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Hey, hey, hey, girl, greatness, it's Lori Pelzer. I am so excited to be with you. I am excited in this moment as I close my eyes. I can just sit in it and just marvel in the blessing that GOD has given me to be in this moment again with you.

I marvel in the ability to get back up from the hard things. I've been in a moment, I've been away for a moment. The Defy the Good podcast has been down for a moment, but we're not just back. We're here in a new space and a new time, in a new moment, and I want to thank you Because if you've been rocking with me at the Defy the Good podcast, you already know, but there's something special and specific and strategic that's happening right now, in this moment, with Lori Pelzer at The Greatness Table Podcast.

We're going to talk about it...

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Welcome to another episode of the BREAK-FORWARD Podcast Series. Today, we embark on a profound exploration of the power of faith in the midst of life's challenges. We delve into the meanings of key words like faith, solace, tragedy, triumph, BreakForward, trials, and tribulations, shedding light on their significance in our personal journeys.
Understanding Faith

Faith is a powerful force that can provide solace and strength in the face of adversity. It goes beyond religious beliefs and practices; it is a deep trust and conviction in something greater than ourselves. Faith can manifest in various forms, such as religious faith, spiritual beliefs, or a strong belief in oneself and the inherent goodness of the world.

• Explore the role of faith in providing comfort and resilience during times of trauma and stress.
• Discover how faith influences everyday life, shaping choices, actions, and connections with others.
• Reflect on the power of community and connection in supporting and uplifting one another on the path of faith.
• Embrace the power of faith to guide you on your own BREAK-FORWARD journey of healing, growth, and empowerment.

Seeking Solace

Lori: In the midst of trauma and stress, finding solace becomes crucial to our well-being. It's about finding moments of peace, comfort, and rejuvenation amidst the chaos. Seeking solace is not about avoiding or running away from our challenges, but rather creating spaces within ourselves and our lives where we can find respite and healing.

One powerful avenue to seek solace is through spirituality and faith. For me, faith has played a significant role in my journey. It has provided a sense of grounding, purpose, and strength during the darkest moments. It's about recognizing that there is a higher power at work, guiding us through our trials and tribulations.

Seeking solace is an essential part of healing and navigating through challenging times. It can be found through spirituality, self-care practices, and seeking professional support. Prioritizing solace allows us to replenish our energy, find moments of peace, and cultivate the strength needed to continue on our journey.

Here are some key strategies to help navigate through these challenging times:

1. Embrace a Growth Mindset: Adopting a growth mindset means seeing setbacks as learning opportunities. It's about understanding that failure is not a reflection of our worth but a stepping stone towards success. By reframing our perspective, we can find valuable lessons in every challenge we face.
2. Cultivate Resilience: Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity and adapt to new circumstances. It's about developing inner strength and emotional fortitude. Cultivating resilience involves practicing self-care, seeking support from loved ones, and engaging in activities that bring joy and fulfillment.
3. Seek Support: During difficult times, it's essential to lean on the support of others. Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or mentors who can provide guidance, encouragement, and a listening ear. Sharing our struggles and vulnerabilities can help alleviate the burden we carry and provide fresh perspectives.
4. Focus on Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your experiences and emotions. Journaling, meditation, or therapy can provide a safe space to process your thoughts and feelings. Self-reflection allows you to gain clarity, identify patterns, and develop strategies for overcoming challenges.
5. Set Realistic Goals: Break down your larger goals into smaller, manageable steps. By setting realistic expectations, you can maintain a sense of progress and accomplishment, even in the face of obstacles. Celebrate each milestone reached along the way, as they serve as reminders of your strength and resilience.

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Welcome to the Defy The Good podcast, BREAK-FORWARD series. In this deeply personal and powerful episode, Lori shares her journey through the trials and triumphs of motherhood, dealing with her son's non care for anything opposite of his belief system, brushes with the law, and struggles with setting boundaries.

Teen Pregnancy & Early Motherhood

• Lori opens up about her early experience as a teen mom, dealing with the challenges of a young pregnancy and the trauma of a suicidal attempt.

The Difference Between Being a Mom and a Mother

• Lori delves into the distinction between being a 'mom' and a 'mother,' emphasizing the roles of guidance and discipline in motherhood.

The Law, The Accusation, and the Pain

• Lori shares about her son's run-ins with the law, the accusation that she allowed her husband to abuse him, and the emotional pain it caused.

The Struggle of Overindulgence and Deprivation

• Lori shares her struggle with balancing emotional generosity and discipline in her parenting journey.

Manipulation and Deception: A Strained Relationship

• Lori talks about the troubling behaviors she noticed in her son as he grew older, like manipulation and deception, and how it strained their relationship.

A Tale of Two Children

• Lori compares her experiences with her two children and explores how individuals can take different paths despite similar upbringings.

Setting Boundaries with Adult Children

• Lori delves into the complexities of setting boundaries with her son as an adult and the grief associated with a strained mother-son relationship.

Undiagnosed Bipolar Disorder: A New Layer of Complexity

• Lori discusses her belief that her son may suffer from bipolarism, the struggles that come with not knowing but living with it, and its impacts on the family dynamics.

The Presence of God: Seeking Solace

• Lori wraps up by sharing how her faith has been her anchor amid these trials, offering solace, strength, and hope for the future.

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Episode 3: "The Divorce That Never Happened"

Welcome to the Defy The Good Podcast BREAK-FORWARD Series, where your host Lori Pelzer shares her personal journey of triumph and adversity.

In Episode 3, Lori delves into an emotionally-charged story, "The Divorce That Never Happened," exploring the complexities of relationships and the emotional whirlwind that accompanies a divorce that never materialized.

In this episode, you'll learn about:

1. The emotional rollercoaster of a divorce that never happened: Lori shares her personal experience with the ups and downs of a relationship on the brink of divorce and the emotional turmoil that comes with it.
2. Navigating the challenges of being married to a black man who faced significant health issues and the impact on their relationship: Lori opens up about her husband's struggles with illness and how it added strain to their marriage.
3. Discovering resilience and self-discovery in the face of adversity: Lori recounts the steps she took to find inner strength and a sense of self in the midst of marital challenges.
4. The power of communication and empathy: Lori emphasizes the importance of open and honest communication in relationships and the value of understanding your partner's perspective.
5. Embracing personal growth and moving forward: Lori shares how she was able to grow from her experience and move forward in her life, ultimately finding peace and happiness.

Be sure to tune in to Episode 4 of the BREAK-FORWARD Podcast Series to hear Lori's raw and real story of love, loss, and self-discovery with her Son. The next episode will break you open and hopefully add value to your own ideals of mothering. Don't forget to subscribe and follow the podcast so you won't miss future episodes.

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Welcome back to the Defy The Good Podcast BREAK-FORWARD Series, Episode 2, Part B. I'm your host, Lori Pelzer, and in this segment, we'll continue to explore the my triumphs over adversity. The impact of menopause on my life, how it intensified my feelings of being stale and sticky, and the steps I took to regain control and rediscover my purpose.

MENOPAUSE TAKES OVER

Around the same time, I started experiencing the first signs of menopause. Hot flashes, insomnia, mood swings – they all hit me like a ton of bricks. My body was changing, and I felt like I was losing control. I didn't recognize myself anymore, and my confidence took a hit.

FEELING STALE AND STICKY

As if that wasn't enough...

TAKING AUTHORITY AND EMBRACING CHANGE

I knew that I couldn't let menopause and my feelings of stagnation define me. 

FINDING NEW PURPOSE AND DIRECTION

I focused on finding a new  direction here's what I did...

BUILT RESILIENCE THROUGH GROWTH

I learned a few keys. Take a listen in and make sure you take notes. 

So, to everyone listening, remember ( gotta listen to get this juicy part)

Thank you for joining me on this journey. Stay tuned for the next episode, where we'll delve into another powerful story of triumph and adversity.

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"Sour Lemons, Sweeter Lemonade"

Welcome to Episode 2 of the BREAK-FORWARD Series. 

I'm your host, Lori Pelzer, and today, we'll be diving deep into a personal story that I call "Sour Lemons, Sweeter Lemonade." It's a story about facing challenges head-on, learning from them, and ultimately, growing stronger, especially when life throws us curveballs.

• Letdown -I remember the day vividly.
• Embracing Change and Growth -I decided to face my challenges head-on, embracing the changes that life was throwing my way.
• Turning Failure into Opportunity-Instead of seeing my failed business launch as a defeat
• Turning Things Around -But then, something clicked.
• Rediscovering Myself -I found a renewed sense of purpose and direction.

Key Takeaway:

So, what can we learn from this story? First, it's essential to embrace change and growth, even when it's uncomfortable. Second, it's crucial to surround yourself with support during challenging times. And it's important to remember that failure is not the end – it's simply an opportunity to learn, grow, and ultimately, succeed.

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Welcome Back Girlgreatness! Lori Pelzer is back on these podcast airwaves and she's ready to take you on an inspiring journey with stories of triumph and adversity. Over the course of this captivating series, Lori shares raw, real, and compelling experiences that are sure to engage and encourage you to BREAK-FORWARD.

The Break-Forward Series: What it's all about

• Stories of resilience, transformation, and growth.

Episode Highlights:

• "Sour Lemons, Sweeter Lemonade" - Lori's experiences with aging, reinvention, and finding opportunities for growth
• "The Divorce That Never Was: Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster" - The complexities of relationships, emotional turmoil, and maintaining healthy connections
• "The Lawsuit That Shook My World" - Lori's shocking encounter with an unexpected lawsuit and how she persevered through the chaos and uncertainty.
• "A Mother's Love: The Son and Me Saga" - The emotional and heart-wrenching story of Lori's relationship with her son, exploring the trials and tribulations that tested their family bonds.
• Additional episodes to come, featuring more of Lori's captivating stories and insights

Throughout the series, Lori offers her unique perspective on life's challenges and the power of resilience. From aging gracefully to navigating relationship hurdles, these stories will serve as a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the importance of breaking forward.

Don't miss out on this powerful and transformative series. Subscribe now to The Break-Forward Podcast Series, embrace vulnerability, and rise above life's challenges.

Your journey to personal growth and empowerment starts here.

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Hey Girlgreatness, we are on our way to 2023 and  my team and I are putting the finishing touches on some FIRE episodes to close out your end year. In the meantime I wanted to share some recaps with you for 2022 hottest episodes. It's my hope you get on FIRE again for ''Greatness" and move into your 2023 with a new way of thinking.

This episode of DEFY The Good Podcast! I was all jacked -up on this episode.Because I was going all in on what this greatness thing I talk about looks like.
It looks like a blank canvas. 

In this episode we explore the place of limitless possibilities and I’m sharing the six ways that I’ve learned how to get started. You will have an understanding of what these possibilities could look like for you. 

We’re also talking about what you can do to shift your risk tolerance. 

Why? Because risk produces greatness. 

Always remember that good is free, but greatness will cost you something. 

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Hey Girlgreatness, we are on our way to 2023 and  my team and I are putting the finishing touches on some FIRE episodes to close out your end year. In the meantime I wanted to share some recaps with you for 2022 hottest episodes. It's my hope you get on FIRE again for ''Greatness" and move into your 2023 with a new way of thinking.

This episode of DEFY The Good Podcast!  This is the stuff that makes you you. When you listen in listen with you in mind.  And, yessss I tell my stories but I am telling you all about a truth that's longing for you only.ACTIVATING The Truth! 

What is your truth? 

In this episode we are talking about activating your truth. I’m challenging you to ask yourself, at this moment in time, what is your truth?

I will reveal a few of my truths to you. You will find that some of your truths will be easy to admit and will make you feel empowered, while other truths will be difficult to accept. 

You might even discover some truths about yourself that you weren’t aware of before. I am going to share with you things that will awaken your truths and inspire you to take action! 

The truth will activate you to greatness. So let’s dive in.

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Hey Girlgreatness, we are on our way to 2023 and  my team and I are putting the finishing touches on some FIRE episodes to close out your end year. In the meantime I wanted to share some recaps with you for 2022 hottest episodes. It's my hope you get on FIRE again for ''Greatness" and move into your 2023 with a new way of thinking.

This was the 1st official episode of DEFY The Good Podcast!  I was more than excited to get this out to the world of women. I felt the pulling inside me that you first needed the understand the notion and indoctrination. 

Your journey to greatness starts right here in this episode. 

Say goodbye to the good notion as we explore the great paradigm and rewrite the narrative of what greatness means for women. 

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Hey Girlgreatness, we are on our way to 2023 and  my team and I are putting the finishing touches on some FIRE episodes to close out your end year. In the meantime I wanted to share some recaps with you for 2022 hottest episodes. It's my hope you get on FIRE again for ''Greatness" and move into your 2023 with a new way of thinking.

This episode of DEFY The Good Podcast! I tell you why “Good” is so dangerous. Settling within your comfort zone is the most dangerous thing you could do. In fact, if good doesn’t scare you, ask yourself why not and then challenge those thoughts. 

If there’s one thing you take away from this episode, I want you to understand why good is dangerous, and remember that greatness is your destination. 

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DEFY The Good is the Newest and Hottest Podcast by creator Lori Pelzer, CEO of Girlgobegreat Lifestyle Success Co. A podcast show designed for women ready to radically transform her daily life and expand her entrepreneur dreams. Defy everything good stands for and go for greatness.

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We are back from hosting our annual in-person Girl It’s Your Life Success Conference 2021! And let me tell you Girl Greatness, it was beyond a success and we changed a group of women’s lives. Now that I’m back, I am motivated and inspired to share with you our next series on the podcast: the secret to becoming rich in your entrepreneur niche! Over the next four weeks we’ll be giving you the stuff you haven’t heard before, and the stuff you can’t google. And it all starts with an interview I had with the incredible celebrity Dr. Jackie Walters from Bravo TV’s Married to Medicine. Check out this episode to hear Dr. Jackie and I talk about the climb to greatness, the side of it that people don’t see, making a total commitment to greatness, and being “healthy, wealthy, and happy.” 

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I have invited three incredibly powerful Girl Greatness CEO’s to join me in sharing the experiences they’ve had attending our annual Girl It’s Your Life Success Conference, our next one is taking place October 29-31, 2021 in Atlanta, Georgia! All of these women have a voice to be heard and a story to be told, not unlike yourself. I know that this episode will resonate with you and inspire you to take action. If you’ve been waiting for a sign that you should attend this conference, this is it! Let me introduce you to today’s special guests.

Keisha Pinto is the face and CEO of Keisha Pinto Events Inc., an event planning boutique located in Toronto Canada that services clients globally. She is an Event Experiences Expert who specializes in event planning, management, and strategies. She also mentors individuals who are new and up and coming in the event industry. When she is not planning events, she invests her time connecting, engaging, and speaking online about topics that impact business owners, such as networking, building and maintaining business relationships, especially with females, collaborating and building a successful business. Keisha also launched her passion project The Kidsmas Giftback in 2016, a free community holiday party/giveback for kids ages 0 – 16yrs. She has hosted over 150+ kids the first year, and the numbers have been growing.

Jacqueline “Lulu” Brown is the Founder and CEO of Revolution Ascension LLC, and the Executive Director & Chief Program Officer for The Way-Out Ministries INC., a non-profit corporation. She also sits on the Board of Directors of The Precious Kids Foundation. Her mission is to support women as they cultivate a beautiful life filled with grace and ease. One that is centred around freedom, abundance, wisdom, and most importantly, the whisperings of their inner heart. She values innovation, diversity, service, individuality, and equality. Her goal is to support and guide professional women through their journey of self-discovery and reclaiming their own self-worth so that they are free from the obstacles that hold them back.

For Tonya M. Gerard,obtaining her Electrical Engineering degree propelled her on a journey that led to her becoming one of a select group of respected black female technical contributors in the U.S. Power Utility industry. Along her journey to creating a sustainable legacy, she has become a licensed independent insurance and personal finance professional currently located in Central Florida. She became a licensed financial advisor because she wanted to help people navigate to successful wealth building and have peace of mind when making investment decisions. She and her life partner have three sons, a daughter-in-law, and one grandson. In her free time she enjoys traveling and giving back to the community by participating in activities such as community fundraisers with several local and national non-profit organizations.

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Let’s start with this...She activated herself to increase her revenue from $165K to $4.4 million a year! I absolutely cannot wait for you to hear this woman’s story. She is one of those women that DEFY! We’re talking about so many great things, what motivates her, how she perceives the good vs. good enough notion, overcoming her personal and entrepreneur obstacles, and how she activated herself to increase her revenue from $165K to $4.4 million a year! Don’t miss a minute of this conversation because believe it or not, the answer to finally getting yourself those results that you’re looking for is simpler than you think. Please join me in welcoming Zenovia Andrews!

Zenovia Andrews is CEO of MaxOUT Marketing Agency, a team of expert digital marketers and innovators helping companies attract more attention online, build more traffic to websites, improve their reputations, and obtain more conversions.

Zenovia’s number one priority is to help you find the best online avenue that offers you maximum Reach and Impact! She recently launched one of her corporations Rubicon Healthcare Sales Consultants, and within seven months she increased her revenue from $165K to WHOPPING $4.4 million a year. Together, she believes that she can help you dance on your dream stage of business success. LET’S ACTIVATE ...listen in!

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We have been navigating the Activation Framework. The third and final step is “Desire.” This episode is all about unlocking the code to desire. You might think you understand your desires, but recognizing them is only the first step. I’m challenging you to think about desire in a new way. Desire is where greatness resides. Desire will activate your willpower. But, here’s what you might not be aware of; what you desire is going to cost you something. The question is, how are you prepared to serve your desire? How will you put your desires to work? Once you uncover this, you will reveal the core of everything else you will be and everything else you will do. The secret I’m sharing with you in this final step of the Activation Framework is going to give you everything that you've been wanting to have. 

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ACTIVATING The Truth! What is your truth? In this episode we are talking about activating your truth. I’m challenging you to ask yourself, at this moment in time, what is your truth? I will reveal a few of my truths to you. You will find that some of your truths will be easy to admit and will make you feel empowered, while other truths will be difficult to accept. You might even discover some truths about yourself that you weren’t aware of before. I am going to share with you things that will awaken your truths and inspire you to take action! The truth will activate you to greatness. So let’s dive in. 

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Are you ready to learn about Activation? If the answer is hell yes! (as it should be) - then you are in the right place. In this episode we are talking all about our Activation Framework, why it’s important to experience this in your life, and how to achieve it. The best part? I am joined by our very first special Girl Greatness Guest, Dena Corbin! 

Dena Corbin is a retired Special Education Teacher, having worked 32 Years. She is a wife, a mother, a grandmother, and Best-Selling Author of Change Balance & Flow: An Essential Oil Journey; which highlights her transition from working all her life to living the rest of her life, and the impact using Therapeutic Grade Essential Oils made in balancing her mentally, emotionally and physically through it all. She is a Certified Horticultural Therapist, certified in the Utilization of Therapeutic Grade Essential Oils for Holistic Transformation, and a master gardener. 

Dena was selected to present a TEDx Tara Blvd Talk on how Reframing the Idea of Gardening was a transforming experience. She also recently earned a certificate in Applied Positive Psychology which focuses on the concepts and tools of flourishing and applied approaches to optimal functioning.

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You know the difference between good vs. great. 

Now, how do you go from the good place to the great place? What does the path to greatness look like?

It looks like a blank canvas. 

In this episode we explore the place of limitless possibilities and I’m sharing the six ways that I’ve learned how to get started. You will have an understanding of what these possibilities could look like for you. 

We’re also talking about what you can do to shift your risk tolerance. Why? Because risk produces greatness. 

Remember that good is free, but greatness will cost you something. 

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I’m going to tell you why “Good” is so dangerous.

Settling within your comfort zone is the most dangerous thing you could do.

In fact, if good doesn’t scare you, ask yourself why not and then challenge those thoughts. Why are you comfortable with good being good enough? 

Challenge those thoughts. Ask yourself, “what is my life about?” 

We’re going to explore these questions in this episode. I don’t want you to stay in the danger of good, when you have greatness just waiting to give you all that you deserve. 

If there’s one thing you take away from this episode, I want you to understand why good is dangerous, and remember that greatness is your destination. 

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This episode we are getting into some heavy stuff. 

Real stuff. 

I’m going to tell you about my story and share with you some of my background, things I’ve struggled with, and things I’ve overcome. As a warning, this episode does include some detailed topics of sexual abuse, teen pregnancy, and suicidal thoughts. 

We’re also going to talk about why going to school saved my life when I was growing up. I understood that I was born into a situation that was never going to give me greatness. 

Do you see greatness when you think about your life? If your answer is no, then know that I was where you are. And if I can go from where I was to where I am now, then I know you can too. Anyone can. 

If you’re in that place where achieving greatness feels impossible, I hope this episode will lift you up and change your outlook. 

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Welcome to the first official episode of DEFY The Good Podcast! 

What does it mean to DEFY The “Good”? 

It means that as women we are going against the notion that good is good enough. We are tired of settling for a good life, a good job, a good income, good relationships, the list goes on. It’s time for women to be great and to strive for all things great. 

In this podcast I will teach you how to get there. 

You are in the right place if you are a woman who is ready to transform your daily life, drastically shift your mindset, and expand your entrepreneurial dreams. Each week you will learn from my experience and the experiences of other special guest women who DEFY The Good. 

If you are like me and you’re wondering what ever happened to “Girl, go be GREAT!” - Your journey to greatness starts right here in this episode. 

Say goodbye to the good notion as we explore the great paradigm and rewrite the narrative of what greatness means for women. 

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