Two crazy, witty, unedited women laughing our way through the tragedies and joys of life. Nothing is off limits. Just simply two besties helping each other navigate through life's heartaches and celebrations, and all the dumb shit in between. No matter what, we always stay honest, compassionate and down-to-earth. Our goal is to share our experiences and bring some humor to our listeners. We invite you to connect with us and laugh at yourself a little more. Or just laugh at us.
Happy Earth Day! We give our surf report. We talk to a big wave surfer, about his experiences surfing this island and beyond!
We explore a therapeutic game designed by one of our favorite therapists, Esther Perel. We dip into understanding how we relate to each other and the connections we form with people in our lives.
Happy Valentine’s Day! We discuss the Ancient Greeks 6 different words for love. Love is all around you. What kind of love do you embrace in your life?
We discuss the good and bad of the 5 categories of men on Maui: the local boy, the surfer, the married millionaire, the SNAG and the tourist. What categories of men are in your neck of the woods?
Drumroll please….. we are participating in Dry January for the first time ever! We share our experience, motivation and tips and tricks for getting through the longest month of the year!
Grief is the price of love. We discuss the stages of grief, and how we remember our loved ones. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
It’s Halloween weekend! We unpack the disguises we wear all the time. When do we drop our disguise? And, When do we show our true authentic self to the world?
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It’s Em’s bday and we discuss this past year in her life and some exciting hopes for the next chapter!
The term quiet quitting has a different meaning in our 40s, we discuss what it means to quiet quit for us. What does it mean for you? Have you actually been a quiet quitter all along without realizing it?
We start Season 7 with a celebration. It is Jo’s birthday and we answer beauty pageant questions in honor of Jo’s childhood, beauty pageant days.
We feel that as Wahine we need to share our experiences with abortion and how recent legislation affects us. We hope you are willing to listen to us no matter what side you are on.
We have an exciting interview with a fellow Queen Bee, Taryn, of Maui Jun Company. We discuss her experience with being a female-business owner on Maui, the passion behind the business, as well as the practical aspects of being a boss lady! And of course the dating in between!
This episode is about examining our self awareness. How self aware are we really? How about you?
We share this episode with some very special, adult friends. We discuss how we meet new friends in the adult world and how we maintain those friendships. We also discuss what happens when you need to phase out those friendships.
We have been asked a lot about what prompted us to do a podcast and tonight we want to share our creative process and tips and tricks we learned along the way. Just ask us, we are happy to help if this is something you want to pursue, and support you!
We just wanted to give our listeners a quick check-in while we are on vacation in Chicago!
Have we grown or shrunk in our two years in captivity? Recent events make us consider whether we are bringing our own small, or big energy into the world.
This episode is not what you think about BDSM. Here is what it means to us-bondage, demands, stress and me time. Listen to us if you can relate.
We have an exciting guest! Big D is in the house! We talk about the ins and outs of long distance relationships. Can you be the one with you love from a distance?
We are recently inspired by Jo’s encounter with the GOAT. We share our experience with the GOAT of love, heartbreak and marriage before the Super Bowl and Valentine’s Day.
We finally get our chance to interview a Madame! Madame Donut to be exact! Madame is a sexy and remarkable, artist and entrepreneur. This podcast is bound to make you hungry, horny or both. So make sure to follow the Sweet Madame on her Instagram at themadamedonut to get your fix.
We start 2022 by analyzing our 2021 vision boards. We talk about our last year and what it means going into 2022. We are putting it all out there, and our balls on the table for the new year. Check out our instagram #40sexyconversations for pictures of our vision boards.
We are both coming from being shaken by recent, unexpected health challenges And wanted to share our gratitude and lessons learned.
After a recent date for Jo, we discuss the importance of chemistry. What is it? Can it be built upon or is it an initial feeling? Can platonic energy be more?
Sometimes we can perceive outcomes to be everything in life. For example, My career will lead to a specific goal I want to attain for myself. My relationship will meet my expectations and make my life complete. When I plan for my day I know nothing can go wrong. But what happens when you let go from that outcome? We share our experiences from being detached from the outcome.
Do you date looking for the potential in your mate? When is it time to be grounded in reality? Is it possible to find a balance between potential and reality?
We have a tradition of honoring our birthdays by interviewing each other so you can learn a little more about each of us! This week was Emma’s and she was definitely in the hot seat.
Jo is open to dating! We discuss how she got to this place of being willing to put herself out there, and what’s she is looking for. Also, we bring back our Tinder game! And try to avoid the SNAGs out there
We are feeling very superstitious this Friday the 13th. We discuss each of our own cultural superstitious behaviors and how relevant those beliefs are today.
We discuss the value of being truthful in relationships and with ourselves. How honest are we really in our lives? Is there a such thing as purposeful dishonesty? Or does honesty truly set you free?
We are back with season 4! (Picture and new bio to come) We cut to the chase and boil it down to three, simple qualities you can use in choosing a man. Pick your best two!
It is our last episode of Season 3, and we thought we should give you some humorous insights into why you should probably just swipe left.
This episode is dedicated to a very special teacher who gave us a simple phrase that we have learned works with most situations in life. We reflect on all we have learned about ourselves during season 3 as we count down to our last episode.
We discuss 11 common sexual fetishes and the have you and would you of each one. Is your fetish more freaky or fun?
We discuss what we want in life and find some common ground as women. We navigate through our desires in career, romance, relationships, finances and health.
We discuss what it means to actually tell your own authentic truth surrounding trauma. How do you get to the point that you can share it? When and with whom should you share? Also, why can’t any of us feel our feelings?
We discuss how to recognize this personality disorder in common social situations, and it’s impact on relationships. Is there a narcissist among us?
This episode isn’t what you think! We try to see the forest before the trees in our relationships with the men in our lives through foggy, but empathetic lenses.
We discuss the definition of a fuckboy, and a few key characteristics. Do we actually come up with good repellent? Maybe not, but the first step is always awareness.
We discuss the big questions in life, and the human experience. What is your higher power? How much does it dominate your life? Can you keep faith when times are tough?
We discuss life events that make you walk away, or run for the hills! What makes you red light or green light certain situations in your life? PS don’t argue with Emma!
This episode cuts deep. We have rarely talked about our children in this podcast because we have been have having so much fun! But our life events recently have made it impossible not to share this huge part of our lives. WARNING: this episode may cause you to seek out birth control methods ASAP. Also according to our research, all children turn out to be teenagers.
What do you do in a shit storm? Do you duck and seek cover? Do you try to clean up the mess? We discuss our different approaches to dealing with the fallout.
We focus on fun in our 40s, and the spontaneity that entails. The short interludes that we have that brighten our days and being in the moment even when dealing with serious issues.
We, in typical mom fashion, welcome in the new year three weeks late for the first episode of season 3! We share our visions for 2021, as well as share what 2020 taught us. Welcome to 2021!
Merry Christmas! We are having our second threesome this month, but this time it’s with a beautiful Disney princess. We discuss owning our sexuality as women,in life’s many stages.
This has been a hard year ending with a Difficult holiday season for many we love! We discuss the importance of Christmas cards in the pandemic, and discuss fantasy vs reality in the messages we send.
We finally have a much anticipated threesome on this episode! We have a guest esthetician tonight with us to answer all our questions about vaginas and more!
So it’s not just the drinks that have made us blurry in this episode. We try and sort out what happens when you lose your way. How can your re-center yourself? Or do you need to just have good old-fashioned patience and sit with your feelings? What do you do when things are blurry?
We discuss the root to our relationship struggles in life. As they say, if it’s not one thing, it’s mother. We tackle childhood traumas from machetes to emotional wounds with laughter, wine and conversation, the best medicines!
We discuss the value of the dollar to each of us, and the implications to our personal relationships. Also, Jo definitely schools Emma in the cost of life because she knows the “price is right.”
We are surfing the wave of change and democracy in action in ‘Mericq. We discuss the hope and change this brings in our daily lives.
We discuss self-rejection and self-acceptance and it’s ubiquitous role in our relationship with ourselves.
With our fearless leader in the infirmary, we don’t want you to worry. We try our best to decipher his best quotes and interpret the meaning behind his best words. Just in case you were worried you might miss a tweet or two in the next 14 days.
This episode was something we have wanted to talk about for a while, and also haven’t. We approach this topic of racial identity from two friends from different backgrounds, and just do what we do best, which is to talk about it.
We have both been inspired by recent chance encounters in our lives. Please give us advice and feedback on your chance encounters!
Reminiscing on summers of the past. This episode is our ATTEMPT at being light-hearted as the summer of 2020 draws to a close.
Jo just celebrated a birthday! So we spent this podcast reviewing the past year’s highs and lows, from one birthday to the next, and all the good stories in between!
We are back for season 2! Unfortunately, starting off where we began with COVID-related setbacks, especially hitting Hawai’i hard. We talk about the struggle to stay positive during COVID times!
After a quick hiatus, we are back! Feeling a lot of unrest... but ready to dive back in!
Many places have decided to loosen restrictions on quarantine. We discuss what this means to us. What are we coming out with after so much time at home?
We talk about negative self-talk, putting yourself out there, vulnerability and bar fights in this episode!
Can you be authentic on social media during quarantine trapped in your house? What are you sharing and not sharing? How authentic are you? #messanger, fishing, porn, good weed, unemployment checks
Well this is not the beginning we wanted for this podcast, but it happened. Emma lost her job today. Jo consoling! We talk about embracing the darkness in life and what we can control.