The Young, Driven and Bold Show: Recent Episodes
Darryl Ng
Today I have @dariusthw to share about the importance of personal branding. He has shared some powerful tips for you to stand out instantly to get the job/clients you dream of!
4 solid ideas to rest properly from wisdom of the crowd.
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Eat chocolate
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Remove devices before bedtime
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Play white noise like forest & ocean
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Optimize and prioritize your task so that you got lesser worries.
What should you do while the rest are chasing after money. Also I briefly shared why I want to impact 1,000 youths & spread the abundance mindset!
The real reason why we chase for money, respect & power. And i briefly spoke about personal development is the foundation of growth. Most people chase after skillset development but neglect their personal development. What’s the point of having $10 million when you got no integrity.
Showed up no matter what! Today I spoke about knowing your strengths & weaknesses, outsourcing & leveraging on others. Watch this video to find out how you can find your natural gift!
I’ve @ethereal_spaces with me today. We spoke about how your past creates purpose. The power of attaching meaning to things and we also spoke about having a supportive environment.
Today we have @marcuscheu sharing with us his entrepreneurship journey - growing a watch brand & a podcast extension! We spoke about #1 mistake all new entrepreneurs will face and how to overcome it!
Today we have @bibiana.lim sharing with us some LEGENDARY secrets that you DONT want to miss when it comes to getting your dream job despite this COVID period!
Entire 60 mins was 🔥
Shared about how one should invest in themselves & constantly step through fear! And we have wild appearance from @gclenny to share with us his recent episode of him stepping out of his comfort zone. Damn real!
1/3 of the 30 days challenge done!! I spoke about how you can monetize your passion, attracting your prospects using values & how to have abundance mindset
This episode is one of the best thus far!! Done with @dylanlimfj I shared how you can get started to make friends who are like minded like you. Shared about CORPORATE VS ENTREPRENEURSHIP & Also, how our dream education should look like!
How to get started in personal development! 1 hour worth of non stop sharing! @raematrix shared this one life changing hack to help you get started!
In this video, we spoke about self love & @theandrewraphael shared some SOLID wisdom gem with me - how you speak to 1 person is the same as how you speak to 1,000 people. Affirm yourself even when no one is affirming you ❤️
@ryan_tano is on to share some power tips on Parenting & relationships. I extremely love the plan for a 900 years legacy for your family. I assumed that I planned for my own legacy was insane enough but he challenged me to think of a 900 years legacy. That’s WOW!
In this video, we have @ambraliew we spoke about overcoming self doubts and fear of judgement. Shared some cool tips and hacks that you can use to deal with your fears!
In this video, it was filled with me & @baggio_yeong singing & chatting. Something impromptu. We would never imagine ourselves doing this but screw it! Breakthrough 🔥💯
Today wasn’t much, just me showing up and pushing through! Thanks to my buddy @zac_chua for popping by! I shared a little about my biggest takeaway on mindset this week
I shared about my r/s w my dad, my girlfriend and my siblings. Ryan shared about his parents.
Feel free to jump around this hour long video to pick whatever you like.
Spoke about these various topics, parenting, dating, relationships, lifestyle by design.
A few months ago, I tried doing ig live and with people coming in and out, it made me feel like a side bitch.
That unwanted feeling creeps in again, reminding me of my childhood days when parents were too busy for me.
I took the easy way out and avoid doing ig live.
Now I’m back to overcome this fear!
For the next 30 days, I’ll keep showing up on IG LIVE!!
I got this 🔥
If I were to be truly honest with you...
I would never in my WILDEST imagination...
Dare to even imagine that someday I would have the privilege of coaching youths like yourself
(Which I'm extremely grateful for!)
You see back then when I was 20...
I was just like you
I didn't know what was my Purpose...
My Story...
My Mission...
And my Strengths...
But the one thing that started my whole journey was a question from my dad
and he asked me:
"Son, other than playing games...chasing girls and going clubbing..."
"WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GOOD AT?!"
Back then, I didn't really know how to reply to that...
And I was just completely dumbfounded
And at a complete loss for words
So the TRUE reason why I wanted to become a coach was
So that I would be able to guide youths like yourself
Who may not have discovered your purpose, story, strengths and mission
And to just be someone you can count on and rely on
(Someone I wished I had when I was younger!)
So that you can avoid all the Dumb Mistakes...
The Stupid Jobs...
The Toxic Relationships...
The Painful Heartbreaks...
And shortcut your journey to Success and Happiness!
If you want to find out how you can easily identify your Purpose...
Your Story...
Your Strengths...
And your Mission...
Simply drop me a DM.
爸妈的辛苦
感谢你的爱
耐心在等待
我感谢你的泪
lei leeeeeei ~
我感谢你的泪
你生活太疲惫
坚持不说累
我看到这一切
Qie qiiiiiiie~
我心慢慢的裂
孩子长大了
孩子孝顺了
爸妈你辛苦了
我真的
我真的
心疼了
我正在努力着
挽回着一切
终有一天
我可以
让你享受一点
Scared to say goodbye
Mummy don’t you cry
Daddy you’ll be fine
Fineeeeeee ~
I love you till I die.
I’m not the best at singing but this song expresses my love towards my parents.
This post acts as a reminder for me to know why I’m working so hard for.
Here’s to all parents who are working so hard to create a better future for us ❤️
Have you ask yourself:
“Is my Strengths real? Or is it something that I made up?”
If that’s something you’ve asked before...
I want you to meet Valerie
A couple of weeks back, she attended my free workshop
Where I was sharing my One-Of-A-Kind AOI framework
And during the workshop...
We put the framework to the test!
To help her uncover her strengths
And we identified it! (Or so we thought...)
You see, we identified Valerie’s strength as being hardworking and taking pride in her work!
And that’s good...right?
But as we dug a little deeper to uncover her source of her strength...
We made a strange discovery...
(Something that even to me, came as quite a shock!)
And that is...
Her Strength Was Coming From A Place Of Negativity And Not Positivity!
And this discovery itself was EXTREMELY IMPORTANT
You might be asking yourself:
"Why is discovering where the strength is coming from important?"
You see, by knowing where the "strength" is coming from...
And If it's coming from a place of negativity...
You will be able work on the negativity and fix it!
And by doing this...
You will be able to reduce your "Hidden" weaknesses
And live a life of fulfillment and happiness!
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I want more youths to live life purposefully, but I understand that they have their doubts about my work.
Hence, I have decided to give my best stuff away for free.
This workshop is extremely hands on. You’ll get to apply whatever I teach.
This isn’t a presentation but a conversation.
This unique framework helps you identify your story, mission and strengths was created by me.
You won’t see it anywhere else.
This is for people who are driven, wants to understand themselves better and willing to play all out.
This isn’t for people who are close-minded/skeptical.
I was a lost youth myself. I was trying to navigate this maze called life. Out of desperation, I googled non stop. but nothing worked.
But after using my framework, I started living life more purposefully and I want to help more youths to achieve the same.
Many participants have said great stuff about the workshop, some even took action and transformed within the same week.
The same thing can happen for you too!
It’s an exclusive event, do DM me if you want the invite.
During this coaching call, @shawnhcl was doing his art of internalising.
He was trying to find out why is he impatient, why is he constantly rushing into things.
Towards the end of the call, he had this sudden realisation.
He is rushing to prove to his dad that he can be better.
He wants to make things right.
It’s not easy to acknowledge the past and his story.
But he did it, I am extremely proud of him.
Now the question to you is…
Do you know what’s holding you back from living the life you deserve?
Do you dare to confront your darkness…
I am ready for you when you are ready to transform.
Drop me a direct message for a complimentary coaching call.
Darryl how come I always quit on my goals?
Darryl how come I always quit on my goals?
Jayce came to me with a question, “Darryl how come I always quit on my goals?”
After asking her some questions, I managed to find out under what kind of situation, she will quit her goals...
It’s only when friends ask her out, she will stop whatever she is doing and hang out with them...
I dive in further with her and discovered the truth...
Since young she likes being sociable and it gives a sense of achievement when she is surrounded with friends...
Whenever friends ask her out, she accepts immediately because it’s her source of “feeling good” while working on her goals is painful.
After highlighting this to her, she gained the awareness and took immediate action. This week is her 4th week of running 5 times a week. Mad respect to her.
We humans have our needs and justification for doing every single thing...
Each time we do something, there’s definitely a WHY behind it...
We need to know what drives us & why are we making these decisions...
That’s how we know how to improve, and be best version of ourselves
Like right now, why am I even typing this...
It’s to inspire people to live life consciously.
If you want to level up your life, hit me up for a complimentary coaching session
P.S on the side note, I’m truly proud of my students. Awesome bunch of people who wants an extraordinary life ❤️
After working on the goal for so long, you have not reached the final destination yet.
You’re wondering if you’re on the right track and also wondering if it will be worth it...
Not having any results for the longest time, you’re contemplating if you should give up...
You’re feeling the exhaustion...
This simple method that I’ve shared will allow you to press on despite the fatigue because you have a bigger reason & you won’t quit that easily.
Imagine your mum’s life is dependent on every task that you do. You’ll not be quitting.
If you skip it, most likely you’ll still quit on your goals and live an average life.
Repost this if you think it’s valuable. Let’s impact more people together ❤️
You want to have a sense of fulfilment but you are confused about what fulfils you…
Some nights you force yourself to figure out these difficult yet important questions…
One thought lead to another thought, but no answers seem to surface. You start to get annoyed and brush these questions aside with superficial answers.
You have tried googling for answers, you have tried asking parents, you have also tried reading books but nothing worked…
But deep down you know its bugging you, it’s at the back of your head, craving for an answer…
Let me share with you what’s gonna happen if you don’t have an answer…
You will cruise along life without the answers, navigate into total darkness and when the moment you hit a roadblock in life (it could be a toxic relationship, a bad career, a bad business venture)
That’s when your life comes crushing down..
You will find yourself trapped, depressed and hating your life. You will ask yourself “why is this happening to me”
My only question to you is…knowing that all these will surely happen, do you want to prevent it?
This mindset shift has allowed me to push through lots of scary goals that I created for myself.
With this tiny shift in mindset, you will be able to achieve way more in terms of your health, finance, career, and relationships.
Otherwise, you will be spending time learning new stuff, taking 2 steps forward but 3 steps back, not achieving your goals.
Also, your confidence will be higher, you’ll feel more comfortable with who you are as a person instead of constantly beating yourself up and disappointing yourself. Without this trick, you’ll wrongly label yourself and be inflicted with all sorts of fear.
Lastly, it’s extremely simple, in 2 mins you will be able to learn it. If you skip this, you will most likely continue to swarm in self-doubt.
comment YES if you’ve watched it
I realized that MOST people are not LAZY. They just lack a purpose...
How many times have you set goals but failed to achieve them...
Then you carry on to judge yourself by saying things like “I’m a quitter”, “i give up things halfway” or even worse “I will not try again next time because I’m gonna fail anyway.”
I know you’re disappointed in yourself...
So what if I’ve a solution to help you with that? In this video, you’ll get a glimpse of it!
DM me if you’re keen to find out more!
Are you guilty of comparing yourself to others?
I am. I always see guys who have bigger body, people who are more successful, people who are wealthier, happier and more.
But I realized that it’s pointless to compare, it’s more POWERFUL to use as reference. sometimes even better, seek to learn from these people.
I’ve tried reaching out to people that I respect and they were generous to share knowledge abundantly.
Conment YES if this was useful for you!
Here’s Part 2 that you’re looking forward to
This is the MOST important part because when you VISUALIZE and ARTICULATE your beliefs, i will come through! it’s even more impactful than simply writing it down.
Share this post & the previous post with your friends if you see value in it! 😉
I learned this the hard way.
Was struggling with hell lot of limiting beliefs previously. every now and then, I’ll face it as well. but ever since I conditioned my mind with this exercise, things became way way way better for myself.
Give this exercise a try!
I’ll upload part 2 soon! :)
I was once skeptical about it as well, until this particular seminar changed my mind. Because it was a paid event, the crowd was naturally filter and a lot of driven individuals were there.
Ever since then, I kept going for more seminars and courses to expand my social circle which indirectly allowed me to grow as a person. As they always say, you’re the average of the 5 friends you hang out with.
For those of you who have not tried attending any courses/seminars, do give it a shot with an open mind!
Usually after investing in seminars, courses and books, I’ll force myself to implement some changes to my life or business (even before completing the course)
I personally believe that we learn best when we apply the new knowledge. All I am looking for, is just one key takeaway or one big needle mover to justify the investment.
Hence, my flow will be, learn -> look for relevant knowledge that I can apply -> apply -> fail -> learn again.
Comment “YES” if this was valuable to you!
I’ve always been sharing about getting a clear WHY. But allow me to share with you the importance of it.
Firstly, it allows you to be more brave. because you’re aren’t doing it for yourself anymore but for people you care about.
Secondly, when you do anything, you’ll always keep your greater purpose at the back of your head. For e.g previously when I go to seminars, I’ll only take notes that’s useful for my own situation. but now that I have a dream to impact 1,000 youths. I’ll write as much notes as possible, compile into an ebook and share it with youths!
Lastly and more importantly, you’ve a sense of direction to work towards! you’re no longer as aimless as before!
I’ll be doing a sharing on HOW TO FIND YOUR WHY, DM me if keen🔥
Yesterday I celebrated my birthday, I received quite a lot of birthday wishes.
Out of which, I dare say that 15-20 of them, I have truly impacted their lives positively. some sent me audio recordings, some sent video recordings and some even wished me via FaceTime.
Those moments warmed my heart; to know that my existence actually means something to these people.
I’m even more pumped to work towards my mission of impacting 1,000 lives.
For those of you who allowed me to inspire, impact and influence you, I genuinely thank you!
❤️
Often I will name myself with wrong labels such as not motivated, not disciplined and many more negative language.
But one powerful thing I learned from @theandrewraphael is to NOT label yourself. Instead, use the phrase; I LACK!
Instead of saying I AM THIS or I AM THAT. Lack means there’s a possibility of improvement.
Hopefully through this video, you’ll gain more confidence to improve on your weaknesses and not be disheartened by it!!
“Last time Darryl, if he knows 50%, he will act like he knows 100% and go around bluffing people.”
“Today’s Darryl has systems and knows what he is talking about. I’m impressed.” That’s what my close friend who know me for 10 years said last night during the 1 to 1 @cyigps class.
I got to admit, I had shitty character in the past & I have the tendency to smoke people when I’m unsure of certain things.
I’m truly glad that as I grow older, I introduced transparency to my life. If I do not know something, I will gladly admit and learn from others instead of letting ego get into the way.
most importantly, I’m thankful for this friend of mine who came down to challenge my framework, shared with me his HONEST OPINION about me and still managed to see value in it despite my character in the past!
I’m nothing but grateful to have such friends ❤️
Truth is, It’s been super super long since I invested time to learn new stuff. I was getting complacent, happy with where I was but I needed a wake up call to remind myself that it isn’t my end destination at all.
If I want to be my stay home dad by 35, I definitely need to learn more in order to earn more!!
Time for me to pull up my socks and buck up! btw this advice is NOT for everyone.
It’s specifically for people like me - those with a goal in mind but ain’t doing anything about it.
How often do we internalize our thoughts and emotions to find out the ROOT cause of our problems?
The purpose of internalizing is so that you are able to be fully aware of what’s holding you back and take action upon it.
Previously I was living day by day, pushing all my thoughts and emotions away until I had enough. (okay truth was my dad snapped at me, forcing me to be aware of who am I as an individual)
Hopefully, change is because of inspiration instead of desperation for you!
Drop me a DM if you’re keen to learn this skill to internalize your thoughts! Always happy to give back & value to you!!
People often wonder how to find my motivation in life? How to find my calling? What’s my purpose?
It’s actually all within yourself, it’s whether do you want it badly?
how often do you sit yourself down to simply reflect & internalize both your thoughts and your emotions.
dig deep into your past to make sense of it & fuel you to move forward?
In @cyigps that’s what I’ll be guiding you to do! can’t wait to impact even more lives!! 🔥🔥🔥
Many have been asking me what’s Calibrate Your Inner GPS
Hopefully this video answers it all! I created this workshop because I used the exact framework to find my own WHY and that’s how I have the drive & clarity to keep pushing myself on a daily basis!
Genuinely want you to have this as well!
If you’re keen to give this session a go, head to @cyigps to book your slot.
Truly thankful for all these people that I met! Skip to 1:01 for the tips!
Also in this video, I will be sharing 3 tips that worked for me that will surely help me to reach my dream of impacting 1,000 youths to live life passionately, faster.
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Be loud about your dream.
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Network & Make more friends.
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Give Value First.
Hopefully, you will gain value from this video & be one step closer to your dreams! Feel free to reach out to me, I am always happy to meet like-minded individuals!!
oh yes! For those of you, who are keen on personal development; do check out @xpertise.app
If you’re someone who is keen in learning sales, hit @sea.sg up!
I am truly proud of this family that we collectively created 🖤
Happy new year everyone!! In this video, I’ll share with you my 2020 goals & how I crafted them.
Let me know your thoughts & hopefully, you’ll gain value from it!
2 weeks ago, I have been wanting to work out on a daily basis, improving on my discipline however I was not motivated enough to follow through.
These are the 3 things I have done to drag myself out of this demotivated phase of my life and maybe it will work for you!
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Check your emotions
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Understand the reasons
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Set actionable steps
Some people who interviewed me at job interviews even asked, “you do all these videos to get a job ah?”
WHERE GOT TIME TO DO ALL THESE JUST TO GET JOB! 😂
Here’s the truth!
Initially I created this page and private it to document my own journey towards a “better” me.
Along the way, I public it so that people can benefit and learn from my failures and mini successes. No doubt it was scary, to reveal everything about myself. However, true enough, there were people reaching out to me to show appreciation for my content and that kind of reassured me that I’m on the right track.
I’m truly thankful for this page because it allowed me to stay accountable to everyone, push myself to the next level, reach out to like-minded people and this page truly allowed many wonderful things to happen.
Here comes my sales pitch, I genuinely hope you will create a page to document your passion, growth and journey! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
It’s has been 40+ days since I started running. Today, I was pretty bored hence I decided to document the process :)
Your WHY must be backed by a strong emotion.
Your WHY will be the reason for you to do what you have to do even though you don’t feel like doing it.
Your WHY have to be BIGGER than yourself so that you won’t give up easily.
I have been through that phase and would want to help as much as possible!!
Hit me up if you need help with it!
It’s completely alright to feel lost in life, just know that it takes time to work things out & as long as you’re constantly learning, applying and working hard... success will reach you. Just a matter of time.
Now that you’re older and wiser, what are some advice do you have for 16-20 years old?? Leave it in the comment below!!
Have you ever been judged by people older than you? How did you deal with it? Let me know in the comment section below!!
Few weeks ago, I met an amazing tuition teacher and he asked if I could share some tips to his students that will add value to their lives. I thought that self awareness would be the most important element. Hence I shared this with them. Thankfully, he recorded this video hence I decided to upload it and add more value to more people at a greater scale.
Hopefully you won’t have to repeat my foolish mistakes of doing despicable stuff just to get money. Money is everywhere once you’re able to understand whatever I’ve mentioned in this video.
My very first time seeing Gary Vaynerchuk live & this is only the start of it. Definitely not the end! Once he was done with his sharing, many flooded him for his autograph. At that moment, I have an insane dream - I want to buy his time just to have a meal with him, not just an autograph.