Business Mindset Mastery: Recent Episodes
Heather Gray
A daily podcast answering business mindset questions for business owners, leaders, and entrepreneurs.
Fear gets a lot of airtime, energy, and oxygen in the personal development space and most of it is needless and enabling. Sometimes, we just need a reframe. Consider this your reframe.
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The dirty side of success can sometimes be that your inner circle sees you as their personal bank. Setting boundaries on how you are willing to help and how much you are willing to help can feel messy. Communicating your limits can feel even messier. Here's how to manage it with more ease.
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As service providers, it can feel like clients have the power. It can feel like our livelihoods and our reputations depend on their satisfaction. That's not true, though. As professionals, we are responsible for our expertise and informing clients of hard things is a part of the job. Here's how to do it with less anxiety.
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The entrepreneurial space loves this phrase: Show up for yourself. But what does it even mean? Where do you start?
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When you have been coasting and things have been moving swimmingly, how do you know if it's time to make a move toward growth? How do you know whether or not you want to grow and, if you choose growth, how do you know the right direction to take?
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The personal development space spends a lot of time teaching self-esteem but how do you start to absorb it for yourself so you can actually feel worthy?
Getting to the heart of the matter, here.
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How much time are you wasting avoiding a ten minute hard conversation? Here's how to get out of your own way and on with it so you can get to the other side of hard.
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Shout Out to Mark of Beaver Hardwood for being able to have a hard conversation with me and for designing killer custom furniture.
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What do you do when you have failed to deliver? If you are a service provider and your clients have failed to achieve their promised results, a lot comes rushing at you. Today's listener had a third of his program request a refund. Here's how he can get to the other side of this unfortunate time in his business.
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When sales and revenue are decreasing and when doing your best isn't enough, things can start to feel desperate. Often, desperate feelings lead to desperate actions that only make everything worse. So, how do you represent yourself with integrity when you don't feel like you are worth that much and how do you show up for your business without giving everything away for less than you deserve? Listen in for tips on staying true to you during really reactive moments.
Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
We've all been there. Something awesome happens and suddenly we're doubting ourselves, twitching, and second-guessing ourselves, before we even allowed ourselves a chance to celebrate.
Here's how to make sense of it all.
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Every business and sales coach tells you to do it: "Charge Your Worth" but what the heck does that even mean and how do you do it without feeling bad about it?
Listen in.
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How can you tell if you're playing safe by hiding behind your non-negotiables? How do you know if you are setting yourself up to fail because of unreasonable expectations? This mindset stuff gets tricky sometimes. Allow me to unpack it so you can get on your way.
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When you've really gone and messed it up and have taken a wrecking ball to your life, it can be easier to ask others for forgiveness before you consider asking yourself. Shame festers. An inability to have self-compassion numbs you, affects your mental health, and limits the positive impact you can have in your own life and in the lives of others. Talking about shame isn't easy. Listening to advice about managing shame isn't on the top of most people's lists but self-compassion and self acceptance are crucial for healing, recovery, and fresh starts.
Stuck in a shame spiral? Feeling held back or limited by your past? I can help and we should talk. Sooner, rather than later.
First world problem, right? An inability to sit still? Perhaps. But it is a problem and an inability to sit with yourself without doing anything or an inability to relax is a problem. It's a prescription for burnout, really. If you keep going and going, you will eventually run out of drive and motivation. Your physical and mental health will start to suffer and your relationships will feel the strain, too. Listen in to learn a new perspective.
Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
How are you connecting with those who serve you? We spend a lot of time talking about client acquisition, nurturing leads, and creating meaningful connections with those we serve. When it comes to connecting with, managing, and leading a team, many bosses think they're just supposed to know what to do and they fear asking for help, concerned that their leadership will be questioned. Your relationship with your team is the most important relationship you have in your business. Listen in to learn how to be purposeful and intentional in how you relate to your team.
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What do you do when you built a business that you don't want? How do you start over? How do you choose a new direction when you are war torn and tired? Listen in for tips on starting over.
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When it comes to running businesses, Introverts, it's time to stop limiting yourselves by this self-identifier. Your introversion is not something you have to overcome. It's not something that is going to hold you back. You just need to learn how to use it to better set yourselves up for success. Tune in to listen how.
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Burnout tends to crush people when they don't see it coming. Here's how to hear the whispers and respond when it first starts to whisper at you instead of when it starts to scream.
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What if it all goes right? Fearing success isn't something people talk about and it can be hard to put a name to but it's just as real as imposter syndrome or fearing failure. You are being called to rise and become something bigger and if this hasn't happened to you before, you will find yourself in unfamiliar territory. The temptation will be to fight, flight, or freeze but if you can ignore those impulses, you will find where you are meant to be. I've tackled this tricky subject before and today, I am highlighting two episodes from the archives to get you out of your own way and on with your successful self.
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When you've gotten as far as you planned, or as far as you dared to dream, how do you decide what's next? How do you pick a new goal or decide a new dream to chase? Don't believe the entrepreneurial implications that you're just supposed to know. You're not and it's more than ok that you don't. Here are some first steps to consider and ways to walk yourself through the process so you don't just jump into something impulsively.
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Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
Need a mindset reboot? Get what you need here. Maybe you're having a hard time tuning back in to yourself or your business after an adventure-filled summer. Perhaps you're stuck in your own head and having a hard time getting out of your own way. Whatever you are bringing to the table, I've got you. Grab a pen, paper, or your laptop. This is chock-full of actionable advice you are going to want to write down.
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Putting this show on hiatus through the summer was a really big decision. While it wasn't one that I took lightly, it also wasn't one that I planned completely through before acting on. As business owners, we are called to this very thing often: making big decisions we hadn't necessarily anticipated. How do we do that with confidence? How do we trust our guts? When should we check with the peanut gallery, when do we need more research or more time, and when do we need to simply stop and act?
Today, I am using my decision with this show as an opportunity to walk you though the decision-making process so you, too, can make the decisions that are right for you and for the future of your business.
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When you see something in your business heading off course or in the wrong direction, how do you stop it? This is not the time to "let go of the outcome". It is time to control the outcome. Failure does not have to be inevitable if you're willing to make the BOSS decision.
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It's not over until it's over but when your launch seems to be tanking, it's so tempting to pack it in and hide with your gin (HA! See what I did there?) Here's how to stay the course.
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Emily Murnen of Wild Elm Events.
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When you get to the point where your business can run effectively without out you, or with very little from you, what do you do next? How do you chart your path? Listen in to figure that out.
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You're ready to grow and scale while your team is afraid of what comes next. You can get their buy in or your can part ways. I explore both options with you here.
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You can be a BOSS and an INTROVERT without getting the shakes. Here's how.
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We blame slumps on a lack of motivation but that's not why you're stuck. Listen in the find both the culprit and the solution.
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How can you tell if you're reacting to something out of fear and you just need to work through it or if it's your gut telling you that it's a really bad idea? Self-awareness is everything but when we feel up against it, we can lose sight of our judgment and of what feels right/best for us. Here's how to navigate this sticky terrain.
Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
We all phone it in from time to time and run on autopilot but businesses cannot last if we stay in that same place, doing the same thing. Once we have been checked out, though, it can be hard to check back in. This is is how.
Needing to have all the answers you start is one of the biggest mindset blocks. We all want to know where we're going but sometimes, to get to where we want to go, we have to be willing to get lost. Here's how a tift with my husband turned into a really important business lesson.
How do we set ourselves up for success? Sometimes, it's a long game but you can get a quick win or two in by doing this one thing.
Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
People can't buy from you if they don't know you exist and you can't just keep telling people who you are. You also have to show them. I had a hard time with that. Here's what I learned and how I got over a THREE YEAR mindset block.
Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
Who are you? What do you stand for? How has your life influenced those beliefs? Does your audience know? Do they know you? If they don't know you, can they buy from you? When was the last time you showed people who you are through your story? Listen in for thoughts on getting started and why it can help you beyond your bottom line.
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Mindset blocks are real and they exist. Here's how to get out of one without reading a 300 page book or watching a TED talk.
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You don't want to pimp their pain for profit but they are hurting and you have the solution. How do you let people know that you are here to ease their suffering without feeling like an ambulance chaser? Listen in to find out.
Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
When you start out on the same playing field as everyone else but then find success faster than they do, you are suddenly playing a whole different game. What do you do when they want to meet up for coffee but you no longer see value in staying in touch? How do you move on with grace and without sounding like or feeling like an a-hole? It's one heck of an awkward conversation. Here's how to have it.
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I stepped in it last week. I said some things here on the show and on social media that offended people who follow me. I talk about it here and hopefully model how to address the dust ups that will inevitably occur if you're truly going to be authentic and speak your truth.
Memberships and subscription products are the holy grail for business owners but behind the curtain, they are a lot of work. Owners put tremendous pressure on themselves to over-deliver in a misguided attempt to avoid churn. There's a way to make your membership work for you without sucking your soul but you're going to have to stop working so hard and start working differently. Get started here.
Sometimes, it just doesn't work out. Here's how to have a hard conversation with more ease.
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You only have one chance to make a good first impression. Here's how to connect, engage, and invite customers in for more.
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How we do one thing is how we do everything, right? That includes how we start and end our days. I recently got off track and back pedaled a bit. Here's what I learned and how I got back on track.
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If you want to own a business, dealing with competition is non-negotiable. Listen in to learn how to rise to the occasion like the BOSS that you are.
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We all know about staying in our own lane. It doesn't stop us from feeling what we feel when we look left or right and see someone with the life or business we want. Here's how to manage the discomfort and use it to your advantage.
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Here's how to stop working for free. Maybe you're tempted to give people a taste test of what it would be like to work with you. The exposure carrot may be getting dangled for you...you're being told that helping others will get more eyes on your business. You might be afraid to be the bad guy, to say no to a request for help out of worry about how it might look. Regardless of how you find yourself here, listen in to learn how to get out.
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You've got to get it done but you're just not moving. Here's how to figure out what's really up with your inaction and how to get back on track.
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When someone you love needs you and your business needs you, it can feel like the walls are caving in. I've been there. Here's how to find your way with it all. Lessons from my experience. Hope it helps.
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What's the real deal when it comes to mindset? I have to warn you, it has nothing to do with believing that you are a badass or washing your face. Ready to get honest with me?
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"Authenticity" is the the new "hustle" but it's also unchartered territory for many entrepreneurs. When you share something, you end up managing your consumer's reactions to your story. If your emotions haven't been unpacked yet, that can be a lot on top of an already heavy load. Here's how to clean up from the fallout after you have shared more than you were ready to publicly deal with.
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Pricing is personal. Listen in to learn how to know and own your worth unapologetically so you can stand behind your price with confidence.
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Our businesses can be such great places to hide and avoid dealing with hard things. After all, there is always something to do. There is a risk and danger to numbing out and tuning out from our personal lives, though. Checking back in with ourselves, though, can be an intimidating process. Here's how to do it so you still feel in control.
There's a difference between being the boss and bossing others. It's a milestone for a business when it's time to make the first big hire but it's also an intimidating prospect for the owner. Here's how to navigate this transition with confidence.
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When a team member brings the heat, bosses feel like they have struck gold. What do you do, though, when a team member's enthusiasm becomes a distraction and interrupts the big picture? You don't want to curb their enthusiasm but you do need it to have some control. This is a hard conversation. Here's how to have it.
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When it comes to your personal business, how much should your team know? What boundaries should exist between bosses and their team members? How do you make this decision for yourself? You want to be professional and you want to empower your team with what they need to know to support your business. This is tricky business. Listen in for help finding your way with it all.
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Whether or not we're as successful as we want to be often comes down to knowing what we're willing to do for what we want. Taking it one step further, it comes down to whether or not we are willing to do one specific thing. Do this one thing and you could be more successful than you are today by tomorrow.
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The pressure to "network" at conferences can make it harder to connect. Here's how to get out of your own way.
Mentioned in this episode: Introverts BOSSing
People like to tell us we have a mindset problem as soon as we talk about something being hard or confusing but is it really mindset? How are we supposed to know? Can't a bad day just be a bad day sometimes? Can't the problem be the strategy and not how we think about the strategy? Unpacking all of this and more in today's episode. Join me. Need my help? Let's connect.
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If you mess it all up to the tune of $10K, you are bound to feel bad. Especially when your spouse will feel the pinch, too. How do you get out from under all that you didn't know? How do you forgive yourself, accept, move on and how do you get your spouse to understand and forgive you?
This is a lot. I am tackling it today so listen in.
Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
When we first start our businesses, we have no idea what our businesses are really going to ask of us. Nor do we know the opportunities that might find us that we never thought to expect. When business opportunities collide with family needs, our partners are going to have a reaction and it might not always be the supportive kind we hope for. Here's how to respond to keep your family on track and you might not need to compromise your business to do it.
Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
We're inundated with encouragement (pressure?) to seek wealth and success unapologetically.. What happens, though, when once you do, you feel as though you are leaving those you love most behind? How do you respond when your ability to help more and to support more make others feel bad about what they are unable to do?
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"I can't" ."Now isn't the right time". "I really wanted to but..." Sound familiar? We all get discouraged from time to time. We all have to make compromises that leave us with disappointment. However, when we dwell on our disappointment, we miss out on what's possible. It's easier said than done, though, so today we're diving in to how you can stop looking at the closed door so you can find that open window.
Hiring someone is supposed to make your life easier. It's supposed to let you focus on your zone of genius. But if you don't take care of business when hiring, it makes everything harder. Here's how to avoid hiring pitfalls and build a rockstar team because rockstar teams don't happen by accident.
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When you run an internet business, it can feel like your doors are permanently open. There can be immense pressure to be on all the time, engaging, commenting, and connecting. Here's how to turn off so you can stay in it for the long haul.
Also mentioned in this episode: Smash Hit Sales Show
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When working for someone, in order to get from where you are to where you want to be, your boss has to see you and your potential. You don't have to just wait for it to happen, though. Here's how to get in the driver's seat of your professional life when you're not running the show.
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I almost deleted yesterday's show. I said something I hadn't planned on saying and immediately wanted to take it back. I wanted to delete the episode, start over, and forget it all happened. I didn't, though.
Why? Because I didn't say anything yesterday that wasn't true. I was just nervous about how it was going to be received, what people would think of me, and how it might impact my business and ability to market myself.
Real fears but also real truth. So, I didn't delete yesterday's show and today, I talk to you about how you, too, can back away from the delete button for yourself.
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"Am I there yet?" "I can't believe I am still here." "I thought I would have this all figured out by now." "Why is this all still so hard?
Sound familiar? Business owners put crazy amounts of pressure on themselves sometimes to have it all figured out, to have "arrived", if you will. Why is it so hard to feel settled sometimes and how can you ever really tell if you are there yet?
Tired of being in this struggle with yourself? I think I can help.
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You've heard it all before: you have to take a seat at the table. You have to use your voice. Here's my take on how you can do that without losing your mind.
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"If you don't like your fate, change it..." We hear things like this all the time in the personal development space but sometimes, it's just BS. The person saying it has no idea the struggle you are carrying or how you would do anything to change it, if you could. Sometimes, your reality is going to be an immovable object in your life that cannot be fixed. Your perspective and your response to it remain in your control, though. No matter what you are living with right now or how much you are hurting, your reality does not have to become your excuse. I promise. Here's how.
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If you're in it to win it, you're in it for the long game. Too many people manage their mindset to push through a hard day or a hard week. Their thinking is entirely too short term. It's time to prioritize your mindset for long term entrepreneurship. Grab your notebook, take stock, and get yourself set up for better success.
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How do you make a change when you still need to make a regular and consistent income? Yes, you need to consider your income and financial responsibilities they aren't the only things you should be considering.
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We can't have healthy relationships, personally or professionally, until we have a healthy relationship with ourselves. Starting an important conversation here and I am hoping you'll join me for it.
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Life sucker punches us at times. Other times, we choose the hard thing because of what we want on the other side of a hard choice. Either way, we can do hard things. We just don't always know how.
Mentioned in the show: I Can Do Hard Things
Question for the show? Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
The state of online communities has everyone rolling their eyes but we're not really talking about it. A group's success depends on the group leader and its members. Here are some things to think about for a successful group.
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We can hear about it until we are blue in the face: "Do what you love and you'll never work another day in your life." Those of us who have been at this a while know that's not entirely true. Here's how to think about it differently.
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We hear it all the time: "Everything you want is on the other side of your comfort zone."What if everything you want is actually inside of it? Listen in for help with sorting it all out.
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When your new path doesn't require that piece of paper your old path did, people can have a lot of opinions about your choices. It doesn't matter what they think but it really matters what you think. Here's how to wrestle with it and land solidly where you're supposed to.
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Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
Yesterday, we chatted about maintaining a steady mindset during the famine or drought. Here's how to stay steady when it all goes incredibly right and you experience a flood in your business.
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We know that entrepreneurship comes with ups and downs. The key to managing it is to keep your mindset steady no matter how the tides are turning. Here's how to manage perspective during tough times and stay tuned tomorrow for guidance on staying steady when it all comes flooding in.
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When you think of yourself as disorganized, forgetful, and easily distracted, it can be hard to think of yourself and see yourself as a boss. If you're struggling with ADD, you can still be a boss. You just have to change the ending to your story. This is how.
Question for the show?
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Before being BOSSes, we're human. Sometimes, as humans, we hurt, we struggle, and we lose our way. Sometimes it's not just about not having the right mindset. Sometimes, it's about not having the right kind of help., knowing how to find the right help, or knowing if the help you're getting is actually helping.
Use this episode as a guide for finding what's right for you.
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When a boss abuses power, it's hard to know where to go., what to do, or what to say. I don't pretend to be the be all or end all to this conversation but I am hoping to shed a light on how to find the right response for you.
No, you don't need a homeless in a white van story in order to get new clients to be interested in you but you do need to connect. Here's how.
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You've heard it said: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them". How, then, do you show up so that potential leads and clients believe you?
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You heard me talking yesterday about business owners who've made big investments in coaching, mentorship., and programs but still have no businesses to show for it. Consumer responsibility and business accountability both play a role here. When you've done your due diligence and end up disappointed, deciding how to respond can be tricky business. Here's how to approach this while respecting yourself and your business investment.
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There's an epidemic in the online business space. People are dropping thousands of dollars on coaching. group programs, and memberships and have NOTHING to show for it...no businesses, no audience of warm leads, just a few scraggly dollars coming in from here or there but no consistent income stream. People are ranting about it (I know I was) people are calling it out in "provocative" posts but few are confronting it or teaching business owners what to do instead. I hope you'll see a new perspective here so you can stop the madness and build the business you dream of.
Ouch, right? This one just hurts. We're told to ignore our haters but when they are our flesh and blood, it just doesn't work that way. Here's how to get out from under the pain and sadness and find your way to the other side. You don't have to do this alone. If you are trying to make peace with your past, I would really like to help. Use this link to book in a call. I can learn your story, share ways I can help, and help you find your way.
...this is what I would do differently. Where I went wrong and what I would do instead.
The marketing and messaging for creatives and makers is totally skewed and sets those wanting to make a living selling their art feel like they have to take a different road than the rest of us. Rather than catering to the creative part, artisans need to focus on the business part when thinking about cash injection, revenue building, and financial start. I'd like to think I am changing the conversation here for you creative types. Listen in and then let me know how I did by writing to: Heather@HeatherGrayConsulting.com
What do you do if you don't know where you want to go or what you want to be? So often, we are led to believe that we don't start out until we know our destination. It's common sense advice but it doesn't always work.
Vollume Six, Episode One of Chef's Table with Mashama Bailey on Netflix illustrated it for me. In today's episode, I take the inspiration from that episode and offer the entrepreneurial lessons we could all use.
Sometimes, it's not a pivot. Sometimes, you just become more yourself. That's what went down with me and how Choose to Have it All.com became Heather Gray Consulting. That's right. New name, more me. Curious as to how I got here and what it took to make the change? Listen in.
Thinking about working with me? Let's chat.
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Life happens. We lose people. We know this. But running our businesses through the grieving process can feel like trudging through mud...uphill..in the dark...while it's still raining.
You get the point. It can feel impossible to find your way out. Here's a guidepost for starting. If you need more direction, don't hesitate to reach out: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Too often, we wait to do the thing until we feel confident, not realizing that we're not going to actually feel confident until we go and do the thing, right? Here's how to get out from under all of that to find the confidence you seek.
Interested in working with me on this? Schedule a time to chat about your goals and how I might be able to help.
There are a lot of secrets to success but this one might be the least expected. Listen in for the dish.
Depression's arrow does not leave business owners unscathed. It hits and hurts us, too. As action takers, we want to do something about it but what are you supposed to do? What does taking action on your depression even mean? What does it look like?
Well, it looks a little bit like this. Listen in for the start of the conversation and, if you need to, I invite you to schedule a chat with me to continue doing the work with trained support and guidance. Here's the link to do just that.
Want to keep the conversation going on the show? Ask here: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
You don't need me to puff you up with reminders that you are fierce, strong, and capable. You need to start believing it for yourself.
Start by listening here. Then, we should talk.
You don't need a complicated funnel and you can keep the strategy simple. Get back to the basics of connecting with leads online with good, old-fashioned common sense. If you're lost and in the weeds, spinning circles, try this.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Personal development books will only get you so far. At some point, if you want to change-or if you want your life or business to change- you have to do something. But figuring out what that is can be intimidating.
Start here. Then, consider sharing your stuck spot by writing into the show with a Q: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Let's be real. It's not just that you are a worrier. You don't just have imposter syndrome. You have and suffer from anxiety. There. We said it? Did the world end? Did it all come crashing down? No.
But you do need to learn how to treat it. Listen in for a place to start but this is going to be some hard work. I am ready to do it with you.
Use this link to schedule a time to chat. I can get to know you, your struggles, and we can decide the best treatment option for you.
Want to have the conversation on the show? Send your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Everyone likes to tell you that failures and mistakes are just lessons but how do you find the lessons? How are you supposed to know what you are supposed to be learning from them?
Is it time for us to talk about working together? Let's Talk and Find Out.
Ready to just get to work? Book yourself in here.
Just have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
"At any point in time, we get to say 'This is not how my story is going to end' " but what does that look like in real life? How do we actually do that? Digging in to the topic with practical, actionable advice you can implement today.
Need my help? Let's start re-writing that story of yours together.
Book yourself in right here and start getting out of your own way now.
If you're doing all you can but still feel in the dumps, you might need to change your approach. Listen in for a new way to attack an old problem.
Question for the show? Heather@chooseothaveitall.com
Nothing creates self-doubt faster than a lack of engagement with things you're putting out there. If you are showing up and putting yourself out there but are only being met with crickets, you might need to change your messaging. Here's the question you need to ask yourself and how to better connect.
Feedback for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
I have built a business and a brand on the idea that happiness is a choice. Yet. for some people, they are striving to achieve it every day but, despite their best intentions, they hurt, suffer, and struggle. Depression is a beast and it often gets simplified, overlooked, or ignored in the mindset conversation. I am starting the conversation here to bring it into the light. I hope you'll join me in continuing it by sharing your story with me : Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Life can sucker punch us at any moment. Those of us who run businesses are not immune or exempt from this. We have to prepare for these times by implementing tools and strategies into our businesses. Start here.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
You don't have to change games or even teams. Sometimes, you just need a different strategy.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Sometimes, the reason we're not succeeding is because of us. Learn the top ten ways you're interfering with your bottom line and ways to stop.
After listening, if you need my help to get from where you are to where you want to be, use this link to book an introductory call.
If you are ready to jump and in a start working right away, use this link to book in directly and get started.
You know your stuff. You have gotten your reps in. Why then, do you keep getting passed over in favor of people who've been in the game for 1/2 the time? It has less to do with what they're doing and more to do on what you're not doing. Listen in to learn more.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Being on the receiving end of someone else's boundaries can be pretty uncomfortable. Sitting in the natural consequence of our failing is always going to hurt. You might not find peace with those you've hurt but this is how you can find peace with yourself.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Sometimes, they really need you and sometimes, at the worst possible time, you just don't have it to give. Managing this messiness comes with heartache, confusion, and struggle. Here's how to navigate your way through it.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
If being your own boss and living your life on your own terms is supposed to be soooo amazing, why do you sometimes find yourself looking backwards with longing?
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
You get used to turnover in corporate life but when you have built a personal brand and someone quits your team, it can feel really different. It feels personal. Here's how to manage it like a BOSS.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
We hear it all the time: "Let it be easy" but that can sometimes be the hardest thing to accept and do. Listen in to see what I am talking about and learn a few tips for how to get started.
Question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Rocky says it best in this pivotal scene. But how do you actually get back up when something has rocked your foundation?
Have a sports analogy you want me to help you take action on? Send your ideas to me! Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Sometimes, a quick fix comes down to answering a single question and planning accordingly. This is how to get out from under whatever is weighing you down.
We all hear bad advice from time to time. But some advice is given on repeat and all it does is breed failure. Here's how to look at the thing you hear over and over again differently.
Have a listen and let me know what you think:
Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
We could easily call this episode #AWKWARD and I am not even one to ever speak in hashtags! This is a hard conversation, though--what do you do when the people who love you aren't the people you want to serve? Hard and awkward isn't a reason not to have the conversation. Here's how to find your way with grace.
Even after talking about it all week, their can still be misconceptions about what boundaries are and aren't and what they do and don't do. Myth busting is live and well is this conclusion to the series. I do hope you have found value in this week's series and would appreciate you using the link below to financially support and contribute to the show.
The hardest people to set boundaries with are often the people who are closest to us. Hard conversations don't have to mean impossible conversations. Here's how to find your way for your personal well being and for the health of your relationships.
Welcome to the Boundaries Masterclass Series. Have a question for the show? Ask: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
We often fail to set boundaries because we don't think anyone will follow them, anyway. That's true but it's not a reason not to protect yourself. You can armor up here with words and responses for what to say and what to do the next time someone encroaches on your limits.
Welcome to the Boundaries Masterclass Series. If you have a question about setting boundaries in your own life and business, please share and keep the conversation going: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Episode Two of Boundaries Masterclass series.
When your boundaries are repeatedly violated, it's easy to point at the offenders but your control over the situation lies within you. Here's how to find it and use it.
Welcome to this week-long series. If you have a question about boundaries in your own life or business, please write in: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
You can't get far on a personal development journey without somebody preaching about boundaries. They are, after all, integral to the foundation of our personal and professional satisfaction. It's hard to go back to the towing the line after you've gone lax. Here's how to get back on track.
Welcome to Episode One of the Boundaries Masterclass Series here on Business Mindset Mastery. Tune in all week for important conversations. Have a question about a personal boundary situation in your life or business? Ask: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Yes, we can add "heavy" to the list of entrepreneurial buzzwords that make us want to roll our eyes a bit. Those buzzwords "buzz" for a reason, though...because things do get heavy, hard, and intimidating. This is how to sort it out so you can find your way.
Ok, let's be honest. We don't all want to live that Instagram perfect life but we do want to be as happy for real as they seem to be in our feeds. I think I figured out their secret sauce and I am sharing it with you. Hint: It's really not about the money. It's about everything that comes before the money.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Yes, you. The one who thinks Getting Sht Done is the gold standard for how to live--I am talking to you because I am* you. I want you to learn from me so you don't repeat my mistakes.
Some clients nail it out of the park, seemingly with very little effort on our parts. Others, though, struggle and limp their way toward the finish line and never manage to get there. As a business owner, you get to decide what happens next for your business. Listen in to be guided through the process.
Interested in having me offer mindset consultations to your students or group members? Let's talk. Book in a call so we can discuss how we can best set your clients up for greater success.
Whether we like it or not, fear is going to grab us by the horns sometimes. What we do next either makes us smaller or makes us grow as business owners. Here's how to come out on the right side of that equation.
Question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When life gets hard and stays hard, what's a mentally tough person to do? You don't just keep taking it on the chin, I promise you that.
Today's episode is a 60 minute masterclass in mental toughness. If you listen in and agree with its value, I ask that you consider using the link below to support the show.
At some point, your success will become visible to others and you'll have to own it in a whole new way. Here's how to be unapologetic about your success and wealth. Not an easy conversation but an important one.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
As soon as you put yourself out there, someone is going to have an opinion about it. Trolls are the worst but they don't have to break us. Here's how to break the control they have over you.
Question for the show?: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When we are just spinning our wheels and in a pile of frustration, it's hard to see our options. Instead of sitting and spinning, you have two options. Listen in as I lay them out.
Resources mentioned in the show:
Minimum Viable Marketing Strategies
Minimum Viable Marketing Book by Brandi Johnson
Business ownership comes with making hard choices and we really can't please everybody. Disappointing people in business is inevitable. Here's how to let them down easy.
Question for the show?: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When you're just starting out and are trying to build a following, it's easy to be tempted by visibility opportunities. You want to make sure, though, that you are only saying yes to things that are truly in your best interest.
Here's how to see what's best so you can weed out the rest. (See what I did there?)
Question for the show?: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
There's always a peanut gallery out there wanting to offer their opinions on what you should be doing and how to best set your business up for success. Ideas don't have to be your own to be great or worth pursuing but it can be hard deciding which ideas are for you and which are just not your thing. Here's a new way of sorting it out.
Need my eyes on your business? Can I help you find your way with something? Need help making the decisions that will move your bottom line?
Book an introductory call. I'd love to meet you and learn more about your business.
It isn't easy going against the fray and saying what needs to be said. It can be hard waiting for the push back you might inevitably face. Those aren't reasons to keep quiet when hard truths need to be spoken. Here's out to speak out without picking a fight.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
You know you want it. You might even know you can achieve it but have you really given yourself permission to have it?
Gut check time. Check in with yourself and see what you find. It just might be the obstacle standing in the way of you and your success.
Q for the show?
Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When you start our together but one of you springs ahead of the pack, it can be awkward and uncomfortable but it doesn't have to be. Here's how to preserve your relationship by bringing the elephant into the middle of the room and talking about it.
Don't worry. I've got your back. Listen together and say what needs to be said.
Question for the show?
Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
The health of our business often depends on the health of our lives and relationships. While we like to think of our work lives and personal lives as mutually exclusive and it would be easy to say that "we don't talk about this stuff on this show", it would be wrong to do so.
Our relationships matter and we have to take care of them, even if it means we take 20 minutes to talk about them instead of business.
Question for the show? If it's affecting your bottom line, it matters to me.
Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Depression is a human condition that entrepreneurs and business owners are not immune from, no matter how positive they might be. When the buck stops with you but you feel like crap, how do you lead? How do you take care of yourself and your business?
First step? You accept my offer for help.
Here's the link to book a call with me to learn how my experience can get you to the other side.
Second step? Listen in.
Sure, your ambition might be intimidating to some but that's not why you're single. You just have to start dating like a BOSS. Listen in to learn how.
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Once you have that first wave of consistent success, it's so easy to start fearing that it can all go away in an instant. Here's the thing. It can go away. That isn't a reason not to do it but you have to learn how to deal with it. Listen in to learn how.
Referenced in this episode:
Profit First
What do you do when you care about more than one thing so deeply? How do you make room for multiple passions? Is it possible to split your focus or do you really need to go all in on one thing for it to be successful? How do you decide? That's where we find ourselves in today's episode. Listen in.
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Easier said than done, right? What you really need to know is how to stop fighting with your partner about your business. Dive in to day's episode so you can learn the strategies you need for more successful communication about your business,
Can I help. Book an introductory call with me. Working with me, you can streamline this whole thing and find resolution much faster than on your own.
You can want it as much as the next person but sometimes, BOSSing just isn't for you. What do you do, then? Are you supposed to give up your dreams for more lifestyle and financial freedom? Are you destined to work for the man? Not so fast there, not so fast. You have options and here, I lay them out.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
We know. We know. The online industry is an awful place filled with people who don't belong here and only got here because the barrier of entry was too damned low. There are sleazy people who lack integrity and steal our best content. There are folks that sell snake oil but what are we, the people with integrity, supposed to do about it? We can't just keep screaming at windmills. We have to take back our control and it starts here.
Question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Facebook groups were all the rage and, at one point, were the quick, guaranteed path to quick riches. You could build that know, like, and trust factor so quickly, and then POOF! Instant fans. But we're all a bit jaded now and burnt out from them. Many business owners are questioning their group participation and ownership. Here's how to decide if it is right got you.
When you're anxious for a win or quick success, it is tempting to abandon who you are "just this one time" but that one time can become an ugly pattern. That is what happened to me. I share my experience here so you might learn from it and not repeat it.
Our letter writer from How to Get Control of Your To Do List is back with one powerhouse of an update. This is how you go from overwhelm to what's next.
We're revisiting our letter writer from How to Respond to Well Meaning Criticism and learning what happened next. This listener follow-up doesn't go as expected but I think it has the right ending for the situation. If we're lucky, maybe she'll share her next chapter with us, too, once that chapter has been written.
OOF! Our inner critics can be nasty people sometimes and those limiting beliefs can hold us captive and keep us frozen for ages. I have a simple tactic for kicking your inner critic to the curb. Join me in today's episode to learn what I am talking about.
Business ownership doesn't always go as planned. Neither does life. Sometimes we brace ourselves for it to all fall apart and it goes awesome. Other times, we are imagining nothing but sunshine and rainbows and we find ourselves in a pile of disappointment.
Understanding those emotional reactions and making sense of them so we can write accurate stories for ourselves will always be a challenge. Here's how and where to start.
You made the promise. You set the goal. You decided. Good for you. Now, here's how to make sure you actually follow up.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Helicopter Bosses, Bosses that change expectations, Bosses that expect 24/7 support-- What to do so you don't lose your mind.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When it's all good, why you should you want more and what if you do? Navigating this can be and feel tricky. We are only limited by how big we are willing to dream. Here's how to dream bigger.
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Lost? Here's how to find your way back to you again.
Perhaps I can help: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Anyone can set a goal or make a resolution. Here's how to make a decision about what happens next for you, your life, and your business. Need more clarity? Send your Qs to: Heather@choosetohaveitall,com
Before you start fresh, you have to clear out the cobwebs. You can't start anew carrying dead weight around. Here's how to let go and find acceptance.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Why does it seem that everyone else is always more productive than you are? How can you start getting sh*t done? Yes, you have to get organized but you also have to get right with your mindset. Here's how.
It's not always about making one big change or setting one big goal. Sometimes, it's about choosing small actions that can lead to big change. If you're hurting, struggling, or lost, I've got you. Right here. Right now. You and me. Together. Get comfy and listen in. You are not alone.
...Is How You Do Everything
Turning the quotable into coachable and maybe a little desperate for your questions! Send them on in: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
"Life freedom" is a phrase that entrepreneurs love to wax poetic about but when you want it and don't have it, how do you know what the steps are to get it? It's a little bit like love. When you're in it, you know it. Here's how to get more of it for yourself.
Being positive doesn't mean you never get to have a bad day. It simply means that you choose to believe that things will get better from where they are right now. Being in a funk isn't easy and sometimes you do have to be in it for a while before the light can shine in. I hope this episode serves as that light.
Too often, the conversation around mindset simply centers around daring to live our big lives. The dream part is inspiring, of course, but nothing changes by just talking about and encouraging dreaming. We have to have the conversation about what it takes for dreams to come true. This is that conversation.
Sitting with hard questions and hard feelings is on no one's bucket list but to get to the dream lives and businesses we want for ourselves, we have to do it. Here's how to do it without losing your mind.
Is manifesting for real? Yes. But there's a trick to it.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Once more... for the people in the back. How to show up unapologetically as you are.
Previous episode mentioned: How to Stop Censoring Yourself- https://anchor.fm/heather-gray/episodes/How-to-Stop-Censoring-Yourself-e2l8ie
We've all heard it: "You charge what?" "How do you get away with charging that?" "People really pay you for that?" It can feel like you are just taking a beating but you don't have to. Here's how to handle objections to your pricing.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohavetoall.com Think we should work together? https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
In a being human conversation, what do you do when their bad mood suddenly becomes your fault? How do you respond when they take whatever is wrong in their life out on you? You don't have to take it. You don't have to skip it. You can still love and support them without allowing yourself to be the fall guy. Here's how.
Need my help with your tough situation? Let's chat: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
Link to When Partner Blames You for Their Stress: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/deal-partner-blames-stress/
They'll consume your free content. They'll participate in your group. They'll get on your list. They'll sing your praises but they'll never buy from you. As a business owner, it comes with the territory but there is also something you can do about it. Listen in.
You have a hot lead. You're so close to the sale and then....POOF! They're gone. Why does this happen and as a business owner, what can you do about it?
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
"We don't get overwhelmed when we don't know what to do. We get overwhelmed when we don't know what to do next." Success brings us a lot of things, a lot of great things. It also brings us a lot to do. How we respond to all of that determines the health of our business' future. Here's how to BOSS your business so it doesn't BOSS you.
Everything is Google-able. That means, you are, too. How do you get ahead of it and how do you respond when clients or consumers find out information about you that you'd rather they didn't know? How do you overcome who you used to be if no one ever lets you forget it?
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
What do you do when you hate your business and hate running it, too? It can feel like a meltdown of epic proportions. You might feel trapped. Here's how to find the light at the end of the tunnel.
Can I help you get there faster? Book a call with me and let's find out: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
How are you setting the new year up for success? If you've got no clue, start here.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
What do you do when managing your staff members is harder than just doing it yourself. You might just want to bulldoze through and do it, yourself. That isn't the BOSS move, though. Try this, instead.
We all dream of hitting liquid gold but what happens after? Sometimes, we're not prepared for that part. Listen in for next steps.
If I can help, I'd love to support you in this, or whatever you might be struggling with as a listener. Let's connect and get to know one another: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
What would it be like if you could be "automatically you" without hesitation? To say what you think or to act without worry of what others might think or do? It could change everything. Here's how to start.
Your life and your business relies heavily on YOU. Are you taking care of yourself? Are you tuning in? Paying attention to the warning signs? For the sake of your life, your relationships, and your business, listen in.
Does Shiny Object Syndrome always have to be a bad thing? Can it ever serve a purpose? It depends on your intentions. Here's how to sort all of that out.
My recent episode on self-sabotage sparked important conversations. Someone asked as a follow up: what if we don't know why we are self-sabotaging. Spoiler alert: It doesn't matter. Here's what to do next.
Question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When you're building a business, there's a lot to do...but what exactly, are you supposed to be doing??? If you have never run a business, you really might now know! This is how you figure it out.
When it looks like you're always working, how do you explain that to your kids? How do you help them see your effort is building their future? Parent guilt can take hold sometimes. Here's how to get out from under it.
Other links: How to Explain to Loved Ones Why You Have to Work So Much https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/how-to-explain-to-loved-ones-why-you-have-to-work-so-much/
Mom Guilt: How to Deal, How to Heal: https://anchor.fm/heather-gray/episodes/Mom-Guilt-How-to-Deal--How-to-Heal-e202c9
The business space loves to wax poetic about gratitude but the teaching of it often misses the mark. Yes, be grateful but REAL gratitude is about more than a hashtag. Understand it better so you can use it better.
How do you know when it's time to simply admit it isn't working? How do you know when quitting time is? This is not an easy conversation but if things are not working for you or your business, you do need to ask yourself some hard questions. Start here.
Like it or not, the days are getting darker and colder and the reality of seasonal blues is upon us. Winter depression doesn't have to be inevitable. You just need to armor up and prepare. Here's how.
Entrepreneurs love to puff themselves up with a lot of big talk. Sometimes, though, it's the big talk that gets in the way of real action.
When you have been at the business building thing for a while, it's easy to burn out, lose your way, and question whether or not you want to even own a business. How can you tell if that is burnout talking or your truth?
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
"The riches are in the niches". We hear it all the time but when we'd be perfectly happy serving anyone so long as we get to do the thing we love, how do you decide who to serve?
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Blindspots: We all have them but how we are supposed to tackle the things we can't see? How do we know which limiting belief we need to unravel and which we can simply let me. Self awareness is everything. Here's how to find your way with this tricky beast.
When you don't want what everyone else seems to want, how do you define success for yourself? We're told all the time that "success means different things to different people" but is that really true? How do you know what to go after and what to let pass?
Self-sabotage is such a tricky beast. You'd think that once you identified it, you could just stop it, right? Not so much. At least that wasn't true for me. Sharing my own story of getting in my own way so that you can get out of yours.
Help me continue the conversation by submitting your thoughts: Heather@chooosetohaveitall.com
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Business owners who deliver all of their services without first being paid for all of their services are setting themselves up to fail and to go out of business. BOSSING your business means protecting your business' greatest asset... you. However, when your business is based on your personal brand...that conversation can feel, well, personal.
Here's how to insure that you are never the one left holding the bag and if you are, how to have that conversation so you can be paid for your time and service.
You can know your s**t and still be unwilling to move. Resistance is an overused word in the mindset space but we're tackling it here today so you change can be easier for you tomorrow.
Work with me: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/power60 Send your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When we burn it all down and clearly decide "Not This", we can think the hard part is done. But breaking down what isn't working can often be easier than rebuilding. Here's how to tackle this intimidating process with less fear.
Links mentioned in show:
"Not This" by Elizabeth Gilbert: https://www.facebook.com/GilbertLiz/posts/not-this-back-by-popular-demandsweet-friends-for-some-mysterious-reason-that-i-s/1004594839622631/
Ask me a Q: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Life is hard sometimes. Here's how to make it less hard.
Let me know what you think: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
We tell ourselves stories that success isn't complicated. We just need to take action. We just need to do our best. But we know that isn't true. Success can come with "stuff" sometimes. Here's how to unpack it so you can get to where you're going.
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Everything you want really is on the other side of your fear. Here's how you get there.
Question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
What do you do when you're doing all the things, but it just isn't working. When your best isn't proving to be enough, it's time to pause, take stock, and make a plan for what's next. Listen in to learn how.
Can I help you get back on track? If you are stuck, an outside perspective might just be what you need to get from where you are to where you want to go. Let's chat and get to know one another: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
Ignore the lemonade from lemons. You don't have to find the sunny side of the street. If you need a new attitude about your day, start here.
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
So many mindset struggles stem from a lack of self-acceptance. If you stop running, you have the opportunity to stop and rewrite your story. Here's how to start.
Q for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
How do you sell your products or services confidently when your business isn't making very much money? How do you represent your experience when the lack of sales makes it feel like you are lying? It can feel tricky but it really isn't.
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
If you don't want to crush it, if you don't want to dream bigger, if you're really good with what you've got, does that mean you have a mindset problem? Is contentment too close to phoning it in or the status quo? How can you tell if playing smaller means that you have a mindset problem?
Have a question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
I ask clients all the time: "How are you showing up for your life and business?" What do I even mean by that? What does it look like and where do you start?
Tune in to find out. Send your thoughts, stories, and questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When you did your best and your best wasn't good enough, what do you do next? How do you decide to want something else when you haven't stopped wanting the dream that didn't work out. You can't just pull a new "why" or a new business out of the sky. You have to go through a process. I walk you through it here.
When it's been months since you've felt motivation and it's been six months since you have taken action to get the life and business you want, how do you get going again? How do you get out of your own way? You used to be successful. How do you find that success a second time around?
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
How do you get your spouse to buy into your entrepreneurial dreams? When you need to invest in your business from household funds, how do you get buy in? How do you have that conversation?
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When you can't say what it is you do out loud, it might be time to pivot. How do you risk a change when your family and your income is dependent on your business? It's time to slow it down and break it down into manageable steps. Listen in>
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Miss Independent, Mr. Independent, I am talking to you. If doing it all on your own and relying on nothing and no one but you isn't working, there is a path toward more connectedness and less isolation. It isn't easy and it does involve some risk but there is also risk in maintaining this status quo and in staying as you are. Looking for first steps in a new direction? Have a listen.
Also., spoiler alert, you don't have to do it alone. I might be able to help. Here's a link for an introductory call: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
When everywhere you turn, someone else is offering a new answer to your business woes, how do you decide what your business actually needs? How can you tell if it even needs anything at all? We have to be willing to invest in our businesses and in ourselves if we want to grow but how do we choose the right investment for us?
Resource listed in the show: Tom Sylvester- https://tomandariana.com/work-with-us/
Once you think "Hey, could this be a business?...", what do you do next? Where do you start? Ideas are exciting but what comes after can be intimidating. Here's how to choose your next steps.
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When you land the big client and 35% of your income depends on keeping said client happy, how do you relax? How do you calm the fears that at any moment, it can all just go away?
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You know mindset comes down to the fact that you are the one getting in your own way. Learn how to step aside by listening in and how I can help by clicking this link for an introductory call: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
When you have gone and mucked it up in a fit of frenetic, disjointed energy, what do you do next? How do you get back on track?
Have a question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
How can you tell if you are taking imperfect action or just acting like a hot mess in your business? It might just come down to this one thing.
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When you have to learn all the things, how are you supposed to get right with your mind? You know that you need mindset but what does that even mean? Start here.
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One question every online entrepreneur needs to ask themselves in order to avoid most of the mindset wobbles they're having.
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What do you do when it works better than you imagined? When an idea unexpectedly takes off and is bigger than you imagined, you can feel a wave of pressure to be a certain way and to quickly develop the next thing. It can lead to intense pressure. Here's how to find your way.
I also can help you 1:1. Book an intro call with me to learn more: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
Entrepreneurs love to hype themselves with messaging about the sacrifices and commitment it takes to be an entrepreneur. We like to separate ourselves from the pack with that imagery. It can be powerful but it can also be pressure. It can make the dream we're building feel like just another job, and who wants that? Here's how to eliminate the pressure of entrepreneurship so you can decide for yourself what it means for you, on your terms.
When you goals are reserved for "someday", they are so easy to push further down on the list when things get busy. But if you never start, you never get there. How do you press go on something that doesn't exist yet?
Living Unapologetically is the latest catch phrase in personal development but what does it even mean? If we're being honest, it sounds rather arrogant and entitled, right? Let me break it down so it can make sense for you.
Have a question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
We love to ask and learn about the best advice ever received or given, don't we? That's today's show. Listen in to find out the best piece of advice I have ever received and how I accept the challenge of offering the same in return.
When you're ready to go bigger, it can be so exciting...until the doubts and second-guessing starts. Then, you realize...wherever you go, there you are. How do you uplevel your mindset to compliment the upleveled business you desire? Tune in to find out.
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Are our clients entitled to know our income and bottom line? If we have businesses that are intended to help other businesses make more money, are we required to show our numbers? How much transparency do we owe? If we are not making certain numbers, ourselves, does that mean we can't help others do it for themselves?
Tough questions today. No easy answers. Have a question of your own?
Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
How do you show up online and in social media when you are insecure about your appearance? Haters are real and they are gonna hate, right, Taylor? So, what do you do about it? How do you get yourself to show up as you are, unapologetically and with confidence? It isn't easy but here's where you start.
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
How do you sell your services to someone who is seemingly more successful than you are? How do you stand tall in your talent and worth instead of playing small and timid? It's all about telling yourself a new story about who you are and what you deserve. Listen in.
Nightmare clients are all the rage. It's so easy to blame the other person but when we put our energy on "them", we give up all of our control. Here's how to focus on what YOU, the BOSS, can do to get back control over your business, work flow, and work product.
Have a question for the show? Find me! Heather@choosetohaveitall,com
Hiring is an automated process these days and if your CV has a gap or curiosity, your application can be weeded out before human eyes see your work.
Here's how to tackle this head on and with confidence.
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Succeeding at life and business doesn't literally come down to one thing but without this one thing everything is much harder and yes, sometimes, impossible.
Tune in and let me know what you think. Share your thoughts: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Big ideas quickly become overwhelming when you don't know the first step to take. Sometimes, too, they come at inconvenient times. Here's how to stay present in your idea so you don't run from it in intimidation or push it aside out of fear.
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Launching can bring on all the feels but those feelings don't have to rule your world. Here's how to get a handle on your nerves so you can sell with confidence.
What do you do when you're trying to better yourself but it just isn't working? You're following the gurus and doing what they say but still find yourself in the same place. You need a new bag of tricks and I've got one.
Work with me: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
At a crossroads? Trouble recognizing yourself? Feeling unsure of which direction to take or how to respond to yourself? You just might need this one strategy to get you on the road to where you want to be.
Question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Anxiety is becoming increasingly "normal" and "acceptable" in today's society as "everyone has it". Truth: people are suffering and they don't have to. Starting a conversation here about moving through the world with less fear and worry.
Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
The personal development space does a lot of lecturing about how you spend your time. In their messaging, though, they're missing the point. Start thinking about your time differently. Here's how.
How do you speak your mind when it might cause conflict? When your opinion might not be popular? We think it's easy to skip it and that "it'll be fine". I tried that and ended up in a mess of my own creation. Here's how I got out so you can learn from my mindset lesson in real time.
Have a question? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Forgiving yourself isn't easy. The teachings about self love can fall flat when you moved left of your center, when you have made a mess of your life, or when you are sitting in shame. Here's where to start.
How do newbies ask for help from leaders in their industry? How do you pitch yourself for exposure opportunities when you feel as though you have nothing to offer in return? It really is as simple and as hard as asking. Here's how.
When you hurt someone by being mean, petty, or spiteful, how do you make amends? What does owning responsibility look like and how do you make an apology that matters? We've all inserted a foot a time or two. What we do next is what really matters and really defines who we are. Try this.
Have a question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When the worst thing happens, what do you do next? How do you get through it? How do you find your way to the other side? How do you stop yourself from kicking someone who tells you "to take care of yourself?" or asks what you need? You breathe, my friends and you accept your humanity. Here are some first steps.
You didn't set out to manage people but now they're telling you to do what you do best and delegate the rest. If you've never managed anyone, it can be hard knowing where to start. Here's a foundation to consider implementing in your business.
Interested in a leadership consultation so you can better manage your team? Let's connect to see how I can help. Book yourself in for an intro call: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
A listener calls me out for my dismissal of motivational quotes, speakers, and memes. Why motivation might be the last thing you need and what you need instead.
The book that did more than motivate me: https://amzn.to/2PJJO57
What to do when you're burnt out but broke? How do you refuel when you aren't making money and have nothing financially to lean on? What's the BOSS move here?
Listen in to find out and send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
What do you do when you see your dream client doing work with a new coach? How do you stop obsessing over the coulda, shoulda, wouldas? How do you let bygones be bygones?
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How the heck are you supposed to work on your business when your heart is in a million pieces? How do you set goals or plan for the future when your plan for your future can no longer be. Running your business through grief is not easy. Here's how you can start.
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What do you do when success doesn't feel like you thought it would? You should feel like celebrating but instead, you want to hide under the covers or simply go back to work, grinding and hustling it out. How do you make sense of feelings that don't make sense?
Have a question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
How do you stop wasting time? When you look back on a 3 month span of your life and see a whole lotta nothing, what do you do next? How do you reboot? How can you be more present and intentional in your life and business. Start here.
Who do you want to be? What do you want your life and business to look like? If you're struggling to get where you want to go, I can help. Book an introductory call with me. We can connect on your goals for yourself.
https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
I was asked for the one thing I would teach if it came with a guarantee that everyone would learn it. Sometimes. it's hard to pick just one thing. This wasn't one of those times.
When life happens and keeps happening, it's only human to feel bad for yourself and to be stuck in mourning. It can come with a side of anger, too. That doesn't change anything, though. How do you stop living in anger and resentment so you aren't defined by what is happening to you?
It isn't easy. I can help you find your way. Here's the link for booking an introductory call. I can learn more about you and your struggles and identify various ways we can work together for you to find relief.
https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
How do you hold accountability without alienating your clients? How do you tell them what they need to hear when they already feel so beaten down and isolated? Staying silent helps no one and can cause damage. Here's how to talk so they can listen.
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When a pesky test is the only thing between you and your dreams, it's everything. When at first you fail, you try again. When it's the third time you've failed? What then? How do you stay strong? How do you stop yourself from giving up? How do you stay focused on the dream when the road is all uphill?
Have a question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
How do you network when doing so makes your skin crawl? How do you stand up for your business without breaking out into a cold sweat? Introverts have some challenges when it comes to increasing visibility and networking. Here's how they can set themselves, and their businesses, up for success. Have a question for the show? Find me: Heather@heathergrayconsulting.com
Loneliness comes in all shapes and forms. Being human, we're all going to experience it at some point. What do you do when you realize your tribe is too small? How do you make new friends as an adult? It can be and feel daunting. Here are some insights on getting started.
Question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Everyone tells you that you can't be perfect and that is a waste to try. How do you actually BELIEVE that it can be true for you, too? Tackling an all too familiar conversation in a new way.
Recommended in this episode, The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown--https://amzn.to/2nID3DG
"First world problems". What a judgmental and self-limiting description of what we do or what we feel. However, when we think our feelings aren't important enough for attention or we think the pain we help people with "isn't real suffering", we stop paying attention. We stop taking care of things. We stop showing up for ourselves and others. How does that do anyone any good? Here's how to find pride in what you do, even if you aren't saving the world.
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When asked how we are, we usually say "fine" but how are you, really? Are you willing to look and ask yourself that question? Here's what to do when answering it feels scary. Have a comment or question for the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When you give other people the power to decide what good enough is, you give them control over your self-confidence. That power needs to stay with you. You may know this, but how do you hold it close when everyone on the internet has an opinion and isn't afraid to share it? Tune in to find out . Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Mom Guilt is a BEAST! It's so insidious in our society that it has become the default experience of many moms I know and work with. Today's listener shares her experience and it is my hope that any suffering mom who needs to hear my perspective finds it and begins her own journey toward healing and self-acceptance. If I can help ease your suffering, I invite you to schedule a introductory call with me: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction You can always find me at: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com with your questions for the show.
Hiring help is supposed to make your job easier but what do you do when your staff just make more work for you? How do you clean up the mess, prevent more messes, and set your business up for better success? Here’s what you have to do. Have a question you’d like me to tackle on the show? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
In the land of shoulds and at a time where everyone and their brother is teaching and preaching a formula, how do you do it your way? On your terms? Tune in to find out. Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com if you want to join the fear busting masterclass, the fear busting bootcamp, or if you’d like a weeklong Voxer intensive with me.
What do you do when your private business becomes public? What happens when you are professionally attacked for your personal beliefs? In a changing social time where people are held accountable for their opinions across the board, what do you say? What do you do? How do you respond?
As I mention in this episode, I am now accepting new clients for my Voxer intervention. It's a voice messaging app where you can tell me your situation and pose questions and I get back to you in the same business day. Available business hours only.
No appointment required. Email: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com to get started. Looking forward to talking to you, soon.
When it’s not working and no one is grabbing for your services, it’s easy to become reactive and impulsive. As the BOSS, you have to be smart and take deliberate action. Here’s how. Have a Q for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Location independent business owners get this question all the time. It’s easy to react with defensiveness but this is really an opportunity for better communication and connectedness. Here’s how to look at an old, tired question with new eyes. Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When your spouse or partner is struggling with addiction or mental illness, it affects the whole family. It creates toxic situations for all involved. When you’re the functioning partner, how do you deal? How do you navigate what comes next and how do you chart a new course for everyone involved?
Links in this episode: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us
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When it comes to living happy lives, we hear a lot about being grateful, looking for the good, and staying positive. But that makes happiness about isolated moments that we have to link together in order to create something that lasts beyond the moment. What if we are going about happiness all wrong? What if we're just playing small and staying safe? Starting a conversation about what choosing happiness might really mean and what we have to do in order to have it.
Link mentioned on the podcast: https://www.facebook.com/heather.gray.7169709/posts/886529101554962
“Good is enough”. “You are worthy”. We hear these things all the time but how do we apply them to our own lives? Taking more quotables on self-acceptance and turning them into coachables. Have a quotable for the show? Send it in: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Entrepreneurship comes with risks. If risk taking keeps you up at night, does that mean you're not cut out for it? What do you do when you can't stop seeing the risks? How do you learn to stay steady? Have a question for the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
What do you do when trolls and haters become persistent? When they dog you around the internet and leave hateful comments on your content. Anyone can say "just ignore them" or "haters are going to hate" but it's not always easy. Here's how to take control of something that feels very much out of your control. Have a question about your life and business? Send it my way and I'll feature it on the show: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When what you do is looked down upon, mocked, and judged, how do you respond? You know it's business but it's also personal. How do you respond when you're not taken seriously? Need to take new actions on a problem holding you back? Work with me for a one and done session. Here's the link: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/power60
When you have done everything you need to and you're totally set up for success, how do you simply press play? How do you go when you have no idea what's coming next? That's what we are tackling on today's show. Have a question that you'd like my two cents on? Write me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Once you take that big leap, it changes you. Immediately, the story of who you are and what you are capable of changes. Sometimes, the size of your wallet changes, too. How do you control that change? How do you get ahead of it? Listen in to find out.
Are you ready to invest in your mindset? Would you like to work with me? Book yourself in for a free introductory call: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
Have a question for the show? Write me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When you're in the end-zone and the goal line is in sight, why are you the only thing getting in your way? How do you get yourself over the goal line and why are you stopping yourself from doing so in the first place? Tackling all things self-sabotage today. Fears of success are real but you can tackle them. Want some help getting over the finish line? Book an hour with me. We'll get you out of your own way and into the end zone: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/power60
Whether we're talking about micromanaging as BOSSES or being helicopter parents, we have to talk about letting go of control. Part of being human and being an effective BOSS is learning when to hold on, when to let go, and how to tell the difference. Join the conversation today and send your Qs to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
"If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten". We know what he's telling us but how do we actually DO it? Turning the quotable and making it quotable for today's show. How to get outside your comfort zone, how to stop playing it safe. Talking about all of it on today's show. Have a quotable you want me to make coachable? Send it my way: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
How do you create lasting, intimate relationships. In an era of "Facebook fake" and cynicism, how do you show up, be real, and get the same in return? It's tricky to navigate. Here are some quick tips for starting but it's not easy to do alone. If you're stuck and in your own way, it might be time to invest in some mindset support. I offer several different pricing and packaging options to meet you where you are at. If you'd like to know more or would like to see how well we might work together, I invite you to book yourself in for an introductory call. I can learn more about you and see if I might be able to help. Here's a link for that call: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
We all need to be inspired to be motivated from time to time. However, how do you turn your inspiration into something better for yourself? What actions are you supposed to take? How do you determine what comes next? That's not always easy to figure out. Tune in for my thoughts and send your questions for the show to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Falling and getting back up comes with the territory of entrepreneurship. How do you keep going, though, when you continue to fail. How do you get out of the pattern of starting, stopping, and second guessing? Tune in to find out. Send your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When all you do is solve “first world problems”, how do you find the point to it all? How do you find your purpose and your passion? When you ask yourself what your “why” is, what do you do when you don’t like the answer? Wondering if I can help you with your struggles? Book in a FREE introductory call and let's find out: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/introduction
Mindset Minute in Real Time: Sometimes today is not your day. You can know what you’re supposed to do. You can know what you have to do. Sometimes, though, you just need to call it. Today, I’m calling it.
Picking up with yesterday’s conversation: what do you do when combining friendship and business leads to resentment and conflict? How do you get out from under the weight of it all? Send your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
How do you combine business and friendship without risking or losing one or the other? It can be messy sometimes and it might involve a hard conversation or two but it's not impossible. Here's how to start talking. Have a question you'd like my two cents on? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com and keep up with my latest episodes at: choosetohaveitall.com/follow
Transparency. It’s all the rage in personal brand building jargon. But why? Do we really owe this to our audience or is this a personal decision based on our own boundaries, values, and plan for our businesses? This is a conversation every BOSS needs to have with themselves. Send your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
Digging into a heart matter on today’s show. When your heart has been through a few rounds and you’re battle scarred, how do you get yourself back in the arena? How do you show up? Lean in? Put yourself out there? It isn’t easy, but it’s possible.
When it’s all falling apart at the seams finding direction, making a plan, and deciding what’s next feels impossible. Yet, we’ve all been there. This is a shared human experience. Here’s how to find your way out. Send your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When you're saying no, holding back, or hesitating, how do you know if that's the BOSS holding the big picture of your business or if it's your fear talking? Listen in to find out. Send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com and grab your Binge List for Bosses: choosetohaveitall.com/podcast
When everyone around you is complaining, it can be hard to see the green lights. Here’s how to decide how you want to show up when everyone around you is focused on the red lights. Stay in touch! Choosetohaveitall.com/follow
How business owners can tackle the fear of selling after being told they're doing it wrong.
Links for today's episode: Work with Me: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/work-with-me/ Schedule a power hour and see what we can get done in 60 minutes: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/power60 Grab the audio copy of the best personal development and business book you're not reading, I Can't Make This Up by Kevin Hart: https://amzn.to/2tGXfsZ If you promise to read it and hear Kevin Hart's voice, the paperback version: https://amzn.to/2tS1MIi
What's the point of putting yourself out there if someone is just going to sit in the cheap seats and steal what you do? Why make your content so easy to steal? Join in this conversation for some insight. Mentioned in this show: The best personal development and business book you're not reading: I Can't Make This Up by Kevin Hart. Grab the audible version for free if you have never used Audible before: https://amzn.to/2Kz3DMy | If audible isn't your thing, grab the paperback but be sure to "hear" it in Kevin Hart's voice when you do: https://amzn.to/2tybpgb
When you’re not where you want to be because things didn’t go your way, how to you move on, especially when there’s someone to blame? How do you stop being and feeling resentful so you can get clear on what you want and take the necessary action steps for what’s next? Listen in to find out. Send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com and grab your Binge List for Bosses: choosetohaveitall.com/podcast
When you work from home, people assume that you have free time all of the time. How do you help people understand and respect what it means to be location independent? How do you set limits around your time without being insensitive? It's a familiar struggle for me. I share my thoughts here. If you want my two cents on your life and business, find me at: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com and grab your Binge List for Bosses, my curated list of my top ten favorite episodes: choosetohaveitall.com/podcast
Listen in to a live coaching call with Brandi Johnson of heybrandi.com Brandi has marketing chops and the numbers to prove it but she's new at running a business. Old stories that old supervisors had of her keep playing in her head. How does she show up for herself so that the people who need her can find her? How can she rid herself of doubts, talk back to the hater in her head, and be the BOSS of her business? Listen in as I guide her through the process. Want a coaching call with me? Let me know: heather@choosetohaveitall.com and be sure to check out what Brandi's doing, too. She might just be able to help you and your business.
What makes you different is what makes you great. If you don’t honor it and respect it you won’t last. Learn how to own and respect your talent. Send questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com and Grab your Binge List for Bosses: choosetohaveitall.com/podcast
Your clients pay you for your direction. Why then, after getting your advice, do they go and ask the peanut gallery what they think? It’s maddening! As a coach, here’s how you can handle it. Have a question? Send it to me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com. Grab your Binge List for BOSSES: choosetohaveitall.com/podcast
Solopreneurs can so easily lose time with coffee chats and scrolling through social media. Here’s how you can stop losing time and get back in control of your schedule. Grab my top ten episodes for BOSSES: choosetohaveitall.com/podcast
Are you sitting on the wrong side of fear? Listen in as a former client shares her journey. She uses explicit language in doing so and talks about sensitive topics so use self awareness when deciding to listen. If you're ready to do the work, here's the link to get scheduled:https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/power60 Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you are a coach or consultant and your client isn’t doing the work? It can feel like talking to dead air but as a business owner, calling it out can feel risky. It’s hard when you feel held hostage by your client’s ability to ask for a refund or leave a bad review. Here’s how to manage this as a consultant AND as a BOSS. Need a consult on a client or my two cents on a more private situation? Book here: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/power60 Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
You hear it all the the time Entrepreneurship is a roller coaster. I like rides as much as the next person but is this true? Do we always have to be riding waves? What’s the cost to our lives and businesses when we choose to stay on the ride? Join the conversation and send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you stand true to yourself in the face of adversity? How do you build a thicker skin? How do you gain more confidence so you can have less fear? Join in on our conversation here and send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Talking about depression isn’t easy but it’s critical for understanding, healing, and connection. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you when supportive people tell you you’re heading in the wrong direction? How do you know whose feedback to consider and when you need to let it pass on by? Listen in to find out and send your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall@gmail.com
Who do you say “yes” to? How do you stop saying “yes” when you should really say “no”? People get to ask. You get to say no. Here’s how. Find me with your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Self-explanatory here, friends! Stuck? Frozen? Still saying someday? 10 ways to get out of your own way. Need my help 1:1? Book a session and see what happens next: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/power60 Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
I don’t know your story. I am not in your shoes. I don’t know how to help but I know I had to show up and try. This is me, showing up and reaching out. Reach back, if you need to. Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
At a time when the pressure is on to have the “right” response to #MeToo, what are women supposed to say or do? It’s not an easy conversation but we start it here. Want my two cents on your problem? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Assertiveness doesn’t have to have an “in your face” approach. It doesn’t have to come with a side of conflict. You can be assertive without losing your lunch. Here’s how. Ask your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
After you make a bad investment in learning how to build your business, what do you do next? If you haven’t given up on the dream but still don’t know what you don’t know, how do you find the person that’s right for you? How do you trust your judgment? How do you forge ahead without looking at the rear view mirror? Send your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Read more about the Fitness Blender journey mentioned in the show here: https://www.seattletimes.com/life/wellness/fitness-blender-couple-next-door-have-25-million-youtube-fans/ ....and also, here: https://www.king5.com/article/entertainment/television/programs/evening/northwest-couple-behind-fitness-blender-helps-millions-get-in-shape-with-their-exercise-routines/281-386759893 Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When the drama of your personal relationships interferes with your work, it can be hard to get back on track. How do you stay on top of your game? How do you sort out matters of the heart? How do you not lose your mind in the process? Have a question that you need my two cents on? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Is Facebook controlling you or are you controlling it? Is it working for you? How do you get control of a daily, or even hourly, habit? Have a question you want my two cents on? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When it comes to mindset, anxiety is the elephant in the room. We can wrap it up as “shiny object syndrome”. We can tie it with a bow as “imposter syndrome” but at the end of the day, it’s anxiety. We’re calling it out today and tackling it head on. Send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com. Continue the conversation with my Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ChooseToHaveitAll/ Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when a client has gotten the best of you? How to you recover after you lose your patience and act inappropriately? Take a deep breath, settle in, and listen. It isn’t the end of the world. Here’s what to do next. Send your questions in: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When there’s a pile of things you don’t know how to do, it’s easy to create stories about yourself. Untangling those stories and rewriting new endings is essential for your success. Learn how to get answers to your questions and how to change your story about yourself and what you’re capable of. If you’re stuck and suffering, find me with your questions and I’ll tackle them on a future episode: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When needs interfere with wants, how do you make time for yourself? Here’s a hint: time probably isn’t your problem. Have a question you’d like my two cents on? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when your needs and wants are polar opposites? How to you decide what’s best for you? How do you shut out the noise and fear to get clear enough to make the right decision? Tune in to find out and send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
From Quotable to Coachable: Turning your favorite motivational quotes into coachable moments, one meme at a time. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
If you’re working on your mindset every day, what are you actually supposed to be doing? What are daily mindset practices? How do you know if you’re doing it right? Tune in to find out. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you stop being angry All the time? When your anger is running your business and your life, it’s in the driver’s seat and you are riding shot gun. Managing anger is hard and you can’t just turn it off. You have to face it and deal with it. Here’s how. Send your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Keep talking with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ChooseToHaveitAll/ Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How to set yourself up for success with hard to manage people. How to communicate, manage conflict, and hold your own. A masterclass in teaching people how to treat you. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Sure you can feel the fear and do it anyway. You can go to war with fear. You can fail forward. What if all of that fighting fear leaves you haggard, war torn, and gun shy? What do you do next? Have a question? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How to get VISIBLE (not to be confused with PHYSICAL 😉) in your business. Where to start without feeling slimy or fake. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
If you’re regularly helping people for free, you might have the start of a business idea. Here’s what to do next. You can start getting paid for the advice you give for free. Have a question? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Keep talking over on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ChooseToHaveitAll/ Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
If lotus leaves and moments of Zen don’t do it for you, you might not know how to deal with a crap week. Here’s Real Talk on Self Care in Real Time Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What’s the difference between having a mindset problem and being caught in old story about yourself because of trauma? Minimizing painful stories and reactions under the guise of mindset is risky. Join in as I untangle the two so whatever your struggle or history, you know what to do next to rewrite your story and change the ending to this chapter. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Step one: Take yourself less seriously. Step two: Listen in. Step Three: send your questions about your business to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you grow up being told you’re less than and are then treated as such, sometimes even hours and hours of therapy can’t penetrate the voice of the inner critic. How can people with pasts find self acceptance and self compassion? Listen in for an important conversation. This kind of work cannot, and should not, be done alone. I invite you to work with me. You can schedule your first call here: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/power60 Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you stop caring what people think? How do you stand out and speak your truth if you know it’s going to cause a dust up? Listen in and let me know your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you’ve been at it a year and nothing is working, you have to ask why. You also have to be open to the answer. Send your question to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you’ve been betrayed in life or business, how do you open up again? How do you make and keep connections? We continue to talk about the real stuff here on this show. Join us. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Even those who choose happiness get their butts kicked by life from time to time. Everyone loses faith at some point. Everyone loses their motivation. If you’re in it, here’s some support and motivation to get you through to the other side. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when a lucrative opportunity comes you way but you just don’t want it? How do you say no? Do you always say no? How do you find your way? Do you have a question? Find Heather: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when your business requires too much people-ing? How do you catch your breath? How do you continue to serve? Listen in to find out and send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com
When your business is in between you and your spouse, you have a problem. Listen in to learn new ways of talking about it. Find me at: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com with your questions. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Are you charging what you’re worth? Are you hesitating on getting your offer out there because you’re afraid of the pricing conversation? It’s time to tackle this one head on. Here’s how. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
People buy from people. Leaders need to connect. Relationships matter. But when it comes to business, how personal is too personal? Where do you draw the line? Have a question, yourself? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Are you giving yourself away? Are you on your own to do list? Are you choosing what you want or are you choosing to compromise on what you want? Answer the questions in this episode and do a gut check. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you give your best to people but they don’t take action, it can feel like you’ve failed. It’s easy to lose your purpose and vision for what you want. Here’s how to believe in your vision again. Want my two cents? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you want to try something new but you can find the time? How to make room for a new interest or hobby? How do you get your people on board with the change? Listen in for my answer. Want my two cents on your question? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When the worst thing happens to someone and you’re capable of helping, is it possible to make that a business? Is it selfish and money grubbing to profit from others’ loss? How do you help, serve, and yes, charge, people when they are in the worst moments of their lives? Have a question you want answered on the show? Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you’ve done your best and given your best only to be met with haters and trolls? If you choose to own a business in today’s social media age, you have to be prepared for this. When to speak up, when to skip and ignore, and when to listen. Stay in touch: choosetohaveitall.com/Follow Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you go for time freedom and lifestyle freedom but the money doesn’t follow? Do you give up and pack it in? What do you do next? Have a question? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Let’s get real about numbing out: checking out of your life or your business for a while. How do you get out from under the grey cloud? How do you take intentional care of yourself? How do you tune back in? Have a question, yourself? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you can’t talk yourself through fear, it’s time to actually DO something. Here’s something you can try. Learn more: Choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
It’s a cliche we hear all the time. It’s a popular entrepreneurial meme. But that fear, that despondency over making a change—it’s real. The life you want is on the other side of it. Here’s how to take those scary steps. If you want my direction on your situation, find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you’ve gone and really screwed it up? How do you recover from a poor business mistake? How do you look in the mirror when you hate what you see? How do you move? This is what to do next. Need help getting out of your F-Up? Choosetohaveitall.com/work-with-me Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you want to burn it all down? How do you start over? Is burnout preventable? Yours is. This is what to do. Listen in and then email me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com and let me help. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
She found a lump in her breast three months ago. She’s been paralyzed with fear and inaction ever since. Join me as I give her the direction she needs and take my cues if you need the same direction for yourself. In it with you. Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do move a daydream into reality? How do you take action when you see yourself locked into decisions you’ve already made? That’s what we’re talking about today. Send me your questions and I’ll offer my two cents: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do bosses decide to step away? How much time should you take? Listen in to find out and write in with your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Do you tell people what you really think or do you worry about not being nice? Do people know where you stand? Do they know what you stand for? If they don’t, you have a hole in your business and you’re leaving money on the table.Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when the client doesn’t pay? It’s easy to say: Shut it Down but it’s harder to do. Here are some sample scripts that can help you set payment boundaries and business policies with your clients. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you get the attention and visibility you crave for your business but it doesn't move the needle? Is going viral not enough? What are business owners supposed to do? Tune in to find out. In this episode, I mention a business building Facebook challenge that starts next week. Head to: facebook.com/groups/choosetohaveitall to join and get in on the action. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When we lean on a singular strategy, tool, or social media site to build our businesses, we are vulnerable when they change or go away. Listen in to learn how to change with the tides. Send in your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
A new way to think about mindset struggles: How can you boss your business confidently when you don't believe in yourself? How can you take yourself seriously when you need to ask for help? Admitting weakness is strength in action, even if it doesn't feel like it. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you're looking for motivation and you just can't find it? What do you do when you've got nothing? That's today's question and I have the answer. Send in your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When the world is coming at you with questions, wishes, and expectations, how do you figure out what you want to do? What do you do when you don't know what the hell you're doing? Listen in to find out and send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When your heart is crushed with grief and loss, how do you deal with owning a business? How do you show up for your clients when you can't show up for yourself? Tune in for a very important topic: living with and working through grief. Send in your comments: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Personal development isn't about being positive and motivated all the time. It's about being human and feeling all the things. When is a bad day just a bad day? When is it something that needs attention? How are we supposed to tell the difference? Listen in to find out. Send in your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you take action on a dream when you don't know what you want? How to you find your passion and joy again? How do you take the next step when you don't know where you're going? Tune in for some direction and write to me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com with your questions. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you take action when fears of everything that could go wrong take over? How do you push through fear to live the life and have a business you really want? Tune in to find out. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you get your ducks in a row when your family is falling apart? How do you choose you? How do you take your turn when everyone around you is in crisis? Listen in to find out and write to me with your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Why is it that as soon as you achieve some level of success, someone is asking you if you're planning to grow? What if you're good with where you are at? What's with the pressure to always want more? How do you navigate what's next for your business or if there even has to be a next thing? Have your own question? Ask! Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Lost? Stuck? Distracted? These 10 shifts can get you back on track. Learn more: Choosetohaveitall.com/workwithme Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when sharing your personal history means also sharing the personal history of your loved ones? When, in telling your hurts and lessons learned from them, you have to talk about the person who hurt you? When is your story not just your own? Enjoying this show? Please consider leaving a review and sharing it with friends and family who need to hear it. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you're losing confidence? How do you get it back? Listen in for two quick hacks for getting your mojo back. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you get everything you want but lose everything that matters, what do you do next? Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
If you're driven to distraction, struggle with organization, and can't meet deadlines, can you still run a business? I think so. Listen in to learn more. Write in with your question: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Personal development often gets confused with a quest for perfection. At its best, personal development is also about embracing our messiness and our mistakes. Here's a mini-lesson in being human. Share your thoughts about this discussion: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When was the last time you updated your story about yourself? Who are you now that you've tried something new? How had your story shifted? Personal development includes taking stock. This is how to do it. Email your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How can you find your truth if you are ignoring your gut? What to do if you find yourself censoring yourself and how to stop. Subscribe to the show so you can continue to learn the mindset lessons. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you have a decision to make, what do you do when the logical choice makes you cry and feel anxious? When do you suck up hard feelings? When do you tend to them? How the heck are you supposed to know the difference? Listen in to find out and subscribe to the show so you don't miss an episode! Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you have a decision to make, what do you do when the logical choice makes you cry and feel anxious? When do you suck up hard feelings? When do you tend to them? How the heck are you supposed to know the difference? Listen in to find out and subscribe to the show so you don't miss an episode! Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When do you throw in the towel? When is it time to walk away? How can you tell you're beating a dead horse? When do you just need a new perspective? Listen in and then ask Heather your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you're grumpy as heck? How do you start walking on the sunny side of the street again? The answer might surprise you. Send your questions to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When life sucks, how do you choose happiness? Heather turns to an old blog post to offer direction. Read more at: choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you finish what you d started? What are the keys to staying focused? How do you boss yourself? Listen in to find out and send Heather your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when a Biz Bestie grabs your business plan to use as their own? How do you have that conversation? Listen in for talking points and write Heather: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com with your mindset questions Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you've followed all the steps and are showing up but it just isn't working? How do you decide your next step? Listen in to find out. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Put down the personal development books. Back away slowly from the TED talks. Don't press "pay" on the latest course offering until you listen in. Those aren't the things that will move the needle in your life or business. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you don't even know enough to be dangerous? What if you're not the expert? Can you still build a business on your passion? How? Listen in for first steps. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What happens when your business success leads to a dream job offering? How do you decide what's best for you? Is business ownership always the brass ring? Listen in and ask a question, Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
It sucks to fall. In getting back up, sometimes you have to look back. You also have to determine new actions. Here's how. Write me with your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Ten Non-Negotiable Truths That Come With Owning a Business. Find me at: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com to learn more. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
A marketing masterclass for people who hate marketing. Find me at: Choosetohaveitall.com to learn more. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
This is what some of you fear, right? Haters coming out and running your mojo with their comments. Haters filled my inbox as haters tend to do. Here's how I handled it. Maybe it'll help you. Are you stuck in the shadows? Are you ready for the tools that will get you to show up, stand out, be seen, and be found? Book yourself in: https://choosetohaveitall.as.me/power60 Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Business ownership comes with hard calls, hard conversations, and hard feelings. What are you willing to do for what you want? What are you willing to deal with? Do you accept what comes with making that choice? If you want to own a business, you own the hard parts, too. Are you ready? Need some help? Find me: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com for 1:1 support with your mindset wobble. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you move to action when you're frozen in doubt? How to you change old stories about yourself? How do you rewrite endings to old stories? Listen in to find out. Links mentioned: RDworkshops.com, ScrewtheNinetoFive.com, SolopreneurHour.com. Write in with your questions: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How can you get out of your own way and finish what you start? How do you stop sitting on go? Listen in to find out and write to me, Heather@choosetohaveitall.com, with your questions and comments. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
A popular question. Here's my take. What's yours? Tell me what you think or toss a question my way: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you've built a business that's making you miserable? What if it's financially lucrative, too? How do you undo it all and rebuild? How do you stop feeling trapped? Listen in to learn how. Want to work with me? Reach out! Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Yesterday's episode didn't load properly. Here's take 2. How do you remove chaos from your hustle? What should you be spending time on and what is a waste of time and energy? Listen in to get clarity. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you set boundaries with loved ones? How much help is enough? How much is too much? How do you have the hard conversations? How do you help without losing yourself? Those are the questions we're exploring today. We're digging deep and it's messy. Listen in to learn how to do it without losing your mind. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
The new year can feel pressure filled when you feel like you don't know who you are or where you're going. How do you start? Where do you begin? Right here. Listen in. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you plan for the new year when you only want to survive? Is goal setting necessary? How the heck do you do it? Listen in to find out. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What the heck does it even mean? Do you have to bare your soul if you want to own a business? How do you show up genuinely? One listener asked and I answered. Have a listen. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you fix a relationship when only one person is showing up? How do you approach repairs when you're sitting on a pile of unmet needs? What do you do when it feels broken and unfixable? Start by tuning in and having a listen. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
I wanted to call this: How to Make a Change Without Losing Your Mind but that was too long. After a two week break, I'm back with new episodes starting with my own mindset lessons learned in real time as I packed up my life and moved cross country. It was some of the hardest stuff I've done but I was open to letting the experience change me--and it did-- listen in to learn about getting off the floor of the airport bathroom and on with my life. My hope is that my experience can change you, too, if you're willing to let it. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How to build the life you want with the business you desire. Listen in to learn key strategies of building your business around your life instead of your life around your business. Subscribe to the show and Follow Heather: choosetohaveitall.com/follow Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
To have it all, you need to learn how to let go. You have to be willing to risk hurt and rejection for the life you want. Learn how by listening in and follow me at: choosetohaveitall.com/follow Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you belong when you're constantly fearing rejection? How do you show up when you might be turned away? Listen in and follow Heather: choosetohaveitall.com/follow Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When do you throw in the towel? When do you make a turn? When do you stay in your own lane and stay the course? These are the questions we face when we launch and make no money. Listen in to learn how to make your next step. Follow me at: Choosetohaveitall.com/follow Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How new is too new to own a business? How much experience do you really need? How do newbies sell with integrity? How can they set themselves up for success in a crowded, noisy space? Listen in. Answering hard questions helps us build strong businesses. Follow: choosetohaveitall.com/follow Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When a business fails, the ricochet is felt beyond the walls of the business. What do you do when your spouse fails and is wrapped up in that failure? How do you move through it together? How do your manage the hurts you're both experiencing? It isn't an easy conversation. Listen in as Heather helps you have it. Follow Heather: choosetohaveitall.com/follow Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What's the secret to doing good business? How can you stop worrying that clients will be dissatisfied? You have more control than you think. Listen in and then follow Heather: choosetohaveitall.com/follow Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you stop giving up on yourself and the life you want to have? Most people hate that they quit and get stuck because they don't know how to restart. I've got you covered.Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Here's your Holiday pep talk. Everything you need to manage the stressors, dramas, and tensions that can push their way through the holiday. Here's how to get in control and how to stay in control. You get to choose how you want your holidays to go. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you've failed? When your best laid plans didn't work? How do you not quit? A listener asked. Heather answered. You probably need this, too. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
If all you're going to do is write it down, you might as well throw your gratitude list away. Here's how to turn genuine gratitude into positive action in your life. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What happens when they want their money back? How do you recover from the personal disappointment and awkwardness that comes with the hard talk? Listen in for the reframe and strategies for responding. Follow Heather at: choosetohaveitall.com/follow to continue the conversation. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When all of your systems and plans go to hell in a handcart, what do you do next? When productivity goes out the window, how do you reign it in? How do you get back on track? Listen in to learn more. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
There's a lot of pressure on business owners to be "authentic" and there's a lot of emphasis on "sharing our story". What does that even mean? The pressure is unfair and unrealistic. Here's how to really own your story, even if no one else hears it. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you do when you fall in front of your following? When you fail at doing the thing people come to you for help with? What do you say? How do you get back up? There are two important conversations you need to have. Listen in to learn how to have them. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you start feeling good enough? By stopping your constant efforts to prove it. Learn how to trust yourself and your offerings. Learn to stop doing your client's work for them. Stand behind your offer and stand up for yourself, unapologetically. Heather models how by throwing down an offer of her own. Listen in to learn more. Find Heather at: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What do you say when they over-promise and under-deliver? What are the right words? What does resolution look like? Listen in as Heather walks you through the steps. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What happens when you find success you weren't looking for? How do you deal with the doubts that suddenly creep in? How do you own your worth? Listen in as Heather answer's an audience question. Send your question to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How to get out of your own way and out of your head so you can finish what you start. Listen in to learn new ways of managing your to do list. Learn how to get the voice in your head to shut up so you can finally focus. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What happens when the original agreement isn't working for you? What happens when friendship is mixed with business? Listen in to learn how to clean up the mess. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
It paralyzes you from action. It makes you think small so you play small. It tells you that it will never be your turn. Listen in to learn how to stop fear in its tracks. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Do you take a left turn at the finish line? Do you find yourself self destructing right before you get what you want? Here's how to get out of your own way. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
A Mindset Minute on taking stock, keeping score, and leveling the playing field. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Leadership isn't always about cheerleading. Sometimes it's having the hard talks. This is one of them. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
35 years ago this week, my mom died. I was 6. My sister was 2. How did I survive being a motherless daughter? How can you survive what's happened to you? Listen in to find out. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
After a failure, what do you say? How do you explain to family and friends that your dream didn't work and you're pulling the plug? Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Do you notice the green lights? Do you struggle with being positive when life gets hard? Gain insight, perspective, and simply strategies for choosing happiness. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you decide when you can't decide? Hint: your problem isn't actually indecisiveness! Tune in to learn more. If you have a listener question, send it on in to: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you pivot, grow, or uplevel your business with confidence when you don't know where you're going to land? Learn when to fake it 'til you make it and when you need to sit in the mess for a bit. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you run a business when your personal life is blowing up? How do you stay focused? Tackling a listener question in today's episode. If you have a question, email: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Try saying that phrase five times fast! The question isn't "Can introverts be entrepreneurs?" It's "How can they be?" Listen in to learn strategies introverted entrepreneurs can use for success. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What is the difference between having a bad attitude and being depressed? How can you tell the difference? Join Heather for an important conversation. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you follow up with a potential client? How do you avoid being spammy? Learn how to genuinely follow up with a lead without sounding desperate. See also: Smart Leaders Sell Podcast, Episode 1. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you stop worrying about what people think? How do you take action when others may be waiting for you to fall? Listen in to find out. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Why can't we get out of our own way? Why do we stay still or hold on too long? Listen in as Heather shares the mindset lessons and takeaways she learned while packing her home for a move. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Do you know your unfair advantage? How about your unique selling proposition? You need to know what makes you better so you can own what makes you great. Listen in to learn how to stand out. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you choose to take action on an idea, how do you choose your first step? Taking on a listener question. Send your questions to Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you take action on an idea? You have to move past fear first. Here's how. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Listen in on a live coaching session where we tackle imposter syndrome. Learn how to move from insight to action. If you want more episodes like this, let me know: Heather@choosetohaveitall.com Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you have the hard talks? How do you say what you mean and mean when you say when you've just been sucker punched? Diving in to this listener question today with the specific script. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Stop drinking the entrepreneurial Kool-Aid that tells you that you have to risk it all for your dream. Learn how to shut out the online noise and just do you. Like what you hear? Please subscribe! Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Continuing our conversation about authenticity. It's starts with self-acceptance. Do you know who you are? Learn how to figure it out and how to put yourself out there. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Authenticity is a trite and overused word in the entrepreneurial space. Many are getting--and using--it wrong. Here's what it is, what it isn't, and how to get it right. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you're feeling lost or stuck, you need an arsenal of tools to find your way back.Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When someone is out of integrity, do you say so publicly? Privately? Is it our job to say anything at all? It depends on your answer to one important question. Listen in. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
There's a simple way to get what you want. You just have to move past a pile of vulnerability to get it. Listen in as I share the story of how one woman earned 20 K after 1 session with me. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How to show people who you are so they believe you: A Conversation About Online Integrity and how you show up when someone lacks values in your presence. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Being consistently happy comes down to mindset. Own the hard parts of life so you can embrace the good. Identify the victim playing behaviors you simply have to stop and choose to take healthy control
When Relationship Marketing is your plan, don't forget the word "relationship" comes first. How not to do it and how to do it well. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How to Respond When Criticism Comes from Loved Ones. What do you say? Should you change your plans? Answering a listener question. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How do you receive feedback? How do you respond to haters? Are you controlling the dialogue in what happens next? How to keep moving when haters are trying to slow you down. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Are you good with where you're at? Are you hustling? Playing it safe? Hiding? There's no right answer but you need to make sure you're consciously choosing it so you can control where you go next. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How to explain to people what it is you do so they can understand. The first step has nothing to do with them and everything to do with your mindset about the question. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Can you really fake confidence until you feel it? What if you really shouldn't be feeling confident? How can you tell the difference? Diving in to this listener question today. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Are you willing to ask for what you want? Learn how to get in the right mindset for successful networking. Learn how to conquer the mindset hurdles that come when you are in a vulnerable place. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Consistency is King. It sets us up for success by instilling good habits. It combats the fight or flight response and increases our problem solving abilities. Here's how to get it done. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
13 Habits of Chronically Unhappy People Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
The parachute doesn't open until you jump but what happens after you say "yes!"? We're talking about taking imperfect action, faking it 'til you make it, and why consistency matters. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
"What if it all goes right? What if I'm just a one hit wonder?" The fear of success is real and learning to manage it is a critical step in the process when you're going for big dreams. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
We can't Kumbaya our way through fear. We have to go to war. Learn to understand the dynamics of fear so it stops controlling you. How to stop freezing and start taking action. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Today in the mindset lab: How to control distractions so they stop controlling you. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
If you want to stop coasting, you need direction. In today's Mindset Minute, I offer a quick tip for finding your path. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Mindset Minute: On Motivation. Struggling to find motivation for reaching your goals? You might not have a mindset problem. Answering this one question might be the answer you're looking for. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
There is one non-negotiable truth about owning a business. Choose to accept it so your business can flourish or you can ignore it and continue to play small but the facts don't change. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
When you realize you've been playing small, how do you start showing up? Should you play it safe or go big? Here's how to plan your next move. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
In the mindset lab today: Why do we have to apologize for our ambition and for wanting to earn more? The quick answer is: We don't but we can turn the question into a brand defining opportunity. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
What happens when you don't know who you are anymore? When you're feeling lost and stuck in overwhelm, this six step process will help you rediscover yourself.
When you're taking action on your dream, everyone around you starts to have an opinion. How do you shut down the noise so you can take action? Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Happiness is a choice. We can't choose what happens to us but we have total control over what happens next. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
How are you showing up in your life and business? Are you only showing up half way? Take this quick challenge to show up better starting today. Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
Mindset Minute: How to Set Yourself Up for Success Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/
"Done is better than perfect" Need help getting into BOSS Mode? Grab your Binge List for BOSSES right HERE: the episodes you must listen to for the life and business you want: https://www.choosetohaveitall.com/podcast/