Personal Upgrade: Recent Episodes
Michael Pulser
Hello everyone, with a heavy heart, I'm announcing the end of the podcast series. Over the years, it started as a side project to assist people and share insights I've gathered while continuing in my professional journey. Originally launched in 2008, the show has subtly made its impact without any formal marketing, driven purely by passion for helping others enhance their personal growth.
Through various episodes, I hope listeners have found valuable insights, supporting their psychological and personal development. While dealing with personal hurdles, I chose not to focus on a victim mindset, refraining from pursuing any secondary gains from sympathy, which I hope resonates with many of you.
As I focus on new pursuits, remember to be discerning in what you read and listen to, recognizing potential underlying agendas. While I have two books available on Amazon – "Personal Upgrade" and "Attract Love, Repel Hate" – they're meant to encourage a quick, cognitive process drive towards personal improvement.
Thank you all for the support, and remember, if you wish to reach out, you can contact me at michaelpulser@gmail.com. Farewell and best of luck in your ongoing personal development journeys!
In this episode, we explore the profound concept that our perception shapes our reality. While we acknowledge the objective nature of reality, the subjective interpretation is what truly defines our experiences. Discover how your current activities can transform from mundane to extraordinary simply by shifting your mindset.
Dive deep into the mechanics of the mind with insights from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). Learn about sub-modalities and how our five senses—vision, hearing, feeling, taste, and smell—encode and give meaning to our experiences. We'll break down how these sensory inputs form representational systems that shape our reality.
Through practical exercises, you'll learn to change your internal sensory experiences, altering how you perceive various aspects of life, from fears and anxieties to positive interactions. Understand the power of perceptual positions and how viewing situations from different perspectives can provide new insights and solutions.
Finally, we'll apply these techniques to common issues like social anxiety, illustrating how shifting sub-modalities can lead to significant changes in how you feel and react. This episode is a journey into the mind, offering tools and strategies to help you reshape your reality and improve your life.
Faith is the foundation.
From here we build all things. If the foundation is rotten, you know what will follow.
But faith is not based simply on intensity. No matter how much you believe a snake wont bite you if you put your finger in its mouth, you will get bitten.
We have to look at the object of our faith, the reliability of it and if it is objectively true.
If these criteria are met, then you have truth - no deception and only from here, can you proceed with confidence.
MASSIVE shout out to Lee Strobel, much of this episode is dedicated to his works.
All in 15minutes?
Only listen if you have studied self-help, understand the 6 human needs and want to go deeper.
There was only one reason so many people messed up, once they realize it, everything changes, hope its not too late in your life for this one...
MMA and Psychology.
The path leads deeper than you think. Just like one path will make you a master, the other lead to a double degree of mastery.
You will like this one, at the end you become your own coach, not just by what you learn...
So, you have studied self-help for a long time, you are successful. What do you do now?
Enjoy this new perspective.
That's right, you have 0 power, no ability and are helpless in a situation.
Or are you?
In ANY situation you can change things, NOT by will power or force.
Find out how...
Not just another visualization self help podcast.
This one goes three levels deep and at the end you will realize that you must visualize or suffer (that's right - if you don't visualize you will not only have a lower chance of success, you will suffer.) amongst other things.
Lets get into it and upgrade your life.
You achieved you goals, your type A, driven.
Or even if your not.
If you fail to hit this step the outcome is usually the same = REGRET.
H8 regret? Then do the Life Review.
You can learn a confidence trick in 2 minutes, yet your life doesn't really change.
You can spend years at the psychologist, yet you only manage to feel a bit better, not BE better.
Its all about the Unconscious mind. Don't let people mess with it.
NO - Affirmations, The Secret, Wishing WILL NOT WORK.
When you learn truth it has a 'ring of truth to it.' Listen to this, as we go through not only what has to be done step by step, but also the underlying principles. Then tell me it's false?
Become your own master. Don't let your mind, past events and circumstances limit who you really are.
We all hear about CBT, yet when it is practiced it is often either:
1) Too complicated and confusing
OR
2) Too brief to be helpful
This Episode unpacks a third option
3) Utilizing first principles allows you to not only use it but understand it deeply in 3 easy steps.
In this Episode on the mind:
1) We examine how the mind works
2) The Two ways people use their minds
3) Once you use your mind correctly, how to optimize it
4) How to break and overcome environmental and genetic considerations
5) How someone used this process from becoming (objectively) a poor student, physically the weakest & slowest, with other countless limitations to being a national sports champion in combat sports, Lecturer at Universities, attaining multiple degrees, and countless other accomplishments, ALL by starting with the material in this episode.
(Spoiler alert, that guy was me.)
How would it feel if you could effortlessly be popular with everyone, even if you are introverted?
This Episode will show you how.
What if you feel fake, or are insecure?
This Episode will show you how to overcome this too.
All in one show, how to change your live and impact others.
Enjoy.
People treat you based on how you treat yourself. This is just the beginning. Lets unpack the full science to being treated well by others, and the UPGRADE is - How to elevate others to the next level, synergistically enriching your life too.
So by now, you realize that pumping yourself up gets you a short term buzz at best, but never provides true satisfaction. Or maybe mindfulness took some stress away but you still fail to truely overcome that one thing.
What if you could get the same clear result as you could from years of counselling? This technique while it isn't guaranteed, has helped COUNTLESS people.
Before you try any confidence, mindfulness or lifestyle hack. Check this out.
Game Changing.
You know it already.
SMART Goals
Different Domains
Discipline
BORING + INEFFECTIVE = WASTE OF YOUR TIME!
Yet most people fail. Even if you are one of those people who achieves the goals, are they meaningful in a few years time?
Enjoy this episode as we unpack a unique approach so NOT only will you be able to:
- Achieve ANY Goal (Finally!)
BUT (more importantly)
- These Goals will be yours, worthwhile and lead to something even bigger!
Most of this series has been about getting better. But if you build the worlds best mansion on crappy foundations, it wont last. In this episode we start the digging and healing process. Only process when your ready to make long term changes.
There are three type of people: Those who know they need to fix themselves or their past. Those who have fixed the past. Then Those who are ignorant (and think they don't have anything to fix - applies to all of us to a degree.)
Been doing this for ages, milestones reached, serving countless people online and face to face. Now is a good time to Call it... Season Two.
We all know about Projecting right? The Person who turns their anger on the innocent. The Boss under pressure who takes it out on their employee, or maybe the Partner who treats their innocent spouse with contempt.
On this episode we learn not only how to deal with the above but reverse engineer it to see how you can utilize this superpower.
When working with people who want to change, there is a difference. Those who succeed are driven, and often pain is a factor. Just like pain is God's gift to allow us to pull our hand back when it feels the sting of a blade to prevent further damage, the type of pain that drives people to change is also a gift.
The only problem is that people then set about trying to change things only to fail, or even worse change the wrong thing that has even more negative consequences.
Lets explore change technology, why it ruins some people, and how to apply it (successfully) with massive gain in your life!
We are all Lazy. Yes even you the Type A overachiever! This is the nature of the mind and how we interact with reality.
In this episode we will explore
- WHY we are all Actually Lazy
and
- How to HACK this to achieve anything (and everything!)
Personal Upgrade: The different Approach to Self Discovery and Enhanced Abilities. The Last Stop in Personal Development. Unique Approach designed for the Mind. Books available, Course Release Date TBA.
By Michael Pulser your Personal Upgrade Guide - Changing Countless Lives for Over a Decade...
This episode will focus on the Self Help Scams out there...
Apart from the obvious (tens of thousands of dollars for coaching and courses) you may be surprised that it goes deeper and chances are many of your favorite 'content creators' are doing you a MASSIVE disservice.
Watching the industry over many decades I have seen the changes and the problems from the past resolve and create new problems. If you like Personal Growth Material then you should listen to this.
BTW - if you downloaded this episode on its release... MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
Life is about challenges.
We solve problems daily with at work, home and in everyday life.
Then along comes the bomb and we realize what a Problem really is!
Learning to deal with these issues is complex, but I have broken this down to include:
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The root of ALL problems
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The two essential shifts you must make or else nothing will work
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How to practically deal with all Problems
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How to deal with the mental toll of each problem
and believe it or not how you can actually grow from the process (I know - if your career, marriage or health is at risk its easier said than done, but listen in to see what I mean)
This episode was done out of a need to assist people who have been told to look on the bright side, things will get better, do deep breathing, talk about it etc. - AND NONE OF THIS STUFF HELPED!
As always let me know what you think.
Too often we miss the mark when exploring our feelings, emotions and reactions.
Once you discover the Driver of the emotions you have the tool to control everything.
In this episode we:
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Discover the tool
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Unpack it and learn how it works against us
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Learn how to control it
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Utilize a 3 step approach to Master emotions long term
In less than 10 minutes you can at a minimum have a great day or best case - CHANGE YOUR ENTIRE APPROACH TO LIFE!
We are bombarded with information including self help.
I was honestly not going to enter the public Psychology/Personal Growth arena back in the early 2000's because of this very reason, however it occurred to me that:
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Most of the new stuff was on a conveyer belt to produce a dopamine hit at best
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Other stuff was useful for selective application only
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Full systems were rare, but most were incomplete or faulty
Doing my apprenticeship including working with people - reading those 1000 + books and more I realized that we need a complete system that the conscious and unconscious mind can utilize.
I could foresee that new data may enter the arena so I included an expansion upgrade to the system which slots into the current system and allows new information.
That way you can still browse a reddit, Quora, internet article, book or podcast and find something that is highly useful - then add it onto the Alpha Dude System.
This episode will unpack both how to do this and introduce the concept of discernment.
Someone is talking to you, then before long, they are dominating you.
You go to a social event to have fun and find that people just want to talk over you.
Everyone has dealt with something similar - this podcast covers what you can do to not only survive but thrive.
Then you can have fun. Watch as the other person starts to conform to your reality.
Of course your reality is one of pure motives, so there's no manipulation or cognitive dissonance.
Enjoy!
In this episode we will unpack many concepts including:
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How to deal with difficult people
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How to deal with your difficult states
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Learn how to overcome past conditioning
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Stop buying into other peoples Frames
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Maintain your own Frame
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Build and Upgrade your Frame
all premised on one little Secret*
We all hold past traumas in our physiology, like it or not. BUT you don't have to live with them, they are repairable, and you can even hack the same system that gave you the problem and use it to help with growth.
This episode explores how.
This is a little known field, where through deconstruction I have aligned it with the Systematic approach I tach and the synergy is amazing, you'll see.
Book reference:
Attract Love / Repel Hate: The illustrated guide to make you immune to psychological attack while instantly boosting your charisma (Rapid Reader) eBook : Pulser, Michael: Amazon.com.au: Kindle Store
This EPISODE is a prerequisite for life.
I'm sure you know to take responsibility for things by now, but how deep is this really? Can it turn someone with no hope into a complete success. What is your story that holds you back.
Not taking responsibility is an excuse, this episode holds the antidote.
Try this and watch everything change!
You are being blasted with thousands of messages daily.
A lot of its good, a lot of its bad.
However even the good stuff, there is simply too much to apply. What do we do?
This episode covers how the process of information acquisition works, how to discern and optimize the process.
If you don't take into account the message of this podcast, you may be wasting many years - lets get this handled!
Ignore those seven step guides to being assertive, build your foundation from the ground up and create real assertiveness. Only through being intentional in this process will you see results. This is possibly the simplest episode in my podcast series and definitely one of those which will change everything if you implement the advice. Side effects include self respect, more friends and defeating bullies. What's not to like?
I know, I know - The title = Bold claim yes - Click bait no!
However in this episode we look at ALL facets of eye contact - why most systems and books fail (and actually make your entire game worse) then what you can do to change everything.
Speaking vs Listening Ratios - Back to front?
The only way to communicate strength and warmth when Breaking eye contact
Why working on your eye contact makes everything worse
Why spending time interpreting eye contact is a waste of time
The deconstruction approach to the entirety of communication (thanks Jacques Derrida)
What to do to fix your flaws
and so much more!
A really comprehensive episode, hope its useful.
Further information:
Personal Upgrade: The different Approach to Self-Discovery and Enhanced Abilities using the Alpha Dude System - Kindle edition by Pulser, Michael. Self-Help Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.
Capitalism by definition depends on profits and in order to make a profit YOU are selling something.
Professionally its either your service as a teacher or a retailer.
Stepping outside of Capitalism we have social interactions which trades in value of a different kind. If you are being manipulative in either case you will fail, this episode will focus on the successful application instead.
A MUST FOR THE INTROVERT
Last year we covered Introversion vs Extroversion, how to Capitalize on the Strengths and overcome the Weaknesses see link below
This year we will dig into how you can overcome the negative effects of introversion so you can UPGRADE all aspects of your life.
An extrovert gets charged from interactions and as such electrify others with their energy (in a positive way) - before an introvert gets drained, they start at full charge, lets explore how to INCREASE your charge capacity, RUN longer before draining out and WHAT to do when you start to get drained.
Extroversion vs Introversion Link:
https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-43smc-dca677
Last episode we unpacked how to heal the past, which is imperative if you want to move past those stumbling blocks that have held you back.
Now its onto the future.
If you have the right recipe you can make an amazing cake, this is essentially the recipe for an amazing future.
If you don't truly understand logic, you could be living a lie, or worse living for a lie. Just like Martial Arts - If you want to learn Boxing go to a Boxing gym. If you want to learn Personal Growth listen to this Podcast or read the book Personal Upgrade. If you want to learn logic and reason, go to The Place that specializes in it. TESTIMONY OF A NPC ...Not Really a Podcast, more like a: Complete Course in Logic, Spirituality and Apologetics. Packaged like a Tiramisu cake, multilayered and served in a baby bowl, all mixed together. No episode is the same. Each episode has a unique focus. Always educational and most of all fun!
Testimony of a NPC • A podcast on Anchor
All of us have been hurt (or hurt others in the past.)
If you want to know how you can resolve this, it is entirely possible.
First we understand with the A vs B theory of time, working through the trauma and come out the other side healed.
Sound too much? Try it out!
The famous book 'The Charisma Myth' informs the reader on how anyone can become charismatic. Using many of the concepts in the earlier written Personal Upgrade - we unpack and of course upgrade this work.
Thinking about one thoughts is a major aspect of this system, only through introspection can we plan, correct and fulfill potential.
However it may be working against you; so lets explore the false dichotomy of mindfulness vs metacognition and how to apply it in ANY situation, from negative to positive, beginning with anxiety...
Once you can maintain long term plans regardless of the short term by developing a vision or version of short term events you have successfully Pre Framed.
Explore this concept further, make it a natural part of what you do and recognize this is what all successful people do. Upgrades as always we look at the bilateral implications and more.
If learning psychology is too hard, Self Help Bores you and your not making any changes?
The answer is here:
Learn how to change everything by changing one thing. You are already doing this unguided naturally, being intentional in this one area honestly is the difference between nothing and everything,
This episodes explores the parallels of the Word Cup and Psychology.
Train, Qualify, Understand the Rules and Play the Game.
Of course we Upgrade things, stick around and level up your game!
In this Episode:
1) We will look at liars and turn the mirror on ourselves
2) We will learn to catch others
and to Upgrade
We will go deeper of course.
Enjoy
We all have experienced pain and for some it is quite extreme.
This episode unpacks some new and unique tools to not only deal with pain, but the underlying philosophy behind it. We are all so comfortable and try to avoid pain at all costs, however this often means that the last time we had pain we didn't deal with it correctly, subsequently the mere thought triggers anxiety.
If you go through the process correctly, everything changes.
Most people who understand Frame Control realize that being outcome based it stands in stark contrast with the equally useful approach of being Present or in the moment which is outcome independent.
This episode explores the dichotomy and resolves the tension leading to synergism, I hope you like it.
This episode will reveal how you can effect short and long term change in your life, and how the immediate affects the long term (an vice versa.)
The short term approach is far different from the long term approach, and when combined together we see synergy.
Lets look at the recipe...
The paradox of chasing comfort, with all the work it takes only to find on the other side that it's not only a terrible place to be - BUT also that you worked SO hard to get to this place.
If you have experienced this, then you know something has to change, or if you haven't then save yourself the heartbreak by taking the different path.
We begin with the classic situation you have no doubt encountered.
Then we transition into how to deal with it, along the way somewhere we learn something about ourselves, and the transformation is complete.
Slightly different, this episode we look at three unusual psychological hacks.
No its not "Smile more, remember names, think positive"
These are mostly unique, quite interesting and highly practical.
You will love number two for any debate. Also Enjoy the bonus one.
It's always with you, it is in fact likely your primary driver and what motivates you.
It's the controlling force of others.
EGO
Lets unpack:
What it is
How to recognize it in your (and others) actions
and of course:
What you can do about it.
We know we should act with integrity right?
But how can we make it really happen?
And when you do it right, did you know there are many unexpected benefits?
Lets dive in.
Growing is essential, and once you have grown to achieve what you set out to do, now what?
This episode explores the concept that stops the Successful individual from fulfilling their potential, what is it? Listen in :)
Avoiding violence is noble right?
Well - if you have no ability to use violence then you simply are avoiding a beating.
However if you have the ability and choose not to use it? THAT is power that incorporates the physical and mental, which translates to all areas of your life, stay with me to see what I mean...
Make sure in the craziness of the year you take time to get away at some point, you cant afford NOT to.
Last day of my Holidays today and it has been amazing!
Reset = Recharge
First break in 2 years from uploading, recommencing as of next weekend
Stay tuned
This technology allows the individual to see clearly where they are, how they got there and more importantly - HOW they can change everything to move towards a new direction.
If you want to stop eating junk food IF you want to stop being judgmental or critical If you want more confidence or Even if you want to fulfill your potential
- then this is the tool that reaches down and creates deep change.
As always Personal Upgrade promises to Upgrade this beyond, so for any NLP Practitioners, pay attention to the novel aspects of the strategy in todays podcast....
"There are things known and there and things unknown, and in between are the doors" Jim Morrison Questions drive us and while the answers have utility, they are not the ultimate. This episode will explore this unusual dichotomy and teach you: - To excel at any given situation - To understand yourself and of course - How to Upgrade yourself. Lets begin!
If you could will yourself to do what you wanted to do, life would be amazing right? Possibly - the fact is many people do this and either fail or are miserable.
This doesn't make sense, until you realize discipline while being an incredible tool is not enough on its own...
If you want to spend a significant portion of your day 'meditating' to become centered:
1) This will consume a significant amount of your valuable 'spare' time
and
2) Results are NOT guaranteed
What would be better, is a tool you can use in the moment, that could help you to calm down the craziness, become charismatic and just enjoy your life...
Once you realize, I mean understand at a deep level that you make up your fears, you are on the way to conquering them.
'But what if it's a dog going to attack me?' or something equally urgent?
This and other questions are answers within.
Remember:
Defeat your fear and start living.
You are not alone whatever you are going through:
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Perhaps you are in a Rut?
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Maybe you are being attacked in someway by others?
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Or did you make a mess of things?
Four words: YOU ARE NOT ALONE, not only has it been done before but there are documented patterns of such behaviour, learning these will assist you in overcoming.
Understanding this is just the first step...
We are around one hundred episodes deep so far.
In the process we have undertaken the equivalent of full courses in:
Memory, Hypnosis, Habits, Persuasion, Verbal Self Defence, Parenting, Alpha Systems, Social Dynamics, Emotional Alchemy, Psychological Warfare, Character and Leadership, Resilience, Stress Management, NLP, CBT and so much more...
So what are you going to do now?
A) Enjoy the intellectual buzz?
or
b) Use all the learnings to change absolutely everything to Beast!
The famous problem, do you want to:
1) Over come challenges and obstacles
or
2) Attract the good things in your life
- What if you could do both automatically? Listen on...
Life is a series of choices.
Choose whats right,
Chose what makes you happy,
Choose what is important.
However are you aware of the implications of each choice? Each time you say yes to something you are in effect saying no to many more things. Let's go deeper in this episode...
We are directly influenced by our environment, and impacted by those closest to us, as such we need to make sure we make the right choice when it comes to dealing with difficult people.
Sometimes its good to cut them out, sometimes however this will hurt you in the long run.
Let's deal with this dichotomy head on.
Cause and effect in science is straight forward but in terms of human behaviour, it's not.
This is not necessarily a negative though, through understanding and adapting to this, we are able to make the changes to achieve more than you even thought was possible!
From here you can achieve any goal, behaviour or outcome.
We have all heard about gratitude as a tool of personal transformation, however this episode explores the practice at a deeper level leading to amazing results.
Then we have our guest on:
Dane Dormio is a martial artist and mindbody mastery mentor. Since his first spiritual awakening in 2004 he has dedicated his life to understanding the secrets of flow states and optimal human performance.
The unique approach to being the most charismatic person in the room.
Learn, enjoy, apply and watch the benefits. SUPER EASY.
Either you have a quick wit or you don't?
Fine - if you don't its ok -Lets develop one by exploring:
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The Underlying Psychology
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The Framework
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Techniques and More
That will transform you from the person who has a delayed response to saying what you need to at the right time.
From the System, we will examine a small part of your Attitude.
Specifically the 2x R's that allow you to:
- Aggressively Pursue your Goal
and Importantly:
- Overcome difficulties as they arise.
These two aspects are synergistic, and the results are amazing, stay tuned.
In this episode:
From the studying of those who came before us we can then learn so much which will in turn enhance our lives.
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What to Read
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How to Read it
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What the benefits are
and
- How the process allows you to reflect ton your life and guide your future.
Dreams and Dreaming.
Everyone does it, few of us understand them, until now.
This episode will examine sleep and dreams, then delve into dreams and how they affect the mind. Creating change in your dreams can create change in the real world.
Tune in and see how!
Jung's introversion and extroversion have both defined and limited people since it's inception. It is incredibly useful as a starting point, but it must not limit you.
Learn about the true (Upgraded) powers of the two positions, then establish how you can achieve balance between the two.
Even if you have learnt about these concepts prior, I hope you enjoy this episode as it introduces unique concepts that help you to Upgrade once and for all.
This episode explores the missed step of cleaning out the closet, THEN adding upgrades, so you can fulfil your potential.
Stop wasting your time with self help, only to find out that you are in the same place. We will look at the final blocks that hold you back so you can make the Upgrade tools work for you.
Skip this and you build a house on a crap foundation...
Have you been told to sell by:
Enhance the positives / Hide the negatives?
Or more advanced:
Sell emotions.
What if there was something that is MUCH greater...
Stay tuned.
We also have our coach on to work through mindset:
SassBoss CEO Sara Weiss
Did you know society is programming you, how you should think, act and respond?
Realising this is the first step, understanding how to break free from the programming is the purpose of this episode, stay tuned and keep an open mind.
Avoiding conflict leads to ultimately more pain.
YET if facing it was that easy, we would all do it.
So what is the solution?
In this episode we examine Conflict and Fear, how to not only overcome it but thrive and transform at the level of your identity, let's begin...
This episode will cover a whole lot.
First let's understand what social pressure is about, then upgrade your mindset to deal with anything; after which you will communicate to yourself AND others what's happening in your reality.
Then we Bring on Sameer Sharma to talk about his journey in Martial Arts and Personal Growth.
www.saemeersharma.com
Your mind is truely incredible. With the power beyond the greatest supercomputer, you can use it to solve OR create OR compound Problems.
What will you do with yours?
Our Coach Dawn Chantel is on to talk about her story and how she changed everything with some simple reprogramming.
Dawn Chantel
http://www.dawnchantel.com
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDVCXp3Njzmp_Wo39kRaHtw
How do we retain control of our psychology when physiologically we are out of control?
The Nervous, Endocrine and Multifactorial responses aimed at maintaining homeostasis, often work against us - then people describe maladaptive responses including:
Panic Attacks
Chronic Anxiety
and Poor Mental Health
This episode will help you to overcome. Then you can utilise it to level up and make your Personal Upgrade.
This is a hard topic for sufferers, feel free to reach out as required...
michaelpulser@gmail.com
When you get that not so gentle reminder, that sick feeling that something is not right, it is the cognitive dissonance that it reminding 'you are off course.'
What you do with it changes everything.
Will you fight for homeostasis, and overcome or compromise yourself.
This episode will guide you to the correct path home.
Who do you follow? More importantly why do you follow them? Final step - how do you follow them?
The answer to this defines the outcome you will get and is the reason why we often get exactly what we don't want.
Don't be a poser
Don't copy others
In this episode we learn how we can learn from others and how iron sharpens iron. With the help of our guest Jessica Barclay and her unique approach.
www.jessbarclay.com www.pageantlandpodcast.com @jessicaabarclay Insta & Twitter www.facebook.com/msgalaxygirl
In this episode:
How to read Minds
Unabomber psychology Hack
Unpacking Altitude from the Alpha Dude System
and
Marc and his daughter come on to talk about becoming an Author
http://ritortofamilybooks.com/
In this episode we will cover:
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Knowledge Breadth vs Depth
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Open your Horizons
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Overcome Stress
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Increase your impact
and our Coach Aubrey Johnson is on to discuss his story and perspective.
check him out roadtorediscovery.podbean.com
If you're not growing your dying right? Yet so many of us feel the need to conquer the world before conquering ourselves.
This episode will focus on the fix:
1) Start Growing
and
2) Grow the Right way.
Let's begin.
Our coaches are back! This week we welcome speaker, writer and coach Lori Beard.
Lori Beard Coaching
Neo : What are you trying to tell me? That I can dodge bullets? ... You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes ... (from the Matrix.)
There is much discussion about red and blue pills, and between pseudo self help, pop culture, viagra, left and right wing politics, becoming 'woke' and waking up it has basically lost its true meaning.
When you take the red pill, it is the step of pursuing truth. The truth is not always pleasing to hear, so we often gather teachers to please our itching ears instead. If you are ready, let us begin.
In this episode we will unpack the incredible tool that has an extensive evidence base which supports its use.
Used for self change, on others, family and social dynamics. Once you understand what Influence really is, you can then motivate or persuade others in the most ethical and effective manner.
You must have heard or read something about memory and hacks to improve your memory. After seeing someone memorise large lists effortlessly you may try their techniques only to find that it does require more effort than you thought.
There are two options: be flooded by information on how to master your memory or spend a few minutes listening to the show, then the same time practicing and you will be infinitely better off.
Imagine if you could overcome social anxiety? You don't suffer this affliction? Think again! It's a spectrum and we all experience it at times, which severely limits us in multiple areas of our lives.
Overcoming it it Easy!
The solution is discussed in the podcast or better yet the book:
(Free on Kindle unlimited or .99c if regular)
Once you overcome this you are on the road to success, this is something our guest Chris Hunter knows a lot a bout and is on to talk about his journey.
Chris Hunter
yardbirdtuna.com
Welcome to the science of Psychology.
In this episode we examine Newtons 3 laws of motion, as it applies to emotions.
Simple, short and profound. Enjoy.
So you know verbal self defence - GREAT!
You even know physical self defence - AWESOME!
Now you are talking and your abruptly interrupted now what? Following on from the Verbal Self Defence episode we examine:
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How to deal with interruptions
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How to deal with Hecklers
and of course the psychological and philosophical underpinnings of both approaches.
Short and Succinct.
Welcome 2020! With a new year comes new opportunities, and unfortunately the potential for others to abuse your good nature, this episode will safeguard you from this endemic problem. Remember: If you don't stand up for yourself, you are telling others and yourself that you are worth-less. So let's stand up, in a dignified, savy and effective manner. Our coach will be Earl Breon - Speaker, Coach, and Mentor, in this edition he will share his amazing back story from humble beginnings to developing the Leadership Phalanx. Earl Breon
The Leadership Phalanx
Aka ZERO to HERO
I hope you had an amazing Christmas and wish you all the very best for 2020!
This episode is in response to some of the listeners I interact with about martial arts, it unpacks my martial arts journey, which runs in parallel to my personal development journey.
You may hear people say, “If I can do it – then anyone can…”
In my case I really mean it, coming from the worst athletic background ever, to where I am today
- Rather than impress you - I want to impress upon you that you really can do it, even if objectively speaking you are pathetic physically, because I was probably worse than you were!
PS: Update - Something I’m not sure I mentioned in my recording was that I finally passed the arduous 2nd Dan Black belt testing in 2019, along with going up a grade in Jujitsu, all while focusing mostly on boxing. Please comment or message me if maybe Martial Arts is part of your 2020 plans and / or what your 2019 achievements were?
This episode will go through my personal philosophy in life, which will be a slight change from the focus on psychology. I hope this is useful as you prepare for the new year.
Once you aligned and live with integrity, life is actually fulfilling, and the struggle starts to fade...
Joining us is our Guest Sharon, to discuss Courage.
Sharon Koenig, CPLC Fearless Pursuits, LLC "Be fearless in building the business AND life that lights you up!" The Podcast: https://bit.ly/36d1o9T www.Facebook.com/FearlessPursuits Instagram: http://bit.ly/2tg3Ugc YouTube Channel: https://goo.gl/NyCo7J
Success = Happy?
Sometimes - yet why are there numerous examples of happy people who aren't successful (e.g. the happy homeless man) vs the successful person who isn't happy (e.g. suicidal celebrities.)
The fact is that these two paths may influence each other - however the strategy for each is unique to itself.
In this episode we will explore success, happiness and how to pursue them effectively so you can have your cake and eat it too.
Joining us is Janet Mohapi-Bank - Coach, Speaker, Mentor and Amazon Number 1 International Best Selling Author, who will explore how she developed her own 'Habits for Happiness.'
success@janetmohapibankscoaching.com https://janetmohapibankscoaching.com
Real Anxiety is... crippling.
Everything is harder than it should be, logic wont overcome it and any emotional appeals to address it are often negative or even worse - destructive.
What would it be like if you could take anxiety head on and handle it properly? This episode explores the concept, and even if you have minor stress in your life, it can be utilised in these settings too.
Now, what if your childhood was ripped away from you. You wake to your mum being beaten to a pulp right before your eyes? WELCOME back our guests starting this week, beginning with Erik Allen, who actually went through this experience and many more, and managed to come out on top.
Erik Allen https://topratedmma.com/ Top Rated MMA - Owner
Ask any high achiever what their secret is, statistically most include some variation of habits and routines.
By doing this right you can be sure that it will have a massive impact on all areas of your life:
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Get your Blackbelt
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Become a Lawyer
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Earn a million dollars
Each thing you want to achieve is largely predicated on it.
BTW - Don't forget to flip it and kill the bad habits too!
10,000 hours to Mastery? What if you wasted your time mastering a skill you hate?
What if you wasted your time exploring - yet mastered nothing?
This episode is the antidote.
There are so much amazing possibilities in the world, and all you have to do is to learn the blueprint to take advantage of it all.
One of the Four A's of the Alpha Dude System is examined in this episode, get the cake and eat it. Experience limitless, and enjoy the limitless satisfaction of mastery too.
Do you have a message that you need to share with others?
What changes could others expect from your message?
Importantly, HOW can you get your message out.
This episode will show you step by step how to achieve all of the above. Make sure you know your stuff, you are ready for the journey and you have the right tools. Then the adventure begins.
What if you could not fail? Hmmm sound so full of potential, but questions like this will harm you instead of help if you haven't got the right order.
Put the Horse before the Cart, tune in to see what I mean...
Are you bored?
Do you lack social skills?
Do you want to level up wherever you are?
Let's do all of the above - have fun, learn, and grown - all while developing a great story to tell with it afterwards!
Guaranteed to shake up your life, enter if you dare.
Afterwards we have Wassim back to present a Masterclass on something you shouldn't experiment with - your wife and family.
Wassim
Life Mastery Call Booking - https://appoint.ly/t/wassimdabboussi
Free E-Book - Man Decoded Secrets BlackBook: The Underground BlackBook "They Don't Want You To Know About!" www.mandecoded.io
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The opposite of negative is ________?
When you focus on this, everything gets better, but is it really that easy? In this episode we make it easy, with one simple method.
Following this we have our guest on Coach Rachel Grant, who is on to discuss:
Taking Charge of Your Trauma Brain - Healing Sexual Abuse
Rachel Grant, M.A. Counseling Psychology Sexual Abuse Recovery Coach www.rachelgrantcoaching.com
Parenting, the final frontier?
Seriously, no one really knows what they are doing, every generation has their own ideas and ultimately the short comings are evident as the child becomes an adult.
With so much conflicting information what should you do?
In this episode we explore parenting from first principles, utilising psychology and being intentional in the process so that you wont get surprised with the results.
To help us we bring back Jeremy Roadruck, who now runs his own parenting podcast.
https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-parenting-program-show-jeremy-roadruck-6tF5_BAbPrC/
It's nearly the end of 2019 - how are you doing?
Are you on target for your goals, and more importantly, are they goals that:
a) Have fulfilled you?
or
b) Will fulfil you?
In this episode we go over:
Goals
My Progress (as per your request)
Next level Goals
Experience and Goals that matter.
Then we have our guest:
Audrey from Podchix - who is here to teach "Stop chasing the dollar!"
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Question - What is the difference between beautiful and dreary scenery?
Answer - The focus, and how do we achieve such focus?
Answer - Focus on what you want to the exclusion of everything else!
Photographers do this when they take photos then put a frame around it, we do this daily consciously or unconsciously.
Be international and make your neurology work for you.
Kacie is on as our guest Coach today - the coach who has a heart for helping. Kacie is available on Facebook:
Kacie Steinmetz - Relationship Coach and Natural Wellness Champion
EXTRA episode to celebrate international podcasting day...
Take anchoring to the next level, then we are joined by our guest Kim Brown.
drkimbrown.com
The UPW episode!
Featuring coaches and attendees from the conference, unpacking the event and more. Everything you ever need to know about attending a Tony Robbins event - including a breakdown of the psychology behind it all.
Featuring:
Robert Elliott
Relilient Sales & Accountability Coaching
www.robelliott.com.au
AND
Wassim Dabboussi
Topic: How UPW and immersing myself in personal development saved my marriage and family!Wassim
Life Mastery Call Booking - https://appoint.ly/t/wassimdabboussi
Free E-Book - Man Decoded Secrets BlackBook: The Underground BlackBook "They Don't Want You To Know About!" www.mandecoded.io
Facebook page is https://www.facebook.com/theofficialwassimdabboussi/
Facebook Profile: https://www.facebook.com/wassimdabboussi78
When models are created they facilitate learning if they are put together in a systematic diagrammatic fashion.
On this Episode we will Examine:
Tony Robins and the 6 human needs
Steven Covey and the 7 habits
and the Personal Upgrade Model.
So what about Tony? Well this episode is prerecorded, and if you download it when it comes out chances are I will be with him @ UPW. Will unpack this further next week.
By examining our lives we can be intentional with our time, the secret is in the questions, then the answers will take care of themselves.
BUT if you ask yourself a question like:
What is good about my situation?
- (which is a great question) - if you are depressed then the answers will vary greatly from the answers you give when you are resourceful.
SO - get those perceptual filters and make it count.
Joining us today is Clair Pyle with the message - Left Standing
In examining her life she discovered when examining the turning points in life:
the lowest point of our life can lead to the most significant turning point in our life!
Facebook page – ClairPyleLifeCoach
Website – www.clairpyle.com
Rules.
By Dictating what we can and cant do we are both liberated and trapped. Work out what category we are dealing with, is the rule malleable and what the alternative could be.
You should be living an amazing life - are you?
Now let's flip it - what does failure mean to you? Here to help us is Paul:
Paul is the Founder and Creator of the Podcast My Perfect Failure. The Podcast that believes our Failures are a vital ingredient for our future successes. Although the subject is about Failure, My Perfect Failure takes a refreshingly positive spin on this subject leaving his audience with an abundance of tips, tricks and tools they can easily introduce into their everyday lives. Paul speaks to experts on this subject and also those who reveal how their failures have been critical to their success.
Away from Podcasting Paul is an experienced Digital Advertising Professional in London where he has worked for many of the Leading U.K. Publishers and more recently Paul has transitioned away from Publishers to working in the Digital Tech space.
When Paul isn’t working on My Perfect Failure he likes to hang out with family and friends, hit the gym and listen to music.
Social Media
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Instagram: padsmpf/
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Website: http://www.myperfectfailure.com/
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Twitter: https://twitter.com/failure_perfect
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Access to My Perfect Failure Closed group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/377418129517757/
Advertisements, Click bait, Marketing Departments... Welcome to 2019
If you haven't learnt to protect yourself by becoming skeptical, you will fall for anything, yet it often works against you.
In this episode we examine this phenomenon, and how to overcome the part that limits you.
Once you learn to trust yourself, you can then move onto actually liking yourself and from this place you are able to fulfil your potential.
Here is Laura Morrice
www.lauramorrice.com
A Guard protects something important.
Special things need protection as it equates importance with worth and value. So tell me – are you important?
Of course you are, now let's protect.
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Our scheduled guest backed out last minute guys (sorry) hope you enjoy the episode.
Escape Prison… Using modern psychology.
Decisions dictate our life, be it good or bad.
The double edge of the same knife cuts deep, so intentionality counts, please take the steps outlined in this episode introspectively and discern its value.
Re: the title - Escape Prison… Using modern psychology.
Albeit I am talking about the mental prison we lock ourselves in, our next guest John Henderson is on to discuss how he used psychology to escape his mental prison which lead eventually to him actually leaving the physical prison he was in.
Our Guest:
John Henderson, a speaker, top 10 Amazon bestselling author, and occasional blogger. He went from high school dropout to college professor. He also rode to work every day on a rope, attached to the bottom of a helicopter for six months, in Hawaii. He has spoken all across the country and has built a multi-million dollar business in the process. You can connect with John at the following places. https://www.facebook.com/startyourthingnow/, http://www.johnhenderson.org/sway-launch-team/, https://twitter.com/johnhendersonis,
Here are your magic perceptual filters, once you install them you should be able to largely adjust the lenses to filter out the negative, when you want to have a good time or perhaps transition to the curiosity filter to master a subject when studying something of interest.
These glasses are fun and adjust the flow of your life, yet in reality its all about the decisions we make so hopefully the change in filters help you make the right decisions where they count…
Speaking of big decisions, like family our next guest Isabel is on to discuss her major choice NOT to have children. Although for myself and countless others children are perhaps the greatest part of life, there are those who have another mission. Here is Isabel Firecracker.
Isabel Firecracker
https://www.theuprisingspark.com/ https://www.instagram.com/theuprisingspark/ https://www.instagram.com/thehonestuproar/ https://www.facebook.com/isabelfirecraker
Here is the 3:
1) The Power of your mind
Psychology is all about how we interpret the world, and it's important to unpack the tools we use to receive the data before interpreting.
Understanding this as a two step process is pertinent because then we can understand at the deepest level THAT EXTERNAL EVENTS DON’T AUTOMATICALLY CAUSE THE INTERNAL ONES, it’s the interpretation of it, and this episode will explore this component.
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This illustrated guide can be digested in less than an hour - come learn this unique tool which is game changing!
For next weekend only (August 10th and 11th) it will be available completely Free! Please check it out and if you do like it, it would really mean a lot if you could write a very short review @ the kindle store.
This is the second work by Michael Pulser, who's first book 'Personal Upgrade' went to #1 thanks in large part to those who bought or downloaded it.
Have a great day!
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3) International Guest, from Singapore Rayson Choo, is on to share his inspirational journey of overcoming, personal growth and what you can do to change your life as well.
Rayson Choo#Raygacy Host of The Raygacy Show Transformation Catalyst 👑Create your Legacy from within.⭐
Depression is beyond sadness, yet there is hope and many have overcome this and went on to live amazing lives of fulfilment.
To do this you need to understand what the issue it, how we got there in the first place, then you can:
1) Move from the depth of despair
then
2) When you are out of the hole, start to build a castle!
Clinical depression is serious and if you suffer from this then please reach out to a professional. This type of material is aimed at (point #2) however as long as you are getting the help you need it may assist you as you work out of the hole.
Here to help is Becky, who not only teaches a wonderful message, but also has an amazing story on how she overcame the worst.
Becky Scheliga
https://linktr.ee/complimentalry
Sounds like click bait I know, but once you listen to the episode you'll understand the true story.
Using this powerful change technology you can perform at your highest level yet. As always we bring on guest and expert, this time:
Altovise Pelzer who is a Best-Selling Author, Professional Speaker, Live Streamer, Life Coach and founder of the World Voice League. She will share her story and how she was able to overcome extreme adversary.
Wherever you are, you can move forward.
Altovise Pelzer #SpeakEasy Podcast => bit.ly/speakeasypodcastshow
Last episode we built the foundations for dealing with stress, now let's go even deeper!
Once you master this, stress can actually help! It can help you accomplish tasks more efficiently and even boost memory. Then it can be utilised as the vital warning system it was made for, producing the fight-or-flight response for real life emergencies.
Next we move beyond coping and onto thriving and this is where we meet out next guest Trevor Oldman who at 22 years old has built his own online business up and not let stress get in his way.
https://podcastingyou.com/
Stress is the body's way of responding to pressures.
In this episode we set up the foundations for dealing with stress. In Part 2 - next week we will go even deeper and look at the issue from all angles, then with clarity and confidence you can move forward without being hindered by this negative emotion.
Want to upgrade?
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This episode is a life hacking one, 3 things you can do to make drastic positive change. Done in the right way and by being intentional, it changes everything.
Our next speaker is a coach who is here to share his stories and tips on personal development.
Chris Waterguy
http://www.chriswaterguy.com/
Imagine if you were able to set up a mental process where you could automatically:
1) Never be walked on again
2) Always react the right way
Allowing you to focus on your goals. If this sounds beneficial, then this episode is for you! We also bring on Bill from Strokecast to show how you you can stay on tract even if you have a set back, and Bill had a CVA.
https://strokecast.com/
Worldwide the average lifespan in 71.5 years. Yet, what if you or a loved one is a statistical deviation and you aren't promised the seven decades?
In this episode we will examine time, its properties, how you can make the most of the time you have. Then we bring on the amazing Guest Tanya Kraisingr, who shows how she overcame personal tragedy with the loss of her husband, trained Kung Fu in Shaolin and so much more.
Tanya Kraisingr
https://soundcloud.com/bizbuilders
If you lie to yourself, then everything else is lost, if you know it to be truth there is everything to gain in the fight for it.
Jeremy is on to discuss his Journey from the struggles he faced, to embracing his truth and the fight behind it all. Kung Fu and all.
Jeremy Roadruck
www.Theparentingprogram.com
While resilience will help you to overcome all things, it must be remembered that you can come back from wherever you are, and our next guest is here to share with us his story on overcoming drug addiction, going through jail time then onto being highly successful.
BUT before we go there I would like to again thanks those who have got a copy of the new ‘Personal Upgrade book’ , and if you liked it, I would really appreciate your review at amazon.
I would also like to encourage those of you who haven’t reached out - to flick me an email. I communicate with many listeners already, but I know for so many others its a one way dialogue, so if you have any questions or comments let me know @ michaelpulser@gmail.com
Thanks to those who sent their condolences to the loss of Big Al, he was truely I great guy.
Our Guest is Ben Swicegood
https://www.theupliftingplace.com/
This episode is dedicated to one of my best mates 'Big Al' who died recently, unexpectedly before he even turned 40 years old.
In this show I discuss:
My Friendship
My Deepest Regret
and share the message with you, that was made for him.
We are joined by Dr Sean McDowell, famed author and teacher to help with this journey. A rather personal podcast, next week normal programming will return, in the meantime let me know what you though about this episode.
michaelpulser@gmail.com
Sean McDowell (PhD)
https://seanmcdowell.org/
When we were children we had many magical abilities that we seem to have lost today. As we grow up we loose both this skill and many childish habits.
Once we learn what this skill is and how to get it back, suddenly life takes on a new meaning and a myriad of problems are overcome. Some people advise going back to their child state but it brings up drama or childish ways. This focuses on only pulling the good back.
At the end we conclude with a BONUS hypnosis session, to be done only when you can give it your undivided attention.
When you see someone stand up despite being scared it speaks to us at our deepest core. Courage, perhaps one of the greatest traits, like a diamond it is equally rare. In this episode we examine what it takes to be courageous.
This is followed by a special announcement...
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If you have heard me talk about psychology, alpha males and being true to your self, at some point you may wonder - "Who is this guy?" +/- "What's his story?"
This episode is in response to those who have asked for some of my background, along with some of the challenges I've faced and how I have overcome them. This is a stand alone episode so there wont be any guests on this week.
Hope you enjoyed it and if you have any questions please visit my website: https://michaelpulser.podbean.com/
We often try to distract ourselves from life when it becomes too mundane. When the distraction becomes a greater source of joy than life, addiction sets in.
Albeit addiction is a spectrum, this episode lays the groundwork for both the standard model and another unique mode of dealing with addiction.
Prevention is key, and by having a solid purpose we can avoid the potential for the pitfall. Josh Mclean is here to help us with that aspect.
https://www.catalystignite.com/about/
When you learn how and why others attack, you can then intelligently deal with any situation. If you must fight back, you can do so and remain in control and keep the advantage, or if you wish to deflect then you have the option to do this and guide the outcome as you wish as well.
We will explore this using the top down approach, and our Guest from the 'Wading in Podcast' often uses such an approach in analysing various subjects.
Wading In Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/wading-in/id1449672229
Emotions often control us, unless we take control, this episode explored the fundamentals of controlling one’s emotions (which we will expand on this further in future episodes.) This is a special way to change.
As I mentioned in the very first episode of Personal Upgrade, we live our lives with our loved ones, and if we fail to give this domain the same attention we give to our personal growth, then relationships fail and life gets messy.
Our next expert guest Tyree is on to help those of us who struggle in relationships, and teach how we can make otherwise dead relationships come back to life.
Tyree Wilson
Looking at role models like 'The Rock' gives us a reference point into what is possible, and in this episode we examined this process briefly. The purpose of examining these individuals is to inspire us to achieve more, yet we should always remember the simple things in life.
Things like joy and happiness.
This week we bring on Mike, from make time online to discuss his take on happiness and positivity.
https://maketimeonline.com/
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This episode we talk about the Alpha Dude system and how it translates to ladies, to give them the edge when it comes to Personal growth. Mariah then comes on to give her perspective on psychology, females and mindfulness.
Once you see what is transferable between the genders, most aspects are universal and so transferable between the sexes. I would like to thank all the ladies for tuning into the podcast today and urge you to keep listening, as the information in upcoming podcasts are both transferable and enriching, in this unique system you are unlikely to find anywhere else.
Thanks Mariah
Podcast: How do you solve a problem like Mariah?
In this episode we examine how to master your voice, to command respect whilst being charismatic at the same time. This is an important part of the system, while many others fail to give this component the attention that it deserves, (but when you do, it pays massive dividends.)
With this in mind, please pay particular attention to the verbal delivery of our next guest, Dennis Sumlin who is a confidence coach. More importantly though, he has worked extremely hard at his craft, in mastering his voice and delivery, earning him prestige and recognition with the international speaking organisation toastmasters.
https://coreconfidencelife.com/
In this episode there are some unique techniques and hacks that allow you to make rapid change in the area of self confidence and personal development.
Remembering this is simply part of the greater system, where we balance these 'Upgrades' with true Authenticity, as such we bring on a special guest.
Actor, Rapper and Author Lester Greene is on to discuss his journey from witnessing a murder in Harlem, to being a rapper, then Actor and Author. Throughout it all he developed his own philosophy that he lives by and is here to teach - Act like you love yourself.
https://www.lestergreene.com/
Understanding and Mastering your mind is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself.
This not only means you can upgrade yourself, but appreciate what others are going through. The payoff is the adaptive distancing which is important so we don’t get caught up in others dramas.
Frankie joins us again, to explore deeper his life's purpose and his pivotal experiences using the plant medicine Iowaska.
frankfihn@gmail.com
One the biggest hurdles many of us face is in displaying a confident personality without feeling like a fake, it's something we all need need to work on. Being overly concerned with others judgements sets us up for the the nice guy trap, where we act in a manner with the expectation that we will receive something. A better word for this is being manipulative, and despite our best intentions manipulating is never cool.
We examined the critical step to change everything in this episode and then bring on a guest who has mastered this to change his life.
Frankie Fihn of Sacred Planet Retreats is an international speaker and expert in ‘The Mystical Arts.’ Today he joins us to demonstrate how he literally started to live the life of his dreams, and how you can too.
Frankie Fihn
frankfihn@gmail.com
To overcome challenges and to be your best, we need to master our minds.
In this episode we dig deep as we examine how to release the ultimate potential of our mind. To do this we look at NLP, CBT and other change technologies.
...but is this enough?
Mental qualities plus moral qualities equal character, and our guest Greg Koukl of Stand to Reason is here to help us solve this aspect of the equation.
https://www/str.org/
Too often we make excuses that get us off the hook. Taking responsibility and action is the answer. This is easier said than done, particularly if you are the less charismatic or experienced person in the encounter. So we learn to pump ourselves up, only to feel a temporary buzz and usually defeated at the end.
So frustrating! What can we do?
In this episode we examine this and the real alternative that makes the difference.
BONUS: Now we are really using our minds to make change we bring back expert guest Richard Scott to help you make rapid change easily.
http://www.mynd.works/
Albeit the system is one built on concepts and principles, there is a time for techniques, that give immediate results. These are some powerful ones that will help with your focus and confidence.
Be sure to give them the attention they deserve for amazing results. To assist us with the process we have Anxiety expert Richard Scott come in and discuss the finer points.
http://www.mynd.works/
Success and Goals. Talked about probably a little too much in the field of self-help. I am bringing up the topic to look at the different approach which has helped countless others take things to the next level.
If you have tried to achieve that dream and failed, chances are you missed something and this episode is for you.
On your Journey, we can collect things we don't need both psychologically and physically. To help you dump the physical we brought in the experts Bec and Tara to work through this from the 'Be uncluttered Podcast.'
www.beuncluttered.com.au
Alpha Males enjoy massive success, yet they are seen as being problematic. This is often the case because most people try to be someone they are not. The solution?
1) Be who you are / you don't need to improve = watch out for the same results
2) Improve and change who you are = watch the cognitive dissonance set it
OR 3) Discover who you are and make the changes to Upgrade yourself to your best self. Of course, to do this we need boundaries, luckily our guest Bradley Yates has a full EFT session to help establish these.
https://tapwithbrad
Social constructs and norms, are they set in stone? What would it look like if you were no longer controlled by them? In this episode, we examine these and work through ways to overcome the things that hold us back, while also ensuring that others don't try to dominate us as well.
Our guest this week is Jason Comely, who created the game rejection therapy. Where we will learn more about the game, and how rejection can actually lead to self-acceptance.
http://jasoncomely.com
Upgrade everything, by moving out of victimhood. Only when you take total responsibility you are in the driver's seat of your life, but first realize how you got there.
To do this we examine the journey out of victimhood. Often this is in the form of the hero's journey.
Michael Kass comes back, this time to share his amazing story.
www.storyandspirit.org
There are multiple systems describing personality types. It is always useful to work out where you sit in relation to these. However, it is easy to get bogged down with the label, as such personality should be identified for a predisposition then analyzed for its strengths and weaknesses and finally examined for what you want to keep and how other aspects can be changed.
Expert guest Michael Kass is onboard as well, to discuss personality from his perspective.
www.storyandspirit.org
NEW Episodes, MULTIPLE Guests, UNLIMITED Growth
In this episode, we examine Self discovery and then how to Upgrade yourself. This podcast is primarily a psychological one, albeit watch for the philosophical underpinnings that are foundational to the system. These are where deep change takes place.
Once we work on ourselves we must take into consideration our loved ones. This is where we meet our guest Jürgen Schmechel, Relationships Expert giving his take on personal growth and how it impacts your relationship.
www.inspiring-relationships.com