Marriage Unmastered: Recent Episodes

Henry & Shireal Lewis

Real conversations on navigating married life.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss how you should reconsider how much time you put into your marriage and the benefits of doing so.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal discuss how space can help, hurt or heal within a marriage. Listen in to this episode.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal discuss how in year 9 of marriage their move and transition to the south becomes easier with every day that passes. Listen as they describe the ups and downs of their transition.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss how year 8 of their marriage allowed them to fast forward the process of buying a new home and the changes that came with it.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss how year 8 of their marriage allowed them to fast foward the process of buying a new home and moving out of state in just 4 months.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal discuss how God begins to open up more doors for them as they prepare to transition their whole family.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss year 7 challenges and journey in their marriage. Honestly, the details get blurry a bit lol.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal talk about their new living arrangement during covid-19, watching their children grow up and how their healing process begins.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss the ups and downs of looking for a home, losing jobs, dealing with covid-19 and a 3rd pregnancy.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal discuss how they struggled with moving in with family, losing employment and putting a downpayment on a home all at the same time.

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in this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss in year 4 how they had a dog named Bear, and growing with him as their 1st extension of their family.

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In this episode, Henry & Shireal discuss how life started to impact their lives. And their decision to enter marriage counseling helped them grow and heal drastically.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal discuss about getting pregnant in their third year of marriage and what they overcame.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss how in year two of their marriage, they begin to focus on finances and how to manage their money together.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss how the first year of their marriage consisted of ups and downs that they did not expect. From living with in laws and arguing about money and everything else, this year 1 episode is filled with excitement.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss how their relationship started with safety then transitioned into love based on past experiences and trauma.

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In this episode Henry & Shireal discuss how they encourage one another within their marriage, and how it can get difficult when they are upset with each other.

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In this episode Henry & Shireal discuss how routines can sometimes block a marriage from reaching its potential.

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Talk about excitement! This episode explores the depths of just about every marriage when it comes to this subject. Henry & Shireal explore the deeper meaning od communication when it comes to marriage.

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As season 4 starts off with a bang, Henry & Shireal talk about the ups and downs as they go into year 10 of their marriage. Giving a different POV from all aspects, season 4 will have you tuning in every week.

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In this episode, Henry & Shireal discuss the entire journey and process during their transition.

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In part 3 of the mini-series, Henry & Shireal discuss how they get rid of a lot of things in order to move forward in the plan that God has for them.

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This is part 2 of the Everything must go mini-series.

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In this four-part mini-series, Henry and Shireal describe the faith journey in relocating to another state. Take a ride as they describe the ups and downs of their journey.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal discuss their process during the year of 2023. And their future plans for Marriage Unmastered.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss their marriage and how it can be perceived by others and the impact it can have.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal go back and forth with this topic. Answering this question in a marriage can get some interesting answers. Click to listen now.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss the impact in the home when one or both of the spouse' is working.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discus the ups and downs that come with wanting and needing each other in a marriage.

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In this episode, Henry Shireal discuss how going to a new level in their marriage warrants a new conversation about money.

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In this episode, Henry & Shireal talk about their new journey and how they trusted in God to take a leap of Faith.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss the importance of being prepared when God answers your prayers in your marriage.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal share their views on their decision regarding premarital sex. You don't want to miss this episode.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss how vital it is to have a support system with in-laws.


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In this episode, Henry & Shireal discuss the different outcomes when a spouse says no to sex.


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In this episode, Henry & Shireal discuss parenting skills and how routines help them with managing children and behaviors.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal discuss their wedding story and how they went through ups and downs before the actual wedding.


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In this episode Henry & Shireal discuss how they can be each other's peace.


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In this episode Henry & Shireal discuss how a spouses' dreams and plans can change when they get married.


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In this episode Henry & Shireal discuss how couples should cherish special moments with each other.


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In this episode Henry & Shireal discuss about how it can be tough to stay focused on the important things in a marriage.


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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss the importance of staying humble while being blessed and juggling life while achieving personal and marriage goals.


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In this episode, Henry & Shireal discuss different scenarios of how infidelity can impact a marriage.


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In this episode Henry & Shireal discuss how their upbringing and (traumas) have an affect on their marriage and ideals about raising children.


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In this episode Henry and Shireal talk about the different cycles married couples go through.


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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry and Shireal welcome guests Aaron and Keshia Aikins to the show. In their conversation about moving in faith they uncover that making life changing faith moves as a married couple can bring unexpected challenges to your relationship and you have to learn to not only put your faith in the move but in each other.


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In this episode Henry & Shireal discuss what it really means to take of each other spiritually, mentally and emotionally.


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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry and Shireal discuss the importance of being careful when browsing through social media and comparing what you have to what others are sharing. Although things look shiny and bright in those 15 second clips reality may be completely different and ultimately, what God has for you and the journey that you have to take is unique to you so be grateful for the blessings in your life and be careful with comparisons.


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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry and Shireal discuss the stigma attached to "sliding in the DMs" and how they met on Facebook and know many other couples who are meeting online now and building successful relationships from those interactions. It is time to change the narrative around meeting online and through DMs because people are finding love and not just being harassed or dishonest anymore.

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In this episode, Henry & Shireal discuss what it means to be married to one another and how to serve each other to reach their best potential.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered, Henry and Shireal speak with Dauren and Joan Francis of @knoteasilybroken on how they have successfully navigated 29 years of marriage and are still happy, healthy, and more importantly in love.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry & Shireal discuss how the podcast first came to fruition and the purpose behind it.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry & Shireal discuss their new planner being released this month, 21 Habits of Love: A plan for romance in your marriage.

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In this episode, Henry & Shireal discuss how important it is to let your spouse know exactly what you need from them.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry and Shireal interview special guests, Big O and Melani Sanders. Listen in as we discuss how Marriage is Petty but explain that's the easy part. It's good to have healthy banter within your marriage is better than when having to deal with the big stuff that will surely come.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss different forms of intimacy in a marriage other than sex

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry and Shireal discuss how balancing business, life and marriage can be a struggle, and a debate on which should be prioritized in their relationship.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss how managing a career and children can destroy a family if you don't have a plan.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered, Henry and Shireal interview special guest Matt and Carmen Conway discussing how to remain grounded and committed in your marriage when life throws unexpected curve balls.

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In this episode Henry and Shireal discuss transition in their marriage and how God can give direction when you step out on Faith.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry and Shireal discuss how after almost 9 years of marriage they have become each other's home. Rather it be near or far they have a communication strategy and a routine that goes without saying because they've made each other home.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered, Henry and Shireal discuss what it's like when getting and giving unsolicited relationship advise and how that can be damaging to your relationships.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered, we meet with Ronnie & Shallondra Lomax a couple that has been together since high school and now married for over 12 years, to discuss, "What they wish they knew before they got married." Although, they have been together since the womb, as Shallondra's mother would say, their experiences are not unlike most married couples, as there is lots, we all wish we knew before saying I do.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered, Henry and Shireal discuss who they look up to as positive examples for marriage. They reiterate that they are not experts and are relying on this community to help foster long-lasting heathy marriages. 

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry and Shireal discuss how this generation of women feel about the word submissive. Shireal explains that she believes the fear of submission comes from pain rooted in past behaviors. She questions, is it a fear of submission, or is it a question of whom they are submitting too?

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry and Shireal look back at when they first started dating and how Henry wouldn't take no for an answer. While Shireal was adamant about protecting her time and investment, so she had to pop up on Henry at his job to ensure he was who he said he was. 

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered Henry and Shireal have their first guests on the show, the dynamic, power couple, Drew and Jermika Cost. For this premiere interview the couples discuss maintaining their personalities and personal goals while coming together in a union. Drew and Jermika have valuable insight into the topic and share how they balance their businesses, have combined their lives and continue to grow into the people God has called them to be. 

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In this episode of Marriage Unmastered, Henry and Shireal discuss how after 8 years of marriage, the desire for sex changed to feelings of obligation. Shireal explains the difficulty she's experienced as a wife and trying to fulfill her duty in wanting to keep her husband at home and satisfied. 

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In the season 3 premier of the Marriage Unmastered Podcast, Henry and Shireal discuss giving roses to their loved one's while they can. They describe how roses can be given in the form of time, appreciation, sharing and caring or kind word. The conversation heats up when Henry suggests that Shireal doesn't give him his "roses" as often as she thinks she does. 

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss about what they go through when family problems arise with their close loved ones.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss about how busy things can get around the holiday season.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss about how good it is when they are on time.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss about how they deal with life after their miscarriages from 2020. 

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Listen to Henry & Shireal as they discuss creating the vision for their marriage.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss how strengthening their partnership can build up their romance.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discus how Marriage Unmastered is a Ministry created to help young couples navigate through married life.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss how they handle each other when they are doing too much in a public setting.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss about their initial perception going into their marriage and how they deal with things now.

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Listen to Henry and Shireal as they dive into a topic from one of their listeners. 

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Listen to Henry & Shireal talk about the process for a spouse to get onboard with the others vision even when they don't understand it.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss their holiday season traditions.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss how salads get a bad rep.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discus what is takes for them to "win" in their marriage.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss how social media can impact a marriage/relationship.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss how they get on the same page with their goals within their marriage.

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Listen to Henry & Shireal as they discuss the space they are in within their marriage.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss the events from their first Communication Games event.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss how they need to change they eating habits and stop going out to eat all the time.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss how important it is to plan vacations for the family.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss how important it is to check on each other in the marriage.

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Celebrate with Henry and Shireal on their 50th podcast episode and as they discuss Leveling Up! 

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss how they work together while working on themselves separately. 

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss how silence almost killed their marriage. 

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss how they take time out to exercise together and the benefits of doing so.

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Listen to Henry & Shireal as they discuss making time to dance together.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss prioritizing family time in their home. 

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss about how they talk to each other using the sandwich approach....sometimes LOL

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss about how certain words can trigger emotions when expressing themselves.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal talk about how therapy helped in their marriage.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss part 2 of this topic and how they present theirselves to the public.

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In this episode, Henry and Shireal discuss how they navigate through their marriage while keeping a positive public perception.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss how to adapt in chaotic situations.

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Listen to Henry & Shireal as they discuss about eating each other's left overs from going out to eat.

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Listen to Henry & Shireal as they discuss about wether or not they should talk about their in-laws to one another.

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Listen to Henry & Shireal as they discuss how their vows kick in when they are needed most.

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Listen to Henry and Shireal discuss how Prayer impacts their marriage.

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Listen to Shireal and Henry discuss when the gained some wisdom from older couples during their weekend in Florida.

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This week on the podcast we discuss how Shireal's book, "Me & My Man's Wife" affected our marriage.

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Let's talk about sex baby. This week Henry and Shireal discuss the importance of planning time for intimacy. 

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This week Henry and Shireal discuss their views of how marriage is compared to what they thought marriage was going to be.

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Listen to Henry and Shireal as they explain ups and downs in their marriage that made them question leaving everything on the table.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss about becoming each other's best friend within their marriage.

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Listen as Henry & Shireal discuss how sometimes they think they know each other,

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Henry & Shireal discuss if they would marry each other with the knowledge they have now about.

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Listen as Henry and Shireal discuss loving the new version of themselves.

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Henry & Shireal discuss counting up the cost when it comes to entering into relationships or a marriage.

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Clearly....That is from your side of the family!!

Discussion between Henry & Shireal describing where certain traits come from.  

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Please.....come get your kids.

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You may be separate people but you are each others equal.

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When is too much too much when communicating with your partner?

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Do you still love your partner years after you said I DO?

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End of year Mini-Series - Do The Work pt4 of 4

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End of year Mini-Series - Do The Work pt3 of 4

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End of year Mini-Series - Do The Work pt2 of 4

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End of year special Part 1 of 4 Do The Work Mini-Series

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Welcome Back!! Season 2 ep1. Its all about the heat!

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This is pt 4 of a 4-part mini series prior to season 2 of Marriage Unmastered.

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This is pt 3 of a 4-part mini series prior to season 2 of Marriage Unmastered.

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This is pt 2 of a 4-part mini series prior to season 2 of Marriage Unmastered.

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This is pt 1 of a 4-part mini series prior to season 2 of Marriage Unmastered.

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Check out the season finale of season 1 of Marriage Unmastered podcast.

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This episode we discuss if you would have stayed with your spouse if you had to make a decision after 8 weeks.

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Listen and see how we have grown over the last six years.

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Spending time with family is great. But when it's with your spouses' family is it still great? Listen in as we discuss this topic.

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Is it ok to let your spouse leave the house or go to bed upset? listen in as we discuss why we think it's not ok.

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How much information do you share with family and friends? In this episode we breakdown exactly how much you should be talking about your marriage. We also disclose how we learned the HARD WAY to keep our mouths shut!

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These are candid discussions on navigating through married life from a young couple seeking input and advice.

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These are candid discussions on navigating through married life from a young couple seeking input and advice.

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These are candid discussions on navigating through married life from a young couple seeking input and advice.

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These are candid discussions on navigating through married life from a young couple seeking input and advice.