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A Social and Entertainment show 1-2 host panel giving the audience a different view point on social and entertainment news, with a sometime comical twist.
What do you find to be disrespectful in your relationship? Tye Tribbett says the church is wack
Should time determine the action you take in a relationship?Jamie Foxx talks about his mysterious illness
Did hiphop mess up our culture/generation?Is T.I right about the difference in cheating between men and women?
How soon is too soon for your mate to meet the family?Old school things that need to come back?
Do women like yes men or can a man say no???
Anita Baker kicks Babyface off concert tour
Pastor it's my party and I dance how I want to
Is there really ever a good reason to divorce?Are women who claim to be thick really fat?Heartbreak got NBA player on the sideline?
Is being single a choice or is dating really that bad?Getting your mates name tatooed on you?Can you be a respectable woman and dress Freaky?
Should your mate require you to make major changes to be with them? Did R kelly and AAliyah have a secret Child?
Five Memphis Cops Charged With Murder in Death of Tyre Nichols Erykah Badu Faces Backlash After Showing Off Assets with 18-Year-Old DaughterDo people still baby trap to keep a relationship?
Can you be soulmates without marriage?Curvy teacher catches backlash due to her appearance 3 sentenced for murder of family dollar security guard
Does your mate claiming single on social media present a problem for you? Grandma Holla Passes awayAlabama Basketball player charged with capital Murder
Could you be with a mate whose family doesn't like you? Why such disrespect towards pastors?The new House Party, should they have just let it die?
Is it wrong to kiss and tell?Woman hits man in the head with a bowling ball.Kevin Gates admits to drinking urine
Should the woman return the ring if the wedding is called off? Police: 6-year-old shoots teacher in Virginia classroomMissing Detroit barber David Woodger has been found dead
Who takes the biggest lose in a bad Relationship Men or women?The Black family who won the return of Bruce's Beach will sell it back to LA CountyGabrielle Union ‘felt entitled’ to infidelity during first marriage
Do every breakup deserves closureDetroit Mother shot and killed during robbery at detroit storeJayru Cambell Ex-quarterback in trouble again
Why do we think we got forever?Driver transporting bodies to funeral homes fired for posting videos on TikTokROMEO MILLER ACCUSES MASTER P OF WITHHOLDING MONEYR.I.P Grand Daddy I.U
Does whipping your kids workDaughter trashes father at his funeral.Jerry jones blast from the past photo comes to. light, is the dallas cowboys owner in trouble?
When does a Joke stop being a joke?
Boston Celtics owner Wyc Grousbeck says suspension of coach Ime Udoka the result of monthslong investigationBrooklyn Pastor Arrested After Being Caught on Camera ‘Choking’ Woman During Sunday Service
If good looks are most important can you truly be in love? Aries Spears and Tiffany Haddish being sued for skit Erica Banks Twerking in Front of High School Teens
Should there be any changes to the man code?
N.Y. fire captain, accused of pressuring Black firefighter to attend racist party, retires
Tevin Cambell comes out the closet
Detroit's Giant Slide dangerous
Woman warns about tissue on car
Can you hold your peace knowing someone is stabbing you in the back?
Neyo's divorce and cheating
Is it wrong to mourn when the elderly die?
Rapper Mystikal arrested, facing rape charge in Louisiana
Do you and should you have relationship goals?
Super model with Aids has slept with many celebrities? Pastor robbed of over $1 million in jewelry during church service
Relationship material or playmate ( what are you?
Preacher looking for a wife on social media
The Vabbing trend
Can a relationship use a good argument every once and awhile?
Father fights off gunman while holding infant
KEVIN GATES ADMITS HE WOULDN'T HESITATE TO DRINK BEYONCÉ'S URINE
Would you throw your pregnant teenage daughter a baby shower? Cuba gooding jr pleads guilty. Woman excused from court because of sugar daddy?
Charles pugh returns to the airwaves is that fair?
Donnell Rawlings Says He Was Only Paid $500 Per Sketch on ‘Chappelle Show’
Can we talk, conversations we need to have
Does SEXY mean the same thing the older you get?
Fed-X driver caught picking up prostitute Let's Argue
White Father and son charged with shooting at black Fedx driver
House passes Emmett Till Anti-lynching Act
Knowing when to hold and fold, relationships
Las Vegas woman pushed elderly man off bus, leading to his death
Cynthia Perkins sentenced on sex crimes, giving children tainted baked goods
Truth or Game do you know the difference?
Grosse Pointe mother uses N-word at school meeting Janet Jackson documentary interesting
Your biggest turn ons and turn offs?
Man released from jail after twin brother confess
to the crime
Black man killed during hunting trip with 4 white
men
Game over you're too old
Cardi B sues Tasha K
Regina King son suicide
Man sets pregnant girlfriend on fire
Can you forgive the unforgivable?
Pastor wipes spit on church member to prove a point in his sermon.
Let's Argue ???????????
Do men have to be emotionless even in romantic situation? Kodak black sexing at a hockey game....
Woman caught throwing baby in trash.
Ladies do you think your big butt and a smile is enough? Texas teacher put son with Covid-19 in car trunk to prevent exposure..... Three men convicted of murdering Ahmaud Arbery sentenced to life
Is there a formula to stop your mate from cheating?
Sidney Poitier, 1st Black man to win best actor Oscar, dies at 94
Jim Jones motherly love
What do you look forward to in 2022?
Rip Betty White
Dr Dre pays 100 million in divorce settlement.
Do women choose their man or the opposite?
ARE YOU RETHINKING RESTAURANTS?
Charles Pugh early release sex offender
Kim Potter found Guilty
DOES BEING A PLAYER HAVE AN EXPIRATION DATE?
KANGO FROM UTFO DIES
HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT SECRET SANTA GIFTS?
DETROIT WOMAN SHOT AND KILLED BY DETROIT POLICE AFTER WAVING GUN AT GAS STATION
What is love? What you can
offer? or Who you love?
Joel Osteen's church has money
in the wall
Daughter of former NBA player
assaults another player during a
game
Should you have to ever
impress a mate for love ?
Former UCF football player allegedly
killed by his father in dispute over dog bite
suspect Ethan Crumbley, 15, allegedly
used dad’s pistol in school shooting
should the man be the sole provider?
Bentley law drunk drivers paying child support for
killing?
woman robbing homes using obituaries
Should the man be the sole
provider?
Woman robs homes using obituaries
Bentley law making drunk drives who kill
pay child support for orphaned kids
What should you value more
Friendship or relationship?
Hip-hop star Young Dolph shot,
killed at Makeda's Homemade
Butter Cookies in Memphis
Tennessee Pastor tackles robber
during church service?
Is it wrong to investigate your
mate for cheating for no reason?
‘We ain’t rich, I’m rich’: Shaq says he
wants his kids to earn their own way in life
‘Oh Hell No’: Ice Cube Reportedly
Walks Away from $9 Million Movie
Project Due to Its Vaccine Mandate
Are failed relationships a
waste of time or lessons?
Alec Baldwin 'inconsolable' after
deadly 'Rust' movie set shooting,
Darius McCrary denies he’s dating
trans model Sidney Starr after post
sparks rumors
Is it fair to trust intuition more
than evidence if you suspect
cheating?
Woman shot by school safety
officer to be disconnected from
life support
Urban Myer video how deep
should your job be in your
personal business?
Is a high sex body count a
red flag when selecting a
mate?
TK Kirkland on
AJ Johnson's
death and life
insurance
Orlando school elects its
first transgender homecoming
queen
Do having an attractive mate
help you tolerate their BS?
Kelly Price response to her
being missing
R Kelly found guilty on all
counts
Do you get enough background
info on your to-be mate?
Singer Kelly Price is Missing
in Georgia After COVID Battle
oklahoma man arrested
for performing castration
If you accept the king and
his ring what about his name?
Pastor Charged with Raping
kids
'FRIDAY' STAR
ANTHONY JOHNSON
Dead at 55
Should you date someone you know you're not going to marry?
Detroit Cop caught in stolen car WTH
Can you Compare Nas x to Prince?
Why is it more acceptable
for women to be thirsty?
can men and women be
friends without sex?
Fat Joe vs Ja Rules
Is there a benefit in dating
a hood dude or chick?
Rapper Dan Sur has gold chains
surgically attached to his head
instead of hair
Chicago mom fatally shot son, 12,
over missing memory card: police
Can a person really bring out the best or worst in you?
What do your Facebook Status
really reveal about you?
Deathrow inmate facing execution
dying last wish
Does money make people and
things look better?
Why do people hate the
church? Pastors, Christian
community or belief
The Wire’ actor Michael K. Williams
found dead in NYC apartment
Is it fair for someone half a
person's senior to commit
to a relationship?
Da Baby's comments on Aids,
HIV and Homosexuals
Is Nas X taking things too
far infiuencing a young
nation?
Should being a bad lover
exclude you from being a
good mate?
The parents of NBA superstar
Steph Curry divorcing after
more than 30 years
Can you be set up to cheat?
(character or Opportunity)
Your ultimate love songs mix and
the artist who has the best mix?
Things that some men do that is on
suspect level?
What is on your relationship
checklist? (What should you
seriously consider?
R. Kelly's physician testifies the
singer had herpes since at least 2007
Women if your man cries in front of
you is that a sign of weakness?
Do most women attract
abusive men
Would you leave your mate if
they gained a ton of weight?
BROTHER POLIGHT ARRESTED FOR
SEXUAL BATTERY OF GIRLFRIEND’S
DAUGHTER
should you have reasonable
expectations or shoot for the
stars when choosing a mate?
Detroit Tigers announcer
suspended for racist act?
Blind motorist shot and killed
for loud music
Is it wrong to leave a
mate without explanation?
What are the most hating
on love songs you know?
Dr. Dre's daughter, 38, says she's
homeless: 'I've been reaching out
to my dad for help'
Are you a test dummy for
real relationships?
White manager harasses black
manager on the job
Just when you thought you
seen it all SMH
Was Lebron wrong for pushing
this fan?
Does the character of your
parents determine the mate
you select?
R. Kelly Prosecutors Reveal New Evidence
in Case Against Him Ahead of Trial
What is your Duece dropping rule
for you or your date while at each
others house?
Ladies when is enough,
enough Eyelashes, Booty?
R.I.P Biz Markie
Detroit salon owner tracks down her
stolen car, wrestles suspected car thief
to ground
What do men want women
to bring to the table?
Vandalism of new Brooklyn
George Floyd statue may be
hate crime, officials say
Is being a deadbeat Dad a
learned behavior or
characteristic?
Ronnie Oneal’s murder trial. His 11-year-old son
answered questions about the day his mom and
sister were killed.
North Carolina girl's mother
forced her to stand for 3
straight days,
Should second chances come
with stipulations?
6-YEAR-OLD BLACK BOY INJURED
AFTER RYAN LE-NGUYEN SHOOTS
AT HIM FOR PLAYING OUTSIDE
Kwame Kilpatrick preaches at
Detroit church
Is there something wrong with
being comfortable where you're
at currently?
Virginia Tech football player accused
of killing Tinder match after discovering
his date was a man
How do you handle disbutes
with your neighbors?
Is old school played out
in a modern world?
Do hot weather bring out
the worst in people?
Are hairy women attractive, is
it acceptable?
DO SOME RATHER BE THE
SIDE PIECE THAN THE
MAIN COURSE?
Charlamagne Tha God Faces
Rape charge
13 and 14 yr old shoots it out
with Sheriff
Can you truly apologize for
something you meant to do?
Charlamagne Tha God Faces Renewed
Accusations of Underage Rape
Mo'Nique Is Fed Up With Women
Wearing Bonnets In Public!
Who can find love easier men
or women?
Paul Mooney, 'Bamboozled' and 'Chappelle's
Show' actor and comedian, has died
Dj Quik burns a Deathrow
royalty check 188 dollars
Act your age not your
shoe size?
Andrew Brown: Family of black man
shot by US police demand more footage
Are we getting too outrageous
with how we do funerals?
Should you continue to date
without expectation?
No charges in death of a Tennessee high school
student after officer-involved shooting
Woman arrested after refusing to return
$1.2 million mistakenly put into her account
Rules of Attraction, looks,
clothes, size, shoes?
He Wasn't Ready Comedian Donnell Rawlings
AKA Ashy Larry Gets Roasted Off Stage
White Army Sergeant Charged With
Assault After Threatening, Shoving
Black Man
Can a young person truly be
in a romantic relationship with
a elderly mate?
Grandma pays grandson to
kill Granddad?
Did other factors lead to
the death of DMX
How do you date in a
Pandemic?
Did Paul Pierce give a
Dam should your outside
life affect your job?
Rap Legend DMX dies
what is his mark in
hiphop music?
What should your mate already
know how to do and what's a
bonus?
Camera captures father-son
gunfight in Newnan
Should the black community be
more reluctant to call the police?
Is being totally satisfied in
an relationship reality?
Nike denies involvement with Lil Nas X '
Satan Shoes' containing human blood
Boy, 12, brain dead after trying
'Blackout Challenge' on TikTok
Is the statement you are who
you attract true?
Detroit police arrest liquor store owner
involved in altercation with woman
Man fatally shot in front of dozens
in South Seattle church, police say
Are there limits for people of God when it comes to disrespectful children?
Navy sailor who stabbed his 'cheating'
wife to death and hid her body in his home
for two years before dumping it in San Diego Bay
R.i.p Marvin Hagler did he
die for the Covid vaccine?
Do you recognize when you're
Loved, Hated, liked or envied?
Stacey dash wants her hood
pass reinstated is she or any
other black worthy after turning
on the black community?
A man wrongfully convicted of murder
sues a rental car company for not providing
a receipt that supported his alibi
Coming 2 America was there a
hidden agenda for the black
family?
Jeremy Lin says he has been called
‘coronavirus’ on the court
Mr Potato Head to lose "Mr" title
in gender-neutral rebrand
Are women characters in question who don't have custody of their kids?
Malcolm X kin: Letter from former
cop implicates NYPD, feds in his murder
Capitol riot suspect turned
in by ex Richard Michetti
texted his ex during the Capitol riot
to say she was "a moron" if she didn't
believe the election was stolen.
Is it possible to unintentionally
send mixed signals?
Meek Mills Kobe line
catches backlash
Herschel Walker Testifies Against
Reparations Bill During Hearing
Can your mate recieve or keep
gifts that came from an ex?
Republican Governor Candidate
Austin Chenge Promises To Cancel
Black History Month If Elected
Luda Car gets stolen in Atlanta
while at ATM
Is Valentines Day important why or why not and does a gift say I love you?
Woman who put Gorilla glue in her hair suing
the ER
Bad Step mom talks about step kids dead mother
If your mate confessed
they cheated on you, would
you forgive them?
Who hated on who the
most Fred or Lamont?
Jacksonville funeral home fails to turn
off live stream of service; Family says
they have no closure
Would you wait for your
if they were incarcerated?
Georgia police chief, officer ousted after
video of racist remarks on slavery, Stacey
Abrams
Former Seattle Seahawks OT Chad Wheeler
enters not guilty plea in domestic violence
case
Should your friends beef also
be your beef?
Wendy Williams Spills Tea About
One Night Stand With Method Man
T.I & TINY FACING ALLEGATIONS OF
ALLEGEDLY SEX TRAFFICKING &
FORCING WOMEN TO DO DRUGS
Is there really somebody for
everybody?
Wisconsin pharmacist who tried
to destroy 500 Covid vaccine
doses agrees to plead guilty
Heart to Heart talks, the
rules, who, what, when
and why
Did Cory Holcomb cross
the line with his friend and
Co-host Zo Williams?
Is there a waiting rule
for dating after a
break-up?
The Capital riot 2 different
America's
Are you obligated to help
a friend everytime they're
in trouble?
Patric Ferguson, 29, allegedly shot and
killed 30-year-old Robert Howard over
a woman
Cut-off Game What does it
take for you to cut off a
friend or loved one?
Master P and former NBA Guard
Baron Davis attempting to buy Reebok
Should black people support even
though you might not like the brand?
Video shows woman falsely accusing
Black teen of stealing phone she left
in Uber
Which Gender is the most
disrespectful?Woman charged with stealing packages
from Detroit porches, should you ever
come to the defense of a loved one who
commited a crime?
Do you believe in second
chances after a bad
experience? Feds to investigate after a sheriff's deputy
killed a Black man entering his own home in
Columbus, OhioLivonia mother speaks out about
racially offensive history lesson in
her daughter’s 7th-grade class
Would you be okay with
the opposite sex massaging
your mate? Was the owner
wrong?
What you won't do for
love?
Would you let your mate spend the
holiday with their kids at his ex's house?
Will Smith, Janet Hubert situations
can you make bold statement in a
conflict and backtrack?
Why is sending nude
pics acceptable
to some ?
Knowing who and who not to
Hookup or break-up with? We always want to be
forgiven but is there
any forgiveness for the
Preacher
How often should your
significant other say
I love you? Michigan 3 week shut down
starting Wednesday.We always want to be
forgiven but is there
any forgiveness for the
Preacher
Is old school romance played,
or are people changing up? Michigan reports 7,072 new cases of
COVID-19 and 65 more deaths on Saturday
Pastor John Gray 'publicly honors'
wife after cheating again ...
What is the purpose of
dating and what defines
a real date? Man kills wife in front
of kids after she asked
for divorce
Are attention seekers
the worse kind of
people? Black man killed at
Detroit gas station
by teenage clerk Did Ice Cube sell out
black America?
The real deal or
sucker for love?
"Black women are not naïve. We know that
after the last ballot is cast and the vote is tallied,
we are likely to go back to fighting for ourselves.
When his mother died, Jihad and his
siblings stole her body from the hospital
after staff said they couldn’t release it
to the family.
Is grey sexy or is it
something sinister?
Suspect in 6 year old
boys murder? You're too old to
do ?
Can you real accept a person
who is totally transparent in a
relationship? Boy, 9, suspended after teacher sees
BB gun in his room during virtual class;
family sues Who do you look like
do we all have twins?
How do you know when
someone likes you or
hates you? Police officer charged with murder
in shooting of Black man at gas station Man faces charges after 80-year-
old dies following mask dispute
THE MASK DEBATE
Your happiest moment, saddest and your greatest achievement and failure Men got the basement as
the man cave what is the
women version? Trump has Corona do
you believe it or not?
Is the saying if you don't
have nothing good to say
keep it too yourself B.S?
Larynzo Johnson, 26, was charged
with two counts of assault in the first
degree and 14 counts of wanton endangerment
in connection with the shooting of police officers,
Two officers shot during protests
over grand jury decision not to charge
Louisville cops with killing Breonna Taylor
When it's over it's over,
knowing when it's time
to let go of things we love
Woman accused of texting
boyfriend before fire that killed
mother: ‘I’m outside your mom’s
house’Independent autopsy shows
Dijon Kizzee was struck 15 times
by LA Sheriff's deputies, according
to family attorneys
Can you date someone who
doesn't like your family and
vice versa?
Wife" Of NBA Player Danuel House
LEAVES Him After He Got Caught
Sneaking GirI In Room.
An Alaska dentist who extracted
a patient's tooth on a hoverboard
sentenced to 12 years in jail
Should a women be made
to repay child support
money for a false claim?
Louisville agrees to pay
Breonna Taylor's family
$12 million and enact
police reforms in historic
What are the biggest
relationship killers?
Black man kills 5 year
old white boy OUTRAGE
2 arrested in the 18 year
old murder of Jam Master
Jay
WAP women why are you
happy about Ratchetness?
BBC radio DJ quits over use of
N-word during news broadcast
is there a difference with white
black and the N-word
Clora Funeral home owner
shoots cousin during funeral
A 50/50 love??????
Twin youtubers in trouble
for bank robbery prank
Black mount rushmore what
black leaders would you place
on it?
Do you believe in karma,
and did you ever have a
karma moment? Women you ever notice the
honor and obey part of
your marriage vows?
limited bar service and indoor gatherings
again but the casinos are reopening?
Do your upbringing overshadow
your common sense? With all the disaster of
plastic surgery why is it
still popular? Do we celebrate infamy
more than good?
Family and friends who's
worse or do we expect too
much?
What in the save the
children is going on?
Why is so much murder
happening in Detroit?
Is the lack of expecting the unexpected the reason for most failures? expectations (Praying for my Chicago Family my big cuz Kenny R.I.P )Suspect caught Coney Island Murders On July 20, just after 11 p.m., Detroit police answered a call reporting a shooting at Coney Island restaurant in the 9100 block of Dexter Avenue. All four victims were found inside the restaurant; three of them dead from apparent gunshot wounds. The surviving victim was treated for his injuries at a local hospital.
Relationships, problems and compromise what's your limit? Halle Berry transgender role? Detroit police shooting of 19 yr old sparks emotions in the city.
Can your mate have a very freaky past? Can you really trust a mate that was a freak to be in a serious relationship with?
What's more important to you, love, attraction or security? Although all are important if you could only have one which would you perfer
Is it a bad ideal to date someone who is not religious? If they don't believe would you leave? Is belief in God important in your relationship
Are you really who you attract? Is everyone that is attracted toyou a reflection of who you are?
Do cheaters ever deserve a pass? Could there be a legitmate reason that your mate cheats on you and you can forgive them?
Happy Juneteeth should we be happy? The slaves in Texas were free on this date after 2 years of trickery.
Is it time for the black revolution, is it time for blacks to rise up? There is no question how blacks were treated in this country. Are other races getting tired of our mistreatment? Is the world really getting sensitive to the black experience?
Are all races of people prejudice at some point? Is it natural to have more love for your race than others?
If you tell your mate a secret is it considered pillow talk? Is everything you tell your mate in confidence considered pillow talk?
Love and marriage wonderful and new but why do you really get married for love, attractions, sex, companionship, security?
Sometime we look for love at any cost. Most people are so desperate to be with someone they would accept anyone or any kind of treatment. Some people figure hey in everything you're going to have your positives and negatives so why not deal with it? What are those negatives in relationships we shouldn't overlook?
Are all cheater bad people or do they have a underline problem. Can it be they're insatiable?
If you up during this quarantine with nothing to do this is for you let's talk anit nothing else going on.
You have your real relationship at home with your wife or girlfriend then theirs another relationship you share with a person at work they are called your work boo. Some of these work boo relationships are playful some are serious depending on the people but most likely it's a cheating thing? While I don't advise a person in a relationship to engage in this trend to each its own. Can a work place boo really be taken serious?
Are you quarantine crazy yet? Wondering when will this end? Are you enjoying this break from work, school or being bothered with others? What if this thing carries on longer t6han expected? What if it never ends? What should we worry about going forward if this virus continues?
There are just some things in life that grown men and women should not do at this point in their life. At some point a word called Maturity should kick in and all the silly and stupid thing you did in the past should not happen again. Does maturity come with age? What things are unacceptable for men and women?
Every once in a while in life people need advice. Advice on finance, love, education ect,ect ect. Usually advice comes from someone who is successful at the particular field. What about people who are not successful? Can they give successful advice? Can stories of being unsuccessful be turned to good advice? Can a cheater give good relationship advice?
During this quarantine there is a lot to reflect on, people are really getting to know more aboutthemselve and others mostly their mates. What did you find out different about yourself or your mate during quarantine. Do you like or dislike what you are finding out?
Family up bringing does it determine who you will become? If your family background was good will you become a good person? If your background was bad will you become a bad person?
Babies are so cudly and beatiful and they are truly a bundle of joy. Not all people share those views but it's hard to see why not. some people are not parents or never experienced the joy of a baby coming into the world. I had the pleasure of traveling this road 3 times and will always remember what I felt each time one of my children were born. Not all parents are deservant of children the reasons are many. Question is there a right or wrong time to have children?
The corona virus is dominating our headlines and lives? It's scary to carry on in life how we use to because it could be costly, the price could be your life. No cure no treatment this thing is one of the worse things we've seen in modern history. Will there ever be an end to this pandemic? Will we ever get back to the life we lost? Has the corona virus changed our way of life forever?
What event in history is such a mystery to you it gave you your own Conspiracy theory? There are so many theories out here it will make your head spin. If you became rich and successful does that make you obligated to take care of and support finacially family and friends?
Corona virus shut down how it's affecting your life and how are you protecting yourself and your family from this threat?
Attention Attention Attention why do most people want so much attention placed on them? Is that a sign of a deep mental issue? If a grown-up is seeking attention is that a sign of immaturity? I was alwas taught if you're beautiful, handsome, talented etc ect let someone else tell you anything else can be borderline narcassistic. I can olny imagine it would be hard to be in a relationship with an attention seeker because the focus is always them.
People people people calm down, we heard it before, seen it before. Remember H1n1 Bird flu West nile virus Sarces yep been ther done that right. Wait a minute they are shutting Sports teams seasons down and an NBA player and Tom Hanks has it now. What are we going to do lock our doors stop people from coming over stop shaking hands making love taking trips. Are we safe do we have to hold our breath while talking to people stop it.
Marriage is a very serious step so you better make sure you're ready to make the big step. Marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice and you must be prepared. First make sure this is really the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with because marriage is forever right? Most importanly if your the groom you must ask the father for his daughter's hand in marriage right? Is it still proper to ask a father for his daughter's hand in marriage?
Revenge a dirty word to some a way of life for others? For some people revenge is very necessary. I remember growing up my mom use to tell me don't let anyone punk you, if they hit you hit em back. The Bible says vengeance is mine saith the Lord. Most of the time you may let certain stuff slide when a person has wronged you but not all the time. Some people when they let things slide later on they regret they did. Question is revenge necessary to feel whole again?
In order to build relationships we must first know what we want out of it? That means we must define our relationships. What is it? What is it based on? Is it a term relationship? Is it a working relationship? Is it a personal one? In simple terms what is that person to you? This has to be established so there will be no miscommunications going forth. So we have to recognize if a persons a friend, foe or associate.
The worst thing you can do in a relationship is kill the trust in it. What is the worse way to kill trust you ask? Cheating. How can you make things worse with cheating? You have a baby outside your relationship? Does a person who's mate cheated and has a child have to accept it?
Love is in the air you meet that special someone fall in love propose get engaged and wait to set a wedding date? For some this process is simple fall in love propose and get married. Other on the other hand get engaged and hold that position for a long time with no end in site. What is the hold up for most people? How long should an engagement last? Should there be a time limit on being engaged? Who set the rule on engagements?
Past and future, then and now are they important in a relationship? They say learning from your past mistakes can help you in your future. Is that true in relationships? It was also said that you must move away from the past (Forget) in order to move forward. Is this always a true statement? If you're in a new relationship can you keep memories of your past relationship example Photos, Gifts ect,ect. Do you have to erase your whole past to be in a new relationship?
Happy Valentines Day to everyone hope you enjoy sharing that day with your love one. What was your best memory and worse of Valentines Day? What was your best and worse Valentines day gift? Were you every single on Valentines day? Did you ever dodge your love one on this wonderful day? take your loved one out to dinner show them a good time and love each other.
Boy oh boy some of the things people do to find love. Is love that complicated that people will do anything to have it? Is love that great that people will be with anyone just to say they're in love? What about those who are dating someone who is already in a relationship? Do you really feel in love, like something good can come out of it? Does falling for someone who cheated to get you make sense?
Should love have a timetable? Just listen for a sec I know you can't fall in love with someone you just met right? Than again that would eliminate the love at first sight theory. Is there a such thing as being in love too soon or too late? Should an individual set a timetable for themselves to fall in love? Just saying that and the thought of it sounds silly. To each it's own we're discussing a love time table.
Love and marriage suppose to go hand and hand building toward a long term commitment. Relationships are not like they use to be, there was a time when you meet someone fell in love waited to have sex after you were married. Nowadays that has changed it seems no one waits for marriage anymore it's just sex, sex,sex. Is it realistic to abstain from sex before marriage nowadays?
Meeting someone new you always wanna put your best foot forward you know making a good first impression. First impressions are everything to most people and you don't get a second chance to make up. Some people are more forgiving if you mess up the first time, maybe because they know people are not perfect. Well first impression are real serious when it comes to relationships because it involves trust. Does the person you're dating only get one chance to make a good first impression.
People love when other's give them compliments. Compliments can make a person feel real good. brighten a person's whole day. Compliments are suppose to be innocent and true. Often compliments can be mistaken as flirting. Knowing this fact should you give anyone or everyone a compliment? What if you were married or in a relationship should you give anyone a compliment of the opposite sex? If you were out with your mate is it wrong to give some one of the opposite sex a compliment in front of them?
Before I became a married man, I was a young handsome single gentleman. Dating was never a problem but finding the right woman was. Dating and asking someone out was fun simple and easy, then came sexual harassment and you were limited to where you could ask someone out at mainly the work place. Still that didn't stop me I found my wife in the work place but all people aren't that luck. Now the bar has been risen and it gave birth to the mee too movement. Does that movement really kill the ideal of work place dating?
I always thought that love should be special for everyone. The very thought of being able to find a person you love and can share your life forever. Surpisely their are many who would prefer to remain single due to the fear of commitment. What are those fears that would allow people to knock something so beautiful? Let's look into those fears today on the Fatcat Show.
Taking a look at Kobe's life career and impact beyond basketball. What does it mean to those who didn't know him personally or don't know what it mean's to walk in the shoes of an icon. What can we all learn from his life and reactions to his untimely death? R.i.p Mamba and the 8 others who lost their lives in this tragedy. Praying for all the family's who are dealing with loss now may God bless and keep you
You know the most wonderful thing you can tell a person is I love you. I can remember the first time a girl said it to me and how it made me feel. At the same time saying I love you can be dangerous, especiall if you say it to someone and don't mean it. The dangerous side of I love you.
For years blacks have received the short end of the stick, history in America hasn't been kind to African Americans. Slavery, Lynchings, kkk even government played a part in our tragic history. It seems when ever blacks experience a bit of success it's always met with oposition from outside parties. We realize as much as we may want to deny it this will never change. What about when it happens within our race when one of us achieves success? Blaqck people are we too critical of each other?
How do you know that the person your with loves or likes you? How do you read the signs if it's someone you wanna date? We'll be discussing this on the Fatcat show?
We have the black lives matter movement, what about black love? How can we build more strong black relationship? Why are things so hard for black men and women in relationships? What is the break down in black relationships? are black men and women forcing each other to date outside their race?
One of the greatest joys about love is the bedroom activities yes sir SEX. A dirty word for some pleasure for others. Beside having kids why is sex so important in a relationship? I'm pretty sure many people will have different answers. what if sex was not consistent enough in your relationship? What if your mate is purposely withholding sex from you? Should this every happen in a relationship? Does withholding sex from your mate give them a license to cheat?
Man if some of us could reset our dating history by rewinding time we would. I mean think back over the course of your dating history of the people the personlities you use to mingle with and love. Should your dating history impact your current history? Meaning should the current person you're dating judge you off the people or person yo use to date? Is it fair to look at someone ex or exs and draw a conclusion ?
We encounter so many different experiences in life but some of them are so unusual they stand out. Relationship experiences some of us will never forget from our first love, first kiss, first heartbreak ect,ect. We all had the one person or one situation that stood out whether it was while in a relationship or just dating. What if the situations had to deal with the past sexual history of the person you're dealing with currently? Can you be in a relationship with someone who was once homosexual?
One of the best components to a good relationship is honesty. As bad as it may hurt sometimes honesty is the best policy. But is it really all the time? What if you know your partner will not be able to handle it? What if honesty changes the whole dynamics of your relationship? Ladies what if the man you were dating and hoping to get serious with told you he only wanted a sexual relationship with you? Can women really accept a man just wanting a sexual relationship?
Love is good but the worse thing you can do when you find a person you love is cheat? Although cheating is ultimately a bad thing, it has many meanings. Is I don't Love you anymore Necessarily one of them? I believe different people have different reasons they cheat in their relationships? Over time cheating has proven to be not always the end of every relationship. Some relationships recover from cheating and grow stronger but there's always a flipside.Does cheating mean you don't love the person you're with?
New beginnings if life had a rewind button the first of a new year would be it. A time to start fresh new you, new trend and new attitude. My question would be does it really work? I know it depends on the person and how hard they work? Can a new year really give us the fresh start we need ? Let's give some new resolutions and bring them to reality for 2020. Last Show of the year 2019 farewell my friend. R.i.P Both grand dads Rev. R.B Friend and Deacon Freddie Ratcliff, Deacon Daniel, Sis Shobe, cousin Dee, Aunt Alice
Love is one thing dating is another. Falling in love is a wonderful thing but the process in finding your love which is called dating can be a gruling process. It takes getting to know a person which involves bonding, building and that takes trust. Man oh man that word trust is a word we often throw around so loosely. Should you date just to date and have fun? Should you only date with the expectation of something bigger? Should you be dating without expectation?
Over the centuries man has used many tactics to get over. Money, promises and women, wait why women? Well you know a man can't resist a beautiful woman, can't live with em, can't live without em. Most women use this tactic for themselves a negotiation tool. They live by the creed use what you got to get what you want. Sexual manipulation sometimes can get a person whatever they want. Job promotions, favors, days off even out of traffic tickets.
Even though we desire a beautiful future we are almost certainly judged by our past. Your past often says alot about you, but should you be judged now for what happen back then? Especially in a relationship in which you had a very freaky past. Is it fair to look at a persons past to determine the future? Is this a true statement once a freak always a freak?
Relationships are suppose to be a wonderful thing. Boy meets girl fall in love everything feels right with the world. The love of your life sharing and caring keeping it real with each other. REALLY is the person he or she is looking at real or is it cosmetic? Wow these makeup jobs are so good they are believable. You go to bed with Halle Berry and wake up with count scary. So question is cosmetic deception a reason to terminate a relationship?
The word hoe growing up hearing it was always in a negative sense. I mean that was one of the worse things you can call a person. In hood terms those were fighting words better yet you might get killed calling someone that., back to the hood terms again it was often use to describe a buzy body woman and later men became hoes. Something strange happened to the word and some women began to embrace it, other said that the actions that use to classify you asa hoe no longer apply. Did he requirements of being a hoe change?
Love, love love why can't it be simple for everyone. Is everyone entittled to be in love? What are the requirement for love? Wait a minute let me take that back love is suppose to be unconditional. Does attraction play a strong hand in love? Are we supposed to ignore the fact that someone is not attractive to us in the name of love? Is this statement even possible? Do you have to be attracted to a person to be in love with them?
You have to mentally and physically be prepared for a relationship. Relationships are like rollercoaster up and down a lot and if you're not ready you might just fall off at the first drop. Are bad moments necessarily a negative thing? Is there a such thing as a relatinship with only good moments? Are bad moments just as important as good in your relationship?
Searching for love is never an easy task especially trying to find the person you really want. Should you be limited in your search for a mate? Should you shoot for the stars? Is there a such thing as out of your league when searching for a mate?
Ladies have you ever looked at the world from a man's point of view? Why are we held to a higher standard when it comes to entering in a relationship? We always gotta hear we anit doing enough or we're doing too much or what we should be doing? Ladies ladies ladies what are you bringing to the table? I mean sex is great and all but we need more bang for our bucks, what more do you offer? If men have requirements ladies what are yours?
Are blind dates a good ideal nowadays? Can you date someone you never met in person? Can blind dating be trusted in the world we're living in now especially for women? Today we will also discuss soul ties what is it? How does it occur?
Learning how to love your mate is that even possible? Do you already suppose to know how to love your mate? Should you be in a relationship if you don't know how to love that person?
Every productive human being would like to build something toward the future. Sometimes to build a future we have to look at past mistakes. What about in a relationship? To have a future with someone do you have to look at their past? Should their past play a big part in your decision to be in a relationship with them?
Love is a powerful thing, especially if it's true. Love sometimes can survive anything but can it survive cheating? Can a person really truly forgive a person who cheated on them?
Open topic Thursday come talk to us about anything ya know what time it is call ya boys Fatcat and Satellite just kicking it on Thursday. Happy Friday birthday Fatcat Big 47 thank you Lord your worthy.
Things change over time, there is a song that says everything must change. People things and love let's add that to the equation. Woman have certainly changed from our grandparents era till now these are not the same women? Their actions and views are certainly different now. So the question is do old school romance still work for the nowaday woman?
When a man loves a woman sparks began to fly, his whole world begin to open up and everything in life is good. Also when a man loves a woman he begins looking at the big picture to some it is sharing his life with the woman he loves. Marriage yep the big M a special way to show his love and if his proposal is accepted then everything is gravy. The wedding is planned but the woman doesn't want to take the man's last name. Is it disrespectful for a wife not to take her husbands last name
Looking into why some parents who force a gender outside of an existing one on their kids. Children often don't have enough time to develope mentally before something they truly don't understand is being pushed on them.
You would think by now we would be on an even playing field. That everything would be equal for everyone and life would be a happy adventure for everybody. As we all know the playingfield has been ridged for one side to benefit or as we say have an edge over the rest. Is it necessary for double standards to exist? Is double standards a necessary tool in helping the least fortunate get over? We are calling out the double standards between men and women.
When you think you're in love and you're really in lust. Breaking down the difference between the two and defining them in order to see if you're in a true loving relationship? Most couple believe they are truly in love until the layers of their relationship are peeled back and the true core is revealed. What do you do once the truth is found out do you continue or just walk away? The thin line between love and lust?
People always give love advice some good, some bad. Most of it is based on experience some come from educated dummies who are not even in a relationship and can't keep one. Some come from people who have been in long relationship but we all know one thing does work for everyone. The biggest advice I was given was patience don't rush into a relationship it won't work but is this always true? Is it wrong to jump into a relationship? Should there be a time limit?
The worse thing that can happen in your relationship is lack of trust. What ruins trust in a relationship cheating? That's right that big word we are all at some point Familar with and hate to think about. Some would say they would rather leave then cheat we heard that saying many times, but as we know the majority of the people who say this are the main cheaters. Some would say there is no reason you should ever cheat on the one you love. Have we ever really looked at the flipside of the coin? Can you be the blame for getting cheated on?
Women women women can't live with, can't live without them. Why can't a relationship between man and woman be so simple? What is the thing that divides us so much? Why do women ask for one thing from a man get it and then complain? Women ask for a good man then complain he's too soft. Women ask for a thug get him and complain when he does what a thug do. So women what do you really want from your man?
We know that when two people come together as one it could be a tough situation. We have our likes and dislikes about each other but the decision was already made to become a couple. The word is called compromise but compromising doesn't always solve the problem. What if one of the parties involved has a problem with the others choice of friends? This could be a major concern which can lead to a break up. Should your mate have a major say on your choice of friends?
Love is a very wonderful part of life for two people who care and want to share life's experiences. An important part of love is defining the status of the parties involved whether it's friend status boyfriend or girlfriend status or marriage. What if one party wants marital status and the other likes it as it is but wants marital treatment? Should they recieve it? Do they have a legitimate grip if they don't recieve that treatment? Should a status determine your treatment in an relationship?
The wonderful world of sex man oh man oh man. Sex is a wonderful thing beautiful and spiritual especially with the right person. So let's say you find the right person you proceed to have wonderful esx and find out you have no chemistry and it was terrible. What do you do? Would you attempt to resolve it by talking about it? Would you leave and make up another excuse? If you choose to talk about it what would you say?
I am so grateful to be married to my best friend in the whole wide world, in fact it's hard to believe at one point in my life I didn't want to be married. Shockingly lots of people feel this way for whatever reason I don't know. I noticed that some people who are in established long relationship do not feel the need to be married. Others believe that marriage is the top goal of a relationship and anything else is a waste of time.
If you ever been in love you always strive to have someone who honestly loves you. You hope to have someone who will be honest and true. You see how that word honet keeps popping up, it's for a good reason. People always yelling how they want honesty in a relationship but are they really equiped to handle it? Do you really want total honesty? Will you pentalize your mate for being honest? Are you ready to find out something you might not want to hear?
Happy sweetest day from the Fatcat show. Wishing all couples in love a life full of love. Remember to put GOD FIRST in your relationship so that you have longevity. Treat your sweetie to a lovely day and remember to cherish them forever. Life is too short to take love for granted. You can tell us here on the Fatcat Show what you and your loved one did on sweetest day. Is sweetest day really important in your relationship?
A true friend is hard to find I can speak for that because my circle of friends is very small. When you do find that friend you really found yourself a jewell. Think about it how many people can you really call your friend? It important to know that although a friend is loving they are also not perfect, but there are certain lines a friend should not cross. Is competition one of them? especiall with a love interest. Should friends ever be in competition?
Before you fall in love you have a lot to consider. One did you make the right choice in a mate? Two Can you really build with the person you chose? Three does your mate make you a better person? There are a lot of saying out there like, behind every good man there's a good woman. What about a good woman makes a good man better? Do you buy into this theory? Do good guys always finish last?
Everyone has a purpose in life, what is it? That's a question some people have a hard time answering. Everyone will not have the same role in life some will be the indians, some will be chiefs.Some will be loved, some will be hated, some will be feared. Which is better to be is the big question? All of them have their vantages and disadvantages. So once again which one would you rather be?
Love the one your with that's what I was told. Love is a wonderful thing that's what I heard. True love is hard to find that's what I know. There are so many sayings and logic when it comes to love. I believe the true logic can only come from each individuals experiences. One saying I heard over and over it's disrespectful to look at someone eles while in a relationship. You mean to tell me it disrespectful to admire anothers beauty from afar? Is it realistic to put blinders on in a relationship?
The things we wish for sometimes can turn into our worse nightmare? That's why our parents use to say be careful what you wish for baby. It's a wonderful feeling to have love in your life, someone who cares about your well being you got to love it. As the old folk use to say love your dirty draws and the bonus the sexual attraction. Do you want your significant other to be a freak though? I can think of plenty reasons I do but a whole lot more why i don't want my love to be one.
Women constanly ask the question what's happening with our men? Why don't they do this, why don't they do that anymore? Most importantly why do most men not date anymore? Why are the views of men changing when it comes to romance? Will women continue to accept the situation? What solution can we come up with to get men back on the romantic path? Do men have a legitimate reason for not wanting to date anymore?
Is it weak for a man to have a sensitive side? Women love men who are take charge and hard core. Men who they feel can protect them in dangerous situations. What about a man who can do all that but has a sensitive side? Can he still be your ideal man? Does this take away from his manhood? Is it true men are suppose to cry or be sensitive? Can a man truly be respected if he has a sensitive side?
Who are you and are you truly in a real relationship? Is the person your with truly in love with you? Is your whole love life one big lie?
If love is unconditional should it have limits? Should you be limited to who you date example Co-worker or neighbor?
Dating can be a fun experience for 2 people the possiblities are endless. What if the number 2 increased you know meaning if you or the person you're dating has kids. Should they be considered part of the date especially if it's your first date? Are you required in the Rule book of dating to be subjected to someone and a child you barely know?
I love the game of love it's simular to the game of basketball. How you might ask well 1. It's a team sport it takes more than a single individual to make it work. 2. You gotta follow the rules of the game in order to win cheating is a no no. 3. The main goal is to score now you process that how you wanna. Most of the time the game may not be fair to everyone that when break ups happen. In basketball terms player you just got waived or traded. When this happens how long should you wait after a break up to date again?
Relationships a tricky subject, especially when it pertains to matters of the heart? In a relationship most times we come face to face with 2 things, the past and the present. What if the past was an ex ? What if that ex was now in the role of friend to your boyfriend/ girlfriend in your present? Would this be a major problem for you? Would not accepting this make you jealous or insecure? Can the love of your life be close friends with an ex?
We always here woman make statements such as this I want a man, a strong man, a strong mined man. I see nothing wrong with that a woman ought to want a man physically strong enough to protect her in unsafe situations. A women should also want a strong mined man that can take charge under pressure. Ladies Ladies Ladies, what if the man had none of these quality? Is he still the man for you? Can you look pass his lack of and still be with him?
Let's solve this debate right now on infidelity, who does it the most men or women? I agree that men held the title for the longest time but it seems now that women have closed the gap. Better yet women might even have passed men up. There is a lot of role reversal in this society it seems that women are avenging our pass transgressions. Are women now the Alpha dogs when it comes to relationships and cheating. Let's Discuss
Taking a look at love from a deep perspective and how different people love differently. Can you love someone too much or too hard? Should you ever let a person know they're the center of your universe? What can be considered being clingy ? Is being clingy necessarily wrong ? Can a relationship survive a clingy individual? Does passion and being clingy run hand and hand? If not what seperates the two?
Woman I know over the years the relationship between you and men have been rocky to say the least. I know you dealt with broken hearts, abuse physically and verbally, cheating and being left to raise the kids along with no finacial support. Although I don't know the reason behind every situation I do apologize for nall Bad men. Ladies with this apology you do have to consider that all men aren't this way and consider that most women are not victims but initiators of the problem. Do bad women help create dead beat dad's?
Happiness is a great thing to have in your life. Imagine having a reason to smile everyday, a reason for loving life. Can you define what it is and why it brings you happiness? We have to realize in life the samethings don't make everyone happy, In other words my happiness is not your happiness. So when your happy don't expect others to be happy with you Okay. Search deep find what makes you happy cherish it and enjoy the moment.
Society is changing rapidly along with the views and traditons of people. I grew up in a house where the man was the head but nowadays women are taking over that role. So what happens when a woman who is use to being in charge gets with a man who is a take charge guy? Who will back down from the chief position to become head of house?
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There is right and wrong, good and evil and then there's common sense. You would think that there are something people would know they should or should not do or say. There is also a saying that said common sense is not all that common. What determines your level of common sense is it age or education? Let's not forget experience that's a big factor in using our common sense. I believe there should be somethings in life that should not take much thought.
There is an old song from the spinners I like called games people play, why they play them i don't know but i really like that song. If you are in a relationship get ready for the games that might sometimes come with it. The lies the cheating and the heartaches yep that's the game i'm sad to say but that's life. How do you recognize when you're a victim of the game? How can you prepare your self to deal or bounce back when the games come? Does game truly recognize game?
Examining when someone is trying to sell you something too good to be true, it probably is you know.
We got so many saying in the world today it's hard to keep up especially for an older person. We live in a world where ever second, minute or hour there is a new saying. The one we are focusing on today is The best things in life are free. Do you believe this statement I mean can you really take this statement at face value. It seems nowadays everyone is trying to sell you something. So can that state be true in today's world?
Everyone has an opinion about something but do you always have to vocalize it? Especially if it a bad opinion and you know it could result in something serious. Sometimes it's hard to keep an opinion to yourself especially if it's pertaining to someone you really don't care about. How do you control your urge to say something that might have a negative effect on someone. Do you believe if you don't have nothing good to say keep it to yourself.
Father's Day went from a day to honor father's to a day where women bashed bad fathers to a day where women bashed fathers and wanted to be honored on Father's day for single parenting. Now ladies don't get me wrong I do believe in giving honor where it is due but stop taking it too far. Remember although it is not talked about often there are men who are raising kids without women so stop it. Ladies let men have Father's Day back.
Remember when dating use to be fun and felt good. What happened to those days when boy met girl and everything was alright? In todays world now you got sex trafficing and sex changing. You never know what or who you're dealing with when meeting someone new? Dating is so scary right now that many choose not to do it. Has dating someone changed for you and how? What signs do you look for that you may be in danger while dating?
I remember coming up as a child I had many fights, I'm talking about straight up throwing blows. I fought so much I can't put a number on the times. Once again I stated I was a child then. I was always told adults don't handle things that way but i've seen my fair share of adult fights. My life experiences have shown me not all things can be solved peacefully. When an adult fights does it say something about their character?
Man has the world really changed that much? This is a very different world we're in from the one our grand parents and parents knew. We use to eat home cook meals everyday now we grab instant foods. Change is a big part of life because everything is always evolving. They say without evolution things would surely begin to die off. What about relationships, what about you as a person do the same applies? Some say that traditional ways should always stay in play. Others believe it's impossible to trive on traditional ways in a fast paced world.
The world is truely different for us then the world our parents and grandparents seen. Change is a big part of life because everything is always evolving. They say without evolution things will surely began to die off. What about relationships, what about you as a person do the same applies? Some would say that traditional ways should always stay in place especially with morals. Others believe it's impossible to trive on traditional ways in a fast pace world. Traditional thinking vs modern thinking.
What in the world is going on with our men? Is it an illness or something in the water? Why are the men acting like females? It seems like when ever a man stands up for man hood he's shot down not only by gay rights but women groups. A man can't even say hi to a woman without it being taken wrong. What is a man to do in today's society? Is the me too movement pushing men to the other side in fear of women. Is this part of one big agenda to emasculate men?
Love could be a good thing or bad thing depending on who you ask. The same can be said for those who are single. It's hard to imagine but there are people out there who don't want anything to do with a relationship. Often times do to bad experiences or commitment issues. On the flip side there are those who wanna be in a serious relationship and just can't find the right one. Is it the fault of the individual or could it be by choice
Let's have fun this Friday talking about what evers on your mind. Is there a serial killer in detroit? Do the elderly get any respect from the young anymore? Was a black woman murdered in cold blood by the police let's talk. 8:30 pm tonight Fatcat show you know the number give your boy a call.Blogtalkradio and facebook live plus Fatcat a wonderful combination.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, plan and simple we like what we like. We all have our taste in food women etc... Some of us are really territorial when it comes to our loved ones. Should you get mad when others lust for your signifcant other? People often have different views on this topic. One view is if no one else is looking at your Significant other then you need your eyes checked. Other view it as disrespectful. Should it be considered an honor if others lust for your signifcant other?
Success and opportunity doesn't mean the samething for everyone so don't look at another persons results and try to mirror it. You know the saying if they can do it I can too, wait a min hold up you can have success but maybe not doing the samething. How many times have you ever tried to sell something and be successful at it because Bob did it and it didn't work out for you? The name of the game is finding your lane and staying in it (everything isn't for everybody).
You ever heard the saying blood is thicker than water and believed it but found out it's not always true? It's hard to imagine that some people are in family's where they can't depend on them for nothing. The only thing family about them is the name. Don't let me get to the part when someone in the family dies, that's when all the evil comes out. Is it ashame to have people you're not related to closer than blood relatives? Is blood really thicker than water?
Facebook, Instagram, Twitter ect... you get the picture. Before the start of social media spots like facebook, there were just chat rooms. Before chatrooms we just had word of mouth some call it game. Look at how far we came with our communication especial facetime. Social media is both a good thing and a bad thing the good part is the easy communication with each other, the bad is what we choose to post and let other know about ourselves. Can social media tell a lot about who you really are?
Getting out the hood the biggest goal for most black folk. Some feel the hood is too toxic to build anything or stay there and anything good happen. Most blacks say when the get successful they will still live in the hood and give back, others as soon as they become successful they move out the hood and never look back. In the wake of Nipsey Hussle murder do you blame successful blacks for moving out and not looking back?
They say theres nothing better in the world than finding a good friend, especially a true friend. A true friend is always honest as possible, caring about your well being and always there when you need them. Friendships also have lines that should not be crossed but is dating each other one of them? Some say why not others may say never in fear that dating will ruin the friendship. What do you say should friends play it safe and not date each other?
You swear to tell the truth the whole truth nothing but the truth. Do the truth always get the desired results? We all know that lying has its negatives but do it have positives also? Do all people lie to a certain degree to get where and what they want? Is this bad or cleaver strategy? Is lying about yourself an indicator of your unhappiness about yourself? Do you have to lie sometimes to get over?
We all have thought or theories about certain events or things that have taken place. The big problem is we have no proof to back up what we say so it's considered a conspiracy theory. All though sometimes it could make sense to some the burden of proof is necessary. Do you have a conspiracy theory you believe to be true? What is your evidence? How concrete do you think it really is ? If given a platform how would you prove it?
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One of the worse type of relationships to be in is an abusive relationship rather verbal or physical. Many people debate on what's verbal abuse or just a simple argument. Well in the same case some would justify physical abuse with you made me do it or I didn't mean too. The biggest thing to me is the sexism in the abuse argument. Most women think they are not capable of abuse because a man is suppose to be strong. Which is worst verbal or physical and why do most women think they are exempt?
I was always told to watch the company you keeping, most believe you are who you hang with some think. Most believe you're in control of your own life and that no one can make you do anything you don't wanna do. Is this saying due to how we would be percieved by others more than the influence the person might have on your life. I heard a preacher say that married couple should hang with married couples to keep each other in line. Should married people hang out with single people?
We have a very bad problem in the black community with being able to support and not judge. When one is successful we are quick to throw the label sellout and most of the time the same people will praise the person who just did a bid in jail. Why is that? Could it be successful people are not looked at as street tough individuals? We know this to be a lie because we all know someone personally that came up from the streets to success. So what's the difference between success and selling out?
Family and friends, the joy and heartaches they can sometimes bring. Love it or hate it that's the way things are sometimes. There are lines that friends and family should not cross and one of them is allowing you to witness something they did that could put you in a bad situation? Would a true friend or family member put you in this kind of situation? Do the code of the street aply to this situation? Would you snitch on a friend or family member?
What was once such a solid foundation has gone sour. We had such a good run but it was good while it lasted. Can we turn it around? The black family and church use to work hand and hand at keeping our family unit going. There was a time you could step out your door on Sunday mornings and see lot's of families heading to church. What went wrong? Why has the dynamics of family and church changed? Is it society changes that caused the downfall of the black family and church?
Is valentines day really all it's cracked up to be? Does not celebrating this day mean you love your boyfriend or girl friend any less? Why are gifts and monetary giving associated with love? Shouldn't love be celebrated everyday? Does the value of the gift determine how much you are loved? Why are we wired this way believing we need a day of love to make each other feel special?
Love is a wonderful thing sometimes it can be trying also with all the ups and downs. What if the down part of the relationship really stood out? I mean like really smacked you in the face? Would you ignore it and continue in the relationship? Would you turn in your pink slip and get to stepping? Why is it so hard for people to realize they are in a terrible relationship? Has this happened to you and how do you know that you're in a bold relationship?
In life we have wins and losses, sometimes it seems we take more losses then wins. When that happens we come to that wonderful place called the cross roads. The reason this place is so wonderful is you have a big decision to make. It often comes down to reevaluating your situation. Should you cut your losses and go in a different direction? Should you continue on the same path till you get that win? Maybe you should consider did I set the bar too high for myself. Is there a such thing as setting the bar too high?
America America are you really the best country in the world? Are you beautiful as the song say you are? Does your land offer equal opportunity for everyone? What about blacks that built this country and added so much and got so little. Oh You did give us Slavery, death, oppression and lost history. You killed and raped our mothers, fathers, kids and black economy. So why do you get mad american when blacks protest against you for not recognizing the part you played in the demise of the black man and family. Question should black folks be patriotic?
Time certainly has changed and along with it life. Most of us grew up in homes with both parents where the father was in charge of the household. Some of us grew up in single parent homes where the mother or father had all the big decision making. In today's world with the women's rights movement things are changing for women as far as their roles in society. Women are pushing to do the samethings as a man. So question should everything be on an even playing field with men and women?
Have you ever did or said something to someone so hurtful that you felt bad about it later and wanted to apologize? We were often taught be careful what you say and do because actions and words are hard to undo. What if you were the victim of hurtful actions or words and were on the recieving end of an apology, will all be forgiven? I was once told that an apology is false because at the time of your actions or words you meant it. So the question is Does apologizing really mean you're sorry and does it excuse your actions?
Have you ever been in a relationship, i'm talking about one you truly value. If the answer is yes then you know about the up's and downs of love. Often people forget the biggest part of love that brings stability and truth and that my friends is FORGIVENESS. That's right The big F we are not perfect people so without that word we could not make it inside of a relationship. So what if a love one did the unthinkable to you, could you really totally be over it?
Boy meets girl, boy and girl fall in love, boy and girl have a child, boy and girl break up. Unfortunately this is the case for most relationships which leads to single parent homes. What if the parent with custody of the child is in a new relationship or married. What if the person on the other end of this relationship is you? Would you be comfortable with your Ex's significant other disciplining your child?
The toughest thing in the world can also be the biggest joy in the world and that's being a parent. We get wrapped up most of the times living our best lives we forget about our kids. Raising kids is more than just housing them and providing for them. As parents we got to teach and protect. So why do most parents expose their kids to the wrong things? Some parents curse in front of their kids, have adult conversations in front of their kids ect. Question do we expose our kids to, too much of the wrong things?
Is physical attraction important? If you ask most people they would say yes, but what happened to beauty being only skin deep? We all got different taste, likes and dislikes. We can all look at the same picture and pick out different feature we like and dislike. Can you truly be attracted to someone without viewing their physical features? Can someones mind or other characteristics be attractive? Is it possible to be attracted to someone beyond physical looks ?
Love can be very unpredictable in terms of who you fall in love with, how you fall in love ect. ect. They say sometime you can be with a person so long you begin to act and sound alike. I also heard some say that people in an relationship need me-time, space or should I say PRIVACY. Is this even legal in a triving and loving relationship? When a love one asks another for privacy is that a sign of infidelity? Should there be any privacy in a relationship?
Women, Women, Women what's up with most women today? It makes you wonder if most women are truly happy with themselves nowadays. As a man the onething I can't stand especially if I'm looking for a woman is one who is strickly eye-candy. A good man is not looking for that and a good woman will not be showing off her goods. Our parents use to say save something for the imagination. I guess that phrase is out the window now, the question is dressing provocative Confidence or Attention seeking ?
Since the beginning of time humans have been searching the earth for answers to many mysteries. Often the questions are why is this, why is that, most go unanswered, some are given an educated guess. One of the biggest mysteries humans have not been able to answer is each other man and woman. On this show man and woman will be asking them tough questions that they always wanted to know but were scared to ask.
This is the Fatcat Show first kick off Episode, we invite you to sit back relax join in the conversations of the FatCat show's top cat and first lady The Mean Queen (Behind The Scene) Lady Sharay. This Ani't the White this is the house Fatcat Built so once again enjoy as we target your funny bone.