Take a peek into the life of a woman ( fictional ) who goes through all the ups and downs life. She wants you to know its okay to be going through what you are going through, its okay to be selfish as a mom , to be bored as a wife and to be mess in general. You are a Grown Woman still figuring things out. Pour some wine , put your feet up and relate. You got it babe.
Oh man ,this is a good one. In this episode I speak on difficult female relationships and I was leaning more on females because I can relate. We barely talk about this enough ,but we have all of these shows eg Housewives ,Basketball wives whose goal is meant to portray women as " Difficult " and " Ungoverened ,but are we really?
It's okay to outgrow friendships and it's okay to feel sad about it too...
And if you fell or are currently falling in love with a situationship this episode is for you too.
Hello , welcome back to the podcast I am Grown Woman ,with your host Ms Bee.
I had taken a little hiatus but I'm back and very much excited for this year.
On this episode I touch on relaxing in your season and allowing time to carry you where you are supposed to be.
I am in my late twenties about to be married, losing friends, unsure about my career decisions so I know I am totally relatable.
What does being loved right mean? To each their own , but we all have a common ground when it comes to belief and core values.
In this episode I speak about knowing your love languages, defining your own happiness and avoiding being an emotional manipulator.
Compromising is more of a “we” situation. We decide
We meet halfway
We share ideas
We listen
On the other self sacrificing is editing yourself for approval , you just take whatever is thrown at you..
Which one are you??
In the very first episode I titled Black Women can’t keep friends I spoke about my friendships I have had in the past and all the challenges that came with these friendships, so in this episode I decided to expand more on why it’s okay to outgrown friendships.
So much time and effort is put into romantic relationships because that’s the norm I guess and societal expectations require us to stay in friendships forever.
Alas , that’s not how things work , people change , we can’t bound friendships because of history. It merely becomes an obligation.
Just my two cents anyways
Love and light
Hey loves
Welcome to season 3 of the I am Grown Woman . In this episode I talk about the choice society throws at us between being a career woman vs being a stay at home mum and wife and the stigmatization that also comes with these choices.
I also look at how on the other hand while women are blessed to carry their own kids biology doesn't allow us to extend chasing careers for a long time (for some women as there comes many difficulties, as some celebrities have been very open about this even some people we know around us).
At the end of the day. Whatever makes you. Serene right ??
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ntinisibongile@gmail.com
Hope on losers , times have changed. Women are now more confident, daring , sexy , powerful and dominant when it comes to sex.
They ooze Sexual confidence and pride.
In this episode I spoke on all the different ways one can achieve sexual fulfillment.
It’s very important to know the terms of the relationship you are in and to be intentional with our decisions to avoid hurting other people.
I even brought out my sexy voice just for you haha.
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ntinisibongile@gmail.com
I read somewhere that Cohabitation is just living together with no commitments but with lots of free sex?
To each their own right?
In this episode I debunk the myths and truths wrapped around Cohabitation and Marriage.
I look at how different cultures deal with this and I guess the underlying question is what do you prefer ??
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ntinisibongile@gmail.com
Every Vagina is different but there is basic knowledge that we all share as women , in terms of taking care of it.
We know the vagina naturally cleanses itself by way of discharge. In this episode I touch on common tips on keeping the vagina fresh and healthy
-sex
- diet
-contraceptives
-period
These are some of the things that affect the ph balance of the vagina.
I hope it was insightful.
I haven’t forgotten the men , Part two is coming and will be much more broad.
I know I am a day late but Happy Women's day Queens.
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Hey kings and queens …
Welcome to season 2 of I’m a Grown Woman. Had taken a little break to get my house in order.
You see the title and I know what you are thinking , but hold up. In this episode I talk about the concept of dating and what it means , I break it apart into modern dating and what it was back in the good old days.
Men have it easy I swear.
Love always….
In this final episode of Black Women Must Die exhausted I dig deep into the folds of my heart and share with you the experience that had me breaking and unraveling in ways I didn’t know I could.
At the end of the tunnel there was a big light that later on became an epiphany.. No one must die exhausted because they can’t figure out how to love a person a right or how a person can love them right.
Look in the mirror .. figure out that reflection looking back at you
Love always
Dating is a complex and broad subject among different cultures. In this episode I introduce some characters I have dated that have impacted my relationships now. This is just Part 3 of a more interesting topic you might want to tune in on.
We are almost getting to the good part.
Love always
Dating is a complex and broad subject among different cultures. In this episode I introduce some characters I have dated that have impacted my relationships now. This is just Part 2 of a more interesting topic you might want to tune in on.
Love always
Dating is a complex and broad subject among different cultures. In this episode I introduce some characters I have dated that have impacted my relationships now. This is just Part 1 of a more interesting topic you might want to tune in on.
Please forgive the background noise at the end, I’m working on it.
Love always.
Low Maintenance friendship requires the least amount of upkeep to the relationship. Is it a facade for bad friendship skills or it’s really a safe space.
In this episode we look at how the dynamics of friendships change as we grow older and how it’s important that friendships we have built in our teens are supposed to carry us through the rest of our adult lives.
Much love.
Men have succeeded at understanding our weakness more than us. They know us women can’t be friends with each other. We are mean and see the world on a one sided mirror.
In this episode I analyze all my friendships and what went wrong, best believe… I wasn’t a victim just a bad friend.
I hope it helps you maneuver through your relationships and also help you to always be ready to be the bigger person.
Watch out for part two.
Love always.