Parenting Your "Nearly Grown" JUST. GOT. EASIER.: Recent Episodes
Pam Hardison
Your kids are about to "fly". Are they ready? What's left to teach? How can I finish strong with them? Finally, help for parents of young adults. Yes, you can make the most of the last season with them, and not be a helicopter parent!
more than turkey. More than Black Friday. More than decorating for the Christmas Season. And . . . no gifts required. Certainly, it's a way of connecting. But allow me to share in this podcast what I am thankful for. (I also did a video version of this so head to https://www.jellygeneration.com/blog/124 if you want to watch it in video form.)
It's more than turkey and dressing. It's an opportunity to reach out to those that need to hear that simple phrase - thank you. But how and who? Here are 10 ways to connect this season both personally and professionally. Tip: these 10 ideas can work for any season.
When someone hears your name, what do they think about you? Companies invest heavily in their brand. As individuals, our brand/reputation can open or shut doors accordingly. Knowing your individual brand and what you really want it to be is imperative.
We all have it. Its that individual brand. Our challenge? Defining the gap, which is the difference between what people think vs. what we would like to have our brand defined as. This podcast can help you narrow that gap.
Everyone wants one. Everyone offers them. To do them well requires more than you think. Learn 3 typical compliment-giving mistakes AND 1 sincere compliment-giving technique sure to extend its goodwill beyond the expected timeframe.
Considering pausing your career? 1/3 of those in the workforce are. Re-entering it can be tough. But laying the groundwork to stay relevant can smooth the way.
You play most important musical instrument in your life - your voice. How well do your play it? When we speak, we want others to listen. From job interviews and business meetings to college entrance appoints and even at a PTA meeting, connecting with others requires us to "play" our voice-instrument at top performance. Here are 5 ways to help you up your voice game.
What is it someone does that makes them a people magnate? Whether it's to increase friends, acquaintances, or business contacts, what makes someone a "people person?"
Learn the "what" and the "why" of the simplest, yet most overlooked way to meet and connect with others, whether for business or personal relationships.
Clearly so many changes have happened since 2019-2020. How might they affect you and how can you adjust? This podcast covers changes and 3 ways to jump start your connecting skills again.
Sometimes those conversations just happen - or almost happen. How can we reduce or avoid communication conflict? By switching this 1 word you can see a difference.
The very next person you meet will have an impact on you in one way or another. Either they are a ship in the night, or you with them connect in some way. Yes, both make an impact. But we all want connection on some level. Here's what your #1 goal in meeting someone should be.
Who hasn't had a difficult time exiting a conversation that's gone too long, or just needs to end? It is imperative these days to learn important soft-skills such as this. Learn 3 effective and easy strategies on how to close out a conversation and do so gracefully!
You want to portray confidence as you meet people. It helps put everyone at ease. But before you even open your mouth to say hello, something else happened. You walked in the room or approached them. How well did you portray your approachable confidence? What can you do to improve? Here's how . . .
Do you want a network of friends, associates and more that can be meaningful relationships to all involved? Then you must begin a framework to do so with these 3 steps.
Just who is your boss? You've got at least 2. One of them stares back at you in the mirror. How are you doing at being boss? Is it stopping or helping you as you connect with others? Learn 3 ways to fire and then rehire a better you. Hint: one of them is a habit that's easy to adopt.
Quit looking back and thinking "wow, did I miss that opportunity". Here are 3 ways, both big and small, to be able to say "I've got this!"
Nothing charts your growth in connecting with others (friends/networking, etc.) than knowing the signals you send and adjusting as needed. Here are 3 ways to learn, be authentic yet alter your trajectory. It starts with research.
When you look at your teen "what you see isn't what you get"! Their brain is not finished growing yet. Learn what's still wiring up AND 7 ways to encourage the "good stuff" to grow.
Your child's brain is still developing. In what ways? How does yours differ? Why is all of this GOOD NEWS? Learn this and more.
My kids weren’t achieving this. Or achieving that like the kid down the street . . . Or making an A in science. Or getting into the college of their choice. OR the job of their choice. Do any of these “envies” ring a bell? Envy. As a parent, it can eat you up. Here are 5 ways I reduced my envy and improved my relationships.
Time grows shorter with your teen and you know there is so much left to cover. Guilt ensues. But you are busy. How can you get those last important parent-lessons taught to your teen and create special bonding moments at the same time? This podcast has your plan to do just that.
Chicago vs. Richmond. Dallas vs. Portland . . . and on and on. Are you moving? Jr/Sr picking a college city? Learn an easy and little used criteria to potentially save hundreds if not thousands of dollars as you select which city to live in.
Introducing career building habits while your child is still high school or college aged is easier than you think. When these habits build self-confidence, a resume, and a networking attitude as well? It's a can't miss habit your teen needs to learn now. And it's all around them, and easy.
Summer Brain Drain? Stats say yes, kids lose knowledge over the summer. How can you have a blast this summer and avoid brain lethargy? Sneak in thinking, doing, learning by wrapping it up in summer sun. Here are 10 super Ideas for you and your teen to do together and 10 great ideas just for your child.
Do you know about ACT-SAT Requirement Trends? What jobs for a HS grad fit? Gap Year Yes or No? Is your HS ranked? How about college financing? Here are 10 articles that address these very issues plus more. Every parent of a teen will want to read these. Click thru to https://www.jellygeneration.com/blog/100 for the links.
You've heard of business networking, but personal networking? It's arguably more important than the business side. While the need to be great at this skill abounds, few realize common mistakes they make. These 7 "do not" mistakes apply to almost any age.
Want to help your "almost grown" child get the jump on their future? What if I told you that it all started with just a 5 minute conversation? Every parent will want to spend these extraordinary 5 minutes with their teen. Here's How.
Correct introductions are a learned skill. Teens and those even older haven't had much practice with in -person introductions. Do they know how to exude self-confidence and put the other person at ease? Here are 3 pointers and the WHY behind each that they need to know.
Hi. Pam Hardison with Parenting Your Nearly Grown JUST. GOT. EASIER. If you want a tool to teach your teen how they create fear AND a tool to conquer that fear, then this podcast is for you. It just might give you a technique you've not used before as well.
It's in the news. It's something teens+ need to understand. To parents? It's a great opportunity to teach a lesson they'll need for life. But inflation seems like a hard topic. It doesn't have to be. This podcast is a quick summary of what inflation is, an easy example for teens, AND steps they can use to be better prepared. Show Link: https://www.jellygeneration.com/blog/graduating-moving-destination-cost-decisions-here-s-the-help-you-need
Your "almost grown" child suffers a set back. Whether a bad grade, an Instagram comment, or they don't make the team. Do they freeze? Life should be full of practical tools for your child to draw on (parents too). But often no one explains them. Today learn a 5 Minute Hack that's easy to teach and use that just might pull them out of their funk faster and keep them moving forward!
Worrying about keeping in touch with those amazing parents and your child's friends you've met during the last 12 years? This podcast has you covered. Here's a FUN and easy way to stay connected. And yes, there is a BONUS. This plan just might get your child to actually phone you, too.
Your "almost grown" needs every tool they can find these days to snag that job, interview, college application, and part-time job. Getting good recommendations is a huge component to their success. But how can you up the odds significantly to getting a recommendation that glows, fits the event in question, and leaves both you and the recommendation writer at ease? Join me and learn how.
"I have enough self-confidence" said no teen ever. Yes, there are ways to help them build it. Learn 2 ways to do so and 1 myth all teens/young adults need to quit buying into.
You are busy. Your teen+ approaches life-after-you at lightening speed. What can you do to prepare them for items not usually covered in school? Here are 10 super items every teen needs to know how to do before graduation and how to slip it into their calendar.
Is LinkedIn a "fit"for your HS and College-Aged child? Today I interview an advisor to a major college business school with his low-down on LinkedIn, and 6 Do's and Do Not's that you'll want to hear.
Is there a media app that might be a good fit for your teen? Here are great points you as a parent will want to consider both pro and con. LinkedIn can provide a way for your older teen to stand out. But what points should you weigh first?
Don't fall into the trap of thinking high school merely exists to get into a college. What are some goals for your high school aged child? Learn how to avoid these parent mistakes.
If ever there was a strategic move for teens to make early in their high school career, this is one of them. These 10 questions can help guide them in choices presented to them. It can save mistakes for later. These 10 "interest" questions can get them to think about their future in a way that matters.
So grandma gave your almost grown child $$ for their birthday or holidays. Perhaps your teen earned $$ on a part time job. How can that money grow? How can they learn AND earn even more? Here are 4 fabulous money moves every parent/teen should consider.
Teens and Money. What a combo. Holidays present the perfect opportunity for them to earn money AND learn along the way. Networking. Money Management. Responsibility. The Joy of Doing Something Well. All worthy skills. Here are 5 great ways they can capitalize on the holidays to get a bit of jingle in their pocket. Hidden gem: you just might not hear "mom, can I have $20" quite so much either.
Does your "almost grown" child know how to stand out and why? Learning the need to "brag" and set themselves up for success sneaks up on our kids. Don't let it. Here are 3 methods to help your teen learn how to stand out, not hide out, and level up.
It's no secret that our "almost grown kids" still need our parent wisdom BUT we struggle with how to get their listening attention. The holidays allow us to ask fun, crazy, wacky questions while sneaking in a few teaching nuggets. In this podcast, learn 5 silly questions perfect for the asking.
"Hello, my name is . . . . " So much depends upon those first few seconds in an introduction, from making new friends to that job interview. It's crucial networking. Does your "almost grown child" know about these 3 typical introduction mistakes and how to fix them?
As parents we know that social media for our "almost grown" kids is both good and bad. Good: networking, etc.. Bad: social pressure, possible heart ache, etc. But we've shouldered the decision burdens of it all by our parent selves. In this podcast, learn how to flip the script on your "almost grown" kids and social media choices with these 10 questions. Knowledge truly is power.
If ever there was an easier way to help your child understand the need to reach out and learn to "network", you'll be hard-pressed to find a method easier than this. The challenge your "almost grown" faces is just what to say and in what order. This podcast is here to answer that with these 5 MUSTS in an email they should send this very weekend.
Your Teen-College Aged Child is past those Lemonade Stand Days. Sadly, due to life these days and the invention of cell phones and computers, a CRUCIAL skill is being lost - how to network. Basics needed for this process need teaching. In this podcast, learn 3 keys to "likeability" important for networking - - - and life.
This question is asked nationwide by teens - daily. Do you have a good answer besides just handing them $20? In this podcast, you'll learn 3 answers that are far better for your teen. If you are struggling with a way to help them BUT use something besides your just handing money out, or just saying "no" and getting the eyerolls - this quick, yet concrete podcast is for you.
You've probably asked yourself 1000's of times . . . why doesn't my teen understand what the true value of a dollar is? They DO have a definition, but is it the right one? How can you help them really understand? Here's an amazing story of how one mom and teen figured it out. deeper dive: www.jellygeneration.com/Teen100
Does your teen hang around with the same people, generally? Then odds are they have not learned this basic "must know" networking skill. They haven't had to use it nor practice it. However, they are moving into the age where they will not only need it, but must have it. Introductions are crucial. Let's cover a basic one and learn the powerful twist to make it more successful.
Your teen does something good. You want to thank or reward them and encourage more of the "good". They'll want a Ferrari car, of course. Who doesn't! But these 20 ideas that all teens will love might be just the ticket. From free to low cost, these "way to go" ideas can be used to reward the small "good", to the "graduation congratulations."
Every beginning of the school year brings changes. It's a great opportunity for parents of teens to slide in these 10 changes/upgrades/maturity-growing ideas and watch your teen practice crucial skills they'll need for life after your house.
"No, didn't do that. No time". As a parent of a teen, you'll recognize this excuse. Use these 5 questions, one hour, and a seasonal calendar to show your teen how to stop needing that excuse.
Smart Phones. Teens. Not a match made in heaven, right? Think again. There are APPS that help with studying and organizing that just might put your teen in a better academic frame of mind. In this podcast, here are 5 to consider AND 8 app safety considerations every parent will want to know.
If you are looking for an easy strategy to help your teen begin to "see" their future and how they can start a prep plan now that's not only fun, but gives them interesting talking points, and a reason to keep striving toward an exciting future? Then this particular podcast is for you.
Bring the "real world" to your teen while they are still at home with you. Today's podcast will teach you an easy method to helping your teen begin slowly stepping into adult-world better prepared. Bonus? They will easily connect to this idea!
How are you doing as a parent? How are you doing on specific topics as a parent? Great questions and yes, there is an easy way to find out. What's more, when you ask this question, you are laying the ground work for so much more.
Our teens have 3 classrooms: your home, their school, and yes, the outside world. Connecting to that outside world - now - can help reduce their fear and increase their self-confidence. Here's one great way to get your teen started.
Your teen probably doesn't understand about life "success" - yet. It's defined in traditional terms and ways. But the forever kind of "success" isn't found in a classroom. What if your teen knew an approach to defining and developing it for a lifetime?
Does your teen stand out – on paper? They need to. That’s often the entry point to organizations, scholarships, colleges, jobs and so much more. But how to stand out? Contests. Multiple payoffs await those that apply. Here’s what to look for, where to look and more.
Parents often wonder and ask how they can get their teen’s attention. Of course you have points you want to teach them but getting those two ears to listen? Hmmmm, not so much. Without this method I am going to show you step by step, many a teacher, and public speaker would fall flat. If you want to reach your child for those last lessons, whatever they may be, then you are in the right spot.
Is your teen spending too much time on the sofa or on their smart phone? Whether summer, spring, or winter break, your teen can work these 5 ideas into their schedule to help them get excited about their future!
Want to try reaching your teen thru topics they've probably talked about themselves? Walk with me thru my crypto journey as it's a hot subject right now with that age group and just beyond. I make it my mission to connect and pass on what I learn to you. You will laugh along the way, but stay thru to the end for great wisdom tips to pass to your "almost grown".
The BIG day is coming when you wave goodbye to your "mini-you" and they head to a new city for a job or school. Lurking in the background are expenses you've probably not planned for yet - until now. Hint: the early you start on these 10 Savings Tips the more you can save. Don't wait till they are about to graduate.
Is the ACT-SAT journey finally arriving at your house? New to this entire topic? Want a beginning prep strategy for your 9th-10th grader (and maybe even older)? Then you will want to hear these 10 points - that will lead to a strategy that just be right for your house.
You have heard, of course, that "it's not what you know, it's who you know that matters". But now, in this environment, networking skills matter even more. The wise almost grown child can start this skill now and here's exactly how to get them started.
The definition of teaching magic: when your almost-out-the-door child's academic world collides with real world experience. But your child is busy from studying to sports to everything in between. How can you help them add color to their learning world and begin to see a bright future despite their busy life? Join me for today's podcast and find out how.
Your teen/young adults listens to you differently than they did a few years ago. So how can you reach them in this last season to teach them? What will get them to listen? This podcast delivers a very specific technique to teaching them. Getting creative with helping your "almost grown" child become their best doesn't have to be difficult. Learn this little used, yet effective, resource.
What skill would help your child the most in the next 12 months? Increase reading speed, how to deliver a speech or something else? What's needed? A framework to learning and improving a skill is right here in this podcast. It's an approach they can use for a lifetime. The bonus? More self-confidence and the ability to tackle new things.
Did you ever wonder what steps your High School kids could take that would greatly improve their future? Of course, math, science, english and history are important BUT what about those critical moves they can make based upon which grade they are currently in? What about the steps that reach beyond just getting good grades? Today's podcast addresses smart steps by grade. Grab a pencil and let's go!
How money/current event smart are you? Want to impress your kids AND have a fun way to introduce teaching topics to them in just normal conversation? Then this podcast is designed just for you. Take the quiz and see how savvy you really are!
Does your "almost grown" child stop cold at new challenges, projects or opportunities? No surprise if they do because they are still more emotionally oriented than rational. They need to know how to view and tackle new possibilities. It isn't something usually taught - directly - but it should. Discover "how-to-framework" in this podcast.
Contract skills? Sheesh. You know it's a topic that needs introducing but you've never thought about how and what. In this podcast, you will learn 5 contract concepts and more importantly, how to cleverly introduce this entire topic to your "nearly grown" child. Teaching this can be easy, fun, and well, a great thing to start your child on now while you still can. So go on the contract scavenger hunt with us. You'll be glad you did.
In just one hour - even this very weekend - you can teach your "almost grown" child skills/wisdom they will need from now on. When you narrow focus and concentrate on specific teaching points, you'll be surprised at what you can cover - from debt purchase decisions, to safety devices, to vehicle accident procedures. This podcast shows you how to use that hour and get that knowledge transfer well on it's way from you to your child.
Whether you have a freshman, sophomore, junior or senior in High School, if they are headed to college, should they join a sorority or fraternity? What should be considered? This podcast is devoted to the sorority decision. Yes, No, What, How and More - from a Mom's perspective. From practical advice to what I told my kids, you will finish listening knowing much more than when you started.
The art of negotiating. It’s always bugged me that they call it an “art”. To survive in this world with limited resources and limited time, it isn’t “art”, it’s a crucial skill. Not only that, it’s a skill that we parents can begin introducing our “almost grown” kids to NOW so as they get older, it gets easier to do. Join me for a podcast I just recorded that teaches parents how to start teaching that negotiation skill. When you break it down into small steps, it’s not intimidating. (Link mentioned in Episode: www.jellygeneration.com/brag)
5 Statistics and examples to help you with your parenting framework in the last "at home" season with your child. You make decisions large and small every day for your child. Use these statistics and human gems of wisdom to help make those decisions even smarter.
With a turn of phrase and a plan, your child can improve heir people skills to prepare them for life after your home. Translation? People skills help self-confidence, leadership, and yes, networking. In this quick, 6-minute podcast, you will learn an easy teaching method to help your child level up these skills. Link mentioned: https://www.jellygeneration.com/brag
If ever there was a critical skill we all need - especially our "almost grown and out-the-door kids" - it's networking. Part of networking is the art of starting conversations. Our kids need to be taught this skill. As parents we can help our kids master this. Whether introvert or extrovert, principles of engaging in meaningful conversation matters. Need a way for your child to practice this skill? This podcast is for you.
You have the tools. You have the will. All you need is the "what" and the "how" to get moving on teaching your child some of those last lessons they need before they exit into the concrete jungle of life. In this podcast you will hear a simple and effective way to begin tackling those lessons. Yes, with just 5 minutes a week you can start moving that teaching needle. Show Notes: Why Asking Questions is a POWER MOVE for your "Nearly Grown".
Knowledge. Confidence. Leadership. One way to help your "nearly grown" learn these crucial skills? Get them to learn this simple yet intuitive technique taught in this podcast. It might be described as "practice common sense". However it is described, your child needs to be able to do this with ease before they exit your front door . . . and into the world. Learn how you can easily help them learn how to do it. ShowNotes Link: The Teenage Brain
Did you know you have a “hidden” Top 10 List? And, your “nearly grown” child has one or WILL have one soon. Learn how you can help your "almost out the door" child research and save on things they will some day buy (or might buy now). Our parent goal? Helping them learn how to keep more of what they earn for their future hopes and dreams. Mentioned during this episode: 3 Gifts of Low-No Cost
41 Episode. "ListenUP". Parents, we always feel we are listening to our teens. But, do our teens KNOW that? In this concise yet detailed episode, find out how you can sprinkle in communication hacks and up your parent communication game and just perhaps...reduce stress at home as well. This is a SPECIAL EDITION. Pam interviews Bernardo Salcido of @connecting_with_teens and www.connectingwithteens.weebly.com. It's a don't miss episode. For video of this episode: www.jellygeneration.com/blog/41
Self-Confidence. Who wouldn't want more of that? Certainly not our kids. In this quick podcast, you will hear a 30 second technique that will help them with their self-esteem AND the self-esteem of others your child comes in contact with.
Cue the "Mission Impossible Possible" theme song. Your parent mission, finding ways to share wisdom/learning with your "nearly flown" in ways they will be willing to learn from. In today's podcast, you will hear a technique to do just that. In fact, this podcast episode is "good enough to eat". We call this . . . "Lessons from the Kitchen."
For your "nearly grown" studying is winding down and free time is winding up for this holiday season. As your child hurdles toward life after you, doubts and fears arise. Your best parent moves? Easing them toward adult-decisions while they are still under your influence. Stair-Step control to them from you.Have you never thought about it quite that way? Then you are in the right spot as here are 2 parent moves you can make during this upcoming break that will melt away some of their concerns.
So your "nearly grown" gives you "the list". You know the one. . . the one that has gift ideas on it that generally wear out within days.
But you CAN give items that are true gems. They don't cost much and in fact, one can be done for free. As parents we search and search for ways to teach them while they are in this last season. These 3 ideas are fabulous ways of doing it.
Did you know your "nearly grown" CAN invest very little money and have a blast watching things grow? YES, and there are 2 more ideas you can use from this podcast as well. (note, we have no affiliation with anything mentioned here...we just care to pass on dynamite info you can use)
Teaching our kids is just different than when we grow up. We parents have to adapt. Bonus? You'll have fun with all of these ideas, too!
ShowNotes:
- Is Your Child a Stock Tycoon?
- Your Teen's Accomplishment ToolBox Instructions
- Micro-Investing - www.DebtRoundUp.com
- Micro-Investing - www.MillinialMoney.com
Why didn't anyone tell us how much courage it would take when we signed on as parents? Probably one of the hardest things we face as parents is . . .well . . .to be parents. A thankful parent is a courageous parent.In today's podcast, you will get a chance to remind yourself of why you are a thankful parent. PLUS, learn 2 easy ways to let your child (of any age) know. Let this podcast encourage you and spread it to your child. "The more love you show your children, the more love they can show others."
CHAOS. Yes, CHAOS. Information comes at us faster and harder than a typical fire hose. Think that happens to your "nearly grown"? Of course. That's why I use the word - CHAOS. Their brains go into overload. How can they learn to synthesize what they hear, see, and read? It all starts at the beginning. What's recorded is remembered. What isn't - - - well, it isn't remembered. In this podcast: learn how synthesize and record data to be used later. It's a skill that can be practiced and learned. It's CRUCIAL they learn it now. Hang around till the end of the podcast and learn how you can get your child to embrace this technique. Show Link: www.jellygeneration.com/blog/ToolBoxTraining
You probably don't realize it. I didn't either. Since the upheaval of our time this season, we have lost crucial time anchors. In this podcast, learn a time hack I have used for 30 years that helps you answer "Where did the time go?" and "I put so much time into this, what happened?" The BIG bonus out of this, you can easily teach this to your kids. It's a targeted hack you can use once, or as often as you need to recalibrate. Show Notes: Teen Tool Box Training Podcast
Option A! May I have your attention?
OR
Option B! Can you stand on your head? Can you talk at warp speed? Can you roller skate?
Now . . . be honest. Which option will you remember the most? Option B of course.
Why are we talking about this? Because you, like most parents, probably struggle with getting your child's attention. And it gets harder and harder the closer they get to "nearly flown". However, you DO have experts in your world that you probably know.
In This Podcast:
- Find out about someone already in your world and what they do to get your precious yet distracted young adult's attention.
- Plus, you'll learn how to adapt the technique to your own child and world.
Now YOU can be the expert in getting your child's attention.
Show Notes/Link:
Teen Tool Box Starter Podcast >>> www.jellygeneration.com/blog/ToolBoxTraining
Not a creature was stirring, not even a student. Regardless of the season you are listening to this podcast- here are 10 great ideas to sneak in "learning" AND ideas sure to inspire your "nearly grown"! From money to leadership to planning ahead to resume and self-confidence builders, these ideas can help. It's a quick listen, but worth it. Show Note Links:
1) Podcast: Teen Accomplishment Tool Box https://www.jellygeneration.com/blog/TeenToolStarter
2) History of "Twas The Night Before Christmas"
This whole experience can sneak up on a parent, can't it. This podcast will answer: 👉🏻Why you might want to start those visits earlier for a great high school payoff. 👉🏻What to look at when picking a college far beyond major, cost, scholarships and why 👉🏻 Your child needs an edge and how to get it. Parents, if you have a freshman in high school or older, this podcast is a must listen. Show Notes Links: 1) Podcast - Start Teen Accomplishment Tool Box >>> https://www.jellygeneration.com/blog/TeenToolStarter. 2) Podcast: How to Stand Out While in High School >>> https://www.jellygeneration.com/blog/P30
An edge. Everyone needs one - including your "nearly grown" child. But do they KNOW how to find and create that "edge"? This episode does just that. It gives you a 3 step-by-step method to discover those "stand-out" gems you know your child has AND gives you a method to level that UP! If your child (and you) are struggling to find, record and document "proof" of accomplishments, then click >>> Teen Tool Box Starter System for a podcast that does just that.
It's like a sponge. Social Media, Online/Computer living just soaks up information like no other. While often, that's great. But sadly, so much can backfire on we users - especially teens. They haven't yet learned all the ramifications of what they do online.
Here are 5 great online safety steps your teen (and even you) should consider as you navigate this last "nearly grown" season with them. It's only a 9 minute listen - and worth it. Hang on till the end as we give you a great hack to help your teen "see" what other's "see" about them online.
Everyone from employers to college admissions see what our kids put online. So should our kids, and so should we. It's what we call "practicing common sense".
And Parents ... You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
ShowNote links:
www.jellygeneration.com/blog/P29
www.jellygeneration.com/blog/boxparty
We parents all need an "edge" to get our "nearly flown's" attention to get those last lessons taught to our kids before they are world-bound. Today that's just what we cover. Getting their attention - creatively to where they want to engage in the conversation. In this podcast you will hear 5 "wacky" questions to ask your "nearly grown" offspring that lead to some marvelous discussions to sneak in life lessons and even a few practical ones, too. In fact, you can use the concept of a "wacky" question to fire up a conversation on so many topics. Each of our podcasts covers information you will want to make sure your "nearly grown" child knows and ways you can get their attention. Consider subscribing to this podcast: "Parenting Your "Nearly Grown" JUST. GOT. EASIER. Just ahead...parent nuggets.
Do your "nearly grown" kids listen to you as much these days? Sadly, probably not.
So who DOES influence your child positively? And the Bigger Question? HOW can you find out? And the biggest question? WHAT can you learn from that information and how can you apply it?
Welcome to today's episode where you will have a blue print on gaining that information by the time you've finished listening to this podcast.
In this episode you will:
- [0.24] what to expect from this episode
- [3:11] stealth parenting move - 3 steps
- [4:40] the 4 things you will learn from your child and what to look for
- [5:58] advanced parent technique
- [6:35] the parent payoff
Every tidbit of information you gather from your child can help you guide them more successfully in this last season you have before they "fly off". What they are accomplishing and who they are listening to leads to that pure parent gold we all want to discover.
If you want to help your child even further to set up a system of what they are accomplishing and how they are doing it - to avoid digging up that information when needed at the last second or even forgetting important events entirely - then head to www.jellygeneration.com/brag and get them started on a recording system that will pay off for a lifetime.
Do you have parent-educational topics you'd like us to explore in future podcasts? Just let us know.
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
The JellyGeneration Team/Pam
It's High Noon . . . the last season parents of "nearly grown" kids have to pour in those last HUGE lessons. It truly does feel that way because in many ways it's so true.
The BIG lessons often seem the hardest to teach. "Nearly grown" kids tend to listen more to peers and outside influences.
BUT, teaching them to avoid DEBT-istation? We parents can't skip this lesson.
This podcast episode covers the WHY and the HOW to reach your kids on this crucial lesson:
[0:25] WHY do we parents find this lesson so challenging?
[2:01] WHY do you NEED to teach this (good background points to speak to your child about)
- 3 reasons: [2:55] Who Owns who? [3:55] The Extra Payback. [4:25] Do Dreams Count?
[5:36] A Step-by-Step Teaching Method & Illustration
[7:56] Your Main Parent Play
[9:06] The Next Level - Money Planning Training Wheels
We suspect you will be able to work in this illustration/lesson within the next few days quite easily. Just planting the seeds now will grow their debt knowledge and build a longer-term payoff.
Thanks for listening . . . and parents. . .
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
Grab the tissue. You waved goodbye to your "just flown" child AND their friends AND your parent-friends. It occurs all on the same day - or so it seems.
But you CAN stay in touch with fun and ease. HOW?
Here's a "stay in touch" system that's a sure-fire winner. You can set this system up your way. It's inexpensive, fun, and flexible.
Normally we cover educational topics you will want to cover with your kids . . . but this podcast episode is for YOU.
In this episode:
[1:33] Overview [2:31] Adapt to today's social distancing environment, depending upon where you live. [3:16] The Stay In Touch Plan [4:07] The AMAZING Results seemingly everyone gets! It's easy, fun, and more. Would you like a checklist that covers: * step-by-step guide * mistakes to avoid * gift guide * how to set it up for repeated success?
Then here's your download link (it's free):
STAY-IN-TOUCH CHECKLIST Download
We hope you have a blast setting this up. We did. Many have. It works. Have fun in this brand new season with your child.
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
More than one source of income? How can we preparing for the worst and hope for the best? We've parents have probably all experienced life lessons in this area.
But our kids? Yes, our "nearly grown" kids CAN learn these lessons NOW and potentially avoid a few pitfalls later. Here's a teen version of this hugely important topic.
[4:10] What a teen generally thinks about income.
[4:53] 4 Income Streams "nearly grown" young adults can consider.
[7:14] The Main Concept AND the Secret BONUS to look for.
[8:17] A conversation example between a parent and teen.
Parents helping parents! If you enjoyed this podcast episode, please consider giving us a 5-star Apple podcast rating and make a positive comment. It will help us reach other parents.
We CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
So election day is near.
Do you have a first-time voter at your home? Yes, our teens (and of course, we parents) get so busy that we don't realize that we have to plan just a bit to get them registered and able to vote on election day.
Are they moving (or just moved) to college? Did they just take a job in another city? Then THIS podcast episode of "Parenting Your "Nearly Flown" Just. Got. Easier" is for you. By the way, this podcast is non-partisan and our 10 great points fit everyone.
As a parent, you need a two-pronged strategy to get your child up and involved in the voting process.
Track One - Get them Excited About This Privilege
[1:05] 5 Ways to Get Them on a Consistent Voting Track -for life.
Track Two - Are They Registered To Vote?
[4:59] 5 Voting Details You Need to Know as it concerns your nearly-eligible voting child.
It is an honor and privilege that we have: the right to vote. What a great thing to share with your kids.
Thanks for joining us today and yes, parents, We CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL!
It's that time again - election season. But before you groan outloud, there IS a silver lining for we parents.
We parents can use this to our "nearly grown" child's educational advantage. How?
Stealth learning, that's how. As our kids get older, their friends/peers become more influential and we parents, well, our reach begins that downward, organic slide. That's not such a bad thing in the long run - - - but it sure does leave we parents scrambling to drive home those last important lessons before our kids fly off into adulthood.
*Speaking of stealth, we have an interesting side note in election history included at the end of this podcast. Wow, 3 huge traditions began over 180 years ago and still dominate our political conversation today. Hang around till the end of the podcast to find out.*
But on to today:
Today we are covering 2 huge educational "wins" we parents can have with our kids in this election season.
[2:22] The "Inside" Straight
It's happening everywhere, not only nationally, but at your kids school. Your kids can get involved in their own election season in these creative ways. BONUS: it's a sure stand out on resumes, essays and more.
[6:09] The "Outside" Play
While your "mini-you" might not be old enough yet to vote in national and state elections, you CAN bring those HUGE learning lessons right into your home all wrapped up in FUN. Here are 6 ways to get you started. And what happens when polls close on election night? More than you think - at your house anyway.
[9:43] Our JellyGeneration Favor . . . and reminder about next week's podcast.
[10:15] Tippecanoe and . . . . Don't skip this section. Fun educational presidential trivia in this closer.
If you'd like a deeper dive on what to teach your kids before they've flown the parent-coop, then head to www.jellygeneration.com/112 and snap up your free 12-page parent guide to 8 crucial topics you will want to cover with your child. It includes links/tips on how to get started on each topic. It's worth your time to take a look.
Have a great week and yes,
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
The JellyGeneration Team/Pam
What happens to our kids every year - that we parents DON"T get to experience?
A clean slate, new teachers, friends, classes and more. Wow. Don't we parents all wish we had this chance?
But if our kids don't know how to capitalize on this HUGE opportunity . . . it passes QUICKLY.
Today's episode covers "How To Build Their Future - Right Now" with 3 techniques sure to get them up and running from an entirely new and exciting perspective.
[1:25] #1 Re-Set Their Expectations Framework
- Learn how to capitalize on "different"
- Learn parent dialogue to encourage growth
[3:38] #2 Build Teacher Relationships
- Capitalize on one of the biggest assets your "nearly grown" child has
[5:42] #3 Build Positive Circles
- Your child needs to be strategically looking for these
[7:18] Help Your Child "Get a Clue"
[7:55] BONUS: the very short positive season your child has right now that they need to realize and take advantage of.
**If you need help starting your child on money management, we developed this step by step method to get them up and running on this foundational skill. (it's free). Head to https://www.jellygeneration.com/moneystarter
We know you are wrapped up on surviving a very busy season and we wish you all the best as you navigate these sometimes rough waters. We know that . . .
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
The upcoming test . . .
Grades . . . friends . . .
TV . . . Social Media . . . . Quarantine . . .
YIKES. Where can we buy a "Super Teen Cape"?
OVERWHELM can lead to procrastination, stress, misguided decisions and so much more.
In this podcast episode, learn 3 techniques that are here to the rescue. They aren't a "superman cape", but they are close. In fact, these 3 things will serve them well as they navigate that last season with you AND turn into pure gold as they navigate life without you.
[2:46] Point 1: Patterns and Structure - Help them create THEIR structure using this simple step. It will automatically elevate the power of "NO" and the power of "I'll think about that tomorrow!"
[6:22] Point 2: Cue the Habits & Small Successes - Teach your kids this "science experiment" and watch them take advantage of habits. Yes, they can train their brain to experience success.
[11:34] Point 3: Get a Plan, Stan - Stop overwhelm in its tracks with this simple breakdown system. The payoff? The "Big Picture", often the source of overwhelm, will begin to look like simple puzzle pieces.
Remember, your "nearly grown" child's brain is fairly well set up emotionally, but their reasoning side isn't finished baking yet. This is your opportunity to help them develop that unfinished side of their brain with great techniques.
Here is your free resource. Is your child ready? Are you struggling with what other big, important things you want to teach your "almost out the door" child before they are gone? This you will want to snap up our "8-Step Parent Guide". It's 12 pages of teaching tips and links for 8 topics you will want your child to know as they drive off into the adult-sunset.
Thanks for the listen today. We love helping parents sneak learning into their young adult's day. If you have enjoyed today, please consider rating and reviewing our podcast on Apple Podcasts. It will help us reach and help more parents.
And always remember,
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
The JellyGeneration Team/Pam
Have we been listening in at your house? Of course not, but we bet you occasionally have an unrecognizable young adult running around calling you Mom and/or Dad.
You know the drill. You explain something in what you think is a calm and rational manner and might you get back? A burst of emotion. What is going on?
Today, we cover where that emotion just might really be coming from and how you can help your "mini-you" grow into a more rational and balanced human being. Scientists (many) cite what is going on and yes, it brings us good news on this front!
Today's podcast explains this phenomenon and we give you 5 strategies to use this in your parenting skills.
[1:19] Myth busted. Full disclosure, this one surprised me.
[2:39] What DO young adult brains have?
[3:57] Their brain vs. our brain
Five great strategies to consider:
[5:09] First: The expectation bar. Our kids still need to know what is expected
[5:31] Second: How to broaden their brain using this tactic
[7:04] Third: How to ask for their buy-in.
[7:41] Fourth: Why feedback is more important than you thought.
[8:18] Fifth: Consistency and planning
When we integrate learning into their every day life - especially now with schools in an off/on mode, we parents need to look for creative ways to keep their brains engaged and growing. We know you feel the same way.
Do you want a roadmap of topics we think are critical to teach our kids in this last season with them? It includes links and teaching tips as well. Then, here's the link to snap it up (for free). 8-Step Parent Guide
If you have enjoyed this content and used one of our strategies, we'd love to hear from you. Just email us.
Enjoy time with your kids and parents,
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
The million dollar parent question? Is your "almost grown child" ready for life after you? They CAN be more ready than you think.
Here are 3 habit/educational moves they need to learn now-while in HS for success after that HS diploma.
By the end of this podcast you will be able to tuck them into their every day life. BONUS: at the end you will learn an easy system to avoid the graduation day panic of "what haven't I taught them"!
[3:08] "Talking Tall vs. Talking Small"
- teach them to handle conflict
[7:25] "Sublime Time"
- control and minimize their environment
[12:40] "Two Million Dollars"
- the buck stops here
[16:04] Make a List and Check it Twice - the Practical Way"
- parent sanity can begin now
[19:09] "Can you do us a favor?"
- parents helping parents
Every post we give strives to help parents in the season you are in right now with your "almost grown" kids. Do you want to be the best you can be for them? Then you are in the right place. Consider subscribing.
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL !
So how DO you get your teen from a slug-bug sleep till noon vacation syndrome TO thinking and learning almost without knowing it?
That's our topic for today. School's out and it is a HUGE opportunity for them to associate learning with FUN and how it fits in the "real world".
When you are done, you will have 2 SUPER ideas both stealthy, yet educational. They are great for say . . . age 8th grade thru the college ages.
Note: they do not have to involve you as a helicopter parent but I've thrown in a twist or two that will have you WANTING to participate.
SUMMARY OF PODCAST
1. Fun yet Educational Move. Be a Stock Jock
[1:34]. How to pick a stock, set up fun competition among family and even friends (zoom anyone?) and declare a stock tycoon winner in the end. No stock broker background required. Learn how to easily set this up. [5:00] Up the stock "game" with this sure-fire winner move. [6:45] The impact you can make on your child is so much more than you think.
[8:10] Money. Does your "almost grown" know how to handle it? Are you slowly transferring control of money spent on their behalf to THEM so when they ultimately fly off, they really fly?
If you'd like help with this, go to the Show Notes at the Bottom and get the 4 Steps and just the 30 Minutes you'll need to begin this learning curve. It's good stuff and very, very helpful. It's some of our best teaching.
2. Fun yet Educational Move. Read and Feed
Have your "mini-you" meet the world, travel in time, learn about famous people, learn who's made a difference in their world, and more - all through books.
But that's not really our point here. That's a "hook" for our kids. But what about the parent hook?
[9:09] Why books? 3 BIG reasons and something NOT to forget.[10:43] How to get them motivated for this. [11:47] The secret you need to look for. [12:56] The BEST example for reading we've ever heard of. [15:19] What's a "Read and Feed"?
Need more ideas on how to get your "almost grown" kids ready for what lies ahead? Here's how to receive this podcast. Each episode gives you concrete steps you can take that don't require you to be a helicopter parent BUT will expand their world with learning.
Have a wonderful week with your "nearly flown" kids and we will see you soon. And parents, as we always say:
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
Pam and the JellyGeneration Team
SHOW NOTES and LINKS:
- 30 Minutes and 4 Steps to Teen Success with Money
- Good Stock Research Starter: https://www.yahoo.finance.com
30 Minutes. Just 30 Minutes can set your "nearly grown" child on the path to lifelong money management.
And, no helicopter parenting required.
Plus, with 10 minutes more per week, you can put them into their own amazing habit-accountability system.
Parents, this involves setting up a strong foundation with the right emphasis points.
When we are done today, you will know exactly where to start and what to do to get them on a money planning road to success.
In this podcast episode we cover:
[2:30] Two Big Mistakes Parents Make
[3:38] Concepts your "nearly grown" NEEDS to understand (buy-in and quick results)
[4:30] 2 Fundamentals no matter the age
[6:14] The 30 Minute Starter Plan
[6:29] Step 1: The "Outside" Money
[6:44] Step 2: The "Inside" Money
[7:07] Step 3: The Transfer
[7:50] Step 4: Agree to Agree (as opposed to disagree)
[8:12] The BIG Don't. DO NOT SKIP THIS.
[9:27] Step-By-Step Plan PLUS 2 Incentive Techniques to encourage your "nearly grown" to stay engaged.
[10:20] The Hidden Lifetime Payoff
Don't miss the opportunity to get your step by step Starter System. It's a game changer. You have nothing to love and so much to gain in the gift of money management for your offspring.
It's clean, easy, and is targeted to getting basic concepts down that will encourage them and yes, incentivize them to keep this great habit going. It's one of the best things we've ever put out for free.
And to all parents, we always want to say:
You CAN Have Success in the Middle of it ALL
The JellyGeneration Team
Our kids have accomplished so much. It's time to showcase those amazing feats.. But how? Resumes have changed. Big time. From part time jobs, college admissions, scholarships, and internships, a "stand out" resume is needed. In fact, standing out now is even more important than ever. In this podcast episode, I cover: * new and unique ways to digitally enhance resumes * 3 basics all teen resumes need * tools available * resume link examples (see below)
Hidden benefits of resumes using digital techniques?
Where to begin? Digital resumes are easy to tailor and modify to each recipient. A more traditional version can be extrapolated as needed. Our young adults often have technical skills needed to make an impressive resume. And, don't forget this . . . you probably already have video clips and photos perfect for this new resume revolution.
Self-Confidence
If I could shout this one benefit from the rooftops, it would be this one rarely recognized gem. When our kids "see" what all they have done in their short and precious lives already...self-confidence follows. Helping your child see what all they've done? Priceless. Often our kids don't even know what all they've learned, experienced, and conquered. A resume is chock-full of evidence.
Snap it up here. Do you want a deeper dive on how to recognize and document accomplishments for your child? (more importantly, get them to do this?) Here's a video guide and checklist that does just that. It's free.
Links mentioned in this podcast: (we are not connected with these software packages but want to provide you more information to review and consider for your own circumstances: * https://www.visualcv.com * https://jobmob.co.il/blog/virtual-resumes-portfolios/ * You can go directly to each of the tools we listed above, such as SlideShare and work from there to create a truly unique and standout resume
Have a great week and of course, we leave you with what we truly believe . . .
Yes, you CAN Have Success in the Middle of it All
Pam and the JellyGeneration Team!
About JellyGeneration
Pam Hardison, MBA, BBA in Finance and Business Education, has created and co-owned a national mail order catalog which at one point was the 21st fastest growing customer base in the nation. As a mom of two college-post college daughters, considers it a privilege and to meet other students and parents along the same road. After teaching high school and college students for years, her commitment to helping them with topics most schools can't cover is the light that drives her.
Holly Powers, Attorney-At-Law (Jameson & Powers, P.C.) has been actively practicing law since 1985 and is a shareholder with the law firm of Jameson & Powers, P.C. The firm specializes in transactional law, health care law, and general business law. Holly has taught students precepts concerning the legal world for over 10 years. With 4 children, she understands what teens need to know and has a passion to help others faced with teens and aging parents.