No One Should Live in Fear! The Self Defense Podcast for everyone! We talk about using a firearm for self defense and awareness.
For this podcast, I got with Rob Morse of the Slow Facts Blog, Self-Defense Gun Stories, and Gun Freedom Radio.
We talked about some of the terrorist attacks in Israel and what you can do if those come to our shores.
When should you change your carry ammo? Is it necessary? Will carry ammo go bad? What could make it go bad?
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Be the leader now so that you can learn to be better if you ever have to defend yourself or your family.
Like every skill you have for self-defense, de-escalation should be practiced any time you can.
I'm here to tell you that tactics are more important than the gear and the skill you have with the gear. Your understanding of what is going on and your move toward what you want to happen is your tactics.
A definition of gear is obvious, it's the stuff you have. The definition of skill is how you can use that gear. Your tactics are the overall mindset and how to employ your skills towards a goal. It's just bigger thinking...
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I spent 10 years in the Marine Corps including a combat tour and being part of an anti-terrorism force. I left the Marine Corps to return to Iraq as a private contractor for the U.S. Government fighting terrorism. I gave a large portion of my adult life to fighting terrorism and the horrors that most people don't want to deal with. To me, a terrorist is about the lowest scum on earth.
Then in 2008, I was called a terrorist for the first time by then-President Obama. The term domestic terrorist had just started and I was on the list. Being a white male, military-aged, former military, contractor, Christian, and gun owner I was on the top of the list. Everyone thought I was crazy for saying the United States Government could do such a thing. The truth is they have been doing it for a long time. Welcome to the party!
Through the years it has only gotten worse. I know I'm on every watch list the government has which makes me both sad and proud. Yes, I will associate with the deplorable's, that is almost half the country. Yes, I cling to my religion and my guns. Yes, I'm proud to be an American. Yes, I think our government f's things up a lot. At least I'm not on the no-fly list... yet.
All of these lists that you don't know you are on, how you got there, or how to get off are a threat to every free person in the world. And I don't know how to fix it.
It is not time to fight the great boogaloo (which is now a terrorist word as indicated by a leaked FBI memo). I'm trying to get more involved at my local political level because I know local politicians grow up to be state and federal politicians.
This blog is about self-defense. So you might ask how all that plays into your self-defense. Well, the "Justice System" hasn't been not been impartial for a long time, it has gotten worse. If the "they" of the world think you are on the wrong side it appears unlikely you will get a fair trial.
Do you remember the Austin protester during a BLM protest that was carrying an AK openly and gave a weird interview with his rifle right before the shooting? Then an Army Sergeant driving for Uber, carrying a concealed handgun with a license smoked him after ending up in the crowd by mistake. The Army Sergeant got convicted of Murder early this year over three years after the shooting.
I've known since I was a teenager that the deck was stacked against me if I have to use deadly force. It was what I was taught in Law Enforcement and it didn't take much research at the time to see that if the U.S. Government wanted you, they were going to convict you.
So, you are out there, just trying to protect yourself. Take extra care in what you do. Be more mindful to stay out of places that might put you and your family in danger. Be more careful about where you insert yourself into other people's problems. And be more careful about who you argue with. All of this could end you up in prison for the rest of your life... and is more likely to happen now than it was five years ago.
In conclusion, welcome to this shitty party that somehow we all ended up in.
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Ben
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Going against the grain takes humility, guts, and the chance to lose.
Courage, like most things, is a muscle that you have to exercise in life. If you don't practice courage, it will atrophy and die.
How often do you practice courage? Moral and or physical? Do you do new things that you are going to look foolish at? Do you accept challenges when others ask you to do something that should be possible? Do you do things that are hard that others say are hard, shouldn't be done, or is impossible? Do you do different hard things on purpose because they are hard and scary?
Take a challenge. Do something hard. Say something when you know something should be said. Practice your courage. If what people are saying in the firearms/2nd Amendment culture is true, we are going to need courage both moral and physical soon. Now would be a good time to practice.
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Ben Branam
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Going against the grain takes humility, guts, and the chance to lose.
Courage, like most things, is a muscle that you have to exercise in life. If you don't practice courage, it will atrophy and die.
How often do you practice courage? Moral and or physical? Do you do new things that you are going to look foolish at? Do you accept challenges when others ask you to do something that should be possible? Do you do things that are hard that others say are hard, shouldn't be done, or is impossible? Do you do different hard things on purpose because they are hard and scary?
Take a challenge. Do something hard. Say something when you know something should be said. Practice your courage. If what people are saying in the firearms/2nd Amendment culture is true, we are going to need courage both moral and physical soon. Now would be a good time to practice.
Stay Safe,
Ben Branam
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If you have to defend yourself should you give medical aid to the person that just tried to hurt you?
No. Is the simple easy answer and should be the end of it.
Three things to consider when making this decision:
The Tactical Situation; will this act put you further in danger?
Morally; is it the right thing to do?
Legally; will this make your actions more or less defendable in court?
See the entire discussion on https://modernselfprotection.com
Habits are good and bad, but Training Scars will get you in trouble. Start with a good war story to show you had training scars creep into all of us.
What training scars and bad habits do you have that will "get you killed in the street?"
I know you have at least one, we all do.
Check out the full notes at ModernSelfProtection.com/habits-good-bad-and-training-scars
Last weekend I participated in a church mass shooter training event. Most of the time I’m the instructor or coordinator, but this time I actually got to participate.
My church got a bunch of volunteers to volunteer to be actors in the scenarios. Our head of church safety organized and ran the training. It was a lot of fun, and I got to mix it up with the bad guys more than once. Didn’t even die this time. Not bad…. but…
Most of the scenarios were normal church shooter events; one domestic violence, one attack on the pastor, one run of the mill mass killer, but the last one was an attempted hostage scenario.
I say attempted because the safety team ended it before it could begin. A couple was arguing during church service and the guy was instructed to get up, pull a gun, and do a Hollywood gun to the head back against the wall thing to see how we would work together throughout the situation.
Turns out most of us on the team are default aggressive...
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Should you get involved in a crime in progress? Yesterday on the way home from work I saw a crime in progress or what looked like one.
I was driving down a busy street that has a large homeless problem and high crime. It's a shortcut to miss some traffic through downtown San Antonio. It is a shortcut I use a lot.
As I stopped at the light I saw one guy running full speed from around the back of a business and someone hot on his heels.
The second guy gave away that a crime was probably in progress. He was holding something inside his pants right above his right front pocket. His pants were too big and it looked like if he let go, he would lose whatever heavy thing he was holding there. The way he was holding it, I couldn't tell if it was a lead pipe, gun, or big knife.
Should I have gotten involved?
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If you get caught in the aftermath of a mass shooter what should you do? Yes, mass killer would be a better description now that vehicles and knives are becoming popular. If you are in the area of a Mass Killer what should you do after the killing has stopped? Here are some things to think about.
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Do you really need to vary your schedule to be safe?
Common knowledge around varying your schedule and where it came from.
Why you might be safer by not following the "common sense" here.
Book mentioned on the podcast:
"Left of Bang" by Patrick Van Horne and Jason Riley
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Do the simple shit first. Then worry about becoming John Wick.
Start with what you know you should do and the advertisements you see everywhere that you ignore.
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Self Defense is one of the most serious things we could ever talk about. It's all about doing combat with another individual where your life hangs in the balance. Seems like it should be serious all the time. Right?
Like most disasters, it’s not the actual event that changes things, it’s the reactions to the event. I sat at home for two days waiting for my call to report. By the third day, I went back to life.
Life had changed in America, for the better. Somehow we were all Americans again and all the little things, I call them “1st world problems”, were no longer a problem. People appreciated each other and wanted to help.
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NRA Cancelled
Not a surprise with what is going on in Texas and Covid, but their letter to people showed their true colors and they should be ashamed of themselves.
Broken Gun
I've been having more and more issues with my carry gun and think I figured it out. But how do you spot problems with your gun and what to do about it.
Heat Injuries
It's been hotter than crap lately and I was not doing well at the competition yesterday until another shooter noticed and gave me an extra bottle of water. I go and go until I fall out. Don't be like me, notice this stuff coming so someone else doesn't have to save you.
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Ben
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Carrying every day is an art. It's one you have to work on all the time. And sometimes you can't always carry an optimal way.
When I worked for an armored car company I carried in an optimal way. And I carried two 1911's. One on my right thigh in a tactical rig before tactical rigs were popular. The other was in a pancake holster on my left side high just behind my hip.
Then there was a third gun no one knew about in my left back pocket. Everything was optimized for what I did for a living and did every day. My left side 1911 actually set further back behind my hip than you would think was optimal. But it fit perfectly there under my body armor because it sat just behind the piece that wrapped around my side. This way the gun didn't get caught by my body armor and pinch my skin or get caught on the draw.
It took me almost three years working on my setup to come up with my perfect carry methods. Then my company changed the policy and thigh rigs were no longer permitted. Then it changed again to say 1911's were no longer permitted.
Things always change, and you should be open to new things if they continue to let you carry a gun daily.
Do you go to the square range to practice self-defense? Should you?
Last week I went to the square range and worked on my self-defense shooting with my friend from Doctors for Responsible Gun Ownership, John.
We shot his new Colt Python (if you want to hear about that you will have to become a Shooter's Club Member) and I worked with my self-defense gun.
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Do you have a plan for if things go wrong?
While no plan survives the first contact, the best part of your plan is the objective. In the Marine Corps, we called it the Commander’s Intent. You are going to do this so that this other thing can happen.
When you are the one making the plan, the first thing you need to know is what is the other thing that you want to happen.
I break my planning down to simple things, in this order:
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As a contractor, I was in charge of base security at a large FOB (Forward Operating Base) in Iraq. The base commander wanted me to make sure no one ever got hurt on his base. I tried explaining to him that I could simply mitigate the risks from outside the wire but I couldn't stop everything. Someone will fall out of their rack or worse, and what did happen, a soldier committed suicide on the base right after I left. It was horrific, but it was something I couldn’t stop or even begin to work on as a security specialist focused on the threats from the outside.
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Situational Awareness is the one thing that was drilled into me in Law Enforcement and the Military. It is the one thing that directly overlaps from law enforcement, military, and self defense. Why? It is the one thing that will allow you to buy time in an emergency. And time is everything when someone is trying to take your life.
Two things to work on, improve, and practice situational awareness are to notice normal so you can see the abnormal, and ask why people are there at that point in time. What are they doing?
If you work on these two easy things you can move towards mastering your situational awareness and your self-defense.
Noticing normal lets you see when something else is missing or coming. Everywhere you go, there is a normal or baseline. Anything outside that rhythm should stand out to you if you are paying attention.
The one law enforcement always talks about is when it is 100 degrees out and someone walks in wearing a trench coat buttoned up. In the military, it was always looking at what the people are doing around you. If people are leaving quickly or don’t show up like normal they probably know something that you don’t in a foreign land.
A couple of Marines wrote an entire book about it called “Left of Bang”. If you want to know more about noticing normal and then noticing when something is out of place, it is a great book.
The second is to ask “why is this person here?” At first, you will suck at it, but as you do it a bunch you will be able to figure out the stories behind people at the local stop and rob you are at to get gas and a drink. If you do it for a while, you will find that one person that is there to victimize someone. Hopefully, you will figure it out before they victimize you.
Bad guys come in all shapes, sizes, colors, and genders. You have to figure out why that person is looking at you, why they are there, and what they are going to do. If you know this before that person acts, the encounter slows way down and you can buy the most valuable thing in a violent encounter, time.
When you answer that why question you get in front of the reaction curve and you can make that person react to you instead of you having to react to them.
Listen to the podcast to get more examples and motivation on how to be better at your situational awareness (SA).
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A gun and knife are only tools, your mind is the weapon, train it well.
That has been the closing of the Modern Self Protection Podcast for about eight years now. Everything you learn about self-defense should start with your mindset. Your mindset is the one skill that will enhance all the others.
You can break down your mindset into three easy thoughts.
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Last week I shot competition with a Sig P365XL and Romeo 0 Dot. I shoot this competition about every other week right now and love it.
What I've learned about the Sig P365 serious of guns:
The Good:
They are a great sized gun
Love the family of sizes
12 rounds in the XL makes a full grip even for my giant hands
Reloads go easy with the correct flare on the bottom the pistol
15 round mags that work with both grip sizes
Accuracy is amazing for such a little gun
Reliability on a clean gun has been 100% out of all the ones that have been through classes and the ones I've shot
The trigger is good
Aftermarket support is everywhere
The Cons:
When training with them they get really hot, right where you put your thumbs on a thumbs forward grip
The trigger is a long way from the frame and the shot breaks a long way from the frame (something it took my realizing before I could shoot the pistol well)
I would have liked a little longer barrel in the XL, 3.9-4" I think is the best there is, the Sig XL has a 3.7" which is just a hair short on the sight radius
It recoils up a little more than I would like it to. But that is mostly because of it's small size and weight
The Sig Romeo 0 Dot
The Good:
It sits as a dot sight should. Far enough down where they put a notch in the back that replaces the rear sight and you can still use the front sight. It puts the gun on the same plain when you draw it and helps with the learning curve and switching guns.
They seem to be holding up with everything I've seen. I haven't seen a broken one yet on the range or in a class
The Bad:
Seeing a reflection of the dot where it isn't sucks! I don't know if every dot does this, but I don't like it at all
The auto-brightness setting can screw you when shooting from a dark place to a bright place. A manual up/down would be great. I'd rather have a huge starburst from being too bright in low light than not being able to see it at all in the bright light.
It looks like it will break. I haven't seen one break yet, but it looks weak.
If you want one of these set ups, you should get one. It's a great gun and Dot. I'm always looking for perfect and still haven't found it. But I think this set up will be my next carry gun. Or I'm also looking at a Sig M17 with a Romeo 1 Pro on it. Hopefully I can shoot one of those too.
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Are you always looking for the "new gun?" Do you fall into the shiny new syndrome?
Do you ever get shiny new gun syndrome?
I do. But is it good for you? When should you want a new gun. When should you get a new gun? Does it matter?
Yes, it matters. The more you stick with one gun, the more you will know that one gun and the better you will be with it. Keep trading guns and you will never know everything you can about the gun or be as good as you could be with it.
But is there a time to change that old gun for something else?
Yes, no, and maybe... I think when your old gun is no longer fitting how you fight, carry, or use the gun, then it is time for something new. If you have just worn out a gun, maybe you should just buy another of the same make and model and keep going.
Listen to the podcast and find out about the gun I'm thinking of getting a why? And why I don't like switching guns?
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Ben
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Glocks have internal safeties but no external or manual safety. Are internal safeties on a handgun you carry for self-defense enough?
Should you have a manual safety on your concealed carry handgun?
The answer, like most things in our world is “it depends”.
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"Until such time as the world ends, we will act as though it intends to spin on." - Nick Fury the Avengers
If you watch the news things are bleak at best. No matter what happens out there we are done is what the news says. I've decided to not watch the news. Because what do they know?
I've reached out to a bunch of my friends and they have reached out to me. You are not alone about some of the things you are thinking when you watch the news.
Have we passed the point of no return? I don't know... but it doesn't look good.
I've been asked what to do by a couple of people. The answer is simple but not easy.
First, you have to have your life, your relationships, your health, and your wealth shored up and ready to go.
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How is your hope for the future? What is your plan for the future?
Without hope, we won't do anything. You have to have hope for a better future. Admittedly, the future is tenuous at best. But it always has been.
For at least 100 years people have been worried about the United States collapsing. As long as we, the American People, don't turn on each other, America will live forever.
My worry is that we are turning on each other. And people are talking as if the next civil war is inedible. They are probably right, but I'd like to push that another 150 to 200 years before it happens.
We have to hope for the best, have a plan for that, and prepare for the worst and have a plan for that.
The best is what we have had in the last couple of years to a decade. Life has been good for Americans and the world. It has been nice.
But an old saying made famous by G. Michael Hopf in his book "Those Who Remain" says
"Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times."
It's a pretty wicked cycle. Somehow in our modern world, we have made some men strong and others weak. Now it seems like the weak men are leading the country creating hard times. Some men during the last couple of decades have been tested and made hard by battles.
Many of us fought the war on terror and like most of the last "wars" America fought we seem to be losing. I sight the "war on poverty," "the war on drugs" and the almost war on immigration. But the problem goes back to the Korean "War" that never was and has never ended.
Now some people think using the same "war" tactic in America to make policy the way they want it will work. Sure, why not?
Wars are bloody horrible things. We think it's something romantic and heroic. We, the American Colonies thought that when the Revolutionary war began. Then, we the American People thought that during the first couple battles of the Civil War. Now I see that again in people throughout our community.
I remember being a hero crying into a bear with other heroes and in those bad nights where sleep alludes me Get the rest at Hope for the Best, Prepare for the Worst at ModernSelfProtection.com
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Subscribe The top 4 self-defense techniques aren't some awesome kick, punch, or hold. The first three come in the form of your preparedness to defend yourself. The last one matches who your, what you are willing to practice, and what you can do for your self-defense.
We are all different with different lives. We will all face different attackers if we ever have to defend ourselves. Going back to the 80's movie "WarGames" quote by the computer at the end is "the only way to win is not to play."
This quote goes for self-defense as much as it does for global nuclear war. There is no way to truly win a self-defense situation. You will come away with something you don't want. You will lose something. If you fight and disable your attacker easily there will be a law enforcement inquiry and you will lose half a day's time just trying to answer questions (at the least). There may be a formal investigation and you might have to go to trial to justify your actions.
If you let the attacker win, you could lose everything up to and including your life. There is no "winning" a self-defense situation. You will lose something if you are truly defending yourself.
Here are the top 4 Self Defense Techniques:
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Subscribe Christmas is here! Thank God 2020 is almost over...
Are you traveling for Christmas? Do you want to stay safe while you are doing so?
Crime is up across the country. People are pissed about the entire Covid lockdown thing and starting to take it out on each other. Law Enforcement is busy with riots and Covid calls. They are getting overwhelmed by changing policies daily on what they are suppose to do or not do. This makes them less motivated to do proactive police work. Proactive police work is one of the things that keeps the crime rate down.
If you are going to a big city I can guarantee crime is up this year over last year. And dirtbags have families they want to give things to just like you.
This podcast is all about tips to keep you safe while you travel. Included are:
Listen to the podcast to get some great tips on keeping you and your family safe during the holiday season.
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I got a message from a listener asking about changing his carry gear for the season.
This question comes up every year and I don’t think about it until about this time of year because it doesn’t get cold in San Antonio until about now.
Last week we had our first real cold front and I had to change the way I dress.
Here are the things I think about when I’m changing my clothes for the season:
• Jacket Carry
• Smaller vs Bigger Gun
• Changing Holsters
• Changing Ammo
• Gloves
• Draw Change
• Where you wear your gun
• Everyone Looks like a Bag Guy
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Subscribe I went to the range on Black Friday with a friend just to shoot the bull and some steel. We went to Lonestar Handgun here in San Antonio where they have lots of steel out on the pistol line that we can just shoot at while talking.
I was worried that on Black Friday it would be a mess. Too many people in too small a place. It wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. But there is always one…
Unfortunately, I think it was a member of the range staff and I could see his mistake coming even if he didn’t. As range staff, instructors, and “firearms experts” we should be setting the example of how we want people to act on the range and how new shooters should act with a firearm.
For some reason he kept going back behind the counter and then walking to the line with a handgun pointed down, slide locked back, and filled magazine in his other hand. The first time he almost waited until he got into the booth before inserting the magazine and letting the slide go home to chamber a round. If I did that they would call it a safety violation and I’d expect to be at least talked to.
After the third or fourth time, he kept loading the magazine sooner and sooner while walking around the counter towards the firing line, he lifted the gun up in his workspace pointing the gun down the line of shooters, including me and my friend.
I tried to say something nice, but the sound of gunfire overwhelmed the words. And the fact that he was now looking back at the other range staff saying something.
A loud “hey, watch where you point that thing” came out before I could think of something more kind to say. He pointed the gun down range and that was the end of that. I’m always afraid I’ll get blowback when I say something, but I guess I’m big enough looking that no one really wants to mess with me.
If you have been around guns at all in your life, try to be the example of how guns should be handled any time you have one. There is always someone watching.
Range Safety
Just a recap of some of the safety stuff to follow. We could all use a refresher from time to time.
Treat every gun as if it were loaded.
Always point the gun in the safest direction possible.
Keep your finger straight and off the trigger until you are ready to fire.
Know your target and what lies beyond.
Some of you will notice that I have been changing number 2. The original from Jeff Cooper, the father of modern pistol fighting, was “never point the gun at anything you don’t intend to destroy.” I don’t like never’s, but like always when I’m trying to teach my brain to do something. No, I’m not implying that I’m smarter than Cooper, just that on the shoulders of giants we can see further. I’ve studied his work for almost 20 years.
Those four safety rules apply everywhere, always. They don’t change at the range, because you are an “expert” or an “advanced shooter” or any other BS reason I’ve heard. They always apply to everyone… always.
I use those safety rules at the range with friends, at high-speed low-drag spec ops schools I’ve been to, and in combat. They work.
Everything else is range etiquette. Some ranges will call them “range rules” or “safety rules” but they are just a way to respect other shooters.
Some of the simple basics should be:
• Only unbag or unholster your firearm when you are on the firing line and there is no one downrange.
• Never touch your firearm when there is someone downrange. You wait until everyone is back.
• Load firearms on the firing line only.
• Leave actions open when the gun is sitting on the table so everyone knows the condition of the firearm.
• Don’t rush in or out.
• Make sure the muzzle of the firearm is always pointed down range even when bagging and unbagging the firearm.
• Stay in your lane. Unless someone is doing something incredibly stupid, leave them alone.
• Don’t move guns from bay to bay unbagged.
• The only proper way to move a gun off the firing line is in a bag, box, or holster.
• If it is loaded it should be in your hand to shoot, or in a holster that protects the trigger from being accessed until removed. Long guns should have the safety on when not firing and should not be bagged with a round in the chamber.
I’m sure I forgot a couple, but if you stick to the safety rules and the above etiquete, people will appreciate going to the range with you a lot more.
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This is my story of how I survived Covid-19. It was my mind set that kept me out of the hospital and allowed me to recover.
I used “affirmations” that included cursing at myself every hour on the hour for about four days. The four days that I probably should have gone the hospital. But even in my depressed mental state I knew that going to the hospital upped my chances of not surviving and having more problems with Covid.
I refused to let this kill me or send me to the hospital. And now I’m back to work and back to life. I’m about 95% right now and still recovering. I’m hoping another week and I’ll be back to working out.
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After working at the gun shows on the weekend for the last 3 months I’ve found stupid again.
Most of the things I’ve forgotten about, on purpose I think.
This show we talk about some of the stupid that is out there and the things that just won’t die.
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I invited Frank Sharp Jr from Fortress Defense Consultants to join me to talk about the “great boogaloo” sort of…
We continued our conversation from two weeks ago. We restarted our conversation with Kitting Up and fighting. Frank starts with talking about decision making and one of my favorite tactics, patience.
Do you really need to fight? There may be a time when you can’t avoid it, but should you fight right now? Do you have to fight right now?
If you think you are going to fight, how ready are you for the fight? What’s your physical shape look like? When is the last time you wore your kit around? How long and how far can you move, stand, and fight under a combat load?
We also talk about what to stock up on right now. Ammo and firearms are still at a premium and if you don’t have a lot now is a hard time to get either. What is in abundance right now that you can stock up on? Toilet paper? Maybe… What is around your area that is cheap and in abundance. Maybe that is what you should be looking for to put in your storage.
We try to answer the hardest question for you, at what point can you not avoid the fight? Where is your line in the sand? Figure it out now.
I’ll be taking Frank’s course in January. Here is a link to the class. If you want to just be on the range training with me, this is a good class to take. If you want to get training from me check out my courses here.
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I invited Frank Sharp Jr from Fortress Defense Consultants to join me to talk about the “great boogaloo” sort of…
We laugh about the term and the thought of an all out Civial War in the US. The country is just too big and diverse for another actual Civil War that has two sides squaring off and going at it. If the fighting kicks off, it is going to be local. You will be fighting amongst your families, friends, and neighbors.
Frank Sharp Jr and I talk about how bad that could be for the country and how a lot of people just don’t understand what it is going to be like. It isn’t going to be go fight for a couple hours and then Netflix and chill for the rest of the night. It is going to be bloody and horrible in the places that have fighting.
If the fighting kicks off, we could lose all sanitation, trash disposal, running water, and electricity in our country. Most of the people talking about fighting don’t have a plan for this. These are the things that the movies don’t show you.
Frank Sharp Jr and I come to the conclusion that most of the knowledge that people have about medicine, law enforcement, and fighting come from TV and movies. And most of those shows are completely wrong.
For those of you with training, you laugh at the fighting just like I do. So don’t get your knowledge from the movies when it comes to how war is going to be. After being in combat I can tell you that Saving Private Ryan and Blackhawk Down are the only movies that even come close. And only parts of those movies are correct.
Next week Frank and I will continue the discussion about kitting up and going to fight and why it isn’t a good idea, and more importantly we hope that it doesn’t happen.
I’ll be taking Frank’s course in January. Here is a link to the class. If you want to just be on the range training with me, this is a good class to take. If you want to get training from me check out my courses here.
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Subscribe Where were you when the planes hit on 9-11? What did you feel that day? How did those feelings change in the following weeks?
I want you to remember that feeling of unity in the following couple weeks. How the country stood up together against one thing. Nothing else mattered. All the petty BS went away… even when the media tried to bring it back, we rejected it.
Everyone became patriotic overnight. American flags were everywhere, and everyone smiled at them.
Remember that feeling today. Remember how great it was when everyone stood together.
Try to spread that feeling and go talk to people. If we all look for that one thing in common we can find that one thing that links us.
No matter who you are and who that other person is, we all have more in common than not. If we find that one thing we have in common with someone else, we can build bonds, make friends, and make the world a better place.
This also works for your self-defense. Your friends are more likely to help you and stand with when bad times come. You’ll get involved and help friends, but strangers, or “those” people you might not.
Make friends, make yourself and your family safer, and make the world a better place.
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Kyle Rittenhouse is a divisive figure in the world. And will continue to be.
But what can we learn from the shooting? Tactically, how did he do? Legally, is there anything we could do better?
We need to analyze these incidents as learning tools so that you don’t end up in the same spot.
You may think Kyle did a good job during the shooting, but he is still in jail right now. And probably will be there for a long time. The trial could take years and they probably aren’t going to let him out on bail because of the politics around the shooting.
It looks like they will try him as an adult for murder. He will be sweating his life and freedom for years. He may end up like Jorge Zimmerman and will forever be on the run from people that want to kill him because of the incident. And one of those people may succeed and get him in the end.
How can we avoid this? Was it a good idea for him to kit up and go out?
More importantly, learn from him when you think about kitting up and going out. I’m not saying you should, or should not go. I’m saying that you should know all the risks involved and understand what could happen.
We also go through both shootings and the tactics there. How could have Kyle avoided both shootings all together? Is there something he could have done better once the shooting started?
All questions to answer and know before you decide to go or not go.
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Subscribe Thirty-Round AR Mags should be loaded at 28 rounds.
More and you risk your rifle malfunctioning.
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A question from a listener on how he can protect his family when out and about and at home when he has two little girls.
Having multiple people you are in charge of protecting creates more problems than one or none. How can you protect them?
We go into depth on what you can and should do before and during an attack to make sure you have the best chance of winning. Winning, in this case, means saving your family.
How do you do that when you are out and about and how can you protect your family when you are at home and they can’t protect themselves because they are too young or leave that to you?
My wife leaves most of that to me and doesn’t want to learn more than the basics. She is getting better and we talk about it on and off.
Talk to your family (age-appropriate) about bad people and what you do or are going to do to keep yourself and them safe.
Come up with some plans on how you will react and how you want them to react if something happens. Worth through the plan if at all possible with them.
Keep learning how you can protect your loved ones better. But remember the best one to protect them from violence is not to have them there. Work on your Avoidance, Awareness, and Escape and Evasion as much as you work on your fighting.
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“I'm not sure if you've talked about this before, I'd have to go back through my stitcher archives of your show, but I'm a family man with an 8 year old daughter and a 2 year old daughter that are usually out and about with me when I go out and I'm always worried about how to handle a self defense/active shooter/robbery type situation while the girls are with me. Keeping them safe is my only priority here, and so I've gone through the scenarios in my head but I just dont know what the best way to keep them on stuck to me after 'bang'. I know you're a father too so you've undoubtedly come up with plans to mitigate danger while ushering youngsters away. I'd love to hear your thoughts on that and ways to get through it, both out in public and in a home invasion scenario. By the way, thanks for the book recommendations a while back, I went on audible and got The Gift of Fear, and Left of Bang, both great books and a great deal of takeaways from both, thanks again man.”
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Mobs have been moving around as protests for months now. The violence seems more and more eminent. The chances of you getting stuck in one of these “protests” seems more and more likely.
What can you do if you find yourself in the middle of a protest with the protesters blocking traffic and starting to turn violent toward you?
This is an impossible dilemma. It’s like the Kobayashi Maru in Star Trek. The situation is designed for you to have a no one option and see how you do. This one could be the options of getting killed or spending the rest of your life in prison. The more I look at what is going on the more I think it has been designed that way be people that are manipulating the crowds or the agitators in the crowds.
You have to take responsibility for yourself and the only true way to win these situations is not to play. Even if you do everything right and defend yourself you still will have law enfocement and the media to deal with for a long time.
Keep up with your avoidance and awareness and stay away from locations of protests that could turn into riots. Don’t get into a fight is the only way to ensure you will win.
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Subscribe Face masks are becoming part of our world. Good, bad, or indifferent it seems they are here to stay.
Should you wear one or not for your health? I have no idea. That isn't my area of expertise. I've read a lot about it, just like I hope you have over the last five months.
But should you wear one for your physical security? I do.
I'm always trying to blend into my surroundings. If you are in the local Walmart and you are the only person not wearing a mask, you stand out... a lot.
Lately violence is on the rise. People are frustrated, scared, and pissed off. That's one step from violence. Look at some of the videos out there where people have an argument that turns into a fight. You probably don't need that in your life.
I actively try to avoid stupid people that do stupid things like getting in a fight over a face mask. I just don't want to play.
If you are not wearing a mask for political reasons or health reasons, I suggest that you keep a good eye on the people around you. If you have to, leave.
If you can't wear a mask for health reasons and someone challenges you about it, tell them once why you aren't wearing a mask. If they don't hear you, don't believe you, or are just indignant, you need to leave immediately because the situation has the potential to get violent.
Be the "Grey Man" and blend into your surroundings. Fly under the radar and only surface when you are ready.
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Last weekend I sold guns at the Big Town Gun Show just outside Dallas Texas. I worked for my old boss at Sparks Firearms. I worked at Sparks Firearms for about four years selling guns at gun shows and in the shop. The shop has since closed and only sells guns at a gun shop and by appointment only.
It had a blast being around all the gun people for the weekend and making money selling guns. I think it maybe one of the things I do best and I really enjoy it.
In this podcast I’ll share my experience of how the gun industry and gun market are looking right now. As well as some of the research I’ve been doing lately about what is going on.
I had some interesting observations on a social level too, like: Covid is annoying, and racism really does still exist, and what’s scarring new gun buyers into buying.
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I got a question from a listener named Scott about how to get the best out of a recent class he took. Scott was concerned that most of the instructor’s time was spent with newer students and that he didn’t all he could of out of the class. He wanted to know how to do it better.
This podcast is a bunch of tips for beginner to expert students on how you can get more out of your class budget.
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Went to a pretty good training class over the weekend. I noticed that the instructors focus most of their attention on the students that needed the most work. How do "better" shooters get the help they want in a class?
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Are you as prepared as you think you are? Have you been tested? Have you tested yourself? Are you improving everything in your life?
We all like to think we are prepared for anything. And if you have your mindset right, you can get through anything. You are prepared. But can you do it better?
The answer to everything in life is always yes. You can do it better.
I use after actions on everything to do it better next time. I have a simple formula that can help you.
Check out the podcast and see how you can do everything in life better.
This came up for me when I had to bug-out unexpectedly two weeks ago. I thought I was prepared, but there are things I can improve.
I bet you are the same way. Here is how you can be better.
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How much do you practice your self-defense skills? All of them? Your handgun, rifle, knife, hand-to-hand, physical fitness, and avoidance all need practice, training, and work.
Where do you start? How can you be good enough? How much time should you make to practice your skills? How much training should you get?
From my experience in 11-gun fights, you will never be as good as you want to be. You will always wish you worked on something more. You will never wish you worked on your skills less.
In this podcast, I created five categories of handgun self-defense skill sets. Which one do you fall into? Are you working to get to the next category?
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Jarrad Markel from Student of the Gun is my guest. Jarrad is a great guy and has been working on Student of the Gun for almost 10 years, carrying a gun since he was legally able, was a professional MMA fighter for about 5 years, and started taking self-defense firearms courses when he was 16!
Jarrad has a unique place in the world since his father is Paul Markel. Paul has been a trainer and in the firearms industry for almost 30 years. Jarrad got to grow up learning and handing out with a lot of big names in the firearms and training community.
Even with those advantages, it turns out he has a bucket of holsters like the rest of use. But when it comes to holster selection, he has been using the same one for almost 10 years.
Jarrad has his own business. A consulting group where he helps other people get through the social media landscape and other things. And we talk about how much both of us like social media right now.
I asked the obvious questions about what gun and holster he carries, how he is doing with the riots across the country, and why a professional fighter carries a gun.
Listen to the podcast to learn more.
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Back to basics: Mindset.
Mindset is the most important skill you can learn. You need to learn to be positive and that you can and will survive… and even win if it comes down to it.
In a violent encounter, you need to have your mind in the right place to win. In fact, it starts before you get into any encounter. What is your mindset? Are you in it to win it? Are you there to survive? Or do you mind avoiding the fight altogether?
If possible, have the mindset to avoid the fight. It is the only fight you can’t lose. Once in a physical altercation, anything could happen. Even people with no skill or training get lucky sometimes and when. You don’t want to depend on luck for your self-defense.
If you can’t avoid the fight, you have to have the mindset that you are going to win and get back to your family.
Winners go home, survivors go to the hospital, losers go to the morgue. Which do you want to be?
And you have to win all three aspects of the fight: The violent encounter itself, the phycological battle of what you did or didn’t do, and the criminal “justice” system. None of these are easy, but you need to be ready by getting your mindset right first.
You are going to win the violent encounter because you know what your mission is and why you are fighting. You are going to win the phycological battle because you have already thought about what you will and will not do or allow done to you and your family. You know your lines in the sand. And you are studying the legalities and politics of the use of force in your area so you can stay within the law.
Get your mind right and you can win any battle.
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“Better to be tried by 12 than carried by 6.”
Yes, but why does it have to be either-or… how about we win the fight legally and avoid being tried by 12 and carried by 6. Just a thought.
Change your mindset in your life from either or, to both, or find another way.
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This is Five Minute Friday (FMF), just a little quick tip on how you can think differently about your self-defense in today’s modern world. Things are always changing, but we always have to remember the basics. These tips are designed to keep the perspective of basic self-defense while looking at our ever-changing world.
Last week I went to Dallas Texas for an interview. I’ve been there a dozen times and driven every time. I normally don’t research what’s going on there, but because of COVID and Riots I took 20 minutes before I left to research what was going on in the city and surrounding area.
Do you research where you are going before you travel? It’s a good idea to find out what normal is before you get that. And avoidance being the best way to defend yourself, you can find out where you don’t want to go. This way you can avoid stopping in the worst parts of town where you are the most likely to have a problem.
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We study techniques of gunfighting everywhere. We hold up our shooting skills (technique) above all to show how we will win a gunfight. But the route world of gunfight is fight, not gun.
Everyone talks about that, but what tactics do you really study, know, and will implement in an actual gunfight? That gets harder.
You should be studying tactics at least as much as you are studying techniques. Whatever amount of time and effort you use to go shooting, take classes, and work on shooting better is the same amount you should be putting forward to use tactics.
And when you practice your technique do you practice your tactics too? How about when you draw, move towards cover. Don’t just stand there flat footed and hope your shooting skills will be good enough to win the fight.
It takes a lot of shooting skill to overcome bad tactics (a lot).
It would be better if you worked on your tactics and put yourself in a position that made it almost impossible for you to lose and the shooting element was so simple that it made you laugh.
That’s a better way to win a gunfight then standing toe to toe and seeing who can draw faster and make the most hits before the other guy. No one fights like the OK Corral since the OK Corral. It didn’t go well for either side that day.
We want to walk away as the winner.
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This is Five Minute Friday (FMF), just a little quick tip on how you can think differently about your self-defense in today’s modern world. Things are always changing, but we always have to remember the basics. These tips are designed to keep the perspective of basic self-defense while looking at our ever-changing world.
Today I had a close call in a Walmart parking lot. It turned out to be nothing but I want to make sure I don’t end up in that spot again.
The correct military term is to do an After Action Review so you can see what you could have done better, what you missed, and what you did right.
I missed someone getting too close to me. He wanted to ask a question about the church I go to, but that was beside the point. I let him get too close and ketch me a spot where I had little to no maneuvering room.
If he had done something my only chance would have been a frontal assault. I let him get me stuck between two cars and my car door. There was no retreat or cover to take. My only chance would have been deception and patience or a full out frontal attack in a little confined area. I don’t like any of those options.
I should have kept going past my parked car and doubled back to see what he was doing more. I should have been paying more attention. I thought he had gotten to his car and wrote him off.
Turns out, his car was the one parked behind mine and I was right about that. But I was wrong about him getting into his car.
So I learned something the easy way. I hope you learn things the easy way by doing after actions on anything that happens to you.
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There is talk about defunding police everywhere. I have friends in California law enforcement that are taking a 10% pay cut across the board. Minneapolis is talking about defunding their police force altogether.
Is there a way we can make the police better without a radical change? Is there an answer if we disband a police department and still have law enforcement?
I don’t know what will happen in Minneapolis, but I know it isn’t good.
There are a lot of problems with police officers and departments most people don’t know about. I’ll give you a bunch of those and some of the easy things we could do to fix it.
Most things can be fixed. Like all problems, all we need is time and money to make things better. While that seems easy when we have government money it isn’t. That’s tax money. And the tax money won’t be going to make someone else rich or more powerful. So you know they will fight it tooth and nail.
If we burn down the police department and fire everyone is there a way to have private come in and take over? It might be possible, and we might bet a better product.
How good is the police force right now? What could we do to make them better?
We talk about all that and more on this podcast.
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This is Five Minute Friday (FMF), just a little quick tip on how you can think differently about your self-defense in today’s modern world. Things are always changing, but we always have to remember the basics. These tips are designed to keep the perspective of basic self-defense while looking at our ever-changing world.
When is the last time you practiced true empathy for someone outside your circle? Did you feel for George Floyd and his family when you watched him die on camera? I did… and it was horrible. I got sad, I got scared, and I got mad!
I’m sure most people felt the same thing. But what about his family? What about him? What do you think he felt laying there blacking out with a “peace officer” sitting on his neck?
Little different feelings?
Now we have protests that turn into riots. I can understand people’s anger. I’m there. It's not about doing and being with them, it's about feeling what they feel.
I don’t understand racism… really. I’m a white male that grew up in a white middle-class neighborhood in southern California. I knew a lot of Hispanic people growing up, but no black people. I saw racism on both sides of white versus Hispanic but what do I know of black racism?
What got me on the empathy kick was hearing a message from about a black man teaching his preteen son that the son cannot go to a police officer in America for help when something happens because most cops will assume he did it.
What a horrible thing. It’s something I have empathy for. I teach you as a self-defense person who carries a gun, to have no doubt, that if you have an official interaction with a police officer and you do it wrong, your life is in danger. A misunderstanding can get you killed.
I have empathy and can understand that fear. I took that and looked at my own son. I don’t want to teach him that he is in danger if he has an interaction with a police officer. Just think about doing that and how much it would suck. Now you have empathy for someone.
Take that into de-escalation techniques and you have something you can use to keep yourself safe.
Like any self-defense strategy, you need to practice.
Practice every day when you are interacting with other people. You will get better at it and it will make you a better person because you will care about more people and be able to help them out.
When you help other people, you make the world a better place. Simple.
When you can have empathy for people you can use it to your advantage in a dangerous situation. Cops call it Verbal Judo and it’s been around since 1980 something.
Now go practice every chance you get.
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Those are hard questions. What if the President of the United States said he is making himself king? Would that be a reason to riot? What if elections this year are cancelled. Is that a reason to riot?
So there could be a reason that you would riot.
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Is there a reason that you would riot? Loot? Pillage? Hurt innocent people?
Is there a line you wouldn’t cross?
Is there a line, once crossed, all the gloves come off?
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Police are overwhelmed right now
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This will die out
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One man’s terrorist is another man’s freedom fighter…
Is there a time when you would riot? Commit “terrorism”?
Scary and interesting times we live in.
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This is Five Minute Friday (FMF), just a little quick tip on how you can think differently about your self-defense in today’s modern world. Things are always changing, but we always have to remember the basics. These tips are designed to keep the perspective of basic self-defense while looking at our ever-changing world.
Have you noticed is harder to figure out what people are doing when they are wearing a mask? The eyes are supposed to be the windows to the soul, but I never realized how much I used other facial cues to interact with the people around me. When someone is wearing a mask you will need to look at different body language to see what their intent is.
Here are a couple of body language things you can look for:
Target Glance
When someone stares at something but doesn’t want to get caught looking, or they keep subconsciously looking back and forth from what they are pretending to do and what they are actually thinking about.
This could be a clue in what the person is really thinking about and his subconscious mind has him looking at it.
This could be a problem when someone is supposedly shopping but is really there to victimize someone. If they keep looking at you, you may be their next victim.
Toes Facing Away
We subconsciously point our feet at what we are thinking about. If someone is thinking about the ice cream on the top shelf in front of them, their toes will be pointed towards the ice cream.
If the person is looking at ice cream but thinking about victimizing you, their toes may be pointed at you. Something to look for and if you see it, it will look out of place and you should probably leave.
Fingers doing odd things
Yes, we talk with our hands and count on our fingers. Even when it is self-dialog. But, if you see a nervous twitch or the person’s hands shaking, it could be an indication of an adrenaline dump.
If someone is on the ice cream aisle getting sherbet, they shouldn’t be having an adrenaline dump. Something might be about to go down, now would be a good time for you to leave.
Unusual Energy Level
Are they as excited or as calm as everyone else there? If their energy level is extremely calm this could be a criminal that has practiced putting himself at ease before an attack.
Right now, during covid crazy, everyone is a little on edge and has some nervous energy they are moving around with. If someone is calmer then everyone else, that could be the indication of a problem and it might be time for you to leave.
On the other side, if everyone is calming moving about their everyday lives and find someone that looks like they are bounding with energy like a kid you just told is going to Disney Land, this might be an indication the person in question just had an adrenaline dump and is not handling it well. Probably a good time to leave.
Why is that person here?
Always my go-to question. If you can answer that, then you will know if someone is there to hurt you. Practice when you are out with other people. People watch and try to figure out what they are doing at that location at that time.
As a practice, don’t just figure out that they are shopping like you, try and figure out a little of that person’s back story for being there.
The more you practice and observe people to see if they are right, the better you will get at the game, and the easier it will be to spot people that are up to no good.
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Subscribe Today: Violence is a part of our world… good, bad, or indifferent, it is there. If you are forced to fight, how much violence should you use?
The obvious answer is enough. But what is enough? Have you studied it? Have you really thought about it? Have you checked your thoughts with someone that understands violence? Where did you get your ideas of violence?
Unfortunately, most of us get our ideas about violence from TV shows and movies… and that is completely wrong.
Now social media would be a better place to get an idea about what true violence looks like from people that do violence for a living. And I don’t mean law enforcement or the military. They have checks on how much violence they are allowed to do.
Some criminals use violence every day. They have learned it the hard way. And they practice all the time. These people are experts in the use of violence that most of us will never understand. They do it as a practical matter of purpose. It’s how they get places in life.
We need to understand true violence so that we can use it if we have to.
Whenever possible getaway, period. Do not do violence if there is another way out.
Once the violence is started, go first, use speed, surprise, and violence of action to win. Use complete and overwhelming violence to win.
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Three ways to win a fight:
How much violence: Complete and overwhelming violence
Rethink where you get information about violence from:
Think like a violent street fighter
Watch this guy get surprised:
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If you are going to use force, use overwhelming force to win.
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Subscribe Today: This is Five Minute Friday (FMF), just a little quick tip on how you can think differently about your self-defense in today’s modern world. Things are always changing, but we always have to remember the basics. These tips are designed to keep the perspective of basic self-defense while looking at our ever-changing world.
What will your new normal look like? After going through any major life event there will always be a new normal. Ask any military member that has deployed for any length of time.
You go overseas and come back and things are not the same
We look at it the same way. We want to “normal” to return after Covid Crazy, but it won’t.
You will have a new normal. And you can make it good or bad. This is your chance to reinvent yourself.
Reinvent how you work, where you work, when you work, who you work with, where you go, who you go with, how you act, what self-defense measures you take. Everything you can think of, this is your chance to make it different and better.
Are you going to take this chance or are you going to let government tell you what your “new normal” will be? The only thing I trust government to do is put their boot on my neck. No thank you.
I’m going to figure out what my new normal is and I’m going for it. I want to work in gun sales again. I’m going for it and working on it.
Figure out what you want your normal to be and go for it. This is a great opportunity if you take it.
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Subscribe Today: Shooting and moving is one of the hardest things to train. I know you don’t have access to a training facility most of the time, taking classes is not always viable (cost, time, and locations), and shooting a local match just isn’t the same thing. Here is where you can start training yourself to shoot and move. This is how you can start learning how to bust off the X in a fight.
This is a simple crawl/walk/run method. Start at the very beginning and go slowly. I know you have been shooting for a long time and are ready to jump right in! I feel you… I’m the same way. But doing this without going through all the steps in dangerous. You need to go slowly, start at the crawl part, and move forward one step at a time slowly.
The reason most people don’t teach this method is twofold: 1 – It can be dangerous and people get over-excited and try to go too fast and hurt themselves or someone else. Go slow! 2- This is hard. It takes some time, effort, and work to be able to get it. With a coach sitting there showing and teaching you, it’s really more like a parlor trick.
I am peeling back the curtain and showing you how to start from the very beginning and go forward. To do these techniques you need some basic understanding of how to draw and shoot the gun safely and actually be able to hit the target.
Listen to the podcast, take notes, and go step by step and you can learn to shoot and move at home.
“Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.” Theodore Roosevelt
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Getting off the X I first heard from James Yeager years before he was an internet star
Movement is life
Either Shoot and Move like I’m telling you too or learn to move then shoot like most instructors teach. And, in the words of Paul Carlson, use “real-world movement.” Don’t just take a half step on the range.
Shoot/Move/Communicate is bull and doesn’t work, don't worry about it
How to Learn – The best way is from an instructor. Check out these other two:
Craw/Walk/Run Method – Little steps at a time moving really slow at the beginning
Crawl: Learn to draw the gun facing different directions
Walk: Practice new shooting positions at the range
Then back home to practice drawing into the shooting position you refined at the range
Run: Draw the gun while moving and shoot while moving
Smooth is fast – Fast is smooth: Be as smooth and as slow as possible to start with
The easier thing: Move and then stop, then shoot
Moving While Shooting vs Moving then Shooting
Last Thought: Move with a purpose
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Subscribe Today: Don’t forget your self defense as your country and city start opening around you and you are headed out to have fun and get back to life.
This was going to happen sooner or later. We were going to get back to life and back to work. I’m ready… don’t know about you.
Different parts of the country should open at different rates. And just because they open doesn’t mean you have to go. Do your own threat assesment to your individual situation.
This video talks about when you start going back out. Remember all the other self defense thing you did before. There will be a new normal in your town no matter what anyone says on the news. You will adapt and overcome like your ancestors have for thousands of years. It will be okay.
Three things to remember as you head out to embrace what life will look like now:
Be patient with people. We will all adapt to our new normal at different paces. Everyone is a little pissed off right now, going stir crazy at home, or just having a bad year. They may be pissed at the world and situation and not you, but it’s coming out directed at you.
Have a little extra patience as you deal with people, problems, and stores.
Continue to keep your distance. I don’t know if that will help for the virus but it will help for your self defense. Now you have the excuse to ask people to step back out of your personal space. Use this time to set a new normal for your personal distance. You can set it at double arms distance instead of being packed in places.
I know that it’s possible everywhere, but no longer except that people have to be on top of you in stores or in line. We can stay away from each other respectfully.
Keeping this six-foot distance can be your new normal and will make you safer. If someone wants to attack you, they have to violate that space. The bigger that personal bubble you can make around yourself the more time you have to decide if someone is there to hurt you and the more time you have to act before you get hurt.
The last one should go without saying, but I’m going to say it anyways. Have all your self defense tools. Everything you can carry legally plus some first aid supplies. You never know what will happen, when or where. Some of us are no longer in the habit of wearing our gear every day. Don’t forget it. Get used to it again. And take all of it with you.
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