Spirituality Matters with Rev Karla: Recent Episodes
Rev Karla
Spirituality Matters with Rev Karla is a podcast for the spiritual-but-not-religious. Rev Karla is an ordained interfaith minister, a writer, and a spiritual teacher and mentor. She explores topics from healing religious trauma and helping individuals explore, embrace, and expand their spiritual-but-not-religious journeys, while connecting to the Divine through sacred soul work. For more resources and support along your spiritual journey → numasoulcourses.com/links/revkarla.
I Dislike the D Word Too
Deconstructing, Decolonizing, and What Spiritual Honesty DemandsRev Karla has never loved the word deconstructing. For years, it felt harsh. More like demolition than discovery.
In this episode, she reflects on why she still uses the term, what it truly demands, and why deconstructing without decolonizing risks rebuilding the same systems with softer language. This is not a conversation about rejecting the past, but about understanding it honestly and choosing what belongs in the future.
This episode is for anyone who has found themselves questioning what they were taught, sitting with uncertainty, and learning that spiritual honesty often costs comfort but creates space for something real.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
This isn’t just another policy shift. This is a spiritual crisis. In today’s episode, I’m unpacking what’s happening with the defunding of USAID—and why it matters for those of us who are deconstructing our faith, reclaiming our values, and learning to see every life as sacred.
Behind the headlines are calculated efforts by billionaires and ideologues to dismantle humanitarian aid, silence compassionate outreach, and replace it with religious control and nationalist agendas. This isn’t efficiency—it’s eugenics in everything but name.
If you’ve ever wondered how Christianity became a weapon for power instead of a force for love and healing, this episode is for you. It’s heavy, yes—but it’s also a call to awaken, to resist, and to live out a spirituality that protects the vulnerable, not abandons them.
This is your reminder that your voice matters. Your compassion matters. And your spiritual path can—and should—be part of the resistance.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
In this episode, I return to the heart of everything I teach: why spirituality matters. For those of us who have untangled from high-control religion, the word spirituality can feel loaded—dismissed, distorted, or used to keep us in fear. But I believe spirituality isn’t about rules or performance—it’s about remembering. Remembering that we are already sacred. Already loved. Already whole.
This conversation is for the ones who no longer pray the way they used to, who wonder if they’re doing it “wrong,” who feel the pull toward something deeper and more honest. If that’s you, I hope this meets you right where you are—and reminds you that your humanity is holy.
Because spirituality matters.
Because you matter.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
This one is for the quiet hearts—the ones who feel the ache on Sunday mornings, wondering if they’ve lost something holy, or if they’re somehow failing at faith.
In today’s episode, I’m here to remind you: you’re not failing—you’re redefining. You’re shifting into a new kind of faith, one that doesn’t require performance or perfection, but allows for rest, softness, and truth.
What may feel like unraveling is actually sacred becoming. And even if the path feels uncertain, it is not without direction. You are moving toward something more honest, more peaceful, more your own.
Let this episode be your reminder: You are not broken. You are becoming. And that is sacred.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
How Understanding the Overton Window Can Help you Decode Trump and Deconstruct Christian Patriarchy
In this episode, I’m talking about something many of us on the deconstruction path are feeling right now: disoriented, exhausted, and deeply aware that something is not right. I connect the dots between indoctrination, the Overton Window, and how they’ve shaped not just our faith, but our politics, our relationships, and our sense of self. If you’ve been told your questions are dangerous, your healing is rebellion, or your compassion makes you weak—this episode is for you. You're not losing your way. You're waking up.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
In today’s episode, I’m sharing five of the most common misconceptions about those of us who’ve left church. If you’ve ever been called selfish, bitter, or “just hurt by the wrong church,” this one is for you. I unpack each assumption with honesty and clarity—and speak directly to those of you who have found peace outside of organized religion. Your story is valid. Your path is sacred. And despite what others may say, leaving church did not make you less faithful—it made you free.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
In this episode, Rev Karla unpacks the manipulative tactics of patriarchal systems—from gaslighting and blame-shifting to spiritual bypassing—and how they echo across our homes, churches, and political structures. Drawing connections between recent headlines and the personal experiences of those deconstructing from Christianity, she offers clarity, validation, and a reminder that your intuition isn’t broken—it was silenced. This is your invitation to keep healing, keep questioning, and keep reclaiming your voice.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
In this episode, Rev Karla confronts the dangerous theology behind the phrase “Drill Baby Drill” and the Christian fallacy of dominion over the Earth. She explores how harmful interpretations of scripture have fueled environmental destruction, justified with faith, and used to silence efforts to protect creation. From endangered species to national parks, this episode is both a warning and a call to heal. If you’ve ever been told that caring for the planet contradicts your faith, this conversation is for you.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
History does not look kindly on those who stood by in silence.
From Nazi Germany to present-day America, Christianity has been used as both a tool of oppression and a force for justice. Today, as we witness forced deportations, the stripping of LGBTQIA+ rights, and the systematic erasure of marginalized communities, we must ask ourselves: Where do we stand?
Some Christians are embracing oppression. Others remain silent. And then there are those who resist.
History will remember who spoke out—and who chose comfort over courage. The time to act is now.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
In this gentle Sunday reflection, Rev Karla speaks to the sacredness of rest and the quiet rebellion of the unchurched. For those feeling pulled to justify, perform, or prove their worth—this is your reminder that rest is not laziness. It is holy. It is healing. And it belongs to you.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
For those of us who have left the church, the message is clear: we are not lost, and we are not looking for a way back.
Yet, in deconstructing spaces, the loudest voices still belong to the churched. We are treated as a project to fix, an enigma to understand, or a problem to solve. But the truth is, many of us left because we saw the harm church as an institution perpetuates—patriarchy, white supremacy, homophobia, power abuses, and spiritual manipulation.
This episode is not an argument—it is a declaration. I am unchurched. I am not broken. I am spiritually independent.
For those who have walked away and felt pressure to return, your path is sacred. Listen in as we reclaim the space of the unchurched and challenge the idea that church is the only place where spirituality can thrive.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
I’m not an alarmist—I’m a realist. I see the patterns, I pay attention, and I take action when I know something is wrong. And right now, I need you to hear this: If you aren’t terrified, you aren’t paying attention.
Democracy is being dismantled at a speed designed to keep us overwhelmed, exhausted, and unable to fight back. From forced deportations and gutted workers’ rights to billionaires tightening their grip on government power, we are watching an orchestrated plan unfold.
So, what do we do? We prepare. We resist. We take care of each other. Because submission will not save us, and waiting for someone else to act is no longer an option.
If not you, then who? If not now, then when?
🔗 Listen now and don't forget—Stay Awake, Stay Inspired and Stay Informed
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
Faith should not require fear—but for many of us, that’s exactly how we were taught to believe. Fear of asking questions. Fear of losing community. Fear of what happens if we step outside the lines.
In this episode, I respond to a message from a reader whose concerns reveal just how deeply fear-based theology shapes belief systems. From xenophobia to LGBTQIA+ erasure to patriarchal control, fear is the foundation of a faith that demands obedience over understanding.
But fear-based faith isn’t faith at all—it’s control. And once you see it, you can begin to break free.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
Deconstructing faith comes with a paradox—the longing for a time when belief felt simple, safe, and certain. But that simplicity was never real. It only existed because we weren’t supposed to question.
In this episode, I explore the deep contradictions of deconstruction—the nostalgia for what once was, the pain of seeing the truth, and the sacred transformation that comes when we step beyond the roles we were given.
Keep going. You are not who you once were, and that is sacred.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
While some voters are waking up to the consequences of Trump’s policies—losing jobs, benefits, and essential programs—MAGA Christians aren’t among them. They aren’t disillusioned. They aren’t questioning. They’re celebrating.
In this episode, I break down why MAGA Christianity remains steadfast in its loyalty, how blind faith and Christian nationalism fuel their unwavering support, and why we won’t change their minds—but we must change our approach to protecting democracy.
Because when faith and power merge into unquestionable devotion, history warns us of the consequences.
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Rev Karla's Book Deconstructing: Leaving Church, Finding Faith Out Now
Our democracy is crumbling, and Democratic leadership is failing us. Instead of stepping up, too many politicians are more focused on punchlines, social media antics, and optics while real people suffer.
➡️73% of Democratic voters say leadership isn’t doing enough to oppose Trump.
➡️Eric Swalwell is cracking jokes while fascism tightens its grip.
➡️Gavin Newsom is aligning with Charlie Kirk instead of standing for human rights.
This isn’t leadership—it’s distraction. And if we wait for them to wake up, we will lose everything. So, where does that leave us? Who will lead us now?
Let’s talk about it.
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Defunding education and food programs isn’t just politics—it’s a calculated move that will leave millions of families struggling to survive.The Department of Education is being gutted. Federal meal programs for children have been eliminated. Families who were already on the edge are now facing an even harsher reality. And behind it all? The very people who claim to follow Jesus.
In this episode, we unpack the devastating impact of these cuts, the calculated cruelty behind them, and why this is about power, not policy. What does it mean when those who claim to live by Matthew 25 are the same ones tearing down the safety nets for the most vulnerable?
Listen now and share your thoughts.
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How Speaker Mike Johnson Endangered a Newborn and Punished a New MotherMAGA Christians love to call themselves the party of “family values,” but when it comes to actually supporting families, their hypocrisy is on full display. In this episode, I break down the latest example—how Speaker Mike Johnson forced a new mother, U.S. Representative Brittany Petterson, to choose between doing her job and protecting her newborn’s health.
This isn’t just about outdated policies—it’s about power, control, and the ongoing war on women in the workplace. If you’ve ever questioned the true motives behind the so-called “pro-life” movement, this conversation is for you.
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2023 was a year filled with its share of challenges and surprises. I've titled our last teaching of the year: “Spiritual Reset,” drawing inspiration from some of my past writings and experiences, and I am sharing this teaching on my Podcast. In this teaching, I invite you to join me in reflecting on the significant moments of 2023 and how they've shaped us. Let's set intentions for personal growth and transformation as we gently step into 2024, embracing the incredible power of choice. It's a chance for us to nurture our spiritual well-being as we close out the year.
Wishing you a Happy New Year.
I'll see you in 2024.
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Rev Karla's new podcast titled: "A Practical Spirituality: Finding Holy in Your Everyday," helps those seeking a deeper connection to their spirituality beyond the confines of traditional religious institutions. Rev Karla begins by sharing her personal experiences and insights on leaving the church and beginning a path of practical spirituality. She reflects on the challenges and joys of transitioning from a life deeply intertwined with the church to rediscovering the sacred in everyday moments. She shares how she found profound moments of connection, peace, and meaning in the seemingly ordinary, from sipping a latte on a park bench to exploring the mysteries of the divine. Practical spirituality can enrich your life, nurture inner growth, and empower you to make a positive impact on the world. Embrace your unique spiritual journey, question, explore, and find the holy in your everyday experiences. You can read the blog version of this episode, listen on all streaming platforms, or watch the uncut version on our YouTube channel Spirituality Matters with Rev Karla. Please don't forget to like and subscribe! For a list of full resources for this episode visit us online: Rev Karla's Podcast → https://revkarla.com/podcast/ For more information and support along your spiritual journey visit our links below ↓ IG →https://www.instagram.com/revkarla/TT →https://www.tiktok.com/@revkarlaFB →https://www.facebook.com/reverendkarla/Buy Rev Karla a Tea → https://www.buymeacoffee.com/revkarla Shop Rev Karla’s Online Store: shop.revkarla.com Podcast Channels Apple →https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spirituality-matters-with-rev-karla/id1532612816Spotify →https://open.spotify.com/show/6YCTW5kdJW0BIaKwTAp5jOGoogle → https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL3NwaXJpdHVhbGl0eW1hdHRlcnMvZmVlZC54bWw To submit questions for Rev Karla’s Podcast email us → spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com #podcast #spiritualitymatters #exvangelcial #exchristian #spiritualnotreligious #spiritual #spirituality #revkarla #leavingchurch #theology #religioustrauma #leavingchristianity #deconstructingfaith #religiouspatriarchy
In this episode, Rev Karla discuss the intricate layers of grief. Grief isn't a one-size-fits-all process; it's a lifelong journey that impacts us all at some point. It's not just about losing a loved one; it can be triggered by various life events, from relationship endings to significant societal shifts. Rev Karla challenges the traditional "five stages of grief" model, highlighting that it's not as linear as we once thought. Instead, think of grief as a winding path, often unpredictable and non-linear. Throughout the episode, Rev Karla offers practical advice on how to cope with grief, while stressing the importance of acknowledging and honoring grief through meaningful rituals and altars that allow us to remember our lost loved ones. She also discusses how grief can be transformed into action, personal growth, or advocacy, sharing real-life examples of this transformation. This podcast encourages us to embrace our grief with compassion and seek support when needed understanding that grief is part of our human experience. You can read the Blog version of this episode, listen on all streaming platforms, or watch the uncut version on our YouTube channel Spirituality Matters with Rev Karla. Please don't forget to like and subscribe! For a list of full resources for this episode visit us online: Rev Karla's Podcast → https://revkarla.com/podcast/ For more information and support along your spiritual journey visit our links below ↓ IG →https://www.instagram.com/revkarla/TT →https://www.tiktok.com/@revkarlaFB →https://www.facebook.com/reverendkarla/ Shop Rev Karla’s Online Store: shop.revkarla.com Podcast Channels Apple →https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spirituality-matters-with-rev-karla/id1532612816Spotify →https://open.spotify.com/show/6YCTW5kdJW0BIaKwTAp5jOGoogle → https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL3NwaXJpdHVhbGl0eW1hdHRlcnMvZmVlZC54bWw To submit questions for Rev Karla’s Podcast email us → spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com #podcast #spiritualitymatters #exvangelcial #exchristian #spiritualnotreligious #spiritual #spirituality #revkarla #leavingchurch #theology #religioustrauma #leavingchristianity #deconstructingfaith #religiouspatriarchy #grief
In this special podcast episode we are sharing a Sunday teaching from Rev Karla exploring the sacredness of the holiday season. December holds a multitude of holy days, not just for Christians, but for all of humanity. As we enter this busy season, it's crucial to prioritize self-care and pause to find the sacredness in the small moments. Sundays with Rev Karla is a weekly teaching program. Each Sunday we release a new teaching video, alongside journaling worksheets to help expand on the materials. Teaching themes change weekly and everything is delivered directly to your email. You can learn more HERE. For a list of full resources for this episode visit us online: Rev Karla's Podcast → https://revkarla.com/podcast/ For more information and support along your spiritual journey visit our links below ↓ IG →https://www.instagram.com/revkarla/TT →https://www.tiktok.com/@revkarlaFB →https://www.facebook.com/reverendkarla/Buy Rev Karla a Tea → https://www.buymeacoffee.com/revkarla Shop Rev Karla’s Online Store: shop.revkarla.com Podcast Channels Apple →https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spirituality-matters-with-rev-karla/id1532612816Spotify →https://open.spotify.com/show/6YCTW5kdJW0BIaKwTAp5jOGoogle → https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL3NwaXJpdHVhbGl0eW1hdHRlcnMvZmVlZC54bWw To submit questions for Rev Karla’s Podcast email us → spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com
Spirituality Matters is a podcast hosted by Rev Karla that explores the intersection of spirituality and humanity. In this episode, titled "Authentic Gratitude | 10 Ways for Gratitude to Meet Us Right Where We Are," she addresses how gratitude has been misused in various contexts, and how many of us have been indoctrinated to see gratitude as a sort of punishment. Rev Karla discusses the harmful effects of coerced gratitude and encourages personal agency and authenticity. She draws inspiration from the teachings of the Apostle Paul, suggesting that gratitude can be a source of peace and connection with the divine. This podcast episode is a safe space for healing from religious and familial trauma caused by forced gratitude. Rev Karla offers ten simple ways to incorporate gratitude, emphasizing that it's about finding comfort and healing amid life's challenges. Embrace the power of gratitude, as it was never meant to be a weapon used against you. You can read the Blog version of this episode, listen on all streaming platforms, or watch the uncut version on our YouTube channel Spirituality Matters with Rev Karla. Please don't forget to like and subscribe! For a list of full resources for this episode visit us online: Rev Karla's Podcast → https://revkarla.com/podcast/ For more information and support along your spiritual journey visit our links below ↓ IG →https://www.instagram.com/revkarla/TT →https://www.tiktok.com/@revkarlaFB →https://www.facebook.com/reverendkarla/Buy Rev Karla a Tea → https://www.buymeacoffee.com/revkarla Shop Rev Karla’s Online Store: shop.revkarla.com Podcast Channels Apple →https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spirituality-matters-with-rev-karla/id1532612816Spotify →https://open.spotify.com/show/6YCTW5kdJW0BIaKwTAp5jOGoogle → https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL3NwaXJpdHVhbGl0eW1hdHRlcnMvZmVlZC54bWw To submit questions for Rev Karla’s Podcast email us → spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com
In this special Q&A podcast episode, Rev Karla answers these questions from her audience: 1. As a Gay Christian, it is both a relief and confusing because it’s all I’ve ever know. Do you think Jesus will ever return? And what about a new Earth? 2. Can you do a series about interacting with others post-deconstruction? Like when to discuss and when not to, how to respect their journey without trying to correct them, how to meet them where they are? 3. Would you be willing to discuss your thoughts on the afterlife? What are your thoughts on heaven?
You can read the Blog version of this episode, listen on all streaming platforms, or watch the uncut version on our YouTube channel Spirituality Matters with Rev Karla. Please don't forget to like and subscribe! For a list of full resources for this episode visit us online: Rev Karla's Podcast → https://revkarla.com/podcast/ For more information and support along your spiritual journey visit our links below ↓ IG →https://www.instagram.com/revkarla/TT →https://www.tiktok.com/@revkarlaFB →https://www.facebook.com/reverendkarla/Buy Rev Karla a Tea → https://www.buymeacoffee.com/revkarla Shop Rev Karla’s Online Store: shop.revkarla.com Podcast Channels Apple →https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spirituality-matters-with-rev-karla/id1532612816Spotify →https://open.spotify.com/show/6YCTW5kdJW0BIaKwTAp5jOGoogle → https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL3NwaXJpdHVhbGl0eW1hdHRlcnMvZmVlZC54bWw To submit questions for Rev Karla’s Podcast email us → spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com #podcast #spiritualitymatters #exvangelcial #exchristian #spiritualnotreligious #spiritual #spirituality #revkarla #leavingchurch #theology #religioustrauma #leavingchristianity #deconstructingfaith #religiouspatriarchy
In this podcast episode titled, "Whose Land Do You Stand Upon? Eight Ways to Blend Your Sacred Activism with Your Spirituality and Help Deconstruct Toxic Ideologies," Rev Karla begins by reflecting on the false narratives and indoctrination prevalent during her upbringing in the 1960s, particularly regarding the Thanksgiving story and the mistreatment of Native Americans. Rev Karla emphasizes the importance of deconstructing ingrained beliefs and recognizing the interconnectedness of spirituality and activism. She highlights the significance of November as Native American Heritage Month and the need to honor and understand the historical injustices suffered by Native Americans. Throughout the episode, she shares insights on how to blend sacred activism with spirituality, encouraging mindful action, the study of contemplative practices, engaging in dialogues with those connected to Native American heritage, and exploring the inner work required for personal growth, healing, and meaningful activism. You can listen to this podcast on all streaming platforms, watch the uncut version on YouTube, or read more from Rev Karla about this in this week's https://revkarla.com/podcast/ For more information and support along your spiritual journey visit our links below ↓ IG →https://www.instagram.com/revkarla/TT →https://www.tiktok.com/@revkarlaFB →https://www.facebook.com/reverendkarla/Buy Rev Karla a Tea → https://www.buymeacoffee.com/revkarla Shop Rev Karla’s Online Store: shop.revkarla.com Podcast Channels Apple →https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spirituality-matters-with-rev-karla/id1532612816Spotify →https://open.spotify.com/show/6YCTW5kdJW0BIaKwTAp5jOGoogle → https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL3NwaXJpdHVhbGl0eW1hdHRlcnMvZmVlZC54bWw To submit questions for Rev Karla’s Podcast email us → spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com #podcast #spiritualitymatters #exvangelcial #exchristian #spiritualnotreligious #spiritual #spirituality #revkarla #leavingchurch #theology #religioustrauma #leavingchristianity #deconstructingfaith #religiouspatriarchy #nativeamericanhistorymonth
In this special podcast episode, enjoy a segment of Sundays with Rev Karla exploring the theme of "Honoring What Was" as we approach the holiday season. Rev Karla discusses All Saints Day, All Souls Day, and what it means to dread the holidays because of grief and sorrow and how you can set boundaries for yourself. She discusses how traditional religious practices often discourage genuine expressions of grief, pushing individuals to prioritize salvation and celebration over acknowledging their pain. Rev Karla shares personal stories and common responses to grieving individuals, highlighting the need for more compassionate and supportive approaches. She encourages listeners to recognize the importance of holding space for their grief during challenging times, without judgment or pressure to move on quickly. Rev Karla also suggests finding sources of comfort and support, referencing the book "Three Dog Night" as an exploration of rebuilding life after loss. Sundays with Rev Karla is a weekly teaching program. Each week we release a new teaching video, alongside journaling worksheets to help expand on the materials. Teaching themes change weekly and everything is delivered directly to your email.Click here to learn more about this program designed to offer spiritual connection, inspiration, and help you reconnect with Sundays. For more information and support along your spiritual journey visit our links below ↓ IG → https://www.instagram.com/revkarla/TT → https://www.tiktok.com/@revkarlaFB → https://www.facebook.com/reverendkarla/ Shop Rev Karla’s Online Store: shop.revkarla.com To submit questions for Rev Karla’s Podcast email us → spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com
In our latest Q&A series, Rev Karla answers your questions: 1. "Can you please talk about when people use an event like the wildfires and smoke to claim the scary apocalypse stuff and how do you finally free yourself from that?"2. "How do you free yourself from the concept of hell?"3. "In year four of deconstruction and doing much better, is it weird to still desire to be a part of a faith church community? Any ideas on moving forward?"4. "Do you think most religious people feel guilty at all?"5. “What would you suggest someone do if they are deconstructing? Not fully sure where they will land yet still have to do Christian things for appearance, like pray in public or give devotionals?” You can read this Part #8 Q&A series in this week's Blog post, listen on all streaming platforms, or watch the uncut version on Rev Karla's YouTube Channel Spirituality Matters.
In this episode of "Spirituality Matters," Rev Karla addresses the often-unspoken issue of women perpetuating patriarchy and the internalized misogyny that comes with it. Drawing from her personal experiences and observations, she sheds light on how women, at times, unknowingly uphold societal norms that suppress them. From confrontations on social media to real-life interactions, she highlights the importance of recognizing these patterns and the power of breaking free. For anyone who has felt the weight of societal expectations or has been silenced by another, this episode serves as a benchmark, urging women to stand together, challenge the status quo, and celebrate their authentic selves. You can read "You Disgust Me" | Seven Ways Women Disparage Other Women and Seven Ways to Respond to Their Internalized Misogyny in this week's Blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube. For a list of full resources for this episode visit us online: Rev Karla's Podcast → https://revkarla.com/podcast/ For more information and support along your spiritual journey visit our links below ↓ IG →https://www.instagram.com/revkarla/TT →https://www.tiktok.com/@revkarlaFB →https://www.facebook.com/reverendkarla/Buy Rev Karla a Tea → https://www.buymeacoffee.com/revkarla Shop Rev Karla’s Online Store: shop.revkarla.com Podcast Channels Apple →https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spirituality-matters-with-rev-karla/id1532612816Spotify →https://open.spotify.com/show/6YCTW5kdJW0BIaKwTAp5jOGoogle → https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL3NwaXJpdHVhbGl0eW1hdHRlcnMvZmVlZC54bWw To submit questions for Rev Karla’s Podcast email us → spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com
In this special Part #7 Q&A episode, Rev Karla answers your personal questions: 1. How do you feel about atheism? 2. Can you talk about forgiveness? 3. I’ve tried AA so many times but they rely so heavily on trusting a higher power. Any advice for someone struggling with the same question?
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the transformative journey of deconstructing and it's role in discovering a more authentic spiritual path. If you've ever questioned your spiritual identity or felt a void without it, this episode is for you. We'll explore the significance of peeling away layers of indoctrination, the challenges of navigating the spiritual wilderness, and the ultimate reward: reclaiming your spirituality on your terms. Remember, organized religion is not the gatekeeper of your spirituality. You can read more about this from Rev Karla in this week's blog post or watch the uncut version on my YouTube Channel.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses finding gratitude in the grief and sadness of walking someone home at the end of life. Inspired by a moving encounter with an elderly woman, we explore how embracing gratitude can bring greater happiness, interconnectedness, and spiritual growth.She'll share these 5 practical ways to cultivate gratitude, while understanding the role grief plays in our lives when navigating challenges. 1. Embrace Impermanence and Appreciate the Present 2. Shifting Focus from Lack to Abundance 3. Practice Mindful Reflection 4. Expressing Gratitude Freely 5. Transform Suffering through Gratitude
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In this special podcast episode, Rev Karla answers these questions from her audience: Question #1: “I have a question for you. Tell me if I am out of line. Do you still believe in God? Jesus? No judgment for me. I am on my own spiritual journey at the moment.” Question #2: “All my life I was taught that homosexuals go to hell. Can you please make a video explaining how you don't go to hell?” Question #3: “Hate the sin, not the sinner, is the only one I don't agree with. “I think that we need to keep saying hate the sin, not the sinner. Help me understand because for me I hate the actions of others, but it's not my sin or my life to judge. But it doesn't mean I like sin. I still love everyone. We are all sinners. Am I wrong? Love your content.” You can listen to the podcast on all streaming platforms, read the Blog version of this podcast, or watch the uncut version on Rev Karla's YouTube channel Spirituality Matters.
In this new podcast, Rev Karla explores the profound concept of leading with love in every aspect of life. She recently was a guest on Jalon Johnson's podcast, Not Your Ordinary Parts. During their time together, Jalon made this impactful comment, "I just want to lead with love," which is the inspiration for this podcast. Rev Karla discusses quotes from spiritual leaders who lead with love: Jesus, Buddha, Rumi, Thich Nhat Hanh, Gandhi, Lao Tzu, and she explores 10 principles she's developed for leading and living a life centered around love. These principles include forgiveness, gratitude, compassion, kindness, empathy, and self-care. She emphasizes the importance of empathy and understanding and embracing others' experiences and choosing love as a guiding force in all decisions and actions. Rev Karla encourages listeners to reflect on their own paths to living a life guided by love. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on herYouTube channel.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the destructive nature of toxic positivity and the impact of focusing on salvation and the afterlife rather than being present and addressing real human challenges. Toxic positivity, denies our genuine human emotions, diminishing the richness of our existence. While optimism is invaluable, true growth often emerges from acknowledging the moments when life isn't all sunshine. It's okay to not be okay—vulnerability and authenticity are powerful catalysts for personal and spiritual growth. Your emotions are valid, and your journey is sacred. Sundays with Rev Karla is a private community. One of the most commonly asked questions Rev Karla receives is how can I reconnect with Sundays and find community while deconstructing? Each week Rev Karla releases a new Sunday teaching focusing on inspiration and healing. This community has monthly lives, exclusive content, and Q&A sessions all created to support you and your unique spiritual journey. Visit us online to learn more join. 💜
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the five reasons the spiritual but not religious is a sacred path. We are breaking down misconceptions, sharing personal stories, and celebrating the beauty of diverse paths to the sacred. Rev Karla will expand on the five reasons the spiritual but not religious is a sacred and meaningful path by discussing: 1. Spirituality is not a one-size-fits-all endeavor. 2. Discovering a profound sense of liberation outside of church. 3. Embracing the direct experience of the divine. 4. Integrating spirituality into everyday life. 5. Not feeling the need to explain your beliefs. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version of today's episode on YouTube.
In this special episode, Rev Karla answers your personal questions:
- If hell isn’t real then Satan and demons wouldn’t be real. If that’s the case, why isn’t the world perfect without temptation?
- What’s god’s view on being gender fluid? I’ve been struggling feeling me being that way. does it line up with the bible?
- Why are you still a believer? I’m a happy go lucky atheist and can’t understand deity believers.
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In this episode titled "You Are a Life Force to Be Reckoned With," Rev Karla discusses the butterfly effect, chaos theory, and various forms of energy emitted by the human body, both measurable and subtle. Rev Karla reflects on the interconnectedness of life and encourages listeners to embrace the potential to create positive shifts in their lives through conscious decision-making. She discusses the ripple effect of love and kindness and emphasizes the power of even small acts of goodness by sharing personal anecdotes and lessons learned during her home remodeling process. She highlights the importance of finding meaning in everyday moments and embracing one's own life force. Rev Karla concludes with a powerful message about each individual's presence mattering, and that we are all indeed a force to be reckoned with. Click HERE to read Rev Karla's blog titled: You Are A Life Force To Be Reckoned With | Embracing Exile and Finding Sacredness in Everyday Moments
We are excited to share this special edition podcast: Sundays with Rev Karla. One of the most commonly asked questions Rev Karla receives is how can I reconnect with Sundays and find community while deconstructing? Each week Rev Karla will share new video teachings inside of her private community on Facebook: Rev Karla's Inner Circle. This community has monthly lives, exclusive content, and Q&A sessions all created to support you and your unique spiritual journey. We launch this series by diving into the paradoxical journey of solitude and self-discovery, known as the Spiritual Wilderness. Join as we explore the meaning, challenges, and transformative power of stepping into this sacred void.
Sundays with Rev Karla kicks off Sunday August 6th inside our membership communities.
See below the list of teaching topics for August:
➡️The Spiritual Wilderness | August 6th
➡️Religionless and Happy | August 13th
➡️The 6 Stages of Spiritual Transformation | August 20th
➡️The Sacredness of Not Being Okay | August 27th
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In Part #4 Q&A episode of the Spirituality Matters Podcast, Rev Karla dives deep into thought-provoking topics and questions shared from our community. Join her as she explores mission trips, personal values, and even the concept of hell. Here's a glimpse of what to expect: → Questioning the Effectiveness of Mission Trips → The Bastard Child Syndrome → Morality and Religion → Concept of hell and the existence of Satan You can read the transcript to this episode HERE and watch the uncut version on Youtube.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the big difference a small beach mouse can have on an ecosystem and connects that to these small moments in our spirituality and humanity. Every moment matters and every person matters. You are significant. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version on YouTube.
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In this special episode, Rev Karla answers your questions: Do you (Rev Karla) believe in Jesus? Why do you seem angry and hurt at the church? Isn't it time to move on? What are your thoughts about how our country got into this mess? Why do so many churches with toxic theology hide behind the modern church theme? You can read the transcript of this episode HERE and watch the uncut version of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube channel, Spirituality Matters.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the meaning of the quote, “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” and other proverbs that are rooted in patriarchy, fear-based theology, and are used to control people and protect those in power. You can read more from Rev Karla on this in this week's Spirituality Matters.
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the malleability of gold, ways gold can be incorporated into rituals, and how gold can be made stronger by adding other metals. Discover the purity and significance of 24K gold, its use in sacred objects and jewelry, and how its resilience mirrors our own journey of growth and strength. Rev Karla ends by reminding us that we are still as precious as gold even after any trauma we may have faced, and remember to embrace your scars and the strength within you. To read the blog version of this episode visit https://revkarla.com/podcast/
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In this episode, Rev Karla answers your questions: 1. What is the role of ritual in spirituality? 2. How can someone be spiritual without any beliefs in the supernatural? 3. How can someone integrate their spirituality into their daily?
If you would like your question answered on a future episode, email us at spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com. You can watch the uncut version on Rev Karla's YouTube channel. To read the Blog version of episode click HERE.
Trigger Warning: AbortionIn this episode, Rev Karla discusses what it means to be pro-life, pro-choice, pro-birth and why we need to have this conversation. It might get a little uncomfortable, but it’s an important conversation to have. You can read more about this from Rev Karla in her blog post HERE.
In this episode, Rev Karla answers your questions: 1. What is the difference between deconstructing Christianity and completely rejecting it? 2. How does being unchurched affect one's spirituality? 3. Can you be spiritual but not religious and still have a strong moral compass?
You can also watch the uncut version of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube channel.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses what it means to release our indoctrinated religious beliefs, as we become more aware at how it has impacted our identity. She shares examples of these indoctrinated beliefs causing conflict in society today and personal stories of deconstructing from these beliefs and how she rediscovered her identity along the way.You can read more about this from Rev Karla in her blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses spiritual contemplative practices to connect with and heal your inner child. She also talks about the anthem of hope and healing, Dear Me by Nichole Nordeman, and how many of her songs touched Rev Karla deeply and helped her during hard times while deconstructing from Christianity. Be sure to read Rev Karla's YouTube.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses where we are as a society and being invited to understand and embrace empathy to make choices in our life. What does it mean to be an empath? Rev Karla talks about how we can learn to be more empathic from the tragedies that have occurred throughout humanity, including examples of Pol Pot, Corrie ten Boom, Emmett Till and others. You can read more from Rev Karla in herYouTube channel Spirituality Matters.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the long, winding journey of grief and sorrow. There are more than 5 stages, and they are not linear, be gentle with yourself, dear one. Rev Karla talks about the importance of not expecting things in return when we offer to hold space for grief with someone. You can read on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post and watch the uncut version on YouTube. Additional resources include: It’s Time to Let the Five Stages of Grief Die, Evangelicals Aren’t Dealing Well with Grief
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the theories of redemption and atonement within Christianity and how that can be harmful when it carries over into other parts of our society. It can keep us in a cycle of being eternally grateful and bound to religious structures and the patriarchy but it can be liberating to break free from this indoctrination. Read more about this from Rev Karla in her blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on her YouTube channel Spirituality Matters.
In this episode, Rev Karla received a lovely email and question from a follower named Ginny, who wrote: "Thank you for the many ways we can explore our deconstruction as well as understand the ways Christianity continues to oppress the marginalized. Rev Karla, in your deconstruction, are you still a believer in the Trinity? That Jesus is the way to Heaven?" In response, Rev Karla discusses the duality taught in Christianity through the Holy Trinity and what to do about Jesus as you deconstruct from toxic religion. What do you believe now? Non-duality thinking says it's okay to question the ideology you were raised in and you won't be punished for believing differently. You can read more from Rev Karla about this in her blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube.
In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Amir Yass, a queer Muslim unicorn living his best life as he navigates his spiritual journey. They discuss how faith can support you in your authenticity, separating culture from religion, and being out, loud and proud. They also talk about the importance of finding your tribe when your family minimizes your authentic self. You can find Amir on Instagram and TikTok and be sure to watch the uncut version of todays episode on YouTube. As always, Rev Karla has a blog post to go with this episode as well.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses disruptive statements that help to elevate the human condition. Rev Karla talks through ways we can leave the world a better place by hearing, understanding and holding space for another person's pain. Does church support your spiritual values or is it time to leave and embrace other spiritual practices that feed your soul? No one has the road map for you, every spiritual journey is different. Explore, learn, grow, and trust the journey. You can read more from Rev Karla in her blog post or watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube. Additional resources include: Black Lives Matter leaders condemn allegations of mismanaged funds, Black Lives Matter at 10 years: 8 ways the movement has been highly effective.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses lessons learned from her beloved grandmothers. She recalls moments she now realizes was her grandmothers rejecting the patriarchy in different ways throughout their lives. Rev Karla feels connected to her religious heritage when telling these stories. You can read more from Rev Karla in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on her YouTube channel. Additional resources for this episode include: The TikTok Video, Finding and Getting to Know Your Inner Child, The Forgotten Ministry: The Influence of Our Grandparents, The Senior Side: The grandparent role in family faith formation, 12 Life-Impacting Symptoms Complex PTSD Survivors Endure
In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Unconventional Pastor Paul, a mutual from the TikTok deconstructing community. They discuss their interpretations of the Christian Bible, the threat of Christian Nationalism, and the books that helped them open their minds to spirituality outside of organized religion on their deconstructing journeys. Rev Karla has more book recommendations on her website, and you can join Rev Karla’s book club to read one book every month. You can read more from Rev Karla in her blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube. This is Pastor Paul’s second time on "Spirituality Matters," so be sure to go listen to their other episode as well.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the difficulties of creating the life you want as a woman living in a patriarchal society. She tells personal stories about the breadcrumbs in her life that lead her to step out of that patriarchal structure and pave her own path to a life she knew she deserves. It’s important to stay true to yourself, trust the divine timing, dear one. You can watch the uncut version of this episode on Youtube and read more from Rev Karla in the blog post. Additional resources include: Shirley Chisholm
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the grief of leaving church and losing your community on your deconstructing journey. Can you afford to lose that community? Will you ever return? You are not alone on this difficult journey. It’s hard, it’s scary and everything changes, but it is worth it. You can watch the uncut version on YouTube and read more from Rev Karla in the blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the importance of healing as an individual and as a collective, in community with others. She asks the question, "why did faith hurt in the first place?" Rev Karla dives into different stages and processes of the healing journey and how to create a safe space for your spirituality along the way. You can read more from Rev Karla in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version on YouTube. Additional resources include: Martin Luther King, Jr. “The Arc Of The Moral Universe Is Long, But It Bends Toward Justice” Quote Or No Quote?, Rumi, 10 Reasons Why People Fear What They Don‘t Understand,
In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Marlana Glaeser, the owner of Gentle Hands Consulting, a lifestyle consulting business assisting people with their trauma-healing jumpstart. She is a single mother sharing her story of childhood neglect, sexual abuse, and her spiritual journey beginning with growing up in a conservative Christian home. Marlana is also the Director of Spiritual Guidance and Communication for Numa Soul Center for Spiritual Transformation. They discuss the importance of being trauma-informed while helping others on their spiritual journey. You can read more about this interview in Rev Karla's blog post and watch the uncut interview on YouTube. You can also find I am Her, She is Me by Marlana Glaeser HERE.
In this episode, Rev Karla interviews the executive director of Spirituality Network Alejandro Rodriguez. Rodriguez and his organization work to connect people with resources for spiritual growth and depth, regardless of their faith tradition, through educational training, programs and events. They discuss their different spiritual journeys and how they got to where they are today. You can read more about this interview in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version of this interview on YouTube.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how to stand up and use your voice as an advocate when it is safe for you to do so. Rev Karla also talks about Andrew Harvey and his definition of sacred activism and the difference between evangelizing and advocating. You can read more from Rev Karla in this week's blog post. You can watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube. Additional resources for this episode include: The Positive and Negative Effects of a Short Term Mission Trip, Westboro Baptist Church, Westboro Baptist Church History, Why is the Westboro Baptist Church picketing Elizabeth Edwards' funeral?, Marjorie Taylor Greene Says She’s Working on Federal “Don’t Say Gay” Bill, Mike Braun walks back comments that interracial marriage ruling should have been left to states, Rep. Lauren Boebert Faces Backlash for 'Islamophobic and Racist' Story About Rep. Ilhan Omar, Mike Pence says there is no 'freedom from religion' in the US Constitution, The Missouri House tightens its dress code for women, Oklahoma Superintendent plans to "hunt" school libraries, Texas DSHS releases key findings from delayed 2022 maternal health report, says full report will be available shortly, 'Drag Story Hour' protest draws passionate crowds outside Queens library, Drag queens are not the ones sexualizing drag story hour
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses 5 practical and simple ways to reclaim your spirituality, heal your religious trauma, and to know what it truly means to be on the spiritual-but-not-religious path. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on her YouTube channel, Spirituality Matters.
Additional resources for this episode include: 'Holy Now' by Peter Mayer, Holy Now lyrics, Hunter-Gatherers and the Origins of Religion, The 8 Oldest Religions in the World, Why the Worlds Religions are Dying a Slow Death
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses what the inner child is and healthy ways to begin the healing process to allow your inner child to shine. You can read Rev Karla's blog post for this episode and watch the uncut version on YouTube. Additional recourses for this episode include: What is an Inner Child and What Does It Know?, What is Your Inner Child?, Rev Karla's TikTok, and The Sexual Abuse Scandal Rocking the Southern Baptist Convention.
In this last episode of 2022, Rev Karla discusses her goddess hour writings and some of the Christian Nationalist politicians who won their races, that we need to keep our eyes on. Rev Karla also reads a special winter solstice writing that she shares in this week's blog post. You can watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube. Any New Year's resolutions? Join Rev Karla for Spiritual Reset 2023 to help guide you on your spiritual practice in the new year. Find more information about this course at numasoul.com
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses her experiences of holding space for loved ones as they are taking their last breaths and the spiritual significance of taking care of them in those moments. Trigger warning: this episode discusses the death of humans and animals. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube. Additional resources include: What is Active Dying?, End-of-Life Signs, Puppy Mills, Agonal Breathing, International End of Life Dula Association
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the difficulty of navigating the loneliness of the spiritual wilderness when you begin deconstructing to heal your religious trauma. Rev Karla leaves you to ask yourself, how are you leaving the world a better place because of your spirituality? You can read Rev Karla's blog post of this episode or watch the uncut version on YouTube.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the dangers of Christian Nationalism, the Seven Mountain Mandate, the importance of the midterm elections, and the plan to privatize public education. You can read more from Rev Karla on this in her blog post and be sure to watch the uncut version of her podcast on YouTube. Additional resources include: Vice, Dominion Theology, Christian Reconstructionism, and the New Apostolic Reformation, Betsy DeVos and the GOP’s Plan to Destroy Public Schools, The Real Origins of the Religious Right.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how the bible is holding you hostage with harmful indoctrinated beliefs and how you can break free from them. If you've ever felt like you are a mistake, a sin, or going to hell then you are being affected by these toxic beliefs. You'll discover the crucial step to truly break free from these beliefs altogether, and it doesn't involve endlessly studying the bible for mistranslations.
Rev Karla details an experience she had with an internationally known psychic medium. The psychic medium revealed she had powerful male energy surrounding her which came as a surprise. In this episode, you'll discover how important it is to reflect on your ancestors. She also discusses pealing away indoctrinated beliefs that shun seeking out alternative paths to spirituality that oftentimes opens the door to additional healing. You can read Rev Karla's blog post of this episode or watch the uncut version on YouTube.
Additional recourses for this episode include: Doctor planning womb transplant to allow a transgender woman to carry children, How a Transgender Woman Could Get Pregnant.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the wisdom in the changing seasons, our connection to the earth, and honoring the Crone years. Read the blog post for this episode and watch the uncut version on YouTube. Resources for this episode include: The Triple Goddess: Maiden, Mother and Crone, All About Samhain, Persecuting Witches and Witchcraft.
In this episode, Rev Karla reflects on her experience officiating Ria and Amber Demiri's wedding, the hypocrisy of the patriarchy, and the death of the Queen. Be sure to read this week's blog post for more on the wedding, including photos. You can also watch the uncut recording of this episode on Youtube.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the importance of better angels and their role in history, activism and spirituality. You can read Rev Karla's blog post of this episode or watch the uncut version on YouTube. Additional recourses for this episode include: Did Black lives matter to Abraham Lincoln?, Why Bible Accurate Angels Are So Creepy
Rev Karla is back from a much-needed break where she discovered the beauty of stepping back and allowing for Divine intervention. Your spiritual journey is just beginning, beloved. Read Rev Karla’s blog post for this episode and watch the uncut video on YouTube.
Additional resources for this episode include: 2020 Democrats sticking to their No Lobbyist Money pledge
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how elements of your indoctrination could still be hiding in your life, while celebrating life's interruptions. She also discusses demolishing our country's broken system. You can also read the blog post and watch the video version of today's episode.
In this episode, Rev Karla exposes the dangerous inherent connection between white supremacy and American Christianity. She also discusses why the inaction of 'Not all Christians' is actually helping Christian extremists gain power in American politics. Click here to read the blog version of this episode or watch the uncut version on Youtube.
Additional resources for this episode include: Donald Trump’s long history of racism, from the 1970s to 2020, To the World, We’re Now America the Racist and Pitiful, America's still as racist as it's always been, World Orphans Day, The Stars Foundation, How Many Orphans Worldwide? What to Do?, How Many Orphans in the U.S.?, Abortion Fast Facts, Agency Adoptions, US Adoption Statistics, 51 Useful Aging Out of Foster Care Statistics, Do Orphanages Still Exist in America?, Dave Thomas Foundation, Dave Thomas, THE ORPHAN CRISIS IN SUB-SAHARAN AFRICA, IS AMERICA THE ANSWER TO THE ORPHAN CRISIS?
In this episode, Rev Karla reveals how you can find strength in the toxic words thrown at you by hate-filled Christians. She dives into her story of growing up in southern Indiana in the 60's and was called a 'woke liberal' and 'snowflake' by everyone around her. You'll discover how you to use any mockery thrown against you as empowerment for your spiritual journey. Click here to read the blog version of this episode or watch the uncut version on Youtube.
This episode, Rev Karla digs deep into Micah 6:8 – a verse Christians often cherry-picked to justify harm and oppression. You'll also discover history traditional Christian church did not teach you, including how Christians have openly appropriated Jewish traditions. Click here to read the blog version of this episode or watch the uncut version on Youtube. Additional resources for this episode include: Micah 6:8, What Is Cultural Appropriation?, Disney Says ‘Sorry’ After Texas High School Drill Team Performs Racist Dance.
In this episode, Rev Karla reads her letter to President Biden and discusses some of the responses it got on TikTok. Read Rev Karla's Letter to the President or watch the uncut version on Youtube.
In this episode, Rev Karla reveals why your emotional triggers can become a powerful gift for wisdom and healing. You'll also dive deeper into important lessons surrounding religious trauma, spiritual manipulation, shadow work, gaslighting, grief, and binary thinking. Read the blog version of this episode or watch the uncut version on Youtube. Resources for this episode include: Revelation Song Lyrics, Ex-Hillsong members claim church demanded ‘slave labor’, Did Black lives matter to Abraham Lincoln? It’s complicated, Carl Jung
After recovering from a nasty flu, Rev Karla is back to talk about how you can discover the Holy in everyday life. You'll learn how to recognize 'undefinable sacredness': The key to enjoying fulfilling spiritual experiences outside church. You'll also uncover the hidden conversion agenda of church support groups and how megachurches are attempting to twist the meaning of deconstruction. Click here to read the blog version of this episode. Click here to watch the uncut version on Youtube.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how fear-based theology is used by Christians to manipulate people into staying in church. She responds to bold statements made by John Cooper, Greg Locke and Matt Chandler. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post. Watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube.
Additional resources for this episode include: Hilary Engel's tweet, Rev Karla's TikTok response, Skillet’s John Cooper on New Album ‘Dominion’, Skillet, Are other religions and denominations 'heretical'?, Onward, Christian Soldiers lyrics, Jesus Loves Me, This I Know lyrics, This Little Light of Mine lyrics, Skillet’s John Cooper Explains Why God Let the Pandemic Happen, Captive Elephants: Broken Spirit
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses why the spiritual but not religious movement is growing. She talks about her own journey of leaving organized religion and how sometimes that felt like leaving a bad relationship. The spiritual but not religious are here to stay. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post. Watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube.
Additional resources include: U.S. nuns face shrinking numbers and tensions with the Vatican, Keeping the sisterhood from extinction: The struggle to save nuns in America, Signs of Decline & Hope Among Key Metrics of Faith, 'Double Crossed' Details Decline of American Nuns.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the importance of learning and understanding your own heritage. Who we are based on our ancestral lineage and why that is so important. and where is the sacred wisdom in that? You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses different interpretations of end-times theology and the Book of Revelations throughout history. You are invited to consider what it would be like if you are not living with the fear of hell, the rapture and the return of Jesus. Read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post. Watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube.
Resources for this episode include: The Historical Jesus, The second coming has been 'imminent' for 2,000 years, U.S. Christians’ Views on the Return of Christ, John Nelson Darby.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the grief we can feel after deconstructing from religion and no longer attending church every Sunday. The overwhelming emotions of grief can be a lot to process, but it's important to understand these emotions and give yourself time to feel them. There is sacred wisdom in grief. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post. You can watch the uncut video version of today's episode on YouTube.
Additional resources for this episode include: How Cultures Around the World Honor the Dead, Grief is Not One Emotion, Five Fallacies of Grief, What Is Normal Grieving?, Bonnie Raitt Lyrics, Ray Price Lyrics
In this episode, Rev Karla responds to the pope saying that people who choose to have pets over having children are selfish. She discusses the many reasons why people are choosing not to have children and how this isn't the first time the church has used insults to guilt people into behaving how they want. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.
More resources for this episode include: World's richest people now own 11% of global wealth, These two charts show how much minimum wage workers have fallen behind, Minimum wage would be $26 an hour if it had grown in line with productivity, Tesla cuts pay and furloughs workers, Why truck driver salaries have fallen as much as 50% since the 1970's, Elon Must laments the declining birth rate, Growing share of childless adults in U.S. don't expect to ever have children, World Inequality Report, Confidence in Pope Francis down sharply in U.S., Americans continue to have favorable views of Pope Francis, U.S. church membership falls below majority for first time, Pope Francis expresses sorrow but no apology for indigenous school deaths in Canada, Canadian Catholic bishops apologize for residential schools, Survivors braced as search begins at Canada's oldest residential school, Why it's difficult to put a number on how many children died at residential schools, TIME's 100 most influential people of 2021, World's 30 most powerful men, Vatican statistics show continued growth in number of Catholics worldwide, In U.S., decline of Christianity continues at rapid pace, Pope Francis put a woman in a top Vatican role, Seven quotes that make Pope Francis complicated for LGBTQ people, Pope Francis says priests cannot bless same-sex unions, How the 21st century economy convinced millennial women that having kids isn't worth it
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses one of the most misunderstood emotions: rejection. She talks about how we can begin to understand why people bully and make people feel rejected. Rev Karla also shares parts of her deconstruction journey and dealing with rejection. You can read more about rejection from Rev Karla in her blog post. Watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube. Sign up for email alerts from Rev Karla to be the first to hear about upcoming resources.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the story of Job and suffering in the Bible. The reason for suffering is complicated and never absolute. There may not be answers to this question, but join Rev Karla in the conversation. You can read more on this topic in her blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how rejecting your faith is different than deconstructing from it. She talks about the many ways she has seen and experienced religious trauma and spiritual manipulation during her own deconstructing journey. Many times, recognizing the trauma is the first step to beginning your deconstructing journey, but it looks different for everyone. You can read more on this topic in Rev Karla's blog post. You can also watch the uncut video version of this episode on YouTube.
In this episode, Rev Karla talks about how to deal with loss and suffering through a Christian lens versus a Buddhist lens. She also discusses the first steps to deconstructing from your religious heritage and the importance of learning to heal rather than just mend your wounds. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses some hard truths about the realities of today. Our spirituality is connected to everything including racism, politics and activism. Rev Karla ends the episode with a few questions to help you in a contemplative practice reflecting on 2021. You can read more on this topic in Rev Karla's blog post and watch the video version of this episode on YouTube.
Resources for this episode include: Prison Policy, U.S. Academic Achievement Lags, White Male Minority, Heather Cox Richardson, Pastor's Gun Giveaway
In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Pastor Jeff Baker from Chosen Family Church in Canada. The two first connected on TikTok on their growing platforms for helping people deconstruct toxic theology. Pastor Jeff talked about what it was like to grow up religious and questioning their sexual identity, beginning to question other beliefs, and their path to becoming a pastor and expanding their interpretations of the Bible. Be sure to follow Pastor Jeff on Instagram, TikTok and Twitter and tune in to their podcast The Autistic Mystic.
Additional Resources for this episode include: Hannah Gadsby: Nanette on Netflix, Numa Soul's LGBTQIA resources, Sihkism
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the importance of keeping religion out of politics. Rev Karla shares her experience with religion in public schools, the current threat to our democracy if religion keeps playing a part in politics and what we can do about it. You can read more about the separation of church and state from Rev Karla in her blog post. If you'd rather watch the podcast head over to YouTube.
Resources for this episode include: The 1619 Project, Heather Cox Richardson's 'Letters from an American, White Evangelical approval of Trump, 2020 Faith Vote Reflects 2016 Patterns, Top Ten Public School State/Church Violations, White male minority rule, How the Trump Administration's '1776 Report' warps history, Ex-member of Amy Coney Barrett's faith group speaks out, Faith Leaders Nearly Unanimous in Condemning Assault on Capitol, The Christian Insurrection, Pence Urges Americans to Pray, Critical Race Theory is a Flashpoint for Conservatives, The Young Turks on Critical Race Theory.
In this episode, Rev Karla sits down with her spiritual TikTok friend, Jegaysus. They talk about his religious history in the church and the creation of Jegaysus after not being involved with the church for 10 years. They have a great conversation about the different ways to live a spiritual life, the language people use around spirituality and spiritual gifts and their experience with it. Make sure to follow Jegaysus on TikTok and Instagram for more content. Visit numasoul.com for spiritual teaching from Rev Karla.
In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Sophia Spallino where they discuss their experiences being raised in the church. They also cover topics including speaking in tongues, church camp and deconstructing from purity culture. You can learn more from Sophia on her website, social media and her podcast, Enlightened. You can watch the uncut video of this episode on Rev Karla's Youtube Channel.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how to discover how your spirituality can exist outside of religion. Questioning religion could mean you are stepping into a spiritual awakening to enter into the spiritual wilderness. Rev Karla makes suggestions on how to begin your spiritual journey. Read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post and watch the video version of this episode on YouTube.
Resources: Holy Now by Peter Mayer
In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Pastor Paul Swearigen. The two discuss their journey through deconstructing religion. Pastor Paul talks about when he first started questioning religion and embracing the mystery in the unknowns. He offers some ideas about what might happen after death and discusses who, or what, God is to him. Books recommended in this episode include Searching for Sunday by Rachel Held Evans, Resurrecting Jesus by Adyashanti and Love Wins by Rob Bell. You can find out more about Pastor Paul on his website pastor-paul.com and be sure to follow on TikTok @pastorpaul_tiktok and other platforms. You can watch the uncut video version of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube channel.
In this episode, Rev Karla talks about a birthday that changed her life and the power of birthdays and rituals. Autumn is a season of embracing change. Will you accept the invitation to pause, reconnect and remember? You can read more of this from Rev Karla in her blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla invites you to take a moment and pause to reflect and feel connected to the Holy. Autumn is approaching and we must embrace the changing of the seasons. Read more about the Summertide in Rev Karla's blog post. You can watch the uncut video of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube channel.
In this episode, Rev Karla interviews licensed mental health professional, Jaime Mahler. Jaime Mahler is a passionate educator, coach, therapist, podcast host and mental health content creator. Her approach is unique and holistic. Jaime owns Recollected Self, a mental health enrichment company. She integrates creativity and person-centered approaches into everything she does. Rev Karla and Jaime discuss the importance of understanding the emotional factors in processing religious trauma and how to reclaim your identity outside of religion by looking inward to find your authentic self. Make sure to follow Jaime @recollectedself on TikTok and Instagram and check out her workshops at recollectedself.com. Jaime also has a podcast called Unlearned A journey through religious deconstruction. You can watch the uncut video of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube channel.
Additional resources for this episode include: COVID-19 pandemic exacerbates suicide risk factors
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how hateful Christian love can be. Christians have misinterpreted scripture to justify judging, condemning, and dehumanizing people who don't look like, love like or believe like they do. Jesus wouldn't even recognize what Christianity has become today. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post. Watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube.
Additional resources for this episode include: Relax Christian, You Don’t Have to Go to Church and Remember, the Bible Never Mentions a Building Called ‘Church’.
In this episode, Rev Karla had the honor of interviewing Alistair Abulafia Turrelle, also known as Nathaniel Pons. Alistair shares their story about growing up in a religious experience that did not embrace who Alistair truly was. A touching story that is certain to inspire others on their road to healing from religious trauma and to live authentically. Alistair now lives to be a positive impact in their community and in the world, to be a light to those in darkness and a voice for those who are silent! Join Rev Karla for this special interview. Watch the uncut version of this interview on Youtube.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the response to the comment she often sees on her social media, "Well, not all Christians." She talks about why we need to do shadow work to be able to take responsibility for how we respond to the world around us. It's important to recognize why something might offend you and be able to control your response to it. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.
Additional resources for this episode include: Shadow Work: A Simple Guide to Transcending The Darker Aspects of Yourself
In this episode, Rev Karla answers some of your submitted questions including: Why do I feel so much discomfort inside the church? I don't believe in God, am I welcome here? And, does Rev Karla believe in Jesus? Do you have a question for Rev Karla? Email us at info@numasoul.com and your question may be answered in a future episode.
In this episode, Rev Karla expands on topics inspired by her interview in last week's podcast with Rev Dr. José Román and why it's important to show up in a way that reflects God within us. What does it mean to have God within us? Rev Karla also discusses the challenges of navigating the spiritual wilderness and how to find a sacred community as so many of us are leaving church. You can read more about this from Rev Karla in her blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla sits down with Rev Arda and Rev Dr. José Román for discussion following The Hidden Homosexual workshop. They talk about their thoughts on the importance of these kinds of workshops, what reconstructive theology can look like, and the importance of embracing all parts of ourselves in true authenticity. You can watch the uncut video of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube channel. Be sure to follow sign up for email alerts for information on when the next workshop will be held.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how she handles some of the hateful comments she gets on social media. It can be difficult to not let them hurt you, but in the end, they are just a reminder of why we are on this spiritual journey anyway. Many are just deleted and blocked, but some comments turn into teaching moments as an example of how sacred activism plays a role in spirituality. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post. Watch the uncut video of this episode on YouTube.
In this episode, Rev Karla and Rev Arda answer your questions from the God is Gay masterclass. Are there scriptures that support feminism? How can we help cis-hetero individuals adopt queerness into their lives? How do we find good resources for correctly translating words? Find out the answer to these questions and more in today's episode.
When Scripture is Weaponized to Dehumanize
In this episode, Rev Karla begins deconstructing the toxic theology behind the insult of calling others an abomination for not believing in the same things or living the same way they do. Scripture has been mistranslated and taken out of context in an attempt to justify the condemnation of the LGBTQIA+ community. To read more from Rev Karla on this topic, check out her blog post.
Additional resources for this episode include: LGBT Youth Population in the United States, How Many People are Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender?, Why America’s ‘nones’ Left Religion Behind, U.S. Church Membership Falls Below Majority for First Time
Rev Karla is back with more of your questions to answer. In this episode, Rev Karla shares her thoughts on tithing, how to deal with toxic relationships and why God is gay. What does Rev Karla's signature sign-off mean? Rev Karla closes off the episode by answering the popular question: Can you be spiritual but not religious and still believe in Jesus and God? Visit numasoul.com for book recommendations and more resources.
In this episode, Rev Karla breaks down how we can release God from physical attributes and understand the experience of God to be the undefinable, the indescribable, and the unexplainable. We have humanized God through a patriarchal lens, but God is bigger than the image we created. Rev Karla talks about the many names for God in Christianity and religions all around the world. Rev Karla also discusses where we can find examples of the feminine power of the Divine in scripture and closes the episode with how God is revealed within ourselves. So, if God is all of these things, then God is black, gay, and female. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.
Additional resources for this episode include: God is For Everyone, The Bible’s Many Gods, Understanding the Book of Revelation, The Dalai Lama on the Full Ordination of Women, Julian of Norwich, Animals in the Bible, 7 Bible Verses about God Living In Us, The Story of Elijah and the Prophets of Baal on Mount Carmel
In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Rev Arda Itez, Humanist Minister and now Numa Soul's Director of Programs and Partnerships. Karla and Arda recount how they met at seminary school, how their spiritual paths have continued to grow together, and their plans for the future. Rev Arda discusses her spiritual background and how she began deconstruction from the Christian faith by redefining spirituality and religion altogether. If you have questions or additional comments, please email revarda@numasoul.com.
Addition resources for this episode include: Suicide Statistics and U.S. Church Membership Falls Below Majority for First Time
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how to have tough conversations with your friends, colleagues, and loved ones about race, religion, and social justice movements. These conversations require a lot of soul work in preparation. Rev Karla talks about what it means to understand your "why," understanding your boundaries, and knowing when to walk away. Each situation is different, of course, but this episode can help you begin your soul work to have these conversations. You can find more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla answers some of your questions! Find out answers to: What does it mean to be spiritual but not religious? Should we stay in church and try to reform it? What's Rev Karla's opinion on atheism? What about Hebrews 10:25? And answers to a few more of your questions on today's episode. Resources for this episode include: U.S. Church Membership Falls Below Majority for First Time, and Rev Karla's Book Recommendations.
Why America is Becoming Less Christian and More Compassionate
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses a few reasons why some people have chosen to step away from organized religion. The latest data shows that a record-low number of Americans identify themselves with any religion at all. People are leaving church in order to separate themselves from the radical Christians. We are not "nondenominational," which is very different from being non-religious. We are the Nones– we don't identify with a religion, but that doesn't mean we aren't spiritually connected to the Divine. To read more on this topic from Rev Karla, be sure to check out her blog post.
More resources for this episode include: E22 The Radicalization of Christianity, We're at the End of White Christian America, Paula White’s Sermon Comment About ‘Satanic Pregnancies’, Trump's Bible Fail, In U.S., Decline of Christianity Continues at Rapid Pace
In this episode, Rev Karla invites you to explore mysticism and understand that there are many different ways to look at Jesus and Christianity. This episode is for the unchurched, the spiritual but not religious, the seeker, the spiritual nomad, the one who knows that spirituality is larger than what can be held inside of organized religion. We will discuss how we can recognize and unlearn some of the biases we learned through religion and how mysticism can heal our hearts and expand our souls. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.
Additional resources for this episode include: What is God?, Crusades, Inquisition, Reformation, The mystical Jesus and non-dualism, Reclaiming the mystical interpretation of the Resurrection, Part I: The Fourth Gospel: Tales of a Jewish Mystic, Part II Introducing The Fourth Gospel: Tales of a Jewish Mystic, The Battle For Eucharist, The Mystical Christ, What Buddha Didn't Say About God, The Inside Story of a Controversial New Text About Jesus, Is the Apocrypha canonical? Does it carry the weight of 'Scripture'?, What did Jesus mean when He said, “The kingdom of God is within you” (Luke 17:21, KJV)?
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the spring equinox and the spiritual wisdom we can learn from it. Cultures and communities have been recognizing or celebrating the spring or vernal equinox dating back to ancient civilizations. Religions around the world have added their own religious holidays around the spring equinox, creating many different ways to celebrate. This is a time to welcome new beginnings, and plant seeds for success for the coming year. There is symbolism and wisdom in this season of warmth returning, Rev Karla offers some contemplative questions to spend time answering in your journaling practice, or you could talk a walk to connect with the earth, or create an altar of gratitude for things in your life. For more on this topic from Rev Karla, read her blog post.
Additional resources for this episode include: What is the Spring Equinox?, Vernal Equinox, Simple Ways to Celebrate the Spring Equinox, Stonehenge, Solstice Tours, Timeless Spring
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the different types of Christians you will meet and how understanding the differences can help you on your spiritual journey. With hundreds of Christian denominations, if you want to be a part of one, it is important that you understand the theology they stand for. Rev Karla discusses the difference between Protestants, Evangelicals, Fundamentalists, Conservatives, and Progressive Christians to help you understand which theology you might agree with most. It's important to not let any of these labels limit your spiritual journey. Your spirituality can ebb and flow through these as you explore what works for you. And for some, the expectations and obligations of the church are not for them at all. To read more on this topic from Rev Karla, check out her blog post.
Additional recourses for this episode include: Religious Composition of Conservatives, The 3 Types of Christians We See Today, Classification of Protestant Denominations, Conservatives Who Are Christian, Defining 'Evangelical', Evangelical Christians Must Take Action to Love Thy Neighbor, Evangelicals Vs. Fundamentalists, White Christian Radicalization is a Violent Threat, Why Faith Voters Should Stick with Trump, Religious Group Voting and the 2020 Election, White Evangelical Christians Stick by Trump Again, The Changing Religious Composition of the U.S., Religious Composition of U.S. Adults, Why Are Christians Such Bad Tippers?, Hello Flat Earth, Flat Earth Vs. Round Earth
In this episode, Rev Karla talks about what it's like to be in the spiritual wilderness after leaving church. People leave church for a number of reasons, but one of them may actually be spiritual maturity. You may have realized, your spirituality is a sacred connection between you and the Divine and can exist outside of organized religion. Rev Karla helps you find your next steps in deconstructing your religious beliefs and exploring what religious practices work for you. You are not alone on this journey, Rev Karla reads from religious leaders throughout history and their interpretation of the spiritual wilderness.
To read more on this topic from Rev Karla, check out her blog post. You can watch the video version of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube Channel.
Additional Resources for this episode include: Wilderness Spirituality, The Dark Night of the Soul, John of the Cross, The Christological Controversies, Why Most People Leave Religion, Why America's 'nones' Left Religion Behind, Why Millennials Are Really Leaving Religion, What is Christian Mysticism?, The Mystics, What is a Christian Mystic?, Centering Prayer, Sufi Islam, 5 Lessons We Should Learn from Christ's Time in the Wilderness, Part III Mathew: The Shadow of Moses Continues, What is Mysticism?, Christian Mysticism, and The Stages of Spiritual Growth.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses what it really means to be kind by going back to the dictionary definition as well as the Bible's definition. She deconstructs why kindness is sometimes viewed as a weakness based on how you were raised and how you can break those cycles to be kind and brave at the same time. It is important to first be kind to yourself so that you know how to better show kindness to others. Rev Karla also explains the difference between being actively generous and kind versus passive or harmless generosity and which one you can practice in order to grow spiritually.
To read more from Rev Karla on this topic, check out her blog post.
Additional resources for this episode include: Are Fears Of Self-Compassion Holding Us Back?, Are You Hiding Yourself in Fear of Being Fully Seen?, Deconstructing the Fear of Rejection, Why Is Kindness Sometimes Associated with Weakness?, Why Kindness Is A Strength, Not A Weakness, Being Kind When It’s Seen as a Weakness, Is Your Kindness Viewed as Weakness?
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the story of St. Valentine, the different definitions of love mentioned in the Bible, and some emotional triggers around love which can include the phrase, "Love always wins." Prince Harry and Megan Markle received some backlash when they said it in their new podcast, but what they said holds true. Love can win. We are each responsible for how we give love and how love shows up in our life. Rev Karla leaves you with the reminder that love starts within and you must truly love yourself and heal yourself for your spiritual growth.
To read more on this topic, read Rev Karla's blog post.
Resources for this episode include: Love Wins by Rob Bell, Does Love Always Win?, When Love Doesn't Win, 4 Types of Love in the Bible, What Does the Bible Really Say About Love?, How the British Press Treats Meghan Markle Differently from Kate Middleton, UK Media’s Coverage of Meghan Markle Really is Racist, What it Really Means to be in Love
In this episode, Rev Karla has some questions for you to consider about your religious beliefs. Because of how radicalized Christianity has become, many people have decided to leave organized religion and enter the spiritual wilderness. This is a sacred space to grow spiritually and heal emotionally and psychologically. The path to healing challenging, but don't give up, Beloved. You are not alone. No one religion owns God and God is big enough to share. There is room for you at this table of spirituality. You can heal from your religious trauma.
From more on this topic from Rev Karla, read her blog post.
Additional resources for this episode include: The Crusades, Why Christianity Must Change or Die by John Shelby Spong, Love Wins by Rob Bell, Resurrecting Jesus by Adyashanti, Leaving the Fold by Marlene Winell, E19 The Radicalization of American Christianity
In this episode, Rev Karla continues the conversation started in her viral TikTok, "The Radicalization of American Christianity" as well as a blog post. She encourages Christians to question their church's role in the radicalization of Christianity in America and analyze their own internal biases. There is so much work to still be done. This is just the beginning.
You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.
Resources for this episode include: The full video in Rev Karla's TikTok, Data on People Leaving Church, American Christianity's White Supremacy Problem, The Theological Roots of White Supremacy, Louie Giglio Mentions "White Blessing"
Recommended Books: Religious Intolerance in America, How to Be Anti-Racist, White Fragility
In this episode Rev Karla discusses forgiveness. Forgiveness is hard, it's a journey. We start learning about forgiveness as children on the playground and it's a big topic across most religions, especially Christianity. There are many mistranslations in scripture around forgiveness, many of us may not have a great understanding of what forgiveness is, or even mistake it for repentance. Forgiveness is about you and your journey of healing from the pain they caused. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.
More resources for this episode include: What is Forgiveness?, Matthew 5:39, Luke 6:29, Ho'opono Pono Ke Ala
In this episode, Rev Karla is claiming activism to be sacred and Holy. What is sacred activism? How do we find our calling? We look to Andrew Harvey as an example of how to look at sacred activism. Rev Karla looks back at some sacred activists throughout history including Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., the Dalai Lama, Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Rosa Parks and Desmond Tutu. We all have the power of each of these great change-makers and sacred activists to make a difference, to stand up to injustices, and to be a sacred activist. It starts with some inner work to make sure we are coming from a place of kindness and compassion. You can read from Rev Karla on sacred activism in her blog post.
Other resources for this episode include: How to Set Boundaries with Kindness, What Does it Really Mean to Be Kind?, 24 Quotes About Kindness, 7 Ways to Be Kind When You Really Don't Want To
In this episode, Rev Karla takes us on a trip through the history of how the dangerous intersection of religion and politics has continuously harmed our fair democracy, up to the point of the events on January 6, 2021. We’ve seen these injustices since the AIDS Crisis and the Reagan Administration and Jim Crow Laws and more. What do we do now? How do we hold those in power, those around us, and ourselves accountable? The end of White Christian America is coming and as America continues to become less religious and we continue to elect people that represent our diverse population, what change can we expect, and fight for, in the coming years?
You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post and the 6 part TikTok series on Radical Christianity. Rev Karla also recommends that you listen to the NPR Podcast White Lies, watch the Netflix series The Family, and read Religious Intolerance in America.
In this episode, Rev Karla invites you to leave the chaos of 2020 behind and make room for reflection and positive energy going into 2021. There is wisdom in the chaos and the challenges that we overcame. Be grateful for your strength and the lessons you learned and use them to be better in the future. You can read more on this from Rev Karla in this week's blog post.
Resources for this episode include: Moral Majority, White Christians are now a minority of the U.S. population, We're at the end of white Christian American. What will that mean?, Party of Reagan? No, Party of Falwell, Writer Says, Religion and Right-Wing Politics: How Evangelicals Reshaped Elections
In this episode, Rev Karla will guide you through a contemplative journal practice with questions to help you reflect on 2020 and move into the new year feeling refreshed and ready for whatever new challenges the future holds. Grab your journal and get comfortable– 2020 is a lot to reflect on. Rev Karla ends by answering the question: Do you believe in the afterlife? You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the sacredness in the history of the Winter Solstice. You will learn how the yule log tradition originated and the wisdom that sits here in the shortest day and longest night of the year. Rev Karla answers the question: Can I practice witchcraft and still be a Christian? You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the difference between religious and cultural appropriation and respecting and accepting religions outside of your own. She also explores the sacredness of Hanukkah, and Divine wisdom in Buddhism, and the Holy connection of Zoroastrianism. There is Divine wisdom in all world religions that can help you on your spiritual journey. How do you connect your soul to Divine wisdom? Rev Karla wraps up the episode by answering her own question: Why all of this in December? You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla on her blog post.
More resources for this episode include: Eschatology, Prayer Beads, The Use of Trees as Symbols in World Religions, Pope Says Sorry for Sins of Church, A Brief History of Anti-Semitism, Anti-Semitism in the US, Overview of Christian Anti-Semitism, How Anti-Semitism Rises on the Left and Right, Jews Killed Jesus, Pope Finds Jews Not to Blame for Death of Jesus, Pope John Paul II Ignored Sex Abuse Allegations, Why is Jerusalem so Important to American Evangelical Christians?
In this episode, Rev Karla invites you to explore the many religious holidays happening this time of year, not just your own. And this isn't to say not to celebrate Christmas, or the celebration of your choosing, but to pause and make room for all the spiritual paths. We say Happy Holidays to include all religions, not to exclude a single one. There is room for all of us here, and there is no war on Christmas. Rev Karla finishes the episode by answering the question: Do we need His authority or approval to do anything? This question was in reference to Pope Francis endorsing same-sex marriage. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla on her blog post.
More resources on religious holidays for the this episode include: Interfaith Calendar 2020, 14 Religious Holidays Believers Celebrate in December, December Religious Holidays, What is Ashura?
In this episode, Rev Karla invites you to reflect on 2020 with a Spiritual Reset. She begins the reflection by explaining the flight, fright, freeze, or fawn response one might have to a threat like a global pandemic. We have to address this to be able to set intentional goals to rebalance our heart mind and soul connection and have spiritual growth in the new year. We wrap up the episode with the question: How can I say I am spiritual if I am associated with a religion? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.
More resources for this episode include: What is Cortisol?, How to Increase Serotonin, The Golden Rule
In this Episode, Rev Karla invites you on a Gratitude Journey. How is gratitude showing up in your life? This Thanksgiving season may look different for many of us than it has in the past. Rev Karla talks you through a 5-day contemplative practice to consider what is arising for you and how it feeds your soul. You can listen day-by-day, or all at once, you can sit, walk or dance while you listen, but you may want to keep a journal nearby to write down your thoughts and answer some questions.
7:37 Day 1: We start with The Gratitude Journal as a way to develop healthy habits and better health for peace of mind. Rev Karla invites you to explore our capacity to express gratitude for the blessings in our lives and how we can do it more frequently.
11:13 Day 2: We look for Blessings in the Gathering and how we can expand our expressions of gratitude to allow the heart to be fully open and grateful for those who will be celebrating the holidays with you.
17:04 Day 3: We explore the importance of showing up as your authentic self. Are you being seen for who you really are by the people you surround yourself with?
20:47 Day 4: There can be chaos and pain in seeing your family for the holidays, but you can Guard Your Heart While Extending Grace. Set boundaries to help you heal and work forwards forgiveness.
28:31 Day5: The path to gratitude must run through humility. We can smooth our rough edges to align with our inward journey. Rev Karla references a song by Nicole Nordeman here.
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In this episode of Spirituality Matters, Rev Karla asks, is heaven on earth possible? What would that look like for you? Would Jesus approach this in a political way? Rev Karla encourages you to ask yourself in what ways you are helping to create heaven on earth. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the many different ways God has been described throughout history and across religions. Who is God? What is the definition of God for you? Is God male or female? Is God even mentioned in the Bible? Rev Karla discusses how God has been portrayed as an elder white man many times throughout Hollywood, and how great it was to see Octavia Spencer change that in The Shack. Rev Karla argues that replacement theology certainly played a role in the many names for God across religions. She also mentions a few of her favorite mystics and their views on God including John Henson, Julian Norwich and St. Anselm. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.
Rev Karla recites part of The Canticle of Creation by St. Francis of Assisi as a reference of many names for God. She also notes several times in the Bible that God is referenced as something other than the masculine figure Hollywood shows us:
Hosea (11:3-4,13:8) God is described as a mother and a mother bear.
Deuteronomy (32:18) God gives birth.
Isaiah (49:15) God is a pregnant woman crying out in pain.
Jeremiah (44:25), Queen of Heaven.
Matthew (23:37) a Mother Hen.
Proverbs as Lady Wisdom
Luke (15:8-10) a woman looking for her lost coin.
Deuteronomy (32:11-12) says, God will care for us just as a mother eagle
Rev Karla would like you to check out some of her favorites on TikTok for more open discussion on what God can mean for different people. There is no wrong way to welcome God in your life, there is room for you at this table.
@chosenfamilychurch, @revbrandanrobertson, @almostpastor, @pastordrewingram, @revcharlesgiv, @goodshepherdabq, @wisdoldllamaman, @holytrinitywenonah, @kelleyatgrace
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the hateful language often spewed by Christians in an attempt to condemn others for their spirituality. She explains how this behavior is inherently un-Christian, sinful, and plays a role in people leaving church or organized religion altogether. Rev Karla includes tips on how to respond to this language, and asks you to analyze the language you use towards others. She reminds us that there are many paths to God, just in Christianity alone, and all of them are sacred. Rev Karla wraps up the episode as she answers the question: Why aren't you afraid of other religions? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses Halloween, All Saint's Day, All Soul's Day, Samhain, and the intersection of many religions and spiritual practices in this last week of October and into November with these sacred holidays. You are encouraged to grab a journal for this episode as we explore sorrow, grief and loss that arises in these celebrations as we move into the darkness of the season. Rev Karla answers the question: Do you have any tips for dealing with religious trauma? She also covers this topic frequently in TikTok videos if you would like to know more on how to heal from religious trauma. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.
References for this episode include: The History and Traditions behind All Saint's Day, information on some of her favorite Saints, and how some saints became martyrs after death. Rev Karla talks about her favorite Saints and biblical inspirations including St. Patrick, The Apostles, and Archangels Michael, Gabriel and Raphael. Desmond Tutu and Mother Teresa are also inspirations to Rev Karla.
Rev Karla also references learnreligions.com many times in this episode as well and encourages you to explore there to learn more about world religions.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how our souls speak to God. She invites you to look at the way you pray and what you pray for. Prayer can be many things – chanting, painting, a meditative walk. What does your soul need to connect to the Holy? Rev Karla answers the question: How can a relationship work with different religious/spiritual views? You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses some harmful phrases used in religion. "Everything happens for a reason." "God must have needed an angel." "God helps those who help themselves." If you have ever heard these phrases, you may have thought it was scripture – they're not. Rev Karla dissects these phrases and just how unhelpful and even hurtful they can be, especially when directed at someone who is grieving or struggling. Rev Karla answer a big question in this episode: Are you pro-life or pro-choice? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.
Resources for this episode include: 11 Things You Think Are in The Bible, but Really Aren't, 5 Christian Phrases That Aren't in the Bible, 7 Phrases Christians Like to Say That Aren't Biblical, 64 of the Worst Things Ever Said to a Griever, Dumb Things People Say from the Hospice Foundation, The political abortion scandal referenced in this episode, and Half Truths by Adam Hamilton.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the challenges of being spiritual in a religious world. But remember, Beloved, your spiritual path is between you and God, it is sacred and unique, and is not contingent upon anyone else's approval. Rev Karla also answers the question: "Can you elaborate on what religious trauma is?" You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.
Rev Karla's resources discussed in the episode include: People Leaving Church, How Many Christians Worldwide?, Spiritual but not Religious, Father Richard Rohr and his Newsletter, Mirabai Starr and her writing in Fr. Richard's Newsletter, Wayne Teasdale, Adam Bucko and his writing in Fr. Richard's Newsletter, Religious Trauma, Leaving the Fold by Dr. Winell
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how spiritual growth can happen in this time of the unknown. "Normal" is likely to not return, but we can change what "normal" is – for the better. Rev Karla also answers the question: Do you support other religions such as witchcraft, Buddhism, or Islam? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.
Rev Karla's sources for this episode include:Coronavirus Has Quieted the Earth, The Pandemic is Turning the Natural World Upside Down, Fake Animal News Abounds on Social Media, Why Public Education isn't Working, Is There a Crisis: Public Education in this Country, US Once a Leader for Healthcare and Education – Now Ranks 27th, Measuring Human Capital, Coping with Stress During the Pandemic, Depression Has Skyrocketed During the Pandemic, These Companies Plan to Make Working From Home the New Normal
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the autumn equinox, its history, traditions, and spiritual practices to help ground you during this season of change. Grab your journal and your favorite fall drink and reflect on the year so far – it's been an intense one. The shift has begun, Beloved, and there is sacredness all around. Rev Karla answers a popular question: What does it mean to be spiritual but not religious and how do I start my spiritual journey? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post. Rev Karla also recommended What is the Bible by Rob Bell and A History of God by Karen Armstrong for you to check out.
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how sin has been weaponized throughout history, the definition of sin, and how to release yourself from others' judgment of your sins. Sin should never be used as a weapon to condemn others, but rather as an invitation for inner growth. Rev Karla answers the question of how to get your faith back. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla on her blog at numasoul.com.
The "clobber verses" mentioned in this episode are most often used to judge the LGBTQ humans. Remember those have been taken out of historical context and mistranslated -- and the word "homosexual" never even appeared in the Bible until 1946.
Genesis 19:4–25 (the story of Sodom and Gomorrah)
Leviticus 18:22 (“You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female.”)
Leviticus 20:13 (“If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act.”)
Romans 1:26–27 (“The men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts.”)
1 Corinthians 6:9–11 (“Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.”)
1 Timothy 1:9–10 (“Law is not made for a righteous person, but for those who are lawless and rebellious, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers and immoral men and homosexuals and kidnappers and liars and perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound teaching.”)
Books recommended in this episode include Falling Into Grace and Resurrecting Jesus both by Adyashanti. You can find both at numasoul.com.
Other resources for this episode include:
One problem with Kim Burrell's 'hate the sin, love the sinner' argument, Hate the Sin and Love the Sinner, The Bible: So Misunderstood It's a Sin, Homosexuality: Not a Sin, Not a Sickness Part II, Does the Bible NOT oppose Homosexuality, My quest to find the word 'homosexual' in the Bible
In this episode, Rev Karla discusses religious trauma, why people may choose to leave church, and what it means to be spiritual but not religious. Rev Karla asks you to reflect on your spirituality and how you connect to God. If you have thought about leaving church or questioned theology, this episode will be helpful for you. Every relationship with God is uniquely Divine, explore what works for you. You can download Rev Karla's book recommendations on her website. If you want more from Rev Karla on this topic, check out her blog post.
Welcome to Spirituality Matters with Rev Karla. In this episode, Rev Karla talks about her religious background and the journey that brought her to starting this podcast. You can learn more about Rev Karla on her website.