A ground breaking, jaw dropping, look at the modern male and the warfare he faces in dating and relationships after a bad breakup or divorce. How the Modern man is being taught all the wrong things about being in his masculine. This knocks the wall down on all the BS and political correctness on how a man is suppose to act. It shows him how to take his balls back, be brash and fearless, break barriers, how to grow a spine, be indifferent and Channel their inner Braveheart for their women.
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What is your mission? Being a man on a mission means to consistently work towards being the best version of yourself.
In this solo episode, I talk about what it means to be a man on a mission. If you’re sick and tired of being where you are, you have to take charge and make the change. Thinking about the person you want to be is the first step and then you have to commit to taking action towards that. This journey doesn’t happen overnight, but when you start to see results you will be inspired to continue on your mission.
Throughout this episode, I talk about the different ways that I have found helped me to continue to develop and grow into the best version of myself. I provide actionable steps that you can take in order to discover who you want to be and how to get there.
Tune in to Episode 21 to find your mission and start working towards it!
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How have you turned around the tough situations in your life?
In this episode, I am joined by author and life coach, D. Grant Smith. After going through his own challenging divorce, D was inspired to help other men that are going through tough breakups and life challenges to turn the pain into power. D’s story is an inspiration to anyone who has been at rock bottom and knows they need to make a change.
Throughout this episode, D talks about the events in his life that inspired him to transition out of his career in radio and into life coaching. After growing up with extremely low self-esteem, D realized his insecurities were impacting his life and his relationships. This caused D to begin his self-love journey and write his book, Be Solid.
Tune in to Episode 20 to learn about D’s difficult divorce, what he did to build confidence, and how his book Be Solid can help you!
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How have you taken the lessons you’ve learned to grow further into your next chapter of life?
In this episode, I am joined by a former Army lieutenant kernel, Beau Hendricks. After spending time in the Navy and the Army, Beau dedicated his time to personal development to discover what he wanted in his next chapter of life. This impactful self-development resulted in Beau starting his own 12-month coaching program, The Warrior Leading Program.
Throughout this episode, Beau tells his incredible stories from his time serving in the military and how he transitioned out of the military into building his coaching program. Beau also dives into his advice for men who are struggling with dating, self-development, and the overwhelming stress of hustle culture.
Tune in to Episode 19 to be inspired by Beau’s stories from both his time serving in the Army and his coaching career after!
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What are the lies that you’ve been told about dating?
In this episode, I dive into what I’ve learned while reading the book, The Dating Playbook for Men by Andrew Ferebee. This book will provide you with the knowledge and strategies to become the best man you can be in order to attract the women of your dreams.
Throughout this episode, I go through the chapter of The Dating Playbook for Men that is on the lies men are told about dating. We are all told from a young age to ‘be the nice guy’ or ‘women are attracted to men with money’, and this episode will explain why those aren’t exactly true.
Tune in to Episode 18 to learn about the lies that we are told about dating, how to change your action to set yourself up for success, and more!
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What have been the turning points in your own life?
In this episode, I am joined by Jamie Hyde, a former policeman turned businessman. Jamie has overcome multiple setbacks throughout his life both personally and professionally and his story is a great reminder that everything works out the way it’s supposed to.
During Jamie’s time as a policeman, his first marriage fell apart and he couldn’t ignore the problems in both his personal and professional life. Jamie has had multiple life transitions in his career and within his relationships that have led him to therapy and healing the issues from his childhood. Today, Jamie is proof that if you continue to strive to be a better version of yourself you will find success.
Tune in to Episode 17 to learn about Jamie’s fallout of his first marriage, the work he put into improving his second marriage, his multiple career transitions, and more!
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Do you know anyone who has served in the armed forces? Have they struggled transitioning into the workforce afterwards?
In this episode, I am joined by veteran Marine, car dealer, and transformational coach, Deric Keller. Deric tells his vulnerable story about how PTSD impacted him and how his mission is to help other veterans transition better than he did after their time serving.
After serving in the Marines, Deric struggled transitioning into the workforce with his PTSD. He ended up finding success in the car dealership industry, working his way up from car salesman to having his own store. Despite this success, Deric was still struggling with PTSD and he was inspired to launch his own transformational coaching and consulting business to help other veterans transition into the workforce. Deric’s business, Battlefield Boardroom, helps not only veterans but all men to liberate themselves and create their legacy after their time spent serving.
Tune in to Episode 16 to learn about Deric’s experience with PTSD, what his advice is for other men, and how his program can help all people, not only veterans.
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Do you find yourself being pulled towards nature? Some people seek out big cities and others have a connection to nature that they can’t ignore.
In this episode, I am joined by massage mentor & bodywork business success coach, Dan Desmond - and today, you're going to hear all about his transformative experiences that led to his career path.
Dan helps motivated massage therapists, bodyworkers & healers build a thriving, highly profitable, and abundant healing career. Stemming from a highly successful six-figure massage practice of 19 years with over 20,000 hands-on hours as a self-employed, full-time deep tissue licensed massage therapist, combined with an assortment of business, health & personal coaching certificates, he offers a roadmap for ambitions healers to succeed long term in the field of holistic bodywork.
Tune in to Episode 15 to learn about Dan’s journey to becoming a massage therapist, and what he has learned from his relationships with the women in his life. Enjoy!
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What transformational moments have occurred in your life?
In this episode, I am joined by Keith Weedman, a transformational coach that teaches people how to be servants from the heart. After multiple breakthroughs, Keith learned how to tap into himself and now shares his wisdom with others. In this episode, the “Wisdom Warrior” talks about how he changed his life and initiated the change in the welfare system by using simple kindness and understanding in dealing with employees and customers in his dealings with less fortunate people.
Tune in to Episode 14 to learn the moments in Keith’s life that completely transformed his life, how he has applied his teachings in his personal and professional life, and how he has impacted the lives of others.
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Have you ever wanted to get your ex back? Whether they broke up with you or you broke up with them, if you’re looking to get your ex back in your life, this episode is for you.
In this episode, I talk about different hacks and ways to get your ex back in your life. I have had my own experiences with heartbreak that made me miss my exes and I learned many tips and tricks from Corey Wayne who was a huge influence during the time of my breakups - and his hacks and ways of getting an ex’s attention are pieces of wisdom all men should have.
Tune in to Episode 13 to learn how to get your ex’s attention after you break up and bring them back into your life.
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“What you did to get her, is what you have to do to keep her.” This great quote from Corey Wayne stands the test of time and is the secret to maintaining excitement in a relationship.
In this episode, I talk about my takeaways from the book I have recently read, How to Live the James Bond Lifestyle. This book provided me many great insights into relationships and the keys to keeping women happy in a relationship. Many men forget that they still have to put in work in a relationship after they’ve got the woman, leaving their partner unsatisfied and frustrated. Continuing to go on dates is necessary to keep the relationship healthy, successful, and fun.
Tune in to Episode 12 to learn different ways you can keep your relationship exciting, the ticket technique, and some great stories that will teach you how to level up your dating game.
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What has knocked you down in life? If you’re currently feeling down, this is the episode that will remind you to keep working hard and things will always get better.
In this episode, I am joined by Rob Icard, a man who has been knocked down many times but has always come out on top. Through unplanned pregnancy, addiction, bankruptcy, and more, Rob has never lost his motivation to keep pursuing his goals and bettering himself. This episode is an inspiring reminder to never, ever, ever, count yourself out just because you’re down.
Tune in to Episode 11 to hear about Rob’s challenging background, how he worked his way up through his career, his journey to sobriety, and much more.
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What are the limitations that you have set for yourself? Recognizing your limiting beliefs is the first step to take action towards your dreams - once you break them down, you can begin attracting the opportunities and the people that you want in your life.
In this episode, I am joined by mindset coach and entrepreneur, Juan Carlos “JC” Zermeno. JC talks about coming from a Hispanic background, living in a low-income area, and pursuing his dream of being successful. From wanting to be a professional soccer player to owning his own business, JC’s story is an inspiring reminder to listen to your intuition.
Tune in to Episode 10 to learn about JC’s background, how he attracted his wife into his life, his career transition, why mindset is important, and more.
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What do women look for in a man? So many men are focusing on the wrong things when pursuing a woman, and it really all starts within yourself.
In this episode, I talk about the importance of being unapologetically yourself in order to attract a woman who is interested in you, for truly who you are. When you are confident, excited, and successful in your passions, that will radiate in every interaction you have with women. Throughout this episode, I talk about ways you can tell a woman is interested in you and action steps to becoming the best you.
Tune in to Episode 9 to learn how to become the best you to then find the woman that accepts you for everything you are.
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“The core of a man’s heart is undomesticated and that is good.” These wise words from John Muir still stand true today.
In this episode, I talk about the fierceness that is ingrained in our hearts. As men, we are driven to fight and battle, and even in the modern world that fierceness doesn’t leave our DNA. I talk about the book I am currently reading, Wild at Heart. This book has reminded me that as men we need to connect with nature and adventure to find out who we truly are because some questions just can’t be answered at the kitchen table.
Tune in to Episode 8 to learn what the book Wild at Heart has taught me, how the modern world tries to tame our masculinity, and how the core of masculinity is shown in childhood.
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Have you had to turn your life around in order to get it on the right track? We all experience hardships and struggles that impact our motivation to take control of our happiness. Whether you’re currently in a dark place or thriving as the best version of yourself, don’t forget to be fearlessly happy.
In this episode, I am joined by Max Nijst, author of the book Fearless Happyness. Max’s story is inspiring no matter what your personal life journey has been. He tells his story from living the American Dream to falling into the cycle of addiction and depression that ultimately led to multiple times in jail, divorce, sobriety, and how he committed to recovery.
Tune in to Episode 7 to learn about Max’s breaking point to turn his life around, how he overcame losing three family members in one year, and how writing his book healed him.
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Do you find yourself jumping from one bad relationship to another? If the answer is yes, it’s time to recognize the patterns and put an end to the cycle.
In this episode, I talk about how to decode females in order to set yourself up for the type of relationship you desire. If you don’t know what you want in a woman and what you do not want, the pattern of toxic and incompatible relationships will continue. You will hear me talk about the five green light qualities to look for in a woman, eight red flags to be aware of, and why time is your most precious capital.
Tune in to learn the signs of the woman you want to be with so you can thrive in your next relationship.
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Is masculinity toxic? There seems to be a stigma around the concept of masculinity, however, I believe it is about standing up for yourself, living your truth, and doing what you want to do in life.
In this episode, I talk about how society has created a negative connotation around the word ‘masculinity’ and how I believe we need to redefine what it really means. Instead of pairing the word ‘masculinity’ with aggressive or emotionless, let’s describe it as self-confidence and embracing purpose.
Tune in to Episode 5 to learn how I view masculinity, why approaching women is the hardest part of dating, and my journey to gaining confidence.
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What are your morning rituals? If you don’t have any set in place, now is the time to start.
Figuring out the morning routine that makes you ready to take on the day as your best self is life-changing. Whether you feel the best starting your day with a workout, reading, or working on your passion project, recognize what morning ritual works for you.
I am excited to be joined today by my first guest and personal life coach, Jeff Wickersham. Jeff is a bestselling author, life coach, and founder of the Morning Fire program. Jeff’s program focuses on the importance of establishing a morning routine and my life has changed since applying many of his tips to my own life.
Tune in to learn about Jeff’s transformational moment that led him to coaching, what his morning rituals and daily habits consist of, and the concept behind his book Rise, Fight, Love, Repeat: Ignite Your Morning Fire.
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Are you comfortable approaching and speaking with someone you don’t know?
Does that comfort level go down if it’s someone you want to pursue a romantic connection with?
Social anxiety can be crippling to men who are single and don’t know how to approach a woman they are interested in. I’ve been there before - it’s tough! But just like anything else, taking the initial leap is all it takes to jumpstart your confidence when approaching women.
In today’s episode, I explain how I learned to approach women with confidence and how to desensitize the fear that often accompanies approaching a woman for the first time. Listen to Episode 3 of Get Your Swag Back to learn how to gain confidence, the importance of not always using online dating sites, and why consistency is key.
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What’s the first thought that runs through your mind when I say, “No more Mr. Nice Guy”?
Well, I’m not encouraging you to stop being polite, to start treating everyone badly, or whatever negative thought comes to mind. None of that! All I’m saying is, sometimes nice guys fail to live in their own truth. Especially in their relationships with women, they try so hard to please them – or they act the way they imagine ladies would want – that they end up being doormats and losing respect exactly from the ones they try so hard to be nice guys for.
Before struggling so hard to be the nice guy, try instead focusing on yourself first. Focus on finding your passions, your purpose in life, and living in your truth. This strategy works best in finding women that align with you, that respect you, that look up to you – and in the end, women that will be by your side no matter what.
Listen to Episode 2 of Get Your Swag Back to learn how you can begin to step into your truth, stand up for yourself, and be the man that women will follow.
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Do you find yourself continuously struggling to approach women and find a woman that you connect with?
The first step is to truly understand what you are looking for in a relationship and then you can narrow down your dating pool to the women you are interested in that have the qualities you are looking for.
I am Steve Clements, your host on this podcast that takes an unapologetic look at the modern male and how every man can strive for personal growth in order to gain confidence with women and relationships. I was once in an unhappy marriage and resorted to infidelity instead of facing my relationship head-on. After a divorce and a few toxic relationships, I began reading books that inspired me to make a change in how I handled my masculinity with women. Today, I am a certified life coach striving to help men everywhere to “make your comeback, take your balls back, and get your swag back”!
Join me today, in the first episode of Get your Swag Back, to find out the first steps towards a greater you!
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