The Oh Crap! Potty Training Podcast: Recent Episodes
Jamie Glowacki
Author and parenting expert Jamie Glowacki expands on her book Oh Crap! Potty Training in a new podcast miniseries that takes you step by step through the often arduous but rewarding journey of teaching your kid how to take care of their business on their own.
In this episode, I dive into some of the pitfalls parents often encounter when potty training, especially when they follow advice from sources that might not be as credible as they seem. I talk about why relying solely on your pediatrician for potty training guidance might not be the best move—they simply don’t have the time or specialization needed to tackle this milestone effectively. I also address the issue of pseudonym authors in the potty training world, stressing the importance of checking credentials and trusting advice from those with real, hands-on experience. I caution against those quick-fix, three-day potty training methods that can set you and your child up for failure. With nearly 15 years of experience and almost a million copies of my book out there, I’m here to help you navigate this process with patience, consistency, and credible, tailored advice.
(00:05:56) Potty Training: Why Not Rely on Pediatricians
(00:07:28) Credible Sources in Potty Training Guidance
(00:10:06) Expertise in Potty Training Solutions
(00:13:04) Tailored Approaches for Potty Training Success
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Today, I'm talking about when potty training just isn't going well. Ever feel like you're at your wit's end and everything's chaotic? That's when it's time for a Potty Training Reset. I'll explain how to start fresh without sending the wrong message to your kiddo. We’ll talk about the sweet spot for starting potty training, ideally between 20 to 30 months, and why waiting until the last minute isn't the best plan. Plus, I’m breaking down the nitty-gritty of night and nap diaper training—yes, it’s just as important! We’ll go over strategies to help prevent those pesky withholding behaviors and ensure your little one is on the right track. So, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, tune in for some sanity-saving tips to get your potty training journey back on course!
(00:00:02) Potty Training Refresh: Starting Anew Wisely
(00:05:25) Optimal Timing for Potty Training Onset
(00:08:06) Early Start Prevents Potty Training Delays
(00:10:19) Withholding Behaviors and Nighttime Potty Training
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I'm tackling the big one: expectations versus reality in potty training. Let's get real, folks—unrealistic expectations can mess with your head and make the whole process way more stressful than it needs to be. We’ll talk about how to manage those expectations, stay flexible, and keep an open mind. Every kid learns at their own pace, and they’re going to hit bumps along the way. I’ll share some tips on staying emotionally sober—yes, we need that in parenting too! Think of potty training like learning to walk—it’s all about baby steps, mistakes, and gradual progress. Join me as I help you navigate this journey with patience and a sense of humor. You’ve got this!
(00:01:57) Managing Expectations in Potty Training Process
(00:01:57) Flexible Parenting Approaches for Child Development
(00:01:57) Cultivating Resilience and Grace in Parenting
(00:08:45) Progressive Nature of Child Learning
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Hey, hey, you guys! Today, I dive into the concept of the inner 'f it,' where kids might show aggressive behavior due to being sick of the process. It's crucial to recognize when your child is struggling and to provide the right support without overwhelming them with excessive praise or criticism. Acknowledging small wins authentically helps foster self-esteem and confidence. I also emphasize the importance of parenting approaches that avoid burdening children with parental emotions, activating a child's inner pride instead of codependency. Tune in for practical advice on maintaining a balanced approach to potty training, ensuring you support your child through this developmental milestone with patience and empathy.
(00:00:57) Resisting Potty Training: Understanding Inner Struggles
(00:08:02) Encouraging Genuine Recognition of Children's Efforts
(00:10:56) Balancing Emotions in Potty Training Strategies
(00:16:23) Oh Crap Cafe and Poop Group Resources
(00:21:58) Balanced Approach to Potty Training Success
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I'm diving into the nitty-gritty of summer potty training. Summer is a fantastic time to potty train—less clothing, more time at home—but it comes with its own set of challenges. We'll talk about how travel plans and those beloved pool and beach days can throw a wrench in your potty training progress.
I'll be sharing why swim diapers can be a major setback and why it's crucial to manage your little one's fluid intake to avoid those pesky electrolyte imbalances. We’ll also cover why fruits like watermelon and grapes might be causing more nighttime accidents than you realize.
Plus, I can't stress enough the importance of dedicating enough time to really nail down those potty training skills. Forget the quick fixes and three-day promises—I'm here to help you do it right. Let's make this summer's potty training journey as smooth as possible!(00:02:34) Optimal Summer Environment for Potty Training
(00:06:51) Potty Training Challenges on Pool Days
(00:11:01) Electrolyte Imbalances from Excessive Hydration
(00:13:11) Balancing Electrolytes in Children's Diet
(00:18:56) Effective Potty Training Strategies for Parents
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Hey, hey! In this episode, I’m diving into the hot topic of poop withholding, again. Poop withholding isn’t about your kid not being "ready"—it's a muscular reaction to anxiety. To help, I’ve launched a Poop Withholding Course with HD videos, workbooks, and a supportive community. Understanding this issue early is crucial, as it ranges from mild to severe anxiety-driven behaviors. Plus, night and nap diapers can complicate things, as kids might hold it in until they're in a diaper again.
Also you guys, I just released the 10th Anniversary Revision of "Oh Crap! Potty Training," and we've added new content on night training and neurodivergence, reflecting the changing parenting landscape!
Tune in for insights and strategies to tackle this challenge.
(00:00:45) Inclusive Potty Training Guide for Modern Parenting
(00:04:10) Effective Strategies for Poop Withholding Challenges
(00:09:09) Anxiety-Induced Poop Withholding in Children
(00:12:58) Anxiety-Driven Poop Withholding in Children
(00:15:19) Bowel Holding Patterns and Diaper Usage Patterns
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Get ready for summer with me in this special episode as we revisit all the essential strategies for transitioning smoothly into the sunny season with your little ones, originally aired on Episode 132 of the Oh Crap! Parenting podcast. From tackling endless snacking dilemmas with protein-packed snack ideas to keeping boredom at bay with creative activities like marble runs and fort building, I've got you covered. Learn how to support your child through dysregulation and overwhelming environments while prepping them for new summer adventures with visual aids and effective communication. Dive into the delicate balance between education and play, and discover the importance of fostering physical and cognitive development through playful exercises and engaging activities. With practical tips for managing screen time and embracing slow summer moments, this episode is your ultimate guide to creating a harmonious and enjoyable summer environment for the whole family. Tune in and get ready to make this summer one to remember!
(00:01:40) Protein-Forward Snack Boards for Summer Fun
(00:08:30) Engaging Children Through Creative Activity Kits
(00:11:38) Supporting Children's Self-Advocacy and Coping Strategies
(00:17:54) Visual Aids for Kids' Transition Success
(00:21:36) Summer Break: Harmonizing Learning and Leisure
(00:27:10) Physical Play Enhances Child Development Skills
(00:33:53) Engaging Children Through Balanced Screen Time
(00:36:21) Balancing Work and Parenting with Screen Time
(00:47:21) Slow Summer Fun for Parents and Kids
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First off: listen till the end. There's lots of great info towards the end. Today, we are entering the world of magnesium with Dr. Barb Woegerer!
Dr. Barb Woegerer, a naturopathic doctor based in Vaughan, Ontario, Canada, specializes in women's health, stress management, and inflammatory conditions, with a key emphasis on the role of magnesium in overall health and wellness, especially in treating constipation. Together, we explore the different types of magnesium and their unique benefits. From improving sleep to addressing digestive issues and boosting energy levels, Dr. Barb shares valuable insights into the role of magnesium in overall health and wellness. Discover how magnesium deficiency can impact various health issues, and learn how to choose the right form of magnesium for your specific needs.
(00:01:42) Selecting the Right Magnesium Type for Health
(00:11:02) Citrate Magnesium for Effective Constipation Relief
(00:15:58) Comprehensive Assessment for Magnesium Deficiency Levels
(00:18:53) Magnesium Depletion Due to Chronic Stress
(00:31:26) Magnesium's Vital Role in Enzymatic Reactions
(00:33:51) Optimizing Magnesium Absorption for Better Health
(00:37:04) Optimizing Health with Specific Magnesium Forms
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Today, we're talking limit testing behavior in potty training. Kids often push boundaries by purposefully having accidents or making inappropriate statements to gauge parental reactions. I stress the significance of setting firm boundaries and remaining consistent in enforcing them, likening it to putting a fence around a yard for safety. It's essential to differentiate between behavior-driven accidents and physical issues like constipation, addressing underlying issues effectively. We explore the importance of establishing consistent parenting boundaries to ensure children's psychological safety and provide strategies for handling purposeful peeing incidents, including the use of toy timeouts. Join us as we navigate the challenges of disciplining and setting clear expectations to guide children's behavior and promote healthy development.
(00:00:55) Boundary Pushing in Potty Training Dynamics
(00:03:12) Emphasizing Consistent Boundaries for Effective Parenting
(00:06:37) Toy Timeout for Purposeful Peeing Incidents
(00:09:20) Setting Clear Expectations for Effective Discipline
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I'm coming at you with a little bit of tough love, today. We're talking behavioral issues that often get mistaken for potty training challenges. From playing in poop to uncontrollable diarrhea and refusal to wear clothes, these issues can be more than just about using the potty. I dive into each scenario, highlighting the importance of addressing underlying behavioral and parenting dynamics. Join me as we unravel the complexities and find practical solutions to support both children and parents on their potty training journey.
(00:00:53) Behavioral Issues: The Poop Play Connection
(00:02:59) Pediatric Uncontrollable Diarrhea: Seeking Medical Help
(00:03:42) Setting Boundaries for Children's Clothing Choices
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Transitioning back to daycare or preschool after spring break can be daunting, but fear not! In this episode, we dive into strategies to navigate this tricky phase. From understanding daycare bathroom setups to fostering open communication with providers, I've got you covered. Join me as we tackle the ins and outs of potty training during this transitional period and set your child up for success!
(00:00:02) Transitioning Back to Daycare Potty Training
(00:00:38) Potty Training at Daycare
(00:07:04) Potty Training Communication Strategies for Success
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In this episode of Oh Crap! Potty Training, we delve into the challenges of setting boundaries while navigating children's preferences, especially when dealing with kids who will only use a particular potty. From setting boundaries to navigating parental preferences, I delve into strategies for guiding children's behavior and fostering independence during the potty training journey. We explore how to support children through outings and using different restrooms while maintaining patience and consistency.
(00:02:45) Consistent Parenting for Healthy Child Relationships
(00:03:45) Setting Boundaries to Shape Children's Behavior
(00:08:45) Navigating Potty Training Outside the Home
(00:08:45) Potty Training Milestones and Child Empowerment
(00:08:45) Flexible Potty Training Approaches for Children
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I'm covering the key strategies and pitfalls of guiding your child through the potty training journey. From crowdsourcing potty training advice to prompting techniques and dealing with helicopter parenting, we discuss it all. I emphasize the importance of sticking to a solid plan tailored to your child's needs, steering clear of social media until well into the process to avoid conflicting advice overload. We explore the power of using statements, choices, and challenges during training, steering away from direct questioning to prevent power struggles. Plus, we debunk ineffective methods like sticker charts and threatening with diapers, offering insights into effective nighttime training approaches and debunking myths around bedwetting.
(00:01:34) Effective Potty Training Strategies for Individual Children
(00:06:15) Confident Guidance for Successful Potty Training
(00:11:07) The Pitfalls of Overbearing Potty Training
(00:13:50) The Pitfalls of Sticker Charts in Potty Training
(00:19:14) Effective Potty Training: Rip the Band Aid
Today, I'm diving deep into techniques and advice for tackling the common challenge of pee withholding with your little one. From understanding the levels of withholding to practical release tricks like blowing raspberries or singing, we explore strategies to make the potty a more comfortable place for your child. I also address the importance of knowing when it's time to seek professional help for extreme withholding. With patience, consistency, and understanding, we can help our children navigate the potty training process with confidence and success.
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Hey! Today, we dove into the essential topic of establishing solid sleep routines for our little ones. Joined by the insightful Erica Desper, we talked all things consistency, understanding your child's unique temperament, figuring out the right bedtime, and how light and activity impact sleep schedules. You know how vital consistency is, especially with hectic schedules, and we shared tips on maintaining that routine. We discussed understanding your child's temperament, because, let's face it, every kiddo is different. Figuring out the ideal bedtime based on wake time? Yup, we've got you covered. And, of course, we delved into the impact of light and activity on those precious sleep hours. Join us as we navigate the world of healthy sleep routines for your little ones, because well-rested kids are happy kids!
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Today we're tackling two major fronts yet again! Night Training and Daycare! I spill the beans on how being a nighttime support for your kiddo isn't about creating dependency but providing the right assistance. Plus, we're deep-diving into the daycare scene – why you may want to jump in and help correct misunderstandings if you can.
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Today, we're talking about when the right time is to use a diaper during the potty training journey. With the holidays coming up, there's a lot of events to navigate. Learn the art of balancing life events with consistency, teaching autonomy to foster independence, and addressing concerns without jumping to conclusions. Let's go!
All right! In this episode of The Oh Crap! Potty Training Podcast, we are diving deep into a topic close to my heart – Special Circumstances in potty training. We're talking about tailoring the potty training game plan for your kiddos. From assessing mobility to understanding cognitive abilities, I'll guide you through customizing your approach. I also share my exception to the "no rewards in potty training" rule. Give it a listen, as we explore the specifics for potty training with special circumstances. Let's go!
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In this episode, we're challenging the conventional use of rewards in potty training. Rewards can be counterproductive, leading to entitlement and a reliance on external motivation, and can even become punishments when a child is not yet capable of achieving the desired behavior. So what do we do instead? That's what we're tackling today!
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Today we’ll revisit some confusing aspects about poop, withholding, and constipation including:digestion and foodthe wonders of gelatintoo soft snaking foodpracticing the negative behavior*why slowing down everything can helpBuy Oh Crap! Potty TrainingJamie's HomepageJamie's PatreonJamie's InstagramBristol Stool ChartJamie’s IG slides on PoopLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Let’s go over the important points of day one of potty training. This first day isn’t about judging success or failure. It’s about learning your child’s pee signal (or pee dance) and their pee pattern. It’s data collection and lots of learning. You have to avoid being emotional about this and give your child space to learn a brand new skill. It can be a tough day for parents and we’ll talk about why and how to help that.Buy Oh Crap! Potty TrainingJamie's HomepageJamie's PatreonJamie's InstagramBristol Stool ChartJamie’s IG slides on PoopLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today we’ll run through some possible solutions for what might be happening if your child is struggling at daycare. But first, we’ll go over what a reset looks like, as many parents are getting this confused. We’ll also touch on a common thing that is happening that I do not recommend: a child who is doing really well for a few months and then parents reset. You should not reset in these situations.Buy Oh Crap! Potty TrainingJamie's HomepageJamie's PatreonJamie's InstagramBristol Stool ChartJamie’s IG slides on PoopLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today, let’s revisit ways to help autonomy and independence; particularly a few weeks into potty training when you’re not seeing much self initiation. We’ll also pull apart a few scenarios that are common if potty training didn’t go as planned and you have a big event planned. And lastly, the pitfalls of potty training with a friend.Buy Oh Crap! Potty TrainingJamie's HomepageJamie's PatreonJamie's InstagramBristol Stool ChartJamie’s IG slides on PoopLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today, I’m talking with Melissa Markus, aka @thekindergartenmom (IG). She lives in Canada where “kindergarten” is akin to preschool in the US. We’re talking about not just her own potty training journey but also how to best support your child when they need to be fully potty-trained for school.
This was a fun conversation because Melissa’s IG is devoted to tips and activities and she asked ME questions from her audience. Kind of like a dual interview :)
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Today we’ll talk about how to ease the schedule for your little one as they may be heading back to daycare or preschool after a break or maybe starting at a new place.
The dinner time cluster
Daycare expecting self initiation in a diaper
Not using a public restroom, ever…and other long term patterns
Child who seems to not be getting the “I have to pee” stage
Oh! And I have a huge announcement!
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Today, we’ll literally be talking about time; giving your child TIME to learn this milestone. I’m in a bit of red alarm panic based on the information I’m getting from parents contacting me. Parents are in a panic because they’re waiting till they’re a week away from school to potty train and it’s not going well. You HAVE to give your child ample time to learn this but also to build in time for struggles.
We’ll also talk about WHY kids in preschool should be fully potty trained. And what to do if you need to rediaper for daycare/school.
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Today, let’s look at some potty training issues specific to summertime. Maybe you’re vacationing or maybe there’s a temporary camp or preschool situation and your child is having more potty training accidents. We’ll also talk a little about why night training can be more challenging with a summer schedule and how to just “survive” parenting and potty training.
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Today we’re going to go back to potty training basics and how to move through the blocks of learning. Each phase of potty training is a specific block with good data points on moving forward or staying right where you are.
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Today, I’m chatting with Aleksandra who defines supportive potty training help. I know daycares can range in their support. I also know that sometimes you don’t have a choice in daycare and have to work with what you have, even if that’s not really supportive. I dream of a day when daycares are like the one Aleksandra works at. I have to tell you, I got teary eyed a few times during this interview… she has such a beautiful way of looking at this milestone.
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Let's talk night training.
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In today’s episode we’ll be discussing:
many accidents after seemingly doing fine with potty training
when a child won’t poop in potty but is still in night diaper
giving up the pacifier and how that can affect potty training
being a support for our children
not rushing the process or having too high expectations
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Today I’m interviewing Sharon about potty training her son. We’ll discuss the ups and downs, particularly challenges with daycare, and how they came out the other side. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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We’ll discuss all things to do with poop
constipation vs withholding
the hierarchy of how to treat poop issues
pooping in pants
pooping in nap and night diapers
different kinds of poop
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In this episode:
did you know we have 3 other senses? Proprioception, vestibular, + interoception
we’ll go through what these mean and why they’re most important for kids
what happens when these systems are underdeveloped
things that are contributing to this underdevelopment in many kids today
how to fix that without labeling kids
big play and heavy work are whole body movements
organized sports DO NOT COUNT as big play, neither does “running around”
this is the most vital aspect of childhood that’s going by the way side
how we can incorporate big play/heavy work into our lives regardless of our living situations
for the love of all that is holy: GET OUTSIDE!
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In this episode:
when a child pees because they didn’t get their way
before nap and bed meltdown pees
tantrum pees
when a child has an accident and laughs about it
child initiates with one parent and not the other
parent competitiveness
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In this episode:
more about accidents at daycare/preschool
Block one, great! Block 2, resistance!
More about transitioning from EC to potty training
butt rashes with potty training
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In this episode: · Parenting is not about you – it’s about the child · Pride comes from within · Overpraising builds too fragile an inner life · Don’t praise the result, praise the work that went into it · Do not attach your emotions to your child’s behavior · Find the thing that you really want to be proud of
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In this episode:
more tips for moderate light sleepers
how to encourage using the toilet instead of the potty
teaching boys to hold their penis down
tips for getting your partner on board with potty training
potty training a nonverbal or preverbal child
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what to do with older siblings when potty training a younger child
night training questions:
how to get to one wake-up
how to know when you don’t have to do anymore wake-ups
remember: night training is an art, not a hard science
child is a bit older; what to do
child seems to be peeing more at night
child did fine at first but now is having lots of accidents
things that contribute to accidents at night
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In this episode:
cajoling/begging when potty training will backfire
you can’t expect independence if you don’t give autonomy
what is a negative feedback loop
how to tell if you’re stuck in one
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What is the window of opportunity for potty training?
Are you screwed if you miss it?
What if you child initiates the process before you’re ready?
How sugar affects poop in various ways
Things to be mindful of when in sugary times
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Let’s talk UTIs
holding pee versus withholding pee
how to prevent UTIs and avoid irritation
UTI symptoms in kids don’t look same as for adults
when you need help and how to reach out
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In this episode:
when your daycare insists on a pull up or diaper
when your daycare won’t allow commando
picking a good start date when you have lots of plans
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In this episode, I’ll be answering questions about:
if your child is preverbal for any reason
kids who stop self initiating after a stretch of perfect potty training
ASD
training for naps
stop using the word "traumatizing"
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In this episode:
what are transitional objects + how to use them
do you really need a potty chair?
when can you ditch the potty chair?
how to move to big toilet
when + how to use the red solo cup trick
travel tips for the newly potty trained
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In this episode we'll discuss all the things that can help ease the transition of back to daycare/preschool for the newly potty-trained.
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the whole story of Oh Crap and how I ended up here
the big things that piss people off about my book
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In this episode:
things that are different about potty training multiples
how to handle public restrooms; tip, tricks, and strategies
stop praising your child for less than the desired result. For sure, we always want to look at progress, no matter how small…but if you over-praise these tiny markers, the child often stops there
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In this episode:
when will this kid learn to wipe their own butt? (How to)
what is emotional sobriety and why you need to cultivate it
stop freaking out on the first day of potty-training
don’t think in terms of “this is or isn’t working"
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In this episode:
all the various iterations of peeing and/or pooping in nap/night diaper
the solution is nap/night training but there are options how to approach this
if your child is staying dry on their own, you MUST remove the diaper (they’ll go back to using it for what it’s intended for)
why night training is best in a bed
how to navigate the transition from crib to bed
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In this episode:
Remember: self initiation (aka asking or taking themselves to the potty) doesn’t usually CONSISTENTLY happen until 3-6 weeks AFTER your start date
This part of the process is often the most rushed by parents.
your child deserves support and deserves to have you as their crutch while they’re learning this new skill
let’s go over easy prompt times
what to do if a significant amount of time has passed and your child is still not initiating
Stop empty cheerleading “you’re such a big kid!”
background ways to boost autonomy which builds and prompts self initiating
when this was recorded, these toddlers just came out of a pandemic, so could we please give them a fucking break and be patient with them? (I mean in general and always but especially our pandemic babies)
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The kid who won’t sit and the kid who hates to be naked In this episode:
your little one must at least bottomless for the first block of learning otherwise if they start to pee by the time you see the wetness, they will have emptied their bladder and the learning opportunity is lost
let’s go over some tips if your kid hates to be naked
the kid who won’t sit is usually a) in the early days of potty training and/or b) usually on the younger side (under 24 months)
it’s usually because they’re just so damn busy!
we’ll go through tips to help you through this minor road bump in the process
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In this episode:
why 3-day methods are bullshit
7-10 day is more appropriate
if your child struggles, it doesn’t mean they’re not ready. It means they are struggling
younger kids have a longer learning curve
for older kids, it’s almost alway behavior, not learning
there are so many nuances to this milestone
it’s never just done, done
always look for progress not perfection
don’t be an empty cheerleader
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In this episode:
we’ll pull apart all things accidents
let’s define the word “accident” and separate it out from learning
how often should toddlers be peeing?
peeing in highchairs and carseats
accidents should be explainable and fixable
how pooping habits play into accidents
dribbles! what to do about dribbling
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In this episode:
potty regressions at 2 years
potty regressions at 3 years
let’s define the word since most parents use it incorrectly in terms of potty training
regressions are a version of acting out, i.e. they don’t have words to communicate
is your child actually potty trained and regressed? Or have they not fully learned yet?
how to handle a regression
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In this episode: I want to offer clarity on the Montessori concept of child led
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In this episode:
we’ll unpack the “wait till they’re ready” soundbite; where it came from + why it’s wrong
the best developmental age range in which to potty train
some signs of “readiness” you can look for but are often overlooked
why child led can lead you to get lost
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Author and parenting expert Jamie Glowacki expands on her book Oh Crap! Potty Training in a new podcast miniseries that takes you step by step through the often arduous but rewarding journey of teaching your kid how to take care of their business on their own. Buy Oh Crap! Potty Training Jamie's Homepage Jamie's Patreon Jamie's Instagram