The Mighty Oaks Podcast: Recent Episodes
Chad Robichaux and Jeremy Stalnecker, produced by Gene Cook, Jr.
In the latest episode of The March or Die Show, host Jeremy Stalnecker engages in a profound conversation with Jared C. Wilson about the enduring power of the Gospel in the lives of Christians. Wilson, an accomplished author, professor, and pastor, shares his personal testimony and delves into how the Gospel sustains believers not just at the moment of salvation but throughout the trials and challenges of everyday life.The Ongoing Power of the GospelStalnecker opens the episode by highlighting the importance of understanding how the Gospel, far from being a one-time event, should underpin every aspect of a Christian’s life. He notes that in a world that feels increasingly chaotic—politically, culturally, and personally—Christians can feel overwhelmed. Yet, the Gospel remains the central power that allows believers to "march forward," even when life feels like it's falling apart.Jared C. Wilson shares his journey from growing up in a Christian home to experiencing a life-altering realization in his twenties. Despite being familiar with the truths of the Gospel from an early age, Wilson admits he believed the Gospel was for unbelievers alone, something that saved you once, and then you moved on. However, during a season of personal and marital turmoil, he found himself on the verge of despair and even considered suicide. It was in this moment that Wilson discovered the life-altering truth: the Gospel wasn't just for his past conversion—it was for his present pain, and it holds power for every moment of life.From Doing to Being: The Heart of Gospel-Centered LivingA key theme that runs throughout the conversation is the idea that "doing flows from being." Both Wilson and Stalnecker emphasize that many Christians try to live out their faith by following a checklist of religious duties—reading the Bible, attending church, or praying—without truly understanding the transformative nature of their identity in Christ.Wilson explains that once believers grasp their identity in Christ, they no longer have to strive for God’s approval. Instead, they can live in response to what Christ has already done for them. This perspective shift from “doing Christianity” to “being a Christian” changes everything. Rather than living by a set of religious rules, the Gospel calls believers to live in the freedom of grace, knowing that they are fully accepted and loved by God because of Christ’s work.Stalnecker adds a powerful analogy from leadership, explaining that just as leaders must learn to be leaders rather than merely do leadership tasks, Christians must learn to live out their faith from their sense of being, rooted in the Gospel.The Gospel in the Midst of Trauma and TrialsA central question in the conversation revolves around how the Gospel can help those who have experienced trauma and overwhelming trials. For many, especially in the military and first responder communities, these experiences can be life-shattering. Stalnecker points out that as a counselor, it can be tempting to offer step-by-step solutions to those dealing with trauma. However, Wilson redirects the focus to the power of the Gospel in these moments.Wilson explains that Christ is not a distant figure removed from our suffering. On the contrary, through the incarnation, Jesus experienced human suffering, abandonment, and even death. This truth offers profound comfort to those enduring pain, knowing that God is not detached from their suffering. While trials may not disappear, the Gospel assures believers that God is with them in their suffering, shaping them to be more like Christ.Both Stalnecker and Wilson agree that while suffering can feel overwhelming, especially for those dealing with trauma, it is temporary compared to the eternal joy that awaits believers. Citing passages like Psalm 56 and Hebrews 11, they remind listeners that even when trials seem unbearable, the Gospel promises a future of complete restoration.
Weaponizing Your Story: A Path to Healing and GrowthIn a world filled with pain and brokenness, the power of our personal stories is one of the greatest tools for transformation. In a recent conversation between Jeremy Stalnecker and Jason Vallotton, the theme of "weaponizing your story" emerged as a profound way to turn past wounds into platforms for helping others.Jason Vallotton's journey is marked by trials that many can relate to, from divorce to a nervous breakdown and the deep struggles of single parenthood. His vulnerability in sharing these stories reveals the beauty of healing—when we allow ourselves to face pain and walk through it with courage, we can move beyond victimhood and grow into agents of change for others.Taking Ownership of Your StoryOne of the foundational points Jason discusses is the importance of taking ownership of your story. It’s easy to fall into a victim mentality, blaming external circumstances or other people for our pain. But healing begins when we acknowledge our responsibility for how we move forward, even when life feels overwhelming. As Jason puts it, “The problem with a victim is you're stuck in a prison holding the key, hoping that someone else unlocks it for you.”Taking ownership doesn't mean dismissing the wrongs done to you—it means owning how you choose to respond. It’s about accepting that, while we may not control everything that happens to us, we can control how we grow from it.The Power of VulnerabilityJason highlights a significant concept that many shy away from: vulnerability. Often, people equate vulnerability with sharing the worst, darkest moments of their past, but Jason challenges that notion. True vulnerability, he explains, is not just about sharing old wounds—it’s about being real with the struggles you’re facing today.Sharing past struggles like divorce or burnout may seem brave, but sharing the challenges you’re currently facing—like raising a child with sensory issues—is even more vulnerable. This kind of authenticity is where real connection happens, and it’s a critical aspect of healing, both for ourselves and for those we help.Healing in CommunityWhile it’s crucial to take responsibility for our own healing, Jason emphasizes that true growth often happens in the context of community. Whether it’s a counselor, a pastor, or a trusted friend, inviting others into your healing process allows you to carry burdens you were never meant to bear alone. Quoting Galatians 6, Jason points out the distinction between burdens (which, if carried alone, can be damaging) and loads (personal responsibilities we must own).He encourages anyone struggling with pain or addiction to be brave enough to ask for help. “Take that secret sin that you've been living with, that burden that's too heavy, and invite someone else in to help you walk through it.”The Journey to Practical ChangeOne of the common frustrations many people have in their healing journey is the disconnect between spiritual ideals and practical steps. Jason addresses this by stressing the importance of practical tools for navigating pain, setting boundaries, and resolving conflict.It’s not enough to say, “I give my pain to God” without understanding what that looks like on a daily basis. Practical skills like healthy communication, learning how to mourn losses, and setting up healthy boundaries are vital to moving forward. Jason calls this "skilling up"—learning new tools to navigate life’s challenges instead of relying on the outdated methods we’ve used in the past.Marriage and the Power of OwnershipFor those navigating pain within marriage, Jason underscores the importance of personal growth even when the other partner may not be willing to change. Often, one partner’s willingness to take responsibility for their growth can serve as a catalyst for change in the relationship. Learning skills like conflict resolution and setting boundaries can transform h...
By: Mighty Oaks In life, we all face moments where it seems easier to give up than to keep moving forward. Whether it’s in our personal lives, careers, or relationships, challenges and setbacks are inevitable. But how we choose to handle those obstacles is what defines us. In a recent episode of the March or Die Show, Jeremy Stalnecker and Sean Kennard explored the vital role perseverance plays in overcoming life’s challenges, and how embracing failure can actually pave the way for success. In this blog, we’ll unpack some of the key takeaways from their conversation and explore how we can apply these principles in our daily lives. Winning or Learning, Never FailingOne of the core messages in the episode was a powerful reframe of how we view failure. Rather than seeing failure as the opposite of success, Jeremy and Sean emphasize that failure is part of the path to success. The phrase, “I never lose, I either win or learn,” captures this mindset perfectly. Every setback becomes an opportunity to gain valuable insights, recalibrate, and grow stronger.Too often, we allow failure to stop us in our tracks. We may feel discouraged or embarrassed, and the fear of future failure can paralyze us. But by adopting this mindset of learning, failure becomes less of a threat and more of a tool. As Michael Jordan famously said, "I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." Success and failure are not opposites; they are companions in the journey. Pre-Decide to Keep MovingOne of the most practical strategies for perseverance shared in the episode was the importance of pre-decision. When we’re in the middle of a tough situation, it can be difficult to think clearly and make the right decisions. This is why Jeremy and Sean advocate for pre-deciding how you will respond when life gets tough. Whether it’s in relationships, at work, or in personal growth, making a plan for how you’ll react when challenges arise can prevent you from getting stuck when they do.For example, you may pre-decide that no matter how hard things get in your marriage or at work, you will not walk away. You may decide that when faced with an obstacle, you will consult your community or seek advice from a mentor. Pre-deciding helps you to stay on course, even when emotions and circumstances might otherwise push you to give up. Building a Supportive CommunityPerseverance is not something we can do alone. Both hosts emphasized the role of community in helping us move forward when times are tough. Having a network of people who support and encourage you can make all the difference when you’re facing adversity. Surrounding yourself with those who share your values and vision can provide the strength you need to keep moving forward.It’s also important to have mentors or friends who can speak hard truths into your life. As much as we need encouragement, we also need accountability. People who challenge us to stay the course, adjust our strategies, or even call us out when necessary are crucial to building resilience. Embrace a Growth MindsetA growth mindset is about seeing every challenge as an opportunity for development. Instead of shying away from difficult situations, we should lean into them with the belief that we will grow stronger through the process. As Sean mentioned in the episode, one of the most valuable shifts in his thinking was learning to embrace failure as part of success. When you expect challenges as part of the journey, they become less daunting and more manageable.In a world where so many people quit at the first sign of difficulty, developing a growth mindset is almost like a superpower. When you approach life with the belief that every experience, good or bad, is an opportunity to learn and grow, you’ll find yourself equipped to handle even the toughest situations.
By Mighty Oaks1. Treat others with kindness and respect, even in the midst of political disagreementPolitical conversations can easily become divisive, especially when emotions are high. However, as Christians, we are called to interact with others in a way that reflects God’s love, even when we disagree. It’s important to remember that the person you’re talking to is made in God’s image, just like you. Their views may differ from yours, but that doesn’t diminish their worth or the command we have to love them. As Ephesians 4:29 reminds us, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up." This means avoiding personal attacks, name-calling, and gossip, and instead focusing on speaking words that uplift and encourage. Approaching political discussions with kindness and respect can open doors for mutual understanding and lead to more productive, peaceful conversations.2. Know that no matter the outcome, our ultimate trust is in ChristElection seasons often bring a sense of urgency, as if everything hinges on the outcome. While it’s important to participate in the political process and vote according to our beliefs, it’s also essential to remember that our ultimate security does not come from any candidate or party. Political systems are temporary, and leaders come and go, but Christ's reign is eternal. Psalm 146:3-4 says, "Do not put your trust in princes, in human beings, who cannot save. When their spirit departs, they return to the ground; on that very day their plans come to nothing." No matter who is elected or what policies are enacted, our trust is in Christ, who is sovereign over all. He is the same yesterday, today, and forever. Knowing that Christ is in control can bring a deep sense of peace and help us avoid the anxiety that often accompanies election results.3. When voting, stay true to your values and moralsVoting is a privilege, and with that privilege comes responsibility. As Christians, we are called to make decisions that align with our faith and the values we hold dear. This means prayerfully considering the choices before us and seeking God’s guidance in how we cast our votes. It’s easy to be swayed by flashy campaign promises or the pressure of popular opinion, but we must remain grounded in the truth of God’s Word. Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages us to "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight." When we seek God’s wisdom and vote according to the principles we know to be true, we can have peace knowing that we are honoring Him in our decisions. Remember that voting is a personal choice, and it's important to approach it with integrity and a clear conscience.4. Take breaks from the noise when neededIn today’s world, we are constantly bombarded with news, opinions, and updates, especially during an election season. This can lead to stress, anxiety, and even burnout. If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, it’s okay to step back and take a break from the news and social media. Constant exposure to political debates and heated discussions can cloud our judgment and rob us of the peace that God offers. Philippians 4:6-7 advises, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Instead of getting caught up in the noise, use that time to pray and focus on your relationship with God. Engaging in prayer and self-care will help you manage stress, allowing you to return to discussions with a clearer mind and a calmer spirit.5. Use constructive dialogue rather than confrontational debatePolitics can bring out strong emotions, and it’s easy to fall into the trap of heated arguments or confrontational debates.
By: Mighty OaksAs the school year kicks off and activities ramp up, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by a packed schedule. Between work commitments, family responsibilities, and personal errands, finding time for yourself and your relationship with God can seem impossible. However, amidst all the chaos, it’s crucial to carve out moments to pause, reflect, and reconnect with God. Here are five effective ways to deepen your relationship with Him during this busy season.1. Start Your Day with Prayer and ReflectionMornings can often feel rushed, but starting your day with prayer and reflection sets a peaceful tone. Try waking up just 10-15 minutes earlier to spend quiet time with God. Whether you read a devotional, meditate on scripture, or sit in silence, this practice helps you stay centered and prepared for the day’s challenges. Without this time, drifting away from your spiritual roots becomes more likely.2. Incorporate God into Your Daily RoutineFinding time for God doesn’t have to mean adding another task to your to-do list. Instead, integrate Him into your daily activities. For instance, listen to a worship playlist or a Christian podcast while driving or exercising. Similarly, pray while doing chores or waiting in line. By including God in these moments, you turn ordinary activities into opportunities for connection and reflection.3. Set Boundaries and Prioritize Your ScheduleWhen life gets busy, spiritual practices can easily fall by the wayside. To prevent this, set clear boundaries and prioritize your schedule. Identify the most important tasks and make time for prayer, scripture reading, or church services. Remember, caring for your spiritual well-being is as important as any other responsibility. Ignoring this priority can lead to drifting away from your faith.4. Join a Bible Study or Small GroupCommunity support is crucial for maintaining a strong relationship with God. Joining a Bible study or small group offers regular opportunities to engage with God’s Word, share your faith journey, and gain encouragement from others. This sense of accountability helps you stay committed to your spiritual practices.5. Practice RestLastly, God calls us to rest, yet this practice is often overlooked in our busy culture. Rest doesn’t mean doing nothing; it means intentionally slowing down to focus on God and refresh your spirit. Whether it’s a quiet evening with the Bible or a day without digital distractions, practicing rest allows you to recharge and reconnect with God.ConclusionIn summary, life’s demands can pull us in many directions, but nurturing your relationship with God should always be a priority. By starting your day with prayer, integrating God into your routine, setting boundaries, joining a community, and practicing rest, you can stay spiritually connected even during the busiest seasons. Ultimately, it’s not about finding time; it’s about making time. Prioritize your spiritual well-being, and everything else will fall into place.TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By: Mighty OaksAnchored in Hope: 5 Bible Verses to Lift Your Spirit in Dark TimesSeptember is National Suicide Awareness Month, a time to bring attention to the struggles many face and to offer support rooted in truth. In times of deep despair, it’s not just comfort but the hope found in God that sustains us. The Bible offers powerful verses that remind us of God’s presence, strength, and unchanging love. When the darkness feels overwhelming, these scriptures serve as a beacon of hope and a reminder that we are never alone. Here are five verses that can guide you through life’s toughest moments.1. Psalm 46:1 (NIV)"God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble."This verse assures us that God is always available to help us, especially in times of trouble. He is a reliable refuge and a source of strength when we are at our lowest, reminding us that we are never alone in our struggles.2. Isaiah 43:2 (NIV)"When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze."This powerful promise from God highlights His presence in our most difficult and fiery trials. Regardless of how overwhelming our circumstances may be, God promises to be with us, protecting and guiding us through every challenge.3. 1 Peter 1:3 (NIV)"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead."This verse celebrates the living hope we have through the resurrection of Jesus Christ. It reminds us that despite our struggles, God’s mercy offers us a new beginning and an enduring hope. This hope is alive and vibrant, rooted in the power of Christ’s victory over death.4. Romans 15:13 (NIV)"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."This verse is a beautiful reminder that God is the source of hope. As we place our trust in Him, He fills us with joy and peace, allowing us to overflow with hope through the power of the Holy Spirit. It underscores that hope is not just a feeling but a gift from God that sustains us through life’s challenges.5. Psalm 30:5 (NIV)"For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime; weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning."This verse provides a profound sense of hope and renewal. It acknowledges that while sadness and weeping may be present, they are temporary. God’s favor and the joy that He brings are enduring, promising that a new day of rejoicing will come. This verse offers reassurance that even in the darkest times, God’s light and joy are on the horizon.Bringing Hope Through Mighty Oaks ProgramsAt Mighty Oaks, we aren’t simply changing lives for a lifetime; we’re changing souls for eternity. Our programs are dedicated to bringing the hope and healing found in Christ to those who are struggling. We understand the deep challenges that many of our attendees face, and we strive to guide them toward the peace, purpose, and strength that only God can provide. Through our programs, we offer a path to restoration, grounded in biblical truths and a supportive community.If you know someone who is struggling, we encourage you to share these verses with them. You never know how a few words of hope can make a difference in their life.We also ask you to join us in this mission. Please pray for those who attend our programs, that they may find the hope they need to overcome their struggles. Additionally, if you feel led, consider supporting our efforts to reach more veterans, active-duty service members, and their families with the life-changing message of God’s love and grace. Together, we can make a difference.
By: Anna MorganAs the caretaker and spouse of a medically-retired Marine, I realize firsthand the challenges and blessings that are comprised within each distinctive vocation. When my husband Jedidiah was deployed on his second tour abroad, he suffered near fatal injuries. Our lives were permanently altered in the span of a single moment. I went from a bride of then only six months to a round-the-clock personal care attendant for my serviceman. As a newfound nurse, my responsibilities required supernatural fortitude, devotion, commitment, and sacrifice with every undertaking. While it's undeniable that we military wives often encounter grueling circumstances, we simultaneously experience an extraordinary sense of impact and increased meaning.In light of my own personal experience, I'm privileged to present five ways to reinforce your military marriage below. 1. Rely on your faith in Christ. Resting in the absolute assurance of God's sovereignty is imperative. As disciples, we can be encouraged realizing that our Heavenly Father records every heartache, collects each tear, and never abandons us (Psalm 56:8). Not only was His Spirit present in the midst of the initial devastation from the revelation of Jed's critical condition, still Jesus remains near, in our pleasant ordinary life with three young daughters. Every adversity we endured was ordained for God's glory and our benefit. Moments spent in prayer, Scripture, and camaraderie with other believers have also bolstered our relationship with the Lord, in addition to our marriage.2. Develop a solid support system. Another essential aspect of the position of caretaker or spouse is creating a network of trusted confidants. Don't afford anxiety to withhold you from relinquishing burdens to companions or relatives or valuing their encouragement. Whether you need physical assistance, a boost of morale, or even a simple meal, I urge you to engage with the community. Gatherings tailored toward military families can be particularly worthwhile. Likewise, they provide opportunities to exchange personal trials or triumphs to glean wisdom and insight from equivalent experiences.3. Prioritize connection. Likely, as a couple, you're accustomed to many periods of service-related separations. In order to continue a vibrant and healthy partnership, recognize that communication is crucial. Maintain your marriage through expressing daily updates, exchanging messages of admiration and affection, or requesting assistance with any concerns encountered in their absence. Frequent interaction is not only beneficial but foundational!4. Establish self-sufficiency. Independence may seem counterintuitive to a thriving union, yet in this case, it's entirely opposite. Following catastrophes, individuals may combat newfound mental or physical impairments. Discovering your capabilities in managing family finances or any household duties, for instance, construct increased confidence and a mentality of resiliency. Moreover, pursuing separate past times or new interests will support your sense of accomplishment and aid in maintaining an optimistic perspective.5. Sustain your health. Incorporate personal wellness into your schedule, in order to serve from a place of abundance rather than depletion. We are unfit to attend to the demands of others if we cannot manage our own emotional state. Elaborate efforts aren't necessary to be worthwhile; take a stroll, immerse yourself in an engaging story, watch a favorite film, jot down your thoughts, etc. Ultimately, addressing your needs will be advantageous for both you and your enlisted spouse.May God bless and guide you along your journey today!To learn more about Anna's story, visit her website and blog. Sign up for her newsletter to receive updates about her upcoming memoir Valley of the Shadow as well!TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By: Mighty OaksIn the depths of our hearts, many of us have experienced the painful grip of shame. It's a heavy burden that can make us feel isolated, unworthy, and lost. Yet, within the pages of the Bible, we find a powerful narrative that speaks directly to these feelings--the Lost Parables. These parables, found in the book of Luke, is a profound illustration of Christ's relentless love and the transformative journey from shame to redemption.The Weight of ShameShame is a powerful emotion that can distort our self-perception and sever our connection with others and God. It whispers lies, telling us that we are beyond forgiveness, that our past mistakes define our worth. This toxic cycle can lead to a sense of profound lostness, where we wander aimlessly, seeking solace in the wrong places.The Parable of the Lost SheepIn Luke 15: 4-7, Jesus shares the parable of the lost sheep:"Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesn't he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, 'Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.' I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent." This parable vividly portrays the heart of Christ. He is the Good Shepherd who seeks out the lost, not content to leave them in their wandering. His love is personal and intentional, reaching out to each of us, no matter how far we've strayed.Jesus' Response to the Pharisees The context in which Jesus told this parable is crucial. The Pharisees and scribes were criticizing Jesus for associating with sinners and tax collectors. They couldn't understand why a rabbi would spend time with those considered unclean and sinful. Jesus' response through this parable--and others-- was a scolding rebuke to their judgmental attitudes. He wanted to emphasize that His mission was to seek and save the lost, showing that God's heart is one of mercy and grace, not condemnation.Being Found in ChristThe journey from shame to redemption begins with recognizing our need for a Savior. It's a humbling realization that we cannot find our way back on our own. Just as the lost sheep is helpless without the shepherd, we are in desperate need of Jesus' guiding hand. When we turn to Christ, acknowledging our sins and our need for His grace, we open ourselves to the transformative power of His love. In that moment of surrender, Jesus lifts us onto His shoulders, carrying us back to the fold.Rejoicing in RedemptionThe story of the lost sheep reminds us that there is immense joy in heaven when one sinner repents. It is a celebration of grace, a testament to the boundless love of God. As we embrace our identity in Christ, we are called to extend that same love to others, guiding them toward the Good Shepherd who longs to welcome them home.In your journey, remember you are not alone. Christ is with you, seeking you out with relentless love. Let go of the shame that holds you back and embrace the freedom that comes from being found in Him. At the Mighty Oaks Foundation, we stand with you, ready to walk alongside you on this path of redemption and restoration.ConclusionShame can be a powerful force, but the love of Christ is even more powerful. Through the parable of the lost sheep, we see the heart of Jesus-- a Shepherd and a Father who seek the lost, lift them up, and rejoice in their return. At Mighty Oaks, we are dedicated to helping individuals experience this transformative love and find their way back to the arms of the Good Shepherd. May your journey from shame to redemption be filled with the joy of being found in Christ.TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
- Become a Student AmbassadorWounded Warrior Project (WPP) provides lifesaving services to veterans who’ve incurred a physical or mental injury, illness or wound since the September 11 attacks, and in 2020, launched a student ambassador program called Honor Their Courage. Kids in kindergarten through 12th grades and their teachers can register their school or classroom to access to educational resources and help raise awareness for the nonprofit and its cause.WPP also accepts in-kind donations of gift cards (to restaurants and clothing and grocery stores), office supplies, yoga mats, jump ropes, supplies for recreational activities like fishing trips, among other items.2. Share Their StoriesThe U.S. Congress-founded Veterans History Project is an ongoing archive of first-hand accounts of American veterans who served, in any capacity, in major conflicts and wars of the past century. To help ensure that these oral histories are not lost to the passing of time, you can download a kit that will assist you in conducting an interview with a veteran family member (such as elderly grandparents) or another a local service member and submit their oral history to the Library of Congress’ American Folklife Center.3. Join a Charity Walk/RunShow up for military families by showing up in-person for the Travis Manion Foundation‘s 9/11 Heroes Run each year in Dallas-Fort Worth. Wounded Warriors Project hosts their own Carry Forward 5K, which you can join in-person in select cities throughout the year, or sign up with the virtual option to walk/run your own neighborhood at any time. For local charity runs and other family fun events, visit dfwchild.com/calendar.4. Help Kids Who are HurtingSnowball Express, which children who’ve lost their parents on active duty since 9/11, is one of many projects of the Gary Sinise Foundation, headed by the namesake actor. Snowball Express offers year-round support and activities to help these kids bond together, create happy memories and work through the grief that has disrupted their lives. You and your family can donate to Snowball Express to help the nonprofit treat 1,750-plus family members to a five-day trip to Disney World, typically held every December.5. Give to Local Homeless VetsHomelessness is disproportionately high among veterans. Homeless Veterans Services of Dallas (HVSD) is a volunteer-driven organization that helps local vets and their families climb out of homelessness into independent living. HVSD most often needs in-kind donations for hygiene items and clothing, especially winter clothing like sweatshirts, coats and hats. (See the full wish list and Amazon wish list here.) So take your family shopping, or team up with a few other families to make a day of it. Then contact HVSD to arrange pick-up, or drop off your donations at the Veterans Resource Center (4900 S. Lancaster Road, Dallas). Due to COVID-19 precautions, HVSD only accepts new items. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By, Tim Stone II Many men set forth on a journey to attend our First Responder Legacy program this week at SkyRose Ranch. It was a week of profound impact, where 27 men, each carrying their own burdens and stories, arrived seeking something more. What they found was not just a temporary escape, but a journey towards rediscovering themselves through the lens of faith in Jesus Christ. While covering many topics, we embarked on a journey of spiritual discovery, diving deep into what it truly means to have a relationship with Jesus. For many of these men, it was a concept shrouded in uncertainty, a distant beacon they longed to reach but did not know how. But through the guidance of scripture and the power of collective vulnerability, something remarkable happened. Walls that had been meticulously constructed over the years, if not decades, began to crumble. In the safety of this sacred space, hearts opened, and stories poured forth like water from a dam released. The transformation was nothing short of awe-inspiring. To witness these men, some broken and others merely holding on by a thread, find solace in each other's shared experiences was a testament to the healing power of God. As they spoke their truths, the weight of their burdens lifted, replaced by a sense of belonging and acceptance. Acceptance in one thing…GOD It is often said that we are all walking different paths, each with its own twists and turns. Yet, beneath the surface, we are united by our shared manhood and the desire for something greater than ourselves. At SkyRose Ranch, those paths converged, intersecting at the crossroads of faith and redemption. As we bid farewell to the ranch and returned to our respective lives, one thing remained abundantly clear: the seeds of change had been planted. In the fertile soil of these men's hearts, the love of God had taken root, ready to blossom and bear fruit in the days and years to come. Their legacies, once defined by pain and struggle, are now poised for transformation. No longer bound by the chains of their past, they step forward with a newfound sense of purpose and possibility. And though the road ahead may be challenging, they do not walk it alone. For they carry with them the unwavering support of their fellow brothers, bound together by a shared journey towards grace. Even though life will be hard, we have hope in the word of God and the promise that we cannot be separated from his love. Romans 8: 38-39 38 For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39 nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By, David Vanderpool On Monday April 22nd, 22 men from the veteran and first responder communities showed up to The Wilds outside Columbus, OH, full of trepidation, anxiety, burdened and not sure what to expect from a week with Mighty Oaks. It was clear that after the Ice Breaker a common thread amongst them was a sense of hopelessness and a lack of purpose for the lives they were leading. Despite the unknown for the week, the men were willing to put the effort in to diligently listen to the classes and participate during the breakouts. Most of these men had tried many paths to healing yet it was apparent that few, if any, had truly helped. Each class gave them another tool and more importantly a perspective that relies on a right relationship with Jesus Christ and faithful submission to Him as the only true path to healing. Each breakout dug deeper to the core of all they were burdened with. By the end of the week grim expressions were replaced with smiles and laughter by men who now understood that spending time with and having a relationship with the King of Kings and Lord of Lords is critical for healing, living a life worth living, and leaving a worthwhile legacy. It was clear that God was working in these men to break down the barriers that had been built up over years. Hearts of stone were turned into hearts of flesh, burdens were unloaded, and chains were broken this week at The Wilds. “They cried out to the Lord in their trouble, and he delivered them from their distress. He brought them out of darkness and the shadow of death and burst their bonds apart.” – Psalm 107:13-14, ESV TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By, Ann DoddTwenty ladies took a leap of faith and attended our second Women’s Legacy Program of 2024 this past week. They traveled to the beautiful SkyRose Ranch located in San Miguel, CA, from various parts of the country. Each arrived a bit guarded and apprehensive yet curious about what the week might hold for them. The rolling green hills, breathtaking blue skies, & friendly faces from those on our staff seemed to immediately calm spirits upon arrival.The first class of the week centered on Ephesians 2:10”For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.“Grasping a clear understanding of their worth in Christ positively set the foundation for the rest of the week’s classes. The common thread weaved throughout the week was that of learning to the biblical blueprint for womanhood. This was -live within the framework of our design reinforced in each of the different class topics we covered, and it helped the ladies gain a deeper understanding of God’s purpose for their lives and His deep love for them. It also helped them to see that the Bible really does speak to all of the issues of life.As the week progressed, walls started to come down & nerves were soothed. Slowly the ladies began to realize that they were not alone in their struggles. What a comfort! This allowed them to open up more freely and slowly you could sense hope beginning to rise within them.The ladies expressed that learning to shift their focus to becoming the women that God created them to be and away from their circumstances or others around them impacted them greatly. Regardless of what has been done to us in the past or the choices that have led to our current circumstances, God’s Word assures us that we can move forward in life with purpose and hope as we seek Him in all things.2 Corinthians 4:6-9 “For God, who said, ‘Let light shine out of darkness,’ has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us. We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed.”Lamentations 3:22-24 “Through the Lord’s mercies we are not consumed, Because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness. ‘The Lord is my portion,’ says my soul, ‘Therefore I hope in Him!’”Overwhelmingly, what was most apparent among this group of ladies was their sweet and gentle spirits. They were so supportive and encouraging of one another, both during group discussions and in down times of rest and recreation. They stayed focused and put in the hard work to get out of this week all that God intended for them. It was obvious that many of the friendships that were formed this week will continue to grow outside of the session. What a blessing!As we came to the end of the week, the ladies looked visibly lighter & you could see the newfound joy in their eyes. They were excited to go home and to begin implementing their life plan goals, now better equipped with biblical tools and allies.We closed out the week by sharing the song Clean by Natalie Grant. The words of the song so beautifully echoed the week’s journey.I see shattered, you see whole, I see broken, but you see beautiful, And you're helping me to believe, you're restoring me piece by piece.There's nothing too dirty, that you can't make worthy, you wash me in mercy, I am clean.What was dead now lives again, my heart's beating, beating inside my chest. Oh I'm coming alive with joy and destiny,'Cause You're restoring me piece by piece.This week was only the beginning on the road to healing for these amazing ladies! Our staff was overjoyed to see the transformation in them as they “came alive with joy”.
By Justin Nerdrum,“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” – Martin Luther King, Jr. Broken from trauma, restless from choices, and feeling “sub-par” due to life events are just a few of the chains our Warriors carry. They feel stuck with no place to go. What they’ve tried on their own has not worked. Even through doubt, in their hearts, they know there is a way out. Veterans and First Responders are brought to one of the ranches in hopes of healing. Twelve men decided to take that first step this March in Haymaker, VA. On Monday, when these men walked through the doors, they brought their struggles and hardships. While each individual is different, many of the issues are similar. Feelings of rejection, depression, isolation, and failing marriages, are just a few of the common struggles. Throughout the week, we start to uncover the roots of their hurts by learning and understanding Jesus and the salvation he brings us and diving into areas to become strong men of the Lord. As we discussed forgiveness, walls started to come down. Forgiveness is a tough topic, and many of us have a hard time with it, whether granting forgiveness to others or searching for forgiveness from those we hurt. We think it’s impossible as we keep our minds filled with darkness. God can forgive us. We don’t deserve it and can’t earn it, but through Jesus, we have been forgiven, showing his everlasting grace and love. That knowledge sets us free to forgive others and make amends with those we have hurt. God is at work in these men, allowing them to offload their burdens, pick up the Word of God, and start building a lasting legacy. When they leave, they are no longer the same as they came in but are now renewed and made new. “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” – Matthew 11:28-29. True healing doesn’t come from our efforts. Many times, we find ourselves stuck and alone. But we aren’t alone. Jesus wants us to pass our struggles to Him, allowing Him to walk by our side and help us through our dark times. But it starts with us making the decision to surrender, repent, and follow His ways. His promise to us is to redeem and restore us.“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will keep My judgments and do them.” – Ezekiel 36:26-27Our past doesn’t define us. But, if we look to the world for answers and help, we will be disappointed, alone, and without hope. Through Jesus, we have His mercy, hope, love, and forgiveness. We can be free of our bondage and made new. First, we need to turn our hearts to Jesus; from there, He will walk with us through our restoration. The Warriors are encouraged to leave their pack, or burden, at the ranch and depart with the framework to build a lasting legacy. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By, Gabe DeLaRosaOn September 19-24 we had the pleasure to have a Mighty Oaks Legacy program for a group of 1st responders. All these heroes showed up to the Blaylock Ranch on the afternoon of the 19th unsure of what the week had in store for them.Like most guys in the past that showed up, these men were no different. Anxiety, stress, and nervousness was so apparent, you could see it on their faces and in their body language. When they believed whatever was weighing heavy on their hearts, they soon found out after the Ice Breaker that they were not alone. The same things that were in their chests were in the chests of all the men that were present in that room. As they sat through class after class, they soon started collecting the tools that would make them successful in dealing with whatever was weighing heavy on their hearts when they would return home.They learned through the fellowship that they shared that week that it was important to be transparent, perhaps for the first time in their lives. Once they started to understand that they needed to have a relationship with their Lord and savior, the walls they had built up started to fall apart and the hearts that had been hardened over time, God began to soften them to a heart of flesh.“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” - ESV 10-9:5 Matthew TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By, John Feddema Are you anxious, worried about the future, your future? Anxiety is the inevitable unease that gnaws at our confidence, the slow suffocation as we feel strangled by the challenges of life. The men that arrived at the Gatehouse Retreat Center on the Blaylock Ranch in Junction, Texas had anxiety written on their faces. They showed up to the First Responders Legacy Program unsure of what to expect, carrying a ruck sack full of the burdens of life. They arrived in Texas searching for hope and healing. Unfortunately, the unprecedented access to information about current events has failed to provide confidence in the future. In fact, it has had the opposite effect. It has blurred any certainty we thought we might have, like a fog clouding our path forward. According to statistics, nearly 1 in 3 individuals will experience an anxiety disorder in their lifetime and it is estimated that 300 million individuals will be afflicted annually. This is not just a concern about the future but a nervousness that casts a shadow over our hearts and goes beyond our ability to manage. Treatment is inconsistent and the scientific community continues to try and study the underlying neurobiology to search for a solution to the root cause. Is there a solution? They are yet to find one studying the complexity of the brain; however, consider Paul’s letter to the Church at Philippi when he wrote; “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” - Philippians 4:6-7‘Be anxious for nothing’. This is easy advice for someone secure in their situation but for anyone who has lived long enough to experience pain, suffering, or disappointment, this is equivalent to telling the trees to stop blowing in the wind. However, before you disregard Paul’s advice, consider his circumstances when he wrote this letter. At the time he composed these words, he was imprisoned in Rome, expecting a trial which might end in his own death. Either way, Rome was not in the habit of letting a prisoner go without first drawing blood. The Church in Philippi was faring considerably better than Paul when he penned this letter and yet, having no ability to control his own fate, he encouraged them to ‘be anxious for nothing’. This advice is not a call to close our eyes to the challenges of reality and endure the blows of life with blind ignorance. We will be challenged and we will face adversity. Paul’s advice: don’t flinch. Don’t run, don’t hide, and don’t ignore the reality of our circumstances. Embrace the hardship and ‘in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God’. To hold back a percent of your anxiety is to hold back a portion of your heart. To allow the burden to remain, allows a shadow to continue to be cast over your heart. When Paul wrote ‘in everything’ he meant it in the greatest sense of the word, all of it. All of the worry that strangles on our hearts, our minds, and our souls. What then does Paul say to do? Pray. Bring it all before the Lord through prayer, supplication, and thanksgiving. If something is great enough to gnaw at our heart, it is great enough to bring to the Lord. To humbly petition the Lord to supply what is needed in our current circumstance. This is not simply the act of closing our eyes and bowing our heads and reciting words from memory. It is not a superficial experience or act. It is a mode of prayer whereby we surrender our hearts and minds, being fully dependent upon God in our current situation. This is the solution. What are we provided? ‘The peace of God which surpasses all comprehension.’ Can you think of anything greater? I would expect that you can’t, considering the verse clearly identifies that we will not be able to comprehend the peace that God...
By, Rollie Dunnuck This past week at Sky Rose Ranch, CA, twenty-two Veterans came together. While none of them knew exactly what to expect or what they would get out of the week, they all stepped out in faith and traveled from different parts of country. After a long day of travel the men were met by staff who were excited to show them exactly what the week would entail.It was obvious to the staff that the men had doubt, anxiety, and were lost in their spiritual walk. After an amazing dinner, the men heard a team leader bare his soul, and show these lost men the only path to resiliency was through a personal relationship with the creator of the universe, Jesus Christ. The first night most of the men claimed that they were there because they lacked purpose, direction, focus, and faith. Overall what was heard was the echoes of the cries of men separated from a true relationship with God and the hunger that came along with it, reminding me of Matthew 5:6, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled.” Throughout the week the Warriors were shown the strength of the Lord working in men who have submitted and follow Him. They learned how to take every thought captive and make their thoughts obedient to Christ. They learned the difference between religion and relationship. They learned how and where to cast their anxieties, through true biblical replacement therapy: Remove - Philippians 4:6-7, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made know to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Replace - Philippians 4:8-9, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me- practice these things and the God of peace will be with you.” They were shown some of God’s promises, like restoration, renewal, forgiveness, peace, and joy. They learned about God’s love that is without end like in Roman’s 5:8 “but God shows his love for us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” And Romans 8:38-39 “For I am sure that neither death, nor life, not angles or rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us form the love of God in Christ Jesus or Lord.” Through this love, they learned their true identity: heirs in Christ renewed by His sacrifice. The big take-away for several of the men was relationship VS religion. They learned that the needed to talk with God: Be in Prayer and hear his response and Be in the Word. They learned that God’s word holds the truth that many of them were missing. There is a guidebook to life, and it’s called the Bible. These men also learned to study it, meditate on it, and use it to guide their life. They were shown first-hand the reason we have Cornermen, and that they need other Christian men to live a successful Christian life. They were also taught about being in fellowship as part of the body of Christ: Be in Church. With these 4 pillars of communication they left the week recharged and ready to lead their family as the men Christ created them to be - free from the yoke of sin and alive in Christ! Galatians 5:1 tells us, “For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.” TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By Hunter RobichauxUkraine 02/15/2024Mighty Oaks International recently concluded a highly impactful 15-day mission in Ukraine, spearheaded by a team comprising 1 full-time staff members and 3 contractors crucial to the organization's operations. The focal point of this mission was the facilitation of International Chaplain Training, culminating in the graduation of 60 dedicated Ukrainian chaplains. Moreover, we had the privilege of addressing brotherhood with 37 Ukrainian officers in training, underscoring our commitment to fostering resilience and camaraderie among those serving on the front lines of their nation's defense.These resilient chaplains, steadfast in their commitment, play a pivotal role in instilling hope and providing spiritual sustenance to soldiers engaged in the noble pursuit of safeguarding their country's freedom. In tandem with our training efforts, our team also extended support to coaches offering physical therapy to soldiers, intertwining their rehabilitation with the message of the Gospel. Throughout our training sessions, a diverse array of critical topics was covered, ranging from suicide prevention and the significance of brotherhood to addressing the realities of PTSD, distinguishing between killing and murder, exploring alternatives to suicide, crisis survival strategies, and considerations for the well-being of one's family. Each instructor, drawing from personal experience, shared their testimony, imparting invaluable insights and inspiring the participants to persevere amidst adversity.At the heart of our mission lies the unwavering commitment to deliver the Gospel message to the soldiers and civilians of Ukraine, acknowledging their profound need for spiritual guidance and solace. Our endeavors transcend political boundaries, guided by the directive laid out in Mark 16:15, which mandates, "Go into all the world and preach the Good News to everyone." Recognizing the multifaceted challenges faced by the people of Ukraine—both spiritual and physical—we are resolute in extending the love and compassion of Christ, offering a beacon of hope amidst their trials.Our dedication to Ukraine transcends the immediate conflict, recognizing the enduring need for support and guidance long after the cessation of hostilities. Mighty Oaks International remains steadfast in its commitment to maintaining a sustained presence in Ukraine, with a primary emphasis on equipping chaplains to effectively minister to their military personnel. By empowering these chaplains, we endeavor to mitigate the emotional and spiritual struggles encountered by service members and first responders, ensuring their continued resilience and fortitude. Our dedication to Ukraine transcends the immediate conflict, recognizing the enduring need for support and guidance long after the cessation of hostilities. Mighty Oaks International remains steadfast in its commitment to maintaining a sustained presence in Ukraine, with a primary emphasis on equipping chaplains to effectively minister to their military personnel. By empowering these chaplains, we endeavor to mitigate the emotional and spiritual struggles encountered by service members and first responders, ensuring their continued resilience and fortitude.Looking ahead, Mighty Oaks International is actively preparing for future missions to Ukraine, with the aim of expanding our reach to more chaplains and extending vital training to regions that may present logistical challenges. This ongoing commitment reaffirms our unwavering dedication to amplifying our impact and providing essential support to those in need within Ukraine. As we press forward, guided by our core principles and driven by compassion, we remain steadfast in our mission to serve and uplift the courageous men and women who sacrifice for the greater good. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By Glenn RosenbaumAs the first major arctic winter weather storm wreaked havoc over the majority of North America, veterans and first responders from all over the country endured the storms’ travel challenges to make it to the first men’s Recovery Program for 2024 at Junction, Texas.Upon arrival, we could see from the countenance on these men’s faces the years-upon-years of trauma and life challenges that they had endured in the journey of their lives. Their trauma-weathered faces appeared so hardened and cold that one would have the initial fleeting thought that our life changing program may have in fact arrived too late to provide any real life-saving help. Thankfully, the experienced staff and team leaders at our program this week knew that a thought like that is absolutely wrong, and that what these men would be given and taught this week had the power and promise to not only soften countenances like these, but also would launch them into the necessary legacy changing and soul healing these men needed.As our seasoned and trained team leaders engaged these men throughout the week, we could tell that the storms of the enemy had created an opportunity for these men to be tempted and deceived. Regrettably, wrong decisions in each participant’s life were made. Resulting in these men finding themselves lying with the deceitfulness of the world. With those wrong decisions came the contamination of guilt and shame that can bring a man to truly believe that his future is eternally cold, dark, and hopeless. A frozen wasteland so cold that no seeable form of life or relationship could ever exist. In the Old Testament, in the book of Jeremiah, we can read about a group of people in a very similar state known as the nation of Israel. The people of the nation of Israel also struggled with their own story of trauma and contamination. In fact, they found themselves so backslidden and “their land” so profusely polluted with the world’s harlotries and wickedness that their future also appeared similarly eternally cold and dark. Praisefully, just as God sought the national of Israel and would bring them to repentance, God similarly pursued these men at our session. In Jeramiah 3:1 it says: “’But you have played the harlot with many lovers; Yet return to Me,’ says the LORD.” Like Jeremiah to the nation of Israel, our team would go and proclaim similar words and truths towards these hardened warriors. Pleas similar to ones like this: repent and return, “says the LORD; 'I will not cause My anger to fall on you. For I am merciful,' says the LORD; 'I will not remain angry forever. Only acknowledge your iniquity, that you have transgressed against the LORD your God,’” (Jer 3:12-13). Throughout the week, our servants’ efforts to make these men sensible of their own state and sharing God’s promised seed of hope, God would work his tender mercy in the hearts of these men. God would, one-by-one, bring these men to repentance, and as He promised, he would receive them again into favor.
By, Travis Gitthens “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of human freedoms- to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Viktor Frankl Our participants come labeled with a variety of mental health diagnoses: anxiety disorders, anger disorders, addictions, stress disorders, personality disorders, etc. More times than not, this puts the individual in the mentality that they are somehow subject to something out of their control that they have to manage the rest of their life with medications, a lifetime of therapy, or other coping mechanisms. This results in men feeling defeated, helpless, enslaved to a diagnosis, or worst of all, hiding behind these diagnoses as an excuse for their bad behavior. The very thing Mr. Frankl, warned against. “This is just how I am now. This is my new normal,” they say! “Only if you allow it to be.” We say in response. At Mighty Oaks we believe the Bible is authoritative and sufficient, and it doesn’t just offer a list of good ideas for us to try. It diagnoses the true condition of our nature and offers real solutions. 1 Corinthians 10:13 tells us, “No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.” This Biblical truth diagnoses the true culprit, my sinful nature, and gives hope of the promise that God won’t allow impossible temptation to overtake us but will provide a way out. The question then becomes, will I take that way of escape, or will I give myself over to my sin? Mr. Frankl and scripture agree that I get to make a choice in how I respond. There is no playing the victim or hiding behind a label. What about anxiety? I personally have struggled with anxiety and was even prescribed medication for it. The medication did nothing to remove the anxiety, it merely tried to numb it away… and took other emotions with it. God’s Word, however, speaks directly to this issue in Philippians 4:6-7. “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” It acknowledges that the anxiety is real, gives me an action to take to combat it, and a promise of “peace that passes understanding” to call on. Real action, real hope, real power, and no unpleasant side effects. In Titus 2 the Apostle Paul writes to Titus to encourage men to be “self-controlled and worthy of respect.” It seems obvious, but the Biblical implication is that we can be self-controlled, that we can conduct ourselves worthy or respect regardless of circumstances. It does not say “…unless you’ve seen combat or faced trauma.” Our veterans especially need to be called to this and reminded of it. This is partly why one of the ways Mighty Oaks describes itself is as a “poke-a-vet-in-the-chest” program. But we “poke” as men who walk in the same shoes as the participants; we were all participants of the program once ourselves. Military & First Responder participants come to us believing they have been sentenced to a lifetime of living inside the prison of a diagnosis, or multiple diagnoses. Mighty Oaks points them to true hope, real healing, and rest for their souls through aligning their lives with the life God created them to live, in relationship with the Lord Jesus, by the power of the Holy Spirit, with the Scripture as our guide. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By Travis LewarchikEach week at these sessions, veterans and first responders show up to the ranches in search of hope, identity, and healing. This past week at Skyrose Ranch was no different. Twenty-five veterans and first responders showed up and found or renewed their hope, that hope being Christ. I am constantly in awe of the work that can be done in less than a week. The men who walked through the doors on Monday night are not the same ones who left Saturday morning. The men who left Saturday, left with purpose, hope, and restored legacies. They left with the tools to fight… fight for their legacy, families, and communities. They learned to fight from the high ground. They learned not only who they are, but more importantly who they belong to. They found identity in Christ and Christ alone. They know that the reality of the battles they left Monday will rage on, but they now know how to fight them - using the 4 Bs: Be in the word. Be in prayer. Be in fellowship with other believers in your local church. Be in constant contact with cornermen.Many self-professed “Christians” walk through life assuming that being a “good” person and going to church is all that God requires of them, and that in doing so they will be saved. This week those lies were exposed and men for the first time truly surrendered and called on the name of the Lord. “That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” Romans 10:9Men who were on a “self-help,” journey finally found the freedom and help they were looking for. They found freedom from a place of surrender and allowed the Holy Spirit to pour into them. On Friday, I took the opportunity to reflect on the week with some of the participants. While speaking to one of them, I asked, “What changed?” He said for the first time in his life he felt love, joy and peace. Those should sound familiar as he was identifying the fruit of the spirit before he ever knew what they were. I had the opportunity to share with him Galatians 5:22-23 “the fruit of the spirit,” and in that moment the Word came to life. He was listing the fruit of the spirit inside of him in the same order they are written, even though he had never read those words. We serve a living God and who reveals himself to us through the living word. "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law." Galatians 5:22-23I am convinced that true restoration only comes through surrender and faith in Christ. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
The holiday season is often hailed as a time of joy and celebration, yet for many veterans and military service members, it can bring unique challenges and heightened stress. As we embrace the festivities, it's crucial to remember those who have served our country and ensure their wellbeing during this time. As we revel in the holiday spirit, let's extend our generosity and support to those who have served our nation. Supporting veterans during the holidays and beyond is not just a gesture; it's an expression of our appreciation for their sacrifice and dedication to our country.Here are some ways to show your appreciation and support for veterans during the holidays.1. Donate to Veteran Support Organizations: Look for reputable organizations focused on aiding veterans dealing with homelessness, food insecurity, or mental health issues. Consider donating money, goods, or volunteering your time to support their programs and initiatives.2. Participate in Local Support Drives: Engage with local community drives or initiatives aimed at collecting essential items like non-perishable foods, warm clothing, blankets, or personal care products specifically for veterans in need.3. Offer Your Time and Skills: Volunteer at shelters, community centers, or organizations catering to veterans. You can offer your professional skills or simply spend time engaging with and supporting them, providing companionship during the holiday season.4. Organize Fundraising Events: Organize fundraising events within your community, workplace, or social circle to gather funds dedicated to supporting veteran causes. Consider hosting bake sales, auctions, or charity events to raise awareness and financial assistance.5. Show Personal Appreciation: Simple gestures like writing thank-you letters, creating handmade cards, or sending care packages filled with seasonal treats and heartfelt messages can make a significant impact on veterans, conveying gratitude and support during the festive season.Remember, small acts of kindness can collectively make a big difference in ensuring veterans feel appreciated and supported during the holiday season and beyond. Managing holiday stress is equally vital. Veterans often grapple with relationship strains, financial pressures, and demanding schedules during this time. Encouraging self-care, setting boundaries, focusing on the future, and engaging in activities that promote mental wellness are key strategies to alleviate stress.TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By Travis Sellers,As the week began, I watched more than 20 Veterans and First Responders arrive at the beautiful SkyRose Ranch in California. Some of them had an idea of what to expect, or at least they thought they did. Some were not quite sure what to think. One thing is for certain, they were bound by chains. These men looked exhausted as if they came straight from the battlefield. Truth is, that is exactly where they came from. As we ended the first night with these brave men introducing themselves, I reflected back to the first night I came through the Legacy Program here at Sky Rose Ranch. When I introduced myself, I burst into tears because of how broken I was. I was desperate to receive the freedom I have through Christ. These men desired the same thing, freedom. The lies of the enemy controlled their minds…they didn’t believe freedom, true freedom, was possible. As these men became transparent with the sin that filled their lives, they began to experience superficial freedom. We don’t experience true freedom by just talking about our feelings or the sins we’ve committed. In John 8:31-32 Jesus says, “If you abide in my Word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” Jesus tells us He is the truth in John 14:6, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” Jesus will set you free from your bondage and sin. This truth began to sink in with these men as the week progressed. They learned that submission to Christ is the key to true freedom. But how do I submit to Christ? Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us to, “Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” We must align ourselves with God and trust that His will for our lives is better than our will. As these men embraced that absolute Truth, their chains were broken! Many of them acquired freedom for the first time in their lives! The weight dropped from their shoulders, the anxiety was removed from their hearts and minds! The lies of the enemy were defeated with absolute Truth! These men are better prepared to fight the spiritual warfare that awaits them on the battlefield of life. We watched them leave the ranch eager to go to war with the Truth as their weapon having been set free from their bondage and sin, through Christ. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By Chad Robichaux,Veterans Day is a time to honor the brave men and women who have selflessly served our nation. It’s not just about parades, ceremonies or big-box store sales; it's about recognizing and appreciating the sacrifices made by our veterans in service to this incredible nation, and addressing the unique challenges they face because of such selfless sacrifice.The transition from military service to civilian life, or even simply continuing to live a healthy life as a military service member, can be a complex and challenging journey. I’ve lived through it, and now I dedicate my life to helping others navigate the difficult process.For many veterans, it involves not only adjusting to a different lifestyle but also dealing with the physical, mental and spiritual wounds that often result from their service. This Veterans Day, I hope Americans will be willing to take a closer look at the difficulties that many veterans face, and more deeply appreciate their sacrifices and what it is they sacrificed for."I founded the Mighty Oaks Foundation to fill the existing gap in supporting struggling veterans, active-duty service members, and first responders as they find hope and healing. Our faith-based programs help attendees address and overcome the hidden wounds of war, like post-traumatic stress and combat trauma, and feel inspired to use their talents as they continue to serve their communities through a new mission."To read the full story, click here
By Mitzi EggerIn his last letter before his death, the Apostle Paul reiterates his confidence in God: “But I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed, and I am convinced that He is able to guard what I have entrusted to Him until that day” (II Tim. 1:12). Here Paul rests in his intimate knowledge of God through personal experience and trusts fully in God’s character and faithfulness. This knowledge and trust were forged through great trials and extreme suffering. In II Corinthians 1:8-11, Paul describes a specific affliction which he experienced. It is unknown what this event entailed, but it is clear that it was beyond what Paul felt he would physically survive, saying “we were so utterly burdened beyond our strength that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt that we had received the sentence of death” (II Cor. 1:8-9). At the same time, God had a purpose for Paul’s suffering. By taking him to the end of himself and all human help, Paul was forced to utterly rely on God’s grace and power to deliver him. Paul knew and had experienced the sufficiency of God’s grace, “for power is perfected in weakness” (II Cor. 12:9). He understood the strength of Christ’s presence during his times of suffering, “but the Lord stood by me and strengthened me,” and he was also confident in God’s promise to “rescue [him] from every evil deed and bring [him] safely into his heavenly kingdom” (II Tim. 4:17-8).In September 2023, a group of 19 women and a team of Mighty Oaks Women’s Program leaders gathered together at The Wilds in Ohio for the Mighty Oaks Women’s Legacy Program. Each woman came with a story, looking for hope and a way forward in walking through their own individual struggle, pain, trauma, fear, and disappointment. Each class during the session contained a common theme of helping these ladies better know and understand the character of God, His view of us as His children, and how He wants us to view ourselves through the truth of Scripture. In addition, the testimonies of each leader woven throughout the daily challenges and classes provided living examples of God’s presence and help throughout both past and ongoing pain and struggle.As the session progressed, a camaraderie among both the small groups and entire team became evident, ultimately providing hope for these ladies that they were not alone. Not only could they, like Paul, cling to God’s promise to be with them through the waters, river, and fire of suffering (Isa.43:1-3), and strengthen them to fulfill the calling and purpose for which He designed them, but they now had fellow warrior sisters to help lift them up (Ecc. 4:9) through encouragement and accountability. Discouragement and despair began to transition to hope, courage, and determination as these ladies began to plan their next steps forward and implement what they had learned in the session back into the challenges of their daily lives.As believers, we know and believe that God’s power “has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness” (II Pet. 1:3). We also know that Jesus, as our faithful High Priest, not only identifies with us in our weaknesses and suffering, but He also stands ready and willing to help us and extend grace and mercy to us in our time of need (Heb. 4:14-16). Thus, it is our hope that we all continue to become the Godly wives, mothers, daughters, and women that He created us to be regardless of our circumstances, ultimately leaving a Christlike legacy of faithfulness and endurance to those who come after us.LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS INTERNATIONAL HERE!
By Ian Hunter,During our week-long mission trip with Mighty Oaks International in Peru, we were approached by local law enforcement and military leaders to assist them with Resiliency and Recovery efforts. Our journey began in Lima, where we visited five different districts. Our meetings ranged from new law enforcement recruits to seasoned officers of the Peruvian special police forces, including those involved in hostage rescue, riot control, and the battle against warlords and drug cartels.As we arrived at our first location, I wasn't sure how open they would be to hearing about our faith. However, it became evident that the Lord was with us, opening doors for us to share the significance of our faith as a vital source of life and hope. I found myself speaking to young recruits about why it's crucial to not only pray for physical protection but also to understand that in Psalms 91, God is not only sovereign over our physical bodies but primarily concerned about our hearts. He serves as our refuge and protection, whether we're facing battles against human trafficking or spiritual warfare.Psalms 91:4-5 resonates deeply in these situations:"He will cover you with his feathers,and under his wings you will find refuge;his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.You will not fear the terror of night,nor the arrow that flies by day."This passage encapsulates the idea of seeking refuge and protection in God's presence, not just in physical struggles but in all facets of life. Our faith provides strength and solace in times of trouble, and it was a privilege to share this message with those we met during our mission. I believe that our testimonies and messages may have touched their hearts, offering them a new perspective on their personal and professional challenges. These missions serve as a reminder of the positive impact that faith and support can have on the lives of those facing difficult circumstances.No matter what nation I have found myself in front of, there are two things we have in common. First, God quickly revealed brothers and sisters in Christ. Even though I don't speak Spanish, our shared knowledge of the Word allowed us to build a strong bond. It was a powerful testament to the unifying force of faith. Second, the reality of sin's presence and its impact on everyone, believer and nonbeliever alike, transcends borders. This universal struggle highlights the need for spiritual support and resilience, regardless of our cultural or linguistic differences.James 1:22-25 serves as a guiding principle for our mission:"Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do."As the days passed, we witnessed God's hand at work, opening doors to various law enforcement departments. We had the incredible opportunity to visit these departments, praying over the officials in their offices. It was an honor to stand before 500 Peruvian Army soldiers, positioned alongside the Peruvian National Psychologist for an in-depth discussion. The atmosphere was charged with a palpable sense of purpose.During this session, we were privileged to take part in a seminar that meticulously unraveled the layers of resiliency. Drawing from my personal journey of two decades in the US military, I shared my testimony, which was punctuated with numerous spiritual and trauma-laden experiences. It was a moment of vulnerability and connection, as I sought to convey the profound impact faith had on my resilience.In our discussions, we delved into the foundational principles that underpin resiliency within military co...
By, Gabe DeLaRosa A Couple of weeks ago we had a group of warriors that attended the Mighty Oaks Legacy Program in Haymarket, VA. As we spent the week together it was evident that most of the men attending were dealing with the usual issues that men deal with throughout their day. Issues like being angry over things that are out of their control. Other things also included stress, anxiety, and thoughts of complete failure in their lives. As these warriors go through classes and small group discussions, they soon realize that they are not alone, and many have very similar experiences. Almost like someone called ahead of them to brief the class on their specific issues. The one thing is certain though as they get to hear the gospel throughout the week, the commonality is needing a relationship with God. Fighting things on our own without God in our lives makes for quite a mess. These warriors learn that we cannot depend on the things of this world as they tend to fail us without God in our lives. The Gospel tells us very clearly: 1 John 2:15-17 "Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever."TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS & OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE
By Jamie Warner,September hosted a Women's Legacy Program in Ohio, a First Responders Program in Texas, and two Men’s Legacy Programs, one in California and one in Virginia. We who work for Mighty Oaks Foundation are all too familiar with the life transformation that is possible through surrendering oneself to Jesus and aligning your life to the life in which we are created to live.There is so much power in hearing a person’s story of redemption and transformation, that we asked Jake Della Pia, who attended the Legacy Program in Haymarket, Virginia, and would be honored to share his with you. Jake, what were your thoughts prior to attending the Men’s Legacy Program? “I was excited but scared. The night before I left, I called my parents saying I didn’t want to go. I then drank from my house all the way to the airport in Washington, DC. I said to myself, give Mighty Oaks a try and if it doesn’t do anything then come home and commit suicide.” What are your thoughts or reactions to how the session went for you? “I thought I was alone. I thought I was the only guy going through substance abuse and thoughts of suicide. I soon discovered, the first day, that I was among good company. I thought all the lessons were created specifically for me. I finally could put names to some of the issues I was dealing with and how to deal with them.“The first two days I cried my eyes out. I watched a video of a widow talking about her deceased husband killing himself because he felt like a burden to his family. All I saw was me in that story. That dude was me, I imagined. I felt the same way. I cried for two straight hours. But now, I know those thoughts are lies. I am more than drugs and alcohol. My past doesn’t define me.” Moving forward, what are your plans or purpose? “I’ve created a Legacy Plan for continued success. I have multiple cornermen identified. I have a plan in place and resources to combat substance abuse. I recommitted my life to making Him Lord of my life. I will leave a legacy my daughter can be proud of.” Any final thoughts? “This place stopped my downward spiral. It has saved my life. I’ve been baptized an commit my life to walking my path with God. I know that I will have trials and tribulations again, but because of God and Mighty Oaks, I have the tools to live abundantly. “All I can say is ‘Thank you.’ This saved my life.” And all we at MOF can say is, Amen! And thank you, Lord, for this and all of the thousands of stories of restoration and transformation You have written! And thank you to all of you who so tirelessly pray, give, and support Mighty Oaks in so many ways. We could not do it without you (nor would we want to)! TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS FOUNDATION CLICK HERE
By Terry CockrellCease striving and know that I am God.... Psalm 46:10 As the men began arriving to SkyRose Ranch in San Miguel, California, on the 4th of September 2023, to begin a Men's Legacy Program week, most of them did not know what to expect. Some having attended other programs were hoping to get started and get it done. A “check-in-the-box.” Many were inadvertently sizing one another up and keeping their conversations at a very superficial level. Most of the veterans and first responders that attend Legacy Programs have been long striving against darkness, hopelessness, isolation, depression, and feel they have no way out of the cycle that affects them and their families. Upon arriving at the ranch, many were showing all this in their faces and in their demeanor, but Hope was on the way!As the week kicked off with an icebreaker, the men found that they indeed were not alone or unique in their struggles. They began to find some commonalities with each other, and as the first day progressed, they began to open up a little more. Some even began smiling for the first time. As the team leaders and staff began to share their testimonies and teach classes, the men began to see there is a Hope, and His name is Jesus.Psalm 31:24 Be strong and let your heart take courage, all you who hope in the Lord. The men began to learn that sincere hope and the answer to what they were facing in life could be found in a relationship with Jesus.Romans 8:35 Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will tribulation, distress, or persecution, or famine or nakedness, or peril, or sword? The men also learned that nothing that they have done in the past or are currently doing them can separate them from the love and mercy and forgiveness of Christ Jesus.The week ended with several of the men making first time decisions to follow Christ, some to renew their relationship with Christ, and 8 men were baptized! The classes the team leaders and staff shared with them also allowed the Warriors to see where the staff once were, and where they are now, and that a total life transformation is possible with Jesus.To end the week, a wonderful last meal was had, and all the once heavy-hearted men were now laughing, sharing stories, and enjoying each other’s company. The men had learned how to cease striving, and to stop and listen to God. After a week of classes and hearing one another’s stories and being open and honest with themselves and their teammates, joy had once again returned to their lives, and they look forward to a new life in Christ. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS FOUNDATION & OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE
Mighty Oaks International Update Ukraine Sep 23, 2023Mighty Oaks International recently completed a highly successful 14-day mission in Ukraine, featuring a team consisting of 2 full-time staff and 2 strategic contractors integral to the organization. The primary objective was to conduct International Chaplain Training, which resulted in the graduation of 25 Ukrainian chaplains and 10 fitness trainers. These dedicated chaplains routinely serve on the front lines, delivering the message of resiliency and hope to soldiers fighting for their nation's freedom. Additionally, the team supported coaches who provided physical therapy to soldiers while introducing them to the Gospel. During our training sessions, a wide range of crucial topics were covered, including suicide prevention, the importance of brotherhood and discipline, addressing the truth about PTSD, recognizing our common enemy, learning how to be a warrior in Christ, and understanding one's purpose. In addition to these vital subjects, each instructor also shared their personal testimony, providing valuable insights and inspiration to the participants.This mission marked the inaugural collaboration between Mighty Oaks International and Sports Catalyst, significantly expanding the reach and influence in the training and equipping of chaplains and coaches. Much like the National Legacy Program, this mission revealed that many chaplains and coaches were initially burdened by pain and grief but experienced a transformation, culminating in shared joy and unity by the end of the training.As Christians, our focus is on delivering the Gospel message to the soldiers and civilians of Ukraine, recognizing their profound need for spiritual guidance and support. In our mission, we set aside political considerations and firmly adhere to the principle outlined in Mark 16:15, which states, "Go into all the world and preach the Good News to everyone."The people of Ukraine are engaged in an ongoing struggle, both spiritually and physically, as they confront the challenges of everyday life in a conflict-ridden region. It is our firm belief that it is of utmost importance to extend the love of Christ to them, offering solace and hope in the midst of their battles. The commitment to our work in Ukraine extends far beyond the current conflict, recognizing that the need for support and guidance will persist long after the war concludes. Mighty Oaks International remains dedicated to maintaining a sustained presence in Ukraine, with a primary focus on training and equipping chaplains to effectively minister to their military personnel. By doing so, we aim to prevent Ukrainian service members from encountering the same emotional and spiritual challenges that many US service members and first responders often face. Our long-term presence in Ukraine underscores our unwavering commitment to nurturing the well-being of those who serve and ensuring they receive the spiritual support necessary for their continued resilience and strength.Mighty Oaks International is actively preparing for future missions to Ukraine, with the goal of extending the reach to more chaplains and providing them with the necessary training to carry out the Mighty Oaks International mission in regions that may be challenging to access otherwise. Indeed, this ongoing commitment reaffirms Mighty Oaks International's unwavering dedication to expanding the impact and providing essential support to those in need within Ukraine. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR MIGHTY OAKS INTERNATIONAL PROGRAMSCLICK HERE
By Pete Lawrence
This previous week in Texas nearly twenty veterans and first responders arrived from across the United States seeking hope. Men who have been shackled by shame and guilt. We live in a world where culture tells us to “live your truth” and that there are “numerous paths to God”. Yet every session we see that living “our” way fails and leaves us searching out something to fill this void so many men speak of.
Jesus tells the disciples in John 14:6 that only through him is there salvation and a relationship with God. Your way, my way, and the world’s way will only lead to ruin and death. John 14:6 ESV "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." On day one in the video “I Am Second,” Mighty Oaks founder Chad Robichaux specifically says that if we leave God out of our plans, we are setting ourselves up for failure. When we look at Legacy Plans (what we want our legacy to be) it is paramount that the number one thing we need to be fighting for is our relationship with God. By aligning ourselves with God and diligently walking in a relationship with him, only then can we be the men that God has called us to be. We try to fill these voids in our lives with stuff, fill our time with fruitless pursuits of temporary joy, and so many numb this abyss with drugs or alcohol. Yet, when we walk out our faith, we find purpose in God’s plan for us. When we submit to God and kill our foolish desires, his eternal joy fills us. Men who were lost, find a new eternal purpose, one that does not shift with the winds of culture but is rooted in the truth of the sovereign Lord.
During the week, the men are given the tools to align their lives with God’s will. We are told to walk out and live in the Four Be’s.
Be in the Word
Be in prayer
Be in fellowship at your local church
Be in communication with your cornerman In a prior life, I was a comm (Communications) Marine. I know the importance of having that one-on-one correspondence. By Being in the Word, God talks to us through his truth. A truth that has not changed in thousands of years. We communicate with God by Being in Prayer. It is time to bring superior firepower and wage war against a culture that has shackled you with shame. Proverbs 24:6 tells us that by “wise guidance” we can wage war: the need-to-know God’s truth. In an “abundance of counselors there is victory” highlights the importance of Being at a strong Christian church and in fellowship. By Being in communication with our cornerman we can see the weak spots in our fight against the enemy and have someone to hold us accountable to our Legacy Plans to ensure we don’t take shortcuts or have flexible standards. Proverbs 24:6 ESV For by wise guidance you can wage your war, and in abundance of counselors there is victory. For many of you, your way led to your poor choices, an empty void you tried to fill with things of the world. So, if it has been a few days or a few months since you attended Mighty Oaks, I am calling you out to “wage war” against our common enemy, to stand in the gap, and to be the man that God called you to be. Align yourself with God and find that time tomorrow morning to be in the word and to be in prayer. Be in His truth and not of this world. In Christ we have hope -- hope of restoration and salvation through a relationship with God. A hope rooted in His eternal truth and not that of the world.
By Rachel Schroeder,Psalm 18:1-7 | “1 I love you, O Lord, my strength. 2 The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer, my God, my rock in whom I take refuge, my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.”In August 2023, a team of Mighty Oaks Women’s Program leaders came together at California’s SkyRose Ranch to share with a group of women, from all over the US, what God has done in their lives and the hope that is only found in Jesus. Attending a weeklong session for both leaders and students is not always easy, especially when we see the enemy beginning to attack weeks, if not months, before a session is to start. This can leave leaders with feelings of being empty and they will often have doubts of being able to help others.Participants may come with hesitance, fear of the unknown, and questioning if the program is even worth their time. Not to mention, they may struggle with doubts as to whether they will even have the energy needed to get through the week because many are carrying not only their pain, trauma, and lack of self-worth, but may also be carrying the trauma of someone else, like a spouse.Focus is what we must pray for. To focus on what the Holy Spirit has us as leaders pour into someone that comes so broken and without hope. We must pray for participants and for focus that is needed to trust, engage, and to completely open up to complete strangers about their deepest fears and chaos that can come from years of trauma.“3 I call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised, so I shall be saved from my enemies. 4 The chords of death encompassed me; the torrents of perdition assailed me; 5 The cords of Sheol entangled me; the snares of death confronted me.”Coming together with chaos can make someone feel as if they are in a middle of a storm without shelter to protect them from the distractions, destruction, and devastation they see all around them. Without the hope of forgiveness and reconciliation, they can be left feeling as if they have lost everything and are stuck out in the middle of a storm and all alone.“6 In my distress. I call upon the Lord; to my God I cried for help. From His temple he heard my voice, and my cry to him reached his ears.”We read in Psalm 18 of a very active God in heaven and about a man who is eager and who is wanting complete healing to carry out God's will and the work God has for his life. We are reminded that God is our rock, our fortress, and our deliverer and the one we can depend on. We are reminded that when we call on Him in our despair, He will hear us and listen to our cries. His word reminds us that He is active and comes to our rescue. The description in Scripture is like an emergency vehicle with lights and sirens rushing into a chaotic scene to help whoever has cried out for help.“7 then the earth reeled and rocked; the foundations also of the mountains trembled and quaked, because he was angry.”Here we are given a depiction of the supernatural help and deliverance God brings to us. We may not see it when we are in the chaos, but God’s deliverance can always be seen clearly once the storm has passed. Sometimes we need the struggle-that storm, that chaos, to be able to see God and grow in our faith as we continue to walk forward with him. We must take our focus off the chaos we are in and place It on God, who is our one and only refuge. We were able to see so much joy on the faces of the women as they prepared to go back home to face those storms with faith and a new perspective knowing that… GOD IS VICTORIOUS!!!
By, Brandon Bettis Adjusting to civilian life after the intensity of military or public service can be an arduous journey, leaving many men feeling lost and struggling to find hope. However, Mighty Oaks Legacy Programs serve as a beacon of strength and solace for countless veterans and first responders, guiding them toward hope, purpose, and a renewed sense of legacy. The men who attended the Legacy Program in San Miguel, California, learned how a personal relationship with God empowers them to find hope and inspires them to continue fighting for their legacy using the 4Bs (Be in the Word, Be in Prayer, Be in Community/Fellowship, Be in Contact with Cornerman).
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Finding Hope in the Midst of Darkness: The transition to civilian life and a new identity can be overwhelming for participants before they arrive to a Legacy Program session, causing feelings of isolation and despair. Scripture (BE IN THE WORD) offers a source of hope by emphasizing that even in the darkest moments, God's love and grace are always present. Verses such as Psalm 34:18 ("The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit") and Isaiah 41:10 ("Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand") resonate deeply with veterans and first responders, reminding them that they are not alone in their struggles.
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Healing from Trauma with Faith: Combat from war or trauma from working the front lines of civil service can often leave veterans and first responders with deep emotional scars, and the journey to healing can be long and challenging. Mighty Oaks encourages our nation’s Warriors to renew their faith as a source of healing. In Philippians 4:6-7, students are reminded to bring their anxieties and burdens to God in prayer (BE IN PRAYER), finding peace that surpasses all understanding. By entrusting their pain to a loving God, students can begin to find healing and restoration, allowing them to move forward with hope and purpose.
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Embracing a New Purpose and Legacy: As veterans/first responders transition to civilian life, they may grapple with questions about their purpose and legacy. Our curriculum, backed by scripture, provides valuable guidance in this regard, emphasizing that every individual has a unique and meaningful purpose in God's plan. "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11. Mighty Oaks leadership reminds each student that their service does not end, but rather extends where they can continue to make a positive impact in their communities and beyond (BE IN COMMUNITY/FELLOWSHIP).
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Finding Strength in Brotherhood: Mighty Oaks encourages students to find strength in fellowship with other believers (BE IN CONTACT WITH CORNERMAN). Hebrews 10:24-25 emphasizes the importance of gathering together to encourage and support one another, providing a valuable network for graduates to lean on during challenging times. Mighty Oaks has Outposts spread across the country and many churches offer specific support groups for veterans, creating spaces where they can share their experiences and find camaraderie. The men that attended the Legacy Program last week at SkyRose Ranch in San Miguel, California, were struggling to find hope and purpose after their service, and Mighty Oaks offered a guiding light – a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Through its messages of hope, healing, and purpose, participants left with a renewed sense of strength to overcome the daily challenges they face. By leaning on their faith and embracing their unique legacy, graduates can continue to make a meaningful impact in their lives and the lives of others. As we honor their service, let us also acknowledge the power of the Holy Spirit in empowering veterans and first responders to find hope and...
By, Derek Langway The time with our veterans in Bull Run, Virginia, last week was amazing! Despite torrential rains, worse weather in the forecast, threatening airline delays, and cancelled flights, we saw a marked improvement when our 11 students were on deck. The short time between Memorial day and 4th of July feels like spring showers have transitioned into summer sun with red, white, and blue going up on every porch. As veterans, we are proud of our country, our service, and our sacrifice, but when does this pride turn into something unhealthy?
Proverbs 16:18 | Pride comes before disaster, and arrogance before a fall. 1 John 2:16 | For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world. There is hope, and his name is Jesus. Proverbs 13:10 | Where there is strife, there is pride, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.
The men who gathered with us took that courageous step toward overcoming their prideful stance and coming more inline with Christ. We thank them for their service and pray they stay on course as they transition into this next season of their lives. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MIGHTY OAKS AND OUR PROGRAMS CLICK HERE!
By Dusty Shelhammer
James 1:2-4 Consider it a sheer gift, friends, when tests and challenges come at you from all sides. You know that under pressure, your faith-life is forced into the open and shows your true colors. So don’t try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well developed, not deficient in any way.
As we kick off the First Responder Program at SkyRose Ranch in California, 18 first responders gather to possibly engage in the fight of their life: spirituality and manhood as God designed. These men have had the highest level of training to save lives and property this country has to offer, but unfortunately the training to fight to save themselves and their families has been left out. The first night begins with uncertainty. As first responders are trained to do, they start to assess the scene, looking for hidden dangers and trying to gather a plan of attack. And man-oh-man, they are about to get attacked! Not the external attack they are used, and probably expecting, but the internal turmoil of taking off the defensive shield they have put up in the years of serving their communities.
2 Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
The core of this program is not “come have a seat and let us fix you.” This program is the exact reflection of John 5:8, “pick up your mat and walk.” These men will be exposed to the grace and glory of our Lord and will be given the tools to carry on a successful mission in life. A mission of leading their families, managing their household, and building a legacy for their children and other men coming up the same path. As these men unpack a lifetime of “slow drip” trauma, they start to see that the biggest hurdle in their healing is inside them: The price of the false image they have built to hide the impurities in their character. These men unpack their emotional rucksacks this week, spilling out what they have held in until now and filling their hearts with the love of Christ. This week is safety, friendship, and fellowship. These men have shared their hearts exposed, their fears, and by the grace of God’s peace committed their life to healing what has taken a lifetime to break. Some of these men have made a huge step of faith and given their life to Christ. But the fight has just begun. As they travel home, the troubles they left behind are waiting for them. Although, they now have the tools to help them fight: The “4 Be’s” - Be in the Word! Be in Prayer! Be in Fellowship! Be in touch with your cornermen. These tools will help them fight, but the biggest fight is within.
By John Hintz This past week at Sky Rose Ranch with our veterans was nothing short of amazing, and the “amazing” had nothing to do with anything done by man’s hands, rather watching God work in the lives of the men who attended the program. Something I’ve come to understand is this: no program or group of men is exactly the same, yet there is a commonly shared issue with the Warriors, and quiet literally, in my opinion, with all humans. While sitting in our daily 6AM session leadership meeting, I was listening to the Team Leaders briefing the each other, the Program Manager, and the Program Facilitator, I was suddenly struck with a memory of my youth of my high school strength coach barking at me in disappointment saying, “John you are just strong enough to do it wrong.” Almost immediately it dawned on me that my former strength coach’s catch phrase really rings true as to how we approach our lives. I recalled the poor form and brute force I was applying to perform certain lifts, how I often ignored my coach’s sage advice and how my pride caused me to ignore his guidance. Thoughts of “What does he know anyways?” and “Stop worrying so much, I’ve got this,” were my common responses to my coach’s desire to train me properly. In that same way, we were all observing that what these men were currently doing, what they had been trying for a lifetime: doing life on their own strength, was not working. Our observations of the men were that some of them knew just enough scripture to be dangerous to themselves and others. Key scriptures that they had come to commit to memory as a means of navigating life but were largely taken out of their context. Or there were those who relied so much on their own strength, absent God, they were blind to the fact that this was the very reason they found themselves at the Legacy Program. Now, to be clear, nothing I am writing is meant to point a finger at these participants, because God is clear that this is an area that all of us struggle in. When we have successes in our lives and we often do not attribute it to God, we are prone to think that these successes come from our own strength, ability, or knowledge. The danger is this: when we rely on our own strengths, ability, and knowledge we will eventually plateau or reach the maximum level of our ability. Another result of relying on our own brute strength is that we will eventually suffer injury. In that same vein of self-reliance, we think that we have no need for God and His grace and mercy provided through His Son Jesus Christ and His justifying and atoning work. We think our good works and abilities are enough.
God, in Proverbs 3 and through the pen of Solomon, warns us of this very dangerous thinking. The very first truth we are reminded of is to not forget the teaching and commands, and in doing so we will see God adding to the length of our days and our peace (verses 1 &2). As that chapter goes on, Solomon admonished his sons to
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” (Proverbs 3: 5-6 ESV)
How many of us only trust God in certain areas? How often do we only trust Him when it comes to those spiritual issues and not in our everyday walks? How many of us fail to acknowledge Him in all our ways? How many of us rely on our own ability repeatedly until the injury comes, or we’ve peaked or plateaued, and only reach out to Him for that little extra help to get past the sticking point or healing from the injury incurred, and then return to our previous way of living? Even worse, we ignore the injury, in doing so exacerbating the damage, compiling injury on top of injury until we can no longer function in normal daily life.
Solomon goes on to write in Proverbs 3, “Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and turn away from evil. It will be healing to your flesh and refreshment to your bo...
Tired, but not Finished Yet By, Saul Villanueva
Philippians 1:6, “And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ."
On May 21st and 22nd, Men from all over the nation travelled to The Ranch in Texas. Most had no idea what to expect from the week. Their experiences so far had taught them to keep their guard up, their walls reenforced, and to maintain a tactical distance from everyone else. At the beginning of the week, they were confronted with a challenging question: “Do you even want to get well?” The underlining questions on every participant’s mind are: Do I have enough hope left to believe that change is even a possibility, life can be different, and relationships with spouses, children, and parents can be restored? As the week progressed, these men were called to action, to re-engage in the fight. All of these men have been proven capable warriors in the past. However, they were taught that if they are even one “click” off in their aim, over time they would completely miss the target. They had to decide if they were willing to fight for the most important things in life, like their relationship with God, their relationship with their spouse, their relationship with their children, just to name a few. Paul teaches in Ephesians 6:12, “For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood.” Our loved ones are not our enemies! People are not our enemies! Paul continues on to tell us who we are wresting against, “against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.” This week they were taught that they had an enemy who has lied to them, has used trickery and deception to obscure the truth. They were taught the difference between what was right and what was almost right. That the way to fight against our true enemy is to stand firm in the truth of God’s word.
As the men began to open up and tell us their stories, I noticed a common thread between all of these men: They were tired of fighting for so long on their own, tired of being isolated, tired of not being understood, tired of protecting others from themselves, tired of not being able to be transparent with others. But most of all, tired of who the world said they had become. They wrestled with what they had learned from the world over time and the truth of God’s word that was being presented to them. They wrestled with the tragedies they have experienced as veterans, as first responders, as men, and the possibility of having hope. The Mighty Oaks staff faithfully took overt action to shift the men’s focus away from the world and tactically shifted it towardsChrist. These Warriors left The Ranch with a new understanding, fresh hope, and renewed purpose.
“For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 8:38-39
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The 1st Responders course that was conducted at the Blaylock Ranch in Junction, Texas, from April 17-22 was one where we witnessed God’s hand through the Holy Spirit move through the men that attended. We had 17 men attend that although were still actively working in their profession, showed signs of wear from the burdens they had been carrying.But as we learn in scripture: Blessed are the peacekeepers, for they shall be called children of God. -Matthew 5:9 Throughout the week, they learned that they were not alone with what burdens they were carrying. They learned through classes the importance of having Godly men in their lives to hold them accountable and to lock arms when they are about to fall. They learned the importance of prayer and reading God’s word every day. The four B’s that we share with them are not just a staple or neat slogan to remember: Be in the Word, Be in Prayer, Be in Fellowship, Be in Contact with your Cornermen. This is a base for them to start everyday keeping their momentum going forward and not backwards, towards God and not their past sins.We witnessed 17 men either make a commitment or re-commitment to surrender their lives to Jesus Christ and to follow his example. We are not smart enough to make that happen on our own, but only through God is something this good possible.Blessed be the Lord, my rock, who trains my hands for war and my fingers for battle. He is my steadfast love and my fortress, my stronghold and my deliverer, my shield, and in whom I take refuge. -Psalm 144:1-2 To learn more about Mighty Oaks and our Programs click here!
by Jamie Warner“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, But when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.” Proverbs 13:12April at Mighty Oaks Foundation ushered in two Legacy Programs for men: one at Blaylock Ranch, Texas, for first responders, and one at SkyRose Ranch, California, for veterans. A total of 35 Warriors arrived seeking to align their lives with the life they were created to live.April is also the time for Spring and the time Americans look forward to about as much as we look forward to a root canal: tax season. But for many of us, we were given an automatic extension to our filing deadline due to multiple nationwide disasters. This delay of reconciling our taxes with Uncle Sam, for some, is a welcomed relief. But when it comes to reconciling our past hurts and traumas, extending the process can add to the pain and discomfort.CJ Woodruff, one of the Warriors from the SkyRose session shared how delaying getting help affected him.“About 2 ½ years ago, my life really just hit a crossroads. I essentially, in a lot of ways, was dealing with a lot of demons, a lot of baggage, a lot of life-built-up things including service that just wasn’t dealt with. And the reality of it was, is whenever you don’t deal with things, as I would find out the hard way, it turns into a nuclear explosion. This led into fighting with my spouse, led into custody battles with my kids, eventually a divorce. And I just had to look myself in the mirror, and I didn’t like what I saw. I really became something that I never could have imagined I would have been, and I didn’t like it.”And James Crawford, another Warriors from this month, shared what his life was like prior to Legacy Program.“I was very nervous about coming here. I’m actually nervous talking to you right now, but you’ve got to listen though because if this could reach someone that’s going through the same thing that I was going through prior to me coming here, you know, being nervous, being flustered, being frustrated, being extremely angry and just feeling wrong and feeling like there’s no way out, feeling like you don’t even have a wall behind you. You know, you feel like there’s nothing, to where you have to fight in a three-sixty direction all around the board.”All of your support pays off. The word about Mighty Oaks and our effectiveness is getting out. In fact, CJ shared this about his journey,“I tried several different veterans’ retreats and things like that. And the reality is even though they were good, and I don’t want to take away from that, I just… I still needed something more. Something was missing. And every retreat I went to, somebody would mention Mighty Oaks. ‘Check out Mighty Oaks.’ ‘You’ve got to check it out.’ I finally was able to fully surrender and give my live to Christ. The irony is, I’ve been in my own way for a long time and really, it’s this simple: surrender myself to God. Surrender myself to Christ.”But facing the hurt and trauma in order to find healing is not always easy to do, but it is always worth it, as James attests to.“When I came here, you know, it was a little rough, but I got warmed up very quick and very soon. All the staff here are great. They’re genuine. They’re respectful. They’re pure. And they taught me how to find God. They taught me how to walk with Jesus. Make sure, you know, you run with Jesus. You understand? You walk with Jesus, you run with Jesus. You don’t let anyone else deter you from your path. All right? It’s going to be frustrating. It’s going to be scary. It’s going to be hard as heck, but you’re harder! And understand that and never quit, never give up! I hope this really reaches you. You don’t have to hurt yourself or harm anyone else. You stay focused on God.”If you need help, or know someone who does, don’t put it off any longer. Just take the step forward.God is doing great things through Mighty Oaks Foundation, and it is due in no small part to you, our supporters.
by Chad RobichauxI have spoken and ministered to so many fearless veterans about their combat related trauma, their military life, and how it has affected their daily lives. Every day these courageous, honorable, veterans face extraordinary challenges when facing reintegration into civilian life. I too know the struggle to find purpose, fight the feeling of isolation, and thinking that the only way to deal with life is taking one’s own.I ask that you remember, pray for, and support our veterans so that they will become more than conquers (Romans 8:31-39) and win the battle over their struggles.Below are some reasons why veterans struggle to reintegrate into society and what we can do to help!DIFFICULTY MANAGING STRONG EMOTIONSSomething I struggled with, that many veterans struggle with, is difficulty managing strong emotions. These often include high levels of anxiety and hyper-vigilance associated with the stress of constant risk of danger while deployed. These behaviors, although appropriate and encouraged in a war zone, result in problematic behaviors when returning to civilian life . . . like feeling on-edge and being easily triggered. This causes issues in many areas of life related to reintegration, including employment, family problems, and social connection.LOST SENSE OF PURPOSEMany of us experience feelings of alienation and loneliness within our families and our communities. We feel as if we are no longer needed because our family responsibilities and roles were filled by our spouse or others during our absence.MENTAL ILLNESS AND CO-OCCURING DISORDERSBased on studies in the VA healthcare system since the invasion of Afghanistan, roughly 44% of veterans have a mental disorder diagnosis of PTSD or depression and 14% suffer from co-occurring disorders, such as alcohol and or drug abuse.LACK OF FAITHThe military teaches an ABC approach to solving problems, the issue is – not all problems can be solved on our own. When I was at the lowest part of my life, feeling completely broken, relying on therapy, mixed martial arts, and a handful of medications, a friend of mine told me, “If God plays no part in your transformation, you are going to fall on your face.” And he was right. It wasn’t until I committed to getting to know God and was able to place my faith in Him that the transformation began. Without it I would have never realized God’s true plan and purpose for me on this earth.I discovered the solution that absolutely works! This is why my dedicated staff and I are fully committed to help our veterans to experience restored hope in Christ, healing, and renewed purpose through our Legacy Programs at five beautiful and relaxing rural ranches across the country. We love what we do, and we hope you will come along side of us as financial supporters.It is because of you, that we are powerful advocates for our veterans & I thank you for that!CLICK TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR PROGRAMS AND HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE!
By Chad Robichaux,Did you know that more than 20 veterans a day commit suicide and the combat veteran divorce rate is over 80%? There is no question that our great country has fallen short of providing adequate services to our veterans as they transition back into civilian life.Did you also know that you can be part of our mission?Mighty Oaks Program Facilitator, Jamie Warner, talking to a class of veterans at one of our Legacy Programs. Our Legacy Programs at Mighty Oaks Foundation teach our veterans how to fight through their challenges related to military life, combat deployments, and the symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress. We have had over 4,000 alumni who have graduated from our Legacy Programs who have successfully set a new trajectory for their relationship with God, themselves, their families, their faith, and their careers. I am so proud of every one of our veterans alumni. Mighty Oaks Foundation has one of the most successful veteran programs available today and here’s why.OUR PROGRAM LEADERS OVERCAME THE SAME STRUGGLESMany veterans have no one to help them navigate through their struggles with PTSD, combat related trauma, suicidal thoughts, their faith, and their reintegration into civilian life. But our leadership knows first-hand what veterans go through because our leaders are veterans too. Only those who have been through the same struggles can truly understand them. That’s why we’ve made it a point to employ veteran leaders who have graduated from our Legacy Programs.A COMMUNITY FOR VETERANSCommunity is where we find comfort during difficult times. We need a sense of belonging, and that sense of belonging is what connects us to the many relationships we form. For many veterans, depression and suicide is a direct result of alienation and a lack of the social support needed to reenter civilian life. Isolated by differences and with no one to confide in, many of us are left to cope with the hardships associated with combat related trauma. Mighty Oaks is a powerful community for our warriors.RENEWED PURPOSEAs veterans, we’re proud that we served, but I think many of us feel like we’ve capped out after our service is over. We’re trained for action, never for rest, and are demoralized when our experiences can’t help others. For some of us, our whole identity is caught up in the military, but we must relearn how to take responsibility for ourselves and understand that God has a purpose for all of us beyond our service to our country. RESTORED FAITH IN GODAn important part of our Legacy Programs is teaching the gospel because without the gospel, hope cannot exist. Faith in Jesus is not blind, faith is action based on our trust in Jesus. And it begins by knowing Him. It’s one thing to believe, it’s another thing to act on that belief by trusting Him. And we believe this is where true healing begins.“’For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.’” –Jeremiah 29:11-13AFTERCARE PROGRAMAfter completion of one of our Legacy Programs, we provide continuous care through our Aftercare Program. This includes our weekly Outpost meetings, run by our Legacy Program instructors that are held at churches across the country. They are open to local veterans, active-duty servicemen and women, first responders, and Legacy Program alumni. They serve as our primary program aftercare and accountability structure. The aim of these meetings is to support and encourage each person as they continue to grow and face challenges pre and post Legacy Program.I thank you for your interest in Mighty Oaks Foundation and for taking the time to learn more about what makes our Legacy Programs so effective. I hope you feel led to support our mission of serving and...
By Tara KugelThis week a group women gathered together at Skyrose Ranch for the Mighty Oaks Women’s Legacy Program. Once everyone arrived at the ranch, it was immediately evident that friendships were blossoming. Although the elements were less than agreeable when our session began, these women were ready to weather the storm both outside and inside of their lives.From the beginning, this group of ladies showed extreme courage in their openness and willingness to put in the work in order to move forward in their lives and take on any challenges that they may have been facing when they came. As they worked through each class and session, the eagerness to glean all they could was even more evident as hearts began to change. Each morning was filled with new hope and each evening ended with a few more gleaming faces.It’s often said that men who go to battle together form bonds that create a closeness and a "brotherhood" that will last a lifetime. These women came in ready to fight for themselves and their families. There was a spiritual warfare in our midst but God gets all the praise and glory for the tremendous amount of breakthroughs and decisions made! These women may have come together as strangers, but they fought hard through some tough battles, and are now leaving with a bond of sisterhood that will allow them to rally around each other as allies to ensure a lasting and impactful legacy.God is on the move and these ladies left with a fire in their heart to let His move start with them. Another amazing session closes, but praise Jesus, "NEW THINGS" are only just beginning! To learn more about Mighty Oaks and the programs we offer please visit: mightyoaksprograms.org/veteran-programs
By, Branden Kunath 12 Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. 13 Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:12-14 I had the opportunity to attend the Men’s Legacy Programs in both California and Texas this month. The time I was able to share with those Warriors really highlighted the need for all of us to press forward through life’s challenges, to not give up, and to finish the race. Anyone familiar with military or para-military training would understand marching or running cadence. Cadence is defined as the measure of rhythmical motion, or in simple terms: keeping in step. Calling cadence trains and fosters esprit de corps, communication, and discipline. It moves large groups of individuals in a controlled, organized manner, from where they are to where they need to be. When done correctly, it can truly be an incredible sight to see. If you have ever watched the United States Marine Corps Silent Drill Team, you will know exactly what I am talking about. The precise timing of very complex moves takes hours upon hours of practice, and the slightest miscalculation can throw everyone off. Calling cadence while marching or running also encourages the members of that platoon or squad as force marches and runs can be tiresome, and everyone must press forward. There are hundreds of songs sung or yelled with each branch of service adding their service’s spin to make it apply to them specifically. I recall one cadence used while serving as a United States Marine called, “Get on Back Home.” The song's theme is that the Marine is homesick and needs reminding that he or she is now a part of something much more significant. “Ain't no sense in looking down, ain't no sense in looking back...” are a few lines from the cadence call. Those of you that are familiar with it are probably singing it in your head now. “Press forward, press the attack” are often used to get people to keep moving forward. After all, it makes sense why it's unhelpful and potentially dangerous to think about what you left behind. The Apostle Paul has something to say about that, and I am thankful that we can go to scripture to find truth and hope. Regret, or the thought of making a mistake, is an extraordinary emotional feeling. Regret can rob us of any progress made, stealing our hope. I firmly believe Satan uses regret as a primary weapon in the spiritual battle we are all in. The enemy will use our regret to grow doubt and challenge our thoughts and feelings, deceiving us. Paul writes in Philippians 3 that we can find righteousness through our faith in Jesus Christ. Warnings and encouragement are found throughout the chapter. In verses 7-11, the Apostle Paul tells us that any “gain” before coming to know Christ, Paul could count as a loss. Anything gained since surrendering to Christ is not of Paul's doing or righteousness, but only a result of faith in Jesus Christ. Paul understood that as long as he was still breathing, God had a purpose for him, and just because he knew and believed in Jesus, he wasn't done. Throughout Paul's epistles, he spoke to himself just as much as those he was writing to. We can never graduate from the Gospel and must preach the Gospel to ourselves daily, just as we are to share it with others. Reading through Philippians 3:12-14, Paul makes it clear that we do not become perfect, that there is still work to do, that he still needs to cross the finish line, and that the same applies to all those who have faith in Jesus Christ. Verbs like press, taken, and straining demonstrate action-like responses.
By Gabe DeLaRosaFrom the moment we started receiving guys on March 6, 2023 at the Bull Run Warrior Retreat in Haymarket, Virginia, the Warriors arriving had very little understanding of what it meant to be obedient. As the week unfolded with the classes they received and the breakouts they attended, some were hearing the gospel for the very first time, while others who might have heard the gospel before, but swayed off the path that God has laid out for us. Regardless, they all learned that “obedient” was misdefined in their lives. They understood obedient as a member of the military, obedient as a first responder, and obedient in basic things of man’s world. But now they heard about being obedient to God, and they had questions..The Gospel tells us many stories of what obedience to God looks like. We can also look in the book of Daniel as an example. He was persecuted by jealous satraps (governors of providence) and other high officials who did not like that Daniel was favored by King Darius and sought to purposely watch him fall. Daniel was not only obedient to God, but he was faithful as well. The satraps convinced King Darius to sign a decree and injunction that by the law of the Medes and the Persians he could not back out of once signed. As a result, Daniel would be found guilty of violating the injunction and would be sentenced to death by being thrown into the den of lions.The Bible then tells us, “Then, at break of day, the king arose and went in haste to the den of lions. As he came near to the den where Daniel was, he cried out in a tone of anguish. The king declared to Daniel, “O Daniel, servant of the living God, has your God, whom you serve continually, been able to deliver you from the lions?” Then Daniel said to the king, “O king, live forever! My God sent his angel and shut the lions’ mouths, and they have not harmed me, because I was found blameless before him; and also, before you, O king, I have done no harm”” (Daniel 6:19-).22You see, Daniel was saved from being torn apart by the lions in the den because he was obedient, and he was faithful. When the men attending the Legacy session at Bull Run Warrior Retreat heard what it meant to be obedient and understood why we need the Gospel and need to have a relationship with God through Christ Jesus, they left the week with a new commitment or recommitment. To learn more about Mighty Oaks and the programs we offer please visit: mightyoaksprograms.org/veteran-programs
By, Pete Lawrence Ephesians 4:22-24 NET “You were taught with reference to your former way of life to lay aside the old man who is being corrupted in accordance with deceitful desires, to be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and to put on the new man who has been created in God’s image—in righteousness and holiness that comes from truth.” Over the last month, I have been preparing for my first session as a Team Leader. I first attended Mighty Oaks in 2019 after finally succumbing to years of guilt, shame, and running from the man God called me to be. Shortly after transferring from a career in law enforcement to a career as a Firefighter, God called me to truly align myself with his calling and to face the trauma from my time in Iraq and a lifetime of searching for hope. Due to Covid and life, I believe I might hold an unofficial record as the longest time between my first session and completing phase training. While life and switching my career back into Law Enforcement might have slowed things down, if I am honest, I would say some of that time was due to a sense of inadequacy. At Mighty Oaks, we talk about not putting the program on a pedestal. But it can feel daunting to be around such amazing men of God. While God had strengthened me in so many ways, the enemy still had his tricks to trip me up and keep my eyes off who God called me to be. Isaiah 43:1-5 ESV “But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior. I give Egypt as your ransom, Cush and Seba in exchange for you. Because you are precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you, I give men in return for you, peoples in exchange for your life. Fear not, for I am with you; I will bring your offspring from the east, and from the west I will gather you.” The journey to become a Team Leader mirrors that of a new believer. So often we see only the end product of discipleship, forgetting the growing process that takes place along the way. We think of the disciples in an elevated light. Yet, just as Peter is the first to truly declare Jesus as the Christ (Matthew 16:16, something revealed to Peter from God) in just a few sentences we see Jesus rebuke Peter for thinking of earthly things over God’s divine plan (Matthew 16:21-23). That’s kind of like getting to the goal line and throwing an interception. “Everything that’s killing you is somewhere in the chest of every man you know”- Stu Weber, Tender Warrior All of us are children of God, and no matter who we are we struggle with the same things. The enemy is always attempting to trip us up. He has an intimate knowledge of our fears and weaknesses. It’s not that I felt unworthy of God’s love or redemption, I just felt intimidated around such amazing men of God. During my Phase Two training, it was the humility and strength of a mentor who discussed his feelings before coming that helped give me strength and was truly an answered prayer from God. His authenticity made me realize that I cannot “call myself worthy,” only God can, and he did that long before I was formed. As I was in this fight, his wisdom and the guidance of my mentor and brothers got me back on my feet after the enemy had set a simple tripwire in front of me. In the weeks leading up to this Legacy Program, I had spent so much time in prayer for those attending and for my family at home I had forgotten the simple statements from page eight in the Team Leader manual: “Beware of attacks this week – Attacks are imminent. BE ON ALERT”.
Last week was the first Women's Legacy Program of 2023. It was also the most interesting weather we have had during a Women's Program at SkyRose Ranch. We experienced heavy rain, winds, and even a beautiful blanket of snow. As the storms came, we rearrange where needed knowing God’s work would not be deterred by circumstance. Amazing ladies from all over the country walked in feeling anxious or unsure of what to expect. Each day they intentionally listened, learned, and put in the work to unload the weight they brought with them and find the way to move forward in hope. A hope that is found in relationship with God. A hope that gives us the tools to walk through life’s challenges knowing who we are in Christ. A hope that gives wisdom for moving forward in our relationships. Being in relationship with the creator brings the hope needed to walk through life well. I am excited to see the future for these ladies as they live out their purpose in relationship with God and their new relationships with their Mighty Oaks sisters.To learn how you can help our Nations' Men & Women please visit us at: http://mightyoaksprograms.org/donate/
Even though February is the shortest month of the year, we still managed to hold two Legacy Programs: a Men’s Legacy Program for First Responders and a Women’s Legacy Program, both at our California location at SkyRose Ranch in San Miguel. Despite the challenges severe winter storms had thrown at our teams facilitating the programs -- torrential rains, flooding, mud slides and even several inches of snow -- God met our Warriors right where they were, and significant life change took place.We had an opportunity to sit one-on-one with a couple of this month’s Warriors and chat about their experience at the Legacy Program. One of the men, Brandon from Houston, Texas, shared how many work and life related issues brought him to the Legacy Program: losing 20 officers from his agency over the last 20 years, alcohol abuse, and a near-fatal heart attack at age 35 to name a few. “I haven’t slept in three years without drinking myself to sleep. And this entire week, there’s a peace about me that I can’t even explain and it’s the best sleep I’ve had in years. And there’s only one explanation for it, and that’s that God’s in my heart again.”When asked what the turning point was for him, Brandon said, “I got a lot off my chest, I feel like I got a do-over, and it wouldn’t be possible without Mighty Oaks, the Team Leaders and their stories, all the guys here that are just like me. If you had asked me two weeks ago if I could sit here and even remotely talk about this situation without, you know, just crying it out, I wouldn’t have been able to do it.”“Going forward,” Brandon continued, “after the Mighty Oaks Legacy Program, I am ready to start the rest of my life and have it be the best of my life. And I know I can do that with [the staff and fellow participants’] help and God’s help. But most importantly God’s help. I am extremely grateful for these guys and the Program. If you’re struggling, like I was, and all these other guys, just fill the application out. It will change your life. This [the Bible] will change your life. These guys here will change your life.”Mighty Oaks Womens Legacy ProgramThe impact was no less significant for the Lady Warriors. Cayce, an EMT/Firefighter from Oregon, shared that her road to Mighty Oaks was rough because she had “pushed down everything for so long, that finally I just couldn’t anymore, and my life started falling apart. I felt that there was something wrong with me. I felt I was too messed up and beyond repair. Ultimately, I felt like I was broken. I asked, “Why me?” What did I do to deserve this when all I ever wanted to do was to help others?”However, through digging in and putting her all into the Program, Cayce was able to break those chains of bondage and find freedom in a renewed relationship with Christ. “This week, I re-surrendered my life to God. I have learned to grow my faith in God and to find my worth in God. God does not make a mistake. I am His masterpiece, and I am not broken.When I go home, I’m going to focus on completely surrendering to God, listen to what He’s telling me and calling on me to do. After this week, I feel more connected to God.When I go home, I am going to be intentional in all that I do. I’m going to stop the self-doubt, and I am going to remember that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. I’m going to start organizing my life better. I am going to find a church. I am going to start taking better care of my health. I believe my life will start to come back together, my husband and I will have a better relationship, and most importantly my relationship with God will grow.”And these are only two of the dozens of triumphant stories that came out of the two Programs this month! What an amazing God we serve! And what amazing and selfless donors and supporters YOU are! These transformative stories are made possible through your prayers and financial support. You make this possible. So,
By Kenneth Wolff Are you the type of person who enjoys the journey, or are you the type of person who wants to get to the destination? I was asked this recently and had to reflect for a moment on how to answer this question. During this past week at SkyRose Ranch in California, I thought about this question again as I saw the men arriving for the first session of the year for First Responders. I have always been more concerned about getting to the destination. My thoughts were to get on a plane so I can get to my destination as quickly as possible. The destination is all about what happens when you arrive. It is not about what happened before you got there and what you experienced along the way. I wanted to enjoy where I was going and why I was there as quickly as possible. The journey did not matter. As I thought about this, I thought about how many things I must have missed along the way. How many cities, restaurants, foods, attractions, people, historical sites, and experiences I missed from 30,000 feet. All because I was in a hurry and focused on just the destination. As I sat in the back of the room, I looked at the group First Responders that made their way to SkyRose Ranch. I thought about the journey that brought them here. I thought about their travel day. How early they woke up, how many airports they were in, and the number of flights they were on. I thought about how many miles they drove and the number of hours they were on the road. I thought about what these men left behind and what they experienced in life that brought them here. As the men settled, it became apparent that they had been on difficult journeys, but they were not alone. Other men had been on difficult and long journeys too. They realized we don’t have to be alone as we proceed through this journey we call Life. We have a Lord and savior that died for our sins and is there for us. He reminds us in Psalm 23:4, "Even when I walk through the darkest valley, I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me. Your rod and your staff protect and comfort me." He loves us and He promises in His Word that He is for us and not against us. He is sovereign and knows the beginning of our journey to the end of our journey. As we ask the Holy Spirit to help us draw closer to Jesus, He will direct our paths. We have to understand that we are on a journey where only God can lead us if we choose to follow Him. Once we determine in our hearts that His way is best, we can surrender our way and enjoy the journey to the destination. Learn how you can make a difference in a veterans' life by visiting https://www.mightyoaksprograms.org/about/Don't forget to follow us on Facebook!
By, Glenn Rosenbaum“If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us!” (1 John 1:8) As the team and I come closer to the end of the week during our Men’s Legacy Program in Junction Texas, I am reminded of this truth in 1 John 1:8 being so relevant in the stories of the men here with us. One word in the middle of that verse hangs in my thoughts as I consider all that I am observing and hearing this week: Deceive. If I were to define or describe the word “deceive” in my own words, I would say the word by itself means something along the lines of this: to cause someone to stray, or maybe to lead someone to stray, or possibly even better said, to lead someone off of the right path. These men this week have so many things in common but this one truth is undeniable. They have all been deceived. They all have been led off the right path. So much so, that their idea of what is right has been so distorted that for many of them they are in a deep state of confusion as to what really is the Truth.But even now as I write this, I am reminded that there is also another common theme that is going on in the lives of each of these men: personal responsibility. For these men, true personal responsibility is being uncovered and the truth of that verse in 1 John 1 is being exposed. Look closely at the words on either side of that word, deceive. “We” and “ourselves.” “We deceive ourselves.” In life, we often do the enemy’s job for them and deceive ourselves. The good news I want to share with you is that these men are not acting unruly to this revelation of this personal responsibility or denying their culpability. But rather, and for many of them for the first time, these men are accepting their personal responsibility for their actions and are making decisions to start doing what is right under the correct authority: God! These Warriors are aligning their lives to God’s standards and changing the course of their marriages, families, and legacies.
By Roy Jaquez Sunday, the staff arrived as a major storm was already moving through, yet not at its height. But then Monday came, and with it the myriad of unexpected events, at least from our perspective. Severe winds and driving rain caused flooding and structural damage all throughout the county creating logistical challenges for the staff. On the way to pick up the first scheduled flights there was intense flooding and wind, mudslides blocking parts of roads, spelling tragedy for some in the community. The planes were diverted and delayed as it was unsafe to land because of the amount of water on the runways. Most flights attempted to land again hours later while one flight with seven of our Warriors was cancelled at the airport they were diverted to and had to be loaded on a bus for a five hour trip through the storm back to San Luis Obispo. This wasn’t unlike their lives. Many of them were in the midst of the storm at home, just come out of a storm, or one was bearing down on them as they were about to enter it. This isn’t uncommon of the men who come up for programs. The first night we usually see many long faces, filled with woes and worry, anxiety piqued, and just an overall sense of longing. We’ve all been there too. The staff at Mighty Oaks knows this all too well, as we too were once those same men: burdened by trauma, choices that have hurt the ones we love the most, and in many cases a life lived without direction or true purpose. Tuesday began the first day of the Program, and as the testimonies and stories of the staff were told, and the hope we have that is found in Christ Jesus was shared with them, you could see a sense of calm coming over the men. Wednesday came and as the clouds began have breaks of light shining in, we too saw the same of them as they received a new perspective on what it means to leave a Legacy worth leaving. Then Thursday. Thursday the men got the opportunity to unburden themselves of that which kept them heavy laden with woe, and as the storm broke Thursday, so too these men saw the light that exposes, the Light in which our hopes can be placed.Many men this past week put a stake in the sand, dedicated or rededicated themselves to fight according to how God teaches us to fight, and one even was baptized in testament to the new man he is now in Christ. But as Friday started and going into Saturday, the storm clouds began rolling in again. As much as California needs the rain, so too God brought that life giving rain to the Warriors’ weary souls, ready to go back into whatever storm the left, resolved to fight anew. Ready, with God’s strength, to fight the right way against the enemy who seeks to kill, steal, and destroy. Armed with new tools, these men now know that so long as their foundations are found on the Rock, as Matthew 7:24-25 says, "even when the storms of life come their way, winds blowing with rain and flooding, their house will continue to stand." If you’re in that storm now, see it brewing on the horizon, or know someone who is, tell them about Mighty Oaks Warrior Programs, and let men who have weathered the storms of life, have been shown how to walk, and who to trust through the storm, come alongside them to show them The Way. To show them that we serve a God who controls even the wind and sea (Mark 4:41), a sovereign and merciful Father who loves His people (Romans 5:8; 1 John 4:16), and one who says come so that they don’t have to fight alone ever again, because He will give them true and lasting rest (Matthew 11:28).
By, Jason GeisThe middle of December brought a group of men who didn’t know one another but had all gotten off azimuth with their walk in Jesus or had never been on that path in the first place. Serving as a Team Leader, I have seen many times through this journey, the very beginning of the week is quiet and faces are dreary, and these hurting men are looking for help with their inner pain and fears and anxiety. Almost all of that would change in a mere 4 days.Nahum 1:13 “For now I will break off his yoke from you, And burst your bonds apart.”We all have aches and pains from our service – physical that is – like our backs, knees, hips, shoulders, or you name it. We all wake up sore and in pain from our service to this Nation, but most all of us volunteered to serve. There are many ways to alleviate the pain, whether it be surgery, adjustments, physical therapy, or even injections and medication. What are we looking for? To get well, to feel better and heal.Psalm 25:18 “Look on my affliction and my pain, And forgive all my sins.”Just the same with the final Men’s Legacy program of 2022. We asked the men: “Do you want to get well?” The reply was 100% yes! That takes courage and trust, and these Warriors were up to the challenge. The Holy Spirit was well at work as always at Sky Rose Ranch.John 5:6 “When Jesus saw him lying there, and knew that he already had been in that condition a long time, He said to him, “Do you want to be made well?””Through the Word of the Father, these men put down their masks and dug in and did the hard work to find the root causes of their trauma, and with the guidance of the Great Healer – God, miracles happened and heavy weights were lifted off these men during this special week we call Men’s Legacy.2 Corinthians 5:17 “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”As we are on our individual walks in Christ, sometimes we get just a bit off azimuth and over time, this error (sin) in our lives can take us way far away from Jesus. With the help of other Christian Men in our lives and the tools learned at the Legacy Program, we can be held accountable and overcome obstacles that the enemy places in our paths.Proverbs 3:6 “In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.”There were numerous recommitments to Christ that week and five baptisms that I personally witnessed. When we align ourselves with Christ, we walk the straight path, then together we can serve God, our families, and then everything else in our lives after those priorities. This class left Sky Rose in alignment with God. Praise Jesus!Matthew 6:33 “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”
The statistic "22 A Day" is linked to the Veteran suicide epidemic in our country. Unfortunately, that number may be higher than 22 a day.
The premise is that we shouldn't be "fans" of Jesus, sitting in the stands or standing on the sidelines cheering Him and others on in the epic battle for the souls of the world. We ought to be engaged in spiritual combat right alongside our savior.
After 20 years in the war on terror in Iraq and Afghanistan, more than half of the 2 million Veterans struggle with physical and mental health problems stemming from their service. According to the Department of Veteran Affairs, every day in America, over twenty veterans commit suicide. The V.A. Hotline receives an average of 400 calls per day. 2018 marked the highest military active duty suicide rate in 10 years.
If we really want to be honest with ourselves, sometimes we choose to sin, not because we are enticed against our wills, but because we desire its forbidden fruit. We mean to say at times, “I’m a good man. I don’t do anything wrong; look at all my good deeds.”
We wanted to take some time to introduce our newest member to our Board of Directors, Korey Scott. Our board is an amazing group of individuals who have answered God's call to help guide Mighty Oaks to His vision. We're blessed to add Korey's experience and wisdom as a part of Mighty Oaks.
Posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSd) is a normal reaction to a situation that no human being should have to endure.
Men’s Legacy Program at The Wilds in Ohio had the sound of Chains dropping on the floor echoing throughout the week as the men that attended came to terms with the sin in their lives that was holding them in bondage.
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Awareness Month is intended to raise public awareness about issues related to PTSd, reduce the stigma associated with PTSd, and help ensure that those suffering from the invisible wounds of war receive proper treatment.
The Truth About PTSD, Part 1 (How To View PTSD Awareness)
“Greater understanding and awareness of PTSD will help Veterans and others recognize symptoms, and seek and obtain needed care.” – Dr. Paula P. Schnurr, Executive Director of the National Center for PTSD
Post-traumatic Stress can occur following a life-threatening event like military combat, natural disasters, terrorist incidents, serious accidents, or violent personal assaults like rape. … People who suffer from PTSD often suffer from nightmares, flashbacks, difficulty sleeping, and feeling emotionally numb.
Members of the military exposed to war/combat and other groups at high risk for trauma exposure are at risk for developing PTSD. Among veterans returning from the current wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, PTSD and mild to moderate traumatic brain injury (TBI) are often linked and their symptoms may overlap.
The physical changes that take place in the body and brain following trauma are beginning to be understood, but most treatments for these changes are still experimental. Generally, PTSD is treated as a mental or emotional disorder with medication and psychotherapy. The goal of this treatment is to make it possible for the sufferer to “get by.” One of the interesting and complicated difficulties of PTSD is that no one treatment works for everyone.
Each person, it seems, is a clean slate that doctors and therapists will throw various treatments at until something sticks. This can be one of the most frustrating aspects of PTSD for both the sufferer and those who care for them. While the science of this is still evolving, one thing we do know is that PTSD is very common.
This month is PTSD Awareness month. For the duration of June, we want to educate our audience every week on how to view, listen, and take steps to understand PTSD in its entirety.
Follow the hashtag #PTSDAwarenessMonth to join the conversation on Twitter, Instagram, or Facebook.
Is it “Happy Memorial Day” or do we need to tip-toe around celebrating? Am I supposed to be happy or sad? I know it can be confusing, right?
“What Kind of Tree am I Planting?” By, JJ Howell
For a tree that is being planted, the most important part of the tree is the root. If the roots are bad, we will have no HOPE of the tree bearing any fruit, but if the roots are good, then we can have HOPE the tree will bear fruit.
The session started on May 19, 2022... and we were able to see men come to California at Sky Rose Ranch with the looks on their faces of anger, confusion, depression, loneliness, and unanswered questions -- leaving them hopeless. We never know what these guys are dealing with when they arrive, but we do know they are hopeless. The goal each week is to restore hope for the warriors and their families.
This task, we know, is no easy one because, like every session, these men have years of trauma either done to them or trauma they have done to others. Their stories can be sad and difficult to listen to, which makes it even harder to help them see HOPE. You see, years of trauma are difficult to heal in 5 days, but as a staff, although it’s difficult, we have HOPE, not in our ability to heal them, but the God ‘s ability to use us to walk with them and lead them to the HOPE in Him (Christ Jesus).
It is now Thursday, Day 4, not even 24 hours after the Legacy class was given, and we have seen the looks on their faces change from anger to joy, confusion to clarity, depression to peace, loneliness to brotherhood, questions turned to answers, and most importantly hopelessness turned to hope.
You might be asking, “How are we seeing hope in such a short time?” It goes back to my initial point with the tree. All we are doing is listening to every story these men tell us from the day they walk onto Sky Rose Ranch to now and help them get to the root of the problem. We show them their hope stopped at some point in their life and help them find out when that was. Experience has shown that they often have one major incident of trauma that leads the train for the rest of their lives of hopelessness, so when we find that one major incident, we work on providing healing for them with God’s word. When they receive the healing from God in that one incident, the rest of their life follows suit.
These men today have dug up the roots to the tree of HOPELESSNESS that was bearing no fruit and have planted new roots to the tree of HOPE that will bear much fruit thanks to God’s love and grace.
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Follow us on Social Media! | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | The Mighty Oaks Foundation is committed to serving the brokenhearted by providing intensive peer-based discipleship through a series of programs, outpost meetings, and speaking events. Our Mighty Oaks Warrior Programs hosts such Men, Women, and Marriage Advance Programs at multiple locations nationwide. The Warriors who attend are fully sponsored for training, meals, and lodging needs to ensure that upon arrival to the ranch, each Warrior is focused solely on his or her recovery and identifying purpose moving forward. We understand that applying to do anything is nerve-racking. We also get that feeling. Every one of our leaders has gone through the exact program you are contemplating applying for. The leaders will be the first to tell you to take that step, don’t procrastinate.
Apply Here (If there is any chance you may be battling with PTSD, please click here to be taken to our application page. We are here for you.)
Taking An Educated Risk By, Mighty Oaks
The word “risk” can conjure negative emotions from previous life experiences. Maybe the word risk reminds you of a time that you took a risk and it paid dividends. Risk has both positive and negative consequences. Regardless of your unique circumstances involving risk-taking, the word “risk” could give you the idea of something going wrong. That can cause you to retreat, stay safe, and avoid a potentially hazardous outcome.
Taking risks might seem foolish for where you are in your life. A steady job, a healthy family, and getting all the things you want and need is all good and important. But what about your past that you haven’t worked through healthily? What if there was a proven program that could help you work through your Military trauma with other men/women who are fighting the same battles you are? The program has some risk involved, sure, but more important than the risk, let’s mention the safety the program offers.
The Program is Completely Free of Charge
We know that one of the major risks involved with getting help outside of being vulnerable is the financial risk that often comes along with programs and treatments that may not even help in the long run. At Mighty Oaks we’re proud to say that all of our Warriors are privately sponsored through the generosity of a grateful nation. This means that we cover all costs associated with our Programs, including travel to and from our various ranch locations across the country.
Peer-to-Peer Leadership
We believe that only individuals who have graduated from a Legacy Program should be able to lead a Legacy Program. It serves as the catalyst to help Warriors discover the answers to the big questions in life. Utilizing our peer leadership, participants find common ground through shared experiences and understanding allowing a greater potential for growth and recovery within the Program Participants.
Five-Day Commitment
We partner with several ranches across the country to provide a safe space to our Warriors. The participants are served the highest quality of meals by a personal chef while being in some of the most beautiful places the United States has to offer.
Non-Clinical & Confidential
Our Programs are non-clinical, confidential, and boast an open environment that fosters camaraderie and fellowship.
The Legacy Programs have been set up to take almost all the risk out of your post-trauma battle.
We want to give you all the information you need as easily as possible. If you are curious for yourself or a loved one, click here to be taken to our “about” page, where everything you need to know is placed. Utilize the information and research what you need to know. Mighty Oaks is here to serve you and fight alongside you.
Live the life you were created to live and don’t let your past define your legacy. Fill out an application or reach out to info@mightyoaksprograms.org with any questions you may have about our programs.
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Follow us on Social Media! | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | The Mighty Oaks Foundation is committed to serving the brokenhearted by providing intensive peer-based discipleship through a series of programs, outpost meetings, and speaking events. Our Mighty Oaks Warrior Programs hosts such Men, Women, and Marriage Advance Programs at multiple locations nationwide. The Warriors who attend are fully sponsored for training, meals, and lodging needs to ensure that upon arrival to the ranch, each Warrior is focused solely on his or her recovery and identifying purpose moving forward. We understand that applying to do anything is nerve-racking. We also get that feeling. Every one of our leaders has gone through the exact program you are contemplating applying for. The leaders will be the first to tell you to take that step, don’t procrastinate.
Apply Here
As the ladies arrived at the WLP in San Miguel last week, you could see smiles on their faces; but the sadness in their eyes and their body language told a different story.
April 10th started out very early. I woke up at 3 am in San Antonio, Texas, which began with prayer and a ride to the airport. My mind was excited and preparing for what was to be encountered.
If you’ve been keen to increase your daily exercise for a while now, but you never seem to have the energy to hit the gym, you’re in the right place. It’s difficult to find the motivation for a regular workout when you’re constantly fighting against fatigue.
Filling a Void | By, Justin Reinwand
This week at the Blaylock’s Ranch in Junction, Texas, the Men’s Legacy Program kicked off with some men that were broken, wounded in their spirits, lost in their ways, and searching for something to fill a void in their lives. These men have struggled with things from their childhood, addictions, loss of friends, and all the way to current issues in their lives. Their rucksacks of life were full and getting too heavy to bear. Our leaders have had the opportunity to pour out the gospel message and share hope and restoration with these men. The leaders have the opportunity to show these men what it is like to lay their burdens down at the feet of Jesus, to be able to show them that they are not alone and that what beats in their hearts also beats in the hearts of other men. To be able to show these men by leading them through the Bible what it is like to be a leader in the home, to love their wives like Christ loves the church, to love their children. These men came in without any idea of what it means to leave a legacy, or what positive impact they can have on the next generation. They learned to get rid of the victim mentality and learned to overcome the past, live in the present, and have hope in the future. To show them how important it is to be in the world, to be in prayer, to be in fellowship (church), and to have men in their lives that can hold them accountable.
These men leave the week with new looks on their faces because they know that they are leaving here with a flight plan, and they are ready to be authentic men of God. These men came in broken and have been left with restoration. They came here searching for something and have found Christ, and came here hopeless and found Hope in Jesus Christ.
Carrying the Weight | By, Travis Gitthens
They came to the beautiful Sky Rose Ranch in San Miguel, California, on March 14, 2022, from all over our great nation. Military, firefighters, EMS, and police. Their ages range from the mid-twenties to mid 60’s. From as far away as Hawaii, or as near as just down the road. They are husbands, fathers, sons, and brothers. They are men that have sacrificed their innocence with the hope that we can retain ours.
And it has taken its toll.
They told themselves in the beginning that they won’t let it change them, they wouldn’t bring it home with them, they could handle it. So, they marched forward, bearing the burden of the traumas, the fear, and the pain, stuffing it into the “pack” they carry in their hearts. Then that pack started to get heavy; they began to get tired. Everyone else seemed to be handling their own packs just fine - so these men soldier-on. All searched for ways to cope with the burden: a bottle, isolation, substances, anything to take their mind off the weight.
Then the pack started to overflow. Things from their packs fell out and into their wives’ packs, their children’s packs, the burdens weighing down those they care about.
These men that started out with the intention of standing between the evil of this world and the ones they care about wake up to find they are causing pain and destruction in the lives of those same people.
What they are doing isn’t working. They are overwhelmed. They need help. They need hope.
So, they came to the beautiful Sky Rose Ranch in San Miguel, California. Some on the recommendation of close friends that have been through the program. Others are handed a plane ticket by their wives with no idea what they are getting into. It’s hard to explain what happens during a program. Everyone is challenged, tested, encouraged, and poured into by men who have sat in the same seats they are sitting in and have experienced the hope and restoration that God longs to give all men. Broken lives enter, strong men leave. They came with no hope, they leave with purpose. Spinning compasses are recalibrated by Biblical truths and the Holy Spirit to True North. A valley of dry bones is transformed into an army of purpose.
These men left on March 19, 2022, and returned to this great nation, having had a radical encounter with the One who sacrificed His innocence on their behalf, and the One who is strong enough to bear their burdens. The impact on their families and communities will be immediate and eternal.
“Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens. Our God is a God who saves; from the Sovereign LORD comes escape from death.” Psalm 68:19-20
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In an effort to support the Five Pillars Of Military Wellness (Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, Social, and Family), we are creating this new e-mail digest focused on providing tools that our Warriors and their families, and even those in civilian life, can use to improve their health, mental state, and overall wellness. We want to provide exceptional value to those who are subscribed to receive information from Mighty Oaks, and over the coming months and years, we hope that these articles become a valuable resource to your life and the life of your families. Feel free to share this digest with anyone who you think might benefit from it. Thank you for your continued support and God bless.
Browsing in your book store or online for a book to help you get through the battle you are enduring currently is overwhelming. It is like this often for many people who are wanting to improve their life. This is why we have compiled a shortlist of books that Men’s Health recommends. When the person finds the right book at the right time, it is something to behold.
The Body Keeps Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
“Trauma comes in all forms, from near-death experiences to unexpected loss. In this book, author Dr. Bessel van der Kolk examines recent scientific findings and uses human stories to demonstrate how trauma impacts both the mind and the body.”
Find it on Amazon
This Is Depression: A Comprehensive, Compassionate Guide for Anyone Who Wants to Understand Depression
“In this book, psychiatrist Dr. Diane McIntosh examines common causes of depression, the diagnosis and treatment process, and several real-life examples of depression to help readers understand what they or a loved one may be facing.”
Find it on Amazon
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Made Simple: 10 Strategies For Managing Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Panic, And Worry
“In this book, Seth J. Gillihan, Ph.D. examines the concept of mindfulness by providing a guide of 10 strategies for improving mental health. These tools include things like identifying negative thoughts and symptoms of anxiety of depression through manageable steps to effectively deal with them.”
Find it on Amazon
These three books have been selected to benefit our Nation’s Warriors and their battles with PTS. Give one of these a try, after all, what better time to start than now?
“Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.” - Charles W. Elliot
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Common Ground, By Gabe Delarosa
So many men from all over the country with so many different problems share two very true similarities.
Whether they served in one of our branches of service in the military or one of many first responder professions, one thing that is clear is the commitment such men make to serve. They are not much different from the men we read in the bible.
A good example of what that looks like is when Paul wrote to a young pastor named Timothy, encouraging him to exhibit staying power and telling him to “endure hardship with us like a good soldier of Christ Jesus” – 2 Timothy 2:3. Paul wrote to this young man at the time to be encouraged and to remain steady in his focus, his purpose, and commitment – just as one would expect from a soldier.
What is the appeal of enduring hardship? Enduring hardship means to suffer together with someone. Military men today are taught to stand firm and to always stand together, to work as a collective team, to always watch each other’s backs.
The connection of a military man or a first responder and a follower of Jesus Christ has an appeal to commitment, obedience and purpose. Such men are trained to follow orders with one single mind, to obey and to serve a higher purpose then themselves for any selfish gain. The New Testament message is one and the same. As a Christian follower one seeks to live the way God intended us to live with biblical values of grace, peace and righteousness. The Christ follower is called to obey and to follow the teaching of Jesus with the same kind of single-minded focus with which military men or first responders have been trained.
Earlier this month, the men that attended the Legacy program in Haymarket, Virginia, first showed up thinking they were the only ones that had been dealing with the issues that got them there. They soon realized that was not the case, and the bond they once had when they served was once again with them. But now they had the single-minded focus to want to obey and follow Jesus and to strengthen that relationship they once had, or perhaps never had, with God.
To recap the two similarities these men came to the session with even if they didn’t know it: first, that they were not alone in their struggles and second, the answer to all of those who suffer is having a relationship with their creator and the teachings of Jesus Christ.
“When Faith replaces doubt, when selfless service eliminates selfish striving, the power of God brings to pass His purposes.”
-Thomas S. Monson
Sleep is a physiological necessity, and lacking sleep can correlate to a varied array of negative physical, mental, and behavioral outcomes
February is always an interesting month because you can see how many people are still sticking to their New Years' resolutions. When you come up with the idea of what you want your resolutions to be, it usually stems from something that you as an individual are unhappy with. There is something that is happening that you would like to change, the outcome needs to be different.
Walk a Mile in Their Shoes | By, Jamie Warner
Have you ever had the opportunity to serve others? Whether it’s interacting with someone down on their luck, or preparing a meal, or helping a friend or coworker move? Service comes in a variety of shapes and sizes. And though it can be tough, it feels good knowing you helped someone and expected nothing in return. Oftentimes we come away from serving someone a feel more blessed for the experience. Many people make a career out of serving others; that’s why we have the term “Service Industry”. It feels good to know you selflessly served someone in their time of need. Educators teach so others will have better opportunities in life. Nurses care for the sick because they are compassionate. Service careers are noble and needed.
In fact, many, if not most, men and women who become First Responders do so out of a desire to serve their community. It’s a chance to give back. They put on a uniform and do a difficult job because they want to make a difference. And that describes the men who attended the First Responder Legacy Program for Men this month. They have a desire to serve and protect and make their communities and their world a safer place for everyone. But that level of service comes at a price.
Much like our military veterans and active duty, the career these men chose comes with exposure to trauma. And unfortunately, lots of it. One Mighty Oaks Team Leader described the trauma seen in First Responder communities as a “slow drip”. It isn’t difficult to understand the analogy: a constant dripping in a bucket is not only bothersome but unchecked over time the drips accumulate and multiply and sit in that container until finally the waters spill out over the rim and onto the floor and now you have a bigger problem on your hands. It’s the same for our First Responders. Traumas are a natural byproduct of the job: monthly, weekly, and daily traumas. They respond to one call, deal with the situation and any trauma seen or felt, and it gets stuffed down into their “Go-bag” because another call comes in and someone else needs help or needs to be dealt with. And so, the dripping continues.
The men who attended the Legacy Program earlier this month were given the opportunity to recognize and begin to deal with the slow drip of their chosen careers. They were presented with Truth and given tools to use in life. They were shown how you can maintain hope and joy in the midst of struggles.
The Legacy Program provides the opportunity and environment where all of life’s issues can be properly framed through the lens of the Bible and God’s intended design for our lives. Because when we align our lives to that intended design and operate within that framework, we have tools to see joy and live with purpose and see hope in all situations. Isn’t that what we are all craving in our lives? And it’s never too late to make a change.
Most of us will never have the opportunity to walk a mile in the shoes of a First Responder to better understand the dedication and sacrifice those jobs require, but we can still appreciate them. In fact, I encourage you to thank them. The next time your path crosses that of a police officer, firefighter, or EMS worker stop them and say, “thank you”. You never know, but that tiny act of encouragement may be just what they needed that day to press forward in the fight.
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January marks the start of the new year. The time of new beginnings, new diets, new goals, new gym memberships, and new resolutions.
Here we are, midway through December and in the final days of 2021. The year began amidst unrest, controversy, division, and discontentment, causing many to wonder if it marked the beginning of The End. So, while many voices in the country were complaining about the sky falling and the nation dividing, those who believe in God, those who follow Jesus Christ, those who rest on the promises of God’s Holy Word, those were the people who continued to press forward into the fight.
With numerous administrations' efforts to defeat the staggering 31.6 Veterans-A-Day who commit suicide, that number remains unaffected. Previous efforts had concentrated on a multitude of things, while the new plan places a focus on firearm safety and broadening mental health options. Mighty Oaks knows that the true path to veteran suicide prevention lies in resiliency, the power of testimony, and brotherhood.
Hero. A label that is thrown around current American culture with so much reckless abandon that we threaten diluting the term to the point of obsolescence. After all, what makes one a hero? Well, according to dictionary.com, a hero is a person noted for courageous acts or nobility of character.
Veterans Day | By, Chad Robichaux Today, as we all enjoy the much-needed day off from work, I encourage you to reflect on what this day truly means. Now, I don’t mean to sit back and just be thankful for the veterans who have served, both past and present. I mean to truly dig deep and connect with the true meaning of Veterans Day. Most people confuse Veterans Day with Memorial Day, which is the day in which we pay homage to those who have paid the ultimate sacrifice. However, those who paid the ultimate sacrifice, those who paid for your freedoms with their blood, are veterans as well. The significance and meaning of which has been lost on a lot of people. Being a veteran myself and running a veterans service organization, my unique experiences have shed light on the true meaning of Veterans Day.
To me, Veterans Day is a very special holiday that allows us all to hit the pause button to reflect on the freedoms that we have. Instead of taking those freedoms for granted, appreciate and celebrate them by paying respect to every man and woman that has dawned a service uniform since the birth of our great nation. Those brave patriots have willingly fought, bled, and often died to preserve our freedoms. That’s what Veterans Day should be about! So, fire up your grills and enjoy the freedoms paid for by those willing to do violence on your behalf! That’s the entire point of freedom, so don’t let it pass you by.
Many of our heroes paid for our freedoms in blood as they sacrificed their lives. The ultimate hero is Jesus Christ. As Jesus died for our sins, our military heroes have died for our freedoms. So today, let’s be joyous as we celebrate our freedoms. While you’re celebrating, don’t forget to take a moment to thank a Veteran for their service. This small gesture has great meaning to our warriors and shows them that they are indeed not fighting alone. Happy Veterans Day, Warriors! (If there is any chance you may be battling with PTSD, please click here to be taken to our application page. We are here for you.)
Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by Brandon Bettis, a recent graduate of Mighty Oaks Programs to talk about his journey of how an atheist found Jesus at Mighty Oaks and much more.
In mid-October, men from all over the country drove up the hilltop into the oasis we have come to know as SkyRose Ranch in California. The men were all looking for something they had lost. They looked to find what had eluded them; some form of hope or even joy which they had not felt in a long time, if ever.
Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by his son, Ethan Stalnecker, to discuss the new generation of law enforcement and more.
Two years ago I was blessed to attend @mightyoaksfndn. For years I ran away from struggles with PTS (Post Traumatic Stress) and trauma. I shoved them deep down and refused to acknowledge the demons that kept me awake at night. My walk in faith was at best lukewarm. I refused to truly give my heart to Christ.
In this yearly tradition, we take a look back at our 11th Annual Warrior Gala in this episode of the Mighty Oaks Show. Hear from our Founder, Chad Robichaux and our Keynote Speaker of the evening, Steve Green.
By, Jeremy Stalnecker
Maybe it’s COVID, maybe it’s the result of the last Presidential election, maybe it’s a generally apathetic attitude towards the Bible and Christianity, maybe it’s an increase in spiritual warfare, or maybe just the fact that I am becoming a cranky old man and paying closer attention to the world around me: whatever the cause, I am becoming increasingly tired of watching people fail.
If that sounds condescending or unnecessarily judgmental, it is not intended to be either. Nor is it a statement made without understanding for the challenges that we all face. Saying that I am becoming increasingly tired of watching people fail is just a statement of fact.
Over the last year or so I have been heartbroken, as I know many others have, watching:
Marriages fall apart as one or more person in the relationship decided to pursue people or interests outside of their covenant relationship
Churches struggle because their pastors have acted in ways that disqualified them (Biblically) from ministry
Ministry leaders leave the ministry because of sorrow or hurt or depression that would not allow them to continue
Death of friends and family in numbers that I have not experienced in my lifetime from illness of every kind
General apathy and hopelessness that may not take a life or end a relationship but stops any forward movement
What adds to the sorrow of watching these events play out on a seemingly daily basis is that most of them are preventable! Most of the time when spiritual, relational or physical failures happen, they could have been prevented if the right steps had been taken BEFORE the need to take them was obvious. And this is the problem.
People fail when they don’t train (prepare) for the battles they will inevitably face.
Living life as though there will never be a spiritual, relational, or physical challenge is at best naïve and always dangerous! We need to use the times of peace and balance in our lives to get ready for the difficulty that is an unfortunate part of the fallen human condition.
To that end I would like to provide a few considerations for those who are as tired of all of this as I am.
- We must define failure.
“Failure” is one of those words that can be easily misunderstood because it means something different to each of us. When I talk about failure, at least as I am using it here, I’m not talking about falling short of a goal or desired outcome. This is not about losing a game, missing a sales goal, getting laid off at work, or being unable to get someone to like you. So how do I define failure?
Failure-Experiencing consequences spiritually, mentally, or physically that are the result of an unprepared life.
We only fail when we don’t live our lives in a way that will allow us to fully be all that God created us to be. While there are very few things in this life that we can control, we should consistently be training the resources that God has given each of us (our spiritual life, mind and bodies) so that when the uncontrollable circumstances of life do arise we are as prepared as possible. The outcome of those circumstances may be largely out of our control, but our preparation for them is not.
- You only have one life
This is one of those that that should not have to be said, but I think it is good to be reminded from time to time. We only have one life. This is it. There are no second chances. There will be ups and downs of course, but we only get to walk this road once. Reflect on this truth daily and then shape your priorities accordingly.
- You are here for a reason
I spent quite a bit of time writing about this in my book, “Leadership by Design“, so I won’t spend a much time breaking that out here. I do believe that the challenge for many is the belief, spoken or only thought, that we don’t really have a purpose. This leads to a life of survival or pursuing pleasure (what makes us feel good) instead of working to develop...
Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by Emile Moured to discuss his transition out of the military and the importance of finding your identity in Christ and not in your work or things of this world.
Reminiscent to a bus load of new recruits arriving at a reception station for basic military training, on Monday evening, on the 27th of October 2021, 19 men arrived and filed into the main lodge at Skyrose ranch. As they entered through the door enroute to their seats, one could almost immediately sense by the way they walked these men needed help.
A lot has happened this year, and a lot has happened within our organization. Jeremy Stalnecker highlights 5 things you may have missed this year in this episode of The Mighty Oaks Show.
Jeremy Stalnecker and Pastor Steve Chappell sit down and have a conversation about Offensive Faith. What that means to them and why they decided to write a book on it. Don't miss this episode of the Mighty Oaks Show.
There has been a lot of coverage of what's taking place in Afghanistan. Chad Robichaux, was overseas in the Middle East helping evacuate over 12,000 souls from Afghanistan. Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by Chad and Sarah Verardo from The Independence Fund to discuss the Save Our Allies Coalition and more. Do not miss this episode.
The men that passed through the gates of the First Responders Legacy Program at the Sky Rose Ranch arrived with heavy hearts. They were quiet, broken and scarred from many battles with foes internally and externally.
On this episode of The Mighty Oaks Show we turn our attention to veterans who have served in Afghanistan and how to process the emotions that may arise as we watch the events of the past few weeks unfold. Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by Matt Statler, Veteran, Pastor and Mighty Oaks Mentor, to discuss this topic and more.
Veterans care and veteran policy is a topic that both sides of the political spectrum come to the same conclusion on, but is that conclusion what's best for our veterans? Lt. Col Daniel Gade PhD joins Jeremy Stalnecker on this episode of The Mighty Oaks Show to discuss his book Wounding Warriors: How Bad Policy Is Making Veterans Sicker and Poorer and more.
Just about every man and woman that has attended a Mighty Oaks Legacy Program has received a “love letter” like the one above from the enemy of our souls. And last week’s Warriors at SkyRose Ranch in California are no different.
John Davis joins Jeremy Stalnecker to share his experience as a Police Officer and why our First Responder Programs are so successful and more importantly why they are so needed.
In this episode of the Mighty Oaks Show, Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by Dr. David Holmes to discuss the importance of physical wellbeing. We talk a lot about spiritual, mental and emotional wellbeing but in this episode we dive into how physical wellbeing can benefit you in all areas of life.
This past month, the Women’s Legacy Program was able to be held at SkyRose Ranch in San Miguel, CA, for the first time in over a year due to COVID shut-downs. And what a great week it was!
Susanne and Jeremy Stalnecker sit down to give an update on the Women's Program here at Mighty Oaks and go in depth about the program.
Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by author and counselor, Mark E. Shaw to discuss all things addiction and more.
Chad Robichaux and Jeremy Stalnecker are joined by Eric Stoffers, CEO and Founder of BioXcellerator to get a better perspective on stem cells and they can be utilized to treat PTSd in veterans and so much more.
Chad and Jeremy sit down this week to talk about their experience with organizational leadership and discuss things you can do to be a better leader in your own community. Check out this episode of the Mighty Oaks Show to learn more!
Chad Robichaux and Jeremy Stalnecker are back to answer questions we get about Mighty Oaks Foundation. This time they're answering questions we received during a Q & A session at the Premiere of our Never Fight Alone.
By, Jamie Warner
Although it had been a year and a half since we last held a Legacy Program at SkyRose Ranch in San Miguel, California, the sights, sounds, and smells were as familiar as if it had only been a few weeks: rolling hills studded with majestic oaks and valleys green with crops and pastures populated with cattle; birds chirping busily and the breeze filtering through the trees; the mouth-watering fragrance of tri-tip on Kenny’s grill juxtaposed with the warm, dry, dusty hills.
The routes taken by the twelve Warriors to arrive at Legacy Program were varied and often complex. Each man’s path unique to his history and story, yet their goals were essentially the same: find answers. Find peace. Find hope and regain purpose.
So many men that attend Legacy Program have reached the point of exhaustion. They have fought and struggled for so long they wonder if they can do it any longer. And as the Program unfolds before them, Truth upon Truth, they begin to realize they no longer need to fight alone. In fact, they should not fight alone. Rather, when they align their lives to the life God purposed for them, He will give them the strength and the will to carry on. And not just carry on, but to run the race with a new endurance and confidence for those who trust in the Lord will find new strength.
The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of all the earth.
He never grows weak or weary. No one can measure the depths of his understanding.
29 He gives power to the weak and strength to the powerless.
30 Even youths will become weak and tired, and young men will fall in exhaustion.
31But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint. (Isaiah 40:28-31) It is such a privilege for us at Mighty Oaks to be a part of God’s plan for their lives and watch them move from beaten to victorious, aimless to purposeful, death to life. And we couldn’t do it without the support of a grateful nation. So on behalf of our Warriors and their families, we say a heartfelt “Thank you” to you all, and may God bless you all for care and support.
Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by Bill Coate and Jamie Warner at our SkyRose Ranch location in California to discuss the importance of a solid foundation of faith in this episode of the Mighty Oaks Show.
This article is written by Doug Bender, to read the full blog go to I am Second's website here: https://blog.iamsecond.com/what-to-know-if-you-or-someone-you-love-is-battling-ptsd
June is National PTSD Awareness month and in order to dive deeper into this topic we invited Dr. Curtis Solomon, Air Force veteran and the Executive Director of the Biblical Counseling Coalition, on for this episode of the Mighty Oaks Show.
By, Jamie Warner
Snow dappled mountains and rushing rivers coursing through vast plains greeted the twelve Warriors that made the trek to Wise River, Montana, for the latest Men’s Legacy Program. The team sensed it was going to be a big week for this group as reports of the men going through new trials and challenges kept coming in.
We at Mighty Oaks recognize these kinds of trials and challenges as a form of spiritual warfare. After all the Bible tells us in Ephesians 6: 12 that “…we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.” There are dark forces at work, always trying to prevent people from submitting their lives to Christ. For those who are already in Christ, the attacks are aimed at discrediting and destroying their walk with Christ in an attempt to prevent them from influencing others for the Kingdom of God. We see these attacks begin before every session, and they are usually a sign that God is going to do something big. And we expect these attacks against our Warriors and our staff because 1 Peter 5:8 says, “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.”
During the Legacy Programs, we emphasize the four key elements to remaining successful in their walk with the Lord: Be in the Word; Be in prayer; Be in fellowship; and Be in community. Like the four legs of a table, if one leg is missing, it’s only a matter of time before the imbalance causes the table to fall.
And guess what? God did some amazing work at the Freedom Ranch for Heroes this week. Life-changing decisions were made that will move these men towards freedom, redemption, and restoration; and their loved ones will feel the positive effects of those decisions. The devil is a liar and a thief bent on our destruction. Therefore, we must never give up the fight. And we are never alone in the fight, and the fight is worth it because Jesus tells us in John 10:10 that “The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” Choose life. Stay in the fight.
Written By Dan Andros Managing Editor at FaithWire
Photo: Israel Palacio via Unsplash
September 29, 2020 Despite starting the year off on the right track, military officials are reporting that during the coronavirus pandemic suicides among military personnel have spiked 20%, an alarming indication that isolation and social distancing is possibly having a disastrous effect on our armed forces. Suicides were down in the first three months of 2020, but then the globe was hit with a pandemic. The threat of coronavirus ultimately launched restrictions on human interaction — precisely the kind of interaction individuals at high risk of self-harm so desperately need. Faithwire Managing Editor and host of Faith vs. Culture on CBN News Dan Andros spoke with Jeremy Stalnecker, a veteran and Executive Director of the Mighty Oaks Foundation and discussed the troubling rise and what people can do to help stop it.
WATCH: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KLM7P45Iqhk
https://www.faithwire.com/2020/09/29/military-suicides-spike-during-covid-19-its-isolation-that-will-absolutely-kill/
Written by Jeremy Stalnecker
Photo by Ian Schneider on Unsplash
Have you ever felt like you are doing all that you can to make a difference in the world and yet no one cares?
You do not believe that you will change the whole world, but you do want to positively impact your corner of it. You unselfishly give your time and any resources available to include others in your cause only to be met with apathy and indifference.
You are left to step back and wonder how something that stirs up such passion in you can fall flat with those that should care the most.
I was recently talking with a friend who is experiencing this. He is doing all that he can to garner support for an amazing and important cause while being ignored by those that have the most to offer. As we were talking, I began to think about my own experience.
So often, I feel like I am pouring all that I have into communicating a message that could change lives if only that message were received. So often, it seems like I am more interested in the solutions to the problems in the lives of others than they are themselves.
If you have ever tried to communicate an important message or promote an important cause, you know this feeling. And it makes you want to quit. If what you are doing is so important, though, you can’t quit.
So what do you do when you feel like no one cares? 1. Take some time to reflect on why you got involved in this cause. Did you get involved for recognition and admiration or because you could not imagine walking away without doing something. If the answer is the former, you need to quit If it is the latter, then you cannot quit. 2. Instead of focusing on those that don’t care, focus on those that do. Generally, the problem is not that no one cares but that they don’t care in the numbers or as enthusiastically as we would like. Don’t invest your time, energy and resources trying to move the unmovable. Instead, find those that will get involved or be helped and invest in them. They are depending on you to know the difference. 3. Work to understand those that you feel don’t care. Often, people are dealing with so much in their own lives that your cause is just one more thing that they don’t have the energy or time to deal with. We live in a world full of overwhelmed people. Instead of feeling angry and personally rejected by their lack of concern, see if there is some burden they are carrying that you can help with. 4. Find encouragement from those that do “get it.” So often, we feel alone as we champion our cause and become discouraged at the thought of continuing on by ourselves. Find others who are involved in the same cause or one similar and share the success as well as the defeats with those that can relate. Try to be encouraging as you receive encouragement, and you may just find the boost you need. 5. Honestly evaluate the way that you communicate your passion to others. This one is difficult and may require a trusted friend or mentor in order to be helpful. When we are in the middle of something that moves us to action, it is easy to forget that others may not be moved in the same way. Perhaps a perceived lack of concern is nothing more than a lack of understanding. Evaluate the WAY that you communicate and the WHAT may be more readily received.
These are just five simple thoughts, and I am sure there are many more. What would you tell someone who feels like their message is just not being received?
https://churchleaders.com/pastors/pastor-articles/173686-jeremy-stalnecker-passionate-not-what-next.html
Written by Jeremy Stalnecker
If you live in a community with active duty military families but have never been a part of the military yourself it can be difficult to know how to support them. You may want to meet their unique needs but don’t know where to begin. The military family makes unique sacrifices to defend the freedoms that we all enjoy and a little bit of effort to encourage and support them goes further than you may ever know.
So what can you do?
Here are ten ways, among many, to show your support to military families:
- Pray for them.
Pray for God’s provision and safety and that he, the God of all comfort, will minister to them. As you pray for military families God will not only meet their needs, but will reveal in a special way other things that you can do to be a blessing to them.
- Don’t forget them.
Even when the whole family is together and the service member is not currently deployed, military families are often far away from extended family. This makes holidays and birthdays and other “special” days difficult. Go out of your way to include them in meals and other events that they may otherwise spend with parents, grandparents, and siblings. This becomes even more important if the service member is deployed.
- Be kind to the kids.
Mom and Dad are dealing with the unique stress of getting ready for a deployment, experiencing a deployment, or recovering from a deployment. While most marriages will deal with short times of separation, the military couple will spend months at a time separated. It is easy in the midst of all of this for the kids to get lost. Go out of your way to spend time with them. Remember their birthdays and include them in family activities. Encouraging the kids encourages the whole family!
- Don’t try to empathize.
Unless you have experienced deployments and extended periods of separation don’t try to empathize. A spouse traveling for an extended business trip is not the same as a spouse traveling to a combat zone for as many as eighteen months. Your story is your story but don’t try to make it the equivalent of someone else’s story. Be there, listen, and encourage but don’t empathize. This tends to discourage and make the military family member feel more isolated than they already are.
- Encourage them.
Write notes, send texts and spend time together. You do not have to do something big, just be encouraging. Let them know that you have not forgotten them, appreciate their service, and care.
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Offer child care. During a deployment the spouse who is still at home is, for all practical purposes, a single parent. Watching the kids, even for a few hours, can give them the time and space they need to get things done or just relax for a little while. When a spouse comes home from a deployment, giving the couple some time away from the kids to re-engage can be very helpful. Make yourself available to take care of the kids.
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Do jobs around the house.
When a spouse is deployed, things around the house still need to be done. Things break and need maintenance. If you have the ability to do odd jobs or meet specific needs around the house make yourself available. This may keep relatively small things from becoming overwhelming.
- Don’t treat them differently.
Even though they do have unique needs, the military family does not want to be isolated because of their service. Often, military families spend all of their time with other military families because others have a hard time relating to them. Recognize the unique nature of what they do but include them as you would anyone else.
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Do things regularly for them to let them know you care.
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Include them quickly.
Military families are typically only in the same place for a few years. By the time they start to make friends and build relationships it is time to move. Include them quickly into groups and gatherings so that they can build relationships wit...
Written by Jeremy Stalnecker
U.S. Army soldiers salute during the playing of the Star Spangled Banner during a homecoming ceremony in the Natcher Physical Fitness Center on Fort Knox, Ky., on Feb. 27, 2014. (Luke Sharrett/Getty Images)
Over the past several days, much has been said about the United States’ role in the world. With the elimination of a terrorist responsible for murder throughout the Middle East, many have even declared that we’re on the precipice of World War III.
And, clearly, if another World War is on the horizon, then so is the draft.
Further adding to the hysteria, network news channels have run stories detailing the high cost this global crisis will have on the men and women already serving. As is typical in the world of 24-hour news, the emphasis has been placed on the potential “victims” of this action by the White House, instead of on the probability that countless lives have been saved.
I have opinions on all of this, as I’m sure most people do, but it isn’t my intention here to discuss the rightness or wrongness of what has happened over the past few weeks in Iraq.
What I would like to address is something that happens every time there’s a military action anywhere in the world: The men and women of the U.S. military are painted as the unwilling victims of a government that failed to tell them that fighting bad guys may be part of the job.
The U.S. military is the greatest fighting force on Earth because it’s made up of men and women who spend their lives working to defeat the enemies of freedom.
While I’m fully aware that they’re affected by bad policy in a unique way, to believe that those in uniform struggle with why they’re serving and what that service means simply isn’t true. They’re not victims: They’re warriors who willingly live their lives for others.
So, why do they do it? Why do the best and brightest in this country decide to serve in the military? Perhaps my own story will help.
I was serving as a Marine infantry officer when the Twin Towers fell on Sept. 11, 2001. Although it seems like this would be a scary time for those who would respond to the attack on our country, the reality is that we couldn’t wait for the opportunity to deal with those responsible for killing our countrymen.
Eighteen months later, on March 19, 2003, I crossed the berm with about 30,000 of my best friends as we began securing strategic objectives in Iraq. We would move north for the next several weeks, eventually securing the Presidential Palace in northern Baghdad.
There are many things in my life for which I’m proud, but none more than the opportunity to serve in combat alongside the best Americans I’ve ever known. While I may hold personal feelings and opinions about the wars in which we have been engaged, it’s not the politics of the action that cause me to be thankful.
To serve in the military of the United States is to stand with fellow Americans who value the principles and ideals of freedom and hope more than they do their own lives—those with the character and integrity necessary to sacrifice one’s own hopes, dreams, and future for the people who either can’t or won’t serve.
This character is what ties those who do serve together with an invisible, yet unbreakable, bond. I understand firsthand what it means to fight alongside those who, far away from the country that they represent, are both ready and willing to lay their lives down for the people to the left and right of them.
I know what it’s like to await an order that will come at the darkest part of the night to engage in an action that will almost certainly result in death, and then to look, while waiting, into the faces of those who will carry out this order and see not fear or dread, but a courage and certainty that whatever awaits in the darkness will be defeated.
Pride in service isn’t about politics or conflict or some kind of sadistic love for war; it’s pride to have been ready, willing,
Written by Jeremy Stalnecker
Thousands of gun rights advocates attend a rally organized by The Virginia Citizens Defense League on Capitol Square near the state capital building in Richmond, Va., on Jan. 20, 2020. (Chip Somodevilla/Getty Images)
This week each year we as a nation stop to celebrate the birth of the 20th-century civil rights icon, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Dr. King was a man who understood that in the United States equality, and more importantly freedom, was not reserved for a particular group of people who just happened to have the right color skin. He understood that when the Declaration of Independence spoke of “unalienable Rights” given by our Creator, that those rights could not justly be taken away by human government.
Everyone, regardless of age, race, gender, or background, were created equal and should be allowed to live with the rights of “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” The civil rights marches and later legislation were nothing more than the natural extension of a freedom that had been declared on July 4, 1776.
This year Martin Luther King Day was unusual in that it was used to bring attention to another right outlined by our founding fathers. In downtown Richmond, Virginia, tens of thousands of Second Amendment supporters gathered to peacefully protest the passage of anti-gun legislation being considered by the Virginia state legislature.
This protest, known officially as “Lobby Day,” brought together men and women of every race and background, many of whom were lawfully carrying firearms, to declare once again that “the right of the people to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed.” Time will tell the impact that the day had on Virginia’s politicians, but it clearly demonstrated that the right to own a firearm for the purpose of self-defense is a human right that transcends the artificial lines of race and gender.
This was a day when Americans came together to say, “No one has the right to remove our ability to defend the unalienable rights outlined in the Declaration of Independence.”
So why is it important that we view these events together? We as Americans must understand that what separates our nation from so many others is that our government does not exist to keep its citizens in line. The government of the United States exists to protect the right of its citizens to pursue those rights which can never be taken away!
Dr. King understood this and led tens of thousands of marginalized Americans to find their voice and pressure the government to begin truly treating all as equal. He, and of course many others, knew that the role of government was to clear the way so that everyone had the same opportunity to succeed.
Civil rights is not about equality of outcomes for all people but rather equality of opportunity for all who live in this nation. It is about a level playing field that favors no one person over another.
This is why the Second Amendment of the Constitution is so important. The right to keep and bear arms was an acknowledgment by our founders that there would come a day when the government forgets why it exists.
This safeguard was put in place so that when the nation’s leaders wanted to remove the rights that make us unique, there would be an armed citizenry that could stand up and say, “No”! This was a way to ensure that generations of Americans would be able to enjoy Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness without undue government interference.
The Second Amendment, in a way that few things can, keeps politicians honest and citizens free.
While the individual histories behind the fight for civil rights and the fight to preserve the Second Amendment are not the same, they are each a necessary part of American history. The government of the United States should never remove the rights of its citizens in ways that violate our Constitution. Dr. King and the thousands he led worked to make that truth become a reality and it is...
Written by Jeremy Stalnecker
Photo by Pavan Trikutam on Unsplash
Author and former Presidential speechwriter James Humes once said that, “The art of communication is the language of leadership.” It took me a few minutes the first time that I read this statement to understand the truth in the confusing, albeit clever, wordplay. A leader is someone who MUST understand how to communicate or they will be unable, in spite of any other talents they possess, to lead! If one does not have the ability to convey the “what”, “why” and “how” to others, they also lack the ability to get people to do what needs to be done! This doesn’t mean that a leader needs to be a great speaker. It does, however, mean that they need to have mastered a method of communication that enables them to effectively distribute the information needed by those that they lead.
The same is true for those that may not have the word “leader” in their job title. Whether we are dealing with relationships, raising children, succeeding at work or any other important life pursuit, “the art of communication“, as Humes called it, is a language in which we must be fluent. A great personality, work ethic, and motivation are all important qualities, but unless those qualities are coupled with the ability to convey the “what”, “why”, and “how” to others, we will always struggle. This doesn’t mean that we all need to become great speakers, only that we need to master a method of communication that enables us to effectively distribute the information needed by the other people in our lives.
Technique, the communication method, will be different from one person to the next. Method may even change depending on the situation. There are principles, however, that apply regardless of the method. Find YOUR technique, but use these principles to guide its use and communicate effectively.
6 Principles of Effective Communication
- Speak the Truth in Love
Ephesians 4:5 tells us that we need to “speak the truth in love.” When we think about communicating effectively, we need to start right here. Two principles are given in this one very simple phrase.
Speak the Truth
The goal of effective communication must be truth or it is not communication as much as it is manipulation. Before we ever start talking, or writing, or doing anything else that conveys information to others, we need to make sure that WHAT we are communicating, at least to the best of our ability to understand, is true. Far to many people use the tools of communication to manipulate the thinking or actions of others instead of communicating what is true. Without truth there will not be trust and without trust you will lose the ability to get people to listen to what you want to say. Effective communication is built on a foundation of truth.
Do it in Love
This second part, LOVE, makes the first part, TRUTH, able to be received (receivable? palatable? acceptable? choosing the right word can be hard but you know what I mean!). Love, as I have written before, is premised on doing what is best for the object of your love. This means that you do what you do, when it is out of love, so that the person you are doing it for will be helped. And when we speak truth from a heart of love, that truth will be free of harsh language, unnecessary accusation or manipulation. Love is what keeps truth from becoming a weapon against the person receiving it and makes that truth helpful and constructive.
- Take time to understand the truth
This may be clear, but in case you were wondering, before you can SPEAK the truth you need to KNOW the truth! We are so quick to communicate what we believe to be true without taking the necessary time to investigate what it actually true.
A couple of thoughts on this point:
Emotions are rarely helpful when determining truth. Take the necessary time to “calm down” (a phrase that rarely helps people to calm down) before communicating something that you will lat...
Jeremy is joined by Jeannette Kunath and Susanne Stalnecker who share their perspective as military spouses. From their own personal journey to advice for families who are struggling.
Luke & Ann Dodd share their experience as a military family with Jeremy Stalnecker along with their experience going through Mighty Oaks Warrior Programs and much more.
Written by Amanda Hamilton
We’ve all been there…. Driving down the road on an otherwise uneventful errand, we notice that something just isn’t ‘right’. Our car is not handling properly. It becomes a little more of a challenge to keep it going straight. We tighten our grip on the steering wheel and force the steering wheel straight. It’s not that much effort at first, but as the weeks and months go on and we continue to handle the problem on our own, it becomes harder for us to control the vehicle. Sometimes our rides become less smooth as we even notice a vibration in the steering wheel when we are traveling at high speeds. And it’s harder on the vehicle too, as suspension is strained, fuel mileage is taxed and tires become unevenly worn. What we have been doing hasn’t really worked out that well – the problem is still there – so we decide to do something different. We finally take it to the expert, the mechanic, and discover we need a wheel alignment.
Sometimes, our lives become misaligned too. We forget who we are and why we were created. We use the wrong standards to measure ourselves and, as for navigation, we assume we can figure it out as we go.
From April 6th through the 10th, 19 women attended the Women’s Legacy Program at The Wilds in Ohio. When they arrived, they shared feelings of cautious eagerness, confusion, hopelessness and mistrust. They were showing the signs of years of misalignment. In some cases, they were aligned with warped standards, poor decisions or false hope. Over the course of four days, the Mighty Oaks Women’s leadership team shared truths with them - truths about who they are, why they were created and the fact that God has a plan and purpose for each and every one of them. Aligning themselves with God and his purpose for each of them would not fix their problems; God does not promise deliverance from our difficulties. What He promises is that in the midst of them, He will be with us. By aligning ourselves with God’s truths and holding fast to them, we can find the strength to endure and persevere.
The quiet seclusion of the Cabins at Straker Lake at The Wilds provided a welcome respite for these truths to sink in and find a foothold. God guided these women to Mighty Oaks and provided a beautiful location for them to learn about these truths. Activities like walking, fishing and boating provided time for lessons to be absorbed. Sharing meals, playing board games or just talking allowed the women to reach out and connect with others in an authentic way that had become foreign to them. True friendships were forged that will be a blessing in the years to come, as the ladies know they now have battle buddies in the trenches with them, like-minded sisters who they can reach out to when times get tough.
As Saturday approached and the ladies looked forward to returning home and implementing what they had learned, they were reminded that the situation at home would be the same one they left. Life has no shortage of obstacles; they were reminded of the potholes, the road hazards and the fender benders that they would encounter that could shake their alignment off course. As in a vehicle, our alignment needs to be on point so that our faith does not falter. Wheels are where the rubber meets the road. In our walk with God, it is where we put feet to our faith. This is where the work really happens, where the progress is made. When we are aligned properly with God, we can stay the course. We cannot fix our lives or our problems, but when we are aligned with God, we are able to weather the storms while God restores.
Jeremy Stalnecker and Chad Robichaux sit down with a list of frequently asked questions they both get about Mighty Oaks Foundation and specifically Mighty Oaks Warrior Programs.
By Jeff Stovall, Junto Tribe Pastor
Photo by bantersnaps on Unsplash. Have you ever been to summer camp? I’ve attended as both a youth and a leader, but one of my greatest privileges as a youth minister was being put in charge of games. It brings a smile to my face recalling all of the fun, competition, and pure silliness that was involved. I designed the games, created the rules, and assigned teams points according to the place they came in. First place, for example, got 10 points, second place got 8 points, and so on. I did this for several years until I came upon a wise youth minister who said, “Don’t be stingy with points! The more points you hand out the more excitement it creates, and besides, points don’t cost you anything, but the youth sure love to get them!” From then on, I handed out points like candy; first place got 10,000 points, second place 8,000… and the kids went out of their minds with excitement. Even the team that came in last place was still earning thousands of points!! We’ll come back to that thought in a moment. Have you ever had someone speak into your life? That’s a rhetorical question… of course, we all have. An unexpected, encouraging word can be so timely and infuse such amazing hope into our day, while a cruelly spoken word can be so cutting, zapping our very strength. At some point or another, we have all been on the giving and receiving ends of both cruel and encouraging words. The third chapter in the book of James tells us that our tongues are small but mighty; like a rudder that steers a great ship or a spark that can set a great forest aflame. Proverbs 16:24 says, “Kind words are like honey-sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.” We live in a world where people thirst to hear a kind word, but all too often they receive just the opposite. Within each of us lies the ability to quench that thirst… to genuinely speak words of life and peace into a person… to inject hope into hopelessness. And just like handing out points to excited youth, our words cost us nothing, but they benefit the one who receives and also the one who generously gives. I have to say that I truly enjoy interacting with people… and if I’m being completely forthright, some people are much easier to speak with than others. I look for opportunities to speak with people on a deeper level all the time – at the grocery store, at work, or while traveling. I start by asking simple questions like, “How’s your day going?” or “What do you think about the weather?” I look for hints that might tell me their likes or dislikes, or accents that might let me know where they’re from. I love it when I press the right button and they start to open up to me… to let me into their world just a bit. It’s not long after that an opportunity to speak an encouraging or kind word arises. I believe it’s on this basis that relationships are born and friendships have their beginning. As a Christian, I find this to be a very effective form of evangelism. I can’t tell you how many wonderful faith encounters have come from simply starting a conversation… by showing interest in another human being and speaking words of kindness into their lives. There’s no need to stand on a corner and thump your Bible. When they hear the genuineness in your words and feel the sincerity in your heart, they will often ask you about your faith. It is moments like these that we should live for as Christians; to be ready to speak the Gospel of Jesus Christ into the lives of the lost. When we do so, it is like gushing springs of water into dry and weary bones. We can’t just sit back and hope that opportunities to minister to the needs of people will appear; we must actively seek them out. As ambassadors of Christ, it is our duty to represent our Lord. As salt and light, it is our privilege to make an eternal difference in the world in which we live. Will you ask God to daily provide conversations that give you the opportunity to speak life and peace into o...
Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by Tom & Jen Satterly from the All Secure Foundation to share their journey, struggles with PTSd and how All Secure Foundation came to be.
Written by Keith Pace, Vice President of Junto Tribe
Photo by Suzanne D. Williams on Unsplash A few years back my family and I visited a butterfly garden, and this helped me understand a powerful truth found in God’s Word. I was standing in front of a glass case filled with cocoons, and this was called the transformation station. From caterpillars to butterflies this glorious transformation takes place. What if we started to believe that this is possible for us? What if we started to believe that if we are in Christ that we really are new creations? What if we started to believe that we are sons and daughters of the Creator of the universe, in right relationship with our Father, fully loved, fully alive, fully forgiven, empowered to live a life for His glory? Religion has taught us that we are still those dirty rotten worms and that is all we will ever be. The truth is He has made all things new. Like the caterpillar being transformed into the butterfly, He has transformed us and is transforming us. In his Word, He tells us that we will be transformed by the renewing of our minds. If we look at the original meaning of that word transformed, we will see that it means metamorphosis. The exact same word used to describe the process of caterpillars being changed into butterflies. You may be thinking, “this sounds great, but this is not my experience.” You have probably been taught that you are just a sinner and you continually stay in God’s dog house because you don’t measure up. You have tried to change but found it to be impossible. True transformation begins with a proper understanding of our identity. The truth is after we have received Jesus as Lord and Savior, our identity changes. We are no longer separated from our heavenly Father but rather reconciled to the Father. Jesus took on all our sin and we are declared righteous. This means we are right with God. We are now sons and daughters. He gives us a new heart that has His law written on it. He gives us the mind of Christ. He says that we are now partakers of the divine nature. He says that we are now dead to sin and alive to God. He says that our old man was crucified and buried with Christ and we were resurrected in Christ as new creations. This is our starting point! We are now the temple of the Holy Spirit and the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead fills us. Jesus is in us. We are not separated! Once we have a proper belief about our identity, we start to see transformation from the inside out. We can go to the gym several times a week and look at ourselves in the mirror and not see any change, but we can trust the process. With a healthy diet coupled with the habit of exercise, we will see physical transformation over time. The Holy Spirit is our personal trainer and He is training us to be image-bearers of Jesus in culture. I recently discovered, after months of symptoms, that dairy does not agree with me. I eliminated it out of my diet and felt like a new person. In the same way, the Holy Spirit will change our diets so that we are getting built up in the ways of the Kingdom. A sinful lifestyle is not compatible with a man of God. We approach His Word not as a box to check but to encounter Jesus and learn the ways of the Kingdom. His Word will encourage, convict, and challenge us. We now have access to a superpower called Grace. Grace is His power in us to become who He sees when He looks at us. We need to surround ourselves with other believers on this same journey of transformation. I personally do this weekly with a group of men in an old rustic shed. He is the potter and we are the clay and He is shaping and molding us into His image. Instead of trying to be patient, we can be transformed into the kind of person that is patient. Instead of trying not to be an angry person, we can be transformed into the kind of person that is a peacemaker. It was said of Michelangelo as He stood before the block of marble that he saw t...
Written by Jeremy Stalnecker
Photo by Dylan McLeod on Unsplash
Today is the day referred to as “Good Friday” -a day that we celebrate the death of Christ on the cross. This celebration is not only because He, our Savior, died in our place (a significant act but one that could have ended in the grave), but because just a few days after this death the glorious resurrection would demonstrate once and for all that the crucified Christ is indeed God! So much has been written and said about this day and as we move through the weekend we will all have the opportunity to internalize its truths for ourselves. I am so thankful for the salvation provided for me and “Whosoever will” (John 3:16)!
I am afraid, however, that we can make this weekend a time of religious celebration without understanding the practical impact that events celebrated should have on our everyday lives. We know that we can rejoice in the eternal salvation and forgiveness of sins paid for on that Cross, but I believe that, apart from this most important aspect of Good Friday and Easter, we need to allow the example provided by Christ as He gave himself for us to impact the way that we live every day of our lives. I believe this is especially true for those that seek to lead others by taking them to places that they would not be able to go without the right kind of leadership.
Much is said today on the topic of “Servant” or “Spiritual” leadership and we work to find a definition that guides our leadership journey. This is difficult because we understand that leaders are responsible for outcomes but need to achieve these outcomes by serving those for whom we are responsible. I have personally spent many hours trying to understand this type of leadership but often fall short of fully grasping the extent to which I should go while leading others by serving them.
This is why I believe we need to see the sacrificial death of Christ on the cross not as simply paying the price for sin (although that is the most important aspect of His death), but as a Leadership example that we can follow if we truly want to be “Servant Leaders”. Jesus is God and could have made salvation possible in anyway that he wanted to. He decided to do this by dying a very public death on the cross. He did this to provide an example for us to follow (Ephesians 5:25). Do you want to lead like Jesus? Here are things to consider as illustrated in His death on the cross:
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Philippians 2 helps us to understand that Jesus, who is God, never stopped being God. He is the ultimate leader of the universe and never stopped being that leader.
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As the leader, He humbled himself and died on the cross. He was not FORCED to die on the cross. He decided to. He didn’t do this for Himself, He did this for us-A a humanity desperately in need of a Savior.
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Servant leadership is not using those that you lead to get what you want. Servant leadership, as illustrated by Christ, is doing what is necessary to get those that you lead to the place that they desperately need to be.
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Sometimes those that you lead will not appreciate what you are doing for them. Ironically, the very people Jesus came to save were the ones who crucified Him.
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Leadership is hard but the results, if done well, can be eternal!
So much more could be said here of course, but I encourage you to ask the question as you remember the great sacrifice of Christ on the cross, “How can I reflect His sacrifice for me as I serve others?” How amazing it is to have a Savior who was willing to give His life so that we may live. Let us give our life for others!
An earlier version of this post appeared here.
https://jeremystalnecker.com/2021/04/02/lead-like-jesus-lessons-on-leadership-from-good-friday/
This week on the Mighty Oaks Show, Jeremy Stalnecker is joined by USMC Major General (Ret.) Fred Padilla to discuss their first hand experience during the invasion of Iraq and how important Leadership and Mentorship can be in life.
This episode of the Mighty Oaks Show is a little different than our typical episode, but still an important one. Jeremy Stalnecker highlights the 18th Anniversary of the Iraq Invasion and shares his 1st person perspective of this historic event.
Written by Jeremey Stalnecker
Much has been written on the importance of a team for success in life and business. Military schools emphasize the strength that comes from the unit and the potential for failure that exists when the unit falls apart. As I trained to be a Marine infantry leader for over a year, I was taught how to lead a team and my platoon as a part of a larger team. Everyone understood their place as well as the need to work together toward a common mission. What I learned during combat operations in Iraq, though, is that simply having a team is not enough.
Having the right team is essential to any victory, but winning is about more than just having the right people in the right place. It is about the relationships among team members that go beyond a skill set or proficiency. It is a relationship built over time that allows you to look into the eyes of those on your team and know what they’re thinking. It’s about understanding when to push and when to pull back because you know how heavy the load can become before the team will begin to fall apart. Winning is not simply about the team; it’s about relationships. A team can win when everything goes according to plan. And when the plan needs to change because the situation has changed, you need more than a team. You need a group of people who understand each other and care for each other and are willing to adjust even though it may be difficult. You need relationships.
YOU CAN’T WIN ALONE.
It’s impossible to win alone, whether in life or in combat. But many try. We go through life and complain about the trials and the battles and how much we have to carry when in reality, we were never designed to fight these battles alone. We live in a society that loves superheroes and the idea that one person with a special power or an inhuman drive can save the world alone. But that’s not how real life works. And even though we know that real life is not like what we see on the big screen, we let shame or guilt or pride keep us from letting others help us move forward into the life we were created to live.
When I think about the success we had in Iraq, I cannot think about it without thinking of the thousands of people involved in bringing it all together, from those at the highest levels of leadership to the seventeen- and eighteen-year-old service members who had finished high school only months earlier. Success in combat is the result of thousands of pieces all coming together at the right place and the right time. It’s about the relationships between different branches of service (and countries of service, in many cases), different experiences and backgrounds built on a common goal with common objectives.
Relationships that bring different people together for a unified purpose are the key to overcoming incredible difficulty and finding success.
YOU DON’T JUST NEED PEOPLE; YOU NEED THE RIGHT PEOPLE.
Looking back at the team I had the privilege of being a part of while serving in Iraq both humbles and awes me. The chain of command went way above me, but our division commander was the current Secretary of Defense James Mattis and our regimental commander was the current Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff General Joe Dunford! It is incredible to me to even think about that. Our battalion leadership were men of equally incredible character and skill as military leaders and unbelievable mentors. I had then, and still have today, a respect for each one of these men that I’ve had for very few others. And then my own team. I had the privilege of leading the Counter-Mechanized Platoon for two years, which included our time in Iraq. The largest platoon in the battalion (we had 72 Marines and went up to 84 with attachments in Iraq), we were largely independent, which gave us the opportunity to train closely and get to know each other in a way that made communication with very few words possible. This closeness of relationship taught us to understand ...