Roqzee’s View: Recent Episodes
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This annual argument about who deserves father's day greeting is now played out and we need to put it to rest.
Following from the recent video of Diddy beating Cassie to a pulp as she tried to run away in 2016, these are my thoughts on what Africans consider love when it is actually abuse.
Using two instances from Twitter, this is why I vehemently challenge the Nigerian concept of "wisdom" that encouraged dishonesty and abuse of power for personal gain.
This podcast lays out the intellectual issues arising from the icon that Idris has become. A single person out of 300 million citizens that ignites conversations on morality, ethics, sexuality, criminal law and freedom of expression. And all he did was put on make up.
This is about the worst flu I have ever battled, which is still ongoing as spring arrives here in the UK, a quick rave on the gestures for the Honor Pad 9, and the anti-Igbo bigotry holding sway in Yoruba Internet community.
When whatever you do stops being fun, people either settle for the life they have or insist on pursuing the life they always wanted no matter how far off the track they have gone.
Spent all night composing my very own podcast intros. Use headphones. Don’t hate the player. Record labels need to sign me before I become too expensive.
How is there no outrage for the children that have been kidnapped this past week? Are Nigerians now numb to trauma as a coping mechanism? So we think everything is politics? Have we lost our humanity?
This is my review of the new Usher era. His branding, his new album and THAT Superbowl performance. The Nigerian groove elevated this new album and RUIN is my absolute favourite.
This is a tongue in cheek overview of Nigerians and the kind of annoying questions they ask their friends during gists. And a warning to my friends to desist from trying it with me going forward.
This episode is dedicated to those who cannot find the festive spirit this Christmas. You are normal. You are loved. It will get better. Merry Different Kind of Christmas to you.
This is me comparing Christmas over the years and across Nigeria versus UK then delving into the key question of whether you can consider your work colleagues as your friends.
Here's my thoughts on Christmas over spend and this new generations trend of not giving the dead or religious leaders a pass. Why do you think this changed?
This is my November Update. Not a lot different has happened but progress is a long journey.
This is my take on why lasting powers of attorney are important. Good intentions alone do not absolve you from liability. Even if you saved my life I will still collect my money back.
Here's my thought on if it's okay to not get along with your best friend's spouse. And how to handle it.
This is my first podcast with a guest star and fellow Youtuber, Topzy. As old friends we decided to discuss our divergent views on today’s key national topics with best intentions and good humour. He is an eternal optimist and runs the YouTube channel #LifeSeriesWithTAID
This is one of my “things that never happened” stories that reminds me why I never take sides when personal issues become public between lovers and family members.
Many young people have fallen for the glamourized stereotype of an autocratic CEO. They have watched too many movies and think all it takes is to boss people around. This is to highlight the responsibility that comes with it and the need for humility to course correct.
This is a simplistic explanation on how a Nigerian migrant processes this proposed increase in UK visa fees and health surcharge.
Omo that's how I have been representing Nigerians here by keeping it real. Real village man.
This is my attitude to phases of life that seem to go on for too long. When I feel stagnant and have tried everything, I ask God for help with the lessons I’m supposed to learn so I can move forward.
My fond memories of High Chief Raymond Dokpesi and his impact on Nigerian media’s evolution. His investment changed TV and Radio forever, leading many of us to westernisation that others copy today. Bless his soul.
This is my observation of ChatGPT and the different approaches to it. It is not going anywhere so the earlier you embrace it the better for you.
I attempt to explain why the age old rivalry between parents and first born children will continue from one generation to the next.
My take on why the proposed doctor’s relocation embargo in Nigeria should be given a dispassionate rethink and how a terrible idea can come from a good place.
Documenting the very vivid dreams I had overnight. The recurrent theme in both dreams was being involved in things that were not my business. Both unwillingly. Felt like I was watching a movie.
Just me ranting about Spotify changing the name of my favourite podcasting app from Anchor. It was perfectly working and the name had immense goodwill. Anyways…
Once again the “Europe is so hard so clap for me” whiners have struck. Everyday is a new video telling Nigerians in Nigeria to respect you for staying in Europe. It’s enough.
Why una dey fear Bachelorhood Certificate? Whether you sign it or not you go still cast last last.
This is my take on loan and debt. Should you take loans? When, why and how should you handle a default?
A simple explanation for the groundswell of support for the candidacy of Peter Obi in Nigeria's 2023 elections.
Based on my recent experience opening an online store, I’m focused today on reminding you to always read the fine print. They never seem important until you’re in too deep to get out.
There’s this entitlement to parental support that is pervasive in people born in the 2000’s where they have zero empathy for their parents struggle to provide for them. It’s very different from 80’s kids who always felt that everything the parents did for them was a favour and undeserved. Where do you fall under?
Explaining the concept of external validation and the consequences. Why it happens and what you need to do.
Find people who are further ahead on the same path you’re on and ask them to show you the ropes. The people around you are either letting you feel like you’re doing great in your mediocrity or inspiring you to want more. That’s your task for next year: find the right people and dream a new dream.
There’s a place for each one but they must not be confused as the same thing. Hyping yourself up cannot have the same effect as asking God to intervene. It’s the same difference between children pointing to things they want without asking properly with please and thank you. There’s an age you let it pass and an age you won’t. Doesn’t mean the child can’t do what they like, but it can determine if they will get you to oblige.
A whole Lagosian like me fell for a fake website and got defrauded of 100 pounds. Had to block my credit cards etc etc E pain me die. Yahoo Boys 1: Roqzee 0
Resist the Christmas marketing hype. You can do without that extra new dress and you will survive if you don’t go for that concert. If the trends continue, you will need a lot more money and face a higher cost of living in the new year. Let’s be rational. Or just ignore me and say YOLO ✌️
A quick summary of where to begin and what it takes to go to school in the UK. Just paying it forward.
A bit of an update on where I am and what I’ve been up to plus my thoughts on how to maintain your friendships through election season
Now that courts are giving 20 year jail terms, does continuing Yahoo make sense? Not that it ever did but now more than ever why are people still doing it?
This post discusses the unwritten Nigerian rule in many cultures that your very first salary or income as an adult must be given to your parents to share amongst your older relatives. Do you do it in your family? And what’s the rationale?
Is a wife entitled to replace things her husband’s mother gave him before they got married? Or is that a sign of hatred for her mother-in-law?
This is the context to my disagreement with the “don’t ask God to take away battles, ask him for strength to fight them instead”. I was not put on earth to spend my life fighting battles, there’s better things to do. And I will ask God for those better things.
A fun episode about cultural differences that show up in how we greet Caucasians and why that might be a problem with hilarious consequences.
This is to those of you who allow others to shake your faith. Others who themselves didn’t take their own advice but don’t want you to even try.
Just my thoughts on why some backwards movement in life isn’t always a sign of stagnancy or retrogression. I mean, cars have a reverse gear for a reason.
This draws from a teachable moment that proves you should not act believing that you will never be found out but rather, act in a way that you can justify WHEN (not if) it comes out.
No matter how well intended, nobody will give you enough knowledge to enable you challenge their control over you. Don’t celebrate crumbs when you deserve loaves of bread for the value you are bringing your said “mentors” and “superiors”. Get exposure and find your true self worth, because whether you do or you don’t, life keeps moving ahead and it is your own time being wasted.
I read an article on whether society really need gender equality or just equitable treatment? I found it fascinating as you can hear from my breathless summary. The overarching question is: “has gender equality killed chivalry?” You tell me!
Everybody wants to remember Jesus as the sweet and kind healer and provides. He was also the one who scattered the temple, insulted the clergy, cavorted with a prostitute and tax payer and generally refused to conform to the society of his time. He was the original table shaker.
This is to explain the concept of serving jail term by proxy as alleged by Femi Falana and why it MUST end.
This is the context for my tweet this morning. I’m sick of Nigerians selfish no boundaries and honestly won’t tolerate it any more. Your self inflicted inconvenience does not constitute a real emergency and you have no right to inconvenience others.
Following from the blog post on stereotyping young Nigerian men and the trauma that it brings, I caught up with music superstar SHNEVS for his experience on the issue.
Knowing when to fold up your business is as critical as other business decisions. This is my take on taking a step back to evaluate your business instead of swimming in despair because you want to “just keep going”
This is my take on the debate around strangers right to call people by their first names even when they object to it. My view on why this is a generational debate and what you should do going forward.
This is my sombre appeal against suicide. Don’t let anyone exaggerate your issues and make you think that the only way out is suicide. There’s nothing new under the sun and all your issues can be solved with time.
This is in response to @PetitUdy who asked “how do I charge my friends for service I used to provide for free now their business is profitable, without jeopardising our friendship?”. Simple answer: You charge them with a straight face! LOL!
In this episode I’m responding to a question on which parts of our daily lives can benefit from having written documentation or contracts.
I finally found an example of why I insist that emotional conversations are useless and I do not know how to have them. What you say must be grounded in logic and reality or I will inject a dose of it for you. Either that or don’t let me see or hear it.
Here’s a quick run down on why some say Rinu’s Twitter Spaces with Bukola Saraki is hypocritical. A bit of recent history and putting the bigger picture together for you. Let me knows which side of the argument you fall under.
Countless times couples face avoidable lifelong issues that a pre-wedding medical clearance would have highlighted. Should people check their ability to have kids as a prerequisite for marriage? Or just follow love wherever it may lead?
Today I run through COVID related legal questions that you all have asked. Under certain circumstances you can indeed be fired for refusing to be vaccinated. Listen to know how!
Always remember that you will look back at todays decisions ten years from now if you live that long. If you still feel like you can live with that decision, then by all means do it.
This is my charge to you for 2022! Find the courage to leave every thing that does not serve you anymore. Recalibrate and remember your destination, then decide if those in your life have what it takes to get you there.
This episode questions why young Nigerians have used the mere fear of godfatherism to stop themselves, and their peers, from running for elective offices.
General tips on areas to pay attention to when taking a new lease of an apartment in Lagos
Quick catch up on Nigerian updates as at today and my perspective on a few topical issues. All during my evening walk, loud breeze and all.
A twist from my usual monthly "adjust your formula" preaching. There's times when you're doing your best and I'm rooting for you. So keep the focus and don't get distracted.
Reflections on the need to create an environment and attitudes that encourage more African women to fulfill their dreams
We address the concept of mistaking attention for love and crying wolf after true intentions materialise
Why are rich kids treated so badly on social media? What drives the hatred by regular people... here are my thoughts
My thoughts on the windscreen face masks, UK luring Nigerian doctors and Removal of Age Restrictions for Job
You notice how first born siblings want to control everyone else and never take direction? Here’s my thought on it
Run down of positions in the Nigerian Chief Justice's suspension. The why, the how and the larger picture.
Tweets lead to physical assault, rape allegations and revenge porn plus political updates. TwitterNG hits a new low.
Happy New Year and a run down of the last two posts including my take on the importance of freedom in an election year for Nigeria
There's a twitter poll on cross over habits for nigerians and this is the advert for it. Follow @orokzee on twitter and vote!
Why are Millenials in Nigeria committing suicide over every thing? Summary of my thoughts on blog post on simplyoroquesview.blogspot.com