The Rav Dessler Parshah podcast: Recent Episodes
Avrohom Zeidman
If everything will be clear, and the world filled with divine truth, what will happen to our ability to choose? What’s the point of life without choice? In this episode, we explore the nature of free will in the Messianic era — and what that means for us now.
Bikurim celebrates the first fruits , the power of new beginnings. But Elul comes at the end of the year. Or does it? In this episode, we compare Bikurim to Elul to ask: is Elul the closing chapter of the year, or the first step toward something new? The answer may change our approach to this month
Why would the Torah tell a soldier to carry a spade to coverhis excrement - even in the middle of a war? In this episode, we delve into the filth itself to uncover its kabbalistic meaning and why we are naturally repelled by it.
What’s the link between the negligent killer in exile and the death of the Kohen Gadol? In this episode, we uncover a surprising connection — and how it reveals not just Hashem’s strict justice, but His deep love for every Jew.
Adam was a vegetarian. Noach was not. In this episode, we take a macro look at history to see how society’s relationship with eating meat has shifted — and whether vegetarianism is ideal, permitted, or discouraged.
The sages say everything is in Hashem’s hands — except the fear of Him. But what about love? And if fear is ours alone, why do we pray for help with it? In this episode, we tackle some of the biggest paradoxes about God’s power, and what they mean for our relationship with Him.
In Shema we say hayom — “today” — even though the Mitzvos were given thousands of years ago. Why?
In this episode, we will look into what it means to live fully in the present rather than riding on the ripples of the past. We'll also explore if a mitzvah once hard but now easy still earns the same reward, and discover how growth can continue in the afterlife.
God could have placed Ruth in a righteous home — so why was she born into Moab? In this episode, we explore how a negative environment can sometimes spark the strongest desire for truth. And how the same force can pull both ways.
In this episode, we explore what exile really achieves — and what it reveals about the soul after death. What happens to a person when they die? Who are they without a body? The Torah’s choice of exile holds a deep answer to these questions.
Why did the tribes of Reuven and Gad choose land outside of Israel — and why for their sheep? In this episode, we dig beneath the surface and uncover a deeper spiritual mission: the responsibility to uplift sparks of holiness hidden in the physical world. And yes — even sheep have a role to play.
When Moshe asks for a successor, God chooses Yehoshua — and the shift speaks volumes. In this episode, we explore how the leaders of each generation reveal the soul of their people. Looking at the arc of history, we uncover a deeper pattern: some generations are led by the mind, others by the heart — and their leaders reflect exactly that.
Why did people worship idols — and why was it so compelling? In this episode, we explore what made avodah zarah so attractive, how it actually worked, and what that reveals about the deepest question of all: are we serving Hashem… or just serving ourselves?
A rebbe isn’t just a wise person — he’s a vessel through which messages flow. In this episode, we explore why we need a rebbe to help us interpret life, and what happens when that relationship breaks down.
How we see life makes all the difference. From the story of Dasan and Aviram’s perspective on Egypt to understanding the deeper meaning behind current events, this episode invites you to look beyond the surface and discover the hidden layers of meaning in everything around us.
Tzitzis aren’t just ritual strings — they’re part of the Shema, part of our identity, and part of our spiritual memory. In this episode, we explore the third paragraph of Shema, what it’s doing there, and how those little threads are trying to keep us from unravelling.
Moshe knew he was the greatest leader in history — and yet the Torah calls him the most humble. In this episode, we explore what real humility looks like, and how it can coexist with absolute greatness.
Is the Nazir holy for abstaining — or flawed for pulling away? This episode explores a deeper, more analytical question: when we do something non-ideal for a higher purpose, is it still a blemish, or does the goal transform the act completely? A more nuanced discussion this week — come thinking.
We had mitzvos before Sinai — and more came after.
So what truly happened on that mountain?
In this Shavuos episode, we explore the moment we became commanded. But why does that matter? What difference does it make if we’re told to do something — or just choose it ourselves?
The answer may change how you see every mitzvah.
A relationship with Hashem is meant to be deep and genuine — but it's easy to slip into serving for the sake of reward. In this episode, we reflect on what it means to connect to Hashem not for what we gain, but for who we become.
We often think of tzedakah as one person giving and another receiving — but the Torah's view is far more profound. In this episode, we explore who truly benefits when we give, and why the act of giving might elevate the giver even more than the one in need.
How can the Torah permit slavery? In this episode, we explore the concept of the eved kena'ani and uncover the framework that surrounds it — one rooted in justice, dignity, and responsibility. Far from the cruelty of historical slavery, the Torah’s system challenges our assumptions and reveals a deeper moral structure
We usually imagine Kiddush Hashem as a public act of courage — but is that the full picture? In this episode, we delve into the halachos of when one must give up their life, when not, and why sanctifying Hashem’s name isn’t limited to grand gestures or public moments.
“Love your neighbour as yourself” — beautiful words, but what do they really mean? In this episode, we explore three levels of love.
The Torah promises life for keeping mitzvos — but what kind of life is it talking about? In this episode, we explore three levels of what “life” can mean, and how each one offers a deeper understanding of what it means to truly live.
You've probably heard it: speak lashon hara about someone, and you hand over all your mitzvos to them and inherit their aveiros. But is that really true? In this episode, we untangle the myth and explore Rav Dessler’s deeper explanation of what’s really happening when we misuse our words.
It might not feel like it, but hitting the lowest point could be the best thing to happen to you. In this episode, we explore why real growth often begins only when there's nowhere left to hide.
Cows are content, beetles aren’t—and the Vilna Gaon has something to say about that. What your lunch says about your soul.
Aharon, the Kohen Gadol, needs a warning to perform a korban eagerly—even though he has no personal stake in it. But why warn the ultimate Tzaddik about enthusiasm? Could he really fall short?
The "wicked son" at the Seder gets a harsh response—but why? His question seems fair, even sensible. In this episode, we explore the deeper wisdom hidden in this challenging interaction, revealing how the answer given to the Rasha completely flips our understanding of reality.
Explore the deep message behind this surprising halacha and how it reveals the difference between what's just a means and what's truly an end.
The Mishkan’s construction repeatedly says “as Hashem commanded”—but why the emphasis? Does Hashem want obedience over logic? This episode explores the balance between submission and reason in serving Hashem.
We know Shabbos is a day of rest, but what does that really mean? Is it just about stopping work, or is there something deeper at play? This episode uncovers a powerful shift in perspective that can transform the way we experience Shabbos—and even our entire week.
The sin of the Golden Calf is often seen as an outright betrayal of Hashem—but was it really that simple?
Mordechai refused to bow to Haman—but was his defiance just an act of principle, or was he deliberately provoking the most dangerous man in the empire? Why did he push Haman’s buttons so aggressively, knowing the risks?
Are clothes just about covering up, or do they reveal something deeper? In this episode, we explore the Kabbalistic perspective on clothing and how they shape our identity.
Why does Hashem onlywant donations for the Mishkan from those who give willingly? After all He’sdone, why not command it? In this episode, we uncover how this act of givingshapes more than just a sanctuary—it shapes us.
Knowing the difference between a chok and a mishpat is not merely theoretical—it determines the attitude needed when performing a mitzvah.
In this week's podcast we will redefine the distinction and explain why knowing which mitzvos fall into each category is essential.
We often navigate between formality and informality—but how do they shape our relationships? In this episode, we explore their dynamic through Yisro’s encounter with Moshe.
We often focus on our talents, skills, and natural abilities—but do they truly define us? In this episode, we explore the purpose of our strengths and why the fruit matters more than the tree.
Why do so many people feel stuck after a burst of inspiration? In this episode, we explore the hidden power of the number three and why true happiness is a three-step journey.
Why does Hashem stretch out the downfall of Egypt across ten plagues instead of ending it instantly?
Perhaps there is more to Divine justice than meets the eye? This episode uncovers the unexpected kindness hidden within the plagues—and why revenge is sweeter than you think.
Pharaoh’s back-and-forth decisions seem baffling, but they reveal a profound truth about the struggles we all face. Why couldn’t he hold firm, and what does his failure teach us about overcoming our own challenges?
Must we thank those who act selfishly? Why did Moshe delay redeeming the slaves to ask Yisro’s permission? Could this moment reveal a deeper truth about perfecting the middah of hakaras hatov? Join us as we explore the lessons in gratitude woven into the narrative of redemption and its relevance to our lives today.
Is the statement "Yaakov never died" a poetic metaphor, or could it be taken literally? In this episode, we explore the kabbalistic depth behind this idea, delving into the spiritual and mystical perspectives that suggest it’s more than just mere symbolism.
Are there really fires in hell, or is the true pain something far deeper?
In this podcast, we explore the idea of Gehenom, focusing on how shame serves as a key element in the soul’s reckoning. But what if someone feels no shame? Can Gehenom still impact them?
Ever wonder why we thank Hashem for saving us from the Greeks—when He put us there in the first place? In this episode, we uncover the deeper forces behind the clash between Greek externalism and the soul of Judaism—and how triumphing over it ignited a hidden spark that still burns bright today.
In this episode, we explore one of the most fundamental principles of Jewish life: the balance between hishtadlus (human effort) and bitachon (trust in Hashem).
How much effort should we put into achieving our goals, and when should we step back and trust in Hashem?
Should I get a job or is this a lack of faith?
Yaakov asks Hashem for a break. As a result he is challenged with strife?
Why is this so?
In this episode, we explore the tension between accepting gifts and feeling deserving of them.
Should we gratefully receive blessings, or is there merit in stepping back and saying, "Enough"?
Join us as we uncover the deeper meaning of Yaakov's request and what it teaches us about humility, gratitude, and our relationship with Hashem's gifts.
Angels: messengers, protectors, spiritual beings.
But what are they really?
In this episode, we explore the Jewish perspective on angels, peeling back layers of mysticism and diving into their role and their connection to humanity.
Are they literal beings?
Do they have an ego or are they robots?
Join us as we unravel the nature of angels in Jewish thought and kabbalistic wisdom.
Ever thought about how a ladder can teach us about life? In this episode, we’re diving into the kabbalistic secrets behind climbing from selfishness to selflessness. Each step up isn’t just a move—it’s a transformation. Let’s explore how to take that next step together.
Why did Yitzchak originally want to give the bracha to the wicked Eisav, instead of the Tzaddik Yaakov?
Was it all just one big mistake, or was there a deeper plan at play?
In the Torah’s eulogy of Sarah, her beauty is highlighted. Why is this detail relevant? Isn’t our inner essence what truly matters? Or could it be that physical beauty carries a deeper spiritual significance?
How could Avrohom, a tzaddik, dare challenge Hashem’s plan to destroy the wicked city of Sodom and why argue for mercy on behalf of such a corrupt place?
Why do we mention our forefathers in the Amidah, seemingly asking Hashem to show us kindness because of their merit? Does this imply favoritism or an unjust form of bias?
In this episode, we explore why we invoke the Avos in prayer—does it challenge or uphold divine justice?
Why did theft become the tipping point for the flood in Noach’s time? In this episode, we explore how one broken value led to the unraveling of an entire society and the unexpected way Noach was tasked with restoring it.
After Adam took that infamous bite, everything changed—but what exactly? The world was never the same, and neither are we. In this episode, we explore the hidden transformation that altered humanity's understanding of reality forever.
Yom Kippur is our moment to present the ultimate case for life. In this episode, discover how to craft the greatest argument to secure our place in the Book of Life for the year ahead.
In episode 2 we bring practical examples of how Rabbi Yisrael Salanter's down-to-earth approach to teshuvah plays out in real situations."
In this episode, we explore Rabbi Yisrael Salanter's approach to teshuvah, focusing on a key insight that makes REAL change truly achievable through small, meaningful steps.
In this follow-up episode, we move from theory to practice; understanding what is missing in the world today and seeing how the lessons from the sun and moon can be applied in our daily lives.
In this podcast we will look at a cryptic gemara (Chullin 60b) where the moon makes a complaint against God.
This story holds deep significance and holds deep meaning, especially as we reflect on the themes of 9Av.
Ultimately, what's more important, our brain or our heart??
In Part 4 of this mini series on gratitude, we explore how gratitude transcends logic to become a character trait that must be nurtured and developed.
In this episode, we explore the essential role of gratitude in forging a relationship with the divine, revealing why gratitude is not just beneficial, but necessary for spiritual intimacy.
In this episode, we explore the significance of accepting gratitude. Learn how receiving a thanks allows the other person to feel fulfilled and 'quits,' completing a cycle of generosity.
In this episode, we delve into the root source of 'gratitude'.
Why is it some people feel grateful and others do not?
In this podcast, we highlight the potency of habit formation and incremental adjustments as pivotal approaches to nurturing a giving ethos.
In the previous podcast, we highlighted empathy as a stepping stone towards altruism. In this episode, we shift our focus to emphasise that empathy is not just a means to an end, but a significant goal in itself.
In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of empathy as a catalyst for achieving pure altruism.
Through compelling examples, we explore how cultivating empathy can serve as a crucial stepping stone towards selflessly benefiting others, ultimately leading to genuine acts of altruism.
Building upon the previous episode, we draw inspiration from the majestic eagle to illustrate how external factors can aid us in our altruistic endeavors. By examining the eagle's behavior, we uncover the key to leveraging external circumstances to advance our altruistic goals.
In this episode, we explore the distinction between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation. We will also delve into the concept of utilising selfishness as a tool to propel us along the journey towards altruism.
In the final episode of our mini-series, we explore the concept of 'good' ambition—the kind that can truly be satisfied.
In this episode, we continue our exploration of why ambition is never satisfied. We delve into the notion that what we often perceive as achievement may merely be a counterfeit pleasure. True satisfaction eludes us because, at its core, the soul yearns for something more.
Continuing from our last discussion, this episode asks why our ambition, hunger, and drive remain insatiable. We delve deeper into the psychological and societal reasons behind this perpetual dissatisfaction, seeking insights into what drives our unending desires.
In this episode, we identify why ambition, hunger, and drive are never satisfied. Join us as we explore the relentless quest for more and uncover the forces that perpetuate this endless pursuit.
In this episode, we explore: Why did Hashem choose to give us the Torah because of the trait of chesed rather than humility?
Is chesed truly the superior virtue?
In this episode, we explore why love endures even after passion fades. Join us as we delve into the deeper bonds that sustain relationships over time, seeking to understand what truly keeps love alive.
In this episode, we delve into why giving causes love, probing deeply into the essence of who we are.
By examining our fundamental identity, we seek to understand how acts of generosity can cultivate deep emotional connections.
In this episode, we tackle a classic chicken-and-egg question: What comes first—does giving lead to love, or does love inspire giving?
In this episode, we continue to explore the difference between 'taking' and 'receiving'. Taking does not involve a relational exchange. Whereas to receive is building connection.
In this episode, we explore the nuanced difference between being a taker and being a receiver.
Join us as we explore the often misunderstood story of Rabbi Akiva's pupils. Discover why their tragic fate wasn’t simply a matter of disrespect and why specifically did they die during the omer?
In this episode, we challenge the conventional wisdom that relationships are fundamentally based on give and take.
Is this notion truly accurate?
In this episode, we explore the intriguing paradox where a person's actions may not always reflect their true nature.
Discover how someone might perform an act of taking yet fundamentally be a giver, or conversely, engage in giving while being a taker at heart.
In this episode, we delve into the contrasting attitudes that define us: the 'taker,' who focuses on rights, and the 'giver,' who is driven by obligations. Join us as we explore how these distinct mindsets shape our interactions and influence our identity.
In this episode, we explore the distinction between being a giver and a taker, emphasising that these roles are defined not by our actions but by our motivations. Are we focused on ourselves, or do we let our energy flow towards others?
Join us as we uncover the deeper motivations that determine whether we draw inward or reach outward.
In this opening episode, we skip the small talk and dive straight into exploring the dual nature of human existence: the body and the soul. We pose a fundamental question of life's choice: Do I associate myself with the body or the soul?
It's all well and good thanking Hashem for taking us OUT of Egypt, but did He not put us IN, in the first place?
On Purim we are meant to increase our joy. The Arizal called Purim even holier than Yom Kippur and the talmud records Purim as the time we accepted the Torah out of love.
What is it about Purim that makes it stand out as the ultimate celebration of joy, holiness, and love?
How far was Esther willing to go to save her people?
May one do WRONG to do RIGHT?
Join us as we unravel the ethical nuances and timeless lessons embedded in these narratives."
There are peels to fruit and sometimes peels to our hearts.
We know the reason why fruit needs peels, but is there also an ironic benefit to peels over our heart too?
In this episode we ask: Is it more effective to view ourselves through the lens of optimism or embrace a stark realism of ourselves in the journey of self-improvement?
Drawing inspiration from Chanukah, we will unravel the hidden meaning behind Beis Hillel and Shami's argument as to how we light the Menorah.
Avrohom is told by God to sacrifice his son. Then an angel tells him not to. Could it have been right for Avrohom to complete the sacrifice, and what did the intervention truly signify?
Avrohom takes Lot with him on his travels against Hashem's request. On the one side he is blamed. On the other side, Avrohom is also blamed for letting Lot go.
So which is right? Should Lot stay or should he go???
On the one hand we are told Noach was perfect. On the other hand, compared to Avrohom, Noach was not special.
How can that be? Surely nothing can trump perfection -or can it?
How could the greatest man in history, make a mistake, especially when explicitly instructed by Hashem?!?
In this podcast we will uncover the layers of wisdom behind this pivotal moment in human history, revealing the challenge that tested not only Adam but us today.
In this episode, we confront an apparent injustice.
Is it fair that those who choose a path of wrongdoing receive all their limited reward in THIS world, only to lose out in the NEXT world. Why does God not pay their reward in the next world too?
At first glance, one might wonder, why do we need two days for Judgment Day? Shouldn't a single day suffice?
In this podcast, we explore the significance behind Rosh Hashanah's dual-day structure. Two days for two forms of judgement.
We are used to imagining a scales with Mitzovs on one side and Averios on the other. However, under analyse, we discover that there is another element far greater that will determine our judement.
Let's understand why the Chofetz Chaim says 'chesed' is the greatest factor.
Unlock the mysteries of free will with us in this thought-provoking episode of our podcast shiurim. Join our exploration as we reveal that free will isn't an all-encompassing force but rather limited to the specific moral battles we face.
Have you ever paused to consider the profound contrast between two fundamental sources of happiness? Join us in this enlightening episode of our podcast shiurim as we delve deep into the timeless wisdom that distinguishes happiness derived from achievement versus the inner contentment found in simply being.
The Torah mandates we KILL a 'rebellious son'. Where is the love in that?
What message can we learn from this in the lead up to the High Holy Days!?!
Rav Dessler explains...
Moshe 'blames' Hashem for the Golden Calf. In doing so, Moshe manages to save the Jewish people.
But how can one argue with God? How can one 'change God's mind'?
and lastly, what would have happened had Moshe not argued in our defence?
What is more important?
1) The intention
2) The action
Using the analogy of apples and watermelons, we delve into both aspects.
Pinchas did an act of killing to help save Klal Yisroel.
But might this action have a negative after effect on his personality?
Discover the fragile balance between chesed and din in our latest episode as we delve into the captivating story of Balak and unravel the harrowing consequences when this equilibrium is disrupted.
Do our hearts process the facts given to us by our eyes /OR/ Do our hearts dicatate to the eyes what to see?
Discovering the true source of pleasure and how I can achieve it.
(...and why would the Jewish people want sushi more than manna from heaven?)
We all know that UNITY is important. But why is that? What is the depth behind uniting differences?
Two people achieve the same result; one found it easy, the other found it hard. Either way, the result is the same.
So what difference does EFFORT make if the result is the same?
The Omer is 7 x 7 weeks making 49 days. Shavuos is one beyond that at day 50.
What is the message???
Contained in this episode...
Why do I have to love myself in order to love others?
How can you force me to love someone else?
What does love really mean?
If Hashem is the cause of illnesses, surely going to a Doc. and taking medicine is missing the point entirely! Or is it?
On the one hand, Nadav and Avihu died due to some wrongdoing.
On the other hand, Moshe claims that in a certain aspect they were greater than Moshe and Aharon.
How could both be true? and what message can we take from this for us today?
If you could take a pill and all your bad character flaws could melt away - should you take it?
When we had a Temple, why did we need to sacrifice animals?Explore the deeper significance behind this ancient practice and discover its relevance in our modern lives.
Together, we will delve into the spiritual symbolism and meaning behind korbanos and learn about the role they played and why they are not brought today.
If one has achieved perfection -what more is there to live for? Surely the more we develop ourselves, the less their is to perfect? Or perhaps not!
This podcast unlocks the secrets of true meaning of 'Oinesh' loosely translated as 'punishments'
Join us as we delve into the true purpose of punishment, and how it is a manifestation of Hashem's chesed.
Wool and linen are prohibited, yet for a Cohen Gadol and for tzitizit - it is allowed. Why? In this episode we look deep into the mystical significance behind mixing wool and linen.
We think with our minds, we feel with our hearts and we act with our bodies.
Which one is the REAL me?
A judge who accepts the bribe of a single penny is disqualified. That being the case -what chance is there for ourselves to make any moral self-judgments? We are filled with personal biases. Rav Dessler shares several practical answers to help us out.
When the Jewish people stood at Mount Sinai to received the Torah, they backed away in fear.
Is it possible, that too much inspiration is bad for one's health?
Why is it that the angels agreed to doing all miracles apart from the 10th plague and splitting of the sea?
What was unique about these two historic events?
This week as a 'guest speaker' we will look at a piece from the Beis Ha'leivi
Why did God 'Himself' need to take us out of Egypt? Why couldn't an angel?
The Zohar says that had an angel tried to free us, it would have been 'damaged by the depravity of Egypt'.
What does that mean?!?
Rav Dessler explains...
How is it just for God to take away Pharaoh's free will?
Is this a one-off occurrence, or does this happen daily to all of us?
Yaacov blessed his sons. But what are the mechanics behind a bracha. Why should my desire to bless someone have any effect?
Is the 'evil eye' something to be concerned about? Is it real? If so -how does it work and how can I protect myself from it?
The brothers tried to kill Yosef, but Reuven 'saved him from their hands'. What would have happened had Reuven NOT stepped in? Do we have the ability to change the course of history?
Why did Yaacov care so much about little earthenware cups? Should we distance ourselves from physicality or imbue it with spirituality?
We will use the analogy of the 3 little pigs to answer this question!
Rav Dessler Parasha podcast Episode 7: Vayeitsei. Why is Yaacov known as an Ish Emes if his life seems to be filled with deception?
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Episode 6: Toldos.
Why is it Hashem answers Yitzchak's prayers over Rivka's? Is an FFB somehow better than a BT?