Candid conversations about debt, the stigma around money and follow Colin's journey toward debt freedom. Hosted by Colin Loretz.
In this episode, I'm joined by Tawnya Schultz, The Money Life Coach, to discuss our mindsets around money and why zero-based budgeting is the best thing you can be doing right now, especially during the current pandemic.
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My Numbers in Episode 2
In Between Episode 2 and Episode 45:
My Numbers in Episode 45:
Next up for me will be to set milestone goal dates for my first credit card.
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This week I talk to Christian Zimmerman, CEO and co-founder of Qoins. We get to talk about the motivations behind Qoins, how it helps its users to pay off debt, and the importance of personal finance during the coronavirus pandemic.
Here are some of the links and apps that we mentioned during the show:
Thanks, Christian!
This is a little bit of a different episode since we've been on hiatus but I'm excited about the launch of Year 2! You can think of this as a Season 2 of HY$YD and I'll be documenting my continued journey of getting out of debt and investigating the habits that influence our decisions to save, get out of debt and live a healthy life - physically, emotionally and financially.
This episode is a little fast-paced as a lot happened since October. Buckle up and enjoy! Future episodes will have more structure and slower pacing ;)
Montage of October 2019 - April 2020
Reposting this as this episode appears to have disappeared from our feed!
Ep41: Holy cow! We’ve hit one year of How You Spend Your Days!
In this episode, I look back on some of the conversations we’ve had since October 2018.
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Ep40: We’re mixing it up a little bit this week with a meditation on money and life from philosopher and thinker, Alan Watts.
Next week we’ll be back to our regular episodes for episode 41, which marks exactly ONE YEAR of this show. I’ll be providing an update and talking about what has happened in the last year.
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Ep39: This week we talk to Monica Thompson about hitting one of her financial milestones and learn more about how she has taught herself what she knows about financial literacy today. We touch on buying cars, mortgages, credit cards and feeling financially secure. Congrats on paying off the adventure wagon, Monica!
Our Guest This Week
Monica Thompson
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Ep38: In this episode, we talk about subscriptions. Today we have access to more subscriptions than ever. We have subscriptions for movies and television (Netflix, Hulu), toothbrushes (Quip), meal prep (HelloFresh), underwear (MeUndies), and even pet food (The Farmer’s Dog).
Now there is no judgment on this next part but how many subscriptions do you have? How many of those do you really use? Are they materially contributing to your life in some way or is it like a gym membership that you keep “hoping to get to someday?”
In this episode, I break down my own subscriptions. I actually don’t have very many thanks to my expense inventory from episode 4.
My Personal Subscriptions – $100/month
My Freelance Subscriptions – $220/month
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37: This week I’m talking about money in relationships and put my girlfriend, Chanelle Bessette, in the hot-seat. We walk through a list of questions to see how each of us manage money individually and how we approach discussing money in our relationship.
Our Guest This Week
Chanelle Bessette, Personal Finance Writer
Instagram: @crbessette
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36: This week we talk about identifying financial fatigue and how to combat it and avoid it altogether.
Identifying Financial Fatigue
Some of the feelings that come along with financial fatigue include:
These feelings can cause a cycle of anxiety that can be difficult to break out of:
Combatting Financial Fatigue
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Ep35: This week I sat down and reevaluated my finances and refactored my “Numbers” spreadsheet.
This is a little bit of update episode since it has been a minute since the last one. This is also a good reminder for you to sit down and take a look at how you are doing financially and course-correct as necessary!
The newly revamped HY$YD website will be available shortly with new resources for your money goals.
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Ep34: This week we get very tactical and jump into how to make the numbers work around freelancing or being an independent worker.
“Work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion” – Parkinson’s Law
Tools to automate your freelancing or side hustle
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Ep 33: This week we dive into seven things you should do to make sure you stay financially fit.
“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”
– Atomic Habits by James Clear
“We don’t rise to the level of our expectations, we fall to the level of our training.”
– Archilochus
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Ep 32: This week is a fun update! HY$YD is hosting a screening of the documentary Playing with Fire. You can listen to my interview with Scott Reickens in Episode 10 if you’d like to hear more about Scott’s background and why he set out to make this documentary.
Get tickets for the Reno screening: https://www.tugg.com/events/playing-with-fire-tdrl
Get the book: https://www.amazon.com/Playing-Financial-Independence-Retire-Early/dp/1608685802
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We are constantly hearing that everyone should learn to code. While I don’t agree that everyone should learn how to code, it was very much a powerful option and lever for Lindsay to increase her income and pay off her student loan debt.
Lindsay’s story shows how it is possible to go from being an outsider to the tech community to make your way up the tech career ladder with impressive results. Congrats, Lindsay!
Some of the tactics that she talks about in this episode include:
Our Guest This Week
Lindsay Barrett
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This week, I chat with Lara Cattlin, friend and freelance copywriter, about the ins and outs of freelance finance. Freelancers have a gauntlet of tasks that they have to do in addition to doing the work that they specialize in. We talk about cash flow management, the pros/cons of freelancing and how to set boundaries for your time.
*Our Guest This Week*
Lara Cattlin, Freelance Copywriter
Website: http://laracattlin.com and http://freelancelifehacks.com/
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This week, I sit down and calculate my official debt free date and discuss why it’s important to have a clear and defined date. This date allows you to make informed decisions on where you spend your time and money and increases the likelihood of you hitting your goal.
*This is my Undebt.it affiliate link which does help me out if you end up signing up for a paid account.
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This week, I called my credit card companies to confirm my interest rates and attempt to negotiate down my interest rates with each card. My results were mixed as you will hear in this episode but getting your credit card companies on the phone is a good idea, even if it’s just to confirm the status and health of your accounts.
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This week I’m joined by Todd Clary of Clarity Financial Coaching to discuss the stigmas around talking about money and why he decided to become a financial coach to help others accomplish their financial goals.
Some of the articles and resources we discuss in this episode:
*Our Guest This Week*
Todd Clary, Clarity Financial Coaching
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This week, I’m joined by a friend and colleague, CJ Avilla. We discuss his philosophies around money, how his family tracks money, how they spend money and how CJ and his wife have been teaching their kids about money.
Some of the articles and resources we discuss in this episode:
*Our Guest This Week*
CJ Avilla, Software Developer
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Episode 25! This week is a quick rant on recalibration. It’s a good time to bring back some awareness around how much I’m spending, on what, when and why. With the start of a new month (May), I’m looking to jump back into another frugality challenge and only allow myself to spend money dining out on weekends. Most of the weekend and weekdays will come from cooking at home and grocery shopping only.
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This week marks the point where I’ve been doing this show for 6 months. It also represents 6 months of me paying more attention to my financial health than I ever have. That attention has come in the form of:
*New goals!*
3-month goal – July 2019
6-month goal – October 2019
Some of the tools that I’m using:
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This week I explore the Resistance that one encounters when trying to complete creative endeavors, especially ones that take a great deal of time to see to fruition.
The idea of “Resistance” with a capital R is a big focus of Steven Pressfield’s “The War of Art”. I first read the book many years ago but it was nice to come back to the concepts now and map them to my financial goals.
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Tanja Hester is back this week to join us for Episode 22. We spend this episode going through updates on what is going on in our lives. Check out the bulleted list of topics below.
*Our Guest This Week*
Tanja Hester, Our Next Life
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In this episode, I get a little introspective and talk about valuing your life energy, as talked about a lot in Vicki Robin’s book, Your Money or Your Life. Up until now, we’ve been largely focused on minimizing spending but another way to value your life energy is to free up more time by maximizing your income.
Life Energy Calculator
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This week I am checking in to discuss how I’m approaching travel, trips and “vacations” while continuing to prioritize getting out of debt.
Resources In This Episode
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In this episode, I’m joined by Chanelle Bessette to talk about the “No Spend Month” challenge that we both undertook for February. We discuss what rules we set for ourselves, the challenges we ran into and the results from taking a financial detox period.
Links from this episode
*Our Guest This Week*
Chanelle Bessette, Personal Finance Writer
Instagram: @crbessette
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In this episode, we’re joined by Nicole Rose Dion, who conquered over $80,000 in student loan debt in 6.5 years after graduating from college. I talk to her about the stigma around debt, the constant stress and anxiety she felt while she was paying minimum payments and how she was able to shift her mindset to focus on getting the debt gone as quickly as possible.
I put the final payment through on Wednesday as a birthday present to myself. It’s so, so sweet. – Nicole
You can read Nicole’s full proclamation of student debt freedom over on her Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/p/BpH1GNJFZSw/.
*Our Guest This Week*
Nicole Rose Dion
Instagram: @nicolerosedion
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After four months of doing this show, I revisit the goals that I set in Episode 3. 17 weeks have gone by and while I am slowly chipping away at my overall financial goal, a lot has happened since I started paying better attention to my finances and cultivating a better relationship with money.
To recap, those goals were:
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This week we jump into habit formation and how we can develop intrinsic motivation and develop lasting behavior change that help us to achieve our long term goals, like getting out of debt.
Check out more about James Clear and his many amazing articles at JamesClear.com or pick up his book, Atomic Habits, to continue learning about the topics we touched on in this episode.
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This week is a little different. I jam on minimalism and how adopting minimalism in some areas of our life can help you to save money and energy so you can spend it on the things that you truly enjoy.
Resources from this Episode:
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This week I’m joined by a new friend, Dani Morris. In this episode, Dani shares with us how she and her husband were able to thrive on a $30/week food budget for nine months so that they could buy a house.
Each of us has been able to reconnect with food by focusing on our financial goals. Getting to $30/week requires diligence but in addition to saving money, it also has a great side effect for our health and being mindful of what we are putting into our bodies. TLDR: cook everything that you can from scratch.
I hope you enjoy our conversation and be sure to say hello to Dani on Instagram at @danigmorris!
*Our Guest This Week*
Dani G Morris, DaniGMorris.com
Dani has set out to help teach people “how to make every meal at home a celebration” through her own content over on Instagram, YouTube, and her website. All of which you can check out below.
Resources from this episode
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This week I talk about frugality, places you can save money automatically and ideas for frugal substitutions for behaviors and expenses that you’ve become accustomed to (ahem, hedonic treadmill).
Resources & Tools
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This week I am checking in with an update on The Numbers and releasing the spreadsheet! Don’t worry this episode isn’t me reading a spreadsheet aloud. I also dive into lifestyle creep a little bit and share how I’ve observed the effects of hedonic adaptation at work in my own life.
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This week I have the pleasure of speaking with Katharine Schweitzer about how Dave Ramsey’s methods and books helped her move away from the stresses of living paycheck to paycheck.
From a discretionary spending perspective, Katharine and I share the same largest expense category, food & drink. We discuss how she used Mint to reign in her spending and move to her own spreadsheet tracking system to track her discretionary spending on a monthly basis instead of on a category basis.
Finally, we touch on how money can affect relationships and how creating a system with your partner can help to share expectations, avoid conflict around money and save toward shared goals.
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*Our Guest This Week*
Katharine Schweitzer
This week I’m joined by an old friend, Scott Rieckens. We first met after Scott was laid off from his job during the recession and he was looking for something that he could do that would allow him to take back control of his work. He started an online reputation company called Social Chorus and eventually got into video and film production.
Today, he’s focused on producing “Playing with FIRE“, a documentary that uncovers the growing the community of frugalists, mustachians and valueists choosing a path to financial independence and early retirement.
We’re looking forward to checking out “Playing with FIRE” when it hits theaters this year!
I hope you enjoy our conversation and be sure to say hello to Scott on Twitter at @playwithFIRECo!
*Our Guest This Week*
Scott Rieckens, Playing with FIRE
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This week is a quick update from Colin. We’d love to hear any personal finance questions or stories from your own harrowed journeys toward financial independence. You can send us questions, comments and feedback to @howyouspend on social networks or shoot us an email.
We have some new guests joining us for 2019 and we’ll start teasing those as soon as we have recordings in the can!
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This week, we review the goals that I set with Tanja in Episode 3 – Setting Goals. We discuss how and why people fail to achieve New Year’s resolutions and how we can avoid becoming part of that statistic while moving toward our results.
Revised goals going ahead:
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This week, we dive into the holidays. Calvin joins me again to discuss holiday spending and how our IRL spending habits tend to also bleed into virtual worlds like World of Warcraft.
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*Our Guest This Week*
Calvin Fung
Colin has a quick update this week with some resources to set the stage for the holidays.
Resources from this Episode:
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This week I am checking in with a solo update and answering some questions from friends and listeners.
Thanks to Steve and John for your questions!
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This week we discuss facing your consumption and expenses by building an expense inventory. I looked at every recurring expense and expense category (food, drinks, etc.) to see where my money has really been going.
This week I’m joined by a friend and fellow podcaster, Calvin Fung. We talk about the latte factor, our cocktail principle and how we both approach tracking (or not tracking) our expenses.
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*Our Guest This Week*
Calvin Fung
This week I sit down with Tanja and talk about my upcoming goals for tackling my financial obstacles.
The audio in this one was captured poorly. Tanja was not actually recording in a fish tank and I was a little under the weather but we can only improve from here! Thanks for listening.
Today we talk about my debt, put actual numbers to it and draw a line in the sand.
These numbers will be available soon at http://howyouspendyourdays.com/numbers so you can follow along with my progress.
You can follow along with us on Twitter at @colinloretz and @our_nextlife.
In this first episode, we’re setting the stage with our backstories. Who we are, what we do and how we find ourselves talking about debt today.
You can follow along with us on Twitter at @colinloretz and @our_nextlife.
How You Spend Your Days: Candid conversations about debt, the stigma around money and follow Colin’s journey toward debt freedom. Hosted by Colin Loretz and Tanja Hester.
How We Spend Our Days Is How We Spend Our Lives
More to come in Episode 1!