Aella Speaks: Recent Episodes
Aella
Mombasa's Podcaster/Self-Love & Motivational Coach/
Aella Speaks a podcast about Empowering, Inspiring & Helping women Level up Got a question or a comment? Email to : aellaspeaks@gmail.com
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Ever had a friend that was too "boy crazy"? You can understand when you're teens but as adults, it's no longer cute but scary at times.
Almost broke down a few times in this episode. It hurts. I talk about Real men & Cursed creatures who pose as menI also talk about how men who care can help end femicide
Y'all will know who I'm talking about 😂Follow me on Instagram: @aellathecoachEmail on: aellaspeaks@gmail.com
Follow me on Instagram: @aellathecoachEmail on: aellaspeaks@gmail.comContact me for my Life Coaching & Counselling packages!
What is a deal breaker in a relationship to you? Have you ever considered these points?
Contact me for the Embody Feminine Energy course details by following & messaging on Instagram: @aellathecoach
Ever wondered why the girls you see as "unattractive" are so lucky to get that great guy? Why she naturally attracts all good things to her?
For all your Life Coaching & Counselling needs, check out my instagram: @aellathecoach Email on: aellathecoach@gmail.com
In this episode, I teach you how to create a Love List to manifest your perfect partner
In this episode, I talk about the dangers of the hook up culture on a spiritual aspect & what women can do to avoid the "Loose booty" title.
I know there are a lot of women who are going through the married man drama period in their lives so this episode is for them. If you find yourself in an entanglement with a married man. Please listen to this episode. Write to me if you want your email/letter read out. I'll keep it anonymous. Your privacy is important. Contact me on: aellaspeaks@gmail.com or Instagram: @aellathecoach @aellaspeaks
You may think you are but I list out some beliefs & behaviour you may have that prove otherwise.
Are you operating more on your feminine or masculine energy? Find out the difference between the two & learn how to balance the energies.
Femininity channels can be great to learn some things from when it comes to your Level up journey. However, I've come to realise some channels talk about things a woman should or should not do that I personally don't agree with.
To learn more on embracing your femininity, love & healing, please follow my friend's amazing page on Instagram : @kenyan_feminine_goddess
What is Girl Code? It is a set of unspoken rules that women follow to maintain strong friendships. In this episode, I look in depth of some of these rules & redefine what they should mean.
Are you unhappy at your job? Ever get that feeling you're just meant for more than sitting in an office cubicle? Here are the signs that support that
Have you ever worked with these types of co-workers: 1) The Gossiper 2) The Boss Wannabe 3) The Office Romeo 4) The Office Juliet 5) The Complainer 6) The Smelly Cat 7) The snitch
Some of the red flags that a workplace can be toxic are seen right at the interview process. Some of them we already know & others we tend to brush aside. Listen to more to know what you could be missing.
Ever notice your co-worker sneering at you when you speak? Or even giving those elevator looks? Sometimes you hear them gossiping about you or they make snide comments about you. No. You're not imagining it. You're dealing with a jealous co-worker.
Nobody likes to deal with office politics but they exist & not much can be done about it. So how do you handle it?
Sexual harassment is not just limited to physical touch. What else is defined as sexual harassment? Find out more!
This week's episode will give you tips on how to survive working for a Narcissist Boss.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a mental health condition that causes an inflated sense of self worth & a constant need for adoration. Narcissists have no empathy for others. - From the Choosing Therapy website
What are the red flags you could be missing while on a few dates with that potential someone? Here are 7 red flags you should never ignore!
Especially on the 1st date & early talking stages, what are the things you should never tell a man?
In this episode, I talk about the female narcissist & what she's like as a friend, as a lover & as a mother
What are Daddy Issues? Most people don't like calling it that & prefer saying Attachment issues. But whatever you decide to call it, we cannot deny these issues exist. So what are they? How can you identify it? What can you do next?
Why do we love the bad boys? What is it about them that is so appealing? What is it really about?
I talk about the common lies society tells women about the following:
Body Image
Age for marriage
Infertility
Dark Skin
Sexual Assault
What is Love Bombing? What are the signs? Has it happened to you? Listen to more to find out!
Are you really ready to be in a loving, healthy relationship? I ask the 4 tough questions to see if you are or if you're not.
I list out 5 types of women who think they are confident but are actually not. Do you make it into this list? Lol! Find out
Do you have a friend or a frenemy? Besides the obvious signs, are there any more that you might be missing out?
What's she got that I haven't got?! - The man you were with for several years left you & married someone else he's known for only a few months. Why does this happen? Find out!
How do you know a man has no intention of marrying you? How can you tell he's only wasting your time?
What are the most common mistakes women make when they go through a breakup? How would a Feminine woman react to this situation?
Have you been through Narcissistic abuse? Is there anything you've learned? If you like my podcast, support me on MPESA 0721898617 & Share with your friends & family. Never know who may need it! Love & Light!
I list 7 unfeminine habits & behaviour a woman has to change in order to level up into a more Feminine woman
What does that even mean? Be my own best friend? Well, it is the most necessary thing a person needs to be first to themselves before they can be to anyone else. Listen in to 4 key points on how to become your own best friend.
Is the man you're with treating you with the love & respect you deserve? Or is he just least bothered because he doesn't really want you?
Disclaimer I'm not sponsored by Ebru TV, the opinions here are my own. How the popular show has some lessons to teach about the Kenya Dating Scene. Get in touch with my friend Majid a.k.a Boogeyman on zoldic777@live.com & check out his awesome music on Instagram: @boogeymanproductions
Besides the negative traits like compulsive lying, gossiping or being a hypocrite. What are the other subtle negative traits you are missing out to protect yourself from people who just aren't good for you?
Do you know there's a difference between Love & Attachment? How do you truly feel about your partner? In this episode, I explain the difference between the two.
Disclaimer: If you haven't watched the series yet, please be aware of spoilers. This episode is about the lessons I've learned & what I feel was necessary to share with my Darlings :) (Opinions are my own & I've not been sponsored by Netflix).
I share a few of my tips on what has helped me cope during this crisis. I hope they help you too.