Irresistible Woman Podcast: Recent Episodes
Amba Schubert
Hey lovelies!I am Amba and I’m here to help you embrace your confident and irresistible self to have the love life you truly want. I went through dating and relationship experiences that most women have gone through and could relate to. I have been in long- term relationships where I did not feel cherished, understood and loved as a woman. I have also been in a position where I was only attracting and allowing men into my life who only wanted to use me.I binged watched countless videos on YouTube (hehe don't we all) about dating advice and attracting men. I found a lot of advice online was manipulative and actually pushed good men away. I realised I had poor self worth and that’s why I was struggling with dating and intimacy with men. I'm here to help you embrace that confident woman inside so you can attract great men into your life who cherish you. You are always loved, Amba
Hey lovely,
Now I know what you are thinking:p "Why do women have to do all the work". Here's the thing...
Understanding men on a deeper, intimate level will actually empower you as a woman. Knowing a man deeply will soothe your insecurities and uncertainties that our different genders bring while dating and being in relationships with men.
Deep down you want to be in a loving and passionate committed relationship with a man right? you might want children with a man? Then it is essential to understand men on a deep level and love them for the man that they are.
Here's a question, how would it feel lovely if the man you were dating/in a relationship with, did his best to understand you deeply as a woman? You would feel so seen and cherished!
I am offering one on one coaching to help you overcome your obstacles with men and embrace your irresistible and confident self, to feel excited about dating and to attract mature strong men in your life. For my help, DM on Instagram at datingauthentic.com or email me at ambaschubert@gmail.com with the subject line 'Coaching'.
Much love,
Amba xx
Hey lovely,
I know what it feels like to to be really scared to get hurt again. When we are dating and in intimate relationships with men that's when we feel our most vulnerable and our insecurities arise.
When it comes to love, women want a real man (mature) to be in a committed relationship with and real men want to be with a real woman too.
The terrified little girl inside helped protect us when we were young however it really affects how we attract men.
If you are attracting boys in man bodies it is time to go deep within hun and love, nurture and support that scared little girl inside to bring out the woman inside.
I am offering one on one coaching to help you overcome your obstacles with men and embrace your irresistible and confident self, to feel excited about dating and to attract mature strong men in your life. For my help, DM on Instagram at datingauthentic.com or email me at ambaschubert@gmail.com with the subject line 'Coaching'.
Much love,
Amba xx
Hey lovelies,
Do you have a loop of negative thoughts going around and around in your mind after a date with a man? Do you feel suspicious of every man you go out with? Do you believe every man just wants to use you?
Lovely, it's ok to feel a little suss about a man you are getting to know because it's natural to feel this way when we are dating the opposite sex.
But the thing is……When we come from a place of unworthiness we keep men at an emotional distance by judging them.
I know deep down you want deep soulmate love with a man who cherishes you. For you to let love in from a healthy mature man, you need to embrace your worthy self. With this, you will be able to make decisions from a secure and understanding place that best serves what you want in your love life.
Before you go, here's a link for my 1:1 coaching called Coffee With Me for the price of a coffee. I will help you overcome your blocks with men to have a thriving love life.
https://linktr.ee/ambaS
Much love,
Amba
xxx
Hey lovelies,
Why is it important for you to know this? Because you will waste your precious time and hurt your beautiful heart if you continue thinking sex will get a man to commit to you.
ladies, here is the thing about men……. men feel differently about sex than what women feel. Women feel more attached to a man when they have sex with him because thats how our bodies are made. However, men dont feel more attached to a woman after sex unless he actually really likes the woman.
For your own wellbeing and future love life, knowing how to create deep emotional intimacy and attraction with a man is crucial to having the love life you truly want with a great man who cherishes you. Here are the three important factors below:
- Not focusing on getting commitment ( I know this seems counterintuitive but I'll explain why in the episode).
- Being an emotionally safe woman.
- Expressing your genuine appreciation for what he does for you.
Here is the link to my ‘Your Non Negotiables With Men’
You will also find this PDF in the link in my Instagram bio at datingauthentic
Much love,
Amba
Hey lovely,
Are you struggling with connecting with men and can't get past the 5th date?
I definitely understand how this makes you feel and why this is happening! When we feel resentful of men due to our previous unsuccessful relationships, we close ourselves off to giving and receiving connection and intimacy from men.
Unfortunately, when you are guarded, closed off and resentful this repels great men who want to create intimacy and attraction with a woman. He will take your unhealthy beliefs about men and your guardedness as a woman he will not be able to make happy long term. The truth is, great men want to make us happy ladies!
It's never too late to change your love life for the better!
For help releasing your unhealthy blocks with men to feeling excited about dating and being able to create intimacy with men easily- Im doing 'Coffee With Me' 1:1 coaching at a price of a coffee. Here's the link https://linktr.ee/ambaS
Much love,
Amba xxx
Hello lovelies,
In today's episode I have a special guest Julie Crenshaw who is a Communication Coach and author of the book, Navigating and Avoiding Awkward Conversations.
Julie's mission is to empower others to feel confident in their ability to express themselves and their needs/desires more clearly, and able to handle difficult situations and conversations with ease.
What I adore about Julie's mission is she believes anyone can learn to connect with others no matter the difficulty of the conversation.
In the past, Julie and myself have struggled when it came to communicating to the men we were in relationships with.
We will give you our advice on how to communicate your needs in a way that bring the men in your lives closer to you and able to work it out together.
If you want to see more from me you can find me on instagram too at datingauthentic.
Much love,
Amba xx
Hey lovely,
In today's episode I will be giving you three tips on how to have fun on dates with men and create intimacy with them from the first date.
I definitely understand the burnout cycle of online dating! However, it is possible to stop this cycle with my three easy tips that you can implement right away.
Here's the thing.....dating is meant to be fun, spontaneous and an enjoyable experience with another person. Even when you get into a committed relationship, having fun doesn't stop there!
If you want to know more dating advice and tips you can also find me on Instagram at 'datingauthentic' or email me on ambaschubert@gmail.com too.
You are always loved,
Amba