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Show Notes On this week’s episode of the Undone Redone podcast, Melody sits down with author Kristen Jenson to discuss protecting our children from exposure to pornography. Kristen tells parents how to start a conversation with their kids about the dangers of pornography and how to empower them to reject it. Kristen is the founder of Protect Young Minds and best-selling author of Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today’s Young Kids and Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr.: A Simple Plan to Protect Young Minds. Through her books, Jenson helps parents teach children what porn is and what children should do when they encounter it.

Our listeners can learn more about Kristen by visiting protectyoungminds.org.

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“Pornography might feel like the pull of giant magnet and we need to explain to children that it’s normal to feel curious or enticed by it; but that there are real consequences of following that curiosity.” – Kristen Jensen
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Show Notes On this episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray sits down with Kimball Lewis, CEO of EmpoweringParents.com to discuss parenting during the pandemic. Kimball lays out the process of how parents can properly instruct and work with their children through the pandemic. This includes using technology for both classes and entertainment, how parents can set guidelines for their kids while learning from home, and how to properly discipline them if boundaries are crossed. Our listeners can learn more about Kimball and his ministry by visiting EmpoweringParents.com.

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“The communication aspect is critical when you’re trying to get your kids to do stuff. You don’t want to engage in arguments, but have what we call ‘effective’ consequences.” – Kimball Lewis
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“You don’t actually control your child’s behavior. You layout rules and structures, but parents ultimately have to recognize that it’s the child’s responsibility to make those choices.” – Kimball Lewis
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Learn more and find the resources Melody has created to help women through betrayal, click here or text Lifebeyondbetrayal to 44222 to receive more information easily via text.

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Show Notes On this episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody are finally back to usher in Season 9! They also discuss the many projects and courses they have been working on since the start of 2021, and what the future holds for The Undone Redone Podcast.

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Learn more and find the resources Melody has created to help women through betrayal, click here or text Lifebeyondbetrayal to 44222 to receive more information easily via text.

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Show Notes On this week’s episode of The Undone Redone podcast, Tray and Melody welcome back author John Lynch to discuss his latest book, On My Worst Day: The Narrative Changes When Redemption Enters In. John is so incredibly gifted at communicating God’s wonderfully scandalous grace and this interview is no exception! John shares his own journey from believing that God was somehow mad at him to fully understanding that God’s love for him never changed…even on his worst day.

In this interview, John poses this question: ‘What if every single moment of every single day God was magnificently redeeming your worst days into your best ones?’

Learn more about John and his speaking ministry at johnlynchspeaks.com, and purchase On My Worst Day on Amazon by CLICKING HERE.

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“The whole reality of this good news is not just believing in Jesus so I can go to heaven, but believing that Jesus is present tense so that my soul can be clean ALL of the time.” – John Lynch
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“The voice of Christ is not a voice of condemnation and rejection, but of love and acceptance.” – John Lynch
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“The motivation of grace will always bear greater fruit than the coercion of demand.” – John Lynch
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Learn more and find the resources Melody has created to help women through betrayal, click here or text Lifebeyondbetrayal to 44222 to receive more information easily via text.

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Show Notes Tray and Melody are joined on this episode by author Laine Craft to tell her story of starting her marriage again from scratch. Laine shares how she and her husband Steve worked through years of strife and hardship to reform their marriage in order to find a new, more healthy “dance” together. Laine also explains how she has walked with thousands of women who have faced everything from abuse and betrayal to simply “falling out of love” with their spouse and how God teaches us to pick up the pieces and start again from scratch.

Our listeners can learn more about Laine as well as purchase her books by visiting lainelawsoncraft.com.

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“Your health, your relationships, your finances—whatever seems impossible in your life, God can meet you in the middle of it and bring hope, healing and peace.” – @LaineLawsonCrft
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“God wants us to grow in intimacy with him and discover the freedom that comes through transparency and trust when we truly allow him to be a part of our lives.” – @LaineLawsonCrft
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Partner With Us If you would like to become a monthly ministry partner please visit our ministry partner page. Your donation allows us as a ministry to reach more people with the message of hope and reconciliation.

Learn more and find the resources Melody has created to help women through betrayal, click here or text Lifebeyondbetrayal to 44222 to receive more information easily via text.

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Show Notes On this week’s episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray sits down with Authors Dan Britton and Jimmy Page to discuss the four relationships men must have in their lives. Dan and Jimmy break down the four relationships: The Walker, The Warrior, The Watchman, and The Workman, and how we can use these four relationships to maximize our emotional relationships with others in our lives. They also talk about what it means to walk purposefully with Jesus and begin to live a life of meaning and significance that we are all created for. Our listeners can learn more about Dan and Jimmy as well as purchase their book Wisdom Walks by visiting http://www.wisdomwalks.org.

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“We often try to live our lives for God based on our performance. But in the end, my pursuit of the Father’s love wore me out. I was striving for perfection to earn God’s favor and avoid the guilt. And that burden got heavy to the…
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“Often times, we want the results without the work. We want to have strong character and faith. We want to be able to weather the storms of life, resist temptation, and walk away from sin. We want to be unselfish, loving, and slow to…
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Partner With Us If you would like to become a monthly ministry partner please visit our ministry partner page. Your donation allows us as a ministry to reach more people with the message of hope and reconciliation.

Learn more and find the resources Melody has created to help women through betrayal, click here or text Lifebeyondbetrayal to 44222 to receive more information easily via text.

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Show Notes On this week’s show, Tray and Mel have a conversation with Joe and Hilarie Barry about surviving infidelity. Hilarie courageously shares what it was like to be blindsided by Joe’s infidelity, the emotional rollercoaster of partner betrayal, and how she deals with the resulting PTSD-like symptoms. 

Joe speaks about his need for help in getting well, working through his addiction, and what his journey to recovery has looked like. Today, they speak with other couples dealing with infidelity and show that there is hope and healing after the pain of betrayal.

Our listeners can pick up a copy of Hilarie’s Book, We Survived Infidelity, on Amazon and can contact Hilarie directly by visiting her website at https://hilariebarry.com/.

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“I realized that moving forward wasn’t a matter of trusting Joe. I had to learn to trust God.”- Hilarie Barry
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“I couldn’t imagine how my life would ever get back to that beautiful time before infidelity. I began to realize I didn’t have to live in the past, because the life I have now is better.” – Hilarie Barry
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Partner With Us If you would like to become a monthly ministry partner please visit our ministry partner page. Your donation allows us as a ministry to reach more people with the message of hope and reconciliation.

Learn more and find the resources Melody has created to help women through betrayal, click here or text Lifebeyondbetrayal to 44222 to receive more information easily via text.

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Show Notes On this week’s episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody chat with returning guest Sharon Hersh to discuss her latest book, Belonging. She helps us explore what could happen in each of us if we bravely embrace the truth of our innate worthiness and welcome the love God freely offers to all.

Sharon asks our listeners an important question,

“What would happen if you declared that life is not all about your pain, your accomplishments, your abuse, or your rights?”

You can learn more about Sharon at sharonhersh.com and pick up her book Belonging by CLICKING HERE.

Ms. Hersh received an M.A. from Colorado Christian University, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor. She is the mother of two college-aged children and she is a frequent speaker at universities, seminaries, conferences, and retreats. Sharon has written numerous books such as Bravehearts: Unlocking the Courage to Love with Abandon, Mom, Sex Is No Big Deal, and The Last Addiction.

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“Belonging to yourself is not about indulging yourself, but rather it requires that we brave the wilderness. We have to walk through the desert, trusting God to lead us to those promises that have not been fulfilled.”- Sharon Hersh
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“We need to realize that God does not love us for what we have done, but God loves us because God IS love. Nothing that we do can change that. ” – Sharon Hersh
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Partner With Us If you would like to become a monthly ministry partner please visit our ministry partner page. Your donation allows us as a ministry to reach more people with the message of hope and reconciliation.

Learn more and find the resources Melody has created to help women through betrayal, click here or text Lifebeyondbetrayal to 44222 to receive more information easily via text.

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Show Notes Author Gordon Dalbey joins Tray on this week’s episode to discuss his seminal book for men, Healing the Masculine Soul. Gordon shares his thoughts about why so many men struggle with their masculinity and how true manhood is discovered and the power to walk it out in our lives. He explains that the source of men’s struggles is multifaceted…from our current throwaway culture surrounding divorce, the rapid spread and abuse of pornography, to the sense of shame that often gets masked by excessive self righteousness and pride.

Our listeners can learn more about Gordon and his work, purchase his book, Healing the Masculine Soul, and contact him directly by visiting his site at abbafather.com.

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“Can we dare to tell men, “If you want to know Jesus, be healed of your brokenness, and do His work in this world, join us?” Or are we afraid that the desire to do His work is not strong enough in men?”- Gordon Dalbey
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“Masculinity grows not out of conquering the woman, but only out of conquering the man—and not another man, but oneself.” – Gordon Dalbey
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Learn more and find the resources Melody has created to help women through betrayal, click here or text Lifebeyondbetrayal to 44222 to receive more information easily via text.

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Show Notes This week Tray sits down with author and coach GS Youngblood. GS Youngblood is the author of the book The Masculine in Relationship and a coach who teaches men how to learn to live, love, and lead in their partnerships. He walks our listeners through his 3-part blueprint to develop a masculine core in their relationships and learn that the model of masculine power doesn’t have to encroach on their wives and their feminine power.

Our listeners can learn more about GS by visiting his website https://www.gsyoungblood.com/ and purchase The Masculine in Relationship here: https://amzn.to/2GYH6Zu

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“Men are often lost, not knowing what it means to live from their masculine core in a world that seems hostile to the notion. This blueprint is a clear set of principles that help you develop true masculine leadership.”- G.S. Youngblood
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“This is what you need to know: if you are waiting for your wife to change, she will only change when YOU change. When you restore your masculine core, you begin to lead the change in the relationship.” – G.S. Youngblood
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Partner With Us If you would like to become a monthly ministry partner please visit our ministry partner page. Your donation allows us as a ministry to reach more people with the message of hope and reconciliation.

Learn more and find the resources Melody has created to help women through betrayal, click here or text Lifebeyondbetrayal to 44222 to receive more information easily via text.

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Click the Player Above to Listen.   Show Notes In this episode, Tray and Melody discuss the specific ways God is using the epidemic of pornography and sex addiction to lead men and women to a deeper understanding of grace and the gospel…not just stateside…but around the world. This episode features an interview with missionary [...]

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Click the Player Above to Listen.   Show Notes With the 4th of July coming up this weekend, Tray and Mel dive into the freedom offered by the gospel and the reasons it is sometimes hard to simply live in that freedom. Episode #63 takes a look at powerlessness as the entry-point of the gospel, [...]

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Click the Player Above to Listen.   Show Notes Healthy, authentic community is one of the key ingredients that helps to bring about lasting, long-term change in our lives. In this episode of the Undone Redone podcast, Tray and Mel talk in-depth about how to create this type of authentic culture through Route1520’s [...]

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Click the Player Above to Listen.   Show Notes Summer is here! That means the kids are out of school and looking forward to fun and exciting summer activities. It also means that as parents, we need to take a moment to think about our strategy around technology for the summer in order to ensure [...]

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Click the Player Above to Listen. Show Notes We are FINALLY back in the studio! As we remind everyone on each episode, “Life is Messy…Bring Your Boots”, and this episode is an update into the messiness that we have experienced over the past few months that has hindered us from consistently getting into the studio [...]

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Click the Player Above to Listen. Show Notes Stephen Bunn and Rosson Anderson of College Golf Fellowship join Traylor in the studio to share their “Undone Redone” stories and how God is using them on the PGA Tour and in the lives of college golfers. Whether you are a golfer or not, Stephen [...]

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Click the Player Above to Listen. Show Notes According to Wikipedia, “Shit Happens” is “a common slang phrase, used as a simple existential observation that life is full of unpredictable events. The phrase is an acknowledgment that bad things happen to people for no particular reason.” In this week’s episode, Melody and Tray [...]

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Click the Player Above to Listen. Show Notes Undone Redone welcomes Shelley Hendrix and Rebecca Halton back to the show to provide valuable insight and much needed perspective on an upcoming Hollywood movie called The Other Woman. Rebecca has been the other woman and Shelley was betrayed by the other woman and together [...]

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Click the Player Above to Listen. Show Notes The 50th episode of the Undone Redone podcast features singer/songwriter and worship leader David Hampton. In this interview, David candidly discusses his wife’s illness and death and the alcohol that he ran to in order to numb and ultimately escape his pain. In David’s redemptive [...]

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Click the Player Above to Listen. Show Notes This week’s Undone Redone podcast features a message entitled “Dropping the Fig Leaves” that we shared at Journey Church in Prattville, AL as a part of their “Roommates or Soulmates” sermon series. “Dropping the Fig Leaves” takes an honest look at the very first relationship [...]