Date with Cents: Recent Episodes
TorahCents
Welcome to Date with Cents™! The only podcast for high-achieving women of faith who want to date for marriage and/or legacy building. I am your host, TorahCents, and I’m here to help you transform your love life from the inside out. Tune in for practical tips, tools, and advice on how to become a magnet for high-quality men and custom design a love life that serves you at the highest level.
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In this episode, I'm teaching you how to have conversations with men that actually lead to pursuit.
You'll find out the one question to ask yourself the moment a man messages you, why the "fizzle" is a myth you keep telling yourself, and the three things you need in place so you know within the first week whether a man is even capable of giving you what you want.
Walk away knowing how to have conversations that move toward the dates, the calls, and the pursuit you actually want—so you never have to sit around wondering what happened again.
If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE.
Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days
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In this episode, Patricia shares how her love life became fun, loving, and confident after joining C2C.
You'll hear how she went from a "pick me" who considered changing her whole look just to get chosen, to a woman who chooses herself first and has quality men lining up to please her.
She gets honest about the man she left the program for early on thinking he was the one, why his "generosity" wasn't actually generous, and the hard months of learning to be responsible for her own life instead of waiting for a man to rescue her.
Whether you've been told to "just love yourself" and don't know what that actually looks like in action, or you're stuck waiting to be chosen, Patricia's story shows what changes when you finally choose you.
If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE.
Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days
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In this episode, my client Juliet, is back with another update of what her love life looks like now—the men who show up for her with flowers, spa days, and cleared shopping carts, the standards she holds without over-explaining herself, and the identity shift that took her from wanting to be chosen to doing the choosing.
You'll hear how she got comfortable with the caliber of men she once found intimidating, why she's in no rush to get married even with a man ready to lock her down, and what it really took behind the scenes to get the kind of results most women assume just happen by luck.
Whether you're a "recovering good girl," a high achiever who's been told you're too much, or someone who believes you shouldn't have to build these skills at all, Juliet's story shows you what's possible when you commit to the work.
If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE.
Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
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In this episode, I'm answering your dating questions live and giving you real answers, not fluff.
You'll find out what to do when life is beating you up but you still want to date, why a man spending big money on you might mean nothing at all, and what most women get wrong about the man who says all the right things and then disappears.
Walk away knowing how to make decisions about men without asking your girlfriends, the group chat, or the comment section what his behavior means.
If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE.
Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
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Most women spend weeks, even months, trying to figure out if a man is worth their time—dating him, running him by the group chat, hoping it turns into something. I don't do any of that. I know pretty quickly whether a man has even earned a phone call from me, and I never waste three to six months learning what I could have known in the first week.
In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework I use to evaluate a man from the moment he speaks to me. You'll find out why "do I like him?" is the wrong question to be asking, the difference between a man who's interested and a man who's actually investing, and how to spot the yellow flags most women wait months to catch.
Walk away able to trust yourself enough to know who qualifies for your time—without the weeks of confusion, second-guessing, or asking everybody else what his behavior means.
If you're ready to learn how to evaluate your options without settling, get on the Curved to Cuffed wait list HERE.
Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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There's a difference between a man getting your number and a man actually pursuing you. I've learned how to inspire the men I want to pursue me—planning the dates, investing, and showing up consistently—without ever forcing it or looking thirsty.
In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I make it easy for a man to pursue me when he already wants to. You'll find out why men feel pressure from you without you ever saying a word, the way good girls accidentally push men away while thinking they're being interested, and what most women confuse for a real connection that isn't one at all.
Walk away knowing how to create an experience a man can't stop thinking about—so the right man moves toward you instead of pulling back.
Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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I've gotten to the point where I have no doubt that when I pick a place to go, I'm going to catch the attention of the kind of man I want—and lately that's meant meeting a millionaire four to five weeks in a row.
In this episode, I'm sharing exactly how I get quality men to notice me the second I step into a room. You'll find out why you can feel invisible even when you're standing right there, what you're doing that quietly tells men to leave you alone, and the shift that takes you from waiting to be approached to being impossible to miss.
Walk away knowing how to be the woman who pulls the attention of the man she actually wants—not just whoever happens to be thirsty that night.
If you're ready to build these skills with feedback week after week, there’s still time to join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.
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You say you want a successful, ambitious provider. But have you ever really thought about how that man actually lives his life? Most women can't describe one real thing about their ideal man's day—and that's the exact reason they never know where to find him.
In this episode, I'm teaching you how to stop guessing where the man you want hangs out and start knowing it.
u'll find out why "where do I go?" is the wrong first question, what you have to figure out about a man before any place will make sense, and how to spot where he already spends his free time.
Walk away able to pick a real spot this week where your kind of man actually is—instead of getting dressed up and hoping you run into him.
If you're ready to stop guessing and learn exactly how to meet your ideal man, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.
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You know you want a man this summer. You say it, you feel it, your coochie is jumping for it—but somehow you keep talking yourself right out of going after it. And the stories you're telling yourself sound so smart and so responsible that you actually believe them.
In this episode, I'm breaking down the five lies costing you your summer boyfriend. You'll find out why feeling "stuck" is rarely what's really going on, the truth about confidence that flips everything you've been told, and why the one lie most women won't say out loud is the reason all the others get to exist.
Walk away ready to stop blocking your own blessing and disqualifying yourself before a man even gets the chance to choose you.
If one of these lies has been costing you more than another dry summer, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.
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In this episode, I'm giving you a simple summer plan to have a commitment-ready boyfriend by August—exclusive or not.
You'll discover why "putting yourself out there" and "loving yourself" was never enough without a real system, the number that tells you whether your love life is actually moving or stuck, and why the men you want never seem to cross your path even when you're going outside and meeting people.
Walk away knowing exactly what to do daily and weekly so you stop disappearing for months every time dating gets hard—and start building toward the kind of fall where you're the one choosing who to cuff.
Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up!
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A lot of you are going to hit cuffing season with a dry and dusty dating life once again.
Because you keep doing nothing in the summer and expecting a man by the fall…it's like wanting a summer body without ever hitting the gym.
In this episode, I break down the three things keeping you stuck and headed for another manless winter. You'll find out why the men you actually want aren't showing up in your life, what you're doing that makes quality men lose interest even when the attraction is there, and why you keep quitting dating every time you get disappointed.
Walk away ready to turn this summer into the season you finally build a roster of quality men—so you're choosing who to cuff instead of wishing someone would choose you.
Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up!
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
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A few weeks ago, I walked away from a good man after dating him for over a year and a half.
In this episode, I'm breaking down what made me walk away from a man most women would have stayed with and why I don't regret it for a second.
You'll discover why looks and investment alone don't move me anymore, what happens when you try to adjust a man into generosity instead of requiring it from the start, and why you don't need a "good enough reason" to leave when something stops being in alignment with you.
Ready to stop staying with men just because they look good on paper and start trusting your decisions even when the room disagrees? Listen now.
Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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I used to be the woman who let a man decide whether my week was good or bad. My marriage taught me that.
When it ended, I couldn't get out of bed for weeks because I had outsourced my entire sense of safety to him.
That's when I had to ask a different question: “Why am I making my peace depend on whether a man can be trusted at all?”
This episode walks you through the six steps that got me from that woman to the woman I am now—the one who dates without scanning men for proof they won't hurt me, who sleeps peaceful at night not stressed about what a man is doing, and who can walk away from anything that doesn't serve me.
Because when you trust yourself more than you trust any man, disappointment can't destroy you.
Work with me to stop being scared of a man hurting you and start building the kind of love life where it doesn't matter either way.
Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating
….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you.
You’re the woman who is always making time
You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support,
You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going.
You’re the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves.
Join me in this episode to hear the difference between “putting in too much effort” and putting in the right kind of effort for delicious dating results.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
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Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY.
All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend.
And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effort
There’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with men
Listen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you, instead of settling for being chosen.
Be prepared to reclaim your time!
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- My signature model for a premium dating experience for high-achieving women of faith.
- What it means to be a good H.O.E and how it puts you in a position of power.
- 7 Practical guidelines that will help you vet men before you go exclusive with them.
- A unique approach to rotational dating that will lead you to date better men and have better dating experiences.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
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“There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.”
That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work.
The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women
AND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men.
Why?
Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire
And that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together.
It’s deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean.
Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- What it really means to “work on yourself” while dating.
- The difference between a decent woman and a quality woman
- A quality woman’s biggest super power that helps her navigate dating.
- The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality men
- Why it’s important to embrace “messiness” on your dating journey
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You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone.
Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you butterflies instead of who's actually right for you.
I'm breaking down exactly what to do when you have real options so you stop making decisions from panic and start choosing the man who actually fits your life.
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Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones…
…and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship.
This week, we're going step by step on how you can break those habits for good, so you can start dating quality men who truly appreciate you for who you are.
If you’re a Woman of Faith struggling with “Good girl” syndrome, tune into this episode for a masterclass on how to shed those limiting behaviors and attract the kind of relationship you deserve.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to drop the “good girl” act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
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That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love.
If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourself…you're guaranteeing nothing changes.
In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's actually costing you, and how to start collecting evidence that love is possible for you exactly as you are right now.
I'll share actionable steps to move past this fear and build momentum in your love life, whether or not you ever work with me.
If you're ready to stop dating like you're trying not to get hurt and start showing up fully for love, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
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Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him.
We wanna hear from him daily
We wanna see him all the time.
And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away.
Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction.
Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lot of problems in our life…we still strongly desire him.
In this episode, I take time to coach a Queen who is addicted to dating a man who is tall, dark and dysfunctional…and we explore why this is a thing for her and what exactly she should do about it.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The lies we tell ourselves when we are addicted to men who are not good for us.
- The root causes of our addictions and why we stay stuck in the cycle.
- How feeling chemistry with a man can also be a sign of dysfunctional addiction.
- Why it’s not always easy for us to be interested in other men who are able to offer us healthy forms of companionship.
- The truth about why we love to be controlled and dominated and why we confuse it with “Alpha” energy.
- How I lost my voice in my own marriage due to my own relationship addictions
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- BOOK: Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change
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We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before.
We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports.
We can even go to war if we want to.
And even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage…
…that keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do.
And this directly impacts our ability to have deep, authentic dating experiences and abundant, expansive love lives.
In today’s episode, I expose how Women of Faith have allowed the “Good Girl Complex” to keep them small in their love lives. We are trading our personal freedom to be slaves to our comfort zone and for people pleasing and male approval. And it’s destroying the way we live and love because of fear and shame.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating.
- How Caresha (Young Miami) chose her own romantic path, but is still triggered by it.
- The real reason why “good girls” police other women’s life choices concerning her body, sex and dating practices.
- The truth of how following male relationship gurus really condition you to stay under male domination and control.
- Why men will praise you for being “wife material”, but never try to make you their wife.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
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Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men.
Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs.
They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality men.
Maybe it is…maybe it isn’t.
In today’s episode, we’re gonna have a conversation about your ability to attract quality men. Together we’re gonna uncover whether you have a real issue attracting them or if it’s simply a delusion.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The real reason why you believe you aren’t able to attract high-quality men
- The truth bomb I drop that is confusing at first, but provides true clarity on why you may or may have not been able to attract quality men.
- The bare bones explanation of what a quality man is and the traits they usually possess.
- Several professional “diagnoses” that may be contributing to why you find it hard to meet, attract and build romantic relationships with quality men
- Examples of practical actions my clients have taken (and you can too) to expand their capacity to attract quality men almost immediately
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Date With Cents Episode #2: What is a Quality Man
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Becoming the sun in your love life changes everything.
Most women are floating through dating…
Responding to texts because they feel like they have to.
Going exclusive because he brought it up.
Feeling overwhelmed because men want their time.
Saying yes when they really want to say no.
That’s not power.
That’s the sunken place.
In today’s episode, I break down what it actually means to become the “SUN” in your love life solar system — and why most women are unconsciously living at the mercy of men, time, and outside opinions.
It’s time to take your throne.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
· How women are conditioned to be people pleasers, nice girls, and validation seekers in dating
· The powerful solar system analogy that will completely shift how you view your love life
· How to stop letting men’s actions cause knee-jerk emotional reactions
· What it really looks like to take 100% responsibility for your love life
· How to generate your own energy instead of claiming you’re too tired to date
· Why time doesn’t control you — you control time
The simple but life-changing question that helps you reclaim your power:
What do I desire?
Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
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You've convinced yourself it's bad luck, that there are no good men in your city, that maybe you're just not the kind of woman men commit to.
But you don't have bad luck—you have untrained discernment.
In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework to savagely vet a man in 30 days before you get attached.
You'll discover the four things to evaluate instead of your feelings , why smart women still end up with men who fail all four, and the next layer most people miss—the 3 I's that separate a man who behaves well from a man who's actually right for you.
Ready to stop wasting six months on men who showed you everything in week two?
The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1ST
Inside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.
The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.
The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.
ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1ST
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In this episode, I'm breaking down the W.O.R.D. Method
…a four-step framework for when men break their word so you stop spiraling, over-explaining, or blaming yourself.
You'll discover why security doesn't come from men keeping their word (it comes from how fast you respond when they don't), the Good Girl Reflex that makes you audit yourself instead of his behavior, and the difference between a man who's trying and a man who's performing trying to run out the clock.
Ready to stop being broken by broken promises?
The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1ST
Inside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.
The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.
The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.
ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1ST
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Any woman can get married—that's not hard to do.
The problem is the kind of marriages we walk into. Too many good girls are getting chosen because we're "wife material," which really means agreeable, low maintenance, and easy to keep. Then we end up crying on TikTok about husbands who forget our birthdays for 10 years straight or refuse to buy us carrot cake because they don't like it.
In this episode, I'm breaking down my 10 dating rules for recovering good girls who want marriage this year…not just any marriage, but one where you're pursued, honored, respected, served, and supported long after the wedding.
You'll discover why men can't repeat the same mistake twice in the first 30 days, what to do when a man cancels 20 minutes before a date, and the one question to ask before going exclusive that most women skip entirely.
Ready to stop being easy to keep and start being impossible to replace?
It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.
Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026
REGISTER HERE
Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.
What you'll learn:
🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.
🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.
🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”
🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.
After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
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Earlier this week, I made a post about meeting 50 men per month if I wanted to go from no dates to engaged by the end of the year—and the girls lost their minds.
"Where are we supposed to get 50 men?"
"I can barely talk to two men!"
"This seems counterproductive!" So I brought on my friend Kimberly, a dating coach and matchmaker in Atlanta who helps women land high-earning, high-caliber men.
In this episode, we're breaking down why 50 men is actually nothing when you understand dating like a funnel, where these men actually spend their time (hint: not at speed dating events), and why most of you have filled your calendar with responsibilities that don't have to be there.
You'll discover what matchmakers know about men in their 50s vs. women in their 50s, why focusing on a man's looks keeps you jumping through hoops for attention, and the exact events you should be attending instead of your girls trip to Jamaica.
Ready to stop wasting your youth on men who aren't giving you what you need?
It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.
Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026
REGISTER HERE
Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.
What you'll learn:
🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.
🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.
🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”
🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.
After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Send episode requests here
We've been told that at a certain age, especially as Black women, our options dry up. That if you're divorced, over 35, a single mom, or plus-sized, you should just take what you can get. But I'm 38, divorced, and I only date men who invest in me—emotionally AND financially.
In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what shifted for me to get here. You'll discover why trying to prove you're "not a gold digger" attracts the bottom of the barrel, what happens when you start asking for everything (even when you can afford it yourself), and why the men who tell you "men won't do that" are just telling you what they won't do.
Ready to stop playing small and start receiving what you actually want?
It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.
Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026
REGISTER HERE
Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.
What you'll learn:
🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.
🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.
🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”
🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.
After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
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You got more questions, I have more answers.
Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to know when a man has earned exclusivity (spoiler: it's not about how many dates you've been on) to why you keep attracting the same type of men over and over again. You'll hear what to do when you live somewhere with limited dating options, how to meet men at the gym without forcing conversation, and when to cut off a man the second you see misalignment.
Ready to stop hoping things work out and start being strategic about your love life? Listen now for answers to the questions keeping you stuck.
If you’re ready to build your 2026 Roster this year
It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.
Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026
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Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.
What you'll learn:
🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.
🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.
🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”
🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.
After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
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It's January and you've probably already had the thought: "I want this to be the year I get engaged" Maybe you said that last year too….and the year before that. Every December you look back and nothing really changed. You went on a few dates, maybe talked to a few guys, maybe had something that felt like it was going somewhere and then it just... didn't.
In this episode, I'm giving you the complete 6-step plan to go from where you are right now to engaged by the end of the year. You'll discover why what you've been doing isn't working (hint: it's not bad luck or "the men in your city"), the one skill you need to focus on that's actually holding you back, and how to date multiple quality men without getting attached while letting the right one prove himself over time.
Ready to stop hoping things will magically work out and start following an actual plan? Listen now to get your 6-step roadmap.
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Most women are out here dating without any kind of plan….just swiping and hoping something works out, going on dates and hoping he's the one. But hope is not a strategy. Hope is how you end up years into this with nothing to show for it.
In this episode, I'm breaking down my complete dating strategy for 2026—and it's totally different from last year. You'll discover what I'm letting go of (including dating for physical attraction and feeling sorry for men), the three skills I'm sharpening at a higher level, and why working with a former sugar baby as my mentor is going to make me a better coach for you.
Work with me to stop dating without direction and start getting the results you actually want.
Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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Most dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved.
But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached.
In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new man I’m excited about.
Tune in to find out how I experience love in a way that’s both passionate and secure, letting me connect without losing myself.
Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to experience love in a way that’s open, exciting, and free from unhealthy attachment.
Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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My client Dr. Juliet went from dating men who couldn't afford to send her an Uber to having wealthy men send her gifts just for rescheduling a date.
In two months, she went from less than one date per week to 22 video calls in November alone with high-caliber men begging for exclusivity after the first date.
In this episode, Dr. Juliet breaks down what actually shifted that took her from "the unlucky girl who never gets that kind of guy" to having multiple accomplished men competing for her attention.
After listening, you'll understand why performing for men keeps quality guys away while being present makes them obsessed, how celebrating canceled dates creates more abundance than spiraling ever will, and what it actually takes to go from church girl to dream girl.
Work with me to stop being the girl next door who he friendzones and become his dream girl
Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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Wondering what it takes to be surrounded by men who invest in you mentally, emotionally, and financially?
This episode is full of gems of how to inspire men to adore you and add tangible value to your life.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
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My bestie Dr. Jasmyne went from never asking men for help with her luggage to having a pilot chase her through the airport offering to buy her whatever she wants.
The shift happened in less than one week—and it started with something as simple as letting a man put her bag in the overhead bin.
In this episode, Dr. Jasmyne joins me to talk about what actually happened on our trip to Orlando and Nashville that had millionaires at our table, a prominent head coach adjusting his game schedule around us, and wealthy men treating us like we were the only women in the room. She's breaking down the exact moments that changed how she sees herself and what she now expects from men.
After listening, you'll understand why the tiniest shifts in how you move through the world can completely change the caliber of men who pursue you—and what's keeping you from experiencing this level of attention right now.
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I can talk to 40 men in a week, carry on conversations with five or six at a time, swipe multiple times a day, run a multiple six-figure business, go to pole class, date, and live my life…all without getting drained or frustrated.
When I tell people this, they ask "Torah, how are you not burnt out?"
The answer? It's my mindset.
I think differently about what's happening on the apps, and that changes everything.
In this episode, I'm sharing the three mindset shifts that keep me magnetic, energized, and successful on dating apps while other women are deleting them out of frustration.
You'll discover why focusing on the "wrong" men is draining your energy and what to do instead so you can stay in momentum instead of feeling stuck.
After listening, you'll understand how to stop making everything on the apps a problem, how to turn every unmatch and fizzled conversation into valuable data instead of disappointment, and why experimenting instead of complaining is the key to actually meeting quality men.
Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?
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I've been posting all the evidence this week on my Instagram stories…the caliber of men reaching out to me, the quality of dates I'm going on, the matches I'm getting…and many are asking "Torah, how are you doing this?”
In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the exact things I do outside of my profile to make sure quality men pursue me with real effort and consistency.
You'll discover the strategic moves most women completely overlook when using dating apps….and some of them are the exact opposite of what dating coaches tell you to do.
I'm breaking down the tactical things I'm doing every single day that make accomplished, intentional men show up in my rotation instead of low-effort guys who can't plan a date.
After listening, you'll understand why your current approach keeps you hidden from the men you actually want and what needs to change if you want to stop being frustrated and start getting pursued.
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You've been told dating apps don't work, but what if the problem isn't the apps—it's how you're using them?
I used to delete Tinder every few months out of frustration until I figured out the skill that changed everything.
Now I go on intentional dates whenever I want (from the comfort of my couch) with men who plan, pursue, and show up like grown men.
In this episode, I'm walking you through the exact mindset shift that separates women who stay invisible on dating apps from women who get quality men pursuing them consistently.
You'll discover why your profile looks like everyone else's and what quality men are actually looking for when they decide to swipe right and invest their time.
After listening, you'll understand the three missing pieces in your dating profile that are keeping accomplished, intentional men from even seeing you—and what needs to change if you want to stop getting low-effort matches and start getting real pursuit.
Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?
If you’re ready to stop deleting dating apps out of frustration and start developing actual skills that get you real results….
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I just went on five dates in one week—including a man who drove six hours just to meet me and another who planned a seven-hour experience complete with private dining.
Three of these men… met them on Hinge.
When I posted screenshots, women flooded my DMs saying "that can't be my Hinge" and "dating apps don't work for me."
But here's the thing: dating apps are just tools, and if you don't know how to use them, you'll keep attracting the same low-effort men while quality guys scroll right past you.
In this episode, I'm breaking down the five profile mistakes that are making you completely invisible to the accomplished, intentional men you actually want.
I'm talking about the specific things you're doing right now that signal "broke boy energy" instead of attracting men who know how to pursue and plan incredible dates.
You'll discover why your profile isn't working and what's keeping the right men from ever seeing you as someone worth pursuing…but I'm not telling you how to fix it in this episode.
If you’re ready to stop deleting dating apps out of frustration and start developing actual skills that get you real results….
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You’re relying on your pretty pictures to sell you, but quality men need more than a nice smile to know you’re worth pursuing.
If your dating profile isn’t pulling the kind of men you actually want, this episode is for you
I’m breaking down the biggest mistakes women make on their profiles and why most are just throwing content up without any real strategy.
You’ll hear me do live audits of three real profiles—showing exactly where women lose quality men’s attention and how to create an emotional experience from the first photo to the last.
We’ll talk about why listing what you don’t want makes you sound jaded and how to use every inch of your profile to speak directly to the man you do want.
By the end, you’ll know how to stop relying on looks alone and start creating a profile that makes high-quality men think, “She’s my dream woman.”
If you’re ready to stop attracting low-effort men and start getting messages from men who actually match your standards…this episode will show you how.
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“How do I know whether I’m doing way too much with a man?”
“How do I know whether I’m giving too much of myself?”
“How do I make sure I’m not overinvesting in a relationship that isn’t going anywhere?”
These are all questions women ask when they are tired of giving their time, energy and hearts to men who didn’t earn it.
I got some better questions for you to ask though…
Tune in to this episode as I share 5 questions to ask yourself TODAY so that you give to men without ever giving pieces of yourself.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- Why performing “wife-duties” for a boyfriend can be in your best interest.
- The secret to investing in men and relationships without ever feeling taken advantage of.
- How to give freely to men in abundance so that you benefit too.
- The best way to make romantic decisions that are best for you in any dating scenario.
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- Coach Faith’s Engagement Announcement
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“When is it going to be my turn?”
“When am I finally going to meet my husband?”
“Why can’t I be married already?”
These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone.
They think…
“Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..”
“...It’s going to stop my disappointment, my loneliness, my exhaustion, my negative thoughts”
“...And it’s going to make me feel more confident, secure, stable and loved.
Little do they know that a man can’t do any of this for them.
This is their responsibility.
In today’s episode, I highlight how so many women give their power to create the love lives they desire over to men and how they can take their power back.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- How our core beliefs trick us into believing that we need men to feel better.
- The importance of accepting where you are now in order to receive the relationship you desire.
- How focusing on men is distracting you from having the man you desire.
- Why you need to slow down, if you want to speed up towards your desired love life.
- What it looks like to take responsibility for your journey towards marriage so you can create the love life you desire.
- Why your relationship will fall apart, even if you find the man of your dreams.
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- Episode #19 - Dating as a Single Mother with Christina David
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If you freeze up or get triggered when men ask you questions like “Why are Single” or “WYD?”, this episode breaks down the real reason this happens and how to flip the script completely.
I'm sharing what's actually going on when men ask these questions, the mindset shift that changes everything about how you respond, and why your current approach is telling men they can get away with low effort.
You'll learn how to stop getting caught off guard and start turning these moments into opportunities.
I'll show you how to go from defensive and flustered to calm and confident when men try to test you.
The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
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Inside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.
The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.
The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.
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Here’s the audio replay of my most recent live training:
Build Your Rotation: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days
What you'll learn:
🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.
🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.
🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”
🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.
This training also opens the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed where you learn the complete blueprint for going from no dates to dating a 3 commitment ready men in 90 days.
Check it out and enroll HERE
Want to watch the video version of this training? Go HERE to watch.
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I hired a dating coach even though I literally AM a dating coach, and people are confused as hell about why I'd do that.
If you're embarrassed about needing help with dating, this episode breaks down why investing in dating support- especially when you think you don't need to - separates extraordinary results from just good enough.
I'm sharing the conversation that made me realize I was "undercoached," why I invested $24,000 to level up my skills, and how focusing on becoming the woman who naturally attracts what she wants changes everything. You'll learn why being ashamed of wanting support keeps you stuck with the same disappointing patterns.
I'll show you how to stop settling for good enough and start believing extraordinary love is actually possible for you.
If you're a woman who is ready to stop being embarrassed about needing help and start getting the dating results you actually want?….
It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.
Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025
REGISTER HERE
Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.
What you'll learn:
🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.
🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.
🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”
🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.
After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
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If you keep saying you want a successful, high-earning man but somehow never meet any, this episode breaks down the strategic mistake that's keeping you stuck in the same disappointing cycle.
I'm sharing why it's not about your standards being too high or you not being good enough, plus the one shift that changes everything about the type of men who start showing up in your life.
You'll learn how to stop hoping for different results while doing the same things and start being strategic about creating real opportunities.
I'll show you how to redirect the time, money, and energy you're already spending into environments where meeting your type is actually possible.
If you're a woman who is ready to stop living in your comfort zone and start showing up where quality men actually are….
It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.
Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025
REGISTER HERE
Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.
What you'll learn:
🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.
🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.
🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”
🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.
After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
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If you're constantly saying yes when you mean no, accepting last-minute cancellations with a smile, or pretending his low-effort bullshit is perfectly fine - you're abandoning yourself and wondering why dating feels exhausting.
In this episode, I'm breaking down what self-abandonment actually looks like in dating, why your "good girl" programming keeps you stuck with men who don't value you, and my S.T.A.N.D. framework that stops you from betraying yourself in real time.
You'll learn how standing up for yourself doesn't scare away good men - it actually makes you magnetic to the ones who want to invest in you properly.
I'll show you how to stop performing for approval and start advocating for yourself so you can finally attract men who pursue you the way you've always wanted to be pursued.
If you're a woman who is ready to stop accepting crumbs and start requiring men's best effort….
It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.
Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025
REGISTER HERE
Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.
What you'll learn:
🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.
🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.
🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”
🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.
After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
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Broke men don't just stumble into your life by accident - they show up because they can sense which women will tolerate their inability to provide.
If you keep attracting men who either expect you to fund the relationship or can't afford to match your lifestyle, this episode breaks down why this pattern keeps happening and how to flip the script completely.
I'm sharing the real reason your success mindset is working against you in dating and my five Provider Proof tests that separate men who want to provide from men who want you to be their personal ATM.
You'll learn how to stop being the woman who fixes and start being the woman who receives.
If you're a woman who is ready to stop funding grown men and start dating men who actually invest in you….
It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.
Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025
REGISTER HERE
Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.
What you'll learn:
🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.
🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.
🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”
🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.
After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
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My ex came back (Latin Papi)
In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I'm handling this situation, including my five-step repair plan that lets me enjoy what works between us while protecting my peace.
You'll learn the difference between repair and reconciliation, why trusting patterns over promises keeps you out of fantasy, and how the right boundaries actually give you more freedom instead of less.
I'm sharing the blueprint for handling any ex who tries to come back into your life without losing yourself in the process.
If you're a woman who wants to handle your messy ex situations with in way that feels powerful and confident to you…
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At 40 years old, Dr. Courtney had been single most of her life, hadn't dated anyone in six months, and was drowning in dissertation anxiety while dealing with a nightmare tenant situation.
Fast forward just five months later and she's now Dr. Douglas with multiple quality men traveling hours just to take her on dates, including one who performed magic tricks for her during an 11-hour first date.
In this episode, she shares her complete transformation from someone who felt like a "late bloomer" weirdo to a woman who attracts high-earning nerdy men who show up with intention and genuine care.
You'll hear how she cleared seven years of dissertation paralysis, handled a squatter situation, and simultaneously created a thriving dating life that feels regulating, expansive, and playful.
She reveals why being inexperienced at 40 became her secret advantage and how clearing mental drama in other life areas actually accelerated her dating success rather than slowing it down.
If you're a woman who feels like you've missed your turn or waited too long to figure out love…
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You got more questions, I have more answers.
Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to handle men who repeat the same annoying mistakes, what to do when your ex comes back wanting another chance, how to communicate your needs without becoming passive, and how to know if your walkaway power is too strong.
We also talk about managing expectations when dating feels too good to be true, entering new relationships when your life feels messy, and how to improve your vetting skills to filter out the wrong men...and more!
If you’re ready to date deliciously and confidently attract men who serve and support you…
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You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone.
Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you butterflies instead of who's actually right for you.
I'm breaking down exactly what to do when you have real options so you stop making decisions from panic and start choosing the man who actually fits your life.
If you're tired of having options but still ending up with the wrong man….
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You're getting attention, good morning texts, and flirty conversations—but he never actually asks you out, and you're sitting there wondering what the hell happened.
You know he's attracted to you. The conversation flows. He seems interested. But weeks go by and you're still just texting while he never makes real plans. You're confused why he acts like he wants you but won't actually do anything about it.
I'm breaking down the three real reasons why men who seem interested suddenly go cold or stay stuck in text mode, and what you need to do to become the woman they actually chase instead of just string along.
If you're tired of men who act interested but never follow through…
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You know you're a catch, you show up looking good, but you want quality men to feel more excited about approaching you…and it's simpler than you think.
The secret isn't changing how you look or where you go. It's three powerful energy shifts that make you magnetic to approach instead of just beautiful to admire. When you master these, quality men will feel drawn to connect with you because your energy says "I'm worth the risk."
I'm sharing the exact shifts that transform you from someone men appreciate from across the room to someone they can't wait to start a conversation with.
If you're ready to become the woman, quality men feel excited and safe approaching…
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If you want multiple quality men pursuing you but you're only meeting one decent guy every few months (if that), the problem isn't your city or the men in your area—it's your strategy.
Most successful women treat dating like a separate project they need to carve extra time for, but that approach keeps your roster empty and your options limited. There's a better way to build a quality roster without adding stress to your already full life.
I'll share the exact strategies that help ambitious women go from empty weekends to having real options…fast.
If you're ready to stop having empty weekends and start building a roster of quality men who align with your standards…
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You say you want a relationship, you're putting yourself out there, and you believe you're ready….but quality men aren't approaching you or staying interested. The problem isn't what you think it is.
In this episode, I reveal the three invisible barriers that keep women stuck in a cycle of dating disappointment, even when they're "doing everything right." These blocks are so subtle that most women don't even realize they're creating them…but once you see them, everything changes.
I'll share the real reason you can be visible but still not truly seen, why your lifestyle might be sabotaging your love life without you knowing it, and the one belief that's secretly repelling the exact men you want to attract.
Interested in working with me?
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When Danelle started working with me just months after her divorce, she was guarded and would shut men out. She desperately wanted love but was too scared to show her real personality.
In this episode, you'll hear how she went from being afraid to open up to having amazing dates and deep connections. You'll discover how she learned to set boundaries without pushing men away and why fixing her dating life also improved her business and relationship with her son.
Interested in working with me? Join the waitlist for C2C.
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My relationship with Latin Papi ended abruptly after a few years of dating, I had a choice: collapse or confront it with complete honesty. I chose the path that would transform my heartbreak into healing…and I'm sharing every raw detail with you.
In this deeply personal episode, I'm taking you behind the scenes of my recent breakup and showing you what conscious healing looks like in real time. You'll hear about the night it happened, the messy days that followed, and how I stayed with myself through the pain instead of running from it.
This isn't just about my story….it's about showing you that your breakup can become your biggest breakthrough. That grief has power in it. That you can feel heartbreak and stay open to love at the same time. And that the same energy that breaks your heart open can be exactly what breaks you through to your next level.
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When Amanda got divorced at 50 after 21 years of marriage, dating felt overwhelming and exhausting. She'd deleted dating apps for six months because it felt like "too much work" and wasn't filling her bucket.
In this episode, Amanda shares her real transformation story after five months of working together. She went from people-pleasing and avoiding difficult conversations to confidently dating multiple men and describing her love life as "fruitful, fresh, and fun."
You'll hear how Amanda learned to trust herself, set boundaries without guilt, and create the dating experiences she actually wants—proving that it's never too late to rebuild your love life.
If you're ready to transform your dating life and create the confidence Amanda built, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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If you find yourself often find yourself drained and disappointed with men
Or that men keep leaving you feeling foolish and that he just wasted your time…
It’s a good chance that you might be a woman who is easily impressed.
Because an easily impressed woman almost always ends up somebody’s fool.
In today’s episode, learn what it means to be an easily impressed woman, why it’s causing you so much suffering and how to break from this behavior if you are guilty of being easily impressed by the men you date.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- Why easily impressed women don’t operate in the realm of reality.
- How easily impressed women trick themselves into believing that basic actions by men mean more than what they are.
- 3 Major ways easily impressed women are also easily influenced.
- What to look for to determine if a man’s actions really mean what you think they mean.
- 3 ways to grow from being a woman who is easily impressed.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- 3 Ways Lady Entrepreneurs Can Attract High Quality Men w/ Joseph Lopez
- Episode #08 - 5 Questions to Ask Yourself to Avoid Overinvesting in a Man
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When I left my marriage years ago, I didn't know what my life would look like.
I didn't trust myself, I was confused on how to take up space with my new status, and couldn't see the powerful woman I would become.
In this special birthday episode, I invite you into a vulnerable conversation with my friend and life coach, Catherine Navarro, who has supported my transformation behind the scenes.
For those who compliment my powerful presence, strong boundaries, and clear communication today—this woman helped me build those qualities through years of deep personal work, tears, and brave choices.
Catherine shares what real transformation looks like, from learning self-regulation and emotional presence to rebuilding self-trust and taking responsibility for my life when everything was falling apart.
We discuss how personal growth isn't found in books or courses, but in practice—one brave moment at a time.
If you're ready to become the kind of woman who trusts herself deeply and shows up powerfully in her dating life, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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I've been dating two incredible men for months.
They're consistent, thoughtful, supportive, and make my life better in tangible ways—yet I've decided not to go exclusive with either of them, even though I originally planned to choose by May.
It's not that these men aren't good enough—they're wonderful—but I've realized that just because something is good doesn't mean it's right for where I'm going.
In this episode, I walk you through what it looks like to make a decision based not on pressure, timelines, or what others think you should do, but on what's actually aligned with the woman you're becoming.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you're ready to date from clarity instead of scarcity and choose alignment over anxiety, book a sales call HERE to speak with me about coaching.
If you're ready to stop settling for "good enough" relationships and create the kind of love that fully honors who you're becoming, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love.
If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourself…you're guaranteeing nothing changes.
In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's actually costing you, and how to start collecting evidence that love is possible for you exactly as you are right now.
I'll share actionable steps to move past this fear and build momentum in your love life, whether or not you ever work with me.
If you're ready to stop dating like you're trying not to get hurt and start showing up fully for love, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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I attended a business conference this weekend where one of my long-time business heroes was speaking—someone whose career I've admired for years.
While everyone else focused on her business strategies, I was captivated by her personal transformation. After her divorce, she took an approach to dating that completely contradicted what most women do. In this episode, I'll share the surprising conversation we had about how she intentionally created space for new love while still building her empire.
I'll reveal her practical, actionable strategy that flies in the face of conventional "take time to heal" advice most divorced women hear.
If you're ready to learn what devotion to your love life really looks like and start attracting quality men now, book a sales call HERE to speak with me about 1:1 coaching.
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We celebrate women for investing in weddings, houses, businesses, therapy, and fitness coaches…but the minute a woman invests in love on the front end? She's called desperate. This viral story of a woman who paid $10K for a dating coach and got engaged a year later has sparked fierce debate, but the backlash reveals more about us than her.
In this episode, I explain what's really happening beneath the surface—how we shame women who want love out loud, why dating in 2024 requires different skills than our grandmothers needed, and why that "ache" for partnership isn't something to fix or hide.
I'll also share how to honor your desire for love without apology, so you can stop distracting yourself from what you truly want and start creating the relationship you deserve.
If you're ready to learn what devotion to your love life really looks like and start attracting quality men now, book a sales call HERE to speak with me about 1:1 coaching.
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The Good Girl Voice is the tone and energy we use when trying to avoid rejection, keep the peace, or be seen as nice.
You think you're being soft and polite, but you're actually being unclear, unmemorable, and unavailable.
In this episode, I'll show you exactly what this voice sounds like in different dating scenarios and how it blocks real intimacy by keeping you from expressing how you truly feel.
I'll share one powerful question to ask yourself before responding to a man that will transform how you communicate and help you have conversations that actually lead to commitment.
If you're ready to stop watering yourself down in conversations and start having conversations that inspire commitment
Ready to stop watering yourself down in conversations and start having conversations that inspire commitment?
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Ever had a promising conversation with a guy that just... fizzled? You're left overthinking your messages, or worse—realizing you've been carrying the entire conversation yourself.
If you're tired of matches that ghost, conversations that feel like interviews, or connections that die before they begin—this episode is your wake-up call. I'm breaking down three conversation mistakes quietly sabotaging your dating life, the same patterns that leave high-achieving women stuck in the friend zone or hearing "I'm not looking for anything serious" on repeat.
I'll show you what I do differently to create conversations that make men think about you long after you’ve stopped talking—practical approaches that transform lukewarm connections into genuine pursuit and interest.
Ready to stop wondering why your conversations aren't converting to real connections? Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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If flirting feels uncomfortable, confusing, or like something other women are just better at—it’s probably because you’ve been taught to either play it cool or over-perform to get a man’s attention.
In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to flirt in a way that’s honest, direct, and clear—without feeling fake or doing the most. You’ll learn the Confident Flirting Formula I teach my private clients, and why your friendly energy isn’t creating the romantic momentum you want. I’ll walk you through what to say, how to say it, and how to stop censoring yourself when you feel interest.
You’ll learn how to express attraction in real life and over text—so men actually feel it, respond to it, and follow up after the date.
If you’re ready to stop being scared of saying the wrong thing—and start getting the attention, dates, and consistency you actually want, book a sales call HERE to speak with me about 1:1 coaching.
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In this special bonus episode, I break down how the quality of your conversations with men determines your dating outcomes. Learn how to transform boring, go-nowhere exchanges into meaningful connections that inspire pursuit and commitment through my proven B.O.M.B framework.
Workshop Details:
- What: Conversations That Inspire Commitment - 2-Day Virtual Workshop
- When: April 19-20, 2025 at 10am CST
- Investment: $220 (Use code CONVOQUEEN for $50 off - first 20 women only!)
- Includes: Full workshop access, replay access, bonus materials (convers ation guides, text examples, power questions)
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Ashlee is three months into our coaching together—and her love life looks completely different.
When we started, she had just left a nine-month relationship where she was building up a man who couldn’t meet her needs. She believed quality men didn’t exist in her city, and she wasn’t sure she was “enough” for the men she actually wanted. Now? She’s dating multiple high-quality men for the first time ever, her confidence is growing, and she’s actually enjoying the dating process.
In this episode, you’ll hear how she overcame spirals, shifted her patterns, and stopped trying to prove her worth to men who weren’t a match. We talk about dating with fibroids, being an introvert learning to be seen, and what it takes to build a roster of men who show up for you without the anxiety.
You’ll also hear the exact moment she realized she could ask for what she wanted—from dinner and bowling to emotional support—and actually receive it.
Work with me to stop dating like a “good girl” and start curating a love life where you get to choose.
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You’ve followed the advice, applied the strategies, and done everything you’re “supposed” to do in dating—but the results still aren’t there. You’re meeting men, going on dates, and putting yourself out there, yet nothing is moving forward the way you expected. It’s frustrating, and at this point, you might be wondering if something is missing.
In this episode, I break down why doing all the right things isn’t enough and why the key to attracting the love you want isn’t about effort—it’s about identity. If you feel stuck despite doing everything right, this episode will show you exactly why and what to do instead.
Work with me to shift into your Lovergirl Identity so you can attract high-quality men effortlessly—without relying on more dating strategies that don’t work.
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You’ve gone to therapy, read the books, taken the courses, and done everything you thought would lead to a better dating experience. But instead of attracting high-quality men, you feel like you’re growing, but the men around you aren’t.
That’s because doing the work doesn’t attract better men…being the work does.
In this episode, I break down why checking all the self-improvement boxes won’t change your dating results.
You’ll learn how Good Girl Syndrome keeps you stuck in performance mode, why focusing on growth as an achievement leads to frustration, and the real shift that makes men step up and pursue you differently.
I’ll also share real client experiences that show the difference between doing the work and embodying it—and how that embodiment naturally changes the kind of men you attract and entertain.
If you’re tired of feeling like you’re outgrowing a lot of men but still aren’t meeting the men you desire, this episode will show you exactly why—and what to do instead.
Work with me to attract emotionally mature, intelligent, and available men (without the stress of wondering if they even exist).
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Sephra walked into dating tired—...tired of feeling like she had to modify herself to keep a man, tired of settling for broke men, and tired of repeating the same cycle over and over again. But that all changed when she decided to take control of her love life.
Now? She’s dating men who check every box…attractive, financially generous, and emotionally available. She’s no longer bending to fit into someone else’s world. Instead, she’s fully in her feminine, setting the tone for her relationships, and watching men rise to meet her standards.
In this episode, she spills it all….how she ditched the “good girl” habits that were holding her back, the major mindset shifts that made all the difference, and how she finally learned to own her desires unapologetically.
If you’ve ever felt like dating is exhausting, or you’re wondering if you can really have the kind of love life you dream of, this episode is your proof…it’s possible.
Work with me to confidently date without losing yourself in the process, so you can attract high-caliber men while feeling desired, pursued, and in control.
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Dating multiple men isn’t just about having options…it’s about knowing how to manage those options. But what happens when things don’t go as planned?
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on some unexpected lessons I learned while dating multiple men deeply. Some lessons I saw coming, others took me by surprise….but every single one changed how I move in my love life.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed navigating multiple connections or wondered how to handle the emotional side of dating at this level, this episode is for you.
Work with me to date smarter and position yourself for the right relationship.
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Joan had it all—degrees, a successful career, and a full life. But when it came to dating, she was exhausted. She was tired of the wrong men, the dating pressure, and the struggle to find something real.
In this episode, Joan shares how she shifted from burnout to attracting high-quality men with ease. She explains how she stopped shrinking herself, started clearly stating her desires, and leaned into the power of pleasure and alignment. Plus, she reveals the simple yet powerful strategies that helped her turn things around.
If you’re frustrated with dating and not getting the results you want, this episode is for you!
Work with me to enjoy dating and meet quality men on your level.
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If your dating profile isn’t doing the heavy lifting for you, you’re working way too hard on these apps.
In this episode, I’m walking you through exactly how to build a profile that attracts men who match your standards…without you having to waste time filtering through the ones who don’t.
Most women make the mistake of writing profiles that sound good but don’t actually do anything. The right man should read your bio and immediately know you’re his type.
I’m breaking down the five shifts that turn your profile into a powerful filter, helping you stand out while making it easy for high-quality men to start conversations and plan dates.
If you’ve ever felt like your matches don’t align with what you actually want, this episode is about to change everything.
Work with me to meet quality men online who serve and support you.
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Online dating wasn’t always smooth for me. In fact, I struggled a lot in the beginning…frustrating matches, boring conversations, and men who only wanted one thing.
If you’ve ever felt like dating apps just don’t work, I get it. But what if the problem isn’t the apps? What if it’s how you’re approaching them?
In this 3rd episode of my Online Dating series, I’m sharing my real online dating journey….how I started, the biggest mistakes I made, and the shifts that completely changed my experience.
This episode is for you if you’re tired of feeling like online dating is a waste of time and you’re ready to take back control of your experience. You’ll learn what’s actually keeping you stuck, how to approach dating apps with intention, and why small mindset shifts can make a huge difference. If you’re serious about attracting high-quality men online, this is the episode you need to hear.
Work with me to meet quality men online who serve and support you.
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This is the second episode of my Online Dating series, and today we’re tackling why mindset matters more than strategy.
If you think it’s all about swiping the right way or crafting the perfect profile, think again. Yes, you need a great online dating strategy, but how you show up mentally shapes your results more than any tactic ever will.
We’ll explore how your beliefs and energy impact the type of men you attract and why the right mindset can lead to better matches and real connections. If you’ve been frustrated with online dating, this episode will show you why it’s not about the apps—it’s about you.
Work with me to meet quality men online who serve and support you.
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Are you tired of swiping through dating apps and feeling like you're wasting your time?
In this episode, we’re kicking off a special online dating series designed to help you transform how you approach apps in 2025.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated, burned out, or like you’re stuck connecting with men who aren’t worth your energy, this episode will show you why—and how to fix it.
We’ll explore the mindset shift that turns online dating from a chore into an enjoyable skill, the simple changes to make your profile stand out to the right men, and a strategic vetting process that saves time and brings you closer to quality matches.
Whether you’re brand new to dating apps or a seasoned swiper, you’ll learn how to create real connections with men who align with your values and goals.
If you’re ready to stop wasting time and start meeting high-quality men, this episode is for you.
Tune in and get ready to make online dating work for you in a way it never has before.
Work with me to meet quality men online who serve and support you.
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Do you ever feel like getting men to step up and invest in you takes too much effort?
In this episode, I’m breaking down three habits that women who effortlessly inspire men to give their time, energy, and resources use every day.
These aren’t tricks or games—they’re practical, real-life ways to show up with confidence and set the tone for how you want to be treated.
You’ll hear examples of how these habits can make men excited to show up for you, whether it’s planning thoughtful dates, supporting your goals, or simply making your life easier.
If you’re tired of feeling undervalued or like you’re settling in your love life, this episode will give you the tools to turn things around and start attracting the generosity and effort you deserve.
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Do you feel stuck in your dating life, like nothing is going the way you hoped?
In this episode, I talk about how your mindset shapes your dating experience and why shifting your thoughts can make a huge difference.
We’ll cover the common mindset mistakes women make and I’ll show you how changing the way you think about dating can help you attract better men, enjoy the process, and feel more confident along the way.
If you want to stop feeling frustrated and start having fun while building real connections, this episode is for you.
Work with me to shift your thoughts to attract high-quality men who align with your values
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As the new year gets closer, it’s time to look back on your dating life in 2024 and think about what you want in 2025.
In this episode, I’ll help you reflect on your wins, lessons, and the vision you want to create for your love life.
We’ll talk about how to define what “dating deliciously” means for you, what skills can make dating feel easier, and how to get the support you need to enjoy the process.
This episode will guide you toward making dating more fun, aligned, and less stressful—so you can attract the experiences and connections you truly want.
If you’re ready to take control of your love life and start 2025 strong, this episode is for you.
Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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I want to invite you to come on a journey with me to the land of fulfilled desires.
Here the women are satisfied, excited and extremely pleased by the men they are dating.
These men show up ready to serve these women and putting big smiles on their faces.
Sounds unrealistic?
Think again.
It may sound far-fetched, but it’s easier than you think to live this kind of life and be loved in this kind of way.
All you have to do is Teach Men How to Win with You
In today’s episode, I share a perspective on why teaching men to win with you is so important if you want to have the best experiences with the best men.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- What does it mean to teach men to win with you and practical guidance on how to do this
- How to get the phone calls and dates that you want…when you want them.
- The key to communicating to men your desires AND your boundaries so that they show up for you.
- One of the biggest mistakes women make that causes them to lose out on fun dating experiences with men.
- 3 things you have to stop doing in order to be successfully pleased by men.
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Does dating feel like one more thing on your already packed to-do list?
As a high-achieving woman, you have enough responsibilities without adding the stress of doing all the work in your relationships.
But what if dating could feel fun and easy again?
In this episode, I share how to shift the dynamic so men step up and support you. You’ll hear about five key areas where you can ask for help, making your life lighter while building deeper connections.
I’ll also explain how asking for support shows you the kind of effort a man is willing to make—and whether he’s ready to show up for you.
If you’re ready to stop feeling drained by dating and start attracting men who make your life easier, this episode is for you.
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Do you feel like you’re always settling in your love life? Maybe the men you date seem great at first, but they never step up in the way you need them to. You might even wonder if you’re asking for too much…or if the kind of relationship you want is even possible.
In this episode, I break down exactly how to stop settling and start getting what you want in dating.
We’ll talk about why it’s hard to figure out what you really desire, how to align your actions with your standards, and how to express your needs in a way that invites men to step up or step out. You’ll also hear real stories about how my clients have shifted from frustration to finding men who meet their expectations—and even exceed them.
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You got questions, I have answers.
Tune into this week’s episode to dive into some Q&A where I cover insightful topics like how to get over your ex, knowing how to build a rotation of men, how to stop being afraid to get back out in the dating world , and how to attract men who cater to you.
We also talk about how to post the best pics for your dating profile….and more!
In 1:1 Coaching, I help you attract quality men who serve and support you.
Work with me to date confidently towards the relationship you desire.
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If weight gain has left you feeling self-conscious about dating, this episode is for you.
Whether you've gained a few pounds over the years or have struggled with body image your whole life, I’m sharing a way to feel confident and attract quality men just as you are—while also helping you reach those weight goals.
In this episode, you’ll discover why waiting to lose weight hurts you and how practicing Full-Body Visibility can change how you feel about yourself—and how others see you. I’ll share stories from clients who embraced their bodies, built amazing rotations, attracted supportive men, and even began losing weight in the process.
In 1:1 Coaching, I help you attract quality men right now, instead of waiting years for the "perfect" moment.
Work with me to confidently date without letting your weight hold you back.
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Most women feel like they’ve found “the one” as soon as a man starts treating them well.
But what if just being supportive and loving isn’t enough?
In this episode, I share why being well-loved is just the starting point—and why it takes so much more to qualify for a serious relationship with me.
I’ll walk you through my personal vetting process, from spotting core values to seeing how a man handles stress.
This isn’t about making men jump through hoops; it’s about making sure any man in my life truly fits with my vision and long-term goals.
If you’re tired of settling and want a deeper look at what really matters in a partner, tune in to hear how I keep my standards high and make sure the right man rises to the top.
Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to attract quality men who meet your standards for a healthy, loving relationship.
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Most dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved.
But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached.
In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new man I’m excited about.
Tune in to find out how I experience love in a way that’s both passionate and secure, letting me connect without losing myself.
Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to experience love in a way that’s open, exciting, and free from unhealthy attachment
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Do you feel invisible in public, like men never notice you?
Or maybe you do get approached, but it’s never by the men you’re actually interested in?
In this episode, I dive into why that happens and how to change it by using Pleasure Presence—a practice that helps you become magnetic to men without having to compete for attention.
I explain why high-achieving women of faith often stay in their heads, always thinking and planning, but rarely dropping into their bodies. If you want to attract quality men, embodying your feminine energy is key—and I’ll show you how.
Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to emotionally connect with quality men and move into a relationship where a man is crazy about you
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Do your conversations with men often start strong but fizzle out over time?
Do you experience ghosting, men telling you you’re "wifey material" but never making you their wife, or men pulling away fast after pursuing you intensely?
If any of these sound familiar, this episode is for you.
In this episode, I break down why mastering emotional connection is essential if you want to move into a healthy relationship with a man who’s crazy about you.
I’ll walk you through why Vetting Questions aren’t enough and how SPARK Questions can transform your conversations with men—helping you create deeper emotional experiences that make you unforgettable.
Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to emotionally connect with quality men and move into a relationship where a man is crazy about you
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I love auditing my love life because it always leads me to uncover systems or patterns in my behavior that give me dating success —patterns that I can teach.
In this episode, I’m sharing how my Feminine Positioning Process added an incredible man to my rotation (and others).
This process wasn’t something I initially realized I was doing, but once I started noticing it, I saw how it was helping me meet high-quality men
I’ll share exactly how this process led me to connect with a super smart, expressive, and sexy man who checks all my boxes: financially successful, physically fit, and insightful.
And guess what? You can totally do the same.
Tune in to hear how I made it happen and how you can apply these steps to your dating life.
Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to easily attract quality men that you’re excited about.
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If you’re a High-Achieving Woman of Faith balancing a career, personal commitments, and maybe even kids, you deserve to date men who add to your life, not drain it.
Right now, dating might feel like just one more thing on your already full plate—leaving you feeling pressured instead of supported. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
You need to set the standard early on by clearly asking for the support you deserve.
In this episode, I’m breaking down a simple 3-step process to help you attract men who are eager to serve, support, and make your life easier—so dating becomes a source of joy, not stress.
Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to attract men who make dating and your life easier.
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Tired of going on great dates and never hearing from the men again?
He compliments you, tells you how much fun he’s having, and it feels like everything is clicking.
Then, just like that—nothing.
No text, no follow-up call, nothing.
So you reach out…and there’s no response
If this keeps happening to you, you can break the cycle.
Listen in as I share with you exactly how to vet men so that you can avoid constant ghosting, before you ever go on a date with them.
Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to break the cycle of constant ghosting and attract men who are invested in pursuing you from day one.
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If you are a High-achieving, Woman of Faith who is financially successful, you have every right to date a man who is also successful with money.
Society and mainstream religion often pushes the idea that love should be about more than money, and you might hear things like:
“It’s shallow to focus on money. You should care more about how a man treats you.”
Or
“Focus on finding a godly man who makes you happy, not just someone with money”
But here's the truth: you’re not just looking for a man with money.
You deserve a man who has both solid character and financial success.
Tune into this episode where I share how it’s possible for you to only date quality men with coins and simple ways to adjust your approach so that you can easily meet and date them.
Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to attract financially successful men who provide, protect and build for you. Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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I’m an introvert who runs a multiple six-figure coaching business, takes 4-6 pole dance classes per week, and I still had the capacity to go on 10 dates last month.
It’s not because I’m special—it’s because I have systems in my love life that support me and make dating easy, fun, and manageable.
Tune into this episode as I take you behind the scenes of my love life to show you how I balance a busy schedule, prioritize myself, and still find time to meet quality men.
I’ll share the exact strategies that make it possible to date on your terms, without sacrificing your passions or peace of mind.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to create a love life that fits seamlessly into your busy schedule and attract quality men without feeling like dating is a chore, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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“Good girl” conditioning is a big reason why Women of Faith struggle to attract quality men.
Our need to be nice, perfect, and always please others makes us ignore our own needs, stay quiet, and settle for less.
This often attracts men who don’t respect us or take advantage of our kindness, instead of men who value and appreciate us.
But when we become the S.U.N of our love life solar system…all that changes.
Join me for the 4th and last episode in the “Good Girl Gone Rouge” series where I share exactly what steps to take to be the S.U.N in your life so that we can finally attract the men that meet our standards.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to drop the “good girl” act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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When I got married, I stopped trusting myself.
Because of the “good girl” culture that society and religion promote, I was conditioned to trust my husband’s thoughts and opinions over my own, all in the name of submission.
It wasn’t until I decided to start trusting myself again and put my needs first that I realized how much damage losing my voice had caused to my health, my business, and my marriage.
Join me for the third episode in the “Good Girl Gone Rouge” series where I share my personal story of how I learned to speak up, trust myself and attract quality men who respect my voice, value my boundaries, and see me for who I truly am.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to drop the “good girl” act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones…
…and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship.
This week, we're going step by step on how you can break those habits for good, so you can start dating quality men who truly appreciate you for who you are.
If you’re a Woman of Faith struggling with “Good girl” syndrome, tune into this episode for a masterclass on how to shed those limiting behaviors and attract the kind of relationship you deserve.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to drop the “good girl” act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
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“Good girls” finish last.
And here’s the truth: all that effort it takes to be a “good girl” as a Woman of Faith tends to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones…
…and it ends up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship.
If you’re a Woman of Faith who’s tired of feeling like you have to be “good” just to be loved—and you’re still getting passed over by the men you really want—this episode is for you.
Listen in as I share how all that pressure from religion and society is keeping you stuck, single, and unsatisfied.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to drop the “good girl” act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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Taking a break from dating to heal might seem like the right move, but it can actually mess up your love life.
You can’t truly heal your relationship wounds if you aren’t actively exploring them with men.
By stepping away, you’re just avoiding the issues, not fixing them.
If you want to do the real work and heal, join me in this episode to learn about the biggest mistakes people make while trying to heal and how dating can actually help you overcome them.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to do the real work to heal and enjoy dating at the same time, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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You got questions, I have answers.
Tune into this week’s episode to dive into some Q&A where I cover insightful topics like knowing when to take a break from dating, managing time with multiple dates, and figuring out your next steps when you're ready to jump back into the dating scene.
We also tackle those tricky situations where someone's actions and generosity don't quite match up….and more!
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to redefine dating and become a marriage-optional woman who chooses her own lifestyle (instead of letting others decide for her) book a sales call to learn more about working with me 1:1.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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I believe that every Woman of Faith should be a Marriage-Optional Woman.
When you are Marriage-Optional, you are always well-loved and taken care of…without having to rely on a husband for this kind of support.
You can confidently meet and date high-quality men knowing that you can get married whenever you want.
Whether you desire marriage or not, tune into this episode to hear about the beauty of becoming a Marriage-Optional woman and what you need to put in place in order to become one.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to redefine dating and become a marriage-optional woman who chooses her own lifestyle (instead of letting others decide for her) book a sales call to learn more about working with me 1:1.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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If you easily lose interest in online dating due to boring, dry conversations, it’s not because the men are dull or the app is full of low-quality, unserious users.
The issue is that you haven’t mastered the art of creating enjoyable conversations.
Before you delete your dating apps again, tune into this episode to learn three simple ways to have fun, engaging conversations that can lead to phone calls and dates—as soon as today.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
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Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
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When life gets tough, many women shy away from dating.
They believe it’s not the “right time” and that they should wait until things improve.
However, dating during challenging times is a valuable life skill that you can learn.
Once you master it, you’ll be amazed at how much the benefits of dating can enhance your life and make things easier.
Tune in to this episode to discover the secret to dating when life gets hard, why it’s one of the best things you can do for yourself, and practical ways to date when your life feels chaotic.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
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Women of Faith are conditioned to believe that their value is found in marriage and being a wife.
Which is why single men feel comfortable shaming us for also being single.
It’s why we feel inadequate when we are pushing 30 or 40 and still don’t have “the ring”
And it’s also why we choose to stay in toxic, unhealthy marriages that don’t serve us, just to save face.
In 2021, I made the tough decision to leave my husband…despite the societal and religious pressure to stay and “make it work”.
Tune into this episode, to hear my personal journey of confronting my fears, reclaiming my personal identity and learning many transformative lessons along the way.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
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If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating
….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you.
You’re the woman who is always making time
You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support,
You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going.
You’re the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves.
Join me in this episode to hear the difference between “putting in too much effort” and putting in the right kind of effort for delicious dating results.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
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Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
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Most women of faith worry about appearing desperate or thirsty while dating.
It’s because we don’t wanna turn men off.
We don’t wanna be taken advantage of
And we don’t want our feelings hurt.
The problem is, this state of worry is causing us to attract the wrong men and sabotage our opportunities for a real, meaningful connection.
Tune in to this episode to learn the root reasons behind why we are so terrified of looking “thirsty”...and how to move away from this fear to finally have meaningful relationships with men.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
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Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
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If you want to win in life, you should always have goals set that you want to accomplish.
If you want to win in love, you should always have goals set that you want to accomplish.
High-achieving women of faith are known to set goals for their lives (education, career, finances etc…)
But when it comes to love, we “wait and see” what happens.
And this is why we’re losing in the modern dating world.
Listen in as I share what it means to set goals for love…and practical ways to set relationship goals that will turn your dating dreams into a reality.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
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As High achieving women of faith…we love to say we are “Dating with a purpose”
But most of us still aren’t getting the results we want while dating.
We aren’t getting approached by the men we like.
We aren’t having the conversations we want to have
And we aren’t going on the types of dates we desire.
And that is because we aren’t dating with intention.
Tune into this episode to learn what it truly means to be purposeful while dating and how to set small intentions that lead to huge dating results.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
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“How come it’s the ones who engage in premarital sex that are getting married and yet we who have been sticking to our principles, trying to do things God’s way and praying for years are still waiting (and getting older by the day?)”
I’m always seeing variations of this question in online communities where women of faith reside.
What these women don’t realize is that beneath the surface of this question there is entitlement, false superiority and a misinterpretation of what it means to be celibate.
I hopped on the mic to rant about this question and to give some perspective on what the Bible really reveals to us when it comes to love, sex and marriage.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
- The truth about why “good girls” who keep their legs closed aren’t getting married
- How “Biblical Marriage” is highly overrated and why no woman truly wants it.
- The danger of fantasizing the Bible and romanticizing marriage
- Why women of faith need to stop waiting for their “Boaz”
- What it looks like to choose to abstain from sex from a position of power
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- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
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If you’re not being approached by quality men in person..
It’s because you’re not properly positioned.
This is why you can show up to all the events or places that quality men hang out at…
And still not be approached.
Tune into this episode to learn 3 Non-negotiable skills you need to learn if you want to be approached by quality men anywhere and everywhere you go.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
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Women of faith are being gaslit by mainstream religion.
They deeply desire love, sex and marriage…but are often programmed to bury these desires to appear “godly” and not “desperate”
They are single and unsatisfied in their 30s, 40s and 50s…but being told to “commit to The Lord” more and the right man will find them.
They are being taught to keep their legs closed…but not receiving any practical guidance on how to meet men and date them for marriage.
The good news is that this era is slowly ending.
There’s an awakening happening…and there’s a new movement being led by women of faith who are leaving behind the shackles of “religious relationship theology” and finding freedom by finally taking responsibility for their love lives.
In today’s episode, I go in depth about how mainstream religion has set women of faith up to lose with love. I also share how the average “church girl” can begin creating a new reality where love is abundant, quality men are plentiful and dating is a fulfilling adventure.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- 3 Most Common (but wrong) strategies women of faith use to attract quality men
- The uncomfortable truth behind the phrase “HOES Winning” that many church girls don’t want to accept.
- Why leaving your “church” might be the best thing for your love life in 2023
- How black women are the biggest casualty of religious relationship theology.
- Real clients sharing real stories of what happened when they stopped waiting for love to happen for them.
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- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply
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If you are dating…and it feels like a chore…this episode will change the game for you.
Dating only feels like a chore when you’re not getting what you want.
Tune into this episode to start getting what you want while dating…as soon as today.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
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This episode is for you if you’re often confused on how to respond to men or what to say next..
It’s also for you if you’re having drawn out conversations that feel boring .
Or if they always fizzle out and you're consistently confused as to why nothing ever pans out.
Tune into this episode if you want to create powerful first date conversations with men that lead to second dates or that lead to relationships.
….even if you tend to overthink and struggle with what to say next.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
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If you are meeting men, you should automatically be going out on dates.
It doesn’t matter if you meet men in person or online.
It only takes one conversation to put a date on the schedule.
If you’re not going on dates, listen to this week’s episode to learn more about why you are talking to men through text and over the phone…but it is a struggle for you to go on dates.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
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One of my best tips for attracting quality men who please you is to Honor your desires.
It sounds so simple, but most High-achieving Women of Faith ain’t doing it.
And the biggest culprit for why is “good girl” conditioning.
Listen to this week’s episode to learn my method to start prioritizing your wants, needs and boundaries so that you create more satisfying dating experiences and attract men who want to meet your needs.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
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Yes. There are high-earning, professional women who are still attracting men who want to go 50/50.
If this sounds like you, it’s probably because you are in “good girl” mode.
Listen to this week’s episode to learn how being the “good girl” leads to men wanting to go dutch and have you pay for dates.
You also learn 3 practical steps to break this pattern so that you can start attracting generous men who are excited about investing in you.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
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It’s crucial that you curate your dating experiences by turning down interactions and connections that don’t align with your desires.
Attracting quality men who are compatible with you becomes easier when you learn to do this: Decline what doesn’t align with you…ASAP.
Tune into this episode to learn more about the real reason why you’re not attracting quality men, how “good girl” conditioning keeps you tolerating what you don’t want…
…and what you can do to start attracting quality men who are compatible with you.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
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You have questions…I have answers.
Tune into this episode for a rapid fire Q&A session where I answer some of the most common questions I receive as a dating coach (and a few of the wildest lol).
I also share some interesting, wild dating stories of my own to help answer a few of these questions.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
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Most Women of Faith play “damsel in distress” and wait for men to lead…
And that’s why they don’t get what they want while dating.
It’s also why men don’t show up for them…leaving them annoyed and frustrated.
Tune into this episode to learn why your love life suffers when you wait for men to lead…and what you should be doing instead as a woman who desires to be well-pleased while dating.
Mentioned during the show: Teaching Men How to Win With You
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
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One of the most helpful things you can do while dating is to embrace the concept of “Falling in love.” Falling in love can lead to you attracting the best men and creating the best connections with them…if done correctly.
Listen in this week to hear why you should drop your guard and how you can use “Falling in Love as a dating strategy for a more delicious dating experience that leads to marriage.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
It doesn’t matter the strategies, tips and tricks you try to implement…you will not get what you desire with men if your core beliefs are not in alignment with what you want
This episode is key if you feel scared, guilty or gold-digger-ish when it comes to asking for what you want…
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
If you haven’t created boundaries for your desires…then you will have a difficult time inspiring men to show up and fulfill them for you.
This episode will break down the 3 types of boundaries you will need to protect and prioritize your desires so that men meet your needs while dating.
Join The Well-Pleased Woman Workshop - Join the workshop at the Special price of $197 before the price increases.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
If men aren’t investing in you…it’s not because you’re too old, or too plus-sized or need to “heal” or in the wrong zip code…
I’m more than sure you’re making simple mistakes when you’re interacting with men that you don’t even notice.
Listen to this episode if you want to discover what mistakes you’re making that attract men who don’t invest in you…and repel quality men who would.
Join The Well-Pleased Woman Workshop - Join the workshop at the Special price of $197 before the price increases.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
One of the easiest ways to connect with quality men in public is to give them CONSENT.
Listen to this episode if you want to learn why going outside and looking pretty is not enough to get approached…AND how you can begin getting approached by quality men as early as this week.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Wondering what it takes to be surrounded by men who invest in you mentally, emotionally, and financially?
This episode is full of gems of how to inspire men to adore you and add tangible value to your life.
Join The Well-Pleased Woman Workshop - Join the workshop at the Early Bird Valentine’s Day Special price of $97 (investment increases to $197 by Feb 17th)
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
I’m excited to announce a brand new workshop!
This episode is for you if you want to learn how to:
- Confidently ask for what you want while dating…and graciously receive
- Abundantly receive thoughtful gestures, acts of service, new experiences, emotional support and even material gifts from men.
- Enhance your overall lifestyle by having men add value to your everyday life.
Join The Well-Pleased Woman Workshop - Join the workshop at the Early Bird Valentine’s Day Special price of $97 (investment increases to $197 by Feb 17th)
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Not getting approached by quality men? Here’s what you can do to get approached as soon as this week.
Listen to this episode if you want to learn what it takes to enjoy frequent attention from quality men and always get asked out on dates.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
When you’re a woman who is High In-Demand when you have a consistent flow of dating prospects, a variety of quality men who are excited about dating you, and plenty of options to choose your life partner from.
Listen to this episode if you want to learn what it takes to be a woman in High Demand
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…
…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
This episode is for you if…
A. You are going on dates…but they are not with men you’re excited about.
OR
B. You aren’t going out on dates at all because men are not approaching you or asking you on dates.
Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
I am excited to announce even more new updates to C2C 3.0!
This episode is going to give you a breakdown of all the brand new program extras that will support you in the transformation you desire!
Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
I’m teaching this brand new framework in the C2C program so that my clients are creating enjoyable dating experiences, dating yummy men and becoming better women in the process.
This episode is going to give you a tiny taste of what they will be learning.
Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
When you don’t have power, your love life is stagnant…or non-existent.
This episode is going to be very important if you desire to create a love life that you are excited about on your own terms.
Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
If you’re attracting men…but you’re not excited about them…this episode is for you.
Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
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We are making big changes with C2C in 2024 and you can listen to this episode to learn all you need to know and how you will benefit.
Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Dating can be a delicious and satisfying experience for Women of Faith.
As soon as we give ourselves permission to explore our desires…
…prioritize our pleasure
…and take responsibility for the power we have to create our own love lives.
Join me for this episode, as I have a mind-blowing conversation with Pastor Kimberly Bulgin (Cuff-link from Dec 2021 Cohort) about how she created a love life filled with joy, excitement and fulfillment…
…all without having to give up her booty, boundaries or beliefs.
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MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES:
Work with me Live and in Person to design your new dating life - Lovergirl Weekend
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
You can go from dusty dating…to dating deliciously quicker than you think.
It’s as simple as making small, intentional choices that lead to big results.
If you want examples on how to do this (and be inspired at the same time).
Join me for this episode, as I share real client stories and the actions they took to finally start enjoying their dating journeys.
You can take the same actions they took to see quick results.
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES:
Work with me Live and in Person to design your new dating life - Lovergirl Weekend
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
If you want to date…BUT …
…you have no prospects
…men aren’t approaching you
…you have no success with dating apps.
Then this week’s episode is for you.
Tune as I share practical ways you can implement ASAP to start seeing quick results in your love life.
Implement these tips to shift from dead, dusty dating into dating deliciously.
Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES:
Work with me Live and in Person to design your new dating life - Lovergirl Weekend
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
I’m back after a long hiatus and I got a few things to say…
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@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES:
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop
Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - Formation
Work with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed
One of the most underrated skills to create a delicious dating experience is the practice of GRATITUDE around your love life.
Most women tend to complain about men, dating and their love lives…
…and they have no idea that the more they complain about it..
…the more their love lives will suffer.
It’s not so much the “complaints” that kill their love lives…
…it’s the negatively focused thoughts and beliefs behind the complaints that puts the nail down on the coffin of their dating journey.
Tune into this week’s episode as I drop some important nuggets that will reveal how the simple practice of gratitude can shift you from a dead, dusty dating life into delicious dating experiences that light your soul.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
🔥Why Most Women of Faith feel that modern dating is so frustrating.
🔥 How gratitude is key to enjoying a fun, fruitful and forward-moving dating experience.
🔥 Powerful and practical ways you can begin implementing gratitude in your love life to see immediate results.
🔥 The biggest roadblocks between you and expressing gratitude for a delicious love life.
🔥 Important questions to ask yourself that will allow you to enjoy the present moment while dating…and shift into a space of gratitude.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Join me and my team for Our Next Open House
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
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In my experience, Women of Faith seem to struggle when it comes to having faith in their love lives.
They have a strong desire for love and companionship…but oftentimes they have even stronger fears, doubts and limited beliefs.
This causes them to lose hope and run out of steam to continue putting themselves out there to meet men and date.
Tune into this week’s episode as I break down the huge role faith plays in our love lives and how to practically harness our faith to date confidently and deliciously.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
🔥Why Most Women of Faith are stuck, stagnant and spiritually unaligned in their love lives
🔥 How your Faith and Spirituality are essential keys to having a thriving, aligned love life.
🔥 The big opportunities that Women of Faith are missing out on while dating
🔥 My two-step process to begin making progress in your love life through increasing your level of faith (even if you’ve always been disappointed in the past)
🔥 Powerful, overlooked ways to dramatically increase your faith and ability to have a delicious dating experience.There’s a LOT of women who hate dating…
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
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@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
There’s a LOT of women who hate dating…
And a LOT of them believe that men are the problem.
They feel that men are the problem…because…
They l men aren’t intentional…or honest about their intentions
They also feel men don’t wanna commit or show up for them…
or put in much effort to pursue etc…
These women get so frustrated with men… that they wanna quit dating.
Truth is…men are simply mirrors for our own internal drama…
In this week’s episode, turn in as I share how the men we date reflect back to us our own fears, insecurities, desires, and traumas…
…And the power behind using them as mirrors to learn how to date deliciously and in alignment with our true desires.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
👉🏾 The real reasons most women blame men when they’re not enjoying the dating process.
👉🏾 How to shift your perspective to use men to help you improve your dating experiences on a regular basis.
👉🏾The power of dating as a Spiritual Practice and how to date so that you create a stronger connection with yourself…and to the men you desire to date.
👉🏾 Practical ways to begin dating in way that leads you to amazing, quality men who are vibrating on the same frequency.
👉🏾Real client stories of women who learned how to love their love lives while attracting deeply connected, thriving relationships with high-quality men who are deeply connected to themselves.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
When someone tells me that they’re a woman of faith, I can normally tell the level of her faith by the health of her love life.
You can go to church regularly, pray, consistently read your bible and serve in ministry…
BUT the truth of your spiritual walk is always revealed by the life you live daily…and that includes your love life.
Listen in today to find out how to use dating as a spiritual practice to deepen your relationship with The Most High and ultimately with yourself.
You can grow an abundantly love life by growing your faith with practical spirituality.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
🔥 The real reason why dating is so draining and disappointing to you.
🔥 Practical examples of how to date with more depth and meaning.
🔥 Why being obsessed with the future is a slap in the face to God.
🔥 How being more like God improves the quality of your love life and the men you date.
🔥The spiritual benefits of building community with the opposite sex
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
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@torahcents
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If it’s been months or years, and you’re still not making progress in your love life…
Or not even having fun and enjoying the process..
I can almost promise you that there's a lack of responsibility in the mix.
Meaning, you have not yet taken 100% ownership of your romantic actions and choices.
Every kind of success in your life relies on your ability to make decisions, take action on them and hold yourself accountable through the process.
Your love life success is no different…
Nadine is an incredible example of what’s possible when you finally take true ownership for your love life (even after years of avoiding responsibility)
Join me for today’s episode as Nadine (Cuff-link from September 2022 Cohort) shares how she carefully curated her delicious love life that supports her desires by being intentional, developing agency and doing the self-work.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
🔥 How Nadine intentionally designed a delicious love life that centers her and her desires…after 10 years of being ghosted, overlooked and underappreciated.
🔥 The transformation Nadine went through to go from voluntarily friend-zoning herself…to being pursued by fine ass, high-quality men.
🔥 The power of responsibility and how it leads to enjoying better dating experiences, attracting the men you want and having your desires fulfilled.
🔥 The sneaky ways self-abandonment can destroy your love life and how Nadine developed the audacity to put herself first while dating.
🔥 How dating as a spiritual practice leads you to deeper connection to yourself and with the men you’re dating.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
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@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
I love talking about how fun and fruitful it is to date multiple men at a time…
…and I love teaching high-achieving women of faith how to do it…and do it well.
But every time I publicly talk about it…theres always women blurting out:
“Omg that sounds exhausting”
Or
“I could never do that”
Or
“That doesn’t work for me”
In today’s episode, I’m breaking down exactly why dating multiple men is a struggle for most women of faith and what it looks like to have a rotation of men and have a love life that serves you at the highest level.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
🔥The “quiet as it’s kept” reason why many men try to shame you for dating multiple men.
🔥The truth of why dating multiple men sounds and feels draining and exhausting
🔥Simple (and sneaky) ways women of faith regularly overinvest in the men they’re dating
🔥One question to ask yourself to discover if you’re “doing to much” when dating men
🔥How to dramatically improve the level of effort men make in pursuing you.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- EP #7: Five Questions To Ask Yourself To Avoid Overinvesting In A Man
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
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@torahcents
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Everyone wants to have a thriving love life…
BUT not everyone is committed to having it.
That’s because creating a delicious dating life filled with fine ass quality men doesn’t just happen.
It takes WORK. It takes letting go of all your excuses for why you can’t do it..
…AND it takes for you to create daily opportunities to navigate your dating obstacles.
Just ask Victoria
A single mother of two kids (under 2)
With a Full-time job.
As a Full-time student (with an additional internship)
And Business owner
She had all the excuses in the world…
…until she decided to let them all go to follow her desire for a thriving love life.
Join me for today’s episode as Victoria (Cuff-link from February Cohort 2023 Cohort) tells all about how she dropped all her excuses to go from a disappointing love life to dating deliciously with multiple high quality men who show up for her AND her kids.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
👉🏾 How Victoria created an fun, exciting and playful love life after struggling with insecurities, limited beliefs, and past trauma.
👉🏾 Why Victoria was doing everything “right” while dating…but still having a dating experience that felt really wrong.
👉🏾 How being the “nice girl” destroyed Victoria’s love life and how she revived it by putting herself first.
👉🏾 What happened when Victoria gained the courage to ask men for what she desired and required them to show up for her.
👉🏾 The powerful way Victoria released her excuses, committed to her dating journey and transformed her love life from the inside out
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Get your tickets for Hot Girl Summa on June 3rd
- EP #49 Fear, Perfectionism, and Hiding From The Work
- Ep #50 Dating Victory Over Obstacles and Excuses With Victoria Cloud Part 1
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
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“I’m doing everything right…but dating is still going horribly wrong.”
A lot of High-achieving Women of Faith feel this way.
They've always been the perfect girlfriend.
They’ve always gone out of their way to show up for the men they’re dating.
They even overinvest their time and energy just to prove how committed they are to growing the connection.
But it still isn’t enough because the men never really matched their energy.
Men don’t show up for them…they don’t add much value to their lives and they don’t pursue them for the commitment these women desire.
Why are good women dealing with so many bad dating experiences??
In this week’s episode, join me in an intimate C2C coaching call with Victoria Cloud (Cuff-link from February Cohort 2023 Cohort) as she reveals her fears, insecurities and struggles around creating a successful love life.
Through this coaching session, I’ll be pulling back the curtain to show you in real time why so many women have a disappointing love life and practical ways to shift into dating that fulfills your desires.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
👉🏾 The truth behind you doing everything “right” …and why dating still feels very wrong.
👉🏾 Why you keep hearing that you’re “wife material”...but no one is trying to make you a wife.
👉🏾 Why nice girls finish last while dating and what you can do about it as a “nice girl”.
👉🏾 The truth of why men aren’t showing up for you and adding value to your life.
👉🏾 The problem with self-abandonment and why the men you desire may not desire you back.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Get your tickets for Hot Girl Summa on June 3rd
- EP #49 Fear, Perfectionism, and Hiding From The Work
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
“I don’t have time to date”
It’s one of the biggest lies High-Achieving Women of Faith tell themselves when their love lives are dry or non-existent.
They have no idea it’s a lie tho…
They really believe that because they are busy professionals, entrepreneurs, or high-ranking officials in their companies (who sometimes happen to also be single mothers)...
…that it also means they don’t have the time to make their love lives a priority.
“Busyness” isn’t the issue… something more sneaky…and more sinister is at play behind the scenes.
In this week’s episode, feel free to drop in to learn why you have more than enough time to date (no matter how busy you are) and the overlooked (yet powerful) ways to immediately create more time for romance, love and dating.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
👉🏾 The real reason most women blame their non-existent love lives on not having enough “time”.
👉🏾 How being a “good girl” drains your time and energy away from being able to create the time to have the love life you desire
👉🏾Sneaky ways High-Achieving Women of Faith are losing hours of time every week (when they could’ve been dating).
👉🏾 The power of vulnerability and how my clients use it to create more time and space in their lives to date.
👉🏾Behind the scenes look at how my busy clients went from “no time to date” to accepting regular dates from quality men.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
The concept of “Soul ties” is one of the biggest lies ever told to women of faith.
This lie caused us to have a lot of fear.
We learned to fear sex instead of having responsibility around it..
…AND fear our own emotions instead of developing the skill of properly processing
In today’s episode, I’m helping you to drop the fear you may have been conditioned to have so you can have more freedom in your mind, body and soul (no ties lol).
Listen in as I carefully explain why the “soul tie” teaching is false and unspiritual and what it looks like to live your life as a spiritual being.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
👉🏾 The delusion of “soul ties” and a spiritual and logical break-down of why they don’t exist.
👉🏾 The truth about emotional attachment and how women of faith often confuse it for “soul ties”
👉🏾How purity culture and “good girl” indoctrination is keeping us separate for God.
👉🏾 How every part of our life is spiritual and how to seize the opportunity to practice your spirituality.
👉🏾How your beliefs are holding you hostage and preventing you from living and loving your best life.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
“Why is dating at this age so complicated? Nothing in life is more stressful than dating after 35”
This was a post I read from a fed up woman in my social media feed recently.
Thing is…tons of women feel just like her.
Dating isn’t wasn’t stressing them out tho.
They’re stressed out because they haven’t accepted that creating a fun, fruitful and fulfilling dating life actually takes WORK.
And most people simply don’t want to do the WORK to have it.
Cindy is an amazing example of what it looks like to DO the work to have a deliciously dating life and enjoy yummy high-quality men in the process.
Join me for today’s episode as Cindy (Cuff-link from February 2023 Cohort) shares how she did the work to go from stressed out and depressed about her love life…to feeling more youthful, energetic, relaxed and connected to herself (as well as more connected to men she’s dating)
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
🔥 How Cindy created a delicious dating life at the age of 48 (after years of low self-worth and stress around relationships)
🔥 Why Cindy believed it was unrealistic to have an abundant love life and the steps she took to finally make it a reality for herself.
🔥 How Cindy overcame self-sabotage, self-consciousness and victimhood in order to have the desires of her heart when it came to friends, family and fine ass men.
🔥 Behind the scenes of how Cindy pushed past doubt and her fears to finally turn her dating dreams into a reality
🔥 How Dating as a Spiritual Practice allowed Cindy to shift her entire experience from feeling abandoned and overlooked…to being desired and adored.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
I get a lot of complaints from women who struggle talking to men they’re dating.
Their text and phone convos are either super boring…OR they fizzle out way too fast.
They think they need to DO more things to fix it…like learn a new set of questions to spice things up..
OR talk more on the phone so that the connection stays strong.
You don’t have to DO more or talk more to have the types of conversations you desire…
…you simply need to BE different while having these conversations.
In today’s episode, I’m gonna share how to BE a woman who creates fun, enjoyable, and deep conversations with men…that lead to more intimacy, trust…and commitment.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
👉🏾 How inauthenticity is killing your conversations and connections with men.
👉🏾 The biggest mistakes women make during conversations with men that lead to them fizzling out fast.
👉🏾 The truth about “being intentional” and how you’re actually being aggressive and scary
👉🏾Why it’s super important to know the “Why” behind the words you say with men
👉🏾Practical ways to build trust, intimacy and rapport with your conversations with men
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men.
Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs.
They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality men.
Maybe it is…maybe it isn’t.
In today’s episode, we’re gonna have a conversation about your ability to attract quality men. Together we’re gonna uncover whether you have a real issue attracting them or if it’s simply a delusion.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The real reason why you believe you aren’t able to attract high-quality men
- The truth bomb I drop that is confusing at first, but provides true clarity on why you may or may have not been able to attract quality men.
- The bare bones explanation of what a quality man is and the traits they usually possess.
- Several professional “diagnoses” that may be contributing to why you find it hard to meet, attract and build romantic relationships with quality men
- Examples of practical actions my clients have taken (and you can too) to expand their capacity to attract quality men almost immediately
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Date With Cents Episode #2: What is a Quality Man
- Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men
- Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed.
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
I know a huge pain point for so many women of faith is that they’re tired of things fizzling out between them and the men they’re dating.
They’ll have great chemistry with a guy…go on a couple of dates…and as soon as they get emotionally invested…they either stop hearing from him…
…OR he pulls away and wants to be friends.
They think the solution is to get more time on the phone with these men or to see them more during the week.
They have this belief that if they talk more and spend more time together…
…that it would be harder for things to fizzle out
…and easier for the relationship to progress and get stronger.
So not true.
No worries tho… I come bearing a solution.
In today’s episode, I share a simple way to build deeper connections with men through your conversation so that you experience less “fizzling out” and more progress in your relationships with men
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The one little mistake women make that leads to men easily pulling away within weeks (even if these men were excited about connecting at first).
- How small-talk is killing your relationships with men before they even get started.
- How you can build a strong, intimate connection with a man in just one day per week.
- The 7 types of conversational shares that intrigue quality men and inspire them to want to be more intentional about getting to know you.
- How to deepen your connections with men by improving your connections with family, friends and even co-workers
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply
- Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
If you’re going out on tons of dates with men you like…and your connections almost always fizzle out or never lead to anything…
…let me ask you this:
Are you being open and vulnerable?
After working with hundreds of clients, I've discovered that there is a direct connection between a man being inspired to pursue and a woman’s ability to be vulnerable.
In today’s episode, find out dating never leads to anything for you, why it's super hard for you to open up and be vulnerable AND how you can step into the version of you that feels safe to open up and truly connect with men who respect, honor and love who you are.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The fundamental truth behind why your interactions with men always fizzle out in just a few days or weeks.
- Why most women of faith struggle with creating deeper relationships with men while dating (and how not to be stuck in this same cycle)
- All the ways the world makes it hard for women of faith to open up and truly express themselves.
- The real reason why Lori Harvey and Ciara are demonized and the repressive ripple effect it creates against women of faith.
- The easiest way to begin transforming the way you connect with men and the world, so that you can start living more of the life you love and dating the way you desire.
- Real examples of real women who changed their lives through learning how to open up and allow the world to see them for who they really are.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation.
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Food for thought:
Many times when you feel men aren’t emotionally available…
…it’s actually because YOU are the one who is being emotionally unavailable.
And I say this with my whole chest because 99.9% of the time when women come to me and say:
“Torah! How do I stop attracting men who are emotionally unavailable”
I’m able to dig deeper and discover that these same women have difficulty being emotionally available…but have no idea they’re being this way.
In today’s episode, I break down how so many women of faith are emotionally unavailable and how it’s destroying their dating lives.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How holding back your thoughts and feelings is ruining your relationships with quality men before they even get started
- The simple truth behind why men are not opening their heart to you or pursuing you for a more serious relationship.
- The scary stories most women of faith believe are preventing them from emotionally connecting with men.
- Deep impactful questions to ask yourself whenever you find yourself in a pattern of emotional unavailability. ways men feel unsafe to commit and/or express themselves with the women they date
- Simple ways to provide emotional safety to a man and make room for his emotions so that he feels safe to share his heart and life with you.
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“He just wants to hang out or keep things casual”
“He doesn’t express how he really feels about me”
“He doesn’t discuss plans for me in his life. He just goes with the flow”
“He never wants to talk about his past or what’s bothering him”
Many women might see this as an emotionally unavailable man…but I'm not so quick to jump to that conclusion.
Based upon experience as a love coach…many of these men are emotionally available…but don’t yet feel safe with the women they’re dating.
In today’s episode, I share how many women aren’t able to emotionally connect with men (and inspire them to commit) because they aren’t providing emotional safety.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The truth behind why a man might be really interested in you…and still avoid pursuing you for a real relationship
- How my clients are attracting quality men who seriously pursue them for relationships…even though they claimed they wanted to “go with the flow”
- 3 common (yet overlooked) ways men feel unsafe to commit and/or express themselves with the women they date
- Simple ways to provide emotional safety to a man and make room for his emotions so that he feels safe to share his heart and life with you.
- My suggestions for how to interact with men without worry, anxiety, or fear that comes along with being attached to a future outcome.
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One of the biggest misconceptions I hear a lot as a love coach is that the older you get…the harder it is to date…
…and the harder it is to meet quality men.
I’m here to say that it’s all lies.
I don’t care if you’re in your 40s, 50s and even 60s.
Florence is a great example of what it looks like to have a fun, fruitful, forward-moving dating experience…in your 50s.
Join me for today’s episode as Florence (Cuff-link from April 2022 Cohort ) tells all about how she went from being divorced with no dating skills to creating an amazing love life filled with high-quality men (young and “old”)
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How Florence created a delicious dating life filled with high-quality men while over the age of 50.
- Florence’s journey from divorce (after 22 years of marriage)…to being surrounded by quality men who provide, protect and build for her.
- The huge role gratitude played when it comes to creating expansion and abundance in Florence’s love life.
- How Florence overcame religious, culture and social conditioning to date with more freedom and lots more fun.
- The one key Florence learned in order to have her desires regularly fulfilled while dating.
- Behind the scenes of how Florence gained the courage to put herself out there and finally live and love on her own terms.
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There’s a lot of dating nonsense floating around about women who are 35+
“You’re a leftover woman”
“Men know something is wrong with you”
“God might want you to be single”
And what I hate the most is that so many single women are choosing to believe this.
Faith was one who believed that since she was over 35 and didn’t meet her original timeline for marriage…that God might’ve been calling her to a life of singleness.
That all changed during the pandemic when she decided to honor her desire for marriage and really put in the work to have it for herself. She was done being the wedding planner who planned everyone else’s wedding, but not her own.
Join me for today’s episode as Faith (former client and C2C Success Coach) tells all about how she went from being overlooked by men to creating quality dating options that led to her choosing her husband.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How Faith created a delicious love life filled with high-quality men after the age of 35.
- How the pandemic became an eye-opening experience that led to Faith getting serious about making her love life a priority.
- Faith’s journey from being super single and waiting on God…..to married within a year.
- The one breakthrough Faith had that dramatically improved the quality of the men she attracted and the dating experiences she had.
- Behind the scenes of how Faith gained the confidence and tools to attract the man and marriage she desired.
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Abstinence can be a period for self-love, personal growth and honor of one’s faith.
But because so many women of faith are going on abstinent journeys AND they have no viable marriage options…it is becoming more of a period of dysfunction.
See…women of faith are wanting sex, BUT they are also waiting for marriage.
This is a problem because most women of faith aren’t creating love lives that lead to marriage.
And because they aren’t creating marriage options for themselves…they’re going into their late 30s, 40s and 50s single and sexually unsatisfied…
… and it results in psychological and physical consequences to their bodies.
THIS is dysfunctional.
In today’s episode, I break down how most women of faith are doing abstinence wrong, how to properly honor your sexual choice and how you can begin creating a juicy, love life that will lead you to the marriage you are waiting to have sex for.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The truth behind abstinence journey’s and why you don’t hear them mentioned in the Bible at all.
- Why I’m Pro-abstinent and how my clients learn to date successfully without having sex.
- What women who wait on sex need to learn in order to be successful with finding love.
- How being abstinent without romantic options leads to endless sexual starvation
- The real reason why men don’t wanna date abstinent women.
- Why women who believe they are dating “God’s way” are delusional.
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One of the biggest reasons why women don’t create yummy love lives for themselves is because they are afraid of what people will think of them if they do.
They fear people will judge them for kissing men on the first date
They fear people won’t approve of them dating multiple men
They fear being labeled “difficult” if they bluntly asked for what they wanted for men and said “NO” to all the things they don’t want.
Winnie was one of these many women who had a dry and scarce love life because she feared what people of her culture and religion would think. She played small for years, accepted crumbs from me and waited for them to choose her for years.
That all changed when she decided to choose herSELF first instead of pleasing everyone else as the neighborhood “good girl”.
Join me for today’s episode as Winnie (former client and C2C Success Coach) tells all about how she dropped the “good girl” act to go from a dry and disastrous love life to dating deliciously with multiple yummy men.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How Winnie created a blissful, exciting and spicy love life even when friends and family of her culture & religion didn’t approve.
- Winnie’s journey from a dry dating life to attracting high-quality men who love her for the women she is.
- How Winnie learned to confidently ask for what she wanted from men without fear or guilt.
- The backstory of how Winnie learned how to date multiple men after being nervous that people would see her as a “HOE”
- Why Winnie walked away from the pressures of being “Good Girl” to live an authentic life of freedom on her own terms.
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Imagine pushing 30, never been on a date, never even kissed a guy before..
Annnddd…you’ve been waiting on God to send your husband, but he’s nowhere in sight.
That was Marshae when we first met in 2017.
A beautiful, outgoing high-achieving woman of faith who desired marriage, but was lost when it came to dating and interacting with me because all her life she was taught to “wait on God” and the man would just appear.
Until she met me of course.
Join me for today’s episode as Marshae shares her journey of how she went from never dating at all..to being engaged and married in the same year.
After 4 years of marriage and 2 babies later, she’s dropping gems on how she created an amazing love life before and after marriage.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How Marshae went from being ashamed of desiring marriage to being confident about pursuing a healthy and exciting love life.
- What happened when Marshae finally got the courage to shoot her shot at a long-time crush.
- The backstory behind how Marshae dated her husband and vetted him for exclusivity.
- How putting YOU first leads to a better experience whether you’re single or married.
- How working with Marshae inspired me to become a dating coach.
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We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before.
We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports.
We can even go to war if we want to.
And even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage…
…that keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do.
And this directly impacts our ability to have deep, authentic dating experiences and abundant, expansive love lives.
In today’s episode, I expose how Women of Faith have allowed the “Good Girl Complex” to keep them small in their love lives. We are trading our personal freedom to be slaves to our comfort zone and for people pleasing and male approval. And it’s destroying the way we live and love because of fear and shame.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating.
- How Caresha (Young Miami) chose her own romantic path, but is still triggered by it.
- The real reason why “good girls” police other women’s life choices concerning her body, sex and dating practices.
- The truth of how following male relationship gurus really condition you to stay under male domination and control.
- Why men will praise you for being “wife material”, but never try to make you their wife.
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Ever shot your shot with someone and scored big time??
I feel this way about snagging Crystal Irom who is another dope ass love coach and a really good friend of mine.
Almost 2 years ago, I slid in her DMs during the pandemic and since then we’ve grown a beautiful friendship that is filled with so much love, joy and a lot of respect for one another.
Not only do I love her…but many of my clients do too.
She’s my guest today on the podcast and we’re giving you a sneak peak of what we discuss when we have our regular girl chats.
In today’s episode, be prepared to be a fly on the wall as we girl talk, share, and giggle about our backstories, personal lives, love coaching businesses, trending topics, pop culture and other random talking points.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The unusual way we met on Clubhouse and how I mistakenly thought she was a white woman for weeks.
- Both our takes on why so many women are attracting emotionally unavailable men.
- My real time reaction of Derek Jaxn’s divorce announcement after Crystal drop the news mid-conversation.
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The anxiety I had over sending the wrong email to over 800 people and how it backfired in my favor.
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Why Crystal has the super power to be able to crank out 40+ Youtube videos in a single weekend.
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Women of faith are being gaslit by mainstream religion.
They deeply desire love, sex and marriage…but are often programmed to bury these desires to appear “godly” and not “desperate”
They are single and unsatisfied in their 30s, 40s and 50s…but being told to “commit to The Lord” more and the right man will find them.
They are being taught to keep their legs closed…but not receiving any practical guidance on how to meet men and date them for marriage.
The good news is that this era is slowly ending.
There’s an awakening happening…and there’s a new movement being led by women of faith who are leaving behind the shackles of “religious relationship theology” and finding freedom by finally taking responsibility for their love lives.
In today’s episode, I go in depth about how mainstream religion has set women of faith up to lose with love. I also share how the average “church girl” can begin creating a new reality where love is abundant, quality men are plentiful and dating is a fulfilling adventure.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- 3 Most Common (but wrong) strategies women of faith use to attract quality men
- The uncomfortable truth behind the phrase “HOES Winning” that many church girls don’t want to accept.
- Why leaving your “church” might be the best thing for your love life in 2023
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How black women are the biggest casualty of religious relationship theology.
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Real clients sharing real stories of what happened when they stopped waiting for love to happen for them.
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One of the biggest fears women have while dating is “Falling in Love” with a man.
So they act unbothered…they suppress their emotions and worst of all…ignore their desires.
And although they are successful at not “falling in love”...they are also successful at damaging their love life.
They have no idea that trying to avoid falling in love is also preventing them from ALSO having fun, fruitful and forward-moving dating experiences with men.
In today’s episode, share why women SHOULD fall in love while dating…and they should fall in love all the time…with different men.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating.
- The truth behind why so many women are terrified of falling in love while dating.
- How being scared of “falling in love” is causing you to attract men who are emotionally unavailable
- The key to falling in love without being emotionally attached to the men you’re dating.
- The secret to falling in love with men without overinvesting
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For every time I urge women to have fun while dating..
…there is always someone who is ready to reply “But Torah! I’m intentional. I’m dating with purpose.”
What I find so fascinating is so many women believe they have to choose between pleasure and purpose.
Newsflash!
You can have experience BOTH while dating Queen...at the same time
You don’t have to sacrifice fun to be intentional about dating the men you desire.
In today’s episode, I reveal the problem with sacrificing pleasure and how you can have a yummy, delicious time with men while still being very purposeful towards a committed relationship.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
- How vetting someone to see if they are husband material is not dating with intention.
- Why dating “with purpose” can be one of the biggest distractions to your own healing
- How to begin infusing joy and pleasure in all your dating experiences.
- What it looks like to have fun while dating and then being smart about it.
- How to take your desires and fuel what you want to create in your love life.
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One of our favorite Celebrity couples is calling it quits after 14 years of marriage.
And a lot of us are struggling with the news.
We’re asking questions like:
“If they didn’t make it…what hope is there for me?”
Or
“I thought they were so happy…how could they divorce?”
What if I told you that both of these questions are flawed and based in falsehood?
What if I also told you that you don’t have to be disappointed and doubtful because their marriage didn’t last.
In today’s episode, I share my perspective on the divorce, what you can learn from their marriage ending, and where to move your attention if you desire a beautiful, loving marriage.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
- How focusing on making a marriage last is overrated (and what you should focus on instead).
- Why paying so much attention to Tia & Cory’s divorce is a distraction from what really matters.
- The truth behind the 30+ year marriages our grandparents had.
- How the average person self-abandons all in the name of marriage.
- How celebrities' marriages ending, have nothing to do with your opportunity for a healthy, long-standing marriage.
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One of the biggest fears we have as women, while dating, is getting rejected by a man we really like.
And some of the most painful rejection is getting ghosted by a man that we really could really see ourselves building a life with.
Shruti was one of many women who became devastated after her dream man ghosted her out of nowhere. He was attractive, checked off all the boxes, and she felt a strong connection with him…and she was crushed that he would disappear from her life with no explanation.
That all changed when she decided to choose herSELF before choosing a man.
Join me for today’s episode as Shruti (Cuff-link from August 2022 Cohort) gives you a behind the scenes look at how she went from being desperate for marriage, depressed and crying over a man who ghosted her to becoming a fierce Queen who boldly asks for what she wants, lives how she wants, and dates WHO she wants.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How Shruti went from being adamant about dating one man at a time to dating multiple high-quality men who provide, protect and pursue her for marriage.
- The backstory behind how Shruti was able to quadruple her income and her options in men.
- How Shruti was able to recreate herself and design her dream love life despite having tons of insecurities about herself as a woman.
- The importance of embracing and loving past, painful versions of you who didn’t know any better.
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“How come it’s the ones who engage engage in premarital sex that are getting married and yet we who have been sticking to our principles, trying to do things God’s way and praying for years are still waiting (and getting older by the day?)”
I’m always seeing variations of this question in online communities where women of faith reside.
What these women don’t realize is that beneath the surface of this question there is entitlement, false superiority and a 2misinterpretation of what it means to be celibate.
I hopped on the mic to rant about this question and to give some perspective on what the Bible really reveals to us when it comes to love, sex and marriage.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
- The truth about why “good girls” who keep their legs closed aren’t getting married
- How “Biblical Marriage” is highly overrated and why no woman truly wants it.
- The danger of fantasizing the Bible and romanticizing marriage
- Why women of faith need to stop waiting for their “Boaz”
- What it looks like to choose to abstain from sex from a position of power
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“When is it going to be my turn?”
“When am I finally going to meet my husband?”
“Why can’t I be married already?”
These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone.
They think…
“Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..”
“...It’s going to stop my disappointment, my loneliness, my exhaustion, my negative thoughts”
“...And it’s going to make me feel more confident, secure, stable and loved.
Little do they know that a man can’t do any of this for them.
This is their responsibility.
In today’s episode, I highlight how so many women give their power to create the love lives they desire over to men and how they can take their power back.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- How our core beliefs trick us into believing that we need men to feel better.
- The importance of accepting where you are now in order to receive the relationship you desire.
- How focusing on men is distracting you from having the man you desire.
- Why you need to slow down, if you want to speed up towards your desired love life.
- What it looks like to take responsibility for your journey towards marriage so you can create the love life you desire.
- Why your relationship will fall apart, even if you find the man of your dreams.
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f you find yourself often find yourself drained and disappointed with men
Or that men keep leaving you feeling foolish and that he just wasted your time…
It’s a good chance that you might be a woman who is easily impressed.
Because an easily impressed woman almost always ends up somebody’s fool.
In today’s episode, learn what it means to be an easily impressed woman, why it’s causing you so much suffering and how to break from this behavior if you are guilty of being easily impressed by the men you date.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- Why easily impressed women don’t operate in the realm of reality.
- How easily impressed women trick themselves into believing that basic actions by men mean more than what they are.
- 3 Major ways easily impressed women are also easily influenced.
- What to look for to determine if a man’s actions really mean what you think they mean.
- 3 ways to grow from being a woman who is easily impressed.
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Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him.
We wanna hear from him daily
We wanna see him all the time.
And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away.
Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction.
Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lot of problems in our life…we still strongly desire him.
In this episode, I take time to coach a Queen who is addicted to dating a man who is tall, dark and dysfunctional…and we explore why this is a thing for her and what exactly she should do about it.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The lies we tell ourselves when we are addicted to men who are not good for us.
- The root causes of our addictions and why we stay stuck in the cycle.
- How feeling chemistry with a man can also be a sign of dysfunctional addiction.
- Why it’s not always easy for us to be interested in other men who are able to offer us healthy forms of companionship.
- The truth about why we love to be controlled and dominated and why we confuse it with “Alpha” energy.
- How I lost my voice in my own marriage due to my own relationship addictions
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They say first comes love, then comes marriage…then comes the baby with the baby carriage.
But what happens when the love leaves and the marriage is over and we are left alone with the baby?
Is new love and marriage still on the table?
It is for my very good friend Christina David
She ended at the end of a hard divorce as a single mom with two young children and now she is enjoying dating multiple high-quality men with coins who absolutely adore her.
Christina specializes in creating an amazing experience for men that magnetizes them and pulls them into her space.
And in this episode she is killing any myths that single mothers gotta struggle to date or that they can’t attract high quality men who are up for the challenge of ready made families.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How Christina went from going through a devastating divorce to creating a fun, exciting and intentional dating life for herself.
- How Christina confidently and carefully involves her children in her love life.
- How to balance being a good mother and putting yourself out there to date.
- How important it is to build a strong support system to help you date as a single mom.
- What it looks like to be a single mom and dating high-quality men with coins.
- Christina’s advice to single mom’s who are worried or concerned about dating.
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There’s so many dating gurus (men and women alike) who teach that plus-sized women are not desired by high-quality men for love and marriage.
But is that really true tho?
Hell nah!
I have my former client and C2C Success Coach, Rashanda Banks here to share what dating as a plus-sized woman is really about when you know what you’re doing.
Rashanda is the queen of building armies of men who provide, protect and build for women AND helping plus-sized women (like herself) step into their power to achieve this for themselves.
In this episode, Rashanda and I have a discussion about how she has designed a fun, healing and magical love life that serves her to the highest capacity.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How Rashanda went from being insecure about her weight to being a confident Queen who attracts high-quality men anywhere and everywhere.
- How you can do everything “right” to get married and still get it “wrong”
- The simple key to inspiring men to emotionally and financially invest in you.
- How to have a “soft life” where men show up for you and treat you like precious cargo.
- The importance of setting boundaries for better dating experiences.
- Rashanda’s advice for how to finally begin walking in your worth as a plus-sized woman.
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“I’ve tried online dating before and it doesn’t work”
I’ve probably heard this a trillion times over my career as a dating coach
Which is so funny because online dating works extremely well and it’s one of the easiest ways to meet high-quality men.
Truth is…if online dating isn’t working for you, it’s a user error.
Kind of like if you try to use an ice cream scoop as a hammer….
…or attempt to eat spaghetti with a butter knife
…or fill your little Honda Accord up with diesel fuel.
In today’s special episode, I share a Clubhouse coaching session where I share a play by play on how to improve your approach to dating online…so that you can match with the best men and have the best kinds of experiences.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- THe importance of setting small intentions every time you log into a dating app
- How easily overthinking will cause you to miss opportunities to connect with high-quality men.
- The real reason why your conversations are fizzling out on the app.
- The purpose of creating an emotional investment the moment a man sees your profile on the app.
- The real reason why your conversations are fizzling out on the app.
- How to inspire men to invest in the connection between you and them.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens.
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
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@torahcents
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Over the past 35 years of my life, I have had so much success than I ever thought was possible for me.
Was it drama-free? Nope
Was there plenty of messiness? Hell yeah!
And in spite of all the trauma, drama and messy…I live a beautiful life filled with love, joy, freedom and abundance.
Even though it looks effortless…my life didn’t happen by chance.
It’s a result of my dedication to develop, grow and evolve.
In today’s special episode, I celebrate my 35th birthday by sharing the bests lessons i’ve learned in my life that has allowed me to navigate and survive poverty, sexual abuse, abandonment, teenage pregnancy, religious abuse… etc…
…so that I can thrive in my current life of peace, happiness, abundance, freedom, leisure and love.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- What I've been able to achieve in my 35 years of life and the life lessons I’ve learned to help me have what I desire.
- How I used brain science to help me become the woman I am today.
- How major failures in my life set me up for ultimate success.
- Why I feel peace, confident and secure whether I’m winning or “losing”.
- A snapshot of how disappointments in my friendships, business and marriage helped make me a better woman.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- The New Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz
- My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens.
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
It’s confirmed…
Popular Youtuber, Kevin Samuels, who is most infamous for his controversial dating advice geared towards women… is Dead
Whether you loved him, hated him, or remained indifferent…you cannot deny that he had an impactful voice and was a huge influence in the modern dating world.
And because of his impact, the internet has been flooded with rants, think pieces and petitions sharing their opinion of him and his work (before and after his death.)
I’ve never participated, but in light of his recent passing, I finally feel an urge to share.
In today’s episode, I finally share my thoughts and opinions about Kevin Samuels and his online platform.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How I discovered Kevin Samuels and my first impression of his content
- The embarrassing truth behind how Kevin Samuesl really gained his fame.
- The real problem with Kevin Samuels (it’s deeper than you think)
- Why trying to cancel Kevin was a form of victim consciousness.
- What really needs to be addressed…now that he’s dead.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Episode #14 Radical Responsibility While Dating
- My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens.
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Most women don’t have powerful, healthy love lives.
It’s not because they can’t or lack the ability.
It's not because of past trauma or hurt.
It’s because they aren’t ready to be 100% responsible for their love lives.
They still want to blame men
They still want to make excuses.
They still want to stay in their comfort zones
Real power requires real responsibility
It’s not your fault no one taught you how to have a healthy, fun love life, but it is your responsibility to have one.
In today’s episode, I share what it looks like to have the power to create the love life that lights you up…and what it takes to get there.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- What is Radical Responsibility and how can we implement it while dating.
- How to finally stop playing the blame game and ditch excuses so you can have the love you desire.
- The big glaring reason why women can follow my work for years and still never have success with love.
- 3 Key things we experience once we decide to be radically responsible.
- How becoming radically responsible radically upgrades your love life.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Episode #11 Becoming the “Sun” in Your Love Life Solar System
- My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens.
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
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That moment when a man hops into my comment section talkin’ bout”
“You giving’ all this advice to women. Are YOU even married?”
As if a man validates my expertise…
As if marriage is a coaching certification…
As if having a husband means having an amazing love life…AND I can teach others to do the same.
Marriage is a relationship status
…Not proof that I can help women transform their love lives.
So today I hop on the mic to rant a little about why me being married isn’t why you should be taking me seriously as a love coach.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- The underlying reason why men troll women about their relationship statuses.
- Why being married doesn’t qualify me to be a love/dating coach
- The real reasons why I am a credible expert when it comes to helping women find love.
- The truth behind women who get triggered by men who holler “Kevin Samuels” talking points.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens.
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
I want to invite you to come on a journey with me to the land of fulfilled desires.
Here the women are satisfied, excited and extremely pleased by the men they are dating.
These men show up ready to serve these women and putting big smiles on their faces.
Sounds unrealistic?
Think again.
It may sound far-fetched, but it’s easier than you think to live this kind of life and be loved in this kind of way.
All you have to do is Teach Men How to Win with You
In today’s episode, I share a perspective on why teaching men to win with you is so important if you want to have the best experiences with the best men.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- What does it mean to teach men to win with you and practical guidance on how to do this
- How to get the phone calls and dates that you want…when you want them.
- The key to communicating to men your desires AND your boundaries so that they show up for you.
- One of the biggest mistakes women make that causes them to lose out on fun dating experiences with men.
- 3 things you have to stop doing in order to be successfully pleased by men.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens.
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
The way we date men is important. Especially when we’re dating multiple men at a time.
We don’t date multiple men because it’s “cool”
Or to have a one-up on men
Or to distract ourselves from being so attached to the one man we really desire.
It’s much deeper than that.
In today’s episode, I get real with you about your dating practices while dating multiple men and I shed some light on why it’s deeper than you think.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- How we are conditioned to follow dating rules that don’t serve us.
- What it truly means to be in relationship with someone
- How most people are dating for transactions and not transformations.
- How dating multiple men is crucial for your personal growth
- All the ways you benefit from dating multiple men deeply
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Vickie High (Cuff-link from November Cohort 2021) shares her testimonial of being 58 years old and dating high-quality men.
- Episode #4: Dating is a Spiritual Practice
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
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Are you frustrated because the men you date aren’t being consistent?
Because if a man truly is interested, he would reach out to us daily and take us out on a weekly date, Right???
Maybe…or maybe not.
In today’s episode, I share a new perspective on consistency and why we should change the way we expect men to show up while casually dating them
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .
- What most women think consistency is vs TRUE consistency
- Why women are easily fooled and confused by men who they feel are consistent.
- The truth behind why a man may only reach out once a week and still be a man of consistency.
- Why daily communication with a man does not help move the relationship forward.
- How true consistency is principle focused, not pattern focused.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- A High-Quality Man has a Mission. Mentioned in Episode #2 : What is a Quality Man?
- High Connection/ Low Attachment. Mentioned in Episode #3: How to Date Multiple Men Without Getting Too Attached to One of Them.
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
“There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.”
That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work.
The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women
AND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men.
Why?
Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire
And that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together.
It’s deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean.
Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- What it really means to “work on yourself” while dating.
- The difference between a decent woman and a quality woman
- A quality woman’s biggest super power that helps her navigate dating.
- The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality men
- Why it’s important to embrace “messiness” on your dating journey
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- How to Become a Triple Threat Success Woman (You can gain access to this free training by applying to Curved 2 Cuffed)
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
“How do I know whether I’m doing way too much with a man?”
“How do I know whether I’m giving too much of myself?”
“How do I make sure I’m not overinvesting in a relationship that isn’t going anywhere?”
These are all questions women ask when they are tired of giving their time, energy and hearts to men who didn’t earn it.
I got some better questions for you to ask though…
Tune in to this episode as I share 5 questions to ask yourself TODAY so that you give to men without ever giving pieces of yourself.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- Why performing “wife-duties” for a boyfriend can be in your best interest.
- The secret to investing in men and relationships without ever feeling taken advantage of.
- How to give freely to men in abundance so that you benefit too.
- The best way to make romantic decisions that are best for you in any dating scenario.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Coach Faith’s Engagement Announcement
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
I love to see women being cherished, supported, invested in, adored and well-loved by high-quality men.
I hate that so many women find it incredibly hard to believe that there is an abundance of quality men for them to date.
Thankfully, I know what it takes to make them a believer.
I know the secret sauce to surround yourself with so many high-quality men that you won’t have room to receive all of them.
Listen closely to this episode as I show you exactly how to start meeting and dating more high-quality men than you ever dreamed was possible.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- The mistake most women make that makes it harder for them to meet and date high-quality men
- The simple way your brain can help you spot quality men without you having to try.
- The secret to having an endless flow of high-quality men to choose from
- The woman you need to BE to start attracting high-quality men as soon as today
FEATURED ON THE SHOW
- Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle
- Ep #3: What is a High-Quality Man
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY.
All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend.
And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effort
There’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with men
Listen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you, instead of settling for being chosen.
Be prepared to reclaim your time!
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
My signature model for a premium dating experience for high-achieving women of faith.
* What it means to be a good H.O.E and how it puts you in a position of power.
* 7 Practical guidelines that will help you vet men before you go exclusive with them.
* A unique approach to rotational dating that will lead you to date better men and have better dating experiences.
* How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.*
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
When someone tells me that they’re a woman of faith, I can normally tell the level of her faith by the health of her love life.
You can go to church regularly, pray, consistently read your bible and serve in ministry…
BUT the truth of your spiritual walk is always revealed by the life you live daily…and that includes your love life.
Listen in today to find out how to use dating as a spiritual practice to deepen your relationship with The Most High and ultimately with yourself.
You can grow an abundantly love life by growing your faith with practical spirituality.
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- The real reason why dating is so draining and disappointing to you.
- Practical examples of how to date with more depth and meaning.
- Why being obsessed with the future is a slap in the face to God.
- How being more like God improves the quality of your love life and the men you date.
- The spiritual benefits of building community with the opposite sex
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
You wanna date multiple men, but you keep falling for one at a time huh?
If that’s the case, PUH-leaze join me for this episode as I share the perfect ideology for you to embody so you can have fun with an amazing man, and still have the capacity to frolic with others.
What you’ll discover:
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What high connection/low-attachment is and why it’s so important to adopt while dating.
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The power behind having strong feelings for a man…and knowing how to not act on them.
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The danger behind daydreaming while casually dating men.
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The one question you need to ask yourself each time you want to invest time and energy into a man.
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How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
There’s a difference between a decent man and a high-quality man. Did you know a man can be kind, consistent, “God-fearing” and STILL not be a high-quality man?
Join me for this episode as I break down what a high-quality man is and how to spot one from a mile away.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
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Common misconceptions women have concerning what a high-quality man looks like.
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6 Key attributes to look for to spot a high-quality man
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Why it matters that a man is intimately connected to other high-quality men.
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What it actually looks like for a man to show his “true colors”
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How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Are you sick of how disappointing your love life is? Great! Because I’m sick of not seeing you winning! Whether you’re new at dating or totally drained with it, this is the perfect episode to learn how to get on the right track towards reaching your relationship goals.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
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The real reasons behind stagnation in your love life.
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The mindset behind achieving your relationship goals no matter what.
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The truth behind why you can do all the right things and STILL get dating wrong.
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One of the biggest mistakes (even smart women) make, that leaves them feeling discouraged and disconnected during their dating journey.
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How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed
Wondering why it’s so hard for you to secure a decent date or a relationship with a decent man? I got you!
I’m TorahCents, the founder of Curved 2 Cuffed, and I’m here to help you start attracting quality men and confidently date for the romantic partnership you desire as a high-achieving woman of faith.
In this trailer I’ll share who I am and what you can expect from this podcast in upcoming episodes.
What you’ll discover:
- Who I am and why listening to me is what you should be doing every week.
- Who this podcast is for and why it’s so different from other content usually put out for women of faith.
- What you can expect to learn. Be prepared to learn how to attract high-quality men everywhere you go, how to date multiple men for marriage and/or legacy building and how to become a Triple Threat Success woman who can create the love life of her desires (no matter her relationship status)
- How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details.
- P.S. I’m giving away a free gift for a limited time. To snag it for yourself, go to iTunes, leave a review, and send a screenshot to hello@torahs2cents.com before March 1, 2022.
Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
@torahcents
@curved2cuffed