To Unbecome 101: Recent Episodes
Alfred J.
What’s up beautiful soul, welcome to the land of unbecoming where halves become whole and dreams become reality! This show was built to inspire oneness, harmony, and unconditional love channeled through these questions: Who am I?, What is it that I TRULY desire?, and Why have I come here to experience life on Earth? With both personal and professional experience, Alfred J. uses practical exercises that are deployable for use immediately following or during the episode to help each listener find the answers within themselves. Join an experience with aims towards the dissolution of ego and identity rediscovery through unbecoming and reconditioning the original trained self in order to live our most authentic life. Alfred J. Wants you to be a part of this growing community and family, so don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications for new content. See you in the future!
In this episode of "To Unbecome Podcast we talk mastering Your Wealth Mindset: Balancing 9 to 5 and Entrepreneurship.We will delve into the dynamic world of wealth mindset, exploring the balance between working a traditional 9 to 5 job and pursuing entrepreneurship. They tackle key themes related to money management, financial success, and the shifting landscape of work.The episode begins by discussing the importance of a wealth mindset and how it can impact one's financial journey. Listeners gain valuable insights into the power of positive thinking and proactive financial planning.I will share stories of navigating both paths of entrepreneurship and working a 9 to 5 job, shedding light on the challenges and rewards of each. Throughout the episode, practical tips and strategies are shared to help listeners strike a balance between stable employment and entrepreneurial endeavors. The conversation touches on the significance of building multiple income streams and the role of risk-taking in financial growth.The episode concludes with a focus on personal development and the role of continuous learning in achieving financial success. Listeners are encouraged to adopt a growth-oriented mindset and take actionable steps towards their financial goals by recognizing their money beliefs by asking themselves the difficult questions and answering truthfully to gain a personal insight. This episode serves as a valuable resource for anyone looking to gain a deeper understanding of money, entrepreneurship, and how to develop a wealth mindset that empowers them to thrive in both the 9 to 5 world and the realm of entrepreneurship.
The inner child is a symbolic child version of you that can be talked to, healed, supported, and guided to help you make changes when living life and feel compassion for your current and past selves. Not everyone may feel in touch with their child within. However, their childhood self may come out in behaviors, emotional reactions, or communication styles during times of extreme emotion. These behaviors might look like trying to receive reassurance from a partner, crying from overwhelm, or having the urge to yell when you have a bad day. An inner child may also show themself positively through playful behaviors, joking, adventurousness, impulsivity, creativity, and imagination. Some common themes in adulthood that people may address or discuss when they do inner child work include:* Self-sabotage * Self-defeating behavior * Passive-aggressive behavior * Anger challenges * Emotional suppression or repression * Insecure attachment * Difficulty letting go of the past
A few benefits you might experience from inner child work can include the following: * Understanding your past * Feeling connected with yourself * Forgiving your caregivers or parents * Forgiving yourself * Imagining an ideal childhood * Feeling safe in your body and home * Feeling able to parent and care for yourself * Feeling able to be alone and independent
Stay tuned until the end where we will go into a guided vent session mediation, followed by a self-love guided meditation to close.
To Unbecome Podcast Season 2Episode 2 “F*@# Love, NAH…I want that!”In this episode we’re discussing connections, intimate relationships, social media connections, the history of marriage, and heart & brain harmony.Hey there and welcome to, ToUnbecome Podcast. This show was built to inspire oneness, harmony, and unconditional love channeled through these questions: Who am I?, What is it that I TRULY desire?, and Why have I come here to experience life on Earth? With both personal and professional experience, NaQuia. uses practical exercises that are deployable for use immediately following or during the episode to help each listener find the answers within themselves. She includes guided meditation and breath-work to each episode taking the listeners on an interactive journey to self healing. Join an experience with aims towards the dissolution of ego and identity rediscovery through unbecoming and reconditioning the original trained self in order to live our most authentic life. NaQuia wants you to be a part of this growing community, connecting deeper on a soul level, so don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications for new content. See you in the future!Catch up on last week’s episode, “Happiness…Where?” And while you’re at it go ahead & follow the show.Follow To Unbecome on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, and/or iHeartRadioWe will also be releasing visuals for the podcast on my YouTube Channel: NaQuia Lowery; Go ahead and subscribe now and turn on those notifications 🔔Are you guys as excited as I am?Have questions you want us to answer on the show? Send them to: ToUnbecomeCoaching@gmail.comDon’t forget episodes are release every other Thursday‼️ #podcast #podcasting #podcastersofinstagram #applepodcasts #selfmastery #tounbecomepodcast #tounbecomecoaching #happiness #love #relationships #relationshipgoals #marriage #marriagegoals #selflove #selfcare #selfhealing #healing #selfhealingjourney #spotifypodcasts #spotify #iheartradio #amazonmusic #youtubepodcast #googlepodcast #relationshiproles #genderroles
In this season debut episode we discuss what it means to be happy first by defining it and then how we can practically apply it to our lives. We explore how social media opens the door to measuring and comparing ourselves to others asking ourselves what contributions are we making in our own lives. We discuss the discovery of what truly makes us happy and also how to release happiness guilt for a higher quality life experience. Lastly, we provide our personal routines that allows us to remain at a state of happiness.
In season two there is a new addition to the team adding a new voice and perspective on topics that help shape our understanding of the world around us. Together we unpack topics on: Happiness, Money, Identity, Addiction, Health & Wellness, Religion & Belief, Overcoming Winter Blues (depression), and much more. Tap in with us to gain new sight and elevate your everyday life experiences. Together we build community and culminate ideas that strengthen us as individuals and a collective.
This week’s objective is to understand the hidden triggers and to identify the root of causation for old patterns and habits. We live in a realm of cause and effect; as above, so below. We must understand that no one simply desires to respond and react from their low frequency emotional patterns resulting in habits, but instead become consciously aware that individuals are dealing with pains that they have endured during their Earth Journey experience. We operate from our heart energy center and if it is threatened in any way, we develop and react from defense mechanisms. When old patterns surface, take that as an indication that your unconscious mind is at bay, and here is where the ego comes to play. We must look directly at the deep rooted pain site in order to effectively heal the pain and live a higher quality life.
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Tounbecome101
Music:
- Denim - Dreamland
- Young Me Dreaming - Carl Storm
- Static - Jeff Kaale
- Space Vibe - Alfred J.
- Loft Descent - Alfred J.
- Try to Say - Alfred J.
- Progression - Alfred J.
- Love it Here - Alfred J.
Links:
- https://www.simplypsychology.org/defense-mechanisms.html
- https://www.ddfsocialelearning.com/body-language-crossed-arms-mean/
Yo, am I ready? What up beautiful soul, this week’s lesson is in regard to readiness towards our goals, dreams, and transformation. When we transform we are taking on a new identity, and you have to be prepared to allow yourself to consume that new identity. It’s easy to fold back into our patterns of the things we know, but we owe it to ourselves, families, and humanity to bring forth a new thing. There are essentially 2 options: complain about what you asked/prayed for or rise up to the occasion. The choice is yours. Be sure to stick around as we will discuss simple techniques to ensure your readiness towards your aspirations and new identity which is ultimately the true version of you. Don’t forget to follow the show and share. 🤟🏾
Music
Play it Sam - Phillip E. Morris
Dreaming - Silicon Estate
Loft Descent - Alfred J
? - Jeff Kaale
Space Vibe - Alfred J
Love Yourself - Qui
Night Thoughts - Alfred J
Links
NaQuia (Meditations) : https://linktr.ee/NaQuia
Dr. Joe Dispenza: https://youtu.be/LZzP5NuNhy4
Dr. Bruce Lipton:
https://youtu.be/WSW2MszpK-0
Last week we discussed the power of commitment and we viewed it for what it really is…a frequency we must attune ourselves to. We all have dreams and goals of some degree, however many of us are still awaiting tangible results so much so that we are ready to quit the thing and even life altogether. What I encourage here is to conduct an assessment of our commitment, and we can locate it by realizing the topics of conversation we have as well as what we spend our 💵💴💶💷 on. Before we give up or give in, listen in to try these simple strategies. You have the strength to move forward and to keep going. Join our community where we push one another to grow in love, oneness, harmony, and universal consciousness.
Music by:
Cactus - Jeff Kaale
Barefoot - Summer Soul
Swimming- Summer Soul
I’m Your Puppy- Summer Soul
Commitment is connected to all things, everywhere. It is a vibration, an energy to be kept. In fact, commitment keeps itself and it is we who must train our human body vehicles to get in tune with it with great intention. This is a state of being that allows us to know that it can be captured and held. For a quick assessment, view the words you specifically use on a regular. Whatever topics you find yourself consistently talking in, is what you are committed to. But is that really what you desire to be committed to sincerely? Tune in for a quick tune up, see you there! Oh…and hit the share, we love to see new faces added to our tribe 🤟🏾
Yooo! What’s up beautiful soul. In this episode we talk about the importance of understanding personal value, how to increase value, and the importance of our enthusiastic behaviors. Of course we won’t be enthusiastic about life all the time, but we can indeed train ourselves to consistently glance through the lens of enthusiasm. It’s all about changing our perspectives and thought patterns we have picked up throughout our Earth Journeys in order to achieve oneness, harmony, universal consciousness, and unconditional love. Stick around to the end for your practical exercise on engaging habitual enthusiasm, and please don’t forget to follow the show and share it with a friend. Thanks for tuning in for a tune up!
What up beautiful soul! Thank you for tuning in for a tune up! Today we will be discussing cognitive distortions. Cognitive distortions are simply recurring experiences that blind us from our present reality which in result traps us into suffering and subtle self sabotaging, apathetic behaviors. It’s none of our faults, there is no one to blame…we pick up these distortions throughout our Earth journeys. Together we will learn how to identify them and how to rid ourselves from these views that hinder us from a more loving, harmonious, high quality life. See you there!
Greetings beautiful people! This channel was built to inspire oneness, universal consciousness, and unconditional love through lectures and practical exercises. Alfred J. takes the listener on a path of learning with aims in the facilitation of ego and identity rehabilitation through unbecoming and reconditioning the original trained self. We will remove constructs and blinders that hold us back from ourselves and our neighboring souls. The overall goal is to guide others along their Earth journey to rediscover themselves and to learn how to participate in their daily unfolding. It is the channel that shows how TO DEVELOP CONFIDENCE IN THE UNKNOWN. Alfred J. Wants you to be a part of this growing community and family, so don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications for new content. See you all soon!
What’s going on beautiful soul? Such an honor to spend this moment with you, sincerely. Here in this episode we discuss the imperativeness of having a specified aim and direction, without it we drift. Much like a ship in the middle of the vast, wide ocean WITHOUT a rudder or sail (elements built on to provide a sense of purposeful direction), we inevitably drift into nothingness without setting intentions for our lives. The human literally needs to aim at something, otherwise the soul of the human body vehicle will become lost. Tune in to get a tune up. Again, thank you for stopping in and don’t forget to join our To Unbecome community on the Geneva app. Simply just download it to your device, search for our name, and follow along on the journey. See you in the future!
We are all power, all beauty, all creation, all life bundled into this temporary host where here in the land of Unbecoming we call the Human Body Vehicle. With all of our magnificence, abilities, and apt to persistently evolve, the one thing that seems to trip us up throughout our personal lives, careers, education, belief systems, and society in general, is neurological activity we call the ego. Most of our inner chatter that runs on a loop of superiority and inferiority is pressed by the presence of the ego or resistance. What would it be like to live a life free of the ego? How would society run? In this video discussion we talk about how to identify the mind’s ego, what it is and how it can sound within the chatter that happens in our minds, and we identify a few constructs that have been built through the lens to the ego. This video is intended to generate conversation through simple awareness. I encourage you to live free of the ego and remove any ideologies that place a layer of resistance for you to thrive in this life experience. Find your happy.
As always, thank you for tuning in. Don’t forget to hit the subscribe and like button to place this content into your algorithm for personal awareness and growth.
Affirmations:
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Breathe and say, “I cherish THIS moment of life”
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I am all power and I’m flawed which makes me equal to others
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I respect my boundaries and the boundaries of others. I love freely and accept oneness into my life.
With harmony,
Theo J.