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Ashley & Jason
Love. How do we find it? How do we maintain it? What does it mean to truly love someone anyways? If you have ever asked yourself any of these questions then this is the podcast for you! Loveology is a weekly podcast that explores love and life with laughter. Hosts, Ashley and Jason are a couple of LA transplants from the south that don’t pretend to be the experts on the topic of love, but merely two people who wish to share what they have learned through their own personal experiences.
They offer practical and humorous advice on navigating the most common issues that plague dating, relationships, and marriages.
Loveology also features raw and honest interviews from other everyday couples about problems that arose in their relationships and how they worked to resolve those issues.
Listen to new episodes every Monday!
We discuss the four different parenting styles and how these differences can drive a wedge in a relationship.
We are finishing up the conversation about how to divide the household duties! This is episode is based on the book Fair Play by Eve Rodsky.
Fighting over who’s washing the dishes? Are the clothes piling up? Tired of fighting with your partner about how much you are doing and how much they are not doing? We have something that can help with that! Let’s have a conversation that can change everything. This is episode is based on the book Fair Play by Eve Rodsky.
One women’s engagement ended and she wanted to share what she learned from her experience. She offered 20 questions you should ask before marriage on Twitter and it went viral. We tell what we think about this list of questions.
We are wrapping up our discussion on difficult conversations! We discuss problem-solving and recap everything we’ve learned throughout this entire series! This is episode is based on the book Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen.
You’re having a difficult conversation with someone. You’ve listened and now it is your turn to speak. In this episode, we discuss how to figure out exactly what you want to say and how to say it. This episode is based on Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen.
Hey, Loveologist we are wrapping up our vacation in Hawaii!!!! We will go over the process of traveling during a pandemic and some of the things we've done while here. We will also talk about some awesome places to eat like Duke's and Bourbon Street Restaurant and Bar!
Are you a good listener? Even if you think you are you don’t want to miss this episode!
So you have decided to bring up that thing that you have been dreading to bring up. You have decided to have a difficult conversation. How do you start it? In this week’s episode, we give you some pointers on how to set yourself up to have a productive conversation. This episode is based on the book, Difficult Conversations: How To Discuss What Matters Most by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, & Sheila Heen
Should you always raise an issue you are having with another person or is there ever a time that you shouldn’t? How do you know when to raise and when you should let go? This episode is based on the book Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, & Shelia Heen.
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Sometimes we are afraid to have difficult conversations because we are afraid of what it might say about ourselves! We discuss this in this episode.
Often times expressing how we feel is one of the hardest parts of a difficult conversation. We discuss the importance of acknowledging our feelings and give tips on how to express them. This episode covers the book Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen.
This week we are coming off of a busy holiday weekend. We decided to switch it up and do an episode that is a little more personal. Ashley asked questions like, "who's the best at..." or "who said I love you first" Be sure to check this one out, you will get to know us a little better!
What has the internet been talking about for the past week? Derrick Jaxn! The self-proclaimed love ‘guru’ who confessed to cheating on his wife. We share our take on the matter.
When a conflict arises most people have the tendency to blame the other person. In this week’s episode, we discuss why the blame game is a losing game and why we should lean more towards the “contribution system” to really resolve the issue.
Has someone ever said something to intentionally hurt you? How do you know for sure they wanted to hurt you? Or could you be assuming? This week we continue our conversation about how to have difficult conversations.
Part 2 in our series about how to have difficult conversations! We discuss the importance of not assuming and understanding how people can very different interpretations of the same event.
Difficult conversations are a part of life. But how can we get better at having them? This week, we are starting a new series where we discuss this topic! This series is based on the book, Difficult Conversations: How To Discuss What Matters Most.
This week we are talking about the importance of taking a break from it all. Ashley took a Mom-cation for the weekend! Listen to see how it went and how you can do the same for yourself or your mate.
We kinda skipped Valentine's Day this year. Listen to this week’s episode to find out why!
We all want to be open and honest with the people we care about but how much should you share when it comes to your romantic relationship? We discuss this and more in this week's episode.
Someone needs to move in with you and your partner for whatever reason, how do you navigate this situation as a couple? In this week’s episode, we give our best pieces of advice that we have learned through experience!
We are wrapping our Love and Respect series! This week we talk about a man’s need for friendship and sexuality!
We are back!!
We are picking back up with the Love and Respect book by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. This week we are talking about submission, what the book says about it, how we disagree with some parts of it, and how we operate within our marriage in regards to this topic.
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Hi Loveologists! For the first time since we began the Loveology Podcast almost 2 years ago, we were unable to release new episodes for the past month and some change. Thanks for your patience and understanding as we were dealing with an extremely difficult family matter which we will discuss in this episode.
I, Ashley, did a big chop! We talk about my journey to this decision, the importance of individuality in a relationship, and to what extent should your partner have a say in your appearance, if any.
Also, we are taking a break from recording the podcast! Find out why and when you all can expect to hear new episodes from us again!
This week we had to take a pause on the series Love and Respect for a family emergency. This week Jason speaks on the 7 Ways to Support Your Spouse During Difficult Times. This article comes from Beliefnet.com
“When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband”.
Do you agree with this statement? Whether you do or you don’t, one thing is for sure, you don't want to miss this week’s conversation about the book Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.
Watch the video on YouTube.com @LoveologyPodcast
“When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband”.
Do you agree with this statement? Whether you do or you don’t, one thing is for sure, you don't want to miss this week’s conversation about the book Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.
Watch the video on YouTube.com @LoveologyPodcast
“When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband”.
Do you agree with this statement? Whether you do or you don’t, one thing is for sure, you don't want to miss this week’s conversation about the book Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.
Watch the video on YouTube.com @LoveologyPodcast
“When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband”.
Do you agree with this statement? Whether you do or you don’t, one thing is for sure, you don't want to miss this week’s conversation about the book Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.
This week we talk about the energizing cycle.
Watch the video on YouTube.com @LoveologyPodcast
“When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband”.
Do you agree with this statement? Whether you do or you don’t, one thing is for sure, you don't want to miss this week’s conversation about the book Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.
This week we talk about how to get out of the crazy cycle.
Watch the video on YouTube.com @LoveologyPodcast
“When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband”.
Do you agree with this statement? Whether you do or you don’t, one thing is for sure, you don't want to miss this week’s conversation about the book Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.
Watch the video on YouTube.com @LoveologyPodcast
This episode is categorized as a Singles’ Special but it can definitely be applied to people who are currently in a relationship. You’ve heard the phrase take me as I am or love my flaws and all. But is there a thin line between asking someone to love you for who you are and refusing to grow in areas that truly need work?
This episode is inspired by Stephan Labossiere aka Stephan Speaks, a relationship expert that you need to know! Check out his Youtube video that this episode was based on in the link below.
https://youtu.be/rpnH32RudlU
This week we talk about our role reversal! Jason is at home with the kids full time and Ashley went back to work outside the home full time! It’s been an adjustment and we are talking all about it! We will also discuss our decision to do traditional homeschooling with our kindergartener!
This week we are discussing the need for family commitment and admiration in a relationship! This episode is based on the book His Needs, Her Needs written by Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D.
This week we are discussing the need for financial security and domestic support in a relationship! This episode is based on the book His Needs, Her Needs written by Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D.
This week we are discussing the need for honesty and openness and physical attraction in a relationship! This episode is based on the book His Needs, Her Needs written by Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D.
In part 3 of our series about the 10 most important emotional needs and the importance of meeting your partner’s emotional needs, we discuss the need for intimate conversations and recreational companionship. This episode and series is based on the book His Needs, Her Needs written by Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D.
In part 2 of our series about the 10 most important emotional needs and the importance of meeting your partner’s emotional needs, we take our time and talk in-depth about the need for sexual fulfillment.
This episode is based on the book His Needs, Her Needs written by Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D.
So you fell madly in love with the person of your dreams! You got married and have been together for a while, but you aren’t happy and what’s worse you feel like you could be falling out of love with your partner! How do you fix this and how can you STAY in love? According to one therapist, discovering and learning to meet each other’s most important emotional needs is the key to staying in love. Listen now to learn more!
This episode is based on the book His Needs, Her Needs written by Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D.
We’re continuing the conversation about having friends of the opposite sex! What boundaries or rules can you put in place to safeguard your romantic relationship? Can you grab lunch with your friend? We will let you know what we think, how we handle these things in our relationship, and much more!
We discuss whether it’s wise, right, or wrong to have friends of the opposite sex. We also discuss how to navigate those friendships while respecting and upholding your relationship with your romantic partner. We offer tips on starting the conversation, what boundaries to put in place, and more!
Bonus episode featuring Cedric The Entertainer. He gives Loveology Podcast a shout out in conjunction with Cameo.com
Cedric the Entertainer, is an American actor, stand-up comedian, and game show host. He hosted BET's ComicView during the 1993–94 season and Def Comedy Jam in 1995. He is best known for co-starring with Steve Harvey on The WB sitcom The Steve Harvey Show, as one of The Original Kings of Comedy, and for starring as Eddie Walker in Barbershop.
In this week’s episode, we talk to our guest couple about how they have supported each other and grown together throughout their 10 year marriage. We also discuss how the support of others was pivotal in helping them become the healthy couple they are today.
We discuss 5 things that are needed to help create a happy marriage according to the experts.
Inspired by the book 30 Lessons For Loving by Karl Pillemer P.h.D
We’ve been dealing with Covid-19 for months now which means some of you might be dealing with extreme stress or burnout. If left unchecked this could negatively impact your relationship. We discuss some tiny actionable steps that research suggests could help you cope with burnout as a couple when consistently done over time.
The story of black farmers is yet another example of systemic racism and oppression in America. We are announcing the release of Ashley’s documentary covering this issue.
Wednesday July 1st 2020 on Youtube at 8:15pm Central Time.Here is the link: https://youtu.be/aTv6-R_RSsc
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In this week’s episode, we discuss the idea of dating multiple people at one time when in the early stages of getting to know someone. Is it ok to do? What would be some reasons to do this? We answer these questions and more. This episode was inspired by the book Date, Girl! 143 Reasons Why I Believe Women Should Date Multiple Men (with no intimacy) by Stacii Jae Johnson.
Marcus and Kelsey Boles tell us about their journey to becoming the parents of triplets and what life is like now with a family of six!
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Do you ever feel misunderstood by your partner? Do you truly understand how your partner feels about a particular situation? Do things turn south every time you try to have a hard conversation with your partner? Ashley and Jason discuss a communication method that could help! This episode is inspired by the book Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
Our Grief and Our Right To Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness
We are grieving right now. Ashley & Jason discuss the current events surrounding Black Americans. They share some of their personal experiences regarding race in this country and much more.
In this bonus episode, Jason has an impromptu interview with multi-Grammy winning artist and actor Ludacris about relationships and his new album!
We are continuing the conversation on money! This time Ashley and Jason discuss their money types, give tips for overcoming financial challenges and tips on coping with job loss and debt. This episode is inspired by the book “The Heart of Money” by Deborah L. Price
The coronavirus pandemic has changed millions of people's financial situations. With that comes the need to have more conversations about money. Why is talking about money so hard? How do we have this difficult conversation, especially during a time when a lot of us might be experiencing high levels of stress, fear and anxiety? Ashley and Jason dive into how to have the money talk. This episode is inspired by the book “The Heart of Money” by Deborah L. Price
Covid-19 putting a damper on your dating life? People may be turning to online dating now more than ever. In this week’s episode, Ashley and Jason speak with relationship coach and online dating expert Amie Leadingham. They discuss everything from the importance of knowing what your non-negotiables are, to tips on crafting an awesome profile to attract great potential partners and more!
Amie is a Master Certified Relationship Coach and an Online Dating Expert. Her greatest accomplishments come from seeing her clients find lasting love, get married, and create their own family. Her dedication has led Amie to be named one of LA’s “Best Dating Coaches” by DatingAdvice and featured in a variety of media outlets including the CBS Network, Fox 5 News, Zoosk, People Entertainment Weekly Channel, HelloGiggles, Martha Stewart Weddings. Grab her free eBook, 5 Dating Traps Keeping You Single at www.AmieTheDatingCoach.com
Everyone thinks forgiveness is a lovely idea until he has something to forgive.” ― C.S. Lewis
Can you relate to this quote? Why does forgiveness seem so hard?
Can you forgive someone and not let them back into your life? Ashley and Jason discuss these things and the importance of forgiveness in a relationship.
Loveology Podcast is having it's 1 year anniversary! Ashley and Jason are revisiting some of their favorite episodes, biggest lessons learned and what's to come!
Have you ever apologized to your partner only for them to say that you really didn’t apologize? Are they deaf or was the message lost somehow? Have you ever fought with your partner about what constitutes a real apology? This episode is for you! Ashley and Jason discuss how to say you’re sorry in a way that your partner will receive.
This episode is inspired by the book When Sorry Isn’t Enough written by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas.
Make a list. Check it twice. Try to find out if he or she is the one or not. Have you heard that making a list is a good exercise to help find a partner? Is it really a good idea to list all the qualities you want in a partner? Ashley and Jason discuss their personal experience with “the one” list and share tips on how to make your own.
Good communication is at the core of every healthy relationship. Ashley and Jason revisit the book 30 Lessons for Loving by Karl Pillemer, Ph.D. to see what the experts have to say about learning how to communicate with your partner.
Could a little messiness, clutter and disorganization have a major negative impact on our relationships? Ashley and Jason share how a disorderly home affected their relationship and their journey to a more organized and smooth life.
Ashley and Jason tackle the issues surrounding the Coronavirus and tips on how to keep your relationship strong throughout it all.
On this episode Ashley and Jason reviews Netflix hit show Love is Blind. They take a deep dive on the summary of the show, the highs and lows of each couple of the show.
Blended families can be full of love but can also bring with them a number of unique complexities that can threaten their success. In this week’s episode Ashley and Jason talk with counselor Maya’Nicole about some of the challenges that couples may face and some strategies to help create a successfully blended family.
Maya’nicole is the Founder of LA Marriage & Family Coaching, and a Master Empowerment & Relationship Coach who posses a Masters in Clinical Marriage and Family Therapy. Coach Maya’nicole has worked in the field of coaching and empowerment for 10 years, including experience in the field of Marriage and Family Therapy, Couples Counseling, Child Therapy, and Individual Counseling. To find out more about Maya’Nicole and her services visit www.LAMFCC.com
Ashley and Jason continue the conversation about how to choose the right partner. On this week's episode, they discuss warning signs and 5 things you can do to help you choose a partner. This episode is inspired by the Book 30 Lessons for Loving by Karl Pillemer, Ph. D.
How do we choose someone to spend the rest of our life with? How can we be sure that we are making the right decision? Especially in a day and age when we have so many options, literally in the palm of our hands. This episode is inspired by the Book 30 Lessons for Loving by Karl Pillemer, Ph.D.
Does getting married young add to the struggles in a relationship? How do we deal with our spouses changing? Is it better to wait until you're older to get married? In the episode Ashley & Jason discuss what its like to grow together as a couple.
I’m sure if you are married or have lived together with your partner for any extent of time, an argument over domestic responsibilities has come up. You never wash the dishes! Do I have to do everything around here?! I don’t have time for that! Sound familiar? We all know the problem but who has the solution? This episode was inspired by the book Fair Play written by Eve Rodsky, in which she provides a system that will hopefully put a stop to the arguments, dysfunction, and resentment. You don’t want to miss this discussion about how to rebalance the home and divide the household tasks fairly.
I’m sure if you are married or have lived together with your partner for any extent of time, an argument over domestic responsibilities has come up. You never wash the dishes! Do I have to do everything around here?! I don’t have time for that! Sound familiar? We all know the problem but who has the solution? This episode was inspired by the book Fair Play written by Eve Rodsky, in which she provides a system that will hopefully put a stop to the arguments, dysfunction, and resentment. You don’t want to miss this discussion about how to rebalance the home and divide the household tasks fairly.
In the fifth and final installment of the Infidelity series, Ashley and Jason discuss whether or not monogamy is natural, open relationships, and what happens when people remain together after an affair. This series was inspired by the book The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
Is lying or withholding the truth ever justified? What causes people to cheat? Is infidelity the worst thing that can happen in a marriage? This is the fourth installment of Ashley and Jason talking all things infidelity! Inspired by the book The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel, this series on infidelity will be a conversation you won't forget.
Once a cheater always a cheater? What causes people to cheat? This is the second installment of Ashley and Jason talking all things infidelity! Inspired by the book The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel, this series on infidelity will be a conversation you won't forget.
Once a cheater always a cheater? What causes people to cheat? This is the second installment of Ashley and Jason talking all things infidelity! Inspired by the book The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel, this series on infidelity will be a conversation you won't forget.
Once a cheater always a cheater? What causes people to cheat? Ashley and Jason are talking all things infidelity! Inspired by the book The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel, this series on infidelity will be a conversation you won't forget. In the first episode we discuss how to define infidelity.
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby in the baby carriage! Then what? What is life like after the babies come? On this episode Ashley & Jason discuss what life is like once the babies get here!
Are you in a long distance relationship or thinking about getting into one? We know from personal experience that it can work but not without effort! This week we discuss the pros and cons of being in a long distance relationship as well as tips to creating a successful one.
We are talking about the types of questions you should be asking a person when you are dating to get a true understanding of who they are and whether the two of you are compatible. Timing is everything, so we also discuss when is the best time to ask certain questions.
Our special guest couple Lee and Wendy join us to share some wisdom they have gained over their past 29 years of marriage together.
First we talk about how they met, why they chose each other and things they wish they would have known before tying the knot. Then on to doing life together, balancing work, children and love. They give priceless advice that you don’t want to miss!!
Guess what loveologists! Its our anniversary! In this episode, we take a trip down memory lane to our wedding day! We discuss what the last 7 years of our marriage has been like and why we get remarried every single year! We also dive into some of the key elements we feel has made our marriage successful.
Ashley & Jason talked to one couple about what its like to be in an interracial relationship.
Women, do you have things that you want to tell men? Do you wish you have a list of things for them to know that we think about? Well here is some things that men need to know.
Women, do you have things that you want to tell men? Do you wish you have a list of things for them to know that we think about? Well here is some things that men need to know.
Men, do you have things that you want to tell women? Do you wish you have a list of things for them to know that we think about? Well here is some things that women need to know part 2.
Men, do you have things that you want to tell women? Do you wish you have a list of things for them to know that we think about? Well here is some things that women need to know.
Being with a person for a long period of time could be very challenging. Today Ashley & Jason discuss the ten common long term relationship mistakes.
For better or for worse social media is a monumental presence in most of our everyday lives. So how might it be affecting our relationships? Coming up we discuss social media and relationships.
Having a baby is a beautiful and exciting time, but if not handled with care, it can also be a source of stress within your relationship. Coming up Ashley & Jason discuss what to expect and ways to keep your relationship strong.
Football is almost here! Are you ready for the highs and lows of this upcoming NFL season? Ashley and Jason discuss how to survive this NFL season.