Mette Glargaard talks about narcissism: Recent Episodes
Mette Glargaard
Questions in episode 7: - You say there was a big change in your life in the past 6 years, what happened? - You said that you had a turning point when you felt that you were finally seen, not just in the shadow of your father but you were finally seen by yourself, would you say that healing begins with validation?
Questions in episode 6: - When beginning today what are some red flag signs we should watch for? - What are the most important things we can do for ourselves as children of narcissistic parents to be healthy in relationships? - For those of us who find ourselves more deeply involved in an intimate relationship with some energy vampire already, what’s the best action to take and what’s the best action to be taken? - What should we do if we find ourselves been hovered by boyfriends or ex-girlfriends. - What do narcissist look for when they are searching for mate? - What is the most common mistake made when wanting to break free from or detox from a narcissist be a parent spouse or other?
Questions in episode 5: - You talk a lot about visibility and vulnerability, can you tell us how these two are connected? - Could you possibly explain to us or give us some kind of overall definition of what a healthy friendship is? - Can we talk about our own weirdness and how important it is to accept our own weirdness even if we maybe don’t necessary like all of it?
In this episode, Mette Glargaard talks to Ron White. They met each other in Panajachel, Guatemala in 1990 and spent 5 days together as part of a group of travellers. In 2017 they met again and found out that they had a lot in common and had lived a life similar to each other in many ways - and they had the same take on travelling. So they decided to do this podcast together, to inspire others to do more of what makes them happy.
Questions in episode 4: - In an earlier episode you talk about not knowing the social rules, how did you work on that issue? - You said that anyone can be dazzled by the narcissist, but could you give us a piece of advice on how to spot the narcissist early on so they could be avoided? - So, if a person has fallen for a narcissist, what can friend and family do to help the person get away? - Could you give us some advice on how to deal with narcissists, when we cannot not be around them such as a work place or you have a child with a narcissistic parent you have to interreact with them at some level, what advice do you have to deal with that kind of situation?
Questions in episode 3: - You broke contact with you father in 2005, why was that? - Why do you spouses keep hoping for changes when they know there will be none, when it comes to relationships with the Narcissist? - Can you talk about why Narcissism is so dangerous? - You mentioned in an earlier episode when your father died, a journalist called you and had some inside information, would you be interested in sharing with us the real circumstances about your father’s death? - Was you mom there for you through all of this or what kind of role did she play while you were going through such dramatic events?
Questions in episode 2: - People often talk about narcissist is being egotistical, can you tell us what is the difference between egotistic and egoistic? - What can you actually do for a child when they have narcissist parent? - Why do people feel shameful about being been in a relationship with a narcissist? - Why are narcissist called the energy vampires? - It seems that manipulation, triangulation and gas lighting are some trades that are often associated with Narcissism, can you talk about that?
Questions in episode 1: - How would you describe your father’s Narcissistic personality disorder? - Looking back, what was the worst thing you encountered because of your father’s Narcissistic personality disorder? - Where was your mother in all of this? - Having one parent who is a Narcissist and another parent who is an Alcoholic, it must be extremely difficult for a child in such a family to ever feel safe and secure, so what would you say has been the worst side effect from growing up in a toxic environment like this? - Growing up were you afraid that you will become your father eventually? - Did you ever confront him about his behaviors and his toxicity?