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Cravings are sneaky, and fixations can develop without you even noticing it is happening. Suddenly, your brain keeps circling back on the thing, and it can’t seem to stop. Round and round it goes. Some things our brains crave are … Continued
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The human body, despite having the same basic blueprint, comes in infinite subtle variations. The concept of a “textbook example” of something is one guaranteed to frustrate, as it is so easy to vary and wander off the bell curve. … Continued
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The grass, they say, is always greener on the other side. When looking around at what we have right in front of us, it can be easy to believe that it is disappointing—we can do better somewhere else. Those far-off … Continued
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Open and honest communication is the fuel that keeps relationships running smoothly. In an ideal world, we should all be free to tell our deepest desires to our partners and have them heard without shame or discomfort. Unfortunately, we do … Continued
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Dreams and desires are potent fuel indeed—they keep us warm at night. There are few things as delicious as a dream fulfilled and there are few things as painful as a dream unrealized. When a lifetime is spent invested in … Continued
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Humans love labels. They make us feel comfortable. Things seem to make more sense when you can put a name on something. But while we love sticking things in neat little boxes with clear and concise categories, life has a … Continued
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According to our society, the list of things that men “shouldn’t be doing” is quite long. Things women get to explore with ease are viewed by many as being “off-limits” for men. From hairstyles to hobbies, clothing to toys, so … Continued
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The validating reward of providing pleasure to others feels really good. Although, it can also come with a lot of pressure when performance anxiety arises. Unfortunately, pressure and pleasure rarely go hand in hand, unless you are a latex fetishist … Continued
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It is an age-old question. One that is never going to get satisfactorily answered. We know this going in, and yet we are going to try anyway. Very dedicated advice-givers aren’t quitters! Watch us write the honest truth and have … Continued
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It’s safe to say that I have been lucky enough to sample a wide and varied range of experiences in my day, and I have the footage to prove it. It hasn’t been by accident or random chance—I specifically started … Continued
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We love improving on the factory settings of our flesh. From dying our hair, shaving, plucking, eyelash extensions, spray tanning to skin bleaching, if there is a way to shift what our bodies look like, someone out there has probably … Continued
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We all want to be noticed. To be acknowledged is a core human desire almost as deep as our need for food and water. We thrive on it. For some of us, that hunger to be noticed is strong enough … Continued
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We all know that we should be engaging in safer sex. We know what we should be doing, that message is drilled into us over and over—use protection, but we also know there is a difference between what should be … Continued
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Jezabel. Lady of the night. Companion. Call it what you will, the service of providing sexual attention in return for something of value has been around for so long it is often referred to as “the world’s oldest profession.” It … Continued
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New things and new paths are both exciting and nerve-wracking. They have the potential to go gloriously right but also painfully wrong. Of course, the goal is to have things go as expected, but as anyone can tell you, that … Continued
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Fantasy is flawless. Everything goes perfectly. It’s never awkward. You always get exactly what you want, when you want. Is it any wonder that humans love to fantasize so much? We do it all the time. Fantasy is the filter … Continued
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For as long as humans have been around they have loved sticking things in other things. It is an instinctual urge that gives us immense pleasure. We are always looking for things to stick other things into, from children putting … Continued
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Ah, the one night stand. That one magical night. All chemistry, no conflict. No baggage of past relationships or awkwardly meeting the family. No boring weekends at the farmers market looking at handmade soap. Just the thrill of a raw … Continued
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What submission looks like can vary wildly from person to person. Despite this fact, many people associate submission with pain, humiliation, and anal play. While these activities have their place in submissive play, they are far from the only options … Continued
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Sadomasochism is more common than one might first think. Anywhere from 5-35% of us have engaged in some form of it in our lifetimes. Far from being something to be feared or ashamed of, studies have shown that practitioners can … Continued
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The cold light of day turns the fevered embraces of the night before into shocked disgust. The things that turn us on, the ones that get us really hot and flustered, can swiftly turn repulsive once we come back to … Continued
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Few things sting as sharply as ghosting—someone abruptly dropping you after shared intimacy and going radio silent. To have measured you and found you lacking in some way then return you to the shelf. Becoming intimate with someone requires becoming … Continued
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Re-entry anxiety is a very real thing, one many people struggle with. After spending so many months cut off from the interactions we took for granted our entire lives, we have become rusty and out of practice. Misunderstandings happen more … Continued
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Out of the many available options on the sexual smorgasbord of life, pegging is one of the most popular dishes. Any gender or orientation can use strap-ons. Pegging is also extremely versatile, from pleasure to punishment strap-ons can give you … Continued
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Is it nature, or is it nurture? What parts of our wiring are we born with and can not change? Why do some people love mint ice cream and others simply can’t stand the stuff? Like it or not, humans … Continued
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Long-term bondage is a common fantasy, but like many fantasies, it can be harder to create in the real world. Fantasyland is a wonderful place to hang out—tons of fun to be had there! However, frustration can arise when real-life … Continued
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Anxiety is a hot crippling fog that spreads out and contaminates everything it touches. Once lost in it it can feel impossible to escape. How does one successfully wrangle a toxic fog? Surely it can not be done. The good … Continued
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After sharing some intense and memorable moments together, for any number of reasons people wake up the next day in their own beds, no longer sharing space. For most of us, this fact would hardly be worthy of notice. However, … Continued
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Age play is a frequently explored dynamic that many people enjoy. Being a good girl makes some people melt into a happy puddle of squishy bliss. There is nothing wrong with ethically and responsibly engaging in age play. When done … Continued
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With most of us locked away in our homes for over a year and counting, there is finally a growing light at the end of the tunnel. Vaccinations are happening. Mandates are lifting. People are starting to emerge like hopeful … Continued
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When one has a desire that they crave to fill, it can occupy a fair amount of brain space. The thought of that craving can be a consuming focus that easily leads to frustration and confusion when it remains unsated. … Continued
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What is the most defining thing about being a man? The root, the base, the foundation? For many men, the answer is a penis that they can reliably count on. Unreliable wood can cause a person life-shaping emotional devastation, depression, … Continued
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One-night stands happen. Humans being human, they happen fairly frequently. But for every glorious, earth-shattering, time-stopping, one-night stand, there are far more awkward and anti-climatic ones. If you are going to bother to do something in the first place, you … Continued
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Taking that very first tentative step into the kink lifestyle can feel as monumental as being reborn. For many of us, it is something we have spent a long time trying to find the courage to do. A common misconception … Continued
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Taboo and the lure of the forbidden has a powerful appeal. It is human nature to be intrigued by and sexualize that which is considered shameful. This is no more true than when it comes to the fetish of watersports. … Continued
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Humiliation, embarrassment and shame might seem like things to be avoided at all costs. Most of us steer clear of degrading situations as best as we can. However, it is a wide and wonderful world out there and not everyone … Continued
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Our phones have become extensions of ourselves. From the moment we wake up to the moment we fall asleep we are clutching it in our hands—our portal to the rest of the world. We are living most our lives through … Continued
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Secrets can be delicious, thrilling things. Sexual secrets even more so. Having a sexual secret puts a pep in your step and a twinkle in your eye. But what do you do when you are living with others? How does … Continued
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The smooth silky feeling of satin, the empowering confidence of a high heel, the satisfying embrace of stockings; there is a deep bliss in feeling sexy and desirable. When it comes to dressing up, women are offered vastly more variety … Continued
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Pegging is a sexual activity that exerts an almost magnetic push and pull. People are fascinated by it, repelled by it, and can’t stop thinking about it—at least if my email inbox is any indication. It is obvious that people … Continued
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Sub Frenzy is a state many newbie submissives enter when they first join the lifestyle. It emerges from the excitement of finally getting the chance to indulge in long fantasized experiences. Unfortunately, individuals gripped by sub frenzy find themselves engaging … Continued
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Our connections with others define almost every moment of life. Unfortunately, our hectic lives often make it difficult to maintain relationships with others. This difficulty is even more compounded when trying to establish new connections. Most of us have had … Continued
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Is it possible to have a kink addiction? Are the kinky dreams and desires that you have also causing you to feel conflicted and concerned? And how do you fit a video camera into this kinky conundrum? Today’s column comes … Continued
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We are always learning new things about ourselves. Learning is a good thing and the only constant in life is our always changing state of flux. Who you are now is different than who you were 5 years ago. Who … Continued
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For time immemorial men have searched for a compliant object on which to take out their urges. Let’s take a cinematic journey to explore the past, present, and future of sex dolls. We’ll take you into a dystopian future and … Continued
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A while back, Tantus thoughtfully shipped me a box containing a number of toys from their silicone impact line. It was a box of hurty goodness that I couldn’t wait to try out. Having done a review of the Gen … Continued
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The internet holds a mirror up to human behavior, and the reflection back isn’t always flattering. The anonymity of being online gives people the freedom to act in ways they would otherwise never dream, much like how people road rage … Continued
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For those of us who run more reserved and introverted on the shyness spectrum, it can seem like we are surrounded by confident and assertive folks. People that know exactly what they want and can state it clearly. While it … Continued
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A doctor driven by a single minded obsession to find the root cause of phobias, a patient frantically seeking relief from his nightly terrors, and a man desperately calling out to any other person left alive in the dark remnants … Continued
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One of the basic lessons I teach is that sexuality is packed full of much more variety then many people realize. While there is certainly nothing wrong with a lifetime of standard missionary, I have a motto that I live … Continued
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As much as we might wish it were, our sex drive is not a constant unchanging torrent of unbridled passion. Rather, it ebbs and flows like the tide. It can vary wildly depending on any number of factors. Stress, trauma, … Continued
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Let’s hear it for the middle of the bell curve! Average, where most of us humans tend to hang out. Yes, some of us fall a deviation or two to the left or the right of the mean, but they … Continued
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Always dreamt of seeing the ancient world? Meet the important figures of history; see the defining moments that have shaped our past—the romance of it all. Or maybe you want to travel the back alleys of the bygone and experience … Continued
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Fantasies are fun. Unlike the humdrum of reality, nobody ever says the wrong thing or has bad breath and blemishes. Is it any wonder that we like to hang out in Fantasyland? The lighting is better. It is healthy to … Continued
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Relationships are not effortless, as much as we may wish they were. In order to keep a relationship running along smoothly there has to be at least a little joint effort put into the endeavor. Additionally, the more variables you … Continued
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How well do you know the strange and twisted history of fairy tales? Could they have been sanitized and watered down even before Disney got his hands on them? Let’s find out! Throw on some PJs, turn the lights down … Continued
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Trying to find the right time to disclose your kinky proclivities to prospective new partners is a tricky needle to thread. Being your true honest self can feel nerve-racking, no matter what the circumstances are. However, owning your authentic sexual … Continued
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Orgasms are explosions of pleasure that make our minds shut off and our skin feel more comfortable to wear. They feel so good we would obviously want as many of them as possible, right? Why would someone not have an … Continued
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Fetishes are all around you and permeate almost every aspect of your physical and digital life. Saddle up your pony and come along for the ride as we explore when a focus on a personal fetish becomes a problem, a … Continued
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The more we learn about sexuality, the more we realize that it is not black and white but endless shades of grey. This can be both thrilling and also extremely confusing for some people. Humans tend to like labels. Labels … Continued
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The allure of the forbidden, the thrill of getting away with something, how much more tantalizing an activity becomes when it is a taboo secret. While it is true that a secret can sexually supercharge things, sometimes a secret can … Continued
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Pornography is a divisive subject. Many of us watch it. Many of us enjoy it. Some people claim it is addictive, others want it banned outright. Regardless of your feelings on the topic, there is no doubt that pornography and … Continued
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Loved by some, feared by others, and often misunderstood, what is a clown? Join us for an audio pie to the face as we dive deep into their red nosed world and attempt to distill the essence of clown. Episode … Continued
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Bondage is like a tight full body hug. While bondage can come in a variety of flavors, from “neck tie around the wrists” to “straitjacketed and shackled to the dungeon wall,” the one that devoted bondage fanatics seem to get … Continued
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Slip on your favorite headphones, turn the lights down low, and prepare to take a journey to the wondrous land of cock. What will you find there? A terror that seizes the hearts of men and keeps them awake at … Continued
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Some of the most common questions I get asked are “Where do I find people to swing with?” and “How do we open our relationship for swinging?” I’ve even written a few advice columns responding to similar questions, however, it … Continued
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New relationships are an exciting time. Everyone is on their best behavior while attempting to sell themselves as a valuable perspective partner. You get to learn all about a new person — each of you busily trying the other on … Continued
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The fantasy is that you and your partner complete each other. That the two of you are equally matched in interests, hobbies, sexual drives, and mesh perfectly. That’s the fantasy. The truth is, it is harder than you might think … Continued
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Step right up folks, don’t be shy! Looking for a quick fix to cure what ails you? Then have we got the thing for you! Just close your eyes, hold your nose, and take a big old swig of Dr. … Continued
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Of all the various parts of the sexual act, the one we seem to focus the most on the most is the orgasm. Understandably so, they feel amazing and are a lot of fun. Also, orgasms trigger the release of … Continued
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There is a saying, “May you live in interesting times,” and do we ever qualify. The World, it seems, has made an abrupt left turn and pitched right over a cliff. Vast swaths of humanity are currently under the equivalent … Continued
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How much do you really know about Freud? Come along with the Dirty Talk Podcast for a cocaine snorting, chain smoking, mother loving, father killing good time. Learn why the penis is the key to morality, what royal figure was … Continued
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The more we learn about humans the more we see that it is difficult to narrowly quantify them. This is no more evident than when observing a person’s unique sexuality. As with so many things in life, sexuality is on … Continued
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