Redd Flags Podcast: Recent Episodes
Greg Feeney and Deb Gould
Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss a controversial article published by Psychology Today titled The Rise of Lonely, Single Men.
A man with a "BJ anytime anywhere" agreement with his partner wonders if cashing it in during a fight would actually be a good idea.
A woman has her fist experience with getting the "ick", colloquial called Sudden Repulsion Syndrome or SRS.
A man is having a hard time with the fact that his boyfriend is hard to please in the bedroom.
A man is confused about what to do now that his best friend who ghosted him 2 years ago wants to be friends again.
A woman is struggling over whether to let the homophobic parents of her deceased wife see their grandchild whom they have never met.
If you have any questions, comments, or are seeking advice, send us an Instagram DM @reddflagspodcast or an email to thereddflagspodcast@gmail.com
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg talk about pooping in the woods and the rise of the Red Pill movement.
A single man wants to know if it is ok to make a pass at women who are shopping at Target.
A woman is sick of her husband farting in front of the rest of the family and wants it to stop.
A woman wants to know how to convince her husband that he needs to blow off steam by "angry fucking" her after work.
A woman is upset after a FWB who ghosted her for 4 months recently hit her up for a booty call and wants to know if this is normal for hook up culture.
A women realizes that she might have made a mistake when she broke up with her boyfriend after finding lipstick on his shirt after a night out with his friends.
If you have any questions, comments, or are seeking advice, send us an Instagram DM @reddflagspodcast or an email to thereddflagspodcast@gmail.com
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg talk about Natural Harvest. A cookbook which focuses on recipes that include semen.
A man wants to know what to expect when a woman tells him to “do whatever you want” in bed.
A woman is outraged that multiple men from dating apps have asked her to come over on a first or second date so that they can cook dinner for her.
A man wants to know if it would be weird to subscribe to the Only Fans of a woman that he met on Tinder and is meeting soon for a first date.
A bisexual man wants to know how open he should be with potential women partners about his sexual orientation.
A woman is considering divorce after just 1 month of marriage because her husband is prioritizing his job over quality time with her.
If you have any questions, comments, or are seeking advice, send us an Instagram DM @reddflagspodcast or an email to thereddflagspodcast@gmail.com
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg are joined by two special guests, Stuart and Kyle. They helped us tackle meaningful topics such as the history of protein bars and what to expect when it comes to having anal sex.
A young gay man from a small town in Australia wants to know why he isn’t getting any attention from other guys on the hookup app Scruff.
A gen Z’er is seeking advice on how to know if other men are gay in a non-gay space.
A gay man is frustrated that everyone that he matches with on Grindr seem to only want hookups while he is looking for something more.
A person is distraught after a guy criticized their hygiene after an ass eating session on a hot and sunny day.
If you have any questions, comments, or are seeking advice, send us an Instagram DM @reddflagspodcast or an email to thereddflagspodcast@gmail.com
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg are joined by a special guest, Trish. She is the host of Tita’s Thots podcast where she takes on the topic of sex from the perspective of a Filipino American woman. Please be sure to check her out on Spotify, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. Follow her on Instagram @titasth0tspodcast
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A man is seeking advice on how him and his partner can schedule sex and what each other’s expectations should be.
A man is upset after his wife shared her boudoir photos on social media after giving them to him as a surprise gift for his birthday.
A pregnant woman is devastated after her husband left on their “baby moon” vacation without her.
A faithful woman is blindsided after her husband tells her that he took two paternity tests and that he is not the father of their daughter.
If you have any questions, comments, or are seeking advice, send us an Instagram DM @reddflagspodcast or an email to thereddflagspodcast@gmail.com
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss a post from r/askreddit about NSFW facts.
A bicurious woman is seeking advice on how to handle her feelings towards her roommate who is a lesbian.
A woman is upset that her husband does not want to work out at the same gym as her.
A woman reflects on her last boyfriend and wonders if he and others are too obsessed with finding “the one.”
Disaster of the Week- A man is upset because his wife uses flirtations with other men as a way to ramp up her desire in their marriage.
If you have any questions, comments, or are seeking advice, send us an instagram DM @reddflagspodcast or an email to thereddflagspodcast@gmail.com
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss an article called “Tips to Look After Your Husband” from a 1950’s home economics book.
A woman who is dating believes that men seem to want relationships and marriage more than women. Is this true?
A man wants to know if it is a red flag that the woman he has been dating for a few months often lies about it being her birthday in order to get free food and drinks.
A person who has heard people say that “porn isn’t like real sex” wants to know what actually happens in sex that is not shown in porn.
A successful woman is bothered that her husband of 9 years seems to love to compliment her boobs but rarely says anything nice about her non-physical attributes.
A man whose wife has lost her sex drive after battling cancer is considering his wife’s offer to allow him to start having sex with her friend.
We are STILL running a contest to win a copy of Esther Perel’s card game Where Should we Begin. Please review our podcast on whatever platform you listen to us on and send us an Instagram DM @reddflagspodcast or an email to thereddflagspodcast@gmail.com letting us know that you have done so and we will add your name to the drawing. You can also find an additional way to enter on our Instagram.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss a reddit post in which a man is sick of his wife’s persistent Borat impersonations.
A man wonders if he should tell his wife that one of his exes contacted him online recently.
A woman is having a hard time getting in the mood for sex because of her husbands burping, farting, and other off-putting behaviors.
A woman is concerned that her boyfriend is going to be disappointed when they have sex for the first time and he discovers that she does not have a pink anus.
A woman wants to know why she keeps getting ghosted after what she feels are solid first dates.
A man wants to know if he is the asshole for being upset that his wife is refusing to use part of her large inheritance to pay off his student loans.
We are STILL running a contest to win a copy of Esther Perel’s card game Where Should we Begin. Please review our podcast on whatever platform you listen to us on and send us an Instagram DM @reddflagspodcast or an email to thereddflagspodcast@gmail.com letting us know that you have done so and we will add your name to the drawing.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg talk about the seasonal depression, findom and the Netflix show Bad Vegan.
A woman meets a 39 year old man on a dating app who is only available after 10:30pm M-F. Should she date him?
A woman learns after a second date that the man she is dating is a trans man and isn’t sure how to proceed.
A man wants to have more open communication with his wife around sex and wants tips for starting the conversation after years of ignoring it.
A man discovers an interesting new use for a massage gun when he turns his penis into a magic meat wand vibrator.
A woman’s relationship with her boyfriend is suffering because the new cat likes her more than him.
Last week we announced that we are giving away a copy of Where Should We Begin, a card game designed by the relationship and sex guru Esther Perel. If you would like to enter the giveaway you can find the details on our instagram (reddflagspodcast). A winner will be announced in the following weeks.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg are joined by special guests Stephanie Wittels Wachs (best selling author and co-creator of the award winning women-run podcast network Lemonada Media) and her husband Mike Wachs. We talk about their origin story as a couple and they stick around for a bit to tackle some relationship questions from Reddit.
A woman is debating ending things since her boyfriend refuses to live with her for a year before spending another 2 years abroad.
A woman is in total shock after her husband reveals to her on a video call that while she was away he got a tattoo of HER FACE on his leg.
A woman is distraught after her boyfriend commented that her vagina felt loose after taking her virginity.
A man is concerned about his job after he accidentally sent a “nude” to his coworker.
Disaster of the week: A woman wants to know if she was an asshole for calling out her aunt’s “watermelon ass” after her aunt shamed her publicly online for being too skinny.
Finally, we announce that we are giving away a copy of Where Should We Begin, a card game designed by the relationship and sex guru Esther Perel. If you would like to enter the giveaway you can find the details on our instagram (reddflagspodcast). A winner will be announced in the following weeks.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
A man is mortified after he gets his testicles scanned by an attractive technician and gets an erection.
A woman is concerned after she and her husband meet a woman who only seems to be interested in being friends with him.
A man struggles with how to tell his wife that despite her passion for playing music, she doesn’t have what it takes to make a career out of it.
A man who paid for his wife’s family to go on vacation is upset when his wife requests that he not drink alcohol in order to appease her sister’s boyfriend who is a recently recovered alcoholic.
Disaster of the week: A woman wants to know if she is the asshole for outing her fiance as a liar to his entire family and friends at his 25th birthday party.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss Only Fans and how it has created a gray area in a lot of relationships. Is it just porn? Is consuming it while in a relationship cheating? Do we want our porn to be more ethical and is Only Fans the way?
A woman is upset because she feels like the way her husband tore open a box of dryer sheets is an example of weaponized incompetence.
A man feels bothered by an expensive piece of lingerie in his closet that his wife wore for a previous partner.
A woman who recently discovered that her teenage son is gay doesn’t know what to do after she received a call from his school letting her know that he is suspended for beating up a guy student.
A woman wants to know if it is time to move on after accidentally reading a message from her boyfriend to his best friend that said he wished he had slept with an old female acquaintance.
Disaster of the week: A man wants to know how to approach his wife to let her know that he is afraid that her trans brother will try to turn their toddler trans.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg tease some upcoming things happening in Season 2 and play a few rounds of Where Should We Begin, a card game designed by the relationship and sex guru Esther Perel. We will be giving away a free copy of the game on an upcoming podcast, stay tuned for more details.
A woman is sick of her boyfriend’s unusual kink which is, himself.
A woman who doesn’t want kids becomes pregnant soon after an argument with her husband where he reveals he has changed his mind about being childfree.
A woman in a newly opened relationship has already violated the terms of their agreement and wants to know the best way for her to come clean.
A man is conflicted about his marriage after he learns that his wife is in love with another man when a bombshell is dropped at a friendly dinner party.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss the slap heard around the world and the odd obsession with Will and Jada Smith's non-monogamous relationship.
A man in an 8 year relationship has lost attraction to his wife and isn’t sure how to handle it.
A man wants to know if what he did is cheating after an impromptu threesome goes terribly wrong.
A woman asks if it’s ok to require your spouse or partner to have locations (tracking) turned on their phone.
A man is walked in on by his girlfriend while using a fleshlight and she is now accusing him of cheating and thinks that he is disgusting.
A woman wants to know what to say to her boyfriend after she found out that he has been sending nude photos of her to his friend without her consent.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss flying and the heavy burden of being in the emergency aisle.
A woman is upset when a man she has recently started dating finds it troubling that she still communicates with her exes.
A 17 year old boy is worried that he messed up his relationship by asking his girlfriend to get STD tested.
A man bought his son an expensive birthday gift and he is worried that it might hurt his ex-wife's feelings.
A woman disagrees with her husband who says he "doesn't believe in make-up sex."
A woman who prides herself on making fantastic guacamole wants to know if she is the asshole for telling a girl she met at a friend's house "I don't even know you" when she requested to try some of her delicious green goop.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss the “no fap” movement which started on reddit almost a decade ago.
A woman’s boyfriend feels that he is entitled to a portion of her much larger tax refund.
A man feels distraught after an attempted threesome with his girlfriend and a male friend ends up with him on the sidelines watching.
A woman wants to know if it’s a red or yellow flag that her boyfriend of 1 month doesn’t want her to adopt a dog even though he has one of his own.
A woman struggles with her boyfriend's awkward sexy talk.
Disaster of the Week: A woman wants to know if she is an asshole for not leaving her friend’s house when her friend’s husband asked her to leave.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg bring on their first guest ever, Dave! Deb and Dave dated twice in a 20 year span and are still good friends. After a short interview, Dave hangs out and helps tackle some interesting topics like co-sleeping with partners, biphobia, and monogamy in non-heteronormative relationships.
A woman who is a wild sleeper gets offended when her fiancé puts up a pillow wall between them every night.
A woman with a secret cuckold/hotwife fetish desperately wants to get over her kink as she fears upsetting her husband and causing problems to their marriage.
A gay man wonders if monogamy is dead in the gay community or if there are other guys out there that share his desire for exclusive physical and emotional connection.
A bisexual man asks if any of his peers have experienced a straight woman friend treating them like a "gay best friend."
A 28 year old woman is distraught after her boyfriend of two years is having second thoughts about wanting to get married and have kids.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss the public divorce of Kim Kardashian and Kanye West and how bizarre it is to have something so personal take place in public.
A woman's husband is undergoing some significant changes to his lifestyle and she is struggling to see how she fits in with his new outlook.
A man finds out that the woman he is dating used to be a sex worker and has slept with thousands of partners.
A teenage boy learns that when he was 5 years old his aunt was killed in a horrific accident while trying to save him and feels like he is to blame.
A husband laughs at his wife's attempt to initiate sex after more than a year of no intimacy.
Disaster of the Week: A Redditor finds a post from his girlfriend expressing that she has a crush on a co-worker and is considering acting on it.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss the Netflix documentary The Tinder Swindler.
A married woman with all the finer things in life hates her rich lifestyle and wants to break the news to her husband.
A man considers whether or not it would be ok for him to ask out his yoga instructor who he believes is flirting with him.
A man is thinking of ending his 2 year relationship now that his girlfriend is obsessed with bouldering and is spending a large amount of her time at the bouldering gym, often with other men.
A man and his wife enjoy when she wears a certain sexy outfit and wonder if they should feel guilty about it.
Disaster of the Week: A mother heads to Reddit to ask if she is an asshole for calling her college age daughter a bad person after she refused to attend family functions three nights in a row.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
A woman wants to know if she is an asshole for leaving embarrassing notes around her house for her snooping mother-in-law to find.
Another woman wants to know if it is normal for her boyfriend to fantasize about other women.
A man wants his wife who works from home to take care of the kids and have dinner ready when he gets home from work.
Another man’s girlfriend dropped a bomb on him that she wants to try an open relationship and now he doesn’t know how to move forward.
A woman’s husband drunkenly admits that he settled for her because his first choice was unavailable and wishes he could have gotten back together with his ex.
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this special Valentine’s Day episode:
A woman is disappointed that she is forced to spend Valentine’s Day alone every year because her partner has a tradition of spending the entire day with her single friend.
A woman wants help with how to politely express to her “stay-at-home” first date that it’s not an invitation for a hook-up.
A bi-woman is in a happy and successful relationship with a man but she can't stop fantasizing about other women.
A man with Cystic Fibrosis is dating and wants to know if and when he should disclose his health status to his dates.
And in the Disaster of the Week, a 22 year old woman is dating an older man who is always complaining about how noisy her neighbors are. But why can’t they just spend the night at his house?
Welcome to the first episode of the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
A man gets upset when he finds out that his girlfriend is receiving discounts from a dentist who she once had a threesome with.
And another man’s girlfriend doesn’t respect his video game hobby and repeatedly asks him to break plans with his gaming friends.
A woman who is worried about exposing her immuno-compromised father to COVID refuses to see her boyfriend in person except for on special occasions and the boyfriend is not happy.
A person has hot steamy sex with their girlfriend but feels confused and conflicted after eating ass for the first time.
And lastly, a man in a long distance relationship is thinking about breaking up with his fiancé because every time they have a big disagreement she breaks up with him until he caves into her demands.