Dream, Declare, Deliver!: Recent Episodes
Dream, Declare, Deliver!
Have you ever said to yourself, “If I only had this (more money, better job better relationship, etc.), I could be happy”? We want to turn that on its head and show you that, not only do you already possess the tools to have that life of your dreams, you can learn how to unlock your own personal power to accomplish your wildest dreams. It is all possible. On the show we will discuss what tools are at your disposal, what you can do to actualize your dreams, and how take actions to bring them to reality in your life. In short, we will discuss how to Dream, Declare and Deliver your highest self, your deepest desires and your ideals in relationships, career and self-acceptance.
Nearly the entire field of psychology and especially developmental psychology has been normed on white elite males and then generalized to females. Although the virtues and styles of women leaders have often been classified as lesser and even demeaned, we are now seeing the power and effectiveness of those behaviors, especially in leadership. Dr Stacy Feiner, Dr Kathy Overbeke and their colleagues have authored a new look at a holistic developmental model which they call The Sixth Level. In this session we discuss how they came to their model and how it adds to our understanding of both human development and leadership.
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While emotional intelligence is about knowing your own reactions so that you can better deal with situations, we are currently facing several events so tragic that friends we may know are experiencing trauma (e.g., Fires in Maui and floods in Vermont). In this session I discuss the difference between how we can support friends in trauma and the more normal emotional responses we have on […]
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In this session I get to talk with transformational coach and healer, Linda Manning, where we explore the relationship between emotional health and personal health. Often our failure or refusal to embrace our own negative emotions not only blocks us from understanding what is behind them, but it frequently is stored in our bodies as negative and painful blockages. Emotional maturity begins with […]
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In this session I discuss what having emotional intelligence can do to improve relationship effectiveness. I provide several examples, including some personal examples, of how listening to the other person in the relationship provides a greater understanding and context for what that person is trying to communicate. Check out our video about it here!
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In this session I talk with Dr Stacy Feiner who not only is a business coach but has done work with elite athletes. We discuss how much emotions play a role in the overall performance of the athlete, what their reactions were during the pandemic lockdown and the distinctions between “funk” and “slump”. Stacy and I both found that with athletes we had […]
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This session is a brief discussion reflecting on a conversation I had over the weekend with a woman who was turned off by a man’s emotions. I talk about the role of emotions as an access to our inner thoughts and beliefs. Emotions are the doorway and once we open the door, we can see […]
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My guest for this session is my co-author of Typhoon Honey, Candace Sjogren. Candace and I get vulnerable about experiences and stories where tapping into our emotions have been the superpower that saved the day. Check out our video about it here!
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With my guest, Dr Stacy Feiner, a business psychologist, we discuss how important it is to learn emotional intelligence and how that can empower a leader’s ability to lead. Why do we find ourselves in a situation where we need to learn emotions since emotions are one of the most foundational aspects of being human. Emotional awareness and emotional […]
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In this session I talk with my long time colleague and business partner, Yuka Nakasone, who is an internationally renowned globalization expert. Yuka speaks five languages and understands some of the nuances that come from those and other cultures. We spend a good deal of time talking about what are called high-context cultures like Japan and China where emotions are not discussed […]
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A lot of people think of emotions as positive and negative – either light and upbeat ones or downers. But emotions in reality are neither. They are sources of good information and this session discusses how to unpack emotions to understand what they can teach us. In a sense emotions instruct us on what we should do; they set us in motion, if you will. Check […]
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Many people believe that warriors are taught not to feel, but classic warrior training is just the opposite. Not only are emotions part of our core survival skills, they also are what can keep us fully focused in the present. Warriors must be keenly aware of everything around them, so honing the accuracy of their emotions and sensations is essential to survival. In this session we discuss some […]
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When conducting workshops on emotional intelligence I often ask how many emotions people can claim to have fully experienced. Surprisingly, the average across all groups is SIX. In other words, Most of us do not have a working vocabulary of emotions. Generally speaking, it is because emotions are complex things that are a combination of thoughts and beliefs weighed against our mind’s […]
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This session introduces a new distinction in creating a life worth living – emotional awareness. For many of us the ailments of society (with its divisiveness and violence) have caused us to numb out. And yet, understanding and tapping into our ability to experience our emotions as vital sources of information is more important than ever. The […]
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In this session we look at applying our teachings from Typhoon Honey to a very real and painful event in which both Candace and Kris have been involved. We discuss what forgiveness is NOT and what it really IS – taking back the power, or what we call “agency,” over our own lives by letting go of the attachment to anger and resentment.
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In this session Sarah and Kris discuss the many defenses our egos construct, why they are there, how they differ from our boundaries and what to do about them. We dig into the process of becoming more self-aware because of our defense mechanisms as the work around to thoise defense strategies and a healthier way to deal with the situation.
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In this session we discuss four major types of people based not on their personality but on what they actually do – their observable behaviors. It is an easy way to identify your preferences and, in the examples we discuss, it becomes a good tool for thinking about your “life by design” – knowing what you really want and how to become more balanced in your life.
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In today’s session, we are talking with Yuka Nakasone, a strategic globalization expert. We discuss what happens when we begin to believe that we are actually worth more than we thought. Yuka shares examples of how her upbringing as a girl in Japan had held her in check until she began realizing her own power, intelligence and skills. The result is that now she works far less frantically and makes far more than she did even a few years ago.
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In this session Kris and Candace discuss how important it is to take on that which challenges us to go beyond the edge of our comfort zone. Nothing will ever change nor will you ever grow toward your dream until and unless you dare to step beyond that edge of your comfort! It’s a risk, to be sure, but the rewards are monumental.
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In this session, we place last week’s topic of letting go in the center of a much larger process called shifting. Shifting is what we can do when we recognize that things are going wrong or in an undesirable way and we need to turn it around. Steps and homework practice are included.
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In this session we place last week’s topic of letting go in the center of a much larger process called shifting. Shifting is what we can do when we recognize that things are going wrong or in an undesirable way and we need to turn it around. Steps and homework practice are included.
Check out their video about it here!
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In this segment we discuss how to clean up the things that are holding you back, between you and others and you and yourself. Then we outline the steps to letting it go.
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In this session we talk about the actuality of making a declaration and how often when we declare (not ask, hope for or wish for) we must be prepared in two ways: 1. we get to be prepared by mentally and physically clearing our space to be able to receive or be open to that result manifesting, and 2. we get to prepare ourselves to receive what the “universe” answers us with – as opposed to how we think it ought to be. Sometimes we get far more than we hoped for!
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In this session Kris explores how we all cope with emotions and self-limiting beliefs that would hold us in place. His guest is author and strategic consultant Andy Chaleff sitting in for Candace.
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In this session we talk about how as kids we all were big dreamers but that we were stopped or shut down by something – maybe a parent or a guidance counselor or someone who told you “stop being idealistic!”
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Holidays can be a time of difficulty or joy and sometimes both.
We start the session explaining the source of Scarcity. It is a natural state of our minds. The mind’s main function is to ensure our survival, so it naturally looks for what could go wrong or harm me. When we find ourselves in scarcity (oh poor me) the first thing we want to do is name it and allow it in. The more you resist your pain, the more you will feel stuck in it. This comes back to the power of your choice. Once you have acknowledged what is happening, then ask yourself how long you want or need to be there (giving yourself five or ten minutes – not days or weeks). Then you can shift toward Abundance.
Abundance is not defined as having lots of stuff. Rather abundance is a mindset that comes from gratitude. One key principle of abundance is that you cannot receive more, if you are not first grateful for what you have. So when shifting we turn to our gratitude list – what can you be grateful for – life? breath? a roof over your head? your family? Choose something and start there. A key tool in choosing abundance is what we call “flipping the script.” Often when oppressed or down we feel we “have to” do this or that. But the simple act of changing that script to, we “get to” do it, places you in abundance. Several other tools and techniques are discussed as well.
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We start by identifying three types of people we tend to see doing this type of work:
Seekers (people who are looking to level up, to take the next step in moving toward their vision)
Shifters (people who know that they have more in them but need to shift their way of being in order to get there)
The Stuck ones (people feel that they are a victim of their circumstances and are just stuck and want to find a way out)
Starting with the stuck-ers, who often are asking ‘Why me?“ We talk about how to start seeing events as neutral. Things are neither good or bad (that’s just the judgement we make about them). When we see events as neutral then we can do something with that.
The key point is that you always have a choice. You can choose to see life as oppressing you, or you can choose to see it as neutral and something about which you can have a choice about. Because without choice, we are always reacting, and reactions come from our history, not the current moment. Reactions are our knee-jerk actions – the things we do without thinking. A response is a choice based on what you want in your life. So you can be feeling like a victim, and then choose to take an action that moves you forward despite your circumstances. Our mantra for this action is “Stop, Breathe, Choose.”
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