Barely Adulting: Recent Episodes
Annie Shum, Cheyenne Tang
Let’s face it, growing up is hard. Annie and Cheyenne are nearing the age where they are expected to know what “adulting” is and there are all these new responsibilities like signing a lease, figuring out who your true friends are, knowing how to cook, and many more. Every other week, join Annie and Cheyenne as they talk about their successes and failures, so you don’t have to struggle alone—barely adulting!
From religion to life purpose, hear about the key shifts we've made that have changed our perspective in life!
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It's been way too long. It's time for a life update. Hear all about Annie and Cheyenne's adventures for the past year, what they've been up to, and how they both ended up in NYC.
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Are you finding it hard to make friends? Does life suddenly feel super lonely? We feel you, because same. Listen to what struggles we're going through and how we want to try to make new friends in this era of life!
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Spring is here!! Which means out with the old and in with the new... We go through our best cleaning/organizational tips for the home, ways to cleanse the mind & soul, and what it means to channel ultimate relaxation from top to bottom. We also write a letter to our future selves, which we will read out loud in 6 months!
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What an EMOTIONAL roller coaster with this episode. We go through hilarious memories of our relationships from our younger days and also dive deep into the nitty gritty of heartbreak and breakups.
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In this episode we take a deep dive into the impacts of Asian representation in media, and discuss what it was like growing up without seeing ourselves on the big screens.
Media Matters: Why Asian American Representation in Media is a Social Justice Issue
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In this episode we talk about what the heck you guys think of us!! It's natural to think about how others perceive you, but does that match how you actually are? Listen to this episode to hear your assumptions about us and how we think they stack up against how we actually are.
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We're back for S3 Of BA! This week, we talk about the change of seasons and how the winter has been for both of us... from seasonal depression to a quarter-life crisis, it was a lot!
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Link to the venn diagram: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR7Hg8Jf/
What would childhood you say to you now? We answer that question in this week's episode and dive into some of our goals for the new year – from fitness to healthy mindsets. Hope you enjoy!
In this episode, Annie and Cheyenne talk about all their favorite (new and old) holiday traditions! If you need some inspiration for gift shopping, look no further. This episode’s list is… extensive to say the least!
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Y'all.. we are way too obsessed with reality TV and dating shows. In today's episode, we dive into the crazy dating show "temptation island" and talk about what we think, whether or not we would go on, and our favorite/worse moments. We hope we convinced you to watch this show...because it's nothing like we've ever seen before.
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THEY'RE BACK!!! ...again. It's been a while but Annie and Cheyenne are back with some BIG life updates. Follow Annie around America while she moves and starts her career and follow Cheyenne... across Boston to start post-grad life!
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Annie and Cheyenne reminisce on their time living together in Boston because Annie is in TOWN!! If you're currently apartment hunting, listen to this episode! They go over what you need to know about dealing with the fluctuating weather, how to deal with realtors/landlords, and what it's really like to live in Boston!
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In this episode Annie and Cheyenne talk about all-things Valentine’s Day! They discuss the past dates they’ve been on, what their green flags are, and what gives them the “ick!”
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WE’RE BAAAACK!! After a few months of hiatus, we’re back with another episode! Since we’ve been gone for so long we thought we’d spend the entire episode updating you about what we’ve been up to! Hear all the tea: rescinded jobs, travel during omicron, and new year goals. We've missed you!
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How do you feel about long showers? What about corgis? Are you a morning person or a night owl? Annie and Cheyenne share what they think are their unpopular opinions in this episode. Stick around till the end of the episode to hear your questions from Instagram answered!
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TW: violence and murder
In honor of Halloween and spooky season, we wanted to shed some light on a tragic murder that took place in 2006. While Halloween and horror movies can be fun, sometimes they can take a dark and tragic turn. This episode is not for the faint of heart, so feel free to skip this episode! If you’re feeling like a crime junkie, listen to Cassie Jo Hoddart’s story.
LINKS:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Cassie_Jo_Stoddart
https://allthatsinteresting.com/cassie-jo-stoddart
https://www.ranker.com/list/cassie-jo-stoddart-facts/jacob-shelton
https://medium.com/@eliseamity/betrayal-the-murder-of-cassie-jo-stoddart-7d0031b0f73e
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qDCRHc7XwA
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In this episode, we talk about all things related to sexual health – from the meaning of consent, to "the talk" we had growing up. Talking about sex can be hard, and we want to create a space where we can discuss and destigmatize this topic. Stay tuned for more episodes in our series!
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Welcome to our first episode in our new series, Brutally Honest where we talk about relationships, sex, periods and everything in between! There are some things you just don’t want to talk about, but we have to. One of those things are periods! Do you ever feel that weird feeling in your abdomen but you can’t tell if it’s a period cramp or if you need to poop? Have you been wondering what period products to use? Listen to this episode to hear Annie and Cheyenne talk about all of their period experiences and even some period nightmares. 😣
The period movement https://period.org/ https://www.instagram.com/periodmovement/?hl=en Nadya Okamoto
Planned parenthood
HappyPeriod http://www.hashtaghappyperiod.org/
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Join Annie and Cheyenne as they take a trip down memory lane reminiscing on their best and worst memories of college! They just moved out of their apartment and have a lot to reflect on. You won’t want to miss out on the audience submissions at the end either!
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Annie and Cheyenne reflect on their past 22 years of living and all the lessons + mistakes they've made along the way. Tune into this episode of self-reflection and do some of your own!
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In Part 2 of the “Chats With Your Big Sis” episode, Cheyenne and Annie dive a little deeper with the advice they give. A lot of the questions you asked revolved around navigating friendships in different situations. They also talk about how to be more mindful and finding your passions!
*Sorry about the audio!! The wrong mic was selected so one mic was recording both voices. 😅
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In Part 1 of the “Chats With Your Big Sis” episode, Annie and Cheyenne talk about the results of the polls that YOU answered on Instagram! They talk about ways to adopt healthy habits to manifest your best life and their experiences trying to do so. Tune in next week for part 2 where they provide some advice based on your submissions!
*Sorry about the audio!! The wrong mic was selected so one mic was recording both voices. 😅
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The 2021 Tokyo Olympics are approaching and the world is melting. Cheyenne and Annie dive into topics that have been on their mind lately, from controversial Olympic policies to record-breaking heatwaves.
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Olympic Sources:
- Japan moves forward with Olympics despite COVID crisis and public doubts: "It's a tug of war"
- Tokyo Olympics 101: What are the new sports?
- There's a Dark History Behind the Glittering Olympic Games
- Column: Yes, the Olympics are political, including ridiculous rules on swim caps
- Namibia teenagers barred from Olympic 400 over testosterone
- The rules around the Olympics are simply confounding
- The doping rules that cost Sha’Carri Richardson have a debated, political history
Climate Crisis Sources:
- ‘Lytton is gone’: Accounts of death, destruction in Canadian village that caught fire in record heat
- Climate Change Drove Western Heat Wave’s Extreme Records, Analysis Finds
- Heat waves kill people—and climate change is making it much, much worse
Adulting doesn’t mean you can’t watch TV shows or movies! Annie and Cheyenne take a deep dive into their favorite shows and movies. These forms of media can be extremely enriching, so don’t discount binging a show as being lazy!
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Life can feel so overwhelming sometimes. With the post-pandemic life around the corner and uncertain futures, we all hold some fear of what's next. Annie and Cheyenne talk about the science behind fears and anxiety, our own personal fears of the future, and how we can overcome them. You are definitely not alone!
This week, Annie and Cheyenne discuss all things shopping! Growing up means understanding where your money goes and how to spend responsibly. The two Barely-Adults talk about their favorite stores and brands and give some tips about how to be more conscious when shopping!
*All brands mentioned are NOT sponsored.
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As Annie graduates and everyone moves into the next chapter of their lives, Cheyenne and Annie thought it would be fun to play We’re Not Really Strangers. They answer questions about their lives and discover things about each other that they might not have found out without the help of this game. Take a dive into the deep end with them as they answer life’s existential questions and discuss the future!
Buy the game! https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/
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With personal finances, where do you start? Why should you care? It feels like a daunting topic to face as we're becoming adults! The internet is filled with information on what bank accounts to open, what stocks to invest in, and how you should be budgeting – it can all be overwhelming. Listen to our conversation with Northeastern Finance major, Tanya Jackson, to get all the tips on how to manage and be empowered by your personal finances.
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https://www.instagram.com/tanyajaxx/
https://www.tanyajackson.co/
Links to resources:
Books Mentioned:
I Will Teach You To Be Rich by Ramit Sethi
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
Track your spending (if budgets are for you!):
YNAB https://www.youneedabudget.com/
Mint https://mint.intuit.com/
In this episode, Annie and Cheyenne dive deeper into their experiences being raised in Asia and how their identities have shifted since moving to America. With the recent violent events in the Asian community, it is important to dissect the nuances of communities of color to strive to be more empathetic towards each other.
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Bystander Revolution: https://www.bystanderrevolution.org/
Time: “The Asian American Response to Black Lives Matter Is Part of a Long, Complicated History” - https://time.com/5851792/asian-americans-black-solidarity-history/
Vox: “The history of tensions — and solidarity — between Black and Asian American communities, explained” - https://www.vox.com/22321234/black-asian-american-tensions-solidarity-history
Learning for Justice “Straight Talk About the N-Word” - https://www.learningforjustice.org/magazine/fall-2011/straight-talk-about-the-nword
New York Times “Asian-Americans were targeted in nearly 3,800 hate incidents in the past year.” -
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/03/17/us/hate-crimes-against-asian-americans-community.html
In this week's episode, we're featuring our very first guests – our boyfriends, Yuchen and Kenny! Being in a relationship isn't always easy, especially in college. We answer questions about our relationships, how we manage our time while dating, our favorite memories, and how we resolve conflicts.
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Have you ever tried to do a workout program but couldn’t get through the first week? Or maybe you wanted to cut something out of your diet but it made you want it even more. Annie and Cheyenne have been through it all. From Chloe Ting quarantine workouts to doing Yoga with Adrienne, they’ve tried everything to establish a healthier lifestyle. Listen to hear about their relationships with food and what they recommend for people who may be struggling!
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Resources:
Improving Body Image: Nine Steps for Positive Change
Women’s Health Body Image
Body Dysmorphic Disorder Foundation
Anxiety & Depression Association of America
You may have heard of the “big Italian wedding” but you probably haven’t heard about the game show-esque activities that occur before Chinese weddings! In this episode, Annie and Cheyenne recount the crazy traditions they upheld while living in Asia. They go through all the nuances and differences between Vietnamese-Chinese holidays and Malaysian-Chinese traditions! Warning: you may get very hungry listening to this episode!
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Slip Silk Hair Ties: https://www.slip.com/collections/hair-accessories
Logitech K380 for Mac Keyboard: https://www.amazon.com/Logitech-Multi-Device-Wireless-Bluetooth-Keyboard/dp/B0876MVKQC
Logitech Pebble M350 Mouse: https://www.logitech.com/en-us/products/mice/m350-pebble-wireless-mouse.html
Yongpeng Style: https://youtu.be/W3bR7BJvfhU
Have you ever wondered what kind of friend you are? How does your personality play into the group dynamic? Annie and Cheyenne dissect their Myers-Briggs personalities and talk about how they’ve grown as people and as friends. They dive into the juicy details of past friendships and how they have affected their lives, even today!
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Myers-Briggs Personality test: https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
Mental health is something EVERYONE needs to talk about. Annie and Cheyenne take a deep dive into their mental health journey. From holding onto stigmas to opening up about therapy, they’ve been through a LOT. There’s no “right” way to approach your mental health; Annie and Cheyenne have different ways they like to manage theirs. Listen to hear some of their healthy habits and why everyone needs to go to therapy!
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Therapy Resources
BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com/
Thriveworks: https://thriveworks.com/
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255
Suicide Prevention Lifeline Chat: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/
Welcome to the first episode of Barely Adulting! Follow Annie and Cheyenne on their journey as they transformed from being a nerd and a wallflower to becoming a sorority girl and a business mogul. They talk about how their identities were shaped by the places they lived, how they ended up at Northeastern, and the nuances of living life in America as third-culture-kids from Southeast Asia. From the struggles of IB to when they met at orientation, they had very parallel stories. Take a trip down memory lane with them as they answer the second set of the New York Times “36 Questions That Lead to Love.” You won’t want to miss the juicy details they share; things might even get...bloody!
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Link to the NYT Questions: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html
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After spending almost 4 years in college trying to get their degrees, Annie and Cheyenne missed creating for fun. Barely Adulting is their personal project for creative expression and to spend quality time together. What will you expect from this podcast? Annie and Cheyenne share the deets and topics they’ll be exploring each week!
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