We are Stephen and Lori Saux and welcome to the If We Knew Then Podcast. We are parents of two children and one of them has Down Syndrome, Liam. When Liam was born we didn’t know very much about Down Syndrome and most of the information we did have didn’t seem very hopeful and positive. Well this podcast aims to share honest and useful conversations about supports, therapies, education and society as it pertains to Down syndrome advocacy and parenting. WEBSITE: https://ifweknewthen.com
Back to school can bring excitement, but for but for caregivers of students with Down syndrome, it often brings anxiety.
Before the first day, many parents are already thinking about IEP meetings, accommodations that weren’t followed and how to ensure their child is supported and included. Back-to-school season isn’t just about new routines, it’s about advocacy, communication and making sure access to education is in place from day one.
In this episode, we talk about the back-to-school anxiety no one talks about: the pressure of IEPs, challenges with the school and the reality our families face each school year. If you’re preparing for a new school year with an IEP, this conversation will help you feel seen, prepared and less alone.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wpcomstaging.com/2026/08/08/207-the-back-to-school-anxiety-no-one-talks-about-in-special-education/2/
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SUMMARY:
In this episode of If We Knew Then, Stephen and Lori Saux open up about the back-to-school season and the anxiety that so often comes with it for families navigating Down syndrome and special education. While many families are preparing backpacks and meeting new teachers with excitement, parents of children with disabilities are often carrying something much heavier: the responsibility of ensuring their child’s needs will be understood, respected, and consistently met.
Stephen and Lori reflect on how back-to-school has evolved for their family over the years, shaped by both positive experiences and ongoing challenges within the education system. They share the emotional and logistical realities of preparing for a new school year when an IEP (Individualized Education Program) is involved by reviewing goals, anticipating potential gaps in support and bracing for the need to advocate early and often.
The conversation highlights a truth many families know well: access to education for children with disabilities is not automatic. It requires vigilance, communication and, at times, confrontation. From accommodations not being followed to inclusion efforts falling short, the unpredictability of how a school year will unfold can create a persistent sense of unease. That anxiety doesn’t come from a lack of hope and it comes from experience.
At the same time, this episode is not without encouragement. Stephen and Lori emphasize the importance of building collaborative relationships with educators, staying grounded in what their child needs to succeed and remembering that advocacy is not adversarial, it’s essential. They also acknowledge the growth that comes with time: learning how to prepare, when to push and how to celebrate progress, even when it feels hard won.
This conversation offers validation for parents and caregivers who may feel isolated in these experiences. It names the often unspoken emotions that surface during back-to-school season and reminds listeners that they are not alone in navigating them. For those new to the journey, it provides insight into what to expect; for seasoned advocates, it reinforces the shared reality of doing this work year after year.
Ultimately, this episode is about more than anxiety. It’s about resilience and the unwavering commitment to ensuring every child is seen, supported and included.
In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Mona Patel Gera from Children’s Hospital Los Angeles and talk through the “laundry list” that comes with a Down syndrome diagnosis. We keep it practical, focusing on what families actually need to ask and what requires attention early on, drawing from the same appointments and evaluations we’ve navigated with Liam.
Dr. Gera also shares her connection to Liam through her son, Sejal, who was in his first grade class. She tells us about Sejal coming home talking about “adaptive PE,” describing how they worked on balance together and later insisting on “no dis-inclusion” after Lori visited the class. Those are moments we don’t always get to see, since Liam doesn’t come home and tell us his day.
We also get into IEPs and the need to move away from standard plans. Dr. Gera attends these meetings for her patients and we compare that to what we’ve experienced advocating for Liam, where the details matter and one plan never fits every child.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wpcomstaging.com/2026/07/23/206-a-pediatrician-answers-all-your-down-syndrome-questions/
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Summary
In this episode, we sat down with Dr. Mona Patel Gera from Children’s Hospital Los Angeles, and we opened with something every parent recognizes: that long list that comes with a Down syndrome diagnosis. We said it out loud the way we remember hearing it in those early days, a “laundry list” that can take the air out of the room. Dr. Gera didn’t rush past that. She walked through what that list actually means in practice, what questions to ask, and how to separate what needs attention now from what simply needs to be monitored. We’ve had enough appointments with Liam over the years to know the difference between urgency and noise, and this conversation stayed grounded in that reality.
What made this conversation different is that Dr. Gera knows Liam outside of a chart. Her son, Sejal, was in first grade with him. She told us about the day Sejal came home talking about “adaptive PE,” using language she usually hears in a clinical setting. He described bouncing a large ball back and forth with Liam and working on balance, and she stopped in her tracks because that overlap between her professional world and her child’s classroom rarely shows up that clearly. We’ve sat in plenty of IEP meetings where those same services are discussed in abstract terms, so hearing it come back through a six-year-old’s voice landed differently.
She also shared something we hadn’t heard before. After Lori went into the class to talk about Down syndrome, Sejal started using the phrase “no dis-inclusion.” He kept repeating it at school, insisting that kids couldn’t be left out just because they didn’t know the rules of a game. We didn’t know that moment had stuck with him. Liam doesn’t come home and tell us these stories, and we’ve learned over time that a lot of his day lives outside our view. Hearing how another child understood friendship with Liam filled in a gap we didn’t know was there.
We spent time on inclusion from both sides. Dr. Gera talked about the “bi-directional” value she sees as a pediatrician, and we recognized that immediately because we’ve watched it happen in Liam’s classrooms. She attends IEP meetings for her patients and pushes against what she called “cookie cutter plans.” We’ve sat across from teams where the same template gets reused, and we’ve also seen what happens when someone takes the time to individualize goals and services. She was specific about looking at each child’s skill set and matching therapies to that child, not the system.
By the end of the conversation, we weren’t trying to simplify anything. The list still exists. The school system still requires advocacy. But sitting with someone who has written IEPs, treated patients with Down syndrome, and watched her own son learn alongside Liam gave the whole discussion a kind of clarity we respect. It sounded like real life because it is.
In this episode we speak with Micah Kessel, founder of Playground of Empathy and creator of Empathable, a project designed to help people experience perspectives different from their own. The conversation focuses on what inclusion actually means beyond the word itself, and why many current approaches fail to create real belonging.
Micah explains how most inclusion efforts rely on rules or negative messaging, rather than lived experience and emotional connection. He shares his work in designing immersive experiences that allow participants to “walk in someone else’s shoes,” not to fully understand another person’s life, but to recognize that their experiences are just as real and valid.
We connect this idea to our own advocacy, especially in education, where inclusion is often discussed but not consistently practiced. We talk about how language, perspective and emotional awareness shape the way people show up for one another, and how empathy can shift interactions, even in difficult situations like fighting for a child’s rights.
This episode explores the role of emotional education, the limits of traditional definitions of empathy and the importance of creating environments where differences are not just accommodated, but recognized as valid.
Empathable: https://empathable.com
Playground of Empathy: https://empathable.com/playground/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wpcomstaging.com/2026/07/15/205-if-inclusion-is-the-goal-why-are-so-many-still-left-out/2/
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Summary
In this episode of If We Knew Then, Stephen and Lori Saux sit down with Micah Kessel, founder of Playground of Empathy and creator of Empathable, to examine what inclusion actually looks like in practice—and why so many current efforts fall short. What begins as a conversation about “inclusive playgrounds” quickly shifts into a deeper discussion about the difference between accessibility, inclusion, and true belonging.
Micah explains that many inclusion programs rely on rules, compliance, or negative messaging—telling people what not to do—rather than creating meaningful understanding. He shares that most approaches treat inclusion as a concept to be learned, instead of an experience to be felt. His work focuses on immersive, emotion-centered design that allows people to encounter perspectives different from their own. The goal is not to fully understand someone else’s experience, which he notes is impossible, but to recognize that their experience is just as valid as your own.
Stephen and Lori connect this to their own journey advocating for their son Liam, especially within the education system. They reflect on how often the word “inclusion” is used without a shared understanding of what it requires in practice. They discuss the gap between language and action, and how easily systems can appear supportive while still excluding students in meaningful ways.
The conversation also explores the role of language in shaping inclusion. Micah highlights the difference between directive language and invitational language—phrases that create space, curiosity, and connection. This shift, he argues, is key to fostering a sense of belonging. Lori emphasizes how powerful words have been in their advocacy, particularly in IEP meetings and school settings, where language can either open doors or quietly limit opportunity.
A central idea in the episode is redefining empathy. Rather than viewing empathy as the ability to understand or share someone else’s feelings, Micah reframes it as the ability to recognize and validate another person’s experience. This distinction removes pressure to “get it right” and instead focuses on acknowledging that multiple realities can exist at the same time.
Throughout the episode, the discussion returns to a core question: what would change if we truly saw other people’s experiences as valid as our own? For families navigating disability, education, and advocacy, this question has real consequences. The episode offers a perspective shift—from teaching inclusion as a concept to building it through experience—and challenges listeners to reconsider how they show up for others in everyday interactions.
This week we are joined by our daughter Sophia and guests Dr. Brian Skotko and Sue Levine to talk about the sibling experience in families of individuals with Down syndrome. The conversation centers on the book "Fasten Your Seatbelt: A Crash Course on Down Syndrome for Brothers and Sisters," which was developed from real questions collected during sibling workshops.
Sophia shares her perspective as a sibling, including questions about school inclusion, peer interactions and the pressure to explain Down syndrome to others. Brian Skotko discusses growing up with a sister with Down syndrome and how access to education has changed over time, while noting that gaps still exist. Sue Levine explains her work as a social worker running sibling support groups and outlines how those programs focus on facts, feelings and problem solving.
This episode covers common experiences reported by siblings, including frustration, embarrassment and isolation, as well as the expectation that siblings should have answers for others. We discuss how sibling workshops are structured, how questions are gathered from participants and how those insights shaped the book. We also touch upon how parents can respond to sibling emotions and why allowing space for those feelings matters.
Book: https://www.amazon.com/Fasten-Your-Seatbelt-Syndrome-Brothers/dp/1890627860
Workshop for siblings: https://siblingslearnaboutdownsyndrome.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/downsyndromesibbook
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wpcomstaging.com/2026/07/05/204-siblings/2/
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Summary:
Stephen and Lori Saux are joined by their daughter Sophia and guests Dr. Brian Skotko and Sue Levine to discuss the experience of siblings of individuals with Down syndrome. The conversation is guided in part by the book "Fasten Your Seatbelt: A Crash Course on Down Syndrome for Brothers and Sisters," which was built from questions collected during sibling workshops across the United States.
Sophia leads parts of the discussion by asking questions based on her own experiences. She describes situations where peers expect her to explain her brother Liam’s behavior and diagnosis, and how that expectation can create pressure. She also talks about moments when she noticed differences in how her brother was treated in school, including times when supports were not provided. She explains that these experiences can be difficult to share with friends who do not have similar family dynamics.
Brian Skotko shares his perspective as a sibling of a sister with Down syndrome and explains how access to education has changed over the past several decades. He states that his sister did not receive the same educational opportunities he did, and while inclusion has improved, barriers still exist in both K-12 and postsecondary settings. Sue Levine describes her work as a social worker and co-founder of a nonprofit in New Jersey that provides early intervention and family support. She explains that her sibling workshops include participants with siblings who have a range of disabilities, with Down syndrome and autism being the most common.
The guests explain how the book was developed using real questions submitted anonymously by siblings during workshops. These questions address topics that siblings may hesitate to ask at home. The workshops and the book focus on three areas: providing accurate information about Down syndrome, creating space to discuss emotions, and offering strategies for problem solving.
A significant part of the discussion centers on common emotional experiences for siblings. These include frustration, embarrassment, guilt, and feeling isolated. The guests state that these reactions are typical and should be acknowledged rather than corrected in the moment. They recommend that parents allow siblings to experience emotions as they happen and revisit those moments later to talk through them. They also note that siblings may sometimes distance themselves in public situations, and that this behavior can be a way to cope rather than a sign of rejection.
The episode also addresses the role of educators and how classroom environments influence peer understanding. Sue Levine gives an example of a classroom where students did not initially identify the child with Down syndrome, which she attributes to effective inclusion practices. In contrast, the hosts describe experiences where a lack of support or understanding from educators affected both Liam and Sophia.
The conversation emphasizes that sibling experiences vary but often include shared patterns. The guests highlight the value of connecting siblings with others who have similar experiences, either through workshops or structured programs. They explain that these connections help reduce isolation and provide practical ways to handle common situations.
This week we talk with attorney and parent advocate May Mallari about what happens when expectations are set too early in a child’s education. We were drawn to her because her son, Devin, was placed on an alternate curriculum in elementary school but still earned a high school diploma. A path once thought to be unattainable. In this episode we discuss what to ask for and what to question because the information families are given is not always complete. This is a great conversation about knowing your options, understanding how decisions are made and asking better questions before paths are set.
May is Founder and Principal of the Mallari Law Firm and has nearly 3 decades of experience representing workers exclusively in the area of labor and employment matters.
Mallari Law Group: https://mallarilawgroup.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wpcomstaging.com/2026/06/24/203-a-high-school-diploma-is-attainable-may-mallari/2/
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Summary:
This episode of If We Knew Then features attorney and parent advocate May Mallari, who discusses education decisions for students with Down syndrome and how early assumptions can shape long-term outcomes. Mallari’s son, Devin, was placed on an alternate curriculum starting in elementary school but later earned a standard high school diploma. Hosts, Stephen and Lori Saux, focus on how that outcome challenged expectations that are often set early in a child’s education.
Mallari explains that Individualized Education Program meetings were consistent and collaborative in her experience within the Los Angeles Unified School District, though she describes the structure of those meetings as starting from a deficit-based perspective. She notes that discussions often begin with what a child cannot do, which can influence decisions about placement and curriculum.
The conversation examines how curriculum placement decisions are made and how they affect access to a diploma. Lori Saux explains that her family pushed to keep their son on a general education curriculum because of the connection between coursework and post-secondary options. Mallari’s experience with Devin shows that placement on an alternate track does not always prevent a student from later meeting diploma requirements, though that path is not typically presented to families at the outset.
Mallari outlines the importance of asking specific questions during IEP meetings, including how decisions will affect long-term outcomes such as graduation status. She emphasizes that families are not always given complete information about available options or the consequences of early placement decisions. She encourages parents to request clarity about how curriculum choices align with diploma eligibility.
The discussion also covers transition planning after age 18. Mallari describes a gap in structured support once students exit the school system. She explains that services become less defined and families must take a more active role in identifying supports. This includes decisions about conservatorship and how to structure adult services.
Mallari provides an overview of California’s Self-Determination Program through regional centers. She explains that the program allows individuals and families to direct how funding is used for services rather than relying on preset vendors. She completed training to become an independent facilitator, a role that helps families create a person-centered plan outlining needed supports. She notes that while the program offers flexibility, it can be difficult to navigate due to paperwork and administrative requirements.
Stephen and Lori relate this to their own experience, describing challenges in understanding and accessing the program despite prior exposure. Mallari states that the process begins with creating a detailed plan tailored to the individual, which is then submitted for approval. She adds that the program may be more useful as individuals reach adulthood, when educational supports are no longer in place.
Throughout the episode, the focus remains on decision-making. They all stress the need for families to understand how educational paths are set, what assumptions are being made, and how to question recommendations that may limit future options. Devin’s path to a diploma is presented as a case that contrasts with common expectations and illustrates the importance of reviewing decisions over time.
In this episode we revisit with Dr. Brian Skotko to talk about the impact of Alzheimer’s in the Down syndrome community and discuss some proactive steps that may help to improve the long-term wellness of people with Down syndrome.
Down Syndrome Brain Train: https://www.downsyndromebraintrain.com
Down Syndrome Clinic: https://www.dsc2u.org
Tar Heel Reader Book Collection: https://tarheelreader.org
Find A Nutritionist Near You: https://www.eatright.org
Dr. Brian’s Book “Fasten Your Seatbelt: A Crash Course on Down Syndrome for Brothers and Sisters”: https://www.amazon.com/Fasten-Seatbelt-Brian-Skotko-Levine/dp/1890627860
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2026/06/17/202/2/
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This episode of If We Knew Then features a returning conversation with Dr. Brian Skotko, Director of the Down Syndrome Program at Massachusetts General Hospital, focusing on Alzheimer’s disease and its impact on the Down syndrome community. Stephen and Lori Saux open the discussion by acknowledging how difficult, but necessary, it is to talk about Alzheimer’s, emphasizing that honest information empowers families to prepare, advocate, and support their loved ones.
Dr. Skotko begins by grounding the conversation in clear, evidence-based facts. While Alzheimer’s is more common in individuals with Down syndrome, it is not universal. He explains that there are no documented cases before age 35, but after that age, risk increases. Approximately 40% of individuals show signs by age 40, about 50% by age 50, and 60% by age 60. Importantly, he clarifies a widespread misconception: although nearly all individuals with Down syndrome develop the brain changes associated with Alzheimer’s (such as plaque buildup), not all will experience symptoms or dementia.
The episode highlights how Alzheimer’s presents differently in individuals with Down syndrome. Rather than memory loss as a first sign, early indicators are often behavioral—changes in routine, mood, or increased anxiety. Seizures may also precede diagnosis. This difference makes accurate diagnosis more complex and underscores the danger of “diagnostic overshadowing,” where symptoms are incorrectly attributed to Alzheimer’s instead of treatable conditions like sleep apnea or thyroid issues. Dr. Skotko stresses the importance of thorough medical evaluation and working with professionals experienced in Down syndrome care.
A key takeaway is the importance of establishing a baseline through a neuropsychological assessment around age 35. This allows families and clinicians to compare changes over time and make more accurate diagnoses. The hosts also emphasize the need to find qualified professionals who understand how to properly assess individuals with Down syndrome, as inaccurate evaluations can lead to misleading conclusions.
The conversation then shifts toward prevention and proactive strategies. Dr. Skotko introduces his “SMART” approach, beginning with Social connections and Movement. Strong social networks are linked to better brain health, reinforcing the importance of inclusion and meaningful relationships throughout life. Exercise is described as critical “medicine” for the brain, activating cells that help clear harmful plaque buildup. However, he notes that fewer than 1% of individuals with Down syndrome meet recommended exercise guidelines, pointing to systemic barriers and low expectations as contributing factors.
Stephen and Lori connect these insights back to inclusion, advocating for equal opportunities in education, social settings and physical activity. They highlight how societal assumptions about limitations can restrict access to experiences that are not only enriching, but potentially protective against cognitive decline.
Throughout the episode, the tone remains both realistic and hopeful. While acknowledging the challenges Alzheimer’s presents, the conversation centers on empowerment through accurate information, early planning, community support and intentional lifestyle choices that can improve long-term outcomes for individuals with Down syndrome.
In this episode we have a very important conversation with Dr. Stephanie Hall Meredith, a nationally recognized public health researcher, author, Down Syndrome advocate and Mother to Andy. Together we address the widespread misinformation about Down syndrome, which was spread this week by a YouTuber. This conversation aims to provide accurate, research-backed information for families receiving diagnoses and counter false narratives about life expectancy, medical conditions and quality of life.
Lettercase: https://lettercase.org/ Down Syndrome Pregnancy: https://downsyndromepregnancy.org/ Genetic Support Foundation: https://geneticsupportfoundation.org/Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2026/06/10/201-stephanie-hall-meredith/2/
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Summary:
This episode of If We Knew Then centers on a timely and necessary conversation about misinformation surrounding Down syndrome, sparked by a viral post from a YouTuber. Stephen and Lori Saux are joined by Dr. Stephanie Hall Meredith, a public health expert and longtime advocate, to unpack the harm caused by inaccurate narratives and to provide clear, evidence-based context for listeners. Especially those new to a diagnosis.
Stephen and Lori emphasize that the misinformation circulating is not new to the disability community. Many of the claims echo outdated and harmful messages that families have encountered for decades from medical professionals, educators and society at large. What is new, however, is the scale at which these ideas can spread, reaching millions and potentially shaping perceptions for people with little prior exposure to Down syndrome. While frustrating, they acknowledge that moments like this can open the door for broader public education and dialogue. Dr. Meredith shares her personal and professional perspective, highlighting how critical the diagnosis experience is for families. She contrasts her own positive introduction, supported by accurate information and peer connection, with the trauma many families report when they are given only negative or incomplete medical data. This “flashbulb memory” of diagnosis often leaves lasting emotional impact, particularly when it frames a child’s life in terms of limitations rather than possibilities.
A central theme of the episode is correcting common misconceptions. The discussion addresses misleading claims about life expectancy, miscarriage rates and quality of life. Dr. Meredith explains that many statistics are either outdated or misrepresented, noting that improvements in healthcare, inclusion and access to services have dramatically changed outcomes over the past 50 years. She stresses that the challenges individuals with Down syndrome face are often rooted not in the condition itself, but in societal barriers and lack of opportunity.
The conversation also explores the difference between the medical and social models of disability. While the medical model focuses on deficits and conditions to be managed, the social model emphasizes how environments and attitudes shape outcomes. The hosts advocate for a more balanced, human-centered approach. One that includes both medical awareness and a realistic, hopeful picture of daily life.
Throughout the episode, there is a strong call for accountability, particularly for content creators who speak about marginalized communities. The spread of misinformation, even if unintentional, can reinforce stigma and discrimination in areas like education, employment and healthcare.
Ultimately, the episode reinforces the importance of accurate information, representation and community support. It encourages families to seek out reliable resources, connect with advocacy networks, and trust in the full potential of their children. The message is clear: Down syndrome is not defined by limitations, and with the right supports and perspectives, individuals can lead rich, meaningful lives.
It's our 200th episode and we decided to talk about the most powerful gift you have as an advocate... your words. We not only discuss the words you speak, but also the words administration tries to include in an IEP. From the sneaky red flag of "when appropriate" to the loaded phrase "best of our ability," we reveal the language that puts your student at a disadvantage and what to do about it.
We address why "calculator when appropriate" is not the same as "calculator", how "best practices" and "mindful of everyone's time" are used to shut you down, what to do when someone says "not my job" and the critical difference between accommodations vs. modifications.
If you're a parent, caregiver or advocate, share this episode with someone who needs it right now.
Because education is not a favor. It's your child's RIGHT.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2026/06/03/200-the-power-of-words/2/
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Summary:
The episode opens with a Mark Twain quote that has stuck with Lori since college: the difference between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug. That distinction becomes the through line of the entire conversation, applied directly to the language parents encounter in IEP meetings. Lori and Stephen use the example of Liam's calculator accommodation to illustrate exactly how dangerous vague language can be. When the accommodation was rewritten from simply "calculator" to "calculator when appropriate," it shifted the power from Liam's documented need to an outside party's judgment call. That single phrase "when appropriate" could allow any teacher, aide, or resource person to decide a calculator isn't needed, effectively stripping Liam of a legal accommodation. They also clarify the important distinction between accommodations and modifications, emphasizing that a calculator is a tool that gives Liam access to his curriculum, not a shortcut that changes the lesson itself. The hosts also tackle other common phrases used in IEP meetings that parents should immediately recognize as red flags like "best of our ability," "as needed," "if available," and "best practices." Each of these phrases introduces ambiguity into what should be a precise, legally binding document. Lori is direct: if it isn't written clearly and specifically, it becomes a favor rather than a right, and favors can be taken away. One of the most compelling moments of the episode comes when Stephen and Lori share the reframe that changed everything in their advocacy. If Liam is failing, it isn't Liam who has failed. It is the system that has failed him. When accommodations are properly in place and the IEP is being honored, their son thrives. That shift in language, from "Liam is failing" to "Liam has been failed," changes the entire dynamic of the conversation and places accountability where it truly belongs. They also address the emotional weight of this journey honestly and with compassion, acknowledging that earlier in their advocacy they were defensive, exhausted and reactive. Over time, they have learned that listening, staying focused on the end goal, and removing ego from the room creates more change than fighting ever did. Their approach now centers on collaboration, asking "how are we going to get there?" rather than simply pointing out what isn't working. Lori and Stephen close with a reminder that the IEP document must be strong enough to stand on its own. It has to surpass the adults in the room. If every person in that meeting left tomorrow, the document alone should be clear enough to ensure Liam receives every support he is entitled to. That standard, they argue, is the only one worth accepting. This episode is an essential listen for any parent, caregiver or advocate sitting across the table in an IEP meeting, reminding us all that we have the power to choose our words and that choosing the right ones is everything.
What happens when one of the first things you’re told after a Down syndrome diagnosis is to grieve the child you didn’t have?
In this episode, we take a hard look at that phrase, where it comes from, why it’s been so widely repeated and why we feel it’s outdated and harmful. We unpack how these words can shape a parent’s mindset, feelings and the initial relationship they build with their child.
This conversation is part of a larger discussion about the kinds of advice parents often receive in those early moments. Well-meaning, perhaps, but not always aligned with the lived experiences of families raising children with Down syndrome.
We explore what needs to change and what parents actually need to hear instead. Honesty, possibility and support without assumptions.
If you’ve ever questioned the narratives surrounding disability or want to better understand how language impacts families, this episode invites you to rethink what we’ve long taken for granted
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2026/05/28/199-being-told-to-grieve-the-child-you-didnt-have/2/
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Summary:
In this episode of the If We Knew Then podcast, hosts Stephen and Lori Saux discuss the harmful and outdated advice often given to parents following a Down syndrome diagnosis: the instruction to "grieve the child you didn't have." Key themes from the discussion include: The Inappropriateness of Forced Grief: The hosts argue that telling new parents to grieve is a form of bullying that ignores the immediate reality of their child’s life and potential (0:45 - 2:20, 14:00 - 15:45).
They emphasize that this mindset can rob parents of precious time and create unnecessary, negative expectations. The hosts address the popular essay "Welcome to Holland," which compares the experience of parenting a child with a disability to taking an unexpected trip to a different country. While acknowledging the original author's intent to bring visibility to Down syndrome in 1987, the hosts find the metaphor harmful because it perpetuates the idea that their child's life is a "consolation prize" or a disappointment (31:00 - 32:30, 35:20 - 38:00).
Lori and Stephen advocate for moving away from narratives of loss. They suggest that instead of grief, parents should be offered support, resources, and an appreciation for the reality of their child's unique life (18:15 - 19:15, 42:45 - 43:30).
Throughout the episode, the hosts stress that nobody has the right to define a child's future or dictate a parent’s emotional response (27:00 - 28:30).
They celebrate the strength, honesty, and capability they have witnessed in their son, Liam, and encourage other parents to ignore societal stereotypes and focus on building a genuine, loving relationship with their child (28:30 - 30:00, 42:30 - 43:30).
This episode is a celebration of Liam and also a reflection of what the last 16 years have been. We discuss unfair societal constructs along with systemic flaws in education that people with Down syndrome face and how our collective advocacy will make a difference.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2026/02/18/198-its-liams-16th-birthday/2/
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In this episode, the core message is the necessity of creating an "airtight" Individualized Education Program (IEP) document. Stephen and Lori Saux use a compelling "lottery" analogy: if everyone currently involved in a student's education were to win the lottery and not show up the next day, the IEP document itself must be clear enough to define exactly what that student's day should look like.
Key points include:
Sustainability: The document must be able to stand on its own, regardless of which specific staff members are present.
Precision: It should be so well-written and detailed that it cannot be misinterpreted by new people entering the student's educational life.
Vision: An effective IEP must surpass the individual visions of the "adults in the room" to ensure consistent support through every step of the student's education.
We reconnect with Melissa Kynoch, whom many will remember from the BBC documentary Life and Birth. Millions of viewers around the world were inspired by Melissa’s positivity and grace when her son Bertie was born with Down syndrome. Now, fix years later, Life and Birth is available in the United States on Amazon Prime, giving a whole new audience the opportunity to experience their story.
Melissa shares an update on life and how Bertie is doing now that he’s in school. It’s a beautiful reflection on growth, joy and continuing to embrace each milestone with love and optimism.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2026/02/02/an-update-with-melissa-kynoch-berties-in-school/2/
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Summary:
In this episode of If We Knew Then, Stephen and Lori reconnect with Melissa Kynoch, a mother from Birmingham, England, whose journey with her son Bertie first reached millions through the BBC series Life and Birth. Now available to U.S. audiences, Melissa’s story continues to resonate as a powerful example of advocacy, perspective, and redefining expectations around a Down syndrome diagnosis. Melissa reflects on her experience receiving Bertie’s prenatal diagnosis, emphasizing her determination to protect the joy of her pregnancy. Knowing Bertie would be her last child, and that he would require early heart surgery, she chose to focus on what mattered most: becoming his mother. Rather than absorbing fear-based narratives, she intentionally rejected negativity and prioritized connection, preparation, and celebration. The conversation highlights how differently a diagnosis can be delivered and how profoundly that delivery shapes a family’s early experience. Stephen and Lori contrast Melissa’s proactive and supported journey with their own, which was marked by discouraging messaging and isolation. This contrast underscores a central theme of the episode: the critical importance of early, positive, and accurate information for parents. As Lori notes, “early intervention” applies not just to children, but to parents as well. Melissa credits much of her mindset and resilience to immediate community support. Before Bertie was born, she connected with local Down syndrome groups, attended meetups, and built relationships that continued through his birth and beyond. She also found strength in resources like the “Wouldn’t Change a Thing” initiative, which provided images and stories focused on what life can be, rather than what might go wrong. This network offered reassurance during Bertie’s early medical challenges, including his successful heart surgery and recovery. Now approaching six years old, Bertie is described as energetic, joyful, and strong—qualities Melissa says were evident even in his earliest days. The discussion touches on the adaptability often seen in children with Down syndrome, particularly in how Bertie has thrived despite his heart condition. His progress serves as a reminder that developmental timelines may differ, but growth continues in meaningful and often surprising ways. The episode also explores communication development. Melissa shares Bertie’s journey with Makaton signing and emerging speech, emphasizing her belief that understanding and expression were always present, even before words came. Stephen and Lori relate this to their son Liam’s experience, reinforcing the idea that communication takes many forms and should be recognized and supported accordingly. Throughout the conversation, humor and authenticity ground the discussion in real family life—interruptions, laughter, and all. These moments reflect the very reality that many parents are told may never exist. Instead of loss, the episode presents a narrative filled with connection, growth, and joy. Ultimately, this episode reinforces a powerful message: when families are given support, community, and truthful representation, they are better equipped to navigate their journey with confidence. Melissa’s story serves not only as encouragement for new parents but also as a call to shift the narrative—away from limitation and toward possibility.
Beth Gibson, Founder & Executive Director of Buddy Up for Life/Buddy Up Tennis, founded Buddy Up for Life in 2008 when her then 3 ½-year-old son, Will, who has Down syndrome, wanted to play tennis with his older brother. Beth realized there was a void in fitness programs for people with Down syndrome. And took the initiative to make her son’s dreams a reality, holding the first Buddy Up Tennis Clinic in December 2008 in Columbus, Ohio. Since then, the organization has expanded to 15 programs across three pillars (health & wellness, education, and friendship), with tennis as a cornerstone that has seen exponential growth nationwide. Buddy Up Tennis is now a weekly, high-energy adaptive tennis program for athletes ages 5 and up where volunteer buddies are partnered with athletes to provide support, develop friendships, and have fun while playing tennis. The program is now nationally recognized as the leader in impacting the lives of individuals with Down syndrome and Buddy Up for Life currently has 850 athletes, 1,400 buddies, 130 coaches and instructors and 42 chapters nationwide, a number that continues to grow. Beth continues to lead Buddy Up for Life, with her son, Will, now a college student. She has made it her life’s mission to embrace what it means to live with Down syndrome and help participants live a life that redefines expectations and breaks traditional boundaries.
Learn more at their Website and Instagram.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/11/25/196-buddy-up-for-life-with-beth-gibson/2/
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Here is another beautiful conversation we had with Dr. Vaish Sarathy and her son, poet Sid Ghosh who has published a book of poetry titled Yellow Flower Fills Me Whole. Sid has a duel diagnosis of Autism and Down syndrome and previously appeared on the podcast, with Vaish, to discuss non-linear education and how he communicates using a letter board.
Sid’s poetry book is available through Amazon or at this Milkweed link: https://milkweed.org/book/yellow-flower-gills-me-whole
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/11/10/195-yellow-flower-gills-me-whole-poetry-by-sid-ghosh/2/
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Summary:
Episode 195 of the IF WE KNEW THEN podcast features a powerful and deeply reflective conversation with poet Sid Ghosh and his mother, Dr. Vaish Sarathy. Centered around Sid’s newly released poetry collection 'Yellow Flower Gills Me Whole', our discussion explores communication, identity, disability and the transformative power of expression. Sid, an 18-year-old with Down syndrome and autism, communicates using a letterboard, spelling out his thoughts with intention and precision. We make a point to highlight how essential it is to witness this process visually, as it reveals not only how Sid communicates but also the depth and complexity of his thinking. What emerges quickly is that Sid does not experience language in conventional ways. He explains that he “thinks in poetry” because typical speech is difficult for him. This insight reframes assumptions about communication and intelligence, illustrating that expressive language can exist richly even when it looks different. We dive into Sid’s creative process, which is rooted in consistent practice rather than structured composition. His poems, written over several years, are part of a daily or weekly ritual. Titles come last, reinforcing that his work begins as pure thought and evolves organically. His poetry is abstract yet deeply intentional, filled with metaphors that challenge readers to reconsider meaning, identity, and perception. One of the most impactful part of the podcast episode centers on a poem titled “Interstices,” where Sid describes “gaps” left by neurotypical individuals. These gaps, he explains, are spaces where his life exists between societal expectations and misconceptions. Through guided interpretation, the conversation reveals a profound critique of how disability is framed, particularly by parents and society. Sid identifies two “knots”: sadness and the need for perfection. He suggests that the life of a person with a disability exists between these pressures. Between grief-driven narratives and unrealistic ideals. This perspective leads to a powerful insight: that embracing disability with pride, rather than sadness or a fixation on perfection, is liberating. Sid defines “madness” (a word he reclaims) as “letting go,” associating it with freedom and self-acceptance. His poetry challenges dominant narratives that portray disability as tragedy, instead offering a vision of identity that is whole, complex and worthy of celebration. Together, we also touch on real-world implications of these narratives. Sid shares discomfort with spaces where parental grief dominates, such as conferences, explaining how these discussions can feel limiting or harmful. We connect this to our own experiences as parents, reflecting on how societal narratives often overshadow the joy, growth and individuality of our son, Liam. We made sure to emphasize that many challenges associated with disability stem not from the condition itself, but from systemic barriers and ingrained biases. Throughout the episode, Sid’s voice, both literal and poetic, serves as a reminder of the importance of listening to individuals with disabilities as authorities on their own experiences. His work resists tokenism and insists on full humanity, pushing back against reductive views. Ultimately, this episode is not just about poetry. It is about redefining communication and embracing a more expansive understanding of identity. Sid’s words invite us to move beyond limiting narratives and to recognize the freedom that comes with authenticity and pride.
In this episode, we sit down with How I Met Your Mother co-creator Craig Thomas to talk about his new novel, That’s Not How It Happened. The novel is about a family whose lives are thrown into turmoil when a Hollywood producer turns their story into a movie, forcing them to confront their differing perspectives on their past and the challenges of raising their son, Emmett, who has Down syndrome. It was inspired by Craig’s son, Elliott, who lives with a rare condition called Jacobsen Syndrome and is on sale starting November 4, 2025.
We were introduced to Craig through our dear friends Jenna Fischer and Angela Kinsey, the hosts of the Office Ladies podcast. Jenna and Angela have been such loyal supporters of If We Knew Then and we’re so grateful to them for connecting us with Craig. That introduction led to a heartfelt and honest conversation that we are excited to share with you.
You can order Craig Thomas's new book from major booksellers like Barnes & Noble, Amazon.com, HarperCollins Publishers, and other retailers.
Also, check out Craig’s How I Met Your Mother rewatch podcast called How We Made Your Mother, which he co-hosts with Josh Radnor.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/11/02/194-thats-not-how-it-happened-a-novel-by-craig-thomas/2/
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Summary:
In this episode we welcome Craig Thomas, co-creator of 'How I Met Your Mother', for a deeply personal and insightful conversation that blends storytelling, humor and advocacy. Introduced through mutual friends Jenna Fischer and Angela Kinsey, from THE OFFICE, Craig joins the podcast to discuss his new novel, 'That’s Not How It Happened', and the real-life experiences that inspired it. Craig shares the story of his son Elliott, who was born with Jacobson syndrome, a rare genetic condition with similarities to Down syndrome. What began as an unexpected and frightening medical journey marked by a low birth weight, delayed diagnosis and emergency open-heart surgery, evolved into a life-changing experience that reshaped Craig’s identity, priorities, and creative voice. He reflects on the emotional whiplash of celebrating his son’s survival, only to be ushered into a stark “bad news room” where a geneticist delivered a bleak, impersonal prognosis based on a list of worst-case outcomes. Stephen and Lori connect deeply with this experience, recalling similar moments following their son Liam’s diagnosis. Together, they examine how the medical model often frames disability through limitation and fear, rather than possibility and individuality. Craig highlights how this early messaging can distort a parent’s understanding of their child before they’ve even had the chance to know them. Over time, however, that narrative is replaced by lived experience by discovering who their child truly is beyond the diagnosis. For Craig, that discovery revealed Elliott as vibrant, musical and full of life “wanting to be at the party” from the very beginning. Now 18, Elliott’s passion for music and joyful presence have become central to Craig’s understanding of both fatherhood and storytelling. This long journey ultimately inspired his novel, which he describes as a rare attempt to bring humor into the world of special needs parenting, a space often dominated by either sentimentality or hardship. By writing a comedic, fictional narrative grounded in truth, Craig aims to humanize disability and broaden the way these stories are told. They also explore the challenges of representation in media. Craig shares his frustration with trying to develop film and television projects centered on disability, often deemed too “niche” by studios despite the vast size and diversity of the disability community. His decision to write a novel instead reflects both creative freedom and a determination to tell this story authentically. Throughout the episode, humor emerges as a vital tool, not to diminish the challenges, but to process them and reclaim joy. Lori and Stephen echo this sentiment, emphasizing how laughter has been essential in their own journey. Together, they challenge the isolation often placed on families by systems and narratives that fail to reflect the richness of their lives. Ultimately, this episode is about reframing perspective. It underscores the importance of community, accurate information and storytelling that reflects real lives, not worst-case scenarios. Through Craig’s story, listeners are reminded that while the path may begin with uncertainty, it often leads to connection and a deeper understanding of what it means to truly see and celebrate a child.
When schools treat accommodations like a gift instead of a legal right, students with disabilities are the ones who pay the price. In this episode, we share our firsthand experiences navigating our son's high school IEP. From unimplemented accommodations to misplaced assessments and the constant reminder that equity isn’t optional.
We unpack what it really means to “access the curriculum,” how IDEA protects that access and why families must sometimes become both teachers and advocates. This conversation is a call to action for educators and parents alike to stop seeing accommodations as extra work and start recognizing them as keys to inclusion and an equal education.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/10/18/193-accommodations-in-an-iep-are-a-right-not-a-favor/2/
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This episode focuses on a central question in special education: who is actually being accommodated? Stephen and Lori Saux use their lived experience advocating for their son Liam to unpack the gap between what accommodations are meant to do and how they are often implemented in practice. They begin by grounding the conversation in what accommodations are supposed to be: tools that provide access. Using the analogy of a locked door, Lori explains that accommodations are the key that allows a student to access their education. Without that key, the student is not being given equal opportunity. This distinction is critical because accommodations are not optional supports or “nice extras”; they are part of a legally binding document through an IEP or 504 plan, secured through years of advocacy and civil rights work. However, the reality they describe is far different. Instead of being tailored to Liam’s needs, accommodations are often treated as scarce resources. handed out sparingly or inconsistently. They describe a pattern where educators prioritize their own systems, schedules or preferences over implementing required supports. Teachers cite time constraints, lack of preparation or unfamiliarity with Down syndrome, and the burden shifts to the parents to compensate. They find themselves repeatedly “accommodating the system”, educating teachers, modifying work at home and filling in gaps that should be addressed in the classroom. This imbalance creates both practical and emotional strain. While they strive to approach situations with empathy and understanding, they emphasize that empathy cannot replace accountability. When accommodations are not implemented, it directly impacts outcomes. They share a specific example of Liam taking an English test without proper supports resulting in a failing grade. That grade reflected a lack of access, not a lack of ability which highlights a systemic issue: performance is often misinterpreted as capability, when in reality it reflects whether supports were provided. The episode also critiques the system’s tendency to deflect responsibility. When challenges arise, schools may suggest reassessment rather than addressing failures in implementation. This delays progress and shifts focus away from the core issue: whether the IEP is being followed. Lori argues that instead of reassessing the student, schools should be reassessing their own practices and staff support. A deeper layer of the conversation addresses bias and low expectations. The Sauxes point out that behaviors and outcomes accepted for students with disabilities would not be tolerated for others. This normalization of inequity perpetuates harmful narratives about capability. They describe IEP meetings as spaces where parents are often gaslit into accepting less, even though they are advocating for rights guaranteed by law. In response, they share practical strategies for reclaiming access, including the use of assistive technology at home. From math apps that break down problems step-by-step to tools that provide definitions and writing support, they demonstrate how technology can bridge gaps when schools fall short. They stress that assistive technology should itself be written into the IEP as a formal accommodation. Ultimately, the episode balances frustration with purpose. While the fight for proper accommodations can feel exhausting, it is rooted in a commitment to equity and belief in their son’s ability. Their message is clear: accommodations are not favors, they are rights. When implemented correctly, they do not give an unfair advantage, they create a fair opportunity. And until systems consistently uphold that standard, advocacy remains necessary.
In this episode we revisit a conversation with our longtime pediatrician, Dr. Ilona Kleiner, who has been with our family since the day Sophia was born and has guided us through Liam’s journey with wisdom, honesty and compassion. Dr. Kleiner shares her perspective on treating children as whole individuals far beyond a diagnoses or statistics and the profound impact that kind of care can have on both medical outcomes and family life.
Together, we talk about navigating the fears that often surround a Down syndrome diagnosis, the importance of preventative medicine and what it means to advocate for our children day by day. Dr. Kleiner also offers practical insights on vaccines, inclusion and supporting children’s mental health by reminding us that every child deserves to be seen, respected and treated with dignity.
This heartfelt conversation is a reminder of the power of compassionate care and our hope that every family finds a physician who sees their child for exactly who they are.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/09/15/192-choosing-a-pediatrician-with-dr-ilona-kleiner/2/
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Today we sit down with speech-language pathologist and author Janine Tang to talk about her new book "Play Dumb and Sabotage: Mindfully Under-Anticipating the Child’s Needs and Creating Opportunities to Practice Language". Drawing from more than two decades as a therapist and her personal journey as a parent of a child with a brain injury, Jeaneen shares practical strategies parents can use every day to support speech development.
We discuss the challenges families face in accessing quality speech therapy, how to advocate for services and why creating small opportunities for communication can have lasting impact. Jeaneen also opens up about her son’s diagnosis, how it shifted her perspective as both a mother and a professional and the importance of empowering parents to see that they are doing a good job.
Jeaneen fills this conversation with hope, compassion and actionable tools for parents navigating speech development and early intervention. She reminds us that our children can achieve more when we give them space, support and belief in their potential.
Website: https://www.playdumbandsabotage.com
IG: @playdumbandsabotage
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/09/07/191-play-dumb-and-sabotage-with-jeaneen-yang/2/
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In this episode, we discuss the challenges of a new school year and how we advocate to create a foundation of support for Liam, with the intentions of creating a narrative of inclusion.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/08/30/190-advocating-through-the-challenges-of-a-new-school-year/2/
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In this episode Stephen and Lori sit down on a quiet summer morning to reflect on the season of transitions, both for their family and for their son Liam, who just graduated middle school. From the stillness of summer mornings to the in-between spaces of growth, they talk about what it means to be present during times of change, the challenges and beauty of navigating education with a child who learns differently and the lessons we can take from something as simple and profound as a caterpillar’s metamorphosis. Along the way, they share honest reflections on judgment, resilience, and the hope that comes from remembering that every transition, messy as it may be, is also a space for transformation.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/08/24/189-lets-talk-about-transitions-middle-school-to-high-school/2/
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Every year we face the stresses of annual appointments and assessments. Today we talk about game plans and strategies to help prepare for them.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/05/26/188-preparing-for-annual-appointments/2/
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Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers in this beautiful Down syndrome community. You are a force and we thank and celebrate you.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/05/11/187-happy-mothers-day/2/
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This week we are revisiting our interview with Melissa Kynoch, known by many for being featured on the BBC documentary LIFE AND BIRTH. Millions of people have had a chance to watch her positive attitude in the face of her son Bertie's Down syndrome diagnosis. Now, five years later, the docu-series is available in the United States on Amazon Prime.
Season 1, Episode 6: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B09LCDLPFV/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/05/04/186-life-and-birth-on-amazon-prime-with-melissa-kynoch/2/
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In this episode we discuss the need and power for us to cultivate self pride and worth within the disability community. In doing so, we nullify the damaging words and opinions of those who wish to label and minimize individuals with disabilities or anyone for that matter.
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Today we are joined again by Mrs. Christina Aries, the Director of Adult Development at Citizens of the World Charter Schools for the second part of our discussion about brain development in the adolescent years.
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Today we are joined by Mrs. Christina Aries, the Director of Adult Development at
Citizens of the World Charter Schools for a two-part discussion about brain development in the adolescent years.
Episode Transcript:
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It’s World Down Syndrome Day 2025 and we did it! We released an episode on March 21st. Many in our community do so well at preparing for this day every year and we greatly appreciate them but also, here’s to all those that feel like they are always behind or that their ‘to do” list is getting bigger, not smaller. We celebrate you and your loved ones today!
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/03/20/182-wdsd-2025/2/
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This week we have another conversation with filmmakers Olivier and Hilda to discuss their IEP experience featured in their film FORGET ME NOT: INCLUSION IN THE CLASSROOM. These talks not only shows us that we are not alone in this fight, but also gives us some powerful information that we can use in our own IEP meetings.
Documentary Website: https://forgetmenotdocumentary.com
Streaming FREE On tubi: https://tubitv.com/movies/697442/forget-me-not-inclusion-in-the-classroom?utm_campaign=web-sharing
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/03/02/181-olivier-and-hilda-bernier-and-their-iep-experience/2/
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Happy Birthday Liam! In this week’s episode we discuss the lessons we have learned over the last 15 years in both education, behavior and societal changes.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/02/24/180-liam-turns-15-what-have-we-learned-in-this-journey/2/
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Today we are joined by Hilda and Olivier, who are documentarians of a fantastic film “Forget Me Not”. This film tells the story of our children’s fight for an equal education and raises the question of inclusion versus segregation. It’s a documentary that is so important to making changes in the lives of individuals with Down syndrome.
Website: https://forgetmenotdocumentary.com
Streaming FREE On tubi: https://tubitv.com/movies/697442/forget-me-not-inclusion-in-the-classroom?utm_campaign=web-sharing
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/02/09/179-forget-me-not/2/
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In July 2025, DSDN will host their annual Rockin' Dad Retreat for fathers of children with Down Syndrome to gather from across the country. We are joined again by Ben Hughes to give us all the details of this year’s event and also an update on his own journey.
Retreat Details - WHEN: July 11-12, 2025, WHERE: Hilton San Diego Gaslamp Quarter, San Diego, CA
Registration info: https://www.dsdiagnosisnetwork.org/dad-retreat-registration
Ben’s email: ben@dsdiagnosisnetwork.org
Ben’s Personal Fundraising Page: https://dsdn.networkforgood.com/projects/237847-ben-hughes-s-fundraiser
Get the DSDN App today! https://www.dsdiagnosisnetwork.org/dsdn-app
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/02/02/178-the-2025-dsdn-rockin-dad-retreat-ben-hughes/2/
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Lori recorded this episode in October but what is very apparent is how challenges and the unknown are an everyday thing that helps tell our stories, In this episode Maezen talks about finding our space and our 'me' time.
Karen Maezen Miller’s Website: https://karenmaezenmiller.com
Maezen’s books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Karen-Maezen-Miller/e/B001JP2RQ0/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2025/01/27/177-showing-up-for-the-challenges-karen-maezen-miller/2/
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Steven Gustafson is a founding member and bassist of the band 10,000 Maniacs. His sister, Cathy, had Down syndrome and we got a chance to discuss with him the impact she had on his life and the lives around her. Today we revisit that interview to share this sibling love story.
Episode Transcript:
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This week we revisit our conversation with Sid and Vaish Sarathy. Sid, who has the duel diagnoses of autism and Down syndrome. Although he is non-Speaking, Sid is a poet with two published books. Dr. Vaish Sarathy is a functional nutrition practitioner and science educator. She is the founder of Functional Nutrition for Kids and Plum Pudding Chemistry, both practices designed to optimize the learning potential of kids with Down syndrome and/or autism using both functional medicine and non-linear education principles. In this episode, we discuss their journey with communication, breaking down barriers of misperception and limiting thoughts to support Sid in freeing his voice and the responsibility that freedom brings with it.
Sid’s Poetry Books: https://push-press.blogspot.com
Sid’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/downlikesid/
Vaish’s Website: https://functionalnutritionforkids.com
Vaish’s Podcast Funtional Nutrition & Learning For Kids: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/functional-nutrition-and-learning-for-kids/id1478145610
Rapid Prompting Method (RPM): https://www.halo-soma.org
Chris Martin’s Website: www.UnrestrictedInterest.com
Connections Academy: https://www.connectionsacademy.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/06/15/175-communicating-our-stories-with-sid-and-vaish-sarathy/2/
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This week we once again sit down with Julie Picot but this time we are briefly joined by her daughter Elyse. We take a deep dive on the speech and reading journey in our community and discuss different ways to advocate for our children.
Teach Your Child To Read in 100 Easy Lessons: https://a.co/d/3CEtpLY
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/06/09/174-advocating-for-speech-therapy-julie-picot/2/
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This week we revisit our interview with Jake Pratt, who with support, advocacy and inclusion is living his dreams and changing the narrative for people with Down syndrome.
Episode Transcript:
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Today we celebrate all the powerful mothers who give so much to their children day in and day out. Remember how strong you are. The world runs on that power and we thank you.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/05/11/172-happy-mothers-day-we-celebrate-you/2/
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This week we had the privilege to talk to Dr. Elizabeth Head, Professor and Vice Chair for research at the University of California, Irvine in the department of Pathology. Dr. Head has published more than 150 peer reviewed papers and has dedicated over 20 years to the study of aging and Alzheimer’s disease with a focus on people with Down syndrome.
Head Lab: https://sites.mind.uci.edu/headlab/
ABC-DS study - https://www.nia.nih.gov/research/abc-ds
DSConnect - https://dsconnect.nih.gov/
Center for Aging Research – Down syndrome - https://sites.mind.uci.edu/cfar-ds/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/04/27/171-alzheimers-disease-in-people-with-down-syndrome-dr-elizabeth-head/2/
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The world lost pioneering Down syndrome advocate Carl Erskine on April 16, 2024, at the age of 97. Carl and his wife Betty, were involved deeply with the Special Olympics and charities which aimed at helping people with developmental disabilities such as his son Jimmy. Carl Erskine was a MLB All-Star, World Series Champion, ally of Jackie Robinson and the last surviving member of the “Boys of Summer” Brooklyn teams of the 1950’s. To honor Carl’s life, we revisit our episode with documentarian Ted Green discussing his film ’The Best We’ve Got: The Carl Erskine Story’. As Ted says in this conversation, Carl and Betty are the perfect embodiment of what is on Jackie Robinson’s tombstone.
“A life is not important except for the impact it has on other lives“.
Godspeed Carl.
Website: https://www.carlerskinefilm.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/04/21/170-celebrating-the-life-of-carl-erskine-with-ted-green/2/
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This week we are fortunate to have Ben Hughes back on the podcast to discuss the Down Syndrome Diagnosis Network’s (DSDN) annual “Rockin’ Retreats” that offer our community the connection and respite caregivers truly need.
Retreat information page: https://www.dsdiagnosisnetwork.org/dsdn-retreats
Dad's retreat registration page: https://form.jotform.com/DSDN/2024-rockin-dad-retreat
Mom's retreat registration page: https://form.jotform.com/DSDN/2024-rockin-mom-retreat
DSDN website: https://www.dsdiagnosisnetwork.org/
DSDN Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/DownSyndromeDiagnosisNetwork
DSDN main fundraising page: https://dsdn.networkforgood.com/projects/201851-2024-dsdn-rockin-fundraising
A link to Ben’s personal DSDN fundraising page: https://dsdn.networkforgood.com/projects/207713-ben-hughes-s-fundraiser
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/04/14/169-the-annual-dsdn-retreats-with-ben-hughes/2/
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Our son turned 14 last weekend and in this episode we reflect on the joys, challenges and growth we've experienced together on this journey with Liam.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/03/09/168-liams-14th-birthday-sharing-some-insight/2/
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This week we revisit our interview with Lynette Louise who is board certified in Neurofeedback. We were very interested in the science of Neurofeedback but early on in the conversation we moved to a serious discussion about the use of the r-word and the reasons why Lynette uses it. This episode may feel a bit intense for many of you and we understand why, but we highly recommend listening all the way through to the end.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/02/25/167-a-discussion-about-using-the-r-word-with-lynette-louise/2/
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This week we have the wonderful Julie Picot back on the show to discuss her experience transitioning her daughter, Elyse from TK to Kindergarten. We also touch upon how very often parents feel shame when guiding their school aged children out of diapers.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/02/17/166-finding-the-right-supports-without-shame-with-julie-picot/2/
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Dr. Ilona Kleiner has been both our children's pediatrician since birth. Today we discuss with her the importance of always seeing the whole child and how her care for Liam really isn't any different than that of a typical child.
Dr. Kleiner's Bio: https://www.pamgdocs.com/copy-of-about-our-doctors-1
Recommend books:
What’s Going on Down There? by Karen Gravelle
What’s Happening to My Body by Lyna Madras
Guy Stuff by Cara Natterson
It’s Perfectly Normal by Robin Harris
Being You: The Body Image Book by Charlotte Markey
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/01/28/165-picking-the-right-pediatrician-with-dr-ilona-kleiner/2/
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In this episode, we discuss Charlotte Fien’s path to advocacy, breaking down the barriers of education, the love story between her and her husband Riley, and how her infectious can-do attitude has influenced him to break down barriers in his own life. It is the story of two humans creating the life they want to live and never taking no for an answer.
Charlotte & Riley Forever FB Page: https://www.facebook.com/autismintune
A World Without Down’s Syndrome (Documentary): https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B07MSHKFKQ/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r
Charlotte’s Speeches:
2017 United Nations: https://youtu.be/1Xqku6RwaAY?si=KYf7jnx-Uc56cgRP
2018 United Nations: https://youtu.be/FHglwa8vlYg?si=hwjusGDIsVSh5_ty
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/01/21/164-charlotte-and-riley-not-taking-no-for-an-answer/2/
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Happy Martin Luther King Day! We start this new year by revisiting with our friend, Zen Buddhist Priest, Maezen Miller. We discuss having patience and letting go in order for it to all unfold. Believing and having patience can enable our children to be who they are, go where they go and do what they do, to become exactly who they are.
Karen Maezen Miller: https://karenmaezenmiller.com
Maezen’s Book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Karen-Maezen-Miller/e/B001JP2RQ0/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1
Steve & Michel Gleason Foundation: https://teamgleason.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2024/01/14/163-revisiting-patience-in-the-new-year-with-maezen-miller/2/
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Follow Stephen while he unexpectedly flies back to Louisiana due to his mother’s illness. He reflects on the importance of experiencing all of life’s moments and truly being present.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/10/22/162-living-in-the-moment/2/
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October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month and in this episode, Stephen and Lori discuss another angle in your next Awareness Campaign. Some of the most important people to make aware of our community's potential are educational professionals. We as parents can advocate but it just might be our children who change the minds of those in charge of their education.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/10/14/161-down-syndrome-awareness-month-2023-bringing-awareness-to-our-communitys-potential/2/
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Joining us today is Liam Starkey from The Inclusive Hub. The Hub was started in 2016 helping small groups of Autistic children around Liverpool, England take part in non-contact boxing and fitness sessions. It has now expanded and continues to empower people of all ages and abilities through exercise.
Website: www.theinclusivehub.co.uk
Order a tee shirt: transalpino.co.uk
Twitter: https://twitter.com/liamstarkey84
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_inclusive_hub/?hl=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RotundaInclusiveHub
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/10/08/160-the-inclusive-hub/2/
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Today we are joined by Sandra Baker from the Down Syndrome Association of Los Angeles (DSALA) and Dr. Brian Skotko from the Down Syndrome Clinic To You (DSC2U) to discuss their collaboration in supporting Spanish-Speaking families that have a member with Down syndrome.
DSC2U: www.DSC2U.org
DSALA: www.DSALA.org
DSALA Contact:
(818) 786-0001
info@DSALA.org
NOTES FROM DR. SKOTKO:
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/10/01/159-dsala-and-dsc2u/2/
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This week we were joined by Katelyn Quintero from Best Buddies International, which is a nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization dedicated to establishing a global volunteer movement that creates opportunities for one-to-one friendships, integrated employment, leadership development, and inclusive living for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities.
Website: www.bestbuddies.org
Champion of the Year: www.bestbuddieschampion.org
The Walk: www.bestbuddiesfriendshipwalk.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/09/24/158-best-buddies-with-katelyn-quintero/2/
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We had such fun talking to Liz Plachta, the founder of Ruby’s Rainbow! Ruby’s Rainbow grants scholarships to students with Down syndrome who are seeking post-secondary education, including enrichment or vocational classes, and helping them achieve their dreams of higher education while spreading awareness of their capabilities and general awesomeness.
Ruby’s Rainbow: www.rubysrainbow.org
WDSD Pledge: www321pledge.org
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/RubysRainbow/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rubysrainbow/
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/rubysrainboworg
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/09/16/157-rubys-rainbow/2/
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Today, we are joined by Nancy Gianni to talk about her foundation, GiGi’s Playhouse, which provides FREE, life-changing therapeutic, educational, and career training programs for 30,000+ individuals of all ages, everyday. GiGi’s Playhouse empowers families by maximizing opportunities for daily achievement and lasting acceptance and in turn, showing the world what individuals with Down syndrome are truly capable of achieving as students, co-workers, volunteers, friends, and valued members of the community.
GiGi’s Playhouse: https://gigisplayhouse.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/09/09/156-gigis-playhouse-with-nancy-gianni/2/
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In this episode we give an update on our son Liam, a 13-year old in middle school, and discuss how far he has come, what supports have helped us navigate his transitions into middle school and how we are helping him find the independence every teen wants to cultivate.
Citizen's Of The World Middle School: https://www.cwcsilverlake.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/09/02/155-using-your-iep-to-make-the-most-of-middle-school/2/
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This is our conversation with actress Megyn Price to discuss inclusion, the importance of encouraging others to express their uniqueness and how her Uncle, who had Down syndrome, affected her family in a positive way.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/08/27/154-revisiting-our-interview-with-megyn-price/2/
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This week we revisit the story of Jad Issa, a man with Down Syndrome who is a husband, father and respected citizen. At diagnosis, parents of children with Down syndrome are immediately told all the things their child won’t do. Jad’s life shows us that these preconceptions aren’t only untrue but the very belief in them often cause limitations. As with every child, all things are possible. We hope that this conversation with Jad’s son Sader, a dentist in Damascus, brings comfort to parents to believe in what may be thought of as impossible.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/08/20/jad-issa/2/
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This episode is the entire conversation we had with Matt MacNeil and Ed Casagrande from the Canadian Down Syndrome Society concerning their collaboration with Google AI to create a database that can help train Google’s speech recognition technology to better understand people with Down syndrome.
Donate your voice at: https://projectunderstood.ca
Learn more about the CDSS: https://cdss.ca
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/08/13/152-revisiting-the-canadian-down-syndromes-project-understood-training-speech-technology/2/
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This week we are joined by Abby Brandon-Livits and Misty Adams from the National Down Syndrome Society to talk about the 2023 NYC Buddy Walk and it’s wonderful Times Square Video presentation that redefines the image of the Down syndrome community.
NYC Buddy Walk website: https://give.ndss.org/event/2023-new-york-city-buddy-walk-r/e478474
National Down Syndrome Society: www.NDSS.org
FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/NDSS1979
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ndssorg/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/08/06/151-nyc-buddy-walk/2/
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Today we're joined again by Dr. Eric Rubenstein, an Assistant Professor of Epidemiology at Boston University School of Public Health. Eric is a researcher, a volunteer for the Special Olympics and a lifelong advocate of individuals with Down syndrome. This conversation is a round table discussion of change and evolution, progress and insights that we feel so fortunate to be able to share with each of you today.
Eric’s Website: https://sites.bu.edu/rubenstein
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/07/30/150-ableism/2/
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Today we're joined by Dr. Tom Mahan, who specializes in Alzheimer’s research with a focus on individuals with Down syndrome. Tom is a father of three boys and his oldest son, Teddy, has down syndrome which is what sparked him into taking his already existing research of Alzheimer’s and guiding it to a focus on individuals with Down syndrome.
ABC-DS: https://www.nia.nih.gov/research/abc-ds
NIH INCLUDE Project: https://www.nih.gov/include-project
DSDN Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/DownSyndromeDiagnosisNetwork
DSDN Website: https://www.dsdiagnosisnetwork.org/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/07/23/149-alzheimers/2/
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This week we visit with Brady Murray of RODS Heroes, an organization meant to inspire families to answer the call to adopt children born with Down syndrome and other special abilities. Brady and his wife Andrea have seven children and it was their adopted son Cooper who brought our attention to the Murray’s advocacy though his appearances throwing out the first pitch a Major League Baseball games. In this conversation we also talk about Brady’s Special Needs Life Planning venture, Special Abilities Network and discuss his eldest son, Nash and the experience of receiving Nash’s Down syndrome diagnosis in 2007.
RODS Heroes: https://rods.org
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/rodsheroes
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rodsheroes/
Special Abilities Network: https://specialabilitiesnetwork.com/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/07/16/148-rods-heros/2/
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In this episode, we speak with Johan Lindborg, founder of t21 Coffee. We had a beautiful conversation discussing his journey with his 12 year old son Cooper and how he has transformed from the doubts he had and the darkness he felt when receiving the Down syndrome diagnosis. It is an open and honest discussion that touches on fears to which any parent can relate. In the face of those fears, he created T21 Coffee, which both employs individuals with Down syndrome and donates a portion of every bag sold to Down syndrome research.
T21 Coffee: https://www.t21coffee.com
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/t21coffee
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/t21coffee1/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/07/09/147-t21-coffee/2/
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Today we are joined by Ben Hughs to discuss the Down Syndrome Diagnosis Network (DSDN) and how it empowers new parents with online supports, information, and resources. We also talk about the in person “Rockin’ Retreats” that offer our community the connection and respite necessary, but not always utilized, on the journey for every parent and caregiver.
DSDN FaceBook Page: https://www.facebook.com/DownSyndromeDiagnosisNetwork
DSDN Website: https://www.dsdiagnosisnetwork.org/
DSDN Retreats: https://www.dsdiagnosisnetwork.org/dsdn-retreats
Ben’s Email: ben@dsdiagnosisnetwork.org
Governor Pritzker’s Commencement Speech: https://youtu.be/NhuIU_kXJDE
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/07/01/146-dsdn/2/
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Ted Green is a documentarian whose latest film, ‘The Best We’ve Got: The Carl Erskine Story’, will be airing on PBS SoCal July 4th. Ted’s film is an in-depth look at Carl Erskine, a Dodgers pitcher whose son Jimmie was born with Down syndrome 63 years ago, a time in our country’s history when segregation plagued humanity. Carl and Betty, when faced with the inevitable institutionalization of their son, which was the option that was customarily given by the medical community to protect the integrity of their family unit, made the choice to take their child home and raise him. A decision for the time that took great courage, taking some of the first steps to change the narrative of Down syndrome.
Stream The Film: https://watch.eventive.org/heartlandfilm
Website: https://www.carlerskinefilm.com
EPIC Website: http://soindiana.org/EPIC
EPIC Promo (3:30): https://vimeo.com/710911325/b293dfbb38
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/06/26/145-ted-green/2/
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In this episode, we are joined by Vaish and Sid Sarathy. Dr. Vaish Sarathy is a functional nutrition practitioner and science educator. She is the founder of Functional Nutrition for Kids and Plum Pudding Chemistry, both practices designed to optimize the learning potential of kids with Down syndrome and/or autism using both functional medicine and non-linear education principles. Sid, who has the diagnoses of autism, Down syndrome, and non-speaking, is, among other things, a poet with two published books of poetry.
In this episode, we discuss their journey with communication, breaking down barriers of misperception and limiting thoughts to support Sid in freeing his voice and the responsibility that freedom brings with it.
Full Interview Video (01:33:17): https://youtu.be/DkE4ZkYdSjM
Vaish’s Website: https://functionalnutritionforkids.com
Sid’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/downlikesid/
Chris Martin’s Website: www.UnrestrictedInterest.com
Rapid Prompting Method (RPM): https://www.asha.org/policy/ps2018-00351/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/06/19/144/2/
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In this episode we speak again to Zen Buddhist Priest, Karen Maezen Miller and discuss the art of letting go, letting the answers be in the moment, and finding surrender in acceptance of that moment.
Karen Maezen Miller Website: https://karenmaezenmiller.com
Maezen’s books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Karen-Maezen-Miller/e/B001JP2RQ0/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/06/09/143-letting-go/2/
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In this episode, Julie Picot shares the experience of her latest series of IEP’s meant to usher her daughter Elyse into the Public School system.
LAUSD Complaint Response Unit
Website: https://achieve.lausd.net/Page/3581
Email: EquityCompliance@lausd.net
Phone: (213) 241-7682 TTY: (213) 241-2511
LAUSD Uniform Complaint Procedures Form (PDF): https://achieve.lausd.net/cms/lib/CA01000043/Centricity/Domain/383/03%20BUL-5159.11%20UCP%20Complaint%20Form_English.pdf
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/06/04/142/2/
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In this episode we speak with Araon and Julie, parents of 5 year old Elyse, about the lessons learned, the changes seen and the realizations made from diagnosis till now.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/05/28/141-julie-and-aaron-picot/2/
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In this episode we reconnect with Melissa Kynoch as her son Bertie begins primary school in Birmingham, England. You may remember that Melissa and Bertie were featured on the popular BBC Documentary Series ‘Life and Birth’. Among many things, we discuss the impact inclusion has made in Bertie’s life and the family's journey.
Wouldn’t Change A Thing - https://www.wouldntchangeathing.org
Bookworms Day Care: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100086453783217
Up and Downs Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/upanddownswm
BBC 'Life and Birth’: https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m000j6v0/life-and-birth-series-1-episode-4
12 Step Fellowship: https://www.na.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/05/06/140-keeping-up-with-bertie/2/
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This week we have a wonderful discussion with Indira Cruz discussing how sometimes on this journey we feel alone and the importance of sharing our story.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/04/23/139-indira-cruz/2/
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This episode marks the beginning of the Easterseals Disability Film Challenge’s Awareness Campaign. It’s our 9th film and it’s taken nine years to realize the Awareness Campaign strives to tell our stories to as many people as possible and by doing that, changing the path and narrative of individuals with disabilities. Our film, 'Yes. No. Maybe.' is a teenage love story. We hope you will watch and it makes you smile.
www.YesNoMaybeFilm.com
EDFC Website: https://disabilityfilmchallenge.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/04/10/138-yes-no-maybe/2/
In this episode we celebrate Citizens of the World Charter Schools whose approach to inclusion was a life changing discovery for our family. We sit down with Dr. Maureen and Mrs. Aries, Co-principals of CWC, and discuss the importance of inclusion, its impact and why we as parents, if it is what is best for our student, should insist on our child’s right to an inclusive classroom.
CWC Website: www.CWCsilverlake.org
CWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/citizensoftheworldla/
CWC Los Angeles FB: https://www.facebook.com/citizensoftheworldLA
CWC Kansas City FB: https://www.facebook.com/cwckansascity
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/03/26/137-cwc/2/
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Happy World Down Syndrome Day 2023! In celebration of our community, we are sharing a discussion we had this month with Dr. Eric Rubenstein and his co-researcher team. Dr. Eric is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Epidemiology at Boston University and his research team is comprised of six adults with Down syndrome who engage the research process to create their own project. The team is curious about the mental health of people with Down syndrome and designed a research project to explore people’s experiences with mental health issues and how they find support.
Take the survey: https://bostonu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_bxyp6tWSkJcoU86
The group is also hosting a webinar on Tuesday, March 21 from 12pm-1:30pm EST
Register for the World Down syndrome Day webinar: https://bostonu.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_BkU7e9D8TO6HPXSRU2gfpg
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/03/19/136-world-down-syndrome-day-with-dr-eric-rubenstein-and-his-co-researcher-team/2/
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Dr. Mona is an attending physician in the Department of General Pediatrics at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles and an Associate Professor in the Department of Pediatrics at the Keck School of Medicine of the University of Southern California. She sat down with us to challenge the many medical myths and stereotypes surrounding children with Down syndrome.
Health Supervision Guidelines: https://www.healthychildren.org/English/health-issues/conditions/developmental-disabilities/Documents/Health_Care_Information_for_Families_of_Children_with_Down_Syndrome.pdf
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/03/12/135-revisiting-with-childrens-hospital-los-angeles-pediatrician-dr-mona-patel-gera/2/
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Dr. Jill Lasky discusses the importance of Pediatric Dentistry, how to introduce dental care and specifics pertaining to the Down Syndrome community. We also discuss methods and tools for parents who want to support their children in making good dental health habits.
Lasky Pediatric Dental Group: https://www.laskypediatricdental.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/03/05/134-your-dentistry-questions-answered-dr-jill-lasky/2/
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This week Liam turns 13. We recorded this episode on Valentine's Day with is fitting because love is the driving force of this family. Becoming a teenager is a milestone we have been looking forward to and we are thankful for all the ups and downs that have gotten us here.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/02/18/133-liam-turns-13-let-the-teenage-years-begin/2/
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For Black History Month we revisit a phenomenal episode we had with Willie Dawkins. We honor his story and his parents who gave him the foundation of love and support he needed to find his way through an unjust world and the advocates who came before us who fought for equality and laid the groundwork for our fight for inclusion.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/02/10/132-black-history-month-revisiting-our-interview-with-willie-dawkins/2/
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We talk today about how we learn to do things differently, the way we learn from our past, and how the seemingly smallest memories can hold so much in them, like the little lessons along the way. We also explore the need to accept when it’s easy, and how that can be a challenge in itself.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/02/03/131-the-things-we-learn/2/
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This is the second half of a two part interview with casting director Michael Sanford about the work being done to make media more inclusive and diverse. We first met Michael when he cast our son, Liam, in the Lena Dunham movie SHARP STICK. Michael had seen Liam in a film made for the Disability Film Challenge where people with disabilities have a space to tell their own stories in the hopes that more spaces like that will be made in Hollywood.
Disability Film Challenge: https://disabilityfilmchallenge.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/01/29/michael-sanford-an-advocate-for-diverse-casting-in-hollywood-part-2/2/
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In this week’s episode we discuss, with Hollywood casting director Michael Sanford, the importance of inclusion in everyone's life and the responsibility the film and television industry has to uphold a fabric of diversity that is reflective of our global society.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/01/22/129-michael-sanford-an-advocate-for-diverse-casting-in-hollywood/2/
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In this episode we discuss the hope we have for the future and the positive changes we see in the next generation of Down syndrome advocates.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/01/16/128-the-next-generation-of-advocacy/2/
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We’ve talked about self-care on this podcast and the importance of parents and caregivers to find the time to take care of themselves. We are so grateful that Paul Denniston has once again gifted us, and our listeners, with a guided meditation. This time Paul will guide us through a wonderful Loving Kindness Meditation to help us with the many struggles we can face when we so often put others before ourselves.
Paul’s Website: https://griefyoga.com
Episode 22 - Paul’s 30 Minute Yoga Nidra Meditation: https://ifweknewthen.podbean.com/e/22-a-meditation-gift-from-paul-denniston/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2023/01/07/127-revisiting-a-loving-kindness-meditation-with-paul-denniston/2/
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Happy New Year! We hope you are all having a wonderfully relaxing and safe holiday. Today in the spirit of the new year, we revisit an interview we had with Karen Maezen Miller about the practice of The Beginner’s Mind.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/12/31/126-happy-new-year-revisiting-the-practice-of-the-beginners-mind-with-maezen-miller/2/
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In this episode we talk about hope. Losing hope when challenges become overwhelming and finding it again on the other side.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/12/19/125-a-season-of-hope-down-syndrome-advocacy/2/
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Because we get so many questions from new parents, we wanted to revisit a couple of our very early episodes. In this Part 2 we re-air Caroline’s second appearance on the podcast where she dives a little deeper into the aspects of Early Intervention, what tools parents can use at home and how therapies for children with Down Syndrome have changed over the years.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/11/27/124-revisiting-with-caroline-bencze-fernandez-part-2-at-home-tools-and-supports/2/
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Because we get so many questions from new parents, we wanted to revisit a couple of our very early episodes. In this Part 1 we re-air an extremely informative interview with Child Development Specialist, Caroline Bencze-Fernandez where she explains the importance of Early Intervention, how therapies have changed throughout her 30 year career and what parents should know.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/11/20/123-revisiting-with-caroline-bencze-fernandez-part-1-early-intervention/2/
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It’s our wedding anniversary and we take a minute to reflect on the past 18 years. Happy Anniversary!
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/11/07/122-our-anniversary-episode/
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In this episode we discuss our journey with awareness. We explore how we are learning to cultivate what awareness means in our lives, the way in which awareness has changed over the years and its impact on our advocacy.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/10/28/121-down-syndrome-awareness-month-2022/2/
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Stephen recorded a solo episode this week, unbeknownst to the family, to express some things that have been on his mind and as a nice surprise to Lori and the kids whenever they come across it. It’s kind of a time capsule episode focused on this present moment and how there is nothing as important as right now.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/10/21/120-the-secret-episode-living-for-the-moments/2/
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This week we talked to Dr. Eric Rubenstein and one of his co-researchers, Kaethe Sigelko to discuss self advocacy and the importance of including people with Down syndrome in shaping our community.
For everything they ever told you your child would not or could not do - sometimes it takes an example of what is possible to remember who we are and that every child’s life is one of possibility.
Eric’s Website: https://sites.bu.edu/rubenstein
Contact Kaethe: k.sigelko1415@gmail.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/10/14/119-walking-the-walk-breaking-down-stereotypes-with-dr-eric-rubenstein-and-kaethe-sigelko/2/
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Documentarian, Ted Green visits with us to discuss his most recent film “The Best We’ve Got: The Carl Erskine Story”. As a teammate and close friend of Jackie Robinson and then as the father of a person with Down syndrome, Carl played a pioneering role in two human-rights movements.
Our guest, Ted Green switched to filmmaking in 2010 after 20 years as a newspaper journalist, and since then he has produced and directed eight documentaries. Other subjects include Holocaust survivor Eva Kor, and Indianapolis’ Crispus Attucks High School.
Website: https://www.carlerskinefilm.com
EPIC Website: http://soindiana.org/EPIC
EPIC Promo (3:30): https://vimeo.com/710911325/b293dfbb38
“The Fan Connection”: https://www.fanconnectionmovie.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/10/06/118-the-carl-erskine-story-with-ted-green/2/
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In this week's episode we are joined by Zen Buddhist Priest, Maezen Miller. We discuss having patience and letting go in order for it to all unfold. Believing and having patience can enable our children to be who they are, go where they go and do what they do, to become exactly who they are.
Karen Maezen Miller: https://karenmaezenmiller.com
Maezen’s Book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Karen-Maezen-Miller/e/B001JP2RQ0/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/117-patience-with-karen-maezen-miller/2/
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Mother Asana merges the focus of Ally’s art and expression with Gina’s yoga practice and meditation insights. Gina is a devotee to her Spiritual Practice for over 20 years influenced by many practitioners & styles. Her trainings landed her teaching Slow Flow Yoga, YOGA for Cancer & Mindfulness for the Special Parent. Creating Connection is the cornerstone to her parenting & personal style. In her journey as a ‘warrior mom,’ Meditation & Asana has been instrumental in understanding & healing while raising a family with a special needs.
Website: https://www.motherasana.com/
Pre-Order the book: https://www.motherasana.com/shop/the-art-and-voice-of-autism
Instagram: @mother_asana
FaceBook: @motherasana
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/09/23/mother-asana-the-art-and-voice-of-autism-with-gina-uricchio/2/
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Vaish is a Functional Nutrition Practitioner and Science Educator. She is the founder of Functional Nutrition for Kids, and Plum Pudding Chemistry, both practices designed to optimize the learning potential of kids with Down Syndrome and/or Autism using both Functional Medicine and Non-Linear Education Principles.
Website: https://functionalnutritionforkids.com
Constipation Tool Kit: https://functionalnutritionforkids.com/constipationtoolkit
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/09/08/115-functional-nutrition-with-dr-vaish-sarathy/2/
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We have learned a lot, some harsh realities and beautiful truths. We now move forward with eyes wide open, ready to learn from where we have been, into the unknown of middle school.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/09/02/114-liam-starts-middle-school/2/
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The discussion on Self Determination in episode 83, developed into an examination of the term “Self Determination” and what it means in the scope of determining ones self and ones path. In this episode with Ellen Coulston we discuss Self Determination as a tool to promote independence, confidence and participation by student led IEP planning, making that student a part of the dialogue instead of a 3rd person participant in a conversation about their life goals.
I’m Determined: https://www.imdetermined.org
LifeCourse: https://www.lifecoursetools.com/
Ellen’s Podcast: ieproadtofreedom.com
Ellen on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EllenRita220
CA Transition Alliance: http://www.catransitionalliance.org/catransitionalliance.aspx
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/08/18/113-student-led-ieps-to-determine-ones-own-path-of-self-advocacy-with-ellen-coulston/2/
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In this conversation we sit down with Dr. Beverly Celotta. Bev is a retired Licensed Child Psychologist who shares her knowledge about how to set all children up for success.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/08/11/112-dr-beverly-celotta/2/
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In this episode we sit down with Caden Cox and his parents, Mari and Kevin, to talk about their history making and game changing journey to inclusion. Caden is the first person with Down syndrome to play as well as score in a NCAA/NJCCA College football game.
Caden’s JakeMax Collection: https://www.jakemax.com/collections/cadens-collection
'NEVER, is not in My Vocabulary' College Paper: https://www.dropbox.com/s/vm0d2tjtqs1r5ss/NEVER%2C%20is%20Not%20in%20My%20Vocabulary.pdf?dl=0
Caden’s College Power Point Presentation: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/7jo7jh80mjs9ir7gmko77/Informative-Speech-Bill-of-Rights.pptx?dl=0&rlkey=trfd9vsx23xcenee826r3jv13
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/08/05/111-kicking-down-barriers-our-conversation-with-college-kicker-caden-cox/2/
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This week we have a wonderful conversation with Dr. Eric Rubenstein, an Assistant Professor in the Department of Epidemiology at Boston University. We discuss equality and inclusion in research as it pertains to Down syndrome.
Eric’s Website: https://sites.bu.edu/rubenstein/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/07/29/110-the-future-of-research-and-the-hope-on-the-horizon-with-eric-rubenstein/2/
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Today we have an open and candid conversation with the author of ‘An Uncomplicated Life’ Paul Daugherty and his wife Kerry about their approach to early education, college, dating, sex, marriage and lots of other things we are told our kids won’t do. ‘An Uncomplicated Life’ is a book we wish we would have found earlier with the beautiful message of “expecting instead of accepting”. Whether you have a person with Down syndrome in your life or not, this book should be one you read and then share with others.
Paul's Book: https://www.amazon.com/Uncomplicated-Life-Fathers-Exceptional-Daughter/dp/0062359959
Our First Episode with the Daugherty’s (Episode 90): https://ifweknewthen.podbean.com/e/90-an-uncomplicated-life-a-father-s-memoir-of-his-exceptional-daughter-with-paul-and-kerry-daugherty/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/07/22/109-parenting-is-parenting-a-conversation-with-paul-and-kerry-daugherty/2/
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In this episode we find a way to inclusion through empathy. Our conversation with Micah Kessel was an empowering and insightful discussion offering ways to focus our advocacy and to come from a more nurturing and loving place. Micah is the creator of Empathable and Playground of Empathy. These organizations work nationally with world-renowned academics to bridge science, technology, and art to amplify the intersectional experiences of the underserved at your place of business or learning.
Empathable: https://empathable.com
Playground of Empathy: https://empathable.com/playground/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/07/14/108-playground-of-empathy-micah-kessel/2/
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Liam graduated from elementary school, on curriculum, in an inclusive classroom with his peers. We reflect on the moments that led to his accomplishment and what we could have done better if we knew then.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/07/07/107-graduating-elementary-school-a-culmination-of-what-we-learned/2/
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It was so nice spending some time with founder Ila Halby to talk about the Zeno Mountain Farm Camps, their feature film “Best Summer Ever” and the power of representation in film. Whether used as a noun or a verb, Zeno stands for inclusion.
Zeno’s Website: https://zenomountainfarm.org
Zeno’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/zenomountainfarm/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/06/23/106-zeno-mountain-farm-telling-stories-of-diversity-and-inclusion-ila-halby/2/
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In this episode we are joined by Rob Snow, the founder of The Improvaneer Method. The Improvaneer Method uses improvisation to build skills that will greatly improve social, workplace and lifetime opportunities in those with developmental disabilities. With both in-person and online classes, it is widely assessable and has been a real game changer for many people in our community. We also talk briefly about Rob’s book, ‘What I Should Have Said’ and his ‘Minimize The Mountain’ talk.
Improvaneer Method: https://www.theimprovaneermethod.com/
Rob’s Book ‘What I Should Have Said’: https://www.weneedasign.net/the-book
Minimize The Mountain (YouTube): https://youtu.be/MtZZ_7xZhT0
Stand Up for Downs: https://www.standupfordowns.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/06/17/105-the-improvaneer-method-using-improvisation-to-build-skills-and-change-perceptions-an-interview-with-rob-snow/2/
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This week we are honored to interview actress, writer, producer and director Lena Dunham. Lena cast our son, Liam, in her film SHARP STICK and it was one of the most supportive, inclusive and beautiful experiences we’ve had on this journey. Her set was a model environment for our society and we talk to her about how she developed her advocacy for so many marginalized groups and individuals, what she learned from working with Liam and her future family plans.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/06/08/104-lena-dunham-a-champion-for-diversity-and-inclusion/2/
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*Trigger Warning: The r-word is used in this conversation.
This week we interview Lynette Louise who is board certified in Neurofeedback. We were very interested in the science of Neurofeedback but early on in the conversation we moved to a serious discussion about the use of the r-word and the reasons why Lynette uses it. This episode may feel a bit intense for many of you and we understand why, but we highly recommend listening all the way through to the end.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/06/03/103-finding-our-way-through-a-tough-conversation-lynette-louise/2/
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This week we get to talk to Dr. Brian Skotko again! Dr. Brian has some updates to DSC2U.org to discuss and we also chat about the T21RS International Conference that will be taking place in Long Beach, CA. June 9-12.
Dr. Brian Skotko is the director of the Down Syndrome Program at Massachusetts General Hospital, a Board-certified medical geneticist and has dedicated his professional energies toward children with cognitive and developmental disabilities.
DSC2U: https://www.dsc2u.org
5-min video about DSC2U: https://youtu.be/u-DlSQanj54
Trisomy 21 Research Society International Conference (June 2022): http://www.t21rs.org
More about Dr. Skotko: https://www.massgeneral.org/doctors/19069/brian-skotko
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/05/26/102-dsc2u-preventative-and-proactive-means-to-staying-healthy/2/
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We were so fortunate to get to spend some time with Michelle and Paul Tesori. We met this Dynamic Duo through our good friend, actor Andy Buckley, and it is fitting that this episode is being released on PGA Championship weekend since Paul has been a PGA Tour caddie for nearly 20 years. Inspired by their son Isiah, Michelle and Paul created the Tesori Family Foundation to help support the Down syndrome community. We talk about education frustrations, what the Tesori's are doing to make a change and how we can harness our anger into a motivator to make a change.
The Tesori Foundation: https://tesorifamilyfoundation.org
Robb Scott’s Viral Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8sPT6-iGBE
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/05/19/101-learning-to-take-things-step-by-step-with-michelle-paul-tesori/2/
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Well here we are! We’ve learned so much in these two years and one hundred episodes and take this time to reflect on this experience and focus on where we go next.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/05/13/100-celebrating-100-episodes/2/
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Happy Mother’ Day! We dedicate this Mothers Day episode to celebrating your power and strength.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/05/06/99-remembering-your-power-happy-mothers-day/2/
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This week we discuss the details of the 2022 Easterseals Disability Film Challenge. We touch upon how and why we created this year's film, what the challenge has meant to our family in the last eight years and how allowing other's to share their stories is the key to true inclusion.
Our Entry’s Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/O_ENIwMCKls
Our Entry’s Website: www.JustForOneDayFilm.com
All Our Previous Entry's: https://ttmaba.com/dfc
The Festival’s Website: https://disabilityfilmchallenge.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/04/14/98-the-easterseals-disability-film-challenge-and-the-importance-of-everyones-story-being-told/2/
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In this episode we sit down with Maezen and discuss the different paths this journey has taken us, the pivot in directions we have chosen, how to trust those choices and allow some ease and embrace the gifts.
Maezen’s Book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Karen-Maezen-Miller/e/B001JP2RQ0/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/04/07/97-trusting-your-journey-and-embracing-the-pivot-karen-maezen-miller/2/
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In this episode we talk about some of the language/words we have learned that have had a profound impact on our journey and more specifically our quest for equality in Liam’s education.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/04/01/96-the-power-of-words-the-words-weve-learned-and-how-they-give-us-power/2/
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In this episode we talk with Jesse Norell whose daughter’s diagnosis of Down syndrome and a heart condition inspired him to write an album. Using music as a cathartic means to heal and find his way through the unknown, Jesse shares his story in hopes of helping others find their song.
Order a CD: https://jessenorell.com/store
For people in the Minneapolis area, Jesse is playing an album release concert on Friday, April 8, 2022. Tickets are here: https://theparkwaytheater.com/all-events/jesse-norell-and-friends
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/03/24/95-aorta-borealis-telling-his-story-through-music-with-jesse-norell/2/
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Today we are joined by Dr, Vaish Sarathy to discuss her Non-Linear Education method and to explore the positive affects that assuming intelligence has on all students regardless of presumed abilities.
Non-Linear Education: www.functionalnutritionforkids.com/nonlineareducation
Her TEDx talk "Who decides how smart you are'' where she talked about the value of Assuming Intelligence.
Vaish is a Functional Nutrition Practitioner and Science Educator. She is the founder of Functional Nutrition for Kids, and Plum Pudding Chemistry, both practices designed to optimize the learning potential of kids with Down Syndrome and/or Autism using both Functional Medicine and Non-Linear Education Principles.
She comes to Functional Nutrition with a mission to reframe health, cognition and optimal function for children with disabilities. Her perspective is shaped by her non-speaking 14 year old son, who is (in his words) an Autist with Down Syndrome - a published poet, writer, and budding advocate.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/03/18/94-assuming-intelligence-changing-the-narrative-of-down-syndrome-with-dr-vaish-sarathy/2/
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In 1969 Willie Dawkins was finishing first grade when his mother received a letter saying he would be transferring into a desegregated school the following year. In this episode we honor his story, his parents who gave him a foundation of love and support he needed to find his way through an unjust world and the advocates who came before us who fought for equality and laid the groundwork for our fight for inclusion.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/03/11/93-desegregation-and-the-foundational-ingredients-in-the-fight-for-inclusion/2/
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This week Lori shares thoughts on Liam’s twelfth birthday.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/02/24/92-liam-turns-twelve-a-mothers-message/2/
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This week we talk about our personal experience discussing education and inclusion with someone we love who is of the belief that educating our children is asking 'extra' of the school system. We also talk about our new IEP and a story that demonstrates: it is a change of heart that will change the mind that can change the world.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/02/17/91-valentines-week-changing-hearts-minds-about-education/2/
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This week we are joined by Paul and Kerry Daugherty to discuss Paul’s book about his daughter, Jillian. It is a book we wish we would have found earlier with the beautiful message of “expecting instead of accepting”. Whether you have a person with Down syndrome in your life or not, this book should be one you read and then share with others.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/02/10/90-an-uncomplicated-life-a-fathers-memoir-of-his-exceptional-daughter-with-paul-and-kerry-daugherty/2/
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In this week's episode we discuss perceptions and our experience with Lena Dunham's new film, SHARP STICK, which premiered at the Sundance Film Festival last week and starred Liam Saux. We discuss our concerns with Down syndrome representation, the affects of misperceptions and ultimately the overwhelmingly positive and insightful experience the project was to our entire family.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/02/03/89-inclusion-at-the-sundance-film-festival/2/
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We have the privilege of speaking again with our friend Paul Denniston. In this episode we discuss Paul’s new book where he breaks down his practice of healing.
Buy the book: https://www.pauldennistontraining.com/healing-through-yoga
Paul’s Website: https://griefyoga.com
Episode 22 - Paul’s 30 Minute Yoga Nidra Meditation: https://ifweknewthen.podbean.com/e/22-a-meditation-gift-from-paul-denniston/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/01/27/88-healing-through-yoga-transform-loss-into-empowerment-with-paul-denniston/2/
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This week we have a wonderful conversation with photographer Houston Vandergriff and his mother Katie. We discuss education, advocacy, focusing on the positives and the importance of finding your passion. Houston has traveled the world and his pictures communicate its beauty in the most breath taking ways.
Houston’s website: https://www.downsandtowns.com/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2022/01/20/87-downs-towns-our-conversation-with-houston-vandergriff/2/
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This week we welcome a New Year and a new school. We discuss how the educational system can make us feel and the importance of making a change when we know it’s right. We address the perceptions of failure and how to move forward after feeling broken.
Episode Transcript: https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/qsd29z/86_Making_Changes_And_A_New_Beginning_2bamo1.mp3
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The full rendition of the If We Knew Then podcast theme song “Chromosome” by Lori Saux and Stephen Saux.
Arrangement and mixing by Brady Harris.
www.BradyHarrisBand.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/12/30/85-happy-new-year-the-chromosome-song/2/
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As the year comes to a close, we share a few thoughts on the gifts of the year.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/12/23/84-happy-everything-to-everyone-a-holiday-message/2/
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Today we explore the Self Determination Program in California with Kelly Kulzer-Reyes of Club 21. Eighteen states in the US have similar personalized programs that distribute state funds in a way to insure that people with disabilities have access to appropriate services throughout their lifetime. An extremely informative episode for those who want to have more control of the state services provided for their loved ones.
Club 21: https://clubtwentyone.org
Disability Voices United: https://disabilityvoicesunited.org
Independent Facilitator groups:
https://www.guidelightgroup.org/about-us
https://www.neuronav.org/
https://www.allycs.org/
DDS website on Self Determination
https://www.dds.ca.gov/initiatives/sdp/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/12/16/83-the-self-determination-learning-circle-at-club-21-with-kelly-kulzer-reyes/2/
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In this episode we discuss advocacy in action with entrepreneur and advocate John Cronin and his father Mark. Together they have built the company Johns Crazy Socks, with a business model that Fortune 500 companies aspire to achieve. Through highlighting the strengths of others, cultivating dignity and spreading happiness they are making differences in our community and the world.
Website: https://johnscrazysocks.com/
Dance Party link: Online Dance Party with John (johnscrazysocks.com)
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/12/09/82-johns-crazy-socks-spreading-happiness-with-john-mark-cronin/2/
TEDx Talk on How People with Differing Abilities are Waiting to Help Us: John and Mark X. Cronin Give TEDx Talk on the Power of People with Dif (johnscrazysocks.com)
John Donates $100,000 to the Special Olympics: John's Crazy Socks Donates $100,000 to the Special Olympics (johnscrazysocks.com)
Researcher Publishes Dissertation on Employing People with Differing Abilities at John’s Crazy Socks: St. John’s University Researcher Publishes Dissertation on John’s Craz (johnscrazysocks.com)
John Joins Webinar on Keratoconus: John Cronin Speaks in Webinar on Keratoconus and Down Syndrome (johnscrazysocks.com)
Without the Special Olympics, There is No John’s Crazy Socks: Without the Special Olympics, there is No John's Crazy Socks (johnscrazysocks.com)
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/johnscrazysocks
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JohnsCrazySocks
LinkedIn: MXC https://www.linkedin.com/in/mxcronin/
LinkedIn: JCS: https://www.linkedin.com/company/11171456/admin/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/johnscrazysocks/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Johnscrazysocks/
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If all the world were a skate park, celebrating our abilities and individual expression would be a given. In this episode we talk to Miki Vuckovich from USA Skateboarding about their “Skateboarding For All” initiative. The beauty found in the inclusive skating community is one we strive to cultivate in the classroom and the world. You can join them on December 11th for a Virtual Wrap Party which includes members of the U.S. Olympic team and several skateboarding legends.
USA Skateboarding Web site: www.usaskateboarding.com
USA Skateboarding 2021 Wrap Party (tickets and info): https://usaskateboarding.com/blogs/news/meet-the-team-usa-skateboardings-2021-wrap-party
Miki Vuckovich, USA Skateboarding Director Of Development: miki.vuckovich@usaskateboarding.com
Skateboarding For All initiative announcement: https://usaskateboarding.com/blogs/news/usa-skateboardings-inaugural-skateboarding-for-all-event-los-angeles-november-2021
Inaugural Skateboarding For All clinic, Los Angeles (11/6/21): https://youtu.be/hl4aWq7mWRo
USA Skateboarding, Journey To Tokyo documentary (45 min): https://youtu.be/Y5zbqoKlblg
What Is Adaptive Skateboarding? video (3 min): https://youtu.be/rUgWNT14iSg
Adaptive Skateboarding In The Paralympics video (7 min): https://youtu.be/bM3jKgI2lxg
Oscar Loreto, Jr. (USA Skateboarding Board Member and adaptive pro skater): https://www.instagram.com/oscarloretojr/?hl=en
Katherine Beattie (WCMX athlete): https://www.instagram.com/ktbeattie/?hl=en
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/12/02/81-usa-skateboardings-skateboarding-for-all-initiative-with-miki-vuckovich/2/
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This week we are grateful to have Melissa Kynoch back with us to tell the story of her son, Bertie’s, heart surgery. It is a very scary experience that about half of all family’s in the Down syndrome community experience. We thank Melissa for opening up to us about the emotions she felt and for sharing all the things she wished she knew then.
12 Step Fellowship: https://www.na.org
Wouldn’t Change A Thing - https://www.wouldntchangeathing.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/11/25/80-berties-heart-surgery-talking-about-the-scary-stuff-with-melissa-kynoch/2/
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In this episode we revisit Julie Picot and talk about what the past year has held for her family and their journey. We discuss the milestones reached on her advocacy path with her daughter Elyse and what she wish she would have known earlier.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/11/18/reaching-our-advocation-milestones-as-parents-with-julie-picot/2/
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In this conversation we sit down with Sader Issa to get an update from the past year after graduating from Dentistry school and what his future holds. Being a man raised by a father with Down syndrome, we also discuss the rewards of advocacy and the awareness and change it creates vs. the negativity that can exist when his story is exposed to the many opinions of social media.
Preemptive Love: https://preemptivelove.org
L’Archie International: http://www.larche.org
Our First Episode with Sader: https://ifweknewthen.podbean.com/e/23-raised-by-a-father-with-down-syndrome-our-interview-with-sadar-issa/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/11/11/78-a-sons-advocacy-another-conversation-with-sader-issa/2/
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November is known as the month of gratitude and there is no one better to talk to about gratitude then our good friend Karen Maezen Miller. Maezen is a Zen Buddhist Priest who consistently gifts us wonderful words of wisdom. Today we discuss the practice of gratitude and how releasing expectations brings us closer to true thankfulness.
Maezen’s website: https://karenmaezenmiller.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/11/04/77-practicing-gratitude-without-expectation-an-interview-with-karen-maezen-miller/2/
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October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month and to end the month we revisited with Melissa Kynoch. Melissa is a past guest who may be best known for her appearance on the BBC Documentary Series ‘Life and Birth’. We discussed her experiences of the past 18 months and what changes she would like to see in society regarding the perceptions of people with Down syndrome.
BBC 'Life and Birth: https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m000j6v0/life-and-birth-series-1-episode-4
12 Step Fellowship: https://www.na.org
Wouldn’t Change A Thing - https://www.wouldntchangeathing.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/10/28/76-catching-up-with-melissa-kynoch-a-year-and-a-half-later/2/
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October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month. We’ve talked about self-care on this podcast and the importance for parents and caregivers to find the time to take care of themselves. We are so grateful that Paul Denniston has once again gifted us, and our listeners, with a guided meditation. This time Paul will guide us through a wonderful Loving Kindness Meditation to help us with the many struggles we can face when we so often put others before ourselves.
Paul’s Website: https://griefyoga.com
Episode 22 - Paul’s 30 Minute Yoga Nidra Meditation: https://ifweknewthen.podbean.com/e/22-a-meditation-gift-from-paul-denniston/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/10/14/75-a-loving-kindness-meditation-gift-from-paul-denniston/2/
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Cousins, Jack and Caitie, join us to reveal their concept of a Superhero Cinematic Universe where everyone has the courage to unapologetically be themselves. We discuss how their characters will celebrate the hero within and also the importance of inclusion for mental health. Caitie’s brother, Luke, stars as ‘Ultra Luke’ and we talk about their relationship and how she hopes to change the future by changing the perception of people with Down syndrome.
Jack and Caitie’s Website: https://linktr.ee/infiniteultras
Suicide Prevention Lifeline: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/10/07/74-creating-an-inclusive-super-hero-universe-with-jack-and-caitie-clonan/2/
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October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month and in this episode we discuss the true meaning of awareness and advocacy. Many self advocates have blazed a trail for the new generation in our community and we name a few of them so that we know who to look up to when we need encouragement.
Frank Stevens’ speech to Congress (YouTube): https://youtu.be/vtS91Jd5mac
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/09/30/73-down-syndrome-awareness-month-acknowledging-those-who-came-before-us/2/
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In this final episode of our three-part sibling series, we sit down with Sophia and Jake Pratt’s sister, Amy Hyde, to discuss some of the gifts of having a sibling with Down syndrome. We also explore topics including advocacy, emotions and the R-word.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/09/22/72-gifts-of-the-journey-a-sibling-conversation-with-amy-hyde/2/
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In this second installment of our three-part siblings series, we visit with Dr. Brian Skotko and Sue Levine to talk about the book they wrote entitled, ‘Fasten Your Seatbelt: A Crash Course on Down Syndrome for Brothers and Sisters’. This is the first book written exclusively for teens with a brother or sister with Down syndrome and tackles a broad range of their most common issues and concerns.
Book: https://www.woodbinehouse.com/product/fasten-seatbelt-crash-course-syndrome-brothers-sisters/
Workshop for siblings: https://siblingslearnaboutdownsyndrome.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/downsyndromesibbook
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/09/16/fasten-your-seatbelts-a-crash-course-on-down-syndrome-for-brothers-and-sisters/2/
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In this first installment of a three part sibling series, we sit down with our 14 year old daughter, Sophia, to talk about her experiences as a sibling of a brother with Down syndrome.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/09/09/insights-of-a-teenage-sibling-with-sophia-saux/2/
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As we return to school to find a new unknown, we may find ourselves facing familiar challenges and feelings. In this episode we discuss the importance of a support system that reminds us we are never alone.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/09/02/69-uncertainties-about-the-return-to-school-youre-not-alone/2/
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What is the purpose of a Special Needs Trust? What is a Living Will? How do I set up a Conservatorship when my loved one is an adult? How much does all this cost? Attorney and advocate, Enrique Perez, sits down with us to answer all these questions and more on this extremely informative episode for the entire disability community.
Perez Law Group: www.perezlawgrp.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/08/26/68-the-importance-of-conservatorships-and-a-special-needs-trust-with-enrique-perez/2/
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We have the honor again of visiting with Zen Buddhist Priest, Karen Maezen Miller, to discuss the Zen term of a “beginner’s mind” which means an open, innocent and non-judging mind, the mind we bring to everything we do when we are beginners.
Maezen’s website: https://karenmaezenmiller.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/08/17/66-the-beginners-mind-an-interview-with-karen-maezen-miller/2/
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In this episode we visit with Dr. Brian Skotko again and talk about the impact of Alzheimer’s in the Down syndrome community and we discuss some pro-active steps that may help to improve the long-term wellness for people with Down syndrome.
Down Syndrome Brain Train: https://www.downsyndromebraintrain.com
Down Syndrome Clinic: https://www.dsc2u.org
Tar Heel Reader Book Collection: https://tarheelreader.org
Find A Nutritionist Near You: https://www.eatright.org
Dr. Brian’s Book “Fasten Your Seatbelt: A Crash Course on Down Syndrome for Brothers and Sisters”: https://www.woodbinehouse.com/product/fasten-seatbelt-crash-course-syndrome-brothers-sisters/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/08/11/66-a-conversation-about-alzheimers-with-dr-brian-skotko/2/
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This week is part two of our conversation with Liv Meriano and Danielle McKinney, from the Down Syndrome Resource foundation based in British Columbia, Canada. In this episode we continue the discussion on education, supports, inclusion and changing the mindset and approach to supporting students to access the curriculum and reach their potential.
Foundation Website: www.DSRF.org
Baskets of Love: https://www.basketsofloveds.com/
Learn at Home: https://www.dsrf.org/programs-&-resources/learn-at-home-5196/
DS Education International education guidelines: https://workdrive.zohoexternal.com/external/8CkAlci1QBB-Jxfap
The LowDOWN Podcast: https://www.dsrf.org/programs-&-resources/the-lowdown-podcast/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/08/05/65-the-down-syndrome-resource-foundation-part-2-with-liv-meriano-and-danielle-mckinney/2/
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In this week’s episode we are joined by Danielle McKinney and Liv Meriano from the Down Syndrome Resource Foundation to talk about educational tools and strategies parents can use at home and implement in their child’s school IEP.
Foundation Website: www.DSRF.org
Baskets of Love: https://www.basketsofloveds.com/
Learn at Home: https://www.dsrf.org/programs-&-resources/learn-at-home-5196/
DS Education International education guidelines: https://workdrive.zohoexternal.com/external/8CkAlci1QBB-Jxfap
The LowDOWN Podcast: https://www.dsrf.org/programs-&-resources/the-lowdown-podcast/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/07/29/64-the-down-syndrome-resource-foundation/2/
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In this week’s episode Lori and Stephen visit with Jake Pratt, who with a little support, advocacy and inclusion is living his dreams and changing the narrative.
Jake’s UPS Commercial: https://youtu.be/fw97dqK6uiM
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/07/22/63-just-one-of-the-guys-our-interview-with-jake-pratt/2/
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In this week’s episode Lori and Stephen discuss the sometimes difficult action of letting Summer just be Summer.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/07/01/62-summer-advocacy/2/
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In this week’s episode we speak to Lauren Costabile, the founder of Hearts of Joy International, an organization that provides life-saving heart surgery for individuals with Down syndrome all around the world.
Website: www.heartsofjoyinternational.com
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1C1P8TA1C8NBU/ref=nav_wishlist_lists_1?_encoding=UTF8&type=wishlist
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/06/23/61-hearts-of-joy-international-with-lauren-costabile/2/
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Today we interview Máire, Heidi and Liz about their ‘Downright Discrimination’ legal campaign which fights to change the law of the land and create equality for people with disabilities. Presently, in the U.K., it is illegal to abort a fetus after 24 weeks unless it has Down's syndrome. A baby with Down syndrome can be aborted up to birth. We examine the effect this inequality has on our community by creating separation and discrimination that follows us through life. We also talk about ways we can support the cause of changing the laws.
Give to the campaign: https://www.crowdjustice.com/case/downrightdiscrimination/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/06/17/60-downright-discrimination-changing-the-laws-to-confirm-that-every-life-is-equal/2/
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Today we have a ‘Community Conversation’ with advocate Mary Cole discussing her inspiring experience with inclusion. Mary lives in Cambridge, England and has a 14 year old son with Down syndrome named Ben.
Ben’s Nursery: https://www.colourboxmontessori.co.uk/
Online Session On Puberty: https://www.downs-syndrome.org.uk/our-work/services-projects/training/
Email 'Wouldn't Change A Thing' at WCATbook@gmail.com for this book: https://www.wouldntchangeathing.org/product/wcat-book-by-celebrate-t21/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/06/10/59-education-adolescence-and-advocacy-a-community-conversation-with-mary-cole/2/
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In this week’s episode Dr. Brian Skotko shares the most up to date information surrounding the effects of COVID-19 on individuals with Down syndrome. We discuss the importance, safety and science of the vaccine along with tools to help with the process. As we enter back into the world, post-pandemic, the importance of inclusion in society continues along with so much more.
Down Syndrome Clinic to You: www.dsc2u.org
T21 Research Society: https://www.t21rs.org
COVID-19 Fact Sheet: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1rTAe4CVSGc8g63LMiTZftecZb-qHJbRdurgpvoRiyBg/edit?usp=sharing
Information for the employer and the employee: https://yournextstar.com/
Always Health Care: https://dsc2u.org/insurers
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/06/04/811/2/
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In this week’s episode we revisit one of our earlier conversations. We had the honor of talking to Chris Nikic and his parents, Nik and Patty last summer. In November Chris became the first person with Down syndrome to complete an IRONMAN. We discuss their 1% philosophy and how people with Down Syndrome can do more than ever expected if given the right tools and time.
Chris's Website: https://chrisnikic.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/05/27/57-revisiting-the-story-of-chris-nikic-becoming-an-ironman/2/
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This week we talk to Julia Toronczak about her experiences and the lessons she’s learned by growing up with her twin brother Michael, who has Down syndrome. We focus on inclusion and equity in our community and beyond.
Beyond The Waves Blog: https://www.beyondthewavesblog.com
Beyond The Waves Podcast: https://www.beyondthewavesblog.com/podcast
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/05/20/56-my-twin-brother-has-down-syndrome-our-conversation-with-julia-toronczak/2/
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Executive Director of ‘Bridgerton’, Julia Anne Robinson, joins us to discuss a film she directed in 2007 called ‘Coming Down The Mountain’ and starring Tommy Jessop and Nicholas Hoult. We breakdown this film that changed our lives and told some truths about the journey that rarely get talked about.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/05/12/55-coming-down-the-mountain-part-2-why-this-movie-is-so-important-an-interview-with-director-julia-anna-robinson/2/
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Happy Mother’s Day! Sunday, May 9, 2021 is Mother’s Day for our Canadian, Australian & American listeners. Mothering Sunday in the UK was back in March and in Mexico, Mothers are celebrated every year on May 10th. Wherever you are, whomever you are and however you celebrate… this episode is for all the Mothers of the world.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/05/06/54-mother-noun-an-ultimate-example-of-its-kind-our-mothers-day-message/2/
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In this episode, Physical Therapist, Natalie Spiteri shares her personal journey through infertility, the impact of a diagnosis of Down syndrome and the yearning for the life she imagined beyond what she was told.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/04/29/53-discussing-infertility-and-a-down-syndrome-diagnosis-with-natalie-spiteri/2/
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This week we are joined by actress Megyn Price to discuss inclusion, the importance of encouraging others to express their uniqueness and how her Uncle, who had Down syndrome, affected her family in a positive way.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/04/22/52-a-conversation-with-megyn-price-celebrating-uncle-bill/2/
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This year Liam turned 11 and in this episode we reflect where we started, what we've learned and where we are. Let's celebrate... always celebrate.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/04/16/51-eleven-years-with-liam-celebrating-another-trip-around-the-sun/2/
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Another beautiful conversation with Zen Buddhist Priest Karen Maezen Miller. We all have fears. What if we could see what is at the root of these fears, acknowledge and deconstruct them and then continue forward free from those fears.
Her books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Karen-Maezen-Miller/e/B001JP2RQ0/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/04/08/50-acknowledging-and-dismantling-fears-presence-in-our-lives-an-interview-with-karen-maezen-miller/2/
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An enlightening conversation with Dr. Mona Patel Gera to answer the questions parents of children with Down syndrome often have.
Health Supervision Guidelines: https://www.healthychildren.org/English/health-issues/conditions/developmental-disabilities/Documents/Health_Care_Information_for_Families_of_Children_with_Down_Syndrome.pdf
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/03/25/49-discussing-health-and-inclusion-with-pediatrician-dr-mona-patel-gera/2/
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March 21st is World Down Syndrome Day and we discuss our personal journey to find our celebration and what it means to us.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/03/16/48-world-down-syndrome-day-the-path-to-finding-our-celebration/2/
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As parents, we all find ourselves dealing with confusing emotions and challenges from time to time. In this conversation, Zen Buddhist Priest Karen Maezen Miller, gives us some guidance to help us deal with the negative.
Her books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Karen-Maezen-Miller/e/B001JP2RQ0/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/03/11/47-what-do-we-do-when-faced-with-challenges-and-negativity-an-interview-with-karen-maezen-miller/2/
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Our conversation with Executive Producer and Director of ‘Bridgerton’, Julie Anne Robinson about the film ‘Coming Down The Mountain’ and the importance of inclusion in media.
‘Coming Down The Mountain’ on Prime Video: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B082P67X6D/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r
Frostig School: https://frostigschool.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/03/03/46-coming-down-the-mountain-our-interview-with-julie-anne-robinson/2/
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Speech Pathologist, Kerri Wake, joins us to talk about communication, supportive tools parents can provide their children and the pathways to receiving speech therapy in the school setting.
The McRory Pediatrics Website: https://www.mcrorypediatrics.com
The Hanen Centre: http://www.hanen.org/Home.aspx
Early Milestone List: https://speechhearing.columbian.gwu.edu/sites/g/files/zaxdzs1996/f/downloads/Milestonesguide.pdf
Article on the benefits of AAC (speech generating devices): https://digitalcommons.unl.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1088&context=specedfacpub
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/02/25/45-speech-therapy-with-kerri-wake-of-mcrory-pediatrics/2/
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Stephen and Lori discuss the process of acceptance, the importance of communication and how to take time for yourself. Originally set for release a year ago, this episode celebrates Liam's 10th birthday and all the accomplishments and lessons learned over a wonderful decade.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/02/18/44-looking-back-at-a-decade-liam-turns-10/2/
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Occupational Therapist, Erin Stanford from McRory Pediatrics, visits us again for Part 2 of our OT discussion. This week we concentrate on behavior and what information parents should have to provide the best supports for their child.
The McRory Pediatrics Website: https://www.mcrorypediatrics.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/02/08/43-occupational-therapy-erin-stanford-of-mcrory-pediatrics-part-2/2/
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Occupational Therapist at McRory Pediatrics, Erin Stanford, visits us to discuss at home and at school OT and helps us more clearly define the overlap of this therapy with Physical Therapy, Speech and Behavior Therapies.
The McRory Pediatrics Website: https://www.mcrorypediatrics.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/02/04/42-occupational-therapy-erin-stanford-of-mcrory-pediatrics-part-1/2/
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Clinical Supervisor of Behavioral Services at McRoryPediatrics, Kyle Davis, visits us to discuss behavioral issues at home and at school. He also answers questions about when, how and why behaviors need to be addressed.
The McRory Pediatrics Website: https://www.mcrorypediatrics.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/01/28/41-behavior-a-conversation-with-kyle-davis-of-mcrory-pediatrics/2/
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Nikki McRory is the founder of McRory Pediatrics and in this episode Nikki gives us an insightful look at the different therapies that can help support your child in reaching their potential.
The McRory Pediatrics Website: https://www.mcrorypediatrics.com
The Hanen Centre: http://www.hanen.org/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/01/21/40-discussing-supports-with-nikki-mcrory-of-mcrory-pediatrics/2
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Steven Gustafson is a founding member and bassist of the band 10,000 Maniacs. His sister, Cathy, had Down syndrome and we got a chance to discuss with him the impact she had on his life and the lives around her.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/01/15/39-our-interview-with-steven-gustafson-from-10000-maniacs/2/
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In this episode Stephen and Lori discuss facing some of the difficulties of 2020 and how to move onto a fresh new year in a positive way.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2021/01/06/38-moving-into-a-new-year-one-moment-at-a-time/2/
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In this episode we talk with Cristina Bowman of Diff-Ability about the British soap opera Emmerdale and it’s recent storyline which depicts a couple having an abortion because their baby has Down syndrome.
Petition against Emmerdale: https://www.change.org/p/itv-bin-emmerdale-s-prejudiced-storyline-about-down-s-syndrome?recruited_by_id=2f3349b0-f96d-11e5-80fd-c1f380c9ade0
DIff-Ability: https://www.diffability.co.uk
10% Videos: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzOTYSYK2uvr96j-WowLKrxwDG-u9EsRx
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/12/05/37-our-communitys-response-to-emmerdales-negative-storyline-about-down-syndrome-with-cristina-bowman/2/
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We are thankful to have Dr. Brian Skotko on today’s episode. Dr. Brian is the director of the Down Syndrome Program at Massachusetts General Hospital, a Board-certified medical geneticist and has dedicated his professional energies toward children with cognitive and developmental disabilities. Today we talk about his new online clinic, DSC2U, the importance of inclusion and how we as a community can help the medical profession improve their delivery of a Down syndrome diagnosis.
DSC2U: https://dsc2u.org
LUMIND IDSC FOUNDATION: www.lumindidsc.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/11/25/36-giving-everyone-access-to-a-down-syndrome-specialty-clinic-with-dsc2u-dr-brian-skotko/2/
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In our second interview with Dr. Jill we discuss the methods and tools for parents who want to support their children in making good dental health habits.
Lasky Pediatric Dental Group: https://www.laskypediatricdental.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/11/19/35-creating-a-realistic-approach-to-a-healthy-dental-routine-dr-jill-lasky/2/
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The summer is a time to play and relax but if you use it as a time to front load for the coming school year, as well, it can be that academic advantage you have been looking for.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/11/16/34-how-to-use-the-summertime-to-your-advantage/2/
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We originally created this podcast to support parents of children with Down syndrome and this episode is directed specifically to new parents who have just recently received their child’s diagnosis. Our message is of hope and possibility in a world which often offers very little.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/11/13/33-our-congratulations-message-to-new-parents/2/
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Chris joins us again with his parents, Nik and Patty to discuss how they have changed their approach to learning and how that has prepared Chris to do things no person with Down syndrome has ever done before.
Chris’s Website: https://chrisnikic.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/11/05/32-changing-our-world-chris-nikics-1-philosophy/2/
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Nic joins us again to talk about the Easterseals Disability Film Challenge and letting your voice be heard through the arts.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/10/29/31-using-the-arts-to-tell-your-story-a-conversation-with-nic-novicki/2/
The Easterseals Disability Film Challenge: https://disabilityfilmchallenge.com
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In honor of Down Syndrome Awareness Month we discuss our part, as a community, in changing the perceptions of Down syndrome through our thoughts and words. We also look back on some lessons we have learned from past guests.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/10/22/30-down-syndrome-awareness-month-working-together-to-change-perceptions/2/
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We just had our first Zoom IEP session since the pandemic started and we have found several new things that parents should be aware of. We also further discuss ways to prepare for these meetings and touch on questions every parent should ask their IEP team.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/10/15/29-insights-into-our-first-covid-19-iep-session/2/
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Our conversation with author, wife, mother of three and Down syndrome advocate, Eleanor Baggaley. We discuss inclusion and her children’s books, particularly ‘Eva the Mermaid’. Eleanor also shares about her work with the organization Positive About Down Syndrome and some of her future plans of advocacy in the community.
Eleanor’s Website: https://www.eleanorbaggaley.com/shop
Positive About Down Syndrome: https://positiveaboutdownsyndrome.co.uk
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/10/08/28-a-story-of-inclusion-with-eleanor-baggaley-author-of-ava-the-mermaid/2/
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IEP's can be very overwhelming especially when you feel like you don't have all the information that you want to have. In this episode we share some of the things we have learned to be helpful during this sometimes stressful process and ways to advocate for your child while still keeping your peace.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/09/28/27-our-iep-process-somethings-we-have-learned/2/
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Our second interview with members of the PALS Programs. We talk about how the PALS Programs is planning for future camps and some of the more personal experiences the founders of the organization have with Down syndrome. Joining us is Executive Director, Jenni Newbury Ross and her mother Robyn and brother Jason. We were also joined by Congratulations Project Associate, Grace Wahle and Communications Coordinator, Colton Davies.
PALS Program: https://www.palsprograms.org
Congratulations Project: https://www.congratulationsproject.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/09/24/26-pals-programs-a-deeper-conversation-about-down-syndrome/2/
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Our second interview with Rachel Mewes. Rachel is a contributing editor to Making Chromosomes Count, the Down syndrome community newspaper. She opens up on her not so uncommon birth story and the prejudices she found in the medical profession.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/09/17/25-a-right-to-celebrate-when-the-medical-profession-steals-the-joy-of-new-parents-rachel-mewes/2/
Making Chromosomes Count: http://makingchromosomescount.co.uk
Making Chromosomes Count on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ChromosomesNews
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Comedian, actor, producer and disability advocate Nic Novicki joins us to talk about the Easterseals Disability Film Challenge and the importance of disability inclusion in film.
Film Challenge Website: https://disabilityfilmchallenge.com
Our 2020 EDFC entry: https://youtu.be/WiX-rt51szo
All the challenge’s films on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOhZ4i5Tnk3iq44Tzn03rBMOcr0bqFrnV
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/09/11/24-the-importance-of-disability-inclusion-in-film-nic-novicki/2/
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Our enlightening and inspiring interview with Sader Issa. As parents we are always told what our children will never do. What if those limits were not part of the conversation?
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/09/03/23-raised-by-a-father-with-down-syndrome-our-interview-with-sadar-issa/2/
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Paul Denniston has gifted us a 30 minute Yoga Nidra Guided Meditation. Enjoy.
Paul’s Website: https://griefyoga.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/08/27/22-a-meditation-gift-from-paul-denniston/2/
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Paul Denniston discusses how we can all heal through meditation and his Grief Yoga.
Paul’s Website: https://griefyoga.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/08/20/21-a-conversation-about-healing-and-self-care-with-paul-denniston/2/
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Another informative talk with attorney Georgianna Junco-Kelman. What do parents need to know heading into a new school year amidst COVID-19?
Georgianna's Website: http://www.losangelesspecialedattorney.com
CA Special Education Guidelines for COVID-19: https://www.cde.ca.gov/ls/he/hn/specialedcovid19guidance.asp
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/08/11/20-a-new-school-year-covid19-ieps-supports-georgianna-junco-kelman/2/
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Our interview with members of the PALS Programs. We talk about the organization and specifically their Congratulations Project. Joining us is Co-founder and Executive Director, Jenni Newbury Ross and her mother and brother, Robyn and Jason. We were also joined by Congratulations Project Associate, Grace Wahle and Communications Coordinator, Colton Davies.
Congratulations Project: https://www.congratulationsproject.org
PALS Program: https://www.palsprograms.org
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/08/06/19-pals-programs-congratulations-project/2/
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Our second interview with Ed Casagrande and Matt MacNeil from the Canadian Down Syndrome Society concerning their collaboration with Google AI to create a database that can help train Google’s speech recognition technology to better understand people with Down Syndrome.
Donate your voice at: https://projectunderstood.ca
CDSS "Down Syndrome Answers" Initiative: https://cdss.ca/down-syndrome-answers/
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/07/23/18-project-understood-part-2-two-perspectives-of-down-syndrome-ed-casagrande-and-matt-macneil/2/
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Dr. Jill Lasky discusses the importance of Pediatric Dentistry, how to introduce dental care and specifics pertaining to the Down Syndrome community.
Lasky Pediatric Dental Group: https://www.laskypediatricdental.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/07/16/17-creating-a-positive-dental-health-relationship-dr-jill-lasky/2/
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Interview with Chris Nikic and his parents, Nik and Patty. Chris is the first person with Down syndrome to complete a half IRONMAN and is training to attempt the full 140.6 mile course in November. We discuss how people with Down Syndrome can do more than ever expected if given the right tools and time.
Chris's Website: https://chrisnikic.com
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/07/07/16-pushing-the-limits-chris-nikics-road-to-ironman/2/
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Interview with Ed Casagrande and Matt MacNeil from the Canadian Down Syndrome Society concerning their collaboration with Google AI to create a database that can help train Google’s speech recognition technology to better understand people with Down Syndrome.
Donate your voice at: https://projectunderstood.ca
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/06/30/15-project-understood-ed-casagrande-and-matt-macneil-the-canadian-down-syndrome-society/2/
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Our second interview with Julie Picot, a mother of a child with Down Syndrome, and some of the challenges she has faced regarding stereotypes and preconceived notions of her child's disability.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/06/24/14-an-honest-conversation-interview-with-julie-picot/2/
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Interview with Child Development Specialist, Caroline Bencze-Fernandez. In this second appearance on the podcast, Caroline dives a little deeper into the aspects of Early Intervention, what tools parents can use at home and how therapies for children with Down Syndrome have changed over the years.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/06/17/13-early-intervention-at-home-tools-and-supports-caroline-bencze-fernandez/2/
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An interview with Melissa Kynoch, known by many for being on the BBC documentary LIFE AND BIRTH along with her sons Dei and Bertie.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/06/11/12-our-interview-with-melissa-kynoch-part-2/2/
BBC 'Life and Birth: https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m000j6v0/life-and-birth-series-1-episode-4
Wouldn’t Change A Thing:Book- https://www.wouldntchangeathing.org/product/wcat-book-by-celebrate-t21/ FaceBook Page- https://www.facebook.com/wouldntchangeathingdotorg/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/Wouldntchangea1 Website- https://www.wouldntchangeathing.org Email: WCATbook@gmail.com
12 Step Fellowship: https://www.na.org
Disability Film Challenge: https://disabilityfilmchallenge.com
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Our Interview with Rachel Mewes to discuss her interactions with Twitter and their reluctance to combat hate speech toward people with Down Syndrome.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/06/02/11-the-responsibility-and-power-of-words-on-social-media-interview-with-rachel-mewes/2/
Making Chromosomes Count: http://makingchromosomescount.co.uk
Making Chromosomes Count on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ChromosomesNews
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An interview with Melissa Kynoch, known by many for being on the BBC documentary LIFE AND BIRTH along with her sons Dei and Bertie.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/05/27/10-our-interview-with-melissa-kynoch-part-1/2/
BBC 'Life and Birth: https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m000j6v0/life-and-birth-series-1-episode-4
Makaton: https://wetalkmakaton.org
The Makaton Charity on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MakatonCharity
Makaton with Lucinda on Twitter: https://twitter.com/makatonlucinda
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An interview with our daughter Sophia to discuss her experiences of having a brother with Down Syndrome.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/05/21/9-sibling-advocacy-interview-with-sophia-saux/2/
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Interview with Child Development Specialist, Caroline Bencze-Fernandez. She explains the importance of Early Intervention, how therapies have changed throughout her 30 year career and what parents should know.
Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/05/14/8-early-intervention-interview-with-caroline-bencze-fernandez/2/
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Interview with Julie Picot discussing her birth story, some of the misinformation she encountered and how she dealt with the post diagnosis fears.
Full Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/05/05/7-prenatal-care-and-advocacy-interview-with-julie-picot/2/
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This episode focuses on a sometimes challenging aspect of parenting a child with Down Syndrome. The emotional part of dealing with IEPs, assessments and evaluations that seem to happen right around our children's birthday celebrations. We discuss how we managed these stresses and how we maybe would have done some things differently.
Full Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/04/30/ep-6-managing-the-stresses/3/
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In this episode we discuss preparations and expectations of IEP meetings, what we wish we would have known years ago and the advantages of having an advocate or attorney by your side.
Full Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/04/24/5-preparing-for-your-iep/3/
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Hello and welcome to the If We Knew Then Podcast. We are parents of two children and one of them has Down Syndrome, Liam. When Liam was born we didn't know very much about Down Syndrome and most of the information we did have didn't seem very hopeful and positive. Well this podcast aims to share honest and useful conversations about supports, therapies, education and society as it pertains to Down Syndrome parenting.
Full Episode Transcript:Full Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/04/23/introduction-our-down-syndrome-advocacy-story/
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PT in School. Qualifying for services and what to expect with a child with Down Syndrome.
Interview with Pediatric Physical Therapist Natalie Spiteri.
Full Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/04/24/4-in-school-physical-therapy-natalie-spiteri/3/
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Early Intervention PT. What is it? How to get it? What to expect and how can parents of children with Down Syndrome use it to its fullest.
Interview with Pediatric Physical Therapist Natalie Spiteri.
Full Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/04/24/3-early-intervention-physical-therapy-natalie-spiteri/3/
Gross Motor Skills for Children With Down Syndrome: A Guide for Parents and Professionals (Topics in Down Syndrome) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1606130099/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_YYaNEb5AEFWZ3
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Dealing with IEP's and Assessments that seem to happen around our children’s birthdays. Talking through the process of these events in our lives and how they effect all IEP families. Not just those associated with Down Syndrome.
Full Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/04/23/2-all-that-annual-stuff-iep-and-assessments/3/
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What should we do at this time? Are IEP's happening? What should we expect? How does this impact next school year?
We feel fortunate that Liam's Elementary School Team is doing their best to support us in helping Liam access his schoolwork. We know that this is not always the case and that parents are having a lot of questions. We hope this helps to answer some of them. Thank you to Georgianna and the knowledge she shares in this episode.
Special Guest Georgianna Junco-Kelman of https://www.SpecialKidsAttorney.com
Contact your Senator: https://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.cfm
Contact your Representative: https://www.house.gov/representatives
Full Episode Transcript: https://ifweknewthen701833686.wordpress.com/2020/04/23/1-covid-19-and-ieps-special-episode-with-georgianna-junco-kelman/3/
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