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IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves tackles real world topics, current events, and historical experiences through conversations and interviews. Building upon his experience in the military and Florida government as well as his experience as a lawyer, professor, and business owner, Reeves talks about all topics including his popular Reeves Reflections, Reeves Point of View, and Easy but NOT so Easy Segments.
In the fall of 1987, just days into my freshman year at the University of Tampa, I was invited to my first real off-campus college party on Davis Island. I had an idea of what a college party was supposed to look like. Music. Food. Dancing. People having a good time.
What I found was a beach, a couple of kegs, no food, no music, and an environment where I was one of only a few Black students — and I didn’t drink. At the time, I could have easily dismissed the entire experience as a bad party.
Looking back nearly 40 years later, however, I realize that night taught me something much more important: how to maneuver in spaces that weren’t necessarily designed with me in mind. I didn’t have to drink. I didn’t have to pretend the party was my kind of party. And I didn’t have to change who I was. I simply had to recognize the opportunity that came from being there. That lesson followed me from college into the military, the workplace, the legal profession, and countless professional and social environments throughout my life. Sometimes the room isn’t designed for you. That doesn’t mean there isn’t something for you in the room.
Have you ever walked into a room and immediately realized, “This space wasn’t designed with me in mind”?
What did you do?
Did you leave? Did you try to fit in? Or did you figure out how to be yourself while still taking advantage of the opportunity?
I’d love to hear your story.
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Sometimes you don’t have to fit the room.
You just have to learn how to move through it.
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For many members of Generation X, success did not come with a roadmap. We entered colleges, professions, leadership positions, and social spaces that were unfamiliar to our families. We learned through experience, experimentation, mistakes, and persistence. Along the way, we became the attorneys, doctors, judges, executives, educators, entrepreneurs, and mentors we may not have personally known when we were younger. That matters because the generations coming behind us are no longer starting where we started. They have access to us. In this companion podcast,
I reflect on the responsibility Gen X has to make our experiences, relationships, and knowledge available to younger generations. I also discuss why young people should be encouraged to study abroad, explore beyond their immediate surroundings, build relationships, and use each opportunity as a gateway to the next one. We are not telling them to repeat our journey. We are helping them understand that the doors we struggled to open are now part of their normal reality—and they have a responsibility to walk through them and keep moving forward.
Call to Action:
After listening, identify one young person who could benefit from your experience, guidance, or network. Reach out, make an introduction, share what you know, or help them see an opportunity they may not yet recognize. Our progress becomes permanent when the next generation knows how to use it.
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A few weeks into my freshman year, I was pulled out of class and told that I owed the university $900. It was 1987.
My student loan had not been processed, my mother could not pay the bill without jeopardizing her own ability to survive, and I was warned that I could be removed from school. I was only 18 years old.
In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I reflect on the emotional weight of that conversation, the painful reality many students face when financial aid falls short, and the moment I realized that I would have to take responsibility for finding a way to finance my own education.
Although the situation eventually worked out, that experience changed me. It pushed me into survival mode, shaped the way I approached college, and influenced how I continue to think about financial security today.
Sometimes one conversation does more than interrupt your plans. It changes how you prepare for the rest of your life.
Listen to the full episode and share it with a student, parent, educator, or family who may be struggling with the financial realities of college. Then ask yourself: What conversation forced you to grow up faster than you expected?
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In this companion podcast to my YouTube video, “The Fall of 1988: When I Had to Rebuild My Life Without My Friends,” I reflect on one of the biggest lessons I learned from returning to college after nearly everyone in my support system had disappeared. When I came back to the University of Tampa as a Resident Assistant, I expected to continue building on the friendships I’d made during my freshman year. Instead, I found myself almost completely alone. My closest friends had transferred or chosen not to return, leaving me to rebuild my life from the ground up. In this episode, I go beyond the story and explore what that season taught me:* Why we sometimes build our identity around the people closest to us. * How losing your support system can force you to discover who you really are. * Why starting over is often more frightening than it is dangerous. * How unexpected relationships can expand your world in ways you never imagined. * Why the greatest periods of personal growth often begin with uncertainty rather than confidence.
Looking back, I realize that what felt like one of the loneliest moments of my young adulthood became one of the most transformative. Sometimes the relationships we lose make room for the relationships—and the person—we were always meant to become.
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The Fall of 1988: When I Had to Rebuild My Life Without My Friends
https://youtu.be/cd2lFns1usQ
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Returning to the University of Tampa for my sophomore year should have felt familiar—but almost everyone I had depended on was gone.
My best friend and roommate did not return. Other friendships I had begun building disappeared as well. I arrived back on campus after a 24-hour Greyhound bus ride, carrying a military duffel bag on my back and a footlocker on my head, knowing that I would have to figure out this new chapter largely on my own.
At the same time, I was stepping into new responsibilities as a resident assistant, continuing ROTC, beginning more challenging science courses, and working through college work-study. Beneath all of that was a deeper fear: I was a poor Black student from Arkansas surrounded by people I believed came from very different backgrounds, and I questioned whether I had anything valuable to offer them.
In this episode, I reflect on what it felt like to return to college terrified, uncertain, and alone—and how that frightening reset became one of the most important adult-shaping experiences of my life.
Sometimes starting over is not proof that everything has fallen apart. Sometimes it is the beginning of discovering who you are capable of becoming.
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We often assume we’re alone when life changes.
That’s exactly how I felt when I returned to college in the fall of 1988.
My closest friends were gone, and I believed I was beginning the year without a support system. What I didn’t know was that others had already stepped into that role.
In this episode, I share how my best friend’s family continued to watch over me, how an unexpected friendship introduced me to an entirely different culture, and why one conversation changed the way I think about being approachable.
This episode is about the quiet ways people invest in us before we even realize they care. Sometimes grace arrives long before we recognize it.
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There comes a point in almost everyone’s life when the original plan no longer works.
In this episode, I reflect on one of the first major personal resets I experienced during the summer of 1988. What began as a simple return home after my freshman year of college quickly turned into a season of unexpected change. My support system disappeared, my transportation plans fell apart, and I had to decide whether I still believed in the future I had chosen.
More importantly, I explore what that experience taught me about resilience, independence, and making better decisions when life gives you better information.
If you’re navigating a career transition, recovering from a setback, or simply trying to figure out your next move, this conversation is a reminder that a reset isn’t always the end of the story. Sometimes it’s the beginning of a better one.
If this episode encouraged you, please consider following the podcast and sharing it with someone who may be going through a season of change. Your support helps these conversations reach people who need them most. I’d also love to hear from you.
What has been the biggest personal or professional reset of your life, and what did it teach you?
Leave a comment, send me a message, or join the conversation through AnthonyReeves.com. Until next time, remember: sometimes the best version of your future begins the moment your original plans fall apart.
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What was it really like to become one of the few Black Resident Assistants at a predominantly white university in the late 1980s?
In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I share the story behind my unexpected journey from a freshman who never believed he would be hired to becoming a Resident Assistant—and eventually training future RAs on diversity, culture, and leadership.
This isn’t just a story about college housing. It’s about learning to navigate unfamiliar spaces, leading with authenticity, confronting racial realities with honesty, and discovering that your greatest challenges often become your greatest qualifications to lead.
For members of Black Generation X, these weren’t theoretical conversations—they were lived experiences that shaped how we learned to succeed in integrated America.
If you’ve ever questioned whether you belonged, this conversation is for you.
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And if you enjoy these stories about Black Generation X, be sure to explore the rest of The Anthony Reeves Experience, where history, life lessons, and personal experiences come together to help us better understand where we’ve been—and where we’re going.
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Sometimes the smallest experiences become the biggest teachers.
As a freshman at the University of Tampa in 1987, all I wanted was a haircut before ROTC. Instead, I encountered racial assumptions, unexpected kindness, and a lesson about perception versus reality that has stayed with me for decades.
In this companion episode, I reflect on how one ordinary afternoon helped shape my understanding of race, community, and judging people based on firsthand experience instead of fear or stereotypes.
This is another chapter in my ongoing Black Generation X journey. Call to Action If this episode resonated with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating or review, and share it with someone who appreciates honest conversations about history, race, and personal growth.
I’d also love to hear about a time when your own experience challenged what you had always been told.
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As a freshman at the University of Tampa, I experienced something that would repeat itself every single year: university police stopping me while I walked across campus at night to ask for my student ID.
Were they simply doing their jobs? Or was I being singled out because I was one of the few Black students on campus? The truth is, I still don’t know.
In this episode, I explore one of the defining experiences of Black Generation X—living in a world where discrimination wasn’t always obvious, but where many of us constantly questioned whether race played a role in how we were treated. Sometimes the hardest part wasn’t proving discrimination.
It was never knowing for sure.
If you’re part of Generation X—or if you’ve ever questioned whether an experience was about who you were rather than what you did—this conversation may resonate with you.
Have you ever experienced a situation where you couldn’t tell whether you were being treated differently—or whether there was another explanation? Share your story in the comments. I’d love to hear your perspective, especially from fellow Generation X listeners.
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What happens when you enter a space knowing that you earned the opportunity—but still feel that you must prove you deserve it?
In this companion episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I share the personal story behind my micro-book, I Deserve to Be There.
I grew up in Pine Bluff, Arkansas, surrounded by Black educators, professionals, church members and family friends who were committed to nurturing my success. Then I entered the University of Tampa, an overwhelmingly white institution where I suddenly found myself searching for people who understood my experience. My college journey included isolation, financial hardship, conflict with roommates, cultural misunderstandings and moments when I seriously questioned whether I belonged. It also included mentorship, Black student community, ROTC, Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, leadership opportunities and recognition that showed me how deeply I had become part of the university community.
This episode explores the pressure many Black Gen X students carried into newly accessible spaces: the belief that we had to work harder, perform better and continually demonstrate that we deserved opportunities we had already earned. Ultimately, I discovered that belonging was not something another person could grant me. I deserved to be there from the moment I arrived.
Listen, reflect and share this episode with someone who has ever been the first, the only or one of very few in a professional, educational or social space. Visit anthonyreeves.com to explore more content from The Anthony Reeves Experience and learn more about the Black Generation X Starter Kit.
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During my first semester at the University of Tampa, I was 18 years old, 900 miles away from home, and struggling financially.There were times when I simply did not have enough money to wash my clothes. Instead of asking why, my roommates decided to remove my laundry, strip my bed, and scatter everything throughout the dormitory hallway.What followed was not simply a disagreement about dirty clothes.
It was a moment of humiliation, anger, isolation, and decision. I had to determine whether I would respond violently, report what happened, leave school, or find another way to protect my dignity and my future.
In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I reflect on the experience, the friendship that helped me survive it, and the lessons I learned about navigating spaces where you may belong—but still may not feel protected.
This story also connects with my micro-book, I Deserved to Be
There, from the Black Generation X Starter Kit.
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In this companion podcast episode, Tony Reeves reflects on the complicated bridge between HBCU dreams and PWI reality. Drawing from his Black Gen X college experience, he discusses representation, cultural isolation, the importance of Black-centered spaces, and the leadership lessons that came from learning how to survive and thrive in a place that was not built around him.
This episode explores what it means to belong, adapt, build community, and create the college experience you need when the institution does not automatically provide it.
Call to Action If this story connects with your own college experience, share it with someone who attended an HBCU, a PWI, or who is trying to figure out where they truly belong. And if you want to explore more of the Black Gen X Starter Kit series, visit anthonyreeves.com or check out The Anthony Reeves Experience on Fourthwall. Hashtags #BlackGenX
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Before GPS, Cash App, cell phones, and streaming music, taking a long road trip required planning, memory, discipline, and a little bit of nerve. In this episode, Tony Reeves reflects on what it meant to drive from Tampa to Pine Bluff in the early 1990s, when every gas stop, radio dead zone, highway turn, and dollar had to be accounted for.
This is not just a story about travel. It is a reminder of how Black Gen X learned resilience, independence, and problem-solving in real time—long before technology made the road feel safer and easier. From $0.99 gas to sunflower seeds, Cherry Coke, back roads, and calling home before you left, this episode captures a generation that had to figure it out while moving forward.
Call to Action
Take a listen, and think back to your own first long road trip. What did you have to plan for before GPS, smartphones, and digital money made everything easier? Share this episode with someone who remembers what it meant to really “know the route.”
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In this companion podcast episode, I reflect on the meaning behind my e-book “Gen X in the Middle: How Black Gen X Bridged Two Worlds” and why Black Generation X deserves to be understood as more than a forgotten or overlooked generation.
Using the end of MTV’s 24-hour music broadcasting stations as a cultural marker, I discuss how Gen X lived through a unique transition point in American history. Black Gen X grew up after major civil rights victories, but we still had to figure out what those victories meant in real life. We were raised by parents who experienced restriction, segregation, and overt racism, while we entered schools, workplaces, and cultural spaces that were supposedly more open but still complicated.
This episode explores three major takeaways from the book: First, Black Gen X moved without a blueprint. Second, representation shaped how we saw ourselves. Third, we had to learn how to navigate a softer, more subtle version of racism.
This episode also serves as an introduction to my Black Generation Starter Kit, a collection created to help preserve, explain, and share the Black Gen X experience.
\To go deeper into this conversation, check out the companion long video on YouTube and explore my e-book “Gen X in the Middle: How Black Gen X Bridged Two Worlds.” You can also find the full Black Generation Starter Kit at anthonyreeves.com or through the links connected to this episode.
Black Gen X has a story worth telling, and this is one entry point into that story.
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In this episode of The Anthony Reeves Experience, Tony Reeves reflects on what nightlife and social connection looked like for Black Gen X professionals as they moved beyond the club scene and into more intentional spaces.
From house gatherings among young officers, to cigar bars and jazz lounges, to professional socials in Tampa’s Ybor City, Tony explores how Black professionals created their own spaces for connection before social media, apps, and digital networking became the norm.
This conversation highlights the importance of safe spaces, professional community, cultural identity, and the quiet innovation of a generation that had to build its own rooms when no one showed them how.
Think back to the spaces that helped shape you. Was it a house party, a lounge, a church event, a Greek gathering, a professional mixer, or somebody’s living room? Drop a comment and share where your generation found community.
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In this companion podcast to the main video, Tony Reeves reflects on how Black Generation X learned to navigate college, career, and predominantly white spaces without always having mentors or guides in place.
The episode explores performance, self-sufficiency, safe spaces, organic support, racial identity, and the “show and prove” mindset that shaped many Black Gen X professionals.
After listening, go watch the full video for the deeper breakdown. Then leave a comment and share your own experience: Who helped guide you when no formal roadmap existed — and what did you have to learn on your own?
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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, Tony reflects on the danger of romanticizing survival, especially from the perspective of Black Gen X.
Many of us grew up having to figure things out with limited support, limited resources, and few backup plans. We learned how to survive because we had no other choice. But survival should not be confused with something glamorous. Through personal stories about college, financial pressure, unreliable cars, family support, and generational differences,
Tony breaks down why resilience matters — but why struggle should not be celebrated as if it was ideal.
This conversation is not about calling younger generations soft. It is about understanding that the goal was never for them to suffer the way we did. The goal was to create better options. Survival may have shaped us. But there was nothing romantic about it.
Call to Action What is something you survived that people now try to make sound “normal” or “character-building”? Drop your thoughts in the comments — because some of these stories need to be understood, not romanticized.
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In this episode, Tony Reeves reflects on one of the most emotionally powerful moments of his young adult life: the day after college graduation.
Graduation itself was a celebration—family, achievement, recognition, commissioning, and the completion of a long journey. But the next day brought something different: silence. As the campus emptied, students checked out, and the familiar rhythm of college life disappeared, Tony found himself confronting the reality of transition. The question was no longer whether he would graduate. He had done that.
The question became: What now?
This episode explores the emotional complexity of achievement, the uncertainty that follows major milestones, and why the quiet moments after success often reveal more than the celebration itself.
Call to Action Think about a time when you reached a goal but still felt uncertain afterward. Share this episode with someone who is entering a new chapter, and follow the podcast for more reflective conversations about growth, identity, and life transitions.
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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, Tony reflects on what it truly means to be “the first” — not as a slogan, but as a lived experience.
When Tony left Pine Bluff, Arkansas, to attend the University of Tampa, he entered a world no one in his immediate circle had experienced. There was no social media, no campus visit, no one close by who could explain the culture, the distance, or the emotional weight of being 900 miles from home at a predominantly white private institution.
This conversation explores the difference between going somewhere new and going somewhere new without a roadmap. Tony breaks down the uncertainty, isolation, adjustment, and growth that come with being the first person in your circle to step into unfamiliar territory — and why every success and mistake feels different when you are learning in real time.
This is a reflection for anyone who has ever had to figure it out alone, build their own reference points, and survive spaces they were never fully prepared to enter.
Have you ever been the first in your family, your circle, or your community to step into a space nobody could prepare you for? Share your story in the comments. Your experience may be the roadmap someone else needs.
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In this episode of In the Know with Tony Reeves, Tony reflects on a season when he felt professionally stuck after completing graduate school.
On paper, he had done everything right: earned the degree, kept working full-time, and positioned himself for growth. But once graduation passed, nothing changed — because he had not created a plan for what came next. Through this personal story, Tony breaks down a hard but necessary lesson: sometimes we are waiting for doors to open when we have not even started looking for them. He shares how he moved from frustration and stagnation to clarity by asking himself three simple but powerful questions: What do I want? What do I want to do? What do I want next?
This episode is for anyone who feels stuck in their career, unsure about their next move, or frustrated because their hard work has not automatically turned into opportunity.
If you’re feeling stuck professionally, take a moment today and ask yourself: What do I want next — and what am I doing to move toward it? Then share this episode with someone who may need that same reminder.
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In this episode, Tony Reeves reflects on a defining high school experience with his biology teacher, Miss Jewel Watley, at Pine Bluff High School. What began as intimidation — being placed in the school’s first AP Biology class alongside some of the top students in his class — later became one of the most important turning points in his educational and professional journey.
This episode explores the role of Black educators, the “it takes a village” philosophy, and the responsibility older generations often felt to identify, challenge, and cultivate young Black talent. Tony connects that classroom experience to his later path through biology, public health, occupational safety, law school, and Social Security Disability practice.
This is a reflection on mentorship, community responsibility, and the quiet ways someone else’s belief can redirect an entire life.
After listening, think about the person who pushed you before you understood why. Send this episode to them if they are still here — or share their name, their lesson, or their impact with someone else. And subscribe to The Anthony Reeves Experience for more grounded reflections on life, identity, career, history, and the systems that shaped us.
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In this episode, Tony Reeves reflects on the major professional pivot points that shaped his career — from state employment to military service, law school, private practice, entrepreneurship, and the judiciary.
This conversation is not about chasing titles or making reckless moves. It is about understanding that every career decision happens inside a specific season of life. The facts, pressures, risks, and opportunities change as you evolve. Tony breaks down why career crossroads are rarely simple, why money and status are only part of the equation, and why learning to trust your analysis is essential when the outcome is uncertain.
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In this episode, Tony Reeves answers a question he has been asked many times:
Why did you go to law school?
The answer is not as polished or predictable as some might expect. Tony reflects on growing up as part of Generation X, watching his mother’s educational journey, and being shaped by the belief that education was the gateway to security, survival, and opportunity. He shares how law school became both a personal milestone and a professional contingency plan—even though he had no clear idea where the degree would take him.
Along the way, he opens up about imposter syndrome, fear of failure, and what it felt like to move through law school without fully believing he belonged there.
This episode is a candid reflection on education, ambition, generational conditioning, professional identity, and how sometimes the decisions we make out of uncertainty still become the foundation for everything that comes next.
Call to Action
Before you commit to the next degree, certification, job move, or major life decision, ask yourself one question: Am I doing this because it gives me real leverage for the future—or because I’m chasing security without a plan?
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In this episode of The Anthony Reeves Experience, Tony Reeves reflects on what it means to be part of Black Generation X — a generation raised by parents, grandparents, and elders who lived through Jim Crow, segregation, discrimination, and daily racial hostility.
Many of those elders did not share the full weight of what they experienced. They protected their children from the burden of the trauma, while still passing down the lessons they learned from surviving it.
Tony discusses family history, his grandfather’s military service, his mother’s experiences, the silence surrounding racial trauma, and why understanding the past is not the same as “dwelling” on it.
This episode is a reflection on memory, survival, generational silence, and the wisdom Black Gen X inherited without always knowing the full story behind it.
Call to Action After you listen, think about the elders in your own life. What did they teach you that may have come from something they survived but never fully explained? Share this episode with someone who understands that kind of generational silence.
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In this deeply personal reflection, Tony Reeves shares the emotional experience of selling his mother’s house after her passing.
For decades, that house was more than property—it was an anchor, a family gathering place, and a physical reminder of his mother’s presence. But as Tony walks through the process of clearing out the home, signing the paperwork, and saying goodbye to one of the last tangible connections to his mother, he reflects on a truth many people eventually face: letting go of a thing is not the same as letting go of the person.
This episode is about grief, legacy, family anchors, and learning that the people we love remain with us long after the physical reminders are gone.
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During his time as a young Black naval officer at Camp Lejeune, Tony Reeves discovered the profound importance of safe spaces and informal support networks.
What began as casual social gatherings hosted by a fellow officer turned out to be something much deeper: a deliberate effort to build a community where young Black professionals could connect, support one another, and stay aware of unseen risks.
In this episode, Tony reflects on how those relationships became an invisible infrastructure of protection and guidance — and why having people who watch your back can make all the difference.
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After my mother passed away in 2025, I found myself facing one of the hardest decisions an only child can make: selling the house that had become the center of her life and the anchor point for mine.
Although I didn’t grow up in this house, it became the place I always returned to. It was where family gathered, where friends stayed, and where my mother built the life she had worked so hard to create.
When the time came to clean it out and sell it, I realized I wasn’t just dealing with real estate. I was confronting the loss of the last major physical connection to the person who had been my foundation for nearly six decades.
In this episode, I reflect on grief, legacy, and the difficult truth that letting go of an object does not mean letting go of the person. Sometimes the most important lesson is understanding that the memories, impact, and love remain long after the physical anchor is gone.
If you’ve ever had to say goodbye to a parent, a home, or something that symbolized a significant relationship, this conversation is for you.
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What does it really mean to be Black Generation X? We are the generation that came after the Civil Rights Movement…
Raised to believe progress had already happened…
But lived through experiences that told us something very different. In this video, I break down:
* The reality of growing up as part of the transitional generation
* The difference between progress and the illusion of progress
* How history, culture, and lived experience shaped our perspective
* And most importantly… what Black Gen X must do moving forward
This isn’t just about the past.
This is about our responsibility right now. If you’ve ever felt like you were caught between what you were told and what you experienced…
this conversation is for you.
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What does progress really look like—and who gets to define it?
In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, Tony takes a deeply personal and thought-provoking look at what it means to be part of Black Generation X—the generation caught between the overt racism of the past and the subtle, coded language of the present.
From phrases like “I don’t see color” to accusations of “playing the race card,” Tony breaks down how seemingly harmless language can carry deeper meaning—and why it often leaves Black Gen X navigating a complicated reality: acknowledging progress while still pushing for more.
This episode isn’t about headlines—it’s about lived experience. It’s about understanding how language has evolved, how intent doesn’t always match impact, and why “progress” should never be used as an excuse to stop moving forward. If you’ve ever questioned whether progress is being used as a destination instead of a journey, this conversation is for you.
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This isn’t just a story about where we sat. It’s a story about why we had to sit there—and what we built because of it. Growing up as part of Black Generation X, we entered spaces that were technically “integrated”…
but not always inclusive.
From:
✔️ Boot camp
✔️ College campuses
✔️ Law school
✔️ Early professional environments We found ourselves in rooms where we were often the only ones.
So what did we do? We found each other. Not to isolate.
Not to exclude. But to survive, understand, and move strategically. What looked like a simple cafeteria table… Was actually:
👉 A knowledge exchange
👉 A warning system
👉 A professional network
👉 A foundation for long-term success And that same instinct—
that same infrastructure—
followed us into the corporate boardroom.
This podcast breaks down:
🔹 Why Black Gen X gathered the way we did
🔹 The difference between segregation and assembly
🔹 How shared experience became professional strategy
🔹 Why these informal networks became critical to advancement
🔹 What people still misunderstand about those spaces today If you’ve ever:
✔️ Felt like the only one in the room
✔️ Looked for someone who understood your experience
✔️ Built relationships that helped you navigate difficult environments This conversation is for you.
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At some point in your career, you’ll face a decision that forces you to choose between what you know and what you don’t. In this episode of In The Know with Tony Reeves, I break down one of the biggest obstacles professionals face at career crossroads: the psychological weight of the unknown. Drawing from my own journey—from running my law firm to becoming a judge—I share how fear, comfort, and bias toward the “known” almost kept me from preparing for a life-changing opportunity. You’ll learn:* Why we naturally favor the “known” (even when it limits us) * How failing to prepare for opportunity creates unnecessary stress * The real way to evaluate career decisions (it’s not what you think) * Why every decision is the “right” decision—if you own it * How to turn both success and mistakes into career leverage
If you’re facing a career pivot, considering a new opportunity, or stuck between comfort and growth—this episode is for you.
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We’ve all heard it: “Live your best life.” But what does that actually mean across generations? This episode explores:* The structured path of older generations * The urgency of younger generations * And the Gen X mindset that blends both
If you’re building something—or rebuilding—this conversation matters
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What happens when everything you’ve relied on… suddenly changes? In this episode of In the Know with Tony Reeves, I take you back to a pivotal moment in my life—leaving a steady paycheck to start my own law practice. What seemed like a bold and exciting move quickly became something much deeper: a confrontation with uncertainty, fear, and responsibility. From losing the predictability of a direct deposit…
To realizing no one else was responsible for generating income…
To the moment it truly hit: “When am I getting paid again?” This episode isn’t just about entrepreneurship—it’s about identity, conditioning, and what it really means to adjust when your “normal” disappears. If you’ve ever:
* Left a stable job
* Faced a financial or personal transition
* Or found yourself in unfamiliar territory
This conversation will resonate. Because the truth is…
Your new normal isn’t something you find—it’s something you build.
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There comes a point in life where you have to make a decision most people aren’t prepared for…
Do you hold on to the comfort you worked so hard to achieve—or do you take a risk on yourself?
In this episode, I walk through one of the most defining moments of my life. After years of struggling just to survive—stretching groceries, living paycheck to paycheck, and dealing with instability—I finally reached a level of comfort through my military career.
Stable income. Housing covered. Food covered. A lifestyle I never imagined.
And then I had to decide whether to walk away from all of it.
This isn’t just a story about career decisions. It’s about fear, control, and what it really means to bet on yourself when you finally have something to lose.
If you’ve ever felt stuck between staying safe and stepping into something greater, this episode is for you.
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What really drives you?
In this episode, Tony Reeves breaks down a powerful truth most people overlook—motivation isn’t a straight line. It shifts, evolves, and sometimes starts from places we don’t fully understand.
Drawing from his own journey—from leaving Pine Bluff to attending the University of Tampa—Tony shares how his initial motivation wasn’t about purpose or planning… it was about proving someone wrong. But once he got there, a deeper question emerged:
“Now what?”
What follows is a raw and honest reflection on:
* How motivation can be both positive and negative
* Why chasing validation can blind you to better opportunities
* The difference between getting somewhere and building something there
* How life’s unexpected opportunities can reshape your purpose
* Why your motivation must evolve if you want to grow
This episode is a reminder that the journey doesn’t end when you arrive—it changes.
If you’ve ever found yourself questioning your direction, your purpose, or your next move… this conversation is for you.
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Even after decades of achievement, imposter syndrome can still show up.
In this episode, I reflect on a reunion with law school classmates that forced me to confront how I see myself versus how others see me—and why that gap matters.
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This episode is personal.
I take you back to a defining moment in my career—when I thought I was on track to become a partner after years of dedication… only to be told it wasn’t enough.
What followed were two conversations that changed everything:
* One that helped me understand the value of my time
* And another that forced me to make a decision
A close friend told me something I’ll never forget:
If we’re still having this conversation months from now… it’s a hobby.
And my wife gave me the clarity I didn’t know I needed:
Pick a lane.
This episode is about:
* Knowing when you’re wasting time vs. building toward something real
* The difference between support and motivation
* Why unclear expectations can cost you years
* And how the right voices in your life can push you to act
If you’re at a crossroads—career, business, or life—this one is for you.
🎯 Key takeaway: You can get money back. You can get opportunities again. You cannot get your time back.This episode is personal.
I take you back to a defining moment in my career—when I thought I was on track to become a partner after years of dedication… only to be told it wasn’t enough.
What followed were two conversations that changed everything:
* One that helped me understand the value of my time
* And another that forced me to make a decision
A close friend told me something I’ll never forget:
If we’re still having this conversation months from now… it’s a hobby.
And my wife gave me the clarity I didn’t know I needed:
Pick a lane.
This episode is about:
* Knowing when you’re wasting time vs. building toward something real
* The difference between support and motivation
* Why unclear expectations can cost you years
* And how the right voices in your life can push you to act
If you’re at a crossroads—career, business, or life—this one is for you.
🎯 Key takeaway: You can get money back. You can get opportunities again. You cannot get your time back.
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Most people remember A Different World as a celebration of HBCU life.
But for Black Gen X students attending predominantly white institutions… it meant something very different.
In this episode, I reflect on my experience entering college in the late ’80s—at a time when being a minority on campus wasn’t just about numbers, it was about navigating an environment that wasn’t built with you in mind.
We didn’t just go to class. We built community. We created culture. We found ways to belong.
And along the way, shows like A Different World became more than entertainment—they became a reflection of pieces of our reality.
This is a perspective you don’t hear often… but one that shaped an entire generation.
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What happens when you finally reach the goal you’ve been chasing?
We’re taught to shoot for the moon—to set big goals, work hard, and push forward no matter what. But no one really talks about what happens when you actually get there.
In this episode of In The Know with Tony Reeves, I share a personal reflection on my journey to becoming a judge—and the unexpected reality that came with it. Because the truth is, even when you’re doing everything right… there can still be a part of you that never fully believed you’d make it.
And when you do?
That’s when the real work begins.
We’re talking about:
* Why success can feel surreal—even when you’ve earned it
* The hidden danger of not preparing for after the goal
* How imposter syndrome shows up when you least expect it
* Why you must mentally make space for your own success
* How to embrace your new reality without losing who you are
If you’ve ever chased something big—or you’re in the process of getting there—this episode will challenge how you think about success, identity, and what comes next.
Because sometimes… the hardest part isn’t getting there.
It’s believing you deserve to stay.
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Many professionals say the same phrase when they feel disrespected at work:
“I know my worth.”
But in professional environments, that statement rarely creates leverage.
In this episode, I reflect on a resignation letter I wrote nearly 20 years ago and the lesson I didn’t fully understand at the time.
There is a critical difference between worth and value.
Worth is personal. Value is measurable.
Organizations make decisions based on cost-benefit analysis, not emotional statements about personal worth.
In this conversation, I discuss:
• Why employers respond to value instead of worth • How professionals weaken their negotiating position without realizing it • The power of quantifying what you bring to the table • Why understanding your value gives you real career leverage
If you want more control over your career direction, negotiations, and professional positioning, understanding this distinction is essential.
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There’s a difference between working hard… and hiding in your work.
In this episode of In The Know with Tony Reeves, I share a deeply personal story from my first job—how I immersed myself in work as a way to cope with a toxic relationship, isolation, and unresolved emotional pain.
On the surface, it looked like ambition. I was producing. I was being recognized. I was excelling.
But underneath it all, I was avoiding something I didn’t know how to face.
In this episode, I break down:
* Why high performers often use work as a coping mechanism
* How productivity can mask unresolved trauma
* The difference between healthy focus and emotional avoidance
* What happens when success hides the real problem
If you’ve ever poured yourself into your work during a difficult time… this episode is for you.
🎧 Listen, reflect, and ask yourself: Am I building something… or am I hiding in it?
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People often ask me why I joined the military. The truth is the answer changed over time.
At first it was about leadership and structure. Later it was about security and opportunity.
But looking back today, I realized something deeper influenced my decision — the examples set by the people I looked up to.
In this episode I reflect on my military journey and what truly shaped that decision.
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In this episode, I reflect on a lesson many of us learn the hard way: growth rarely happens the way we expect.
Early in my career, I found myself frustrated when a professional opportunity didn’t unfold the way I wanted. I thought I had lost something important. But over time, I realized that the change actually positioned me to develop new skills and gain experiences that I wouldn’t have had otherwise.
Sometimes we spend so much time protecting a good situation that we resist the very opportunities that can help us grow.
This episode explores the mindset shift required when life presents opportunities that don’t align with our plans — and how those moments can ultimately shape our future in powerful ways.
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Sometimes the biggest opportunities in life arrive in ways we didn’t expect — and often in ways we didn’t want.
In this episode, I reflect on a moment early in my career when I believed I had the perfect situation. I had a good job, a supportive environment, and a path that felt comfortable. But then circumstances changed in a way that forced me to reconsider everything.
At the time, I was frustrated because I wanted growth on my terms.
What I eventually realized, however, was that the opportunity that disrupted my plans was actually preparing me for something greater. The skills I developed during that unexpected transition ended up benefiting my career in ways I never anticipated.
In this conversation, I share a simple but powerful insight:
Sometimes the opportunity that makes you uncomfortable is the one that helps you grow the most.
If you’ve ever struggled with change, career transitions, or unexpected shifts in life, this episode may help you look at those moments from a different perspective.
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At some point in your career, you will face what I call a professional point of no return.
Not a promotion. Not a raise. Not a routine job change.
A decision that fundamentally changes your trajectory.
In this episode, I share the story of when I had to decide whether to stay at a firm I loved… or walk away and build my own practice from scratch.
We discuss:
• Shifting expectations and unclear promotion paths • The emotional weight of professional loyalty • Security vs. uncertainty • The power of going “all in” • Why execution is harder than the decision
If you’re standing at a career crossroads — or quietly questioning your professional future — this conversation is for you.
Sometimes growth requires stepping into the unknown.
And sometimes, once you decide, there is no turning back.
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Sometimes the opportunities that shape your life don’t arrive wrapped in comfort — they come through confusion, misinformation, or unexpected change.
In this episode, I share a pivotal early-career experience from 1992 when a misunderstanding about an educational leave program forced me to leave a job I loved and relocate for graduate school. At the time, it felt frustrating and unfair. But with perspective, I now see how that detour gave me hands-on experience, professional maturity, and skills that later shaped my military career and long-term professional trajectory.
This conversation explores:
* Why your job should never become your identity
* How imperfect systems can still produce opportunity
* The danger of staying emotionally stuck in career setbacks
* How real-world experience often teaches what policy environments can’t
* Why growth sometimes requires leaving comfort behind
If you’ve ever felt sidelined, misled, or forced into a career pivot — this episode is for you.
Because sometimes the move you resist becomes the move that
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What happens when you move from structured environments into spaces where there are no clear rules?
For most of our lives, we are conditioned to function inside defined systems — school schedules, job hierarchies, predictable workflows. But what happens when you step into entrepreneurship, leadership, or life transitions where there is no blueprint?
In this episode, Anthony Reeves explores the difference between survival mode and thriving mode, the fear of unstructured environments, and the generational responsibility of creating frameworks where none existed.
For many Gen X professionals, we were not handed blueprints — we had to become the architects. And that shift changes everything.
If you’re navigating career transitions, entrepreneurship, leadership, or redefining success, this conversation is for you.
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Everybody says they’re “trying to take it to the next level.”
But what does that even mean?
In this episode of In the Know with Tony Reeves, Tony challenges the abstract language we casually throw around when talking about growth. Whether it’s your career, your life, or your side projects, saying “next level” without defining it is just motivational wallpaper.
Tony breaks down:
* The difference between abstract ambition and defined goals
* Why people can’t help you if you can’t articulate your direction
* How your career, life, and side projects don’t always move in concert
* The Big Three: Readjust. Reorganize. Reprioritize.
* Why visualization is critical to maximizing your finite time
This episode is a direct challenge: Stop branding your life with slogans and start defining measurable steps.
Because your life is not a logo.
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If this episode challenged you, here’s your assignment:
Take 15 minutes today and write down:
1. What your “next level” actually looks like.
2. The specific steps required to get there.
3. What you need to readjust, reorganize, or reprioritize.
Then share this episode with someone who keeps saying “I’m leveling up” — and ask them what that really means.
If you found value in this conversation:
* Follow the podcast.
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* And share it with someone who’s serious about growth — not just slogans.
Let’s stop talking abstract. Let’s start moving concrete.
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Thinking about graduate school — or wondering if your advanced degree was worth it?
In this episode of In the Know with Tony Reeves, I share real talk about what a master’s degree actually does for your career. From leveraging expertise to managing expectations, I break down the myths many of us grew up believing about education automatically opening doors.
I also talk about:
* Why advanced degrees don’t guarantee opportunity
* How graduate school can rebuild confidence and credibility
* The importance of demand in your chosen field
* Why education should be a stepping stone — not the finish line
* How to appreciate your achievements without overestimating them
If you’re considering grad school, currently in it, or reflecting on your journey — this conversation is for you.
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In this episode, I share a deeply personal story about a moment in college when my sense of safety was unexpectedly challenged — and how that experience shaped how I approach environments, relationships, and professional spaces even today.
Safety isn’t always physical. Sometimes it’s emotional, psychological, and cultural. And when that sense of safety is disrupted, it can change how you move through the world.
In this conversation, I discuss:
✔ The impact of losing a sense of safety
✔ Navigating unfamiliar cultural and socioeconomic environments
✔ What survival mode really looks like
✔ The importance of community and mentorship
✔ Lessons that continue to influence my life and professional perspective
This episode is part personal reflection, part life lesson, and part conversation about resilience, identity, and growth.
If you’ve ever had to rebuild confidence after a difficult experience — or learned to navigate spaces where you didn’t immediately feel comfortable — this conversation is for you.
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Protect your peace. Build your community. And keep moving forward.
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Just because we share the same space doesn’t mean we share the same reality.
In this episode, I explore the difference between what I call a shared world and a shared reality — and why understanding that distinction matters more than we often realize.
From professional environments to generational experience, from socioeconomic signals to cultural awareness, this conversation is about recognizing that people can occupy the same environment while navigating very different lived experiences.
This isn’t about division. It’s about awareness. It’s about empathy. And it’s about understanding how perspective shapes how we move through the world.
If you’ve ever found yourself wondering why two people can walk through the same situation and come away with completely different experiences, this conversation is for you.
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Leaving a job is hard — but leaving when things didn’t end on the best terms can be one of the toughest professional moments you’ll ever face.
In this episode of In The Know with Tony Reeves, I break down six key rules to help you write a resignation letter that protects your reputation, keeps your future opportunities intact, and helps you exit with professionalism — even when you’re frustrated.
We cover:* Why you should have someone else review your letter first
* How to treat your resignation like an application to leave
* The difference between using facts vs. fire
* Why you should always keep a copy of your letter
* How to stay professional, not personal
* And the most important truth of all: people won’t remember why you left — but they’ll remember the way you left
If you’re resigning because of tension, disrespect, hostility, or a workplace situation that pushed you to the edge — this episode will help you walk out the door the right way.
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What happens when you’re taught how to survive—but never shown how to build?
As a member of Black Generation X, I grew up surrounded by people who did “everything right.” College degrees. Military service. Long careers inside structured systems. Success was modeled through discipline, resilience, and endurance—but no one ever explained how to navigate life outside those systems.
In this episode, I reflect on what it meant to come of age as part of a bridge generation—one that benefited from the sacrifices of the Silent Generation and Baby Boomers, yet entered a world they had never experienced themselves. We were prepared for adversity, but often left without a blueprint for thriving in unstructured spaces like entrepreneurship, ownership, and self-creation.
I talk about:
* How generational influence quietly shaped expectations
* Why structure felt like safety—and how that became a limitation
* The shock of leaving institutional systems later in life
* The difference between survival skills and thriving skills
* What I want younger generations to understand so they don’t have to “figure it out alone”
This is not about blame. It’s about context, awareness, and legacy.
If you’re Black Gen X—or a first-generation professional navigating unfamiliar territory—this conversation will resonate.What happens when you’re taught how to survive—but never shown how to build?
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Welcome to 2026.
This episode isn’t about promoting a platform—it’s about helping you navigate an experience.
Over time, many people discover my work through videos, podcasts, blogs, or social media, but they’re often left wondering: Where do I start? How should I engage? Which space is actually meant for me?
In this episode, I break down what The Anthony Reeves Experience really is—and more importantly, how you can engage in a way that fits how you consume content.
We talk about:
* Why perspective matters more than performance
* How to choose between listening, watching, or reading
* Where memberships fit into the ecosystem—and why they exist
* How to avoid the noise and move with more clarity
* Why this experience is as much about your voice as it is mine
This is an orientation episode. A reset. A starting point for 2026.
Whether you’re new here or you’ve been around for a while, this episode is an invitation to engage intentionally and move forward with clarity.
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In this episode, I dive into a powerful reminder that what’s normal for you isn’t always normal for everyone else.
A recent conversation with a friend sparked this reflection on how people often become fascinated—or even stunned—when they witness the sacrifices you’ve made to reach a goal they can’t relate to. And for many of us who grew up Black Gen X, first-generation, or navigating worlds not built with us in mind, those sacrifices weren’t extraordinary… they were just our norm.
I share the story of taking two of my college friends with me from Tampa, Florida to Pine Bluff, Arkansas on a 24-hour Greyhound bus ride—a journey filled with transfers, long stretches of silence, heavy luggage, and the determination of someone paying his own way through an affluent PWI.
My friends were used to flying. They were used to comfort, ease, and speed.But for the first time, they saw what my reality looked like.They saw the cost of my dream.And they realized that my “normal” was something they had never even imagined.
This episode is about travel—but it’s also about class, race, adaptation, resilience, and the invisible work so many of us put in to make our goals possible.
If you’ve ever had to do whatever it took—even when others couldn’t understand why—you’ll feel this one.
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What does it really mean to be first generation?Not the version we celebrate on paper — but the hidden reality behind stepping into a world your family has never seen.
In this episode, I share my personal journey entering an affluent private PWI in 1987 as a Black Gen Xer.
From culture shock and resource gaps to the weight of being “the only one,” this story goes deeper than the milestone itself. It’s about navigating spaces without a blueprint, confronting imposter syndrome, and discovering how our generation became the blueprint for those who followed.
If you’ve ever been the first to walk a path no one prepared you for, this episode is for you.
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WHat does it really feel like to walk away from everything safe?In this episode, I share one of the most pivotal moments of my life — the day I resigned my commission in the U.S. Navy, packed my entire world into a car, and drove toward a future I couldn’t predict.
Most people call transitions like this “starting over,” but that’s not the truth.You’re not starting over — you’re starting fresh in unfamiliar territory, carrying all the lessons, scars, discipline, and wisdom from every chapter you’ve survived.
In 1998, I left a stable military career, a strong professional network, and a solid identity to take a risk on myself and attend Florida State University College of Law. What followed was a battle between comfort and calling, between fear and purpose, and between the life I knew and the future I hoped for.
This episode walks through:* Why safety can become a cage
* How imposter syndrome tries to talk you out of your dreams
* The quiet, unglamorous reality of major life transitions
* The emotional turmoil of driving toward the unknown
* The unexpected blessing that confirmed I was on the right path
* Why starting fresh doesn’t erase your past — it elevates it
If you’ve ever stood at a crossroads — knowing that comfort is killing your growth, but fear is holding you back — this episode is for you.
Your next chapter won’t wait on your comfort.Sometimes the strongest thing you can do… is bet on you.
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When you turn 21, the club feels like arrival. It’s the symbol of adulthood, freedom, identity, and validation. But at some point, the music, the crowd, and the performance stop aligning with who you’re becoming — and that’s where the real journey starts.
In this episode, Anthony Reeves, Esq. breaks down the unspoken transition many young Black professionals experience: evolving beyond nightlife culture, entering academic and professional environments, searching for culturally aligned peers, and finally discovering authentic community.
From the club scene… to graduate school… to exploring exclusive spaces… and ultimately finding real belonging through a military network — this story offers a blueprint for what professional growth looks like behind the scenes, not just online or on paper.
THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF: • You’re in your 20s or 30s and feel like you’ve outgrown old spaces • You’re educated, ambitious, or career-driven but unsure where you belong • You want connection with peers who share culture, vision, and values • You feel like you’re evolving — but don’t know where it’s leading • You’re searching for community that feels natural, not performative
KEY THEMES: • Why clubs feel like the starting point of adulthood • The moment nightlife stops matching professional growth • How graduate school shifts identity and expectations • The illusion of exclusivity in upscale social spaces • The frustration of trying to locate “your people” • How aligned spaces are found — not advertised • Community as a growth catalyst, not a social activity
QUOTE TO REMEMBER:
“You don’t evolve to impress new rooms — you evolve to recognize the rooms that were already meant for you.”
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In this episode, I break down one of the most overlooked realities of growing up Black as a member of Generation X — the confusing part of racism. Not because racism itself is confusing, but because the presentation of racism changed between our parents’ world and ours.
Our parents and grandparents grew up with laws, signs, institutions, and culture that made second-class citizenship undeniable. They didn’t have to guess if racism was present — it announced itself.
But Black Gen X came of age in a world where the signs were gone, the laws had changed, and the country insisted that things were different.
Except the people who enforced those old systems?They were still here.And their attitudes didn’t change just because the laws did.
This episode explores:* What it meant to grow up between two racial realities * How Black Gen X entered integrated spaces without the survival guide our parents had * The cafeteria moment when someone asked, “Why are you all segregating yourselves?” * The professional moment where I was told, “I’m surprised you’d think that way as an educated Black man” * Why microaggressions became emotional landmines * The generational disconnect between “We’ve moved forward” and “Be careful out there” * And why moments like George Floyd’s death revealed how long America ignored Black voices
For Black Gen X, racism wasn’t predictable anymore. It wasn’t a sign on the door or a slur shouted from a porch. It was a question. A comment. A moment that made you pause and ask, “Did that just happen?”
This is the story of growing up in that space — of learning how to navigate a world that promised equality but still carried hidden dangers.
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This 20-minute audio reflection pulls back the curtain on my IN THE KNOW video “Sign of the Times.” I share personal insights about the realities Gen X faced growing up between parents divided by the Jim Crow experience. For many White Gen Xers, that meant dealing with relatives whose biases still lingered. For Black Gen Xers, it meant hearing stories of survival and injustice at the dinner table. In this behind-the-scenes conversation, I talk about how those family histories shaped our generation’s silence, empathy, and evolution.
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In this episode, I take a hard look at what we mean when we say something was just a “sign of the times.” For generations, that phrase has been used to excuse racism, discrimination, and hate — as if time alone could justify injustice.
As a member of Black Generation X, I reflect on growing up surrounded by family members who lived through segregation, the Klan, and systemic racism — yet often stayed silent about it. But there’s another side to this story: many White Gen Xers were raised by people who benefitted from or defended those same systems, sometimes passing down their biases and beliefs to their children.
This isn’t about blame — it’s about truth. Because if “Jim Crow had kids,” then Generation X inherited the responsibility to confront what our parents taught us, challenge what they couldn’t see, and choose what we carry forward.
Let’s talk about what it really means to break the cycle and stop using “sign of the times” as a free pass for prejudice.
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For many of us in the Black Gen X generation, the N-word wasn’t something we were supposed to hear anymore. We were told that the world had changed—that the battles of our parents and grandparents had been fought and won. But all it took was one word to remind us that the past was never really gone.
In this episode, I share a deeply personal story—the first time I heard the N-word directed at me and my mother—and what that moment revealed about the illusion of equality so many of us were raised to believe in. From the quiet lessons of our parents’ generation to the silent shock of our own, this reflection explores how one word carries the weight of centuries.
This is more than a story about language. It’s about awareness, identity, and the difficult moment when innocence gives way to truth.
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Have you ever walked past a building and felt its history?
For many of us in Black Gen X, we live among reminders of what our parents and grandparents endured. The homes, parks, schools, and even restaurants we move through every day are living witnesses to segregation, struggle, and change.
In this episode, I reflect on how the past is still present — not in history books, but in the physical spaces that surround us. From a Mississippi plantation home to the parks of Pine Bluff, from the old McDonald’s on Main Street to Pine Bluff High School and the Saenger Theater — each place holds a story.
These places remind us that time doesn’t erase history. It only buries it under new paint. And when we ignore that truth, we risk being historically disrespectful to those who came before us.
Key Segments
- The Symbol Never Dies: How a childhood visit to a plantation revealed the emotional weight of historical spaces.
- From Segregation to Assembly: The evolution of Townsend and Oakland Parks — and how safe spaces carry memory.
- Same Space, Different Impact: Why the same McDonald’s or school means something completely different to different generations.
- The Impact Doesn’t Go Away: Remembering the Saenger Theater and the legacy of exclusion that still lingers.
Takeaway
You can remodel a building, but you can’t renovate its history. Remembering isn’t about guilt — it’s about respect.
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In this episode, Tony Reeves reflects on how a simple kindergarten classroom in 1974 became the backdrop for one of the most profound social transformations in American history.
Born in 1969 and starting school just two decades after Brown v. Board of Education, Tony shares what it was like to begin his education during the final waves of school desegregation in Pine Bluff, Arkansas. What felt like an ordinary start to childhood was actually a quiet revolution — where innocence and integration met for the first time.
He also pays tribute to his mother, one of the first Black teachers in an integrated kindergarten in Pine Bluff, Arkansas, who carried the weight of generational change while protecting her son’s innocence. Through their shared experience, Tony explores how Black Generation X became the bridge between the struggles of the past and the promise of a new America.
In this episode you’ll hear:* What it meant to start kindergarten in the post-Jim Crow South
* How school integration reshaped early childhood for Black Gen X
* The untold strength of Black educators during desegregation
* Why Generation X still carries the legacy of those first classrooms
🎙️ “We weren’t just learning our ABCs — we were learning what equality looked like, even before we understood the word.”Call to Action:If this story resonates with your own journey — or your parents’ — share this episode and subscribe for more reflections on history, identity, and the experiences that shaped Black Gen X.
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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Anthony Reeves, we take a deep look at what it meant to be Black Generation X — the first generation to grow up in a multicultural America while still carrying the emotional weight of segregation, loss, and social transformation.
Anthony reflects on how his generation was shaped by the trauma and triumphs of their parents and grandparents — from the assassinations of the 1960s and the Civil Rights victories that followed, to the modern echoes of George Floyd’s death and global reckoning.
Through powerful storytelling, historical parallels, and personal insight, Anthony explores how Black Gen X became the bridge generation — raised by those who endured the fight for equality, and tasked with living out its promise in real time.
🔹 Topics include:
* The legacy of Civil Rights and generational trauma
* The psychological impact of rapid social change
* How the death of George Floyd mirrors earlier generational pain
* The story of Anthony’s mother — a teacher and mother navigating a new world
* Why remembering the past is key to healing the present
🎙️ “Black Gen X grew up between progress and pain. We were America’s test case for transformation.”
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(00:00:00) Lessons from the Past: Why Black Travelers still move differently
(00:00:08) Intro: Moving Differently for a Reason
(00:00:32) The Myth That Time Erases Danger
(00:02:00) The Generational Warning System
(00:03:37) From Emmett Till to Interstate 10
(00:05:51) It’s not about fear. It’s about Focus
(00:07:29) Closing: Blueprints, not baggage
For many of us in Black Gen X, travel has never been just about the destination — it’s about survival through awareness.
In this episode, I explore how generations before us taught vital lessons about how to move in certain spaces — lessons that were never about fear, but about staying safe in a world that didn’t always welcome us equally. From family warnings before road trips down South to stories of Emmett Till and beyond, I reflect on how these “travel codes” became a quiet form of self-protection that still resonates today. Because the truth is — the past isn’t baggage. It’s a blueprint for survival
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In 1987, I was just 18 — a college freshman at the University of Tampa and a brand-new Army Reservist trying to earn a $4,000 bonus. What should’ve been a routine weekend drill turned into one of the wildest, most dangerous journeys of my life.
No car. No money. No phone. Just a uniform, a highway, and the belief that I could walk 80 miles from Orlando back to Tampa — because, at that age, I thought I was invincible.
In this episode, I share how that long, dark walk down I-4 became a defining lesson about freedom, faith, and foolishness. From begging for food at a gas station to crawling under a resort fence just to use a phone, to being rescued by a kind Black couple at night — this story is about more than survival.
It’s about what it truly meant to be Black Gen X — the first generation told we were “free to move,” yet still learning that freedom didn’t always mean safety.
🎧 Tune in as I unpack how one night on a Florida highway revealed what Traveling While Black Gen X really felt like — equal parts courage, ignorance, and grace.
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In 2008, I had just started my own law firm in Central Florida and was commuting daily through the quiet backroads of Polk County. One day, a young woman in my mentor’s office pulled me aside and said, “Be careful driving through that town — the Grand Dragon of the Ku Klux Klan lives there.”
That moment stopped me cold. Not because I feared what might happen, but because it revealed something deeper — that even decades after Jim Crow, the echoes of history still shape how we move through certain spaces.
In this episode, I revisit that conversation, unpack what it meant for me as a Black Gen Xer, and reflect on how generational awareness — even from those born long after the civil rights era — reminds us that history doesn’t fade just because the laws change.
Join me as I explore why awareness isn’t paranoia, why silence doesn’t equal safety, and why talking about history isn’t divisive — it’s survival.
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In 1996, I was a 27-year-old Black naval officer stationed at Camp Lejeune, North Carolina. One late night, I was driving home from Jacksonville along a dark, two-lane rural road — no lights, no traffic, just me and the sound of my tires against the pavement.
Then I saw it — headlights, brake lights, and the unmistakable turn of a police cruiser making a U-turn behind me.
In that moment, every image I had ever seen of how quickly things could go wrong for someone who looked like me came rushing to the surface. Nobody had ever given me “the talk.” I didn’t know the playbook. All I knew was that I wanted to make it home alive.
This episode shares the story of that night — the split-second decisions, the unexpected conversation with the officer, and the reflections that came years later. It’s about instinct, survival, and the quiet ways Black Gen X learned lessons that weren’t always spoken but deeply understood.
Because sometimes, survival isn’t about being brave — it’s about being wise.
🔊 In This Episode:
- Growing up without “the talk” about police encounters
- The night I got pulled over in rural North Carolina
- The three choices that flashed through my mind
- How a shared military connection shifted the moment
- Why survival sometimes means de-escalating before it begins
- Reflections from older Black Marines who reminded me what mattered most
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In this episode, Tony Reeves takes listeners beyond the viral video “Beware of the Klan County” to unpack what it truly meant for Black Generation X to grow up after the fall of legal segregation.
The Civil Rights victories of the 1950s and 1960s—Brown v. Board of Education, the Civil Rights Act, the Voting Rights Act, and the Fair Housing Act—changed the laws. But they didn’t immediately change the people.
Tony explores how Gen X became the first generation to live without Jim Crow, yet still under the shadow of those who thrived during it. From courtrooms still fighting school segregation into the 1980s to the quiet persistence of prejudice in everyday life, this episode reveals the growing pains of a nation learning how to desegregate—and the emotional toll of being a transitional generation.
Generation X inherited the promise of freedom without a blueprint for how to live it. This is our story.
🔊 Highlights Include
* Brown v. Board II and the slow road to integration
* Why 1970 marked a turning point for institutional discrimination
* How laws and culture reinforced one another for generations
* What happened when the institutions changed but the bigots didn’t
* The identity divide within Generation X
* Why remembering history is not “dwelling on the past”
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In 1995, I arrived in Jacksonville, North Carolina — a young, proud Black naval officer reporting for duty at Camp Lejeune. Like anyone new to a duty station, I was trying to find my way — where to live, where to eat, and how to adjust.
But within weeks, I received a warning I’ll never forget. A senior non-commissioned officer pulled me aside and said:
“If you’re driving, make sure you drive the speed limit through that county.”
At first, I thought he was talking about speed traps — until he told me that less than ten years earlier, that same county had a billboard that read:
“Home of the Ku Klux Klan.”
That warning changed how I saw everything. It wasn’t about fear — it was about awareness. Even though the signs came down, the attitudes hadn’t always disappeared.
In this episode, I share how that experience shaped my understanding of race, safety, and survival in America — and why it still matters today.
This story also marks the first reference to my upcoming book, Traveling While Black Gen X, a reflection on what it meant for my generation — post–Jim Crow, pre-smartphone — to navigate freedom and fear on the same road.
🎧 Listen now to hear how one warning became a lifelong reminder that awareness is not fear — it’s protection.
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In this special Commentary on the Comments episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I’m responding to a viewer who asked a simple but powerful question:
“Why do you keep talking about Black Generation X?”
My answer goes far beyond nostalgia. Black Gen X stands at the crossroads of history — the first generation to grow up in a legally desegregated world but still carry the weight of institutional racism’s shadow.
In this reflection, I explore how history remembers other generations through defining moments like Prohibition, World War II, and the Civil Rights Movement — but rarely defines our generation by anything beyond pop culture and MTV.
I discuss how that historical oversight shapes the way we understand progress, identity, and belonging — and why it’s dangerous to “delete” parts of our shared story in the name of moving on.
✊🏾 Key themes:
* How history overlooks Black Gen X in favor of larger narratives
* Why we’re called the “transitional generation”
* The risk of erasing lived experiences in the name of progress
* Why remembering our stories is essential to understanding where we are today
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At 7 years old, I thought I found the perfect friend. We played, laughed, and shared childhood joy—until one day, he told me we couldn’t play anymore because I was Black. That moment of rejection was my first real encounter with how quickly a welcoming space could become unwelcome.
In this episode, I reflect on the innocence lost that day and how it shaped my understanding of race, belonging, and adaptation as a Black Gen Xer. From childhood confusion to adult perspective, I explore what it meant to grow up in spaces where acceptance was conditional and rejection could arrive without warning.
Tune in for a personal story about resilience, race, and the lifelong impact of a single childhood moment.
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In this episode, I reflect on what it meant to be a Black Gen Xer navigating college life, cultural misunderstandings, and the loneliness of being “the only one” in spaces where I didn’t always feel welcome. From being told that HBCUs weren’t “the real world,” to living four years as the only Black student on my dorm floor, I share the raw lessons and coping strategies that my generation had to invent on the fly.
We didn’t always get it right—but we tried. Gen X carried the burden of learning to survive in a world that claimed to be equal but wasn’t, and we passed those lessons—messy as they were—on to future generations.
🎧 Tune in as I explore:
* Why people “Monday morning quarterback” racism but rarely understand what it feels like in real time
* How cultural misunderstandings shaped my interactions and forced me to adapt
* What it meant to be the only one, and how safe spaces became essential for survival
* Why Generation X is the overlooked bridge generation between Baby Boomers and Millennials
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In this episode, I share my very first experience of being exposed to racism as a child growing up in the rural South during the 1970s. At just eight years old, an innocent invitation to play on a trampoline turned into a painful lesson about exclusion, bigotry, and the way prejudice is passed down through generations.
But this story is also about courage. When I was told I wasn’t welcome, one Cub Scout Den Mother stood up for me, making it clear that if I wasn’t accepted, none of the kids would be a part of it. That moment showed me not only what racism looked like up close, but also what it means to have someone defend you when you can’t defend yourself.
Join me as I reflect on:
* The innocence of childhood interrupted by racism.
* How generational prejudice poisons relationships.
* The powerful role of allies who refuse to stay silent.
* Why these stories still matter today.
👉 After listening, I’d love to hear from you: When was your first exposure to racism or bigotry?
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What was it like to hit the road in the late ’80s and early ’90s without cell phones, GPS, or streaming music? In this episode, I take you back to my days as a Black Gen Xer making 14-hour road trips from Pine Bluff, Arkansas to Tampa, Florida. From glovebox maps and pay phones to dodging sundown towns and planning gas stops, traveling was more than just getting from point A to point B — it was survival. I share the strategies, the risks, and the independence that defined an entire generation of travelers.
If you’ve ever wondered how Gen X navigated long-distance road trips — or what it meant to travel while Black in the South — this is an episode you don’t want to miss.
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In this episode, I reflect on the unique reality of being part of Black Gen X—caught between two worlds that often felt at odds. Our parents, mostly Baby Boomers, grew up under segregation and faced open hostility, while we were the first generation to come of age in a fully desegregated society.
I share my story of growing up in Pine Bluff, Arkansas—a majority-Black town in a majority-White state—where I saw both the nurturing support of Black communities and the subtle hostilities that lingered outside of them. I explore the shift from “hard bigotry” to “soft bigotry,” the absence of a blueprint for navigating this new reality, and the ways both Black and White Gen X had to learn by trial and error.
This is a conversation about resilience, identity, and how Gen X forged its own path without letting the weight of the past hold us back.
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IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves dives deep into the intersections of law, life, and lived experience. Hosted by Administrative Law Judge and storyteller Tony Reeves, this podcast explores the realities of navigating professional spaces, surviving systemic barriers, and finding your voice in a world that often overlooks it.
From reflections on growing up post–Jim Crow, to the challenges of being “the only one” in corporate America, to practical insights on equity, access, and resilience — every episode blends personal stories with lessons that inspire, inform, and empower.
Whether you’re a professional charting your own career path, someone seeking a better understanding of equity and justice, or just looking for real talk about what it means to thrive against the odds, this podcast brings you authentic conversations and timeless insights.
👉 New episodes weekly. Listen in, get inspired, and stay In the Know.
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Black Gen X grew up with no blueprint. Mainstream TV and movies didn’t reflect our lives—until the arts began to open the door. From The Cosby Show to Hip Hop, from BET to School Daze, representation transformed how we saw ourselves and how others saw us.
📖 For more insights, check out my book Black Gen X in the Middle, where I share how our generation bridged the gap between era
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When the COVID-19 pandemic hit in 2020, our lives changed overnight. Schools shut down, graduations moved to front lawns, and families were thrown into a reality no one had prepared for.
Even after two years, many were left traumatized by the sudden shift.
But what if we take that same lens and look back further? Imagine living under 90 years of Jim Crow and then seeing those laws vanish virtually overnight. For Black Gen X, that was our inheritance — growing up in a desegregated society that our parents and grandparents had never experienced, with no roadmap to guide us.
In this episode, I connect the shock of the pandemic to the deeper historical transition after Jim Crow, showing how Gen X became the generation raised without a blueprint.
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In this episode, I revisit a powerful college conversation that revealed how deeply history shapes our everyday choices.
Two young women — one from Jamaica, one from Georgia — faced the same situation: walking into a space known for hostility toward people of color. The Jamaican friend walked in without hesitation. The Georgia friend held back, cautious and wary.
What followed was more than a difference of opinion — it was a clash between cultural confidence and generational survival. From the legacy of Jim Crow to the resilience of the Caribbean, this story unpacks why both courage and caution can be valid, and why empathy is crucial when perspectives collide.
Tune in to explore how history, culture, and lived experience shape the way we move through the world — and how understanding these differences can bring us closer together.
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McDonald’s was a cultural staple for me—growing up in Pine Bluff, Arkansas, hanging out after games, and later during college nights in Tampa. But I discovered something that changed my perspective forever: my great aunt lived her entire life without ever stepping foot into a McDonald’s.
The reason? She remembered when McDonald’s was segregated and refused to serve Black customers. For her, that rejection was unforgettable, and she made a quiet, lifelong stand of resistance: “If my money wasn’t good then, it’s not good now.”
In this episode, I share how her story impacted me as a member of Black Gen X—the first generation to live fully in an integrated world, yet still directly connected to those who endured segregation. This is more than a family story; it’s a reminder of the sacrifices and scars that shaped our path forward, and why we must keep telling these stories for future generations.
👉 Tune in as I reflect on what it means to be a gatekeeper of history, memory, and cultural lessons.
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Have you ever thought you landed your dream job—only to realize it was just comfortable? In this episode, I open up about what it’s really like to hit a career crossroads at 40.
I share my personal journey of thinking I had my “forever” job, only to be forced into an unexpected pivot. That moment became the shock I needed to leave my old firm, build my own practice, and run it successfully for nearly a decade.
This episode is a reminder that reaching a turning point in your late 30s or 40s is not the end of your career. It may be the chance to rebuild, refocus, and redefine your path.
If you’ve ever asked yourself “What’s next for me?”—this conversation is for you.
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What happens when words meant to be supportive actually cut the deepest? In this episode, I explore the subtle layers of racism, bigotry, and discrimination, and why so many people miss the nuanced forms that persist today.
I share a personal story of someone saying it was “good I didn’t go to an HBCU because it wasn’t the real world”—a statement packed with bias and false assumptions. This kind of comment leaves people of color constantly deciding whether to call it out or let it slide.
If you’ve ever faced that tension between intent and impact, this conversation is for you.
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In this episode, I dive into the hard truth: racism didn’t disappear just because society decided to stop acknowledging it. Too often, we hear “that doesn’t happen anymore” or “we’ve moved past that,” while real people still face systemic barriers, microaggressions, and cultural denial. This conversation unpacks how racism continues to exist in hidden, unspoken ways—and why it’s critical that we refuse to let silence erase the truth.
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In this personal story, I recount my first major purchase after college—a simple furniture buy that turned into a moment of deep internal conflict. Was I being profiled? Was I invisible because I was young… or Black… or both?
This isn’t just about a trip to Sears in 1992—it’s about what it means to exist in a space where you’re supposed to belong but don’t feel seen.
Listen in as I break down the emotions, the questions, and how this moment shaped my perspective as a future discrimination attorney and judge.
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In this deeply personal episode, I reflect on my experience as a Black Generation Xer attending a predominantly white university in the years after the civil rights movement. While my dreams were shaped by stories of HBCUs, my reality landed me in a space where I was one of the few — constantly navigating identity, isolation, and subtle forms of exclusion. From culture shock to classroom dynamics, I unpack what it meant to pursue higher education where representation was nearly nonexistent and support often felt just out of reach. This is more than a college story — it’s a lesson in survival, self-discovery, and reclaiming pride in spaces not built for us.In this deeply personal episode, I reflect on my experience as a Black Generation Xer attending a predominantly white university in the years after the civil rights movement. While my dreams were shaped by stories of HBCUs, my reality landed me in a space where I was one of the few — constantly navigating identity, isolation, and subtle forms of exclusion. From culture shock to classroom dynamics, I unpack what it meant to pursue higher education where representation was nearly nonexistent and support often felt just out of reach. This is more than a college story — it’s a lesson in survival, self-discovery, and reclaiming pride in spaces not built for us.
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Generation X was raised to believe that military service, skilled trades, or a college degree would guarantee stability and success. But by the time we entered adulthood, the world had already changed—and no one gave us a new map.
In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I break down why Generation X wasn’t truly prepared for the shifting economic, cultural, and social landscape we inherited. From the decline of unions to the skyrocketing cost of education, we were navigating a world our parents never had to—and doing it in real time.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about recognition. And it’s about honoring the resilience of a generation that adapted anyway.
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* The three “guaranteed” paths Gen X was raised to follow
* How rapid changes left us unsupported
* Why Gen X became the bridge generation
* What it really means to adapt when the rules change mid-game
Whether you’re Gen X or just curious about how one generation learned to pivot under pressure—this episode is for you.
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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, we dive into the quiet truth of adult friendships—how they evolve, why they thin out, and what makes the few that remain even more powerful. Tony explores the emotional and practical changes in how we bond after 40, offering personal stories, relatable insights, and a reminder that deeper often means fewer. Whether you’re reconnecting with old friends or learning to accept that some ties naturally fade, this episode will hit home.
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Generation X is often called “the forgotten generation,” but we are far from irrelevant. We are the gateway—raised in the aftermath of powerful revolutions, yet coming of age just as the digital world exploded. In this podcast, I share raw and real reflections on what it means to grow up as a Gen Xer: self-sufficient, media-grounded, trauma-aware, and always bridging the divide between Boomers and Millennials.
If you’re Gen X, you’ll feel seen. If you’re not, you’ll understand us a whole lot better after this.
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“When 40 Changed Everything” is a personal reflection on the moment I realized my health had to take center stage. In this powerful episode, I share how a routine doctor’s visit in my early 40s — and the words of a culturally aware physician — opened my eyes to the importance of proactive care, especially for men of color. As friends around me started facing life-altering health events, we unknowingly created a brotherhood rooted in shared experience and accountability. This isn’t about fear. It’s about responsibility, community, and choosing to live better — together. If you’re entering your 40s, already there, or supporting someone who is, this conversation is for you.
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Turning 40 wasn’t just another birthday — it was a turning point. In this episode, I open up about the moment I realized I was living a life I hadn’t planned: running my own law firm, carrying the full weight of responsibility, and redefining success on my own terms. If you’re in your 40s — or approaching them — and wondering what it all means, this one’s for you. This is about career shifts, hard truths, and why time becomes your most valuable asset.
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In this powerful follow-up to “What They Didn’t Teach Us,” Anthony Reeves reflects on the unique experience of being raised as a Generation X child in a newly desegregated America. Guided by Baby Boomer parents who grew up in the thick of segregation, Gen X kids were thrust into a world of new laws but old attitudes.
This episode explores the community-based parenting tools passed down from the Civil Rights era, the unspoken rules that protected us, and the critical role of the Black church as a cultural anchor. A must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the transition from overt to covert racism—and how a generation learned to survive it.
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In this episode, I explore the lessons Gen X Black kids weren’t taught in school—but learned through life, family, and experience. From forgotten Black high schools to KKK terror parades, and from the strength of the Black church to quiet legacies of integration, I reflect on the stories we inherited and the importance of capturing them while we still can. History isn’t just what’s written—it’s what’s remembered.
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In this episode, I reflect on what it meant to grow up as a Black Gen X kid in the American South, just years after the Jim Crow era officially ended. This personal narrative explores the generational trauma, family stories, and cultural survival skills passed down from those who lived through segregation.
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A former adjunct professor shares insider insights on the differences between online and in-person college experiences. Whether you’re deciding between the two or just curious about what each option offers, this episode provides the key questions you should ask before making your choice.
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Have you ever looked at your resume and looked at the skills you have acquired from your past jobs? Have you ever thought about the value people would pay you for the things you used to do? In this episode, we talk about the importance your resume and the things you have done in the past.
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How do you know if the college you’re attending is truly the right fit for you? It’s not just about academics—it’s about connection and purpose. In this episode, we break down two key questions every student should ask:
1️⃣ Have you found a community of people you genuinely connect with?
2️⃣ Is your college experience fueling your purpose and passion?
Sometimes, it takes a semester (or less) to figure it out, but these two factors can help you make a confident decision about your college journey. Tune in for insights on making the most of your college experience!
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Turning 40 was more than just a milestone—it was a turning point in my professional journey. In this episode, I reflect on how I transitioned from maintaining physical law offices for appearances to fully embracing a virtual practice. The biggest lesson? Clients care about outcomes, not where you work. If you’ve ever found yourself clinging to outdated ideas of success, this episode is for you. Learn how to shift your focus from perception to results and build a career that truly works for you.
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In this candid episode, we explore the hidden struggles and trauma that often go unnoticed in the college experience. Drawing from personal stories of financial hardship, cramped living conditions, and the subtle yet painful reminders of poverty, we discuss how the dream of higher education can become a battlefield of survival and resilience. Join us as we unpack the emotional rollercoaster of navigating campus life when resources are scarce, and learn why it’s essential to acknowledge and support every student’s unique journey.#CollegeTrauma #StudentStruggles #HigherEd #Resilience #Poverty #CampusLife
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In this episode, Tony reflects on the transformative experiences of his sophomore year at the University of Tampa, where an unexpected encounter with a fellow student from Aruba opened the door to a rich tapestry of cultural exchange. He shares how stepping out of his comfort zone and building friendships with Caribbean, Central American, and South American peers helped him better understand the beauty of cultural diversity, the power of code-switching, and the importance of respecting different backgrounds. Tune in to hear how these experiences reshaped Tony's perspective and deepened his appreciation for the global diaspora of people of color.
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If you are ever going to start a business, the two most important days are Day 0 and Day 1. Day 0 isn’t a single day. It’s the entire process of preparation before you officially open your doors. In this episode, I take you through my personal experience of launching my own law firm, sharing the key decisions, challenges, and lessons I learned along the way. From legal paperwork and licensing to choosing a bank, setting up insurance, and navigating the emotional weight of leaving a stable job, this episode is a real-world look at what it takes to make the leap. If you are thinking about starting your own business, this is the guide you need to prepare for the journey ahead.
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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I take you back to Day One of my journey into entrepreneurship. From leaving a secure corporate job to establishing my law firm in an unfamiliar town, this is the story of excitement, fear, and resilience. I share the challenges of starting from zero: navigating a new office, creating processes, and signing my first client—all while grappling with self-doubt. This episode is a candid look at what it truly means to take the leap into building something of your own. If you’ve ever dreamed of starting your own business or wondered what it’s like to step into the unknown, this episode is for you.
Tune in and discover: • The emotions behind leaving a stable job for the unknown. • The importance of preparation on Day Zero. • How to create systems that set you up for long-term success. • The small victories that define your first day as a business owner.
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What does it really mean to have a “dream job”?
In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, we challenge the traditional idea of tying your happiness and aspirations to a job. Tony shares personal stories—like his journey to becoming a naval officer—and explores why many of us equate our dreams with working for someone else.
Is it the job itself or the outcomes we’re chasing? And are there other ways to achieve those dreams?
Tune in for a deep dive into redefining success, understanding your true desires, and building a life that fulfills you beyond the workplace.
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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I recount the summer of 2005, when I stepped into an entirely new world as campaign counsel for a Florida senator running for Congress. From specialized election law training to attending an exclusive political fundraiser on a private island, this experience reshaped my understanding of politics, law, and life. Join me as I share how saying “yes” to this opportunity pushed me beyond my comfort zone, introduced me to a different way of living, and offered lessons on growth, exposure, and embracing the unknown.
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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I take you back to my law school days at Florida State University, where a seemingly simple legal writing assignment transformed into an unforgettable experience. Join me as I recount the competitive journey of the appellate competition, culminating in the honor of arguing before the Florida Supreme Court.
I’ll share the awe of stepping into the hallowed halls of the Supreme Court, the intensity of watching fellow students defend their cases before justices, and the life-changing lessons I learned about professionalism, culture, and opportunity. Whether you’re a legal enthusiast or just curious about the world of high-stakes advocacy, this episode offers a behind-the-scenes look at how one moment can expand your perspective forever.
Tune in to discover how this unique experience shaped my legal career and opened my eyes to a new world of possibilities.
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In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, I take you on a deeply personal journey through my experiences in the military. From my roots in ROTC to stepping into the role of a young black officer, I reflect on the lessons learned, the challenges faced, and the values instilled during my time in service.
We’ll explore:
• The family legacy that inspired my military path.
• How leadership and discipline shaped my personal and professional growth.
• The cultural dynamics and challenges of navigating military life as a young black leader.
Whether you’re a veteran, someone curious about military life, or simply looking for inspiration, this episode offers a unique perspective on the transformative power of service.
Tune in to hear my story of honor, resilience, and legacy. 🎖️
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In this episode of “In The Know with Tony Reeves,” titled “From Pine Bluff to Tampa: A Journey of Growth and Transformation,” Tony Reeves shares his personal narrative of moving from his hometown of Pine Bluff, Arkansas, to Tampa, Florida. He reflects on the challenges and opportunities encountered during this transition, offering insights into how these experiences shaped his personal and professional development. Listeners will gain an intimate understanding of the resilience and adaptability required to navigate significant life changes.
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“Turning points shape who we are, and 29 was the year everything changed for me. In this episode of In The Know with Tony Reeves, I reflect on the pivotal moments, life lessons, and fears that defined the end of my 20s. From career crossroads to personal growth, I’ll share how a single conversation challenged my mindset and helped me embrace the unknown. Whether you’re approaching a major life transition or reflecting on your own journey, this episode offers insights and encouragement to navigate the road ahead with clarity and purpose.”
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In this special edition of In The Know with Tony Reeves, Tony reflects on his time at Ft. McClellan and shares the profound lessons he learned about navigating life’s unexpected pauses. Drawing from personal experiences, he explores how moments of uncertainty can lead to growth, self-discovery, and the courage to chart new paths.Through heartfelt storytelling and practical insights, Tony offers listeners a deeper understanding of how to embrace detours, find clarity, and move forward with purpose. Whether you’re facing a career transition, grappling with setbacks, or simply seeking inspiration, this episode delivers motivational takeaways and actionable advice tailored for anyone ready to take a breath and reset.Join Tony for a candid conversation that’s not just reflective—but empowering.
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“Welcome to In The Know with Tony Reeves. Today, we’re diving into the landmark Brown v. Board of Education decision—a ruling that most people recognize as a monumental step toward equality in our education system. But while Brown officially ended the ‘separate but equal’ doctrine, the real-world impact wasn’t always so straightforward. This decision, meant to break down barriers, also led to unintended consequences, particularly for Black educators and students. In this episode, we’ll explore how local and state governments sometimes used the decision’s language to justify discrimination, how integration altered the supportive environments Black students once had, and what this history means for us today. Let’s go beyond the surface of this pivotal case to understand its complexities and lasting effects.”
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As we find ourselves in a position to have to care for our parents, we, also, have to deal with the reality that finding all of their relevant documents is not easy. In this episode, I talk about the challenges of trying to find the necessary paperwork for your parents.
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For any 8 year old, the world can be a big and scary place. For an 8 year old Black Girl growing up in the Jim Crow South during the 1950s, the world can be terrifying. In today's episode, I will share my mother's story of how her inadvertent decision to sit in the front of the bus in 1954 as an 8 year old girl resulted in the bus not moving and the lasting impact this incident had on her life.
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It is important that you take the time to speak to your parents about who they want to have speaking on their behalf. In this episode, I talk about the importance of power of attorney, health care surrogates, and your parents.
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Have you ever noticed someone in your life pulling away, disengaging from conversations and connections? Or perhaps you've found yourself withdrawing from others because you're going through something difficult? In today's episode, we’re going to explore the importance of recognizing when people—yourself included—start to withdraw from loved ones. This often subtle shift is a sign that they may need support, and understanding this can help us be there for the people who need us the most.
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Changing careers or jobs is a natural part of our employment history. However, you have to ask yourself, are you changing jobs to just change or are you changing jobs / careers strategically?? In this episode, we talk about the difference between changing careers or jobs selectively and changing jobs organically as part of a bigger plan or strategy.
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My experiences in graduate school and law school was very different. Tune in as I share the very different experience and how each experience gave me a different appreciation for the relationships I developed.
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In this episode, I talk about the early days of learning that you have access to other individuals who can help you elevate yourself personally and professionally. I share with you my exercise as a 26 year old Naval Officer.
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Sometimes, we often forget that we have professional expertise that our family can use. In this episode, we talk about how easy it is to forget to share our professional expertise with our family members.
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When we give our two weeks' notice, we often overlook how it can impact the dynamics of our relationship with our current employer. While most employers will respect your decision, it's important to understand that they will also need to adjust to the reality of your departure.
In this episode of In The Know with Tony Reeves, we’re discussing the implications of giving two weeks' notice. If you're considering making this move, here are five key things to keep in mind to help you navigate the process effectively.
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Caring for your parents can be a daunting task. In this episode, we talk about the challenges that comes with having to care for an aging parent.
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Technology and modernization is a way of life. So it's important to recognize that some jobs are not going to come back the same way they used to be performed.
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Have you ever thought about the struggles of those who have the opportunity to be 'THE FIRST'? Today, we talk about the triumphs and challenges of being the first.
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Changes in culture can be traumatic. Whether it be cultural, education, or environmental, moving into a space where you are unfamiliar can take some adjustment.
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Whether it be organizing for sit ins, marches or voters registration, the black church has been the epicenter of the black community in the US.
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When my hometown High School, Pine Bluff (AR) High School, was integrated in the early 1970s, my Aunt Berneice was one of my Black Administrators integrated into an all white administrative workforce at Pine Bluff High School. Listen I share her story.
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If you are fortunate to benefit from a loved one whose activities and sacrifices have opened doors for you, sometimes it's to your advantage to lean into their legacy.
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In this episode, I will talk about why it's so important to take the opportunity to learn from the prior generation.
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With each and every day, you take on a new activity or perform some type of action that builds onto your reputation. In this episode, I discussed the importance of recognizing how how your reputation tells a story about you even before you enter the room.
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If you were running your own business, every day is very different from the previous day. So to truly appreciate what it means to be a business owner, you have to understand and when you're asking about a day and the life of a business owner, it all depends on what day you're talking about.
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Whether you realize it or not, the moment you decide to run your own business, you are changed.
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In this episode, I talk about the value of being willing to make mistakes and the importance of taking advantage of being in those spaces where you can learn from those mistakes.
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How many of us knew how to move as an adult after we turned 21? The transition is not as smooth as we think. In this episode, I talk about what means to transition from 21 into adult life.
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"Welcome to 'IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves', where we dive deep into the mindset of successful entrepreneurs. Join us as we explore the vital role of embracing discomfort in business growth. Get ready to step out of your comfort zone and into the realm of innovation and opportunity. Tune in and discover how discomfort can be your greatest ally on the path to success."
In this episode, I talk about 5 things you should keep in mind when you are having 'End of Life' discussions with your parents.
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"Welcome to 'IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves', where we dive deep into the mindset of successful entrepreneurs. Join us as we explore the vital role of embracing discomfort in business growth. Get ready to step out of your comfort zone and into the realm of innovation and opportunity. Tune in and discover how discomfort can be your greatest ally on the path to success."
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"Join host Tony Reeves on 'IN THE KNOW', where we delve deep into the power of mentor-mentee relationships. From unlocking hidden potential to navigating career growth, each episode brings expert insights and real-life stories to help you maximize these invaluable connections. Get ready to elevate your journey with wisdom, guidance, and actionable strategies from 'IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves'."
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Welcome to "IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves," the podcast that delves deep into the realities of starting your own business. Join host Tony Reeves as he explores the fears and challenges that come with entrepreneurship. In this episode, we confront the daunting question: Are you truly prepared to be your own boss? From facing the stresses of running a business to assessing your readiness for the journey ahead, we provide invaluable insights and advice to help you navigate the path to entrepreneurship. Tune in and discover what it takes to thrive in the world of business ownership.
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Welcome to "IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves," where we kick off a five-part series, "Lessons from a Black Leader," featuring the Master Networker and Leader, Dr. George C. Fraser. Join us on this insightful journey as we delve into Dr. Fraser's wisdom, unraveling the principles that have made him a trailblazer in networking. Discover valuable lessons, gain leadership insights, and explore the keys to effective networking with one of the most esteemed figures in the field. Tune in to uncover the secrets of success and empowerment in this special series highlighting the remarkable journey of Dr. George C. Fraser.
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Timeless lessons in leadership begin our inaugural series, "Lessons from Black Leaders." In this episode, we share valuable insights from a past interview with Darryl R. Matthews, Sr., the 32nd General President of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.
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In this episode, Tony Reeves delves into the creation of a legal blog, recounting the unforeseen complexities and the compelling choices that surfaced. Join us in exploring the profound impact of this pivotal decision, the challenges encountered, and the lessons garnered from navigating the unexpected. Get ready for an immersive journey into the nuances of legal careers and the profound experiences that shape professional paths.
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Sometimes, we think our path is already laid out for us until something happens that takes us in a completely different direction.
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How many of us have found ourselves avoiding our passion because we are so focused on doing the things that we SHOULD do? In this episode, I found myself facing the challenge of being a Graduate Student and a choreographer.
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Sometimes, we have to experience something SO outside of our comfort zone in order to truly grow. Tune in as a I share one such monumental moment in my life where I was forced to face an audience of 10,000 people.
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Sometimes, in our desire to embrace our current destination in life, we overlook the reality that you are meant for a greater destination. Tune in and I share insight about making sure you do not fall into the trap of settling for your current situation when you are meant for so much more.
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Paying for college can be a challenge. The challenge is greater when you have NO idea of the different options that may be available to you.
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With the price of colleges going up, more and more students are evaluating whether universities or colleges are losing their value. In this episode, we talk about why these conversations are happening now.
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Sometimes, we can be our own worst enemies. And as a result, we do not appreciate the role we play in being that enemy. In this episode, as part of my "LIFE after College" series, I talk about the events that caused me to be a bad employee and what I did to overcome these challenges.
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While we often celebrate someone being the first in their career, profession, or endeavor, it is important to note that being the first also means having few people around you who know what you are going through or experiencing.
In March 1992, at just 22 years old, I embarked on a new job in Tallahassee, Florida, far from familiar faces and scarred by a recent painful breakup. Coping with heartache, I withdrew from the world, burying myself in work, and surviving on a meager income. Loneliness haunted my days until the job itself became both refuge and redemption. But depression has a way of amplifying itself, and a bold attempt to pursue graduate studies brought more heartache in the form of rejection, exacerbated by a professor who questioned my potential. Yet, from this abyss emerged an unexpected opportunity, one that would eventually open doors to a future beyond my wildest dreams—a testament to resilience in the face of despair.
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In today's hot minute motivation, I want you to start paying attention to the signs it's telling you you're meant for something more
In this episode, I speak on the experience of returning from military service and facing uncertainty about the future. It highlights the challenges Iencountered, such as finding a job and securing basic necessities, while also emphasizing the resilience and determination that led me to navigate through this uncertain phase of my life.
Listen as I share my experience as a young Army Officer trying to figure out what the next phase of my life would look like.
In this episode, I talk about what my decision to attend US Army Airborne Jump School and why I should have spoken to others BEFORE I decided to attend.
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In this continuation of my series, "Life after College", I share my last multi-state Greyhound Bus ride that changed how I reevaluated my 'exploring all options' philosophy.
In Chapter 3 in the LIFE AFTER COLLEGE SERIES, I speak about the impact of choosing to face adversity alone when you do not have to face it alone.
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In Chapter 2 in the LIFE AFTER COLLEGE SERIES, I speak about my plans to focus on not returning home after college. I, also, discuss the danger of Tunnel Vision.
Tune in as I discuss 5 realities that everyone should know when making the transition from college life to corporate life.
In this episode, Tony Reeves talks about dealing with people who struggle with your success and making the difficult decision to address loved ones who have a problem with your success.
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Remember, as your world evolves and progresses, your friend's worlds may remain the same.
Whether you realize it or not, there will be people who will need YOU to validate their spaces
Some people will convince you something can not be done due to the fact that THEY can not do it. Do not let them project their inability on you.
It is OK for persons to figure out later that you are brilliant. Just make sure they learn on your terms.
You worked very hard to establish your network and you should work, just as hard as ensuring only certain people should have access to it.
As you progress in your career and in your professional circles, with each advancement, you are increasing your ability to make power moves.
Always remember that you are in control of the advice. Do you choose to give others. Never let anyone tried to convince you that you have an obligation to share your opinion.
Always remember that you are in control of the advice. Do you choose to give others. Never let anyone tried to convince you that you have an obligation to share your opinion.
Regardless of how perfect your process may be, you stifle your growth if you do not allow yourself room for improvement
Despite how brave we think we are, many of us will not ask questions of our leadership if we think it puts the spotlight on us, or impacts our reputation, or put our job in jeopardy. As such, we will usually turn to the person who is brave (or crazy) enough to ask those questions.
And that person may be YOU!
They are turning to you because you are PROFESSIONALLY BRAVE! There is nothing wrong will being the 'go to' person but make sure you are NOT being taken advantage of for your bravery.
Interviews can be nerve wracking. Be aware of the different types of scenarios can help you prepare.
Interviews can be nerve wracking. Be aware of the different types of scenarios can help you prepare.
Leaving your job is a big decision. A decision that may take some time to make. However, if there are signs that are telling you that it is time to leave and you choose to ignore those signs, it may make it harder to decide to leave. If you are struggling with deciding whether you should leave your job, here are 4 signs which may be letting you know that it is time for a change.
Leaving your job is a big decision. A decision that may take some time to make. However, if there are signs that are telling you that it is time to leave and you choose to ignore those signs, it may make it harder to decide to leave. If you are struggling with deciding whether you should leave your job, here are 4 signs which may be letting you know that it is time for a change.
Most of us establish professional relationships in our work spaces, conventions or networking event. However, how many of us have found ourselves meeting individuals in unusual settings?
In this episode, I will focus on the best ways to maximize professional relationships established from unique situations.
Most of us establish professional relationships in our work spaces, conventions or networking event. However, how many of us have found ourselves meeting individuals in unusual settings?
In this episode, I will focus on the best ways to maximize professional relationships established from unique situations.
If your business has been in operation for over a year, closing your business may not be as easy as you think. Here are 4 things to think about when you decide to close your business.
Most of us would like to believe that we are not that invested in our job. It is just a paycheck. However, most of us don't appreciate how truly connected we are to our jobs once we leave them. So it should not be a surprise that we struggle with moving on past our former jobs.
If you need professional advice, you should focus on someone who is currently working in the area of interest. If you decide to speak to someone who is no longer working in that area, you need to be aware that there are risks associated with getting their advice.
Taking the time to explain something can greatly influence others. In this episode, we talk about the impact of explaining something.
At 53 years age, I have often wondered what the next phase of my professional life will look. To my surprise, many of my 50 plus friends are asking the same question. If you are 50 and trying to figure out what to do next or if you are looking 50 in the future and wondering what next will look like, take a moment to listen as I talk about some things to consider.
If you are thinking about changing careers or professions, here are 8 things you need to know if you are making the change.
In this episode, I talk about the importance of being selective in who you choose to seek approval or validation. As part of my discussion, I share the story of how my choice of a particular individual when I was in high school shaped my decision making regarding which university I would attend.
In this podcast, we talk about the harsh reality of having those straight conversations about talking to your parents about their assets that will be left behind when then pass.
Part of the process of pursuing your passion involves having to defend it. That means you have to demonstrate to certain people how committed you are to making your passion in reality. Never let someone question what you're trying to do cause you to feel that you must abandon it all together. It's just a part of the process and it will work out for you in th
Taking care of your parents is a responsibility few adults are prepared. However, it does not have to be devastating. In this podcast, I talk about the various things to consider when you find yourself in the position of having to take care of your parents.
Have you ever thought about being a professional Gamer? What does your social media representation say about you? Fundraising, why I hate it, and another way of looking at it! Having an attorney in your organization is a pain in the butt but it is worth it!
If you have ever seen a commercial saying that YOU might be eligible to receive a portion of a large class action settlement, you may have thought that merely getting a portion may be the answer to your problems.
Unfortunately, you may be surprised to learn that getting a settlement portion may not be that easy.
In this episode, I talk about 5 things you should be aware when receiving part of a class action settlement.
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On October 14, 2022, the movie “Till” will be released in Theaters. The movie will tell the story of Emmett Till, his tragic death, and the tireless pursuit by his mother to seek justice and preserve his legacy. The tragic death of Emmett Till served as a galvanizing rally crew for the Civil Rights Movement.
In this edition of “Reeves Point of View”, I share why it is important to press the population to watch this movie and movies like this one.
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I can tell you that the first time I did something truly uncomfortable was when I handled a federal case in Texas. It was a wonderful experience and I was freaked out the entire time. Sometimes, the best way to become comfortable with doing something is to FIRST become uncomfortable doing it the first time.
If you've gone to conventions or you were about to go to a convention for the first time, here are a few things you might wanna think about in order to maximize your convention experience.
My work day for my first job started at 5:30am and ended at 6:30pm. That time included the bus ride, the walking, and all of the steps just to earn money at an 8 hour day job as a telemarketer. How many people do not truly appreciate all of the things you have to go through to work 8 hours?
How many of us have been placed in the position of having to return to work for our former employer? If you are in that position now, here are are some EASY and NOT so EASY things to consider.
How many times have we found ourselves angry because someone can not empathize with our pain? Has it ever occurred to you that the person simply can not relate to the pain? Sometimes, even if we have the best intentions, we can not relate to the hurt someone is experiences
Going to college can often seem like the answer to a lot of problems. Higher education. Greater potential for a greater socioeconomic status. However, navigating college is not that easy and it is easy to make decisions about things like choosing a major that may result a different outcome.
Today, I will share with you how the decisions I made in college shaped my future, how the guidance I received made a difference, and why college may not be for everyone.
How many of you wish you were better prepared to make your first student loan payment?? This podcast talks about preparing yourself to make student loan payments.
If I had the chance to give life advice to my younger self, what would it be? I realized that there is no way to merely give advice to myself that would address the entire span of my life. So I decided to give myself advice for specific ages when I graduated from schools: 18 years old, 21 years old, 25 years old and 31 years old.
Community Health care is the life blood of rural communities. However, sometimes the remoteness of living in a rural community may make access to healthcare difficulty.
"It takes a village to raise a child". This phrase was commonly used amongst African American people to talk about the responsibility of the community to nurture, raise and protect a child during the years of Segregation associated with Jim Crow. However, the US Supreme Court decision, Brown v. Board of Education, changed this philosophy in very unexpected ways.
In this episode of 'IN THE KNOW', I talk about the impact of Brown v. Board of Education on the community philosophy of raising a child.
This video is the first of a series of “Q&A” provided by loved ones who share their experiences AFTER Jim Crow. These experiences are conveyed through a series of questions answered via letters. The following questions asked were:
1) What happened around you when you found out MLK had been assassinated?
2) How did you find out Segregation was outlawed?
3) What was the first place you visited after integration?
4) Was there any place you visited who still refused to serve you even though the Civil Rights Act had been passed?
5) Name a place you refused to go to even though you were allowed to go. Why would you not go there?
6) Do you know of people who were still afraid to vote even though the Voting Rights Act of 1965 had passed? Why were they afraid to vote?
In the first year of running my business, I was committed to doing everything myself. Since I was struggling trying to get new clients, I felt it more efficient for me to do everything. Over time, I realized that doing everything was NOT the most effective use of my time. Tune in as I discuss the importance of prioritizing your time.
Generation X was the first generation to grow up during a POST CIVIL RIGHTS movement, Post Jim Crow, Post Segregated society. Unfortunately, this period was not immune from incidences of racism. Tune in as I share my earliest experience with racism as an adolescent in the 1970s.
Today, there is a growing interest to go viral. In this piece, I talk about going viral and three things to ask yourself before you post something.
Most of us truly believe we will work until a certain point. However, what would you do if someone told you that you may have to work forever?? Today, we talk about facing that reality.
Making the decision to make a serious life change can be scary. However, leaving your job to start something new can be downright terrifying.
To address this, tune in as I present my "COVID and the Great Resignation" series. Tune in as I speak to world renowned Personal and Professional Development Coach, Georgia Woodbine,
My first moment of independence came in a very unique way. A GREYHOUND BUS! We all have our first INDEPENDENCE DEFINING moment and I am proud of mine.
The harsh reality is going to college should be a magical and memorable educational and life experience. It should be a time for new friends, new places, and new experiences. Unfortunately, for way too many students and their families paying for this experience can often result in a level of stress that should not be placed on the hearts and minds of young students who are trying to pursue their dreams.
Today, we continue our discussion about “Life after Jim Crow” where we focus on the 1970s and 1980s which were the first generation of integration as well as the first generation to fully benefit from the Civil Rights Act and the Voting Rights Acts and the effect Supreme Court cases like Brown v. Board of Education. Today, I talk about how a historical figure, like John Brown, can be taught from two different perspectives.
In this episode, I share the story of my late great aunt Berniece Brown whose past experience with a local area McDonald’s in the 50s and 60s during Jim Crow shaped her decision regarding engaging McDonald’s after segregation ended. Her experience was a reminded that for all of the great progress and accomplishments we achieved, there are still people who bear the scars of the trauma of that time period. #integration #civilrights #jimcrow #blackhistory #mcdonalds #segregation #mlk #blacklivesmatter
If you are a member of Generation X, most of your parents not only grew up and lived through Jim Crow laws and segregationist policies that were in many parts of the US, those same parents also experienced all aspects of the 'Civil Rights Movement.'
It is the responsibility of Generation X to make future generations know how close we are to a time we hope will never come again.
Published on January 17, 2014 and Remastered on October 28, 2021, this episode focuses on disability for those over the age of 50 and their long work history
You definitely want to take the time to capture the stories of loved ones because they can share with you a wealth of powerful insight and information. Also, so many of these great stories are never committed to paper.
How many of us have found ourselves relying on the words of people but not verifying what they are saying? In this micro cast, I talk about the importance of verifying information you rely upon so you don't put yourself in a bad position.
Have you ever wondered what the interviewer is reading in that booklet they have? Have you ever walked out of an interview thinking you did bad? Tune in as I talk about the EASY and NOT so EASY parts of interviewing.
In this edition of “IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves”, I address the following segments:
1) Reeves Point of View - Delta Airlines charging their #unvaccinated #covid19 #employees $200
2) Easy but NOT So EASY - Providing Advice to your Elders
EASY PART
NOT so EASY PART
3) Reeves Reflection - Remembering the legacy of Jim Crow
Get accepted to law school is awesome but what do you do after you have been accepted? Here are 5 things to consider after you have been accepted to law school.
In the world we live, we often forget that with Social media and the internet, anything you promote online locally can be viewed globally. As such, you may be surprised by the number of people who would want to take advantage of your skills.
If you are used to running your own business, going back to being an employee again can be traumatic. In this post, I talk about the trials and tribulations of transitioning back into the workforce.
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There is nothing wrong with doing your own taxes or going to a tax preparer company. However, your finances may need the delicate touch of a certified public accountant.
Here’s my take as to why you should consider using a CPA.
Code switching is a familiar common practice when moving in different circles. However, code switching can be slightly problematic. Here are some things to consider when moving back and forth and code switching in different populations
If you have a podcast, you should give strong consideration to broadcasting a show remotely. In this podcast, I talk about the benefits and experiences of broadcasting my podcast on location
We are constantly reminded of the importance of attaining a college degree. However, how many of us have found ourselves wondering if we are truly even using the degree? In this episode of "EASY but NOT so EASY", we talk about the reality of having a degree and the realization that we may not need it
Mass shootings are horrible but the long lasting effects are even more damaging. Tune in as I speak about the unspoken trauma of mass shootings
Have you ever wondered why asking an attorney a question may result in a long winded response? There is a reason for that and we will talk about that today
If you happen to see your attorney in public, you may have a burning desire to talk to them about your legal case. Fight that urge! In this podcast, I talk about the danger of talking with your attorney about your legal case in public
Legal cases are annoying and frustrating. And there will be times when you want to complain about your case to someone. If you do want to complain, you may want to limit your complaints to your attorney. Tune in as I explain why you may want to keep your 'grip sessions' between you and your attonrey
Sometimes, we often overlook our own individual milestones and accomplishments. However, it's important to remember that these moments can have impacts on others. One of my milestones was enduring a 25 mile road march when I was in Basic Training in the Army
After you settle your lawsuit, you may be thinking of throwing away your settlement papers. However, the paperwork may contain some important information that may present itself in the future. Here are 6 reasons why you should keep your settlement paperwork
Have you ever an abnormal lab report? How about your doctor telling your that you need to see a specialist? How about being told that you need to get a CAT scan, Biopsy, or XRay? Any of these things or all of things can make you feel scared about your health. Here are some things to think about when faced with a health scare
During the first year of my law firm, I handled an out of state case. It was terrifying but rewarding. Ljsten to the lessons from breaking out of my comfort zone
If you have had the same judge or same attorney for your case, you may freak out if you get a change. Don't let the change frighten you. Here are some things to consider which I hope with help you feel better about your change
On June 12, 1967, the US Supreme Court unanimously ruled that the purpose of miscegenation laws was rooted in racism and violated the Constitution. However, what is equally important where the facts and state laws that were in existence that gave rise to this landmark decision.
Listen as I give my perspective about the facts of this case and the importance of paying attention to current legislation.
Have you wondered how an attorney prepares to appear before a Judge? Tune in as I speak to the 3 ways attorneys prepare to appear before a judge
Have you ever found yourself in the middle of legal situation and wondering if you can handle the legal situation on your own? Today, we discuss some things to consider when deciding whether to hire an attorney or whether to handle the case on your own
In a crisis, we often have a tendency to believe we should face the challenges alone. And, in doing so, we completely overlook all of the people around us who can help us. Let's take a moment to talk about what it means to face a crisis with our personal network and what it's important to use that network.
For those of you who are thinking about going to grad school, it can be a rewarding experience. In this podcast, I share my experiences going to grad school
Untold stories regarding personal black history my legal and public health perspective regarding life after Covid in the new Covid world
It's important that if you had loved ones as part of your legal case where you need them for evidentiary reasons, you must make sure your brace yourself for the reality that they may have to share some unflattering information about you and you may see them in a different light after they testify or provide the evidence.
When I opened my own law firm back in 2007, I was worried about how long it would take for me to generate revenue to support my household. As a result, I took a part time job as an adjunct online professor. However, I ended doing the part time job for a little over 3 years. Here's how I had to transition away from my side hustle and how this side hustle almost killed my MAIN hustle.
If you are starting a business, generating revenue is crucial. So while you are trying to make money, you may choose to have another activity on the side (i.e. a side hustle). However, this side hustle may hurt your main business in the long run.
Here are some things you should think about with regards to having a side hustle.
In this podcast, I talk about the PROs and CONs of asking your loved ones, who are attorneys, for legal help
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In this podcast, I have an in-depth discussion about evaluating your skills once you leave your old job and right before you start a new job.
This podcast talks about explaining to your loved ones the impact of their involvement in your legal case
I had the opportunity to serve on the Board of Directors for 10 years for an HIV/AIDS service organization called "MIRACLE OF LOVE, INC." and it was the most rewarding and educational experience of my life
If you don't feel like you are getting the most out of your organization, maybe you are looking at things all wrong. Take a moment to take another look at how to maximize networking within your organizations
As an attorney, I completely understand the importance of making relationships as a business revenue generating model. However, cultivating those relationships to the point where someone would actively think of you can be tedious and time consuming.
But the reality is that most of us have someone in our lives who are already 'gung ho' about connecting us to the right people.
In this podcast, I will spend some time talking about utilizing the energy and passion of those individuals in your life who are actively trying to help you grow through their sheer force
Networking can be a nightmare. If you are someone who is introverted, shy or not comfortable making idle conversation, the whole concept of networking can be a frustrating experience. As an attorney, networking was a crucial part of relationship building, marketing, and revenue generating. However, the act of actually engaging in networking was not something that came easy to me.
However, there have been a few times in my life when I found just the right space to network naturally.
Tune in as I share my experiences with different organizations starting with the Hillsborough Association for Women Lawyers or H.A.W.L
“I’m going to sue you” is a very common phrase used in society. However, how many people truly appreciate what it means to actually ‘sue’ someone? Regardless of whether it is #workerscompensation, #personalinjury or suing someone for #breachofcontract, going to #court or using an administrative process can be very stressful if you don’t appreciate all of the parts of filing a law suit.
In this video, I am spending time talking about filing a lawsuit, going through a court, hiring an #attorney, and getting into the mindset to fight your #legal case.
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Any time you involve yourself in a legal case, you normally have a desired or expected outcome. However, there are times when you may get an outcome that resolves your case but doesn’t necessarily give you the desired result.
In this video, I’m going to talk about those times when a ‘legal win’ doesn’t feel like an actual win.
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On this podcast, we talk about what you can do to try and retain a high profile attorney
Part 1: Sibling vs. Sibling
How many of you have had your eye on something in your parent's home and your parents told you that you were going to get it when they pass? Now, how many of you have had your parents pass with NO WILL? The reality is that if you have siblings, dealing with a parent's estate if they left no will can cause all kind of issues.
Part 2: Parent vs. Sibling
How many parents have the attitude that they don't have to worry about planning for death? In other words, let your kids figure it out. However, families have been broken up due to not knowing the wishes of their parents.
Part 1: Who remembers the Hard Working ''B' Student?
I know we are excited about all of the students who have received scholarship money. However, how many of us focus on the Hardworking 'B' student whose grades are good enough to get INTO college but not good enough to get a scholarship?
Part 2: Kids, COVID and Online Learning
We really need to think about the reality that many kids have never experienced online learning on a full time basis. We forget all of the little things that are NORMAL parts of a kid's life revolves their school life: changing classes, class interaction, organization activities.
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If you hire an #attorney for the first time, you are probably shocked when you get your first invoice or billable statement. All of the different entries regarding e-mails, faxes, calls and mailings may make you take a step back. And if you are paying for it out of pocket, you may worry where you will get the money you need to pay for their services.
In this video, I talk about the struggles of hiring and paying for a #lawfirm and give you some insight into some things to consider.
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Your case is uniquely personal to you. You have invested time, energy, and in some cases, money into your case. This case is having a profound impact on your life and you want to see it to the end.
Unfortunately, the facts of your #legal case may not necessarily support you having a case. You may realize that you have gone as far as you can go. So now, you have to make the decision to ‘drop your case’.
What do you do now?
In this video, I talk about what it means to go through the decision making process of dropping your case.
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If you have hired a #lawfirm, at some point, you may make the decision to change law firms. However, you may find yourself holding your new law firm to the same standard of your old law firms.
In today’s video, I talk about what it means to ‘switch firms’ and some things you need to think about when you do decide to change law firms to represent your #legal case.
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For those of you watching the #derekchauvin trial, you probably have watched the 40 witnesses #testify. If you are ever testified, you probably realize that it is a very nerve racking experience.
In this video, I give 7 basic tips to help you if you ever have to testify in a #trial, #deposition or #legal proceeding.
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When you are relying on statements or evidence from other people, you may find yourself in a tough position if you are expecting them to provide something or testify to something if you DON’T know what they are going to say or provide.
In this video, I talk about what it means to rely on other’s evidence to support your case.
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With the #DerekChauvin trial wrapping up, I’m sure many people are wondering why the family of #georgefloyd have been using an #attorney.
In high profile situations, having an attorney can be useful for a variety of situations besides suing someone. So, in this video, I talk about why having an attorney to deal with the #press can be very useful.
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At some point, you may have to look after your parents. This situation can be tricky depending on the circumstances.
How many of us have been asked to go with someone as moral support? It's easy to be there for someone but sometimes we forget our roles.
On today's podcast, we will talk about what it means to be there for someone as 'moral support'
At some point, you may be asked to help someone locate an attorney or you may even pay for the attorney yourself. However, it’s important to remember you may not be entitled to any information after you help them find the attorney.
In this video, I talk about what you need to understand if you help someone hire an attorney.
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How many of you have found yourself being asked to be someone’s point of contact? Most of us have and in most situations, we are never contacted. However, for those who have, how many of you have found yourself wanting access to more information and only getting access to limited information?
Today, I’m going to talk about being a #pointofcontact, what it means and how being a point of contact may not entitle you to any special treatment.
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On this episode of “Easy but NOT so Easy”, I want to talk to you about “Power of Attorney”.
This document is a fairly common document designed to give you authority to make certain decisions on behalf of someone else.
However, it’s important to remember that #powerofattorney documents may have some limitations.
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There are going to be times when someone is in a situation where they may need your support. Whether it’s a #powerofattorney, help hiring an #attorney, or serving as moral #support, you may be asked to take on some additional responsibilities that you didn’t expect.
mynameisreeves and this week’s #anthonyreevesexperience will focus on being asked to handle a situation as a 3rd party and understanding what your limits may be.
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On today’s #anthonyreevesexperience, I am going to discuss the importance of jumping on any problem areas that you discover regarding your #employee background.
Most people go through life not realizing there is any issue relating to their background. Also, if there are any issues, most people are already aware and are ready to address it should it become a problem.
However, there are some times when an issue presents itself that you may not know existed. It’s important you are aggressive about addressing that issue as soon as it becomes apparent. This way, you can ensure you are in control of addressing the issue.
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On today’s #anthonyreevesexperience, I talk about examining every document you sign during your new #employee intake.
When you get hired to a new job, your are probably going to be really excited. So, during the new #employee intake, you going to be given a boat load of paperwork. How many of you just ‘rushed’ through the paperwork without taking a moment to review everything you are signing?
Even though most of the paperwork is a formality, take a minute to examine everything so you can ask questions while you are still in the early days of your new #employment.
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On today’s #anthonyreevesexperience, I discuss the importance of having something in your background that disqualifies you and any discussions you may need to have regarding it.
The reality is some employers or some jobs will not permit a perspective #employee to perform the job if there is something in their background that is problematic. It’s important you have an honest discussion with your #employer about what those things specifically may be and if there are any options or exemptions regarding those things.
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On today’s #anthonyreevesexperience, I am going to talk about any processes that are available to challenge concerns about your background.
Some of your larger employers will have a process that allows individuals the ability to challenge any issues that arises from your background. Make sure you take the opportunity tor review these processes so you can be prepared. These processes will often explain what you need to do and what #evidence you need to present in order to support any challenges you need to make.
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On today’s #anthonyreevesexperience, I want to talk to you about the danger of withholding information regarding your background. There are some instances where information about your background can be kept confidential when completing new #employee forms. However, it’s important you have a complete understanding of exactly what you need to share or not share so you don’t put yourself in a bad position because you chose not to reveal some background information.
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On today’s #anthonyreevesexperience, we are going to talk about why you need to pay close attention what is in your background when completing new #employee forms. If you have some things you have done in the past, be prepared to address them when the employer brings them up or if your new employee paperwork asks you to address them.
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On this week’s (April 4) videos as part of the #anthonyreevesexperience, we are going to focus on the importance of background information as it relates to being a new #employee.
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Some times, people make the decision that they are going to let a legal problem get worse before bringing it to their attorney. A bad problem now can be a more expensive problem in the future
On today’s #anthonyreevesexperience, I discuss the importance of filing everything you receive during your new #employee intake.
During your new employee intake, it is easy to sign all of the documents given to you and then let the documents sit in Human Resources. However, if something happens later on, you may feel uncomfortable asking for a copy of #humanresources file. So, whenever you go to a new place of employment, take the time to get a copy of all of the paperwork you sign when you initially are hired. You may never need it but you will appreciate having it when you do.
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Sometimes, a person will make the decision to wait to share a legal problem with their attorney with the hope the problem will resolve itself. However, if the problem gets worse, they may find themselves having to pay more money to correct the problem
Sometimes, people make the decision it is in their best interest to not reveal that there is a problem with their case. If the problem doesn't go away, it may make the case more difficult to deal
It's important to remember there some parts of your case that are so ugly there is nothing you can do to address them
This week will be focusing on legal issues that arise during the course of your legal case.
If you have a doctor, dentist, mechanic or other professional, you have a good starting place to find a professional
Sometimes, the people who say they have your back don't truly have your back. Your personal support network is crucial for the success of your business
The summer of 2001 is probably one of my most memorable summers as I along with 5 good friends spent the entire summer studying for the Bar Exam in order to become attorneys
It's important to pay close attention to the reality of the difficulty of relocating back home
What are you going to do with your stimulus check?; Are you still waiting on a vaccine?; Dealing with the crumbs of racism; what do I think about the 27 million dollar George Floyd Settlement
Some people stress about changes in their circumstances and the effect it may have on their case. Here are a few things to consider
As each day goes forward, your circumstances change. As such, it's important to keep people informed
Statistics is a useful tool for your case but it is also misleading. Here are some things to consider.
Always remember that your case is uniquely yours. Don't fall into the trap of comparing your case with someone else's
This week (March 7), we will spend time focusing on 'circumstances' relating to your case. Listen up and enjoy
Natural disasters and contractors; Working from or running a home based business? There is a difference; The terror of receiving paperwork regarding potentially losing your home; Exploring all options to save your home.
Don't you hate those people who always ask questions about you holding yourself back? It's tough because they want what's best for you but you hate the fact they ask you questions.
Let me tell you a little bit about you so you can understand WHO I am and WHY you should be part of the Anthony Reeves Experience
We all have milestones. We all have people in our lives that want the best for it. However, it is really important that you have people who are ready to push you to the next level.
Several decades ago, while in college, I had an interview for the position as Resident Assistant. When I tell you that I thought I had ZERO chance of being selected. As such, I had NO stress when I went into the interview. What happened during the interview, surprises me even to this day.
As a freshmen in college, I went through a dark period where I was 900 miles away from home, had a miserable roommate situation, and was finding it difficult to adjust to a new environment. However, things turned around in a very unexpected way.
My karate teacher, Master Anne Radke, taught me a valuable lesson about time management. You don't realize how much time you waste dwelling on something you can't change until someone forces you to stop doing it.
Sometimes, when you try something new, it is easy to bring the old habits from your prior experiences. However, there is something powerful about mentally purging your old habits and allowing yourself to grow again.
Being raised by a single mother, I had people who would routinely offer feedback to my mother about how to raise me. However, when there were crucial decision making moments, she was very aggressive about not letting anyone stand in front of my dreams
No one likes to be involved in office politics and the experience of having a bad situation occur because of the culture of the office can leave a lasting impact.
When i graduated college in 1991, I literally had NO clue what I wanted to do next. What I realized was that I was not alone in that feeling. Graduating is a huge accomplishment. But the day after can be a terrifying reality.
When you feel that you are not progressing professionally, you are often driven to feel that you are not destined to achieve your goals. However, it's mportant to recognize that we all have our own clock and timeline.
At our basic level, we all want to be comfortable. However, what happens when we feel the comfort keeps us from achieving our goals.
During my professional life, I have changed careers about 4 or 5 times. After awhile, it is easy to think that you are not a success because you keep changing careers. Never feel like changing careers is a bad thing.
It's important to have people in your life who will remind you that you are 'full of crap'. Now, I'm not saying this from an insulting standpoint. I am saying that some times, we tend to be our own worst enemy and that we hold ourselves back from achieving everything we are capable of achieving. So, it's important to someone who will call us on our crap.
Part of the difficult path of my journey is this desire to wait for someone to tell me that I am brilliant. It's tough because when I was school, as we headed in Jr. High School and High School, we were separated into different academic categories and I often wondered why I was never selected for the higher categories. It was tough.
I can tell you that even with all of my educational or professional accomplishments, I still have periods of time where I question the value of my voice. I know that's insane but unfortunately, it is true. And sometimes, you have to be reminded that your words truly have an impact.
The first time I was asked to do something I didn't realize I could do was during my senior year in College. I was tasked with the responsibility of creating a Martin Luther King, Jr. Ball at my alma mater. When I tell you I had NO idea how to do it, I truly did not. But I truly immersed myself into figuring it out and it was a wonderful journey.
Most people don't truly know what a mentor looks like. We often use the word loosely to describe anyone who gives us information or insight. However, it's important to have someone who can serve as a life coach and point you in the right direction as you make a variety of life decisions. I was lucky enough to have found somone like this in my karate teacher, Master Anne Radke who is both my karate teacher and mentor (she has been an Advertisement Exec for over 30 years).
One of the best experiences of my life was attending the University of Tampa. It was my first time away from Arkansas and for the first time, I was exposed to people from different cultures. This experience really opened my eyes to different world views, different experiences and different mind sets.
Master Anne Radke is one the few women who has built her own karate school, Alpha UPKUDO Karate & Fitness in 1999 after teaching at Lafayette Community Centers since 1992. Master Anne named her school "Alpha" as a testimony that she puts God first in every aspect of her life. She has trained thousands of students.
In 2008 she founded the 501(c)(3) non profit A Better Body organization to educate persons needing health and safety training. Her focus since 2000 has been on the holistic approach to healing. Her students have won over 4,250 trophies, 250 division titles and one World Title. Her karate team demonstrates at community events.
Master Anne is the founder and Executive Director of A Better Body and 6th Degree Black Belt Master in UPKUDO. In 2004 she was appointed President of the UPKUDO International Karate Federation. Master Anne is a Certified as a Master Fitness Trainer, REAL Essentials Life Coach, Senior and Youth Fitness Specialist, Sports Nutritionist, and created the ABB4Me for mental and physical health, Victors not Victims, and Stand Up To Bullies programs. She is a Mental Health & Personal Development Consultant.
As a student of hers for over 20 years, I have had the opportunity to learn alot from her wisdom and so I wanted to share a rare insightful interview about her experiences as a professional and instructor in a male dominated environment.
I am often asked what motivates me to write very posts or create various videos. It usually rides from a specific event, a news article or a conversation.
Kicking off my "What I KNOW about the week of" series, I share with you the podcast version of my YouTube videos along with the back story relating to what motivated me to create the videos.
For the week of January 22:
1) Black History is OUR History
2) Easy but NOT so Easy: Understanding Referrals
3) Reeves Point of View: Why you should consider hiring a professional
If you have facebook, twitter or instagram, you can find me under @mynameisreeves.
If you want to watch the videos, just type in "IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves" in YouTube.
I am often asked what motivates me to write very posts or create various videos. It usually rides from a specific event, a news article or a conversation.
Kicking off my "What I KNOW about the week of" series, I share with you the podcast version of my YouTube videos along with the back story relating to what motivated me to create the videos.
For the week of January 15:
1) The Reality of Protest (Back Story: The legal ramifications of participating in a protest)
2) When your attorney tells you to STOP TALKING (Back Story: The Gayle King interview of the young lady who accused a 14 year old of stealing her iphone)
3) 3 times you should think about hiring an attorney (Back Story: Different protesters getting legal representation)
If you have facebook, twitter or instagram, you can find me under @mynameisreeves.
If you want to watch the videos, just type in "IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves" in YouTube.
I had the opportunity to work as a dishwasher and I learned a lot from the experience. I also briefly worked on lifting bags of rice. There are some jobs that are truly the definition of putting in work
Deciding when to leave your job can be tough. Here are a few things to consider if you are in the decision making mode
Every office has it's own culture. As long as you are working around people, you will have to learn how to navigate the dynamics of that environment. However, it can be tricky if you're not sure how to navigate it. In this podcast, I talk about some things you should consider when navigating the office
When I had my first job, I didn't know that I would have the experience of thinking that I was stuck in that job.
Don't let yourself get caught up in what feels like a dead end job the first time around
Experience is a great teacher. We often go through so many things in our lives that makes us stronger. However, how many of us have had those moments where we ask WHY we weren't told about these things sooner??
On this episode, I talk about what things we go through that we wish we could have gone through sooner or AT LEAST, we wish our parents would have told us about sooner
If you have never been through an eviction or a foreclosure, consider yourself lucky. These legal proceedings are usually the last phase in a devastating financial situation that puts people (renters or homeowners) in a horrible situation. A lot of discussion has been made about the COVID19 moratorium but it's equally important to acknowledge the tragic circumstances that leads to people making difficult financial decisions relating to their ability to support their home life. In addition, we need to also focus on the aftermath after you have been forced to leave your apartment and your home and the long road to being able to rent or purchase again
There is nothing more terrifying than leaving the safety of your job to becoming a struggling college student, especially if you are not sure you are going to be able to make it through the program.
Tune in today as I do this 'self interview' of me about it was like to transition from a Naval Officer to a struggling college student. There was a lot decisions made a long the way and I hope you can gain some insight from my experiences.
An unexpected health crisis can devastate a household financially, physically and psychologically. However, you will learn a LOT about what is and is not important to you in your life when this occurs.
Tune in as I share some of the lessons I learned from a healthcare crisis.
So, you are having a conversation with your attorney where they are telling you that they are dropping your case. You are curious as to why? They took your case but now they are getting out it. You are scratching your head. Or you got a letter in the mail indicating they are withdrawing their representation. Feels weird.
There are multiple reasons why an attorney may decide to drop your case. Here are a few reasons.
In 1992, I moved from my college town (Tampa) to my first professional job (Tallahassee). I didn't know anyone there. I had never lived in Tallahassee. It was a life altering event. I was alone in a new job and I didn't know how to maneuver. However, after a few months, I found my legs and made a lot of great discoveries.
Here are a few things that I learned during my first job
How many of you have been under the impression that all attorneys are created equal? You're thinking "They all went to law school so they should be able to answer any legal question". How many times have you randomly called an attorney with a 'quick legal question' and was met with resistance?
In this podcast, I talk about why attorneys are very cautious about answering legal questions and why they may be resistant to answering yours
One of the pathways to become an officer in the United States Army is through the participation in the Reserved Officers Training Corps or ROTC. A large number of universities offer ROTC training and students who participate in this training (called cadets) will endure 4 years of classroom and field training.
The crucial part of the ROTC program is attending Advanced Camp. Advanced Camp occurs during the summer between a cadet’s junior and senior year. Cadets converge on select military installations (in my day, it was Fort Riley) where they participate in a variety of exercises and scenarios in an effort to evaluate their leadership skills. The cumulative score from Advanced Camp is used in order for the cadet to be commissioned as an Army officer.
Even though the time at Advanced Camp is relatively short (when I attended, it was about 5 1/2 weeks), the exercises and activities experienced can offer some great leadership and life lessons.
Here are a few things that I learned that may benefit you.
How many of you actually use ALL of the wellness programs offered by your employer? Have you inquired as to programs that haven't been used by anyone?
Take a moment to listen in as I share a few things you should be aware when exploring wellness programs provided by your employer
On December 5, 2020, I was given the honor of being keynote speaker for the Delaware Alpha Phi Alpha brothers Founders Day program in recognition of the Founders Day celebration of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. (founded on December 4, 1906).
As a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. for over 30 years, this program marked the first time I had been asked to serve as keynote speaker. I was very excited. I was very nervous. I was very inspired. Here is the video of my speech. I hope it serves to inspire.
How many of you freak out just by going to a routine doctor’s visit? Even if the visit is just a check up, how many of you have found yourself stressing over what the doctor may or may not find??
In this video, I share the horror of going to my doctor’s office after blood work and a week of monitoring my blood pressure readings.
As the vaccine gets ready to be distributed, there will be a huge question as to who will get it and what the priority list will look like.
On today’s issue of “Easy but NOT so Easy”, we will talk about what the future of the administration of the COVID 19 vaccine and the designation of priorities.
When people apply for a job, most of us focus on annual leave, sick leave, health insurance and retirement benefits.
How many of us think about education assistance? Wellness plans? Bonuses? Career Development?
All of these are crucial benefits employers provide that we often don’t think about asking.
In today’s episode of “Easy but NOT so easy”, the focus on how easy it is to overlook extra benefits that may help us advance ourselves personally and professionally.
In 2017, at the age of 47, I was given the honor of being appointed a judge. However, most people are often shocked when I tell them that I only had thoughts of being a judge about 7 years ago. When I started college back in 1987, I was studying premed with the goal of being a Heart Surgeon. If anyone had told me that I would be a judge, I wouldn't have believed them.
This episode is my inaugural 'STILL GROWING UP' series where I share some of my realizations from some of the different decisions I have made a long the way.
In this episode, I share how my pathway from a 21 year old college grad led me through 5 different careers, 2 advanced degrees, 6 apartments and 3 homes on my way to where I am now and the reality was that I NEVER saw this path coming.
With the rolling out of the coronavirus vaccine, there are a lot of people who have questions about who will get it, how it it will be distributed and the reliability of the virus.
Today is the first part of a series “Coronavirus Virus Q&A”, as we address 4 matters that should be on everyone’s mind.
If you are thinking about going to law school, do you know all of the important questions you should be asking???
This video is a continuation of the “What I tell parents who ask about their children going to law school”
At some point in our lives, we may find ourselves looking after our loved ones. It may happen gradually or it may happen suddenly. However, the transition can be smooth or rocky.
In today’s edition of “Easy but NOT so Easy”, we are going to talk about things you should consider when the need to take care of loved ones arises.
All job references are NOT created equal. Making sure you use the right job references is a crucial part of your job search process.
In this episode of “Easy but NOT so Easy”, we will talk about the unique challenges of choosing the right person to be a reference in your job search process.
if you have been fired, you may feel like suing your employer is the next thing you should do. However, it's important to recognize some key things if you do.
In this episode of "Easy but NOT so Easy", I talk about some things you should consider if you are planning on suing your employer
At some point in your working life, you may find yourself in the position of quitting or wanting to quit your job. The decision to quit may be an easy decision. However, the ramifications of quitting may have a greater impact than you realize. Here are a few things to consider.
There are countless situations where filing a lawsuit is the proper course of action. Many times, people find themselves feeling confident they can file a lawsuit on their own. However, there are some things some people are not aware of when it comes to filing a law suit.
In this segment of the series "Easy but not so Easy", I spend time sharing general information about the things that people should be aware of if they are deciding if they can file a law suit on their own
I am at that age where quite a few of my friends have kids who are either starting college or in the middle of college. At some point, if their kids are interested in going to law school, I am reached out to and I try to share with my friends to help guide their children down the law school experience. Here are some things I have learned
Welcome to "IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves"
Today, 11/24/2020, as part of our ongoing series "Easy but not easy" we are going to talk about the difference between 'HAVING' healthcare and "HAVING ACCESS TO' healthcare.
As part of my ongoing series, "Living with Jim Crow", this segment is titled 'Ray's Way!'.
The title is derived from my opportunity to interview my uncle, Retired Police Officer and AME Zion minister, Reverend Ray Owens, Senior as we had an in depth discussion about his experience during Jim Crow. Many of the experiences were consistent with various experiences of blacks living in the South during the 50s and 60s. However, my uncle shared some unique experiences that were part comedic, part breath taking and sometimes, part terrifying. Listen as the first segment focuses on his early years of living in the Jim Crow south.
IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves is proud to kickoff the inaugural: “Easy but Not Easy” series Today, we are talking about the “Easy but Not Easy” ways to start your own business. As a former business owner, we will go over a few of the obstacles and initial things you should do when starting your own business
From age 40 to 44, things started to take shape in a very unique way. I had been running my own business for about 3 years. I was exploring different types of technology. My wife started to work for me. My firm was growing. Things were moving in a different direction. Yet, I, also, started making a whole different level of mistakes in my growth.
I hope you can learn from my journey.
One of the most powerful lessons that I learned was my first time trying out a business venture. Despite having a law degree, I made all KINDS of bone head decisions which resulted in me closing the doors on the business within the first year. However, the experience ended up being on the best decisions I made.
It was a humbling experience but it offered me a lot of lessons that I found useful when I decided to open up my own law firm. Here are a few things I learned.
Once you have committed to making the career change, the reality comes into play once you start putting things into action. And it becomes scarier once you start experiencing new things you never experienced or never anticipated. Here are a few things I experienced.
When forced to have to make a decision, we often struggle between the choice of the thing we know and the unknown. The unknown can be terrifying. The unknown can be wrong decision but it can also be the RIGHT decision. Here is something I learned from that experience.
How many of us are jealous when we see people who change careers? These people make it look easy. However, sometimes, there are a lot of decisions that happen behind the scenes before change can happen.
Let me share with you the things I went through when I was decided to leave my growing career as a Naval Officer and go back to school as a struggling college student in order to attend law school.
Part 1: It didn't go as well as I thought it would
There are many people who have never been to a homeless shelter.. These places are a vital resource to a large segment of our population. When I was a practicing attorney, I visited a client at a shelter and got a different perspective about the importance of these resources.
Did you know that your time in volunteer organizations says a lot about you? How many times have you been asked to lead a committee? These little things say a lot about you and it's time you showcase those skills.
\How many people are hearing about how you have to pick one side or the other? The economy? Your health? They are both connected. I spent 6 years as a Safety and Health professional (3 years as a Senior Safety and Health Specialist and 3 years as an Industrial Hygiene officer) and I have a Masters of Public Health focusing on Industrial Hygiene. I learned the two are connected and here is why it should be important to you.
If you haven’t embraced this already, but if you operate under the philosophy that you have to be ‘twice of good’ to meet someone else’s standards, why are you wasting your talents on that someone? YOUR standard is OUTSTANDING. They are trying to get The benefit of your OUTSTANDING effort by saying your OUTSTANDING is GOOD!
If the average male lives to the age 75 and the average female lives to the age of 76, ages 35 to 39 is the mid life portion of your life. At this point in your life, you have been in the work force (along with an college, trade school, or specialized training) for, at least, 17 years. At this point, at least for me, I started exploring my passions while also working in my profession. I had a few life altering decisions during that time (i.e. buying a home, starting my own law firm) and it was truly an adventure.
I hope you can learn from my journey.
When I turned 30, I had just finished my first year of law school and was heading into my 2nd year. Over a year before, I was a Naval Officer stationed with the Marines and a year later, I was a college student.
We often focus on age 18 or 21 as the great milestones in our lives but it's age 30 when we start making significant life challenges.
From age 30 to 34, I had attended and graduated from law school, got my first legal job, married my girlfriend and proceeded to make a litany of life decisions while transitioning into 'grown folks territory'.
Here is the first part of my 5 part series '30s, 40s, 50s and Beyond' as I talk about what I learned through age 30 to 34.
A social worker who worked for 20 years in Alaska.
A retired United States Marine Corps Sergeant Major.
Two sisters born and raised in Augusta, GA, share stories about their experiences growing up in the Deep South during Jim Crow.
Let me share with you the story of 6 dynamic professionals who were African American, women and all over 6 feet tall. They were professionally and affectionately known as the '6 Footahs' and from 2006 to 2017, these ladies decided THEY would be the change their community needed.
Please tune in to the second part of my epic discussion with my personal Black History Icon, my mom, as she talks about her experiences growing up in the Jim Crow South and her participation in civil rights marches
You got to do this and you to do this; it was just the way we grew up. I just accepted the fact that we sat at the back of the bus, stand at the back of the line; white folks were first, and we were second. That's just the way it was."
For those who grew up during the Jim Crow years, segregation and discrimination was an ingrained way of life. However, this way of life wasn't centuries ago. This way of life occurred after the civil war in the 1860s through the late 1960s. And today, there are many African Americans living who can share stories of their lives and experiences during the toughest and hardest chapters of American History.
Today, on "IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves", I'm starting my 'Living Black History' series with 30 year teacher, Jim Crow Survivor, Glenda Reeves (my mother), who grew up in the South during Jim Crow and Integration.