MAN OF PRESTIGE: Recent Episodes
OLA Tux Abitogun | Marriage | Relationships | Real Estate
Man of prestige is a channel for men lifestyle, leadership and growth. We talk about dating and relationship for men. I am OLA and I am your host. Don't take my words as Gospel truth.
Let's discuss and exchange insights on modern women since we still want and need them for the most part for love and connection. Ignoring the issues will still hurt just as much if not more.
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OLA Tux Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO. We talk about real estate, entrepreneurship, building empires, marriage, relationships and more.
He is a computer engineering and engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly he is husband and father to their 3 kings and ONE princess.
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
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My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
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Welcome to Man of Prestige.
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My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Earning $100K & Living Paycheck to Paycheck? 3 Secrets to Break Free!
Living Large on $100K? Think Again!
So, you're pulling in a cool $100,000 a year – nice, right?
But here's the kicker: a whopping 51% of Americans with a six-figure income are still living paycheck to paycheck, according to NASDAQ.
Hold on, what's going on here? Let's unpack this financial puzzle together.
--> READ THE BLOG POST HERE https://myempirepro.com/living-paycheck-to-paycheck-on-100k/
--> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE https://youtu.be/JUy_YmADbOE
The Money Struggle is Real!
First things first, if you find yourself scratching your head wondering where all that hard-earned cash is disappearing to, you're not alone.
Life is expensive, and sometimes it feels like no matter how much you make, it's just never quite enough.
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High housing costs
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Unexpected expenses, and the ever-present
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Lifestyle inflation trap
...are all culprits.
You know, that tendency we all have to adjust our spending to match our income?
It's a sneaky phenomenon that can lead to financial trouble without us even realizing it.
Before we dive into solutions, let's get one thing straight – it's not your fault.
Living paycheck to paycheck is a common struggle, and it's not necessarily a sign of financial irresponsibility.
Life happens, and money can be slippery.
But here's the real talk: after watching or listening to this, you'll have the knowledge to take control and make a change.
No more excuses – it's time to break free from the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle.
Here are The Usual Suspects: Budgets and Emergency Funds
You've likely heard the typical advice:
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Track your spending
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Create a budget
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Build an emergency fund, and
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Reduce your debt.
Sure, these are solid steps, but let's be real – they only take you so far.
You can't cut corners below a basic lifestyle, and nobody wants to live a solitary life.
Let's break and bust a few myths that many are struggling with...
Is Rich ≠ Financially Free?
Let's bust this myth: being rich doesn't guarantee financial freedom.
It's not about the amount you make but how well your lifestyle is covered, even when you're not working.
Can you jet off on a random vacation?
Do you choose quality over price for your basic needs?
That's the real measure of financial freedom.
What's Considered 'Rich' Anyway?
The answer? It depends on where you live.
There's no universal threshold for a single person's 'rich' status – it's all relative.
Is Six Figures ≠ Financial Security?
For all you 30-somethings chasing that six-figure dream, reality check: a six-figure income doesn't stretch as far as it used to.
Rainy days and emergencies can quickly drain those earnings, contributing to the nation's growing debt crisis.
So, what does it really mean to live paycheck to paycheck?
On paper, you're covering your bills, but in reality, there's nothing left.
It's a precarious way to live, especially if you're responsible for a family.
So, what's the secret sauce to unlock your abundant lifestyle based on your own terms?
Well, it boils down to two main choices:
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Increase your income.
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Make your money work for you.
Here are the 3 Roadblocks to Abundance!
Before you roll your eyes thinking it's just another self-help spiel, hear me out.
There are 3 reasons you might be falling short in the financial success department:
Reason #1 - Lack of Marketplace Value
Your income reflects the value you bring to the marketplace. If it's not enough, it's time to up your game.
Reason #2 - Limited Service Capability
If you're stuck serving one boss or one corporation (same thing), you're not maximizing your earning potential.
More monetize-able service, more value, more money.
Reason #3 - Lack of Leverage
If your income is tied solely to your physical presence, you're missing out. Money should work for you, not the other way around.
And when money works for you, you will have other people and their money working for you; including people like me.
The Game-Changer: Digital Business!
Here's the kicker – you don't need a truckload of skills or a hefty investment.
All you need is one thing: a good digital business system.
In this digital age, the ability to 'copy and paste' a successful income system is your golden ticket.
Head over to www.7secretsto7figure.com and grab a seat at our 80-minute webinar where I will show you how this works and get instant access to our free "easy to read" book on "Digital Marketing" to kickstart your journey to financial freedom.
5 Signs.. Is Your Husband Depressed?
Let's talk about the complexities of depression in a relationship.
You might be wondering, what does it mean for a person to be depressed, and is it possible to be depressed without it being clinical in nature?
Depression is like a raincloud that refuses to part. It's more than just feeling sad; it's a persistent, deep-seated darkness that affects a person's thoughts, feelings, and daily life.
Now, can someone be depressed without it being clinical? Absolutely. Life's challenges can cast shadows on anyone, but when these shadows linger, it might be time to consider professional help.
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--> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE https://youtu.be/dTU_XdTq1lY
So, if you as a wife suspect your husband is battling the blues, does knowing about depression benefit the relationship? Absolutely.
But understanding depression should equip you to be a supportive partner. It's not about being on the edge, but rather standing beside your loved one, ready to lend a hand.
Let’s discuss some 3 first signs of 5 that would more appropriately point to depression in your husband.
Sign Number 1: Changes in Mood
When it comes to changes in mood, keep an eye out for persistent shifts in emotional states. Depression often brings about intense feelings of sadness, hopelessness, or irritability.
Your husband may seem more easily frustrated, even over minor issues. The key is the persistence of these mood changes; we all have off days, but if this becomes the new norm, it's time to take notice.
Now, how does this correlate with relationship struggles? Well, imagine navigating the unpredictable waters of someone's fluctuating moods. It can create an emotional distance between partners, making communication challenging.
Understanding that these mood changes might be linked to depression should allow a partner with the knowledge to approach the other with empathy rather than frustration.
Sign Number 2: Changes in Sleep Patterns
Depression has a way of disrupting the delicate balance of sleep. Pay attention if your husband experiences significant changes in his sleep patterns.
This could manifest as insomnia, difficulty falling asleep, or conversely, excessive sleep. Sleep is a cornerstone of physical and mental well-being, and disruptions can have a ripple effect on all aspects of life.
How does this tie into relationship struggles? Imagine the impact of sleep deprivation on daily interactions. Fatigue can heighten irritability and decrease patience, potentially leading to conflicts within the relationship.
By addressing sleep pattern changes, you're not just addressing a symptom but proactively managing a factor that could contribute to relationship strain.
Sign Number 3: Withdrawal from Activities
A once social and active husband suddenly withdrawing from activities he used to enjoy? That's a significant red flag.
Depression often convinces individuals to isolate themselves, creating a barrier even with activities they once found pleasure in. It's not just about physical withdrawal; there's an emotional distance that comes with it.
Now, let's connect the dots to relationship struggles. Imagine planning outings or activities together, only to be met with disinterest or reluctance.
The withdrawal can extend to emotional availability, making it challenging to connect on a deeper level. Recognizing this sign is crucial for partners to work together in reintroducing enjoyable activities and rebuilding emotional bonds.
What about signs that you might be seeing but not necessarily indicative of depression; at least that we can’t conclude to be clinical in nature.
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SIGN NUMBER 4: Disconnects
Feeling a disconnect between your husband's depression and relationship struggles? Feeling a disconnect from your husband?
Focus on understanding the symptoms before jumping to conclusions. A proper diagnosis is the foundation for effective treatment.
SIGN NUMBER 5: Pushing Away
Why would a wife link her husband pushing her away to the possibility of depression?
Well, sometimes depression manifests as a desire for isolation. It's not a blame game; it's about recognizing patterns and seeking understanding.
So you are thinking "My husband is depressed and won't get help." What should you do?
If you find yourself in this situation, the source of this diagnostic conclusion is first to be assessed.
Encourage open communication, express your concern, and help him understand the benefits of seeking professional help. But remember, it's a journey, not a sprint.
The emphasis should be on supporting him in seeking professional help. Beyond being a pillar of support, recognizing when it's not a relational issue is crucial.
And No! Constant anger isn't a definitive sign, but it could be an expression of underlying emotional turmoil.
Depression? Is He Running Mad?
I wanted to address this because of certain cultures that tend to gravitate away from what is scientifically proven. Closed mindedness only make matters like this worse than it needs to be
Running mad is probably a stretch, but genuine concern is valid. Mental health matters, and addressing it early can make all the difference.
But here's the thing – don't jump to conclusions.
Clearly, you are seeking a solution and that’s a great place to start from. But refrain from self-diagnosis which may include psycho-analyzing your husband.
Balancing mental health awareness with refraining from self-diagnosis is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. Instead of attempting to psycho-analyze your husband, focus on fostering open communication.
Encourage dialogue about emotions and well-being without assuming the role of a mental health professional. Seek information together, emphasizing that understanding mental health is a shared journey.
If concerns arise, consider professional advice to ensure accurate assessments and appropriate support. Remember, communication, empathy, and seeking guidance when needed contribute to a supportive environment without the pitfalls of self-diagnosis.
What About Post-Baby Blues?
Yes, the challenges of parenthood can amplify stressors, contributing to or exacerbating depression. It's a delicate dance of responsibilities and emotions.
In Conclusion
Suspicion of depression is an additional layer of concern. Seek help for the actual symptoms, not unfounded diagnoses.
Your relationship is a partnership, and navigating mental health challenges together can strengthen that bond as long as things are being approached from a place as close as possible to empathy
Remember, your journey through depression in a relationship is unique, and professional guidance to address issues with respect to your particular story is key and can make all the difference.
Don’t forget to download our free books at www.GetMyMarriageBack.com
Let's bring Lola and maybe a few others into the conversation.
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I want to give you 5 Steps To Increase Your Clients By 323% With AI & Digital Marketing
In the ever-evolving landscape of business, staying ahead is not just an option but a necessity.
If you're wondering how to up your game and boost your clientele, fear not – we've got you covered.
Dive into these five steps that can skyrocket your client base by a whopping 323%, blending the power of AI and digital marketing seamlessly.
--> READ THE BLOG POST HERE https://myempirepro.com/how-to-get-more-clients-with-digital-marketing
--> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE https://youtu.be/mXw-zIjBZWM
Step 1: Perform a Market Research and Marketing Audit Before diving headfirst into the digital marketing ocean, it's essential to understand your business's current position.
Conduct a thorough market research and marketing audit.
Identify your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats. This groundwork will be the compass guiding your strategic moves.
Think of it as putting on your explorer hat before venturing into uncharted territory.
By dissecting your market, understanding your competitors, and unveiling the internal intricacies of your business through a SWOT analysis, you gain a comprehensive view of the landscape.
This knowledge serves as your strategic compass, directing you toward opportunities, guiding you away from potential pitfalls, and providing a clear roadmap for impactful decision-making.
In essence, it's not just about knowing where you stand; it's about equipping yourself with the insights needed to navigate the complex and dynamic world of digital marketing with confidence and purpose.
Step 2: Create the Ideal Profile and Avatar of Your Ideal Client Who's your dream client? Paint a vivid picture. Understand their pain points, desires, and aspirations.
Creating an ideal client profile helps you tailor your digital marketing efforts to resonate with the audience you want to attract. It's like having a secret weapon in your marketing arsenal.
Picture your dream client – not as an abstract entity, but as a flesh-and-blood persona with distinct traits, challenges, and dreams.
Dive deep into their psyche, unraveling their pain points, aspirations, and desires.
This isn't a mere exercise; it's the art of creating an ideal client profile, a personalized blueprint that becomes your secret weapon in the vast arena of digital marketing.
This profile transforms vague notions into a vivid, relatable character, enabling you to tailor your messaging, content, and strategies with precision.
It's the equivalent of having an ally who understands your every move, ensuring your digital marketing efforts resonate authentically with the audience you most passionately want to attract.
In the realm of client engagement, this intimate understanding is not just a tool; it's a strategic advantage that sets the stage for meaningful connections and lasting relationships.
Step 3: Turn Your Existing Products and Services Into an Irresistible Offer Take a fresh look at what you're offering. How can you make it irresistible?
Bundle services, throw in exclusive bonuses, or provide limited-time discounts.
The goal is to make your potential clients think, "I can't afford to miss out on this!" Craft an offer they simply can't refuse.
Imagine your offerings as a treasure chest waiting to be discovered.
In this step, take a fresh, discerning gaze at what you're presenting to the world. How can you elevate it from mere products and services to an irresistible, must-have package?
Consider bundling complementary services, adding exclusive bonuses that speak directly to your ideal client's needs, or introducing limited-time discounts to create a sense of urgency.
The objective is clear: fashion an offer so compelling that potential clients can't help but exclaim, "I can't afford to miss out on this!"
It's not just about showcasing value; it's about unveiling it in a way that resonates profoundly with your audience.
Craft an offer that transcends transactions and becomes an irresistible invitation to embark on a transformative journey with your brand. After all, in the realm of digital marketing, the art of crafting an offer they simply can't refuse is the catalyst for forging lasting connections and converting interest into enthusiastic commitment.
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Step 4: Carve Out a Free Sample Version of the Expected Transformation Everyone loves a sneak peek. Create a lead magnet that showcases the transformation your products or services can bring.
Whether it's a free trial, a downloadable guide, or an exclusive video series, give your audience a taste of what's to come. This free sample should leave them craving more.
In the world of digital marketing, providing a sneak peek isn't just a strategy; it's an art form. Picture it as crafting a tantalizing trailer for an upcoming blockbuster.
In this step, create a lead magnet that goes beyond mere information – it's a preview of the transformative journey your products or services offer.
Whether it's a free trial, a downloadable guide filled with actionable insights, or an exclusive video series unveiling expert tips, this is your chance to offer a taste of the positive change your audience can experience.
This free sample isn't just a gesture; it's a strategic move to leave them hungry for more. It's the anticipation before the grand reveal, the spark that ignites curiosity and sets the stage for a deeper engagement.
By delivering a compelling preview of the transformation you promise, you're not just attracting attention; you're creating a narrative that resonates and entices your audience to eagerly embrace what lies ahead.
Step 5: Set Up a Digital Marketing Attraction Campaign Now that you have your irresistible offer and lead magnet, it's time to let the digital magic happen. Set up an attraction marketing campaign that targets 15-20 ideal clientele prospects every day.
Utilize social media, email marketing, and other digital channels to distribute your lead magnets strategically. The key is to pull, not push, your audience toward your offerings.
With your irresistible offer and enticing lead magnet in hand, it's time to orchestrate the digital magic. Enter the realm of attraction marketing, a strategic dance designed to captivate your ideal clients.
Your mission: target 15-20 prospects from your dream clientele every day. This isn't a spray-and-pray approach; it's a carefully curated performance across social media, email marketing, and various digital channels.
Picture it as a symphony where each note, or in this case, each campaign, harmonizes to create an irresistible melody. The essence lies in pulling, not pushing – gently guiding your audience toward your offerings rather than bombarding them.
It's a subtle art, where strategic placement and timing become your allies. In this digital ballet, the goal is to create an undeniable gravitational pull, making your audience not just notice but willingly step into the spotlight of your transformative offerings.
The result? A well-choreographed journey where your digital marketing efforts become a magnetic force, seamlessly connecting your brand with the eager audience it deserves.
You Will Discover More in "Digital Marketing Certified" If you want us to help you implement Ai and digital marketing to transform you passion to clients and subsequently profits, for a limited time, register for our 80 minutes workshop at www.7Secretsto7Figure.com as the next step and you get a free digital copy of my book "Digital Marketing Certified" just for registering for the workshop.
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6 Tips To Navigating Trust Issues in Relationships
Trust is the bedrock of any healthy, thriving relationship. It's the adhesive that binds love, respect, and understanding. But what happens when trust wavers or crumbles?
Can a relationship survive without it? Let's dive into this complex yet crucial aspect of relationships and explore ways to mend or mitigate the absence of trust.
TIP NUMBER 1: The Critical Role of Trust --> READ THE BLOG POST HERE https://lolaandola.com/no-trust-in-a-relationship
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Can a relationship survive with no trust? It's like trying to sail a boat without wind—possible but extremely challenging.
Trust issues shake the very core of a relationship, draining the joy and transforming the essence of romance into a toxic state.
When trust erodes, doubts and insecurities loom large, suffocating the connection that once thrived.
TIP NUMBER 2: Addressing the Root Cause What if there is no trust in a relationship? How do you fix it?
It’s imperative to go beyond surface-level problems, conducting a deep root cause analysis. Sometimes, lack of trust isn't just about the present relationship but might stem from past experiences.
Acknowledging this issue is the first step; the next involves recognizing that trust issues aren't unique and can be overcome.
Patience and an open mindset to creating new, positive experiences can gradually replace past negative ones. But it’s easier said than done—acknowledging this is the initial phase of the solution.
TIP NUMBER 3: Red Flags and Signs of No Trust Are trust issues a red flag? Absolutely. When trust is fractured, it's akin to a warning sign on the road.
It’s not a dead end, but a signal to proceed with caution and actively work towards resolution.
Constantly living in a defensive mode to protect oneself consumes valuable energy and might cause one to miss out on life's essence.
Another way of missing out on life is by not hitting the like, share, and subscribe button in order to be notified when we drop videos. Don’t miss out on the next video.
TIP NUMBER 4: Recognizing the Signs and Dealing with No Trust The signs of no trust in a relationship can vary—from constant suspicion to the erosion of open communication.
Psychology illuminates the intricate workings of trust and its impact on relationships, emphasizing the need for building a safe, reliable connection.
Fixing a relationship without trust demands patience, a willingness to create new experiences, and a conscious effort to release past grievances.
TIP NUMBER 5: Respect and Trust Go Hand in Hand A relationship without trust and respect is like a tree without roots. Respect complements trust, and both are essential for a healthy partnership.
When trust wavers, respect might follow suit, and it's vital to work on both simultaneously.
TIP NUMBER 6: Unpacking Personal Trust Issues Understanding personal trust issues with a partner is a pivotal step. It might not always be about them but could relate to individuaql experiences, past traumas, or unresolved emotions.
Addressing these factors as a team can be immensely helpful in rebuilding trust.
Trust is the cornerstone of any successful relationship.
Recognizing, addressing, and actively working on trust issues can help strengthen the bond between partners and restore the joy and security within the relationship.
How Can Trusting God Help With Trust Issues? Trusting in God to address trust issues is a personal choice that has proven effective for many, including myself.
It's acknowledging that I can't control or see everything in my own life, and that acceptance allows me to free up energy that might otherwise be spent constantly looking over my shoulder.
In situations where trust becomes an issue, particularly in romantic contexts, I opt to trust in a higher version of myself and in a higher power.
This choice helps me relinquish the need for absolute control and fosters a sense of peace and faith. I choose to trust God.
Ultimately, when it comes to relationships, there's an undeniable involvement of attraction and emotional connection.
For me, love should feel liberating, akin to a sense of freedom that allows trust to flourish naturally.
Let's bring LOLA and maybe others into the conversation.
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LET’S Unveiling the Lucrative Realm of Digital Marketing: Can You Hit Six Figures? Digital marketing—just a buzzword?
Nope, it's a pathway to lucrative opportunities, opening doors for that coveted 6-figure income you've been eyeing.
Whether you're pondering a career shift or contemplating how to amplify your earnings, the digital marketing sphere might just be the golden ticket you've been seeking.
--> READ THE BLOG POST HERE https://myempirepro.com/can-you-make-6-figures-as-a-digital-marketer/
--> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE https://youtu.be/mxH_xIIgEyw
Here are some 5 to 7 reasons why you should consider shifting careers to digital marketing. 1. Lucrative Potential: Digital marketing is a field brimming with untapped financial potential.
With the right skill set and strategy, it can lead to a 6-figure income, making it an enticing pathway for those seeking substantial financial growth.
- Ever-Evolving Industry: This arena is in a perpetual state of evolution.
It thrives on innovation and creativity, constantly offering new challenges and opportunities for personal and professional growth.
It's an environment where you can thrive on being at the forefront of change.
- Diverse Career Paths: Digital marketing isn’t a one-size-fits-all domain.
It encompasses various specializations, from content creation to SEO, social media, email marketing, and more.
This diversity allows for flexibility and the chance to find a niche that truly aligns with your passions and skills.
- Work Flexibility: The digital nature of this field often allows for remote work, freelance opportunities, or flexible schedules.
This level of autonomy can enhance your work-life balance, offering the freedom to work from virtually anywhere in the world.
- High Demand: Businesses are increasingly recognizing the importance of a strong online presence.
As a result, the demand for skilled digital marketers is on the rise.
This means more job opportunities and a greater chance of job security in this field.
- Creativity and Analytics: Digital marketing is a blend of creativity and analytics.
It requires both innovative thinking to craft engaging campaigns and the ability to analyze data to refine strategies.
This duality allows for a dynamic and exciting work environment.
- Access to Resources and Learning: The digital sphere offers a vast array of resources, courses, and communities for learning and upskilling.
This means you can continually hone your craft, staying updated with the latest trends and tools in the ever-evolving world of marketing.
Transitioning to digital marketing isn’t just about chasing financial success; it's also about embracing a field that offers continuous learning, diverse opportunities, and the chance to unleash your creativity.
If you're considering a career shift, this industry may hold the key to a more fulfilling and rewarding professional journey.
Earning Potential in Digital Marketing: Unraveling the Figures Let's address the elephant in the room: Can you make six figures as a digital marketer?
Absolutely! There are primarily two distinct avenues: working as a digital marketing manager for established companies or harnessing your skills to craft your own business empire.
For those torn between these paths, consider a hybrid approach, blending the best of both worlds.
But if you're nudged to pick one and have the luxury of choice, using your skills to establish a freelance business tends to yield the most rewarding outcomes.
Another thing that can yield great outcomes is hitting the like, share and subscribe buttons in order to be notified when I drop the next video… Leave me a comment as well… What would you like to use the skills of digital marketing to do?
Cracking the Code: Peak Salaries in the Digital Marketing Realm Now, the big question: What's the ceiling on earnings in digital marketing?
Brace yourself because, in the freelance domain, the sky's the limit!
Yes, you read that right—making millions is within the realm of possibility.
However, as a digital marketing manager or specialist, the average annual salary typically hovers around a robust $118,000.
Exploring the Landscape: Marketing Management Salaries But wait, what about the pinnacle of earning potential in marketing management?
Here's the deal: If you're aiming for a salaried position, the figures can vary widely depending on your entry point.
It's not just about being entry-level.
If you find training programs or facilitate projects that showcase your hands-on experience, you can veer straight into a six-figure salary in a remote job.
Best Marketing Jobs: Your Pathway to Success In the realm of marketing roles, several positions offer not only rewarding remuneration but also substantial career growth.
The top-tier positions include Digital Marketing Manager, SEO Manager, Email Marketing Manager, Content Manager, PPC Manager, and a host of others.
- Digital Marketing Manager: Digital Marketing Managers are responsible for developing, implementing, and overseeing digital marketing strategies.
They lead teams, set objectives, analyze campaigns, and ensure an organization's online presence aligns with its goals.
Their role involves a comprehensive understanding of various digital channels and a knack for strategizing to boost brand visibility and engagement.
- SEO Manager: SEO (Search Engine Optimization) Managers specialize in optimizing websites to improve their visibility in search engine results.
They focus on keyword research, on-page and off-page optimization, content strategy, and technical SEO.
Their goal is to increase organic traffic and ensure websites rank higher on search engine results pages.
- Email Marketing Manager: Email Marketing Managers craft and execute email campaigns aimed at engaging and retaining customers.
They design strategies, create compelling content, manage subscriber lists, analyze campaign performance, and work towards improving open and click-through rates.
Their aim is to create impactful email communication that drives conversions.
- Content Manager: Content Managers oversee the creation, publication, and management of content across various digital platforms.
This includes websites, blogs, social media, and more.
They develop content strategies, ensure quality and consistency, and often manage a team of writers and creators.
Their role is pivotal in shaping a brand's narrative and engagement with its audience.
- PPC Manager: PPC (Pay-Per-Click) Managers handle paid advertising campaigns.
They strategize, execute, and monitor paid ads on platforms like Google Ads, social media, and other online channels.
Their focus lies in optimizing ad performance, managing budgets, and ensuring that ads generate high-quality leads or conversions at the lowest cost possible.
These roles represent just a snippet of the diverse opportunities available in the digital marketing landscape.
Each one requires a unique set of skills, knowledge, and expertise.
Exploring these roles can help individuals identify the specific area that aligns best with their interests and strengths, opening doors to rewarding and impactful career paths within the field.
If you want more information, go to www.digitalmarketingcertified.com to download my book for free and I will also give you a free ticket to our online workshop on “6-Figures with Ai and Digital Marketing.
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In this video, I want to teach you how to legally make $500 in the next one hour.
- Learn what it is in this video… in this video, learn how to make $500 in this video and share it with someone how to set it up; charge them $2,000 for it. It’s worth more because they can use that skill over and over again.
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Learn it and do the work for them; help them set it up and charge them $30,000 for it. It’s worth more because they can use that skill over and over again.
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Help someone solve a problem that’s actually costing them at least $5,000 every year. Charge them $500 for it.
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Create a $500 product that serves a need or perceived need and sell it.
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Help someone else sell their $1,000 product and collect $500, a 50% sales commission.
I know what you are thinking. You don’t know someone else who has a $1,000 product? I will show you where to find them.
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Is your husband always angry? I get it—living with a husband who's always angry, negative, or moody can feel like walking on eggshells.
It can put a real strain on the relationship and your own well-being.
But don't fret! We've got some tips and insights to help you navigate this challenging situation and maybe even find opportunities for growth.
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- Understanding the Angry Vibe
First off, let's acknowledge that dealing with a perpetually upset husband isn't a walk in the park. It might feel like you're under attack, and that's totally understandable.
Feeling like you're constantly under attack can be emotionally exhausting. It's like carrying an invisible weight on your shoulders, and it's crucial to acknowledge and validate these feelings.
When trying to understand the perpetually angry vibe, it's beneficial for you to separate the person from the behavior.
Your husband's anger is probably not a definition of his entire being; it's a manifestation of something deeper. Perhaps it's stress from work, health concerns, unresolved issues, or even personal insecurities.
By distinguishing between the person and the emotion, you create a space for empathy and a chance to uncover the root causes, which is essential for finding constructive solutions and fostering a stronger, more compassionate connection.
Remember, it's not about excusing the behavior but understanding it in a way that allows for growth and healing.
- You Have 2 Choices
However, it's crucial to remember: you've got choices. Yep, two of 'em! You can either gear up to defend yourself against this seemingly inexplicable behavior or use it as a chance to elevate your relationship. Sounds tricky? We'll break it down.
You're the captain of your ship, and navigating these turbulent waters begins with recognizing your agency. Choosing to defend yourself might mean setting clear boundaries, asserting your needs, and seeking support.
On the flip side, viewing this challenging behavior as an opportunity is a mindset shift. It's about transforming a negative situation into a chance for growth, both individually and as a couple.
Embrace it as an invitation to open lines of communication, to understand each other's perspectives more deeply, and to collaborate on finding solutions.
This choice isn't about sweeping problems under the rug but about facing them head-on, with a determination to evolve and strengthen the bonds of your relationship. It's about choosing the path that aligns with your long-term happiness and well-being.
- Analyzing the Angry Pattern
Is it really an "always" thing? Often, when we're deep in the trenches of a romantic relationship, it's easy to slap an "always" label on your husband's behavior.
But here's the thing: humans have a knack for exaggeration, especially when things get a little funky. Take a step back and ask yourself if this perpetual anger is truly constant or more of a tendency we all have to blow things out of proportion.
Our emotions can often lead us to perceive situations in absolutes, and relationships can be a breeding ground for such black-and-white thinking.
It's like the fog of emotions can cloud our ability to see the nuances. Stepping back and taking a rational look at the situation can be like turning on a light in that fog.
It's about realizing that labeling something as 'always' angry may not be accurate, and that in reality, emotions fluctuate, circumstances change, and people evolve.
Recognizing this can help you approach the issue with a more balanced perspective, encouraging dialogue and understanding instead of jumping to conclusions.
It’s not about dismissing the validity of your feelings obviously, but rather about seeing the bigger picture and finding a way to navigate the emotional landscape with clarity and insight.
- The Importance of Support
Alright, here's a golden rule: don't pour from an empty cup. Dealing with a constantly angry husband can be emotionally draining, and you need your own support system.
Reach out to non-judgmental friends, family, a coach or a counselor. You need someone in your corner to help you navigate these challenging times.
Imagine you're on a long journey and your emotional well-being is your fuel. To keep going, you need to make pit stops and refuel.
Dealing with a perpetually upset husband is no different. You can't give them the understanding, patience, and support they need if your emotional tank is on-empty.
A support system acts like your pit stop, where you replenish your emotional reserves. It's a safe space where you can vent, gain perspective, and gather the strength to face the storm.
Friends, family... Particularly non-judgmental and trusted ones, which is the minority, or a professional can be that pit stop, offering a listening ear, sound advice, and sometimes a good laugh.
Remember, you're not alone on this journey, and having a support system can make all the difference in navigating these challenging times with resilience and grace.
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Okay. Let's do some fire rounds for the rest of these tips.
- Express Yourself, Loud and Clear
Now, let's talk about action. When you feel that wave of anger coming from your husband, it's vital not to enable any bad behaviors that tag along—yelling, emotional or verbal abuse, you name it.
As soon as you sense it, express how you feel. Communication is key... but effective communication is really what you need. It's like a pressure valve, releasing the pent-up tension.
- Recognizing Cry for Help
Moody behavior and constant complaining might be signs that your husband is struggling. It's like a cry out for help, a way of saying, "Hey, something's not right in my world." Instead of taking it personally, consider this an opportunity to support your husband through a difficult time. If you are having to do that quite often, it's not sustainable. Seek professional help.
- Weathering the Storm: A Phase, Not a Lifetime
Remember, this phase doesn't have to last forever. If you tackle it head-on, seeing it as an opportunity for growth, you'll come out stronger on the other side. It's about handling the stormy seas of a relationship and finding the silver lining.
There you go! Remember, navigating a moody husband takes patience, understanding, and a good dose of self-care. Hang in there, and don't hesitate to seek professional help when needed. Your relationship is worth the effort. Let’s bring LOLA and maybe others into the conversation.
Want to learn how to invest in real estate? Of course, real estate investment is an exciting and potentially lucrative venture. Whether you're a seasoned investor or just starting out, there are strategies and approaches that can help you navigate this dynamic market.
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In this blog, we'll explore 9 effective tips to guide you on your real estate investment journey.
- Buy a House and Build Equity Over Time
Buying a house is a fundamental step in real estate investing. When you purchase a property, you're investing in an asset that has the potential to appreciate over time, building equity that can be leveraged for future investments.
EQUITY: Direct Consequence of Investing in Real Estate
When you buy a house, you're becoming the owner of a special kind of valuable thing. Imagine you buy a cool new gadget, like a video game console.
As you use it and enjoy it, other people might also want to play with it. In the same way, when you own a house, it becomes more valuable as time goes on.
The value of a house can go up because the area it's in becomes more popular, or because you make improvements to the house itself.
Just like how a toy becomes more valuable if it's rare or has extra features, a house becomes more valuable if it's in a good location or if you make it better.
Now, this increase in value of your house is called "equity." Think of equity as a super cool points system. The more equity you have in your house, the more points you've earned as a homeowner.
Imagine you buy a video game and start with zero points. As you play and accomplish more tasks, you earn points.
Similarly, when you buy a house, you start with a certain value, but as the house becomes more valuable over time, you gain equity points.
The best part is, you can use these equity points to your advantage, just like using points to unlock new levels in a game. You can use your equity to make even more investments or maybe even buy a bigger, fancier house in the future!
So, buying a house and building equity means becoming the owner of something that can get more valuable over time, and you can use that increased value to do more exciting things in the future including pulling cool cash out to invest more into real estate.
- Buy a Rental Property and Live in One of the Units
Purchasing a rental property and residing in one of the units is a smart strategy. Not only do you have the advantage of being on-site to manage the property, but the rental income from other units can help cover your mortgage and expenses.
Investing in a rental property while choosing to live in one of its units is a financially astute and multifaceted approach in real estate. This strategy offers a plethora of benefits that can substantially enhance your financial standing and real estate portfolio.
First and foremost, taking up residence on the property provides you with a significant advantage — being physically present allows for more effective and hands-on property management.
Proximity enables you to respond promptly to any issues, supervise maintenance and repairs, and ensure the property is well-maintained, ultimately leading to a positive rental experience for all tenants.
In addition to the advantage of on-site management, the rental income generated from the other units in the property can serve as a crucial financial asset--cash flow.
This revenue stream can significantly offset your mortgage payments and other associated property expenses, effectively reducing your overall financial liability.
Essentially, the rental income functions as a financial buffer, alleviating the financial strain on your personal finances and allowing you to channel more of your income toward savings, investments, or achieving other financial objectives.
This strategy essentially allows you to leverage your housing situation to derive financial benefits. While occupying one unit, you transform the remaining units into revenue-generating assets, effectively converting the property into a lucrative investment that has the potential for long-term profitability.
This dual-purpose approach not only provides you with a place to live but also positions you as a strategic investor, maximizing the advantages of property ownership and rental income in a synergistic manner. Another way you can maximize all of this is to just hit the like, share and subscribe button and turn on all your notifications to be notified when we drop the next video.
- Learn and Leverage the BRRR Strategy
The BRRR strategy, which stands for Buy, Rehab, Rent, Refinance, and Repeat, is a powerful approach to real estate investing.
By renovating a property to increase its value, renting it out for regular income, refinancing to pull out equity as cash, and repeating the process, you can scale your real estate portfolio effectively.
- Use as Little of Your Personal Money as Possible
Minimizing the use of your personal funds is a prudent approach. Consider utilizing other financing options like mortgages, partnerships, or creative financing to secure properties with minimal personal investment, thus maximizing your return on investment.
Opting to use as little of your personal money as possible in real estate investments is a strategic move aimed at optimizing your financial gains.
By minimizing personal financial input, you are effectively diversifying your investment opportunities and leveraging various financing avenues like mortgages, partnerships, or creative financial instruments.
This approach increases your purchasing power, allowing you to acquire more properties or invest in higher-value assets.
Ultimately, it maximizes your return on investment by amplifying potential profits and minimizing risk, propelling you toward a more prosperous and diversified investment portfolio.
- Be Cautious of Over-Leveraging Debt
While leverage can amplify your potential gains in real estate, it's crucial to exercise caution. Over-leveraging by taking on excessive debt can put you at risk if the market takes a downturn. Maintain a balanced approach to debt and ensure you can comfortably service your loans.
- Focus on Buying Right
Success in real estate investing often hinges on acquiring properties at the right price. Conduct thorough market research, perform due diligence on potential properties, and negotiate effectively to ensure you're getting the best deal possible.
- Avoid High-End Neighborhoods
High-end neighborhoods often come with a hefty price tag and may not always offer the best return on investment. Consider targeting properties in up-and-coming or undervalued areas where there is potential for growth and increased property value over time.
- Avoid Low-End Neighborhoods
Similarly, low-end neighborhoods may seem attractive due to lower acquisition costs, but they can come with higher risks such as higher crime rates and lower demand. Strive to find a balance by investing in neighborhoods with stable growth potential.
- Focus on Neighborhoods You Can Relate With
Investing in neighborhoods you can relate to or have a strong understanding of can give you a competitive advantage. Familiarity with local dynamics, trends, and demands can guide your investment decisions and help you make informed choices.
In conclusion, real estate investing offers numerous opportunities for those willing to learn and navigate the market effectively.
By employing the right strategies, being cautious with your financial decisions, and focusing on the right properties and neighborhoods, you can achieve success in the dynamic world of real estate. And if you enjoy this video, you will get so much more value from the video that just popped up on the screen.
Your marriage is falling apart? We get it—life can throw curve-balls, and sometimes your once rock-solid marriage can start feeling like it's on shaky ground.
It's a tough situation to face, and it can feel overwhelming when your marriage is seemingly falling apart. Whether it's due to a change in lifestyle, the arrival of a new baby, or other reasons, you're not alone in this journey.
So, your marriage is going through a rough patch, and it feels like you're drifting further away from your partner.
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Maybe it's because your lifestyle has taken a significant turn, and suddenly you're on different paths.
Or perhaps, the beautiful chaos that comes with a new baby has shifted the dynamics of your relationship.
Whatever the reason, it's essential to remember that many couples face similar challenges.
Most people would just find other people going through the same misery.
And you know what they say; misery loves company and therefore your feelings are confirmed.
Then it starts to feel as though this is going on everywhere and all of it stems from wickedness.
There are many innocent reasons; let's get into it.
One of the common reasons for a marriage hitting rocky shores is a significant change in lifestyle.
It might be a demanding job, relocation to a new place, or even a newfound passion that has shifted your focus.
Sometimes, these changes can create a gap between you and your partner, making it feel like you're drifting apart.
Tip #1: Communication is Key (Heard That Before?):
Hear me out. Everyone advises you to talk openly and honestly with your partner about the changes and how they're affecting your relationship. I know you have probably tried and that failed…
Try this. Leading with an intention to understand your partner's needs and concerns is crucial.
Tip #2: Schedule Quality Time
Make an effort to set aside quality time for your partner amidst the busyness of life. Don't wait for them to think about it first. Try not to wait for your partner for everything. You have the power to influence what you want.
It could be a regular date night or even a weekend getaway to reconnect.
Tip #3: Welcoming a New Member: The Baby Factor
Ah, the beautiful chaos of parenthood!
The arrival of a baby is undoubtedly a joyous occasion, but it can also be a significant strain on a marriage.
The shift in focus from each other to the needs of the baby can sometimes lead to a feeling of being neglected or disconnected from your partner.
Tip #4: Teamwork
Approach parenting as a team. But don't just focus on competitive sharing of responsibilities. Help your partner physically and emotionally in this new phase of life.
Maybe your partner needs you to physically help to nurture the new bundle. But also, maybe your partner need you to emotionally help by reminding them kindly how you feel when you operate as a team.
Tip #5: Stay Connected:
Despite the demands of parenting, make an effort to create quality time for your partner even if it's just a quiet evening at home after the baby is asleep.
Tip #6: Seeking Solace in Faith
For those who have a strong alignment in faith, facing marital struggles can be an emotional and spiritual challenge. The beliefs and values you hold dear can greatly influence how you perceive and navigate a troubled marriage.
Tip #7: Prayer and Counseling:
Seek guidance through prayer and consider couples counseling from a faith driven perspective. Many faith-based organizations offer counseling services tailored to marital challenges. Lean on Your Faith: Allow your faith to guide you in forgiving, understanding, and finding hope for the future of your marriage.
Recognizing the signs that your marriage is in trouble is the first step toward finding a solution. Here are 4 signs include:
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Constant arguments
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Lack of communication
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Emotional detachment
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Growing sense of dissatisfaction or unhappiness.
Let's break it down.
- Constant Arguments
Constant arguments are a red flag in any relationship, especially in a marriage. These disputes can indicate underlying issues such as unresolved conflicts, unmet expectations, or communication breakdowns. It's crucial to address these conflicts openly and constructively, seeking compromises and understanding to maintain a healthy relationship.
- Lack of Communication
Communication is the foundation of a strong and enduring marriage. When communication dwindles, misunderstandings and feelings of being unheard or neglected can creep in. It's essential to cultivate open, honest, and regular communication. Create a safe space where both partners feel comfortable sharing their thoughts, feelings, and concerns.
- Emotional Detachment
Emotional detachment often occurs when partners become distant or disconnected from each other emotionally. This can be due to various reasons, such as stress, individual growth in different directions, or unaddressed emotional issues. To rekindle emotional closeness, couples should engage in activities that nurture their bond, express love and appreciation, and seek couples counseling if needed.
- Growing Sense of Dissatisfaction or Unhappiness
Feeling constantly dissatisfied or unhappy in a marriage is a significant warning sign. It may result from unmet needs, unrealistic expectations, or unaddressed grievances.
Tip #8: Listen and Reflect:
Take a step back and reflect on your relationship. Listen to your partner's concerns and be open to understanding their point of view.
Tip #9: Seek Professional Help:
If the signs persist, consider individual coaching and counseling. A neutral third party can provide guidance and tools to help you navigate the issues.
Maybe you are dealing with the Walkaway Wife Syndrome which refers to a situation where a wife, feeling emotionally disconnected and unheard, decides to leave the marriage. This syndrome typically stems from years of feeling neglected and unimportant in the relationship.
Tip #10: Prioritize Communication:
Again… and of course, open, honest, and consistent communication can prevent this syndrome. Many might tell you to make sure you're regularly checking in with each other and addressing concerns.
But that's often not enough in romantic relationships. In romantic relationships, be sure to try these 5 more tips, making a total of 15 Tips to resolve those 4 signs… and when you consider the ignorance of those 15 tips as signs… we have a total of 19 signs your marriage is falling apart:
Tip #11. Nurture a strong friendship
Tip #12. Focus on ethically seducing for attraction
Tip #13. Manage your expectations,
Tip #14. Give your partner the freedom to express their expectations and...
Tip #15. Manage your pride.
Let's break them further down. Well… that will cost you some money. How much? Just hit the like, share and subscribe button and turn on all your notifications to be notified when we drop the next video.
Tip #11. Nurture a Strong Friendship
The foundation of a successful romantic relationship is a strong friendship. Cultivate a genuine liking and understanding of each other's interests, dreams, and personality. Be there for one another as a friend would, offering support, trust, and a shoulder to lean on during both good and challenging times.
Tip #12. Focus on Skillful and Ethical Seduction for Attraction
Attraction is a vital aspect of any romantic relationship. Ethical seduction emphasizes building attraction through leading with value.
Value is in the eyes of the beholder and it doesn't have to compromise your own value. This strategy should be at the forefront of all interactions, promoting a healthy and loving bond based on organic attraction and desire.
Tip #13. Manage Your Expectations
Unrealistic expectations can strain a relationship. It's important to communicate your needs and desires while understanding and respecting your partner's limitations and capabilities. Being realistic about what can be achieved in the relationship helps in maintaining harmony and reducing unnecessary disappointment.
Tip #14. Give Your Partner the Freedom to Express Their Expectations
Encourage your partner to openly express their expectations, desires, and concerns. Listening attentively and validating their feelings creates an environment of trust and understanding. Mutual respect for each other's needs and expectations is key to a thriving relationship.
Tip #15. Manage Your Pride
Pride can hinder effective communication and resolution of conflicts. Learn to let go of your ego and pride for the sake of the relationship. Apologize when necessary, admit mistakes, and be willing to compromise. A humble and understanding approach fosters a stronger and more loving connection with your partner.
Taking a Hard Look at Ourselves: Am I the Problem?
Self-reflection is crucial when facing marital issues. Sometimes, we might unknowingly contribute to the problems in our marriage. It takes courage to ask oneself if they are part of the issue.
Last Tip; Making a Total of 20 Signs: Self-Awareness and Acceptance:
Be willing to acknowledge your flaws and work on improving yourself. Consider individual coaching and counseling to understand your thoughts, behaviors, and patterns that might be affecting the relationship.
Remember, every marriage is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution. But there are principles that work across the board. Don't get that twisted.
It's about doing the work and finding what works best for you and your partner and navigating this journey together. Stay strong, and never hesitate to seek help when needed. You've got this.
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Are you a beginner looking to step into the exciting world of real estate investing but not sure where to start?
You're in the right place! Real estate investing can be a rewarding journey if you approach it with the right knowledge and strategies.
In this guide, we'll explore valuable tips and resources to kickstart your real estate investing journey.
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- Where Should I Start Investing as a Beginner?
As a beginner in real estate investing, it's essential to lay a solid foundation.
Start by learning how to find deals through a strategy known as wholesale real estate.
Wholesale real estate involves finding properties at a significant discount and then assigning the rights of those deals, secured with a purchase contract, to other investors for a profit—an assignment fee.
This approach allows you to dip your toes into the real estate waters without the need for substantial capital investment.
Moreover, it's an excellent method to learn about property values, negotiation skills, and deal analysis, setting you on the right path for a successful journey in real estate investing.
Understanding the mechanics of wholesale real estate will provide you with valuable insights and serve as a stepping stone to more complex investment strategies as you gain experience and confidence in the real estate market.
Whether you're eager to get started with just a few hundred dollars or willing to invest more, wholesale real estate provides a practical approach for beginners to break into the real estate market.
Through proper education and hands-on experience in wholesaling, you can gradually build your investment portfolio and expand into various real estate investment opportunities.
- Recommended Real Estate Investing Books for Beginners
One of the best ways to learn and gain insights into real estate investing is by reading books. I might be biased a little; here are two recommended books for beginners in real estate investing written by yours truly:
Book 1: Smart Real Estate Wholesaling: This book provides valuable insights into the wholesale real estate strategy, guiding you on how to identify, negotiate, and close deals successfully like a pro.
Inside the book, you will discover the 3 pillars of a real estate wholesaling empire in the modern age
Book 2: Real Estate Money Secrets: Explore this book to uncover the financial secrets and strategies that can help you navigate the real estate investing landscape effectively.
This book is the insider secrets to real estate investing and building a real estate empire from scratch like a PRO
For those eager to dive into these resources, both books are available for free download right here.
- Learning from YouTube: Real Estate Investing for Beginners
YouTube is a treasure trove of knowledge, and there's a wealth of real estate investing information available for beginners.
The digital platform offers an array of educational content, making it a prime resource for those beginning their real estate investment journey.
One exceptional channel to explore is our myEmpirePRO of course.
With over 1,000 free videos covering various aspects of real estate investing, this channel provides a rich learning experience.
From fundamental concepts like understanding property types and financing options to more advanced strategies such as market analysis and investment planning, myEmpirePRO equips you with a diverse range of insights.
Engage with the content, ask questions, and join the community of aspiring real estate investors for a supportive and enriching learning experience.
By leveraging YouTube channels like myEmpirePRO, you can gain valuable knowledge, learn from experienced investors, and stay updated with the latest trends and developments in the real estate market.
It's a flexible and accessible way to expand your understanding and expertise in the world of real estate investing.
Remember, the more you learn, the more confident and informed you'll become in making successful investment decisions.
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- Embracing Webinars: Real Estate Investing for Beginners
In recent times, webinars have gained popularity, replacing traditional seminars due to their convenience and accessibility.
Unlike conventional seminars, webinars spare you the pressure of enduring relentless sales pitches from gurus who may not provide the personalized coaching you seek.
Webinars offer a unique platform to gain valuable insights into real estate investing for beginners right from the comfort of your home.
These online events often feature seasoned investors, industry experts, and successful individuals sharing their experiences and expertise.
You can explore a myriad of topics, strategies, and tips, all aimed at helping beginners navigate the real estate investing landscape effectively. Embrace this modern approach to learning, as it allows you to gather knowledge and interact with experts without leaving your home.
Stay informed, engaged, and prepared for your real estate investment journey.
- Starting Your Real Estate Investment Journey with Limited Funds
The question many beginners ask is, "Can I invest $100 in real estate?"
While it's possible, it's crucial to ensure that you're adequately informed before making any investment.
If you find yourself in a position where you have limited funds, consider immersing yourself in educational content.
Watch informative videos on the myEmpirePRO YouTube channel to expand your knowledge before taking any investment steps.
- Investing in Real Estate for Passive Income: A Strategic Approach
Building passive income through real estate is a popular goal.
To achieve this, start by learning the ins and outs of wholesale real estate. Acquire the skills needed to find and negotiate the best deals, allowing you to accumulate properties that generate passive income over time.
- Investing in Rental Property: Proceed with Caution
Rental properties can provide a steady stream of income, but for a beginner, it's essential to proceed with caution. Jumping into this realm without a solid understanding of how to evaluate deals can be risky. Education and due diligence are key to making successful investments in rental properties.
In conclusion, real estate investing offers a world of opportunities, and with the right knowledge and strategies, you can embark on a successful journey. Educate yourself, gather resources, and leverage the available platforms to hone your skills and make informed decisions on your path to becoming a real estate investor.
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I have 9 Tips to Ethically Seduce Your Wife if She Never Initiates Intimacy. Welcome, my name is OLA and one half of a life partnership with my beautiful wife, LOLA. We will bring her into the conversation in a few minutes.
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Are you wondering what to do when it feels like your wife never initiates intimacy in your relationship? It's a common concern that many individuals experience in long-term relationships. Understanding how to address this issue with understanding is key to nurturing a healthy and fulfilling intimate connection.
First of all, let's take a deep breath and acknowledge that relationships are complex, and there's rarely a one-size-fits-all solution. However, we've got some friendly tips and insights that might help you navigate this situation. So, grab a cup of coffee or your favorite beverage, get comfortable, and let's dive in!
Tip Number 1: Never Say Never
You've heard it before, and we'll say it again—never say never. Using absolute terms like "never" and "always" can often lead to misunderstanding the actual issue. Sometimes, a little awareness about our language can go a long way in understanding and resolving relationship issues.
Avoid Absolute Terms: Words Matter. In the realm of relationships, communication is the cornerstone of understanding and resolution. It's crucial to be mindful of the language we use, especially when discussing sensitive matters such as intimacy in a romantic relationship.
One common pitfall is the use of absolute terms like "never" and "always." When we utter statements such as "my wife never initiates intimacy," we might inadvertently exaggerate the issue. It's essential to recognize that our emotions can sometimes color our perception, making us think things are more absolute than they really are.
So, the first step in addressing this concern is to be aware that employing extreme terms may not accurately represent the situation. This awareness alone can significantly contribute to finding a solution and fostering a healthier relationship.
In the heat of a moment or when grappling with frustrations, it's easy to say things like "you never" or "you always." However, these absolutes rarely capture the full complexity of a situation.
Relationships are intricate and multifaceted, influenced by numerous variables like emotions, stress, external factors, and personal experiences. Applying a blanket term like "never" oversimplifies the issue and doesn't allow for a deeper understanding of what's truly going on.
So, the next time you catch yourself using extreme language, take a moment to pause and reflect. Consider if the situation is genuinely as absolute as you've described.
Perhaps your partner initiates intimacy less frequently than you'd like, but maybe there have been instances where they did make a move. Acknowledging these subtleties opens the door to a more constructive dialogue about your needs and desires, fostering a greater sense of understanding and compromise in your relationship. Remember, words matter, and choosing them wisely can positively impact how you perceive and address your concerns.
Tip Number 2: Analyze Changes in Behavior
In any relationship, being attentive to shifts or changes in behavior is crucial for maintaining a strong and healthy connection. One of the fundamental aspects to consider is whether the lack of initiation of intimacy is a recent development or a modification of an existing pattern. Understanding this timeline can offer valuable insights into potential triggers and motivations.
If you're finding that your partner has never initiated intimacy, it's essential to recognize that expecting a sudden shift in this behavior can be challenging. People have their individual comfort zones and ways of expressing intimacy, and abruptly altering this can be uncomfortable or unnatural. However, if there was a time when your partner did initiate intimacy and it has noticeably dwindled, it's worth delving into the reasons behind this shift.
It could be that there are underlying concerns or stressors that have caused a change in their behavior. Perhaps there are insecurities or unspoken anxieties that need to be addressed. By reassessing the differences in behavior, you create an opportunity for you to understand and a chance to find a way forward that suits the specific needs of the romantic relationship.
By nurturing an environment of openness and empathy, you can then easily do the work to find solutions that enhance your intimacy and strengthen the bond you share.
Tip Number 3: Self-Reflection for a Better Connection
It's essential to take a closer look at your feelings and thoughts. Consider your insecurities and how you view your relationship. Our personal struggles can influence how we interact with others, including our partner. Take time to reflect on your emotions and concerns, and how they might be affecting your intimacy. By understanding yourself better, you can work towards a stronger and more open connection with your spouse.
Tip Number 4: Worst vs Best Case
Consider adopting a more optimistic perspective towards your wife's behavior. Rather than immediately thinking the worst, envision the best-case scenario.
Maybe she's dealing with personal challenges or stress affecting her initiation of intimacy. By maintaining trust and positive assumptions, you encourage open communication and understanding within your relationship.
Instead of assuming the worst, like infidelity, consider that she might be facing difficulties that impact attraction. If you approach the situation with kindness and empathy, you create an atmosphere of trust and love that could ultimately reignite the spark in your relationship.
However, if you tend to expect the worst, the actual situation could be the opposite: you may have unintentionally stifled attraction in the romantic relationship. Therefore, the upcoming tips are tailored to help you enhance your attractiveness by starting with a positive outlook; assuming the best-case scenario.
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The Real Tip Number 5: It's All About Attraction
Intimacy challenges often stem from the dynamics of attraction. Invest time in comprehending what specifically attracts your wife and find ways to emphasize those aspects. Sometimes, even minor adjustments can have a major impact.
This issue revolves around attraction, not a lack of responsibility or commitment. Explore what ignites a spark for her, and aim to deepen those connections.
By paying attention to what draws her closer and fostering that attraction, you can potentially revive the intimacy in your relationship. It's about recognizing and enhancing those attractions, allowing your bond to flourish and naturally lead to a more intimate connection.
Tip Number 6: Influence, Not Control
In relationships, creating a positive impact is vital. If you notice a lack of intimacy, consider reevaluating how you've been positively affecting the dynamics of your relationship.
Constructive influence comes from understanding, respect, and love. It's about being patient and understanding that building attraction takes time, requiring gradual changes that align with respect and understanding.
Work on fostering an environment of trust and care, allowing attraction to grow naturally without pressure. By positively influencing the relationship dynamics, you can pave the way for a stronger bond and a more intimate connection with your wife.
Tip Number 7: Social Dynamics
Consider how your social interactions and communication skills contribute to the allure of your relationship. Cultivate charisma by showing genuine interest in your wife's thoughts and feelings, actively listening, and engaging in meaningful conversations.
Demonstrate empathy, kindness, and understanding, building a magnetic connection that transcends mere conversations. Your approach to social dynamics within your relationship can significantly impact the attraction between both of you.
By mastering ethical persuasive techniques, you can create a more enchanting and appealing bond, reigniting the spark that initially drew you together. Remember, ethical charm and genuine interest can subtly enhance intimacy within your marriage.
Tip Number 8: Ethical Seduction
Understanding what sparks desire in your wife is crucial, and it's not about manipulation but genuine connection. Focus on nurturing the relationship with care, empathy, and love.
This approach to seduction is more about understanding and reciprocation rather than manipulation. It involves learning how to cultivate a giving and caring environment that encourages your wife to take the initiative in intimacy.
Think of your wife as the nurturer that she is, like the earth needing safety, structure, the seed from you and the right conditions to flourish and reciprocate.
If your wife has stopped initiating intimacy, it's essential to reflect on these aspects. Ethically and effectively seducing her to rekindle the flame of desire by reassessing and adjusting the way you provide care, understanding, and support in your relationship.
The choice of whether this effort is worthwhile lies with you.
Tip Number 9: Emotions Factors
Emotions steer our actions, acting as a guide in our relationships. Instead of jumping to conclusions, delve into the emotional landscape of your relationship. Things might be more complex than they appear on the surface.
If it's the worst-case scenario and your wife is cheating with someone else. Let's assume worse case where she's simply a wicked person aiming to punish you and utilize intimacy as a weapon against you, and this isn't related to attraction issues, then it would imply she is attracted to you but is also willing to punish herself, in addition to harboring a desire to be wicked.
Do you smell the oxymoron in that? You see, this doesn't align with logical reasoning. It appeared logical because the most significant variable, like for many people, was overlooked: emotions.
Emotions play a significant part in our actions regardless of gender, often influencing our behaviors and decisions.
By acknowledging and understanding the emotions at play in your relationship, you can better navigate the situation and work towards a resolution that addresses the emotional needs and concerns of both you and your wife.
So your turn: Can you recall a time when shifting language from "never" or "always" to a more nuanced approach improved communication in your relationship? Share that experience with us. And if you've never paid attention to the impact of these words, also let us know in the comment area.
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If you have your eyes set on mastering the art of property investment and diving into the top 1%, you have come to the right place. Investing in real estate is like crafting fine art, and the best artists have their own set of secret brushes and techniques.
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Firstly… Knowledge is Not the Key:
Applied knowledge is the key. Experience is the key.
Acquiring experience (and not acquired experience) is the key. Successful property investors don't just dip their toes into the market; they dive in headfirst.
They don't wait until they are armed with a wealth of knowledge, but they also tend to leverage the power of mentorship.
Make it your mission to become a real estate connoisseur. Align yourself with a mentor who has experience as you start acquiring experience and not just immersing yourself in endless books, seminars, online courses, and webinars.
Those things are good, but you must know that you learn more from doing.
That's how you best learn about market trends, property values, financial analysis, and everything else under the property sun.
Secondly… Location, Location, Location... Of course.
The age-old adage in real estate holds true: location is crucial. The best properties are often located in areas with promising growth potential—think upcoming neighborhoods or regions undergoing development.
Research local infrastructure plans, job opportunities, schools, and amenities. A strategic location can significantly bolster your investment's value over time.
With that being said, what you need to know more is how locations affect valuations of properties and not necessarily the falsity of zero value when a location is not as desired as others.
Thirdly, property investment is a numbers game:
Numbers aren't everyone's best friend, but they are your ally in property investment.
You need to analyze potential properties meticulously. Understand cash flow, cap rates, and return on investment (ROI) calculations.
These figures aren't just for show—they guide your decisions and ensure you're investing wisely.
In fact, there are some more hidden numbers like insurance, interests, maintenance, property management costs, and etc.
This is also an area where a competent mentor becomes handy. Speaking of…
The fourth thing I want you to do is to… Build a Solid Network
It's Who You Know, and not what you know. Networking isn't just about swapping business cards at events.
It's about forming genuine connections with professionals in the industry—agents, brokers, other investors, and even mentors.
Accessible mentors, no matter how much they cost, are always cheaper than $10 books on the Amazon shelves. You might have to rewind that to process what I just said.
These relationships can offer insights, opportunities, and sometimes, that one deal that sets you on the path to the top 1%.
In this game, a numbers game, the next 10 deals might do a little better than breaking even, and the next deal after that might make you a profit that you've needed to get you to the next level.
I've seen this over and over in the past 18 years. In fact, the last 6 years have been all that to me personally, while the last 48 hours alone have made more impact on my business than the last 6 years.
I can tell you more about that later.
The fifth secret: Don't Shy Away from Risks... Just Assess
Property investment isn't for the faint of heart. Sometimes, you need to take a leap of faith. But here's the catch—make sure it's an assessed risk.
Assess the risks as you go without overthinking, weigh the pros and cons, and then take an informed decision. We all have to make decisions from limited information. You are not alone.
You shouldn't be alone if you have a mentor. The top 1% got there by embracing risks wisely.
Last but definitely not the least; The Profit Comes from How You Buy.
This saying has resonated with me since the outset of my journey in 2005, emphasizing a fundamental principle in property investment: you make your profit when you buy, not when you sell.
It underscores the significance of the purchasing stage, emphasizing that the success and profitability of a property investment are primarily determined by the buying decisions made at the inception of the venture.
By strategically assessing and selecting properties that align with your investment goals, financial capacity, and market trends, you set the stage for a potentially lucrative investment.
Essentially, this adage serves as a reminder to meticulously analyze the property, consider the potential for appreciation, evaluate the neighborhood's growth prospects, and weigh other critical factors before committing to the purchase.
Making a wise and informed decision during the buying phase is the key to reaping rewards in the realm of property investment.
One of the Ways to Mitigate Risk Is Wholesale Real Estate: Your Gateway to the Top 1%
It's time to talk about how wholesale real estate fits into this equation, especially for beginners aspiring to make their mark in the realm of property investment.
Wholesale real estate involves finding deeply discounted properties and assigning the rights to buy them to other investors for an assignment fee; the profit. This strategy can be a fantastic entry point for beginners, allowing them to bring value to seasoned investors while making a name for themselves.
Here Are the 4 Ways That Wholesale Real Estate Aligns with Property Investment Secrets?
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The actual Way Number 1. Knowledge Expansion: Engaging in wholesale real estate broadens your understanding of property values, market dynamics, and negotiation skills. It's a hands-on lesson that complements the theoretical knowledge you've gathered without the need to have the big capital required for traditional property investment; while making money as you go.
Way Number 2. Building a Network: Wholesale deals often involve collaboration with experienced investors; a network of mentors right? This is an excellent opportunity to network and learn from their expertise, adding to your own circle of industry contacts.
Way Number 3. Risk Mitigation: Wholesale deals usually involve lower risk compared to direct property investment and ownership. You're not burdened with the responsibility of managing the property long-term, reducing potential risks while you are still acquiring experience as mentioned earlier.
Way Number 4. Financial Savviness: Managing finances efficiently is a significant aspect of wholesaling. You learn to evaluate properties quickly and accurately, enhancing your property financial acumen, which is indispensable for successful property investment.
Here Are 4 Tips for Succeeding in Wholesale Real Estate
Tip Number 1. Market Research: Understand your target market thoroughly. I am not saying the "local market" here because, with the internet opportunity of today, you can operate United States real estate wholesaling from anywhere if you have a smartphone and laptop with an internet connection. You can start by using the free trial of www.EmpireBIGData.com to identify the areas where distressed properties are prevalent and potential buyers are interested.
Tip Number 2. Network Relentlessly: Attend real estate events, join online forums, and connect with industry professionals. Your network can be your greatest asset in finding deals, end-buyers and executing wholesale real estate transactions.
Tip Number 3. Negotiation Skills: Hone your negotiation skills. The better you negotiate, the more profit you can make from each deal. And practice makes perfect in these regards.
Tip Number 4. Master Marketing: Learn effective marketing strategies to reach potential sellers and buyers. Utilize online platforms, social media, and targeted direct advertising to maximize your reach.
So, there you have it—the top 1% secret of property investment and how wholesale real estate can be your stepping stone into this exciting realm. Remember, every property transaction is a lesson, and every lesson propels you closer to the elite league of property investors.
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Do you even know what depression is before blaming it for an undesirable marriage?
We're diving into a topic today that affects countless people around the world – depression.
We'll be discussing its impact on marriages and exploring how it might not be fair to point the finger at marriage as the sole culprit.
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First things first, let's clarify what depression is.
Depression is a mental health condition characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in daily activities.
It's important to understand that depression is a medical condition that can affect anyone, regardless of their relationship status.
Now, here's the big question: Can we really blame marriage for causing depression?
Well, it's tempting to point fingers, but the truth is that depression is a complex issue with various factors at play. While marital problems can contribute to it, they're rarely the sole cause.
Here are the 13 Signs That Your Marriage is Possibly Making You Depressed.
Sign Number 1. Communication Problems: Effective communication is the lifeblood of a healthy marriage. When communication breaks down, misunderstandings become the norm, and conflicts escalate.
Constantly feeling unheard or unable to express your thoughts and emotions can lead to a sense of frustration and isolation.
Over time, this can erode the emotional connection between partners and contribute to depressive feelings.
Sign Number 2. Lack of Emotional Intimacy: Emotional intimacy is the emotional closeness and connection you share with your spouse. When it dwindles, you may feel emotionally distant, like you're living parallel lives rather than sharing one.
This emotional disconnection can lead to feelings of loneliness, sadness, and a sense of being unfulfilled within the marriage.
Sign Number 3. Lack of Physical Intimacy: A decrease in physical affection and sexual intimacy can signal a deeper issue in a marriage. The absence of physical closeness can make you feel rejected, unattractive, and unloved.
These feelings can be incredibly painful and contribute to a sense of sadness and diminished self-worth.
Sign Number 4. Financial Problems: Money is a common source of stress in marriages. Ongoing financial arguments, mounting debt, or a constant fear of financial instability can lead to overwhelming anxiety.
The stress of financial problems can feel never-ending and lead to persistent feelings of hopelessness and despair.
Sign Number 5. Infidelity: Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful is a traumatic experience. It shatters trust and can unleash a torrent of emotions, including betrayal, anger, and profound insecurity.
These emotions can be all-consuming and have a profound impact on your mental health, potentially leading to depression.
Sign Number 6. Coping with Illness or Disability: Whether it's your own health issue or your spouse's, coping with illness or disability can be emotionally exhausting.
The challenges, uncertainty, and changes in lifestyle that come with health issues can make you feel helpless and emotionally drained, contributing to feelings of sadness and despair.
Sign Number 7. Grief from Death of a Loved One: Grief is a heavy emotional burden, and when both partners in a marriage are grieving, it can strain the relationship. Coping with the loss of a loved one can be overwhelming and emotionally isolating. The inability to provide emotional support to each other during this challenging time can exacerbate feelings of sadness and isolation.
Sign Number 8. Stressful Life Events: Major life changes, such as job loss or relocation, can introduce high levels of stress into a marriage. These events disrupt established routines and create uncertainty about the future. The resulting anxiety and sadness can lead to a sense of being overwhelmed and contribute to depressive symptoms.
Sign Number 9. Constant Arguments: Frequent and unresolved conflicts can create a toxic atmosphere within a marriage. Chronic stress from these constant battles can lead to emotional exhaustion, making it challenging to find joy or contentment in the relationship. The persistent tension can contribute to feelings of hopelessness and depression.
Sign Number 10. Emotional Neglect: Feeling emotionally neglected means your emotional needs consistently go unmet in the relationship. Over time, this can lead to a sense of emptiness and sadness as you long for emotional connection and support that isn't being provided by your spouse.
Sign Number 11. Criticism and Blame: Frequent criticism or blame from your spouse can chip away at your self-esteem and self-worth. Feeling constantly criticized and blamed can make you believe you are unworthy or incapable, leading to feelings of worthlessness and depression.
Sign Number 12. Social Isolation: When a marriage becomes the sole focus of your life and you withdraw from friends and family, it can lead to social isolation. This isolation can intensify feelings of loneliness, as you may lack the support and social connections that provide emotional nourishment.
Sign Number 13. Thoughts of Divorce or Separation: Constantly contemplating ending the marriage is a clear sign of deep dissatisfaction and unhappiness within the relationship. These persistent thoughts can create a sense of hopelessness about the future of the marriage, contributing to depressive symptoms.
When two or more humans come together to collaborate, whether in a professional setting or in personal relationships, it's almost inevitable that some degree of friction will arise.
However, when we talk about romantic relationships, especially marriages, we're entering a realm where the complexity of human emotions takes center stage.
Imagine multiplying the usual challenges by a factor of 10,000 for romantic relationships and then again for marriages – it's a recipe for a roller-coaster of emotions.
The core of many of these emotional challenges can often be traced back to two key factors: pride and unrealistic expectations. Pride can lead individuals to be resistant to change or compromise, creating barriers to effective communication and understanding within a relationship.
Unrealistic expectations set the stage for disappointment because no one, no matter how perfect their partner may be, can fully meet the lofty standards set by these expectations.
It's important to note that while some issues in marriage may indeed be rooted in the actions of one or both partners, a significant portion of these challenges can be attributed to incompetence rather than malice.
Incompetence, in this context, doesn't imply a lack of intelligence but rather a lack of knowledge or skills in navigating the complexities of a relationship.
The good news is that despite the seemingly overwhelming layers of complexity that can accumulate in a marriage, it doesn't require solving 10,000 x 10,000 problems.
Instead, it often comes down to mastering a few fundamental principles that can act as a solvent, dissolving many of the layers of tension and conflict.
By learning effective communication skills, practicing empathy, embracing compromise, and cultivating emotional intelligence, couples can transform their relationship.
These principles serve as a bridge to connect partners on a deeper level, allowing them to navigate the ups and downs of life together with love, understanding, and a sense of shared purpose.
Ultimately, the dream of a life filled with love and bliss, which often feels unattainable amid the complexities of marriage, can become a reality.
It's not about erasing every issue but rather about equipping yourself with the tools to address and overcome them together.
While no relationship is entirely free from challenges, the journey toward a more fulfilling and harmonious marriage becomes not only possible but achievable through continuous growth, learning, and mutual support. So here are 5 ways to deal with depression in a marriage.
Number 1. Seek Professional Help: Consulting a therapist or counselor can provide you and your spouse with expert guidance on addressing depression. They offer a safe space for open dialogue and practical strategies, acting as skilled navigators through the complexities of marriage and mental health. You can check out our services at LOLAandOLA.com
Number 2. Communicate Openly and Honestly: Open and honest communication builds trust and understanding in your relationship. Sharing your thoughts and feelings with your partner fosters empathy, helping both of you work together to tackle depression's challenges, ultimately strengthening your bond.
Number 3. Be Patient and Understanding: Recognize that healing from depression and improving your marriage is a gradual journey. Patience and understanding toward each other's progress and setbacks are key. This attitude promotes resilience and a deeper connection in your partnership.
Number 4. Learn to Manage Stress: Developing healthy stress-management techniques, such as mindfulness or relaxation exercises, empowers you to reduce stress's impact on your relationship. These practices enhance your overall well-being and equip you to face life's difficulties together.
Number 5. Make Lifestyle Changes: Incorporating healthy habits like regular exercise and a balanced diet benefits both mental and physical health. Such lifestyle changes create a shared commitment to well-being, strengthening your relationship and providing a foundation for resilience in the face of depression.
In conclusion, depression is a serious condition that can profoundly impact a marriage. However, it's essential to remember that there is hope and you might one skill or tool away from happiness.
Seeking professional help and implementing healthy strategies can help couples navigate the challenges and find their way back to a healthier, happier marriage.
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Welcome to an extraordinary journey that will transform your marriage forever! Are you ready to dive deep into the secrets of building a lasting connection with your spouse? Buckle up, because today, we're unveiling 11 secrets that will revolutionize your communication in marriage! Alright, let's dive into the first secret that will transform your marriage.
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Secret Number 1. Active Listening
The first secret to successful communication in marriage is active listening. This skill goes far beyond the surface level of hearing words; it delves deep into understanding your partner's thoughts, feelings, and desires.
When you genuinely listen to your partner, you not only make them feel heard but also create a deeper connection. Imagine it as a bridge between your hearts, one that allows both of you to traverse the emotional landscape of your relationship with ease.
When your wife feels heard, it's as if you've unlocked a hidden dimension of your connection. It's not just about hearing her words; it's about comprehending the unspoken nuances—the subtle shifts in her tone, the unsaid worries, and the unexpressed desires. In this sense, you can truly penetrate her world, establishing a level of intimacy that transcends the physical.
Similarly, when your husband feels heard, it's akin to a pledge of devotion. He recognizes that you value his thoughts and respect his perspective. As a result, he's more inclined to wholeheartedly commit himself to your happiness, striving to fulfill your needs and desires in every possible way.Active listening is the cornerstone of a thriving marriage. It's the secret weapon that not only helps you understand your partner better but also draws you closer, creating a magnetic bond that withstands the tests of time and trials of life.Secret Number 2. Understanding Power Dynamics
In any marriage, understanding the intricate web of power dynamics is crucial. It's not about striving for a rigid sense of equality, but rather achieving a balanced and equitable partnership that thrives on the nuances of your unique emotional and relational contexts.So, what's the difference between equity and equality? Equity, unlike equality, pays attention to the context and emotional frame of reference within the relationship. It acknowledges that each partner may have different strengths, weaknesses, and emotional needs at various times. This recognition allows for a more fluid and dynamic distribution of power.Equality, on the other hand, often hinges on a fixed, one-size-fits-all approach. It can inadvertently create a subtle sense of competition between husband and wife, where each strives to maintain an exact equilibrium in responsibilities and privileges. This rigid perspective can lead to unnecessary tensions and misunderstandings.Understanding power dynamics isn't about establishing dominance; it's about navigating your relationship with empathy and sensitivity. When you grasp the concept of power, you'll begin to recognize and transform any elements that resemble competition between you and your partner.Many traditional communication principles inadvertently position spouses as competitors, fostering an atmosphere where one must "win" a discussion or argument. Instead, focusing on equitable power dynamics means working together as a team. It's about acknowledging that each partner brings unique strengths and perspectives to the relationship, and by combining these strengths, you can create a stronger, more harmonious partnership. In doing so, you'll move away from the idea of competing against each other and toward the goal of collaborating to build a thriving marriage.Secret Number 3. Understanding Your Leverage
Communication isn't just about talking. Sometimes, silence can be a powerful tool, allowing your partner the space they need to express themselves fully.Secret Number 4. Self-Awareness
Self-awareness is the foundation of emotional intelligence. By understanding your own emotions, you can better navigate difficult conversations with your spouse.Secret Number 5. Social Intelligence
Your capacity to engage with others extends its influence into your marriage as well. Building and nurturing your social intelligence can be a game-changer when it comes to establishing trust and deeper connections within your relationship.In everyday life, it's not uncommon for individuals to experience moments of social awkwardness, particularly when effective communication is of the essence. These moments can arise during crucial discussions with your spouse. However, by honing your social intelligence, you can learn to navigate these situations with grace and confidence.Social intelligence isn't about being the life of the party or a master of small talk. Instead, it's about recognizing and understanding the emotions, needs, and perspectives of those around you. When you develop this skill, it enhances your ability to connect with your partner on a deeper level.In those pivotal moments when effective communication is most needed, your refined social intelligence will help you maintain composure, show empathy, and respond thoughtfully. Ultimately, this will foster an environment of trust, openness, and understanding within your marriage, even during the most challenging conversations.Secret Number 6. Emotional Vulnerability
Emotional vulnerability is a potent tool in deepening your connection with your spouse. It involves being willing to share your innermost thoughts and feelings, even if they make you feel exposed or uncomfortable. When you allow yourself to be emotionally vulnerable, you invite your partner into your world on a profound level, fostering trust and intimacy.But be sure to read the room before sharing your fears, dreams, and insecurities with your spouse, and encourage them to share as much as they need to; make them comfortable doing that. This level of wisdom creates a safe space for both of you, building a strong emotional bond that can withstand the trials of marriage.Secret Number 7. Nonverbal Communication
Nonverbal communication plays a significant role in seduction within a marriage. Your body language, eye contact, and physical touch can convey desire, passion, and love without the need for words. Learn to use these nonverbal cues to send clear messages of attraction and affection to your partner.Subtle touches, lingering glances, and affectionate gestures can create a seductive atmosphere that keeps the romance alive in your marriage. Pay attention to your partner's nonverbal cues as well, as they can reveal their desires and feelings even when they don't verbalize them.Secret Number 8. Timing and Patience
Effective communication in a seductive marriage requires a keen sense of timing and patience. Sometimes, the most seductive moments are the ones that are allowed to simmer and build gradually. Rather than rushing into things, take the time to savor the anticipation and desire that naturally arise when you allow moments to unfold at their own pace.Patience can be a powerful tool in seduction. It allows you to build tension and excitement, creating an atmosphere of longing and desire. Whether it's planning a special date night or waiting for the perfect moment to express your feelings, patience can amplify the seductive energy in your marriage.Secret Number 9. Playfulness and Flirtation
Marriage doesn't have to be serious all the time. Playfulness and flirtation can inject a sense of fun and excitement into your relationship. Tease and flirt with your spouse as you would when you were first dating. Use humor and light-hearted banter to create a playful atmosphere that ignites desire and keeps the spark alive.Flirtation is a way to remind your partner that you still find them irresistibly attractive. It's about maintaining a sense of novelty and adventure in your marriage, even as you navigate the routines of daily life.Secret Number 10. Adaptability & Embracing Change
Change is inevitable in any long-term relationship. To maintain effective communication in a seductive marriage, you as a partner must be adaptable and willing to grow with your partner. Embrace the changes as you both evolve over time.As you adapt to this inevitable reality, make an effort to rediscover and rekindle your desires. What attracted you to your partner in the beginning may evolve, but there are always new aspects to explore and appreciate. Embrace change as an opportunity to deepen your connection and discover new sources of seduction within your evolving relationship.Secret Number 11. Mutual Fulfillment
Ultimately, effective communication in a marriage is about being aware of your partner's desires and working to help them feel fulfilled. Make an effort to understand what truly excites and satisfies your partner, both emotionally and physically. Then, commit to helping in fulfilling those desires as an ongoing act of love and seduction.You will then create a reciprocal cycle of desire and satisfaction that keeps the spark alive in your marriage. This mutual fulfillment ensures that both partners feel cherished, desired, and deeply connected to each other eventually.Incorporating these 11 secrets into your approach to communication in marriage will help you build and maintain a connection that keeps the flame of passion and desire burning brightly throughout your journey together.Communication in marriage is an art, not an exact science. By embracing these secrets, you can build a connection that stands the test of time. Let's get the conversation going in the comments below! Tell me, what's your biggest communication challenge in your marriage? Now, it's your turn! Like this video, share it with others who need these secrets, and don't forget to subscribe and turn on those notifications!
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If you've ever dreamt of making it big in the world of real estate investing, you're not alone. Many have turned this dream into a reality, and you can too! The good news is, real estate investing for beginners is actually simpler than most people think. We're here to spill the beans on the seven secrets that will set you on the path to success.
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I know you've wondered how some people make lots of money by buying and selling houses and properties? It's like a big game of Monopoly, but in real life. This is called "real estate investing," and guess what? You can do it too.
Now, let's break it down. Real estate investing is like a grown-up version of that game where you buy and sell real estate properties. Instead of colorful paper money, you use real money, and instead of a game board, you deal with real houses and buildings.
People get into real estate investing to make money. They buy properties (like houses, apartments, or land) and then either sell them for a higher price or rent them out to make a steady income. It's a bit like having your own little business in the world of buildings and land.
But, hold on! Before you can become a real estate pro, there are seven secrets you need to know. So, let's get started on this exciting journey into the world of real estate investing, step by step.
And even if you don't have "real money", you can get started with a desire, time, and skills that I am about to hand to you right now.
Secret Number 1: Decide!
Alright, let's dive right in (pun intended)! And don't you dare... this is very important.
Imagine you're at a big, cool swimming pool on a hot summer day. You're looking at the water, and it's so tempting, just waiting for you to jump in. But, there's one thing holding you back—sometimes you're not sure how deep the water is.
Starting your journey as a beginner in real estate investing can feel a lot like that poolside moment. The very first thing you need to do is decide to start.
Now, here's the thing: it's okay to feel a little nervous when you're trying something new, like learning to swim or getting into real estate investing. But guess what? Everyone starts somewhere, and this right here is your starting point.
Think about some famous people who started with nothing but big dreams. Have you ever heard of a guy named Warren Buffett? He's one of the richest people in the world, and do you think he started with billions of dollars? Your guess is as good as mine.
Warren Buffett decided to dive into the world of investing, just like you can decide to dive into real estate investing. He DECIDED!
Sarah, a schoolteacher, always dreamt of being a real estate investor. But guess what? She didn't have a lot of money or experience.
So, what did Sarah do? She spent time learning about real estate by reading books, watching videos, listening to podcasts and talking to people who knew a lot about it. She even attended special classes to learn even more.
Then, she found a little house that she could afford. It wasn't a mansion or anything, but it was a start. Sarah bought that house, fixed it up, and rented it to some nice people.
Over time, Sarah kept learning and buying more houses. Of course, she faced some challenges along the way, like when the roof needed fixing, but she never gave up. Today, Sarah is a super successful real estate investor, and she's living a life she once only dreamed about.
Making the decision to start is the most important step. You might feel like you're standing at the edge of a deep pool, but you can start in the shallow end and slowly work your way up. Believe in yourself, take that leap of faith, and your journey into real estate investing begins with a splash. Here is 6 more secrets on your exciting real estate investing adventure!
Secret Number 2: Get Started, Don't Procrastinate
Okay, so you've decided to take the plunge into the exciting world of real estate investing. Great! But here's another secret for you: don't wait too long to get started.
Imagine you're on a big water slide at a water park. You're all set at the top, ready for the thrilling ride down. But what if you hesitated and stayed there, looking down the slide for too long? You'd miss out on all the fun!
Real estate investing is a bit like that water slide. If you spend too much time thinking and not enough time doing, you'll miss out on opportunities. The longer you wait, the more chances pass you by.
Now, we're not saying you should rush into things without thinking, just like you wouldn't want to go down that water slide without checking if it's safe first. But once you've done your research and feel reasonably confident, don't procrastinate. Start small if you need to, but start now.
Think of it this way: every second you don't start is like standing at the top of the water slide, missing out on the thrill of the ride. So, don't let procrastination hold you back. Take action, and you'll be on your way to an exciting real estate investing adventure!
Secret Number 3: Educate Yourself Continuously
Alright, you're on the right track! You've decided to dive into real estate investing, and you've learned not to let procrastination hold you back. Now, it's time for the next secret: education.
Remember when you first started school, and you didn't know your ABCs or how to count to ten? Well, real estate investing is a bit like that. You start by learning the basics, and then you build on that knowledge.
So, here's the deal: knowledge is power in the world of real estate. The more you know, the better decisions you can make. It's a bit like having a treasure map – the more details you have, the easier it is to find the hidden treasure.
You can start your real estate education in a bunch of ways. There are books about real estate investing, just like there are books to help you with math or science. You can watch videos and take online courses, a lot like how you learn cool stuff on the internet. And hey, don't forget about talking to people who know a lot about real estate – it's like asking your teacher for help when you don't understand something in class.
Now, we've got a little surprise for you. We have two free books, "Real Estate Money Secret" and "Smart Real Estate Wholesaling," that can help you kickstart your real estate education. These books are like having a super-duper guide to the world of real estate investing. You can find them at www.RealEstateMoneySecrets.com.
But that's not all! We're also offering a free masterclass to help you get started on your real estate journey. It's like having a real-life expert teach you all the tricks of the trade. So, head over to www.RealEstateMoneySecrets.com to grab those free books and join the masterclass. It's a fantastic place to start your real estate adventure, and we can't wait to see you there! Stay tuned for more secrets that will help you become a real estate superstar.
Secret Number 4: Don't Try to Finish All Your Education in One Day
Alright, real estate adventurer, you're doing great so far! You've decided to dive into real estate investing, you've learned not to wait around, and you've started educating yourself. Now, let's talk about a secret that's super important: taking your time.
Think about learning a new game or a new subject in school. You don't become a pro in a day, right? The same goes for real estate investing. It's like a big puzzle, and you're putting the pieces together, one by one.
Sometimes, when we're excited about something new, we want to learn everything all at once. But here's the thing: real estate investing is like a marathon, not a sprint. You don't need to rush to the finish line.
Take your time to understand each piece of the puzzle. Learn about different types of real estate investments, like buying houses to rent out or flipping properties to sell for a profit. Explore how to analyze the value of a property and how to deal with contracts and paperwork.
By taking it step by step, you'll become a better investor in the long run. It's like building a strong foundation for a tall skyscraper – you want it to be solid, not rushed.
So, remember, don't try to finish all your real estate education in one day. It's okay to take your time, learn at your own pace, and enjoy the journey of becoming a savvy real estate investor.
Stay tuned for more secrets, and keep building your real estate knowledge piece by piece.
Secret Number 5: The Hidden Treasures of Time and Skills
You've been on quite the adventure, and now it's time to unveil a secret that flips the script on traditional wisdom. In the world of real estate, it's often said that you need heaps of cash to get started. But guess what? We're about to prove that time and skills can be just as valuable, if not more so!
Imagine you're in a game where everyone has their own unique superpower. Some players have mountains of money at their disposal, while others have an incredible knack for fixing things or a magical ability to connect with people. You, my friend, might have the power of time and skills. I know for a fact that you have the power to tap on the LIKE button right now.
As for Time, Time is an asset that doesn't discriminate. Whether you're a student, a working professional, or somewhere in between, the hours in your day are just as precious as anyone else's. And guess what? In the world of real estate, having time means you can add value to established real estate investors who don't have the same luxury.
As For Skills, Now, here's the real kicker. Your skills, no matter how small or specialized, can be like gold in real estate investing. Can you learn marketing skills? Are you handy with tools? These are extremely valuable skills for real estate investing projects. Do you have a way with words and negotiation? That can save you and others big bucks in deals. Don't underestimate what you bring to the table.
So, what does all this mean? It means you can dive into real estate investing without having a secret vault of money. Instead, you leverage your time and skills. For example, if you're short on funds but rich in time and skills, you can start by searching for properties that need a little TLC.
You can start your search at www.EmpireBIGData.com You can then put in some elbow grease and make them shine. When you're ready to sell or rent, you'll have a valuable asset that you've enhanced with your skills and hard work.
Remember, there's more than one path to real estate success, and yours might just be paved with time and skills. Don't let anyone tell you that you need a mountain of cash to get started. You've got unique strengths that can lead to fantastic opportunities in real estate.
Secret Number 6: Decide to Never Quit
You're well on your way in this exciting journey of real estate investing! You've learned some valuable secrets so far, and now it's time for one that's absolutely crucial: the secret of persistence.
Think of real estate investing as an adventurous hike up a mountain. It's exhilarating and challenging at the same time. You're climbing towards a stunning view, but along the way, there might be rocks to navigate, steep slopes to conquer, and even unexpected detours.
In real estate, just like on that mountain, you might face challenges. Deals might not go as planned, repairs could cost more than you expected, or you might hit some financial bumps in the road. But here's the secret that separates the successful from the discouraged: deciding never to quit.
Let's look at a real-life example. Imagine you're climbing that mountain, and you slip and stumble on a rocky trail. It's tempting to turn around and head back down, right? But what if you knew that the breathtaking view from the top was just a bit further ahead? Would you give up, or would you dust yourself off and keep climbing?
Real estate investing is no different. There will be setbacks, but deciding never to quit means picking yourself up, learning from your mistakes, and pushing forward. It's like having a "never give up" attitude tattooed on your mindset.
Successful real estate investors didn't achieve their goals by quitting when things got tough. They persevered, adapted, and kept going, no matter the challenges. They knew that every setback was just a stepping stone toward their ultimate success.
So, as you continue your real estate journey, remember this secret: decide to never quit. Embrace challenges as opportunities to learn and grow. Keep climbing that real estate mountain, and you'll reach those breathtaking views of success that you've been dreaming of.
And don't forget to check out those two free books, "Real Estate Money Secret" and "Smart Real Estate Wholesaling," as well as the free masterclass waiting for you at www.RealEstateMoneySecrets.com. These resources will help you stay motivated and persistent as you navigate the world of real estate investing. Keep moving forward, and the view from the top will be worth every step!
Secret Number 7: Every Second You Don't Start Compounds
It's time for the grand finale. Every second you don't start is a moment where potential opportunities slip through your fingers. Time is your most precious asset in this adventure.
Think about this: successful real estate investors didn't become successful overnight. They started somewhere, just like you are now. But what set them apart was their understanding that every second they didn't start, the opportunity to grow and make money was slipping away.
So, whether you're still in the planning stages, saving up for your first investment, or analyzing potential properties, remember this secret: every second you don't start compounds. The more you wait, the more opportunities you miss.
You don't need to start with a massive investment. You can start by investing time into your education and start acquiring skills. You can begin small, but take that first step. Plant the seeds of your future success today.
And guess what? Those free resources we've been talking about, "Real Estate Money Secret" and "Smart Real Estate Wholesaling," along with the free masterclass at www.RealEstateMoneySecrets.com, are fantastic places to start. They'll give you the knowledge and motivation you need to make the most of every second.
Now that you're armed with these seven secrets, remember that real estate investing is an adventure filled with ups and downs. But with the right mindset, determination, and a willingness to start, you're well on your way to a future filled with exciting real estate opportunities.
So, go out there and start building your real estate empire. Every second counts, and your journey begins now. Hit the like, share, subscribe and turn on your notifications. And if you found value in this video, you will like this next one that just popped up on the screen.
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Hey there, future real estate moguls! Are you ready to dive into the exciting world of real estate investment? Well, you're in the right place because today, we've got something special lined up for you. We're going to unlock the secrets of real estate investing and share seven unbelievable tips for beginners to get you started on your journey to financial freedom. So, stick around because you won't want to miss this!
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Real estate investment might seem like a daunting endeavor, but it doesn't have to be. Whether you're looking to generate monthly cash flow or build long-term wealth, real estate can be an excellent avenue for investment. In this video, we'll break down the basics of real estate investing and provide you with seven valuable tips to get started on the right foot.
At its core, real estate investing is a way to grow your wealth in a manner that often outpaces the effects of inflation. While your regular job provides income, real estate investments can offer appreciation and income simultaneously. Before we dive into the tips, let's first understand why investing in real estate is a smart move. While there are many reasons, two primary motivations are cash flow and wealth building.
8 Benefits of Real Estate Investing:
Benefit Number 1 of 8. Steady Cash Flow
Real estate can provide a consistent stream of rental income, offering financial stability and covering ongoing expenses.
Benefit Number 2 of 8. Long-Term Wealth Building
Over time, real estate properties tend to appreciate in value, allowing investors to build substantial equity and long-term wealth.
According to the Federal Housing Finance Agency (FHFA), the average U.S. home value has increased at an annual rate of 4.3% since 1991.
Notably, in areas like San Francisco, median home values have surged by an annual rate of 10.5% since 1991. For instance, a $200,000 investment in a home in 1991 would have appreciated to over $600,000 by 2023.
Real estate investors can build equity as they make mortgage payments.
For example, a buyer who purchased a $200,000 home with a 20% down payment would accumulate $160,000 in equity after making 20% of their mortgage payments. This equity can be leveraged for other investments or financial goals.
Location, with properties near schools, jobs, and amenities tending to appreciate faster. Demand, where high demand relative to supply drives up prices.
Supply, with limited availability often leading to price increases. Economic conditions, as periods of growth generally boost real estate prices.
The Case-Shiller U.S. National Home Price Index reveals a historical annual appreciation rate of approximately 3-5% for residential real estate in the U.S.
The Federal Reserve's Survey of Consumer Finances underscores that most Americans accumulate significant wealth through home equity, which appreciates over time.
Data from the National Council of Real Estate Investment Fiduciaries (NCREIF) demonstrates that commercial real estate investments have consistently delivered robust returns, often surpassing stocks and bonds.
Rental income from residential properties in the U.S. surpassed $500 billion in 2019, providing a reliable source of cash flow.
Homeowners can amass substantial equity over time through mortgage payments and property value appreciation.
The Joint Center for Housing Studies of Harvard University reports a median increase of $40,000 in homeowner equity from 2013 to 2018.
Benefit Number 3 of 8. Diversification:
Real estate investments can diversify your portfolio, reducing risk by spreading your assets across different asset classes.
Benefit Number 4 of 8. Tax Advantages:
Real estate investors can benefit from various tax deductions, such as mortgage interest and property depreciation, which can reduce their overall tax liability.
Benefit Number 5 of 8. Tangible Asset:
Unlike some other investments, real estate provides a tangible asset that you can see and touch, adding a sense of security.
Benefit Number 6. Inflation Hedge:
Real estate often keeps pace with or outpaces inflation, preserving your purchasing power over time.
Benefit Number 7 of 8. Control:
Real estate investments offer a level of control, allowing you to make decisions about property management, improvements, and rental terms.
Benefit Number 8 of 8. Passive Income:
When managed properly, rental properties can generate passive income, allowing you to earn money without actively working for it.
Real estate offers a unique combination of stability and profit potential that makes it appealing to both seasoned investors and beginners alike.
7 Types of Real Estate Investments
Now, let's explore the different types of real estate investments you can consider:
Real Estate Investments Type 1 of 7. Buy and Hold:
This strategy involves purchasing properties for the purpose of generating monthly cash flow and building equity over time.
Real Estate Investments Type 2 of 7. Flipping:
Flipping is all about buying distressed properties, renovating them, and selling them for a profit within a relatively short time frame, typically six months to a year.
Real Estate Investments Type 3 of 7. Wholesaling:
As a wholesaler, you'll identify great real estate deals and pass them on to investors who have the resources to acquire them, earning a fee for your efforts.
Real Estate Investments Type 4 of 7. Real Estate Investment Trusts (REITs):
These are companies that own, operate, or finance income-producing real estate. Investing in REITs allows you to own a share of various real estate properties without directly owning them.
Real Estate Investments Type 5 of 7. House Hacking:
This strategy involves purchasing a multi-family home, living in one of the units, and renting out the others to cover your living expenses.
Real Estate Investments Type 6 of 7. Short-Term Rentals:
With platforms like AirBnB, you can profit from renting out your property on a short-term basis to travelers and tourists.
Real Estate Investments Type 7 of 7. Creative Financing:
This category includes various creative methods like lease options and seller financing to acquire real estate without a traditional mortgage.
Finding the right investment property is crucial. You'll want to consider factors like location, property condition, market trends, and potential for future growth. Local real estate agents and online resources can be valuable tools in your search.
But in this time and age, AI and data driven platforms such as www.EmpireBIGData.com makes it super simple to assess and analyze all these factors in one click.
Financing your real estate investment can be done through various means. These include traditional mortgages, hard money loans, private investors, and even your own savings. Conventionally, mortgages and cash might be your first thought of a funding source. But there are many other creative options that we will continue to discuss.
Managing a rental property involves handling tenants, maintenance, and finances. You can choose to do this yourself or hire a property management company to handle these tasks for you. When you do get to this level, it's better to structure the cost of property management into your deals.
Profits in real estate can come from rental income, property appreciation, and strategic buying and selling. It's important to have a clear plan and understand how your chosen investment strategy generates income.
Different strategies for real estate investing suit different goals. Evaluate your objectives and risk tolerance to determine which approach aligns best with your financial aspirations.
Finally, here are 7 tips to guide you on your real estate investment journey:
Tip Number 1 of 7. Do Your Research:
Knowledge is power in real estate. Take the time to learn about the market, property types, and investment strategies before jumping in.
Tip Number 2 of 7. Exit Before Entry:
Have a clear exit strategy in place before making an investment. Knowing how you'll profit or mitigate losses is essential.
Tip Number 3 of 7. Learn How to Find Deals:
Understanding how to identify great deals is a skill that can set you up for success. Networking, online listings, and real estate clubs can be helpful resources. And again, AI and data driven platforms such as www.EmpireBIGData.com makes it super simple to assess and analyze all these factors in one click.
Tip Number 4 of 7. Learn How to Fund Deals:
Explore various financing options and understand the pros and cons of each. Being well-financed is crucial for your real estate ventures.
Tip Number 5 of 7. Real Estate Agents Are Overrated:
While real estate agents can be helpful, they aren't always necessary, especially in the age of online listings. Don't hesitate to explore properties independently.
Tip Number 6 of 7. Be Patient:
Real estate investments may take time to yield significant returns. Avoid impulsive decisions and focus on the long-term gains.
Tip Number 7 of 7. Don't Overextend Yourself:
Avoid over-leveraging or investing beyond your means. Responsible financial management is key to a successful real estate journey. Saving such people was responsible for my first fleet of real estate success I enjoyed as a beginner in my first 3 years.
Real estate investment offers substantial rewards, such as generating income, building wealth, and providing a hedge against inflation. However, it also carries risks that must be carefully managed. Education and experience are your allies in navigating the world of real estate investing.
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"My marriage is over" You think your marriage is over? Is it Time to Let Go? 16 Signs Your Marriage Might Be Over
Hey there, Today, we're diving headfirst into a topic that might be a bit tough to tackle, but let's face it together. We're talking about a subject that's both delicate and crucial to address: the possibility that your marriage might be heading towards its final chapter.
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So, how can you tell if your marriage is on the rocks? We've compiled a list of 16 signs to help guide you through this challenging journey. Let's dive right in!
Sign Number 1. Indifference
Indifference in a marriage is a sign that the emotional connection and investment between partners have weakened or faded, often leading to a lack of affection, communication, and support.
Indifference, often referred to as the silent alarm. It's not just about the absence of arguments; it's about a lack of emotion altogether. When the spark you once shared starts to dim, it's time to pay attention.
Sign Number 2. Lack of Communication
A lack of communication in a marriage can be a telling sign that the relationship is in trouble, as healthy communication is the backbone of a strong partnership.
Sign Number 3. Constant Criticism
Constant criticism within a marriage can serve as a warning sign that the relationship is in jeopardy. While disagreements and constructive feedback are normal, a persistent pattern of criticism that outweighs positive interactions suggests deeper underlying issues.
Sign Number 4. Emotional Disconnection
Emotional disconnection in a marriage is a clear sign of trouble, indicating that the bond between partners has weakened significantly.
Sign Number 5. Unresolved Resentment
Unresolved resentment is a sign that a marriage is over because it can lead to a lack of intimacy, destructive behaviors, and loss of hope.
Sign Number 6. Lack of Intimacy
A lack of intimacy in a marriage can be a strong indicator that the relationship is in jeopardy. Intimacy encompasses emotional, physical, and sexual closeness, and when partners no longer share these aspects, it suggests a significant emotional disconnect.
Sign Number 7. Different Priorities
Different priorities can be a sign that a marriage is over because they can lead to conflict, frustration, and a lack of connection. When spouses have different priorities, they may not be able to agree on how to spend their time, money, or energy. This can lead to arguments and resentment, which can damage the relationship.
Sign Number 8. Avoidance of Problems
Avoidance of problems within a marriage can be a concerning sign that the relationship is facing challenges. When partners consistently sidestep or ignore important issues rather than addressing them, it indicates a breakdown in effective communication and conflict resolution.
Sign Number 9. Defensive Behavior
Defensive behavior is a sign that a marriage is over because it can lead to communication breakdown, resentment, and a lack of trust. When one spouse is constantly defensive, it can be difficult to have a productive conversation.
Sign Number 10. Lack of Trust
A lack of trust within a marriage is a significant red flag that the relationship is in a vulnerable state. Trust is the cornerstone of a healthy partnership, and when partners begin to doubt each other's honesty, intentions, or actions, it creates a toxic atmosphere of suspicion and insecurity.
Sign Number 11. Absence of Support
Absence of support is a sign that a marriage is over because it can lead to feelings of isolation, loneliness, and despair. When one spouse does not feel supported by the other, they may feel like they are going through tough times alone.
Sign Number 12. Growing Apart
Growing apart within a marriage is a clear indication that the relationship is facing challenges. As individuals evolve over time, it's essential for partners to grow together and maintain shared interests and goals.
Sign Number 13. Loneliness in Company
Loneliness in company is a sign that a marriage is over because it can lead to a lack of intimacy, disconnection, and a feeling of being misunderstood. When you feel lonely even when you are with your spouse, it means that you are not feeling emotionally or physically connected to them. This can be a sign that the marriage is in trouble.
Sign Number 14. Resisting Compromise
Resisting compromise within a marriage is a concerning sign that the partnership is in trouble. Successful marriages thrive on cooperation, flexibility, and mutual understanding.
Sign Number 15. Frequent Blame Game
Frequent blame-game is a sign that a marriage is over because it can lead to increased conflict, resentment, and a lack of trust. When spouses are constantly blaming each other for problems, it can be difficult to have a productive conversation.
Sign Number 16. Imagining a Future Alone
Imagining a future alone is a poignant indication that a marriage may be coming to an end. In a thriving partnership, both individuals envision a shared future together.
Coping with a failing marriage can be a real rollercoaster. It's okay to lean on your support system, whether it's your friends, family, or a wise counselor. You're not alone on this path.
And remember, addressing both the emotional and legal aspects is vital. Wise counsel can help you navigate your feelings, while legal advice can guide you through the complexities of the divorce process if that's the path you choose.
But wait, before you make any big decisions, remember that your marriage doesn't have to be over. We've been through challenging times too, and there are resources out there to help you navigate this tough spot.
Download our free books and consider booking a consultation at www.GetMyMarriageBack.com ... Take advantage of these resources to ensure you're making the best choice for your future.
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The 9 Components You NEED for Real Estate Fortune Inside Contracts for Wholesaling Real Estate!
If you've embarked on the exciting journey into the world of wholesaling and understanding the contracts for wholesaling real estate are on your mind, fear not.
We're here to provide you with a comprehensive understanding of everything related to these contracts. Let's unravel these mysteries and equip you with the knowledge you need to navigate this exciting venture.
But First, What is Wholesaling Real Estate All About?
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Wholesaling real estate is essentially acting as the middle-person in a real estate transaction. It involves identifying undervalued properties, securing them under a real estate sales contract, and then transferring or assigning this contract to another buyer for a fee.
It's a win-win-win scenario—a win for the original property seller, a win for you as the wholesaler, and a win for the end buyer.
Wholesaling real estate can be a win for the original property seller for 6 main reasons:
Reason Number 1 - Quick Sale: Wholesaling offers a speedy way to get rid of a property that has represented a headache for its owner.
The wholesaler typically finds a buyer quickly because they are often part of a network of investors actively looking for properties.
This swift transaction can be beneficial for sellers who want to sell their property promptly.
Reason Number 2 - Reduced Hassle: Wholesalers often handle administrative tasks and negotiations, taking the burden off the seller. Sellers may appreciate the simplicity of dealing with a single buyer (the wholesaler) rather than numerous potential buyers.
Reason Number 3 - Assured Sale: The wholesaler typically signs a contract that legally obligates them to purchase the property. This assurance provides a level of certainty to the original seller, knowing that the deal is likely to go through; in exchange for a price much lower than the fair market value.
Reason Number 4 - Avoiding Marketing Costs: Selling a property often involves marketing efforts, which can be expensive and time-consuming. When working with a wholesaler, sellers can bypass these marketing costs and efforts since the wholesaler is responsible for finding the end buyer.
Reason Number 5 - No Repairs or Improvements: Wholesalers usually purchase the property in its current condition, eliminating the need for the seller to invest time and money into repairs or renovations to make the property more attractive to buyers.
Reason Number 6 and 6th reason so far to hit the like, share, subscribe and turn on all notifications to be notified when I drop the next video - Flexible Terms: Wholesalers may offer flexible terms and conditions to the seller, making the process more accommodating based on the seller's needs and circumstances.
In essence, wholesaling real estate offers a streamlined, efficient, and convenient process for sellers, providing them with a viable option to sell their property swiftly without the challenges and uncertainties often associated with traditional selling methods. To make this possible, particular types of contracts are essential.
Contracts play a pivotal role in wholesaling real estate, and there are two main types you need to be familiar with:
Contract Type Number 1 - Real Estate Sales Contract:
The Real Estate Sales Contract, often referred to as a purchase agreement or purchase and sale agreement, is the cornerstone of any real estate transaction, including wholesaling.
This contract represents the initial step in the wholesaling process, setting the entire deal into motion.
Contract Type Number 2 - Assignment Contract:
The Assignment Contract, also known as a purchase agreement addendum or assignment of contract, plays a pivotal role in real estate wholesaling.
It enables the wholesaler to transfer the rights and responsibilities of the original sales contract to another party, allowing for the potential assignment of the deal.
Once you have the contract type 1 in place, it's time to seal the deal. There are two popular approaches:
Approach Number 1 - Assignment Closing:
The Assignment Closing approach is a streamlined and efficient method in real estate wholesaling. It involves the use of two key contracts: the original executed real estate sales contract and an assignment contract. Here's a breakdown of how it works.
The wholesaler begins by securing a property under a real estate sales contract with the original seller. This contract establishes the terms and conditions of the purchase.
After securing the sales contract, the wholesaler identifies another buyer (assignee) who is interested in purchasing the property.
The wholesaler then enters into an assignment contract with the assignee. This contract transfers the equitable rights and obligations of the original sales contract to the new buyer, making them the new buyer under the terms agreed upon in the original contract.
In exchange for transferring the contract rights, the wholesaler receives an assignment fee from the assignee. This fee represents the wholesaler's profit in the deal.
The deal is closed, and the property is transferred from the original seller to the new buyer. The wholesaler's involvement ends at this point, and they walk away with the assignment fee.
This approach is popular for its simplicity and speed. It allows wholesalers to profit from a deal without the need for significant financial investment, making it an attractive option for those starting in real estate wholesaling.
The reflection in the closing statement, may lead to certain types of financing imposing a cap on the assignment fees, typically around $10,000 to $15,000. That can be avoided with approach number 2.
Approach Number 2 - Double Closing:
The Double Closing approach, although involving more paperwork and coordination, can potentially result in higher profits for the wholesaler. Here's a detailed look at how it operates:
The wholesaler signs an assignable contract (i.e has an assignment clause) with the original seller (the property owner) just as in a typical real estate transaction. This contract establishes the terms and conditions of the purchase from the seller.
The wholesaler then enters into a separate sales contract with the end buyer. This contract outlines the terms of the sale between the wholesaler and the end buyer.
The closing for both contracts is coordinated to happen concurrently or within a short time-frame. This involves careful scheduling and coordination to ensure a smooth transition of ownership.
The wholesaler may fund the purchase from the original seller using their funds or a temporary transactional funding source.
The end buyer funds their purchase through their financing or other means.
Predatory lending laws could restrict the utilization of identical funds for both transactions, while mortgage regulations might bar an end buyer from financing a property transferred within the previous 6 months through a mortgage financing.
The wholesaler closes the purchase from the original seller, acquiring the property.
Using the proceeds from the end buyer, the wholesaler immediately resells the property in a subsequent closing to the end buyer at a higher price.
The difference between the purchase price from the original seller and the selling price to the end buyer represents the wholesaler's profit minus closing costs.
This approach allows wholesalers to maximize their profit potential by capitalizing on the spread between the two transaction prices.
Although it involves more paperwork and potentially higher costs, it can lead to greater financial gains for the wholesaler.
Both approaches have their merits and are chosen based on the wholesaler's financial capacity, risk tolerance, and overall strategy in the real estate wholesaling venture.
What Is The Significance of an Assignable Real Estate Contract?
The assignable real estate contract is a crucial tool in the wholesaling world. It secures your stake, or equitable interest, in a property until you find the right end buyer. It's akin to having a reserved seat at the real estate table. With that being said:
Here are The Contract Must-Haves: 9 Items to Check Off
When choosing sales contracts for wholesaling real estate, make sure to include these essential components:
Item Number 1 - Party Names (Buyer and Seller): Clearly specify the involved parties to avoid any confusion.
Item Number 2 - Assignment Clause: This is the linchpin that enables you to transfer the contract, enhancing the deal.
Item Number 3 - Property Information: Provide detailed information about the property to ensure clarity for all parties involved.
Item Number 4 - Purchase Price: Clearly state the agreed-upon purchase price, as it's a critical aspect of the contract.
Item Number 5 - Target Closing Date: Set a realistic closing date to establish a timeline for the transaction.
Item Number 6 - Earnest Money Deposit (EMD): Demonstrate your commitment by including a deposit, showcasing your seriousness about the deal.
Item Number 7 - Financing: Lay out the financing details to establish a clear financial framework.
Item Number 8 - Contingencies: Address potential contingencies to ensure all bases are covered and reduce risks.
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Item Number 9 - Signatures of Both Parties: Ensure that the contract is legally binding by obtaining signatures from all involved parties.
The Importance of the Assignment Clause In Contract for Wholesaling Real Estate
The Assignment Clause is a pivotal element of the original sales contract that grants you the authority to transfer contract rights and responsibilities to the end buyer.
In conclusion, understanding contracts for wholesaling real estate is paramount to success in this industry. With the right contracts and knowledge, you can navigate the real estate market with confidence and skill.
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I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
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Welcome to our comprehensive guide to real estate investing – the ultimate ticket to financial freedom! Whether you're new to the game or looking to expand your investment horizons, you're in the right place. So let's dive right in!
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You've probably heard about investment portfolios – those magical collections of assets that can help you ride the wave of financial success. Well, guess what? Real estate is your golden ticket to building wealth that's more stable than your grandma's rocking chair.
Now, imagine your investment portfolio as a delicious blend of stocks, bonds, mutual funds, and, of course, the superstar of them all – real estate! Balancing potential returns and risks is the name of the game here.
And speaking of real estate, it's more than just cozy homes. It's an umbrella that covers everything from skyscrapers to warehouses. Think of it like a puzzle – you've got the land, the buildings, and all those little improvements that make it shine.
Yep, improvements – those upgrades that boost a property's value and charm. It's like giving your home a stylish makeover. And guess what? This concept applies to both your cozy single family homes and that sleek commercial building downtown.
Now, when it comes to real estate, we're not just talking about land – we're talking about the whole package. Imagine the land as the canvas and the structures as the masterpiece that's painted upon it.
And here's the scoop: real estate investing is the flavor of the season. You can finally say goodbye to inflation worries and hello to boosting your net worth like a pro!
And guess what? Real estate is no pushover. It's not just holding its ground over time; it's giving other investments a run for their money. Stocks, cryptocurrencies, forex – they're all in the ring, but real estate? It's the heavyweight champion!
Let's break it down with some numbers, shall we? So, stocks might dance around 7% average annual return, but real estate?
It's got its own rhythm, averaging between 5-7%.
And hey, unlike stocks, real estate doesn't let you make impulsive decisions – it's got a built-in restraint, like a trusty seatbelt for your financial journey.
Cryptocurrencies? Well, they're like the rollercoaster of investments – one moment up, the next moment down. And as for forex, it's like spinning a globe and trying to predict the future. But real estate? It's that reliable old friend you can count on.
Now, you might be thinking, "Hey, I'm new to this party. Can I really join?" Absolutely! You don't need a suitcase full of cash; all you need is the right mindset, a dash of time, and a sprinkle of knowledge.
The best part? Starting out gives you an edge. Seasoned investors might be juggling a lot, but you? You've got the luxury of time and the thrill of picking your path.
And guess what? You don't need a vault full of gold bars to snag a seat at the real estate table. Even a humble couple of thousand dollars can kick-start your journey. All you need is the right strategy and a splash of know-how.
Now, before we wrap up, are you wondering if taking the real estate plunge is worth it? It's like asking if ice cream on a hot day is a good idea – absolutely! With the right approach, your investments can work harder for you.
And for those of you thinking, "But my wallet's feeling light," No worries! We've got a step-by-step guide for you to invest with little to no money. Get ready to be amazed!
Ready for the ultimate real estate investing journey? Let's get into the nitty-gritty with our step-by-step guide!
Step 1: Educate Yourself. Before you leap, learn! Dive into some real estate investing books.
Get my books. They are FREE... "Smart Real Estate Wholesaling" and "Real Estate Money Secrets" – they're your guides to success.
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Step 2: Embrace Technology. Get cozy with technology – it's your real estate ally. Explore apps like the one I use and recommend at www.EmpireBigData.com for property records and analysis tools that'll make you a deal-spotting wizard.
Step 3: Network and Mentorship. Connect like a pro! Networking is your secret sauce. It's how I started in 2005, scouring newspapers for meetups. Today, social media makes it even easier to build a community.
Step 4: Get Creative with Financing. You don't need a money tree to invest. Wholesale real estate, explore seller financing, or dive into lease options. The world of real estate is your oyster.
Step 5: Meet REITs. Meet Real Estate Investment Trusts (REITs) – your ticket to investing without buying properties. These companies are like your backstage pass to real estate riches.
Step 6: Invest Your Sweat Equity. Got skills? Put 'em to work! Partner up, offer your expertise, and watch your investment grow, just like that cozy bungalow you've got your eye on.
Step 7: Join Forces with Joint Ventures. Teamwork makes the dream work! Partner with experienced investors who've got the funds, and you've got the energy and skills. It's a win-win.
In fact, downloading my books for free at www.RealEstateMoneySecrets.com is the very first step to partnering with us here.
Step 8: Master the Art of Negotiation. Negotiation is your secret weapon. Learn the ropes, focus on distressed properties, and swoop in for the win.
Step 9: House Hacking. Imagine living in a place that pays for itself! House hacking lets you do just that. Live in a multi-unit property and rent out the other units – covering your living expenses while building equity and gaining real estate experience.
But wait, we're not done yet! There's still more to uncover in this real estate adventure. Are you ready?
Step 10: Continuous Learning and Adaptation. Markets change, strategies evolve, and innovations pop up like daisies. It's important to stay informed, adapt to new trends, and keep learning about this dynamic world of real estate.
Remember, while it's possible to invest in real estate with little to no money, it requires dedication, resourcefulness, and a willingness to learn. And we've made that super-simple with access to the free books, "Smart Real Estate Wholesaling" and "Real Estate Money Secrets" at www.RealEstateMoneySecrets.com
By utilizing creative strategies and leveraging available resources, you can begin your real estate investing journey and work towards building wealth over time.
So there you have it, the ultimate 10-step guide to real estate investing! From learning the ropes to networking, from creative financing to house hacking – you're armed with all the tools you need to embark on this exciting journey.
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Hey There. This is OLA. Today, we're diving into more wholesale real estate, and I'm here to be your guide. So grab a seat, because we're about to uncover the best wholesale real estate books that will pave your path to triumph.
But before we dive into these treasure troves of knowledge, let's break down the basics of wholesale real estate in a way that even your grandma would get it.
Imagine you're at a warehouse store, grabbing a massive bag of your favorite chips at a discounted price. Now, picture selling those individual bags to your pals at a slightly higher rate but still cheaper than what they'd pay at a convenience store. Well, that's the essence of wholesale real estate – but instead of chips, we're dealing with houses!
Wholesale real estate is a smart strategy. You, yes you, become the middle-person, connecting motivated sellers who need to sell quickly with investors hungry for prime real estate opportunities. Your role is to secure properties at prices lower than what savvy investors would pay, and then, like a matchmaker, connect the seller and investor for a win-win situation.
And guess what? I've personally scored a whopping $82,000 net profit from a single deal using this method! But wait, there's more to it than meets the eye.
Wholesale real estate isn't just about connecting buyers and sellers. It's about understanding the market, finding motivated sellers, and honing your negotiation skills. It's a blend of detective work, interpersonal finesse, and real estate expertise all rolled into one exciting adventure!
So, whether you're a beginner dipping your toes into real estate or a seasoned investor, wholesale real estate is your ticket to some serious gains. It's a win-win for everyone involved: sellers get quick sales, investors score great deals, and you – the clever middleperson – pocket a well-deserved fee.
Ready to learn more? Well, here comes the best part! I've handpicked an assortment of remarkable wholesale real estate books that will skyrocket your expertise. Let's kick things off with a must-read:
Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 1: "The Book on Investing in Real Estate with No (and Low) Money Down" by the incredible Brandon Turner. This gem isn't solely about wholesale real estate, but it's loaded with creative financing insights that have been game-changers in my own deals.
Creative financing, my friend, is the secret sauce that adds flavor to your real estate game. It's about thinking outside the box to make deals happen when traditional financing options fall short. Seller financing, lease-options, subject-to deals – it's like a buffet of innovative strategies that empower you to secure properties on your terms. And now, let's talk about...
Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 2: "Wholesaling Real Estate: A Beginner's Guide" by Brent Driscoll. This book is a true gem for newbies like me, packed with foundational wisdom and practical tips that even beginners can apply. Next up...
Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 3: We have "Flip Your Future: How to Quit Your Job, Live Your Dreams, And Make Six Figures Your First Year Flipping Real Estate" by Ryan Pineda. This powerhouse read doesn't just cover flipping, but also offers golden insights for successful wholesaling. Six-figure dreams, here we come!
Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 4: "The Wholesale Truth: Real Estate Investing in the Modern World" by Vena Jones-Cox and Brent Driscoll – a treasure trove of wisdom for wholesale real estate enthusiasts. From finding deals to mastering negotiations, this guide is your ultimate resource for becoming a pro. And let's not forget..
Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 5: "If You Can't Wholesale After This: I've Got Nothing For You" by Todd M. Fleming. It's a no-nonsense, straight-to-the-point book that breaks down the wholesale process with practical advice. It's like having a seasoned mentor right at your fingertips.
But hold on tight, because there's a surprise waiting for you! As a thank-you gesture, I'm offering my very own authored books for FREE! "Smart Real Estate Wholesaling" and "Real Estate Money Secrets" are up for grabs. You can go to www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com to download your copies.
These reads will equip you with the knowledge and skills needed to conquer wholesale real estate. From foundational principles to insider strategies, these books are your compass for navigating this exciting journey.
Happy reading, happy investing, and remember – success awaits those who dare to take the leap into the world of wholesale real estate!
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Hey there, everyone! Welcome back to our channel. Today, we've got a topic that's been buzzing in the comments section – the connection between menopause, intimacy, and its impact on marriage. You asked, and we're here to discuss. But first, let's dive into some intriguing comments from our viewers, Gregory and Deshaun, on our previous video "Is Sexless Marriage Grounds for Divorce in the Bible?" Stick around, because we're about to have a heart-to-heart about this important issue.
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Gregory's Comment: "My wife, once she's gone through menopause, doesn't want to be intimate with me. To me, it sounds like an excuse. I've heard about older women still having sex in their old age."
Deshaun's Comment: In answering the question of "if sexless marriage is grounds for divorce in the bible? She says... "Most definitely , and it’s a two-way street. I just left a 12-year sex-less marriage. It was the most humiliating, dehumanizing experience ever!"
We'll be addressing these insightful comments in just a moment. So, grab a cozy spot, because we're about to have a candid and informative discussion about the effects of menopause on intimacy and relationships. Let's jump in!
Alright, let's start by understanding what menopause really is. Menopause is a natural phase in a woman's life, signaling the end of her reproductive years. During this time, the ovaries gradually produce fewer hormones, leading to the cessation of menstrual periods. Usually occurring between 45 and 55, menopause brings along various changes – not just physically, but emotionally too.
Now, let's review what exactly a sexless marriage is. A sexless marriage is generally defined as a relationship where couples have minimal or no sexual activity for an extended period. Keep in mind, what's considered "sexless" can vary from couple to couple, depending on individual preferences and needs. But that's a tricky definition too. Let me explain.
If you or (not and)... or your partner is feeling disconnected in this department, it is a sign to address the situation. Feeling like a detective uncovering the emotional side of menopause? I've got you covered.
Gregory's comment got us thinking. Menopause doesn't just bring physical changes; it can also stir up emotions. Like those teenage mood swings, menopause can lead to shifts in libido and self-perception. Hormonal changes, body image concerns, and self-confidence matters can all play a part in the mix.
So, how do you navigate a sexless marriage after 60? Let's talk solutions! Deshaun's candid experience reminds us that it's no walk in the park. Communication is key. Open, respectful conversations about needs and concerns (though easier said than done) can bridge the gap. Seeking professional guidance is also a great step to tackle this tough phase together; you will need the support--trust me!
Now, let's talk about the elephant in the room – how does a sexless marriage affect husbands and wives? Just like the effect on wives, a sexless marriage can have a profound impact on husbands too.
Emotional distress, self-esteem issues, communication breakdown, and doubts about connection – husbands can experience these, plus potential effects on their mental and physical health. It's a reminder that this isn't a one-sided journey as Deshaun mentioned in her comment.
Feeling the need to reignite the spark after menopause? We've got some tips for you. Gregory's concern about post-menopause intimacy isn't uncommon. Remember, it's not just about physical stimulation. Emotional connection, making your partner feel desired – these are essential. Exploring new forms of intimacy, like focused touch and romantic gestures, can be a game-changer.
Deshaun's experience highlights the importance of both partners engaging self awareness and keeping the flame alive. From surprising date nights to exploring fantasies, there's a world of ways to spice up your married life. Communication, experimentation, and a sprinkle of your own special charm – it's all in the mix!
To all our fantastic viewers, and especially, Gregory and Deshaun, thank you for sharing your thoughts. You've opened up a crucial dialogue about intimacy, menopause, and marriage. Remember, every relationship is a unique journey. Patience, understanding, and communication are your allies. Don't compare your path to others'. Seek guidance ... You need the support when your personal emotions are engaged, and always remember – the heart of a fulfilling marriage is built on emotional connection, respect, and genuine care for one another.
That's it for today's chat! Don't forget to hit that like button, share and subscribe for more insightful discussions. If you enjoyed this video, you will love the one that just popped up on the screen right here. Until next time, keep those conversations going, and take care!
When examining the question, "Is a sexless marriage biblical grounds for divorce?" In the context of the Bible's teachings, it's important to consider various factors that impact relationships and intimacy within marriage. This is OLA. LOLA is doing well. Thanks for asking.
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Sexless marriages are a reality that some couples face, and understanding how biblical principles relate to this issue requires a nuanced approach.
In fact, I was just listening to a video where some men referred to one form of this same problem as duty-booty.
This is a situation where one of the spouses is not really interested in sexual activity but would indulge purely as a dutiful responsibility.
You can expect that it would wear completely off with time. The truth is that this is a struggle for many married couples.
So What Does The Bible Say?
The Bible does not explicitly mention sexless marriages as grounds for divorce, but it does provide guidance on the importance of intimacy, love, and mutual respect within a marital relationship.
The Biblical Perspective on Intimacy and Love:
Throughout the Bible, there is a consistent emphasis on the significance of physical and emotional intimacy within marriage.
The Song of Solomon, for instance, beautifully portrays the love and desire shared between a husband and wife.
Additionally, verses such as 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 highlight the mutual responsibility spouses have to fulfill each other's needs and to avoid depriving one another of intimacy.
“Verse 3: The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.
Verse 4: For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
Verse 5: Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”
The Importance of Communication and Understanding:
When faced with a sexless marriage, open communication and understanding between spouses become crucial.
Engaging in honest (admittedly and perhaps awkward) conversations about each partner's sexual needs, desires, and emotional challenges can lead to a deeper understanding of the situation and potential solutions.
Seek Support and Professional Help:
For Christian couples struggling with intimacy issues, seeking guidance from trusted church leaders or professional counselors who align with biblical principles can be beneficial.
These individuals can provide insight and support in addressing the root causes of the problem and working towards solutions that align with the couple's faith.
Emphasize Unconditional Love and Grace:
The Bible encourages love and grace within relationships as opposed to the now-popular misguided boundaries that couples are now setting on each other nowadays.
Recognizing that no marriage is perfect, spouses should strive to extend grace and understanding to each other.
Instead of rushing into divorce, couples are encouraged to prayerfully seek resolutions and healing through patience, forgiveness, and commitment to growth.
In conclusion…
While the Bible doesn't explicitly designate a sexless marriage as grounds for divorce, it does emphasize the importance of intimacy, love, and respect within marriage.
When faced with this challenge, it is essential for Christian couples to approach the issue with prayer, communication, understanding, and a commitment to strengthen their bond; it's all a camouflaged opportunity.
Seeking professional help and support from the faith community can also aid couples in navigating through difficult times.
Remember, God's ultimate desire is for marriages to thrive and reflect His love and grace.
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Are you a real estate wholesaler looking to skyrocket your profits?
Well, get ready because we're about to unveil a game-changing strategy that can take your wholesaling business to new heights.
But quickly... Let's talk about 'Double Closing: A Real Estate Wholesaling Strategy That Works'!
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Today, we're diving deep into the world of double closings—a powerful technique that can help you close real estate deals like a pro.
But wait, what exactly is double closing? Let's break it down.
Double closing is when a real estate wholesaler purchases a property from a seller and immediately resells it to an end buyer, often within a matter of minutes.
So there are two sides of the transaction; Side A and Side B.
Side A is the side of the transaction that transfers title from the seller to you as the wholesaler. While Side B is the side of the transaction that transfers title from you, the wholesaler, to the end buyer.
This means you can earn a profit on the deal without even taking long term ownership of the property or paying any closing costs. How amazing is that?
Now, before you get too excited, let's talk about the risks. Double closing is not without its challenges. If the end buyer backs out, you could find yourself stuck with the property or what we call the equitable right that you can't cash out on.
But don't worry, we've got you covered. Our coaching program will show you how to protect yourself and navigate the complexities of double closings.
To ensure a smooth transaction, it's crucial to involve experienced professionals, like a real estate attorney and title agent, who understand the process inside out.
One of the most significant advantages of double closing is speed. Time is money in the real estate world, and double closings can help you close deals in just days or even hours because it's typically all-cash.
Imagine turning a profit and moving on to the next deal without the usual costs and hassles of owning real estate. Double closing is a game-changer that is still understood but only a few-selected!
Let's talk benefits! Quicker closings, increased profits, and reduced risk—these are just a few of the perks you can enjoy with double closings.
But remember, success lies in the details. Let's walk through the five essential steps of a double closing: find a motivated seller, negotiate a purchase price, get the property under contract, find an end buyer, and close the deal with both parties.
Now, we hear you! You're probably wondering about the potential risks. But fear not, with our expert guidance, you'll be equipped to tackle any challenges that may come your way.
To ensure smooth sailing, we've got four crucial tips for your first double closing: research, find a reliable real estate attorney, transparent communication, and always be prepared to walk away if the deal doesn't align with your goals.
And here's the exciting part! We're offering a comprehensive masterclass at www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com to help you master the art of double closings and take your real estate wholesaling to a whole new level. In fact, you get 3 free books as soon as you register for the class.
Are you ready to revolutionize your wholesaling business? Join our masterclass and gain access to step-by-step guidance and valuable resources on double closings.
Don't miss this golden opportunity! Click the link in the description or around this video to learn more and secure your spot in our exclusive masterclass at www.smartrealestatewholesaling.com
Subscribe to the channel for more game-changing real estate tips and strategies. Like this video if you found it valuable, and share it with your fellow wholesalers. And if you like this video, you will like the video popping on the screen right now. Check it out.
Until next time, happy wholesaling!
Hey there.. Prestige Family. We all know trust is the rock-solid foundation of any successful relationship. It's what keeps the flame of love burning bright! Hey, sometimes life throws us a curveball, and trust can take a hit.
But fear not! Today, we've got a treasure trove of 23 effective ways to fix and rebuild trust in your relationship. From understanding the dynamics of trust to unleashing the power of open communication and vulnerability ...these strategies will guide you on the challenging path of rebuilding trust, even if you have to start alone. Let's strengthen those bonds, ignite the passion, and build unbreakable trust, one step at a time!
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As usual, we will focus on what you can control and not diagnose the side of the story that we do not know. Let's dive in.
- Understand the Importance of Trust
Recognize the significance of trust in a relationship – it affects emotional well-being and the overall health of the bond. Trust is the bedrock that holds everything together, fostering love, intimacy, and growth. When shattered, it leads to emotional turmoil. Rebuilding trust demands patience, commitment, and a genuine desire to repair what's broken. Let's embark on the path to rebuilding trust, one step at a time!
- Accept Responsibility
Own up to your actions if trust is broken. Admit your mistakes, express remorse, and show commitment to making amends. Taking responsibility demonstrates integrity and paves the way for open communication and healing. Embrace this opportunity to grow and rebuild trust in your relationship.
- Open and Honest Communication
Establish open and honest communication with your partner. Encourage candid conversations about feelings and concerns, while practicing active listening and empathy. When both partners feel heard and validated, trust flourishes, deepening the emotional connection in your relationship. Let your communication be a beacon of trust, guiding your journey towards understanding each other's hearts and minds.
- Practice Active Listening
Master the art of listening to your partner – it shows respect and value for their perspective. Avoid interrupting or getting defensive during discussions, as it hinders trust-building. Instead, give them your undivided attention, respond with empathy, and reflect back to ensure understanding. Active listening fosters a deeper connection, creating a safe and open atmosphere. Let your partner know their words are cherished and trusted in your relationship.
- Express Empathy
Empathy is the superpower of trust-building. Step into your partner's shoes, grasp their emotions and perspective. Validate their feelings, creating a bridge of connection and deepening trust between you both.
- Rebuild Integrity
Integrity is the cornerstone of trust. Walk the talk and align your actions with your words. Consistently acting with honesty and keeping promises shows reliability, fostering security and dependability. Embrace integrity as your guiding principle on this trust-building journey, transforming your connection with your partner.
- Apologize Sincerely
A genuine apology works wonders in rebuilding trust. Take responsibility, express remorse, and show dedication to healing and making amends.
- Patience and Time
Rebuilding trust is a gradual process that requires both partners to be patient and committed. Trust cannot be rebuilt overnight, but with genuine effort and understanding, it can be nurtured and strengthened over time, paving the way for a stronger and more resilient relationship.
- Establish Boundaries
Boundaries are the trust-safeguarding fence in a relationship, providing safety and respect. Openly discussing expectations nurtures trust and understanding. Remember, applying boundaries is an art, not an exact science. Focus on managing your expectations and giving your partner unlimited freedom to express their expectations.
- Demonstrate Reliability
Reliability is the backbone of trust. Show up consistently, keep promises, and build a foundation of dependability. Small gestures reinforce the connection and create a sense of security in the relationship.
- Avoid Deception
Wisdom guides trust-building. Be authentic, consider emotions, and balance truthfulness with sensitivity in communication. Embrace wisdom to build a bond grounded in trust.
- Seek Professional Help
Seek professional support for rebuilding trust. Therapists, counselors, or coaches offer fresh insights and effective tools to overcome challenges, fostering open communication and healing.
- Practice Forgiveness
In the journey of rebuilding trust, practicing forgiveness is a transformative act of healing. While it may be challenging, work towards forgiveness, without imposing unrealistic expectations on yourself or your partner. Remember, forgiveness is a deeply personal process.
- Build Self-Trust
Before trusting others, it's essential to cultivate trust within yourself. Prioritize self-care, set healthy boundaries, and follow through on your commitments to strengthen your self-trust.
As you become more confident in your own integrity, trusting others becomes a natural extension, fostering a solid and authentic foundation of trust in your relationship.
- Be Accountable
Accountability is a cornerstone of trust in a relationship.
It's about owning up to your mistakes and taking responsibility for your actions. When you show your partner that you are committed to personal growth and positive change, it not only rebuilds trust but also strengthens the bond of mutual respect and admiration.
- Be Transparent
Embrace transparency to rebuild trust while respecting personal boundaries and privacy. Find a balance that fosters trust and understanding, deepening your connection with your partner.
- Demonstrate Consistency
Consistency is the key to rebuilding trust. Align your words and actions to show reliability and commitment, fostering safety and stability in your relationship. Let your actions speak louder than words on this trust-building journey.
- Show Appreciation
In rebuilding trust, genuine appreciation for your partner's efforts is like watering trust's seeds, fostering a deeper emotional connection. Recognize their vulnerability, reinforcing their value in your life. Appreciation nurtures a strong foundation of trust.
- Practice Empathy
Empathy is trust-building's heart, bridging the gap with your partner. Understand their pain and emotions by putting yourself in their shoes. Genuine empathy fosters healing, understanding, and deeper emotional connection, rebuilding trust.
- Let Go of Resentment
To rebuild trust, release past resentments and anger. Carrying grudges hinders healing and growth. Embrace forgiveness for a brighter future together, free from past grievances.
- Initiate Couples Activities
Shared activities strengthen the bond and trust in a relationship. Enjoy hobbies, date nights, and new experiences together to create positive memories, enhance emotional connection and erase the effects of bad experiences.
- Focus on Self-Improvement
Prioritize self-improvement in rebuilding trust. Invest in emotional intelligence, communication skills, and self-awareness to navigate challenges and foster a more fulfilling connection with your partner. Your individual growth strengthens the relationship and builds trust and harmony.
- Celebrate Progress
Celebrate every step forward in rebuilding trust. Each small victory strengthens your commitment and nurtures a stronger relationship. Embrace the journey of progress, and trust will flourish, fostering a more resilient and loving bond.
As you've learned, rebuilding trust is a journey that demands dedication and compassion from both partners.
By embracing the strategies outlined above – from open communication to practicing forgiveness and empathy – you can begin to mend the fractures in your relationship and nurture a deeper connection with your loved one.
We have been through this rebuilding trust in a relationship. So if you're ready to take the next step in restoring trust and strengthening your bond, we invite you to download our free book "Get My Marriage Back."
Packed with practical tools, and our real-life success stories, this book offers invaluable insights to guide you on the path to healing, seducing your partner, boosting attraction and rebuilding a loving, lasting relationship with your romantic partner.
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He yells at you? If this is you, I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing difficulties with your husband. I can only imagine how confusing this period is for your marriage. Yelling can be distressing and detrimental to a relationship for either side but I need to highlight some differences in its effects when it comes to which side; husband or wife.
In this video, we will explore 5 effective tips to address and resolve this issue permanently, creating a healthier and more harmonious relationship. Let's dive in!
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Tip #5: Stay Safe
When faced with a situation where your husband yells at you, it is important to prioritize your safety above all else. While yelling itself can be emotionally harmful, if it escalates to physical threats or violence, it becomes even more critical to take immediate action. Your well-being is of utmost importance, and you deserve to be in a safe and secure environment. If you ever feel physically threatened or unsafe, it is crucial to seek help right away. One way to do this is by reaching out to domestic abuse hotlines in your area.
These hotlines are staffed by trained professionals who can provide you with support, guidance, and resources. They can help you develop a safety plan and connect you with local services that can assist you in navigating the situation. It is important to have the information for domestic abuse hotlines readily available, even if you don't currently feel an immediate need for it. Abusive situations can often escalate gradually but seemingly fast, and having the contact information on hand ensures that you can access help quickly if the need arises. Remember, prevention is key.
By being proactive and seeking support before the situation worsens, you are taking an important step towards safeguarding yourself.
If you are unsure of the hotline numbers in your area, a simple online search using keywords like "domestic abuse hotline" along with your location can provide you with the necessary information. Please remember that my purpose is to provide information and support, but I am not a substitute for professional help. If you find yourself in an emergency or immediate danger, please reach out to your local authorities or call emergency services right away. Your safety is of paramount importance.
Tip #4: It's Not Your Fault
Human relationships, especially those involving romantic partnerships, are intricate and multifaceted. Conflicts are an inevitable part of any relationship, and it's important to remember that when your husband yells at you, it is not automatically your fault. Blaming yourself for his behavior is not productive for your emotional well-being. It's essential to recognize that conflicts arise due to a multitude of factors. Communication breakdowns, differing perspectives, past experiences, and personal triggers can all contribute to conflicts within a relationship.
It is rarely a simple matter of assigning blame to one person. By acknowledging that conflicts are a natural part of human interactions, you can begin to release the burden of self-blame. This shift in perspective allows you to approach the issue with a more balanced and compassionate mindset. Instead of internalizing the blame, focus on addressing the conflict in a healthy and respectful manner. When conflicts arise, it is crucial to engage in open and honest communication with your husband once you feel safe. Express your feelings and concerns without resorting to blaming or accusing language.
Use "I" statements to convey how his yelling affects you personally. For example, “I don’t feel safe when you yell like that.” By sharing your emotions and experiences, you create an opportunity for understanding and more importantly for him to solve a problem from a prospective of feeling needed. It's also important to recognize that conflicts often require no more than one person’s effort towards the direction of resolution. Sure! While it may not be entirely your husband's fault, he also bears responsibility for his behavior and its impact on the relationship. But that is not it.
This is an opportunity to involve a little seduction skills which will give you an opportunity to earn a higher level of romantic interest and attraction here. It will also encourage open dialogue where both of you can express your perspectives, actively listen to each other, and work together to find constructive and more sustainable solutions. Seeking the support of a coach or counselor can be immensely beneficial in navigating conflicts and improving communication within your relationship.
A trained professional can help you as an individual gain insight into the underlying issues and provide guidance on healthier ways to address conflicts and express emotions even if you have to start alone. Remember, conflicts are a normal part of relationships, but it's crucial to approach them with understanding, empathy, and a commitment to finding resolutions that honor your well-being first and subsequently his. By letting go of self-blame and embracing a collaborative approach, you can work towards a healthier and more harmonious relationship.
Tip #3: Engage Your Power
When faced with a situation where your husband yells at you, it is natural these days to think about setting boundaries. While boundaries are essential for maintaining a healthy relationship, it is equally important to tap into your personal power and influence. Instead of trying to control your husband's behavior, focus on understanding and harnessing your own strengths. Take a moment to reflect on the qualities that attracted and seduced him to marry you in the first place. What aspects of yourself and your relationship made him choose you as his wife?
Recognize that you have the ability to influence him in a positive way, and with the right support, you can re-engage your power to make a significant impact on your relationship dynamics. When setting boundaries, it's important to approach them with respect and understanding. Avoid imposing boundaries as a parent would on a child, as this can create a power dynamic that may not be conducive to a healthy romantic partnership. Instead, focus on establishing boundaries that prioritize your well-being and promote mutual respect; it’s for you and your self-preservation.
As soon as it feels safe, communicate your needs and expectations to your husband in a calm and assertive manner, making it clear that your boundaries are not meant to control him, but to create an environment where both of you feel respected and heard. While boundaries are important, it's equally crucial to recognize that change cannot be forced upon someone. Your husband may not be fully aware of the impact his yelling has on you, or he may struggle with his own emotions and communication skills. Rather than trying to change him directly, focus on modeling the behavior you wish to see in the relationship. Lead by example by embodying effective communication, active listening, and respect.
When conflicts arise, strive to respond calmly and assertively. Show empathy and understanding towards his perspective while expressing your own feelings and needs; granted, it’s tricky. You might wonder if you are enabling bad behavior. Not really. By approaching conflicts with compassion and understanding, you create an opportunity for growth and positive change within your relationship. Engaging your power does not mean controlling your husband, but rather harnessing your own strengths and abilities to positively influence your relationship. With patience, understanding, and support, you can work towards creating a partnership built on mutual respect, effective communication, and shared growth.
Tip #2: Communication 2.0
When it comes to addressing conflicts in your relationship, effective communication plays a crucial role. However, it's important to recognize that communication goes beyond just being calm and honest. It's about ensuring that your husband feels respected, valued, and truly heard. Communication 2.0 is a concept that involves active listening as a fundamental aspect of effective communication. It goes beyond simply talking and encompasses creating a space where both partners can express themselves openly and honestly; so it might have to start with your active listening capabilities. This approach allows for a healthier and more constructive dialogue, fostering understanding and connection. To practice communication 2.0, it's essential to actively listen to your husband's concerns, perspectives, and emotions; it might take a tremendous amount of patience. This means giving him your full attention without interrupting or dismissing his thoughts; you might even feel like it’s unfair. Show genuine interest in understanding his point of view, even if it differs from your own. Reflecting on what he is saying, verbally and especially non-verbally, it demonstrates that you value his input and are willing to engage in meaningful conversation. Active listening involves more than just hearing the words being spoken.
Pay attention to his body language, tone of voice, and the emotions underlying his message. Seek clarification if needed, and ask open-ended questions to encourage him to elaborate and share his thoughts more deeply. This level of engagement demonstrates your commitment to understanding his perspective and fosters a deeper level of connection and empathy. If you can picture this, you can probably imagine how yelling at you is virtually impossible. It's important to note that communication 2.0 is a two-way street. While it is crucial for you to actively listen to your husband, it is equally important for him to practice the same approach. But it’s a dance and sometimes it takes the potential complainer (i.e you) leading the tango in the direction that you desire and then you can take credit for it.
By embracing communication 2.0, you create an environment where both partners feel valued and respected eventually; not necessarily instantly. It lays the foundation for effective problem-solving, increased empathy, and a stronger emotional bond within the relationship. In addition to practicing communication 2.0, consider seeking further guidance and insights on effective communication strategies. As mentioned earlier, Lola and I have a whole chapter dedicated to communication 2.0 in our book. Exploring these resources can provide you with additional tools and techniques to enhance your communication skills and promote a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. Remember, effective communication is a key component of any successful relationship.
Tip #1: This is Not Sustainable
While the tips provided thus far offer valuable guidance for improving your relationship, it is crucial to recognize that the current dynamic of your marriage is not sustainable in the long run. It's important to acknowledge the social construct that many relationships operate within, where the husband is often expected to be the head of the household and the leader of the marriage. The previous tips focus on empowering yourself and improving your personal communication skills. These strategies can certainly lead your marriage in a better direction and promote healthier dynamics. However, if you find yourself constantly shouldering the responsibility of leading and making important decisions, it might eventually kill attraction. So it may be necessary for your husband to engage in coaching or seek personal growth opportunities once you are able to seduce him into that receptive space.
Taking the lead in a relationship can be draining and burdensome over time as you have your own lane and responsibilities as a lady. It's essential for the husband in most marriages to take the responsibility of leading and setting the tone for the emotional well-being of the marriage. This allows for a more balanced and sustainable partnership where both individuals feel valued and involved. When the time comes, you can encourage your husband to join you to explore personal growth opportunities, such as coaching or counseling. This can provide him with the tools and insights needed to develop leadership skills, improve communication, and foster a greater sense of self-awareness; earning a version of respect that is much more sustainable and attractive overtime. It will not only benefit him but also benefits the relationship as a whole. It's important to approach this suggestion with sensitivity and understanding.
Avoid framing it as a criticism or a personal flaw, but rather as an opportunity for growth and development together as a couple and a family. Communicate your desire for a more balanced partnership where both of you can actively contribute, making decision-making and leadership easier for him. There is no need to compete with him with regards to leadership. Partnership and leadership are not mutually exclusive and in reality, there is no one without the other. You can even lead by encouraging him to lead if leadership is what you crave so badly. Leadership is not about running our mouths; it’s demonstrated in action. By encouraging your husband's personal growth journey, you create a space for him to explore his own potential and take on a more active role in the relationship without feeling like you are a subordinate. This shift can bring about a healthier and more sustainable dynamic where both partners feel empowered and fulfilled.
Dealing with a husband who yells at you can be incredibly challenging, but it's not an insurmountable issue. By prioritizing your safety, understanding that conflicts are not solely your fault, engaging your personal power, implementing effective communication strategies, and recognizing the need for sustainable change, you can work towards a healthier and more harmonious relationship. Remember, it's essential to seek support from professionals or trusted individuals who can provide personalized advice tailored to your specific circumstances. LOLA and I have been through this in one shape or form and resolved it permanently. Download our book for our full story and discover the strategies we used to overcome this challenge. Visit www.LoveAndPrestige.com to access the book and gain valuable insights for your own journey towards a happier and healthier relationship.
My wife yells at me. So your wife yells at you?
In any relationship, conflicts and disagreements are bound to arise from time to time. However, when your wife starts yelling at you frequently, it can be emotionally draining and damaging to the relationship. If you find yourself in this situation, I’m sorry that you are dealing with this.
It's important to address the issue and work towards a healthier and more respectful dynamic. In this video, we will discuss five practical tips to help you resolve this problem permanently, creating a happier and more harmonious relationship with your wife.
Let’s countdown the tips as we dig a little deeper into each one.
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Tip #5 - How to Locate National Support Against All Levels of Abuse.
When dealing with a wife who yells at you, it's essential to prioritize your safety and well-being. If you ever feel threatened or fear for your safety, it's crucial to seek help immediately.
You can locate your national support hotline for domestic violence or abuse and reach out to them for guidance and support. These organizations have professionals trained to handle such situations and can provide you with the necessary resources to ensure your safety and well-being. Just search the phrase "domestic abuse" with your country name on your favorite online search engine such as Google and you will have instant access to help.
Tip #4 - Engaging in Self-Intelligence and Leveraging it for Improvement in Your Relationship.
While it's important to address your wife's yelling, it's also essential to examine your own behavior and how it may contribute to this situation. Engaging in self-intelligence allows you to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your actions.
Assess what aspects of yourself might be attracting this behavior from your wife, without falling into self-guilt or victim shaming. By leveraging this self-awareness, you can make positive changes within yourself and your relationship, fostering growth and harmony.
Tip #3 - Re-interpreting Yelling from Your Wife Appropriately to Maximize Permanent Resolution.
Yelling from your wife is often a cry for help or a manifestation of underlying issues or frustrations. Instead of immediately reacting negatively, it's important to re-interpret their behavior appropriately.
Understand that yelling may stem from deeper emotional or communication challenges. By approaching the situation with empathy and understanding, you can create a safe space for open and honest communication, giving her the freedom to express her expectations, feelings, and concerns without resorting to yelling.
Tip #2 - The Right Way to Establish Boundaries and Communication Guidelines
Establishing clear boundaries and communication guidelines is crucial when dealing with yelling in a relationship. Instead of practicing lower tolerance of your wife, think about boundaries for yourself and self-respect.
When you have adequate self-respect and boundaries, there are certain types of conversations you would never engage with an emotional reaction.
Once your wife demonstrates that she is mimicking the level of self-respect that you desire, you can then sit down with her and have an open conversation about how yelling affects you emotionally and how you would like to be treated during disagreements. These guidelines can include alternative communication methods, such as using "I" statements or taking breaks during heated discussions, to prevent escalation and promote healthy dialogue.
Tip #1 - How to Create Sustainable Measures to Keep Yelling and Bad Communication Habits Far Away From Your Marriage.
Resolving the issue of yelling in your marriage requires sustainable measures to prevent its recurrence. This involves ongoing effort and commitment from you in the short-term, and eventually both partners over the long run.
Practice active listening, empathy, and patience in your day-to-day interactions. By consistently prioritizing open and respectful communication, you can create a healthier and more harmonious relationship, keeping yelling and bad communication habits at bay.
Dealing with a wife who constantly yells at you can be emotionally challenging and detrimental to your mental health and the relationship. However, by following these five tips, you can take significant steps toward resolving this issue permanently.
If you're struggling with the issue of your wife yelling at you, we understand the challenges you're facing. LOLA and I have been through similar experiences, and we have written a book called "Get My Marriage Back" sharing our personal story and the strategies we used to overcome this issue permanently.
Download our book for free from www.LoveAndPrestige.com for a comprehensive guide to building a harmonious and loving relationship and marriage.
Remember, resolving conflicts in a relationship requires commitment and effort from both partners, but it starts with you. Prioritize your safety, engage in self-reflection, and work towards open and respectful communication with your wife.
Thank you for watching. For more helpful resources and information, visit www.LoveAndPrestige.com.
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Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family... 0
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family... 0
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
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Created by myEmpirePRO
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FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
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Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
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Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
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Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
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Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Welcome to Man of Prestige.
For Full experience visit us on YouTube & Facebook
Man of Prestige
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/ManofPrestige
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/manofprestige1/videos
LOLA and OLA
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/LOLAandOLA
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lolaandola/videos
Blog - https://LOLAandOLA.com
Created by myEmpirePRO
https://myEmpirePRO.com
FREE Books
Marriage & Relationships → http://www.LOVEandPrestige.com
Smart Real Estate Wholesaling → https://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
Digital Marketing → http://DigitalMarketingCertified.com
My name is OLA and I am your host.
I truly believe that the state of our society and the family structure is a function of the emotional and mental health of the men of our society.
But this has evolved to a family. The Prestigious Family...
And that's a family of ladies and gentlemen who want to remain students of what it takes to achieve healthier and profitable relationships.
This platform was originally designed to address issues around manhood and relationships. But our world between men and women are so interwoven that we can't avoid each other.
We need and want each other evident by the passionate ways we express the talking points in the epidemic of the online gender war.
The gender war stops here on Man of Prestige.
Thank you so much.
Hopefully, you've been enlightened and educated. See you on the next one.
And peace.
#manofprestige #relationships #love #marriage
Who is Myron Golden? Recently I stumbled into Myro Golden again on YouTube while he was being interviewed by Dan Henry. My first encounter with him was on “Club House; the audio app” during the pandemic. He uses a lot of biblical principles to teach marketing and sales strategies.
What does Myron do? According to an example he gave on one of his most popular videos on making statable offers for sale, “Dr Myron Golden teaches people how to scale their business by selling predominantly high volume high ticket from the stage and his students have multiple 6 and 7-figure days faster than any other business coach in the industry. I’m sure that would get your attention as well.
Yes he is a PHD holder from a private school. I saw a recent video of a guru police questioning the credibility of the school he got his PHD from.
But I don’t care about that stuff. I’ve listened to him enough and my conclusion is that he knows what he is talking about.
--> READ THE BLOG POST HERE https://myempirepro.com/myron-golden/
--> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE https://youtu.be/k6YrSNCXe6A
What did Dr.Myron Say? He said a lot that I agree with and I have taken the liberty to extract 7 marketing and sales tips for you. Also 200+ YouTube subscribers seems to agree with me.
Before we break down these 7 tips…
Who am I? My name is OLA and I am the founder of myEmpirePRO. myEmpirePRO is all about learning, earning and building empires.
I am also the author of 4 books namely Digital Marketing Certified, Smart Real Estate Wholesaling, Get My Marriage Back co-authored with my wife Lola and Real Estate Money Secrets.
What are my thoughts on these tips from Dr.Myron? Tip Number 7 - Create a Solution The more value you bring into the marketplace, the more money will eventually transfer into your bank account. It's really that simple.
Keep in mind that a major factor here is the market place. So the solution you create is being deemed to be solving a problem per the market's opinion and not just yours.
Think of solutions also as answering someone's question with an answer and replacing a person's pain with relief or pleasure.
Tip Number 6 - Connect with Someone We've already mentioned the marketplace. But let's take it a little deeper than that.
The marketplace is made up of people; one person at a time. So the question is who is that person whose problem is solved by the solution that you provide.
You need to connect with the person. And by the way, we are not talking about physically connecting with him or her. The first step is to get to know whoever this person is.
Tip Number 5 - Contribute to Someone After identifying that special someone who makes up the marketplace you want to serve, contribute a piece of your solution to them; that's value.
And I mean contribute for free. That's precisely the part of your activities that will create that downstream viral growth effect you are looking for in your business.
Focus on serving that one proverbial person and the rest will take care of itself. The others will naturally connect with that value you've taken time to create at a deep level.
Tip Number 4 - Create Emotions Dr.Myron talked about the difference between faith and doubt; basically not much. They are both a form of belief and emotions but polar opposites.
You need to create the feelings, emotions and beliefs that will drive the sales conversion or desired outcome using your marketing message. It's your responsibility.
Sure your product has all these positive features. But per your marketplace, it has both positive and negative perceptions. You want to use your marketing messaging to focus on expanding the positive perceptions of your offer.
Tip Number 3 - Create Measurable Offers Your prospect needs to be able to quantify the benefit that your offer brings to their health, finances or relationships; it needs to be measurable.
They need to be able to compare the new anticipated status against their present status.
Their present status doesn't need to be presently bad. But the promised new status needs to be obviously better and that betterment needs to be measurable.
With that being said, keep in mind that the offer is not necessarily your product. Think of your product from a value standpoint.
Tip Number 2 - Create Statable Offers I agree 100% with Dr.Myron here. The average mind is not satisfied with their marketing and sales message until they use big words.
This is a terrible mistake. Keep in mind that people will primarily take you up on your offer because the idea of buying from you feels good. The set of features of your product is secondary.
So it's best that you can describe what your offer does in a simple one–statement manner that a 3rd to 5th grader can understand.
Tip Number 1 - Create Understandable Offers If little kids in 3rd grade can’t understand your offer, there is a very good chance that you don’t understand your offer.
Again, you might have created a fantastic product. But so has everybody else.
One of the things that will set you apart from everyone else that is struggling to sell their fantastic product is your ability to understand your product enough to create an understandable offer out of it.
What do I like the most about Myron Golden’s Tips? Tip number four is my favorite just because I’ve seen and experienced the magic of being able to create emotions in prospects. Your prospects simply don’t care about the greatness of your product until they can feel the transformation the product offers.
Why should you download my free books? “Marketing and sales” is something that I cover in detail in my book “Digital Marketing Certified”. Chapter 4 and 10 on “the connection” and “the structure” are where you might want to pay particular attention to.
If you want us to help you with your digital marketing and sales campaign, book a free strategy session with my team at www.DigitalMarketingCertified.com. You will also get a free copy of the book right after booking the session.
7 Timeless Tips from Anthony Morrison on Pay Per Click & My Thoughts | Episode 6
Who is Anthony Morrison? I consider Anthony a legend in the internet business and affiliate marketing game. Over the past 12 years, I’ve followed his moves on and off. He is consistent and consistently evolving as well.
What does Anthony do? He is one of the top affiliates of Russell Brunson’s ClicksFunnel. He has also evolved today to many things like software as a service (SAAS) businesses such WebinarFuel and even real estate.
--> READ THE BLOG POST HERE https://myempirepro.com/anthony-morrison/
--> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE https://youtu.be/9jYPuhU_pSE
In the bizopp community, his most popular platform (more or less a business opportunity offer) is his viral affiliate program called Partner with Anthony.
Anthony also ran Morrison Publishing, a membership program for teaching internet marketing out of Mississippi. But this program doesn’t seem to have been updated since 2020.
At press time, he seems more engaged with his Digital Advantage real estate investing program. His success connection, going as far back as 12 years, seems up to date as well.
What did Anthony Say? Over the years, Anthony has said a lot considering that over 105,000 individuals are still subscribed to him on YouTube. In fact, I have taken the liberty to extract 7 timeless Pay Per Click tips from his top content.
Four or five of the 7 tips were directly related to the Pay Per Click (or PPC) marketing strategy. What is PPC? It’s a marketing and advertising model that allows you to pay content publishers each time an ad is clicked.
Before we break down these 7 tips…
Who am I? My name is OLA and I am the founder of myEmpirePRO. myEmpirePRO is all about learning, earning and building empires.
I am also the author of 4 books namely Digital Marketing Certified, Smart Real Estate Wholesaling, Get My Marriage Back co-authored with my wife Lola and Real Estate Money Secrets.
What are my thoughts on these tips from Anthony Morrison? Tip Number 7 - WTR This tip is three-in-one. In order to run a successful pay per click campaign, you need a well-written ad copy, a target audience and the right platform.
It sounds like the extension of the legendary Dan Kennedy's magnetic marketing formula; the right message, the right market and the right media (MMM).
Does this sound familiar? The value, the people and the connection between value and the people. It's the same thing and I agree 100% with it.
Tip Number 6 - Emotional Response Well, we have to keep reminding ourselves of this part. Your audience responds emotionally to buying your products and services 85% of the time and then justify with logic later.
So whatever you are writing or creating as content is most effective when it triggers emotional response. What that means is that they have to be able to relate at a personal level first and then more.
Even when your offer makes pragmatic sense in terms of its utility, they really don't care until they can relate emotionally. Keep this in mind when creating a pay per click ad copy.
Tip Number 5 - Less = More Obviously, we all want more. But when it comes to setting up a pay per click campaign, you want to be careful with that. And here is why.
You will be collecting lots of data from any given campaign that you run. It can quickly turn to paralysis by analysis when you try to monitor too many ads at the same time for the same audience.
Focus is key. There are so many layers of variables. So less is going to be more in many respects because of the value of focus in running and optimizing an effective pay per click campaign.
Tip Number 4 - Split Test If you don't know any better, you would think this contradicts the previous tip.
Split testing is a practice whereby we test one feature or element of a campaign against another variation in order to optimize for better performance.
But this actually aligns with the idea that "less = more." The best practice with split testing variations in your ads and pieces of content is to test no more than 3 variations at a time; preferably 2 variations.
Tip Number 3 - Email Profit Cycle This cycle starts with the pay per click traffic itself. But once you set up a campaign and people start visiting your website, how do you convert these visitors to customers?
It's simple. Step 1, send the traffic to a lead capture page, step 2-have them enter their email contact which is stored on an autoresponder list and step 3, select a product to promote.
Then step 4, write well written emails to promote the product and step 5, send the emails to the contacts, and step 6, make money and reinvest a percentage of the money into driving more traffic. Then the cycle continues.
Tip Number 2 - The Digital Advantage As I warned earlier, this tip is not particularly about pay per click. Anthony is pushing this idea for real estate investing.
By the way, digital marketing strategies are also leveraged as a digital advantage in real estate and other traditional businesses. What does that mean?
More than ever before, we have access to digital platforms where you can set up compelling and valuable messages to collect more data than we've ever seen before.
Analyzing these data for business insights is the digital advantage that you and I can leverage for better results today.
Tip Number 1 - Take “YOU” Time This is a business tip from Anthony. If you are very hard working like me, you need to take some time in hours, days, and weeks to reset sometimes. Why?
Well, you are human. You are the number one asset in your business at this stage; I am guessing. So your personal productivity is key to your long term success.
Don't wait until you break down before the inevitable need to reset from time to time. Majority of such resets are needed at a mental level.
What do I like the most about Anthony Morrison’s Tips? Tip number five is a major key to, not just business, but life in general. Less is almost always 100% more. This is speaking to leverage and leverage is key in business.
Just as we discovered in the Alex Hormozi episode, it’s about doing the right thing and not the most things.
Why should you download my free books? Pay Per Click is something that I cover from a fundamental standpoint in my book “Digital Marketing Certified”. Chapter 9 on “the sources” is where you might want to pay particular attention to.
If you want us to help you with your Pay Per Click campaign, book a free strategy session with my team at www.DigitalMarketingCertified.com. You will also get a free copy of the book right after booking the session.
Who is Patrick Bet-David? I stumbled into Patrick Bet-David as a YouTube video content creator some 4-5 years ago.
I found out much later that he actually founded and ran an insurance network marketing company called PHP Agency until mid-2022 when it was sold.
Patrick is a 6’4’’ man who has been married since 2009 to his wife Jennifer and they are blessed with children. He is a very proud family man.
He has about 6 books published with "Your Next five Moves" being the most recent of them.
As far as ethnicity and nationality, Patrick is an American born in Iraq to Assyrian/Armenian parents. He served in the US Army after his high school education. So he never finished college if he went at all.
In fact, he had a t-shirt proudly representing the 1.8 GPA gang in one of his most popular videos.
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We can't trust these net worth sources too much. But according to a few websites like therichest.com, moneyinc.com, etc, PBD as he is fondly called by many industry heads has a net worth ranging between $150 to $200 million.
From the looks of things, he clears an income much more than $1 million per month from a conglomerate of businesses. But these days, I think Patrick is obsessed with Social Media Marketing.
What does Patrick do? On his Valuetainment media platforms, he discusses everything from entrepreneurship to politics but today, we are interested in his digital marketing moves; especially the social media marketing strategies. I am hacking that for you today.
Although I have noticed that he went completely crazy with Podcasting his content ever since the $100 million Joe Rogan trail blazing Spotify deal.
There are so many fantastic interviews on his platform. In fact, I think he might have conducted the last interview for the great Koby Bryant if my memory serves me right.
What did Patrick Say? He said a lot over the past few years that I’ve followed him. But let’s pick out what I consider his best 7 hacks at this point namely:
- Marketing Over First Class
- Everyday
- Your Circle
- Advancing with No Clue
- Recruiting
- Code Academy
- Accountability
84% of consumers report that they’ve purchased a product or service after watching just one video. From the looks of things, it seems that Mr. Bet-David is taking this all the way to the bank because I’ve noticed him expanding his video content media platform to politics, comedy, film-making and more.
Before I break down these 7 hacks with my thoughts…
Who am I? My name is OLA and I am the founder of myEmpirePRO. myEmpirePRO is all about learning, earning and building empires.
I am also the author of 4 books namely Digital Marketing Certified, Smart Real Estate Wholesaling, Get My Marriage Back co-authored with my wife Lola and Real Estate Money Secrets.
What are my thoughts on these tips from Patrick Bet-David? Hack Number 7 - Marketing Over First Class Patrick said if you don't have $10 million in a bank account, you shouldn't be flying first class.
This was rule number 8 of his rules of the money game which you can find on his Valuetainment channel.
I couldn't agree more. He went on to compare it to spending that money on marketing and expansion of your business.
Flying first class is a cost and not an investment while these other suggestions will potentially produce more and fund multiple first class tickets over and over.
Hack Number 6 - Everyday This was an inspirational piece that he did some few years back. It basically highlights the one attribute that sets the winners apart from the losers.
What is it? They simply show up everyday contrary to most losers' beliefs of luck.
I do believe in luck too. But be guided. The less often you show up, the more likely you will lose.
Although that may not be obvious, think about it. This is a game at the end of the day and skills are involved.
How do you sharpen your skills? If there was one single factor, it's showing up consistently and everyday.
Hack Number 5 - Your Circle PBD suggests that you make sure that the collective of the people in your circle are smarter than you.
There is a common saying that your income is the average of the closest 4-5 people around you. This ideology is not just about money.
Everything that affects growth in other areas of your life and especially business is affected by the quality of your circle of influence and network.
I have to confess. This is something I need to improve on personally.
I need to get out to more professional and industry events and make some new smarter friends. Feel free to steal the idea.
Hack Number 4 - Advancing with No Clue So Patrick breaks down these three stages of advancement through business from (1) creating to (2) maintaining to (3) advancing.
And then he suddenly focused on the advancing part, where you are enjoying the level of success that you really couldn't explain pragmatically if you were asked.
It makes absolute sense to me because I've experienced this in both relationships and business. It almost feels like some random overnight success at least to people outside looking in.
That's what happens only if you are part of the minority that starts and makes it to that point. It's going to be tough but don't quit. The rewards are that great.
Hack Number 3 - Recruiting I consider myself lucky for my foundation in marketing and business to have involved the network marketing profession and here is why.
Recruiting and leverage as a concept in general is key to sustainability in any type of business. It's even bigger than that.
But because of that background, I am able to comprehend fully what Patrick Bet-David was talking about here.
As part of your leverage building activity, you have to recruit humans, machines, technology such as the social media among other things to to serve the market with the most value.
Hack Number 2 - Code Academy This particular tip from PBD reminds us of making sure that we all stay engaged with competitive advantage with respect to a market place.
Code academy is a platform where you can learn how to code for free as part of the initiative to the shift that basic skills have made in the last few decades alone.
If you have children that are not learning how to code right now, they will struggle in the job market regardless of what profession it is. Change and evolution are inevitable especially for you as a creator or entrepreneur.
Hack Number 1 - Accountability He is not talking about holding yourself accountable here. As an entrepreneur especially, we know you can hold yourself accountable, but that's not enough.
You need to surround yourself with people who love you and your mission enough to take a look at things objectively and hold you accountable when necessary.
It could be systems that you've set in place. The idea is to not assume that you are invisible. There is blind spots everywhere in business. This could also be your healthy obsession over social media analytics.
What do I like the most about what Patrick Bet-David said? My favorite of these hacks are hacks number seven, six and four because they shed more light on the sacrificial nature of these endeavors. To become a top one percenter in society is never an overnight success. But the rewards can feel that way.
About 7 years ago, Patrick published a video on how to stand out on Social Media as an entrepreneur. In that video, he talked about how he writes a minimum of an article per week on Sunday nights at 11 o’clock in 90 minutes.
He then uses twitter to send it out while also checking the news about 20-30 minutes daily. He also posted one post per day on Instagram. At that time, he released two videos per week. The most important thing he said was that it’s only lack of efficiency that makes you claim that there is no time.
But also, maybe you just don’t see the value in social media marketing in general. I can tell you that not involving or optimizing social media in or for your business is the greatest mistake you can make right now.
Why should you download my free books? Social media marketing is something that I cover extensively in my book “Digital Marketing Certified”. Chapter 3 and Chapter 10 is where you might want to pay particular attention to.
If you want us to help you with your social media marketing campaign, book a free strategy session with my team at www.DigitalMarketingCertified.com. You will also get a free copy of the book right after booking the session.
Who is Alex Hormozi? Out of nowhere… at least that’s what it feels like in my head now. Alex just started popping up everywhere.But after listening to one of his long-form videos, I now feel like I might have met this person before.
Alex Hormozi is the founder of Acquisition.com and he has nothing to sell. Yea right? I do think that’s a very slick slogan especially when you walk around in shorts selling that to people like me. I get it. But we are all selling something.
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What does Alex do? From the looks of things at this point, it seems like Mr Hormozi is a video marketing professional. Once you watch just one of his videos, he will literally start popping up everywhere, instagram, TikTok… literally everywhere.
At press time, Alex’s YouTube channel just crossed the 600,000 subscriber’s mark. On Instagram, he has 645,000 followers and another 546,000 subscribers on TikTok.
After listening to him talk about monetization and scaling on a few videos, it makes absolute sense to me that he has made no less than $100 million from his video marketing activities alone.
He bought, fixed, scaled and sold gyms. At this point, I think that's just a part of his story but I could be wrong.
What did Alex Say? A lot of Mr Hormozi’s rhetoric is about scaling a business. He said a lot that I resonate with. But from observing his moves, he is literally using these strategies on his video marketing activity.
And check out tip number 4 as I count them down right now. It will be hard for me to share everything in this episode, but let’s run through a quick fire round:
- Micro slow/Macro fast
- Pick
- Russell Brunson
- Skills vs Belief
- 40 Employees When He Was 25
- Jay Z’s Biggest Skill
- Do the Boring Work
- $0 Cost Replicate-able Leverage
- Get Skills
- Speed = Right, Not Most Stuff
- Sacrifice the small things
Let’s count them down one after the other and elaborate based on my understanding and my thoughts..
Who am I? My name is OLA and I am the founder of myEmpirePRO. myEmpirePRO is all about learning, earning and building empires.
I am also the author of 4 books namely Digital Marketing Certified, Smart Real Estate Wholesaling, Get My Marriage Back co-authored with my wife Lola and Real Estate Money Secrets.
What are my thoughts on these 11 fireround tips from Alex Hormozi? Tip Number 11 - Micro slow/Macro fast This is the ultimate entrepreneurial struggle especially in the shining object syndrome age. It’s super easy to chase after the overnight success stories.
Instead, Alex suggests focusing on micro-slow and macro-fast as opposed to micro-fast and macro-slow. Trust me, I can relate. Pay attention to tip number 2; for more context.
Tip Number 10 - Pick Pick one lane. Pick one thing if you have not hit a million dollars yet. If you have any experience building a business or even a simple video marketing campaign, you’ve probably found yourself, jumping from one thing to the other quite often.
Just pick one thing and follow through. It’s easier said than done. But that’s what you have to do.
Tip Number 9 - Russell Brunson Just less than 5 years ago, Alex Hormozi was a struggling business owner with less than $2,000 to his name inside one of Russell Brunson’s masterminds. He helped him highlight his strength which is teaching other gym owners his systems.
Check out my favorite Russell Brunson’s book at www.myempirepro.com/expertsecrets
Tip Number 8 - Skills vs Belief In this one particular video, Alex asked what we thought was stopping him from advancing past a particular level; skills or belief?
From my personal experience and struggles, in spite of all the success I’ve seen, it’s definitely “belief”.
Tip Number 7 - 40 Employees When He Was 25 Hey. No such thing as overnight success. Even though Alex Hormozi has gone from less than $2,000 in his savings to tens of millions of dollars in less than 7 years.
Most people would hear that only. I was able to pick up that he had businesses before that with 40 employees when he was 25 years old. All of those failures lead to his massive success that we are observing today.
Tip Number 6 - Jay Z’s Biggest Skill In one of his training videos, he lines up all of Jay Z’s skills with the biggest one being Beyonce. Leverage!
Tip Number 5 - Do the Boring Work The most productive activities in a success business system are repetitive and boring in nature. And this poses a big problem for creative minds like myself.
Don’t make the mistake of abandoning the boring work. Better yet. Get them done. I need this reminder from time to time.
Tip Number 4 - $0 Cost Replicate-able Leverage There are many things that represent leverage in business. Content and media, which also includes video marketing, will literally cost you $0 to replicate.
Listen. It just doesn’t make any sense for any type of business not to be engaged in content marketing now. But many as usual will wait for saturation.
Tip Number 3 - Get Skills Once you get skills, it will never leave you. That’s why you will keep coming back to success even if you lose everything. But the type of skills required of you will depend on what stage you are on your path to $100 million and beyond.
Tip Number 2 - Speed = Right, Not Most Stuff Speed is about doing the right stuff and not doing the most stuff. I used to say, successful entrepreneurship is about getting things done and not doing them necessarily. Alex Hormozi took it further to say, it’s about getting the right stuff done.
Many of you will engage yourself with minimum wage activities that will add nothing to your bottom line. Pay attention to this.
Tip Number 1 - Sacrifice the Small Things Shortly before I created this video. Alex released a video reflecting on a video he shot about 6 years ago. He was advising on why sacrifice is absolutely necessary. Link this back to the first tip I shared on micro slow and macro fast.
What do I like best about what Alex Hormozi said? I love all of them. But most importantly, I love the fact that all these tips can be linked and applied to any endeavor meant to be built and even video marketing.
It’s “hella” obvious that this is what Alex is doing with his massive video and content marketing campaigns. And $200,000,000 in annual revenue is not your mate.
Why should you download my free books? Content and video marketing is something that I cover extensively in my book “Digital Marketing Certified”. Chapter 3 on “the value” is where you might want to pay particular attention to.
If you want us to help you with your video marketing campaign, book a free strategy session with my team at www.DigitalMarketingCertified.com. You will also get a free copy of the book right after booking the session.
Who is Adam Erhart? I said to myself. “Let me see who else is talking about digital marketing on the streets of Youtube.” Then I stumbled into Adam’s videos.
Needless to say, I am impressed by the videos I’ve seen so far. Well detailed and clean presentation in simple ways to understand.
And I quote…
“Strategy First - which has allowed me, my clients, and students, to consistently build, grow, and scale powerful, profitable, and freedom providing businesses – regardless of what channel, network, or platform we use.”
From my gatherings, Adam is a marketing strategist who lives on the west coast of Canada. I happen to be in Calgary, Alberta Canada on a business trip at press time.
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Adam is also one of the instructors at digitalmarketer.com. He is a YouTuber and on his YouTube channel, he runs a weekly show called The Saturday Morning Live - Business and Marketing Q&A.
What does Adam do? Adam has a very similar marketing story and journey to mine. I also was a victim of the shiny object syndrome culture. It cost me years and millions of dollars. Nonetheless, I don’t regret any part of the journey. Okay. I am starting to sound like him.
From what I’ve seen, this guy is a master at video marketing. So I will be paying attention to his moves; not necessarily what he says.
What did Adam Say? I found 7 quotes from Adam ErHart that I am going to edify and add some context to from my personal insights namely:
- 30 minutes intervals
- Emotion is the money maker
- Associating Frequency with Trust
- Audience Fit For Your Business
- The Future of Social Media Marketing
- Consistent Differentiation
- In-App Retargeting
Let’s break them down one after the other.
Who am I? My name is OLA and I am the founder of myEmpirePRO. myEmpirePRO is all about learning, earning and building empires.
I am also the author of 4 books namely Digital Marketing Certified, Smart Real Estate Wholesaling, Get My Marriage Back co-authored with my wife Lola and Real Estate Money Secrets.
What are my thoughts on these 7 tips from Adam Erhart? Tip Number 7 - Tracking Your Time In 30 Minutes Intervals Depending on what mood you are in. Sometimes, it seems that you’ve got all the time on any given day. But I couldn't agree with Adam more on this one.
If you just track your time for 3 straight days in a 30-minute interval, you might find your discovery, in his own words, “enlightening but disturbing.”
For me, I have discovered that I simply have to keep track of what I spend my time on because 80% of it is unproductive; though seemingly productive at initiation.
The distractions are just that bad. A great reminder from Mr Erhart
Tip Number 6 - Emotions Is The Money Maker I am one of the fortunate ones who learned this a long time ago due to my early exposure to marketing. Most people do not fall out of the skies understanding or having the ability to comprehend this.
Instead, their knee jerk and still emotionally-driven response is often “common sense” based. Emotions are not just the money maker. Emotions which include anger, fear and greed drives everything that any of us cares about.
So when it comes to video marketing, it’s in your best interest to pay attention to your emotional intelligence. I strongly believe it’s one of the many reasons why video marketing is such an effective marketing channel.
Your audience is able to connect with you visibly; obviously a heightened level of emotional connection. It preframes them to want to do business with you.
Tip Number 5 - We Associate Frequency With Trust That’s very true. I often tell people that trust is a by-product of consistency. But yes, I feel comfortable to add frequency to that.
But that frequency also needs to be sustainable. Here is what I mean. If you are a busy person, it might not be sustainable to try and release 3 videos to 7 channels per day.
Nonetheless, I believe that for every one week you are not releasing videos, you will have to compensate for… in filmmaking skills and talent.
For video marketing particularly, at least once per week video release in frequency, will drive your brand trust equity wild.
Tip Number 4 - Some People Are Terrible Fits For Your Business I, like many others, have also made this mistake. I’ve spent time with people who are simply not fit, at least not yet, for my products.
A person who doesn’t have a source of income is not a fit for learning how to market or build an online empire. But I guess sometimes, I just empathize wanting to help everyone.
The reality is that no one can afford to help anyone who is not willing or able to sow some kind of seed.
And there are many other reasons why some people are just not a fit for your offers and especially your most valuable asset; your time.
Tip Number 3 - The Future Of Social Media Marketing Is Video As much as we all know that we are in a microwave and quick-fix era, some things are timeless. One of them is emotional connection and the fact that people make business decisions with their emotions 85% of the time and justify it with logic later.
I believe video is the best way to connect with an audience emotionally. According to Cisco, it was estimated that by 2022, 82% of all consumer internet traffic will be made up of videos. This number is 15x higher than what it was in 2017.
Tip Number 2 - Consistent Differentiation vs Authenticity Discrepancy On Adam Erhart’s first video on his YouTube published 6 years ago, he talked about consistently “being you” at your touch points but also balancing that out with consistently being different.
And he also mentioned “authenticity discrepancy” which is not being true to yourself particularly detectable by your prospects.
Consistent and well planned out video marketing will exponentially grow your business and that’s evident by the dramatic growth that Adam’s Youtube channel demonstrates sitting nicely above 200,000 subscribers at press time.
Tip Number 1 - In-App Retargeting Last but not least, I personally will be exploring this strategy; in-app retargeting. The internet has been evolving on a consistent basis.
In the past few years, there was lots of drama around the iOS 14 update which makes it difficult to track consumer behavior across digital assets due to privacy policies.
But in that same time period, it became more and more profitable to leverage in-app applications and native creative on the actual ad platforms.
Retargeting allows us to consistently showcase our brands and products to prospects that are already exposed to our brand inside the social media app where the engagement was initiated.
What do I like about what Adam Erhart said? I wanted to keep sending my prospect to my website myempirepro.com which is external to the social media apps because I am addicted to traditional methods of list building and following up with autoresponders.
The truth is that it has made me and my student lots of money over the past 12 years.
But Adam has now reminded me that I have to apply consistent differentiation. I have to adapt and evolve consistently with digital marketing. It makes complete sense.
Why should you download my free books? Building a profitable emotional connection between your brand and your ideal customer with video marketing is something that I cover extensively in my book “Digital Marketing Certified”. Chapter 4 on “the connection” is where you might want to pay particular attention to.
And by the way, you can download the book for free at www.DigitalMarketingCertified.com
Who is Anthony O’Neal? He is a guy who apparently went from $35,000 in debt at the age of 19 to becoming a best selling author.
He was a sidekick on Dame Ramsey’s show which is all about personal finances. So I would guess that the Dave Ramsey brand has helped kick his influencer and content marketing career off well.
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I promise. I won’t use that as an excuse to not keep on building this platform beyond 3,500 subscribers. I appreciate every single one of you. Actually, I am about to share with you some specific reasons why I am inspired.
What does Anthony do? He is a content creator; a YouTuber. He hosts a show called “The Table with AO” where he interviews many other successful people, with an audience of over 450,000 subscribers.
I stumbled into him on the episode where he was interviewing Tony Gaskins on relationships which is another favorite topic that I cover on my platforms.
Personally, I will be watching some more of his videos. He’s interviewed people from stock traders to course creators, real estate investors to multiple 6-figure IT and Tech guys.
I can only imagine that he is inspiring so many young people in taking control of their financial profile as well as showcasing ways to build sustainable income.
I am not mad at that at all.
What did Anthony Say? Well, this platform is supposed to be about marketing. But I promise, we will get there soon.
The first video I stumbled into as I was trying to know a little more about Anthony is a video where he was being interviewed by a lady; Cherie Johnson.
She explains how she first ran into Anthony after he shared a story about a lady he really liked but she insisted on a date to a particularly expensive restaurant.
Anthony would tell his potential date that his budget for that month won’t carry it. He promised her the date for the following month.
Then another gentleman in that conversation asked Anthony. “Let’s just say you’ve got a relationship, you are with your woman, and she wants to go out and you ain’t got it. What would you do?”.
Anthony answers. “That’s my woman. A man has gotta keep it 100 with his woman.” Anthony, what do you mean by 100… elaborate please.
But in that same video, Anthony talks about how he saves, invests and gives away about 40% of his income. He is apparently the money and budget guy.
Just like you, I was now on the edge of my seat and I want to share some of the insight I got from Anthony. In Particular, I will share my thoughts about these 7 quotes.
- Having an 800 credit score doesn’t mean you are good with money; It just means you are good with paying back debt.
- My philosophy is that cash is king.
- Debt is not sexy.
- From 19 years old in debt to best-selling author at 35.
- There are a lot of people on social media who look wealthy but they aren’t.
- 53% of people who live paycheck to paycheck are people who make good money.
- Don’t be afraid to say this is not in my budget.
Who am I? My name is OLA and I am the founder of myEmpirePRO. myEmpirePRO is all about learning, earning and building empires.
I am also the author of 4 books namely Digital Marketing Certified, Smart Real Estate Wholesaling, Get My Marriage Back co-authored with my wife Lola and Real Estate Money Secrets.
What are my thoughts on these tips from Anthony O’Neal? I do not disagree with any of these tips as usual. I am just sharing my thoughts and may be adding a little context here and there. As you know, it’s easy to turn talking points into absolutes and religion in ways that it can hurt us.
So let’s countdown down Anthony’s tips.
Tip Number 7 - 800 credit score is a Leverage. He is absolutely right about this point. In fact, one of the quotes you can attribute to me is this right here. If all you’ve got is a good credit score, it’s not sustainable all in itself.
It’s only a matter of time before you destroy the credit score if you do not have real income with consistent cash flow to keep fueling it. Anthony said, “it’s just a sign that you know how to pay debt back.” I agree.
I would add that paying debt back is different from paying it down.
Tip Number 6 - Cash is king. Sure cash is king. But if cash is king, then cash-flow has got to be the emperor. At press time, I am still listening to Anthony. So I am sure he is going to talk more about income and cash-flow.
A lot of his beliefs around saving, investing and giving 40% will literally be impossible or at least unsustainable without consistent cash-flow.
From what I have observed so far, Anthony’s digital marketing strategy is content marketing. It seems to be the source of his cash flow; YouTube, podcast etc. He is a master at this game and I will be paying attention to a lot of his moves.
Tip Number 5 - Debt is not sexy I see where he is coming from. But let's add a little context. Wouldn’t that depend on how you utilize debt? As I share in my addition to Tip number 7, debt, just like an 800 credit score, is a leverage.
As an entrepreneur and high achiever, you already know that leverage is key to success. So abusing debt is not sexy. Debt, just in itself, is not sexy. But how you leverage debt can absolutely become the sexiest thing you can ever do.
It’s no surprise that Anthony is prioritizing paying off his house mortgage in the same sentence as building net worth. That sounds like a Dave Ramsey talking point. There is more to it.
Tip Number 4 - $35K in Debt at 19 to 38 years old Success I love that Anthony continues to share this story of how he was homeless at the age of 19 and how he was kicked out to go figure things out ending up with a $35,000 debt. It’s inspiring.
But I want you to be clear that at press time, Anthony is about 38 years old. That’s another 19 years to figure things out and learn all this wealth of knowledge that he is sharing with us.
I am asking you to recognize that patience and respect for process in going after your own dream are major keys to his success.
During the process, 19 years can feel like a long time. When you start telling your own story, it will be all worth it.
Tip Number 3 - Faking Wealth on Social Media While you have to be careful with this present culture of faking it to make it on social media, it’s important that I point out a little nuance there.
Anthony told an Ocean California story where he caught himself flexing beyond his means with his friends after college even though he was broke like a Church mouse.
I think presentation matters. There is a fine line between faking it and ensuring a compelling presentation in a marketplace.
Outrightly “faking it” with no value based purpose is not sustainable but you can present with value as part of your personal branding efforts and strike a sustainable balance as you are marketing and building your brand.
That’s why content marketing is the most profitable marketing activity in this era. But let’s not be stupid. Presentation still matters.
Tip Number 2 - From Paycheck to Paycheck. Anthony presented a stat of the fact that people who live paycheck to paycheck are people who make good money. That makes complete sense to me.
It always comes down to your ability to manage the resources at your disposal. You can also think of it as your ability to play the cards you have been dealt.
If you don’t have these skills, all the money you are making will continue to find its way out of your life.
Tip Number 1 - Not in my budget. Anthony talks about not being afraid as a man to tell a lady that a certain type or caliber of date is not in your budget.
What do I like about what Anthony O’Neal said? I’ll tell you this. Anthony can definitely teach me so much more about branding, marketing, personal financing and so much more. This brother has it.
But with all due respect, it is quite obvious now why he is not married (contrary to his expressed desire) at the age of 35 plus. We are about the same age and I am happily married to my wife of 15 years.
Anthony, my brother. A woman needs to have a little more to wonder about you. All that transparency stuff, especially during the dating phase, has less romantic values than even the least sense of mystery.
Within this present social construct, the right woman will simply follow your lead as she looks forward to more and she wants to spend time with you any way you want; not demanding where and how she wants.
And by the way those girls still exist.
You should never feel the need to “mansplain” your budget to a woman who is not your wife already. If that’s necessary, it would be obvious already. There is no paycheck next Friday. This is simply the reality in the romantic context.
I can’t wait to explore more of his reports on 500 scholarships. Avoiding college debt for my kids definitely has me hooked now.
Why should you download my free books? Understanding context, audience, value and content marketing as a business strategy is something that I cover extensively in my book “Digital Marketing Certified”. Chapter 2 and 3 is where you might want to pay particular attention to.
And by the way, you can download the book for free at www.DigitalMarketingCertified.com
Who is Ramon Ray? How did I miss this guy since 2009 of actively participating in the world of business and marketing?
Ramon Ray is a motivational speaker whose laugh is extremely contiguous. He is also a piano player like myself. And he is a black man.
Isn’t it amazing how much time we spend in our own little echo chamber? Ramon Ray showed up on my radar as the first… only after my research in looking for the best marketers and entrepreneurs to profile for these series “and my thoughts.”.
Well, I am excited to share what I found with you.
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What does Ramon Ray do? He is the founder of smarthustle.com and according to his bio, he has sold a few businesses and he seems to be known for one of my favorite topics when it comes to building a business; personal branding.
Ramon was once the regional development developer at infusionsoft now known as Keap around 9 years ago. Keap is one of the email and funnel automation software in the digital marketing industry. I am not sure what his present corporate status is.
What did Ramon Ray Say? So I was watching an interview he did with TopRank Marketing TV where he was answering a question about the post pandemic challenges of business owners.
“Why did you have to wear a red hat in this commercial?” Making references to how careful B2B marketers had to be in order to navigate a very difficult time.
He talked about how sometimes you just have to take a stand. But there is a big “butt”.
Who am I? My name is OLA and I am the founder of myEmpirePRO. myEmpirePRO is all about learning, earning and building empires.
I am also the author of 4 books namely Digital Marketing Certified, Smart Real Estate Wholesaling, Get My Marriage Back co-authored with my wife Lola and Real Estate Money Secrets.
What are my thoughts on what Ramon Ray said? He shared 4 tips on a very old video that had been posted on Keap’s channel from all those years back then.
- Tip Number 4 - Write Great Headlines
- Tip Number 3 - Publish Great Content
- Tip Number 2 - Publish Frequently
- Tip Number 1 - Frequency & Relevancy
I want to add some context to these 4 massive pieces of advice.
Tip Number 4 - Write Great Headlines If people don’t find your headlines compelling enough, they won’t even look any further. So everything beyond that becomes pointless.
The idea is to hold your audience’s attention in the throat and emotionally remove peace of mind from as many of them as possible until they click to open the content.
The headline needs to hit the nerve in the right spot from an educational, entertaining or enlightening standpoint. Your audience won’t experience your content if you fail at this point.
But the next tip is even more important.
Tip Number 3 - Publish Great Content Once you manage to get a person to click into your content, you must deliver the most value within your power. This is what they are going to remember and what will make them decide to come back for more or not.
The video of Ramone Ray that I saw is pretty old. But what he was alluding to is even more important today with the emergence of artificial intelligence, machine learning, search and social media algorithms.
User engagement is measured at every stop, event, and human interaction with your online content. The longer and the more people engage with your content, the more the algorithm recommends and suggests to even more people.
Great content answers questions. Great content solves problems. And great content creates real life transformation because transformation starts with information.
Tip Number 2 - Publish Frequently In this time and age, you, as a business owner, can easily be forgotten. The competition is UNREAL. But that’s just the downside of not publishing frequently.
The upside of it is that you are able to absolutely dominate your marketplace while your competitors get buried away in their laziness. At the minimum of once a week, you have to show up to your audience with a new set of values.
Value is something that I am very passionate about. The more value (as defined by the market) that you put out into the marketplace, the more money you get to make. Obviously, the more you can afford to keep your business running.
There are some evergreen content that you only have to create one time and they will continue to attract more prospects to your business. And there are other pieces of content that are built around trendy topics.
If you want to be known as an authority in your business and industry, publishing great content frequently is the fastest and surest way to do it.
Tip Number 1 - Frequency & Relevancy Attention span is at an all time low. But also people already have an idea of what they want and you have to do a really good job matching the values in your content with the problem they are trying to solve.
This is not a one time event. In fact, it’s a series of events (relevant content) that lines up to a strong personal brand overtime.
Relevancy also has a lot to do with staying relevant with respect to trendy updates in your particular industry. So two things; it’s relevant to the deepest pain of your audience and also to trendy topics of interest.
What do I like about what Raymon Ray said? Well for one, he seems to be pretty excited about his message. I’m willing to bet that is a very contagious attribute. That’s important because we are talking about marketing which is all about attention first.
But I also like his take on a strong headline. Again, it’s all about getting attention first and foremost since nothing happens outside of it.
Why should you download my free books? Personal branding and content marketing as a business strategy is something that I cover extensively in my book “Digital Marketing Certified”. Chapter 3 is where you might want to pay particular attention to.
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CHAPTER 10, The Structure - Early 2005, Sheraton Hotel, Woodbridge, New Jersey… after seeing an ad inside the newspaper Star Ledger, I showed up to an event where a gentleman was presenting. I purchased his $300 course and I consider it the best foundation I could have ever had when it comes to running a successful business and here is why.
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The course was basically a slapped-together black and white copy made from some sort of 1967 xerox machine. But the content is majorly responsible for the success I’ve had to date because it started with direct response marketing particularly targeted at a specific pre-defined audience.
But I have to tell you. I think I’ve come to really appreciate that training even more in recent times. However because of my lack of experience, I spent years testing out different ideologies that don't put marketing first over the years. After taking account and counting the blessings and the failures, I have concluded that I was in fact lucky to have taken that training earlier on in my career.
In fact, it doesn’t even matter that I had derailed quite a few times from this concept of purpose and people-driven marketing. It’s just that powerful to drive massive success at any moment that I’ve decided to come back to the foundation. The foundation is just as important as the “structure” if not more important.
A few times over the years, I’ve failed at setting up the “structure” sustainably because of many reasons. One of the main reasons is the fact that stable structures are boring. But at the end of the day, they work. Isn’t that all that matters?
But I am still human. And by that, I am alluding to the fact that I still get influenced by the “shiny object syndrome”. You can also call it “grass is greener on the other side” syndrome.
It’s an on-going battle. But I have gotten better and better with this in recent times. It’s about making the foundation just as important as the “structure”.
In fact, everything we have discussed thus far in this book is the foundation. And I hope that you took it seriously because it’s a foolish man who built his house on the sand.
Over the course of this book, we’ve discussed the goal, the person, the value, the connection, the system, the list, the data, the information and the sources. In essence, we have broken down all the parts of digital marketing to make it as simple as possible for anyone with a marketable offer to understand.
Back when I started engaging in digital marketing full time and more, I had to know everything. Actually, I chose to know everything probably because I really do enjoy the art and science of influencing and persuading people. More importantly, it was useful because I was building a business just as I am still doing today.
There is more structure with the digital marketing industry today. In fact, I just counted more than 20 jobs where you can earn 6 figures or more. These are skill sets that are primarily responsible for scaling any business.
Today, you don’t have to know everything. Sure you should have an overview understanding of each of the areas. But if all you want is a job, you can simply pick one of the previous chapters and don’t stop your research until you get to the level of the equivalent of a doctorate degree.
On the flipside, it is important to read this book 10-15 times in order to make the most out of it. For every additional time you read this relatively small book, you will learn something new. But you will have to excuse the fact that I am not your typical scholastic writer.
In the last chapter, the source, we covered the different web traffic channels. But we didn’t get too much into the actual platforms and their categories such as:
- Search Engine Optimization
- Pay-per-Click Advertising
- Social Media Marketing
- Content Marketing
- Email Marketing
- Affiliate Marketing
And many others…
However we get a little deeper with each one of these traffic sources and media forms inside our flagship 15 weeks coaching program “Digital Marketing Intensive” (DMi15). Here at www.myEmpirePRO.com , we primarily focus on content marketing through search engine optimization, and paid media via Google and Meta (Facebook) ad platforms.
There are many digital marketing and PPC ad platforms to choose from namely; Google Ads, YouTube Ads (also part of Google Ads) Meta Ads (which used to be Facebook Ads), Instagram Ads (accessible through Meta Ads), Microsoft Ads (which was once called Bing Ads), LinkedIn Ads, Twitter Ads, Pinterest Ads, TikTok for Business, Snapchat for Business etc. Each and everyone of those ad platforms tend to follow the same campaign breakdown “structure.”
The idea of having to figure out all the different pay-per-click (PPC) ad platforms out there probably feels overwhelming right? I understand. All you have to do is pick two or three marketing strategies to execute on two or three ad platforms.
But I also wouldn’t do that until I have set up a successful campaign on one platform first. And what do I mean by success? It depends on your business objective for that campaign.
One of the problems that have cost me millions is the unproductive idea of multitasking. In a real business world, focus matters more than ideas. I find it cute when people talk about multitasking in this great light of new discovery.
It’s true that many things are happening at the same time in any given business. That’s why I will have to put context as priority over focus as well.
It all depends on what you mean. Each process among many in a system with respect to focus on a primary business objective has to be clearly defined if you don’t want to waste resources. So it’s best to set up a campaign successfully on one ad platform first and start collecting data before attempting to scale out to other platforms with the same “campaign breakdown structure”.
If your business has less than 10 employees, I would cap out the number of ad platforms at three. The rest of the focus should go into optimization of your campaigns on the two or three ads platforms you’ve chosen and your business operations.
Understanding a campaign breakdown structure is important because it’s the same skeleton that you will implement on any platforms you chose to set up campaigns on. This “structure” will be useful from both a mental and a campaign execution standpoint. Once you understand it, you can execute a digital marketing campaign set up on any ad platform successfully.
Campaign Breakdown Structure There are 4 levels on a digital marketing campaign breakdown structure. Each level allows you to define how you want your campaign to run. Level 1 - How: The first level is simply defining the platform you choose to run it on. This is the level where you decide which of the many ad platforms you want to run and test your PPC campaigns on. The rest of the levels are about the specifications inside the campaign itself.
Level 2 - Why: On this level, you get to choose the business objective of your campaign. What is the purpose for this campaign? The ultimate purpose of a digital marketing campaign is to make money right? But you need to be a little more specific.
Is it to primarily generate the most video views, reach, visits to external pages, capture leads, or sales? When you are specific, it makes your desired outcome and results easier to track, measure, monitor and control.
You may also be defining your budget for this campaign on this level.
Level 3 - Who: This is where you get to define your ideal prospect and/or customer and their attributes. It’s very hard to be specific with this level but you have to put in some effort for your digital marketing campaign.
At this level, you will get to define:
- Behavior based on attributes known to the ad platform.
- Desired cost per result achieved.
- Location
- Age
- Gender
- Language
- Interest and followings
And more…
Level 4 - What: At this level is where you define the actual message that describes your offer to the audience you specified on level 3.
On the actual ad platform, you will get to upload the images, the video and the ad copy as we cover in more details in Chapter 3 “the value.”
This is the actual creative that the audience, again as defined on level 3, gets to see on the feed and the placements. So it needs to be intriguing enough to catch the attention of the audience you defined. Hence the time I took on breaking down “the value” in chapter 3.
On Meta Ads (a.k.a Facebook Ads), level 1,2 and 3 are Campaign, Ad sets and Ads respectively. On Google Ads, level 1,2 and 3 are Campaign, Ad group and Ads respectively. I promise. On the other platforms that may be unconventional, it's similar.
At the end of this all, it’s all in the mindset. Approach setting up a digital marketing campaign with this 4 level-structure and your chances of better outcome is sure.
Another way you can protect your business from losing money is to buy email marketing placement from other marketers who have built a healthy email list. Check out www.myEmpirePRO.com/traffic especially if you are in the biz-opp or financial niche.
You can simply order clicks and visits over to your websites to pique initial interest. After that, you can then set up a retargeting or remarketing campaign on major platforms like Google Ads or Meta Ads to re-attract your audience from Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Google and their various media partners.
This is an unconventional way of driving consistent traffic and building your list. But you can still apply “the structure” mindset to stay organized. Anyway, in the next and final chapter, we will enter the execution zone. It’s time to put this wealth of knowledge to work.
CHAPTER 9 The Source - Let’s go back to 2002. A family friend had invited me and my brother to his apartment in Somerset, New Jersey. He did mention that there would be a presentation of some sort but I wasn’t paying too much mind to it.
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Soon enough, we found out it was a life insurance MLM (multi-level marketing) business opportunity presentation. But it was a completely new concept to me. To my surprise, my brother had already been exposed to it.
For some reason, we ended up not signing up but I don’t remember why. I’m sure it had something to do with being broke college kids at the time. It must have been about $200 to sign up but we didn’t.
I want to say… something around a few months later, I was in the NJIT (my alma mater) library studying when I ran into a school mate. As a common talking point, I might have uttered something to the effect of “looking to make some serious money.” “Wanna make money?” He asks. I answered “yep”. “I can show you how to make money fast.” He says. Before I knew it, I found myself at another business presentation at Newark Penn Station.
Less than a week later, I went for a full blown training on how the business worked where I found out that the “source” of all this money was people; particularly, my family and friends. After much thought, I declined to fully join the business. Of course, my school mate was disappointed because that was sales commissions being flushed down the drain.
He took the ‘L’ like a real ‘G’. I ended up joining my first MLM in 2009; about 7 years later. The timing was right; I guess. But I was presented again with the idea of my family and friends being the only “source” of life for my business.
I fully understood that money comes from only one source; and that’s people. I learned a long time ago that the revenue you are going to generate in business is already in the hands of someone. So there was no confusion there.
But having to beg my family and friends like my friend and schoolmate from 2002 did with me continued to seem like a bad idea. After all, that traffic, leads and business generation strategy didn’t work on me. Why would it work on my family and friends? But I managed to recruit my brother into partnership with me.
Great minds think alike. I was still willing to set up a business presentation at my apartment and about 22 people showed up. As a businessman with about 3 years of success at the time, selling people to come over and grab free snacks wasn’t hard for me.
Out of my 22 guests, only one person signed up. Less than 24 hours later, she called me and requested a refund. I am sure that family and friends as a “source” of business might have worked for many others before and after me. But you can’t judge me for concluding that it would probably never work for me.
So after a little bit of research, I stumbled into the magnetic marketing concept. It was presented to me as attraction marketing and another guru, Mike Dillard, also presented it as magnetic sponsoring. Well, it made too much sense. My brother also confirmed that he had stumbled into this idea while doing his own research.
We signed up for courses, training and seminars to continue to master this skill-set. In one transaction, I spent more than $600 and then it dawned on me. “I had just given money to a stranger over the internet.” The internet is the new source. This was an exciting discovery.
If we are going to be honest, this is about making money because you and I know that we can’t afford to run a business without enough revenue to justify it. So when we say “source”, we mean nothing can literally happen in digital marketing without talking about online traffic.
Exactly, how do we plan to attract visits to our websites, webpages, videos, landing pages and business. It’s not enough to set up a website in the middle of nowhere on the internet. In fact, we can’t claim that we are talking about digital marketing until we break down online traffic generation.
As I stated earlier on in the book, more than 90% of webpages on the internet get no organic traffic. More gets no traffic at all outside the bots crawling it occasionally to determine if anything is happening over there.
For the most part, most web pages are a ghost land. And there is no real excuse for this because we know that Google is sending free traffic accounting for at least 50% of traffic on the internet as of 2022. Only 15% of online traffic is paid for. So why is your website not actively working as a “source” of new people, leads, deals, customers, clients and partners for your business?
You are already aware that an average human being goes to one place “and one place only” to research, find solutions and answers to problems; the almighty Google. So why isn’t that sounding like the source of all the goodies you need to generate from this digital marketing thing?
Forget about researching and all that boring stuff for a second. Where do you go when you are bored and just want to relax and “chill”? Be honest! Isn’t it Instagram? Oh! Sorry, I meant to say TikTok.
The good news is that you are in control of how many people you want visiting your websites. All you need is a strong enough desire and you can get it all set up in no time. I know that most people still assume that generating traffic is tech-intensive activities.
If you can order to print a pack of 500 business cards to promote your business, you can definitely go through a 3 steps process to set up a simple ad online to generate clicks over to your website. So it’s just a matter of desire.
In this time and age, I want to let you know that online traffic generation is a basic skill. Your business simply won’t make it if you are not operating at that level. It’s the equivalent of swimming against the ocean tide. I would just hope that you are an exception and in fact, know what you are doing.
There are a few exceptions. For example, there are businesses that get a steady supply of new clients from their alliances with government agencies and insurance companies. That’s fantastic as long as they understand that scalability will be limited.
But my guess is that you are reading this book because you want a better control of sourcing your business with new blood steadily. I don’t blame you. The internet is where everyone is hanging out either for leisure or to research answers and solutions.
There is no better time to jump on this as an opportunity. Just like many other opportunities that have come and gone, things will evolve with generating online traffic as well.
But you will learn in a bit that you never need to panic about that. If you master the fundamentals, it’s a transferable skill for the rest of your life as a marketer and/or an entrepreneur.
Here are a few reasons why you need to be in almost full control of how much online traffic comes to your business on a regular basis. First of all, no condition is permanent. And that same concept is true for traffic “sourcing” and generating in of itself. That means even when you fully buy into what I am saying right now, certain sources of traffic won’t continue to work forever.
So just as much as you should never count on just government contracts and leads to run your business, you should also never count on one source of traffic. Therefore it’s very much the same reason why you should be in control of how you attract new people and how much new traffic of people you attract steadily.
When you understand this concept, it will suddenly become okay and more affordable for you to make the inevitable mistakes that most people make in their business. Honestly, that’s a perpetual contradiction. You simply can’t afford to make the mistake of using the hope strategy when it comes to generating fresh business and customers.
So I guess what I meant to say is that you can afford to make mistakes related to conversion rates inside your funnel when you are generating consistent and quality traffic; remember the connection and the system. But those things become pretty much useless when you don’t prioritize consistent flow of traffic into it.
Have you ever tried to multiply anything by zero? The product is always zero right? There is no perfect sales funnel, connection and systems falling out of the skies. Never mind what we discussed in chapters 4 and 5.
If you are not generating and attracting consistent traffic through the funnel, you are not generating any data as discussed in chapter 7, you can’t test and you can’t optimize for maximized profits.
There are four different categories of online traffic sources that we have to further breakdown in a few minutes namely organic, direct, referral and social traffic.
Organic Search Traffic - This is the source of traffic of people searching for particular solutions. When they searched, a search engine result page (SERP) had one of your web pages listed and they clicked on it and were redirected to your website. A user of your website was generated for your website from organic search traffic.
Direct Traffic - This is traffic sourced from a user who types your website address directly into a web browser that loaded your web page from scratch. This user knew the exact web address on the world wide web (www). Most of the traffic generated online is not generated from direct traffic sources.
Most people you give your website address to one time will forget or lose where it is written before they get to a web browser; even though there is a web browser on their smartphone. For the most part, people will be clicking over from some other web page and redirected to your website.
Referral Traffic - This is traffic sourced from other self-hosted websites that manually links to your website. For example, if someone types www.myempirepro.com into a web browser on a device and it loads our webpage, that is considered direct traffic. And to be clear, if you are reading this book on a Kindle or PDF file and you click that link directly, that would not be considered direct traffic. That is considered a referral traffic since it’s a click redirecting from another web based content.
Social Traffic - As you probably already know, social media is one of mankind's greatest inventions. It consumes and generates so much attention because in so many ways, it represents entertainment for 4 billion plus people.
So as business owners and digital marketers, we are sharing articles, videos, photos and more to social media. When users click any of these creatives on social media generating a redirect to your website, it is considered social traffic. And yes, you probably should be taking advantage of this as a major source of traffic for your website and business.
I am just sharing these categories with you to make it easier to comprehend your experience properly when you do start to execute. So this is not a guarantee that other platforms will categorize traffic sources exactly like this. But it will be somewhat close and you will be able to generate traffic to your website on-demand after a few minutes of assessment on how any platforms’ analytics is set up.
Our website www.myEmpirePRO.com at press time generated 43.76% from organic search traffic, 26.52% from direct traffic (we have a specific domain name hybrid strategy for that), 2.29% from referral traffic, 1.03% from social traffic (which we can definitely improve on) and 25.14% from “others” all in the last 28 days alone. A total of 1,012 new users.
“Others” traffic sources are simply traffic sources that the robots were not able to categorize properly. Always remember that digital marketing will never be perfect. Nonetheless, it’s the closest you will get to perfect marketing.
After the launch of this book, we will be scaling it all up even bigger because what I teach is clearly working. These are real humans with real life interests and opportunities to serve stopping by at our websites and we are going to be scaling.
But I want to share www.LOLAandOLA.com traffic sources with you as well. From 1,059 new users in the last 28 days, 77.93% came from organic search, 17.13% came from direct traffic, 0.84% came from social, 0.74% came from referral traffic.
This is what I want you to do. I want you to step up your traffic generation game. What do you sell right now? How do you make money today? Yes. You do have something that you sell even if it’s just your time by way of a resume.
And the more eyeballs your resume gets, the higher the chances that you will get a new job offer. It gives you more options to exercise which means you get to set your own prices in the marketplace. Isn’t that empowering?
It’s easy to look at everything I’ve been sharing with you as digital marketing. But it might have been harder for you to relate it to what you sell today. It doesn’t have to be. Just simply use “eyeballs” on your resume, products and service interchangeably with “traffic” or the “source.” Then it should start to make sense.
Starting today, start relating with social media and the search engines like a producer and not another consumer. As I told you earlier, there are more than 4 billion social media users in the year 2022. There is more than enough supply of consumers obviously because the whole human race is not even up to 8 billion people.
More than half of us are just consuming social media in general. What if you learn and master step-by-step how to produce social media? Are you fully and cognitively aware of the magnitude of opportunity that is when you find the value you can bring into today’s social media marketplace?
There is something that you do effortlessly but that thing is also extremely valuable to someone either hanging out on social media right now or actively searching for that same exact solution online. That is probably the value that your employer recognizes but they are paying you only 1% of what it’s worth. And I don’t blame your employer.
It’s time to get your talent, products and services in front of the people that are most likely going to value them appropriately. That’s why in the next chapter we will be breaking down “the structure”.
We are getting closer and closer to executing these multi-million dollar proven concepts for you and your business; even if you don’t already own a business.
Only a handful of people will do it. But that’s the point. The scarcity of “YOU Inc” is precisely “the source” of your fortune. If you don’t stop, I won’t stop, not only until I finish writing this book, but also until you become a success story from this book.
In the next chapter, I am going to share with you some more sources of the right people. And I will share the fundamentals that work on any platform for setting up and scaling out a 7 figure digital marketing campaign.
CHAPTER 8 The Information - About two years into my digital marketing journey, I discovered high ticket offers as a strategy. I will explain what it means to you in a second. But first, understand it’s probably going to be the defining demarcation between suffering and thriving for your bottomline.
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I had managed to become a top digital sales producer on a few platforms but it also felt like I was working too hard to make $30 commissions. To be honest, I was a little spoiled. I was waking up quite often to $219 commission notifications; sometimes more and sometimes less.
Till today, I still get random sales commission notifications from work I did years ago. But I wanted more. I came from the real estate world where I cashed up to $82,000 in one deal. I knew I had to bring 10X that type of value in order to make that type of money on one single transaction.
So I decided to create an offer with a $4,997 price point for the community I had built and sold a $47 offer to.
There are about ‘107’ $47 in one $4,997. Even though I had packaged an offer with 1,000X value, I still had a little fear whispering in my left ear.
In fact, one of the first feedback I got while delivering the sales presentation was extremely discouraging. It was a random guy in the chat who called me a joke. “Who is the sucker that will pay you $4,997 for this crap?” It was scary.
However, that same presentation created 5 sales. Let’s do some quick math. 5 sales of a $4,997 offer is equal to $24,985 from one sales presentation.
And the shocking part about that was this. These new customers told me in their application interview that they had seen the $47 offer but it was too cheap for them to even take it seriously.
Inside the last chapter, we explored data in so many ways as related to running your business in a digital age. You learned that every activity and process is an opportunity to collect data right?
How far did it go with respect to an objective? But how far should it go? We covered all these different metrics and data to collect and why we collect them. From a visit to a lead and eventually to sales.
We also touched on “views” as a metric when it comes to videos. Videos are powerful ways of connecting with web users. So it is important to collect data as these users watch videos in order to optimize the performance of these videos.
To an extent, digital marketing professionals and business owners do need to be obsessed with collecting data for optimization. But you also learned that modesty is necessary because what’s the point of collecting a bunch of data that will never be analyzed, much less used to optimize campaign performance.
Anytime a user visits one of your web properties, value is being created, transferred and distributed. In fact, money is being spent even before people actually initiate transactions as they consume content that ultimately influences transaction initiations.
So since each little mini-steps informs and influences subsequent steps in the user behavior, you learned that we need to be collecting data to measure in order to optimize for the ultimate goal.
All clicks matter when it comes to digital marketing. But all views, pageviews, actions and user behaviors matter even more. So we must collect these numbers (data) because you never know which one is going to turn to a $19,000 sale… or a $42 sale and everything in between.
In addition to collecting these data, we need to analyze and convert them to meaningful “information”. You would think that I have the confidence to try new things after that 100x revenue story I just shared with you right? Nothing could be further from the truth. I’ve also had enough experiences of losing everything because I tried new things.
The negative traumatic memories are a more impactful stronghold on the human mind. I’ve had to question my own documented abilities and success stories (millions of dollars in production) many times because of fewer bad results. So it’s not as simple as that success story might have made it seem.
While I really enjoy the passion I feel from digital marketing activities, I started to feel exhausted with the amount of hours I was unnecessarily spending on minimum wage technical activities. I started craving for opportunities to deliver big results which I knew I was capable of doing in exchange for bigger fees especially knowing that I had done it before. I can’t call this experiment.
But I was also afraid of creating a new offer that could distract me from what was already working. Distraction is real and it can cost significantly more than what you are thinking when I say that. It’s a variable that’s often underrated. I feel like I am still a victim of distraction in business. Like I said, I am a little traumatized.
As a creative mind, ideas come to me all the time and I truly believe my personal net worth would be 100 times of what it is right now if I had been able to control my creative urges a little more.
I get bored easily. And boredom can be a sign of a healthy business. Do you feel me on how much of an oxymoron that is?
So I am terrified of trying new ideas when business is working well for me even though the ideas never stop flowing. Some of these ideas could potentially 100x my revenue even with less effort but because I went broke a few times trying new things; it’s a real struggle.
As best practices in marketing, you have to test your way to the results you are looking to achieve. All the data being collected should be collected as you test variables against itself at least in 2 variations at any stop in the user or customer experience.
For example, the fear that tends to overwhelm me when it’s time to test all these ideas that I get is easily mitigated once I think about them as opportunities to test for. It starts to feel like fun. In fact, testing new ideas and variations are highly recommended.
The issues come when there is no structure to guide certain levels of creative chaos. But that problem is finally solved when you master the art and science of converting data into “information”. You can then use the information to decide on scaling the new idea or killing it.
So in my story, all I had to do was to generate a certain fraction or percentage of my traffic (we also call this visits) towards my $47 offer and whatever is left of the generated traffic towards the $4,997 offer for a period of time until I’ve generated a minimum of 100 visits in total. The idea of the 100 visits is to statistically have enough samples to make a call of the winning variation. The higher the sample-visits, the better.
In the case of this example, you collected the clicks data which is 100 visits. Some analytic tools might call this 100 users or 100 clicks. You also collected 2 additional pieces of data; 2 sales of the $4,997 offer and 19 sales of the $47 offer.
Up until this point, it’s all data. But after analyzing these data points, we found that 2 sales at $4,997 is equal to $9,994 for the bottomline and 19 sales at $47 is equal to $893. With this “information”, we can make a business decision accordingly.
This activity of converting data points to meaningful information for the purpose of intelligent business decisions is called analytics. With analytics and the information you get, you can be more objective in your approach to testing new ideas for viability and therefore reduce the overall emotions in the outcome of your digital marketing campaigns.
Remember that digital marketing is all about a user or prospect journey from the first moment they land on your website until they convert to a customer. One of the many opportunities that digital marketing presents is the ability to track, monitor and measure the user behavior throughout that experience in order to use it to optimize.
While the idea is to optimize for maximized profit ultimately, the purpose also by default is to make the experience soothing for the user. You want to be able to deliver value not just with whatever the core product is, but also with the experience.
You can analyze and you can report elaborately and also visually. Business decision makers at enterprise level will most likely not have time to be digging through so many data points that today's digital analytic tools are able to collect. So these visual representations after analysis are necessary.
Data collection, which is what we covered in last chapter, is more about the “information in quantity” which are quite also useless by themselves for business decisions. But once it is analyzed and converted to information in reports, it's about “quality information”. It can be reviewed quickly by stakeholders.
95% of businesses are still failing within their first 5 years. One of the many reasons for this is an ever evolving consumer pattern. Things get older very quickly in the digital age. With digital marketing analytics, there are patterns revealed earlier enough to pivot before it impacts the business negatively.
If you haven't noticed yet, I've used the title of this chapter to simplify the understanding of digital marketing analytics. Analytics is simply a fancy way to describe analysis and reporting of user behavior data as useful, meaningful and business decision making "information."
There are 3 types of analysis that we are generally concerned about overall. Some of these terminologies may change and evolve as you continue your digital marketing journey. However, the concept is evergreen.
And the 3 types of analysis are Acquisition, Behavior and Conversion (ABC). User data is being collected and analyzed in all of these 3 segments of a user's journey on your online properties such as your website (your main hub) or one of your main nodes such as your YouTube channel or Facebook page.
- Acquisition - This is all the data set collected as a measure of how users were initially attracted to your online properties. It measures how many users, new users and the number of sessions they initiated. As we covered earlier, a user can visit your online properties multiple times. Each time is referred to as a session.
- Behavior - This is the data set that tracks and measures the users’ behavior of your online properties. It's analyzed, reported and used to optimize for higher engagement which is indication that they are getting the value they came there for.
In this phase, the bounce rate (which is the rate at which users are viewing only one page in a session, an indication of low engagement), the number of pages viewed per session on average and the average session duration (which is how long they are spending on your properties) are measured. As you can see, it gets into a little more analysis of the user behavior.
- Conversion - Then we have the measurement of the rate at which certain predetermined goals are achieved and desired actions are taken. We have goals and actions such as leads generation and sales generation of course.
For example at press time, I have pulled out more recent data for the last 30 days of our Google Analytics.
We've acquired 1,042 users of which 1,020 are new users. 1,031 sessions were initiated. Let's quickly take a closer look before I get into the "behavior" segment.
When you look at the difference between 1,042 users and 1,020 new users, that means only 22 users were repeat users. Already, I don't like that number. At least, I want as close as possible to half of our total users to be repeat and revisiting users.
Hopefully, the readers that this book attracts will help us accomplish that. We will be implementing additional measures to improve that number and I will be sharing more inside myEmpirePRO Inner Circle training.
Also, only 1,031 sessions were initiated. That's barely more than one page viewed by each user. There is art and there is science to improve on engagement. But the point of this lesson is showcased in the next set of analysis; "Behavior".
In that segment, the reports indicate a 74.48% bounce rate, 1.61 pages per session and an average session duration of 1 minute and 2 seconds (00:01:02).
With regards to “conversion” such as leads or sales generation, can we use you as an example? When you acquired this book, you became a lead for our business. At the very minimum, you gave us your contact information as indication of interest in digital marketing either as a career or 7 figure side-hustle. What do all these mean?
Well... we have a little more confirmation of our first analysis which is the fact that we need to improve on our engagement level on www.myEmpirePRO.com
The reality (and I promise... not an excuse) is that we have been working on this book and a pivot into teaching more of digital marketing as a 6 figure career and 7 figure side-hustle. We expect a sharp increase as we release more in-depth training and success stories and we will be sharing.
The main point of this chapter is to highlight the transition from last chapter which was about learning these data-points and metrics into using analytics to convert them to business intelligence. And I've just demonstrated that in real time with our own main hub; www.myEmpirePRO.com
As your first step to setting up analytics for collecting, analyzing and reporting on user behavior data, you obviously need a main hub commonly known as a website. You also need the website to be self hosted. It's just a lot more unreliable to use free blogs.
I also recommend that you build this website on a content management system (CMS) called WordPress. There is a very strong reason why WordPress powers 43% of websites online right now. One of the reasons is that it is easy to set up, plug and play.
With WordPress, you can add and remove features as it automatically updates for free. In this time and digital age, you should already expect that software and apps need regular updates. I'm sure that you notice the same phenomenon on your smartphone mobile apps. Sometimes, it stops you and makes you update before continuing to use.
WordPress is the material and structure for your online property. While WordPress is a free CMS, the online property (kinda’ like a land in real life) and its digital and easy to reference address (like www.myEmpirePRO.com) is not free. But they are extremely affordable.
For as low as $5 per month, you can be hosted online. Go to www.myEmpirePRO.com/hosting and set up your WordPress powered website right away. It's quite user-friendly and that’s in addition to the fact that you can chat with live support if you need help.
They will also help you with setting up the Google Search Console for tracking and optimizing organic traffic and Google Analytics features so that you too can start collecting and analyzing user behavior data.
If you'd rather spend money than time on user and customer acquisition to your website and online properties, you might want to check out this third party analytics tool at www.myEmpirePRO.com/clickmagick I think they offer a free trial. Don't quote me.
All of these tools are self explanatory and easy to use especially if you read this book multiple times; 10-15 times. It’s necessary in order to create mastery.
And like I said earlier, we are teaching digital marketing as a 6 figure 9-5 career and also as a 7 figure side-hustle opportunity. It's wild-open and anyone can participate either as an employee (21+ job opportunities at various levels) for businesses as a digital marketing analyst or 7 figure creator or messenger as an entrepreneur.
In the next chapter, we will be addressing a major problem. According to ahref.com, 90% of online content and websites gets no traffic; ghost-land. No one comes to these websites.
Hopefully you execute today what you've learned by setting up your very own WordPress powered professional hub online. But the worst thing that can happen is to not figure out how to be in that top 10% that's getting all the online traffic and generating all the money.
If you are not generating consistent traffic of users to your website, there is no data to collect much less to analyze, report and use to optimize. It's all useless and a waste of resources.
So we will be diving into the four categories of online traffic channels and then we will break them down to the different "sources" and media. We will talk about the pros and the cons of each one. But we also have to reference them to the resources you already have available.
One of the major issues with people that try to implement digital marketing is when they don't realize that they already participate in one shape or form. I am calling that out and we will leverage your existing activities and sources of traffic online. Then we can build on top of it.
We will also cover the pros and cons of free and paid traffic generation. Some people will hurt their chances of success going after paid traffic and the same is true for some that will chase after free traffic. We will be breaking that down as we've done with the book up till this point.
Welcome back to LOLAandOLA.com. Let’s talk about the 7 stages of an emotional affair; a sequel to “5 signs of an emotional affair”.
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Let’s check out this story.
“So my wife seems to be having an emotional affair with her boss.
She locked me out of her home computer a few months back (it was shared).
Just before that I noticed she'd been trying to find a way to stop her phone messages being saved in the cloud.
When I did see some of her messages she's been texting with him all times of day and at weekends.
When she went away on a trip a couple of times, he was getting pictures and texts etc. I got nothing.
He talks back with her a lot.
She's deleted a lot of the texts (presumably the worst ones??).
Some of the texts seem to be suggestive but I can't see if they lead anywhere but I don't think anything physical has happened.
It's more flirting.”
Sorry about this trauma. It’s going to take a lot of work to get out of this funk. And I am sorry you have to go through this.
Maybe understanding the stages of emotional affairs can help you put things in better perspective so you can move forward in the most effective way.
Let’s get into it.
Stage 1 Void In order for another person to occupy the space of intimacy in a relationship, there must be some type of void.
This is not to blame or assign fault away from the transgressor to the other partner but to highlight the fact that it is what it is.
If you caught your partner in this type of bad behavior, always remember it’s not your fault but that’s not equivalent to not assuming responsibility in the overall status of your relationship.
Stage 2 Friendship You’ve always had friends anyway. For women, they often need to feel safe and secure.
So the closest person to that when there is a void they want to fill in their present relationship or marriage are ex’s.
Ladies. Be careful with keeping friendships with your exes. It might seem innocent because after all there are stages.
You probably already know that everything feels wrong but right at the same time with this inappropriate relationship.
If you are not careful, you will eventually find yourself justifying it. Don’t wait for it because again, friendship is a seemingly innocent stage of emotional affairs.
Stage 3 Sharing In this stage, the transgressor is getting comfortable and starting to share intimate details with the loser on the side.
Why are they losers? It’s just the reality because you are clearly not 100% emotionally available but yet, they are hoping to build something serious usually.
There is a void as I stated in stage one but it is not the same thing as being emotionally available which is a requirement for a healthy relationship.
Not only was that lady sharing details, when she went away on a trip a couple of times, the loser was getting pictures and texts while the husband got nothing.
At this point, the marriage is in the danger zone.
Stage 4 Secrecy What happens next? The transgressor is leaving exhibits and digital footprints on SMS, text messages and WhatsApp right?
These are now secrets which in this context can be described somewhat as lies. They have to tell more lies and create more secrets to cover up.
But there is a problem.
No matter how much they try to delete messages, it gets worse because even though… remember that story…
“She's deleted a lot of the worst texts ,the remaining seem to be suggestive.”
Yes he couldn’t see if they led anywhere or think anything physical had happened. But the mind doesn’t know that.
Stage 5 Fantasy Up till this stage, nothing has necessarily happened physically. But the natural order of things is for the mind to engage images of going all the way through.
At this stage, the transgressor is starting to fantasize not just about physical intimacy but also about what life could be like with the side person.
The mind won’t rest or let’s flip it. The mind may not be able to comprehend the danger in all of these until a physical act has happened.
That’s why people would call it a mistake while in reality this can only be realistically described as premeditated in reality.
Stage 6 Dependency At this stage, the transgressor has spent a lot of energy on this side relationship. Yes. they might as well call it a relationship because it’s denial.
They’ve started to fantasize about life with this person and the last thing they want you to call the interaction is an affair.
If you don’t speak to them in a day, your mind won't rest. It’s an unhealthy dependency because you can’t really live in truth; nonetheless a dependency.
Don’t forget that the transgressor still depends on the actual partner for something hence the difficulty in just leaving as opposed to cheating.
Stage 7 Justification At this stage, a transgressor is actively trying to turn a lie into a truth.
Actually, they are probably being honest since they have been intimate with another person consistently over a period of time.
There is an illusion of greener grass on the other side.
So even though it’s a dishonest lifestyle, it was filling a void and therefore feels like the truth and it’s just being actively justified.
At least, it might feel justified. It is not. That band aid must be ripped off that open and rotten wound once and for all.
Many pieces of advice on the internet will probably be conclusive and I know that you probably don’t want to end the marriage. So it’s confusing at best.
You might not know how far the affair has gone but it really doesn’t matter. Emotional affairs can hurt just as much if not more because of the fear of the unknown.
Reference our last video for recovery tips if you’ve caught your partner in this bad behavior. It’s called “5 Signs of An Emotional Affair + 5 RECOVERY TIPS”.
We share our own story inside the book "GET MY MARRIAGE BACK" which you can download for free at www.GetMyMarriageBack.com
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CHAPTER 7 The Data - In 2010, I was in a partnership with my brother and we thought we could make things move a little faster with growing the business.
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The New Jersey Northeast Corridor train line travels all the way through our neighborhood from the greatest city in the world, New York City, to the state capital city, Trenton.
So many professionals get on and off this train all week during rush hours daily. These were the types of people we wanted as prospects for the business we were trying to build. So we thought why not print a bunch of flyers and give them out to all the people coming off the train at 5:45pm in the evening. Great idea right?
No it wasn’t. Let me explain. First of all, it was a gross assumption on our part that most people ever want to be sold unsolicited products even if it’s free. It's a red flag at best.
As they collected the flyers from us, which seems like it was done out of pity, they dumped them in the next visible garbage.
I understood it but damn; it hurt. Not only did we spend money on printing those flyers, we also spent time and even worse; a lot of emotional energy anticipating success.
Anyway, we did not get a single person from that terrible marketing to sign up. I don’t believe it was particularly because of the marketing channel. I think it was more so because there is no focused way of tracking the success or some type of progress from this activity at least for us at the time.
We just wanted to get the words out as soon as possible. But oftentimes, that’s the mindset of people who lack strategy. Marketing with no strategy? You might as well grab a lighter and burn down your money.
So we were talking about the list in the last chapter right? You learned about the mistake that has cost me millions of dollars over the years. By the way, I continue to have urges to mess with the same mistakes.
You learned that the timing is not always right for your prospect but you must set up in a way that the timing is always right for you to serve when they are ready.
How do you do that? It’s as simple as serving your prospect the old fashioned way by serving first in exchange for their contact information. That gives you the power to re-engage and re-market to them at a lesser cost.
The original discovery and exposure of your business to prospects cost you marketing dollars right? But when you focus on list building as the main objective of that front end campaign of your business, it offsets your marketing cost dramatically.
In that chapter, you learn the various ways to ensure that you are capturing leads (contact information) even when you are offering free shipping and handling. The ultimate goal is still to capture contact information and build a list of these highly targeted prospects.
This list we are talking about becomes the greatest asset of the company since money comes from only one place; from people.
You learned that it’s not just about the data, email addresses, phone numbers and people’s names. It’s more so about the fact that the individuals associated with this data have demonstrated high interest in what is being offered.
Remember. You learned that many people will attempt to sell you data online. But they will mostly be selling you useless data of prospects who haven’t shown or demonstrated interest in your offer.
At best, you will lose money in these types of activities. There are some hacks around retargeting purchased data online with major advertising platforms. It’s still a gamble.
But I wasn’t even talking about that type of data. There is a big problem.
There is nothing worse than getting excited about the extremely profitable opportunities that digital marketing presents and then losing your life savings to Facebook and Google trying to implement.
Remember that money I lost in 5 minutes? It is even easier to waste resources on marketing that doesn’t collect data. If you are not tracking the present status and performance of your marketing campaigns, how could you possibly create a plan to get you to a desired destination?
To jump on an advertising platform is one of the easiest things to do nowadays. It’s user friendly. But again, it’s just as easy to lose money. In fact, the more buoyant you are, the easier it is for you to lose money.
On the flip side, if you are broke, you would be watching every penny which takes your focus off collecting big enough samples to create a profitable business.
Most people initiating digital marketing campaigns might set up a $5 per day ad campaign and leave it running. By the time they get charged $150 on the 30th day, they suddenly realize that these advertising platforms know exactly what they are doing. They are not playing. They will take your money in a heartbeat.
At press time, Meta Platforms Inc (formerly Facebook) is worth USD $372.52 Billion and Alphabet Inc (The owner of Google) is worth a whopping USD $1.29 Trillion. They don’t need your money if you are not going to make money from advertising with them.
But also, they continue to make serious money because digital marketing works for many companies. One of the factors that separates the losers and the winners in digital marketing is data.
Every marketing activity creates some type of data. The question is are you collecting that data?
In our flyer story that I shared with you earlier, we couldn’t tell you how many flyers we printed and how many ended up in the garbage. That’s a major problem.
It’s not enough to just plan and execute a digital marketing campaign. You set a smart goal from inception right? But there are also so many stops before the destination which is probably a net profit.
How much did you spend on the campaign and how much was the revenue that was generated from it? That’s too wide of a gap to wait on executing in order to track and ensure success.
When a prospect encounters your ad for the first time, that is a discovery. An impression was created. That’s literally the first goal that we want to track.
How many impressions did your business, message or ad receive in the last 28 days, last 7 days and yesterday? The answer is data that we want to continue to collect because the more it is, the better; all things being equal. It means exposure.
When you are a novice in marketing like my brother and I were, you are marketing but you are not collecting data to measure success. And if you do, you are not doing so unless an actual sale has happened.
That’s not good enough because you are not able to troubleshoot and diagnose without involving so much emotion. But when you start collecting meaningful data as early as when an impression is created for an ad, an image, a copy or a message, you stand a better chance at tracking performance as early as possible all the way till success.
And even when data indicates an undesirable result, you are able to generate that data much faster and earlier. That also means that you are able to pivot and adjust much earlier in the direction of the results you want to create.
The answer is data and data collection. It’s just a fancy way of saying success tracking. With digital marketing, you are able to track micro-levels of success. Unmanaged expectations only lead to disappointments. So it is necessary to have ways to track and measure expectations, goals and objectives in order to avoid overall disappointments.
Without it, you will keep wasting a significant amount of your resources on marketing activities that, not just fail, but also leave you with a bad taste in your mouth; kinda like distributing a bunch of flyers that get thrown in the garbage right in front of you.
What if you are tracking how many of those flyers go in the garbage along with how many calls you get from the ones that were kept? More importantly, are you patient enough to be tracking this data? The more you add yourself physically into the process, the less chances that you even know how to track your marketing properly in the digital age.
Tracking these data allows you to identify benchmarks and baselines to track your marketing performance against. It facilitates exponential growth and reduces your chances of entertaining costly distractions across the board.
In business, there is often a confusion between methods of performance analysis. Between qualitative or quantitative analysis, which one is better? It depends on who you are asking and their general outlook on data-driven business decisions.
By tracking these numbers, you are better positioned to objectively orchestrate the results you are looking to create from your digital marketing campaigns. The data being collected becomes available for further analysis and competitive advantage. Your competitors will have a hard time matching your level of performance.
On the flip side, many emotions are involved and camouflaged as qualitative analysis when you put your heart and soul into dinosaur and old school marketing activities. You are telling yourself a lie that will consume your resources and return almost nothing.
So let’s break down 7 or 8 of the most important metrics you will encounter on a consistent basis when collecting digital marketing performance data over a period of time. The period is typically set as default at “last 28 days”. But it can also be “last 7 days”, last 90 days, last 365 days or even lifetime. Let’s identify the different metrics.
Impression - This is the number of times a digital creative (content, ad copy, image, video etc) is visible to the human eyes.
Users - This is the number of individuals that have seen a digital creative. If one person sees the same content twice, it is counted as one user because it’s the same user. On some platforms, the number of users is also called “reach”. This metric is also broken down to new and returning users. Ideally, you want both metrics to be increasing.
An increasing number of new users means you are doing a good job at attracting new eyeballs on a consistent basis. And increasing returning users means you are delivering value that’s highly engaging; potentially creating repeat customers.
Click - This is the number of times creatives are engaged with a mouse click or mobile's finger or stylus tap that actually redirects a loaded webpage to another.
View or Pageview - While the clicks we are mostly concerned about redirects the user to another webpage, it doesn’t always result in a full pageview. Pageview is the metric that measures the number of times a page is fully loaded by a user.
This is called a view if the main creative on the page is a video that autoplays at a full page load. However, not all page views lead to a video view because some videos are not set to auto play.
Lead Conversion - This the conversion metric that measures the number of user contacts that are captured for list building and future follow up; indicative of a higher interest.
Sale Conversion - This is the conversion metric that measures the number of transactions that increase revenue. On some data collection and tracking platforms, a conversion is also called an action or a goal.
Cost - This is the total amount of dollars spent on marketing and advertising. And here is a bonus but probably the most important metric.
Revenue - This is the total amount of money generated associated with, tracked or attributed to running a digital campaign.
Presently, we have two main digital marketing projects that I’d love to share with you. These are real life businesses and I’d love to share a few examples of data we are collecting with you at press time.
As a matter of fact, two email notifications came in as I am writing this chapter. They usually come in between the 1st and the 3rd day of every month from the Google Search Console team. This report is particularly received for sites that generate organic traffic from Google search.
So our first main project is myEmpirePRO.com which generated 19,700 impressions and 224 clicks in the whole of the last month. There were also 38 pages with their first impressions ever. That means Google showed these 38 webpages to their users for the first time ever.
New content achievements such as the top three growing pages generating more clicks from the search engine results page (SERP) ranking was also reported. The top two growing pages generated 5 more clicks than the previous month and the third runners up generated two more clicks than previous month’s.
Also top performing pages with the highest total number of clicks generated was also reported. The highest performing page generated 44 clicks, the second runners up generated 24 clicks and the third runners up generated 19 clicks. There is more data reported and also a button to take you into the full report hosted on the Google search console.
Our second project is LOLAandOLA.com which generated 24,600 impressions and 519 clicks in the whole of the previous month. There were also 15 pages with their first impressions ever. Again, that means Google showed these 15 webpages to their users for the first time ever.
New content achievements such as the top three growing pages generating more clicks from the search engine results page (SERP) ranking was also reported. The highest growing page generated 10 more clicks than the previous month’s, the second and third generated 8 more clicks each than the previous month’s.
Also top performing pages with the highest total number of clicks generated was also reported. The highest performing page generated 64 clicks, the second runners up generated 47 clicks and the third runners up generated 45 clicks.
We have access to these data and so much more which means we can track the performance of these digital marketing campaigns. That means we can scale the winners and kill the losers.
This is what I want you to do to start collecting these data-set for your digital marketing activities. I want you to set up two tools on your self hosted web projects. Two tracking tools set is perfect because there is no one single tracking tool that is perfect. They all have discrepancies in their collected data.
Google Search Console - These sets of tools and reports help you measure your site's search traffic and performance, fix issues, and make your site shine in Google Search results.
The data sets I shared with you from the monthly reports of our two projects are from that console. It’s particularly good for you if you want to invest time and resources into generating organic traffic for the Google search engine.
Simply go to: https://search.google.com/search-console/
Add your website information, click continue, and follow the instructions to start collecting the data. It’s free like many Google tools and modules. If the interface is a little different by the time you are reading this, just follow the instructions on the screen.
For traffic that we are generating from sources other than organic, we use a third party tracking that helps us to, not only measure clicks data, but also optimize ads and the whole sales process.
Check it out at: myEmpirePRO.com/clickmagick
It comes with more flexibility if you don’t want to depend on the reports from the ad platforms selling your traffic; avoiding conflict of interest.
What do we do with the data we are collecting? How do we leverage them to facilitate growth and better performance? That’s what we will cover in the next chapter.
We will get into generating useful information from these data sets to make better business decisions.
Do I need to remind you that 95% of businesses fail within their first 5 years? A lot of the business decisions they make are emotions-driven; that’s why. And it gets worse when they notice that they are losing money.
So you will be learning how to generate useful and presentable information that business decision makers leverage to grow sales and revenue in a digital age.
We might also talk about how to flip information into a $204,555 monthly revenue business. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn’t. But then that means there is a little probability left to assess right?
After all in this digital era, it’s all numbers, data, ones and zeros. If you are not leveraging this opportunity, it’s okay. Being average is pretty normal too.
And by the way, you can also overdo data collection and analysis. Overkill does exist when you are obsessed with tracking everything trackable.
Just like in every endeavor, modesty is key when tracking performance at every level of your digital marketing campaigns. Every performance tracking activity consumes energy and therefore must be managed.
Let’s talk about the 5 signs of an emotional affair.
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So should you separate after an emotional affair? Check out this story… “I am 38 years old. I recently realized my 34 years old wife has had an emotional affair for the last four years.
The past two weeks have been hell for me. We've been married for 9 years and have two beautiful kids.
I caught my wife last week chatting with someone and when I confronted her she said it was just a casual talk with a friend for stress relief and that it started a few months ago.
As I dug up more evidence she has gradually admitted that the affair started four years ago and now has finally admitted that he was her ex lover in college.
She has apologized and said that she will end for good and that she is ashamed of having continued it for so long.
But I find myself obsessively rewinding all the things I did over the last four years.
She had the affair through almost half of our married life, through the birth of our second child and even when I was hospitalized.
I can’t seem to move on and have a gnawing feeling of doubt mixed with anger, jealousy and sadness.”
First of all, I am very sorry for the emotional pain this has probably caused you and your family. This is not going to be easy.
What is An Emotional Affair? Good Question. An emotional affair involves emotional intimacy with a person other than a partner that you are committed to even when it doesn’t involve physical intimacy. It can hurt just as much if not more.
As usual, we want to share the top 5 signs that you or your marriage may be suffering from an emotional affair. And then we will add 5 tips for recovery for you.
Let’s get into it.
Sign Number 5 Absence or Fantasy So this sign is like two-in-one because sometimes the transgressor is also wondering if their behavior is inappropriate or dangerous.
If you find yourself fantasizing over and over about another person in a romantic way, this may be a sign of an emotional affair or a brewing one at least.
On the flip side, if you notice that your partner seems absent in the relationship, there is usually no vacuum of energy. There is a reason.
Your partner is probably intimate with another person at least emotionally. After all, we are talking about something that’s all in the mind.
But then everything in life starts from the mind.
Recovery tip number five is that it’s not your fault.
But then I am guessing we are talking about a person you love and want to nurture a better relationship with.
So “this”... not being your fault doesn’t mean you can’t assume responsibility in rekindling your relationship with a better foundation.
Sign Number 4 Secrecy Naturally when a partner is involved in inappropriate behavior, they might start doing things in secret.
The concept of a secret lover is not a joke. But it doesn’t necessarily start like that. It starts long before that.
We are talking about signs right? The symptoms! That’s why you want to make sure you watch the next video on the stages of emotional affairs.
At this stage however, it’s probably becoming obvious that your partner is actively hiding something over a period of time.
If they were planning a surprise party for you, this suspicious feeling you have… probably won’t last longer than a couple of weeks.
Recovery tip number four if it’s no longer a secret is that you should take some time and space away from the relationship.
There is no good decision that can be made when you are hurting emotionally.
Sign Number 3 Greener Grass If you are on the receiving side of this bad behavior, you are probably starting to hear your spouse compare you to random others.
You’ve been noticing that nothing you do is good enough. But also, there is an unfair comparison with your partner’s friends, siblings or randoms.
As a transgressor, you should simply know that the grass is probably greener on the other side because someone is watering it or it’s flat-out synthetic.
It’s FAKE!
Our recovery tip number three is that you should engage wise counsel. Better yet if you can afford it, engage a therapist.
Don’t attempt to get out of this funk with common sense tactics, advice or by your own self. It’s much more complicated than right and wrong.
Sign Number 2 Emotional Tampon Ideally, your partner should be spending their gist and relaxation time with you because we are all busy with life right?
You can’t wait to come back to a partner you are in love with.
So when a partner seems like they’d rather spend hours on the phone with some other BFF who acts as their emotional tampon, it might be a sign of concern.
Likewise if you’ve noticed that you enjoy time with some old friend, especially an ex, that’s the danger zone and the end is probably not going to be good.
Recovery tip number two - If you catch your partner already, like the story I shared earlier, determine if they still want the marriage.
It’s not the determining factor if you should leave the marriage or not but it’s a condition because you can’t afford to negotiate “desire” in a romantic relationship.
Sign Number 1 Consistency So none of these signs are valid unless it’s consistent over a period of time. There is no one event that can dictate the fate of your relationship.
You must have noticed emotional absence, secrecy tendencies, unfair comparisons, inappropriate engagements with friends… all of these signs over a period of time.
As for recovery tip number one, do you still want the marriage? Rember that you can’t want the marriage more than your partner in this type of situation.
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CHAPTER 5 The List - So in April, 2009, I was fresh out of the real estate crash and I was attempting different things. I built an online mall. I discovered affiliate marketing for the first time. And I tried to use the concept to invent a cashback mall. Today, you can see many cash back opportunities with credit cards, retail reward programs attached to different websites.
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Anyway, I paid a couple of hundred dollars for a home study course and I learned about the Google Ads platform for the first time. Back then and up till not too long ago, it was called Google Adwords.
The concept was simple. All I had to do was find a product on an affiliate network that paid a commission for generating sales. In order to generate sales, all I had to do was give my special trackable link to a prospect and I would earn a commission if a sale was generated as a result of clicking my trackable link.
In my mind at that moment, I had hit a jackpot. So I searched through the product affiliate network and found an e-book on generating real estate fortunes. I could relate because the previous few years before that… that was my life; real estate.
I decided to set up my first Good Adwords campaign and in about 5 minutes, Google had charged my credit card for $700. A $47 sales was generated. I panicked and I turned the damn campaign off immediately.
So let’s do the math. $700 minus $47 is equal to $653 in net loss. But also, I generated the million dollar lesson that I am about to share with you right now. I’ve used it so many times since then as a guide whenever I'm setting up any type of campaign, especially with digital marketing.
In the last chapter, we discussed “the system”, input, tools, techniques, processes and outputs. We talked about how important it is build a campaign in a self-sustainable way so that you do not have to be a slave to making it work.
To a large extent, humans are still needed to test, run and scale successful digital marketing campaigns. But ideally, you want to set it up in a way that humans are only needed for the set up, and data analysis for scaling growth.
And with “humans in this respect, I am not talking about the human prospects or audience to the campaign. I am talking about the digital marketer or the entrepreneur seeking to build the audience and subsequently sales generation for a business.
We discussed the fact that many tools are available in the marketplace for digital marketing. In fact, the majority of them will be described as systems. And frankly, they are all systems in their own right as long as an input, a process and an output are identifiable.
All processes can in fact be described as a system. But I need you to understand that each of your digital marketing campaigns or projects is a standalone system that involves multiple processes hopefully with trackable and measurable inputs and outputs.
This is how to turn a complex process into super simple and easy to understand and implementable execution. If I come to you and ask you to break down a brand awareness campaign for a new version of the Toyota Highlander on the Meta/Facebook Advertising platform, you can now draw a plan on a piece of paper in effort to understand what the inputs and the outputs would be.
What resources are available and what are the desired outcomes of the campaign? It’s a mindset shift. In addition to that, you will increase the chances of better outputs from the campaign just for having a plan.
But there is a major problem. The gentleman who was the actual instructor of the Google Adwords home study course actually described different types of campaigns.
He talked about the first one which is a sales generation campaign. It involved setting up a campaign that landed on a sales presentation page as soon as you clicked the ad in the search engine results page (THE SERP).
In digital marketing, there is something called “the bounce”.
What is the bounce? A bounce happens when a user clicks a marketing message to land into your website but the landing page is the only page they viewed. In real life, they typically don't like what they see and they click the ‘BACK’ button to go back to the SERP.
So when you set up a campaign with traffic or clicks as the objective, a bounce means you just lost money equivalent to the cost of that one click. The ultimate objective is to create sales right? What are the chances that a sale will be generated from any given click on your ad?
From decade-long experience, it’s 10% or less no matter how good your sales copy is.
So how did I end up with a $700 bill and a $47 sale which entitled me to only 50% commission ($23.50) by the way? I generated tons of clicks and the majority of them turned out to be a bounce for many possible reasons. Each one of the clicks cost me a certain amount of money.
For the sake of simplicity, let’s assume that each click cost me $1.07. So that means (700 divided by $1.07) 654 clicks on the ad generated that $700 bill. After 5 minutes, only one sale was generated. That would be one sale divided by 654 clicks and then multiplied by 100%. That’s equal to 0.15% sales per click rate.
At that rate, how long will it take to break even if I ever do? As you can see, I am probably better off building a business the traditional route.
The second type of campaign that the instructor shared in the home study course was a list building campaign. In this type of campaign, the ultimate objective is no longer sales. Okay. It is sales for the business but not just “sales”. The ultimate objective is maximizing profits.
As a newbie in digital marketing, I was super excited about the idea of working from home or from the beach with a laptop generating money on demand. Who doesn’t want that? So my natural instinct was to choose the clicks generation campaign objective camouflaged as sales objective. At the back of my mind, a lot of clicks would turn to sales since they had interest.
I went ahead and set up a clicks or traffic generation campaign without thinking things all the way through and properly. It was a short sighted strategy and it burnt me badly. Let me explain.
In that example that I gave earlier, there were (654 minus 1 sale) 653 prospects that I paid actual money to attract to my landing page with the sales presentation right? Those people had actual interest as evident by their action. They actually clicked the ad.
But if I wanted to attract them again, I would have to spend another $700 and there is no guarantee that I would get them to buy the product. In fact, if the number worked out the way it did before, I would now be ($1,400 minus $47) $1,353 in the hole; net loss. It’s getting worse right?
Everytime, I want to sell a product to these people that I’ve identified as having interest, I would have to spend money and potentially lose more money. This is not turning out to be a profitable venture so far right?
From the previous chapters, you learned that 85% of people make buying decisions based on emotions and justify with logic later. You also learned that they are more likely to buy from you when they feel like they know, like and trust you. Do you still remember the KLT factor and brand equity? So we know that the fewer the exposure to your brand is, the more unlikely it is for the prospect to buy.
With list building as the objective of a front end digital marketing campaign, you are now able to remarket to prospects with established interests without spending more money. As a business owner, of course and hopefully you understand the principles of sowing in order to reap. You are going to have to spend money to make money.
But it’s obviously better if you can spend money one time to attract targeted prospects with a certain level of interest rather than for every single time you need to attract them to your website. If the main objective on the front end is to capture their contact information into a list, you can then contact them more times with your paid offer after the initial contact.
Let me ask you a question. Which action do you think would be easier to get your website user to take on their first encounter with you? Is it easier to get them to pull out their credit card to buy a product or is it easier to get them to give out their contact information in order to receive a free sample or additional information on a solution they are already interested in?
Your guess is as good as mine. It’s probably easier to get them to spend no money right? ….especially if they don’t feel like they know, like or trust you yet. Since you are capturing contact information, you are able to put a lot of focus on building that KLT factor or brand equity until they feel comfortable to buy; the ultimate goal.
It’s also better like this because of the magnitude of the impact you are leaving on your prospects long before they decided to do business with you and long after. They are even more inclined to refer more business to you. You are maximizing the output of your marketing input and resources simply for understanding the power of list building as a front end digital marketing campaign objective.
Think of it as a follow-up strategy in a traditional business model. Follow up is another form of marketing except that it will now cost you almost nothing and a lot less effort to convert a prospect to a customer. This will massively offset your marketing cost.
There are many more benefits to list building as core digital marketing strategy but let me leave you with these two benefits.
Sales on Demand - When you diligently build a list of prospects, you can send a quick email just like that and have your mortgage for the month paid.
Community Building - In addition to the heightened need to build brand equity due to competition, it’s also important to build a community around your business. List building makes it super simple to drive prospects into a discussion group where you can even get better opportunities to develop new ideas into more products.
The first step to list building is to find or create a free and valuable offer. This book is an example of a free offer that we use to generate leads and build our list. As we were marketing this book to 17 million people to download for free, this comment was left on one of the ads.
“Just Think...who would PAY for an advert and THEN give you somthing for FREE...Scammers are clever people.....”
And this was my reply….
“False. People who created value, like a book, that you probably will never create and use it to generate leads for potentially more business... aka... opportunity to give more value. Why are you triggered by the idea of people making money? You should see a therapist. The book is free and that's that. Drink some water.”
Now that was a little harsh for a reply. I guess that person caught me on a good day because we generally delete negative comments. It’s just pointless to reply to people who have made up their mind not to do business with you. But you get the gist.
It might be a product sample that you are offering your target audience. It’s free and they get to have a taste of enjoying your product or services. You might have seen examples of products being offered in exchange for just the cost of shipping.
Surprise… surprise. When you pay for the shipping and handling, your contact information which includes your physical shipping address is also captured all legally. That’s how you print money with digital marketing.
Like I said, I use the same method to build my business over the years. But I have to be 100% honest with you. I’ve had moments of non-profitable greed when I attempted to sell to strangers without getting to know them and more importantly getting them to know me; brand equity.
That behavior has cost me millions of dollars in net loss. When you are in a desperate place, it’s easy to fall back on natural “common sense based” instincts which assume that a good offer is good enough. A good offer is absolutely a necessity. But so is timing for your prospect and audience. It’s not always the right time for your prospect but you must set up and position your digital marketing campaigns in a way that the timing is always right for your campaigns to sell to a prospect who is ready to buy.
Go to your favorite social media platform and click on one of the ads you see. They typically have “sponsored” as a label next to them. What that means is that someone is paying money to the platform to target you with an offer.
Click on about 10 ads and observe how they attempt to capture your contact information; email, phone number, physical address etc. Also, pay attention to what type of free offer they are exchanging for it. Make sure it’s not a brand that you’ve seen before because that most likely wouldn’t be a first time or front end exposure ad. It’s probably a remarketing campaign.
Speaking of remarketing campaigns, in recent years, you can capture people into ad platform custom audiences once they take certain actions or engage with your ad. Although, I wouldn’t count on just that as a form of list building but it’s doable if your marketing budget is big enough for that type of risk.
However if you lose that ad account which can happen, you might lose the opportunity to be able to market to the audiences you build in it. That’s very costly.
By the way, we use the same system I mentioned in the last chapter for list building and you can check it out at www.myEmpirePRO.com/listbuilding The ultimate goal here is not just to make sales but to maximize profits. Some of the easiest sales you will make will be from existing customers.
It just makes sense because if they received value from doing business with you in the past, they will naturally be inclined to do more business. Having a third-party tool and system to maintain your list and community outside of the ad platform is literally freedom.
Your ad platform custom audiences (as we will cover later), social media fans and followers are not as powerful as a list that you nurture and maintain independently. And that’s why I recommend a third party tool that has its own embeddable webform to capture the contact information, marketing automation feature to engage and convert prospects into customers, clients and deals.
I know that I mentioned earlier that one tool can handle so much more than one process. But it is important to separate features on the advertising platform from your list building system as a form of security and risk mitigation. You don’t want to have all your fruits in one basket.
So it is not necessarily smart to leave all the processes from lead to sales generation on one platform. Platforms do collapse. Account profiles can also be banned, shadow banned and deleted.
In the next section of Digital Marketing Certified , we are going to dive into performance and how to track and monitor it. There are way too many businesses that have no ways of ensuring growth and quality in the processes. At the end of the day, it's a competitive market place.
Your prospects will spend that money with or without you selling to them. Some other smarter or wiser, direct or indirect competitor will collect that money from them. It might as well be you right?
To ensure growth from quarter to quarter, you must measure your digital marketing performance across a few dimensions.
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And we are happy to continue to share tips from our 18+ years experience in this game of marriage and relationships.
Today, we are responding to 3 different comments and messages. And the first one says…
“Going through this right now. We still do things at home together, stop going out due to the separation…”
And here is the second one…
“I have all the 5 signs that show a wife's disrespect to her husband. Now I'm wondering how to deal with those wives with these signs.”
This was actually a comment response to a video we did a while back that has 20,000+ views on it.
Just search “5 Signs Your Wife DOESN’T RESPECT YOU LOLA and OLA” on Youtube after watching this. It comes right up.
Here is a quick recap of the 5 signs of a disrespectful wife that was mentioned in that video:
1 - She utters rude remarks
2 - She gives you the silent treatment
3 - She doesn't sought after your advice and opinion
4 - She seems to honor other people's advices and opinions more
5 - She doesn't defend you when necessary
And then there was this comment…
“My wife started to disrespect me in secret back in 2022. She started lying and twerking on TikTok, commenting on guys' pictures and videos etc.
I just found this out this year after a big argument and I made one just to check and I couldn't believe that I was watching my wife.
So I made her delete TikTok and I got on her Facebook and almost the same stuff. But when I asked her to delete it, she blocked me and told me I need to act my age.
And that people onTikTok don't mean anything.
I said of course they do if you post this kinda’ content, then liking their comments when honestly they are calling you a 304 and me a fool.”
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As usual, we have consolidated the answer into 5 tips to help you deal with a disrespectful wife even in the middle of a separation.
Let’s get into it.
Tip Number 5 OLA - Focus on Rebuilding Friendship This is probably not the time to start buying flowers and begging her to work on the relationship. I want you to focus on being comfortable with each other even if it doesn’t involve romance.
The fear that will probably creep through you is this. “What if she actually moves on?”
The question is moving on to what? After all, you need a confidence that showcases that you are the best option for her anyway.
Just trust the process and let go of everything you believed about marriage except friendship for now.
The strength of the friendship you build in this period has no choice but to spread to everything else way better than obsession and attachments could.
It’s always good to wait for the decision maker of the present status to decide to change that decision. It’s even better when you emotionally attract them to do so.
Tip Number 4 LOLA - Signs Are Symptoms People can argue this with me… but when women go on social media to twerk, it’s a sign of insecurity and low self esteem.
She is most likely crazing unhealthy attention and it’s to do so when she doesn’t value what she has at home.
The point is that there are deeper issues at play and what you are seeing as signs are ordinary symptoms.
Guess what happens when you treat symptoms. It will give you a fake sense of relief but it’s coming back.
And when it comes back, the symptoms are going to be worse because the disease never left. It might even be cancerous and spread to other areas that weren't previously infected.
So don’t focus too much on the symptoms or signs. A root cause analysis is needed.
Tip Number 3 OLA - You Need Some Space Let me guess. I know what you are thinking.
You are thinking that married couples, space and distance don’t go together. But that’s actually not how attraction works.
One of the signs of low levels of attraction is disrespect and in Nigeria slangs we can also call that “see finish”.
When a relationship is no longer exciting for whatever reasons, it’s easy to find laying around convenient reasons to be disrespectful.
Put it like this. A woman who is in love with you will find it hard to be disrespectful even if there are good excuses… I’m not sure if there is a good excuse.
Distance makes the heart fonder. It may be as simple as taking each other for granted for being around too much.
You need space. If you are not careful, she will be asking you for space very soon.
Tip Number 2 LOLA - Say it Once & Let it Go When you say what you have to say to address a disrespect, make sure you mean it.
A sign that you don’t really mean it or believe it is when you have to repeat yourself.
If a disrespectful wife is not responding to your request after saying it more than 2 times, there is a chance that form of communication is not working.
There is also a chance that there are deeper issues that you will likely not find out because you are busy talking too much.
Your rare ability to let it go after saying what you have to say no more than 2 times demonstrates self confidence, self worth, self respect and more.
Speaking of self respect…
Tip Number 1 OLA - Focus on Self-Respect As we were preparing for this episode, a further elaboration came through the comment section to one of the earlier comments.
And I quote…
“I know she has narcissistic tendencies cause we'll be fine now… as long as I don't bring it up… if I do… she say things like may we should be apart if I don't trust her or threaten not to talk to me if I bring it up
She ignores me basically. We lost our apartment and when she left, she took the kids and my car. I just moved back to South Carolina and started working there.
But we haven't had sex in a month. She said she is not in the mood because of the situation we are in.
We will be fine for a week or two, then she'll go run behind people who only wanna talk to her because she's driving around in a 2021 Charger and kinda’ ignore me.
Then my trust issues come into play and she starts threatening to leave me again or she'll say something to damage my ego more than it already is.
I got her to take down the other Facebook page and the one she had pictures of me on but she still blocked me because I’d be starting with people on her page because someone liked or commented on her picture or post.
I'm feeling better now though. I want my wife back… the girl I married 4 years ago and got 4 kids with and been with for 12 years.”
You see. There is so much going on in that comment that points towards lack of self-respect. There are just some things that you will never have time for when you have adequate self-respect.
At least, you will be willing to let a disrespectful wife go until she figures out where her priorities lie if she is confused about that.
But I get it. It’s easier said than done.
Nonetheless, you have to understand that your wife is only capable of mimicking and matching the level of respect you have for yourself.
We are speaking from experience.
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CHAPTER 5 The System - I have to go back to 1997 to make this make sense. It looked like I was going to be at home for a while before heading to some kind of higher education, so I decided to take a 3 months introductory course in computers.
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The first thing I learned that continues to show up for the next 25 years for me… What was it? It was input, CPU (central processing unit) and output; the three basic parts of a personal computer. Since then there have been multiple versions of that.
But what it did was allow me to understand at a fundamental level what value a computer brings to our lives from a system stand point. And I continue to believe in every aspect of life that the best part about humans is the ability to build systems that work even when we can’t.
A system is a set of parts or principles that work together to create a desired outcome. The outcome can actually be a part of the system or a recursive input into the system to create an even better outcome or output.
And Like I said, the first thing I learn about computers is its 3 basic parts namely input devices such as the keyboard, the CPU which contains the memory for storage and processes information coming through the input devices and lastly, the output devices such as the monitor to see visuals of the work being performed by the computer or to store information on external storage.
The external storage device that was popular back in 1997 was a floppy disk. While you can use it to store information digitally as an output from the CPU, it is often inserted back as input into the CPU for additional, better and improved output.
In this chapter, we are going to explore the concept of systems and how it applies at micro and macro levels when it comes to digital marketing.
But in the previous chapter, we talked about “The Connection” in so many dimensions. We talked about frame of reference. It’s a concept that we will revisit again because this whole thing is about the customer journey. And your ability to take them on an experience is a big determining factor in the level of success that you are able to create.
As I said in the last chapter, many businesses go back and forth between futuristic marketing and old school media that doesn’t work anymore such as newspapers and yellow books ads. Remember, this is about “The Persons”, the people and catering to your identified audience.
95% of businesses are already going to fail within their first five years. Feel free to attribute that terrible result to a lack of connection between “The Value” and “The Persons”. It just makes sense right?
We covered the idea of pre-framing the mind of your prospect so that the natural order of action is to create an order; buy your offer. Hopefully now, you understand that people need to “feel” like they know, like and trust you as part of the pre-framing. And getting people to convert to customers, clients, deals and partners start to feel almost effortless.
Very importantly, we covered a tool that helps us create a spider web of these agents and connections all over the world wide web. Do you recall the content management system? The CMS right? My favorite CMS, Wordpress, controls 40% of the CMS market share.
That is a good thing because of the ever evolving nature of everything digital. So like typical software, there are constant and seamless updates of bells and whistles to make your customers’ experiences super-cutting edge. In this era, you as a business owner or digital marketer cannot afford to operate on stale systems.
With that being said, let’s get into systems when it comes to digital marketing and digital based businesses. You guessed it right. It starts with an input.
In 2009, I got introduced to the world of multilevel marketing and direct sales. The truth is that it wasn’t just about finding customers. In fact, the majority of the income came from building a team. Being a self-motivated person that I’ve always been, I got to work right away, and I recruited my brother into my downline.
The idea behind the business model leverages people's immediate circle of influence to first… sell the business opportunity to and then second, sell them products if they are not interested in building the business.
My brother figured out quickly that the main input into the business model was people. The owners of these multilevel marketing businesses such as Amway, Herbalife, TransAmerica, Primerica etc. simply need people.
But there is a problem. Sure, we can probably go through the contacts of our smart phones and find 100 people. The issue is that we usually haven’t connected with these people in a long time. So even though they are people, they are not necessarily suitable inputs for the business model. Hence many of the reps get frustrated until they quit the business.
Also, we are talking about a business model that requires face-to-face sales skills. While a lot of the leaders and trainers in that industry continue to tell their teammates that sales is not involved, nothing could be further from the truth. The reality is that money is expected to exchange hands with an opportunity; a business opportunity or at least a product.
So even the second part of this business system is flawed with mostly non-capable business owners and processes that aren't updated for the digital era. No arguments. If it’s working for you, keep doing what you are doing because it works right?
In the last few years, many multi level marketers have transferred the same not-so-professional strategies to social media. All they do is pitch every one by “throwing everything at the wall and hoping that something sticks.”
Most other types of businesses make the same mistake; not identifying a suitable input necessary with well thought out processes and systems that can operate even when humans are not involved. So if the main person gets sick or encounters an emergency, operations will shut down immediately; just an over-glorified and undercompensated after 9-5 job.
If your marketing needs your attention constantly in order to continue filling the pipeline, it cannot be working competitively in these times. Back in the days, the only call-to-action on commercials was the phone number which meant someone had to pick up the phone on the other end. If they don’t pick up, you’ve lost money.
When that happens enough time, it can take your business out effectively becoming the 95% in 5 years failure stat member. Since then, marketing has evolved to not involve the need of humans to receive these messages.
Back in 1998, there were the famous 900 numbers all over television commercials. Not only did these numbers actually charge the callers a fee that shares royalties with the business on the other end, the phone was also picked up by automated answering machines.
So the more your marketing involves humans, the higher the cost of marketing will be because of the cost of human resources and time. Systems can still involve human time but the idea is to minimize that particular variable in your marketing therefore reducing or offsetting marketing cost dramatically.
The same way we have inputs, central processing units (CPU) and outputs as the three basic parts of a personal computer, your marketing operation must identify the inputs, processes and outputs. A business can no longer just be a business; it must be a business “system”. And that means, you are able to take a walk without a risk of the business shutting down.
There are multi-layers of systems in any given business and one of them is obviously the marketing system. To further break this down, I want to borrow some ideas for what I learned in Project Management Professional (PMP®). Surprise… surprise… They use similar concepts to break down projects.
Projects have multiple processes which are subsets of systems. Each process has its own inputs, tools and techniques (TT) and outputs. For short, you might encounter ITTO if you are into project management. The reality is that each campaign is like a project especially if it has an end date or predetermined and desired end results.
Back in the days, you might just worry about the input and the output as a business owner while the process in-between them is handled by a marketing agency. But in this digital era, any individual with a Facebook or Google account has access to millions of target audience.
In many ways, marketing agencies are still very useful. In fact, you can inquire more at www.myEmpirePRO.com.services about our marketing agency services. But the point is that the business owners are much more involved in the middle component of a marketing system; the processes, at least at a consulting and services level.
We will get into more detail of the different components of a marketing system and campaign throughout the rest of this book. My focus right now is just to highlight the importance of executing the marketing campaign of a business, product or service like a system.
What it does is that it removes guess-work and allows you to replicate more of what’s working and delete whatever is not working. You will be able to scale your business without and simultaneously eliminate human error in that process.
There are two metrics that we will elaborate on later namely; ACV and LCV. They stand for Average Customer Value and Lifetime Customer Value respectively. These are the KPI (Key Performance Indicators) that allow you to test offers in different types of ways.
Do you know the average or lifetime customer value of your business? If you do not know this number, you can’t scale the business because it’s directly an indication that you don’t even know your business.
It’s very simple. Over a period of time, divide your total revenue by the number of customers; the product is your average customer value. Lifetime is simply the same number over the lifetime of your business.
When you don’t have systems that systemically make offers in a particular sequence based on a customer journey into and through your offers, you can’t properly measure these numbers. And the last thing you want to try is to manually measure and calculate these important numbers. You will lose track.
Here are some examples of systems that allow you to measure your ACV and LCV so that you can know when and how much to invest in marketing campaigns.
Funded Proposal - Anytime you have an offer, product or service for the marketplace, think of it as a proposal. You are proposing a solution where the buyer has the agency to decide to buy or not.
An average business does not have a choice of entering a profitable zone until 5 years after launch. But what if you can create and position offers that will fund your marketing campaigns upfront?
I am not talking about your main offer or core product. When you implement a funded proposal in your business, all the sales of your core product becomes pure profit. There is a self-liquidating or tripwire offer that funds your marketing campaigns and most especially, customer list-building. Once you have these customers in your funnel, it’s easier to sell your main core product to them.
Hopefully, you have the skills to orchestrate a sequence of offers that naturally ascends your customers through your sales funnel.
Sales Funnels - What is a sales funnel? Simply put, it’s the journey that you have designed for your customers to go from discovering your business to sales conversion. More often than none, one sale conversion is not enough to make your business profitable.
Like I said earlier, if your business falls within the range of an average business, you won’t be in profit for 5 years or never. By designing a sales funnel that ensures profit upfront and funding your marketing campaign as soon as possible, your business will legally print money.
If you are able to make $1.10 every time you spend a dollar in any given year, you are effectively printing money. How would you like it if you are able to spend $22,787.30 and generate a revenue of 49,059.80 all in less than 3 years. That’s a 60+% return on investment (ROi).
All of that happened and even more so during the covid pandemic. It dramatically recession-proofs your business. By the way, that’s a true story and you can replicate that result especially when you understand the power of upsell funnels.
Upsell Funnels - Have you ever been asked “would you want fries with that?” after buying something off McDonald’s basic entry menu? (It’s no longer called the dollar menu right? Thanks to inflation).
What about “would you like 2 apple pies for $1.99?” That is a real example of an upsell offer. With digital marketing, you can create and position offers after a first offer purchase (the tripwire offer) has been initiated.
In addition to that, you can offer a downsell to customers that says no to an offer if the reason for declining is likely cost. For example, you made an offer of $4,997 inside an upsell sales funnel, and your customer clicks “no thanks”.
As soon as they click on that, they can be redirected to an offer with a little less feature at the price of $2,497. Sometimes, you can also offer a payment plan. By doing this, you can secure a sale and additional revenue that would otherwise not have happened if you are presenting to total strangers.
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Inside of the system are processes such as email marketing, autoresponders, audience segmentation, customer engagement, audience growth, and more to boost your online sales.
Typically, digital marketers use multiple tools to execute all these different techniques. In fact, there are more than enough techniques and if you are not careful, that’s a negative thing. It can be hard to stay focused.
Once you get the ball rolling and you fully understand this as a system, one tool can execute everything. Sometimes, you might have different aspects of your business with their own sales processes. But ideally, it’s better to keep all your processes in one system especially if you are new to digital marketing.
The shiny ball syndrome is real and distractions are extremely costly. I know because I am speaking from experience. There are many different types of systems implementable for digital marketing. But the best ones for what should be obvious to you after the next chapter starts with list building; audience growth.
If you have to spend money for every unit of discovery, your business will likely go broke. The reason why all the best businesses you know today create smartphone apps to engage you and offer rewards is to build and engage their audience on a regular basis. The idea is to create and boost for more sales.
So in the next chapter, we are going to dive into list building. Have you ever heard the saying “the money is in ‘the list’?” I’ve heard some people try to dumb this down but they are also usually trying to sell something else. List building as the front end of your sales funnel system is undefeatable and we will be talking about it.
What is a system without at least an input? Useless right? The sales funnel as a system is a beautiful beast but without making sure that you are feeding the beast, it’s all pointless. In addition to that, we will be talking about quality vs quantity. We will also talk about all the different forms of list-building and how it has evolved right before my very own eyes since 2009.
There have been many moments over the years when I derailed from this ideology. Yes I agree. It’s still an ideology but yielding away from it has cost me millions in losses. Don’t make the same mistake.
There is a space from a mindset standpoint that it might seem like you can get quicker results starting your sales funnel system with asking for money from strangers. Remember people need to feel like they know, like and trust you.
Do you remember the KLT factor and brand equity? How much more when you are able to fund your marketing campaigns simultaneously on the front end?
And what if the output of your sales funnel system are customers who can’t wait to buy more from you? Then your output becomes a recursive input for your system making it faster to scale your business. They can also buy from partners though you.
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In this video, we are adding some context to an answer we gave to Queen some few weeks back. Be sure to check out that video.
It’s called “Unwanted Separation? Use THESE 5 Tips!” It was also a response to an original video called “Ignoring Your Spouse During Separation 💔”
Here is her response to that video.
“"Thank you Lola and Ola. I am grateful for you guys. You have opened a new perspective to me. I believe I should work on myself now moving forward. The period of sorrow and grief is coming to an end.
About the question if I am a selfish person, the answer is no. I have always given people my time, love and affection. I’d rather love others first.
I don’t know how to only focus on me. It’s not healthy. I’d rather give to those who need me. I never put myself first but look for the good of those around me.
Hence I helped hubby become who he is today. Now that he’s left I don’t understand what I did wrong to be honest.
We spoke a few days ago and he wanted to know what I have been up to. I don’t know why he suddenly is interested to know about my whereabouts but he will not disclose what he’s doing or how he feels. Which I find strange that he’s obsessed with knowing what I am about.
I think I need to be more attractive and work on myself more like you mentioned. I will revive my passions and allow time to heal like they say.
For now I will focus on what makes me happy and keep me focused. I believe he’s still my husband. I am also going to download your free book now." ~ Queen
So here we go. To add some context to Queen’s comment, we have created 5 keys to rekindling attraction from a seduction standpoint during a separation.
Let’s get into it.
Key Number 5 The Art of Obsession As always, this is easier said than done. But it’s a simple concept. What makes it complex is the complex human mind.
When you experience rejection at any level, it breeds obsession and anxiety.
But when you are able to garner some self-control and back off just a little bit, you can successfully transfer that obsession and anxiety to the other party.
It also depends on how much damage may have occurred during the break down of the relationship.
If your separated spouse is not the exception minority with no emotional blood flowing in their vein, this works 100% of the time.
So it’s pretty normal for the obsession to flip to the other side when you take time to back off and allow nature to take its course.
If your partner needs space, things are bad already and you probably need more space than you realize.
Key Number 4 Don't Fake The Flip So, I want you to allow the obsession and the anxiety to flip from you to your partner naturally and organically. There are gurus out there teaching people to fake it.
You can’t afford to fake this stuff because that would be a lie and that would typically mean you have to keep lying to cover up lies. It’s not worth it because it’s too much energy trying to keep up with it.
It needs to be organic and this awareness right here will make it a little hard.
But the way to mitigate that is to really take this rare advantage of time apart to build yourself in every way you can think of; physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Leave very little room to sit around and allow your mind to wander around about things you can’t control such as sorrow and grief.
If you can do it, that’s obviously time spent away from obsessing over your estranged partner and that much time for them to start wondering about what you are up to.
That’s literally a form of attraction.
It’s organic and natural and proof that you can potentially rekindle attraction in a healthy way so that you can embrace it when you are ready.
Key Number 3 Don't Run An Empty Cup As “Queen” just acknowledged, you can’t afford to pour love into others from an empty cup; it will only drain your energy.
Yes we advocate for focusing on “giving” in a healthy relationship and not the falsehood of the “give and take” ideology that a bunch of selfish people are running around with on social media.
But please, do not take us out of context. You simply cannot give what you don’t already have.
We get this question all the time… “You are telling us to just GIVE but what if we are giving so much that the other person is not reciprocating?”
Good question.
But there is no better way to tell me that you are not giving anything to yourself. You are emptying out yourself to your partner.
That’s the only way you can have time to notice that they don’t reciprocate but you are not necessarily wrong; just a thought to consider.
And worse, you are setting them up with false metrics of expectations that are based purely on your disappointed emotions.
You can’t win together like that. You might win alone and effectively destroy the relationship. But let’s be guided.
When you can demonstrate the ability to take care of yourself, there is almost nothing sexier than that when it comes to rekindling attraction again.
And of course, they naturally can’t wait to get on your good side.
Key Number 2 Be Indifferent Once you’ve managed to organically flip that obsession and anxiety over to the other side, do not prematurely engage.
Sure it’s attractive but it needs to be tested with time and persistence which must be demonstrated on all sides.
Don’t play games with this if you haven’t gone through an outright rejection from your spouse. That will make it fake, manipulative and it can backfire badly.
But in the case of what “Queen” described, she needs to disconnect as much as possible from wondering what she did wrong and why he is suddenly obsessed.
The bottom line is that he is obsessed because that’s attraction at play but more importantly, how she responds to it needs to showcase indifference.
What that means is that how you feel is neither here nor there. You are okay with whatever the outcome is and you will take your time because you are busy learning how to take care of yourself.
It might drive one or both of you wild.
But the attraction needs to be tested for strength because there is a real reason why a separation became reality in the first place.
It doesn’t matter if you are “the man” or “the woman”. The same attraction principle is applicable if you are feeling the emotions of rejection.
You can re-engage your seduction power and redirect the course.
Key Number 1 Self Love Is Still key What if you lost your partner forever? Yea. What if? If you can’t handle that reality in your mind right now, it’s probably showing as needy behavior on the surface.
That’s not sexy.
It’s like no wonder they are running away from that.
The moment they can see that you are capable of loving yourself adequately, they will always regret a decision of not working on your relationship.
That self-love will attract a better companionship to you with or without your spouse; it’s non-negotiable.
And again, we are not talking to selfish people. Self-love as a religious talking point and ideology can also destroy you and everything you care about.
We are speaking from experience.
We share our own story inside the book "GET MY MARRIAGE BACK" which you can download for free at www.GetMyMarriageBack.com
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CHAPTER 4 The Connection - So there are two types of connections I would like to share with you. The first type of connection is how you digitally connect the value we identified in chapter 3 with the person(s) we identified in chapter 2. And the second type of connection we will discuss is how to mentally connect your brand with the person(s).
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Let’s take it backwards a little bit. In the previous chapter, we talked about value. You learned how 85-90% of actions and acquisitions are initiated and triggered as emotional reactions; some justify with logic later.
We also reviewed a little about the motivation theories and how your competitors are probably selling products that have only 10% of the value you offer at 10 times of your prices. And they are selling them almost effortlessly to people that may not be able to afford it ordinarily.
We reminded ourselves of the six basic human needs, certainty, variety, significance, contribution, growth, and connection. And we discussed how you can use it to almost seem like you are creating value out of thin air.
When your message or “the value” covers just three of these six needs, it will simply come off as stupid for your person(s) to pass on your offer.
Every website, webpage, video, image, blogpost on your hubs need to be exchanging value with the users. A part of value is the user experience. How they feel as they travel that journey from discovery to conversion is your responsibility precisely because it’s ultimately valuable to you and the business you are building.
What you are offering may be the best in the market but we may never find out if whatever that is doesn’t translate to what is valuable to your users. It’s not just the product; it’s everything, even at the most micro-levels, that they will encounter in the process of interacting with your business; the experience.
So we now have to expand a little bit on value creation to create and establish strong connections digitally and mentally with your person(s). How do you show up in their dreams at night and stress the sh*t out of their sleep if they don’t buy?
1995-1996… Owo. Ondo State, Nigeria, West Africa. I was a 15 or 16 years old teenager. I would go visit my father in the office during the day where he was serving as a General Manager at his Uncle’s company.
I had been going to the office for a few years during holidays but I did it more after graduating high school. I didn’t go to University right away because we had opted for me to come back to the United States after 12 of my developing years in Nigeria.
I was at home for two years filling the gap of time; just waiting to secure accommodation in the States. My father had wanted me to study Architecture; that was his dream.
But one day during another visit to his office, I found out becoming an architect wasn’t my dream. It was the first time a website was opened in front of me on a 3 piece-suite equipment; a personal computer. The secretary at the office was testing it out and he would try numerous times to connect to the internet.
Thinking about it now, it was a painful process.. But not really because the frame of reference did not involve a broadband connection as we know it today.
It was exciting that he literally pulled up Toyota’s website that never could load a full Toyota logo; the connection was too slow. There was a blue placeholder but it was fascinating enough at the time. I’ve never left computing since then.
During that short break between high school and coming back to continue schooling and life in the States, I went over to the next biggest city, Akure, where I spent three months and became certified in Database Management.
I shared this story with you to establish a connection between you and the fact that the internet has grown from about 40 millions users in 1995 to more than 5 billion users at press time. If there are internet users increasing at that pace, that means that there are producers consistently connecting them to value increasingly and making stupid amount of money doing it.
Most websites back in 1995 were designed to provide information and not initiate transactions. But it's a different story today. You can now buy a whole car on the internet and have it delivered to your home.
Therefore it’s no longer enough to show a logo, and the company’s mission statement. Many businesses still have websites that can’t exchange money for product and services. A lot of them felt the heat and disadvantage of that in 2020 when covid hit our world.
My business doubled in that particular year because I was positioned to serve that market right from home. Sadly, many established businesses went under for not paying attention in all these years.
You have created the right offer. And you have done the market research, identified the right audience, the gurus and the brands they are presently following.
In fact, you are already paying time and money to attract them as visitors to your website. But the traffic is not converting to sales quickly enough for you. And you figured, it’s probably because you are just not getting enough traffic to the website.
So you have to come up with more funds to buy marketing and advertising in the hopes that enough prospects will convert to customers. Soon enough, you discovered that you are just multiplying your problems with money you don’t have and garnering more debt.
It’s not working. You quit and ran back to giving away free money to the agencies that still want to sell you newspaper and yellow book ads. Do yellow books still exist?
It is important to pre-design and pre-determine how you want to connect your value (the offer) to the person(s) based on what type of pre-framing the person(s) (the prospect) had been exposed to.
When your prospects know, like and trust you, they will buy without too much effort from you. Forget about that; when they feel like they know, like and trust you, they will buy even more from you. All of that is emotionally and mentally triggered if you know what you are doing.
I call it the KLT factor. Does the prospect feel like he or she knows, likes and trusts you? If you can’t answer that question, you are probably going to struggle with converting prospects to customers, clients and deals.
We use a formula called the “I.L.S.D.T.R.R” to build your KLT factor (a.k.a brand equity) in the digital space. The acronym stands for invest, learn, share, do, teach, refine and repeat. Let’s break it down.
The idea is to build digital agents and leave thousands of your footprints everywhere in the digital space without burning your resources up while doing it. If you follow me on social media, you can see us practicing what we preach with literally thousands of videos and articles everywhere.
This is it. I want you to INVEST time and possibly money in LEARNING, then SHARING what you are learning as often as possible via online videos, blogposts, infographic and more. After that, you actually want to DO (execute on) what you are learning in order to create experience or tacit knowledge.
If your business module permits it, you can build your business even faster by taking the sharing to the next level which is actually TEACHING from your knowledge and experience for a fee or more KLT factor and brand equity.
Then I want you to refine and repeat that process over and over again in order to create a massive web of nodes that link back to your hub. When you do this, you will build a massive brand equity that makes it super simple to connect your value to your person(s).
All these digital agents that you are creating will work for you forever. You couldn’t erase them off the internet if you try to after a while. And that is a good thing.
This is what I meant earlier when I mentioned pre-framing the prospects ahead of actually presenting them with an offer. The connection doesn’t start at the sales presentation. It starts before they even discover there is something to buy from you.
How cool would it be if your prospects are already asking you where to sign up before knowing if you have anything to sell or not. That’s the outcome of orchestrating a strong connection of value with your audience upfront.
By positioning yourself and your brand to help your audience by actually helping them, their minds are pre-framed to recognize your brand and business as their problem solver.
Sure, a properly scripted sales presentation is still necessary because some of them may have skipped to that part in your customer journey. But most of your time, energy and resource is best spent steering new prospects through a discovery point where you are actually helping them first before asking them to pay for something.
They usually start off with a question to answer or a problem to solve. Most people appreciate some useful information first before attempting to sell them on buying stuff.
In fact, there is a sector of your market that price point is really not a determining factor in their decision making process to buy.
It boils down to the KLT factor and brand equity. They need to feel like they know, like and trust you. And then they will pull out a credit card if anything remotely looks like their problem is solved.
The return on investment in learning, sharing, doing, teaching, refining and repeating is literally infinite especially if you add consistency to it.
In the world of digital marketing, we call this content creation. The idea is to come up with topic ideas that will appeal directly to your ideal customers’ needs. So I want to share four idea sources that will help you generate more than enough ideas to invest time and possibly money in learning more about so you can share.
Idea Source Number 1 - Write down 10 commonly or frequently asked questions that your ideal customers tend to ask. If this is a business that you are qualified to serve in, it should be pretty simple.
Let me give you a quick secret. You could be learning the business at the same time, in real time and using these same content creation skills to attract a significant size of the market. When you teach, you literally learn twice.
Most people in any business end up complacent and never learning anything new for years. But when you use this method to create thousands of connections and digital agents for prospects before getting to see your offer, you will remain at the top of your game.
Idea Source Number 2 - For this one, come up with and write down 10 questions you would advise an ideal prospect to ask your competitors. Of course, you want to make sure these are questions and problems that your content and products have answered and solved.
Idea Source Number 3 - Identify 10 common problems that your ideal prospect faces. It doesn’t have to directly be linked to the problems that your product solves.
But I want you to do it because the information you will provide in the content will actually serve an audience. But in addition to that, you may end up creating a tangible and usable solution if the piece of content is attracting a big enough audience.
Last but not least…
Idea Source Number 4 - Invest time to learn about 10 common mistakes that an ideal prospect would or could make and share each one as a piece of content. In addition to that, share tips on how to avoid the mistakes.
I’ve used this same method of connection to build my business and the good thing about it; you can verify. At press time, about 840 myEmpirePRO web pages are resulting and indexed on the Google Search Engine Results Page. (THE SERP).
And on another web property that I am building with my wife, LOLAandOLA.com, about 1,370 web pages of content are resulting and indexed. I am not even talking about other search engines such as Yahoo, Bing and many others that thrive off of picking up your content and connecting them with potential prospects all around the world for free.
65.78% of our audience at myEmpirePRO in the last 28 days from presstime are coming from the United States. 13.46% are coming from China. 3.77% are coming from Canada. The audience or traffic were connected from 48 different countries.
The beauty about digital marketing is the fact that you are also collecting tons of data with the various default activities of setting up and running these campaigns. That’s why I am able to share these results with you. In fact, you can check it yourself.
All you have to do is place this string ‘site:’ before any site with no spaces between them and search. For example, a simple search of ‘site:myempirepro.com’ will show the top of the SERP (search engine results page) and it will show you how many pages have been indexed from the site.
What about YouTube? We’ve published 1,304 videos and they are all working in our favor to connect more prospects to our hub. All these digital agents are not built overnight and they don’t need to be built overnight.
In fact, all it takes is one good piece of content to create a $10,000 day. But that also depends on what you are selling and your business model. You just never know what answered-question would resonate with someone’s deep pain. The more you put out there, the better.
In order to execute a massive connection, KLT and brand equity campaign, you have to create a main online hub where everyone comes to from all these different sources you will be putting out there. The main hub is a content management system and I recommend good ol’ Wordpress.
On the internet today, we have websites designed to simply display information like the Toyota website from 1995 in that story I shared with you earlier. But we also have websites designed to manage databases of content, users, and users’ information. We call them a content management system (CMS).
You have two options. You can build and code your CMS with all the bells and whistles that makes it a robust system to create millions of dollars in online transactions from scratch. The second option is what I recommend which involves leveraging existing tools and systems that allow you to customize with add-ons to perform even better than systems that are built from scratch.
Which option do you think you should go with? Okay. That wasn’t a trick question. It’s a simple question and it has a simple answer which is to leverage tools and systems so that you can get to making money as soon as possible.
At press time, Wordpress powers a little more than 40% of the websites online and their content management system. I recommend it because it works just like the iPhone and the Android phones. It’s an open source that allows vendors to continue to code additional features many of which you can leverage for free.
That’s why I recommend Wordpress in addition to the fact that I personally use it to manage my content marketing campaign. But there are also two different kinds of Wordpress websites.
- Fully-hosted Wordpress website which is host at wordpress.com and
- Self-hosted Wordpress website which means you are in full control of the features you attach to it.
You will understand fully later many reasons why it is better to go with option number 2 in addition to the fact that you are able to control how you are branded online.
Brand control is non-negotiable as we move into the future because competition is increasing. With a brand you create, you will eliminate a significant number of your competition because of brand loyalty; the same effect that Apple has on its customers. I recommend that you set up your self-hosted Wordpress hub with the company at this link for less than $10 per month. - myEmpirePRO.com/hosting
All of these you’ve learned thus far without setting them up as a system is just another job that will occupy your life with redundant activities and minimum wages. So in the next chapter, we will talk about changing these new insights into an automated system that takes your prospects on a journey from discovery to conversion and a happy customer.
By now, you are understanding slowly that setting up a website is just the bare minimum of digital marketing. Most websites on the internet are a ghost land. No one is visiting them much less initiating a transaction.
So there is a distinct difference between a digital marketer and a website designer or developer. The former is a minimum of a 6 figure career as a job and a 7-9 figure income when you use this skill as an entrepreneur. The latter is darn near a minimum wage job.
With systems, you can scale a campaign beyond what’s possible when all you’ve got are linear operations involving humans at every segment. You will learn about different segments in a customer’s life cycle and how systems can scale from 10 customers to 100 and to 1,000 customers being served simultaneously.
The last thing I want you to do is know all this cool stuff only to get stuck behind a laptop for 16 hours a day. While I definitely want you to understand the concepts that make this work, I will be sharing with you how to set, forget and collect on a regular basis leveraging the concept of systems..
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In this video, we are responding to 2 comments with the 5 signs that a marriage is over based on how a man responds to a crisis.
Here is the first comment.
“My wife has been gone for a few months. 10 years together and she’s just pulled the plug on all emotions she had for me. She talks and looks at me differently now. She never sees our one year old son. Wtf has happened. God I miss her 😢” ~ by Slaven Yatic
And here is the 2nd comment.
"Truth is she doesn’t. Folks, separation is not a good thing period. 5% of separation works and they end up back together but 80% of separation ends up in a divorce. If your partner wants a separation it means they have someone else in mind." ~ Comment by Triple A Triple a
So here we go.
Sign Number 5 OLA - You Feel Damages Happen Overnight Believe it or not; most men that go through this type of trauma always feel that the woman just changed overnight. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Some call it “the walk away wife syndrome.” It’s basically unhappy wives who leave their husbands… emphasis on “UNHAPPY”.
There is not one single event that can destroy your marriage. And if you can’t comprehend that, comprehend this.
Not realizing that damages never happen overnight is a sign that your marriage is over and potentially forever. In fact, your marriage ended a long time ago.
So clearly, it’s even worse that you haven’t been able to pay enough attention to detect this for potentially so long.
She didn’t just pull the plug on emotions she had for you. Rather, she had been disconnected from you emotionally long before you realized.
Maybe she was trying to protect your feelings and then finally realized that it is a non-sustainable effort. Many women try this and it always fails eventually.
Sign Number 4 LOLA - You Use Children to Manipulate Naturally, a separation from family, wife or husband will create trauma for your children and that’s simply part of life.
But let’s be honest, overreacting to this is obviously an indication that… you have probably overreacted to many other events in the past.
The default is that your children will get dragged through the mud that you and your ex-partner-to-be have created. It’s just the reality.
And if you have a hard time facing reality, it is little-to-no-wonder that you will attempt to use your children’s trauma to manipulate the direction of things. Is that what you mean by “She never sees our one year old son?”
That, precisely, is a sign that your marriage is over. It doesn’t have to be over, if you are willing to indulge in the possibility of a new understanding.
Your focus needs to go into working on the evaporated attraction in your romantic relationship because it is the root cause. It is your only point of leverage and there are any further chances.
Sign Number 3 OLA - You Think Separation is Bad If you think separation is bad, your marriage is probably over. Saying that is just another manipulative measure to get a person who doesn’t want you to stay with you.
There is no better way to tell me that you are negotiating “desire”. It doesn't work. In fact, it will work against your marriage.
In addition, pushing against separation is not a way to save your marriage. If at least one of the parties is asking for separation, that marriage is over anyway.
But that doesn’t mean you can’t build a new foundation from scratch with or without the same person.
As long as you are obsessed with the idea of sustaining the present terrible state of your marriage, how can you build another foundation?
Remember the emphasis on “happy”? How can you create happiness in a marriage where one person is not happy?
I know what you are thinking. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness? You are half-wrong because how we feel is a function of our environment.
So as long as you are a part of your spouses’ environment, you are a factor. You are part of the variables that determine her emotional state.
But also vice versa.
Do wives ever come back after separation? The answer is “YES”. But how likely is that to happen to you?
Sign Number 2 LOLA - You Project Stats & Data on Relationships Your marriage is over if you project improperly interpreted stats and data on your relationship as facts. Your wife will not come back after separation.
So even if we have to take “Triple A Triple a”’s comment, which is the fact that only 5% of separation works, I guarantee that your personal case will be in the 80% that end up in divorce if you project the “stat” on your relationship.
It’s simple. In the human experience, what you focus on expands. That principle is undefeated just like the fact that she wants separation.
Data and stat are mostly useful in a class and scholar activities.
If you are personally going through a crisis in your relationship, focus on learning what it takes to create attraction in your particular situation.
You can’t do that trying to smother a person who wants to leave with numbers and stats.
Tip Number 1 OLA - You Believe She Has Someone Else in Mind In fact, it’s true that many women are right now trying to figure out how to leave their husbands for a different life all together; not just someone else.
She wants to leave. The attempt to make yourself feel better by accusing her of having someone else in mind is just another useless effort to save the marriage.
Let’s be honest. You will only feel worse even if it isn’t true. Also, you are spreading unnecessary toxic energy.
But again, I know what you are thinking.
What if it’s true that she has someone else?
Let me ask you the same question. What if?
Is that a good excuse to drag yourself further through the mud? Is that a reality you can’t deal with without throwing your whole life away?
If the answer is yes, have you considered it… as a good reason to obsessively smother the relationship to death?
We are speaking from experience.
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Quick story. So my husband was on Aunty B’s platform, Obodo Oyinbo TV, in the past few days oh my God… he ended up becoming an overnight detective.
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A man had called him before he called into a show making wild claims about women in Nigeria and as usual, it was obvious to him that this man was speaking from personal experience.
The truth is that we have both men and women who perpetuate this terrible behavior once they have had traumatic experiences in marriage or relationships.
And nothing good comes out of it.
So we want to share 5 "do's & don'ts" if you happen to be in a separation from your marriage at this moment.
We know you will be tempted to destroy your future relationship if you don’t know these things so please, pay attention.
Thing Number 5 OLA: Don’t Focus on Whose Fault; It’s Irrelevant After about 30,000 views, what I always knew was confirmed. He was projecting from his personal experiences.
He is presently separated from his wife who he had met in Nigeria while visiting. So the wife had recently asked for divorce.
So he decided he wanted to help others who may be captured by the evil women who are poor and live in Nigeria; according to him.
After getting dragged on that platform so many times, there was one thing that really stood out to me and this is it.
He was obsessed with who was at fault for the demise of the marriage. Not just that, we are talking about a need to spell out every fault at every stop since he met the lady.
If you are in separation and you want the outcome of the process to be positive, you have two choices.
Decide that no one is at fault or…
The 2nd choice, which is “both of you are at fault”; unless of course, someone had a gun to their head during the decision to engage in a romantic way.
Thing Number 4 LOLA: Don’t Attempt Saving Others Before Healing So we get it. You’ve just gone through a very traumatic situation and experience. Your experience is valid but you need to believe that.
Naturally, if you consider yourself “nice” or “good”, you might want to jump out there and save everyone else from people like your ex-partner who is now a bad person I guess…
Don’t do it. You will end up re-creating your own version of your experience in others and they will effectively project it further into our society…
…when it is in-fact, not necessarily their experience.
It’s a fact that your ex-partner had their own experience. This is why those who don’t know any better end up calling each other liars; making things worse.
Stay away from trying to help others until you make sure you’ve gone through healing.
And have peace with the idea that it’s not necessarily anyone’s fault.
Thing Number 3 OLA: Let Go In Every Sense Generally speaking, letting go is one of the hardest things for humans to do. People would yell out things like “I don’t care” with such anger.
You would be left to wonder…”Do you believe that you don’t care or you need to convince yourself even more?”
It’s confusing at best. Sure you should be able to tell your story. But you should only do it within a controlled context and environment.
Letting go, self control and awareness is key but hard. Have you noticed that you enjoy talking so much about your ex-partner particularly in a bad light?
Thing Number 2 LOLA: Engage a Wise Counsel There is a good chance you are not able to smell your own breath. You can barely see your own nose. Maybe if you calm down, you can at least see a blurry version of it.
The point I am making is this. Separation from a marriage is tough on a human heart. Take some time off and engage wise counsel.
We all have a blind spot by default. So how much more when everything you believed when it comes to romance is being questioned.
Thing Number 1 OLA: Don’t Generalize! It’s a sign of a weak person… Let me ask that question I asked previously again. Have you noticed that you enjoy talking so much about your ex-partner particularly in a bad light?
Or maybe this time, you’ve managed to camouflage it as a generalized story that you have become an evangelist for.
You find yourself saying things like “American women are not good wives.” You’ve perfected the art of saying “All Nigerian men are cheaters.”
I’m just gonna be straight up with you. There is no better way to tell us that you need counseling and possibly therapy than showcasing a habit of generalizing.
It’s a red flag. You shouldn’t be advising or trying to save anyone.
It’s projection at best. There is no way that you know enough people to be capable of generalizing in the name of helping someone.
You will end up making more people toxic than you help if at all..
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It means a lot of different things to people depending on where they are standing. But in this chapter, my goal is to first make sure we are standing in the same position before extracting the actual value I want to share with you.
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You are reading this book because you are trying to build a business or organization of some sort right? If that’s the case, keep reading.
In the last chapter, we talked about “the person(s)” as one of the pillars we must clearly identify before trying to set up marketing campaigns in the digital era. A failure to do this will simply defeat the purpose; which I am hoping is partly the benefits of tracking down every penny and making sure it doubles itself.
You also learned how my 500 and change in credit score saved me from early life bankruptcy. Personally, I’ve had some ups and downs naturally in the type of risky and non-conventional journey I chose to embark on; becoming an entrepreneur. But it’s never gotten so bad that I had to file for bankruptcy. Thank goodness.
More importantly, you also learned how lack of proper market research and competition analysis can result in losing your life savings and/or capital; $10 at a time. We reviewed the dangers of passion-driven biases, the greatest market research tool which is free, seed keyword and keyword phrases, the role of Artificial Intelligence and Machine Learning in market research and more.
Last and definitely not all and for sure, not the least, we talked about the two different categories of your ideal customer and client and the four stages they have to travel in order to not just maximize profits for your business but to deliver value.
And speaking of value, I became dangerous and over-valued for the 9-5 world since I learned what you are about to discover in this chapter.
It was 2014 and I had been helping quite a few people I met in the internet and network marketing world make their first $100, $1,000, $200,000 and even $4 million completely online. Not just that, I did very well with my business too.
But the honest truth is that I had not fully grasped the magnitude of the value in what I had learned. On my best day ever, I was able to use written text and words to convert complete strangers into a $15,000 sales. And I did it multiple times over. Somehow, I had acquired a skill set that could collect such an amount of money in exchange for a digital product without being physically present to sell.
Before that, my best day ever was back in real estate when I closed a deal that created a net profit of $82,000.
But let’s put things into perspective right? There are a lot of things that go into the process of closing real estate deals and it wasn’t easy to say the least. I could potentially sit around for months and not close another deal.
In addition to that, a whole real estate property belonging to a person or a family is involved. It’s a big deal in terms of vested interest involved when a decision is made to buy or sell real estate in comparison to an online transaction; especially back then.
But these days, people are more comfortable with purchasing a whole car online. So it’s actually gotten a whole lot easier provided you are able to communicate the value proposition effectively.
I will forever be grateful to gentlemen; Mike Dillard and Ben Settle, for learning these skill sets from them as far back 2009/2010. I do not think they know who I am at all. But it doesn’t matter because you are about to learn the skills more than 10 years later.
Sales is hard for an average human being. Most people are only comfortable selling a resume. And to be honest, it’s because of the dependency on the credentials and the experience to do the selling for them in a non-confrontational way.
It’s actually similar to why an estimated 77% of people hate public speaking. According to many studies, people actually fear public speaking more than death. They get bombarded by panic and a paralyzing fear of guess what; rejection. I personally still hate the feelings of being rejected.
When you pay close attention to what I just said, it’s not the actual rejection. It’s the “feeling” of being rejected that paralyzes people to avoid sales, public speaking or being in any position where the ultimate desire is to be accepted. It’s fascinating to know.
So many people fantasize about the idea of a big business. But then the fear of being rejected becomes a huge huddle in their way directly or indirectly.
Even if you are a person who is naturally okay with sales, it's a challenge to build a sales team with a decent attrition rate which is the rate at which people leave your organization or team. People find it a lot easier to use a resume or CV to sell their time in exchange for less than $50 per hour than to sell even air to breathe.
You can invent the best product in the world. If you are terrible at communicating the value in it to a prospect, you won’t be able to afford its production sooner or later.
Another struggle is the inability for a lot of people to know the difference in personal values and the value in a product for prospects.
Why do people window-shop? I’ll tell you why. A prospect can want a product and not be able to afford it. Sometimes, it’s just the wrong timing. But that’s not the reason why people are not buying your product or services.
The reason why people chose not to purchase from you is because you failed to transfer enough value in a way that it’s valuable to them. It was a negative choice against added value for your business.
Value in this context is in the eyes of the user or consumer and not in the eyes of the producer. Value is absolutely not an objective truth; it’s subjective but only until you learn what I want to share with you right now.
So it’s one thing to know the benefit of your product or service, it’s completely another thing to know how to transfer the value of those benefits to the prospects in order to buy now.
I am sure you have probably learned about the differences between features and benefits before. Well, this is an additional layer to the madness. But when you master this skill set, you will become dangerously profitable as your competitors drown in debt.
Oxford dictionary calls sales the exchange of a commodity for money but it also calls it the action of selling something. But then what is selling? If you are able to transfer value to your potential customers and clients at scale using written words, what would that mean for your business?
According to INC magazine, a Harvard professor says 95% of purchasing decisions are subconscious. I personally learned a long time ago that 85% of sales are initiated emotionally and they justify with logic later.
So while you may present with all the facts and figures to back up your own version of the value that the product and services offer, you will fail 85%-95% of the time because you are selling the wrong value to the wrong side of the human mind. It’s a hard pill to swallow.
Have you ever heard the saying “Facts tell but story sells?” Storytelling is a highly profitable skill to learn and no amount of facts, data and statistics can engage the human mind like a good story. It’s not necessarily the easiest thing to do but it’s non-negotiable when we create an offer.
The key in successfully transferring the value to your prospect or dare I say, sometimes manufacturing value out of thin air in a way that is perceived by your prospect, is to tap into their real motivation to buy. I promise you. It has nothing to do with doing the “right” thing.
Why do people buy? Seriously, why do people buy into anything, ideas, ideologies, belief system, a product, a service or anything? What motivates them to buy? By now, you should get the gist. It’s not logical.
Is it because they need it, they want it, can afford it? Let’s be honest. People buy things they can’t afford all the time, right?
In fact, for every time you engage unnecessary empathy around the decision of a person not buying from you for affordability reasons, they probably just spent ten times your price on a ten times worse competitor’s product or service. So affordability is rarely even a motivator to buy a product or not.
There are many motivation theories from numerous studies and I love them all. But allow me to share a few with you and then I will share my favorite.
Maslow’s need hierarchy theory is based on people's basic five need-levels namely; survival, safety, love or belonging, self-esteem and self-actualization. I personally would add “a sense of” to each one of those because people don’t even assess those things logically. They are mostly based on feelings at an emotional level.
Also, there is Herzberg’s motivational and hygiene factors. Have you heard of McClelland's human motivation theory which states that every person has one of three main driving motivators: the needs for achievement, affiliation (sounds like belonging again), or power. These are all mindsets.
People would buy things just because of a sense of belonging even when it directly offers no tangible value to them. So when designing a marketing and sales message around your product and service, you have to be careful with your definition of value.
The key thing to always remember is that it’s in the eyes of your prospect and rarely ever about your personal belief system. While you should be absolutely confident about the value you feel your product and service offers, you need to remain aware that it’s about making that confidence contagious enough for the prospect to feel that level of confidence, pull the credit card out and buy now.
So you have managed to come up with a good product in your opinion. People are checking it out but they are not buying. In fact, you know a few of these prospects personally and you’ve deemed their excuses legitimate enough to keep looking for the right customer.
NEWSFLASH: It’s either you haven’t made an offer or you’ve got a bad offer. What is an offer and how is that different from a product?
An offer is a presentation of a product beyond just the product. Some kind of tangible or intangible element has been added to make the product compelling enough to make them buy now. In essence, a product is just a product but “buy and get one free” is an offer.
The product will always be available but there is no guarantee that the offer will be available if you do not buy right now. As for intangibles, the same can be said about “a limited time” discounted price. Again, the product or at least an indirect competition to the product will always be available but there is no guarantee there will be a discount at a later time.
But these are the obvious ones you’ve encountered at a mall before. Let’s get back to using text and words to make a prospect buy from you now and not later. It’s nothing other than your ability to communicate the value proposition with the subconscious mind.
My favorite of the motivation theories is said to have been birthed by Sigmun Freud but it was made famous by Abraham Maslow. I discovered it through Tony Robbins.
The six basic human needs are love or connection, variety, significance, certainty, growth, and contribution. If you are able to stimulate a sense of these needs at a subconscious and emotional level inside of your prospects mind, you will damn near print money on-demand.
What it looks like is to spell and trace out an emotional journey from discovery to feeling absolutely stupid for not figuring out a way to buy now. Sure there will be situations where a buyer is unable to buy. But what you want is your prospects sending messages expressing their fear of missing out on an offer.
If you can craft a message in a way that they feel left out if they don’t buy, the idea of buying is exciting, they can feel a sense of a certainty in the promised transformation into a desired state of some kind of advancement, they feel even more important, and feel like your offer will make them create a desired impact on society, then your product will have a chance of delivering the value it was intended for.
A good product or service solves a problem, answers a question or replaces pain with pleasure or relief. Stating out the features, benefits, problem, solution, question and answer is not enough.
You will create more customers and clients in your business when you spell out the pain, the desired pleasure or relief especially when you are able to qualify them from a place of feelings or emotions.
Can you use words to communicate the expected transformation? Can you imagine what the pain of the present state of your customer feels like? When you can communicate the emotional state after the transformation that your product and service has delivered, you will dominate your market.
As I told you towards the end of last chapter, your customer will travel through four main stages namely:
- Discovery
- Awareness
- Consideration and…
- Conversion
The transition between each one of these stages is a conversion and you are responsible to persuade your prospect through each one of these transitions and segments. In digital marketing, we use a mix of words, images, videos and creatives to compel them to advance to the next level or segment.
This is what I want you to do in order to put a seal on the secret you just discovered in this chapter. There are some copy elements I want you to start paying attention to in the various marketing messages that you encounter henceforth. I promise. You will start noticing them on all your favorite social media platforms now. You probably found this book through one of my ad creatives and copy.
For the rest of this book, we may refer to the front end discovery level marketing message as creatives. It simply means the actual visuals that you see first, be it words, images, videos, slides, etc. The idea is to get you to a space where you are absolutely intentional on how you craft the message.
Most of the social media platforms land you on a news feed as soon as you login. That space is one of the most valuable spaces on the whole internet and the platforms are very aware of that. That’s why they sell opportunities to post your messages on the news feed for a fee.
It’s the same concept of the newspaper selling ad spaces inside a newspaper and other news channels since the ancient Roman times. When you manage to get your message on these pages, you have three seconds or less to capture the attention of your ideal audience and sell them on advancing from discovery to awareness.
It’s in your best interest to learn the art and sciences of using words and text to persuade your audience to take the actions you desire on your creatives. It’s called copywriting and the elements in it are called ‘copy”.
You can also use the same skill set in presentation to capture the heart of a c-suite panelist and get them to buy your offers. In fact, this understanding will be responsible for your ability to create irresistible offers.
When your prospect resists your offers, they will lose sleep over it and will not have peace until they come back and buy your product and services. It has nothing to do with the actual product. But it has everything to do with how owning your product or using your service makes them feel.
When you see a post with a label “Sponsored” next to it, become obsessed with the “copy”. Can you see how the copywriter was able to capture your attention? What color combinations are used? What solution is being offered to solve what problem and how are they promising some kind of relief to what pain?
Go ahead and save as many sponsored feed posts as possible, review and study them like your life depends on it. They will become a swipe file of creatives to model your execution after when we get to that stage.
In the next section, we will start talking about the processes and how you can automate more than 90% of it to get more leads, customers, clients and more deals. We are going to start with the process that connects the persons as discussed in chapter 2 with the value as we have just discussed in this chapter.0
Quick story. About 7 months ago, she decided to go for trial separation but things have basically been in a limbo since then.
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At the time, she was 8 months pregnant and taking care of 2 kids at the same time with no help whatsoever from the husband.
She would complain but he would just apologize and promise to work on it; then repeat the same cycle over again.
So she got tired of the empty promises and went for the trial separation. She thinks she is seeing some changes now but not too sure if he's faking it or he's actually doing the work.
There have been times in the past that she thought things were better even up to a year ago, forgave… but now... she wouldn't even allow him to touch her.
She claims the sex was horrible because of how she felt towards him at the initiation of the trial separation.
Though she took full responsibility for her portion of the decline in the marriage, he refused to see any issues which left her with no choice but to let him figure himself out.
Hence the separation that started 7 months ago.
Now, she is feeling much better but wants to know if there are any positive signs to look out for during this separation to determine if it's working in the favor of the marriage or if it's a lost cause.
So we want to share just five signs with you to look out for to determine if a good and healthy reunion is in sight.
Sign Number 5 Becoming Friends Sadly in these modern times, most people trying to fight for their marriage end up in big English grammatical echo chambers where all they will learn is how to diagnose their partners psychologically.
You will hear diagnoses such as narcissism, controlling, insecure etc... to the point where they don't know how to recognize normal interaction any longer.
The sad part is that people, even when they are not professionals or have any experience, will make blanket bold statements such as once a... (fill in the blank)... always a (fill in the blank.)
So it becomes extremely hard to see a simple positive sign in separation such as becoming friends again.
This one thing is priceless and you can't buy it with money. Believe it or not, you can buy a wife, a husband, a girl or boyfriend. But you can't buy a friend.
So if you are in the middle of separation and you are noticing that friendship is finding its way back, that is a strong foundation to build upon if you are willing.
Sign Number 4 Sharing Space Well, the whole point of separation also involves physical distance. But we are humans and distance, they say, makes the heart fonder.
This is especially true if there was some type of friendship before things went completely left. If that was the case, friends who are also lovers tend to find their way back into the same space.
Maybe not necessarily living under the same roof, but you find that you are able to share space together even if it's with other mutual friends.
That, my friend, is a great foundation to start working on your marriage together.
Many separated couples do not have that luxury and it's worth appreciating and leveraging as a positive sign during your separation.
Again... simple but powerful.
Sign Number 3 Share Entertainment Every separation comes with some damages that can creep back as resentments and try to destroy your marriage even after reconciliation and reuniting back together.
With the right tools, you can and will sustain such forces.
You are in a team together so you ultimately have a better leverage against any outside forces if you are aware of your power as a team.
Quick story.
For us... even after creating some damage, we would end up sitting and watching TV shows together, sharing links of memes, funny and viral videos back and forth.
If you are blessed with this type of scenario, that is a positive sign during separation.
Sign Number 2 Acceptance Naturally you are observing your partner.
I say that because you may be using the "no contact rule" as a tool to boost attraction but hopefully-primarily to take time to boost your self confidence and self esteem.
But naturally you are observing your partner… at least occasionally.
We are talking about your spouse here... in the middle of probably the painful experience of separation on both sides.
So you are observing if we are being honest.
In that observation, are you noticing more acceptance of the reality of the possibility of the marriage ending for good?
I know this may be counter-intuitive.
But if you are noticing this, that's what you need because it's a sign of wholesomeness on your partner's part. It means the quality of being beneficial and generally good for you.
When you are self-sustainable as individuals, you dramatically increase the chance that your marriage will be self-sustainable and not drain life out of one or both of you.
Let me ask you a question...
Can you personally and confidently survive and thrive if you have to do that without your husband?
Please answer in the comment space below.
Sign Number 1 Sex Listen. You are humans like the rest of us here. If you mistakenly broke your own rule and have sex with your partner during separation, that's could be a positive sign.
Sex can also be a negative sign. You may just be addicted to a terrible sex-based relationship.
If you are D or P whipped, when you clearly feel terrible emotionally after the session, that's a negative sign.
But if you lined up the other signs from sign number five to two that we previously shared with you, this is definitely a positive sign that you can turn into a foundation.
Speaking of foundation...
Don't attempt reconciliation or getting back together without engaging in good counsel, coaching or therapy. Healing is necessary in order to not create the same bad cycle all over again.
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Exactly who are you trying to serve leveraging digital marketing? I know you want to make more money. But where is this money coming from?
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Money comes from only one place. It doesn’t fall from the sky. We do not pluck it from a tree. It comes from other people. The money you are going to make comes from other people right?
In the previous chapter we talked about setting goals; smart goals to be precise. We also talked about why the desire to help someone is not enough to run a successful digital marketing campaign.
It definitely is not enough to “want” to be an entrepreneur. I also want to be Elon Musk within the next 24 hours. It’s highly unlikely that’s going to happen right?
So the act of “wanting something” is not enough, you will increase your chances of success when you set specific, meaningful, measurable and achievable goals.
We also talked about the differences between setting goals at micro and macro levels of the experience for your prospects, customers, clients, partners and whatever your audience is.
And I gave you actionable steps and real life examples of goal statements. That exercise was necessary because it represents the foundation of your journey in your digital marketing endeavors.
You will encounter multiple layers of variables that can turn to very complex problems that can potentially include losing serious money and worse; time and energy.
So it’s important to always reference that chapter if you ever feel lost in your business with regards to marketing and promotion in a digital age.
As a typical human being, you will get in over your head and lose focus at some point. It’s inevitable. But you can always trace your step backwards as far as to your original smart goal when necessary. I promise. It will happen.
In this chapter, we are going to talk about the person and not the people. I know I just said money comes from people. But if you don’t understand these people at a person by person level, you will miss it completely. Hence this lesson presented as a full blown chapter.
In December 2004 during my first encounter with real estate, I was so excited that I dropped a private class I was taking in mobile application development. Those were the days when you couldn’t watch long videos in the palm of your hands on the go.
We were learning coding, programming and simulating everything you know today as your smart phone in virtual environments. It was also my senior year studying Computer Engineering at New Jersey Institute of Technology (NJIT).
A friend of mine, (his real name starts with an ‘F’ but I will call him Jason)... He had informed me about a real estate home buying seminar in East Orange, New Jersey which he never showed up to. But I was sucked into real estate for life. It hit home for me.
Wow. I could just leverage mortgages to become a landlord who collects money month in and month out. So I started going on appointments to look at every house listed on the market starting with one house in Belleville… even though my credit score would have put me in a terrible position of high interest rate at the time.
The mortgage officer at the seminar had told me that my “500 and change” credit score will get me a property and I would become a landlord in a few weeks. A few weeks later, I stumbled into a late night infomercial and before I knew it, I ended up at another seminar which cost $3,000 that I didn’t have.
My friend Jason had agreed to partner up with me leveraging his credit card in exchange for paying it back in a few weeks with interest. Again, Jason did not show up but I was so excited that I could never forget that generosity as a foundation to what I am sharing with you today.
If he had shown up, I would have ended up on the wrong path which involved just any house without proper assessment. But what do I mean by assessment?
You see… Jason had agreed to partner up to buy a bunch of houses with me but not having easy access to buying by myself led me down the route of learning marketing properly. At first, it was about real estate right?
What I learned eventually is that it wasn’t about houses and real estate per se. It was more-so about finding deals and creating a profitable path starting from the beginning.
And that wasn’t the end of it. Profitable deals are sourced from real people’s stories and real life problems.
The common denominator in all of that and across multiple types of businesses is people, the endless questions they have in life and the inevitable problems they face in the pursuit of happiness. And in order to understand your market at a basic and foundational level, it’s wiser to understand “the person”.
So in the rest of this book, we may call it your market, your audience, the people, the avatar or the person. Who is the ideal person that your product, service or offer is designed for?
This person has a problem, a question or void and the value that your business brings is designed to fill that void.
The biggest mistake that the losers of digital marketing are making today is the assumption that everyone is their ideal customer. As soon as you post something on social media, you are asked to boost it with $10 in ad spend. And after spending that $10, it’s crickets.
Of course anyone can become a connection to an ideal client for your business, but it’s not wise to throw time, energy and money at everyone’s attention without proper market research and analysis. You will lose money.
There are two parts to market research and analysis which are absolutely necessary if you are going to spend your hard earned resources on digital marketing. The first part is about determining the market size. The second part is to realistically figure out how much of that market share you can cover; competition analysis.
It’s very likely that you are not the first to offer the solution that your product and services offer right? And if you are the first, that is not necessarily a smart move; you better know what you are doing.
Many times, I hear aspiring entrepreneurs proudly boast about being the first to do something. Listen. It’s most likely that you will not be Bill Gate or Elon Musk. These are historical “firsts” of tools that we all enjoy today but this kind of entrepreneurs come but once in a lifetime.
So let’s be realistic. Your product, service, offer and/or business have direct and indirect competition. That means you are not going to be able to capture 100% of the market share.
The market is going to have segments that are highly competitive and other segments with low competition. The low competition segments tend to also have a lower percentage of the market share.
But the real question is this. Is there a market? Is there a “person” who has a direct or indirect need for the solution that your business offers? If there is, how many persons can we realistically identify?
Last but not least, is there any other business or anyone else already providing a similar or indirect solution to these people’s problems?
These are the questions that must be answered before you try to set up a digital marketing campaign in order to avoid losing money or worse; time and energy.
Let’s make it clear.
- Market Size
- Competition Analysis
When you determine the size of the market first, you are able to decide from the beginning if a market or business is worth going after or not. If you don’t, you may just be moving off your own passion-driven biases. As a human being, you naturally gravitate toward certain types of businesses for different reasons.
Maybe a friend of yours seems to be enjoying a business model and the reality is that you truly do not know the intricacies of what it takes to be in that business successfully or to look like success on the outside.
You don’t know what you do not know. Many businesses are laundromats and many people will take Peter’s money to pay Paul just to look like success on the outside. And many do that as a strategy of hope. Hope is a terrible marketing and business strategy.
So instead of operating your marketing from a place of hope down the line, you are able to assess the market size and see upfront if it’s worth going into a particular business or not.
The same is applicable at the microlevel of a business. You may be considering opening a different department. It’s going to cost you time, energy, money and other types of resources. Before engaging those resources, determine the market size and do a competition analysis.
You may identify some risk and you may just identify an opportunity bigger than what you envisaged. The benefits of doing this assessment is much more than avoiding a negative risk. It’s just a profitable habit to get into overall as an existing or aspiring entrepreneur.
To perform market research and competition analysis, there are simple, fun, free and paid tools available. But they are useless if you don’t even know what you are looking for. The most popular of them is the almighty search engine; Google.
At press time, Google is the biggest and most popular search engine that we all run to when we have a question. Dare I say, almost all research starts from Google including medical research by a medical doctor who may be getting ready to put an incision in you or your children’s body.
I know that’s scary right? But that’s the reality. I don’t know when you are reading this book and I don’t know tomorrow. Hopefully, I will continue to get the opportunity to update and offer new versions as we evolve into an ever evolving digital world.
So maybe the hottest search engine when you are reading this won’t be Google but it will always be some kind of search Engine. As humans, we are always searching, asking and creating new problems to solve. If you understand this, you will always be in business successfully.
Whatever your biggest and most popular search engine is will be your number one market research and analysis tool. Not the only one but always a great place to start from.
You can start by searching a seed keyword or keyword phrase on the search engine. What you will discover is the beginning of a journey through a rabbit hole with lots of useful information that will fuel your present level of excitement about the business you are trying to initiate.
This information will be grouped into a group of seven different categories listed as follows or similar.
Category Number 1: Observe the top 10 results generated by the search engine result page also known as the SERPS. Open each one of the results and see how your competitors are already offering solutions to your market. Also, determine how many pages are offering results already.
Category Number 2: Observe the top 10 automatically suggested searches by the search box. You may notice that as you are typing your seed keyword or keyword phrase, the search area is also auto-suggesting and attempting to populate the area ahead of you.
Take note of the different phrases from the artificial intelligence of the search engine. Each one of these is likely an additional opportunity for you to serve and make more money.
Category Number 3: Observe the “People also ask” section of the SERP. You will see the question that other people similar to people who search your seed keyword or keyword phrase are searching on the search engine. These are additional opportunities that most people engaging in digital marketing are not taking advantage of.
Category Number 4: If you are trying this on a smart mobile phone, I want you to observe the “People also search for” section for more ideas on angles to serve this market from.
Quick question. How many people advertising online today would you guess are patient enough to do this much market research before wasting thousands of dollars on digital marketing?
Category Number 5: There is another section which may not show on every device called the “Refine This Search” section. You should pay attention to it. This is the machine attempting to help your audience narrow down their search faster and easier to the answer.
The machines don’t create these answers from thin air. These are answers from your competitors being fed to a person who is potentially an ideal client of yours. When they are ready to spend money, guess whose pocket that money is going into. Your guess is as good as mine.
Category Number 6: Sometimes, your seed keyword or keyword phrase is too narrow for the search engines to find meaningful results and it can tell because of the growing machine learning and artificial intelligence technology.
So there is a section mostly on smart mobile phones called “Broaden This Search” on the SERP. This section will give additional ideas of exactly what is in the mind of that person that potentially and possibly-desperately needs your service.
Category Number 7: This section is probably the one you are familiar with if you also use Google to answer every question that comes to mind like me. It’s called the “Related Searches” section and it’s usually at the bottom of the screen if you are on a desktop.
If this section is populated, it’s an indicator that there is a market for the business you have in mind.
This is what I want you to do. I want you to come up with a seed keyword phrase for your business using this formula. The phrase will start with one of seven different types of phrases.
- “I want to…”
- “How to…”
- “How do I”
- “How can I…”
- “What is…”
- “Where is the nearest…”
- “Where is the closest…”
I want you to end each one of those phrases with a phrase that represents what your business offers.
For example, my digital marketing consulting business market research would start with “I want to market my business on Google.” Another example could be “where is the nearest digital marketing consultant?”
Come up with 100 different phrases like that for your business and attempt to search each one of them on your favorite search engine like Google, Yahoo or YouTube which is the 2nd biggest search engine at press time.
The top of the search engine result page will actually tell you how many results are generated. That’s a starting indicator of how many pages are competing for the attention of your ideal person, audience, market, customer or client.
After this exercise, you would have gotten to know that “person” a little more. And that means you are better equipped to serve the person a little bit more than your average competitor. It's a competitive advantage at worst.
Most people are going to shy away from this exercise and that increases your chances of dominating your market and leaving scraps for the rest.
These persons that your business will serve are in two different categories. They are probably searching for a solution already and secondly, they are already following your competitor.
Market research and competition analysis gives you an opportunity to find out where they are spending their time with that smart device in their hands and legally stealing them from your competitors.
The first category is called the intent based market audience and the second category is called the interrupt market audience. Let’s quickly break it down.
The intent based market audience is actively in the middle of intentionally searching and looking for a solution that your business provides.
On the flip-side, the interrupt-based market audience is not actively searching for a solution but we’ve been able to track their activities online and determine their interest based on their online behavior.
In that case, they would be interrupted in the middle of other unrelated activities online in order to get into their discovery zone. The journey of your ideal “person(s)” travels through four main stages namely:
- Discovery
- Awareness
- Consideration and…
- Conversion
In chapter 3, we will be diving through “value”, how to identify it and leverage it to create a smooth transition for your person(s), the market, from discovery all the way through conversion into a customer and long term client and even beyond.
In fact, with this same concept, you will be able to turn a decent percentage of your best clients to loyal evangelists for your business therefore creating even more revenue; all thanks to value.
Previously in Digital Marketing Certified, I shared a little bit of my story, my path to and through digital marketing from investing $2,000 to making $12. I also shared how it’s actually worse to get stuck in a rat race as an entrepreneur.
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You probably also learned for the first time that it’s cheaper and much more effective and efficient to leverage digital marketing to build a business than it is to spend your hard earned money on billboards and yellow books.
Okay. I know I didn’t mention yellow books yet. But you should know that it’s probably the biggest scam of the 2010’s because many people still spent millions of dollars literally on those two marketing channels long after it had become obsolete. Sure we still received it at the house but they went straight into the garbage right?
I am glad you are still reading because we are actually just getting started. Just like the last 10 years of digital marketing, that was all introduction.
This whole thing is about to be better and more exciting. We are just scratching the surface. And I’ve promised from the beginning, I want to take you on a journey that is so self explanatory, you couldn’t wait to apply to your own businesses and endeavors.
If you are like me, you shy away from attention. It’s like a taboo to seek attention beyond the average level of attention that you get when you go to work daily. But fortunately or unfortunately, you have to get attention when you have a product or service to offer. You can’t get stuck with that “I’m conservative” excuse.
I am speaking from experience. I know it may be hard to believe but I am introverted to a large extent. My natural instinct is to keep things quiet and win quietly. But that won’t work when you have a business to run with a goal to at least create more positive impact. Precisely, you need attention.
So Lisa just wanted to make money. That was the goal she thought. She had spent probably about $2,300 or more in different digital products in efforts to make money online. Not only that, she had abandoned some other traditional business she was trying to build.
This was the very early days of marketing online and it was an exciting idea particularly for those who were tired of chasing family and friends around to support their little businesses. For some people, the goal had become to shame those who never supported them, to prove a point or to seek validation from the wrong sources.
Lisa had just lost her life savings on investing in a traditional business and she wanted to make some quick money so that she can prove to herself that she can do it. But that is “it?”
This is also a tell-tale sign and little-to-no wonder why she lost money in the first place. Do you notice the vague nature of her goals?
Many people jump into digital marketing just like Lisa. It’s either a goal with respect to sentiments or goals set in the wrong direction.
The truth is that there are more than enough platforms online that will take your money and send you back into the streets without apologizing for it. It’s your responsibility to turn profit and their responsibility to take your money in exchange for access to the advertising platform.
After my first consultation with her, it was clear to me that we couldn’t move forward until I helped her set clear and concise goals. It’s not as easy as it sounds.
“What’s your goal?” “I want to get more clients.” “Why?” “Because I want to.” “Okay. I can’t help you.” “Why not?” “Because I can’t.” “Okay thanks.” That’s literally but probably an oversimplified version of the conversations.
But it’s actually worse now because anyone can jump on an advertising platform and lose money because it’s accessible.
Many of the online and social media ad platforms are advertising the easy to get started message. So people are jumping on, setting up an account without setting goals properly.
Digital marketing is a beautiful development in recent and modern times but there are more variables and layers to it than a typical human mind can contain or sustain at any point in time.
Therefore it’s easy to lose track of activities and potentially lose money just by the mere fact that you know what you want. You know your business more than anyone else and I’m sure you think you know who your ideal customers and clients are.
But that’s a problem. Let me explain.
For everything that you know about anything in life, there is always a blindspot. You can also think of such blindspot as a function of your biases based on your past experiences. Traditionally, that would be good enough to carry you for up to 5 years or even more with advertising your product and services.
However like everything else now in the human experience, what you knew yesterday can be easily obsolete today just like that. Things are moving so fast that the human brain can’t keep up. And what does this have to do with setting goals in digital marketing?
Wait. I’ll get there. As I was saying, you think you know your business. In fact, you too have your social media profile and participate as a consumer on those various platforms; but that’s it. As a consumer, you know these things.
In this book, we are focused on what it takes to be a profitable producer for the various digital platforms. Everything happens so fast and it will be a losing battle to attempt to keep up with it just by knowing what you want.
Knowing what you want is not enough to run digital marketing campaigns successfully. It’s precisely a good way to lose money or lose time and energy or run campaigns that will frustrate you and make you resent the idea of digital marketing all together.
Instead, I want to help you set smart goals. S.M.A.R.T goals. I promise. I am not talking about vision boards. And I am not knocking vision boards either. But they can be as vague as they get.
Knowing what you want is a good place to start but it needs to be aligned with quantifiable business goals and objectives.
Too many people work for 10 years or more, save good money and build excellent credit, run to the bank to get a loan.. Just off knowing what they want.
I have way too many stories of people who have had to start from scratch like that. Some of them even lose their family because of the financial stress on the relationships they care about. I can tell you that it starts from the foundation.
Once you’ve identified what you want from digital marketing, be it leads, sales, customers, clients, deals or to recruit quality team members into your organization, then it’s time to put that into black and white, assess and align with your business goals.
I want you to trace it to actual profits or whatever you want to call it in order to be able to afford doing it. The way I was raised, I also tend to shy away from the idea of maximizing profits. So I understand when people say things like “I just want to help people.”
That’s cute. But you also want to be able to afford doing it over and over again. Breaking even on the money, time and energy you spend on either a for-profit or non-profit organization will end up frustrating the whole thing. And then it becomes pointless.
So it’s very important to align what you want out of this with maximizing profits and business goals in order to define goals and business objectives properly for your digital marketing efforts. To suggest anything less than spelling it out like this for you is destructive behavior.
Your goals need to be defined in a quantifiable manner. Remember this was all about finding new opportunities to serve.
This could be a new student for your school or course, a new customer for your business, a new client for your private consulting practice, a new deal etc.
The bottomline is that these are people that will go from awareness of what you have to offer to consideration of your product or service and then hopefully to conversion. You could be a pastor and we could be talking about attracting new members to your church.
So this is going to be an experience for them from awareness or discovery to conversion. What are your goals? And how soon do you want to accomplish the goals?
In addition to that, I want you to be aware that the experience of your ideal customer, client or member will happen in segments. Some of them will discover you and convert to a customer right away, some will not convert till two years later and everything in between. Oh… and some will never convert.
You will set high level goals and you will also set goals to optimize the experience of the audience firstly by building brand and influence. “Branding and influence” all in itself sounds vague but we are able to quantify and track progress with digital marketing.
Back in 2009, when I first stumbled into digital marketing, it was easy to set up an experience and make money without branding but competition is a bit higher right now as digital marketing becomes more popular.
How do we know? We set high level goals such as a specific amount like say… One Million Dollars in Sale in One Year, but we also set micro-goals at every segment in the experience of your customer.
A smart goal will also help in a feasibility study before wasting your hard earned money on a project that will lead nowhere. Digital Marketing is for everyone but every campaign type is not for every business type. A smart goal will help us further in a feasibility study of a good campaign fit among so many opportunities.
Let’s spell out smart goals. S.M.A.R.T. And let’s break it down. I did not create this. From a little research, I found out that the smart goal is a concept that was created in 1981 by George T. Doran. Since I’ve personally learned about it, I’ve also seen different versions of it.
S for Specific - Your goal needs to be one thing at least defined as that… at a high level first before we break it down using a process called CBS (Campaign Breakdown Structure).
There is a book I will recommend and link up in the reference section at the end of this book called “ONE THING” by Gary Keller to help you understand the concept even more.
M for Measurable - The project management institute (PMI) called this “meaningful”. I think that is interesting.
What it means (no pun intended) is that you can actually measure your goal and therefore be able to track progress towards achieving it. “Speaking of achieving it…”
A for Achievable - How realistic is this goal? I know you may have heard and believe in all types of manifestation of your desires and all types of Jedi mind tricks and techniques to attract what you want in life. I believe in those things too.
But when you are setting up digital marketing campaigns that involve spending time, energy and possibly your hard earned money, I want you to make sure that you are doing so with respect to a realistically achievable goal.
The manifestation stuff depends on hope as a strategy but successful digital marketing campaigns depend on setting specific, meaningful and achievable goals.
Do you have the skills to achieve the goals? If you don’t, does someone on your team have the skills? Or do you have access to the necessary education to acquire the skills? That is obviously a “yes” because this is a great start in that direction.
If you will be dropping this book before you complete it, it’s best to throw any digital marketing related goals in the trash already. It will save you so much headache.
Without the direct or indirect access to the required skills and resources, especially education, you will lose money in digital marketing and it’s worse if you are losing it in the form of time and energy.
You can make money back but you can’t get time back. When people waste time, they are usually not valuing and tracking their time properly.
R for Relevant - I’ve seen other versions labeling this as realistic. But that would probably correlate more with the previous one which is “achievable”.
The relevance factor is moreso another level of making sure your goal for a digital marketing campaign aligns with your overall business objective. If it doesn’t, it becomes another distraction.
Personally, I resent all forms of distractions in business because frankly, I’ve been a victim of distractions multiple times in my business career.
Also, some of the advertising (or ad) platforms you will be setting campaigns up on have metrics for measuring relevance factor and quality score even at micro levels. So I want you to start adopting that mindset right now already at this higher level.
T for Time-Bound - And again, PMI called this “timely”. Remember, we are not just setting a goal of one million dollars in that previous example. We are setting a time frame because of the dangers of Parkinson's law.
What is Parkinson's Law?
Parkinson's Law is the old adage that work expands to fill the time allotted for its completion. The term was first coined by Cyril Northcote Parkinson in an essay he wrote for “The Economist” in 1955.
When you don’t set a desired achievement time on a goal, you are still setting a time; forever or never. These are terrible timeframes for business. In fact, the ad platforms will stop taking your money eventually because they are set up to only work for folks who know what they are doing.
The whole point of this is to reiterate and reemphasize the importance of defining success up front and subsequently avoid unnecessary disappointments with your digital marketing campaigns. It’s a mindset and it’s the proper foundation before engaging too far and in too deep.
Here is an example of a goal statement.
Specific - “I want to write a book called Digital Marketing Certified (DMC).”
Measurable - “The book will have a minimum of 10 chapters and 30,000 words between 150 and 200 pages.”
Achievable - “Because I am busy with other endeavors, I can realistically achieve writing this book in about 12 weeks.”
Relevant - “Digital Marketing Certified (DMC) is relevant to my overall business goals because it will educate my friends on what I do, help me get more students and clients, educate my future clients first, and more importantly make projects 1,000 times easier for the team and stakeholders.”
Time-Bound - “The book will be ready for publishing in 12 weeks because I am committed to releasing a video version weekly on my YouTube channel. until release.”
I know what you are thinking. “OLA, what about an actual digital marketing goal statement example?”
I got you.
Specific - “I want to generate new clients at the $7,500 price point into my consulting business with digital marketing.”
Measurable - “I want to generate 13 new clients into my consulting business.”
Achievable - “I have 2 clients already generated from my last traditional word of mouth campaign leveraging a messaging app broadcast. I have generated some revenue, streamlined by prospecting process and I can do this 13 more times definitely.”
Relevant - “Getting 13 month more clients will not just put me at 15 clients which aligns with my overall business goals, it will also bring in more revenue so that I can invest in more efficient processes, acquire more resources and build my team. I don’t want to be a slave to the business.”
Time-Bound - “I want to acquire all 13 new clients in the next 90 days.”
So this is what I want you to do. Open an empty document on Google Docs and write your very own goal statement. If I were you and I am completely new to digital marketing, I would definitely print it out for my desk.
In the next chapter, we will dive into the next piece of the pieces that you need to understand deeply in order to create successful and profitable digital marketing campaigns.
Like me, I know you want to serve many people. But you must understand these people as individuals first and not as a group in order to create the most optimized impact as aligned with your overall business goals.
Unwanted Separation? Use THESE 5 Tips! So we received a comment on one of the best videos we've ever done called "Ignoring Your Spouse During Separation" from one of our 1,125 extremely valuable subscribers on YouTube; Queen.
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She says... And I quote
“Going thru separation. I love and miss my husband. He asked to be alone for a year. What do I do while we are living apart?”
Queen. I’m sorry you are going through this. Separation is not easy on anyone. As devastating as it sounds, it sometimes can yield positive outcomes.
In fact, we are going to share 5 tips with you on how to dramatically increase the chance of making this season productive for you especially in spite of what it may feel like right now.
Tip Number 5 Identify Why The marriage institution is exactly that; an institution. And all disrespect of the institution will lead to a terrible outcome which is a legal or spiritual evaporation of the marriage.
One of such disrespects happens when people get into marriages that lack explicitly identified purpose. It's also synonymous with a marriage with no clear vision from the leader.
So if there is no leader, even if it's temporarily, there is no vision and things fall apart.
At this point, Queen… you have to be realistic and identify your own life mission and purpose.
It's going to be instrumental in attracting your husband back to you if he belongs there in the first place.
Major focus has to be directed to building yourself up because it's about being worthy of attracting what you desire; even if that's your marriage and/or your husband.
Whatever you engage henceforth should either be your passion or some type of stepping stone towards your passion.
Tip Number 4 Forgive Yourself There is a tricky fine line between holding yourself accountable and not forgiving yourself. Everything in life is a double edged sword that can cut both ways.
Holding yourself accountable when your marriage seems to be failing is no different. You want to make sure that you've forgiven yourself for at least being what you may be perceiving as failure.
After all, failure is the stepping stone towards all forms of success.
Guilt, blame, condemnation and judgement will work against you because they will consume 10 times the energy you could use to improve yourself in order to attract love and your desires again.
Tip Number 3 Let Him Go He wants time off, let him go. The truth is that negotiating desire is always a terrible strategy because it leads back into this vicious cycle of resenting yourself.
If your husband has asked to be alone for a year, the reality is that he doesn't want to be alone because he is human; a social being like the rest of us. He just doesn't want to be with you again.
At least subconsciously, you also know this to be true so you naturally fight to hold on to your husband evidently by begging, calling obsessively, manipulation and other strategies that only repel and not attract love.
So the fear becomes, "what if I let go and then he gets with someone else"?
Okay. What if he does? I ask you. Can you survive that reality? If you can't survive that reality, where is the sexy self-confidence and self-esteem that attracted him in the first place?
It's little to no wonder why he doesn't want to be with you.
Here is another reality. That's just how he felt the moment it was said. It's not necessarily how he is going to feel once he smells that you don't need him ever again.
To want him and to need him are two different things. No one wants to be with a needy person.
So the first step is to let him go in order to let your magic... maybe God.... do its thing.
There is more.
Tip Number 2 Build Self Love We've seen a lot of people running around social media and different types of conversations talking about "self love".
Let's be honest. Some people are too selfish and should not be talking about self love if they don't want to self-sabotage when it comes to attracting authentic love over time.
But in your case Queen, rejection breeds obsession. So you are probably pouring from an empty cup and not taking care of yourself enough. That's not attractive nor is it sustainable.
In this season for you, the work is in taking care of and loving up on yourself.
I understand it's hard when you experience rejection especially when it involves a potential break up of your family.
But remember that everything goes back to attraction and desire which you should never negotiate. People, including your husband, really have no choice but to mimic the level of self love that you have for yourself.
At the minimum, people will mimic your level of self-respect. Focus on doing things you love and for yourself during this period and don't have ultimatums on doing that.
Make it a lifestyle.
I have a question for you. Are you naturally a selfish person?
Use the comment area below to share your answer with us.
There is a chance that you are already not a selfish person. So it's time to pivot and it's your best chance of attracting love with or without your husband.
I know you are probably so obsessed that you don't want to hear about love outside of your husband. But think about this deeply. Love is love and it really wouldn't matter when you are in-love.
It also doesn't matter because loving yourself will make you more attractive and therefore increase your chances of attracting anyone to desire you; hopefully your husband.
And last but not least.
Tip Number 1 Look Out For Clarity Okay. I don't want you to set yourself up because honestly that marriage is gone. Because even if your husband comes back to you, you will have to build a new foundation.
When we say look out for clarity, we need you to do that from a space of selfishness and what is good for your own life and the rest of your life.
I don't want you to sit around and start expecting your husband to suddenly decide to come back to his senses. Nothing in life is guaranteed.
If he comes back, good for him… and for you I hope.
With these tips, you will definitely influence him if he is human like the rest of us because he will wonder and become unsure of where you stand.
That will effectively drive his attraction towards you in an upwards direction.
But you can't control what other people do. You can only control how you respond to life and consequently control what you attract.
Things will start to align when you let go and genuinely become capable of enjoying every moment of your life without needing him.
We are speaking from experience. We share our own story inside the book "GET MY MARRIAGE BACK" which you can download for free at www.GetMyMarriageBack.com
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On this episode, we are going to react to a Melanin King clip from a her dating show that involved a 60 years old man who is single, shot his shot at her and wants to build a family. Is it still possible?
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Why is Marsau attracting disrespect from his in-laws?
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We may be speaking from our traditional perspective here but nope… We’ve spent most of our lives in the west.
So we have some context.. at least some.
I do think that there is a lot of disrespect coming to Marsau from Latisha’s family. But dare I say it… he deserves it because he is attracting it.
Maybe “deserve” is a little too harsh… maybe it’s not relevant since for the most part, we don’t know what we don’t know when it comes to marriage.
What are we talking about here?
We are talking about one of our favorite shows to watch together on OWN TV; Love and Marriage: Huntsville.
It's a show in its fourth season which showcases the married life of 3 or 4 couples... one of which is Marsau and Latisha.
They’ve been married for years so they ‘kinda’ know a lot when it comes to this marriage thing.
But it almost seems...
THAT very factor is creating a blind spot for Marsau.
In-Law issues are the necessary evil that we all have to deal with as married people.
And the fact is that Marsau talks too much when it comes to his in-laws... starting with Latisha's mother.
When I talk about “game”, people always assume that we are talking about dating or pick-up artistry only.
The truth is that married men need even more game.
The higher you climb in any form of hierarchy, the more of a shit test target you become.
Marsau’s in-laws represent the first phase of Latisha’s life… development years for that matter… which means there are all types of sentimental values that he will never be fully aware of.
Alright. With that being said, let's go ahead and share 5 tips for dealing with in-laws in a way that doesn't tamper with your marriage.
Tip Number 5 Don't Save Her... She “don't” wanna be saved... The limitations of this, of course, is a physical threat to your wife. But you don't have the capacity to proactively save her emotionally from her own family; her source.
The safest way to remotely get close to saving her in a way that puts you at an advantage as her husband is to be that shoulder to cry on
…or a safe haven she can always trust to run to when she occasionally gets burnt over there.
I don't remember if Marsau attempted to save Tisha from her cousin while beefing about her trip with Tisha's friend which she was kept out of.
That right there is a prime example allowing her to go through that on her own.
Tip Number 4 Don't feed into it. Many at times, it's going to feel like one or a few of your in-laws come with overbearing energy.
If it's a physical attack, call the police. That should never be tolerated.
It's usually not a physical attack. As for emotional or verbal attacks directed at you, don't feed into it. Why?
Because your wife's feelings matter to you.
So at the end of the day, you need to just remove yourself temporarily because that's what's going to create the best result for you in the long run.
Maybe in the short term it feels unfair. But marriage is never supposed to be a competition... remember.
Remove yourself physically and temporarily if you ever feel the need to feed into negativity; it's not worth it.
Marsau finds himself feeding into Ms. Wanda's negativity all the time. I know... "A man is supposed to check misbehavior as they come, right? No matter who it's coming from."
Wrong! That's a short sighted way of looking at things. Some battles are just not worth the expense.
I also know that he puts on that face CAP like it’s all banter. But we can see through the bullshit.
Tip Number 3 Don't compete with them It's going to happen... sometimes from a very subconscious place. You will feel like you're competing with your in-laws for your wife's attention.
It should never be a competition but I understand you are human like the rest of us.
She already chose you as the husband for a reason so it's best to just maintain self-respect and esteem and remain the king that you are in your own household.
Anything else is validation and approval seeking behavior.
This awareness we just hopefully created will go a long way for you in protecting your position and your family.
At this point, you are probably hearing me tell you to kill them with kindness. I didn't say that.
All I am asking you to do is to maintain your desired position with a long sighted view; be it a leader or a follower.
Tip Number 2 Don't mix in-laws with business. In one of the episodes, we watched Tisha and Marsau evaluate a food truck business venture with Ms.Wanda.
Per Tisha's request, they were to invest in that business starting with buying and fixing this old dilapidated food truck sitting in the middle of nowhere.
This is a tricky one... and there is no absolute advice here... just a little guide.
Ideally, this type of investment should be avoided if possible.
It's better to give Ms.Wanda, your in-law, whatever you want and can afford to give her as a gift so that you don't become attached or invested in the outcome of the business venture.
It was obvious that Tisha really wanted to do this with her mother. If that’s the case, Marsau is better off giving Tisha the gift and detaching himself from the outcome for his own peace of mind.
Question of the day: Share in the comment area in one word... What do you think attachment to outcomes turns into when it comes to marriage and relationships?
Tip #1 Listen... Don't judge So let's say Marsau follows this advice and gives Tisha the gift to invest with her mother.
From experience and analyzing a lot of cases, we know that "I told you so" moments are inevitable in the future.
As you probably already guessed, that wouldn’t be a moment for Marsau to say "I told you so."
Many times, your wife will come to you and report on how her family member offended her. Don't insert yourself and start judging them.
Just listen. Just be understanding. It's okay to be fascinated.
“Wow..” “That’s crazy.”, “Interesting..” “O ga o”.
It's okay to be interested without judging.
If you're judging her family, she may feel good about it right now.
Later on or if you are consistent enough with that behavior, she may start to feel some kind of way about it because that's her family.
You're going to become the enemy.
We are speaking from experience. In fact, we share our own story inside the book "GET MY MARRIAGE BACK" which you can download for free at www.GetMyMarriageBack.com
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2009, February. This story was launched into new dimensions. A partner and friend invited me into a home-meeting designed to launch a home business. I want to tell you that story but let’s talk about this being my 4th published book for context.
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Previously in the world of my book writing endeavors, I published my 3rd book called Real Estate Money Secrets as a follow up to the first book I ever published called Smart Real Estate Wholesaling.
Between those two books, I co-authored a book with my wife called Get My Marriage Back to help couples going through a crisis in marriage rekindle things in a sustainable and healthy way.
It is with great pleasure that I present to you my 4th published book; Digital Marketing Certified. I believe it’s going to be my greatest work thus far towards my on-going effort to continue to put more value out into the world.
Not just because it’s going to help me make more money but honestly, because it will help you add more value into the world, create a positive impact and yes, make more money.
It almost feels like my books are tracking my personal journey; which I am about to share with you in a second. I like it because it’s starting to make sense.
There were times that I had planned to write other books in the past few years but it just never happened. This book is not just written; you are also here reading it and to me, that’s a sign of lots of greatness that will come through you into this world.
Reading this book 10-15 times is not just about reading a book. It’s about mastery of what it’s going to take to connect your message and the value you have to offer the world with your core audience; literally millions of them waiting to receive your awesomeness.
I want to be able to track your progress and especially your story as it’s also being documented as you implement what you learn in this book; that’s my greatest wish.
So 2009, February as I was saying earlier, my digital marketing story was officially launched into new dimensions. A partner and a friend invited me into a home meeting designed to launch a home business in his apartment, West New York, New Jersey.
A multi-million dollar real estate business had just gotten wiped out from underneath me due to the 2008 recession. So I was open to ways of pivoting because I experienced massive unfathomable success between the ages of 26 and 28 year old.
You couldn’t tell me anything. I was on top of the world and suddenly; it was over. I tried building an online mall, a car export business and a few other things. I just knew that I was never going into the 9-5 world.
I just always knew that I had more value in me to offer the world. It feels like a big whole ball of fire inside of me and it would be the greatest form of punishment to lock me inside of a cubicle for eight plus hours and 5 days per week or more.
In hindsight, I now know that I was naive and too young to be able to comprehend everything I have now learned since then; over 12 years.
Anyway, I ended up signing up for a network marketing business opportunity and that officially launched me into the world of marketing.
With the prior real estate business, I actually leveraged the power of the internet with direct response and email marketing in so many creative ways. But I didn’t realize it was all digital marketing.
I recruited my whole family into the network marketing, multi-level marketing, MLM business model but they all did nothing with the business opportunity. So I received a $12 check months later in exchange for the $2,000 that I spent on signing them all up.
In 2014, I made my way back into real estate in collaborations with other investors, wholesaling, training and coaching investors how to market using my systems. But since 2009, there is one aspect of all these that I wake up to daily; that’s marketing. I am obsessed.
One of the most difficult and “easy to be distracted from” lessons I’ve discovered is that everyone needs a link to opportunities to serve. Let me explain.
We all want to, not just survive, but we want to be financially stable enough to enjoy the things we like to enjoy. Let’s just address the elephant in the room.
We all want more money no matter how much we already have. Everytime, you get a raise in income, a new problem is created. Naturally, the cost of your lifestyle follows suit.
There is not much difference between being a business owner or not; I learned after about a decade. It’s still a rat race if you do not figure out how to link up with new opportunities to serve on a regular basis.
Gone are those days, when you would spend 40 hours per week on the same job for 40 years starting at an entry level of $40,000 annual salary. Even a 6-figure salary doesn’t add up any longer.
Honestly, I am not even talking about the money because I believe that part is a by-product of having the skills to link yourself up with new opportunities to serve more consistently.
In the 9-5 world, it’s about those resumes connecting with new potential employers on a consistent basis. You can no longer afford to settle with one employer for 40 years.
But in business, it’s about connecting with new leads, new customers, new clients and new deals on a consistent basis on demand. In a highly competitive world, it’s difficult if you don’t pay attention to the digital evolution.
Think about it. How many businesses do you see on your way home with “closing out sales?” Every organization including charity organizations are struggling connecting to people who can donate.
Here is the problem. The world hasn’t moved on. It’s moving as a consistent constant. Technology is always evolving and I’m sorry, business cards and billboards have become the most ineffective way to connect with new opportunities to serve and off course make more money.
So how do you connect with new leads, new prospects, new customers, new clients, new deals, new jobs and more money as the world continues to evolve in the digital era?
You guessed it right. Digital Marketing; the art and science of leveraging the digital evolution to build influence and connect your values with an audience that already wants it badly.
Just a few years ago, we called it internet marketing and online marketing. But the truth is that we can’t keep up because there are on-going developments around the same concept; everything is digital and digitally evolving.
In fact, sooner or later, we are going to have half-humans half-robots taking away more old school jobs. But the good news is that more new-school jobs are being created.
Digital marketing is a solution to the problem of connecting with new opportunities as relevant to the obsession of mankind with wanting everything easier, simpler, faster and all the other ‘er’s you can think of.
But we also know that every solution creates new problems. And every problem creates new opportunities to solve more problems.
So I hope you are starting to think of the idea of digital marketing as the greatest opportunity to make more money and build out your career, your life and your legacy no matter what it is.
I guess the easiest proof I can offer you right now is to observe just social media, which is just one piece of many, from this lens for 24 hours. Then write your objective observations as to how much money is moving hands right in front of you in real time.
While many businesses are going under due to what I consider as arrogance, many new companies and income opportunities are rising daily from something so obvious, many still can’t see it.
We are going to use this book to shed light on digital marketing and also teach the skills required to take serious advantage of it.
If you are still reading, you already know that you need to be marketing in order to keep bringing new eyeballs and revenue into your business. You already know that it's a direct source of food for the beast.
So even if you want to do great things for others from the goodness of your heart, you know that you won’t be able to afford to keep it going if no revenues are coming in.
But the question now is why should you pivot from more traditional types of marketing into digital? For one, it’s easier, simpler and gets you results faster. And guess what, it’s actually cheaper too.
Back in the days, a lot of marketing activity involved throwing stuff against the wall and hoping that something will stick. Quite often than none, some did stick. But I would attribute that to that particular environment where everyone else didn’t know any better.
In this digital age, more and more people are discovering it; even though I believe that digital marketing is still very much in its infancy stages.
That right there is your competitive advantage going right out the window. Sure there is a balancing act between not just jumping on every bandwagon and being proactive when it comes to new technology.
Leveraging digital marketing is one of those where you have to be proactive because it has to do with the blood and life of your mission; new people to serve.
As opposed to traditional methods, everyone is equal. (I’m not sure if that’s a good thing) and it’s easy to get started. That could have been a disadvantage but because getting started is readily available to anyone, most people are taking it for granted.
Many people literally had to wait years for major universities to be teaching it in their curriculum to pay attention to digital marketing. It’s not too late but that doesn't mean you didn’t miss out on certain opportunities that come from taking action at ground zero.
So I get approached every now and then by people who have a little money to spend on marketing to build their movement and mission. “Ola, I’ve got $25,000 to spend on marketing. Where should I start?”
It’s probably the most popular question that I get. “How do I get started?” Some would say, “there are too many people talking, exactly where is the starting point?”
That can be absolutely confusing and frustrating. So I get it. Especially when you consider the beast itself; the internet is such a viral machine that it’s so easy to get lost in a rabbit hole without any chances of coming out with a useful product.
That’s one of my goals with this book. I want to help you outline a step-by-step approach which obviously has to start with a step one. Speaking of goals, the first step is for you to get crystal clear on what your personal and business goal is, not “are”, but “is” with respect to why you want to leverage digital marketing.
Without a clearly written out goal and purpose statement, you will get lost in the sauce of the beast because what we love about it what you may end up resenting about it.
I can’t tell you how many people have left the mission because of the frustration directly linked to not starting with a goal and clear purpose. It may sound simple but anything worthwhile in life and business is easier said than done.
This book is a great guide, a type of bible, if you will, to help you stay grounded in your set purpose as you navigate the world of digital marketing.
That’s what we are going to use as seed for the initial research to identify the right content, platform, placement strategy that will create your desired results from this simple process presented in this book.
Go ahead and log in into your favorite social media platform right now. What do you see? I bet you see some type of news and/or post feed.
Here is something else you will notice. You will notice that the first few postings in that feed tend to be a continuation of the same type of content you had been engaging at least with your eyes during your recent browsing.
As simple and as regular or obvious as that may sound to you right now, I want you to realize how powerful it is to follow your ideal customer and client with content they are most likely going to engage again.
“Again?” Yes. It’s very important to pay particular attention to the idea that you can actually track the interest of your ideal audience down to what they are most likely going to enjoy and engage in. Imagine being able to track this phenomenon down to micro-behaviors and leverage it to build your ability to connect with more opportunities to serve and therefore make money.
It’s been proven time and time again that your average customers will not do business with you just after their first encounter with your business. Back in the days, you would have to make follow-up calls to see if they are ready to do business.
But in the digital era, you can track and set up automated campaigns to take advantage of what we already know for centuries.
Have you experienced an ad following you to every website you go after viewing a product that you didn’t buy yet? With digital marketing, you are able to track people’s interest and connect it to your offer in the marketplace in an extremely predictable and scalable way.
In this digital age, it’s all trackable numbers that you can leverage to create more of its kind; optimized for massive profits in your business.
Before we dive in through the rest of this book which I know you are excited about, this is what I want you to do. I want you to grab a piece of paper or open an empty document on your personal computer.
Then I want you to write straight from your heart what you want personally from digital marketing. I want you to describe your desired outcome in full detail and what that desired outcome would mean to you with respect to wealth building and living a healthier lifestyle and fostering better personal and business relationships.
Here is what’s going to happen. You will discover how much you have buried inside for one. In addition to that, you will notice a flow of ideas based on what we’ve covered in just the introduction.
There are some exceptions. Maybe you are one of them and you don’t feel that way after honestly going through that exercise. This is what I want you to do.
I want you to describe in full detail how you’ve attempted to use emails and/or social media in any capacity to advance your outcome either in business or in your personal life.
Once you’ve done that, I want you to attempt to quantify the outcome you got from such activities in the past and then multiply it somehow by 100. Continue to describe the product of that exercise because I know you may find it difficult at this point to describe things in discrete data.
Congratulations. You have just had your first experience in the excitement you are about to discover over the next 11 chapters of digital marketing awesomeness that’s about to happen to your business, and your mission.
It’s never been this easy to quantify the numerous activities involved in exposing content, products and services to quality eyeballs. Literally, all of it and more can be done from a laptop and a decent internet connection.
In the next and first official chapter, I am going to help you a little further in defining your goals. Remember, you ultimately know what outcome you desire from leveraging digital marketing to spread your message, impact, products and services.
But I want to help you define it in a way that you are able to predict results so you can double down over and over where necessary. No worries. It’s going to be a lot of fun as we dive even further into this.
ACCOUNTABILITY vs RESPONSIBILITY - "If I Have To Protect You, Why Can't I Hold You Accountable." [PART 2]
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In my last video before part 1 on Will Smith’s apology video, I talked about blame as a function of baseless guilt and shaming.
Accountability on the flip side is a function of a solid foundation and set of values that all involved parties have subscribed to.
When you hold people accountable, you should be holding them to account for agreed standards within the right frame of mind. But when you mix that up with blame, shame, insults, there will be distortion of what the standards are… naturally.
I personally have to continually work on this when I hold men accountable. It’s hard when I can clearly see the wrong to not use certain languages to express my frustrations.
I tend to say things like lame, incel, weak etc.
Shaming, blaming, insults, condemnations simply cannot be in the same space as accountability in relationships, marriage and any type or romantic context.
I do have to keep my foot on your neck. Gentlemen, we have to figure this out.
5 Signs of Lack of Accountability In Relationships & Marriage Sign Number 5 - When you tend to use shaming, blaming, insults, condemnations and judgmental tactics, it’s a sign that your woman is having a hard time holding herself accountable to you.
Sign Number 4 - The use of the words “always” and “never”. Here is an example, “you never listen to me.” Such statements are lies by default and definitely signs of lack of self-accountability which “always: (no pun intended) turns to overall lack of accountability.
Sign Number 3 - Confusing lack of desire and lack of accountability is a sign of lack of self accountability and self-respect… and it’s worse.
Sign Number 2 - When you are confused between protecting her feelings vs making sure she feels protected while “holding her accountable” that’s a sign that will defeat accountability.
Sign Number 1 - Last but not least, active competition in any form between couples is a sign of lack of accountability on at least whoever is claiming to be the leader of the union.
When men talk about holding women accountable, there is usually a piece of information that I find missing.
“Exactly what are you holding her accountable to?”
At this point, the rambling usually starts for three minutes and then maybe ends at “women never apologize.”
Remember what I said earlier about the use of the words “always” and “never”. It’s a sign of lack of self-accountability and ignorance.
I do believe you should be able to at least hold yourself accountable for not being able to leave a terrible relationship. That in itself is an undefeatable strategy to holding women accountable.
But when I see stuff like..
“Hold women accountable by leaving them alone with their kids and cats,” I am forced to look at you sideways and ask. Why do you feel the need for the insults?
Is the truth not good enough? Is that a testament to why you are having a hard time holding your woman accountable?
Is this why you keep asking women to allow you to lead? Just questions…
Your truth is not good enough for women to be accountable to? A lot of people having these conversations are real time case studies of the lack of accountability epidemics. It’s contagious.
Because of their conduct evident by women being afraid to come on the panel for the discussions, it’s obvious to me why women will simply not listen to them.
And if they did, they tend to call them out on emotions in attempts to lead and hold them accountable… Clearly, it’s not working but then it’s supposed to be the woman’s fault.
I hear things like “I was respectful and she hits me with disrespect.”
Again, continuing to engage such a person (not just a woman) tells me you lack self respect. This will be a good moment to practice self-accountability.
Women are not just going to submit to you just for being a man. That’s being delusional and that’s not the reality of life in any society.
You get the basic bare minimum respect first and it’s easy to lose that with the mindset that all women should submit regardless.
Delusional people tend to use the word “should” a whole lot.
Having an opinion on strangers and the general public is not the same as holding them accountable. What could you possibly be holding them accountable to other than your own delusions?
If a person is already disagreeing with you in a debate, you can’t just move the goal post and switch it to an attempt to hold them accountable. That’s why you are failing.
By default, they are not agreeable because you are equally in debate with them.
Here are some real life questions and weird answers around holding women accountable Question: What do I do if my girlfriend never accepts her mistakes?
A Stupid Answer: “My suggestion is to just run from this toxic person….even I had a girlfriend who never used to accept her mistake…and she was trying to ruin my life…50 percent damage was already done by her to me so in order to save my future…I stopped contacting her…I am happy now… RUN…SAVE YOURSELF…”
The Right Answer: This answer is projection at best. If she never accepts her mistakes, the first step is to set a good tone and the second step is to have a conversation about it.
Frankly, I need to know her mistakes before I can help because you used the word “never.” That makes your accusations a lie by default until proven otherwise.
Question: Why doesn’t my girlfriend take responsibility for her wrong doings in our relationship and why do I apologize in the end?
A Stupid Answer: Why, indeed? Never falsely apologize. That's a lie. Worse, you lie to yourself. This person you refer to as your girlfriend is a drama queen. She hears nothing other than her own voice. Selfish as they come. I don't care how cute she appears on the outside, she's dark and ugly on the inside. You will continue to be treated badly if you don't put a stop to this. Next time you apologize let it be for your mistake of putting up with her.
The Right Answer: This started off as an okay answer but at the end it was laced with shaming, blaming and insults.
As much as the answer was, I guess, designed to make the asker of the question feel good, he probably felt worse because of the past choices and the focus becomes that.
Blame is 100% destructive at a psychological level. It ignores all the processes that go into the choices that we make. Stop confusing it with accountability.
Relationship Accountability Spectrum So there is a spectrum here that I stole nicely from a Dr Perel called the relationship accountability spectrum. It was used to categorize ghosting in dating to icing, passive, simmering, power parting and active cold ghosting.
WIth the same idea, think of holding a woman accountable as four different methods on a spectrum.
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Holding just yourself accountable, a typical good woman will follow your lead anyway.
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Mostly holding yourself accountable, a typical good woman will give you enough grace even when you are weak and still follow your lead anyway.
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Mostly holding her accountable, a typical good woman will give you enough grace, try to follow your lead but may get tired of the bullshit.
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Focus all your energy on holding just her alone accountable by barking at her from time to time, a typical good woman will give you enough grace, try to follow your lead but will get tired of the bullshit las las.
Where do you fall on that spectrum?
A bad woman? Hold yourself accountable and leave. Easier said than done… right?
5 Signs of a Cheating Woman
Karen is just an inch away from being ousted by her husband's best friend who is also a co-worker.
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He suspects that the rumors floating around work about the dude she hangs out with for lunch is true.
What’s the rumor?
Well… the rumor is that they have been going to eat something else during lunch and not food.
I know why you are here; you are wondering if your woman is cheating on you.
That’s sad!
Not the part where you want answers, but the fact that you are in this position to even have to question the loyalty and faithfulness of your woman.
I can only imagine what you are going through because trust can be extremely difficult to build back in marriage or relationship.
It’s damn near impossible but it’s possible. Never mind what all the lames are saying on the internet and social media these days.
Projection is at an all time high.
I am sure there are over-exhausted list of signs of a cheating woman out there designed to scare the sh*t out of you.
Trust me… it’s not that deep. After this, your fear will disappear.
We are going to spell out 5 signs of a cheating woman for you in the next few short minutes.
But before that…
What is Cheating?
LOLA: Without some form of agreement between two people to some code of conduct or standard, there is no such thing as cheating.
Cheating is what happens when one person steps outside of the code they agreed to with another person.
Let’s keep it simple. If you couldn’t share the full nature of the relationship you have with another person with your partner, it’s probably cheating.
But…
Who is a Cheating Woman?
Like you said, a cheating woman keeps a relationship she wouldn’t necessarily be comfortable sharing the details of with her partner or husband.
It doesn’t matter if physical intercourse was ever involved or not. If not yet, it’s only a matter of time anyway.
That’s true. So there are…
2 Main Types of Cheating
- Emotional Cheating and
- Physical Cheating
What is Emotional Cheating? Whenever a woman keeps a relationship with another person who fills emotional void for her in romantic way even if there is no sexual intercourse, this is emotional cheating.
One trend we’ve seen is that women who participate in this bad behavior tend to do it with some types of blast from the past; maybe an ex.
This type of cheating actually feels worse to the victim because you’ll never know what happened.
None of the types of cheating feels good to a victim of infidelity. From a feeling standpoint… speaking as a man… the last thing I expect is for my woman to entertain romantic attention from another man.
I am sure women will say the same thing.
So what about…
Physical Cheating LOLA: This occurs when physical intimacy has occurred between a cheating woman and another man.
Let's dive through the 5 signs you should look out for. But I have to give you a quick…
Warning: Overreaction and directly querying your woman if you notice these signs will backfire and make matters worse for you personally.
Sign #5 - She hangs out on the other side of the house There is nothing wrong with a healthy space between romantic partners because distance does make the heart fonder. But the point and ideal is that she can't wait to get back with you whenever there is space.
If she is actively and consistently fighting for space from you in the same house, it could be a sign of cheating. More importantly, it's a sign of disconnection and the beginning of eventually cheating.
Sign #4 - She dresses very sexy but is often not in the mood for intimacy. Typically, when a woman is going through it without necessarily cheating, she also does not feel sexy. But women can eventually get to a stage where she is enjoying attention outside of the relationship.
She would then do more to continue to attract such attention. If this correlates with a phase when she doesn't want to be intimate with you as a partner or husband, that could be a sign of a cheating woman.
Not only could she be enjoying some type of value for staying with you, she could be actively cheating you out of your freedom to go find happiness somewhere else.
Sign #3 - She spends up to an hour with her phone in the bathroom Are you noticing a pattern here? She can't wait to spend time away from you with respect to engaging other people... and yes potentially romantically.
She may still be in a phase where she is fantasizing about the idea of being with another person so she entertains long conversations by text message with an emotional tampon on the side; emotional cheating.
Sign #2 - She calls you by another dude’s name in bed. Yea... you never know how far these types of fantasies can go. Again, this could be a sign of physical cheating or it could very much still be in the fantasy stage.
The flip side of this is that this is a sign of an emotional void being filled.
Sign #1 - She panics whenever she leaves her phone behind. This sign right here clearly shows that she is hiding something. Like we said earlier, cheating is as simple as engaging in romantic activities with someone outside of your partner even if it is purely... virtually... a.k.a emotionally.
If you've noticed this to be a consistent behavior, it should be a concern for you. It's not a guarantee that she is cheating but she sure is hiding something.
Could she be hiding details about a surprise party for you?
I'm going to leave you with this warning again. Overreaction and directly querying your woman if you notice these signs will backfire and make matters worse for you personally.
Instead, engage a personal, individual and wise counsel first.
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Wow. I won’t call this a stupid question even though I should. But I’ll tell you why you can’t hold her accountable. You lack self respect.
And the worst thing about it is that you are perpetuating it right now. It’s a competition. It’s a contest. It’s transactional. You’ve made yourself equal to the woman… she’s not even your woman.
But then I should calm down because it’s all YouTube panels and should not be conflicted with a romantic relationship.
CAP. Sadly… Many young men are taking these conversations back to their romantic relationships in attempts to hold a woman accountable. And it’s failing.
Anything I say in my lessons is easier said than done. But they are highly rewarding when you figure it out.
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In this lesson, we will answer questions and cover things like:
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Do Females Lack Accountability?
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Accountability vs Responsibility
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Accountability vs Blame In Relationships & Marriage
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5 Signs of Lack of Accountability In Relationships & Marriage
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Relationship Accountability Spectrum
As we speak, there are tons of conversations going on reddit and various social media platforms around the idea that accountability is a woman's kryptonite.
Is that true?
In fact, the memes are endless. The manosphere talking points around women’s lack of accountability is likewise endless.
For example, I just read one women accountability meme that says… and I quote… "60% of women cheat but 85% of the time it is the man's fault. Women tend to cheat because they are not being loved properly or they have been feeling lonely for a long period of time in a relationship and so they lean on another male for support and accidentally have sex with them."
As you know, this is a platform where we hold ourselves as men accountable particularly to facilitate personal growth with respect to relationships.
Weak men think of it as pandering. “Ola.. stop shaming men.”
One of the push back I get this most is…
“So it’s always a man’s fault?”
Here is another meme joke I read… I guess a woman saying "Whatchu mean I don't have no accountability? 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10! See I have the ability to count.”
That is funny… You will also hear things like…
"Women demand equality except when they get special treatment for being a woman."
Some even say “Not only are they not held accountable, if a male is involved, he's held accountable for her actions!”
Well, when a man has not heard me long enough, it’s easy for him to say that I am holding him accountable for a woman’s actions.
Never that! But I could hold you accountable for not leaving and disengaging any conversation with her if she’s such a bad person. That is your action or lack there-of.
The talking points are endless. Here is another one.
“Y’all are both drunk and have sex. The male is held accountable.”
This one is obviously a generalization and you know how I feel about those.
And another one. “A girl flirts with a guy at work and the guy decides to go for it. The guy gets fired.”
Okay. So the society protects the most vulnerable first, children, then women before we get to the men in a society that has men, women and children… no aliens.
Where is the surprise here again?
Are we still talking about accountability for women and you are running from accountability? “You both decide to get married but then the woman doesn't want to be married anymore and wants a divorce. The man has to pay alimony to women.”
80% of divorces are initiated by women. Congrats. You passed your data, facts and stats test. Now.. let’s get back into the real world.
I am guessing this is the part where we will all pretend that there is nothing between getting married and the divorce. It’s all vacuum. Right?
Let’s do one more.
“You both have sex and she gets pregnant. She's not going to be the one paying child support for the next 18yrs. You are.”
Again…. Gross generalization at best.
It’s just hard to come up with healthy solutions when you spend so much energy on (I won’t call it complaining even though it is.) generalizations, blaming, shaming and insults.
At that point, you now have to sell me harder on the idea that you in particular don't hate accountability as well.
Does this sound like caping for women to you already? If it does, I understand. That’s what being held accountable feels like.
But let’s reason together if we call ourselves men. Another one of the talking points is thinking of a man and taking away reason and accountability in order to spell “women”.
I am just being brutally honest and maybe you are stuck on the brutality of it. But I have to show you the reality and flash your results in your face… the only source of objective truth.
Let me repeat that. The only source of objective truth is reality, time and results. Everything else is an opinion based on old data.
So Do Females Lack Accountability? I have to be honest in that there are lots of half-truths to all the examples and accusations of lack of accountability on women’s part.
But guess who is responsible for that? You guess that right. Whichever side of the gender wants to lead the society is responsible for that.
That’s the reality.
But again… women and accountability in a romantic context don’t mix and I don’t think they are supposed to mix… especially when there is no vision and order.
…especially not from a blame standpoint. I know there is a difference between blame and accountability but I know what blame sounds like.
It sounds exactly like when you claim you are holding women accountable. Am I pandering here… whatever….
Due to the nature of romantic relationships… The feminine energy is responsible for the chaotic and creative beauty that attracts us as men while the masculine energy is responsible for the structure, security, safety and order.
That’s what creates sexual polarity, the in-love experience and if you can manage it on a day-to-day basis long enough… 30 to 40 years from now, incels will call you lucky.
Outside of romance or anything affected or influenced by romance, women are held accountable all the time for their actions at work, in society, when they get pregnant and even on a month-to-month basis just for being women.
Accountability Vs Responsibility You can at least agree that the leader is responsible for the state of any context; society or romantic and individual levels. Right?
I found 3 dictionary meanings but I will use two of them for context and application. Dictionary meanings are terrible for relationships on face value.
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The opportunity or ability to act independently and make decisions without authorization.
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The state or fact of being accountable or to blame for something.
So we have authority but at the cost of being exposed to blame.
This is the reality.
And so for those who want to hide under the canopy of a need to rebuild the community, you should know that the focus on blame and shame will defeat the purpose because you will effectively be pointing back at self.
Besides, I personally think every “women accountability talk” around building communities “is cap”. I’d rather we particularize it.
“Why do women hate being accountable when it comes to interactions with YOU?” That’s a better question with better chances of getting to an answer.
We will continue with… “Accountability Vs Blame In Relationships & Marriage in Part 2”
As much as I try to stay focused in business and in life, some things… you just can't ignore; digital marketing is one of them.
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What is digital marketing? Digital Marketing is the art and science of getting quality and profitable attention and exposure for products and services on the ever growing and increasing digital platforms such as Google, YouTube, Facebook, Instagram etc while collecting data for maximum optimization opportunities.
For example, if your offer is to buy houses from distressed homeowners to relieve them of the burden of a non-producing asset, imagine 1,000 highly targeted prospects seeing an ad on their smartphone that says “we buy ugly houses.”
I don't know if it's obvious yet, but this lesson is particularly for you if: 1. You are an aspiring or existing real estate investor or wholesaler.
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You are an aspiring or existing business owner or entrepreneur.
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You are looking to pivot into 6 figures 9-5 with 23+ jobs and job types available at entry level.
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You are looking to build a digital home based business even if you don't have a product yet.
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You are looking to pick up a digital-age life and survival skill for the coming recession.
All types of businesses are drowning as we speak because sales have slowed down everywhere due to complacency.
The uncertainty is increasing daily; thanks to our fast changing world.
I have been able to take advantage of many opportunities since 2005 my graduation year when I first got exposed to the world of business and October 2006 when I went full time as an entrepreneur.
Right now, we are at another important junction in our lifetime and it's important that you pay attention..
The more bloody it is financially for most people out there, high gas prices, inflation, increasing cost, declining valuations, crashing markets everywhere,
…the more income opportunities are coming out. Digital marketing is a major source of those opportunities for your existing career, business and journey. In this lesson, I am going to give you 5 solid reasons why I think that is.
So many people have been flashing on the gram on credit and it's payday for the lenders.
What that means for those of us that have been in the trenches of digital marketing is payday too. If you pay attention to my next few words, you too can join the family.
Without any further ado, let's countdown the 5 reasons why you must engage your business and income with digital marketing starting immediately.
Reason 5 - $4.9 Trillion in Sales. At the end of the day, money only comes from one place. Not from the sky, not from computers, not from mammy (at least if you are an adult), not from crypto… but from people.
So if money comes from people, it is important that you pay attention to where people hang out when they are relaxing. That used to be the mall?
People still go to the mall but you and I would agree that... not as much as they hang out on their smartphones.
I mean.... people literally take their smart phones equipped with the biggest mall ever, Amazon, into the poop room.
Be honest, there is no day that someone in your household is not receiving random shipments they forgot they purchased while pooping.
Exactly. Hence the $4.9 Trillion in global retail e-commerce sales, revenue and income; it's growing year over year in every corner of the planet even in the middle of recessions.
The question is what are you going to do about it for your own income?
Reason 4 - Leads, List Building & More Money All experienced business owners and entrepreneurs know this;
No leads, No money.
I personally still get tempted all the time to sell to people who do not have an existing relevant relationship with me and my product. What do I mean by relevant relationship?
Well, I have a fantastic relationship with my parents but that relationship is not relevant to my real estate educational products.
So the idea of trying to sell it to them has a high chance of failure… outside of wanting to just support.. Not a good idea of a source of income and survival right?
On these digital platforms, you are able to, not just generate leads, but quality and highly engaged leads that you can build "relevant" relationships “with respect to your product and offers” with.
There have been many studies that show that an average sale is not initiated until around the 7th touch and exposure of lead or prospect to the knowledge of the product or service.
What happens presently when they don’t buy, join or sign up for your offer during the first encounter? You lose them for life?
So in digital marketing, lead list building is encouraged first because the money is truly in the list.
Online lead generation and list building puts your business and income light years ahead of those who are on the outside of digital marketing.
Reason 3 - Data Driven Business One of the most beautiful and simple concepts I learned a long time ago is the SMART goals. The acronym stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-Bound.
While everyone is running around mad and lost right now due to declining GDP, digital marketing activities record everything in real time as data in presentable and easy-to-understand ways.
Why do you need that?
In case you've been living under a cave, we no longer need to know so much because of artificial intelligence and machine learning.
Quite a few people will be left behind in every type of business because of complacency and applying effort in manual and old school strategies.
Here is an example.
Over here in the east coast Tri-State New York metro, we call it the EZ-Pass; you know what I mean? The auto-pay lane for the toll gates, right?
It used to be 8 lanes with humans and 1 EZ-Pass lane when they were rolling out the technology in the early 2,000’s. Now it's the other way around; one lane with one person if any at all.
Question; what happened to the jobs of those 7 people? Please answer in the comment area below…
Well, whatever it is will happen to your business and income if you don't pivot immediately. No one is sitting at home or by their phone expecting your sales-pitch call anymore.
The data is working backwards for all old-school marketing strategies.
Digital marketing is data driven and it creates even more engagement data in real time so we are able to put energy and resources where it's more likely to create more deals, sales and income… all data, stats and facts based.
Reason 2 - Recurring Sales The best customers are repeat customers.
With digital marketing, you are able to track people's interest and reverse engineer it to create better offers for them to keep buying.
Not just that, you can also use the knowledge of their interest to find millions (literally) of more people with similar interests to build and scale out your business and income.
So we are talking about recurring sales, recurring customers, recurring income and passive income made more possible by digital marketing.
Reason 1 - Low Barrier of Entry Something of this magnitude, just 20 years ago, would cost you a fortune to take advantage of.
The most powerful and resourceful in the world would have taken it over but their own arrogance against technology is working in the little guy’s favor.
If you have the time, you can literally jump on YouTube and learn everything for free. But it's important that you also know that "free" is the most expensive cost of anything.
And if you don't believe me, try free stuff for one year and then let's measure how far you've gone with respect to your desired results. I promise; I’m patient.
But if you believe me, we are creating a full semester (15 weeks) of everything digital marketing on-demand coaching with full one year of support.
The price is $995.
Again, you can learn all this stuff for free on YouTube.
But if you have enough experience to know that free will cost you more than $995 in one year without support, text the phrase ‘DM’ to +1 (732) 517-7532 to enroll in the next class.
Also, knowledge and information is free everywhere.
But application and optimization in order to actually generate leads, deals, clients, customers and sales is where you will find my support useful.
We are certified with Google and Facebook.
Also, we have been doing this full time for 15 years plus for our own businesses. You can see my footprint everywhere online by simply searching my name on google.
My teaching and coaching style is hands-on but on-demand still for schedule flexibility.
Digital marketing is literally all you need to stay afloat in the next recession because it follows the people; the only source of money.
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So superstar $35 million Hollywood actor Will Smith finally apologized to Chris Rock on the Oscar slap and as to be expected, the whole online community is dragging him again.
On March 27th, 2022 at the 2022 Oscars, Chris Rock cracked a joke around Jada Pinkett-Smith's bald head comparing her to Demi Moore's character in the movie G.I. Jane.
Then her husband,Will Smith, laughed and in a split second, walked up to the stage and slapped the shit out of Chris Rock.
We all thought it was a joke. We all thought it was staged. We all thought it was acting. But it was real
From the beginning, I have made it clear that there are only 3 things that Will Smith has done wrong publicly and I'm sorry... it's not marrying Jada Pinkett-Smith It is...
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Supporting the terrible idea of bringing her personal family issues to the red table talk and to the public.
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Assaulting a fellow man for "disrespect" in front of the public; 17.7 million to be precise according to the New York Post.
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Overdose on that “woke” lifestyle over-shalaye mansplaining nonsense.
The public is wrong about everything as usual including every attempt to involve Jada Pinkett-Smith in the Oscar slap which clearly did not involve her.
I know you all want to bring in Tupac, her daughter’s 7 years old letter to Tupac, AUG, the Jada vs Will social media banter video… lames… but nah. That’s weak.
I can't front. Involving and blaming her for her husband's mistakes seems to make videos go super viral. But over here, we are not going to do that. That's weak and toxic.
We will do it the right way by helping me hit that like button, sharing and commenting your personal opinions about this apology below this video.
As a thanks for doing that, here is a picture of Jada crying.
I have to keep applauding Chris Rock on his conduct throughout the whole ordeal.
In fact, he addressed it for the first time only a few days earlier on stage saying... "Anyone who says “words hurt” has never been punched in the face".
Anyway, Will Smith released the apology video on Friday, July 29th, 2022 and I think it's an opportunity for us to review and extract some lessons around effective apology.
I have extracted 5 tips from the 5 minutes and 44 seconds apology. So let's get to it.
Tip Number 5 - Take Your Time So the slap happened on March 27th, 2022 and the apology came out on July 29th, 2022 which is about 4 months later. I think that's more than enough time for proper introspection.
One thing that's wrong about most apologies is the fact that they are often reflex action designed to push issues under the rug as fast as possible; it's avoidance at best.
At this point, it's obvious that Will Smith is not trying to run from his mistake. Kudos for that.
Tip Number 4 - Make it Short & Sweet (If it has to be public.) If the offense happened publicly, the apology should also be public in addition to a private discussion.
So I can appreciate this public apology except for the fact that it wasn't a written statement. Will Smith seems to be overthinking everything and then making it worse subsequently.
At this point, the public rhetoric is actively trying to tear his marriage apart due to over-exposure. It’s sad to watch… people would rather listen to and over pedestalize divorcees than those trying to make it work. It is what it is,
Anyway, anything more than a well crafted PR statement can potentially destroy his private life. It's just not necessary and it's aligning too much with approval and validation seeking behavior.
“Speaking from the heart” for a large superstar like Will Smith is overrated and not necessary.
Before you know it, you will be referencing yourself way too much and that can make your apology come off as disingenuous.
So statements such as "disappointing people is my central trauma" is not necessary as it starts to sound like it's about what he wants.
"It hurts me psychologically and emotionally to know I didn't live up to people's image and impression of me." This is that “woke” lifestyle over-shalaye mansplaining nonsense.
Apologizing to these people in the public and everything he said after that are definitely major problems.
More than enough of these weirdos on the internet are rooting and waiting for the entertainment of Jada and Will divorce.
In fact, there was a rumor like that and it almost set social media on fire.
Tip Number 3 - Don't Manipulate for Forgiveness "Chris, I apologize to you. My behavior was unacceptable and I'm here whenever you're ready to talk."
I think that part was clean especially with the addition of... and I quote.
"I want to apologize to Chris's mother."
Too many people offer apology only because they are looking for an instant exchange for forgiveness. That would make it a terrible apology instantly.
Now it's actually one thing to explicitly and expressly ask for forgiveness in words, but I think it's worse when your actions reflect it and especially contradicts your words.
So if you say "I'm here whenever you're ready to talk", then you need to say less than necessary and let the chips fall where they may.
Just trust that a few words and time is more than enough for adequate healing.
Especially as men, we need to know that nothing is guaranteed in life even if you are a good person.
When I hear a lot of men talk about this issue, all I hear is unrealistic expectations of a good woman just for being a good Mr-Nice Guy.
That’s weak. Life doesn’t always work like that.
So when Will Smith said “This is probably irreparable.” It was perfect.
Ladies and gentlemen… “no guarantees” attitude puts you at advantage of making the most out of what’s left of your life and simultaneously increasing the chances of an apology being accepted dramatically.
Tip Number 2 - Ensure Reception While I appreciate Will Smith's apology to his wife (fuck what everyone else thinks),
“I made a choice on my own, from my own experiences, from my history with Chris. Jada had nothing to do with it. I’m sorry babe.”
I think there was too much stress on apologies to the general public.
The public is not receptive to it. From all the public rhetoric and opinions I am seeing, it seems divorcing Jada will be more entertaining at this point. They are hungry for blood.
From my assessment, the public is ready to forgive Will Smith as soon as he forgives himself and gets back to what he does best; and that is not the red table talk.
Ensuring reception of an apology is part of the reason why you should take your time which was the first tip I shared with you in this countdown.
Tip Number 1 - Differentiate Remorse & Shame Contrary to popular conservative opinion, shame is absolutely destructive; so is self guilt.
Nothing authentic, wholesome and productive comes from anyone suffering from shame either from self or external force.
He said… and I quote “I am deeply remorseful and I’m typing to be remorseful without being ashamed of myself.” “I’m trying not to think of myself as a piece of shit.”
I can appreciate him truly believing that statement but it’s absolutely not necessary to say that out loud. Saying it out loud almost defeats the purpose.
So many people confuse remorse with shame.
Remorse is regret and maybe purposeful guilt while shame is just baseless guilt… maybe based on being overly concerned with optics.
Misguided shame, insult, guilt, judgment, blame, condemnation are all destructive.
Ultimately, this is all semantics. What I am suggesting is to make sure you are not creating a new problem with your solution.
You can call it whatever you want as long as the apology doesn't create further negative outcomes for yourself.
“If you hang on, I promise we’ll be able to be friends again.”
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Sadly, they are now divorced because she doesn’t respect him.
Really? Was it that simple? She was just a disrespectful wife.
Is that the whole story?
You and I know that’s not the whole story.
A wise man once said there are 3 sides to every story.
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Your side
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My side … and
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The truth.
At first, she seems like the evil woman who came all the way from Ekiti, Nigeria to destroy his life based on his story.
Honestly, we are still not calling that a lie.
But after listening long enough, and that… in combination with the experience we have handling these types of cases, it was obvious that there were at least another 9,999 sides to this story.
But we had to listen long enough to hear it between the lines and the nuances.
Just a little over 8 years ago, after turning 42 years old, Maxwell decided that he had to be a little more proactive with settling down and building a family.
As you can imagine, he had dealt with a fleet of other ladies in London, who he deemed belonged in the streets and weren’t wife or marriage material.
You are probably wondering how he figured that out to be so? Well, they all dumped him because of what he described in very similar patterns.
It usually started as arguments that had nothing to do with their relationship… at least that’s what he thought.
For example, in the case of the last lady he dated, they argued about why he thinks women should not be seen hanging out with other single women at a lounge on a Wednesday evening.
I am sure you consider that to be a reasonable assertion right?
But then maybe not…
Anyway, the argument was just a simple debate according to Maxwell that happened 2 days after the lady… his ex-girlfriend had received a call from a colleague to hang out after hours.
As far as he was concerned, it wasn’t a big deal since it wasn’t about their relationship together.
A few weeks later, he noticed he wasn’t happy with what he calls the constantly combative attitude of the girl.
Las las… she asked for space and he can’t find himself begging and negotiating desire.
We agree completely that desire cannot be negotiated.
But then, all 5 or 6 intimate relationships he created before going to find a wife from the village were laced with these similar patterns of honest conversations leading to these women asking for space.
… dumping him.
They just want to act irresponsibly like single women who have no one to be accountable to. Those were his words.
So he figured that women who were raised the way he was raised more than 30 years ago were raised just like him; traditional.
One conversation with an Uncle led to a few weeks of conversation with a young 22 years old lady in Ikere Ekiti.
18 months later, she is now living in London with him and 4 months pregnant.
So everything should be fine right?
Compatible… Traditional… groomed to be a wife…. pregnant immediately… he was now 44 years old and finally settling down with his own family.
Yea that was the plan.
According to Maxwell, she wasn’t for the streets… but she was too opinionated. And to add insult to injury, she doesn’t know when to just shut the hell up.
After searching on Google, he finally realized that women are just evil if they can’t provide sex, a sandwich and shut the hell up.
I mean… think about it… That sounds simple right?
We had heard enough so we decided to push back and ask him some thought provoking questions.
It wasn’t long until Maxwell insinuated that we were taking sides. I can’t lie. That was actually predictable.
At around the 7th year mark of their marriage, she served Maxwell with divorce papers.
Of course, if you’ve been paying attention to his patterns, he wouldn’t beg or negotiate desires.
That which we agree with… but there is a disconnect in all of these.
If you notice, we haven’t really disagreed with many of Maxwell’s methods. But we can all agree that he has not created any of his desired results.
Question of the day.
Is he just not that lucky?
What are your thoughts? How do you think he could have kept his home together?
Please share in the comment area.
Right now, we want to share 7 patterns in those stories that lead to Maxwell’s terrible love story so that you can avoid it without dependence on luck.
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Pride Conflicting with Negotiating Desire vs Seduction
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Obsession with Tradition
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Never His Fault… Always her fault
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Age Difference… Age especially with experience and generational disconnect matters.
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He Argues with the Wife
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Low Emotional Intelligence
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It’s a Contest; always a competition against each other.
Let us know in the comment area if you want us to expound more on these 7 reasons.
All 7 of these will make a woman disrespect you.
I know there is a woman that will attempt to unintentionally set men up by reminding us that a woman is supposed to be respectful regardless.
Sure. But that’s not the reality.
You can avoid reality all you want, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality.
At the end of the day, we are talking about a romantic relationship where both parties let their guard down from the ideology of full blown intentional adults.
So there is a way you move as a man and your wife will typically have no choice but to respect or disrespect you; both intentionally and unintentionally.
Does that sound unfair? So be it. Welcome to the real world.
If you are still complaining about that reality, it’s little to no wonder why you are attracting the result you are creating.
Maybe… just maybe… you may want to adjust.
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Wanna learn the 5 ways to flip pre-foreclosure listings to cold cash? This is what happens when you fully grasp the comprehension of value as related to income.
While pre-foreclosure is misfortune for distressed property owners, you are able to not just flip it to cold cash, you are also able to flip their sorrow to relief.
That's the value.
Over here, we talk about making money in real estate even if you are not licensed, have no big cash for capital, have bad credit or have no experience.
One of the easiest ways to do that is by learning how to work a pre-foreclosure list. Have you ever heard the saying that “money is in the list”?
We are not talking about how to buy a pre-foreclosure. That part is easy.
All you have to do is put a call out to a real estate agent and have these things ready… your $1,000 deposit, $20,000 in closing cost and deposit balance and good credit to obtain a mortgage.
Many homeowners with properties in pre-foreclosure have admitted to the need to sell and the first people they tend to call is a real estate agent for obvious reasons.
Everyone does the same thing and that's exactly why it's not the best strategy if you are looking to wholesale pre-foreclosure for quick profit if you are not licensed, have no big cash for capital, have bad credit or do not have any experience.
Instead, in this lesson, I want to share 5 ways to flip pre-foreclosure listings to cold cash.
There are two contexts that support what pre-foreclosure listings are.
- Licensed real estate agents refer to regular listings with a house that just so happens to be on pre-foreclosure records at the county records office as pre-foreclosure listing.
It's been listed like a regular house for sale to be sold hopefully before the house gets foreclosed on. You can actually see many of these houses on Zillow.
That's not the pre-foreclosure listings that I am talking about.
- The pre-foreclosure listings that I am talking about is actually a hack. It's a list that most county governments around the United States keep and maintain of houses with homeowners that have defaulted on lien such as a mortgage, property taxes, etc.
Basically, the house is heading for foreclosure which is a legal process in which a lender attempts to recover the balance of a loan from a borrower who has stopped making payments to the lender by forcing the sale of the asset used as the collateral for the loan; the property.
So learning how to work pre-foreclosure listings for profit is a hack that I picked up back in 2005 and it made me lots of money. I also made tons of mistakes along the way which I will help you avoid right now.
We use a strategy called wholesale real estate which is the art and science of finding deeply discounted properties and securing it as a deal for investors with cold cash.
The marketing message is simple. "We Buy Houses." Not you personally but your endless network of buyers which I will show you how to access at the end of this video.
Without any further ado, let's countdown the 5 different ways.
Way Number 5 - County Government House Pre-foreclosure listings can be found for free in the public records section at your county recorder's office. These days, many of the counties have them in online portals where you can download, name, property address and the lien details.
Many of these online portals are not user friendly or designed for easy download and processing to be flipped to cold cash. Many people are still watching old training videos and manually editing spreadsheets.
Can you make money that way? Yes. But I highly doubt it.
Way Number 4 - Door Knocking If you are lucky enough to get through the process of downloading the pre-foreclosure listings from the county recorder's online portal if that exists at all, you can then jump in your car and drive around town to knock on these doors in order to offer to buy the properties.
If you've followed me over the last 12 years, you probably already know how I feel about this campaign or contact strategy. If you are not sure, watch the video I released before this right after finishing.
Way Number 3 - Skip Trace & Cold Calling Skip trace is the process of locating a person's whereabouts.
In the context of real estate investing and wholesaling, it's the process of finding their virtual contact information such as phone numbers and email addresses without leaving your house.
In this time and age, knowledge and information are cheap but time is a luxury. So it's important to conduct any business profitable with less time... leverage.
Finding a property owner's contact information without having to burn time driving around to go knock on doors only to get rejected most of the time is just not smart.
It’s not S.M.A.R.T.
Instead, you can spend as low as 20 cents to get additional contact data such as phone number per record and cold call or contact these homeowners to pique their interest in selling.
Can you make money this way? Absolutely. But not as likely as the next way I want to share with you.
Way Number 2 - Virtual Assistants Again, this is another level higher than the previous way. With this way, you can jump on a job board such as indeed or upwork and hire a virtual assistant who will collect and process the data in your pre-foreclosure listings and do the cold calling.
If you want to build a business, you need to leverage other people's time to go through the process so that you can align your personal energy and efforts with the actual business goals.
$82,000 highest net profit on a single deal, averaging $15,000 - $30,000 per deal.
Closed my first wholesale real estate deal in December 2005 with a $10,000 net profit right out of college with bad credit, no money for capital, no experience and no license.
This is OLA. 2 times author… Smart Real Estate Wholesaling and Real Estate Money Secrets.
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Way Number 1 - Smart Data Driven System It's not about leveraging just other people's time, you should also be leveraging systems and software to collect pre-foreclosure listings data and processing it.
With a smart data driven system, you can even automate all of the 5 stages from data to deal in a smart way.
What is a smart way?
SMART is a well-established tool that you can use to plan and achieve your goals... in this case, the goals being collecting and flipping pre-foreclosure listings to cold cash.
SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound.
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First of all, this is a stupid question.
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According to Punch News, the man was deleted by his wife who set him ablaze after a conflict.
A family member of the victim said that the woman locked her husband up and set the house on fire over suspicion of an extra-marital affair.
That's the story and particularly that's all I need to know about the story. The part where a whole human life was deleted.
Until… of course… internet trolls started running their mouths carelessly.
By the way…
A quick shout out to my sister Bridget of Obodo Oyinbo TV where I was allowed to be a guest to discuss my personal observations and opinion of whether Red Pill-ed men are husband material or not.
I didn't go there as an expert. I went there as an observer of the red pill community with a personal opinion but also as a man who is blessed with results that many men desire.
To say the least, it was interesting. Just go ahead and search for “Obodo Oyinbo TV” on YouTube and support her. She is an extremely generous supporter of our platforms.
Back to this infidelity slash cheating slash human deletion story. Crazy right?
I personally heard a significant number of women saying he deserved to be roasted because he cheated on his lady.
Can you imagine a person who talks like this creating any good romantic experience for themselves and others in this life?
Answer me in the comment area below....
Some men said women should prepare for the fact that all men will cheat. Is that the solution to preventing these types of stories between lovers?
What exactly is the solution here without pretending that we don’t know that these people were once romantic lovers?
Most people having these conversations online continue to talk from their ass because they never acknowledge that these are or were romantic relationships where they never planned to end up in a terrible predicament.
They also never acknowledge how they could personally relate with these stories.
I will be forced to wonder if you are a coward even if you are right that the internet is not a safe space to speak your mind.
What is it about infidelity and cheating that will make you say stupid things that doesn't serve you or anyone listening?
To be clear again, that question "When will men learn?" is a stupid question.
Any question designed to ignite the epidemic of the digital gender war with or without good intentions and from men or women is a stupid question.
Gentlemen, endless subtle competition with women will always put you at a disadvantage.
Arguing with women with respect to romantic matters puts you below women; not equal but below.
I understand the over-reactive rhetoric against fake feminism a.k.a toxicity, but just like in a real life relationship, over-reaction are actions you are responsible for.
And like I said, it puts you at a disadvantage.
Gentlemen, you are indirectly subscribing to equality in romance, relationships and marriage when you engage endless arguments with women.
It doesn't work particularly because it discounts the complimentary strength in romantic relationships significantly.
How do you compliment each other if you are equal? That already sounds stupid right?
It is true. Two things can be true at the same time. But I am looking at this from a place of mindset abundance and/or scarcity. It's just a question to ask yourself.
Here is an example of statements that tells me that you as a man will think of yourself as equal to your woman and effectively become a loser that she will potentially dump.
And I quote...
"If you are going to judge a man based on his gender, you as a woman should expect the same thing from the men."
Let me guess. This is accountability right? False.
This is just a man who talks too damn much. This is a man who has already lost respect hence the cry out in the wrong direction for help.
I get it… Anyone, including women, could find that statement to be reasonable and harmless. But it is harmful to your mindset.
It is even more harmful for a man who talks like this from a place of ignorance, lack of experience and good intentions.
Good intentions are overrated.
You need wisdom and humility because your lens, filters and outlook on life have dangerous limitations especially when it comes to romantic relationships and marriage.
Oh... it's even worse if you are listening to Pick-Me women influencers encouraging you to hold your ground as a "MASCULINE STOIC" man. It's a set up. That’s weak.
If you don't believe me, marry one of them and I'm patient to discuss the outcome.
Masculinity with respect to romance and the human experience is rarely physical. It's energy. Invisible energy for the most part. And again, it's not the woman's responsibility to know that.
Let’s get back to the story.
The question "When will MEN learn?" was designed to leverage this terrible human deletion story to shame men who still believe in the family structure by way of the marriage institution into perpetual fear of women.
The shame is mostly coming from both men and women who have had terrible and traumatic experiences in romantic relationships.
It's "misery love company" syndrome at best.
I am sorry. There are stupid questions.
The outcome of asking such questions only perpetuates toxic rhetoric for those who may not be necessarily toxic but have real questions about love, relationships, marriage, cheating, infidelity etc.
Why is the question not…
“When will we as humans learn better ways of navigating romantic relationships that we obviously want, evident by our action not by the product of intellectual diarrhea on social media?
This story is not as relevant to poly or monogamy practice as much as we are making it. Those are practices by choice and not cowardice.
It’s also not as relevant to infidelity, cheating or any other obvious bad habits or behavior as they are making it.
Humans have bad behavior. Where is the surprise?
Also why did what I just said sound like encouraging bad behavior to you? If that's you, answer me in the comment area… but more importantly, answer the person in the mirror.
As for this story, that woman committed a capital crime. What leads to it is irrelevant once we start talking about a matter of life and life deletion.
This woman, sadly like many people walking around, was probably a watermelon mentally… green on the outside and red inside.
People are carrying a lot of toxic mental weight so you can agree that we should be aware that we can potentially offend the wrong people.
That does not give anyone the right to delete another person's life. It just makes sense to be aware.
For you and I, it's about knowing that anger is temporary insanity and you can create irreversible damages or at least self-sabotage.
This is about mental health; not for the criminal (it's too late for her) but for you and I.
As I was saying earlier, I heard men telling women to prepare for the fact that all men will cheat.
As a man, preparing women to enter marriage with the expectation that a man will cheat puts you at a much bigger disadvantage than just the effect of cheating; your bad behavior.
Can’t you see?
She may be weak enough to enter that marriage in spite of the warning but she will be on the edge in the marriage…
What enjoyment do you expect in a marriage where your woman is always on the edge, never feels safe and secure around you?
Instead of worrying about the nature or nurture of cheating and infidelity, you are better off putting that energy in preparing to create a safe space especially emotionally for your wife.
Ladies.. Yes we like to feel safe too.
Would You Tolerate A Cheater? I know that most people that spend a lot of time on conversations for or against cheating and infidelity are not cheaters; at least not chronic perpetual cheaters.
So at best, you are self sabotaging, talking so much about how you will never accept it or how you plan to tell women that you will cheat.
By the way, when you tell her up front, that's no longer considered cheating.
Your mouth will create an emotionally unsafe environment for your future marriage to thrive.
What I found interesting but not surprising during the whole discussion was the fact that no one talked about the emotional, psychological and mental state that could have created the story.
There was no shortage of empathy, sympathy, proclamation of what people will NEVER accept even though there is an obvious lack of experience to accurately assess that.
There was useless advice on what type of man and woman to run away from. The problem is that these things are not written on the forehead.
A Major Reason Why Marriages Are Failing. Most people entering marriage are not preparing for the inevitable crisis and conflict that will hit every marriage; and single life.
That’s even if you think the solution is to avoid marriage and long term relationships.
If you are going to still have sex, you will end up in the courts and become another traumatic cancer for the society.
By the way, they are conflicts because they often come from blind spots.
If you say you will never accept a cheater, congrats. That problem is solved. The devil, however, knows not to come for you from a cheating standpoint.
Anyway, Instead of the typical nonsense from long-stroking influencers who are just in this to make money, I want to encourage you to prepare to maintain a healthy mental stability for the rest of your life.
I want you to know that anyone is capable of losing their mind… particularly mentally... and especially people who tend to be obsessed with ideologies, faith, culture, religion with no wisdom around application and relationships.
You cannot control other people. Stop trying. You can only control yourself and then subsequently or hopefully influence the results you are looking for in life.
I don’t think a normal person will literally roast another person. I don’t think another human is capable of making another human commit such an act either.
However we are all influencing ourselves directly and indirectly. I think she became crazy, lost her mind and committed a capital crime.
For her, everything before the crime doesn’t matter. She is done in this society.
Learn how to leave a toxic relationship before your tipping point is obvious… leave first… it doesn’t have to be a permanent decision.
If you can’t leave because of fear… that’s obviously a bigger problem; lack of self-respect, self-love, self-esteem, self-confidence.
Stop pouring from an empty cup.
Is being assertive more attractive to a husband?
So my husband ended up on our sister... Aunty Bridget's platform; Obodo Oyinbo TV. She was discussing "Lack of Eligible Bachelors in the Diaspora."
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Though the discussion took a whole new turn in the direction of why it's absolutely single women's fault in this time and age for having a hard time finding eligible and competent husbands, one of the highlights was the ladies trying to sell the idea of the assertive wife.
What really happened?
So one of the highlights of that debate was the assertive wife. What does it mean to be assertive?
The definition from Oxford as displayed on Google says "having or showing a confident and forceful personality."
Those are two things.
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Having or showing a confident personality.
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Having or showing a forceful personality.
Can you see why dictionary meanings are a terrible guide to romantic relationships and marriage just as much as common sense is?
Yes. They are usually full of assumptions, presumptions and often reflect only one side of reality.
In romantic relationships and marriage, the reality is that there are at least two realities because the parties tend to experience the relationship differently.
So being assertive will always have two sides to it. Yurp! I was listening in the background at first as they debated if being assertive is an attractive trait for a woman... especially a woman who wants to become a wife.
There was some confusion with regards to if some of these women truly want to be wives or not. When I hear people say things like "not all women want to be married" or "I'm not desperate to marry", it leaves me with... okayyyyyyy.....
YES! While no one should be desperate to marry, single people also have to be careful with indirectly planning not to marry if the reality is far from what is being expressed.
What is being said by you as a quote on quote "Assertive People" can absolutely steal your chances of true joy... not just marriage but in general even if you have no bad intentions.
While certain statements can be true, I would be left to wonder why anyone who does not want to be married or feel like they don't have to be married would be involved so passionately in conversations about marriage.
Just a question…
NEWSFLASH: She flirted with me... but she did not TOAST me...
And I promise it was the sexiest thing ever because it felt like confidence.
The worst thing ever is a low self-esteem woman, wife or wife-to-be with symptoms revealing itself as a concoction of assertiveness and just being plain rI could be wrong but I would bet that this mindset will help repel the manifestation of a husband or marriage. Our mindset as humans has its way of becoming our reality.
Exactly! That could very much be a disadvantage of being an assertive person.
CON #1 - The Blurry Line Between An Assertive & A Bluntly Rude & Disrespectful Wife. There are many assertive wives with good intentions mixed with a little frustration but low levels of emotional intelligence.
Their actions showcase more of how they feel inside more so than their words which only showcases a stronghold of an opinion... even asserting an honest opinion does not necessarily equals the absence of a disrespectful attitude.
Oftentimes, there is a disconnect between our feelings and our expressed opinions.
It's not necessarily the intentions. Just something to be self-aware of especially when it comes to romantic relationships.
CON #2 - The most innocent form of hypocrisy. Innocent assertiveness doesn't guarantee that a honest well-intent husband or husband-to-be will not receive your well-intent assertions as disrespectful; these are emotions.
What else did they talk about?
They talked about flirting and many of the ladies were confusing flirting with coming off as easy and desperate.
Ladies… If you want us to share some flirting tips where you don't have to come off as desperate to a man... you can request in the comment area.
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CON #3 - Assertiveness is Great Place to Conceal Low Self-Esteem Yes! I understand assertiveness is supposedly "a healthy way of communicating and the ability to speak up for ourselves in a way that is honest and respectful."
That's cute. That's the intention part of it. A romantic partner you care about, because of reasons beyond you, can receive it as disrespectful.
You will put yourself as a disadvantage if you argue with this.
Sure you can say that's their problem. But because this is a romantic relationship and not a contest or a competition, that becomes your problem by default too.
It's not your fault. It's just an emotional dynamic you are better off being aware of.
Is this insecurity on an intimidated man's part?
Yes! And that's not a crime. All humans have insecurity and we are never 100% secure in ourselves. Insecurity is like our shadow. We can't run from it.
What we don't want is an unhealthy level of insecurity, indications being consistent revelation in many aspects of a controlling and abusive relationship. This is best addressed with the help of a counselor and not by running from it.
If anything, it can also be a powerful thing, a point of leverage and seduction to know that the way you move as a woman and a wife can start to make your man feel mildly insecure.
But yes… too much of it will make you feel unsafe as a woman.
True. A lot of women tend to look at insecure men as intimidated. It can be dangerous rhetoric and here is why.
It means you are starting to look at the man as weak. Most women are not attracted to weak men even if it's ordinarily a perspective and not reality.
While you can feel like you dodge a bullet avoiding an insecure man if you are in the wife-to-be stage, you are going to end up feeling not-so-lucky when your future husband gets hit with an inevitable life crisis.
That makes a man question himself and his manhood. A symptom of that is insecurity and it's not always obvious it's not about you or your fault.
If you are inclined to accuse him of being intimidated, you will then make things worse for you as a couple and your marriage.
You can help destroy your marriage just like that.
True! For many of us women, there is nothing sexier than an assertive husband who can speak up for himself in a loving and respectful way.
I don't care how truthful and honest you are. If it feels like evil to me, you go collect.
Wortorwotor! So a well-intent assertive wife does not come off as a respectful wife. But it can also reflect confidence in a man and confidence is always sexy.
It's not about the semantics of being assertive. It's about how your husband or husband-to-be is receiving you emotionally on the other end of the romance from a reasonable standpoint.
With that being said, some men are coming from terrible experiences and are actively looking for disrespect unintentionally so they will find the slightest confidence or assertiveness as disrespectful.
These things are to be handled case-by-case. Avoid generalizations. You and I would agree that a forceful personality in the name of assertiveness just doesn’t sound pleasant.
There are 21 verses that describe a wife of noble character in Proverb 31. It’s fair that one word “assertive” has its limitations.
First of all, what is body count?
It’s simply the number of men a woman has had consensual sexual intercourse with in her lifetime… at least that’s what most of the conversation accounts for; women.
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In recent times, there has been an increasing reference to body counts when people talk about dating, relationships and marriage.
What exactly is going on? Let me tell you a story.
I counseled a young man. 32 years old who happens to be with a 26 years girlfriend.
His issue narrows down to being uncomfortable and insecure sometimes after noticing that his girlfriend’s story as related to body count is not consistent.
He really wants to know the truth but as a fact of life, he will never know the truth because of the inconsistency in her story.
What’s her real body count? Is it 4 or 7 as she previously stated? He will continue to wonder.
I asked him why he couldn’t just leave this girl… there was never a straight answer so it’s safe to conclude that he didn’t have the balls to leave like most modern men.
But guess what… his girl wants some space now… And I quote…
“It’s not you. It’s me. I lost myself. I need to find myself and then we can talk.”
Damn. las las las las… na everybody go chop breakfast… shayooooo
Let’s bust some myths around body count.
Should you tell a man your body count? Ladies. The truth is that you already don’t feel safe with this particular guy we are talking about.
If you do, it will effortlessly roll off your tongue before you remember the promise you gave yourself to never share.
Not just that. You also are not too proud of your body count as a lady. You are not abnormal.
As off press time, it’s pretty normal for a lady to keep this type of information sacred.
How much more… with the idea of sharing it with a man you don’t feel safe and secure with.
In fact, I think a woman that out-rightly tells the true body count “willy nilly” is a red flag at an emotional level.
I know I just triggered someone.
At the surface, it’s honesty and transparency but when real life starts happening, it can translate to so many other emotional turmoils.
If you want me to expound more on this, do tell in the comment area below.
Does it matter what your body count is? I am guessing that it does or it is starting to matter even more; hence your question.
Many progressive minded “live and let live” types of people would say it doesn’t matter
"Do what works for you?" I've found also that's just as much an extreme stupidity and not reality.
Others who may be conservative (especially modern men camouflaged as traditional) would claim it does matter…
Citing reasons that don’t hold water such as high body count leading to:
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High chances of low sexual satisfaction
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High chances of cheating
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High chances of intimacy vacuum
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High chances of promiscuity and prostitution.
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Carrying of different weird energy
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Carrying of different weird semen
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The fact that no chemical will wash away
Someone asked…”what about the blood of Jesus? haha.”
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P or D-whipped by an X (if you know what I mean…)
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Sign of no value to body
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High chance of orgasm gaps
Some modern men even say men have always wanted a virgin. This is not exactly true. Some people don't really give a shit unless the ladies lifestyle is making it that obvious.
This is a lame man's talk and precisely because they talk too damn much these days... with the whole mouth. Wise men don't talk like this.
What about the moral compass that created these weird ass excuses to be obsessed with a stranger's body count?
At this point, I have a question for you.
Many “modern men” claim this is just an honest consideration when you are vetting a woman to marry. Yea right. sure!
But isn’t there a difference between consideration and obsession?
Please drop your answer in the comment box below.
What does body count mean for a guy? I can definitely agree that it means territory for most guys.
The problem with modern men is their weird and weak methods of marking that territory.
When you really listen deeply to the underlying emotions of the 10 weird reasons I highlighted earlier, that’s a man trying to mark his territory with insecurity and flawed logic.
Here is why it won’t work.
The woman is an incubator and she will multiply that insecurity and everything that a man brings to her…naturally; the product is negative.
If you argue with this reality, you will surfer.
Have you noticed that this body count rhetoric tends to attract accusations of misogyny, fragile ego, small dick (especially when you run around social claiming that body count leads to a sunk vagina... like a borehole.) and etc.
I even heard a woman say "...at this rate, I’m convinced men have vaginas too.” Damn...
Gentlemen... How you feel about body count is valid but we have to come up with better arguments.
A lot of men on the men's side of this conversation are attempting to control another human in 2022 and beyond. It doesn't work.
If you don't understand the difference between maintaining your power with influence as against control, you will suffer.
I've also seen enough modern women, the only type of woman that exists today by the way, trying to tell modern men that body count doesn't matter.
Well, it's not really about body count. It's a sense of territory.
Forcefully linking body count to killing pair bonding abilities and promiscuity without individualizing it will continue to put you at disadvantage.
The real simp uses every conversation about body counts to get triggered. They don't stop at shaming women in general. They move to shame any man who attempts to hold them accountable.
"Simping won’t get you female approval."
"Stop trying to be a panty collector."
...all in the same breath of booty clapping for other men and trying to save prostitutes in order to change them to housewives.
As usual, results and time will tell us the real truth and who the real simps are.
Scarcity mindset is a cancer that spreads very fast to other aspects of life. If you don't believe me, I am patient. I will wait.
The modern man is scared shitless of their woman imagining another man fucking them while fucking…
Nothing good comes out of operating out of fear. You will hurt yourself emotionally attempting to catch all the information in a romantic relationship.
1st rule: Relax.
If you want me to address this more, hit the thumbs up and indicate in the comment below.
We can address questions like:
What’s a good body count for a girl?
What's the average body count for a 20 year old woman?
What is a high body count for a guy?
What body count is too high for a girl?
Does body count matter for a woman?
Why is a high body count a turn off?
Does body count have the same effect on the genders?
For now, I will leave you with this. If you have to explicitly ask a girl what her body count is in order to have a good idea, you deserve to be told a lie because she will.
Women don't count every body anyway. Not all bodies count for women. You are fooling yourself if you are obsessed with body count. But it doesn't mean it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
If you want, indicative by the response to this video with the like button and your comments below, I will dive into the social, spiritual and emotional side of this conversation.
Can you make $10,000 per month knocking on doors in your neighborhood with a simple script of exactly what to say to pre-foreclosures? Yes. That's exactly what I am about to share with you in this video.
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We are talking about pre-foreclosure in real estate and how to make $10,000 per month with it. What the heck is pre-foreclosure?
Pre-foreclosure is the first phase of a legal proceeding that ultimately can conclude in a property being repossessed from a defaulted mortgage loan borrower.
Default means that the monthly mortgage payments are stopped due to some type of life crisis.
The lender of the mortgage loan files a notice of default on the property in pre-foreclosure because the borrowing owner exceeds the contractual terms for delinquent payments.
That's typically about 60-90 days. It depends on what state the subject property is located.
If we are lucky enough to have you as a subscriber on this platform, you know we talk a lot about a real estate money making strategy called wholesale real estate where you do not need cash for capital, good credit, experience or license to make money.
We simply use marketing campaigns to find deeply discounted properties, lock them up under a purchase contract and sell the equitable rights in the contract to an end buyer who is typically an investor who wants to fix it up and resell for profits.
Based on my personal experience, you can make up to $82,000 from one single deal, average $15,000 to $30,000 and make as low as nothing on a deal.
“Making nothing” has happened to me once ever since 2005 because of unforeseen circumstances.
Wholesale real estate as a 5 stages process from data to deal starts with... you guessed it... DATA.
Precisely, we are talking about data of distressed homeowners. One of such types of data is pre-foreclosure.
It's safe to assume that a home listed at the county government building on the public pre-foreclosure list represents a nightmare to the homeowner; hence the phrase "distressed homeowner".
Access to pre-foreclosure data also represents the beginning of fortunes for anyone who knows how to turn the concept of “data to deals” to a system that can be used, rinse and repeat over and over again.
This is a money making strategy that I stumbled into while I was in the middle of my masters degree program (Engineering Management) back in 2005.
I went on to turn it into a system (which included a script) that made me so much money before the market crash in 2008. At the time, I didn't appreciate the power of the scripts and the system I had created... not until another 6 years (2014).
At the time of recording this, there is a recession looming that has not been officially announced yet but the reality is that the latest report from the Bureau of Labor and Statistics reports a 9.1% inflation rate — the highest since 1981.
Because of this system that has now been refined and cleaned up with my experience and the availability of technology, I won't be making the same mistake I made back in 2008.
With turning pre-foreclosure to profits through the stages...
Stage 1 - Data
Stage 2 - Contact
Stage 3 - Leads
Stage 4 - Contract
Stage 5 - Leads
This is the time to take this business seriously and get off the sidelines. The opportunities are endless for you and I to take advantage of.
Please be safe out there but here is the script for door knocking pre-foreclosure:
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"John?" Once someone opens the door, just call out the first name without asking for permission. Don't say things like "Is John here?" or "Can I speak to John please?"
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"Hello. Are you open to entertaining an offer on this house?" If it's John, ask him or whoever if they are open to entertaining an offer on the house.
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"Please write here a good phone number and email address to reach out for an offer in the next business hours?" If they are open, ask them for their phone number and email address where you and your partner can send an offer within the next 24 business hours.
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"Why are you selling?" Ask them why they want to sell?
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"How soon do you need to sell?" Ask them how soon they need to sell?
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"Do you have an idea of what you want for the house if we can close in 10-14 days?" While you are at it, ask them to give you an idea of how much they are willing to accept if you can close in 10-14 days.
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"When is a good time to call you tomorrow?" You want to secure the next conversation before you exit this particular conversation.
If you get a "NO" on any of those questions, simply thank them for their time and don't forget to ask for referrals. "Oh okay. Thanks for your time, do you know anyone that needs to get rid of any unwanted property?"
Don't give up so soon. Give them a business card in case they need to reach out if they encounter anyone... you never know.
Now... door knocking is an old school way of closing your first deal and many more after. But there is also a new school way of doing it.
Door knocking is a contact stage outreach campaign strategy that works but there is a big challenge here and I want to carefully spell it out for you.
Before I do that, if door knocking is working for you or has worked for you, all you have to do is to keep doing what you are doing and leave this video right now.
But if it has never worked for you or you just have a feeling based on your prediction that it won't work for you,
..or you want to scale your business faster, easier and simpler leveraging simple technology,
The good news is that there are at least 3 new school ways of attracting even better quality distressed homeowners and motivated seller leads that already know they want to give away their house to you.
The big challenge of door knocking as a contact outreach campaign is if you are willing to keep working until it works or if you will quit before it works. Big question right?
Share your thoughts below in the comment area please
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Wow... isn't she lovely... Ms. Joke Silva. A.k.A Mrs. Joke Olu-Jacobs, the wife of a veteran Nigerian actor who starred in several British television series and international films...
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And whose 80th birthday was celebrated by friends and lovers around the world from Lagos Nigeria on Sunday, July 10th, 2023.
If you are looking for a wife or looking to maintain a blissful marriage long term with your wife, I have extracted 5 simple but massive tips for you to apply to your own life.
The first tip is to marry a woman whose name is Joke.
Okay... That was a joke... no pun intended. My beautiful wife's middle name is also Joke. But the chances of you finding a Joke is slimmed to almost none.
I do have another 5 tips for you.
And I QUOTE...
"‘Wow! This is the standard of the woman I’m going to marry."
That was what Olu Jacobs told his wife of some 37+ years when he first laid eyes on this beautiful young woman who was in her early 20's at the time.
Listen. We don't know them personally... but never mind all that... This is “couple goals”.
At least, we can see a real life example of what marriage was designed to do even in the entertainment industry which is notorious for random divorces.
Did you see my last video on Funke Akindele and JJC Akindele… Gentlemen… we have to step our game up. These women belong to you if you can get your sh*t together.
Don't you get tired of the horrible divorce, paternity fraud, and etc stories?
Anyway, if you are struggling in dating, relationships, marriage, parenting, career etc... Consider sending me a text message with the word "HELP" to +1 (732) 517-7532 and I will see what I can do.
Let's countdown the 5 tips from Mr Olu Jacobs and Ms Joke Silva.
Tip #5 - Avoid attachments to ideology A lot of young men these days, in response to the decline to the pride that comes with the nuclear family, are now subscribing to archaic ideologies as a quick solution.
In fact, it's a major talking point that one of the signs of unruly women is when they choose to keep their maiden name as opposed to changing to their husband's family name as the new last or surname.
While I recognize the pride attached to the culture of women changing names once they get married, there is something to say to a man who is secure in himself enough to say these words and managed to keep his home together for 37+ years.
And I'm quote...
“She is her individual.
When I met her, she was an actress known as Joke Silva, so why should marrying me deny her audience her name.
She is Miss Joke Silva, who is Mrs Joke Jacobs.
It is as simple as that.
People now begin to say all sorts. They have even written that we are separated and all sorts of stuff.
When she is working, she is Joke Silva, but she is Mrs Joke Jacobs at home,”
That was Olu Jacobs speaking to rumors in the past. Tabloids used to be entertainment for women.
But sadly in this modern era, men would join and shame this man who actually is an example of their secret desired results.
They shame him because he chose not to have an unhealthy attachment to the ideology of his wife changing her brand name after getting married as far back as 37+ years ago in the still "traditional non-westernized" Nigeria.
You’ve sworn you know everything about the traditional Africans right?
Sure you should stand for something so you don't fall just for anything. But as a man, you must know how to identify and create valid exceptions in life. If you don't, you will suffer from your own ignorance.
Tip #4 - Make finances the least of your problems when it comes to marriage In a few Instagram posts on July 10th, 2023, you can see Ms. Joke Silva fitting her husband, visually appearing to be in his old age but also sick with a condition called Dementia with Lewy bodies.
Dementia with Lewy bodies (DLB) is a type of progressive dementia that leads to a decline in thinking, reasoning and independent function.
Many young man today are stupidly concerned about how much weight a lady gains after having the first baby when that's fundamentally an attraction issue that should have been ironed out earlier.
Others worried about superficial nonsense like if she makes more money or not... fundamentally an insecurity issue on the part of the man.
In reality, these are the least of your issues when you are doing life with a person you love and are in-love with. Inevitably, crises will fall on you and whoever you are spending time with in life.
If you are an immature person, the easiest thing for you to do is to blame it on the closest person or things like finances, infidelity, in-laws.... but the reality is that there are deeper issues…
And Ultimately… you do not know tomorrow… but yet acting like God.
Focus on finding a wife... a good thing... someone you can see yourself with when you are sick and 90 years olds... flat boobs, wrinkle... and all.... provided you feel a physical attraction to them today.
Anxiety about tomorrow and yesterday will destroy and rob you of your chances of achieving true joy.
Clearly... Olu Jacobs is reaping what he sowed over the last 37 years and most likely beyond.
Tip #3 - Leverage your work and reputation to do the bragging for you. When Aunty Joke first met Uncle Olu at a rehearsal around 1981, she had heard a lot of good things about him... “a man coming from England to play the lead role.”
The anticipation and excitement about a person she had never met... she looked forward to meeting him.
In this time and age, there are many men of all ages sadly roaming around social media creating reputations of polar opposite.
Many ladies are pinged into online and social media spaces to hear how some men have chosen to address women in disrespectful, generalized and rude manners.
That's also a form of reputation right?
Well, Law 5 of the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene says "So Much Depends on Reputation — Guard It with Your Life."
Question of the day: Do you think Mr Olu Jacobs' reputation that worked ahead of him made it easier for him to woo a fine lady like Ms Joke Silva or it didn't matter what type of reputation it was?
Answer me in the comment area below.
Tip #2 - Forgive yourself and move forward. When they first met, here was his first statement and I quote... "Wow! This is the standard of the woman I’m going to marry."
Ms Joke Silva thought it was a rubbish pick up line. But she said, he continued to demonstrate being a "wonderful" person during the rehearsals.
She thought he realized... and I quote... "He had made a faux pas and tried to get in my good graces after that. And we became excellent friends."
I would argue that he confidently forgave himself as fast as humanly possible if at all necessary and moved on to demonstrate self-respect, self-validation, high self-esteem which in turn made her feel safe and secure around him.
Does a typical woman feel safe and secure around you after running your mouth online? I am not talking about the women advocating for men’s rights online.
Are you attracting the S.I.G.N language from the typical woman and having a hard time holding yourself accountable?
Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be right… Nagging. Or maybe… you are the first to beat the ladies to the S.I.G.N language… “these 304s ain’t sh*t!”
What I observe these days are a bunch of young men who need external validation in order to remain in their masculine frame; an oxy-freaking-moron.
They need the modern woman to be checked and roasted constantly; needy behavior.
Tip #1 - Leverage her feminine energy The feminine energy is there ready to receive, multiply and reciprocate back to you. It’s like the ocean with a massive chaotic-like trend. If you attempt to swim against it, you will drown yourself.
That's a whole series of processes, it takes time and that whole phenomenon and the respect that comes with it will be earned; no exceptions. Yes! The beautiful feminine energy is conditional.
The conditions and passing the non-intentional and endless shit tests from women overall is what makes you a man.
If you have problems with this reality, you will attempt to "fake-masculine" and demand respect and you will fall flat on your face all bruised up 100% of the time.
Feel free to try and prove me wrong.
In no way, shape or form am I asking you to engage an unruly or disrespectful woman and attempt saving her, you will fail.
But I will continue to hold you accountable for engaging unruly or disrespectful community of women and attempting to save them.
It's a YOU problem. Stop the cap and Fix YOU!
OTA2022.1-I QUIT! The Profitable Exit | Wholesale Real Estate
I QUIT! The Profitable Exit | Wholesale Real Estate
This is OLA coming to you live from myEmpirePRO studios and we are back to the basics of wholesale real estate.
Isn’t it?
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Listen… it was a much needed spike and hype… but may be more so natural.
I’ve seen this happen quite a few times since I launched my career as an entrepreneur with wholesaling and short-saling real estate back in 2005.
The ups and the downs… both big and small… in fact, my first successful business was wiped out completely with the 2008 recession. So, I’ve seen this a few times since then but we are still standing.
As you know I teach smart real estate wholesaling here with the most affordable training and coaching platform. A big part of the idea behind that is to be able to thrive in any market.
Some of the most successful wholesalers in recent times are about to go broke because they were plugged in on non-evergreen “good times” types of systems.
What do I mean by “good times”?
You see every business type is cyclical in nature. The same is true for all 5 stages of the wholesale real estate business model.
There are times when every aspect of it is super easy and there are times when it is super hard…. but also every in-between possibilities.
What is Wholesale Real Estate?
Wholesale real estate is the art and science of finding a deeply discounted property leveraging digital age marketing skills, locking the property up in a purchase contract…
…and finally selling the equitable rights to purchase the property to an end buyer investor who will typically fix up and resell.
You can make any where from $0 to $82,000 net profit per deal based on my personal experience. I’ve averaged between $15,000 and $30,000 per deal in my experience.
Here are the 5 stages of the wholesale real estate business model.
STAGE 1 - Data
For obvious reasons, this is the most important stage of all five. I personally use the tool at www.EmpireBIGData.com for this.
STAGE 2 - Contact
This is the state where you set up marketing campaigns to contact or attract motivated sellers to initiate contact with you. You can use the same tool.
STAGE 3 - Lead
Once a contact is initiated with an able and willing motivated seller, it is now in a lead stage.
STAGE 4 - Contract
After successful negotiations, a contract is drawn up and executed with agreed terms between you as a buyer and the seller. The contract creates equitable rights for you. There are specific strategies to make the equitable rights transferable for a fee.
STAGE 5 - Deal
At the final stage, a profitable exit is facilitated when you sell the equitable rights to purchase the property to an end buyer investor.
This is where I quit or EXIT the deal and walk away with $15,000 - $30,000 just to repeat the whole process.
So in recent times, the business became so attractive that hedge funds started buying a tons of rights to these deals in bulk.
They were buying them as much as up to 90% of the property ARV.
What is ARV?
ARV is the after repair value of a piece of property. We simply pull up 6 months old or less comparable or comp recent sales within one mile radius proximity to the subject property and perform a weighted average.
That’s tells us the ARV or after repair value of the subject property. Again, my favorite tool for this business, www.EmpireBIGData.com does this seamlessly in less than one minute.
Traditionally and more sustainably, our maximum allowable offer (MAO) for any property is 65% of the ARV.
As I was saying, the influx of the hedge fund buyers allowed many to be able to pay up to 90% of the ARV. Many wholesalers have made stupid insane amount of money damn near almost printing money until recently.
They would close a few deals and in less than one year, start selling courses in upwards of $45,000 for coaching and become overnight millionaires.
Well… the party is over. Back to basics and evergreen methods which I never stopped teaching.
Good times create weak business people and lucky you… I experienced my first recession in 2008 and I only share sustainable business models.
When you are plugged in on an evergreen system like our 11 days challenge, you can’t go wrong because it’s built to thrive during bad times and laugh at everyone else during good times because you can see where it’s going.
If you are listening to this, there is a good chance you are already going through the 11 days challenge. If not, first of all download my book for free at www.smartrealestatewholesaling.com to understand the system.
Then you will get an invitation to join the 11 days challenge. You will not be spending $45,000 on coaching. God forbid! If you hurry, we have a promo for $1.
You heard me… One Dollar!
The only downside to getting started extremely affordably is that people who don’t pay tend not to pay attention. I just want you to be aware of that massive risk.
So it’s about to get interesting. Many of the gurus are about to panic and go broke because the hedge funds are panicking right now and pulling out of deals.
Many regular consumers who overpaid for houses during the last upward trends are also about to end in an avalanche of pre-foreclosures in many counties around the United States.
Right now, you can position to capitalize on this massive opportunity. Traditional cash buyers are standing by ready to pay you handsomely for finding these deals.
All the big sharks who entered the business will tens of millions of dollars are disappearing overnight for breaking our traditional rules in wholesaling.
But humans still need shelter right?
Misfortunes still happen right? Sadly!
Pre-foreclosure list and departments are still being maintained at the county government house right?
The business is not going anywhere. Regulations may adjust and optimize to accommodate safe environment for consumers.
Real entrepreneurs know how to pivot accordingly. I have been doing exactly that for about 18 years now.
Let me teach you how to find me deals all from home… even if you do not leave in the United States and I will pay you $10,000 for finding me a United States deal all digitally.
Come on in and let’s make money together.
News broke out that JJC Skillz and his superstar wife Funke Akindele are now separated.
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Who is Funke Akindele?
With tons of awards, she is arguably one of the biggest actresses out of Nigeria’s movie industry which is the biggest by volume in the world and number two with respect to everything else.
She is featured in tons of movies on Netflix. Just search her name. She is also popularly known as Jenifa which is one of her most popular series and a movie version which if I’m not mistaking, she directed.
According to wikipedia, she got married to a British-Nigerian rapper popularly known as JJC Skillz.
In December 2018, they welcomed twin boys as a couple.
On June 30, 2022, JJC Skillz announces that they are parting way in a post I saw on an Instagram profile; instablog9JA
I want to share some wisdom with you with regards to this from a man who has been married for well over a decade.
But first… here is the announcement I saw…
And I quote!
“Dear Friends and family I need to let you know that Funke and I have separated. While it lasted we shared a lot of things together and have created 2 beautiful children.
The last two years have been extremely difficult for us. I know I have tried my best to fix things but I believe it is beyond repair now.
3 months ago and at Funkes insistence I moved out of the house and apart from AMVCA have not been able to get Funke to sit down in an amicable manner to discuss the future of our relationship.
I’m making this announcement so that the public is clear that we both are pursuing separate lives.
We still have issues that need to be addressed such as the custody and wellbeing of our children which is paramount as well as business interests which need to be disentangled but I have no doubt that these will be resolved one way or the other
Mr Abdul Bello”
The speculation from sources close to their camp is that Funke is proud… as in arrogant for those who do not understand Nigerian English.
According to an Abimbola on Clubhouse who claimed to know Funke, he said… “though JJC Skillz is not perfect, Funke is not an easy woman to deal with.”
A few months ago, JJC Skillz’s son from his previous relationship dropped some revealing information about their extended family.
It included allegations of child abuse… some serious direct “panel beating” on his son’s head while actually driving in the middle of London street.
As a step son, he also testified to allegations against Funke Akindele that… And I quote…
“She slaps her workers and calls them names. She accuses people of dating JJC Skillz.”
He went on to say Funke has cheated on his Dad.
On the day of the announcement, there were 300,000 Nigerians on ClubHouse arguing JJC Skillz’ financial status before merging life together with Funke.
But then I noticed that none of them was able to substantiate how he was making any substantial amount of money that we can match against what Funke Akindele had going for years before him due to her status.
But I guess that’s beside the point.
Apparently, JJC Skillz had his son live with them and many conflicts ensued that he clearly could not resolve.
But let’s talk about this condescending statement he made.
And I quote…
“I know I have tried my best to fix things but I believe it is beyond repair now. “
This statement is as typical as it comes when a man has just failed in a relationship or marriage (chop breakfast) and he is butt hurt.
It’s disrespectful to himself at best.
The least he could do is change all the I’s in that PR statement to include the mother of his kids.
That will reflect more self-respect than trying to play Mr Perfect who survived a failed marriage.
Is Funke Akindele Perfect or a Toxic Woman?
Apparently, there was a leaked video where Funke was accusing him of cheating and using company funds without proper accountability…
If you have access to that, please share with others in the comment area.
Are you noticing a pattern with high status women with regards to marriage?
Why can’t people be like Omotola Ekehinde (another actress) and her husband who is a professional air pilot?
To me, it’s been clear that Funke and JJC Skillz’ marriage has been going through the mud and it’s very sad for the institution of marriage.
Here are the allegations…
I’ve heard people quoting a blogger called gistlover claiming the cause of separation to be:
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Infidelity
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Mismanagement of Funds and
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Ego
I heard someone say they should have gotten married with a joint bank account. I think that’s an ignorant suggestion.
The person said … and I quote “after all, he is the husband and why can’t he take money from their business account?”
First of all… that’s all speculation.
But let’s be clear. If you as a man choose to go marry a woman of higher status like Funke Akindele, the only joint document you should be expecting to sign is a prenup if her team knows what that hell they are doing.
You can check out Kandi Burruss and Todd of The Real Housewives of Atlanta.
So this guy had been posting a few proverbial songs on social media for a few days prior to his terrible amateur announcement…
This is all “unrealistic expectations” at best.
Funke Akindele is damn near the biggest actress in Nigeria. How do you not expect that to come with a healthy amount of ego that is not necessarily deliberate?
So even if she is guilty of the accusations of arrogance, that will be in addition to the natural.
As usual, this is a terrible version of unrealistic expectation mixed with egotistical pride on steroids.
Ok so apparently and allegedly, JJC Skillz and Funke Akindele lived in a 7 bedroom house but yet had to rent another house in town for his other extended family.
Is This What Funke is Guilty of?
So somehow, that 7 bedroom-family house is for the extended family and not a nuclear family?
Please… in the comment area… help me make this make sense.
I am in no way exonerating Funke here.
But my job on this channel is to hold the leader of the household accountable.
It’s not an indictment. I am just pointing out your leverage point as a man which includes the choice to walk away and mean it when necessary as a leverage for best negotiations.
Gentlemen. We can’t negotiate desire. We can’t afford to discount the power of desire, attraction, emotions and seduction in romantic relationships. These are skills you must learn.
Funke is most likely not going to make a statement… that’s her track record.
But here we have a man who couldn’t wait to run to social media to make such a condescending announcement about his own family. Your ex-spouse, especially with kids made together, remains your family for the rest of your life.
I have to be honest with you. I expect to see more excuses for JJC Skillz outside of holding him to account for his decisions.
After all, you as a man can control your decisions more than you can control another human being who clearly has a higher status in society than you.
To be married to a Funke Akindele, a man will need to be 100% secured in himself.
Newsflash: That’s almost impossible.
Why can’t she just submit to her husband? It’s not that simple.
Even if she tries to submit, insecurities of a typical man will creep to the surface and attract disrespect from a typical woman of higher status.
We are not talking about people on salaries here. There is nothing wrong with a wife making more money than you as a man… but don’t do it… especially if you think there is no such thing as an insecure man.
That’s precisely what you are with that belief system. Don’t bother trying it.
Funke Akindele is a woman of a certain status and she’s been that… long before JJC Skillz came into the picture.
If you’ve been paying attention, sadly, these things are predictable.
That’s especially true in the modern age.
This is the actual reality that many men are having a hard time adjusting for.
I’ve noticed that they’d rather talk about their fantasies of going back to 1933 ways of doing marriage.
Good luck!
So the fact is that men need intensive coaching to marry in this time and age.
Also divorcees should definitely stay away from marriage until intensive 1 year coaching.
I offer all those things extremely affordably. The only excuse is ego.
On the 33rd Episode of Man of Prestige, I will be covering the senseless shootings going on the United States. It's going on in Uvalde as well as Chicago. No 🧢. Also... I have update for you on what I am learning about defamation trial between AMBER HEARD & JOHNNY DEPP .
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Wow.... so we will be talking about the crazy event with teenagers and misconduct at Chrisland schools and some other parenting related issues today. Gentlemen... this also is our responsibility and we will talk about it today. Other platforms are engaged in blaming... let's talk about solutions.
Our children is our responsibility.
We will also talk about Dwayne Wade and Gabrielle Union's public parenting, Funke Akindele's step son... and more.
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Let's talk about the influx of fake marriage advisers and gurus on social media, the NYC subway suspect who happens to be a fan of the manosphere and discuss the similarities between feminism and the manosphere movement.
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We are talking about Sister Osinachi.
Osinachi Nwachukwu a lead singer at the Dunamis International Gospel Centre, Abuja, rose to fame in 2017 with ‘Ekwueme,’ a song she did with Prospa Ochimana.
At first, she reported was deleted by Cancer, but there has been a new update as the husband has been arrested for DV.
We will also talking about Christian Tobechukwu Obumseli whose Girlfriend, Courtney Tailor seems to be presently free.
This is sad and we have to talk.
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In recent times, there has been a fleet of weak male humans being exposed everywhere because of the field leveler, the internet.
Today, I will be sharing example. Gentlemen, we cannot allow the ball to drop.... we've got work todo.
Will Smith, August Alsina, Oshay Duke Jackson, Coach Corey Wayne, Jada Pinkett-Smith, Chloe_ and More on Today's episode of Man of Prestige.
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23rd Episode
I have some updates on the Korra Obidi and Justin Dean's divorce and custody battle... There are tons of relationship lessons in this today.
Learn how to prevent your relationship from going in the ditch like this...
Stop by and let's talk about.
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22nd Episode
More than a year ago, Clayton's video on East African, Nigerian and Ghanian Women marital misconduct in the Diaspora went viral. Today, I am bringing Clayton on as a special guest to help us add more context to his 16 minutes viral video.
He continues to receive lots of shaming, insulting and more in response to the video... just maybe he was misunderstood.
He compared East African, Nigerian and Ghanian Women to Indian, Korean and Chinese Women... apparently, East Africans like to call the Government in to eventually destroy their own family.
I am also going to ask him what his thoughts are about FBA (Foundational Black American Women?
It's going to be LIT!
Also... I changed my mind... we will talk more about Will Smith, Jada & Chris.
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Almost everyone commenting on this Will Smith and Chris Rock brawl over Jada Pinkett-Smith (Will's Wife) are WRONG! and mostly B*tch, lam3 a$$ cowards and losers... We will set the record straight.
It's no wonder none of this people can maintain a marriage and/or long term relationship in this modern age. It's a bunch of weak males on every corner of the internet.
We will be analyzing 27 questions from the perspective of 4 types of people.
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Lames..
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Cowards and
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Losers
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Those destined to get overall results.
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So Jason Momoa, the Aquaman, went back to his wife... Lisa Bonet... and guess who is mad? Today, we are going to talk about the different nuances of a real life husband who almost lost is family and what effective fighting for your family looks like. It's not what most people think. I will be reacting to Oshay Duke Jackson's video (FAIR USE)...
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Wholesaling Lots – How To Wholesale Vacant Lands
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My Wife Loves Me But Doesn’t Desire Me 💔
You are about to discover what to do if all signals indicate that the wife you married doesn’t desire you anymore even though she claims she loves you. It’s perfectly normal for a wife to love her husband, but sometimes not feel sexually attracted to him. While desire cannot be ...
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Many people will debate the merits of real estate vs stocks.
For example, some say that real estate will always outperform stocks because it's an asset that generates income for its owner.
Others argue that stocks are a safer bet than real estate because they're not guaranteed to be profitable and you can't lose money on them like you can with real estate investments.
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Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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If you are interested in pre-foreclosure listings, then here are some things that you must know.
It's no secret that the world is going through tough times.
Money is hard to come by, and it doesn't seem like things are getting any better.
For some people, this means their homes will be foreclosed on because they can't make monthly payments.
The last thing you want to happen to your family is for someone else or some random bank to take over your house.
Never mind that you borrowed money from them in the first place; right?
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He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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There is a lot of confusion about what is and is not narcissism.
Narcissists can seem charming at first, but they are often manipulative and destructive to those around them.
They will wear you down with their demands for attention and approval until all you want is space from the relationship.
If this sounds like your husband, it might be time to ask yourself if he has narcissistic tendencies and traits.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, you will discover some really cool tips about pre-foreclosure on Zillow, using it to find a home, and even better, how to make serious money with it even if you have no money.
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He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, you will discover how marriage statistics at the moment is quite crazy and puzzling, to say the least.
One marriage statistic that is not so puzzling but still interesting to look at is the average marriage rate by age in the United States.
It has been steadily increasing since 1970 and currently sits at 29 years old for women and 30 years old for men, with a breakdown by age shown below.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, you will discover how to buy a home in preforeclosure, make a fortune doing it, and even if you don’t have any money for capital.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, you will discover the real answer to this age-old question (Is my wife cheating?) and why the answer is probably not what you need before these 10 questions.
Nonetheless, I will give you the answer.
We are sorry that you have found yourself in this space with your marriage. We want to help and this article will be a great start.
Warning! Do not read anything else about cheating suspicions until you read this article in its entirety. You will break your home if you do.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, you will discover 3 things from a marriage retreat that can break you further apart from your spouse.
While marriage retreat can really help to revive your marriage with the first 6 things that I want to share with you first, it is very important to note that it can create worse marriage conditions.
This lesson is especially for you if you feel that your marriage is potentially in crisis and you are wondering if a marriage retreat can help rekindle things.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, you will discover an almost perfect method to screen for great real estate investment called the 1% rule; particularly when it comes to screening rental properties.
Let’s do some quick math.
Every other month, I hear the story of another person who just lost $30,000 in an attempt to invest in real estate.
I don’t know... but it seems like there is something negatively magical about the amount of $30,000 net loss and it’s no longer funny.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, you will discover the top 5 “must-read” marriage books we think every couple must read individually, especially and together when possible.
Every marriage will experience a crisis at some point regardless of how prepared for marriage the parties try to be.
Lola and I had our fair share.
When everything was good, lovely, and romantic, it was difficult for us to comprehend why we needed to learn more about how marriage works.
When we engaged in premarital counseling shortly before our wedding in 2007, we understood the counsel from a fulfilling-all-righteousness standpoint.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
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In this lesson, you will discover some of the fundamentals necessary to understand real estate from a standpoint of generating income and building fortunes.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
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In this lesson, you will discover how to handle marriage separation in order to ultimately make the outcome most positive and fruitful regardless of how much pain you are dealing with.
I am sorry for whatever the reason is that you are relating to this extremely important topic; my understanding is that it’s never easy, simple or blissful.
Most people don’t go into a marriage with the purpose or intentions of separating. I would, however, argue that many are indirectly doing exactly that.
I’ll explain.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
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In this lesson, you will discover real estate investing online; where it is possible and where there are limitations.
Ultimately, my goal is to show you how this is 100% possible in the digital age.
When I first joined the real estate investing gang back in 2004 and 2005, I was a fresh graduate of computer engineering and engineering management.
So naturally, I eventually always looked for ways to do any parts of this business online and virtually.
It wasn’t always easy. ...
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, you will discover, not just how many marriages end in divorce, but how it is different for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd marriages.
I want to blame someone for divorces.
I will also reveal some deeper insights to these lagging indicators which is a limitation to the only numbers and percentages that we know as I reveal in this lesson.
A few days ago, I was listening to a livestream on Youtube in the men’s community called the manosphere or “red pill” as they discussed the prevalent and unfortunate gender wars.
Before stumbling into this community a few months ago, I didn’t realize that there were so many men that could come off as so hateful to women.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, you will discover what I consider the 5 best wholesale real estate books that I recommend that you review as soon as possible.
When I was growing up, reading wasn’t my thing at all.
If you’ve read any one of the 3 books I have written, you may have noticed that it wasn’t written to win the most grammatically correct book awards.
But as I grew into my career as a consultant and coach in real estate investing and other areas of life, it became a necessity.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, you will discover some of the best marriage advice you will ever stumble into for modern marriages, traditional marriage in modern age and for newlyweds. This is going to present a completely new perspective for you.
The other day, I was watching a video by one of the black manosphere leaders, Oshay Duke Jackson, interviewing a guy. He claims that the root cause of his divorce was when his wife started listening to Amanda Seales.
While I agree that the trigger to the divorce could have been random media platform rhetorics, I disagree that it is the root cause. The root cause is always a function of both parties involved.
Marriage is an institution and it remains exactly that even as the human species continues to evolve overtime.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, you will discover 5 best courses for real estate investing and wholesaling if you are just getting started. Also, if you’ve closed one or few deals but feel stuck, you may want to listen attentively.
In 2004 to 2005, I took a course by Richard Douglas on Wholesaling Preforeclosures. Right After that, I took a course on Flipping by a legend, Glen Galucci.
I like it because wholesaling and flipping houses as a real estate investing strategy are active income activities. That’s not the end goal.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, you will discover 5 things that you can focus on to make your wife miss you during a separation in marriage.
Sorry to hear that you may be going through this but I got you. I want to tell you a story about James and his wife who are separated but living together.
So James was a guy who dropped us an email. He has been separated from his wife for a while now due to multiple issues.
Based on his confession, his wife finally had enough of him constantly putting her down and she asked for a separation with the goal of divorce.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, you will discover the 5 simple steps to engage the lucrative opportunity of flipping real estate contracts for cash in the digital age. It wasn’t always this easy but I want to give you some perspective that can simplify how easy this has gotten.
During my master’s degree education which I started in the fall of 2004, I became quite exposed to the different possibilities beyond the 40-40-40 income plan.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, not only will you discover 10 signs that your wife just slept with someone else, you will also discover how to move in these trying and difficult times in your marriage.
The idea of wondering about your wife’s faithfulness has got to be an extremely painful process for you and I’m sorry. But your life is about to change.
Real growth in life and as a man lies within this process.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, not only will you discover 10 signs that your wife just slept with someone else, you will also discover how to move in these trying and difficult times in your marriage.
The idea of wondering about your wife’s faithfulness has got to be an extremely painful process for you and I’m sorry. But your life is about to change.
Real growth in life and as a man lies within this process.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
https://lolaandola.com/10-signs-your-wife-just-slept-with-someone-else
Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
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Free Marriage Quiz
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
💔 Free Book & Free 30 Minutes Marriage Coaching
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
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Most people look at real estate as a larger-than-life entity or investment vehicle but for very good reasons; it keeps the roof over our heads either at home or at work.
So it makes sense to idolize the idea of making money in real estate to the extent of writing it off as a simple thing.
It’s simple.
Back in 2004, a friend of mine who had heard me talk about looking at real estate invited me to a seminar. My pastor’s wife had mentioned it.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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There's this guy, I am not sure if it's the guy or the girl but basically the issue that's going on is the issue of 50/50 custody.
They are in separation at the moment and they have a child.
So 50/50 custody issue but it seems like one person is always moving the "GO" "PAUSE" so…
“Enjoy the Video.”
Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, you will discover 5 actionable steps to seducing your husband towards saving your marriage and finally building real love.
Cynthia was struggling with codependency within the context of being in a marriage to a depressed man.
Her husband claims to love her, in love with her, love being around her but the marriage just doesn’t feel the same to him any longer.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
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In this lesson, you will discover my personal 10 main keys to finding comps for real estate you may have an interest in.
If you are wondering, comps is basically another word for comparable which is a word used to describe other comparable properties to a property of interest.
For example, you are taking a look at a property to either purchase or flip.
The first step is to determine what the property is worth in today’s market.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
FOLLOW OLA ONLINE HERE:
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In this lesson, we will be sharing five rules to follow if you have been separated for a while but things are starting to seem great between you two again; these rules will help prevent sabotaging the attraction.
This is actually good news; Calvin has clearly done a great job to get in this space.
The rest of the story now depends on Calvin’s ability to follow these simple, lightweight but crucial rules that will reduce his chances of self-sabotaging.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
📍 2 FREE BOOKS DOWNLOAD
➜ http://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
11 DAYS QUICKSTART CHALLENGE
➜ http://www.11DaysChallenge.com
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In this lesson, you will discover the formula and breakdown of the numbers involved in wholesaling pre-foreclosures from equity to debt pay-off with regards to the ARV formula.
When I visited the first house I first took a look at in Belleville New Jersey sometime in 2004 or 2005, I had no idea what I was doing outside of the simple desire that I wanted to be a landlord.
Thank goodness that it never went through.
Thanks to my friend who was supposed to be my partner who never came through.
Shortly after that, I met Anthony by way of Bob at the... then GSREiA in New Jersey when I attended a workshop seminar by a pre-foreclosure wholesaling guru, Rich.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
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In this lesson, we are sharing 5 mistakes to avoid if you truly want to be attracted to your husband in a healthy, happy, and blissful way again.
So Samantha is at a place in her marriage right now, a marriage of 7 years, where she feels like things are spiraling out of control.
She claims that she really loves him but her description of the emotions playing out in their interaction indicates deflating attraction.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
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In this lesson, you will discover how it is possible to not just invest in real estate, but also make money in real estate without money for typical initial capital and even with a bad credit.
After 16 years of launching my real estate business with no money and bad credit right out of college, I still stumble into people who think it is the strangest thing ever.
Some will (straight up) tell you that you are full of shit.
While some will literally laugh at you like they actually know all there is to know about making money in real estate… obviously not if they don’t know this was possible.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, we are sharing 5 tips to save a marriage especially when one person is lukewarm or checked out.
But first, please do me 3 favors.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
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In this lesson, you will discover 5 signs that separation may be good or at least necessary to bring life back into your marriage.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
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In this lesson, you will discover 5 little known secrets of staying motivated in your virtual wholesaling journey… gurus won’t share this with you.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, I am sharing 5 lethal mistakes that will destroy your virtual wholesaling business before you get started.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, we are about to dive in through the story of a 28 years old guy who is married to a 33 years old with a brand new baby and the blue balls syndrome.
Let’s call him Felix.
He writes...
“My wife and I have been together for about 6 years, married for 2 and we have an almost 1 year old child….
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
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In this lesson, we want to talk about when or what is the average length of separation before reconciliation and how to rebuild attraction during separation.
While there are studies that show an average of 2 years in this zone, there is more to this.
We are also leveraging the story of a guy’s submission of how his wife wants to pursue separation even though he is willing to die to avoid this.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, I want to take a few minutes to dissect high equity, zero equity and even the underwater segment of the pre-foreclosures list and data.
Pre-foreclosures list is a list of properties and property owners whose mortgage banks have filed a lis pendens which is an intention to foreclose on their property with the government.
This lesson is important because in my camp, it has been an argument, which of the lists are best among so many options to go after with a marketing campaign.
We are going to touch on…
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
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In this lesson, in addition to answering a question about the effect of different area codes on closing more deals, you will have 5 extremely important things I recommend before attempting cold calling.
I will also link you with my real estate wholesaling cold calling script; the necessary questions to add to your script and help you add some fun to the process.
Back in 2014, I picked up a really cool skillset which is the ability to talk to strangers and turn them to friends.
For me, it was more so about making a new friend than about closing the next deal.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
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To be clear, we are not talking about physical features like brown or blue eyes, big bum and so on and so forth.
We are talking about behavioral signals a partner will show or do physically when they are attracted to you sexually.
When my husband and I started dating back in 2004, we clicked in so many ways but one obvious way was the sexual attraction.
He held my hands at every chance he got starting from the first date.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
Probably the most common question I get from beginners and intermediate alike is how to start wholesaling.
I understand it because there's so much information to the extent of paralysis by analysis.
So in this lesson, it’s all about getting you off to the race and how to do it in 11 days.
Back in 2004 or 2005, I paid $3,000 for the first seminar I attended on real estate.
I walked away with a nice fancy binder with a bunch of useless information I would never need to actually make money.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
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In this lesson, I am sharing my personal 5 best marketing strategies for wholesaling real estate with you.
I am from the school of direct mail which is basically sending letters and postcards to my target list.
But a lot has changed since 2005 when the market wasn’t saturated with a bunch of wannabe wholesaling investors.
Although many of them will never close a single deal, their marketing messages and outreach is additional oversupply of overpromises into your market space.
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11 DAYS QUICKSTART CHALLENGE ➜ http://www.11DaysChallenge.com
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
FOLLOW OLA ONLINE HERE:
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In this lesson, you will discover the truth about respect in a marriage; it just seems like this is a well kept secret from the modern man and woman.
It’s your lucky day as we reveal the secret to perpetuating abundance of respect in your marriage especially if you are a starving man.
At about the 4 years mark into Julie’s marriage, she lost respect for her husband.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, we will discuss the reason why lis pendens create a great opportunity to tap into an endless pull of motivated sellers for your wholesaling business.
Before we go too far, what is lis pendens in real estate?
Lis Pendens simply means a pending lawsuit and in this case, we are talking about foreclosure lawsuits.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
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In this lesson, I want to share my personal top 5 best list of potential motivated sellers for wholesaling.
East Orange, New Jersey.
It was my first home buyer’s seminar that I went to after a friend told me about it.
Before I knew it, I had wasted an afternoon looking at properties that would never be prospects for investing.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
BLOG POST: https://myempirepro.com/blog/best-lists-for-wholesaling
RECOMMENDED TOOLS ➜ http://www.EmpireBIGData.com
BOOKS DOWNLOAD ➜ http://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
11 DAYS QUICKSTART CHALLENGE ➜ http://www.11DaysChallenge.com
SUBSCRIBE ➜ http://bit.ly/SubonYouTube
BLOG POST - https://myempirepro.com/blog/
ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
FOLLOW OLA ONLINE HERE:
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In this lesson, you will discover 5 things to do if your wife is just never in the mood for intimacy and sex anymore.
The other day, we got this in the email at questions@LOLAandOLA.com from Jerry.
He said...
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
Why does it have to be wholesaling vs real estate agents?
And what if there is a way to legally create a profitable partnership from a relationship?
Back in earlier to mid 2005 when I started to go very hard on my wholesaling business, I came across a mentor.
At the time, he had an agent lady who he used to pull comps and get marketing information.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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You are about to discover what to do if all signals indicate that the wife you married doesn’t desire you anymore even though she claims she loves you.
What a confusion right?
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, you will discover 5 tips to wholesale vacant land opportunities and tear down properties without wasting time.
This topic was inspired by the algorithm, which you can help more by punching that like button in the face... of course but…
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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Affection?
Is that food?
Why is this even relevant in real life when you’ve committed to a lifetime in a marriage?
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
You are about to discover 5 reasons to avoid small town targeting and focus your resource and energy on virtual wholesale real estate.
Back in 2006, I discovered virtual wholesale through the school of hard knocks and you don’t have to go through the same pain I went through.
In fact, in my next video I share with you how I got kicked out of Plainfield New Jersey to decide that and how it helped me create $3 million.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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“I don’t love you anymore.” The point of no return right?
Chris did not see this one coming...
But with the amount of cases and marriage issues that we review from time to time, these issues do not just fall out of the skies.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
I have 5 tips for you when it comes to wholesaling REO properties. REO stands for real estate owned by the bank just in case you are wondering.
Some also call it bank-owned properties.
Is this even possible these days or its a thing of the past when no one was paying attention?
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
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In this lesson, you will discover how to deal with a disrespectful wife without losing any further respect in your marriage.
A few months ago, David reached out to us complaining bitterly about his marital life and how it has probably been the worst decision he made to marry her.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, you will discover the ultimate pre-foreclosure scripts; the 5 main quality questions I want you to focus on asking when prospecting pre-foreclosures.
Also, we will cover a power-magical question that other gurus enjoy using but tend not to share with you.
Newark New Jersey 2006; I became one of the highly sought after persons by people on the brinks of foreclosures.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
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FREE @ AUDIBLE
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In this lesson, you will discover 5 secrets to staying together after cheating; a terrible experience created out of a bad choice.
So about 10 months ago, Racheal sent in an email describing the pain she was still going through years after she was cheated on by her husband.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, you will discover 5 proven ways to buy a foreclosure house in order to create instant equity in real estate.
When I first fell in love with real estate in 2004, I thought I was going to become a millionaire being a landlord.
I made the whole plan in my mind on how I was going to simply use other people’s money through the bank to buy and rent.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
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Today’s lesson is from reviewing one of our favorites shows to watch; Love & Marriage: Huntsville season2...
⏰VIDEO CHAPTERS⏰
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1:15 Is Marriage Harder Because They Are On TV?
2:10 1st Season - Love & Marriage: Huntsville Quick Review
4:20 Lesson #1 - Divorce Creates Collateral Damages for Everyone
6:01 Lesson #2 - To Enjoy Marriage, Be A Perpetual Student of Marriage
6:21 Lesson #3 - In love and war, all is fair.
6:51 Lesson #4 - Leverage Other People’s Rock Bottom Story
7:14 Lesson #5 - In Marriage, Good Intentions Are Overrated.
8:00 Lesson #6 - In Marriage, Application & Theory Are Worlds Apart
9:07 Lesson #7-10
14:22 Lesson #11 - Martell’s Apology on Steve Harvey’s Radio Show
Featuring 3 of our favorite couples to watch on TV on season 2:
- Martel and Melody Holt
- Marsau and Latisha Scott AND
- Maurice Scott and Kimmy Grant
These are 3 couples like any other couples in the world with the only difference being the magnifying glass of the OWN on them. (The Oprah Winfrey’s Network)
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#lamh #marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, I’m going to take a few minutes to explain the 5 closing fees and cost categories that you should look out for in your deals.
Capital money for wholesaling is not required from you personally but both the buyer and the seller will be required to pay some fees.
If you are wholesaling, you are neither the seller nor the end buyer.
It will be completely unnecessary to overwhelm you with the minuscule details of a real estate closing statement.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, we will be sharing 5 signs your wife never really loved you.
If you are here right now, it means you are either in doubt or have reached a stumbling wall in your marriage.
Marriages are often sweet in the beginning... in the in-love moment right?
But once the excitement and fun is over, most people start to feel like they are in a nightmare.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, I will be sharing the newest updates about virtually wholesaling real estate of any location from any location.
All you need is a laptop with a decent internet connection; that’s it!
Virtual wholesaling became very popular since 2017; although it has existed long before that as Smart Real Estate Wholesaling.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
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Hello this is LOLA coming to you live from LOLAandOLA.com
.... and this is OLA
In today’s lesson, we are sharing 10 lessons we’ve extracted from Latoya Forever’s marriage and divorce.
We are tapping into Latoya’s life with her estranged husband, Adam Ali, so we can all learn some pitfalls to avoid.
After watching her 2 parts video interview that she released on her channel and channel with the new boyfriend (where it seemed that she wrote the questions...)
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
https://lolaandola.com/latoya-forever-divorce
Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, we will explain and break down wholesale real estate for a complete beginner and top 3 mistakes I made that you must avoid.
This is precisely for wholesale real estate in the United States but with a laptop and an internet connection, you can wholesale USA real estate from anywhere in the world.
As a person who launched back in 2005, it’s very easy for me to get tempted in using big words and vocabulary.
But I promise to make this all about you so that you can make a solid foundation that you can build on top of.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
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Being in a marriage has its highs and lows and sometimes you can hit a stumbling block such as a sexless marriage.
A few moments of dryspell can happen and that is not unusual.
What can make it unusual is when that dry spell becomes permanent.
When intimacy is gone in a marriage, it can gradually lead to the death of a marriage.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
Back in December 2005, my life changed forever because I closed my first deal in wholesaling pre-foreclosures.
In one perspective, I want to think it happened all by mistake and I just got lucky.
But in many ways, I did a few things right and I want to share them with you in this video.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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In this lesson, you are about to discover the overlap between feeling like your husband has lost interest in you sexually and the reality.
One of the pieces in the ups and downs of the journey in a marriage is attraction and sexual interest levels.
It is very important to be self aware enough to separate your feelings (which are as valid as they come) and the reality.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, I will bring you up to speed with wholesaling real estate in 2021 with respect to how things are changing very fast in the digital age.
I will also review the 5 steps to successfully wholesaling real estate for massive profits in upwards of $25,000 per deal.
My first deal was a $10,000 check from way back in 2005.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
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In this lesson, I will be sharing 5 signs you may have been experiencing to make you feel like your husband repulses you...
And maybe even disgusts you in more ways than one.
You would probably agree that this is not a fun way to be in a marriage with your husband and you probably feel guilty already for feeling this way.
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
In this lesson, you will discover the secrets of flipping and wholesaling United States real estate from UK (the United Kingdom)
... all without needing any capital, US credit, work permit or real estate license.
As you know, we live in a global village now
And that means you can conduct a smooth business empire anywhere with a laptop and an internet connection.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
BLOG POST: https://myempirepro.com/blog/wholesale-real-estate-uk
BOOKS DOWNLOAD ➡️ http://www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com
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SUBSCRIBE ➡️ http://bit.ly/SubonYouTube
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
FOLLOW OLA ONLINE HERE:
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Hate is a very strong word but the “up and down” feelings that come with marriage can be extreme sometimes.
Also hate is the polar opposite of the same passion you probably felt when you first fell in love with that stranger.
So it probably makes sense that it feels like “hate” at some point after the initial fake love in-love experience wears off.
The good news, in a twisted weird way, is that your relationship with your husband sounds pretty normal considering that...
Continue Reading...
https://lolaandola.com/my-husband-hates-me
Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
#marriage #fixmymarriage #savemymarriage
The basics of digital marketing is very simple; marketing.
There are 3 things you should know about marketing that I learned from Dan Kennedy who is a legend in marketing.
The 3 M’s.
So remember we talked about value.
Here is another way to break down the basics of marketing.
- Message
- Medium
- Market
...The three M's.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
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What is the Marriage Quiz?
The ultimate marriage quiz is designed to help you identify where your marriage is presently;
..in terms of its chance to survive or crash.
As a matter of fact, your marriage has a 50% chance of surviving based on the statistics that we all know across different societies.
Continue Reading...
https://lolaandola.com/marriage-quiz/
Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
You are about to discover who uses digital marketing and who should be using digital marketing.
Remember, I said, there are 3 core pillars in business.
Value
Medium
People
You need people and you need to have some kind of offer that's valuable to these people.
So the keyword is “value” and you need to have a way to link it and that’s digital marketing in this digital era.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
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You are about to discover the 5 physical signs your wife is cheating.
Cheating and/infidelity is a terrible experience for a marriage and relationship.
It kills marriages, and more importantly…
Trust.
It’s a betrayal and it goes very deep beyond just the moment it happens, the relationship, just one person’s life.
It’s something that causes deep-rooted damages to a person and getting through it can be very difficult.
So if you’ve experienced any kind of cheating, caught your wife cheating or you feeling like your wife is cheating, you may want to engage a professional to make sure that you go through the proper healing process necessary.
Continue Reading...
https://lolaandola.com/physical-signs-your-wife-is-cheating
Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
You are about to discover why I charge my digital marketing $25,000 or more depending on the level of service.
There are two reasons.
Reason #1: I want them to value what I'm about to be sharing with you in this series.
Unfortunately, there's a lot of people roaming around the Internet, and when you have availability and oversupply of information or anything for that matter,
What happens is that it becomes something that you don't value as much, because it just seems like it's everywhere.
But I want you to look a little deeper. Because at the end of the day, there are two ways about any form of training or training/services.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
BLOG POST: https://myempirepro.com/blog/digital-marketing-pricing
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
FOLLOW OLA ONLINE HERE:
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I cannot just share my digital marketing results without sharing with you how I stumbled into this whole thing in the first place.
Digital marketing started for me back in 2006.
Shortly before that I had launched my real estate business back in 2005.
I attended a course which I paid $3,000 for around December 2004.
I closed my first deal in 2005 and that same year I was actually finishing my master’s degree in college.
So my attention was all over the place. But in December 2005, I was able to close a deal winning a net profit of $10,000.
As a graduate of computer engineering and engineering management, I'm always thinking about leverage.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
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The least money that I make per person that I help get results is $15,000.
I'm not talking about everyone. I'm talking about per person that I help get results... per clients;
Not customers but per client and I make that because there are 3 billion people on the Internet.
I don't want to get into the statistics, because those numbers are continuing to grow.
But the last time I checked, there are three billion people on the Internet across the world and a lot of them use credit cards.
Not only do they use credit cards because that's the least part of what I'm saying, they actually need what you have to offer and are ready to spend.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
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Digital Marketing is about building a digital age empire and yes,
It’s also applicable to building a real estate empire.
You can leverage it to build any type of business empire.
Real Estate
Networking Marketing
Marketing Agency
Affiliate Marketing
Any type of business
… and with the digital marketing skill set, you can find a lucrative 6- figures income job if you are not an entrepreneur.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
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You just stumbled into the idea of flipping houses.
Maybe because of the pandemic, you're looking for other ways to make money and bring in income to your family.
House flipping is definitely a good strategy to bring in income into your family.
Now there are 2 different types of house flipping.
-
Individuals searching for wholesale deals to assign to investors that will actually do the work.
-
Investors that will actually acquire property, meaning they will actually buy the property, fix up the property and then list it back on the market with a licensed agent for profit.
So either one of those two are valid ways of making money or valid methods of real estate investing.
Read FULL Details on our BLOG POST
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
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In this lesson, you will discover 3 tips you need to know about taxes paid when flipping houses.
The first thing I want to tell you is that I am not an accountant or a CPA.
So as soon as you start making money, make sure you talk to a certified CPA and take advantage of the tax laws in your state.
Whatever part of the world you're in, there are certain laws that you can leverage and take advantage of if you know or get with a CPA that knows.
With that being said, I want to share 3 tips with you.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::|
Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON
https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE
SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2
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Would you like to learn how to get started in real estate flipping?
Well, it starts with a strong desire because your faith will be tested.
It's business and entrepreneurship like any other day so sometimes, things will seem like it's not going the right way or in the right direction.
When that happens, are you gonna quit or are you very quick to say…
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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Partners can fall in and out of love during the lifetime of their love affair;
It’s just the reality of life.
There is a big difference between loving a person and being in love with the same person.
Loving a person is a choice born out of a commitment
...while being in-love is a feeling that’s born out of feeling safe and secure enough to be vulnerable.
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Question: “How much money do you need to wholesale real estate?”
Kind of similar to saying, How much money do you need to flip houses?
Well, you need a job.
Let me just say that like that.
You need to keep your job if you're trying to wholesale real estate, you need to keep your job until your income is absolutely replaced.
The mistake that I see a lot of people make is, they quit their job thinking that they're gonna get rich tomorrow.
Very highly likely you will never get rich.
I'm just being honest with you.
You know why?
Because it depends on you, I don't know where you're coming from, I don't know your work ethics and I don't know what you bring to the table.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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Question: “Should I wholesale real estate?”
Now, this is a frequently asked question that's why I'm answering the question, but the answer is yes.
The obvious answer is YES because you're thinking about it.
If you're asking this question, you've encountered the idea…
The business model of wholesaling, which is basically...
finding deeply discounted properties,
locking them up under contract, and then
selling the contract
...in exchange for wholesaling fees.
Why do you get paid?
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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By the very fact that you are seeking this information, I would assume that you already have your suspicions about your wife cheating.
I am sorry that you are going through that.
It’s gotta be a painful place to find yourself and your marriage....
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Question: “How to get rich flipping houses?”
The way you get rich flipping houses is to build a lead pipeline.
You need to build a lead pipeline.
This is something I covered extensively in the book.
So you wanna make sure you get your hands on the book.
If you're brand new here, by the way,
...make sure you get your hands on the book “Smart Real Estate Wholesaling”.
You can see it on the screen right there.
In this book, I covered quite a bit of stuff but the book surrounds the idea of the 3 Core Pillar.
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Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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Question: “How much I make flipping houses?”
I have my full blown story, starting from 2004 December, there is a video that I'm going to suggest that you watch.
All you wanna do is simply google “Wholesaling 101 Ola”.
Let me actually see if that works.
I need to make sure that works before I send you to go do that.
But it should work...
Yes, that brings up...
Actually, that brings up way too many videos.
No, actually, it brings it up.
There you go, so it brings it up.
It should bring it up at position number 1 on Google results.
It's called “Free Wholesaling 101 course”.
If you wanna know my full story, I talked about…
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::| Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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Question: “How do I begin flipping houses?”
One of the most commonly asked questions is, “How do I get started?”
“How do I begin?”
“Where do I start from?”
“How do I start from...?”
That's why I created the 11DaysChallenge.com
Why?
Because there are tons of gurus selling $25,000, $5000, or $1,000 programs out there basically; talking head teaching you all the definitions there is to know about real estate.
Even in the world of realtors, you experience the same thing, you go to the classes…
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::| Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
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Question: “Do you need a license for real estate wholesaling?”
This question is timely because just last week, we found out that according to some other channel,
...actually, I haven't really checked it, because of what I'm about to share with you.
That Philadelphia is now requiring people to have some kind of license to wholesale.
There are a couple of solutions around that.
If you've been following me, a place, a geolocation, or a state requiring a license to wholesale would not have been an issue for you.
If you have been following me, but thank God you're here to hear this right now.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::| Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
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How do you deal with unrealistic expectations in a relationship?
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Expectations are only as real as the existence of this conversation; no more and no less.
Frankly, they don't have to be any more significant than...
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Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.
Question: “What age can you wholesale real estate?”
So there's a lot of new kids on the block.
Young kids, my children are actually, one of them.
I have a 12 years old, a 10 years old boy, and I have a little baby, almost two in a few months.
But my boys, they’re getting into that stage where they are just a lot smarter than I was when I was their age.
And that's just where we are.
So you have a lot of new teenagers, that means entrepreneurs.
Back in the days, what that was was you sell lemonade in front of the house.
But these days these kids are learning a lot more, and they want to know at 15 and 14, can I start wholesaling?
The answer is yes but there's some restrictions I should point out.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::| Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
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Question: “How wholesaling real estate works?”
Let's talk about how real estate wholesaling works.
Wholesaling Real Estate is essentially a real estate investment strategy.
A real estate investment strategy but what is the meaning of wholesaling? Wholesaling essentially is when you buy goods and services at a bulk price.
When you buy it from a source that's closer to the origination of the goods and services.
When you do that, especially goods, you tend to be able to find it at a cheaper price.
That creates room for you where you can have inbuilt equity where you can make some money from and also, you can sell that equity.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::| Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2 REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
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Question: “Wife argues about everything” - 5 tips
Now, before I get into the tips, there's a quick story behind why I came up with this topic.
I have a client who called me and he's a he.
He called me, he is married to his wife and they've been going through it for a while.
A lot of arguments, a lot of resentments from the part of the wife, and they're going through it.
So every now and then he will call me and I'll give him some tips here and there.
Basically, I'm coaching him in a mild way.
But he called me, and when he called me, what I heard in the background was basically the wife telling him that I'm a third party.
I'm an outsider, and he should not be sharing anything that's going on in their family with me.
Now there's a twist to the tips I'm going to share with you right now.
There are 5 tips about, “Wife argues about everything” that I would share with you if you're going through this situation.
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Question: “How to wholesale real estate online?”
In my opinion, this is the only way to do it.
As a matter of fact, there's no such thing that's offline anymore.
Everyone is on the Internet.
Let's assume that you know how to do this the old school way.
You know how to find real estate deals, you know how to find contracts, locked up under contract, flip the contract and all this good old thing,
...when it gets to the time that you have to liaise with the title companies to structure the deal to get the deal closed,
All of these people are gonna be communicating with you for the most part by email.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::| Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2 REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
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Question: “How to structure a real estate wholesale deal?”
With the topic, how real estate wholesale works, you understand that you find properties.
You find deeply discounted properties by simply marketing at people that are in distressed situations.
Either the property is distressed, meaning it needs a lot of repairs or the ownership is distressed.
The ownership can't afford to hold onto the property, so they need to get rid of the property.
There are many reasons beyond just the house that could be happening.
Some people just sometimes bite much more than they can chew.
There are marketing skills that you have to put in place to find these kinds of homeowners and properties.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::| Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
GET MY BOOKS ON AMAZON https://amzn.to/2VRzdvE
FREE @ AUDIBLE SMART REAL ESTATE WHOLESALING - https://adbl.co/2OeYqI2 REAL ESTATE MONEY SECRETS - https://adbl.co/2HuHPQa
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Question: “How much do real estate wholesalers make a year?”
This is not a job, can we keep that clean?
Let’s just make that clear right now.
This is building an empire.
How much a wholesaler makes a year depends on so many factors.
So there's no given number that everyone just makes a year.
What I can tell you is that, there are people that are succeeding the most in this, there are people that target a million dollars a year.
They just target the seven figures because everything below that will basically be like, this is about building an empire.
You have to be quite aggressive.
Not necessarily with the people, but with yourself with regards to your entrepreneurship skill set.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST ::::| Ola "Tux" Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO and author of Smart Real Estate Wholesaling. He became a FULL TIME entrepreneur in October 2006.
He is a computer engineer and an engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; (NJIT) class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria by his Nigerian parents. He considers himself a proud Nigerian American.
Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly, he is husband and a father. The professional work he is mostly proud of is personally helping 1,000+ entrepreneurs around the world reach greater heights in their careers.
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