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Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why you believe what you believe about money?

Many of our deepest financial habits aren't created by us, they're inherited through generations of family beliefs, emotional conditioning, and survival patterns.

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Sarah Lauren to explore how generational conditioning shapes everything from our self-worth to our spending habits and how healing your nervous system can transform your relationship with money.

If you've ever struggled with emotional spending, scarcity, guilt around making money, or feeling like success somehow makes you a "bad person," this episode will help you uncover where those beliefs came from and how to begin rewriting your story.

In This Episode You'll Learn:* Why generational beliefs impact your financial decisions * The difference between trauma and everyday survival conditioning * How your nervous system influences your money habits * Sarah's three stages of healing inherited patterns: + Remembering your true self + Embodying worthiness + Manifesting from alignment * The surprising childhood experience that created Sarah's money story * Why awareness is the first step to lasting financial freedom * How emotional healing and wealth-building go hand in hand * Why money isn't the problem—your relationship with it is

Connect with Sarah LaurenJoin Sarah's free Skool community:

Freedom Lovers Only: https://www.skool.com/freedomloversonly/about?utm_source=skooldotcom&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=user_profile_page&utm_content=9103925b38084802b6af29bb6b8d1b47

Inside, you'll find daily Bliss Rituals designed to help parents heal inherited conditioning and create emotional freedom for themselves and future generations.

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Are you staying in a job because it feels safe, even though it no longer fulfills you?

In this episode of i Date Money®, Lisa Drennon sits down with employment attorney and workplace reinvention coach Natalie Holder to explore what really keeps professionals stuck in careers they've outgrown.

If you've ever wondered whether it's time for a career change, retirement, entrepreneurship, or simply asking for what you're worth, this conversation will help you make decisions from confidence instead of fear.

Natalie shares practical strategies for recognizing when it's time to move on, building confidence before making a leap, negotiating beyond salary, and creating a career that aligns with your purpose.

In This Episode You'll Learn:* Why fear—not money—is often what keeps us stuck * How to recognize the signals that it's time for a change * The difference between taking reckless leaps and strategic steps * Why you need a "Personal Board of Directors" * How to identify your transferable skills * Smart ways to negotiate beyond salary * Why external visibility is one of the most valuable career assets you can build * How to prepare financially before leaving your job * The mindset shift that creates lasting career fulfillment

Memorable Quote

"You don't just leap—you gather the information, take strategic steps, and make decisions backed by confidence."

Connect with Natalie Holder🌐 NatalieHolderSpeaks.com

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Have you ever wondered why making money feels harder than it should?

Maybe you've taken the courses.
Maybe you've learned the sales scripts.
Maybe you know exactly what to do, yet something inside still freezes when it's time to ask for the sale, raise your prices, or believe you're worthy of receiving.

In this deeply emotional live coaching session, I sit down with Q, founder of the Inner Brilliance Collective, as she courageously shares the painful experience that shaped her relationship with money.

Together, we uncover how childhood wounds, survival, shame, and unforgiveness can silently control our financial decisions for years.

This isn't a conversation about budgeting. It's a conversation about healing.

During this episode you'll experience guided visualization, nervous system regulation, aromatherapy techniques, and a powerful discussion about forgiving yourself so you can finally move from surviving to thriving.

In this episode we discuss:• Why money is rarely the real problem

• How trauma shapes financial decisions

• The connection between your nervous system and receiving money

• Why self-worth impacts sales and pricing

• Borrowing from your future self through debt

• The power of forgiveness in financial healing

• Guided visualization to create financial safety

• Moving from survival mode into abundance

Connect with Today's GuestQ
Founder of the Inner Brilliance Collective

Helping women quiet their inner critic, build self-worth, and experience lasting personal transformation.

Community: https://www.skool.com/inner-brilliance-collective-7769/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2

Special MentionsHeather Boers
The Directory on Skool

Helping creators and business owners become more visible through collaboration, networking, and Pinterest marketing. https://www.skool.com/thedirectory/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2

Elena Maren
Inflameless Living

Licensed nutrition professional helping people reduce chronic inflammation through nutrition and lifestyle. https://www.skool.com/anti-inflammatory-lifestyle-1274/about?utm_source=skooldotcom&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=discovery_search_group_link

Ready to Heal Your Relationship with Money?Join The Smell of Money™ community where we combine practical money management, mindset, nervous system regulation, and aromatherapy to create lasting financial confidence. https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about

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Most entrepreneurs work hard to make money but what happens after the money hits your bank account?

In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon sits down with Thomas Cox, founder of Cox Capital and host of The Owners Table Podcast, to unpack the concept of Infinite Banking, a wealth-building strategy that uses specially designed whole life insurance policies to create a personal source of capital for investing, real estate, business growth, and long-term financial security.

Whether you've heard of Infinite Banking or this is your first introduction, this conversation will challenge the way you think about cash flow, profit, and putting your money to work.

In This Episode You'll Learn:* What Infinite Banking actually is—and who it's designed for. * Why this strategy only makes sense if you have consistent excess cash flow. * How entrepreneurs can use life insurance as a financial tool instead of viewing it as just a death benefit. * The biggest mistake business owners make when they say they're "reinvesting in the business." * Why Profit First principles create the foundation for sustainable wealth. * How to think differently about saving, investing, and building long-term financial freedom. * Why money should always have a job—not sit idle in a checking account.

Key Takeaways💰 Money is a tool—not a trophy.

💰 Reinvesting in your business doesn't mean spending money on everything that promises growth.

💰 Insurance can become a strategic financial asset when used correctly.

💰 Building wealth starts with intentional cash flow management before investing.

💰 It's not about how much money you make—it's about what you do with it.

Connect with Thomas CoxWebsite: thomascox.co

Follow Thomas on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and other platforms at @thomascox.co.

Ready to Organize Your Cash Flow?If you're making good money but still don't feel financially secure, it's time to stop guessing and start leading your money with confidence.

Join The Smell of Money™ community where we help entrepreneurs:

• Organize cash flow
• Navigate debt strategically
• Build wealth with confidence

Because it doesn't matter how much money you have—it's what you do with it.

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What if the biggest thing holding your business back isn't your marketing, it's your relationship with money?

In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon sits down with Christian business coach Elaine Lankford to explore the mindset shifts every woman entrepreneur needs to build a profitable business with confidence.

Elaine shares her powerful journey from a successful nursing career that unexpectedly ended to rebuilding her life and business through faith, resilience, and strategic action.

Together, Lisa and Elaine unpack the money beliefs that quietly keep women stuck and reveal practical ways to create both financial confidence and lasting wealth.

If you've ever struggled with inconsistent income, shiny object syndrome, fear of investing in yourself, or wondering if you're truly equipped to succeed, this conversation is for you.

In This Episode You'll Learn:* Why separating your business and personal finances is one of the first steps toward financial confidence. * The difference between having revenue and building real wealth. * How scarcity thinking keeps entrepreneurs stuck—and how to replace it with an abundance mindset. * Why every successful entrepreneur needs a written financial and business plan. * How comparison and imposter syndrome quietly impact your income. * The importance of surrounding yourself with mentors and people who think differently about money. * Why taking calculated risks is necessary for growth. * How to build confidence one consistent step at a time. * A healthier perspective on retirement, wealth, and creating a life you truly enjoy. * Why money is simply a tool—and how stewarding it well creates greater impact.

Memorable Quotes

"Money isn't the problem. It's what we believe about money that shapes the decisions we make."

"Consistency builds confidence."

"You don't need more information—you need a simple plan you can actually follow."

"It doesn't matter how much money you have. It's what you do with it."

Connect with Elaine LankfordWebsite: https://shestepsforwardcoaching.com

Email: Elaine@shestepsforwardcoaching.com

Ready to Organize Your Money?If you're making money but still wondering where it all goes, it's time to build a system that gives every dollar a purpose.

Inside The Smell of Money™ Community, you'll learn how to:

Organize your cash flow
Eliminate debt strategically
Build lasting wealth with confidence
Calm your nervous system around money
Make financial decisions without second-guessing yourself

Join the community and start building wealth with confidence.

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Is your business supporting the life you want or consuming it?

In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon sits down with Suzanne Castle, Chief Sparkle Officer, visionary strategist, award-winning speaker, and modern fairy godmother of business.

Suzanne helps ambitious women trade “beige success” for a business filled with energy, expansion, and ease. She shares how a career-ending fall took her from the theater stage into entrepreneurship and how saying yes to one speaking opportunity eventually helped her build a successful business.

Lisa and Suzanne discuss why multi-passionate female entrepreneurs often become overwhelmed, burn out, or want to burn everything down. The problem isn’t always the business itself. It may be conflicting advice, shiny-object syndrome, unclear systems, or never giving one strategy enough time to work.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

Why your business should serve your life—not the other way around
How changing strategies too quickly keeps you from gathering useful data
Why Suzanne plans and tests her business decisions in 90-day cycles
The difference between honoring your feelings and allowing them to run your business
Why you should understand every part of your business before delegating it
How to recognize when it’s time to hire support
Why rest, me time, and vacations are essential business strategies
What falls apart when you step away—and what that reveals about your systems
How separating your business and personal money creates a stronger financial foundation

Suzanne’s unexpected recommendation for regaining control? Take a real vacation, including a vacation from email and notifications. Giving your brain space to breathe can reveal what’s working, what needs a better system, and what you’re ready to release.

Your money move after listening: schedule time away from your business and notice what you believe will fall apart without you. That answer may reveal the system or support you need next.

Connect with Suzanne Castle:

SuzanneCastle.com

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In this episode of iDateMoney, Michelle Puccinelli joins Lisa Drennon to talk about the entrepreneurial journey most people don't show you: the mindset shifts, the money mistakes, and the systems that actually build a sustainable business. Michelle breaks down the real difference between marketing and sales, where AI belongs in your business (and where it doesn't), and how to know when it's time to bring in support instead of doing it all yourself.

If your money feels messy right now, this conversation gives you a clear next step.

Key Topics

Mindset shifts from scarcity to abundance
Building a profitable and sustainable business
Effective marketing and sales strategies
Using AI to enhance business operations without losing authenticity
Finding and delegating to the right virtual support

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Messy Money
01:49 Michelle's Entrepreneurial Journey
04:52 The Role of Virtual Assistants
07:58 Money Mindset and Overcoming Scarcity
10:26 Marketing vs. Sales: Understanding the Difference
15:51 Implementing Business Strategies for Success
19:02 AI vs. Human Support in Business
24:38 Finding the Right Virtual Assistant
26:40 Best Financial Advice for Entrepreneurs

Connect with Michelle

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellepuccinelli/
Virtual Work Studio: https://virtualworkstudio.com

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Have you ever felt like you're doing everything "right" making more money, building your business, checking all the boxes yet still feel anxious, overwhelmed, or like something is missing?

In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon sits down with Mike Wood, creator of Learn to Love Being You, to explore the powerful connection between mindset, gratitude, nervous system regulation, and wealth.

Mike shares the personal story of reaching every financial milestone he thought would finally make him happy only to discover the real work began within.

Together, Lisa and Mike discuss:

Why chasing money never creates lasting fulfillment
How gratitude changes your brain chemistry
The surprising connection between cortisol, fear, and financial decisions
Why entrepreneurs struggle with burnout
The importance of being present instead of constantly striving
How negative thinking literally limits your ability to see opportunities
Practical tools to calm anxiety and regain clarity
Why wealth is an internal state before it becomes a financial one

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by your finances, anxious about your future, or stuck in survival mode, this conversation will help you breathe a little deeper—and think a little differently.

Key Takeaways✔ Wealth starts with your relationship with yourself.

✔ Gratitude shifts your nervous system from survival into possibility.

✔ Fear narms creativity and decision-making.

✔ Money isn't the destination—it's simply a tool.

✔ Presence is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself and others.

✔ Your thoughts create the reality you experience.

Resources MentionedMike Wood

Learn to Love Being You
Free first lesson and guided breathwork exercises:
mwoodmindset.com/idatemoney

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"It doesn't matter how much money you have—it's what you do with it."

— Lisa Drennon

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What if your biggest money problem isn't your income?

What if it's the relationship you have with money?

In this deeply personal episode, I'm sharing the story I've never told in this much detail from filing bankruptcy at 22 as a single mom to paying off over $100,000 of debt in just six months and retiring from my 30-year career with the Social Security Administration two and a half years early.

For years, I believed I wasn't good with money.

I worked multiple jobs.

I taught personal finance.

I helped others manage their money.

Yet I was trapped in a cycle of debt that kept repeating itself.

Everything changed when I stopped trying to fix my finances and started healing my relationship with money.

In this episode you'll discover:

• Why earning more money didn't solve my financial stress
• The hidden emotional patterns that kept me recreating debt
• How my Money Multiplier System™ was born
• Why restrictive budgets never worked for me
• The simple Money Map that finally gave every dollar a purpose
• How aromatherapy and nervous system work accelerated my financial transformation
• The debt payoff strategy that helped me eliminate $100,000 in six months
• Why confidence—not income—is the foundation of wealth

If you're making good money but still wondering where it all goes...

If you're tired of feeling guilty every time you spend...

If you've ever thought, "I'm just not good with money"...

This episode is for you.

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The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you’ll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2

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Making more money online doesn't automatically create wealth. Financial confidence does.

If you've ever looked at your business and wondered, "Where did all my money go?" this episode is for you.

Too many women entrepreneurs are generating revenue, signing new clients, and building multiple income streams, yet they still feel financially stressed. The problem isn't a lack of income. It's the lack of a clear cash flow system.

In this solo episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon shares why chasing more revenue without a financial plan only creates more pressure. She opens up about her own journey from bankruptcy to paying off $100,000 of debt in six months, retiring two and a half years early, and creating the Money Multiplier System™ that helped her transform her relationship with money.

You'll discover why profit is more important than revenue, how emotional spending quietly steals your wealth, and why giving every dollar a purpose is the fastest path to financial confidence.

Instead of relying on your bank balance to make decisions, you'll learn how to build a simple cash flow system that helps you know exactly what you can spend, save, invest, and enjoy without guilt.

In this episode, you'll learn:• Why revenue and profit are two completely different numbers

• The biggest reason successful entrepreneurs still feel broke

• How hidden money leaks quietly drain thousands of dollars every year

• Why making more money won't solve financial stress

• The emotional patterns that keep women stuck in overspending and avoidance

• How to stop running your business like a hobby and start leading it like a CEO

• The power of giving every dollar a specific job

• How the Money Map creates calm, confident cash flow

Timestamped Chapters00:00 Busy or profitable?

01:30 Why making more money isn't the answer

03:30 Revenue vs. profit explained

04:45 The biggest cash flow mistakes entrepreneurs make

06:00 Setting a real profit goal

07:00 Why your relationship with money matters more than budgeting

09:00 Lisa's bankruptcy story and financial wake-up call

11:00 Why hustling harder isn't creating wealth

13:30 Every dollar needs a job

14:15 The Money Multiplier System™

15:45 Building your Money Map

17:30 How intentional spending creates financial confidence

18:45 Invitation to the Calm Cash Flow Workshop

Resources➡️ Register for the Calm Cash Flow Workshop: https://workshop.idatemoney.com/calm-cash-flow-workshop

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The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you'll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2

If you're making money but still feel scattered, overwhelmed, or afraid to trust yourself, your money story may be running your business more than you realize.

In this episode of iDateMoney®️, Lisa Drennon sits down with former business coach turned life and spiritual guide Kristan Swan for an honest conversation about the hidden beliefs that quietly shape our financial decisions. They explore how childhood scarcity, people-pleasing, fear of judgment, and misalignment can keep entrepreneurs working harder while moving further away from the life they truly want.

Kristan shares how she transitioned from business coaching into helping people reconnect with themselves through intentional reflection, journaling, and values-based living. Together, she and Lisa discuss why success begins with awareness, how slowing down can actually accelerate your growth, and why building wealth starts by understanding the stories you tell yourself about money.

About our guest:

Kristan Swan is a former business coach turned life and spiritual guide who helps people discover their truth, clarify their values, and cultivate a more intentional way of living. Through guided journals, workshops, and retreats, she empowers people to create aligned lives built on self-awareness instead of fear. Connect with Kristan at KristanSwan.com.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Why your money story influences every financial decision you make

How childhood scarcity patterns continue to affect entrepreneurs today

Why working harder isn't always the solution to financial stress

The power of journaling and brain dumps for creating clarity

How people-pleasing keeps women financially and emotionally exhausted

Why alignment creates more sustainable success than hustle

Practical ways to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what truly matters

How community and simple daily practices help build lasting confidence

Timestamped Key Moments

00:00 Why entrepreneurs panic when unexpected tax bills arrive

02:20 Meet Kristan Swan and her journey from business coach to spiritual guide

05:00 Growing up with scarcity and how inherited money beliefs shape adulthood

10:00 Why awareness is the foundation for both business and personal growth

13:20 The power of slowing down instead of pushing harder

15:00 Brain dumps, journaling, and uncovering hidden money patterns

18:30 Community, accountability, and taking small aligned actions

20:15 Why women struggle to prioritize themselves without guilt

23:15 The biggest mistake Kristan made when changing careers

27:50 How to connect with Kristan and begin your own alignment journey

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Making more money online will not create wealth if your money decisions are still being driven by fear, stress, old money stories, and survival mode.

In this episode of iDateMoney®️, Lisa sits down with executive coach and author Stephanie Peirolo for a powerful conversation about money stories, decision-making, divorce, debt, burnout, and what it really takes to build financial stability as a woman. Stephanie shares how childhood scarcity, gender roles, single motherhood, and financial shame shaped her relationship with money, and how she eventually rebuilt financial security while learning to make decisions from alignment instead of panic.

Together, Lisa and Stephanie unpack why messy money is rarely just a math problem. It is often tied to the stories we inherited about work, worth, success, and what women are allowed to have. They also talk about the pressure to overwork, the cost of financial instability after divorce, and why women need to stop sacrificing their own financial well-being to rescue everyone else.

About our guest: Stephanie Peirolo is a board-certified executive coach, author of The Saint and the Drunk, and host of The Bad Boss Brief. She helps leaders make intentional decisions, lead with clarity, and build lives that align with their values. Connect with Stephanie at spayrolo.com

In this episode, you’ll learn:* Why messy money is often a relationship problem, not just a budgeting problem * How childhood scarcity and family money stories shape adult financial decisions * The hidden financial impact of divorce, caregiving, and being a single mother * Why more income does not automatically create peace, profit, or stability * How women can stop over-giving financially and protect their own future * Why decision-making gets easier when you understand your values, responsibilities, and reality * How to define wealth on your own terms instead of chasing someone else’s number

Timestamped key moments00:00 Messy money, money shame, and why women avoid their numbers
02:00 Stephanie’s book The Saint and the Drunk and decision-making with intention
04:00 Money narratives, inherited scarcity, and cultural conditioning
07:00 Divorce, single motherhood, and financial survival mode
11:00 Career choices, writing dreams, and making practical money decisions
13:45 Shame, systemic barriers, and forgiving yourself for past money struggles
15:40 How Stephanie got out of debt and built financial security
19:25 What women need to stop doing with money immediately
20:00 Redefining success and choosing your own wealth number
22:00 Stephanie’s shift into executive coaching and intentional leadership
24:40 Where to connect with Stephanie and get the book

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Making more money online does not create wealth if your money still disappears the moment it lands in your account. In this episode of iDateMoney®️, Lisa sits down with Nandita Mahadevan for an honest conversation about what happens when high income, stress, divorce, health struggles, and unhealed money patterns collide.

Nandita shares her story of moving to the U.S. at 21, building a successful corporate career, earning multiple six figures, and still ending up in debt because no one taught her how to manage money, save intentionally, or build wealth. She opens up about the pressure to keep up appearances, the emotional side of overspending, and how perimenopause, burnout, and a major life reset forced her to rebuild her health, identity, and relationship with money from the ground up.

Lisa and Nandita talk about why debt is often a money relationship problem, not just a money management problem, and why more income alone will never solve financial chaos without a real plan.

About our guest: Nandita Mahadevan is the co-founder of Soul Women, a company helping women navigate perimenopause and menopause through functional medicine, education, and support. Connect with Nandita at solwomen.com and on Instagram at @thesolwomen.

In this episode, you’ll learn:* Why making more money does not automatically create financial stability * How lifestyle creep and status spending quietly destroy profit * The emotional root of debt, overspending, and financial avoidance * What perimenopause, burnout, and brain fog can do to your confidence and decision-making * Why alignment, purpose, and simple financial systems matter more than hustle * How to start shifting from scarcity to abundance without ignoring the numbers

Timestamped key moments 00:00 Why more women are turning to debt relief and bankruptcy * 02:20 Nandita’s move to the U.S. and her first money experiences * 05:00 Building credit, overspending, and the tax mistake that changed everything * 07:10 Debt as a money relationship problem * 09:00 Lifestyle inflation, status spending, and keeping up with appearances * 13:00 The breaking point: divorce, health struggles, and financial wake-up calls * 15:00 Scarcity vs. abundance and how to spend with intention * 18:00 Leaving a high-paying corporate career to start over * 22:30 Perimenopause, identity shifts, and why health impacts wealth * 27:00* How to connect with Nandita and Soul Women

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I make good money, but I have no idea where it goes. If you've ever said that, this episode will help you build the confidence, visibility, and financial clarity needed to create lasting wealth.

In this powerful conversation, Lisa Drennon sits down with Renee Carbone Fleming, founder of Badass Queen, personal branding strategist, podcast host, author, and multi-million dollar sales leader. Renee shares how divorce became the catalyst that transformed her life from stay-at-home mom to building a multi-million dollar organization while helping women create confidence, visibility, and multiple income streams.

Together, Lisa and Renee explore the connection between personal branding, financial confidence, entrepreneurship, and the mindset shifts required to stop playing small. They discuss how women can overcome imposter syndrome, embrace their authentic voice, build a personal brand that creates opportunities, and stop allowing fear to dictate financial decisions.

About Renee Carbone Fleming

Renee Carbone Fleming is a personal branding strategist, speaker, author, podcast host, and founder of the Badass Queen brand. She helps women over 40 increase visibility, build confidence, monetize their expertise, and create multiple streams of income.

Connect with Renee: https://www.instagram.com/reneecarbonefleming https://badassqueen.com

This Episode You'll Learn:

• Why divorce became Renee's greatest opportunity for growth

• How to build confidence when everyone doubts you

• The power of the "Watch Me" mindset

• Why personal branding matters more than ever

• How to overcome imposter syndrome

• The truth about creating multiple income streams

• Why making money is easy but keeping it requires a plan

• How to build an "effort fund" and enjoy your success

• The role authenticity plays in business growth

• How to monetize your expertise and life experience

Key Moments00:00 Why successful women still don't know where their money goes

03:45 Renee's divorce story and entrepreneurial beginning

08:55 The difference between women who succeed and those who quit

10:20 Personal branding before personal branding was popular

13:20 Building confidence and visibility online

16:05 Overcoming imposter syndrome

19:25 Why money disappears without a strategy

22:05 The three-legged stool strategy for business growth

24:00 The Watch Me framework explained

27:00 How to connect with Renee

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That held-breath moment at the checkout: "will this card go through?" It's one of the scariest parts of not knowing where your money is. This week Lisa sits down with Leah Hadley, founder of Intentional Wealth Partners and author of Intentional Money, on how women move from money panic to money ownership. Leah shares her 6-pillar Intentional Money Method, and why your best investment is always you.

In this episode

00:00 The grocery-store panic: "Will my card work?"

01:00 Book a complimentary Profit Power Hour

02:04 Teacher in student-loan debt → senior wealth advisor

04:12 Why money sounds like a foreign language

04:55 Master financial literacy by giving yourself grace

06:11 Why we date money — the psychology piece

06:50 Leah's divorce: "who gets stuck with the house"

08:30 Building a business for flexibility as a single mom

09:07 Earning with intentionality

10:27 The lies we believe going through divorce

11:56 The Intentional Money Method: the 6 pillars

14:21 The best advice: invest in yourself

14:41 Shiny object syndrome — the silent money leak

16:05 401(k)s, portfolios, and fee-only planning

17:09 How to connect with Leah + get the book

17:41 It's not how much you have — it's what you do with it

Key takeaways

Financial illiteracy is common. Nobody is born knowing money, give yourself grace and ask for help.
Be proactive instead of reactive. Put yourself in the driver's seat; it's a choice you make again and again.
The Intentional Money Method runs on six pillars: clarity, values, mindset, strategy, action, support.
Your education and your belief in yourself are the one investment no one can take.
Shiny object syndrome is a money leak. A real system, not another budget plugs it.

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If you've ever felt overwhelmed, confused, or stuck financially as a single parent, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, Lisa Drennon interviews Pat Hankin, author of The Field Guide for Single Parents, about practical ways to rebuild finances after divorce, create financial stability, and stop feeling guilty every time you spend money.

You'll discover how to evaluate spending decisions differently, why budgeting doesn't have to feel restrictive, and how to create meaningful experiences for your children without overspending.

In This Episode✔ How to rebuild finances after divorce
✔ Financial stability strategies for single parents
✔ The true value of your time
✔ How to stop feeling guilty about spending money
✔ Simple financial planning tips for busy moms
✔ Ways to create family memories without breaking the budget

Chapters00:00 Introduction
03:35 Pat's single parent journey
05:20 Financial realities of raising children
07:00 Debt, borrowing, and credit scores
11:20 Understanding your spending
13:20 The three biggest financial decisions
15:00 Affordable family travel ideas
17:30 Money mindset shifts that change everything
20:45 The value of your time
24:00 Entrepreneur burnout and delegation
29:00 Child support versus financial independence
33:00 Free resources every parent should know about

ResourcesPat Hankin Website: pathankin.com

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This Week on I Date Money: Selling From Service, Not Scarcity

Sales coach Liz Lemarchand joins Lisa Drennon to break down why so many women entrepreneurs feel "icky" about selling and how to flip that feeling into confidence, alignment, and consistent cash flow. With 25 years in sales and marketing, Liz shares how she went from hating telemarketing as a teenager to teaching women how to sell in a way that actually feels good.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Why your nervous system treats a sales conversation like a tiger you need to fight or run from and how to calm that response down
The inherited money stories that keep you stuck, underpricing, or avoiding sales altogether (and how to start rewriting them)
The one shift that changes everything: turning sales from "pushing a product" into "being of service"
Why getting specific about who you serve even when it feels scary is what actually gets you paid
The truth about pricing: it's not about copying what everyone else charges, it's about pricing to the value of the transformation you provide
Why "scarcity mindset" sales tactics backfire, and what compassionate, direct communication looks like instead

Connect with Liz:

Join her Skool community, Money and Growth for Women, and grab her free course, Selling for Women Who Hate Sales: https://www.skool.com/money-growth-for-women-2353/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2

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Want financial stability after divorce without confusing investment strategies or risky money decisions? This episode breaks down how real estate investing can create steady income, long-term security, and confidence with money even if you’re starting from scratch.

In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa sits down with global real estate investor Jay Patel to talk about practical investing strategies for women who want predictable income, long-term wealth, and financial freedom without overwhelm. Jay shares how he rebuilt after losing millions during the 2001 market crash and why real estate became the foundation for lasting financial security.

From assisted living investments to flipping properties and creating passive income through real estate funds, this conversation gives you simple, real-world insight into how investing can help you rebuild your finances after divorce and create stability for your future.

Jay Patel is a global real estate investor and founder of PropTex with more than 25 years of experience in commercial real estate, property technology, rehabs, and investment funds.

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Your money struggle isn’t physical — it’s emotional.

Change the emotion, and the money follows.

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Your money mindset may be the very thing blocking the financial stability you’ve been working so hard to create.

In this powerful conversation, Lisa sits down with Suzanne Leydecker, author of A Woman on Top, to unpack the emotional side of wealth building, relationship patterns, boundaries, and why financial success starts long before your bank balance changes.

If you’ve ever found yourself overgiving in relationships, rescuing others financially, or wondering why money keeps slipping through your fingers despite earning well, this episode will hit home.

Suzanne shares her deeply personal journey from inheriting wealth to realizing that money itself was never the issue. Emotional maturity, boundaries, self-worth, and financial responsibility were the true lessons.

This conversation is a reminder that building wealth is not just about spreadsheets. It’s about identity, self-trust, and the relationship you have with yourself.

Connect with Suzanne here: https://suzanneleydecker.com/

In This Episode You’ll Learn:* Why making more money does not solve emotional money patterns * How self-worth impacts net worth * Why overgiving destroys wealth * The emotional cost of people pleasing * Healthy financial boundaries with children and partners * Why lottery thinking keeps women financially stuck * The importance of weekly money dates and financial organization * How emotional maturity creates lasting wealth

Timestamped Key Moments:00:02 Why YOU may be blocking your income
01:30 Suzanne’s story and why she wrote her memoir
04:20 Why money is more taboo than sex
06:20 Overgiving, rescuing men, and emotional money leaks
08:15 Falling in love with potential instead of reality
10:50 Suzanne’s four pillars of responsibility
12:00 The boundary lesson that changed everything
14:30 Why weekly bookkeeping builds confidence
16:20 Setting healthy financial boundaries with kids
19:15 Why winning the lottery won’t solve your problems
20:15 Self-worth determines financial outcomes
22:20 Where to connect with Suzanne

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What starts as a financial disaster can become the beginning of a brand-new income stream when you have the right money mindset and systems in place.

In this episode of iDateMoney, Lisa sits down with Michelle Gagnier to talk about what happened when hurricane-related home damage, denied insurance claims, and financial stress forced Michelle to think differently. What began as an overwhelming mold issue in her home turned into an unexpected business opportunity helping homeowners and contractors navigate insurance claim systems.

This conversation is a real reminder that financial stability is not about avoiding every crisis. It is about having simple systems, emergency planning, and the resilience to pivot when life throws something unexpected your way.

Michelle Gagnier is the founder of Claim Track HQ, where she helps mold inspectors and restoration contractors manage insurance claims and admin support. Connect with Michelle: https://primrosebusinesssolutions.online/

In this episode, you’ll learn:* How financial emergencies reveal weaknesses in your money systems * Why emergency funds matter, even if you start with just $100 a month * Common homeowner insurance mistakes that can cost you thousands * What to check before filing a property insurance claim * Hidden costs real estate investors should watch for * How to turn an unexpected setback into a new income opportunity * Why networking can accelerate business growth faster than going alone * How stress impacts both your finances and your health

Timestamped Key Moments00:00 Turning financial disaster into opportunity
01:34 Why entrepreneurs need money systems, not just income
03:53 Michelle’s denied insurance claim story
04:59 The financial pressure of surviving without savings
06:13 Stress, health setbacks, and entrepreneurship
07:51 How a mold inspection became a new business

opportunity
08:42 Emergency fund lessons every homeowner needs
10:24 Real estate investing red flags to watch for
11:51 Starting an emergency fund with small steps
12:58 Building a claims support business
14:17 Best financial advice: invest wisely in business growth
15:13 How networking through BNI created opportunities

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If financial stress is keeping you stuck, overwhelmed, and physically exhausted, this episode will show you how to start creating financial freedom faster.

In this episode of iDateMoney, Lisa sits down with Dr. Bob Levine, brain researcher, holistic health clinician, and debt elimination specialist, to talk about the direct connection between financial stress, physical health, and wealth building.

If you’ve ever felt like your money stress is showing up as migraines, anxiety, exhaustion, or relationship tension, this conversation explains why.

Dr. Bob shares how unresolved debt creates chronic stress in the brain and body, why most people unknowingly waste thousands in interest payments, and how strategic debt payoff can create faster financial freedom.

This conversation is especially important for divorced moms and women rebuilding financial stability who feel like they are working constantly but not getting ahead.

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What you’ll learn:* How financial stress impacts your brain and body * Why debt keeps women emotionally and physically overwhelmed * How thought patterns shape your money behavior * What “instant thought shifting” means for financial confidence * Why paying minimum debt payments keeps you stuck * How strategic debt elimination can accelerate wealth building * Why financial freedom requires action, not just intention * How to create less money stress and more financial clarity

Timestamped key moments:00:01 Why financial stress affects your health
01:28 Dr. Bob’s background in brain research and wellness
04:15 Financial distress as a major hidden stressor
06:28 How thoughts influence money behavior and action
08:25 Debt elimination strategies explained
15:26 Dr. Bob’s personal debt freedom journey
17:50 Why staying debt-free requires changing your money psychology
21:04 Why it’s never too late to build wealth
23:56 The psychology behind “I can’t afford it”

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How to build a scalable business without burnout starts with simplifying your offers, calming your nervous system, and trusting yourself to lead differently.

In this episode of iDateMoney, Lisa sits down with business mentor Cailen Ascher to unpack what it really takes to grow a sustainable business without hustling yourself into exhaustion.

If you’ve been creating offer after offer, chasing the next strategy, or feeling like success always lives in the next course, this conversation is your reminder that simplicity scales.

Cailen shares how she transitioned from overwhelmed solopreneur to building a half-million-dollar coaching business with one signature offer, why nervous system regulation matters in entrepreneurship, and how to know when it’s time to hire support instead of doing everything yourself.

Connect with Cailen:
Instagram: @cailin.asher
Website: cailinasher.com
Substack: The Self-Led Woman

What you’ll learn:* Why too many offers keep you stuck and exhausted * How to identify the one offer your audience actually wants * The internal identity shift required to grow your business * Why money mindset and nervous system regulation affect income * When to hire support instead of doing everything yourself * How to transition from 1:1 coaching to group coaching without panic * Why simplicity creates better ROI than complexity * How self-care directly impacts your business growth

Timestamped key moments:00:01 Why women fear making the wrong money decisions
01:27 Cailen’s pre-success hustle phase
04:25 How listening to clients revealed the right signature offer
06:17 Hiring support without building a massive team
08:49 Nervous system regulation and sustainable entrepreneurship
12:04 Why self-care is not selfish for mompreneurs
14:37 Transitioning from private coaching to group programs
17:36 How to connect with Cailen

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If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship because you were afraid of the financial consequences, this episode is for you.

In this honest and empowering conversation, Lisa sits down with relationship coach, negotiation professor, and work-life researcher Merideth Thompson to unpack the emotional connection between unhealthy relationships, financial instability, nervous system regulation, and rebuilding confidence after divorce.

Merideth shares her deeply personal story of making the money in her marriage but having zero control over it, what happened after divorce when she had to learn to trust herself financially for the first time at 43, and why clarity is the key to escaping indecision.

This episode is a must-listen if you’ve been stuck asking yourself:
Can I afford to leave?
What if I fail?
How do I trust myself with money again?

About Merideth Thompson:
A relationship coach, negotiation professor, and researcher helping people gain relationship clarity using science-backed tools.

Connect with her here: https://www.mypartnerlab.co/

In this episode, you’ll learn:* Why financial stability begins in your nervous system * How unhealthy relationships destroy money confidence * The hidden cost of staying stuck in indecision * How divorce can become the beginning of financial empowerment * Why self-trust matters more than budgeting in the beginning * How childhood money trauma shapes adult financial behavior * Signs you may be staying in a relationship for financial fear * Practical ways to calm your nervous system so you can make empowered decisions

Timestamped Key Moments00:01 Lisa’s debt payoff resource + mortgage freedom conversation
02:40 Meredith’s divorce story and losing financial control
04:05 Learning financial confidence after divorce
05:20 Financial stability starts in the nervous system
07:35 Tools Meredith used to regulate stress and rebuild confidence
09:45 Childhood money trauma and scarcity conditioning
14:57 Why Meredith became a relationship coach
17:45 Staying in unhealthy relationships because of financial fear
18:10 The moment she knew it was time to leave
19:40 Gaslighting, broken self-trust, and emotional recovery
22:08 Meredith’s stay-or-go relationship clarity tools

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Can real estate actually help you rebuild wealth after divorce without putting everything at risk?

In this episode of I Date Money, Lisa sits down with Chris Prefontaine, founder of Smart Real Estate Coach, to discuss how creative real estate investing can help entrepreneurs, divorced women, and aspiring investors create wealth without relying on traditional mortgages.

Chris shares:

How losing everything in 2008 changed his approach to money
Why true wealth has nothing to do with stuff
How creative financing reduces upfront cash requirements
Real examples of buying homes without traditional lending
Options if you’re financially struggling with an existing mortgage
How to avoid costly real estate mistakes

Chapters00:00 Introduction
02:14 Chris’s 2008 collapse
05:39 True wealth redefined
07:01 Eliminating debt and rebuilding
09:16 Real estate fears for beginners
10:22 Creative financing explained
11:27 Entrepreneurs and buying homes
13:15 Help for distressed homeowners
15:02 Coaching and mentorship
16:05 Free listener resources
17:24 Closing thoughts

ResourcesReceive Chris's gift to you: 3 PayDays Book: https://3paydaysbooks.com/lisa
Visit him here: Smart Real Estate Coach: https://smartrealestatecoach.com

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Messy money does not mean you are failing. It means your money needs a simple system, not more shame.

In this special Mother’s Day episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon talks about the money stress so many divorced and single moms quietly carry. From checking your account before swiping your card to moving money around just to cover bills, Lisa brings honesty, humor, and relief to the conversation around messy money.

Lisa shares why personal and business money often get tangled together, why emotional spending happens, and how guilt can drive money decisions when you are trying to provide for your kids.

She also explains why your nervous system matters when it comes to money and how awareness can help you rebuild confidence, stability, and control.

You’ll learn:

Why messy money does not make you a bad mom
How guilt affects spending decisions after divorce
Why business owners must pay themselves a paycheck
How to use money buckets to create clarity
Why awareness creates financial power
One simple action step to find money you may already have

Timestamps:
00:00 Messy money and why money buckets matter
01:15 A Mother’s Day conversation most people avoid
02:24 The emotional load of money as a single or divorced mom
03:10 Why your thoughts drive your money actions
03:45 Paying yourself as a business owner
04:48 Lisa’s story of bankruptcy, shame, and debt
06:25 Why most money problems are not math problems
07:11 Nervous system safety and emotional money choices
08:00 The Money Multiplier System and fun money
09:35 One question to ask your bank account today
10:20 How awareness can redirect your spending
11:20 Encouragement for every mom rebuilding her money story

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In this episode of iDateMoney, Lisa sits down with PR expert Kayley Hamilton to break down how visibility, mindset, and strategic exposure directly impact your income, confidence, and long-term financial stability. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to grow your business after divorce, this conversation will help you understand what’s really missing and how to fix it.

Kayley Hamilton is a two-time Emmy Award winner, former Hollywood reporter, and founder of UPLVL Agency, where she helps experts become recognized thought leaders through media exposure.

What you’ll learn:

Why stress and confusion around money directly impact your income
The real difference between PR and marketing and why it matters
How visibility builds authority and attracts aligned clients
Why mindset work is the foundation for financial growth
How to trust yourself with money and business decisions
When you’re actually ready for PR in your business

Timestamped Key Moments:
00:00 – Why stress impacts your bank account
02:15 – Leaving a stable career and facing financial uncertainty
07:00 – Trusting yourself when money feels unstable
09:20 – PR vs marketing explained simply
13:50 – What “enough money” really means
17:20 – When you’re ready to invest in visibility and PR
20:30 – The truth about haters and building a personal brand

Connect with Kayley:

https://www.uplvlagency.com/ https://www.facebook.com/uplvlagency https://www.instagram.com/kayleyhamilton_/

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Most women don’t lose money in divorce because of the law, they lose it because they don’t know what to look for.

In this episode of iDateMoney, we sit down with Diana Romanov to break down the real financial risks women face during divorce and how to protect yourself before, during, and after. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and gets into the strategies that actually impact your financial stability after divorce.

This episode exposes the truth about prenups, hidden assets, and the financial blind spots that cost women thousands.

What you’ll learn:

Why prenups are about protection, not pessimism
The biggest mistake women make with international prenups
How spousal support really works and what it could cost you
The fastest way to uncover hidden assets
Simple financial habits that protect you before divorce even happens
Why staying uninformed can cost more than leaving

Key Moments:
00:00 – Why women lose money in divorce
00:20 – Show intro
01:00 – Meet Diana
02:00 – Negotiating a prenup at 24
03:00 – What prenups really do
06:00 – Why foreign prenups fail
08:00 – When prenups help most
11:00 – Why postnups rarely work
13:00 – Spousal support explained
16:00 – Hard truth about long marriages
18:00 – How to find hidden money
20:00 – Protecting yourself financially
23:00 – Filing in different states
25:00 – Fear vs financial reality
27:00 – Choosing freedom over money
29:00 – Final advice + CTA

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Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.

In this episode, we sit down with Niko Mercuris, founder of Crypto Renegades, to break down one of the most talked-about and misunderstood wealth-building tools right now: crypto trading. If you’ve ever felt intimidated, skeptical, or unsure where to start, this conversation simplifies the noise and gives you a clearer path forward. We talk about the difference between investing and trading, how leverage works, and what it actually means to “grow” money faster without building another business from scratch.

Niko shares how he rebuilt after losing $4 million in the 2008 crash and now teaches entrepreneurs how to use strategic trading to create additional income streams.

Connect with Niko on Instagram

What you’ll learn:

The difference between holding crypto vs. trading it
How leverage works and why it can accelerate results
What “risk management” actually looks like in real life
Why most people stay stuck financially and how to shift that
The role crypto may play in future financial systems
Simple ways to start learning without risking everything

Key Moments:
00:00 Welcome and episode setup
01:13 What the Crypto Wormhole Method means
03:00 Trading vs. holding explained simply
05:30 How leverage works using real-life examples
09:00 Risk management and protecting your money
12:00 Why education builds confidence with money
13:00 Best long-term crypto considerations
17:30 Timeline of crypto adoption and future shifts
21:00 Wealth building vs. staying stuck financially
25:00 How to get started and learn more

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Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.

If you feel like you don’t have enough money to invest after divorce, this episode will show you exactly how to start building financial stability with what you already have.

In this episode, Lisa sits down with Shari Rash, nationally recognized financial advisor, money mindset expert, and host of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money. Together, they break down the biggest myths around investing, why traditional financial advice often fails women, and how to create a simple financial plan that actually works in real life.

Shari specializes in helping single women build wealth with clarity and confidence, without overwhelm or complicated systems.

Connect with Shari: Shari Rash's Website

What you’ll learn:

Why you don’t need a lot of money to start investing
How automation builds financial stability faster than willpower
The truth behind “I can’t afford it” and what it really means
How to align your spending with your values
A simple framework to organize your money without overwhelm
How to start saving for retirement even if you’re starting late

Timestamped key moments:
00:00 Why women feel rejected by financial advisors
03:30 The truth about starting to invest with small amounts
06:00 Breaking the “I can’t afford it” mindset
10:30 Aligning spending with your values
13:00 Roth vs traditional investing explained simply
15:00 The 50-30-20 spending strategy
19:00 Emotional spending and money awareness
22:00 Building confidence through simple money habits

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Join The Smell of Money to rebuild financial stability after divorce, fix your money mindset, and create a simple financial plan that actually works.

How to rebuild financial stability after divorce without feeling restricted or broke starts with breaking the save and splurge cycle and finally creating a simple money system that works.

In this episode, we sit down with Heather Boers, founder of Wilder Profits and the Directory on Skool, to talk about the real patterns keeping women stuck in financial instability.

From saving everything and then overspending out of frustration, to avoiding money altogether, this conversation uncovers the emotional and practical shifts needed to build true wealth.

Heather shares her journey from financial avoidance to awareness, how she stopped ignoring her numbers, and how simple systems helped her finally feel in control of her money. We also dive into entrepreneurship, shiny object syndrome, and how to find the right platform that actually supports your income and energy.

Heather Boers is the founder of Wilder Profits and the Directory on Skool, helping entrepreneurs collaborate, gain visibility, and grow income through community.

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What you’ll learn:

Why making more money does not solve financial instability
The dangerous save and splurge cycle and how to break it
How money avoidance keeps you stuck in debt and confusion
Simple ways to start tracking money without overwhelm
Why visibility and collaboration can increase income
How to find a business model that actually aligns with you

Timestamped Key Moments:
00:00 Why making more money doesn’t mean you keep more
02:00 The save and splurge cycle explained
05:00 Money avoidance and not tracking spending
08:00 Feeling restrictive vs creating balance with money
10:30 The power of awareness and celebrating income
13:00 Shiny object syndrome in entrepreneurship
17:00 Finding your platform and aligned income strategy
22:00 Building visibility and collaboration for income growth
25:00 How the Directory creates opportunities and cash flow

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If you’ve been wondering how to rebuild your finances after divorce, feel confident investing, or finally understand how money works, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, we break down money mindset, financial literacy, and simple investing strategies that help you move from confusion to clarity. You’ll learn how to start small, think long term, and make aligned financial decisions that actually support your future.

This is about more than money. It’s about confidence, stability, and finally trusting yourself again.

What we cover:
• Rewriting your money story
• How to learn investing without overwhelm
• Why saving is non negotiable
• Investing with small amounts
• Conscious decision making with money
• Building wealth later in life

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
02:00 Money story and early beliefs
06:00 Learning investing basics
10:00 Saving and financial habits
13:00 Conscious wealth decisions
15:00 Market uncertainty and investing
18:00 Starting late with money
20:00 Action steps

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Why do you still feel broke even when you’re working hard? This episode breaks down the real reason. It’s not your income. It’s your beliefs.

In this conversation, we explore how subconscious patterns, learning challenges, and the way you process information can directly affect your ability to earn, grow, and feel confident with money. If you’ve been stuck in confusion, fear, or self-doubt, this will help you finally understand why and what to do next.

This is about clarity, simplicity, and rebuilding your financial foundation from the inside out.

Chapters:
00:00 Why more money isn’t the solution
02:00 Understanding how your brain processes information
06:00 A simple system to create clarity
12:30 How confidence impacts income
18:30 Rewriting your money story
25:00 Where to get support

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His work focuses on simplifying complex learning challenges into practical, parent-led strategies that can be implemented at home in just minutes a day. Russell specializes in helping children and families unlock confidence, improve communication, and overcome learning barriers without expensive programs or years of intervention.

Resources:
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Investment strategies after divorce can feel confusing, intimidating, and risky. But building wealth does not require guessing or gambling. It requires clarity, education, and the confidence to ask the right questions.

In this episode of the iDateMoney Lisa sits down with decorated U.S. Air Force Lieutenant Colonel turned tech executive and investor Sara Blackmer. Sara shares how she moved from military service into venture capital and how women can start understanding the world of investing without feeling overwhelmed or behind.

If you've ever wondered how wealthy investors think about diversification, alternative investments, and building long-term wealth, this conversation will help you see investing from a completely new perspective.

What you'll learn in this episode:

• Why many women feel intimidated by investing and how to overcome it
• The difference between public market investing and private investments
• What a balanced investment portfolio can look like
• Why financial literacy is the key to rebuilding wealth after divorce
• How alternative investments can help accelerate wealth building
• Why building a supportive “financial village” matters for long-term success

Key Moments

00:00 Introduction and Lionfin’s Money Adventure book
02:08 Sara’s journey from military service to venture capital
05:18 Discovering what motivates you and building an exceptional career
08:00 Why building a support village matters after divorce
09:52 Understanding venture capital and alternative investments
16:40 Managing the emotional side of investing
19:29 Why diversification protects your wealth
23:30 The role of AI in modern investing
27:11 Why women should not feel intimidated by investing
29:56 How to connect with Sara and learn more about

investing opportunities

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Divorce can leave women feeling financially powerless, overwhelmed, and unsure about their future. In this episode, divorce strategist Becky Sampson shares how she fought through a three-and-a-half-year legal battle and why knowing your rights can change everything.

00:00 – Introduction
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01:46 – Meet Becky Sampson

03:08 – How the Divorce Battle Started.

05:15 – Moving to Hawaii and the Marriage Turning Point

06:35 – Refusing to Sign Fraudulent Tax Documents

07:34 – The Defining Conversation About “Value”

08:32 – Serving Divorce Papers on April Fool’s Day

09:56 – Fighting for Financial Fairness

11:22 – Why Women Leave Divorce Financially Struggling

12:29 – The Biggest Lie Women Believe About Divorce and Money

14:20 – The Power of Understanding Financial Increase in Marriage

16:11 – Turning Divorce Pain Into Purpose

18:34 – Why Advocating for Yourself Matters

20:28 – Creating a Business From Hard Experiencesess.

22:30 – Becky’s Podcast and Resources

24:01 – Final Advice for Anyone Facing Divorce.

25:07 – Encouragement for Women Starting Over Financially

Guest BioBecky Sampson is the founder of OnlySubpoenas and a divorce strategist who helps women navigate divorce with strength and confidence. After representing herself through 21 subpoenas and three and a half years of court battles, she now teaches others how to understand their rights and advocate for themselves financially and legally.

She also hosts the podcast Divorcing Strong, where she interviews attorneys and legal experts to educate people on navigating divorce with clarity and empowerment.

ResourcesBecky Sampson
https://beckysampson.com

Podcast
Divorcing Strong (YouTube)

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Franchising is often associated with fast food, but many of the most profitable opportunities today are outside the restaurant industry. In this episode, Lisa Drennan speaks with franchise consultant Jon Ostenson about how franchising works, how much it costs to start, and how entrepreneurs are using franchises to create long-term wealth and financial freedom.

Jon Ostenson is the founder and CEO of FranBridge Consulting and a top franchise consultant who has helped hundreds of investors identify franchise opportunities across the United States. He is also the author of the bestselling book Non-Food Franchising and works with over 600 franchise brands helping entrepreneurs step into business ownership.Connect with Jon on LinkedINThank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸

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What if the visibility you are chasing in business is actually hurting you. In this episode, PR expert Lynn Aronberg explains the truth about public relations, earned media, and how entrepreneurs can build real authority without wasting money.

Episode Highlights* The difference between earned media and paid media and why it matters * The biggest PR scams entrepreneurs fall for * When it actually makes sense to hire a PR agency * Why visibility is a long game, not a quick win

Key Moments00:00 Introduction and the question of financial freedom
01:50 Lynn’s journey from Dolphins cheerleader to PR agency owner
04:00 The truth about PR scams and paid media traps
07:40 When entrepreneurs should invest in PR
09:30 Turning a public divorce into international media exposure
14:00 Navigating fear and entrepreneurship after major life changes
17:00 The emotional battle entrepreneurs face around money
20:00 Why many six figure businesses still feel broke
23:00 PR contracts and understanding the long game of visibility
26:00 Supporting authors and building visibility through media

Guest BioLynn Aronberg is the CEO of Lynn Aronberg Public Relations LLC, a full service PR agency with international reach. A former Miami Dolphins cheerleader, she built her career in public relations before launching her own agency at age 30. Lynn represents entrepreneurs, CEOs, and companies seeking national and international media coverage, and she is known for helping clients build credibility through earned media.

Resources and LinksConnect with Lynn Aronberg
Email: lynn@lynnaronberg.com

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What if one simple question could completely change how you make money, build confidence, and create financial stability?

In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa sits down with Holly Hurd to talk about the power of asking the right questions. Holly shares how women can turn their passions, talents, and everyday skills into income streams that create freedom and stability.

If you have ever struggled with inconsistent income, burnout, or feeling like you are doing everything for everyone else, this conversation will shift your perspective.

Timestamps00:01 – Welcome to iDateMoney and guest introduction
01:00 – The story behind Holly’s book The Life-Changing Power of One Question
02:20 – Why women struggle to prioritize themselves
03:40 – Letting go of guilt and making self care non negotiable
05:10 – How Holly rebuilt her strength after multiple surgeries
06:20 – Why community improves women’s health and longevity
07:20 – The connection between burnout, health, and profit
08:40 – Systems and planning that support successful entrepreneurs
11:45 – Serving clients from a full cup
12:00 – Managing inconsistent income as a commission based entrepreneur
13:20 – Real estate investing and creative cash flow ideas
15:10 – The power of diversified income streams
17:40 – Simple side hustles that can create immediate income
19:00 – Identifying what you love and turning it into a business
21:05 – Holly’s first book VentureMom: From Idea to Income in 12 Weeks
22:00 – Encouragement for women ready to start a business or side gig
22:45 – Where to connect with Holly

Guest BioHolly Hurd is the founder of VentureMom, an online platform dedicated to helping women launch businesses based on their passions and talents. A successful entrepreneur who made her mark on Wall Street at just 25 years old, Holly has been recognized as one of Fortune’s People to Watch. She is the author of The Life-Changing Power of One Question and VentureMom: From Idea to Income in 12 Weeks, where she helps women discover how to turn their ideas into income and build meaningful businesses.

Resources and LinksHolly Hurd's website: https://venturemom.com

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What if financial freedom does not start with spreadsheets or budgets, but with your intuition? In this episode, Lisa sits down with intuitive healer and embodiment coach Victoria Nielsen to explore how reconnecting with your inner wisdom can transform your relationship with money.

Episode Highlights

Why financial freedom begins from the inside out
The connection between intuition, self worth, and money decisions
A simple breathwork practice busy moms can use to reset their nervous system in seconds
Key Moments

00:01 Introduction and the real meaning of financial freedom
02:18 What intuition really is and why women lose connection with it
04:15 A simple breathwork practice to calm overwhelm
06:05 Why your thoughts shape your financial outcomes
08:32 How money stories create push pull dynamics with wealth
11:36 The emotional roots behind debt and spending habits
14:02 Inner child healing and self worth in your money journey
16:20 Rituals, somatic release, and transforming money patterns
17:53 Recognizing how your body reacts to money triggers
20:20 Writing a “Dear Money” letter to uncover hidden beliefs
22:14 Feminine cycles, entrepreneurship, and trusting the flow
23:17 How to connect with Victoria Nielsen

Guest Bio

Victoria Nielsen is an intuitive healer, embodiment coach, and Kundalini Yoga facilitator who helps women reconnect with their inner wisdom and create lives they do not want to escape. Through breathwork, somatic healing, and ancient practices made practical, she empowers women to trust their intuition, release limiting beliefs, and step into bold authenticity.

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Website
Instagram: @victoriamargauxnielsen

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Divorce can shake everything: your identity, your finances, and your confidence. In this conversation, Lisa Drennon sits down with heart-centered divorce coach Joyce Ayers to talk about rebuilding after divorce, healing your relationship with money, and learning to trust yourself again.

They unpack the emotional side of financial decisions, the hidden cost of self-abandonment, and why true financial freedom starts with clarity, responsibility, and self-worth.

In this episode:* Why money issues and relationship issues are deeply connected * How unhealthy money dynamics create tension in marriage * The emotional impact of divorce on financial decision-making * Why stay-at-home moms do contribute financially * How self-abandonment shows up in relationships and spending

Timestamps 00:00 Intro: Why relationships and money cannot be separated * 01:33 Meet Joyce Ayers, heart-centered divorce coach * 02:15 Joyce’s story and how divorce led her to this work * 04:16 What changed after divorce and reclaiming her energy * 05:53 Why reading books is not enough without support * 06:56 Money conversations couples need to have * 08:50 The value of stay-at-home moms and unseen labor * 09:54 Scarcity, spending beyond your means, and asking permission * 13:27 Conscious spending, quality time, and relationship trust * 15:10 Joyce’s amicable divorce and customized financial agreement * 18:32 Why financial counsel matters during divorce * 19:30 Financial literacy, retirement, and long-term planning * 23:31 When it is the right time to get divorce support * 26:22 Mindset, nervous system regulation, and monitoring your thoughts * 29:33 Rebuilding your future and stepping into your zone of genius * 31:50 Self-abandonment, family patterns, and inherited beliefs * 34:23 Comparison, self-trust, and money choices * 37:55 The language you use shapes your future * 39:16 Quick fixes versus real healing * 41:15 How to connect with Joyce Ayers * 42:31* Final takeaway: It’s not how much money you have, it’s what you do with it

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Your relationship with money starts with your relationship with yourself. In this episode of iDateMoney, we explore how your money mindset, financial confidence, and emotional patterns shape your ability to create financial stability.

If you've ever wondered why you keep repeating the same financial patterns, struggle to trust yourself with money decisions, or feel stuck despite working hard, this conversation will help you rewrite your money story and rebuild your financial confidence from the inside out.

Episode Highlights Why your relationship with yourself determines your relationship with money * The hidden emotional stories that shape your money mindset * How unresolved shame and self judgment impact your financial confidence*

Key Timestamps00:00 – Introduction
Lisa introduces guest Sam Ebbelwhite and the connection between sex, money, relationships, and personal alignment.

02:00 – Sam’s personal healing journey
From counseling and support groups to energy work and personal transformation.

03:30 – What alignment really means
Understanding the connection between mind, body, emotions, and money.

05:00 – Why personal growth takes time
How small steps create long term transformation.

07:00 – The importance of your relationship with yourself
How self worth impacts relationships, career choices, and income.

09:00 – The stories we carry about money
How childhood, culture, and past experiences shape financial behavior.

10:00 – Rewriting your money story
Why awareness is the first step to financial change.

12:00 – Facing past mistakes without shame
A powerful reflection exercise that can transform your identity.

15:00 – Breaking the cycle of self judgment
How negative self talk sabotages financial confidence.

18:00 – Why support systems matter for entrepreneurs

20:00 – Challenging the stories you tell yourself

22:00 – How to choose the right mentor or coach

25:00 – Why emotional decisions lead to financial mistakes

27:00 – Knowing when someone is not the right client or coach

29:30 – How to connect with Sam

Guest BioSam Ebbelwhite is a somatic sexologist, kinesiologist, and relationship coach who helps individuals and couples reconnect with their bodies, rebuild trust, and rediscover intimacy and authentic self expression.

Her work focuses on emotional healing, nervous system safety, and helping people release the stories that keep them stuck in unhealthy patterns in relationships, sexuality, and personal growth.

Through her programs and coaching, Sam helps clients rebuild their relationship with themselves so they can create healthier relationships with others.

Connect with Sam: www.samebblewhite.com.au

Instagram: @@samebblewhitess

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What if losing your job at 63 became the moment that changed your financial future forever?

In this episode of the iDateMoney podcast, Lisa Drennon sits down with David Nassif, who went from nearly broke at 63 to achieving financial freedom and a seven-figure portfolio by age 69 using a simple one-page wealth strategy.

What You Will Learn* Why making good money does not automatically create wealth * The danger of living at your full means even without debt * How shiny objects derail your financial plan and investment strategy * The simple diversification strategy that protects your retirement account * Why financial freedom comes from systems, not income * How a one page wealth compass creates clarity and confidence with money * Why it is never too late to start building wealth

Key Timestamps00:00 Introduction to the One Page Wealth Compass
01:15 David’s story: fired at 63 after 18 years
02:15 Facing the fear of telling his wife they might be broke by 65
03:00 Starting over with a commission based business
04:20 The rejection phase and building resilience
05:00 Why making more money does not solve the wealth problem
06:20 The turning point that led David to study investing
07:30 Distilling 21 books and financial podcasts into a simple plan
08:30 Becoming financially independent by age 69
09:30 Why it is never too late to start building wealth
11:00 The danger of shiny objects and financial distractions
12:40 The power of having a financial plan and money system
14:30 Building income through sales and mastering communication
16:00 Creating a one page wealth compass for investing and business
18:00 The diversification strategy that protects your investments
19:00 David’s new book and how the compass works
20:00 How to download the free One Page Wealth Compass

Guest BioDavid Nassif is an author, entrepreneur, and financial educator who achieved financial independence after being fired at age 63. After studying investing and personal finance intensely, he created the One Page Wealth Compass, a simple system designed to help people build financial freedom through diversification and disciplined investing.

Resources and LinksGet Your Free Wealth Compass

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Most people work hard and still feel broke. The problem is not income. It is the lack of a clear money system.

In this episode, Lisa Drennon shares how “dating your money” each week can transform your finances, eliminate debt, and build true wealth. She also explains why financial literacy must start with children through her book LionPhin’s Money Adventure: Discover The Magic Of Saving, Spending, & Sharing

Episode Highlights* Why most entrepreneurs make money but still feel broke * The concept of “dating your money” every week * Why paying yourself first must be non-negotiable * The Save, Spend, Share framework for kids and adults * How Lisa paid off $100,000 in debt in six months * The money mindset blocks that keep entrepreneurs stuck * Why financial systems matter more than hustle * How mompreneurs can separate business and personal finances

Key Takeaways* Wealth starts with clarity about where your money goes * Your income needs a map and a system * Paying yourself first changes everything * Financial education should begin in childhood

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Have you ever been on a sales call, felt completely aligned with the person or program, and then the moment the price was revealed, your stomach tightened, and the words came out automatically: “I can’t afford it.”

It’s one of the most common phrases people say when faced with investing in themselves. But what if that statement isn’t actually about money at all?

In this episode, Lisa Drennon unpacks a powerful realization she had after four recent sales calls where every potential client said the exact same thing: they couldn’t afford the investment.

But instead of taking that statement at face value, Lisa began asking a deeper question.

What if “I can’t afford it” is actually a protective response from the nervous system rather than a true reflection of someone’s financial situation?

When we’re faced with a big decision, especially one involving money, our brain and body can react with fear, stress, and uncertainty. That response can make us shut down opportunities that might actually help us grow.

In this episode, Lisa breaks down the three hidden lies behind the phrase “I can’t afford it” and explains why people often find ways to pay for things when the need feels urgent, aligned, or certain.

You’ll learn why the real objection is rarely money — it’s usually a lack of certainty, discomfort around making the decision, or a nervous system that feels overwhelmed by the possibility of change.

Lisa also shares the powerful lesson she learned from these sales conversations: when people don’t fully acknowledge the pain of their current situation, they often can’t see the true value of the solution in front of them.

If you’re a divorced or single mompreneur who feels like money keeps slipping through your fingers no matter how hard you work, Lisa also shares how her 90-day Wealth Accelerator program helps women install a simple financial system that reduces stress, builds savings, and creates real financial confidence. Explore whether this program is a good fit for you: Wealth Accelerator

Because true financial freedom isn’t about how much money you make, It’s about understanding how to make your money work for you.

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What if the reason you’re stuck financially isn’t about math but about avoidance? In this episode, Lisa shares a powerful personal story about hip pain and how it revealed a deeper truth about the way we treat money. If you’ve been avoiding your bank account, living on credit cards, or feeling anxious every time you think about your finances, this episode will help you lean in instead of pulling away.

⏱ Timestamps00:09 – The Theragun Story: Avoiding the Pain
Hip pain revealed a powerful lesson about control, discomfort, and healing.

01:00 – The Money Parallel
Why we avoid looking at our finances when they feel overwhelming, and how that avoidance keeps us stuck.

02:00 – The Credit Card Cycle
Living on credit, not knowing your numbers, and playing the “where did my money go?” game.

02:18 – The Smell of Money & Money Awareness Challenge
How weekly reset calls and daily “cash flow quickies” help you rebuild your relationship with money.

04:13 – Step 1: Daily Money Gratitude
Why gratitude shifts you from fear to awareness.

05:00 – Step 2: Create a Money Map
Track income, expenses, debt, assets, and net worth. Why knowing your numbers turns fear into neutral data.

06:44 – Step 3: Pay Yourself First
Stop saving “what’s left.” Build your emergency fund and create intentional money buckets.

07:30 – Money Buckets & High-Yield Savings
Using designated accounts to reduce emotional spending.

08:30 – Rewrite Your Money Story
How your past beliefs shape your current financial reality and how to change them.

09:05 – The Psychology of Wealth
Why mindset, not income, determines whether you keep money. Worthiness, healing, and breaking the debt cycle.

09:50 – Final Message: Lean In
On the other side of financial discomfort is peace, clarity, overflow, and true wealth.

Key Takeaways* Avoidance keeps you stuck financially. * Gratitude reduces money anxiety. * Clarity creates confidence. * Paying yourself first builds safety and stability. * Wealth is mindset + math. * You are capable, and deserving of financial peace.

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How to Build a $10,000 Emergency Fund Fast, Even If You Feel BrokeYou do not feel anxious about money because of your income. You feel anxious because you do not have a buffer. In this episode, I show you how to find your first $1,000 in seven days and start your $10,000 emergency fund sprint without spreadsheets, shame, or overwhelm.

What You’ll Learn:* Why saving six months of expenses feels paralyzing * The real reason you still feel broke, even on a solid income * How to calculate your true “needs only” monthly number * Why $1,000 changes your nervous system fast * The 7 Day Money Awareness Challenge that routinely uncovers $500 or more * How to redirect money without feeling restricted * Where to open a high yield emergency fund account * How to stop feeling guilty when you use your emergency savings

Key Steps From This Episode:1. Open your Money Map and calculate needs only expenses 2. Start with $1,000 in seven days 3. Open a high yield savings account 4. Complete the 7 Day Money Awareness Challenge 5. Redirect, do not restrict 6. Build toward $10,000 with weekly clarity

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Every time the market gets shaky, the same fear rears its head. Should I sell everything? Should I stop investing? In this episode, Lisa breaks down why retirement anxiety is not an investment problem. It’s a structural problem. And how to calm your nervous system so you can make confident money decisions, even when headlines feel loud.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode
• Why fear, not ignorance, drives most investing decisions
• How constant exposure to panic-based narratives fuels money anxiety
• Why structure matters more than market timing
• How to give your money a job so your brain can relax
• What volatility means at different life stages
• Why emotional safety is critical to retirement success
• How automated investing builds long-term wealth without stress
• The simplest ways to start or strengthen retirement savings today

Key Takeaway
Markets reward discipline and time. Not emotional reactions. When your money has structure, you stop panicking and start trusting yourself.

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Tax season is not a surprise. Same date, same rules, same stress. In this episode, Lisa breaks down the simple system that removes tax panic, pays you first, and lets your money earn interest while you wait.

What You Will Learn* Why taxes are not a math problem. They are a relationship with money problem * How one simple money map replaces spreadsheets, stress, and scrambling * The five core accounts every business owner needs * How to pay yourself first, set aside taxes, and still have profit * Why online savings accounts change everything for tax season * How to turn tax time into a self-given refund

Key Topics Covered* Creating one document that organizes business and personal finances * Allocating income using clear money buckets * Weekly money dates that eliminate fear and confusion * Paying yourself first as the CEO * Letting your tax money earn interest instead of sitting idle

Resources Mentioned* Mompreneurs Money Map * Join The Smell of Money community and Money Awareness Challenge. This is where you change your relationship with money and build real financial stability.

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It's time to "flip the script' and develop a healthy relationship with money. In this episode, we flip the script on emotional spending, scarcity, and safety with money. And show you how the same tools that heal relationships can transform your finances.

Money decisions are emotional, not logical. In this conversation, Lisa sits down with couples therapist Dr. Dan Sneider to explore how scarcity, fear, and emotional patterns shape our spending habits. You will learn practical grounding tools, communication shifts, and mindset reframes to help you feel safe, confident, and present with money. This episode is about stopping the guilt, slowing the impulse, and using money as a tool for connection instead of stress.

Key Topics:

Why money is always emotional, even when we think we are being logical
How childhood money stories create scarcity and fear in adulthood
Emotional spending, impulse buying, and the guilt hangover
Grounding through the five senses to interrupt reactive money decisions
How couples can talk about money without criticism or defensiveness
Teaching kids healthy money habits without fear or rigidity
Using presence instead of spending to create connection with your children
Reframing money as a tool for safety, pleasure, and practicality

Timestamps

00:01 Why interruptions happen and how to use them for your benefit

01:57 Dr. Dan’s childhood money story and scarcity conditioning

04:28 Why money decisions are emotional, not logical

06:09 More money does not solve money problems

07:03 Fear, safety, and how money shows up in relationships

08:58 I language vs you language in money conversations

10:59 Emotional spending, guilt, and impulse patterns

12:21 Grounding through the five senses before spending

13:20 Parenting, presence, and avoiding overproviding

16:41 Breaking inherited money stories for the next generation

19:45 Fantasy vs reality in spending and addiction patterns

22:15 How Dr. Dan works with couples and individuals

24:27 Final reflections on presence, money, and choice

Guest Bio

Dr. Dan Sneider is a couples and individual therapist based in Asheville, North Carolina. He helps individuals and couples move from conflict to lasting connection using proven communication and grounding techniques. Dr. Dan is the creator of The Intimacy Shift, a 12-week live program designed to build emotional safety, intimacy, and healthy conversations around topics like money, parenting, and connection.

Connect with Dan:

Website and free download: https://www.intimacyshift.com

Program: The Intimacy Shift 12-Week Live Experience

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If the idea of hiring a Cash Flow Strategist makes your chest tighten, that fear is not a red flag. It is data telling you exactly where your money story needs support.

Episode Highlights

Why fear of being seen with your money keeps women stuck in chaos
How instability can feel safer than steady income
The truth about money problems. They are not moral failures
Why mentorship feels heavy before it feels freeing
How your relationship with money affects how clients invest in you
What happens when you stop winging it and start trusting yourself
How to find hidden money leaks and create predictable cash flow
Why confidence, not control, is the real transformation

Key Moments

00:05 Fear of hiring support is data, not a red flag
01:10 The fear of stability and why chaos feels normal
02:27 Why clarity feels scary before it feels freeing
04:41 Becoming the woman who feels safe and confident with money
07:59 What working with Lisa actually looks like
11:05 Letting money work for you instead of working harder
14:48 Why it is time to put yourself front and center

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About the Host
Lisa Drennon is a Cashflow Strategist and the founder of iDateMoney. She helps women turn money chaos into calm by building simple systems that create stability, confidence, and trust without shame, restrictive budgets, or complicated spreadsheets.

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In this episode, Lisa Drennon and Eilish O'Rourke explore the profound connection between money mindset, emotional wellness, and energy healing through Reiki. Eilish shares her personal journey from anxiety to mindfulness, emphasizing the importance of self-love and gratitude in achieving financial peace.

The conversation delves into how Reiki can help individuals manage their emotions, improve relationships, and create a positive mindset that attracts abundance. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their own healing journeys and recognize the power of their thoughts in shaping their realities.

Takeaways

The thoughts we have control how much money we have.
Reiki can help balance the body and promote peace.
Mindfulness and Reiki can accelerate personal growth.
Gratitude can shift your perspective and improve your mood.
It's important to manage your relationship with external circumstances.
Crying and processing emotions is a healthy part of healing.
Reiki can be done distantly, transcending time and space.
What you focus on grows, so focus on gratitude.
Self-love is essential for personal and financial success.
You are your best investment; prioritize your well-being.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Money Mindset and Reiki Healing

01:44 Eilish's Journey: From Anxiety to Mindfulness

05:23 Understanding Reiki: The Energy of Healing

09:47 Using Reiki for Financial and Relationship Peace

14:11 Navigating Emotions: The Role of Compassion and Mindfulness

19:23 The Power of Gratitude in Daily Life

25:54 Connecting with Eilish: How to Access Reiki Sessions

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If you’re constantly borrowing from buckets, shuffling money around, and feeling like you’re failing with money no matter how much you earn, this episode will change everything. You’re not bad with money. You’re missing a stabilizing system that finally makes you feel safe.

Episode Highlights:

Why high earners still feel broke
The real reason you keep borrowing from savings and tax buckets
The emotional toll of constant money shuffling
The root cause behind “just making ends meet”
How to build a simple money bucket system that holds, even with fluctuating income
Why your nervous system can’t feel safe without structure
The essential first steps of the Money Multiplier System
How to assign every dollar a job and stop reacting to money
What happens emotionally and financially when bucket borrowing ends

Timestamps:

00:00 The moment you realize you’re working hard but barely breathing financially

01:20 Why you’re not failing with money

02:10 The divorced mompreneur money pattern

03:15 The trap of “I’ll just make more money”

04:30 The real reason income feels unpredictable

06:00 Borrowing from buckets: symptom, not the cause

07:20 The emotional burden: guilt, shame, fear

09:00 The stabilizing Money Multiplier framework

10:20 Assigning every dollar a job

12:00 Paying yourself first and fixing fluctuating income

13:30 Building safety through structure

15:00 What changes when you stop bucket borrowing

16:00 Why The Smell of Money is the system that finally works

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You’re earning good money, yet your account balance keeps surprising you. Today I’m breaking down the hidden spending that drains your financial stability and the personal story that forced me to confront my own money leaks.

Episode Highlights• The day I realized my “small” expenses were costing me thousands

• Why hidden spending patterns create guilt, confusion, and instability

• The three biggest red flags in every divorced mompreneur’s budget

• How to find the recurring charges you’ve stopped noticing

• Simple methods to track spending without spreadsheets

• How emotional spending ties directly to fear and stress

• The first step to creating a spending system that pays you

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Ready to match your Profit & Loss Statement to your bank account...in this episode Lisa Drennon's shares the exact steps to make profit without fear, shame, or spreadsheets.

You can make six figures and still feel broke. It’s not about how much you earn, it’s about how you manage what you have.

Highlights:

Why high income doesn’t always mean financial peace
The biggest mistakes divorced women make with money and how to fix them
The method that creates stability and confidence
How to stop feeling guilty about spending
The mindset shift that builds trust in your financial decisions

Resources mentioned in the show:

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Every time you get ahead, a “family emergency” pulls you straight back to zero. In this episode Lisa shows single moms how to build a bulletproof money mindset, set family money boundaries, and stop overspending with a conscious spending challenge that actually works.

Episode Highlights* The repeating “family ATM” pattern and why it isn’t just bad luck * The 4 psychological triggers: Guilt Gauntlet, Obligation Trap, Crisis Currency, Scarcity Echo * From savior to steward: the mindset shift that protects your bank account * Three steps to rebuild your money mindset and stop overspending * Boundary scripts that are kind, clear, and firm * The gifting rule that ends resentment and protects relationships * How the 7-Day Conscious Spending Challenge finds $500 in a week

Timestamps* 0:00 Cold open: why emergencies keep resetting your progress * 2:24 Exposing the psychology behind family money sabotage * 4:42 Trigger 1: The Guilt Gauntlet * 6:43 Trigger 2: The Obligation Trap * 8:41 Trigger 3: Crisis Currency * 12:47 Trigger 4: The Scarcity Echo * 16:25 Step 1: Identify scripts and rewrite your money story * 21:12 Step 2: Reframe from family savior to financial steward * 21:56 Step 3: Boundaries with compassion and clarity * 26:23 The gifting rule and how to use it * 28:36 What happens after you say no: the extinction burst * 30:45 Recap and your next decision * 31:24 CTA and share with a single mom who needs this

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In this episode, Lisa Drennon discusses how to enjoy the holiday season without overspending. She shares her personal journey of creating a budget that allows for joy and peace during the holidays, emphasizing that financial stress can detract from the holiday spirit. Lisa provides practical tips for conscious spending, including creating a spending system, sticking to a list, and focusing on meaningful gifts rather than expensive ones. She encourages listeners to shift their perspective on holiday spending and offers tools to help achieve financial clarity and confidence.

Takeaways

The holiday season can be enjoyed without overspending.
Creating a budget can lead to a peaceful holiday experience.
Overspending does not equate to generosity.
A written spending plan provides freedom and control.
Meaningful gifts can be more valuable than expensive ones.
Setting a spending limit helps track expenses and reduce guilt.
Focusing on peace rather than pressure is essential during the holidays.
Kids value relationships over material gifts.
Financial clarity can lead to a more joyful holiday season.
Saving money during the holidays is about creating freedom, not cutting joy.

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