Hosted by life coach Peter Blanks and Stephen Spargo. Tune in as Stephen and Peter try make sense of life.
Why is Marriage So Tough at Times?
Why do some lifelong relationships click, while others just tick away like a time bomb? And how can you prevent a marriage from going bad—or rescue one that already has?
Find out about - The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, The 7 Principles of Making a Marriage Work – the book
Avoid the 4 horseman
Practice one of the principles the next week practice another
This week – look to turn conflicts into conversations
This week Peter and Stephen talk about Self Help, It’s Not a Quick Fix....or maybe somtimes it is!
From the show
ACT = Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
3 pillars – OPEN – AWARE – ACTIVE = Psychological Flexibility
OPEN
Acceptance = Make room for whatever shows up inside of you – ‘let whatever happens be OK. Notice your resistance to what is
Notice that your thoughts are just thoughts – Fusion and Defusion
AWARE
Use this Moment to bring your awareness to this exact moment – without Judgement = Mindfulness
Self as Context = you are big enough to contain all of your internal experiences as they happen – no need for overwhelm
ACTIVE
Take Purposeful action in the service of what you care about - Values – What's important to you
Choose the direction that you want to head in - The Choice Point
This week Peter and Stephen explore - When I win Lotto … and Other Dodgy Thinking.
Focus for the week ……
ACT = Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
You cannot not think
Are We Becoming Experts at doing Anxiety and Stress??
Find out how taking note off how many times you hear the words stress being used can help your have less off it in your life.
Find out about things you can start doing Immediately! to lower Stress and Anxiety
We also talk about the Fly on the wall....