The Relationship You Want: Recent Episodes
Adia Wells
015: Series#1 Putting On Something New Second Episode in the Series!
We are not what or how we may seem. Imagine someone sees you when you're really tired. You're not your usual self, and so anyone meeting you that day would meet a worn out version of you. While the tiredness you experienced was true of you that day, it's not true of you all the time. Because we are fallible human beings, we can be subject to our emotions.
In this series, we are hashing out the concept of newness in Christ Jesus and how this newness affects our relationships. We will walk through Colossians 3, and learn what God has to say through his word and how our relationships can be better by applying this word.
In this episode we take a look at what it looks like to live in and through Christ and how that impacts our relationships. We look at what we can avoid to have the fullness of Christ present in us and in our relationships.
Scriptures: Colossians 3:4-6
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Bibliography:
Gill's Exposition of the Entire Bible
Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers
Pulpit Commentary
Benson Commentary
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014: We will find what we’re looking for. Whether it's something tangible or an idea like peace of comfort, we will find something. The question is whether or not what we've found is really what we need. The truth is that God knows what we need because all that we need is in Jesus. But are we looking for Jesus or for something else?
In this series, we are hashing out the concept of newness in Christ Jesus and how this newness affects our relationships. Being new in Jesus means a number of different things about us, our hearts, and our connections to others. Don’t miss this series on Newness and relationships.
In this episode we open up Colossians 3 and look at our mindset and what it really reveals about our hearts..
013: So often we interact with others forgetting that we are presenting ourselves to God with every word and every action. We miss the opportunity to be kind, considerate, forgiving, or show grace. Instead, we are focused on our own struggles, pain, gripes, and concerns. We want to do the minimum, so we can move on. But God is looking on. And because of the line that God has shown us, we should want his approval and to not be ashamed.
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In this episode, we talk about a familiar scripture applied to relationships. Treating others as we want to be treated and in a way that honors God is possible, but it requires being connected to the truth. It requires being faithful to what is really true.
Scriptures:
2 Peter 1:10, 15 Wherefore the rather, brethren, give diligence to make your calling and election sure: for if ye do these things, ye shall never fall: …
2 Peter 3:14
Wherefore, beloved, seeing that ye look for such things, be diligent that ye may be found of him in peace, without spot, and blameless.
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Bibliography:
Benson Commentary https://biblehub.com/commentaries/benson/2_timothy/2.htm
Expositor's Greek Testament https://biblehub.com/commentaries/egt/2_timothy/2.htm
012: Sometimes we forget that God loves us. We get caught up in making things happen and doing things on our own. We forget that God loves us and wants good for us. We forget that He is ever-present and all around us. We forget that he is excited about us. When in relationship with another person, remembering these things gives us the right foundation for treating them well consistently. It provides the grounds for remembering that God sees the other person the same way that he sees you.
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In this episode, we dive into how God is excited about us and what that looks like in day-to-day-living. We share about the impact this truth has on relationships and connecting with others in meaningful ways. This episode is an encouragement to walk wholly in the love of God, and from that ever-present unconditional love, make room for loving others.
Other Scriptures mentioned:
Romans 2:11-16, Acts 10:34
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Bibliography:
MacLaren’s Commentary https://biblehub.com/commentaries/maclaren/zephaniah/3.htm
Gil’s Exposition on Zephaniah 3 https://biblehub.com/commentaries/gill/zephaniah/3.htm
011: When it comes to relationships, we want to be able to say that they bring us joy. Or at least that there are moments of joy. On compassion.com, a post titled The Difference Between Joy and Happiness states that “Joy is an inner feeling. Happiness is an outward expression. Joy endures hardship and trials and connects with meaning and purpose. A person pursues happiness but chooses joy.” Joy is a choice? Perhaps.
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This episode focuses on what makes our joy full. Jesus gives clear points on how this joy can be accomplished and is within reach. As we look closely at these verses, we will find that we are called to do just a few things for us to encounter full joy. Enjoy this journey to experiencing something real.
Scriptures: John 15:6-11
Hebrews 4:12 For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.
Hebrews 12:2 Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.
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Eat This Book by Eugene Petersen
The Difference Between Joy and Happiness - Compassion.com https://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/difference-between-joy-and-happiness.htm#:~:text=Joy%20is%20an%20inner%20feeling,pursues%20happiness%20but%20chooses%20joy.
Bibliography:
Ellicott’s Commentary https://biblehub.com/commentaries/ellicott/john/15.htm
Meyer’s NT Commentary https://biblehub.com/commentaries/meyer/john/15.htm
010: The world we live in is spiritual. Sure we see things and there are elements that we can touch even, but these things are the manifestation of God’s gift to humanity as well as demonstrations of a fallen humanity. The Bible tells us that there is a warring happening, you know principalities and powers and so on. And Beloved this is the truth. There is a war for your soul and spirit. This war happens in relationships. Our relationship with ourselves and the conversations we have within is where spiritual warfare happens.Our connections to others, be they relationships we can touch or those we cannot, is where spiritual warfare happens.
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This episode takes a look at the nature of God and how it grants access to relationship benefits for those who believe! Direct benefits! There are tried and true ways to stay happy in a relationship, and this passage sheds light on one major way. We’ll get into the dynamics of deception and truth, and how darkness affects relationships. This powerful episode is sure to offer life-changing nuggets to your walk with humanity.
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Scriptures: 1 John 1:5-7,
John 8:12 Once again, Jesus spoke to the people and said, "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows Me will never walk in the darkness, but will have the light of life."
1 John 2:11 But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness. He does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes.
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Bibliography:
Barnes Notes on the Bible https://biblehub.com/commentaries/barnes/1_john/1.htm
Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges https://biblehub.com/commentaries/cambridge/1_john/1.htm
Gill’s Exposition of the entire Bible https://biblehub.com/commentaries/gill/1_john/1.htm
009: So many want to be in a relationship with another person. Sometimes to the point of risk and harm. Women want a husband or for men, they want a wife. But there is a reason why this significant other is not present. There are many reasons why a relationship is currently not manifested for you. But before we get to the reasons, we have to have the right heart and spirit about this current stage.
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This episode shares how we can have peace about such an important aspect of our lives and what God intends for us. The covering that God provides gives assurance of his perfect plan, letting us know that we can trust him with our hearts.
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Scriptures:
Matthew 6:25-33
Matthew 7:11
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Bibliography:
Simonetti, M. (2014). Matthew 1-13. IVP Academic. Pg- 143-146
Matthew Henry’s Concise Commentary
008: Self-Control gets a bad wrap these days. More and more behaviors that are extreme are acceptable or even praised. Yet, God’s word tells us the benefits of having it. And there are many because this attribute connects to so many areas of our hearts and lives. These benefits are character based which has a long lasting effect, impacting our relationship to everything and everyone around us. The truth of the matter is that we cannot escape ourselves, so who we are and the fruit of who we are is always with us.
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In this episode, we take a look at self-control in light of other characteristics of a Christian, and ask the question, how does self-control affect my relationships? Self-control is a fruit of the spirit, but here we focus on the path to transformation through building traits that help is love God and love people. Self-control is vitally important and can make all the difference in what life looks like daily and in reflection.
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Scriptures in this episode:
2 Peter 1:5-8, Proverbs 25:28
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Bibliography:
Dr. Richard Bauckham. (2014). Jude-2 Peter, Volume 50. Zondervan Academic
Mbuvi Andrew M. (2016). Jude and 2 Peter PB : A New Covenant Commentary. The Lutterworth Press pages 76-80
Donelson, L. R., & Cox, J. K. (2010). I & II Peter and Jude : A Commentary: Vol. First edition. Presbyterian Publishing Corporation. Pg 217
Most times when we hear about patience, it’s about when somebody is losing it! While I’m not sure that that is the best way to get it, patience is certainly worth having. Actually, according to The Fact Site, The average person spends five years throughout their lifetime waiting in lines and queues. With this amount of waiting, patience is a must! The question is how do we get it? And is it something that we can work to gain?
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Well, patience gets to be the start of this show. We definitely dive into some insights in this episode. Perhaps a deeper dive into patience than expected, but more importantly, we talk about how patience works, how to get and how to keep it. Patience does absolutely have a job to do, but what is it? Get to know this characteristic on a whole new level, and find out its goal for you.
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Scriptures in this episode: James 1:2-4
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The Fact Site - How Much time People Spend Doing Stuff in Their Lifetime https://www.thefactsite.com/how-much-time-people-spend-doing-stuff/
Commentary:
Ellicott’s Commentary for English Readers
MacLaren’s Expositions
Matthew Henry’s Concise Commentary
Gill’s Exposition of the Entire Bible
006: Leo Tolstoy said, “If you want to be happy, be.” But what should we be? There are many things that we desire and many things we may strive to be. But the one at the top of the list, it’s likely to be happiness. Happiness is the goal we all strive for, at work, in our families, and in our leisure. Where should we start to “be”? What does the bible say about being when it comes to happiness? Fortunately, the Word of God does not leave us hanging.
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This episode shares a number of scriptures that paint the picture of where happiness lies, and what characteristics lead to happiness. While the scriptures included are not exhaustive in giving us all the scriptures about happiness, those included certainly give us a starting point. Also included are a few contrasts to offer some guidance on what can make us unhappy. I pray this episode is a blessing to you! Enjoy.
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Scriptures in this Episode: Psalm 146:5, Proverbs 3:13, Proverbs 14:21, Proverbs 16:20, Proverbs 29:18
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Commentaries Used:
Matthew Henry’s Concise Commentary
Gill’s Exposition of the Entire Bible
Keil and Delitzsch Biblical Commentary on the Old Testament
Pulpit Commentary
005: There is so much power in the tongue. We take for granted, with free speech, that we can say whatever we want. It’s worth considering however how what we say impacts others...or is it? Our mouths can do so much - build up, tear down, spark imagination, cause a smile, speak peace, or speak death. But what happens when we use our mouths to deceive.
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This episode takes a look at an organ of our body that literally makes it all happen, believe it or not. The tongue. It can be used for so much but what do we really gain for the words we speak? This one might make you go hmmmm…
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004: Which would you rather? Love that’s real or “love” that’s not. Love is something we all need. We will sometimes do whatever we can to get it, at our own expense. Yet God’s design is a love that can be counted on because it comes from a real place. A safe place. This love also gives us the power to see good and evil with spiritual eyes. This episode delves into love that’s real and what comes with it. Yes it is the main course, but the sides are hearty and not to be left out!
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This episode is sure to challenge our connections with love and hate, but it will also cause us to think differently about evil - a word that is hardly used anymore. As members of the body of Christ, we must call a thing what God says it is, which means we must know what God says it is. Believe it or not, this is a way that God protects us - our hearts and minds. Relating to things the way that God states we should, keeps our hearts from being swayed in the wrong direction.
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002: When is too many friends a bad thing? This episode takes a deep dive into Proverbs 18:24 which is about having a lot of friends. The Book of Proverbs never leaves us hanging! We will kick off the show with a verse from a book of the bible that has much to say about relationships! It is full of comparisons that we must take a look at, but don’t worry. We are definitely mixing things up.
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This verse is compelling. The contrast makes you go hmmm, luring you to a place of reflection as you thumb through your contacts! All while pointing out a few things worth noting about the friends we really need along the way. When making friends, what guides you? Listen in on this great nugget on friendships.
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001: Introduction to the Show! Adia Wells shares her back story, how the podcast got started and why. She shares her vision for the show and what to expect for each episode. Adia then gives a nugget worth sharing! Using an unnamed friend, she shares an important tidbit about life decisions that is sure to be a blessing!
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Hopefully, you enjoy this first episode! It is here to provide some groundwork and direction for the journey ahead. Join Adia Wells on your journey to The Relationship You Want!
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Relationships require maturity. Without it, there is fighting bickering, comparison, competition, and a long list of other unwanted and unnecessary complications. Are you mature enough to be in a relationship? If you are a parent, does your maturity level affect your relationship with your children? Press play to find out.
We as women have a way of assuming that we should we treated like queens without really understanding all that is required of a queen, or even possessing the traits of a queen. Are you worthy of being a queen to a king? Press play to find out.
What are your expectations? Are they based in reality or on fiction? Does the person you love know what your expectations are? In this episode, dive into everything you want to know, and a little of what you may not be saying about expectations. Help your relationships and listen.
Sympathy is important in every relationship. Listen in to find out what it is and what it is not. Why do we need sympathy? How do men specifically need sympathy separately from women? Get these answers and more in this episode.
My husband is on with me! This episode on commitment shares some key points on covenants, committing to oneself, and what it takes to commit. learn more about how maturity and commitment work together. Did you know that they did? Also, find out what the benefits are to commitment, and the dangers of avoiding it. Enjoy!
This show is about the essential need for acceptance and appreciation in men and the significance his lady has in fulfilling this need. Listen for info on how to accept, what to accept and why. Appreciation in relationships is also essential. Men have a specific need for appreciation. Listen to find out more!
The second half continues to share how the roles we play are significant in the community. Whether a child or an elderly member of the community, we all play a part that is necessary and fulfilling. Listen in for more.
Roles are a part of all of our lives. But why? What happens when we are not ready for a role that we been given? Listen for answers to these questions and more.
Understanding Men is an essential for any and every woman. Whether with sons, brothers, uncles or a spouse, understanding men is necessary and vital to healthy relationships. This episode shares more of how we women can have the relationship we want by understanding men.
This show is about Understanding Men!! Ladies! This episode is for you! Learn more about men's needs, human needs and the difference. Learn more about respect, dependence, and trusting men.
This is a follow-up to the first radio show on Boundaries. In this podcast more light is shed on what healthy Boundaries are and look like. How do we know they are healthy? How do we tell the difference between healthy and unhealthy Boundaries? Listen in to find out more.