Let Us Talk About It: Recent Episodes
Let us talk about it
Let Us Talk About It We are a community of people recovering from domestic violence and abuse. This is a safe space that's inclusive, welcomes everyone and supports you no matter where you are in your own recovery.
Welcome, I am Sydell, I am Let Us Talk About It.
𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖉𝖔𝖜𝖓𝖋𝖆𝖑𝖑 𝖔𝖋 𝖆𝖓 𝖆𝖇𝖘𝖔𝖑𝖚𝖙𝖊 𝖎𝖓𝖈𝖊𝖑#chile🇨🇱 #chilean #chilena Hull .Rossington.#sheffield .#DoncasterDemon.#RotherhamRapist.#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
chile🇨🇱 #chilean #chilena Hull .Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
chile🇨🇱 #chilean #chilena #Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
TheDEMONofDONCASTERused his"best mates"WhatsApp messages in a criminal court to try to get to meAll he did wasEXPOSEHis friend's don'tbelieve him, they don't have his back in hisABUSE towards me andWANT NOTHING TO DO WITH HIMWHILST HE'S DOING IT ALLThe Criminal Court MagistratesSAW ALL YOUR NAMES because theRAPIST from ROTHERHAMONCE AGAIN USED YOUR NAMES 🍻🍻🍻#chile🇨🇱 #chilean #chilena #Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
chile🇨🇱 #chilean #chilena #Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
chile🇨🇱 #chilean #chilena #Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
TheROTHERHAMRAPISTmessaged me, I let it sit there for four weeks, unopenedand he unsent it
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
THEROTHERHAM RAPISTWHO ABUSED ME& HIS ATTEMPT TO TRY TO SHAME ME THROUGH A CRIMINAL COURT #Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#chile #chilean #chileanposting #chileanmoods #chileanboy#southamerica . #abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#chile #chilean #chileanposting #chileanmoods #chileanboy#southamerica . #abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#chile #chilean #chileanposting #chileanmoods #chileanboy#southamerica . #abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Follow up- the police called...#Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
TheR A P I S TA B U S E RHates I've had a nice holidayand wants to destroy it allNo thanks x x x.#Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Make a cuppapull up a chairand learn aboutDELUSIONALPSYCHOPATHICRAPIST ABUSERSand their attempts toA B U S Ethe system to get to their victim& failing at every hurdle.#Hull .#Rossington.#sheffield .#Doncaster .#Rotherham .#abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
NEWEVIDENCEOF THERAPISTABUSERLYING INCOURT.#Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
TheRAPISTABUSERreacts every time I postANYcontent.#Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
E X P O S E D#Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull #Rossington#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
ENTRAPMENTAn ABUSIVEtool used byABUSERStrytotoSILENCE,INTIMIDATEXMANIPULATEvictims to stayquiet.The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
A perfect Sunday .The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
TakeawayEVERYSINGLEthing they used to try to control youwithand they'llbe absolutely livid.The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
GUILT: The abuser experiences self-directed guilt, not normal guilt. Non-abusive people feel guilt for inflicting pain or hurting others (i.e., victim-directed guilt). Abusers feel self-directed guilt (i.e., “I shouldn't have done it. Now I might get caught.”).The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
Happy, happy Monday to me ♥️The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
TAKE AWAYEVERYTHINGFROM ANABUSERANDcut them off atthe source.The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
INCEST and the RAPISTS familyThe RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN #Hull#sheffield #Doncaster #Rotherham #abuse#abuser #coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse #emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery #manipulative#gaslighting #fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you should get RAPED by agroup of ASIAN men to see how rape really feelssydell'
The RAPIST is trying to isolate me AGAIN#Hull #sheffield #Doncaster#Rotherham #abuse #abuser#coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse#emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery#manipulative #gaslighting#fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you shouldget RAPED by a group of ASIAN mento see how rape really feels sydell'
Hull #sheffield #Doncaster#Rotherham #abuse #abuser#coercivecontrol #lies #rapevictim#rapist #emotionalabuse#emotionallyabusive#abuserecovery #abuserecovery#manipulative #gaslighting#fatshaming #ageshaming#homophobia #racist "you shouldget RAPED by a group of ASIAN mento see how rape really feels sydell
An ABUSER doesn't want to tell you, YOU can face court if you help them STALK the victims but I'm here to be HONEST with you because they WON'T be
They've set themselves up to be known for who they are, what they've done, when, where, and
EXACTLY what they did
F O R E V E R . T O . B E . I N . T H E . P U B L I C . D O M A I N . 😊
The ABUSER will USE everyone around them & doesn't care if those people get hurt in the process. All the ABUSER cares about is themselves.
Speaking to their mother PART TWO The disturbing reality of childhood abuse, violence, internal family racism, emotional neglect, and siblings that fixate on eacother sexually- obsess, stalked, and maliciously communicated with their siblings ex partners Adult mental issues related to childhood sibling bonds that are caused by child neglect & lack of emotional care or love.
As adults, we owe it to ourselves to heal from childhood trauma, but some siblings form unhealthy bonds as adults that cause even deeper, deadly, and disturbing relationships. Unwilling to resolve, repair, or acknowledge their severe mental health issues, they actually become obsessive with each other instead. They fixate on eavother illness with threats, violence, sexualised bonds and do not lead healthy individual lives like most siblings.
I spoke to the ABUSERS mother. Violence within the home, internal racism within the family, emotional abuse, being scared of their own child, alienation, abandonment, and fear.
I thought you said I was going to "Get what was coming to me." Well, that didn't work out very well for you. Did it
When they can no longer contact you , when the ABUSERS enabler can no longer react because they know & fear legal consequences...They know they've lost & they know even the smallest action 😊⏳️⚡️ could land them in serious legal situations for themselves. Now what for the abuser & person stalking you to take back to the abuser???
Nothing, absolutely nothing but facts, evidence and exactly what you was saying to be true.
And there's nothing either of those clowns can do anymore, isn't that so much better 😊
Well this is awkward, for the ABUSER. Come listen to the facts that the ABUSER desperately doesn't want you to know 😊
Don't be fooled by an abuser, their behaviour is very well thought out. They plan, they'll write endless incel lists and they'll try anything to in their words to "get one over on you"
TheA B U S E Rthinks they'll never be exposedfor the depths they'll S T I L Lgo to, tohurt you after you leave them
Take awayA N Yopportunity they think they have to control the narrative & own it allIt will PISS them off more even if it means you come off worse
Let's decide to not exclude ourselves from pleasures so it makes the abuser comfortable. We, as the victims have every right to access spaces the ABUSER took us to or that we used to use anyway. So given this I'm going to Doncaster on Thursday because I am entitled to that space too.
You're allowed to enjoy old spaces with new peopleWITHOUTguilt, fear, or REVENGEfrom anABUSER
When men let you know that they adore you, want you, listen to you, and show it, you'll understand that the ABUSERwas aWASTEMAN
Are they safe to be online? Safe to be out in public? What if they start taking videos of children/babies? I think these questions need to addressed.
waswalkingaway fromthe ABUSERTo diffusehim beingabusive tome.He ran at meand kickedme in myback, whichmade me fallfaceforwardonto thefloor.From thenon, healwaysattacked mefrom behindknowing Iwas tryingto leave himand hisabuse
I WAS CALLED CRAZY BY THE MAN WHO BEAT ME UP FOR MOVING MY FOOT.........You read right, why should I keep keep quiet? No-one who's well beats up a woman for moving her foot.
ABUSERSDON'TDESERVEANONYMITY. Clare's Law can protect you. Listening here can protect you.
They've been to the charity shop to buy women's cloths to put all over their flat to try to look like someone cares about them. Imagine the embarrassment of everyone hearing this and knowing that's how desperate the ABUSER/RAPIST/PSYCHOPATH is 💔💔💔They bought sim cards to message themselves stealing womens identities. They set up social media accounts stealing names/photos and liked their own photos pretending to be their own girlfriend. Whilst telling strangers on the internet that they left you 💔
If anABUSERwants to silence you.It's because they know they're GUILTY and they'reEXPOSINGthemselves by trying to stop you.PROVING what you said they did to be TRUE.Otherwise, they wouldn't be bothered
The ABUSER/RAPIST/PSYCHOPATH/NARCISSIST never thought we'd leave them. They were so OBSESSED with their abuse that they couldn't see it coming. We left, and we grouped together, getting stronger, happier, collectively. THEY can't see us, they don't know us, and we're growing in numbers daily.
Abusers self harm daily, they are mentally tortured by us FINALLY speaking clearly, LOUDLY and with freedom. They went from shutting us down to being OBSESSED with every SINGLE word we say. They're our bitches now...We're meant to be silent and not react remember *That's what ppl say who oppress victims, victim shame, victim blame and ENABLE. No thanks x x x
Give the ABUSER space from you & they'll SHOW everyone how DESPERATE they are to STILL control you. THEY can't help but unravel, torture themselves & wany revenge. The things you said, that they tried to COVER UP doesn't apply anymore. THEY'VE lost control of you, they WILL and HAVE shown exactly who they are. The small circle around them sees it now, family knew/know and now for the biggest explosion you've EVER seen from them. THEY'LL explode, destroy & show everyone who they really are. All because you left, you walked away and are FREE.
Today's podcast explores the aftermath of leaving a rapist/abuser/narc/serial abuser. Discussing tactics,manipulative behaviour, threats etc etc
The abuser/perpetrator/rapist/ Psychopath/ has nothing when you leave them. They are POWERLESS cowards, friends distance themselves. Actively not having anything to do with them, no traces of any friendships. Family are frightened, realising they've raised a monster. As victims, they want to destroy you more because of their own isolation caused by their ABUSIVE behaviour. They don't get to stop us. They have no control anymore 💔 and it's killing them knowing that. I feel no sorrow for their WEAK,PATHETIC life.
Fragile, broken, entitled, incel men driving themselves into being single because they can't handle real life. *NOT ALL MEN however this problem is now a worldwide epidemic.
Do you find yourself struggling with attachment issues? Not being at peace within yourself, that's okay it's definitely a journey into learning about you. This particular podcast is part 1
Knowing when to say NO is a powerful tool. It takes time, courage & confidence to say NO, NO THANK YOU, NO I DESERVE BETTER.
A Deeper Connection. We all crave it, finding it feels like it's elusive however today felt like that search could be over...
How are you? Are you okay? It's Monday morning and I'm up early. Shower,made the bed, opened the windows, drinking tea... I hope you're all okay, I'm here, I'm present and this is a safe space. You will be heard, loved and cared for...
Summer Vibes, a podcast about revamping my appearance, a new date-someone new in my life and the coming month.
It's Monday and yes it's been a while, that's because the peace and quiet I should of had I've now finally gotten. So I've had some time to enjoy it but now I'm back.
Small, little victories is a podcast outlining the perpetrators mirroring of yourself as the victim. They mimick us, they try to copy our every move because their reality is dark, it's lonely and powerless. Powerless physopaths are are H U G E danger to the wider society. If they can't take it out on their old victim they will reap it elsewhere. Silencing their N O I S E infuriates them, moving on makes them V I O L E N T L E Y dangerous. Walking away, keeping away and avoiding feeding them anything is key to a happy, successful future. They want people close to them to believe they are over you, that they left you, that they ended it. That's not true, but isn't it funny that they think it matters. Small, little victories prove otherwise and they can't stand that you can prove unequivocally that you walked away. That they did the damage... Small, little victories is their tone, it's the only language they know. Tit for tat, I'll hurt you more if you do anything. Which is blackmail/emotional abuse and proves that they refuse to walk away. Proving all my previous points that they want blood in a make believe G A M E they created in their mind. That no one else is playing but themselves. Sounds lonely, self torturing and self loathing doesn't it, that because they are.
Thursday...Not every podcast i do has to be serious let's lighten it up. I've got some celebrating to do 🙂
Setting boundaries with a functional Psychopath. A functional psychopath will play dumb to people who know them. They've already groomed, manipulated and cognitively trained those people that even though they know your abuser is a bad person they just aren't that bad- you're the crazy one, you made them do it. The flying monkeys are so charmed that even though they know deep down the perp isn't a good person they've already been trained to not respond negatively. So if you set a boundary with the perp they instantly make you look bad. The only way is to silence that noise. They don't want/like/respect or care for your boundaries, they see them as rules because they have deep childhood traumas they aren't willing to face. Deep rooted mental health issues thet they'll never face, that everyone knows about but no one dare mention them because they know they'll be the next target.
Lets wrap this week up. Acknowledge what it was and look forward to a new, healthy, happy week ahead.
You was never hard to love... What insanity is that statement! This podcast discusses why the perpetrator tells you such disregarding and fundamentally emotionally disturbing statements such as that.
Let's start the week as we mean to go on. Remember the breathing technique I taught you? Let's start there...
Redemption... Redemption is what happens to your soul when you're saved from evil forces.
Hello Monday . Let's start the week as we mean to go on. Positive, open, mindful and present.
Yerh, I deleted Bumble. Sometimes when you're ready to delete and try another way it all works out....
Emotional safety in a relationship. Good morning, today's podcast discusses emotional safety in a relationship.
Toxic partners and breaking the chain-red flags. A podcast about self recognition/reflection breaking the chain of self abuse. That's right, isn't that brutal? Not nearly as brutally as dating a functional psychopath who'll hurt you though. So here's to honesty, no self harming of emotions and embracing change. Change that ultimately rewards with happiness. Here's to my next date with the new guy in my life, positive interactions that result in future healthiness and happiness.
TW Swearing............Get back on Bumble you asshole.When someone isn't working on themselves but claims they are it's a tedious, monotonous mind fk. How many books, memes, journals and self help apps/podcasts/gym sessions can you take before you leave the person who's desperate trying to prove because they are a functional psychopath that they want to get 'better. This all boils down to appearances and wanting to look like they want to get better. They've studied people around them and they're trying to mimick what others do. Really though everyone they know has seen this before over over, the physopath loses interest fast and moves onto the next tactic to gain attention. Meanwhile you're struggling because of them, I left them, I now see them doing the same sht over and over and I LAUGH at them because they've proven who they are. Weak, full of lies and pathetically emotionally immature. So, with personal growth comes personal responsibility. Making healthy lifestyle choices to grow, develop and move on. That includes tomorrow and a date... Yes, a new man cos all that time ago I did what I was told and went back on Bumble :) 😃 We chatted well over a year ago there and since and now we'll have our first date tomorrow lunch time, on the marina in Hull.
So I'm going on a date tonight... With a new guy. This podcast is raw, honest and open but gentle. Enjoy ❤
Revenge porn has been a sexual offence since 2015, and carries a sentence of up to two years’ imprisonment. The law defines it as distributing private explicit images without the consent of the person depicted, which is commonly done maliciously to shame ex-partners. Distribution refers to any form of sharing, whether online via social media or websites or offline via physical copies, and the material can either show a sexual activity or a person depicted in a sexual way
Trauma bonds are emotional bonds with an individual that arise from a recurring, cyclical pattern of abuse perpetuated by intermittent reinforcement through rewards and punishments. The process of forming trauma bonds is referred to as trauma bonding or traumatic bonding
Deflection Can Be a Coping Mechanism
We want people to see us as functional, dependable, and trustworthy. For some people, deflection is a coping mechanism to make sure others don't think less of them and to take the attention off of themselves.
Today is moving day- I get the keys to my new home today. This is where my journey to recovery begins. I've got a plan, come share with me and gain strength from leaning your path along side me.
Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim.
Lone wolves are emotionally unable or unwilling to directly interact. A stereotypical lone wolf will be dark and have been cast away from a group for being the weakest link.
Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It happens when someone overwhelms the victim with loving words or physical actions with manipulative behaviours. It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes.
So here's to future dates, I'm not going to settle for just anything after all I've done that and wasted precious time, which I regret. However this guy is talented, ambitious, emotionally open and very very attractive and he's already asked me on a date. Here's to more of those vibes!
Dating, intimacy & kissing... When you've suffered trauma and abuse it's hard to conceive or even think about dating let alone the intimate connection. I couldn't even imagine the thought of entering a sexual and emotional relationship again until I decided to atleast be open to possibility that I may enjoy it and find myself feeling attractive again. So I took the plunge and found myself once again heart fluttering, feeling love when it for all intents and purposes it was sex, sex that of course was beautiful but I didn't expect that feeling. I'm now finding myself in a way I hadn't dreamt of yet and I'm hoping there will be new if not very gentle territory to discover. I actually meant to podcast about something very different today but this just came out so I guess I needed to share it.
Good morning, how are you? Today's topic is about new connections. Discussing new romantic/intimate relations... Why it's important to start a fresh without bringing your past into the present.
TW This mornings topic is discussing Sexualisation. Now this is a loaded topic about misogynistic, narcissistic & homophobic views. A further podcast will be released today with more thoughts.
Alienating is ABUSE, abusers want to separate the victim from family, friends, work friends and anyone on social media. An abuser doesn't want their victim to speak out against them. Remember a perp has spent days/months/years grooming people that consider them as a friend so you as a victim rolling in and destroying their "reputation" W I L L deeply hurt them. But not for normal reasons but because people start to really see the perp for what they R E A L L Y are.
Whilst this is highly juvenile and emotionally unintelligent it is also highly abusive. Done to cause maximum pain to the actual victi.... Remember though this the act of a perp desperate to on the surface look innocent to people around them. Acts like this ultimately undemine the perps whole fleeting story about who they are.
False apologies are dangerous, remember abusers outwardly mimick and pretend they mean their apology because they study people around them. They know an apology is what normal people do, so they pretend. They then shift that bad behaviour onto something else to make you look like you're creating "drama" or "crazy". Stay still, breath & do not stay SILENT tell people, call the police and take no nonsense. The abuser wants you to stay silent, watch them react when you draw a line in the sand. Remember ONLY changed behavior means they are truly sorry. Anything else is MANIPULATION to try to silence you.
Two fundamental words both equally important for an authentic connection... further thoughts will be released today.
Good morning today I'm discussing the importance of friendship and later today I'll follow the podcast up with another one with further thoughts.
Good morning How are you? Are you okay this morning, remember it's okay to not be okay. This morning I'm discussing about taking your power back. I'm aware to many people this may sound strange or confusing and that's okay... I'll run you through it and provide you with the tools you need to cope, handle and release the person taking your power away from you. A further podcast will be released today with some more mindful and gentle conversation also.
Yes People are problematic for both sides. This isn't friendship, this is fear and fear isn't respect. Without respect there is no relationship.