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Jevonnah "Lady J" Ellison
Welcome The Thrive! Podcast!
If you want to thrive in your life AND business while keeping God 1st, you’re in the right place.
This is the show for leaders who want leave a legacy of love, encouragement and generosity.
You want to be remembered for the way you positively impacted the lives of others and made a lasting difference.
You want God to order your steps.
Sometimes you just need a nudge in the right direction to take those steps.
The Thrive! Podcast will help you take the right steps, overcome obstacles and equip you for the kind of success that matters to YOU.
Your host, Jevonnah “Lady J “ Ellison, is an Award Winning Business Coach, Speaker, Author and First Lady. As founder of the Thrive Summit and Thrive Mastermind, she is committed to helping you truly thrive & flourish in your life and business.
Come join the conversation and be inspired to prioritize what matters most, maximize your potential and experience the joy of living a life and owning a business that enables you to Thrive!
Discover more at jevonnah.com
For today's Thrive Show podcast, I am HONORED to interview Lady VJ of Notiq as she shares her why behind starting a wildly successful brand and her journey of keeping God 1st in it all.
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FROM LADY VJ:
More women face inequality at work, not for lack of talent but because we often struggle with unequal life demands and Personal Organization. I founded NOTIQ to bridge this inequity by offering attainable, fashion-forward, work-life goods that are intimately relevant to women and help women grow in time, money, and life management. I do this with sustainable, animal-free leather goods that equip women to stand out and engage equitably, while solving the problem of environmental pollution. I imagine a world where women are empowered to become more and, in return, change the world around them. I aim for my designs to ignite the dreams of ambitious women and inspire them to live elegant, organized, and meaningful lives.
In today's episode, Dr. Jevonnah addresses a teen entrepreneur question. "What is the biggest misconception people have about being an entrepreneur?
In today's episode, Dr. Jevonnah addresses a teen entrepreneur question. "How do you handle regret?"
In today's episode, Dr. Jevonnah addresses a teen entrepreneur question. "How do you let go of the fear of growing, or even growing up?"
Episode 183
In this short episode, Dr. Jevonnah Ellison expresses her gratitude for your listening during this very special "birthday" podcast!
If you're dealing with imposter syndrome in any way, this episode will help you take steps to overcome it and actually learn to grow with it.
To take your life and business to the next level, submit an application for The Thrive Mastermind with Dr. Jevonnah "Lady J" Ellison: https://jevonnah.com/mastermind-application/
Episode 181
In this episode, we'll uncover some practical ways you can keep a close relationship with God even though your schedule is crazy busy.
To take your life and business to the next level, submit an application for The Thrive Mastermind with Dr. Jevonnah "Lady J" Ellison: https://jevonnah.com/mastermind-application/
Episode 180
July is dedicated to Teen Questions. In today's episode, we uncover tips to help start a business if you're at the starting line.
#1. Pray about your idea. Ask God for direction. Define your business mission and goals.
#2. Figure out what you're going to sell.
#3. Start creating content around your area of expertise.
#4. Build your email list and develop a quality relationship with them.
#5. Put out an offer.
#6. Optimize your offers and simplify your products.
#7. Hire someone who is good at what you're not good at. (like a Virtual Assistant - VA)
#8. Optimize and maximize your marketing funnel
To take your life and business to the next level, submit an application for The Thrive Mastermind with Dr. Jevonnah "Lady J" Ellison: https://jevonnah.com/mastermind-application/
Episode 179
July is dedicated to Teen Questions. In today's episode, we uncover tips to help you thrive, not just survive, college. We'll talk about why college is not always what it's cracked up to be.
To take your life and business to the next level, submit an application for The Thrive Mastermind with Dr. Jevonnah "Lady J" Ellison: https://jevonnah.com/mastermind-application/
Episode 178
Letters from Dad
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"Lean into what makes you different. Do more of that."
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"Be ok with having enough."
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"Make a plan for the path you wish to take. With focused intensity, consistent effort and God on your side, you'll get there!"
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"Don't offer your value up for anyone else to celebrate, validate, recognize or affirm. Know that your strength comes from God's opinion of you, not other people."
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"The Thrive Summit happens this weekend! Don't miss it! Register NOW at www.jevonnah.com/summit "
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"Who you surround yourself with matters. Choose wisely."
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"It should be about who you want to be, not what you want to have."
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"How you choose to view a setback is up to you. You can view it as a setback or a setup for something greater"
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"Although you may not feel fit for the calling, God's crushing has cultivated greatness inside of you. You've been buried to blossom."
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"Coaching is a long game. The coaches who see the best results are the ones who are in it for the long haul. Focused intensity over time multiplied by God equals unstoppable momentum. (Dave Ramsey)"
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"A revolution has many lanes - be kind to yourself and to others who are traveling in the same direction. Just keep your foot on the gas... Have courageous kindness and keep moving forward..."
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"In a world full of hate and violence, leaders show courageous kindness."
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"Know this: Even if that 'thing' (whatever your thing is) doesn't happen for you the way you thought it would, or hoped it would or should, your life can STILL be absolutely beautiful. It's up to you. You get to choose your mindset."
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"Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present." -Jim Rohn
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"We may teach people what we know, but we reproduce who we are."
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"Always keep a song in your heart and a prayer on your lips."
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"You have something within you to share with others. This is the time for you to do the brave thing.."
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"The best things in life are not things."
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"I want you to feel inspired to take action. This is your time to rise up and lead."
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"If I were you, I wouldn't wait too long."
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"This very well could be your finest hour. It's all about how YOU choose to respond."
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"People desire to feel seen, heard and understood."
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"We can thrive in the midst of uncertainty. We will get through this together. We can still thrive, little by little, day by day. We are not alone, and this season will not last forever."
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"Take time to think about what you're thinking about. When you think, you can thank."
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"Little by little, you'll get there. Don't overwhelm yourself. Enjoy the process. Take baby steps."
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"Make sure that you take time to BE in the process of all your doing. It's ok to slow down sometimes."
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"God sees every tear you cry. You are so very loved, please don't ever forget that."
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"It's a New Year. And you want not just 'ideas', you want the RIGHT, FRESH ideas that you can actually implement."
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"You'll get through this"
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"The more good you look for, the more good you'll find."
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"Your Level of Success is Directly Connected to the Strength of Your Relationships."
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"With intentional action, you can start enjoying your mornings again."
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"Believe. Everything changes when you truly believe.”
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The other day I had a moment. I had paper everywhere, client calls to manage, new client applications to review, events to plan and attend, and the list goes on. Do you ever have days like that? Days that just feel like you can’t get anything done? Then you’re probably overloaded.
In this episode, I want to share with you strategies you can use to overcome those moments of overwhelm and maintain your productivity. Learn the five strategies and points I use and reevaluate when things start to feel too hard. Owning your own business is hard, don’t get me wrong, but there are times when it is too hard and that’s when you need to take a moment.
- First, recognize that you cannot do it ALL. It’s not possible, there is only one you.
- Revisit your “why,” and reconnect with the reason you started your business in the first place.
- Take baby steps!
- Set a schedule.
- Ask for help.
- Bonus: Incorporate naps into your day.
Along with tips for overcoming your overwhelm, I also want to give you advice on why saying “no” can help you avoid overwhelm in the first place. Learn gracious ways you can say no and protect your “yes.” Let me know what you think. Will you be able to use these tips?
In This Episode:
[00:47] Welcome back to the show and get ready to talk about overcoming overload.
[02:17] Recently I was feeling extremely overwhelmed and realized this is an issue we all face.
[04:00] You need to recognize that you CAN’T do it all!
[05:05] Why you should revisit your “why.”
[05:49] Know that you will have to take baby steps to reach success.
[06:49] Set a schedule so that your mind doesn’t fade out due to overload.
[08:20] Ask. For. Help!
[10:15] Incorporate naps into your day to help restore brain cells.
[11:12] How to graciously say no when you feel the pressure to say yes.
[12:17] Excerpt from Boundaries.
[14:24] 5-personal ways you can graciously say no to someone.
[15:14] Why adding, “at this time” and “right now,” is not necessary.
[17:03] 5-professional ways you can graciously say no.
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Love... and entrepreneurship... is a battlefield… is your battle board ready? Today I want to talk to you about preparing your strategy for the upcoming months. Are you ready to dive in?
This episode isn’t long, but it’s impactful. I want you to start thinking about 2020! What is it going to bring? What do you need to prepare? How are you getting ready? Have you created your battle board?
Send me a picture of your battle board and let’s get ready for the new year together!
In This Episode:
[00:54] Welcome back to the show!
[01:20] Thank you all who have reached out about this years’ Thrive Summit!
[02:16] Learn where the Battle Board came from, what it is, and why placement is important.
[03:41] Separate that board into 12 GIGANTIC pieces and write the month.
[04:10] List the top THREE priorities for that month.
[05:23] Do it NOW!
[06:47] Be intentional about your time!
[07:22] Take action, get in it, post pictures!
[07:58] We are going to win the year!
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This is a very short episode, but I have something supremely important to share with you today. First, I want to lift you up. We live in a wonderful world, full of opportunity and promise. Everyone has the ability to have their own platform, and it seems like the world is full of others just like you.
But, and this is a big but, if you remember to put your own special sauce on everything that you do, then you’ll never have to worry about being just like someone else! Listen as I share stories about my mom’s cooking and some words of wisdom from a very good friend.
In this episode, I want you to take a moment and just stop. Take time to look around and see the world around you. It’s full of people who need us to take a second look and be there for them. I recently saved a man’s life because I took the time to realize that something was wrong. I urge you to take a moment and stop, pause, and get clarity on your path and your goals.
Be the boost that someone else needs to find the top of the monkey bars!
In This Episode:
[00:53] Welcome back to the show and get ready to stop!
[03:35] Be yourself in whatever it is that you are doing.
[04:35] Listen as Jevonnah shares a true story that inspired her to stop.
[07:20] Sometimes all we need to do is stop, pause, and get clarity.
[08:12] Take a moment and think of someone else each and every day.
[08:51] What good is success if we don’t share it?
[09:21] Find someone you can stop and go back for.
[10:37] Take the time to give someone else a boost.
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We’ve reached that point in the year where it’s time to take a minute and regroup. Have you done your mid-year check-in? Have you taken a moment to take out your list of goals from the beginning of the year and evaluate if you’re on track to reach them? On this episode, I want to give you some tips on how to check-in with yourself and your goals!
Here are some quick reminders for you while you evaluate your goals and next steps for the second half of the year.
- Recommit to honoring your word to yourself.
- What you feed your mind determines your appetite.
- Go back and reflect on the lessons that you learned and the mistakes that you made.
- Focus on making your business better, not just bigger.
- What does the best version of you look like?
Bonus focus, use the gifts you’ve been given to their maximum utilization to find success. Thank you so much for listening and I look forward to hearing about your mid-year check-ins.
In This Episode:
[01:03] Today we are chatting about a mid-year check-in!
[02:19] Have you been honoring the goals you’ve set for yourself?
[04:05] Learn why what your mind consumes dictates what it wants going forward.
[07:17] Learn why writing things done is more impactful for memory.
[07:42] How to reflect on the first half of the year.
[08:27] Learn the right way to evaluate your wins and how to simplify your schedule.
[09:46] You can’t just give.
[10:14] Hear the fourth step in completing your mid-year check-in.
[11:28] Visualize and write out the best you!
[14:03] Time is the most valuable resource you have.
[14:51] Jevonnah defines success!
[16:18] Hear Jevonnah’s final thoughts!
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Today I walk you through 5-strategies to help you through tough transitions. We’ve all been there, in fact, I was recently there as I transitioned through moving to a different state and becoming a preacher’s wife. I’m here to tell you you’re not alone and I want to provide you strategies to move through your changes to blossom on the other side.
Here are some quick tips to help you process the changes you’re going through and keep on moving through and in life.
- Take responsibility for your choices.
- Take charge of your thoughts and leave out the negativity.
- Get some new friends and change the company you keep.
- Instead of regretting what you lost, celebrate what you’ve stepped into.
- Blossom!
Which one of these strategies have helped you the most? I’d love for you to share. Thank you so much for listening and I look forward to reading your stories!
In This Episode:
[01:02] Welcome back to the show and learn how to move through tough transitions.
[01:43] Check out Genesis 12:1 for a Biblical reference to transition.
[02:33] Learn the first quick tip and how Exodus 12:1 provides guidance for forgiving quickly.
[03:23] Negative thinking gets you nowhere and Phillippians 4:8 personifies this.
[04:15] Surround yourself with positive thinkers.
[04:51] Jevonnah references Romans and Corinthians for strategy number four.
[05:39] Invest in yourself and elevate your thinking.
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Today’s episode is a little bit different. I lost a very dear friend of mine recently. She was so young, only 42 years old. One day she was perfectly fine, no health problems to speak of, and the next she’d experienced a heart attack and passed away 24-hours later. I’m sharing this with you today because it has been placed on my heart to speak about time, and how it is so precious, fragile, and fleeting.
So many of us entrepreneurs pride ourselves on being busy, being productive, hitting certain number goals. People will remember your impact on their lives and the lives of those around you. How are you impacting your corner of the world?
I’ll leave you with this if you were given 6-healthy months to live, what would you be doing differently today? What would you start doing, stop doing, and keep doing? Let me know! Send me a message, leave a review, let me know how you would change your life if you knew you wouldn’t be around tomorrow.
Then remember… everyone’s time here is short! You’re not guaranteed tomorrow. Stay tuned to the end of the episode and hear my prayer for all of those experiencing a period of bereavement.
In This Episode:
[01:02] Welcome back to the show!
[01:42] Life and time are very fragile, what are you doing with your days?
[02:45] Jevonnah shares a story from a book she’s been reading.
[03:34] What would you be doing with your time if you only had 6-months to live?
[05:02] Before you tell your life anything, let your life inform you.
[05:29] Are you spending your time the way you should? Anyone, that you need to call?
[06:13] Stop being so busy, just to be busy.
[07:04] Have the courage to live your life authentic to who you are!
[08:02] Jevonnah prays for those experiencing a period of bereavement.
[10:07] What are you going to start doing? What are you going to stop doing? What are you going to keep doing?
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Let Your Life Speak by Parker Palmer
Today I walk you through 4-ways to reduce stress. Sound like a topic you need? If you’re a small business owner, stay at home parent, or simply have a stressful job, this episode is for you! Listen in for some quick tips on relaxing your mind and body.
What are those 4 tips for reducing stress? First, get moving! Exercise has many fantastic benefits and stress reduction is one of the best. Get social! Talking with others and connecting is extremely beneficial for the body and mind. Get laughing! Science has proven that laughing can reduce pain and helps release hormones that reduce stress. Get away! Taking a vacation and getting away from your normal environment helps to rejuvenate the soul.
Per Dr. Phil McGraw, there are three external factors that we can trace that show us how we became the person we are today. Listen in and then contemplate what these factors are for you. Write them down and get very specific.
- 10 defining moments.
- 7 critical choices.
- 5 pivotal people.
Work these stress-reducing tips into your routine! How do you reduce stress in your life? While you’re focusing on reducing stress, journal on the things that have brought you to where you are today. Let me know what your moments are!
In This Episode:
[00:46] - Welcome back to the show! Ready to learn how to reduce stress?
[02:07] - Jevonnah shares the inspiration for this topic and why it is so important.
[02:37] - Jevonnah paints a very stressful picture of what could be a typical day for a business owner.
[03:15] - 25% of small business owners report being stressed for most of the day.
[03:34] - Get moving! Activity is extremely important to stress reduction.
[05:05] - Talk, socialize, put yourself around others! Be intentional about it.
[06:05] - Laugh. Big, huge, belly laughs.
[07:01] - Take a vacation. Getting away rejuvenates your soul.
[08:05] - Hear why learning to relax helps you manage the problems in your life.
[08:42] - Learn the three types of external factors that have helped you become who you are.
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How do you spend your mornings? Today’s show is all about learning how to keep a song in your heart and how to protect your mornings for yourself. Listen in as I share stories from my childhood and from my mentors about how song has helped us through tough times and bad news. Then learn how protecting your mornings leads to greater efficiency and productivity in your day.
I have four questions for you today. I want you to write them down and really dig into the answers that you think of. Then share them with me in a review for this episode!
- If you and I were meeting three years from today, what has to have happened during that three year period in order for you to feel happy about your progress?
- What are the biggest challenges you’re dealing with right now in regard to achieving that progress?
- What are the biggest opportunities that you would need to focus on and capture to achieve those things?
- What strengths will you need to reinforce and maximize and what skills and resources, that you don’t currently have, will you need to develop in order to capture those opportunities?
I’m looking forward to hearing your answers to these questions and seeing you at the Thrive Conference. Stay focused, stay faithful, and don’t forget to tune in next week, when I’ll talk all about reducing stress in four practical ways.
In This Episode:
[00:49] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the show! She shares a huge thanks to all of her listeners. If you haven’t already, go ahead and subscribe and leave a review!
[01:50] - Before we get into the content, here’s a shoutout to Angela who left a wonderful review on iTunes.
[02:30] - Today’s show is brought to you by, the Thrive Summit! We still have Elite Level tickets!
[03:46] - The content for today’s show came from a saying Jevonnah’s mom would tell her every day.
[05:05] - Think about a song that brings you joy and encourages you. Now make it a habit to think of that song every single day.
[05:33] - Jevonnah tells a story about how she reacted to receiving a piece of bad news when she was younger.
[06:10] - The first step to protecting your morning is keeping the first hour of your day for yourself. Listen in to learn how.
[08:33] - Jevonnah asks the first of four questions she has for you on this episode.
[09:57] - Would you get in your car, headed out on a road trip, without an idea of where you were headed?
[10:50] - Jevonnah uses the Free to Focus Journal and was inspired by a quote from Peter Drucker.
[11:48] - Listen in for question number two.
[12:10] - Question number three brings one and two full circle for a full goal planning cycle.
[12:48] - Question number four will help you figure out how to attain your goals.
[14:08] - Jevonnah provides a recap for what you should do to protect your mornings.
[15:38] - Do you put in the work? Or do you just dream really big?
[16:51] - Enjoy the journey, have fun, and make sure that you allow others to experience that joy as well!
Links and Resources:
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The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Dan Miller - 48 Days Eagles
Brendan Burchard - High Performance Habits
Free to Focus Journal by Michael Hyatt
The Entrepreneurial Podcast Episode 6 (Discussing the Story of the Two Chairs)
We are here today discussing critical keys which you need to know as a coach. Today I’ll give you 27 gems you need to know as a coach. From keeping yourself together and carrying yourself well to how you can serve others with excellence. The basics, such as ‘be prepared’ are just as essential as the more advanced components we talk about on this episode.
We speak about the foundational values and thought processes of what makes a good coach. How a great coach is one who the learner seeks and finds, as the teacher will appear to those who are ready for your practice. Instead of looking to ‘take’ from a client, listen to let your life speak to others. Coaching should be an ingrained part of who you are and in your nature to inspire other people. Remember the Momentum Theorem and complete, don’t compete, as it’s OK to grow slow.
Tune into the episode to listen to advice and knowledge Jevonnah gives today’s coaches. Learn the principles and standards every great coach can carry with them in their coaching toolbox. Find out
In This Episode:
[03:55] - Jevonnah starts us with #1, “If you want to focus as a coach, make sure to free yourself to be able to focus”.
[04:20] - Jevonnah uses The Full Focus Planner by Michael Hyatt
[04:40] - Jevonnah continues with #2, “We may plant the seed, but God brings the rain.”
[05:20] - Jevonnah gives us #3, “The best coaches are sought out, not seeking for.”
[06:20] - Jevonnah suggests for us to ask ourselves, “How can I serve someone with excellence today?” for gem #4.
[07:07] - Jevonnah says for us to “Let our life speak” for gem #5.
[07:36] - We hear Jevonnah tell us, for #7, “Change your message so you’re not speaking to everyone.”
[08:00] - Jevonnah speaks about #8, “Focused intensity over time.”
[08:13] - #10: “You guarantee your own success.”
[09:03] - Jevonnah tells us, in #11, “Do not neglect the people who have already shown interest.”
[10:18] - Jevonnah suggests to “Partner with a big fish.” for #14
[11:45] - How Jevonnah grows slow.
[13:27] - Jevonnah suggests to ask deep questions and lists four questions you can use to reflect and be aware of where you are going.
[14:14] - Jevonnah suggests the book Good Leaders Ask Great Questions by John Maxwell
[15:05] - Jevonnah tells us in #20, “Keep your job if you are depending on your clients for income.”
[16:15] - Jevonnah says in #21 to “Have your stuff together.”
[19:06] - Jevonnah suggests to “Come to the call with the attitude to serve” for gem #23.
[19:55] - “Invest in yourself and invest in your growth” for gem #27.
[20:04] - Jevonnah says there are seven questions to ask yourself when you make out your will.
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The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Mama Bear Legal Forms
Christy Wright's Business Boutique
We are here today looking at how discouragement affects your business and your personal life. We are going to talk about practical ways on how to deal with discouragement.
We speak about putting in the time and effort to see a project or an event through and not finding the results we were expecting. When we are deprived of courage or confidence, we are experiencing discouragement. You’re trying to get through the “crashing waves of life” and be successful. Today I’m going to tell you three reasons to keep you going!
Tune into the episode to listen to why you should persist and keep going, even through discouragement. Focused intensity over time, multiplied by God, gives you the momentum to keep going, also when we want to throw in the towel. Go to God in prayer, journal, meditate, or one of the eleven items I mention to rebound from discouragement. Make sure to re-evaluate your circumstance when needed. Remember to take a break and get some rest to restore your health and wellness to fill your own cup as you fill the cup of others.
In This Episode:
[02:56] - Jevonnah explains what the word discouraged really means.
[03:36] - Jevonnah tells a story which relates to how we feel when we are discouraged.
[04:18] - Jevonnah tells us reason #1 we should keep going, even when we are discouraged.
[05:27] - Changing the key and unlocking a new perspective is Jevonnah’s advice.
[06:20] - Jevonnah tells us we should pray if we are in a season of discouragement and gives us 11 actionable items for when we feel discouraged from Michelle Cushatt.
[07:30] - The key is in practicing your response before discouragement happens.
[09:22] - Jevonnah speaks about having a team to support you throughout your life.
[11:06] - Jevonnah suggests cultivating what matters and choose what you want to focus on.
[11:35] - Jevonnah talks about the premise of the book, The One Thing by Gary Keller
[11:42] - Jevonnah gives us five reasons to love being a coach.
[14:24] - Jevonnah reassures us when we go back to our why, we can evaluate our situation with clarity.
[15:55] - Jevonnah tells us the advice her mother gave her and her sister when they were little girls.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
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The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Fit Radio
Michelle Cushatt
The One Thing by Gary Keller
How do you honor the service of ministry when you are helping people who are struggling and still bring in an income?
This question recently came up in my coaching group. We divided this into categories to take bite-sized pieces to talk about and work out a solution.
We speak about ministry and the critical components of ministry such as helping, service, and struggling. How can you help? By doing good to others by letting your life be a light, an example to others. Teach others how to invest in themselves and why investing in yourself is essential. Giving your services away for free does not assist them in the necessary growth process. Allow the power of investment to move through to your clients.
Tune into the episode to listen to the details of these stories and more. Addressing solutions to these struggles is the way to find freedom and growth for you and your clients without feeling resentment and burnout.
In This Episode:
[01:55] - How Jevonnah addressed this question in the coaching session.
[03:00] - Jevonnah asks, “When you think of honor, what comes to mind for you?”
[03:53] - Another question Jevonnah poses is ‘What does helping mean to you?”
[04:35] - We have all been through a struggle, how do you address struggle?
[05:30] - Jevonnah recommends teaching people the power of investing in themselves.
[07:20] - Jevonnah tells us we should not feel obligated and to be careful of burning out and resentment.
[08:15] - We hear what Jevonnah’s solution number one is for these struggles.
[10:12] - Jevonnah speaks about having skin in the game and having a full cup.
[12:15] - Jevonnah suggests serving one to many, to serve more people as a coach.
[13:45] - Jevonnah tells us what the best version of yourself could include.
[14:45] - Have a coach who has their own coach and is in a leadership position.
[15:55] - Jevonnah says confidence comes from taking action.
[18:03] - How Jevonnah inspired others to have a service of ministry and still be profitable.
[20:03] - Jevonnah says to take good care of yourself as you build your business.
[21:00] - Jevonnah reads a quote from Toxic Charity by Bob Lupton.
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The Coaching Course
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Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Toxic Charity by Bob Lupton
Fit Radio
We are here today talking about creative ways to let your life speak! It’s important to remember that we need to make the higher values guide everything we do.
I tell people about webinars, ads, and courses, and these are necessary; however, the best way to getting clientele is letting your life speak.
The grocery store: I struck up a conversation with the person next to me, and they ended up becoming a student in my course. Genuine listening is listening to the other person more than telling people about your product or service. Take the time to be more interested in others, so they want to know more about you.
On the airplane: Show yourself friendly! She was excited about what she was working on, and I gave her a referral to another coach who would be better suited for her.
In a car accident: when I was hit by another car, I asked him if we could stop and pray together. He said he felt better. After a conversation, he ended up speaking to his employees about having grace under pressure.
Tune into the episode to listen to the details of these stories and more. It’s incredible how God plays a part in each of these events. Think of ways you can be creative and let your life speak. Be in the being, not so much in the doing.
In This Episode
[02:07] - We hear about letting your life speak, not just using the tools of technology.
[02:20] - Jevonnah tells us to check out the link in the show notes below to register for Thrive Summit 2019
[03:19] - Jevonnah talks about being more interested than interesting to the other person you are talking to.
[04:15] - Jevonnah tells us her about the person she met on the airplane.
[05:17] - Jevonnah gives us her experience about being in a car accident and how prayer played a part in her experience.
[07:31] - We hear about being more than the doing, are you being mindful and self-aware how you influence others?
[08:22] - Jevonnah tells us about her experience at church. Take better actions, get better results.
[09:11] - We hear about Jevonnah’s story about the anxiety and her dentist visit.
[10:03] - Jevonnah tells us that coaching that is done effectively works from the inside out and is a part of who you are and meant to be.
Resources
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The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
We are diving into listener questions today, so let’s go!
It’s important to me that I keep my ear close to your questions so I can feel the heartbeat of my audience. I can’t wait to dive into questions which listeners sent in!
What advice would you give yourself in your early career as a coach?
- Slow down! Building a business is not a sprint, it’s a marathon. We are in our businesses for the long haul.
- Don’t accept everyone as a client. Not everyone will be the right fit, work with clients that are high profit and low maintenance.
- Don’t create too many products at once. Have a flagship product that you are known for in your business. Make that product excellent.
How do you choose what investments to make in yourself, when there are so many great choices? Hire someone who is ten steps ahead of me in my business. Be careful who you hire, and check their credentials. Eliminate the noise in my email by unsubscribing when emails are not needed. Control when I check in to my email, not when each email comes in.
What have you heard or used to build your email list? If you want to have a sustainable business, have a good email list. Webinars and an effective landing page, live events when I’m face to face with the people I serve. There is power is a small list.
What are the first three values you must build from the foundation of your business to hold you up through any weather?
- Focus. Don’t muddy your business with clutter.
- Truth. Your business won’t be the same as someone else's business. It’s OK to grow slow.
- Integrity. Always honor your word. Make sure to honor God in your business.
Tune into the episode to learn more details when I answer listener questions about email list, how you should invest in yourself, values for your foundation and advice you would give yourself.
[02:03] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the episode, where she is answering listener questions.
[02:40] - Jevonnah answers her first listener question about advice she would have given herself when she first started.
[05:57] - Jevonnah recommends a book, Free to Focus by Michael Hyatt.
[06:15] - Jevonnah answers her second listener question about investing in yourself.
[08:05] - We hear the answer to the third listener question
[09:55] - Jevonnah answers the fourth listener question
[11:20] - We hear what Jevonnah has learned from running marathons.
[14:35] - Jevonnah reminds us to “be true to who you are” and our glory goes back to God.
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The Coaching Course
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Free to Focus by Michael Hyatt
This is going to be so good today, how to practice staying focused. I hear from so many people all the time who say, "Lady J., I just need to focus. How do I do that?"
Today, I'm going to give you some practical tips and takeaways, and I want you to know that you absolutely can stay focused.
It is a choice.
You prioritize what is on your to-do list. Nobody else can do that for you. It's easy to say, "Well, I have this. I have that."
The truth of the matter is, is that you allow yourself to have on that list what you have. Nobody is dictating to us that we need to do certain things. We do those things, so I want you to feel empowered to focus after listening to today's show.
Does that mean you need to delegate?
Does that mean that you need to reprioritize?
Maybe you need to get rid of some stuff. All of these things put together will help you focus in an even greater way.
In This Episode
[00:45] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the episode, brought to you by the 2019 Thrive Summit
[01:39] - So many people ask Jevonnah, "Lady J., I just need to focus. How do I stay focused?"
[02:29] - Jevonnah tells us about The Daily Stoic.
[03:37] - It is so important that we know that we don't have to do everything.
[04:38] - Jevonnah talks about people pleasing, which is the subject of The Life Coach School podcast episode 256.
[05:32] - A recent coaching session with a high achiever gave Jevonnah the opportunity to give the client focus.
[6:17] - Jevonnah is excited to dive into the book Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport.
[9:25] - You can focus. You just got to make the choice to do it, to be intentional, and consistent in carrying it out.
Links and Resources
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
Jevonnah Ellison on Instagram
The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday
The Life Coach School, Episode 256
Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport
Let’s talk about transitions. To get to the heart of the matter, I’ll explore this topic through my own personal story of my move from California to Alabama. Whether you’re transitioning between physical locations (like I did), or your transition is related to a relationship or mindset, I hope this episode helps you get through the process with grace.
The word of the Lord will last forever, but heaven and earth will pass away. We have to embrace change, and the fact that transition is a natural part of life and of living. That doesn’t make it easy, though, which is why I want to go into depth about this topic!
When I moved from California to Alabama, I missed my family and loved ones, not to mention my home. And that’s okay! No matter what transition you’re going through, it’s okay for it to be difficult to give up what you’ve been used to. And it took me a few years to really make the adjustment. Transition isn’t a sprint; you need to give yourself time.
If there’s one thing I could ask of you regarding transitions, it would be this: have the courage to make big moves! I don’t only mean literal, physical moves from one place to another, but also big moves in your life and your mindset. One way to make this easier is by nurturing and developing your relationships and friendships so that you have people to share with and to support you through tough times.
Tune into the episode to learn more about all of this, as well as my top three tips for transitions! these tips are particularly for physical transitions like my move from California to Alabama, but they may resonate in a different way in your life.
In This Episode:
[00:51] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the episode, which is all about transitions.
[01:54] - The one constant in life is change, Jevonnah points out.
[03:21] - Jevonnah begins digging into the meat of the episode, talking about her own experience with transitioning from California to Alabama.
[05:21] - We learn about the importance of giving yourself time to get used to a transition.
[07:36] - Jevonnah asks listeners to be courageous enough to make big moves in your mindset.
[09:00] - We hear the first of three tips for transitions, especially transitions from one physical location to another (like Jevonnah’s move).
[10:28] - Jevonnah explains that her second tip for transitions is to get immersed.
[12:21] - The third of Jevonnah’s tips is to protect your confidence and your mindset, and not let negativity contaminate your new growth.
[14:10] - Jevonnah recommends the book Free to Dream by Charles E. Blake Sr.
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Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Free to Dream by Charles E. Blake Sr.
Whether you’re already a coach or thinking about becoming one, this episode is for you! I’ll dig into important things that every coach should know. I’ve been coaching for many years, and I’m now an award-winning leading business coach. Thanks to all of this experience, I’ve seen all the facets of the industry, and I’m here to share my insights!
Let’s start with things that you should do as a coach:
- Value yourself and your services! This means having confidence as a coach, because your clients will know if you don’t.
- See yourself as a business owner.
- Give it time. This is the best way to get consistent results!
- Gain credibility and visibility.
Now, let’s talk about what not to do as a coach!
- Do not be late to your coaching calls (and make sure you’re clear about time zones).
- Do not be distracted.
- Do not interrupt a client or potential client during a coaching call. This is a time for listening.
- Do not keep changing your price.
- Do not over-promise and under-deliver. In fact, do exactly the opposite!
- Do not avoid following up. Always follow up with your clients.
Sales is really the transfer of enthusiasm and confidence. You need to have both in what you offer, and value yourself as a business owner! I hope that these tips on what to do (and not do) help you, and I’d love to hear which you found most valuable!
In This Episode:
[00:45] - Welcome back to the show! Jevonnah explains what today’s show will be about.
[02:32] - Jevonnah has been coaching for many years, she explains.
[03:16] - It’s not enough just to coach; you also have to embrace the business side of coaching! Jevonnah starts off by explaining some things that you should do.
[05:03] - Jevonnah’s second tip is to see yourself as a business owner. She talks about what this means.
[06:15] - We hear about Jevonnah’s third tip, which is to give it time.
[08:04] - Jevonnah talks about how to gain credibility and visibility, as part of her fourth tip for coaches.
[10:38] - We move on to learning about what not to do, with the #1 item on Jevonnah’s list being showing up late to your coaching calls.
[11:35] - The next thing you shouldn’t do is be distracted (like checking messages or multitasking on a coaching call).
[11:56] - Don’t interrupt, Jevonnah advises, and don’t keep changing your price.
[14:13] - Jevonnah’s fifth tip to avoid is over-promising and under-delivering.
[14:44] - Finally, don’t avoid following up with your clients!
[15:38] - Jevonnah recaps the things that you shouldn’t do as a coach.
[17:24] - Let Jevonnah know which of these tips stood out most to you by going to this link and leaving a comment!
Links and Resources:
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The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
The Entrepreneurial First Lady Episode 18: When Your Blessings Bump Into You...Literally
Streams of Income by Ryan Reger
We all find ourselves making excuses at some point. That’s why today’s episode is all about how to arrest your excuses and dismantle them until they no longer have power over you. Credit for this phrasing goes to Anna from Greece, who asked about how to do this a while back and inspired this episode! I love the word “arresting” in this context, because it so perfectly fits what you need to do with your excuses.
I’ll give you seven ways to eliminate your excuses. Once you tune into the episode, you’ll hear all about each one in powerful detail, but here’s a list as a preview or a reminder:
- Read between the lines. Think about what you’re thinking about, and get to the core of why you’re giving yourself an excuse.
- Stop ending your statements with a “but.”
- Avoid other excusers! Take inventory of the company you keep and assess whether you’re spending time around others who make excuses.
- Built excuse-free habits.
- Use your excuses as signals that you’re onto something great, and you should keep going!
- Trust the process, and realize that it takes time.
- Spend time in your war room.
I hope that these tips help you as much as they’ve helped me. Stay focused, stay faithful, and don’t forget to tune in next week, when I’ll talk all about some things that you need to know as a coach.
In This Episode:
[00:45] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the show! If you haven’t already registered for it, don’t forget to check out Jevonnah’s Thrive Summit.
[02:16] - Before we get into the content, here’s a shoutout to Anna from Greece who asked the question in today’s title.
[03:27] - Jevonnah has seven ways to eliminate excuses that she’ll share today. The first is to read between the lines.
[05:33] - The third tip is to stop ending your statements with a “but,” Jevonnah explains.
[06:06] - We learn about the third tip for eliminating and arresting your excuses.
[06:46] - Jevonnah explores her fourth tip, which is building excuse-free habits.
[07:30] - Next, use your excuses as signals. Jevonnah explains what this means, and how to do it.
[07:52] - Jevonnah’s six tip on this subject is very simple: trust the process.
[08:56] - We hear a quick recap of all of the tips that Jevonnah has covered throughout this episode, as well as her seventh and final tip.
[10:38] - Jevonnah hopes that all of this was helpful!
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
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The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Finish by Jon Acuff
Let’s talk about the importance of staying genuine in your business. Lots of entrepreneurs online are always pushing products and sales, and sometimes forget to lead with their hearts. People can sense it when you’re fake or insincere, so always lead from a place of generosity and genuine love.
You might have heard that people buy things from people who they know, like, and trust. I want to change this a little bit: people buy things from people who they know, love, and trust! This is why it’s so important to build a loyal audience and following who know that you love them and will take care of them.
A rising tide lifts all boats. When someone who you’ve helped succeeds, you succeed too! Having a scarcity mindset is counterproductive, so cultivate an abundance mindset and make sure that you’re coming from a place of genuine love. You won’t connect with everyone, but you will connect with the right people. At the end of the day, your client should be the hero, while you’re the guide who points them in the right direction.
In This Episode:
[00:45] - Welcome to episode 38! Jevonnah recommends going back and listening to previous episodes if you haven’t already heard them.
[01:24] - Today’s episode is about the importance of staying genuine in your business.
[03:06] - Jevonnah digs into the meat of today’s episode, urging listeners to be genuine and real.
[04:23] - We hear about Jevonnah’s alteration on a popular quote.
[05:30] - Jevonnah talks about the difference between a scarcity mindset and an abundance mindset.
[07:16] - Dare to be different! Jevonnah talks about the importance of generosity in your business.
[08:29] - Jevonnah recommends standing out by coming from a place of love.
[09:48] - Thank you for tuning in! Jevonnah mentions that next week’s episode will be about arresting and dismantling your excuses.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
Jevonnah Ellison on Instagram
The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
3 Types of People in Your Life video from T.D. Jakes
Building a StoryBrand with Donald Miller (podcast)
Staying positive when you get turned down or told “no” can be a challenge! All of us entrepreneurs, leaders, and people who are doing more with our lives sometimes run into a “no” or get turned down, but if you’re going to do great things, you need to be willing to put yourself out there!
Sometimes time is enough to turn a “no” into a “yes” (you’ll hear an amazing story explaining this in today’s episode, so tune in!). But keep in mind that a “no” now doesn’t necessarily mean a “yes” later. That’s why it’s so important that you have multiple streams of revenue and don’t count on just one source for your income.
Now, back to being positive! If (when) you get told “no,” don’t wallow in it and sulk. If you need to, spend five minutes feeling sorry for yourself, but definitely don’t give yourself a full day. Get back up again, get back out there, and keep going after it! If you need to keep thinking about it, do so by focusing on what you can learn from the experience to help you do better next time.
Being told “no” is sometimes because the other person really can’t afford it, but more often that we need to refine and perfect our sales process. Tune into this episode to learn more about this, and why sometimes hearing “no” is so important!
In This Episode:
[00:45] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners back to the show and talks about her upcoming Thrive Summit 2019.
[02:13] - Today’s topic affects all of us, Jevonnah points out.
[02:59] - Jevonnah shares a story about how much time can change things, and transform a “no” into a “yes.”
[04:20] - We hear about Streams of Income by Ryan Reger, a book that will inspire you and catapult you to action.
[04:55] - Jevonnah returns to the topic of being positive when you’re told “no.”
[06:18] - We learn about how even Michelle Obama got rejected many times, as she reveals in her book Becoming.
[07:08] - Jevonnah offers more insight into what you can learn from being told “no,” and shares a lesson she learned when she was new to coaching.
[08:43] - Keep moving forward, Jevonnah suggests, and offers closing words of advice to listeners.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
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The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Streams of Income by Ryan Reger
Becoming by Michelle Obama
It’s time to dig deep into the details! If you’re ready to learn how to make the most of your unique social media marketing strategy, this is the episode for you. I’m not claiming to be an expert in this topic, but I’ll tell you exactly what works for me so you can implement some of those strategies yourself.
So much of relationship-building these days is done on social media, so pick a platform and remain consistent. (Yes, you can just pick one or two instead of trying to spread yourself across all of them.) My first important piece of advice is that social media doesn’t need to rule your life! I work in focused blocks of time, which means that my mind isn’t scattered.
Next, be intentional in adding value. This means being a giver! There are plenty of people out there spamming people and asking for things. By giving and adding value, you make enough deposits that when you have something to sell, you’ll be in a better position to receive.
Finally, and this is so important, be consistent! This doesn’t mean you need to post every day, but show up for your audience when you tell them you will. This builds trust, and allows your audience to know when and how to expect you.
Everybody does it differently, so do what works for you, but know that you don’t need to do it all. Finally, remember not to build everything on rented land. Instead, bring your audience from your social platforms back to your home base. Tune in to hear more about all of these points and learn some strategies for making the most of your social media marketing!
In This Episode
[00:46] - Welcome to episode 36 of the podcast! Today, Jevonnah will talk all about how to make the most of your social media marketing strategy.
[01:54] - Jevonnah is now on Instagram!
[03:07] - We hear a listener’s question about how to handle the wavering, swinging mind, as well as Jevonnah’s powerful answer.
[07:07] - Jevonnah’s biggest piece of advice is to ask God, but not use prayer as an excuse to not take action.
[09:52] - We move onto today’s topic: making the most of your social media marketing platform.
[10:57] - Be intentional in adding value, Jevonnah advises.
[11:44] - Jevonnah’s next tip for making the most of your social media is to be consistent.
[12:43] - Everybody does it differently, Jevonnah points out, and explains an important point about building on rented land.
[15:39] - Jevonnah explores the importance of running your own race.
[18:09] - What will you leave behind? What will your life say? What will others say, and see, as a result of what you have done with the gifts that God has placed into your hands?
Links & Resources
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
Jevonnah Ellison on Instagram
The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
The ONE Thing by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan
Freedom app
Let’s talk about how to have patience under stress as you build your business. Stress affects all of us! Whether you’re building a business or not, you’ve experienced it and you know about it. Before we go on, let me just clarify that there’s good stress and bad stress. Good stress, for example, is when you put your body through a workout.
Bad stress is when you’re burned out and feel like you need to take a nap for an entire month. It’s when it feels like you’ve been going and going, and it never ends. And that’s what I’ll be talking about today. I’ve been there, and I want to help you learn to have patience, do self-care routines, and slow down as you build this business.
Lots of people want to microwave a business and get it done in four simple steps. But that’s not reality. Building a business takes time, focused intensity, hard work, consistency, and getting a lot of “no”s. So give yourself time, and re-energize yourself during the process! Ready for some ideas on how to do this?
- Slow down!
- Take a nap.
- Meet a friend for coffee.
- Take time to do nothing.
- Play with children in your circle.
- Listen to relaxing music.
- Go for a walk.
- Take a bath.
You can thrive, flourish, and be re-energized, even during seasons of stress and burnout. And you have time for what you prioritize. If you don’t prioritize yourself, of course you’ll never have time!
In This Episode:
[00:46] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to today’s episode, which is all about having patience under stress as you build your business.
[01:19] - We learn about the difference between good stress and bad stress.
[02:59] - Building a successful business takes time, Jevonnah points out, and talks about other factors that you need to be successful.
[04:23] - Jevonnah explains why it’s so important not to take a “no” personally.
[05:26] - We learn about Jevonnah’s powerful tips for re-energizing and de-stressing while building your business.
[07:22] - A member of the community recommends calling a friend for coffee, or sitting to do nothing.
[08:11] - Jevonnah talks about music that she found that helps her relax and de-stress.
[08:55] - We hear some inspirational words about thriving during times of stress and burnout.
[10:24] - Jevonnah takes a moment to pray with listeners, and shares some powerful closing thoughts.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
17 Christian Ways to Say No video by John Crist
Cultivate What Matters
The sounds of the garden video
Getting a potential lead interested in working with you is only half of the question. The other half is figuring out whether you want to work with them! And that’s what today’s episode is all about: how to know whether a client is the right fit (or not). Not everybody is going to be a “yes” for you, so protect your energy and your time by working with the right clients!
With that in mind, there are three things that I want you to know when you’re figuring out whether someone is a good fit for you and your business. Ready to learn what they are? Tune into the episode to hear about them in detail, or read on for a summary and reminder!
First, assess whether there’s a deep resonance in your spirit, and look for an openness in this person. If you find someone who’s always pointing the finger at other people rather than taking responsibility, rethink whether you want to work with this person!
Second, watch for great chemistry. This means trust and respect developing in the conversation. If those things aren’t there, that’s a major red flag that you might not be the right fit for each other.
Finally, look for teachability. You want to work with people who are teachable (and keep in mind that you should be teachable too, and open to learning from your clients).
Don’t miss this episode to help you figure out exactly how to figure out if someone is the right fit for you. I’ll explore these three things in more depth, as well as offering a couple other tips to help you with this vital process.
In This Episode:
[00:48] - Welcome back to the show! Jevonnah takes a moment to thank listeners who have been leaving reviews on iTunes.
[01:41] - Today’s shoutout goes to Jon Shinaberry of Global Harvest Missions, who left a review on iTunes.
[02:48] - Thank you (and congratulations) to those of you who have purchased and gone through Jevonnah’s Coaching Course!
[03:32] - We dive into today’s topic, which is all about knowing when to work with someone (or not).
[04:48] - There are three things that Jevonnah wants you to know when figuring out if someone is a good fit. She explains the first one.
[06:02] - We hear about the second and third tips for figuring out whether someone is the right fit for your business.
[07:11] - Jevonnah recaps the three points that she has covered in today’s episode.
[08:15] - The question that Jevonnah has been addressing today was submitted by a client, she explains.
[09:27] - We learn about one of the things that Jevonnah asks on her coaching applications, and why the answer matters so much.
[11:55] - Coaching is a long game, Jevonnah points out, and you want to work with people who understand that.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Global Harvest Missions
Sometimes my podcasts are full of broad, encompassing advice that you can apply across your life and business. And sometimes they’re ultra-specific! Today is the latter type, and I’ll be focusing on how to consistently add value to your Facebook groups.
As a listener to this podcast, there’s a pretty good chance that you’re a leader, influencer, high-achiever, and/or business owner. And I know that lots of you have Facebook groups where you lead other people and share your wisdom. My goal today is to help you help the people in your groups, and empower you to continue giving value to the people you serve.
Here’s my first tip for consistently adding value to your Facebook groups, while increasing engagement, is simply to comment! Take the time to invite your members to introduce themselves, and send them a personal note of encouragement to get them started.
My second tip is to celebrate small wins, and to give away something of value that new members can start using immediately. After that, my third tip is to get personal! Facebook groups have higher participation if people get to know each other on a personal level, and you can facilitate this.
My fourth tip might seem confusing at first: create a higher barrier to entry. You might end up with fewer people in your group, but they’ll all be the right people! Next, make sure you create posting guidelines, and share them in a pinned post at the top of the group.
Next, make sure you have a great (and concise) mission statement. This helps promote cooperation and leads to better understanding of what people should post. Create a culture of generosity, love, and respect, as well as challenging one another to grow!
My other tips include using analytics and creating Facebook events to provide more high-value information, which I’ll explain in more depth in the episode. Whether you’re already the leader of a Facebook group or you’re not quite there yet but ready to learn, don’t miss this episode to understand how to bring the most value to everyone in your group.
In This Episode:
[00:45] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to today’s episode, which will be all about how to consistently add value to your Facebook groups.
[01:45] - We hear a wise piece of advice that Jevonnah once heard.
[03:05] - The first way to get great engagement and consistently add value to your Facebook groups is to comment, Jevonnah explains.
[03:34] - Jevonnah shares her second tip on today’s topic.
[04:01] - Next, get personal! Jevonnah talks about why opening up is so important to building a strong community.
[05:09] - We learn about Jevonnah’s fourth and fifth tips.
[06:41] - Jevonnah’s next tip is to have a great mission statement.
[07:26] - Next, use analytics to learn more about who’s in your group and which posts are most popular.
[08:57] - Jevonnah reviews her tips for consistently adding value to your Facebook group.
[10:15] - Remember that you don’t need to be everywhere! But give consistent, steady, actionable value on the platform that you are on.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Let’s talk about how to blend faith and business in a secular world. This comes up for a lot of us who are believers, but also happen to be in business. Blending your spiritual and work life without being overbearing is a tough line to walk sometimes. On one hand, you want to reflect your values across all aspects of your life (including business), but you don’t want to be overly preachy. The struggle is real, so I’m here to help you along the way!
To start off, just be kind. Say hello, give a genuine smile, or pay honest compliments. Next, be amazingly generous. This will speak volumes about your faith, without you needing to say a single word about it. My third tip is to socialize and be friendly. To have a friend, you have to be friendly! This doesn’t mean you need to attend every event, but you should go out of your way to extend kindness and socialize.
My fourth tip is the first one that involves actually sharing your faith: mention your faith in passing, but be strategic. I’ll give an example of this during the episode, so you can understand what it means. Shine the light instead of bringing the heat! My fifth and final tip on the subject for today is to pray for business insight that gets results, and pray for insights before you move forward.
The world is noisy, big, and tempting, and will try to pull you away from your core values. Don’t let that happen! Stay true to what you know, and remember that God helped you get started.
In This Episode:
[00:44] - Welcome to the show! Today’s episode will be all about blending faith and business in a secular world.
[01:53] - How do you blend your spiritual and work life without being overbearing?
[02:49] - One thing to keep in mind is to be kind!
[03:37] - Jevonnah’s second tip is to be amazingly generous, she explains.
[04:25] - We learn about Jevonnah’s third tip, which is to socialize and be friendly.
[05:35] - The fourth way to blend faith and business is to mention your faith in passing, but be strategic.
[06:50] - Jevonnah shares her fifth tip, which is to pray for business insight that gets results.
[08:49] - Jevonnah reviews what she has been saying and recaps her five tips for being a light in your place of work (without being overbearing).
[10:31] - We hear about one of the first things that Jevonnah decided to do when starting her company.
[11:36] - Jevonnah leaves listeners with a question: what would you do if you were brave?
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
I’m so thankful to have you here! It’s a pleasure to be able to connect with you, and to do what I can to inspire, encourage, and support you along the way. But do you know the reason for this podcast? If not, tune in, because that’s what this episode is all about! I talk to a lot of my clients about the importance of having a strong “why,” and this episode is about coming back to home base and getting grounded again in my “why.”
Before we get into that, though, here’s a challenge for you, and something I’ve been practicing: reframe the things you have to do as things you get to do. So many people would love to have a job, to be able to go grocery shopping, or to pick up their kids. Thank God you have the means to buy food, or kids to pick up, or a job to go to!
Now, onto why I started this podcast. The opportunity to speak into your life and encourage you has been such an inspiration, help, and blessing for me as well. After I became a pastor’s wife, I knew that God was calling me to blend my experience as an entrepreneur and businesswoman with my new role. After ten years, I started this podcast for women in ministry, business, and leadership.
After praying on it, the words “entrepreneurial first lady” came to me, and I was called to create this podcast. My hope and prayer is that no matter who and where you are, what you hear in this podcast will help carry you through a hard time and help you realize the gifts that are inside of you. Thank you for being part of this journey, and letting me join you along the way.
In This Episode:
[00:43] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to episode 31, and explains the subject of today’s episode.
[01:47] - We hear about Jevonnah’s conversation at the gym, when she reframed going to work as something she gets to do.
[02:59] - Jevonnah announces that the Thrive Summit 2019 is coming! Register for the event of the year at the link.
[04:08] - Today’s shoutout goes to Dr. Nina Garrett, who recently wrote Grace Will Lead You Home.
[06:07] - We learn about why Jevonnah started this podcast.
[08:49] - Jevonnah prayed to find a way to blend business and faith together, and immediately thought of the idea “entrepreneurial first lady.”
[09:28] - Jevonnah shares a hope for the future, and sums up her mission in creating the podcast.
[11:09] - We hear about how happy it makes Jevonnah to get emails from listeners all over the world.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Grace Will Lead You Home by Dr. Nina Nelson-Garrett
Before we get started today, I want to say thank you. Maybe not everyone whose lives you have touched has had the opportunity to come back and say thank you themselves, but I know you’ve done so much for other people, and I’m here to say thank you on their behalf.
Today, I have an important question for you: what are you letting go of to make room for new growth? Recently, I shared an email that pointed out that your success is in God’s hands. So rest in His love, and listen to the silence. Don’t get so caught up in checking things off of your to-do list that you forget what matters most.
Here’s the thing: a lot of us are holding onto things that need to be let go of. We’re holding onto baggage that needs to be cut off and let go of so we can grow in new areas of our lives. Let that bad relationship, negative thinking, or limited mindset go. What is it that’s draining your time and taking away from what’s most important?
After being inspired by Lara Casey, I filled my space with beautiful living plants. Every time I water and nurture these plants, I’m nurturing and tending my own soul and wellness. I’d like to invite you to do the same, whether with plants or even a pet. Loving outside of yourself gives you the opportunity to love yourself, too.
I’d also like to invite you to write down three things: the one thing you want to cultivate the most this year, one thing you’ll surround yourself with less of this year, and one thing you’ll fill your life with more of this year. As a bonus, write down what you’re saying yes to (and what you’re saying no to).
In This Episode:
[00:46] - Welcome to episode 30! Jevonnah shares her excitement to be here sharing this episode with you.
[01:32] - Thank you, on behalf of everyone whose lives you have touched.
[02:54] - Jevonnah shares an amazing success story that recently happened for one of her clients.
[06:14] - If you’re interested in coaching or any of Jevonnah’s courses, head over to this link to get started!
[06:29] - We move into today’s topic: letting go of the old to make room for new growth.
[08:38] - For a tree to grow, you need to cut the dead ends, Jevonnah points out.
[09:37] - Jevonnah shares her appreciation for Lara Casey and encourage listeners to bring something living into your space.
[11:52] - We hear about an orchid that Jevonnah was inspired to get.
[13:23] - Jevonnah gives listeners an assignment: get out a sheet of paper and write down three things that you want to tend to the most this year.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Lara Casey
Cultivate by Lara Casey
Cultivate Your Life podcast with Lara Casey
Today, I’m going to do something a little different. I don’t have any notes for this episode. Instead, I’m here to share from my heart, and to encourage the encourager (that’s you!).
Since you’re listening to this show, you’re probably a leader or influencer in some way. You’re someone who is constantly encouraging other people, and helping them see what they can’t see in themselves. What comes with that is a whole lot of responsibility, misunderstandings, and being taken for granted. Today, it’s your turn! I’m here to encourage and celebrate you.
The difference between the called and the chosen is that the chosen are the ones who choose to answer the call. You have chosen to answer that call, and that road is definitely full of challenges. Please know that your work is not in vain. You are an amazing encourager, and when you hit obstacles and stumble or fall down, it’s time to get back up again! Turn those obstacles into opportunities.
I’d like to issue you a challenge to help you along the way. Sometime within the next 24 hours, sit down and write a letter to your future self, ten years from now. Write to your future self about where you want to be at that point -- not just geographically, but also in your career, your spiritual journey, and your personal life. Who are you? What are you doing? Who are you impacting? What are you giving?
Remember, your living is not in vain. You’re here to make an amazing difference in the world, and I’m so thankful to have this opportunity to encourage you along the way.
In This Episode:
[00:45] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the show. In today’s special episode, she’ll be sharing straight from the heart.
[02:18] - There’s something special about you, Jevonnah points out.
[03:11] - Jevonnah talks about a song she particularly loves, and plays part of the song for listeners who aren’t familiar with it (or who could benefit from hearing it!).
[05:25] - Jevonnah encourages listeners not to dwell on the obstacles along the way.
[07:13] - As a challenge, write a letter to yourself ten years in the future the way you want it to be at that point.
[09:22] - All is going to be well, Jevonnah reassures listeners. If it’s a struggle now, it won’t be that way forever.
[09:52] - Jevonnah talks about something she read recently that explains that your message won’t be for everyone.
[12:01] - Jevonnah reiterates that your living is not in vain, and invites listeners to share this episode with anyone you know who needs encouragement.
[12:43] - Today’s shoutout goes to two amazing leaders: Winston Faircloth and Daphne V. Smith.
[15:04] - To close out the episode, Jevonnah plays the full song Is My Living In Vain by The Clark Sisters.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive! group on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Is My Living In Vain by The Clark Sisters
This Is Marketing by Seth Godin
Winston Faircloth
Daphne V. Smith
Are you ready to overcome your fear?! Even if you’re not convinced that you can, I believe in you, and I’m here to give you very practical takeaways to put into action and begin living an even braver life. Even people who encourage others sometimes feel deep fear, and I’m here to help you prepare to face it when it comes up.
You absolutely can’t cheat the world out of the gifts that you have, and your story can help so many people! I want you to feel confident and empowered in sharing your voice, and the message that God has placed in your heart. Here are some tips to help you do that, even when it feels hard:
- Remember your through-line. This means to remember who you are at your core, and why you’re doing what you’re doing.
- Remember that it’s not always you; it’s about the transformation that can happen in the lives of other people thanks to you. Think about the KDF formula: what do you want your audience to know, do, and feel?
- Start strong, finish strong, and don’t hide! We connect with people when we share our struggles, and one of the best ways to overcome your fear is to be honest and share from your heart.
Believe it or not, you don’t need to project the image of having everything together all the time. Everyone knows that’s not true! So let yourself be open, honest, and vulnerable with your audience, and they’ll be able to relate to you even better.
Ready to practice your fearlessness? Here’s an exercise for you! Imagine you’re in a situation that scares you, like preparing to enter a big meeting or start a Facebook Live. Now, look at your hands, and open them, palms facing the sky. Take a deep breath, and release it. Simply opening your hands brings you to a place of openness and gratitude.
You are made for greatness, so stay hungry and stay humble!
In This Episode:
[00:44] - Welcome to the show! This episode is all about overcoming your fear.
[01:47] - Jevonnah sends a listener shoutout to Vitalis Essala. Want your own shoutout in the future? Just leave a review on iTunes and you may hear your name!
[02:35] - Today’s question comes from a young lady who wants to know about how to keep laser focus while being pulled in several directions.
[04:33] - Jevonnah shares a powerful word that relates to staying laser focused: prayoritize!
[06:32] - We hear one final thought from Jevonnah about the issue of being pulled in several directions.
[08:28] - Jevonnah dives into the content of today’s episode, which revolves around overcoming your fear.
[10:00] - We learn the second of Jevonnah’s tips into overcoming your fear.
[12:00] - Jevonnah shares the KDF formula, which means figuring out what you want the audience to know, do, and feel.
[13:21] - The third tip for overcoming your fear is to start strong, finish strong, and not hide, Jevonnah explains.
[14:39] - Jevonnah explores the importance of gratitude, which is one of the fastest ways to happiness.
[15:23] - Jevonnah gives listeners a tactical takeaway.
[17:13] - We hear a quick review of the strategies and tips that Jevonnah has explored in today’s episode.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Vitalis Essala
Do you struggle with a tendency to say “yes” even if you don’t want to? Is it hard for you to turn people or opportunities down, even when you know that you should? I think we’ve all been there, which is why I think this episode will be so valuable. Today, I’m going to teach you ten ways to say “no” gracefully.
Yes, that’s right, you can say “no” gracefully—and still preserve the relationship with the person you’re saying “no” to! And, as you’ll learn, saying “no” is actually an act of kindness both to yourself and others. But before we get into the ten ways to do that, here are a few ground rules that you need to know:
- Be quick. Saying “no” doesn’t get easier if you wait!
- Be polite. Thank them for thinking of you.
- Don’t lie. Be truthful!
- Don’t apologize for saying “no.”
- Give a reason.
- Be very clear.
- Give an alternative.
Make sense so far? Good! Now we can move onto very specific ways to say “no” gracefully. Many of these come from the amazing Marie Forleo’s Ultimate Guide to Saying “No.”
- If you’re an employee saying “no” to your boss, try saying, “I hear how important this is. Can we take a look at my current priorities together?”
- To say “no” to a friend who is asking for a favor, say something like, “Our friendship is important to me, so as a rule, I don’t ”
- When someone wants to pick your brain, try, “My work schedule is too full to squeeze in coffee or a meeting. Are you interested in becoming a client, or do you just have a quick question?”
- For clients and customers, say, “That’s a great idea, but I have to pass, because my skills aren’t a great match for what you want on this project.”
- If someone wants to collaborate, say, “Thank you for thinking of me for your project. It sounds fantastic and I’ll be cheering you on, but I’m not able to accept the invitation. I’m currently focused on my own projects, and I’m not taking on any collaborations unless I seek them out directly. Congratulations again, and I wish you tremendous success with your project.”
Tune into the episode to learn more about all of these methods, as well as some bonus ways that you can say “no” to just about everyone else! When your “no” is genuine, compassionate, and warm, there’s no need to feel guilty about saying it, and it doesn’t need to damage your relationships.
In This Episode:
[00:47] - If you’ve ever felt pressure to say “yes,” this is the episode for you!
[01:05] - Today’s listener shoutout goes to Chawn Thompson, who left a beautiful review on iTunes. To get your own shoutout, leave a review of the show on iTunes.
[02:03] - Jevonnah digs into the body of the episode, starting off with a book recommendation: The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurst.
[03:37] - We hear a couple of powerful quotes that reveal the value and necessity of saying “no.”
[04:25] - Saying “no” is actually an act of kindness, Jevonnah points out.
[05:02] - Jevonnah lays out a few ground rules that you need to know first.
[07:58] - We learn about practical ways to say “no” to different people, starting with an employee saying “no” to their boss.
[12:01] - Jevonnah shares an analogy about “brain pickers.”
[13:34] - We learn how to say “no” to clients and customers, as well as requests for promotion or collaboration.
[16:38] - Jevonnah offers some bonus ways to say “no” to just about everyone that she hasn’t listed specifically so far.
[17:32] - Saying “no” is like a muscle that you need to work out, Jevonnah points out.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurst
Marie Forleo
The Ultimate Guide to Saying “No” by Marie Forleo
If you’re tempted to give up on something, tune in to this episode first! This inspirational message is all about how not to throw in the towel, even when you feel ready to admit defeat. We all get tired along the way, and want to give up at times, but I’m here to help you keep on keeping on with what God told you to do.
Of course, there are some things that we need to quit, but you shouldn’t give up on your divine purpose. Your best days are still ahead of you, and the most amazing moments in your past were just a warm-up for what’s still to come!
Today I’ll give you three powerful ways not to throw in the towel, even when the road feels rough. First, assess the situation and figure out why you’re doing what you’re doing. Is there anything you need to do differently, or that you’re doing because of a request rather than because your heart is in it?
Know that not every good thing is a God thing. This means that not every opportunity that comes your way is something you need to say “yes” to. Instead, you need to find out if any given opportunity is in alignment with your goals, priorities, and purpose.
Next, remember why you got started along this path. Holding on to your “why” can provide the motivation that you need to stay strong. When you lose your “why,” you can lose your way.
Finally, get help! If you’re in that messy middle part of your path, and more opportunities are coming your way than you know what to do with, get help by hiring someone to take some of the load off of you. Instead of throwing in the towel, let someone else take some things off your plate to free up your bandwidth for what you really need to do!
In This Episode:
[00:45] - Welcome to episode 26! Today, Jevonnah will encourage you not to throw in the towel.
[03:32] - Jevonnah offers listeners a powerful way not to throw in the towel, even when it may seem hard to keep going.
[05:51] - The second tip Jevonnah is offering listeners today is to remember why you got started.
[06:23] - Jevonnah shares her third tip: get help!
[07:08] - We hear words of encouragement not to throw in the towel.
[08:12] - Jevonnah asks listeners to make room in their lives for the things that truly matter by cutting away the fluff.
[09:41] - Don’t throw in the towel, Jevonnah entreats, and gives a shout-out to her friend Chris McCluskey of Professional Christian Coaching Institute.
[11:08] - Take some time for yourself this week to follow the three steps that Jevonnah has explored today.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Chris McCluskey
Professional Christian Coaching Institute
Are you giving this show your full attention, or are you trying to multitask and do everything at once? If it’s the latter, this is definitely the episode for you, because I’ll share three ways to help you minimize distractions!
In this day and age, it seems like everything (and everyone) is vying for your attention all the time. That’s why I want to help you get laser focused, minimize distractions, and accomplish the most important tasks that you need to get done. You absolutely can focus, I promise! I want you to feel empowered to do this, and that’s what these three strategies will help you do.
The first of these three strategies is to work in focused blocks of time. For example, between 7 AM and 8 AM, all I did today was work on this podcast: doing research, studying, working on show notes, and so on. At first, you might find you’re getting distracted during your blocks of time. But by blocking out this time and making sure nothing else interrupts you, you develop your concentration muscle.
My second strategy is to do a onesie. This means just focusing on one thing at a time. Right now, grab a sheet of blank paper and write down one thing that you want to accomplish within the next 30 minutes. Clear your desk of all the clutter, put that one sheet of paper in front of you, and only focus on that for your next block of time.
Third, it’s important to limit the number of tabs you have open on your computer. When you have too many tabs open, just turning your computer on can be overwhelming. Learn the power of bookmarking, which allows you to close a tab and come back to it later rather than having it staring you in the face.
Tune in today to hear more about all of these strategies, start learning to minimize distractions, and learn to take control of your time, your focus, and your life!
In This Episode:
[00:47] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the episode.
[01:16] - Today’s episode will be all about three ways to minimize distractions.
[03:48] - Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast! You’ll get notifications of each new episode, so you’ll never miss a thing.
[04:03] - Jevonnah explains the first of her three strategies for getting focused.
[05:59] - We learn about Jevonnah’s second tip: do a onesie.
[08:27] - Jevonnah explores the third strategy, which is to limit the number of tabs you have open on your computer.
[10:15] - What works for Jevonnah may not work for you, but it’s important to minimize the number of distractions online.
[11:44] - Jevonnah recaps the three strategies that she has outlined in today’s episode, then shares something that happened to her at the gym.
[14:14] - Jevonnah shares her closing thoughts and wishes for listeners.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
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The Coaching Course
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Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Brendon Burchard
Marie Forleo
If you’re ready to learn all about how to protect your confidence as a leader, you’re in the right place! Let’s start the year off strong by staying strong and confident as we go forth in the world and use our unique talents and gifts.
Before we get into that, though, I’ll dig into the question of drawing a clear line between ministry and business. How do you avoid being taken advantage of in your business when you serve and minister for free?
I made the difference very clear from the beginning that my business was business (and therefore paid), and that my ministry events were ministry (and free). In your business, it’s important that people know that you charge for your services. However, when you’re in ministry, continue to serve in that vein as well with a very specific line between the two.
This is why I held my first live event for my business at a hotel rather than my church. In this way, I drew a line between my ministry and my business. This is an example of setting clear boundaries between the two, which will help you avoid confusion and frustration later on!
And now, onto confidence! Sometimes, going higher means experiencing more turbulence. This is why it’s so important to care for our confidence as we move forward and upward in our journeys. Here are some fantastic tips to help you protect your confidence:
- Have a clear strategy of what you’re going to do.
- Have the right (supportive) people around you!
- Know your “why.”
Don’t forget to tune into this episode to learn exactly why these strategies are so incredibly powerful, and how you can put them to work for you. Here’s to an amazing 2019 full of confidence, success, and making a difference!
In This Episode:
[00:47] - Welcome to episode 24! Thank you for using your amazing talents and gifts to make a difference.
[01:36] - Today’s episode will be about protecting your confidence in the process of using your gifts and talents
[04:24] - You can get a listener shoutout when you give a rating and review on iTunes! Today’s shoutout goes to Marianne Renner.
[05:45] - Today’s question involves adding business as a second hat to being a minister at the same time, and drawing the line between the two.
[08:15] - We hear about one of the things that Jevonnah did when she had one of her first live events for her business.
[10:22] - If you have a question of your own, head to this link to ask Jevonnah!
[10:34] - Let’s get into the topic of protecting your confidence! Jevonnah offers some powerful and straightforward strategies.
[13:18] - The second strategy involves surrounding yourself with the right people.
[15:59] - Jevonnah’s third piece of advice is to know your “why.”
[18:16] - We hear a quick recap of the three ways to protect your confidence that Jevonnah has shared today.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Marianne Renner Coaching
Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
The High Performance Planner by Brendon Burchard
Brendon Burchard
Do you feel overwhelmed, tired, or burned out? If so, you’re in the right place! Today I’ll give you practical strategies for how to deal with that sense of being overwhelmed. You’ve got this!
We all deal with overwhelm. If we don’t handle it correctly, we can run ourselves into the ground and burn ourselves out. Sound familiar? As a leading lady, I’m sure you’ve been there and know exactly what I’m talking about. That’s why I’m so excited to share these practical strategies with you today! Ready? Here we go!
- Close your eyes, stop what you’re doing, and breathe.
- Focus on what’s in front of you right now.
- On a sheet of paper, make a list of everything that’s swimming around in your head.
- Review each item and decide whether you personally need to do it, or whether you can delegate it.
- Prioritize all the things on your list that you have to do, and list deadlines.
- Take a break!
- Do the next task with as little distraction as possible.
- Use your “no” muscle to say no to any requests until you can include them on your list.
It doesn’t sound too bad when you break it down that way, right? Try these steps, and I promise you’ll feel better, start breathing easier, and break out of that sense of being burned out and overwhelmed.
In This Episode:
[00:53] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the show and introduces today’s topic: practical strategies to help you deal with overwhelm.
[01:47] - Today’s listener shout-out goes to Tanya Hargrove! Want a shout-out in a future episode? Leave a review on iTunes for a chance to be featured.
[03:44] - It’s your time! If you’re ready to thrive financially from what you already know, sign up today at jevonnah.com.
[04:32] - We all deal with overwhelm, Jevonnah points out, then shares the first of her simple strategies that can help.
[05:32] - Jevonnah talks about the second of her powerful strategies.
[05:56] - The next two of Jevonnah’s strategies involves making a list and delegating from it.
[07:20] - Next, prioritize your list, write down the deadlines, and take a break! After that, flex your “no” muscle.
[09:24] - Jevonnah reviews the tips that she’s covered today.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Forgiveness lets you feel absolutely free, liberated, and empowered. God has needed to forgive me a whole lot, and I’m so grateful that He did. Has He needed to forgive you, too? Have you felt yourself becoming less judgmental and more full of grace the more you’re forgiven? It’s your turn to pass that onto others through the power of forgiveness.
What are you going to let go of? Who have you been playing it safe with, while politely keeping your distance? Who has been mean or rude to you? Bob Goff, author of Everybody, Always, says not to tell these people all your opinions. Instead, give them all your love. Isn’t that incredible? If you do this, I promise two things will happen. First, it will be messy (and sometimes ugly). Second, you will grow. People who are growing fall forward and bump into Jesus all over again. And that’s worth the mess!
Remember that the best billboard is a life well-lived. Let your life speak, let God use you, and choose forgiveness today. Keep planting those seeds of love, and I promise that you will reap what you sow.
In This Episode:
[01:00] - Welcome to the show! Today’s topic is all about how forgiveness changes you, Jevonnah explains, then shares her hopes for listeners.
[02:06] - We learn about how forgiving others (or yourself) allows you to feel.
[03:01] - Jevonnah shares a powerful quote that reveals why it’s so harmful not to forgive others.
[03:51] - Jevonnah recommends a book that she has recently finished reading, and explains how it has helped her.
[05:06] - It’s hard for Jevonnah, too, but to follow in Jesus’ steps, we need to follow His example by loving our enemies.
[06:25] - If you want to become love, stop just agreeing with Jesus, and start doing what He says.
[07:16] - Jevonnah talks about an experience that you’ll have as you practice loving everybody, always.
[07:36] - As you go forward with the rest of your day, love someone with all of your heart and forgive with all of your might, and ask God to help you become the person that He would have you be.
[08:24] - Jevonnah shares a prayer with listeners.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Bishop T.D. Jakes
Everybody, Always by Bob Goff
Dan Miller
Happy New Year! Ready to make 2019 amazing?! Today, I’ll talk about three ways to walk in your purpose in an even bigger way this year. If you’re listening to this podcast, you probably already know your purpose. You know why you’re here, and that you’re here to make a difference. Or maybe you’re someone who has spent your life serving other people, pouring your energy into them, and now you’re ready for a new season of your life.
Wherever you fall, these three points will help you.
- Do something every single day to grow.
- Commit to figuring it out.
- Surround yourself with high achievers.
Tune into the episode to learn more about each of these steps, and how applying them can create an amazing life! I’ll also share some bonus pieces of advice that will help ensure that you’re really living in your purpose in a big way. These include volunteering, showing love to others, giving encouraging words, getting out of debt, and taking what you need and giving it to others!
It’s time to stop discounting what you have to offer. Someone needs the message that you have. Someone out there is going to be changed as a result of what you have to say, share, and give. So give with a pure, open heart, and you’ll find yourself walking deeply in your purpose and fulfilling who you are meant to be.
In This Episode:
[00:01] - It’s the new year, so it’s time to talk about how to walk in your purpose in an even bigger way!
[01:06] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to 2019 and shares the theme of today’s episode.
[02:19] - Today’s listener shoutout goes to Laurie Carter, who says this show is her morning inspiration and motivator.
[03:58] - Jevonnah explains that she’s going to discuss three ways to walk in your purpose in an even bigger way.
[05:34] - We learn about #1 of Jevonnah’s three-step series.
[06:57] - The second piece of the process involves committing to figure it out.
[08:11] - Jevonnah’s third piece of advice involves surrounding yourself with the right people.
[08:36] - Jevonnah offers bonus advice to listeners who want to live their purpose in an even bigger way.
[11:21] - We hear about a beautiful day of giving that Jevonnah spent with her goddaughter.
[14:17] - Another bonus bit of advice is to get out of debt, because having debt hanging over you is a constant weight on your shoulders.
[15:52] - Don’t forget that you have a big, big purpose this year! Jevonnah reviews the points that she’s made in this episode.
[16:36] - Jevonnah shares that she’s planning a live event in August 2019!
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
The Thrive Mastermind
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive Summit 2019
Marie Forleo
Dave Ramsey
Financial Peace University
You already know that your life has purpose. You understand the importance of living authentically and having integrity. Today, we’ll dig even deeper into what purpose means and looks like. I created a three-step guide to help you know your purpose.
Here are the steps:
- Start asking yourself better questions. To get clarity on your purpose, ask yourself questions about your unique skills, abilities, and personality traits, and the dreams and passions that keep showing up.
- Craft a personal mission statement. You can spend a couple hours working through these steps and create clarity and plan, but also look back on your life to see what pivotal moments happened for you.
- Get better company, and take action! If you want to be successful, you need to spend time with people who are already successful. Learn something new every day, and then take action on it.
I’ll also share a five-step process that will help you define where you are in your life right now as it relates to your purpose. To start this concrete process, grab a pen and paper, then follow these five steps:
- Make a list of everything you can remember that made you happy. Write down at least 10 answers.
- Highlight the items on your list that involve a skill, and then identify that skill.
- Rank the top 5 highlighted terms in order of the joy they bring you. The skill that brings you the most joy is worth 10 points, with the others descending from there.
- Rank the top 5 items in terms of their income potential. The most lucrative skill is worth 10 points, with the others descending from there.
- Total the two ranked columns. The highest score represents a potential purpose or avenue that can happen in your life.
Tune into the episode to hear more about how to make these processes work for you, as well as what some Thrive! community members had to say about their purpose!
In This Episode:
[00:50] - Welcome to episode 20, which will be all about the topic of purpose!
[02:34] - Jevonnah shares her holiday wishes for listeners, and offers an invitation to join her high-level Thrive Mastermind.
[04:02] - What does “purpose” mean to you? What is your purpose? Jevonnah goes through a three-step guide she created to help people know their purpose.
[07:28] - Jevonnah explains a bonus five-step process to help you define where you are in your life right now as it relates to your purpose.
[09:43] - Jevonnah offers a powerful quote about the power of doing work that fulfills your purpose.
[10:16] - We hear about what some members said in answer to my question: “What is your purpose?”
[14:02] - Take a moment to share your own purpose with Jevonnah! Head to this link and leave a comment to tell her what your purpose is, how you’re living it out, and whether you’re able to get paid doing the work that you love.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
The Thrive Mastermind
Dan Miller
Success Magazine
Tom Corley
Rich Habitsby Tom Corley
ThinkUp app
Have you ever said something, then wished you could go back and not say it (or say something else)? Our words are like feathers; once we’ve thrown them into the wind, it’s basically impossible to go gather them all back. And as leading ladies, everything we say is magnified. This is why it’s so important that your message has clarity and imparts grace, and that your words are tastefully spoken. Remember that it’s okay not to say everything!
Your words reflect your character, so if you’re thinking positive thoughts, you’ll be able to speak grace, love, and truth to other people. At many organizations, including the learning center that I led, there’s a no-gossip policy. So, what do you do if someone comes to you complaining or gossiping about someone else? Tune into this episode to find out!
I’ll also explain how important it is to remember that as a leading lady, you’re not a trash can. Instead, you’re a lighthouse! Let your character and integrity shine through and show, and make sure that the words you speak give life to those who hear them. Finally, I’ll address a question that Jared asked, but instead of answering, I’d like to let the amazing conversation over there speak for itself, so go check it out once you’re done listening to this episode!
In This Episode:
[00:48] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to episode 19, and introduces the topic of today’s episode.
[02:28] - Today’s show is brought to you by Jevonnah’s signature program, The Coaching Course.
[03:42] - What does it mean to you to taste your words before you speak?
[05:22] - Jevonnah points out that you need to earn the right to speak the truth in love.
[07:10] - As a leading lady, Jevonnah points out, you’re a lighthouse (not a trash can).
[07:59] - Jevonnah shares a comment where Jared asked an amazing question that got lots of responses.
[10:08] - Remember to taste your words before you speak. As you do that, your words will impart empowerment, edification, and encouragement to those who hear them.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
The Thrive Mastermind
We can’t control what happens to us, but we can absolutely control our response, and that’s what makes all the difference. You can have grace even under pressure, and I want you to feel confident in your ability to love others even in difficult moments.
Here’s my story: I was on my way back from my Thursday Bible study. As I sat waiting at a red stoplight, I got slammed into from behind by a giant black SUV. The impact was so strong that I was shocked. The driver got out of the SUV and came around to my window. I saw that he was shaking as he asked if I was okay. He was so apologetic, and as I saw his hands shaking, I felt compelled to ask if I could take his hands so we could pray together.
After that prayer, the trajectory of the entire incident changed. Everything felt lighter. I was fine, he was fine, even the cars were ultimately fine. Amazingly, I also learned that this man is in a high position with one of the contracting firms here. He extended an invitation to come speak to his employees about having grace under pressure.
People ask me all the time how to get clients, but you can’t plan events like this! Making human contact with people, and treating others the way you want to be treated, is one of the very best marketing tactics. Operate with character and integrity, and the opportunities will come to you.
Tune into this episode to learn more about this incident, as well as why your decisions about how to respond to what happens to you can make all the difference.
In This Episode:
[00:57] - Welcome to episode 18! Jevonnah explains what she’ll talk about today, and shares the moral of the story.
[02:35] - Jevonnah loves responding to your questions! If you have one, go to this link to ask Jevonnah your question.
[03:11] - We hear Jevonnah’s story about being crashed into from behind.
[05:04] - The prayer that Jevonnah and the man who crashed into her shared changed the entire incident.
[05:47] - Jevonnah couldn’t possibly have created a business plan for something like this, she points out.
[07:08] - What does grace under pressure mean for you?
[08:12] - Jevonnah offers words of wisdom about taking time to slow down and responding positively to negative incidents.
[09:06] - Take a moment to let Jevonnah know how you have had grace under pressure! You can contact her at this link.
[09:40] - Registration for Jevonnah’s Thrive Mastermind is now open. This only happens once a year, so don’t miss your chance!
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
The Thrive Mastermind
At this time of year, lots of people are going through ups and downs. You may have a smile on your face, but not be as happy as people think you are. Are you in a dark place? Even though it might be hard to believe in the middle of the darkness, you are blessed. You can go to God in prayer, and while it may seem like a dry season, the refreshing, nurturing rain is coming.
I once knew a beautiful, intelligent, smart, funny woman named Collette. We were the best of friends! About six years ago, she was diagnosed with cancer; just two months later, she was gone from this earth. She passed away on Christmas Eve, of all days. That was one of my dark times. God shined His light on that darkness, and blessed me to start my company, the Entrepreneurial First Lady.
Take comfort in knowing that the reason that you have big problems is that you have a big destiny. Darkness develops your character! Think of a photo back in the old days of film: it had to be developed in complete darkness. The same goes for seeds; they need to germinate in the darkness underground, not in the light on the surface. The darkness develops your character. It makes you stronger and wiser, and helps your roots go down deep.
The very best is still yet to come, just for you!
In This Episode:
[00:46] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the episode, and introduces today’s topic: the idea that you’re blessed even when you’re in a dark place.
[02:32] - We dig into today’s content, with Jevonnah starting off with some powerful scriptures about darkness, light, harm, and good.
[03:53] - What do you do when you’re in a dark place? Jevonnah shares her own experience with being in a dark place.
[06:22] - One of the top regrets of those who are dying is that they didn’t have the courage to live a life true to themselves, instead of the expected life.
[08:12] - Jevonnah explores the powerful reason that you have big problems.
[11:03] - Wherever you are, you’re not there by accident, Jevonnah points out.
[12:57] - Jevonnah has just opened up spots in her five-month high-level mastermind, which you can learn more about at this link.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
The Thrive Mastermind
Ready for some powerful insight that I think will change your life? Today, we’ll be diving into practical ways you can simplify your life and business, so that you can amplify your life and business! Simplify to amplify.
You don’t have to do it all. You can selectively choose what you allow into your mind and life, and create more freedom to enjoy your life and business. To begin implementing this powerful philosophy into your life, start with these seven practical strategies for simplifying to amplify!
- Follow a quick morning routine. Get some exercise, have a healthy breakfast, and get in some reading and devotional time!
- Unsubscribe! Take a look at your inbox; how much of it is full of subscriptions that you haven’t gotten to and don’t actually read? Unsubscribe from all those! If you can’t bring yourself to unsubscribe, direct those emails to a different folder so you don’t have to see them constantly.
- Get a slow cooker. A few minutes in the morning means you’ll come home to an incredible-smelling house and dinner that’s ready to serve.
- Ladies, get a purse organizer. You’ll be amazed at how much time you save when you don’t have to empty out your whole purse to find a bobby pin.
- Plan your workouts. If you’re not doing this already, you’re missing out on a lot!
- Write your to-do list for tomorrow before you go to bed tonight.
- Here’s the big one: slow down. Instead of rushing through life trying to do and experience everything at once, come up with a plan to be more deliberate.
Let me give you an example of that final tip in case it’s not clear. I used to have a dozen or more tabs open at one time in my browser, but recently, I’ve moved to just having a couple open at a time. This brings an incredible amount of clarity and freedom, because my brain isn’t trying to focus on all those things at once. Clear the clutter from your physical space, mental space, and digital space!
In This Episode:
[00:51] - Welcome to episode 16! Jevonnah introduces today’s topic, which is all about how to simplify to amplify.
[02:24] - Jevonnah explains that she has seven practical ways for you to simplify so you can amplify, and shares the first tip.
[04:54] - We hear the second of Jevonnah’s ways to simplify to amplify.
[05:27] - Jevonnah’s third tip involves reducing your time in the kitchen once you get home in the evening.
[06:08] - Tip #4 is a way to keep your purse organized.
[06:59] - Jevonnah shares her fifth and sixth tips, both of which use the power of planning.
[07:56] - Are you ready for the final tip? It sounds simple, but it can be hard to implement: just slow down.
[09:48] - Which of these seven tips will you implement? Let Jevonnah know at this link!
[10:02] - Jevonnah quickly recaps all seven tips that she has covered throughout today’s episode.
[10:42] - Jevonnah has just opened up spots in her new, affordable 5-month Thrive Mastermind. Don’t miss out!
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive! group
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
The Thrive Mastermind
Today, I’ll talk to you all about how to smile in times of trouble. Before that, though, let me take a moment to say happy Thanksgiving! I hope you’re surrounded by loving friends and family, and that you’re enjoying this special time of gratitude for the many things that God has done in our lives.
In this episode, you’ll learn three ways that you can smile and maintain your peace, joy, and sanity, even during turbulent times. There are nights when you cry yourself to sleep, if you sleep at all. You’re burdened with responsibility and it feels like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders. Sometimes bad news makes you question how you’ll even survive, much less thrive. The world might feel like it’s crashing in around you.
Even in these moments, when life feels at its lowest, these three tools can help you find a way to smile.
First, take perspective. Ask yourself how you can respond in the middle of this turbulent time, and what it makes possible. We can’t control what happens to us, but we can control our response and choose joy, sanity, and love.
Second, think about how you overcame the turbulent season last time it came around. Nothing is too hard for God, and He allowed and enabled you to overcome last time. He’ll do it again, and knowing this gives you victory, abundance, and the right mindset.
Third, renew your mind and direct your emotions. You are in charge of the way you think, and sometimes you need to stop and think about what you’re thinking about. If you don’t arrest the thoughts that come to tear you down, you’ll begin to operate at that level. Speak life to yourself, and watch what you allow yourself to think.
We all deal with trying times and turbulent seasons, but remembering your “why” will help you keep moving forward. Quiet your mind and soul, and intentionally choose what you’re going to do to strengthen yourself when those times come.
In This Episode:
[01:15] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to the podcast and introduces today’s topic.
[03:44] - What does it really mean to smile and maintain our peace, joy, and sanity even in turbulent times?
[04:29] - The first of Jevonnah’s three tips is to take perspective. She explains what this means and how it can impact your life.
[05:35] - Jevonnah shares her second tip for getting through turbulent times.
[06:09] - The final step in Jevonnah’s series of advice is renewing your mind and directing your emotions.
[07:18] - Jevonnah takes a moment to pray for listeners, and talks about a song that she grew up with.
[10:12] - We hear a quick recap of the insights that Jevonnah has covered today, including the three steps of her process.
[12:04] - Jevonnah has just opened up spots in her brand new Thrive Mastermind.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive! group
The Thrive Mastermind
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
I’ve asked our brilliant Thrive! community to share their wisdom on morning rituals, and I got some great answers! I hope their responses will give you some great ideas. You might even find that what you’re already doing is affirmed. Marianne, for example, gets up as soon as her alarm goes off without pressing snooze, then makes the bed for an immediate sense of accomplishment. To hear the other six steps of her eight-step process, tune into the episode!
Theresa also wakes up and makes her bed immediately, but adds in a 30-minute soak in the hot tub each morning. How amazing is that! Both ladies so far have a morning ritual that includes down time, and I encourage you not to reach for your phone in the first hour that you’re awake. Be sure to create before you consume!
As you listen to the answers in this episode, I think you’ll start to hear a pattern: most of these high-achievers are accomplishing as much in the first couple of hours in the day as some people get done by the end of the day. If you want to get great things done, take command of your mornings! This will give you so much more bandwidth.
Don’t worry if the responses sound more structured and organized than your mornings are right now. Honesty is so important, and none of us is 100% consistent! Jocelyn, another of the leading ladies who answered the question, acknowledges that she’s not consistent in her practice but does a modified Miracle Morning. Don’t miss this powerful episode that I hope will inspire you to take charge of your mornings and make each day amazing!
In This Episode:
[00:50] - Jevonnah shares her excitement about today’s episode, which involves a deep dive into your self-care routine and morning rituals!
[02:21] - Today’s listener shoutout goes to Vitalis Essala, a wonderful member of our Thrive! community. If you want a shoutout of your own, leave a rating and review of the show on iTunes!
[03:39] - We hear the question that Jevonnah asked the women in the Thrive! community.
[04:10] - Jevonnah shares some of the answers that stood out.
[06:50] - Leading lady Marie Forleo recommends simplifying your morning routine, Jevonnah explains
[07:07] - We hear a couple more people’s answers, including one from an awesome guy in the Thrive! community (that’s right, it’s not only ladies!).
[08:24] - Jevonnah talks about why it’s so vitally important to take time in the morning to still your mind and soul.
[10:07] - It’s okay to admit that we’re not perfect or consistent in our morning routines, Jevonnah points out.
[10:55] - What does your morning routine look like? Jevonnah challenges listeners to include space for reflection and thinking, as well as exercise, into their morning routine.
[12:05] - To connect with the awesome leaders whose answers have been featured on this episode, join Jevonnah’s Thrive! group on Facebook.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive! group
The Thrive Mastermind
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Marie Forleo
The Entrepreneurial First Lady Episode 6 (discussing the Two Chairs)
Miracle Morning
Today’s episode will be all about ladies of leadership, and their influence and impact on my life. I can’t wait to hear about the women who have impacted your life, too! Let me know all about them by scrolling down at this link.
The first woman I want to talk about is my incredible mom. She’s my best friend, my hero, and an absolutely phenomenal leader in every single way. When I think of a leading lady or an extraordinary woman who knows how to overcome obstacles and heartache, I think of my mom. She’s the reason that I’m the woman who I am today.
Next up is my best friend Kim. She’s been there for me ever since I can remember, encouraging me and telling the truth. I’ll never forget the moment that I walked out of the hospital doors as my mom was being wheeled into surgery for her cancer, and unexpectedly saw Kim waiting there for me with open arms.
Barbara McCoo-Lewis is another amazing woman who I’ve been blessed to have in my life. She has done so much not only for me, but also for women all over the country. Speaking of amazing leading ladies, I can’t possibly leave First Lady Mae Lawrence Blake off the list! She’s a classy, phenomenal woman and a true leading lady.
I’d also like to take a moment to honor the kind, loving, real, genuine, open, wonderful Joanne Miller. She’s an artist, painter, mother, coach, and leader, as well as the author of the book Creating a Haven of Peace.
My big sister has always listened to me and been there for me. She’s the big sister who every baby sister would want. But keep in mind that the leading ladies who have impacted your life don’t need to be women you’ve met. Michelle Obama is absolutely one of the ladies who have impacted me, but I haven’t yet had the honor of meeting her. I can’t wait to hear about your own leading ladies, so please don’t forget to submit a comment!
In This Episode:
[00:49] - Jevonnah introduces the topic of today’s episode, and encourages listeners to be confident in their ability to impact others’ lives.
[02:26] - Today’s listener shoutout goes to my friend Jeff Long, who helps entrepreneurs build their courses at Online Course Coach! For a chance of getting your own shoutout on a future episode, leave a rating and review on iTunes.
[04:05] - Jevonnah shares a question she received from a listener about the Thrive! group on Facebook a couple weeks ago, and offers an answer.
[05:45] - Today’s episode is a way of saying “thank you” to some amazing ladies who have impacted Jevonnah’s life in a major way.
[06:12] - The first woman who has impacted Jevonnah’s life is her mom.
[06:57] - Jevonnah’s best friend Kim is another incredible woman.
[07:58] - Next up on Jevonnah’s list is Barbara McCoo-Lewis.
[09:35] - We hear about Jevonnah’s next lady of leadership, First Lady Mae Lawrence Blake.
[10:32] - Joanne Miller, wife of Dan Miller of 48 Days, is another of Jevonnah’s ladies!
[11:47] - Jevonnah’s big sister absolutely belongs on the list too.
[12:32] - While Jevonnah hasn’t (yet!) met her in person, Michelle Obama is also on her list.
[13:24] - Jevonnah invites listeners to take a look back at the leading ladies who have helped them to reach the place where they are today. Be sure to let Jevonnah know about your own leading ladies by submitting a comment at this link!
[14:04] - We hear a letter to the world that Jevonnah hopes will inspire you to go become a leading lady to someone else.
[17:36] - Jevonnah hopes her story speaks to you and encourages you to live your life in a way that inspires others to live theirs extraordinarily.
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Barbara McCoo-Lewis
Church of God in Christ
48 Days
Creating a Haven of Peace by Joanne Miller
Michelle Obama
It’s so important for you to understand that you don’t need to run yourself into the ground trying to be successful. It’s okay to rest and feel refreshed! Tune into this episode to learn some very practical ways that you can prevent burnout as a successful leading lady.
I recently read In the Grip of Grace by Max Lucado. What I loved about this book is that it makes clear that you will never be called upon to give anyone more grace than God has already given you. Isn’t that powerful? As a high-achieving leading lady, you love to get things done and have accomplishment running through your veins. But remember that God’s love for you isn’t based on your wins or accomplishments. It’s there simply because he loves us.
What this means is that it’s okay to slow down. Life is full of fumbles and stumbles, Max points out, and it’s okay to take care of yourself and stop pushing. You can fall into the endless, refreshing grace of God. Imagine being love-driven instead of self-propelled! This is what can happen when you abandon your life to Jesus.
To help you on your way to experiencing this grace and avoiding pushing yourself too hard, I’ve created a powerful 12-step anti-burnout strategy. Ready to learn what the 12 steps are?
- Say “no.”
- Prioritize what’s important.
- Work out!
- Devotions.
- Be graciously honest.
- Focus on your circles of influence.
- Take a “me” day.
- Stick to the plan.
- Block your time.
- Identify your top three priorities.
- Focus on your goals
- Take long walks.
In This Episode:
[00:48] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to this episode and introduces its topic: how to stay refreshed and rested as a successful leading lady. She then recommends her Coaching Course, as well as the amazing Thrive! group on Facebook.
[02:40] - Today’s listener shoutout goes to enocrepreneur, who left a wonderful review! If you want a shoutout in a future episode, leave a rating and review on iTunes.
[03:42] - Jevonnah recently finished reading In the Grip of Grace by Max Lucado.
[04:54] - This book will help you to slow down, Jevonnah points out.
[06:39] - Jevonnah shares the story of the time that she asked her mom what her name meant and learned that its meaning is “God is gracious.”
[07:10] - We hear the first three steps of Jevonnah’s 12-step anti-burnout strategy. (See above for the full list of her 12 steps!)
[09:00] - Jevonnah shares steps four through eight of her 12-step strategy.
[10:11] - We learn about the final four steps of Jevonnah’s anti-burnout strategy, and why each is so important.
[12:41] - Jevonnah points out that you need to make sure you’re doing work that you love.
[13:28] - We hear a quick recap of the 12 steps.
[14:08] - Jevonnah mentions the topic of next week’s episode, and invites listeners to share the ladies of leadership who have impacted their lives by submitting a comment at this link!
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Jevonnah Ellison
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The Thrive Mastermind
The Coaching Course
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In the Grip of Grace by Max Lucado
Tools of the Titans by Tim Ferriss
Ready to dive into some listeners’ stories about when people went above and beyond to show that they care? If so, tune in for this amazing episode! You can do for one what you wish you could do for many. I want you to feel confident in your gifts and free to love others, and I think that’s exactly what this episode will inspire you to do!
To say that you care is one thing. To show that you care is quite another. With that in mind, I asked my community one simple question about their fondest memories of times that someone showed that they care. In this episode, I’ll explore the amazing stories that were shared in response! Edwin, a cancer survivor, talks about how much various acts of kindness meant during his sickness. Teresa shares how meaningful a friend’s message was. Another listener stayed in a friend’s house for years while battling cancer, while another shares a touching story about her late husband and a famous singer.
While some of these stories are deeply meaningful expressions of gratitude for kindness given during times of struggle, others are simply about the little things that make every day brighter! Tanya, for example, talks about a coworker who gave her enough yogurt for breakfast each day this week. Isn’t that great? It’s not only the big things that matter; every act of kindness is a chance for gratitude and appreciation.
I’ll wrap up the episode with two stories about experiences of my own involving intentional love. It was a powerful reminder for me of what can happen when you listen to the Holy Spirit. After all, the best things in life aren’t things; they’re the relationships and impact you have, and the way other people feel around you. Those things are what will truly make a difference!
In This Episode:
[00:45] - Jevonnah talks about today’s inspirational subject of listeners’ stories, and shares some words of wisdom.
[01:49] - We hear today’s listener shout-out to Michael McGreevy, who left a fantastic review on iTunes!
[04:07] - It’s time to get into the content! Jevonnah shares the premise question: “What are some of your most fond memories of when someone went out of their way to show that they care?”
[08:04] - Jevonnah talks about the difference between saying that you care and showing that you care.
[10:25] - We hear more stories of gratitude, one from a woman who was then living in Greece and another featuring Lady J herself!
[11:48] - Are you ready to share your own story of someone who showed you that they cared? If so, head to this page to tell Jevonnah your story!
[12:08] - Jevonnah wraps things up with a story of intentional love that she was able to offer to a stranger when he desperately needed it.
[14:55] - We hear one other powerful story from Jevonnah, this time about an experience she had while caring for her mother who had cancer.
[16:47] - What can you do to make a difference in the life of someone today? How can you make a difference for others?
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
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The Thrive Mastermind
The Coaching Course
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Michael McGreevy
Has your life ever been interrupted by a tragedy or something that you didn’t see coming? Surprisingly, the most trying seasons of your life can turn out to be your biggest blessings in disguise.
This is something I learned while I was caring for my mom as she went through chemo. The process helped me to get clearer in my business and life than ever before. As you listen to today’s episode, you’ll hear something I wrote called “The Little Box of Prayers.” I’ll share some of my distinct memories from that time, and talk about some of the helpful, generous-hearted people who God put in my path when I needed them most.
As my mom left the hospital, the doctors and nurses gave her a standing ovation and thanked her. Even in her weakness, my mom was strong enough to encourage others. Isn’t that incredible? That’s something I believe we all need to take to heart. Even when we don’t feel like putting one foot in front of the other, there’s something deep down inside of you that will help you persist and use my gifts to God’s glory and to encourage other people.
My business grew incredibly during that time of honestly sharing about what I was going through. My email list grew, and I got amazing followers who are still with me today. I learned that you never know what sharing authentically and transparently will do not only for you, but also for those who look up to you.
I want to encourage you to be in awe of God’s glory and to stop to notice and appreciate the little things. What can you be in awe of today? We often ask God to change our situation, but he may be using our situation to change us. So rest in the grip of God’s grace, knowing that when He interrupts your life, it’s for a good reason.
In This Episode:
[00:48] - Jevonnah introduces today’s subject, and reassures listeners that everything is going to be alright.
[02:32] - We hear about Jevonnah’s brand-new signature course, The Coaching Course.
[04:20] - Today’s listener shout-out goes to Jamie, who left a wonderful review on iTunes! If you want a shot at getting mentioned on the show, leave a rating and review on iTunes. If you have a question you’d like to hear answered on the show, scroll down at the following link to ask Jevonnah a question.
[06:18] - Jevonnah digs into how her mother’s cancer gave her major clarity in her business.
[10:13] - We hear some of Jevonnah’s clear memories from the time of her mother’s illness.
[12:43] - We learn about what happened as Jevonnah’s mom left the hospital.
[14:02] - Jevonnah talks about the impact that her mom’s illness had on her business.
[14:54] - Jevonnah shares some words of wisdom, and encourages caretakers to take care of themselves too. You can’t take care of someone else if you’re lacking in your own needs.
[15:42] - One day on her way to the hospital, Jevonnah noticed a little girl with an expression of astonishment. Jevonnah shares the story and the powerful lesson that she learned from the experience.
[18:12] - Jevonnah hopes that you’ve found today’s episode impactful, inspiring, and encouraging.
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The Entrepreneurial Family Man
Today we’ll be talking about winning and quitting. You’ve probably heard that “winners never quit,” but the truth is that the best winners among us quit all the time. Surprised? Ready to learn more? Tune in!
Here’s what I mean: winners quit things that aren’t working, that are draining them, or that aren’t in their zone of genius. It’s absolutely okay to pivot. I want you to really think about what you’ll take into the new year, and what you’ll leave behind. You have the freedom to do that, and you don’t need to feel guilty for your decisions.
In today’s episode, I’ll share some real-world strategies from Michael Hyatt that can help you figure out whether to persist on your goals, pivot to different goals, or quit altogether. First, you need to identify why you’re stuck! There are seven things to consider to figure this out:
- Maybe you have a divided focus. Narrow your focus to 2-3 goals per quarter.
- Perhaps you’ve lost visibility of the goal. Take time daily or weekly to review your goals.
- A change of circumstances might have happened. If this is the case, go through Jevonnah’s five R’s: rejoice, recommit, revise, remove, or replace your goal.
- You might have a decline in motivation. It’s time to review and revise your motivation!
- Maybe you experienced failure to launch. If this is why you’re stuck, create an activation trigger.
- You might be experiencing a decline in energy. Make sure that you’re following the rhythm of refreshing.
- You may have a delay of achievement and be wondering if you can finish. When I hit that wall, I take charge of my thinking and my mind.
Tune into this episode to learn more about all of this, and how you can absolutely do all things through Christ, even if that means persisting past exhaustion or heartache.
In This Episode:
[00:49] - Jevonnah introduces what she’ll be talking about today: how to know when it’s time to persist or quit.
[01:38] - We hear a couple of powerful things to keep in mind. First, “every good thing is not a God thing.” Next, “we often ask God to change our situation, not knowing that He put us in that situation to change us.” Wow!
[02:58] - Jevonnah gives a shout-out to today’s amazing iTunes listener, Nicole! Want to get mentioned on the show? Leave a rating and review on iTunes! If you have a question you’d like featured on the show, go to this page, scroll down, and submit your question.
[04:02] - We dig into today’s content, starting with how to know whether it’s time to persist on your goals, pivot, or quit altogether.
[06:57] - If you’ve had major life changes, use Jevonnah’s five R’s to adjust your approach: rejoice, recommit, revise, remove, or replace.
[08:33] - Jevonnah talks about the fourth and fifth steps in figuring out why you’re stuck.
[10:17] - Possibility #6 for why you’re stuck is that you might be experiencing a decline in energy.
[11:41] - We learn about the 7th and final possibility for why you may be stuck.
[13:18] - Jevonnah shares the quit-proof question: “Would I still be glad if I accomplish this in six months?”
[13:54] - Jevonnah encourages listeners to read The Traveler’s Gift by Andy Andrews, and shares a powerful quote from the book.
[16:02] - Jevonnah takes a moment to express her gratitude that you joined her this week, and shares her hope that the episode has been hugely impactful for you.
Links and Resources:
Jevonnah Ellison
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Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive! group on Facebook
The Thrive Mastermind
The Coaching Course
Ask Jevonnah a question
Michael Hyatt
ThinkUp app
Dave Ramsey’s 7 Baby Steps
The Traveler’s Gift by Andy Andrews
Whether you’re already looking ahead to 2019 or not thinking that far ahead yet, this is the episode for you!
Today’s episode will explore how you can have the ultimate plan for a successful running head start for 2019. My hope is that you’ll feel empowered, edified, and equipped after you listen, and ready to take next year by storm! Before we get into that, though, I want to share something exciting with you! My brand new signature program, The Coaching Course, is now available! It’s a practical way for you to get more clients and sales, and to grow your coaching business.
Now, back to planning for 2019! The ultimate plan for a successful head start for the new year starts with asking yourself three questions and filling in the blanks:
- “2019 is the year that I ______.” In other words, what will you do in 2019? What will next year mark for you?
- “If _____ doesn’t happen in 2019, the year will be so-so instead of wow!” What is the thing that will make 2019 an amazing year for you? Having clear priorities helps you identify what’s most important to you.
- “If I can accomplish one major thing next year, it’s ______.” What is the thing that you can and will accomplish in 2019?
Once you have your goals clear, you can move into the ultimate plan to success that will help you to achieve any goal that you set your mind to. It’s a ten-step process:
- Know what you want, and ask for it.
- Know why you want it.
- Believe it’s possible!
- Decide that you must achieve the goal.
- Write it down.
- Keep your goals visible.
- Tell your goal to others.
- Take massive action now.
- Evaluate your results.
- Change your approach if needed.
Tune into the episode to learn more about these questions and steps, and how following them can help you create an incredible 2019 that may well be your best year yet!
In This Episode:
[00:48] - Jevonnah introduces today’s topic, and shares her hopes for listeners.
[01:29] - We hear about Jevonnah’s new signature program, The Coaching Course.
[01:57] - Today’s listener shout-out goes to Teresa McCloy, who left an awesome review on iTunes. When you leave a rating and review on iTunes, you may get a shoutout in a future episode!
[02:44] - Jevonnah loves answering listener questions on the show. If you have one, ask Jevonnah a question on this page.
[03:19] - We hear the ultimate plan for a successful head start on 2019.
[05:39] - Having shared the three foundational questions, Jevonnah moves into more of the ultimate plan for success with ten steps for success.
[08:25] - We hear more of the ten-step process in Jevonnah’s ultimate plan for success.
[11:19] - Step 8 is to take massive action now. Jevonnah talks more about what this means, and what it can look like.
[14:34] - Jevonnah talks about steps 9 (evaluate your results) and 10 (change your approach if needed).
[15:59] - Jevonnah runs through a quick review of the 10-step process.
[17:37] - Don’t forget to head to Jevonnah’s site to keep learning, subscribe to the podcast, and more!
Links and Resources:
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The Coaching Course
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When you hear about going deeper with less, don’t you just feel better? It opens up the idea of possibilities even in a world where all of us are overwhelmed with things to do both personally and professionally. If you’re not careful, everything you need to do can leave your mind spinning! This is why it’s so important that we are intentional about going deeper with less.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn all about my intentional three-step system for going deeper with less. Here are the three steps you’ll hear about:
- Reflect. Sit down with your thoughts in a quiet space and answer this question: “Do I really need all of this?”
- Refresh. When you’re going deeper with less, you need to refresh both your mind and spirit. Take time to relax, whatever that means to you!
- Recommit! If you’re going to go deeper with less, you need to recommit to what you’re going to go deeper with.
Tune in to learn more about this system and each of the three steps, as well as my strategies for making sure that I get the most out of my books, some powerful opportunities for you (including my Facebook group Thrive! and my Leading Ladies Mastermind), how going deeper with less can simplify your life, why it’s so important to take time for yourself, and more!
In This Episode:
[00:46] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners to episode 7 of the podcast, and shares her appreciation for listeners.
[01:15] - We hear more about what Jevonnah will explore in this episode. Jevonnah then gives a shout-out to a listener who left a review for the podcast!
[02:27] - Today’s show is brought to you by Jevonnah’s Leading Ladies Mastermind! If you’re a lady in business and leadership who wants to maximize your potential, check out this group.
[03:01] - Jevonnah talks about just why it’s so important to be intentional about going deeper with less.
[04:00] - We hear Jevonnah’s three-step system. The first step is to reflect and create mental bandwidth for yourself.
[05:53] - Be selective and reflect on whether you really need all the things you have, Jevonnah urges.
[07:13] - Jevonnah shares a practice that she does that involves labeling books.
[08:21] - Part of going deeper with less means not looking at the grass on the other side.
[08:52] - Jevonnah talks about her Facebook group Thrive!
[09:27] - The second step in Jevonnah’s three-step system is to refresh.
[10:44] - The third and final step in Jevonnah’s system is to recommit.
[11:39] - Jevonnah takes a moment to go back and review each of the three steps in her system. She then talks about what she knows about you, her listener.
[13:18] - Jevonnah would love to hear from you! Head to this link and scroll down to ask her a question, which may be featured in a future episode.
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So, what’s my secret? It’s two chairs. If you’re not familiar with the concept already from the excellent book 2 Chairs by Bob Beaudine, this probably sounds a little cryptic, but let me explain. You set up two chairs in whatever place where you have your quiet time. These chairs should be facing each other, as if you’re setting up to have a meeting for someone (because that’s exactly what you’re doing).
You sit in one of the chairs, and then you allow the Spirit of God to sit in the other. The way I see it, God is first in our businesses, and Jesus Christ is the CEO. We get our wisdom, direction, and leadership from Him. Especially as you become successful in business, you begin to ask yourself whether you can sustain this level of success and performance. The answer is that by ourselves, no, we can’t -- we need God’s strength! In our weakness, he is made strong.
In these times, two chairs asks three vital questions:
- Does God know your situation?
- Is it too hard for Him to handle?
- Does He have a good plan for you?
I hope you know the answers to all of these! If you have any doubts, tune into the episode to learn what they are. You’ll also learn how to use the two chairs system, why it’s so important to give Him longer to speak than you take, which Scripture is making a huge difference in my life these days, and more!
In This Episode:
[00:47] - Jevonnah welcomes listeners and takes a moment to share her appreciation.
[01:22] - We learn more about the practice that has changed everything for Jevonnah: two chairs.
[02:39] - Jevonnah explains how you can use the two chairs practice, and why it’s important.
[03:41] - We hear a quote from the book 2 Chairs by Bob Beaudine, and Jevonnah explores how it relates to this concept.
[04:35] - Two chairs asks three vital questions. Jevonnah digs into what they are.
[05:59] - Jevonnah encourages listeners to do two things. First, get a copy of the book. Second, set up your own two chairs, then leave a comment on iTunes as a review to let her know how that simple practice is changing your life!
[07:58] - Today’s show is brought to you by the Leading Ladies Mastermind, Jevonnah’s business accelerator.
[08:45] - Jevonnah shares the Scripture that is making a huge difference in her life, and may make a difference in yours too.
[10:51] - Jevonnah takes a moment to pray with listeners.
[11:54] - Thank you for taking the time to listen to today’s show! Don’t forget to subscribe to receive future episodes, and please leave a review on iTunes!
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Leading Ladies Mastermind
2 Chairs: The Secret That Changes Everything by Bob Beaudine
Joshua 1:9
Psalm 32:8
Are you truly a pro?
Your immediate answer might be “yes,” but let’s explore a little more deeply. At what point in your career did you become a pro? I’m careful with that word, because the way I see it, none of us has truly arrived yet. There’s always something to learn, no matter how successful we are and how many wins we have. Instead of saying I’m a pro, I like to say I’m a pro at learning! After all, constantly learning is a requirement of being a pro.
I asked this question of my audience, and they had some fantastic answers. David Hancock, for example, said, “I am always a student in a never-ending quest” and offered the example of a seagull searching for food in endless circles, even after it has already eaten. Edwin says, “When you stop learning is when you start dying, so keep learning.” Tune into the episode for many more incredible answers and insights.
If all of this inspires you to keep learning (and it should!), here’s a powerful piece of advice for you: surround yourself with people who you admire and who will challenge you to grow and thrive. When you change the people who you surround yourself with, you’ll rise to their level.
Listen in today to hear more about how you can grow into the person you have the potential to be, why we all have room for growth, the moving perspective that the incredible Bishop Charles Blake provides, why it’s so important to be selective about what you choose to learn, and much more. I look forward to continuing to walk along this path with you as you become the person you’re destined to be!
In This Episode:
[01:11] - Jevonnah introduces the topic of today’s episode and explains why she’s careful with the word “pro.”
[03:18] - We hear some of the responses that Jevonnah got to her question “are you a pro?”.
[05:59] - Even as we continue to reach new levels of success, none of us ever fully arrives. There’s always something else to learn. Jevonnah offers the example of getting open-heart surgery to illustrate this point.
[06:47] - Jevonnah advises listeners to get a coach if they don’t have one already, and talks about the importance of spending time with the right people.
[08:22] - Jevonnah shares more answers that people have shared to her question about learning and being a pro. She also addresses the importance of taking action.
[10:40] - We hear more powerful and inspirational responses from Jevonnah’s audience.
[12:27] - Jevonnah gives a shout-out to her bishop, Bishop Charles Blake of West Angeles Church.
[14:25] - We hear a saddening statistic that Jevonnah heard recently about how few people read books after they graduate high school.
[16:08] - Jevonnah talks about being selective about what you choose to learn.
[17:27] - We move onto a few final comments in response to Jevonnah’s question.
[18:34] - Something Jevonnah does is to schedule what she calls a “journal sabbath” on her calendar every Sunday after church.
[20:33] - Thanks for tuning into today’s show, and please don’t forget to subscribe to hear a new episode every week!
Links and Resources:
- Jevonnah Ellison
- Jevonnah Ellison on LinkedIn
- @JevonnahEllison on Twitter
- Jevonnah Ellison on Facebook
- Jevonnah Ellison’s Thrive! group on Facebook
- David Hancock
- Morgan James Publishing
- Performance Driven Thinking by David Hancock and Bobby Kipper
- Leading Ladies Mastermind
- John Maxwell
- Bishop Charles Blake
- West Angeles Church
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Now, today's podcast is super special and near and dear to my heart because about maybe two-and-a-half months ago, I sat down, had some quiet time, and just really began to write down some of my top lessons learned from my business journey.
In fact, it was on my birthday not too long ago. I began to write as I celebrated my birthday, I looked back on all the ways that God has protected, kept, comforted, and led me in the way that I should go.
I know that's so true for many of you listening.
For any level of success that we've been blessed to achieve, He enabled it. We can plant the seed, but it's up to Him to send the rain.
For my health, life, and strength, He gave it, and for my being, He made it.
I had to stop and pause and give Him glory for another year of life. He didn't have to do it, but I'm so glad He did.
With that being said, I just began to really think about some of my top lessons learned, and I'm going to share those with you today.
My hope, my prayer is you'd be able to take these, implement them in your own life, and really use them to your advantage.
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As a leading lady, it's so important that you are someone who knows how to give space and attention to other people.
I'm reading a book by leading lady Vanessa Van Edwards. The name of her book is called Captivate. It's an incredible book about how to become the most fascinating and interesting person in the room.
Today's podcast is brought to you by the Leading Ladies Mastermind.
It is my Mastermind and Business Accelerator for women who are at the top of their field and coaches, business coaches, leading coaches, who really wanna experience a whole new level of success in their life and business.
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Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People
Leading Ladies Mastermind
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If you haven't listened to episode number one about the foundation of the podcast and what it's all about, and what in the world entrepreneurial first lady even means, go back and listen to that short episode so that you can get a brief introduction about what's coming down the pipeline. But today we're talking all about three things that every leading lady should know.
"You need to flex your no anointing. Flex your no muscle." -Priscilla Shirer
Ben Franklin close: Take a sheet of paper and write down whatever the decision at the top, and then make two columns on the page. On one column you're going to put the pros, and the other column you're going to put the cons. Then you simply give yourself a two week deadline to make a decision on whether or not you're going to say yes or no to that.
Resources
Dan Miller- Career Coach and Author of 48 Days to the Work You Love
Jared Angaza - Brand Architect
Jodey Smith - Podcast Coach
Brendon Burchard - High Performance Academy
Leading Ladies Mastermind
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Today's show is all about laying the foundation. I'm gonna be talking about who I am, what I do, and what you can expect from this podcast.
We're gonna be talking about the meaning of the Entrepreneurial First Lady. And we're also gonna talk about why I started it.
I started the Entrepreneurial First Lady podcast because I sensed that there were so many women who were at the top of their field who were already experiencing great levels of success either in their business, or their personal life, or even in their own companies.
But they still dealt with a certain level of challenge on the other side.
There were women who aspired to be at the top of their field. So I wanted to create a place, a safe place where women could come, and a handful of awesome men as well.
Where you could come and be inspired, encouraged, edified, equipped and empowered to live our your God given purpose to really maximize your potential. And also to expand your influence.
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