UnLined Lip Revelations: Recent Episodes
Quila Boyd
UnLined Lip Revelations is a transparent, real, and authentic journal for the host, Quila Boyd. Always being told that she "came out the womb talking," she has put that gift to use to help navigate through this world and life while inspiring others to do the same. After dealing with feelings of brokenness and feeling imperfect, Quila releases what is in her mind and heart through her lips. We are all perfect through and because of our imperfections. What will your lips reveal to you? Tune in for a new episode every Saturday.
In this episode, Quila discusses her life as an empath. She discusses how being an empath can sometimes lead to problematic behavior and what she does to cope with the constant ability to take on the feelings and emotions of others.
"The Empath and Emotional Abuse"https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-freedom/201602/10-traits-empathic-people-share
"7 Ways Empaths Can Heal From Trauma and PTSD"https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-empaths-survival-guide/202006/7-ways-empaths-can-heal-trauma-and-ptsd
"15 Signs You Might Be an Empath"https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-an-empath
Tune in this Tuesday, June 15th for thr new episode, "So You Think You're An Empath?" Episode airs at 10am!!!
In the season three premiere, Quila Boyd gives a brief explanation on why she has been MIA and what listeners can expect to hear this season on Unlined Lip Revelations!
In this episode, Quila discuses personal thoughts and feelings about being a single black woman in today's society. This episode also goes into debunking some of the myths about black marriages.
"The Top 4 Myths About Black Marriage"
https://www.thoughtco.com/the-top-myths-about-black-marriage-2834526
"Why One Sociologist Says It's Time for Black Women to Date White Men"
https://news.wttw.com/2019/04/17/sociologist-cheryl-judice-interracial-relationships
"Statistics Convinced Me I'd Never Get Married. They Were Wrong" https://www.shondaland.com/live/family/a28848333/black-women-love-marriage/
https://www.amazon.com/Tears-We-Cannot-Stop-America/dp/1250135990
https://www.amazon.com/White-Fragility-People-About-Racism/dp/0807047414
https://libjournal.uncg.edu/ijcp/article/viewFile/249/116
https://www.insidehighered.com/advice/2018/01/12/checklist-determine-if-you-are-supporting-white-supremacy-opinion
Who comes first in a man's life? Should it be the daughter/son? The mom? Wife? Baby mama?! This episode explores the priority of spouses and Quila Boyd answers the question based on her perspective while using interesting articles to support her clai
Links to Articles used in this episode.
https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/why-you-should-prioritize-marriage-over-kids/
https://www.familytoday.com/parenting/4-key-reasons-why-it-matters-to-put-your-spouse-before-your-children/
Last week, "rapper Boosie Badazz stirred up controversy when he went on Instagram Live and offered his views on raising children. In a disturbing display of homophobia, misogyny, and all-around shtty parenting, Boosie explained how he prepares his sons and nephews for manhood"(Hill, 2020). Quila gives her response to what Mr. Badazz(strong eyeroll*) had to say.
Click the links to read the cited articles.
https://thegrio.com/2020/05/15/boosie-badazz-son-instagram/
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/psychoanalysis-30/201101/sexually-abused-boys-and-the-men-they-become
UnLined Lip Revelations is moving to a new day and time! Check out new episodes on Tuesdays at 5pm starting May 19th!!!
Therapist Darlene Lancer defines gaslighting as a malicious and hidden form of mental and emotional abuse, designed to plant seeds of self-doubt and alter your perception of reality. Like all abuse, it's based on the need for power, control, or concealment. In this episode, Quila Boyd discusses her experiences with gaslighters as well as giving tips to handle these types of people. To read more of the Darlene Lancer's article click the following link.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/are-gaslighters-aware-what-they-do
Ms. Quila is back in this brand new, second season episode!!!! She is going to let you know what has been going on as well as what you can expect for this next season of UnLined Lip Revelations! New season, new movement!!!!!
Being labeled is similar to being assigned a role. Perceptions from society, family, and strangers often help in placing a role on a person. Nobody likes being labeled and being referred by a single name, but today it is so common, especially among the black woman. This episode will discuss some of the labels given to black women while checking them at the same time. A special guest, Bianca Mattison-Amos, from Once Broken Podcast, will be talking with Quila Boyd about the roles assigned to black women and how they do not tolerate the labels but instead, walk in their truth.
Mental health awareness is becoming more common each and every day. In this episode, Quila Boyd tells her personal story and battle with mental health and discusses how and why she came to accept all of herself and live with this imbalance.
Is it true that a failure to plan is a plan to fail? How does time relate to relationships and life in itself? In this episode, Quila Boyd, discusses something that has often plagued her throughout life, but has recently started creating stressful situations in her life: Time Management.
What does the future hold? Take your life by the reigns and move it toward what you want.
Once a goal is accomplished, do you find yourself looking for the next thing to do? This episode is a reflection of those "after success" thoughts that many of us have.
Sometimes I am told that I share too much information with others. But what if my testimony is in the "too much"? What if my "too much" is just enough to help someone get up after being knocked down in life? What if my "too much" is just enough for that one person to save his or her life?
Check out a new episode of Unlined Lip Revelations every Saturday!! Email unlinedliprevelations@gmail.com with questions, feedback, or suggestions!!!
Your trouble sleeping may not necessarily mean trouble, it could mean something else. Something much more greater may be guiding you during the hours of restlesness.
Your past defines who you are now, but you can use it to determine who you want to be in the future.