The Poisoned Archer: Recent Episodes

Gary and Keianna Haley

Relationship and life experiences based on the lives and opinions of Keianna and Gary.

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When faced with the decision of ceremony is it better to elope or have the perfect wedding? How can we have the perfect matrimony without a big celebration?

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What is the perfect time for proposals? How do we navigate waiting for a proposal? How do I know I am ready for marriage? Should a woman propose to her man?

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In a world full of what ifs, How do you prepare for what is to come? How do you prepare for the things you worry about? How do you prepare for pandemics or impending dooms? How do we balance this preparation with living in the now?

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Is honesty the best policy in a relationship? How do you balance being open but protecting your partner's feelings? Can honesty be too much? How do we navigate healthy honesty with a partner?

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How do we balance life and work?Are we investing too much into our careers and neglecting our home?

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Are you so caught up in entertaining yourself that you are missing what is going on around you? How do we break the chains of entertainment and add value to our lives?

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How do we build trust and intimacy in our relationships? Recovering from lost trust? Lacking Intimacy? Breaking down Walls in relationships.

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Are we loving under conditions?

How do we love unconditionally?

How do we submit to our partner?

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When did we grow up? When did we become boring? When did we become our parents guardians? When did we become responsible adults?

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What are the keys to overcoming an addict? How do you heal from life with an addict?https://www.amazon.com/Life-After-Addict-addiction-learning-ebook/dp/B0CRNJHW3Zhttps://a.co/d/4MqswHI

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What are the keys to overcoming an addict? How do you heal from life with an addict?https://www.amazon.com/Life-After-Addict-addiction-learning-ebook/dp/B0CRNJHW3Zhttps://a.co/d/4MqswHI

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How are comparisons amongst peers and our family impacting our growth and how we view the world?

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When life gives you Lemons, Make Lemonade. How do we deal with challenges and adversaries in life that go against our plan? How do we make the best of our challenging lives?

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How do you maintain individual lifestyles or activities in a relationship? Is it healthy for the relationship to have individual identities in a relationship? How do you balance individual identities and codependence?

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What are the keys to building a healthy relationship? How do you mix personalities that are different?

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When looking for a partner is physical, financial or emotional security most important? How do you balance the different levels of attraction?

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What are some important financial moves in a relationship? Important financial choices for children?

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How much stock do we put in holidays like Valentine to show our love?

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A special black history edition of the Love Lounge. Positive images throughout black history.

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What is your love language?

Do you have more than one?

The five love languages are:

  • Acts of service. * For these people, actions speak louder than words.

  • Receiving gifts. * For some people, receiving a heartfelt gift is what makes them feel most loved.

  • Quality time. * This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention.

  • Words of affirmation. * This language uses words to affirm other people.

  • Physical touch. * To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate physical touch.

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Do you have regrets in your life or relationship?

How do you cope with the regrets?

How do you overcome the regrets?

Healing from Past Mistakes in Marriage

  • Scripture: Philippians 3:13-14 - "Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus."

Preventing Regrets: Communication and Understanding

  • Scripture: Ephesians 4:26 - "In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry."

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What is more important building the relationship you have with your kids or respect they have for you?

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Are we doing too much for our kids? Will our hard work negatively impact our kids success?

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How do you approach this New Year? What is your resolution? Is this the best time to start? What if you stumble in your resolution?

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How important is showing off your loved ones? Is this a deal breaker? How do you balance social media and privacy?

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How do you mix traditions in a household? What traditions are most important to you? Who do you spend the time with as a family?

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What are we overindulging in this holiday season? How do we balance what we need versus what we want?

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Just reflect on your blessings, where you have come from and appreciate where you are currently.

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Are you having a difficult time letting go of toxic friends? What do you classify as a real friend?

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How difficult is it to live with a new person? How do you deal with different habits, styles and taste?

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How important is self care when you have responsibilities?

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Keeping it comfy versus casual in a relationship. Are you getting too lax in your relationship?

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Male sensitivity? What's too much or too little?

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Breaking away from the norms of gender roles and how we cater our relationship to shared chores and efforts.

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Are you tired of those nagging questions about getting pregnant/having a baby/having another?

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Are you tired of those nagging questions about getting pregnant/having a baby/having another?

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What’s better in your life? A Diet? A Lifestyle Change?

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Is what you are consuming (food, lifestyle, media) affecting your life, health, mental, or relationships?

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Is it better to put children above your relationship?

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How to deal with the influences of friends, peers and family on your relationship and life

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Coping with external and internal pressures

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We dive into sleepovers and interactions between kids with family and friends

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Navigating our generational curses. Are we predetermined to certain behaviors, attributes, ways of navigating the world and our relationships? Season Finale of The Poisoned Archer.


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Is it more important to be right in a disagreement, prove a point, prove your significant other wrong? What lies beneath this behavior?


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Navigating Self esteem and how to boost one’s confidence.


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Our talk on postpartum depression, signs of PPD and what to be on the lookout for. How easy is it to overlook PPD in mothers and in fathers.


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The need for therapy in relationships, marriage, in society. General misconceptions about therapy.


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Navigating the spark in relationships. How we keep the spark. Why couples may lose that spark.


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Navigating the state of modern dating. This episode includes a discussion Elyza.


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Navigating the state of modern dating. This episode includes a discussion with our friend John.


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Navigating dating in marriage and parenthood. The state of modern dating.


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Our introductory episode. How we started our relationship and how we feel about platonic relationships.


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