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Tabitha Stitt, The Self-Help Psychic, Teacher and Healer
Have you been wandering through life with no specific purpose or focus and are ready to find the clarity so you can grow your life and passions into what you they can be?! You're in the right place. I'm Tabitha, The Self-Help Psychic! You'll discover exactly how to use your natural gifts and strengths to create and design a life you've always dreamed of - because now's the time to trust yourself and actually take action, with fear and all. With 13 years experience as a professional psychic reader, licensed teacher, and trance speaker I can assure you you're here to accomplish your soul's work AND YOU SHALL. This is your sign. Your purpose, passions and magical potential welcome you!
Being psychic doesn’t have to be complicated. It’s a natural way of being but you must recognize, practice and utilize it. So how do you know you’re psychic too? Here’s how to find out and get started on your intuitive path now!
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Whether you’re a mom or not, YOU have the mother archetype within you! It’s calling for your attention to help yourself and others heal. Here’s how to activate your inner strength and abilities to transform the world, one simple moment at a time.
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Your actions can stall or stop your dreams from manifesting! Which actions though and why does this happen to us? Here’s how to keep moving forward with your dreams and desires, no matter what’s keeping you stuck.
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How do you know your struggles are a sign from your soul?
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Your inner child is needing your attention and isn’t to be taken lightly. What are you waiting for? Ironically, life can’t be so serious ALL of the time. And here’s how to make that happen! Oftentimes, we don’t have time to deal with certain things. We have been taught, either consciously or subconsciously, to feel […]
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You can’t keep doubting yourself. It doesn’t work. Being a source of light is the way to resolve any worries and here’s how.
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What’s the purpose of your soul? Why are you here? What’s the point? How to step into your highest potential is finally revealed.
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You can repeat old patterns that keep you stuck. But you don’t have to anymore! Your soul is invincible and this is how you can tap into it now.
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Can you control the outcome of your soul’s wishes and deepest desires? Yes. But it’s not always easy, especially in moments of chaos. You can do it though and here’s how.
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What do you do when you’re losing something you love so much? When you’ve already lost it? You know it must go? You witness your own grief.
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You need space to create the life you want and align with your soul’s purpose. It’s true. There’s no denying it. But how do you make it happen? What’s necessary? You can’t remain in your old ways and expect to manifest what you want. We have to continuously grow in our efforts. We have to […]
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There are spiritual signs from the universe you’re on the right path. So many times I’ve thought, “Am I on the right path? What do I need to do now?” You too?! Here’s what I’ve learned as a psychic medium that are direct signs from The Universe, God, your angels, guides, spirit animals, etc that […]
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What the hell is happening in today’s world?? So many things. It’s insanely crazy. Is it even possible to find your authentic self?? Yes. And there’s only ONE thing you need to do. From my own personal experience, there are days where I wake up and I feel excellent and I feel good, and I’m in […]
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Let’s talk about channeling. How does it work? How can you do it safely, and how do you get into it? This question actually comes from the beautiful Paige, and she says, “as an intuitive minister, I am used to getting words for both myself and others, so I can definitely hear, but channeling seems […]
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If you want to make it simple, you only need to do this ONE main thing to find the meaning of your higher purpose in life. And my dear, you’re in the right place, at the right time. Here’s how you get started: I am asking [Source / Spirit] to provide you with messages in […]
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You’re your higher self, working on earth, as we all are as human beings. But what do you do with this experience? How do you know you’re on the right path that’s best aligned with your soul’s purpose? As a spiritual seeker I know you know. Here are 5 quick and easy examples to tap […]
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What is the meaningful reason for serving a higher purpose? We’re all here as human beings on planet Earth trying to figure things out, are we not? Yes. And some days are frustrating. Some days are awesome. So how do we make it meaningful? Sometimes things can drag on. Sometimes we deal with the death […]
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Do you have a true purpose? Yes. Do I need to validate that for you? No. But is it helpful to hear? Yes. When you hear this, you’re reminded, (not from me personally, as Tabitha Stitt, another human being) but the fact that YOU were drawn to listen to this. Spirit, Source, God, The Universe […]
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You’re powerful beyond what you realize. And yes, I’m talking about REAL magic – YOUR own inner magic! Even the thoughts that you think are a form of magic! But how can you use it constructively to manifest what you want and finally live with trust and truth? I’ve got 9 ways to step into […]
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We can’t always be constantly on the lookout for “what’s my calling?! What’s my purpose in life?!” Because then we’re stepping into a state of desperation. And desperation can block the flow of our true calling coming to us easily. Sometimes that’s helpful. Because when we’re in that survival mode – we get serious about […]
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How do you recognize your own natural gifts? We’re all born with them but sometimes we have to unearth them to really see and use them. Here’s the best ideas. Think of this as a little gift guide to help align you on your soul’s path. First thing is first. I’m seeing the stillness of […]
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Have you ever wondered if there’s a life guide to manifesting your soul’s purpose? Well, here you are! As a psychic and licensed teacher for more than 13 years combined, I’ve received the messages to put together a quick, simple and inspiring guide to fulfilling your true life’s purpose, and then some… This is a […]
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Did you know that finding your soul’s purpose is easier than it seems? Being guided through a meditation that connects you to Source, your spirit guides and your higher self is the ultimate way. And here’s exactly how to do just that! Discovering your soul’s purpose is aligning with the highest possible vibration. So this […]
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What is the point of being here on earth? Are you also needing some clarity on your soul’s purpose? I know that for many, many years I certainly have. And as a psychic, licensed teacher and speaker for 13 years, I know a thing or two about all of this but not because I have […]
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Want to know 10 quick and easy ways to discover more about your soul’s purpose?! You’re in the PERFECT place. Here are 10 ways that are definitely gonna help you discover, reveal, unearth more about your soul’s purpose. So let’s get into it. 1. Recognize, honor and fully accept that you do indeed have a […]
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You have immediate access to your soul purpose — it’s right in front of you, right now! Here’s 4 easy ways to recognize it. Why are you here? Why are we ALL here? Rather than it just being a dumping place for all your stuff (emotionally, physically, spiritually, psychologically) instead, let’s look at how you […]
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So the question that comes from Spirit today is, where are you headed and why are you going in that direction? So we’re going to dig a little deeper and see what we come up with. Now, I say Spirit, but to you this can mean The Universe, God, Intelligence, Source, Creator, your Higher Self, […]
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I was just flipping my tarot deck and the card that just popped out was The Queen of Wands. And this is a beautiful, wonderful card that I absolutely love. It’s one of my favorite cards of the deck. And this actually gets me really excited because as I was shuffling the deck, I asked […]
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What is magic? The intention of this episode is to give you a different perspective or a higher perspective, or a new perspective of what magic is and how you can use it for the highest good in all ways, for the highest good. My understanding of magic is that – t is movement of […]
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We’ve all experienced this before where we just simply do not trust in ourselves. If you listen to the previous episode, I talked briefly about it, but I’m gonna break it down a little bit deeper in this episode about how to trust yourself and your decisions even more, or just in general. How you […]
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Alright, well, if you’re anything like me, I am an introvert. Maybe you are an introvert as well. I have felt utterly and completely stuck before and in many different ways. And perhaps you have also felt the same way, just totally stuck. Maybe you would explain it and describe it in a different way, […]
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On today’s podcast episode, I am answering two questions that have come in from two different fellas. I adore that these questions have been brought to us, which I feel will be helpful to you as a listener as well. So certainly take what resonates with you and release the rest. But let’s look at […]
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If you’re feeling exhausted or when you’re feeling exhausted, this is a sign that it would be beneficial for you to ask for your spirit guides to come in and to help you get through whatever it is that you’re currently experiencing or what you’ve been experiencing. Because exhaustion is really an accumulation of a […]
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Lately I've been feeling so defeated. Does this ever happen to you?
Where things just seem to be going pretty well in your life and
Then all of a sudden it's like when you try to take two steps forward, it's like you're taking 10 steps back.
You put in your efforts in one thing and then it backfires and then you try another thing.
It seems like you just can't get ahead. And I'm thinking to myself, what the hell is this all about? Is there a lesson behind this? Is the universe trying to teach me something?
Is it a lesson? - And I know I just said that, and that's a prime example of what I'm talking about -
It's like your mind gets so mixed up in what you're trying to do and everything just feels like you're failing.
You begin to think, is it worth it? Should I keep going? Should I not? Should I stop? Should I stall? Should I restart?
And all of this starts to just get so overwhelming to where you begin to feel like you are, for one, going insane. And you begin to think like, what, what do I do? What do I do? What do I do?
What do I do?
And that's been happening to me lately, where I feel like my efforts in this business endeavor of mine. It's like things seem to look up in one moment and everything seems to be going great.
I'm making progress and I'm creating, and I'm putting it out into the world and I'm sharing it.
And I feel really energized and just going at it, at it, at it.
And then the next minute it's like, you hit a wall and then you don't seem like you're making any progress.
Or someone tells you can't do something because of this, this and this. And you feel like you are a fraud or you feel like they just don't understand, or how could they think that about me? That's not true. I have good intentions.
And it just feels so defeating.
I feel like this is part of the healing process - is when you actually begin to just talk about what it is that you're experiencing.
Because I'm already feeling lighter, just talking about it and stepping into this zone where I am just talking about it. And so I feel like that's part of the message here is when you're going through something really, really tough, or you feel like you just don't know what to do, should you do this? Should you do that?
I feel like there's different techniques or different avenues or different paths or different ways of healing that you can take to where you don't feel so crazy.You don't feel like you're going insane. You don't feel like you are alone.
And that's part of the process. And I feel like just -
Being a human being, we all have emotions. We all feel like a failure sometimes.
We all feel like we're on top of the world. And then the next day we wake up feeling groggy and unmotivated.
It's like this whole mixture of emotions. It can drive you like totally crazy sometimes.
And so I feel like the answer would be to first recognize that this is just part of the process. This is just part of being human, I guess, because I've noticed a pattern over my entire life that it can come in different ways, but sometimes it's just short patterns where it's like a day in and a day out a day in and a day out where you're going up and down, up and down.
Sometimes it can be like fleeting moments where you're like feeling really, really wonderful. And then all of a sudden, like someone cuts you off or ditches you in line, or, you know, gives you the finger or gives you a bad look or whatever it is.
And then you're like, you tend to get like flustered by it and
You're affected by it.
And really that's just all energy. Right?
And so you can just become more aware of those moments and to recognize that, okay, that happened. And this is just part of the process of being a human.
And this is just emotions.
But I think that the more awareness that you have of the things that are happening within you, not just strictly without of you - like externally - I think if you
Start to recognize what you're thinking and how you're feeling and experiencing inside of you - THAT will help you deal with these crazy moments of feeling like you are failing
or you feel defeated or de deflated or unenthused or sad, or, you know, all these different emotions happen.
And so that's one way to deal with it is just recognize, okay, this is just being human. Okay. This is just part of the process. And there's only so much that we can do. There's only so much we can do.
(Hi, buddy. My sweet little buddy Axel meowed at me. Um, he's agreeing with what I'm saying.)
The other thing that you can do is what I just did. Right?
You just take a deep breath.
For example, I could have gotten so flustered because he meowed right. I could have gotten so upset. Maybe I'll decide to delete it but you know, I think I'm just gonna keep it in there because this is part of life, right?
We get interrupted. There's a distraction, you know. Something happens and we just gotta roll with it.
We gotta roll with it and know that this too shall pass.
That has always helped me. That has always helped me. And I think I mentioned this before, when I go back to that, I think just the concept of it is like, whatever's happening now in this very moment, it's going to pass and I'm going to be ultimately okay just like what it was before.
Like, you know, you could have went through something traumatic or very sad or frustrating, or it made you feel really upset. And you know, you got through that and here you are now in this moment, you're listening to this.
And so this too shall pass.
You have to say those things, okay, I'm gonna be able to get through this as well.
I also think that something else that can help us is to just take the time to quiet our minds. And your mind is never gonna be totally quiet.
It's always gonna be your mind's gonna be in the back of your mind is what I wanna say. It's never gonna be totally silent, totally quiet, totally at ease.
You know, I don't think that's ever gonna happen. I feel like at least 100% of the time, it's always going to be there. You can never totally shut off your mind.
Even after you pass away, I feel like your mind is still there. Your energy is still there. And that's a whole nother story to get into later on it another time. But what I'm trying to say is when you
take the moment to be in the moment to shut the doors, turn off the sounds and the distractions. Tell the kids, the family, whoever that you need to tell the animals, give mom some, some time; give me some time, give, I need this time to myself.
I need to just settle in. I need to unwind. I need to find this space. I need to be reminded that there is more to this insanity.
I need to feel this connection to God or to source or to the universe, to my higher self. I need to feel reassured.
And when you took that, when you take that moment to just close the door, light, a candle light, an incene, some sage, whatever you wanna do, turn on some soft music, some native American flute, some different hertz or vibrations or, you know, whatever it is that you need to hear and to consume and be in the moment.
Allow yourself.
And if you've never done this before, where you've shut things off and you've come to a quiet space and you just allowed yourself to just be there's no perfect way of doing this.
It's just allowing yourself to just shut everything off for a minute and allow yourself to experience the energy that surround you.
And if there's something going on in the background, maybe hear your child or, you know, you wanna make sure that they're okay. Of course, which you naturally know that. But to know that they're going to be okay, right. To know that everything's okay.
And this is your moment. This is your moment to take two yourself.
You deserve this moment where you're not constantly pleasing someone else.
You're not constantly worrying or you're not constantly trying to make sure everyone else is okay, because if you don't make sure that you are okay, every once in a while, you're going to feel totally depleted and out of control and stressed out. And you're going to be able to handle it, but it's gonna start building up.
And then those fleeting moments of maybe you yell, or maybe you feel like you're completely out of control, you know, but if you take those moments where you just
quiet yourself and quiet the surroundings around you, you will start to notice that there's something going on beyond your physical eyes.
There's something going on and you can start to feel it. You can start to feel the little tingling sensations. And it's almost like this sense of like surrendering. You're just surrendering to this peacefulness that is around you. And you'll start to notice, oh my gosh, there is something beyond this madness of my own mind.
There is something, what is this? And depending on your beliefs, it could be really anything. But I feel like ultimately it's the source of love and energy and reassurance and comfort. And you can call it God, the universe spirit, your higher self source.
I don't remember if I even just said that or not, but it's, it's something that gives you this sense that we're not alone. Even when we're sitting by ourselves, we're not alone. And this is, and I don't mean this in a weird, creepy way. I'm not saying, you know, like all eyeballs are on you or anything like that.
But what I'm saying is it's almost like
This sense of energy that gives you the peacefulness that we're ultimately all wanting at times,
especially when we feel completely out of control and you know, things are going crazy around the world.
And you know, there's so many things that you are that you cannot control. But the one thing that you do have control over at all times is the way that you perceive the situation;
the way that you give yourself the self-compassion that you deserve and essentially need.
It's really important. And I feel like spirits wanting me to tell you this - to give yourself this moment where you can connect and feel it.
So if you've never tried that before, do please try it. And I feel like this is a direct message to you. If you're listening to it and it resonates to you or with you that this is what you're in need of, you know, not every single day. Maybe you wanna do it every day. Maybe it's just once a week,
but to give your time, give yourself this time to just come into this peacefulness and this sacredness and this, this surrendering,
you'll start to notice that it's okay.
That when you begin to trust in something that you can't necessarily see, you'll start to feel that, okay, I'm gonna be okay. I can get through this.
And when you're sitting there, you might ask yourself a question or you're hire yourself a question, or maybe you're just observing. Really? It's just observing. That's, that's all it is.
You're not trying to judge the situation. You don't wanna be hard on yourself.
And I feel like that's part of it too. So even if you are being hard on yourself, don't be hard on yourself that you're being hard on yourself.
Just start to observe what's happening in your mind. And it might take a minute. Maybe you start to feel uncomfortable. Maybe you start to squirming. Maybe you... things are popping up.
But what you can do is just write it down on a piece of paper. Like if you think of something that you don't wanna forget, oh, I don't wanna forget that. Just jot it down on a piece of paper or put it in your notes or whatever on your phone, which I really wouldn't recommend having your phone in there, but that's okay too.
Make sure it's on silent, but just to
write it out so it's out of your mind; so you don't have to worry about remembering it or anything like that.
Or a technique that I do, which is really helpful is I just ask the universe to help me remember. I'll just say, Hey, okay, this just popped up in my mind. I ask for you to help me remember.
I ask to remember this after this meditation session, after this silent session, after this sitting in the power session.
And that really works, I never not recognize that it didn't work. It's always worked for me when I asked to remember.
And so this is the way to get through, or this is A way to get through the insanity that happens.
Because we're affected by the energy that surrounds us.
We're affected by what we see in these videos that we watch.
And we come across these sad videos. I was bawling my eyes out the other day and I won't go into the details, but it's just like, sometimes what's happening in the world can be so heart-wrenching and discouraging and so sad that we just feel like, what can we do? What can we do?
And I'll talk more about what we can actually do, but in order to feel like everything is going to be okay because essentially it will.
You have to take that moment by yourself and just recognize that you are connected to this universal, collective consciousness; this source, this ultimate love out there that is bringing you back to your center.
So try it out.
Speaking about it - going back to what I was saying before - if you haven't tried therapy or counseling, or just talking to someone outside of your inner circle, you know, outside of your friends or family, like talking to someone outside of that, if you haven't tried that before, I would truly honestly recommend doing that.
If that feels right to you. And even if it doesn't feel right to you, I still recommend it because that's kind of getting out of your comfort zone.
But we as humans, we need to get it out of us.
What has been bothering us; what's been weighing on our heart. This is all stuck energy.
They're not judging you. They are, others are, you know, as humans, we're all here to help each other, right? And so this therapist or this counselor is here to help you. And so by talking about it and getting it out is healing.
It is healing.
Try it out, feel it out, experience it, and see this shift in your reality and this transformation that takes place.
And even if you don't wanna talk to a therapist or a counselor, you can talk to, you can like go to a psychic medium.
That's what I do. Or you can go to a healer of some sort or you can go to a yoga class. You can go to a singing bowl class to where you are just shifting your energy.
You're going into a different space and you're allowing the healing to take place because we can't do it on our own necessarily.
I do highly highly believe in self-healing.
That's one thing that I will always support is self-healing - absolutely.
But I do feel like part of the self-healing is recognizing that others can help us as well to help yourself.
You can reach out to others to help you as well. So I do feel that this was helpful and for myself, especially as well, like just talking about it, just closing my eyes and just speaking and just talking about it is helpful.
Even though I'm just talking to a mic, but I'm talking to you.
It's more than that. It's getting it out and letting it be expressed. However, that looks and feels to you.
So take what you will with this.
And I do hope that you try at least one of these things to shift what's happening in your life.
Thank you so much for listening. If you have a question that you want answered about Spirit, empowering yourself or how to manifest a life, you truly love head on over to TabithaStitt.com/podcast and submit your question there.
Until next time, continue to tap into your intuition, take action and trust the process.
And so it is!
To develop power, focus on one aspect of your life.
Oftentimes, what happens is we feel completely scattered. If we have a goal, if you have a goal, you might think I need to do this. I might need to do that. And then you find yourself distracted, and then you're bringing on something else.
And then you're starting something else and then five years have passed and you haven't really gotten too far with much.
It's almost as if like you've got this started and you got this started, and then you start to feel like you are not gonna be able to get it done. What's the point? I'm feeling like I'm failing? And going back to this statement -
To develop power, focus on ONE aspect of your life.
So you must think about how you can create momentum by focusing on one aspect. If you're not quite sure of what you wanna focus on, then you're gonna have to sort of dabble around a little bit.
But if you have this creative idea, then run with it, focus on it, do it, create it, expand it, then do a little bit more of it. And then change it up and become pro at it. Become an expert at it, become really confident at it.
And then you can start sharing this and then others will know you for this. So especially if you thinking about starting your own business, or you have your own business, or you wanna sell something or you wanna create something, but you don't know if it's gonna work.
What is it that you enjoy doing? What is it that you wanna do? Focus on that one aspect or that one theme of your life.
Or one that aspect of what it is that you wanna focus on. And you will start to develop power.
Now we're not talking about external power and control. We're talking about internal power.
The tornado of all of these vibrant things that are swirling around in your soul are... you're gonna create this massive impact on everything that happens around you!
People are gonna start noticing you. You're gonna start drawing in what it is that you want to be known for.
And again, maybe you're not sure, but if you just focus on one thing, one thing, then you'll start to see the power that you do hold within yourself.
What is it that you enjoy doing? What is it that you actually enjoy doing?
What is it that you actually like creating?
What is it that gives you joy; that gives you passion?
And I'm not necessarily talking about, you know, your loved ones and your friends, because of course we all love that. And maybe that does have something directly to do with what it is that you wanna do.
For example, if you wanna become a relationship coach, then you would focus solely on your relationship and how it's impacted you or others' relationships focusing on that. So that would be an example of using those loved ones that you have in your life
as a source for inspiration to create, to develop your power. But let's say you step beyond your immediate love for your family and your friends, and you focus on the one thing that you wanna create. And again, maybe you're not sure, so you have to dabble around a little bit, but then when you find that one thing that you actually enjoy doing, you're like, oh my gosh, I really enjoy doing this. Or it's so natural it comes to you so often, or maybe you do it all the time.
Like for example, maybe you're doodling all the time. Maybe you're always drawing something all the time. Maybe you always have like pen and paper to hand, and you're always doing that. Well, there might be something to that, that you're not recognizing.
It's almost like it's so obvious that you look past it.
It's almost like you don't think too much about it, but you can actually be using that to create the power within you, to make the positive change that you want within yourself and your life.
And then you're inspiring others. And all of a sudden you have this whole swarm of energy around you that is just vibrant and abundant, and you're creating, you're manifesting all because you focused on that one thing that gives you that drive and that passion to be and have, and do the things that you want in life.
You were given this gift to BE this gift; to express this gift; to share this gift.
So if you focus on that, that's when you're gonna start recognizing that you can actually use this medium or this platform or this source or this object or this way of being to create momentum.
You can use it to ultimately create everything that you would otherwise need in your life. You don't have to necessarily go out and get a nine to five job.
You can do what you want to do - and it may take some time.
So I think that's where a lot of people get caught up in all of this, because it feels like we're going and going and going. And we might not see much in return, but if you keep going, tweak it, pivot it, change it a little bit slightly. Let's try this platform. Let's try that platform.
Or maybe stick with this platform or maybe talk to someone else. But ultimately you're sticking with the same theme. You're sticking with the same creative outlet. You're sticking with the same thing that you have a passion for, and you are sticking with that.
And you are creating momentum.
You are creating the life that you want. And that's how you do it is by focusing on that one aspect of your life.
This could be your career, a sport or some endeavor that you have a passion about become an expert. Maybe you don't wanna call yourself an expert. Maybe that doesn't feel right.
Become confident, become the go-to, become the coach, become the mentor.
Become the person that does this one thing, because you love to do this one thing in the process of becoming an expert or whatever it is you wanna call yourself.
You fine-tune your whole being. You collect the important parts of yourself, and you begin to live the life of a warrior. The life of someone that is in charge.
The life of someone who is able to manifest is able to see from a higher perspective, is able to take the reins and go after what it is that you want to go after, without worrying about anyone, stopping you or preventing you, or creating a challenge for you.
So rid yourself of attitudes that are not essential to what it is that you are focusing on.
Get rid of any perspectives that are keeping you from what it is that you wanna do from what it is that you want to go after, from what it is that your soul and your spirit is telling you to seek, to try out.
If something is preventing you, if there's this consistent thought that keeps popping up and popping up and popping up, notice it change it.
It's just an old belief. It's an old subconscious pattern in your mind. It's just a trigger.
It is a way of thinking but if it's not helping you, it's not helping you.
So collect your energy and focus your power on the one thing, this magical thing that you wanna do, this magical thing that you feel enliven by this magical thing that you enjoy doing and creating, expand yourself, trust the process, go after it, do it.
And I know it can be hard. Sometimes I know because I've been in the position before where I feel like I keep going and going and going. And it's like, I'm running low on my battery. I'm running low.
Well, if that happens, then just take a break. This is not about focusing so hard to where you are completely depleting yourself of all of your energy and sources that you have within.
If you need a break. Take a break but maintain that focus.
Keep going after it. Don't shift from another thing. Believe in it. Create it.
If it's not working - let's say you've been going after it - and you still feel like it's not working, shift it a little bit. You've gotta change it a little bit, maintain that theme or that focus that you have, but do something slightly different.
See if that works, test that out. Experiment with this, try that, talk to this person, shift it a little bit, but maintain your focus.
Because if what you're doing is what you're truly passionate about, and you really believe in it and you really think it's gonna help others. And you know that it's helped yourself and you really wanna go after it. You are going to make it happen.
It's already happening. It's in the ether. It's already in the making.
Your magic is in the making.
It's already happening. It's doing it. It's going. Keep the focus, keep the focus. It's just a matter of focus.
Thank you so much for listening. If you have a question that you want answered about spirit, empowering yourself, or how to manifest a life, you truly love hit on over to TabithaStitt.com/Podcast - submit your question there.
Until next time, continue to tap into your intuition, take action and trust the process.
And so it is!
I was just shuffling my oracle deck (one of many decks that I have) and I asked to flip over a card that would best help whoever is listening. So you. And me.
And the card that flipped over says "healing" on it.
Healing.
And in the image is a person who seems to be neutral, neither male or female. And in the center of this is geometric shapes and the color yellow and blue and the flower that looks like a Lotus. And there's two hands that are hovering over this person. And the hands are translucent.
You can see right through it. And as a Reiki master practitioner, I always thought that that's the way to help someone heal is to be a Reiki practitioner. That's what it's all about.
It's life-force energy - that's what Reiki means. That's what Reiki is, is life force energy, and it helps others heal. I'm not saying that I personally do the healing, but I'm allowing myself to be the channel or the conduit, the instrument to condense this energy and to guide this energy and always for the highest good.
And then one day I also recognized that (or someone told me that) being a psychic medium is healing as well.
And when I post videos on it or what I do or try to inspire, I do get from time to time, someone who responds in a not so positive way, or they talk about certain religions.
And to me, when you're inspiring someone, or you yourself are feeling inspired, that is a form of healing as well.
When you are using your words and your visions and your body to express, you are not only healing yourself, but you are helping others heal as well.
You are giving what you have to offer in this moment. You are allowing for the change to take place, the transference of this positive light energy. And it does its thing.
That's not necessarily up for you to decide how it will specifically take place. And we talk about healing. Some people think, depending on where you are or what age you are or where you grew up, or from what region you are in the world, healing can be seen in so many different ways.
And after working with so many clients, healing presents itself in so many different ways.
There's not one way to heal and there's different levels of healing and there's different phases of healing and there's different forms of healing and there's different aspects of it.
And sometimes it can happen very quickly and sometimes it takes many years and sometimes we don't realize we need it. Other times, we are very aware of it.
There can be physical healing that needs to be taking place, or there could be more subconscious, traumatic healing that needs to take place.
And so with all of this being said, what comes to me now is especially if there's some sort of ache or pain or "malfunction" in your body, that's happening in your physical body, my understanding of it, and you may or may not agree, and that's okay - is that
this stems from emotional healing that needs to take place - past wounds that have happened.
Things that have happened energetically from before. And it has been weighing so heavily on your heart and on your mind and on your subconscious that it's creating the energy is basically so dense that it is creating these aches and these pains and this physical discomfort within your body.
That's how it shows up. And that's how your body talks to you. That is how your body is talking to you.
This space that houses your soul and your spirit is talking to you. It's saying, look, if your belly is constantly upset, perhaps what you're consuming physically, the food that you're eating could be not right for you, but also let's say your belly is constantly hurting or bloating or feeling uncomfortable or wheezy or whatever it is.
You're always constantly having an uncomfortable feeling in your stomach or your gut or your belly.
It doesn't necessarily have to do with food. It could be your surroundings, your environment, the person that you are choosing to be a part of day in and day out. THAT could directly be affecting your stomach as well.
Just as an example, it doesn't necessarily have to be the food that you're consuming, although that would be certainly explainable as well.
So that's one aspect of healing. And I do believe that we all have the power and the energy and the awareness and the wisdom to heal ourselves as well.
But part of healing yourself is also becoming aware that in order to heal yourself, you must be open to the different possibilities and the miracles and the belief that you can create.
You can shift, you can change. For instance, this doesn't necessarily mean that if your mother, for example, had a form of cancer, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're doomed for that particular type of cancer or cancer at all.
And going back to the scientific version of this, that's called epigenetics - if you've never heard of that before. And you can explore that more, but
Your thoughts change your physical reality, and this has been studied.
So for example, when you see something or when you hear something that affects you emotionally, it makes you sad. You're affected by it.
Maybe you have self, maybe you have compassion for it. You are sad. And then all of a sudden, a physical tear, a tear, a form of water is now streaming down your face. It's coming down your face or it's being held in your eyes.
But because of that feeling from what you saw or what you heard or experienced it now created a physical tear in your eye.
So if you just think about that, it started with, for one, what you experienced, then what you felt, and now there's something that's happening in your body.
So it's like this trail of energy and how it surpasses from one dimension to another dimension or from one phase to another phase or from one experience to another experience.
It's the transference of this energy.
So if that is the case, if that can take place, then think about how everything else that you're choosing to be surrounded by is affecting your physical reality as well.
Now we're not just talking about physical pain because sometimes our hurt doesn't show up physically necessarily until many, many, many, many years later. And then all of a sudden we're dealing with severe chronic, whatever it is.
And now we're having to deal with that, but you don't have to wait for it to show up in your life in order to do something,
you can instead listen to yourself and choose to start self-healing yourself by choosing to do something different.
By stopping whatever it is by shifting the energy; by changing, by going to a different location by letting go by forgiving, by expressing yourself.
By being truthful with yourself.
By talking to someone - that is also another form of self healing. It doesn't mean that you are solely doing it by yourself.
It is taking charge and choosing to take a different action to shift the energy, to change the energy of the reality that's happening around you, because ultimately you are responsible for what is going on.
As an adult, you have the ability to start recognizing what has it been affecting you and your reality.
And if you are unhappy or sad or consistently feeling unsatisfied or whatever the feeling or the emotion is, if you're seeing this happening, you can create your reality in a different way.
You can heal yourself by visualizing a different reality by visualizing getting better by breathing into your body, by telling yourself that you are healing. By walking away from some sort of situation. By forgiving someone, not forgiving them for their actions necessarily, or condoning their actions, but allowing this to transition the energy.
And by giving yourself this sense of freedom by allowing this situation to go, there's so many different ways that you can heal.
There's so many different ways. And again, sometimes it takes a longer time. Sometimes it just takes a change of attitude or perspective or talking to someone.
And really it comes down to knowing that you have the ability to change your reality. You were not meant to suffer.
You're not put here on earth to suffer all of the time.
Yes, I do feel and believe that suffering is part of the healing process. It is part of the transformation. It does make us stronger, but you are not here to consistently suffer. You're not meant to feel suffering all of the time.
I feel like it's part of the process to make you stronger. And it is part of healing as well.
But when you are consistently feeling this way, because you are in a situation because you're at a certain job because you're choosing to be around someone because not allowing the past to go, because you are putting yourself in this scenario where it's breaking your heart all of the time, you can sort of put a wall around you.
And I don't mean to block anything out, but to, in a way, protect your energy a little bit. And I know that some people might disagree with that. And that's okay. I'm not saying to, you know, hoard yourself from the rest of the world and protect yourself because of all the evils out there. I don't mean it by that, but I mean like
You have the ability to maintain your groundedness and your stability, and even if you are affected by something that's happening.
So for example, let's say that you're a nurse and you're affected by someone that has passed on. And of course, because that's your natural innate part of being human. You're going to be affected by that.
But you can start to separate yourself from that situation and know that this was part of the plan. This is this person's part of how this person needs to transition.
And as a psychic medium, from what I understand and what I've experienced and what I know from my clients as well that
Death is not the end. It's actually a very new beginning.
And so to feel this sense of regret, or I could have done this, or I should have done that, that is creating a lot of weight on your own spirit and your own soul that you don't necessarily have to carry with you because then you're gonna have to heal that part as well.
Yes. Please experience a sense of being in the moment. And if you feel sad, then feel sad. I'm not saying to never feel sad or to never feel hurt, because then you're just restricting and resisting the natural emotions as well.
But to experience it, but you don't have to consistently or continually suffer. You don't have to put yourself through that.
So it begins with awareness and knowing that you have the ability to shift what is happening.
You can change what is happening and it's okay to feel these feelings and do, please feel them have this self-compassion for yourself.
Feel the feelings that you're feeling. That's also a form of feeling, because if you keep resisting them or if you keep pushing them away, or if you keep suppressing them or repressing them, and you're not acknowledging what's happening, then you're just creating this void within you. That doesn't go away.
Now, it's just dense energy. That's stuck there. But if you start to recognize, okay, maybe, maybe I can do this. Maybe I'm gonna allow myself to cry. Or if you're crying all the time, maybe I'm gonna allow myself to laugh. It's almost like this balance of energy that takes place.
It's this awareness; it's this acceptance.
And no, there's no perfection in this process.
I don't think anyone really knows all of the answers to why someone feels a certain way, or why can't I do this? Or why can't I do that? Or I feel like it's just this sense of balance.
And even that in itself, it's like nothing's ever totally 100% balanced all of the time, but it's almost like this take and give this, this experience of flow and resistance and go and get after it and stop. It's almost like you are just becoming more aware and you are tapping into what's happening within you.
And even if you don't have all of the answers, let's say you don't know why something happened to you, or you wanna know why someone is treating you a certain way, or maybe they're not in your life, or maybe they're choosing to not be in your life that can affect you as well.
But we certainly can't have all of the answers.
And when you try and you try and you try and you try and they're still not giving what you feel that you need, you then can recognize that, Hey, you know what, maybe I can just give myself what I need and it's okay because I can't force them to do anything. I can only do what I can do.
And then I release the rest. And so with all of this being said, I know it might have felt sort of sporadic and all over the place. And maybe I was making sense and maybe not.
Maybe only one thing stood out. And that's the one thing that's going to stick with you forever.
Or maybe you're gonna listen to this a ton more times, because it's really, really helpful.
I think that as humans, we have to remember that we're all human beings.
We're all creatures. We're all connected to this Source. And we're ultimately all here as, as the same species as the same thing.
If we remember that we can sort of not feel so alone because I think that's where a lot of hurt comes from as well as we feel alone.
And that's not the case. I think that we all feel hurt and sad and disappointed and misunderstood at times and shameful and guilt and yada yada, yada.
But I also feel like we can take charge and we can empower ourselves and we can go and get after it.
And we have this exuberance about us and we have this strength.
And even though we've been through something really terrifying and scary and traumatizing, we can get through it and we can use our voice to help other people.
And we can hold space for that person. And we can offer our wisdom and our experience, and we can do this.
It's like this ebb and flow of energy and go and go and release and come back. And the moon is there and the moon's not there. The sun rises the sun sets.
It's like this whole fluctuation of give and take. And the energy keeps flowing.
And you get to choose how you deal with that energy. YOU GET TO CHOOSE.
You are in charge of what you can control, and you do have the ability to heal from the inside out.
You have the ability to do that, and you have the ability to help others heal as well.
You don't have to be a doctor or nurse or a Reiki practitioner or a healer of any sort to help others heal. Your words can help someone heal.
Your words can help yourself heal your expression, dancing, singing, laughing, writing, coloring, running.
Just talking to someone, listening to someone - all of that heals.
It's this big collective of like energy that we all can do what we want with it, but you're not alone. You are being supported.
And another thing that is going to help is to ask.
I do feel like that has helped me tremendously is to just ask for guidance, ask for help, ask to feel at ease, ask to feel healed, asked to be healed, asked to get past this asked to see from a different perspective, you can do this.
You can do this. You are doing this.
You are healed. I am healed. We are healed.
Thank you so much for listening. If you have a question that you want answered about spirit, empowering yourself, or how to manifest a life you truly love, head on over to TabithaStitt.com/Podcast - Submit your question there.
Until next time, continue to tap into your intuition, take action and trust the process.
And so it is.
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