedule and rev up your love life even when you are not in the mood in Part 2 of Arlene's message titled It May Only Take a Spark, But My Matches are Wet! This message was shared with a MOPS group (Mothers of Preschoolers) in Southern California.
When you are a busy mom, sex may not be at the top of your list of things to do. You may be more interested in sleep! In Part 1 of the message "It May Only Take a Spark, But My Matches are Wet!" Arlene Pellicane shows moms how to make time for romance and why it's so important.
Cancer survivor Kay Laboda shares about the power of a quilt and prayer in her healing process. Plus fashion tips to look young at any age.
Arlene talks to organizing pro Marcia Ramsland about organizing your home, taming your clutter, and cutting your cleaning time in the kitchen. Plus tips on staying younger and planning the best year of your life. Learn more about Marcia at www.OrganizingPro.com
Arlene interviews author and Proverbs 31 speaker Karen Ehman about going from a size 24 to 10, getting rid of clutter in the closet, and bringing sanity to your schedule.
Need a dose of hope for parenting your kids? Listen to Arlene Pellicane's interview about motherhood with host Scott West on DayBreak USA Radio Morning Magazine.
Arlene interviews bestselling author and relationship expert Pam Farrel about midlife and menopause. Plus how to keep intimacy alive and well in your marriage, no matter how many years you have been married.
If you are stressed out about time or feeling less than beautiful, you will enjoy this message by speaker and author Arlene Pellicane. Arlene reveals 3 myths women often fall for and how you can avoid them.
Arlene Pellicane interviews author and RN, Danna Demetre about menopause, nutrition essentials, beauty secrets and much more. Get practical tips on surviving hot flashes and slowing down the aging process.
Speaker and author Thelma Wells is not winding down with age. She is revving up! Where does Thelma known as Mama T get her boundless energy? Mama T reveals her secrets for health, vitality and true beauty in Part 2 of this interview with Arlene.
Popular speaker and author Thelma Wells shares the secret of her infectious smile. You will love this fun interview with Mama T. Get ready to smile today regardless of what life throws your way.
Speaker and author of 31 Days to a Younger You Arlene Pellicane shares a message to make you laugh and hope again. Given to the women of Faith Chapel at a women's retreat, this message will remind you that God has not forgotten about your dreams.
Listen to Part 2 of this candid interview with veteran TV anchor Carol LeBeau. Find out about the wonders of sleep, the superwoman lie, daily devotionals, real friendship, junk food, and much more!
Arlene Pellicane, author of 31 Days to a Younger You, interviews veteran news anchor Carol LeBeau. After sitting behind the anchor desk in San Diego for 28 years, Carol talks candidly about retirement, health, transitions, and much more. You will love Carol's insights and easy to follow ideas to improve your life today.
Arlene talks about keeping the pounds off this Christmas and also about what to do if your baby gets constipated. Not really sure if those topics are related LOL. And get ready because this podcast is about to end and a new Arlene Pellicane podcast will be beginning in the New Year.
Learn how to do dishes faster and other time saving tips from organizational pro Marcia Ramsland
Arlene Pellicane was interviewed on the Hour of Power which was televised on May 31, 2009. Watch Arlene share about her miscarriage at 26 weeks with interviewer Dr. Sheila Coleman. We hope you will be encouraged by this story whether you have ever had a miscarriage or know someone who has.
Featured in Womens Health magazine, Chelle Stafford shares her inspiring jouney of losing the weight and finding herself again
Mother of four Roxanne Hammett shares her secret to finally losing those 60 pounds for good
CrosFit Trainer Steve Tankersley shares what fitness is really all about and how you can take it to the next level
Dr. Kim Goodwin, OB/GYN talks about what matters most about your health plus her own recent pregnancy
Find out how my fifty something mom went from no exercise to 3 plus years of exercising
The Biggest Loser is not just for television.You can have your own contest with your family, friends or coworkers.Get ideas and inspiration for having your own competition.Why not lose weight and earn cash?
Has the scale come to a standstill?Get motivation from real life examples to get back in shape for the sake of your health.
One secret to starting and sustaining weight loss isnot in your kitchen, it is in your closet.
Arlene reveals the pounds she gained and lost, and how you can lose all your baby weight too!