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Join hosts Stanley Platts II and Kolanda Douglas as they share real life, real news, real love, real views, beyond denominational limits, about taboo topics surrounding Christianity and religion.
According to the Bible, Jesus stood with Moses and Elijah at His transfiguration, used power to change people and things, and foretold the future. Some believe that these are just a few examples of Jesus acting as a necromancer, sorcerer, and psychic, which are also common practices of witches. However, if being a Christian means to believe in Jesus Christ and follow His teachings, can there be a such thing as a Christian Witch?
Many believe God sexually assaulted or physically violated Mary by impregnating her without consent. Should God have asked Mary for consent beforehand? If so, how do you think Mary would have responded?
If God knew the enemy wanted to kill and destroy us, why did He kill Jesus, His son, instead of the devil? What kind of father sacrifices his son and allows his enemy to roam free? If the devil had died, maybe we wouldn’t have to worry about the church calling Beyoncé a witch, trying to uncover the Illuminati, condemning Maverick City for performing with secular artists, and more! Wouldn’t it have been easier for God to eliminate the enemy and save us from demonic influence once and for all?
Having a relationship with God is a choice. So, what if someone decides they don’t want to be in a relationship with God and we pray for them to change their mind? Are we violating their free will? Is our prayer for them infringing on their right to not choose God?
Your weekly group therapy is back! We're starting the 2023 season with some heat by answering the nontraditional questions that many Christians want to know. Tune in!
Tis the season for the holidays and for some that means, family drama. You were fine all year long but now “they” will be coming for the holidays and you may have to finally discuss what you’ve been trying to avoid. Tune in to discover the best ways to address your concerns and how to lead difficult conversations.
Every church has a culture. It's the invisible presence or personality of a church, which can be difficult to describe without actually experiencing it. While the personality of each church differs, there are six common problems that can be found within church culture. Tune in to discover those problems and learn how they can be addressed.
Is there a boundary between sexual immorality and perversion? If so, what is it? If you're sexually immoral, are you automatically perverse as well?
What uncomfortable conversations should be held in church? What topics has the church avoided in the past, but needs to address in the present?
A lot has happened in the church over the last several months. There was the live armed robbery, the congregation accused of being selfish because they didn't buy the watch Pastor desired, the debut of Church Girls by Beyonce featuring the Clark sisters, and more! Thanks to social media, we've all had a front row seat to all the church-related shenanigans; it's time to discuss.
Worship is one of the most important, yet exploited and commercialized, part of a church service. This part of the service has become such a priority that churches are hiring professionals to guarantee a quality experience. But who's responsible for leading true worship at a church? Who's responsible for the sound of worship at a church? Is it the Pastor, the worship leader or both? Or, is it the congregation?
Mama use to say, "Wherever you act up, that's where you're gonna get it." Should that same idea be used in church? Lately, there have been a few videos circulating online of people being called out in church, but is it open rebuke or open shame? Are there moments where open rebuke is necessary? If so, where do we draw line?
Is there a connection between creative and crazy? Do you have to be crazy to be creative? Do you need mental or emotional pain to be creative?
Social media influencer @terrykaye_ said it best, "Imagine being grown and still lying…” Tune in to learn 10 signs of fake nice people. Use them to evaluate the people in your circle, it may be time for a shift!
"The bad guys ain't no good, and the good guys ain't no fun." Tune in as Stanley discusses "The Life of A High Valued Man" with a few of his friends!
It seems that prophecy has become more about profit versus providing encouragement to the church. In fact, some prophets refuse to speak without receiving an offering first or posting their CashApp. Are we supposed to focus on the gift of prophecy, collecting a profit to continue ministry, or both?
“Study to be quiet.”
“Hush until you’re healed.”
“Listen twice as much as you speak.”
These sayings are not just suggestions, they’re warnings. Why? Because what you say can harm you. Tune in as we discuss the dangers of talking too much!
Woman are always encouraged to wear clothes that aren't tempting when attending church. "You don't want to be a distraction," women are often advised. But, what about the men? Why can't they demonstrate more self-control? Why is a woman more responsible for preserving a man's sexual purity, than the man himself?
Sexual abuse is a popular response when people share experiences about "church hurt." Although it's regarded as one of the most heinous forms of crime, it's often protected. And unfortunately, the persons who commit this crime seem to receive more covering than the actual victim. This episode may be triggering, but it's past time to discuss the epidemic of denial about sexual abuse in the church.
It's one thing to have to fight the devil. But how do you fight when the battle is between your ears? How do you fight your own mind? Mental health is addressed in many arenas, however, it's rarely addressed in church. And as a result, it's become a stigma within the church although many Christians are suffering with mental health issues.
Black Excellence is more than a phrase or a hashtag. Tune in as we celebrate Black History Month!
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Illustrations have become a popular tool among preachers to make the Word of God come alive. But isn't the Word already alive and powerful by itself? Or, are physical demonstrations of God’s power such as laying hands, prophecy, casting out demons, etc more important? Do we need illustrations as much as demonstrations?
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The term "Bitter Saints" seems like an oxymoron. Even worse, the "Bittersweet Saints" you run into from time to time. And yet, there are saints who fit the description! But how can saints be bitter? Is it something we all experience as a result of life happening or is it a choice?
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Some people believe that Christians can be socially awkward. As a result of religious traditions and/or rules, some Christians barely have social cues. Tune in as we discuss the importance of keeping a healthy, balanced life, so we can be effective both socially and spiritually. The smooth, skating, viral sensation, Bishop Vance Oldes, joins us in The Real Room as we tackle what it means to have a balanced life.
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Are you multi-talented? Do you have several gifts? How do you know when to use one of your gifts versus all of your gifts? Is it possible to use all of your gifts at one time and be successful and/or effective?
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What are you sick of? What are you tired of seeing or hearing when it comes to church, relationships, work, family, etc.? Tune in for a much needed group therapy session with your favorite roommates!
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As much as the enemy is accusing believers, we're also accusing him. However, how can the enemy be responsible for the mass shooting in America and the bombing overseas? Is he omnipresent? How powerful is he? At what point does it stop being the devil and starts being me?
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"It's my winning season!" That's a phrase we often hear in church and in Gospel music. But, is it really though? Or, am I just repeating what's said from the pulpit or the lyrics? How do I know when it's really my season?
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Since the COVID-19 vaccines were announced, the debate has made its way to the front door of the church. On one side, Vaccinated Saints, on the other side, Unvaccinated Saints. Instead of remaining a matter of medical opinion, the vaccine debate has evolved into a matter of salvation, a determination for loving others, a way to measure one's relationship with Jesus Christ and more!
COVID-19 has changed the world in ways no one could have predicted or prepared for, good, bad, indifferent. So, how much longer is this global pandemic going to last? Is COVID a result of sin in the world? Is God trying to start a new world order through COVID? How many more people have to lose loved ones before God gets rid of this disease?
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Atheism is on the rise, the number of Christians are declining in exchange for other religions, and many Christians are withdrawing from church for various reasons. How are believers supposed to respond? What actions should we take during this time? How do we maintain our relationship with Christ while tending to the culture?
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There’s a lot of mixed religious beliefs and practices going on. For example, you have people who pray to God and burn sage, others live by faith and manifest their own realities, while others read the Bible for wisdom and visit psychics. But, as long as they believe in God, what’s the harm? Why can't we do both?
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If a person got saved 30 years ago, are they still saved today? Is there a such thing as eternal security? Or, is it necessary to get saved repeatedly? Are we working to maintain our salvation until we die? Or, at some point can we be confident that we are going to heaven?
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Dating is such a taboo topic in Christianity. Nobody wants to talk about it but it's happening outside and inside the church. And men always get help to shoot their shot but can women shoot their shot too? Are there rules about who can make the first move? What is the blueprint for dating with Christian standards?
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Since God's creation of the first family, families have been created in both traditional and untraditional ways. In addition to two parent (mother and father) families, there are now single parent families, adoption families, and foster families. Today, children are born naturally, by IVF or surrogate. With the number of ways families can be created, what is God's idea? Has it changed or evolved to include the family structures we see today? Or, is the first family the only model?
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There's a lot of debate about how Christians should look and behave. Does Jesus look like the Christians we see today? Is He judgmental and condemning? Does He lack empathy? If Christians are supposed to look like Jesus, are we representing Him well?
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With the number of people receiving vaccinations increasing, many churches have started transitioning back to in-person services. But, do we have to go back? If my relationship with Christ is thriving and maturing through virtual services, can I remain an e-member? Can I attend virtual services permanently or do I have to go to church again?
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There's so much pressure on singles from both society and the church to get married. But is it for everyone? Is everyone supposed to get married? What did God mean when He said it wasn't good for Adam to be alone? If marriage is a ministry, isn't singleness also a ministry?
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Depressed Christians, isn’t that an oxymoron? If the joy of the Lord is our strength, how can Christians be depressed? How can sadness overtake a believer if we’re promised joy in the morning?
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Are you rapture ready? Because if you ask the church mother, "We are living in the last and evil days." But, are we really? And if so, how do we know for sure?
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Let's talk about sex! If fornication isn’t explicitly written in the Bible as a sin, why do we treat it like sin? Is intimacy before marriage also a sin? And, what are we supposed to do with our sexual desire/appetite until marriage?
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Weed is a plant. God created plants. So, is using this plant for recreational or medicinal purposes a sin?
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Social media has provided an easy platform for people to position themselves as an "expert." People with bad credit are giving credit advice, newlyweds are providing marriage counseling, and renters are hosting real estate seminars. How can you identify real advice from sloppy, or messy, advice?
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Does God really have a lot of demands? Or, do people create demands for God? Is God hard to please?
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You know that one person who won’t let you forget who you used to be? No matter how much time has passed, they always remind you of your past. Well, this one is for them!
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Grow and whoever doesn't belong will fall off- God will make sure of it! When you realize that letting them go is the upgrade, you'll stop reopening the door and delaying your healing process.
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While every action isn't against the law, every action isn't beneficial. So, what things are a matter of salvation and what things are not?
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Despite what the evangelical church wants society to believe, their idea of the Savior is not Jesus of the Gospels. Their idea is called White Jesus. And he's typically used a cover for racism, classism, and other adverse political, social and cultural agendas.
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So many things went wrong in 2020. So many people were wrong in 2020. How long should we wait for an apology? And is it okay to ask for one?
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There’s some thing in the blood and it’s NOT clean! And it requires a much needed family discussion because what you don't know can hurt and/or kill you.
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Are your friends loyal or flaky? Tune in to find out!
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How do I say “No” to my leader? How do I discover my purpose? Does forgiveness require reconnection? After Open Forum Part 1, there’s a lot more to discuss!
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The 2020 Presidential Election snatched so many masks off! So, what do we do with all this new information? How do we move forward?
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It's no secret, it's just none of your business. If their actions don't concern you, don't concern yourself with their actions. Besides, if you're minding their business, who's minding yours? Tune in as Stanley and Kolanda discuss how 1 Thessalonians 4:11 is an important mantra to live by for better emotional, mental and physical health.
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Death is always difficult to discuss. When it happens, it brings perspective and prompts self-evaluation. Why do tragic things happen to good people? Why would a good God allow such tragedy? Listen as Stanley and Kolanda discuss the untimely deaths of Kobe Bryant and his 13 year-old daughter, Gianna, grief, living purposefully, why it is important to pray and go to therapy.
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Building a multi-generational empire and creating generational wealth is admirable. However, should the church adopt this business structure? Where do we draw the line? Should churches give preference to family? Where does that leave the members who are not related to the first family?Listen as Stanley and Kolanda discuss the leadership structure in today's churches, favoritism in the pulpit, the prodigal sons and daughters of the ministry, and how the congregation responds to what occurs.
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Does politics belong in the church? Is the separation of church and state necessary? How can you tell whether the Pastor's decision was political or spiritual? Listen as Stanley and Kolanda discuss these questions and more, while sharing their personal experiences.
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What have you been holding back? What much needed conversation have you been avoiding? What advice do you want to give to help others? We couldn't hold it in a moment longer. We didn't want to enter 2020 with things from 2019 left undone or unsaid, it was time to let it go! Listen as Stanley and Kolanda discuss these questions and more, while sharing their personal experiences. Listen as Stanley and Kolanda discuss the highs and lows of 2019 and their expectations for 2020!
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Is pornography a sin? What did you learn from your ex? Does God hate divorce? We’re discussing all your burning questions and more!
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Sex is a huge topic in today's culture. It’s seen on TV and in movies, mentioned on social media, discussed on radio, and displayed in advertisements. You can’t escape it and it's impossible to ignore. So, where does that leave Christians? Where does our beliefs and sexuality intersect? Listen as Stanley and Kolanda discuss sex, love, relationships and more!
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In today’s times, the world is in need of the unadulterated Word of God. So, how can we identify the truth when it’s spoken? Is it hidden in the speaker's motivation? His preaching? His teaching? Does the delivery style make a difference in how the message is received? How will I know? Listen as Stanley and Kolanda discuss the art of preaching and teaching.
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It's been awhile since the last time we talked to the Roomies, we need to catch up! So much has happened in the news, in the church and in the culture, we have a lot to discuss! Listen as Stanley and Kolanda discuss the latest in news, culture and their personal lives.
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