Hello World with Miyah: Recent Episodes
Miyah Sundermeyer
My name is Miyah Sundermeyer and I would like to welcome you to my podcast edition of my blogging brand "Hello World with Miyah." I have been up and running since 2013 in which I started out on Youtube, worked my way into word press and started up my podcast edition. My main objective is to raise autism awareness and acceptance together.
In this episode I talk about special education vs mainstream level classes. Following a conversation with a rideshare driver recently, I decided to talk about why I think it’s ok for people on the spectrum should be in mainstream level classes. As someone who was in special Ed and mainstream level classes, here’s what I have to say about that.
One of the biggest struggles in the workplace is providing the right accommodations for individuals on the spectrum and others who have disabilities. As a result, comes many misunderstandings and lost opportunities.
In this episode, I talk about “The Sunflower Project” which provides lanyards for passengers traveling with invisible disabilities at airports. What’s it all about?
https://hiddendisabilitiesstore.com/us/about-hidden-disabilities-sunflower
In this episode, I talk about ways that you can advocate for yourselves when you employer makes a false promise. From speaking to a lawyer to gathering the right evidence.
https://www.findlaw.com/employment/hiring-process/can-i-sue-my-employer-for-false-promises-.html
https://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-a-Boss-Who-Makes-Promises-But-Never-Delivers?amp=1
In 1989, actress and retired broadway star brought to life one of the most beloved Disney Villains. Pat Carroll, who provided her voice died on July 30th, 2022. She was 95 years old.
In this episode, I talk about employers who often make false promises to employees. Some of the reasons they dangle the carrot is because they often look to keep their employees as long as possible. For people on the spectrum and other people with disabilities, it can be a deadly combination.
In this episode, I talk about crying vs mismanaging emotions that could get you into trouble. Why do I think it’s okay? Find out.
Most recently, I spoke with Michael Hingson of “The Upstoppable Mindset,” who is the author of the the best selling book, “Thunderdog.” He is also the survivor of the tower 1 in the world trader center. He shared his experiences with me about how he was not afraid the day of the attack.
https://michaelhingson.com/welcome-to-unstoppable-mindset-podcast/
As a result, I feel that individuals on the spectrum could also benefit from learning how to prepare for emergencies. In fact, we all could.
In this episode, I talk about the distinction between a tantrum and a meltdown. How can you tell tie difference? Find out
In this episode, I talk about why individuals on the Spectrum sometimes appear to have tantrums.
In this episode, I talk about witnessing children and adolescents at airport rehearsal tours who struggle with challenging behaviors. However, there ways these individuals can work on not having a bad day.
With 1 in 48 cases of autism, people continue to call Autism an epidemic. In the wake of this, our society has been affected since.
Most recently, I have was reminded that people live in our community who can’t accept that celebrities are on the spectrum. How do I feel about it? Find out
In this episode, I provide tips on what a friend is versus a frenemy. Why? So many people on the spectrum crave friends and end up in the wrong types of relationships.
At the moment, dating on the spectrum is a not topic. Though people think it’s “Amazing” that people on the spectrum date, we are still human at the end of the day.
Last time, I talked about Justice for Johnny Depp. This time, I dive into why I think that Leonardo DiCaprio might be on the spectrum. Now keep in mind that I don’t have my PsyD and nor am I qualified at this time. However, based on seeing his characteristics and things I have read, he’s definitely neurodiverse.
Most recently, Johnny Depp’s trial has taken the world by storm. As a fan of his work and one who has heard that he might be on the spectrum, I decided to talk about Johnny.
In this short episode, I talk about how people often misinterpret hyper focus and suppressing them can be dangerous. Instead, I believe that hyper-focus can can become special interests.
While there are laws in place for disabled people to work, there are employment supports who often fail to understand that. In fact, some supports fail to meet the needs of their clients.
In this episode, I talk about how the non disabled people tend to think they are better than the disabled population. From misinformation and misunderstanding, could there not be more to say
Though April is over now, raising autism awareness and autism acceptance never is. Rather, it’s an ongoing uphill battle. Therefore, I address this.
In this episode, I not only give my two cents on autism in the media related to pop culture. Additionally, I apply this episode to real life.
With one in 48 cases of autism, people often overly focus on the disabilities rather than focusing on all the things that a person can do . Yes, while autism comes with disabilities, there are lore of things that a person can do.
As a part of Autism Middle Grounds Month💜, raising awareness and acceptance, this episode focuses on stereotypes on the spectrum. In this case, I mainly talk about my stereotypes that I face.
Currently, only 10% of the autistic population is employed, while the rest are either unemployed or underemployed. Because of this, many face an ongoing mental health crisis and other related issues. So, here are several issues as to why.
After two years, Hartsfield Jackson International Airport has officially brought back the autism airport rehearsal tours. That said, what do they entail? Find out in this episode.
In this episode, I discuss a very realistic issue that often happens among autistic and disabled individuals. Oftentimes, they fear that they or their autistic loved one may be alone all their lives. Therefore, befriending other autistic or disabled people, that said, that’s not always good.
In this episode, I give an overview as to what exploitation is and how it affects the disabled population. From hiring disabled people and keeping them down to false promises, here is what I have to say about that.
In this episode, I provide tips regarding people who don’t like us. While individuals want friends and other intimate relationship, there comes a time when one has to accept when you someone dislikes us. Here is what I have to say about that.
The Happiness Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/happiness-podcast/id437474360
In the last episode, I talked about a topic known as “The circle.” This time, I talk about people who dislike us or who are not interested in us. From making excuses to removing oneself when you are around, here are some unwritten rules.
What is the circle? Find out in this episode and check out the link below.
https://iancommunity.org/depression-rates-high-adults-asd
https://www.ambitiousaboutautism.org.uk/about-us/media-centre/blog/10-reasons-people-autism-struggle-friendships
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/03/110328151726.htm
In November 2, 2021, the Atlanta Braves swept the World Series beating the Houston Astro’s 4-3 games. Though I don’t follow the follow baseball all the time, I love the Braves and have been to several games. Beyond that, winning the World Series brings back memories of the Minnesota Twins winning the World Series 30 years ago. That said, it was not until recently that the both my home teams faced each other.
In Brick New Jersey, the owner of the Windward Tavern advocated for an autistic employee. Why? Two women got mad at this employee for taking their menus away. Therefore, the restaurant staff attempted to raise awareness. However, after reading about the story, here is what I have to say about that. https://nj1015.com/brick-nj-restaurant-defends-worker-with-autism-against-customers-rudeness/
In this episode, I give my two cents on what is going on in autism and the media. In this episode, I talk about the Netflix show “Love on the Spectrum.” More information can be found here.
https://youtu.be/kX-QbcXyZug
In this very special live show, I am here to talk a little bit more about the show and why I got started. Please be sure to find out
In the last episode, I talked about what made me angry. In this episode, I chose to continue talking about why reminding a person that they are autistic is a bad idea. I also wanted to give a big shout out to Ryan Lee who is turning 30 today.
Hello World and Happy Season 3 everyone. In this episode I talk about what makes me mad? Is it autism related? You bet. Also be sure to check out Stephen Silberman and his work on neurodiverse tribes.
In this topic, I talk all about coronavirus. From getting tested to hospitalization, here’s what I have to say about that.
In this episode, I talk about the unwritten rules of dressing for work. This is can send signals of how seriously you take your job. From virtual meetings to working at Kroger, appearance is everything.
Happy Friday everyone, in this addition I talk about people seeming to think it is ok to exploit disabled people for their own benefit. From making false promises to withholding valuable information, people seem to think disabled people will put up with anything? Why? Because they seem to think we are dumb and put up with anything.
In this episode, I reflect on reasons discrimination remains dominant among special education professionals and their programs. Yet, discrimination starts at teaching at the level of the medical model and the DSM-V manual.
One of the things parents often struggle with is getting their disabled students into private schools. Why? The problem is a lack of proper accommodations which leaves parents at the mercy of public school special education programs. In this episode I talk about the hows and whys. Here are some resources.
https://www.disabilityrightsca.org/publications/disability-discrimination-in-public-and-private-schools.
Ball pits, a common activity among young children at a McDonald’s Play place or a children’s fun zone. Still, I find that ball pits can be used for sensory seeking purposes. Even for adults. In this episode I talk about an autism center that would be more of a place of respite for people of all ages. From the ideas to the pluses and the minuses.
Unlike Greta Thunberg, people everywhere let autism run their lives. Yes while autism is a part of your life and a part of your family’s life and a part of life in general, I think it is taken to the extreme. Too many parents, Professionals, teachers, and the like up overgeneralize autism as a whole. The result, a majority of autistic adults are being disabled rather than empowered. Well autism comes with disabilities that disables a person. There are also lots of things that an individual can do versus what they can never do. And I feel that that a lot of people do not understand that. Thus, people fear autism like it is a god.
This episode is part of a Friday night triple play. 90% of the autism population is either unemployed or under employed. One of the things I am putting emphasis on our jobs in the home-improvement industry for autistics. Space in the past there were lots of Nuro diverse individuals who have worked in areas such as plumbing while I know people who enjoy preparing vacuum cleaners. , There are many individuals today who are either waiting to find a job or they are placed in a grocery store bag and groceries. That said, I feel that the same individuals would benefit from receiving training in jobs related to home maintenance. Here is why
In this triple play episode, I talk about rejection. Well individuals on the spectrum are often rejected or excluded, Many people off the spectrum get rejected as well. And though it hurts rejection can also be a good thing and here’s why.
In this final episode of triple play Friday, I discussed different ways that employers are cruel to their disabled employees. From tokenism to false promises be sure to listen in.
from and their families regarding home maintenance professionals. While it's nice to have a convenient services, there are many who can tip you off. In this episode, I provide tips on picking the right people and their services.
it's really common for staff in a special education program and other disability related agencies to make and break their promises to clients and family members alike. why this happens I don't know but I feel like it needs to be discussed. Scientifically, there are studies out there suggesting that broken promises light up areas of the brain that are related to lying. as someone who went through similar situations, I can argue that it's fair to call it out.
one of the deficits of when it comes to autistics is that the ability to drive. in this case, driving varies among individuals who are spectrumites. there are individuals on the spectrum who cannot drive at all. this leaves them relying on the public transportation carpooling and even other services such as Uber and Lyft. in this episode I talk about some tips and my own experiences of taking Uber and Lyft as opposed to taxi cabs and other public transportation.
90% of the autistic population is either unemployed or underemployed. because of this, many individuals are missing out on life's opportunities such as employment opportunities, moving on and enjoying a fulfilling life etc. while the Ada has set guidelines and placed them with employers none of them seem to get the message that the autistics of have a right to work. instead these employers often make excuses. yet, there are other contributing factors to the unemployment situation that is currently taking place.
90% of the autistic population is either unemployed or underemployed. because of this, many individuals are missing out on life's opportunities such as employment opportunities, moving on and enjoying a fulfilling life etc. while the Ada has set guidelines and placed them with employers none of them seem to get the message that the autistics of have a right to work. instead these employers often make excuses. yet, there are other contributing factors to the unemployment situation that is currently taking place.
90% of the autistic population is either unemployed or underemployed. because of this, many individuals are missing out on life's opportunities such as employment opportunities, moving on and enjoying a fulfilling life etc. while the Ada has set guidelines and placed them with employers none of them seem to get the message that the autistics of have a right to work. instead these employers often make excuses. yet, there are other contributing factors to the unemployment situation that is currently taking place.
first of all long time no talk, tonight I would like to argue my point that it is okay for autistic individuals to serve on a jury. today, lots of individuals and caregivers alike believe that autistic individuals should not serve on a jury duty and the jury duty should be exempt for all people on the spectrum alike. still, I feel that those views are unrealistic because not every autistic is the same and and because disability rights are civil rights, they should be entitled to serve on a jury.
as I mentioned last week, discrimination in the church setting is really common. in this particular case I share my story of discrimination I faced when I attempted to attend a church in the greater Minneapolis area. One of the reasons why disabled individuals face discrimination in the church setting is because lots of unwritten social rules and other social norms are often in place. Because of that, the expectation is often very high that every person is expected to fit a certain mold. Here is what I have to say about that.
this episode, I talk about the attitude of leaders and other churchgoers. well not just churches per se other houses of worship and how disabled and needy people are treated.
one of the things that autistics often run into are hidden nuances within the work environment. because of this many individuals often struggle to fit the mold. Like a game called silent ball that I played in elementary school, work is almost like playing a game.
I cannot emphasize enough about why it is important for parents to let their autistic and disabled child become more independent. In fact, many parents today often disabled their children who are adults by overly coddling them due to the a silly self fulfilling prophecy. Here is what I have to say about that.
I recently did something that the autistic community does not highly approve of. L ots of individuals on the spectrum have great anger towards the organization known as Autism Speaks. They don't even like it when a self-advocate is involved with them. As I said, tough knuckles.
On this episode I talk about family members who often blame their disabled "Loved ones" for "Bad behavior" and claim they are afraid of them. Yet,they never watch how they treat those loved ones.
Rules 1. Be respectful 2. We can agree to disagree 3. If you can 4. If you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all.
Sadly,house of worship have pinged stigma against people who are disabled or different. Why? Leaders and those who are grandfathered in have unrealistic expectations and standards that they believe apply to everyone.
One of the hottest issues in the disability community today is inspirational porn. In This episode I talk about the definition while also trying to be teach individuals to learn they are worthy regardless of inspiration porn.
One of the things women on the spectrum struggle with is connecting with other women. Here are some tips as to why we don’t connect with them and how they connect.
During the pandemic,public and mass transit companies altered their scheduled and even shut down some of their busses until further notice. This impacted the lives of people who otherwise rely on public and mass transit for work and other needs.
Hello World, I welcome you to listen to my show "Hello World with Miyah," which is all about taking middle grounds on raising Autism Awareness and Autism Acceptance. For more information to go HelloWorldwithMiyah.podbean.com
While there are reports that employment turn outs are 90% rates of unemployment and under employment, supported employment providers can’t seem to see past the disability and here is why.
Recently, I was featured in an article put out by Autism Health News on living on the spectrum and coping with COVID-19.
While inclusion has become a popular topic among the disability community, individuals still face micro aggressors such a micromanagement. In this episode, I talk about the difference.
In this episode, I talk about overly protective parents who let their autistic children do whatever they want.
Today self advocacy is very popular and individuals on the spectrum are heavily involved. Yet, there are those who are throw pity parties and invite others to join them. In this episode I define the difference.
Following up with last week’s episode,which was regarding a propaganda put out by Autism Speaks in 2009. In this video I talk about individuals on the spectrum who have skills and hobbies in film and media and create content opposing videos like that.
Today, there is a great divide between Autism Awareness and Autism Acceptance. In lieu of this, people are almost always expected to pic a side. Still, I have simply chosen that it is okay to take Middle Grounds. Recorded from my live show, here is episode.
Also, here is my webpage
helloworldwithmiyah.podbean.com
In 2009, Autism Speaks put out a commercial entitled “I am Autism.” Its content created created propaganda for stigma and ableism. As a result, the spectrum community is very angry.
From Best Buddies Facebook Page
From Stone Mountain, GA, say hello to Best Buddies Ambassador, Andrew Dixon!
A chapter member of Emory University and longtime volunteer, Andrew has spoken at and helped collect auction items for the Best Buddies Georgia Champion of the Year events. Andrew has played an integral part of efforts to expand our school programs throughout the state of Georgia!
“Being a part of Best Buddies for the past 12 years, I’ve gotten to enjoy having a buddy to hang out with both on and off campus. What I like about my involvement with Best Buddies is to be accepted and loved by many people and to be able to speak at events about my experiences.” - Andrew Dixon, Best Buddies Ambassador https://www.bestbuddies.org/ Photos of Andrew here https://www.facebook.com/bestbuddies/photos/pcb.10158613769398718/10158613769303718/
As I continue to give my two cents on what's going on with autism and the media by reading "Understanding Autism," I read "Reluctant Keepers," by Elizabeth Choi. Unlike the other articles, this one made me feel very sad and and angry. Why? People continue to paint all autistics as violent monsters who abuse their family members and the people around them. That said, they never bother to look at the bigger picture or understand what they are doing that creates those behaviors.
On Sunday April 11, 2021, you heard from Tripp Ritchie on autism and employment. Here is my extra commentary tonight.
In this episode, I continue to give my two cents on what is going on with autism in the media. As mentioned, I have been reading various articles in the New York Times special edition, "Understanding Autism." In this episode, I talk about an article written by Eli Gotlieb and how he has been a caregiver for his brother. He also talks about the struggle of the lack of services and supports.
As I continue to give my two cents on what's going on with autism and the media, I have been reading "Understanding Autism" by the New York Times. Of all the authors, Jen Malia, an associate professor at Norfolk State University, wife, mother of two autistic child, while diagnosed herself.
As I continue to give my two cents on what's going on with autism in the media, I proceed to read the "Understanding Autism," by the New York Times. In this episode, I talk about an article written by John Deland and photographed by Travis Huggett. In the featured story, Deland talks about young boys who fall on the spectrum who happen to be fascinated by trains. Yet, I have to argue whether or not this apply to all autistic males.
Tripp is a retired United States Marine Corps Lieutenant Colonel. He retired after 25 years of military service with multiple command and combat tours. For his second career Tripp chose community service. He co-founded the Lowcountry Autism Foundation, Inc. then added Director of Family Support Services, Children’s Hospital, Medical University of South Carolina, and finally became the Director of the Autism Center, Navicent Health, Medical Center of Central Georgia, Macon, GA. A highlight of his community service experience occurred in 1995, when Tripp received the "Jefferson Award" from the American Institute for Public Service, at the United States Supreme Court. His military-community team’s work supported low income, minority citizens with intellectual disabilities. Tripp earned his BA in Psychology from Eastern Washington University and MS in Logistics Management from Florida Tech.
North GA Autism Foundation (NGAF), Inc. was originally formed to help fill the significant gaps in Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) services in our local area (Fannin, Gilmer, Union Counties) and across North Georgia, Polk County, TN and Cherokee County, NC. Early detection and intense intervention can dramatically change the life of a child with ASD. It quickly became obvious that life span support services were also lacking. NGAF expanded its mission to support individuals with disabilities from birth through life.
https://www.ngafinc.org/about
In this show, I talk about Steve Silberman’s article “Behold the Spectrum.” You can find it in the New York Times “Understanding Autism.”
Though the Holocaust ended 76 years ago, it not only shook the world but it showed how evil a man can be.
Today, Autism Awareness is often looked at from the corporate level and according to the medical model and not from a holistic standpoint. In this podcast, I talk briefly about a special magazine put out by the New York Times. "Understanding Autism."
Here is the source
https://www.amazon.com/New-York-Times-Understanding-Autism/dp/1547852488
On Sunday April 4, 2021, I had the honor of having Temple Grandin on my show for a second time. In this special edition, is shout out to Temple and my commentary related to the show.
With COVID-19, social distancing, and technology, people have been spending less and less time exploring in the world. Here to write her new book "The Outdoor Scientist." From looking at stargazing to going outside into a field, Temple and I lead a discussion on topics related to science.
What is setting a person up for failure? In this episode, I talk about how and why it happens and whether it is intentional.
What is discrimination and where does it come from?
According to the dictionary
1.
the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things, especially on the grounds of race, age, or sex.
"victims of racial discrimination"
recognition and understanding of the difference between one thing and another.
"discrimination between right and wrong"
2. recognition and understanding of the difference between one thing and another.
"discrimination between right and wrong" (Oxford Languages) Article in the American Psychological Association
Discrimination: What it is, and how to cope https://www.apa.org/topics/racism-bias-discrimination/types-stress
So what is taking middle grounds and what does it mean anyway? Often talked about on my podcast and on social media, here is a deeper meaning.
In this episode, I rise above other people’s expectations of what others think of disabled and autistic people.
Today, there are lots of parents who put theirs eggs into one basket when it comes to employment. As a result,many individuals wait in long waiting list. Still, there are ways to keep busy that keep your individual engaged.
As I had talked about before, there are autistic, neurodiverse, and disabled people who act like they are above their peers. Why? Find out tonight
Lately I have been talking about some negative situations regarding people who think they are above us and can talk to us any way they want. Why? Because they think they are entitled. That said, you don’t have to agree with them. That is their opinion.
In this episode, I talk about how and why so many autistics are not motivated. Not only that, why rates of depression are soaring higher, and why so many are angry. Here is what I have to say about that.
Sam has a mission: To take the stigma off of autism and show people that he is not broken, therefore, embracing autism. Sam is not ashamed and wants to be the voice of those with autism or other disabilities. His podcast is helping him change the world just a little bit at a time.
For more information, check out Sam Mitchell here.
autismrocksandrolls.com
You can find him right here on Podbean, Itunes, Googleplay Podcasts.
In this episode I talk about how and why the autistic community experiences societal barriers and lack of opportunities today. One of the reasons is because the allistic community is led by fear
Though this is redundant, I have decided to dedicate one episode to the national day of mourning, per year. In this episode, I remind people the murder of the murder that takes places at the hand of caregivers.
In this episode, I talk about allistics and other disabled people who tend to think they are better. Why is this? Either way, you are fabulous
One of the things autistics struggles with is finding a significant other and settling down. We often miss the important nuances in order to really understand what a significant other is. In this episode, I share a few experiences and examples of what a boyfriend or a significant other is not. I also demonstrate all the signs when someone could be a significant other.
Becoming an adolescent is often difficult for anyone. With everything from changing schools to peer pressure, no wonder things are a difficult time. For an autistic, becoming an adolescent can be twice as stressful due to all the changes.
Though there is a self-advocate movement, the attitude of the allistic community continues to have a negative perception about disabled people. In fact, they tend to believe they know-it-all when they don’t.
In this episode I talk about caregivers and providers who abuse autistic and other vulnerable populations. Why does this happen?
Today, the self advocate community often argues that the roles in film and movies needs to be more authentic. Should they, yes.
As I was watching Hoda and Jenna, I listened to an interview about a company called “Howdy Homemade.” This is a company who hires disabled people, including a Vice President with Down syndrome. As I listened, I noted the way Hoda and Jenna treated him in the other interview.
Social media, what about it? This podcast is about the way people can be mean and inconsiderate on social media. I am here to give my opinion
Last night I talked about why autistics struggle to manage their emotions. In this tonight’s episode, I talk about getting to the roots with mitigative practices.
In this episode, I talk about what individuals often struggle to manage their emotions. Especially with their parents.
Tonight, I would like to feature a special guest of the second season. They have a very special story too.
One of the biggest problems is while NT’s say that we don’t have the mental capacity to put ourselves into other people’s shoe’s, they can’t seem to put themselves into our shoes when they discourage us.
Last week, I talked about what friends are vs what they are not. Tonight I talk about ways you can end up in bad friendships. So here are some tips
In this episode, I talk about the difference in real friends versus fake friends. From sincerity to manipulate manipulation, here is what the autism community needs to know
Though much research and education has come out about autism, there still is way too much generalizations. Because of this, there are many misunderstandings S
While autism is becoming more celebrated, there are people out there who think they can control us. One of those ways of control is through various types of manipulation including through reminding a person they are different.
Like most people, individuals on the spectrum often have friends who begin dating. However, what they may not realize is that dating comes with new rules and lots of changes.
Like every community, there will always be those rotten apples who spoil the bunch. Small-minded people to be exact. How do you deal with them? Find out
In this day in age, too many autism parents are overly protective of their children,teens, and adults who live on the spectrum. As a result they feel sorry for them and let them do what they want.
In this brief episode, I talk about how and why autistic adult children become unmotivated. Find out
In this episode, I talk about reaching out to the autism community the struggles I face to do so.
Many parents of adults on the spectrum do know what to do with their children. Whenever they suggest anything, individuals often put up a fight. However, here are some tips.
In this episode, I talk about the difference between the helicopter parents and individuals who still live with their parents and need help from them?
In this episode, I talk about social security, benefits and employment. Though I think social security and Medicare are essential, I see another problem.
While self-advocacy is a big theme in the disability community, self-advocacy has plays a role in other areas too.
Hello World, I’m Miyah Sundermeyer, the official podcast host. I am here to help you explore what autism is. Further, raise autism acceptance and awareness.