The Intimacy Podcast: Recent Episodes
Rhonda Farr
Connecting men to the women they love.
Want to create amazing intimacy both inside and outside the bedroom?
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In this episode, I am interviewed by Dan Purcell from Get Your Marriage On podcast. We talk about ways we may be sabotaging sex and when it might be important to understand the difference between physical pleasure and emotional pleasure. Schedule a call with me here https://rhondafarr.as.me/
Do you ever wonder what happened to the happy, vibrant, fun-loving woman you married? If so, this episode might help answer that question. Book me for your next business training, guy’s retreat or mastermind. https://rhondafarr.as.me/
Do you have a partner who avoids hard topics? This episode is for you. Get on my calendar for a consult call, here- https://rhondafarr.as.me/
Some personality types seems to cross my schedule more than others. Enneagram 8's and 3's make up more than have of my client roster. Today we're back with Mariah Wickham to talk about the "challenger" personality type that I work with often. Follow Mariah on Instagram here https://www.instagram.com/mariah.wickham/Schedule a call with me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485 Achiever, 3 episode https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rhonda-farr/episodes/The-Achiever-with-Mariah-Wickham--A-Look-at-the-Enneagram-3-e2859gp
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What’s the difference in confidence and self-worth? Get on my calendar here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Soul Curriculum, Universal Assignment, Worthy to Receive. What does all this mean for you and for me? Talk to me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Today we talk about why it’s a no-win-strategy to focus on trying to get your partner to give you what you want. Schedule a call with me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Acuity Calendar https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485 Tony Overbay Podcast https://www.tonyoverbay.com/stop-being-so-clingy-why-anxiously-attached-people-can-be-exhaustingly-amazing/
Today we’re talking about emotional safety. What is it? How is it created? How is it threatened? I’m answering these questions and offering some examples that you might recognize in your own relationship.
When we leave old familiar patterns in the past, we may experience a lot of anxiety on our way toward new and more productive patterns. This is normal and quite disorienting. For help navigating your messy middle get on my calendar here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
This week we're talking to enneagram coach, Mariah Wickham. We discuss many aspects of the 3 personality and what it's like to be in a relationship with them. Follow Mariah on Instagram here https://www.instagram.com/mariah.wickham/
Sharon Costanzo is a relationship coach who helps women work through challenges in their marriage without feeling like a bully or a doormat. She is the host of the Keep Talking Revolution podcast and coaches women 1:1 in her Respected and Connected program.
Find more resources from Sharon here- https://keeptalkingrevolutionpodcast.com/ https://keeptalkingrevolutionpodcast.com/
When you try to motivate yourself or your partner with harsh judgment, you’re probably creating more of what you don’t want. Get on my calendar here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Ever have a hard time staying differentiated when you’re triggered? This episode discusses what’s happening in the brain and how we can self- confront during emotional times. Talk to me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Are you approaching your relationship like a vending machine? Would you rather BE a millionaire or receive a million dollars from someone else? This week we dive into how transactional growth differs from abundant growth. Schedule a call with me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
When she says, “You don’t get it. You never listen to me. Stop trying to get me to do it your way,” I have some helpful tips for you. Talk to me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
“This morning I tried to donate my kidney. This afternoon the transplant team told me I can’t. I have cancer.” That's the opening to Jeff Stewart’s new book Living: Inspiration from a Father with Cancer.What inspiration would you leave your kids if you might be dying from cancer? That's what Jeff Stewart, a molecular biologist, Jeopardy! champion, and father of seven, answers in Living, a book of wisdom and grace. Living is for anyone whose family has been touched by cancer.“Beautifully written and powerful. Frank and funny and totally honest and much needed in the cancer conversation.” —Marc Silver, author of Breast Cancer Husband“Flat-out one of the best books I’ve read in years. A major new talent.” —Cover to Cover Book Beat“A moving message-in-a-bottle, full of aphorism and insight.” —Ken JenningsLink to the book: https://a.co/d/iezk0g5
Self Intimacy puts you in the driver’s seat and offers you more choices. You don’t have to stay stuck. Get on my calendar here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Sometimes differentiation can seem like we’re being cold or uncaring, if we don’t understand why we’re doing it. Today I explain how to release yourself from your partner’s emotions in a way the invites more connection and intimacy. Talk to me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
We all want to maintain autonomy and simultaneously feel connected to others. These seem like polar opposites, but with the tools of differentiation and self confrontation we can see how they go hand in hand. Get on my calendar here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
In this episode I’m sharing real life examples of people just like you, who are going deeper into why marriage is so hard. https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Get on my calendar here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485 In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and I talk about the sometimes painful marriage dynamic, when one partner doesn't choose to develop the physical intimacy in a marriage. The questions and ideas discussed today, come directly from audience members. We do some powerful role-play to give actionable examples of how one might handle a situation like this with their spouse. Each marriage is different and we encourage you to listen through the lens of love and compassion as you decide how to approach the unique circumstances in your marriage.
Is it a conscious choice not to work on the relationship or is there something more going on? This week we’re talking about what’s happening when our partner doesn’t honor our requests for change. Schedule a call with me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Is there strength in sharing weakness? This episode will help you figure out for yourself how you choose to be intimate and knowable. Talk to me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Sometimes it’s hard to think you’re the one who has to do all the work and she just gets to enjoy the fruits of you’re hard work. Don’t be a sucker! Talk to me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Today we’re talking about happiness and how it relates to true intimacy. Talk to me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Does she control the bedroom? In this episode, I discuss the dynamic that most of you brought into the marriage without realizing it would yield the power struggle you now find yourself in. Talk to me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
If you don’t know your worth, you’re going to try to extract in from all the places that leave you feeling depleted and empty. Try this instead. Talk to me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Many of us are so used to being rejected or angering our partner, that we stop feeling like we can ask for what we want. I’m this episode, Rhonda talks about how to honor your desires and make requests for the things that are important to you.
If you don’t believe something yourself, it’s damaging (and impossible) for someone else to prop you up. Get on my calendar here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Your unconscious competence that allows you to thrive in your career can also sabotage the intimacy you crave at home. This episode will clearly identify the dynamic that you now find yourself stuck in. Top 3 interviews for high-performers and bonus conflict resolution script for your marriage here -> https://rhondafarr.com/finlaysonfifelandingpage/
Dr. C invited me into the aircraft lavatory and I invited him to cut the crap and find peace again. Get on my calendar here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Are you a high achiever? Married to a high achiever? Sometimes the very skillset that allows you to thrive at work and in society, is the same skillset that sabotages intimate and emotional connection in your most important relationships. Learn why this happens and what you can do about it. Schedule a consult call with me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485You can learn more about Amanda's work with women here https://amandalouder.com
Sometimes the same skillset that keeps you achieving at work is simultaneously sabotaging your marriage.
If your life looks like a dream on the outside and feels disconnected and unfulfilling on the inside, I can help.
Schedule a time to chat with me here https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485
Is it possible to heal after sexual trauma? What’s it like to be in marriage after sexual abuse? How can I live and support my wife who is a survivor or sexual abuse. Tune in for all these answers and more. Cami , birdno.cami@gmail.com https://www.facebook.com/cami.birdno/ . Merrill merrill.birdno@gmail.com
To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife's men's sexuality course, get on her waiting list here www.finlayson-fife.com To learn more about one on one intimacy coaching with me, head on over to www.rhondafarr.con
Today's episode is all about empowering those who struggle with patterns of pornography use, to find change and resolution in their lives. We discuss the controversial topic of the addiction model and talk about the underlying reasons so many are turning to porn these days. To learn more about Life After Pornography online, guided course click here https://www.lifeafterpornography.com/sales-page33509805
Today we’re taking a closer look at how body Image issues are effecting ever part of our lives...especially in the bedroom. coachwithrhonda@rhondafarr.com
Today I’m talking to the Author of And IT Was Very Good, a book about sex that gives all the sex advice you want to learn about, but are afraid to Google search. For your free download email earthlyparents@gmail.com. You won’t be disappointed!
Research shows that 85 percent of young single adult men have some type of history with pornography. There are a lot of myths and misunderstandings about what pornography actually does to us. It’s time to start talking about these things and establishing open dialogues of conversation.
Teaching Your Kids About Sex Without Shame or Embarrassment. If you’ve ever wished for help when it comes to talking to you kids about sex, today’s episode is for you! Get your free guide at www.rhondafarr.com/freebie-teaching/
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in relationships and sexuality. Tune in for insight from her years of study and practice!