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Havilah Cunnington
Havilah Cunnington has been in full-time ministry for twenty years, and serves as a pastor at Bethel Church. Havilah and her husband, Ben, lead a nonprofit and an online platform called Truth to Table, reaching the world with Bible studies, messages, and lifestyle leadership tools. Havilah and Ben live in Redding, California, with their four sons: Judah, Hudson, Grayson, and Beckham.
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This week, I’m wrapping up our series on The Art of Preaching by talking about something that’s so close to my heart: sustainable preaching. After almost 30 years of ministry, I’ve learned that it’s not just about having a great message—it’s about protecting the rhythm of your life so you can last for the long haul. In this episode, I share practical ways to guard your energy, keep your connection with the Holy Spirit fresh, and even raise up others to carry the message with you. If you’ve ever felt the weight of burnout or wondered how to keep preaching with passion decade after decade, this conversation is for you!!
This week on the podcast, I’m diving into what it really looks like to preach like it matters. After decades of communicating, I’ve realized how easy it is to fall into patterns and lose that sense of urgency and purpose. But when I sat with a pastor in Brazil who said, “I preach every message like it’s my last,” it stirred something in me. In this episode, I’m sharing the practical ways we can bring clarity, structure, and conviction to our messages so they actually transform lives—not just inspire in the moment. If you’ve been preaching for a while or are looking for fresh fire in your communication, this one’s for you.
On this episode, I’m talking all about what it looks like to preach without fear. If you’ve ever found yourself holding back because you’re worried about what people might think, or editing your message to make it safer, you’re not alone—I’ve been there too. But the truth is, fear dulls our words and keeps us from carrying the authority God has given us. In this episode, I share my own journey of learning that boldness isn’t about volume or personality—it’s about obedience. My hope is that as you listen, you’ll feel both challenged and encouraged to bring your whole heart to the pulpit and trust God with the rest.Check out Havilah’s Preacher School - https://havilahspreacherschool.com/Learn more and connect with Havilah: + Havilah's Site: http://havilahcunnington.com + Truth to Table: http://truthtotable.com + Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/
This week on the podcast, I’m diving into something that’s been on my heart for all of us who have been preaching for a while—how to find our unique voice again. After 30 years of speaking, I’ve learned that it’s so easy to slip into mimicking others, chasing applause, or just running on autopilot. But borrowed voices don’t carry breakthrough—only authenticity does. In this episode, I’m sharing my own journey of uncovering the voice God gave me, the importance of preaching from identity instead of insecurity, and some practical ways to reconnect to the call that first set us on this path. If you’ve been in the trenches of preaching week after week, this one’s for you.Check out Havilah’s Preacher School - https://havilahspreacherschool.com/Learn more and connect with Havilah: + Havilah's Site: http://havilahcunnington.com + Truth to Table: http://truthtotable.com + Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/
This week, I’m wrapping up our very first season of The Art of Preaching by talking about what it really means to stay in this for the long haul. We live in a culture that loves viral moments and big stages, but God’s call isn’t about one-hit wonders—it’s about faithfulness over decades. In this episode, I share my own journey of preaching in living rooms, group homes, and small youth groups long before stepping onto larger platforms, and how mileage, stewardship, and rhythm have shaped me as a communicator. If you feel called to preach, I want to remind you that success isn’t about the size of the crowd, but about showing up again and again, building a life that carries the Word with integrity and longevity.Learn more and connect with Havilah: + Havilah's Site: http://havilahcunnington.com + Truth to Table: http://truthtotable.com + Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/
In this episode of The Art of Preaching, I’m diving into something every communicator faces but few talk about—what if I bomb? What happens when the mic doesn’t work, the slides are wrong, the room is dead silent, or worse—when you just totally miss it? I’ve had those moments (more than once!), and I’m sharing one of my most humiliating fails and what God taught me through it. We’ll talk about redefining success, the invisible fruit of obedience, and why bombing isn’t the end—it’s part of your formation. I’ll also walk you through a simple activation to turn your fears into faith statements, because failure doesn’t get the final say—God does.
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In today’s episode, we’re talking all about what it means to preach like a human. If you’ve ever felt like you need to sound like someone else to be effective—this is for you. I’m sharing how comparison and mimicry can steal your confidence, and why your quirks, your tone, your pace—your actual personality—are not obstacles, but part of your pulpit. God didn’t call the polished version of you; He called you. We’ll break down why authority flows through authenticity, and I’ll even give you a two-minute challenge to help you start finding your voice today. Let’s ditch the pressure and get real.
Learn more and connect with Havilah: + Havilah's Site: http://havilahcunnington.com + Truth to Table: http://truthtotable.com + Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/ + Havilah's Podcast: https://pod.link/1021082134
In this first episode of The Art of Preaching series, I’m sharing the real and raw beginnings of my preaching journey—how I never thought I’d be a communicator, why insecurity doesn’t disqualify you, and how saying “yes” in hidden places is where the real calling begins. Whether you’ve never picked up a mic or you’ve been preaching for years, this episode is for anyone who’s ever whispered, “I think I’m called… but now what?” We’ll talk about starting small, practicing in secret, and trusting that God equips what He initiates. Let’s kick off this series together—right where you are, just as you are.Learn more and connect with Havilah: + Havilah's Site: http://havilahcunnington.com + Truth to Table: http://truthtotable.com + Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/
A couple months ago I spoke a message called False Endings, and we have heard so much feedback about this message, I wanted you to hear it. Stay to the end because the last story - might surprise you. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + Havilah's Site: http://havilahcunnington.com + Truth to Table: http://truthtotable.com + Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/
This week, we’re talking about hitting a relational wall—you know, when you love the people in your life but also kind of can’t stand being around them? Yep, that one. It’s one of the hardest walls to face because we’re only half of the equation, and it can feel messy, exhausting, and honestly, pretty lonely. In this episode, I open up about how I’ve navigated relational shutdown, what Proverbs says about gentle answers (and why gentleness isn’t weakness), and the tools I use to move toward connection without losing myself. I’ll show you how to write the message you won’t regret, ask better questions that invite instead of accuse, and set boundaries that protect without punishing.
Need help navigating those hard conversations? Grab my free Conversation Cheat Sheet for practical phrases to open hearts, not wounds. Link here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/12jQPfFVk5_fujPmE_KAfnu4B9MK5yR_v/view?usp=sharing
And if you want to go even deeper, check out my book I Do Boundaries—it’s your guide to loving people without losing yourself - https://a.co/d/4T3ABPK
This week, we’re talking about what it feels like when your body hits a wall—when you’re doing all the things, but still feel like you’re dragging yourself through the day. I’ve been there. From chronic exhaustion to physical pain that forced me to stop everything, I’m sharing my own story of burnout and the wake-up call it gave me. If your body is waving the white flag, this is your reminder that it’s not betraying you—it’s begging you to listen. In this episode, I offer simple, real-life strategies to start restoring your health with intention, not guilt. Ask yourself: What’s one thing my body is trying to tell me today? And what’s one habit I can stop or start that will honor my physical health? Let’s build rhythms that let us thrive, not just survive.Get I Do Hard Things: https://a.co/d/cWL9Q8K
This week, we’re talking about hitting a mental wall—when your brain feels like it has 67 tabs open and half of them are buffering. You’re doing the things: sleeping, hydrating, showing up... and still, you're exhausted, foggy, and stuck in thought loops that won’t quit. I’ve been there too. In this episode, I share real strategies that help me when my brain taps out, from interrupting the spiral to brain-dumping everything on a piece of paper (yes, everything). We’ll unpack why your brain isn’t broken—it’s just overloaded—and how to reset, refill, and reframe. Ask yourself: What’s one thought loop I need to break this week? And what’s one small action I can take to reset my mental state? Let’s get honest and get our minds back.Join The Clarity Challenge: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6YSlWk3sWVpgdDvvMh0ufQpYrSfoRShx
This week, I’m kicking off a brand new series all about hitting the invisible walls in our lives—you know, the ones that show up out of nowhere and leave us stuck, exhausted, and wondering what just happened. I had a whole different plan for this month, but I hit one of those walls myself and knew we needed to talk about it. Whether it’s mental, spiritual, physical, or even environmental, these walls can sneak up on us and take us out if we don’t pause and pay attention. In this episode, I walk you through how I’ve learned to name the wall, ask what it’s trying to protect me from, and remind myself that it’s not a dead end—it’s a doorway. So take a breath, friend. You’ve done nothing wrong. The wall is real, but so are you.
This week, I’m talking about what it feels like to think you’ve missed your moment—like maybe God handed your calling to someone with a prettier feed or better timing. If you’ve ever found yourself scrolling and spiraling, thinking “I should be further along by now,” you are not alone. I’ve been there. I share a personal story about a big opportunity I turned down, how it looked like I got left behind, and the truth God showed me about His timing. You are not behind—you are becoming. So let me ask you: What if God’s delay is actually divine? What’s being built in you right now that couldn’t be built in the fast
This week, I’m talking about something we don’t often say out loud—what happens when burnout starts to look spiritual? You know that moment where you’re still called, still committed, but your capacity feels like it got hit by a truck? Yep, we’re going there. I open up about my own experiences with soul fatigue, what Scripture really says about growing weary in well-doing, and how to recognize the signs before you hit that breaking point. I also share three questions that have helped me check in with myself: Am I running from something or running toward something? What’s fueling me—obligation or overflow? Am I resting to recover or scrolling to escape? Let’s be honest, let’s be kind to ourselves, and let’s talk about how we keep showing up when quitting sounds like relief.Author School Guidebooks: havilahsauthorschool.com/guidebooks
Waiting on God can feel like watching water boil—slow, frustrating, and honestly, a little painful. In this episode, I get super real about what it’s like to be in a waiting season and the lies we start to believe when things don’t move fast enough. I share how God used my single years and silent seasons to build something in me that couldn’t be rushed. So if you’ve ever thought, “If God loved me, He’d answer,” or “Everyone else is moving forward but me,” or even, “Nothing is happening,” this one’s for you. Because sis, you’re not forgotten—you’re being forged.
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In this episode, I open up about what it feels like when God goes silent—and how that silence can shake our faith to the core. If you've ever felt like your prayers are hitting the ceiling or like you're on “read” with heaven, you’re not alone. I talk about how silence doesn’t mean absence, and how divine delays are often God’s strategy to develop us in hidden places. I also share some honest reflections, practical tools for getting through the silence, and three questions to help you get real about where you’re at: - Am I exhausted or spiritually malnourished? - Am I praying or performing? - Am I showing up to be seen or to stay aligned?
Scripture cards: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1BSOLoUNex2UkbHrQ-BuXG1YocXY1_rIh/view?usp=drivesdk
Hey friends! I’m so glad you’re here for this parenting episode—it’s a special one because I’ve got my husband, Ben, joining me, and we’re diving into your top parenting questions. From navigating the dating convo with your kids (yes, even the 6-year-olds asking about boyfriends!) to figuring out when and how to discipline without losing your mind—we’re going there. We're not claiming to have it all figured out, but we’re sharing what’s worked (and hasn’t) in our own wild and wonderful journey raising four boys. It's honest, a little messy, and totally full of grace. Let’s do this together!Checkout my parenting course with Lisa Bevere - Moms of Men: https://truthtotable.com/moms-of-men/
Hey friends! This week on the podcast, I get to have a really special guest—my dad! We’re talking all about the power of a praying parent, especially when it feels like you can’t do anything else. If you’ve ever felt heartbroken watching your kids or grandkids wander away from God or unsure how to reach them as they grow, this episode is for you. My dad shares his wild testimony—from atheism to radical salvation—and how his mom’s prayers changed everything for our family. We also dive into his brand-new book that gives you a practical, powerful framework for praying over the people you love. You are not powerless—your prayers matter more than you know!Prayers For Every Day Battles & Generational Breakthrough: Win the War For Yourself & Others: https://a.co/d/a2yx5sj
Hey friends — this episode is one of those raw, real conversations straight out of my own life, and honestly, I think you're going to feel so seen. I sat down with Jason and Lauren Vallotton and what started as a chat on marriage turned into me getting super honest about something I’ve been walking through as a mom of boys. We unpacked the tension of raising strong, healthy men while still holding space for your own heart as a mom, and let me tell you — it’s messy, but it’s also so powerful. So if you're in the thick of parenting, especially raising sons, you are not alone. Grab your coffee, lean in, and let’s go there together!Checkout my parenting course with Lisa Bevere - Moms of Men: https://truthtotable.com/moms-of-men/
Today we're kicking off a brand new parenting series, and listen — it's not just about raising "good kids" or making sure you don't mess them up (because hello, no pressure, right?!). What if God’s plan for parenting is actually about transforming us just as much as it is about raising them? I’m sharing some real talk from my own life — the mess, the beauty, the discipleship happening inside of me while I'm trying to parent these four boys. 😅 So grab your coffee, get comfy, and lean in. We’re gonna grow together, and it's gonna be good! 💛Checkout my parenting course with Lisa Bevere - Moms of Men: https://truthtotable.com/moms-of-men/
You guys—we made it! We’ve hit the fall season, and this one is all about the harvest. But here’s the thing: harvest doesn’t just mean abundance and celebration (though yes, we’re totally dancing on grapes over here 🍇). It also means transition—and that can feel a little unsettling. In this episode, I’m unpacking what it looks like to truly reap what you've sown and how to celebrate, prepare, and stay grateful without getting stuck. We’re talking Sabbath, seed saving, generosity, and asking God what’s next. If you’ve felt like you’re finally seeing fruit, but your spirit’s still stirring—this one's for you.If you’re wondering what spiritual season you’re in, head over to havilahcunnington.com/seasons and take the free test. Let’s grow on purpose together!
You guys—this one is for those of you who feel like you prayed for growth, said yes to the breakthrough, and now you're wondering, “Wait, why does it all feel harder?” In this episode, I’m diving into what summer looks like in your spiritual life. And spoiler: it’s not just sunshine and boat rides. It’s warfare, responsibility, and learning how to keep going when things get tough. I break down how to know if you're in a summer season, what to do so you don't burn out, and how to stay faithful in the doing. We even talk about protecting your yes and making space for rest without losing the harvest. Let’s get into it!If you’re wondering what spiritual season you’re in, head over to havilahcunnington.com/seasons and take the free test. Let’s grow on purpose together!
In this episode, I’m diving into what it really means to be in a spring season spiritually — and trust me, it’s not all butterflies and breakthroughs! I talk about how the very opportunities you’ve been praying for can also become distractions if you’re not careful. Just because a door opens doesn’t mean God’s asking you to walk through it. I’m sharing the PLANT acronym (you’ll love it!) and how to steward the season well, even when everything feels fresh and exciting. If you’re wondering what spiritual season you’re in, head over to havilahcunnington.com/seasons and take the free test. Let’s grow on purpose together!
In this episode, I’m diving into the spiritual season of winter—yep, that season nobody volunteers for but somehow always shows up. If you’ve ever felt like God’s ghosting you, like your prayers are hitting a wall, or like you’re stuck in a never-ending freeze, this one's for you. I share personal stories (yes, I’ve definitely been there), practical ways to stay rooted, and some survival hacks to help you not just endure but grow in your winter season. Plus, don't miss the free quiz I made to help you figure out what season you're really in—link’s in the show notes. Let’s talk about silence, root systems, and why rest is actually a weapon.Find out what Spiritual Season you're in: https://havilahcunnington.com/seasons
In this episode, we're kicking off a brand-new series all about spiritual seasons. Have you ever felt like your faith was thriving one moment and lifeless the next? You're not alone—it's totally normal! We’re diving deep into understanding the spiritual seasons of winter, spring, summer, and fall, and how each one has a unique purpose in your journey. I share my own story of navigating through a tough winter season and realizing that God was still at work beneath the surface. So, grab your coffee, take a walk, and let’s talk about how to discern your current season and steward it well. And don’t forget—next time, we’re diving into the details of winter, so make sure you’re subscribed!Find out what Spiritual Season you're in: https://havilahcunnington.com/seasons
In this episode, we’re answering your top questions about marriage! We dive into everything from navigating conflict and staying connected to building trust and keeping intimacy alive. Whether you’re newly married or have been in it for years, we’ve got real, practical advice that’s going to help strengthen your relationship. I’m excited to share insights that will bring clarity and encouragement to your marriage journey!
Hey friends! In this episode, I’m sitting down with Jason and Lauren Vallotton to talk all about marriage—the real, raw, and sometimes messy journey of doing life together. We’re diving into what it looks like to build a strong foundation, navigate conflict with grace, and keep intimacy alive even in the busiest seasons. Jason and Lauren bring so much wisdom and honesty to the conversation, sharing their own experiences and practical advice for couples who want to cultivate a thriving relationship. You don’t want to miss this one!
In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of marriage with Barry and Lori Byrne, the powerhouse couple behind Love After Marriage and Nothing Hidden Ministries. We’re talking about the real struggles, the tools for breakthrough, and why transparency is the key to a thriving marriage. Whether you’re married, engaged, or hoping to be, this conversation is packed with wisdom on intimacy, connection, and spiritual warfare in marriage. Plus, we get real about sex, communication, and how to heal when trust has been broken. Grab your coffee, get comfy, and let’s do this!
Love After Marriage course: https://nothinghidden.com/love-after-marriage/
Hey friends! This week, we're diving deep into marriage—what makes it healthy, what challenges come up, and how to keep growing together. And I’m not doing it alone—Ben’s here! We’re getting real about our own journey, from the early struggles to the tools that transformed our relationship. We talk communication, intimacy, and the mindset shifts that made all the difference. Whether you're newly married, deep in the trenches, or just curious, this episode is packed with insight and hope. Let’s get into it!
Hey friends! Today, we’re diving deep into a topic that doesn’t get enough real talk in the church—dating, sex, and singleness. Yep, we’re going there! I’m sitting down with my friend Elles Maddry, who, along with her husband, leads Moral Revolution, an organization dedicated to helping people navigate healthy sexuality within faith. We’re unpacking everything from dating apps to setting boundaries, from purity culture to how to know if you’re in a God-honoring relationship. If you’ve ever wrestled with questions about love, relationships, or even just how far is too far, this one’s for you. Get ready for an honest, no-filter convo with plenty of laughs and real wisdom.Parenting Sexuality Course: https://truthtotable.com/parenting-sexuality/The Naked Truth About Sexuality: https://a.co/d/a3afM3A
Wow, this episode was a deep one! I sat down with my friend Aaron to talk about a topic that so many struggle with but rarely discuss—porn. We unpacked why it’s not just about self-control but about deeper needs, how shame keeps people stuck, and what real freedom looks like. Aaron shared his personal journey, the science behind addiction, and practical steps for breaking free. Whether you’re dealing with this yourself, walking alongside a spouse, or raising kids in a hypersexualized culture, this conversation is full of insight and hope. Don’t miss it!More from Aaron: zintsquad.comBuy Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn: https://a.co/d/ivwtDySBuy The Naked Truth About Sexuality: https://a.co/d/a3afM3A
Today we’re diving deep into a topic that honestly, we don’t talk about enough—the science of sex. Last time, we covered the basics of healthy sexuality, and today, we’re taking it further. Did you know that sex isn’t just about the physical? There’s a biological, emotional, and even spiritual design behind it. We’re talking hormones, bonding, God’s intention, and why culture often gets it completely wrong. Plus, I break down the three B’s of sex—babies, bonding, and beauty—and why understanding them can change the way you view intimacy forever. Stick around, because this conversation might just change the way you think about sex for good!Buy The Naked Truth About Sexuality:https://a.co/d/a3afM3AParenting Sexuality Course:https://shop.truthtotable.com/collections/digital-courses-studies/products/parenting-sexuality
Wow, this episode is going to be a powerful one! We're diving into a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough—sex and sexuality. I know, I know, it’s not always an easy conversation, but that’s exactly why we need to have it. This month, we're unpacking what healthy sexuality looks like through a faith-filled lens, tackling big questions like intimacy, marriage, and even the tricky subjects like porn and shame. My goal? To equip you with clarity, hope, and practical tools to navigate your own journey. So stick with me—let’s get real, let’s get honest, and let’s take back the narrative together!
In this episode, we dive into the power of attention and how it shapes our productivity and outcomes. I share personal insights and practical strategies for staying focused, avoiding distractions, and prioritizing what truly matters. Whether it’s tackling the one task you've been procrastinating on or learning how to set boundaries to protect your mental energy, these tips are game-changers. Plus, I reflect on how my journey of saying "no" to some things has made room for a more intentional, fulfilling life. Tune in to supercharge your focus and get ready to shift your productivity into high gear!
Are your assumptions secretly running the show? In this episode, we’re diving into how assumptions shape our decisions and relationships—often without us even realizing it. I share personal stories, like my old red convertible days, and explore how our minds love shortcuts (hello, confirmation bias!). Together, we’ll unpack practical ways to identify and challenge those sneaky thoughts holding you back, so you can reframe your perspective and step into a more intentional way of living. Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one!
This week on the podcast, we’re diving into the fascinating connection between our minds and bodies, exploring how intentional living can unlock your full potential. I’m sharing some of my favorite insights, practical tips, and even personal stories to show how things like sleep, exercise, and mindfulness can profoundly impact not just your mental clarity but your whole life. Plus, I’ll let you in on how tiny habits can lead to big transformation and why even something as simple as smiling can boost your mood. Ready to take your intentional living game to the next level? Let’s do this together!Learn about Havilah's Author School here 👉🏼 https://havilahsauthorschool.com/How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb here 👉🏼 https://a.co/d/3GuHVg2
Welcome back to the podcast! This week, we’re diving into an essential concept for the new year: moving from defense mode to discovery mode in our brains. I share insights from one of my favorite books, How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb, breaking down how our automatic and deliberate systems influence our responses to stress. We’ll explore practical ways to shift out of the fight, flight, or freeze mindset and into a space of curiosity and anticipation for good things. Join me as we unpack how embracing discovery mode can help us live intentionally and create a more rewarding life.
Hey friends, welcome to a brand-new year and an exciting new series on Intentional Living! This month, we're diving into how to live with purpose by understanding how our brains work and how that impacts our choices, behaviors, and faith journey. I'll be sharing practical, actionable steps to help you align your thoughts with God's design and set priorities that actually stick. So, whether you're here to grow personally or as a leader in your community, there’s something for everyone. Let’s reset, refocus, and start living with intention together. Tune in—this series is going to be life-changing!Sign up for Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/
Hey there! In this episode, we’re wrapping up our series on navigating life’s big decades with a dive into the 50s. I chat with Paula, a vibrant, wise, and courageous soul who shares her journey of transformation, from battling life’s curveballs to rediscovering herself in this new season. We talk about embracing change, taking risks, grieving past disappointments, and dreaming boldly, no matter your age. Whether you’re stepping into your 50s, reflecting on your own journey, or just curious about what’s ahead, this conversation is full of encouragement and fresh perspective. Don’t miss it!
Hey friends! In this episode, I sat down with my incredible friend Michelle Raftery to dive into the unique challenges and joys of life in our 40s. We talk about discovering strengths, letting go of unnecessary expectations, and how grace and reflection have shaped our journey. Michelle shares her wisdom on finding freedom in embracing who we really are and the beauty of evolving through life’s seasons. Whether you're in your 40s or just curious about what lies ahead, this conversation will encourage you to trust God's timing and live with purpose. Don’t miss this one—it’s packed with honesty, laughs, and a whole lot of heart!
Are you navigating your 30s and wondering if you’re “doing it right”? Join me in this conversation all about the ups, downs, and edits of life in your 30s. I’m sitting down with Esther Garcia, a creative genius and a mom of three, as we dive into the challenges and victories of this transformative decade. From redefining friendships and career paths to embracing personal growth and faith, this episode is packed with real talk, laughs, and wisdom. Whether you’re in your 30s, have been there, or know someone who is, you’ll find something relatable here. Let’s tackle this season of life together!
In this episode, we dive deep into what it’s like navigating your 20s—the highs, the lows, and the wild unpredictability of it all. I’m joined by Katie, a third-year student at Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry, who shares what being 25 really feels like. We talk about embracing experiences, taking risks, and shaking off the pressure to have it all figured out. Whether you’re thriving, surviving, or somewhere in between, we cover how to find purpose, peace, and maybe even a little fun in the chaos. If you’re in your 20s—or know someone who is—this one’s for you!
Hey friends! In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the unseen struggles of Hearers—those prophetic personalities who connect with God through words, phrases, and conversations. We’re talking about the challenges, like when you only get part of the story or feel like God’s gone silent. I share tips on building trust, stewarding what you’ve already heard, and leaning into gratitude to quiet the noise of life. If you’ve ever wrestled with feeling stuck or doubting what you’ve heard, this one’s for you. Plus, I’ll tell you all about my new Created to Hear God Journal to help you take these lessons even deeper. Let’s grow in confidence together—grab your coffee, and let’s jump in!✨ LET’S CONNECT:Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunningtonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah
Hey friends! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the "knower" prophetic personality. Are you someone who just knows things deep in your spirit, without visions or emotional experiences? You’re not alone, and you’re not missing out! I share my journey as a knower, the challenges of feeling underrepresented in spiritual environments, and how to embrace your unique way of hearing God. We’ll also talk about overcoming fear, trusting your inner knowing, and building confidence in who God created you to be. Let’s jump in!✨ LET’S CONNECT:Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunningtonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah
Hey friends! In today’s episode, we're diving into the unique challenges faced by those with a "seer" prophetic personality—those of us who receive visions, dreams, and images from God. If you've ever felt isolated, misunderstood, or even disillusioned because of the vision God has given you, this episode is for you. We'll talk about handling loneliness, the frustration of delayed dreams, and the struggle to stay present when you're so future-focused. I share insights from the life of Joseph and practical steps to thrive in the waiting season. Plus, we explore how to find encouragement along the way and trust in God’s perfect timing. Don't miss it!
Hey friends, it’s Havilah here! We’re kicking off a brand new series that dives deep into the unseen struggles of each of the Prophetic Personalities. This week, we’re focusing on “feelers” — those of us who connect with God through emotions and have a special sensitivity to His heart. I’ll be unpacking some common misunderstandings about feelers, and sharing why being in touch with your emotions is actually a powerful gift, not a weakness! If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions or struggled to understand them, this episode is for you. Let’s get into it!
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In today’s episode, we're diving into a big question: "Who's really in the driver's seat of your life?" We talk about the importance of stepping into a place of empowerment and hearing God’s voice clearly, instead of just coasting along in the passenger seat. I share some insights on what it means to live by the Spirit and take intentional steps to walk in sync with God, rather than just waiting for life to happen to us. Whether you've been feeling a bit stuck or you're ready to move forward with purpose, this conversation is all about reclaiming your spiritual autonomy and learning how to journey with God in a meaningful, active way. Let’s get into it!✨ LET’S CONNECT:Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunningtonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah
Hey friends, in today's episode, we're diving deep into the dangers of not hearing God's voice. I know we often talk about how to hear His voice, but today, we’re flipping the script. What happens when we don't hear from Him? We explore some serious risks, like losing direction and purpose, falling into deception, and spiritual drift. I even share the story of David, who, despite being anointed and having incredible victories, still found himself hiding from God. If you're feeling lost or disconnected, this episode is for you. Let's unpack it together and get back to hearing from our Creator!✨ LET’S CONNECT:Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunningtonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah
In this episode, join me as I unpack why we sometimes resist hearing God's voice and how to reconnect with it, even after being hurt. I share some personal stories, including a tragic experience that challenged me, and talk about the struggle we face when our expectations don’t line up with reality. Plus, I’ll share some practical steps to deepen this journey.
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In this episode, we dive into the heart of staying connected with God when life starts to feel like you’re just going through the motions. I totally get that feeling of knowing all the "right" things but missing that passion, that excitement for faith. Today, we’re breaking down the Lord’s Prayer, exploring how Jesus intended it to be a roadmap for a personal relationship, not just something to memorize. From calling God "Father" to asking for our daily bread, this prayer shows us how to tune in and listen to God's voice in a way that’s fresh and real every day. Plus, I'll share practical ways to let God’s voice guide you and breathe life back into your faith.
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In this episode, I dive into the life-changing power of hearing God's voice. We’re kicking off a series called The Power and Purpose of Hearing God's Voice—exploring how tuning into God’s voice can transform every aspect of our lives. I share personal stories, including a recent conversation with my teenager about navigating life’s uncertainties, and how God’s supernatural guidance is available to all of us. We’ll also touch on how different prophetic personalities—whether you’re a seer, knower, hearer, or feeler—allow us to uniquely connect with God. Get ready to experience breakthrough through God’s voice!
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A lot of people have heard of the Atomic Habit book, and how that’s changed people’s lives. Well, this month I want to share with you my friend’s story and how she found herself in her lowest moment in life and with God’s grace she figured out how to come out of that moment and it was through habits!
Join Jenna, and I this month as we talk all about how to implement really clear, simple but transformative habits in our daily routines. And the reason we’re talking about this is because I’ve had a transformation in my own life and you guys know me, I don’t share things that are just good ideas. I share things that make sense, that work and that I try and I often, want to tell you guys about those things.
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Havilah Cunnington has been in full-time ministry for twenty years, and serves as a pastor at Bethel Church. Havilah and her husband, Ben, lead a nonprofit and an online platform called Truth to Table, reaching the world with Bible studies, messages, and lifestyle leadership tools. Havilah and Ben live in Redding, California, with their four sons: Judah, Hudson, Grayson, and Beckham.
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In this episode, Havilah shares a full monthly wrap up on all things in the Cunnington's world including some big changes.
She unpacks how her time on sabbatical truly helped give space for the upcoming season shift that is underway for the Cunningtons and Truth to Table.
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She unpacks how her time on sabbatical truly helped give space for the upcoming season shift that is underway for the Cunningtons and Truth to Table.
If you want to hear a little bit of how Havilah is building for the future, listen in to this episode.
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This is the final episode of the series we've been chatting about this past month, Embracing the Good, Hard Life.
This series was inspired by the realization that life is usually both good and hard at the same time. For a long time, Havilah thought she needed her life to change so she can get from the hard stuff to the good stuff.
Today, Havilah is diving into mindset and why mindsets are important as we navigate life. She's sharing exactly what mindset it and the difference between a fixed and growth mindset. When we have a growth mindset, we realize we can continue to get better, be innovative, and solve problems. Having a growth mindset also allows us to view setbacks as temporary hurdles instead of things that take us out.
Let's talk about what a growth mindset looks like and how we can incorporate that into our lives!
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We're jumping back into the series Embracing the Good, Hard Life. If you missed last week, make sure you go back and listen. Havilah shared last week about embracing the good.
Today, she's diving into confronting the hard. Havilah shares about why it's okay when things are hard and how God allows hard things to happen so we can find our strength in Him. Hardships are a pathway to growth and it's important we face them. Biologically, the only way a muscle can grow is to be torn apart first. The same happens with us. Let's talk about this today.
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We're jumping into our second episode of our series Embracing the Good, Hard Life. If you missed last week, make sure you go back and listen. Havilah shares what it means to her to embrace the good, hard life.
Today, she's diving into embracing the good. It's so easy to constantly be thinking about the bad things going on in our lives. Did you know your brain is created and programmed to seek out danger and anything that could destroy you? Because of this, we tend to go into fight or flight and make sure we are safe. This is great when it comes to survival, but it's not great when it comes to every day life. But, there's strength in focusing on the good and the victories we have. Let's celebrate today.
"It is okay to be right where I am, and start today."
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We are jumping into a brand new topic this month called Embracing the Good, Hard life. There are things in life that are challenging. How do we embrace the good and the bad at the same time?
In this episode, Havilah shares things that has helped her navigate both the good and the bad simultaneously, what it looks like to embrace the good, confront the hard, and finding a good balance.
Havilah's Author School is BACK! We've got some exciting news - for the 3rd time, Havilah will be hosting another class of Authors! In this 16-week mentorship program, she will help you clarify your message and plan your book from beginning to end. You’ll have built-in weekly accountability and the instant support of a community of writers like you. And in just 4 short months, we guarantee you’ll be holding your finished first draft!
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In today's episode, Havilah is talking about setting up healthy boundaries and using clear language. It's important to write down your boundaries. Write down your internal rules of what you will allow and what you will not allow helps keep you healthy.
Ways to help set up healthy boundaries:
- It's important to you know your "why" behind the "no"
- Determine to follow through no matter what
- Decide how you're going to communicate
- It's important to use clear language
- Be as kind as possible
- Communicate without using words
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It's the last episode of our intentional behavior series. This whole month we've been diving into how to build a life of intention and create behaviors that help us follow through on our intentions.
Today, Havilah is talking about the "when, then" plan. This is something that will help you have a game plan for your every day life. The more intention you can put towards your day and when you have a game plan for pitfalls that may occur, the better off you will be.
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This whole month is about intentional behavior. We’re diving into how we build a life of intention and create behaviors that help us follow through on our intentions.
Today, Havilah is diving into how to actually get your to-do list done. She will be discussing the importance of breaking your list into a smaller list and why this works better than having 20 things written down to do. R
Researchers have suggested that we are more likely to get things done if the list only has about 3 things.
In this episode, Havilah is sharing practical steps to take in order to actually achieve more in the long run by taking smaller steps.
Havilah's Author School is BACK! We've got some exciting news - for the 3rd time, Havilah will be hosting another class of Authors! In this 16-week mentorship program, she will help you clarify your message and plan your book from beginning to end. You’ll have built-in weekly accountability and the instant support of a community of writers like you. And in just 4 short months, we guarantee you’ll be holding your finished first draft! Join the 230 graduates that have had major success.
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Last week, we began talking about intentional behaviors. There's a lot of power when we choose to know why we're going somewhere, and then we gain a lot of momentum to go where we want to go!
Today I want to share some things I’ve read and heard on this topic of being intentional with our why’s. They did this study and they begin to learn about this intrinsic motivation versus this extrinsic motivation.
Intrinsic, which is like an internal motivation or an extrinsic, which is an external motivation. And they started to look at the difference and how people adjusted to that in their life.
I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones!
& as always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed it.
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And in just 4 short months, we guarantee you’ll be holding your finished first draft!
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This month we will be diving into a study I did called Intentional Living. Did you know that your behavior communicates your intentions? And how powerful it is when we set our behaviors to lead us to get the goals we want.
I'm taking a lot of my study from a book called How to Have a Good Day. Totally recommend you picking it up and reading it.
So join me today as we talk about how intentional behaviors can lead us to our goals!
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Today, Havilah is diving into overcoming perfectionism and figuring out what is good enough. Tune in to hear strategies Havilah uses to overcome the relentless pursuit of it being perfect and idealistic and instead into a place of acceptance.
Get your walking shoes on and your cup of coffee & as always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: : + http://havilahcunnington.com + http://truthtotable.com + http://thetruthacademy.com
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Today we're talking all about my number one focus for this sabbatical that I'm taking for the month of July. You may not know, but I actually am in the middle of a sabbatical for travel and ministry, and I'm taking a full sabbatical for the month of July.
So today I'm here to reveal what my number one focus is for the month of July that I believe is going to be critical to my future, to how I experience myself, how others experience me, and it's something that I need some significant time to process.
Get your walking shoes on and your cup of coffee & as always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: : + http://havilahcunnington.com + http://truthtotable.com + http://thetruthacademy.com
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In this episode Havilah discusses the purpose and power of taking a sabbatical and a season of intentional rest.
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In today’s episode, Havilah is talking all about burnout. She's diving into the signs of burnout and what you do when you are officially burned out. Let's dive into the symptoms and solutions so you can get yourself OUT of burnout!
"Burnout is like a cake that has been left in the oven for far too long."
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Thanks for tuning in, this is the last part of this powerful word about the nurturing power of women.
In today’s episode Havilah continues to share in the power that women have. She mentions: How Deborah is with Barack and how she’s a huge voice in his life to help him believe in himself and keep going. She encourages him by saying things like, “I’m gonna walk with you and I'm gonna talk, and I can either criticize or I can actually connect, and I'm gonna connect you to the story of God. I'm gonna connect you to your identity in Christ. I'm gonna connect you to what God is doing on the earth.”
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This month we are diving into a message Havilah shared at Bethel on a Mother’s Day.
Here’s some of what she dives into: God knew that Mary's body would be a living sacrifice for him in the same way that his body would become a living sacrifice for us. So what happens when a woman walks in her full calling? She creates safe places in dangerous times, in a world that's full of conflict and danger and with things that can hurt us. A woman is spending her energy making sure that you are safe, that you have a safe place to land, and that you will be alive tomorrow.
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This week we are diving into a message Havilah shared at Bethel on Mother’s Day.
Here’s some of what she dives into: Jesus was sent to Earth and he was sent to live in Mary before his feet ever touched the earth. Mary needed to only create a safe place for the Savior to be born and be developed. Mary was given a womb, and that womb would hold life. It would create life, and it would change the course of history. Some of us as women, we have forgotten that God didn't put us on the earth just to solve problems, but he's actually given us power to nurture. In fact, you as a woman, you are a nurturing powerhouse. You have an ability to contain and hold life and develop it until it is safe to be on the earth. Think about it; men and women are different. No matter what society says, men and women are different. We don't have to make conclusions about that. We can see simply just in our genetics, in our body, that there are differences that God created. Women are the only ones who create life. They're the only ones with wombs.
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It’s time for another Cunnington Catchup!
It’s been a busy season for us! And having teenagers is a whole thing in itself! My boys are now 16, 15, 13, and 10. This catchup is all about what’s been happening here in my life, in my health and my thoughts as we head towards the summer time.
Thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of our summer series!
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I noticed that reading books is great but I really grew when I joined classes and there was accountability there.
When I joined the Habit Lab earlier on this year, Jenna helped me by giving verbiage when I got stuck. There was permission we all got in this class knowing that we weren’t alone and there was a cycle and pattern we all personally had. I also realized we were going deep, and getting into our belief systems.
Today, we started a habit lab mastery course, The Habit Lab is a 10-week mentorship program to help create the right habits you need to finally live a life you love.
You can join the waitlist for next round here: https://truthtotable.com/habit-lab/In this online mentorship program, you’ll be guided by habit coach Jenna Zint as she takes you through each step of her proven method for overcoming the obstacles that get in the way to being the person you truly want to be.
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We're diving back into habits this week! Something I noticed was that reading books about habits is great, but I really grew when I joined classes and there was accountability involved.
When I joined the Habit Lab earlier on this year, Jenna helped me by giving verbiage when I got stuck. There was permission we all got in this class knowing that we weren’t alone and there was a cycle and pattern we all personally had. I also realized we were going deep, and getting into our belief systems.
We have opened up the doors to a habit lab mastery course, The Habit Lab is a 10-week mentorship program to help create the right habits you need to finally live a life you love. You can register and sign up here: https://truthtotable.com/habit-lab/
In this online mentorship program, you’ll be guided by habit coach, Jenna Zint, as she takes you through each step of her proven method for overcoming the obstacles that get in the way to being the person you truly want to be.
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This month we are diving into Habits! In this week’s episode hear my friend, Jenna, share deeper into her experience of running a small business and realizing that habits are also about identity and the changes she started to make in that point of her life and how it’s changed her whole life today.
We have a quiz we came up with to help you find out what area in your life is needing some healthy habits, it’s shame free, and easy to take. Check it out: https://truthtotable.com/habit-quiz/
Tonight we are also offering a Habit Hacks class you don’t want to miss out! Join here: https://truthtotable.com/holy-habits-webinar/
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In this month’s series we are going to talk about Habits!
A lot of people have heard of the Atomic Habit book, and how that’s changed people’s lives. Well, this month I want to share with you my friend’s story and how she found herself in her lowest moment in life and with God’s grace she figured out how to come out of that moment and it was through habits!
Join Jenna, and I this month as we talk all about how to implement really clear, simple but transformative habits in our daily routines. And the reason we’re talking about this is because I’ve had a transformation in my own life and you guys know me, I don’t share things that are just good ideas. I share things that make sense, that work and that I try and I often, want to tell you guys about those things.
So buckle up and join the journey into healthy habits.
We have a quiz we came up with to help you find out what area in your life is needing some healthy habits, it’s shame free, and easy to take. Check it out: https://truthtotable.com/habit-quiz/
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Welcome back to another March Mindset series.
Your thoughts are a reflection of the identity that you carry. You want to change your identity, change your thoughts.
So, how do we begin to know that we are not doing well in our thoughts? What thoughts do we really want? What thoughts do we not want? We're going to talk about that today.
Here's what's important. The Bible's really clear that in James 1:8, it says, "A double minded man is unstable in all his ways." I love what the Amplified says, "a double minded man is unstable and restless in all his ways, in everything he thinks, feels and decides."
Are you dealing with a restlessness in what you're thinking about and what you're feeling and in your decisions? Then you're probably living double minded, and that means you want to live in two worlds at the same.
In this episode Havilah is going deep and talking about the thoughts that we are currently having, how have we entertained these thoughts, and how they are affecting our lives. After listening to this episode, you will feel powerful to take control of your thoughts and know the steps you need to take to do so.
Hope you join us all this month to dive into this topic and get practical steps. Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today!
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As we continue to talk about renewing the mind, I was thinking of the Asbury revival that broke out on February 8th 2023 and went until the 24th. This revival broke out in Asbury University in Wilmore, Kentucky.
As I reflected on the concept of renewing the mind, I am reminded that everything happens for a reason. God has orchestrated a revival to take place in this generation, after the pandemic, in a place where people develop their intellect. He wants to emphasize that without the mind of Christ, knowledge, connections, and possessions are meaningless.
It's important to realize that before we came to Christ, our minds were not neutral but rather hostile towards God. Those who do not believe in God or live for Him are not just indifferent to the mind of Christ but actively oppose it, as the enemy does not want the thoughts of God to prevail in our world. A renewed mind aligns with the Spirit. Our thoughts act as filters and determinants, serving as our GPS on our journey of growth. Our thoughts ultimately dictate our destinations.
Hope you join us all this month to dive into this topic and get practical steps.
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This month we are diving into the topic of what it means and looks like to transform our minds.
The spiritual battle we face is not external, but rather it is within ourselves; it’s in our minds. Ephesians 6:12 says: For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
Our minds cannot remain neutral, and the enemy tries to prevent us from achieving freedom in our thoughts. Our minds often urge us to pursue self-gratification instead of serving God. However, this mindset is hostile to God and cannot submit to Him if it is not governed by Him.
To please God, we must renew our minds. One way to accomplish this is by taking our thoughts captive every day. What if we made this a daily spiritual practice?
Hope you join us all this month to dive into this topic and get practical steps.
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Let’s take this month of March and really go through what it’s like to renew and transform our minds. The mind is where everything starts, and it's where our battles are won or lost.
Trying to change our behavior or actions without addressing the root cause, which is often our thoughts and beliefs, can be frustrating and exhausting. However, with intentional effort and the help of the Holy Spirit, we can transform our minds and experience lasting change.
Each of us are facing unique battles in our lives but we all face a common battle and that is in our minds! Renewing our minds means intentionally choosing to focus on thoughts that align with God's truth and rejecting thoughts that lead us away from it. It involves replacing negative self-talk, doubt, and fear with positive affirmations, hope, and faith.Remember that transforming our minds is a process, and it won't happen overnight. It takes time, effort, and consistency, but the results are worth it.
Hope you join us all this month to dive into this topic and get practical steps. Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of the purpose challenge!
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Welcome back! Today's episode is from our 20 day video series called I Dream Big. We have chosen a few to share here on the podcast with you and this week's is the last one so make sure you go back and listen to the other episodes.
Today, we’re looking at the idea that dreams stewarded creates momentum in our lives. Encountering God will consistently build momentum in your life. Reaching a place of regularly meeting with the Holy Spirit changes you. It gives you movement toward His promise. Living in a relationship with Him will be your most valuable experience.
When you invest time to further encounters and honor those moments, you will gain history with Him.
This causes momentum. Momentum could be described as building movement in the same direction while simultaneously building speed and confidence.
If you want more from this I Dream Big series, check out the 20 day video series here: https://truthtotable.com/i-dream-big/
Make sure you tune in for next month's special series where Havilah will be LIVE every Wednesday!
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Welcome back to our series called I Dream Big. Today, we’re going to look at another way to figure out the specific dream of God in your life: through covenant. Our culture tends to glamorize the dreamers and visionaries of the world: Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, Oprah… But the truth about dreaming is: The one who partners with the visionary is just as important.God places the people in our lives we are meant to run with. Oftentimes, God will give one person the dream or encounter, then bring other people in to help carry it out. It’s very important we stay connected to the dream and keep dreaming even when we’re not the visionary.
God will divinely orchestrate relationships to carry out His dreams on Earth. It doesn’t matter if you dreamed it or were the carrier, ultimately, relationships are important to God. They’re how He builds His kingdom and will continue to build it from here on. If you want more from this I Dream Big series, check out the 20 day video series here: https://truthtotable.com/i-dream-big/
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Welcome back! We're in a series called I Dream Big, and today we’re going to talk about how the dream is also connected to your gifts and talents.
Once you know what your gifts are, and the talents God gave you, it’s time for serious stewardship. Maybe you’ve heard the story in the Bible about the three men who were gifted talents. In this story, it wasn’t about being given the most talents, it was about what each man did with what they had. The men who walked away with more at the end were the men who didn’t bury their talents.
If you’re always waiting for the perfect time to be who God dreams you to be, you’ll never step out. Part of partnering with God is doing your part well and leaving God’s part to God. Everything you do is training.
If you want more from this I Dream Big series, check out the 20 day video series here: https://truthtotable.com/i-dream-big/
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Today, we’re going to look at another way God reveals His dreams for us that is often overlooked: through pain. God's glory will be revealed in your story of pain and triumph. It’s at the moment you believe God will use everything for those called according to His will that you will find deep abiding peace.
It’s important you roadmap your freedom. You need to take the time to understand your process and the road marks you’ve come to along the way. You will need them to help others. "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. -Jeremiah 29:11
Send this episode to all your friends because we know we all walk through pain at some time in our lives and it's what we do with that pain that really matters!
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In January we had our annual global bible study, and this year I launched the I Dream Big bible study, which is a 20 day long bible study. For the next five weeks I'm going to share some of this study with you and I hope to inspire you to dream big dreams with God.
Today, we’re jumping in and talking about how God initiates relationship with us. When we encounter Him, we are never the same. Your encounters are an example of the power of God showing up in your life.
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Today is the final day of our Advent series.
This week is all about love, but we will quickly do a review to remember what we covered in the last 3 weeks. The wreath represents God's everlasting love for us, and his continual love for us. The candles each represent 1,000 years of waiting and anticipation. Advent is about waiting for Jesus to come and do what He said He would do. And we celebrate that but we also wait for the second coming of Christ. The first candle represents hope, the second candle represents peace, the third candle represents joy, and today we are talking about the last candle that is LOVE.
Today we are going to talk about the love of christmas, the gospel. God loved the world, He gave us His son, for no one need to be destroyed. We must remember that Christmas was not just about the coming of the son, but we must remember that there was a father that sent him for us, and the son was going to pay a big price but it was always for love.If you missed an episode go back and binge on it all! Merry Christmas to you!
Do you know what time it is? Our annual TTT Bible study that is LIVE NOW! Every year, we take 20,000-25,000 people through our free annual Bible study as our gift to you. In this 20-day study, Bible teacher Havilah Cunnington will come alongside you, build you up, and show you the pathway for chasing dreams with God. You'll dig deep into the story of Abraham, a man just like us who was on the road to his promise. Join us today & grab a book at https://truthtotable.com/i-dream-big/Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + http://havilahcunnington.com + http://truthtotable.com + http://thetruthacademy.com
As we continue this series about Advent, this episode we talk about the encouragement of Him coming. We see in Luke 3 that everyone was in expectation of the messiah to come. John let's them know that there will be a Messiah coming soon.
The goal of advent is to have a deeper realization of Christmas. So that we can connect with God in a profound way instead of missing him in the busyness. This season can be a season full, busy, stressful and full of anxiety, but remember that this season is about remembering that Jesus was coming, and that He came, and is still with us!
Do you know what time it is? Our annual TTT Bible study that is LIVE NOW! Every year, we take 20,000-25,000 people through our free annual Bible study as our gift to you. In this 20-day study, Bible teacher Havilah Cunnington will come alongside you, build you up, and show you the pathway for chasing dreams with God. You'll dig deep into the story of Abraham, a man just like us who was on the road to his promise. Join us today & grab a book at https://truthtotable.com/i-dream-big/
If you missed an episode go back and binge on it all!
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In the busyness of this season, are we making room for Him?
When Mary and Joseph knocked on the inn keeper's door, and he said he didn't have room for them, I wonder if he knew who they were if he would make room for them? Maybe give up his own room. In this busy season, how are you ready for God to use you? How have you been aware of Him, for when He calls you, or for when He speaks, would you hear Him? The goal is not about where you will be used, it’s about being ready for service.
This whole month, join us as we talk about Advent, what it's about and how we can implement it to our Christmas celebrations. If you missed an episode go back and binge on it all!
Do you know what time it is? Our annual TTT Bible study that is LIVE NOW! Every year, we take 20,000-25,000 people through our free annual Bible study as our gift to you. In this 20-day study, Bible teacher Havilah Cunnington will come alongside you, build you up, and show you the pathway for chasing dreams with God. You'll dig deep into the story of Abraham, a man just like us who was on the road to his promise. Join us today & grab a book at https://truthtotable.com/i-dream-big/
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In December we are focusing on sloooooowing down and savoring all the season holds. In this 4-part series, I speak and teach on Advent.
Advent is the joyful waiting and anticipation for what’s about to happen. It’s not a quiet, formal gathering. It’s the believers of Jesus Christ waiting with joyful hearts in expectation of Him finally arriving. We have to understand that Christmas represents God fulfilling his promise throughout the generations. That he came but that he is also coming again.
Do you know what time it is? Our annual TTT Bible study that is LIVE NOW! Every year, we take 20,000-25,000 people through our free annual Bible study as our gift to you. In this 20-day study, Bible teacher Havilah Cunnington will come alongside you, build you up, and show you the pathway for chasing dreams with God. You'll dig deep into the story of Abraham, a man just like us who was on the road to his promise. Join us today at https://truthtotable.com/i-dream-big/
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The past few weeks we have been going through the topic of living with intention. If you missed any, you can go back and listen to them! Also, here’s a little recap: The first week we talked about setting intention and what it looks like. Week two we covered understanding and setting our filters, and last week we talked about understanding our assumptions and identifying them.
Today, we are talking about setting your day up for intention, and how to set your day the night before. I love the quote “you are what you repeatedly do, excellence is not an act it’s a habit.” Every successful person has a habit or a routine they live in, so daily intentions and starting habits will help us be successful!
Do you know what time it is? Our annual TTT Bible study that is being announced in just a few days! Every year, we take 20,000-25,000 people through our free annual Bible study as our gift to you. Make sure you’re following us on Instagram to find out this year’s study.
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I need to tell you some exciting news! I have been working on a project for the last few months and it's finally ready! We have just launched something brand new. Have you ever wanted to write a book? This is not another course. This is called Havilah's Author School and it's a 4 month LIVE interactive mentorship to guide you step-by-step to get your first draft written and in your hands. Your story is worth sharing! There's only 200 spots and they are filling up fast! Apply today! https://havilahsauthorschool.com/
In this episode, we continue our talk on living with intention and today's specific topic is assumptions. Being aware of our assumptions can change our lives, and it will literally change your day! If I start my day off by assuming negative things For example, "Today will be a hard day because there's a lot to do," or "my husband is going to feel disconnected today," then throughout our day our brain will pick up confirmations to what we were assuming. We all have assumptions. Even if there are legitimate facts that go against your assumption, you will miss it because of the filter our brains create. So let's talk more about this and about confirmation bias and how you can live intentionally in your thoughts.
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I need to tell you some exciting news! I have been working on a project for the last few months and it's finally ready! We have just launched something brand new. Have you ever wanted to write a book? This is not another course. This is called Havilah's Author School and it's a 4 month LIVE interactive mentorship to guide you step-by-step to get your first draft written and in your hands. Your story is worth sharing! There's only 200 spots and they will fill up fast! Apply today! https://havilahsauthorschool.com/
Today we continue our talk on living with intention. I love practical teachings, and today it's all about practicals. I want you to stop and ask yourself some questions about how you are living your life.
Questions like: What's your aim? Your goal? What does success look like for you?
The truth is if we don't know what our aim is then we may miss the target because we haven't been living with intention to get there. So join me in this week's episode as I walk you through some questions and thoughts for you to apply to your daily life.
Also I can not mention Havilah's Author School, it's a 4 month school for those who have dreamt or thought about writing a book. I will walk the process from beginning to end with you to get your first draft witten and in your hands! This school is a live, interactive mentorship and we only have 200 spots so make sure to go enroll today! For more info on that check out this website: https://havilahsauthorschool.com/Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of the purpose challenge!
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I need to tell you some exciting news! I have been working on a project for the last few months and it's finally ready! We have just launched something brand new. Have you ever wanted to write a book? This is not another course. This is called Havilah's Author School and it's a 4 month LIVE interactive mentorship to guide you step-by-step to get your first draft written and in your hands. Your story is worth sharing! There's only 200 spots and they will fill up fast! Apply today! https://havilahsauthorschool.com/
Today, we will begin to talk about living with intention. Join me for the next few weeks as we talk about what it looks like to live with intention practically and how you can set your eyes on something and live it out. Intention gives us the opportunity to not just get through our days, but live out our days. It helps us to see where we want to go, make decisions and set goals, and develop relationships that propel us into that direction. I hope you enjoy this week's episode and join me for the future ones as we go deeper in this topic of living with intention!
Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of the purpose challenge!
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Hey, welcome back to day 5 and our final day of the purpose challenge series. Listen, if you listened to all 5 days and you are still wanting more, guess what! I have just the thing for you. I've made a free master class to help you start Living and creating a life of immediate impact. Here is the link for you to invest more on yourself: www.thepurposemasterclass.com
Today's episode is all about learning one of the greatest secrets to avoiding burnout and getting where you want to be in life. You'll learn how important it is to celebrate your small wins daily.
I'm in Florida this weekend speaking at Potential Church, it's open to the public on friday night so come see me and say hi. Then I'm headed to New Jersey on the first week of November, so for those in that area as well come say hi and let me know you're listening to the podcast!
Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of the purpose challenge!
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Welcome to day 4 talking about Purpose! Today we are unpacking the secret to setting goals that actually create change in your life. If you are just jumpin on to this episode you are welcome to go back and binge listen to all the other ones. This is a 5 day to purpose series, and for those who want something more I have a Masterclass on this topic that unpacks more great things that I actually practice daily.
Here's the link to join: https://thepurposemasterclass.com/
So here is where to find me and come say hi, this weekend I will be traveling to Costa Mesa, to Eternity Church, and there is still time to join us! The following week I will be at Potential church in Florida with my husband and one of my sons. So if you are at any of these events please come say Hi and let me know you've listened to this weeks episode!
Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of the purpose challenge!
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Pop on your shoes, as we tackle today's topic on purpose. Today we are talking about when we face defeat, when we step out but it doesn't work out. What happens when we face defeat in our purpose?
After listening to this episode do you find yourself wanting more? If yes, we have something exciting for you, today I am hosting a free live class and I'll be talking about all the aspects of how to stay powerful in a demanding world. If you want that, you can join tonight at 5pm or tomorrow at 11am, to register just click this link: https://howtostaypowerful.com/
Also if you live in the colorado area, I will be there at Pearl Church in Denver, Colorado. Saturday and Sunday morning, make sure to come and say Hi! This Thursday night we are also having Christa Smith as our Guest speaker at wonder night here at Bethel Church, and if you are not local you can join us on Bethel.tv live!
Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of the purpose challenge!
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Today we are doing a Cunnington Catchup episode! So much has happened in this month of September. This catchup is all about what's been happening here in my life, and hopefully will bring you some normalcy, some clarity or maybe just some humor. This has been the first month of me returning to travel. I got to speak at a business summit, which was really different but very exciting. Hope you love to hear this catchup about all that's going on with my travels, with the Bethel women, and stay till the end where I share my thoughts on low level anxiety.
Hope you remember that God is with you, and that His presence is the anecdote for anxiety!Thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of our summer series!
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We have been hosting a purpose challenge and thousands of you have joined to begin to discover your purpose or to add some momentum to the purpose God has for your life.
Today we are jumping into day 2 of purpose! If you missed last week, you can still listen to it here in the podcast. You can also still sign up to be a part of the purpose challenge, where you will get daily links for 5 days with activations for you to walk into your purpose with confidence. There is also an invitation for a full masterclass on purpose, that you will get once you sign up for the challenge.
This weekend I'm headed to Evangel Church in North Dakota for a conference, so I will see some of you there! I'm really glad you are here, this podcast is a work of love.
Today's episode is about getting clear on where you're going, let's get into it!
Here’s the link to register for the 5 Days to Purpose Challenge: https://5daypurposechallenge.com/
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We’re taking a break from our 10 everyday wins, and we’re gonna share something super important that’s happening… it’s our 5 Days to purpose challenge!
Let’s jump into day one today, as we talk about purpose! Today we’re gonna tackle the question, do I have what it takes? Let me give you three empowering thoughts, and three activations to push you into your purpose! Are you ready? Pop in those ear buds and get your walking shoes as you listen to todays episode!
If you want to join the 5 Days to Purpose Challenge here’s your link to register https://5daypurposechallenge.com/
Thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of the purpose challenge!
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For all my friends that live in Texas I will be at Cedar Hills, on September 16, registrations are still open! I hope to see you there, here is the link for that: https://ladies-night-reign-trinity-church-of-the-assemblies-of-god-1.pushpayevents.com/booking/attendees/new
Today I want to talk about winning in our everyday in the area of health. I am not someone who is naturally bent to take vitamins or workout, I actually have to be super intentional about it. So today I want to share some tips and tricks that I do that has helped me lose the weight I wanted, become healthier and have more energy. I took a huge turn 2 years ago on my health and I’m not trying to be thin, I’m trying to be strong. I hope this episode encourages you, I want you to be the best version of yourself that God has called you to be. Take realistic steps, don’t set your goal too high, but so things daily that will help you have wins!
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Today we are talking about 5 everyday wins to do to win in our marriages. Ben and I have been married for 17 years now and we thought of these 5 key things that helps us win everyday in our relationship with one another.
As we discuss how we make time for one another daily, how we keep connection in busy days, and how consistency and quality can actually mean and look different for every person.
Don’t miss out on this 10 everyday wins series, by subscribing to our Home with Havilah podcast. Thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of our summer series!
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This is one of my favorite topics! Learning how to develop my skills while doing all the things has been the secret to my success, and it’s changed my life! I want to share with you things that I’ve done and some that I still do daily to help me grow in personal development.
If you are looking to develop your communication gift with more confidence more clarity, go to theinfluencertable.com and check out all the courses we have available there for you!
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We’re back with another Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins episode! Today we’re talking about 5 simple ways to empower your kids and empower yourself as an influencer in a child’s life.
Whether you’re a mom, dad, aunt, teacher, grandparent, etc. this is for you. These are 5 things we have done in our family’s life that helps us connect and stay connected with our kids.
If you are around kids, of any age this is for you!
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Hey you guys, it’s Catch-up Friday, no not ketchup Friday! Today I want to catch you up on all the things that have been going on over at our house and in our lives these past two months. So grab your cup of coffee and let’s catch-up. In this episode I talk about some updates on our house, then how I filled up our calendars for the summer to then find out we could finally move into our home!!! So yes, we have been very busy around here, so let’s catch-up!!!
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We’re back with another Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins episode!
Today we’re talking about the win of fun! You may be wondering why fun? Well for many of you, you are overachievers, you love to work and hustle. If fun doesn’t even make it to your list or it just seems hard to make it a goal then this is for you!
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We’re back with another Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins episode! Today we’re talking about how we can win in our environment! We will be chatting through 5 things that I do that help me win in my everyday life when it comes to my environment. From setting up my day for success the night before to decluttering your space, we’re covering it all!
If you need some practical ways to set your environment up for success, this is for you!
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We’re back with another Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins episode! I chat with Alice Sanders, a Communications Specialist. Alice and her husband do Marriage Preparation Courses, she’s a speaker and enjoys speaking at various events about relationships. She also hosts The Stay Connected Experience, which is a marriage event/workshop.
Today, I talk to Alice all about relationships. We dive into healthy relationships, intimacy, and marriage. She shares how you can actually apply things we’ve been told to do, practical ways to deepen your relationships. and how healthy relationships can be possible in your life!
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Starting this week, we’re jumping into our Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins! Havilah has been sitting with this idea for several years and she's ready to bring it to you now! She's covering 10 wins that she wants to win and wants YOU to win in, too. So much of life is about winning in the everyday moments, not just one big moment.
Today, we’re jumping into our spiritual win.
I share how to keep it simple and keep it spiritual. I'm diving into the importance of getting back up again instead of giving up, why we need to be creative along the way and staying authentic through it all.
If you need some ideas and practical things to do to win in your everyday spiritual life, this episode is for you!
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This week on the podcast, we’re chatting all about rejection, abandonment, and building confidence.
My dad’s story was one of abandonment, self-rejection, and a lack of confidence but once he found Christ, he was able to go after those things and find healing. I was raised in a home of love, connection, and safety but that generational thread that followed my dad through his life wanted nothing more than to knock on my door. I had the realization that the spirit of rejection and abandonment wanted to follow my story as well.
The narrative of self-rejection and abandonment can sound so familiar in our thoughts that it doesn’t even sound surprising to us. When we hear those negative narratives in our minds, we have a decision to make. We can either go into self-pity, or we can stay open to the people around us and realize God divinely orchestrates everything in our life. We have to learn how to reject self-abandonment in those moments.
Thanks so much for tuning in today! We have to break up with these narratives in our minds that keep us from living fully free!
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For the month of June, we wanted to share our top 4 all-time downloaded podcasts! In today’s episode, we’re chatting all about Havilah’s book Leap Into Love!
Sometimes we’re so busy doing life and dream chasing that we forget what God thinks of us. He just wants you to know how amazing you are! There was a part in Havilah’s journey where it wasn’t until she was able to accept herself in a profound way that she was able to become a vital voice. This is why she wrote her book, Leap into Love. This study is more than just dealing with self-rejection and inner healing. It’s about learning to live present in our everyday life and to accept ourselves for who we are. It is the secret to living whole-heartedly.
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For the month of June, we wanted to share our top 4 all-time downloaded podcasts! Tune in to hear part 1 of a live teaching at Havilah’s local church from the study Leap into Love.
In this episode, we explore the power of making a conscious, and intentional choice to embrace ourselves as God’s most significant work. We are going to learn where our confidence is at and if we have evidence of self rejection showing up in our lives. Having radical love and self acceptance, allows us to show up fully in our lives and relationships.
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For the month of June, we wanted to reshare our top 4 all-time downloaded podcasts! Tune in to hear part 3 of a live teaching from the study Leap into Love.
In this episode, we are talking all about self-abandonment and self-rejection, and how those things show up in our everyday life. What if God wanted your physical frame to be the perfect representation to carry the purpose of God in it? God didn’t want us to all look the same, he created us to look differently on purpose! His plan in creating us was for us to know and experience Him.
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Enjoy this rerun of one of our most popular podcasts where Havilah interviews her mom Suzie Anfuso! We wanted to take some time to encourage all of the mothers out there, whether you are a working mom, a stay-at-home mom or you are a mom that just has a lot to navigate. Give yourself the grace to learn and be open during those busy seasons of life. This podcast will hopefully help you keep your focus on what’s important!
Our kids can’t take a backseat during our busy lives. We want to raise kids that are healthy, know how to have fun, but also are obedient. Having a relationship is one of the key components of obedience. In the end, your kids want you and your time!
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Listen in as Havilah chats with Lisa Bevere in an episode from the Moms of Men course! Havilah and Lisa share how to position your kids to be children of God. They share some practical tips and tools on how to speak the Word of God over your children and how to position them for greatness! God doesn’t just want to speak through you to your kids, he wants to speak directly to them! Connect with your weaknesses and challenges and lead with your strengths!
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Tune in to hear a session from the Moms of Men course with Lisa Bevere. Havilah and Lisa talk about creating environments of nurture and imparting destiny in their kids lives. Mothers can frame a world by speaking to their children’s God-given destiny.
Learn what it looks like to speak to your kid's identity, how to encourage them, and find their strengths instead of pointing out weaknesses. It’s so important to have intentional conversations letting them know that you are for them and not against them!
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It’s Mother’s Day this Sunday so we just wanted to take a moment to encourage and empower all of the Mothers! Tune in to hear one of the sessions from the Moms of Men Course with Lisa Bevere! Havilah and Lisa chat about how to create boundaries and structure in your home with children.
Boundaries and structure help children feel safe and create a healthy experience for them. You are given authority for the protection, the provision, and the direction of the discipline of your kids! Family is all about being on the same team!
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Enjoy this message Havilah preached last year at the Pink Conference.
In this episode, Havilah empowers us as believers and helps us identify what God really holds us responsible for. Have you ever asked yourself, what’s in my daily toil? What are the things that you carry around day in and day out? We’re going to start to get clear on what you own in your personal yard and identify what God has asked you to carry in your own backpack.
Listen in as Havilah empowers you with a now message for you in this season!
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In today’s part 2 episode of the “What I would have told my younger self” series, we’re talking all about investing in yourself! Tune in to hear about how Havilah learned to navigate her inner world and invest in becoming whole.
Learning to invest in yourself will be the secret to your success because you will have someone in your corner that is fighting for you for the sole purpose of fighting for you! You need someone in your life whom you can be open and honest to without any fear, shame, or anxiety!
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This week on the podcast, we’re introducing a brand new series called: “What I would have told my younger self”. If I were to go back in time, these are the secrets to success that I would want to share with my younger self. These things were critical to my becoming a leader.
If you want to be great in God’s kingdom, you are going to have to learn how to serve. Serve, serve, serve! We have to learn how to recklessly and sacrificially serve those around us. Jesus is the ultimate example of what it means to serve with humility. In His final hours on earth, He washed the feet of those that He had been walking with. Showing us what servanthood in leadership looks like.
Tune in to hear about servanthood and let’s learn how to serve with excellence and humility together!
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In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Jenn Johnson about hospitality and creating environments! Jenn is a worship leader, wife, mom, the ultimate hostess, and author of “All Things Lovely”.
Tune in to hear Jenn share about the power of breaking bread together around a table, navigating community with littles, creating a beautiful environment for people to come into, and so much more around the topic of gathering. We don’t have to have a perfect home, we just have to invite people in!
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Join Havilah as she chats with her core group about how to find your tribe! We know that the only way to do hard things is through community, you have to find people that are in your corner!
In Today’s episode, we are going to empower you to find your group of people! Pull up a chair, get your comfy clothes on, and tune into this episode to learn:
- Practical steps on what worked and didn’t work for Havilah’s core group
- How to figure out who to invite
- What it looks like to commit to consistency and intentionality
- How to facilitate a group of people going deep
We want to encourage you to be brave and do the really hard thing; just start! You don’t want to step into your greatest breakthroughs in life alone. You want to be surrounded by people who have been through it with you and we’re here to help you find those people!
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This month we’re talking all about female friendships! We don’t know about you, but friendships can be complicated, especially as an adult! In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Andi Andrew, author of “Friendship - It’s Complicated”! Andi and Havilah dive into what it looks like to heal the wounds we may have within ourselves and what it looks like to walk into a relationship fully YOU! Tune into the restoration journey Andi had with her own mother wounds and what it looks like to have those hard conversations. Hit that play button and tune into this episode to learn:
- How to heal and enter into relationships with other women
- How to walk confidently into a relationship fully as yourself
- How to evaluate if a friendship is healthy or not
- Lifetime friendships vs seasonal friendships
Friendships are worth the risk. Let’s learn what it looks like to have healthy, authentic friendships together!To hear more from Andi, visit her website at andiandrew.com
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Join us today for week 3 of our FOCUS series! There’s a lot coming at us in the world and the idea that we can take one small part of our life and focus our full attention on it can change our lives! We’re here to give you bite-sized pieces to change your story! Today we’re focusing on the topic of finances!
Hear from guest speaker Samia Pedalino, author of “Money Handbook”. With her experience in the finance and banking industry as well as being a successful small business owner, she shares with us from both a practical and a biblical perspective!
Explore what it looks like to overcome the fear of finances and learn practical tools to begin changing the way that you view money! The Lord is the one who creates wealth, we just have to give him our yes! We talk about what good debt looks like, where to begin if you’re a new investor, and how to partner with the Holy Spirit to view your finances as sacred.
You can find Samia on instagram @moneyhandbook and her book can be purchased on Amazon or the Bethel bookstore!
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This week on the podcast, we are going to hear a play-by-play from Havilah of the craziest 48 hours! In this episode, we are going to hear the full story of how her Instagram account was hacked, where she is at with it today, and how they got it back!
From losing complete access to her account to being interrogated by the hacker, and the account held for ransom, we are going to hear ALL the details! Havilah wants to thank YOU for rallying and getting the word out!
Be encouraged knowing that no matter what you are facing today, whether it be hopelessness, feeling overwhelmed, or tired, miracles can happen! Don’t be afraid to reach out to those around you and ask for help!
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In today’s podcast, we are continuing on with our FOCUS SERIES with special guest Daniel Giles.
Hear Daniel’s story where he moved from England to America without a plan but was willing to jump into anything! Daniel learned how to follow the favor on his life which led him to the marketplace. From running multiple Starbucks stores to climbing to the top at Apple, and now running an extremely successful business with his wife Deborah, Daniel has experienced many different corporate cultures in his life!
In this conversation, you’ll learn what it looks like to stay focused in the workplace. Learn practical keys to success and how to go the extra mile in the corporate world. The most successful people are really aware of their strengths and weaknesses. Explore what it looks like to be a successful leader.
God honors work and hard grit! You are in control of your destiny and you get to write that script with God! Daniel shares that his word for 2022 is “investment”. Invest in yourself!
When we become our best selves, it’s better for those around us! Do you have a word of the year? If so, we would love to hear what that word is!
This episode is packed full of incredible wisdom! You can find Daniel on Instagram at @daniel_giles!
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Welcome to the FIRST Cunnington Catch Up of 2022 and it is a BIG one! I share about our new house and property (you heard that right!) and a special experience I had there just a few days ago. You know the ones - the touchstone experiences that you have no documentation of but the snapshots in your mind that you’ll carry with you because it marks such a significant moment in time.
The end of 2021 and the beginning of 2022 have been so humbling as I look at what God has done - all of the ‘almosts’ and ‘not yet - wait’ seasons that felt hard in the present, but I now know it was all leading to God’s ‘exceedingly, abundantly more’ than I could have ever hoped or imagined. I am living to see the fruition of all I prayed for and knew was supposed to happen - but wasn’t quite sure how it would come to be.
If you’re in a season of ‘hard’ and you’re not understanding what God is up to - you’ll want to hear this Cunnington Catchup as I am confident you will have a similar experience to mine, in your future.
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This is the first of our FOCUS SERIES going the entire month of January to get us on solid footing in 2022. I hear from so many of you and the challenges, roadblocks and distractions that keep you from stepping fully into your purpose all boils down to FOCUS.
To kick off the series you’ll meet Shawn Blanc, long time friend of Ben and Havilah’s and focus+productivity coach with 20 years under his belt helping tens of thousands of people get clear and meet goals that previously eluded them.
In this conversation with Shawn and Havilah you’ll learn how focus is about having clarity about what really matters to you. Learn practical ways of how to fight back against the tyranny of the urgent. We all know how easy it is to get caught up in the moment of what is demanding your attention right ‘now’.
Learn how to schedule what matters - and how to follow through!
Shawn will outline what the 6 main areas of your life are and how to prioritize those. Take a deep breath and extend yourself some compassion: It’s impossible to give your attention to everything all the time. In the midst of hustle culture it’s easy to forget that amidst the noise.
As you head into 2022, realize that what got you here might not be what carries you any further. At the end of today’s episode you’ll be confident in knowing if what you’ve been doing is serving your goals moving forward and how to take action toward what is serving your goals!
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THIS WEEK IS THE PINNACLE OF OUR SPIRITUAL GIFTS SERIES and the perfect way to close out 2021 and step into 2022 destined for greater things than you imagined. If you’ve found this podcast, you are meant to hear this. This is a divine appointment. You haven’t found this podcast by accident.
This week’s guest is Deborah Giles, a profound prophetic voice to many world leaders. Havilah and Deborah discuss spiritual gifts, living a spirit-led life and a prophetic gifting through the avenue of dreams.
Are you in a wilderness and wondering if God has simply brought you here to leave you? Growing your gifts might happen in a dark place where you’re simply keeping your head above water. God takes you to the place where you are done leading and you have to surrender and wait to see what God has for you. This is your sign: It’s time to shake off old concepts and mindsets of how you think God works.
Hear Deborah’s story where she did this and used her spiritual gifts to build her business and start over in the marketplace at 38 years old and turn her business into ministry. We are called to be spiritual in the atmosphere we are placed in - it’s not in silos - God wants to bring the supernatural to whatever you are doing in the natural. Living a spirit-led life happens in the midst of whatever God has placed in your hand! Ministry doesn’t happen in the 4 walls of the church, it happens when you steward the natural with God’s supernatural power of spiritual gifts!
This episode is so full of wisdom and gold you will fill pages if you’re a note taker. You can find Deborah on Instagram at @deborahgiles where you can see first-hand all that God is doing in and through her!
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Surprise! It’s audiobook time!
This week Havilah reads you the first chapter of her new bible study book: Discovering and Activating My Spiritual Gifts. Listen in as you get a sneak peek ‘listen’ into the foundation for the entire study and book!
Setting the groundwork for what Spiritual Gifts are, what they aren’t and how God uses them in and through you, you will walk into this Christmas with new eyes for what Jesus’ birth, life and gifts to believers are this season!
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This week Havilah interviews Kris Vallotton about the Gift of Discernment. Listen in as Kris breaks it down as the gift of discerning the spirits and how you might already be operating in that gift without realizing it! Havilah and Kris share their personal experiences of how this gift shows up in daily life - how it might be that you are ultra perceptive of the atmosphere that someone else is bringing into a room. Hear them discuss how to discern what belongs to you and what does not, how to operate in this gifting with vision, grace and love and common pitfalls that can occur. Also - learn how you can begin to activate the gift of Discernment in your own life right now!
Kris Vallotton mentions his book Spiritual Intelligence which can be found here. Kris is a foremost authority and expert on operating in Spiritual Gifts and has numerous books and resources which can be found here.
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It’s been TOO long since Havilah has been able to catch you all up on what’s going on in their world. Well today, she’s back and she’s sharing all the details about what’s going on in their world. They’ve had to ask themselves hard questions in this last season and lean on the Lord for those answers. Hear about where they are headed and about some amazing testimonies that have happened in the past few months. Havilah is dishing out all the details about her new position, their new home, and new season.
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Francis Anfuso was an atheist before he had a radical encounter with the Lord during his conversion. When he started to consider ministering to others, he didn’t want to be disingenuous or inauthentic. He looked at the evangelists, preachers and church leaders at the time and he didn’t want to look like them or sound like them. He never loved labels, but rather, functions. How do you function? He wanted to function like Jesus. How did Jesus function while He was on the earth? Answer: A continuous dependence on God. Listen in as Havilah and her father talk about how activating your spiritual gifts is best done in low-stakes environments. It should be with friends, neighbors, family, not with a mic in your hand on a stage. Get ready to take notes this week because you will learn practical ways to operate in your spiritual gifting in your every day life as Francis and Havilah uncomplicate the topic of Spiritual Gifts.
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This week we are kicking off the first episode of our Spiritual Gifts Series where Havilah will be discussing the 9 spiritual gifts, what they are and how God uses them and us to reach the world in tangible ways!
But let’s be honest: depending on your upbringing and experiences around spiritual gifts or moves of the Holy Spirit, you might have a preconceived notion of what is or is not biblical. People tend to fall into one of two camps: either really comfortable with gifts of the Spirit or really UNcomfortable or unsure. (Yes, that’s simplifying it!) This episode and Havilah’s new book will build a bridge between both worlds to bring us back to Jesus’ heart and mind on the topic of Spiritual Gifts.
Get your pens ready, because this week’s conversation is with Proverbs 31 Ministries’ Director of Theology and Research - Joel Mudamalle - where Havilah asks him to set a theological foundation for our journey into discovering and activating our Spiritual Gifts.
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In the Cunnington household this year, we are going to do the Holidays differently. We are contemplating what matters most in life and we know that our podcast community is doing the exact same thing. Feel like the world is a dark place? Today you’ll get to meet mom and substitute teacher Norah - who tells her life story as the youngest of 6 children growing up in Uganda. Norah’s story will bring you joy! Everything that the holidays are supposed to be about - good gifts, joy, peace, love and the light of Jesus… is wrapped up in this powerful testimony.
Hallmark movies and cozy candles have nothing on this podcast for getting you in the Christmas spirit! Our core values in the Cunnington home and at Truth to Table are generosity and a spirit of giving back in tangible ways. As a mama, I’m raising global citizens serving the God of the Universe who loves every child of every nation. To release children from poverty in Jesus’ name is the mandate on our hearts as we walk into this holiday season. Xx- Havilah
Listen in as Havilah shares about her BIG GOAL for our community! Text TABLE to 83393 to join Havilah and our TTT team in bringing life and freedom for children in need - putting your faith into action.
This is a spirit of adoption God wants us to embody - and it can be a way to gift your own children the opportunity to put their faith into action.
We love you. You’re special. You’ll make it.
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Do you have a big, seemingly scary task ahead of you? Something beyond your ability to pull off? Is God calling you into unchartered territory with no guarantees? In this episode, hear Havilah teach on how to move forward in the face of fear. This teaching is so jam-packed full of wisdom and biblical teaching - so get your journals ready, God has a word for you in this season!
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Remembrance is a sacred act. We wanted to throw it back and share with you one of Havilah’s first seasons’ episodes where she shares her journey from doing an online YouTube study with a max audience of 20 (counting her mother) and getting discouraging feedback. She shares the process of growing her audience in pace with the Lord’s leading and by making small but healthy steps forward.
Wherever you are right now in the call and purpose on your life, do not diminish it! Sowing tiny seeds still can grow into a full harvest if watered well and sown on fertile soil. Do not diminish your hope for the harvest by the size of the seed. As we take this moment to share this episode in the freshness of Havilah’s announcement of being the Women’s Pastor at Bethel Church, we thought it would be a good reminder that she started small. She was faithful with whatever God placed in her hands, she took initiative and kept stewarding well whatever opportunities she took hold of. Be encouraged as you listen to this episode and know that whatever it is you’re doing right now - will lead to even greater things in Jesus’ name!
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From the Mountain Mover Conference in Moses Lake, WA comes today’s episode where Havilah talks about how the storms we live through in our lives makes our message more impactful. We can preach about God when we are safely on the shore, but it’s in the storm that true trust and relationship is forged with God. This message was recorded in October and is a timely word spoken over people in this specific season of personal and global tumult. You’re not alone and Jesus lived life on earth to show us how to do it best.
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This week in the final episode of the Marriage Is Series, Havilah chats with Clint Davis who talks about trauma within a marriage and what to do if there has been a betrayal or trauma within the marriage.
What do you do if your marriage is ‘broken’?
Covid has done a number on marriages. Pastors report seeing more divorces in the past year than they have in all of their cumulative years in ministry. Why? Clint explains that up until covid and the lockdowns we had maladaptive coping skills and were able to distract ourselves until we were all given no where else to turn but our homes. It either drove people closer or the wheels came off. Listen in as Havilah and Dr. Clint discuss how we try to put bandaids over bullet holes, how important community is for healthy feedback to know whether or not your situation is truly abusive, and how to heal from betrayal trauma.
Clint Davis is an Army Veteran who has a Bachelor's in Psychology from Louisiana Tech University and Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy from Fuller Theological Seminary. He is an ordained minister and Licensed Professional Counselor trained in EMDR for trauma, Restoration Therapy for couples and families, a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) and is also a certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT). Clint owns Clint Davis Counseling and Integrative Wellness where he has a team of Mental Health Professionals, Doctors, Chiropractors and Dietitians who help people recover from trauma to the mind, body, and spirit. He is also currently the Director of Recovery for The Hub: Urban Ministry that works to fight against poverty and human trafficking. He is married to his wife Jacie and has two sons Grady (6) and Jude (3).
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Ben and Havilah take this episode on together as they share their story of how they almost didn’t get married (whaaat??) how to navigate different callings, what to do if it seems your spouse is unsupportive of your calling and how to partner together. Marriage is contending and fighting together for what matters. Hear practical tools to go after the calling on your life without negating the call on your spouse's life and learn how to contend side by side for the things of the Kingdom!
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Certified Master Sex Coach Rebekah LaRobardiere has a degree in Psychology and is on the show talking with Havilah about why marriages are struggling sexually especially in the covid season. Listen in as they talk about what is ‘normal’ what is not, what part we as individuals play in our sexuality, how our perspective and beliefs about sexuality affects how we show up in our marriage, how to improve intimacy and your sex life in marriage and a few myths that you might not have known!
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Havilah has been getting so many messages and emails about marital struggles. She wants to get you resources and help in the best way she can! One of the things that has been so helpful for Havilah has been Connection Codes. Listen in as Havilah interviews Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, creators of the Connection Codes Courses. It applies not just to marriages but to parent/child and family relationships, work relationships, roommates and friendships. We are hardwired for connection and identity. How our brains work and how our bodies are triggered by what happens in the brain are all factors in how we experience one another and the world around us. Get ready to take notes because this will help you immensely in whatever relationships you’re struggling with! They are offering an exclusive code: home25 for Havilah’s community to give you 25% off their course! Click HERE to get the discount!
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Enjoy this message Havilah preached earlier this year at the She Conference. The Church is usually in one of two camps when it comes to spiritual warfare: the devil is everywhere or we ignore the devil. The war is already won, but we still have to know how to fight in the battles that come our way in life. Enjoy this profound teaching as Havilah breaks down how to fight a very real enemy who is coming to steal, kill and destroy the purpose and call on your life! You are meant to live the abundant life so you can know if you’re feeling mentally, emotionally or spiritually depleted it’s because your enemy is stealing from you. Listen in as Havilah restores your hope with a now message for you in this season.
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Enjoy this message Havilah preached in San Jose earlier this month at the Unique Conference. Your call is too great and your purpose too essential to be deterred by offense. Shake the dust of offense off of you so you can go into your promised land free and clear! You don’t want to take the offense of the desert in with you to the next season and land God has sent you into.
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Havilah has so many things she wants to catch you up on today!
Remember when the Cunnington’s started asking God if they were in the right place back in June? Remember when they visited Nashville? Tune in to hear their new thoughts on this and where God is leading them.
Havilah shares the importance of really leaning into what God has for them instead of doing it and then asking for blessing in it. Waiting sucks, we get it! But waiting on God is never a bad idea.
Havilah shares encouragement if you’re in a season where you don’t know what’s next and you’re longing for something different. What you have control over is today! So let’s focus on the one thing you can do to give God glory TODAY.
You won’t want to miss the BIG NEWS that came out of a meeting with a few Bethel leaders recently and how it affects everything else in their world. Did someone say new home?
Havilah is excited to dive head first into something new and we hope you stick around for the ride!
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In today’s podcast with special guest Danny Silk, Havilah and Danny discuss how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Listen in as they talk about common themes that are experienced in ministry like how no one has taught Christians to say no to one another or how to be unhappy with one another. It sounds funny, but it’s true. We have been taught that people pleasing is ‘Godly’ and having people upset with us means we did something wrong. But is that true? Find your answers to the questions of what is AND IS NOT healthy in ministry and how to set boundaries in a ministry setting.
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How do you set Boundaries in your workspace and still work with integrity? Having boundaries in the workplace is the kindest thing you can do for your employers. When you figure out your YES’s - your core values - your NO’s will get really clear. Your boss doesn’t burn you out - YOU burn you out. You train your employers what access they have to you. That doesn’t make you a bad employee it makes you more reliable and trustworthy. Boundaries are FOR us, not AGAINST someone else. Showing up like a spiritual grownup means you set boundaries, which is showing up more obediently to God. We serve God and not man; a fear of man will likely result in boundary issues in the workplace. Being clear on the boundaries of your role and duties, your boss’s role and duties and what hours you will be able to work to produce with excellence and bring maximum value to your role and responsibilities is foundational. Then, sticking to it and not allowing guilt or shame to run the show is the key to maintaining boundaries in your work! What did you think of this episode? Let us know in our socials! Can’t wait to hear from you on Facebook and Instagram - tag us in your stories + posts! @truthtotable @havilahcunnington
Family of origins is tricky especially in the faith space There’s the verse: “Honor your father and mother in the Lord for this is right.” So how do we reconcile that and live with healthy boundaries and apply them to our family of origins? Isn’t it disrespectful to come up against your parent’s wishes and say ‘no’?
This week licensed therapist Dr. Alison Cook @alisoncookphd is on the show and shares about how honoring our parents isn’t about how they feel, but rather, about becoming the person God wants us to be. Dr. Cook and Havilah about how to set boundaries in the relationships in life that tend to be the relationships that are the most sticky: family. Nothing is off-limits, we talk about relationships with mothers, in-laws, children, what does actual toxicity in a relationship look like? We took questions we heard from you on socials and got answers straight from Dr. Cook! Listen in and find out the key signals that clue you in that there is an issue with unhealthy boundaries in your life.
Boundaries in marriage might sound like it’s a contradictory statement. Anyone else have a hard time knowing how to be ‘one’ with someone while also maintaining boundaries? The biggest question I get when speaking is “How do I know I’m in unity and still say no when it’s healthy?” Following the example of the Trinity and God and creation we find some key markers for how boundaries in marriage work. There is no whole, pure love where there is no power of choice. Distinctly different entities and yet they are wholly and fully God as one. Living powerfully means you don’t need to wait for anyone else to participate. You living the abundant life only requires one participant: YOU. He knows how to make 2 one - but He also doesn’t require us to lose ourselves for the sake of our spouse. Are you showing up wholeheartedly in taking ownership of your attitudes, choices and feelings and stewarding them in a way that doesn’t require your spouse's participation? Listen in as Havilah shares a real, personal story that illustrates how Boundaries in marriage work and unpacks how it plays out in real life when you partner with the Holy Spirit.
Join Havilah in the last of a relationship series for those who are in a season of waiting or singleness. This week, Havilah invited Courtney Cruz, a Truth To Table staff member to share her story of not waiting well and how that played out in her life. Married at 21, Courtney’s dream life of doing ministry and starting a family was turned upside down pretty quickly. What transpired after that was messy. Single parenthood, more than one marriage and divorce, the consequences of chasing her dreams over God’s best carried a heavy price. Hear Courtney’s journey of trying to write her own love story and chasing after her own romantic dreams and what it took for God to get her fully to Himself. Listen in as Havilah chats with her about how Ishmaels get created when we aren’t willing to wait for our Isaac and the beauty and hope that await those that truly surrender to allow God to write the story for their lives.
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Havilah is back with another behind the scenes peak of what’s going on in the Cunnington world.
Tune in to hear some vacation tips and how they make vacations cost effective, thoughts about their eldest going into high school this year, and are the Cunnington’s moving?!
If you heard Havilah’s latest Cunnington Catch Up, you know they were on their way to Nashville. (If you haven’t heard it, stop and go listen to episode 172 first!)
Have you ever asked God the question, “What’s next?” Hear how Havilah and her family walked through this process with Him and what He showed, or didn’t show, them through it.
Did you hear about everything Havilah and her family had to go through when they realized Grayson’s passport had expired RIGHT before they left for vacation? It was an eye-opening experience! Get the full story that you didn’t get on socials.
“I don’t know what He’s going to do. All I know is that as long as I’m where God has me, that’s all that matters, and if He has me somewhere, I’m going to give it all I’ve got.” - Havilah Cunnington
The Cunnington fam just got back from vacation. Her family started going to Cabo, Mexico when Havilah was 19 years old, and they’ve gone back ever since. Hear a cool testimony that her dad played a role in and find out all the details about how you can save money on your next vacation! Because you NEED to get away, get rest, and refresh. And it’s possible to do without getting into debt and feeling stressed the whole time.
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Always a bridesmaid and never a bride? Ever feel advertised as the token single girl who everyone is trying to marry off? Christa Smith knows how you feel. There is a constant message of: you need to be in a relationship. And that singleness is a curse. That is not Godly, and not Truth. Being single is not a bad thing. A journey of singleness is an invitation to truly trust God with your life. Do not settle for a relationship that is anything less than God’s best, which will always be first and foremost: HIM. Learn what will help shift your perspective from a place of waiting to a place of contentment. Hear about what specific tips Christa has for you in your season of waiting and find out WHY your single years are not ‘filler years’ until you get married. Shift your perspective from waiting to be chosen to a place of a God-focused, empowered place of CHOOSING. Healed and whole marriage doesn’t happen unless you are actively chasing being healed and whole as a single person. Listen in as Christa brings the fire as she shares the top keys to lean in and maximize the power of your singleness. “Look to the future but don’t forfeit the present of what God is doing now.” - Christa Smith
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You can’t run from the waiting! In this episode, Havilah interviews and chats with Christa Smith, Pastor, Preacher, Teacher and Author. Content while contending for what you want. If God isn’t enough for you now, in the absence of something, He won’t be enough when you get it. In order to get to a place of contentment, you have to grieve what you don’t have. Often times the depths of your desire will connect you with the true surrender needed to carry the dream that awaits you. Listen in as Christa shares about the journey of singleness that lasted far longer than when she wanted. When you aren’t in an ‘encounter’, can you still walk out your declaration? We believe that this episode is for the single woman OR the woman who is in a painful season of waiting or who is facing longsuffering. You will find freedom in the encouragement Christa has for you, through her inspiring story and deep wisdom.
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Are you content while contending for God’s future for you? Often times we think we are ready, but really, we aren’t. God is preparing our minds and our bodies to carry the responsibility that lies ahead. Anyone else been in love with love? Anyone have their future spouse ‘checklist’? That’s right, I see you. Laying our romantic lives down in front of God is not easy. Waiting on God to bring you the things that are the deepest desires of your heart is really hard. But spoiler alert: the waiting never ends. Even if you get the one thing, there is always something else you’re waiting for. When God asks us to wait, He doesn’t give us a time frame. His timing is not our timing. Even if He says suddenly, that doesn’t mean it’s our definition of ‘suddenly’. God likes to keep the mystery. In this episode, Havilah reveals the two things you can control in the waiting season: how you wait and who you become in the journey. Listen in as she unpacks the rich treasure that awaits you in the waiting.
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Going back to basics, we are going to talk about how to starve your fear and feed your faith. Fear can be good for us, it can protect us. But sometimes our fear gives us the problem but not the solution. That’s where FAITH comes in. Faith provides the solution. Havilah goes through many fears we all face and what the solution is!
We don’t want you to dismiss facts. That’s delusional. God sees fact and truth differently.
John chapter 11 - God does not need additional motivation to set you free, to heal you, to save you. We believe if God cared, He’d save us right now. He’d move on our behalf right now. Often times we get the promise, the prophesy, and we wonder what the holdup is. We feel God is holding out on us. But keep in mind, sometimes it takes time in our stories to give us the promise AND give God the glory. Don’t give up hope! People blow up their lives in the waiting. People start to take over because they feel the waiting is ‘too long’. Waiting on God is tough. If you don’t hang on to the vision of what God promises is coming… you will never birth the gift of the promise. If you don’t know what you’re getting at the end of the struggle, you will bail in the middle of the waiting. Because NOW you have an opportunity to see God and actually TRUST Him. This is a prophetic word for you: You aren’t meant to get everything you wanted in this season. Because learning that God is who He says He is and that He can do what He says He can do is the real gift. Listen in to hear this and MORE truthbombs Havilah drops this week!
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Is your future compelling? Or are you just living in an anxious present? In the second of a two-part episode Joelle and Havilah talk through finding your PURPOSE, living a compelling life and how the two are linked. Don’t miss the wrap up of what special word Havilah has for you in this season!
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Is your future compelling? Or are you just living in an anxious present? In the first of a two-part episode Joelle and Havilah talk through finding your PURPOSE, living a compelling life and how the two are linked.
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If you follow Havilah on socials, you’re only getting half the story! In this episode hear Havilah give you the full story on what’s been going on behind the scenes for the Cunnington Crew. Hear the full story of Bear, and all of the other things that have been going on and that are upcoming!
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God’s voice speaks to us from our future. He wants to lead you to the future He knows He has created for you! What does it look like to live a life you want to wake up to? How is your grief affecting your ability to go after your dreams? It’s time to get up! Ask yourself: What is my future self trying to tell me? Let's talk about the power of Spirit-led living and get you to a place where you can answer: when I leave this earth, do I know that I fulfilled my God-given potential? Listen in as Havilah unpacks how, when our future or our present is more compelling than our past, we will become the men and women we need to be to follow the voice of God.
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Welcome back after a little break to our I Do Boundaries Series, episode 4! We’re going to look at how boundaries are part of being a spiritual grownup! Part of being a spiritual grownup is understanding what is not only permissible for you, but what is actually helpful in your life.
This week we will learn about how your beliefs, emotions, and decisions all belong to YOU and how that actually puts you in a position of power. Listen in as Havilah shares about how we can’t protect what matters most if we’re busy protecting our reputation and how living with Godly boundaries is understanding that you are not created to do all things. Listen in to understand fully how freedom awaits you through boundaries...
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In today’s episode we’re going to look at why boundaries aren’t just helpful but profoundly spiritual. Boundaries are a popular topic. But make no mistake, property lines have been an idea from the very beginning. He’s very passionate about boundaries. He knows that when we have ownership, love is protected. When we allow love to motivate us, we can live whole lives by clearly knowing where we end and others begin. His Kingdom works!
God created boundaries for the sake of order, ownership and protection.
God holds Himself to the same order, ownership, and protection.
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Loving ourselves and others well begins with healthy boundaries! Just in time for Valentine’s Day Havilah shares what the big deal is about boundaries. Our world consists of boundaries. It’s easy to see them all around us. We’ve built fences, signs, walls, and hedges. We’ve created cities, counties, states and countries. We use them to clarify ownership. These lines help us know who owns what and where. Once we know who the owner is, we know who is responsible. The owner of the property is legally responsible. The non-owner isn’t. As our physical world has boundaries, so, too, our spiritual world. They are harder to see, but just as important.
Boundaries don’t just keep the good in, but also keep the bad out.
Listen to week 2 of our I Do Boundaries series as Havilah unpacks how boundaries keep us from harm and protect safe and healthy love.
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The first of our I Do Boundaries series, Havilah begins to walk us through finding our power, finding out how to protect what matters most to us and to stop feeling bad about it. Being nice out of fear doesn’t work and people-pleasing will keep us stuck in the cycles of powerlessness that we are trying to break away from. Learn how to do the right thing, when the right thing won’t make everyone happy. Being at war with the internal narratives you have about people’s opinions of you and the affect/perceived control you have over it can be confusing. Good news: you don’t have to betray who you are to make others comfortable! Likely, being a good Christian girl isn’t what you’ve been taught it is. Where do your responsibilities end and others’ begin? Find out as you listen in to this week’s episode as Havilah begins to walk you through interrupting the pattern of making others happy and empowering you to live life the way God wants you to! Get ready to show up in the world as the powerful person He created you to be.
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In this episode Havilah has a conversation with Jason Vallotton about developing a healthy inner dialogue. Jason is a husband, dad, pastor, counselor and leads a Men's Ministry called Brave Co. Tune in to hear the keys Jason shares to overcome the obstacles of life, develop a healthy game plan for challenges and become an expert and finding the help you need.
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In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Lauren Vallotton about blended family. Lauren shares openly about the unique experience of stepping into a marriage as a step-parent. Tune in to hear the trials and success that have shaped the journey and what keys have been essential to stepping into such a unique role.
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In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Rebekah LaRobadiere. Rebekah is a sex and relationship coach, wife and mom. Tune in to hear the very real and open conversation about sex, as Rebekah brings clarity to the confusion of what intimacy and a "great sex life" truly means, what lies and beliefs keep you from having a healthy sex life and how to talk about sex with your children.
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In today's Part 2 episode, Barry and Lori Byrne, Founders of Nothing Hidden Ministries, continue their discussion on cultivating a healthy marriage. This dynamic duo teaches us that the Holy Spirit uncovers what years of counseling may not have revealed. Their workshops globally have helped thousands of couples restore their marriage. Listen to these wonderful stories, and hear God’s heart for marriage!
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In today's Part 1 episode, Barry and Lori Byrne, Founders of Nothing Hidden Ministries and family therapist, discuss the secrets of having a healthy marriage. They are passionate about bringing spiritual, relational, and emotional breakthrough. It always takes two people showing up fully. Listen in to uncover real solutions when pitfalls happen in marriage!
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Christa Smith joins Havilah in a conversation about single-life. Christa openly shares her journey of waiting until the age of 39 to marry the man of her dreams. So often we find ourselves waiting for a promise from God. It's easy to start to compare your story or even question God's character in the waiting. Tune in to hear how this journey produced intimacy, faith and joy in the Lord.
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In this episode, Havilah and Ben Cunnington have a very real conversation about marriage. They talk openly and honestly about the reality of building a healthy marriage in the midst of all that life brings at you. Tune in to learn some keys to building a healthy marriage, that builds intimacy and connection.
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In today's podcast Havilah and her Dad, Francis Anfuso, are having a conversation about writing books. Between the two of them they have written over 20 books that have reached thousands! You'll be sure to want to listen and get insight on how to share your voice with the world.
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In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Lisa Bevere about her writing journey. Lisa is a dear friend, mentor, mom, grandma and wife, she is also an a New York Times Best Selling Author, speaker and leads a ministry called Messengers International. Lisa shares behind the scenes of the journey to writing her newest book Godmothers. In this book she shares a powerful message for the women of this generation, tune in to hear as she share about the importance of being a woman. If you are also interested in writing a book, sign up for Havilah's FREE Master Class. She will share all the secrets to writing and publishing a book.
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In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Larry Sparks. Larry is a publisher for Destiny Image, he shares his journey of becoming a publisher and encourages us to take a risk and go after the things God has called you too. Tune in to hear the discussion of the importance of being confident in your message, calling and writing; it will change the world.
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In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Lysa TerKeurst. Lysa is a mom, wife, grandma, New York Times Best Selling Author, speaker and leads Proverbs 32 Ministries. Tune in to hear as Lysa openly shares how she began her writing journey, how to share stories that cause the reader to peek into their own life through your story and how writing changes the world.
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In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Carrie Lloyd. Carrie is an author, life coach and pastor. She shares openly her process with becoming a writer, the battles she has overcome to publishing her work and challenges other that are inspired to write a book to ask themselves the honest questions that will lead to a successful writing journey.
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In the first episode of Home with Havilah, Havilah shares her writing process and journey to publishing her first book. Tune in to hear the vulnerable journey of writing a book, how it all got started, and what is coming up next!
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In this episode, we celebrate 5 years of podcasting! It has been an incredible journey, we’ve loved every moment. We wanted to remember some of our favorite moments together. Tune in to also hear Havilah share some BIG announcements for what is coming up.
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In this episode, Havilah Cunnington and Mercy Lokulutu have a very vulnerable conversation on racial reconciliation. Mercy brings a fresh perspective to the conversation on racial injustice in the United States. Originally from Nigeria, married with three children and has a Master’s in psychiatry, Mercy shares how to embrace mourning and grief while clinging to hope. She informs where to further educate one’s self on the issue and how to support one another on the journey towards greater racial reconciliation, healing and restoration.
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In this episode, I am vulnerably sharing my process of learning to radically love and accept myself. I’ve had the same body my whole life but I cannot say I have always LOVED and accepted it. It took some hard seasons and lessons to recognize the areas self-rejection can hide. Tune in to learn of the incredible revelation I gained on my journey of self-acceptance that led me to the freedom available with the Lord.
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In this episode, I’m talking about the very real and raw journey quarantine has been. I sharing how I have walked through the last several weeks and my process with the Lord. Since the start of this journey I've been reminded of the Israelites story and how when there is no way, God makes a way. Sometimes, listening to someone else's process leads you to the next steps for your own.
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In this episode, Havilah and her husband Ben discuss something that has been impacting a massive number of lives on a global scale.
The simple truth is this; God wastes nothing. He doesn't allow something to happen without having a purpose around it. Not that he initiates it, but he allows it and turns everything around for his good.
The beauty in all of this is that we can confidently hold onto hope, knowing he's the one in control.
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All growth starts at baseline. It’s often the incremental growth that causes us to become who we want to be and who we are called to be. In this podcast, we’ll be discussing subtle shifts for radical change.
“I Should” is based in shame and it doesn’t allow us to be in the process. It requires us to be perfect and causes discouragement. God does not hold us to the “I Should’s”, he is the ‘I Am” and “I will”. He operates in timing and seasons.
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At some point in our lives, all of us have dealt with guilt. It can seem to be the best motivator, but also the greatest drain in our lives. In this episode Havilah talks about the different reasons why we feel guilt and how we can grow and learn from our conviction instead of being weighed down by it.
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Have you ever wondered what the secret to happiness is? In this episode, we're talking all about HAPPINESS! Robert Holden, the founder of the Happiness Project in England, introduced something called the happiness test. The test includes a set of questions designed to help one find the key to joy. Take the test today and learn what your happiness score is.
It's a simple test you can take right now.
(Please answer on a scale of 1 - 7, with 7 being the most positive)
- In most ways, my life is close to ideal.
- The conditions of my life are excellent.
- I am satisfied with my life.
- So far I have gotten the important things I want in life.
- If I could live my life over, I would change almost nothing.
If you scored 15 or under, you are dissatisfied with your life.
If you scored 31 or higher, you are extremely satisfied with your life.
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Do you ever feel like you’re in the trenches of life? Do you feel like life has become overwhelming and unmanageable?
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Sometimes in life, it feels like God is ignoring us. You think to yourself He’s not listening to my cries. What am I doing wrong when I’m doing everything right? In this episode Havilah shares real life stories on trusting God’s timing and how we can have hope and clarity to know that He has a plan.
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If we want to reach our kids for God then we must not only preach it but LIVE IT OUT. Our message will be so much more powerful if our kids actually see us live it out in our everyday life. In this episode, Havilah challenges you to be aware of how we’re living and not just what we’re saying.
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In this podcast, Havilah talks about overcoming criticism. Do you ever get discouraged about your reaction to things? Criticism affects our hearts in multiple ways and it can have a profound impact on our lives in a really negative way.
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The loaded question...What is life balance and what does that look like? More importantly how do we go about achieving this in the midst of our crazy schedules? Havilah teaches you strategies you can take in our daily lives to gain back control and bring balance.
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You are going to face hard things in life. Things that take your breath away. Those things you didn’t expect, the pain you didn’t anticipate, the moment you didn’t see coming. What do you do when you face these HARD THINGS?
In this episode Havilah’s talks about her new online bible study, “I Do Hard Things.” A Bible study to break Free of Fear and Pain and how you can climb out of your suffering and learn to dream again.
Doing hard things isn’t always something you’ve been taught, but it’s something you are made for.
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At some point in your life, you are going to face hard things. Things that take your breath away. Those things you didn’t expect, the pain you didn’t anticipate, the moment you didn’t see coming. For those of you that have dealt with fear and pain in your life, you know right away that this is not a quick overnight fix. Breaking free of fear and pain requires consistent, deliberate intention to get rid of the habits and old patterns.
In this episode, journey with Havilah as she goes through the first chapter of her new Bible study book, “I Do Hard Things:” Breaking Free from Fear and Pain, to gain a plan of action to climb out of your suffering and learn to dream again. Discover how you can climb out of your pit of pain and into a life of freedom and peace.
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138: Development in Every Season: Pt 3
Success looks like showing up. It's always about doing what God has called us to do and never about our performance or fear of man.
No one can believe for you. No one can expect God like you can. He responds to your faith. The Lord who has done it, and will do it again. He loves to get us out of bondage and into freedom!
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This week is all about God’s faithfulness. Psalm 37:25 says: “I was young, and now I am old, yet I have never seen the righteous forsaken or their children begging bread.”
You can be fully confident that your Heavenly Father will not let you down. Not only is God faithful to us in every season, not only is He fully aware of what we need, but God is all-powerful, which means He can do anything and everything He wants to. He’s won the victory to give us freedom in every area of life.
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In this episode, Havilah talks about development in every season and how the invitation to growth is always available. We walk through John 8 and learn about the opportunity to be fruitful in every area of life!
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This week is all about owning your spiritual passion. You alone are responsible for keeping the fire burning in your spiritual life and to stay passionate about God. It actually is possible to be passionate about God and the things of God for your whole life! 2 Timothy 4:7 says “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”
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In this episode, we talk about dealing with drama. Often when we feel anxious or misunderstood, we panic. It’s important to understand that there are a variety of emotions going on within us at the same time.
When we’re anxious, the worst version of us shows up and it’s essential to know that we’re fully equipped to deal with anything that comes toward us because we have the Holy Spirit living inside of us at all times.
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This week is all about owning our personal will. Whether you are strong-willed or have more of a passive will, ultimately our will is critical to our pursuit of Jesus. Our will is the place where our decisions and determination comes from and that’s why it is vital for us to have a surrendered will.
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This week is all about owning your words. Our words are a reflection of our hearts. They can create the worlds that we live in. It’s not about how many words we use but about what we are speaking into existence.
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This week is all about owning your thoughts. A lot of our battles happen in our mind and it is critical that we understand this battle. In order for us to experience spiritual transformation, we have to start in our minds and set our thoughts on things above (Colossians 3:2).
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In this episode, Havilah discusses the topic of leading your kids to Christ and the privileges that come along with that.
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Owning your battle means realizing that what you are going through is never bigger than the God you serve. He is here to defend for us and to protect us in the middle of our struggle.
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“Do Christians go to Heaven if they commit suicide?” “Should a leader, who is struggling with depression, be in leadership?” “Is depression demonic for a Christian?” Depression and suicide is a real thing and something that so many people deal with. It’s a silent killer because people can feel shame for even having thoughts of suicide or feeling depressed, leaving them closed to open up about what’s really going on. It’s a hard topic to discuss but it’s something that the Church NEEDS to talk about more.
Havilah and her dad answer these questions and more in this necessary and inspiring conversation.
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In this episode, Havilah chats with Rebekah Lyons, a wife, mother, speaker and bestselling author of You Are Free: Be Who You Already Are and Freefall to Fly: A Breathtaking Journey Toward a Life of Meaning. She is an old soul with a contemporary, honest voice. Her passion is inviting others to boldly pursue their God-given purpose from a place of freedom.
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In this series, we’ve been talking about all these deep hungers that we have been given by the Holy Spirit to help us nourish not just our natural bodies but our spiritual beings. We have to learn to continuously feed ourselves in these areas or we will live a hungry life.
We’ve talked about the hunger to be loved, to belong and to become. In this episode, we are going to talk about the hunger to bless other people. The hunger begins to leak from the inside out! We can’t do everything but we can do something and we can do something today to set a miracle into motion.
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In this week’s episode, we cover the 10 wins you need in your everyday life. Living for God should never be complicated and all wins matter, no matter how big or small. Consistent wins every day & progressive growth are the keys to living out your purpose on the planet.
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We’re jumping into episode three of our Nourish Series! We’ve been talking about how to experience a satisfied soul so that we don’t just live with hunger but we know how to fulfill that need and live satisfied.
This week we are talking about our hunger to BECOME. Once we start to understand our hunger to be loved and to belong, we are propelled forward to actually become something, to grow! What does it mean to become all we were meant to be? Let’s start to walk in the purpose of God and understand what it means to become who He created us to be.
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In today’s podcast, I get to have a chat with my great friend Bianca Olthoff.
She’s a like-minded bold woman, a wife, mother, preacher, author, and pastor. We reminisce a bit about how we met, connected and have stayed friends over the years.
She’s written a brand new book called “How to Have Your Life Not Suck: Become today who you want to be tomorrow.
In the book, Bianca unpacks lessons she’s learned from her own mistakes and heartache, this field guide will help you avoid unnecessary detours on the path to your best self. With her signature wit, engaging stories, and brilliant insights from a counselor friend, Bianca gives spot-on advice for adulting, career, relationships, and faith. Following the biblical story of Ruth and Naomi, Bianca's humorous and honest anecdotes will empower you to create a successful life and discover all you can be.
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This week we are going to look at another God-created need that allows us to connect with Him.
All throughout our lives, we have moments of belonging or not belonging. We all have a deep need and desire to belong. That hunger to belong is actually God-given! The question “Where do I belong and who do I belong to?” is a big deal! This question can haunt us if we listen to what the world is saying about what it means to belong. But this hunger also has core truths that God wants to nourish you with. First and foremost you were made to belong to your Creator.
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In this week’s episode, we are going to talk about some of the cravings and desire we all have in our lives and how our hunger can give us insight into what’s going on in our soul. We want to lean into the fact that we all have needs and that God created various ways to nourish those needs. But we have to be aware of them and be able to recognize them.
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All the information we hold onto is limited. Your brain can only hold onto so much. The best way to store memory is to put it into a habit such as automatic behavior. In this week’s episode we’ll be discussing how to automate the small stuff.
Decision fatigue means when you’re making decisions over and over to the point where you actually wear out your deliberate system. It’s important to automate basic things so you can use your brain energy on more important things.
Are there things or behaviors that you do every single day that you can automate?
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When we don’t follow through with the commitment we have made to ourselves and we continue to violate that part of us that says “I’m going to do this”, it actually creates less confidence in us and it really matters. In this week’s episode we’ll be discussing the power of pre-commitment.
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In this week’s episode we’ll be discussing two techniques that will help beat procrastination; Picture the Benefits and Tie the First Step to a Treat.
What is that one thing you don’t want to do? Link a reward to that one thing that will help you not only accomplish it but find yourself looking forward to doing when there is a reward/ treat attached to it.
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We all procrastinate. What we often do is jam the things we don’t want to do for tomorrow. We find ourselves putting things that are important to the side for the things that we want to do. In this episode we’ll be discussing how to beat procrastination.
Present bias means what’s happening in the present has more weight than what is happening in the future. Sometimes it’s hard to sacrifice for the now for the benefit of the later. It’s helpful to make healthy decisions by considering how you are going to feel about yourself in a year from now.
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Today Havilah is joined by special guest, Rachel Cruze. Research shows that our relationships, health, decision-making skills, kindness, and even sleep improve with gratitude. In this episode, they talk about Rachel’s new journal, The Contentment Journal, and how it was created to grow and change you in ways you can’t imagine.
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How do we give feedback without putting the other person’s brain into defense mode? Our brain often goes into fight, flight or freeze and the goal in all of this is to keep our brain in discovery mode for us to actually implement changes. When we say “yes, but” your brain tends to focus on the “but” part and believes that the person is standing opposed from you. In this week’s episode, we’ll be discussing how to give feedback that is brain friendly by using the “Yes And” technique.
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In this episode, Ben and Havilah discuss the topic of relationships and the challenges that come along with them. Real transformation begins when we start to see our differences as a strength, not a weakness.
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Your purpose is unique to you and is the force that causes you to go past obstacles. It says, I'm not giving up or running out. God is in the middle of this! When you discover how God created you and learn to celebrate your own ability to see life uniquely, you'll take hold of the driving force that empowers you past the obstacles in life!
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Purpose is a hot topic today, and it seems that everyone is trying to find out why they were put on the earth. An entire generation is asking the same question and actively trying to discover why they're on the earth. In this episode, you'll learn that your purpose is something you already carry within you, and that it just needs to be uncovered with God. Havilah explores three reasons behind the difficulty in finding your purpose, and casts vision for the steps to discover the purpose that is already residing inside of you. Once its acknowledged, developed, and refined; you will become a person of purpose!
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If you really want to grow and have a wholesome spiritual life, there are some things you’ll have to say no to because you know what’s good and what’s bad for you. In this episode we’ll be talking about self care. 1 Corinthians 10:23 (AMP)
“All things are lawful [that is, morally legitimate, permissible], but not all things are beneficial or advantageous. All things are lawful, but not all things are constructive [to character] and edifying [to spiritual life].”
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If we’re busy taking care of other people’s backpacks when they’re capable of doing it on our own, we won’t be able to be the spiritual person that we’re called to be. Each of us need to carry our own load. In this week’s episode we’ll discuss how to protect the areas that Christ holds us responsible for.
Galatians 6 2-5 NIV
2 Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. 3 If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. 4 Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, 5 for each one should carry their own load.
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Your life is too short and your calling is too great to stay offended. Pain can sometime’s feel offensive and shameful. The idea of forgiveness in the greek is the idea of letting it go. In this week’s episode we’ll be discussing the area of forgiveness.
Questions to ask yourself: What areas in your life do you need to forgive yourself for? Who do I need to forgive?
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The moment we begin to redefine our pain, it allows us to be mature. Pain is important for our development and allows us to know that we are in process. In this week’s episode we’ll be discussing the moment we begin to transform.
Every time you begin to experience pain, you are presented with a choice; you can either climb out of your pain or stay in the pit.
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In this episode I talk about one of the critical components to being a Christ follower and living a vibrant life is to overcome the things that you face daily. Let's break the power of pain in your life. We'll be discussing the areas of pits of pain.
Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. James 1:2-4 NIV
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Today I have a special guest with me. Not only is he my baby-maker and the love of my life but he is also my business partner and ministry partner. We were having a conversation in our kitchen, and I thought this would be something you could benefit from too.
We’ve been running Truth to Table full-time for two and a half years now, and we feel like we are no longer in survival mode. We now ask ourselves, how do we move forward? I’ve been struggling with knowing when certain thoughts are fear or wisdom. A lot of the hesitations I have are not grounded in wisdom but in fear of going without. It’s been hard for me to admit because I usually would not say I’m a fearful person but more of a risk-taker. But when I’m not doing well, I grow resistant towards situations and people due to fear. I’ve had to do some work internally to get rid of that child-like fear of being trapped in a painful situation.
In this podcast, I want to share with you how I work through these fears and constraints.
I hope this encourages you today and that you can learn from my story.
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Today I have a special guest and friend on the podcast with me, John Bevere. We will be talking about the wilderness season together and how God takes us through different seasons in our lives.
God allows us to go through the wilderness to develop character. God told David, he would be king, but then David had to go through the process, which is the wilderness. Joseph was given a dream but was forced to go the exact opposite direction of that dream to be ready for the promise. God wants to put us into a place of influence, but we need the character first. We don't always go through this season because we did something wrong but because we need it to go where He's called us to go.
Promise. Process. Promotion.
In the wilderness, it feels like God’s presence is far away from us and the promises He made us even further. But when you understand the purpose of the wilderness, you have the proper behavior to grow through it. If you don’t steward the wilderness properly or understand it, you will never understand what the promise holds.
It is so important that we have the right tools, wisdom, and encouragements in this season to endure it and grab hold of its purpose.
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In this podcast episode I want to talk about rejection, abandonment and building more confidence.
I grew up in a safe home. But just because we’re not raised around something doesn’t mean we’re not touched by it. My Dad’s story was a story of rejection, abandonment and a lack of confidence but when he found Christ, he started to go after those things and find healing. I was raised in a home of love and safety, but that generational thread that followed my Dad would love nothing more than to knock on my door. Instead of saying those were his issues, I realized that spirit of rejection and abandonment wants to follow my story as well.
The narrative of abandonment and rejection sounds so familiar in our thoughts that it doesn’t even sound surprising to us. But when we hear those negative narratives in our mind, we have a decision to make. We can go to self-pity, or we can stay soft and open to the people around us and realize God is divinely orchestrating everything in our life. In those moments we have to reject abandonment.
Thank you so much for tuning in today! Let's break up with the narratives in our mind that keep us from living fully free.
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In this episode, we continue on with part three of a live teaching from my recent study, Leap Into Love.
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In this episode, we continue on with part two of a live teaching from my recent study, Leap Into Love.
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In this episode, we dive into part one of a live teaching from my recent study, Leap Into Love. We explore the power of making a conscious, and intentional choice to embrace yourself as God’s most significant work.
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A couple of months ago I was having one of those days where I couldn’t get it together. Everything was irritating me, and I was having a hard day. At one point my youngest son was trying to get my attention. I asked him what he wanted, and he replied, he had forgotten how beautiful I was. It was a moment that took my breath away but also showed me a parallel of how God sees us. We’re so busy doing life and dream chasing that we forget what God thinks about us.
In this podcast episode, I want to talk to you a little bit about my new study “Leap into Love.” The reason I wrote this study was that there was a part in my journey where it wasn’t until I was able to accept myself in a profound way that I was able to become a vital voice.
This study is more than just dealing with self-rejection and finding inner healing. It’s about learning to live present in our everyday life and to accept ourselves for who we are. It is the secret to living full-heartedly.
This brand new Bible study starts on January 22nd and includes 4 LIVE teaching nights, plus 20 short daily videos where I’ll teach 6-8 minutes through the Leap into Love book. *You don’t need the book to join, but it’s a great resource to dive deeper.
I’d love for you to pass this along to a friend and join me for this special 4-week journey to Living Present to our Purpose on the Planet.
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I can’t wait to have you!
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In this episode, we continue talking about the topic of purpose. We need to begin to connect your natural talent, the thing you are actually good at, with the purpose of God. This might actually be the secret of what He has for you. What we do in life are assignments that come and go. Instead of getting lost in the assignment as an identity we need to see them as seasons that train us for what God has called us to do.
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In this episode, my friend Shawn Bolz joins me as we discuss the pursuit of God.
When we see what’s in God’s heart and we live in faith for that, we might still feel resistance in our lives but it gets thinner and thinner until we break through it. We must understand that it's very important that we seek God’s heart and practice believing His truth during times of struggle.
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If you don't steward the mundane, then you won't be prepared for the supernatural. It isn't always easy but we are all called to grow and refine the gifts we've been given. Routine is the foundation that allows us to stay diligent and become the person we are called to be.
In this podcast episode I want to talk to you a little bit about the topic of purpose.
I know that purpose is one of those buzz words that we hear all the time. Especially at church we hear “God has a purpose and a plan”. Those sound really great until you begin to wonder if your life is full of purpose and if you are living in Gods purpose for your life. These questions are really good questions and really important!
Today I want to share with you the idea of knowing our Creator in order to know what we were created for. We cannot know our full potential unless we know God.
I hope this message encourages you and propels you forward to live with purpose. You’ve got this!
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I want to talk to you about the power of parenting. I’m so excited to have my mom joining us today for this topic.
I wanted to take this time to encourage you in this holiday season, especially if you’re a mom or you’re a working woman or have a lot to navigate! Give yourself the grace to learn and be open during this time of the year. This podcast will hopefully help you keep your focus on the important things this holiday season.
Our kids can't take a backseat to the hustle of the season. If we don’t have a strategy, the season will take over. We will arrive in January and have forgotten to parent in December. This month is critical for parenting, but it can be challenging to navigate when it comes to how generous and how strict we should be. In the end, your kids want you and your time. How are you spending quality time with your children and investing in them this holiday season? It doesn’t have to be perfect, just one day at a time.
Thank you for joining us today! You can do this!
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I’m so excited to have my Dad, Francis Anfuso, join me for this podcast episode! For as long as I can remember, my Dad has been a communicator, and I grew up as a ministers kid.
Today, we talk a little bit about his story and how he got radically saved as an atheist. Jesus is in the business of saving people. We need to get around people who have radically come out of darkness into the light, and that’s why I’m so thankful for my Dad and his story.
Everything that we have is redeemable, and God wants to use every part of our story for his kingdom. Setbacks are more stepping stones that they are real setbacks. Life is not easy, and no one has it easy. We all need a Savior.
This is why my Dad and I are so passionate about communicating. About a year ago, I told my Dad that I wanted to raise up more communicators. And the reason wasn’t that I am the most educated and academic person around but because I knew that there are people out there who are like me, who have a heart to do something like me and don't know how to do it. God is a communicator, and he gives us this passion for communicating his heart because he wants to set people free.
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In this episode, I get to sit down with my good friend Lisa Bevere as we talk about the spiritual battle we all face. Lisa shares from her experience on the topic of facing challenges in her own life.
Sometimes we believe that because we have struggle and difficulty, it will only take us out. However, the struggle can be strengthening and preparation. Obstacles don't prevent us, they prepare us!
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In this podcast, I talk about the importance of communication and how everyone is called to communicate in some form or fashion.
I’ve often heard this statement: “I wish I had someone to walk alongside me to help me begin and grow in my journey to preaching and teaching.”
In fact, this is the exact reason I’ve created these Crash Courses to Communication. There are so many things you just may not know how to navigate - like where to even start or how to get there. I want to help shortcut this process with clarity so you can hit the target. Having a guide to teach you the basics while showing you things to avoid and watch out for, will save you so much wandering while causing you to grow, develop and learn faster and with specific clarity.
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Sometimes we give ourselves too much permission to sit on the couch of life and throw a pity party. Maybe you find that your deep conversations end up reciting past failures and disappointments? One of the greatest traps of doing HARD THINGS is the “Why Me?” trap. It’s a place where the enemy wants us to believe that God somehow actually gave us more than we could handle.
He wants us to believe that instead of God being a good Father to us, we are left to depend on ourselves. The enemy tries to convince us that God is not a present Papa but rather a forgetful Father. That He is someone who likes to give us more than we can handle, only to watch and judge us for our lack of ability to follow through and do them well. It’s a lie that we can easily buy into!
The enemy likes us to stay in our pit. He will try to get us to buy into any lie he can in order to keep us bound, never victorious, and always feeling defeated. The enemy knows that if he can get us to take these HARD THINGS as a personal assault from God, we will no longer believe that He is a good God but a lying and deceitful God, who likes to punish His people. If we believe this lie, we will stay in the pit and our inner lives become dark and cold without hope.
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In today's podcast, I share 5 tips for preaching with more power and effectiveness. Whether you're just starting out or have years of experience, I want to help you grow your preaching skills, expand your voice, develop your passion and influence the world around you.
It’s been said, "Preaching is not that hard. All you have to do is open a vein and bleed out." Sounds simple? Hardly! But true, none the less.
Here are my 5 keys to communication:
- Make It Memorable
- Get Them Laughing
- Be Transparent
- Use Emotion
- Keep It Simple
We might not all be preaching on a platform but it's important to remember that we have all been created to communicate God's truth through our lives, no matter how small or large our influence. I hope these tips encourage you and I'll be sharing more on this topic in the coming weeks!
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On this episode, Bill Johnson joins us in a fascinating discussion about life, faith and the supernatural.
The power belongs to the believer to decide what we have in our world. We underestimate the power of permitting the enemy to steal and destroy. Havilah and Bill talk about how we often do not understand the struggles but faith is proven faith when the mystery remains.
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On this week's podcast, we learn about the art of saying yes and no. If we say yes to everything, we aren’t saying “yes” to the things that matter most. Havilah outlines how to use positive “no’s” in our Intentional Boundaries series.
A defense mode is when we sense a threat coming. Our brain automatically puts into motion into the 3 F’s category – Fight – Flight – Freeze
A discovery mode is when our focus is to open up and to learn. It allows our mind to stay open to new possibilities, concepts and belief systems. The key is to stay in discovery mode!
It’s important how we communicate our “no’s”. When we put other people in defense mode by our words, it actually doesn’t allow them to see our positive no. We want them to feel appreciated, valued and to keep them in discovery mode.
Book: How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb
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In this podcast episode, I talk to my friend Rebekah Lyons about what it looks like to have a spirit of power, love and a sound mind. God is telling us that everything we have experienced in the past, whether that is depression, anxiety etc. is equipping is for what we were destined for.
The measure of trial you have endured is the measure of hope you will offer the world. We would not have empathy to minister or authority of His power if we don’t experience it ourselves. The message of freedom comes from knowing what it feels like to be in bondage. In the midst of the struggle, we can feel so lost but God wants us to watch what He can do through the struggle.
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Today on the podcast I want to talk to you about relationships, answers, and ghosting. I want to especially look at some of the dilemmas we face with romantic relationships. We can get frustrated with the reality that not responding is actually responding. No answer is an answer. Ouch!
The Bible says “Hope deferred makes the heart sick” (Proverbs 13:12) which means when we put our hope in something that will change, oftentimes it can make our heart grow sick because we are living in two realities. We are living in the hope but also in reality. Instead, we have to realize that truth is our friend and we have to believe God will lead us into truth even when it doesn’t look the way we imagined it would.
I hope this podcast encourages you today! Don’t let fear and anxiety be the driving force in your life! Keep your heart pure and pull back if you need to. Thank you for listening! I hope you join me next time!
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We reap what we sow and God loves to give great rewards. In this podcast episode, I talk about how fall is a season of promise, great harvest and stewardship. Fall is all about reaping what we’ve sown, it’s a season of promise. The physical evidence of our hard work from previous seasons materializes. It’s time to store up and give away. Everything we’ve hoped for is coming to pass and we begin to see it. It’s time to celebrate and it’s time for thanksgiving.
“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Galatians 6:9 NIV.
I hope this encourages you today! Don’t worry, God will be faithful to you. He’s more committed to your success than you are.
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In this podcast episode, I want to share with you how we created our family values. I want to give you some tools that are working for us. This is not something I want you to idolize, it’s not a formula and it takes me a lot of effort to think about these things.
Our family values: 1. Jesus is the center of our family. 2. Our family is a team, everyone counts. 3. We gather our family and friends around the table. 4. We are givers. We exist to give love and serve. 5. We value creating over consuming. 6. We steward our time, schedule and responsibilities. 7. We honor God by living healthy. 8. We live within our means and save for the future. 9. We value experiencing the world together and making lasting memories. 10. We live grateful lives by expressing thanks.
I hope this helps you today! Keep going, you can even start today! Get your vision clear and spell it out. Figure out what works for you and do it! Thank you for giving me a few minutes of your day, I always appreciate it.
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In this podcast episode, I am going to talk about setting healthy boundaries.
Learning about healthy boundaries in my life set my world on fire in the best way possible. One of the biggest questions I get is “How do you do all that you do?” and my answer to that is “I don’t!”. But I do have very clear boundaries that allow me space to be me in a really crazy life.
It’s no ones responsibility to know what they’re taking from you. You are the only one who knows whose taking from you and you need to be unashamed in your ability to say yes and no to fight for the things others will never know about.
We can put a lot of blame on others for us being exhausted, overwhelmed and conflicted. Often we can expect others to put limits on us in order for us to say no. At the end of the day it’s no one else’s responsibility, we need to show up as adults and own our day and our responsibilities.
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This summer has been one of the hardest summers for us as a family and as a community. In this podcast episode, I want to give you an update and a rundown of all the events that took place this summer.
Often we can be distracted by what we assume is the “holy” thing to do that we miss what God is telling us to do personally. The gospel looks different on everybody. We need to do what he has called us to do instead of comparing ourselves to one another. If we all run to the same place other areas will be lacking. After all the events that took place this summer, I felt a Spirit if discouragement on myself because it wasn’t just “a bad day”.
Sometimes we make excuses for not being ourselves when we actually need to legitimize that we’re not doing well and we need help. And what I’ve learned over the years is that in those moments I need to take a step back and look at what’s happening. Where did I get stuck emotionally, mentally, spiritually or physically? I learned to give myself empathy for my current situation without living with a victim mentality. This means going back to the basics.
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In this episode, I talk about how shame is the result of sin. We can’t live on this earth without bumping into shame. Going our own way is called sin and sin ultimately leads to shame. The shame we feel can leave us feeling helpless and cause us to hide; condemning and discounting ourselves. But not all shame is bad! Why? Because shame can lead us back to God! It is an invitation and opportunity to reconnect with Him and to reach out to our Savior.
The enemy wants to put your shame on display and then he wants to keep you there. The Father does the complete opposite; He covers you and then calls you back into the light and into His arms. When shame is experienced, we do not need to stay there and hide. Jesus’ sacrifice gave us the incredible gift of repentance. If we allow our shame to lead to lead us to repent, it can lead us back to Him. So come out of hiding and reconnect with Him.
In this episode, I want to talk to you about your most productive moments, the hours in your day that you use to build your life on purpose, with clarity and passion. These are your tiger hours. They are those two - three hours a day that are your perfect work hours, where you get so much done! I know what it's like to have a busy life and I also know that I am not the only one. So let us steward those hours well, in order to be as productive as possible. That includes setting boundaries, prioritizing our time well and guarding those special hours.
When are your tiger hours? Can you set them aside to tackle those things that build and grow you? You'll be amazed how far you can go by simply investing a small amount of time each day! Thanks for tuning in!
Book recommendation: Manage Your Day-to-Day: Build Your Routine, Find Your Focus, and Sharpen Your Creative Mind By Jocelyn K. Glei https://www.amazon.com/Manage-Your-Day-Day-Creative/dp/1477800670
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In this episode, I talk about how we can navigate conflict well. Conflict is normal and sometimes we think without conflict we are peaceful people. It’s important to realize that we can’t resolve everything but we do have a part to play. Today I want to share some things with you that I use almost on a daily basis to resolve conflict and live through conflict.
- You are fully responsible for yourself.
- Use empathy and put yourself in someone else’s shoes for a minute.
- Own up with what you have and ask yourself if you should have a conversation about it. What can you do without the other person participating?
- Practice saying: “I am so sorry, will you please forgive me?”
- Let it go and keep no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5).
- Come up with a plan and ask yourself the right questions.
I hope this helps you today. Always ask the Lord to guide you. Let go of the things He is asking you to let go of and fight for the things He is asking you to fight for.
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” -James 1:19 (NIV)
In this episode, I talk about how we grow and develop our lives especially when we find we are struggling and it feels like we are walking on water.
What you are feeling today may not be directly linked to what you invested in today, prayed today or developed today. Everything is because of yesterday. The Bible is very clear that we will reap what we’ve sown, however, what we don’t often realize is that our harvest is directly linked to what we’ve sown long ago.
Where are we sowing today in order to reap next year?
How are you stewarding what God has given you so that you can double it by next year? What do you want to reap in 2019? It’s important to take ownership of the seeds we’ve been given to sow and steward them well because He wants to entrust more to us.
Don’t be discouraged by the doing, step out in confidence and keep going because you are going to reap a great harvest in the future.
We are back for part 3 of the Conversations on Motherhood series! In this podcast, my mother and I have a conversation about the joys and challenges that come with parenting children. We cover topics like fun, the importance of intentionality and taking advantage of every opportunity to sow into our children. My prayer is that this podcast will leave you empowered and ready to sow into the next generation of world changers!
We continue in our series on Motherhood with a special guest and great friend of mine, Lisa Bevere. I blitz Lisa with a handful of questions on what motherhood was like for her and we'll talk about the good, bad and ugly seasons of life as a mom.
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In this podcast, I start a new series of conversations on motherhood with a wonderful friend of mine Andi Andrew. We chat about the real-life joys and challenges of motherhood and more. This is the first of a few conversations I'll be hosting on this very relevant and fun topic.
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We are His creation. If we constantly hate what we see every time we look in the mirror, how can we trust that God has a great plan for our lives? The reality is that the picture we see in the mirror is His greatest work. We are His creation.
How He created us, whether we like it or not, was part of His plan and there is an acceptance we have to come to. The message of Jesus has always been one saying we are accepted, made perfect, and loved beyond comprehension. Ground yourself in this reality and self-rejection will begin to lose its power.
In this podcast we're continuing with our Growth series. Tune in as we talk all about "development" as a stage of growth.
If we miss the season, we will miss the moment. If we don’t know what season we are in and what stage of development we are in, we can often times miss the moment entirely.
In order to develop our spiritual life, we need to know what season are in. We need to acknowledge that the season you were in may not be the same season you are in today.
“There is a season (a time appointed) for everything and a time for every delight and event or purpose under heaven” Ecclesiastes 3:1 (MSG)
You must embrace the season you’re in because the moment you embrace the space it becomes easier.
“Let us not grow weary or become discouraged in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap, if we do not give in.” Galatians 6:9
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Can a Christian have a meltdown? We often times know that a crash or meltdown is coming but we don’t know what to do. In this week’s class, we’re going to talk about "environment."
Who are you waiting for to participate for you to live an abundant life? We are called to live an abundant life without anyone else participating. How do you get your power back?
Galatians 6:5 (MSG) Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life.
The environment in which you are growing life is your responsibility. God is the gardener, he is the center of our life!
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In this podcast, we'll be starting a new series on Growth: Subtle Changes for Radical Growth. This series will actually give you a sneak peek into our Truth to Table membership experience.
Part 1: All growth starts at baseline. It’s often the incremental growth that causes us to become who we want to be and who we are called to be. In this week’s class, we’ll be discussing subtle shifts for radical change.
“I Should” is based in shame and it doesn’t allow us to be in the process. It requires us to be perfect and causes discouragement. God does not hold us to the “I Should’s”, he is the ‘I Am” and “I will”. He operates in timing and seasons.
Activation: We encourage you to soak in God’s love by listening to “Reckless Love” by Cory Asbury here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6xx0d3R2LoU
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In this episode Havilah has a conversation with Kris Vallotton about about spiritual battle and warfare. There are two kinds of people in the world, those who are sensitive to warfare and those who are victims of it. Fear is faith in the wrong god and when you believe it you empower it. Havilah and Kris talk about living intentionally and partnering with the truth that will cause us to rise in strength.
*This interview was recorded earlier in January 2018 as part of the Online Empowerment Summit
- Kris Vallotton is the Senior Associate Leader of Bethel Church in Redding, California and co-founder of Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry (BSSM). Kris travels internationally training and equipping people to successfully fulfill their divine purpose. He’s a bestselling author, having written more than a dozen books and training manuals to help prepare believers for life in the kingdom. He has a diverse background in business, counseling, consulting, pastoring and teaching, which gives him unique leadership insights and perspectives. Kris has a passion to use his experience and his prophetic gift to assist world leaders in achieving their goals and accomplishing their mission.
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In part two of this podcast Havilah continues her conversation with Christine Caine of A21 Campain and Propel Women about our spiritual battles. The fight to bring heaven on earth is real and the day we forget we are in a fight is when disappointment and discouragement will take us out. We often forget we are in a spiritual battle. If we don't know how to war spiritually, we will not succeed. Havilah and Christine share their hearts on how to navigate the unexpected well and fight to build eternity now.
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In this episode Havilah talks with Christine Caine of A21 Campain and Propel Women about our spiritual battles. It's a fight to bring heaven on earth and the day we forget we are in a fight is when disappointment and discouragement will take us out. We often forget we are in a spiritual battle. If we don't know how to war spiritually, we will not succeed. Havilah and Christine share their hearts on how to navigate the unexpected well and fight to build eternity now.
To learn more about Christine Caine and find all of her resources visit: christinecaine.com A21.org propelwomen.com
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Today I have some exciting news to share with you! Every January over at Truth to Table we take thousands of you through a Bible study. We have had over 100 nations tune in and it quickly became an unintentional God-moment. Growing up, I often struggled and had to overcome many mountains. My goal for this book is to be your tour guide through the mountains and spiritual struggles you face. We will uncomplicate your spiritual battle by answering questions like, what it looks like to be empowered and how to know exactly what you are doing. We all struggle, so what are we missing?
I invite you to come and sit at my kitchen table this January and spend some quality time receiving down-to-earth tools that will help you overcome your daily struggles. It is completely FREE but I do recommend you pick up a book for an even better experience.
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Have you ever been in a spiritual situation that has left you more confused than empowered?
In this Podcast episode, I share a story of the first time I witnessed something spiritual happen. I talk about how it left me confused and terrified. It wasn’t until I started to read and study the idea of spiritual battles that I was reminded of this moment. Many of us have experienced things like this happen, and people have shut it down.
Our spiritual battle was never meant to be fear-driven and something we can’t talk about. We were born into battle. We must understand that we can't be ignorant of the enemy's schemes (2 Corinthians 2:11).
When we decide to live for Christ, we are stronger than any struggle we will ever face. Does this mean we will never face any struggles? No, because we still live in a fallen world. But why does He allow all these struggles? God in his mercy does not interrupt our free-will because controlling love is not real love. No one is immune to the struggle, but our firm foundation in our faith is that we have a living hope in the midst of a hopeless world. We are stronger than the struggle because we have Christ living within us.
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Sometimes in life things actually get harder before they get easier. It doesn't always mean you're going in the wrong direction when things feel off. Radical change happens sometimes as our situation gets worse. The beautiful lesson in all of this is that God always has a redemptive plan in mind. He already has a beautiful future set out for us, we might just have to wait a little longer than we might have thought.
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In this Podcast episode Havilah shares some thoughts on how to navigate your December. The more you have going on, the more critical it is to have a strategy. There is a downside of December and the feelings it provides. A lot of us have expectations that come with Christmas-time, but the reality is completely different.
Havilah gives you 5 keys to a peaceful December
Admit you have expectations. If you do not admit it, you will feel more and more disappointed when reality hits you. This is called maturity. What are you expecting and what are your limitations? What is most important to you? What feeling do you want to have during this season? Sometimes these are two different things. Schedule things to facilitate your feelings. What can you do to connect with your people, God and yourself? Set expectations for others. You need to get in a place of throwing things, not always catching. People have expectations, but if you know you can’t do it all, you have to say no. Consider January. You cannot ignore January in December because it will slap you in the face when it comes. But if you consider it now, you will love it when it comes. Think about the feeling you want when the new year kicks in. Set it up right now, so you are not left with surprises and disappointment.
We hope this helps you today and that your December will be peaceful.
- This episode was recorded during a Facebook Live broadcast. In this podcast, Havilah and her husband Ben discuss the topics of marriage and raising boys.
They talk about the different dynamics of men and women and the learning process of not trying to change each other or expect them to act like the opposite sex but to validate and value how God designed both men and women to function differently.
They share some personal experiences from their own lives about communication, emotions and expectations of raising boys and how boys operate and the shared responsibility of raising boys into men.
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Today on the podcast I talk about the hard work that comes with change.
It’s fall and the right season for change, shift and new beginnings. I am still in the thick of transition as you might know if you have been following this podcast.
In this episode I talk about how we often wish that what God asks us to do is magically easy and doesn’t require any effort. But the truth is, sometimes doing life is just hard and not fun. With change comes hard work, adjustment and a different way of thinking, a process.
The acknowledgment of it being hard does not make us weak but normal and human. It’s not a definition of our purpose but a reality.
I love Psalm 90:17 in the Passion Translation, it says “O Lord, our God, let your sweet beauty rest upon us and give us favor. Come work with us, and then our works will endure. And give us success in all we do!”
We want favor not just our own effort. We want to come and have God’s sweet beauty resting upon us. I know this is going to be work and it’s not going to be an easy road. So my prayer has been “God, come work with me. Let my work endure with you. I need favor.”
So today, wherever you are, the truth is, if you feel like it’s work, sometimes that’s exactly what it is. The fact that it’s difficult is not a sign that you’re going in the wrong direction but that you are human, moving and that life is going to ebb and flow. God is with you, and he will lead you. You are allowed to endure. The harvest is so much sweeter when you’ve had sweat running down your face. I hope this encourages you today!
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In this episode, I share about our final day to enroll in the Table Membership. It's now or never guys! We are closing membership tonight at 11:59 pm PST.
Also, I share about a mistake I made recently and offer an apology if you experienced this...it's important to me to make things right so tune in.
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In this episode, I share about something AMAZING we've been working on over at Truth to Table.
Sharing from my own personal story and journey, I talk about how Truth to Table began and what we have in the works that we're about to release.
To give you a sneak peek, we developed a Spiritual Pathway Assessment you can take in just a few minutes, that will help you discover what you need in your life currently to grow the spiritual life you want.
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Today on the podcast Havilah is coming to you from Brazil!
We’re staying on the topic of transition as many of you have been responding to these podcasts saying that they have helped you through your transition.
Hebrews 11:1 says “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, and the evidence of things not seen.”
Without faith, it is impossible to please God. It is impossible to please God by living a life worthy of the calling you have received (Ephesians 4:1) without living in faith. Living with the assurance of the things we have not yet seen is truly pleasing to God.
You know that this is what you’re supposed to do, and you’ve gone far enough that you can’t go back but if we don’t have the right balance, the right effort and the right momentum we won’t make it, we will fall over.
Many of us are right in the middle. We’re not going back; we’re not in the full calling and momentum of what the next season holds but being in that spot is FAITH.
Faith is that space of what we once knew and what we know to be true. It feels like pausing, waiting and not knowing where we’re heading.
That’s normal, so don’t change your motivation and direction. Go forward! Faith is not a feeling; it is an assurance. Without the assurance that the next season is coming, you cannot please God.
The more we live in faith, the more hope we will have for the future.
If you’re in transition today, know that faith is that weird pause, that in between. But don’t let your brain wander, don’t let your emotions dominate because you can’t enjoy the journey that way. Set your mind on God and let the Word of God surround you. You will get there, just keep going forward.
Today on the podcast, Havilah and Ben continue talking about transitions.
You can’t force transition, and if you make something happen while depending more on your strength than on Gods, you will always wonder if you made it happen or if God did.
He cannot lead us if we are not walking. Sometimes it’s trying to see if the door will open and we can walk through it rather than waiting around. God will be gracious enough to shut the door if it’s not the right way. Our motives must be open to hearing what God is saying. We shouldn’t try and make things happen ourselves, but we also shouldn’t be fearful of making a mess.
Life comes in assignments. We might have big dreams or are in pursuit of figuring that dream out but whatever we are doing right now is our assignment. It’s not our identity, and we don’t become more valuable by entering into the next season. Being obedient to our next assignments helps us connect the things we don’t understand.
Try to keep the process clean, keep the transition clean. And what this means is starting AND finishing well. How you left a season can follow you more than the storyline of you actually BEING IN the season.
Whatever season you are in, think about how you can defuse any fire storm that could be following you. Instead of creating negative story lines, honor the season when leaving it as much as when you’re in it.
In this podcast, I share about some big changes happening in our lives.
About a year ago, God began to speak to me while my life was in full-throttle. My husband and I had four boys and were running two organizations. I was writing, traveling, and speaking, and I had a whole team of people helping me make it all happen. The Holy Spirit challenged me to back things down a little and add space in my life. He challenged me to get back to the original “yes” I felt in my heart when I first signed up to serve Him.
I can’t wait to share more on this topic with you in future podcasts or blog posts. Transition is all a part of God’s master plan to move you forward and help you walk in your true calling.
Today Havilah talks about transition, about knowing when it’s time for change.
Some people like to jump the gun when it comes to transition and other people sit in transition until someone kicks them out the door.
This podcast will give you some ideas of when to know it’s time for transition.
It’s interesting because the moment one jumps into transition questions rise up about whether it was a mistake and this is completely normal.
You can be doing all the right things and be spiritually growing in the Lord, but then suddenly you can feel fear. It’s important to know not to buy into fear.
The Bible says that it is impossible to please God without faith (Hebrews 11:6) which means it is impossible to live a life of pleasing God without living in an extra reality of the natural.
Just because you feel fear doesn’t mean you are going in the wrong direction. Fear can mean you are going in the right direction.
If you want to follow the calling and purpose that’s on your life, you’re going to have to figure out a strategy for fear. That doesn’t necessarily mean trying to get away from fear but living through fear and not letting it dominate any decisions.
Sometimes the struggle isn’t that we don’t want to do it but that we don’t want it to cost us. But you are not able to go where you are called to go unless you are willing to pay the price.
Here are four things people experience during transition:
Feeling fear, which is normal. We must walk through it! Having to say “No” in order to say “Yes”. That’s the trade; the trade-off is where it happens. Not wanting to go through with it. Stay in the process! Walking from day to day. When in transition giving yourself permission to be in the day to day is so important.
Don’t hang out waiting for God to make the decisions for you; God is not going to give you a prophetic word if it’s going to keep you powerless.
Give something God can bless! He can’t bless transition if you’re not going to make it!
In this episode, I talk about a pattern I use in my life consistently. It’s for those seasons when I’m trying to hear from God for something.
I don't know about you, but there are seasons where I'm just waiting on God to answer me.
There are things in life that you have to let happen. Often we have to give things time to work themselves out. Sometimes things come through time.
I want to encourage you with Psalms 25:5: “Lead me in Your truth and teach me, for You are the God of my salvation; For you, I wait all the day long.”
I love that thought that He is leading us into truth, He’s teaching us, He’s the God who will save us, but sometimes we will have to wait all the day long! God wants you to realize that this is part of the process and we can’t rush the hand and the voice of God; we can only be available for it when it comes.
So whatever season you are in, have you given it some time? Have you sat with it? Are you continuing with your daily life? And are you available when God wants to give it to you?
For me, God will often speak to me in those moments where I’m sitting still, coming out of rest. The Holy Spirit will whisper to my heart and reveal His thoughts to me. It allows me to be dependant on Him.
Don’t keep looking at the problem because I believe if you want God’s will you will get God’s will! It just may take some time.
The Holy Spirit reminded me to not worry about tomorrow’s problems. You can't solve them today. Every time I think about something that worries me, it’s usually about things that are happening tomorrow. They’re happening in the future. Matthew 6:34 says “Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes.
In this episode I share my three best techniques for worry:
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Turn your thoughts into prayers. Thank Him, that He is already working on your tomorrow. "Don’t fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns." Philippians 4:6
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Ask yourself what the worst thing is that could happen. Think about what the enemy has been holding over your head. And then define what success means to you. Perfection is not success. Success is being obedient to Christ.
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Use the word “I don’t” instead of “I can’t”. This combination of words is way more powerful. What we say with our mouth our mind takes as fact, whether we believe it or not. So, what are the “I don’ts in your life?
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Did you know that how you begin something is important, but how you end something is just as important?
Being faithful to God doesn’t mean staying in one place. It’s understanding that we have assignments and that our identity isn’t based on those assignments. Our assignments change, but our identity doesn’t.
Galatians 6:9 says “And let us not grow weary in well-doing”. The Bible wouldn’t say that, if we didn’t have the tendency to grow weary, it’s a human condition.
What assignment are you looking at today? Are you honoring and loving that? Everything you are doing today is preparation for tomorrow.
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In this episode, I talk about one of the keys I’ve discovered to serving a church community. This past month has been full with traveling, and I wanted to share one of the greatest secrets of being on the road and being in new environments. I’ve been on the road for 20 years now, and I’ve realized that people often assume that they’re coming into a new community to change things, but I don’t go that direction. Here are a few keys to staying focused when entering into new places.
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Today on the podcast I have a special guest to share with you; my friend, Josh Cearbaugh. We have built a friendship over the past four years and have seen each other’s families grow and thrive in many ways.
Josh is a Life Consultant who leads people through internal transformation; connecting people to their heart, identifying areas where they find themselves stuck, and creating practical strategies to transition us to a place of thriving.
Oftentimes, the places where we get stuck are the very places God wants to give us the most freedom so we can help others who are stuck in the same environment.
Josh shares how he walked through a season where he didn’t give his emotions a place in his life; they had no value and were pushed aside. During this time, he didn’t know how to care for himself emotionally or process through pain; it resulted in an emotional and physical breakdown that manifested through a lack of safe environments.
He decided that he could either stay in that place or climb out of the pit. He chose to fight for his emotional health and process through emotions and deep places of pain. Walking through his past experiences, he began to dismantle areas of pain and bring healing. It began a passion for seeing others walk in freedom; helping to identify the root cause of their lack and create steps to wholeness. Thus began his consulting practice.
Josh has also created an invaluable resource called the Jumpstart Your Life eCourse; pulling from years of developing the most effective tools and philosophies to see tangible change in the people he has worked with in his practice. He has invited each of you to take a free quiz that walks you through 26 easy questions on emotional well-being. You will also receive an exclusive discount for 50% off the eCourse enrollment!
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I couldn’t recommend this course more! In order to get our hearts to a healthy place; we need to be willing to respect our hearts, to validate our emotions and, give ourselves a voice. Having the tools in our lives that equip us to walk through these seasons is vital to our well-being.
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In this episode, I tackle a question I hear a lot. In fact, it may be one of the most important questions we ask on our journey with the Lord. The question is this; how can I grow in hearing God’s voice for my life? For my family? For my future?
My passion is to show you how to hear God’s voice and grow in your gifting. In my last podcast episode, I spoke about the four overarching truth’s for discerning God’s voice. If you didn’t get a chance to tune in, I encourage you to go back and listen; you can find that podcast below:
http://havilahcunnington.com/podcasts/49-learning-to-hear-gods-voice-in-your-everyday-life-pt-1/
As we continue on this journey of learning to hear God’s voice; there are a few things we need to understand:
- We each hear God’s voice distinctly and uniquely.
- We are called to steward the gift of hearing His voice.
- God doesn’t hide from us; He is always speaking (Proverbs 3:6).
- Hearing His voice is the fruit of relationship.
I relate discerning the voice of God through what I like to call, filters. While there are countless ways in which the Lord communicates with us, how we experience His voice can be summarized in four primary prophetic personalities; hearers, feelers, seers, and knowers.
If you’d like to join over 17,000 people who have uncovered the unique way they hear God’s voice, follow the link below to take the FREE prophetic personality quiz:
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In this podcast, I unpack each of the four overarching truths to hearing God’s voice so you can tune into Heaven’s design for your life! I also mention a FREE quiz you can take to better discover your own unique way of hearing God's voice.
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To be honest, I found it shocking to discover that most men and women who follow Christ wholeheartedly are unsure that they are hearing God’s voice on a daily basis.
This reality took me on a journey of translating the way we each uniquely hear the Lord so I could teach others. It shouldn’t be confusing or something we wonder about; we CAN be clear when it comes to recognizing His voice.
- We were all created to hear God’s voice, but we all hear differently.
- We need to learn the filter by which we hear His voice.
- We need to have permission to hear Him differently than other people.
- We need to practice hearing His voice.
Many times we can feel less than, lost, or confused because we struggle to hear His voice in our lives. But, just because you need to work at something, doesn’t mean you weren’t created for it.
You were created to hear His voice. Don’t give up; keep digging in.
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In this episode, I’m talking about my recent trip to Albuquerque, NM! I had the wonderful privilege of speaking at Wonder, a Women’s Conference. I also share about a moment during the past month where I had to walk through the process of ‘Stopping the Swirl,' a habit I’ve created to pause and bring self-awareness to feelings of uneasiness. Are you swirling? Do you have a lot going on in your life? Join me today as I share how important it is to listen to our inner-man, how we can examine and discern which of the three reasons are causing these feelings and how to get our peace back.
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In this episode, I talk about a certain principle in life that helps guarantee results in our lives. When have the right processes set up in our lives, we'll be more likely to see the outcomes we want. If we give ourselves to the small things, then the great things will happen.
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In this podcast, I talk about making mid-course corrections in life and pushing past the guilt. When we take into consideration who we're called to be and we keep our big picture in mind, it makes the necessary adjustments in life easier to make and have confidence. When we revisit why we're saying yes and no to things, it helps us stay safe and healthier in life.
In this special edition Soul Food podcast, I interview Heather Lindsey and we talk about Soul Food, my newest Bible study. Heather and I discuss what has helped her to navigate her internal world in midst of ministry, business and family, and how she stays connected to God in her everyday life.
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About Heather:
HEATHER LINDSEY is the wife to Cornelius Lindsey, author, first lady, speaker and mother of one. She founded Pinky Promise, an organization that promotes abstinence in singleness and submission in marriage. She relentlessly teaches women that their value and worth comes from Christ and nothing else. Founder, Heather challenges teens, young adults and women to rise above cultural pressures and to stay determined to live for Christ regardless of their circumstances. Facing consequences women in previous generations couldn't imagine, ladies receive straight talk from Heather on how to say no in a yes society. Today, Heather and her husband Cornelius live in Atlanta, GA where they have established a church and a evangelistic ministry called The Gathering Oasis.
Find Heather Lindsey here:
Website: www.heatherllindsey.com/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/MrsHeatherLindsey Instagram: www.instagram.com/heatherllove/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/HeatherLLove
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In this special edition podcast, I interview Lisa Bevere and we talk about Soul Food, my newest Bible study. Lisa and I discuss what has helped her to navigate her internal world and how she stay connected to God in her everyday life.
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In this podcast I share a bit of my personal story and journey of serving the local church, preaching, developing and reaching the world through the internet. When we respond and obey the Lord in faithfulness, He always shows up in greater ways than we would have thought possible.
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In this podcast episode, I talk about what has helped me be more productive as a busy wife, mom and woman in ministry. I've been incredibly interested in psychology, how the brain works, and how habits are formed. I share a few things I've been learning from this, as well as some related biblical insights.
In this podcast episode we share part 2 of a recent message I preached. In this message I highlight that we are all in a battle whether we want to admit it or not. We can either train and be prepared, or be caught off guard and defeated.
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In this podcast episode we share a portion of a recent message I preached. In part 1, I highlight that we are all in a battle whether we want to admit it or not. We can either train and be prepared, or be caught off guard and defeated.
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This podcast was recorded during a live broadcast on Facebook where I share a few very practical steps to hearing God's voice. If you would like to learn more about hearing God's voice in your own life, I'm releasing a brand new e-course starting Tuesday, September 13th on Bethel.TV.
You can sign up anytime and join the 8-week journey to growing in hearing God's voice for yourself and your life. It's a go at your own pace course complete with 8 teachings, encouragement and activation videos, as well as a complete workbook too.
We were all created to hear His voice clearly today!
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In this episode I talk about some of the unique challenges of traveling with toddlers. Even if you don't have toddlers, you'll still learn some great tips.
In this episode I talk about the challenges of my marriage early on and how myself and my husband have had to put in the work and "learn" the process and journey of being married.
In this episode, I talk about the perfect timing of God in our lives and how He has a big picture perspective of our lives.
In this episode I talk about the Olympics, working hard, overcoming and thriving, because the best is yet to come.
In this episode we celebrate the 1-year anniversary of launching the podcast. I have a special guest on this podcast episode and we take a look back at the year. We also have some fun things to giveaway!
In this podcast we share part 2 of a message I preached called "Strengthening Your Voice."
In this podcast we share part 1 from a message I preached called "Strengthening Your Voice"
In this episode, I talk about the invitation of God and allowing Him to interrupt us in our everyday life. When we make ourselves available to God, He'll come and meet us.
In this podcast I talk about why it's been so long since my last podcast, share a few updates, and give some quick tips on recalibrating your life.
In this episode, I discuss the sometimes forgotten topic of how to appropriately respond and move forward after big moments in our lives.
In this episode I talk about a few areas that help me make decisions whether it's in work, family or various life decisions. I talk the different types of people related to decision making, and I share my #1 key to making great decisions.
***This podcast episode was recorded from a live Periscope broadcast.
In this podcast episode I share 5 potential hangups we can face when trying new things. In order to grow and move forward we must press through the negative feelings of facing new things.
In this episode we listen in on one of my Periscope broadcasts where I talk about a word that we often use that can be dangerous. Check out this podcast to see if you're using this word, and how it may be affecting your relationships and interactions with people.
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In this podcast I share practical tips from my life to help you ease the pressure of life's crazy moments when you feel out of control. We must intentionally and proactively respond, rather than just react in those moments.
Check out our new online platform for video based learning and connection. www.truthtotable.com - We've launched this new site with tons of content including all of my Bible study video series. Other soon-to-be-available content such as full-length teaching messages, upcoming courses, new video series on leadership, ministry, practical life lessons, and so much more will be released throughout the coming months. You can enjoy our featured FREE 20-day Bible study this month: "Eat Pray Hustle - Dream Chasing God's Way."
In this episode, I talk about a few things I'm excited about to start 2016. You'll hear a little bit about my latest book and online Bible study Eat Pray Hustle - Dream Chasing God's way. I also share for a few minutes on the topic of dream chasing and how we were created by God to dream and why it's important.
In this episode I share how I struggled with self-doubt as a young girl because of learning disabilities. I share important keys to dealing with and overcoming self-doubt through my own 20 year struggle in this area.
In this episode I talk about how the holiday season can bring up a lot of things in our hearts. Some good and some no so good. I'll also talk about some keys to real biblical forgiveness and how to know that you are doing your part to forgive or ask for forgiveness. You'll also learn 3 steps to practice real forgiveness that you can do today!
In this episode I share for a bit on the importance of being people of resilience. We must not get stuck in our problems but look for the plan C to move forward in life.
In this podcast episode we share a short clip of a teaching where I talk about how we at times will trust our feelings to such a point that they rule us. I also highlight the necessity for steadiness and obedience in our walk with God and that most of what God asks us to do may not "feel spiritual."
In this episode you'll hear a short teaching of a previous message I spoke where I talk about the process of the promise you've received from the Lord. God is the initiator of everything in your life whether it's good, has eternal value, or is just the right thing for you. He who began a good work in you, will be faithful to you and will complete the work He started.
In this episode I share a short message on being faithful with what you have to respond in 100% obedience to God. We must surrender and align our will to God's will because His will promises complete fulfillment and effectiveness.
In this episode, I share a short portion of a message I preached recently called Living A Refreshed Life. There are key principles involved when it comes to living a refreshed life and in this message you'll hear some of these from Luke 15 and the parable of the lost son.
*Special Podcast! In this episode we take a break from our regular format and you'll hear a short segment of a recent teaching from my travels. I pray you receive all that God has for you and are encouraged by this podcast!
In this episode I highlight 2 Peter 1:5. "For this very reason make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness knowledge; and to knowledge self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love." What if instead of having a life crisis, trying to get everything perfect or line everything perfectly, up we focus on adding something to our lives (add to our faith) everyday, having it all add up to be the right thing.
In this episode I talk about being extreme vs being steady. This is one of the things that has helped me the most in building my life for the kingdom of God. This episode also includes continued teaching from my Radical Growth online Bible study.
Do we want people to like us or do we want to obey God? In this episode I share how important it is to have clear, personal boundaries in order to have a healthy and balanced life. We also continue in our Radical Growth online Bible study series.
In this episode I share a personal example of feeling powerless and how I learned to stay powerful in difficult situations. We also continue teaching in our Radical Growth online Bible study.
In this episode Havilah shares how to not let negative thoughts and circumstances take over your life. We must learn to interrupt the negative thoughts and mindsets that so easily form. You will also hear continued teaching from Havilah's online Bible study series Radical Growth.
Today Havilah shares about being a student of your life, honoring the reality that's in front of you while resisting the temptation to fill in facts about other people's stories. We'll also continue to tune into Havilah's online Bible study series Radical Growth.
Today Havilah discusses the topic of perfectionism and performance. Knowing when to say it's "good enough" rather than striving for perfection will help keep a healthy balance and realistic expectation in your life. Havilah also continues teaching from her Radical Growth online Bible Study Series.
In this episode Havilah shares another core value that helps her continue to stay balanced in ministry and life. Staying true to who God has called you to be and "staying in your lane" will help you have a healthier life. You'll also hear teaching from Havilah's Radical Growth Bible Study series.
In this episode Havilah shares another core value that helps keep her safe, healthy and balanced in life as a wife, mother, minister and more. You'll also hear continued teaching from Havilah's Radical Growth Bible Study series.
In this episode Havilah shares another one of her greatest core values and tips to keeping a healthy balance in life and ministry. You'll also hear teaching from Day 6 of her Radical Growth online bible study series.
Today Havilah shares another core value and secret tip for how she does what she does, stays sane, healthy and happy. You'll also hear teaching from Day 5 of her Radical Growth online bible study series.
In this episode, Havilah shares honestly about "how she does what she does..." and how personal boundaries come into play in each season of life. She also continues teaching from her Radical Growth online Bible study with Day 4: The Soul.
In this episode Havilah shares about her recent time of speaking at the School of the Prophets. She also continues with Day 3 of her Radical Growth Bible study series.
In this episode Havilah talks about pushing vs perseverance. We can push to try to make something happen but sometimes it really comes down to waiting for the right timing. We also dive into a short teaching from her online Bible Study, Radical Growth.
In this episode Havilah talks about the recent Wonder Women's Conference 2015 she hosted at Bethel Church as well as her heart for starting this podcast. You'll also hear a short teaching from her Radical Growth bible study series.